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1	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Yeah.. I never had much of a choice. Doomed since childhood I guess. My parents raised me in a rural.. not even town.. more like tiny village with 2 neighboring farms in the mountains. My dad's a farmer. My mom's a nurse. I went to primary school for 10 years there, but when I graduated, everyone from the school I went to had to move away from home at 15/16 as there was no high schools in the municipality, and the closest high school was too far away to take the buss to, which was about an hour …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 07:00 PM
1	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Yeah no commute. I live 2 minutes walk away from work. Usually I stay up until 2 am yeah, though I don't necessarily spend all night gaming, I just have 8 hours of me time for all kinds of hobbies, nice baths.. cooking is a hobby of mine so I'll pour myself some wine and relax while cooking. I have no friends cause I moved to a new town, I don't enjoy social hobbies all that much, I have nothing in common with co workers, so yeah..it's not that I can't make friends. I lived with a friend until l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 03:52 PM
1	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? As someone who is single, no friends or family around, and no responsibilities other than work, I can spend 8 hours a night on my hobbies easily without neglecting anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:38 PM
3	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Yeah I've made this point before and people tell me I'm being picky for not wanting to date soccer fans. Ain't my fault that my experience with dating hardcore soccer fans, is that they gotta have a game on every weekend night on loud volume and yell and be noisy everytime someone kicks the plastic thingy into the plastic net. I used to live on top of a sports bar...until a week ago, and it was soo noisy the entire summer until midnight. I promised myself I would never date a soccer fan ever aga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:36 PM
2	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Yeah it tracks. Like I've never met a conservative woman with neon dyed hair or lots of piercings. I guess it's kinda.. in the name :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:28 PM
1	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? I'm the complete opposite. I hate outdoor and fitness stuff like that, and prefer to do my hobbies alone and preferably at home, as well as have long gaming sessions.. tbf though I can go months without playing a game then dedicate a few weeks on a video game and go back to like normal hobby stuff. I do mainly play 1 player RPGs though, for the story. I really couldn't care less about multiplayers. Blah lol. I have yet to meet a single woman in real life as into the kind of video games I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:25 PM
14	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Watching people around you struggle with kids is a real eyeopener. My cousin had already had a kid a year before I was even born. She became a single mom age 17. I grew up side to side with my cousins two kids. As I got older, I saw how it set back her life to raise two kids as a single mom who hasn't even graduated high school. You can say, I learned by second hand experience how hard it was. It's odd, cause I (27) am more close to my 47 year old cousin now. She's told me about the issues (fina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 06:15 PM
25	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Same. I never really wanted kids, but I wasn't, say, as strongly opposed to it as now in my teens. Then, as a teen, I got my hands on the internet, and I did a lot of googling various topics to get answers for questions I had that I didn't want asking, say, friends or parents. I did a lot of research and educated myself on the topic. I read medical research. I read posts of women's experiences. I read everything I came across, and came to the conclusion that it's a hard no for me. Like why would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 06:00 PM
1	Women need to accept that they have sexual power. Money for instance. Lots of good looking people make money directly off their looks, such as influencers, models etc. Then there are those good looking people who don't get any more benefits than compliments and such and work ordinary jobs where they actually have to put in effort like everyone else despite their good looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 11:31 AM
5	Women need to accept that they have sexual power. It means you can either exploit your power to take advantage, or you can choose not to. Not every attractive man or woman out there is exploiting their beauty or power for material gains or status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 11:16 AM
9	I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take? Yet the main reason given by majority of women for having abortions is financial reasons. Let that sink in. You can go look the statistics up yourself if you don't believe me, but this is why I think your argument is kind of disingenuous. Women don't have abortions because of bodily autonomy. Sure that is part of it, but the main reason women give for having an abortion is not being able to financially support a child. Women who solely decide to have children on their own despite not being able …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 08:25 PM
5	I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take? I definitely think lots of women would be more careful who they have sex with if they knew they may end up being 100% responsible for the child by themselves. There would likely also be more abortions, because if they know they can't rely on someone else to fund their sole decision to have a child, they may opt out. All in all, it could result in less single parents, if women have access to birth control and abortion that is. I definitely think women would be discouraged from having children whe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/24 08:14 PM
1	If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from? Bingo.. people make it so complicated. If someone is against gender roles, they pretty much have to go against Biology.. and not have children that need providing or caretaking. That means going childfree. If you don't have children, then you don't have to be a provider or a caretaker..you don't have to submit to the biggest gender role of all time. Crazy right? But oh no.. we can't have that.. the feminists say.. we must have equality, while doing/encouraging the most unequal act of all time - …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 01:03 PM
1	If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from? What I've noticed is that people who pursue stem are usually very driven and ambitions and want to make good money. Why do they want to make good money? Well, to provide for a family. Like my brother is in STEM. His reasoning for that.. wanting to provide for a family, wanting to buy a nice home and so on, for his future family. Personally I'm a woman. I couldn't give less of a crap or providing for a family. I'm also childfree. I've never had any interest in high paying jobs, because I don't ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 12:48 PM
2	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Completely disinterested. I'm only interested in a particular type of man, and the chances that some rando dude I run into on the street is compatible with me is near zero, considering I'm both childfree and vegan. Nevermind the fact that I repel most ordinary guys by having short blue hair by intentionally making myself conventionally unattractive, so the chances of even being approached are already near 0, which was my intention. I used to get cat called and get unwanted sexual attention when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 12:05 PM
–	Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income? There are plenty of men out there who have dated broke women and they should understand. Whetter you're a man or woman, being with someone who makes your life harder and creates struggles and stress isn't a benefit. Like when have I ever heard men say they love being with a broke woman who wants them mainly for their money? Uh.. never. They call them golddiggers for a reason. Like people like OP really need to introspect and ask themselves how being with a poor woman who can't contribute to the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:55 AM
–	Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income? Everyone is just used to a higher standard of living in the west. Like having your own car, apartment/house and a decent job is the baseline. When you grow up having those things, you obviously want a partner who matches you financially so you can have that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:45 AM
–	Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income? If anything, men should be happy that women want a comparable income to theirs. It means men don't have to fund someone else's lifestyle. Like I would think that's ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:40 AM
–	Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income? Modern women are raised the same way, to be responsible for their own security. At least me and my sister and all the women in my social circle have been socialized that way. To get an education so we can provide our own financial security. It's never even occurred to me to rely on a man to provide for me. Imo that's just peak stupidity, as everyone should be able to take care of themselves if they can. It seems to be mostly traditional women who grew up in conservative societies or groups who h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:33 AM
–	Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income? Men like fun money and security too. We ain't so different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:18 AM
9	The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards. Better to be single than in a shitty relationship. I've pretty much viped out my entire dating pool by disqualification and it's fine. Like I'd rather be single than be with someone who doesn't improve my life. I guess guy logic is that sex improves your life so it doesn't matter where they get it from.. ah well	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 10:30 PM
3	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Maybe.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 02:46 PM
5	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Yeah I think that's why most reasonable people left, myself included.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 11:56 AM
14	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Oh man it's toonuanced. I used to debate them some years back in the feminism uncensored sub until they started censoring the crap out of the sub and discussion and criticism became pretty much impossible. Seems toonuanced is still at it. Why am I not surprised. Also they're not really too nuanced. If there's something they lack it's the ability to consider nuance.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 11:52 AM
15	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man Even if women who aren't fat and single mothers aren't the majority, that's a terrible argument to lower your standards to date them. Like if you're a fit healthy guy with no kids, why would you? You already have a benefit over fat guys with kids. Women too want to date people who are fit and don't have kids, over men who are fat with kids. It's just hypocrisy. I'm a moderately fit childfree woman. I ain't dating a fat guy with kids lol. Why would I? Even if the fit childfree guys are a minority…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 06:31 PM
20	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man It's not entitled at all. If you yourself are non-fat (funny word lol) and no kids, you're completely entitled to want someone the same as you. If you are fat and have a bunch of kids, then yeah it's unrealistic to want something you aren't even close to being yourself. That's just common sense. Doesn't matter the age either really. If you're a fit kid free dude who is 40-50 then it is completely fair to want someone else in your age bracket who is also fit and kid free, even though it's more un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 06:18 PM
0	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? This why I don't get if you want to be a top priority in a relationship why you have kids or get with someone with kids. I'm childfree and I'll only settle for a child free man, ain't no kid coming between me and my man, and if I can't find such a man.. tough shit.. then I'll have to be my own top priority in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:55 PM
–	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Community is underrated. I currently live with a friend, and I'd one 100% rather live with friends than with some guy I just picked to not be alone. I'm currently going through a bad time with work and my health. My friend encouraged me to go to the Dr and went there with me to support me. I'm in no way, shape or form capable of having a relationship at this time, but God am I happy I have had a friend to rely on when I'm in need. Honestly, preferably, I just want to live with friends for life. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:33 AM
6	Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts? Too relatable. I think I've checked out of all the relationships I've been in first, hence why I've also been the one to break up or end things with the guy first. You keep thinking things can improve but then it doesn't and by the time that time has passed, breaking up is more of a relief than grief.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 10:38 PM
0	Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women? Yeah I know but when people point out that the way I'm eating is unlady-like, I want to care even less lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 03:31 PM
0	Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women? It's one thing to do if you wear something ugly or heinous though. Like most men wear basic clothes. Women often were absolutely hideous clothing that has nothing to do on a human being. If men dressed as crazy as women do.. they too would hear it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 12:41 AM
1	Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women? My mom made a fuss too.. I made her give me a men's hair cut. My dad hated it. Mission accomplished. I've always been more the breaking rules and expectations type of person. Just the fact that people want me to act lady lake makes me want to do the complete opposite. So I fart and burp and sit with my legs spread, or with my legs up in the most unlady-like like ways. I eat with my mouth open and I eat unlady-like because the only way to break the standard is to create a new one. Not everyone is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 12:36 AM
9	Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real life They do and that's why those are the ones that end up hating men lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:48 PM
2	Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real life True. I'll get flack for the self awareness and arrogance, but hey, I'll admit I'm as much a cunt in real life as I am on the internet. People constantly tell me I'm so self absorbed, selfish, arrogant.. Like bruh I know, I'm that way in real life too lol.. but I still make friends cause im not cunty to my friends unless they deserve it, in which case, I'm cunty as they come. Like I'll totally say I don't give a shit about a lot of social justice causes and what not on the internet and get peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:43 PM
1	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Well well	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:36 PM
4	Female intra-sexual competition on display and the misunderstanding of what men find attractive Well, my stuck up rich snobby co worker is dating a blonde guy, so not always. But yes, tall, dark and handsome definitely hits the spot for a lot of ladies, myself included.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:24 PM
2	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Nah that's cause the current economical model is built like a pyramid scheme. We have to breed more tax payers to infinity to keep up with the ever growing population. It's not a sustainable economical model due to the fact it's built on infinite population growth, yet that's the one that's supposed to support our elderly population. It's a failure happening and it's a failure waiting to happen. The system needs to be entirely redone to be economically sustainable. That said, yes while the popul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:14 PM
7	Female intra-sexual competition on display and the misunderstanding of what men find attractive So I get told.. so women get told a lot "Take out your septum piercing it makes you ugly" or "short hair on women is unnatractive" Meanwhile I'm getting dates with short hair and septum piercings You're absolutely right that there's men who love that, but the general consensus seems to be that it makes women unnatractive lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:02 PM
13	Female intra-sexual competition on display and the misunderstanding of what men find attractive Exactly my thoughts lmao Like not everything is about competing for men. Personally I cut my hair short, despite women and men telling me not to and that I wouldn't be attractive to men. Personally I don't give two shits about that. I want to attract a man who loves a socially defiant woman. I want a guy who thinks it's hella cool that I don't give a shit about living up to conventional beauty standards. Who thinks it's awesome that I'm just me. In fact, by being unconventional, I weed out all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 03:25 PM
3	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Fair enough.. but multiple siblings just take even more a toll on the relationship and sex life. You can't exactly have regular rough sex with multiple 6-18 years olds in the house without making it weird or awkward. Which is part of why when you have multiple children and they grow a bit older the sex lives of people kinda die out. Off a tangent, but I'm very loud when I have sex. I would traumatize children if I had them because of how loud I am, so it would theoretically be impossible for me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:02 PM
1	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Sure, but the world has enough uneducated and unresourceful people in it, as well as people who want kids in it for that to happen. That's what keeps the world going, so a select few having different values doesn't really mean much in regards to extinction.. There's always going to be someone who has children regardless. Like just look at the ridiculous boom of children world wide the past hundred years. Extinction of humans is most certainly not what the world is facing. Rather, lots of animals…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 10:31 AM
5	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Because they provide company. A child does too but is way more work than maintaining connections with friends and family. I talk to my family like once a month. Actually, I speak to my mother for maybe an hour a month on the phone. I live with my friend and we hang out sometimes. Way less work than having a child. It can't even compare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 09:12 PM
5	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner My co worker is a single parent by using sperm donor cause she couldn't find a partner in her 30s. The kid is practically her entire life when she isn't working. She seems happy but it sure ain't for me, and the only reason she's getting by is government playing the financial provider role instead of the father, because she wouldn't be able to do it without the government funding, which is quite significant for single mothers who use sperm donors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 07:20 PM
6	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Yet he wants to give himself the workload of having a bunch of kids by himself. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 07:17 PM
22	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner Yeah I just don't get why people who think having kids is a lot of work, that they're not even interested in doing, wants kids. Like just be childfree for gods sake. If you're not gonna have a partner that wants kids anyway that's a non issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 07:17 PM
18	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner In reality there's nothing better than none of the responsibility of kids with all that great sex. Why people are so desperate to have children I'll never understand. You're just hitting the nuke button on your sex life. So I've come to the conclusion that people who want kids don't actually care about their sex life or don't care to educate themselves on how children will ruin their sex life. That's why so many people complain about a dead bedroom. They're either uneducated, want to be uneducat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 07:14 PM
1	How would you describe “lady game”? Why play coy, when you can just ask to fuck the dude or ask him to do XYZ. It always works, because guys always want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:28 PM
1	This sub is basically a place for men to come and vent and argue about their frustrations about dating. Where are all of the women with bad takes? Lol. Dating can absolutely be a chore, and effort is valuable, but common. Expecting that you'll be handed an easy lifestyle just because you spend hours on dressing up and cake on layers of makeup is too much. You can disagree of course. I just don't think that women should feel entitled to rich guys just cause they know how to look pretty. Also, looking for rich men specifically cause you wanna be lazy is silly because then you're no longer capable of providing for yourself and you basically b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:28 AM
5	This sub is basically a place for men to come and vent and argue about their frustrations about dating. Where are all of the women with bad takes? Only toxic opinions I come across regularly from women is that they want men who earn significantly more and then pays for all their shit so they can basically be a sugar baby, but you're not allowed to call them a sugar baby or anything because they'd get offended and come up with all kinds of justifications for why they deserve the sugar, like spending tons of time and money on their Superficial looks and appearance to be sexually appealing to the man. Also they also argue that they need a ric…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 08:52 PM
3	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. Sure, but it's not like I want to be with judgemental people. They give me the icky ick anyway. I'm sure you don't want to be with someone who thinks you're ugly looking either. I just noticed I got a lot more attention from men when I was really feeling myself and wasn't oozing awkwardness and insecurities, because I was more approachable and did more approaching, perhaps? I guess. But also, when you're confident you're not afraid to go for who and what you want. You're not afraid to give of yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 08:35 PM
2	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. I can totally relate to this. Just because someone is an option, doesn't mean they're a good option. I think that's something people in this sub sometimes forget. I guess some people would just be happy to have someone they can hug and call their spouse, regardless if they have something in common with them or not, because they've barely even had a relationship to begin with. Once you've been in a few relationships you realize that it takes more than just having a thing or two in common for a re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 05:45 PM
3	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. Lol my parents are conservative Christian. If there's someone I'm never asking for dating advice it's them. I'm sure they'll tell me to find a good Christian boy, don't have sex, and to get married if I asked for advice. I'm not Christian, I've had plenty of sex and I think marriage is a major scam lol. If I married someone Christian oh dear.. I get tortured just thinking about spending every Sunday in church and listening to Christian gospel songs... Rule number one when you have parents with a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 05:38 PM
2	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. Or just stay childfree and you'll be desirable on the dating market for way longer. Like I'm a woman who doesn't have and never have wanted children. Im 26 about to turn 27. I ain't changing my mind. I absolutely hate kids with a deep inner disgust, just so you don't get any ideas that I'll change my mind, because people love telling women they'll change their mind or suddenly wake up at 30 and change their mind lol. If there's something I don't worry about its turning 30 or even 40, because I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 05:30 PM
3	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. I think whetter or not dating is easy also depends a lot on values. If you have minority values or beliefs, faith etc then finding someone can be hard. Like personally I'm childfree, vegan and spiritual. Finding someone who values those same things can be difficult. Sure, I could just date someone who doesn't share my core values and beliefs, but that's not exactly easy either. Spoiler alert it's not easy. Im doing it currently and I shake my head every time my boyfriend think fish is fine for m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 05:17 PM
5	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. That's so true. The men I've dated with the best personalities who weren't overly obsessed about their looks and appearance was the best. Tried dating hot guys but a lot of the typical hot guys get caught up in their own hotness and better than thou type mentality.. not really my thing to be honest. Prefer a down to earth average guy who is averagely attractive. Then I also don't have to worry about looking hot enough for him. Cause hot guys usually care that they're with someone equally hot. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 05:04 PM
0	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. Helps with the confidence, and confidence Trumps not having the most attractive appearance ever. Like I get pretty much every guy I want, not cause I'm objectively the hottest woman ever but cause I think I'm hot shit and got lots of confidence. That improves my attractiveness. Confidence can make the most average person hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 04:56 PM
–	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't Thanks! :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 11:25 AM
–	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't Well, I see ugly men with ugly women all the time out on the street. Surely they must have "unique" taste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 10:50 AM
3	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? Sure you have to look decent, but being a likeable person is pretty much what a man has to be for me to like him. If he's hot but self absorbed, self centered, arrogant and thinks he knows better than other people, that's really unattractive. Like the guy I'm currently in a relationship with didn't even have to try all that hard. Why? Because he was a decent looking guy with a decent personality. He knows how to hold a conversation. He knows when to listen and when to back off. He is easy going.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:25 PM
2	At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out? Most people don't want to settle down in their 20s. Idk where this "you gotta settle down in your 20s before it's too late" is coming from. Very few women who lives the life, dates and parties and is figuring their life and career out wants to settle down that young. The only people that actually want that is the people, usually guys, who don't get to join in on the fun of hookup culture, dating and partying. So they go and say that women who are still in their 30s and single have baggage and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 05:37 PM
3	At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out? Cope. Screw getting married during your 20s. Why get married at all, or ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 05:30 PM
2	Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral? It's very subtle. We're all surrounded by people who have children. It's such a common thing to do, that people do it just cause they see everyone else doing it. Sort of like getting a house. People see other people buying homes and they want it too. People see people having careers, and they think they need one to cause it is the way of life. If everyone else is doing it, then surely it's cause it makes them happy. As a child you get sorta programmed by the life script. You should go to school,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 05:02 PM
16	Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral? Yeah idk what kind of cool aid people who say I'm supposed to breed more cogs in the capitalist machine have been drinking. Sorry, but what's the benefit for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 03:41 PM
9	Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral? Meh. The only reason women are sad and depressed about being childless is cause they've been indoctrinated with the societal and cultural belief that they need children to be happy and have meaning in life. This is a lie. A deception. A fraud. Life is what you make it. Happiness isn't tied to one particular thing. It's a state of mind. It's a choice we make. People can live meaningful and purposeful lives without children if they choose to. The many support groups for such women attest to how sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 03:35 PM
2	If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of them It does if you really want the guy. I'd argue, however, that women rarely want a guy badly enough to put in the effort however. When someone's really into you, they're not gonna hold back. If they hold back, they just aren't all that into you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 04:16 PM
2	If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of them Yeah they may want to, but not want to badly enough to overcome their fear of approaching or putting in the effort, and I say that as someone who's overcome that fear. I was like fuck it, I want that guy, even if he didn't show interest, so I approached and made it obvious that I wanted them, and often they were into me back. As for freedom, I think women let fear rule them. Lots of people want things in life, but are too afraid to pursue it, and let the fear stop them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 06:12 PM
2	If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of them Nah. It's not just that. It's why would I risk it if I ain't all that into the guy to begin with. If you really want something badly enough you're not letting fear stop you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 06:03 PM
10	If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of them Let's just say, when you really want someone/something you do what you can to get it. If a woman wants you, she will put in effort to show you. If she doesn't, she just ain't all that into you. And, I guess that's the bitter pill to swallow, because most women often aren't that into a guy. If a woman wants you, she will do what she can to get you, or else she doesn't want you bad enough, but that's my POV as a woman. Like yeah, I can be attracted to a guy, but I'm not gonna go out of my way unle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 06:01 PM
2	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? Disagree. Like you can know that a relationship probably won't last but still enjoy the ride. Breakups can be nothing different than a chapter ending.. sort of like moving away from a city. I've moved many times in my life. Didn't mean I made the mistake when I moved previously. I guess I just have a different life philosophy and perspective. I don't see breakups as a bad thing because I just see it as the natural progression of a relationship coming to an end. an end is not a failure. It's simp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 09:12 PM
–	Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are struggling I'm a woman and I can relate. How the hell do people have time for being social or dating when they're too busy working themselves to death. I feel that way myself, and I'm just working your regular full time job with the occasional overtime. I earn enough to pay for my monthly costs, but I think if I want to own a home I'll wait until my parents die and I'll inherit their farm property and chill out my elderly years in their house. No point in taking on a massive mortgage when I can do that. Al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 04:33 PM
2	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? No, but I think it also has a lot to do with sunk costs. You invest so much time and energy in someone that even if you meet someone "better" or more compatible, or attractive, you've invested so much into a person that ending that relationships would mean losing your investments and starting from scratch with someone else. I personally think this keeps a lot of people from breaking up or ending a relationship or divorce .	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 12:33 PM
0	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? I'm not particularly sad about it now. I embrace it as part of life. I'm currently dating a guy I probably won't stay with for long because of certain differences but I'm enjoying his company while it lasts. So no, not sad about the relationship ending even if I do love them. It just is what it is and I'm gonna fall in love many more times in my life so it's not a big deal. The people I was in relationships with are no more unique than the people I had close friendships with, but they too came a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 07:44 AM
-1	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? That's true, but I think they too maybe would if they could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 07:36 AM
-1	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? I think most everyone would take something better that comes along. It's just that a lot of people don't really get better options, or they barely have options at all, so they settle for whoever will accept them. Anyway, I don't think it's meaningless what we do for people. People come and go in our lives and the things we do for them still matter while we are in the relationship even if the relationship ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 07:34 AM
2	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? Caring is a choice. Sometimes you grow tired of caring and become apathetic because you choose not to care anymore. It happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 12:41 AM
-4	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? If there's something I've learned it's that everyone is replaceable. I've had more relationships than I can count, of the casual variant for the most part but still. No one is truly special. No one. Once you fall out of love you realize that. That the person you were mega super obsessed with, just becomes a nobody in a long list of past nobodies. I might love someone, but I've loved more people than I can count. I've had strong feelings for a dozen guys at least, but feelings come and go. Love c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 10:24 PM
2	Are relationship worth it? I do physical labor, and the job is mentally stressful too so I'm just completely worn out after work. Like now I understand how the workaholic I once dated felt. It's work and sleep and that's life. I'm gonna have to find different work or work less because this kinda workaholic lifestyle isn't compatible with a functional relationship. I get it now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 09:57 PM
2	Are relationship worth it? I do stressful physical labor. All I want to do during my evenings is rest or relax, and during my weekend I just want to be alone because I'm so exhausted by being surrounded by people all week as I work a customer facing job and work in a close small team where I talk to people all day. I'm an introvert, so I just want to be left alone to binge my favorite tv shows in peace and quiet when I have the time. Sleepovers don't work either because I can't sleep in other people's bed or have other pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 11:00 AM
5	Are relationship worth it? Depends. Imo it's usually too much work. I prefer the more laid back type of relationship where there isn't a lot of pressure or responsibility. Currently dating a guy, and agreed to be his girlfriend cause why not I like the dude but I wouldn't mind if I wasn't. However if he starts expecting lots of stuff from me he'll be demoted to FWB situation again. I don't really have the time or energy to be in a demanding relationship. I just work too much, and sleep too much, to have any time or energy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 12:23 AM
1	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Well, I give to the community through my work of course, so in the sense I do. I'm a full time funeral florist so I make sympathy arrangements for people who are grieving and for funerals. If that ain't spiritual enough idk. It's also a 40 hour a week job on my feet. I ain't even got the energy to do something else after work besides rest because I'm completely drained. Even if I wanted to have children, I could not, as my work requires all the energy I got.. so yeah there's that. I also pay my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 03:25 PM
1	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men I've been in love more times than I can count lol but not been in a serious committee relationship with someone I've been in love with that wasn't long distance or an internet thing. The issue isn't just that, but incompatibilities. Like I'm childfree and vegan lol, so lifestyle incompatibility is an issue. I don't want to be pregnant, so I don't really have a timeline to worry about😂 like I really really despise kids. Worst that could ever happen is getting pregnant lol. Gotta love it when peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 02:53 PM
3	Why do most of the women don't date younger? Same. The guy I'm dating now is younger. I was like woah when I learned his age, because he looked as old as I am. He had a beard too.. and he was more mature than his friend who was the same age as me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 11:46 PM
0	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Yeah which is why people end up with completely wacky first times. Mine ended up in the backseat of some gingers super pimped out car. The sex was awkward as hell, and I lost my shoe and phone, that he had to send me in the mail.. for sure memorable, but not in any remotely romantic manner at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 11:26 PM
2	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Yeah for sure. The only issue I'm really having is some cultural differences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 11:24 PM
1	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Yeah sadly	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 11:23 PM
1	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Well, I've yet to be in a real relationship with someone I'm actually in love with and I'm 26. I've had lots of casual relationships, lots of long distance relationships and internet boyfriend's.. I guess I should be concerned that not one of them was a normal proper committed relationship.. but that's the thing.. stressing about it, you become desperate and then you take what you get and it's shit. If I could tell my younger self something, it would be to chill the fuck out and not stress about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 11:03 PM
2	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Well, I've been dating a broke guy who gets social security support lmao, but at least he applies himself to a variety of different jobs.. so I'll give leeway... Plenty women will date broke bums if they're hot as fuck. The guy I dated was not only hot but also clever and someone I could have a conversation with, so fuck it if he's poor.. at least he isn't poor in bed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 10:56 PM
-4	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Well I couldn't afford certain luxuries when I was younger. Then I became an adult, worked hard, and bought the luxuries I had wanted when I was younger. Unless you are disabled, physically or mentally, there's gonna be some upward mobility accessible. Too many people get into the doomed victim mindset before even working on themselves or giving themselves a chance at improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 10:52 PM
4	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men My first kiss was a kiss of truth and dare, which I did just to show the other kids how tough a girl I was in 7th grade, and that I wasn't some pussy. Really lame thinking back on it. I didn't even like the guy I just wanted to show off, that I too, in fact, dared to kiss a guy. Then my first real kiss didn't happen until I was 17 or something. Really not worth stressing over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 10:29 PM
7	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men Very true. I love debating people as a form of entertainment, but not everyone does. Like I dated a dude and he got offended that I argued with him so much. For him debating things was annoying and not fun. For me, debating stuff is like a brain massage, it keeps my mind sharp, I collect new info, and get to think in new ways and learn new stuff. The dude I dated however would rather go boxing. For me, kicking a bag isn't very entertaining. Cups of tea and shit. People on Reddit are definitely t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 10:04 PM
11	Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most men When I was 12 I thought no one would ever want to kiss me lol. I'm 26. Idk how many dudes I've smooched in my life at this point, but probably a solid hundred if we count the party smooches. I didn't really grow into my own before I was 18. I don't get how dudes are worried about being virgins when they have barely hit 20. Like you are normal, that's normal ffs! I'd be more concerned if a 40 year old virgin visits this sub to complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 09:58 PM
2	What are some unique burdens that the opposite gender has? It is terrible which is why I'm rejecting it. I've been doing continuous birth control for years which means skipping all periods for years. I have zero intentions of dealing with the bullshit burdens that comes with pregnancy nor childbirth either. I'm planning to sterilize myself and get surgery so I can go off birth control eventually. The biological clock thing is entirely irrelevant to me. Men don't feel like hitting on women who aren't conventionally attractive. I've dyed my hair crazy col…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 05:34 PM
1	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? I know. I used to debate these topics a lot on here and there in the past, but felt like the places got kind of stale when it came to discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 11:48 AM
2	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? It's bad and it is wrong. It's just that taking it personally doesn't serve me so I don't let it rub off on me too much, and yeah I've had all kinds of threats and heard all kinds of misogynistic slurs. It's just that I don't let it rub off on me, because they're losers. Why should I care. I shouldn't, so I don't, hence why ignore, block and move on or remove myself from such situations is my policy when that happens. Like what else are you gonna do. Sit there and listen to that shit? Obviously …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 08:30 PM
4	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? Why care? I'm a gamer, a woman, and a nerd. I don't give a shit what internet losers say about me. I've had people attempt to harass me to the moon and back. I either fire the same shit back at them, explain how their behaviour is embarrassing or just ignore and block. It ain't that hard. Now I'm not black so I wouldn't know what that's like, but I do know what it's like when people are shitty for no reason other than to humor themselves at your expense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 08:03 PM
3	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? Nope lol. You misunderstood. I want to discuss with like minded people like myself. I just don't want the responsibility of modding a whole ass sub. Mod the wrong way and your account is terminated and banned. Don't feel like having that burden.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 04:01 PM
3	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? Oh I'm well aware. I'm not gonna start my own sub though, I'm not that passionate about it, but it would be nice if someone else was and did. I for sure would love to discuss the topic more again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 03:16 PM
2	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? The issue is that there are lots of people who support women's rights but still wanna criticize feminism. Like I'm one of those women. Anti feminist subs can have a tendency to just shit on women for little no reason at all or just generally have a lower quality discussion and they don't necessarily support certain women's rights. I've had my fair share of discussions with them in the past. Some of what they post is well thought out criticism while other postings are just shit posting to trash w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 02:20 PM
5	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? Now I'm a woman but I don't really get why we need so many "safe" communities. Safe is boring. Safe isn't challenging. Safe doesn't push me to use my brain. I do get why they won't let trolling or fucked dip messages go through, but I don't really see the harm in challenging a bad faiths actors viewpoint. Also, a lot of good faith acting is being labeled as bad faith simply because someone isn't convinced or doesn't understand the point or argument of the other party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 02:15 PM
7	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? Anyone who supports women rights but isn't bonkers crazy don't go around labelling themselves feminists or talk about feminism loudly or a lot. It's like how the non toxic liberals and non toxic conservatives aren't the loud ones who have to make their stance known or shove it down people's throat every time they get the chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 02:07 PM
3	Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most? It for sure is. I've decided it's better to be single too, than to settle for a committed relationship I know I wouldn't be satisfied with. I'm currently dating someone but I'm seeing it more as something to be enjoyed while it lasts, like a nice vacation than something lasting. It probably will end but at least I'll have some company for some time until we go our separate ways and we'll have some good times together and that ain't so bad all considered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:49 PM
1	Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most? Man I want a relationship but it's fucking hard when I'm so picky like god damn I think I might settle down as a cat lady eventually. That said, finding a dude who wants a real relationship isn't hard. Plenty of guys who are incredibly unnatractive and ugly to me would love to have a relationship with me. Problem is I have a gazillion requirements the dude must meet to qualify as a relationship material. Starting with a mutual hatred for kids and a vasectomy preferably. Must also be incredible i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:34 PM
–	Are young adults nowadays infantilized ? How does this affect dating? I'm 26. I don't have a career. I don't aspire to have a career. I dropped out of my studies, because they were boring. Now I work in a shop and rent an apartment my aspirations are to live a relaxing lifestyle outside of work. As far as settled down goes, this is it. Besides work, I don't do much adulting, other than taking care of basic responsibilities, like paying bills. The lack of responsibility in my life is absolutely fantastic because all the responsibility I have to deal with 7,5 hours …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 08:29 PM
–	Are young adults nowadays infantilized ? How does this affect dating? I love sex scenes when done well. Unfortunately, most sex scenes are not done well in ordinary movies. I wouldn't mind watching a proper movie with the quality of top notch porn content in it. Like, I want to watch a good story, but also good sex scenes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 08:20 PM
1	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. I see. Where I work, there's like a battle of who works the most of us childless people. For some reason there's the expectation at work that we should go above and beyond and work the overtime because we don't have kids so don't need our spare time lol. Honestly relatable with just wanting to go home and get paid. Just cause I ain't got kids don't mean I want to spend my night at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 05:20 PM
2	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. True lol, and the same goes for men. I guess men just care less about being a sugar daddy than women care about being sugar mommies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:57 PM
2	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. Ah I see. I work in a female dominated trade (floristry). The only ones I'm competing with in my trade are women and a few gay men lol. The competition isn't the women with kids (cause they work the least) but a fellow childless woman who wanna out earn me. I'm like fine whatever, enjoy your coin, I'll enjoy mine. It's not a competition of who can work the most just cause we ain't got kids we have to attend to. We're already far more well off than our coworkers with kids. A few hours give or tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:47 PM
3	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. The higher you reach success wise, more people who are less successful than you will end up below you success wise. Its just how it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:37 PM
2	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. Hormones. Your body produces a cocktail of drug hormones to make parents bond to their child. Especially the mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:34 PM
1	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. Women can also be men lovers but kid haters. Personally, I just want to live with a dude, have a few kittens and no kids. It's basically what I've got, just, I currently live with my best friend and her cats lol. I love it but the sex is what's missing lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:33 PM
1	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. As a woman, for sure money and power is important too. Is this a bad feminist ideal? Or what do you mean by that? Personally I just really enjoy the freedom of providing myself with the lifestyle I prefer and the power that comes with that. Power to change my life, power to move, power to be independent so I don't desperately need to settle for a man who's willing to give me his money. You're probably right that women change after having a baby, but for those of us who never do, who stay childle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 04:30 PM
