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Do you always believe what women say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:09 PM
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Hypergamy is the flow of the river. It's been that way for hundreds of thousands of years. Things haven't suddenly changed. You can either swim up current or build a hydro-electric dam. Unfortunately, many guys are choosing to swim up current. They aren't doing anything to improve their situation. They are working out. They aren't looking for more money. They ignore giant red flags to get their lil wiener wet. It's no wonder they are failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:46 PM
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You're describing a dude-bro with some gentleman traits. Keto diet? Fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:38 AM
3

Well said. I use to use a lot of self-depreciating humor. I had a female friend ask me about it. "Why are you always so down on yourself?". It gave me a lot to think about. My female friends were always great about talking to me. In high school, a friend once talked to me about a buddy. She told me he was holding me back socially. She said everyone likes me, they just leave me out because they didn't like him. I ended that friendship afterwards. My social life got 10x better afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:15 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:22 PM
8

Your mother is the only person who will love you for who you are. Further proving that guys are really just looking for a new mom to heat up their nuggies while they game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:11 PM
2

Neither. You're view of a trad man is very misguided
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:45 PM
1

I wonder how many of these failed marriages were because they met them online and felt a "spark" instead of actually getting to know them and realizing they're a piece of shit? Or how many were passport bros that got used for citizenship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:12 PM
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Somewhere in between
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:50 PM
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Get off the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:14 PM
5

Always reminds me of when gay people said "roommate".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:44 PM
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It's what we did before apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:23 PM
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The headache line is a trope now. Nobody would believe it. I've never known a woman to say it or a man that's heard it passed the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:45 PM
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"Average" is drastically different than it was 30 years ago. The average now looks like Patton Oswalt. People thirty years ago took care of themselves. Unattractive has never been trendy. Short and fat has never been attractive. Guys need to wrap that around their dumb heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:31 PM
5

Get off the apps. You get a better feel for people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:22 PM
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You can meet women literally anywhere. I don't know where this comes from that women can only be met under certain parameters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:06 PM
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proven how? An article from a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:54 PM
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Agreed. Guys used to work to be better at least. Now they just roll over, die, and try to drag everyone down with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:21 PM
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We saw the same thing during the PUA days. Keyboard Cowboys that'd read every book and message board but had no real world experience. They just parroted what the books told them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:47 PM
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The red pill 4 is a 7 to regular people. This idea that they have low standards is nonsense. The male Gorlock still wants a hot gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:30 AM
3

Teen love is something....... different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:26 AM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:18 PM
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I like it when guys try to class it up by calling them escorts instead of hookers. Escorts date for money. They're not just fuckin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:41 PM
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Approaching like we see on tv doesn't work. Women don't want to be approached with dumb canned lines and opinion openers. You have to figure out other ways. I'll ask women in the produce department to help me pick fruit. They don't need to know I worked in a produce department in high school and I'm perfectly capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:08 PM
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Why do any of you care if women don't like your standards? Stop apologizing. Have your standards. Let them be mad. Guys need to stop even acknowledging this stuff and just own it. I couldn't possibly care less if some broad is upset that I'm not into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:47 PM
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Being "nice" and pretending to be a woman's friend doesn't make you a good person either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:37 AM
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Apps in general are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:00 PM
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Guys in 2023 get their idea of approaching from tv. TV is written to get a specific outcome in the allotted amount of time. It's not real and doesn't translate to real life. Goofy lines and stuttering out your name doesn't work. There needs to be a reason and context to talk to women besides muh sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:56 PM
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On what planet does a small city only have 100 single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:39 PM
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Lol riiight.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:16 PM
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Small cities aren't "the middle of nowhere".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:36 PM
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I wonder how that's working out for the guy reliant on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:31 PM
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I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:06 AM
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There's tons of small cities. There's 267,000 in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:59 AM
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Cooking, doing laundry, cleaning up after them while they game 6 hours a day. Most guys aren't looking for a partner. They're looking for a new mom that'll play with their wiener.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:51 AM
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Cold approaching like you see on tv doesn't work. Adapt or get out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:47 PM
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You can meet people literally anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:42 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:17 PM
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In America. Most of the planet isn't socially r-worded like we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:47 PM
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Only 3 in 10 people online date. It's far from the norm that reddit thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:58 PM
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Introversion means large gatherings are exhausting and alone time recharges their batteries. They don't always like being alone. I don't know why this garbage generation needs to redefine everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:47 PM
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traditional men aren't playing video games and programming. Guys today think growing a shitty beard to hide their chins makes them "men".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:44 AM
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Women want what they've always wanted. But guys aren't raised to be men anymore, so we get non-traditional women and guys that want a traditional partner, and that math doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:33 AM
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The right answer always falls between the extremes (red and blue)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:36 AM
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"men" Ever the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:53 PM
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No pills are even cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:49 PM
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Pills can't solve everything. Boys need father figures back to learn to work and live with these instincts. Learn to keep it down. Find other outlets. With great power comes great responsibility and all that. Not the feminist "be better" nonsense. Women don't understand the male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:18 PM
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They have a better quality of women. They aren't just pulling in skanks off the street. Many of them are likeable as people. Nobody loses their temper. They aren't calling the guests names. These are Michael's friends. Just makes for a better show. Nobody is tightly wound like Myron is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:16 PM
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I see clips. The whole point is to kick off women that dare challenge them. Women are catching on. I've seen clips where the host tries to trap them with some silly manosphere question about height, and the girls don't give him the answer he wants, so he calls them liars. I can't watch Fresh and Fraud clips. I just can't stand either host. They're insufferable. I do like Michael Sartain's show though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:39 PM
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I don't online date or believe any of that coffee date nonsense. I typically ask them out, so I'll pay on the first date. But the best relationship I had was just a sometimes I pay, sometimes she paid situation. We didn't keep up with it. It wasn't 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:59 AM
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How can they know there's no reward when they don't try to begin with? That's stupid dopey dumb-dumb logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:29 PM
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I like my women a little broken. I like the challenge. I don't have the unrealistic expectation that a lot of guys have that think relationships should be easy like they see in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:02 PM
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Guys put like 4% effort into their pictures. No creativity, bad lighting, bad composition, no basic editing for things like white balance and saturation. Every guy has the same pictures. Holding up a carp they caught, them with their arm draped over their dog's shoulders, and them standing on a hill with the sun directly behind them. There's hundreds of videos on YouTube on how to take decent photos. And buy a fuccing tripod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:26 PM
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It's buzzwords used by people to shift the blame for their shortcomings and bad behaviors. Social Anxiety is just a buzzword for awkward shy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:48 AM
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That's made up nonsense like razorblades in apples. Nobody thinks a guy taking a knee in front of a lost and scared child is an "abuser".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:50 AM
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Talk to them like people, not commodities to be had. Understand that if you're one of those self-described "introverts" with social anxiety, women don't like people in their personal bubble anymore than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:19 PM
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You vastly underestimate the number of adult adolescents out there in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:42 PM
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You're going to throw your back out grasping at those straws. It's easy to disregard anything you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:18 PM
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I think men should speak up, in general, when they see something wrong. All through school I spent a fair amount of time defending kids from bullies. Guys are terrified to help lost children. It's a big problem. Nobody is asking you to be Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:48 PM
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Right!?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:22 PM
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Divorce was FAR less common when people waited for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:20 AM
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Reddit doesn’t equal ALL men. Just because they underrate themselves, doesn’t mean the rest of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:53 PM
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And similar attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:10 PM
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I mean, young women don't want guys their own age, and older guys don't want older women. There's no other option than for young guys to get older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:54 PM
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The term is fuckboi, FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:31 PM
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lol, Blue isn't real. And the entirety of Red is trying to fool themselves into thinking it's not their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:48 PM
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The average guy looks like Patton Oswalt. What's he going to do? Debate hot girls why they should give him a chance? It's laughable. No good would come of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:42 PM
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That was Bowling for Soup, not Simple Plan.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:37 PM
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Wouldn't exist if guys weren't willing to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:28 AM
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Divorce was less common when people waited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:26 PM
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The gym is losing it's luster. People are reporting to working out at home more and more to avoid fitness "influencers". It'll start becoming more about HOW people train. Women like lean muscle. Bodybuilding physiques are only getting other dicks hard.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 04:18 PM
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Ok, you start.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:42 PM
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Let's not act like Red Pillers aren't desperate to get their dick wet. They just try to cover it up with "sex is an important part of relationships".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:43 PM
0

