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How?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:59 PM
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I hope you wish you have a family of your own. Let's see how you manage the jim without sacrificing your family.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:31 PM
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BTW, AI will render many of the engineering positions (like mine) useless as well. There are trades and manual jobs where robotization has a very long way to go.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:24 PM
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they don’t understand their biology at sll No directly related, but the usage of "chemistry" term in place of blind attraction triggers me so much.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:03 PM
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OTOH, if a woman is unsatisfied, the only acceptable solution is a divorce.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:42 PM
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Women should be required to cover up and men should be offered women-free safe spaces. I'd like to see some opinions from Muslim countries, where they have this setup.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:11 PM
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I know you did not claim that. But 5'10" is pretty above average and just by looks most people (not only women) will not be able to tell the difference from 6". I guess your body statue will be also more symmetric as opposed to pure heightmaxxing, leaving anything else unchanged. And you are free to have all other advantages which make the overall package just more appealing. It's not all about the height. But you are pretty tall and you can't deny that height will make you seen. It's basically …
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:45 PM
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What's your secret? Is it your personality then?
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:20 PM
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Dude, I can't even attend therapy. I have given up on hobbies decades ago.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:14 PM
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Sex is pretty easy to get For you.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:08 PM
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I have no idea about your experiences, but I guess most families are like that. Family life exhausts all the available time and financial resources.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 08:13 AM
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I am married with children, but it does not mean that I am not repulsive I am not a loser In fact, I am more of a loser as I chose to procreate.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 09:01 PM
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And if everyone has a similar opinion, then chances are that there is some truth to it. Furthemore, even if it was not true per se, it has no effect on the ultimate result - being rejected. There is no feeling stronger than being accepted, being loved.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 08:59 PM
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Once you get married and have children, you won't have any hobbies ever since. And as long as you keep quiet on your hobbies, no one can judge you. The question about hobbies is judgmental in itself, so you're right. But there is nothing that can get better.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 08:47 PM
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I can't explain myself. My wife must have had some false image of me.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 07:53 PM
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I'd like to know the answer too. I'm married (not an arranged one, though), yet I've never been on something like a date. When I tried though, it was so cringe that rejection was in fact a relief.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 07:08 PM
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If your date is interested in you, the venue does not matter that much. Otherwise all attempts are futile, there is no point in having a date at all.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 05:57 PM
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I don't know. I have absolutely no idea what I'd do on a date. But it does not matter as nobody would be ever interested in wasting time with me.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 05:56 PM
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Apparently even confidence can be measured in imperial units of length.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 06:17 AM
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Having kids is pointless You wouldn't wish such a future to your son, would you?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 05:33 PM
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Don't get triggered by bored kids.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 07:11 PM
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I don't feel that much offended. Eternal DB is not the worst. I don't even mind my wife's disdain for me. But coming home is rather an anxiety-ridden experiene, quite far from depression and boredom. And still, there is death to look forward to.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 05:52 PM
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Yes, I'm a helpless defeatist loser, but it doesn't mean I haven't tried anything.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:41 PM
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Ok so what do you want? In fact, this is totally outside the scope of this subreddit. We are here to discuss. And my stance is that some desires of some people are to be unfulfilled no matzer the effort. And you’re surprised that no one wants to be with [...] I am not surprised. I am aware that my fate is sealed. Why should I give in to rose-tinted deception? You’re not doing anything to try to fix it or even improve it. That's quite harsh of a statement, given how much you know about me. What i…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:09 PM
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I was reacting to the below statement: How would she know sexual topics make him uncomfortable [...] Unless there is explicit mutual consent, such topics are not to be discussed between friends. Much less between people at work. My understanding of empathy includes picking up on subtle nonverbal cues, sensing the slightest discomfort in other person and avolition of unrelated sensitive topics. I guess my understanding is flawed, as always.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:57 PM
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Nothing is going to make me attractive. One of my worst personlaity trait (and personality is in my particular case the very root cause of every issue) is inability to regulate reaction. No amount of therapy could ever fix this as no one ever could explain to me what qualifies as an emotion and what should I react to. Being angry and raging is the very last thing keeping me from totally helpless and rotting in my bed.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:47 PM
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How did you arrive at this conclusion? What is considered as objectification?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:44 PM
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your anger and frustration will bleed into all of your interactions and will only make you less likely to be successful in dating I guess you are not going to tell us that suppression of our feelings is going to work, right? There are two options only: either we let that feeling be felt or we suppress it. The former is basically what is done in psychotherapy - to process the feelings in a safe space in controlled manner. And then what? The root cause of our frustration is never going to disappea…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:27 AM