2	Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concern I'm a woman and yeah it's like that for women too. I find it difficult to go and meet people and it's far easy to stay at home and live in front of a screen, yet at the same time, the onus is on me to put myself out there, it's on me to make myself attractive to other people for friendship and relationships. Like we can look at all the societal reasons for why this phenomenon is happening, or we can take personal responsibility within our own lives to do something ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 03:29 PM
1	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. Even if you don't view them as massive burdens, they are, unless you are financially well off and have plenty of time outside work to raise them. Like I see what a burden all my co workers children are to them. They can never do the late shifts because they gotta go pick their kids up from daycare or school or whatever. They can never just take their day off to relax without dumping their children on family members.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 06:23 AM
5	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. I understand that it's not always that simple, but the alternative is more often than not, being a struggling single mom with a deadbeat dad.. that's not something to aspire towards exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:21 PM
4	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. Sure, but then you have an abortion. If you don't have access to abortion, then it's stupid AF to voluntarily have sex with someone in the first place. As a CF woman myself, the only reason I feel comfortable having sex, is knowing abortion is accessible to me if my birth control fails. I would never in a million years have sex if I didn't know abortion was an option, cause I strongly dislike kids and don't ever want them. Like my friend got pregnant because her birth control failed but obviousl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:36 PM
1	CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this. You can never be in a committed relationship and still have plenty of casual flings and no children. It's called birth control + common sense. I've had plenty of these relationships, but I'm not so stupid that I don't use protection. These women, all I'll say about them is that they're stupid. The fact that they are single moms from short term relationships means they're dumb, but the good thing is, now you know, so you can avoid them. If you knew they were this dumb before having children, you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:24 PM
8	Billie Eilish Was Made for This: ‘Being a Woman Is Just Such a War, Forever’ What's craziest is that she gets all the credit (and fame).	/r/MensRights	14/11/23 06:51 PM
3	The real wall is the fertility wall The only reason I can think of that dating gets easier after a certain age is that men know what they want and so do women. When I look for a man, I'm looking for a man who knows for sure he never wants kids. Finding a childfree man, a man who knows for sure he never wants children and who has thought it thoroughly through is probably easier to find with time as people take their time figuring out if they want kids or not. My issue dating during my 20s has been dealing with men who don't have a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:37 PM
3	The real wall is the fertility wall That's true. Men love to tell me I will be a bitter old cat lady cause I'm so picky. It's not the insult they think it is. I live with a friend. We have a cat. Life is great. I don't miss having a boyfriend. In fact, all the boyfriend's I've had was too much of a hassle to be worth it and they didn't really improve my life in any meaningful manner, but quite the opposite, they drained me. I realized I'm better off alone probably. I'm not lonely. My friend and cat keeps me company. Occasionally I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:33 PM
2	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? Actually I'm lonely but I'm too lazy to go on dates after work because I'm tired of socializing with my colleagues. Like once u start dating someone they expect you to spend time with them all the time and I just prefer to chill in my bed and scroll my phone and watch YouTube lmao.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:16 PM
-7	I genuinely don't understand when I see women who post on reddit saying they are lonely? Who aspires to be with average? Like I myself won't just settle for one of the average guys I find unnatractive. Like why would I, when I myself don't think of myself as average? Also, even if I may be average without makeup, I know how to look hot AF on tinder. Makeup and a great haircut and I look sexy AF. Average looking dudes often don't know how to make themselves appear sexier than they are.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 05:11 PM
15	The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole The number of times I've heard people tell me childbirth isn't dangerous anymore... Yeah maybe not like it was in the past, but that doesn't mean it can't absolutely wreck your body and health. Sure did that to my mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 12:20 AM
1	If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead end Hmm.. my experience is that I'm the one dumping all the men for not living up to my standards or providing me what I provide them lol. I've had plenty relationships, and never been pumped or dumped. Granted, I've never actually dated men I think was better then me, because I haven't found someone that's better than me or who I think is better than me cause I think I'm awesome lmao. I guess therein lies the issue. I can't be dumped if I'm the Chad, or whatever the female version of a chad is.. I …	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 07:40 PM
1	If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead end Yeah same. Some of these pill bros seem to think that people's Genetics not being passed on is some great personal tragedy or/and insult. Actually, I don't want to pass on my genes. I don't give a fuck what happens to the world when I'm gone, because I'll be too dead to care. Also my genes aren't anymore special than the other 8 billion genes out there. Also, just because someone has kids doesn't mean their genes won't eventually die out. Your genes could easily die out or not be passed on if yo…	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 07:24 PM
-1	If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead end Do people here forget that what people feel is high value is individually different? If someone values really niche interests or personality traits in a partner that aren't common, it's not like those people are just gonna throw themselves at you all mass, because they're so rare to begin with. If you're a HVW with XYZ traits and deem someone with XYZ traits a high value man, but there's barely any of XYZ men, then it's no wonder they've not been snapped up by such people a long ago. It's not ea…	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 07:18 PM
0	If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead end Uh huh.. the women I know who are married are all in relationships with men far less attractive than themselves.. so idk. Also HVW can also be super picky.. Also there's lots of reasons why attractive women don't get commitment from men they want. Like not putting themselves out there. Or they're looking for men with really niche interests. Like I've had plenty men pursue me, but it doesn't matter if they recognize me as HVW if I don't recognize them as HVM, and I don't, because what I deem a HV…	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 07:11 PM
5	Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ? I'm on the apps but too lazy to go on dates. I live with a friend but we don't go out much and her friends are just a different circle.. so yeah that's why I'm single	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:47 PM
22	Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problem True. I'm 26. I don't feel attracted to anyone on the dating apps or anyone else. I haven't in a long time. The last guy i felt attracted to was completely average looking or even less good looking by conventional beauty standards. I'm not holding out for anyone. I just.. haven't felt attracted to anyone in a long time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 06:13 PM
3	Beyond over if you missed out on high-school love How old are you?	/r/AllPillDebate	14/10/23 06:59 PM
-5	Beyond over if you missed out on high-school love Nah. Know plenty handsome guys who weren't in relationships in school. Soon as they got a job, cleaned up their fashion and all, they got girlfriends.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/10/23 06:57 PM
2	Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking about Or they're douches who are too hot for their own good so they sleep around a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 05:05 PM
3	Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking about Yup. My friend keeps dating super hot Arabs in super hot cars with super hot bling and sound systems, and they're super possessive, clingy and aggressive. There's plenty hot dudes around, but the ones who look freaking good are often also way too into themselves and looking good. Like in my city, I see hot guys every single day, but they look like rich boys in their super expensive merch clothing, shoes and fresh hair cuts. Also, the US is famous for its obesity, so there will be way less hot pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 05:02 PM
2	If you have a sibling of the opposite sex, has having that shaped your understanding of the opposite sex in any way? Yep. Men work harder than women before they settle down cause they want the house, the car, the whole shabang to provide a future wife with in advance. I don't see women working as hard or trying to earn as much money cause they want a family someday	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:01 PM
2	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? Exactly haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 08:07 PM
1	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? Or put an ad out in the newspaper like my parents did lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 08:05 PM
1	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 08:04 PM
3	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? True. I'm a woman and I don't do these things. I mean. I go to work but I don't attend any social stuff because I'm tired a lot from working and introverted, so my social dose from work is draining enough. I don't go around complaining that no men hit on me though. Like obviously they don't when I'm not putting myself out there. Also, I work in a team of five women at a local small shop so no chance I'll meet people there. Not that men haven't still hit on me while I'm working. There are men 20 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 08:02 PM
1	The average redditor is so ugly they can't even fathom the idea of a woman making the first move. Yup. Women hit on who they find attractive. I have no issue striking up conversation with average dudes I find attractive who I also think would find me attractive when I'm out and about at the bars or clubs. They're not top tier dudes. I stay clear of the obviously image obsessed men or super fit men. However I also don't hit on guys who don't look good at all. I go for people I think I would match with.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/10/23 07:51 PM
2	The average redditor is so ugly they can't even fathom the idea of a woman making the first move. Agree. The issue is the people who can't tell who they have a shot with because they're socially clueless and lacks self awareness of their own attractiveness in relation to others. (Typically dudes with some form of autism or a general lack of awareness of self in relation to others) Now, I'm quite a good looking woman if I put some effort into looking good, but even I would get rejected by dudes if I approached dudes who are out of my league. The reason I don't get rejected? I have social ante…	/r/AllPillDebate	06/10/23 07:45 PM
3	8-9 inches are the sizes that make girls orgasm the most. Actually agree. Just a woman who can confirm this for myself. Bigger means more friction means more sensation means orgasm. Small dicks, while are more comfortable to have sex with as they don't destroy your cervix or vagina don't create enough friction to create orgasms, at least for me But I'm just womanpilled lmao	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 07:04 PM
1	Anyone else find that most truly weird people you know are often in relationships? Anyone willing to have low standards could find someone to date them. I mean.. the completely socially clueless autistic guy from middle school who never showered and always had greasy hair, farted in class all the time, picked his nose in front of everyone and ate his own boogers got a girlfriend after high school. How? I don't know. It's the last guy in the world I thought would ever have a girlfriend. The dude also went to prison. Yet.. a girlfriend he got. Not that she was attractive or anyt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 06:48 PM
–	Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward men You don't need to be a mind reader to read the room. Like you observe someone's body language and how they act. If they act welcoming and friendly and they're talkative, and you act welcoming and friendly and talkative, chances are you're gonna hit it off. Like this is how I figure out what people to dance with and talk to at the club. Now if you don't have the social abilities to read body language and understand how to act based on how others act, then yeah you're out of luck	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:19 PM
–	Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward men Eh disagree. I tell those who call to sell me shit that we ain't interested and hang up before they get another word in. Other times I just straight up hang up. If you aren't assertive, annoying people will annoy you because they're too dumb to know to stop annoying you and you're smart enough to know how to get them to leave you alone. Someone with brains and social awareness gotta use that, and if that's only you and not them that have brains to understand how to break up a situation or stop i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:14 PM
8	Women keep telling me to go to the men's lib Reddit and that men's rights is toxic. I checked men's lib and it seems like it's filled with brainwashed men. The traditional definition of a man is an adult human male.. So by going by the age old definition they're just speaking the facts. Speaking the facts doesn't have to be hateful or prejudiced. I support men being trans, but that doesn't change the fact that they're a human adult male.. which by definition is a man, even if the trans person don't identify as such or look as such.	/r/MensRights	30/09/23 10:17 AM
–	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Why should it not be the case? I'm an extremely logical practical and sensible woman. In not one of those emotional women who has babies cause baaabies. I'm not stupid like the majority of women who have children for nonsensical reasons. You know, a guy offered to pay for me and my entire life if I had kids with him. I told him hell no. Go check out the childfree sub. There's women who is 50 to 70 years old with zero regrets about not having children. Actually, people like you just want me to ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 07:38 PM
–	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Meh. I've never wanted kids. I've never liked kids. I worked in a kindergarten for a week when I was 17 and it was an awful gruesome experience. I can't handle the screeches children make. They give me migraine. In fact, I'll go so far as to state I hate being around kids. They're draining. They're exhausting. I've also thoroughly educated myself on how pregnancy will affect my body and health as well as my appearance. My mother's body looked ugly AF after having children. I wouldn't dare wearin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 05:58 PM
3	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Do what you want. No need to project your anger onto me. I'm just a stranger who do in fact somewhat agree with you. In fact, I think it's completely respectable if men don't want to provide for a family or have kids. I certainly wouldn't want to provide for a family or have kids myself for instance. Men should be free to live their lives as they desire. No one deserves to be praised to do basic adult things or tasks. I certainly don't ask anyone to praise me for being an independent adult who h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:18 PM
2	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person So what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 09:28 AM
1	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Well that's their mistake. Desperation is what gets men into toxic relationships with women. To desperately need a woman is unhealthy. To let your whole life revolve around women is unhealthy. There are plenty things to live for besides women as a man. You can live for passions, hobbies.. you can invent things, start your own company, travel the world, you can exist to learn about an unlimited amount of topics. There's many things to do and live for in this world that doesn't involve the opposit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:30 AM
4	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Uh huh. I can't exactly say I need men for security. I provide my own financial security, and I get attention from my girlfriends as a woman. I haven't had a boyfriend in years and I don't feel a need to get a boyfriend cause few men can provide me something I don't already have. I have security. I have attention. I live with my friend, we have a cat. I have a good job that provides me with a comfortable lifestyle. The only thing I don't have is sex, and I can pleasure myself if I feel the need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:26 AM
0	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Sure but I get the impression it's framed as a bad thing or a thing to change in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:16 AM
1	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person I mean.. yeah? Why do you think single women make more than non-single women? In my workplace, I as a single woman do in fact earn more than the non-single women, excluding the boss. Wanna know why? Cause the moms wanna work 80% part time. They get an additional day off every week, so only work 4 days a week. So even if they have a better rate hourly due to having 20 years more experience than me, they still end up earning less than me due to taking time off, cause they wanna spend time with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:14 AM
20	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person Why can't men have the same attitude? Like why can't men only care for themselves too and be independent and not need a woman too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 10:22 PM
–	Why is redpill mostly full of men? That's true. Like I used to do everything to look conventionally attractive and was super focused on the superficial stuff in partners as well. I learned that I could look pretty as hell, and that would attract a lot of dudes, but not necessarily good dudes. I've since focused less on making my appearance conventionally attractive and appealing and focused more on whetter someone could make a good partner to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 10:17 PM
–	Why is redpill mostly full of men? Cellulite is quite normal even in fairly skinny women fyi.. some women are genetically more predisposed to get it I'm fairly sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 10:08 PM
–	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Well.. I'm a mars in Virgo.. so can become quite the heated critic myself lol.. but I like to share my criticism, cause well I like to improve things or tell people how to improve I guess.. even tho it's none of my business, this platform has a tendency of bringing that out of me. Like sharing thoughts and ideas is sorta the point of reddit I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:00 PM
–	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Well I judge things for fun.. maybe I'm the childish one lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:47 PM
–	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness I'm well aware of my prejudice. I think one can see multiple points of view so I'm not gonna pick and choose either. Like I can think someone is silly for liking something but also accept that they're free to like whatever the hell they want and that it's none my business really. It's not like either stance had to be held exclusively. Well, my friendships certainly works out better when there was common interests. You're right though, in the case of the almost friend I made.. we never really mad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:56 PM
–	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness That look childish and silly. I'm aware. I tried watching it so I could have an opinion about it. It was painful. I watched some kids anime as a child because it was on kids tv and the only reason it was fine was because I was a child. When I try watching shows I watched as a kid, I just cant enjoy it anymore because it's too childish. Basically I outgrew it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:08 PM
–	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Disney and Pixar too yes, especially if it's a cartoon. Nothing against people who like anime. Personally I think they're their own kind of weird, which is fine. I'm weird myself, but anime is.. just too much for my personal taste and I just find it childish to be into myself. Met a girl in high school who watched anime, and she was just super super odd and watched lots of anime and had her entire dorm plastered with posters of anime, which looked really silly, so yeah the friendship didn't last…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:02 PM
1	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Even if the story isn't childish.. it still looks childish Same with cartoons like south park and the Simpsons. It's silly childish stuff imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:07 AM
1	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Not saying kids movies can't be good.. but they're still childish for the most part..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:04 AM
-1	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Anime is childish imo. Sorry not sorry, but all animations are generally silly. Video games can be childish and not childish. A lot of the games marketed to women are childish. They don't even have a 16+ or 18+ rating. Most games marketed to men aren't childish and are clearly meant for adults 18+.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 08:12 PM
3	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Lmao true. I sank an ungodly amount of time into gossip girl, the vampire diaries and pretty little liars when I was 14. Not on Netflix of course, cause I wasn't old enough, but by sailing the seas. That's also how I learned English as a Norwegian, so arguably it was educational too and gave me the social skill of being able to communicate with people on Reddit lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 08:03 PM
2	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness I'd say most video games are neutral.. unless we are talking 1st person shooter games like call of duty. That game never appealed to me. Tried to play far cry 5 cause the story looked awesome when I watched my brother play but I hate playing 1st person perspective.. also kinda primitive to just go around and shoot stuff imo but I'm more the story type person	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:59 PM
1	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness I bought sims 3 with all my savings 50$ as a kid because of the hype.. played it once and I just didn't like it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:56 PM
1	CMV: Many women lack interest in video games and anime for totally valid reasons and men expecting them to like said things often lack self awareness Never played animal crossing. Not even sure what it's about but it looks a lot like a game meant for children, not adults. Have however played games like red dead and I'm looking forward to mirage being out in a few days so I can finally put my new ps5 that's been collecting dust for the past months to use. Idk what it's about dudes and assuming women only play silly children games. We don't. My first real gaming experience was uncharted 4 back in 2016..	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:54 PM
2	What does your “ideal” dating life look like? Give me a sex god please lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 05:35 PM
3	What does your “ideal” dating life look like? I'd like to meet a dude I'm compatible with and attracted to. He's preferably my height, preferably black, preferably intellectual and kind and fit, but not too fit. He doesn't go to the gym every day. He preferably wanna move in with me shortly cause I want a dude to live with and fuck and eat dinner with and share rent with. I currently live with a friend but there's no fucking involved cause it's completely platonic. He's childfree and hates kids as much as I do. He's gotten a vasectomy. He's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 05:26 PM
1	Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly. Tinder isn't working for me, and I know it's cause I'm too picky cause I literally never hit like on anyone anymore lol. I don't really care about getting a bf though, so unless someone really catches my eye I'll scroll right past them. For me the issue is that I'm not really attracted to men of my own ethnicity, which is blonde, light skinned blue eyed men. I also absolutely can't stand the middle side part haircuts trend that's taken off with the gen z guys in Scandinavia. Good looking guys lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:56 PM
2	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Well, after a bunch of horrible and toxic relationships in my teens and early 20s with unstable and controlling men, I prefer to live my life in peace. I've had my fair share of sex with different partners. So far one of them was amazing in bed and they were a workaholic I had to stop dating because all they cared for what was work. I've never really had any amazing relationships to speak of, so when I compare my terrible relationships to my current singleness with peace of mind, I know what I'd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 08:17 AM
2	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it We can be sad about it. I just don't see how it's helpful to be sad. What's bad about not wanting something anymore that you can't have? I don't see what's so bad about it. Like sure, sadness is supposed to motivate you but if you work hard for something and it doesn't pay off what good is that also? It's better to just drop it and focus on something else in my experience. Mind you, I would like a boyfriend, but I've come to the realization that I may not get a boyfriend that I like because I am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 08:05 AM
1	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Yes I'm an introvert. I find it exhausting to work in close proximity with my team of 4 co workers everyday. I'm happy to be alone at night. Granted I share a flat with a friend and a cat now to save on rent, so I don't see how I could possibly be lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 08:02 AM
2	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it You hit the nail on its head. Desperation pushes people away. I stopped giving a shit and Im really hard to get and I have people throwing themselves at me, but i prefer being alone over being with someone needy. Needy is unnatractive. Only reason I'd be willing to be with a dude is if he really significantly improves upon my already good life. No dude has done that so far, but rather been an exhausting drain on my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 11:33 PM
5	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Used to be single and sad about it but I'm not anymore. I just learned to embrace the positive sides of singleness over the negative sides. Positives? I don't have anyone who expects me to do things or hang out with them after I'm exhausted after work. I can spend my weekend just resting in bed with movies, browsing reddit and relaxing. I can make foods exactly the way I like it cause I'm picky. Like I get being sad about not getting what you want, but like what's the point in being sad about th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 11:24 PM
5	How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)? I believe that when people really want something they don't hint or something, but actually become more direct. I know that when I really want something from a guy, there ain't nothing stopping me from directly asking him if nothing else works. If I really want to fuck a dude and he doesn't take the hint I'll just straight up tell them I wanna fuck them and they'll be like woah chill, and then I'll be like you didn't take my hint, had to be direct. Usually that gets me what I want, and when it d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 10:34 PM
12	Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childless I'm a Norwegian woman. Those are not good enough incentives in my country. I enjoy relaxing in my time not at work. I believe everyone needs spare time after work to relax and enjoy their hobbies and socialize. Making things cheaper doesn't mean we still aren't working 40 hours a week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:19 AM
15	Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childless I'm from Norway and pretty much everything related to children is heavily subsidized. While its expensive to have children here too, there are incentives, such as financial support for those who want children. The problem however? Women such as myself prefer doing other things with their spare time not at work. Personally I get it. After working until 4-5 my entire body aches cause I do physical labor. I take a hot shower when I get back from work and sleep for 2-3 hours until around 7-8 because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:15 AM
2	If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied? That's why communication is at the top for me. If a guy can't tell me exactly what his intentions and plans are for the relationship and act on it, he's not worth my time. I'm not anti marriage or anything, but I can't possibly envision meeting a guy who can improve my life significantly currently. I have more than enough money. I am an excellent cook. I have a peaceful and quiet life with lots of spare time to relax and pursue hobbies I fancy. I have no desire or need for children, or a home, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:47 PM
5	If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied? I resonate with this. For me to date a man again, after lots of dates and relationships going nowhere and wasting time on men who led me on, I no longer can bother to date anyone who can't improve my lifestyle. For them to improve it, they have to be present (not busy workaholics) but also have a stable job they can provide for themselves with. They need to be as communicative, helpful and generous as I am. Men who cannot efficiently and clearly communicate with me have been a big headache in my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 10:59 PM
1	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 05:42 AM
1	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Right.. I guess get with a gal who can afford it.. or suffer the faith of the condoms Definitely worth saving towards though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 05:39 AM
9	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Way less trashy to have kids when you're established and financially secure, like late 20s/30s than when you're financially insecure and unstable, like in high school or college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 06:18 PM
4	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. The funny thing is that people in the middle of bumfuck nowhere have access to phones with the internet nowadays. 3rd world immigrants, heck 3rd world people have phones these days. There's no reason to not know about birth control unless you have zero interest in or curiosity about googling the topic of sex, which personally I did at 14 when I got my first laptop. Knew everything about sex years before I even had sex. These days, kids way younger than 14 have smartphones. You gotta lack some se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 06:17 PM
9	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Condoms don't feel good. Confirmed. I don't think anyone is denying that, but like, there are options.. if you're a dude, get a vasectomy or get with a gal who's on long lasting birth control like IUD or the implant. If you're a gal, just go on birth control. I'm a woman and I find condoms to be an annoying hassle. I'm on BC, first the pill, now the ring, lasts a month a time, convenient and efficient. Eventually wanna get sterilized so I don't have to deal with it anymore. Point is, there's opt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 06:13 PM
2	Dating apps are not designed for women I met a great guy off okcupid once upon a time.. I've tried using tinder and similar apps but I don't like that there's so little info to go off of.. the intro only allows you to write a limited amount of information about yourself, which is pretty annoying. Another issue is that a lot of users put limited or useless trivia, jokes and pickup lines etc and info into their profile, a few emojis or nothing at all. This doesn't tell me anything about you! Like sure, there's boxes people can check fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:35 PM
10	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that Same. I absolutely couldn't stand the "better than thou" guys with a superiority complex in the schools I went to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:22 PM
3	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that How could it not be. You all are forgetting about the fact that tall, masculine, strong, dominant women don't necessarily want the same traits in a man. As a woman who have more masculine traits than feminine traits, it's a butt in the ass to date men who have the same traits, as we butt heads all the time. Like give me an agreeable dude who doesn't try to dominate me everytime. Like I had a relationship with the kind of dude you described and he wouldn't even let me be on top in bed. Hell, my b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:17 PM
1	CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches them Never mind that fake appearance won't necessarily get you a real man of substance. I at least think men who are really attracted to fake appearance women like this don't have much substance to them. I see this all the time. The best looking people are some of the people I get the least along with. They often pride themselves too much on their appearance, and appearances is more important than other non physical traits. My former roommates friend was the definition of a hot woman and she'd gone o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 04:40 PM
-2	Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ? Because they're stupid and/or selfish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:05 AM
2	Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ? Yep. In my country you only really can get an abortion without having medical exceptions up until the 12th week. I'm fine with that law as any abortions before that aren't of fetuses that are conscious anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:01 AM
6	The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women. No of course I'm not confused about that. I'm just saying that using pick me or other such buzzwords as an insult is a largely redundant comeback. If they think I'm wrong, they should provide reasons for why I'm wrong, or simply say they disagree or ignore. I'll usually just ignore the insults and inquire further. Turns out there's usually some common ground to be found at least, but using insults deraill from or stops people from having that conversation, and often leads to wrongful assumptions…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:25 PM
–	Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate it Yeah yeah. Okay dumb people can love dumb people then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 02:43 PM
–	Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate it I don't see why anyone would wanna date someone stupid or unintelligent. Though I'm a woman I've dated my fair share of stupid men. The worst part is that they can't be logically reasoned with, so having any meaningful discussion with them is pointless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 02:36 PM
4	The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women. It's like the people who support free speech, so long as the free speech isn't used against them. Feminism is like that. Feminists say women should be able to speak their minds, but if you don't speak your mind the way they want you to, it suddenly doesn't apply anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:57 PM
2	The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women. Women and men are constantly up each others ass and encouraging terrible behaviours from their own gender though. Women throw men under the bus all the time and visa versa, men throw women under the bus because they want to be seen as a cool guy or girl. I'd argue this is way more common, as all the mens advocacy groups do it and all the women's advocacy groups do it to some extent. Yet it is somehow more acceptable to throw someone of another gender, another group, under the bus than your own. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:54 PM
8	The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women. Then why are women all over this platform and social media called pick mes? Or men being called simps? I'm not trying to fake being unique when I state my unique opinion. I just happen to have unique opinions a lot because I see a topic differently. Just because women, or men for that matter, have a unique perspective, doesn't necessarily mean they're trying to be fake to get attention. They may in fact just have an interesting or unique perspective to add to the conversation, that they think de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:41 PM
10	The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women. Preach. because of course, there is no way a woman can think differently from what the majority female opinion (or rather, the extremely vocal minority that is heavily overrepresented and given a megaphone by feminism and the media) is unless she's doing it because it's what men want. Truly, this is the peak of enlightened modern "feminist" talking points in our era. I've been called a pick me woman many times for simply disagreeing with other women on a topic. The people (women) who use pick me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:31 PM
2	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? That would be perfect. I'm tired of dating workaholics who are more busy chasing 💸 and never has time for me because of being busy with work. I'd much rather prefer someone who didn't work round the clock and who had time to spend time with me and wasn't obsessed with money... Or kids. I want a man with free time to spend on me. I don't want a man with money to spend on me. I just want that quality time together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 07:04 AM
3	Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society? Maybe that counts for the US. Though in my country (Norway) the government is almost run by just as many women as men (in parliament). I'd hardly call that a patriarchy, yet I've had radical feminists tell me I still live in a patriarchy.. So where exactly do you draw the line? Clearly there are women in the US government. You even had a women run for presidential candidate not long ago. If you had a female president in the US, would you still say that the government is run by men? Or would over…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:15 PM
3	Single independent women are not really as independent as it seems Hiring cleaning and cooking services is fine. It's when people offload chores they want done for free in family or partners that they get the side eyes from me	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 07:42 PM
9	Single independent women are not really as independent as it seems I haven't seen my father or brother in months. I live on the other side of the country to them. When I had to get new tires for my car a while back I went to a car shop to get new ones replaced.ans paid out my own pocket. Anything I need to fix I have to pay for myself, including my car. I don't have any exes supporting me for anything. I pay for my own HBO and Disney+, phone and Spotify subscription. Maintenance I do myself. I also have moved many times on my own. If I need help I hire a profes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 07:38 PM
0	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour Me too. I hate it. Like if I get a match I feel like I have to talk to them asap and if I don't talk to them soon enough they lose interest or something or think im not interested. Ugh	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 05:42 AM
1	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. Not everyone, but how you prioritize things matter a lot. I know wealthy people who don't live fulfilling life cause they're crazy workaholics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 09:39 AM
5	how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido? Lots of women don't worry about it either. There's a reason there's women who sleep around, and it's not cause they worry about pregnancy (there's BC and abortion for that) or STIs, which there's medicine for a lot of them and men are at risk for that too and a lot of men don't care for that too. I'd argue men should be more afraid to sleep around than women who have access to BC and abortion. Women have a way out if they accidentally get pregnant. Men don't. If anything, men should be more cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 05:49 AM
63	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Most men aren't ugly. They're just uninteresting to look at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 04:10 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it True true	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 08:08 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it You could say their (the pilled folks) beef is with women not men so that explains that	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:43 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it He looks about as good as my boss' husband, so that's my real life observation anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:13 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it https://www.tmz.com/photos/2023/06/12/leonardo-dicaprio-family-yacht-capri-vacation-photos/ Tell me he don't look like just another dad dude on vacation	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:11 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it You can be a physically unnatractive A+ Hollywood actor. Yes he has his status, but he's just a little over average looking for his age. If he wasn't famous, no one would be looking at him on the street or admiring him. He'd be just another somebody for his age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:09 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it She's a great example of what not to do to your body or health, tbf	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:02 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it He was 10 in the past. Now he gives me serious dad vibes. Really surprising he doesn't have kids. Guess he is one of those forever bachelors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:00 PM
–	If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did it So just by being a healthy weight, women such as myself are already above average. Thanks for the compliment dude. On a serious note, it's kinda crazy that a healthy weight isn't average, when it totally should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:59 PM
1	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? According to the logic these women use to justify why men should pay for dates, you'd think so lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 03:22 PM
1	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? Valid point. Not just looks, but superficial looks too lol. Well, the women who argue like in my example definitely want men to be traditional. As a non traditional progressive woman myself, I sure don't expect men to pay for my date just because of how I look, that's absurd. Even more absurd considering I don't wear dresses or makeup, so I couldn't even use that as an excuse if I wanted to. I spend no more than a couple minutes in the morning combing my hair and setting it with wax and spray lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 03:19 PM
4	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? Exactly my thoughts too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:36 PM
2	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? Valid points and I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 05:35 PM
7	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? That's if the woman wouldn't like or want sex with you. Women who really like and want sex won't need you to give them something first. Speaking as a woman who really likes sex. If I want to have sex with a dude, I'm not playing any games or making them pay anything because sex is what I want too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:46 PM
33	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? Because women spend more time and money on makeup, clothes and shoes /S No but seriously, this is an argument I've heard from tradcon women. They pretend spending excessive amount of time and money is a requirement for them as a woman, when obviously it's not. As a woman, in todays day and age, you're completely free to spend just as much time and money on your looks and appearances as men. Shocking I know. However these women pretend that isn't possible or true. That for them to even get a date…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:41 PM
5	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. Aren't you pursuing the man too though? I always found it kinda odd to not be pursuing someone you want a relationship with. I've always pursued men I was into. Men I wasn't into, I wouldn't pursue. Like it kinda has to be mutual if you're both mutually interested in each other or else it's one sided, at least that's how I view it. You also say not paying is code for not interested... So if you as a woman don't pay, don't you think men could take this as a sign of disinterest from your side too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 06:32 PM
–	The most important thing women care about is if you can take care of them in the bed Right size and good skills and being sexually magnetic or oozing sexual energy. Size isn't something you can do much about, other than finding a woman who matches your size. Skills can be worked on. Being sexually magnetic or energic I think is either something you have or don't. It's a personality thing I think. Some people you can feel their sexual energy just by being in the same room as them. This could also just be about compatibility. You find someone you vibe with on an energetic level/ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 05:44 PM
1	The most important thing women care about is if you can take care of them in the bed Depends what they value I guess. I for one could not be in a relationship with someone who didn't excite me that way, but that's not to say I don't want to be treated well generally too. I think most women care about multiple things, and that to be great in bed isn't enough. Just like being an otherwisely good partner won't matter if the bedroom is dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 09:04 PM
1	The most important thing women care about is if you can take care of them in the bed Well there's being good in bed and then there's being mind-blowing. Finding a guy who is mind blowing in bed who you have absolutely amazing sexual chemistry with is, believe it or not, not that easy. Anyone can be good in bed. Be mind blowing and you'll hardly be forgotten and women will hardly want to forget about you. Speaking from.. personal experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:50 PM
2	Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single? Incorrect. Lots of people in Scandinavia co habit before marrying. Yes, people spend more time living alone before marrying here, but it's not exactly common to go from living alone to being married here. Lots of people cohabit for years before getting married here, and some people just co habit and have kids and just don't bother getting married at all. At least that's the observation I've made as a Scandinavian myself. I have friends and cousins from ages 20 to 40+ with older children who are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 05:12 PM
3	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Yeah I see your points and agree with you. The issue is the people who don't consider the ramifications or costs of such big commitments. If you get married and/or have kids you should learn about all the consequences of that in advance before committing, so you aren't all surprised Pikachu faced when someone wants to divorce you or take your kids away. These are real risks that everyone should be considering before getting married and having kids. If they aren't fine or prepared for such risks,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:45 AM
2	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Can't we all be against marriage without shitting on each other? As a woman against marriage I fully support men against marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:31 AM
1	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make People who work and are busy don't have a lot of time for fun and romance. People work a lot cause they have to provide for kids and they need to pay their mortgages on houses and shit. There are solutions of course. First off, you won't need to work a lot if you live an alternative lifestyle and especially if you don't have kids. Move out into the countryside where it's cheap to live, get yourself a cabin, don't have kids. You can work part time If you live somewhere cheap and have all the time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:26 AM
1	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Find a woman who doesn't want kids. There will be plenty of time for fun and romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:17 AM
2	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Get with a woman who earns about the same or more than you then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:12 AM
4	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make There's no way to be sure about who you are marrying because people are capable of change and do often change and it's not always foreseeable. However all this can be avoided by simply not marrying and having kids. So it's a loss/gain consideration people have to make. Risk the situation if it doesn't work, or simply don't have kids or marry and you won't risk it. Personally, I think the juice isn't worth the squeeze, but that's cause I don't want marriage or kids, I just want a dude to live wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 06:08 AM
