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That's better, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:24 AM
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I'm sorry your experiences made you think so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:01 PM
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What a sick fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:00 PM
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It's been six years lol I'm during the process of curing my depression. Recently realized that meeting and seducing girls IRL is actually easier than online. It hasn't always been such obvious for me. Yesterday I went for a walk with a girl I met on Tinder. She's somewhat chubby, so I wasn't really enthusiastic about her, but her personality turned out to be positive surprise. She pretty much openly expressed desire to bang me, but let's see what happens when I visit her. Unfortunately I don't h…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 09:19 PM
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Coming off as a trustworthy dude who respects other person's boundaries.
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:24 AM
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Asshole isn't assertive. By the definition asshole is aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:18 PM
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I have a hypothesis that a lot of women see assholes as "lesser evil" than a nice guy. An ideal man would be an assertive one. Since there's not many assertive guys out there, they prefer the douchebag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:22 PM
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Unpopular opinion: being an asshole isn't actually that simple. I personally would find it very difficult and simply hypocritical. It's not me. For many men, being a polite guy is the default setting that's not so easy to break away from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:19 PM
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I believe they don't necessarily lie, at least not all of them. They might genuinely believe in their own bullshit of "I just want a nice guy", yet respond with attraction to assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:17 PM
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Your place introvert/extrovert spectrum is determined pretty much at the time of your birth, whether or not you are bullied later in life There are successful famous charismatic introverts and there are loser outlaw shy extroverts. It's how our brains are wired and how they manage mental energy If you are bullied in childhood, this may make you shy sure, but it doesn't magically instantly rewire your neurons in completely different way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:18 PM
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No, it's the way brain is wired
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 PM
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You absolutely can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 PM
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You clearly don't know what an introvert is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:38 PM
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Not all of them I afraid, some of the men take rejection, even gentle one, very poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:30 AM
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I am a guy who knows the signals and would politely back off whenever a girl would give me a sign, subtle or not, of not being interested. The problem is women complain about being approached whatsoever. And someone here said that what they actually mean is they're tired of men not backpedaling after getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:10 AM
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I wasn't asking about the signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:41 PM
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Makes sense, thanks. Your mindset seems healthy, balanced and reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:54 PM
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Yes women will say I get tired of being approached when I’m shopping, working out, just trying to have fun with my friends. What we mean is “I’m tired of men who approach me and won’t back off when I send signals either subtle or overt that I am not interested.” How are we supposed to know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:41 PM
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Okay. First Google result https://www.marketwatch.com/story/married-couples-are-happier-than-everyone-else-especially-in-middle-age-2019-05-23
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:28 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:36 AM
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Now look up statistics of successful suicide attempts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:34 AM
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about twice as many women go to the doctor to get anti-depressant medication. This might be partially because men are les willing to admit they have a problem and ask for help
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:29 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:28 AM
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And although it's not fulfilling and doesn't make them happy, it's still better than celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:28 AM
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OP thinks they're smart by skipping the question of "which gender handles loneliness better" completely and starting with the premise that's not necessarily true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:27 AM
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Statistically it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:25 AM
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Honestly I wouldn't be so sure about the premise being true here. I personally know a lot of cases of women desperately needing to have somebody, some sort of boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:24 AM
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If they find him unattractive, they feel insulted and it's considered creepy If they find him attractive, then it's flattering and hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:57 PM
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It's not the most harmful/unhealthy way of discharging one's sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:36 PM
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Here's what society expects from men: If a guy is attractive, he should find a woman, marry her, be a nice loving husband, meet her every need and be like puppy who jumps around her. If a guy is unattractive, he should sit in a corner and cry quietly instead of complaining about his situation or even worse - changing it. An incel is expected to not disturb cool kids having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:57 AM
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Who are "you guys" and who is "us"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:50 PM
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Hell no, the answer is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:49 PM
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Breaking news: men don't want to have sex with every woman on the planet, only the ones they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:50 PM
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Yeah, but why should I follow your advice of not approaching women? They are not the only ones who get to decide this. In order for a sexual intercourse to occur there needs to be consent on both sides. And if I decide to not approach a woman that's willing to have sex with me... it seems like I prevented her from having sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:12 PM
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If I followed this advice, I'd probably be an incel Using this strategy, unfortunately some men will experience no female interest at all. That's fine. They just need to accept women don't like them and their genes were not meant to propagate. And how are you going to convince me that some random stranger's opinion about me not deserving sex is more important than my needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:46 PM
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Who are you talking about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:34 PM
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So being attractive makes a man shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:04 PM
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That's a good point. Women who fall madly in love with men who don't meet even half of the long list of standards encourage guys to not treat seriously women's standards in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:03 AM
