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They don't care if it diminishes a woman's worth. They see her as being responsible for her actions, so if it leads to her being stigmatized, they'll think she deserves it (even if her sleeping with them benefits them). The red pill is a pretty fucked up ideology to be honest. It encourages men to maximize their ability to participate in hook up culture, all while promoting the stigma against women who engage in it. And the worst part is, they don't even realize how slut shaming women makes it h…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 05:41 AM
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I agree. Even if women are collectively choosing to share men, or choose to date older men, it's their right to do so. It's not their fault they don't find the average man unfuckable. That's just the way it is. You can't force sexual attraction. The dating problems of men are simply not the problems of women. Young men are probably just gonna have to cope with porn or sex dolls or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:24 PM
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So many times I've been told in here that the average guy was doing okay. Where are all of those people now? I'm just happy that we've finally disproved all of that. Just watch. The dialogue is gonna go from: "Single young men aren't struggling to get relationships" to "Yeah, young men can't get relationships, but that's their fault. Young men have become so pathetic, they can't even meet the bare minimum." And honestly, I wouldn't mind that, if men weren't also constantly being blamed for every…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:13 PM
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This might be the nail in the coffin for blue pillers. It sure as hell was for me. There no explanation I can think of for this discrepancy other than: 1) Young women are sharing attractive men 2) Young women are dating men above 30 Because seriously, the population between young men and women is 50/50. How else do you get such radically different numbers, if not because of the explanations described above?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:05 PM
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That's not how things work. Men have to find their niche in this world by themselves. Working past societal problem is only an individual solution, not a societal solution. We can recognize social issues for women, minorities, trans people, but we can't even recognize how society can be shitty against men? I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:00 PM
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Yep, those guys who are always on the negative end of the discrimination never become depressed and put a gun in their mouth, no downsides at all. My point is that not getting attention is still better than getting bullied. If anyone decides to kill themselves because they couldn't get female attention, that's on them. Men don't need women to have happy lives, and definitely are not entitled to them even if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:57 PM
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(sorry if there are any spelling errors, im a chinese guy) Every time time I see this, I already know I'm going to read the most authentic, beautifully written masterpiece unbeknownst to man. And, without a beat, you killed it. Online dating in general, has emasculated young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:03 AM
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This made me chuckle. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:00 AM
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Nah, I agree. This is my opinion too. Men can't complain about women being shallow, because men are shallow too. If the circumstances were reversed, and it was men on the choosing end, and women who were desperate, men would go for the best looking women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:58 AM
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Pay for the service you're enjoying you entitled pieces of shit! Netflix doesn't owe 100 households sharing a single account. Netflix literally advertised this feature so they can get fucked. Don't make promises you can't afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:57 AM
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Bruh, I saw this stat on r/Destiny and it redpilled me so bad. I thought maybe the blue-pillers were right. Maybe it's just minority of guys going through this, and the rest of the male population was good. Nope. It's cold world out there for the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:55 AM
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21 and on this godawful website? Too early to explore space, too late to explore the world, but born just in time to argue about gender dynamics with a bunch of salty losers. 4 billion years of evolution has truly pulled off amazing things. Welcome to the cesspool sis, and happy birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:51 AM
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I agree. We simply cannot wait for women to ever support men. They're too busy raising awareness for their own issues because they realized that they could never rely on men to do it for them. Men have to support men. Men cannot expect women to do it for them. Blaming women for men's problems will always do nothing but harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:47 AM
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Neutral-positive discrimination for sure. In both cases, neutral positive discrimination has the least downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:45 AM
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People simply do not a fuck to rectify inequalities that screw over men. We've seen it endless times at this point. Women over 40 not getting relationships? They're victims of patriarchal beauty standards. Extremely short men not getting into relationships? They must have anger issues about it. /s My point is, so long as we live by the notion of a "patriarchy," rectifying inequalities that screw over men will only ever seen as proof of the "patriarchy" we exist in. So basically, to answer your q…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:43 AM
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judging yourself by your physical capabilities and ability to defend yourself seems pretty logical. So by this logic, apes are the ultimate form of man, no? The weakest gorilla is still a dozen times stronger than the average human. This is exactly what I mean by primitive logic. If a man came to your house, and beat you in a fight, you'd probably kill yourself. Your self worth is a deprecating asset that goes away with age. Physical capabilities and self defence are things you should take pride…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:28 PM
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Jesus. Every time I see you primitive fucks judge your own self worth by something as barbaric as combat, I sometimes end up thinking that maybe the misandrists have a point. So ape like, the load of you. Masculinity is a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:32 AM
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Damn. Amazing story. Your SO has game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:16 AM
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No offense, but with that age gap, many people today would frown upon your relationship, and tell you that you're husband is a predator. I find the dichotomy between your life experience, and societal ideals, very interesting. Would you be okay with your son/daughter having an age gap relationship as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:09 AM
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I gotta be honest of women who act disgusted and above every and any sexual fetish/deviant activity that they just so happen to have also partaken in. Well, we're talking about two different types of women. Women A) She tried it, hated it, and isn't pretending to be "above" it when she says she actually hates it. Women B) She tries it, likes it, but for shame/egotistic reasons, she tells everyone she hates it to put on a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:03 AM
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Aww fuck. I didn't read the edit. Sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:10 AM
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>BREAKING NEWS: Purple Pill man realizes different women can want DIFFERENT THINGS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:56 AM
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Yeah, I guess you're right. I can't argue with reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:50 PM
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I dunno about you, but sifting through a field of people who wanna be with you is way better than having no one. Even attention from people your not into can be flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:35 AM
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Go to a doctor to get that shit checked. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:58 AM
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I almost don't comment outside the megathread because the sub is filled with unhinged angry inexperienced men and sometimes they are too much Sorry about that. Lmao Interaction It's so crazy how active the megathread is on here. I've never seen a subreddit with a micocommunity like this. I almost wonder if everyone here is a bot, because this place is so niche, yet everyone is on here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:56 AM
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Me too lmao. I love learning how men/women interact with each other, and the different rules we play by.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:54 AM
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A. B sounds like hell. You have one life, why would you waste most of it on retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:14 AM
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Question for the Ladies here: What's the appeal of this subreddit? Do ever find common ground with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:13 AM
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People on purple pill are deranged. Making female friends is easy as shit. Just be nice, find things she enjoys talking about, listen, and don't be afraid to make jokes. Only caveat is to not make misogynistic jokes. And avoid talking about controversies until you really get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:08 AM
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She’s completely cut him off from his family, destroyed his reputation and whisked him away to be absolutely the second-in-command in their relationship Yes, because Prince Harry is a damsel in distress, deprived on his own autonomy and incapable of making intelligent decisions on his own. /s It's so sad that you made this assumption, all because he let his wife speak for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:42 PM
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True. Your relationship is your responsibility. It doesn't matter what standards the opposite sex has. It doesn't matter who else you're competing with. At the end of the day, it's your job to become someone worth loving. Whether or not that's possible or fair, is irrelevant. Won't change the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:59 AM
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You’re competing against women and our peace in being single/alone. How are men competing against the peace of women being single/alone? I would agree with that assessment if red piller were telling men to go harass women. Instead, red pillers are telling men to hit the gym so that women will be into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:55 AM
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Conservative people have morals and believe in traditions such as the value of word, honour and vows, while the people who are against traditions, doesn't have any sort of beliefs and want to "deconstruct" culture are morally lax. Jesus. Don't injure your neck from all the self fellatio.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:36 AM
