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I agree, it's not a very smart or politically correct take to be putting out there. It's incredibly invalidating. It's clear that men also get bullied and body shamed. I see it every day. I think a lot of men play it off like they're not affected by it, to try and be like "tough" or "above it all". But it can't feel good when someone is always picking on your receding hairline, or when your clothes get looser because you've lost weight. (Or tighter cuz you've gained.) Or laughed at any time they…
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:52 AM
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I see, and so then when you lie down, it stretches back out for the morning. I didn't know that. Thanks!
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:07 AM
1

You're a centimeter shorter every evening? Is this some natural thing I've never heard of before?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 12:04 AM
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You're not going to convince me either, but I appreciate the effort. I guess we shouldn't waste our time anymore, though, since you'd rather recite blackpill jargon than have a conversation using independent thought, contemplation, and discovery. Your devotion to blackpill is noted. I hope the best for ya.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:01 AM
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Naturally, I disagree. Loyalty, integrity, honesty, responsibility, and accountability. These are all very important things to me. I've met many people of both sexes who don't understand those three words, and I've met many people of both sexes who do. This is a people problem, not just a women problem. I think, maybe, you feel this way because women have hurt you more or have hurt the people you care about more. I get that, I have women in my family who very much don't understand or acknowledge…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 03:57 AM
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I'd argue that society also tolerates mens lies, and that women who lie are also not respected. There is a difference between respect and tolerance.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:08 AM
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Maybe so.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 11:50 PM
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It can be. My mental health is not good. I do this because I have to provide for my family. My husband does provide some money, but he makes a lot less than I do because he can't work like he used to, because of the seizure condition. It's affected his memory quite a lot, so he needs a lot of assistance. Thankfully, I recently received an inheritance from my grandfather. I'm hoping to buy a house in cash in a cheaper area in the country and lower my bills in order to work less and have more time…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:50 PM
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I'm at work right now. I've worked my way up into leadership, and I mostly oversee other people's work and just sit at my desk making schedules and communicating and crap. You could say it's lazy, but the responsibility, problem solving, & other headaches involved can be really overwhelming at times. But I do excersize, just not "at jim." I understand you're trying to hurt my feelings. I understand why you want to. That's okay, I don't judge you for it, and I wish you the best on that master's d…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:37 PM
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I believe the topic I was discussing was the part in OPs post about "worker drones." But allow me to divulge my personal life, since that's clearly the more interesting subject (I mean I am a woman and all men are simps right? So this is what I should expect.) 6am - get up and switch over the laundry, hygiene, do the dishes, prepare the child's food and clothes for the day. 7am - wake the child and have them start their day. 7:15am - do my daily morning excersize 8am - see the kiddo onto the bus…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:50 PM
4

Good job. I already have a degree. My income supports my entire family. But let me find that trophy for you...
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:37 PM
2

I'd love too. Want to take some of my hours at work?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:34 PM
7

Lower class women, women in poverty, average and below average in looks women, are also worker drones. This economy is fucked, especially on the west coast (usa). Trust me. I didn't get a single day off last month. My whole life is work. I get home and just watch Game Grumps or a movie, and go to bed. That's all I do on the day to day. I wish, seriously wish, that I was one of these Mother Nature All Powerful goddesses you're talking about. I would hope to be a benevolent, egalitarian goddess.. …
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:30 PM
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Yes, women are not saints. They lie. So do men. This isn't news.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 08:53 PM
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It's pretty typical for people who have always had a certain privilege to be "blissfully unaware" or take it for granted. Of course. I take things like seeing and hearing for granted. I don't walk around like "thank God I'm not blind". And forgive me, but what is OLD? (OnLineDating is my guess?) People being forced into being commodoties (labor force, for instance) is something society definitely tries to do. I'm not denying that. I'm refusing to buy into that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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Look, I was bullied by the popular kids, the average kids, basically everyone. I was literally one of the biggest losers all thru school. Kids would steal my stuff and throw it in the garbage. They'd beat me up. Spit on me. Throw gum in my hair. Chase me around while mooing like cows. Spread rumors about me. My locker was broken into so many times that the lock didn't even work anymore, so I just stopped even using it. The one "friend" I did have also bullied me and used me any chance she got to…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 05:56 PM
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Not combative. It was just a simple question and an honest answer.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:14 PM
1

Oh yeah, of course. I'm not saying that I personally gave up on romance, or that anybody should. I just adapted to being who I am and accepting what that entails. I found my guy 10 years ago, and we engaged a ride or die protocol. So it's locked down now.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 10:55 PM
