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I used sarcasm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/23 03:13 PM
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You're right. And the god Chronos also brings with him the "maturity" necessary to change mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/23 01:16 AM
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"How do i change that mindset?" get pregnant and your mindset will change
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 07:43 PM
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You are right. After all, abortion is very convenient for this type of man. I know one of those who forced his wife to have an abortion about 5 times, due to the fact that their first daughter had Down Syndrome and he told his wife to give him another disabled daughter. She had another daughter, because she hid from him while she was pregnant, the girl was born healthy, became a great woman and super intelligent. She feels sorry for her father because he tried to kill her. Today she (the daughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:39 AM
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This seems to be an evil throughout the West. Here in Brazil it's the same shit. Secularism is a cancer. And ironically, secularists boast about conservative achievements, especially when we talk about the Nordic countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:25 PM
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I cited Chadfishing, gave anecdotal evidence, and talked about studies. And all accessible to you. And I didn't even mention any studies specifically so that you wouldn't claim that I'm biased and because they're all easy to access.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:33 PM
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I don’t think exposing women’s insecurities validates the claim. It’s more likely due to the fact that the particular women being affected perceive “chad” as being more attractive than they are, but it probably doesn’t work on a woman who isn’t insecure This is not exposing insecurities, this is showing how people are much more tolerant of attractive people, and it has nothing to do with insecurity, on the contrary, an insecure woman would be afraid of the man on the Chadfishing profile. And at …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:21 PM
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This depends on the notion that attractiveness is objectively determined and I know that’s a popular idea on the internet, especially in black pill circles, but there’s no actual evidence to support it. As far as individual testing goes, Chadfishing is one thing that has demonstrated this; In terms of popular knowledge, we have had the famous comic strip "Good Looking Susan" for many years, in addition to various anecdotal evidence that any human being has witnessed or experienced; As far as for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:38 PM
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I don't know what "fence-sitter" means, so I can't comment on that. I know that my girlfriend, before being my girlfriend, was my friend. Dating evolved from that, as it should. This is precisely what makes the connection deeper than "she's busty, I want to date her". I'm sure if people stopped dating just because of physical attraction or money, we would have fewer divorces, fewer single mothers, etc. But this depends on introspection that people are not prepared to do. If all dating started fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:18 PM
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You're wrong, especially because of "Every Guy." A woman being hot is never directly a factor that determines how I will treat her. For an indirect reason I even tend to treat them worse, because it's more common for hot women to be imbeciles and arrogant than average women, and this reflects in the way I treat them when I have to deal with them. Of course, the fact that I have a girlfriend helps me to be more neutral, but I had already become like that about 2 years before I started dating, for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:04 PM
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Fake Confidence: "Why is this hideous man pretending to be confident? An ugly man like that isn't genuinely confident, he's obviously faking it." True confidence: "What a hot man, he is definitely confident"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:57 PM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:55 PM
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Confidence is useful when the outcome depends on your actions, success with women depends less on your actions and more on factors outside your control. When the outcome depends on the judgment of others, the Halo effect and other things beyond your control will overwhelm trust and even distort it in a negative way, for example: A confident incel when approaching a woman will tend to be seen as a scary pervert, because he is ugly. On the other hand, a Chad will be seen as a man of attitude or as…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:54 PM
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All you did was assume situations that make the woman innocent, and that actually happens in A. Although in B, there is a false presumption. A romantic relationship presupposes friendship, so wanting to be friends does not exclude wanting to be a boyfriend, on the contrary, it is a requirement. A boyfriend is, first and foremost, a woman's best friend, and if he isn't, then he's wrong. Furthermore, there are other situations, because between what you said in "A" and the soulless vampires, there …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:41 PM
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This happened to me. My ex friendzone hates my girlfriend with all her might and has tried to harm her socially in various ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:33 PM
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Normally the man who occupies this position has moderate or mild emotional and physical problems, which are generally: Emotional: Neediness; Physique: Height, weak jaw, etc. So it's not like it was a 100% deliberate choice and it takes a lot of strength of character to come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:31 PM
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You say: You can't be friends or even acquaintances with someone who just views you as a flesh light ​ Also you: She’s upset because she lost a friend, what part of that do you not understand? ​ Do you realize how contradictory this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:28 PM
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You just said that all women are utilitarian false friends. Not all women are like this, only about 80% And for friendships, the important thing is quality, not quantity. A single good friend, or none at all, is better than a "friend" who only uses you as a free plumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:26 PM
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I've been in the friend zone, men in this condition are nothing more than free plumbers, free computer technicians, free mechanics, free bricklayers, etc. He also ends up being the person on whom the woman dumps all her emotional trash. The friend in this situation is like a boyfriend who has all the responsibilities of a boyfriend, but without the benefits. Furthermore, it serves as a sign of status for women, as it demonstrates the power she has to control men even without having to offer comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:23 PM
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1: Win the lottery and become a millionaire; 2: Accept the single condition, remembering that being single is the second best option, the first is a successful relationship. Most relationships are not even successful. The hardest thing must be dealing with the Halo effect on a daily basis, and for that I can't see an easy solution, as it could take away job opportunities or even send you to jail. I also consider that it is essential to go to a good church and make friends with the people there, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 AM
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The government's source of income is people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:47 PM
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None. It's like asking yourself what the ideal conditions are for a rape, a massacre or a bomb exploding in a square. If the outcome is a bad thing, no condition that favors it should be called "ideal." A child depends on its father and mother to survive, abortion is condemning the child to death, be it financial or killing the child inside the womb. People who support these things are not entitled to any moral claim when they have been victims of something, as they wish the worst for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:21 PM
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A pregnancy that was a result of rape can't be financially aborted. In other words, if the man is raped, he still has to give money to the rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:19 PM
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Showing that women's responsibility is greater is not the same as showing that men have no responsibility at all. ​ This is a basic textual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:01 PM
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Or use Plan B. Or use abortion For many women, murder is not an option, due to ethical restrictions. And that's actually a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:59 PM
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With big powers come big responsabilities. Men and women are responsible for pregnancy, however women have more power over this than men, as: * Wide option of partner choices, thus allowing the opportunity to choose a more responsible partner; * Legal power to murder the baby in the womb, not provided to the man (I thought about leaving this out, as not every woman is a murderer, some make the mistake, but take responsibility without having to sacrifice the lives of others); * Legal power to don…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:58 PM
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Your comment is one of the few sensible comments on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:33 PM
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Because they are. Would you date someone who takes an HIV cocktail? People who take medication do so to deal with a problem, and with the trivialization of medication, medication is often the wrong way to deal with the problem. Therefore, it is better to avoid it. Hence Red Flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:29 PM
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No, you do not have. And yes, it is the West (Brazil). And it's not much different from the US in that. Women like to be taken care of, but they cannot express it. I suppose it's more of a Western problem than an Eastern one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:16 PM
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Between the loser and the rich there is a lot of gradation. Furthermore, there are many rich losers and poor winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:10 AM
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If you disregard all the improvements that men have with age and only look at the disadvantages, it is obvious that you will say that age is men's weakness. But the fact is that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, at 32 I am much more attractive than I was at 18, but really, the difference is absurd. However, if I disregard the advantages I have obtained with age (which are basically the result of effort), it is obvious that I would be worse off at 32. absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:03 AM
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I find it strange, my anecdotal evidence is always greater than 1-3 years. Maybe this is a US thing. In my group of friends, including myself, the girls are 4 to 10 years younger. My fiancee is 6.5 years younger than me. When we met she was 19 years old and said that she always found men her age immature and without perspective, the same logic is true for my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:00 AM
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I used the OP's criteria. I don't consider it a payment either. Question the OP, not me. After all, outside of the OP's mind, in a real marriage there is no such thing as "my money" and "your money", so it is impossible for the husband to pay his wife any financial amount, since all his money is also hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:19 PM
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Then you should step on the grass. Furthermore, our culture does not allow women to express this without being shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:17 PM
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The husband is also a lot more likely to hurt or kill the wife than her boss It's a controlled risk. For a woman who doesn't like the profiles of aggressive men, the risk is small. A husband is also at greater risk of being attacked or killed by his wife than by his boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:16 PM
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Your husband does not put you on a payroll. He doesn’t put money into your pension, savings, no company shares, health insurance, dental insurance, 401k, sick leave, paid maternity leave or paid holiday. And if you’re a SAHM mother, god knows you don’t get sick leave or time off. Actually yes, where did you get that no? I'm about to get married and will put my wife on my health plan. And everything I buy she will also consume, and she will also have money for individual things, in addition to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:38 AM
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Women will date and turn down plenty of high value men then fall in love and marry a goofy/short/chubby/non-high status job guy. I honestly don’t think they’re settling because they seem to really love and be head over heels for the guy in a way they weren’t with the Chad. Women will always publicly say that their current person is better than their ex, even if their ex is taller, stronger, prettier, smarter, and morally superior. I've seen many women who were kicked out after having a child, ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:16 AM
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Being emotionally absorbent is the consequence of the friendzone, not the cause. The reason is that you have a good personality, but you are not physically attractive enough to her, nor are you so ugly that she doesn't even want to be friends with you. The guy in the friend zone is also the one who is seen as "husband material" for the future, if the woman is over 30 single or has children from another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:52 PM
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Men aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:26 PM
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As a 32-year-old man with many male and female friends, I have to say you are wrong. For men, after 30, it gets much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:01 PM
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Legality does not make information public. In Brazil it is legal, but sex resulting from prstitution is not public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:21 PM
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Meritocracy does not exist. Graduating from Harvard is also not a meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:16 PM
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I also always attract older women. And when they were young, they were single mothers. Theoretically, a mother or a "more mature" woman has much more reason to avoid "misogynistic" hahahah, but in reality it's different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:35 PM
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Yes. Although part of this is conscious and the unconscious part is simply the Halo effect. When I was a teenager I didn't understand why I was rejected by women who commonly became victims of abusive relationships. Ironically, I only started dating a woman after I realized that the big problem was with them and not me. I would say that not all women are like this, but more than half are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:30 PM
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Her friends / followers won’t know if the guy is a lawyer or a shit shoveler, but they will instantly know he’s hot from a photo. There are lawyers, doctors and judges who are shit, while garbage collectors are incredible men. But your general reasoning is correct, just the example that was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:27 PM
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He wants you to record yourself paying a bill and post it here to prove it hahaha. You did well girl, your husband is a blessed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:35 PM
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You’ve swapped correlation and causation. I didn't swap, because both are true. This is why virgin men are seen as losers by many women: you tube _ com /shorts/aSZEbETsHhI Women being comfortable around him and friendly attention? Or women actually fucking him attention? Women tend to be more comfortable and friendly with a man who, at least in theory, is with another woman and isn’t desperate to try to trick her out of her pants. A woman smiling or being nicer because you’re less intensely desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:13 AM
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I'm getting married next year. My girlfriend is not like that. If you assumed, you were wrong; If it was a wish, I'm sorry I didn't fulfill your expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:40 AM
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They are enough to know that merit is not the reason. The reason is female pre-selection, that's all. Women like men who have sex with other women, regardless of whether there is merit in it. The only exception is when the guy has sex with prostitutes, I don't understand the reason for this exception, I find it incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:38 AM
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Women who haven't tied the knot with a good man aren't selective, they're superficial. Is different. The amount of offers the average woman receives from men nowadays is enough for her to choose a good one, but they don't. Chadfishing shows that these women are not in fact selective, but just superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:05 AM
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On the contrary. The fact that someone have more options in general tends to make the number of good options greater, and even so, choose the wrong ones and then go around complaining about "fuck boys" and "nice guys". The merit of the choice is not in who someone reject, but in who someone accept. And the more options, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:54 AM
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Right? Who on heaven’s planet would be like, “wow, 100 people? That is so impressive! I’m very attracted to you now.” Many women. This is pre-selection. Many men who date a good woman today say "When I was single, no woman gave me the time of day, now that I'm dating, I've received a lot more female attention" This happened to me and dozens of other men that I know, that you know and that other people reading this comment know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:47 AM
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men do have to do a lot more work to get the same kind of attention Chads don't need any effort or merit to get women. The same goes for men born rich. There is nothing impressive about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:43 AM
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The double standard: woman has none sexual partners = good. man has none sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood. And what you said is not a double standard, but rather another demonstration of how women are terrible at choosing partners, men are right to reject promiscuous women, women should simply do the same with promiscuous men, instead of seeking be another one on their list, then your "double standard" would be resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:42 AM
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If this were a social network like Facebook, Linkedin or Instagram, you would be able to prove (more or less) whether you are right or wrong, but as this is not the case, it is just speculation or wishful thinking. In practice, young, childless women consider the vast majority of men below average, which is mathematically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:55 AM
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To know how false this is, just go out on the street and see couples, or look at any average woman's Tinder. It's not a difficult thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:24 AM
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Rich men, for the most part, are rich because they were born rich. Even in developed countries social mobility is low
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:01 PM
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"amount of straight men he slept with" Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:01 PM
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You gave a negative vote and already gave your interpretation without me presenting anything. Therefore, you don't need any source to reach your conclusions, which makes anything I send you useless for you. There are many studies on this, both in the USA, in Portugal, in Brazil, and also in other countries, it makes no sense for you to demand any source from me when you already have your conclusion based on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:13 PM
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It is worth mentioning that violence of passion is greater among lesbians. Between partners, women's abuse of other women is greater than men's abuse of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:50 PM
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30 men and 50% success rate. So she got married 15 times and was widowed 14 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:47 PM
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I didn't say it was impossible, so you claimed disagreement, but didn't comment on anything that would tell me my position
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:41 PM
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You are wrong. I'm engaged and I'm getting married next year And I don't even need to point out why your monitoring analogy is horrible and flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:38 PM
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Extra income that she will buy what she wants (80% of all purchase deciusions) and good look making a modern women do domestic work. Valid only for women of the type you like. Positive for the child not the man A man wants the best for his children. I've never seen a man whose son has cancer say: "This is negative for my son, not for me." I've never seen a man whose son got a good job say, "That's good for him, not for me." This kind of extremely selfish view on this issue says a lot about you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:03 AM
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* Trust should not be trivialized and therefore should never be extended to things where information is available. Among things on which information is available is paternity. It's best to save trust for things where trust is really needed. * Pregnant and breastfeeding women are in a position of emotional fragility and should not be bothered by these things. The man simply must perform the test and that's it, without involving her in it. If the result is positive, just throw it away and the matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:56 AM
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This was the best comment on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:52 AM
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A paternity test would only shake up a stable family if it comes back negative. If the mere request for the test shakes the family, it has never been stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:43 AM
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The only way a kid wouldn’t be the man’s Chimerism, Rape, Swapping babies in the maternity ward, Threesomes, Swinging, Management error in artificial insemination, etc. Who wants to be with someone who accuses them of cheating? This is not accusing someone of cheating. Men who know that their wives have cheated on them tend not to want to have children with them. If he found out by bad luck after the pregnancy, the paternity test is already accompanied by a divorce request and the guy hopes the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:27 AM
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Exactly. Furthermore, trust is only necessary when verification is not possible. There's no need to trust when you can simply verify. Anyone who demands trust within the scope of the verifiable is hiding something. In this case, even a positive result would say: "The child is mine, but my wife considered the possibility that it might not be, so she didn't want the test"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:12 AM
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If the alleged father is in doubt, he simply needs to hand over the genetic material (could be saliva) of the baby and himself to a clinical analysis laboratory and wait for the result. There is no need to say anything to the mother, especially at this fragile time after pregnancy. If the result is positive, simply throw it away. If it's negative, decide how to handle it fairly. This type of thing, when it happens, is a serious problem and every man has the right to know that he is the father of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:56 AM
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The majority of male suitors are bad. When a woman says this on the level of the thirst-in-the-ocean analogy, she says more about herself than about men. Believing this lie says much more about the women who believe it than it does about the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:22 AM
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Is not true. I know good men who never get the chance with childless women. They are not salt water, the problem is that they are judged that way by many women when they are still young and single, and many of these women are drinking genuinely salt water. They have difficulties because women who are worth it get married early, or wait for someone special, but the latter are minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:19 AM
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I wouldn't say irrelevant. Each woman gives a different weight. The problem is that less superficial women tend to marry nice guys whose looks are reasonable at an early age. So all the women left on the dating scene are those who prioritize 99% looks and 1% personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:48 AM
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I'm an average looking guy and my girlfriend was a virgin (I was 19 when we met). We were friends first. Any woman with past problems that needed to be tolerated I would refuse, and I recognize that it could have condemned me to being single forever, but I believe it is better to die single than to die next to someone who is just settling for me. All a woman like that would have to offer me is bad sex, so it would be better, cheaper and less dishonorable to go out with prostitutes once in a whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:45 AM
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If the intention is just to fuck, it is much better and more honorable to hire a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:34 AM
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Marriage is positive for men: * Source of Extra Income or Domestic Work; * Have your children well structured; * Regular sex; * Various subjective advantages such as sharing life with someone; * Longevity; * Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:32 AM
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I would never accept not being my girlfriend's best male friend. A woman's boyfriend or husband not being her best friend adds a very weak link in the chain called "relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:30 AM
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When I was single I was in some friend zones and that's not how it happens. Romantic interest does not appear out of nowhere for a person, it necessarily comes after friendship. Therefore dishonesty would be showing romantic interest before it arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:27 AM
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A recipe for a relationship to go wrong is precisely the absence of friendship. Friendship coming first is a necessary component so that the success of a relationship does not depend so much on luck. I was friends with my girlfriend, and we're fine. For a successful romantic relationship, friendship is a prerequisite. And the husband should be his wife's best friend. Women commonly make the mistake of separating friendship from dating, when in fact she should first be friends with someone before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:20 AM
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Sorry! I don't know why I answered this to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:31 PM
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I've never met a Mormon woman who would like that, only secular women. Even though I've only met two Mormon women in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:48 PM
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It was not "barred" because it still happens unofficially.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:51 AM
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Do you speak mathematically? Many of the guys will be single anyway. I certainly wouldn't accept as my only wife a woman who was a guy's number four, especially if she accepted it without having any rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:50 AM
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Since when am I the subject here? Why do you want me to want to be polygamous? It wouldn't affect your life at all and you don't even know me. That's very strange that you want strangers to want things that don't affect you. My English is not good and this was difficult to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:48 AM
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It's a red flag for men too, but commonly women see it as a green flag. The opposite is also true (low count men are commonly seen as a red flag), which is why virgin shaming is a thing. In practice, a high count is worse than a low count, because it signals some things.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 11:30 PM
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I have never seen a Muslim in my life. I don't know how they would handle it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:42 PM
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You might be right. However, it would be better to receive the inheritance than not to receive it. I'm sure most would prefer to be legally recognized and be in the place of the "official wife". The current oficial wife of the president of Brazil must be very happy with the death of the previous one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:41 PM
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The cases are not common, but they become less and less rare as man's wealth increases. It's more uncommon among street cleaners than among famous actors or wealthy businessmen. And I used the example of a man with several women because I have never met the opposite. I'm not including cheating. I'm talking about situations in which the man has several women and they accept. Player Robinho's wife accepted that he was involved with several other women in a form of "unilateral open relationship". S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:40 PM
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True. but that's not fair anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:35 PM
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It's ilegal. The government does not allow more than one woman as a wife. So the others end up becoming unofficial wives without rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:28 PM
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Most women don’t know knowingly share men so no. I'm not talking about them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:26 PM
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It depends on the incel. Being an incel or not has nothing to do with what you want in this sense. Although being an incel is such a bad situation for the non-stoic person (that is, almost everyone), the tendency would be to hold on to the opportunity as long as possible, seeking LTR. But as I'm not incel, I didn't vote for this option.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:39 AM
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Not everyone is a hedonist. Anyone who has indulged in hedonism cannot understand that there are men and women who are not like that. Some men marry virgins to virgin women, and they do so because they want to and are not slaves to their own impulses. And people like this tend to be more successful in relationships. A relationship where "sex is everything" is doomed to failure. In these cases it would be better to hire prostitutes, as it is cheaper and the sex is more varied: This month a black …
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:25 AM
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And who here talked about full skin? You did the same procedure as me, and you're saying it's horrible. If you think it's that horrible, you should be fighting with your parents and not with a stranger on the internet. This isn't about culture, it's about health. And letting a child live with phimosis is child abuse, you want to deny others a benefit that their parents had. We're talking about a small cut in the skin that holds the glans, not cutting the dick off.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 08:36 PM
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What you say doesn't even make sense. Without it, every time my dick got hard, it would stretch and probably tear the skin. the head of my dick doesn't come out. Circumcision is necessary. It's ridiculous that someone who had to go through the same procedure as me, thinks like that, it seems like you don't even remember what your dick looked like with phimosis
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 05:40 PM
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I disagree, I have average appearance and so I can see life a little from an incel and Chad perspective. Being a normie is much better than being an incel and has some advantages over being Chad too. Not being an incel helps me get a good job and makes everyone treat me like a human being, while not being a Chad automatically drives a lot of superficial women out of my life without me needing to consciously filter. The only filters I've had to consciously use are "no children" and "young age", t…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:17 PM
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I'll be real I'm a fat girl (working on it but whatever), why would fit hot guys who work hard on their bodies want to sleep with someone who doesn't? Just because it's easy? Even though they could get a hot girl with a good body? I know it's just sex but ? ​ In fact, this type of man has the options: 1: Sleeping with the fat girl; 2: Sleeping with the hot girl; 3: Don't sleep with anyone; Options 1 and 2 are not mutually exclusive, 1 is not an impediment to 2. In fact for promiscuous men, the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:11 PM
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1: Male circumcision is necessary, especially in times and places where hygiene is difficult. There are numerous advantages to being circumcised, this is even more special in my case because of phimosis, which was resolved through circumcision when I was 8 years old. While female "circumcision" is just mutilation, with a thousand harms and no benefits; 2: You are sure; 3: You are sure; 4: You are sure; 5: You are sure; 6: You are sure; 7: You are sure; 8: You are sure; 9: You are sure.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:05 PM
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I can accept. The problem with the word "incel" is that all celibacy is by definition voluntary. That's why you can't take the word "celibacy" literally in "incel". "Involuntary Celibate" is a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:30 AM
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Not every virgin is an incel and all the incels are virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:39 AM
12