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In the optimal case people start practicing at 4-5 years of age, so now they have they have 30 years of advantage. Then there are plenty of contradicting hidden rules. However, the key to getting better is working out the rules, not the actual effor being spent. But personally I do not see much reason practicing it. There are neither short nor long time benefits and it is painful to practice it - practicing must be enjoyable, otherwise no one else would ever practice anything. But that's just me…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:22 AM
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I guess OP is not comfortable with that. And I am afraid communicating the boundaries would not be met here with understanding. So it would be better not to talk with them anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:45 AM
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I encountered that in school, but due to minimzing my social interaction I was able to eradicate that completely.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:42 AM
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This is called empathy. Oh, I forgot, empathy is applicable to babies and dog pups only.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:39 AM
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Apparently, if we feel offended, it's our problem. If they feel offended, it's our problem also. We need "therapy" even for things that do not concern us.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:38 AM
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Fine by them. It's cool that no one can tell how uncomfortable I am if they are so socially intelligent.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:36 AM
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That's what makes small talk so daunting. Physics has solid theory and experiment is always possible. Society and other people are hell to perpetuate the pain one has to endure by just existing.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:35 AM
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I evolved, but it did not help me much.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:11 PM
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My understanding, contrary to the commenters here, was that men "appropach" and initiate the request. But the women are the ones holding all trumps and just choose which proposal/request is attractive enough to go through, all others being directly or indirectly rejected. In this regard, by overflow of requests, it is meaningless for women to ever inititate.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 06:17 PM
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But the women choose to reject. Guess who's got the power?
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 06:13 PM
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Guess it takes a village to raise a child.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 03:47 PM
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In fact, babysitting hardly exists outside US. I cannot imagine something like "date night". I need to take a day off if my wife takes the older one to a doctor as the younger (barely 2.5yo) is not eligible for kindergarten. And it is going to be much worse from then on. What is a support system?
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:48 PM
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The problem is that it never gets better. There is no escape.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 10:34 AM
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This can never happen as no person in the world can ever be my partner.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:02 AM
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In other words, having had already known that, getting married was the second worst mistake of my life.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:24 AM
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Kids ruined my marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:22 AM
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Nothing against them. The method can even be effective. Just like gaslighting is.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 08:13 PM
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Let's put personal attacks aside and let's discuss what perceptible benefits can therapy bring. And I do not consider "not putting enough work in" excuse as a relevant argument. There is no rigorous basis for therapy to ever work. It is based on vague queations leading nowhere and arbitrary ill-based beliefs. What else is CBT? It is based on replacing negative biases with positive ones - in short, it is nothing but self-delusion.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:10 PM
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Therapy has never worked for anyone. It's basically brainwashing.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 09:21 PM
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You're right, but I believe some basic decency and kindness should be maintained in normal situations on a day-to-day basis, no matter who you are interacting with. Being kind to young men, the elderly of any gender, children. I am not going to state hoe one should behave in dating because there is no way I can do it right.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:03 AM
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This is something so oddly specific that it amazes me you couldn't tell.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 08:53 AM
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I don't think anyone can be that ignorant not to tell there is something going on. Those who deny being hit on while being apparently hit on just conceal that they are not interested and can't communicate rejection.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 07:43 AM
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Sure, that is the point of blackpill. But the situation is different when you are overtly told that you can never measure up and will never be regardes as attractive. My point is that women I was able to talk to were rather open about their preferences in partner, most of them being physical, therefore not admitting the bluepill.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 04:22 PM
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The reason incels are controversial is that women actively deny they are all primarily driven by looks and only want chads Depends on the context. And girls and women were indicating to me who they are attracted to long before I went complete blackpill.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:37 AM
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Hello, I am a lost cause.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:34 AM
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I would not call it "hitting on" if the other party cannot tell what is going on.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:33 AM
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There is no reason anybody should like me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:31 AM
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Gongrats on being so resilient that nothing triggers you.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 08:15 AM
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Okay so all men. Because everyone is online, But the silent majority does not write any pamphlets or engage in hate speech. And since you are familiar with the interner, you might know how futile is it to argue online, much less in a specific echo chamber. I am a man and hate myself enough so that no hate is left for anyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 07:37 PM
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So what do I do when I do everything wrong? I am short, weak and have to time or coirage to go to gym. And the best bart - I am a stupid POS with victim mentality and almost every symptom of cluster C personality disordesrs.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:42 PM
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Laziness? Could you please elaborate on this point?