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Are you honestly interested in my medical history, or is this a form of arguing? Because what medications I do or don't take doesn't change the existence of the illness. I don't have hypothyroidism. I had misread the previous argument and thought the person's stance was that there was no illness that made people struggle with weight, so I named one. I was incorrect, however, since they agreed that there were illnesses. If I do have any condition that contributes to my weight besides my depressio…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah true true, but he hasn't always been, and I doubt he had trouble before wealth.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:51 PM
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Hypothyroidism. Edit: I misread. So yes, there are illnesses, but genes can determine a lot about body composition, muscle mass, etc. But yes, a calorie deficit makes most people lose weight. I get what you're saying, but mental illness is a big factor here, and that is often genetic.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:01 PM
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Genetics and mental illness both contribute to my weight. I spent a huge portion of my life desperately trying not to be fat, and all it gave me was 100 gallstones and severe stomach problems. But besides that, my personal experience was only an example, not the argument itself.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:54 PM
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The short guy will have a harder time. He should go for 5'2" and shorter women (Latinas, filipinas). The options are out there. Lots of Mexican guys are short, and I see them get girls all the time. The 6'3" guy, if he is stylish, or funny, or confident, or whatever, nobody will care about his face. Pete Davidson.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:47 PM
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I think your last sentence is the most important thing to remember. While being unattractive makes it harder it doesn't make it impossible. There are many factors in life that are chosen at our birth, not just romantically. I think a lot of liberal bluepillers admit to pretty privilege, white privilege, and financial privilege. So they aren't as far to one side as you (or they) might think. I'll never be a cute little Japanese girl no matter how much in prayed for it as a child. I've continued t…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:40 PM
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Freedom is more important than dick and pussy, period.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:02 PM
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I am not surprised by many human behaviors at this point in my life; I could list several women off the top of my head, that I know personally, who are just like you say. This is just the example of the diversity of women. I also know women whose hatred of Chad makes her vengeful, and so she seeks revenge on Chad or even just average or above average men in Chad's place. All of these things are true. It only further proves my point that universal claims are inherently unfactual.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:46 PM
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I agree with you. I believe, as a lover of freedom, that we all have an innate right to decide what kind of partner(s) we want. But it's also each of our duty to perform due diligence and to recognize what attributes we are actually choosing and want. Basically like.. why are you bitching about getting what you asked for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:41 PM
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Maybe this is true for a lot of women, maybe even a majority, but it's not universal. The statement "Chad is the only sexually attractive man ever." Is false. Just my existence makes it false, and I am not so delusional to think of myself as totally unique. Unattractive women who were bullied by Chad, their brains rewire to distrust Chad. They adapt, if they're smart and truly want contentment. They roll their eyes at a Chad. They don't bother to see a Chad; Chad becomes just another invisible m…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:20 PM
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Yeah, some solutions sound great on paper, but in reality, would be firmly rooted in Uncanny Valley. Interestingly, in both AI, the movie, and Chobits the anime, even the 'robots' are lonely, so if anything, it increased loneliness. At least in those two thought experiments. I think science having the ability to allow certain people to procreate where they naturally weren't able to would make a lot of people feel more fulfilled. But does that make it good? Who is to say, I guess. I mean, I'd fee…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:59 PM
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Interesting take. I'm not sure if I agree. I think reproduction is only one facet of a desire for a relationship. Especially when many people prefer to be kid free but still want to be in a relationship. I think on a basic level, most people just want a teammate they can trust, someone who is loyal to them and has their back. Someone to spend time with that you know on a deeper level than most of the friends in your life. I think so much of this comes before, and after, procreation and raising c…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:26 PM
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That's really awesome, I love to hear that. Oh, she definitely can. I can speak as a chubby woman who was a chubby single mom years ago. We may be a little more limited in selection than a prettier, fitter, kid-free woman, but there is still a selection.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:14 PM
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I can respect a couple who makes things work for their kids, putting our kids' happiness over our own is just a part of being a parent. Unless, of course, the relationship, or one of the adults, is dangerous and abusive. Which doesn't sound like the case in your story. It is unfortunate she's worried about him cheating on her, but I'd rather have that then worry about my kid's wellbeing in that particular situation. Considering they both are apt to cheat though, perhaps they should embrace an op…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 04:39 PM
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Gotchya, sorry for my misunderstanding. Maybe it is genetics that determines our sexual proclivities. Or more likely a mixture of nature and nurture like most other personality traits. I don't really argue about the best way to raise children. I don't think it has much to do with the specifics of adult relationship dynamics (unless it's abusive and hostile, obviously).
