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That’s because the ones who can’t get laid are always online complaining about hypergamy and women and trying to police women by forcing them to only go after their “looksmatch” instead of “chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:59 AM
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That’s your problem, you’re delusional if you think the dating market is supposed to be fair with everyone getting the same chance. That’s not how the world works and everyone has the right to partner as far up in desirability as they please, and it’s not for others to regulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:44 PM
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Why should people be kept “in their place in desirability”? Why do you care what others do and who they desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:23 AM
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Why would they need deniability? Let women wear what they want and leave them alone and just worry about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:01 AM
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Bro as a guy, I’m just letting you know you’re going full incel right now. Why do you get so worked up about this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:04 AM
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But why do you even care? Bro just focus on your own dating / sex life and stop worrying about what other people are doing / thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:01 AM
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First off most men don’t actually care about that stuff so please don’t pretend to talk for all men, but also of course attraction changes how identical behavior is perceived, that’s a natural thing. The same flirty behavior isn’t going to be received the same way coming from a person we’re attracted to and coming from a person we like. Why exactly do you find that so outrageous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:00 AM
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Bro most men don’t think like you, that’s verging on incel rhetoric. Most dudes just agree that nobody owes anybody anything and don’t worry about who women decide to find attractive. We just focus on onto own dating / sex lives and stay out of other people’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:55 AM
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Actually no, most people are too busy making a living and worrying about themselves to step up to help raise some kid because the father is incompetent, most will simply recommend the kid go back to his mother if the father doesn’t know what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:41 AM
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There’s no logical basis for that argument. Your “logic” is completely subjective and based on something you absolutely can’t prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:36 AM
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You can’t even write a sentence that makes sense without a bunch of grammatical errors. Just like all the other incels. If you spent half the time you spend complaining about women and playing video games and used that time to better yourself instead you probably wouldn’t be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:37 PM
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Obviously the men who are successful in dating actually understand women better than the incel who know nothing about women. All that black pill stuff is complete garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:33 PM
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Ok incel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:29 PM
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Lol most men in the manosphere don’t get laid that’s why they’re so bitter and that’s why they feel the need to study women. Guys with successful dating / sex lives don’t care about the manosphere full of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 AM
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You keep saying that men spend a lot of time on what women like but that’s not true, in my experience only the simps who tend to get friend zoned actually spend time thinking about how to please women and the guys who have successful dating lives can socially interact with women and date them without ever worrying about “what women like”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:13 AM
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There is no Chad, that’s incel rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:06 AM
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OP forgot to mention that in Ancient Rome and Greece men mostly hung out with other men and also mostly had sex with other men / their fellow soldiers. Should we bring that back as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:01 AM
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What kind of incel vs is this? Creepy ass dudes will creep on women no matter what they’re wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:06 PM
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Not hard for men in general. Hard for some men, the kind of men who spent most of their lives playing video games in some basement and never talked to girls. But for the rest of us who have been socializing with girls since a young age, who went to plenty of parties during teenage years and who have been dating girls and sexually active since our teens, being outgoing and having the social confidence required to successfully befriend / flirt with / seduce women isn’t an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:06 AM
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Men who lack confidence are a lot more likely to be poor communicators, to have low self esteem, and those are things that cause major issues in a relationship because those guys need constant reassuring and generally aren’t particularly fun, so it’s pretty normal that guys who aren’t confident are seen as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:08 AM
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Nah dude, it’s fine to chat up a woman who looks like she’s in a social mood but the second she starts looking uncomfortable there’s no reason for a guy to stick around knowing she isn’t into it, and there’s no reason to punish her for her preferences either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:33 AM
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That’s a you problem, most men don’t operate that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:08 AM
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Like what? Grooming, makeup and clothes? Most men invest money into their wardrobe and also shave / maintain their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:45 AM
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You don’t want her to work? Why? That basically means she’ll have no money and no power to be independent from you in any way and will have to be content with what you give her. You actually want your wife to be completely powerless to do anything outside of your control?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:41 AM
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But most of the guys who well at seduction enjoy the process and don’t see it as effort. It’s a fun game of subtle teasing, of having interactions that seem innocent from the outside meanwhile the two of you know exactly where this headed, and that’s how sexual tension is built. And the better you get at it, the more enjoyable it becomes. The playful banter, the looks you exchange that say “I want to tear your clothes off”, the little gestures she’ll make to make understand how she wants to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:12 AM
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Definitely not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:40 PM
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This basically parrots the whole “men are logical, strong and stoic” cliché, but incels are more emotional, irrational, easily triggered people ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:49 AM
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Innocent? lol you have no idea. I’m a frat boy who’s pretty much seen and done it all when it comes to women / dating. But in my experience only the guys who don’t get laid sit there trying to determine whether this or that girl deserves “chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:10 AM