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 04:55 PM
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If you are not 100% perfect, the rest does noy matter.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 08:16 PM
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Can't verify this as no woman will ecer tell me that.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 07:56 PM
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As for me, there would be no difference.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:09 PM
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I am now going in your steps.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:24 PM
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Because we do not give in to delusion?
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:08 PM
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I wish I was one. Actually, I am less than anything else.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:04 PM
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I'm s***al anyway; that would be a sort of relief. I don't feel offended.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:43 PM
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You look OK. Honestly, the looks matter, but it is not the ultimate cause we're lonely.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:33 PM
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all the men are chads who get plenty of sex and dates with stac Is it? I beg to differ.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:28 PM
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Out of these two the latter. Cannot speak in general, but as for me there is nothing of the least interest so I am convinced that even if I were able to tell it apart, there was certainly none (in the positive manner of course).
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:04 AM
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They do not have to. There is none, as far I was able to experience. Can't blame them, though.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:02 PM
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The society will win everytime no matter what you do.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:29 PM
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I think no one really cares about us. Society might be hostile and forbidding, but it will not benefit from our demise. It is not the enemy in my opinion. We cannot defeat it, either, and it is futile to fight it.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:20 PM
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in which case, you should, regardless of body count Could you explain?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:42 PM
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what enemies?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:40 PM
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You guys see couples in real life?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 04:51 PM
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Yeah. That's the only cope I am capable of. Sorry for having wasted your time.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 08:21 PM
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If one cannot achieve the easy tasks, what's the point in bothering? There is no way I can't fail.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 08:09 PM
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Getting a job is a battle. One has to be better than everybody else to be able to afford a shelter and some breadcrumbs. Every damn thing takes so much of effort and competition. And there is no way I can finish better than last if I am not beaten on the way.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 07:54 PM
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Life is a battle in every imaginable way.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 07:24 PM
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Can't stop. It always goes the same way.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:16 PM
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I am one. How do I stop?
