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Ugh I doubt it was common. Women were harshly punished while it was normal for men. I'm sure it still happened but not on the same scale
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:55 PM
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It pops up but I don't think they want to find a man to fuck them. In fact they try to avoid men with virgin fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:54 PM
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Oh I married my absolute first choice. I was completely smitten, he was the hottest guy I've met. People just change their outlook over time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:32 AM
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I wasn't happy. But then again, I don't know anyone who is really happy in their marriage. Everyone is complaining about their SO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:20 AM
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According to these virgin women posts they do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:08 AM
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I do not. I'm glad I had the freedom to leave. It would be a torture if I had to stay with my ex. CC is kinda fun too. Nowadays I'm just kinda done with both and enjoying my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:06 AM
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Other reasons. But fomo was definitely a factor as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:58 PM
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I left at 29
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:41 PM
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Cause they haven't experienced it yet. I got married at 20 and now I'm 35 I can't care less about getting married again. I also have my shit together and have two kids so there is that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:24 PM
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It's what it is. We had to hide our nature in order to survive. Nowadays we can do as we please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:19 PM
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Yeah, this part of TRP baffles me. First off, statistically people marry within their social class. Secondly, they can't afford a non-working woman, leave alone kids on top of that. In my personal experience, once a man, who is already interested, hears what I do for living, gets more intrigued, like you can tell he is impressed and gets interested even more. Maybe it's not what attracts them initially but definitely something that makes him respect you more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:18 PM
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So why these women can't find anyone. I mean I see these posts fairly regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:09 PM
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I understand but if it's such a desirable quality per this sub why didn't men compromise on some other aspects these women were lacking? Isn't it super hard to find a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:02 PM
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Yeah. There is more bullshit than facts for sure. They do have SOME points
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:00 PM
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So you are saying those women were not good enough for a relationship. Hmm. Well you, gentlemen, have to compromise somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:59 PM
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Actually, a lot of what they say doesn't apply to me either. And I'm a pretty white woman. I had to work so hard all my life and things were never handed to me the way they paint it. Nobody lined up to help me or pay my bills. On the contrary Sometimes people would make things more difficult because they think you have it easy. I most definitely don't breeze through life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:57 PM
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Well they clearly don't want a relationship either. Like men on here often say they would only marry a virgin but when they meet one they scaddadle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah, agree. I'm so happy I don't live "back in the day" though. I feel a bit bad for undesirable men in our day and age but I'd never give up my privilege as a woman. I would never wanna be in a relationship with a cheater and having to suck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:51 PM
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True. I guess it's just human nature. Back in the day it was pretty normalized, I heard older generations women say that all men cheat. It's just men had advantage comparing how things are now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:39 PM
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I've seen quite a few posts on like r/dating where a woman says she is a virgin in her 20s and men ghost after they find out 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:18 PM
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Yes, that kinda happened with me. I think one part that the red pill gets right is that women nature is more fickle and we kinda want it all. Women who are married want to explore, women who are exploring wanna get married. I kinda had both and neither or is better or worse imho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:10 PM
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It's hilarious! Red pill grandfather Rollo Tomassi himself started talking proudly about his daughter education first thing when asked about his daughter. Why is she in college and not barefoot and pregnant serving her captain since 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:45 PM
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Exactly. And they constantly bring it up too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:16 PM
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It was supposed to be an unpopular belief
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:15 PM
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Yeah they want a virgin so they can be the first ones to traumatize her lol. There are very very few people who are totally healthy and fair and would treat their significant other with outmost respect and fairness. The vast majority of us will act selfishly here and there and won't always be perfect partners. It's the matter of figuring things out throughout life and learning to recognize red flags and be a better person yourself. Working through trauma is important too. The difference is, it u…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:08 PM
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Don't you want virgins? Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:10 AM
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Then go be misogynistic. Healthy women have a sense for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:49 PM
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Women are not your property. Cannot believe I have to state this. Want all the virgins you want. Get one and she will not put up with a disgusting human being like yourself, watch
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:38 PM
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So disgusting. Honestly I'd rather lose my virginity with a dildo than ever give it to someone who thinks like this. You are highly undatable and just gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:33 PM
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I agree. Women oversexualize themselves, just look at OF. If it was so gross, then don't do it, girl. And women do work less than men on average. I know, because I'm a mom and I can't work as much as men in my field. I'd also would never wanna be a plummer or a truck driver. The whole thing is so disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:19 PM
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I was a virgin in my first relationship and still had a ton of drama because I was unreasonably demanding and very jealous due to insecurities from lack of experience. Put him through a ton of bullshit, shit testing all the time, stuff id never do today. It lasted 3 years and I cheated on him because I wanted to try something new. Men on here think they will get a virgin and gonna be able to run a number on her and she will stick around no matter what because of "lack of trauma". We live in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:11 PM
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That they wanna date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:35 AM
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And you think it's due to their sex drive??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:33 AM
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Believe what you want. Sex was just meh at that age to me. Definitely way higher drive towards late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:30 AM
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Absolutely not. 18-19 as a woman you are going with the flow and comply if you like a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:45 AM
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Maybe it happens to like a handful of men where they become casanovas in their 30s but I cannot think of anyone in my circle personally. Most are married, have a gf or perpetually single. I think if a man really wanted to have a hoe phase he should use Seeking Arrangements and get that out of his system
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:20 PM
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Yup, exactly. I know two Only Fans girls who just sell pictures and talk to dudes, the one that talks more makes like 4-6k a month. At least with a prostitute you get sex and get to interact with a real woman which may not be 100% genuine but you still get to see what women are like more or less, much more exposure than reading bullshit online or messaging some only fans girl. And stigma around sex work is slowly but surely disappearing. Men ofc still hate that women do it and call us names for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:27 PM
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Oh, I didn't recognize the sarcasm. Yeah, not a TRP concept. But you know what, they are not entirely wrong. I think women are not willing to put up with much nowadays because they are not chasing having families anymore, leaving a lot of men behind. I genuinely think that those who cannot get casual sex that they seem to so desperately desire should just go on Seeking, there is a ton of women on there. One of my friends (very pretty one) does it in addition to her career, I think it's a fair tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:27 PM
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Well it is what it is. I also wouldn't have computers, phones, dining out with friends several times a week, going on vacations, being able to live nicely without having a man I need to submit to. It's all about perspective 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:48 PM
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To guys like you I'd say go to Seeking Arrangements. I think it really the best solution and is already super popular. Unless, ofc you are a Chad and women fall to your feet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:46 PM
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You adjust to what a particular woman wants if you think she is worth it. Or not even so much adjust but more like pick who's crap you can deal with. For example are you willing to deal with a princess attitude? some men really don't have a problem with that while some do. Or maybe that she micromanages everything, can you let her take control? There is no answer to what women want as a group. Case by case 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:44 PM
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Thats why you date an individual, see how they respond to different aspects of relationship/life and compromise and adjust if that person is worth it. I personally would much rather be with a "beta simp" that will work with me and I don't need him to pay for everything but he needs to buy me flowers and tell me I'm beautiful and some other woman would rather have an Andrew Tate that will buy her a Louis Vuitton and cheat on her. We are all different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:00 PM
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Things change. People in 1968 didn't have nearly as much as what we have now. Getting on an airplane was a luxury 🙄 Idk I much rather have everything I have now than what i wouldve had in 1968
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:55 PM
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People complain about taxes but have such surface level of understanding and knowledge, it's not even funny. Look through what taxes were historically and see what people were paying in the past. I could accept corporate tax argument and maybe that government spending should be audited better/more. However, how you are gonna say taxes hinder us when people have ALWAYS been paying them, it's a toll for having a society, and right now our standard of living is the highest, so must be doing somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:52 PM
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Well he said you have to work 4 times harder and get less in all aspects of life. That's just not true. We have the most and our opportunities are like never before. Men need to adjust to what women want, not like it was before where they could just simply take advantage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:00 PM
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Why do people sat that? If you are live in a western country, your standards of living are the highest they've ever been throughout human history
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:41 PM
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They talked badly because historically it benefited to be on men's side. You don't know any men that talk badly about women's n-count - look at this sub for instance. The whole red pill constantly reinforces not marrying modern women because they are all whores nowadays. Women in the west openly discuss their sexual past with other women. If we were so judgemental of it we would hide it instead. Times are changing, we are still in a transition phase, but overall individual women don't need indiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:28 PM
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No secret meetings were needed. Men were able to control women via being physically stronger and women were to comply with men's desires. This is crazy to me that men on here claim women dislike/judge promiscuous women more than men do lol. My mom knew I had a sugar daddy and that I cheated on my ex husband. No fucks given
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:07 PM
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And? Patriarchy was in charge of how society operated so women had to comply. Women did name calling because in order to survive you had to appeal to men and be on their good side so they had to join in. I completely don't care who my friends/coworkers/neighbors sleep with, we will go have a drink and talk and laugh about it. I've seen my friends OF accounts. I don't feel any sort of disgust. Men, on the other hand, won't call you a slut openly but then judge you on your body count. This sub is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:44 PM
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No no. Men were the ones who put bullying and name calling in place. Who do you think did the stoning or honor killings? Women who picked up name calling were just pick-mes in the survival mode. Women don't care how many men other women sleep with. It tells nothing about her morals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:19 PM
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I think it all depends on if high-n people have grown. For example if a frat bro who plowed through women in college realizes at age 27 that it's a meaningless existence and he is now a white collar professional with boring life he could make a great husband (my bestie married one like that). And if a woman who experiments in college then stops whoring around and becomes serious and behaves accordingly she could make a decent wife. It's all about what's in your head and where you are as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:51 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:54 PM
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Well he can leave her if he wants. But I agree with comment section. Men can say that we have to have the same standards for every man out there but each situation is different like anything in life. You may have worked at fast food restaurants when you were in high school but won't do it after you got a degree. I often see on here that men don't slut shame but women do. I don't believe that at all. Maybe it's some leftover obsolete name calling technique high school girls use to call each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:48 PM
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In those terms nobody obligated to do shit. That’s semantics then. Men aren’t obligated to adhere to traditional gender roles either. Nobody is chasing you down with a gun and tells you to get married and provide. Both genders have a set of desires for opposite sex’s behavior and TRP often brings it up. You ask for examples, go listen to any of undead chronic’s videos for example and listen how he talks about what a woman should be like to be considered for marriage: virgin, submissive, feminine…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:12 PM