3	Men in western society should reject marriage Well, I think it makes you feel stronger bonded with the other person if that's what you believe. If you don't believe that, then I honestly don't think it makes a difference. Imo, it's more important to see that parents are happy rather than married. Like what good is it to have parents who are married but aren't happy? That's just showing the kids that it's okay to be unhappily married, which they in turn may mirror when they become adults. Why does the outside world need to know that you belo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:08 PM
1	Men in western society should reject marriage So people should'nt marry uneducated poor people? Well now you're just being some kind of phobic towards uneducated poor people /s But yeah, it's not exactly a no brainer that knowledgeable, intelligent people with resources do better than people who aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 04:15 PM
2	Men in western society should reject marriage The solution for this is not to combine assets. I'm the kind of woman who wants to own my own things, have my own apartment, own car etc on the side if I'm ever to be in long term commitment to someone, cause breaking up is way easier the less you have in common. Also one of the million reason I don't want kids. Who wants to deal with their ex for the rest of their life anyway.. sure as hell not me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 04:09 PM
1	Men in western society should reject marriage Believe it or not but you can want a life partner without wanting marriage. I'm a modern woman. I want a partner to share my life with and live with. I don't want marriage cause that's outdated and unnecessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 04:01 PM
8	Men in western society should reject marriage Yeah. Like my parents are together and all for like the past almost 30 years and haven't divorced but so what.. their relationship seems more like one of convenience and religious conviction than actual love for each other. It's certainly not the kind of relationship I aspire to have at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 03:57 PM
5	Men in western society should reject marriage Why even marry someone? You can just find your person and co habit with them for the rest of your life. There's no need for a marriage. People co habit nowadays, and spend Their life with the person they love without marrying. If you're dedicated to someone you don't need to be forced by a marriage contract to prove it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 03:54 PM
1	CMV Men are way more honest in a discussion about dating/dating strategy then Women which is sad because if Women would be honest they could elevate those discussions to a new level. Exactly. People change their minds, especially when emotions become involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 04:46 AM
2	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship Well.. with the rising costs of everything and inflation, raising productive citizens has become increasingly expensive, so that's unsurprising. It's an incredible time and money sink. Kudos to those who do regardless. Ain't for me though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 05:30 PM
1	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship Well, hookup culture is alive and thriving in my country. Doesn't seem like a high n count is stopping anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 05:01 PM
2	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship Norway. Were fairly liberal in that sense, especially the youth and young adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 03:49 PM
4	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship I think the reason not more people wanna say it has to do with the social stigma against it. Personally I forgot my count because I didn't really keep track or personally care about it. Not that it's that big, but it's just super irrelevant to me personally. I don't go voicing that opinion around much though, because there's such a stigma against it and people love to shame people who don't care about it or are indifferent towards n count by calling them sluts or whatever. Honestly, I think peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 03:27 PM
3	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship Right. Well I can certainly understand that. I'm childfree and agnostic myself, so that's not something I value personally. Edit to add: I still think, regardless of that, even if you're not the type to have sex on a first date, the physical and sexual chemistry you feel with someone is still very important in determining attraction and the potential for a lasting relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 03:16 PM
5	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship The same holds true for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:45 PM
1	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship I don't really see the problem. So what if a guy only wants to have sex with me. Maybe we'll end up having great sex, and that's it. The issue isn't men wanting sex. The issue is people not communicating their desires honestly. If you only want to take it casual say so, or ask. It's not that hard. If people deceive you then they're assholes of course, but idk. Worst thing if someone wants a relationship with me and I only have sex with them, at least they got sex, so like it ain't all bad. Same …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:44 PM
4	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship This is true. If I fuck a guy the first time meeting them, it's because I have insane sexual and physical chemistry and attraction to them. If I wait, I just am not that physically and sexually attracted to them. This is why I too don't get it when men want women to wait. Wait for what? Either you're madly attracted to someone or you're not. It's simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:38 PM
2	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship Beg to disagree. I don't think "vast majority" applies to women these days, considering women are having far more casual sex than ever due to birth control. Then again, the country I live in hookup culture is a VERY big thing. If you get into a relationship with someone in my country, it's probably cause you hooked up after a frisky night out on town. First we fuck, then we get into relationships. None of my friends that are women are prudes in the sense that they'll only allow access to their b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 02:33 PM
1	CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal. I haven't been in a social group or club since middle school. Doesn't really seem like a thing anymore, especially not for adults like ourselves. The only place I see people anymore is at work and when out shopping..	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 05:54 AM
2	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world These are such garbage subs. Even as a leftist myself, I don't touch subs like that cause I only get DW for adding an alternative perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 07:40 AM
3	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world Housekeepers don't just sit around tbf	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 07:38 AM
3	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world This is a very good point. My grandma, my aunts, my mother, and now my sister works as a nurse. The social conditioning the women in my family were affected by was definitely strong. Personally I went a completely different way than the women in my family as I don't have a nurturing bone in my body. I also hate bodily fluids, blood and shit and infected wounds (stuff the nurse I live with deals with on a daily basis.. yuck) Granted, I've never been afraid to go my own way and break free from soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 07:36 AM
3	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world Well, I don't think this is necessarily true. IDGAF what people think of me to a very large degree. The reason I care for men with confidence to not care much is because its extremely annoying to date people who aren't as confident as myself. Insecure people suck. As a confident person, I want a partner who kicks as much ass as I do and just DGAF. This I think holds true for men too, as I had a guy to complain about me years ago about my insecurity being hella annoying, so I did some work on mys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 07:10 AM
1	Thought experiment: what would happen if every man in the USA would only have sex with/date women who are the correct body weight for their height? Well, if weighing 120lbs would make me underweight, cause guys here think anyone above that is fat, then clearly according to their dumb ass logic, I must be tall or something idk don't think too hard about it lol, most people here don't think	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:44 PM
1	Thought experiment: what would happen if every man in the USA would only have sex with/date women who are the correct body weight for their height? Anyone 5'7 and taller. I'm 5'7 myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 04:39 PM
7	Thought experiment: what would happen if every man in the USA would only have sex with/date women who are the correct body weight for their height? Tall women such as myself would actually be underweight according to BMI if we weighted 120 lbs. Idk why, but seems a lot of guys here thinks women are petite and can't be tall for some reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 09:22 AM
1	Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home? Can confirm. Like what the hell is the point of being in a relationship with someone who's too busy to spend time with you cause they're working? If you ain't spending time together you might as well not be together at all. Two cents and all	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:51 PM
1	Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home? After having dated a career oriented man, I can say, never ever again. I'd rather date the cute guy working at the grocery shop a couple blocks away than a rich chief of whatever time consuming business I don't give two shits about. I'll take the money poor dude over the time poor dude all day every day. Not that I'm against working im not. I work a fuck ton myself but I could ditch my job tomorrow and find a new one in a different place if I felt like it cause it's just a job, just a means to p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:17 PM
1	Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home? I love the realistic and logical attitude of childfree people. We don't preach the unrealistic ideas that you can have your cake and eat it too like parents do. Like it's so obvious. You can't dedicate 100% percent of your time, energy and effort to a career and 100% to kids. This is basic math. You can do 50/50, you can do 60/40 or 70/30 etc but you can't do both full time. It's physically possible. It's not scientifically possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:12 PM
1	Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home? Or just don't have the kid and no one has to give up leisure or play. Literally all my parents' co-workers talk about at work is their ridiculously busy schedule and complain how stressful it is. Meanwhile I'm enjoying resting and doing hobbies at night in peace and quiet all nights every day. If a dude clearly values leisure and play, then why in the brain fuck of hell would you have a kid with them. This always blows my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:07 PM
2	Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home? Privileged take here for privileged folks not using their privilege to make different choices when they could, they just don't want to for different reasons. Also, those who aren't super privileged still has the ability to do a thing called "prioritizing". I work 7,5-8hr days 5-6 days a week myself. Why? I chose it myself. I don't have to. I did perfectly fine working 3 days a week living out in a cheap place in the countryside. I chose to move to the city and work more because I got bored. I ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:02 PM
3	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? Can confirm. I was hung up on a guy I wasn't very compatible with goals wise for years, but I ignored our incompatible values because we were incredibly sexually compatible and the physical chemistry was beyond amazing. Sometimes we will overlook incompatibilities due to other compatibilities we deem of as greater importance, so we downplay the incompatibilities in favor for the compatibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 03:11 PM
2	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? A few decades ago you used to date people in the community, you saw them, grew up in the same culture, probably the same religion, and you at least were superficially compatible. This is a very good point. I grew up around religious people, but I'm not religious anymore, though I consider myself somewhat spiritual, in a more liberal sense. I've been moving around a lot. I've adopted some somewhat uncommon ways of living, such as choosing to live a childfree and vegan lifestyle. Now, its not like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 03:07 PM
1	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? Yep this is what women mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:37 PM
1	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? Yeah. I think people simplify it, because people with passive incomes to support themselves aren't exactly that common. Most people have to work to financially support themselves and women don't want to work to support men when they have themselves to support, including potential children. Sure, women don't have to support men with a passive income, but most men don't have a passive income they can live on completely. If you make less, then you compensate in another way. If you make more, then I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:29 PM
2	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? That's the society we live in, having you noticed the capitalistic cloud hanging over all our heads? Inflation? No? It costs a fuck ton just to support yourself these days, and fuck ton more to support someone else, like a partner or/and kids. Like there's no way I could support another whole ass human, nevermind kids on my salary alone. I spend it all on myself to live a decent-okay lifestyle. If I were to support a man and/or potential kids, I'd be in deep poverty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:10 PM
2	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? Exactly. We want a man to support himself, just like we do ourselves. That's hardly unreasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:06 PM
2	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? You're right, but this is the exception usually and not the most common case. If you don't have a job of your own that usually means we have to support you financially, and most women don't want to support a man financially unless he supports her some way in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 08:05 PM
8	Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds? Exactly. Just don't be a lazy bum. We don't want to be your mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 07:58 PM
4	Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend? I wouldn't have had the job I do today if I didn't exaggerate my skills and experience. It goes for all parts of life. You wanna convince someone, you gotta act like it. I'm not saying to deliberately lie, just withhold the cons and focus on the pros. It's like what salesmen do. It's what I do as a saleslady. You don't talk about the poor qualities of the services/products you're selling but the good qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 02:59 PM
1	Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend? Same. I don't want to be someone's first experience anymore either. I've been in that situation and the person got mad obsessed with me and couldn't let me go. I think this is also why you don't want to be the first person someone has sex with unless you really like them because they may just end up super attached to you cause you're their first and be super hurt if it doesn't work out. I didn't tell the first guy I had sex with until during my first time until mid act when he asked me and it wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 02:54 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? I get hell from it too, but it's about making the best of the situation. You can choose to focus on the bright side and the positives, like self improvement and enjoying your own life regardless or you can choose to focus on the dark sides and the negatives like people not approving and giving you a hard time about it and letting it get you down. I see both attitudes around me and also in this sub. I also know which attitude makes people happier after having had both :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 06:43 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? I don't comply with them and I'm just living my own life. I don't get approved by a lot of men or women who think I'm a complete weirdo for not following traditional gender norms and for dressing in a non binary way. People tell me I'm weird or that my hair is ugly cause it's short and it's dyed and I look like a boy. Ok, so what? I'm living true to myself. People tell me I'm supposed to have babies and men I've been with have told me they wanted to have kids with me. I say no and they try to co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:04 PM
1	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? To a certain degree yes, but we also have somewhat of an ability to choose whether or not we let ourselves be completely governed by these rules, norms and policies. It absolutely matters, on an individual but also a collective scale. Just because reproduction is the primary purpose of the species as a collective, doesn't mean it's the primary purpose of individuals. Hence, why individuals such as myself won't accept it as my own individual purpose. There's no rule or law that says I have to acc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:20 PM
5	Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is mostly a choice? Precisely why I love them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 09:32 PM
7	Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is mostly a choice? Same. I feel like I offered so much of myself to people I had relationships with and they never reciprocated in the way I needed them to. It was draining. I can't even be bothered to be with a guy anymore unless he gives it the same effort as me. Like in LDR the guys always expected me to come meet them. I'd spend a lot of time, energy and money visiting them when it wasn't mutual on their side. Anyway I hate travelling. It's exhausting. If a guy wants to be with me, either he travels to me, or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:41 PM
1	"Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic. I'd rather watch romantic porn than a lot of romantic movies honestly. Some amateur porn can definitely be far more romantic than actual romantic movies. I guess you have the category of romantic porn movies lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:22 PM
1	"Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic. You watched the princess diaries or what	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:20 PM
5	"Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic. One kiss doesn't make a movie romantic, imo as a woman lol. Yeah the other stuff matters too, but if one kiss is all that's shared I'd assume it's a rather dull family friendly movie, not a hot steamy romantic dramatic movie meant for adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:16 PM
3	"Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic. The worst is the awkward genre of rom-coms.. which literally is 90% of romantic movies Which is why I don't watch romantic comedies. I'm just not into comedy, and there's nothing comedic about romance and there really shouldn't't be. Romantic dramas.. now that's something I'm willing to watch	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:14 PM
1	"Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic. These types of movies are still very cliche and still not very romantic A proper romantic movie should have heart wrenching drama, hot steamy scenes and have a plot that doesn't have ugly Christmas sweaters in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:11 PM
5	How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after? Hm yeah right. I feel like this is what a lot of people tell themselves cause they want the cat and the bag, the cake and the cherry on top, not realizing that's something's gotta give, something's gotta be sacrificed, and it's not like all parents can send their kids off to a baby sitter to have some privacy all that much. I saw it myself how my parents having kids, myself included, literally turned them into roommates raising kids. The romance died with the responsibility of caring for kids ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:06 PM
5	How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after? I just imagine all the relationships that would have thrived if people didn't have kids. Idk why people are so desperate to have kids so badly, when it's literally the sex and relationship killer. Smart people who care about their sex life and relationship don't have kids imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 09:53 PM
1	Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types. That's so true. What's funny though is that a lot of my friends are alternative. They're good looking, interesting people who have dated incredibly unattractive men, like metal heads. I myself am an alternative woman, and I've never dated or wanted to date any stereotypical Chad. I've been with men far less attractive than myself because conventionally attractive looks aren't all I go after. I pursue people who look interesting or who look like they have interesting hobbies. I definitely think a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 08:28 AM
3	Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types. Assertiveness is viewed as a masculine personality trait. As an assertive woman, there are certainly men I've dated who wish I was less assertive, as they viewed my assertiveness as strength and that made me more difficult to control as I frequently challenged them, butted heads with them and had my own intentions for how the relationship would go instead of passively following their lead. In a way they wanted me to be weaker, or they certainly wanted my voice to be weaker. They wanted a weaker …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 08:16 AM
1	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. More like someone similar to myself in values and taste. Maybe that's unrealistic but that doesn't really change the fact that's what I want. I've tried dating men who weren't similar to me in those ways and it never went well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 10:49 AM
2	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Well, I obviously disagree with you, but I actually really like cats and they're a whole lot less drama than relationships, so cat colony seems like a sweet deal to me. I know that you meant that as an offensive, as to a lot of men remaining alone for life is the worst thing possible or thinkable, but honestly, I quite prefer to to be single than with someone I'm incompatible with. Again that's just me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 06:56 PM
2	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. I disagree. I myself like long conversations for instance. If a guy can't match my ability and interest for that, that's a deal breaker. I've attempted to have relationships with very quiet men in the past and it was incredibly boring as I appreciate back and forth discussion. Some men view this as arguing, meanwhile I see it as entertainment. Having someone like minded is incredibly important in the right areas. Like I wouldn't date a guy who love to go hiking, go to the gym and who love to wat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 12:24 PM
1	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Yes and no. I see your point. There's still good reasons for why you'd want someone who could do what you do. Like not being the only one capable of making dinner or talking issues through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 11:02 AM
1	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Because living costs are through the roof and most women still want kids and a house. Even two incomes doesn't cover what it used to. I see your point. I was mainly talking about financially taking care of myself. My bad for not being more specific. However, it's not like I also don't want to mentally and emotionally support my partner through tough times. How do I know? I go on dates. I ask questions to men. I myself envision a completely childfree lifestyle, a DINK lifestyle. I don't envision …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 08:26 AM
3	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Same to you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 09:36 PM
2	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. No one is completely perfect. The perfect relationship doesn't exist imo. What's important is sharing core values and having the same vision and goals for life, that can be shared together. I think as long as there's a strong base foundation, differences like someone having different hobbies or other trivial interests than you become less important. So yes, you're right, being too picky is also a thing. I wouldn't dump a guy if he was into different sorts of movies or music than me for instance,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 08:33 PM
3	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Thanks. I hope so too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 08:24 PM
7	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Well, tbf I have connected with such men in the past, and it was absolutely wonderful, but the relationships didn't work out due to practical and logistical issues. Since I've been so lucky to have such amazing connections, I absolutely know what I would be missing out on if I settled for someone who didn't offer me that. When you know you could potentially have an amazing relationship with someone who could offer you what you desire, why would you settle for a relationship that isn't amazing wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 04:48 PM
26	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. This is completely ignoring the fact that most women don't just want someone to provide and take care of them. I for starters, don't need someone to provide or take care of me. I provide for and take care of myself thanks. This goes for a lot of women nowadays. They want more than just someone to provide for or take care of them. Thus, cannot afford to be lazy or uninteresting themselves. What I want is an interesting, intellectual, intelligent man who can hold long, deep, funny and interesting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:48 PM
2	Are socioeconomic standards part of the reason why older women get pissed at age gap relationships? Well.. what about the people who don't give a shit about babies lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 12:44 PM
2	Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it. I never said marriage was a good thing. I'm fundamentally against it, in part for the reasons you stated but also cause it's just inherently an outdated and unnecessary tradition. Also, being childfree solves the kid issue, but yeah I'm quite practical. Lots of people are blind dreamers who ignore reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 05:01 AM
1	I'm incredibly skeptical that personality or other characteristics can "override" lack of physical attraction - please change my mind. I wouldn't say it's their looks that grab my attention, but rather their energy or their vibe, or the sexual energy I get from them. That's the main. Like I've spoken to someone I have met online on the phone and didn't know how they looked, but just talking to them attracted me to them, and made me feel crazy about them. When I met them in person they weren't that good looking, but I just felt these amazing vibes with them. For me, how I vibe and feel around someone is the most important thing.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 07:12 PM
3	Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it. That's why I don't get it when people cry about how horrible divorce is or how horrible it is that men/women etc get divorced. People usually get divorced if they aren't happy with their marriage. That's a good thing, because people staying in marriages they aren't happy in, is bad. If someone divorces you because they weren't happy with you, then y'all are better off divorced anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 09:23 AM
2	Marrying in your 20s is not that bad red pill alert	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 09:40 PM
0	Marrying in your 20s is not that bad Drop the wedding. Court house? Just filing the papers and signing them is pretty cheap no? Personally, I wouldn't be willing to spend anything on a wedding if I had to get married. Granted, I'd only get married for legal requirements such as marrying someone overseas so they could come live with me. A dress isn't even necessary. I've always just imagined myself wearing a pant and blazer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 09:39 PM
2	Marrying in your 20s is not that bad Yeah that's why I have a roommate, and have lived with friends. Growing up with another is a good thing. You can grow as a person and marrying can help you grow. That's why I live in collective housing. I grow up with other people around me. You can find love before building trauma from monkeybranching failed relationships. A single relationship can fail too, and I'd argue the sunk cost fallacy feeling is stronger the longer a relationship lasts, making it even more traumatic when a breakup occu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 09:30 PM
1	Describe the "modern man" Lol just no. You couldn't be any more wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:52 AM
2	Describe the "modern man" Lots of women are unfortunately taught to fear men from a young age. It doesn't help that social media helps spread and enforce this fear of men. Majority men aren't dangerous, especially if you live in a safe area, you statistically have very little to fear. Bit different if you live in a city where robbery, mugging, harassment and assault hits the daily News however.. but this goes for both men and women. No one is safe in high crime areas, men included.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:15 PM
1	Describe the "modern man" Maybe don't have the kid, and you can both work part time Economic problems economic solutions	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:10 PM
5	Describe the "modern man" The deal is that I put in my commitment and he does what I tell him. If it works for men it works for women lol But it's funny how you ignored my gender swap. You really don't think women can think the exact same way you do? You don't think women want men to do what they tell their man? Hell, I've been telling men what they need to do for me if they want me to be committed to them a million times. If I tell them what I need and they don't give me it, I tell them I ain't comitted anymore and I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:08 PM
4	Describe the "modern man" Eh depends. Maybe those men attract and get the respect of hyper feminine women, but I don't really think women who are more masculine care as much for the hyper masculine man. I know i don't care for that type of man, anyway. You're right people don't, they do however judge how women perform their femininity. By being lesser feminine, I repell the type of Alpha leader man you speak of, because I myself like to lead too and not just simply follow, which creates competition if I attempt to have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:01 PM
3	Describe the "modern man" No but they can do 50/50 parenting and part time work. That's what my parents did. Both was home part time and worked part time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:52 PM
4	Describe the "modern man" As a woman I've never been afraid to walk in the dark cause I live in a safe country. What's your point? That I need a protector to protect me from... Nobody? You do know there are multiple ways to protect yourself if you're in a dangerous place or country if you're a woman, right? Hell, if you're a US dude you're all too familiar with a thing called guns. There are weapons people can use to protect, and harm others, regardless of what their sex is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:49 PM
5	Describe the "modern man" All right. If a gal is going to invest her time and resources into a marriage with you don't you think that she wants control over the outcome? Gender swapped it for you. If this was my opinion as a woman, would you agree with me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:45 PM
14	Describe the "modern man" Another woman here who aspire to have the exact kind of relationship the person you are responding to is describing. I absolutely do not expect any potential partners to be a protector. I can take care for and protect myself. I also like to switch in bed, to dominate and to be dominated. I find it more satisfying than simply being on the passive receiver end, when I have so much to actively give. You forget that people, men and women, aren't either all masculine or feminine. I'll argue it's a sp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:35 PM
3	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Yes!! It's honestly the worst feeling. I'd rather be in a relationship with a man making 50k a year same as me who have time for me than someone making 100k who doesn't have for me. Money doesn't substitute quality time spent together, at all. It truly doesn't. Speaking from personal experience as someone who dated someone who valued the $$ over the time spent together, while I valued the time spent together over the $$. Don't need to say how that ended, but that's exactly how I felt Idk why the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:44 PM
1	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? It's funny cause I want the exact opposite. I want someone who isn't so ambitious they don't have time to spend time with me or text me back asap. Granted, I too work, and I'm not always very available during work, if at all, but when I'm off work, I'm off work, and I always answer instantly when I'm not at work and I always am willing to make time when I'm not working provided I have the energy to. The issue I've had with ambitious men, especially business men, is that they work around the cloc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:40 PM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Yeah I don't have any advice for that other than to ignore that noise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 01:22 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:45 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Sure. What's the alternative? Do you have better suggestions? Other than raising your value to justify your price?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:38 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Probably not, because they have a parental and an emotional attachment to their children. There are people who love their children but however regret becoming a parent. There's a sub for that. It's not that socially acceptable to talk about. You also have the voluntarily childfree women who never had children because they never wanted children. You won't hear them regret not having children either. With exceptions here too of course. There are people who regret not having children on their death…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:35 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. And why is that? Because men allow it, men permit it, men promote it Men could easily be more selective if they wanted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:23 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Men can raise their standards to the level women do.. and maybe they should..better to be single than to be with a a "low quality" woman no? I guess not.. some men here would eat trash if it meant they would get laid.. ain't that a tough red pill to swallow idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:22 AM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Yeah I doubt it. As a woman, knowing how my physical health and financial freedom will be ruined by having a child, I see no logical reason for why I would become depressed if I didnt have a child. What's depressing is seeing dumb people ruining their lives having kids they struggle to take care of and also having their mental health fall apart. Idk, but I've read up on every aspect of parenthood and pregnancy, including witnessing how it wrecked my parents as well as other peoples lives. Yeah n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:15 AM
–	When women say that older men are repulsive, what do they mean? Fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 08:18 PM
2	When women say that older men are repulsive, what do they mean? First off, you're not repulsive at 35. That's bullshit. The only women saying that is 18 year olds who are hit on by people 10/15+ years their age. Second off, you're a great catch for women who is specifically looking to date men who don't have kids or a wife. I'm 26 myself. My lower limit is 27 my upper limit is 36, so you'd be within my range. This is quite common. Women usually want to date older men like myself. The only men I find repulsive are men who are 40+ and wayyyy out of my league a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 03:20 PM
0	It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating power I agree. If you don't want to be a single mom, you can abort or adopt. There are options. No one is forcing women to be single mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/23 03:02 PM
1	Dating apps would be healthier if they show how many matches a profile has. I don't need an app to tell me how attractive people are. I have eyes. If someone is a snob, has a sports car, a blonde middle hair side part and wears white jeans and is posing with champagne and giving pretty rich boy vibes I know he's getting a ton of matches. However im repelled by conventionally attractive men like that, so it wouldn't matter if I could see someone's match count. Just by looking at a dude, I can tell if he is popular with women or not. It's irrelevant to me who's looking fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 11:01 PM
–	CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success. Feminists are no better. Majority feminists I've debated make their whole identity about how victimized they are and not how liberated and empowered they are. Imo it's fine to discuss how people are victimized, as long as we don't forget the ways in which we are also actually empowered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 10:08 PM
–	CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success. A man of reason. I approve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 10:05 PM
–	CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success. Men have a physical advantage and can go into trades and make money without debt Lol. I was gonna argue this and say women can too as I'm a trades woman myself. For real though, every time I argue how empowered women and men have become in our society, there's always people with a victim mentality telling me I'm privileged in an unnecessarily demeaning manner. Yes I'm privileged and so are you. Open your eyes and look around you. You have more options, more opportunities, more liberties than peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 10:00 PM
1	Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundance Difference is that being able to intuit danger is ( commonly deemed) "good" thus viewed as perfectly ok, natural and appropriate. However,being aggressive, violent or predatory isn't (commonly deemed) "good", but straight up bad, which which is not appropriate, perfectly ok and it makes its naturalness irrelevant. Morality. This is why violent, dangerous men are expected to change, and not the ones looking out for danger. Logically it makes no sense for women to change and stop looking out for d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 09:13 PM
2	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Ah okay I see. Thanks for the clarification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:51 PM
4	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Oh no I'm the victim of my circumstances.. if only I had the power to change my circumstances... Oh wait, I do? Mind-blowing! /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:22 PM
1	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Sometimes the most obvious answer is the correct one. I myself made a whole hoard of social connections by coming across extremely likeable, agreeable, friendly, enthusiastic and easy going. It's not that hard. Granted I'm a social butterfly and I've learned to play along with all kinds of people. Like I'll change my manners and behaviour depending on who I am around and I adapt fairly easily. If people don't like me it's because I don't make an effort to be liked by them lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:20 PM
1	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life What negative consequences? You mean loneliness? I don't have much contact with my family or other social relationships but there's not that many great negative consequences to be honest. I'm too busy with work and too exhausted after doing labor all day to have the energy to socialize as an introvert anyway. Truth be told I wish I had more alone time to relax and spend by myself. It's been ages since I read a book.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:13 PM
10	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life These are valid points. People who work hard to maintain their social connections aren't privileged. Social connections doesn't just magically appear out of thin air to most of us. Most of us have to put in work and effort to maintain them. I barely have a social network myself anymore because I can't be bothered or care to put in the effort. Thats on me, but when I had a strong social network in the past, that required a fuck ton of work and time spent and it wasn't a privilege. I spent so much…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:10 PM
0	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Tbf I don't have much of a social life, nor do I call my mother on mothers day always. Sometimes I send a happy mother's day text, sometimes I forget. Same with fathers day.. well mostly I forget because my dad doesn't use his mobile phone from 2008, and also I'm not just gonna call to wish my mom or dad happy parent day. I did however get my dad a nice bouquet for fathers day because well he found me a cheap car and gave me a discount. My mom only got a text this year, and no flowers. I talk to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:05 PM
–	CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically. Point is you don't need to cake on makeup to make drastic changes.. usually, changing one feature is enough to elevate the way people look	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 05:31 AM
1	All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you? Of course. I hate being around kids, I would hate for my partner to spend time in kids instead of me, and I would hate the baby mama drama. It's off the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 04:45 PM
6	CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically. Yeah. Now that my skin has cleared up as an adult, makeup isn't something I use anymore when I go out or to work, unless it's for a special party. I only get my lashes done professionally regularly, because it really elevates the way I look, and my own lashes are bushy, straight and blonde, but that's enough for me. I don't need makeup, at all when I have my lashes on. If I wear makeup, it's some very light foundation to even my skin tone, but I don't use any of that additional stuff like bronze…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 05:43 PM
1	Any women here.. Online..it was co-dependent and shit. He was very insecure which triggered jealousy. I broke up because his jealousy and insecurity turned abusive. I never involved my family. I keep my relationships private as they're none of anyones business. Main reason I wouldn't date someone ugly again is their huge possibility of insecurity. If a man let's his insecurity that a prettier women that he is dating will leave him for a more handsome dude, and he turns jealous or controlling, she most definitely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 12:44 AM
3	The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girl Honestly I believe I'll be happier alone. Certainly, happier than living with some man I'm not truly compatible with, and I've yet to meet such man, so better off alone it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 11:22 PM
1	Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around. Men just need to raise their standards. Who wanna date retarded people anyway? Sure as hell not me. I'd rather be single and sexless for life than be with someone like that, but it cannot be said that men necessarily share that attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 06:17 AM
2	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. I agree real confidence comes from results. You have to work for it, whatever that means for you. I developed my social confidence by putting myself in extremely uncomfortable social situations myself (meeting strangers, travelling alone etc), until I became comfortable and eventually confident in myself socially. I used to be super awkward and insecure when I was younger. I was the definition of socially inept, and it took years to grow my confidence through challenging myself with uncomfortabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 12:03 AM
1	What is a low value man? Gras is Greener situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 01:09 PM
3	Some scientific results on work/life/fertility balance Lol true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 01:43 PM
4	Some scientific results on work/life/fertility balance The takeaway I got from this is, that if men want lasting relationships, they should not get with someone who needs them for their financial provision. When women get in relationships with men to have someone to provide for them, it's no surprise, that when they no longer need a financial provider, they will end the relationship. Lots of men say they don't care about women being able to financially provide for themselves, but women who are able to financially provide for themselves and don't nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 08:35 AM
1	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women Meh.. childfree couples exist. Childfree women who don't want to be provided for exist. Yeah we aren't that common, but we sure aren't all single, alone and invincible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 04:11 PM
6	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women Grind hard in the right career like men do, and you can get paid incredibly well. Pregnancy is optional. If you don't wanna fuck your career with pregnancies, you can choose not to have kids, or adopt. There are options. In my belief, any women can get paid as well as men, and have just as great careers, but then you have to make the same career choices and sacrifices men make too, to be great. You can't expect to have the same career and pay result as someone if you don't make the same choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 04:06 PM
5	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women We have the free time we prioritize and choose. As a woman I choose to use that free time to relax and enjoy myself. Sometimes I just stay all night after work in bed and do precisely nothing, and it's great. I have co workers, women in their early 40s, who are mad busy from 6am to 11pm. Why? Because they chose to have busy lives, or expensive lifestyles that require hard work, and children and a family, which requires even more hard work. Meanwhile, I have about 8 hours of relaxation time after…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 04:00 PM
2	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women I just wish we could break down these gender role expectations completely. Men don't have to do shit. Men don't have to dedicate themselves to years of work beyond their personal needs if they don't want to. I guess this is something that the RPs also advocates for. You don't have to build a business or provide for a family. You can say fuck it all and do exactly what you like to, and that's perfectly okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 03:51 PM
0	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women You should expect it though. Maybe not dating up per ce, but dating someone close to your level or on your level career wise. Makes the power dynamic fair more even in case of a divorce if you want to get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 03:48 PM
2	The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western women Asian men aren't really my type.. Arabic men definitely can be, as I had a relationship with one for a long time, however their cultural values clash with mine :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/23 04:19 PM
-3	There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense? Yep it's why I'm single. A lot of men present themselves in such an off putting way that it makes them so unnatractive I'd rather be single .	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 04:45 PM
-2	There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense? The very common middle side part hair which has gotten ridiculously popular for some reason. Especially common with posh men, which I find incredibly unnatractive, even though I know lots of women find it attractive. Unkept and greasy hair in general. So many men just do not know how to take good pictures. The ones that know how to take good pictures are the posh men in suits, (that has the middle side part hair) which aren't my type at all. The average man just doesn't know how to look good in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 04:43 PM
0	There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense? Honestly, being on the dating apps lately.. a lot of men don't know how to present themselves in an attractive way. A lot of men have unattractive hairstyles and dress in unattractive ways and take unattractive pictures, but that's my personal opinion anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 04:22 PM
1	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? I actually met someone I matched pretty well with on okcupid ages ago. The platform was pretty user friendly and not only allowed but encouraged users to input a lot of information about themselves. Like there were literally endless questionares you could answer about yourself to improve the match algorithm. Something I definitely don't like about modern dating apps is that they are very surface level. They don't do in depth personality analysis to match make people, and to match with people wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 03:12 PM
1	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? I agree. I just went on the apps lately, and I find it frustrating how they lock certain features out of the app unless you pay a ridiculous fee to unlock it. I myself as a childfree woman obviously wish I could select the feature that weeds out all the men who state they want kids in their profile, as that would save me a whole lot of skipping and time, (same with selecting for vegetarian men as that's my preference) but it's obviously locked behind a paywall. So this keeps me scrolling for hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 02:20 PM
