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| 5 | The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)I didn't say it was a female-coded behavior. I said it WAS NOT gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:54 PM |
| -1 | The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)I use it as an umbrella term that emcompasses feminism, female dating gurus and pinkpill/femcel community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:51 PM |
| 6 | The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)There is a differente between saying "women do X more than men" and "X is a gendered behavior". I think that mentally-checking-out-of-a-relationship-and-physically-remaining-in-it is something women do more than men. But... I don't say it's a gendered behavior. Why? Because I don't know if the man/woman split is big enough to make this behavior a "female thing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:49 PM |
| 4 | The Femosphere deliberately genderizes behaviors that AREN'T gendered. (CMV)For the sake of your argument, let's say you're right. That if we put all people who cheat in the planet inside a small country, there will be more men than women. But what is the men/women split? 55/45, 60/40, 70/30? Cheating would only be gendered if the split was TOO uneven, like 90/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are.Maybe I'm oversimplifying it, but... I think being a good man is basically being a man and a genuinely good person at the same time. A man can be out-of-shape, socially awkward, broke and have the personality of a white bread, but if he is genuinely nice... well, he is a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are.No. I'm a cis man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are.I have autism, so I have a few problems with semantics and phrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:12 PM |
| -4 | Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are.I was not talking about women in general, just the ones who start celibacy under excuses like "good men are so hard to find the search is not worth it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are.I agree. But if that's case, I think women who say "Where have all the good men gone?" should rephrase their question to "Where have all the good (and attractive) men gone?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:01 PM |
| 16 | Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often?No. It would be accepted if we stopped tying men's value to the success he has with the opposite sex. Men who see escorts are judged because of the underlying notion that men who don't have success with the opposite sex are losers. If we dismantled that notion, men would by consequence, stop receiving judgement for seeing escorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manNeurotypical women not feeling attracted to a man just because he is autistic is literally bigotry. You know that, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:52 PM |
| 7 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".https://www.tiktok.com/search?q=chance%20ugly%20guy&t=1708467580338 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 10:19 PM |
| 9 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".I'm sorry, but you got it backwards. It's wrong when men do too. I just purposely flipped the genders to make my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".The fact that men supposedly "do this all the time" does not make it any less wrong when women do it. What is the point of your comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 10:10 PM |
| -3 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".I purposely flipped the genders to make women (not all, just the ones who do this specific thing) see how they sound. I think that, yes, I made my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 10:07 PM |
| 3 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".I'm not saying men can't do this specific shitty behavior, but I made the thread specifically to make women who do this see how they sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?I would say there is not a lack of good men, but instead a lack of men who are good and attractive at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Being a man who hooks up with a specific person once a week (Friday or Saturday), but who is still single. When people around me ask if I'm dating, I just say: "Well, I'm not taken. I'm a single man who is seeing someone." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?I don't think it's about the toxicity itself. That happens because those toxic men often have things to compensate for their toxicity. Above average looks, big dick, good income, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?I know it may be a dumb question, but what's the difference between a fuckboy and a player? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:44 PM |
| 4 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Being overweight with a beautiful face and big tits (or ass) at the same time is like being a thin woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:02 PM |
| 9 | If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead?Here is the thing: Straight men already have much lower standards than straight women. As a matter of fact... Did you ever see a man with a bedframe saying that he doesn't fucks/dates women without bedframes? Did you ever see a man with a car saying he doesn't fucks/dates women without a car? Did you ever see a man with a stable job saying he doesn't fucks/dates unemployed women? Did you ever see a man with decent social skills saying he doesn't fucks/dates socially awkward women? Women are not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:57 PM |
| 2 | "Don't fuck a man on the first date because he will ghost you" is terrible advice. And here is why.Modern problems require modern solutions, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:44 PM |
| 19 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.Unpopular opinion: The existence of ultra-realistic sex dolls are not a byproduct of male depravity or the dehumanization of women. They are a by product of the fact that straight women can get sex (and affection) much easier than straight men. If straight men had the same access to dates and sex that straight women have, those realistic dolls would not even exist in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?I'm socially awkward (autism's fault not mine but still true). This alone makes me very hard to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldHonestly? I wouldn't say women are attracted to assholes. Not being trash is a good thing? Sure, but it's not everything. To put things in perspective, let me make you a question: Imagine a restaurant where the food is the most mediocre thing you've ever seen. Not actively bad, but mediocre. Bland. Literally the most unimpressing restaurant you know. The only quality the food has is "not making you sick". Would you eat at a restaurant with mediocre food(so mediocre you can actually made a dish o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:59 PM |
| -1 | Why so many people against thisHer body shape is beautiful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women?Start by doing the basics: Use condoms, eat pussy, don't be obese, have basic grooming skills, have basic hygiene, know how to carry a conversation and... be a genuinely good person. Not someone is only nice to people who have something to offer. The bar for men is low, and it's totally okay to take advantage of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:51 PM |
| 25 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.You're right! But my point is that... Dude, women should stop complaining about the bar for men being "low". The bar for them, like I said earlier, is even lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.I'm a single man and I always pay the bill on the first date, but I HATE the social norm of men having to pay. Men have to do all the effort, it's an exhausting thing. Matched with woman on Tinder? Man has to send the first message. You two are scheduling the first date? Man has to plan. You two are going on the first date? Man has to pay. You two are going to fuck on a motel? Man has to pay... again. No one here is asking women to be the chasers and men the chased, but having to do all the effo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 11 | Are men naturally polygamous?No. All of this "men are naturally polygamous" cliché is merely a pretext to justify male cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:34 AM |