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Examples are precisely this: being a traditional virtuous woman. Cooking, cleaning, submissiveness, not being promiscuous, accept men as leaders. Do you really want to play this game and act that it’s not something TRP ALWAYS brings up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:44 PM
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I’ve watched hours of TRP content for months when I first discovered it. I love how some of you will always be: that’s not what TRP is about, it’s about self improvement and nothing to do with hating women! However when you listen and read the comments it’s quite the opposite. Watch what they do, not what they say, remember? So yeah, it’s always revolving around how women don’t bring anything to the table, we don’t want to cook and clean, we only have a used up pussy and blah blah. So yeah, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:19 PM
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It still all revolves around sex and who should we be allowed to have it with and what our obligations to men should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:13 PM
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Nobody is really oppressed in the western world. People just seek out something to whine about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:06 PM
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We were both young. I was working at a deli, he was a construction worker. He didn’t start getting laid off until two years into our marriage and we got married after a year of dating. He treated me well in the beginning. His lack of ambition is what ruined it ultimately but it wasn’t clear until years of being together. TRP always points out to womens hypergamy. Here I was “not waiting at the finish line” and it backfired greatly. So pick your poison I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:50 AM
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Wdym “trustworthy”? It’s my mom! She wishes me the best life and she has a solid career if you are questioning her character. And how long does it take to find out how a person will act in every life situation that will occur throughout your relationship? How long do you need to wait to find out? This is the problem with the red pill. You people seem to think there is some formula that will guarantee perfect results. Life doesn’t work this way. We live we learn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:31 AM
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Thanks girl! Sorry I thought you were a dude. Hell no, I’ll never be in that situation again. But at the time I thought I was being a loving and supportive wife. He saw I was a capable person and handed his responsibilities to me. I had my rose colored glasses on for a while cause I loved him. I thought it was all just bad luck because of how he’d always spin it. And it’s all good now. I went to college because I saw how useless he was. We have two kids together that I don’t get child support fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:21 AM
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Oh my mom loved him for years. She was all for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:08 AM
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Things are not black and white like that. For example, the first time my ex got laid off I thought: “I love him, it’s temporary, we will make it work” and went and picked up a second job. If I left would I be considered a good wife and a good person? Ofc not!! I’d be a shallow egoistical POS who doesn’t love her husband. It was gradual realisation that he was lazy and unambitious. I was also 19 when I met him. So you, men, tell us we need to get married asap because otherwise we are giving away …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:11 AM
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Exactly!! Just watch how red pillers constantly say that it’s all about our fee-fees. Btw they have plenty of fee-fees themselves, they are just around other areas of a relationship, but we were always conditioned to adapt and consider theirs, but not the other way around. Therefore, we must be stupid, too emotional while they are just nothing but pure logic 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:03 AM
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You nailed it! It’s like in their head they think: “Well she didn’t leave me before so she will stay forever anyways”. It’s probably subconscious but it’s definitely how a lot of men operate. That’s why they hate the idea of no-fault divorce so much, it’s like you actually need to consider your wife’s needs or she has an option to leave. Oh no!! The horror!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:22 PM
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This is it right here. From my own experience and what I’ve seen with people I know husbands tend to not take their wives very seriously. If there is a constant dissatisfaction on woman’s part it’s often ignored. In my case my ex husband was constantly on unemployment, months on end. I explained, asked, yelled, argued, begged, waited for him to understand how hard it was on me and he would usually promise things would get better just for the situation to stay the same. When I eventually left it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:15 PM
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It’s only due to online dating that makes men think there is that 80/20 rule exist. Sure, if you are swiping on an app you may only swipe right on men who are attractive. In reality when you meet irl there are a ton of factors that play into who you might like. That’s why it’s so annoying to hear that whole lOwEr yOur sTAndArds advise. I don’t have any stringent standards, I just date people I like. For instance, my bestie works at a hospital and made quite a few friends there. They often go out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:45 PM
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Unless you are talking about sugar relationships that require a man to have money I really don’t know what you are talking about. The last thing on young womens mind is “servicing older men” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:41 PM
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That’s not because you were most attractive but because you were perceived as most vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:12 PM
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I think they would’ve wanted you to shake something else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:41 PM
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Seriously. Wanna do something good for your kids put that money you’d spend on a tattoo in college fund 🙄 I have kids, I don’t need a reminder of their names tattooed on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:49 PM
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Exactly!! They say that women want a man who is way way better in looks than them but if you look at couples, they are pretty much match each other’s hotness (sure, exceptions exist). I read somewhere that it’s biological for men to overestimate themselves though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:15 PM
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When i was 20 i wanted nothing to do with older men. none of my friends did either. We all dated within 3 year age difference at most or sonething like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:56 AM
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Yet another reply from a male with “whamen bad, men too good and need to stop”. As if there is absolutely nothing men do wrong to women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:36 AM
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Yeah, no. Women look out for each other. men often don’t notice or simply don’t care when a woman is uncomfortable so friends have to come in to save her. Have been on both ends multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:22 PM
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Doesn’t matter. The vast majority of women are not making anything in there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:31 PM
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Average income of an Only Fans model is $800/month. Yeah, no. Don’t men always bring up Apex fallacy? Yeah, same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:47 AM
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No they don’t. Literally never seen it once yet on here you’d think it’s a common occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:59 AM
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That doesn’t mean they think of you as the best they could’ve gotten 🤦🏼‍♀️ Lack of experience doesn’t provide satisfaction with whatever hand you got dealt with. Quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:40 PM
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Nobody pays womens bills for six months for a peck on the cheek. Stop making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:17 PM
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As a woman I completely agree with this. I get sooooo many stares, it’s so obvious, but I maaaybe get approached 1-2 year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:07 PM
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ONS doesn’t mean it happens in a bathroom stall with a stranger. Usually, you flirt and get to know each other all night and maybe then go home with them. And while sure, it happens once or twice in woman’s life, it doesn’t mean it’s an every weekend activity the way men talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:02 PM
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Ok, well we know that every woman won’t fuck in the bathroom because we know how we are and our friends are 🤦🏼‍♀️ Just because you did it with enough of drunk/narc women doesn’t mean you all of a sudden know more than any of us about our attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:56 PM
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I second this. Like it’s not a requirement for me because I was married to a guy who was 5’11 and dated shorter men than 6 foot. However, the taller the sexier. Right now I have a huge crush on a coworker and he’s gotta be at least 6’2. The first thing I thought when I first saw him at the office was precisely: “Omg who is this tall hot guy??”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:24 PM
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Exactly. He needs to work on it, not blame others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:48 AM
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What isn’t realistic exactly in that statement? Why do people get mad at universal truths is beyond me. It’s such a victim mentality. It’s universally known fat people are less attractive. So instead of fighting to become better you blame others. Idk. I went and got a college degree because I felt like I deserved a better job. I constantly stay on a diet to look good. If people worked on themselves they wouldn’t need a therapist and anti depressants. Unfortunately people don’t want to put in wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:19 PM
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Why should i keep it to myself? Realistic outlook helps with unreasonable emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:00 PM
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How are you going to be mad at someone for not wanting to date a fat person?? Like seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:42 PM
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Omg what?! We don’t care if you go MGTOW. Please do. Who is shaming? You don’t want to be left alone, you are constantly whining about women on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:06 PM
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This is the most accurate and honest statement on this topic. Could’ve not said it better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:05 PM
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Then nobody loves unconditionally and why is it even celebrated? Let someone abuse you while you take it all is great and admirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:13 PM
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If it doesn’t involve ME then I don’t care. In your situation I’d probably mess with you a bit if I was your coworker but wouldn’t think much about the situation. However, if I date you and there are some things a man wants to do like choking and slapping that’s a deal breaker. Certain things I’d maybe be open to but there is not much room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:43 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:26 PM
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I don’t mean to offend I’m genuinely asking. Would you consider this action a “special military operation” to cleanse Ukraine from nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:05 PM
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Do you believe the reason is Ukrainian nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:30 PM
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Doesn’t matter if they are not mainstream. And they never will be because of safety concerns, Elon Musk spoke on that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:15 PM
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I’m Russian in America. What do you think of the war in Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:12 PM
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Yeah yeah.. yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:23 PM
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Nope. It’s usually a gradual slope. You are all nice in the beginning. Usually after about a year you get used to a woman and start acting up. Don’t matter what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:01 PM
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It doesn’t seem like they want marriage all that much. Most responses I get from younger women is: yeah, maybe, if the right person comes along. So I don’t really think you are punishing anyone by not wanting to get married. Don’t wanna get married- then don’t 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:08 PM
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Yeah yeah.. yada yada.. the red pill truth doesn’t work irl. Women in their 30-s date, women in their 40-s date, women in their 50-d date. My mom found her now husband at 46. They’ve been together 14 years and have traveled the world (he paid). I myself am divorced with two kids and have no shortage of men. And before you start with: they only want to shag you, I’ll tell you: I know exactly what people want from me. Women of all ages get into relationships, get married but here on PPD is all doo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:48 PM
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You can say it all you want but I see otherwise irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:34 PM
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I’m talking about young women getting heartbroken as well. Then they wizen up and become aware of men so they treat them accordingly. But men expect them to stay innocent and treat you all with an open heart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:30 PM
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And a lot date regular guys who don’t appreciate them. They think they can treat their gfs however and then get shocked when they get dumped. After getting heartbroken women also toughen up and start protecting themselves 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:26 PM
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Wtf are you talking about?? How old are you and have you dated?? Ever? In real life when a young woman starts dating there is usually a guy that breaks her heart as well. And he doesn’t have to be a Chad at all. In fact, regular guys behave just as shitty as you claim only Chads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:20 PM
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Same happens to women though. And please don’t start with that bullshit: you pick wrong!!! Given a chance all of you act the same, Chad or not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:22 PM
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When men had the upper hand they used to cheat, talk down, treat women like servants, etc etc. It was very common. I grew up in a patriarchal society and saw it first hand. Most parents aren’t abusive nowadays because women are less likely to put up with abuse, hence single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:08 PM
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By abuse I mean a number of things. Not just a violent alcoholic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:06 PM
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I’d argue it’s worse having an abusive father. Not only he isn’t fulfilling his role, he adds trauma to the children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:40 PM
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Yeah, cause men tend to ignore their wives’ grievances until she is fed up and leaves. Then it’s always: I was a good husband, what happened? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:20 PM
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Except back in the day she didn’t end up being a single mom. She had to stay with her abuser and her children had to watch. But hey, it was a two-parent household 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:14 PM
4