2	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? It's not that hard to shoot your shot.. approaching people is easy, finding someone who wants to be approached is what's hard. Even though I'm a woman, I have done some approaching myself with men at parties in the past. I think the most important thing is social intelligence honestly, because you have to be able to read someone else's body language to know if they're interested in being approached. You also have to be able to read whether someone is within your league or not. Like when I approa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 10:50 AM
4	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? Definitely something I miss having an adult life now is the social life I had back in my school days. It was just a whole lot easier meeting people in general. I'm in the same boat. Apps all the way, cause I sure as hell don't want a customer trying to hit me up at work, nor am I interested in dating the married mothers at work lol (Work team with only women). Nor do I have much time or interest in clubs or bars anymore...it definitely makes it harder to meet someone "naturally" like I did in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 10:39 AM
1	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? This may be an uncommon answer, but the apps. Why? Because it's a situation I am in control of mainly and it's easy to vet people on them so to not waste my time. Not just that, but I don't really go to parties anymore or any other social conventions. I'm a homebody. I work a very physically demanding job, so when I'm not working I like to stay at home and relax. Apps Bars Club 4 Work Bars and clubs are just fine venues to be approached at, but to be approached at such gatherings or events, you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 10:30 AM
1	Women you have 5 points to create your ideal man. What are you picking, Is a god in bed Does not want kids Great humor Intelligent enough to have interesting and deep conversations	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 02:13 PM
12	What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumped Do the pumping and dumping yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 06:13 PM
5	Turkish boys scream as they are circumcised without anesthetic in lavish ceremonies. Istanbul's "circumcision palace" has cut more than 100,000 boys. Strange how the majority of guys who are circumcised didn't choose it themselves If any sane Muslim parent (or any other kind of parent) asked their kid if they wanted part of Their dicks cut off, I'd think all of them would say no if they understood what it meant. This is the same issue with Christians too. As an ex Christian I was told that believing in the faith was an important choice. Yet, my parents wouldn't let me choose otherwise, and still don't respect my choice to not be Christian any…	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 04:22 PM
8	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ It's a sub for those who are RP or appeals to them. It reads like a typical RP post. The people who are RP don't seem to disagree too much and don't seem to want to challenge or change OPs view, but if you have any objections, do share.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 04:11 PM
1	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ What purpose is that? Just replicating myself? Seems about as senseless if not more senseless than anything else. Or, put in another way, we create sense, meaning and purpose in whatever we find enjoyable to do. I personally hate being around children. Never liked being around kids much. Working in a kindergarten for a week made me wanna sterilize myself. So, they probably wouldn't bring me any kind of purpose in a positive sense. The kind of people who have kids to fill a void is no different t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 04:07 PM
22	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ Facts lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 01:55 PM
26	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ Yeah I didn't know the kind of people with a RP mentality were so generous they'd happily support signing their life away to be a parent... Nevermind child support if the relationship goes wrong. Nevermind the fact that men become less dateable and attractive with kids to women if they start dating again. The RP is all about a dating strategy that works for men. I struggle to see how marrying and having kids young is necessarily beneficial to men, especially in the case of a breakup or divorce, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 01:53 PM
5	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ 24 isn't that young? Idk what to tell you but I'm about to turn 26 and I have no clue what I'm doing with my life. Like yeah I have a full time job, I pay bills and do adult shit but honestly I'm kinda bored of life. I already feel I settled in some ways just working my life away in a job just to fund my continued existence and comfort. I have absolutely zero interest in kids as they're a money and energy drain. I spend all the money I earn on myself anyway, and the energy I have is spent grindi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 01:44 PM
2	Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worth As someone who signed a year's lease with random roommates to save money.. i can staunchly confirm it can be hell	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 02:53 PM
1	Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worth It is for some I think.. just it's pushing people differently. Me, I'd rather move in with friends or roomates than get together with a random dude I'm not all that into just for cheaper rent and stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 02:51 PM
–	Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worth The dude in the OP pic pretty fine though just gotta say	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 02:48 PM
1	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? That's true. The only issue I take with relying on others to provide you with a better lifestyle, is that if they leave, or stop supporting you for whatever reason, you end up with a worse lifestyle again. Then again, this can also happen to people who make bank but lose their own ability to keep making good money.. so yeah idk. My own take is, you're lucky if someone provides you an upgrade to your life, but it's best being that person yourself. Because we ourselves are often more reliable than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 04:48 PM
5	This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issues Man. Accountability is such a great thing. I don't understand why some people are so against it. It's like, the most helpful thing an individual can do is to take personal accountabilities over their own lives imo. Like even when things aren't your fault, that doesn't matter, because we can't change other people, but we can change ourselves, and our perspective of the world, and how we act and behave to improve our own individual lives and relationships. Pointing fingers at others, be it men and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 04:39 PM
2	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? That's true. However, just gotta say, if you're drowning in debt as a DINK couple and living paycheck to paycheck.. some poor choices were made along the way. I myself decided to quit studying after just collecting 3k in student debt, cause I was like hell nah if that's gonna be me, so I moved to a smaller town with cheaper rent, got some roommates and started working and I live quite comfortably, financially speaking. Now considering moving in with a friend making the same income I do (about 28…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 04:19 PM
3	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Lol true	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:52 PM
3	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? In the financially comfortable sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:47 PM
7	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Bingo. Childfree woman who DGAF. As long as the dude can pay his own way just like I can I'm just good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:19 PM
0	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Well I earn about 2800$ a month and I have zero education besides a high school diploma. I'm a self taught florist. Since I live with a friend that's 550$ in rent. That's not too bad imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:16 PM
2	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Imo, you appreciate your wealth a lot more when you earn it yourself. I grew up in a home where my parents couldn't really afford to take us on vacation and we used hand me down clothes from cousins and neighbors and stuff a lot. Now that I'm an adult, I'd never trade away my financial freedom to be a stay at home wife or whatever. Being able to afford vacations, new clothes and other things I want is a luxury I truly appreciate since I didn't have that growing up. I'm by no means a top earner, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:13 PM
3	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? If you're living somewhere that expensive, you're living in the wrong place. In the town where I live, a two bedroom apartment costs about 1100$.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:09 PM
5	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Wrong or not, it's true. Two DINKs are far better off financially than one working dad, a SAHM and a hoard of kids..	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:07 PM
6	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? And that's really odd because if they don't care they're gonna end up attracting people who want them mainly for their money and what they offer financially, and not necessarily someone who wants to be with them out of genuine love or attraction. You'd think more guys would want real relationships based on love, not money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:04 PM
1	As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stay More like security risk. If the person turns out to be a douche, you now have to divorce them instead of simply breaking up with them, and that could be much more difficult. If someone truly wants to stay with you, they won't leave you cause you aren't married on paper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 09:31 AM
6	Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman? If you're not economically well off.. greater chances are you're uneducated about sex and/or don't have access to birth control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 03:41 PM
2	Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman? Imo we deserve what we earn, or what we give. If you're faithful, you deserve a faithful person in return. If you're loving and caring, then that's what you deserve. If you're a trustworthy person, then you deserve someone trustworthy too.. anyway I agree with your take still, especially the last part, as its sensible, and shows you're actually a caring dude. Imo, you deserve a like minded woman :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 03:27 PM
1	Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman? True. All the older women in my family were definitely traditional and they all worked on farms.. cause well traditionally that's what women did.. they worked their asses off too.. they didn't sit on princess chairs and did fuck all.. pretty sure all my dead grandma's got up all early at 5 am to milk the cows	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 03:23 PM
6	Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for? That's so lame and boring though. If I had a partner who agreed with everything I said and never challenged me and followed me like a puppy I'd go mad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 01:21 PM
2	CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options Good point	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:46 PM
2	CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options If people are too immature for serious long term committed relationships, why should they pursue them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:26 PM
2	CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options People who focus on short term pleasure are better of having short term commitments anyway. I don't get why people who aren't ready for long term relationships should be pushed into them. That's a recipe for disaster. Those who want long term committed relationships will seek that, and those who don't, won't. That's what's great. Like minded people gravitate towards each other. I don't see why we should try to force or push people either way. Someone who isn't ready for a long term commitment is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:25 PM
3	CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options people in relationships nowadays, even amongst religious and traditionalist types, don't value commitment They do, but they realize they don't need to stay committed to people they aren't happy being with, which is a good thing. responsibility Taking responsibility also means taking responsibility for your own happiness. If you leave a person because you ain't happy with them, that's taking responsibility and moral integrity like they once did. True, because we value it as immoral to stay commit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:22 PM
2	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? I'd take chilling with the pups	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:15 PM
7	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Why you wanna get your foot in the door with a leech anyway, are you that desperate, if yes, tragic	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 03:59 PM
18	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Yeah we ain't all sugar babies looking for men to provide for us lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 03:58 PM
2	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? Anyone who wants to be financially independent has to work. As an independent woman I actually understand the importance of it. Granted I don't take it all that seriously, because well, I only have to be able to pay my own bills and shit. I'm also not saving for anything in particular. Nor do I plan on having an expensive and unnecessary child or other expensive hobby. It's in everyone's best interest to be financially independent. If you don't want to fund a sugar baby.. oh I mean SAHM or SAHW …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 03:57 PM
1	Why not look for a woman with a career? No because women probably become financially dependent on them to maintain their lifestyle lol. As a woman, that's a trap I'd much rather not be in and would rather avoid. If i can sustain and maintain my own lifestyle financially, that means I can dump a man who ain't good for nothing else than money and maintaining a certain lifestyle. The kind of relationship where you're with a man for money to maintain a lifestyle is not the kind of relationship I see the point of aspiring towards. When shi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:28 PM
1	Why not look for a woman with a career? Guess I'm breaking all the expectations is all I have to say considering I'm neither hyperfeminine nor unambitious. No way I'll forfeit my own financial independence for a man. Matters to much to me. Also makes it easier to leave a man who isn't capable or willing of putting in effort in all aspects of a relationship. I've dumped men who weren't willing or capable of putting in the same time and emotional effort I was. If I can make time for work but make time and emotional investments, then so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:20 PM
5	Why not look for a woman with a career? Lmao accurate. I'm a working woman but I work an average job in a trade. It's not a dead end job per ce as I actually do something I enjoy for a living, but I wouldn't exactly call a job I may temporarily have until I find something else I wanna do as a career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:23 PM
1	Why not look for a woman with a career? Same literally applies to career oriented men..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:20 PM
2	Why not look for a woman with a career? Depends what woman you can find. There's lots of women out there who's happy to share financial responsibility. My parents have been contributing fairly equally financially to their marriage for instance. Something, I, a woman want to do to, because I don't believe relationships should be one sided, but fair and equal in contributions. I'll also argue that women who aren't willing to contribute financially are far more likely to be in a relationship with you because they want to take advantage o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:18 PM
3	Why not look for a woman with a career? Same applies to career men. They have no time outside work either.. and may or may not have high standards. Saying that as someone who's dated a bunch of career men, so this isn't an exclusive issue only one gender is facing. Idk why people think women are more happy to be with busy career men who don't really have time for them than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:13 PM
2	Would you date a single dad? That's why the best dating strategy is no kids. That way do overs with relationships is far easier and makes you far more attractive. If you have a kid, you're basically putting yourself in the undesirables of the dating pool, for the most part. However, no one really says this straight, cause no one likes to imagine that their relationship to their baby parent may fall apart and they may have to enter the dating game again. As a childfree woman, I can easily dump men I'm not satisfied in relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 10:20 PM
3	Would you date a single dad? However what is less often discussed is whether or not it is ever a good thing for a woman to date a man with kids. Especially a child free woman. As a childfree woman that's a hard no. You may be mixing up childless and child free. Childless women may be more ambivalent towards others children cause they may want children eventually, but majority childfree women do not want to have, or raise children, in any capacity whatsoever. If I don't want my own children because I believe they're a huge i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 10:10 PM
2	Passport bros is the only option Yeah I suppose, but things are changing, and as a woman, definitely for the better in some way. I'm not saying that as some hardcore feminist or anything. I'm just saying that as a woman, being able to enter traditional male roles, like being your own sole provider has some massive benefits, no matter what your gender is. Like not having to rely or be dependent on anyone else to live a comfortable life.. that's a huge pro, whetter you're a man or woman. However, by all means enjoy Asia with your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 10:06 PM
3	Passport bros is the only option That sounds like some traditional gender role ideology, if anything. Imo, men and women aren't supposed to do anything in particular with their lives, besides what they themselves want to. I'm gender non conforming though so I don't really buy into this traditional mindset or idea. Men/males can be masculine and feminine just like women/females can be feminine and masculine. That's why feminine gay men exist and masculine gay women exist, because there's no fast and hard rule/law etc. No one is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 09:20 PM
8	Passport bros is the only option Normal men have high body counter too.. don't want to do household chores too, and will also be argumentative.. Yet us women aren't complaining about men having high body counts, unless they're being fuckboy players.. because its not really all that important to us. However women too aren't happy with men who won't contribute at home.. actually this is a big fat reason why women divorce men. Women are usually, generally speaking, far more willing to do household chores than men. And argumentativ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 09:07 PM
6	Passport bros is the only option I kinda like this comment here and approve of doing things for yourself, and not mainly to get the approvals of a woman or someone else. Honestly this is kinda how I intend to live myself. I've just started to save.. maybe I'll spend those savings, move to the Mediterranean.. enjoy a more relaxing life just for me. If i meet someone I want to be with, then I meet someone, but if I don't, I don't, and I'll still be enjoying my life anyhow. Life's to short to go around being annoyed and upset at t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 08:58 PM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. I avoid buying things that can't go into the dish washer for that reason. I usually rent places that are partially furnished that have dish washers because it's an essential to me. The only place that didn't have a dish washer, didn't have a washing machine or fridge/stovetop and was completely empty. Had to buy it all myself and now it's all in storage because I can't bother to move it around when I move cause I move a lot, and its a big hassle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 11:20 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Dish washer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 07:42 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. I mean if you don't want to do it cause it's unpaid, simply don't have a child. That's part of why I'm not having a child myself. It's an unnecessary added financial responsibility and cost. People are stupid not to realize this	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 07:41 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Heard of a robot vacuum? They can clean all the floors if they're good ones with mopping and vacuuming functions. So the only one that remains is scrubbing the toilet.. and sink/mirror/showers. It's on my bucket list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 07:39 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. I spent 5 days working in a kindergarten. It was the absolute worst week of my life, and I never wanna spend extended time around kids ever again. To hell with that. And to all the women who complain they're doing or would be doing all the child work. Just don't have a child, or don't have any more. No child work. No problem. Easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 07:25 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Then you do childrearing for the 7 hours and divide the rest of the childrearing time in two. Fair split. Simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 07:23 AM
8	Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex? My experience sleeping with dudes is different. I've been FB with guys for longer periods of time after discovering we aren't compatible relationship wise. I've never wanted more with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 03:57 PM
3	Women who can't do their makeup properly and don't have good fashion sense are at a ridiculously huge disadvantage I used to put on make up every single day back in high school. Now I can't even be bothered. My skin has cleared up, so there's no need for foundation, which used to be the biggest essential makeup tool I used to look good. I do have the time in the morning but who am I gonna impress? My team of 4 women who I work with? There's no men in my workplace to impress. The men who buys flowers at the shop I work at is most likely trying to impress other women, like their girlfriend or wife, or they're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 10:19 PM
3	Would you date these "overweight" women? I'm 5'7 and 132lbs. I'm definitely not anywhere close to overweight or obese. Sure being a few pounds lighter, at 126 pounds wouldn't hurt as I would be just as skinny as I was in the past. I lose any more weight than that and I'm model level thin and actually underweight according to the BMI scale anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:24 PM
9	Would you date these "overweight" women? I was gonna point out the same thing. Some of these look like normal weight women, or slightly or somewhat overweight. Definitely not obese, but that's my opinion as a woman anyway. Oh would love one of these posts with guys btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:17 PM
0	Men don’t care about women’s career? Try dating a workaholic and you'll quickly change your mind when you become neglected because they prioritize their career over you. Speaking of personal experience. Work-life balance is attractive. Being a lesser priority isn't. Also, what does it mean to create a home out of a house? I personally suck at decorating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 09:53 AM
0	Men don’t care about women’s career? As a woman I personally disagree for myself at least. Having a career isn't masculine either. It's gender neutral. Being able to provide for yourself is essential for everyone these days no matter their gender. My mother and grandmother and aunts aren't masculine because they had career. What nonsense	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 09:48 AM
0	Men don’t care about women’s career? Same can be said for dating dudes with careers, so this, not being a priority, isn't a gender specific issue, but an issue specific to those with careers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 06:00 AM
1	Do you notice most girls have cardboard personalities Yep. I can have long back and forth conversations and discussions with men, but only if I find them interesting enough to talk to. I've been told I'm very quiet and reserved by co workers and such, but really it's just cause I have no interest in what they have to say. If I meet someone with the same interests as me I can talk for hours in person, on the phone, on chat etc..	/r/AllPillDebate	26/03/23 12:37 PM
4	The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the change Then men need to pay far less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 07:39 AM
3	Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single? I'm picky as hell and no one is ever good enough for me, because my standards are super high because I can't be bothered to be with someone I don't share the same views with or don't vibe with. Like ideally I'd be with a vegan childfree hippie dude who I can communicate incredibly well with, am sexually and physically attracted to and have great sexual chemistry with and who I can have a lot of fun with and relax with, can provide for and take care of themselves... But doesn't give a shit about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 04:55 PM
5	CMV: Finding a High-Value Woman nowadays is nearly impossible That's not what I consider a high value woman and that's not what a lot of guys consider a high value woman either. That's your version of your high value woman because that's what you highly value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 01:50 PM
2	Where have all the good men gone? Perhaps. I don't have much experience from that kinda work environment as I work in a trade where there's no upper management, just the owner/boss and all the employees. I still face a lot of pressure to perform though and there's always something that isn't good enough and pressure to improve, do better etc.. and unlike the people working cushy office jobs.. i actually bust my butt off doing real labor to the point my ass muscles ache, no joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:25 PM
1	Describe your ideal partner. Physically? Around my height, brown or black hair that's short (no middle side part hair with medium length that I see is trending with the younger hipster dudes these days.), brown eyes, dark skin. Not super skinny, not super fit. Somewhat muscular, but not overly so, as I find bulging veins insanely gross. Not fat or obese. Also masculine looking. No pretty soft boys.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/03/23 11:30 AM
2	Describe your ideal partner. I'm a woman who prefers someone about my own height. I'm 5'6 bordering on 5'7.. and I'd be happy to date someone around that height too. I'm not particularly attracted to men who are far taller or shorter than me. I don't want someone to tower over me either, but I also don't want to tower over someone either.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/03/23 11:23 AM
2	Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding. I don't know everything and I'm not a genius. I just don't have any role models or anything. You're right, you can learn from the experiences of others, however you shouldn't let a particular persons experiences or opinions define your life or who you are as a person completely. Take what you think is relevant and beneficial and leave the rest. Don't just mindlessly follow a particular person and treat them like an idol, because no one is an entirely perfect role model. Use your own brain. Conte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 11:06 AM
0	Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding. Don't listen to anyone. Just reflect on your own, don't be a sheep follower.. do what you wanna do not what other tells you to do. As a woman I don't listen to anyone for advice, direction or understanding. I do my own personal reflections and make up my own mind, using logic, rationale and sensibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 09:53 AM
6	Where have all the good men gone? Honestly this. As a man, you bust your butt day it day out blood sweat and tears and at the end of the day the only thing we get is talked/looked down on when we don't maintain the effort or stumble along the way. Honestly it's the same for me as a woman, and its not just me but a lot of other working women who experience this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 08:58 AM
6	Where have all the good men gone? It's not so bad. I'm saving a ton of money by living in collective housing with roommates and working full time. If I live somewhat frugally I can easily save $2000 a month. Nevermind the fact that I'm never lonely anymore cause I'm surrounded by people. Truly an underrated life hack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 08:54 AM
12	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 10:00 PM
4	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less Exactly. It makes you self sustained.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 08:50 PM
6	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less Exactly. Pretty much any well adjusted single adults should be able to take care of their own home while still working, be they a man or woman. This is also why I think it's healthy for people to live by themselves before they move in with someone, because they should learn how to independently take care of all these things by themselves and not having to rely on others to do them. As an example, a roomie of mine is dating a guy who lives with his mom. The guy doesn't know how to do his own laun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 08:48 PM
20	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less Asking the real questions. Meanwhile men not pulling their share of childcare, housework and planning are seemingly complaining about divorce and the high divorce rates of women. Yeah wonder why...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 08:34 PM
2	Q4W: Whats your score on the Female Delusion Calculator? Right. Well, in the country I live a large majority guys are white. (According to stats 14,7% are immigrants.. a lot of which are white) Though I definitely don't mind dating guys of other ethnicities. I wouldn't say making 45k or more is particularly successful either. I make that myself a year without any particular education, just learned a trade and it's just about enough to fund my living. There's also a difference between being in shape and being obese. I myself am 5'6 and 130lbs. I don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 10:30 PM
5	Q4W: Whats your score on the Female Delusion Calculator? Good one. Not dating single dad's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 09:56 PM
3	Q4W: Whats your score on the Female Delusion Calculator? What would be surprising is that there's people who view wanting a single white guy who isn't obese and making median income somehow is delusional or unlikely or having "high standards". I mean, it should technically be a totally basic expectation, especially for women who aren't themselves obese and who make median income themselves (hey like me!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 09:48 PM
1	Q4W: Whats your score on the Female Delusion Calculator? 12,5%... I'm 25.. i put in the ages between 27 and 34.. earn 45k same as me, 5'5 or taller as I'm 5'6 and would prefer someone not that much below my own height (also wouldn't wanna be with someone much taller). I also put in not obese and not married, which i think is entirely reasonable as I'm neither obese nor married myself. But yeah, so according to this I think I'm not that delusional. However, I'm not American but from Europe, so I guess that's irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 09:44 PM
5	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Depends what career you choose. There's career that aren't necessarily that time or energy consuming. Plenty of career focused people still manage to make time for their relationships and intimacy still	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 01:35 AM
19	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? I'm a woman who's played with both roles.. being the more feminine persona, and the more masculine persona.. and for myself personally, I just found the masculine persona less restrictive. Femininity, at least for me meant basically taking on a submissive people pleasing role, and its kinda restrictive the clothing and style you wear, and habits too for that matter. It is a lot of maintainance to try to appear as a feminine woman where as appearing masculine is much easier, and one could even sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 11:42 PM
11	What does ‘feminine’ mean to you? Plenty of career women are happy about being career women. Myself included.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 11:22 PM
2	Q4W: are you intrinsically grossed out by chronically single men? I assume he has high standards if he is a fine handsome man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 10:02 PM
4	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? No I just wish men who don't want kids were more upfront about it. As a childfree woman I have no interest in dating someone who isn't also childfree, but almost all men on dating apps states wants kids in the future or don't know yet/uncertain in their preferences. What's shallow is judging whetter someone is a good match based on fertility. Plenty of infertile, involuntary childless or voluntary childfree are good matches and dating material to people who don't want kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:02 PM
2	Do you plan on having children? I consider myself blessed every time the moms with small kids at my workplace talks about how hectic their afternoons are. I can just walk home, take a shower, make some dinner and chill for the rest of the night and do whatever I feel like knowing I don't have any other responsibilities. The freedom is invaluable. I'm also not dependent on an income to fund anyone but myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 10:35 AM
4	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? We all judge don't we? That's how we filter who are suited for us and not. While I personally and subjectively think caring for these things is nonsensical I acknowledge that a lot of other people think it is sensible. It's just, they aren't my kinda people and that's ok. The human race may have gone extinct yes, but that's not the case, because most people have primitive and simple instincts and don't stop to question whetter following these instincts is something that actually benefits them or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 10:23 AM
5	Do you plan on having children? I'm 25. Never felt the need to have a child, and the more I researched and educated myself on how detrimental having children is to my personal economy, physical health, appearance and medical wise, as well as mental health, the less I wanted children. It's also well documented that the more educated women are, the less children they have. The more knowledgeable a woman is about the true reality of pregnancy, birth, nursing and raising children, the less she is inclined to have children, or she …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:59 AM
5	Do you plan on having children? Feel ya and wanna do the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:47 AM
5	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Tbf I don't have any interest in a man's height. I've had relationships with men shorter, same height and taller than myself and I don't care for dating Competitive men who think I'm some sorta prize to win for themselves. That sounds primitive and it is primitive. I care for dating sensible men who don't feel insecure oe jealous or emasculated because I had other relationships in the past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:46 AM
-1	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Well, I value a man who doesn't care about the count	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:01 AM
5	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Even then.. I weed people who aren't attracted to me as a person out of my dating pool by being honest, and visa versa, they're weeding people they aren't attracted to out of their dating pool by asking. It's win-win and no one wastes each other time with someone who doesn't share their values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 08:40 AM
6	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? Yeah I just wish they were more outspoken about it rather than ambivalent. However you're right, it definitely seems like they are making up reasons to justify their shallowness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 08:39 AM
20	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? Honestly, reading all these posts about how fertility matter so much to a lot of men makes it sort of unappealing to date. I've all but given up on dating and the apps because all the guys I've spoken to and dated wanted kids with me eventually. It's a breath of fresh air to hear not everyone is obsessed about fertility, but couldn't care less. You sound like a sensible dude to be honest. Best luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 08:08 AM
2	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Don't know. Lost track a bit now cause I didn't bother to count anymore because it doesn't matter to me. An estimated guess is 12 give or take So I say what I think it is and if a guy insists I just make an educated guess, but the exact number doesn't really matter to me. If a guy is obsessed with knowing the actual number, that's what's important to me, because I don't care to be with someone who deems it important in any capacity anyway. If a guy is visibly bothered by my indifference (sometim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 12:01 AM
41	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? I say the actual number. It's a nice test to see if it's a guy I can actually be with. If a guy is offended, upset or intimidated he's immediately thrown out of my dating pool. So imo honesty is the best policy. If I can't be honest with my man without him getting upset he ain't worth spending my time on anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 08:11 PM
5	CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships. Guess a lot of guys don't care for motorboating. As a woman, I care far less for blowjobs than I do for proper sex. If I can choose between an easy blowjob or good PIV sex, I'll choose PIV sex all day long because that's far more enjoyable to me, and I think a lot of other women think in similar ways. I can live without blowjobs.. what I "can't" live without is great PIV sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 03:26 PM
7	CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships. It makes sense though. I say that as a woman. Breasts can be enjoyed at any size. It's hard to enjoy a penis that's too small because women don't feel anything with PIV sex. Speaking from my own experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 03:13 PM
4	CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships. While the saying there's someone for everyone may be stretching it a bit too far (and certainly blue pilled mindset).. there's certainly women of a lot of kinds out there. Just because someone haven't met the kind of women they're looking for out there don't mean they don't exist. You just haven't met them or they're a minority. I myself believe there's a man with the traits I'm looking for out there even if I haven't met them, cause there's a lot of men out there and they aren't all alike, desp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 03:10 PM
3	the flip side of "women don't owe you anything" They're not scaling them back anytime soon. People are having too few kids and the politician's crying about how the economy suffers for it. If anything they'll try to throw more money after mom's to get them to reproduce.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/03/23 02:51 PM
2	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. Well my own suicide problem was solved when I realized there was certain things to live for. While mental health issues aren't all about mindset, mindset plays a great deal in how you feel about your life and yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 08:35 PM
8	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. Maybe do something for a living they find fulfilling? Do volunteer work, enjoy hobbies, creating something of your own, get a job you actually enjoy (when you don't have a wife or kids to provide for you don't need to think as much about money). Personally I do a job I love, earn 23$ an hour and I'm having some good times with friends. Pretty much all the moms I'm working with couldn't survive financially if they didnt work full time or close to that or received some kinda child benefits. I work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 07:01 PM
1	Dating in 2023 Right. By all means, people are free to make dumb choices if they want to. Doesn't really bother me.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/03/23 03:09 PM
1	Dating in 2023 Nah but we have the choice to not make shitty choices like settling for things that aren't technically worth it.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/03/23 02:45 PM
0	Dating in 2023 People need jobs to survive. Not relationships with shitty people.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/03/23 06:50 AM
1	Dating in 2023 The better question is why the hell men settle for women like this. As we all know, women would not. I know I wouldn't, even if I couldn't do better I would not settle for a person like this. That's the issue a lot of men seem to have. When they can't do better, they settle.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/02/23 10:41 PM
2	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? What do you mean? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 04:53 PM
3	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? As right as that may be, it's also true that women for the most part nowadays don't want to be financially dependent on men or be the traditional housewife. What most women want is a partner who provides yes, but also a man who can contribute at home and with children if there's any involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 04:52 PM
1	Locking women out of the Workforce could tip the scales again Why do you think women don't do that great in the workforce? Just some of my own personal thoughts, but I think it has a lot to do with women being capable of having children where as men are not. Especially when you bring up the topic of subsidizes and support. Who receives the most of it? Well, at least where I live, that would be mothers. I'm even witnessing this at my own workplace, where mothers are favorized, get additional time off when it suits them, gets first priority vacation time, an…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/02/23 03:37 PM
7	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? Yeah it's really quite ridiculous how oblivious they seem to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 03:14 PM
11	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? Yep. Doesn't exactly seem like most men wanna step into the role of a SAHD either. Sure a tiny minority might, but I don't hear most men say how they'd wanna depend entirely on their partner or spouse to provide for them. If men don't see being a financial dependent as being an attractive role, why on earth would they possibly think women see being a financial dependent as an attractive role??	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 02:55 PM
12	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? It's easy to say you like providing. I like providing too.. for myself as a woman, but also knowing I can give money to others if I want to. There's a certain freedom to being a provider, which is financial freedom and independence. Who doesn't love being financially free and independent? I sure do love it even though lm a woman and so do other women. Let's face it, having to be dependent on someone else to provide for you puts you in a financially vulnerable position, that's easily exploited or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 02:52 PM
1	Locking women out of the Workforce could tip the scales again What is fair or equal in relationships nowadays anyway? A fair relationship is equal effort and having equal power in the relationship. Go to a divorce court as a Man and you lose 50% of your Sh** a la Negan, or you can get Baby trapped. That's not a fair relationship that's true. That's why I always say, if you're a man why the hell you wanna get married anyway? Marriage locks people into a relationship where both parties are stuck if either party abuses their power or doesn't contribute fairly…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/02/23 02:08 PM
1	Locking women out of the Workforce could tip the scales again So? If a man in a relationship can't put in equal amount of effort his woman is, then it's not an equal or fair relationship is it? Say the woman works 40 hours a week, does all the homework and does the majority of the childcare and the man works 40 hours a week but doesn't do as much housework or childwork or doesn't pull his weight in other ways then that's hardly a fair or equal relationship is it?	/r/AllPillDebate	26/02/23 01:33 PM
1	Female women, do you too feel that pressure to act a certain way for men to like you? That's how I feel too. I don't feel much pressure, because I just don't want all the unwanted attention from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:58 PM
1	Female women, do you too feel that pressure to act a certain way for men to like you? Not really no. Just don't act like a bitch cause I repel men super fast when I do lol (I only do that intentionally when I don't like someone). Just generally being nice, and if they're generously offering something that I return the favor somehow. I don't like feeling like I owe men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:36 PM
4	Is there literally ANYTHING women can do that would make them undesirable? Of course. Bad hygiene for starters. No man wanna have sex with a woman that reeks and have a terrible stench and never showers, have greasy disgusting hair, greasy skin, doesn't maintain her appearance at all. Personally, I know someone like this born with FAS, so they were socially inept too. However, being a walking trash can can repel any man. Or perhaps, they'd still be desirable by their fellow trash can man.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/02/23 10:04 AM
7	CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles. Yeah I wouldn't date any of the guys on here cause of that. They're too caught up in traditional gender roles for my taste anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 08:58 AM
9	CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles. Muh masculine pride lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 08:41 AM
2	Are women really not able to love unconditionally? That's definitely an issue. I've done everything for guys I've been in love with, and had to stop when I realized I also needed to take care of myself and set conditions and boundaries which are incredibly important in relationships. Yes, I do love to please, but not at the cost of my mental, physical or emotional well being. Especially not if the efforts and lengths I go to to please isn't equally reciprocated, or worse, taken for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 12:22 AM
1	Fewer women on apps because treated badly? It's not. Technological and societal advancements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 12:18 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Thanks! You're welcome. I'm lucky to be where I am today, but also had to work really hard to prove myself with no proper education, so wasn't just dumb luck either. For me, money was never as big a motivation as doing something I actually enjoy doing for a living. If I'm gonna spend 40 hours or more a week working, I at least wanna spend it doing something I don't dread doing when I'm waking up every morning. Even if that means an average income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:57 PM
2	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Nope lol. I'm a high school and college drop out who started working as a florist cause I took a design and Crafts course on floristry in high school for fun. Then I became a trainee, working for a shop for half a year before becoming a regular employee, then working for another shop and now I work for a shop who offered me better pay because it's a funeral flower shop with high revenue/turnover if thats what it's called. Just this week we did 10 funerals at least, and we were short staffed a pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:37 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them . I like spending time by myself, more than I enjoy working, that’s why I don’t think a single man should slave his best years away for corporations. For what it's worth I completely agree. It's only worth it if you actually enjoy working.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:59 PM
0	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Because you can enjoy things by yourself too? It's not like things have to be shared to be enjoyed. I enjoy the things I've earned in peace and quiet by myself. Being alone isn't the equalent to being Lonely. It's possible to enjoy spending time by yourself too. Why do you need other people to tell you if your shoes look good? Why's your opinion not good enough? Why can't enjoying things by yourself and spending time with yourself also be good enough, at least for some time? Look, I don't know i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 06:44 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Right well. I think you can live pretty decently with an average job, depending on the costs of things where you live. I have an average job myself and I can buy myself whatever I feel like when I feel like or things I need and want without necessarily looking at the price tag. If I want something I get it. Not that I care too much for expensive things, but yeah, I have far more money than just necessary for survival. I even used to work 3 days a week in the past and lived quite comfortably. Now…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 06:05 PM
2	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Money is a reward that you can spend on treating yourself to rewards such as nice cars, a nice apartment, nice vacations, and a comfortable and luxurious pleasant lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:49 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Why should men work hard, pursue higher studies, work long hours and tolerate crap from their bosses when there is no cute wife to receive him at home? nor children who will say "Daddy" when he comes home? Because they want to for their own sake. They want to have money to spend on themselves. They enjoy their studies etc. Says me, a childfree woman with that mentality. I don't have to work hard but I do cause I enjoy having money to treat myself to nice things. Anyway, don't see why that's such…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:47 PM