When people want to insult, any negative word will do, but it doesn't have to be true. An Intelligent people are insulted with words like "stupid" or "idiot" when a bad people can't understand his ideas, but "stupid" don't mean "smart". Calls someone of "incel" is only to hurt it or dirt it reputation. Incel is a Portuguese word too, and means equals in English
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:52 PM
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I'm talking about "wanting", not about "getting". English is not my first language, but i think that you can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:29 PM
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. Being a male virgin isn’t even a prerequisite to being labeled an incel these days. A religious man that decides to don't have sex until marriage is voluntarily virgin, therefore he is not an incel. But a promiscuous men that tries to have sex, but can't do it, is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:21 PM
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Virgin: People that never did sex; Incel: People that never did sex, but want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:17 PM
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Incels are defined by their opinions on their celibacy This is not about opinions, this is about involuntary ausence of sex act. The most of this cases is because they are ugly or short; To be an incel, the guy needs to be a virgin, but not voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:16 PM
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It's different for men, because there are few good single women, and he still has to compete with other good men for them, so when he gets a woman, he has to overlook a lot of things, because it's either that or nothing. As for the woman, just choose between one of the good men while you are still young and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:09 PM
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The main cause of inceldom is genetics. This is what, for the most part, makes a man rejected and unable to have sex. You are assigning a belief to them because of genetics
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:56 PM
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You are wrong, because beliefs are not determined by genetics.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 04:27 AM
4

Never being in a relationship while being rich is kind of hard, I still voted incel. Will I at least be able to hire prostitutes? Or would that immediately disqualify me as an “incel”? Anyway, dying after 10 years wouldn't even make it possible to enjoy my life, especially with cancer.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:37 AM
1

In real life, there aren't just these two options, especially for a woman. Furthermore, I don't know Andrew Tate and Fresh n Fit's content, I also don't know Mr. Beast and H3H3. From the description you tried to put a shitty Red Pill and a "normal guy" as options, but the reality doesn't come down to that. Furthermore, there is so little information that any sensible person would be against dating any of them simply because they are a plunge into the unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:07 AM
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It's possible, and it might not be her fault
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:10 PM
2

Sorry, but i don't understand
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:04 PM
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I don't know what is spa***c. Her problem could be avoided with physical exercise and a balanced diet, and now it can even be alleviated with that. This is true 99% of the time. As for the moral issues, maybe she should go to a good church or surround herself with better people in some other way. She's uglier on the inside than on the outside
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:40 PM
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Chadfishing has shown that it is appearance rather than behavior that is the cause of the social rejection suffered by incels. Any bad behavior can be ignored if you are pretty enough. On the other hand, good behavior does not make up for a bad appearance, as an ugly nice guy is not seen as genuine.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:34 PM
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"THEY" or "SHE" She is wrong, the incels problems are genetic. Her problems are moral and her physical problem is obesity, both are controllable
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:51 PM
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From the age of 25 I started to receive a little attention from some women who were not single mothers, but I had already given up on relationships; At 27 I started dating a 20-year-old woman, when we met she was 19 and I was 26, we are still together today; I had a "friend" who used me as a simp, and we have many friends in common, at the beginning of my relationship we met occasionally with this "friend" and she seemed to have liked my girlfriend, the next day she spread the word lies about my…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:13 PM
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The same person who said this: "Nah, most of these dudes don’t realise how selfish and awkward they actually are, the way they speak about people/woman" Said this: " no fucking wonder no one wants to date you or be your friend, your an arsehole. But of course, continue to blame what ever made up shite you like for it never to be your fault" Either it's a lot of hypocrisy, or the notion of how to talk to people is ridiculously low.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 02:21 PM
3

I don't know which sites you are talking about. But let's say they are toxic incel sites, so what? It's not just because there is the KKK that I come out saying that white people are Nazis, but you are based on content from a website (that I don't know about), which contains incels, to say that incels are toxic people? Why this generalization? What you are doing is because of the Halo effect, because they are ugly, you have a negative perception of them, but so you don't appear superficial you a…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 04:00 AM
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income is a man's greatest contribution to a woman's life This is not true. Man has much greater contributions than money. The problem is that women who prioritize money and appearance only see these things, and then think that all men are the same as the ones they are looking for. * My girlfriend doesn't work, she just studies, but she comes from a rich family and will inherit land and houses, so she doesn't need my money. * I was born poor, but I earn R$6,000.00 monthly, that is, I earn well a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:42 PM
3

True
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:34 PM
2

Is there no maternity leave? In Brazil there is 6 months maternity leave and 20 days paternity leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:30 PM
2

It sounds like those people perceived you as making some sort of power move. What makes you so confident in labelling that social feedback as incorrect? Failure to do this introspection can make a relationship problematic in the future. The woman I knew in this situation didn't miss the opportunity to raise the fact that she earned more than her husband, all that was needed was a context that would allow her to remotely fit the phrase "I earn more than him" that she already said in some way. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:27 PM
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I'm sorry about the cancer. I hope a recovery is possible and that it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:21 PM
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* I know a couple, where the wife had never worked, while he was a salesman in a utility store; * As a salesman, he single-handedly paid the bills for many years; * After a while, she got a job as an attendant at a pharmacy that had a biannual career plan. * In approximately 2 years she was promoted to supervisor, and when that happened, she didn't miss opportunities to raise the fact that she earned more money than him, in addition to starting to sabotage the relationship with fights, provocati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:13 PM
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Incels are not toxic, they are just ugly. Being toxic is a moral issue, being incel is a physical issue over which you often have no control.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:00 PM
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Friendzone now Where are all the nice guys tomorrow
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:51 PM
12

They are not on the same level. Incels' problems are genetic, while her physical problems are controllable, and she is a evil person
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:18 PM
3

She has more mental problems than physical ones
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:16 PM
1

Men should not necessarily pay the woman's bill, but he can do so optionally, depending on his wishes. The same goes for women. If the relationship depends on payment to happen, then it is prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:41 PM
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https://cdn.kobo.com/book-images/19b4e6b7-cb62-4b1a-a0c0-d2f9cc73b76c/353/569/90/False/robert-pattinson-the-biography-1.jpg
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:19 PM
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1 - No, i don't. 2 - I don't know. I believe that more women in general have a cheating nature than men, however I believe that men who tend to cheat are preferred by most women for relationships, which can end up balancing things out. 3 - At least 75%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:57 PM
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because break up first is already cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:49 PM
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I'm a straight man, but I'm not blind and I know that Robert Pattinson is handsome. I don't know who the other two are, so I have no opinion. They all look ugly in these photos, but they are handpicked photos to make them look ugly.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 07:46 PM
1

In fact, when it comes to married women, the opposite is true, research indicates that married women are happier, especially those who are married to their only sexual partner. It has not been determined whether happiness causes marriage, marriage causes happiness, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:26 PM
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The least attractive man will be accused of being a perverted master manipulator who is only nice because he wants to get into her pants, yet she will keep calling him to help solve the problem on her computer, or look at that leak in the bathroom pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:42 PM
1

I'm sorry about what happened to you, but it's not my fault and attacking me won't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:57 PM
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I didn't think I should explicitly include in my comment the existence of exceptions, such as health reasons. I assumed the lack of regular sex was intentional, but I think you already knew that and just wanted to be unnecessarily combative. At least you got it right that I'm older. 32M and 25F
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:54 AM
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I'm too ignorant to know how a couple's sexual desire works after a certain age. I imagined that the man's and woman's desire would always come at the same pace, and what would be left would be hugs, kisses and recreational activities, but I never stopped to seriously think about it. I hope that when I'm 60+, my wife and I are on the same page, both for sex and other things. But you never know, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:47 AM
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Really. Once a person denies their partner regular sex, that person should not complain that their partner would seek sex elsewhere. The betrayal there is mutual. Of course there are reasons why withholding sex is justifiable, 99% of these reasons are medical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:18 PM
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It depends. If he's really ugly, women tend to see him as a scary pervert. So that he will also be rejected as a friend, she also won't like being seen with them, as it is socially a negative point. There are very few women who don't care about this. Friendzone is for average guys not truecels. However, if he is just a little ugly, and has a very good personality, then the chances of having female friendships increase. However I 1000x prefer male friendships, and I would avoid friendships with w…
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 11:07 PM
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I commented within the utilitarian scope that YOU USED. I answered you without leaving YOUR SCOPE, but without failing to highlight that seeing it under YOUR UTILITARIST SCOPE is wrong. And now you accuse me of saying that this utilitarian point of view is right. This inversion is a fallacy on your part, which must surely have some formal documented name more specific than the Scarecrow Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:54 PM
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They are dead. Anyway, I didn't think I needed to explicitly exclude lack of sex for health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:49 PM
0

This is not even remotely a valid justification for the wrong decisions that women make in their own lives. They always end up alone, or with a worse man than they could have, precisely because of these wrong decisions. It is not a long-term benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:47 PM
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The most common cases of sexual abuse are between stepfathers and children. My mother is a social worker and talks about many cases like this. She divorced my father when i was a child, and remained single until my brother and I became adults, precisely because of that. She wasn't a social worker at the time, but she was already concerned about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:44 PM
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Having children is not a utilitarian issue, but even from your utilitarian point of view, you are reasoning wrong, as a well-raised child will take care of you in old age 99% of the time. Furthermore, it is an additional source of income for families from the age of 16 (age at which it is legally allowed to work in Brazil, I don't know what age it is in the country where you live). And it will serve as financial support until get married or have to move temporarily to go to college. Even from a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:40 PM
2

There is no marriage without regular sex. The absence of regular sex is a betrayal of the marriage contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:34 PM
2

Do you think a guy’s age often matters to a significant degree? The reason that I ask is because I can totally see younger guys in their twenties not wanting kids or marriage. But I’ve observed a shift around 30 where many guys do want to have the whole marriage and kids thing. You said that young men don't want to have children, but your stated anecdotal evidence indicates that the correct conclusion would be that they don't want to have children for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 PM
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You have this impression because you only see men who don't want to form a family as potential partners, so you think that men in general don't want to form a family. The truth is that men who want to start a family are being ignored until some women have children by other men or a certain age. Interestingly, when these women have children or are older, they start to want to get closer to these men, and these men no longer see them as potential wives and some of them will still have sex with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:23 PM
2

I don't know what is this
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 09:10 PM
2

Love is definitely a strong reason to keep a couple together, in fact it is the strongest of all. If there is no tolerance, then there is also no love, as love brings several consequences, including tolerance (of what is tolerable), as well as the commitment to improve for the good of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:47 PM
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Incels are not pathetic. Your birth conditions do not decide whether you are a pathetic person or not, although how you react to it may determine such a thing. These people you mentioned are pathetic, but incels aren't necessarily pathetic. I know you included the quotation marks around the word "incel" because of this.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:39 PM
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Women are disgusted by simps; Half of the nice guys that women and blue pills make fun of are simps. And all the characteristics of the nice guy that women hate or use (excessive kindness, chivalry, etc.), simps also have. Women hate male subservience, they want men to boss them around instead of serving them.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:36 PM
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You already start off wrong when you say “Men” instead of “Some of the men”. And if you think for 1 minute, you'll give me a Delta and change your speech to "Some of the men" And my problem with some of the women was that they were only interested in me: Only after they had children; Only after I had a girlfriend; Only after I started earning a lot of money. If the Average Joe (like me) isn't attractive enough to a woman in her prime, she shouldn't be a hypocrite and approach him in her downfall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:13 PM
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No way. What kind of question is this and what is the objective with it? What kind of person would answer "yes"? No one is made of iron and we all resent some situations or people, but an entire class of people is absurd.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:58 AM
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Women you described (not all women) typically go to Chad first. And they always go to the average man too late in life, or with Chad's children. The sub-4 are considered anything from disgusting/scary to perverts/rapists, and these are unlikely to have women of that type. In any case, women like that are not worth it. Let them be used and discarded by other men, but don't get involved.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:07 AM
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I don't know if all women are bisexual, but I'm sure the overwhelming majority of bisexual people are women. I'm not Chad, I'm 172cm, but I'm dating a bisexual woman. But I'm older (32M / 25F) and although I'm not very muscular, my body is much better than most people who don't go to the gym (considering Brazil, which is where I live). She has never had sex with anyone else, but she watches lesbian porn and feels the desire/curiosity to do and receive some things from women. Because I have never…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:46 PM
1

Joe is supposed to be older? Not necessarily. Does the woman you’re dating have a past? I don't know if I understood this question well. She was a virgin, I met her when she was 19 years old.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:27 PM
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Yes, it's better to do it sooner, but that's not optional for many men. Many men only become attractive around 30, which is when you start to see the consequences of your choices.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 03:39 PM
1

