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20 years in the Black Pill I wanted to fuck a woman, I compromised I jack off in a tissue instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:10 PM
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A natural brunette with purple or some other colors in her hair is super attractive. But that opinion is coming from an unwanted guy. Don't know if it truly matters to any guy who has choices and options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:20 PM
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Women are the ones saying how disappointed they are that guys they were friends with show romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:39 PM
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because they're hard-limited by height, hair genetics and facial aesthetics. I'm older so I don't know if this saying is still used much anymore. But the whole "he cleans up well" is only going to be said about a guy who naturally looks half way decent or good to begin with. If someone or people think you have an ugly face no amount of "cleaning up well" is going to make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:42 PM
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Men with psychological problems that stem from being below-average in look, heights, social-status, income, social skills, etc. are basically unfixable because no amount of self-talk or rationalization will fix how society views and treats you This sums up my experiences in therapy perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:32 PM
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Height doesn't make a big difference Continuing to lie about obvious things is not helping you or other women. Why lie about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:55 PM
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I do read a lot, no wonder women don't want me. Wish I knew this earlier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:31 PM
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It is what it is. The men in my family weren't anything better either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:22 PM
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I'm used to Woman B with the family I grew up with, so that would be my choice. But I can't imagine either one lasting long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:15 PM
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Sounds kind of like friends with benefits, you know where a woman thinks a male looks good enough to fuck but the male is not good enough for an actual romantic relationship. A fair share of women seem to like that nowadays. Do you think this gives some unfair advantage to males?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:45 PM
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Never mind what he looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:27 AM
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That's a lot of "honest mistakes" you have made with all your posts. Don't act like you don't know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:50 AM
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I can't speak about gay guys, that might be different. But loner or loser guys? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:43 PM
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Growing up, when loner "nerdy" boys or boys who other boys called gay or ostracized, it was the girls offering them into the fold and being nice to them Never once saw anything like this, elementary school, high school, college, or various work places. Girls and women avoided them like the plague and made fun of them mostly behind their back but sometimes to their face. I've seen this on Reddit where women say they want to help or include guys like this and it's absolute bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:37 PM
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No, highly unlikely anything is going to flourish if it needs to be arranged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:20 PM
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Certain people, both women and men, can draw attention without saying a word just by how good they look. Sure good looking introverted people may not like all the attention they get, but they're still going to get it, no matter how low key they present themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:55 PM
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No, I'm sure some introverted Chads would be good also.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:33 PM
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I had multiple family members who were emotionally abusive, so I'm used to certain things. Everyone has a limit of course but I would try to make it work. Being alone feels worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:18 PM
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Women view at least 80% of men as ugly or unattractive, so I guess more guys are taking a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:53 AM
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Well, hopefully these average guys understand they're being wanted later in life because hot guys don't want to fuck these women anymore (Where have all the good men gone?) and/or she needs help raising little Chad Jr.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:10 PM
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It shouldn't be different. Honesty is the best policy. There are still some women saying they dated a 5'6" guy with bad acne and was socially awkward and since they broke up he's been hooking up with cute women like crazy. Why are some women still lying and saying silly shit like that? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:58 PM
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At least you're honest, more and more women are being upfront and honest about what they actually want in a guy and that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:36 PM
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I've had a major health scare, been through a couple tough financial periods, had multiple family members dying (hopefully that isn't too much of a woe is me). You can still feel bad about other things. I know no one is going to give a shit that I'm single in my early 40's but sometimes talking about certain other topics, even if it's online can make you feel differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:28 PM
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I'm talking about what I've seen in the real world, not celebrities. Are a lot of women talking negatively about Leonard DiCaprio? I know Ricky Gervais has thrown some jokes his way. But are a lot of everyday women calling Leo creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:53 PM
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It's not the act (much older man/younger woman) that most women have a problem with, it's the guy that's trying/doing it. I've seen guys in their late 30's to early 40's chasing after women who are 22-25 years old. If it's a guy they feel positive about (attractive) they don't have a negative word to say about it. It's only when they don't know or don't like a guy (unattractive) that's when it's "creepy" "predatory" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:43 PM
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Yes exactly, the small percentage that are attractive to you. You'll tolerate certain things just fine. Unless he ghosts or cheats. My guess is you are a decent or good looking woman in her early to mid 20's, who has no problem getting good looking guys to hookup or be with you short term. But they either cheat or ghost you (They're hot so they have tons of options). So that obviously makes you feel bad and to feel better about it, you go on Reddit ranting about ugly guys. Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:24 PM
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they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. You mean they don't have to tolerate unattractive male sexuality anymore. You think a guy is hot, you will tolerate his sexuality just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:10 PM
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It's a woman saying this that's why it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:21 PM
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I've seen it first hand in a few places I've worked. One guy, sometimes two will either hook up or have short term relationships with around 5 or 6 women co-workers in any given year (that I know of, it could be more). It's never multiple women at the same time but when one ends another one begins. are these women hot? Maybe not exactly hot but usually above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:36 PM
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The woman will seek lower tier men to be her “backup” but she’ll never truly be satisfied with him There is going to be less and less of that happening. Seems like more and more women are content with trying with the top guys. And if that doesn't work out for them they'll take their chances remaining single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:25 PM
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There are a lot of women who look good in their 30's and 40's and I'm not talking about celebrities. Now I'm an older unattractive guy so I might have different views. Good looking guys that age that are wanted by women might think differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:17 AM
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“mothers have fed their sons lies” My mother told me I was handsome, so that's proof right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:23 PM
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Absolutely and you're going to find out very early on that women want nothing to do with a guy that she thinks is ugly, regardless of "social skills."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:55 PM
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"Love At First Sight". I'm not talking about that, of course not everyone is going to have instant romantic or physical attraction right from the start. I'm talking about a woman who views a guy as physically unattractive, actual negative thoughts or opinions about a way a guy physically looks. You know in that situation it's not going to matter how good the guy's social skills are. Romantic, physical and sexual attraction can develop from a neutral starting point. Not a negative one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:52 PM
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and the fun part is she will give signals, giving you a shred of hope, only for the end result be a "its not you is me" leaving you wondering what you did wrong I have been in the talking stages with a few women and it always ended with the women going with the guy who was "just a friend" that all of a sudden became single. "It all happened so fast" "I didn't think he liked me like that" "I didn't plan this, it just happened" Those things will be said to certain guys, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:30 PM
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Friends and people who view him in a positive way? Yes, maybe not as many as other people but they do. You can try to cultivate all you want but in the end it takes two people to form a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:11 PM