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The way I see it, everyone is (and should be) allowed to have any standards they want, even if ridiculous. If they suffer because of their own standards, well... it's their problem. So dear Megan, either lower your standards to reasonable level or keep crying about not enough seven feet tall millionaires lining up in a queue for you. If you miss the opportunity to date a fantastic husband material just because of your standards, your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:01 AM
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I mean whenever a guy admits to have not-so-low standards, he gets mocked and criticized for this. FDS doesn't need living examples anyway - they laugh at "obese neckbeards that live with their mother and expect a submissive Victoria's Secret model"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:45 AM
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There’s nothing those people did to deserve that lifestyle except be born in the right place. From a different viewpoint, what did they do to deserve 1% privileged lifestyle in the first place? If you have roof above your head, effortless access to food, clean warm bed, clean running tap water and you even can afford having some hobbies, it does put you in the minority of most privileged people in the word. I personally am glad I've been born in my European shithole instead of North Korea, Afgha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:45 PM
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The world isn't divided between shy nerdy incels and 10/10 chads. If a guy gets laid once and even gets a girlfriend, does it make him entirely different not-nerd person? No. Still insecure, still full of issues, maybe even still sexually frustrated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:18 PM
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I dunno man, I dated and/or banged a couple of girls taller than me and believe me, I'm no Henry Cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:46 AM
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My personal experiences with taller girls seem to confirm this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:45 AM
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They don't necessarily know that. They actually expect that. Not necessarily righteously so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:45 AM
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Only some of them. I personally don't mind when girls are taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:44 AM
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I have hypothesis that a nerdy shy guy might actually be more likely to cheat on her. This is probably a guy who spent the majority of his life being unattractive and knowing it - he's used to idea of girls being repulsed by him. Once he gets his shit together enough to get his first girlfriend, he will probably be somewhat attractive to other girls. And after all these years of insecurity and loneliness, he might find it very difficult to resist the temptation to cheat once there's an opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:40 AM
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Loyal and caring sounds great but I do NOT want a submissive woman. I'd like one that knows her worth, doesn't need mental babysitting all the time and lets me know in an assertive way whenever I'm close to accidentally breaking her boundaries Overall as a 30 yo man I do not chase relationships and currently am interested pretty much only in casual sex. I'm unable to fall in love anyway, probably because of my chronic depression, but that's a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:30 AM
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Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:18 PM
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I feel like Joe Rogan is being hated pretty much for not being overly politically correct
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:14 AM
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If someone is openly sexist and shallow from the very beginning of their career, they tend to gather community of fans that expect him to be like this and aren't impressed by the shit this celebrity does. If someone is gentle and polite nice guy type, he gathers community of fans that appreciate them as the nice guy. If that nice guy tells one joke that's somewhat sexist, people are suddenly shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:13 AM
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Sometimes I even see mediocre looking men with really hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:22 PM
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Cheating Physical violence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:43 AM
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I feel like women naturally have better taste in clothing as compared to men I'm more likely to be able to safely drop my psychological guard among female friends as opposed to male ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:26 PM
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Being drunk makes everyone loosen up. Not everyone. Maybe almost everyone, but I seem to be an exception from the rule. One time I met a girl on tinder and before we landed in my bed on the first date, she got herself drunk. It's not the case of guy getting a woman drunk in order to easily get to her pants. I don't do that shit, since I don't really drink alcohol myself. Apparently she wasn't courageous enough when sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:26 PM
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Is it because women think conciously they want beta traits so they try and condition their man to be more alpha but become unattracted to them once they've succeeded? Well I think this might be the opposite. If a woman succeeds to settle down with bad boy alpha Chad, she subconsciously starts the process of conditioning the guy to become submissive nice teddy bear. When he resists the brainwash and keeps being rebellious, there's drama and fights. When he obligates, she loses attraction to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:47 AM
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I, as a heterosexual man, experience pretty much the opposite thing - I've had women fall in love with me and desiring me throughout entire long term relationship, while I was the one getting "bored"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:42 AM
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An absolutely mad thought here, but maybe, just maybe , most women also want to fuck their boyfriends and fuckability is a part of "boyfriend material". I'm pretty sure you're right, but I think OP is referring to girls who do one night stands with non-boyfriend material, but wait with sex with guys who they consider "boyfriend material"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:15 AM
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Monogamy holds society and civilization in boundaries. Without it we would probably be stuck in stone age. Nobody would ever invent or build anything, because men would be busy fighting each other for females. And females would be probably willing to mate only with the thin majority of the most attractive men. Monogamy is a system that "assigns" one partner for each person, therefore if someone has a partner "for granted", they don't have to compete for mates that much. So they can spend that ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:17 PM
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Thanks for clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:00 PM
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Are you implying righteous bullying? (Genuine question, not a rhetorical one)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:10 PM
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Makes me feel like a loser lol, I lost my virginity at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:08 PM
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Aaand what do you mean by calling them "the underdogs"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:15 PM
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teenagers who started sex late This doesn't make sense. If someone starts sex while still being a teenager, it's not really late
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:14 PM
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I'm a part of this phenomenon too. Not that I'm proud of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:49 PM
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The reason so many men only want to have sex is because culturally we’re told that is the measure of worth for a man. I feel like both you and OP are right at the same time when it comes to reasons behind men "looking for sex only"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:49 PM
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This reminded me of Johnny Soporno's "Sexual Cartel" theory. Look it up if haven't heard about it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:32 AM