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 08:44 PM
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Self-improvement is for you. It about learning that you can trust yourself. I realize the importance of this statements. In other words, there is no help since if I cannot convince myself, no one else can either.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:12 PM
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Is there any difference after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:25 AM
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You have been already married - so you know how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:21 AM
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How are we supposed to aswer this? If I find myself in a state of complete helplessness since no progress can be done, the comment would be taken down due to violation of sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:20 AM
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Obvious is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:46 PM
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I am afraid "treating her with respect" is basically steering clear from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:38 PM
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And I always lose no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:37 PM
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No work is ever done. From household to volunteering, from health to profession, from dating to selfcare. If it is done, there is nothing to do and nothing to have fun about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:23 PM
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And if the work is never done?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:15 PM
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Many psychological, spiritual, philosophical and religious teachings claim that behaviour equals mindset. Our thougths influence our actions and vice versa. But what makes the actual difference is not the intent, not the thought, but the style. Any action as well as thought can be reformed into various contexts and the interpretation and many originally well meant thoughts may be eventually manifested in awful actions. Conversely, actions with good intent may leave only bad feelings. For the las…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:14 PM
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No, to have the concept of "the best" consistent, there has to be a hierarchy. How can you find the best one, when you cannot compare, who is better? I wrote this in another comment, but this IMO stems from the different viewpoints and narrative biases. Would you stay in a relationship which is not working and there is a better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:56 PM
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I think the difference is only in narrative. Me (and maybe other men) tend to bias the view of attractivity towards the dating period before LTR. But as the LTR progresses, the flaws begin to surface and hopes vanish. Then comes a moment when a major "overhaul" or breakup is needed. Since a desirable woman is being hitted-on constantly, eventually there is someone found as the best choice and it makes no sense to carry on. But from the POV of the man it is interpreted as betrayal, since he did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:40 PM
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No one says women leave their partners unconditionally. But there might be a flaw, fault line, loss of "spark" which the other party is not aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:25 PM
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As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:24 PM
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No doubt it's wonderful and desirable in LTR partner, but I think it's so rare, especially as the age increases. It seems to me that optimism and willpower, basically any desirable mental or spiritual trait correlates with the overall quality of life, social status included. So it might be desirable subconsciously through confidence and absence of anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:16 PM
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zest for life That exists? I doubt anyone is excited for being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:49 PM
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This applies to males only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:17 PM
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Anyone can improve on anything if they want it bad enough. Too generic to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:59 PM
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I have never even observed anyone change for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:49 PM
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Have you ever observed anyone change their mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:48 PM
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Life provides nothing to go for, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:41 PM
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What's a low value woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:40 PM
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That's the nature of people and gives the insight to the motivation mechanism. Time to go full misanthrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:39 PM
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So you now have an insight how depression looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:31 PM
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I do not agree. The learning may not even be possible as it is not possible to analyze the experience (either there is no information, or the facts are lost in overthinking, anxiety and mental biases).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:30 PM
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If one gains knowledge (otherwise unattainable) to be used frequently in the future, I am not sure it can be deemed as a failure. It is a success to me. But I have observed circumstances change so rapidly that I cannot use any experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:44 AM
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That's the success rate I'd expect. Having done about 15-20 attempts in my lifetime, it's too late for me already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:53 PM
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Because everything always changes for the worse. I have never observed any improvement in my life. So trying again is nothing but a loss of time. Your experience is different, so no need to disproving my own observations. Anyway, let's say you have had 1500 attempts. How many of them were successful? 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:43 PM
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I still cannot understand why should I try again when my prospects only decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:12 PM
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I understood the latter paragraph as there is nothing one can do to catch the fish. They do whatever they like to do and no effort of man (i.e. regardless of equipment cost) can make the fish attracted. Taking responsibility does not prevent one from doing the same thing again; neither does taking lesson prevent one from making another mistake next time. And more often than not, people are repeating the same mistakes again and again. "Taking responsibility" in this context is just gaslighting; y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:11 PM
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So what is the rejection rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:45 PM
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She made fun of you for being a virgin. So what? Fuck that bitch That's the point, they even can't. I have no idea why men care so much what women think. Too many men allow any woman's opinion of them affect their self esteem. Cannot speak for everyone, but from my personal experience it is linked to overall self-concept (not only confidence, but also selfworth and self-efficacy). It's an essential part of the validation. Yes, it is irrational and we are irrational (I have sepcific issues contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:42 PM