Caveat: both parents have to be healthy individuals. Having an abusive/alcoholic/lowlife dad won’t give you a better outcome than raising kids as a single mother
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:04 PM
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Exactly. I’ll rather secure a comfortable life for myself by myself instead of hoping my pet-owner will be decent, treat me with dignity and not put himself first, the way it often used to be back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:02 PM
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Men didn’t value women for their biology up until recently. I grew up in a more patriarchal society that treated women as inferior in every way possible. Like you can say women are weaker, dumber, can’t drive, crack jokes at womens expense. Even places like manosphere often states how it were men who built the society and women didn’t contribute much, didn’t invent anything, domestic labor and raising kids isn’t hard, etc. So there you have it. Women don’t want to be traditionally feminine and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:59 PM
1

They can but most people don’t want to. Human brain is designed to follow the path of least resistance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:45 PM
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If male to female ratio is nearly identical how is Islam gonna work in mens favor?? Same thing will happen: few men will have access to all women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:42 AM
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You are intentionally leaving legislative spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:27 AM
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You are not paying for anyones kids. Average welfare recipient gets $80/month and the biggest category is food stamps. Gtfo here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:31 AM
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Right? I think In the past women tolerated it more because they couldn’t have the same opportunities for income. Hence, where that “it’s biological for men to cheat” nonsense came from. Men would feed women with that crap in order to make them cope. Nowadays most women won’t tolerate it (ex. Jeff Bezos situation). I personally don’t care if you are 666 millionaire Chad, the moment you cheat it’s over! I will much rather live in an apartment by myself than in a mansion with a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:41 PM
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They think women were just more “realistic” with their standards when they actually only tried to survive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:16 AM
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But then you all dream about “back in the day” when women didn’t marry you for you and only put up with their husbands 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:55 PM
3

Well just because I’m planning on asking if he is single or not doesn’t mean I will be down with whatever treatment either. I’m not gonna carry a relationship, no way. We locked eyes multiple times at a corporate party we had for Christmas, and then he awkwardly approached me at the end and asked how I like the company. Then I started going to the office this month and we’ve been talking more. He is not one of those fratty finance bros - we have plenty of those as well. He has a lot to lose if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:54 PM
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I mean.. These guys - I kinda do feel bad cause they also subconsciously know what women want them for.. Like one of them for example told me on the first date he really wants to marry and was showing off his house and how he is stable and can provide. Another one was inviting me to a concert in a different city and said he will pay for it all including a separate room for me if I was more comfortable with that. I just can tell they are trying to butter you up like that and I can see how some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:21 PM
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I will be able to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:14 PM
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Don’t worry. I know who wants what from me. If that’s all there will be to it then I’ll move on with no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:14 PM
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Men complaining about being chosen as beta bux really should rethink if that is such a bad thing. Women who are independent in every way won’t even settle for that. I’m an attractive 34 yo with kids and a career. I’ve been divorced. I could date one of my orbiters in a heartbeat however I don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to. I recently started going to the office and chatted up this super attractive tall coworker of mine who is higher up in ranks than me. I’m not sure if he single bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:55 PM
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You keep complaining about child support as if it is the highest form of consequence there is for having a kid 🙄 Average child support in America is $470/month, average day care cost is $780/month. Having to take care of a child is way way more physically and financially demanding than a god-damn less than $500/month. Oh and 1 out 4 men don’t pay it. Your child support isn’t enough for shit yet men bitch and complain how hard they have it. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:43 AM
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I’d assume he has some pent up anger and I’d definitely not go. With that said, never have I ever been asked, not prior, not during, not at the end of any dates I’ve ever gone on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:14 PM
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So a man working on himself benefits me how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:11 PM
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🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:54 PM
3