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It’s only incels who “determine” women’s league, I’ve never met a regular guy who talks about that “looksmatch” bs or who talks about women’s supposed league, that’s straight up loser behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:37 AM
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And that’s their right. You’re basically bitter because they choose to have higher standards than most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:33 AM
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No. Who are you (or anyone else) to decide who belongs in who’s league? Incels do that with their “looksmatch” bs but no one gets to decide who’s in who’s league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:30 AM
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Men do the exact same thing. They filter by looks first. It’s just that men have much lower standards because they’re thirsty. Don’t blame women for having higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:34 AM
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*machiavellic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:36 PM
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That won’t change attraction either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:08 AM
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And men are going to keep building and maintaining whether women give them relationships / sex or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:11 AM
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Who cares if we go extinct? The planet would be better off. And why should women have to have kids just to make guys like you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:48 AM
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Who’s “we”? Incels? Because normal guys don’t sit there wondering if she’s “filled with another guy’s sperm” like wtf are you saying you want a virgin?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:45 AM
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Another incel post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:20 AM
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If OP knew what he was doing those girls wouldn’t have stopped at foreplay. Those girls clearly weren’t impressed with his foreplay skills and decided to skip the main event..
/r/seduction03/12/25 09:41 AM
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A woman is a slut just because she enjoyed having sex with dudes who weren’t fit for long term relationships but who were fun to f*ck? Bro what kind of incel logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:47 AM
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So basically this is just a long winded complaint about women wanting to have sex with Chad..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:04 AM
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Jesus, no wonder women pick the bear.
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:49 AM
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That’s a ridiculous comment there’s nothing “beta” about saying that it’s cold. And there’s absolutely no way to build sexual chemistry with a girl you just started talking to at a bus stop, and it’s delusional to even think you can. This is that fake “alpha PUA” crap that women absolutely hate lol.
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:14 AM
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Lol who cares, she’s was gorgeous and I wasn’t looking to settle down
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:33 AM
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It only takes a few seconds to share a moment with someone. And from there if the girl keeps flirting with you past a certain point then you know she either single or she’s not interested in being faithful to her bf. I’ve actually hooked up with a girl that turned out to be engaged one time. But hey, if you’re not open to learning about how others do things what’s the point of asking? I’m not the one who’s lacking in the seduction department. You are.
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:11 AM
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Lol I was never the shy type and after spending four years living in my college fraternity house I can basically talk to and bond with any personality type, I’m definitely not the guy who hangs out in the corner watching others have a good time, but I don’t come off as a basic bro who seems like he’s playing the numbers game and getting the insta to ten different hot girls hoping one will respond after he slides into her DMs like the dozen other guys she met that night.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:36 AM
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You think you’re being smooth when you ask hot girls for their instagram? They know you’re just going to creep into their DMs and try to get at them like the dozen other guys who asked for their instagram that night. All you’re doing is making yourself look like another thirsty basic bro, and it’s not attractive. I never ask women for their IG, I focus on having real interactions with one girl I’m super attracted to and sharing moments that indicate mutual attraction, building some sexual tensio…
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:16 AM
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Bro I don’t think the first date went as well as you thought. And why the hell would you grab the ass of a woman you’re kissing for the second time in a parking lot? From the title of your post it sounds like you’re into PUA lingo and PUA tactics and it’s making do some cringe things.
/r/seduction09/11/25 12:01 AM
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What the hell is Norwegia?
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:51 PM
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What’s a set? Is that PUA lingo? That story sounded like such a non-event, I think these types of interactions happen to any confident, sociable guy on a standard night out.
/r/seduction31/10/25 10:51 PM
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Bro you’re doing waaayy too much. Dial it back because right now you’re acting hella needy and annoying, and that’s not attractive.
/r/seduction31/10/25 01:49 AM
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Exactly. Those women still have the same facial features before and after makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:46 PM
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Exactly, and neither does the made up incel concept of “looksmatch”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:26 AM
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“Heavily” is such a ridiculous exaggeration lol it’s not like makeup makes much of a difference, it can’t magically make an ugly person attractive. I don’t know why incels and red pillers are so mad about makeup lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:21 AM
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Lol you’re an incel trying to sound hard on Reddit, so I’m really not bothered by anything you say. I have a successful dating / sex life while you play video games and rage on Reddit. Bye : )
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:32 AM
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Lol stop saying nigga do you know how pathetic that sounds coming from a little incel white boi? You’re not hard dude, just talk normally if you want to be taken halfway seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 03:19 AM
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There’s no such thing as a looksmatch, it’s a made up incel idea. And even if there was, who gets to decide who is who’s looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:47 AM
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No, just a pathetic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:22 AM
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Except that in Europe voting conservative doesn’t mean restricting women’s rights by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:08 AM
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Trump is president of the usa. Nowhere else are men voting conservative en mass to take away women’s rights so what you’re saying isn’t exactly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:00 PM
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Sorry I didn’t mean you specifically I meant it was an answer typical of someone with red / black pill beliefs.
