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You must actually get women then. If I don't put 1000% into getting a woman, I just won't wind up getting one. Someone once told me that if I stopped trying, I'd just wind up meeting women randomly. I tried for 2 whole weeks to not try and I ignored every woman I knew. I've never seen women so happy. After 2 weeks, I couldn't take how happy all these women were so I went back to my standard operating procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:35 PM
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For Women: How do you actually assess if a man is more wealthy before you date him? I'm not a woman, but I know a woman who is very open about only dating wealthy men. The way she identifies them is by the brand jeans they wear. Apparently, she is familiar with the brands of expensive jeans. I realize, some men will counterpoint the idea that there are wealthy men that don't wear expensive jeans. But I think from this woman's point of you, a wealthy man that doesn't spend his money isn't of any …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:46 PM
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software engineers are extremely hard working, diligent, and thoughtful Jokes on you. I am none of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:06 AM
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Clearly, no amount of math knowledge makes up for my face. I am very good at math, ex-physics major here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:56 PM
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I'm not smarter than anyone. Sadage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:54 PM
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Not from me, clearly. I've always been a software engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:53 PM
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But if that's the case, how can an autistic guy not make themselves out to be seem like prey to women, if that makes sense? I hide my shortcomings with a mask: I use humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:22 AM
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Yeah, I don't know what's up with that. I haven't watched that show in years. Sooooo.... what do we think? Brain tumor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:28 PM
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everyone is in pain, everybody's struggling Why does this remind me of Morty? “Nobody exists on purpose. Nobody belongs anywhere. Everybody's gonna die. Come watch TV” Maybe a similar cadence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:17 AM
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I'm also sick of watching people act like women are not also suffering from this loneliness epidemic. In case it means anything to you, I have been decently aware of the female loneliness issue. I feel bad for such women suffering from that. I will sometimes message one of them when I run into them. But they never respond. So, I'm doing my part in offering some online companionship. :-) Some men literally fuck holes in their bed ... ... ... Why is everyone looking at me all of a sudden?!?! mastu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:49 AM
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Many men depend on women to feel complete Not disagreeing with the post, but I just wanted to say that any man (or any person) who needs another person to feel complete or happy really needs to change that aspect of themselves, even if it requires therapy. That is absolutely the road to madness. Source: I used to be someone who needed a woman to be complete and all it did was keep me in depression for decades, which ironically kept women out of my life. Today, I don't need a woman to be complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:52 PM
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OP, I will one-up you and say people should consider microdosing with mushrooms. Antidepressants (which I'm been on before) hide the pain. It's something a lot of people (like myself) can sense when on antidepressants. I'm not saying it's not helpful, relieving pain can be extremely helpful. But it isn't ideal. My experience with microdosing mushrooms is that it "melts the pain away". It doesn't feel like the pain is hidden or masked, it's just gone. Additionally, at least with my experience, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:47 PM
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i doubt u do but every day i lose that empathy more and more as i see women continue to be stupid with this “game” And that's the part I got, which is why I said "Jesus, dude". My recommendation is to try to remember that while many women exhibit the issues you point out, there are many who don't and those people make sensible choices. It's very easy to get tunnel vision on the negative parts of life and people. I also lost my empathy once. And it just made me miserable and more isolated. Since …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:15 AM
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if anything it’s better if she doesn’t cause u can laugh in her face that she judged u wrong Jesus, dude. Ok, I guess I get where you're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:41 AM
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That's the thing, I think the hypothetical guy will. As it is, there are average frustrated chumps heavily complaining when they see their female friend, whom they had a serious crush on, run off with some random dude. They are frustrated because of the investments they made in what they assumed was going to be an eventual payoff, which didn't payoff. I can't imagine how they would be if they actually did serious effort into changing themselves solely for a girl's attention and things didn't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:24 AM
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Watch it before you actually post. Just FYI: that video was really rough. I think I got the idea after 5 minutes and he just went on and on. I don't normally have ADHD but I might have it after that video. Not saying it's a bad video. Just kinda weird with the crayon chart and way too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:35 AM
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They know what he lacks and can EASILY give him a nudge in the direction with minimal effort. But society likes to pretend this is rude/impossible/fake even tho it def works and it's low risk high reward action My problem is what happens if the guy changes himself for the girl, but the girl still doesn't want him? This sounds like the road to insanity to me. Friendzoned guys really just need to find another girl. That's what I'd do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:29 AM
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When will women stopped being compared to objects and cattles? Can we be hoomans? When metaphors are erased from all language I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:41 AM
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What the hell is wrong with the men on this sub?? We understand metaphors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:40 AM
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Women are not suitcases of money. WTAF? It was a great metaphor. Everyone calm down, women are not beyond metaphors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:39 AM
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Because younger women are usually less mature than older ones Completely depends on how you define "mature". Unfortunately, "mature" is a whiteboard term where anyone who comes by just throws on whatever they want the word to mean. All I can tell you is I have a few examples of women my age criticizing me, insulting me, or just being demanding on first dates when I don't even know them. Never happened to me with younger women. I'd call that a maturity issue. Disclaimer: I don't exclusively date …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:36 AM
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You're getting used if you enter a relationship with a younger woman. She's not picking you because she actually likes you. It's for your money. She'll be lusting after younger hotter guys while she's with you. The problem with this argument is that it too much separates money and what attracts women, when those two are linked. I think if you take a look at women and their relationship to "status", you will see that much of the time, money is an important component to female attraction regardles…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:31 AM