11	The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all Eh I'm not so sure I agree that women have more to risk and lose really, considering there's women out there who don't view romantic or sexual as that risky and will happily sleep with men they're attracted to. Take myself as an example. I'm one of those women. The reason I myself an pickier is because I'd rather be alone than with any rando guy just so I get sex and intimacy and company. I want to be with the perfect man for me or I'm better off alone. I also get attention from men everywhere a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:29 PM
0	Fewer women on apps because treated badly? A great thinker. Great thinkers don't think running after a plastic ball in a plastic field trying to kick it into a metal court is particularly interesting, and not useful either, unless it's for excersise. I don't particularly care much for competitions and find competitions unnecessary. Sure they can be fun, but still primitive and dumb, just like the card game idiot my mom plays with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 03:56 PM
1	Fewer women on apps because treated badly? A great thinker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 03:52 PM
2	Fewer women on apps because treated badly? Wouldn't know but it's not been an issue to me personally. I don't care if the men there wanna have sex with me or not. I like sex. Though I'd prefer a long term relationship, but the guys on dating apps usually aren't my kinda relationship material, which again, has nothing to do with sex. I'm just tired of all the guys having incompatible values and interests to me. Like if I find a decent guy.. oh turns out he loves soccer or fishing, which is immediate disqualifiers as I hate soccer (primiti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:46 PM
3	What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man? Firstly, is he intelligent? Can he hold an interesting conversation? Does he share the same values as me? Are we compatible? That's what I think of when trying to obtain an attractive man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 09:58 PM
6	Locking women out of the Workforce could tip the scales again No lol it's cause men aren't contributing in ways that actually matter to women. Modern women do all the roles..men need to catch up and not just be providers. Because women are so much more than that. They do the housework, the child work and the work work. Men need to be able to do it all too.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/02/23 06:52 PM
2	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single Yeah but that requires effort you know. As a woman, I don't want to make the effort to go on tinder, sweet talk a dude, then have to dress up just for dinner when I can make a perfectly good dinner by myself with far less effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 09:13 PM
12	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single Lmao true. A friend of my roommates is a gold digging gold digger who does this. I personally don't support taking advantage of thirsty men, but hey, they get to be in the company of a hot woman so I guess there's an exchange there at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 09:10 PM
20	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single As a woman I really can't relate. I made and sold so many bouqets on valentine's I basically had flowers growing out of my ears. I definitely didn't miss out on the valentines rush just cause I didn't have a boyfriend. Also the trainee constantly chatting about her boyfriend and what they were giving to each other on valentine's and all the zappy Zapp and reading her zappy card was enough for me to get sick of all the zappy Zapp. I also don't like eating out cause the food I make is superior, so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 09:06 PM
2	Women are right. Maybe they couldn't meet their wives needs in other ways? Money and looks isn't everything women need in a relationship, contrary to what everyone in these subs seem to believe. At least it's worth considering that there's other factors at play. Idk, like being a raging workaholic who don't have time to spend quality time with their wives. Wild guess as the guys mentioned are probably busy guys, but it could literally be that or a myriad of other reasons.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/02/23 06:42 PM
5	Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.” Accurate. When I browse dating apps, there are sooo many men who look basically unkept and can't take a decent picture for the life of them. The men putting in a lot of effort are usually the more self aware snobbish types who wear suits.. and they look fine as hell, although they come off a bit stiff sometimes. They at least know how to make themselves presentable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 09:55 AM
1	What caused you to raise your standards for dating someone? Being treated like a doormat, being taken for granted, being abused. I just want a man willing to spend or match as much time, energy and effort into them as I do for them. I don't think that's too much to ask. Being taken advantage of isn't fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 11:04 AM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. No they're not to blame for being raped. However, they're to blame for making poor choices that puts them at risk for being raped. There's a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 04:21 PM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. You get what you give. If you know the way you look will get you unwanted attention, then yeah you're to blame for being stupid if you complain about the unwanted attention but take no measures to prevent it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 03:50 PM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Sure, if they want to. You or others may not like it but it works	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:49 PM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Supposed to? No. Just if they want to. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but by being conventionally unnatractive, I repel men who lack brain cells.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:48 PM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Supposed to? No. Just if they want to. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but by being conventionally unnatractive, I repel men who lack brain cells.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:23 AM
2	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" That's.. pretty much what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 09:18 PM
1	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Right, and those people fall under the category of "don't want kids"... Under the current circumstances, which is true. Also totally understandable and justifiable. People shouldn't be having kids they can't provide or care for anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 02:45 PM
1	Describe your semi-ideal society in regards to male female social structure How it is today just more equal. More liberal and less authoritarian	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 10:30 PM
0	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" I've worked on the common ground and there isn't any, at least not anything meaningful. I just don't see the point in maintaining a relationship I no longer benefit from. It's like friendships.. sometimes you grow apart and part ways and that's just how it is. Trying to force a bridge to be built where there's no ground to build on is impossible Politics? Politics has do to with values. If you have inherently different values, then there's no common ground anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 10:28 PM
3	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" I struggle to see how bringing children into a collapsing economy help.. They'll just have to face the exact same thing eventually.. and you're right, it's risky. The child could turn out poor or worse, disabled and become a dependent to the parent for life.. so yeah... The people who think having a child is gonna save their ass.. it's a bit more complicated than that.. even if they do, they're just passing on the problem to their children anyway... And so on it goes from generation to generatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 10:21 PM
2	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Exactly. If I can do 8 hours paid work.. why do an additional 20 unpaid...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 09:13 PM
5	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" I'm quite capable of intelligent thought. What's unintelligent is having a child I have no interest in raising at all. It's not intelligent to have a child only for future insurance, especially when you have no interest in having children at all. Since I'm not interested in raising a child, the child would likely feel neglected and cut contact as soon as they became an adult anyway. Also, I have no interest in being around my parents now or in the future, which you fail to take into intellectual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 09:12 PM
2	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Well.. my parents probably thought they'd raise me to be a good Christian woman who wouldn't have sex before marriage. They taught me a lot of things.. and now I'm the opposite of how they wish I was. I don't follow their values or way of life in the slightest. You may think you can shape a child how you wish, but at the end of the day, they may still go their own way regardless. There's no guarantees here. You may think you know your kid better than anyone, but they may withold a lot. My parent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 09:04 PM
3	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Yes while they face the same issue I did. Paying the issue forward... Passing it on to the next gen.. That's the issue with how society is built.. it's built on the concept of infinite growth.. like capitalism.. and once the growth declines.. the house of cards.. the pyramid collapses Basically, it's an unsustainable system. Even if a child could support me in old age, I wouldn't put that burden on a child, because I wouldn't have that burden put on myself. To me, according to my values,.that's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:55 PM
5	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" But how is me having a child gonna prevent that? For all I know, my child could have Downs or be severely disabled.. where theyd have no way to save my ass.. and to the point where we'd both be homeless and penniless.. how is dragging another child into eventual potential collapse, a solution, or benefit to me as an individual? Even if a child could help me, they'd still face the effects of this collapse themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:48 PM
6	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:38 PM
6	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" It isn't magically gonna stay intact by me having a child either..hell, me having a dozen children is but a drop in the bucket. Also, anyway, the people who have children will potentially face the same fate crash of the welfare anyway. Them having a few children isn't gonna prevent a collapse effecting them too. So, I still don't see how me having a child or other people having a few children will prevent it. Everyone would have to have a lot more children now, even the ones that do have childre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:36 PM
3	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" My perspective comes from observing people with kids but also from remembering what I was like as a child and what my parents went through for me and my siblings as children. They put up with quite a lot of shit, especially from myself. I once spent a 1000$ when I borrowed my mom's credit card and never paid it back. In general, I (and my siblings) was a huge resource drain on my parents. They spent a ridiculous amount of money on us, our education (private schools), but also on gadgets and stuf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:31 PM
18	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Working is hard enough. I understand why men wanna golf.. I too would rather do something relaxing or fun after work than tend to a child, so in a way I can understand why not more men are involved.. like why would they be? Working a normal job is work enough.. then there's house chores.. which for me as a working woman is more than enough.. add a child to that? No thanks. I'm already burnt out from work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:04 PM
8	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" You'll run into the same problem if you have a child or two too. Me having a child isn't gonna create collective change. The welfare state will be funded by those who have kids obviously, and there will always be someone who wants kids for whatever reason. Also, dying alone isn't the worst thing in the world I could possibly imagine, speaking as someone who's been on the brink of death multiple times. You accept it when you think it's your time and that's it. It's what you make it for yourself. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:54 PM
9	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Exactly! People forget that the money they invested into their children could be invested into their own future.. It's like people are completely oblivious to the fact that people who do not have children can work more and save more towards their future. It's so odd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:47 PM
5	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" And why's that such a horrible thing? Why stigmatize it? It's like saying people can't be happy unless they're coupled up or married. Guess what, it doesn't have to be the "end of the world". You can still live a fulfilling and happy and satisfying life in other ways, if you want to, and that's just the thing. People who choose to not have children aren't bothered by the idea of dying alone. That includes myself. I've never been particularly close to my family. I've never missed my family, even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:44 PM
11	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Welfare state baby. I live in Norway. Everyone here is entitled to a base Pension that ar minimum covers Assisted living in an elderly center. Also like I mentioned in another comment, you can save more Money for pension and focus on your career and save more money towards old age when you're childfree. That's another form of future investment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:43 PM
7	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Well.. you're not exactly left to die when you're old exactly if you live in a welfare state or live in assisted living with the saved pension money you earned not having to fund kids. Also, there's other family members and friends than your own own kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:42 PM
7	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Modern society like it is today isn't gonna be what modern society is like in the future anyway. Society is always progressing and advancing. No matter how much conservatives want to conserve the past or present into the future, society will change inevitably.. as will technology and everything else. The decline of something now, will be the start of something else in the future. We may predict what that will be like but we can't just determine it as entirely negative with any kind of certainty.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 04:37 PM
0	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Enjoying the decline of what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 04:26 PM
45	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" As someone living in a first world country, being middle class.. making my own coin.. having my own financial independence.. why throw that away for a child? When I enjoy spending my resources on myself, why spend it on an additional human being I personally have no use or benefit creating? Let's face it, having children nowadays is a lifestyle choice. Some people choose to travel the world, some people choose to have kids. Some people wanna live off grid.. some people want to live hedonistic li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 04:07 PM
66	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Giving single mothers more money isn't gonna make them have more kids. People who want kids will have kids and people who don't won't regardless if they have the ability to choose, which they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 03:55 PM
2	I am glad that I discovered red pill and I regret that I didn't discover it earlier in my early 20s. Depends what kinda woman you are. Why do women value resources more? Well.. cause they want kids, and kids is a huge resource drain. It doesn't apply to childfree career women such as myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 03:52 PM
0	I am glad that I discovered red pill and I regret that I didn't discover it earlier in my early 20s. Lots of women nowadays don't want men who are "better than themselves" like in terms of job, status or looks. Speaking for myself here, I'd prefer a man on my own level, an equal, and I'm by far not the only woman who wants an egalitarian partnership where both are on equal footing, where none has (significant) power over the other. Personally, I would prefer someone of my own social standing because that's who I'll have most in common with. How do I know? I actually dated a guy who turned out t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 03:50 PM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Well, are fat chicks the ones complaining about being sexualized? From what I've observed, it's especially conventionally attractive people, and especially those m who enhance their sex appeal who are complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 04:32 PM
0	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. True, I suppose	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 02:34 AM
2	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Lmao relatable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 01:09 AM
2	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Not true. Men sexualize me less after I got a crazy green and purple joker hairstyle. Not joking. Was told by my fuckbuddy the masculine look made me unappealing to him and to men generally and that it would be bad for my dating life. I told him IDGAF cause I want to be wanted for who I am as a person more than I want to be wanted for my looks. He told me I'd struggle to date. Again, don't particularly care cause I'm not dating men who wanna date me for my hotness anyway. My current masculine lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 01:08 AM
2	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. Yep. Men stopped sexualizing me when I started acting and looking like a man aka more masculine lol. However, most women aren't smart enough to realize there's measures they can take to be less sexually appealing to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 01:04 AM
3	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. You can also take steps to make yourself less sexually desirable. I mean, I've done it because I don't want dudes to just want me for my conventional attractiveness anymore. I rock short blue,puprle, green, pink dyed mens hairstyles with shaved sides. I have face piercings. I'm literally a walking man repellant. Why? Because if a dude is actually into me, he's likely just not gonna be into me just cause I'm conventionally attractive, but cause he's into who I am as a person, at least that's what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 01:01 AM
1	the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects. They complain about not being valued for their intelligence, personality, or interests while not even trying to develop these things. That's cause they focus to much on their physical attractiveness instead of their other attributes. Men don't see me so much of a sex object when I shave or dye my hair crazy colors, wear face piercings and wear unisex clothes. Lots of women think they can hyper fixate on looking conventionally attractive and be liked for their other attributes. That's not how it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 12:46 AM
2	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? Basically. When I'm into a guy I will eye fuck them and do the whole eyebrow thing. Dudes always get it when I'm into them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 12:31 AM
4	What is your ideal way for a man to approach you? Be friendly. Have fun conversations, be funny. Just generally keep it light and cheery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/23 12:27 AM
1	what's the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? Doesn't matter. Still, generally speaking, I'm still curious who these women with such high standards (that I've read RP complain about here before) are and why they act so entitled and why don't men date women with lower standards in regards to luxury like myself.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/02/23 09:45 PM
3	what's the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? Who are these men that provide high quality dining/luxury to average women? Literally, legitimately, why??? Why on earth would that be even remotely necessary unless the woman is used to a high end lifestyle and is rich herself? Me, I'm an average woman. I don't expect men to take me to fine dining. Usually, the men I've dated and been in relationships with have bought me frozen pizza, made homemade meals with me, or bought beer and wine so we can eat while watching Netflix on the couch. So long…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/02/23 05:36 PM
2	Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently? They're not always talking about them either. I'm a young thin woman with no kids, yet PPD assume I want a rich provider man to fund my lifestyle and my future life and kids. They also assume I only date the ridiculously handsome top tier looking attractive men. Spoiler alert, I'm childfree and I have my own job. I don't need a dude to provide for me as I provide perfectly well for myself. The dude also doesn't need to be ridiculously handsome or 10/10 either. God knows I've dated guys most woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 06:23 AM
2	What does agreeable mean to you? Exactly. There's a fine balance to be struck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 03:33 PM
2	What does agreeable mean to you? They may not. Depends	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:58 AM
8	What does agreeable mean to you? Yep that's why agreeable reads as a red flag to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:57 AM
3	What does agreeable mean to you? That's not just being disagreeable. That's being unbearable and a pain in the butt lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:55 AM
3	What does agreeable mean to you? I legit dated a dude who wouldn't speak to me unless I spoke to him in like this romantic manner. He also was allergic to serious adult conversation in private. I literally wasn't allowed to voice a single issue. Personally, i believe in finding solutions by talking things out, rather than by sugar coating things and pretending to be happy with something I am not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:50 AM
5	What does agreeable mean to you? Women may have good reasons for being combative though.. like when the man has unreasonable expectations they want their woman to just adhere to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:24 AM
27	What does agreeable mean to you? Being too agreeable can easily get you taken advantaged of though. Speaking of personal experience here. Had to become more disagreeable when people took advantage of my agreeable traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 06:18 AM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Ordinary is having "basic conversations, like hey how are you how are you doing I'm fine how are you fine ok" everyday, and only having other basic conversations. Ordinary is having missionary sex. Personally I enjoy exploring BDSM dynamics. An exciting life for me would be moving around,.never settling down, trying new things, travelling etc.. no kids or family or anything as I'm childfree. Just exploring, having fun trying new hobbies togheter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 05:26 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I'm not saying people should have to nickel and dime over everything. Just make sure that they're in fair relationships that they can easily remove themselves from if they're being taken for granted or taken advantage of or not being supported. It's significantly harder to remove yourself from a relationship where this is the case if you share assets, kids and are married for instance. Why am I saying this? Because I've been in relationships with people who would put in a lot of effort and show …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 08:10 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Reality often can be. Lots of people live in denial though, and think that marriage or kids is a guarantee that they'll have a great partner who supports them for life. If you take a look around, and truly observe, you'll often notice that that isn't the case, and it goes for both men and women. This is why I don't understand why people are so eager to be married or have kids with someone. Just cause someone is initially committed to putting in effort in a marriage or relationship, doesn't mean …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 07:58 PM
3	CMV: Red Pill dating strategy for men is effective but unfulfilling This is something I've noticed as well and a valid observation. RP will talk about how to achieve casual sex and casual relationships, but not really speak much about how they can achieve fulfilling LT committed relationships or what's required to make them work. I guess in theory, if you can succeed with the first, the idea is that you can also succeed with the latter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 10:33 AM
2	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Hell yeah. No doubt. I have more than enough of my own money. What I don't have is quality time spent with a partner I want to be with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:55 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I have no idea. I don't particularly like ordinary or boring or mundane, which is what I see most healthy relationships as. I like to seek out excitement and pleasure and passion where it's possible. I actively avoid ordinary men on dating apps.. which are probably the ones who can offer a stable relationship. Considering that, I'm not sure if a stable relationship is in the cards for me..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:53 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Just to not talk, to be quiet, to listen, to stop..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:47 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. No doubt. He'd ask for pictures of me all the time. Even get his friends to reach out for him when I wasn't willing to talk anymore. He just was very selfish and wasn't willing to reciprocate much. And at the end of the day, as much as he valued having me in his life, he was married to his work. Like you can't compete with that. You know the kind of people who want to have their cake and eat it too? They want the lover and the wife. In this case, I was technically the lover and the work was his …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:44 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. It was.. on and off for 2 years give or take I put up with it because when he made me feel good at times, he made me feel better than anyone. Just imagine it like a relationship to drugs or alcohol... You keep taking it cause it makes you feel Heaven on earth despite knowing you'll be having terrible hangovers. It's sorta like that I guess. You put up with the lows for the highs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:42 PM
2	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Cool yeah but if someone is only or mainly with you for the money and the high end lifestyle, then it's not surprising when they cheat on you. He'd be the type to leave an ex in poverty with kids despite being rich. Yep Would take a special kind of woman to be with him. Either a victim minded woman or super manipulative one Funny you said that cause I used to be the victim minded woman until I put my foot down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:30 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Right but I love sex and being in a relationship. Abandoning relationships altogether isn't happening. Like ideally, having a boyfriend but not living with them, or if living with them, then not owning a home together and not marrying and not having kids, so that I can jump ship if it doesn't work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:12 PM
2	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Maybe..he was also a workaholic.. he complained to me about his last GF cheating on him after we met.. I didn't realize why that could potentially be before knowing him for a long time.. turns out his priorities and loyalty was mainly to his family and work, and he wasn't the type to prioritize his relationships.. if you don't prioritize making time for your girlfriend, and all you have to offer is money and a high end lifestyle... Then yeah, you know what kinda types they attract. Personally, I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:01 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. 31	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 07:51 PM
3	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Like I said in another comment here.. control how I talk (had to be really sweet and accomodating, almost romantic to get him the talk), when I talk (I could only text him when he was in a mood to talk to me), how I talk (like honestly confronting him on issues I had with him and the relationship was a big no no) and what I wanted to talk about (he wasn't interested in listening or discussing what I had to say but wanted me to listen to what he wanted to say). He would also say I didn't listen t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 06:41 PM
3	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. The way I spoke, how much I spoke, when I spoke. If I didn't act as submissive as he wanted he would withold his attention or ignore me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 05:39 PM
1	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? Fair enough, but would you be happy eating greasy cheeseburgers every day? I think not... Would you be fine with completely average sex every day? Unless you're content with average on a daily basis.. not something I am anyways, but some people are happy eating bread with cheese three times a day.. like my dad.. so what's good enough for everyone differs clearly	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 02:34 PM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Clearly. I didn't see it at first because he actually helped me resolve a large conflict and issue in my life as a friend that had nothing to do with him and he was very supportive. However, it turned out that he wasn't as willing to solve issues and conflicts when it came to us eventually. Some people are just good at solving other people's problem's but not their own I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 01:49 PM
2	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Because having a partner to talk to and have sex with and do things with is nice and can feel good. The issue with being married is that when someone doesn't pull their weight, or isn't willing to pull their weight, the only bargaining power or leverage you have is divorce. When you're not married, you can simply say, if you're not pulling your weight I'm leaving right here and right now. Something which I've done myself, when a man was not willing to make as much efforts in the relationship as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 01:44 PM
3	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Yes. I thought I found the right man with the last one I dated. The Chemistry was off the charts, attraction was mutual and the sex was great.. however, he had a great need to be in control and wanted the relationship to be on his terms and he wasn't very good at compromising, so I was always the one having to bend to his will, or submit, which meant I had to neglect some of my own needs to please his needs. I wanted to solve this issue by talking it out, and he wanted to ignore it, because he l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 12:32 PM
3	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I can understand the feeling of betrayal absolutely, as feelings aren't rational. However, it's not rational, or rather necessarily readable to expect exclusivity or loyalty from someone you haven't even discussed such things with or came to an agreement on with. Obviously it depends how long you've been seeing each other and such, as it's on both parties to communicate their boundaries or lack there of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 12:20 PM
2	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I fully agree. What I don't get is why co habit relationships can't be like roommate situations. Like I live with roommates. We all cook our own food. We all do our own laundry. We all have our appointed cleaning weeks. Like this to me is the ideal relationship. If that's not possible, I'd prefer to have my own place, or if I'm gonna be someone's personal maid, I want an hourly wage of at least 25$.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:09 AM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Well, if you're married, you've legally committed to each other though. I guess this is where the assumption that marriage is a committed relationship comes from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 11:04 AM
4	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I'm a woman and I disagree, in my personal opinion. I've had fwbs and considered myself single. For me single means not in a committed or/and exclusive relationship. Due to people defining what relationships and being single means to them differently, it is very important to communicate what this means to you to any kind of partner. I've had guys I've dated tell me I cheated on them when they never asked me to be their girlfriend or I never agreed to be their girlfriend. I told them I couldn't p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:59 AM
1	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. It's funny you mention that, because so many guys I've dated just assumed we were in a relationship, and got pissed off when I went to date others, when we had never explicitly discussed or agreed to being in a relationship. Like dude, you're not in a relationship with someone you haven't even asked to be in a relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:53 AM
4	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I'd argue the same. We've discussed how happy married women are in comparison to married men and married men are happier here before. The consensus, amongst many anyway, is that single women are happier than married women because the women who work full time and also do the majority of the housework and childcare are exhausted. So yeah, I may not be the happiest single woman myself, but I know I'm happier than being in the kind of marriage or partnership I just mentioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:50 AM
7	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. Lots of conventionally attractive women struggle finding a happy and fulfilling relationship, either due to inexperience or bad choices or not knowing what a healthy relationship look like. Personally I'd love to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship, and while being conventionally attractive makes that significantly easier, it by no means make it easy if you suck at choosing the right man. I myself, can firmly say I suck at choosing men, because I'm not entirely sure what kind of partner I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:43 AM
5	CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist. I feel the same way. The flexibility and independence I have means the world to me. Especially after having been in relationships with men trying to control me or control the relationship down to the way I talk. I wasted so much time and energy planning for futures that never happened or didn't go the way I planned. Now I'm more of a take it day by day person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 10:35 AM
2	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? I mean you're not wrong. If you know you can get better, cause you've gotten better, why settle for worse? It's just logical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:07 AM
9	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? When you learn how to cook fine food, and get accustomed to eating your fine food.. are you pleased with someone serving you completely average food? So yeah of course, when you know you can get better, you are not as pleased with less. No matter what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:05 AM
1	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. Yep. Couldn't agree more. I think when these people finally become the "Chad" they wanna be and get to have sex with an attractive woman, that they realize that it isn't necessarily all it's cracked up to be. Don't get me wrong, sex with hot and good looking people is great, but sex with a person you actually have a genuine connection with is much much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:55 PM
1	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. Seems a lot of RP still want to be in a relationship though. Not everyone wants to be the alpha Chad who sleeps with all the hot women, I've noticed, but can't this also imply or be argued, that even by committing to a relationship, even if they manage to be a Chad, that they can still be settling for women settling for them for their looks, resources etc? Like all the looks and resources in the world doesn't guarantee you that the woman you find hot will be with you for "the right reasons" for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:37 PM
1	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. Ok but what if she's actually genuinely attracted to the dude... Then that's not AF/BB ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:27 PM
2	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. So women shouldn't get into relationships with men, because if they do, it means he's a beta and settling for them lol. If all women knew this, then the guys who didn't get women by being an alpha wouldn't even get women by being a beta. I guess thanks for reminding me why I shall never have a man committ to me, cause if he does, he settling for me, and who wanna be settled for anyway? Sounds unappealing to me to be settled for anyway. This why I don't get why some women are so desperate to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:26 PM
2	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. Then why would men want to be the beta? Because that's all they can get? They just have to settle for being a Beta? Seems kinda tragic imo. Though I'm a woman I'd never settle for less, and women are known to have higher standards. What I don't get is why men are fine lowering their standards and settling. Like does the testosterone really make them that desperate in comparison to women or what	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:21 PM
1	CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex. Even more reason for women to not committ to men. All the red pillers who want marriage should be mad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 04:19 PM
2	Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you? There's such a thing as straight male strippers though. It's not like straight dudes can't make money on their bodies. Nevermind the fact that straight men can be models too, if they got the looks with them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 04:15 PM
1	Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you? What job do you do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 04:13 PM
2	Is there a mole in the moderation team? Someone is removing threads that aren’t violating sub rules or Reddit TOS, how is it that even in fucking here, the LAST safe space on Reddit to vent we have a woman/simp mod?? Instead of trolling.. how about.. you keep scrolling	/r/AntiFeminists	30/01/23 05:42 PM
5	Man's burden is woman's choice We all need to take care of ourselves one way or another. Either we are Independent or we are dependent. Me personally, I prefer to be an independent woman taking care of myself financially. I love the freedom it offers me so I've made my choice about that a long time ago, and its not changing because I don't want to be at the mercy of someone else's thumb. What I don't understand is why men wouldn't want to take care of themselves financially but would wanna depend on someone else, be it partia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 07:50 PM
7	Man's burden is woman's choice Well, since more women are working than ever, and even some women support their men financially, at least partially. When women pull their working weight and burden in relationships, that takes off some of the weight and burden on men to be the main or sole provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 07:08 PM
1	Man's burden is woman's choice You're right, but just because AC benefit women don't mean men can't study. I went to a university myself, and there was a large amount of men there, also men you'd think wasn't from a particularly wealthy background.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 07:05 PM
1	Man's burden is woman's choice Yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 06:12 PM
7	Man's burden is woman's choice Maybe cause men don't have to provide for women anymore? Wild guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:53 PM
3	Man's burden is woman's choice Everyone has the decision if they want a career or not. We are all entitled and free to live on the streets, or work dead end jobs at McDonald's. Men are still expected to be the breadwinner, and still statistically are. True and it's largely because, due to societal expectation, you haven't a choice False. You have a choice, even when there are societal expectations put on you. I'm a woman. There's societal expectations pushed on me all the time. I choose not to give a fuck. I'm not pursuing an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:50 PM
2	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. Right, so they're not harmed you're not harmed but it's still cheating even when nobody will ever be the wiser, so it isn't exactly the morally superior choice either. Which was kinda my point..that there is no ethical solution here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:29 PM
1	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. So what's the ethical solution in this case? You have to deprive yourself of your sexual and emotional needs etc to care for that person? Either you are taking care of someone else at the cost of your own well being, or you're taking care of yourself at the cost of their well being. Seems like a fucked if you do, fucked if you don't solution, aka a trap, where no matter what you do, someone is gonna be harmed one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 02:14 PM
6	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. I mean, shouldn't she just divorce him if she wants to have sex? That way, she won't be a cheater, problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 10:02 AM
1	Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future? Gotcha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 11:45 PM
4	Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future? This could easily be solved by renting separately through a landlord. I currently live with a bunch of other women. We all have our own contracts with the landlord. We all have our own property or stuff that we brought with us and that we all will take with us when we leave. We don't buy any things to be shared, other than dish soap and toilet paper etc. one partner might not be able to get their own place if you want to break up. There's multiple ways to live. You don't have to get your own pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 11:05 PM
3	How will society change in reaction to more and more women becoming single mothers by choice? Yeah well.. I'm Norwegian.. living in Norway.. with a very Norwegian co worker.. aka single mom woman who got a donor and did IVF.. she just turned 40.. her daughter is a year old. Yes childcare is subsidized etc, but that doesn't mean it's a walk in the park. She works a lot for sure to provide for her and her kid. I don't know any younger women in their 20s or my age (25) doing IVF. Seems mostly to be women who according to the red pill has passed the wall.. or I guess, women who couldn't find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 05:46 PM
2	How will society change in reaction to more and more women becoming single mothers by choice? With dropping fertility rates, will it become standard to “get the first kid out of the way” when you’re young (say 21) and then start looking for a man to marry when you’re 30? No. Because women want to live their lives first, get a career etc... Personal opinion, those who do IVF, that I've heard of at least get them because they find out they're unable to have children later in life. Most women want to have children with a long term/life partner but when in their mid late 30s realize that IVF…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 05:41 PM
2	Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man. Personally I see it as a lesser job as a woman because it's unpaid. Paid jobs, and especially well paid jobs, are generally seen in a higher regard because monetary value is a lot more important in a lot of people minds. It sure is to me at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 08:29 PM
3	Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man. Conservatism is about conserving old standards. Progressive people are much more likely to entertain a variety of appearances. I'm a liberal woman myself, and I don't really go after the old standards. I've dated all kinds of men. Short, tall, skinny, fat, metal, alternative, sporty types, nerdy types, eccentric types.. odd looking guys, sweet looking guys, majority men with foreign backgrounds or from foreign countries... When people ask me if I have a type, physically it would be impossible to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 08:26 PM
1	Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video games Shooters and MOBAs suck anyway imo. It's mainly just walking around shooting targets. Mindless braindead stuff imo. Also the first person perspective sucks. I love playing RPGs though, by myself, so yeah you're probably right somewhat..there's definitely women out there who enjoy shooters and especially MOBAs, but they're a minority for sure. Personally I have nothing against gamers who spend sensible amounts of time on gaming, and play sensible games. If all you play is shooters and MOBAs and y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 06:56 AM
1	Is the bar really “in hell”? Unfortunately yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 03:23 PM
3	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. It's definitely a mindset issue at it's core.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 06:08 PM
9	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Yeah. What I don't get is why I should be angry at men who don't want to date me. Sure, there are absolutely people who don't want to date me, such as well off snobby flashy guys who's all about appearance and status, but like, I'm not mad that they won't date me, cause they're not my type of men anyway. Personally, I attract like minded people and I'm attracted to like minded people. I would assume that's how it goes for most people. Majority of people date people of the same socioeconomic stat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:42 PM
4	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Don't forget that beliefs and attitude shape your reality. If you believe a habit to be incredibly difficult to change, or too difficult, chances are you won't even try or attempt to change it. After I decided to have a more positive can do mentality, that I can do this, that it isn't too hard, and that I can succeed, it no longer was that difficult to change my habits. I've changed my lifestyle many times since this. You decide you can do it, and then you go do it. Maybe it isn't as easy as I p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:11 PM
7	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. Some women are logical some are not. Some men are logical some are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:04 PM
28	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. I agree making posts about how fat women are gross is unnecessary.. but I disagree that making posts on how easy it is to not be fat is inherently fat phobic. I myself have gained and lost weight, and at the end of the day it isn't terribly hard to eat less food, or calories that your body needs on a daily basis to burn off fat.. I really dislike how people says that it's so hard to lose weight.. because that makes people believe it's so hard they don't even try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:02 PM
9	Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women face I'm aware. It's ironic and shows an immense lack of self awareness. Preaching against sexism in one way, while promoting it in another. Hypocritical really, but you can't expect more from people who aren't that intelligent anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:57 PM
16	Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet. I couldn't care less of mens preferences that differs from my own. A man wants a virgin skinny woman, by all means he is entitled to his preference, as all we are. There's no point shaming people for having different preferences either, because people with similar preferences, interests and valued etc look for and find each other. Me personally, I don't want to date a super fat guy either. Don't particularly mind if he's my height or a tad shorter. Would prefer for him to not be ridiculously tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:54 PM
9	Is the bar really “in hell”? Obviously assholes are responsible for being assholes, but the people who allow assholes staying in their lives, are responsible for assholes being on their lives. That's how I think of it anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:44 PM
9	Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women face Well I don't, but yeah, I wish more of the women who speaks so strongly against misogyny, would speak as strongly against misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 12:43 PM
28	Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women face What's interesting, is that if you argue against "men are trash" type rhetoric, even as woman, you'll receive backlash or even get kicked out of subs for women. I understand being supportive of women who's had issues with men, but not to the point where I think we should be promoting this kind of generalized toxicity and negativity towards men. You say reddit is one of the few places left to discuss these issues, but truth is, not in the subs dominated by women. I would know as I'm kicked out of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 10:05 AM
