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Lol that's cute. I get what you mean, but like, you haven't met men who do this? Once, and I cut him out of my life with no issues. Do that to a woman and you get her friends calling you and saying you're an asshole and she is crying, yada yada yada. Beginning, middle, end. Who, what, when, where, why. That is all that encompasses any story. I don't need some shit about how one of your co-workers is a bitch if it isn't related to the story. It's not even inability, it's the sense I get that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:46 AM
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This is self-report of what women say they find attractive, not their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:43 AM
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Plus, porn has corrupted the minds of young women and they sometimes doubt if they were raped because they constantly see rape scenarios in porn. That sounds like bullshit. Everybody knows if she says no or stop and you don't stop it's rape, doesn't matter how hard or soft. Boys get this shit drilled into their heads, or at least I did. The patriarchy is poison. The patriarchy doesn't exist anymore. To support the porn industry is to spit on your mothers, sisters and other female loved ones. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:42 AM
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"We" understand that 18 year olds are often stupid, but more importantly that some people fall on very deperate times and soemtimes really shitty things happen in life. Yeah, I've been there, more than you know. Gay porn never entered the equation, skipping meals for sure did, but getting fucked by dudes never did. A life sentence is a bit much for making a video of sex, the punishment simply does not fit through crime at all even if it WAS consensual and informed. Murdered get out in less than …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:40 AM
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Oh shit you're right. I misread. Sure ya did. Well if you want to talk about your preferences I don't mind obliging lmao The point is, I'm not going to be charming to people I'm not incentivized to be charming towards. That take energy and it's energy that wouldn't be repaid on this subreddit. I like women, but there is no point in saying what I like about women other than to inflate all your egos. I'm trying to find out why you guys do the annoying shit you do like monopolize time when you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:33 AM
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I'm 28, you're just saying every guy in my age range is worthless. Got it, heard. Enjoy the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:31 AM
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You believe, even if wrongdoing happened It's a criminal matter if wrongdoing happened. If you just had sex on camera for a living, nothing wrong happened to you. Who's gonna call them out?! Even you admit this is a he-said-she-said unprovable issue. When everyone makes money off betrayal AND you have a society of victim blaming, If it happens on a set, there are witnesses and other means of evidence. I was talking about rape cases where nobody else is present. In those cases, it's he-said she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:30 AM
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If you need to bust a nut that bad have sex. Dude, sometimes I just don't want to deal with all the bullshit attached to that. I don't have the energy to jump through hoops all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:24 AM
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Porn is neutral. Also, I find I sleep better afterwards if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:23 AM
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Lol, what, men getting bored of women is porn? Is that what you wrote? Seriously? That's the women's claim over why they don't like it, because a guy is giving sexual attention to another woman. and furthering misogyny and violence against women in general If that's the case why has rape and violent crime reports been declining since 1993 while porn access has only gotten easier? porn is emotional infidelity. Lol, "emotional" infidelity. yet men feel more entitled to porn It's free on the intern…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:23 AM
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Plenty of women aren't and there are plenty of fish in the sea. You wanna vacation on trib island, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:20 AM
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If I feel like it I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:19 AM
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Ha. Except yours, right? And she's not clever, allegedly?! May want to rethink such a thing. Pretty sure I said I broke it off. But, whatever. Read into it what you want. Your call, but your liking women at all sint exactly shining through I thought we were here to argue over issues, not lick each other's assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:19 AM
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You're not aware of the push for syudent loan forgiveness? I'm aware the Biden administration is counter-suing anybody trying to get it. Nobody in a position of power wants to get rid of student loans and you know this. Also, I'm 28, I've got loans myself to deal with No porn star can really outlive the stigma. And what right does such a stigma have on the first place, if porn is such a helpful and wholesome thing for men to consume? Banks don't want to associate with your business if you hire t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:16 AM
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I feel sorry for young women though, these are their peers and it's harder to avoid. Young women ain't catches either nowadays. Blame social media for that one. They can't get good sex out of a man, so they give up and fuck each other lol. Sounds like they've already solved the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:12 AM
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dopamine is, it’s pleasure, its released when u have sex, and do drugs…… Or jog for more than 5 miles, or play with your nephews, or hold someone you likes hand etc. Dopamine is present in every positive emotion you experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:10 AM
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If women get sexually bored of men, then why would us getting bored of them be a problem? That is what they consider porn, so if they are already tired of us, sounds like serendipity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:09 AM
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Yes. I have a very vivid imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:07 AM
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I disagree. Funny enough, this is one part of TRP where I'm on the same page, and we are both agaisnt you. Good thing I don't agree with them. Women stick around when you enforce your boundaries, but they'll bitch and moan incessantly about it. If that's what you think of women, your chances are less than they could be My peace of mind is worth more. If I was trying to maximize the amount of sex I was getting, I'd grow to hate women. I like y'all in small bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:06 AM
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Especially if that's their main source of income, don't try to make them choose between their job and you, because then you're actually being controlling. How? It's a simple offer, me or OnlyFans. You choose OnlyFans, no hard feelings. You just never see me again. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:05 AM
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If you can provide that evidence, women have absolutely no moral leg to stand on anymore then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:03 AM
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I don't think anyone ever said that? I thought that women were saying it's sketchy enough to make us very uncomfortable? That's surely what I said. The word "rampant" has come up multiple times. Of course. Lots of things should happen. Women should be able to have real careers after porn. Depends on their skillset. If all they can do is have sex, no. And they need to perform to such a great degree that it outshines the stigma. In reality, though, how is anyone going to prove it? Eyewitness testi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:02 AM
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Watching porn is probably closer to doing hard drugs then watching a film haha. Nope. Also, women here have literally told me to do coke and molly to be more appealing to women, so my health is not a concern of theirs in any way. Porn is like Fentanyl, really? I mean do you watch porn the way you watch a John wick film? Honestly? I'm not jerking off, but I'm enjoying violence. How is getting shot in the face any less violent than anal? You asked what girls don’t like about it. That’s my answer. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:57 AM
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Then stop fucking the former, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:53 AM
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No clue. Women just dislike any time a man enforces his boundaries, but there are plenty of women out there and plenty of chances for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:53 AM
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what reason do you have to assume a porn exec or cameraperson- who profits off of hard-core scenes and doesn't respect the ability of any actress to do anything vai8abke besides sex- would protect vulnerable, naked, screaming women from Ron's demons? If it happens on his set he could be financially liable. OK, but even if you don't believe, isn't telling women "don't be wary of this industry and don't ve creeper out by it or see it as dangerous" is a bit too far? When did I say don't be wary of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 AM
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If you wanted my opinion, it wouldn't have been phrased as such: what is it abotu men thats of such value to womens lives that they should do that, can you explain? That's coming from a place of challenging me to say why men can be important in women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:48 AM
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You want plenary control over what a man is thinking basically. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:45 AM
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I hope she told you you can watch anything you want when you're single lol. She might have been more attractive if she was that tiny bit clever. No, she just got in her feelings and I broke it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:43 AM
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I don't mock them unless I know them personally and they've been shitty to men because of their pussy power. I didn't mock, just silently enjoyed while trying not burst out laughing. The shit is an eventuality for every woman. If you don't prepare for it, then you're just a victim of your own stupidity. It's the equivalent of the day when a man's strength fails him Hopefully he invested for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:42 AM
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"why would a guy with options wait that long." That's a fair question to be honest. The "you're 18, fuck off and do this by yourself" mentality is a thing of the past, at least for middle class and up. Oh, no wonder you think you deserve to be coddled in your interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:40 AM
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Literally Ron Jeremy I thought that wasn't on set but in his private life. Minimum wage jobs don't stop women from padding their resume/ moving up/ doing anything, so while they're exploitative, they are less exploitative First off, if you pad your resume you're fucking useless. Secondly, every girl knows that she will have no other career paths after porn. Or they could do 15 seconds of research to find that out before going into porn. What gets paid pennies =/= what is respected by society, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:38 AM
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whats not appealing is someone imagining ducking the girl that’s on screen getting ducked by someone else. The scenarios, the fake commentary, bodies, your preference, scenarios where if you had a hot real estate agent you’d then go to porn hub and look one up similar to your real life one and imagine. You guys do the same thing with Romance novels. Your self-insert fantasy is fine, but ours is anathema? It’s just your energy is everywhere. Jesus. That’s what makes us cringe. And your second que…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:29 AM
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Your ancestors had to earn their sex. And women had to earn the protection of a man that the state now provides. You really wanna go back to that? They think they don’t need to do anything for sex anymore. Yeah they do, otherwise they wouldn't be incels. Men live the fantasy of being Chad in porn and are mad when it isn’t like that in real life. First half of that statement is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:25 AM
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Because it's not just you. Porn actors are still people you are putting into rhe equation. People who signed a contract. You're as likely to meet a porn star as your gf is to meet a random dude from turkey who likes all the pictures her ass is in. Not if he's DMing her. If he's wealthy enough, she's leaving. Why put myself in that position? What your doing is inviting comparison and the thought of other people into the relationship either way. No I'm not, I'm indulging a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:23 AM
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That's the one I can prove statistically. The other emotional horseshit isn't tangible or provable. I think that's an improvement from you saying they add nothing to a woman's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:22 AM
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The people John Wick shoots also aren't actually dying. Yes, there is a difference between fantasy and reality. What is wrong with indulging fantasy a few times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:20 AM
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I answered that. Most of you need us for financial security. The rest is emotional shit and that is idiosyncratic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:17 AM
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Instead of coke, try molly. How about y'all fuck off with the drug recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:16 AM
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Sure… because instead of trying to empathize you just think women are cookoo for this. If a video of someone doing something consensual bothers you... that isn't sane. Also, I'll choose to be more empathetic to women if women develop the ability to be empathetic to men. Fine you want to watch porn, okay get a girl who doesn’t care and leave the ones that prefer to not, alone. Do you think I'm going up to random women with pornhub open on my phone or laptop?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:15 AM
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There's an uncanny tendency to stop at 2. Not sure what that's about. A lot of users here have made their concern known about my decision, as a 23-year-old adult, to wait until marriage to have sex. It's your body, who gives a shit. Also, is it people or is it women? Yeah and my point is that the "well if I can't date her without somebody taking issue maybe she shouldn't have rights" argument is bullshit. Is having a dick in you a more complicated decision than your health insurance plan, a mort…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:10 AM
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Sex is about power for you. How toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:07 AM
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You're responding to a comment I responded to that said rampant. I was asking for evidence that it is rampant. A video doesn't prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:06 AM
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then die alone is not an answer to why women should curtail their freedom and dating if men are going to jerk off to porn. You don't have to. There is no law saying you have to. But if you want a man who only thinks you are attractive, you're gonna die alone. what is it abotu men thats of such value to womens lives that they should do that, can you explain? Most of you need us financially. Most single mothers can't retire on their own money, so they burden their children. But if you don't value …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:06 AM
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If you've ever been there for day 2, it's amazing to watch. I had a hard time not laughing at this old chick who got shooed away from the bar so a guy could get a beer and just seeing her world collapse. Quivering lip, talking to random dudes at the bar, trying to get her friends to go to the bathroom with her, hilarious. I'd feel bad, but we go through the reverse and it's much harder to go from worthless to worthwhile (how society views men as they age) than the reverse. I had to get treated l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:03 AM
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Hate to tell you, monogamy is, by definition, both parties agreeing to control their sexual habits. You want to control masturbation? You sound like you'd be a fantastic partner. Don’t want that, then you probably have to forgo a genuine, non transactional, intimate relationship. If it means not having ultimatums thrown my way, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:59 AM
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if you read the interviews with former pornstars they are every rarely (if ever) defending the industry. I don't expect most of them to. Lana Rhoades became a millionaire off of it and she shits on the industry because it affected her life. That's just your own dumb decisions coming back to bite you in the ass though. Any statistical data for the claims you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:57 AM
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No. How does what I do in private with my body have anything to do with what she does with her body publicly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:55 AM
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I just think it's weird that you impose something in your partner that you yourself aren't willing to do. I'm not imposing anything, unless you think women are entitled to men in a relationship. I'm saying my standards, and if you won't meet my standards, get the fuck out of my life. You aren't entitled to us, and we can set our own standards in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:55 AM
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Just typed that into pornhub and all I got was solo and step-mom shit. What exactly is that? Also, is it a singular instance or is it proof of "rampant" rape. Prove 1/4 of scenes are non-consensual. That would be rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:51 AM
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I love how women are so willing to throw men's constitutional rights (4th amendment in this case) away for the sake of their own feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:27 PM
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That makes sense. I guess that's why it always seems like they are lying when you push them on specifics. For example, one girl I went on a date with said she was getting a charity started to benefit animal shelters in the area and I asked her a very simple question about the designation (I know off hand that that is a 501(c)(3) and it takes all of 45 seconds to figure that out). She all of a sudden got evasive and was saying she was still figuring it out. That was a red flag that she was just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:01 AM
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Never thought about it like that before. Kind of wish most of them had the humility to just admit that, but I know that's unrealistic on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:43 AM
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I can see you are a nasty piece of work. I just dislike having my time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:26 AM
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Why not in real life? Why is that the mantra in actual life when you ask them face to face?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:40 AM
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Do you still try to? If you suck at it why don't you try to get better at it? You know that shit is like Chinese Water Torture right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:38 AM
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Yet most of them recite "6 foot tall, makes at least a hundred thousand a year, in shape" etc. like it's a fucking mantra when asked what their ideal man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:33 AM
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Then why force your conversation on us rather than actually be good conversationalists. For example, very few women I've talked to understand that stories have a beginning, middle, and end and comprise who, what, where, when, and why. They constantly go off on tangents or talk about feelings. If you aren't trying to monopolize time, why are you adding unnecessary details to the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:16 AM
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If you were in that scenario, why wouldn't you disclose those as well? Especially when YOU brought up why you like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:05 AM
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We already fucked, there's no more mystery. Why not disclose more (keep in mind, this was disclosed without me asking her. She just said my eyebrows were sexy and that's why I got invited to her apartment). Or, are y'all just goofballs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:59 AM
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Wow, it sounds like you've met a lot of rude, nasty people. Yeah, it's called dating. Most men have horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:56 AM
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Sometimes. Human psychology is messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:46 AM
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Is it going in you or on you still? My subconscious doesn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:42 AM
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I don't think she understands that we can see she didn't actually learn about that, she found a dude to confirm a bias she already had about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:31 AM
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There are 90K people here, probably 75K at most men, and 4.5 billion men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:28 AM
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It's a strict boundary for me. If a conversation becomes all about a woman unloading her feelings, I leave. Women are adults, but none of them want to learn to manage their emotions like adults. Compartmentalization gets a bad rap and is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:24 AM
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Why do you feel more women are entitled? Are you seeing this behaviour play out in real life a lot? There are a billion examples just on this sub where women are basically bemoaning that men don't have telepathic abilities (Expecting men to just know what you like in bed for example). Women feel entitled to men risking their lives for them if they see they are in harm, feel entitled to the first date being paid for them (you're probably going to respond "I don't do that" by the way), entitled to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:20 AM
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But the point of validation is that the other person values you. And sometimes we'd rather you value our seed (subconsciously. Always wear a condom gentlemen) than our personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:10 AM
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I'd more blame the labels than the groups since the groups probably didn't write most of their own lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:08 AM
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I've found just exercising boundaries helps. I had a few exes where they got long winded and I'd just walk away in the middle of their sentences. If we aren't trying to find a solution to the problem, it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:07 AM
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That's the main thing that can cause me to dislike a girl honestly. "I don't need you to fix it, I just need you to listen" is dumb. Why would you waste time ruminating on negative emotions when that time would be better spent trying to solve the problem that is causing the negative emotion? It's an excuse to try and monopolize your time because women like having control. After a while, I just straight up walk away in the middle of their sentences when it is obvious they don't want a solution th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:05 AM
