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I'd even say objectifying thoughts are healthy and natural There definitely seems to be a very wide range of opinions on this subject matter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:04 PM
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I think nobody really has a problem with “objectification” in itself. Do you care about the personality of the mechanic who fixed your engine? No, you only care that he fixed your engine. The real problem is when objectification intersects with sexuality. Sexuality in general is a huge problem for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:20 PM
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She is uncomfortable being included but other women are fine? How can you know which women are okay with it? Logically this means that it’s not okay to include any women that isn’t your partner in these fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:04 PM
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No one said that men couldn't be attracted to women, or masturbate to the idea of women (in privacy, of course) Now you had to shift to: She didn't say she had a problem with a man masturbating or having sexual attraction in general. Just her being included.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:53 PM
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Thanks for the link but it’s all about video games and anime. Things that I hate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:43 PM
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Look at the last post I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:22 PM
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You will never know it but the idea disgusts you regardlessly. This is what I was trying to assess in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:19 PM
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No one said that men couldn't be attracted to women, or masturbate to the idea of women (in privacy, of course) That’s not true, several people are disgusted by the idea in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:55 PM
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I mean obviously if he tells you, it would creep out anybody! I mean if it remains just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:53 PM
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I don't believe in thought crime in general. I think a world where people are guilty for their intimate thoughts would be a living hell. Maybe not a thought crime but isn’t it a thought you ought to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:52 PM
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I would prefer if random men who weren’t my partner didn’t jerk off to me Okay, so in your case, even if it’s in the private thoughts of one man all by himself, it is still a problem But I don’t sexualize/objectify every man I see Do you think it’s a problem even if it’s only one particular man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:50 PM
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almost everybody does or has 'objectified' others in this manner. Yeah, that’s what I’m trying to get from this his thread. Where do most women draw the line on this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:42 AM
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If you are going to think about women purely as objects, then the time and place for that is when you are alone and wanking or at a strip club. I think a good test is, when you think about the person is sex always present in your mind? Okay, I think I understand you now. You feel it’s fine for men to objectify if they are alone and only occasionally. Definitely not constantly or in your presence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:07 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:58 AM
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Fantasizing about someone isn’t the same as objectification. How is it not? You are thinking about someone purely for sexual desire I don’t care what you think about when you’re masturbating, but I do expect to be treated as a human being irl. So, you are fine with whatever men think about you, they just need to be respectful to you outwardly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:58 AM
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Agreed, they should get called out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:32 AM
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We live in a society. People “private” thoughts and actions have repercussions on all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:26 AM
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But to answer your question, men can fantasize and masturbate all they want in their own privacy, but they're expected to not bother anyone with it. Thank you for answering my question. I disagree though. I think even thinking about it privately is wrong, I base my reasoning in Matthew 5:28. It clearly talks about the male gaze: But I say to you that every man who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery in his heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:21 AM
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FYI, link #1 is paywalled. That’s odd, I can see the full article women tend to take issue with "the male gaze" for two big reasons I understand why they take issue with it. What I am asking if they take issue with men objectifying women in their mind privately masturbating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:59 AM
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I agree with all this but you didn’t answer my question Doesn’t it obviously attack men masturbating and just fantasizing sexually about women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:34 AM
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There’s billions of marriages worldwide, I can only talk about mine You will most likely end up doing the vast majority of cooking, cleaning, childrearing while the husband games or relaxes. I do all the cleaning and my wife does the cooking. Child rearing is 50/50. Nobody games and we only relax at night. You got this all wrong. It’s actually never been a better time to be married in the history of mankind. Can you imagine getting married in 1812 or 1534? The biggest problem with modernity (at …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:15 AM
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A lot of the men here struggle to get women yet are toxic AF. There is definitely an attractive toxic and an unattractive toxic. Ranting and verbally abusing online kind of toxic is unattractive. Reckless, involved in crime and tough IRL toxic is very attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:26 PM
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I thought it was exclusively a male fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:11 PM
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there's plenty of women who will instantly see you as more attractive in you tell them you want to get pegged. No, that can’t be right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:46 PM
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Being nice, agreeable and meek is not attractive to women. Toughness, assertiveness and confidence are what attracts women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:08 AM
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even though I haven't even been able to date successfully. I think my chances will go up once Trump starts doing his thing Wait… what? How are the two connected?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:11 PM