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:35 AM
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Classic incel response “they’re being pumped and dumped by Chad!”. Not everyone wants a relationship there’s so many women who want to focus on their careers and who couldn’t care less about relationships and marriage. Plus there’s no indication those dudes are out of their league, I don’t know why you guys think all women want to be in relationships / married and that they don’t enjoy being single and sleeping around like so many guys do.
/r/seduction18/10/25 01:37 AM
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Whose MO is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:22 AM
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So as long as you’re not affected you don’t care if others get hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:08 PM
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But you should be able to read body language and other non verbal cues to the point where you can tell when a woman isn’t into you at all and there’s no point in trying to engage, right? Meaning that there’s no actual rejection taking place. That’s why I said that you can be successful with women without dealing with rejection of you know how to read non verbal cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:05 PM
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But there is no rejection, at least not the way you imagine it. When you’re good at the whole seduction thing you can just tell how women feel about you just from reading non verbal cues when you interact with them. When I’m around women I don’t need them to approve of me or reject me, I know if a woman finds me attractive just by how she looks at me and how she moves and talks when she interacts with me, so I know when I a woman wants me or doesn’t want me with needing to talk about it, just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:58 PM
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I also completely disagree with OP. As a dude who “got around” a good amount I never did because I had something to prove to the men and women who might be watching, I did it for me. And also there was nobody watching me leave the bar / club with random girls or women hitting me up for booty calls or FWBs type stuff. I don’t want to be mean or judgmental but this wrong assumption by OP shows that he must not have a lot of success with women because what he assumes happens doesn’t match reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:51 PM
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5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:35 PM
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Bro it’s not about “we’ll settled” vs “criminal” men, that’s what you incels don’t understand. It’s about guys who are confident and fun to be around, guys who aren’t bitter and jealous of attractive women vs. guys who are angry at women for having options, guys who are addicted to video games and porn and who make posts like this one on Reddit, guys who don’t have good social skills, are insecure, and aren’t fun to hang out with.. whether they’re well settled or whether they’re criminals or dru…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:44 PM
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I DJ and do a type of Russian combat knife throwing called Skanf. It’s a lot of fun and it’s a good skill to have. This is what it looks like if you want to check it out: https://youtu.be/ZFcQ_EQBbKk?si=j0SRMo4FYtzXqJC0
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:42 AM
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That’s a sign of poor emotional self control and shoes you can’t take rejection with maturity.
/r/seduction16/10/25 06:54 AM
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What’s wrong with atheism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:49 PM
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And you don’t think that’s immature and pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:23 AM
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The culprit is the guy turning into an extra child the woman has to cook for and clean up after. No wonder those women don’t want to have sex with their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:12 PM
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And what would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:58 PM
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And what’s that going to achieve? It’s certainly not going to make more women want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:04 PM
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Only some American men are voting conservative but the overwhelming majority of western men certainly aren’t. Most European men completely disagree with American conservative views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:01 PM
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As a guy who has traveled all over the world and spent a good amont of time in Brazil I can tell you that women are the same everywhere and all aspire to be free and independent and not to have to rely on a man for anything, especially “guidance”. The women in places like Thailand or Vietnam aren’t more conservative, they just don’t have the opportunity to have the freedom and financial independence they desire so they have to settle for guys that western women didn’t want but they certainly don…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:55 AM
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And what’s wrong with casual sex? I’m a guy and also had loads of casual sex in my twenties, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:11 AM
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But why should they pick that option when they can have someone they’re genuinely attracted to and turned on by? Even if those less attractive could potentially be good matches, it’s still settling for women to be with a guy they don’t find really hot. And I don’t see why you would want women to pick guys they’re not into from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:00 AM
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Exactly. But that’s a no brainer, why would any of those things matter if girl doesn’t find you physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:57 AM
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Being funny doesn’t mean much if people are laughing AT you and not laughing WITH you. And a gold sense of humor is only an asset if you’re attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:56 AM
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What you’re saying is absolutely not true. Humor, charisma, and kindness are all things that have gotten me laid in ONS, FWBs, and relationships time and time again, and the things that you mentioned should be a hindrance like being manipulative or having addictions don’t really matter as long as women see that you’re not hurting them with it. Of course, all that only works if you’re above the physical attractiveness threshold women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:53 AM
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But that’s not anyone else’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:07 AM
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Why should sex be fair and equal? That’s ridiculous no one should have to share their body with anyone they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:01 AM
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Bro even guys think your dissertation is incel garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:55 AM
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Why do you care who anyone else goes after? If women chose to go after the most attractive option they can that’s their problem, and if they can’t get them to commit that doesn’t mean they should settle for someone they’re not into. I’m a guy and I certainly don’t settle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:48 AM
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Yes except men are too horny and nerdy to ever do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:46 AM
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If you think the only pleasure that matters is your own you must be a shitty lay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:31 PM