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If that's the decision making process for most women, no wonder a lot of them end up in shitty situations. But glad we agree, they're goofballs. They are just goofy people that will never not be goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:03 AM
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I agree, but that is a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:01 AM
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Doubtful. Not being good with women doesn't mean you are mentally deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:01 PM
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What, that I don't want you as a friend. More often than not you are shitty friends. Yeah, guys who get hurt by rejection are immature. What does that have to do with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:00 PM
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What a dumb fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:59 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:37 PM
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You still haven't given specifics. How can you speak for all women and say they do when you can't even?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:35 PM
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That has nothing to do with the post topic. This is such a fucking straw man too. Any guy over the age of 14 and mentally healthy knows they aren't entitled to shit from you. You remind us as often as you possibly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:34 PM
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Not for nagging and pressuring women for sex and sex acts, so it occurs. It really incentivizes women to have sex, did you know? Sex pests are universally derided. Aziz Ansari was one and he has an 1/16th the career he used to have. Also, sex pest doesn't mean fucking like a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:18 PM
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Why would she lie about that? What does she have to gain from lying about why she fucked me? Maybe I'm hideous and that's all she could find to compliment me, but why fuck me then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:17 PM
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Sure they do. Women talk about it all the time You don't go into specifics. You just state "men fuck women like they are in porn". That's void for vagueness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:16 PM
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Hope he had good home insurance and a restraining order on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:15 PM
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Are they constantly under fire and gotta watch out every second of the day, or have they had a few bad experiences individually?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:51 PM
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And where am I blaming men? You aren't, but any time the topic of beauty standards comes up the phrase "I just wish men would..." followed by some action we need to take for your self-esteem inevitably follows. But, as most women say "We aren't trying to look good for men, we are trying to look good for ourselves". If that's the case, our opinion on how you look should have absolutely no effect on your self-esteem whatsoever, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:41 PM
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I call bullshit, but there is no way to prove or disprove that. I know that it doesn't apply to me and every man I know, otherwise none of us would have jobs if all we could ever focus on is pussy .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:38 PM
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I vaguely remember her being praised for it. Praised for causing hundreds of thousands of dollars in property damage and endangering others lives. Sounds par for how the media treats women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:37 PM
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Everyone has some facial scarring because they were too dumb to not pick at their acne when they were teens. Fuck, everyone has body flaws. Why do women put this expectation of perfection on each other and then blame us for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:36 PM
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So social media makes people unable to love one another for ever? It makes a lot of people unable to stop chasing a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:35 PM
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Because we've been raised to fear unknown men. Any woman will tell you that. Adults shove a lot of bullshit into kids heads. You aren't helpless to think for yourself and see they were wrong on certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:33 PM
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That assumes the only reason we wear makeup is our partner. I have acne and scarring, so makeup is my way to just get to the baseline of acceptable appearance. You and half the fucking planet, who really gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:32 PM
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I'd agree with that. Women still believe that stupid "men think of sex every 2.4 seconds" statistic for... reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:31 PM
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Its not a fantasy to my parents, who got together in their early 20s, and are still together now. Pre-social media. Nor my parents parents, who got together in their teens, and stayed together till death took them apart. Pre-pre-social media Nor their parents, who again, were childhood sweethearts who stayed together until the ripe old age of 88. Pre-pre-pre-social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:30 PM
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Sure, I agree. Most other women don't as they don't stop seeking validation, no matter how hard you try to tell them. Just anecdotal, but I dated a girl who wore a ton of makeup. I told her that even if we go out somewhere really nice, foundation and optionally some blush is all that's necessary, and outside of that (going to the zoo, a concert etc.) I could give a fuck less if she has makeup on. She'd still get dolled up, then bitch and moan about women being expected to get dolled up, even aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:27 PM
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most women know their assaulters so it wouldn't surprise me at all if many of them do have constant doubt about men. Then why the fear of strangers if it's usually men they know that do it? If you (generally) are a woman who has constant doubt in me, just get the fuck out of my life. Why waste both of our time if you think I'm a rapist waiting in the wings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:22 PM
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That's not the topic of this post though. EDIT: Nevermind, I thought you were disagreeing with a different comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:20 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 That's a fantasy world my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:15 PM
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I'd say sex is a priority, but sanity and peace are bigger ones. A lot of women think sex makes up for being a shitty partner and it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:14 PM
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Men need to stop chasing validation in general though. It's unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:12 PM
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Approximate. It was 7 billion about 15 years ago, I'm assuming it's closer to 8. Not much of a statistical difference between the two anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:10 PM
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Because regular porn lost it's novelty with the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:09 PM
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Sex when and how they want it, yes We also like action movies, do we want to murder hundreds of people as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:07 PM
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Men do not want to have porn sex. It looks nice, but I'm not trying to fuck my elbows and back up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:07 PM
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Most women don’t say those things. Why would I say that when I have a dad, brothers, a nephew, and male coworkers who treat me well. Because society will applaud you for "expressing your truth" or whatever as long as you are putting us down. Hating men is rewarded today. Nothing we can do about that but we can choose not to have women who engage in that rhetoric in our lives at all. Except, that's called misogyny because we can't handle "strong" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:05 PM
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I don't think anyone has the right to generalise like that, I agree! It's a loud minority who make those gross statements. And women call us misogynists when we call them out on their toxic behaviors. Also when we don't immediately trust you. Rules for ye and not for thee is how a lot of women look at the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:04 PM
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I would like one, it's just that every woman I've met wants far too much compromise out of me than I'm willing to give right now. So I'll just work on myself, my life, my finances etc. until I meet a women willing to get with my program. If no woman is willing, I already have my cremation costs in escrow and will die alone. Everything I need and want in this life I've proven I can get alone. I'll find my happiness, it would be fun to help someone else find theirs. I prefer to be the leader in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:55 PM
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My morals are perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:53 PM
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I doubt it is CONSTANTLY then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:52 PM
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I understand that it occurs. If it's a negative (which it universally is considered such) what is only bitching and moaning gonna do to fix it? If women don't actually want to fix it, how could I consider it that big a deal? That's the next step in their reasoning I've been waiting for and it isn't coming. Because you and I both know guys don't pull that shit in front of other guys that they think will call them out and I'm not going through life assuming every man is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:50 PM
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You called the cops, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:48 PM
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The funny thing is now you have TikToks of girls complaining that guys don't approach them at bars anymore. So which one do you want? For the billionth time, male privilege doesn't come with telepathy. Either we get a shot to even talk to you, or we don't. Pick one. We are not entitled to anything from you, but stop changing your expectations every five minutes if you don't want men to think you are difficult and grow to resent you. This is why lots of men get so mad if you say no to them but ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:45 PM
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Didn't one of them burn her boyfriend's house down and carve his name into her arm. Women, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:41 PM
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Yeah, creeps exist, what the fuck do women want the rest of us to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:25 PM
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You in the Congo or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:24 PM
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I've mentioned it elsewhere, but a girl slept with me because she said I had nice eyebrows. I learned the reason women have sex with men or reject them more often than not is for goofy and idiosyncratic reasons. It taught me that there isn't really any objective basis for who they choose, therefore there is no objective basis for why they reject, therefore there is no reason to let it affect your ego or make you feel invalidated because it's just that one person's opinion, and at the end of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:22 PM
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If you're a woman, I don't really know how that makes you understand men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:20 PM
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They hate us. I've told many women I will never get married and I either get dismissed (perfectly reasonable response, you dismiss those you are incompatible with) or get in their feelings and start insulting me (not a reasonable response). Even had a girl I was dating say "but I like you" after I said I'd never get married. Fucking entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:41 PM
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I have no issues towards women. Just healthy boundaries towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:36 PM
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It's those individual's problem. Men are not entitled to sex, they need to take steps to better themselves if they aren't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:36 PM
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I've learned that there is nothing I can do to stop women from continuously believing stupid maxims that make them feel better by shitting on men, so go right ahead and keep that simplistic a view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:21 PM
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Who gives a fuck? There are 3.5 billion, I don't need that many to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:19 PM
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We have to observe why that happens in nature rather than play the blame game. There is no blame, it's just the way it is. It's easier for women to get sex and that is an advantage for you We have more upper body muscle and that is an advantage for us. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:12 AM
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The risk definitely outweighs the reward when it comes to meeting random men for sex. Therefore most women just don't do it. Okay, that's irrelevant to my point. If you choose not to exercise that advantage that doesn't mean that it no longer exists. If I choose not to beat the shit out of a woman, it doesn't mean I don't have the upper body strength to do so. So that is an advantage men typically have over women. (this is just an example, don't read too much into it) I would hope the "game" has…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:47 AM
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More hard work, talent, and determination than it takes women to get laid. Nothing wrong with it being that way, it's just the nature of the game. But let's acknowledge what advantages both of us have in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:36 AM
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How do most men know that, where are there porn videos showing that, and most men first start viewing porn by like age 10.. Read a CNBC article on porn and common practices a couple years ago. Also, real life experience about how much prep work you need to do to not hurt your partner. Most men understand that. Most people use porn as a means of education about sex. That's user error, not product error.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:58 AM
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you say this, but why are you arguing with people on PPD? or even caring what people think of you? there has to be at least some bumps in the rollercoaster ride. I'm stuck in a hotel room in ISO for a business trip and this place is enjoyable. I'll leave it eventually once I get bored with the conversations. It's not emotionally turbulent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:24 AM
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Wow you're just all over this thread, huh? I'm in Iso for a business trip right now. I ain't got shit better to do than converse with y'all and watch the UFC card on right now. all you terminally online red pill types Not a red piller. successfully engage in hookup culture are automatically sociopaths who are forever disinterested in real, meaningful, emotionally intimate relationships. No, I said that if Chad has a thousand options, what's the likelihood he's going to choose you out of that tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:08 AM
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Yikes. Typing that sentence really inspires no negative feelings in you? To say it so matter of fact like that... I'm not trying to be a dick, I feel pity (and admittedly, a degree of revulsion) but no malice toward you. No. Sex work is legitimate work and sometimes we just want to pay for our satisfaction. My ego is not attached to women in any way, shape, or form so getting a hooker has no shame. Also, I can afford a good escort or go overseas, I'm not picking up nasty street walkers. EDIT: To…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:00 AM
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You really don't want to ask me about my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:28 PM
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So are Amazon workers, doesn't stop Americans from shopping with them now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:21 PM
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Let's say someone claims that he does not play a role in society. I play a role due to being employed and paying taxes, but after the laws and roles I've contractually agreed to, I don't owe society shit. When you can't be out of the game, it's better to play well than to lose. I pay my taxes and am debt free so I'm playing it well. I'm just not gonna engage in a lot of the other non-sensical horseshit pushed on men. For example, if a woman is getting attacked, even though I know how to fight, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:12 PM
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and women are vicious with their looks preferences online whether people want to believe that or not. To be fair, they are just as brutal on each other's looks. When I was still on OLD I made the mistake of letting a female friend look at my profiles, and she just started swiping left and shitting on every girl. I had to knock the phone out of her hand. Women have a toxic relationship with each other that a lot of them don't want to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:54 PM
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gold-digging, divorce-raping, baby-trapping And men should be aware of those women and vet appropriately. They aren't going away. Fresh and Fit is the male equivalent of Derrick Jaxn. They've tricked their male audience. Those dudes aren't players, they're paying for prostitutes I agree. Nothing wrong with using prostitutes though. I did a 3 month trip to Phuket a few years ago and it was cleansing. Guys should try and experience that level of accessibility to pussy at least once in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:46 PM
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I think women are just more gullible. This isn't the first time women have been tricked en masse. Derrick Jaxn is another example that comes to mind. Tells women everything they wanna hear, turns out he's cheating on his wife with anything walking. It's pretty easy to tell when men have an agenda. Women just need to admit they like fuckboys. They just don't like when they can't get them to stop being fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:37 PM
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It's very easy to tell the difference, at least from my end. A guy who is actually sensitive is going to be more reticent to escalate his affectionate nature that quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah, he pulled the "I'm sensitive" card. It's the oldest trick in the book, how are y'all not wise to it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:29 PM
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I'm a guy, but the answer is no. When I've been honest about my 3 month long stay in Phuket a few years ago and what I got up to, they had massive fucking problems with that. Rules for ye and not for thee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:25 PM
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I think I can empathize with TRP a little more. I was celibate for 5 years from my senior year of HS to the end of college. I can understand how not getting women's attention can make you feel worthless and invisible. What's not okay is letting that make you bitter and never progressing forward on your own development. FDS, maybe it's because I'm a guy and just can't empathize with their experiences but the advice they give is so fucking counter-productive to actually getting a guy worth a damn.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:56 PM
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The funny thing with those Chads. Just because they are good with women doesn't mean they have everything else figured out. I used to be jealous of a guy in college I knew who was great with women and got laid basically at will. However, he was a D student who constantly would ask to copy off my work, was emotionally mercurial, spent his stipends in the first 4 weeks of classes etc. You don't necessarily want to be those guys. They lead emotionally turbulent lives a lot of the time and that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:47 PM
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You aren't watching the right scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:40 PM
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Definitely I used to use asktrp a lot and some guys were completely lost there asking if what they did was alpha or not, like trp removed their ability to think. Ideologies can be prisons as well, and I feel shitty for those guys. I didn't get laid at all my senior year of high school or college. 5 years of celibacy. I understand the frustration and sense of worthlessness that creates. Their ideology just isn't all that great for solving that problem. It's very misery loves company. The thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:36 PM
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Getting off to the idea of hurting someone is messed up regardless. Hope you feel the same way about women into CBT then, but somehow I doubt that. And your John Wick example just supported the idea that women don’t actually want the rough sec they masturbate to. I hope you realize that. Yeah, sleep with women and you learn that. They sure do prepare for anal in porn. Then they act like it hurts anyway. Because that is the point of the anal sex scenes in porn. No, most of the scenes are them act…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:13 PM
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Then find a guy who had to work to get there. You learn BJJ from small guys too because they have no strength and all they have is technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:09 PM
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I'm 28. Just a big James Bond fan is all. Sociopaths are like that. Ok, I've been called worse by entitled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:08 PM
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Won't make you popular with TRP and FDS Good. I don't identify with TRP and FDS are emotionally stunted and foetid harpies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:06 PM
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I do alright. I'm no Chad or Tyrone but I get what I need. Can always pay for it during dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:05 PM
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It's like they are fucking a guy they wish was a bit different (more predictable, easier to control, etc) truth is those guys don't care about them like that. Only thing I'll say is I think that men typically have been in both positions at points in their lives. I've been burned by women I really cared about and tried to be perfect, and I've been the piece of shit fucking a girl while she's leading some other guy on. I think men's roles are a lot more fluid than RP typically makes them out to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:04 PM
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That's just stupidity and bad strategizing on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:00 PM
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and then policing women's sexuality. We don't. Unless you come from a strictly religious family there is no control over what goes in your box.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:59 PM