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Instead of investing all the public money on the military, I think it should invested on universal healthcare. This wouldn’t even require raising taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:43 PM
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Marrying a fat girl isn’t the only option lol. You can get a hot gf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:14 AM
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Men need to put women on the back burner and focus on important things. Different strokes for different folks. I’m sure you are proud of the path you choose but personally I would never want to live like that. I didn’t try too hard on my job in my 20s. I focused my energy on dating. I don’t have as much money as you but I’m happy with what I have done with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:07 AM
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This sounds implausible, that being said: Just 12 years ago when I was in high school everyone was getting laid with people close to their level? I have been married for over 12 years and same for all my friends. I have no contact with the modern dating world so maybe things have really changed. Hopefully things will change when my son is in his 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:56 AM
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I don’t believe in forcing anyone, just funding them with public money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:41 AM
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I only consider healthcare a right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:40 AM
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The algorithm gives you results based on what you search. If you were to google “what women find attractive in men” you would get better results
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:51 PM
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No. You searched for something and found it. This. Yes if you search the internet for stupid advice, you will find it. It doesn’t make it “mainstream”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:46 PM
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refinery29 This is a really out there radical feminist website. It’s not “mainstream” for the vast majority of people. Do you agree with the sentiments expressed in the article? It’s not that I don’t agree, they simply are flat out untrue The truth is that men tend to care a lot about aesthetics in their partner, but women don’t really care that much about it Even the person saying this knows this is not true. They just say this in order to seem not shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:32 PM
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Again I got told that man and women are more or less the same except different body parts and that they bleed. So... nobody told you so, you just extrapolated the above point and reached an obviously wrong conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:01 PM
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"for women your looks is the most important" Again, who told you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:13 PM
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we tell women and man that women would seek man that show emotions and be feminine and that their assertiveness is toxic and shit like that Who told you that? I never heard anything like that. My parents advices were pretty good: Be in shape! Being fat or skinny is unattractive Dress better! You’ll scare away women if you’re a slob Stop talking about shit nobody cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:53 AM
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Brazil is western though. Cultural differences between the US and Brazil are wildly exaggerated. Try pretty much anywhere in Africa or the grand majority of Asia for a real difference in culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:05 AM
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Dating is worth it. If you put effort in exercising and being social, things you should do regardlessly, dating should come easy. The rewards are routine sex and companionship. These are the most basic needs of a man. Any amount of time invested is worth it to obtain these.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:54 AM
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I’m not saying that women are as horny as men, it seems clear to me they are not. They still can be horny though and enjoy sex for the sake of sex. Just at a lesser intensity and frequency than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:55 PM
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Sure but that's the exception rather than the rule. Most women do go off sex eventually. Is that true though? You provide one Australia sex column as proof. This cites three huge studies that have been done on the subject In first study, only 26% of couples have sex once a week. In the second one, the average married couple has sex a little less than twice a week. In the third study, which is the only one that broke the data by age, while older people have sex about 2-3 times a month, younger ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 09:00 AM
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The vast majority of women would rather masturbate for an orgasm than try to find someone that meets their standards. Nah, most women prefer sex with someone they like over masturbation. Haven’t you ever had a really horny gf? they'd be fucking their husbands consistently for years. Many do. I regularly have sex with my wife. My parents regularly have sex. There are very few women who can enjoy sex for sex's sake. Not at all. How do you explain women that have sex with complete strangers. If mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:16 PM
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I have seen women who do fuck just because they enjoy sex, but they're definitely a minority. Nah, they are the majority. They just don’t need sex as often as the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:31 PM
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Women don't fuck because they enjoy sex That’s patently not true. The vast majority of women enjoy sex and often get horny. They are just not quite as horny as the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:30 PM
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Regardless of the historic context, its practical application is resulting in defacto segregation. White people can’t voice POC characters in cartoons anymore. From what I have observed, the belief that this will result in a less racism is incorrect. Racists were always present, now they are everywhere.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 12:14 PM
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Ideally I do hope we can look past and move beyond the arbitrary lines that cause people to dehumanize each other but that day, if it ever comes, is a long way off. I think that if we stop seeing everything in terms of race and gender, that day will be much closer We can’t ignore these things and pretend not to see color or gender when that makes people also blind to the systematic and social problems that predominantly effect those demographics. I’m not saying we should ignore racism, I think w…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 04:23 PM