Yet we are over here celebrating artificial wombs to create more unwanted kids. Cannot make this up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:43 PM
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Nope. They don’t want to raise their biological kids either. TRP and MRAs cries how fathers don’t get custody while in reality men don’t fight for custody cause they don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:40 AM
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It’s just the the more control any government has the more they take advantage of people. It played out again and again and again throughout human history starting with monarchs and probably before that. Give elites vulnerable people (kids) and they will mold them to serve them, not have free lives to do whatever they want. Look what’s going on in Russia right now. Putin threw his own people to die, without any strategy, Russian plain people are experiencing inflation like in Venezuela and will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:23 PM
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We are figuring out a better society. Right now we have the most freedoms and the least survival problems than at any other points so we are moving in the right direction I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:22 PM
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And all that for what exactly? You do answer it in your last sentence- probably to breed slaves for the top 0.5%, much like North Korea. Great society indeed, congratulations TRP!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:20 PM
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So how do we determine what was good? It is all very situational. For example you may argue that a two parent household is better for children. I’d say: sure, if they are both healthy, well rounded, well meaning adults. However, my mom cried to me a few times telling me how when she was growing up my grandfather used to get drunk and beat my grandma to a point of her passing out. My dad was also physically abusive but my mom left him before I even turned two. I’m very grateful she did as I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:35 PM
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State has them half a day - the rest is up to you to figure out and it’s no walk in the park. You have to sorta sign your life away until they are at least in their teens and then you have a whole new level of responsibility and stress. You have no idea what kind of commitment raising kids requires. I have two
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:43 PM
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Men can scream all they want how cheating is nothing to them and should be acceptable but when men were more in power they’d leave their wives for mistresses all the time. Regardless of even that, if you cheat on me - you are out, I don’t care how “natural” it is for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:32 PM
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What’s best for children though? Like the past was all dandy and great with everyone happy? They had different world order with different problems, limitations, miseries. I completely don’t buy that it was better back then. Maybe for men it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:53 PM
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Artificial wombs won’t raise kids. The main reason more and more women choose to be child free is because it’s incredibly high financial and physical toll, huge responsibility, limited life opportunities, and with questionable outcome. Men don’t want to raise kids, they prove it over and over by not even trying to stay in their existing kids lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:50 PM
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I don’t like republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:30 PM
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There was no opportunities for women the way there are now so they were kinda forced to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:59 PM
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What “wrong”? What’s your argument? Link to an article saying once a woman married she lost all her rights and husband wouldn’t consult her during decision making. Sounds right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:33 PM
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I’m not a right winger, I’m a libertarian. Abortion should be legal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:30 PM
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Oh post-ww2 America you say? Where women couldn’t open bank account? Did you ever see any ads from that era or sexist comments? Divorce was an embarrassment and women were supposed to suck it up no matter how men behaved. What’s with that “women happiness has been decreasing since the 70s”? Who measured it? It’s all bs. If women were happier with that lifestyle they’d choose it. However it’s men that whining about trad lives, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:27 PM
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Trad lifestyle ran on women’s exploitation. I grew up in more patriarchal country, I’ve seen how men in traditional cultures treat women. You think it’s all that cooperative and fair when in reality men treat women like second class citizens, openly talk how they are weak, stupid, while taking advantage of womens house labor and childbearing simultaneously declaring that it’s all unimportant comparing to what men do. Men nowadays have very little understanding of how men act when they have power…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:49 PM
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Young generation for some reason learned to blame all their problems on everyone and everything but themselves. Something constantly “needs to change” in order to make their life easier. It creates weak society with poor morals. Look at liberals right now screeching how Biden needs to cancel THEIR student debt. I have some student debt myself and I’m not in favor of such resolutions. People who don’t get hold accountable tend to continue making poor decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:37 PM
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That gets removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:37 PM
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They keep saying this to scare us into settling but I am personally 34 and have many men after me (and I’m a single mom). They say they either only want sex or very low quality men. Ehhh.. I know who wants what from me and can attest I could easily have a serious relationship and marriage if I made it a priority. As far as quality-I don’t feel a spark with any of them but some are very good well rounded self sufficient guys. In my younger years I dated men who weren’t, so I don’t know what to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:45 PM
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Because a lot of times it’s not even in a ballpark for a guy. I have a neighbor who I talked about roof once. I’m very friendly and good at small talk. Well this married older overweight man decided I was into him I guess. Just for the record I have no problem pulling men of weigh higher calibre. He started coming on to me and I started avoiding him which made him stalky-ish (he’d watch for me to come back from being out, would jump out of his house, would knock in my door with random questions/…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:01 AM
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It’s so interesting.. When I was little and growing up in a non-western country the notion always was that it were women who mostly craved relationships with men and creating families and men didn’t really want that at all. Interesting how it all changed in a few decades. I personally am divorced and can care less if I find a guy or not even though I could easily get in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:17 AM
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It’s ok, you are just a psychopath (not an insult), you guys lack empathy, conscience, sense of guilt and other emotions of that nature. Therefore you think regular people are weak and stupid and you have no qualms of stepping on them 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:01 AM
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Good treatment of a partner needs to be earned by that partner. Some people pour their all in someone who turns around and takes advantage of them. I personally kept going back to my ex boyfriend for three years and he kept treating me worse and worse. Once I finally left for good I understood my psychology behind letting him treat me like shit and from then on knew to dump a guy the moment he tried to disrespect me. Best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:06 PM
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Lol. Men on here are legit obsessed with this topic. It’s kinda funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:14 PM
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That’s a weird take… Men on PPD are obsessed with our ability to find sex if we want to. Being single to me is having an ability to live on my own without regards for some other person who I don’t care about and that’s a blessing. I’d never want to live “back in the day” when women were required to stay in unhappy relationships so that they could survive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:47 PM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:44 PM
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Idk how other women are but to me, I don’t exactly care if I “die alone” or be with someone. I was married before and do have two kids from my marriage. I have a few orbiters that I could date at a snap of my fingers. My mom adores one of them in particular and constantly tells me to give him a chance. I just don’t feel it 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t need anyone to provide for me, I make good living. I don’t feel lonely either. I’m so busy with my life, I just don’t understand why to date someone just to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:42 PM
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No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:44 PM
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Well, if they don’t behave accordingly it means they don’t value male attention enough to go out of their way to change themselves. I’m personally just a woman with my views and opinions, I don’t go out of my way to disagree with a person I’m with but I most definitely not going to keep quiet if I’m treated poorly or if I disagree. I don’t think I’d ever be happy if I had to bite my tongue all the time and agree no matter what, I’m just not like that 🤷🏼‍♀️ And I think what men don’t understand i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:50 PM
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Are you really gonna educate me on logical fallacies? You legit just linked me to the website I looked at more than a decade ago for my ENG101 class. Your attempt to sound intelligent…. Ugh 🤦🏼‍♀️ If a woman is “violent” in different ways than males it’s not punishable by law and therefore doesn’t drain taxpayers money. I think that’s the point we were arguing. Why are you now derailing and “switching goalposts”? Way to avoid my question. It’s ok. I’ll answer for you. Criminals “back in the day” …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:27 PM
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Precisely that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:03 AM
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First of because men do not necessarily commit "more crimes", men are incarcerated with a much higher rate Oh right right, women just run around committing crimes at the same rate as men, it's just the system has a clause to forgo punishment as long as you are a woman :D (I personally had been arrested and got the largest jail punishment as a white female). Do you need me to dig up a research on how testosterone affects male aggression or can we stop playing intellectually dishonest? Look up FBI…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:57 AM
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So why you replying to comment is a mere replying to a comment while me replying to a comment is "getting triggered"? If women use more taxpayers money for welfare, how is it drastically different than men taking up tax payers money by committing more crimes? Each gender costs tax payers more in different areas, so your original statement of "women use more taxpayers money" is questionable. I welcome the logical male statistics as I've looked some up as well and we can compare. Into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:19 AM
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Why is it irrelevant when you mentioned it to begin with? 'Women collectively consume more'? Then where are your facts and statistics cause I provided mine to defend my points? C'mon, aren't you a male? Use your supreme male logic!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:44 AM
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If you want to casually point something out "without negative judgement" (why point it at all then?) why is it wrong for me to point something out without negative judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:42 AM
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Women in general work all their lives. If as a man you want a stay at home wife you choose it, nobody forces you. If I lose my job today men aren’t gonna pay for me unless I put out. Do you have a woman live off of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:00 AM
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Just to quote the other user on here who just provided statistics on this. $182 b is used to fund prisons. $813 b is used to fund welfare that includes ALL social programs including unemployment. 47.5% were married couples lol. Veterans are the biggest consumers of welfare (which I don’t have a problem with). Average child support payment is $470 with only 60% collected (4 out of 10 men don’t pay their child support). Women live off of men though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:52 AM
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Thank you! An average monthly welfare payout is $190 a month and the largest category is food stamps. Average child support payment is $470 a month with only 60% collected. Oh no 😱😱 Women are draining men!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:45 AM
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That’s not what I asked first off. What do prisons costs taxpayers outside of “3% of welfare is used by prisons”? Why didn’t you just answer what I asked. Oh wait, cause you looked it up and saw that it’s $190 a month on AVERAGE and the biggest category is food stamps. Life of luxury, heh? Another question: how much do you have to make in order to qualify for food stamps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:41 AM
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Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:03 AM
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Oh yeah? What the average payout a month for a welfare recipient and what category does it usually fall into?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:03 AM
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Look it up, my friend, look it up 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:55 PM
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And women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:54 PM
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Men as a class use more taxpayers money by having disproportionately higher crime rates. They are the ones committing crimes and occupying jails. Like that doesn’t cost anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:27 PM
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I love how it’s always “women use more taxpayers money” while 90% of crimes are committed by men. Who do you think pays to catch, prosecute and feed inmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:24 PM
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Ok, so what does a breadwinner mean to you? To me it means he will pay for me and our kids and I don’t have to worry about even having money to cover my tampons. He pays for EVERYTHING. I’d argue most women don’t want that or realize it’s not possible. I personally never went into a relationship hoping someone would pay my bills. Most normal couples work and pay for things together. If a woman wants a man to make as much as her it’s not exactly wanting a breadwinner, it is wanting a capable adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:40 PM
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She specifically said he needs to be able to support himself and MAYBE her eventually. So no, she doesn’t require him to pay her bills. Men, most of you can’t afford to pay our bills so why are you constantly claiming like you are? Even when I was married that completely wasn’t the case, we had common bills we paid together out of joint account and we were both working mediocre jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:47 PM
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I’ve never dumped a guy because my friends didn’t like him. My last bf is a great example, none of my friends thought it was a good idea to date him. That’s a weird comment you made
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:33 PM
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I mean sure. I was just saying all that stuff about men with options.. They do go for sex workers and marry them 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yes, all but one. One has a very good looking husband
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:33 PM
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Sure, please do pivot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:55 PM
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Either that or I’m hallucinating everything. My mom is a career woman. She is very far from miserable. I have some child free female friends that have careers and travel like four times a year. I can’t do that, I have kids. How is it miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:42 PM
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Oh god, can we stop with that “unhappy career woman” trope 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:29 PM
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I started talking to a guy on a dating app and at first our conversation went well. As we moved along I started noticing remarks about “equality, heh”, comments like “women like dominant”, “would you sign a prenup” etc. I don’t know if he was particularly red pill or just had similar beliefs but I knew right away we wouldn’t be compatible so I never went out with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:06 PM
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I know a millionaire that married a stripper. He met her at the strip club she worked at. And he had no problem with women. Actually, I know a couple of strippers that are married. They have kids and have been with their husbands for 10+ years now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:09 AM
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I’m a woman who had been previously married. I legit don’t give a shit if men don’t want to marry as I don’t give a shit about being married again. Hope that answers your question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:08 PM
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Democratic Party is not a joke currently? It’s losing its popularity like crazy rn. I used to lean left and I can’t side with them any longer. It’s become too woke and going way way too far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:32 PM
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As a woman I agree. Because they know you will be too scared to say something back. Also, I love how men “don’t know anyone who’d do it”. As if creeps do it in front of others 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:58 AM
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No, extreme left wants that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:45 AM
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Yeah, I didn’t know it was a thing until I met an OnlyFans creator last month. She is 39, has a husband and kids, not a model by any means. She showed me her pay outs and it’s 4-5k a month. She said she is constantly on the phone messaging with dudes because otherwise they unsubscribe. It’s not just the naked pics men are paying for. It the girlfriend experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:18 PM
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HVM to men is a lot different than what HVM to women is. They don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:10 PM
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They don’t seem to grasp it 🤦🏼‍♀️ That’s why they are so confused. They think we are pets who need to be taken care of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:54 AM
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Meh, you’d be surprised. Attractive women go after dudes they like and sometimes even if they have a guy who has his shit together in their lives they may still pass him over a guy they like who may not be as good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:09 PM
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Do you think that because you are attractive a man will change his ways and buy a bed frame if he’s been ok living like that his entire life? FDS suggests it’s a red flag (which I agree) and should avoid men like that. I knew a guy who had no problem getting women and his house looked like a tornado went through (yes, he’d bring women in his house looking like that). He was an emotional mess and didn’t have his shit together, still can’t hold a gf longer than a few months. I don’t know what to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:58 PM
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It’s not a good analogy, beautiful women can be naive, self conscious, in love and accept poor treatment. Just because she is pretty doesn’t mean she won’t endure abuse. It’s such a false narrative that a man will magically shape up his behavior the more attractive the woman is. In fact, it’s only true in the beginning that he might hide his bad side better or for a longer period of time. It still comes out. Also, another big misconception is that an average guy will treat you like a queen. Once…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:40 PM
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Attractive women have a lot of the same problems as regular women, trust me. Just because you are attractive doesn’t mean abusers don’t pursue you or that things may not go wrong in a relationship 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:43 PM
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Agreed 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:09 PM
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Right. So let’s acknowledge that we all don’t think and act the same just because some representatives of our gender do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:14 PM
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Slut shaming only worked because women depended on men. Now we don’t care if you call us that. Look at what Cardi b and Meg the stallion are saying in their songs 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:12 PM
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It’s a certain category of women 🤦🏼‍♀️ I can’t imagine any of my friends dating a rapper hood rat because sTaTuS. I also know a millionaire who married a stripper so..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:47 PM
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They say it doesn’t matter but every time I tell a man what I do for living the look in their eyes changes, like they instantly look at me in a different light. And when my ex’s talked about me they’d always proudly announce what I do for living to their friends/family
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:40 PM
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You are focusing too much on semantics, not the sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:10 PM
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Well I should say mine took care of himself and that doesn’t apply to him per se. but everything else - once he realized I’m capable of doing everything he stopped doing anything 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:46 PM
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Well, I thought I was making the right choice and marrying a great person 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:41 PM
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Efforts usually start slide down more and more as you live longer together. In the beginning everything is rainbows and butterflies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:40 PM
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I married at 20 lol. And divorced too after 8 years. Same circumstances. Same opinion about my situation 😁 I love how manosphere always tells women how we are stupid for “wasting our best years of fertility” that leads us to be in shitty marriages that could’ve been prevented if we waited till our brains fully developed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:00 PM
21

