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DraconianDebate/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:02 AM
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On any specific day, no, if you have a legitimate reason to say no. And in general nobody should ever force you. However, its not unreasonable to expect regular sexual relations with your spouse, and regularly denying your spouse absolutely justifies frustration and unhappiness on the part of your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:41 PM
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Men and women can be friends when neither party has attraction for the other. In exceptional cases, they can when both parties posses exceptional willpower, but thats incredibly dangerous and usually doesnt succeed because few of us have willpower like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:17 AM
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This insistance that people cant have standards or morals and MUST just be a frigid prude because they dont fuck everything that moves is insulting and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:28 PM
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Its not extreme but its still high
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:26 PM
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What data backs up yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:23 PM
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Acting like life under Islam is equivalent to life in pre-modern Europe or Asia is absurd. You aren't actually trying to argue the point he made, you are just trying to respond with a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:21 PM
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You rejected 100% of the 5s that cold approached you, so hard that you don't even realize they tried because you were never considering them to begin with. Men are oblivious to women who are interested in them. Women are oblivious to men they have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:42 AM
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Its actually incredibly easy. Is he helping out with other chores before you have a child? If he cant do that, he's definitely not going to help afterwards. “Equally” by their account or the wife’s account? Equally, by observation from a neutral party. I wouldn't trust anything that men or women self-report, especially if there is an incentive to lie. Studies based on self-reported data in general tend to be non-reproduceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:38 AM
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Are you really, actually, genuinely throwing a fit over 4 minutes a week? Modern women are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:53 AM
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Have you tried picking better men? I know plenty of men who share the parenting load with their wives equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:49 AM
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I, personally, am married to a woman who agrees with me on these issues. I, personally, know I am not entitled to sex, and that is why I went out and found a partner who I had common interest with and earned it. The issue is that, for the average man in America today, this is becoming impossible. A majority of men becoming deeply dissatisfied and disillusioned with the state of affairs is an incredibly dangerous societal ill. Monogamy and the social contract has kept men in line for thousands of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:47 PM
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I said tight knit families, not two parents and two point three children. You aren't creating communities of people, you are actively destroying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:42 PM
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An instruction to an individual does not solve a societal ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:56 PM
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It's a terrible thing for society if we completely stop having tight knit families. On the individual level, sure, but the vast majority being single and childless is going to destroy the society. I know some of you hate yourself and love this idea, but sane and rational individuals do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:18 AM
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No, you're just a self-described "Conservative Patriarch" mod of /r/conservative. Surely your views on access to abortion, no-fault divorce, access to contraceptives, and other women's issues are totally above board and "conservative patriarch" means nothing. Or worse, "is just a joke, brah". Believing that a fetus has rights does not it any way make me a misogynist. It doesn't preclude me from believing that women should have the same rights as men, nor does my traditional views on marriage. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:19 PM
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You should post some photos of all the bears you hang out with, I bet it would get tons of karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:30 PM
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You may not think restricting women's rights is bigotry, but it is. Its a good thing I wasn't actually advocating for restricting women's rights. I'm also not going to pretend that centuries of institutional discrimination doesn't have an effect in the present on the descendants of populations who were institutionally discriminated against. It does. And we have a moral obligation to right those wrongs. That sounds great. I think you could easily do this in a way that is not itself discriminatory…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:58 PM
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Just so we are clear, as you are unable to comprehend the most basic of points and need to resort to personal attacks: I dont think that colleges should discriminate against women to close the degree gap. I pointed to that as a specifically absurd example that would technically meet his criteria, that there is currently a gap in college graduation rates between men and women where men are falling behind. I pointed to this to prove that institutional discrimination is bad regardless of the reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:59 PM
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No, its women who are receiving more degrees than men. By your logic, we should be able to start letting less women into certain colleges to ensure that there is equitable distribution of degrees by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:57 PM
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Rape is less likely for men, but we are MORE likely than women to be victims of all other violent crimes. We are also far more likely to get incarcerated, and there is a false accusation epidemic against men. The negative consequences for us are still serious. In my experience, you are far more likely to find a woman complaining about men than the reverse. You have to do something like come to Reddit, with an 80%+ male user base to experience anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:46 AM
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So colleges can start to discriminate against women to close the degree gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:36 AM
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Men also live in the woods though, not everyone lives in a massive city like you. The whole "why would a man be in the woods" response is so hilarious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:32 AM
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Sane women didn't answer because the actual answer was obvious. Wild women chose the bear. It's actually a great filtering mechanism. Ask a woman this question on the first date to determine if they are a basket case or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:31 AM
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You completely missed the point my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:29 AM
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First thing, have you communicated this to him? He might not mean his remarks in the way that you hear them. This needs to be a pinned comment on every thread in this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 11:41 AM
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No, you obviously hate men based on your post history. Its not a personal attack to observe that everything you've ever posted is itself an attack against an entire sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:19 PM
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Plenty do because they love their partner and are vetting them to see if marriage is a right fit. I took my wife on several trips before we got married, and i got the same amount of sex on the trip as i did at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:17 PM
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Plenty of christian men who are more than happy to wait for marriage and will jump at the chance to find a woman doing the same. But you need to look for them intentionally, most american men arent waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:14 PM
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Maybe if you didnt hate men you could find a guy on your level who isnt broke and can meet your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:12 PM
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So do a staycation with your broke boyfriend or break up with him already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:11 PM
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Hypergamy is natural, its only an issue when women are refusing to admit the reality of it while attacking men. And yes, dont wait to 40 to try and find a partner. Your 20s is the ideal time for a woman, and 30s is ideal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:10 PM
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That wasnt the scenario you presented. Nobody who is a christian and opposed to premarital sex is going to get mad about you not putting out on a vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:04 PM
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Its so obvious that this is a rant about a man who dropped you over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:04 PM
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SO DONT MARRY A MAN BELOW YOU FINANCIALLY, STOP LEADING THIS MAN ON
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:04 PM
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How much PTO do you spend with your man vs going on girl trips alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:02 PM
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I took my wife on multiple vacations when we were dating, she would pitch in to the best of her ability and id cover the rest. She would also help out by packing our bags, making sure we were ready to go, etc. Its not a black or white scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:01 PM
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Its not one week, she did this multiple times in the same year. How much PTO is left to spend with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:59 PM
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Its not just a week, she did this multiple times in the same year. How much vacation time does she have left to spend with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:56 PM
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So youve got limited time off from work and instead of spending it with me doing something we can both afford, you repeatedly go out on vacations alone. Its not like you can just go on a second vacation with him that you can both afford the next week, you already burned that PTO (repeatedly in the same year too, two weeks vacation time is typical on the US so you probably used it all up).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:54 PM
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You just described a toxic relationship and then tried to use it to shame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:50 PM
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If you are at the point of going on trips with a woman and she still doesn't want to sleep with you, she is just with you for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:49 PM
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Right wing and conservative/traditional are two different things. Most red pill men are libertarians. Trad/con men tend to be either blue pill or at most purple pill, the red pill ideology is at odds with conservative christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:02 PM
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Most relationships are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:59 AM
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there's nothing inherently wrong with women only choosing 10 percent of men This shit is why red pill men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:53 AM
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The vast majority of people getting married are doing it because they plan to have children, and 85% of women in their 40s had children at some point in their lives (per 2014 study). Exceptions to a broad demographic trend dont disprove anything. If even a plurality of men find this issue important, that reduces the dating pool for these women by half without any further selection involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:51 AM
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That’s exactly what the conversation is about. Is there a “wall” a woman hits at 30? No. At 35? No. At 40? No. I already disproved this point, more than half of women above 40 being infertile proves there is a wall. Nobody ever said it was universal or that women are completely incapable of having kids at that age. You don’t know what you’re talking about. The risks are not severe to the point that women should like… structure their entire life around making sure they get pregnant before 30. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:43 AM
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Thats completely irrelevant to the discussion - the fact that a woman can have a child over 35 doesnt mean she will and studies on the issue show fertility rates below 50% in women over 40. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8367130/ Honestly, your statements here are deeply concerning if you are a physician, as they show a basic lack of understanding of the risks associated with geriatric pregnancy. If you are actually telling women not to worry because women over 35 give birth at your hospital ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:49 AM
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It doesnt need to be the only thing of value to be important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:40 AM
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I dont think a womans hobbies or interests are relevant to attraction, but they do matter in terms of mate selection. Guys are definitely more likely to marry a woman who has common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:40 PM
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Mens dating pool takes a lot longer to start shrinking, a 37 year old man with a successful career, his own house, etc likely hss more dating options than he did at 20 even if his looks fell off significantly between those two ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:22 PM
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You keep quoting outliers, as if its something you can plan for. At best its a tossup if you are fertile at 40, anyone betting on fertility over 35 is taking a serious risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:19 PM
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Zealous blue pillers are just as absurd as the zealous red pillers they bemoan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:12 PM
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Less than half of all women can, and most of those require fertility treatment. That matters when you are trying to choose a mate, any intelligent man who is looking to have kids is going to avoid women over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:10 PM
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Without adding something like Christianity which enforces morality and reinforces positive norms, it is.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 01:23 PM
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AI isnt going to buy her a bag or pay her rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:28 AM
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Pretty sure my wife is doing this right now. She has a "job" though, taking care of my son and home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:00 AM
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I got banned from TRP for calling out other men on their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:57 PM
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Plenty of toxic subs still up, if they follow a certain political viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:56 PM
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Okay? And? What point does that prove exactly? It seems like that makes it irrelevant if anything as its something for the very rich only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:41 AM
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623,000 couples in the US with a husband 20+ years older than the wife, vs 750 couples using a hestational surrogate. Obviously the two are directly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:40 AM
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I think even if you aren't active on social media, when you are on dating apps women are still looking at your social media presence. You dont need to be an active user with thousands of followers, but you still need to setup the profile and women are 100% judging you based on it. From talking to women, a lot of them have said they are uncomfortable if you have no presence online at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:03 PM
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I mean, she was 17 when we met. She wasn't getting 30 guys in her DMs offering to fly her out though, and to her I was probably the best option at the time. Even though I was broke I had obvious potential, I had a car, I was 6' and have a disagreeable personality which I've learned women like as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:21 PM
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In part, I just view dating apps as an extension of social media and your online persona. So someone saying "oh I dont use social media, just Tinder" to me doesn't really invalidate the point about the importance of social media. The fact that you have enough game to not need social media is a good point in your favor but its not a rejection of the importance of the internet in general. And for most men, you need an active social media presence as well to do good on dating apps, because that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah I understand it to a point, its just weird to me as my wife was alongside me the entire time as I grew into the man I am today. I feel for the guys who need to be pre-made to get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:49 PM
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It saddens me that my first thought on seeing your comment was "yeah, basically"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:17 PM
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Women don't actually care how you got to where you are and they actually prefer if you don't tell them. What women want is a man that is already complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:56 PM
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Your exception doesn't prove that social media isn't important, and you are just using dating apps instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:49 PM
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TheRedPill subreddit is just full of black pilled nihilists, and its unfortunate that people here assume thats what the red pill is when it was never about being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:47 PM
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Based on statistics, very few are, but thats a bit beside the point. Plenty of 25 year olds would jump to have kids with a man that has millions in the bank, even if those men are statistical unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:45 AM
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IVF doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:43 AM
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750 children a year (0.02% of births) are born using a gestational surrogate, it's obviously not a popular option
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:39 AM
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You posted this a second time without actually citing anything in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:17 AM
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Do you people just pull links off Google without looking at them? Neither of these links says anything about the fertility rate of women over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:17 AM
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You made a claim that half of infertility issues are due to men, which completely ignores the fact that men dont at all have a cliff like women do. Most men over 50 are still fertile even with a decline in fertility due to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:52 PM
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No, with biological children you have parental rights. They are not the same thing and your complete lack of understanding of the difference is certainly toxic. As is the idea that only one percent of men (the same one percent of men all women are chasing) are suitable partners. Nobody said anything about consent, you are just inserting that into the occasion. Teaching women that its not only okay, but preferable, to have unrealistic standards is harmful to them and society as a whole. Im childf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:50 PM
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There is quite a large difference between fertilization being more difficult, and being impossible. Researchers led by Dr. Guy Morris from the Centre for Reproductive and Genetic Health in London have concluded that IVF success rates decline significantly among men over age 51 — coincidentally, the same average age that women enter menopause. The study of nearly 5,000 IVF and intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI, where a single sperm is injected into an egg) attempts determined that 42 percent…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:45 PM
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Sure its her perogative, but why are we teaching women to view things in such a toxic way? And nobody loves being a step parent. They may love their step child regardless, but its a terrible situation to be with. Imagine bonding with a child for a decade, viewing them as your own child, and then having them stripped away because you have no rights over the child at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:30 PM
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The only statistic on fertility in this opinion article states 78 percent of women aged 35 to 40 will conceive within a year, compared with 84 percent of women aged 20 to 34. It says nothing about how many women at these ages will fail to conceive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:25 PM
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Just that factor alone reduces the dating pool by 75%. Womens own delusional views on men eliminate 99% of men, in many cases, before you even start talking about kids. Abd being a step parent sucks, that isnt the ideal situation for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:18 PM
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Yeah, that wiki article is what i used for age disparity info. 18.8% of marriages have a husband 6 or more years older than the wife. The other link provides no statistics on female fertility over 30/35 and is a blog article from an OB/GYN, its not a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:16 PM
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Do you have sources for your claims that a womans lifestyle increases fertility after 40, or that any significant group of women over 45 can have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:13 PM
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Says there are studies proving 99% of women over 30 are fertile, refuses to show sources, leaves. I gotta admit Shirley, this is some big dick energy right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:10 PM
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No I just read the article you originally posted. Why do I need to comb through 51 pages of her research? Yeah, why read facts that disagree with you? Besides, those of us against RP ideology could show you a million studies about how women over 30 typically are still fertile enough to have a 99% chance of healthy babies Id love to see this study, especially for over 35 which the number widely quoted (not 30). That men's fertility also tends to decline in their 30s Men are actually at their peak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:08 PM
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A woman over 35 who stores 10 eggs (the average retrieval volume at that age) has a 30% chance of a successful pregnancy. That goes up the younger you are and the more eggs you store, but who is telling 20 year olds to do this? 80% of childless men 18-49 want kids and the vast majority want those kids to be their own. "The only dating market these women will lose" is the vast majority of the market. If you chose to be childless, thats your choice, but misleading women about how many other option…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:52 PM
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Except women are making life choices assuming they, too, will be able to have a child at 40. Its an incredibly harmful idea for women to perpetuate abd the tone policing helps nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:45 PM
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The vast majority of women have nothing stopping them from starting families beyond their own ego. Its also incredibly misleading to bring up 40+ pregnancies when over 90% of women will be infertile by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:44 PM
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So men are just as likely to be infertile as women, got it. You understand this doesnt include post-menopausal women, yeah? Those women are no longer fertile due to menopause but were fertile before this period, so are not counted. Your source also says nothing about age. Male and female relative fertility by age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:41 PM
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Women can smell this attitude on you my man, nothing is less attractive in a man than a lack of confidence. A 5" dick isnt the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:23 PM
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Yes, he is.
/r/RPChristians17/12/22 12:52 PM
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I genuinely don’t mean this to be insulting but you can only believe this if you’re not remotely near the top tier of men. "I don't mean this to be insulting BUT" is the thing women say when they are actively trying to be insulting. You did in fact mean to insult me, to insinuate that I must be some loser that cant manage to attract "an attractive woman with attractive female friends" like you. Don't lie, we all know the truth. My husband Once again, your personal experience isn't fact. You real…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:53 PM
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VERY few women will be shy about it I can't even.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:02 PM
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Except I understand that my experience is not fact, that it is only my experience and that the experiences of others can differ. I will only talk on experience when I have been able to validate that many others have similar experiences, or if I am being clear that I am not talking about facts. You seem to be confusing "women are only interested in the top 20% of men" with "women throw themselves at these men". The former is true, the latter is not. A man needs to be in the top 1% of the top 1% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:58 PM
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Imagine — imagine — your experience not being universal??? Yeah, imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:49 PM
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The problem with talking to women is that they assume their experience is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:48 PM
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The incentive is punani
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:47 PM
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Its almost like there is a huge difference in the work environment, expectations and job market for each position. Child care and teaching jobs are in demand, a lot of people trying to get them even with relatively low pay as the jobs themselves are pretty simple relative to other options. Trades in comparison are far worse jobs and need to pay more to attract workers, because otherwise nobody would want these jobs. People are growing up dreaming of being a teacher, nobody grows up dreaming to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:38 PM
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It is actually, trades often pay more than white collar jobs nowadays. Finding skilled tradesmen is basically impossible nowadays, if you are skilled and willing to work you can make huge money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:48 PM
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Oh no, someone sitting in an air conditioned room for 8 hours watching kids makes less than a guy digging ditches for 12 hours. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:17 PM
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Every religion is judgmental towards those that claim to follow its teachings while publicly refusing those teachings at the same time.
/r/RPChristians26/11/22 06:43 PM
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Interest in polyamory seems to be largely social & learned, and not innate. I don't actually see any evidence at all that it is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:10 PM
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Lol trying to get men to abstain from sex, you are better off getting them to stop breathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:08 PM
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You are still wrong regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:00 PM
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Everything just goes immediately to the extreme here, no nuance at all. The BPers think everything the RPers say is wrong/evil/insane abd vice versa. Nobody is here in good faith or actually interested in learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:51 PM
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Men dont deserve praise for being whores. Both parties should be shamed for sleeping arou d.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:49 PM
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Im unable to count the number of times ive seen supposedly happy couples turn out to have absolute dumpster fires of relationships that they just managed to hide successfully. Your own examples aren't great, you dont actually know how happy these people truly are behind closed doors and both have a history of destroying their LTRs. Not only are your examples proof of why a man should avoid getting into a relationship with someone like this, it doesnt even make your point. To answer your question…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:05 PM
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I dont actually care at all about the choices you make but I will certainly point out how terrible they are and how they invalidate you as a source of advice on dating and long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:27 PM
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And instead of finding another one you decided to sleep with random men for money. Again, truly the pinnacle of decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:23 PM
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You need to use a different argument then pointing at guys who randomly approach women in the street, 99 out of 100 times that guy is going to get turned down regardless of age/looks/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:22 PM
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And your argument doesn't change that at all, random men catcalling women on the street are not at all what he was talking about and very, very few women will respond positively to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:31 PM
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You've been in healthy long term relationships and then gave that up to sleep with random men for money. Truly the pinnacle of decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:30 PM
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So if the men were younger, the women would get with them? Its just because the men are older that the women turn them down? Has nothing to do with the fact that they dont want to get harrassed at all regardless of gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:29 AM
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It makes you the last person on earth to take advice from, anyone reading here should take every step pissible to ensure their life is as far away from yours as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:22 AM
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The people with STEM degrees actually get a return on investment and dont need me to pay for their education. We should pay for educating public school teachers if they work X years in a public school after graduating, and maybe some other degree paths that are useful and dont generate good financial returns, but the vast majority of people can pay for their own education.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:19 PM
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Nobody cares about bridges and roads, we care about being asked to pay for some gender study degree or being forced to support a bunch of kids that someone on welfare keeps popping out to get free money. I have sat there as my MIL and my GMIL planned out her next kid to maximize the money she'd get in welfare payments and then saw her spend that welfare check on heroin. I dont think I should be forced to pay for that heroin, personally, i think she should buy her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:12 PM
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Yes, because its the guy who you are stealing from thats the real freeloader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:59 PM
3