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Racial and gender blindness could only work without the historical oppression and the system which enables the results of that oppression to stay the same. Don’t you think racial and gender blindness is the ultimate goal though? Should we do away with racial blindness sometime in the future or do we have to always see things in racial and gender terms forever? Also a lot of people are still sexist and racist and they don’t care what you or me think and more often than not have the types of perso…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 02:45 PM
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When I’ve interacted with feminists in good faith most of them have been patient and understanding with me, It’s not the people that are problem. It’s the ideology in itself. I’m not talking about feminism in general, just the modern intersectionial/ race critical theory version of it. This ideology, correctly, sees that racial and sexual minorities and women are discriminated against by society at large. However, I think their solution to this is very misguided. Instead of advocating for a “gen…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/20 09:33 AM
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It gets weird depending on how obsessively and often you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:35 PM
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Am teacher. Have never given dating advice to a kid, and to be honest the idea of doing so is bizarre. I agree. Growing up, teacher would just teach us about the exact subject they were teaching. They would never give us life advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 11:49 AM
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Most normal functioning families talk about shit like this with each other. I guess I didn't grow up in a "normal" family? I don't remember any friend talking to me about the dating advice they received from their parents. “Mom what kind of things do girls look for in a guy” would be more appropriate to how I and MANY other men have asked. I never thought that was a good idea to ask my mom, that was more something I would talk to my peers Your parental figures are the people who should be teachi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 11:21 AM
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I find it extremely hard to believe someone has never received dating advice from their mothers or other female figures I promise you, my mom or any woman has never given me “dating advice”. This seem completely normal, they have no experience dating women! Did you go up one day asked “mommy, how do I get a girl?”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 10:57 AM
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Italy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 10:34 AM
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It depends, are you casually remembering or are you obsessively thinking about it all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 09:23 AM
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Fantasizing about having sex with an attractive woman you see on the street is normal. Obsessing about it after a week is pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:39 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that your mom raised you in this delusional way. My parents never taught me anything about how to treat women or get a girlfriend but generally told me that you can only achieve things by working hard and that if you are too nice, people will mercilessly exploit you. I think they are right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:14 AM
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but women complained constantly about not-nice men I seem to be completely at odds with everyone here. In my experience most women complain about men being pussies and cowards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:08 AM
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Generally in movies the dorky guy gets the girl by not being dorky anymore and becoming cool. Being nice still doesn’t do it even in most movies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:05 AM
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From almost every female authority figure since 1st grade? Mom? Grandma? How about my teachers and other friends moms. 1 or 2 baby sitters. My mom, grandma, babysitters or teachers have never ever told me how to get a girl. The thought that they would talk to you about that is pretty bizarre. The only girls that would ever comment on that were my female peers and they will always say something among the lines of “I want a real man who is confident, muscular and hot”. I specifically remember 2 di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:01 AM
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This is the most autistic thing I have ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 08:46 PM
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No. I don’t program. Can’t you use normal words?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:23 AM
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But you're wrong in imagining everything is equally distributed. I never said that. Of course hot men have it easier but almost all men can hook up with some girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:50 PM
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Getting laid regularly? Yes I think average guys would have difficulty doing it consistently Average guys can get laid consistently if they are ok with banging ugly girls. Most won’t. They pair up with a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:49 PM
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Do tell me who these short socially awkward ugly guys are having sex with. Unattractive women And where are they meeting these women Clubs, house parties More likely than not, they're lying. Nah, I’ve seen them make out and the girl telling me they fucked That's 3 strikes and you're telling me they are doing something average guys struggle get? Average guys don’t struggle to get laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:59 PM
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Top men can have it more easily, especially with hot women, no doubt. Average men can have it easily too, just with ugly women. Fat or unattractive girls often throw themselves at average men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:21 PM
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I know short socially awkward ugly men that have ONS. This “top 20% fuck” is the one only often repeated TRP meme that has absolutely no basis in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:31 PM
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The top 20% of men. I thought this was common knowledge. This is the one thing the TRP crowd is flat out wrong about. Almost any man can have a ONS even really ugly ones
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:26 PM
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Yes, they totally do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:23 PM
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She basically came to the conclusion that it’s worse off being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:20 PM
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ITT: lots of weak nerds bitter about getting bullied in school and having an non-existent love life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:28 PM
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You ether look like a Greek God (less than 5%) or paying for it in some way. Not necessarily. You don’t have to be a chad to have a one night stand with a girl you meet at a bar. That’s entirely for free.