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:45 PM
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Sure, sure, it's a silly argument anyway. Most real-life relationships among average people are not like this. Most women work and provide financially in a household. That's just a fact. And in my cause, I'm the head of household. I'm not some special case. This isn't uncommon. Also, people aren't products.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:40 PM
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I can see where you are coming from, but I will mention that I'm not anti-promiscuity. As a lover of freedom, I think all people have the right to make these decisions, whether or not I'd choose them for myself. Other people have different desires than me. Maybe there are people who will put up with anything for the goal of being with the hottest person possible. That just simply ain't me. And if it is your goal, at least be aware of what you're (likely) going to be putting up with. But honestly…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:31 PM
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When a man is a stranger, we never know if he's the "takes no for an answer" type. So that nervousness, or wondering, isn't always there when a man approaches? I believe you. When I say fear, I don't mean like women are walking around with their keys between their fingers like wolverine (though, some are.) Some people also 'fear' the dentist and 'fear' making a phone call. So I think I also mean unnerved. Anxious. Unsure. Weary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:09 PM
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Sure, they don't (usually) fear that something is going to happen to them by a man in a coffee shop or a public street. I tried to encompass several facets of why women do not like to be approached, especially by unattractive men. I also mentioned that sometimes it's just annoying to know the man probably approaches every woman they see, so it's also not flattering. I didn't bring up something you have, though. That's super valid; that fear of "rudeness" or the unsureness of how to most safely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:04 PM
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But yet still there are exceptions to that as well. You brought me Ted Bundy, I bring you Danny DeVito. And yes, he dated before he was rich and famous. There are other men who are not tall and handsome who are in relationships. Anybody with a set of eyes can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:43 PM
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Oh, wow! How conspiratorial and scandalous. Where do they find the time in this economy?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:31 AM
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It's amazing how diverse women are! Because that is true, and what I said is also true. It kind of goes hand in hand with how he got away with it, for the time that he did. Some women are more at ease with a handsome, confident guy. But then there are also women who are attracted to serial killers after being aware of their crimes. Wow! What an interesting bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:17 AM
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Huh. Weird that I've not met a single woman who is involved in this scenario. Maybe they're just not in my town.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:01 AM
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You truly believe average women just have a pet Chad they pass around amongst themselves? Like truly? Or* are you exaggerating? I gotta know.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:41 AM
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Oh, LOL, my bad. So are most women fucking other women on the regs?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:36 AM
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Silly. I'm a 34 yo woman, my count is 10. I didn't lose my virginity until 20, and I'm unattractive. But also, I'm not anti-promiscuity. So I think that balances out to make my count pretty average.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 04:56 AM
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I don't disagree with you at all. But I don't think that is discrediting what I said. I think women can fear dangerous men and reactive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:40 AM
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Sure. But maybe we can analyze how the exception occurs and discover something new.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 04:38 AM
1

I think it was a lack of clarity on your part. Now I understand. Yeah, okay sure, I think both are true.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 04:36 AM
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I'm saying that debating about generalities is dull. I prefer to dive deeper into each nuance.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 04:29 AM
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Okay then. Like I said, I don't experience bring approached in that sort of way. I'm not being extreme. You yourself agree you can not take on a man. That's all I'm saying as well. That has to feel vulnerable and unsafe at times. I know many women who do feel genuinely scared to be approached by men they do not know. But I can accept that many only find it to be annoying. Sure. Totally. But am I being extreme? I see so much content about this fear. I hear about it from my friends. I mean it's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:13 AM
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Men are conned into thinking that they don't know whether or not they would fuck a woman in the first 4 seconds? Sorry it's not clear what you mean
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:54 AM
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If a rule is a rule, then there is no further debate. The exceptions are where the real debates lie.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:50 AM
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Many bullies are actually victims of abuse at home.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:46 AM
3

Yes, precisely. Nobody can handle the intricacies and chaos of true diversity. So we are stuck arguing about monolithic thought still. It's not only inaccurate. It's boring!