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I always have a feeling that all the women who complain about their dating pool, do so because they reject quite a lot of men that aren't hot/cool enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:29 AM
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And/or dump the guy without ever having sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:26 AM
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Now I get it, thanks. Good point. It's ego inflation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:43 PM
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I feel like - a lot of times - guys say they want to keep it casual for their pride, not for any concrete reasons What do you mean? Could you please elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:00 AM
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I wish there were more women like you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:59 AM
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I feel like short girls are most likely to reject men because of their (too short) height... as opposed to taller girls. My personal experience seems to confirm this - more than half of the women I've been with are taller than me
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:29 PM
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Good point. There's a connection between judging others and judging oneself
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:06 AM
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I actually have this feeling even when not approaching girls lol. I'm an introvert, I hate when society gives unnecessary attention I never asked for. I avoid being in the centre of attention
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:06 AM
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Out of pure curiosity: does your wife fuck other people too?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:57 AM
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I wouldn't accept her back. I wouldn't accept her back either... as a romantic partner in a monogamous relationship. As one of the plates? Who cares
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:56 AM
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Turns out he’s still the gaslighting, verbally abusive prick she remembered and she ended it. Am I the only one here who doesn't fully believe in "ex bad guy" narration when a 20th girl tells her story of "difficult past"?
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:54 AM
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Honestly it's much better situation than dealing with girl that's madly in love with you and still wants to be seeing you despite you are not interested in relationships
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:01 AM
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I remember incel subreddits. Sometimes those guys put photos of themselves. I was shocked. The vast majority of them were just normal looking dudes, some of them definitely more handsome than me. Usually just lacked grooming.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 09:32 AM
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Most men don't realize just how valuable their attention and time is. That's a golden quotation right there
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:39 PM
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Girls can be interested in you and still give you each of the signs you mentioned. Maybe except last two ones lol. It's simply not true that those signs mean she's not interested at all.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:13 AM
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Fuck off, I said nothing about drugs
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:05 AM
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Introvert detected
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:27 PM
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I do agree with some of them (as with you shouldn't give multiple chances to a woman that always finds excuse to not spend time with you), but if I assumed she's not interested at every possible tiny obstacle, I'd probably still be a virgin
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:13 PM
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Met a girl on Tinder, went together to a pub, sat there and talked for like two hours. I could tell she got slightly drunk in order to make herself get laid. She was hesitant and reluctant to go to my place afterwards, but I wasn't intrusive. It's like she was struggling with herself, two of her sides (slutty and polite) fighting. There is nothing exceptional in this story, but since it took a couple of hours between meeting her in real life and taking her panties off, it counts as my fastest ho…
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:27 AM
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Unless a girl is already attracted to you sexually, it's like asking for being slapped in the face
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:31 AM
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They don't hate or despise these guys, which OP is a proof of
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:28 AM
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What are fuckboish pictures?
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:15 PM
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“I want to approach this cute girl because I want to get to know her, maybe we’ll vibe” This is the healthy mindset as opposed to "she's physically attractive, therefore I want to get her approval somehow without caring really that much about her personality"
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:54 PM
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There's three types of girls. Ones that are already attracted to you. And like I said you don't need good game to close that. Just don't fuck it up. Ones that are hesitant about their attraction towards you. These are the ones game teaches us to close. Ones that are completely not into you and/or in happy relationship, therefore no amount of game will get you this type of girl. The way I see it, seduction is mostly about picking up "type 2" girls. Of course at the same time it also does teach yo…
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:02 AM
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Isn't seduction about getting those hesitant girls instead of relying on ones that are initially attracted? I mean you don't need game for a girl who already really likes you, all you need is just not fucking this up
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:39 PM
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Convey it only if it actually genuinely fits your personality. If you're asking this question, it means it probably doesn't. At least not yet
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:29 PM
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I feel uncomfortable holding hands, because it might give a girl hope that I'm looking for a relationship
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:24 AM
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Excellent advice
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:03 AM
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There was this saying Man asking women for advice in terms of seduction is like hunter asking deer for tips on how to hunt them down And I find it to be accurate. It might seem counterproductive, because it compares killing and creating romantic/sexual relationship. But the reason women don't give men "effective" advice is that this would make women lose some control over the sexual market. And they still want to be in charge as much as possible. Also, I don't think many women actually understan…
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:01 AM
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You're not even supposed to get every girl once you do everything right. That's not how it works. It's hilarious when you said it didn't work. Being straightforward is good not because it gets you every girl. Because it doesn't. Being straightforward is excellent because you quickly learn whether or not there will be something sexual or romantic between you. If you got quickly rejected, consider yourself a winner as opposed to a guy who wastes his time and energy being friends with a girl for mo…
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:54 AM
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In my case being straightforward was literally the only strategy that worked. I lost my virginity after I started being straightforward.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:50 AM
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I feel like whenever girls say they don't like muscles, they either lie or mean extremely pumped up huge bodybuilder guys. They probably aren't aware that having just slightly athletic physique requires work in the gym
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:46 AM
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For people interested in improving their posture, I strongly recommend yoga