Most men would sleep with most women, the idea that sexless men are just not considering most women for sexual interest is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:18 PM
3

You may be a nihilist who doesnt believe in morality but that doesnt make cheating moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:03 PM
0

You can just drop it in a UPS or Fedex dropbox in the middle of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:40 PM
1

Women looking for providers is a nature aspect of human nature and isnt going to just change because we adopted feminism. The problems with dating in our modern society are related to hypergamy, OLD, and unrealistic ideas of the types of partners certain women can attract. Also, if you are a man, you do not get the same value from a productive wife that a woman gets from a productive husband. Men are biologically hardwired to be providers, women are not. Finally many RPers dont actually care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:41 PM
0

Expecting your spouse to call out of work because you have a head cold is a good way to ensure you won't have a husband who can let you stay home with the kids to begin with. I agree that he should help you when possible, if you are sick and he isn't but that's not always realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:21 PM
1

Most of the times I've been sick I've been more than capable of getting up and making my kid a bottle, maybe that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:06 PM
1

What happens when both of you are sick at the same time? Or if your husband can't stop doing his job to do yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:16 PM
5

Unfortunately most men and women are not taught how to be adults in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:09 PM
4

If a man wants you to take care of the home he needs to take care of the Financials. It's gotta be 50-50 one way or the other. My wife and I are very happy with her running the house and me paying the bills but I'd never expect her to work, raise our son and run the house at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:07 PM
6

Do you think most women find Danny Devito attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:37 AM
1

I'm forced to beat around the bush here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:05 PM
1

You have no concept of someone acting in the best interest of another instead of just themselves. And I didn't confirm shit, you are just trying to force words in my mouth because you have nothing better to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:28 AM
1

I'm not arguing with someone as obviously lost as you about the merits of not constantly fighting your spouse about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:56 PM
2

How is your relationship with your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:33 PM
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You are screwed then. I've yet to meet a single woman who actually knows how to be a good leader in a relationship. I've seen plenty of dominant women but they universally seem to have contempt for their husbands and have no clue how to handle that role in a way that is beneficial to the husband. Maybe they exist but I've yet to meet a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:31 PM
1

As opposed to an argumentative shrew.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:19 PM
2

The man you are speaking of is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:39 PM
2

IN YOUR OPINION they haven't because you are a fundamentally disagreeable person and already have concrete opinions on these issues that are at odds with the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:38 PM
1

I'll put this another way You are being argumentative, combative and disagreeable here. You are taking a dominant stance and trying to "win" this conversation. Your demeanor here is exactly what men have no interest in having as a wife. A submissive woman in contrast would accept his definition of the word, even if she disagrees, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:36 PM
3

I've been in a relationship with my wife for 10 years and married for 7. I can say in no uncertain terms that she absolutely loves sex and craves it just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:37 PM
1

When I talk to other men, their main criteria is "fit".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:24 PM
1

You have two major issues facing you. The first is that men (even you, though you may suppress it and not recognize it) have a natural protection instinct towards women, which is not reciprocated. When in a relationship, a man has natural urges to provide and care for his partner. Women do not have this natural impulse, their protective instincts are focused on their children not their partner. They also have expectations of protection that are rooted in biology and thousands of years of species…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:28 PM
1

You make the mistake many women do, in assuming that a guy is just going to crush on one woman like women do on men. That isn't how men work. Men are not nearly that picky, and are at least an order of magnitude less picky then women. These differences in attraction are rooted in biology. A woman can only have a child with one man at a time so there is no biological benefit to being attracted to a large variety of men. Men can have children with many women at once so there is a great biological/…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:51 PM
1

"Woman aren't just angry at the men who are the epicenter of bad behavior. Their mad that men who could help, chose instead to protect those oppressive behaviors." "Would you like a list of men I've seen you guys defend? Elliot Roger's. Alex misassain. You know. Mass fucking murderers. You sure you want to mud sling? Men are worse."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:04 PM
2

Don't lie. You have been blaming random men for not doing anything to make your life better throughout this entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:10 PM
1

That isn't at all how this works, because the current marriage rate (which isn't the "vast majority") depends on men having low standards. When a woman finds a man she is interested in, the chances of that interest being reciprocated are extremely high. When a man finds a woman he is interested in, the chances of that interest being reciprocated are extremely low. If both sexes were as picky as women, then the chances of there being reciprocation of interest at all would be incredibly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:08 PM
2

You are setting up a false dilema where "being a good person" equals "doing what I require you to do". The reality is that men don't need to become white knight saviors to be good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:35 PM
3

Don't have kids with guys who arent your husband and then complain about the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:32 PM
2

A guy shot at a vehicle fleeing a mob and hit several members of that mob, he was just given probation for 4 counts of attempted homicide. Our system sucks, stop blaming random men who have the exact same ability to change it that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:29 PM
2

If men were as picky as women, the human race would go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:24 PM
1

It's far more likely if you actively reject any attempt to build fulfilling, long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:04 PM
1

I've been married for 6 years and together for 10. I've got an incredibly fulfilling life. Meanwhile I see plenty of you guys who insist that just having random casual sex and never building a relationship is the best way to be, end up dying alone in a nursing home with nobody that cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:25 PM
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I have one kid and there is a lot of work to take care of my house. I also don't want an overworked, stressed out wife as that has many negative effects on our marriage. It's very beneficial to me to have a stay at home wife, the idea that I'm being taken advantage of is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:59 PM
0

I make half that working about 20 hours a week and at my current growth rate should be there in 3 years. I have a GED and work as a marketing freelancer. My wife is also a SAHM and does all the house work, and takes care of our son, which is pretty equal to the work I do if not a bit more in terms of hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:56 PM
5

And thus your opinion is irrelevant to this discussion, as this isn't a situation you are interested in to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:53 PM
9

I personally agree that promiscuity in general is gross but women seem less bothered by it and may even view a man with many past partners as a catch, because his ability to land those partners proves he is valuable. That doesn't apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:21 AM
0

Men aren't women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:21 PM
1

For women, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:21 PM
1

Well you seem to think my own 8 year marriage is inferior to yours, so two can play that game. And im not the one willing to let my spouse get away with murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:18 PM
1

I would argue that there is something wrong with you if you would continue to love your husband if he, say, intentionally killed your child. That's not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:18 PM
1

At one time, the idea that women are equal to men and that people should not own slaves were in the minority. It's interesting that your viewpoint would cause those ideas to be shunned and censored.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:12 PM
1

The idea that there is some love that is "true" implies that any other love is "false". This is an inherently false belief, and is a grave insult to anyone who isn't "in true love". The idea that there is nothing your husband can do to stop you from loving him is absurd. Do you expect me to believe you would keep loving your husband if he started cheating on you, or committed a heinous crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:48 PM
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It takes work, the love isn't intrinsic or unconditional and neither is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:38 PM
1

Because social media is where modern discourse is held. It is impossible to get an idea to spread without access to social media in 2022, and being banned from social media means you are defacto banned from the public square as a whole. You know this and it's exactly why you support mass censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:37 PM
1

So the love I feel for my wife is false love then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:34 PM
1

Love requires work to maintain, the idea that there is some type of "true" love that is everlasting and eternal is absurd, and also implies that any other type of love is "false".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:31 PM
0

Why are you trying to find a wife when you just want a full time cook and driver?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:28 PM
1

No, you've just been in love. "True love" is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:28 PM
1

Yes, I moderate a Discord with 45k members but it certainly cannot have free speech. Any online free speech property will be quickly be shut down by the platform or hosting company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:27 PM
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Racist and sexist forums are allowed elsewhere on this site. FDS is incredibly sexist towards men, BPT requires you to pass a racial purity test, and you can go to any political sub on the site to see dozens of attacks on straight white Christian men and how they are the most evil, destructive force in the galaxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:53 PM
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You have free speech, just take it down this back alley full of hookers and drug dealers. The public square is not for people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:47 PM
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Go hire a full time cook, driver and cleaner then. It's obvious you have no interest in a wife if that's how you view them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:37 PM
2

"True love" You sound like a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:34 PM
1

Are you qualified to diagnose all these women as mentally ill? It certainly seems like a personal attack you are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:57 PM
1

None of whom were 57 year old men. The advice that you give to a woman who has unrealistic expectations and an inflated view of their own worth on the sexual marketplace, whether she is 27 or 47 years old, does not necessarily apply to a 57-year-old man who has been married twice. All of the women he talked to were asking for advice on how to find a husband, which is the key point. Kevin Samuels wasn't struggling to attract a rich husband, so that advice would not apply to him. He has also spoke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:46 PM
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I'm not the one acting like people who need therapy should hide or be absolved of their actions, as if they were mentally incapable of making their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:32 PM
0

As part of a Dom/sub relationship, with consent from the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:31 PM
0

I don't know if you are aware, but attacking people as mentally ill as an insult is a violation of Reddit TOS. Needing therapy doesn't mean you have a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:30 PM
1

That's not at all the same thing. He was making videos giving advice to 20 something women, telling them they would end up alone because they had unrealistic standards and were refusing to accept men on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:21 PM
2

Ah yes, an out of context clip talking about a consensual BDSM relationship. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:19 PM
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It's a call in show, these women knew exactly what they were getting. The advice he gave them was legitimate. I'm sure you don't see it that way but that's not a surprise, based on your own views.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:52 PM
1

He wasn't giving advice to 50-something men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:50 PM
2

It's implicit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:27 PM
0

Did you miss the part where he talked about consent? Taking an out of context clip talking about a BDSM relationship is such an absurd attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:25 PM
0

Or, y'know, if they consent within an agreed upon dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:24 PM
1

He was just as popular if not more, on platforms like TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:18 PM
3

Funnily enough, one of Kevin's biggest arguments is "you need therapy" Telling an average woman that she will die alone if she continues to demand a .01% man is not at all what you are claiming he was doing. He was talking to women who called in for advice on how to attract a mate, which he was certainly qualified to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:15 PM
1

crickets Link the comment then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:11 PM
2

Leaves up all responses attacking a black man as racist against black women Deletes all rebuttals "Racially charged discussions should not be occuring on this sub in the first place"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:08 PM
2

"Black men don't want me because they are racist against black women" is such a lazy, bullshit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:05 PM
2

That requires the ability to do productive things with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:59 PM
1

Kevin isn't a 20-30 year old woman looking to get married. The women calling into his show were specifically asking for marriage advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:58 PM
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He was specifically talking to women trying to land a husband and teaching them to be realistic about their chances. These same women usually thought they deserved a 0.01% man to wife them up, and he was trying to get them to be realistic. He has specifically taught women that, just because a man will sleep with you doesn't mean he will wife you up (which is exactly what he was doing here was it not? He didn't marry this woman you are attacking him over). The fact that some RP guys get the wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:56 PM
1