| 43 | Why are men expected to bring something to the table and women aren't?It's not me. It's a random print I found in the wild. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Maturity. I'm 25 and I think a woman over 25 is more mature than any woman my age. I would totally date a woman over 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy Mega-Threadhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaEv_Ja9xOg Here it is. I made a claim and I have a link to back it up. I may be a lot of things, but a liar? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 10:46 PM |
| 20 | Female Dating Strategy Mega-ThreadWhen a sub releases a podcast with a "Bodyshaming Men for Their Own Good" title, I don't think it's a sub we should inspire ourselves in... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Fds is now gone, thoughts?I won't say I'm happy, because even thought that was an extremely hateful and unhealthy, the hateful and unhealthy people inside that sub won't change just because the sub was shut down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex.Well, I think this is not about male entitlement, it's about cunning and dishonest women who string men along on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | can men and women be friends without attraction?It is. Thinking men are so depraved that they are incapable of having genuine friendships with women is not only false, but also extremely dehumanizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:30 AM |
| 34 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueYeah, it really doesn't makes sense. Why so many men judge women for having sex on the first date, then proceed to have sex on the first date? It's ok to have sex on the first date, but don't judge women for doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 07:57 PM |
| 8 | [35-F] I am strong values, principles and family-oriented person that's why I've wasted my timeuntil now, that I want the love of my life. BTW, it must look like the guy in the pictureI'm gonna call 911 because I just witnessed a MURDER here! 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateI think the best way is both people paying for what they order. If the man ordered more, he pays more. If the woman ordered more, she pays more. Instead of that "the man pays for everything" cliché, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:10 PM |
| 25 | [33-F] Men do not put any effort anymore like when I was in my 20's, men have no friends anymore. If you want a friend, tame meI will never understand people in dating apps who badmouth the opposite sex in their profiles... Don't they know it's a thing that makes them look bitter? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/22 06:47 PM |
| 108 | Oh no! Pageantry Princess can’t keep Chad interested. Must be anybody and everybody’s fault but her own. With so much to offer why can’t she just find a nice guy™️? Must be the patriarchy."It's the fact men just can't keep it in their pants and stick to one woman." Ooooh, that classic move of treating men like irrational sex-crazed animals instead of actual human beings... Classic! And for a bonus, the subtle implication that ALL men cheat. Disappointing, but not surprising. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/22 10:57 PM |
| – | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.Considering there are people more outraged by paternity tests than by paternity fraud, I totally understand you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Men's standards are too lowYeah, straight men are literally the less picky people inside all the dating pool. One of the biggest arguments to back this claim up is the money subject. Men care way less about money than women. As a matter of fact... Did you ever see a man (who lives alone) flirting with a woman and losing his interest just because she lived with her parents? Or a man with a car losing interest in a girl because she had no car? Or an employed man losing interest in a girl because she was unemployed? Or a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:00 PM |
| -1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI'm not talking necessarily about sex, I'm talking make-out sessions too. Make-out sessions are not sex, but they are still physical intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesWhile I think women should not be judged for not putting out on the first date (and the ones who put shouldn't too), my line of reasoning is: "If she doesn't puts out on the first date, she's probably not attracted to you." It's not about getting sex itself. It's about her being attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What would make you decide that you and a guy are sexually incompatible?I know it may be a dumb question, but what's the difference between "aggressively bad sex" and "bad sex"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?I feel genuinely bad for single women over 25 who get judged for not wanting to be in a relationship. I mean... If they wanna remain single, leave them alone! They don't deserve to get gratuitous flack for it. It's better to be have a happy life single than a miserable life taken, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?I think single men over 25 should not get flack for wanting to remain single. It's okay to be a single man over 25 and wanting to get only casual things like one-night-stands, sex on the first date and friends-with-benefits relationships. If you are not stringing women along with false hopes of a serious relationship, you're not harming anyone. Why men over 25 get so much flack when they don't wanna have a serious relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?Being a mean-spirited person. A woman can earn 6 figures a month, have Nicki-Minaj levels of hotness and sex appeal and drive a 7 figures car. But if she is a shitty person on her insides, she STILL is low-value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Wha...what in the fYes, that's exactly the point. Dating a person under ulterior motives is wrong, no matter the resource aimed (looks, money, social prestige, etc) and no matter the gender. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Wha...what in the fIt's okay to date rich men, as long as you like them as actual people and their money is just a plus. Dating rich men solely for their money is wrong. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 27 | Brutally honest mom lists all of her red flags but is ready to settle downI don't wanna sound biased, but... Did you guys ever noticed a pattern? Problematic men and problematic women: they both exist, but only problematic women are comfortable and open about how problematic they are. It's almost like they didn't feel any desire on changing and being better. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Gentleman gets charged an extra 131,445 minutes for physical relationsIt's funny that there is a adult comic where a single guy asked for a blowjob, a married woman denied at first, then he responded with: "A blowjob is not cheating." And yes, she blew him. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 11 | Woman regrets turning down nice guys after dating bad boys and getting older, suggesting that the men she rejected are now either married, dating, or no longer interested.She has just realized that they are better for her ego. You just nailed it with perfection. I would give you an award if had gold, seriously! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | “I do not believe in ‘hook ups’ anymore” is a weird way to say “I already played the game, and I lost”Your title is on point. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 8 | He's perfect... But I gets no tingles 😢women in the dating pool: "MeN aRe TrAsh" also women in the dating pool: | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 10 | How dare an app that’s for hookups be filled with people looking for hookups.I already hate when attractive women put this "no hookup" bullshit, but seeing unattractive women doing it is even worse. I mean... Lady, you're already unattractive. You should be glad someone would want to hook up with you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismWhy exactly did you entered the law subject if those women aren't underage? Barely legals and early 20s aren't minors, no matter how the woke media tries to convince us otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 03:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismOne thing that I consider very unfair is how society shames older men for hooking up with younger women. Not talking about female teenagers. I'm talking about:barely legals (18-19), early 20s, mid 20s and late 20s. But mainly pre-25 women. Geez, they are hooking up just because the woman consented. There is no genuine concern about the well-being of young women.It's just a shameless excuse to attack male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 11 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?Having good personal hygiene and grooming skills Having basic emotional intelligence Having basic empathy skills Not engaging in destructive or illegal behaviours like reckless driving, bar fighting, street fighting, illegal car races, alcohol and/or drugs abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 76 | "I expect for you to pay for everything no questions asked."But she's right. He doesn't deserves her. He deserves better. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 89 | Speaks for itselfYeah! You actually made me remember a term called "rape by fraud" which I've first heard in a video from that woke Youtube channel called "The Take". "But what would be this rape-by-fraud concept, mate?" [Rape by fraud would be when a man lies about something (his relationship status, his financial situation, his job, etc) in order to get sex.] As much as I think that (in some degree) lying to get sex is morally wrong, it's very problematic to frame it as a form of rape. First, because it's dang… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth.Also, you remember when Cardi B publically stated that when a straight couple celebrates Valentine's Day, the gift the woman receives should always be more expensive than the gift the man receives? No, I'm not lying. Don't you think this double standard is unfair, even if it benefits women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth.The question is not being a dating coach, the question is the bullshit those people are feeding women. Healthy advice: "If you are a straight woman, date a man who likes you in the same intensity you like him. Or even more, but not necessarily more. Equal or more, but never less, ladies." Unhealthy advice: "If you are a straight woman, only date a man if he likes you MORE than you like him. Not even equal. MORE." The first is a reasonable and rational advice. The second is an advice grounded on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth.These dating coaches are teaching women to control their partners. Yeah, exactly. And relationships should not be about control/dominance. They should be about mutual benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth.I would totally give you an award if I had one in my inventory. Your comment was THAT good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 3 | She literally tells you to fill out an application to be her date. And the application basically boils down to how tall you are.That's why I hate to my guts that "men are shallow" stereotype. Dude, we literally live in a world where wonderful men are rejected by petty and shallow reasons like this ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME. There will be people who will call me out for using that "both sides" cliché right now, but honestly? I will say it: Straight women are as shallow as straight men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 18 | Almost 34-yo TikTok Woman Has An Epiphany About Missing The Ship Relationship-wiseI know my comment is pretty cliché, but... Dude, I hate to my guts seeing post-30 women and single moms complaining about "not finding love". Sis, you had your chance when you were young and attractive. Why did you waste it? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | This women is proud of the fact she cheated on her husband and encourages EVERY WOMEN to cheat on their partners at least once. Because they are missing out on apparently the "best feeling in the world" . I made a video calling out her bs! Hope you enjoy!"Why men see us as emotional creatures?" | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/21 08:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Dude, we are literally talking about a forum that refers to men as "dildos that don't vibrate". How someone so antagonistic to men will have a healthy straight relationship? Also, their gender-based entitlement is ridiculous. They actually agreed that tweet from Cardi B saying that when a straight couple exchanges gifts in the Valentine's Day, the man should buy a more expensive gift than the woman. They can't be pro-gender-equality if they don't actively treat men as their equals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | It's insulting to insinuate that our times equivalent to the cost of coffee. Perhaps less if they expect us to pay for our own.Smooth as a sandpaper sheet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/04/21 03:36 AM |
| 3 | It's insulting to insinuate that our times equivalent to the cost of coffee. Perhaps less if they expect us to pay for our own.Did you guys realized some kitnd of irony about that sub? They complain about men being transactional creatures, but they think men have the obligation of spending too much in a first date, or he is "not taking you seriously". So those ladies just go on first dates for the place, and not the man himself? I guess they are the transactional ones. Pure projection. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/04/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Imagine if the genders were reversed“Why is every pretty girl with a horrible looking man?” Aren't there straight couples where both parts are good-looking? | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/04/21 01:33 AM |
| 8 | Hoes mad about bad Chad and Brad getting glad. They feel had!!! 😠😤😡🤬"Getting physical when I didn't feel like it" Geez, you are a grown woman. You can say the word "no". It's not our fault if women have this terrible habit of saying "yes" when they wanna say "no" just because they way are too unconfrontational to say a fucking "no". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/04/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Will not accept.Yeah, men deserve a woman with a better attitude. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 8 | I’m a ham planet who doesn’t want to appear “rounder” than my bf. Luckily I just so happen to only like tall, skinny boys 🤭I would totally forgive the "out-of-shape" flaw if a girl compensated this personality-wise. But being out-of-shape and having a shitty attitude? Aw, come on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 6 | . She wants it all while only offering the 3 inches of real estate between her legs. Yass qween or some shitRock Star? Looks more like your run-of-the-mill groupie for me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Genuine question - why does a 5ft1 girl care if you're 5ft8 instead of 6ft?I would make fun of her attitude instead of her looks. Having someone insult you because of your looks strikes your ego. Having someone insult you because of the person you are inside strikes your soul. An ego is shallow, a soul is deep. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | i- this is clearly misandry 💀23:59 - Men got fragile egos 00:00 - This | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 3 | You nailed it u/Maseve"Men are shallow", they said | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 13 | Another girl asking for everything, while contributing absolutely nothing.Black woman not wanting black man. Internalized Racism 101 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Anytime someone argues that average guys are trying to date models and need to lower their standards, just hit 'em with facts.Straight men are WAY LESS picky than straight women. It's not a biased claim, just reality. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Can a meteor just hit us already?Most men aren't child molesters. Yet, a lot of women refuse to hire a male babysitter in fear he will molest their children. Most men don't cheat. Yet, when an individual man cheats there's a gazillion of women screaming that "men are all the same" bullshit. Most male Uber drivers aren't rapists. Yet, some women don't feel comfortable having Uber rides with male drivers. What is their fear of men, if not a shameless cherrypicking narrative? | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | She might have fabricated the note, but it's more proof of what is actually important to Strong Independent Bitches in a relationshit."real estate agent" = gold-digger | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Woman cheats on her bf and has the nerve to call him sexist for not agreeing to raise that child (translation in the comments)Brasil-sil-sil! Temos um BR. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 25 | How to tell when she's using r/FemaleDatingStrategy.I don't wanna enforce a "men are good, women are evil" narrative here, but honestly? I've NEVER seen a man poor-shaming a woman, but I've seen a LOT of women poor-shaming men. Straight men in general are much less picky than straight women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Peak r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMenWOMAN MOMENT WOMAN MOMENT | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/21 11:36 PM |
| 13 | I don't even get how someone comes to this comparison, a woman without a man is not fucking able to reproduceI love the way the average feminist complains about men not caring about helping women when they attitude towards men doesn't helps a single bit. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 4 | since y'all hate feminists so muchI've got nothing against lesbians, unless they are the ressented-with-men type. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Im utterly speechless on how BuzzFeed allowed this article to be publishedThe average feminist has THAT attitude towards men and still wonders why men don't care about making the world better for women. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I see women airing their hatred of men, I just know they've made bad decisions and they're blaming men."we are not a male-hating sub and we have faith that there are still good men" they said | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/21 01:34 AM |
| 75 | a post made by @thetinmen on instagram regarding the notion of "misandry only irritates"Girl-on-boy bullying Woman-on-man domestic violence False rape / physical agression accusations Bodyshaming against men Women marrying rich men only for their money Negative gender stereotypes against men (clichés about men having poor emotional intelligence, immaturity, lack of empathy, bad personal hygiene, bad communication skills, etc) General lack of sympathy from society toward men with depression and/or suicidal thoughts Parental alienation against fathers Sexual abuse against boys The be… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?In straight couples the man is usually taller but it's not something about men not wanting women taller than then, it's about women not wanting men shorter than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | The very thing that they "hate" being treated like (i.e. a "bangmaid") is exactly what they say men are. Extreme levels of hypocracy and 0/10 self awareness."Why men don't call out another men on their misogynistic jokes?" Because women don't call out another women in their hateful views on men. Respect is a two-way street. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/02/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | If we eliminate the simps, we eliminate the skanks. It's a great two for one deal!Sure, we love interacting with women who like us for our money and not for ourselves. /s | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/02/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Tit for tat.Even if she was attractive, it would not give her right of making men feel bad with themselves. But nice comeback anyway. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/02/21 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Gimme money because I have a pussyguy: *strikes so hard he gets blocked instead of blocking her* Windows: Task failed successfully | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Gimme money because I have a pussyI loved your ironic comeback. Imagine if men treated broke women like women treat broke men? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | FDS actually posted this image complaining about him. But is he wrong? No.Well, it depends. If nothing happened because the man didn't make a move, I understand. But if I go on a Tinder date, try to get physical with her (not necessarily sex, actually just making out is getting physical too) and she refuses, I will assume she's not attracted to me. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 21 | "don't treat men like humans" - endorsed by FDSWow, treating badly people who did nothing to hurt you just because of some bullshit criteria (gender). So progressive. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take longer for men to get over breakups then women (even if the men initiated)?Becase women have a lot of options available in her dating pool as soon as possible. Also, men to lose their "game" with women during a relationship, so when they come back to the dating pool their "game" is much smaller than the "game" he had before starting his last relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | A typical FDS poster and the proper responseIn my opinion, if she really wants to see you even a hotdog cart in the sidewalk will make her accept. Here in Brazil the hotdogs got much more than the sausage inside the bun. The average hot dog here got: sausage, grated cheese, shoestring potatoes, corn and mayo. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are inherently evilSo everything Aileen Wournos gone through before becoming a serial killer redempts her from all the evil she did? Her sob story doesn't makes her any less evil. She is a monster, just like John Wayne Gacy, Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Well..yeah, it's actually kinda gross. Natural, yes, but gross, same with sweat.I've already seen some pretty low-effort feminist post saying: "Imagine if men were disgusted by rape like they are disgusted by periods." In which planet those snowflakes live? Men accused of rape are lynched by other men, not women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/01/21 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Degeneracy at its peak- OnlyFansI'm totally okay with the existence of sex workers. If you stop to think about it, the existence of sex work is good because it's a way men can get sexual pleasure without attracting a woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Just "be kind and respect women" is horrible adviceI'm not supportive of fuckboyism. No man should be a jerk or a fuckboy, no matter if he is attractive or not. What I was trying to say is that while being nice is a good thing, there's no use if you have nothing to bring to the table besides being nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Just "be kind and respect women" is horrible adviceNot being trash helps? Sure. But it is the bare minimum, and by itself, it's almost nothing. Which is the use of not being trash when a guy: is ugly, has zero game, is socially inept, has less-than-basic grooming skills, is awful at sex and is a basement dweller who lives just to wank to porn and play videogames? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 8 | "Women are more mature" as a trope can mostly be explained by different experiences during puberty?This pedophilia topic is really something worth bringing up. I live in Brazil and it's EXTREMELY common to see early/mid-20 men hooking up with female teenagers. Early 2014, I already saw a 16yo girl saying publically in a social network that she had a make-out session with a 26yo guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 0 | "Women are more mature" as a trope can mostly be explained by different experiences during puberty?I'm not saying this because I'm male, but... the "girls are more mature" trope is sexism against men, just like the "women are too emotional" trope. Negative gender stereotypes are a subtle form of gender discrimination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Got this from r/Tinder (sorry if it's already been posted)What are sex workers doing on Tinder? No man wants to go out with someone who is clearly not attracted to him... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 24 | Hypocrites galore at FDS. Would love to see one for saggy tits, bad skin, fake eye colour, hair extensions and all the other fake shit the skip-mes at FDS have lmao.Yeah, and you know the worst part? They make men seem much worse beings than they actually are. And some vulnerable or naive women can buy their misandrist brainwash and start thinking that men are actually that bad. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 39 | Hypocrites galore at FDS. Would love to see one for saggy tits, bad skin, fake eye colour, hair extensions and all the other fake shit the skip-mes at FDS have lmao.It's very funny how they call men evil for bodyshaming women, but are okay with bodyshaming men. They are really progressive, or just when it suits their convenience? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 12 | Why do sexually successful men not complain about women if women are indeed the issue?Once I've read a phrase from a Brazilian Manosphere Guy that I've never forgot: "Women say they hate womanizers. The funny thing is that they are the men who get the most amount of sex..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | bunch of white knights come to her rescue after he slaps her backIf she slaps you first, don't slap her back. Wait for the second slap. After the second slap, punch her solar plexus. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/01/21 11:15 AM |
| -1 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.As much as I agree with this "sex is not a right" motto, I support that decision of a random country (probably Netherlands) of making handicapped men getting escorts from the pocket of government. Men losing virginity to escorts when they reach 18yo is a social convention that exists just because male virginity is a much bigger hindrance to have sex than female virginity. If male virginity was not an obstacle for having sex, straight men wouldn't be losing their virginity to escorts. I live in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | I found this group on Facebook. Pure vitriol.They don"t give a single fuck about the well-being of children. All they want is an excuse to monstrualize men. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.I have a lot of female friends, and the friendships just work because I'm not attracted to them. But I wouldn't be friends with someone I have attraction, but will never get a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | This is soooo cringy: imagine "winning" an argument against yourselfImagine if he right off the bat said "I'm unemployed"? She would still be mean to him, and lose the interest no matter how nice he was | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | From r/ChoosingBeggarsthe art of female entitlement | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Heavily downvoted on Feminism subreddit just for saying women can rape men too. And then feminist say that they are empathetic towards male rapes too. Lmao bullshit. They fucking hate it when they realize they are not the only victims around.Women who complain about men being selfish creatures are the same who don't have sympathy for: Men with depression Suicidal men Male rape survivors Woman-on-man domestic violence victims (no matter if he survived or not) ...solely because those people are not female. The epitome of selfishness is not caring about someone just because this someone is not your equal. Showing kindness (only) for your equals is not kindness. It's selfishness. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | I guess only men have to take responsibility for their actions...sighThose women are the same who shame men for having sex with escorts. Specially the ones who lose their virginities with them. Dude, the social habit of young men losing virginity to escorts just exists because, unlike female virginity, male virginity makes you less attractive to the opposite sex. Virgin women have no problem getting laid. Virgin men, however... | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 9 | Since when men have the obligation of wanting commitment?Men who use dating apps have no obligation of wanting commitment, no matter how old they are. What's the problem of wanting non-serious things like one-night-stands and FWBs in your mid 40s? | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 23 | Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men.Woman rejects a man because he's shorter than her: nobody calls her shallow Man rejects a woman because she's taller than him: OH MY GOD, YOU ARE SO INSECURE Why women being insecure is socially acceptable and men being insecure is not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:54 PM |
| 64 | Because only women are allowed to give compliments right?All they want is an excuse to treat men badly. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/11/20 10:45 AM |
| 9 | Broke women want equality until its time to pay the billsI'm totally against this "men have to pay the entire bill" social rule, but it's not a money issue. As I said, it's not about the money. It's not that simple. The question is: If a woman is going to a first date with a guy and demands that he pays for the entire bill alone, she went to the date for HIM or for the FOOD? For the food. If you're not going to the date for him, you shouldn't go the date in the first place. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's insensitive to bring up that "men traumatize the others with their violent suicide methods" in a discussion about male suicide?This remark of "both women and men to kill themselves but at least women don't traumatise their loved ones when they kill themselves" was something I've seen from a random feminist on Twitter first, then one time in FDS, then some more times in other reddit subs, then another time in FDS. How the fuck can they be so willing to shit on men? They don't wanna add anything to the debate of "male vs female suicide". It's just an excuse to complain about how men are evil. Well, at least that's the imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, the simple fact of men having a sex drive is disgusting.If you don't like male strangers liking pics of your body, don't post pics of your body. Or... I don't know, make your account private. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Apparently, the simple fact of men having a sex drive is disgusting.Yeah, I understand. How those women don't start questioning their own way of seeing men? The way they see men is totally unhealthy and biased. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Apparently, the simple fact of men having a sex drive is disgusting.Indeed, what's wrong about getting aroused with non-nude pics? Bikini, lingerie, croptops, etc. Touching yourself is not harassment. Unsolicited dick picks and sexual harassment are. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Apparently, the simple fact of men having a sex drive is disgusting.Come on, that sub is infinite material. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 4 | The reason why a lot of women cheat on their partner is not because of hypergamy but because most men turn into beta males once they enter a relationshipLooks like victim blaming with extra steps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Do sexually inexperienced men actually have it much worse than promiscuous women?The point of the argument is not only about obtaining casual sex itself, but also she knowing someone desires her. At least she is not invisible to opposite sex, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manI would agree or disagree with you if I knew bisexual men enough. I AM a bisexual man after all but I can't agree because it may sound a little biased, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manSo they are as well-groomed as gay men even being attracted to women? Well, that's interesting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 07:02 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manSo bisexual men are an inbetween level? (Not being a jokester, I'm genuinely curious.