2	Is the bar really “in hell”? Lucky? Lmfao no. She's straight up being abused. Don't be delusional. I've been through the same shit as her, and its nothing to feel lucky about, at all. I'd much rather be with someone loyal who's average than hot users and abusers again myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 08:57 AM
1	What is personally a hot man for you? I didn't date him. I went to school with him. He smelled awful. Probably didn't shower regularly. Didn't look like he took care of himself. Would fart in class all the time. He acted in unlikable and weird ways. Had no social skills. He was caught stealing from his neighbors. Picked fights. Eventually went to prison for a long time over what my mother heard from his mother was a a misunderstanding.. so yeah, when I picture someone hot, I don't exactly picture someone who's socially clueless and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:55 PM
57	Is the bar really “in hell”? Exactly this. I have a roommate who has broken up and gotten back together a lot of times with a guy she knows is cheating on her a lot of times, and she cries and begs to me why he treats her like that. Girl, he treats you like that because you accept it and keep taking him back, yet you keep sleeping with him, I told her. I told her she deserves better... But you can't do better if you keep accepting someone who's worse. She says she says and wants to figure things out because she has feelings…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:43 PM
1	What is personally a hot man for you? My version of a hot man? No. I'm sure There's some woman who wouldn't mind. Would be interesting to see a discussion and/or poll on here on women who dated someone autistic and especially who had a positive experience doing so. My own personal experience with autistic people isn't great, but then again, I personally have only known like one really well, and he was just terrible in every way possible, so I can't exactly rule them all out as being completely undatable, to other women at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:33 PM
1	What is personally a hot man for you? A hot man is a man who knows what he wants, who is sure and confident of himself, who knows how to flirt, is intense, who can keep eye contact in a sexy manner, who knows how to touch you, who knows the right things to say at the right time and who knows how do seduce you. A hot man is ones who's physical and sexual energy just makes you feel alive by being in their presence. Oh and a sexy voice. Like a low toned voice. The bedroom voice. F that's hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 08:04 PM
1	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Nah. I'd far more respect a man who didn't unnecessarily put himself in harm's way. There's no point in trying to defend yourself against losers. I've had people disrespect me many times and the best thing I can do is just ignore and move on, to avoid any unnecessary altercation. If a woman thinks a guy picking a fight he doesn't have to for her is admirable, then she needs some growing up to do. The most adult thing to do is always ignoring bullies when you can. If you don't respond to a bully,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 09:09 AM
1	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Yes which is silly. If a woman truly wants to be with you, you won't have to fight over her with someone else, because she will happily choose you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 07:49 PM
3	[Q4W] Whats the furthest distance/time you would be willing to travel to see someone you really like in the first parts of dating? Wow. Yeah at the end of the day I guess that's what matters most. Mutual effort. I also hate putting in a lot of time and energy into meeting other people and them not being willing to reciprocate. It's actually been an issue with some of the men I dated. Some even expected me to go the distance where as they wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 01:51 PM
1	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Well, at least they're getting paid well for a living I guess, so the risk of harm is somewhat offset that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 01:48 PM
1	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Fair enough. I still view that kind of culture as primitive and inferior to a highly structured environment where you can rely on the police.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 01:46 PM
4	[Q4W] Whats the furthest distance/time you would be willing to travel to see someone you really like in the first parts of dating? It definitely would have to go both ways with mutual effort when it came to travelling, especially these days when fuel and travelling is more expensive than ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 01:34 PM
5	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Sure. I also literally can't know if I'll get hit by a truck while driving. Life is unpredictable. What's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 12:33 PM
2	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Damn. This why no one should be carrying valuables in public. Personally, I don't carry around cash, either cause it can't be retrieved if I lose it or it gets stolen. If someone stole my wallet, all they'd be stealing is coupon cards basically. I have my cards on a wallet app on my phone so I can pay with card through my phone. I guess they could steal my phone though, but not sure what the point of that would be as its obviously locked and it's the cheapest chinese Xiaomi Redmi phone that I co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 12:18 PM
5	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Right, which at least I live in a safe and prosperous society, where I'm unafraid of such things, which is why fighting is a choice when you really don't need to. If you still fight when not needing too, I just don't see what's attractive about that. It's just unnecessarily putting yourself in harm's way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:34 AM
2	[Q4W] Whats the furthest distance/time you would be willing to travel to see someone you really like in the first parts of dating? That's pretty cheap. The iced coffee that I buy from coffee house costs anything between 6-8$	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:27 AM
2	[Q4W] Whats the furthest distance/time you would be willing to travel to see someone you really like in the first parts of dating? While I'm on D, I can relate to your reasoning. Finding someone with the same shared "niche" beliefs is hard enough, especially in smaller towns and out in the countryside. I also grew up in the country. Ain't no untraditional childfree man there that I know of, who also shared in my other convictions and interests. Closest city was almost a 2 hour drive away, so I had to travel very long distances while dating when living there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:22 AM
2	[Q4W] Whats the furthest distance/time you would be willing to travel to see someone you really like in the first parts of dating? D. Already did that by flying out of the country, and not even for a date, but I was desperate for a rebound, and my mentality was fuck it why not, I wanna get fucked. Best sex of my life lol. Granted I'm kinda crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:16 AM
7	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Yeah seems like a one way ticket to getting abused town.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:04 AM
9	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Primitive women may find it attractive. Smart women know their man may get hurt, and if they actually care for their man they don't want to see him hurt. Anyway, on a personal note, as a woman, I just find competition fighting generally kind of primitive. Like if you don't actually have to fight anyone, why risk getting hurt? For honor or some other primitive bullshit ? Meh	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:03 AM
7	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad It really depends on the people you surround yourself with I think too. Like the only time I seen a bunch of guys fighting each other was when it was a "gang" altercation. Ordinary men don't just fight ordinary men. At least not in the rather civilized area I live in. High crime countries or areas or groups and places with stupid "honor culture" where looking at each other wrong is seen as disrespectful, probably has more prevalence of such fights happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:58 AM
2	would you lose interest in your man if he lost in a fight to alpha Chad Depends on the situation to the former, absolutely would lose attraction to the latter. Only losers start escalations. What would gain my interest most is my man ignoring the instigator and moving on. Who has time for lame ass fights anyway? Only betas lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:54 AM
2	I was in a weird mood when I made this. Truly feminine woman are mothers. Modern Feminism has portrayed motherhood as a negative. How the Hell can a civilization survive? The “Trad” wife is then demonized Agree	/r/AntiFeminists	19/01/23 07:03 AM
-1	Identifying as “Involuntary” anything means you have a victim mentality Caring about judgement from people is also a choice. I personally do my very best to choose not to care what society think. People may think I'll end up an old cat lady someday and I literally couldn't give less of a fuck, because why spend my time caring about what people who view me negatively think? It's not beneficial to me so I choose to the best of my ability not to. I personally don't have regular sex. I would like to have regular sex on a daily basis with my partner of preference, but si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 12:31 AM
-1	Identifying as “Involuntary” anything means you have a victim mentality Yes, however I think the point that should be made clear here, is that you can choose to let that define your life, or you can focus on something more enriching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:23 PM
5	Identifying as “Involuntary” anything means you have a victim mentality Wise words indeed. When I changed my mindset, my entire life changed. Seems a lot of people underestimate how much having a victim mentality holds them back. I wouldn't be as successful as I am today if I hadn't stopped feeling sorry for myself and started believing in myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:21 PM
3	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise She realizes that some things are trade-offs. If he is spending 60 hours on his business and the rest of the time in the gym, he is providing and protecting, but he has no time to be an involved dad, he is not spending time reading, being creative in a hobby, has a very limited social life with friends, etc. THIIIIIS ! Incredibly relatable. I've dated my fair share of men like this. A man with a balanced work-life style is much more preferable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 04:46 PM
1	Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwise A women might not care about how much you make but you being career-oriented/being in a high-paying job will make you more attractive to her. Literally couldn't give less of a shit as long as they can provide for their own living. Dating career oriented men is hell because all they care to prioritize is work. Dates? Forget about it, they have work or need to rest. Housework? Forget about that too.. they're too exhausted from working to bother. She might not want anyone to "protect" her, but you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 04:42 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. A lot it seems. My co workers spend a lot of their time after work making food for their kids and driving their kids around for appointments and activities. They don't seem to catch much of a break because with work and homework they're working around the clock with maybe an hour or two off spare time a day. I have chronic pain, haven't worked in almost 30 yrs, take medication every day. I do too. Been struggling with Chronic migraine with aura since my mid-teens, and frequently have migraines e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 03:36 PM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Yes I have, and I thought it was pretty funny cause it's so spot on	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:43 PM
3	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Nope. Don't like dogs. They need to be watched after and played with and taken for walks similarly to children. Maybe I could get a cat someday, because they're Independent and can take care of themselves just like me lol. However, I don't feel the particular need to look after another being. It's an additional responsibility, and I feel like I hold enough responsibilities where I work. Why add more..	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:13 PM
6	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. It's absolutely work. What I don't see is why someone who works a lot would wanna deal with kids too. I work a lot and I have co workers who also work a lot. When they're not working they're making dinner, driving their kids to different activities or picking them up, doing other housework etc. I asked how much time they have in a day to relax or to themselves before they sleep and they said they had like one hour or two tops. They barely catch a break. Me, I have like 6-7+ hours to myself after…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 07:10 PM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Having kids in general is its own set of problems. As someone who's never felt the slightest interest in having children, I don't get this obsession over having children. Like they're just gonna be a huge time, energy and general resource drain like you're pointing out, for both men and women. Not only is the time you're mentioning the highest earning years for men but also women. Why throw that all away for endless doctor and school appointments like you say, regardless of age	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:58 PM
6	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Its even better to not have children, to have more energy, especially if you're a woman. Nothing more tiresome and exhausting than having to deal with kids and work. As a woman myself I don't feel the particular need to drain all my energy and ensure life force on kids and work for the next coming years. Working is exhausting enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:45 PM
6	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. That's how I've been feeling ever since I was 18 and could legally drink lol. I'm 25 now and never felt like I had the energy to deal with children having to deal with school, studies and now full time work. Some people have the energy for kids. Some of us just don't, and never did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:42 PM
6	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Yet still a sizeable chunk Also don't underestimate that a lot of women simply don't care to have children young. A lot of women who eventually end up wanting children, end up wanting them later in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:39 PM
12	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Evolutionary pick up artists lmfao. Can we just call RPs that from now on...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:37 PM
3	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. I'm childfree. I don't give a shit if men who want kids don't want me after I'm 35.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:34 PM
2	Societal females have gone too far. Just came across this post and lol its true. I can cook and clean and I don't want to get married and I'm childfree. Cooking and cleaning are basic life skills that everyone should know! Its nothing special, unless you're a highly trained and skilled professional chef or cleaner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 06:52 AM
2	Non virgin girls aren't worth it Yeah seems so.	/r/AllPillDebate	09/01/23 04:59 PM
3	Non virgin girls aren't worth it And you're sexually pure and virtuous lmao	/r/AllPillDebate	09/01/23 04:38 PM
2	Non virgin girls aren't worth it Yeah I think you're onto something. Either that or they're hardcore tradcons or/and religious.. or perhaps sexually repressed. Who knows. It could also be jealousy I think. Like so many guys here wanna be having sex obviously as that's part of what the RP is about, finding women to have sex with and improve your chances with women. Yet, since a lot of them struggle to do that, it seems they resent or hate the ones who get to have sex, like the chads and the sexually promiscuous women.	/r/AllPillDebate	09/01/23 04:36 PM
2	Non virgin girls aren't worth it Oh no what shall I do I feel so offended and attacked /s First off.. femininity doesn't really have anything to do with virginity, neither does masculinity have anything to do with it either. Also not every woman strives to be feminine. There's women who prefer being more masculine. Like myself. And ok, so what if they're slutty and impure? Not everyone cares to be be a virgin. Not everyone minds being slutty or impure. I may be that myself, and do what? I don't care and I don't want to be with …	/r/AllPillDebate	09/01/23 04:32 PM
3	Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guys 2nd this. Would love to see a separate thread on the topic !	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 04:23 PM
1	Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guys As if men don't make distinctions between the hookup and relationship gals. Hell I know guys I'd consider both and I have been forth coming about that so none are lead on. The guy I want a relationship with has been told I want a relationship with them, but since they're not willing to offer me what I want, I hook up with the sex guy who I've told is a sex guy. I'm also his sex gal. Nothing demeaning about it so long as everyone is open about their intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 04:20 PM
7	Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe him You honestly don't sound that bad of a dating Prospective. Yes autism may make things difficult for you, but the fact that you're willing to socialize and not a hermit definitely makes it easier for you to meet new people and women. Also, everyone has their own sense of humor. Just because some people don't get it dont mean no one will. You should think more positively about yourself and don't be so self deprecating. You can always find some interesting hobbies to connect with others through, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 01:38 PM
4	Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe him I don't actually know anyone. Even the unnatractive autistic guy I went to school with who chronically stunk really bad, and who couldn't read social cues and went to prison as an adult somehow has a girlfriend. How I don't know, but she isn't ugly looking or anything. Not attractive either but completely average. So I don't think I actually know anyone who's unsuccessful that way. Another introverted shy and quiet guy from school got married. Granted he was Christian.. The guys I thought would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 01:24 PM
1	What does the word misogyny mean? Basically true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 10:11 AM
1	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Lol true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 06:38 PM
0	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Yes actually. I know too many people who let the fear and paranoia of illness stop then from living their lives and barricading themselves inside their door.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 03:06 PM
1	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Depends what you're scared of which is pretty individual. Personally I'd gladly have a one time abortion over having to support a child for the next 18 years. Granted, I really dislike and don't want kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 01:59 PM
-1	Is this a looksmatched couple? The dude would look pretty great if he dressed up. Maybe got a different haircut The girl is just a basic pretty girl.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/01/23 11:44 AM
2	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity I don't. I'm just not particularly scared of it and don't see the chances for worst case scenarios that likely. I don't find living life in fear of them helpful personally, so to each their own. I don't feel the particular need to protect my health any more than I do. It's not like I'm a pornstar or sex worker who has sex with hundreds of men lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 09:47 AM
2	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Not particularly scared of them so long as they're not deathly and can be treated and tested for. I have better things to do than life my life in fear. Infertility would be great as I'm childfree and want to be sterilized anyway, so that's the least of my worries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 09:40 AM
2	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Not particularly no. In more afraid of pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 08:32 AM
3	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity It should be the opposite really, regarding pregnancy at least. If you fuck up BC as a woman you can abort. If you fuck up BC as a guy you're fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 11:38 PM
3	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity There's birth control. I don't like the feeling of a condom and find the whole ordeal of condoms rather clumsy. If I don't make the guy wear a condom it's because of that. I'm not afraid of pregnancy. If the birth control which I take religiously fail, then i abort. I also regularly test for pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 11:36 PM
5	What are signs that a woman does not get men? I live with a roommate like that and she told the roomies at a house meeting that we needed to be nicer to each other and stop Bullying. All I do is just messing around with my other roomie having fun cause we're BFs. She doesn't get it.. even after months living together.. I also find it super odd that people conflate appearances with personalities. They're not the same!! My brother is an engineer, he's tall, skinny and fit and good looking. However he also have a very intense personality and i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:47 PM
15	What are signs that a woman does not get men? It's a good strategy as a man-repellant. Like if I wanna piss of a guy or make him disinterested, I'm just super cunty and they fuck off lol. It's the opposite you should do if you wanna actual attract a man though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:40 PM
12	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? Someone with a high libido obviously wanna have lots of sex. If they don't get that from one guy, obvious they're gonna get it from someone else. It's either that or deprive themselves. What do you think they're gonna choose?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:28 PM
16	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? Obviously he shouldn't do that. Obviously he should find someone with a similar libido or else he will likely be sexually dissatisfied which will negatively impact the relationship. The solution for men and women who feel the need to taste every flavor, is to get with men and women who want to do the same. It's a matter of compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:01 PM
2	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood What about childfree people? Do I hit the wall at 25 if I get sterilized? Not everyone is looking for the fertility quality or a partner to have kids with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 06:27 PM
9	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood I've noticed the same trend, but people who want or especially who like or have kids are offended by the fact. Guess it hits a sore spot/insecurity in those who lost or who will likely lose their health/beauty to kids. It's no wonder that women without kids are statistically of better health though. Pregnancy and birth is inherently damaging to the the body, whetter people like it or not. It's also scientifically proven to age you and change your DNA.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 06:18 PM
14	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood I'm 25. In my early 20s I was desperate to be in relationships so put up with a lot of nonsense BS. I don't anymore. My dating pool shrank considerably. I'm also childfree. I value my health and appearance. I don't have time for exhausting dudes or exhausting kids. Screw settling down. I'd choose the same too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 06:11 PM
1	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. How would you describe women which chose to spend their days with cats? Depends. Some of them are probably those things while some are probably quite content. But you're right, you can't shame people into acting how you want. As someone who considers themselves decently attractive and smart, I'd much rather stay alone than be with a man below my league, and so would likely other women. I don't need a man. Though a man in my League would definitely add to my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 07:03 PM
2	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. Women aren't as desperate to have sex because women have lower sex drives overall, so yeah idk about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:08 PM
0	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. Bingo lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:08 PM
14	This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out. You really think men would prefer a fake doll over a real woman? Yeah I don't think so. Even if that was the case, it's not a loss for women, because women such as myself at least, have no interest in being with men who are more interested in a fake doll. So imo it's win win for everyone. The ones too socially incompetent or unattractive or lazy etc to get girlfriends, get a fake girlfriend and sex partner and the ones who got what it takes to be with a real women, would choose a real woman all …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 04:07 PM
2	Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking woman That's the confidence speaking..she may not be, but confidence compensates for much more than you'd think	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:46 PM
1	Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking woman Depends on what metrics you use, and everyone got their own system. I'd rank her 6 or 7 if generous	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:45 PM
-5	Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking woman Wow I'm genuinely surprised /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 11:37 PM
5	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? I wish. Women like this, like myself, look for very specific men. Like, take myself, if a guy is fuzzy about what he wants from a relationship to extend his reach and appear accomodating to all sorts of women and doesn't have any particular relationship wishes and appears agreeable to anything without any particular relationship stance just to get a girlfriend, then career and childfree women who know exactly what they want will skip past these guys. If you're very upfront about what you want fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 11:19 PM
7	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? Valid point lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 11:10 PM
1	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? If you live in the US lol. Luckily the entire world isn't the US. Personally I don't get the US food addiction, but I suppose you could blame the US government for allowing addictive substances that might as well be drugs in your food. (I'm honestly surprised there hasn't been an uprising or riots due to this but I guess people enjoy eating themselves to death.. anyway,) Thank God a lot of those crap substances are banned where I live. As a woman I don't get how women get fat. Soon as I put on a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 11:01 PM
7	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? I hope you're joking. Pretty much all my cousins got girlfriends, houses and kids after 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:56 PM
17	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? How about marry a skinny childfree woman? (That's gonna be me in a few years if I'm still single. Yes we exist). Or a skinny career woman who's waiting to have children? Like whoever thinks they only have two options with women over 30 has a severely damaged intelligence processor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:54 PM
1	Men aren’t attracted to real women anymore Anyone obsessing about their body/bodies is insecure. What I don't get is why they can't just DGAF what other people's opinions are and just be confident in their own bodies. Hell, my body isn't perfect either, but I've never been afraid to show it off, because I know my body is good because I decide it is so instead of looking for other people to tell me and approve it is so. Not rocket science. Also you don't need a perfect body if you can rock the one you have with confidence and accept it fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 06:57 AM
1	QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship? Actually it isn't, but then I'm a confectionary snob so yeah.. to each their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 10:28 PM
1	QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship? Exactly. It isn't about the gift itself. It's about the effort and considerations put into it. Some guys seem to completely miss that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 07:02 PM
3	QFW: What do you consider "the bare minimum" in a relationship? As a florist I'd be highly unimpressed if a guy bought me cheap grocery store flowers. If he brought me proper high quality roses or a bouquet from the local flower shop? I'd be more impressed, though that doesn't require that much effort either, but it shows the guy isn't being lazy and cheap. If a guy were to truly impress me with flowers, he'd pick out the flowers and colors he knew I'd like and have the florist put them together for me, or better yet, put them together in an arrangement hims…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 06:59 PM
5	[Meta] Add a new rule: "Read posts before you reply" That's a fair criticism. Personally I reply to both the title and the text, to make sure all is addressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 02:34 PM
1	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Maybe I'm just the usual exception who don't care that much..I'm happy as long as a guy can take care of himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 08:27 PM
2	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Oh God. That's awful. Glad everything turned out for the better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 05:44 PM
4	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Well there's a reason for his username lol I highly doubt he'd stay with an abusive and cheating wife instead of divorcing himself. Hypocrites gonna hypocrite	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 04:16 PM
1	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? For women who can provide well for themselves, and especially for women who also don't want kids (most women nowadays don't want many kids nowadays anyway.. which is why birth rates are dropping), a man being able to provide isn't nearly the carrot it used to be for women who date, and I think a lot of women nowadays put a lot more weight on other factors as well above just being a good provider since they technically don't need a provider anymore. If a man said "I have a career in X" that's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 01:03 PM
3	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? I wish more men had this mindset. If a woman is with you because she wants to be, not just cause she needs your money, she will stay with you, whetter you have money to give her or not, because she wants you, not your money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:54 PM
8	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? It's my favorite thing about becoming an adult. I can buy whatever I want and people can STFU cause they can't do shit about it. My money, my choice how to spend it. If I was a SAHM I couldn't just randomly buy myself a pair of almost 200$ sneakers like I just did. I'd have to consult my partner and they'd have to agree to the purchase and if they didn't, no new sneakers for me, bleh..	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:53 PM
5	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Hm why don't you go be a SAHD? Clearly you'd much rather be financially dependent on a woman than be dependent on a boss	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:45 PM
2	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Glad you didn't have the kid with your ex. Too many women aren't considerate enough of who they have kids with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:41 PM
3	Men say they want the good old days back. But were women truly happier back when the norm was a SAHM? Or did they just not have the ability to leave and were more tolerant than women now? Advice from men to women is to not waste time pursuing higher education and to use their youth to find a husband. First assumption: Women want a husband, if not now, then eventually What if I don't want a husband? What if I want a partner for life, but recognize that breakups can and do happen, so choose to remain unmarried with a partner so we both can leave each other if we are no longer happy with each other without the hassle of divorce. Second assumption: Women who don't get married pursue …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:40 PM
-1	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? Obviously feminism isn't at fault for obesity, but there's certainly a "you-go-girl-attitude" that feminists promote, even regarding things that aren't healthy, such as obesity. There's definitely people who call themselves feminists and who promote Obesity as being liberating, empowering and beautiful, because to them feminism mean being liberated to do whatever the hell they want, whetter its good for them or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 09:16 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread ehh I find dogs annoying.. can't take care of themselves like a cat can I prefer boys who can take care of themselves who don't need to be constantly watched and who can be left to their own and who can feed themselves and don't follow you like a puppy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 08:25 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread She's got a few points and is entitled to her opinion but her communication skills are terribly poor. She could've voiced her own opinion in a much more delicate eloquent way without being offensive. Like yeah natural beauty is great, and lots of makeup isn't good for your skin, and yeah some women use it to hide their insecurities and the makeup industry clearly profits on that... 0/0 would assign her as a public speaker	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 08:23 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you mean everyone should be like her cause she's healthy and fit then yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 08:17 PM
2	found this on terriblefacebookmemes and the comments are a little disappointing Why does it even matter on an individual level? I mean, surely you and no one else will be around to see your genes in the works in a few hundred Years? And anyways, shouldn't people have kids since they want to see them grow up now and not just to "pass down their genes"? Idk I'm just saying this as a woman who don't want kids and who couldn't care less for modern feminism. I don't want kids. I don't care whetter my genes are passed down, and surely, a lot of men and women don't have kids, beca…	/r/AntiFeminists	26/12/22 07:09 PM
1	If you don't like that the girl you're seeing used to be promiscuous, just find another girl Gotcha. They're hypocrites then. I'd say sway from these kinda women if I was a guy. Not that there's anything in wanting a stable guy with resources, but you should be bringing your own stability and resources to be fair. But then again, not all women are fair like that, and some guys are so desperate they're willing to hand over their hard earned money for some pretty eye candy who can sexually please them. It's sorta pathetic but hey, not my Circus not my ride so who am I really to judge	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 12:54 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread There's nothing to say. She either wants your money or a relationship or a monetary relationship. You want to fuck. You're fundamentally incompatible. The only thing you can say is lies to try and trick her into fucking you, which isn't immoral if she's trying to trick you. Good luck lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 05:24 PM
2	If you don't like that the girl you're seeing used to be promiscuous, just find another girl I don't even get why someone who's been promiscuous wanna be with someone who judges them for it. I don't wanna be in relationships with dudes who don't wanna date me cause I got short blue hair, and I don't shame them for not wanting to date me. That's their preference and they're fully entitled to it just as I have my own preferences that I am entitled to have. What I don't get is why people go after people they don't share basic preferences or values with. If you're not traditional, why the f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 05:10 PM
0	Debating with people who literally deny the “harsh” realities of behaviour that TRP let’s men know about is a waste of your time I pretty much mostly agree with all your points of views. People change. People's desires change. It's incredibly naive and foolish to think people will remain the same for life and want the same things in relationships for life and have the same sexual, physical and emotional desires for life. Sometimes people's desires remain the same, sometimes they don't. That's not a red pill revelation. That's just an obvious fact that people who wish things were differently deny. That's why marriage and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 11:43 AM
3	Q4W: What do you think of a dude doesn't try to escalate to full sex the first night? people here are too awkward to do this naturally Basically this. Only advice I can give as a former hella awkvard person (who got called out for being so awkvard others could feel my awkwardness) out there is put yourself in the situations you feel uncomfortable with but wanna be in until you're comfortable with them. The more you do something the better you get at it, the more comfortable you are in your own skin and the more comfortable guys and gals are around you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:34 PM
0	Q4W: What do you think of a dude doesn't try to escalate to full sex the first night? Nah.. dudes who are socially conscious and aware and can read situations well can feel and see and read when things are natural or not. The guys who need literal instructions, are, sorry to say, the socially illiterate and analphabetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:30 PM
1	Q4W: What do you think of a dude doesn't try to escalate to full sex the first night? B unless we're really hitting it off, then A. If we're both vibing and the sexual Chemistry is sparkling like fine wine then A. C if he can't read the signs and act awkvard or doesn't feel comfortable yet. D, it basically depends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:27 PM
5	If you want to marry someone, what n-count would you tell them you have? Lol truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:27 PM
-2	If you want to marry someone, what n-count would you tell them you have? I wouldn't change it cause it's irrelevant. Any dude who thinks it's even remotely relevant isn't relevant dating material anyway, to me. It's like asking, if you want to marry someone, how many times have you rode a horse, hiked a mountain, drove a car, made a very fancy dinner, run a marathon.. Like who fucking cares if you've done something one time or a million.. it just tells you what a person is into or not, and if you ain't into someone who's gone on a million hikes cause they're a profes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:25 PM
4	“Female sexuality is responsive” I just tell dudes I wanna fuck them if U wanna fuck them. No time to beat around the bush. I mean, I could be dead Tomorrow, so who has time for games. Imagine missing out cause you were dumb enough to play hard to get	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:04 PM
3	What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing? Me too. Like way to disempower yourself. People who believe that kinda stuff don't take responsibility over their own Agency and thus do end up living at the end at the mercy of women. It's a self fulfilling prophecy, enforced by themselves, to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 11:11 PM
3	What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing? Victim mentality. Focus on what's good in life and empowering, cause wallowing in self -pity is only gonna make your life worse and more miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 11:04 PM
3	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? If I lived in one of those states I'd get the hell out before moving in with someone, and if I was a guy I'd get a vasectomy.. and if that wasn't an option I'd rather remain single	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 09:46 PM
11	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? I don't know why its so difficult to realize people can have someone to go through life with without getting married. Like it's 2022. No one has to marry to have a life partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 09:02 AM
1	The idea of a wife / girlfriend / fwb makes you happy. This is a delusion. I just offered my own POV. Don't see what's wrong with that	/r/AllPillDebate	18/12/22 12:41 AM
2	The idea of a wife / girlfriend / fwb makes you happy. This is a delusion. I agree with your first paragraph. Being with someone completely agreeable is boring and dull, nevermind the fact that its annoying as fuck. My roomate dumped a dude, and the dude so desperate to get back with her that he does everything for her. She's just using him for sex and company. Point is.. you have a point at first, but not for the reason you cited. Life can suck and not suck, girlfriend or no girlfriend. However, sex doesn't magically fix everything. It's like saying love is all you ne…	/r/AllPillDebate	18/12/22 12:29 AM
2	Women don't make dating appealing to the below average men Are they supposed to? Become who you wanna attract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 06:19 PM
6	Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women. Of course, but just cause they're worth talking to don't mean they're worth getting into relationships with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 08:52 AM
9	Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women. Also the fact that many women are super picky means a lot of women will be single Hell I'm one of those super picky women who's never really had a boyfriend cause no one's been worth being in a relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 06:44 AM
5	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious You can believe in the core principles of socialism and also the core principles of capitalism. Like democratic socialist countries are capitalistic but also have social policies. Me personally, I believe in capitalism but also social policies. One can acknowledge the Importance of both. Like for socialism to even work everyone who's capable have to produce value (capital) for society. Also that some things we can produce are more valuable than other things. That's just how it is. You can't argu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:07 PM
1	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious Idk why guys think women are all sexually conservative and like nice guys. I'm a woman and I'm definitely not. This seems like such an obvious duh to me as a sexually liberal woman. Nice guys often come across as desperate and agreeable simps, and that just isn't attractive. idk why guys would think all women would want that. Makes no sense. Obviously not all women want the same but yeah. Idk but if you ask me these guys who think women all want nice guys, must lack social awareness and intellig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:57 PM
6	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious Confidence plays a large role in whetter you get someone or not. If you believe you can have something/someone and go all in with full faith it will work out, then you got far bigger chances then if you don't at all. Delusion or not, people who believe in themselves against all odds are the ones who are the most likely to succeed and go places. There's ugly people with hot people, which proves my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 10:39 PM
1	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? I won't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 12:19 AM
1	Why makes someone undateable? Someone who don't make me their priority. I don't expect men I date to make me their top priority, but I do expect them to dedicate enough time to us that we can spend together. If they're "too busy" with work, friends, family or any other hobby and won't make time for me they're undatable. Also, what makes someone undatable is those who cannot keep their word or promises. I don't want to date someone who won't show up to a date they agreed to on time. It's a deal breaker. Also, unwillingness to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 09:35 PM
2	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? I've been raised by two parents actually. They're still married and living together on the remote ass farm I grew up on to this day, though they are more like roommates and friends who share the same roof and who don't really have much in common and who are just completely different personalities. I don't really get why they're together, other than having built a life together and having the religious belief that they're supposed to stay together. Maybe they love each other idk but they act and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 02:39 PM
0	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? The only reason people make and keep connections is because those connections benefit them somehow. When those connections stop being physically, emotionally, sexually, financially etc fulfilling or beneficial, people part ways. Have you never ditched a bad friend? Or left groups you didn't feel offer you something? I'm sure you've ended friendships and ended communication with acquaintances and groups you didn't feel like offered you something, or who was draining to be around. What would make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 02:23 PM
4	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Right. I just think a lot of women go for men they feel physical and sexual Chemistry with, not necessarily men that are good looking. For me personally, it don't matter at all if someone is conventionally attractive if I don't feel drawn to their energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 12:30 PM
-1	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Exactly, why bother? Personally I think marriage is for people with idealized and delusional fantasies of what relationships are supposed to be like. Marriage isn't even a requirement for people to be in happy relationships. People are gonna stay together regardless of being married or not if they're truly happy. Nah because stupid people believe in marriage. Stupid people have children with stupid people because they idealize the picket white fence fantasy. If people stopped being delusional th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 11:32 AM
7	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Of course. Who wanna be stuck with people they ain't happy with? Sure as hell not me, so I can't fault them for doing that. I also don't see why divorce being high is so bad. It just means people don't stay in marriages they ain't happy with and go pursue happiness elsewhere instead. That in and of itself is a good thing in my book. You can argue that circumstances around divorce are more complicated than that but it doesn't change the fact that divorce is essentially people pursuing their own h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 11:22 AM
11	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Eh you're probably right that's what a lot of people are content with, but there's also a lot of people who aren't content with that. I'd be bored out of my mind as a stay at home wife and mother for instance. I know cause I spent a significant amount of not working before I started working and I would never go back to not working again. You're probably right about the marriage part. However you forget that not everyone wants that kind of relationship. If I'm in a relationship with someone I wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 11:14 AM
18	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? I agree with physical attraction being important. However someone doesn't have to be good looking to be physically or sexually attractive. So I disagree that it's the physical appearance that matters most, but the physical chemistry definitely matters. I've slept with a lot of guys with odd and unnatractive appearances who I had the craziest sexual and physical chemistry with. If you're ugly or odd looking, you can still luck out if your energy is attractive and appealing to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 11:09 AM
2	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? If I may ask, from your POV as someone who's neurodivergent, what exactly makes it hard to date someone who's neurotypical for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 07:41 PM
1	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? To me personally. I can't speak for everyone else. Personally there's nothing more unnatractive than socially awkvard people who can't be smooth and pleasant in social settings and in general. Social intelligence, and awareness is a must in my book as it makes it so much easier and relaxed to communicate and be around them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 07:35 PM
1	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single Honestly you should just ignore all these loosers opinions. What you believe about your own life reflects how you experience your own life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 06:51 PM
1	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single If men only commit to women because they want kids, and not cause they want the women they commit to, that's pretty tragic imo, but that's coming from someone who wants long term commitments and also don't want kids. I don't want a guy to be with me cause he needs my body to produce a child for him. That sounds gross doesn't it? Like, don't you want to be wanted for you and not just for what your body can produce? Or are all women who marry just doomed to be with guys who wanna use their bodies …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 06:49 PM
3	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. Not surprised. However those with more liberal values should get together with others with more liberal values. Marriage is more a conservative value in my opinion. To everyone who don't say don't marry liberal people. Yeah maybe don't, but also there's nothing wrong in two people with liberal values living together and not getting married. That's pretty much what a lot of people in my country are doing and its working for them. No one is gonna steal your assets if you keep them to yourself, if …	/r/AllPillDebate	05/12/22 09:45 PM