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I'd rather be alone than date another man. Sounds like it's for the best. If it makes you feel any better, I've refused to date men my whole life. Sooo.... high five. Men aren't some big prize for women. I don't think men ever claimed we were. If you can't provide respect, kindness, and companionship There are men who can. The issue is you women keep choosing a-holes like me, then blaming them. As long as guys like me get women, we're teaching the good guys they need to be like me to get women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:10 AM
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the younger women tend to want money How many women are not attracted to traits that are attached to money or money itself? I'm not saying the entire sex is this way, but this is not age-dependent. I actually know a woman who owns a business to help men with their online dating profiles. Can you guess what she says is the ONLY thing she has to do for ALMOST ALL of her clients? She just has to make her men look more successful in their pictures. That's it. No rewording self-descriptions or adding…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:36 PM
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When are us men NOT father figures? - We seem to have to pay for our dates to show our ability to provide. - We take the lead during dating. - We have the responsibility of protecting our dates. - Many women even seem to prefer men who resemble their fathers. These are all fatherly traits. The second we are men, we are forced to either adopt a fatherly vibe, or not be able to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:26 PM
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The “nothing in common” argument grinds my gears Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:19 PM
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you likely have nothing in common aside from sex. People keep telling me this and it keeps just not being true. This is just an assumption based on people's imaginations. I am an old guy. I DON'T exclusively date youngins, but I always wind up with significantly younger women than my age. You know why? Because I have nothing in common with women my age. Example of a discussion I had last week with a woman that I am guessing was mid-twenties: she likes fantasy movies like Lord of the Rings. We we…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:18 PM
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What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? One thing I've seen happen with people who set their bar too high is that they become extremely resentful and start hating on the world for not delivering to them exactly what they want. I've seen this in men who demand virgins and women who demand the three 6s (6-figures, 6-pack abs, 6-foot tall). I think these two groups deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:23 AM
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No. They have interest from women because they are interesting, engaging people. Because most people like them, surprise! Women like them! Ok, so, these two statements were so batshit crazy, I had to reread it 3 times to make sure I wasn't reading it wrong. Did you just tell me what MY two friends (whom you've never met, talked to, or even seen) are like and why they are liked? If so, I refer you to the "batshit crazy" part of the first sentence. Here is why my two stud friends have interest fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:04 AM
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Where do you live that people are parading their casual sex partners around? lol Miami, Fl unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:50 AM
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Just don't whine when you try to start a relationship and don't get sex right away. Can't have it both ways. Not sure how this has been concluded. All my relationships have started via first-date sex. So, I actually am having it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:34 AM
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Which would make him as valued to me, a woman, as a dildo. But then other women will see him as higher value if they see you two together and any men that find you the least bit attractive will also see him as higher value. I don't think OP meant for every single person on the Earth to see a man that is a hookup as high value. I think he meant that a lot if not most would. I have to agree with that assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:32 AM
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That can be horrible advice depending on the person. Many people have to actively engage their social/love lives to get any progress. If you are really good-looking, where you just walk around and people engage you, then that person can do what you say. Ever hear of the phrase "I never got married because I was focused on my career"? I have and it's never sad with joy and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:29 AM
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Omg! I love that Pervert Palpatine tag! That's hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:26 AM
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on very childish means of becoming a valuable guy. Using sex to become a valuable guy is absolutely not childish. That would presume children are having all kinds of sex and I think most normal mentally healthy adults would not. For anyone who needs it, see definition 1: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/childish In the real world, when you're grinding to make your dreams come true you wouldn't give two shits about sex and you determine your own sense of value. I'm an old and spent much…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:25 AM
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Are the 40 year olds you know/can imagine who think getting laid is their purpose in life the guys you want to be like? Only the 40 year olds who are not attractive enough to bang 20 year olds. At a certain point when you get old, you realize you can old bang other old people. That significantly decreases the interest and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 AM
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Watermelon sugar!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:09 AM
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Please tell me the men you historically know who were great because they could get laid? I have had two male friends in my life that are the epitome of being studs. They are definitely treated as high value because of their ability to be able to have sex with nearly any woman. Men want to be them, women want to have sex with them, and bisexuals want to watch. Ever been to a eulogy where people got up and said "he could get laid"? When has a eulogy ever proved anything about a person? I've seen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:09 AM
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I also don't have an issue with women who have casual sex. That's how I get my hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:58 AM
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I have a high sex drive Why hello there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:55 AM
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Not disagreeing with you on anything, but just wanted to say all my relationships have begun via first-date sex. know fuckbois are only good for one thing. Much like men look at “sluts.” Do many men see sluts that way? I been begging to bag (aka have a relationship with) a massive slut for a long time. Unfortunately, I'm not attractive enough. <cries>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:52 AM
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Seems like reasonable logic here but I would like to add that sometimes you get off the bus one stop later because you saw another bus that will let you enter the wrong door, or let you ride it along with another bus at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:49 AM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:18 PM
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Not sure how that translates into confidence. I've already been doing the fun/interesting and that alone has had nothing to do with my confidence. Being a near-narcissist with a God complex however has done wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:16 PM
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I think there's one other way to kinda have confidence is to be desensitized to rejection. As soon as I get my living situation fixed later this year, I will start having to meet women again. But before I do that, I will start going to public places and randomly go up to people to say something ridiculous. I call this "getting the shakes out" because it is meant to treat the fear of talking to or going up to strangers. When done properly, I can then talk to anyone about anything without a care i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:15 PM
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Lots of self-delusion! Ha ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:11 PM