The situation with your first husband is the main reason why women get divorced. I know so many cases like that, it’s ridiculous. Women keep asking for their husbands to be responsible adults and men ignore ignore ignore until boom… she wants out. And she is a “hypergamous bitch” 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:13 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:08 PM
0

He was handsome but not what you people describe here. And while in shape, no huge muscles or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:16 PM
0

I mean I don’t think the guy I hooked up with was a Chad. He is 6’2 and has blue eyes, sure. But he didn’t have what you’d call “swag” about him. He is a bit awkward even, just really mellow and quirky. My ex was a Chad, totally different dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:02 PM
9

I’ll take real life interaction with a regular guy any day vs meeting a “Chad” off of tinder for sex. Flirting and the build up is so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:06 PM
16

Oh god. Do you go out and talk to people? What about chemistry? What about being in a moment? I just hooked up with a guy this past weekend because we were at a house party talking and vibing. It was way more exciting and fun than swiping on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:49 PM
1

The more I read your comments the more weirder it gets. Oh well. I hope you find help eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:31 PM
1

Ummm weird question. If you love the person you are marrying shouldn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:29 PM
2

Hmm. A lot of cherry picking. I will have to politely disagree. This subject is more deep than just: taxes bad, let’s abolish. If you still want to retain some sort of government to maintain some level of order and not hand it over to private ownership then even maintaining government involves money. Has to come out of someone’s pocket , right 🤷🏼‍♀️ We are all entangled within the society and cannot just start start ostracizing people from certain social benefits because they didn’t pay for it (…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:28 PM
3

The problem is private ownership is greedy. If I want to drive to a different state I get on the road and may pay a few tolls to get there. If we let corporations build and charge for use it will get out of control as all they care is maximizing their profits. Same with schools. I’d argue that having a large percentage of uneducated population will create more wealth disparity. I’d also argue it’s unfair that a child can’t go to school because his parents don’t have money to pay for it. You ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:05 PM
3

Private ownership will have you pay taxes just the same. A society is impossible without taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:41 PM
3

Well now we don’t have to put up with it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:14 PM
3

What’s an alternative? How you gonna maintain the infrastructure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:04 PM
2

And then choose to divorce as they find out it ain’t all that. Are you sure you are self-hating misogynist and not an actual man? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:55 PM
3

As much time as you spend on here you should know Narnia is married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:50 PM
3

Yes, and also expected to take care of husband and family while men got drunk, beat them and cheated on them. What’s your point? That because they worked there was no shitty gender roles and women had it fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:48 PM
5

No I didn’t. This is a regular red pill/incel rhetoric that is being promoted on this sub fairly often. Welcome to the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:52 PM
7

It’s definitely not only Chads that women get into one-sided relationships with. Regular men can be just as shitty. Him lacking in looks department doesn’t guarantee he’d be a great person and will treat you right. To your story about a coworker of yours: the vast majority of women can figure it out after one-two times what these men are doing and don’t continue sleeping with Chads unless they legit only want sex (definitely happened to me before). If it hurts her but she keeps going back she ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:58 PM
8

I mean naturally most people want a relationship. It’s just less women are willing to have a one-sided relationship for a sake of having a relationship. There used to be a stigma for unmarried women and they would try harder and put up with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:13 PM
11

Well I guess the way he words it makes me think he is rather suggesting to be a user. “Worship the ground he walks on” is a bit extreme. Here is what I learned: when I was very young and got a bf, I’d put him through all kinds of shit testing and see how far I could push my boundaries. He put up with me for a while but then slowly started pushing back. I didn’t like it and eventually we broke up. After that I got married and was doing the same shit to my ex husband. I wanted to be worshipped. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:31 PM
1

Yeah but it doesn’t mean that anybody who is fit, friendly, loyal, peaceful between ages 18-80 will do. I’ve seen it in men too where they put up with a total bitch because she is hot 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:53 PM
1

In that sense men don’t know what they want either. Love is not logical. Here is what I would love for myself: a guy who is 6 feet tall, handsome, white collar like me, 3-8 years older, has his own place yada yada. Does it mean that if I meet a guy who is blue collar and not as tall but we vibe at a party and I think he is fun and cute - sure, let’s go out. Does it mean that if I find out he is actually unemployed and lives in his moms basement I’ll still be ok? Nope, that is an instant turn off…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:39 PM
40

If you can find that, sure. Isn’t it like what TRP essentially wants/recommends? Super low maintenance woman who won’t ask for anything and you don’t have to try for her. To me what you suggest would be a waste of time. No matter how good looking/rich/high-status etc etc a man is, at the end of the day if all he is looking for is to take from me why do I need to be in a relationship with him? I’d much rather be single. You are saying a woman needs to be a secondary character in her own life on o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:33 PM
1

See, there is no magic equation that will make someone 100% datable. I can state all my “preferences” but it doesn’t mean that if they meet them all it’s a 100% win. Love doesn’t work like that. At the same time someone may not check all the boxes and you can’t help but have interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:19 PM
3

He is not good looking!! 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:53 PM
0

Sure enough, men know better what’s best for us. Proven over and over until feminism happened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:17 AM
1

Perfect metaphor!! My shock just recently started wearing off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:45 PM
3

I’m very attractive myself. If a man is loose, he is loose. Once I went on a date with a guy and he was checking out another woman sitting at the bar. That was our first and last date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:43 PM
2

I never had a man cheating on me. That’s on a man, not on a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:40 AM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:38 AM
1

Yeah, dude it’s crazy. I watch Russian day time television some times and a lot of them overdo it so much, like Pamela Anderson in the 90’s but all with straight hair. I hope this fad wears out soon. Russian women are gorgeous, I don’t understand what they are thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:49 AM
1