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If a woman thinks a guy is ugly or physically unattractive, do you really think that having conversations with each other and making her laugh is going to change her mind? Change her opinion about him as a person? Sure. As a romantic option? Come on huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:47 PM
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Adult male virgins are red flags because they feel bitter and jaded about their experiences and wronged by women What about experienced guys who feel wronged by women? Guys who have been cheated on or divorced? Bad breakups etc. You should hear what some of these good looking experienced guys say about women they were with. Just another post by you justifying your hate on any guy you deem as physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:26 PM
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I work with a guy in his forties who has been with multiple co-workers in their early to mid twenties. And he's not a manager or boss or in any elevated position. Not a lot of guys can pull that off but the few that can will get no push back from women. No woman, both younger or older has a bad word to say about him or what he is doing. I don't agree with 20 year age gap relationships at all but when women say that it's creepy or disgusting, I feel that it's not the act they have a problem with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:36 AM
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I work with a guy who is 42 years old and has been with multiple women co-workers in their early to mid twenties. Now he's tall and considered hot so that definitely plays into it. My guess is that only a small percentage of guys that age are going to be able to pull that off. Not friends with him so I don't know all the details, but what other people have said is that it never lasts more than a month or two and it's always the woman who breaks it off with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:54 PM
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good women. They exist and will be present later in your life. Guys know or eventually will find out what that's all about.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:45 PM
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And men do not like ugly overweight girls. Overweight or dare I say ugly women will still have guys who are attracted to them. If you're considered ugly as a guy nowadays, interest from women will be zero, you might get a woman looking to use you later on in life but that's it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 07:37 AM
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Make no mistake women are absolutely disgusted and repulsed by a guy that she finds physically unattractive, some women are just better at hiding it than others.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:09 AM
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Hot guys pump and dump, ghost or in general won't commit, that's why they're "lonely". They'll claim to be looking for "regular" guys lol. But anyone with half a brain knows what is going on, especially in recent years.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:01 AM
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Crying about trying to find a regular guy, what a joke. Tons of regular guys around, she's crying because hot guys either won't fuck her or they pump and dump.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:41 PM
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You're not good at trolling, you need to get some pointers from some other women who troll here like TermAggravating8043, mylastbestchance, familiesarenations/welllarmedhippie and "Rob"YouTube. I'm sure they would love to help you be a better troll.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:25 AM
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Who the hell is out there constantly insulting unattractive men? I guess you never visited femaledatingstrategy before they left reddit, 256,000 members.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:54 AM
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When a woman tells you "let's just be friends", she's telling you to fuck off and never talk to her again. Yep, I got the "let's just be friends" a few times from women and that's exactly what they mean by that.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:31 PM
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and was "the perfect gentleman" but still couldn't seal the deal. A guy can be a supreme gentleman and that's still not good enough.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:47 PM
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Wahhh I can't get commitment from hot guys wahhh.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 11:21 PM
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There are only two reasons why a woman wants a guy in her life in any capacity, either because he's hot or he's useful. What's happening more and more nowadays is that the only way to be useful to a woman is to be hot.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 05:59 AM
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You're the guy that's into animal porn and requesting pictures and videos of dogs and wolves popping boners. You were able to get a fat, mental case, Jesus freak teacher who's almost 10 years older than you willing to fuck you and you think you won the lottery or something. You ever hear that phrase don't stick your dick in crazy? Well you're about to eventually find out. Good luck with that marriage dude, you're going to need it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 06:18 AM
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Women always wanted to be with the best looking guys. With social media and all the different dating sites, women have access to good looking guys that they never would have crossed paths with in the past.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 08:35 PM
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The guys you're fucking have thought similar things too, don't kid yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:22 PM
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I see it everyday with a guy that I work with. He's 6'5" and 42 years old and chasing after and hooking up with late teens and early 20's women. Everyone here where I work knows about it and still women fawn all over him and kiss his ass like you wouldn't believe. And he's not a boss or manager of any type, just a regular employee. I just roll my eyes when women say they're disgusted with older guys chasing after much younger women. They have no problem with it if it's a guy that they personally…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:21 PM
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People are capable of empathizing with men. People are not capable of empathizing with women. You lost all credibility right there.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:17 AM
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What did his face look like? You have to have both for most women.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 11:15 PM
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Women are less judgemental than men in terms of looks Less and less guys are believing that bullshit lie nowadays and that's a good thing. Women always wanted a physically hot guy and now with social media and dating websites they have more opportunities to find that good looking guy that they never would have cross paths with in the past. I know it's fun for women like you to give certain guys false hope but that's not going to work anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 06:19 AM
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I'm still amazed about women still denying stuff like this happening. Women talk shit about guys they find physically unattractive A LOT, whether it's a guy's height or his face and whether it's online or in real life. There are still women and a few idiot guys who post here that deny things, you're not fooling people anymore. Stop lying. Have all the preferences and standards about a way a guy should look all you want, just stop with the lying.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:15 AM
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What I've seen, good looking white guys have the most privilege and get their asses kissed the most, personally and professionally.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:00 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:27 PM
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Good for him, the sooner guys realize that a woman will drop you in a heartbeat if a hot enough guy comes along the better. At least he found out before he lost anything financially.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:57 AM
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Where did all the good men go? Translation, where are all the hot guys at?
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 09:59 PM
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Big difference between someone being unhappy about not being in a relationship for a few months or even a year or so. And someone that's never been in a relationship. The whole being human thing, it's going to be painful never having one. I don't want or expect anyone to be a mommy or therapist, not looking for that, it would be nice to have a partner though. The only people who can be happy being alone are the ones that truly want to be.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 09:50 PM
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My favorite was they said they hated me with a big smile on their face. But again some guys just don't have the face to go to the next level.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:22 AM
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I've hit the gym too bro, that wasn't going to help my face. I've had women cracking up and a lot of back and forth fun banter, again that wasn't going to overcome my face.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:15 AM
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You labeled yourself a Chadlite, that's above average.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:10 AM
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TL;DR version I'm a naturally above average looking guy and I haven't had too many problems picking up women. If I can do it, why can't a really ugly guy do it too? Just talk to women bro, it's not that difficult.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 06:51 AM
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This is exactly what women wanted, ride the cock carousel of hot guys until maybe just maybe one of them is ready to settle down and live happily ever after tee hee. If not, well she had a lot of fun trying.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 04:44 PM
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Some of these women will have to write the numbers real small, make sure all the numbers fit.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:18 PM
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Chads don't exist - he's the handsome boogeyman you guys use to justify your insecurities The lying some of you women do just astounds me. Wow just wow.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 01:03 PM
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Hot guy or bust, simple as that.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 11:41 AM