Exactly. TRP is PUA without the direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:21 PM
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Why can't both people share responsibility? TRP is just as guilty of blaming the other sex for EVERYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:35 PM
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I have more respect for the PUA community than I do TRP. At least they proactively tried to get passed their issues. TRP just cries about it. A few talk about what they SHOULD do. But not how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:08 PM
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Yes you do. It’s men that built everything. They built the infrastructure. All the tech women use all day, everyday. We get our hands dirty doing all the jobs women don’t want to. Without guys, women wouldn’t make money on OnlyFans or TikTok. Like it or not, we need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:53 AM
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If you get a relationship, they lose 2 customers. That's bad business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:51 AM
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That's because those apps were intended as hook-up apps for hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:54 PM
0

I haven't rolled my eyes this hard in a while. Bottom line is, guys are socially r-worded and terrified of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:08 PM
1

Wearing clothes that fit your body......
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:05 PM
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Jacked short guys just look like ninja turtles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:56 PM
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It doesn't make sense for the sex that runs literally everything to be subservient to the sex that needs us, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:31 PM
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Their 4 is a regular person's 7. It's never been enough to say "they can't be fatter than me". Guys are every bit as delusional as the women they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:39 PM
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Self-depreciating humor is also a problem. It's overused. Every once in a while is funny. All the time is just sad.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:23 PM
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Dating apps are designed to make you fail. I don't know why that's so hard. Guys want a hot GF with no effort SO bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:18 PM
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Guaranteed, several guys are saying "well I'm funny, but can't get laid". If you think you're funny you're usually not. "But they laugh at my jokes". They're humoring you so you don't feel bad.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 03:15 PM
1

Nothing physically changes when a guy loses his virginity. There's no reason, if he's a functioning adult, that anyone should have a clue he's a virgin.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:20 PM
0

Makes me glad I’m from west Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:45 PM
2

Guys think older women are easier
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:44 PM
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Not sure if you know this, but people online are D-Bags. All brave hiding behind screens. You shouldn't ever take the opinions of anyone online seriously. They're just looking to get a rise out of you with their critiques and dumb political opinions.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:07 PM
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I spent too many years partying hard and drinking, on top of having MS. I don't expect to live past 55 anyways. I've had my fun and sexy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:03 PM
3

It's disappointing to watch. I spent a brief time in the early 2000s involved in the PUA community. Like most others, I read The Game by Neil Strauss and got interested. Typically nerdy guys trying to address being bad with women and figuring out ways to get past it. It didn't take long before it just became too much work. Always in your head planning your next move, all the canned bullshit. It wasn't worth it. I found myself looking towards guys like David Wygant and Mark Manson. A more natural…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:56 PM
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What part of 'University Library' sounds like it's a cool place to pick up chicks? Much like the gym, people go for a reason. And it's not to be targeted for sexual encounters with canned lines by awkward dorks. I'm a big believer that you can meet women anywhere, but club game isn't going to work there. It's different and takes a little self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:59 PM
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ok, but I'm just talking in general. The amount of guys mad that women prefer better looking guys is dumb. Guys prefer better looking women, why wouldn't they prefer better looking guys? Why aren't they taking steps to be better? Something as simple as shaving their stringy face-pubes and moisturizing their skin. Putting down the Doritos and losing weight.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 01:34 PM
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subs like this wouldn't exist if they accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:50 PM
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I don't get the mental gymnastics it takes to think people shouldn't be attracted to attractive people.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 12:38 PM
2

Literally anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:54 AM
2

Guys need to stop getting their dating advice from tv. It is written to have a certain outcome in an allotted amount of time. It's not real. It's never appropriate to "ask out" a total stranger and pressure them to give you their time.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:51 PM
3

Manlet Energy lol
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 05:37 PM
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It doesn't work if you don't do it. You can't "manifest" friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:35 PM
1

I like how guys try to make it sound classy by calling them escorts instead of hookers
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 03:33 AM
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Vaginas are 3-7 inches deep. Girth matters WAY more than length.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 01:33 AM
1

I like trashy hot. A little broken.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:21 PM
-2

It's not literal fucktard. It just means be aware of your hygiene. Hygiene is right there with tall and fit on the list of things girls want in a guy, but guys conveniently forget to talk about it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:49 PM
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Guys need to stop worrying about the place and worry about the how.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:14 PM
-3

The manosphere is just the new version of the PUA community of the late 90s. Except they actually attempted to better their situation and find a workaround. The manosphere just complains. Michael Sartain is the only guy worth listening to. The women he has on MOA are just all-around better people, unlike Everywhere and Fraud and Fit.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:34 PM
2

No. I'm 6'3 and 220lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:03 PM
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Every time someone talks about "approaching" I picture a guy in silk pajama pants and a red smoking jacket with his elbow propped on the door frame. Targeting a woman for sexual annihilation with his goofy canned lines, innuendos, and general creep vibe. This wouldn't even be a conversation if guys would learn to naturally interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:26 PM
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I don't think you get it. The why doesn't matter. Those fuccs won't be a problem anymore. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:03 AM
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I'm 6'3. Short women are a pain. It's awkward to show them affection. I prefer 5'8-5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:23 PM
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skinny jeans, painted nails, hair buns. I'm surprised they don't have clutch bags yet.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:15 PM
1

5% taller in cm than their ancestors 100 years ago. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:12 PM
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Because older people shrink because their spines start curving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:41 PM
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It's crazy to me that it never occurs to incels that they obsess over the small handful of women that like those types of guys, and they use that to generalize ALL women.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:52 PM
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Incels are SO weird.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:28 PM
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Crazy that women are weary of Middle-Eastern guys after centuries of mistreatment by them.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 04:26 PM
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That 14.5% applies to the US. Not the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:01 PM
1

I'd say young guys are trying to dress more feminine.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:45 PM
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Problem is, guys are horned man-babies looking for sex first before relationships, so women have the power. And the sex is more powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:54 PM
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14.5% of people are 6ft or over. I doubt they're "almost always" 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:25 PM
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Pornstar, August Ames, hung herself after being bullied online for not wanting to work with a guy that did both gay and straight porn. Gay porn doesn't rigorously test actors for STDs the way straight porn does. She didn't want to risk it. People started calling her homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:07 AM
0

It's just the modern version of late 90s PUA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:47 AM
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I'm 42. The list of things that DON'T make this generation garbage would be shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:02 PM
1

That's how it's always been.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 04:03 PM
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Like Hell they aren't.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 03:53 PM
-8

Guys are directly to blame for everything they cry about when it comes to women. They spend their teens looking for girls slooty enough to play with their wiener and convincing them they're only good for sex. Then shocked Pikachu face when women are in their 20s being slooty.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 03:42 PM
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There's a hundred red pill message boards you can join if you don't want debate. Hell, join misc on the Bodybuilding.com forums
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:24 PM
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Guys, I hesitate to say men, view women as a commodity to be had. Not people. They can't wrap their heads around the fact that everything they cry about exists because of their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:19 PM
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They're anti-social and weird. Shy. And they try to put the blame on things like being an Autist for why they can't get laid, because this generation lacks the ability to accept blame
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 03:01 PM
-4

Bigger issue is lack of father figures to teach them. They're already socially stunted because of social media. Add on top of that, they learn flirting and dating strategy from movies, tv, and podcasts.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 02:54 PM
2

Sure. Sex happens when people date. But, this garbage generation likes to think dating happens after sex. I don't respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:45 PM
1