9	Casual dating is a self-harm and the culture surrounding it is poison. Change my mind. Willing to debate either gender from either side of the isle. Valid point. I'm one of those people you are talking about. While I sure would like to live with a partner someday, I don't want marriage and I'm CF, and to find that like minded partner, I have to explore what being with them is like before I commit to them.I don't want to committ to someone before knowing we are compatible, and dating someone casually let's me explore that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 01:44 PM
1	Casual dating is a self-harm and the culture surrounding it is poison. Change my mind. Willing to debate either gender from either side of the isle. People can casually date and eventually decide they want to date each other more seriously. It also puts less pressure on a relationship having to go a certain way and you can let it flow naturally into a more serious relationship, instead of forcing it. Lots of people have found long term commitments from starting out casual, and I don't think that should be dismissed. Obviously that doesn't work for everyone, but it works for some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 01:40 PM
0	It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE men Unlike many others I actually have a job I enjoy. I'm a florist who make floral arrangements for a living which is actually a rather fun and creative job. Other than that, I hate being around kids, and I'm childfree, so yeah. I worked in a kindergarten and I quickly learned having children isn't for me. Also done a ton of research on children. They're a huge financial, emotional, physical drain on people. I have no desire to have a family that drains me. (I drained my own parents physically and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 09:42 AM
1	Women getting most of the man's assets after divorce is good for traditional women Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 09:28 AM
2	It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE men I would if I wasn't so focused on work, which has become my priority after wasting a lot of time on dudes. If a man like that shows up, great, but I'm not gonna waste my time looking for such a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 12:05 AM
9	CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like. Some guys are so enthusiastic they don't even wait until you're properly wet or turned on. That's how you fuck it up. Dry sex is ouch sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 10:16 PM
2	What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings? Unnecessary and expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 07:28 PM
2	Women getting most of the man's assets after divorce is good for traditional women I think what's best for women overall, including traditional women, is to not be so traditional that they stay at home and don't work. Working gives you financial independence..everyone should work whetter they're a man or woman or whetter they want to take care of kids or not. If you can't take care of yourself as an adult, and have chosen to deliberately rely on another adult to provide for you even if you're capable of working, then you've made a really poor financial choice. Imo men and wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 05:35 PM
6	It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE men I've never liked baby faced man. I'm a 25 year old woman. All the men my age look baby faced. No offense to them they're just not my type. I prefer someone 28+ at least, and someone big/masculine as well preferably, as in OPs description. I don't care about men going to the gym. Just look like a man, not a boy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 04:18 PM
6	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. As a leftist woman, I do not object. I actually agree. Granted, it's not hard to agree when I don't have conservative values like highly valuing LT commitment. Those who are gonna struggle with this post are those with both conservative and liberal values, who want their piece of cake on both ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 09:11 PM
2	"Girls are not vending machines you put kindness coins into until sex falls out." "Gals are not vending machines when you put kindness sex into until coins fall out" I just love reversals.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/12/22 08:21 PM
2	People should be picky and have incredibly high standards Kinda agree actually	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 10:36 PM
2	People should be picky and have incredibly high standards Right. Guess some people are fucked. In which case, their energy is spent better elsewhere then in the dating game, and can be spent better than complaining too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 10:27 PM
7	People should be picky and have incredibly high standards One thing I've learned is that we can't change people, only ourselves. Sometimes making people want to date us, requires self improvement and self change. I think many who complain just aren't willing to put in the work. I know personally I'm single cause I'm not putting in the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 06:08 PM
1	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? oh I fully agree with you. Anyone with a phone in their pocket has access to the www and a search engine which they can use to attain knowledge and learn about endless topics and things. I dropped out of college, well uni myself cause it was an awful snoozefest and dreadfully tiresome. Most of the theories they discussed I was already familiar with or knowledgeable about. It was a lot of repetition of knowledge I had already gained and nothing actually useful, and I was paying for that.. absolut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 12:14 AM
2	Women: why do you think being a male virgin is a redflag? Being shy, introverted is a bad thing? It's a bad thing to those women like myself who don't want to be with shy or introverted men. I'm not saying that's everyone. It is so absurd that you put too many options, and it is exactly because this prejudice is based on nothing It's based on preference. If preference is a bad form of prejudice or discrimination I don't know what to tell you. I wouldn't date hardcore soccer fans either, cause all they chat about is soccer, which I find really annoying …	/r/AllPillDebate	25/11/22 07:20 PM
1	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Don't have kids. Cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 06:19 AM
2	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Does that make me upper class for earning 45k a year as a single person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 12:10 AM
2	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Did you ever consider that women use men as dildos though? Cause I've done that. Insult failed. It goes both ways. Also, principles is just sticking to your beliefs	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 12:08 AM
5	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Of course..stupid slave minded people produce more slaves for the economy.. yay solution.. let's just make people stupider so they do things that are detrimental to themselves as individual for the benefit of society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 11:52 PM
1	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Norwegian woman here. Even with all the support from the social system here there's nothing that could convince me to have kids, because I know better because I have educated myself, through extensive research, thanks to my browser friend google, that having a child would be inherently stupid of me. Nevermind that, food, gas and electricity prices are through the roof now.. It would be financial suicide to have kids here in this current climate, even if I wanted to, which I don't because kids wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 11:47 PM
12	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? In other words, stupid and ignorant people reproduce. Hell, I could include my own parents too. Me and my siblings have drained them, physically, mentally, emotionally and financially through our upbringing. No way I'm dumb enough to do the same to myself when I see what number having 3 kids did on my parents.. and that's just 3... Imagine the drain having more kids would be on the parents, even with financial support and what not	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 11:40 PM
5	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? Give parents more financial support. Nothing if the people are voluntarily childless aka childfree like myself. I wouldn't have children if I got my own Lambo, private Chef or mansion. I wouldn't do it for all the money in the world. I just don't want kids to be in my life cause they're annoying as hell and would ruin my quality of life. (Loud noises trigger aura migraines in me.. and kids would be a major stressor that would lessen my quality of life significantly) Also, being childless is a sy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 11:34 PM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? Let them be delusional then.. it's not like it's a loss to not get to date delusional women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 10:44 AM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? It's not fairytale attitude to want the best partner you can get. Yeah, some people want better then they can realistically get, but most people don't just want to settle for anyone. They want the best match they can get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:31 PM
1	Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members? It's the patriarchy bitch /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 06:29 PM
4	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? Exactly. Which would also imply men don't care about being with the best of women. They'll rather take what they can get than stay single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 06:13 PM
3	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? The entire point was to tell on myself aka agree with you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 03:36 PM
5	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? Or maybe women often don't just want sex/relationships as badly. As a woman I will pursue a guy, but only in the super rare occasions I actually want to be with a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 07:09 AM
6	Do you actually receive tons of flirting, orbiting and puppying attempts by guys every day just by you going about with your daily routine, hence validating the frustration written by men online about women being utterly spoiled for choice? But it seemingly is the end goal for a lot of men	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 04:04 PM
4	Do you actually receive tons of flirting, orbiting and puppying attempts by guys every day just by you going about with your daily routine, hence validating the frustration written by men online about women being utterly spoiled for choice? Even if it would be harder I don't necessarily believe women would be singing a different tune, because women have a lower overall sex drive and testosterone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 04:04 PM
2	Do you actually receive tons of flirting, orbiting and puppying attempts by guys every day just by you going about with your daily routine, hence validating the frustration written by men online about women being utterly spoiled for choice? IRL no.. online and on dating apps? The simps are simping hard. I work in a funeral flower shop so my customer base is middle aged and elderly people for the most buying flowers for their deceased loved ones. Not exactly a lot of flirting opportunities. I'm also hella alternative in my style, so I repel your average ordinary joe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 03:57 PM
4	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? Right so what they want is want decision power over you, or essentially the one with more power in the relationship. In my experience that often creates an uneven power dynamic where one can easily take advantage of the other and it only really works with complete trust in one another. Not a thing I'd personally wanna bet on after having been in uneven dynamics myself that eventually turned out abusive where one party ended up taking advantage of the other.. by all means, people are free to have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 08:15 PM
2	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? What about single women? Who are supposed to provide for them? What if a woman remains single forever? Who provides?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 06:05 PM
4	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? Yeah whats up with that? Most women nowadays do both..hell I do. I provide for myself, I trust my own judgement, I do as I wish, I run the home I live in, I manage my own chores and comforts as well as home work. No kids cause don't want them but yeah I'm basically doing all the roles, be they supposedly feminine or masculine because that's what it takes in modern society to be able to take care of yourself as a single man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 06:04 PM
10	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? In a world where capitalism rules, embracing your nurturing side over your go-getter career side isn't exactly advisable. As a woman myself, who want to have financial independence and freedom, the only really way to have that, is to be a career woman. Embracing my nurturing side wouldn't gain me financial independence or freedom, unless I worked in a dog shelter I guess, but I don't know if that's financially sustainable to do for a living. Of course there's working in a kindergarten. Women can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 06:00 PM
2	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? Yep. I'm more confident than ever with guys due to having so much experience. No regrets there. My only regret is not having sex with more people because I'm missing out what could potentially be mind blowing sex in all kinds of cool scenario's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 05:06 PM
1	Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes. Bi woman myself, and yeah I don't follow gender roles one bit as I'm childfree and an independent woman making my own coin. Majority of problems brought up here aren't really issues for me personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 09:16 PM
1	How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy? I'd probably dump them cause sex is pleasure and pleasure is life, but then again I'm a hedonistic women and pleasure is ridiculously important to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 08:41 PM
1	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair Nothing to prove. Life ain't fair. Never was, never will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 04:13 PM
5	What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why? Interesting studies. I don't particularly regret having as many partners I've had despite being a woman. I view bad and good sexual experiences as lessons, as lived experience. It all taught me what I want and don't want from partners and it makes me who I am today. I really don't understand regretting sex. It's just another lesson in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 04:59 PM
16	What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why? I guess that explains why men may be with promiscuous women, because the chances are that he's far more promiscuous himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 07:01 AM
2	Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every man It matters less if you won't have kids. I don't have or want kids. I don't care about a man having that high a social status or the high ability to provide. All that matters is that he can take care of himself just as I take care of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 06:32 AM
1	Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every man it would likely mean the best outcome for herself and that child This shouldn't make men feel as offended as it does. If they care about their own potential offspring, they should be able to provide the best outcome for a potential child	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 09:46 PM
5	Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every man I'm a picky woman myself, but that aside, it makes sense for women to be picky from a biological perspective. Being pregnant takes enormous physical toll on the female body and used to be extremely dangerous before modern medicine. If I was a woman in prehistoric times I probably would have been even more selective than I am today, because I'd make sure the man could take care of me and the child. Nowadays though, women don't have to be so picky due to birth control and being able to provide the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 09:43 PM
1	Most women on OLD are low quality. I live in a city of 50k people and can't really afford to live in a bigger city. I want the guy to be vegan or at minimum vegetarian cause I want to be with someone who values something that I'm really passionate about, which is animal rights. People who eat normally, and Especially a lot of men tie their masculinity to eating meat. Changing their mind is not easy, I tried and they just say "you're not a real man if you don't eat meat" etc.. Being vegan means he is far more compassionate and car…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 08:52 PM
4	Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't? I'm the same. Unfortunately I live in a Nordic country where most men have blonde or light hair and skin tones too. I'm just not into pale blue eyed blonde haired men, so I'm far more attracted to guys who immigrated to my country from southern countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 08:21 PM
1	Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't? Blonde haired, blue eyed men. I find men with darker features far more appealing. I also am supposed to be attracted to fit men but I couldn't care less. Obviously I'm not into super fat guys but like, a guy being super fit isn't attractive to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 08:20 PM
2	Man vs woman being romantic People have different love languages. I'm a woman who don't care much about being romanced myself. I don't care about being wined or dined (unless you're a chef and make top notch vegan food or take me to a very fancy restaurant that serves vegan food, which is a waste of money imo, and I'm an amazing cook myself so it takes quite a bit to impress me this way). I'm also a florist so I make tons of bouqets and work with flowers every single day, so flowers isn't really that special to me. I also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 10:17 AM
1	best books for "art of seducing men", for women? You don't need books, you need to be confident.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/22 10:03 AM
2	Shows like "Love is Blind" confirm that it's men, not women, who won't commit to a LTR unless she's the more attractive one (or they're the same level). I mean you're basically arguing the case for why I as a woman who want a man of substance shouldn't date men, because they are likely to be more superficial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 12:31 AM
4	Shows like "Love is Blind" confirm that it's men, not women, who won't commit to a LTR unless she's the more attractive one (or they're the same level). I don't get this mentality. If a guy is with me cause he thinks I'm hotter than him then that means I could be going for someone hotter than him that's on my own attractiveness level at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 12:22 AM
6	Most women on OLD are low quality. As a decent woman you get thousands of options from dating apps. If you can't manage to get one man, something is wrong with you either : -You can't keep a man I can. I just choose not to when they're not worth my time. -Your selection process sucks Could be improved but I have decent judgement, at least these days. -You ask too much and bring to little The issue is me bringing too much effort for too little in return, so hardly an issue -You are looking for a man that doesn't not exist BINGO. V…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 10:00 PM
5	Why being an amazing mother is not considered successful? Yup. I absolutely love my independence. Sure I work full time, from 8.30 to 3.30 or 4.30 but then I have a full 7-8 hours of me-time after work, as I rarely sleep before 11pm. What do I do with that time? I grocery shop, I go home, I cook myself amazing dinners that are far better than I get at restaurants because cooking is my hobby, then I take a shower and curl up on the coach or in bed for the rest of the night in cosy clothes and just relax and watch something on Netflix and drink some wine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:14 PM
7	Why being an amazing mother is not considered successful? What I struggle to understand is how it benefits individuals to pass on their genes. In this day and age, having a child is a huge cost and drain on your finances, health and time. Your health, finances, freedom etc etc doesn't benefit from it. It's not like in the old days when children provided for their family and their families actively benefitted from birthing them. We're at a point in time, where having children is actually a really poor strategy to ensure your own survival. If I want to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:08 PM
9	Why being an amazing mother is not considered successful? If a man married her and she got a child, the man would stay next to her even if her looks go down, that's the idea of marriage, because after having a kid it's not about them anymore, it's about the new human been no? Oh sweet summer child /s That's what tired out my parents. Personally I don't believe having kids is healthy to a relationship. It's no longer about the partnership, but the kid(s) third wheeling the relationship for the next 18-20+ years, and taking time, energy and effort away f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:00 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I had a full day course yesterday where i had to sit on my ass for the entire day. I'm used to standing at work all day. Way way less tiring imo. Sitting on my ass makes me feel sleepy as hell	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 11:33 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think i manifested speeding up time. I go to work and suddenly I'm done at work and suddenly i have to sleep.. i feel like I'm living life on fast mode Like i don't even have time to take a break at work cause suddenly I'm done I'll be old before i know it.. i mean half way to fifty woa	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 11:32 PM
7	Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive? Yep. So many men just look dull and tired. Some don't however. My brother for instance has a great sense of fashion, always a fresh haircut that's styled, almost never see him without a clean shave. Always looking kept. I don't know a lot of guys like that. If more guys looked like my brother, that would increase their attractiveness by a lot. Women overall I feel like put more effort into their looks since women lots of women use makeup and have it socially conditioned into them how important b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:58 PM
1	Q4W: Do you think most men are ugly? Do you think most women are attractive? I think a lot of women often appear more attractive cause they put more effort into their appearance with makeup for instance. Without makeup? About the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:48 PM
1	Q4W: What are some red flags in women and which ones do you think you fall under? Blue. It was recently vibrantly green. Next I'm doing bright purple then red then orange then back around the color wheel again lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:41 PM
1	Q4W: What are some red flags in women and which ones do you think you fall under? I'm similar Also childfree 25 Submissive and dominant depending on the mood I'm in Also enjoys gaming, not into anime, but I do like cartoons and Donald Duck. Don't wear feminine clothing either Do wear makeup, but only foundation if I'm having hormonal breakout due to the period, and mascara if I'm feeling fancy. Have a very casual view on sex. Also anti marriage Not much contact with my family. Not cause we got a bad relationship or anything. We just don't have anything in common as they're re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:37 PM
2	Q4W: What are some red flags in women and which ones do you think you fall under? Lol I'lI happily say I'm crazy to guys, when a guy lies to me or don't treat me right, cause I do unleash all verbal hell and fury and crazy that I got on them.. no one gets to treat me wrong, deliberately and get away with it with me just being quiet and meek and just letting it go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:27 PM
6	What is your toxic dating trait? Wholeheartedly disagree. If you feel disrespected, then you should let the person you feel disrespected you know, to give them an opportunity to learn from their mistake and maybe work through the issue together. People don't always realize what they did wrong if all you did was ghost them, and more importantly, they don't get the chance to do things right and make things right with you.. Ghosting is just ignoring a problem, instead of attempting to finding a solution with your date. However, if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 06:05 PM
3	What is your toxic dating trait? I hate people who don't take dates seriously. Doesn't matter if it's friends or anyone. If we make an appointment it's a done deal, and if I'm not sure I can go, I am upfront from the start that it may not be certain I can go, or if I change my mind or don't feel like going anymore. That way, people are informed and know whether I will show up or it is uncertain but if it's uncertain I always try to let them know as far in advance as possible because I don't like to waste people's time because I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 05:58 PM
0	What is your toxic dating trait? I keep trying to make relationships work with people who are lost causes That sunk cost fallacy	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 05:54 PM
1	q4w: Are you proud of your past, and tell everyone about all your bodies? It's like asking if I'm proud of eating food or driving a car regularly... I'd say proud isn't the word	/r/AllPillDebate	09/11/22 12:07 AM
1	Ladies, let me explain why high body counts are bad for you, okay? Life experience gets to us all. People can become jaded by missing out too.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/11/22 08:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dudes in branded polo shirts and white jeans and middle side part hair. Cannot stand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:08 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Could I please just go on a dating app and find a guy who doesn't want kids or doesn't have a profile that says maybe someday or "open to it". It's like sorting through a haystack for some unicorn needle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Isn't RP basically just about doing stuff that makes you attractive to women? And a RPs take on what that is,.is different from the BP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:00 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Or women could help the community by not becoming single mothers.. options options	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:59 PM
9	Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD? I never understood body positivity. If you wanna be attractive, you have to make yourself attractive. However I think many people are lazy and entitled nowadays and it doesn't help that people are celebrating laziness or entitlement with body positivity as a "moral" shield to justify it either. That's the issue. People have become socially pressured to accommodate for and accept being unhealthy, because so many are, that it's been normalized. As for being overweight. No excuse for that for the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:40 PM
2	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. Eh. I don't want a provider but hey maybe I'm just an exception like always. Other than that I agree somewhat with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:54 AM
3	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. I'm just saying. My take on this however is that these so called strong independent women want kids, kids needs a home, kids happen to be insanely expensive these days, especially if you have to buy a house or rent a bigger home to house them etc etc, even for a strong independent women, which is why they want a provider. As a childfree woman I don't have to buy into any of this provider bullshit, but I think a lot of the demand for providers stems in a lot of womens desire for children, which i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 10:26 AM
1	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. Then the majority of women aren't very clever are they	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:59 AM
3	Do women care about a man’s sexual past? I'm the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:01 AM
2	Maybe men really are meant to spread their seed? Ever considered it? And zero women is zero resources spent Seems like a resource hack if you ask me	/r/AllPillDebate	05/11/22 09:48 PM
0	Maybe men really are meant to spread their seed? Ever considered it? Why the hell does it even matter? All this "muh bloodline" Like who GAF? Why GAF? You're not gonna care about your bloodline when you're dead anyway smh	/r/AllPillDebate	05/11/22 09:47 PM
1	Maybe men really are meant to spread their seed? Ever considered it? Frankly couldn't care personally. Don't like kids. Don't like the idea of some guy I'm dating, dating me only or mainly or even somewhat just to spread his seed with me. To me as a childfree woman that's a repellent. I'm looking for a dude who don't care for any of this "spreading your seed" nonsense. I'm personally financially, physically,. mentally and emotionally better off without kids as they cost more than the average hobby does, to health, sanity and financial security. In pill debates ev…	/r/AllPillDebate	05/11/22 09:46 PM
2	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. I'm a woman and I'm over it. The only person, I've learned as a hard lesson, that I can rely on to provide for myself the standard of living I want to have, is myself. Men come and go. The only constant in my life is myself. Never rely on anyone else, because the only one you can rely on is yourself. How do I know that? Cause rich men or men with lots of money aren't necessarily any more reliable than your average earning guy. And when you want to leave a partner, you don't want your Standard of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:53 PM
1	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them Even if I didn't ask, I wouldn't be marriage material anyway lol. Whenever men don't meet my needs or give me what I want I want a quick and easy way out of the relationship because I don't want to stick around with someone who won't give me what I want from a relationship. You could call me a serial monogamist cause I've had more relationships than I can count. Marriage is not something I want unless I could be 100% certain that I would he happy with that person for the rest of my life and the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 03:54 PM
2	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. People really need to get over these traditional ideas, and their pride. This is 2022. Having a partner who makes money if you live together helps a lot financially whetter you're a man or woman and make a below to average income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:31 AM
5	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. Living alone as a single person isn't cheap. I'm currently co living in a house with 4 others to save on living costs. Yes, I could live alone, but now I pay 517$ for housing included electricity, water and all. If I were to live alone that would be 800$ at minimum for a tiny loft, electricity not included, likely running me 1000$ a month for the other amenities included. Especially now that electricity prices have been messed up in Europe and people are paying as much if not more in electric bi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:28 AM
3	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. That's just not necessarily true though. My boss and the owner of the place I work is almost a 40 year old mom to multiple kids and she's earning millions. My co workers that are all women in their mid-late 30s also work full time and have kids. One of my women co workers with kids are leaving to start up a business of her own. They've all chased both. They've all done both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:15 AM
1	Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future. I went to art school. Am now a florist and make over 40k a year, which is entirely sustainable as a single person who never wants kids and have a rather low consumption. If I had been realistic I would be working a boring office job sitting on my ass all day in front of a computer screen like everyone else to afraid to pursue their interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:07 AM
1	economics 101 I mean she's basically an escort. She should be on sugar dating apps, not Twitter lol. Plenty of older men willing to pay for a date with an attractive young woman.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/11/22 07:58 AM
4	How do attractive women pick a man to commit to? How? If they vibe with a person, if that person makes them feel good, if they're madly in love, if they have many things in common, shares values, is sexually attracted etc. I don't think it's different than anyone else but as a picky pretty attractive woman myself, I choose who to commit to based on a variety of factors such as these. If someone doesn't check a multitude of boxes I won't commit to them. A guy who feels he doesn't have a lot of options probably won't go for someone who matches a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:58 AM
2	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them I'm childfree so that makes a lot of sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:44 AM
2	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them Right but it's not necessary for a lot of people's survival these days. I also don't understand why we should do things the way it's been done in history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 06:38 PM
1	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them How does it benefit the higher earning partner though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:19 PM
3	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them Thanks for reminding me why I'll never marry. I'll never understand why someone willingly just gives access to their money to someone else like that. I make money, that money is mine and only mine. I don't work as bloody hard as I do just to give it away, well unless we're talking donating to pet rescues lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:17 PM
2	QW: The women who don't participate in casual sex, do you think women like you are unicorns or more common than we men think? They're not unicorns, they just not as loud about it as people who have had sex, either due to insecurity or just they want privacy. As a sex-haver I am loud about it because I like discussing the topic	/r/AllPillDebate	03/11/22 07:00 PM
1	the income pill The appearance of money certainly makes them seem snobbish. If they keep it under wraps and appear as just another average guy, you're right, they're not necessarily snobbish. I just don't like guys who flaunt that they have money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:41 AM
1	the income pill Some certainly want to date me for some weird ass reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:39 AM
3	the income pill Exactly. So many guys think that gifts make up for quality time, but it just doesn't. It's not that I don't value the gifts I get. I just value spending time togheter a 100 times more!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:24 PM
6	the income pill Also consider that some people don't want to "up" their class. I personally don't want to date posh snobby dudes with arrogant attitudes who think they're better than me cause they got money. I honestly find guys like that very unnatractive. I met guys like that in college and they just treated me as if I was a lesser woman because I didn't present as "high class" as they did. So it wasn't for a lack of opportunity I haven't dated guys like that. On tinder too there's many guys of higher class t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:22 PM
7	the income pill Making more money doesn't necessarily make a man better than other men. I've dated wealthy men who are worse as "all" they care about is prioritizing their work and are basically workaholics married to their work. It's honestly horrible. Yeah they got money to offer, but no time to spend quality time togheter or to go on dates because work always gets in the damned way. As a woman, I lose respect for men who prioritize work that much, and I lose even more respect for them when they try to make u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:15 PM
3	the income pill They should try with women who don't need providers, aka women who are childfree and don't want kids who can provide for themselves and don't need a man to provide for them. Me I'm a childfree woman, I earn about 43k a year. I don't need a man who makes a lot of money obviously as I don't have or want kids and I am entirely capable of providing for myself and I don't care about living a lavish lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 04:09 PM
1	How many women expect their partners to do unreasonable amounts of housework? I work a stressful job (physical labor). I don't make a lot of money. What if I dated a person who makes a shit ton more money, but is like a CEO or a manager who also works a stressful job? We'd both have to come home and do a bunch of chores, that is, unless they paid for a maid to get it done. I Doing chores is also just part of life, especially as a single person working a stressful job,. Unless you're rich enough to pay someone else to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 06:26 AM
2	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry I like this take	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:12 PM
10	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Nothing wrong in overestimating your attractiveness. That's where confidence comes from; believing you're hot shit even if you're just average. Me, I may just je average but me believing I'm hot shit gives me so much confidence that I feel like I can attract anyone I want and I usually end up getting exactly who I want to attract. It doesn't matter what others believe about your attractiveness. It matters what you believe, because your beliefs affect how confidently you act, which decides if you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:09 PM
0	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't I get shit on a lot for my controversial takes, my style, the way I talk etc. I've learnt to laugh it off or just ignore it, because people with stupid opinions shouldn't matter, and anyway, people around you get used to it eventually. My father literally tried to bribe me to take my nose piercing out. Now he doesn't even care what I do with my style because he's gotten so used to me doing crazy things to my style, which is why the solution is to normalize something by doing it, because the more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:00 PM
1	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't My motto is DGAF and you're right, having the ability to not give a fuck is hot as fuck, when you own it and aren't insecure about it. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. These are the mottos I wanna live by. Whenever I say this though, I usually get mass hit with downvotes from people telling me that it's not that easy to stop caring about what people around them think. Well, GAF is actually a choice, and choosing to NGAF isn't that hard. You just make the conscious dec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:55 PM
1	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't Why do tattoos and blue hair gets so much hate lol. I think we can all admit that capitalism has its issues, but it also has its benefits. Blue hair.. is just blue. Though there's definitely a point to be made that those who dye their hair blue don't care about male validation (I have blue hair and don't). Obesity is however inherently negative as it's a disease. Tattoos.. well, they have many meanings, from negative, to positive, and obviously there's a wide variety of feminists, some of which …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:49 PM
2	the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren't This was my first thought too. The reason women are putting value in a man's pocketbook as well as her own pocketbook, is because maintaining a good living standard today demands it, particularly for those who also want to have children, because children are NOT cheap to raise in this day and age. A woman making good money on her own simply isn't enough, and especially not if she also has to go on leave while pregnant or to birth the child and nurse the child after birthing. Who will be providin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:35 PM
1	q4w: How much do you care what your future man thinks of your past? I think you're missing the point too. Nothing reduces your chances to Mr right because me right is the right one no matter what you've done or been through. If something reduces my chances with someone, they're mr wrong not mr right.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/22 10:32 AM
1	q4w: How much do you care what your future man thinks of your past? Exactly. If a man has an issue with my past he isn't the man of my dreams or someone I'd wanna commit to long term.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/22 10:29 AM
1	Hot Take: MGTOW promotes women’s safety more than feminism these days. The reason I'm afraid of being called a feminist has nothing to do with me supporting or not supporting sex work, and everything to do with the fact that feminism isn't what it should be, which is egalitarian. If feminism was truly egalitarian, which it can't be because it's a female centric movement, then hypothetically I'd be supporting them. Also, I support sex workers. I support women having a choice, which liberal feminism supports. mysogyny, hate, and murder is “actually feminism” 🙄 Women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 11:17 AM
1	Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves. True. I do actually approach though, but that's when I'm seriously interested in and attracted to someone, which very rarely happens, and when I do, I usually end up having sex with them and then the relationship fizzles out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 10:34 AM
1	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? Couldn't agree more	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 10:35 PM
2	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? I never said that. I just think that kids are better off with parents that wants them and are capable of providing for them. Of course there's issues with adoption but at least the parents consents to care for them which matters a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:52 PM
9	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? Of course I wouldn't tell them.. I don't want to get stuck paying child support for a child I never wanted or consented to having. Fuck that shit. This is also why I sympathize with guys who end up being forced to pay child support for children they never consented to having or providing for. At that point adoption is way better so at least the kid goes to a family who enthistiastically consents to provide for them and has the ability to provide for them. No one should be forced to provide for c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:35 PM
-3	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? I know I just pointed out how your argument was flawed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:33 PM
-4	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? Besides the point. But some pets also destroy your body and your life and some even die from it (dog attacks).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:27 PM
7	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? I absolutely would never ever want children as I'm staunchly childfree, yet it's not a massive fear. I use birth control religiously when I have an active sex life. I take pregnancy tests if I don't get a period on time or if I'm unsure if I used birth control correctly when I had sex. If I were to get pregnant it's a relief that I have access to abortion, so there's no chance in hell I'll end up with a baby when there's birth control, pregnancy tests and abortion, and if I by some magical trick…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:26 PM
1	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? For example, a few people have made the argument that men pay for dates because women potentially get pregnant. It's completely bullshit. I'm a childfree woman. I use birth control carefully. It birth control fails I would happily abort. Men shouldn't have to pay just because I was born with what could be viewed as a biological disadvantage. It's not their fault or anyone's fault that biology is the way it is or works the way it does or makes things unfair between sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:20 PM
1	Men should stop blaming feminism for the problems in society So reproducing is the end all be all goal… or the definition of success on this matter? As a childfree woman, I wholeheartedly disagree with that notion if that's the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 07:53 AM
11	Men should stop blaming feminism for the problems in society there is no such thing for women like the manosphere or RP where women shame and criticise men for being non traditional or feminine FDS would like a word lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 07:35 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thank you! People are so uneducated about this topic. It's nice seeing someone explaining it this straightforward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 07:33 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Probably has something to do with sex drive as well. I'm a switch myself and enjoy both roles because both turns me on and gets me off and both are exhilarating in their own way and I enjoy being both overpowered and doing the overpowering, though I prefer the sub role I also actively enjoy the dom role and actually fucking my partners, but that may just be cause I have a bossy personality and I like sex and the pacing my way and I like to do things my way because I'm one hell of a stubborn pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 07:27 PM
6	Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever? At the end of the day you’re still coming home to an empty quiet house with nobody to ask you how your day’s been. The loneliness is still there. That's relatable and it's why I currently live in collective housing with a bunch of other housemates. That's basically helped cure my loneliness as now I'm surrounded by people I can chat to when I get back from work. When I lived alone I was depressed and the house was a mess. There's measures one can take to feel less alone, such as the measure I ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:22 PM
2	I just got shadow banned on PPD, so posting a comment where I show how no one cares about men's suffering I'm a woman through and through xx chromosomes and all.. Though you could say I'm gender non conforming or what the kids nowadays call non-binary cause IDGAF about conforming to traditional gender expectations, but I'm a woman by birth sex none the less. I just like to form my own opinions on things, which means I'm not gonna have the same opinions as all other women just to get their approval.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/22 08:54 PM
6	I just got shadow banned on PPD, so posting a comment where I show how no one cares about men's suffering There's different degrees of rape though. There's brutal rape murder, and then there's taking back consent from someone you initially wanted to have sex with kind of rape. Like some people would say I've been raped since I told someone I consented to have with to stop during sex and they didn't so I just powered through it and turned out fine. While it isn't a nice experience at all, if this is rape, then that means being raped isn't necessarily this horrible experience. I would much rather have…	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/22 06:30 PM
7	female privilege rant A feminists rebuttal would likely be that women don't open their mouths because they aren't encouraged to due to the patriarchy or patriarchal expectations, aka traditional gender expectations in normal people speak. The solution is obviously to encourage women to speak up instead of blaming men for being socialized to speak up more. And also encouraging the women who want to earn a lot of money to invest more energy and effort into their work. I myself work 40 hours a week, I make 22$ an hour. …	/r/AntiFeminists	25/10/22 05:58 PM
3	female privilege rant A lot of us women (and men) who live in progressive and liberal countries aren't really oppressed imo. I've had more than one feminist tell me I'm oppressed by the patriarchy just because I'm a woman. Lol the fuck I am not. I'm a privileged woman living in Norway from a middle class family. I've had all the same opportunities my brother had. I'm not a victim of a patriarchy. Hell, I'm not even a victim of traditional gender roles, because I was always encouraged to pursue my own path in life. So…	/r/AntiFeminists	25/10/22 05:45 PM
3	Why shouldn't a man feel insecure? Nothing. We're all entitled to out preferences so long as they don't harm anyone, and preferring low body counts doesn't really harm anyone. It's sorta like being privately religious and preachy religious. So long as you don't try to shove your beliefs down people's throat and shame them for disagreeing with you, you're good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 07:51 PM
2	Why shouldn't a man feel insecure? Absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 07:45 PM
1	Women who won't see a man who's visited prostitutes, how would you even know that they have? I wouldn't know. Reason I wouldn't want to see a man who visited prostitutes is cause he likely too much of a loser, socially awkvard or ugly to get sex without paying, so wouldn't be into them due to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 03:56 PM
5	Women who won't see a man who's visited prostitutes, how would you even know that they have? I was just gonna point out how this is the reverse question to that lol. The answer is basically the same IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 03:52 PM
4	Why shouldn't a man feel insecure? Cause insecurity doesn't benefit you and just make you feel like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 05:53 AM
25	An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise. True but if OP isn't up for handling a newborn on his own there is adoption. We need to stop expecting that people will raise children just because they get stuck with children against their wishes. Give them to raise to someone who is enthusiastic and able to do it.	/r/MensRights	21/10/22 09:38 PM
1	''Fertility' ' is cope I suppose our biological wiring isn't gonna change anytime soon, but our minds most definitely do when we think rationally and logically about it. As soon as I find out a guy wants kids I'm no longer attracted to him because I myself dont want kids for instance. There's also older women and men who develop feelings for each other despite being old or past menopause. Our rational and logical mind definitely affect how we are attracted to people.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/22 06:59 PM