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I think also part of it is, especially with some of the older women who post here or on bluepilldebate. Is that the guy or guys that she viewed as being good enough for her in the past wound up disappointing or hurting her. So she likes seeing guys that she views as not being good enough struggling with dating, being in pain about things, feeling lonely or feeling bad about being alone. She loves it, it makes her feel better about herself and about her situation.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 10:30 AM
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If a guy is truly a 10 to her, niche or otherwise, well of course that's different. If she's with exactly the type of guy she wants to be with she'll be happy with him.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 10:06 AM
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It depends, the right guy comes along at the right time for her, look out.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 09:46 AM
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The classic lies women tell. "Oh him, we're just friends" "He's just a friend" "He's not my type" "He's boring" "I wouldn't be with him, we have nothing in common" Then all of a sudden "I don't know what happened" "It just happened" "I didn't plan this" "I wasn't looking for this" "I didn't think he was into me" "It all happened so fast"
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 09:38 AM
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A woman might "love" certain guys for a period of time. But you know most women will cheat or leave them if an opportunity with a hot enough guy comes along.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 09:25 AM
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I've never heard women speak badly of short men, men with small dicks, or men of certain races You must not be around a lot of women then. I've worked with a lot of different women over the years and I have heard them talking shit about the way guys look A LOT. Certain guys it's their first day working there and multiple women are talking about how ugly he is. Meanwhile if they think a new guy is cute, they start going up to him, introducing themselves, asking him questions and inviting him to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:26 AM
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Whoever made that list must be a Howard Stern fan, most of those guys in the 2 to 4 range are from his show LOL.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:55 PM
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Really? Even the bottom few rows?
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:54 PM
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It takes two people to form a relationship, you can have any mentality or attitude you want about yourself. But if that other person wants nothing to do with you, what are you going to do? At that point your mentality is meaningless. The fact is that you're still alone. I always laughed in the past when I heard people say you have to love yourself first before someone else can love you. There are tons of people out there that have some sort of self loathing, self hate, self doubts, self image pr…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 12:15 PM
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I saw a doctor after it happened, he manually pushed some things back into place but he said it wasn't serious enough for surgery. It was a long time ago (I'm older), I was 15 at the time and my parents didn't give a shit. They weren't going to help with anything.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:44 AM
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My eyes and eye area is really bad. I think that's why I look a little better wearing glasses, kind of covers it up a bit. Edit- My nose is real bad too, I've had my nose broken in the past. Being punched in the face in high school.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:20 AM
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It's bad, believe me.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:16 AM
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2.0-2.5 😢 I'll cope and just believe I have body dysmorphic disorder but...
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:06 AM
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Wow 5 percent, I knew things were getting bad but this is crazy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:28 PM
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Don't remember seeing that one before. LOL 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:32 PM
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When a woman can start sensing if a hot guy is going to cheat, pump and dump, ghost, or emotionally abuse her, then I'll start believing that she can sense misogyny.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:31 AM
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I'm white, 5'9 and have never been overweight and never felt I've held any racist views or opinions. There have been women of multiple races and ethnicities that I've talked and joked around with over the years wanting to be friends and stuff like that. But anything romantic or dating wise? That's always been a hard no. I've had some pretty harsh and brutal rejections in the past. And it's because I have a really ugly face.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:47 AM
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Yep, From the movie On The Waterfront.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 04:29 PM
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Talk about being a piece of shit, I've seen multiple posts of yours being removed over on purplepilldebate. Even the women moderators over there know you're a scumbag just looking to troll people. Hey whatever makes you feel better.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 06:04 AM
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Well the beast was over six feet tall, so...
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 12:57 AM
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Therapy isn't going to help certain people, a lot of therapy is bullshit. I'll give you an example. I worked with multiple therapists and they were big on "mindfulness". One therapist told me to imagine I'm sitting by a river and there are leaves floating on the water. She told me to put each negative thought on a leaf and watch the leaves float away. And with that my negative thoughts will float away also. I mean come on, what in the actual fuck am I supposed to do with that? Another therapist …
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 11:53 PM
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I've seen differently, if the guy is hot enough women will do multiple things on that list. It might be only short term, they might not do certain things indefinitely. But if they have a chance to fuck or have a relationship with a hot guy they will do whatever it takes. I have worked with multiple women over the years who stopped talking and being friends with each other because they both wanted the same hot guy. I worked with a woman who was a guy's personal chauffeur for months because he did…
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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Is he by any chance a janitor?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 09:37 PM
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It's never been about a guy's personality, For example you hear all the time from both younger and older women how gross and creepy it is for older guys chasing after college aged women. Well guess what? I work with a guy who's 42 years old and hooks up with a different 18 to 23 year old every few months (that I know of, it's probably more) and none of the women who work here care at all, they all fawn all over him. That's because he's 6'5 and considered good looking. All that personality and em…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:26 PM
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I've been at that point a few times in my life. What's kept me going is wanting to help some family members out and make their lives better even if it's something small. And I still have a fear of death, as painful as it is being alone outside of a few relationships with family, I still fear dying.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:56 PM
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Sounds like the women who post on purplepilldebate.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:44 PM
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I love having both, they don't care that I'm ugly. They like being around me anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:22 PM
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Her friends and family will tell her that the guy is ugly and that would turn her off.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:18 PM
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As long as the guy is hot, she'll take her chances that he will get a better job and make more money in the near future.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:15 PM
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Oh please, you're not listening or taking any lessons from any guys from this sub. And there are a lot of women that look good in their 30's.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:11 PM
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Yeah, I looked pretty good and girls were into me until around 7th and 8th grade. By the time I got to high school. It looked like I fell out of the ugly tree and my face hit every branch on the way down. Puberty really did a number on me.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:02 PM
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I've never witnessed in person a woman getting physically or sexually abused, so I guess it never happens. I never heard in person someone who's white use the n word, so I guess it never happens. I never witnessed someone who's gay have homophobic slurs thrown at them, so I guess it never happens. What I have witnessed in person, is myself and other people (both women and men) being put down because of the way they look. That's something certain people have no problem showing themselves about.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:21 AM
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I'm working around 50 hours a week lately, extra money for overtime. I may be ugly but I'm not a bum.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:09 AM
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Just because you may be racist, doesn't mean everyone else is.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 06:19 AM
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All people are racist Speak for yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 06:12 AM
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It's the only choice I have.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:51 AM
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I'm not saying they should, I don't expect it and know it's not going to happen.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:41 AM
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BPers think the whole world cares about them Never thought that, I know no one cares about me. Whether it's in the real world or online, I know no one is going to care or have empathy for an ugly guy who is alone.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 06:58 AM
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As long as he respects women and has good emotional qualities, he should have no problem.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 08:20 PM
2