I'm not talking about chosing a mate based on looks, I'm talking about your absurd idea that a guy should base his mating strategy on finding a high income earning wife. My wife is nowhere close to a model in looks and I picked her as much because we align in core values and she complements my own skill set. I agree that basing your choice solely on looks is not a good idea, that wasn't the issue I had with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:53 PM
1

The vast majority of people of both sexes are biologically wired and driven, making mate selection decisions in direct opposition to your biological imperitive is a recipe for disaster. You can't just snap your fingers and turn these urges off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:55 PM
1

Get over yourself Says the guy insisting the vast majority of men on this Earth are wrong and he, personally, is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:37 PM
1

You are advocating for these men to seek out such situations specifically, which is incredibly dangerous and damaging. Anyone who listens to your advice is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:27 AM
1

Then don't use it as an argument. There is a long list of examples I can give of women suddenly making more money than their husbands and leaving them because of it. I'm sure there are some women who would be fine with it but they arent a majority and men would be extremely foolish to chase these women specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:20 AM
1

Honestly, I’m that specific scenario How long have you been married and what do you/your spouse do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:06 AM
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You act like fighting and infidelity concerns go away in the dream scenario you present, but in reality your far more successful wife will resent being the breadwinner and end up cheating on you with a guy she sees as on her level. A doctor is not going to settle for a man who makes a fraction of her pay, who is less successful and lower status than she is. Women are not providers for men, that's not how our society has ever worked and it flies directly in the face of inate biological instincts.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:40 PM
0

It's an incredibly demanding job leaving little time left to be a wife and mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:07 PM
0

Doctors don't make good wives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:10 PM
1

It's actually a concept that dates back to Greece, from about 500 BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:39 PM
0

Sarcasm is lost on you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:37 PM
2

I would view the two terms as synonymous, like I said I'm not abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:34 PM
2

Most women actually prefer a man who stands up for himself and doesn't let himself get walked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:04 PM
1

You got it, I want the freedom to say the N word. It has nothing to do with being banned solely for my religious beliefs, or actively prevented from discussing biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:43 PM
1

The first amendment doesn't, free speech is a concept and an ideal not a law.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:28 AM
2

I'll have you know that my wife knew full well that I was an asshole when she married me. I'm just not on the level of "abusive".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:29 PM
2

I know very few men who have unachievable preferences, most just want a woman who isnt obese or a man hater. Its only high achieving/high value men whose preferences are on that level but for them it is truly achievable so its not an unrealistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:18 PM
1

He's older and has more assets so she would end up getting a paycheck while he would suffer a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:49 PM
-1

Less of a red flag than being childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:43 PM
1

Far easier for her to leave than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:42 PM
3

The problem then is no-fault divorce, not alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:31 PM
2

I bought a house, her credit and finances had nothing to do with the purchase. The person you were responding to was talking specifically about people not buying houses before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:00 PM
3

Don't invent figures, it's 50%. Far less if you aren't a fool. That's still terrible but stop acting like it's hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:04 PM
1

They aren't likely "pursuing women with time intensive jobs" intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:02 PM
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My wife is a SAHM and I always laugh at people getting mad about the idea of paying their spouse alimony when they spent years at home not working. That's all part of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:53 PM
6

You are likely looking at famous actors and musicians who are not representative of the average wealthy American.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:52 PM
3

It certainly happens in the US. My wife and I have been married 6 years, she is a SAHM and we just bought a house three months ago. I would also never expect to get away without paying alimony or child support if we got divorced but that's a separate discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:51 PM
2

If you aren't here in good faith, then leave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:47 PM
16

You have complete control over your own wallet my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:40 PM
5

You are making the same mistake many women make, assuming that what you are interested in is what the other sex should be interested in. It's only men that value looks above all else (and even then this is a terrible idea), women put looks way down the list of traits they find important in a partner. Attitude and competence are the most important traits for most women. Even when they do value looks it's about competence, height and fitness are both related to that core need and are more importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:38 PM
18

He thinks he's a 9 and is mad that ladies won't open their legs for him enmass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:33 PM
1

Looking at is as something optional is the quickest way to kill your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:25 PM
2

No surprise with Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:42 PM
12

He just called her a bitch a few times. You put way too much importance on that one word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:42 PM
1

Yep, he's equally as unhinged because he called her a bitch. You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:08 PM
8

You can click directly on the OPs profile and see every one of his comments, he has no other recent reddit history so its all listed at the top of his profile. Furthermore, I've personally responded multiple times with his follow-up comments and Lilith hasn't changed her views at all. From the OPs comments, its pretty clear there is an issue with their marriage and he has every right to vent about it. Her representation of his marriage and issues he is having are completely off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:04 PM
2

You actually said multiple times that he is the main problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:47 PM
8

So your argument is that he is lying about his contribution to his household because he is a man? Not sexist at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:45 PM
-1

Absolutely insane behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:31 PM
3

He didn't change his mind, he added context of what his wife was doing that made him call her a bitch. And I'd agree with him, if his representation of her is accurate then she is absolutely being a bitch to him. You've been presented these comments in this section yet you continue to argue as if they don't exist, which is disingenuous and poor form.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:30 PM
3

Its not their job to edit their posts in a way you demand. Its your job to understand the context when you are making an argument based on their initial post, especially when its presented to you. Its pretty obvious you are just clutching at straws now to keep your strawman alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:22 PM
18

Lilith actively breaks the rules of this subreddit and yet never gets punished. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:09 PM
5

The OP in the linked thread has stated he is involved in the housework and childcare equally. If one party is the sole breadwinner, then it would be reasonable for the other spouse (who does not need to dedicate 40 hours a week to earning money) to do the majority of the housework and childcare. That would not absolve the breadwinner from all responsibility, it should still be an equal division of labor but the idea that every couple needs to have both parents working full time is damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:05 PM
8

Sure, but that cannot be all the time or you are failing as a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:03 PM
5

Most people don't edit the parent post with every additional piece of information they discussed in the comments. You can literally just click the guys profile and see all of his comments on the thread. We also linked his comments in this thread and you refuse to read them or consider the new context in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:02 PM
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You are the one linking to this post, making assumptions about the issues he is having, and then refusing to accept the context when given to you on a silver platter. Its very obvious that your statements about his relationship issues are completely false and invented as a way to attack men, and your continued refusal to accept the additional context when presented to you only reinforces that. Even if you only read the parent post, most of your claims in this thread are unwarranted assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:58 PM
7

I don't need to speak in code. Sex is certainly part of the equation, if you are refusing to have sex with your spouse then they have every right to be unhappy with that (within reason, expecting sex the day after she gives birth is obviously absurd), but its far from the only duty you have as a spouse. Not treating them like crap being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:56 PM
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He doesn't need to edit the post, the comment section exists for a reason. He provides a ton of extra context on the issues he is having and they are completely unrelated to what you are talking about here. Its obvious that this thread is sexist strawman designed to attack men and you have no interest in recognizing the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:53 PM
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He never said he has to be the center of attention 24/7, your sexist assumptions are not needed. You also refuse to address the behaviors he outlined in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:48 PM
6

He didn't blame the kid, he blamed his wife. The only mention of his kid was saying her attitude changed after having him, which is not at all blaming the child. He never once said anything remotely close to blaming the child. The issues he outlines in the comment section are legitimate and not justified by motherhood, especially if her spouse is carrying some of the duties of parenthood. If you think that your spouse should expect to get treated like crap after having a child, I feel bad for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:43 PM
1

There are a lot of miserable people, both men and women, on this sub. Some are justified while others I cannot speak about without my comment being deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:39 PM
14

It's almost like you should read the comments for more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:37 PM
32

He never once blamed it on his kids, your entire argument is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:37 PM
7

OP thinks all duties you have as a spouse evaporate after having a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:33 PM
4

She didn't even read OPs comments in the thread she linked, his thread has nothing to do with kids beyond his wife's attitude changing after having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:33 PM
5

The thread you linked has nothing to do with an inability to parent, the OP is very clear that he parents his kids just as much as the wife. The only time his kid was mentioned was when he said her attitude changed after having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:31 PM
2

Men aren't interested in marrying women who hate them so that won't be an issue for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:28 PM
7

Y'all are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:27 PM
13

It's almost like his wife is being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:26 PM
7

Ah yes, he's obviously a sexist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:25 PM
8

Taking care of a child doesn't absolve you of your duties as a spouse. Especially if both parents are performing those duties like in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:23 PM
12

Tell me you didn't read the thread without actually saying you didn't read the thread She was and still is an amazing person. Politically, spiritually, financially, we are completely on the same page. We can go entire days having a blast. Laughing and being playful and light. Then, something will just switch. I'll do something completely harmless like leave the bathroom light on. It'll then turn into an entire ordeal where I don't understand our bills and how forgetful I am and how the light att…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:19 PM
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All he did was say his wife is a bitvh and your response is that he is unhinged. I don't think you understand how revealing your comments are. I'll do something completely harmless like leave the bathroom light on. It'll then turn into an entire ordeal where I don't understand our bills and how forgetful I am and how the light attracts bugs and she doesn't like the light on because of people seeing the light in the middle of the night... yeah.. just.. every reason under the sun as to how I fucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:18 PM
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Last response. No. That isn't the case. My wife gets all the help she could possibly need. It might be easy to just assume she's being mean because I'm sitting around doing nothing. But that's not the case. I get it while I'm taking care of the children. I get it while I'm doing chores. I get it while I'm working late. I get it while I'm cooking dinner. I get it while I'm driving us to a weekend vacation. I'm not a shitty lazy husband or father. I'm tired of carrying the weight of your biased an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:16 PM
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The guy you linked on Reddit never once said that, and specifically said he is sharing the parenting duties with his wife. His issue is her attitude. Taking care of children isn't being a wife, it's being a mother. You still have responsibilities towards your partner after having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:13 PM
8

Except the thread you linked isn't doing that, he's complaining about his wife always believing she is right and constant getting into arguments. Do you even read things before you bitch about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:11 PM
12

That whole thread she linked, the guy is only complaining about his wife's behavior and he never once mentioned his kid as the source of the problem beyond saying things changed after having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:06 PM
12

You are presenting a strawman in this thread, it's common to have relationship issues after having a child and attacking men for discussing it is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:57 PM
16

Having kids doesn't absolve you of your duties as a spouse, regardless of whatever strawman you present.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:46 PM
1

That was mostly due to just a general conservative viewpoint at the time, even though for example Lucy and Ricky were married it was still viewed as improper to show them in bed together. Where you get that from is also likely due to statements against contraception and other actions to avoid having children, but I think that abstinence to avoid having a child would be no different than using contraception. You have a duty to meet your spouses sexual needs (within reason) and refusing to do so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:31 PM
3

The idea that sex is only for the creation of life is not supported by the bible, while the bible does explicitly teach you to have sex with your spouse and in particular to avoid temptation and sexual immorality. By refusing to have sex with your spouse, you have sinned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:09 PM
2

Except you are 100% incorrect and directly contradicting what the bible states.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:04 PM
2

It is directly in opposition to the bible to withhold sex from your spouse. 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:03 PM
4

She is actually acting in direct opposition to the Bible in withholding sex from her spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:53 PM
0

I'm sure Jesus would respond just in this manner.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 12:12 PM
1

That's a false dilemma. Women want men who are at their level or above. If you refuse to approach women you are going to end up alone. You just need to understand your SMV, and preferably work to increase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:26 PM
1

The question is HOW DO MEN FIND THOSE WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:24 PM
1

The problem being addressed in this thread is "how do I find women who would want to date me" and your advice just boils down to "just pursue women who want to date you bro". It's less than helpful, it's actively harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:40 PM
2

Obviously all socially inept men deserve to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:38 PM
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Translation: this woman thinks any man who has trouble with women is a socially inept, basement dwelling loser and instead of saying this outright (because it would violate this subreddits rules) she is trying to be sly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:37 PM
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She's describing what men actually need to do, unlike the rest of the women who are teaching you how to be a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:31 PM
0

Honestly the most grounded response from a woman in this thread. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:31 PM
1

So many of these threads blame women for being too choosy or whatever, but women apparently do just fine on apps and in real life. Women do fine because men are far less picky then woman, you are literally reinforcing that point not arguing against it. It's almost like men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:29 PM
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You don't "build" interest in a woman, this is not at all how things work. If there isn't some interest at the start then trying to build it will only end in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:26 PM
2

Most Muslims don't "date"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:54 AM
2

If you are in high school and stressing about women, stop. Work on improving yourself and getting ready for college, your whole world will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:46 AM
6

It sounds like your standards are higher than your game my guy, if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:43 AM
13

Woman finds man on OLD, doesn't realize that things are way different for men PPD in a nutshell really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:41 AM
5

I have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:06 PM
2

In my opinion, anyone who has casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:44 AM
0

I think your very limited experience is not representative of 99% of women, lies about having more partners than otherwise just don't make sense in nearly all cases (including yours honestly). It only really makes sense for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:40 AM
5

A lot of people have no interest in sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:35 AM
3

If one of the members of a friendship have a sexual interest or desire towards the other person in the relationship, then it is no longer a platonic relationship. Whether or not you can still be friends regardless of that sexual desire is a separate question. Lying about it and pretending that there is no interest doesn't really help with this. If anything it's just dishonest and misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:25 PM
4

I think a lot of people are going to disagree with your use of the word platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:20 PM
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A man who is into you is not necessarily going to actively try to pick you up, especially if he knows that he doesn't have a chance. That doesn't mean he's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:23 PM
5

He never said he tries to fuck every woman he spends time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:21 PM
5

But you did sleep with each other in the past, by definition your relationship includes a sexual component even if you do not sleep together now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:20 PM
0

Do you have casual sex or are you someone who only has sex within a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:19 PM
1

That is a man trying to describe himself in the best possible terms, in order to get pussy, not other men describing him. Women do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:18 PM
6

Someone who you have slept with in the past is not a platonic friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:40 PM
1

If one of these women asked you to fuck randomly, and you yourself were not in a relationship, would you fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:40 PM
1

If one of these women asked you to fuck randomly, and you yourself were not in a relationship, would you fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:38 PM
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That's because you are a woman and not a man. If men were as picky as women the human race would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:35 PM
6

If you're going to be a piece of shit and insult him, don't try to preface it by saying no offense. The reality is that most men find most women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:34 PM
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This is a common claim by women that is proven false 95% of the time. Unless you are uglier than sin I guarantee those guys would fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:20 PM
2

Sexism =\= Misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:15 PM
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I don't think you two disagree, he's just saying that 5'7" guy has such a steep hill to climb that it's often not worth the effort. And I'll agree that just getting fit isn't going to put a 5'7" guy on the map for most women. It improves things for him but not by much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:40 AM
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My wife isn't her family, we have been together going on 10 years and I would never change that decision if I could. You'll excuse me if I don't post my exact take home but I do quite well for myself, I own a growing digital marketing agency with several employees. I also live in a low COL area.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:22 AM
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I make six figures and my wife's family are gang bangers and drug addicts. This is completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:45 AM
4