/r/MGTOW218/06/19 06:23 AM
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Yeah, that’s what I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:34 PM
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Anyway, terps specifically think that men sharing emotions will cause their female partners to lose all sexual interest Sharing some emotion won’t affect the relationship negatively. Sharing way too much will lose both sexual and non-sexual interest. Of course this is a generalization. There are always exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 11:55 AM
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went screeching AWALT about it just proves the point I'm I don’t really get what AWALT means It just looks that way when you see your partner as nothing more than a sex object. I never said that. What I’m getting at is that constantly crying is a big turn off for most women, not always sexually. It can end a relationship, as it did in your case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:17 AM
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I'm highly skeptical of all the stuff about how showing emotions makes vaginas dry up, for the same reason. I mean, I don’t think a man would turn off a woman by being a little emotional, going overboard he will turn her off. he could spin that story into an AWALT Just reread what you wrote. Where’s the spin? Your ex was constantly crying and it turned you off. How are you skeptical?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 11:02 AM
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Being attractive is not solely determined by being “nice”. Physical attractiveness and social skills are huge factors. Would you want to date an obese hag with a messed up face but who is “really nice”? This isn’t “blue pill” or “red pill”, it’s just common sense obvious to anyone that spends time in the real world and off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:58 AM
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Women can definitely be creepy. Remember the woman in room 237 in the shining?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:22 AM
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men always pay for sex, except when they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:19 AM
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What about going to a bar or house party, chatting up a girl and bringing her home to have sex? That’s completely free
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:13 AM
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Legalization of sex work, and acceptance, will happen as the US becomes more secular. It’s legal in Turkey and they are super religious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:10 AM
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Dunno what to say. I never ask my wife directly to have sex, if we have an hour of free time we just do it. If we aren’t free, we just say so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:04 AM
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You can say Rogan is a “Faure” kind of libertarian rather than a “Bastiat” libertarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:55 AM
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Not really. Listen to his last interview with Duncan Trussell. He full on advocates for socialism by the end
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:47 AM
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The most recent episode of the leftist podcast Red scare talked about it. It is unlike most leftists and advocates a return of men being more manly and more marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:43 AM
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Most guys fuck a whole lot of different women. Most women fuck a small number of top dogs. Pretty much every single guy I know, even unattractive ones, gets a one night stand once in a while. How does this fit in?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:37 AM
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.... look up who wrote this. It’s man and he is a troll. He makes fun of feminism here
/r/MensRights24/10/18 06:05 AM
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Do you think Obama enacted a good policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 09:32 AM
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Nebraska and Mississippi Those girls are waaayyy fatter than girls in SF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:31 AM
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You can hook up for free in a less conservative country and it is infinitively more satisfying than getting a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:28 AM
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You’ll have a tough time finding a casual hook up in Morocco that isn’t a prostitute. In San Francisco you’ll have no problem hooking up, be it a blue haired woman or not By the way, San Francisco and the rest of California have amongst the least fat girls in all of the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:26 AM
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2) Feminism made sex more available. Conservative countries tend to be sexually repressed. This point is widely (purposely) ignored. Trying spending time in feminist places like Amsterdam, California, Sweden or Berlin and compare it to Morocco, Armenia or Saudi Arabia. You’ll have many sexual encounters in the former even if you’re not super conventually attractive. In the latter, you’ll have to be completely chased no matter who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 05:23 PM
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Most men want sex and don't have a lot of options. I disagree most average men have many options She has something that men want and something that a man can't have without a woman's approval. If she is unattractive, she won’t have that many options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 05:06 PM
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Women today have a monopoly on sex and the ability to have children. Not really... a man gets to decide if he wants to have sex or not with a woman As long as they have a vagina and a functioning uterus they have something to give to a man. Something that he can't get without a woman. So they can be lazy/horrible partners, they are still needed. No. If she is a horrible partner, most men won’t want her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 12:47 PM
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Less than 7% of people who are on Match.com are having regular sex. This. This data comes from match.com. There is a huge selection bias because everyone using it probably aren't getting much sex. If you look up statistics that don't filter this, like this government report on page 18, you will see only 9.4% of men in their late 20's haven't had sex with a woman in the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:27 AM