Women do not select based on appearance.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 08:04 PM
2

You couldn't pay an ugly guy like me enough to cold approach a woman. Whenever I showed interest in the past it was with a woman that I had time and familiarity with and she seemed to view me in a positive way as a person. But with a face like mine, no such luck. I should have known better but I didn't know the things about people and life that I know now.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:57 PM
5

They like the good looks. That's exactly what it is, the things I've seen and heard over the years about the shit women put up with and overlook when they have a chance to fuck a hot guy is really quite something.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 05:38 PM
1

People here last overheard women speak in high school. I'm in my 40's and have worked with and have been around many different people over the years. You're not going to fool me with your bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:48 AM
1

You sound just like the therapists I "worked" with in the past.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:36 AM
3

Black pilled, I'm a sub 5 so you can guess how I've been treated. Combined with seeing firsthand over the years what "red flags" many women are willing to overlook with any good looking guy.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:30 AM
2

People will tell you straight up at high school and college age. And it will be more indirect when you're older.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 11:59 PM
6

I'm in my 40's and have been really ugly since high school, other than some gray hairs when I grew a beard. I don't think I have looked older. I've never smoked or done drugs and rarely drank, so maybe that helped.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 08:48 PM
24

I worked at a grocery store when I was in high school and college and worked with a good looking guy there, here are the "red flags" that this guy had that so many women had no problem with. Arrested for multiple DUIs (Could have killed or injured someone) Arrested for shooting a gun off in his backyard and damaging neighbor's property (Again could have killed or injured someone) Was flirting and saying sexual things with teenage girls 31 years old and still lived with his mother Bad body odor O…
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 05:08 PM
5

You probably have a decent looking face. A man or woman can technically be overweight and still look good if you have the face. I'm also 5'9 and have been in shape since high school but have been put down and told I'm ugly by lots of people over the years. People aren't putting my looks down because of my height or my body, it's my face.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 04:10 PM
2

I think some (not all) women get off on giving unattractive guys false hope. Giving someone false hope about something can be more painful and disappointing for someone in the end.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 07:30 PM
8

there are so many reasons someone gets bullied and being ugly isn't reason enough on it's own You don't know what you're talking about. There are plenty of people, both women and men that are put down because of their bodies and or face. Especially in high school or college. I've experienced first hand and I witnessed girls and guys being fat shamed and told they were ugly when I was in high school, whether they were introverted or extroverted. And so what if someone is quiet or introverted, it'…
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 02:58 PM
12