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:45 AM
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I haven't dated in over 10 years (I've been in a monogamous relationship) so I'm definitely not affected. But we know I love to give my 2 cents so here we go! Women feel they are always in danger of being stalked, raped, and murdered. Now, I'm a fat ugly woman, I do not fear for my life. In fact, I find a certain privilege in my unattractiveness. Im invisible. Almost like I am a man. I don't fear being approached, I don't fear walking alone. I do not fear men. But if I did, I could understand no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:44 AM
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Yes, I think it's already begun.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 02:59 AM
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Is it not the same when you see a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 02:47 AM
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I agree with this to a degree. I found that kind men who are loyal, loving, and respectful with good personalities tend to be the kind of men other women don't like or pursue. There is a sort of feminine quality to a nurturing and generous man. And unattractive people often can have great personalities because we had to. And a loyal man that you know you never have to wonder if they love you, if they're cheating, I mean yeah, to a lot of people that contentment can feel boring. They think the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:34 AM
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Well, that's good news. At least we are egalitarian in our judgment of one another.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 02:18 AM
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Even guys like you aren't all the same. Some of your "ilk" give all ya'll bad cred. Society generally dislikes entitled and prejudiced people. They think all incels are hateful sexists who want to rape women. So to them it's like being mean to a Nazi. Like being mean to you is the only society-accepted response.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:55 AM
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If a man prefers a shaved pussy I don't assume he's a pedophile. I assume he likes eating pussy but hates flossing.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:40 AM
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If public hair isn't feminine, why are females biologically wired to grow it? I really don't think pubes have anything to do with being butch. Most women who don't shave just don't fucking feel like it. It'd be like if I declared eyelashes were feminine and then said only girly men don't trim their eyelashes.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:38 AM
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I am a fat woman. I have very good skin and a decent face, but yes, I am fat, and so I know I am unattractive. I have been a fat girl my entire life. The world has taught me very well that I'm ugly, that I am hated. I'm aware. Trust me, we know. BUT, as i got older, i realized that not all men are shallow. I have an easy time seducing even non-chubby chasers. But also, chubby chasers exist. So, really, being fat and/or ugly does limit our options, but in my experience, my personality can overrid…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:08 AM
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Someone else said basically the same thing, but I'm gonna say it too. I have no doubt this is real. She's above average, and he is below average in looks. It's not even like he's average or she's average. They are miles from each other in looks. This is why I am initially turned off and put off by attractive people. I understand my place and the people who are accessible to me and more likely to remain loyal to me. Your brain learns the patterns and adapts. Doesn't mean I suddenly don't recogniz…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 11:44 PM
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Would you still be with your girlfriend if she was 6 foot 3 inches, 300 pounds, and had her pussy sewn shut? Move the fuck on.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 08:55 PM
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Yes, that's why there are no black and brown people anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:57 PM
1

If you're saying loserness has nothing to do with genetic selection than you also disagree with OP
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:40 AM
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"With the most [resources and] genetics" lol. So people with Downs Syndrome? /s But doesn't sperm donation account for being able to continue a genetic lineage? And I thought you were saying the man is seeking pleasure as to no longer be a loser? I feel like we are discussing two different things. OPs assertion: *If a woman is repulsed by you, you are a genetically selected loser. * So, the natural selection of your genetics (genetics being DNA passed down a lineage) causes you to be a "loser." …
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:28 AM
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Maybe the way OP worded it confused me. Genetic selection made me think of natural selection, so then I was thinking about evolution and lineage.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:56 AM
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no u
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:26 AM
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Even people in relationships can look at life and feel that "what else is there?" feeling.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:00 AM
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If we are speaking purely on the terms of genetic selection, so continuing a lineage of genes, then my first argument is that you don't have to be attractive to donate your sperm. Also, what about attractive people who are not interested in reproducing? Are they now self selected losers? And also, remember, if you're ugly, most likely a whole string of ugly people fucked to bring you here. So, taking all that into account, I don't think it means you're a "genetically selected" loser.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:43 PM
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No. I didn't even have more first kiss until 19 then I realized most of my shit was all in my fucking head. You're wrong. High school love is absolutely meaningless and not an indicator of if something is over or not.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 07:29 PM
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You haven't even explained anything. You're talking about feelings and energies and then expecting me to have evidence? The female body destroys semen and flushes it out. Take a health class.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:38 PM
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She's thinking that you were dwelling on her memory and desperate for her return. It's pretty egomaniacal when you think about it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:21 PM