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I'm the reverse. I used to be very attractive as a young man but lost that as I got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:09 PM
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If anything, a woman would be inclined to want to fix an attractive "broken" man. Truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:08 PM
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Yes, THIS! Also, if a girl is not attracted to you, you will get lectured about why you can't say certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:07 PM
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You're my hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:05 PM
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Must be awesome to be good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:04 PM
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That's quite hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:02 PM
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I don't disagree with any particular point on the post. However, I did want to add this one twist that I have come to believe. Good looks affect a person's perception of intelligence, humor, and personality. In fact, I believe there is a study proving this. I think it's called the Halo Effect. So, in other words, if you are physically attractive, you are much more likely to be regarded as having a good personality. So, this is just another dagger into those of us lacking looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:00 PM
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I would say the problem is the reverse: many women's standards are too high. There is nothing wrong with taking what's in front of you and appreciating it. In fact, that is the recipe for happiness. I do think there is something wrong with refusing everything in front of you and chasing some image or list a person has in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:02 PM
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reddits use of "sexual predator" I would go much farther with this and say people use that term both off and on Reddit to negatively label anyone they don't agree with. In fact, we are now a negative label culture. Everyone is always looking for the next negative label to put on someone so they can put them down. As if that's an ok thing to do. Sarcasm mode activated: Good job, humanity. That's neither sick nor sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:59 AM
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Hinge experiment analysis. Women get too many choices and are overwelmed, while men get nothing. Not sure why anyone is doing experiments proving things we already know. In one sense, good for you guys for doing an experiment. it's great you have the curiosity to do that. But yeah, this is known knowledge already. Perhaps we can say you've succeeded in confirming previous experimental results. ​ Appearance wise, female me was probably a 6/10, decent but not stunning. Ha ha. You may have proved y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:00 PM
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do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? Yes, but I also feel resentful and angry. I never had a chance to get a family although I tried hard and did "everything society told me to" in order to get a woman: I beefed up my humor, I got an education, I have interests, I gymed, I learned how to dance, etc. But I am very unattractive. So, while I have dated and had girlfriends, they have been very few and far between. In fact, my average is I get a date about every 7 years.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:31 AM
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Talk about reading way too far into what someone is saying. That's not what I said at alllll This is my understanding of the situation: - you wish to change the behavior of a large group of men. - you wish to do so using social influence. ​ Manipulation is to attempt to control someone by making use of something. The something = social influence. The attempt to control = attempting to force a behavior change. The someone = a large group of men. So, how is this not an attempt at manipulating the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:01 PM
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I would just like men to improve their behaviour so I don't have to sift through 100+ idiots to find 1 decent one, while also facing abuse. The world is full of idiots. We all have to deal with that. I'm not saying it's right, I'm not saying it's the way I think the world should be. I am saying welcome to the club. This would also benefit men, as women would become more active on the apps. This is what a lie sounds like because there is no way you could conclude this on behalf of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:52 PM
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If you want to fix online dating you have to separate casual sex from relationship seeking people. The funny part for me is that there is a separation for that. One group is called men and one is called women. /s Yes, I'm partly joking. But only partly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:50 PM
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men should stop complaining about their lack of success unless they are willing to support women. Well, let's change this around. When are women going to do something about all the gold-digging women and the women who only reject men based on height? If they don't do something about that, then women shouldn't complain about being treated badly. I've personally been used twice for money. I don't see one woman doing anything about that. The sexes can try to manipulate each other all day but I guar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:48 PM
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It's not that I'm twisting your words, I'm filling in one possible result that you seem to be ignoring. It completely depends on the area people are in, but as a person (not even segregated to just being a guy), telling someone how to behave are fighting words. I know, if one of my friends tried calling me out on something, they are getting smacked. It doesn't matter if my behavior was right or wrong. It's a respect thing. Once again, I completely admit this isn't in all areas. But definitely in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:44 PM
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Well they are leaving in droves, most apps are 2/3 men or 3/4 men. You're going to need evidence for this. From what I've seen, less women get on there in the first place, which is because they get real-life dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:32 PM
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Okay... So if all women leave the apps, what do men expect from the apps? I don't know. Which universe is this happening in? Which Spiderman does that universe have? Is that the one with Gwen Stacy? We are officially in fantasy land. This just isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:31 PM
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Online dating isn't more positive for women, that's my point - that's why we leave it and it's mostly men on the apps I don't think that's true at all. I think the narrative is being changed to fit your point. I have mostly female friends and most don't make it to an app because they get real-life dates. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:29 PM
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Yeah but if you're not super successful on the apps, it baffles me why you'd do any of the stuff I stated Well, that's what I think is some of the issue. First, have to figure out if you just want to vent or want to understand the issue. If you just want to vent, that's fine. If you want to understand the issue, I think you have some questions to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:28 PM
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Sure sex is important but men are still influenced socially to a big degree. This in no way means it's time to try to manipulate these men using that influence. Manipulation is evil and it's sick. Only broken people use that tactic. It's ok to want to change the world by getting out positive messages but it's not ok to purposely find some pressure point for a person and begin turning those screws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:25 PM
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The power isn't entirely out of men's hands, and this attitude is part of why women are giving up on men more often nowadays You forgot a word here. SOME women are giving up on men. And you know what? Some men are giving up on women for the sole reason that some women act like men are the sole cause of the world's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:22 PM