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I can just imagine a circumstance or two in which cheating could be justified (by either the man or the woman). What circumstances would you imagine, that would justify cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:34 AM
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This is some stupid fucking twitter shit. Most people don't believe this. Except femcels, but again, they're not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:28 AM
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I'd agree in terms of Reddit overall. But in terms of this sub, I'd say it's more red pill leaning overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:06 AM
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I kind of agree. But the reason why is because reddit as a whole is male dominated, and most incel/red pill discussions are banned everywhere, so all the redpillers and incels come here. That being said, I've seen bluepill posts blow up on here occasionally. Here are some examples from top week: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10cwvt2/men_on_this_sub_are_obsessed_with_young_women/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10cp0x9/a_womans_autonomy_and_freedom_over_who…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:26 PM
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I gotta stroke from reading this. This has to be a troll or a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:32 AM
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Don't blame them. The inability to recognize privilege applies to like, everyone who doesn't know what privilege is. In the west, most white people don't realize they get special treatment by avoiding stereotypes that minorities often have to deal with. In the west, most minorities don't realize how much racey shit they can sometimes get away with saying simply because they're people of colour. You don't notice any of this shit, until you learn about what privilege is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:42 AM
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will men ever get this? The entire red pill theory is built around dating based on what women date for. And the conclusion they came up with was "make money, lookmaxx, and be charismatic." Notice how "therapy" and "doing the dishes" isn't on that list? Yeah, it's because most women date for looks/status/wealth first, and then character/responsibilities is something they hope the guy just ends up having (in order words, they prioritize it last). I will die on the hill that most women could get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:29 AM
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Men expect sex from their moms ? How the actual fuck did you get this interpretation? "A man [who] expects sex and chores from women to take care of him like a mommy." =/= A man who has sex with his mother. "Bangmaid" simply means a man who wants a woman that will clean up after him that he can bang. He doesn't care to help her around the house. He doesn't care for her wellbeing. He wants an employee. All he wants from her sex and tidiness, while he provides absolutely nothing but monetary compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:12 AM
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You can have whatever preferences you want. Just don't buy into the delusion that Japanese women are perfect trad women that would fall in love with below average anime obsessed western men. If you wanna get a Japanese wife, be an exemplar man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:40 PM
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Yes. Because every woman who gives up her kids stability, financial stability, and a decade long marriage MUST be doing it for the sake of monkey branching. It couldn't possibly be that women also divorce due to incompatibility, abuse, adultry, or anything bad related to men. No. Divorce can only be due to Red pill bro logic and women are entirely to blame for existence. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:36 PM
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Two things. One, I'm a dude. I don't give a fuck if you insult western women. Have at em. Two, if I had a dollar for every time I've seen a /b/tard idolize Japanese women, I'd have enough money to nuke Japan twice.....again. My point is, these people are extremely detached from reality. They don't love Japanese women, they love their made up idea of Japanese women. And that's why we need to bully them back into reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:43 AM
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This has to be a troll post. No fucking way someone out there is actually this delusional. Listen you fucking retard. A Japanese woman would sooner commit seppuku than get within 6 meters of your fatass. In fact, you're probably so repulsive that getting any closer to you would give her a lifetime of body odor. Please just do the world a favour and castrate yourself. That is if you can even find your micropenis under all the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:26 AM
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I'd go on /pol/ but I'm not white and hate seeing all the racism that's there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:16 AM
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This was actually such a great fucking rant. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:11 AM
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The logic here doesn't make any sense. Just because women initiate divorce more often doesn't mean their monkey branching. It simply means they're less likely to put up with a shitty relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:04 AM
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Honestly. And on top of that, these fucking losers demand that you date them at their worst and help build them up. But the reality is that if you were at your worst, they'd never want your support in the first place. These degenerative ugly fucks aren't asking unattractive women to turn them into men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:03 AM
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>Helps man become successful, wealthy and attractive >He cheats on her and leaves her for a hotter woman Case in point, literally every other male celebrity after fame. Almost all of them divorced their decade long marriages after getting big.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:58 AM
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I see comments like your, and I kinda believe it. But then I open up tiktok/twitter/2xchromosomes and all I see are womrn complaining about how men won't step up and be worthwhile dating partners. It's obvious that since there is a 50/50 split between men and women, if a significant minority of men decide to settle for porn or sex dolls, then that means the rest of the women are gonna have to be more competitive for however many men are remaining (and vice versa). So basically, there is no situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:29 PM
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men should be forced to fight since the politicians who start wars are men. Do women as a collective vote? If so, are they not also responsible for that male politician being elected? Also, why does femcel logic sound identical to racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:10 PM
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If there was any subreddit where men just sat around and complained about random women, itd be banned for misogyn within a day. But of course, it's different when women are sexist. When women are sexist, it's apparantly justified. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:10 AM
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No amount of experience will give you the ability to be an empath. I dont care how many women called you a creep on sight, you're not gonna be a creep to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:13 AM
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fellow countrymen will probably judge the shit out of them for casually sleeping around so they probably feel safer doing it with white men. Your crazy if you think white men don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:28 AM
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My sister in Christ, how are going to seperate preferences from the bare minimum? Where are women who date without preferences? If they were so abundant, we wouldn't see so many normal dudes complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:16 AM
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It's not the fact that they have high preferences that pisses off men. It's the fact that they have high preferences, while insisting that the bar is on the floor. It's the utter lack of self awareness that's the problem. I love it when women have high standards, I hate it when they pretend that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:31 PM
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So you assume every woman identifies you as a creep, and then avoid talking to them? No offense, but that sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:21 PM
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What gets me is that white women are a weirdly protected class on here. This is what gets me too. Like, how are white women gonna complain about how privileged white men can be? With all due respect, white women have almost just as much privilege as white men. It's crazy to act otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:12 PM
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I would teach my kid, respect is earned not given. Man or woman doesn't fucking matter you don't respect them until they've proven themselves worthy of your respect. Why not just respect everyone until given a reason not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:24 AM
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If you want to be a manwhore, you will have to do some really fucked up shit unless you're like SUPER good looking. Trading morality for sex has its own costs. Divorce, loss friendships, sense of guilt. Nothing is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:34 AM
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A absolute fuck ton of women would be incels if they were men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:32 AM
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If you're young and there's nothing serious, physical appearance is nearly everything and no amount of game will magically charm women into your bed. I partially agree with this. While being physically attractive is the most important thing, humour goes a long way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:30 AM
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Men want women so bad, their only choice is to conform to our standards & preferences. For the vast majority of men, this is true. But your not going to date "the vast majority of men." No, your going to date the men you want. But, on the flip side, the man you want, other women want him too. He's tall, handsome, funny, and well off. Other women want all that too. At the point, it's no longer a question of what that man can offer you. No, it's a question as to what you can offer that man, so tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:25 AM
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Men asking for paternity test absent any evidence of infidelity is and always will be incredibly offensive. Being offensive >>> Risk raising a kid with cheater for 18 years. Also, this why it should be mandatory. If its routine, then you know this isn't coming from an untrusted spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:09 AM
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If you’re a guy in a loving relationship with your wife and planning to start a family, something like a test isn’t even going to cross your mind. This is exactly why the paternity test is needed. Its insurance for the guys who are getting cheated on but would never even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:07 AM
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In countries that are actually patriarchal (eg: Afghanistan), the women would be literally killed. Not just that, but the usage of violence could risk preventing a lot of the feminist progress that could have happened in those countries due to all the bad press. Historically, peaceful protests have been infinitely more successful the violent ones. I doubt any social movement in the west would have worked had violence been the first resort.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:22 AM