Good. It's a dating app. Not a sex app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:35 PM
0

Much like AOL back in the day, there'd be no pictures on profile. You only give them on request when you start talking to someone, so you'd have to put actual effort into your profile to sell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:26 PM
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Watch Fraud and Fit, Everything, MOA, or any other show. Most of the women are single. Women are all pursuing the top and the top are unavailable for most of them. 30% of the guys on apps are married and looking for gash. It's common sense. Single guys that they actually want aren't available to them for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:29 PM
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Quit conflating casual sex with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:10 PM
1

A woman has to trust you and feel safe, and that's not going to happen stuttering out that you think she's cute and wanted to talk to her. Talk to her like a person and not a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:56 AM
-2

I'm 90% sure incels would take a shot in the mouth from chad if he offered.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 01:59 AM
6

Those hypotheticals though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:44 AM
1

That's why you get her number. So you can ask her for a date. New to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:46 PM
2

Blue Pill isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:46 PM
3

Young women would rather drink wine in an Infinity pool than shitty beer in a dorm room.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:41 PM
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Rule of three
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:05 PM
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Most guys sleep with 6 women in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:50 PM
1

33% is enormous?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:22 PM
4

Only 3-in-10 people online date. Dating app "statistics" don't apply to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:19 PM
19

That's ridiculous. "Confessing" your feelings is always a bad idea, anywhere. It's unfair pressure. You're hoping that by putting her under that pressure, she'll say yes. It almost always puts you in a bad light. If you build rapport with a friend or co-worker, ask for her number and go from there. Keep your hands to yourself, don't use canned lines, and don't make sexual jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:08 PM
1

Statistically, just as many young women are having trouble finding partners too, but red pillers like to ignore that. Because they know it's their own fault they're lonely. Just like women, they shoot for higher than they are. An incel 4 is a 7 to regular people. I heard Michael Sartain say yesterday as well, that 30% of the guys on apps are secretly married. Which is a whole other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:05 PM
4

Weird way of saying you aren’t interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:29 AM
0

They have pu$$y. That’s all they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:27 AM
1

I mean, guys are willing to spend thousands cutting up their face to get 10 minutes of friction with them, so they must have something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:33 AM
16

Very few guys strive to be exceptional. Most guys complain on the internet about hot women not liking mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:56 AM
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Get. Off. The. Apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:08 PM
-15

90% of self-proclaimed Autists are just self-diagnosed weird kids making an excuse for their shyness. This garbage generation loves pointing the finger at things.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 07:55 PM
2

I'll never understand people that make videos in their cars in an empty parking lot.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 07:25 PM
1

Most of guy's problems are directly caused by guys themselves, apologizing and not standing up for themselves, because secks.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 04:41 PM
0

Lol wut?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 02:46 PM
-1

You’ve plainly misunderstood the entire feminist movement as an excuse to hit women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:47 AM
-4

Do you kick puppies?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 04:11 AM
3

Sure, that's why many white guys hate black people. Hypermasculine, better athletes, bigger dicks. Fear of black guys stealing their women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 04:08 AM
-4

I mean, guys aren’t either. An incel 4 is a 7 to regular people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 10:53 PM
3

He's awful.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 10:20 PM
7

Would you date someone you're not attracted to?
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 08:13 PM
1

That Better Bachelor guy is hard to watch. Every thumbnail has some super hot broad with her tetas out.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 07:35 PM
3

Sounds like some "bone-pressed" nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 07:30 PM
2

It's almost like they care about more than looks.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 03:56 PM
-1

For most guys, it ALWAYS comes back to sex. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:54 PM
-1

Maybe if you put effort into being what women want instead of crying about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:16 PM
1

Talk to her as a person and not a commodity to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:35 AM
0

Men are supposed to be the leaders in relationships. If you can't cowboy up to make the first move, you don't have the balls to be a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:02 PM
1

You didn't ask a question.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:59 PM
1

Don't put words in my mouth
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:36 PM
16

Pretty sure this means a 5 could be happy with a 4.5. A 9 won't be happy with a 4, which I'm sure most of you read it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 PM
3

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/online-relationships-are-doomed-to-fail/#:~:text=The%20book%20Cyberpsychology%2C%20Behavior%2C%20and,of%20a%20happily%20ever%20after. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:08 PM
2

I didn't?
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 07:06 PM
4

Has nothing to do with skin color. Men ultimately want peace in relationships. They’d feel the same way about a loud white girl.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:55 PM
4

Stereotypes. Black men don’t have patience for loud ratchet black women either.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 04:41 PM
1

Exceptions aren’t the rule. A small community on a niche website doesn’t speak for even a little of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:38 PM
2

Young people are socially r-worded. Want in one hand, shit in the other. Which one fills up first?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:40 PM
12

It's weird to me the excuses guys come up with, blaming women, instead of just accepting that young people are socially r-worded and lack any kind of drive or ambition. Instead of looking for solutions, they get online and cry about it. What happened? Did your bawls drop off? /Joker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:22 PM
9

Only 3-in-10 people online date. It's not the super common norm that Reddit likes to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:03 PM
38

Step outside. Go walk around Target. Regular couples are everywhere. They aren't on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:06 PM
2

Pretty much what the doctor said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:38 PM
1

She wanted him in church. She didn’t mention sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:37 PM
3

She was thin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:31 PM
2

Collapse of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:32 AM
9

She wasn't unattractive. Just not THAT hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:21 AM
8

Tall, Fit, can dance Salsa, can lift her over his shoulders, be Christian. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:16 AM
2

It's rare to be objectively ugly. It's almost always hygiene and lack of fashion. Jaw bones emerge when they lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:03 AM
3

Not even close to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:05 AM
6

Most people need to get over themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:11 PM
4

Women spend more on beauty products. Guys use 3-in-1 body wash, wash their face with the same rag they wash their balls with, and don't use a moisturizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:12 PM
6

I'm sure people in successful marriages that waited would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:38 PM
8

Proof guys aren't interested in relationships. They're interested in the regular sex that comes with relationships. It all comes back to getting their wiener touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:04 PM
1

Post a pic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:59 AM
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Because their ratings and their “standards” exist on different planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:56 AM
8

Lean muscle matters. Women don't like the bodybuilder physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:46 AM
-5

Sympathy, pity, and a shoulder to cry on.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 01:24 AM
-1

I don’t use apps
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 11:52 PM
-8

Guys now are so needy
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 11:41 PM
0

Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:32 PM
-1

Women think if they believe hard enough that everyone else will believe they’re a 10 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:16 PM
1

I mean, basic guys with bad haircuts do it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 11:14 PM
1

I’ve gotten hooked on Paternity Court clips on YouTube
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 09:31 PM
5

Dating apps are designed to make you fail, to keep you as a customer. Use a little common sense.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 06:19 PM
3

I lost my virginity to a pregnant broad I met on AOL in 2001.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:29 PM
0

I don’t know about any of that
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 12:01 PM
1

Being emotionally vulnerable doesn’t mean looking for a shoulder to cry on. A lot of guys confuse that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:15 AM
5

“Studies” aren’t evidence. That’s why they are called studies.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:11 AM
-1

Blue Pill isn't real. It's just how red pill describes anyone that doesn't subscribe to their bro-science.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 01:58 AM
1

I think many guys just wait too long to get started. They put it off to put all their effort into school. Then they're struggling in their mid-20s. They can't emotionally handle being dumped or cheated on. They can't kiss without eating the other person's face. They're WAY behind, and nobody wants to be their learning experience. They should have started in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:52 AM
7

Most people have unrealistic expectations. Not just women. Guys have the exact same delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:32 AM
-2

It'd help overpopulation. Guys would learn to clean up after themselves. Cook. Do laundry. It'd help hoeflation. Women would hook up with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:16 AM
3

If you want a traditional partner you have to be traditional yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:48 PM
3