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:41 AM
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Step 1 : Be attractive. Seriously, I'm only half kidding. Being attractive gives you an edge as people want to open up to you. I don't think it's that simple. People (including hot girls) tend to open up to me, I seem trustworthy to them. Also I am pretty frequently approached by strangers asking for directions or something like that. Is it because I'm hot? No, because I'm not. I'm a short guy with average physique. My face is considered attractive by some people, but believe, I'm far from being…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 11:18 AM
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I mean it could be taken as a hilarious joke for some people lmao
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 11:14 AM
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I've been guilty of this in the past lol
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 07:35 AM
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My hypothesis is that arrogant assholes are just "lesser evil" than submissive SIMP pussies in the world where actual assertiveness is very rare
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 07:32 AM
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One of the sexual differences between the sexes is that as long as a girl is somewhat attractive, a guy knows that sex is going to be good, at least decent and somewhat satisfying. I am oversimplifying, but it does more or less work like that. However it doesn't work like that with women. Casual sex is lottery. If a woman goes home with a random dude she met at a club or on Tinder, there is high risk of him turning out to be shitty lover. Apart from other factors, such as possibility of her bein…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:49 AM
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I'm currently in a reverse situation. To be precise, I'm actually an average guy with casual person mentality and I'm dating a girl that's in love with me and a relationship is really important for her. Honestly I prefer casual sex though
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:15 AM
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Their advice is not naive, it is not "being nice". Female advice to men is self-serving advice designed solely to benefit herself and other women. From your mother to your sister to your best female friend: they will only ever give you advice that benefits women. I remember when I was a kid and my mother was giving me such advices. Treat girls nice, serve them like a peasant make every of their wish come true. Convenience of a random girl was more important to her than her son's happiness
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 07:27 AM
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They can’t tell you what has worked with the other guys because it goes against all that nice theoretical stuff and makes them look bad. Also I feel like a lot of women do not genuinely know what actually worked. So I was madly in love with that asshole for two years, but why? I have no idea why
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 07:06 AM
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Women want "naturals", winners of genetic lottery who are effortlessly successful. If a broke balding ginger seduces her with his charm and she falls in love, women don't want that. Meanwhile men in general just want to bang hottest girls. So yeah, both genders' goals are slightly different.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 07:05 AM
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There was this discussion on this subreddit about how women don't give a fuck whether man's accomplishments are the results of him luckily winning genetic lottery or his hard work. They actually prefer genetic winners and want to believe the man she's attracted to has effortlessly been successful alpha macho his entire life. I feel like this is similar case
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 07:03 AM
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Women want to have control over their dating life. By giving effective advices, they would give this power to men. They want to choose who they fuck and who they marry. They don't want to fall in love with short balding broke pickup artist who mastered some Machiavellian techniques.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 07:01 AM
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Deer doesn't want to be hunted for obvious reasons. Women don't actually want to be seduced (by someone who isn't perfect). Women want to maintain power in the seduction world. They want to still be in charge of sexual market. They want to choose who they fuck and who they marry. If a girl falls in love with some bastard - she loses control
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 06:59 AM
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I disagree. The way I see it, whenever girls give advices like "I like when men jump around me, give me flowers every day, treat me like a princess", they are actually being honest and genuine. In a way. Of course they want men to behave like that. It's pleasant and convenient. They actually do like it when men do that. However... This absolutely does NOT mean that this is behaviour that would make a man more attractive in her eyes. Quite the opposite actually. It is true that women like when me…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 06:38 AM
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I'd like to learn more about that topic. Do you recommend any sources?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 05:06 AM
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Eastern Europe, late 20s
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 05:05 AM
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I never said that I "want" to be shitty bf/husband material. It's just how I am because of my personality. And that's the main reason I prefer casual sex over relationships. It's the only way of managing my sexual life that has potential to give me happiness and satisfaction. My intention to post a thread was not to brag about girls falling in love with me. I wanted to discuss the phenomenon of women madly falling in love with fuckboys despite them being obviously awful choice for a lifetime par…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 10:27 PM
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Not having social media might be helpful at creating and maintaining mysterious vibe around you, which is super attractive to some women
/r/seduction14/03/21 05:59 PM
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Great point, very well explained
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I feel like my "I don't need you" subconscious vibe combined with physical affection might work like a magnet
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:26 PM
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Maybe I did give you some reasons to suspect that my ego is hyperinflated, but the truth is that that's not the case. Nah man, I don't really have that high self-esteem. The very reason I started this thread is that I know I'm a shitty boyfriend/husband material, nowhere near as attractive enough to "deserve" being fallen in love with. If my ego and self esteem was huge, I would probably think something along the lines of "No wonder they fall in love with me, since I'm so awesome". That's not th…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:25 PM
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Although the way I spend time with girls isn't typical "couple" things, I do admit that to some extent it's my fault for giving a little bit of boyfriend vibes. However the main theme of this thread is that you can give 97% fuckboi vibe and 3% boyfriend vibe and that's still more than enough for a girl to see you as a future husband anyway. A true lover doesn't really leave room for mis-interpretation. He pushes hard on the first date, or fucks her on the first night. She has no expectation what…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:22 PM
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Very well explained, feels like description of my dating philosophy
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:12 PM
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Yep, you're probably right
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 04:51 PM
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Give her mother your bone marrow, pay for her to get a medical degree, stay by her through a horrific accident...none of that matters. When she decides to leave you for an 'upgrade', you'll always be 'not a good fit, mean, abusive, an asshole," etc. I have a hypothesis that the very reason why I find myself unable to fall in love or get attached to a girl is deep subconscious prediction that she can leave me or cheat on me randomly at any time. This is me holding my emotional guard all the time.…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 04:50 PM
5