Being hot doesn't make you high value. An NBA player has life easier than basically everyone on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:41 PM
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Only if you as a man are low value. High value men always have the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:19 PM
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Yes but he still got the chance, which he probably would not get if he was poor. His looks and status got him in the door he just failed to close the deal. Being rich and attractive may make you a HVM but that doesn't mean every single woman is going to be interested in a relationship. I don't see anyone making that argument, it seems to be a bit of a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:19 PM
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No, women are far more likely to have a ONS with a guy who is lower income but attractive, fit and personable. They just cant be a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:17 PM
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Just because he was a HVM doesn't mean he was compatible with you, those two things are completely different. It doesn't really prove anything, if anything it reinforces my point because that guy still got the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:59 AM
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Like for like is mostly below average and average SMV women, the higher their SMV the higher they go up the chain for men. A woman will date "her equal" financially if she has no other options or if he has other things going for him (looks, personality, future potential earnings, mindset, etc). She will never date down, at least for an LTR. This is hard wired, it's biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:40 AM
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You see working class women dating working class men, poor women dating poor men, and middle class women dating middle class men. You probably also see plenty of middle class and higher men dating poor and working class women because men care far less about income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:15 AM
6

This only applies to LTRs not casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:12 AM
1

Do you have a source for those numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:11 AM
5

Y'all get so offended over everything, doesn't it get tiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:53 AM
2

Except you can't see mental illness on an x-ray.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:22 PM
2

The fact that they have a large amount of partners means they have poor impulse control, it's a direct correlation between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:21 PM
2

Everything she is saying is textbook radical feminism. In reality she is exactly the same as what she claims to be fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:32 AM
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Nobody cares, stop harassing this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:22 AM
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The person you are arguing with is a rabid feminist hell bent on forcing everyone in the planet to adhear to their own personal worldview, it's best to just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:22 AM
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The idea that men and women are different and want different things isn't misogynistic it's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:20 AM
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The fact that the rest of our society is a decedant failure doesn't mean you should just join in. For every marriage that ends in divorce there is another that doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:45 PM
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Only if the person you marry sees it that way. You shouldn't need the government to force you to stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:45 PM
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The idea that "the dream" for most people now is to have cheap, unfulfilling sex with someone you won't even remember the name of in a month really makes me sad and worry for the fate of our civilization. Unfortunately I only see this getting worse as most women and men today are not worthy of long term commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:55 PM
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The red pill doesn't actually say that women are awful or horrible, it's just an admittedly large portion of red pill users that think this. There are groups such as red pilled Christian and married red pill that tend to have a far more rational view of relationships and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:46 AM
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(͡•_ ͡• )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:44 AM
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Your man still makes six figures, is taller than you and you didn't talk about the third one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:01 PM
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Man if you are average looking that is not at all enough. You just need to have something going for you and be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:59 AM
2

So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:35 PM
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You are a member of the same society that I belong to and the prevalence of such immoral behavior is something I actively need to protect my family and children from on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:26 PM
3

Do you even have a point here or are you just arguing for argument's sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:25 PM
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Why? What justification do you have to force others to not have an opinion of your behavior? You can go sleep around and I'll think you are promiscuous. I'd think the same of a man too. And you have no right to force me to change my opinion of your behavior. The real question is, why do you even care what I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:23 PM
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Or the argument in the OP is bad and you are still promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:20 PM
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Saying that there is a gender role that lets men be sluts but requires women not to be is absurd. Maybe just don't be a slut if you expect your woman to be chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:19 PM
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That whole justification of male promiscuity while attacking female promiscuity thing is just weird. I personally think all promiscuity and casual sex is bad, but if it's fine for you as a man who are you to say anything about a woman doing the same thing? The relative difficulty the man faces in comparison to a woman is irrelevant to a discussion about morality or acceptable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:17 PM
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I disagree with a lot of TRP ideas and probably agree for the most part that a lot of people are using it to justify failure, but pointing at your ex as proof of what you are into is kinda missing the point. Because, they are your ex. Obviously you didn't break up with them because they are short but you DID break up with them for some reason. I don't think the idea that a short guy can still have success in the sexual marketplace goes against TRP. It's only the black pillers who think that shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:15 PM
6

This seems to be prevelant on both sides here. Obviously all the women have BPD and all the men are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:07 PM
5

It's like any stereotype, a kernal of truth stretched to absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:00 AM
8

She gets a paid for house and alimony.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 07:04 PM
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The problem is that he coerced her. When my wife and I did a prenup, I had her find her own lawyer with advice from family and gave her the money to pay for it. We then sat down with the lawyers together and worked on a plan that we both agreed to. It's specifically covers children and entitles her to child support, as well as other benefits. It would be very unlikely for this to get thrown out in court. It's when the contract is obviously to the benefit of one party and is forced upon the other…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 01:06 PM
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The prenup should ensure that you have enough to live on and are secure if you are to be divorced. Especially if you are going to be a stay-at-home mother. My own prenup gives my wife our marital home, I would be out on my ass, as well as child support and other benefits. It does also limit any alimony to a reasonable amount and sets the expectation that she would go back to work if we divorce. I'm the end it protects both of us.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 12:49 PM
2

It's more that most people here are jaded, while most people with everything put together are going to steer clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:55 AM
1

I'm not the one complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:39 AM
1

Now your cooking with meth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:49 PM
1

Why stop at billions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:17 PM
0

Or, y'know, in a hypothetical future where a draft is actually necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:09 PM
0

Except we don't currently have a draft so it obviously does not apply to the wars we are in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:43 PM
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As a married man with a stay at home wife, she has a set amount of money every month that she can do whatever with as well as a budget for the home expenses that she manages. I'd only ask her to justify expenses that go beyond this. Unlike some of the other posters here claiming he is trying to abuse you, I suggest you just talk about this with your boyfriend and why needing to justify everything isnt something you are comfortable with. A larger issue is if you don't ever want to stop working, i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 09:43 PM
2

Your comment implies it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:09 PM
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You just admitted that there would be mass death if we went back 500 years overnight, while arguing that women would be fine if all the men left. I never said humanity wouldn't survive, I said that you PERSONALLY and the other modern women here would be fucked. And you would be, because you have no clue how to survive as a hunter gatherer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:58 PM
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Why havent you then, if it's so great to have to hunt and gather to avoid starvation? This discussion isn't about you, it's about women as a whole. The vast majority of men and women in our society are completely incapable of surviving if our current system fails completely. Some people will likely survive but they will be a small minority of the current population. People in bush tribes may not care about modern tech, but your average American feminist sure as shit does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:22 PM
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When the trains stop running you will come looking for men. When the shelves in the stores are empty you will come looking for men. When the bridges fail and the roads are impassable you will come looking for men. When the power and internet stops functioning you will come looking for men. When the supply of medicine dries up you will come looking for men. The reality is that men and women both need each other. We have different roles to play in society but both are equally important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:55 PM
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Most ambitious, educated and highly motivated men have no need to go to TRP and complain how terrible life is for men. The few of us that come here, are largely here for an education - either to receive one or to provide one. The fact that "ambitious, educated and highly motivated" women have created a place like FDS speaks volumes about how they are really doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:52 PM
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Because 99.99% of us are just regular people living our lives, without the capability to start or prevent wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:48 PM
5

Blaming all men for the actions of a handful is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:47 PM
4

This view that all men were oppressors is absurd. Most humans throughout history were oppressed and very few have been the oppressor. There is also a group in the middle who are neither, which some people never seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:45 PM
2

This sub is full of angry, sad people for the most part. Most of them are trying to blame the other gender for the issues they cause for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:42 PM
-5

Grow a pair bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:33 PM
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You are the problem here just as much as the men you criticize, who I will agree are certainly a big problem themselves. Not every guy here is obsessed with sex and just wants to bang every woman he finds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:31 PM
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From your post, you are just as bad as the men you criticize. Both of you are terrible people and deserve what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:10 PM
-1

You know we don't have a draft right now, yeah? There is a difference between joining up to fight in Afghanistan vs joining up during a WW2-like scenario where our country is actually at risk. He was pretty obviously talking about the later, so your entire rant on how terrible our military is was irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:05 PM
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Most of the people in this subreddit, of both genders, are pretty terrible people. I question how much empathy you deserve when you have none for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:02 PM
1

Did I not just say that you can have mind blowing sex in an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:52 AM
2

If all you care about is sex, then obviously an LTR is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:28 PM
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Oh I don’t care to be a thot or not Obviously no way I am on a ltr just to have pity sex I hope you are aware that you can have mind blowing sex in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:26 AM
13

You can always be promiscuous, you just have to deal with the consequences. You can have sex in LTRs and not be a thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:24 AM
19

Hooking up is promiscuous, period
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:01 AM
1

Your anecdotal evidence isn't very compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:10 PM
3

Kids take a lot of time and effort, a relationship with a single mom or dad is very different from one with a childless partner. It's much better when it's your own kid, not some other guys. Baby daddy issues is a big one. Plenty of guys get dumped because she wants to try and make it work (which she should, honestly). Or have to deal with aggressive guys who are still orbiting. Then if you do get married and have kids of your own, it will always add drama. Your kids will always end up with less…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:07 AM
1

"Chosing a high earning field isn't hard" Your privilege is showing dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:46 AM
1

And if the husband arranges additional childcare to assist the mother (other family, etc) and still has some duties at home? You really shouldn't get involved in the lives of other people you know nothing about. Im sure we could find plenty of things to attack you over as well but it's better to just let people live their own lives without the need to stick your nose in it. (Especially if you are so privileged to be surrounded by high income earners that are within the top 5%, to the point you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:32 PM
0

I work as many hours as needed running my business while I pay my wife's sister to help care for our kid if needed, so my wife does not have to "work non stop". I also still help with our son when I am home. "Not sure how it's fair" It's not actually any of your business what deals free adults make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:21 PM
0

Allowing your wife to stay at home all day versus being forced to put your kid into daycare and have them taken care of by strangers is a sacrifice for your family. Most men who can do this have to work very hard to support the family on their own, and that sacrifice is worth it. With the right partner, you will still be able to spend plenty of time with your wife and child because the home will be taken care of. Your arguments are absurd and any man reading the crap that spews from your mouth w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:57 AM
2

Taking care of a house and a kid is a 40+ hour per week job. If one parent working 60 hours a week, not taking care of the home while the other is at home parenting and managing the house, that working parent is going to have just as much free time to spend with his family than he would if he had to come home and spend hours cooking, cleaning and managing the house. The idea that you can just snap your fingers and make 6 figures working 40 hours a week is patently absurd. Men, look at the things…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:54 AM
2

So....both partners should stay home full time to raise a kid? Or both of them are required to work full time or else the one that works is valuing career over family? There is no possible scenario where this argument makes a lick of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:25 AM
2

The only person who thinks they are a hypocrite is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:21 AM
1

High earning men aren't interested in women with matching careers and income levels, we want other things from our partner. The same goes for many women. The idea that we need to be identical to the partner we want us absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:16 AM
1

A lot of red pill information is valid and useful but the community online is full of losers, casual sex fiends, communists and pick up artists. The hatred towards women makes TRP a mirror image of FDS and at the end of the day both sides are equally trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:38 PM
3

McDonald's is paying $15 an hour here in Massachusetts to start, while an employee in Denmark making $45k a year gross will only net $28k a year after taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:15 PM
2

That's why I clarified it really depends on where you live. I am in Maine and have been able to support our family on $80k when I was at that level but we would have been stretched very thin if we still lived an hour outside of Boston. We wouldn't have been able to do it at all if we lived IN Boston. As the sole breadwinner for my family I will always extol the virtues of having one partner at home to take care of the family while the other is at work taking care of the family finances. The work…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:44 PM
2

If you are making $80k a year you better be in a low COL area because that isn't gonna cut it in NYC, SF, LA, etc. Conversely, if one partner is at home and taking care of the tasks there the other partner should be free to work more than a standard 40-hour week without it being a significant burden. Most people spend another 20 hours a week on home shores and if you can cut most of that out then you should be able to make significantly more money than you can working straight 40. The problem I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:14 PM
3

The woman isn't to blame for being abused but she has certainly exhibited terrible decision making and is to blame for staying if she does after his nature is known. It's still the man who should go to jail for the abuse but that doesn't absolve the woman of her own poor choices. If your friends are constantly ending up with abusive guys (especially if, as you say, your own boyfriends are great) that point to terrible mate selection on their behalf. I will certainly blame them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:03 PM
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This is true but society and women themselves refuse to be honest about what they find attractive. The amount of bullshit advice I've heard women give guys on how to attract a man is unreal and it makes me cringe when I see guys following it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:42 PM
8

There's always a certain type of woman who says these things and she never seems to take a step back and look at her own dating choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:38 PM
5

Even when it comes to people already in a relationship, blue pill advice does not work for men. Following that advice is a recipe for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:33 PM
0

The Bible is written by man, it is only the word of God contained within it that is perfect.
/r/RPChristians31/01/22 12:38 PM
3

Sounds like you do a terrible job of vetting people you let in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:25 AM
3

Having options and being able to use those options makes you more attractive. Cheating itself doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:23 AM
2

I do, it's just a false expression. He would have accepted a no, he had no choice otherwise. The fact that he kept insisting is a HUGE red flag. Just so you are aware for next time, guys who don't want to get in your pants arent going to insist you let them do favors for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:42 AM
2

How can someone not take no for an answer? Is he going to force you into his car? The fact that he "wouldnt take no for an answer" is a red flag in its own right. If you didn't know ahead of time it's not a big deal but both men and women play games, it's just different. You know now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:38 AM
1

Stop trying to get favors from men, you know now and have no excuse going forward. If you continue to try and get them to do things for you then you are no better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:33 AM
2

I don't want anyone to have sex on the first date, casual sex is disgusting. But if you are going to do it, why just with someone you have no interest in as a partner? Why would you treat the guy you like more, differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:59 PM
2

She is only considering herself and not the impact her actions have on someone she wants to have a relationship with. That's a terrible way to go about it. And the person I was responding to said this is a learned behavior after being ghosted due to having sex on the first date with someone they wanted a relationship. So in that case, the person didn't get what they want. They wanted a relationship but only got a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:23 PM
2

And in this case the woman is a piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:43 AM
8

It's not that guys deserve to score, it's that you shouldn't treat "boyfriend material" guys differently. If you fuck on the first date, then fuck on the first date. I find that trashy AF to fuck on the first date regardless but that's beside the point, the woman already does that with guys she has no interest in as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:42 AM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:41 AM
5

They shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:23 AM
34

So in summary; Woman makes bad decisions in terms of sexual partners, gets ghosted after having sex right away. Woman then assumes all men are like that, and changes her behavior so that she treats men she wants to be in a relationship with worse than those she doesn't. Women still has regular casual sex. Why would any sane man be interested in this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:08 PM
3

Your dad is an abuser and your mom lets it happen. That has nothing to do with redpill ideology or traditional relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 03:32 PM
1

Are you married currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:47 PM
1