I'm pretty sure 90% of this sub is bi-curious
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 09:57 PM
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Guys wanting sex from out of their league women and women upset that out of their league men don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:52 PM
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Accepting? No. Willing to settle to get their wiener touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:43 PM
2

I immediately think of those weird TikTok and twitch streamers with the stupid bright hair that cross their eyes when they talk. I read comics growing up but unless I was talking to other comic nerds I kept it to myself. Many guys push gaming on everyone around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:36 PM
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The average guy isn't a default create-a-character in a video game. He looks like Patton Oswalt. Tubby, average height, and asymmetrical looks. Much like women, guys like to think they deserve better than they are. I know they'll say they'll happily take a 4, but their 4 is a 7 to regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:11 PM
1

Apps are designed to make you fail, numbnuts.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:40 PM
2

It’s almost like they have better trained surgeons.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:14 PM
1

Soap Opera stars are the only good plastic surgeries I see. Everything else looks like Nikki Cox and Mickey Rourke. Even many boob jobs look atrocious, with a scar going from the nipple to the underside.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 02:07 PM
3

Plastic surgery just makes you look like you had plastic surgery.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 11:42 AM
1

One of the problems with PUA is that they "fake it till they make it", which is great till the first time they don't get their way or a girl doesn't answer their text immediately. They almost always revert back to the needy simp. Being confident can't be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:25 AM
0

Women mostly watch lesbian pron, so I doubt it. It's more likely movies like Thor and Aquaman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:12 AM
1

Probably the same reason they answer questions in /r/askmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:25 AM
-1

My best friend was a Chad. Literally named Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:08 PM
-1

No they don't. And are you a Chad? No? Then stop staring.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:04 PM
0

A big part of being not creepy is NOT staring or leering. Staring at cleavage. Not leering from a distance at the gym. It's gross. Act like you've seen a woman before.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 04:30 PM
2

A woman needs to trust you above all else. Approaching with some goofy canned line and stuttering out your name doesn't get trust. If she doesn't stick around to chat, you're not interesting enough to talk to. Let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:54 AM
0

Stop "approaching" and just talk to people like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:35 AM
1

Experienced, but not a man-whoore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:37 PM
1

Sure. Point is, it’s not everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:32 PM
1

I like how guys conveniently ignore that they do the exact thing women do and swipe right on out of their league women. At least the serious ones. Many just swipe right on everyone hoping for a match then ignoring messages from women who aren’t pretty enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:21 PM
1

People need to stop pretending that there's a lifetime between high school and college. They're basically the same people. Especially when you're old enough to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:11 PM
-3

You get what you give
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:51 PM
1

Get. Off. The. Apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:50 PM
1

Then please, explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:41 PM
1

So you're scared to try. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:06 PM
0

They don't. Half of guys don't even try to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:48 PM
0

That's just what normal people that don't want to try tell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:02 PM
5

You're not getting matches because it's for hot people to get laid. Average guys have no place on there. You're wasting your time with it. Objectively "ugly" people are rare. Most guys just aren't making the best of what they have. Fat, bad fashion, bad hair, bad job, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:21 PM
2

We're talking about dating, not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:16 PM
-5

You understand that suggestions and directions are two different things, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:37 AM
13

Says a lot about his maturity and mental state. Imagine being 30 and having anything in common with an 18-yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:47 AM
1

Guys WANT women more. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:48 AM
-7

At the grocery store, as if she knows how to pick a melon because you’re lost. Ask for restaurant suggestions. Casually chat in line at the bar. Just treat her like a person. If she chooses to make you her bad decision for the night, great. If not just keep moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:28 AM
1

Women don't want to be approached with goofy canned lines and stuttering out their names with "I-I j-j-ust thought you w-were cute."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:20 PM
1

It’s almost like there’s more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:42 PM
3

He's not fat. That makes him ABOVE average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:09 PM
7

It's not really something that's unlocked. You either have it or you don't. The more vanilla guy gets more vanilla pictures. While other guys put it to her and take her to pound town, a vanilla guy does that weird jackrabbit in-and-out move for 5 minutes and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:32 PM
-2

U mad?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 06:00 PM
1

Sure, it was understood that relationships were a partnership. Not the one-sided power struggles that people treat it as now. Guys just expect a woman to cook for him and do his laundry. It used to be that was her taking care of her man after a long day at the factory to take care of her. It was all give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:37 PM
-1

They think it somehow equates to blue collar work because it makes decent money.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 04:40 PM
1

It's dumb. Women have NEVER changed. They've always been this way. It's guys that changed. Guys used to strive to be something women wanted. They worked hard to make more money. They worked hard to be not fat. Now they just complain because hot women don't want fat adult adolescents that can't even close a shower curtain. Guys are fuccing lazy now. They want a hot gf for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:33 PM
2

It's shifting, just like PUA did, when it shifted from the Mystery Method peacocking stuff, into more Natural Game. "Gurus" started using their real names, and stopped being characters.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:54 PM
1

lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:05 PM
2

It becomes insecurity when you start trying to defend it and apologize for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:39 AM
-14

If you think you have a wonderful personality, you probably don't. Just like if you think you're funny, you're not.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 01:36 AM
1

Reinhab?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 11:05 PM
1

Maybe you shouldn’t get your opinions from google
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:55 PM
1

Literally anywhere. It doesn’t just happen though. You have to talk to people, ask for numbers, ask for dates, etc. many guys can’t wrap their heads around that. They want a gf with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:52 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with wanting a long-term partner that already has his shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:44 PM
1

It'd be hilarious if women collectively started making guys wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:41 PM
2

It think it's pretty overblown. Women don't turn 30 and suddenly find fat, boring gamers attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:38 PM
1

Women would rather drink wine in an Infinity Pool than drink Busch Light in a dorm room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 PM
5

High IQ people are generally annoying to be around. Socially awkward, self-important know-it-alls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:46 PM
-3

You're a bloody moron if you ever thought online dating was any more than hot people looking for ass. It's 100% looks based. "Average" guys have no place there. It's not real dating.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:37 PM
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Expressions aren't supposed to be logical. That's why they're expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:43 PM
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It’s an expression dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:34 PM
1

It’s a made-up scenario. Just like blue pill is. It’s a term only used by red pill to describe anyone that isn’t red pill.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 12:28 PM
-7

You’re a piece of shit if you think fake profiles is somehow ok.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 12:24 PM
2

Sure they were
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 09:54 PM
4

Nice guys can't tell the difference between nice and kind. There's an ulterior motive in everything they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:04 PM
3

I liked how in Barbie how the Barbies are supposed to be strong and infallible but Ken still took over in a day. Women want to be in charge and victims at the same time. They want their cake and to eat it too. It's not possible.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:01 PM
6

You're an idiot if your single mom ever convinced you otherwise. No one has ever looked across the room and said, "I bet they have a great personality. I should go holler at them".
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 10:27 PM
-4

Reddit buzzwords. Just like narcissist, depression, and sociopath. You don't even know what they mean.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 09:02 PM
-4

Most guys that incels call "bad boys" and assholes are perfectly decent human beings. Of course, there are exceptions. But, for the most part they just think for themselves and have their own opinions. They don't blindly kiss women's asses hoping to get their wiener touched.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 08:25 PM
2

Average guys like to overstate their value
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:56 PM
-5

/r/thathappened
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:33 PM
2

I planned to challenge him. I just lost interest after the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:01 PM
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They only swipe on out of their league women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:15 PM
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Average guys desire out of their league women too.......
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:52 PM
1

Come up with something more creative than dinner or coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:58 AM
1

You won't be happy. You're already a walking catfish. Just like women with fake tetas and lip filler. Fake on the outside.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 02:11 AM
1

Research it. Recovery time is almost a year. Most of it is on a walker. Running is a risk. There are several long term risks. Your shins look dumb and long. All for 10 minutes of friction with some gash?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 01:56 AM
1

Lol it's been that way since caveman times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:35 AM
1