First of all I'd like to point out that I'm not as attractive as it might seem. You could easily find a viewpoint from whicu I might seem like a loser. I do struggle with rejection and not being attractive enough from time to time. It's not that every second girl throws herself at me. The statistic is much lower lol. I just happen to encounter from time to time girls who see me as 10/10 prince charming husband material, no idea why. I don't actually know the answer to this question. All I can do…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 04:44 PM
0

The phenomenon I described in this thread did happen to me a couple of times. You could call it a recurring pattern. However believe me or not, I'm not that attractive. In my life I did struggle with things like rejection or just not being attractive enough numerous times. You could easily find a viewpoint from which I might seem like a loser. It's just from time to time I come across girls who see me as a god, no idea why. I'd just like to clarify that it's not like every second girl throws her…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 04:27 PM
0

I'd like to point out that this post implies that the idea of "All Women Are Like That" is bullshit. Which I do agree with, however I suspect quite a lot of members of this subreddit still believe in AWALT
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:20 AM
1

Quality comment right here
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 07:38 AM
1

locking me in her flat and never letting me go Woah, that's a red warning sign right there
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 01:29 PM
1

Are you assuming that average member of this subreddit is so ridiculously attractive that he needs to prevent himself from accidentally seducing a happily married woman? I mean, I don't think it's necessary to act differently in presence of friendly couple.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 01:15 PM
1

I'm a guy who's not interested in watching sports on TV and whenever I feel left out while others talk about football, no one gives a shit. Oh, that's probably because I'm a man
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:05 PM
1

Wish it worked in my case
/r/seduction09/01/20 11:32 PM
1

Joe Rogan Experience
/r/seduction07/01/20 09:38 AM
1

Based on my experience I kinda agree, I'm in my prime right now so far and I'm getting better and I'm 28 years old.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 10:14 AM
1

Thank you. I'm very much interested in the transition between girls being repulsed by his looks and then girls chasing him
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:03 AM
2

Could you please elaborate more on your short natural friend?
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:17 AM
2

(girl never really ends up seeing guy’s personality ) Exactly. This is the part that pisses me off the most. They say they care about personality, but in reality they don't want to know my personality, they reject me before seeing it just because I'm not cool enough. Also I think it's not only about looks, for sure there's plenty of mediocre looking guys who get laid a lot because they are cool and popular
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:13 AM
2

The world doesn't give a fuck about my real self, if I never faked anything then I would probably still be a virgin. Either you try to simulate being one of the cool kids, or you fuck your own hand. Unless you're super good looking or something Honestly I hate faking anything and I'm not good at it. But without it no one would really want me. I don't even have a lot of sex and never really get to bang those 9/10 out of my league chicks. But at least I do get laid from time to time with reasonabl…
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:00 AM
1

The problem comes when the woman is not interested and the guy continues. This is where the term chasing comes into play. It's a guy running after a woman because she's running away from him. Don't be that guy. Let her go and move on If all the women were divided into 1. Clearly interested ones 2. Obviously not interested ones without any grey areas, it would be that simple. But I frequently encounter women who don't reject me outright, they seem somewhat interested, but expect some degree of ch…
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:13 AM
2