She's on Onlyfans, so I guess it makes sense.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 10:44 AM
10

There have been a couple of women that I work with who have told me I smell good within the last few weeks. And I've heard it from time to time in the past. That whole just take a shower nonsense doesn't mean anything if you're ugly. I worked with a guy back in the day who people complained about his bad body odor, he was hooking up with women left and right.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 07:54 PM
5

It's difficult accepting it without being somewhat depressed. That pain is still always there, even if you push it way down inside. My mindset is making as much money as possible for myself and to help out my sister and nephews.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 07:24 PM
5

She only said it one time, but over all my second therapist (went to 2 in total) was dismissive in general. The whole therapy process made me feel so much worse about myself.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 09:33 PM
1

No one has to do anything for me. And if I was looking for something from someone, you wouldn't be the person I would look to.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:11 PM
2

I would like to know why, someone as hypergamous as yourself, cares about what guys she doesn't want anything to do with thinks? You chased after hot guys your whole life and you're absolutely PISSED that it took you until age 26 to finally get one. How is that an average or ugly guy's fault?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:28 AM
3

Empathy and sympathy abound Lol where? I haven't seen it. What do you want us to do? You will do nothing because it doesn't affect you or anyone that you actually care about.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 12:56 AM
8

I personally don't want anything from someone like you, because I know it wouldn't be anything positive. You and other women like you will only care about certain individual guys (mostly the good looking guys you want to fuck) The worst possible thing a lonely or ugly guy could want is any empathy, sympathy, or anything positive from someone like you, because it's not happening. Like I said the sooner certain guys realize that the better.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 12:46 AM
9

You and other people won't do anything about it, you couldn't possibly care any less even if you tried. The sooner certain guys realize that the better.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 12:07 AM
37

Do you really think bluepillers or women in general are going to give a shit about lonely or unwanted guys? Their response will be "go to therapy" Well guess what, therapists don't give a shit either. Telling a therapist how many times you were beaten up physically and beaten down emotionally. Your own mother with a knife in her hand threatening to kill you at 11 years old. The therapist's response? "Women have it tougher"
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 11:12 PM
11

For once I agree with RopeorCope.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 09:56 PM
2

I'm older, so enough time has passed where at some point you just realize, with as many women and people in general being rude and shitty to you and being put down and rejected because of your looks so many times. You just wouldn't want to be in a relationship with anyone. The pain of being alone will always be there, but with enough time it's far reduced and you can just go on with other things in your life.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 07:52 PM
4

There have been multiple women who have trolled here that have their accounts banned by Reddit. They're the last ones who should talk about having a bad personality.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:21 AM
3

Tired, worn out, unmotivated, sad. Very hard to get out of bed in the morning. I've been working 48 hours a week lately which actually helps because it feels like I'm accomplishing something. Some people will say I'm "wage slaving" but it beats being home alone with nothing to do.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 05:17 AM
2

what’s stopping you from reporting it to HR Everyone here knows about it. The bosses and people in power (women included) know what he's up to. I have worked with some really good looking guys in the past but I have never seen women swoon more over a guy in my life. That's why he does it, he knows he can get any with it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:48 AM
5

You are not owed or entitled to free Little Caesars pizza, I'm just trying to help.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:44 AM
4

I deleted my Facebook years ago, besides with friends like you who needs enemies.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:37 AM
8

You're here to make certain people feel worse and you know it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:18 AM
2

You say that these super ugly guys are the ones getting the most sex. An ugly guy to you = not as good looking as my hot boyfriend. You sound very young and naive. My guess is you're still in high school or just got out.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:15 AM
17

You have been on reddit begging people for money and for free pizza. You and your hot husband aren't doing that great.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 06:59 AM
3

I've read some of her comments, she doesn't seem to regret it that much. She knew what she was doing. She also said there was no alcohol around. A college party with no alcohol in sight? Bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:12 AM
6

I feel both women and men in their 30's, 40's and 50's having sex with college aged people isn't right. I work with a guy in his 40's who's hooking up with multiple college aged interns each year. None of the women at the office seem bothered by it because he's 6 foot 5 and good looking. I know if I tried anything like that I would be reported to HR immediately and fired.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 07:21 AM
2

This lady is 31 and kissed an 18 year old. She did more than that with him.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 07:06 AM
3

As a kid, teenager and early 20's similar things happened to me. I know poor little me, I got my fee fees hurt. But I think when certain things are done to you by family and peers when you're a kid until adulthood it can stick with you for quite a while. As for the physical bullying in high school, I never really fought back because it was never one on one. There were three or four or five guys in a group. Same with girls telling me how ugly I was. It was always done as part of a group. I guess …
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:13 PM
1

I know where you're going with this. Are physical, sexual and emotional abusers good men? Are drug dealers selling heroin to teenagers good men? Are guys in their 40's trying to have sex or actually hooking up with 18 and 19 year olds good men? Are male bosses who offer promotions to women workers only if they have sex with him good men? All those types of guys have friends and romantic partners. But interesting enough you don't seem bothered by those types of guys. You would rather mock and lau…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 08:06 PM
10

Shocker, at least those chadsexualcels are honest.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 04:31 PM
8

A few things about the red pill I agree with are. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does. And she's not yours, it was only your turn. There is no game about attracting a woman. She either likes the way you look or she doesn't. No amount of game, personality or emotional qualities is going to work. Stuff like that only works if she already thinks you're hot.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 04:24 PM
2