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 8 | I mean, it’s not like men contribute a large part of our children nowadays, it’s not like we get framed for being pedophiles for just being around children, it’s not like we lose almost every divorce court case.Female Dating Strategy. A clusterfuck of bitter and hateful women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 92 | I mean, it’s not like men contribute a large part of our children nowadays, it’s not like we get framed for being pedophiles for just being around children, it’s not like we lose almost every divorce court case.FDS is an internet sewer. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?Well, if you exchanged numbers and never interacted after that I would say it's not ghosting. I would say ghosting is breaking contact with someone who you contacted regularly, replied fast, were interested, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?I hate when someone I'm flirting with (despite I already scored the person or not) breaks contact with me without saying beforehand. They could have the guts to say: "Hey, I'm not attracted to you anymore. Don't take it personally. If you want, we can chat as friends." But breaking contact out of the blue leaving me wondering what I did wrong? Like I said before... People has feelings. And there are long-term negative effects on your mental and emotional health: After each ghosting experience, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?Cutting contact out of the blue, with no previous warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 01:21 PM |
| 13 | [Q4All]What are you thoughts on Ghosting?Ghosting is for cowards. People has feelings, and we should have consideration with people's emotional and mental health. The real bummer about ghosting is: The person ghosts you, then you start overthinking about what you did wrong. And most of the times, you did nothing. Nobody deserves to go through the emotional distress of asking to themselves "What I've done wrong?" non-stop just because some shitty person with no consideration about the people's feelings decided to leave without explanati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Then why women get all the bad reps like names such as "sluts" ? Because in the seduction game.... men conquer, women give in. There's no merit in giving in. Who does the entire effort in the straight flirting? Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?Well, women could go with us and grab something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?If I realize she's not fine despite saying I'm fine, it's obvious I will ask her what's going on. I'm not that bad at communication. But it's really a pain in the ass when men actually want to help but women don't vent, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?If women say "no", they can't blame men for understanding their speech as a "no". If women mean "yes', they should say "yes". Not "no" in hopes we understand her "no" as a "yes". I mean... No means no, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?So "no means no" is just for some contexts, not all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?Bingo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:36 PM |
| -1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?I see. But well, women wanna get the treat, right? If they say "no", there's a chance he won't bring anything, and the chance of he bringing something in surprise. But if they say "yes", it's granted they will bring something. What's better? Saying "no" and risking not getting a treat, or saying "yes" and having the treat granted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?This is not about me individually. We are talking in a social (not individual) panorama. A lot of men struggle communicating with women because they aren't clear enough. Want an example? Sometimes, when a man hits on a female friend, she uses that "I won't give you a shot because it can ruin our friendship" excuse to reject him. And some men are gullible enough to swallow that excuse. But then I ask you: Why exactly women don't say flat-out "You're nice and all but I'm not attracted to you"? Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?I've never experienced the 7/11 example (so far), but I know that some men have gone through that. But I was bringing it to articulate my point, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Should men be lowering or upping their standards?Well, it depends. Having low standards is not a merit if you are unattractive. In order to balance your standards, you need to be self-aware enough to pinpoint how attractive you are, then making your standards as high/low as your attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I don't know why women get so mad when hearing "not all men".A lot of women who say "sex isn't a need" are the same who cheat on non-abusive men because he sucks at bed. You know that, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't know why women get so mad when hearing "not all men".Yeah! I mean... As much as I hate male shitty behaviour, taking advantage of when men behave badly just to reinforce a "men are the worst" narrative is a terrible thing to do. It doesn't make men behave any better, and also just prejudices men who KNOW how to behave. Assuming all men cheat doesn't make men cheat less, it just prejudices men who DON'T cheat. It doesn't applies just to cheating, but I guess you got the message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 0 | I don't know why women get so mad when hearing "not all men".Media: *shows an article about a famous man cheating* Bitter woman: omg men are all the same, they call cheat, no one of them is nice yadda-yadda Random man: you know you shouldn't judge people like by their gender, right? Bitter woman: STOP GETTING DEFENSIVE WITH THIS "NOT ALL MEN" BULLSHIT YOU FUCKING SCROTE Men have no guilt in trying to call out female shitty world views. If women don't wanna hear "not all men", maybe they should have more healthy views on the opposite gender... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't know why women get so mad when hearing "not all men".Well, in this case I get what you say. I mean... one thing is trying to fondle your own ego when women narrate their bad experiences with men, but calling out women about their unhealthy ways of seeing and portraying men is another, right? "Not all men" is statement used in both cases, but I thinks it's wrong to get defensive in the second. In the first case, it's totally ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 6 | I'm honored to announce I have been banned from r/femaledatingstrategy without even participating in the subSJWs are so tolerant and progressive, right? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/10/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about pickup artists?In the "Muscles" item you're talking about muscles alone or the entire look (hair, face and body combined)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about pickup artists?You're almost convincing me that game is more important than external signs (not just looks, I'm talking about money too, like a good job, a nice house, a fancy car, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about pickup artists?So 4/10 men can score 9/10 women with game alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about pickup artists?In my opinion, while having game IS important, external signs (like dressing well, being well-groomed and having a nice body) are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Another truth from a 19 yr old femaleWith opinions like that, can we blame straight men in their early 20s for hooking up with female highschoolers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.Actual high-value-women are not so bitter and hateful towards men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | No you should not expect a guy to still be talking with you as friends after you reject him.I'm glad your empathy skills are good enough to understand my viewpoint. Some women would try to guilt-trip me into befriending a woman who rejected me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 06:27 AM |