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No, there is no endless sex parade for males. Most men are either in a relationship or they're not having sex. The smallest group is the group that has many sex partners in a year. The average dude has no problem picking girls up and having multiple casual sex encounters though. You don’t need to be “Chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:04 AM
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Alright, I’d agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:38 AM
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I strongly agree. Unsurprisingly, the author is completely against welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:30 AM
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Here's the headlines of Amy Otto's last articles: By Booking A Porn-Maker To Get At Trump, Jimmy Kimmel Degrades America Sorry, Feminists, ‘Girlboss’ Epitomizes How Capitalism Empowers Women The Women’s Strike Embodied Feminist Phallacies That Set Us All Back Liberals Shout Down The Opposition Because Otherwise They’ll Lose She clearly isn't an intersectional feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 01:06 AM
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The decision to put a penis in her vagina or not is the woman's choice it is also the man's choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:59 PM
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I don't think they a tiny minority. Every single guy I know personally has had such an event happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:54 PM
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but most are paying with commitment Not really... how are all the men having one night stands with girls they meet in bars paying with commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:36 PM
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.... how so? I think this subreddit (and maybe reddit in general) attracts a large concentration of lonely men. In reality, basing from my experience, they are quite a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:35 PM
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If a girl approaches you, she is choosing. If you approach a girl, she is also choosing? I don't understand your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:31 PM
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many men over 30 go to clubs..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:29 PM
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The offering woman still chose you. So, if you approach a woman, you choose her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:43 PM
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Average guys get a couple of offers at best and have to choose from this limited number of options. I'm a pretty average looking guy. I've had a Plenty of Fish profile for about a year. Internet dating is weird. I don’t know much about it. However, if an average guy goes to a party or club and he approaches women, he’ll probably get some action. I’ve seen it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 06:42 PM
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Sorry to hear that :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 05:17 PM
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Women generally have it easier in dating. That is true. Women choose, men compete. I mean sometimes. Think of all the times in your life you rejected a women. Doesn’t that count as men choosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 05:01 PM
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She only focues on a tiny minority highly attractive men I definitely don’t think it is a minority of men she is describing. I’d say she is describing the majority of men. I disagree with many of her points, but I agree with her that sex is now more accessible to a wider group of men than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:37 PM
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Women are inundated with offers and choose the most appealing. Though women get more offers, plenty of average men get loads of offers as well You're either a dude who has to work his ass off or you can pull with a single message (which can be literally anything.) This is just not what I’ve seen personally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:33 PM
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Only 10 to 20% of dudes are well laid, That can’t be true. My guess is the majority of men are routinely getting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:13 PM
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No, Amy Otto is a conservative ardent anti-feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:11 PM
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sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 12:43 PM
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the female mind Use advice that comes from het women for sex - what they like, what they dislike Those are huge generalizations. What is true for one woman totally might not be true for another
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:40 AM
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Read more carefully because women don't have any experience dating a woman as a man. Lesbian dating is a whole different story from men dating women. Likewise, women shouldn’t get dating advices from men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:41 AM
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nah, men shouldn't trust women in regards to dating simply because women don't have any experience dating a woman as a man. Would you trust fishing advice from a miner or a fisherman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:16 PM
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It's validation porn for women. It's definitely validation porn for men as well. Although I have no need for tinder, as I am in LTR, my curiosity got the better of me and I had the app for a half a day. I got over 10 matches and some girls were very attractive before I deleted the app later the same day. It definitely felt like a validation boost. I have many friends that have done the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:51 PM
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This sounds insanely paranoid. Can you find any mainstream feminist saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 07:31 PM
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I'm not aware of any true matriarchal religions Supposedly the religion of the Elamites
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 10:03 PM
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I think it's funny, never read about a race or culture with such a negative self image Black people in Eastern Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 08:56 PM
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There’s a whole bunch of crazy people. The idea of a feminist utopia would conjure up some really out there ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:43 PM