A Proud Boy may not ejaculate alone more than once every thirty days and if he needs to ejaculate it must be within one yard of a woman with her consent Well, that leaves me out.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 03:47 PM
7

That's why "chad" gets the girls. When you picture "chad" you picture an outgoing social guy who goes to lots of parties and has tons of friends. Honestly the physical differences between you and that guy aren't that great. A lot of women who troll here want to make someone like me feel worse. At least with you it's so absurd that it's done in a fun way. So again thank you, I'll be looking forward to more of your posts in the future.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:05 AM
5

Speaking of funny, I'm still smiling at some of the things you posted. I have been feeling really shitty lately and you have definitely made my day. I hope you post here more often.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:40 AM
2

I don't get anything from it, I don't know these women. Would you agree that no one is owed relationships? Or there is more to life than relationships? Or should things like that only be said to physically unattractive guys like me.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:23 AM
15

The guys I know who fuck the most are super ugly, they're just not socially awkward.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:05 AM
9

None of yall are even ugly
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 11:59 PM
2

They don't need to repent for anything but they should know there is more to life than relationships. They probably have bad personalities, that's why those guys didn't want to commit to them.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 11:03 PM
-4

I never understood the mindset of having to go to another country to find sex or a romantic partner. I guess it's wanting power and control over someone. It's painful to be alone but there's nothing real or genuine about traveling a thousand miles or more just to find someone.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 08:44 PM
13

These women are not owed or entitled to relationships or commitment from hot guys.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 07:54 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:44 PM
1

Be honest, did you used to post here under the name highlyflashy? I only say that because she said she was a black Stacy and would post AMAs she would delete them after an hour though for whatever reason.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:33 PM
3

I like my guys a lil ugly How about a lot ugly? Is that too much?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:15 PM
13

You already got more positive things in therapy than I did after over a year of sessions with two different therapists. Hopefully it continues for you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 07:33 PM
3

Stop beating up your cat, then you can come back and give me life advice.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:55 AM
5

Says the woman who goes on them a bunch of times. Putting down guys you would never have anything to do with. Hey whatever makes you feel better.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:52 AM
8

It's very easy for someone who's having sex daily or multiple times a week to say don't masturbate. Yeah they are rarely in a position where they have to do that. Just like good looking people saying, just keep approaching bro. Sure easy for them to say.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 06:28 AM
8

Is that the guy that says he is fat and ugly and looks really mean and intimidating but claims to have been with over a hundred women?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:56 PM
6

Just like women putting down short guys or ugly guys on social media. Saying "I hate all men" or "men are trash" I know most of that is venting but still. All you had to do was look at the femaledatingstrategy subreddit (over 250,000 subscribers by the way) before they moved to their own website. Post after post after post putting down guys because of the way they looked. And saying only the best looking guys are worth a woman's time.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:08 AM
7

The reality is that women truly don't know, you all don't have these magical super powers about predicting the future. The negative things women claim to sense is always about guys you wouldn't want anything to do with anyway. I have been around a lot of people over the years. Women tend to miss a lot of red flags or will look the other way on a lot of things when she comes across a guy that she likes the way he looks and wants to fuck him.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:47 AM
2

I’ve given more than one ugly man with high self esteem a shot Sure you did, totally believe you.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 11:07 PM
5

unless you are very handsome. Relationship with women is uphill battle. WHAT??? Wait a minute, when did this start happening?
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 06:16 PM
4

5'2 Indian janitors with Swedish super models. Are one of those guys named Chadpreet? If he is, I know the guy, he works at my building. I feel bad for him because he's about to be fired. He can't get any work done. There is always a swarm of women around trying to date him because he's a really good person.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 12:25 PM
10

It's one thing to go outside but did you shower first? And did you actually touch grass or did you just look at it? And those 6'4" guys with a really handsome face that get their ass kissed by lots of women. You might think that it's because of their physical features but it's not. Women can sense whether you have good emotional qualities or not. Women have incredible intuition, they always know if a potential romantic partner is going to treat them well or not. All I can say is work on your emo…
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 10:09 AM
1

I can sense their misandry from the things they post on here.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:19 PM
5

It's not all about sex for me, it's about forming an actual connection. That's not going to happen with an escort. Having to pay a woman to have sex with me is gross. Having someone you actually love and care about and they feel the same about you must be a great thing to have.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:27 AM
8

Does acting like a tough guy on here make you feel better? Just so you know no one in "real life" knows my personal situation. And thanks for reminding me I'm one of the most worthless people on earth. Believe me I've encountered plenty of people like you over the years, viewing and treating me like a piece of shit (I have the physical and emotional scars to prove it) just because I don't look normal. And you wonder why I've grown to hate people.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 05:39 AM
2

She saw a few psychiatrists in the past but never said if she was diagnosed with anything. I personally have no doubt that she was. If you witnessed some of the truly scary rages and behaviors that I did you would agree.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:45 PM
1

Yeah I didn't sleep well that night that's for sure. Never viewed my mother the same way ever again.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:37 PM
4

I always have had a decent relationship with my sister but all the other women family members were very cold and distant. When I was a kid my mother (with a knife in her hand) told me she was going to cut my throat when I was asleep.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:03 PM
12

Years of being told and put down about how ugly I am is why I formed my "deluded narratives." Normal men would never face competition from someone like me no matter what my mentality was.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 12:29 PM
4

No, not at all. Just having a little fun. Just like certain women here have fun gaslighting and trying to make someone like me feel worse.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 01:28 PM
19