| 3 | No you should not expect a guy to still be talking with you as friends after you reject him.Oh, I totally get your point. It's a reasonable fear. But... my point is the following: I'm attracted to a woman, make a move on her, she turns me down for not being attracted to me back (which is her right) and then pulls this "hey wanna be my friend?" move. I mean... If I'm attracted to a woman and she is not attracted to me back, why would I accept to put her inside my life if she would never give us a shot? I'm all for female friendships (indeed, roughly 90% of my friends are women), but I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 2 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)You are right. But at the same time, I still feel bad for men who happen to be genuinely nice but unlucky with women for being unattractive for another reason. I mean... Men don't deserve a pat in the shoulder for doing the bare minimum, but considering there men shitty enough to do LESS than the bare minimum and still getting laid, I don't blame men for their "I'm not trash, where's my SO?" kneejerk reflex. I'm not saying it's a justified reflex. I'm saying I understand where they are coming fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 04:42 AM |
| 4 | No you should not expect a guy to still be talking with you as friends after you reject him.I really hate when I go on a Tinder date, there's no chemistry and she offers me her friendship. It's like: "Listen up, I know we flirted a lot before our date and I didn't even got physical with you, but if you want you can hear me complaining about other guys who happen to be much less nicer than you but still get a shot with me anyway. Are you up to it, OP?" Hell no! If we went on a date and you got no attraction for me, I don't want you as friend. Why should I keep you in my life knowing I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)My looks are good? No, they are average-to-good at best. (People say it's better than that, but that's my opinion about my looks) But heart-wise? I'm an angel. Friendly and kind in an almost Sponge Bob level. I can come as naive and socially awkward sometimes but that doesn't make me, like... a downright EVIL person, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)As much as I understand your reasoning, I really dislike this "most single men are single for being jerks" argument. Since when not being a jerk alone is a guarantee of anything? Men have to bring more to the table than not being a jerk. Most single men are not single for being jerks. Most single men are single for not being attractive enough. It can be a lot of things: being ugly, having less-than-basic grooming skills, having poor social skills, being too shy/homely, having no self-confidence,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)Simply not being a shitty person. If you're male and you're not evil, you're a good man. It's that simple. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)They say bodyshaming is wrong, but are the same who think it's okay to make short men feel bad with themselves (or men with small dicks). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 2 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)Yeah, both sides are wrong. That's basically what I meant with the parent comment. Young women who fake love for a rich man just because of his money are as trash as men who fake love for a gorgeous woman because of her looks. This is not about justifying bad behaviours of men just because "women do something similar". It's about dismantling a double-standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)I understand your point, but... Don't you think it's wrong approaching rich men and pretending to genuinely like them? Being nice to people with ulterior motives is wrong, just sayin'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | According to mainstream feminist media saying "men are gross" is funny jokes !! when they say "smash patriarchy" they are talking about men. feminism is not about equality between men and women, egalitarianism is.Women laugh their ass off with articles like this and go "Misogynistic jokes are not funny" towards men. I don't feel bad for women for all the shit their hear about their gender in a daily basis. Do they feel bad for us? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/10/20 06:44 PM |
| 10 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)Don't criticize shitty behaviours in men if you don't criticize then in women. 'Cause... You know, self-awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 10 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)The funniest part about FDS is criticizing male shitty behaviours and then condoning those same behaviours when WOMEN do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 14 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)FDS girls be like: "Men are horrible for liking women for their looks, but liking men for their money is ok" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)The funniest part is that, yes, dicks that big do really exist in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 6 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)Listen, I get your point. But you mind I telling mine? The point is that all those women who try to justify their shitty love lifes with those "men are trash" and "men are all the same" bullshit clichés are wrong. They're saying that their love life is shitty because of a lack of good men. Their love lifes can be horrible by many reasons, but by a shortage of good men in the dating pool? That's plain bullshit. There are plenty of men in the dating pool who aren't jerks. If women actually knew th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 30 | FDS in a nutshell. (Puuurge)Most men in the dating pool are nice. Women get hurt because they don't know how to choose. Edit: Clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Apparently a girl is a pick me because they believe that men shouldn’t be forced to pay for everythingI'm all for men paying the first date, as long as they do it on their own volition and not because the woman imposed it to the date. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/10/20 04:26 PM |
| 10 | Apparently a girl is a pick me because they believe that men shouldn’t be forced to pay for everythingI genuinely hate when women have this "I just go out with you if you pay the first date alone" rule. Are you going with him because of his company or for the food? Men are people, not means you use to get an end. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 93 | Users in r/femaledatingstrategy complaining about men using the word "female" in a sub that literally contains the word "female" 😂They use the word "scrotes" for men. Zero self-awareness! | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.Sorry for not bringing that up earlier, but actually I'm not white. I'm latino (South America). But you know real life is not a Get Out movie, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.Most of my friendships are with women, if you wanna know. What really pisses me off is interacting with a female stranger and then BOOM! She stops being friendly towards me after finding out I'm not gay. Damn, it's almost like straight (and bisexual men) were so primitive creatures that they cannot bond with women without an ulterior motive. It's very sad living in a world where some women are think so low of us... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.I'm sorry for that. Hope you learn to be more trustful of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.A lot of black people know about white privilege and still understand that not wanting to interact with white people is downright intolerant. Imagine being white, being a wonderful person, being friendly to a black person and he/she not being friendly towards you back just because you're white? Don't be so narrow-minded, pal. White people before being white, are people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.So you don't have, like... close male friends? Who vent to you, you vent to them, they go see you in hospital when you're sick, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.Guess I'm a seahorse! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.I'm sorry for you going through this. I really am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 01:23 PM |