The kind of man you'll genuinely spend the rest of your life with without thinking, "If only I had agreed to go out with Joe 15 years ago, my life would be better now."
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 03:35 PM
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Feminists are not beneath incels for me. This is because incels are human beings and as such, they deserve to have their human dignity respected.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:29 AM
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I'm not thugmaxxed, I'm 32 years old and dating a woman from 1998. I'm not rich, I'm not Chad, I'm average. I earn more than double the average salary in my country (R$6000 ~ R$7000), but when we started dating I earned one and a half minimum wage (R$1400) The truth is that good women get married early, because they choose the best men quickly, so the ones that are left are the ones who go after thugs, Chads, Tyrones or playboy heirs. This gives the impression that every single woman chases thes…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:24 AM
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Here in Brazil, prostitution is legal. I find it strange that in the United States it is not, since pornography is legal and so is casual sex. Pornography is nothing more than filmed prostitution And the only difference between casual sex and prostitution is that one of them is free. Women who demand that you pay the dinner bill to have sex are also prostitutes, but for some reason, it is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:08 AM
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It's legal in Brazil. I think it's ridiculous that pornography and casual sex are legal in the United States, while prostitution is illegal. Pornography is basically filmed prostitution, and casual sex... well... you said it all.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:08 AM
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Ethnicels doesn't exists. There are ugly and handsome people in all ethny
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 11:05 PM
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Yes. And I don't think, that's a fact
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:50 PM
0

So what if we are in 2023? You don't know if she has the power to refuse.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:49 PM
2

go down is pussy licking and ass licking?
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:49 AM
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Because maybe the OP isn't gay or bisexual, and the alternatives to that is staying single or dating a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:37 PM
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Because this: Reminder to not have sex with conservative men. : TwoXChromosomes (reddit.com) This basically excludes the majority among good men who would make good marital partners. Since marriage presumes sex. and This: Men shouldn't stop saying "not all men" until more women are willing to say it themselves : PurplePillDebate (reddit.com) Simply women encouraging the OP to lie or omit information relevant to their own self-respect in order to start a relationship. There are a lot of examples …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:51 PM
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When a woman makes generalizations condemning men, I usually say: "Not all men are like this. The only ones who are like this are the ones you chase and the ones you live with." So they quickly come to the defense of the men in question. The way things are said greatly changes a person's perception. If I simply say "Not all men", they will argue that "All men"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:11 PM
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It's not supportive, it's destructive. Any woman who needs help will be screwed badly if she follows that sub's advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:09 PM
1

Esfihas are almost the same as pizza (I still prefer pizza, but it's something). Crispy chicken would be harder to replace, but I could still eat barbecue chicken. But being an incel is very difficult, you only need to be very stoic to get through it unscathed. There is nothing comparable to human warmth, nor how to have your humanity respected.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:42 PM
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I love pizza and fried chicken. But I would hate being an incel more than not having pizza or chicken. Pizza and fried chicken can be substituted for sfihas, coxinhas, tapioca, snacks, etc. Now being an incel must be very difficult, it's being treated by society as if you don't have the value of being recognized as a person. And there are very few people who can empathize with incels without being one, like me, and the vast majority of those people are men.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:35 PM
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I only know Ash, Misty and Brock, so I can't make a comparison.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:17 PM
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Many women will accept anything from Chads, that's why Chadfishing is a thing. Many say it's "just" women who are misfits, and I agree to a certain extent. The problem is that the proportion of maladjusted women is extremely high.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:14 PM
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I would stay if the woman was mine and the man wasn't me. However, I've become irritated by post-wall women who rejected me and then "changed their minds", and part of that irritation comes from memories of them being affectionate and loving to other guys, but not me. And the fact that I have a girlfriend today doesn't redeem them in any way, because this doesn't concern me, but them, even though I feel offended by being seen by them as a fool who would save them. And although I speak in the plu…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:11 PM
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tall handsome homeless autistic drug addict who mumbles and can't make eye contact This is a unicorn. Does not exist. Living on the streets and taking drugs will deteriorate your appearance beyond what genetics brought. ​ and recoil in disgust from a handsome wealthy put together charismatic confident professional short/ugly man. Another unicorn. Handsome and ugly doesn't exists.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 06:38 PM
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And it makes perfect sense for them to be single, especially when they can have variety on the menu. If I saw women this way I too would be single and seeing a different prostitute a month, those who can get casual sex easily will simply do so. That being said, the woman who is genuinely against this won't have sex with these types of guys, and these women are minorities.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 06:08 PM
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The only characteristic you mentioned that Chad necessarily possesses is height. A Chad is not necessarily strong, charismatic or intelligent. Of course he will be seen as such by women due to the Halo effect, but some Chads are just the opposite of these things. Chad = Striking jaw, tall, predatory eyes, symmetrical face, etc. Someone like this will be seen as intelligent, charismatic and strong without necessarily being so.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 05:45 PM
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The bot put my response as hate speech, and my English isn't good enough to keep insisting, it's tiring, so I stopped responding. But I don't mind, because I've already been clear enough in the previous comments. I stop here
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:46 PM
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This is precisely why "Latino" is not an ethnicity. A asian is a asian, whether he is Latin or not; An indigenous person is an indigenous person, whether they are Latino or not; A white person is a white person, whether he is Latino or not; A black person is a black person, whether he is Latino or not. What you said only supports my point.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:51 AM
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The first thing would be not to have had so many boyfriends, your little list. Any man worth his salt will only want to date someone with such a long dating history if he has no options. If you don't have a problem with ugly guys, these would be it. Your list gives a minimum of 14 men if each of these attributes is given to a different man and you listed 7 (and in the plural). Men who can choose don't accept someone with so many ex-boyfriends. A woman will do better if she chooses one of the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:46 AM
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On the other hand, unconvicted criminals tend to be high-income, and are worse off than convicted criminals due to the certainty of impunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:39 AM
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Most men don't go bald until they are literally elderly. Those who go bald at 30 are not the rule
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:40 PM
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The man a woman can have at 20 is much better, in every way, than the man a woman can have at 35. She can BB a weak, unconfident guy, but she won't feel fulfilled by it
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 06:38 PM
0