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Truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:21 PM
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Well, if men don't call out their friends, people online etc, women will leave the apps and dating altogether Once again, I understand you are venting. But lots of massive arrogance here. You don't speak for all women, this hasn't happened yet, and men are not the sole cause of all dating nor online dating grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:20 PM
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Well, if that's the case, men can't really complain about a lack of women on the apps or women being unwilling to meet. Absolutely not. There should never be this idea of "unless you listen to me, you should all suffer". I'm pretty sure that's psychological manipulation and that sucks. We all have horrible things we have to deal with in the world. And the answer is rarely to force the world to change. In fact, for happiness, the best way is to change oneself. As a guy, I have my own crap to deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:18 PM
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If you call out your friend you risk losing a friend. Worse than that, depending on the area you live, those are fighting words. In other words, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:08 PM
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Soo how can men encourage better behaviour? Like calling out their friends etc Why should we? Why shouldn't these guys with horrible behavior encourage more bad behavior? This works both ways. You can't just encourage the world to take on your views. If you do that, then the other side can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:07 PM
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Thing is, I don't think all of them are that successful. Yet they continue This is a clue there is something very wrong with the understanding of the situation. It's time to reexamine your assumptions because one or some of them are wrong. Barring rare cases of severe mental illness, people don't do things to not get anything out of it. They are definitely getting something out of it. I would propose based on what I've seen it's sex. But I do sense you're making a blanket assumption they are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:05 PM
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I know many men say horrible things about women to their friends and encourage bad behaviour. I feel like this is overgeneralized and needs to be more specific. There should never be a rule that no horrible things should be said about a woman. Women are people and some people deserve to have horrible things said about them. Not that I'm implying all women who have had horrible things said to them deserve it. What I am saying is, sometimes they deserve it because some people (and some women) are …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:02 PM
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That's so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:53 PM
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Men don’t have group meetings and talk about how we treat women. I don't understand why you keep missing our meetings. I always call your name during rollcall, but you never show up. WTF, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:52 PM
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they don't keep sleeping with assholes I understand you've had some bad experiences and I think most of your post/comments are venting. And that's fine, we all need to vent sometimes. But I think it important to point out you're coming from a very opinionated perspective. The quote above is the perfect example, that is beyond wrong. I've been everything in my long life. Two lives I've lived are being the nice guy and being the a**hole. The a**hole does indeed get more women. A lot more. The nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:51 PM
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Your comments are truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:47 PM
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some men do have friends they could be calling out. I don't understand why I'd call out anything about my friends and what would that achieve? Calling out people doesn't do anything but start an argument. So, now, you're getting me in a position where I have to smack around a friend. I don't understand why some people in this world think they are the sole determination of the behavior of others. I hear that from some female friends sometimes: "I'm not going to let [action here] happen" or "I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:41 PM
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Some men are friends with people who send stupid messages, they talk shit about women, they encourage pump and dump. I'm just saying to those men who say there's no women on the apps who want to meet - what are you doing to make it a better place for women to be in the first place. I couldn't disagree with this mindset more. It's a horrible thing to attempt to pit people against each other so that your beliefs can be forced upon people. You're literally encouraging violence. If this is the corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:35 PM
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While some men are caring and fun to date, these type of men overrun online dating. I feel like you are walking right by something really important here. When dating online and/or dating at older ages, mostly the cream of the crop has been taken. Mostly, only the crust is left. Yes, it sucks, but that's just the Bell curve in action. Start meeting men in real life is the best possible solution I can offer. To the more genuine guys, is there anything you think you could do to change this situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:19 PM
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are posted to trigger people. Oh yeah? Well, your mother! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:01 PM
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To me most guys are attractive enough to fuck. Your DMs are going to explode in 3... 2... 1...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:44 PM
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Women sending cute selfies randomly, calling 2-3 times a day, constantly texting good morning and good night texts, ect. are all women striving for attention. Sadly, not once has this ever happened to me. And I'm an old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:41 PM
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To be fair, I think men do something similar. I think both sexes use mostly subconscious controls when it comes to dating. The example for men I'd use is when there is a woman that is extremely attractive either at work or in a circle of friends. I've seen the men line up for her despite it being clear that she isn't going to pick the much lesser attractive men in that line. It's tough to have an accurate self-image because we can only see ourselves in the mirror and not walking around in daily …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:36 PM
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This made me LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:13 AM
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It's CRUCIAL for women. For men, like I used to be (250 pounds) it ain't as crucial. I would disagree on both counts. I think men underestimate the power of warmth and smiley-ness. I have seen this win over men without fail. That said, I am not sure how to teach a woman who does not have this to develop it. But women who had men standing in line to date them, and were not models, had this ability. As for men, I'd say looks are crucial. But being fat doesn't mean you are not good-looking. As a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:04 AM
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spend 2-3 hours a day gaming when red dead 2 came out... But I am saying that playing csgo or league 6 hours a day is not making a person nhappy, they're just addicted Problem is you don't know that person isn't happy nor do you know they are addicted in the case you described. Maybe YOU were not happy and addicted, but that doesn't mean everyone else is. Addiction is literally when someone exhibits a lack of control or inability to stay away from something at a cost to aspects of their own real…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:54 AM
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We have similar usernames. Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:47 AM