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It's very easy to say #foreversingle when your 22 and out of bad relationship. Very easy to shit on marriage and relationships when your young, attractive, and can hook up at any time. Either way, I'm calling it right now. A large percentage of men and women who have sworn off relationships are gonna get super bitter after 20 years of single hood. It's easy to feel good about single hood when your still a viable dating prospect and dating is still a choice. Not so easy when dating is impossible …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:35 AM
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We need inform about half of all men that they aren’t going to have successful marriages, and that’s ok. Just like it’s ok that you didn’t make the NFL, it’s ok if you never marry or have children. You can still be happy and productive. I disagree. Unlike getting into the NFL, getting married and having children aren't near impossible to pull off. That being said, yes you can happy forever single. But why should you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:24 AM
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I sympathize with this. Listen, keep your head up high. Put yourself in situations where there are other men. Be the best version of yourself and eventually, a man you will one day grow to love will approach you. Have high hopes, and treat yourself well. You will find someone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:18 AM
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True. Average and below average men are just as capable of being monsters. The only difference is they have less oppurtunity,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:06 AM
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How is Henry the male gaze? Are women not into him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:23 AM
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The most recent one on tik tok was with the creator strange Kevin who isn't 6ft, muscular, or great looking. Dude, they aren't attracted to him because of his looks. They're attracted to him because of his confidence. Case in point, if it were just a picture of him, no one would care about him. But the skits he does where pretends to be insecure, and then extremely confident? That's what drives women feral. His acting, his confidence, not his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:16 AM
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The worst kind of commie. Stupid and heartless. At least other commies could be called compassionate but misled. Can't even say that for a tankie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:03 AM
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Look at how much money red states borrow from blue states. Look at how the big banks got bailed out in 08. Socialism for the rich. Capitalism for the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:59 AM
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Honestly. What fucking world does OP live in where being a sex worker isn't gonna get you some dirty looks? Like, from the perspective as a man. If my girl was a sex worker, my friends would never let me hear the end of it. My parents would force me to break up with her. I probably couldn't even tell my coworkers about my wife's "work." Now this is my perspective as a man. Now imagine what the actual sex worker goes through herself. OP either lives in the most sex positive, progressive community…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:40 AM
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With all due respect, I don't think you can agree with me Your lived experience says women don't need men. My reply says that most women do need men, for a variety of reasons. There's no real way you can agree with me, unless you're willing to concede that the women your seeing don't represent most women. And that women, do Infact, need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:00 PM
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Okay. Two problems. First of all, hook ups are a lot less sexually fulfilling for women than long term relationships. How many women routinely complain about unfulfilling hook ups online? Secondly, it's easy to say this when your 30, and have a strong social group. What happens when your 60, most your friends are married, and its harder to find guys willing to sleep with you? What happens when you have no one to talk to, because everyone else is too busy and you have no kids, or grandkids to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:41 PM
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I did address your point. Im not derailing the discussion. If you actually read what I wrote (assuming you're just being lazy and aren't just too stupid for the discussion), you would realize I was engaging with the analogy you presented. Because you can only understand concepts in the form of candy analogies, lemme put in a way you can understand. Yes, I would take a candy from a bowl that has a 0.1% chance of being fatal. Because that's the world we live in and its ridiculous to avoid all oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:03 PM
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You know what's funny? If I were to use this analogy when dealing with black people, I would be called a racist. If I were to use this analogy when dealing with Jewish people, I would be called an anti-Semite. But for some reason, when women use this analogy against men, they get a free pass for their sexism even though men make up half the planet. There are more of us than Jewish people or black people, which makes these generalizations against even more insane, but for some reason y'all get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:02 PM
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The point is that if a man displays actions that make a woman feel unsafe, it's not surprising that she would snub him. Hold on, I never said women shouldn't snub who threaten them. I'm saying that men, who approach women respectfully, don't deserve to get snubbed. Men who approach respectfully probably don't make women feel threatened. And the men who make women feel threatened despite intenting to be respectful usually have no social skills and lack the self awareness to realize how they're ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:03 AM
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Lemme put it this way. If one out of a thousand women in Canada get stalked, does justify treating ever man as a potential stalker? No, of course not. If one out of 10 women in North Africa gets stalked, does that justify treating every man as a potential stalker? Of course. You need to realize that it's the likelihood that justifies the attitude. We don't walk and dress the same way though the slums as we do in nice areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:48 PM
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Your comparing two things that aren't the same. When red pillers complain about women dating awful men, they referring to guys like Chris Brown. Guys who are openly awful to women, but get the pass because they are either good looking, famous, rich, etc. Contrast that with Ned, who even fooled his friends, and your comparing two completely different men. Most red pillers would admit that it's not Ned's wifes fault that she got burnt. Ned fooled everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:54 PM
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Your experience on this sub is super unique since North Africa and Middle East is probably the most hostile place towards women. So I'd say based on where you live your attitude is completely justified. Whereas, if you live in like, Canada, where men don't harass women on a day to day basis, I think it's fair to say that if a man approaches you respectfully and asks for your number you should at least reject him respectfully as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:44 PM
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You're comparing a playboy magazine to a woman's life magazine. Those two aren't the same things. One is dedicated solely to sex. The other, to a wide array of topics (where sex is included but not the main topic).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:23 AM
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So I guess if your dream is to pull someone outta your league, it's over for you then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:58 AM
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Your absolutely right. He cheated? No fuck given. He has to pay alimony? GASP! How are men as a whole supposed to put up with the nefarious greedy nature of women, when she can just leave him for his money??? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:53 AM
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My guy, the twitter account "Woman taking L" is just a account showcasing women saying stupid shit online. r/niceguys is literally the same thing, but for harassment instead. It's the same principle, but just reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:59 AM
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I've seen tons of red pillers claim that 80% of men are literally going sexless, or that up to 50% of men are incels or "incel-adjacent". No shot. Those are black pillers not red pillers. There's no way anyone can argue this unless they're completely ignorant of dating statistics. Now, if we talking about casual sex, than maybe. But casual sex is complete different from monogamous sex in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:48 AM
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Most guys are either indifferent or happy for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:38 AM
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When it comes to children its child mutilation and should be banned.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 03:16 AM
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I identify as feminist because I think it's pragmatically more effective for Men's Rights to exist within it, and because I think feminism is still needed in the social world today. Men's Rights Activistsnare are setting themselves up for failure when they refuse to identify as feminists. The moment you say: "I'm a Men's Rights Activist, not a Feminist" everyone will write you off as a misogynist and ignore what you have to say.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 03:15 AM
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Good on you for noticing your mistake though. Most people online would just double down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:03 PM
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All men benefit from the power held by men, even if that power is held by only a few men. How? How does the average man benefit from the top 1% being mostly male?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:02 PM
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I am saying men are perfectly justified in not wanting to a date a promiscuous women, regardless of whether or not they themselves have had a lot of sex partners. No, your argument in your original post only gives men the justification to not answer questions. Your original post doesn't actually explain why its okay for men to have that double standard. Your whole post basically only says: "women don't explain themselves, so neither should men." That doesn't prove why men are justified in whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:58 PM
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Why are you comparing moral behaviours to looks? They're not at all the same. If a guy says he wants a virgin, it's totally acceptable for the girl to say she wants a virgin too. This is because moral behaviours aren't limited to one's sex the same way a beard is. So it's completely fair for women to hold men to the same standard when it comes to morality. Otherwise, you're going to look like a dumbfuck if you're going to demand a virgin for marriage while having a body count of 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:54 PM
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What are you talking about? People get pissy (especially here) about women wanting tall/good looking/ rich men all the time! Yes, because this is a gender dynamic subreddit. Obviously your gonna see criticisms about it here. Trying going on twitter, or tiktok, and seeing ladies support other ladies absurd preferences. There's a literally a subreddit dedicated to it, called r/FemaleDatingStrategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:47 PM