Well yeah, agreed, slut shaming was a thing when I was living there, not sure how it is now. They act pretty slutty in their videos from what I’m seeing. And got obsessed with plastic surgery that they completely don’t need
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:35 AM
3

Ugh Russia is not that much different tbh. I grew up there and had some whore friends there too. All in all some women are just promiscuous 🤷🏼‍♀️ Men do wait if they like you enough regardless of what overall sexual climate is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:08 AM
6

Not according to the manosphere! They are constantly complaining how there are no worthy women left because we whore around too much. You want quick sex but then you want a virgin to marry. Realistically, it’s impossible because women/men ratio is nearly identical. If you fuck every woman on the first date there is no way there are enough women for everyone to marry. So men chose the less of two evils. We were supposed to be given away to one man and that it. Clearly, when given a choice it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:06 AM
2

Used to. Because of social norms established by men. Other women don’t care in reality. I don’t care and none of my friends do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:52 PM
7

I have friends on both end of the spectrum. She can be a virgin or have slept with 100 men. I don’t give a shit. If she is a good cool person, she is my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:49 PM
1

Preach, sis, preach. I’m on exact same page. I’m glad women are not desperate for relationships the way they used to be back in the day and don’t settle for low value men (or settle less and less). Let them shape up their behavior if they want a family. As far as you stressing out about you ageing and men only viewing us as objects - please stop. I have no problem finding men and had three LTRs after I left my ex 5 years ago. They were all good looking financially stable men, not some useless bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:31 PM
1

Life barely ever works out the way we want. I personally had 2 kids in my mid and late 20s. Not exactly planned but I was married. My ex husband wasn’t a good provider and I still had to work. There was no choice for me to be a SAHM. What can I say? It was hard af. Most men are not able to solely provide for the whole family so that whole “women need to have kids young” thing is bullshit. I also personally am not into older men and to me it’s not worth it to marry someone I didn’t love as long a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:46 PM
4

That’s awesome! Looks like you have it lined up the way you want it 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:50 PM
4

Cool. Now you just need a man who can support you and your kids. Might have to marry an older gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:48 PM
1

Alrighty then 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:58 PM
1

Ok, here is me attacking a principal: “Not simping for women and holding your frame isn’t gonna get you women”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:50 PM
1

I messaged you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:47 PM
1

“ Don’t get married” is at the core of TRP, no?? And not spending money on women/to impress women. Am I missing something? And people on here constantly say that in fact yes, as you get older as a man your value increases and you date 20yo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:43 PM
1

Why did you consider this trolling? I was curious to see what others think about the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:38 PM
1

Well if these guys know TRP (they say what TRP preaches) but then have no luck applying it then what does it tell you? Hell yeah, it’s right and it’s working? Clearly not for everyone. Rollo is married, Donovan Sharp is married, jack Murphy is writing cuck articles and F&F are paying for sex. I mean what’s the point of TRP if you are well aware of it all and still continue blue pill lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:36 PM
1

I’d say if a girl is into you AND you simp for her that would be ideal. The last guy I dated lovebombed me in the beginning and then after he got me completely laid back and stopped doing anything. I left because of the lack of simping tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:32 PM
2

Well maybe they can listen to someone more reasonable and honest like Better Bachelor for example. His perspective is fairly optimistic and less radical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:27 PM
1

According to your thread a bunch liked them though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:23 PM
1

Yeah, jack murthy looked pathetic screaming at that host. No respect for that. I don’t know. To me this just all shows that TRP is not 100% right. This guy “Fit” went to the gym, has money, has the lifestyle and yet when I look at him I don’t see him as a ladies man. And it’s proven cause he got exposed telling women on IG if they want to come on his podcast they need to fuck him first. That’s kinda pathetic if you ask me. Yet, according to TRP and his stats he is high-value. But he is just not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:21 PM
0

Ooof that’s sad if that’s really what it boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:12 PM
0

They have like half a million of subscribers 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:09 PM
2

Platonic connections aren’t the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:20 PM
1

Strangers at a party is completely different. I guess that just confirms it for me. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:18 PM
3

Well, everyone I’ve ever been in a relationship with thought I was special as well as I thought they were. If you never had a connection with anyone I don’t know what to say. Maybe you are just really young
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:09 PM
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Ugh so if to you it’s “a bad deal” then it doesn’t mean it’s a bad deal for everyone. Why are you so sure she is nothing special and her partner can get it elsewhere? Clearly he is with her and not with somebody else. She even said she makes more money and somehow the man is still “losing” 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:35 PM
2

How am I all over the place? “People liked him” doesn’t mean he cared that they did. He didn’t run around feeling bad for paying for sex to be likable. He tried to appeal to audience by saying what a large group of people wanted to hear. Not by following choices “respectable” men follow. Him not getting re-elected is not a reflection of him caring what people think. If anything, he could’ve taken the office again if he catered to citizens vs corporations during the pandemic. He chose to cater to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:30 AM
3

Why not?? He handled Covid poorly that’s what happened. People elected him so clearly were ok with his personality and life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:22 AM
3

That’s not because he paid for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:21 AM
4

I’m sure he cares what any of us think of him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:29 PM
3

I would probably be ok if he could lay such fetish off when he is in a relationship. I know for me personally I had a fetish, I did it a few times and got over it. I liked when I did it, maybe I’d do it again but I’d take love and regular relationship any day and would have no problem not getting to do the fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:43 PM
7

Even Trump paid. A billionaire. And here regular men sit and rationalize how you are not high-value if you pay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:07 PM
1

For me it would depend on the context heavily. Is he a loser? Is he that bad with women? Was he around drugs and crime? Does he only see women as objects? I’d have to hear his reasoning and explanation. If it’s something like you describe I’d probably be ok with that. However, if I sense that he is one of those guys who no matter who they are with always has a wondering eye, I’d be highly concerned about them not having a qualm about going to see a sex worker if we have an argument. But then aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:05 PM
1

My experience is completely different. Or you are dishonest. Or misunderstanding FDS. Or extrapolating. South Asian men get talked badly about? Gay men too? Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:32 PM
1

How is it racist? You read a comment on a different sub critiquing FDS and decided what it was all about? You are so off base
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:14 PM
2

Alright so what’s the exact problem? FDS for once recommends to walk away. Manosphere- manipulate and neg. that’s why one is not quarantined and the other one is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:12 PM
9

How many gender specific insults does the manosphere have? And everyone is losing their minds over “scrote” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:52 PM
2

FYI One weird comment doesn’t exactly shape a subreddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:51 PM
1

It’s up to him tbh. I wouldn’t do anything to jeopardise it though. Even if it didn’t work out I wouldn’t hold it over him and use it to get him in trouble at work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:49 AM
2

Yeah he is so hot though. And I’m actually highly desirable in my field at this point in time, I’m not too scared to lose my job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:42 AM
2

Same experience within my upbringing and culture. Women are always an unhappy party. People in power will usually take advantage, in any aspect of life. Human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:40 PM
3

Approach men. You guys don’t value women you don’t go after
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:37 PM
1

Ooopsies. Apologies. Your avatar has ponytails so I thought you were a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:38 PM
1

No, girl. I don’t want to throw myself at a man. That’s how they don’t value you that much. They like that uncertainty, that’s why it’s important to give out just enough. I will flirt with him if I feel the right vibe. It’s still very very early, we technically just met and I don’t even know if he is really single or not. He didn’t come off as a taken man but I don’t know for a fact if he is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:12 PM
1

Yeah, exactly. That’s another big part of it all 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:29 PM
1

I did both. No ring. Not much on social media besides his professional profile which is pretty impressive. He even wrote articles. But he might still be taken, he is too good to be true tbh. I’m not getting my hopes super high. I was surprised at his behavior at the party, I thought he probably wouldn’t be interested in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:19 PM
1

Thank you actually! Well I’m not gonna ask him, I want to see if he likes me enough to work up the courage. However, at that work party he didn’t come off as a super confident Chad, like he was clearly searching for things to say and was just a little bit shy. So what I may do is to start a conversation with him next time. I’m pretty sociable and it’s not a problem for me. If I see signs that he likes me I’ll start light flirting and see how he responds 😬 Hopefully he won’t report me to the HR 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:35 PM
0

Not being able to do much when you like a guy. I’m currently experiencing it and it’s driving me crazy. I work from home most of the time but a few times that I did go to the office I noticed this office Chad (😃) in there lol. So I didn’t think much of him because I thought he is probably married/taken cause he is freaking smoking and plus he is waaaay higher up than me, his office is probably 7 times bigger than mine and he wouldn’t want to jeopardise anything over me. Well, we had a work Chris…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:40 PM
1

I don’t know. All the men I dated were always good looking and very well groomed. I even asked my ex bf not to shave his body hair cause I like it and he said it was gross and shaved anyway. He also showered several times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:39 PM
-2

You are definitely onto something. I can give another evidence: boys almost from the time they start talking try to neg women. It starts in kindergarten when boys tease girls. I even see it with my kids nowadays, it’s crazy and reminded me of my childhood too. So much for PUA techniques lol. It’s like they are built in from birth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:43 PM
1