That’s….. not me.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 11:16 PM
1

What are you prattling on about? I’ve never even seen that Twitter.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 11:16 PM
-3

So speak up. Guys keep allowing women to say things like this. I guarantee there's no comments chastising her tweet. When guys start making a big deal, this stops. And by a big deal I don't mean crying about it on Reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 08:42 PM
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Fat is average. If you're a fat "average" guy and won't date an equally fat average woman, you're a piece of chit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:05 PM
1

It's silly. Guys want a hot girl with no effort SO bad. There's no logical reason to even have a dating account. Most of you aren't hot enough to online date in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:36 PM
1

Guys are every bit as picky and delusional as women
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 05:25 PM
1

Nope. I don't have Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:17 PM
1

The pendulum always swings back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:04 PM
1

Soft 6. I understand that a 6 woman is my match
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:14 AM
-2

Women work differently than males. I don't know why incels have such a hard time with that.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 10:16 PM
2

It's a weird number. They aren't counting emotional affairs, but 75% of people consider that cheating.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 10:10 PM
2

If you think you're funny, you're usually not.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 04:24 PM
1

Seems like if you know sex is on the table you might want to find out her likes and dislikes beforehand. Shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:23 PM
4

I bet he asked her to "hang out" and conflated that with a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:44 PM
1

My PUA experience was more Natural Game. Mark Manson, David DeAngelo, David Wygant, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:59 PM
7

That's pretty much it. 80% of guys pine after the same 10% of women. The ones that aren't hot enough to be models but are still out of their league. And it's not obvious to them she isn't interested until she gets shitty about it. Then they complain on reddit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 AM
7

Most guys are desperate nerds trying to get their wiener touched
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:31 AM
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This seems personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:05 AM
2

Depends on the guy. If there's an abundance of women in his life, like family, co-workers, and friends, most women will just exist in his periphery. He's used to being around women, so they're not a big deal. However, guys that are slaves to their sexual urges will obsess over any gash in eyesight. He'll stare slack-jawed at cleavage and wonder why women think he's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:51 AM
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Online dating existed 20 years ago. Hell, I was meeting girls on AOL then. People just weren't socially watered down and 100% reliant on it like they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:24 AM
-4

Are you insinuating all women are sociopaths and psychopaths? I know redditors LOVE to throw around psychotherapy buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:19 PM
1

Not a problem they want to solve.......
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:56 PM
3

You're missing the point. Not that I'm surprised redditors would miss the point. Movies are fake. It's written to work. They aren't real life. "Sovreign Citizens" don't know anything about the law, movie pick up lines don't work, and shooting perps in the leg is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:29 PM
5

Getting a group of like-minded guys together to bitch about how it's women's fault they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:02 PM
5

It's a lot of stuff. Social Media and dating apps are the worst. People have become socially deficient. They don't know how to interact anymore. They think the nonsense they see on tv is "flirting". This trash generation is all about blaming ailments and disabilities for their shortcomings. It's not enough to just try to figure out how to get passed being shy. They've convinced themselves they're Autists, and they blame that. That's a whole other thing. Guys aren't problem solvers anymore. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:50 PM
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I used to refer to one of my exes as "the one that got away". I messed up the relationship, and I acknowledged that. However, I've since reflected a lot on it. I had a super hard time getting over her. I understand now that we'd have never worked. We wanted different things. She wanted kids, a white picket fence, and all that. I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:06 PM
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I'd imagine it's a lot of leaning about one's self. Learning their likes and dislikes. Women are told through much of their teens that most of their value is in sex, with teen boys trying to find someone slooty enough to play with their wiener. Then they're just told to shut it off in their early 20s. Guys created this problem for themselves. They make it worse by simping and shelling out for their cams, Twitches, and OnlyFans. Then guys have the absolute gall to overvalue themselves and call th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:56 PM
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Before he died, my best friend was an attractive guy, literally named Chad. It was an opportunity to learn, while I worked on what I could. I emulated him. His friends became my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:04 PM
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I like Michael Sartain's clips. I hate how his show is another F&F copycat with several women around a table, but he's a likeable guy. I like his gf. Most red pill stats are just talking points. They're never cited, except for dating app's "studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:02 PM
2

Many people have a warped sense of themselves and others. They say they'll go for their looksmatch, but what they view as a 4 is a 7 to everyone else. There's a whole meme about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:44 PM
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95% of young guys on apps are looking to get their dick wet and ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:33 PM
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Young people put too much value on "the spark". Young people have this silly fantasy of meeting someone for a coffee date on an app, splitting the bill, and landing in the middle of a relationship because there's a "spark". The best relationships are built. They don't just happen. A spark is nice to know a person is generally likeable but building that desire for someone is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:32 PM
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I never even kept count of how many women I've had sex with. Why would I expect differently of her? As long as she's not a dirty bird, I really don't care. Guys are just insecure about their girl fukking bigger dicks than theirs and enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:56 AM
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Centuries of treating women as less than human.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:47 AM
4

It's as hard as you make it. An "average" guy that 100% relies on apps, which are entirely looks-based, is going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:22 PM
1

But you're assuming. How do you know she's a sloot? Just because a woman dresses sexy doesn't make her a sloot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:49 PM
1

Stupid take. So you're just assuming all women are promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:27 PM
1

Most women sleep with 7 guys in their life. Guys need to stop pinning over IG and OF models.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:40 PM
3

Do you vaquebook too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:37 PM
6

Sounds like you know you're being unreasonable and you're avoiding the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:27 PM
5

Details? What'd she do? What'd she like? Why doesn't she think she'd like it with? Context dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:46 PM
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Guys used to bust ass to be what women wanted, which doesn't happen anymore. They just want to sulk and cry online because out of their league women aren't clamoring for fat gamer dorks. They don't want to get in shape or work to make more money. They just complain. Until life gets hard again, and guys have to work, nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:54 PM
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I always thought it was silly how teen boys spend their time hoping to find a girl slooty enough to touch their wiener, but in their mid 20s something flips, and they suddenly want virgins. It's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:20 PM
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Always been that way. But men, have never been more needy slaves to their sexual inclinations than guys are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:45 PM
4

What makes you think they enjoyed it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:03 PM
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You can push all you want. Thousands of years of doing things a certain way isn't going to change because a handful of this garbage generation wants to be the girl in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:58 PM
1

Blue bubbles you mean?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:30 AM
1

Or she isn't part of the Apple cult
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:21 AM
7

Get off the apps
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 02:13 AM
3

Patton Oswalt and Melissa McCarthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:40 PM
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An incel's 4 is a 7 to regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:49 PM
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In Japan, women are fondled and touched sexually in crowded public transport. If it offends you that women don't want to be fondled on trains, you've got something wrong in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:26 PM
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You can. Most people end up with people of similar attractiveness. Get off the apps, where guys and women all overstate their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:51 PM
1

Get rid of apps and social networking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:05 AM
1

I mostly just said young because they're the ones relying on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:46 AM
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Jacked short guys look like Ninja Turtles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:44 PM
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A big problem is young people associating ALL women with the women they encounter on garbage apps. They're unwilling to accept that apps are looks based and not for "average" people. They fantasize about landing in the middle of a relationship with no effort, and it's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:07 PM
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I typically think the planet is self-correcting from overpopulation, and incels are paying the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:44 PM
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username relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:59 PM
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Most of what your ilk call "assholes" aren't even assholes. They're just polarizing. They have their own opinions and refuse to apologize for it. They don't kiss women's asses, which bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:37 PM
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Why is it so hard for guys to get that women think differently than them? They aren't 100% visual like guys are. What's inside counts as much as what's outside. While guys care only about the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:07 PM
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It's funny too me because those guys that want women to look inside, are every bit as shallow inside as they are outside. They aren't kind, they have no humility. They pretend to be "nice" because their single mom told them girls want nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:59 PM
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Stop going after out of your league then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:25 PM
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Get off the apps. Apps are 100% looks and presentation based. There's no chance to show things like humor, personality, and humility. Sure, looks matter. Nobody says "I bet they have a great personality. I should go talk to them." But they don't matter AS MUCH in real life. I don't understand why 3 in 10 people even attempt to online date. It's a bad model. I say I don't understand, but I do. Guys want to land in the middle of a relation with no risk or effort. Just take enough time away from ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:42 PM
2