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Real shit: Are most of you people even real? Like, sometimes the discussions here are so surreal I can't help but feel like I'm arguing with a bunch on bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:15 AM
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the boys think they are dicaprio without fame, beauty and money This statement implies that if you have fame, beauty, and money, you should be able to get away with viewpoints such as these. The reality is, anyone who thinks >25 women have no worth deserves to get shit on. Regardless of wealth, fame, status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:08 AM
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Believe me, these shitty kinds of opinions aren't written on dudes faces. Sometimes you'll be months into dating a man and you'll find out he believes shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:04 AM
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Ultimately, I have no clue why you jumped to prostitution to begin with. Prostitution was an example of how ignoring societal expectations regarding to sex doesn't absolve you from it's consequences. You can replace "prostitution" with like, a body count of "115" and my point still stands. At some point, your going to have to deal with the dating expectations of men, and pretending they don't exist is gonna have repercussions. Eg: Having a body count of over a hundred is gonna be a deal breaker …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:23 AM
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The people arguing with you must be children. If your in a LTR, you will find out. No one can keep a mask on for eternity, and women who have a conscience will eventually confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:46 AM
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If men's opinions on sex don't matter, why not start a career in prostitution? If you enjoy it, and it pays well, then why not? The reason why you won't do it is because ultimately, when you find the perfect guy, deep down you know there's about a 50% chance hes going to be revolted when he finds out you've had a career that involves you sleeping with hundreds of men. And let's not even start talking about the stigma that comes with it. So its easy to say men at large are beggers and their opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:39 AM
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If your mom was sick, would you expect your husband/boyfriend to stick with you while you took care of you? Or would you expect him to just dump you cause he doesn't wanna put up with your mother? Like, I can understand dumping a dude for living with his mother. He's still a teen. But a dude who goes back to his mother to take care of her? That to me is a man. He accepts responsibility when called on it, he doesn't just desert those who took care of him.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:10 PM
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why are you still on the left tho lmao. The misandry and hypergamy will only increase it we continue to vote left Yeah that's a good question. Well to be honest,✨Emily✨ on twitter might be a dumbfuck, but she isn't going make me rethink my beliefs on economic policies and social egalitarianism just because she's sexist. Also, the way I see it. Misandry/misogyny are cultural problems less than political ones. For example, Trump getting elected in 2016 didn't do shit to end misandry any more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:26 PM
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All the American men in this post, supporting this not realizing it applies to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:57 AM
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This. I'm as left as they fucking come. I just fucking stand that women can say "All men are trash" and get away with it with literally no repercussions. All the lectures on misogyny. All the talks about sexism and patriarchy. Only for the same women to turn around and spit all that back at us. Now obviously it's not all women. But the very tolerance for it is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:47 AM
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That’s true. The left hates white people, especially white men Yeah! Which is exactly why the left elected an old white man into power! W-wait a second???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:43 AM
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Why are you replying to the automod? Are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:36 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:59 AM
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Toxic masculinity is nothing but masculinity itself now seen as being toxic. And society isn't going to recognize men don't have it easy until feminism decides its okay to do so. But feminism ain't going to do this because feminism is way to invested in women always have it worse than men. I bring up feminism because feminism is mainstream and lots of people are very invested in it today. You realize toxic masculinity is when men say or promote shit like: -Only women cry. Men who cry are bitches…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:49 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:26 AM
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This, but un-ironically. Imagine spending a full six months befriending a girl, jumping through the hoola hoops of being close friends with her, only for her to reject you at the end of it. Not only was it a massive disservice to her, but you wasted all that time to get a answer you could have gotten in the first two weeks of getting to know her. Ask her out early, get rejected, and then move the fuck on. Friend zone is for bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:16 AM
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What? Are you expecting grown ass adult women to take some responsibility in their dating lives and for once take an initiative? Nah. Maybe one out of a thousand. Watch them write a blog post about this instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:10 AM
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One topic I feel like comes up relatively often is a woman who is confused why their guy won’t “make a move” to get more physical. They’ve “dropped hints,” but the guy still won’t take action. -Be me -Be on social media -See 300 million posts on twitter, reddit, instagram of women complaining about how men take basic kindness, laughs, and smiles as hints -See wamen at library -She looks at me and smiles -Ignore her -She goes on twitter and vents about how men can't take a hint Mfw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:07 AM
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I agree with everything you've said, but it's weird how what has always been considered a human need; "human sexual interaction," how now been written off as "entitlement." Like, yes, you don't deserve some lady falling your lap and having sex with you because your deprived. But guys aren't even allowed to complain anymore about their inability to have sex. Despite the fact that men are literally wired to see sex out and it is literally considered one of the most important of fundamental needs i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:59 AM
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Which is fucking insane because Toronto is the only international city Indians are common in.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:14 PM
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Honestly, I wouldn't care if my girl had a side chick. But it'd definitely hurt if she cheated on me for another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:58 AM
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Men are definitely more shallow. Women will at least date ugly men who have wealth/status. Where are the men dating ugly rich women? Don't get me wrong, women are definitely shallow too. But they're at least willing to balance the scales. Men on the other hand will take any lady, provided she is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:41 AM
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Yeah, this is what I never understood about incel/femcel discussion. Everyone is either cheering or complaining about the sexlessness in young men. But if young men are experiencing sexlessness, doesn't that also fuck over women? Like, there's a 50/50 split between men and women. For every man that becomes a sexless incel, that's another potential good man off the dating market, and that means even more competitive dating for women, for the good men on the market. Inceldom is really a two way pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:39 AM
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A blue pilled virgin, who just started his journey on the red pill. Ez. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah? Well the ladies you cheated with, cheated on you, for me. So whose the real beta here? Kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:25 AM
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The red pill was made by bitter losers for bitter losers to become bitter winners. It works to an extent, but it definitely goes the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:21 AM
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Because they're fucking morons who don't understand the value of being in a loving relationship with one person. To them, if you are fucking a rotation of 10s, who you barely have any connection with, your "settling."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:19 AM
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Most intelligent PPD redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 AM
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I don't know how she would find out, but I doubt she'd care if she did -- unless she was literally the first woman he ever got anywhere with. I still have a hard time wrapping my head around the fact that there are some ladies who give a shit if their man was a virgin. Like, I literally just can't fathom the logic behind it. It seems even more absurd to me because men are the total opposite. They hate it when their women aren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 AM
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Humans want the world to be fair. We all the social progress that has happened for our species has come through trying to make the world fair for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:11 AM
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I love you too, smegma enthusiast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:08 AM
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Bro idk. Afaik all anime pfp posters are losers. Male/Female regardless. Signed, a fellow weeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:08 AM
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Either one tbh. Both of them are hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:52 AM
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Not possible. Im a man and im good, so theres no way men can be bad. But at the same time, ive seen bad women, so all women are bad. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:49 AM
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"Heh. I'm too intelligent to be affected by porn and social media. Only stupid people are capable of falling for the neurological effects of constantly being exposed to extremely rare stimuli." This is what you sound like. Please shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:47 AM
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I completely agree. I would love to see more trad fems, rad fems, and lib fems in this subreddit. Y'all need to try and make this place more inviting to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:43 AM
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It's a good theory. But there's one major problem with it. Women were given basic rights 70 years ago. Why are we seeing the rise in beyond basic standards now? If anything, shouldn't we have seen this rise in standards by at least the 90s? There have been at least three generations of liberated women since your aunts time. Why is it only recently in today's day and age that women have now just started asking for more than just a man who works? If your theory was correct, we would have seen a ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:39 AM