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You don’t get it. A lot of women don’t give a crap about commitment because that’s not what they’re after, so in that case why do you find that bothersome? And don’t speak for all men because me and plenty of other men don’t see things the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:20 AM
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I think the settling thing is a myth. Just because women had one night stands and wild experiences with hotter guys when they were younger and they marry guys who feel more safe and stable later on in life doesn’t mean they’re settling it just means they want different things in a partner when they mature and get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:18 PM
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But why do you care if women want to have casual sex? I’ve had a find amount of relationships but the bulk of my sexual experiences have been casual sex and FWBs type situations and that’s probably where I’ve had the most fun and the wildest experiences and I’m absolutely not concerned about the fact that hotter, richer guys than me and having more sex with more women. It has nothing to do with me and I don’t understand why so many guys care what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:03 PM
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The reality is that guys with lower value on the sexual / dating market have to put in mor effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:09 AM
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No one is forcing you to date women you’re not into so why do you care if women have casual sex with men they’re attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:08 AM
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Flirting / seduction is an art and the lord you practice the better you get. When you’re good at it it doesn’t feel like work at all, on the contrary, it feels like a fun game.
/r/seduction01/09/25 01:54 AM
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I’m a frat boy who been getting laid since my early teens I’m doing just fine I have a more successful dating / sex life than most dudes. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:30 PM
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There’s nothing white knight about noticing most dudes are overweight video games and porn addicts these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:24 AM
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This is retarded, if the state picked up the tab then not a single guy would pay it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:47 AM
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Incels are even worse assholes plus they’re unattractive and immature. If you’re going to date an asshole might as well date an attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:34 AM
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The point is that society was the exact opposite of woman centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:33 AM
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If you don’t want to be dismissed as another incel spouting complete garbage then at least don’t generalize and blame all women and give specific examples of this behavior by specific women. But I have a feeling that you’re just an angry incel who’s never had any sort of relationship with a woman and you’re just repeating the crap you read in incel echo chambers. Bro I’m a guy who’s always willing to hear out other men and listen to their perspective, but I can’t take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:07 AM
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That’s not how that works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:50 AM
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You don’t know shit about anatomy, but sure go on being the only one to contradict ACTUAL DOCTORS AND PHYSICIANS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:39 AM
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That’s simply not true. It’s in your head. Ask anyone WITH AN ACTUAL MEDICAL DEGREE and you’ll see you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:37 AM
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Bro no there isn’t, I’m a guy and anyone who’s been to medical school can tell you it isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:34 AM
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You’re an absolute moron. As a guy with a doctor for a parent, I can tell you the vagina does NOT stretch because of sexual relations. Do the research yourself. You’ll see plenty of physicians explaining that theory is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:32 AM
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This is not an American subreddit. Lol you think this sub is American just because it’s in English?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:52 PM
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Like dogs? Transactional? Dogs love their humans unconditionally. OP clearly doesn’t know shit about dogs. Or women, for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:50 PM
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Another garbage incel take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:10 AM
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How does this hurt normal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:18 AM
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I don’t think women are boring but look at what men do when left to their own devices, they chop down trees, build boats, sail across the ocean and discover new places, set up trade routes, build castles, build roads, etc… women just don’t have that drive to do shit, build shit, discover shit like men do. I don’t think it’s right to call women boring but they’re just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:54 AM
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How are women oppressing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:40 AM
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As a guy, I think that the big problem with guys these days is that while women are getting university degrees and careers and doing / achieving stuff there’s more men than ever just playing video games and other stupid hobbies that make them socially inept instead of tracking them to flirt, communicate with women and developing social skills in general. It’s not exactly a surprise how many porn and video games addicted incel men are out there vs. the number of women having personal / profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:38 AM
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And you’re not entitled to deciding what any of those girls deserve either so why are you acting like you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:51 AM
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That’s such an incel / red pill take, you’re acting like you’re entitled to decide who deserves what when in reality you probably have never had any experiences with women. Stop worrying about what others deserve and just focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:00 AM
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Regardless of desirability people have a right to have preferences for how they want to be treated and and not date people who don’t meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:02 PM
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Bro I thought this post was written by a 16 year old teen, and the fact this was written by an adult is extremely concerning because it means you have a lot of catching up to do if you want to have the maturity and confidence normal guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:44 AM
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Dude the majority of guys wouldn’t give a crap, and the fact you says that you have self esteem and confidence issues, grown ass men with some random women on radio’s song lyrics..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:37 AM
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Bruh… lol. It’s ridiculous to get frustrated over a song and the guys who do are only feel insulted because they have low self esteem. Guys who are confident and who feel good about themselves couldn’t care less what some random singer says in their songs. Work on your maturity and on your self esteem, and you’ll see that other people’s words don’t affect you, no matter how “misandrist”. Like do you seriously not see how immature and weak it is to be emotionally affected by the words of a random…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:31 AM
2