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What's the point of trying when nothing is ever going to change for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:22 PM
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No, personal growth isn't pointless. But the narrative I feel here is that whoever does not get the results or even decides to give up is already deemed as having decided for failure. And I hope I am wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:21 PM
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The two paragraphs you wrote seem contradictory to me. Could you please elaborate further?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:17 PM
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Neitheir does failing teach you anything about success
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:14 PM
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Because it is not in their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:12 PM
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Many mechanisms in this world are based on positive feedback. The more you put, the more you get, so you can put more again to get even more. But the trouble there must be something in your possession to start with. And if there is nothing, you can literally wait a lifetime to get the first crumb of success. And just as well it may be the last one ever. And it's not only dating, it's literally every struggle in the life - from employment and financial issues to physical and mental balance; and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:07 PM
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I can agree with struggle, but all other seems like luck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:58 PM
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Wait, when the masculinity is permissible and when it becomes toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:40 PM
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We are not always what we would like to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:31 PM
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Someone said here recently that humans are supposed to control their emotions. In my opinion, controlling emotions is equivalent to their suppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:21 PM
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In the real world the average and median are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:51 PM
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How come living longer is a privilege? It is only a curse. Apart from the financial issues as described in the OP, the overall decline of physical and mental fitness is unstoppable. There is nothing positive about old age, everything is made up. Some of the elderly might deny that openly, but only because it is shunned to talk about aging and struggles later in life. There is only one way out of this - and for that very reason it is not permitted anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:44 PM
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It happens from time to time - I even got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:21 PM
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And can you prove it is not happening IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:16 PM
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Cannot speak for anyone else, but this is exactly what applies to me, no joking and no exceptions. I have found my own activity to cause nothing but troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:14 PM
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Humans are in fight with nature in every conceivable aspect. Males are genetically programmed to do the approaching and possibly programmed to handle rejection. I am no expert, but this sounds like AMALT to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:12 PM
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Oh, I thought GIMP stands for GNU image manipulation program. I have yet a lot to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:12 PM
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Is there ever a question on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:41 PM
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For me TRP is basically a theory of relationship dynamics using archetypes. Like in fairy tale, where you got brave young prince, beautiful princess, vicious dragon etc. I take it with a grain of salt. What I see as significant aspect of misunderstanding is that the personal experiences are always somewhat out of context and incomplete, yet it is one of the most important resources for discussion. I can never understand your dating experience; but I'd like to hear about it and test my own belief…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:40 PM
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If you include video games condtion in the definition of a loser, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:52 PM
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Don't confuse laid-back with boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:49 PM
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Even if it is not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:54 PM
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The narratives are always there, regardless if subonscious or not. I've been to enough therapy sessions to know the background. As for the latter question, I have the answer, but it is too controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:56 PM
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So what is the narrative I should adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:17 PM
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I don’t like being used for my body I never heard anything like like this from anyone IRL. I have to admit that my experience is merely limited to phrases like "I like you as a friend", which is the one of few responses I have ever got. Silence is how the world communicates with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:11 PM
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So are we talking now about the general trend or particular individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:53 PM
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Now I understand. Perfect explanation, indeed a metaphysical one. It's like a Zen koan to me, no jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:44 PM
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Mundus vult decipi, ergo decipiatur.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:40 PM
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understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:47 PM
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Bear in mind that theory does not have to apply to everything. TRP, in my opinion, does not definitely apply to all women. There are reasonable doubts about the aplicability to most women. And the relationships are too complex to be described by such a simple hypothetic construct. Yet I have observed that TRP explains every single aspect of my relationship failures - it's not that the theory is wrong. I am the one to be blamed for failing. I don't know if you consider me as real RP, you'd need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:49 PM
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It is individual; we cannot compare people, we cannot compare strengths/weaknesses of one's personality (though FDS and TRP both attempt at rankong). Since I have only the experience with own vulnerabilities and the reactions of the outside world, I cannot tell the difference myself. What I express is basically perceived as whining every time - every vulnerability I have has fatal consequences when exposed. So in my case - it is the same. I cannot show any weakness, however insignifcant, otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:42 PM
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What is your understanding of AWALT, may I ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:37 AM
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This is a misunderstanding of TRP. It is only a theory, explaining e.g. why most of the divorces in the Western world are issued from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:36 AM