Get off the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:44 AM
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Real people don't want to be bothered with cheesy canned lines from awkward dorks that have to stutter out their own name.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:09 AM
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Talk to women like real people. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:10 PM
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It's called talking to people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:08 PM
2

Not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:05 PM
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It's also true the other way. Want a traditional man you have to be a traditional woman. No traditional man wants a partner that has her butthole on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:46 PM
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Get off the apps. Apps are filled with bottom feeders that think they deserve better than they are. There's no risk in swiping right on someone way hotter than you and hoping. In real life you're limited to your "looks match".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:29 PM
2

When you put your private bedroom business on the internet, it's no longer private.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:23 PM
2

I'm not a woman. If Emma was average, you'd have a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:27 PM
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Soft 6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:22 AM
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It's not much different than PUA, back in the day. The second they're challenged or a woman doesn't answer a text fast enough, they'll immediately revert back to a needy simp. Asking themselves if she's mad, or banging another dude with a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:20 PM
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Guys are delusional in how they rate women. Emma Stone a 6. GTFO here. An incel's 4 is a 7 to regular people. There's an entire meme about it. "Pointed elbows and toe thumb. 2/10. Would not bang."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:20 PM
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I tend to love hard. It takes me years to get over someone I really care about. I'll go on a self-improvement kick. Start hitting the gym hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:04 AM
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That's not a dad bod. That's a bodybuilder in the off-season. Granted a dad bod isn't just a fat guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:04 PM
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It's not supposed to be literal, like most cliches and advice. It doesn't mean just stop looking and wait. Go out, meet women. Just don't take it so serious. Talk to her like a person. If she chooses to make you her bad decision for the night, great. If not, move on. Don't take it personally. Keep moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:19 PM
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People have forgotten what marriage is supposed to be. It's a partnership. You're supposed to put their needs first. It's about taking care of each other. A man breaks his back for his wife at the factory, and his wife lovingly takes care of him when he gets home. People have made it so one-sided. Wives think they should be taken care of while she sits on her ass all day, and husbands think they should be able to put in MAYBE 8 hours at the office coding, then game all night while their wife is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:38 PM
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I try to keep them on the phone as long as possible. Make the think they're getting the sale, then say no. Cashing happy checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:16 PM
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No, because guys would just be bitter and angry that absolved from ALL responsibility and still women won't approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:26 PM
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I don't respect any guy that runs from his responsibility. Whether that be deat beat dads or guys that beg for abortions. Ultimately, it's up to you to be such a weak-ass slave to your sexual inclinations that you choose to not wear a condom, or even stick your wiener in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:21 PM
1

Get off the apps. Build genuine connections with people and stop expecting a "spark".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:36 PM
1

It's been that way for thousands of years. It's not going away because a small handful of man-babies is ascared.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:10 PM
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I don't buy "mild" Autism. It's just an excuse for being awkward and shy. It's the new Aspergers, which no one had heard of till Abed from Community. It's just a trendy disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:00 PM
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People peaked in the early 2000s. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:55 PM
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The whole 'spark' thing is weird. A big reason redditors online date is because they think the spark should just automatically be there. They'll meet for 50/50 coffee and land in the middle of a relationship. While at the same time, complaining that women just won't wait to see if a spark develops, in spite of being short or fat or whatever. It's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:45 PM
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If you have to inform people that you're nice, you're probably not very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:13 PM
2

Look it up. There's more female virgins 15-24.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:21 PM
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There's just as many female virgins out there. Guys are ever the fuccing victims about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:34 AM
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Personally, the youngest generation is garbage, and I want no part of it. I have no desire to fight with schools about which of us is the parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:32 AM
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I never kept count. It was always stupid to me. I never asked for anyone else's count. As long as their STD free, I don't care. Its stupid boys spend their teen years looking for a girl slooty enough to touch their peen, then in their 20s it's suddenly paramount that she has to be pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:20 PM
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Stop apologizing for your "standards". Stop apologizing for being "toxic", or whatever silly buzzword they use. Be who you are. If they don't like it, that's their problem. It's like the whole calling conservatives n@zis. The bite isn't there anymore. It's not just going to shut people up anymore. Call me whatever kind of istaphobe. I don't care. Myself, and the people I love, know who I am. I don't care about some dorks on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:00 PM
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I bet most of you look like Patton Oswalt at 50. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:15 AM
1

When I was 16, I dated a girl that got irritated on our first date. I asked if she was ok or needed anything too much. She snapped at me to stop being so clingy. It stuck with me. I'm 42 ans never did it again after that. We dated for a year after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:15 AM
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No, because guys will just get bitter and angry when nobody approaches them. It'll be no better than it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:30 PM
1

I believe much of the reason guys want 20 year olds or younger is because they're on their level mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:33 PM
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no other words have the bite that one does. Clearly, it triggers YOU, and that's why it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:04 PM
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I would, but reddit bans people for such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:19 PM
1

A MAN knows how to handle his emotions. He can talk about what he's feeling without crying about it. He looks for solutions, not a shoulder to cry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:04 PM
1

I won't date a woman fatter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:01 PM
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Young people are single because they're social r-words and think they deserve better than they are. They think they deserve trad partners when they aren't traditional themselves. They pine after hot partners when they aren't hot themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:36 PM
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Mostly young people. Social r-words. Online dating is a flash in the pan. People are starting to recognize the destruction to dating it has caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:02 PM
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Get off the apps. Apps are full of shallow bottom-feeders that only swipe on people better looking than them. Only 3-in-10 people online date. People need to stop acting like it's the standard for how guys and women think. Go outside. Touch grass. Walk around the mall. "Average" people date every day. Fat people date other fat people. Hot people date other hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:52 PM
1

Dating is a risk. Most guys understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 PM
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Most of those "bad boys" are perfectly decent people. They just have their own opinions, and don't kiss women's asses like Nice Guys do. For some silly reason, "good guys" act like any guy that gets laid must be some criminal drug dealer. They probably hate black people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:24 AM
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Many women think proclaiming they're a 10, makes people believe they're a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:40 PM
2

Love requires 2 people and time. You can't love a stranger, and you can't love some that doesn't love you back. That's just infatuation. Confessing your feelings has never worked outside of movies. It just places unnecessary pressure on the woman, and she'll reject you immediately. I'm sure I'll get the "I did it and it worked" reply, but the exception isn't the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:00 PM
1

I never understood the logic of blindly agreeing with women for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:46 PM
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Guys are every bit as delusional as women. Just about different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:21 PM
2

Women pine after the top 1% of guys in TRP's big heads. You think guys aren't doing the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:52 PM
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Stop conflating ALL women with the out of your league OF models TRP pine after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:46 PM
2

Tl;dr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:44 AM
1

I think most people with functioning "Autism" are exaggerating. It's an excuse for weird and awkward behavior. It's not enough that their shy. It's Autism's fault. And they'll remind you constantly. Then insist they're Sigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:34 AM
1

Get over yourself. Just because you aren't successful with women doesn't mean those who are are asshole bottom feeders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:59 PM
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I always thought it silly that teen boys are slaves to their carnal desires, looking for a girl slooty enough to touch their wiener. Then they hit their mid-20s, decide they want a relationship, and suddenly they want young virgins. But, they're still slaves to their carnal desires at the same time. Happily taking home warthogs from the bar. It's backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:34 PM
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They are just as picky. About different things, but they're just as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:57 PM
1

fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:45 PM
0

https://preview.redd.it/how-would-you-describe-an-average-man-in-2023-v0-varx05n1yjgb1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=586e9b5905527127b46b8506cac5cfbf86ea201b That's the average guy in 2023. Guys need to stop acting like such entitled brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:32 PM
1

