I recognise I am an incel (original definition) and I feel really offenced when I see how r/inceltears and other places make fun of incels.

And of course how freedom of speech was banned on Reddit too by closing incels subreddits instead of just removing posts whose content was violent.

Just because 0,1% of incels are advocating for violence, rape and cutting rights for women, that doesn't mean we, a lot of lonely sad rejected men, hate women.

I am not hateful towards women and I met a lot of incels who are far from being hateful and violent. And I can understand why few of us become hateful. When all of your life, from kindergarden till adulthood, you were bullied, humiliated and rejected every day, treated worse than an animal, then of course few resorted to hate and bitterness. In my case, I directed that hate towards myself, not others.

And blackpill thing. Why is it so disliked? Because it speaks the truth of the superficial world we are living in. And the truth always hurts. Do we like to lie ourselves on a daily basis that looks don't matter in a relationship? When the truth is the opposite. And when a man says this, he is immediately attacked by other men and women who will never struggle with how much, us incels, we do!

Looks matter the most. If you're ugly, most people won't want to meet you and see how great is your personality, how "confident" you are despite the ugliness.

I can't wait to see how my post will be shared on other subreddits for being a hateful and frustrated incel.