Your proposal is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:46 PM
4

Reality sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:47 PM
5

Replies to a thread saying "It isn't advocating for turning your children black and blue" Claims physical reprimands are bad because you shouldn't turn you child black and blue I agree with the other posters, no wonder you are an atheist with this logic.
/r/RPChristians01/01/22 06:37 PM
6

There were huge spikes in marriage rates during WW2 as soldiers went off to the front. Many high school sweethearts tied the knot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:28 AM
1

Being around each other constantly =\= eating meals together. Why even live together at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:57 PM
1

You seem to be whining about it just as much as they are, if not more. Those "bad boys" at least have masculine traits and I doubt they spend so much time complaining about women. Women can't change what attracts them, nor can men. It's hard wired into our DNA. "Nice guys" who let women walk all over them have never been viewed as attractive by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:43 PM
1

Women are attracted to men, not beta orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:10 PM
0

It has nothing to do with an attempt to deceive. Women do not understand what it means to be a man. We should listen to your complaints and issues with us but when it comes to learning how to be a better man, you don't have the context necessary to provide advice. The same goes for men towards women by the way. He may be a good resource but men shouldnt be getting refered to him by you. I'm not in need of new role models myself but I'm also not your average TRP regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:03 PM
2

In my opinion, men shouldn't take advice from women on how to be better men. That includes suggestions on which other men to take advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:37 PM
3

Married to a great woman who gave me a strong, healthy son. About to celebrate 9 years together as a couple. We hit a rough patch for a while due to a lack of understanding of our roles in marriage and as husband and wife. Understanding and accepting the reality of traditional gender roles and our duties to each other as husband and wife helped us push past these issues and we are now closer than ever because of it. Neither of us question what we should be doing because we both know our place in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:32 PM
1

One would wonder why you are even living together at that point. The vast majority of people would find it very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:18 PM
1

That genuinely sounds terrible and I'm sorry you have to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:01 AM
0

We do not mix finances Splits living expenses 50/50 Uhuh. I'm sure you both eat every meal separate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:03 AM
2

You claimed you were living on $35k and still manage to save $1k a month, which is false. You are living on $35k + your partners salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:43 AM
1

Sure it would. You just aren't going to be working 40 hours a week to do so. In the '50s my grandfather worked during the day as a school counselor and at night as a machinist, he didn't just get to work 40 hours a week and come home to a stay-at-home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:38 PM
4

I don't know where you are coming up with this but it's terrible advice and you could stop giving it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/21 12:41 PM
1

Dip is nasty and gives you mouth cancer. Have you ever seen what that looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:33 PM
2

A hot woman with an ugly soul is still ugly. Men may want to fuck them but they will never desire a life together with a woman who is so full of contempt as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:56 AM
1

Ah yes, I'm so violent. I'll agree that sex work is degenerate regardless of who does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:54 AM
2

God damn are you hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:04 AM
2

No, men don't want you. That is the key point you are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:37 AM
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It really doesn't you're just listening to idiots. Men being uninterested in young single mothers has nothing to do with the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:26 AM
1

The wall tends to be around 40 for most women, not 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:25 AM
0

At 26 you still have a number of years before you hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:23 AM
0

Not being an old unmarried woman with five cats is a pretty big plus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:21 AM
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Who the fuck is going to have sex and not cum?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 11:47 AM
4

TRP is. People in the TRP community are not. Plenty of woman haters here that ruin the message.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 11:53 AM
1

I hate all this bullshit blackpill nonsense. Women want strong, dominant, masculine leaders to make their partners. It's only when they fail to find one that they will settle for a weak provider. It's not that they like bad boys it's that the rest their options are lazy, overweight man children who are incapable of leadership in any way. If you want to attract a valuable mate then you must yourself work on being of value. What makes women attracted to certain men has been a constant for thousand…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:43 AM
1

Taking a bus is too hard, you need to stuff the healthy food straight in their mouth or else there are too many barriers to being healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:17 PM
12

95% of all humans who ever existed were not fat. It's only in the last 50 years that we've become a bunch of fat slobs. It's not rocket science to get back to a healthy weight, it just requires work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:13 PM
1

That depends entirely on the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:24 PM
2

That qualification doesn't stop you from just being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:23 PM
2

Billionaires are a tiny fraction of this group. Pretty massive difference between someone worth 30 billion dollars and someone who makes 500k a year. Men in the 1% are likely to be surrounded by people at a similar level so that tends to be the pool of people they have to pick from for a partner. Those that get married young tend to be married to their college sweetheart and it's because of their proximity not their education. There is certainly a preference for women who can hold a conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:28 PM
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The uneducated part is different, but you can be at Starbucks or McDonald's with a masters. Even then there are plenty of men who value other things than that. Including a number of men who are not traditionally educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:44 PM
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Tons of random hot girls on Insta getting flown out to parties, not sure how you are missing this. I have yet to meet a single man who gave a fuck about the current socioeconomic status of their potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:44 PM
1

You seem to be confusing SMV and RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:00 PM
2

Yes, that's because the vast majority of people make similar amounts of money to their spouse. If both parties in a marriage make 50k a year then nobody's getting alimony. If one parent becomes the custodial parent they would still get child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:46 AM
0

Sex doesn't make woman lose their attractiveness but it does make both men and women become less fit as partners in a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:32 AM
1

You are inventing a hypothetical that does not match the reality of the majority of marriages. I'm sure you can find examples of this happening but it is by far in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:30 AM
1

Only 20% of marriages experience infidelity in the United States and it's women who are more likely to be unfaithful than men in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:29 AM
2

80% of marriages do not experience any infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:28 AM
2

The OPs question depends on a false hypothetical which does not reflect the beliefs of most red pills individuals. Refuting that hypothetical is a valid response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:27 AM
2

Pretty obvious this person just hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:24 AM
2

One out of every 10 divorces results in spousal support, while 79% of custodial mothers receive a child support award. In the '60s 25% of divorce settlements included alimony, The primary driver of this decrease is the increased incomes of women. The idea that a woman married to a high-earning man will not receive alimony in a divorce if she has no income is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:23 AM
0

Only 20% of marriages ever experience infidelity and it's women that are more likely to cheat than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:19 AM
1

I swear this entire subreddit is just incels and femcels. Go outside and touch grass. Only ~20% of marriages ever experience infidelity and woman are more likely than men to cheat by a small margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:16 AM
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You literally are the mirror image of an incel but female. If you think the average guy posting on the subreddit is representative of the average American male you are in need of a psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:14 AM
1

Single motherhood is one of the greatest indicators of future poverty and low outcomes for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:11 AM
2

Plenty of 1% men dating baristas, if the woman is attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:04 AM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:51 AM
2

They know you care about these things and are showing interest in the things that are important to you. This is normal healthy relationship stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 04:40 PM
3

To me it does but it's not enough on its own, you still need attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 01:41 PM
1

I've never seen anyone say you should marry at 18. Get married as a young virgin, yes, but not "at 18". 21 is quite young to get married in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:08 AM
1

Partners who are ready to get married? I don't remember being overwhelmed with young guys who wanted to settle down at college. They all just wanted to party. You said 20 after this, but I dont know a single person that expects women to marry at 18. This thread is talking about settling down in your 20s, which would be 20-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:33 AM
1

You met your husband when he was 23 and are claiming that there aren't young men interested in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:11 AM
1

There are plenty of men looking to get married young, they just aren't trying to get with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:59 PM
0

You confuse feminism and egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:21 PM
1

That sounds like more of a you problem than a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:34 PM
1

You get married, settle down and raise some kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:34 PM
0

And by making that decision she's already self-selected 90% of men out before she gets to any of her other requirements. I'm willing to bet she also wants him to be 6 ft tall, have a 6 inch dick and makes six figures too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:33 PM
1

Where are you seeing people saying that the wall is 25 because that's a bunch of bullshit, it's off by about a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:54 AM
1

Or it's just the result of being a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:27 AM
1

There are definitely women who are interested in those men but a huge number of women in our society value clout and influence over pure monetary value. Pick a broke guy with 100,000 Instagram followers and a plumber who makes six figures, send them both to the club and I guarantee the broke guy gets more tail then the plumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:20 PM
1

It's a stretch to say most women are aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:18 PM
1

The same thing that happened to modern women. Do you think you all are prizes? You ladies are engaged in some of the most disgusting and immoral behaviors, have no interest in assuming your societal roles, and are running around acting like men as you bemoan your lack of dating prospects. Hell, the whole reason we have so many weak men is because we have so many single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:40 PM
2

If he is currently in college and does not have a full-time job then he would still be college-aged by definition even if he is older than the normal age for a college student. It's less about age and more about the inability to support yourself and others.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 01:54 PM
5

He is a progressive/liberal. We have talked about marriage and family but never in detail. He did say he wanted to get married and have children but we never discussed any further. That should be on top of your things to ask about, if he is a leftist then it's very unlikely he wants to be the sole provider.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:03 PM
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If you are looking for a provider, stop dating college aged men. You have no clue how well this guy will ever be able to provide for you, just because he is in college doesn't mean he will ever make enough to support you the way you wish.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:01 PM
3

Most red pilled people are conservative and red pill thought aligns largely with traditional views of gender roles.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:00 PM
4

God loves you and so do I.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 05:51 PM
3

Yes
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 05:22 PM
3

You're hilarious.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 05:18 PM
5

All porn is non-consensual because God didn't consent.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 05:07 PM
6

All porn is degenerate, and you shouldn't watch it. I'm not the other guy who you were responding to. Saying that 2/3rds of porn on PornHub was child porn is pants on head idiocy.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 04:53 PM
-1

Have you tried just not watching porn at all?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 04:45 PM
6

2/3rds of it's content was uploaded by the community and could not be verified because the submitters did not respond, saying it was of children only shows you are uneducated about the topic.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 04:44 PM
1

Men aren't women. We do not look for partners based on how much money they have or what they do for work. We actually often prefer women who are below us in terms of careers or finances. Don't spend a single second worrying about those things, they just don't matter to men at all. It's also often not worth it to be in a relationship with a model or other "extremely beautiful" woman because they tend to be shallow and only care about money. A woman who is still very attractive but has a variety o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 09:41 PM
1

There are a lot of idiots on this sub (like most of Reddit). I wouldn't say this sub "has a healthy outlook towards sexuality" because there are a range of beliefs held here and many will be negative. Make sure to let me know when your future wife's boyfriend knocks her up so I can send them a card.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/21 10:35 AM
1

Its pretty obvious that you are in the far minority when you think that someone who has an onlyfans is good dating material. That would make your definition of "ho" strange, not mine.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/21 04:26 PM
1

For $200, I know a girl
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:29 PM
1

I'd rather make that building websites and not have every person I know think I'm a whore.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:28 PM
1

Stop being a fucking simp Jesus Christ. Being a ho isn't attractive, and dating someone who is a ho is just sad. They have every right to sell their body and we have every right to call them what they are. A ho.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:24 PM
1

That's just you being a beta.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:20 PM
1

Imaging thinking that the only thing that matters is being hot enough to have an only fans. Nobody wants to date a ho bro.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:20 PM
5

It is an increasingly common view among modern women that you should be able to go on only fans and then still earn a high value mate.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 12:15 PM
7

Seems that you are the one who has nothing better to do with their life than harass people.
/r/RPChristians10/05/21 10:36 AM
1

It's against Reddit rules to pre emptively ban users from your sub, report them to the admins.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/21 03:04 PM
1

There is a difference between being friends with a slut and dating a slut.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/21 11:30 AM
0

They are both sluts. And our society loves them for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/21 11:29 AM
1

That's what you get for listening to Reddit
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 09:41 AM
1

More people are killed with blunt objects in the US than with rifles or shotguns.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:26 PM
2

They own rifles and shotguns largely, its almost impossible to get a carry permit (basically just if you work in security) and there are very few pistols in general.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 02:38 PM
2

The big problem is a lack of national standards on use of force, and training on such standards. If you implemented that it would significantly reduce these issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 12:52 PM
-1

Everyone doesn't have a gun in those countries
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 12:13 PM
4

Ah yes, I remember the bill Bush passed in 2001 banning sex. Thank God Obama repealed that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:05 PM
1

Yes
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/20 12:42 PM
0

If you aren't having casual sex with anyone that asks then it's much less of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 12:18 PM
1

There's a massive difference between changing your personality and doing things that bother the people around you. The latter is an issue you need to address. if all your personality is made up of is your actions then you are a hollow shallow shell of a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:41 PM
2

What I am saying is that if they dont like me for what I am, they can simply go alway. That is an extremely bad mentality to have if you're trying to convince other people to spend time with you. If you are just going to go around doing things that bother people then they are not going to want to spend any time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:32 PM
3

What you hate is how the women are acting not the people explaining reality to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 03:28 PM
2

Because the rest of us live in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:09 PM
2

No way are you gonna find a woman that lets you sleep around while you are faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 08:26 PM
0

Conservative women aren't like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:17 PM
2

Go back to FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:10 PM
1

You need to look for conservative men, feminism is the enemy of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:00 PM
2

Cause people should really focus on their own country instead of bitching about others they shouldn't be worried about. Foreigners telling people of any country how to do things will get downvoted by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:40 AM
2

39% of children born into mother only households are in poverty, compared to 8% of children born into two parent households. https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator_cce.asp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:51 AM
2

What the hell is mental attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:07 PM
9

My wife and I are both ugly as hell and we still have high amounts of attraction for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:06 PM
2

Meanwhile all of us motorists are swearing loudly at the cyclist that just ran a red light and rode the wrong way down the street.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/20 07:13 PM
8

If his only job is selling mushrooms then he will not be a good provider.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 11:21 AM
3

You have this backwards, the only people making money selling weed right now are the dispensaries. To start one takes six figures.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 11:20 AM
1

I am just trying to give you an honest answer, not a bunch of lies intended to benefit me at your expense. If you are not even twenty yet then you have plenty of time. Right now you should be focused on yourself and making yourself the best version of you that you can be. If you manage to do this and make a success of yourself while taking care of your appearance (and not being a doormat), women will undoubtedly be interested in you. Then if you are interested in a long-term relationship you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:09 AM
1

I agree with your larger point, but in this case I would say that being married to a woman who fucks other guys for money is peak beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:52 AM
2

We call those men losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:51 AM
1

In that guy's case he should have just cut it all off and owned it, I feel like women are more bothered by men being ashamed than they are by the baldness itself. That is very likely to manifest when you are rocking a comb over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:48 AM
1

If you hit 30 as a man and are still a virgin that's not being unlucky, that is you being a loser. Unless you are a religious extremist or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:46 AM
1

Also men are just as likely to be obese and most of the issues that many here have with attractive women just do not apply to unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:43 AM
3

I think you are making an assumption that's the people to you interact with represent the majority. To me it sounds like you are in college, and hanging around with a certain crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:41 AM
2

TRP would call those men betas and I would agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:25 AM
3

Do you really think you are going to learn how to attract a mate by being a platonic friend with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:23 AM
2

This is the most garbage take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:19 AM
2

It sounds like you are essentially a high end version of the pool boy that the rich house wife likes to play around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:22 AM
4