MILF's (Mother I'd Like to Fuck) aren't MILM's(Mother I'd Like to Marry).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:11 PM
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Any difficulty an attractive woman has finding relationships is a self-inflicted difficulty, so I don't think it's right for us to call it difficulties. I mean... I can spend years trying to run using my hands instead of my feet, and after failing miserably every time, does it make any sense for me to say "I think running is too difficult"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:34 PM
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I think there are two types of guys: 1 - Guys who hate the situation, but think they can't do better and therefore accept any rubbish from a woman; 2 - Guys who take it completely casually, are with the woman casually and as soon as they get bored, they leave for another woman (or other women)
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 06:45 PM
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If him best friend do it, what did the worst friend do?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:54 PM
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looksmaxxing should be done for yourself. A 4/10 at 15 can become a relatively 7/10 at 35 if you do what you're supposed to do. I don't know who Hamzacel is, I typed it on Google and nothing useful came up
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:12 PM
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Meritocracy does not exist. It is impossible to measure a person's merit accurately and reward them accordingly. It doesn’t exist in business or in dating. People use this just to make themselves feel better when they see other people not getting what they want. Women cast negative comments on incels about their failure to get sex because they are comfortable that they deserve the abundance of sex they receive, and this makes it seem like they are incels because they are undeserving. Rich do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:30 AM
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My English isn't good, so I try to be very succinct and things like that end up coming out. But I'm sure it was possible to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:59 AM
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Me too. You are sure Any woman who would give me casual sex is inferior to my girlfriend. I'm about 4/10 facially, but physically and financially I'm above average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:59 PM
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Chad can be useless and he will still have women, if Chad's parents are rich that is even greater. No talent, effort or achievements required. And this will also help you in job interviews, closing deals, etc. People do not choose or are chosen based on ability, talent, personality or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:55 PM
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no one would ever call them Latinos Irrelevant. Latinos are native speakers of languages derived from Latin. It has nothing to do with ethnicity. A descendant of Japanese immigrants who was born and raised in Brazil, he is Latino.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 10:19 AM
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You are very presumptuous
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 01:30 AM
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I didn't insinuate anything. Firstly, I thought you could genuinely have interpreted my comment as insinuation due to my very low level of English (Learning English is one of my goals in these debates). But I reread the dialogue sequence and saw that you assumed without anyone saying anything that you would be judged as deserving. The point is that you are the one who omittedly tells your testimony, wanting to use it in your argument, but omitting things that we have no idea what they are, don't…
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 10:45 PM
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It's so vague that it doesn't mean anything, it's just a common phrase that no one thinks much about, neither the writer nor the reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:44 PM
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Published here, 2 days ago, in case it is not about an innocent woman: https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17ez9nd/gender_relations_summed_up_in_one_video/ And you presume that it will be shared in your case, as people will say that you deserve it. Maybe your case is not a good example, because we are referring to an innocent woman.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 11:33 AM
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All the american countries colonized by Portugal, Spain and French are latin-american. Idk what is "Quebec"
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 09:34 AM
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In my case this doesn't change anything, I voted black anyway
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 12:56 AM
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Latino is not a ethny. I'm brazilian and Black Everyone born in Brazil is Latino, and Brazil is highly mixed. There are many whites, blacks, Japanese and Chinese here, and they are all Latino.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 12:52 AM
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Pray to God
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 09:06 PM
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Red Pill Self-improvement (gym, studies, etc.), valuing singleness and ignoring superficial women. I'm an average looking guy. In my case it is "woman" and not "women", after all I only date one woman. She is my first and I am her first, we have been together for 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:50 PM
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It doesn't take courage to help a woman being attacked in public by an unarmed guy. Dozens of people would help the woman immediately, being just one more person to attack the guy is not something to brag about as a fair and courageous man. Calling others "pussies" for something like that is pathetic, it's a way of saying "I'm brave" for an attitude that doesn't require courage. Helping a woman being attacked in a blind area and against a group of men or against a man larger than you could be a …
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:24 PM
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Dozens of people would jump to defend the attacked woman, and therefore their help would be unnecessary. This is a reason that could make a difference
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:07 PM
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"No one" falls into the "trap" that virgin women are asexual. Female virginity is a portrait of a woman's self-control, so it's a green flag. If it was a sign of asexuality it would be a red flag.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:03 PM
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Difficult to answer, because there is a lack of information. And anyway, I don't know how my help would solve anything. An unarmed man attacking a woman in public, whether he is right or wrong, will be lynched by those close to him, therefore my help would be unnecessary here, and could even make me an accomplice in murder, if he dies; An armed man attacking a random woman is too big a risk for me to intervene, it will only make me another victim. I think it would be easier for me to answer if i…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:48 PM
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Abortion is precisely the opposite of autonomy over one's own body, and if the baby is female, then it is the opposite of what you are demanding. By this logic I could say that it is sad that men do not have autonomy over their own bodies, being prevented from raping. After all, my penis, my rules.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:00 PM
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All of the alternatives.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:57 PM
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You are sure. I thought it would be white women, but Chads didn't even cross my mind at the time. White Chad can get away with a lot of shit in life, more than white women.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:56 PM
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This is debatable in general, but not relevant to CMV. The OP was much more specific in the requirement he placed. What I said should be enough for a delta.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:30 PM
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Or she is Christian; Or even without being Christian, she is waiting to lose her virginity on the honeymoon due to her culture; Or she is not a hedonist and knows that having a single partner throughout her life is a successful relationship, according to the ifs studies You are only considering one possibility among many.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:59 PM
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Yes. Or cutting the hair hahaha.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 12:46 PM
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I'm not Incel, so I voted on the results. But even if I were incel, I wouldn't do that. It is dangerous for the child and would only make my life worse. Now I wouldn't have a problem with an EX-ADDICT. If she really was willing to change, I would come back the following year to see if she really changed.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 03:49 AM
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I'm happy that other guys helped the boy who fought back, they made the fight more bilateral, otherwise the boy would have been beaten by 4 or 5 white knights. If I were an average student and saw this, I would help the boy too. People don't understand when I say that a man has to have a lot of courage to hit a woman in public, they think it's the opposite, that it's the woman who is brave if she tries to hit a man in public.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 03:46 AM
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good luck finding one who waits until marriage I'm not Muslim. Just the bride I already have is enough for me. She was a virgin, but I wouldn't have the problem if she wasn't. It's like I said, the problem would be if it were all for others and only after marriage for me. The problem is if it was free with others and only after the third date for me. Now that would be a clear message of how she saw me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:38 AM
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Simply because it's not in my best interest to get involved with a woman who thinks other men are good enough to have everything from her, while I don't. A woman who thinks someone like me needs to jump through hoops for some vanilla sex, while others were already good enough to explore her body in return without doing anything. I have a fiancée who has had a few things, but she was technically a virgin, so for her I could wait until the wedding. But if she were a woman who made sex conditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:14 AM
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This is ridiculous….why do you think there should be „equal excess to pussy“? I don't know what that means. It doesn't even look like you responded to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:59 AM
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Men have no problems with these rules. Many men would be happy if they found a virgin woman who would only have sex after marriage, but these same men would not accept a woman who created rules for him, which others did not need to follow, even if they were "simple" rules like "only after the third meeting". The problem is not the rule, the problem is having to follow it while others don't. The problem is the widespread bitching with the ex and the holy relationship with the current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:40 AM
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Convince me to become incel Being an incel is something involuntary by definition, it is impossible for you to be convinced to do something involuntarily. The most you can do, depending on your situation, is to convince him to be a volcel This is now your chance to convince an innocent bystander into subscribing to this incel ideology "Incel ideology" doesn't exists. Please state the benefits and drawbacks of this. Please provide me with undeniable evidence as to how it will improve the quality …
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 11:25 PM
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I'm a man, and I'm engaged to a woman My fiancée and I are going to adopt a child after we get married. But that doesn't mean I would have a relationship with a single mother who wasn't a widow.My English is not very good and you don't seem clear about the type of man who is the target of your questioning .I wouldn't get involved with a single mother who wasn't a widow because of the mother and not because of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:57 PM
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Just being omniscient to believe it without it being a guess or a wish. And I don't believe you're omniscient.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:51 PM
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This is between him and God.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:44 PM
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fuck around in situationships Fuck around in situationships is not a good thing. Hedonism in general is not.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:37 PM
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I just don’t see what benefit women would get in order to stop anywa Statistics show a relationship between low count and marital happiness, as well as number of divorces. In this case, the less, the better. I don’t remember who is it, but there’s a quote somewhere about how moral signaling is use due to lack of power. At the end of the day, men have no power to tell these women with whom and with how many people they should sleep with, and that’s that. Men have the power to reject these women, …
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:24 PM
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Anyone with real life experience can tell that most of the commenters here are incel as fuck (which isn't anything to be ashamed of by itself) but very radical and irrational about it too. I have enough real-world experience that I can't say that. Especially because it's an anonymous forum, where people don't have a profile picture. In real life it is much easier to identify whether someone is incel or not, as this is 99% of the time defined by appearance, of course there is still a thin line. S…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:13 PM
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This incel shit needs to stop Being an ugly guy is not immoral, nor is it a sin. ​ Some guy tried calling me bluepilled cuck with a divorce rape fantasy lmao. what is he on? That's a really ugly thing to say to someone, but you're omitting what you said before aren't you? Because for someone who is against incels, it seems to me that what was said is appropriate.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:09 PM
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They exist. Nuns are a good example. Femcels are volcels
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:39 AM
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Since men have biological physical advantages over women, like strength and not getting pregnant, being straight isn't worth the risk for women unless the man is top tier. ​ Yes, men are stronger, that's why it's better for a woman to be heterosexual than to be a lesbian. Furthermore, abuse is more common in lesbian relationships than heterosexual ones. In other words, it is better for a woman to have a strong man who protects her, than to have a weak woman who attacks her. And all I said is "no…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:38 AM
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Knowledge about the Red Pill is very useful for women, so much so that there is even r/RedPillWomen Any 40-year-old single mother caring for cats knows that if she hadn't gone to Chad or Thug, she would be better off today, especially when she sees the high school friend she rejected married to another woman.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:56 AM
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* I am between the Red Pill and the Black Pill (Brown Pill?); * I have a fiancée, and she wouldn't do that, even though she already had opportunities to do it; * I won't vote because it was a question for blue pillers; * Finding someone physically attractive does not necessarily lead to sex, a woman can consider a guy hot and still not want to have sex with him. This goes for men too.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:51 AM
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The Wall's *popularity is greatest among those men over 30 who have seen it happen a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:52 AM
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"As someone who’s in her early 20s, of the reasons I would never go for a much older guy is that I’d be aware that a big reason he’s interested in me is because of my age" If so, then you shouldn't get involved with younger guys either, as they are also interested in your age. And look, what you said is a double standard, you are turning off older men because of their age due to the fact that they turn off women because of their age, while you and younger men do the same. My fiancée (25F) is 7 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:49 AM
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Favelas exist in all countries and are not the predominant structure in most of them, including Brazil. I need to travel 6 hours to get to a favela
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:35 AM
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I would rather have bad genes in Brazil than good genes in North Korea
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:30 AM
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Neji was right
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 11:33 PM
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"It's like saying - " A house need 4 wall s and a roof - that's the bare minimum " while looking down at our listings while going ahead and paying 150000 for a tent on a plot. Worse yet you have the gall to complain about the lack of weather protection and the ticks." This analogy is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:47 PM
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"Disclaimer: I'm excluding the nice guys who are actually nice" But all of the nice guys are actually nice, by definition. If he isn't actually nice, then he is not nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:15 PM
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"How about you just don’t have unprotected sex until you are absolutely sure you are exclusive" If everyone does this, humanity will become extinct. The exclusivity guarantee is never 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:42 PM
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This woman has a much larger vsm than most men. Many of those who say "fat women are disgusting" would "marry her" if she wanted. https://media.tenor.com/u5PQxs57ENEAAAAd/shapely-curvy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:08 PM
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Many men here who say that fat women are disgusting would date one if she responded. There are a lot of arrogant guys declaring on the internet that they have standards that they don't have in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:55 PM
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Red alert. If the wife refuses, it is possible that the child is not her husband's, especially if this refusal is aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:32 AM
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I'm sorry, so you're not Chad. Being Chad isn't just about height and supposedly being in shape. I'm not Chad, I'm 172cm tall, and women are very receptive to me (I have good posture, I'm in good shape, I have a good financial condition and a rich fiancee). However I believe I would still need to pay for dinner if I wanted to have sex (it's something I'll never be able to test empirically, since I'm engaged.). But I remember spending my adolescence watching Chad friends take completely strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:04 AM
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I don't know why this is so hard for women to understand on this sub. A guy who has a high n-count has some type of skill that makes him attractive enough for women to sleep with him. This is partially true. Many times the guy is just hot and has no self control. Chadfishing is a thing. Chad just needs to exist and he will have plenty of access to sex even though he is useless, just like women. The same goes for the rich. Despite this, normies in appearance and money who have a lot of sex usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:46 AM
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Being single is better than a bad woman. It seems obvious, but it is common for men in desperation to accept any woman of low value, so it is something that has to be clearly stated. Plus, when I was single and desperate, I didn't see things that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:34 AM
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It means she is physically attractive enough but not attractive enough in personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:48 PM
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Incels don't think so. You are assuming that they have a certain opinion because they are ugly. If that were the case, incels wouldn't defend Jhonny Depp who was falsely accused of many things, but most of those I know who spoke on the subject defended him. I know incels who are close friends with Chads too. What you are doing with this post is just spewing prejudice against ugly people. ​ Plus, hot guys are no better than incels in every possible way. They're just better in appearance. For the …
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 07:26 AM
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I see it too, but I don't think it's the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:02 AM
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Yours is an intelligent response, up until to a certain point, though. People say they want to hear the truth, but they don't. People don't want to give up hopes. I used to work as a psychic for a call-center and we would get paid to lie to people and tell them what they wanted to hear. These are the same people who told us they wanted the truth, but when we told them the truth, for example that a person they fancied was not attracted to them, they would stop calling. And you don't need to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:01 AM
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But losing weight doesn't make a man beautiful, especially if he's already skinny. Getting in shape makes a man better and increases his chances, except for truecels. Losing weight is not the same as getting in shape, many men need to gain weight, and that goes for muscle and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:42 AM
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What do you want to hear? Do you want to hear that all you have to do is lose weight, get a nice haircut and crack trite jokes, or do you want to hear that no amount of weight loss and lifting will make you proportionate and attractive? I would like to hear the truth. If I were single and looked such a way that giving up on finding a girlfriend was the best option, I would do it and not create false expectations, so I could focus on my personal development and other pleasures in life. Most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 AM
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I'm here because I like to debate, that's all. If I need advice, I go to my father, my mother, the church pastor, my mother-in-law, my father-in-law, etc. It all depends on the subject at hand and who I recognize as an authority on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:51 AM
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Well, in this case, when I didn't notice the signs, I would like the woman to be very direct and assertive.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 02:25 AM
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I'm a sub 7 looking man. When I was single, I never noticed, and when I did, I never believed it. I only realized that a woman was interested in me from my girlfriend, and now I often pick up on women's signals as they deal with me in any environment. I'm not going to answer the survey, because before I didn't understand it at all, today I understand it very easily, and therefore I don't know what the appropriate answer would be for you.
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/23 01:49 AM
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Giving advice is definitely a much better strategy than being rude or lying. Interestingly, women assume aggressiveness from men who are not aggressive and lie or are rude to him as a way of defending themselves. That's a bad strategy. If these men were truly aggressive, women would be victims of the men they reject, but most of the time they are victims of the men they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:45 AM
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I am heterosexual man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:43 AM
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No one is obliged to give true feedback to anyone, but what usually happens is false feedback. "Look in the mirror" is not helpful advice, it's just abstract and offensive nonsense. I'm a man and I give advice to men who have difficulties and they don't get aggressive. I say things like: You are too thin/fat (if you are), go to the gym; You need money, go study, try to become specialized labor and when you can, buy better clothes; You are after women who are not worth it, try another type of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:33 AM
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"use scare tactics to manipulate women into settling with guys we are not truly attracted to. They say that we will end up with cats if we don't settle for a guy we don't truly like. Guess what." What actually happens is that we tell women NOT to do this, precisely because many women already do it Have you never seen men here criticizing AF/BB? You accuse men of bullying women into doing something men hate. I find any woman who tries to settle down with me offensive and disgusting. When we talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:16 PM
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Chadfishing is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:50 AM
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Black Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:50 AM
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A woman owes to the man she commits to or wants to commit to so that she can have their commitment. If she doesn't have something to offer the kind of man she wants, she better improve herself so that she has something to offer while there is still time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:38 AM
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It turns out that "nice guy" is a pejorative term when you are a young, beautiful woman. Then, when you are old and have children, it stops being pejorative and becomes literal. That's why "Where are all the good men" or "Where are all the nice guys" A quick Google search and you will find several questions like these: https://www.quora.com/Where-are-all-the-nice-guys-And-why-do-they-all-seem-to-be-taken On Reddit there is r/niceguys making fun of nice guys, and there is also r/WhereAreAllTheGoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:19 AM
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Having a girlfriend or fiancée is not a turn off for many women, on the contrary. The "wedding ring effect" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:15 AM
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It's not about you (plural). The person who realizes this is the 30-year-old man who was rejected in high school and college, but studied, worked and suddenly starts receiving "oi sumido*" messages on Whatsapp. The young man who received "Ew" looks as a teenager, but suddenly starts receiving smiles from 25-year-old girls and feeling the desperation of 35-year-old women to engage him. *"oi sumido" is a slang term in Portuguese, whose literal translation into English is "hi missing", which refers…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:14 AM
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I wasn't talking about an arbitrary number, that's a strawman fallacy. This effect is gradual. And talk about revenge fantasies to the young people who have them. Although you'll have to argue very well for them, as each of them knows guys over 30 to testify to the fact. I particularly find it interesting when you simply deny something that happens in my life and that of many of my friends who are now married to women much younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:58 AM
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And yet we've never actually see it. Or know it. It's all just smoke and mirrors. Dime store magic. "Where are all the good men" is a common trope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:49 AM
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Umm....so why are you engaged? Doesn't make sense. I didn't understand. I found a good woman, I want to marry her and start a family. What does not make sense? I really don't understand why you have this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:48 AM
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At no point did I say that these men are not of high value, they are obviously normal looking men with great personalities who are only seen as women by a certain type of woman when it is too late and they have younger options and without children. ​ Women still have innumerable options after 30, even 40, regardless of whether they have children or not. But it's not about quantity, it's about quality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:41 AM
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It's something that many men go through, a myth would be that I believe I'm the only one. I'm 32 years old and I still go through this to this day, and the fact that I'm engaged is even aggravating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:14 AM
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This is Red Pill and it's for normies, like me. This worked well for me, although moneymaxxing can be better than looksmaxxing sometimes (here in Brazil) However, as it is a CMV, I ask you a question, what about truecels? In your post it sounds like you blame them for their bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:42 AM
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So why, after a woman turns 30 or has children, do these same men who "bring nothing to the table" start to be seen as men of high value by these same women according to themselves? This right after being used and discarded by those who call them 9/10 and rich. The value of the man that the older woman with children seeks is exactly the same value as the guy she satirically called a "nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:36 AM
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Men complain about women not giving them a chance. What is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to? For men who cannot find women they are attracted to, the best option is to remain single. ​ Should women force themselves into dating guys they are not attracted to? don't get it. Blame god, don't blame women. It's not like you can force attraction. Attraction is non-negotiable. I would rather be by myself for the rest of my life than end up with someone I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:22 AM
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In fact, personality matters, but it is worth highlighting that the Halo Effect means that a good appearance also reflects on how the personality is well seen, in the same way a bad appearance also reflects on how a personality is poorly seen. In other words, a physically attractive man with a 3/10 personality will be seen as someone with a 7/10 personality, on the other hand, an ugly incel with an 8/10 personality will be seen as someone with a 2/10 personality. Personality matters, but it's ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:34 PM
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1 - Because this is the role of women, no matter how much feminism says otherwise. The Social Construction of feminism cannot overcome the reality of individual choice and make women happy; 2 - Shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:03 PM
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Appearance is enough for me. Men who say she is ugly are simply liars.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 10:56 PM