I don’t know how it is nowadays but when I lived in Russia 15 years ago it was a big deal for a woman to get married. Like really important. My mom says it’s changing nowadays over there too. Is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:31 PM
6

As an accountant I disagree. Tax brackets for married people or/and people with kids are significantly better than for single people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:26 PM
11

“Tax benefits are minimal” “inheritance tax” - yeah, you are not in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:50 PM
3

The emphasis you put on: “if she didn’t want, she wouldn’t or put them in jail” is very very off base. It happens all the time, precisely because women were told to be pleasing in the bedroom even when it harms them and that their pleasure is secondary. Besides, majority of rapes goes unreported
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:53 PM
9

I missed where in those novels her love interest neggs her, insults her, spins a couple plates along with her lol. Anyway, you are not completely off base and this post was a funny read in a good way. Edit: I can’t think of any ones I’ve read as it’s been years and nothing famous. But 50 Shades is unreadable. I wasted $12 on it and got through 1/3. There is not a single good thing about that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:12 AM
1

Biker village maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:16 AM
1

The thing is you are using “settling” as in settling down. Where men of manosphere use “settling” as in settling for whatever is available. What you said earlier is basically implying that since there are x y z men out there I should know my man is not the best. But to me they were for the time being. Like I didn’t even want a rich handsome actor if I was in love with someone. Nowadays it sounds like a foreign concept I suppose. I’m glad I’ve experienced love
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:31 PM
3

And no, I don’t know how other people are but when I really like someone I don’t sit here and think: yeah…. he is so handsome and funny and he treats me so well buttttt he is not a billionaire! Shucks!! I wish I found a millionaire that looked like him instead!! I just fall in love with who they are without thinking what could’ve they been
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:00 PM
2

Because at the time I was into them and accepted all their flaws. I didn’t think there was someone better out there that I’d rather be with, so to me being with them didn’t feel like “settling”, on contrary I felt super lucky especially with my ex husband. With time things change and people don’t always work out 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:57 PM
8

The problem is men cannot understand this notion because to them being with some woman is better than no woman, and for a woman it’s being single is better than being with some man. They apply their mentality to us and continue telling us we will be miserable if we remain single. They keep recycling that one video of a blond 30+ yo woman crying on YouTube that she is single as proof to how we all gonna end up 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:16 PM
2

How do you know people weren’t miserable back then? I know plenty of awful relationships where people are miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:12 PM
4

If you love a person you are not settling for them. All my ex’s were someone who I was really into at the time I met them and there weren’t more desirable men on my radar that were just too above me to date me so I had to settle for my boyfriends/husband
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 PM
3

Hell, I want a mommy too!! If they cook and clean for you I’ll buy one in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:49 PM
5

Literally 😂😂 “Only member” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:15 PM
3

I’m in my 30s now but when I was in my 20s I’d never date a 40+ man. Actually even now it highly depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:38 PM
1

Ahhh makes sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:09 AM
1

Is it just that you’d want more but he is just kinda using you (for a lack of better term…)? I just don’t really understand a benefit of such arrangement as a woman. Especially paying for him (!!!), why are you saving him money as you put it, while not your own? Is he much better looking than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:52 PM
4

Oh sure sure, you are just telling us “the truth about men”. Your delivery is clearly a great indicator of your good faith too 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:26 PM
5

This is why. Subs like this and TRP makes me not want to date. Why so much hate towards a gender? We have our own opportunities that come with struggles too and everyone is only trying to optimise their life situations. How can you hate someone for just trying to live their best lives? I once said something on this sub that I have a couple of guys who are 7 and 8 years younger trying to date me. I had multiple men on here tell me that they only want to fuck me without knowing me or them. I am pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:19 PM
11

Amazing. She literally said nothing offensive yet there are always men on here who go out of their way to be rude to a person only because she is a woman 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:32 PM
3

You may personally not care but some men are capable of falling in love with one person. Most successful men are married and don’t run “soft harems” 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:14 PM
2

Thank you for reiterating what I said lol. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:28 PM
3

Yeah that’s fine. Not everyone is available to you, wether you are a man or a woman 🤷🏼‍♀️ People have their own needs and wants and you can’t just declare as long as you are an XYZ you will have everyone at your disposal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:19 PM
6

Not every woman will accept any of this. When a man wants a certain woman he has to give her what she wants too in order to be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:41 PM
2

So then you should be able to relate. Go vet better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:26 PM
1

Way to dodge uncomfortable truth 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:24 PM
-2

Yeah like you sit here and tell us that you are abusive 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:44 PM
4

Your are either ignorant either intellectually dishonest (I lean towards the later)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:31 PM
2

Ok so why are you making this post? Shouldn’t you be happy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:35 PM
7

This right here goes to show that men (not all but still) have always and will always view women as a commodity. If my bf confessed something like this to me I’d be even more compelled to be good to him. If some other woman hurt him in the past why would I view him as “damaged goods” instead of trying to make it right. If you made a new friend and that friend told you he had another friend who borrowed 10k and disappeared on him, would you be scratching your head thinking: “Damn, I wish I met hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:31 PM
66

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:05 AM
12

You are too normal for this sub. Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:01 AM
2

😂😂 And the purge week is the best!! I roll on the floor from some posts. I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:57 PM
7

In two years you will be able to date a 50-yo fINe whiNe whose value will be through the roof 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:53 PM
2

That escalated fast 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:46 PM
-4

Just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:36 AM
10

Can’t expect more from this sub. Unbelievable!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:02 PM
1

I go out all the time. You just prefer to lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:51 PM
1

What rebuttal? You said nothing new. Most men aren’t lawyers. I love how men on here came back with some margin examples such as rich men and celebrities dating younger women or men hiring prostitutes and going to third world countries to find younger women. It doesn’t apply to 99% of population so what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:00 PM
1

Oh boy you can’t even do simple math. Hilarious. Pull out your phone calculator and Go edit it real quick before someone else sees 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:32 PM
2

Prostitution and dating is not the same 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:57 AM
10

Yeah, most men ain’t no lawyers. Most can’t bang 20 yos at 40+
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:53 AM
7

Younger even. The older the weirder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:39 AM
35

Ummm yeah, 6 years is ok. Men on here claim they will have women in their 20’s gladly be dating them when they are in their 40’s because they “become more valuable”.. I just remember myself at 20.. I’d never. Nor at 29 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:00 AM
53

As a former college woman I confirm. We used to call them creeps and laugh at them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:33 AM
60

Most old men don’t have an option to date young women though. You don’t see it often irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:20 AM
6

What does it matter what we think? Go do you. If you are a 9 or 10 as you claim then maybe you will be able to land someone. In reality I don’t know how a hot 30 or 40 yo rich woman would wanna pay for non committed sex. There are plenty of studs who would do it for free. But hey, maybe you can report back once you try
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:40 PM
2

Because that’s how it works. Regardless if you are “putting money away” government spends it and the future generations are the ones who will be funding your retirement. You are in Netherlands you say? Who will be paying for your healthcare when you are old? Your retirement will be impossible without future generations. I’m a woman and I receive $0 assistance and contribute to taxes the same way you do. I’m sick and tired of hearing that I get some sorts of handouts because of my vagina. My ex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:08 PM
9

Yes you do. If you don’t then go live in the forest, grow your own food, don’t use roads, or healthcare, or have a job. Be completely self sufficient and then you can talk. Until then I don’t fucking wanna hear how men contribute more. Children are the ones who will be paying your social security in 45 years when you are old and can’t work anymore. We are all dependent on each other so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:41 PM
0

There are still plenty of marriages that don’t just end and people grow old together. Why would you want to keep someone hostage? You constantly gotta work on your relationship and yourself if you want it to last. Why is it so hard for people on here to comprehend? The times have change, we, men and women, don’t have to survive anymore. Life is fairly easy for all of us. Refocus and rethink how to do things differently (better) instead of whining how pussy should be assigned and distributed wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:17 PM
16

You are benefiting from the society as whole as well 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:08 PM
5

They are not a substitute for romantic relationships but good female friendships are pretty awesome. Me and my bestie are nearly sisters. Besides her, I have a solid group and whenever one of us going through anything we all sit down and try to help the best we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:32 PM
1

If you could send make, model, license plate and location of your vehicle I will personally make sure they avoid it during their upcoming burglary. Thank you for your cooperation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:43 PM
1

Thank you for your eye-opening feedback. I will address the issue to avoid future criticism from this valuable source 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:32 PM
0

No I’m great at everything I do. Staying home with kids is not stimulating enough that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:22 PM
1

Иди на хуй, придурок
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:19 PM
1

I’m glad you are flattered. Most female attention you’ve got all year, heh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:14 PM
1

You are the one clearly obsessing with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:00 PM
1

Not much to say to a dishonest comment targeted to please red pilled audience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:58 PM
1

Yeah, you are full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:33 PM
1

I look after 2. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:34 AM
1

No, we are mainly former exchange students that were on J1 visas. What’s your fucking problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:33 AM
1

I’m in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:32 AM
6

Idk. I like working. It’s boring to do nothing with yourself. I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:41 PM
1

Good point. I shall see if I meet someone I actually wanna marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:04 PM
1

Like a year lol. It’s really not that hard. I’m actually nice outside this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:01 PM
1