TRP are extremists, like many blue pills. You are in a community full of scarred, deeply troubled individuals. There is some truth to a lot of things here, especially some of the complaints about how men are in society, but everything here needs to be understood within the context of the individuals here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:09 AM
1

In my experience I know far more people who smoke weed constantly than I do people who drink every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:29 PM
2

She literally said it was wrong because it causes harm. Her statement was the following: Objectification is not wrong in itself, but This is her saying that objectification is not inherently wrong, and then starting to provide an example of times where objectification IS inherently wrong. what makes it wrong This is where she states that the example she is providing is an example of wrongful objectification. is the harm it causes to other people This is where she states that her example is a typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:44 PM
1

Genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:49 PM
2

She is specifically saying that using people as a means to an end is wrong, and he is saying that it is fine (specifically in the context that this sub primarily discusses). He is directly contradicting her statement. I'm not sure how to make that any more clear to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:45 PM
2

You stated that "using (people) as ends, denying them as individuals" is wrong because of the harm it causes and he responded saying essentially that its not wrong to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:35 PM
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That's pretty obviously not what she is saying. Furthermore, he never says "women can only offer sex" he says "its not our fault when a woman has nothing to offer beyond sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:32 PM
2

He's responding to your comment and even quoted the exact part of it that he is responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:22 PM
2

Most RP men do not seek out LTRs and instead attempt to spin plates, and I would say that anyone who is interested in an LTR is by definition not a RP man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:46 AM
1

We can smell the hatred from here my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:33 AM
2

Why don't you try fighting to change society for the better instead of retreating like a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:43 PM
1

Yes, I'm sure that destroying the entire human race because some idiot on the internet thinks all women are sluts is totally the right move for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:33 PM
0

Any "Christian Girl" who thinks sucking dick or anal sex is preserving virginity isn't actually a "Christian Girl" she just has overbearing parents forcing their religion on her. This idea that every woman on Earth is a massive slut who just wants the dick is a hilarious joke. Huge numbers of women have no interest in sex at all, just for a start. By spouting this stupid bullshit you make every person who is trying to win legal equality for men look bad by association.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:23 PM
1

The idea that every woman is equal and that their behaviors don't matter is deeply damaging to our society and we should not be advocating for it to be expanded to men. Doing so would completely destroy the very foundation of not only our current society, but even our economic system. Men are already failing due to many of the issues regularly brought up here, we don't need to start telling everyone they are a special snowflake who will always be valuable even if they decide to spend their life …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:10 PM
1

You really need to get a job and get laid already, this rampant hatred of all women is really tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:00 PM
1

That would make her a high-N slut not a chaste virgin wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:55 PM
1

Let me rephrase, they aren't going to be interested IN PURSUING AN LTR with Chad Thundercock.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:53 PM
4

Why would you wait 8 months? How about 3-5 dates? The options aren't just "fuck everything that moves" and "never fuck, ever". There is a middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:15 PM
2

Only if you control for outside influences that warp the statistics, which you are not doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:13 PM
7

Are you chasing trashy af women Yes, that is a big part of why red pillers see things this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:12 PM
6

This outlines the biggest issue with RP ideas and adherents, the vast majority of whom are wanna-be sluts who cant get any because they are unattractive and destitute. If you want to marry a chaste virgin, they aren't going to be interested in Chad Thundercock who has deflowered 100 women before he got to her. She is going to want a man who is chaste as well, not necessarily a virgin but someone who only has sex in committed relationships. Women tend to want men who are more experienced than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:11 PM
1

My wife is a SAHM and I am the breadwinner, but I do not expect her to do everything at home. I still have my own tasks of paying the bills, doing yard work, fixing our cars, dealing with the government, etc. I also make sure she is able to go see her friends or do things on her own to have a break. I think these things are a vital part of keeping the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:07 PM
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work with the feminists Why would anyone work with the people who have caused these issues in the first place? Feminists by definition do not care about men, or they would be egalitarians instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:20 PM
1

I just have nothing to do with feminists and thus have no reason to worry about these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:19 PM
1

Tinder is the epicenter of hook up culture, you should look at Plenty of Fish or eHarmony instead.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 01:16 PM
2

If that is so annoying to you, I shudder to think how you will respond to the actual real world when you graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:48 AM
1

Don't worry, with the road we are going down our civilization may not even exist in a generation or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:44 AM
1

Saying this like you aren't blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:58 PM
1

Anyone who sees a woman as having an N count of 4 as promiscuous is an idiot. Most red pillers believe those studies are false because it relies on self reported data.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:54 AM
1

Nobody is talking about women with an N count of 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:39 AM
1

The hundred guys you blew in the bathroom at the club isn't a burden for your partner to carry, you have a fundamentally flawed view of the issue. The vast majority of men, high and low value, would chose a low n-count woman over a high n-count woman for a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:29 AM
1

There is not even the most remote link between what anyone has posted and that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:16 AM
1

Why does this matter at all? It's different for everyone, if someone thinks ankles showing is slutty that's up to them. The same for people who are fine with full nudity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:26 AM
1

Depends entirely on the man on what he finds to be acceptable, it would be different for each man. I'm sure there are some men out there that would love to marry a stripper as well, but the vast majority of men AND women will have a huge issue with you getting naked around people of the opposite sex that are throwing money at your feet to get you naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:07 PM
1

The type of people who are involved in community theatre are exactly the type of people who are going to be non-monogamous. I would suggest a hobby or activity where the type of people that are likely to be interested in the activity and the type of people you are looking to start a relationship with overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:57 PM
2

Getting naked in front of other men would be a pretty huge issue to the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 04:49 PM
1

My man, you are looking in literally the worst possible place you could ever look to find a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:33 AM
1

Move out of the city, stop hanging around woke progressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:32 AM
1

No man can know what a woman's true N count is Except in suburban/rural areas where there are limited people to interact with, it becomes really easy there. Everyone knows who is the slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:30 AM
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This honestly seems to be a separate issue from wanting you to dress modestly, if he is regularly checking out other women then that is a real problem. Its okay to find other women attractive but if you are regularly ogling them to the point your partner is noticing it to this extent its a serious problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:27 AM
1

Cook him dinner and wear it at home, I guarantee he will have no issue and treat you like a goddess. Just because I like to look at my wife in lingerie doesn't mean I want her to wear it in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:25 AM
1

You should really rethink this if you cant see how stripping would be seen as violating a committed monogamous relationship to most people. I dont agree with the guy above who thinks you can stop a woman from stripping once you start dating her, I just wouldn't date her at all to begin with, but the idea that its "simply a way of supporting oneself" is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:24 AM
1

The issue with this is that a lot of the things you will do as a woman to feel good about how you look is specifically designed to attract men. Red lipstick simulates arousal, high heels lift your backside and make it more visible, low cut tops reveal your breasts. Even if you put on all of these things for yourself, it doesnt change how it effects the men that are around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:21 AM
2

Just because I like looking at strippers doesnt mean I want to marry a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:18 AM
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Despite what the feminists claim, that is just egalitarianism not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:17 AM
0

The female version of the red pill sub, and a completely toxic cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:17 AM
0

From what you are saying, it seems that you are dressing in a revealing manner and now that he is in a serious committed relationship he doesn't want you to dress like that. The reason for this is because he is worried that other men are going to steal you from him. He doesn't have this worry about random women on the street, so he isn't going to care that they are dressed that way. That is going to change completely for you, because he wants to keep you as his partner and not lose you. To be ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:16 AM
1

Find one worth winning, not every woman is a blue pilled feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:09 AM
1

This sub is full of low status males complaining about their place in life instead of working to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:56 AM
1

Have fun with your suspension.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/20 02:03 PM
2

When the fuck do you think Ellis Island was a thing?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/20 11:05 AM
2

It's very common in the states (probably more than in Europe even), at Ellis Island they would change the last names of immigrants when they couldn't spell it and that would be your legal name. Usually it would be your trade.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 11:01 PM
1

It's not necessarily fair but most men will not want to date someone with STDs and a child with a drug addict. I know the vast majority of that is not your fault but life is not always just, and many people just wouldn't know how to cope with that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 07:25 PM
4

So in your world view people who have only been with one partner their entire life are immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:43 PM
2

People who have miserable lives often feel better about themselves when they tear other people down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:22 PM
3

I'm a conservative man in a traditional relationship with a stay at home wife, and even my wife doesn't act like that. I have specifically pushed her to gain and keep educational credentials that ensure she does not need to rely on me for the rest of her life. I am also older than her but only by 5 years not 10-15, which seems pretty gross to me. Finally, the main thing that brought us together was mutual interests and eventually falling in love with each other. I would want that for my daughter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:58 AM
3

This defies most research on the topic, female liberation followed the automation of the home that meant you did not need someone working 60 hours a week to run it. There is a reason things were the way they were before the 1900s and it wasn't just men being evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:02 AM
1

I would say a lot of the time the man is just ignorant. so many men just can't see the signs until it's staring them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:12 PM
2

Sounds like they were made for each other to be honest.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/20 12:44 AM
1

What was the foulest?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/20 08:05 PM
1

They actually think that if you are a strong man who provides for his family and has a stay-at-home wife you are a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:51 AM
2

The second that one of these guys needs to provide stats or any information to back up their argument it all falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:50 AM
1

I don't think those guys are failing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:02 PM
2

So most of Reddit then? Half of the people here are cheering on China and South Korea.
/r/PussyPass14/04/20 11:59 AM
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The welfare state dates back to the 30s and before that we did not have a modern economy to begin with, the vast majority were in poverty compared to today. Pointing to that as the norm ignores the massive changes that have happened with our society. Beyond that, today there are tens of millions of people in the US who depend on welfare and those people will not let you take it away. Even if the laws are repealed, there will be mass riots in the streets that make the LA riots look like an after …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:11 AM
10

You are kidding yourself if you think this will ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:18 AM
1

I think you are just responding to random comments, I never responded to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:50 AM
1

Once upon a time TRP used to be about self improvement, there were still a lot of "players" who just wanted to sleep with as many women as possible but a lot of the message behind it was helpful to low value men who were unable to attract women. Now its just weak men whining about how life is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:20 AM
0

I'm a conservative traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:10 AM
6

If you actually work out, have a decent career, bathe regularly, don't live like a slob, and approach women; you will be able to find women who are interested in you. If at this point you are failing that you are not doing at least one of those, or you are going for women who are way out of your league and need to be realistic. Even if you look like you got hit with a shovel, you should be able to attract a woman; she just isn't going to be on the same level of what you could attract otherwise. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:26 AM
2

Except these people are basically doing nothing to improve their life, so obviously they will get nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:20 AM
0

You can cut the hatred of women with a knife, I swear this sub is just r/incel at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:17 PM
0

This line of reasoning is so over-the-top stupid I can't even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:27 PM
5

These guys are just the bottom 20% whining about their place in life and coming up with attacks on women and other men to justify their own bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:26 PM
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Many men are fine with a sahm as a spouse. My wife IS a SAHM, and she definitely doesn't sit around all day doing nothing Is he now a different guy? What does this even mean? In a sense, maybe. But functionally he is the same person. So, yes he is different. Say he's Brad Thompson. He doesn't cease being Brad Thompson. Seriously? Your argument is that he still has the same name so therefore he is the same person? Does that mean if Angelina Jolie gained 500 pounds she should still be seen as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:12 PM
2

I think a lot of them know where they lie and are extremely bitter about it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:57 PM
2

And take that same guy and have him quit his job and what!?! Women are gone. If he quits his job and sits around all day doing nothing? Yes, but this is part of a mindset change and a material change in who he is. I would also leave my wife if she sat around all day doing nothing, I don't know how this is any different. But having that mindset doesn't guarantee success. It's the success women want. You don't need to be a CEO to be a success, anyone who has the proper mindset and puts in the work…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:29 PM
2

It's not though, you are ignoring every piece of effort that goes into accomplishments and how it changes someone. Having the mindset required to put in the effort and achieve your goals makes you fundamentally different from another person who does not have that mindset. it's not something you are in tranzit clean born with and that never changes, your mindset continues to evolve and change based on your experiences and how you have dealt with things. a man who sits around all day does not have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:52 PM
3

This idea that what do you is different from who you are is so foolish. A man who sits around all day doing nothing is genuinely not the same as a man who works hard all day. Beyond his job, money and status. Intrinsically they are different men, they will have a different mindset and worldview as well. The parts of their brain that push them to do one or the other are real and legitimate. A man that is low status will have a different level of self worth, and see himself differently. He will ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:46 PM
2

Except many men (and most RPers) will stop loving a woman if she gets fat, so your supposed point is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:39 PM
3

He's not the same person though, he's a garbage collector.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:36 PM
8

Is being an "npc" worse than being a complete loser of a moron?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:34 PM
2

The idea that women need to do nothing to be loved by us men is hilarious. How much work do you think goes into the perfect bodies your flabby butt ogles in the street and demands he deserves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:31 PM
9

Greatest description of RP men I've seen yet. Though many men just go and improve themselves instead., Maybe y'all should try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:29 PM
2

I think there is a massive difference between a being a virgin at 25 and being a virgin at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:07 AM
3

Yeah they weren't sleeping with him before either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:57 PM
6

There is a difference between wanting a mate that isn't promiscuous and insisting all women are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:10 AM
5

Oh no doubt, I just find your double standard hilarious. I suggest not being a skeez, you might find one of those wholesome women yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:53 AM
1

Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:52 AM
1

It's only acceptable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:47 AM
11

Directly from his own asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 AM
22

He's mad they won't sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 AM
12

Sounds like you just like following slutty girls online my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 AM
8

Imagine being a male slut complaining about women sleeping around. The truth is you are just mad they won't sleep *with you. *
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:42 AM
3

This is how ridiculously lopsided the dating market is. Most women are landwhales and dating is STILL easier for them than us. Have you tried being a man about it and not just whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 02:08 PM
12

TRP denizens are wannabe man whores complaining about female whores, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 02:07 PM
2

Then I would work with him to find ways to elevate him and enable him to make the kind of income required for a single income household. That often requires long hours and sacrifices on his end and there is a lot you can do to make that easier for him. I would also make sure he is going into a field that allows that, as now is when you need to make those investments to get the return you are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 02:20 AM
1

This is good advice, I am 28 and only just now at a point where I can properly support my family on one income.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:34 AM
1

Does your boyfriend agree with you being a SAHM and is he willing to put in the work required to allow you to?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:28 AM
4

My wife is doing the same as a nurse, she only needs to work one day a year to keep her license.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:07 AM
1

If you are a nurse there are plenty of per diem options.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:06 AM
5

I am married, but I am under no impression that if I lost my status, my marriage would be in jeopardy. Divorces usually happen after a man loses his social status or fails to gain it in short order. Why is it wrong for women to want you to continue to be successful, and why would you expect a woman who is relying on you as a provider (presumably) to treat you the same when you fail to do your part? Furthermore, would you continue to stay with her if she stopped doing her part? If she gave up on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:48 AM
6