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If I'm wrong I'd like to know, I might be, does Tate tell men it's not their fault that their situation sucks? You got any sources? I haven't see Tate ever say that it's not your fault your situation sucks. He usually says the opposite. That if your poor, its because of your mindset and its your fault. However, he does blame women, and feminism for almost all of the worlds problems. You could argue in that sense, he definitely does give loser men an excuse to blame women for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:33 AM
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Moving the goalpost of course lmao saw that coming Do you even know what it means to move goalposts? How does saying "maybe we should care more about women's struggles than just sleep with them," count as moving goal posts. I'd be surprised if you could give a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:25 AM
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We should probably care about the struggles of women, for more than just the attainment of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:24 AM
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Okay, as a dude, for reasons I won't go into, I can personally relate to your sadness. So here's some humanizing advice I used to give myself: This subreddit is not a reflection of real life. Most guys are here to argue about the validity of their experiences, and in the heat of their debates, forget the experiences of women. This place is not real. This place is an echo chamber. The misogyny you see is coming from the bitter jaded men who think about the unfairness of dating waaay too fucking m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:20 AM
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Well, the logic here is that they can't get the guy they're most attracted to because hes way outta their league. So they fuck him while they can, and then go for the most attractive guy who they can settle for (who is usually just an average looking bum). Disclaimer: I don't believe any of this shit. I'm just explaining how RP see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:48 AM
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I get it. I don't necessarily agree with it. But I get it. Nobody want to be the guy who the lady only settled for because he's stable, but would have never fucked in a one night stand. It's almost emasculating to say: "your husband material." Not good enough for sex, but good enough to pick up the kids from school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:42 AM
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This is the best example I have seen of showing why no man would ever want to be "husband material." I'm saving this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:37 AM
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Facts. Most fat people, know they're fat. Anybody who brings up the weight of someone they're rejecting is a straight up cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:31 AM
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Show the me the statistics that say gay dudes are in better shape and dress better than cishet men. You can't bring any reasonable theories to the table, so at least bring statistic. Otherwise, stop with the ridiculous cope that women just can't possibly have higher standards than men (including gay men). It's so universally accepted that men are easier, I don't know why this is hard for you to wrap your head around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:18 PM
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If a dude shows up to a gay bar dressed as sloppily as cishet men regularly are, he’s not going to get sex as easily as the other gay dudes there, even in a bathroom, and especially not with the hottest guys. You clearly don't understand how male sexuality works. Gay men don't give a shit about how you dress, so long as they find your nudes attractive, your fuckable. And men are also willing to date down. So if the hot gay dude needs a hole to fuck, he'll do it with the sloppily dressed gay guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:40 AM
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Just so that we're on the same page. To "pump and dump" a woman is to sleep with her, and then immediately ghost her afterwards. I think it's an assholish thing to do because it's most often done on false premises (ie: she doesn't know its just casual sex and thinks it's going to be a LTR).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:41 AM
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Here's the source btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:29 AM
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Does he blame women for mens issues? See, I hate this statement because it makes it impossible to talk about the attitudes of women and how they relate to men's issues. Like, if I said the attitudes of men in the gaming world, heavily impact the way women experience online gaming, that'd be fair right? I'm sure many women would love to be able to online multiplayer, and not be treated differently because she's a woman. But, in order to have a discussion about that, we'd have to acknowledge that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:24 AM
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He's too afraid to flirt. He acts like her doormat. He's never upfront about how he actual feels because he doesn't wanna offend her. Come on? Have you guys never seen this? I'm pretty sure we've all seen or been this guy at least once. There's no way yall don't know what she means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:08 AM
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This is some genuinely solid advice. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:03 AM
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Men and Women both shoot themselves in the foot by prioritizing shallow traits when looking for a SO that are irrelevant to the quality of the SO. For example, most men/women will prioritize attractiveness over character. What ends up happening is you find yourself married to someone who you can't stand and now the allure of good looks has worn off. Another common pitfall is a refusal to compromise or a refusal to self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:01 AM
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>Dating is harder for men >Wamen more picky than men >Women sometimes use men for food >>Therefore, it's okay for men to pump and dump? See, the problem is, none of the arguments your making support your conclusion. How does dating being harder for men. justify pumping and dumping? Why do most women deserve to get pumped and dumped, because a minority of them are exploitative? Your whole post is just a shitty excuse to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:54 AM
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Gay men can get sex relatively easily because gay men 1)want sex more than heterosexual women, 2)can’t get pregnant, and 3)are more likely to actually get off from sex with a stranger than heterosexual women. Therefore gay men have lower standards than straight women, no? So then where is the point of contention? My original statement still stands. "The bar is on the floor for men" is still bullshit. The average man has to be exceptional in some aspect (looks, sociability, status, or wealth), to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:24 AM
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Notice how gay men are pretty much always better groomed and fitter than heterosexual men? That’s because gay men have higher standards than heterosexual women. Dude, do you have any idea how easy it is to get laid on grindr? Dudes literally joke about downloading it to get laid that very night. Gay men only have higher standards when it comes to LTR qualtiies. But when it comes to just fucking, anyone can get laid on grindr X1000 faster than cis tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:57 PM
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It's cause he's big on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:47 AM
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Speak for yourself. I'd fucking love to get hit on by anybody. It's an ego boost regardless of whether they're attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:36 AM
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I think the statement "the bar is on the floor for men" is total horse-shit. Like, we have a fucking incel crisis on the internet. We have guys crying about being 32 and never having been in a relationship. I'm pretty sure the idea that "the bar is on the floor" only comes from cis women who have no idea how hard it is to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:18 AM
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Fuck it, I'm gonna play the devil's advocate. Imagine for a second, you were in an unfair relationship. Due to immaturity, you allowed your girlfriend to boss you around. She made you do her laundry, cook her meals, and be her slave while she never did anything in return. Later, for unknown reasons, you leave the relationship and in hindsight realize how bullshit that whole ordeal really was. Now, imagine being in a new relationship with a new girl, and she gets upset when she finds out that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:57 AM
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Bro, your gonna have some crazy stories for your kids one day lmao. "When I was your age, I had to sneako across the boarder to get to school." Also, major respect to you for your grind in life.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:29 AM
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Except that forcing all men to support all mothers and infants because it's "good for society" is the same principle as forcing women to be mothers in the first place, which no one would consider "progressive." My guy, there's a big difference between using the tax money of everyone (working men and women) to support single mothers and fathers vs. forcing women to be birthing factories. In the former, the state subsidizes parents who do a tremendous amount of economic work, that saves millions i…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:32 AM
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Right but the benefit of maternity/paternity leave is that ultimately the parent is providing an insane amount of value to society by properly raising a child, that quite frankly is never measured in economic terms. Or to put that in layman terms: Letting the mom/dad off to take care of the kid leads to a better adult in our society, which saves a lot more money than a troublesome adult.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:35 PM
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1-Reddit is extremely Left leaning. Leftists follow an agenda that paints men as "part of the patriarchy" and part of the problem Not necessarily true. It's only the feminist spheres that talk about patriarchy. Most leftist communities are split on the issue.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:25 PM
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Well, it's for a multitude of reasonings. I'll try to explain as simply as I can: Men's rights aren't taken seriously To understand this perspective, you have to really spend some time on the progressive feminist spheres. The narrative on tiktok, twitter, and even reddit is that to be born a man makes your life easier by default. You don't have to put up with sexual harassment, mansplaining, and the patriarchy. So, if you live by the narrative that men exist on easy mode, it's easy to understand…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:23 PM
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See, what bothers me the most about this is isn't even this part. It's the straight up refusal to for society to even acknowledge this inequality that drives me nuts. Women do an unequal amount of house work? "WRONG" Women get paid less? "WRONG" Women have higher beauty standards? "WRONG" Men have to do all the work in initiating a date? "Well, um. That just isn't true, and if it is it's because they deserve it (because of the patriarchy or some shit)."