Or wanna bet how many dates I can get in half hour on an app that guys will gladly pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:55 PM
1

I just broke up with the one before on Saturday. Wanna have a bet how long it will take me to get a new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:54 PM
1

I was married before and always had bfs lol. Cmon now. You know the game. Some bold assumptions on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:52 PM
1

To try to get me to be their gf or wife. Duhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:48 PM
2

Right? There is not a man on earth that could get me to do that. Not even a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:36 PM
1

I value a man, not his money. However, a man has to show chivalry and care before Im going to get interested. Then if all goes well I don’t mind combining bank accounts and I have a decent career so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:27 PM
10

You are special case though. I’ve seen what you post 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:23 PM
11

I’m super sceptical. Like what’s in it for me? Plus most Russian women are skinny and pretty and have no problems attracting a man and here he tells some fairy tale that any of my friends would totally laugh at
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:44 PM
2

I’m in the states and Russian women don’t really change mentality when they change countries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:28 PM
14

Wow. I don’t know a single Russian woman to agree to that. 10-15 years younger, pays on dates, agrees to non-monogamy 😂 Did you tell them you’d fake marry them for a green card?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:03 PM
5

I’m not sure what were the circumstances but that’s crazy. I have a lot of Russian girlfriends too. We laugh at 50/50 or paying the whole check. Unless you are a bf then we will treat you here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:43 AM
23

I’m Russian. A woman paying on a date is unheard of
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:31 AM
3

🤣🤣 You are going to hell but you are right!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:55 PM
21

Women don’t value those qualities you described over looks. That’s why most couples are around the same age. That’s why women want to fuck tall handsome dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:08 PM
0

I’ll continue: Not a single mom No tattoos Pays for everything herself Drives to you Preferably a virgin If not, then pump and dump material only
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:03 PM
2

Just got a bf on OLD 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:28 PM
1

And go to jail for it. There is not many people who adopt. Foster system proves it. Majority of foster parents are not good looking loving people. They do it for money and a lot of kids in foster care get abused physically and sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:35 PM
3

Not to mention they have such an issue with single mothers and government support of them yet don’t mind producing more single mothers. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:28 PM
32

I’m truly disappointed in choices of these female rappers. They spit so much game and talk themselves up. They are supposed to lead by example for other women and here they go.. Cardi is now pregnant with baby #2 from her disgusting cheater. How are they so desperate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:46 PM
2

Date 5 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:28 PM
3

Yeah, I would be afraid to meet a red piller and I look for signs. When he invited me to dinner I thought he is likely not one. Doesn’t seem like it so far. I don’t mind reciprocating at all. I’m excited to drive there and see how he lives and what his interests are. I invited him to my house last time 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:16 PM
2

I read FDS and agree with a lot of stuff. But I see how some stuff can be viewed on there. I also couldn’t wait 3 months for sex 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:13 PM
7

Well trp recommends to not do anything for a woman and she is supposed to have sex with you anyway. I don’t mind being attentive and caring if a guy is willing to do it for me but he has to go first 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:02 PM
6

Yeah, I don’t see why not mutually simp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:56 PM
3

I have nothing to compare with really but I got on bumble a few weeks ago. Ended up only staying for 3 days or maybe not even. My first date was a great success and now we are dating. I don’t know what you mean by “simping” as it’s different for everyone but he took me to an expensive restaurant and every time drove 1-2 hours to meet me by my house. This weekend I will drive to his place. So I’m not sure but I’m glad I met him 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:22 PM
0

Ok, so you agree with AMALT then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:14 PM
0

AMALT 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:28 PM
5

AWALT though, ehhhh, Mr MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:35 PM
8

Lmao!! I’m willing to bet you were like his only match the entire year besides bots and here you ruined his last hope!! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:28 PM
1

Great. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:17 AM
3

No. Men are no friends to women. You are orbiters waiting to sleep with us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:45 AM
2

Cleaning and cooking. Yeah, no, we are just not down anymore. Men never appreciated that from us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:41 AM
21

Omg so much thissss!! I get so freaking offended. I’m definitely above average in looks and it’s a mystery to me how some men think I’d be interested in them. Just a couple months ago my 60+ year old MARRIED SHORT UGLY LANDLORD came to fix something and started telling me he hasn’t had sex with his wife in a while. I was so uncomfortable and didn’t know how to react. He then proceeded to ask if I had a bf and I said yes, to which he replied: “Well what about me?” 😳😳 REALLY?? Just the audacity!! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:03 PM
3

Women in Eastern Europe went to war. Wars were facilitated by men. As a class women were below men. I don’t have the energy to argue on history. This is absurd. Men don’t like current dating market and decide to argue against historic facts. What absolutely ever. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:01 AM
2

We were at disadvantage and no, we worked in factories with men and were harassed. We were stigmatised for being single mothers. We made less. Women who stayed at home still had to slave away and had no good options. I don’t understand how you men want to say otherwise?? Why deny truth?? I’m only 33 and even when I was younger living in Eastern Europe there was still a strong notion that women are below men!! It’s only recently being equalised at where we have the same opportunities. Why can’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:18 AM
3

Are you serious?! Women didn’t work at factories??? Do you know any history?? We worked shitty jobs at less pay and were still required to cater to men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:45 PM
3

They didn’t let us get the same opportunities and ensured we were disadvantaged and at their mercy. Nobody wants to be at someone’s mercy. That’s why most people want to move out of their parents house and live the way they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:34 PM
3

Nope. Men took advantage of us and women were at men’s mercy. I don’t want to not be NOT in control and hope for the best and that my partner will be hopefully good. I want to be able to leave when a situation doesn’t serve me. I left relationships and that made me much happier than being in them. You won’t be able to change my mind in that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:22 PM
3

I don’t believe they are less happy than back in the day. They just didn’t know a different life so they went along with the hat was given. I’d never want to go back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:15 PM
3

Well find someone who is “reasonable”. Most people want to be happy. It used to be that men were happy at women’s expense. Now you can’t and you are upset. But you have to realize it wasn’t fair to us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:12 PM
3

Either way. We have a free choice. Men just are not used to working on relationships. They want women to suck it up like we were forced to back then. But we don’t do that anymore 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:55 PM
2

Not at all. Men tell women we are nagging them all the time. In reality you don’t care about our needs and when we express them men dismiss us. This is what you get. Women don’t want to be with you 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:46 PM
1

Do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:41 PM
3

So if your husband neglects your needs for years and years you should suck it up and stick with him anyway? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:27 PM
3

If she feels like her situation isn’t good that’s enough for her to leave. It would be horrible if I had to stay with my ex. I’m much much better off without him and I don’t give a shit if it’s the opposite for him 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:14 PM
1

Men need to realize how that we are the choosers and work on themselves to obtain our attention. Until then men’s situation will be more and more doom 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:08 PM
1

What stats show that women were happier? Women don’t want to be second class citizens, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:06 PM
2

Oh yeah ok. I would bet money that if I wanted to bang a man without a condom I could have done it nearly instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:03 PM
3

Ugh, I’d bet he is full of shit with his little story. Hung out on manosphere enough so decided to start putting his own fan fictions together. I’m dating a Muslim guy and I’m a white girl in the states. Going out with him tonight actually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:05 PM
3

It’s ridiculous!! I’m talking to a new guy and we’ve been on three dates so far and he works in IT. I’d never entertain an idea of dating a DJ wtf 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:37 PM
2

That’s such bs and so not true. All my bfs were someone I was attracted to and loved and didn’t want others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:27 PM
1

If you want casual sex be as hot as you can. Work out, be tall, smell good, flirt. If you are an average dude trying to listen to manosphere to get laid good luck. Most women nowadays are too confident to fall for negging or whatever other dumb “techniques” PUA or red pill promotes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:15 PM
3

I don’t know cause I don’t know a single woman who did that but I also am not a manosphere scrote. Maybe you should consult with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:10 AM
9

Ah yes!! Men’s behavior has been women’s fault since the beginning of time! We should stone rape victims since it’s their fault for being dirty seductresses!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:15 PM
3

Except men’s ways are much worse than vice versa. You don’t see a mother getting stressed out when her son starts going out with women, yet dads lose their shit 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:16 PM
5

You don’t hear women walk around and say: “sorry ladies, I have a son”. We are not dangerous to men and not constantly trying to take advantage of you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:40 PM
2

Not the same at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:26 PM
3

Oh really? So why don’t you hear women say: “Sorry, ladies. I have a son”. We are not nearly as dangerous and shitty to men as men are to us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:26 PM
6

“Sorry guys. I have a daughter”. That’s the only time men feel empathy for women. Then they cry: “Not all men” to the rest of us. Men know how shitty they are lol they just don’t want women to know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:28 PM
2

Hang out on manosphere much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:48 PM
2

You suggest one gender should be entitled to expose the other gender to violence. That is much different than a state implementing the same set of rules to everyone in question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:35 PM
2

Societal dominance through violence. Very progressive and clever. Bravo 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:15 PM
101

Almost a mil. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:33 AM
2

How is it even a question? The moment he reached out should’ve been the moment she told her sister 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:15 PM
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