Speak for yourself. I'm not attracted to teenagers. Weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:48 PM
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Just treat women like people instead of objects to put your nutter butter in. When there's an abundance of women in your life that trust and respect you, everything else falls into place. Hot women have hot friends. Leave them with a good impression, they might introduce you. Don't be a bitter man-baby when a woman says she just wants to be friends. She might help later, and women make FAR superior wingmen. Hell, most guys don't even understand what being a wingman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:57 AM
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5'10 guys say they're 6' like nobody will notice, and guys hide their weak chins behind beards. They lie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:07 PM
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I've often wondered, as much as guys complain about filters, why don't they do it too? It's not like like they're adverse to lying. They already grow beards to hide their double chin and weak chin. They'll lie about their height and use lifts, which is the equivalent to a padded bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:27 PM
10

I feel like you don't understand what a 50/50 relationship looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:03 PM
3

Blue Pill isn't real. It's a general term Red Pillers use for anyone that doesn't follow them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:07 PM
2

Nightclubs are for hot people to have ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:47 PM
-2

What you're describing isn't a real scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:19 PM
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I hate this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:35 PM
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Blue Pill isn't real. It's a general term by TRP for people that don't blindly follow TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:30 PM
1

Not much than the Keyboard Cowboys in the early 2000s with PUA. They could type advice all day, but there was very little actual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:29 PM
18

Modern "men" don't bring much to the table either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:05 AM
0

Wtf is nuerodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:30 PM
1

All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:19 PM
-1

And they're fat too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:18 PM
5

That's not average. Guys need to stop acting like average is the default create-a-characters in video games. The average guy is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:13 PM
1

Did you even read what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:49 PM
1

Please learn what a pedophile is, first of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:57 PM
1

What's gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:08 PM
-1

When I was 28 I dated a 21 year old that I had known since she was 15, because her sister is my good friend's wife. When she was I teenager I helped her with her computer a few times and set up her first ipod. On her 18th birthday I was there. When we dated she said she always liked me because I never treated her like a kid, even at 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:38 PM
6

TRP wants women that look like IG models, but are loyal virgins that release their inner pron star just for them. It's a figment of their imagination. Those women don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:18 PM
1

You're destined for failure when you're obsessed with the prospect of sex, but there's no abundance of women in your life, so you don't know how to act around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:58 AM
24

Some people need it. "I'm fit, have a good job, nice......" If everything outside is good and you're still failing, it's time to look inside. Plainly, you're lacking somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:00 PM
7

It's not that deep dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:51 PM
1

Blue pill isn't real. It's a blanket term red pillers use for anyone not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:14 AM
3

Fat feels gross. Even my own love handles are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:42 AM
0

Tl;dr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:33 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:39 PM
2

Fair enough. I just hate how the manosphere collectively bags on women, like guys don't do the exact same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:26 PM
2

Guys mostly just want a new mom to take care of them and sometimes play with their wiener. Someone to cook for them, clean up after them, and do laundry while they game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:41 PM
2

I always see posts from guys, "I'm fit, have a good job, nice, loyal...." but it never occurs to them to work on the inside. The outside doesn't matter if you're cold and have the personality of a box of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:07 PM
3

OLD is for suckers and bottom feeders
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:58 PM
2

30 years ago, I'd understand liking 18-25 year olds. When people still cared about how they looked, and there wasn't this culture of adult adolescence that we have now. Now, I find most people under 30 to be grossly ignorant of life and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:36 PM
5

Two wrongs don't make a right. No matter what kind of mental gymnastics they use to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:28 PM
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Don't stick your dick in anyone you're not willing to have a baby with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:46 PM
3

Traditional couples take care of each other. The man takes care of financials, and the wife handles the household. She takes care of the inside, he handles the outside. She takes care of the kids, he does handyman stuff. He works hard all day, she cooks for him. It's all give and take. Problem now, is non-traditional guys want traditional women to be their new mom. And non-traditional women want traditional men. That math doesn't work. You don't get to code all day behind a desk and think that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:04 PM
0

Stop with that red pill betabux nonsense. Men should take care of their women. It's always been that way. That's not going to change because a handful of man-babies masquerading as men doesn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:14 PM
3

If it's higher, it's because women like to believe the wage gap exists. They go to college and pull an 80K/yr job, so they believe 100K must be easy for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:01 PM
0

Protection and financial support for her and her children
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:36 PM
-4

Hard times create soft men. Guys no longer want to work to fit into the mold of what women want. They just prefer to cry about how gash doesn't just come to them while they quietly have their backs to the wall and their eyes on the ground. Then they go home and jerk off to porn of lesbian scissoring. Social Media is just their scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:47 PM
9

Sure. Women make 4 times the wingmen guys do. And they have a better understanding of the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:22 PM
1

Only if women are never around you and you're desperate for their attention. If there's an abundance of women around you. Co-workers, gfs of friends, you can be friends with women. Sex isn't even a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:05 PM
2

It's too vague. A person shouldn't be just working on the outside, which is what they do. They should also look into developing a non-needy personality. Stop existing for just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:12 AM
6

They don't care AS MUCH as guys do, but they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:43 PM
8

A guy's height has always been important. Women have always wanted a bigger taller guy capable of protecting them. But women in this garbage generation don't understand that only 14.5% of guys in the world are 6ft or over. They don't understand that 10% of guys make 6 figures. 95% of women aren't hot enough to be as picky as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:42 PM
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Analogies make sense. Relationships are a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:51 PM
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It's a gamble. Because it's gambling......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:27 PM
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Because all of those reasons come down to being scared. Scared of being cheated on. Scared of being left. Scared they'll find a better option, or 100 other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:07 PM
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I'll never understand why people are so insecure that they even need to ask about their partner's history passed having the herp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:14 PM
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Give up and die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:36 PM
2

I don't understand why people need to know their partner's sexual history or share their own passed whether or not they have the herp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:05 AM
3

Online dating needs to die before anything gets better. This desire people have to skip steps and land in the middle of relationships with no build up. Meet one-on-one and feel magic. It doesn't work like that. People meet naturally through group interactions, and relationships build from there. This thing where people "hate people", but expect friendships and relationships to come to them isn't going to cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:04 PM
2

I put a lot of it on the lack of father figures now. No one to teach young boys the difference in doing "nice" things and being generally kind, and doing kind things just cause. Not because you expect a reward. And how to temper your expectations. Stop this nonsense of assuming a girl is flirting because she sent a selfie. Pull back a LOT and assume MAYBE she's trying to flirt. And going from there. Don't reply with a dick pic just because she sent a selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:48 PM
5

Not a union guy, but guys created their situation. They're the ones taking warthogs home from the bar to get their wiener wet. They're the ones spending money on OnlyFans. They're enablers. You can't bitch about an addict's behavior when you're the one giving them drug money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:44 PM
2

I wish there was a fitness culture here, where I live in the US. I'm more into functional fitness. Not just moving heavy things with unnatural movements with no real world application.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:39 PM
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I'm told I look like Ben Roethlisberger. Similar build and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:01 PM
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I'm saying it's enough to be in shape. No one has to be jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:17 AM
1

What did he say that was "flirty"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:29 PM
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Then quit complaining about them. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:22 PM
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https://youtu.be/lIi7pSNhTMY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:12 PM
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I wonder why they don't search on YouTube how to take decent dating photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:37 PM
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For starters; get off the forking apps. Meeting women in real life is the only way to show you're more than a mirror selfie in front of a dirty mirror. Bad lighting. Mean mugging the camera for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:28 PM
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My brother is 5'8 and married to a specialty nurse making 6 figures. I have a 5'6 buddy married to a smoke show. Short guys have other problems. It's just easier to blame their height than it is to develop a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:14 PM
0