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When she isn't a minor, but he's closer to her dad's age, it's still disgusting though. That's rather infantilizing. She's a grown ass woman she can hook up with who she pleases. Props to old dude for getting it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:59 PM
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You're shocked predators go after easy prey?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:56 PM
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I don't understand why men don't feel protective of young girls That's entitled. Personally if they aren't my kids they aren't my problem, boy or girl. But I feel no obligation to protect girls or women whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:54 PM
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I agree. It's a free country fuck as many dudes as you want. The only thing that gets annoying about it is women treat it like a competition with men. A woman bragging about having a higher n-count than a man is like me bragging that I could beat the shit out of most women. A lot of women want the same credit men get, but a man getting a lot of pussy is work and talent, a woman getting a lot of dick isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:51 PM
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You're attributing shit to me I never said. At worst I've said most women are like something, not literally every last one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:52 PM
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Well, you're being annoying right now So you’re not a Piller just a run of the mill person I'm just me and I have my own opinions on this subject. I'll get tired of it eventually and leave, but for now the debate is enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:44 PM
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Less attractive men can work hard and never get to the level of good looking men who hardly work. I'll never be Cameron Hanes either, doesn't mean I can't down a few bucks myself. Why do you need to fuck as many women as Gigachad? That's some ego shit dude. Good looking men don’t have to understand what they are doing with women; they can do everything wrong with women and will still get laid. Life's not fair dude. I don't fuck as much as those guys and never will, but I can still get laid. I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:41 PM
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They have more than 13 by 18 nowadays on average? Holy shit. Hope the high school principals office has condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:37 PM
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Same here. I'm more disgusted by other female behaviors. Picking fights in bars because men can't hit you back and shit like that for example. What they pack in their box isn't my concern unless I'm doing the packing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:23 PM
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My gf has a really high body count because her self esteem is really low. Those are fun to play around with, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:21 PM
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I concur with them. Women are goofballs who are attracted to weird things. You have to take them in individually and you can't really systemize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:15 PM
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Girls will give advice on how he can be a perfect boyfriend they can control. Not advice on how to be the mistake they are currently fucking. I'm stealing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:10 PM
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I guess I'm only dating 18 year olds then if that's the average nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:08 PM
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Yup, it might take ten minutes to get fully inserted (I use a condom, shit up the urethra is how you catch an infection) and it's fun after that. She fails to grasp that porn is like that because you need to exaggerate in visual media to get the point across. The overwhelming majority of men aren't gonna fuck a girl like they see pornstars fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:07 PM
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And then you have the nerve to whine about “AWALT” because you make bad choices. Between nice or shitty women, y'all still have habits and behaviors that annoy the fuck out of me. Brittle self-esteem is a universal. but got mad when reality sunk in and so now you blame everyone for your shit taste in partners. Not an accurate description of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:05 PM
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I'm not a red piller. This is as far as I've gotten (and as far as I plan to get) in the "pill" communities. I'm a man with no ideological home because I think men and women are approaching dating and gender dynamics in idiotic ways. I see men either get obsequious or bitter and women get entitled or bitter in dating nowadays and I'm trying to figure out why in my own way. I've called out both men and women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:02 PM
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Yes. That’s exactly what I’m saying. Masturbating to self degradation is kind of sad. Masturbating to degrading another person is much, much worse than that. Masturbating to something causes no harm whatsoever. Also, I enjoy John Wick, do I want to murder a bunch of Russian mobsters? Also, how many men watch anal sex porn specifically? Without a prostrate involved, how is that not just a pain and degradation kink? Guilty. If you do it right women can enjoy it. You do realize that in porn they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:59 PM
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Put that in a Tinder profile, you'll still get a few matches. Or, go hang out with men who are the outdoorsy mountain men types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:57 PM
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I didn't say absolute numbers. Their is a greater velocity of female users viewing videos under the hardcore (degrading) section than there is men 113% higher in fact. As pornhub is the most visited porn site on the internet, I'm comfortable calling it a representative sample for women's tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:53 PM
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Being able to disagree and explore lots of different issues and still maintain a close friendship is a rare thing to have for women Seriously? That's the norm for men, at least the men I know. We want each other to be successful and grow and that requires brutal feedback and disagreement sometimes. Why is disagreement something that ends friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:41 PM
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It literally says categories viewed more by women than men in the header. Every category there is consumed by women at that higher percentage rate. You didn't read it considering you are saying they are terms and not categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:38 PM
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Enjoying being degraded and enjoying degrading someone else are entirely separate things in terms of how harmful they are. So it's okay to enjoy being degraded, but it's not okay for someone to do it? What? Do you expect the man to not enjoy himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:34 PM
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Find a man who actually wants to live that lifestyle first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:34 PM
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Dude, why are you asking the deer how to hunt them? You go to a hunter to learn how to hunt, not the deer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:34 PM
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I've noticed that with my exes friends. Your friendships seem toxic and like you guys are walking on eggshells from the outside if I'm honest. Also just seeing things like 7 women agreeing with each other on everything over a 4 hour period is fucking wild. Nobody disagrees with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:33 PM
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Pornhub is a pretty decent barometer for overall porn consumption habits. Being the most visited porn site on the internet and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:32 PM
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I've noticed that with my exes friends. Your friendships seem toxic and like you guys are walking on eggshells from the outside if I'm honest. Also just seeing things like 7 women agreeing with each other on everything over a 4 hour period is fucking wild. Nobody disagrees with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:31 PM
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The term hardcore is literally +113%, that means more than double the amount men search.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:29 PM
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It shows women vastly prefer being degraded over men degrading them. 25% still drove double the search results for degrading porn. So, your disgust should be aimed at women at least twice as much as it is at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:08 PM
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I'm not pilled on anything, just reacting to life as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:08 PM
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That's prudeish of you. I've met plenty of women who didn't think they'd like submitting. It's your life, do what you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:05 PM
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Love bombing is a manipulation tactic that works on both sexes. Some girl says she loves me before six months of dating, she's getting yeeted out of my life because she's probably crazy and has attachment issues. Men might fuck that girl (me included, I have higher standards of comportment for a relationship than for box) but most of them aren't gonna fall for some trap she's setting. ​ Are men asking for it too when it happens to them? They're fucking idiots when they fall for women like Britta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:02 PM
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He's just one example. If y'all didn't want to be lied to, "love-bombing" wouldn't drop your panties instantly. You react better when men lie to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:59 PM
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You said men being dominant disgusts you. If it's just the mere existence of that happening then you are incredibly judgmental. Also, you said men in general get off on it, I showed twice as much women get off on it. So it's less than some men then isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:57 PM
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Just further evidence that most of women's problems with us as a whole is either false, or completely self-inflicted on women's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:54 PM
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That's just one of those things I accept I will never understand about women "We are taught to have low self-esteem" and "I'm a boss bitch that don't need no man and he needs to be 6 feet tall and make a 100K" are diametrically opposite statements in illustrating women's self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:53 PM
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If you asked me to draw a picture of a fuckboy, I could not do better than the pictures of West Elm Caleb floating around after he got dozed. Then women are really attracted to fuckboys then. I knew that already so I have no empathy when they get played.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah, those men genuinely piss me off. Have some fucking pride guys. Women are only this delusional in dating because we do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:40 PM
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That's why you don't commit to women with a 15+ body count. Or, at least that's my cut off. I don't want that shit looking like bagged up deli meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure they are secure in themselves. Most of them think the dude with thousands of options is gonna pick them in the end. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:37 PM
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https://www.mic.com/articles/122962/pornhub-study-reveals-women-want-hardcore-porn It's not some women, it twice the amount of women as men. Also, if you aren't into being submissive, don't fuck a guy that wants to be dominant. I enjoy choking a girl while fucking her, but I'm not doing that with a girl who isn't consenting (explicitly or implicitly).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:34 PM
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A significant portion of men's sexuality involves defilement/degradation. Women consume degrading porn at twice the rate we do, so that's a complete myth https://www.mic.com/articles/122962/pornhub-study-reveals-women-want-hardcore-porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:34 PM
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West Elm Caleb is the GOAT. Seriously though, you guys kind of want to be lied to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:33 PM
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Stop taking your genitals so seriously and it wouldn't be so much fun. It isn't trolling by the way (for the mods sake). Just a little ribbing thrown in with my actual points. I don't hate women, I just find when they get mad exceedingly hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:18 PM
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It's a stupid move on his part to relinquish that much control to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:17 PM
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All things a man can get on his own. Also, marrying only for a green card is fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:10 PM
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If that bothers you about your wife, you shouldn't have married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:10 PM
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Nah, I'm just kind of a button pusher. I'm working on it. Women's reaction to that kind of shit is hilarious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:07 PM
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Or just don't marry her if those are red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:59 PM
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The men here seem to still want to date women they think little to nothing of. That sounds more like a four letter word that starts with a C that is banned from being used in this subreddit. If they are complaining about women, they think a whole lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:53 PM
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Someone's gotta tell him. He cares way too much about women's dating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:28 PM
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So there is a way for women to avoid that? Glad to know. You should avoid people you aren't compatible with. Every other comment makes it like men are hurricanes you can't avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:26 PM
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Not a complaint, just an observation. And you're right, women I don't want in my life aren't in it and the women that I want are. It's a lot more in men's control than they've been taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:25 PM
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Mad insecure dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:14 PM
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I don't really feel disgust at women's sexuality. It's their life they can do what they want and them fucking other men has no effect on me. You wanna turn that bearded axe wound into the world's most visited theme park, that's up to you. Women's emotions and general behavior disgust me more often. Particularly their entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:14 PM
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Good thing there are also other things we are doing at the time. It's Cilantro, not the entire meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:07 PM
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So you’re not interested in pursuing romantic relationships? That’s good Not with most women. Most woman after knowing them a month, a lifetime with them would be hell. Sounds boring. Then don't hang out with my friends and I. Why? Is it good for your boring emotions? Why not just colleagues? Because we share similar interests and enjoy each other's company. We don't feel the need to pick fights for emotional excitement with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:03 PM
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ur way of thinking is so dark. No it isn't. Acknowledging that life isn't always fair and doesn't always work out the way you want isn't dark. men that i’m not attracted to and have no compatibility with would be very unhappy with a potential deadbedroom. Then they have the option to leave to find a better woman, what's your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:01 PM
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Sure, but I'm not a woman so I have no clue how it can hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:58 PM
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If emotions are boring, why are you trying to build relationships based on emotion? Outside of romance, most of my relationships are built around doing something. Yes, we care about one another. But the most common emotion we share is laughter which is actually pro-social. In romance, women look at emotions like an amusement park and will go out of their way to start fights to feel that emotional high. So in the context of romantic involvement, it's boring. At least in the current incarnation. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:58 PM
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i love feeling things. it’s an amazing high. It's taking a brand new laptop and trying to run Windows 97 on it. Also, heroin addicts say the same thing. Practice some emotional control and you'll get much farther in life. it’s my natural personality, it won’t change overnight. and like i said, i enjoy being treated well. If you want the benefits, don't bitch about the detriments. i never said they had to be interested. i just wish it was more than “when will she fuck me” for some guys Can't refo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:54 PM
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The only real difference is I can be friends with a male boss. I don't want to be friends with a female boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:49 PM
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I have no idea who she is, so your point just missed me. God forbid you do a google search. I can get how being obnoxious is irritating, but for a woman to be obnoxious it's often enough not to be highly agreeable and as pleasant as it's expected from her. If you provide reasoning beyond "that's how I feel" most men will respect that. What we hate is women who cosplay being assertive, confident, and more masculine. Often women think combative and competitive are the same things. Society has shov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:48 PM
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Human height has increased 5 inches in the last 100 years. Gotta love industrialized farming. I'm guessing you've been eating up that crap science Peterson calls "evolutionary psychology", which is pseudoscience. Utter bullshit. Wow you are a stereotype. Monogamy is a choice for sure, but no idea what you think that has to do with this discussion or why you are fixated on it. You are expressing complete entitlement that all men try to be monogamous when that is no longer necessary for the surviv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:44 PM
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Surprised they believe they have something to offer a woman they have zero in common with, yes. How would they know that before speaking to you? But that seems to be a habit of most men. Yeah, dating is a numbers game for us. Women have plenary control of dating so if you want that to change, that's on you. do you really believe that my coworker who flipped a table with several machines while screaming at me for refusing to attend his LAN party should be excused because he's "bad with women"? He…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:38 PM
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emotions are not boring. Yeah they are. It's the same shit in different packaging. "My oxytocin and cortisol levels are elevated and I'm gonna make you pay for it" is how women's emotions come out most of the time. it’s not a win to be looked at as childlike. Then stop being childlike. i have to go through all the men within my vicinity. talk to them. see if they’re interested in more than just my looks, etc etc. i’m an average woman. vetting is a tedious process. How can they be interested in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:34 PM
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I’m what is referred to as a trust fund kid, I grew up in poverty and my financial value is all self-made. So we're probably going to have very different views of the world. I love how aristocracy is a society we should aspire to in your eyes. At least you wear that privilege right on your sleeve. is too high it can be ridiculous but bro you can always move to Brazil, you will be like a king down there lol Phuket is more my speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:31 PM
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Irrelevant. Humans have lived in a cooperative culture with laws, rules, and religious and societal norms for 40,000 years. You're a biologist (allegedly). 40K years is nothing in terms of evolution, and we've only moved from subsistence farming to industrialization for the last 300 years at the most. We cooperated and were monogamous because it was necessary for our children's survival. It no longer is now. It's terrifying, frankly, and the couch potatoes have proven to be more prone to rage wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:27 PM
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If a woman has done it once, it doesn't mean she dates only for food. It means she's done it at least once. It's still a shitty thing to do, don't get me wrong. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. And women aren't doing it just once, they do it to men they aren't attracted to and are dishonest about their intentions. It's just the nature of the game, and I would tell men there is no reason to get angry about shit you cannot control, that kind of shit is part of that. men real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:21 PM
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but anytime i was logical, tried to problem solve, or spoke about serious topics he’d be kinda disappointed almost. You think your boyfriend represents all 3.5 billion of us, got it heard. Emotions are boring, I'd much rather know how someone thinks. maybe because my natural personality is so childlike, it’s almost like im this precious little thing What is with the humblebragging from women in this post? i just have ambitious, independent, and i guess what many in here would describe as manly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:17 PM
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You want a cookie for the bare minimum? Nice is the baseline of human behavior. I don't want shit from you, just telling you how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:14 PM
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Every moderately attractive young woman in my town has had similar experiences. Oh, you're so cute when you humblebrag. The introverted men who worked in my old IT job did all kinds of stupid things to every woman in the building. They were socially inept and read far too much pick up and red pill nonsense. I'm in a similar field and position. You're shocked engineers don't have as good of social skills as dudes who got a useless degree and treated college like a party? I don't agree with the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:13 PM
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I'll be honest, your friend groups look like hell from my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:05 PM
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I guess men and women are exposed to the worst of each other, because they tend to date each other and they don't get as much batshit from their own gender as they do from the opposite gender Yes. We also tend to listen to stories from our own gender about the opposite and not vice versa. It's also just different communications styles. If you make an aspersion about my entire gender. I'm gonna need some data to back that up. Women take anything negative, even if true, as misogyny. I say 1/3rd of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:05 PM