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Femcels are volcels
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:16 PM
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I believe that men with gigantism (when the bone structure of the face is affected) have a high chance of being incels
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:53 AM
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What is "escorts"?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:25 AM
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So you know the OP's friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:36 AM
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Let’s take the following suppositions that are often reiterated on here as true: * women are only attracted to the top 20% of guys * of you’re not one of those top 20%, you’re landing squarely in the BB side of the AF/BB equation if you get a relationship at all * being a BB is terrible and not worth it The information there is false due to the fact that "Not All Women Are Like That" AF/BB is a thing, and it is extremely common, however it is not true for some women, and those are the women who …
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:43 AM
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you worship stacy just as much and it’s so normalized I don't love Stacies. Most of the hot women I know are disgusting in personality. My girlfriend is not a Stacy, including her and I are now overweight and we continue to be with each other and mindful of this so that we both get better. but when a woman tweets about men it’s proof all women are shallow ? yes women like attractive tall men In fact, most women don't do this, they lie. They talk about all the personality stuff, while dating hot …
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:36 AM
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your gf might lose attraction for you You could lose attraction, but increased attraction is also possible and perhaps even more common. In any case, you shouldn't cheat because it's wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:17 PM
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You are wrong. It's easier for a normie to get two women than one. A normie may be rejected all his life, but the moment he gets a girlfriend, other women will be interested in him, including women who previously rejected him. That's my case, I'm a normie, I was rejected a lot in the past, I got a girlfriend and suddenly the interest in me increased.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:15 PM
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Advantages of putting "results": People outside the research group will be able to see the results without having to contaminate the research; Only those who really want to vote vote. I'm in the group for this survey, so I'll vote seriously. But if I wasn't in the group and there were no "results" I would vote for anything just to see the results.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:13 PM
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Is your testosterone ok? I have a girlfriend and I still find other women's bodies attractive, including our female friends. Objectively, I wouldn't get involved sexually or romantically with any other woman, but instincts exist.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 11:23 PM
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What is "incel stuffs"? The incels I know are so different from each other in personality that there doesn't seem to be any type of behavior that I would call "incel stuff." The only common thing I see in most of them is a lack of confidence, which is to be expected since they have been mistreated by the world since they were born simply because they are ugly or short.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 11:20 PM
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Everyone knows that prostitution is illegal in all states It is not illegal in any Brazilian state. That said, I've never seen a woman advise an ugly man to go to a prostitute, now I'm curious if they would if it were illegal. Here women love a promiscuous man, but are disgusted by prostitutes. However, both my friends and my girlfriend were curious and asked a lot of questions, respectfully, when I said that I had experience with prostitutes. However, in general, women outside my circle speak g…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:48 PM
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/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:45 PM
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I'm not gay. I am a heterosexual man
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:17 PM
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My best friend is my girlfriend and I have sex with her, but that doesn't count; I have other friends and I'm not interested in having sex with any of them and I'm sure none of them want to have sex with me; I can have sex with some acquaintances, but I don't, one of them is even a woman who rejected me a lot when I was a young bluepill. By your idiotic logic I am not heterosexual; You reduce a man as if he were a slave to his own dick, if men really were like you said, none of them would be wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:04 AM
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As an average guy who knows a lot of average guys, I think average guys have more trouble with this than incels. Women will never look at incel. On the other hand, after a woman's life is in shit because of bad choices, she goes after the average guy, and that to many of us average guys is offensive and disgusting. Most incels I know simply "accepted" their condition and went on to live their own lives in a more isolated way.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 02:02 AM
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The book is not stupid, on the contrary, the book says things that even today, based on statistics, people do not understand. This is why church marriages are much more successful. And this is also why the church ends up being the last hope of people who have failed outside of it. And every femcel is volcel
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 05:21 PM
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LTR. My minimum standards are: * She can't be ugly. * She cannot be a feminist; * She can't be settling down; * Must have compatible values; I have a girlfriend, but if I were single and looking for a woman just for sex, I would hire a prostitute. In the past I have had problems with a "civilian" who omitted that she was married, her husband was in prison for murder.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 05:17 PM
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Probably Christian women subredits. Most femcels are femcels because they are Christians.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:26 PM
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Yes, it makes a lot of difference. If you are very thin, consider gaining fat as well. Gaining muscle is always good, even if it would be useless for attraction. Turns out it's not, especially for a normal guy.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:17 PM
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I am an average looking man, and based on what she described of herself, I would not approach her because she is far below my standards. Now if she is below my standards, why does she expect more from men who approach her? Does not make sense. A rich Chad would only use it to unload milk. If I have better options than her, then better men than me have even better options, the most they would do is use her for sex. It's very clueless on her part, then when she's alone at 40 and has two children, …
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:03 PM
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It was very cruel of her to get pregnant just to prove that kind of thing to others.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:53 PM
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Some people "disliked" my comment. These must be the ones who are even more in denial.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 11:37 PM
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You are not "the women", you are one of many women and you may or may not have your reasons, but that doesn't say much about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:16 PM
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For many people, physical attractiveness is the main influence on choice. For women, as they get older, money gradually begins to speak louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:37 PM
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Marriage is, first and foremost, a religious thing, and secularism is anti-religious. Women against marriage don't know why they are against marriage, they just repeat it to feel “outside the box” and superior to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:34 PM
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Love is a choice, people choose who to love based on physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:12 PM
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Many bluepillers are incels
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 09:20 AM
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It was gradual. * When I stopped becoming a simp, I left the friendzone and became more observant and rational in this matter; * When I started having a relationship with my girlfriend, other women started to show interest in me; * When I finally started dating, women started to treat me really well, the girl who left me in the friend zone started to hate my girlfriend and constantly praise me; * I became a little overweight, but I also became much better off financially, and as a result I attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:05 AM
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I can clearly recognize the superiority of the younger generation of women over the younger generation of men. It’s just a fact. This is definitely not true, it is usually the opposite. The vagina has a much stronger social power than the penis and is a very powerful negotiating tool, and in everything involving these issues, women do better. However for all other things, this is not true. Companies are full of "diversity" policies with the aim of including women in the organization; Public comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:55 PM
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Accept Jesus; Take care of your appearance; Study; Work.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:58 PM
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Your request doesn't make sense, being incel is most of the time a genetic issue and not a club you belong to. Therefore, there are no "organizations" or "spaces" that represent incels, just as there are no spaces that represent black people, white people, women, men, children, etc. Therefore, I suggest waiting in a sitting position, as you will never get an answer to this meaningless request.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:47 PM
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I wouldn't say "unlikeable" In general, women have no personality. They act according to how attracted they are to a man. Does she feel attracted? Then it will act pleasantly. Does she feel neutral? Then it will act reactively. Does she feel repelled? Then he will act hatefully.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:12 PM
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IDK what is NEET. I'm a STEM professional and I have a high-wage to brazilian defaults, but low-wage to USA defaults
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 08:22 AM
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No. Many hateful people still have sex. Many incels are incels just because they are ugly.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 08:20 AM
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but it definitely reeks of immaturity to be happy seeing other people down in the dumps because of some perceived slight. I agree, it sounds immaturity, but why are you telling me this? Some people's lives are difficult and that is a fact independent of mine or your desire, and I can choose not to participate in that just as much as I was not chosen to participate in that same life when it was fun. This to "I'm happy with other people's suffering" is a huge logical leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:03 AM
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It was like that with me too, I decided to make up for it with a younger woman. I wouldn't get involved with a woman who would have rejected me 10 years ago and I only became "interesting" when her life became difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:30 AM
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I find it unbelievable that 1/3 of people voted "Yes". It's more likely that someone is trolling, that's not realistic.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 06:55 AM
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Women with children, or after 30 years old, asking "Where are all the good men", because all of the good men is away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:00 PM
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WAATGM is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:42 PM
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Many women treat ugly men shitty, but not all. These women are trash to me. That said, among those left there are good women worth marrying, I chose one of those and I'm just an average looking guy who's 5'10" tall. I strongly argue that being single is not bad, staying single is the second best option, being much better than marrying a bad woman like these. One day my appearance will deteriorate, and I may be broke, so I need a woman who doesn't treat ugly, poor men like they are trash.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:37 AM
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I'm not specifically talking about anal sex, it actually applies to any act(sexual or not). People impose limits in relationships, and the more attracted they feel to someone, the less restricted these limits tend to be. You keep rationalizing this as if women's reasons for this type of conduct are rational. ​ It’s extremely weird that you would want to something it even if you hate it just because she had done it before. So once a woman has done a sex act, you think she now has to do it forever…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:25 AM
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It's not about YOUR sexual desire, but HER sexual desire. I might hate anal sex, but if I somehow knew that my girlfriend would never have anal sex with me, having done it with other men, I would already know that her attraction to me is not genuine, and that she does not consider me good enough like the others. And if that's the case, then she shouldn't be with me, it would be a complete turn off, even if I never wanted to have anal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:02 AM
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The Black Pill is more visible in High School than in College. I'm graduated in I.T., almost has no women in I.T. College
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 11:15 PM
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People underestimate the advantages of having a life partner over hedonism
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 02:47 AM
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You asked and you answered yourself, without knowing my appearance, my financial condition, etc. Cool your Crystal Ball. Having a girlfriend and later a wife is better than casual relationships, I don't know what you mean by "slay" but I assume you mean casual sex. The idea of casual sex seems cooler when you can't actually do it. When it becomes banal it's not that incredible
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 02:46 AM
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To be honest, I haven't been single for a long time, so the 99% isn't absolute. It's very easy to say this when you already have a girlfriend, but what if I was feeling needy and lonely? My standards would certainly be lowered a lot.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 12:55 AM
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99% of women I wouldn't make them my girlfriend. My English is bad and I don't know if I used the word "date" correctly, but I just meant about making her my girlfriend. Now when it comes to sex, I believe, if I were a fan of casual sex, I would like to have sex with many of them, including many of those who date some guys who are shorter than me.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 12:53 AM
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I'm 172cm and I have a girlfriend, my girlfriend has to block some guys on the internet who bother her from time to time. Now I don't know what to vote for. I would vote "no", but voting "no" might give the wrong idea as 99% of the women I wouldn't date anyway, whether she's someone who would date a small guy or not.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 12:34 AM
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Men care less about women's appearance than the other way around, that's all. At first women tend to have ridiculously high standards of appearance, but as they get older or have children they become less demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:13 PM
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Excelent
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:15 PM
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And here’s another comment that tries to ignore the comments against woman and turn it around so the men are the real victims The truth is that two wrongs don't make a right. ​ Also, where shouts in the marriage vows to you say I guarantee my wife/husband sex? In the same place that says when you buy a car, it will have an engine. If you get married today and your partner refuses to have sex with you, it's the same as you buying a car today and the seller only gives you a chassis Some things are…
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 01:21 AM
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Looksmaxxing and moneymaxing worked to me. Do it. You can. When I was 19 things weren't good for me either, but today I'm fine
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:53 PM
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Lie with virtue signaling or exception
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:48 PM
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On the one hand, I would love to have a tall woman riding my face, sitting on me in the most diverse positions and using me as a toy. On the other hand, my girlfriend is short and I like being with her in public, holding her tightly or having her lay on top of me. Furthermore, she likes to feel dominated and controlled in bed. So tall women are attractive to me, but in a more fetishistic way. While the lows are attractive in a cuter way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:26 PM
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Most of the lesbians I know are pretty ugly and have an active sex life. Some of them are ugly on a level where if they were men they would be incels
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:52 PM
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I would probably have more sex with women than I did as a man. My fiancée might not marry me and we would just stick to casual. And I would end up single, because lesbian "marriages" often go wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 02:33 PM
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You say it wouldn't be much different from today, but being a woman, don't you think the quantity and quality of hot guys would increase? Gay men are a minority, I think you could do much better if you were a woman
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 02:20 PM
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It's possible to respect someone as a person but still want to fuck them. But this is a truth that BP doesn't understand, especially the folks at r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:06 AM
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Ironically in practice, pansexual and bisexual are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:19 AM
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Many of them are LGBT activists hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:17 AM
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My girlfriend is bisexual, I don't see any problems with that, it's not something you can control. Personally, I would prefer it not to be the case, as I fetishize ffm, but I shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:16 AM
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Normally people don't think much about things. They know the situation superficially and already make their judgment, this is the case about almost anything. Half a dozen people who think differently is not significant in forming a reputation. I live in a city of 60,000 people where a man cannot enter because the local media accused him of rape. DNA tests have already proven that the rapist was someone else, even so, if he returns to our city, he will be murdered by lynching, as the accusation o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:13 AM
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I think that people who say that husband and wife shouldn't be best friends have no idea how close and intimate the relationship between a couple is. That's why they end up reducing everything to a mere sexual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:49 AM
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I think that people who say that husband and wife shouldn't be best friends have no idea how close and intimate the relationship between a couple is. That's why they end up reducing everything to a mere sexual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:48 AM
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It's exactly the opposite. Husband and wife should be each other's best friends. If this is not the case, there is something very wrong with the couple. If I wanted someone just to have sex with, I wouldn't get married, I would hire prostitutes regularly. A wife and husband are much stronger bonds than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:47 AM
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I think "genuine close friendships" are hard to make in general past childhood and early adulthood because people become to busy to spend the amount of time together necessary for that level of mutual growth and bonding. It' is true. ​ Plenty of men and women do become best friends with their partners because they spend all of their time together. If the husband/boyfriend is not the wife/girlfriend's best friend, and the wife/girlfriend is not the husband/boyfriend's best friend, there is someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:42 AM
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everyone you knew died in a tsunami except this friend These are conditions that change the dynamics of the relationship in themselves, and are quite extreme. It's not fair to put "If's" that are so extreme and beyond people's control, this is very different from being "drunk"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:38 AM
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If I thought like him, I would be ruined. My fiancee is bisexual, and she finds one of our male friends and some of our female friends sexually attractive. I think I should lock her in the basement so she never interacts with anyone hahahah. You are sure. It is possible to find someone sexually attractive and completely discard them as a sexual partner. Additionally, I say that in certain cases it may also be viable to define behaviors so that no one does something stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:34 AM
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You are wrong. I'm a man, I'm 32 years old, I'm engaged to a 25 year old woman and I have CLOSE female friends. That said, apart from a single man, all of my close friends are married or dating, and they are also friends with each other regardless of gender. I have single female friends, but they aren't that close and our conversations are mostly banalities. I assure you that there is no romantic attraction between me and my closest female friends, but I don't deny that I am sexually attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:28 AM
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I saw that you put "incel" in quotes, but then in parentheses "volcel", so I considered real volcels, like priests, men who want to wait until marriage, asexuals, etc. However, in your comments you seem to consider real incels as volcels, if you had been clear I wouldn't have voted for lesbians but would have voted for straight men. Your poll was poor due to lack of clarity. I also voted lesbian incels because for a woman to be an incel she has to be repulsive in such a way that I have never see…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:06 AM
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It seems to me that the majority prefers A, but doesn't think B is definitely bad. Likewise, those who prefer B do not think A is definitely bad. I tried to make them both good in a way, but when some people put "A" as "absolutely better", I thought I wouldn't see responses like "B is my type", even though I expected "I've dated B".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:02 AM
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I liked your answer. I never thought about dating neighbors that way. My girlfriend is about 15 minutes away from my house on foot and now thinking about it I think I like there to be a certain distance. And this question about B sounds like a dilemma to me, it's admirable, but inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:55 AM
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Answer a little different from the others. Don't you think one of them is at least a little better than the other? Something like 51/49
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:53 AM
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I don't know anyone in this situation, but some are a little similar. However, in these cases I should really talk about this possibility, because depending on the circumstances it may be viable, although normally houses here in Brazil are not designed in such a way that this is viable, but it is good to consider the possibility. Here, people typically stay at their parents' home unless: Get married; Get a job far away; Get a higher education course far away; Have a bad relationship with their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:49 AM
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It makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:27 AM
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Woman owe their husbands sex But this is true. Just as the husband has an obligation to have sex with his wife regularly; Marriage is a contract in which sexual relations are part of it, not having sex is a breach of this contract, if you don't want to have sexual relations with your partner you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place and you cheated on your spouse at the altar when you said "Yes." About the others. I've seen some of these other tropes, and they really are horrible and …
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 02:09 AM
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Thank you for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:00 AM
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you're no man, you're a peace of shit and i sincerely hope you end up alone like you deserve. This is deeply horrifying to read, and it's in this sub. Comment a little more and your post will become a self-realized truth.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:57 AM
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True, but I think due to the ban on INCELS subs on Reddit, as well as Black Pill content on several subs, I imagine this is the sub with the most INCELS compared to the others. I don't think it's wrong, that's what happens when you're genuinely neutral.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:55 AM
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I'm not incel and I'm here; There are no incel subs on Reddit, as Reddit bans them, perhaps that's why there are a large number of incels in neutral groups like this; The sub name is "ALL PILL DEBATE"; I see horrifying things being written in practically every sub I frequent, also in both places I work, and also in civil or neutral areas of my city. So horrifying things written here don't make this sub special in any way, it's just human beings and their nature.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:52 AM
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Thanks for the answer. You consider it a good quality because it is a morally positive point, but you do not recommend it because of the burden it causes. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:43 AM
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I think your answer was the most different of all. You have practically already chosen Brother B in your life and the reason for the separation is not the type where we can say that "there was someone to blame". Thanks for the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:33 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:30 AM
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Thanks for the answers. I can think of a few reasons why some people would answer "B", but I would like to wait for some other answers before responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:28 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. From your explanation, I tend to understand that when someone says "Man who lives with his parents", people understand "Men who parasitize on their parents" and completely disregard the possibility "Men who help their parents" so that if I ask the question : What do you think of a 30-year-old man who lives with his parents? I will receive different responses from: What do you think of a 30-year-old man whose parents live with him? In neither case would people ask "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:26 AM
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Thanks for the answer, I thought it was very complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:20 AM
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I understood your point. I refer to the entire group of adults, as the misfits are not an insignificant portion to the point of being ignored, so I don't consider it "obvious", but thank you for clarifying.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:19 AM
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I will answer considering a well-intentioned woman. If she works outside the home, it is a financial asset; If she is a housewife, it is valid support; A mother for her children (It is essential that children have a good paternal and maternal reference); Support if you are disabled by illness or injury until you recover; Different points of view on different subjects, which helps you make good decisions; A partner in video games or in any other leisure activity that is practiced in a group or so…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:16 AM
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But do you think this is an exception to the rule or is your thinking about this something common?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:10 AM
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You had me there, give me someone I can be 100% sure he will never abuse nor cheat on me and I'm good, the rest doesn't matter. You're asking me the impossible More serious answer, A > B in basically everything right ? I don't think so, I think they both have pros and cons, but I wouldn't want to go into detail now to avoid the risk of influencing any response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:08 AM
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Thanks for the answer. Do you think it would be a turn off for most other women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:05 AM
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I do wonder why brother B didn’t renovate the garage or something so he’d have his own space away from his parents to date! I applaud him for taking care of his family, but I do wonder why he didn’t go out on his own (even just to the garage or an apartment up the street) so he could still be close by and help, but also be independent. I just didn't think about it when I created the situations, this "renovating garage" seems to be more cultural in the USA, as I've never seen anyone do that here …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:04 AM
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Mediocre facial appearance is not the same as poor facial appearance; Many of these men wouldn't have these girlfriends if they had ugly faces. Therefore appearance matters. My face is average-looking, but if I were ugly, I'd probably be single. And I'm not even tall, I'm 1.72m
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 12:56 AM
