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Question For WomenBuildinsilence/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:55 AM
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Question For WomenBuildinsilence/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:45 PM
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Buildinsilence/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:41 AM
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Men categorize women in two ways A) Sex toy: we compartmentalize you, don’t have any feelings and just have fun bc the idea of having feelings for someone who’s been passed around by other men is disgusting to us B) Worthy partner: we see you as the missing piece to our puzzle and nothing you do will convince us you’re not once our mind is made up Don’t hide your past but put your best foot forward What makes you the missing piece to our puzzle? Because once we feel like you’re that, your past i…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 08:27 AM
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The western dating market is being culled and the less qualified men are being pushed to either improve or check out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:23 PM
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There’s 2 versions of reality that men have access to Is where they have a lot of options and pumping and dumping is hard not to do, so the burden is on women to try to lock them down Is where they don’t have many options and they try to lock down a relationship quick, so they don’t end up alone Women don’t like to admit it but they’re more often attracted to guy 1 because he’s like the Amazon product with a million positive reviews They don’t want to settle for guy 2 They want to make guy 1 tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:55 PM
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Too common, between my stint going out and approaching every night and smashing my married female friends all through the pandemic, I’ve seen too much to give any girl the benefit of the doubt anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:21 AM
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We 100% care when it comes to relationships but not for hook ups
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 06:09 AM
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For most of human history women were either 100% innocent and under a man’s protection or social bottom feeders who had to whore themselves out to men to survive What do you think would happen to a woman who had got pregnant out of wedlock a few hundred years ago? How did they make money to survive when women didn’t really work? They had to be prostitutes or borderline sex slaves and after that, they were stuck because no man would want them Once a woman tarnished her purity, she could only be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:31 AM
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Because a little girls innocence is precious to us and anyone who threatens it is to be destroyed on sight with psychopathic aggression Look up a video of any dad defending his daughters innocence in any way, there’s nothing on the planet that will get psychopathic aggression faster than threatening his daughters innocence With a son, it’s different, because innocence is a hindrance to him becoming a fully developed man He can’t be innocent and naive if he’s to be useful to the world It’s better…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:21 AM
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It’s so cringe to brag about manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:07 AM
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Because feminism is feminine by definition Feminine = external locus of control “The patriarchy is stopping me from doing XYZ so we have to protest” Masculine = internal locus of control “Everyone is responsible for their own results individually and has nobody to blame but themselves” Looking like a lumberjack doesn’t make you a man Having an internal locus of control where you hold yourself and others responsible for their own results in life is masculinity Your man is feminine and you probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:48 PM
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2 dominant personalities just ends in up in fights For men that’s just annoying For women, it’s good because they want to be made submissive by someone more dominant than they are And before all the women come in here saying it’s not true You’re lying and we don’t believe you This concludes my Ted talk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:33 PM
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You’re conflating the way men date with the way women date Women settle for the boring guy Men aspire to the boring girl Women give sexual access to a bunch of hot losers before they settle down and every time they do they’re GIVING them something that’s valuable for the low low price of not much When men fuck hoes we’re GETTING the value without giving anything in return. We play the game and have fun but in the back of our minds we know we’d never take this girl seriously because she’s a hoe I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:53 AM
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It’s a line that only rich people understand When you have a girl over for the night and she sees how nice your place is and how crazy your lifestyle is She never wants to leave because she doesn’t want to go back to her shitty lifestyle, so she’ll hang around as long as possible, overstaying her welcome So when you give her money you’re just paying her to go away because otherwise she would have never left
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:36 AM
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He’s overpaying, Latin America and East Asia would give him 10x the experience for a fraction of the money and he’d be giving it to women who really need it instead of spoiled American women I’m not really into paying for it but if you want instant gratification, the girl has to get some sort of instant gratification as well I think paying for it is infinitely better than not getting it and leaving women in control of you getting your needs met and being able to use that to manipulate you When y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:31 AM
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Women are turned on by danger, risk and unpredictability And that’s exactly what the guy with red flags provides for them A nice, stable guy is a boring guy because he’s predictable No matter what the nice guy does, it’ll never be enough Because she’ll always feel more turned on by the unpredictable guy with red flags If you’re a nice guy, you have to learn how to create unpredictability by being adventurous, spontaneous or being good at flirting and creating tension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:20 AM
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I wish there was some sort of certificate men could get when they’re good in bed so they could just drop their credentials in situations like this and everyone would listen to them 😂 Sex is like a microcosm for the relationship as a whole If the sex is bad it’s because you don’t understand her and you’re not paying attention If it’s good, it’s because you’ve found the right balance of attentiveness and dominance and you actually care how she feels and if she gets off When you make her cum a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:08 AM
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Your relationship with your caregivers is what determines what sort of issues you have as an adult, that’s not an opinion, that’s what you learn in therapy A woman’s relationship with her father will affect her ability to assert boundaries and her mental health in ways that can make or break her desirability as a wife and mother All the women I know that did slutty shit as teens and grew up to be adults that never quite got their shit together are women who had daddy issues And conversely, the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:57 AM