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Committing to someone for a lifetime of shared experiences and common goals requires more than mere rutting. There are no other primate species that practice monogamy. We are going against nature with concepts like marriage. The only reason monogamy was adopted was to best ensure the survival of children, but we have modern medicine for that now. It will take an incredibly special woman for me to commit fully to her, so it may never happen. Good thing gash is plentiful in the world. You've remov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:00 PM
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Agreed. They need to earn that commitment. If they don't, they got 3.5 billion other men to try and get it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:53 PM
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True. I don't remember the lines of men trying to fuck Aileen Wuornos. Women are something special, they judge how we mate select and then go and try to marry and fuck serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:51 PM
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Oh my god, eww. That's disturbing. You literally objectified me for being shorter than you. Shut up. Men view their wives as possessions. You know, our mindset on objectification is not a fixed one. Most of the time when I'm in a relationship I am loving, caring, sweet, considerate of her feelings and empathetic (I can be these things, I just choose not to be with most women) etc. Sometimes I just need you to be an object though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:50 PM
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Okay, there is something you are not disclosing about your relationships with men. Every dude at work is breaking their backs trying to fuck you, trying to slash your tires in Target parking lots when you reject them. You're leaving out details about your involvement in these interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:47 PM
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I knew this already, but it still made me feel ill. Who women are is not important; how women look is important. That’s all they need. An appearance which matched their preference and some indication of loyalty is sufficient. Sounds like you were fucking around with dudes who had no other options. Don't roll around with pigs if you don't want mud on you. All those times men complain about having to listen to the boring minutia of their wife’s day? It isn’t because she’s boring; it’s because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:44 PM
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I truly believe that many men love women like objects which is why they can overlook her not being employed, educated, or interesting as long as she’s pretty. Most men know that doesn't work for the long term. Employed or educated I don't care about, I'm financially set up right now to take care of a family just with my income and investments. But of course she has to be interesting. If all I needed was aesthetics, I'd be fucking Thai hookers the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:41 PM
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I’d love to know the answer to this question, too. In my experience, men don’t require chemistry or even mutual interest before pursuing women. It's a biological imperative to breed for the success of our species. You're welcome. I don’t feel anything at all unless we share common interests and great conversation, doesn’t matter how physically attractive he is. Because your survival is dependent on men. You specifically since you told me you are skinny and weak. You have an incentive for us to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:39 PM
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Yeah that was meant to go to the automod in response to the OP. But no, men do not pull that kind of shit nearly as much as women do. A man has never said "And that's why your mother didn't love you" to my face. That was the first day I understood why some women get hit. safety, we wish there weren't men who harass, abuse, stalk, rape, beat or kill women How? Here's the thing, other men don't sexually assault women in front of us most of the time. So how the fuck you want us to stop every single…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:33 PM
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Oh for sure. Just one female behavior for example: If men brought up old shit or their partners insecurities during fights just to try and win (in my case "that's why your mother didn't even love you" was thrown at me once. Put a hole in the wall after that unfortunately) they'd melt down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:31 PM
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They'd have a collective conniption if we treated them the way they treat us. Oh it would be hilarious. Just imagine a guy bringing up a woman's insecurities to try and win an argument, now imagine all of us doing that to all women. People would die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:30 PM
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Dating. It hurts every man at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:29 PM
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It isn't that your shitty. It's that the shitty ones are exciting and the nice ones are fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:28 PM
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We have a biological imperative to breed. Blame mother nature for that. Also, we build a relationship from sex. If the sex is bad, there is no point in getting to know a woman (in a romantic context, not a platonic context) anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:27 PM
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then how should men be currently responding to women. If you enjoy their company, attention. If you don't, apathy. I'm a guy, so that isn't the end all be all, but that's how I roll and it's worked out so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:26 PM
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i originally didn’t know looks mattered so much. Blame our biological imperative to breed. any logical thinking or “talking like a man” is repulsive. I'd actually appreciate more logic and less emotion from women, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:25 PM
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Then why bring it up if there are no solutions to it? That's your cross to bear, men have our crosses to bear too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:23 PM
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I'd say female sexual attraction is just goofy. They are binary in their judgments of us, but women find different things attractive. The "I want a 6 foot 100K a year Chad", yeah, they usually say that around other women because women are shitty to each other about their tastes in men, and that's the safe option. Don't get me wrong, that guy will have more success in general, but he doesn't have a monopoly on bearded axe wounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:20 PM
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But some men take rejection from viscerally, and react in violent or toxic ways Nothing I can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:18 PM
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I agree. You want me to be beneficial to society and not just to myself, give me a reason to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:17 PM
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Dying is not exactly a group activity, so, everyone dies alone. Being technically correct is not an accomplishment. You may not care what people / women think of you, but you should act like you care to some extent. Play your role in society. No. I don't owe society a damn thing. I will be me, you like it stick around, you don't leave. Society is intent on becoming worse, particularly American society, so I say let it rot and escape with my soul intact. Men do not owe society anything, you can i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:16 PM
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Yeah, it's kind of pathetic isn't it. I do a little mental experiment and transpose how I'd react if female behavior was exhibited by a man (not just feminine like gay men, but the constant insecurity, fucking up the fun of a conversation that men are having etc.) I'd probably despise that motherfucker. Women can't really help that they're like that, but they fight tooth and nail to never improve. Only disagreement I'll say is they feel insecure about men they are attracted to, which is universa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:10 PM
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Yeah, that feeling that is common in men is why I made this post. A lot of women are dismissing it as "obvious" but clean your room (Or "make one room in your home as beautiful as possible" to be precise) is also obvious advice yet a lot of men needed to hear it. Stay strong my friend. Remember that the only person you are required to associate with is you so trying to fake it to be with a woman will never be worth it. When I cared about women the most, that's when they cared about me the least.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:08 PM
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You're right, our attention can be fickle and we can be shallow. Blame biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:04 PM
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is a beautiful thing and if you can you should go hard at getting that given the opportunity hell I would crawl 20 miles through the snow if I knew I was guaranteed a family that I really cared about and a true home. Ever heard of a concept called "Opportunity Cost"? The opportunity cost for chasing women is too high to justify that approach. While you crawl through 20 miles of snow, I'll be chasing money so I can live on nice beautiful beaches the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:00 PM
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Nearly all women have faced some form of abuse from men. And nearly all of us have put up with some bullshit from women, were humiliated by women (not just rejected, went out of their way to try and humiliate you) and a lot of men have been financially raped by women. Life is shitty sometimes and nobody is bereft of bad experiences. We don’t generalise men FDS begs to differ. You men acting hostile about it isn’t going to change our opinions on it either it’s just further proving we need to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:51 PM
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Yeah, I'm not chemically castrating myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:12 AM
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I barely scratched the surface, and it was to set up my point. Not to be analyzed. If you think my view is wrong, logical arguments would be appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:38 AM
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True freedom is doing things that fulfill your goals without letting OTHER PEOPLE (women included) to interfere with it. Got that covered already. Based on your story, I am going to say, you still have some leftover baggage with women due to your upbringing. Hashed it out in therapy when I was 22-23. I'm good. Framing your whole life around "NOT women" is what you are actually doing. This is not only unhealthy, it will actually put you down on a bad path that could result in you getting radicali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:24 AM
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I guess we are at an impasse. You also enjoy the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:05 AM
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Anecdotal and unverifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:44 AM
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neat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:42 AM
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It's just projection or protecting their ego. I've gone through way worse than a dry spell. Growing up in poverty, there are a lot of other things I'd be resentful of first before not getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:31 AM
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Enjoy the stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:28 AM
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but all women arent your mom Never said they were. and your dad was an adult too, however unreliable. He's got a right to self-preservation too. Shit I abandoned her too the second I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:23 AM
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You still here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:22 AM
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You'd be in the move on category. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:18 AM
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Still not a challenge to my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:17 AM
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That’s means for dudes to not piss off their S.O. and keep them happy We are two adults, it's not my fucking job to keep you happy, it's our job to keep the relationship happy. How many other things have you misunderstood this whole time? Not really a challenge to my view, more an attempt at analysing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:15 AM
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and yet you responded to the comments about resentment. looks like that person struck a chord. It's a CMV, I'm responding to everyone. IMO, you need to break the pattern your mom set, but you just seem to be repeating it. my mother was borderline and married multiple times, but I did not marry at all until I was 40. I was proposed to but hated the idea of marriage and children due to my mother and her mood swings. Oh lovely, more psychoanalysis. At least you tried to be relatable in this one. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:13 AM
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Yeah, I'm saying what I will do if I see an imminent collapse of the US, I'll leave. It isn't collapsing and I got 17 more years of investing my money before my retirement at 45. So this shit just has to last another 17 years, then I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:10 AM
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Let's stay away from the psychoanalysis from now on. I paid a professional to do that already years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:09 AM
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When did the US economy fully collapse? I must have missed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:05 AM
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You've never heard phrases like "happy wife, happy life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:04 AM
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Because your happiness is paramount I gotta be miserable to prove I care about someone? How can you make an “us” when it all starts and ends with “I”? Defer to my leadership, move on if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:04 AM
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It gets you to another society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:02 AM
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Like 45% at the most. The other 55% aren't attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:00 AM
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Why do you think I wouldn't care what my partner thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:54 AM
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Never looked at RP really, this is as close as I've gotten. RP and FDS seem to be too echo chambery for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:53 AM
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You're not fighting her. You're fighting with yourself. Living in a era full of promiscuous women will only reminds you of her. Keep the distance is your goal and the closer way to do it is cutting interactions with a woman. Any woman. But for that you must convince yourself of the decision. Resentment is a short road. Pure conjecture
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:42 AM
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They won't collapse before I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:39 AM
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Society isn't really my problem. If the US collapses, I got enough money to relocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:36 AM
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Well there is a disagreement then. If you're attracted to eyebrows, you're a goofball. I got laid because of it so I appreciate it, but that girl is still a goofball for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:40 AM
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I've been cussed out to my face by women when I express this viewpoint to them, seems women on reddit are more mature than women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:38 AM
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Sure, but isn't that supposed to be nebulous to be based on individual men's interpretation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:36 AM
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You had a hard childhood and this childhood involved your mother. Your mother is a woman and because she's a woman, you can't help but see her in other women. You can see what I'm trying to say. I can see you trying to psychoanalyze me. True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirely? That's the title. I can and will use this statement with men too. I will encourage young women to no care and to stop looking for men validation like it's what matter the most. Goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:18 AM
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One man's jerk is another man's friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:14 AM
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You don't care about his opinion of your lifestyle choices and personal habbits. I never did. I did briefly with women and had to work to not care. Since this has never been a problem with men, they aren't necessary to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:13 AM
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They had a gash and were hot. I don't need to know how hot dogs are made either, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:12 AM
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Attempts at it come from women a hell of a lot more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:08 AM
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That's not a reason to care what they think of you. Depends on the man. If the man is my boss, I should probably care what he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:06 AM
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Lol, they were all at least 4 -5 inches shorter than me so I'm fairly certain. It's not everyone's cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:05 AM
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I never did, except for my friends and colleagues. It's more than freedom from opinions, its freedom from judgment, freedom from shaming, freedom from emotional drama etc. It's gendered because this is a subreddit about gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:04 AM
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this is not men vs women thing. In regards to dating and sex, it kinda is. I don’t think anyone will challenge your view, since it’s true in any context. You've never seen how angry women who feel rejected, even in the abstract, can act.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:02 AM
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I'm not unloved, I've got plenty of friends I care about. I'm sure you do or can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:01 AM
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I think this post is probably gonna get labeled a circle jerk unfortunately as nobody is challenging me, ah well. Glad y'all are in agreement that women find goofy shit attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:59 PM
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They are different in this regard. I'm not trying to fuck dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:58 PM
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Yes, but this is a subreddit where we talk about dynamics and politics between men and women, and most men aren't troubled by the opinions of men outside of their social group, they may care what women as a group think of them though, and it's socially encouraged to worry what you think of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:56 PM
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Agreed, but what men think about me has never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:55 PM
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Yup, agreed. If I ever hit too dry a spell, Pattaya and Phuket girls are always there for me, lol. "I get older, they stay the same age (over 18 of course)"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:54 PM
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I wouldn't say I've given up, it's just not the top priority and I know I'll find happiness and contentment whether women are in my life or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:49 PM
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"Bitch made" is the term I'd use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:38 PM
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You don't meet my requirements then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:37 PM
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Again, I'm 5 foot 8, I don't meet your height requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:12 PM
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Why are you expecting a pot-smoking comedian to provide a fucking symposium on his podcasts? Don't blame him, blame the dipshits who get their information from a comedian. I appreciate that there is at least one place with open dialogue. You wanna control what people can say, consider yourself my enemy. I don't agree with Mccullough and Malone, but I'd rather hear them out in full and make my decision on what I think of their views and ideas rather than have it spoon fed to me by mainstream medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:04 PM
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I don’t think it’s possible for women to degrade a man sexually. You've never heard of CBT or pegging apparently. Women degrade men in status usually. Cucking and shit like that. “Gonna fuck Rogan later, I’ll show that conspiracy spreading piece of shit the real facts” Oh, you're one of those. Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:43 PM
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It kind of changed my view on women, particularly rejection. A girl was attracted to me for something I don't even notice and that was enough for her to decide to want to fuck me. If that is what made her want me, then the reasons women reject me are probably just as innocuous and non-sensical, so I just don't take rejection personally. That's what I try to tell men having a hard time with women, they are goofy and impossible to understand, just be yourself, don't attach your ego to any potentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:42 PM
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Sure. Do you have a greater point than to throw a jab?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:45 PM
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She's a grifter. It took her two years to sell out to Pelosi's wing of the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:45 PM
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Watch the comments about AOC unfold and you’ll discover quickly that certain men have fantasies of humiliating women they don’t like and women who wouldn’t give them the time of day. Everyone has revenge fantasies, not necessarily sexual, but everyone has a fantasy of getting even with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:44 PM
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With him I was more concerned about him getting fired from his job because some of those girls called his workplace, which is petty as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:29 PM
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I doubt engineers are out there getting all the pussy and being leches. As an engineer I should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:23 PM
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I look at those girls a little sideways. The game he was running was so fucking obvious from my perspective that a girl walking into that doesn't get a lot of sympathy from me. It would be like if another NBA player wifed up Brittany Renner. Your dumb ass is asking to be taken advantage of at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:21 PM
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95% of men get judged for the actions of 5% of them. Women like doing that and it won't change. Also, I'm in a similar industry and it's the same here. I'm the only single man on my team in fact. The people attracted to our field aren't hound dogs, they were too busy learning a skill that pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:16 PM
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You're not gonna find a pattern dude. Women are goofy when it comes to this. I got laid once because I have nice eyebrows, they find weird and idiosyncratic shit attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:01 PM
1