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It literally doesn't even matter what those things are, if they're objectively productive and what most people would consider a valid/impressive use of your time. I feel this statement is extremely misleading. The beginning of this sentence sounds as if the possibilities are endless. However, by the end of the sentence, not only are we in subjective territory, but now you can't even be yourself, you need to conform to what most people think. Despite how the word "objective" sits before the word …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:43 AM
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We dated the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:56 PM
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hence the incredibly strange position of not inherently liking woman but also desiring them and sexually pursuing them I don't believe this "not liking women" thing. Do I hate some women? Yes. But that's because, just like all humans, some women are d*cks. Do I hate all women? No. Some of my most favorite people on the planet are women. I also have mostly female friends, which didn't have to happen. If I wanted, I could have had mostly male friends. If being taught something is bad makes one not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:40 AM
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At some point, a girl with a beautiful face and a hot body was kinda off putting to me, Yes. I think they tend to starfish unless they are really screwed up in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:59 AM
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You figure the ugly/below average women are getting approached? I was thinking the random guys around them were jumping them after failing approaches on good-looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:57 AM
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Ok... which is? You going to tell us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:53 AM
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Don't leave us ugly guys out!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:52 AM
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I love this seems to be coming from a female account. Makes it even funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:52 AM
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You made me realize the one chick that swallowed was very large.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:51 AM
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Due to the basis on actual studies and data, this is an awesome post. I wish many more Reddit posts had such a basis. That said, I learned I need to start hitting on many more ugly, fat women. I wish they had statistics on how many of those ugly men had to pay for their sexual hookups. As a VERY unattractive male, most of my lifetime sex has been with escorts/strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:49 AM
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I love your questions, OP. I feel like they show you've thought deeply about this subject, which is awesome. I don't think people, in general, think deeply anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:06 PM
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The first woman I gave cash to every time she registered to cover the cost and books. The second woman lived with me so I paid the rent, her car troubles, her laptop, all food, and any critical expenses she couldn't cover. So, didn't directly pay for tuition, but it was still helping her through university. I would never advise another man to freely give their money to a woman, with the exception of marriage. But I guess my mom was a really giving person, so at my core have this "yes, take anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:25 AM
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I just noticed your username. This is the perfect subject for such a name. I laughed out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:21 AM
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not something myself or most women would’ve done. A statement like this is so underrated. Although I always tell myself "these types of people are not all this way", it's nice to know they really are not all that way. I would probably be just as wary of you as the dark garage. Well, I do look and smell a bit weird. So, I don't really have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:20 AM
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I completely agree with you. Your original statement just sounded funny, as if you were a king or had slaves or something. X-D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:17 AM
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i'm not against the idea of male-female friendships. All of my male friends were met via hobby clubs/ friend-of-friend though. I have mostly female friends and most of those friends were gained by one side crushing on the other, or by having dated. And it's as much of a minefield as it sounds like. X-D Personally, I'm the type that is happy to help anyone regardless of age/gender but that's just me. That's so awesome. I'm trying to be that way. Historically, I've been the massive "get away from …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:01 PM
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to those who are forced serve me. I laughed out loud at that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:48 PM
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Awesome comment. I am in the US, so it's cool to hear how things are in different countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:41 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure how long things have been this way. I think the Internet has made lots of things much more prominent. All I know is that things seem to be getting very bad. Suicide is up, violence against others is up, misinformation is up. And many psychologists are suggesting it's our disconnection with each other thanks to social media. I'm not trying to force anyone to live a particular way. I'm just trying to send positive thoughts out to the ether: let's all try to be nice to one anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:39 PM
1

Ok. So how did they identify Incels back then when the term was only created in 1993? What kinds of anime did they have back then to get those waifus?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:48 AM
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True but how realistic is it to expect to even have a Ted Bundy-esque person in your town? I'd wager that even if you wanted to be serial killed by a Ted Bundy type person, you couldn't make it happen. Even if you lived 100 years. It's just that rare. Also, keep in mind that women wanted to talk to Ted Bundy because he was so good-looking. So, I think he's a massive exception to the conversation. If we are going to be concerned about our personal safety, 2019 stats show the leading cause of non-…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:36 AM
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I am forced to assume you don't even know anyone who has been in an arranged marriage. I've seen a few arranged marriages, and from what I can tell, they are very cordial. What I mean by that is the two people that are to be married have to like each other or it doesn't happen. I actually know women that have requested a different guy because they didn't like him. In fact, the last arranged marriage I saw, the two people involved liked each other very much and were excited to start life together…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:24 AM
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Like I personally go out of my way to be kind and nice to people who are for instance service people (tipping, even when not required) I hold doors open for anyone behind me, I say hello, thank you and please whenever appropriate. I also sometimes compliment trusted males (co-workers) on their shirts, shoes, ties etc. So you're the one nice person in this thread. I'll make a note for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:15 AM
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Yeah, that's true. I'm always waiting for her to start her sales pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:14 AM
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Same-sies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:13 AM
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On what planet does this occur?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:13 AM
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Hold on, dude. Not cool. Arranged marriage does not equal facism, except maybe on FoxNews. India still does arranged marriages. I don't think anyone who understands their political system would seriously refer to them as facists. I realize not everyone knows everything, not even me. But holy f-ing crap, man. That's very insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:09 AM