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You’re right. Wanted to see what crazy scenarios commentators would come up with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:37 PM
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women don't exactly make sense, pay attention to what they do not say, Use that advice with men was well! Both genders can be huge liars
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:32 PM
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Good job! This place is a useless hate generator
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:30 PM
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Lol Though doesn’t shouting “Allah Akbar” unironically automatically make you anti-SJW?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:29 PM
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anti-white racism Plenty of Muslims are white though, just look at the second man in charge at ISIS On top of that, many feminists are anti-Islam, like Alice Schwarzer, Germans most well known feminist Anecdotally, I know a few feminists that are openly racist towards blacks. This is in Spain though, things are probably different in the US were anti-black racism is associated with the right wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:26 PM
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Islam everywhere That’s.... the complete symmetric opposite of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:19 PM
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It’s legal in way more places than that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:38 AM
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Yeah if you care so much a bout trafficking maybe fund police so they can do something about it? I’m actually in favor of legalizing it, I just wanted to hear someone’s compelling argument against it. So far I got nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:53 AM
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Remember that the left is very clever at thought control using weasel words. This sub needs to stop using the ambiguous 18th century French terms “left” and the “right” for literally every discussion. This website is funded by both Democrats and Republicans. Places with legalized prostitution, Germany and New Zealand, aren’t conservative strongholds. prostitution works against their anti-family agenda Prostitution is pro-family? Dude what? ever notice the one sex act the left wants to keep illeg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:48 AM
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Yeah, I didn’t get that. It sounded nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:35 PM
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I don't care about human trafficking or the plate of prostitutes, That’s pretty cold hearted of you. I also see you also don’t care about spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:34 PM
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Actually it's closer to 300 million if you ad every country together, Where are you getting these numbers? That’s not what I got adding all these countries that constitutes about 10% of the group population and if 10% of America identified as actual neo-nazis you would loose your shit. leftist You can’t assume every single person disagreeing with you is a leftist freaking out about neo-nazis. You get the main point since it is an allegory and not meant to be judged on its own merit, in context i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:27 PM
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By few, I mean 10 countries or 100 million out of 2 billion Muslims. By the way, none of those countries throw them off buildings. I’m not belittling them or even defending Islam, I’m just correcting you. Using an incorrect hyperbole only weakens your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 11:16 AM
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Hey man, most muslims I know say gay is "ok" but that don't mean you won't get pushed off of a fucking roof when you go to their country to suck some dick. Have you ever been to a Muslim country? Theres death penalty for homosexuality in only a few extremist places. The majority of Muslim countries just have homosexuality illegal on the books the same way most of the USA had it 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:34 AM
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All women are in the enemy now? On top of that, women don’t appear in the comic at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:34 AM
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From what I saw traveling to Paris and London, most Muslims are well integrating into society or have a shop or keep to themselves. Of course there’s a few of them that are terrorists and that’s terrifying. Gypsies are pretty much universally not integrated in society and live off pick pocketing. You are light years better off living in a neighborhood full of Muslims than a neighborhood full of gypsies. Heres a Norwegian comic that shows the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 06:54 PM
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They might say that men should express their insecurities, To be fair, I’ve never heard a women complaining that men are not emotional enough. Quite the opposite, I’ve heard many women saying they want men to be tougher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:10 PM
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Now you’re really exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:08 PM
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There are literally no Muslims here in my small town. We have gypsies though, they are probably worst
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:55 PM
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Well that does bode well for what it means about me and my peers..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 06:05 PM
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At least if you work hard you'll probably be getting money. More like maybe But there is no guarantee of you getting a date with a woman even if you do work on yourself. There are no certainties in life but if you are socially active and look after yourself there’s a big chance you’ll get girls. Definitely more likely than getting rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:54 PM
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Yeah. Thinking more about it, I think it simply is different in America. That’s why these things seem unusual to me. There's also more obesity in America so competition over normal/skinny women is more fierce. I haven’t thought about this angle. You are probably right. Those girls that are fat here are so unwanted that they will literally throw themselves at regular dudes. They do this to the point of near harassment, like grabbing your head for a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:11 PM