Watch to the end of the clip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:44 PM
1

This post got removed so I'll need to find a better way to put it, but watch the clip to see why those answers are... interesting to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:42 PM
2

Pretty sure the vast majority of men universally accept they will pay for the first date and then it's idiosyncratic to the relationship from there. Anyways, how would another man's spending habits on dates affect how I spend on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:53 PM
0

like Sultans which had more virgins then they could fuck in a lifetime. That's basically the same dynamic as women getting flown out to Dubai though, and the shit that goes down there tells me these Oil magnates and royal family members are just straight up bored. I don't ever want sex to be accessible to me that involving camels sounds like a fun idea. Strife, hard work, and struggle are not things to necessarily be avoided. They keep you grounded so you don't have your camel licking hummus off…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:12 PM
1

My own lizard brain would like a harem of 10/10 virgin women which would be submissive, would pay all bills, would do all house-chores, and would take turns eating my ass while I'm playing game. That honestly sounds like it would get old 3-6 months in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 PM
1

I think the woman should both work and do the chores. And if she refuses the man should leave her. I disagree. I'm a man and believe it or not, I LIKE cleaning my place and cooking for myself. That shit is just being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:59 AM
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I agree, they are just LARPing as strong independent women. I've met one woman who fit that ideology in real life, and when you actually stood up to her she was a pathetic little mouse. I used to say the most over the top misogynistic shit just to try and piss her off and see how she reacted, conversation with her was rather boring otherwise. Any sane person could see I was obviously fucking around ("I keep my girlfriend chained to an engine block, naked, in the kitchen to fetch me beer and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:55 AM
0

There are constant articles about the "chores gap" and if you've ever been in a group of women, they straight up ask about that. Some shit just isn't your business. Can you accept sometimes the ideal isn't always equal for some people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:45 AM
1

You want me to use anecdotal evidence? There is no way for you to verify that (I'm not disclosing my actual identity) so I'm trying to bring up things that we both know to be actual events. But if you need anecdotal evidence, I was told to be empathetic to my mother facing the challenges of being a single mother when I was 7... after she shoved me in a dryer and turned it on. I got a billion more stories like that. Came to school with bruises on my arms, exhibited a lot of signs of an abused kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:42 AM
1

Okay, how about the women who still defend Amber Heard? Personally if you shit in my bed, you're lucky if all I do is sock you in the face. Women still defend her with that "a woman reacting to abuse with abuse is not abusive" rhetorical horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:36 AM
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Why are women so obsessed with how others run their household? This obsession would be like if men checked in to make sure their buddy's wives are giving ass up at appropriate intervals ("Make sure she gives it up 3 times a week or she doesn't love you" for example) That ain't are fucking business and how couples split their chores and bills isn't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:32 AM
3

Pretty sure that's a woman you're responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:30 AM
5

I wanted to ask this question on r/AskFDS but apparently they have a rule which states you aren't allowed to question any individual belief that people in the FDS community have. Imagine my shock, lol. Basically, many women on the FDS sub seem to simultaneously believe that splitting bills in a relationship is unacceptable and that men should pay all of the bills in a relationship and be the breadwinners, while also believing that men should do most if not all of the housework in a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:28 AM
3

His day will come when he feels above average and like he can get the hot chick (currently whore) he’s always wanted. Well he's gonna learn that looks don't cover up for someone being a complete pain in the ass (which a woman has no incentive not to be if every other dude on the planet is also trying to fuck her). For every beautiful woman out there, there are at least a couple dudes sick of her shit. Beauty ain't special, men need to stop valuing it as much as women who provide happy homes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:17 AM
1

All the fucking time. Hell it happens here all the time when you see guys voicing their complaints about a woman or women. Typically you'll see at least a few responses in the vein of "Yeah, well, rape exists so your points and feelings are 100% invalid". In real life, any time you talk about women and get an "I understand what you're saying, but..." response. Word of advice, everything you say before the word "but" means nothing as soon as you say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:05 AM
9

Damn shame if that's the case. I'm tired of seeing men lead these lives of quiet desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:15 AM
1

I agree with that, I've got a "meet the perfect woman for me, or die alone" mindset too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:06 AM
2

Only in Target parking lots hon. Don't have a lot of success with it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:58 AM
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If you meant some, you would have said some. You're right, I'm not, I may never be, not gonna stop me from trying. The funny thing is you also disagree with me that men should hold women to a higher standard of comportment by deflecting to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:45 AM
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men are blimps I don't see any qualifiers that indicate "some", or "a percentage" of men. You said men are all low quality. Just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:40 AM
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For fucks sake stop being so literal and obtuse lady Dikembe Mutombo. Yes women watch porn, consuming social media sets off the same level of dopamine. Also, sorry for having a slow day and conversing with you during it. I'll think better of doing that next time if you're gonna throw it in my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:34 AM
1

General you, not you specifically. That trick is getting old by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:28 AM
1

Not about this subject, what's your point? I don't remember ever talking to you about social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:22 AM
1

Porn is porn for women. Porn is indulging a fantasy. When women watch influencers on IG, that's what they are doing. Quit being so dense and obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:21 AM
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Women deserve what they can get for themselves. Welcome to capitalism. You wanted in, now experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:20 AM
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Wealth doesn't make men universally high quality. Self-made wealth doesn't tell you anything about a man's character? Nothing about being a hard worker, intelligent, determined, focused, strength of conviction? You get nothing else from people who made their own wealth than the wealth itself. That's shallowness you need to address. Each gal has different standards, and if she doesn't value material goods she won't a value a man who relies on offering material goods to women. Again, a man buildin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:20 AM
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She's saying all men are low quality, I provided an example of ones that ostensibly aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:12 AM
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I can say no all I want the point is men are usually unable to date their equals due to womens insane hypergamy And what is gonna change their hypergamy? They won't without external incentive, and neither will complaining about it. I'm tired of seeing men in agony in dating, but complaining won't fix that, getting rid of the "toxic masculinity" brainwashing most of them have gone through and teaching them to take hold of their lives is a good start though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:09 AM
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Then we do our best to help as many men get there as possible. I'm already trying to help new guys set up their Roth, teaching them what index and mutual funds are good for etc. You can't get all men there, but let's get as many as possible. I'm tired of seeing my fellow man suffer in today's environment. I hope other men feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:07 AM
2

Even multibillionaires? Piss off, you know that's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:03 AM
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Then learn to say no to it if you are unsatisfied with the pussy you are getting. Women will never change, the only way to get every man a woman is legally mandate it. I don't think that's a world anybody wants. Our next best option, stop tolerating below average women and below average pussy and collectively stop being the safety nets women fall into after the guys at the top are done with them. It's gonna take a long time but if you want it to change this is how it changes. Women won't change …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:02 AM
3

I like how Boomers were to millenials as millenials are to Gen Z. I hate those rude little shits too. I'm a millenial and I already feel like an old man screaming at kids to get off his lawn with this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:56 AM
1

Should I take those men as representation of the entire gender? You already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:55 AM
1

Yeah, girls are goofy like that. Why engage with institutions and technologies that make you feel like shit? Facetune is another example of that. There are stories of goofy women going to plastic surgeons with facetuned photos of themselves thinking that shit is realistic at all. Technology and social media hit women with an elbow from the top rope, and I'm waiting until y'all realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:51 AM
1

Read "Coddling of the American Mind" if you really think men and women are equally affected by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:45 AM
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I think fighting fatherlessness is the top priority to kill that kind of mindset. I grew up with a single mother and more often than not all they are doing is trying to raise the man they would want as a husband. We need to break that trend of rising single motherhood if we want this fuckstorm of gender relations to be fixed. How pathetic is it to send money to a girl you've never fucked? I just want to shake most men and tell them to have some fucking pride nowadays. Pussy is a fraction of an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:43 AM
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I just take it as license to fuck with them right back if they are rude. They're humans, they take shits just like you and I. Of course, I do tend to drive off the nicer girls, so YMMV with my approach, lol. Nice girls just bore me right now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:41 AM
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I was able to afford that when I was making 70K a year. You don't have to be rich. If you aren't going to try and find solutions for your lack of pussy, shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:40 AM
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Women, and men, are getting more rude because the beast of social media feeds their ego. Social media is basically porn for women. They feel like people care what they have to say, and evidently being judgmental or an asshole can garner attention on the internet. That's called a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:38 AM
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Then work on yourself and get yourself to a point in your career where you can afford that. Some women are gonna shame me for it, I just look at it as exercising an easier option. Men are going pay for pussy in some way, sometimes I'd rather just pay for it in money rather than time. Also it's not a whore. After the tickets you'll have about 3.5 K left, 500 for a 3 star hotel for a couple weeks, 3 grand can get you all the alcohol you want and a new girl every night, at least last time I went wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:36 AM
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In my head that would be "push this chicks face into the pillow until she can't breathe" territory once sex started. How gay does that upper body strength feel sweetie? I've never gotten that, but I always get "your dumb" and a cutesy little slap on the shoulder or something like that. Women's only way to flirt involves negging apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:34 AM
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You don't like what you're attracting, work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:33 AM
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Women are just gonna do what they are gonna do. It helps nobody to get mad at them or change them. They will respond to the stimuli around them. I'd like to see more simp-shaming honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:32 AM
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Wow, if I had started investing at that age, I’d have quit work by now to do other things! Well done man! I grew up in poverty, when I saw the opportunity for financial freedom I ran to it. The first time I broke down crying as an adult was when I had 2 years budgeted in my savings. It felt like the pressure of the world lifted off of me and the first time I stopped catastrophizing my career and my finances. Money can't buy happiness, but it helps a lot and buys you the tools (like therapy) to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:31 AM
1

Depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:26 AM
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Porkers. I was one so that was what I attracted. I don't like fat women so I had to stop being a fat fuck myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:24 AM
3

If enough men are willing to just completely forego pussy with no malice or bitterness, the latter will occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:21 AM
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Then men need to demand more. Demand F-22s, not blimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:21 AM
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Men need to put women on the back burner and focus on important things. Yes. If I have a son I'm teaching him that. "You'll never lose women chasing money, but you'll lose money chasing women". They ain't the fucking prize, you are. The woman you want to spend the rest of your life with will be the prize, the rest are extra curricular activities. That's how many women see us, so what's good for the goose is good for the gander. I don’t want to add any liabilities to my life. Got lucky, made the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah, it's easier said than done, it takes a lot of discipline. But if men want dating to change, they are going to have to do that. If all of us refused to tolerate shitty, thotty, gross, slutty behavior eventually it would change. Why a big butt and some pheremones will cause men to let their empire crumble (PJ Washington's stupid ass for example) I'll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:13 AM
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Most men would be incels if they took that attitude. It would be voluntary. Again, men being led by their dicks is just as pathetic as women led by their emotions. The vast majority of men can't get the hot chicks they actually want. So it's either settle for less or be a virgin Or get an escort, or save up 5K for a trip to Phuket. Pussy is plentiful in the world my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:05 AM
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Then be a man and learn. Realize all that "toxic masculinity" stuff is bullshit and emotional resilience is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:02 AM
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And it shouldn't be acceptable? That's a really weird fucking thing to use for your argument. No, it shouldn't be acceptable, but it being acceptable in some circles is an argument that applies to literally everything. It's an argument that is void for vagueness. I didn't make the Cardi B admission like pulling teeth. I just thought you'd understand my view on it by what i previously said. "Gross" =/= "Deserves to rot in prison" I'm not complaining about it here. I'm just saying my experience is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:02 AM
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Unfortunately some men do have to take what they can get if they want some ass bad enough. Hard for me to feel bad for those men. If you aren't getting the pussy you want, don't settle for less. Make yourself better until the women who have the pussy you want give you a chance. You can say no to substandard pussy. I was celibate for five years for that very reason. I was 240 lbs in college and wasn't attracted to the women who were attracted to me. I'm down to 165 and doing fine now. Men need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:55 AM
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It is still acceptable in some circles. Child porn is acceptable in some circles. All manner of fucked up things are accepted in some circles. They must might get called out on it more often but those same people don't call out abuse towards fat men so yes it's a bit of a privilege. Thank you for not making that admission like pulling teeth like you did with Cardi B. I don't want anything? I was just saying my experience is different then women who aren't fat You're complaining about it existing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:53 AM
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I just match the energy whenever women get immature like that. I've made a few cry, but it was worth it. Chivalry and gentlemen are dead, and women killed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:46 AM
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Being alone is better than being with people who make you feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:43 AM
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By your own admission it isn't socially acceptable to make fun of you, so you are currently privileged over men in that respect, right? If it is currently unacceptable, what else do you want? Men to invent a time machine to stop fat jokes from ever existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:40 AM
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Frat boys literally record gang rapes and send it to their friends. And they go to jail for it. The cardi b thing is gross and i haven't spent money on her or listened to her music since. Gross, that's a funny way to describe a felony. Bill Cosby was just "gross" too then, right? None of this should be happening to anyone but to say it hasn't happened to women is not accurate Has it happened en masse to women since you've been alive? A lot of women love to ride the coattails of struggles other w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Maybe my thoughts on this are skewed because I'm a fat woman and until recently it's been socially acceptable to make fun of me. It is still socially acceptable to make fun of fat men, don't even play that card.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:33 AM
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I remember hearing stand up in high school that was joking about how "maybe women just nagged the taliban too much" It's stand up comedy. Chris Rock said he wanted white children murdered in his last special. It's gonna be hard for me to judge the joke without actually hearing it. Keep in mind, my favorite comic is Patrice O'Neal so my tolerance for fucked up jokes is probably a lot higher than yours. I think those jokes are horrendous Can you stop referring to drugging and robbing men as a joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:32 AM
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Maybe not for physical looks, definitely for behavior. Men should hold women to a higher standard of behavior and let the looks slide a bit. "Just take what you can get and be grateful for it, just accept that." That is the message we get, but actually adopting it is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:12 AM
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With the shittiest production values I've ever seen (people walking around in the background) half of it was an apology for HAVING A BAD DATE, and he wasn't even allowed to be the star of the most recent season of his own show. Garrison Keillor got fired for a hug, Chris Hardwick was suspended based on complete fabrications, Al Franken had to resign for a tasteless photo, I could go on and on about men being held to a higher standard of comportment than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:09 AM
3

It is what it is man. Those women are gonna be nasty and vile and all you can do is choose how you respond. Instead of going at them head to head (providing the emotional entertainment they were looking for) make fools of them. I think as a man to survive nowadays, you have to remove women from the equation of your ego entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:05 AM
3

Nice areas or shitty areas? Women getting kidnapped and raped after a show on the West End regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:03 AM
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You mean shit like the Honeymooners? So, shit that most of us weren't even alive when it was on its initial run. Women are taking that anger out on men who had nothing to do with it. Those jokes went out of style before I was even born (1993). Also, drugging and robbing men isn't a joke, and making fun of a man who was just castrated is cruelty. Do I get to make jokes about women in North Africa with missing clits? An "old ball and chain" joke is nothing compared to being made fun of for having …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:01 AM
3

Where in England is this and is this happening in places where "public housing" is a common phrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:57 AM
2

Why internalize it. The Bar bitches aren't gonna care if you do. Don't let yourself be bitter you only hurt yourself in the long run. Learn to laugh at women when they are acting like goofballs. The only power they have over men is the power we let them have. You don't have to care about their opinion of you. And it drives them insane when they see they have no effect on you whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:54 AM
3

By way of Mosul? you describe the place like a warzone. I doubt your experience is the common experience among English women. Also, nobody likes skinny chicks anymore. Why do you think women are getting surgery to look like a grotesque Jessica Rabbit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:51 AM
2

TikTok is literally just lemmings the app. I'm convinced the algorithm for it is written to venerate the stupidest people in the United States. Which would explain how a girl who fell for "love-bombing" would get big on it. In China it's an educational tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:50 AM
5

Most men, and then most women would stand up for her. Gotta love gendered tribalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:48 AM
2

What? I've never heard that. Women do try and flirt with insults though, but gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:47 AM
3

Brazil?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:46 AM
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Gotta love those. But women ain't special, if they are being rude to you, match that energy. Don't get angry, just get under their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:45 AM
1

No, but a lot of men confuse compliments with negative sexual attention. What kind of language are you using with women that are causing them to feel objectified or uncomfortable or make them have a bad reaction to? I'm not, it's more just being blunt to questions they may have. I don't make women feel objectified. They get upset at direct and blunt communication. I don't massage it enough for their feelings basically. Because this conversation is based on women feeling objectified by men's comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:44 AM
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That's more women having a hard time discerning between assertive and bitchy ("Why wasn't this done yesterday?" vs. "I told you to get this done yesterday" is just one example). Also, Aziz Ansari lost his entire career because he had a bad date. So male celebrities are held to a much higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:37 AM
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Yeah, women flirt like assholes. I always get called dumb and my arm slapped followed by a giggle. It's just annoying after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:35 AM
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I think men can respond to that just fine. Yeah, pathetic white knights will stand up, but there aren't legal consequences or anything like that. For example, the woman who was getting mad at you for looking at her. Just keep staring and once she asks what you are looking at, respond with "A 5" or something like that. They are more emotional than us, we're always gonna win those exchanges in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:33 AM
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It's more "you aren't gonna stop, so why should we?". I don't personally try and be spiteful to women, but I'm not gonna protect a nasty one either. And as a guy seeing women who do ugly things to men get rewarded can make you bitter. A go to example is Cardi B admitted to drugging and robbing men when she was a stripper. She didn't serve a day in prison and mainstream media exalts her. So as a guy, how else am I supposed to take that besides "society thinks it is acceptable to drug and rob men?…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:31 AM
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You do get to go on live TV and make fun of men who were mutilated by their wives (Sharon Osborne on her talk show). It's excused much more when women say spiteful and vindictive things. Women aren't innately cruel and callous, but society doesn't try and dissuade you from being cruel and callous all that often. Cardi B got to drug and rob men and she's exalted in mainstream culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:25 AM
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I do agree that some of it is getting out of hand but some of this "anti men" stuff is in direct response to men shitting on women. Which was probably in response to you shitting on men, which was probably in response to women getting shit on, and so on and so forth ad infinitum. There's a popular tiktok creator who stitches videos of guys saying awful shit about women and then she just roasts the dude. In that instance I feel its deserved. That's the other problem. Social media isn't real life,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:24 AM
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I'd say more dismissive than spiteful. You do have a point with women getting more rude though. But I think that has more to do with women not calling each other out on their bullshit when they are rude with one another, so of course they aren't going to change that behavior for our benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:19 AM
2

Also, why would we ask your intention if you're catcalling or giving negative sexual attention that was unwarranted? You'd be dense not to know the intentions in that case, but that isn't all interactions men and women have now is it? You aren't looking to have sexual or romantic intentions with men, are you? So? What does that have to do with the ability to correctly interpret a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:18 AM
5

Keep contact to a minimum. Just enough to not give the kid a negative view of their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:49 PM
1

Yes. We're not mind-readers. We don't know your intentions. Ask. Most interactions have to do with interpretations, this isn't new and is a common, basic human function that literally everyone uses. Men typically don't misinterpret me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:46 PM
1

You're overthinking pussy by a lot dude. work on yourself to cultivate the value that the kind of woman you want is looking for AND THEN cultivating the ability to display that value in a way she’ll enjoy experiencing. I agree, but that is a much more intuitive process than you are making it out to be. I just subscribe to Patrice O'Neal "Your happiness is paramount".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:02 PM
1

A google search shows an alleged lack of commitment. Per Lori Gottlieb most women she interviewed rated their marriage a 7/10 at the time of divorce, so I seriously doubt there was a lack of commitment from men. Also, same reasons were provided in lesbian relationships, and again they divorce at twice the rate of gay couples. Maybe you actually have some autonomy and responsibility in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:52 PM
1

It's purposefully vague so it can mean anything a woman wants it to when she's filing. The point is, you're breaking commitment 80-90% of the time. You also didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:45 PM
1

Irreconcilable differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:38 PM
1

Why is the lesbian divorce rate double that of the gay divorce rate if it's always men's fault that divorce occurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:23 PM
2

I'm getting a lot of pushback for women when I say I just walk away though. I'm not an ass about it, I just become apathetic to their existence when they've proven to be apathetic to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:17 PM
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I don't respect it (I think we probably have different definitions of respect) I just have enough courtesy to walk away and hope to never interact with you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:55 PM
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Do women not like women? On top of being the primary consumer of hardcore pornography (which every man has incessantly been told is violence against women), you also enjoy media about women getting murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:33 PM
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Not listening when we speak, speaking over us, not taking us seriously, acting entitled to our bodies, etc. I get told I'm not listening when I don't agree with a woman, even if I can tell her the point she made back to her. Men speak over each other as well, it's a microcosm of our competitive behavior. Speak up louder. Not taking you seriously is too nebulous to address. Entitled dudes annoy me to. I agree, I'm entitled to nothing from a woman and you are entitled to nothing from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:28 PM
1

No. If it's a boundary I think is ridiculous, I just disengage and stop talking to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:25 PM
1

Honestly, the foodie and music fan you described sound pretentious as fuck. Not great if you think all women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:15 PM
1

“If we were a movie You'd be the right guy And I'd be the best friend That you'd fall in love with in the end” 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:13 PM
0

I think when sex is readily available to you, you just find most of us don't entertain you or satisfy your desire for novelty. Doesn't make women bad people, just the way it is. It's the same reason you don't see wealthy people eating Spam and women who have a lot of sexual options (I'd say about 65% of y'all in your twenties would qualify for that) just see most men like Spam. Moral of the story, don't be Spam.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:12 PM
2

Women do not find the majority of men repulsive. I wouldn't say repulsive, definitely repellent or boring a lot of the time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:09 PM
1

I wouldn't say practically asexual, I'd say having an abundance of options allows them to choose much more than men do. They aren't asexual, they just find most of us boring or repellent in one way or another. You aren't gonna eat Foie Grois every single day if you get wealthy are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:09 PM
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Nah. Clean breaks heal faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:06 PM
1

If they can get pussy purely from their looks, why would they need to consult PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:58 PM
2

“wow I like how you did your hair today” "Who the fuck asked you?" is not an uncommon response if you are unattractive to a woman. Yes, that woman is more aggressive than average, but some women just hate the compliment because of who it's coming from. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:24 PM
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Which some women will still misinterpret. It's impossible to go through life coming off perfectly to every single woman, at least not without rending my actual personality and values asunder. My point is that guys shouldn't be walking on eggshells trying to make sure every woman on the fucking planet is comfortable at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:21 PM
1

That would at least be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:17 PM
2

Every woman is going to have a different interpretation on tone and wording and I'm not altering my personality to fit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:13 PM
0

But if someone only compliments you about physical characteristics and not accomplishments, personality, or behavior then I think it’s reasonable to feel objectified from that alone If I just met you, how do I know what your accomplishments are? Telepathy is not a feature of male privilege ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:10 PM
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A high-earning man obviously knows the woman he's with is attracted to his success, but most men don't want a woman who's solely using him for money. Women feel the same with beauty. It's not "picking or choosing" anything. Then have other things that make you attractive besides physical beauty. If all you are getting valued for is your body by men, maybe that's all you're offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:52 PM
0

I can read the room, I can't read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:47 PM
1

It's completely out of my control. I can say a woman has nice eyes and some will take it the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:47 PM
1