I kind of experienced that even though I am not a stereotypical bad boy. I just happen to be loner individualist and my lifestyle is pretty much the opposite of what a regular relationship looks like. So therefore some girls tried to tame me
/r/seduction21/12/19 12:35 AM
9

Doesn't hurt to have tinder and swipe from time to time, but it's definitely NOT recommended to have tinder as your main/only way of meeting new women
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:41 PM
1

Yes they do, because they enjoy attention
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:23 AM
1

treat women like goddesses Nope
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:50 PM
1

What is amog?
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:46 PM
2

Also there's plenty of competition in clubs and women expect to be approached more in clubs (which can be both good and bad thing)
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:43 PM
2

Every girl had this list in different order
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:41 PM
3

Play fight
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:07 PM
1

Never said it's impossible to fuck it up
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:38 AM
8

It's literally difficult to fuck it up once a girl is really into you
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:21 PM
1

Maybe those were shit-tests you failed because they hit your weak spot. Like, your height isn't necessarily the reason why she's not attracted to you. The real reason might be you getting easily offended, therefore not being mentally strong enough in her eyes or something. I don't know, I'm just guessing. Next time a girl says you're too short for her, instead of saying goodbye, try saying some smartass line like "yeah, the extra inches are in my trousers" while expressing lack of impression
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:52 AM
2

I feel like after the entire day of hard work, struggles and challenges, men just want peace and comfort in the company of woman who he knows loves him. Unfortunately as we all know women want pretty much the opposite. They are fueled by emotions and drama
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:42 AM
1

I feel like women are easily attracted to shallow things like being a cool popular kid that is partying, drinking and taking drugs all the time, being an extremely extroverted attention whore and a douchebag trying to act tough. Although plenty of women fall for this, I don't think men are impressed
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:40 AM
1

Very rarely and that's probably why it's so tempting when it happens.
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:38 AM
2

I'm your height and like half of the women I dated/fucked is taller than me. I honestly feel like short girls are the worst heightists, for some reason they're usually looking for super tall guys, maybe to compensate for their own insecurities or something. Tall girls however are used to feeling of being taller than a guy and they often don't give a shit. I've had taller girls fall in love with me
/r/seduction07/12/19 08:34 AM
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If you're NOT struggling, therefore living comfortable easy lifestyle, it means you're not challenging yourself and therefore not improving your life. I see it in a non-judgmental way. I mean, there's nothing actually objectively wrong with living easy life. If someone prefers it, cool, it doesn't make them worse person than myself. But I know I prefer to struggle a lot and challenge myself, even though it's really, really tiring and painful
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 09:31 PM
2

My experiences show that it's pretty easy making acquaintances as an adult. I guess turning them into friends is slightly more difficult, but I do agree that maintaining actual friendships requires a lot of effort
/r/seduction02/12/19 09:14 AM
1

What I'm about to describe is probably not the same, but I treat "normal" girls more seriously and respectfully, I actually care about them and sometimes I do something for them, I put some effort. I do it voluntarily without expecting anything in return. I sort of "reward" those girls for being normal. I feel like they deserve good treatment. By "normal" I mean normal human beings, you can actually talk to them openly and come to terms, they treat me and themselves with respect, are assertive, …
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:56 AM
2

Healthy relationships shouldn't be a power struggle where you have to be worried about your partner loosing interest in you at any given moment. That's a spot on, exactly my thoughts, couldn't even put it better into words
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:52 AM
4

At some point in your life you’ll start to prioritize personality over appearance. Maybe it will take a life changing experience... The girl who’s hot AF that you fall in love with might fuck you up.. and then all the sudden girl who wasn’t so hot but much a better person will suddenly be more attractive in your eyes I feel like it's a very common occurence in women. I mean young girls fall in love with stereotypical chads and cool kids and then, after getting their heart broken a couple of time…
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:50 AM
2

Why cant you just be friends with her? Why is it you can only have plans to date her or not? Do you date your guy friends too? OP implied the ugly girl was probably attracted to him and making moves. This is an awkward basis for friendship
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:37 AM
2

A couple of thoughts: - You feel bad for her, cool, seems like you are a good guy. But nobody really cares about unattractive guys. Nobody feels bad for me when I'm lonely just because I'm not one of the cool kids. I have to deal with this on my own. Meanwhile society in general is very compassionate towards women, even ugly ones. - I'm curious what exactly was wrong with the woman you call unattractive in your post. I'm wondering whether it's a result of not taking care of herself. Because ther…
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:35 AM
2

That's an interesting point, thanks for response
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:12 AM
1

So you date only girls who are exclusive to you? And you never date multiple girls at the same time?
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:22 AM
0