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I feel like you are kind of the exception to the rule. Though I base this on my own personal experience It doesn't happen, just to let you know Glad you didn’t fall for this delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:05 PM
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Loads of other comments were just lying to themselves about only wanting a woman for sex. If it was only sex, they would get a prostitute. They wouldn’t be agonizing over the fact that they can’t get a gf they can love. They lie to themselves to get hide the painful truth that they are devastated by the fact that they are completely lonely with no one to love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:30 AM
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These are all well-adjusted males with healthy social circles. Exactly. Those in the post that thought women are only good for sex are not anything remotely like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:13 AM
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The vast majority of men are sexually successful. 82% of men are sexually active by their early 20s If you are fit and socially you are basically guaranteed to get laid. TRPis just snake oil for the small minority that aren’t successful. The 20/80 nonsense they keep repeating is just a clutch they use to feel better about being a unlucky minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 10:08 PM
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but most guys love the attention, and arent repulsed. Most guys aren’t repulsed by a fat slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:42 PM
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Read my post more carefully: An average dude can easily get an unattractive partner. You posted a photo show exactly that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 04:40 PM
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I take it you've never actually met some of these folks. Yes I do. I see them everyday day time leaving my house. They are mostly in early 20, blonde Eastern European and large breasts As I said, there are more female prostitutes because men are hornier and don’t mind instantaneous sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 07:43 AM
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These folks aren't 8-9's by any stretch of the imagination They aren’t super models but they are definitely pretty cute. It would take considerable to for a guy to fuck them in another situation. yet their sexuality is still valuable enough that men will pay a considerable amount of money to fuck them. Not that much money. The ones that live on my street are under €50 an hour (I have never had one, that’s just what they tell me). Anyway, The wide majority of the guys I see paying for them are ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 07:13 AM
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Plenty No way. Have you ever interacted with a downright ugly girl? After giving her the tiniest bit of attention, she’ll text you and continuously try go to out on a date with you. They are clearly starving for male attention. Even if you’re a stranger at a club they will approach you. Men don't even really need to know what she looks like. These men are truly desperate. They are a minority. Does she get more attention from the opposite sex than a man of similar looks? Yes. Agreed. An equally u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 06:52 AM
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All women get male attention. No way. What male attention does a fat cleaning lady get?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 06:17 AM
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But not many men can get a partner as easily. Now, only women and Chad have that option, and they typically flaunt it, which creates ire. No way. An average dude can easily get an unattractive partner. Unattractive girls go to long lengths to get the attention of even regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 06:13 AM
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Very very few. In order to get to that level, where a woman is actively trying to get attention via those methods, without a guy putting in the same ( or more ) effort prior, requires a guy to be Chad. Not really. Unattractive girls go to large lengths to get male attention. Haven’t you ever had a far girl try to kiss you or constantly texting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 06:10 AM
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Interesting. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 06:32 AM
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All the girlfriends I had either had a dead dad or a really sick one. Even for one night stands, that always turned out to be the case. I have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 06:31 AM
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I don't know anyone for whom a girlfriend only costs 50 bucks a year. I might be an exceptional case. Even then, in the podcast the dude says 100 an hour and probably 200 a night. That means a prostitute will cost you 800 a week to have sex like a girlfriend!! Therefore a prostitute is more expensive. I really HOPE she's a a great person to be around ALL THE TIME. A girlfriend can be great to spend time with. Definitely better being alone! How many nights out was it? How much gas? I mean, what's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:32 PM
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By definition, only if you trade sexual favors for whatever you want to gain. Then many LTR aren't prostitution. You often split rent and shit. And sex isn't "given" to you in return as a favor. It's something both parties enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 11:27 AM
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I disagree. Many people I know are in a relationship without having any financial component. If you consider that time and cost of opportunity is also to be money, virtually everything in life is "prostitution"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:44 AM
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Ok, here I go deciphering your comment: If were narrowing our reasoning for commenting to one word, I'll say you're coming from a charitable perspective. You believe that I saw the word "price" and therefore I am incorrectly believing you are seeing this in an entirely economical perspective. You might be correct, I misunderstood you because you are very hard to understand. I'll one up, I think you're doing this because it's the easiest way to feel like a good person. I think you're doing this b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:02 AM
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Prostitutes would have been cheaper. This is just false. You can pick up a girl at a bar or party for free. A girlfriend is also way cheaper than prostitutes. Peyta porker on the podcast said he pays over 100 for just an hour of sex. Compare that to a girlfriend, an occasional present (about 50 dollars a year) for sex every other day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:51 AM