You have complete control over what you say and do. And no control over how someone else interprets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:31 PM
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I have absolutely no control over that. I can give a compliment. Once it leaves my mouth, it gets altered with whatever is going on in a woman's head and I have no control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:24 PM
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We're still complaining about the same thing. And what you are complaining about has nothing to do with our intentions and everything to do with your interpretation of our intentions. Whether you feel offended at a compliment or not has more to do with you than it does with me. But it's fucking shitty if you want to get treated as a human as a woman and you go "don't stare at my boobs for over a minute" and they "ok" and stop staring at the 59second mark so that they're not staring over a minute…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:15 PM
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So there are a shit ton of factors completely out of our control that will affect your interpretation. So whether you are being objectified or not has nothing to do with our intentions and everything to do with your interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:13 PM
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I think there are guys that objectify women, but most women's only way of attracting a man they've never spoken to before is with their aesthetic beauty. It's just another example of women wanting to pick and choose when they want to be appreciated physically or not. Nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:58 PM
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It’s a combination of factors including but not limited to: what is this man’s relationship to me, what is he complimenting, how is he saying compliment, has he ever complimented me on anything non-physical, how does he talk to me otherwise, etc. Sounds like a lot of stuff left completely up to female interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:55 PM
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So a woman being interrupted by a stranger who has some sort of superficial attraction to her isn’t allowed to describe how it feels from her perspective? You can describe whatever you want, you just don't get to take a chunk out of my ego while doing it. You can try, I'm just not going to attach my ego to my outcomes with women because at least half of all the variables in interacting with women is completely out of my control. I'm 5 foot 8, I've been rejected incredibly harshly for that. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:29 PM
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rather than begging strangers for attention. Who said to do that? You get rejected, move on to the next person. It's obvious you aren't going to approach this conversation with any semblance of good faith now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:19 PM
1

Dating a girl who subscribes to that horseshit ideology is already too much of a compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:06 PM
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It’s cute that you believe those women don’t have agency. They are sleeping with the men they want to sleep with. And those men are employing strategies to appear that way to those women. Yes, they have agency, men altering their behavior for pussy is proof of that. The problem with pick up isn’t how men treat women. It’s how men treat one another by encouraging them to trade a social life for cheat codes and relentless rejection. Life is relentless rejection if you're a man. After I graduated c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:57 PM
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I'd never allow that. All of them seem like toxic people. But, love and hate are next door neighbors so who knows. I'd actually be impressed with apathy though. That would break my expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:52 PM
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If the way you get attention from men is "get in my pussy", it is your fault. You want men to want you for more than sex, be enjoyable to be around outside of sex. Most women understand that concept, not sure why ALL of you can't understand something so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:51 PM
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If this stuff works then why are all PUAs alone? It's there to help men get pussy, not maintain healthy relationships. Those are two different skillsets. If it works then why are the same repeat customers on those subs for years without success? Failure to properly implement lessons or learn from failures. The point is that if women view it as manipulative, don't sleep with any dudes who employ any of those strategies. Men wouldn't use it if it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:39 PM
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Depends on the woman. Sometimes there is a real emotional connection with cuddling and flirting that would make others vomit, chocolate chip pancakes the next morning etc. Sometimes I just need to fuck something. Some girls I feel that connection with, and some girls are something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:37 AM
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The point is that when gender and gender roles play in your favor (getting your meal paid for on the first date far far more often than not is just one example) you don't hear anything about sexism. There is a lot of sexism towards women that comes for a place of infantilization and patronization, but you don't hear a fucking word against it from women. A more significant example is that if you and I were convicted for the same crime, on average I'd serve a 67% longer sentence than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:35 AM
2

Good for you, is that how first dates normally go?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:29 AM
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It depends on your mindset - do you see women first and foremost as sex dispensary mechanisms or as people who are worthwhile getting to know? Depends on the woman. If her favorite subject of conversation are the Real Housewives of who the fuck cares, then my opinion of that individual will veer to the former until proven otherwise. Either that, or annoying git I don't want to breathe the same oxygen as. If they are intelligent and interesting, then the latter. The truth is that you aren't going…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:15 AM
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Do you prefer to pay on the first date or the man to? If you prefer the man, you like benevolent sexism. It is what it is, just don't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:12 AM
2

It's very easy to tell which guys are just looking for pussy and which ones want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:45 AM
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It sounds like they led with sex and got mad when that was all men wanted. Suck it up and move on would be my advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:33 AM
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I'm talking about the situation where a woman approaches a man and he takes advantage of her giving the false premise they'd date and have an LTR. Why are you having sex the first time you meet a guy that could be long term? It sounds like she played herself. That's like a dude using money to get a woman and getting mad when she orders all the Market Price shit off a menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:28 AM
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There are also women who don't get rejected, but get used for sex and I'd guess it happens less often to men. Why is casual sex now "women getting used"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:25 AM
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This is FDSs only strong point. They are fun to fuck with too. It's funny to encounter a woman who has that kind of mindset in real life and just say the most over the top misogynistic shit just to see how they react.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:23 AM
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It's self-reported. Not a great collection method.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:51 AM
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Practically, those are the same options. Not attaching your ego to women's opinion or sex is how you get sex. Not looking for a particular outcome or attaching your ego to an outcome is generally how you get casual sex as well. So practically speaking, there is little difference between the two in real life application.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:05 AM
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Yeah, self-report is usually bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:45 AM
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Most of that data predates the rise in prominence in OLD (particularly dating apps) and overall social media. Would like to see updated data.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:43 AM
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All the ones she listed, very few of the cases that occur is because men fuck women. There are a billion other reasons you guys get UTIs and smelly pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:35 AM
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Some funny stories maybe. I'd like to date one and just say shit about women needing to be barefoot and pregnant, just to see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:32 AM
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If women are fucking the bad ones too, my point still stands. You don't want men to act that way towards you, don't reward that kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:28 AM
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Some funny stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:25 AM
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Then why separate sex and meaningful relationships in your statement? Also how exactly does a guy "extract" sex? How do you "extract" from a willing participant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:14 AM
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My partner has slept with over 300 women, do you think he cares about my slutty phase from 15 years ago? Anecdotal and exception that proves the rule. Sorry but if you've run through hundreds of people, past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. You found a relationship that works, great. I'm not banking my life on the remote possibility of making it work with a girl with triple digit body counts. I gamble on some things, not on my life. And if most of those girls never find a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:13 AM
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Well, you keep that section of real life, it sounds repellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:03 AM
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You said that sluts can't find men they want who want to commit to them. That's completely untrue. It will be more difficult for them than a girl who doesn't do that kind of shit, and I'd bet the sluts that are happily married are the exception, and you can't plan your life out expecting exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:52 AM
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And staying married 30-40 years down the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:41 AM
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Women like benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:17 AM
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To be fair you don't have similar emotions to us, you have about 40% on average more oxytocin flowing through you, so your emotions are probably more intense than mine. Also, is that men deciding that on their own, or is it men who feel they've been mistreated so they aren't going to put in the effort they feel you aren't putting in? Not saying it's right, but men's approach to women is a little more complicated than "come here, fucksleeve". Men are just more jaded to women's emotions at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:16 AM
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Why can't you have both? Why are sex and meaningful relationships mutually exclusive in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:14 AM
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My ex was obsessed with Mr. Darcy from pride and prejudice Same. That one I actually don't mind since Pride and Prejudice isn't trashy romance. Honestly if more romance movies were like the Kiera Knightley one I would like the genre a whole lot more. The other one from my ex was Jason Momoa, which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:06 AM
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Not a woman but I did see a bunch of chicks thirsting over Jason Momoa recently. If it's just a fantasy, go enjoy it. But if there are average chicks who think they got a shot with Jason Momoa, y'all need counseling and humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:04 AM
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And I am interested in your plan on doing that while still co parenting. Have my finances independently in order before starting a family. I'm 28 and don't plan to have kids until my mid forties. I can afford to wait that long, the vast majority of women can't so I'll probably have kids with someone young. I'll have my mortgage paid off before then. I'm also not having a kid until I go into semi-retirement so I can be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:25 AM
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You're right. I wasn't clear. What I meant was that if a woman is caught cheating, she's likely cheating because she's done with the marriage and engaged in an exit affair. Yet another reason not to marry as a man. Therefore when a woman cheats, reconciliation is much less likely to be possible because she's done and he's grossed out. And you have a problem with men having a standard for how they are treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:17 AM
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How did you get that from that? Bolded I think that a woman's infidelity is more likely to both her wanting out of the marriage and her husband himself being done with her therefore reconciliation being impossible. You said the only reason women cheat is when she's done and the husband is done. Therefore, you think it's ultimately the husband's responsibility. You are saying that if a man is still invested, the wife wouldn't cheat and that sounds like you trying to foist ALL the responsibility o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:07 AM
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If you can find a woman who wouldn't be vindictive to co parent with, what keeps you from trusting her enough to marry? It's not about the woman, it's about the institution of marriage. I don't care who the woman is, I'm not living with a gun to my head the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:58 PM
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I love how in your worldview the only thing men have to offer is money. No clue why I might be reticent to marry when a woman just told me all I offer is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:57 PM
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Translation "when women cheat it's still completely men's fault". Got it, heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:55 PM
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Even when married, nurses will talk to the woman alone to see if she’d like the man left off the cert in case she’s being abused. You just undermined your argument here. You can still lose your kids even if married, so what's the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:37 PM
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That's not what you said, you said the mother can keep the father's name off the birth certificate. If it's by state, I'll just make sure not to have kids in one of those states.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:28 PM
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Exactly. Reading this article all I could think is "you're right, but this is women's fault, stop chasing the same 10% of guys if you don't want men to have options".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:25 PM
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Agreed, it's just another "women are victims" article that gets a fuck ton of clicks. But if you actually dig into why guys like West Elm Caleb have that kind of power, it's because women gave it to them. Stop chasing all the same dudes if you don't want men to feel like they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:24 PM
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I used to have empathy for women in situations like that. But then you hear them falling into those situations over and over and over and over again, that empathy well ran dry a long time ago. Hard for me to feel bad for people who refuse to learn from their prior mistakes. It's just hilarious that they blame men for their behavior. Some men have an overinflated sense of ego and power on OLD because WOMEN GIVE THEM THAT POWER! 90% percent of women are trying to fuck 10% of men, don't get mad tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:22 PM
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The alcoholic part is not, the being the fault of the divorce though yes. This just tells me you're gonna bend over backwards anytime you can to make it men's fault that a marriage failed. I've heard that song and dance a billion times. You're already not providing statistical or empirical evidence for your claims. I've got to assume this is in your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:16 PM
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No I’m saying that having children is much easier in marriage. Why would a woman stay with a man who won’t marry her? He’d be incredibly untrustworthy. He's hopefully proven his trustworthiness in other ways. But if marriage is the only thing that makes women trust men, I'll die alone. It’s not fear mongering it’s simply reality. You don’t have a legal claim to children if not on the birth certificate Then don't have children with vindictive women who would pull that kind of shit. That's a bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:15 PM
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Why Do Dating Apps Bring Out the Worst in Men? Translation, why do men who are attractive and are lusted after by the vast majority of women choose to take advantage of that. No clue, it's just too much of a mystery. “A ‘fuckboy’ is a young man who sleeps with women without any intention of having a relationship with them or perhaps even walking them to the door post-sex.” Funny, that kind of behavior is explicitly encouraged in women in college and in their early to mid twenties. So here is evi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:12 PM
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It logically makes sense. Does it statistically and empirically make sense? Anecdotal yes but likely a common scenario. Men often turn into raging alcoholics in your life? You need to move if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:04 PM
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If that's what happens, it is what it is. If that is what balances out women in the hoe phase and women hate it, stop having a hoe phase. It's already happening with sugar babies where there are dudes that get laid by straight up lying about their net worth. Dating balances itself out in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:59 PM
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Which is dumb on men's part too. Tampons exist, same with athletic exertion. There are a lot of ways to tear a hymen without a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:49 PM
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Nah, I'm good. Sounds emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:47 PM
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Women who take a man not wanting to engage in marriage as an affront to them personally. Go through any post about marriage you'll see similar things said to other men averse to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:42 PM
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Business A has the IP, business B has the manufacturing capabilities. Who contributed more… the idea, or the product? That's cute to assume most marriages are that egalitarian. Alimony is rarely awarded anymore. 10 percent is not rare. Most assets are split in the best interests of the children. Which goes to the person who gets primary custody which is the mother most of the time. The father has the option of spending tens of thousands of dollars to fight that, but most men don't have those kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:41 PM
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I'd think if you were to file for divorce, you wouldn't be such a prick as to make the person who didn't want to get divorced go and file for it. Her other argument for marriage was that my children would be taken away from me if I had kids unmarried, so trying to fearmonger men into marriage appears to be the new strategy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:38 PM
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I grew up with a single mother who would celebrate her divorce anniversary with her friends. She and them were massive sacks of shit, but it still shows women's mindsets towards divorce nowadays. There is literally nothing on the line for them (unless they married a man who makes less than them, which almost never happens) and they wonder why we are reticent towards it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:37 PM
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I'm in it until the end. I can guarantee my commitment. I made a vow I intend to keep. Yet half of them fail. You can say you intend to stay, but at best that's a 50/50 shot. Women file 80-90% of divorces so you've got a better shot than a man does at a successful marriage. Divorce is my number one fear in life, I'm sure as hell not gonna initiate it. Why would you fear it? Most women date up economically, so your soon to be ex-husband has to pay for your counsel and his counsel, and continue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:34 PM
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You realize if not married she can exclude your name from the birth certificate and then up and leave at any point with your kids? Why would I have kids with a woman that untrustworthy? Also, your argument that I should get married is some remote "...or else" scenario? Women can also get sole custody in divorce anyways. So the choice you've presented is lose your kids, or lose your kids, half your net worth and assets, and have to pay for your exes lifestyle. That's a better risk than divorce an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:25 PM
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Because women carry out most of the administrative tasks in a hetero marriage. And your evidence that that specifically goes for filing for divorce? Example: friend’s parents the wife filed because he husband had become a raging alcoholic and lost his license so couldn’t file That's totally anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:22 PM
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I’m a man and I believe traditional marriage was harmful to women, so I’m not too sure what you mean by your first sentence. So women want to participate in a system that was oppressive to them. There, rephrased it. I don’t agree that dating is a competition, and I won’t act in my interest at the dispense or harm of others in most contexts. That's good for you, but you can't reasonable expect others have the same level of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:21 PM
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it's not about the legality to me. I never plan on divorcing I don't think most women do, it's the fact that you have the option and there are little to no financial consequences for you when you exercise it. Unless you are a woman who marries a man who makes less than them which almost never happens. Again, it's still a gun to my head. I'd assume in this hypothetical situation, we're both 100% commited and going to be together forever anyways, so why would that be a concern? People are unpredic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:18 PM
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Why would the person who didn't want the divorce file the paperwork? Also, lesbian divorce rate is double that of gay divorce rate, so you lack as much commitment as men regardless of if we are involved in the relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:14 PM
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Someone opposed to marriage is someone looking for the option of easy escape Women initiate 80 - 90% of divorces, so who is trying to escape? When you are aware of those chances as a man, and you are the primary breadwinner, why would you enter a contract like that? What other business contract would you sign if the terms were similar to marriage (You make most of our net worth, but it's split equally, you are required to pay me after divorce to maintain this lifestyle)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:10 PM
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Agreed, monogamy only lasts so long as the health of a child is ensured, and nowadays with modern medicine ensuring the health of a child has never been easier, therefore monogamy has never been less necessary. I want a monogamous relationship, but I'm not so delusional as to think every female is capable of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:06 PM
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I would really question why he was so opposed to marriage if he was at the same time claiming he's 100% in it for life. Because its a gun you hold to our heads and we just have to hope you don't pull the trigger. If you need a guy to be legally compelled to be a good partner, do you actually think he's a good partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:05 PM
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Yes. I don't want to get married so I'd be fine with that. I know I'd be there for my kids as a father. I don't need some piece of paper that a woman could use to financially destroy me to prove that. Not that I'd marry a woman that I suspect would do that, but if I'm going to be committed as a partner and father, why do I need that hanging over my head?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:02 PM
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So you want to participate in a system that was historically oppressive to you. You're proving the parent posts point which is that people want all the benefits of traditionalism with none of the detriments. Marriage is now a greater risk for men, so of course our opinions on it are going to changes based on who it benefits. So if men and women will never come to a consensus, might as well engage in the actions that net you the highest yield, man or woman. Dating just becomes a competition at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:56 PM
2