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I've had "no" turns into "yes", but it was many years later and when I was already with someone else. I agree that “no” is often absolute, but there are some “no’s” that mean “not now”, these could be: Not while I'm still young and childless; Not until you have a stable job; Not until the gym you go to starts showing results. Furthermore, you ignored that appearance can be so elevated that it causes an absolute "yes" in many women, Chadfishing shows this, women being victims of abusive relations…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 12:53 AM
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Baldness is predicted in youth, it is easy to know which young man will naturally become bald. English is not my first language, perhaps what I said is clear now. If you were right that men don't get better after youth, you would be worse off now than before. Also, baldness is not a rule, most men don't become bald at 35, you were just unlucky. Still, this is something that money would solve, and money is harder to have when you are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:22 PM
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If you stay in shape, you will be more attractive at 35 than you were when you were fat. And not everyone develops baldness, and when that happens it is a harbinger of youth. My hair is better now than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:09 PM
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I trust exceptions, but I don't treat them as norms. I believe your story, but 100% of the women over 35 that I know personally who have given this speech are now with men who are considerably less physically attractive than the men they previously had. It doesn't mean you're lying, but exceptions are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:58 PM
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It's hard to believe that what you say is sincere when you say you don't know anyone, if you are sincere maybe you need to leave the house more. Any young person, especially if they are skinny or obese, will become more physically attractive if they watch their diet and go to the gym, and this happens all the time that it is almost impossible for it to be true that "you don't know someone", unless you live in a basement. This is my case, I only had old clothes and weighed less than 60kg at the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:47 PM
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People who have more sexual partners when they were younger do not prove that they were more attractive when they were younger, because when they get married or have a girlfriend their number of partners goes to 1 I'm a guy who had few sexual partners in my youth, but more so than today, at 32, I'm engaged and therefore only have one sexual partner. But I'm definitely much more attractive physically, financially and personally than I was in my 20s. The difference in the way I am treated by the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:38 PM
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Yes, using anabolic steroids is bad. However, I haven't seen anyone recommend this here on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:14 PM
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There are much more than 50 states in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:42 PM
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For me it was a considerable increase. I was always skinny and very poor when I was young, and I also had serious psychological and family problems. Now at 32 I have a formed personality, an above average salary, a reasonable body, a more masculine body and a fiancée. I'm not Chad, and I never actively seek out women, but occasionally the occasional woman hits on me, and they're not always single mothers. Even girls who rejected me in the past and are single today hate my fiancée without even kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:58 PM
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Yes, it's more than 0.1%. However, based on ChatGPT estimates, 0.1% of married men represent 2 million men, which is a lot in absolute numbers and still far from being a considerable portion in proportional terms. If 10% of married men are as you said, there would already be 200 million men, which is also a very high number, but it is still a long way from being the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:25 PM
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In a world of over 7 billion people this is true, but this truth does not contradict what I said so that you respond with "that is hilariously incorrect". You would only need 0.1% of husbands to have "many men treating their wives like slaves"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:56 PM
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It means being the best version of yourself
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:00 PM
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It's valid for counting, that's the point. And the level of gratification depends on the individual, for me, casual sex is less rewarding because it is very inconvenient and annoying to have, as well as risky (I already had a relationship with a woman whose husband was in prison for murder) In any case, both don't come close to the gratification you get from sex with love, it's another level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:57 PM
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That's why I said you would be correct if you wrote "some men"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:51 PM
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You would be correct if you wrote "some men" In general, men have higher standards for women they would marry than for women they just want casual, that's all. That is, the woman a man wants to marry is better than the woman a man just wants to fuck, this is not hypocrisy, it is to be expected that a man will be more demanding with a wife than with a casual one, The requirement is different because the roles to be played by both women are different. Women separate demands by men, while men separ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:32 PM
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There is such a thing as convenience. Even married men date prostitutes. Football players who are highly desired by women in general also go out with prostitutes. Famous actors and singers, whose wives throw panties at them on stage, go out with prostitutes. And I'm engaged, I know what it's like to have sex with love, I know what it's like to have casual sex and I know what it's like to have sex with a prostitute, that being said, the only sex that's really different for me is sex with love, ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:58 PM
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A guy who worked, earned money and had sex with a prostitute fought harder for the Olympic medal than the guy whose genetic inheritance caused the medal to fall into his lap. Your Olympic medal analogy makes going out with the prostitute a more valid achievement than Chad who had nothing to do. And many men don't claim that sex with prostitutes is as valid, because of social pressure, but morally speaking it's the same thing. Women are critical of men who date prostitutes, but they praise men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:31 PM
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I find it so hypocritical that people support abortion and then condemn other heinous crimes.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:40 PM
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"Any" man can date one prostitute a month and in 2 years will have a body count of 24. I know an obese guy who has a very high body count due to this, and I won't be surprised if he says he has a body count greater than 50. It is worth noting that sex with prostitutes is as valid as casual sex, and is no more immoral than casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:08 PM
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Many of the type of men who would have put a wedding ring on her finger 70 years ago won't do so now. The wall is not about casual sex, it is about the quality of men willing to marry. There are men who even fuck car exhausts, a lady like that would be a luxury for them.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:59 AM
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I don't understand the question. What do you mean with "reset"?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:27 AM
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This is not information that is said out there, so the person who wants this information must request it and has every right to do so. In any case, if I were single, a woman who was a potential partner for me would no longer be one if she asked for this information, it would sound too superficial. She could ask me something more important, like my body count
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:21 AM
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I'm not a virgin, I'm getting married next year. I do not see virginity as an offense and I admire those who are voluntarily virgins, I see it as a great virtue and definitely a victory against hedonism, I am the loser who has had sex with women I would not marry, but I am less of a loser than those who they do not admit this same defeat. That being said, I am not blind and I see many truths in BlackPill that most people do not have enough emotional intelligence to accept. Any idiot can realize …
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:06 AM
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Never married guys, guys who have never been married are twice as likely to be absent dads. So definitely be wary of guys who express an aversion to marriage. So say they don't believe in marriage or they're not the marriage type or similar. Real science does not perform this bad grouping. "Men who have never married" being lumped together with "Men who have an aversion to marriage" is a terrible grouping. It is likely that "those who have never married" will pull this datadown, while "those who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:57 AM
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You're right. Often an ugly man is needed to be the villain's henchman in films, with luck the main villain is also ugly. However, the most common aspect of an ugly character is that it is a beautiful person playing the role, with makeup that makes him ugly, but still a "pleasant ugly".
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:55 AM
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I answered "no", but I don't judge some who answered "yes". If I were an incel and had no hope of finding a good woman and a good job, this would be the way I could have money, sex and alleviate my neediness a little.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:48 AM
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You make two mistakes: Thinking that "The Wall" is about quantity and not quality: Men are not as handsome as they used to be, nor are they the nice guys they used to be, nor are they men in as good a financial situation as they used to be. Thinking that "The Wall" is about casual sex and not marriage: At any age a woman can find men willing to have sex with her, but how many will be willing to start a family?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:41 AM
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Men do not willfully do this unless they have ZERO options, or are a pedophile. I'm a man. If I had children and didn't want to have more, I would to prefer dating single mothers. This is the unique situation that dating a single mother is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:55 AM
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However, it seems to me that it is the opposite. Many men are resentful because they can only attract single mothers. I know this because it was the case for me in my 20s. The fact that women looked at me only after having children, while I was invisible or "friends" with childless women, generated a certain resentment in me. The problem is not the resentment of "women I wasn't able to attract", quite the contrary, I found it extremely offensive to be able to attract only those women with childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:45 AM
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But if high school Chad had a good job, a good personality and everything else he would get the girl too. I think the only change that occurs is the reduction of physical standards, with other standards remaining unchanged. "Every" woman, whether she is a single mother or not, wants a hard-working guy with a good personality, etc. The difference is that none of this is capable of being as relevant as regards appearance, at least while the woman is still young and childless. Hence the illusion th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:39 AM
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I'm 32 years old. When I was younger, most of the opportunities I had with women were with single mothers. Probably because I always had a good personality, but I wasn't very good looking. Now I've improved in appearance, I'm engaged to a woman 7 years younger than me, and the situation of women showing some kind of interest in me seems more balanced. I'm not Chad, I just improved my appearance a little and made money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:19 AM
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The difference is that adoption is usually a genuine choice. The analogy with adoption would be a person adopting because they are unable to have biological children and then "settles for an adopted child." This is not noble. In fact, I've seen cases where people who believed they couldn't have children, adopted, but then eventually had a biological child and that's why the adopted child became unwanted. Adopting is sometimes selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:15 AM
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The overwhelming majority of men are heterosexual. It goes without saying that we wouldn't date single fathers, because we wouldn't date any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:12 AM
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Single mothers tend to have LOWER standards than women without children. They often even date men they would never date while they were not single mothers. See this: Can someone explain why single mothers tend to have lower physical standards? - Sexuality (girlsaskguys.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:06 AM
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Typically men date single mothers for at least one of these reasons: He is not taking the relationship genuinely serious, and he is just with the woman for a good fuck, to have good company, or to have someone until he finds a better person: In situations like this, the guy no longer intends to get married and form a family with wife; Pedophile; It is the only option for some men, due to the fact that women who become single mothers lower the physical standards they demand in a man, and therefor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:57 AM
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Any betabux are incel Betabux have sex
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:59 PM
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I'm not "estadunidense", but i know somethings. All the president that I know, in the USA, was/is rich; In Brazil too, all the presidents, governors, majors, senators etc are rich. Poor people don't win the elections
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 11:28 PM
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The majority of politicians borned rich. They have money and midia control to define the population's opinion. The majority of people aren't rich.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 10:57 PM
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Brown skin; Green eyes; 1,82m of height (I have 1,72m); Strong jawlines; Muscular; A complete and small beard; Voice like a ophera singer; 18cm of penis;
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 09:25 PM
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This is true to incels and all other people. But looks is import to get a good job.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 07:42 PM
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Ethnic (women hate ethnic guys): All the people are ethnic. Short and ugly: I agree 0 social skills / socially awkward / autistic: I Agree Overweight: I Agree Small dick: Irrelevant, men use clothes. Shit job or career: I Agree
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 12:52 AM
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If women' standards would high, their childs has dads and women "wouldn't" kill then with abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:50 AM
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If women' standards would high, their childs has dads and women wouldn't kill then with abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:46 AM
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See how the women treat you. They laught of your jokes? Smile to you? Do they always come up with some reason to have physical contact with you? Do they treat their flaws as something positive? (Arrogant is seen as confident, introversion is seen as mysterious, etc.) If Yes, then you are a Chad
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 11:57 PM
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Chadfishing is a thing. What's JFC?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:50 PM
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Superficial. Things like morality, confidence, kindness or inteligence are irrelevant or detractors; Things like height, jawlines, eye shape are more important than all; I'm a little superficial too, but I priorize personality over looks. Everybody is superficial to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:16 PM
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The posts is a cherry picking. The sub is not "PedoTears", is "IncelTears" Imagine a sub named "BlackTears" that hates black people, but imagine that they post showing only cherry pickeds criminal black peoples? Black people killing; Black people raping; Black people aborting (ops, i already said killing); How would you interpret the "BlackTears" sub? They would be against killers or rapists? No, they would be against blacks. IncelTears cherry picking bad incel comments to justify that hate agai…
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:56 AM
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This is the Halo Effect and Virtue Signaling Halo Effect: People projecting bad attributes to ugly people. You are ugly and confident? People see you like arrogant. Virtue Signaling: People can't admit that they are shallow, that's why they never speak that they hates a guy because this guy are ugly, then they attribute worst attributes to justify the hate. Off Topic: From 0 to 10, How good is my English?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:41 AM
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The “men love bitches” is the equivalent or whatever it translates to in English. A lot of women are rejected by their high body count, it's indicates that men don't love bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:30 AM
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"land whales." This isn't "Chubby" A overweigth girl and a morbid obesity girl is not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:25 AM
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I am 7 years older than my fiancee. And my group of friends who are couples, the men are about 4~9 years older than the women. When I talk to them and my fiancée (whom I met when she was 19), they complain about the lack of maturity in young men. Furthermore, over time I started to have a financially stable life and a more robust and fully developed body, and I noticed that this has attracted women. I was never as attractive in my youth as I am today. In summary, the reasons I'm more attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:37 PM
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Being nice or not is irrelevant, that's why Chadfishing is a thing. The rejected nice guy is morally attacked because he is not attractive, that's all, the woman will never admit that she rejected him because of his weak jaw or because he doesn't have a fat bank account. So the woman needs to come up with a morally degrading excuse so that she signals virtue and doesn't seem superficial; While the girl lies about her reasons for rejection to signal virtue, she sees men with no virtue at all succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:31 PM
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I think your suggestions would greatly avoid several problems, especially the potential for a man or woman to feel used with: He only used me for sex; She only used me for my resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:27 AM
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1st: This is why sex only after marriage is a thing. 2nd: Dutch is a person from the Netherlands, I don't understand what it means in this context. Does it mean everyone pays their part of the bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:12 AM
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"Besides, why would you want those losers who can't stand the truth of who you were and the uplifting journey to who you have become" Because they are not real losers. They are men with options, and because they have options they are also able to choose women who don't have that past. They are called "losers" only by those who cannot recognize responsibility for the consequences of their own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:47 PM
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The term is used to refer to men with high sexual appeal. The word "value" is very subjective and depends on the context used. If your conversation is in church, then the concept of a high-value man would be what you said
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:02 PM
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Feminism is misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:42 PM
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Men without options are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:34 PM
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A person who is incapable of cheating is also incapable of getting a girlfriend or a wife. Therefore, every taken man has the capacity to cheat, if he doesn't do it, it's because he doesn't want to. Furthermore, pre-selection makes a married man more attractive than when he was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:32 PM
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The irony of pre-selection is that it makes the average man more attractive dating than he would be as a single man. Therefore, as a rule, any man who is capable of having a girlfriend would also be capable of cheating. Just look at your personal circle and on Reddit itself and you will notice countless average men who have a girlfriend or are married complaining that when they were single they didn't receive as much attention from women as they do after they started having someone. If a single …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:24 PM
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Volcels exist and are the ones that most attack promiscuity
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 10:25 PM
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This is why women should value personality more. A smart woman should value a man's personality, but without neglecting his appearance. As long as things like pre-selection and appearance are so much more important than morality, they will continue to suffer because of the men they choose themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:28 PM
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When pre-selection leads you to choose a man who has options and self control, yes. When it leads you to a promiscuous man, no. Even worse if he is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:24 PM
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Psy Ops and Propaganda, Women wouldn’t file 80% of divorces if married women where the “vey happy” group. Not a good metric. The woman does not predict the future to know whether requesting a divorce is the decision that will make her more or less happy. Furthermore, this information is just a formality. Many women formally request a divorce from a relationship that has already ended, and often the person who ended the relationship in question was the man. The data you provided says absolutely n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:51 AM
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How can people see the failure of a marriage as a victory?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 02:39 AM
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Just see how women treat you and judge you. If your actions tend to be interpreted as good, you are attractive. If they tend to be interpreted as bad, you are ugly. What I'm going to say is gradual, but I'm going to mention the extremes as black and white and the truth will be between them: * An attractive pedophile would be seen by some women as someone who loves children. * An ugly man who does charity using money would be seen as someone trying to buy sex from the neediest people. These are t…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:55 AM
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I think anyone should have the freedom to adopt whatever arbitrary standard they want, no matter how ridiculous it may seem. That said, people must also bear the consequences of their bad choices. Want to prioritize height over morals? Feel free, it's your right, but accept the consequences of these choices, whether good or bad. It's vile to call short men horrible pervs just because they don't meet your height criteria; It is vile to say that all men are immoral, just because of the tall man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:26 PM
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The church subtly encourages it as long as it stays within the church. It is to their benefit to have a few babies pop out before the young couple is fully ready to take care of it so the church can help raise them all into good lifelong churchgoers who tithe. The church doesn't subtly encourage, it explicitly encourages, and it's not "as long as it's within the church", because the gospel, by definition, invites people to be part of the church, in fact, this is a common trope in which anti- Chr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:51 PM
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Not all people are slaves to their impulses, this type of liberation is even something widely propagated by religion. I know it's hard to admit that there are people who can achieve what you can't, but admitting it is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:49 PM
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Religious people are not. But some religious people certainly .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:36 PM
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Conservatism is the result of philosophy and is therefore more difficult for people to adhere to, while hedonism is just people giving in to their sexual urges like animals. I believe that after a population completely surrenders to hedonism and faces the consequences, the tendency is for this to reduce a little and the number of conservative people to increase, but I think this only happens up to a certain "balance point". I believe that most people will never be conservative, because being con…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:46 PM
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Psychiatric medications, in the long term, tend to cause more harm than good, for several reasons, including addiction, which is one of the reasons why they are sold under control (at least in Brazil). For the rest you are "right", but there is a limit to how much you can improve your appearance, you cannot increase your height, nor cure chronic hereditary diseases, among many other things. A 5 can become an 8 with a lot of dedication, but a 1 would hardly be able to become a 3, and even it woul…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 12:40 PM
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Because incels are ugly or are not neurotipicals
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:20 AM
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I have the feeling that, even without anyone asking anything, women 35+ make a point of saying how happy they are, and this doesn't seem genuine to me. One of my professions is being a teacher, and I have older students, and this is my sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:01 AM
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It's kind of difficult for them to answer this without knowing the OP. Furthermore, a bad choice does not represent an objective reality, perhaps the OP makes or will make a woman much more fulfilled than anyone in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:00 AM
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I only drink clean water. However, if one day I feel extremely thirsty, and only have dirty water to drink, I will probably risk drinking it, depending on how dirty the water is. In this paragraph I'm talking about WATER. Well... I wouldn't accept being the boyfriend of a woman who sees me as tolerable dirty water, who drinks me with a look of disgust, while dreaming of other water that she sees as cold and drinkable. In this paragraph I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT WATER.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:23 PM
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Turtles Ninja
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:20 PM
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I could have used "Brito", Bretel, Britel, or Brutal, I didn't know the word "Brittle" meant anything in English and I used it because of the movie Django.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 08:52 PM
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"Mr" is a male Pronoumn "Brittle" is a transliterated name
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 08:36 PM
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Why me? Why not you? I'm not gay. And i have a girlfriend. And voluntary virginity is a virtue, lose it is unnecessary.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 08:28 PM
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He is fine.Jason Stathan has no hair and he is a Chad. Dwaine Johnson too
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 08:11 PM
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Yes there is. He's the kind, friendly young man who isn't ugly enough to be considered a creepy, but also isn't hot enough to be attractive Normally nice guys while young are friendzoned by younger women, and as they get older they start to be seen as husband material by older women.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 06:08 PM
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No. A good relationship is the only thing better than being single for me. A woman like that wouldn't be able to give me a good relationship
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 05:22 AM
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The beauty of party girls comes off with soap and water, and this lifestyle also makes them age quickly, they may be beautiful at the party, but they are horrible when they wake up next to you. And the women in my church are much more beautiful than the party girls when we compare them without makeup, and this difference increases as age also increases
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:10 AM
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Apples and oranges lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:31 PM
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The used term for this is "feminism" And the feminism is acceptable by society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:13 PM
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Women don't like ugly or average assholes. Only like hot assholes.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:41 PM
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Maybe the breakup blinded your vision. Blondes are not more attractive in general, only for some people who have this taste, that is, the beauty of blondes over Middle Eastern women is subjective. Furthermore, darker skin slows down aging, which gives women an objective advantage as their skin is darker. Now. Maybe you want to be a little vain and take care of your skin, go to the hairdresser more often and do physical activities, so when you look in the mirror and feel hotter, and also when tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:38 PM
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Marriage is a religious thing, and it is not forever, but "till death do us part." No marriage presumes to be "forever", except Mormon perhaps, I don't know enough about that religion to say yes or no. That being said, it is not unrealistic, successful marriages last for life, hedonism drastically reduces the rate of successful marriages, but hedonistic people are not even prepared for marriage. Therefore, the problem is not marriage itself, but people who get married without being prepared for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:31 PM