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I see. It's up to each of us individually to decide the boundaries we set. We get to decide, whether it's "right" or "wrong", who we engage in relationships with. If it bothers you knowing she has slept with other people, whether or not that makes you insecure, that's your choice, and she should do herself and you a favor and move on.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:32 PM
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I can't tell what's happening in your case by the original post.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:07 PM
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I had a hoe phase just after I left my abusive husband. I was a single mother, and I was sleeping around with 6 different men regularly. I would just do it when my daughter was visiting her aunts or grandma. All the men knew that I was sleeping with other people, so nothing was being lied about. It was fun, and I got to know the different guys on a somewhat personal level. I didn't love any of them, I didn't want to be with any of them, but they were fine people. Then one day I met a guy and we …
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:01 PM
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This is mumbo jumbo nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:48 PM
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I don't have a ton of friends, but I know 4 single people. Two men and two women. All 30+ One of the men is always actively pursuing relationships with different women, but they never get far; he's a mumbler, and he breaks easily under stress and will have meltdowns. The other guy is either happily single or just plain private, as far as I know he has no romantic interests and isn't actively pursuing them. He enjoys his hobbies and lives a simple lifestyle. Both of the women are single by choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:21 AM
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But she already pointed this out: her "looksmatches" have hyperinflated their own attractiveness and look at her with disgust.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:23 AM
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I mean they can't seem to fathom why a lesbian wouldn't want to fuck a man smm, so clearly they must also want to fuck a man.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:18 AM
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Okay. I see that, and I understand. 10 years ago, I met my current partner in a very sweet way, and everything was great and romantic and just felt so perfect and right. I thought I had done it, I was in the relationship. But since then, we've gone thru a lot of trials. We learned every dark corner of each other, and that innocence and sweetness has long passed. We've watched each other struggle through our biggest growths as people. Unfortunately, nobody is actually a unicorn. The sooner you ac…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:13 AM
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Judging by how she ignored him when he tried to get her again, and is trying to take it slow with you, she learned something from her experience with the dude.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 03:11 AM
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Okay, I see what you're saying. Some deformities can be interesting or even attractive. A deformity is a malformation of a part of the body. It doesn't have to cause heath problems (those cross eyes people probably have eyesight issues though). A WEAK chin is not a deformity, no. But you said no chin, like that bitch who got her jaw ripped off in The Grudge is what I was imagining. Hear me out here: I like men who wear glasses. Every man I've been with wore glasses. A lot of times, if a guy has …
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:21 AM
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Hahaha that's funny but that's not what I'm getting at. But how is cross-eyed not a deformity? I rarely see people who are literally cross-eyed.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 11:49 PM
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If you have no chin, you are deformed. If you are cross-eyed, you are deformed. That was included in my comment. If you're exaggerating, then, well, why even bother.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 11:35 PM
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So many different faces can be attractive to different people. Blackpill goes on about "hunter's eyes" and shit. Meeks (had to Google him), he's ugly as fuck to me. He looks like he has a caveman brain. That's my gut reaction. But that doesn't mean I don't have a "standard." I prefer a guy who looks more like Elijah Wood. So yes, face matters, but we all have different tastes and preferences. And sure, some faces (literally deformed) are probably ugly to everyone.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 09:26 PM
1

What's happening is a blanketing from both sides. Many incels cast a blanket on the dating scene, women, men, etc. "Normies" cast that same blanket on incels; that they're all ready to kill and rape women. I think also, people would like to believe they are not superficial, and would like to believe in a meritocracy in all aspects of life. Personally, I think both sides are incorrect. Specifically because of the lazy "cop out" that this blanketing does. Its deciding a theory is complete. The wor…
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 09:12 PM
1

I can think it's stupid all I want, but we all have the right to make whatever stupid rules for dating us as we want.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:51 AM
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Yes. Misery is a prerequisite in blackpill thinking. But, blackpill is the true cave in Socrates' allegory. You can escape.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:10 PM
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Incel
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:21 PM
2

I like to challenge my ideals, and also, I like to argue.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:53 AM
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What's warped is anyone thinking success lies in sex of any kind. What are we, gorillas? I'll feel successful when I'm stable and my actions match my values. And yes I'm "bluepill" probably, I really don't know.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:10 PM
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Fairness doesn't exist anywhere. And we should especially not have governments involved in our romantic lives. Governments do not create fairness, they attempt to create "order". Recognizing the growing problem with frustrated loneliness, especially in young men, is not a bad thing, though. The change should happen "at ground 0"; with the individual. With the internet, education and advice is out there and easy to obtain, but therapy is an option too for the more privileged. There are some thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:57 PM