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I'm really losing you here. Can you reply in normal English?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:41 AM
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No...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:49 PM
3

... why black?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 06:56 PM
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I understand you are trying to see this from a purely economic perspective. However, there are many much more relevant factors at play here. Such as social and cultural factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 06:53 PM
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Men in a metropolitan area have little reason to commit C'mon, this flat out isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 06:45 AM
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but has also caused many to lose social skills altogether. Now that is a very interesting point of view. The more things become easier, the weaker we get. In the same way ancient romans had no problem strolling around in togas and sandals during winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:06 AM
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Interesting! Do you have a link to that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:04 AM
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Could you send a link? Does any sex in a relationship count as casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 10:21 PM
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You're only focusing top quality males. Only the top 10-20% can enjoy frequent, casual sex. Do you have anything to back this up? What about men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 09:30 PM
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Because women can be and are much more selective in who they will fuck casually. I don't think they are that picky. Also, when were they ever more lax?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 09:27 PM
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I guess it all boils down to how you define the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 09:21 PM
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nope, not at that level!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:02 PM
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But that's limited to the top 20% of men. Are you sure about this? It keeps getting repeated on reddit non-stop but I've never seen anything to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 05:31 PM
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almost none
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 05:26 PM
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but I'd consider it highly improbable that the massive amounts of porn every boy has watched before he ever see a real naked girl That's a interesting point to make; do most guys see porn before they see a naked woman in real life? I've seen my mother, female classmates and female beachgoers naked since I was a very little boy, long before I ever saw porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 04:42 PM
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Male here -I don't like video games -I will watch a football/soccer match once in a while but if someone asks me who's on the premier league, serie A or la liga this year I wouldn't be able to answer -I am a good cook -I like listening to pop music -I don't care about cars
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 07:58 AM
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Not really. Those women might sleep more than one guy and are shared between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:19 PM
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The average criminal is an unclean pick pocket. Is he rolling in pussy? a muscled biker dude is a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 08:07 AM
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Can you show me these studies? I still struggle to think that the local thief at my metro stop is rolling in more pussy than a rock star.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:13 AM
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Stefan Molyneux Why is this dude everywhere? How did a balding 40 year old man making hour long videos entirely made up of him rambling become so popular on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 05:29 PM
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I don't think there is anything bad with casual sex. As long as you use protection, it is just harmless fun. On the second topic you touch upon: This meme about girls only wanting "bad boys" is just that , a meme. Women are attracted to physically attractive confident men. Some of these men are jerks, some of them not. They often seem like jerks if they are overconfident but being a jerk itself isn't the determining factor to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 03:15 PM
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I would imagine that an actual willing female wingman will probably not work. Girls will sense you are so pathetic a platonic friend for help.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 08:36 PM
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Or they're too picky for their SMV Woman work in a different way than men in that sense. All men like the same girl but are less picky. Women like a variety of guys but are really picky. That's why you'll get many girls than don't care about you and others that'll fucking obsess about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:26 PM
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She flat out demanded it after we had vaginal
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:23 PM
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Yes, an average dude can get sex. Even every other day in a relationship. If you want to get a really hot girl though, you got to work hard for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 10:51 AM
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Fast forward a few weeks, you can guess what happens. There are always variables and exceptions in life, but generally what a girl's social group thinks of you is of utmost importance. If one girl loudly mocks you in her group, your chances are over with all of them. Likewise, if a girl obsesses about you and expresses it to her group, you've got a chance will all of them.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 10:48 AM
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It won't really work, other women will sense something is up. The same way a woman can sense you're nervous and had little experience with sex despite your alpha facade. Woman have developed this sixth sense after million years of evolution. It is essential to help them pick a mate that isn't too weak or too crazy.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 10:30 AM
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