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Is this a moral discussion? Because if it is, from the moment we place abortion under the rule of acceptable, then aggression against women is also (as well as many other things less worse than abortion) Now... in terms of behavior, the woman cannot veto the man, but there are ways to prevent some things, including: 1 - Not being a porn actress; 2 - Do not marry men who watch pornography; 3 - Do not watch pornography, especially in the presence of a man; 4 - Look for a genuinely Christian church…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:47 PM
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How many people who cheat on their partners are people who would tell researchers the truth? It is a mistake to give a high degree of reliability to a potentially traitorous interviewee when the topic is precisely betrayal. If you watch the paternity trials available on the internet you will see that cheating women lie that they did not cheat, only to later discover that the child is not their husband's, and some of these times not even their known lover's. Just because something is mistakenly l…
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:54 PM
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Having male friends is not a red flag. I'm a man, I have female friends, I have a girlfriend and my girlfriend has male friends. The quality of friends is a red/green flag, after all, tell me who you hang out with and I'll tell you who you are. There is nothing to be reconciled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:25 PM
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The study about organ donors: " and one explanation is that they may be more vulnerable to subtle pressures. " It's not love! About de divorce: The person who initiates the legal process of divorce is not necessarily the one who caused the divorce. A woman who divorces because she is cheated on by her husband is not the cause of the divorce, in this case the cause would be the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:21 PM
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If an unattractive young man comes in and talks to a woman with sexual connotations, he could be lynched or arrested. The friendzone is about attractiveness, and that's all. The boy has a good personality, but is not physically attractive, so he is put in the friendzone, and also husband material for when he is an adult. Before dating my girlfriend, I was friends with her and that didn't affect the sexual attraction we have for each other at all. And I personally think this is the right way, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:33 PM
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It's easy to say that they don't like women who would reject them and they wouldn't be able to take them to bed. But it's hard to believe they're genuine when they say they don't like it. [2] And when you say "dating virgins" instead of "dating a virgin", it suggests that this "dating" in question is not something so serious as to have the intention of marriage. For "casual dating", it is possible that they are genuine, although, at least in Portuguese, I wouldn't call it "dating"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:10 PM
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ok. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:36 PM
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I'm not a fan of casual sex. But if I were, I would just hire prostitutes, it's cheaper and more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:28 PM
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1 – Work hard on your appearance and your studies (Bodybuilding, nice beard, nice hair, nice clothes); 2 – Have realistic standards (Not so high as to want a beautiful nun on the street who becomes a whore in the bedroom, but not so low as to be a Captain Save a Hoe) 3 - Be patient (If you follow steps 1 and 2, you will certainly be better off in your 30s, which is when you will really be attractive to some women, but don't think you will become Henry Cavill) I'm an average guy and I have an ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:58 PM
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With this description it then appears that the USA is not one nation, but several nations occupy the same territory, perhaps the country should change its name to the Disunited States of America. Here in Brazil we have different ethnicities, but there is no separatism, perhaps that is why racism is not common and when it happens it is veiled. The way I read the publications, it seems that separatism there is structural I'm mixed race, much closer to black than white (but phenothically I look Ind…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 10:51 PM
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If it's not wrong to be legal, it's not wrong to be illegal either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:20 PM
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What is "atm"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:22 PM
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I can't understand why legality matters. Right and wrong do not depend on legality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:14 PM
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I would disapprove of hiring prostitution, but not as much as I would disapprove of being a prostitute. I believe being one is worse than hiring one. My answer is regardless of the sex of the children in question, except in the case of paying to contract homosexual relationships with prostitutes of the same sex, which would shock me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:13 PM
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No, but I'm ignoring your presumption, after all every feminist is a hypocrite, since feminism itself is inherently hypocritical. Feminism is misandric, I couldn't be with someone who believes I'm a bad person just because I was born a man. Furthermore, defending any heinous crime is a turn-off for me, and feminists are almost always abortionists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:04 PM
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Yes. The Blackpill. I undermestimated the value of appareance, but the Blackpillers show me that is more important than i thinked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:21 PM
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Need to be a mind reader? Do you really think it's necessary to be Professor Xavier? Actions speak louder than words, if you say you like men with certain characteristics, but choose to only get involved with men who are the opposite of that, then what do you really like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:51 PM
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Men do not criticize the fact that women have preferences, but rather the fact that they lie about these preferences to manipulate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:23 PM
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It's easy to say that they don't like women who would reject them and they wouldn't be able to take them to bed. But it's hard to believe they're genuine when they say they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:17 PM
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Is the situation in the USA that bad or are they exaggerating? Is the USA a very racist country?
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 02:59 PM
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I'm doing this now. I officially work from a "Home Office", but I actually have an office where I am alone and I cycle to it. It's 3.5km to go and 3.5km to return. This, along with a little gym membership has already changed my appearance considerably in a month. At the same time I'm using moisturizer on my face to deal with my dry skin, which is giving great results; At the same time I'm growing my beard, this is also giving great results. And I'm talking about just 1 month, and I started the g…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 01:28 AM
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No Christian girl uses this as a loophole to save her virginity, especially because anyone who has anal sex is no longer a virgin. Furthermore, a girl who supposedly uses this "loophole" doesn't care at all about Christian precepts in any way, and therefore I would have vaginal sex normally. There may even be women who have anal sex to keep their hymen intact, but this has nothing to do with Christianity, and neither Christianity nor the church endorses this.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:42 PM
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Definitely not, especially for women who are underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:35 PM
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It's not a necessity. People do this because they are slaves to their passions and that is why they allow themselves to be carried away by hedonism. Only when the fear of loneliness and failure knocks on the door will these people look for a serious relationship and someone to help carry the damage caused by the "hoe phase". Any really free person can not give in to this. And in my opinion, not being a slave to your passions is what best distances us from being considered mere irrational animals…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:25 PM
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If this were true, India would not be one of the most populous countries in the world and the poor Indian man would have no children. I'm Brazilian, but I look Indian, I get nicknames from Indian characters like Raj, Jamal, Pi, etc. However, I have had no difficulty attracting women since I turned 28. I am normie and I am 1.72m tall, being the average height of my country 1.75m
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 08:15 PM
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I think so. He is repeating some ideas from TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:44 AM
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You are repeating some ideas of TRP and telling them to run away from TRP. TRP also talks about lookmaxing and you should have emphasized that, I am engaged and started doing lookmaxing, my fiancée is loving the results, so much so that she got excited to go to exercise and nutrition because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:41 AM
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"Fall In Love" is about "passion" or about "love"? My English not is good and translators are imprecise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:53 PM
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Friendzone only happens among young people, when the average looking guy has a good personality. For older women, a man with average looks and a good personality becomes husband material, which in my opinion is worse than Friendzone. Truecells tend to be seen as creepys regardless of personality, and the only redeeming quality they could have is a lot of money or fame, which would make them husband material for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:31 PM
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Because sex not is all what men want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:38 PM
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I still steer clear away from males who say they’re a gamer. I don’t even want them around me as friends. That's why I've always been transparent about who I really am to women, it works like a filter. If we met, you would soon know that I like video games and PC games, and you would move away from me. Which would be great for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:20 PM
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I finished Children of Morta with my fiancee. And now I want some other cool coop game. I was lucky in this sense, we play a lot together, recently we played billiards and tetris
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:17 PM
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Because you are not Christians. Christians encourage both. But outside the church, the culture is different and animal instinct and social pressure are in charge. And for women, that means getting involved with promiscuous men, because society says that promiscuous men are winners, while chaste men are failures or weirdos. The best thing, already preached by Christians and statistically proven, is that the man should be the only one for the woman and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:35 PM
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Simply because this is not an absolute rule, but it is what usually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:02 AM
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happily married women, or widows who have had successful marriages, give good advice. women who failed to get men and are now bitter and jealous of younger women give bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:45 PM
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these characteristics have nothing to do with rights
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:53 AM
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In the friendzone if you're a normie. Now if it's truecel, your sympathy won't put you in the friendzone, but it will put you in jail for sexual abuse, or get you fired from your job for creepy behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:52 PM
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Who is not ethnic? Everyone has some ethnicity.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:34 PM
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I'm not truecel, but I think if I were one, I think I would accept it. Yet as a normie, I had demanded reciprocity. I love giving oral sex and rimming, if I were a truecel and had that opportunity, even without receiving anything in return, I would accept it, even with an average woman. For this would be a level of intimacy I could never dream of. Now in my normie status and with some options, I would be in a position to turn this down even if I were single.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:33 PM
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What is "Inkwells"?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:15 PM
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Or right. Sign of a lot of self-control. Also, he will be less likely to get divorced if he gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:26 AM
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Your answer should be fixed in some way. It's the first thing I thought of when reading the OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:21 PM
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Some things look cool when you think abstractly, but in practice it might not be that great. I think "polyamory" is one of those things, as well as being a euphemism for polygamy.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 11:20 PM
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no. I'm straight
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 02:19 PM
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I am against it, especially with Lula as president, this will become an excuse for more taxes and would favor his
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 02:17 PM
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There's no way incels are wrong about something(within the condition of being incels), since being incel has nothing to do with something you believe. Incel is an involuntary condition. Saying "Incels, you're wrong" is like saying "Ugly men, you're wrong", or "Short man, you're wrong". This kind of statement makes no sense at all.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:59 PM
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Yes. But my English is not good enough to explain my reasons, so the best I can do is ask them to research Willian Lane Craig, John Lennox, Dinesh D' Souza and Alvin Platinga. I also suggest reading: The Cosmological Argument and Kalam; The Moral Argument. Any honest person who understands them will believe in a creator. However, just look at the comments and you will realize, by the tone of the words, that the "reasons" against the existence of a creator are purely emotional, therefore, I don't…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 07:57 PM
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For Christians, a man should be assertive, not aggressive. This means that the man must protect the woman fiercely against third parties who threaten her, but he must not practice unjust violence. And anecdotally speaking, men who are aggressive towards the weakest are the most cowardly, since any force majeure has a "calming effect" on them, I once "calmed down" a client at a former job who was being aggressive with a small attendant, he behaved in a super aggressive way, she asked me to go the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:13 PM
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But women's lives would be more difficult, as men would do less for them. On the other hand, this could make women more capable and competent, because without this power they would have to adapt; Sex would be predominantly gay sex between men and sex for reproduction with women; The number of children would decrease considerably, perhaps there would be a large population deficit; The number of couples would be smaller, and the proportion of childless couples would be higher; Unless there is an a…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 06:52 PM
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Nobody before me said. Exactly why I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:37 PM
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Feminism literally preaches the murder of babies in the womb, which is a terrible thing, equated with things like rape or torture. Compared to that, "AMALT" is nothing. It's like saying that not all Nazis cheat at games of chance. In the end, it doesn't matter, as they are worse in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:00 PM
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It doesn't go for traditional women and women who don't need to feel validated by multiple men through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:24 PM
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Any woman who is not obese or anorexic, if she is well made up, "stops being average". But the reality is that you can't compare Margot Robbie to some really beautiful women when they're both without makeup, or even when they're both wearing makeup to a good observer. She would be average next to Eva Kerekes or Kathrin Celeste
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:22 PM
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You can make the safest bet and lose, you can also make the riskiest bet and win. Regardless, the safest bet is the smartest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:16 PM
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The less the better. Ideally, both of you are virgins, but I recognize that being a voluntary virgin requires a lot of self-control depending on how much libido you have. It's something that Christianity said and later proved to be true statistically, as well as being observable via anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:13 PM
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Taking offense at what I said and calling myself names in the form of a rhetorical question makes my point.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:13 PM
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It is a presumption on which the basis of your opinion. Why, definitely, the basis of your opinion is not reasoning, deduction, nor induction, nor any logic. It's purely emotional. And most likely, it's bitterness. I could be wrong, but if I had to put my money on your motivations, this would be it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:03 PM
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This is wrong. You are too bitter. There are worthless men; There are worthless women; There are men of worth; There are women of worth.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:57 PM
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I believe there must be women like that, but "most"? I find it quite unlikely. I think that the black pill and the red pill tell a lot of truths, but when they are wrong, it is mainly in the proportions. I'm sure not even 5% of married women want this, not even among women who have done AF/BB. Also, women always let it show when they hate their respective husbands.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:18 PM
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For any reasonable man, this kind of attitude is a complete turn off. With this kind of pathetic attitude, she will only be "successful" with two types of men: Pathetic, subservient men who will never get her panties wet; Hot men who object to her, who will give in to these pathetic demands just to use her for an oil change, and after they get sick of fucking her, they'll leave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 03:01 PM
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Nowadays there is a certain social pressure among women to train and be "empowered", many end up giving in, when deep down they just want to be good mothers and raise good children. More and more women are being shamed for deciding to be housewives, and when they are young they are more subject to this popular pressure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 02:57 PM
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If I didn't base my opinion on myself, I would be a hypocrite. I can't say, "That's no big deal" to something that, if it were me, I would think was a big deal. I shouldn't tell someone to overlook something that I wouldn't. I think maybe people don't express themselves well when they want advice, a discussion or just to vent, both in person and on the internet. So when someone publicly expounds or tells me directly, "My boyfriend left me because of my sexual past," they just want me to agree, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:56 PM
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When someone comes to talk to me about something, it concerns me. If it doesn't concern me, don't make it public or don't share it with me. This becomes even more true when someone decides to want to cry on my shoulders especially for the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:36 PM
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Don't be a jerk and you'll be fine. This is definitely not true. My comment on r/dating was literally the question, "What's wrong with a man having standards?" Now tell me what is this questioning "jerk" about? In r/TwoXCromossomos men are cursed simply for ending a relationship that started with lies about the woman's sexual past. Now how does that make these men jerks? It's not like their dislike is going to change anything in my life, but they definitely help me get a good read on how society…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:31 PM
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Internet forums are for this, to discuss issues. If that doesn't make sense, then no forums do, except those regarding technical issues. Also these discussions help me to shape my opinion and see things from other points of view. And outside of the internet there is context for this, one of the most common subjects people discuss is relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:27 PM
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And what would "my worldview" be? I'm an average guy, I'm marrying an average woman next year, now just so I have to ignore the obvious being waved in my face? I'm not incel, but I'm a sympathizer Knowing that there are so many women who are so superficial to the point of completely ignoring a guy's personality is quite useful as a filter, I think one of the few advantages an average man has over Chad is that the average man keeps those types of women at bay, while Chad would have to filter cons…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 10:23 PM
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Furthermore, when an average man claims to have standards, such as rejecting women based on their sexual past, they are accused of hypocrites due to the Chads' extensive sexual past. It works like this: * Average man rejects woman for extensive sexual past; * Chad has a lot of sex; * Average man is accused of hypocrisy for rejecting woman for her sexual past while Chad is not rejected by women for having sex. The moral judgments that are made on Incels, Normies and Chads are very unbalanced, and…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 10:03 PM
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True;
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 09:55 PM
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How do I change my odds to 0%?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/23 02:45 PM
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No. this in any country, but especially in countries with low social mobility like Brazil or India. most people who have money are heirs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:15 PM
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being successful doesn't matter. having money and possessions is what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:50 PM
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Chadfishing proves the Blackpill
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 08:45 PM
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Mi gf is a average woman. I 'm a average man, I have 1,72m of height We are very attracted each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:01 PM
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People already know this instinctively. But now with studies, you can't sincerely deny it. Body Count is a risk factor for divorce, cheating and marital unhappiness
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:36 AM
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Non-chads simply don't have high n count letting alone its existence at all. If a non-Chad has sex with a different prostitute per month, in 4 years he will have a body count of 48.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:31 AM
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To say that men who care about body counts are insecure is lying to others and to themselves. The woman is rejected for her body count, so she just "rejects back" the man as a way of denying that she was the one rejected, and then uses "insecurity" as an argument. If they really believed that, they would do as you say, mention right at the beginning that they have a high count as a way of "filtering" men.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 11:20 AM
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His problem was never his looks. His problem is that he is a misogynist, no one owes him sex. If he had a better personality, he would already be married to Scarlet Johanson and two other women. </sarcasm>
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 09:30 AM
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It's not about "working" It's a diagnosis of reality, that's all. What you are going to do with this diagnosis may or may not be useful in your life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:51 PM
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This world is unfair in many, many ways. A tiny proportion of the pop control the majority of the wealth. Western countries like the US go around starting wars with impunity. CEOs crash the world economy over and over, and every time they get rewarded with golden parachutes. Whole regions starve while rich countries throw out food. And all you can think of is a guy who is realizing the shallowness of women of this generation?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:41 PM
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Yes, the attraction decreases. Maybe for some guys it doesn't slow down enough for casual sex, however in the long run it would become more and more unbearable and no matter how physically hot the woman is, her presence will become more and more uncomfortable and repulsive. This lessens to the extent that a guy is desperate for affection or if the guy only sees her as a sex object, but the effect will still be there to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:22 PM
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I'm an average looking guy, I'm engaged to a woman 7 years my junior, and I'm utterly repulsed by women who have tried to settle down with me. I have a history of rejection in my teens and most of my youth, and after a certain age I started to attract a lot of women over 30 and single mothers, or women traumatized by too many failed relationships who came up to me as if they were "giving me an amazing gift , an opportunity to date a wonderful woman". ​ So the guy who complains about this isn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:38 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 05:22 PM
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Studies indicate that women in good marriages are happier than single women. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:27 PM
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Feminism sees women as ideological tools. Of course any feminist male is disrespecting these women equally, intentionally or not. In my experience, feminist men have not been successful with women, yet they have received crumbs of female affection and attention, more than the ugly nice guy, but no more than the average nice guy, yet these crumbs rarely lead to sex. It's like a carrot being dangled in front of the rabbit with a string, a carrot that the rabbit never reaches. Successful men with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:38 PM
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They are slaves to their desires, and therefore project it onto others, thinking that all decisions are driven purely by desire. They fail to understand that there are women with a lot of sexual desire, but also with a lot of self-control and decision-making power to choose who they are going to give themselves to in an intelligent way. I believe this is a form of shaming as well, since virginity is a virtue and well regarded by women as a synonym for restraint and purity. Promiscuous women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:57 AM
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The man who is successful in having sex with multiple women doesn't need to hide it, in fact the more women know about his sexual history, the better for him (as long as it's not self-declared). He won't tell her he wants to fuck a ton of women, but her history says he does, she knows and finds it exciting. She will want to take on the challenge of "arresting a man like this" What women find disgusting is the man who tries to have sex with multiple women and fails, as well as the man who can onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:50 AM
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The man who is successful in having sex with multiple women doesn't need to hide it, in fact the more women know about his sexual history, the better for him (as long as it's not self-declared). He won't tell her he wants to fuck a ton of women, but her history says he does, she knows and finds it exciting. She will want to take on the challenge of "arresting a man like this" What women find disgusting is the man who tries to have sex with multiple women and fails, as well as the man who can onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:50 AM
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Men are not shamed for being promiscuous if they are successful in exercising that promiscuity. In the end, it all boils down to how attractive a man is. A man who is promiscuous because he uses his 1.80 m height and square jaw to have sex with many women is praised by other men and women in particular, will be recognized as a "player". While a promiscuous man who can only satisfy his promiscuity with pornography and prostitution is considered a creepy pervert. Basically, the man will be judged …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:29 AM
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Another is the girl who ignored a guy while letting other men smash, but when those men don't respect her any more or found someone to actually be in a relationship with, she will look at the guy as she ignored as an option for a relationship thinking he is now worthy of her attention. This has happened to me a few times before. I'm that guy, and I find it so offensive. Even though I have a girlfriend today, I still feel bitter when, some woman who rejected me a long time ago, shows interest in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:46 PM
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The woman without autonomy is precisely the one who is incapable of keeping her legs closed. Only women who are not slaves to lust have autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:40 PM
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My fiancée was also a virgin when we started, and our sex life is good. In fact, she likes sex a lot more than I do. A woman who has sex with half the world demonstrates that she has no standards or self-control, not that she enjoys sex more than virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:25 PM