And I'm not saying it in a misogynistic way, we should follow example of women, they feel on dating scenes like fishes in the ocean. It's okay
/r/seduction02/11/19 09:58 AM
1

You make it sound like it's a magic pill that solves all your seduction-related problems. In reality body language is just one of many ingredients of attractiveness. I recommend yoga. It will give you good habits, both healthy for your body and mind. You will learn to feel your own body, keep your back straight and move in a healthy way.
/r/seduction31/08/19 06:59 PM
1

It's funny because I'm a shitty boyfriend/potential husband material
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:25 PM
1

Labelling yourself as a loser is your first mistake. Until you (at least try to) change that, you will get no results. This is the first step. I know it's not so easy when everyone around you (including yourself) have been telling you that you are worthless.
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:32 PM
1

I have the reverse problem - girls expect commitment from me and try to pull me into relationships, while all I want at the current stage of my life is casual sex without drama
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:27 PM
1

Exactly. If you look average, you do get IOIs OCCASIONALLY. That's the problem.
/r/seduction18/08/19 06:55 PM
14

Therefore don't get excited until that next date actually takes place ;)
/r/seduction18/08/19 05:04 PM
1

The only reliable way to avoid hurting women is to never interact with them in any way I'm saying that even if you are super respectful and assertive, even then some drama queen might get severely offended by you - for example - refusing to chase her
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:56 PM
17

Dude she didn't respond for just exactly seven minutes
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:52 PM
1

So you're saying that we all have to wait for indicators of interest, therefore permission to approach her? I guess it works fine for super attractive guys, but us dudes below 9/10 it leads to scarcity
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:49 PM
1

Thinking of yourself as already fine and improving yourself are not mutually exclusive things.
/r/seduction22/07/19 10:09 AM
2

I see it as a common phenomenon, I deal with this, I am mentally prepared for this, I literally except girl's friends to know what facial expression I make while cumming.
/r/seduction22/07/19 09:44 AM
1

The way I see it, whenever women give horrible dating advice like "treat us like fucking princesses, jump around us like a little puppy, show maximum commitment from the very beginning of the relation" they are honest... sort of. I mean, they actually want to be treated like this. It's really nice and convenient to have a polite puppy orbiting around you, fulfilling your every little desire. The missing part is that acting they way women want you to won't necessarily make them attracted to you a…
/r/seduction07/05/19 04:36 PM
5

Nobody says it's that easy. There's an illusion that if something happened quickly, then it was easy. Wrong. Getting a cold approached girl to bed overnight usually requires pretty fucking sharp game. It's not something you do carelessly
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:23 AM
1

Fatter and more entitled that's for sure
/r/seduction25/04/19 02:41 PM
1

I've had a couple of girls catching feelings towards me. Then like you said I wait for their feelings to fade. I literally expect them to get bored of me, especially since pretty girls are constantly surrounded by plenty of other interested men. But no, instead they fall in love with me even more and try to pull me into a relationship. And some of them even succeeded
/r/seduction25/04/19 02:39 PM
7

Because you're probably an introvert
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:40 PM
1

[removed] Loos like we have a comedian here
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:52 AM
1

Are you implying that a relationship is the only way to get laid for free?
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:38 AM
2

I "should" strive to be in relationship? Says who? What makes you think I should strive certain things? As if I had control over my own desires lol
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:40 PM
2

Just desire to fuck multiple women without playing relationship games is more than enough for society to villainize me
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:58 PM
2

I smell a lot of ego-feeding
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:57 PM
-1

I feel like you handled it decently. You expressed that her shit-test didn't make an impression on you You implied that what she's saying is absurd (which actually is)
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:56 PM
1

This is the reason why I was afraid to express any interest in girls whatsoever as a kid/teenager
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:52 PM
1

Owen Cook/RSD Tyler has ASD. Just sayin'. By no means I'm not a fan of RSD, but it's clear this guy is at least somewhat successful with women
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:35 PM
1

Exactly. I mean, apparently it worked, but why not be straightforward? Is it somehow worse than these hilarious games?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 03:43 PM
1

With all that bragging you totally don't sound like a stoic lol
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:17 AM
2

I've got a question. What wrong would happen if you simply told her that you're not interested in her ex boyfriend instead of playing fucking video games on your phone?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:58 AM
2

Exactly. In that elderly woman example you willingly made a choice to help her, even though you didn't have to. And you didn't expect anything in return. What nice guys do is they act nice like this: "alright, I'll do it, because the society expects me to and I don't have balls to say no. I totally don't want to do this, I let others control my life" Also what a typical nice guy does is "I don't feel like doing that girl a favour, but I expect her to reward me with sex/love/affection".
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:15 PM
2

What is your definition of nice? I mean I consider myself a person who does treat people nice, but I'm far from giving away my time, attention, resources, effort and emotions for free.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:18 PM
1

Well it's a common problem with Tinder
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:53 PM
1