99% of the women in the post-Millennial age will never love a man for him. No matter how alpha you are, no matter how well you play the rules, that's irrelevant. She will never love you. This shit is what makes me shake my head at you guys, the problem is that you have your own blind spots in what you look for in a partner and then when that person doesnt exist you get resentful. There are far more than 1% of women that actually care about and love their partners for who they are, they just may …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:40 AM
4

Plenty of people that agree with some of TRP without the over-the-top crazyness and insistence that all women are evil thots trying to divorce rape you. The difference is that those people are sane, rational individuals with jobs and families. They get crowded out by the nutcases who have nothing better to do than rant on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:35 AM
1

You didn't really though.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:08 PM
1

You are his family, he should be putting you first before anyone except your children. Expecting you to do everything (that is what you are doing) is not a fair split. When my wife worked full time I took on a lot of responsibilities at home, especially compared to now when she is a stay at home mom.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:07 PM
-3

Calling anyone who can't cook a child is itself childish, not every person needs to meet your standards to be a responsible adult. By all means have that as a requirement but don't hate on those trying to meet different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:30 AM
1

Nah I'm pretty cool with it and Im ugly as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:26 AM
1

All of human history and the natural choices/behaviors of both sexes disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:25 AM
1

You acting however you want and refusing to take your partners wishes into account is acting like a child my guy. If you have a partner and they don't want to live in a dump, you need to make an effort to pick up after yourself or do other things for her so she doesn't mind picking up after you. You can say "that's just doing what I want" but that's exactly how a child acts, selfishly and without care for how it impacts others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 09:21 PM
1

That's you acting like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:22 AM
13

Sounds more like they don't want to live in a shithole like a bunch of frat guys would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:50 AM
1

Does she find you unattractive now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:53 AM
2

Nobody cares what some 19 year old has to say about long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 12:52 AM
3

He likely only cares about looks and then wonders why his shallow partner ends up cheating on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:58 PM
4

Most Red Pillers only care about looks and then wonder why they have problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:55 PM
2

Those aren't high value men doing that. Maybe men with $$$ but that doesn't make you high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 01:15 AM
16

Christian values call for a nuclear family, many sects don't even allow divorce. The "man optional" ideas largely come from feminism and the idea that women don't need men.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/20 02:48 PM
2

Just don't talk at all about money at the start, act like you are middle class until you actually tell the truth. Don't lie, because that will hurt you, but also don't volunteer anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:16 AM
2

Why would you do any of that? You are just going to attract gold diggers and fake people even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:14 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:53 PM
3

So then we are going to have to accept that because women want tall men while not being tall themselves, they are hypocrites? I mean it makes the same logical sense but I'm not sure its useful as a standard. RP men regularly (and justifiably) point out the hypocrisy of overweight single moms who want attractive high income men despite offering nothing to those men in return. Basically the same point I am making. Men and women tend to prioritize different things that they value in a mate that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:57 AM
3

Low N count women want low N count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:45 AM
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This has nothing to do with your earlier argument, but I won't cry "Moving the goalposts!" I'll engage your new argument. It's the same argument and you are doing exactly that, but okay. Who said any of the men who reject high N count women are themselves high N? Was this verified somehow, or did you just believe them when they claimed to have several girlfriends in Canada? RP men adhere to an ideology that advocates for casual sex and one night stands, and using women for that purpose. Even if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:44 AM
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If you want a relationship with a low N woman when you are yourself high N then you are a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:57 PM
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How is this any different than Red Pill men saying they want chaste women with low N counts, then running after hot sluts and engaging in the same promiscuous behavior they claim to despise?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:11 PM
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Except what you are basically saying is we just can't criticize female programmers. The problem is programmers need constant criticism as they are learning to figure out what they are doing wrong, and by sheltering women you are ensuring that many of them will never be told what they are doing wrong. This results in making a lot of women bad programmers because you have been white knighting for them this whole time. Then you all have more things to complain about and ammunition to call anyone th…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 12:18 PM
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The main issue with TRP is the way it views women and the long term behaviors it advocates for (spinning plates, casual sex etc). The actual way in which TRP advocates making yourself more attractive is pretty universal and not at all limited to TRP. Getting fit, having a good job, dressing well, sticking to your league, not letting women walk over you are all good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:34 PM
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There is still a huge difference in attractiveness outside of weight and certain overweight women can even be in high demand. My wife has the same body type as I do (not fit) and still gets guys trying to hit on her a lot, because she has a lot of attractive features.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:20 PM
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r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 11:10 AM
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I agree with you that high n count women are shit out of luck but there are more willing virgin men than you think. I personally have only been with my wife (who herself has a low n count), though I had a number of opportunities for one night stands and short term flings. I didn't wait for marriage but I did wait until I was in a committed long term relationship, it just happened that I found the woman of my dreams pretty early. 7 years later we are still going strong.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 02:54 AM
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They want men who are virgins by choice not incels.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 11:54 PM
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I think it all depends on the woman you are looking for and the man she is looking for. if you are a male feminist who thinks that men and women are the same then I guess it makes sense to split the bill equally. If you are a man looking for a woman to raise your kids while you work long hours in a highly paid position then it makes no sense at all. most people are somewhere in the middle and like another poster said that there is the fact that once kids are involved there is no true equality. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:18 PM
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Because that's how human relationships work. Men are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:13 PM
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It's not the woman's job to approach, it's yours. You are trying to give up any responsibility whatsoever. Be a man and grow up already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:52 PM
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This entire sub has no interest in a relationship, and women approaching men doesn't work. Stop misleading people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:17 PM
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That's this whole sub, a bunch of man whores spouting about how "AWALT" as if they had any interest in a LTR themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:16 PM
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That's not true, most of the other men here have no interest in a LTR with any woman because "AWALT". Most of them are ugly as hell on top of that yet still think they deserve Angelina Jolie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:12 PM
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No, you are just weak and want a woman to throw herself at you because you can't land her yourself. Except you likely wouldn't even realize what was happening and it wouldn't end up going well if she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:10 PM
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This is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:18 AM
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Very viable if the breadwinner has a decent job or works over 40 hours a week. Maybe not in inner cities but that is a self inflicted wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:52 PM
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Okay? The great thing about an egalitarian democracy is you get the choice to live how you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:19 PM
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Most men complaining about alimony are from two income relationships. Any man who willingly has a stay at home wife and complains about alimony can be ignored as a complete piece of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 12:05 PM
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I'm not the person you are responding to, but the idea that in a single breadwinner household the man just works and comes home without doing anything is not the reality for most people in that situation. my wife is a stay-at-home mom and on top of that her mother lives with us taking more of the burden away, yet I still have my own responsibilities outside of work that I need to take care of. I probably would not say that I am taking care of my wife, we both take care of each other in different…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:08 AM
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Except a man needs to work hard to attract a mate and is not entitled to one by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:04 AM
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Except if the woman is a stay-at-home mother for example she would be entitled to significant alimony payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:02 AM
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Anyone can work their way into the middle class. Even immigrants who don't speak English manage it quite easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:24 AM
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That's where knowing your place matters. Even if you are working class there are plenty of ways to make a decent living if you learn a skill that is valuable and in demand. If you are going to be a sole breadwinner you usually need to make some sacrifices in your career (it may not exactly be what you want to do, and require a lot of hard work) and accept that the 40 hour workweek does not necessarily apply to you. My grandfather was also a sole breadwinner and worked two full time jobs. One as …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:55 PM
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It's honestly not that difficult if you work hard. I'm a college dropout with alcoholic parents who was at one point living in my car but I still managed to get my shit together. Some roads take longer than others but hard work is the main requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:49 PM
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No shit, men also need to learn how to accept the fact that they dont have them and not freak out about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:57 AM
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Nah, because then the whole attitude on RP sibs would be different because there wouldn't be so many guys dripping with envy. I knew I'll never be in that 5% (or even 20% in terms of looks), so I focused on myself and had no problem finding women who thought i was attractive when I stuck to my own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:20 AM
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My comment is meant in general not to you specifically, you dont need to be a true Chad and making that your goal is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:31 PM
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What is with this need to be a total Chad? Why do you need hundreds of women draping themselves over you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:24 PM
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Life isn't fair, deal with it. If you are whining that you aren't one of the top 1% you need to suck it up buttercup. The idea that every man should be attractive to a large number of women is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:23 PM
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Try going for women on your level, and stop having such a victim mentality. I can smell the resentment from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:20 PM
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You can make up for looks with strength, willpower and a dominant personality though. There are plenty of us who are able to attract women without a chiselled jaw line and rock hard abs. It does require knowing your place though, if you want a 10 you need to be a 10. If you are a 6 then stop lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:19 PM
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I used to hate myself but now that I have my shit together life is pretty great. I think part of the problem for a lot of men is that they are failing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:12 PM
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It's rejected by modern feminist ideology, in any urban areas the vast majority are going to reject this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:13 PM
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I wholeheartedly slutshame both men and women because being a slut is disgusting regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:43 PM
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The problem is when you teach others to follow your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:35 AM
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You could also try not doing any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:30 AM
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How does this differ from what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:18 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a traditional lifestyle where the woman takes care of her kids and the man is a provider, as long as this is a willing and consensual choice between both parties. I am not a mother to my son, I do not wipe his ass and change his clothes. That does not mean I am not helping care for him, I still will pick him up and give him a bottle if necessary. I am also working long hours to help provide for our family so my wife can stay home with him full-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:10 PM
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Waiting longer means waiting to meet the woman who isn't so basic that she's receptive to men acting like an ass to reverse psychologically attract her. They exist, some women on PPD are even like that. I'd agree with this, it's basically what I did with my wife. Not being an asshole doesn't mean being a pushover. Of course there are times you have to be assertive. Both men and women do this. I agree, just seemed like you were saying you had to be an asshole to keep a woman's attention. Your ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:15 PM
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You don't need to be a player. You'll just have to wait longer to beat the average You just said if you don't play hot and cold games women will get bored, which is it? If you are doing that you are a player, even if you don't see yourself as such. I don't think you know enough men. There is a huge difference between being dominant and taking charge vs just being asshole. You can use being an asshole as a tool to get what you want, but that's the short sided way vs being diplomatic. Getting peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:53 PM
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I was responding to your comment that you have to be a player to keep woman's interest not your statement on nonviolence. I try to avoid violence myself, so you can cut the assumptions about my personal life there chief. I also disagree that most aggressive player type bad boys are actually violent, they are no more so than any dominant male tends to be. My argument is that I don't believe you know any dominant men who aren't assholes because our society destroys those men, so you are working fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:51 PM
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You are talking about it being a bannable offense, if you are going to get offended by people dismissing your ideas you should leave the internet. Most of the people on this sub are RP and the conversations will this be dismissive to blue pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:00 PM
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I disagree with the conclusions RP ideology comes to on a lot of these topics, anyone can be "alpha" and a lot of the behaviors advocated for in this sub are just methods to game women into sex. Even traits like unattractiveness and short stature can easily be overcome though they may limit choices. As for research: A 2010 study from the University of Wales Institute found that men pictured with a Silver Bentley Continental GT were perceived as way more attractive than those pictures with a Red …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:59 PM
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The idea that women are attracted to dominant males and not attracted to submissive males is backed up by extensive research and thousands of years of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:36 PM
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The whole purpose of this subject is for debate and disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:35 PM
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You are looking at other men like we look at women, not like women look at us. A physically attractive male who will not stand up for himself or his woman and cannot provide is not going to be considered attractive by the vast majority of women. He'd get a lot of dick though. I could probably count the number of other men I have met who are both physically attractive and dominant without being an asshole on one hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:34 PM
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That's not really what the OP is describing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:28 PM
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This is one of the biggest problems with our culture today, we do not teach men how to be responsible upstanding citizens. Either we beat the dominance out of them and turn them into submissive boys or they end up rebelling against the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:27 PM
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I think that's correlation not causation. Women want dominant men, who tend to be assholes more often than not. They don't specifically want assholes but biologically it's better to have a dominant man and take the risk of him being an ass than it is to be stuck with a submissive nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:24 PM
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The women you described are not nice girls they are doormats. They are so passive and insecure that they will let their boyfriends get away with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:18 PM
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The Baby Peanut ad was created by Gary Vaynerchuck, who has stated many times that he wants to buy old brands and revive them using nostalgia to push products. I think that answers your question, though I don't think its just childless millennial women that are susceptible to that type of marketing. I know plenty of twenty something nerdy men who love baby Yoda as well, for one example. Its more nostalgia than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:18 AM
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They recognize the fact that the women that are like them are losers, they just have much more trouble looking in a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:36 PM
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I don't see how, the fuck and forget it ideas being pushed by The red pill are directly at odds with traditional relationships. I would consider myself relatively traditional in terms of relationships and I am here specifically to counter red pill ideology not agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:37 PM
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Trad-con ideology is pretty different from TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:29 PM
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Men are more likely to deviate from the mean, making them more likely to be both very successful or huge losers compared to women. Definitely an evolutionary component to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 11:30 PM
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I'd prefer a regulated utility like telecom and power companies. Still have the ability to compete and innovate but get prevented from a lot of the excesses we see now. Comcast cant actually ban me because I'm a conservative, they are prevented from doing so by law. Facebook should be no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:39 PM
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I think companies like Facebook, Twitter and Reddit are monopolies (I dont see these services as competing with each other, they all have very different functionality - like how landline phone companies are non-competitive with cellular phone companies) and should be regulated as such with limits on how they can restrict the speech of individuals. At a minimum they should be prevented from discrimination on the basis of political ideology, which is actually law in several states already. Outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:26 PM
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I think we are just running around in circles at this point, you are obviously failing to grasp the point I am making and I'm done trying to make it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:15 PM
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Again, plenty of left wing pundits do the same exact thing. I'd honestly say that the whole job of a pundit is to spread misinformation on issues they are not experts on, whenver I see talking heads covering an issue I know a lot about I just end up yelling at the screen in rage at how poorly they cover it. Goes for people I love as well, Joe Rogan does this all the time on issues like gun control yet I still love his podcast. And getting back to my point, I don't think any of these people have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:12 PM
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No more than most left wing pundits, glad you showed your true colors though. I have no further interest in arguing with someone who thinks its cool to shut people down they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:05 PM
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In what way? Note that I'm saying they don't have power within the platform, not in general. Ben Shapiro has power as a pundit but YouTube and Twitter couldn't give a crap, they will happily deplatform him at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:58 PM
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And T_D is quarantened, outside that sub those users have no influence. With the high usage of masstagger they are easily excluded from every other community, even those that don't involve politics. If you post there and then make a comment on another sub you will get attacks simply for being involved there. Like I said, right wing echo Chambers are just as prevalent but those users have little power on Reddit itself. Same goes for Twitter, Facebook, YouTube etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:58 PM
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Oh I'm sure it is equally prevalent among the right, they just have no power in any of these online communities so you don't see it manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:53 PM
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I appreciate your impartiality, sadly you are in the extreme minority among the left on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:42 AM
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Being quarantined goes far beyond that, they banned T_D from r/all well before they got quarantined. I'd actually agree that any sub which bans dissent shouldn't appear on r/all but that isn't what happened. Oh and r/politics is still a DEFAULT subreddit, among a dozen others that all ban people who support right wing ideas, so its still incredibly one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:44 PM
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This sub is full of whiny failures who haven't managed to get anywhere in life, complaining to other whiny failures. Don't assume that this sub represents anything other than that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:36 PM
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Our modern society is a joke and the ideas pushed by blue pill folk are ridiculous and incongruous. Most of it doesn't make any sense and often it directly contradicts itself. That doesn't mean the red pill is any better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:34 PM
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I basically treat this sub like you would a zoo. Coming here to check out all the miserable animals in cages of their own making helps remind me how amazing life is when you let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:29 PM
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How is it not an ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:32 PM
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You are surrounded by weak blue pill men and women who will sleep with anything that has a pulse, and your perception of reality is biased by that. If you are actually working on improving yourself and resolving your personal deficiencies you can easily increase your attraction to your partner over time. A woman could theoretically be minimally attracted to a man at the start of a relationship and have that attraction grow over time as the man shows her his character and continues to improve him…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:13 PM
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You obviously don't know what you're talking about if you think that you need red pill ideology to have tension in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:38 AM
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Sup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:35 AM
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Shit I guess all my guns are legal because I had to get a license to own them then. I couldn't just buy one on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:29 PM
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I don't live near Boston, and as I said we have some family that lives with us paying rent. I could still swing a house just on my own salary but it would be very modest. We are also looking at moving to NH but no decisions made there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:46 PM
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I'm 28 years old and my wife is a stay at home mom taking care of our 5 month old son. Before he was born she worked full time as a CNA and our plan is for her to eventually go back to work at least part time once our kids start school. We live within our means and have paid off almost all our debt, we plan to buy a house on a 15 year in December but otherwise we are avoiding debt like the plague. With my $65k/year income we are able to live very comfortably here in Massachusetts, but part of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:16 AM
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Congratulations on being an evolutionary dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:02 AM
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I work for a marketing firm, my whole office spends half their day on social media unless they are slammed with client work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:05 AM
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Could be economically in a way that does not involve hard cash (a good example of that would be a man who can buy a fixer upper house and renovate it extensively), physically (an example being a strong masculine man that makes you feel safe), mentally (an example being a man who helps you deal with the stress points in your life and eliminate drama) or socially (an example being a man who has a high social status as a pillar of the community).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:07 AM
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Outside of work, does he do anything else that makes you feel he is providing for you? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:47 PM
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Men don't have the same biological imperatives that women are forced to deal with in their twenties and thirties. I wouldn't be surprised if menopausal and postmenopausal women (sorry if that doesn't apply to you as I know late-onset is a thing, not trying to offend just not sure how to make my point without making that assumption) in a general sense have much less of a need for a provider when evaluating potential partners as they are not going to be getting pregnant and giving birth. From an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:46 PM
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I'd think your ages (especially yours) would likely change that dynamic a lot. I'm also in my late 20s so I don't really have experience interacting with individuals in a similar situation to yours. Can I ask, would you say your man is a good provider despite making less than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:30 PM
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I made another comment elsewhere, but its definitely not just about the money. Several other ways I can think of off the top of my head to compensate elsewhere. From what I can tell it seems to be much more important that a woman feel like she is safe and protected with her man and that she can trust him to provide for their family. Even if he does not make a lot of money, there are other ways to build and keep those feelings going. Alternatively, exceptions that prove the rule are a given in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:15 PM
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From my conversations in the past with both men and women who have dealt with similar issues, it seems like it can start to manifest at around five years or so but most commonly happens around the ten year mark. Certain exemplary losers may fail much sooner but they would be the exception. There also seems to be a lot of other things that can make up for low earning potential and still make a woman feel she is being taken care of by her man. I know several blue collar men in relationships with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:14 PM
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I'm not necessarily saying you will, but if you were going to lose attraction for him over time due to him not being a provider it would likely take longer than 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:31 PM
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How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:19 PM
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Yeah I don't regularly see FDS women posting here. Would love an answer to the question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:13 PM
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Men can easily articulate what we are attracted to in a partner because it's a very basic requirement in most instances. Women have a far more complex way of finding their preferred mate and only find a tiny fraction of individuals worthy compared to men who are far less picky. Because of this, trusting women when they say what they want in a partber is not a very good idea. Men don't because we largely just need to find the woman attractive and have some type of connection, so we can be happy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:46 PM
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Japan has a much worse issue with this and yet they have a very traditional culture in terms of relationships compared to the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:33 PM
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Have you tried not trying to get in a relationship with a stripper?
/r/MGTOW216/01/20 04:42 PM
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Immigrants are four times as likely to become millionaires than native born Americans. https://medium.com/wise-heroes/immigrants-are-four-times-more-likely-to-become-millionaires-by-mark-j-quann-5a47658ead09
/r/MGTOW215/01/20 01:08 AM
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I know, you should just go castrate all men by force. Wouldn't want to go with half measures now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:14 AM
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Okay my guy, in sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:15 PM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:19 PM
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That isn't an argument my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:49 PM
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That disproves nothing and you are misinterpreting the results of that study like crazy. Women are more variable in their attraction because it's not based on looks. If a man is married to a 10 his attraction is going to stay the same as long as she stays a 10, and will decline in lock step with her looks. Women in contrast are not attracted to looks alone, they appreciate looks of course but things like: status, masculinity, competence and a number of other factors all account for a woman's lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:34 PM
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Why isn't is just all "blue pilled" women are like that? There are plenty of women that don't follow modern cultural norms at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:18 PM
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Your problem is talking to blue pill women, our culture is toxic to long term relationships and a stable marriage. One area that TRP is 100% on is that women want dominant masculine providers. That's why you can't look at marriages with weak beta males and expect the woman's behavior there to be representative of all women. Of course she lost all attraction for that guy with no spine who gave up on life and failed at his job. Who wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:15 PM
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So your saying my wife's crazy family is a blessing in disguise? Thank God they are useful for something other than begging me for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:08 PM
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In my experience as a young man who has been married a while (relative to my age as I'm 28, married 5 years together for 7) watching friends and family fail with women, I have never seen a man lose his LTR partners attraction for them without somehow failing at his job. I've seen plenty of weak, spineless, lazy, stupid failures where the woman finally realized how shit he is and loses that attraction. I've also seen women that settled and end up cheating. Mostly I see little boys and little girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:04 PM
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Depends on what you mean, going to a concert with your friends isn't the same as going bar & club hopping. Your daughter could have done either (not saying she did as I don't know her just saying in general, I hope you don't take offense), being a slut in your 20s does not preclude getting a degree or getting married. Doesn't necessarily mean she is the type of "good girl" people are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:49 AM
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Being an honor student means nothing, plenty of thots get good grades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:41 AM
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You just need to find someone on the same level of ugly that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:38 AM
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That generally happens before the contract is signed. I've never worked for any business where we could just void our contracts after the fact because we felt they weren't fair, that's something you agree on before signing. You can't just "void the contract" you need to have a legal dispute over it with a valid reasoning. Its not some easy thing that is going to get thrown out, if efforts are made to make it fair for both sides then it will stand up even if one side comes out better in the dispu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:43 PM
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That's how any contract works though, it needs to be in the benefit of both parties. If it's obviously an attempt to rip someone off then it gets thrown out, prenup or otherwise. And yes, convincing your wife to stay home and abandon her career then leaving her penniless is an attempt to rip someone off. In mine, I agreed to pay alimony as a percentage of my income up to a limit. That limit is based on what she would make as an RN, which is what my wife would be if she wasn't a stay at home mom,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:17 PM
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Has this actually happened in a case where it wasn't obviously trying to fuck over one side? Like for example, a traditional couple where the woman is a stay at home mom signing a prenup that gives all assets to the man and denies the woman any alimony wouldn't hold up because it's basically forcing the woman into abject poverty. However the same prenup with a working wife would certainly hold up as the woman is not relying on the man for material support. All of this is easily handled by having…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:52 PM
1