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Here in Brazil there is a concept called "Rodízio de Padrastos" in English it would be something like "Rotation of Stepfathers". In which single mothers tolerate or accept that stepfathers abuse their children in order to maintain their relationship with them. The daughter suffers a lot, as she cannot report it due to her dependence on her own mother, most of the time the daughter in this situation is a teenager and the father is absent. When the father is not absent, it can happen that the fath…
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:05 AM
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This is an expression to say that Christ's love for the church is analogous to the love of a husband. ​ Christ gave his life for humanity; The husband must love his wife as Christ loved the church, even to the point of giving his own life for her (Ephesians 5:25) ​ The church must be submissive to Christ; The wife must be submissive to her husband (Ephesians 5:22)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:41 AM
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I've never seen that hate. Are you sure "hate" is the correct word? This word is so trivialized in English and Portuguese that I suspect you're calling something else "hate", maybe it's something you don't like, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:52 AM
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Nuns are brides of Christ, but that goes for the whole church as well. Any Christian is a bride of Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:51 AM
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Reasons: Not all women; AF/BB; 30+ men are more attractive and have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:46 PM
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I'm not Chad, but my girlfriend almost always initiates conversations, and often does. I think it varies from woman to woman. However, we are talking about the same woman, in which the only variations are you and Chad. And I think in this case, and that's not good for you. Perhaps she chose you to settle down with and this love is not genuine, but it could also be that she has changed the type of person she is. Do a cold analysis to discern if you can.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 03:14 AM
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In modern times there's no reason to rush in to marriage with the first person you meet since there are so many opportunities to get educated I have not defended this at any time. Are you making assumptions about my unstated beliefs? Sorry Redpill people, that ship has already sailed, people these days don't generally raise their daughters to be maids to men. Is anyone here advocating for women to raise their daughters to be men's maids?There is nothing undignified about the maid profession anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:38 PM
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I meant potential and "never" was hyperbole. A woman in her 20's can have a good man, it doesn't necessarily mean that she will choose the good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:15 PM
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Yawn. You make a lot of assumptions here. Many of those 6/10 women do Marry 8/10 men and 10/10 is Brad Pitt level and Brad pitts have sex with Angelina Jolies. So whatever you Meant to say by the relative 10/10 doesn’t make sense I focused on appearance when grading. And Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are not 10/10. Especially Angelina Jolie, who looks cadaverous and sick. I know men and women in their 50s that are much better looking, but without the appeal that fame, money and makeup brings. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:09 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:56 PM
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You shouldn't assume that people get married the day they meet. I met my girlfriend when she was 19 years old, we are getting married next year when she will be 26 years old. The study in question refers only to the date of marriage, ignoring the dating period (I don't know the word in English, that's why I used "dating", but I am referring to the period in which the couple is boyfriend and girlfriend). Dating is just for that. And proving my point, the study says that: "Past the age of 32 or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:55 PM
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You don't have to feel guilty about being attracted to anyone. People might want to make you feel guilty, but that's because they're a bunch of hypocrites. Often what differentiates, in the eyes of society, an abuser from an assertive man with attitude, is how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:38 PM
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Tight shorts are an indicator of a HER personality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:37 PM
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Why punish male rape victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:34 PM
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From the moment that killing becomes an option, it practically becomes the wild card to solve any problem. How to fight hunger? Let's kill everyone who is food insecure; How to reduce the number of rape victims? Let us kill all rape victims; How to reduce overpopulation in a given region? Let's kill half the people in the region in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:32 PM
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Most people, male or female, are capable of committing heinous crimes. However, that is not why this generalization against men occurs. Generalization occurs because: Feminism: The feminist movement survives on crimes committed by men, the problem for such a movement is that very few men actually get to commit a crime, so they need to expand. Unfortunately for feminism, not every man is a rapist, in fact almost none are, so how does feminism get support? Exaggerating (Everything is violence agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:55 AM
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"revenge fantasy" and "the wall" are not mutually exclusive. Just as there are 30+ women desperate for a man as good as some of the ones she rejected at 20, there are also teenage boys with a revenge fantasy. ​ Both happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:28 AM
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Nobody believes in AWALT. It only takes a single exception for AWALT to be false, and everyone knows at least one exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:41 PM
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I'm sure all these women in the pictures get attention from men who are in the same age group as them. Obviously, the elderly women in question will not sexually attract a 24-year-old Chad, but the younger ones can get sex with some of them, as well as a serious relationship with Average Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:14 AM
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the best option is to get a younger woman who doesn't have alpha fucks yet. To these women, men their age are immature and they don't play the chad game. I did that, I was the target of Beta Bucks from the age of 26, so I imposed a limit of 22 years to be able to date me, I ended up with a 20. Today I'm 31 and I'm still the target of Beta Bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:39 AM
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You are right when you say that BB has its advantages, one of which you mentioned, but in my opinion the disadvantages are much greater. You're also right that being a BB doesn't mean being a stepfather, but I wanted to keep my answer closer to the context of the OP's post. I may have failed a bit because of my bad English
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:03 PM
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We are not talking about guarantees, but about chances. Conscious choices give us more chances of better results, whether you are a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:00 AM
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No research conclusively proves this point. However, the IFS research indicate the opposite, both for happily married and for divorce. You have an increase in happiness among those who had 11+ partners compared to those who had 5+ partners, but none of them are happier than those who had 0-1 partners. Also, the more divorces a person has, the greater the chance that he will have another divorce if he marries. Therefore, it is better to marry someone who has never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:58 PM
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Yes. And to say that, especially on the internet, is to be severely prejudiced as a misogynist. Now if a woman says the same, then she is empowered. This trivializes the problem of real misogyny, but the people who do this aren't really concerned about real misogyny, they just want to appear virtuous to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:30 PM
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Here in Brazil, TRP is growing. But Brazil is in America, as are Canada and the United States. I don't know how it is in countries outside America, but I've been looking at some publications by Indians on the web
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:22 PM
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I am only 5’ 5” but women were always nice to me and some of them had sex with me. I'm only 1.72 m, I've also had sex and I'm getting married next year. I love my fiancée, my mother, my mother-in-law, my cousins, my aunts and my closest friends considerably. I can't say, because I don't know people's personal opinion, but I realize that people who are not Blue Pill are pre-judged very negatively. I myself, for despising AF/BB, have been called a woman-hating Incel, however there is a substantial…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:48 PM
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I didn't say: "good men" I said: good men There is an entire sub of nice guys, where bad moral traits are constantly ascribed to men who are unattractive gentlemen, where genuine niceties are confused with subservience and attempts at manipulation. Meanwhile attractive misogynists are considered "good men" A woman with this level of character judgment will choose a "good man" over a good man. And even the woman who is a good judge of character can make mistakes, after all there is no such thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:23 PM
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The ones who won with this were the psychiatrists and the pharmacies that sell Clonazepam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:51 PM
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They earn money from their beta ex-husbands, but they are empty inside, they feel like garbage, they easily indulge in alcohol, cigarettes and go out every weekend to sertanejo, forró or pagode in search of men. Then they complain that these men are scoundrels, because they only used them to "change the oil in their bags". They feel even more unhappy when their children reach adulthood and they get married, they end up alone, and they lose the child support they received for almost 17 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:41 PM
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When the AF/BB strategy is used, there is no genuine love, at least not in the BB phase. A woman who genuinely loves a man, does not put him in the BB phase of AF/BB ​ A man who accepts being a BB does not accept it out of love, but out of need, fear of being alone and/or lack of self-respect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:39 PM
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The best man a woman could marry at 20 with no kids is definitely more attractive than the best man she could marry at 32 with kids. Her strategy of settling down with a good man before AF is much better for the woman in the long run. Using the AF/BB strategy the woman settles down with a man of much lower value than what she would get without AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:32 PM
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AF/BB doesn't end well for anyone, here's why: ​ It doesn't end well for women because: In the end, if she settles down with a male she considers inferior, she will often ask herself "How did I, who slept with so many hot, self-confident guys, settle down with this man with no balls?" Women tend to forgive bad boys for their character flaws, while blaming other men, especially unattractive men, and definitely a man who accepts being Beta Bucks from well-used women, just because they don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:22 PM
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Af/Bb doesn't end well for either men or women. But I'm at work right now so I can't explain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:09 PM
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I'm 31M Black man, my GF is a 25F White woman. But.... We are brazilians
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:48 AM
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Maybe some reddit staffer misclicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:35 AM
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I don't think a significant amount of men believed that, after all women in general look at various things, such as looks, money, status, as well as personality issues like self-esteem. However, if I were the type who thought that women were only interested in looks, I would never get romantically involved with a woman, and if I really felt the need for sex, I would hire one or more prostitutes, after all, prostitutes: They would be the appearance I chose; The amount I would have to contribute w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:40 PM
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Penis do too, that's basic elementary school biology and any 10 year old boy already knows it for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:17 PM
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I understood. Your point really makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:56 PM
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I guess you're right. But what is "wlw"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:50 PM
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She will have. After all, you can feel pleasure with a dildo, which is a fake dick. And I deduce that any dick must be better than a dildo that tries to imitate a dick. Except of course, vibrators and others that do things that dicks don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:37 PM
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It is the interpretation of the motivation of the altruistic act that matters, rather than the motivation itself. And the more attractive you are, the better your motivations are interpreted. An ugly man who genuinely performs a selfless act tends to be interpreted as manipulative rather than genuine, while a hot man who is manipulative tends to be interpreted as genuine if necessary. That's why it's common for women to project the bad boys' bad intentions onto the nice guys. People look at your…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:52 PM
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What do you mean by "brush the women that good"? My English is bad, i'm writing assisted by Google Translate most of time. I want to say that women who chase bad men are not good women to date. I really hope so. I will keep improving myself so that I might have the chance of being with one of those women. But there is only so much "self-improvement" possible when you're already short, not handsome, and neurodivergent. God Bless You! I'm rooting for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:58 PM
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In fact, who is misogynistic or not, objectively, matters little, as misogyny is ignored or presumed according to attractiveness and not reality. Is he hot? So I'll treat it as "non-misogynist". (Misogyny ignored) He's ugly? Then I will consider you misogynistic. (presumed misogyny) Only that. In order not to appear superficial, they transform a man's attractiveness into a judgment of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:28 PM
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In fact, who is misogynistic or not, objectively, matters little, as misogyny is ignored or presumed according to attractiveness and not reality. Is he hot? So I'll treat it as "non-misogynist". (Misogyny ignored) He's ugly? Then I will consider you misogynistic. (presumed misogyny) Only that. In order not to appear superficial, they transform a man's attractiveness into a judgment of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:27 PM
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but sometimes good-quality women too. Sorry to say but the women that run these men are not good quality. As cute or sweet as they seem, they are not worth it, it's better to be single than to have them. I understand all of your dissatisfaction, I have read the comments and am disgusted by the female assumption that the man who doesn't get laid is a misogynist while the hot rapist is defended. It makes me anxious. However in real life, many women are not like these. The man must work on himself …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:12 PM
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My biggest motivation to continue studying and working on myself is my fear of being the man I once was. It's not a certainty that a 20-year-old loser becomes a 30-year-old winner. However, it is certain that certain behaviors, if taken, will make him a better person. And it happens in many cases that such behaviors are taken, and in all these cases, such behaviors work, both emotionally, and physically, and financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:35 PM
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that's true since it's not about "misogyny" accusing nice guys "without quotes" of misogyny is simply a way of showing yourself not superficial, and also lying to them to believe that there is something wrong with their behavior, but it was never really about behavior I've heard a lot of degrading things said by men who are successful in having casual sex about the women they sleep with, and those men are usually taller, better looking, and higher status than the unsuccessful nice guy. When I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:43 PM
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I believe that studies on "married men" and "married women" do not answer this question very well, because this question takes into account people's motivations. I believe that studies that measure this serve to analyze other things and not this one. After all, it's quite normal for women 30+ to marry men they wouldn't even give the opportunity to meet them when they were 20~25. Having children and getting older seems to make women lower their demands considerably, especially when it comes to ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:08 AM
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First of all, I need to clarify: I don't have a "revenge fantasy". I'm just explaining it because the motivators of the "revenge fantasy" are realistic, even though the fantasy itself is wrong and counterproductive. And I never had a revenge fantasy as a teenager, because I believed I would die alone. That being said, what you said is not true, although I know 31 year old women dating much older men as well as much younger men (I know couples 39F/33M and 55F/31M), in general they seem to have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:52 AM
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That is true. I also realize that many men called "immature", "irresponsible" and "scum" constantly have women wanting to have sex with them. When I was a teenager nice guy, I was called nice words like "cute", "nice", "intelligent", "a good husband-to-be", but the abusive boyfriend who had sex was called "idiot", "abuser" or things like "that bastard just wants to use me for sex" were said. That is, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if the woman says it's not a compliment, what matters i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:20 AM
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Eu tenho inveja do seu Inglês. E concordo contigo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:56 AM
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"When I get older, women like you will want me and I will reject them" "When you're all down and I'm successful, you'll come after me and I won't" This cartoon is a ilustration of revenge fantasy: https://i.imgur.com/ZDYzphx.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:50 AM
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especially in Third World Countries I 'm speaking from Brazil. So, when women view the "men don't care about your earnings" it can be counterproductive because some can put their dreams and plans on hold in order to "attract a man" Counterproductive or not, it's the truth. Here in Brazil, traditional men, like me, are willing to be the sole financial provider in the home, in order to make paid work optional for women. Thank God I have a return that allows me to say to my fiancée: "If you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:44 AM
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I also don't have and never had a revenge fantasy, and it's for love that I'm in a relationship with a woman 7 years younger than me. Yet cases like mine and yours have the potential to fuel a rejected teenager's revenge fantasy. And that doesn't depend on our wills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:16 AM
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If a woman were to get catcalled when walking down the street, she would probably hate it. It depends on the man. If it's Henry Cavil or Caio Castro, they'll like it. But if it's one of your bricklayers, they'll hate it. ​ If a woman was inappropriately touched by a man, she would be traumatized. If a man was inappropriately touched by a woman, he would probably think it was awesome and would brag about it to his friends. Both depend on the man, the first depends on the woman too, at least a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:44 PM
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I also find it strange. ​ The questions imply that for me to be successful sexually, as well as on dating apps, I need to be unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:27 PM
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Let's see if the red pill really works. "Do you know any self-described red pillers, or guys who seem red pilled?" I am. ​ "Are they sexually successful?" I am ​ "Do they spin plates?" I don't know what "spin plates" means. ​ "Are they constantly bombarded by horny girls on online dating apps?" I am not into dating apps as I am engaged and faithful. However, eventually I have taken many chances with a woman who calls me on Facebook, as well as with someone I meet in my daily life. And look, I ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:24 PM
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My English is not very good, but I have the impression that you don't know how to distinguish "being able to have casual sex" from "actually having casual sex" A man can be attractive and not interested in casual sex, so he gets married and has a wife who is very turned on by him. Maybe I misunderstood, English is not my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:03 AM
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I've always had far more opportunities with older women than the other way around. Also, the older a woman is, the greater her chance of having children, and if there's something that makes a woman lower her standards, it's being a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:49 PM
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I have a problem with that narrative too. A man who gets a younger woman does not do it because it is easier to conquer or manipulate her, because if that were the case, he would get an older one, one who believes that he should hurry up and get a husband while there is still time, a who feels he has no time to waste. A 35-year-old man, well settled financially, would have much more difficulty conquering and overcoming a 25-year-old woman who receives a lot of offers from big boys her age, than …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:27 PM
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1) religious men: I spoke of them in my "1" 2) men who cannot score chicks: I spoke of them in my "2" 3) very small minority of non religious men who choose to be virgins despite the ability not to be: I spoke of them in my "1" But since you want to disagree, you can bring up the asexuals I ignored. They are so rare that I even disregarded them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:19 PM
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Society says: Women like gentle, romantic men; Reality: Women commonly confuse kindness and romanticism with weakness and self-loathing; ​ Society says: One day women learn to stop liking the bad guys and start liking the nice guys; Reality: There are women who genuinely like nice guys. However, there are also women who like the bad guys, but try to somehow settle for the good guys when things go wrong. ​ Society says: Casual sex is good and liberating; Reality: The more romantic and sexual part…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:20 PM
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There don't seem to be as many bitter and angry men as you imply. Is your question honest or is it just shamming? And I say this because I often see men being interpreted as angry just for writing (or saying) a plain and simple truth. Here in this very sub, I literally saw things like: * Man: "A woman lies to herself and others when she says she genuinely wants the man she imposes a bunch of rules on having sex with him while she has casual sex with other men. What really happens is that she has…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:59 PM
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The approaches of the one who became medium would be seen as sexual abuse, so he, at least until he got used to his new appearance, would have a lot of problems. I believe he would suffer from depression and severe self-esteem issues. While what has become handsome would find everything super weird, but in a good way, as in general both men and women will treat him better and prejudge him better, he won't need much to be considered smarter or nicer overall. . His self-confidence would increase c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:09 PM
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Why do you think women changed towards you in your personal case? I gained weight and became economically stable. I was very skinny (I'm 1.72m tall and under 60kg) However I feel much more difference in the fact that starting to date has made me more attractive, I believe the same version of me but single would still make me invisible to many women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:56 PM
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I have the impression that it is much easier to manipulate a woman over 30 who feels she has little time to get a man, than a woman in her 20s who knows she still has a lot of time to settle down. Young women literally say they are too young to settle down, and would only make exceptions for (the perfect man), while older women (especially when they are single mothers) are much more accepting of men's negative points and even some abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:19 PM
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Besides this being my situation, it's the friends I have. I practically walked up to a woman from a group of women, asked her out and today she is my fiancée. I'm 31(Almost 32), she's 25, I'm her first boyfriend, and she's my first girlfriend. Not only that, women look and treat me totally differently today than it was 10 years ago, where I only had to deal with indifference and contempt. Anecdotal evidence from many men is extremely strong in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:10 PM
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Não, não, agora tenho 30 anos, há muito mais mães solteiras querendo namorar comigo agora que sou educada com carreira e carro. Não acontecia assim aos 20 e poucos anos. Me too. And a lot of my friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:52 PM
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I'm a man who was rejected a lot as a teenager, but I'm very desirable now at 31, but I'm not single. I now have 2 high-status jobs and a girlfriend 7 years younger than me, and I take considerable offense when a woman shows any sort of interest in "me" as I get the sense that they are keeping an eye on my resources as well as feeling the desire to compete with my girlfriend. On the one hand my ego is high, on the other hand I feel resentment that someone is trying to use me. I really don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:50 PM
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I take offense at this kind of posture. Here in Brazil they say: "I'm tired of irresponsible bad boys, now I want a real man", and then they go in search of the working man, bringing their traumas, children of other men and dark circles under their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:16 PM
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That's my situation. I was the "cute friend" when I was 20. Today, at 31, I am coveted as a material husband. I resolved the situation by choosing a woman 7 years younger than me and at a time when I was low on money. In a way, the fact that I date a woman 7 years younger makes me attract more women, ironically this profile of women rejected me when I was 20 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:11 PM
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In modern marriage there is no advantage for women, as they will have a double shift and will not have any time for themselves. However in a traditional marriage they will be able to handle their tasks without worrying so much about resources, as the husband will be handling it outside. Leaving time for both at the end of the day to enjoy. There are mixtures of both as well, but there are so many gradations that it's not worth talking about, so I focused on the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:44 PM
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You summed it up well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:59 PM
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Women are clump of cells too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:59 PM
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"1" is a lie.If is a lie, then not is reality. Nobody is free from the winds of chance, you had no influence on the overwhelming majority of events that put you where you are now. To be TRP, it has to be true, and this is not.However, I may have misunderstood it, due to my poor English. For the rest, you are absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:51 AM
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can be easily prevented When I look at the absurdly increased rate of single mothers, both in official data from the IBGE (Brazilian Institute of Geography and Statistics), and around me, I notice that it has not been so easy to avoid. And from what I've been reading in US statistics, it doesn't seem to be much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:40 AM
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I don't know what is "mfs"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:34 AM
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I did not give an opinion so that there is disagreement. This is the result of scientific research, I don't know if I can post links here, but you can find several studies at the Institute For Family Studies. Relationship happiness and the divorce rate are seriously undermined by the number of sexual partners each spouse has before marriage. In general the point is not to do "before marriage" with the same person you are marrying, but with different partners, however it is also uncommon for peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:32 AM
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It depends on what you define as "opposing political views". Irreconcilable value differences do not allow the relationship to work out. I would not get involved, for example, with a woman who supports the murder of babies, or politicians who kill millions of people, as these things demonstrate the person's character and make the person even a risk to be around; On the other hand, if "opposing political views" are between logistical rather than moral issues, such as divergence between the alloca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:58 PM
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This would reduce most social and individual problems. There would be less: Single mothers; Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks; Depression caused by [False freedom / Difficulty connecting with someone / et cetera ]; Abortions and other forms of abandonment and murder of children; Divorces; Sexually Transmitted Diseases; And others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:54 PM
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