It’s not because women end relationships more than men it’s because women usually have an easier time moving on and because a lot of men have ego issues and think their ex moving on and getting laid is an insult against their pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:01 AM
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I’m a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:59 AM
0

A guy who equates respect with submission is fucked up in the head and shouldn’t be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:36 AM
1

So basically you think you’re special if women who had sex with other guys besides you are “indiscriminate” and “cheap”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:31 AM
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What’s ridiculous is the number of delusional dudes who think they’re special / attractive enough to warrant that kind of treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:29 AM
11

Incel “wisdom”, folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:49 AM
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That’s a red pill / incel take. You actually think going to war and paying taxes should entitle men to be settled for by women who aren’t attracted to them? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:43 AM
3

How are men trained to be like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:41 AM
1

Doesn’t sound very cultured tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:03 AM
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Because you want to get laid / relationships? Women don’t need to try to look good for men because most men are so thirsty and desperate that women don’t have to to try looking good for men to desire them. But men do need to try to look good if they want to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:52 AM
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Do you know how cringe and full of yourself you sound? You say you want to make women adults, as if all women were emotional little children, and you talk as if you’re qualified to teach women how they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:47 AM
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Sounds like you’ve never had a real friendship with a woman where you were actually respected as an equal, and women only do that when they know you want more from them than they want from you and they treat you accordingly on some Nice Guy ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:31 AM
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No that not why at all. It’s simply because the women who stay single usually have a better quality of life, less stress, more freedom, have more successful careers making better money, better healthcare, better self realization opportunities.. and they’re significantly happier, healthier, and wealthier than their married counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:25 PM
11

Incel much?
/r/seduction25/05/25 07:19 AM
7

Actually studies show that women die faster, less happy, and poorer when they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:43 PM
0

And studies show women did faster married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:41 PM
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I’m not talking about looks. I’m talking about dudes who are losers, who are video game and porn addicts, who are overweight, socially inept, and who make absolutely no effort to change anything and complain about women’s standards being “too high”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:55 PM
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You absolutely do if you want to be taken seriously by anyone. Because otherwise people will know you’re just repeating crap you heard other incels say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:11 AM
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Most of your posts are about video games. It’s not hard to see you’re a teenager with virtually no firsthand experience of women / relationships and that you’re mostly regurgitating crap you hear in incel echo chambers, so as a guy with actual experience it’s kinda hard to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:25 AM
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No one. Which is why I enjoy giving sexual pleasure to women I have sex with.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 04:01 PM
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That’s such retarded thinking from someone who clearly doesn’t even have a dating / sex life IRL. Guys who do date / have sex with attractive women want to do it repeatedly, and women don’t hook up with guys who are terrible lays who aren’t capable of pleasing a woman. And apparently it wouldn’t bother you to know that among women in your social circle are talking about what a shitty lay you are and that you’re known as “that guy that can’t fuck”, but personally I’d rather be known for actually …
/r/MensRights16/05/25 12:49 PM
1

I didn’t keep in touch with most, especially if they were ONSs. But I’ve had some vacation/ travel short flings with a few people I did keep in touch with.
/r/seduction15/05/25 09:37 AM
2

That makes no sense, women can say the exact same thing about men, they don’t provide anything women can’t get elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:50 PM
2

It’s such an incel take to think that sex is something men do TO women. I know plenty of chicks who straight fuck dudes and use them for their pleasure. Are this guys considered “ran through”? Sex is isn’t something men do to women, it’s something men and women do to each other and it’s something women do to men a lot of the time so the whole “ran through” theory makes absolutely no sense. And why should sex be something women only reserve for one man? Is sex also something that men should only …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:41 PM
2

I agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:59 AM
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Sure, if they want to be incels their whole lives. I’d rather have good relationships with women and still have a good dating / sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:27 AM
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You can’t change that without taking away women’s freedom to choose or without restricting women’s rights again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:24 AM
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There’s no way to “address” these issues. Women have free will to date and settle with who they want for the first time in history, so obviously things aren’t going to be the same as when women needed men for economic stability + physical safety, and when women had to marry the first guy they had sex with because there was no such thing as east access to north control and society would call women whores if they had kids out of wedlock so obviously things are going to be very different for the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:00 AM
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First thing to do is to stop talking like an incel and stop saying “ _____maxxing” ..
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:18 AM
9

Wear stylish things that compliment your body type
/r/seduction06/05/25 12:10 AM
1

As if the incels, Nice Guys, and Passport Bros on this sub are capable of putting anyone “in their place” lol.
/r/seduction05/05/25 11:41 PM
6

These incel takes won’t get you anywhere dude. All you did with this post is tell the world you’re the type of guy who is unsuccessful at getting attention from women, and is most likely addicted to video games and doom scrolling on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:54 AM
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If you’re a loner and don’t enjoy socializing and building human connections why would you want to have more options to meet women? It still leaves the whole seduction process, the whole process of flirting back and forth, of exchanging non verbal cues that indicate you’re into each other while you pretend that there isn’t growing sexual tension between you two, until the moment when you decide to lean in for a first kiss. To most of us the flirting phase is highly enjoyable, but I can see how a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:25 AM
0

Wow you’re about as smooth as a kick in the teeth.
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:59 AM
2

That’s absolutely terrible advice. No offense but you sound like you’re either a child under 15 or a guy who knows absolutely nothing about women.
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:09 AM
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Bro no offense but it doesn’t sound like you have any firsthand personal experience with women and dating, all your views are the typical prepackaged incel echo chamber assumptions based on emotions instead of fact. But you’re talking like you’re a dating expert and an authority in women’s behavior when you’ve clearly not experienced those things personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:50 AM
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Yeah they are, there’s recent studies that prove women are happier being single and having a cat, a group of friends, a career they love- than they would be dating a guy below their standards. And you know what the difference between the women and the guys is? Most guys who are single open up tinder and have at the most 3-4 matches, none of which are down to have a one night stand. Single women can open up tinder and have 400 guys willing to give them anything from serious dating to no strings a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:35 AM
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In all fairness, most men aren’t attractive. In North America most men are overweight, and on top of that most men don’t know how to dress for their body type, don’t bother grooming, and have no social skills from being inside playing video games all the time instead of playing sports and spending time socializing with a group of friends with guys and girls in it. I’m a short guy who does well in terms of dating / sex life and I feel like part of the reason I’ve been so successful is because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:54 AM
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Of course women want good guys, but that doesn’t mean that they’re going to sacrifice physical attraction to get with one.. And as guy I also prefer dating nice, stable women, but I’ve certainly dated plenty of psychos because I wasn’t willing to date a women I wasn’t physically attracted to simply for the sake of dating a “nice” woman. So I definitely don’t blame women who would rather date a toxic dude they’re physically/sexually attracted to than a “nice guy” they’re absolutely not attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 AM
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I think very few men are doing that. I’ve never once in my life paid for sex or paid for content or for a woman to talk to me, and I don’t even know what the OF homepage looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:35 AM
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If you think Reddit incels = “all men” then it’s time to put your phone down for a while..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:31 AM
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I’ve never paid for sex in my life and I don’t intend to. And if I did, it certainly wouldn’t scratch that “itch” for me because to me a huge part of the excitement of having sex with a woman is knowing that she’s as thirsty for me as I am for her and seeing that look of desire in her eyes as she’s tearing my clothes off me. I couldn’t be with a woman who doesn’t have that level of intensity and passion for me, and if I did I’d probably walk out of there feeling absolutely horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:30 AM
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Sorry but the notion that guys who get around (“chads”) see women as objects for their sexual pleasure is a common misconception that guys who struggle with dating tend to have. I’ve been fortunate enough to have always done well with women and to have been around other men who are desirable to women, and not me or other guys I’ve been around see women that way, on the contrary. You’ll find the that the guys who do well with women tend to genuinely enjoy women’s company and don’t judge them, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:39 PM
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Yep, I’ve never met guys who are successful in dating, sexually experienced, and generally desirable to women who use incel / red pill expressions like “a ran through woman”, “cock caroussel”, “hit the wall”, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:31 PM
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I’m not disputing the veracity of your results. Out of curiosity what kind of numbers are we talking about in your dating stats?
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:03 AM
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It’s not about thinking differently it’s about incels making these broad generalizations like “all women this”, “all tall guys.. ”, “all short guys..”, “all ethnic guys..” to explain their dating issues.
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:39 AM
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Lol you think a limo is refined? It screams “rental” and basically shows you like cosplaying as Chuck Bass, and the vast majority of women will notice and think how adorable it is that you thought the limo ride was so special you made sure to take a pic before going back to your 2002 Toyota with 200k miles on it. And they’ll swipe accordingly. Not because they don’t want a guy in a Toyota. But because they want a dude who’s confident enough to own whatever ride he’s in. And the fact you didn’t w…
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:34 AM
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So? Not everyone wants a life with a long term monogamous relationship, and you kinda talk as if it’s the situation everyone should want.. why?
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:43 PM
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No woman ever said that going to college would magically improve men’s dating prospects. Just because women want a guy on their level education wise doesn’t mean they don’t want someone they find fun, attractive, confident, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:30 AM
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I’ve never heard women saying that go to college would get men more dates, where have you seen that? But even if they did, that doesn’t mean that men should expect to get more dates JUST because they go to college, you still have to be attractive, fun to be around, confident, have decent social skills, and the other things that women look for in sexual / romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:15 AM
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What exactly is “college thinking”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:12 AM
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Good men ARE persued. But that doesn’t mean that women can’t go for guys that are both good men AND that they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:01 PM
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I’m a guy and I also think most men are low value AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:09 PM
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I’m a man and I when I look around I also think that most men aren’t viable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:08 PM
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Lol I am a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:46 PM
1