Prenups exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:29 PM
2

Why is a prenup so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:27 PM
6

As a man in a traditional marriage with a stay at home wife, this is exactly what I hate about TRP. It always seems like a bunch of children who refuse to grow up and be responsible. A lot of the cultural critiques are actually on point (definitely not all of them), it's the conclusions they draw that are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:27 PM
1

Life sucks, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:03 AM
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Men and women are different, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:33 PM
1

Women don't want to chase men. They want to be chased. If you aren't doing that you are acting like a beta. And maybe read the stickies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:03 PM
1

There is definitely research that identifies with the traditional view but I don't see much at all that supports the red pill view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:27 PM
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I only have one rule. I act like a complete and utter bitch I fixed that for you. Only lesbians want bitches and you don't have the tits for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 02:35 PM
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Imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 02:13 PM
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It's purge day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:34 PM
1

No no no, obviously as a man I deserve to plow any woman I desire at any time without consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:14 PM
2

Also remember, if you don't fuck a different Stacy every day you are a beta cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:12 PM
1

Yeah but that doesn't mean you find them attractive, you just tolerate that. At least I HOPE you don't find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:56 PM
5

I hate my mom. Explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:48 PM
4

Stop picking up women in bars then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:18 PM
3

That sounds far more like the guy wasn't into you, and less that he just wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:46 AM
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Other women hate attractive women. Definitely applies to men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:25 AM
1

Shit you got me, obviously every single person in America gets married in their late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:55 PM
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Meaning for every person married in their early 20s there is one married in their mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:11 PM
8

This is honestly a golden breakdown of why being a male slut is a loser game, you should turn this into a separate post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:52 AM
1

She already agreed with that several comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:24 PM
8

You also consider yourself normal so I think we will take your opinions with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:05 PM
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This, though part of the blame for this lies with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:25 AM
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No, I was making the point that a single woman cannot do everything by themselves and that heterosexual women tend to look for traditionally masculine men who they view as protectors and providers. By definition anyone that is not heterosexual will not fit that archetype. There are also straight women out there that want submissive men so they can be the dominant partner, whose existence does not disprove the rule that most straight women follow in their desires for a man. Hell, even most lesbia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:05 PM
1

You'll notice that I was talking about single mothers, not lesbians? By definition neither member of a lesbian couple is a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:50 PM
1

No need, I'll let myself out. I'm not gonna coddle a bunch of incels. Its hilarious to me that you accept AWALT/AMALT talking points without issue but calling this guy a loser (he is) will get me banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:27 PM
1

Shit, its almost like we are talking about heterosexual women or something. No idea why you need to bring up lesbians, a married couple is a married couple. I can go into more detail on this but its completely irrelevant to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:24 PM
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This is a lie of feminism. The fact that a woman can earn a paycheck and is the equal of a man, doesn't mean she can properly protect & provide for her family by her herself. One look at the single motherhood crisis should show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:51 AM
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You don't have to be in management in a business to be a good leader, you just need to be able to lead your household. If you can't do that, then you don't deserve a woman or family because you can't provide for them and protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:21 AM
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Don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:20 AM
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I'm not a TRP guy, more of a Trad than anything but I thought I would share my own criteria. FYI happily married with a newborn, been together 7 years. I am 28. I am not the most attractive man in the world but not ugly either, and a bit overweight as well. It would be quite hypocritical for me to expect my partner to exceed me here, and I would not do so. Maybe if I was magazine cover ready my standards would change, but on looks my main criteria is that I find the individual attractive. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 08:26 PM
4

Have you considered that maybe YOU are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:32 PM
1

I am an American. At most an upper-middle-class family might have a cleaning service come in for 2 hours a week. They do not have full-time housekeepers. Actual upper class people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:55 PM
1

Middle class people don't have housekeepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:23 PM
5

That's upper class full stop, not "upper middle class".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:20 PM
1

My eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:47 AM
1

Anyone can get laid at will, if you give up all standards and view that as a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:58 AM
2

...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:48 AM
2

We don't live in a tribal society anymore, in case you haven't noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:46 AM
0

I'm specifically talking about TRP/FDS individuals not the general population with that statement. Neither group started out as actual good people, they just lie to themselves and say they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:20 AM
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They select for that generally in their actions, not necessarily specific to their mate choices historically, because they do not need to take the risks that men do to pass on their genes. Mostly they need to just stay alive and care for their child, and they cant just rely on the tribe to ensure that. They do tend to go for high status males as mates while men are much more ambivalent to status, which is part of why men need to take risks more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:54 AM
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Its not rooted in monogamy at all, more basic biology and reality. Women are child bearing so they tend to prioritize safety and security. Men are more willing to take risks because they need to stick out from the pack. Part of this is due to the fact that one man (say the chief of a tribe) can impregnate 100 women in a short period and thousands over a lifetime, while one woman can only have a child with one man at a time and only a few in a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:46 AM
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If I'm going to be full of myself, the least I can do is broadcast it to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:42 AM
1

You should really try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:41 AM
2

Basic evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:41 AM
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I tried bringing this point elsewhere, but FDS is not actually hurting TRP guys. FDS hurts low status beta men who are desperate, just as TRP men largely go after younger women with self esteem issues. But TRP has many of its countless principles proved and peer reviewed by scientific studies as facts. Please cite. So OP, Please get off your high horse. I like the view though. Who gives a crap why you feel "sad" for people? Nobody, thats who. Like I said, I'm going to try and keep someone from j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:37 AM
2

They aren't trying to be good girls, just take men for a ride for everything they have. Just as TRP men complain about women sleeping around as they try and fail to emulate the same behavior. Basically, both groups are exactly what they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:32 AM
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I'm sure I can pick out random statements and images that make TRP look like a female plot to help them overthrow the patriarchy, doesn't mean that is the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:30 AM
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I have no doubt some of the users there are men, but I have met THREE female members of the sub in real life (all friends of course) so its definitely being followed by some women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:25 AM
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I gave one of the mods a furry hat to help them pick up low self esteem women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:23 AM
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They are looking in a mirror and hate what they see, they just don't realize its a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:22 AM
2

Oh no, what will I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:21 AM
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I definitely think this one is made by a woman, the male nerds on reddit put way more effort into their memes. Posting something like this would get them laughed out of their moms basement. https://i.redd.it/456j7a8amxv31.png
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:20 AM
2

Because I don't think my main goal in a relationship is to maximize my upside at the expense of my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:16 AM
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I cant help it, my nose evolved to turn me away from shit and that's all I smell when I see this stuff from TRP/FDS individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:12 AM
1

I'm sleeping at night next to a ride or die hustler that has stood by me through thick and thin for a third of her life so far, I don't need any help getting to sleep. Enjoy the thots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 01:17 AM
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Awalt Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 10:39 PM
1

Meaning that all women on tinder are slutty. I'm sure there are plenty of sluts off tinder as well, but if you are trying to "find a woman that doesn't have red flags" then maybe try not using an app that is designed for one night stands. Its like the women who go to bars and clubs to meet guys and wonder why everyone just wants to fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 10:16 PM
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Your first mistake is going to tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 03:22 PM
2

You must never have seen a 60 pound pitbull LOSE that fight. I don't think men vs women is comparable, cats are on a whole other level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:11 AM
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Anyone who follows the ideas of either side is destined for a lifetime of sadness, depression and lonelyness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:08 AM
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Supporting any kid after 18 is a bad idea and prevents them from growing up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/19 03:12 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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