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So what are the true numbers? Let's create a poll. But it is well known that men and women have different conditions for "having dated" someone and the number of partners over their lifetime is different for both genders and the bias is measurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:32 AM
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At least you could have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:22 AM
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As a someone who has not really participated in either any of these subs, yet is in the illegal grey area of inceldom, pessimism, fatalism and mental issues, I don't know if this can be really regarded as helpful advice. Up/downvotes will tell. In an analogy to 1999 The Matrix, the red pill represents the wakeup from deception and lies people are exposed to in their lives - from social cinstructs, metia etc. In my understanding the basic stance is that the dating behaviour in heterosexual couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:22 AM
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Depends on what you consider as AWALT. My understanding is that you would not stay in an dissatisfying relationship, especially if there are better options. "You are worth more than the loser you are now with" - this is the concept as far as I could understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:55 AM
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The other explantion is provided by TRP: Women have a lower tolerance threshold to put up with someone. People change for the worse, but instead of claiming that men tend to deteriorate faster, what if it is actually the women who lose their patience and set out to search for happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:17 AM
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Could you explain the difference to me, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:13 AM
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What's so hard about getting to know someone before getting naked? I think the issue is not even getting an opportunity to get to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:58 AM
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What’s wrong with you men… Everything, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:54 AM
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No, the wrong effort can cause more harm and damage than no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:52 AM
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Now I am not sure if you are serious. "Women marry men hoping they will change, and men marry women hoping they will not. " - Unknown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:35 AM
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The set of men that are "not worth staying married to", but are worth to marry in the first place, is empty The former and latter subset cannot be evaluated at the same time. When you divorce someone, it is not actually the exactly same person you have married originally. And there are traits or patterns which emerger during a longer run.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:02 AM
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Est modus in rebus. Everyone has a tolerance for other one's issues at a different level, but you cannot claim if someone annoys you, you will stay with them happily. And constant whining is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:58 AM
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Then you can try to think of it as losing the trust, attraction, affection, spark... This is exactly what happens for many relationships - in FDS terms the woman finds out her partner is a LVM and snap - the magic is over (and the man may not even know). I understand that there is no distinct asymmetry (in the sense that men/women are always bad). Maybe it could be regarded as more of archetypes or schemes, not scenario patterns which are always
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:31 AM
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If listening had ever worked in general, there would be no great demand for such Youtube channels or PPD. I mean, can you claim you can understand men? Or your friends, colleagues, relatives (regrardless of gender)? For listening to even happen, there must be already someone saying anything. I am afraid that truth is not always spoken and it is usually very hard to get the message, if there is any. How can I listen when no one ever speaks to me? And if they do, it is usually something in the mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:24 AM
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This is most conserving because is most developed world's, women have it easier than most men. I live with my wife in a country with one of the longest parental leave periods in the world. Yet she does not have it objectively easy, taking care of two kids and the household. I am trying to support her as much as I can, but do not get anything but nagging and dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:21 AM
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Is there any reason to put up any post at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:18 AM
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men are more physically aggressive. I think the society is only more suspceptible (sensitive) to male aggression. But then there is another claim that the young boys are today weaker and less effemine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:11 AM
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The same holds for depressed men - I think no other mental illness is perceived so unattractive IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:09 AM
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No ideology can fix the fact that the prospects are fixed and cannot be improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:28 AM
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Aren't we assuming some basic level of consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:19 AM
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Not listening when we speak, speaking over us, not taking us seriously This is what my wife does when she is upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:11 PM
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I would like to be in any relationship. But I have nothing to offer, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:05 PM
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I cannot agree. Memories make the future bleak, longing for what I have lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:37 AM
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My last chance to have any relationship whatsoever is now over. Does it qualify as hearbroken?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:36 AM
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Yes, there is no future for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:33 AM
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As for me - yes, but not because of STEM. It's something even deeper, because anything I'd change would feel false and deceptive. And this is true from what I have seen, yet I believe the figures do not drastically change outside of STEM domain. It is just something that is not debated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:30 AM
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Because I have had the only chance ever. I am no longer FA, I am now RFE - rejected forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:13 AM
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That means a lot of muscle and joint injury without any effect. There is no way someone like me can do it correctly. There is nothing I can do correctly. I just want out before anything bad happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:56 PM
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I mean I am weak and effeminine and can't do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:08 PM
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What these men should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:43 PM
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