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:53 AM
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The problem is that so many men just don’t understand how seduction works and don’t know how to talk to girls. Those don’t realize that the language of flirting / seduction is mostly non verbal signals and that’s how women let you know if they’re interested in talking to a guy / wants him to get close / lean in for a kiss or if she wants the guy to leave her the hell alone. And it seems like a lot of these guys just don’t understand those signals and those are the ones that need to actually be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:38 AM
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But if you have any experience with flirting / seduction you don’t have to just approach and shoot your shot, you read the non verbal cues and pick up whether she’s attracted and wants you to approach or whether she’s absolutely not interested in having you come into her space and start a conversation. Those signals get easy to read after a few years of being around women (which most guys start doing in their teens), and personally I’ve never just walked up to a girl not knowing if she was inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:29 AM
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I don’t believe in “Chad” I think it’s a made up incel concept based on stereotypes and oversimplifications. Nevertheless I thought it was interesting we both wrote similar walls of text, just with two completely different points of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:21 AM
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Jesus, this is such a depressing incel / low self esteem take. First off if you don’t to approach women hat in hand for her to approve of you or reject you. If you have experience with flirting / seduction you know how to read signals and non verbal cues and you’ve picked up some indicators of interest on her part before you approach. And if you’re subtle and you’re fun to talk to and hang out with you can have a great conversation with increasing sexual tension without ever having to actually s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:16 AM
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r/iamverybadass #incelbehavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:04 AM
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If that was true then you wouldn’t hear all these Nice Guys complaining that the girl they like friendzoned them and is banging some broke guy who doesn’t have a car and who’s been to prison twice.
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:45 AM
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Yeah there’s a legal term for what you just described, it’s “statutory rape” and it carries a hefty jail sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:20 PM
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Yea I do think late teens look like kids compared to me and a grown ass man has no business being with someone that young. Most 16 year old girls are post puberty, are you saying you’re attracted to them as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:02 PM
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No. As a guy who’s 35+ I think girls in their late teens look like literal children and wouldn’t want to date one. And any guy older than 24 who wants to date 19 year old girls is disgusting. Stop trying to talk for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:39 AM
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Actually at 19 they’re boys, they’re still teenagers and very emotionally immature. That’s a biological fact. And I hope you understand that soon your gf will probably realize how creepy it is that a 40 year old is preying on a teenager and leaves you for a guy in her age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:25 AM
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That’s a really insecure way of seeing things, and being confident is a prerequisite to being successful at seduction. You really need to change your outlook if you want to ever be able to be good at flirting / just talking to women because lack of confidence and self esteem is a huge turnoff for girls.
/r/seduction03/04/25 01:02 PM
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She didn’t switch up all of a sudden she switched up after OP took forever to initiate anything and didn’t seize the moment to make a statement and take charge like she wanted him to and did things like giving her a neck massage to suggest he was very inexperienced and probably wouldn’t be a fun time.
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:32 PM
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Wtf lol you showed up to a date after not showering for a few days? Don’t you know everyone showers before a date lol? Like you want to look your best, smell good and wear clean clothes, otherwise the other person will get grossed out and definitely won’t want to get you naked to deal with your BO. But yeah, I’m pretty sure this woman got annoyed at the fact that you weren’t being decisive and just taking forever, which takes the kinkiness and the spontaneity right out of it and she just wasn’t …
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:29 PM
1