Also Mark Manson "Models"
/r/seduction22/01/19 12:59 PM
1

I just wanna say that noticing your cognitive biases is the first step to rewire your false believes and change your life for better
/r/seduction22/01/19 12:57 PM
1

I velei it's not the only reason behind anxiety
/r/seduction19/01/19 05:22 AM
1

That's true. So we can't say that women will just "naturally follow" any guy that has his shit together. This is where game is helpful
/r/seduction19/01/19 05:22 AM
2

I meet every single one of your requirements and yet women don't magically fall from the sky straight to my lap.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:56 PM
2

The amount of upvotes kinda suggests it's not so unpopular lol
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:48 PM
2

What is warm approach?
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:21 AM
1

Thanks. Now I get it. And I agree with you. Men don't really receive compliments unless they are 10/10. I personally don't really have idea how attractive I am. I've had girls acting offended just because a creepy disgusting piece of shit like me dared to look at them. I also had girls fall madly in love with me, or treat me like a 10/10. I'm not even exaggerating that much. It's fascinating in a way how subjective women's attraction is
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:44 PM
2

Very good point. Also, teaching other people is a skill and not everyone is good at it. So even if a guy mastered the game throughout years, it doesn't necessarily make him a good dating coach
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:40 PM
1

How do you define getting one's life together?
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:31 PM
3

Also girls know their level of attractiveness while there is no way for men to know theirs Why?
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:25 PM
3

Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:23 PM
2

The sixth one also matters a lot
/r/seduction15/01/19 12:55 PM
1

HIS videos ARE straight and to the point, no random fluff for extra time. That's what I love about him
/r/seduction15/01/19 04:02 AM
5

Todd Valentine
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:42 PM
7

remember, you don't want to be her "friend" so it doesn't mater if she hates you at the end of the night That's a very important distinction between friendly behaviour and lover behaviour. The second one isn't afraid of losing her, because he's not interested in being her friend anyway
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:07 PM
5

1st date went well, 'coffee' turned into hours of good conversation. Lots but not all signs of flirting from her, hair touching, eye contact, smiling a lot, neck extending/displaying, happy to be touched (arms/shoulders), touched me once or maybe twice, held hands walking back to the cars, hugged at the end. 2nd date planned, dinner According to this you seem to have your shit together when it comes to expressing intentions. Touch her whenever there's an opportunity, it can (and even should on t…
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:56 PM
5

Here's the deal. There was a good reason why I became paranoid about the possibility of falling into friendzone. I've been friendzoned numerous times in the past, I was a shy boy who was afraid of expressing intentions towards girls. After I got pissed off and focused on not acting like an asexual friend, my dates started turning into relationships and sex. I recently got laid on the first date. During that date I was worried a bit about falling into friendzone afterwards. Also I was in mediocre…
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:34 PM
8

It seems like you're falling into the trap of worrying about getting friendzoned too much. I feel you, because I am also guilty of this. I was worried on dates about not being bold, sexual, confident and cocky enough.
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:09 PM
2

Everyone can refuse to date anyone for any reason and even without reason.
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:22 AM
2

I turned off almost all notifications a long time ago for different reasons. They're annoying
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:05 AM
2

The ones that don't kiss on the first date, usually have sex on the first date lol, I have no idea why
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:02 AM
1

I don't think this is how my Coolidge Effect works
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:22 PM
4

Even if you somehow hypothetically manage to hook up with the hottest girl ever, you'll get bored of fucking her, so she'll become subjectively less attractive in time lol
/r/seduction12/01/19 02:26 PM
1

I feel like you don't even need to get laid to reach some degree of abundance mentality. In my case even flirting with multiple girls, while not having fucked any of them yet, gets me in the state of not being attached to any of them in particular
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:33 PM
1

How did you meet those women? Cold approach?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:37 AM
1

I disagree with putting an exclamation mark between pissed off nice guy and an alpha male. It's not the same dude. Notice that the alpha male behaviour attracts ladies, and when a nice guy gets angry, he doesn't magically switch into an attractive guy. Girls don't start to like him. He doesn't turn into a alpha male. He just becomes even more frustrated nice guy
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:22 AM
1

That's one hell of a pretty name for masturbation Just kidding lol
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:59 PM
1

Link?
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:38 AM
3

Socialize as much as possible. Talk to people as much as possible. Learn to start conversations with strangers. Doesn't necessarily have to be women. Just talk to people. You can talk about the weather with a nice old guy on a bus stop. You can say a joke to a cashier at a convienience store. You can ask someone for time. The very basics of game is good social skills and this is what I think you should begin with. If you're shy and heavily introverted like me, this is going to be pain in the ass…
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:37 AM
5

If you tell a guy with no game to work out, then after a year he turns into a fit guy... that still doesn't know how to talk to women
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:32 AM
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