| 47 | Making fun of this person that posted a valid reason isn't going to make your sexual experiences any betterWomen have serious communication problems. You go to a 7/11 with her, leave her in the car and: - Honey, do you want me to bring you something? - No, my dear. Just buy your cigarettes, okay? - All right, be right back. You get back to the car and she's like: - Why didn't you bring me something? - I've asked you and you told me about not wanting anything. If you wanted, why did you told me to not get you anything? And then she gets mad at you. If they want us to bring something, just tell it. J… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/10/20 07:01 AM |
| 6 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. A Tinder one-night-stand, a bloke in a dive bar, even a pizza guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.You have no obligation to befriend anyone if you don't feel like it, you're right. But honestly? We can't simply go there and be like: "John/Jane Doe is nice, but I won't befriend him/her because he/she's a man/woman/black person/white person/straight person/bi person/etc." I genuinely think black people who don't befriend white people on purpose are shitty human beings just like racist folks who don't befriend black people on purpose by pure racism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:14 AM |
| 3 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.You know that's pretty disrespectul towards men who don't lust after their female friends, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:10 AM |
| 3 | "I don't befriend men because they will try to get in my panties" is as problematic as that "I don't befriend women because they are too false" speech, but you're not ready for this conversation.It's just an opinion on gender issues, chill out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What are some real ways men can feel they have greater success with women that doesn't involve women changing?I don't wanna oversimplify it, but... I think it revolves around self-awareness and identifying your flaws. You don't like your shape? Try to gain muscle (if you are too skinny) or try to lose weight (if you are too fat). You are not satisfied with your social skills? Try to become a less socially inept person. With therapy, self-help books, life coaching, I don't know. Try to improve areas where you lack (or areas where you already excel and want to be better), and by consequence you will be mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Alice Coffin, french feminist assumes her misandry and considers that "it's not enough to help each other, we need to eliminate them (men)".Feminism is like poison for female mental health. Since when a mentally healthy woman wants to avoid men so much? Like not having male friends, not talking to male relatives, etc. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Doors are oppressiveHope it's satire. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | What's something that you are ashamed to admit has attracted you?Slightly anti-feminine traits. Tomboyish wear (sports bra + boxers instead of bra + panties, not using skirts/croptops/cleavages/dresses, etc) Body hair (armpits, shins, tighs, forearm) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 10 | If you have a small penis, maybe you're meant to commit suicide.So apparently bodyshaming men is ok. Wow, those women are so progressive! | /r/MensRights | 18/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 47 | Yet again men are blamed entirely for things that have also been perpetuated by women in both the past and presentThis tweet just illustrates how selfish feminists are: They want men to go to therapy for the well-being of women, not their own. But women should go to therapy for their own well-being. You guys notice a standard? Men should care about the well-being of the others, women should care about their own well-being. Those people give zero fucks about the well-being of men, it's incredible. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.As I said, I'm totally supportive of men going to therapy. But it's for their OWN well-being, not for the well-being of their female coworkers/friends/relatives, etc. I brought up that "selfishness" card because of two tweets (about men doing therapy) I saw in Portuguese, but I will translate. 1- "If you're male, go to therapy to try being less of a shitty person and not hurting people next to you because of your lack of emotional maturity" 2- "Men, if you really want to help your partners, DO T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.I don't dismiss them. Indeed... I feel very important when someone is feeling bad and opens up to me. Always a people opens up to me, after their vent I always feel like: "Thank you for trusting me enough to open up to me! I'm so happy for helping you, thank you again!" And, yes, my social skills are painfully bad but... well, I'm autistic. Not that my disability should be used as an excuse, but... yeah, I have Asperger if you want me to be more specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.It's a good start knowing that, but the real hardship is knowing the difference of being an emotional leech and a normal human being who is emotionally distressed sometimes. Being a nuisance unintentionally is an awful thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.What you say makes a lot of sense, but... Damn, I don't know. Since the first time I heard this "men want unpaid full-time therapists in their female friends and partners", I always get a little paranoid about venting. I feel like: "Alright, I'm feeling bad and telling this to a female friend. But what if I'm unknowingly making her do unpaid emotional labour to me? I don't wanna be an emotional burden to her, not even unintentionally." It really makes me be a little guilty about venting. Don't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.Oh, I see. So it's okay to vent, as long as you don't use your partner as sole target because she can feel overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.I actually go to therapy since 2010, 10 years straight, since 13yo. And your "Go to therapy" phrase really made me want you ask you a question. I'm totally supportive of men starting therapy, but... You want men to start therapy for the well-being of who: The women in their lives, or the men themselves? Asking men to go to therapy for the well-being of women is pure and simple selfishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:28 AM |
| -1 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.I understand there are men who, indeed, treat women like emotional crutches. Not necessarily girlfriends/wives, but female friends or female relatives. And it's wrong! There's a difference between getting emotional support from women and making them your personal 24/7 unpaid therapists, but... The way some women portray this subject is like men should be viewed as burden when they are sad and want to talk to someone. This "unpaid emotional labour" narrative really disencourages men even further … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term.The question is not about price per se, it's about the term itself and its context. We keep hearing this "men should learn how to open up and allow themselves to feel vulnerable" cliché, and then after men lowerings their shields, they hear: "Men do way too much emotional labour to their partners, looks like any woman with basic empathy skills in an unpaid therapist for them" or anything along these lines. Honestly? Those people are NOT concerned about the mental health of men. All they wanna do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | THIS is what a modern 'therapist' looks like. Female, privelleged by the courts, abusive, blaming males (her OWN young sons), avoiding responsibility. No wonder men cant get decent unbiased therapy anywhere & theres a mental health crisisYou don't seem reasonable, sorry. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | She acknowledges her benefits as a femaleSmart and sensible women... | /r/MensRights | 09/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | BBC article focuses entirely on female suicide despite 3/4 of UK suicide being men. Men are mentioned in 2 lines, the rest of the article is how awful it is for women.This is a simple summary of how it feels to be male: Society grabs a random problem that affects both men and women, but acts like just women gone throught that. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/20 12:17 AM |
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