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keeping men in dungeon pens and clinically harvesting their sperm when needed This actually sounds kind of hot. Let’s take away rights and autonomy Hey, hey. This is the Internet. It's global. Some cultures do that. Let's not assume one culture is superior to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:05 AM
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Hey, works for some cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:03 AM
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TRP TRP? What is TRP? advises men to assume all women are sluts/of poor character. If I did this, I'd have to hit on all of them, because that's my kind of woman! I assume every woman is conservative and a prude. That way I have no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:03 AM
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This is an overgeneralization. The fact is men have changed. I'm an old guy and men have never been bigger pu**ies than they are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:58 AM
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It’s not my or anyone else’s job to placate men’s need for female attention unless he’s my husband or boyfriend. Well, just remember that the next time you are in trouble, need help, and don't have anyone you know around. Because it's no one else's job to help you. Most humans live in a society. It should be everyone's job to help and have sympathy for each other. Why? Because that's what we'd want if we were in trouble or in pain. Especially today, with extreme weather events and people threate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:56 AM
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Compliments from gay guys are good tho. What's really good is when you let a gay guy that complimented you take you to his house and really show you how much he likes you. Your butt will be sore the next day but it's worth it. No homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:50 AM
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We grew up having it beat into us to not trust men or be paranoid. My problem is the wrong men are being trusted and not trusted. Here's an amusing story: I get into this elevator in a parking garage. I happen to notice earlier that one floor of the parking garage has its lights out. No idea why. Well, some woman I've never seen before gets in the elevator. We go to the floor that's all dark, she then turns to me and asks if I can walk her to her car. I was massively insulted. First of all, I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:48 AM
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Why should anyone risk their safety? If you're stuck with a flat tire in the middle of nowhere, why should anyone stop? If you're running away from someone and you don't have your cell, why should anyone help? First of all, you should consider doing nearly any action that makes another's life better/happier. Secondly, most of the time, the risk only exists in a woman's head. As mentioned in my other post, you have to fear the men you know. The whole reason why humans suck is that most people onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:33 AM
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I'm a low-t wuss. Awwww... this got me in the feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:24 AM
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One problem is women shouldn't be feeling unsafe by creepy men. I'm creepy myself but wouldn't hurt a fly. Women who are killed/raped are much more often done so by the men they are close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:23 AM
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The only way to fix this is to make women complimenting men a common thing so that men don't start making assumptions. Look at you, trying to upset the natural order of things. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:19 AM
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If you are in the same social circle the chance of the guybreacting poorly to a rejection seems pretty low. Just as a counterpoint, I try hard to encourage my friends not to date each other. Twice in my life, I've had a couple break up which then caused a split in our group of friends. People were taking sides and threatening to beat the crap out of other friends. It was really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:18 AM
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You and I have the same goal. Unfortunately, I often seem to wind up back there since my family is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:13 AM
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The extremely sad part is that it's friendliness from anyone. We have a saying in Miami, "if someone approaches you with the clear intent of being nice and helpful to you, run for your life".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:07 PM
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When in doubt, whip it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:03 PM
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I think that depends how women are in your area. With the women I know, asking that (or even asking for a kiss) is a big turn-off. I'm from Miami and men are expected to act like men. Which for the women here, that means not asking and just having the confidence "just to do it".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:03 PM
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Try to "escalate" with them and see if it works. If they are not really interested, you'll get stopped at some point. Although, some would say, if you get stopped, you're doing it wrong. Anyway, if you don't get stopped.... well, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:01 PM
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You must be good-looking. Women never accept I'm interested in them, I think they just can't handle the reality of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:00 PM
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Guys go years/decades without getting complemented. Agreed. I don't think a woman has ever given me a compliment in real ife. 99% of the time, she’s just being nice. In my case, she's flirting to use me for something. Just got used for the second time by helping a woman through university.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:58 PM
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Do you think that is true? I think it is true. As a man (sorta, kinda), women are never nice unless they want something. So, if a woman is nice, I immediately assume she wants something. To be fair, I've gotten much better in the last few years assuming a woman is "just being nice" when she is being nice to me. I do find it interesting though that women often assume when a guy is showing sexual/romantic interest, that he's just being nice. People's assumptions can be very telling about the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:56 PM
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I don't disagree with the study. However, I disagree that people should let this happen. On two separate occasions in my life, my inner circle of friends was destroyed by two people dating and then breaking up. People started picking sides, then massive disagreements, and some physical fights. It's not cool. I always tell my friends 'no dating in our circle'. But they don't listen and then the whole group suffers. There are 7 billion people on the planet. I don't understand why people can't just…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:43 PM
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Oh definitely. If they heard someone speaking of them that way, there would not only be tears but calls to friends to validate their feelings. Oh well, what can a person do? Can't change people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:09 PM
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You two should just bang already. We can all see it coming. Pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:59 PM
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I'm not siding with the other dude, but if you were really any of those, you wouldn't be on Reddit. X-D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:58 PM
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Damn. Even for the Internet, this was mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:56 PM
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I’ve been in so many conversations where my girlfriends are ripping a guy to pieces. The funny thing about this is that many women are afraid of being judged. So, they fear the exact thing they do to others. That has always blown my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:53 PM
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Now that you mention it, women do seem to be more willing to talk to me since I been wearing my N95 Covid mask. ... ... ... Shit.