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:48 PM
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Can we please pin this to the top of this subreddit? plz?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:25 AM
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Uh someone not being able to get a date is not a feminist issue. Things like ageism or racism have a broader impact on someone's life than dating. Even weight. Fat women not being able to date was absolutely a feminist issue. It's almost dishonest to pretend that plus sized models on magazines just popped out of nowhere and dating as a fat woman didn't just recently become normalized. There was (and still) an entire fucking legion of women online that believe fat women are being mistreated for n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:32 PM
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"No wait, listen, if I read only 3 more posts about dating dynamics and theory, I eventually get laid, I swear."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:01 AM
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Wouldn't men have to have gold though? Laughs in gender pay gap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:54 AM
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Hey guys, look at this loser that touches grass! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:49 AM
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"What? Women looking out for their own interests? Just like me? No fucking way dude!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:46 AM
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So what is the real complaint here? Is sexual privilege just code for: "I personally don't get to have as much sex as I want"? Is it men feeling they are not getting the women of a certain attractiveness they feel entitled to? No. Sexual privilege is the ability to download tinder tomorrow and have a hundred people lined up to date you because your a woman. It's ability to complain about "having too many options" and not being able to wrap your head around never being able to find a partner. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:43 AM
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Based and Religion pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:13 AM
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Based and Reality Pilled. This shit is honestly so fucking refreshing to hear. I'm genuinely so fucking tired "OH WOE IS ME, I HATH NOT FUCKED THE VIRGIN STACY" Incel lore that never gets called out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:56 AM
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she’s being consistent, no hypocrisy . Chad was arousing and thus she became aroused. Bob is not arousing and thus she is not aroused. Not a good counter. Imagine dedicating your life to someone and hearing that they don't wanna give you their best or experiment with you because your not as hot as chad? Chad gave her arousal, you gave her a lifetime of commitment. Consistency isn't the main point here, rather it's the unfairness of the whole thing. (Note I also don't subscribe to this stupid int…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:44 AM
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Saving this because of how well you explained incel lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:40 AM
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Bro, I guarantee you that the guy whose ripped, rich, and charismatic whilst being emotionally unstable is doing infinitely better than emotionally intelligent loser. If Ted Bundy fangirls prove anything, it's that women are just like men. Everybody will try and fuck whoever gets them excited. Doesn't matter if they're fucked in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:33 AM
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It's because hook up material guys get to have sex without having to display any level of responsibility or commitment. Or to put it in a different way, if you could have a guy friend who would do all the things a bf would do for you emotionally, but you didn't have to do anything that a gf would have to do for him, why wouldn't you take that deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:22 AM
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And then I gradually mentally talked myself out of it because of the stupid shit I read here. How him actually being kind and considerate must be some sort of ‘play’. How he doesn’t actually find me attractive he is just playing a numbers game. Okay first of all, if he didn't find you attractive, he wouldn't ask you out. Second of all, when guys say "it's a numbers game" what they mean is that 90% of the women they find attractive, will reject them. So they have to ask out as many attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:09 AM
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>Older women are more mature, wise, and financially stable >Older women are more reliable, independent, and complete as human beings >Older women are more sexually experienced, and can be a great guide when it comes to sex >Older women are more serious about settling down as life partners These are all things that I can think off from the top of my head. If your an older man and don't wanna feel like baby sitting your partner, it's definitely better if you aim within in your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:17 PM
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Despicable. Do you treat all strangers like scumbags before they "prove" themselves to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:11 PM
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What your basically saying is: "Anyone who hits on me must be desperate." Like, come on. You don't deserve to talk down on yourself like that. Also your self perception isn't universal, so it's not fair to yourself or others to consider yourself so hideous that you aren't even worth asking out. If they find you attractive, than your attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:08 PM
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More like the world changed in ways boomers never had to live through.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:17 AM
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I feel like your saying what should be common sense to most people. Casual sex via hook ups are risky, rare, hard to pull off, and mostly based on luck. Casual sex via FWB are super rare and hit like lightening. Also the FWB can leave at any time or risks catching feelings. Not perfect either. This means that the most consistent way to attain sex would be through a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:12 AM
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TRP isn't censored because of some big tech conspiracy. TRP is censored because it takes a borderline offensive perception of women and presents that perception as universally true. Also red pillers are also more likely to be mysogenistic so they end up getting themselves banned through stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:03 AM
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Absolutely. There is no fucking room for nuance in a 20 second to minute long video and upvoted shit is mostly what's appealing to kids anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:56 AM
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That’s the snowball effect. The more people you know the more events there is. If you know jsut a few people and the only thing you guys do is something exclusive See, the issue is, if your like me and prefer to have a few close friends over 20+ acquaintances, than your fucked. Also the idea of making acquaintances to meet more people sounds terrible. I'd rather just try and start conversations with strangers at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:44 AM
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This is a really good post. Thanks OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:39 AM
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Goddamn. That's some pretty damning evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:51 PM
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I could never do it with a prostitute because the idea of me having to pay for what any normal man could get for free is an insult to my pride. Also let's be real here. The only reason she's even there is for the pay check, not me. She doesn't even want to sleep with me. Why would I want to have sex with someone who doesn't give a fuck about me, and is only putting up with my presence for a pay stub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:05 AM
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My bad, read it the other way around lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:47 PM
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Is everyone on this sub actually real? Sometimes it feels hard to believe people literally just go onto the internet to argue gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:14 PM
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even when war torn countries are not accounted for, like Pakistan Pakistan isn't a war torn country lmao. Your thinking of Syria or Iraq.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:10 PM
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Oh okay, yeah I guess I sort of agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:33 PM
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Uhm isnt HVM a man women feel so attracted to that they don't care about his income...? If we're going by what women say online, a HVM is anyone that you are attracted to, can support himself, and treats you like a queen. I don't think most men or women on this subreddit would call a broke, unemployed, obese man a HVM, even if you loved him for his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:17 AM
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opportunity to become obscenely wealthy, but I don’t think that people starting from my background are ever presented the opportunity to even get lucky. No offense, but your in med school aren't you? You are literally living an experience that runs contrary to what you just said. In less than a decade you'll have a career that pays 400k and you'll be obscenely wealthy before your 40 (assuming you use your wealth wisely). And even if you didn't get into med school. Despite having a difficult star…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:12 AM
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I agree with literally everything you've said. The only thing I'd add is that if every woman is going around, racking up a body count of 20+, then why are there so many men who've never had sex or been in a relationship? It doesn't make any sense. You would think if women were putting out as easily as men say, then game wouldn't have even been necessary in the first place. After all, not every man can be a "chad."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:53 AM
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How ironic coming from a bootlicker. Did you send this comment to your boss for some extra unpaid overtime?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:44 AM
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My takeaway from this post is that hentai is the only porn a man can watch with dignity. If you watch anything else that wasn't animated by an underpaid grad student off Patreon than your a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:42 AM
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Believing in gender roles isn’t internalized misogyny 'Women should only cook and clean" How is that not misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:42 PM
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Think about it like this. If you want a high value man but you won’t let him cum on your face then he will find someone who will let him. So you have to adapt to the high value mans needs because we live in a male driven society You say "male driven" but this only applies to men who are at the top. Why are you projecting the bargaining power of the top 20% onto the bottom 80%? If anything, women have it easier because the average woman can go through men like crazy, whereas the average man has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:40 PM