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It varies greatly depending on the economic situation of the woman In poor countries, high status men pretty much have their way with women and women will deal with it because he can provide and they need a provider The richer the country gets, the more independent the women get and the less it matters, the men become more objectified and women start basing their choices more on how hot the guy is Then everything in between is a mix of both For the record I think women make mostly the wrong deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:47 AM
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I think the elephant in the room is that women have adopted a full on sociopathic way of approaching men that tries to control them by limiting all nice behavior and nice gestures and only giving them enough to make them come back for more and are surprised when being nice to them actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:38 AM
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High body counts is probably a bad term A history of sexual recklessness is probably a better way to put it Nobody is mad at girls for having sex We just don’t want to wife the girl that got passed around by everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:34 AM
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Yeah from a guys perspective the “pick me” version of you sounds way more like someone I’d want to be with than the prior version For some reasons girls think they can play this weird control game with guys and it’s just weird and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:31 AM
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They’re hiding in their video game dungeons growing neck beards and eating Doritos, we need National Geographic to do a special on them so we can catch them in their natural habitat Here’s a perspective: Women now have access to 24/7 hedonism They can be taken on dates, romanced, get sex, attention and validation any day of the week What hope does an average looking guy have at competing with this situation? How many girls will drop 24/7 access to whatever experiences they want for a normal look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:29 AM
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This is why monogamy was culturally enforced via marriage for so long It’s not so “men can control women” It’s so men and women can be adults and raise children properly You want to solve the dead beat dad problem? Stop being so easy that even a dead beat can cum in you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:08 AM
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Reddit is not a lived experience lol That’s like saying WW2 never happened because a guy on TikTok said so lol lol you’re attacking everyone’s points with made up scenarios based on what you’ve seen on Reddit but you think I have a chip on my shoulder because I tell you you’re ridiculous and you need to stop This is called being an adult and adults don’t point fingers or get into shouting matches to make arguments with made up points based on things they’ve seen on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:57 AM
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That’s actually why I made this thread because I had a feeling majority would say broad shoulders and it would crush the idea that you have to be tall 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:36 AM
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So you’re basing your entire argument off what you’ve seen on Reddit and completely invalidating his lived experience as a man with an even more made up perspective and you think this is ok? No standard at all It wouldn’t be such a problem if you didn’t come here bullying him into silence with your garbage arguments You’re not educated on this subject enough to try to shut down anyone’s argument, you’re educated enough to play nice and try your best to contribute Now stop with the childish nonse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:33 AM
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Your argument is based on an irrelevant premise that you can’t even back up What percentage of kids are assholes to their teachers? Where are these kids? Do they even exist? This is a bad argument that you’re very confident in because you have a delusional sense of how smart you are Take it down a notch please And as far as fathers go, shifting blame is not how you identify and reconcile problems, it’s an immature way of approaching the situation and sweeping the issue under the rug, if there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:10 AM
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I’m not personally bothered by my height but a lot of guys are to the point where it’s becoming a thing & I think “being a bigger guy” side of the argument is being completely overlooked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:05 AM
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So because you made up a scenario where little kids can be assholes to their female teachers, it somehow negates his point that many people are being conditioned to pedestalize women from a young age? This is exactly the problem with what he’s talking about, your argument doesn’t even have to make logical sense, you’re not held to any standard, you just talk and people let you slide with whatever because you’re a woman Sure kids can be assholes But just because something can happen doesn’t mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:00 AM
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Bc women have their pick of whatever type of man they want and they still manage to pick the wrong one again and again and then just blame men as a whole instead of their own taste in men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:48 AM
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It’s hard for women to get the men they want because every other woman also wants them That’s why you see all these “men are this and men are that” posts They all get burned trying to get guys that are out of their league and view lesser guys as not even in the question They can get dates but they die of thirst in the middle of the ocean
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:22 AM
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Narcissism isn’t game it’s a pattern of behavior people develop when they feel superior and have low empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:19 PM
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Oh yes they do lol, they’ll do it for control and power and sometimes even just for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:16 PM
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Indeed they can and do, I was saying in general not gender specific I’d argue that women are better at it than men because we always assume they’re innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:15 PM
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I think the reality is that narcissistic manipulation has really became the only real equalizer in dating in the digital era Just like the apps, the food, the news and everything else in this generation are toxic and addictive So are the relationship partners The easiest way to outcompete 10 other guys simultaneously to to be way more captivating and addictive than all the others by being aloof, giving hot and cold signals and being unpredictable Toxicity is how the power dynamic shifts, it’s un…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:58 AM