What's so confusing? That a bunch of women are going gaga over a guy just because he looks good? As we all know, women would never do that. He must have had a bunch of good emotional qualities that the OP missed.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 06:24 AM
14

See, it's really that simple. Just love yourself and have some good emotional qualities bro.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 07:27 PM
3

Years of being told negative things about my looks by many people happened first, then the horrible self image happened. I was a decent looking kid, and girls were into me through most of junior high. Then high school happened and wow did it go downhill fast from there.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 07:20 PM
11

At the end of the day I'm still human, people (especially women) don't view me as one but I still am. I'm still going to have that wanting for connection as everyone else has. Completely hiding yourself away from people is still going to feel negative and unnatural. I know deep down whether I die tomorrow or 50 years from now I'm going to be alone but that wanting for a connection has still not gone away.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 05:19 AM
5

I was always afraid if I hang myself I would just have a broken neck and become paralyzed. Or if I take pills, a family member finally comes to visit me and I'm saved and then thrown into a mental hospital. Assisted suicide would be a nice option to have.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 11:42 PM
6

When you have been told that you're ugly your whole life, you're going to start thinking some negative things about yourself. Your life and the way people view you as a halfway decent looking guy or better is going to be different from someone like me.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 05:40 AM
7

Easiest thing for someone to say when they are the ones getting what they want or need.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 02:52 PM
1

I guess you have never seen the way women can treat each other if they both want the same hot guy.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 01:46 PM
2

I wouldn't because of the age difference but if I found out she liked me in real life I would be flattered. A woman doesn't have to be skinny for her to look attractive to me.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 07:04 PM
3

I'm in my 40's, I went to high school and college with a lot of different people. I worked at a couple large grocery stores with a lot of different co-workers in my teens and early 20's. I have worked at a few offices since then with a lot of different people. I'm 5'9" 167 pounds. So I'm not fat. No one has ever told me I'm weird, no one has ever told me I'm a creep. No one has ever told me I'm a bad person or I have a bad personality. But you know what? A lot of people have told me that I'm ugl…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 08:01 PM
2

Bullshit they don't.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 06:40 PM
11

Around 8 years ago I was at one of the lowest points of my life. I was in the bathroom looking in the mirror and had a knife pressing up at my jugular, but didn't go through with it. I have nothing to live for myself but I would like to see my 3 nephews grow up. My brother-in-law is 6'4" and looks like a young Vince Vaughn. So I think my nephews are going to be just fine in life.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 08:19 PM
7

I know tons of guys like this bro. Their secret was they had respect for women bro. When women first meet these guys they view them as very ugly. But you know what bro? After just one conversation women recognize all his positive emotional qualities bro. It's really that simple bro, just have some good emotional qualities and women won't care what you look like bro
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 08:38 AM
2

This is none of my business so you don't have to answer. But did you post a picture or something on one of these subreddits? Or was it something you said? Or is it a case of you just being a woman that certain guys on one of these forums are hating on you?
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 09:09 PM
18

You're mad at guys that you would never want anything to do with anyway. You sound just like a femaledatingstrategy poster. Mad at good looking guys in real life that won't commit or cheated. And then take it out on unattractive guys online.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 08:36 PM
9

They're a 3/10 but think they're supposed to be banging the 9s and 10s and are mad that they can't. You're full of crap and you know it. A few high schoolers might think that way but that's it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:57 PM
1

I don't watch or listen to any of these particular podcasts. But aren't these types kind of like Jerry Springer back in the day. Having "guests" that are part of the act just to get people riled up. I can't imagine too many women fucking dogs
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:47 PM
1

The good looking guys I went to college with, worked with, friends, friends of friends. Good looking guys that live in dirty, shitty apartments and condos. Good looking guys that have DUI's, domestic battery arrests, serial cheaters. Good looking guys in their 40's hooking up with 21 year olds. Those particular guys know they can get away with stuff like that and still have plenty of women who still want to be with them. I have seen all this with my own eyes over the years. It is what it is, jus…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 06:35 AM
1

Oh please you should see how some of these good looking guys live and act. They know they can get away with it too.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:56 AM
12

Come on everyone tell me how pretty I am
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:29 PM
1

Any guy threatening death, rape, violence or any kind of harm is unhinged and a complete piece of shit, no doubt. I'm not trying to argue that. I was just commenting on this trend of putting people down on the way they look. Which a lot of men and women do nowadays. You don't blame your boyfriend for what other guys do, don't throw shit at me for what other guys do either.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:19 PM
6

Easiest thing in the world for someone to say when they're the one getting exactly what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:21 AM
2

Men putting women down because of their weight, women putting men down because of their height. It seems like both sides are trying to one up each other about the way people should look. I guess it makes people feel better about themselves. I never understood the whole putting someone down that you would never have something to do with anyway. Is it narcissism? Shallowness? There are things that are difficult or pretty much impossible to change about the way you look that other people love to cr…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 09:47 AM
2

No I'm not, I was trying to say an ugly guy like me didn't need to be a father and reproduce. It just would have been nice to have a connection with a woman at some point. You can have a romantic relationship without having kids.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 06:15 PM
11

I didn't need to be a father and reproduce. But it would have been nice at some point if 1 or 2 women found me attractive along the way.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:18 PM
5

Women are unbelievably vapid and shallow, no doubt about it. But if women are rejecting 5' 11" and 6 inch penises. Then it's way worse than I thought.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:26 PM
7

Yeah, very strong femaledatingstrategy vibes.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 02:02 PM
21

I was told I was ugly by women long before social media, Reddit, dating websites, all that. You only give the guys that look good to you a chance to show who they are as people. By the way I thought you don't care what men think?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 01:27 PM
4