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With all due respect to u/Gigamon2014, the idea that there is some high class bourgeoisie elites in some secret club, scheming around a big table and passing down their wealth is exaggerated rubbish. The vast majority of billionaires in America are self made, and while wealth privileges do exist and are monumental to one's personal success, the majority of billionaires today are self made. Proving that most of the "elite" aren't just trust fund babies. They're mostly middle class citizens who go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:38 PM
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The term "HVM" is fucking gross to me. The term is disgusting because it's objectifying. Your not being assigned value for your personality, for your interests, or your personal values. Your being judged purely based off what you can provide to a woman in the most shallow ways possible (ie: looks and wealth). It's funny because most women understand the concept of objectification pretty well when it comes to sexualization, but will completely forgot how bad it is when it comes to judging men as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:06 PM
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The socio-economic liberation of women has ironically made the patriarchy even worse in the sphere of dating. If your a woman, you can find a man worth dating in literally two week, no exaggeration. Just download Tinder, swipe right on decent look man, and (pay attention here), start vetting for personality. Put some actual effort in the conversation and set boundaries early on. You can set up a date every day of the week and date 7 men and weed out at-least one or two good ones worth keeping ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:02 PM
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All this is great advice and absolutely true. But it doesn't displace the fact that women saying "dont ask me out at X, Y, or Z" is usually bad advice. Since, according to your own advice, you've seen opposing evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:11 AM
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Monogamy was necessary back then because casual sex actually had the serious consequence of an unwanted pregnancy. Nowadays people can replace their entire sexual aspect of monogamy with casual sex and not having kids. One could argue monogamy isn't neccesary anymore in the way it used to be. But we'll see. We have everyone forsaking monogamy for casual sex right now. Tons of men going their own way, and women saying "I don't need no man." I predict in the next 30 years we're going to have an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:55 PM
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Thank you. What the fuck is wrong with some people? Could you imagine your coworker walking up to you and saying something like: "Yeah I was with the man of my life for 7 years. We loved each other, ate together, slept together. He was my everything......well up until I met this new guy. He's healthier and has more money. I'm leaving my inferior soon to be ex next week." Like, I'd probably want nothing to do with that person. They don't love you, they love what you have to offer. The moment you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:51 PM
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If the only thing stopping you from dumping your partner for someone better is being married to them then you're kind of twisted imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:46 PM
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If people are ok with that then that's who they are. There's nothing to be gained by pretending to have fake virtues People who are okay with abandoning their loved ones for people who are better probably should be shamed imo. It's detestable behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:44 PM
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If you dump your husband for a better guy, what's stopping the new guy from dumping you for a better girl? Ultimately, if you push this culture of monkey branching, loyalty in relationships will be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:43 PM
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Me too lmao. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:01 AM
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Online dating and pick up is AIDS. If mankind had to rely off it since the beginning of time, we would have gone extinct centuries ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:53 AM
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Same advice as back in the day: You need to learn how to be attractive. You wouldn't date a below average attractive woman would you? You'd probably want her to hit the gym and look better too right? Same thing goes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:46 PM
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r/deadbedrooms r/adultery Holy fuck. Reading shit like this makes me not want to ever get married, or even be in a relationship. I mean, imagine posting in a fucking adultery subreddit. What the actual fuck is wrong with people? Cheating fucking hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:40 PM
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Simping is idolizing someone who doesn't know you exist. You should never put anyone in life on a pedestal, with the exception of those you love and would do the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:47 AM
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I want someone whose a bit chubby/ dad bod = dude with significant muscle covered up with some body fat on the stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:38 AM
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Yeah, it's hard as fuck to carry to conversation all on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:12 AM
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Have you tried taking a shower? Going to the gym? Maybe reciting a feel good mantra in front of the mirror every morning? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:11 AM
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An a couple hours? Dude really? Unless you have ED, or the stamina of a greek god, it shouldn't take you two hours to get hard and jack off. Most guys at tops take like half an hour. The only time a dude might take longer is if he's looking for the perfect video.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:04 AM
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It's scientifically proven that usually daughters are more attractive than sons. How? If you had a set of fraternal twins, one male, and one female, what differences does have a vagina have to make the female look better. They both inherit similar noses, similar face shapes, similar eyebrows, it's only the differences in estrogen and testosterone that set them apart in terms of gender. But in terms of facial characteristics, there is no evidence to say that simply being a woman makes you those s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:02 AM
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Honestly. Poor guy. He gets cheated on but he has to be the one to try harder to keep it from falling apart. Jesus. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:52 AM
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Yes, and this is exactly why we should ignore those women. Some will complain about it when it goes badly, while others will agree to the advance and it will end up being a relationship. It's the chance of meeting the latter which is why it's worth doing. Women aren't responsible for you getting into a relationship, so they're going to give you advice that benefits themselves (even if it means keeping you single for eternity). Be one of the guys who takes that risk and actually lands a date. Don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:27 AM
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I’m only a little older than y’all (29) and even in my younger millennial/zillenial generation it was uncommon for people to never have dated anyone by their early 20 Young people nowadays are more seculeded than ever. Social media and online communities have replaced real face to face interactions and porn has reduced incentive for men to improve their lives and go out and start dating. I don't know if it was just as bad when you were in college. But a lot of our generation grew up online, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:18 AM
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He instantly felt the need to strike up a convo and I was polite but kept trying to read my book. I decided to get out and swim and he took this as an opportunity to join me as if we were in some way together This dude is actually a fucking moron. Does she look disinterested in you? Is she minding her own business and not in any way trying to interact with you or anyone else for that matter? The thing is, for most guys, this is actually kind of hard to tell. What exactly is the difference betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:12 AM
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Dad? Is that you? It's been 16 years since you came back home to rail and mom and then just got up and left. Please come back home....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:45 AM
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Yeah, but ultimately, the biggest determining factor isn't going to be your height but the choices you choose to make. Sure, tall guys are playing on an easier level, but ultimately if your as attractive as Tom Holland, you're doing way better than any guy who's just tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:43 AM
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15.8% of men in the US are above 6 ft tall. 5.4% of the US population make a 6 figure income every year (so 2.7% of men). And by the way, the overlap between these two groups is obviously not going to be 100%. So yeah, less than 2% of men meet the 6 figures and 6 feet rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:40 AM
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The issue with this comment is that emotional maturity and emotional intelligence isn't something that becomes noticeable/relevant until the relationship has been firmly established. It takes at least a month to getting to know someone before making this kind of judgement. Whereas, in the context of OP's post, I don't think most of women who are saying "Why I can't a find a good man" are going around dating men months long enough to get a read on their emotional maturity and emotional intelligen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:28 AM
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I find the 'Yaaas Queen" shit so funny. Like, people say that, unironically. It's so dumb it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:18 AM
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Agreed. The reality is women want men they find attractive and have their lives put together. They're just saying "there aren't good men" because they don't wanna give the ugly good ones a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:16 AM
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Sorry for your circumstances. Just chiming in to say I love your country, and wish its people the best, and God bless all of you. I hope one day, equal rights in Iran are established and Iranians are free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:13 AM
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Yes, it's called being a cowardly bitch. You love your SO, but you also wanna sleep around and think they won't find out, so you go around doing it anyway. Fuck cheaters. They're the scum of earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:04 AM
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Here's the thing I don't understand. Men want to live in a world where women are "pure." They want a world where the women they date have a low body count. But at the same time, men also want a world where women will put out on third date. They don't want relationships where they have to wait months before having sex. They want sex ASAP. Not only that, men are so obsessed with this, that they build entire identities around not being able to get laid (incels). The thing is, you can't have your ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:02 AM