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:24 PM
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This cute girl matches with me and starts off as very interested. This is the step on Bumble I never get to. And it's ironic, because the more you don't need attention from women, the more they give it to you. I played with this before. I once ignored every woman I knew for a whole month. I've never seen women so happy. After that month, I just went back to what I normally do. It was way too annoying seeing how happy they all were.
/r/seduction04/07/21 02:09 AM
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HA! Too bad you can't see how you do with my face. The only thing that helps my game is either finding a bar/club that is very poorly lit, or just an area of the bar/club that is very poorly lit. Once they see my face, they're gone though. But at least I had them on the hook while it was dark.
/r/seduction04/07/21 02:03 AM
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I think the women of my generation were spanked a lot as a kid, so now they really like being spanked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:53 PM
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Do you think BDSM pretty much universllay being "woman focused" says something about sexuality? I don't know how many men are into BDSM as I don't have many male friends. But I think the fact that so many women I know are into BDSM says how much energy and effort it takes to get a woman off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:52 PM
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To add more to my previous comment, flip it around. Do all men like women who are shy or passive? No, of course not. Some of us men are latent homosexuals and like women who are closer to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:19 PM
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Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously? I think that depends on the woman. A lot of women do seem to insist on wanting the strong manly men. But then again, the remaining women are attracted to gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:16 PM
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It's great to have this finally explained to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:54 PM
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They don't. They just say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 02:15 PM
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They were implying the men get turned on and then go home to them to have sex. So, in that sense, they benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:08 AM
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I'm also going off the profitable sex industry Women are supporting the sex industry plenty. I think something like 44% of women use a sex toy like dildos and vibrators. Only 20% of men use vibrators. In fact, I think the oldest sex toy in the world is a 28,000 year old dildo. My point being your observation really doesn't have anything to do with men wanting sex. It has everything to do with people wanting sex. Women, like men, are f*cking non-people and seem to really like power tools to do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:41 AM
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Only men told men that women were sexually attracted to kind respectful men. My female friends are men? That is quite the revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:30 AM
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You even have married men going into strip clubs and we as a society that just kind of accept it. Shouldn't say this like it's a definite negative. I know some wives that like to have their men get turned on either by strippers or porn or both, explaining that they get to benefit from it. But yeah, the men who are sneaking into strip clubs, that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:24 AM
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You're observing the women you want Of course! Am I performing a scientific study, or am I just trying to bag the person I'm attracted to like everyone else on the planet? I'm going to think all Americans are combative trashy people who never know who fathers their children. All we Americans are combative trashy people. Have you never visited? How do you think Trump got elected? Why do you think Americans are always fighting a bunch of wars at once? Why do you think the largest thing in our gove…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:20 AM
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OP has also inspired me. As soon as she comes back from the shower, I'm going to walk out of this closet and introduce myself.
/r/seduction26/01/21 03:49 AM
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if you find her attractive and you want to sleep with her, do what it's gonna take to make it happen. Awww, Hell no. That's how Bill Cosby got in trouble.
/r/seduction26/01/21 03:48 AM
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Hi, this is Steve. Stop posting weird stuff about me.
/r/seduction25/01/21 08:46 PM
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Not disagreeing with you, but I think a requirement of the "focus on yourself" part is dealing with the depression that many of us feel due to being alone for so long. That's the catch. There is no cure for depression. And depending on the person, treatments are not necessarily effective. Depression is a powerful force and can be strong enough to stop someone from bathing, much less stop someone from improving themselves. All I'm saying is I think the situation is more complex than just having a…
/r/seduction24/01/21 04:26 PM
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I'm going to guess your issue is that you care. You need to not give a crap. It's usually when you are actively trying to use teasing to hook up with a girl that it can start coming across as creepy or malevolent. Think about if you have siblings or guy friends where there's teasing back and forth. Does that ever come across as creepy or malevolent? If you're like most people, it never has. And the whole reason is that you're trying not to hook up with them. When you start teasing a girl because…
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:49 PM
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u/xoxololo420, One line I wanted to add to the other person's explanation is that many attractive women have a line of X number of men kissing her butt. So, when you start making fun of her/teasing her, women often think "finally! Someone who's going to act normal/real with me!" And in case anyone can't tell, that is a big positive. One note on negging, one usually wants to use that when a woman is acting snobby, arrogant, or some other negative behavior that you can't disarm otherwise. I'm not …
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:41 PM
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I'm in the friend zone so often, I should really buy property there.