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This is a debate sub genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:27 PM
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" Now the big girl and the little guy half her weight are stuck together. No one would be happy in that scenario. " Lol. I can't be the only one who has noticed that there are a lot of thin guys who prefer big women. It's basically a trope at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:24 PM
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All the skinny and fat bitches would just fuck each other and have a great gay life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:04 PM
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I have a very strong feeling that while expressing loneliness, they were also expressing some other things. I'd love links to examples if you have them, then I can be more detailed in what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:56 AM
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I'd argue that this is only applying to specific thoughts and feelings (women don't like me for this and that reason) in a specific setting (reddit.) A man can express sadness over his dying parents or something like that and women will react differently; sympathetic etc. It is not that women are "wired" to want stoic men. It's the language and the certain ideas that are being expressed by these feeling-sharing men that trigger certain reactions from women (and other men as well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:45 AM
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Women don't even have to act sexually to get men to do stupid shit, you do understand that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:16 AM
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No little budi, this proves nothing. Why should women have this value? Why should they "handicapped" themselves for the sake of people who have no self control? Should McDonald's close down because I can't resist their French fries? Women ARE absolutely taught this. Muslim values, Christian values, all have modesty lessons for women in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:57 AM
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Omg they asked you to buy them a drink? Well clearly that means you can't say no. Because of the sExUaL pOwErS and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:35 AM
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"Misusing sexual power" Right? Because it's usually women who are taking advantage of men, without their consent, with their sexual powers. Like, what are you talking about? It's not a power to be sexually desirable to men. It has pros and cons. Ex: Pretty privilege vs. Stalkers. A woman existing and being desirable does not FORCE men to pay her money and buy her drinks. A man physical advantage and their misuse of it towards women is simply not comparable. You're essentially comparing rape to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:19 AM
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It's 9 years now that we've been together. There have been a lot of very trying times within those years. But we've never cheated. We don't call each other names. And we recognize struggles as just that: struggles; not definitions of character. We are forgiving. We lift each other up. We reach to each other for help. We split finances according to earnings (equity not equality- even though I'm the woman I pay way more bills because I make twice as much as my man. Fine with me because he is doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:28 PM
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Mens groups are not forbidden. People don't like furries and yet they're congregating just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:41 AM
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Then join a men's group outside of work and hang your nudie posters at home and not at your desk. Yeah, the bar is at "is it a crime". Where else do we put the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:29 AM
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So your industry sucks. Mens clubs still aren't a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:14 AM
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https://nw.mkpusa.org/mens-groups/ https://mensgroup.com/mens-organizations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:09 AM
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This is the most delusional take I've ever seen. Do you think men forming in groups larger than 1 have been outlawed by feminists? It's laughable. I'm laughing. There are literally hundreds of male only clubs. Plus like... friends are a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:27 PM
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Alright so... survival is the competition. And in order to achieve survival, humans seek out protection (safety from being conquered), reproduction (lineage), and power (wealth and status, which in turn provides protection for self and kin) Now, viewing humans as the complicated beast, from a biological standpoint, ignoring individual identity and diversions from the norm (disease etc) men offer power and protection, and women offer reproduction. Sure, it takes a seed for the flower to grow, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:48 PM
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Okay so, what's the competition? Reproduction? Nutting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:13 PM
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Who made these expectations? How did our society evolve to be this way? Who is to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:11 PM
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Im trying to wrap my head around what you're saying here. Men are failing at dating because they cannot date teenagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:13 PM
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Yes I think some women do pretend to like basic white girl interests to fit in. Its not even that weird. There are men who pretend to like hunting and fishing to fit in too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:03 PM
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Im 32 and I agree. So much of the views and ideals you see in this forum are so simplified and exaggerated. Like broad assumptions that sweep over hyperspecific ideas. Its not practical or realistic. Its almost like nobody here really talks to people outside of reddit. But its amusing to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:19 PM
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I was bringing up context because we don't exist in a vacuum and its still related to the topic. We can't even begin to contemplate peoples' experiences without context. These extreme stereotypes based on your so-called averages is what leaves men sexless to begin with. Drawing these gender lines and othering one another creates an atmosphere of dihumanization rather than relating. As in relelationship. I have no doubt a significant number of men deal with sexlessness, and women with bad men. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:14 AM