When you have had as many girls/women in high school, college and co-workers tell you that you're ugly and put you down for the way you look, when you never said a word to any of them. You're not exactly going to have all these warm and fuzzy feelings about them. Especially when you hear women spew the bullshit about personality and emotional qualities being more important than looks. And then you see them fawning over guys with DUIs, domestic battery arrests, cheaters and so on just because she…
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 11:21 AM
9

If women think you have a cute or handsome face you will be ok. You won't have as much interest as the 6 foot or taller guys but you will have chances.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:09 PM
10

I know, it was a joke. I was mocking bluepillers who say that stupid lying crap.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:42 PM
4

I guess putting other people down and judging and criticizing other people's looks makes certain people feel better. I know for me that wouldn't change my situation or take the pain away, so I don't do it.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:52 PM
9

I have never said a woman is ugly, ever. Not in real life, not online, not anywhere. I have never put a woman down because of her face or body. I have had it said and done to me so many times over the years that I'm not stooping down to that level.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:42 PM
13

I know people aren't going to have any empathy for a ugly and alone guy like myself. I don't view myself as a victim, but what if I did? It's not going to change anything. You and other women would have the same opinion about me no matter what.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:29 PM
10

I know multiple guys who are 5'1" and 5'2" and are bald and considered very ugly when people first meet them. But you know what? They are very respectful to women and have great personalities and they are always in a relationship with very cute women. Am I doing it right?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:45 PM
6

Her friends and family would tell her that I'm ugly, so that wouldn't work for me
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 10:49 AM
2

Single moms, no problem. If that makes me a beta, so what. I never cared about that whole Alpha/Beta crap
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 10:40 PM
4

The only one from that list I would be hesitant to date would be a trans woman. I know this makes me an incredibly evil person but my preference would be a biological woman, no matter what she looks like.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 10:21 PM
2

It was a joke, sorry bro
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 06:40 PM
3

Well I think you have a better chance then, hope you find what you're looking for
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 09:47 AM
7

I don't want to discourage anyone from going to therapy, it can certainly be helpful for certain things. But if you are an unattractive guy (not saying that you are) trying to work on your self image it's not going to work. Especially if you're seeing a female uhh I mean a woman therapist. They had no problem telling me I was unattractive and didn't look good. Even though they knew I had a horrible self image and thought about killing myself. I truly regret going but that's just my own experienc…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 09:11 AM
9

I had girls in high school doing this crap to me a lot. Don't know if this particular video is staged or not but pretty popular girls trying to play tricks on ugly guys like me was definitely a thing.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 07:19 PM
4

Women these days want men that are physically attractive to them, it's as simple as that. Any woman that says anything different is flat out lying to you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:16 AM
4

I never had high standards about the way a woman needs to look. And I never have hated or been angry at all women in general. But at some point when the number of people (women included) that try to make you feel bad about the way you look starts piling up over the years. You're definitely going to start to feel some resentment about the way people treat you. And your self image is going to be broken. And before some people say go to therapy, I did. Made me feel worse about myself.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 09:40 PM
1

"I am here because I want to help"
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:40 AM
8

It really is amazing what women put up with for a good looking guy.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:23 AM
8

Yeah being punched, slapped, kicked, pushed down stairs, having basketballs whipped in your face. Being told how ugly you are by dozens and dozens of people over the years. Going to therapy and having multiple therapists telling you that you don't look good. It's going to make you feel a little resentment towards people. Sorry that I'm not this happy go lucky guy that's going to kiss people's asses.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 04:03 AM
-2

Everybody makes mistakes.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:54 PM
24

Just have a really big penis bro.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 12:47 PM
3

"Women are willing to date a man they rate as a 3 or 4" What world are you living in?
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 11:37 PM
10

I never bought into the height thing until recently. I work with a guy who is in his 40's with a pretty unattractive face and a man-child personality. But he's 6'5" and holy shit does he hook up like crazy with a bunch of women. And they are mostly in their early to mid twenties too. These women don't stay with him for long but he gets chance after chance after chance with a fair share.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 09:00 AM
3

They didn't use the word ugly directly. But they made sure to tell me that I didn't look good.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 05:46 AM
7

It started in high school when girls (and some guys) were telling me how ugly I was and trying to play tricks on me, even though I never said a word to any of them. Then two different therapists (both women) told me I was unattractive. Then I found the black pill and read up on it. That's when a lot of things that were said and done to me in the past started to make a lot of sense.
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 06:00 PM
14

I'm in my 40's and never had a romantic relationship (absolutely pathetic I know). But if you saw what I looked like you understand why. Not autistic, 5'9" just bad luck. Not going to lie it hurts and I have had depression and anxiety since high school. At some point around my early 30's I just accepted it because that's all I could do.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 07:48 PM
7

I have a horrible self image and have seen multiple therapists. All of them made me feel worse about myself. That's when I knew the blackpill was right. Therapy won't help you if you're ugly, especially if you're a guy.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 05:35 AM
7

Too bad women can't sense when their boyfriend is going to cheat or abuse them. I guess that handsome face gets in the way of that.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 07:02 AM
1

I'm white and have been told I'm ugly by people from multiple races and ethnic backgrounds.
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 05:44 AM
16

No one feels bad or sorry for ugly people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 05:57 AM
2

I have been told that I'm ugly and put down for my looks by a lot of people over the years. But I have gotten multiple raises and been told what a good worker I am. I think if you're really good at your job you will be recognized positively, even if you're ugly like me.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 06:42 AM
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