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Another way to think of it is like this: Think of the top 1% of attractive guys (attractiveness defined as an overall thing that includes all the things that make women interested, looks, status, charisma etc) Drake, Michael B Jordan, Thor, Channing Tatum etc The closer you get to the 1%, the better your results will be And it works exponentially rather than linear A guy in the top 30% has 1 or 2 girls in his DM’s In the top 20% has 3 or 4 The top 10% has 5 or 6 The top 5% has too many to count …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:42 AM
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The rise of the femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:22 AM
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Imo, there’s a lot of guys that want a girl that’s a bit more conservative than the norm right now but not super conservative, I think that’s a better niche for you
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 09:32 PM
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Nah, I had a girl do something similar to me bc she thought I looked like The Weeknd and I thought she was cute so we talked for a while The masculinity men don’t like refers more to women trying to fill masculine roles all by themselves and not really having any need for us and expecting us to want to attach ourselves to them when they’ve went out of their way to make us as replaceable as possible And also being disagreeable and uncooperative in general Giving a guy your number is actually kind…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 01:38 AM
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I’m not sure that women are “incapable of love” but imo men love way more idealistically than women & women are much quicker to replace men I’ve noticed that women tend to fall for the guys that make them feel the strongest emotions, which tends to cause them to often gravitate towards toxic relationships where there are many emotional ups and downs And I’ll say a few women cheated on their husbands with me and they did it because I was a source of those emotional ups and downs and it caused the…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 01:24 AM
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How good of a wife and mother she would make, how good of a person she is in general and how attractive she is both physically and mentally
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 01:42 AM
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We enjoy whores but we don’t love them, at least not if we have our head on right When I think of what it would take for me to love a girl, it’s probably a sense of understanding, that she gets me & that she’s loyal to me and willing to play her part in making the relationship successful No whore is going to do that, whores are liabilities that you enjoy from time to time but try to keep to a minimum because you deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:46 AM
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I’m on Semaglutide and just lost 14 pounds in like a month, city boy summer is starting in spring for me
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 09:08 AM
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It wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for me, I think most guys want the Barbie anyway
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 09:04 AM
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I like my girls thick but not gross, I like mom bods and milfs bc the maturity is a thing for me, but beyond a certain limit i won’t touch a girl
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 08:53 AM
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I’m 31 but comparing myself to any 25 year old I’ve known is not even a question I run an online business which means I can pick up and go whenever I want. I have no boss to answer to I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and powerlift so I’m super strong and trained to break peoples arms and legs and put them to sleep I still look young, I’m just young looking in general, it runs in my family I’ve been to therapy, I know what my issues are and how to approach them None of this is possible for a 25 year old,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:08 AM
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Lol I guarantee you, you do not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:30 AM
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A 35 year old outcompetes a 25 year old in every way as long as he doesn’t let himself go
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:32 PM
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I have abandonment issues so when I get close to someone I have 2 reactions I push them away before they push me away, which makes them hate me I cling to try to stop them from leaving but it makes them hate me The clingy ones sting the most bc it’s like I’m just trying to keep you but having feelings is like a weakness I’m not allowed to have Staying detached is really the only thing that works
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:51 AM
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I think the lack of masculinity will eventually create demand where there currently isn’t much demand In other words, when every guy is an incell living in the metaverse The handful of guys that don’t get sucked into VR porn and have active lives where they do physical activities and meet girls IRL will be ultra valuable and have unlimited options like women do now Women on the other hand will have less and less options as more guys opt out I see the pendulum eventually swinging in the opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:41 AM
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I have to say, I don’t really agree I think there are girls that are drawn to guys with very negative personalities but for the most part, most girls end up with guys they feel comfortable with Friend zone + enough assertiveness and attractiveness to create sexual tension = even if you’re just friends you have sex and possibly get into a relationship Maybe some female users can tell me if I’m on the right track here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:31 AM
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Im not going to lie, I was borderline liberal most of my life but ever since liberals went so crazy with feminism and gay rights, I can’t help but to be a little sexist and homophobic now just because it’s pushed on me so much that I’m annoyed by it and feel like a lot of the double standards are very hypocritical It’s like.. there’s a gender pay gap Well, most homeless people are men Why is society so eager to fix one but not the other? And we’re supposed to be the privileged group that’s oppre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:27 AM
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It’s a lot easier for women to say this than men bc women don’t have to do anything to get a new partner but men do It’s a super selfish way to think & kind of a cop out from having to actually put any work in with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:06 AM
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I think this concern is super overblown, most girls I know would be too proud to smash bc a guy has money In fact, trying to rely on your money just makes it harder Ie. “You think I owe you sex just bc you spent money”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:22 AM
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Be the short bald king of the BBW’s I’m rooting for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:20 AM
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Unpopular opinion: women don’t care about money as much as the red pill community thinks When I think of every girl I’ve had sex with, money never even came up I have a bit of money but I don’t advertise it and I’m very low key about that kind of stuff What girls I’ve had sex with all had in common was that we had fun and playful sexual tension that I intensified by being provocative and making it a challenge Ex: if we made out I would pull away first and make them chase it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:18 AM