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So many other things come into context. Sexual orientation, location, availability, attractiveness, financial class, occupation my god. I think attractiveness and class makes a larger difference in dating experience than even gender. I wouldn't even understand the dating experience of a woman my age who is healthy, wealthy, and lives in a diverse and well populated city.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:43 PM
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We have been together for 7 years. We don't believe in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:17 PM
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That depends. Is he working as a domestic engineer? (Househusband) Am I able to support our lifestyle with my income? My boyfriend usually works, but because of covid and a broken unemployment system, he is laid off without pay currently. My income does get us by, not as well as we would like but we are warm, fed, clean, and entertained. During this period of no income my partner does all of the chores. He does cleaning, maintenance repairs, meals, gardening, and store runs. If I made more money…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:12 PM
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I am the only income for my household right now and I still love my boyfriend and find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:10 PM
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Text me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:27 PM
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Call her Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:58 AM
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You got it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:50 AM
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You got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:01 AM
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As a 30 year old woman I honestly don't give a fuck. Shout it to the world, scream it from the rooftops that I'm used goods. That is not a representation of my value as a person. Plus I was never "goods" in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:54 PM
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Chad is a bad kisser. Chad can't eat pussy right. Chad's eyebrows are not expressive. Wake up!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:46 PM
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Stay true to myself and masturbate if nobody likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:07 PM
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I would push the matter with the guy. I've pushed for a relationship from a FWB, and it didnt work out, and after about 4 months I explained that if I cant have more than the benefits are off. The friendship died with it sadly. My current relationship, going on 6 years now, started out as a FWB situation and I just kept dropping hints like "you're going to want to say you love me at some point" and silly stuff like that and after about 3 months they asked to be official. I would have waited for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:06 PM
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Yeah, kind of. Buying pieces of clothing and altering them to fit the costumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:19 PM
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My kiddo is an Undertale superfan, so I'm going to be Sans, she is going to be Frisk, and my partner is going to be Papyrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:10 PM
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Why let myself be fat? Because I like carbs more than cardio. Plus, I'm not so fat that it inhibits me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:03 PM
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Perhaps!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:45 PM
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Haha, yeah. I'm definitely gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:39 PM
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They can and have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:32 PM
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Can confirm. I am fat and have no troubles in the dating game. But no, not just with other fat people. I've dated primarily thin and fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:24 PM
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We can have a small debate about how men love in a post about how men and women love. Calling it "quibbling" is pretty pretentious of you. I don't see how your comment helps or even adds anything new or useful to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:04 AM
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If you had read what I wrote I stated we are not mind readers. I can see that you didn't understand. And I doubt we are going around measuring one anothers' neural states in order to fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:53 PM
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I meant physically real in a way that can be defined by another person. And obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:50 PM
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It really sounds like you're just defining love separately in your own mind. The "real" love is the one that includes sexuality, and you're deciding (for every man for some reason) that platonic love just isn't love at all. I mean whatever, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:46 PM
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Do men also not love their fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:35 PM
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This makes it sound like men don't love children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:20 PM
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What can we really be defined by besides what we do? Our actions? Our intentions exist only in our minds, so they aren't even real. Not everything we think is us, because we can think up things we would never do or would never even desire. And even if what we think is us, this would imply that men can read minds? Which I think decades of gender humor would disagree with. I think that old saying is just another one of those dumb "wise sayings" that sound good but don't actually mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:19 PM
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I actually think about this a lot. My partner is very attractive. He is lean, fit, has a great jaw line, amazing shoulders (wide and straight) and bone structure, his hands are massive and masculine, and his arms are veined, toned, and he has no flab. I mean he is a straight hottie if you like a tall (6'), lean, but strong man. He is more of an Elijah Wood (if Elijah were taller) aesthetic than a Channing Tatum one. As for me, I am NOT attractive by normal standards. I'm a big and tall woman, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:55 PM
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