6	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. Prejudice and sexism can absolutely be bad as people can unfairly or wrongly judge people. There can absolutely be something hateful and immoral about it, if the prejudice itself is rooted in hateful and immoral views. being logical is a choice. Exactly. Which women too can choose. men also have impulses that interfere with logic. but men learn to repress them to get outcomes, and they have the advantage that they require much more stimuli to loose control, women dont because they are not punish…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 10:19 PM
6	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. Well, that sounds like quite the bold generalization. I think there's more variance and nuance than that, and outliers. I suppose that's why I object, because I myself view myself as a smart person who value logical thinking more than anything. I do agree it's not hate, but it does kinda come across as a prejudiced generalization about women nonetheless (which is sexism by definition). The same can be said for making a prejudiced generalization about men (also sexist). There are plenty individua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:30 PM
4	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. Intimidated may have been the wrong term to use you're right. Annoyed would be more correct. I've annoyed a lot of men with my logical reasoning. I perceive female thought patterns like when I see a toddler walking for the first time, getting all exited but falling over because the nervous system is just not configured to achieve the outcome. in the childs mind, it was a great success to make two steps before falling over. Okay, not to be that person, cause I honestly hate throwing around the te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 07:32 PM
3	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. True.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 06:46 PM
10	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. As someone who dated one of the "higher ups" it did indeed feel weird as hell. They were constantly too busy for a relationship anyway, so now I try to aim for men with more relaxed lifestyles. Even though I'm a woman I don't care what a guy does for a living either. I make my own money. I don't need someone to subsidie my lifestyle. I'd rather want someone who physically excites me too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 05:42 PM
18	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. In my personal experience and from my POV, the men who feel uncomfortable dating intelligent women are men who aren't as intelligent. Personally, I'm really good at logical reasoning for instance, and when my reasoning is better than the man's I've just made them look really stupid, so of course they don't wanna date someone who make them look stupid. I get it and I'm not offended by the fact that they're intimidated. It's just what it is, and I don't really wanna date them either. Some people a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 05:12 PM
3	What do same-sex relationships tell us about genders? What do you mean by reasonable compromise in this context?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:52 PM
2	Honest question for women about sexual interest. I think everyone who has sex wants to feel safe when doing so. I mean, it's kinda the baseline for you to want sex to happen. I don't think men either wanna have sex with women they don't feel safe with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:24 PM
2	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 11:01 PM
3	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Yeah but how can you know that on the first date? Unless you've already paid for the date and done everything to accommodate and they haven't done shit to reciprocate, you can't really know if someone is taking advantage of you.. before you see how they act in different situations.. which you likely won't really know immediately when you start seeing one. If someone is taking advantage of you, you won't have to ask because their actions will speak for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 10:34 PM
2	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Bingo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 06:16 PM
21	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Yep..it kinda signals really weak social awareness, but asking more indirect questions like what they value or what their goals or plans are is totally valid first date questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 05:50 PM
4	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Agree. I think it could be pulled off in a joking manner, but like dead serious? Nah.. that's just straight up off putting	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 05:49 PM
5	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? Yep. Also, it would sort of turn into a bragging competition I feel like. If someone asked me what I bring to the table, I would have to list all my strengths, all the positive things about myself, which can also come across as arrogant too. Like if you asked me what I bring to the table, I would mention things like, I'm an excellent cook and I make amazing food (I actually do. Sounds braggy though doesn't it?) and that I'm intelligent, smart, thoughtful, sensible? rational, compassionate, under…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 05:45 PM
10	Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table? I agree. However if you have already established a relationship with someone who isn't pulling their weight, I do think it's a fair question to ask, especially after repeatedly having reminded them to do more and they're not. I'm just saying that cause I was in a relationship like that myself. I put in the vast majority of energy and effort, and eventually asked them to do more when I felt taken for granted, which they said they'd do but never actually did. At that point, I asked what I was gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 05:33 PM
2	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? I honestly think some women are and some women aren't, just like some men are just looking for sex and some are looking for relationships. I honestly think people value different things. Some people value shallow traits in a person While other value deeper traits. If you can't see that different men and women have different preferences and that some are more and less shallow then others then idk what to tell you but you aren't looking hard enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 05:20 PM
2	I believe a lot of women tell each other not to make moves on guys because of internalized misogyny The same holds true for men though. Men who make lots of moves on me can come across as agressive and desperate too. I'm a woman. I have men desperately simping in my DMs trying to get my attention even after i show a lack of interest on multiple accounts. A dude I was fwb with years ago is still in my DMs simping asking for nudes after I told him no. I eventually unfriended him. It doesn't matter if you're a man or woman. Desperation isn't sexy. I'm an assertive woman myself and it's worked bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 05:16 PM
0	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Sarcastic but also not I guess. Like I do get it but I do think it's sorta ridiculous to measure someone's value based on superficial traits only, and that's what I'm questioning and asking people's thoughts on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 04:30 PM
0	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? So it's relative	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 12:45 PM
6	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Got it. Maybe call them a HDM instead then, if that's what they are, cause being highly desirable isn't the same as being a highly good, committed or loyal man or partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 12:13 PM
6	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? Yeah what's up with men being called HVM when all they got going for them is superficial stuff like looks, money, status, fame etc... None of that inherently makes you a good person or a good partner or a valuable LT partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 11:52 AM
1	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Valid point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 07:40 PM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore I'm 25.. still not over it. Don't think I'll ever get over it. If you mean having kids, that's something I've never wanted and I'm far too rational, logical and sensible to have children, and that's not going to change because I value rationale, logic and sensibility, and generally masculine traits over feminine traits like emotions. I'll never have a child because I feel like it because I think that's irrational and illogical and nonsensical. And for me thinking beats emotions. I value masculin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 06:09 PM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Yes nature. I know it is what it is and it's why we're here. Still sucks that we haven't evolved further. As a woman I'm stuck with periods for the next 20+ years of my life even though I will never have kids. The only way to stop my periods is to use hormonal birth control continuously for the next 20 years, which I shouldn't cause I have a medical condition which is migraine with aura which puts me at a higher risk for getting an ischaemic stroke. The alternative is having a uterine ablation, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 05:31 PM
1	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore What I mean is that she didn't have a very fulfilling, interesting or exciting life. That's what having a life means to me. That's what my goal in life is. To live a fulfilling, exciting and interesting life as possible. Of course, people have different views and definitions on what a good life means to themselves on an individual level. Just for me personally, I don't view the life she lived as a "life" so to speak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 12:18 PM
1	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Only because my mother didn't. Which is kind of tragic if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:52 AM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Why's that a problem when having children is damaging to womens mental and physical health, damaging to a woman's financial security and freedom, damaging to her beauty. Seems the problem is more so biological programming that has screwed over women for a long time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:25 AM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Visit the childfree subs. Read their Statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:23 AM
3	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Life isn't supposed to be anything IMO. Life is what you make it. If you want to play life on hard mode you can. If you want to play it on easy mode you can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:17 AM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore I'm pretty sure most everyone who gets married think they're getting married to the right man. That doesn't actually mean they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:14 AM
1	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore So what about men who voluntarily get vasectomies and women who voluntarily get sterilized? Do they suffer too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:07 AM
3	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Fundamentally irrational? What's fundamentally irrational is having kids you aren't able to or aren't willing to provide for. That's why it would be irrational of me to have kids. There's also no such thing as a "true" adult. I also don't understand whats so bad about still being the same person they were at 19. I'd rather be the person I was at 19 then change into a boring adult like my mom. Believe it or not but there's actually childfree men and women who aren't married and who don't have kid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 11:05 AM
3	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Because it can be. My mother lived a very exciting and fun life before settling down, marrying and having kids. After having kids she turned into a boring shell of herself and lived a very dull and depressing life. It's like all the joy and life force was zapped out of her. 3 pregnancies also wrecked her body and she looked like a grandma at 50. That was the parenthood model I saw, and its not the kind of life I wish to live for myself. It certainly doesn't seem any more meaningful than the life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 10:57 AM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore Degeneracy? We all like to feel those feel good hormones. I mean, who doesn't want sex without consequences? Do you want to get someone pregnant and end up having to support a child every time you have sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 10:42 AM
2	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore I mean. I want that too. Nothing wrong in wanting just sex with no strings attached, no marriage or cohabitation. I'm a CF woman myself. I don't want to get married cause it's an outdated and unnecessary tradition. I don't want to live with a guy cause I want my own space and I don't want to clean up after another person. I would however like a LTR with a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 10:41 AM
3	women dont want to settle down and have kids anymore I mean.. that's just leisure. I'm a woman and when I come home from work, I spend all night just relaxing watching my favorite tv shows and youtubers while recovering from work. I think it's not only men but the women too that want to relax when they get back from an exhausting day of work. I'm a florist personally. I'm on my feet running around 8 hours a day. When I get back from work I barely have the energy to make myself dinner. Why on earth would I want to do anything else but relax when I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 10:36 AM
13	Why do RP guys try to shame women for desiring top 20% men? Me too. There's one right outside the mall where I live begging for money everyday lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 08:41 AM
4	California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’s In effect, any and all I've tried. You can buy some women's shaving creams and see if you notice a difference. If you do, it's likely minimal and marginal. The only real difference is the smell, and some of them have a more gel like texture right out the tub instead of coming out instantly foamy. Maybe if you have real sensitive skin you may notice a difference but other than that, I think it's more the feeling of lux that drives women towards these products because they both do the job and give…	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 10:39 PM
8	California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’s Is the difference that significant or is it just marketing BS? Far as my experience as a woman, lots of mens products work just as well as women's. I use the black Gillette shaving cream occasionally myself that's marketed to men because it's way cheaper than what's marketed to women's and i never noticed a difference in quality.	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 10:14 PM
37	California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’s Doesn't that suck for women who buy mens shavers? My sis buy mens razor cause they're way cheaper.	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 09:07 PM
8	Feminists hit a new low Ugh this. I also hate the fact that other feminists aren't calling this out, or a lot of bad things some very outspoken feminists promote. It's like they're just shrugging their shoulders and saying "meh she's liberated so it's all good".. well, the reality is that freedoms can be abused	/r/AntiFeminists	13/10/22 06:08 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Yeah I asked myself the very same thing in the past. I can relate to what it's like cause I've been there. I kept telling myself I had done everything I could to improve a situation. Then I realized it was my mindset that was the issue, and that I was capable of improving my situation, I simply wasn't willing to for a very long time.. I wasn't willing to change my mind, because I had told myself for so long that nothing can or will improve due to x, y and z excuses that I came up with. It was ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:23 PM
4	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Like 90 days fiance lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:11 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? In general, being a desirable individual takes effort unless you're drop dead gorgeous, and if you want to attract a person of substance with a good personality and attitude, you yourself have to become a person of substance and improve your personality and attitude. Me personally, I don't really care to put in much effort in my appearance anymore, because I don't put as much value on physical appearance in men anymore. I care more about how they make me feel, if I'm physically attracted to them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:35 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Then do something that does help. You really wanna be stuck in an unsatisfactory loop for the rest of your life? No? You can either complain about it or do something to improve it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:25 PM
2	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. What if he never meets the chosen one? Then it's all that waiting for nothing. That's how I think at least. I wasn't gonna stay a virgin and miss out a great sex life in my 20s when I'm at the most physically fit and attractive because I may find the chosen one. Like what if I don't? I'm 25. So far I would've missed out on a lot of great sexual experiences if I had waited. If I never met the one I would've missed out on great sexual experiences for life... And also probably bought into the stupi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 05:56 AM
3	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Periods ia very much interconnected with sex lol. It's very flawed to say it has nothing to do with it. Women get periods when they become sexually mature, or are sexually fertile. The lining of the uterus and the eggs sheds from the uterus if an egg wasn't fertilized through sex. If women have sex and the eggs fertilize, then there's no period. Women can know that they're not pregnant from sex if they keep getting regular periods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:38 PM
2	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Aren't gay men the most susceptible or is that just a myth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:32 PM
6	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Why do y'all deal with these loser guys at all? That's why I stopped dealing with them. If someone wants to be part of my life, they have to make it better somehow, or they're not worth my time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:30 PM
4	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. You know some jobs are dangerous right? Some people have workplace accidents that leave them injured for life. A friend of mine recently almost chopped off his finger operating a machine in a factory he works in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:28 PM
2	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Undatable to you.. not everyone else	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:23 PM
2	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. What I don't get is why if you realize you can't get something, why obsess over it? Like how about.. focus your energy on something that doesn't make you frustrated and angry and focus on something you enjoy or something that is more achievable instead	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:21 PM
1	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. Then maybe he too should attempt to get it for less ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ ͡⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ⁠ ͡⁠°⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 02:14 PM
1	Men desire virginity because women lie about body count According to that logic, you probably think it would be gross of women to have sex with men who other women have had a lot of sex with too then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 05:55 PM
2	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Alright, fair enough. thanks for explaining	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 04:13 PM
-1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? Why does it disgust you? I get it if they have STDs.. cause STDs are in fact gross, but if someone has a high body count and has tested negative for STDs, why would it still be gross? Can you elaborate? Why does it inherently mean lack of self control? What of the women who deliberately go after men to have sex with them in a controlled manner? If you're deliberate about who you have sex with, then I don't see how having a high n count necessarily or inherently means you're out of control. I'm j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 03:58 PM
1	Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to? If they're both equal value, why should it matter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 03:45 PM
7	Men desire virginity because women lie about body count I just don't get how women sleeping around is gross, but men sleeping around isn't? Like how are you any less gross as a man if you sleep around?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 03:34 PM
2	Men desire virginity because women lie about body count Good. Then they're all sorting themselves out of my dating pool and I dont even have to do it myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 03:15 PM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Got it. Still seems to be a recipe for disaster though. Having that sort of transactional relationship. Can't count how many times I've read stories of men complaining about getting screwed over financially in a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 06:07 AM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Yeah I get that, and that's not what I'm asking. I'm asking why men are ok with it? Like, logically, you're not as likely to get screwed over financially in a potential divorce if you're married to someone who contributes equally financially to the marriage. How does it benefit men to be with women who are dependent on them? Isn't this something the red pill or men in general who date women should be especially concerned about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 11:00 PM
1	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Even in Norway it's not ideal, in my opinion. I was about to say just that but left it out but you're right. It's not ideal but it affects dating in a way that women may not necessarily feel the need to date or stay with a partner out of desperation just to have someone provide for them as they'll have a different security net. We have great security yes, but it was very visible during the covid pandemic with both the parents having home office which parent had to watch the children during onlin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 06:39 PM
3	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Haha ja! The biological vs cultural factors particularly. Biologically we have largely remained the same, but our culture is changing rapidly and whetter people wanna acknowledge the changes in peoples dating preferences due to that it's happening regardless. I'm a childfree woman myself, and I'm not the only one. More and more men and women are changing their dating habits due to not needing a partner for security or not wanting kids now or later. (In countries like Norway women have good mat l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 05:57 PM
1	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 05:17 PM
2	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Lol just commented..oh well	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:49 PM
0	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? So if I'm not cute and feminine people won't be attracted to me or like me for me? lol Just asking cause I'm a woman with a tomboy style and there's no lack of male.. or female attention lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:48 PM
3	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? What if all that is fake? And what of her ego size? What if she's just a massive selfish jerk? Like dont you care for personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:45 PM
1	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Why don't you care about career or money? I've asked before but not really gotten a clear answer on this. Shouldn't you care if you marry someone and they wanna divorce you? So that they don't end up divorcing you over money or don't give them a financial incentive to divorce you? Cause I hear so much about men feeling like women take half their money in divorces, but that wouldn't even be an issue if men married women of their same socio economic status who had as much money and as good of a ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:44 PM
1	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? What about men and women who don't want to have children with their partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:41 PM
2	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Some do, some don't. I haven't gone to the gym since I was forced to for an exam in high school. It's not hard for me to stay slim. I don't attempt to eat very few calories. I only ever eat until I'm not hungry anymore. I don't excercise. Granted I work in a shop so I don't sit on my ass everyday at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:36 PM
5	What factors determine a woman's attractiveness? Sure, you can see if people who lift and do weight training is fit, because the results are fairly physically visible, but how do you see if people who do cardio is fit? Like how would you be able to tell the difference between a woman who is skinny and does cardio and a woman who is skinny and doesn't? From what I gather more women are into cardio than weight training.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:34 PM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Hand over everything? If you divorce before you have financial dependents, why would you have to hand over everything? Like if your wife wanna quit working to rely on you, you have two options, either stay with her or get a divorce. that whisper of taking care of kids makes sense You can take care of your kids without being married, granted you get equally shared custody, which you should get if your contribution to the marriage and to the kids with your wife was equally shared. (Granted the law…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 01:15 PM
2	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 12:30 PM
3	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Why is it that men don't seem to care about women's financial status the way women do? It's so strange. As a woman myself I would never want or choose for a man to be financially dependent on me. It's just poor financial advice all over, so why is men ok with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:54 AM
7	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Men really need to start a campaign against marrying people who don't work if they really hate alimony. Your not going to get stuck paying alimony if you don't marry a start at home spouse Louder. I don't even know why this isn't a more discussed topic. If you don't want someone to be financially dependent on you, you have options like 1. Marry people with the same socio economic status who make as much money as yourself and 2. Don't have kids if that means your wife can't contribute equally fin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:50 AM
2	Why are most divorces initiated by women? That's why men shouldn't be having kids if they're concerned about this. If no kids are involved, both men and women can be married and contribute equally financially ti a relationship and this ain't even a problem. Strangely, no one seems to bring up the fact that having a SAHM wife and kids is a bad financial investment, especially in the potential case of divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:47 AM
3	Why are most divorces initiated by women? Funny thing is men wouldn't need women to enable them earning money if they didn't have a family in the first place. Single people don't need anyone to enable them. Their wealth is their own wealth. Anyway, that's why I'm not married. Why would I want anyone else to depend on my money and funds. Call me crazy but that's kinda crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:44 AM
8	If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR? Truly picky women don't get passed around that much though, because they're too picky to choose anyone. Speaking as someone who's become a very picky woman myself. No one's ever good enough anymore because I've raised my expectations and standards so significantly, so not sure how I can get passed around. If anything I'm passing on all the men cause I don't find any of them attractive enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 07:47 PM
3	q4w: Why does it appear that Western women dont want to start families? Do they prefer just to be on the cc indefinitely? And to adress the rest of your post and not just the headline: Women in the west seem to be so focused on not needing men that they dont really care about starting a family. Because we don't. We can provide for ourselves. Women can own and buy their own houses and cars etc. We don't need men financially. Emotionally etc a lot of women will need men, but not for money. (Which is something men should be happy about because women aren't just with them for their money, but that's another topic of di…	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/22 06:11 PM
3	q4w: Why does it appear that Western women dont want to start families? Do they prefer just to be on the cc indefinitely? Why does it appear that Western women dont want to start families? Lots of reasons. For starters, lots of women are realizing that the childfree lifestyle is an option and that they don't have to have children just because that's what women have traditionally done. Some women are not interested in the role of being a mother or interested in raising their own children. I'm a childfree woman so all the things I'm mentioning here applies to me. Having children is also very expensive to raise, and w…	/r/AllPillDebate	02/10/22 05:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:58 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Got a full time job as a florist in a new city. Crossing my fingers I'll get along with my co workers as we will be working very closely :')	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:37 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ehhhhh.... i hope you're being ironic lol Cause idk about only being disadvantaged. Not gonna lie, the free drinks guys buy me at the club is a clear advantage to my wallet. 11$ for a beer saved using my advantage as a woman, and somehow I'm inherently disadvantaged? Lol just no. This is why I don't identify as a feminist, and won't. Feminists trying to make me believe I'm some kind of victim when I'm not ugh. And anyway, being a professional victim isn't attractive or empowering to me as a woma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:31 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Staying in, recovered from a night out, ordered maki rolls, watching YT videos. Psyching myself up for a new job in Monday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:22 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Neither? But if I had to pick, it would be the male model. My reasoning? I think of accountants as incredibly boring people with zero personality. A male model on the other hand, isn't just your average Joe. He probably has a lot of confidence, probably travel a lot for work. Probably have a spicy personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:19 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 04:33 PM
-1	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Perhaps. It would've been much higher if I had more opportunity but I didn't due to where I was living and lack of socialization opportunities in the tiny ass villages I lived in. If it had been up to 20 year old me I'd be hooking up with new guys way more often, but I'm kinda over it. However finding a relationship isn't exactly easy, so casual encounters are better than nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 06:48 PM
0	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Lost count but think it's around 10, so not that many, but they've all been casual encounters besides one. I lived a lot in the countryside, so it went up whenever I moved to a new city and socialized more. I've never really had a "real" relationship though. The one relationship I had was long distance so not much sex there. The sex lasted two weeks in my longest "serious* relationship. I've had longer casual relationships with a couple FWBs that lasted years on and off. Currently at the point w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 06:40 PM
0	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? True. I suppose you're right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 04:53 PM
5	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? They're obsessed with it because they can't even get a relationship. When you have access to relationships and have many relationship options, you likely no longer obsess over it. Speaking as a fellow woman with an abundance of men I could be in a relationship with. I'm not, because I don't just want a relationship with anyone who's willing to be with me, but a relationship with a guy I actually want to be with. I'd rather be alone than settle too, but these guys have a lack mentality. Any pussy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 02:32 PM
4	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? People can change you know. I've slept around a fair bit myself but I'm down for a committed exlusive relationship myself if I find someone who can provide me with what I need. So far though, I haven't found someone who I think is worth committing to, so I'm enjoying the perks of the single life for now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 02:27 PM
2	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? But, in all seriousness, who would even want to be with a man that considers your only value to be how close to a virgin you are. Why would you ever think someone would want to be treated as an object like that? I wouldn't. Men who view me like that, do not belong in my dating pool. This just seems like another attempt to shame women for having sex. Because it is. Women like myself couldn't care less if men like this don't wanna date me because I don't want to date them either. The men you are t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 02:23 PM
1	Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex? I don't have any attractive single friends cause I've already dated or hooked up with all my attractive single friends lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 11:02 AM
0	Do some women don't mind being a single mother? I don't mean to cast a value judgement here Why not? I sure as hell am, but I digress. but are women generally ok with getting pregnant from casual sex and leaving the biological father (even if the father is a positive person). It sure seems so from my POV as a woman. Personally though, I would not be okay with that, but that's because I'm generally not at all ok with getting pregnant at all considerating I'm childfree and have a strong dislike and disinterest for pregnancy and children. I thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:53 PM
7	Do some women don't mind being a single mother? Stupidity. It's always stupidity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 11:39 PM
0	Do women feel that they are competing for a man’s attention the same way guys have to? Nah. Either they're into me or they're not. If they are, I don't have to compete for them and it they're not I don't have to compete for them either because they're not interested. I'm also into the weird and eccentric dudes that other women aren't into, so there isn't really much to compete with. I usually get the guys that I'm into cause I shoot for guys I vibe with who's on my level. I don't go after guys who's out of my league so yeah there's that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 10:59 PM
23	A lot of marriages end in divorce and women are often filing for it - but in many of the cases: is it so wrong? I don't see whats wrong with divorcing anymore than I see what's wrong with breaking up with someone. No one is entitled to a relationship with you. If you're not happy with someone for whatever reason, there is nothing wrong in wanting to leave them. I think what people take issue with isn't so much the divorce aspect itself as they take issue with the splitting assets and money as well as the potential splitting of custody and child support if children are involved. If you're a married couple …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:20 PM
-1	What are your thoughts on these statistics? My thoughts are, yeah and? I'm not a particular monogamous person so I couldn't care less. If someone isn't meeting my needs sexually or otherwisely, they're not someone I'm willing to remain in a monogamous relationship with, and I hope that if I'm not able to meet a guys sexual needs, that they're not willing to be in a monogamous relationship with me either, and will be as honest as me about not having their needs met There's no infidelity to be had if you leave a relationship that don't plea…	/r/AllPillDebate	28/09/22 09:26 AM
23	Do heterosexual women have good reason to be “hypergamous”? We may have suspected it already, but now the science backs it up: unmarried and childless women are the happiest subgroup in the population. And they are more likely to live longer than their married and child-rearing peers, according to a leading expert in happiness. And red pillers tell me I'll be a sad old cat lady cause I don't want kids or marriage. Jokes on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 11:50 PM
3	Do heterosexual women have good reason to be “hypergamous”? You bring up a valid point. Also if women stopped doing all these things, men would stop reaping the benefits, yet no one is suggesting that women should stop doing these things if their men aren't willing to do them or don't care for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 11:47 PM
0	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Nah. Jealousy is for weak insecure people. That's not who I aspire to be, and logically, being jealous doesn't benefit me, and since being jealous is a choice, I choose not to be. People can also, logically speaking, enjoy multiple things at once. Just cause you like eating tacos doesn't mean you can't also like pizza. Just cause you like watching porn doesn't mean you can't also like your girlfriend. Like, logically, people are perfectly capable of liking multiple things at once, but for some w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 11:17 PM
8	A lot of Men and a lot of Women aren't marriage or relationship material Painfully accurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 04:59 PM
6	A lot of Men and a lot of Women aren't marriage or relationship material All the things that make men feel good about themselves are related to women NOT being equal partners Then is there even hope for the women who want equal relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 04:23 PM
6	Women: why do you think being a male virgin is a redflag? Depends how old the guy is. A guy who's 20+ being a virgin probably lacks confidence. May be insecure. May lack charm. May lack other personality traits that are important and be socially awkward. May be physically unnatractive. May be gay. May be asexual. May be religious. May want to wait for the "right one". Obviously guys like these are red flags to a lot of people who don't want to date someone with these traits.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/09/22 10:05 PM
15	Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla? I get it that people enjoy some financial support but as someone who's been in an abusive relationship in the past, a guy wanting me to rely on him financially screams red flags. Like why the hell would I want to give up my financial independence and freedom and control and just hand it over to someone else? Chances are I can trust myself a million times better to take care of my money than I can trust anyone else to do it. Also I fail to see how it's sustainable and healthy to rely on a man to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 09:40 PM
1	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? I'm aware which is why I pointed out if they have access.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 08:38 AM
0	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? The same goes for women however women still get a 2nd chance to change their mind if they have access to abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 05:32 AM
1	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? Yeah you got a good point. Perhaps there should just be way stronger encouragement to adopt when people don't have the means to provide for their children? Because forcing women to give up their children seems unethical too. And not giving too many tax incentives to people who can't provide for their own children as a more moderate solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 10:07 PM
2	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? Exactly, she's responsible for the fact that she didn't abort and didn't adopt even when having the option to, and while knowing whetter the father would want to take on that responsibility himself or not. Because most women who carry a child to term bond with that baby, and therefore would be reluctant to give up for adoption That's understandable. At the same time, it clearly would be better for the child to be adopted by someone fully capable and willing to provide for them, than to be provid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 09:29 PM
2	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? This misses the point that the fully developed baby wouldn't need money to be kept alive if the woman had aborted if she had access to abortion or adopted the child. Literally the only reason the child was allowed to keep existing was the mother granting access to her body and allowing the child to become a fully developed baby. There'd be no fully developed baby if the woman had aborted first. Thus, women are ironically the ones responsible for creating a tax payer burden if she can't provide f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:54 PM
6	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? Difficult choice? I'm a childfree woman. You underestimate that abortion is an easy choice to make for women who absolutely strongly dislike children, have a fear of pregnancy and birth, and just doesn't want anything staying in their uterus ever. How invasive the procedure is depends on how far the pregnancy has come, but yeah that's a good point. It is an invasive procedure, but it's also a way out of 18 years of unwanted financial responsibilities for me as a childfree woman, and I feel hella…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:42 PM
4	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? You could call the same degeneracy abortion if that's the logic you're gonna apply as women abandon their future children frequently. Hell. As a woman I hump pretty carelessly knowing I can always have an abortion and I will never be held financially responsible for a child because I can always get an abortion if my birth control fails or the condom breaks. It's a security only women are privileged to have. The logic goes both ways, but somehow some people have been convinced that one gender doi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:31 PM
2	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? I sympathize as much with men who skip on child support as I sympathize with women who have have an abortion because they can't afford to support a child. In both cases, neither the woman nor the man can or want to support a child, and making such a choice is fully understandable. No one should be forced to provide for a child they don't consent to having, be that with their bodily resources or monetary resources. Consent shouldn't only apply to bodily resources, but also monetary ones. Then the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:17 PM
2	Financial/paper abortion - legitimate arguments against? What if it’s a against her religion? What if she honestly believes doing it will send her to hell where she will be painfully torutured for eternity? What if she just doesn’t believe in abortion and thinks it’s murder? Then there's adoption if she isn't able to or willing to provide for and take care of the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:02 PM
6	What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-Thread Course I do. I'm a woman. I have friends who are women and I hang around in a lot of spaces here on Reddit for women, and this is just a few things I'd wish women would stop doing. I've even been kicked out of a few subs for women because I've pointed out these things, and have women attack and ridicule me for having these points of views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 11:28 PM
2	Consensus on "financial" abortion right for males It's not about what's "fair I thought feminism, or feminist advocacy was about advocating for women on the basis of equality of the sexes lmfao. Not about what's fair lol. Last I checked advocating for equality was all about fairness. It totally should be about fairness if they're advocating for equality. Feminists not even being feminists by their own dictionary definition as usual. nd since people with uteruses are the only ones, currently, who can get pregnant, the final decision regarding wh…	/r/MensRights	24/09/22 10:50 PM
8	Consensus on "financial" abortion right for males Couldn't similar rules apply to exceptions? Like both get the ability to financially abort from that point on? And if neither of them want the child there's obviously adoption.	/r/MensRights	24/09/22 10:30 PM
26	What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-Thread Blaming men for their issues instead of taking personal accountability. Whining about misogyny while simultaneously being misandrists towards men. Calling things they don't like misogynistic just because they don't like something or feel offended by something even when it isn't actually misogynistic. Calling misandry for misogyny. Or calling misandry for internalized misogyny. Expecting men to be allies, then shaming and alienating them by calling them misogynistic or an incel in a degrading man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 07:42 PM
3	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? I don't really care so much for their count as much as I do for their attitude. If they give me fuck boy non committal vibes, I ain't committing to them, (just fucking them) but if they have an ncount of 50 and think I'm worth being exclusive with, hey why not. I also want a man to be sexually experienced, because then they know all the right moves and got the confidence to go with it. Of course, someone can be sexually experienced and confident by having a limited number of partners, but in my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:41 PM
4	q4w: Why do some women think they are more valuable than men because you let men pump and dump you? I don't think it makes me more valuable but also not less. How come you believe that letting men use you makes you better than a man who doesn't use you? Uh.. I don't? I also don't let men use me who I don't use too. Like what do you think? That I'm letting a guy hook up with me for his sole benefit? Nah ah. If I'm letting a guy hook up with me it's cause I want to hook up with him for my benefit and sexual pleasure and gratification and enjoyment. Oh wait what???!! For my benefit? Yes actually.…	/r/AllPillDebate	23/09/22 12:35 AM
1	age and location of users? 25F Norway lol. You could just run a couple demographic polls you know.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/22 09:08 PM
0	Do women experience same struggles as men? I don't think so. At least speaking for myself. Do women go through similar struggles like men go through, do you girls get rejected a lot, fear rejectiong, fear of never finding romance, been friendzone, felt inferior to smarter women and no matter how hard you worked you don't seem like you are improving, experience jealousy, and go through deep philosophical rabbit whole relating to existential crisis and dread. I'm sure some women do. How many I don't know. I was afraid no one would ever wan…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/22 07:37 PM
2	I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex.... Depends what country you live in etc. Some countries have a larger rural population. It's certainly relevant advice to those that do. Although then there's the issue of different cultural values. Countryside folks usually have different values than city folks. Speaking as someone who grew up in the countryside but also have lived in cities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 06:56 PM
4	I think this sub often ignores the importance of local/regional factors, when it comes to dating and sex.... I'd love to live in a bigger city, but in my country all the big cities are so fucking expensive I'd rather not have a dating life (or having to work myself to death to afford living somewhere where I can have a dating life)🥲 I'm a woman btw, and a woman with niche interests and niche preferences in men, so my dating life has basically been dead for the majority of my adult life due to growing up and living in the countryside and smaller towns mostly. I don't really go around complaining about i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 06:44 PM
3	What is a "high value" male? This is so true. The vast majority of men have no value to me, as in relationship value. Unless they can provide or enrich my life with something, they have as much value to me as any random stranger on the street. People don't like to hear it bluntly like that, but the reality is that we value people who provide us with something that we want, be it a compliment or friendship or really good sex. Truth is most people don't value people who add nothing to their lives that much, or at all. Hell, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:35 AM
2	What is a "high value" male? It depends on your perspective. Individuals determine what is high value to themselves as individuals, and the collective/society determine what is high value to the collective/society. There's a multitude of ways of measuring value, also in the context of relationships/sex. It's like saying the highest-value businesses are the one with honor, integrity, and diversity. On an individual level that makes sense though. To me, a business who has honor, integrity and diversity has qualities that I hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:24 AM
1	What is a "high value" male? In my view, it's the qualities you value the most in a partner. There are some traits most of us value in a partner such as kindness and good looks for instance, but people also have different individual values. That's why I think it's moot to describe what all men or women deem as a high value man. For instance, for me, an example of what I deem to be a high value man is an intellectual and bright guy who is childfree and vegan. Obviously that's not what everyone else deems as a high value man.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:11 AM