Jacked short guys look like ninja turtles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:35 PM
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It's not the only reason. Short guys tend to wear their insecurity on their sleeve. It's all over them. If they have anything else to offer, it's impossible to see. It's like small dick energy, amped up, because they can't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:33 PM
1

I'm neither overweight, or unkempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:19 PM
1

I usually just assume they have a garbage personality. They're awkward. Have dumb unattractive hobbies. Say they're funny when they aren't. And complain about how much they hate people, but expect everyone to love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:24 PM
9

I'm 6'3. Women aren't falling all over me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:34 PM
1

"men" have largely given up. While guys used to aspire and work to be what women wanted, guys now just pout because gash doesn't fall on their nutter butter. They want out of their league without having to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:06 AM
2

I just say I don't like talking about it. I never kept count. I don't feel like that'd be a very good thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:38 AM
13

Guys would have even more trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:14 PM
1

You're going to throw your back out grasping at that straw. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:23 PM
3

It doesn't matter if you're skinny if you suck as a person and have the personality of a damp towel. If you have to tell people you're funny, you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:55 PM
4

I hate how incels call anyone that isn't a "nice" guy an asshole. It's so disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:48 PM
1

Everyone considers themselves the main character, so they think everything should come easy, without having to do any work on themselves. The main character in harem animes are irresistible to all the hottest/most popular girls. Why can't they be?! They shouldn't have to lose weight, or dress better. They should just get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:13 PM
3

It's all copium. "Chad" isn't just allowed to get away with everything and never has to pay. Sure, things are easier. But, they're not some infallible deity. They still pay for dates. They still work. They're just not desperate assh0les.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:58 PM
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I don't know why guys have a hard time with this. Online dating is not for basics. It's 100% looks and presentation based. Most guys put 4% effort into their pics, and they're shocked out of their league women swipe left on them. Get off the apps. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:12 PM
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I hate how "nice guys" toss around the term asshole for any guy that speaks up, has opinions of their own, and do exciting things besides play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:18 PM
4

It's not that black and white. Guys are mostly desperate and will take warthogs home from the bar to get their nutter butter touched. Women don't have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:55 PM
6

The one thing I always retained from my PUA days, in the early 2000s, is "Never ask a woman for dating advice, only men that are successful with women". Women don't tell the truth about what they like. They'll tell you what they think they should say. At best, it's half-truths. They just want a nice guy. But they never explain what that means, so we end up with young guys that blindly agree with and validate girls, and do "nice" things in hopes of a reward. When being generally kind to people is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:03 PM
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PUA in the early 2000s did more positive things for males than TRP now. PUA at least taught to put women back better than you found them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:37 PM
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Everyone should just pull their weight. Guys have this ridiculous fantasy that they'll just do their 8 hours, then play video games till it's time for sex, while their new mom (wife) takes care of everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:12 AM
3

I've spent time as a teenager and an adult in locker rooms. Guys talk about their farts in greater detail than their sexual escapades. He's WAY off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:28 PM
6

/r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:27 PM
0

As much as I hate siding with TRP, guys don't want girl-bosses. They're awful people with no self-awareness and a superiority complex. If I wanted that, I'd date guys. Men want feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:59 AM
2

Whatever you have to tell yourself junior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:18 PM
3

Says the guy trying to distract from the original point with insults
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:10 PM
2

lol. Never change reddit. Never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:24 PM
2

source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:38 PM
1

Times have changed. It's not cool to "approach" women and stutter your name out with some goofy canned line you saw the cool guy on a show use. Adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:10 PM
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Why are you so awkward that you need a specific place to meet women? Why do you think women will suddenly be so much more open to your awkwardness in a specific place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:52 PM
7

It's not that deep dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:32 PM
6

Desperate guys crave the validation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:57 PM
1

As a man, I've wondered about this. Don't women, in most cases, develop a maternal bond? Even with a fetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:49 PM
7

Redpill isn't about "understanding" women. It's about holding power over them by guys that are physically incapable of holding any kind of power over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:37 AM
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Seems like a lot would be solved if women just stopped putting out so quick with guys they actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:33 AM
3

In this moment, I just realized how silly it is that loser guys are so desperate for casual sex, but they dismiss the types of slooty women that give it out like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:10 AM
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Guys are every bit as delusional as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:26 PM
1

I'm 42. Most people under 30 are awful, in my opinion. But, I won't date older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:23 PM
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Online daters, at least those that 100% rely on it, act like the whole thing should be streamlined since it's online. So, they've developed unreal expectations. On top of tv and movies making them think relationships are supposed to be easy and just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:51 AM
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It really just shows how completely unselfaware people are. You should be able to see unintrest a MILE away. And get off the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:45 PM
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No they won't. That's just something incels made up to excuse their creepy behavior, because everything they know was learned from TV, which isn't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:31 PM
1

It's a body-swap scenario. You can't spend your whole life the tubby weirdo, get swapped into a hot guy, then suddenly become cool. It's never worked like that in ANY body-swap movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:19 PM
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It wouldn't matter. Top-tier doesn't matter if you're still an awkward dork with no game inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:05 PM
1

Pair bonding? I hate how RP tries to make relationships sound like an 80s sci-fi flick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:00 PM
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You understand that 36% of guys graduate college in the US, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:37 PM
0

What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:15 PM
3

Sure, apps are 100% based on looks and presentation. But, it's not like guys aren't doing the exact same thing. Swiping right on the attractive women then getting butthurt when they show up 30lbs heavier because it's a 5 year old picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:01 PM
1

Sex isn't a need. It's a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:33 PM
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*sigh* Most CEOs are men. Men aren't complaining about an imaginary wage gap. The highest paid actors in Hollywood are male. Male actors aren't complaining about an imaginary wage gap in Hollywood. Vidya games are male dominated. Women's wrestling matches are just pee breaks for viewers. Men make better women than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:55 AM
4

Considering the President is just a figurehead for people to point the finger at when things get bad......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:19 AM
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There's never been a woman president. Most politicians are male. Men make laws pertaining to women. Every popular sport is male. I can keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:05 AM
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Patriarchy. Problem with 4th wave feminism is that they want their cake and to eat it too. You can't be in charge and be a victim at the same time, which is what they try to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:34 AM
1

Ask the automods. They're the ones that changed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:10 PM
0

https://blog.gitnux.com/male-onlyfans-statistics/#:~:text=Male%20creators%20earn%20an%20average,doubled%20during%20this%20time%20period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:45 PM
2

Of course it's a test. She's she's you as more than dick and wants to be sure you're not another sh*tbag trying to get his Nutter Butter touched. It's not that hard. Guys should try understanding women as much as they complain about them thinking not exactly like horny desperate guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:38 PM
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Social Media. Women have ALWAYS wanted tall, fit, and wealthy. That's not new. It's just allowed them to louder about it. Soft times create soft men, coupled with social media, coupled with Millennials and Gen Z being super consumerist. It's made guys weak adult adolescents. They have given up. They don't want to better themselves in any way. I also think Earth is self-correcting from over population. We could stand to lose around 3 billion people. Hence Covid, and devastatingly low birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:23 PM
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How is one better than the other? So a fa-tass gets a thin wife till she gets a green card? Meet better people. You get what YOU bring to the table, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:38 PM
2

Objectively ugly people are rare. Calling yourself ugly is just easier than accepting you suck as a person, and have work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:02 PM
5

This generation believes they can pretend their way through life. Pretend to be virgins. Pretend to be the other gender. Pretend to be a dog. Pretend to be black. It's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:51 PM
6

Congratulations. You get used for citizenship and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:28 PM
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I like you. I like people that generally don't care about the opinions of people they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:15 PM
2

I typically think a big problem is guys try to paint women and men with the same brush. Men and women are different. They have different wants and standards. Their emotions are different. They react differently to things. And rather than trying to understand them, guys just complain that they don't act and think like they do. Women aren't crazy. Guys are just idiots and don't know how to react to it like an adult. They just get mad rather than trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:47 PM
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