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:32 PM
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It's because you care when you first meet a woman. With women and with work, it's best not to give a crap.
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:32 PM
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When the legs don't work, then you have to reach up higher and press the reset button. It'll restore her to factory settings.
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:30 PM
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I believe it does increase her attraction. I think it is a standard phenomenon. I don't know that I can explain it. I have perceived similar. If we have to create some archetype to shoot for, I think what you're looking for is to treat a girl like she's your bratty little sister. Seems to work.
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:29 PM
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Also, don't believe everything a woman tells you. I may have already mentioned, but they have a tendency to exaggerate and misinterpret. I been there. This isn't even a women thing, more of a people thing.
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:07 PM
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It's only laughable if you've never been threatened by a woman before. The really scary thing about being attacked by a woman is that she can easily turn it around and claim you're the attacker. Society and the police are very likely to believe her. Regarding stalkers, I've been stalked probably about 10 times in my life. I think the exact number is 12. So I know how it is. That said, most women I know with stalkers never confront them and rather run away. They need to learn how to deal with the…
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:56 PM
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You shouldn't accept ghosting. And calling out can definitely be the correct response, it depends. I wouldn't recommend going out of your way to call out a girl for that as it's a waste of time. But yeah, if you run into her again or you meet someone that knows her, Hell yeah she should be called out. Don't believe this crap about women being afraid of a man's response to the answer "no", which is usually the excuse for ghosting. The fact is I've stood up to bigger guys before, sometimes when I …
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:49 PM
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I think all you people in this thread need to stop listening to mainstream messages and start thinking more. This problem is not all on the men's side. The fact is women exaggerate issues and they come up with crazy thoughts that have nothing based on reality. Take OP's date for example. There is absolutely no reason for the woman to ask not to be murdered. It is true that many women are murdered by men, but the great majority are murdered by HUSBANDS and BOYFRIENDS, not first dates. I think you…
/r/seduction19/12/20 03:44 PM
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Covid and all the places that are closed due to.
/r/seduction03/12/20 08:04 PM
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Well, disagreement is definitely allowed. :-) These are observations I've made across my life in dealing with people. A guy who hardly has male friends and almost all female friends are often guys who don't know how to get a woman (so they just stick around in the friend zone), or they're gay. I have almost all female friends, so does this apply to me? Well, it did. I started out as one of those guys that would say to a female friend "oh, you look pretty today" and hoped that would spark somethi…
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:39 PM
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I see a girl having mostly guy friends as a positive. I take a girl having mostly female friends as a negative. It's a huge negative if she has no guy friends. Women with mostly guy friends will usually understand men better than the average girl and be able to get along better with men than the average girl. When I meet a woman like this, I know we will get along great even if it's not a love match. Women with mostly female friends are often pretty nuts. They've lived a life of not having anyon…
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:16 AM
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Hey! I love FDS! It ensures everyone gets to have a crazy cat lady living near them.
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:54 PM
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Im going to be robbed of someone pooping on my chest? ... ... ... Yay?
/r/seduction17/11/20 05:26 AM
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Someone already said this, but I will repeat it because I agree. Depending on how you feel about using "psychological warfare", try focusing on the least hot girl. I cringed when you said you focused on the hot one. First, it shows good character that you're interested in more than just looks. Second, it's just really nice to give her the attention for a change since everyone and their mother goes after the hot girl. I think this is such a positive thing to do. Would you love it if a cool girl g…
/r/seduction04/11/20 09:21 PM
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When it comes to women, the best way is to use their arrogance against them and ask them for their opinion on something. Basically, you approach them claiming "you just needed a woman's opinion". It should be something that hopefully won't start an argument, but something controversial enough so that you can explore both sides of the argument. We used to do this all the time. Worked most of the time. Then, during the conversation, I'd start laying down the humor.
/r/seduction03/11/20 01:39 AM
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One way to conquer it is to start talking to random people all the time, hot or not. Guys need practice at approaching to be effective.
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:41 PM
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The only thing I can tell you is that no woman has ever felt that way toward me.
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:39 PM
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I like this a lot. For years, women, therapists, the cops, and the law have been insisting I have X, Y, and Z issues. Maybe I'm not the one with the problem. Maybe society has the problem. After all, the heart wants what the heart wants.
/r/seduction27/10/20 09:25 PM
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Unfortunately, it doesn't work if you're ugly like me. I used to exercise 6 days per week. I always get the same reactions from women: avoiding eye contact.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:33 AM
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Check the treadmills and spin classes. That's where the women folk hide. They run in packs.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:31 AM
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Just thought I'd take a moment to rant. <rant>I always hated #3 and #4 about women. I think it's dumb. And unfortunately, those are things I have to accept since they are so ubiquitous.</rant>
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:34 PM
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