Through my asshole? What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:49 PM
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They really do act like that I have had women friends complain their boyfriends are bad in bed and other guys were so much better but whenever I ask if they communicated their preferences or if they tried to get the current guy to do whatever it was the old guy did the answer is always no. That's more what I mean. I don't think women literally think we can peer into their heads and know what they are thinking, but I've been in enough relationships to know they act like that. It makes me wonder i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:48 PM
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It’s worth noting that it was common for women to suffer in recent traditional marriage. Yet when guys here ask women if they'd stay with a man who didn't want to get married, it's almost universally a no. So, why do women want to participate in a system that makes them suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:43 PM
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Men are not being penetrated in or ejaculated in. And nothing requires you be either. You don't have to have sex if it's such a horrible undertaking as you are making it out to be. And as I said, most of the causes of those health problems are completely independent from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:38 PM
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I would settle for them being less like starfish I just take that as them finding me unattractive and promptly leave. Sometimes they take that to heart, but I'm not going to continue doing something I don't enjoy. It's more annoying because I wonder why the fuck are they even here if they aren't going to participate. I'd rather be rejected than have that kind of sex. but with how much women refuse to communicate I can't blame guys for ignoring her pleasure concentrating on their own. I think wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:36 PM
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I think you and I have different definitions of respect. What is yours? Mine is very simple, I will seriously consider your input on something if I respect you within the context of that thing. Whether I'm polite or not to someone has no bearing on if I have respect for them or not. I don’t believe a large majority of the 3.7 billion women on this planet post scantly clad pictures on Instagram. Assuming that fits your definition of the title you gave them. When did I say that? I was comparing He…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:16 PM
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Not sure, maybe they think we have a network of underground bunkers and clubhouses dedicated to oppressing and dehumanizing women. Just don't be rude in real life and you won't usually have to deal with it. I just know they don't complain about sexism when it is beneficial to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:11 PM
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I mean there is nuance to everything. Respect has layers. Just common decency should be given to everyone. I would assume. Sure, don't be rude. Not being rude isn't the same thing as respect. This also goes both ways. To the women who have been hurt and say “fuck all men.” I actually prefer those women be as loud as they want, easier to avoid them. Such as you did at the end of your comment. You're the one who said you had to respect women as a collective, not me. I'm just giving you an example …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:09 PM
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You can't look at women as individuals and decide if you respect them on an individual basis? If I respect Hedy Lamarr I also have to respect every random instathot out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:01 PM
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It's just a buzzwordy phrase. I don't think most red pill guys want to turn back suffrage, push women out of the workforce etc. They just want more pussy. Usually anytime I hear a woman say that though, in practice they want benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:00 PM
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That is one of thousands of potential causes. I seriously doubt penises getting inserted into you causes even 5% of those cases. UTI's also occur if you don't know how to wipe. To say your health is our fault is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:48 PM
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Can a gap be better bridged between the Red Pill and the other people? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:40 PM
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This sounds a bit like describing old style appendectomy as organ removal stabbing surgery. Yes, and it's what I hear whenever most women talk about men's emotions. You have no conception of how I experience my emotions and simplistic explanations like you gave prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:39 PM
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It actually ties into their inability to take rejection, even when it's involuntary. I can't help that it takes longer for me to cum when I'm drunk, but I've been told I need to get that "condition" looked about by a doctor by women. And I just want to tell them "maybe it's your fault I couldn't get off" just to see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:35 PM
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pap smears, yeast infections, BV, UTIs, pelvic inflammatory disease, vaginal discharge problems, vaginal microbiome problems, change in vaginal smell, painful sex, vaginismus, pelvic muscle problems, irregular periods.... The only one of those that has anything to do with interacting with men is the painful sex, the rest of that is your problem not ours. You don't see me bemoaning prostate issues to you, now do you? Those are problems men can do almost nothing to alleviate, so why bring up your …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:33 PM
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For me, the complaints from women about "manipulative behavior" fall on deaf ears. Men are going to find any way to get pussy, and if the PUA stuff works guys are going to use it. If women want men to not engage with that stuff, don't fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:24 PM
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Yup, been there. It takes a while for me after I've had some drinks, so more often than not if I'm having drunk sex I just fake an orgasm so their feelings don't get hurt. Another reason to keep condoms around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:20 PM
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I might just be more forgiving. I'll admit I've experienced toothy BJs and painful hip grinding when the girl is on top more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:15 PM
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If you agree, why do women keep stating this massive simplification, especially for something they have no conception of? It would be the equivalent of me saying menstruation is "blood leaking out your gash".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:12 PM
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I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. Most men have It’s not okay behavior for someone to respond to rejection like that. Doesn't stop them from doing it though. I’ve had somewhat similar experiences and I thought it was pretty wild someone would react like that. Agreed, but far more often than not a man reacting negatively to rejection reflects negatively on him. A woman reacting badly to me rejecting her reflects negatively on me and people are not shy about saying so. The women in OPs life aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:05 PM
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Female sexual health refers to health risks that sex poses to women, but not men Which is what, if you're using contraception and aren't fucking on month's old sheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:04 PM
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You can’t avoid the drama If HR departments actually took women harassing men seriously, we could. But the assumption is we are trying to fuck at all times so it's accepted. One personal example, one of my older co-workers would try and massage me without my consent. I reported her 6 times before she got one write up, and god knows how many other men she was doing that to. you just have to have persistence and a good lawyer even if you don’t decide to pursue formal legal action Or women could ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:01 PM
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You've never seen a woman rejected at a bar? I've rejected one at a bar and all I got back were cracks about my looks, height, and being told I was an asshole for not letting her down nicely enough. It's socially encouraged for you to take rejection and the perceived slights that come with that and lash back at us vindictively. For us, it's take rejection and move the fuck on. For women, you get to try and take your pound of flesh on the way out of the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:57 PM
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I’m not sure you really understand how casual sex tends to work. You meet someone you find physically attractive. You can hang out and kick it as friends most of the time and you have sex. No strings attached. You’re not committed to anything but hopefully orgasms. And if that is the vast majority of your relationships, then that's the only muscle you've exercised and you haven't actually practiced any commitment. It sounds like you are saying Powerlifters can become marathon runners at the drop…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:54 PM
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It’s part of the process, that’s why people try to avoid court drama And how exactly would a man avoid that if that's the only option he has to not get harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:50 PM
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I’ve been rejected and the first time someone was actually into me but rejected me based on my actions was the first time I recognized faults within myself. Oh, they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:49 PM
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You get to turn around and be as belligerent and obnoxious as possible in response to it without getting checked for your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:48 PM
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That's a massive simplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:47 PM
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I think it's more rejection of the notion that our sexuality is in service to you and your sexuality is in service to you. A lot of women think it's impossible for women to suck at sex. The truth is most of y'all are 5/10s in terms of performance, at least the first couple times having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:46 PM
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you should stay in shape for you, for your overall health, mental well being,etc. I've been doing that since high school Glad we agree. Sounded like you were saying to keep in shape for the sake of women. It also makes you more attractive. That's good and your partner probably appreciates it. That's a nice side effect, but men shouldn't be exogenously motivated if they want to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:43 PM
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That's naive thinking. Also, arbitration is already stacked against the employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:42 PM
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think about it, if you said, hey babe, I'm comfortable with you, we are great. Then you stop working out and gain 40 lbs of flab. You think she's gonna be happy with that. Think dead bedroom. I can't just stay in shape for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:37 PM
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Embezzlement and consensual sex is a pretty wild comparison. Proven reliable to not have sex? Proven reliable to stick around in a committed relationship after the honeymoon phase ends. If you have a history of leaving after that initial excitement wears off, you're probably gonna keep doing it. Then I don’t want to hear any complaints when in 10 years you’re in a sexless marriage. Because that’s what you rely’d on. You have to be promiscuous to enjoy sex with your spouse? Fuck kind of logic is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:33 PM
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But, If I'm used to 9's, I'm not gonna be happy with a 5 or 6. I'll wait for a girl with her shit together who's at least a 7 or 8. Then you might be waiting forever. Also, if you want a committed relationship, she has to be a 7 or 8 at 75-80 years old. The second she's not as hot as the day you met her you drop her? in my age group, it's really tough to find a girl who's in shape and without drama and baggage. Obesity is an epidemic, I'll agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:28 PM
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Meet enough people with ulterior motives and you learn not to trust compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:24 PM
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Men can also do what they want. Chad will use her. But why do they still complain that they were (used, taken advantage of, lied to, etc)? I'd say if this happens to a woman more than once, then she wants to be taken advantage of. Let her be and maybe she'll mature eventually. Think about it , if you are a guy, who's a just a straight 7 smv, and you were getting girls who were 9's. Would you be happy (settling) for a girl who's a 6 in an smv? If she's more fun to be around outside of sex, absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:19 PM
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I don’t think that’s true at all. Just seems like your personal bias. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. Would you start a business with a partner who was previously convicted of embezzlement? If you like promiscuous women, that's your prerogative. I'd prefer a woman who is proven to be reliable. You aren’t even trying to have an actual dialogue. Presenting extreme fallacy’s to confirm your world view is silly. I was trying to make a point that body count isn't necessary to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:15 PM
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I think it's more that dating is unnecessarily a pain in the ass, but only women's pains in dating actually get acknowledged outside of spaces like this. Having your problems completely discounted would piss anybody off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:09 PM
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I agree with you, I'd just add that while it's not our job to keep the market in check, it's also not our job to save, protect, or entertain those women either. All entitlements, man or female, need to be disposed of in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:07 PM
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You do mold your behavior to what we want. It's just you mold it to what you think 10% of men at the top want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:05 PM
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I don’t know I don’t think it’s really that crazy. They just have sexual experience. And a commensurate level of emotional trauma and negative cultivated beliefs about men that I'd rather not deal with. It's also evidence that you're disinterested in a relationship or are unable to sustain one if your personal history shows all your relationships with the opposite sex are ephemeral and solely sexual in nature. No one wants to get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t know what they are do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:00 PM
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For me, its more that people should accept the beds they made and lie in them. If you were sleeping with a new dude every week from the age of 18-35, then that's just what you are. You made your bed, now lie in it. Lying in it means accepting that 10% of dudes you want in a relationship don't want you back for more than 10-15 minutes at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:49 PM
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it appears true from the perspective of a woman being callously used as a sexdoll by men out of her league, and not realizing her treatment is a symptom of getting with men out of her league. That's a little something I like to call "her problem". If she's content to be used a sex doll on the remote hope that she'll get wifed up, that's her problem. Same if she gets with a guy actually in her league and resents him. Honestly a lot of men's problems in dating would be alleviated if all the Captai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:47 PM
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That'll work for a couple weeks. There is no permanent solution to stop a woman from violating your boundaries, at least no legal recourse in your control. You can go to HR and they can fire the person, but that isn't likely since it's a woman being the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:37 PM
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Any reason women conflate vindictive with assertive? Why do assertive women get to have the WORST masculine traits possible and no other women call them out on it? Are those women enjoyable for other women to be around? I mention women calling them out, because I'd like to think you expect us to call out misogynistic men, right? Just by necessity that they won't listen to you under any circumstances. That's the same with toxic assertive women, they won't listen to us so if anybody is going to ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:35 PM
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When I was at middle school, I asked out my friend. He was honest and caring and told me that he wasn't interested in me this way. And we kept being friends. That's all. The main difference is that when rejecting, women have the option to reject in this way, men are required to reject in this way. I've had horrible rejections where the woman was obviously trying to be vindictive and get some sort of ego trip out of it. But the one time my response is just a "No" and the rejected girl starts cryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:33 PM
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