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I used to go out with a guy that was into pick up and he was the best at it out of anyone I knew The night is over and he starts trying to close and he was literally just jumping from girl to girl asking if they wanted to smoke weed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:01 AM
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I don’t think a guy with low body fat that has an athletic build can be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:59 AM
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This is the type of nihilistic advice I might have given someone but never expected anyone else to say 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:56 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:53 AM
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I think a lot of people think they understand how women work when it’s actually way more nuanced than we think & trying to have a set formula only makes it harder for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:52 AM
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I’ll say this: multiple women cheated on their significant other w me and the thing they all had in common was this weird void that couldn’t be filled with anything wholesome Not enough attention, not enough masculinity from their partner, not enough love, not enough understanding, not enough variety etc Something was always just not enough for them And having this person outside of their relationship that they could believe had everything they wanted made the void bearable, even if they were ly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:12 AM
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I think the thing that’s wrong with sex work is that it means you’re willing to participate in the degeneration of society and sell your body for less than it’s worth bc you’re too lazy to apply yourself & make a career from something other than selling the easiest thing to sell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:56 AM
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So when I was in my early 20’s I really liked this girl that I had a crazy connection with and had alot of common interests with She wasn’t a 10/10 hot but she was pretty and I really liked her as a person Long story short, we were on again off again friends or maybe a little more than friends for a while But one of the things she said to me was that my potential would never be enough for her Fast forward 10 years, I’ve been making 6 figures since my mid 20’s, I run online businesses and I’m alm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:44 AM
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There’s a hookah spot I go to all the time where this happened on accident The all female staff just started to like me after seeing me there all the time and one time they invited me to sit at their table Next thing I know a bunch of their female friends show up and it’s like me and 2 or 3 other guys at a table with like 10+ girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:20 AM
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This is good stuff, I think for most guys the clubs/bars and tinder are really the only options & pursuing more exciting/risky hobbies and passions sounds like a good way to meet more girls naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:10 AM
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I find it super interesting that things like “be more alpha” don’t come up lol I’ve had some experiences that made me think it’s possible that what most men in the pickup/redpill community need is to focus less on status based attractiveness and more on just being a better person to hang out with Kind of consistent with that idea, thanks 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:02 AM
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This is actually really good, I’m proud of this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:22 AM
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The fix is a return to the traditional values we strayed from that seemed so corny and out of touch 20 years ago Work hard, have integrity, build a life, get married, have kids, don’t get divorced, be religious, help your community Men have to be MEN again Not the grown up children we have become This doesn’t let women off the hook bc they certainly have their own things to work on, but men need to focus on themselves before we can worry about what women are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:14 AM
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The hook ups I’ve had have all been bc of the energy or being in the moment The ONS were just girls who in my opinion would have probably fucked any decent looking guy they were left alone with who was capable of taking it there without killing the vibe, just bc they were either horny or in a really slutty phase of life But thing I’ve had in all my hook ups was an exciting energy where I’m being funny, direct and I’m provocative but not thirsty I once asked a girl that was cheating with me what …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:07 AM
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Lmao smooth bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:00 AM
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I feel like this is an underrated answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:59 AM
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So big dick energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:58 AM
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In America the dynamic is the opposite As a guy in the 2010s I tried getting into relationships with girls I liked but they didn’t want to stop “living their best life” and settle down Now I’m single and so are those girls and we all hate each other lol It’s a hook up culture where anyone that tries to settle down gets crushed until they say fuck it and just hook up too Don’t get me started on married women, the lock down was a wild time for the desperate housewives of America
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:50 AM
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I don’t care about the number (as long as it’s not off the charts) I’m more concerned about the ways she has sex One night stands? Cheating? Getting trains ran on you? Fucking close friends so I can’t even leave you alone with your friend group? How dirty is your dirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:41 AM
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I think it’s both I feel like Instagram made girls like mini reality TV show stars and gave them way more visibility to the top 20% of guys that are accessible to them and the bottom 80% kind of gave up and just turned to porn and video games
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:35 AM
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I once had a thing with a girl that could have been serious but I wouldn’t commit to her bc she fucked too many guys from her friends circle and I couldn’t commit to her knowing all her friends already had her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:45 AM
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Because men can’t be idealistic about how the world works
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:36 AM
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Man answering: enjoy it more or do things you enjoy that he also enjoys. Idk what it is but when a girl actually enjoys stuff like blow jobs it just makes it hit different Look at the “girls finishing the job” subreddit for inspiration lol
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