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It's not rocket science to treat women with respect and to understand basic human norms. It's not about treating women with respect, cupcake. It's about asking them out in a way that makes women interested. Respect is the bare fucking minimum and won't do shit for you in dating if don't know how to also be attractive. And you say it's not rocket science, but clearly have absolutely no idea what it's like dating as a guy if you think asking out strangers on their own is a bad thing. But of course…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:57 PM
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Men often see women asking them out as the same as them throwing themselves at them. Pick one dude What on God's name are you talking about? "Hey Chad, here's my number. I'm free so shoot me a text whenever your free." Versus "Hey Chad, your so intelligent and awesome! Do you have a dog? By the way, is that superhero t-shirt your wearing? I love superheros. By the way, did I tell you, you were intelligent and awesome?" There is a clear between shooting your shot, and sampling. The first one is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:20 AM
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The problem is only the way men ask them out; while they're alone with no eyewitnesses and without knowing each other, while standing over her, while holding her/trapping her in one place With all due respect, do you have any idea how ridiculous all this is from the perspective of a guy? "Hey. it's okay to ask women out. Just don't do it if she's a stranger." "Or if she's alone (which is the only chance we have to ask you out, otherwise we ask you out in front of your friends)." "Oh and don't as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:16 AM
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If he doesn't approach, whether he's too intimidated or lacks the initiative or whatever, she wouldn't have wanted him anyway. YES See, but if he did approach and it went terribly, you (or someone else) would probably say: "women can't go anywhere without being harassed by men for a date. It'd be better off if guys didn't ask." And that sentiment, in turn, will dissuade men from taking the initiative to ask women out, which (according to you) will mean "he isn't worth dating anyway." Do you see …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:37 AM
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That is also true. Probably should have added that to my post. Asking men out is not the same thing as worshiping them. Never put anyone (man or woman) on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:47 AM
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This is actually causing a huge crisis for educated women. They don't wanna date down, but they also don't wanna reconcile with the fact that they are in the top 30% of society, and in terms of success the vast majority of guys are beneath them. Basically, they wanna be at the top, but they don't wanna date down. And naturally, instead of adjusting their dating standards and their views on gender expectations, they'd rather just write blogs about how men today are lazy and stupid, and need pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:39 AM
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grass The fuck is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:31 AM
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Once you've learned to codeswitch RP into non-RP language it's everywhere and uncontroversial. Could you give some examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:30 AM
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I bet it's feet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:29 AM
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How about, instead of blaming women for not “letting go” of being used and abused, we talk about how to help more men NOT cause this trauma through selfish actions in the first place? We already live in a culture that demonizes sexual assault and rape, and encourages women to speak up about these issues. There are legal penalities for this shit as well. Ultimately, there's always going to be some proportion of men that are scumfuck degenerates that don't respect women's rights. Because of this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:58 PM
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Queen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:51 PM
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I partially agree with you, but I'm gonna pick up the other dudes argument and run with it. >Such as? Men have an easier time in corporate world. Being assertive and aggressive is normalized and expected, whereas for women they had to 'girlboss' their way into it. Also men don't have to worry about being sexually assaulted or raped nearly as much as women do when it comes to going outside or dating. Men have more athletic opportunities than women since nobody gives a fuck about women's sports. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:51 AM
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The issue is, even if we bring in traditional men to speak about Men's Rights, the other side will simply write them off as a hate group. And the reason why is because gender dynamics is fucky. It's impossible to talk about Men's issues, without bringing up the culturally acceptable actions of women, which is ultimately going to painted as being anti-woman. Women on the other hand don't have this problem, because critiquing men as a group is universally cheered upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:46 AM
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Redpill 101: Look at what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:33 AM
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In terms of just having casual sex, I don't see much wrong with it. She's an adult. You're an adult. It's normal for adults to be attracted to each other, it's not like being old will turn you off from the female body. Where it gets weird in my opinion is when we start talking about long term relationships. While it's possible for a 40 year old to have a healthy relationship with a 20 year old, there is definitely a power imbalance when it comes experience and maturity, and the 40 year old can t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:23 AM
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It's cause people in general are shallow as fuck. I don't why us men ever started believing that women were the exception to that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:16 AM
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I think your missing some nuance here. Yeah, will most women go on a date with an ugly person, even if he has a great personality? Probably not. Can a good personality turn an average looking person, into an attractive one? Absolutely. It happens all the time. There are tons of experiences women have where, "meh" guys becomes really attractive to them after they get to know them. Guys don't believe this, because girl on Tinder always go for the best looking guys. But what most guys don't underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:04 AM
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I feel like marriage is one of those things where opting out of it is difficult in the short term but absolute horrendous in the long term. Like, I honestly wonder what's going to happen 40 years from now, when we have an entire generation of men and women who refused to marry or get together. The idea of being alone feels sweet in your 20s. But what about in your 50s, 60, 70s, and even 80s? I personally think this whole MGTOW or WGTOW is gonna get ugly in a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:01 AM
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Would never cheat. Would probably leave the relationship first. Cheating is fucked up, I've seen what it can do. I'd rather just be celibate than cheat tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:57 AM
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While I agree that there is a lot of vitriol spewed towards women as a group on here, I think it's inevitable where there are groups based discussion about the opposite sex on the internet. I say this because I see the same rhetoric of female dominated subs when talking about men, so I don't think this is a male centric thing at all. That being said, despite the amount of inceldom in this subreddit, women here do a pretty good job pushing their views on here. You occasionally get posts like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:53 AM
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Gays and Lesbians are the real winners in all this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:46 AM
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Lmao. This is wholesome. Men and Women on here are Frenemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:44 AM
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It's fun arguing, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:40 AM
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I don't actually hate all men nor am I a woman. I'm just showing you the experiences I heard from my women online. I genuinely speaking, I agree, misandry is actually cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:49 AM
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Be woman, want to be single Go to gym, asked out for number Go to the mall, asked out for number Go to work, asked out for number Come back home, play vidya game, Gamers ask for number Log onto reddit See the same men circle jerk over how perfect my dating life is Now they all wonder why I hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:43 AM
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Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10? Absolutely not. What's the point in getting the 10? Your trading out love, genuine conversations, intimacy, and close life experiences......for what? A thinner waistline? A bigger set of tits? Fuck that. At the end of the day, we're all gonna get old. Your dick will shrivel up, her tits will get saggy, and at the end of it all, all that'll be left is what's in the inside. And if you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:01 AM
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hold an actual ideology they deeply believe in that says all men are overgrown children, shallow, emotionally stunted Your saying this like r/FemaleDatingStrategy isn't a thing. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:48 AM
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"Yeah, we can get sex way more easily but it's usually not great." Yeah, but this can easily be retified by having casual sexual relationships. Just find someone who was fun to sleep with, and then fuck them regularly. For guys on the other hand, to find a FWB you have not only be stellar enough to get laid, but also have tons of experience at it. Which, by the way (as you said) most women don't wanna give because most first time hookups usually suck. I just can't see women having the worse end …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:05 AM
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Isn't cold approaching just that? Like, walking up to women and chatting them up? If not, what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:06 AM
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Lots of reasons. -Some men are horny/stupid. They'll put up with crazy for the sex, only to regret it afterwards. -Some men are desperate, they'll take anything they can get -Some men are more content, they don't care for spending habits/income, because to them all they want is someone who loves them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:03 AM
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28% of men younger than 30 haven't had sex in the last year.* This doesn't mean what you think it does. If almost 30% haven't had sex in the past year, that doesn't the remaining 70% are getting laid regularly. The other 50% might have sex once or twice within the past year, at a big party if they end up being lucky. But the reality is, most young guys rarely get laid. Only the top 20% of attractive men can get laid whenever they want. (and only online dudes claim this in my life, guys I know ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:53 AM
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