Lol are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:01 PM
1

That’s absolutely not true, now you’re just making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:23 AM
1

If it was science we’d all have that feeling whereas fewer and fewer of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:22 AM
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No. Now you’re just spouting off incel rhetoric. I’m a 5’6 guy that has always done very well dating wise and have had desirable women cheat on their 6 foot BFs / fiancés with me. Please don’t start repeating what the incels on r/shortguys are saying, they don’t realize that their attitude is the reason they aren’t successful and that there’s plenty of us short guys doing very well for ourselves when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:14 AM
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Actually what you really need is to develop platonic relationships with women and start spending time going out / partying with them without the pressure of trying to hit on them. It’ll help you demystify women and teach you to communicate with them. Literally start hanging out with friends who are girls while they pre party before the bar and they just sit around drinking a glass of wine and talking about what constitutes good dick. Be out there with them at the bar / club and watch them get ap…
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:18 AM
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Don’t even bother reading his comments, he’s dim af. And he can’t write paragraphs so he talks in bulletpoints and no one takes him seriously so don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:16 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:37 AM
2

But why do you care what anyone else’s standards are? And why should anyone have to change their standards to make you happy? Why don’t you let women desire who they want and just worry about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:31 AM
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Of course men can have hobbies but if developing social skills is the goal then you should get hobbies that involve being sociable and being around real people (especially women if learning seduction is the goal), and video games are the one hobby guaranteed to make men socially inept. Again, I’ve NEVER met a guy who plays video games that was good at flirting and had a successful dating life, the kind of guy who can walk into a bar or a club and leave with a girl at the end of the night.
/r/seduction23/03/25 05:19 PM
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By putting yourself in social situations with different people, by having a circle of women friends who are 100% platonic that you go out and party with (happy hour at bars, clubs, restaurants…), and by staying away from the things that kill social skills the number 1 being video games; I’ve never met a guy who played video games that was successful with women / good at seduction. And to women, nothing says “incel loser” like a guy who plays video games and spends his time chasing pixels around …
/r/seduction23/03/25 05:10 PM
1

How is it being “pushed” on kids?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 09:50 AM
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Why would you care if you don’t have a small D?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 09:40 AM
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As a guy I gotta tell you that your little outburst just now was major SDE ..
/r/MensRights23/03/25 09:36 AM
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You clearly don’t know anything about history.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 09:31 AM
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Absolutely. If the guys see you as fun, confident, interesting, and not creepy / desperate they’ll usually want their girl friends to have fun and get laid and they can definitely pave the way IF you meet their standards. But to even get to that point you have to be able to read non verbal cues and see how the guys and girls interact and make sure you’re not about to walk into a situation where one of the guys secretly likes one of the girls and will try to keep any potential competitors away. I…
/r/seduction23/03/25 06:49 AM
2

Ok thanks, I’m totally not familiar with all the pick up lingo. If there’s guys in the group you obviously have to read the situation and see if any of the dudes are territorial over the girls then there’s no point in trying to talk to girls and end up in a situation where the guys get annoyed. But if the guys really are just friends they’ll want their girl friends to score and hook up with hot guys and will have no problem with them flirting with a guy at the bar.
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:24 AM
2

Yep having fun and feeling good about yourself is a huge part of it.
/r/seduction22/03/25 05:49 AM
2

What’s a mixed set?
/r/seduction22/03/25 05:47 AM
2

I’m not sure that’s good advice. I’ve never cold approached in my life but I know how to read body language and non verbal cues so I know when someone is into me and when a girls wants me to lean in for a kiss without ever needing to actually discuss it. I feel like that’s what a lot of these guys are missing; the social skills to flirt and seduce, to read / create sexual tension and act on it at the right time because that’s what allows guys to hook up with girls at bars and clubs without the n…
/r/seduction22/03/25 05:46 AM
4

They get the backlash from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:36 PM
7

But you only prefer traditional gender stereotypes for men. When it comes to women I assume you’re “progressive” and you’re in favor of women not being limited by traditional gender roles, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:35 PM
1

He was laughing at your ignorance and bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:32 PM
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So essentially women are only progressive when it comes to women, but when it comes to men they’re fiercely in favor of traditional gender roles, ie they want masculine men who pay for first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:20 PM
0

You mean because you don’t want to admit that as far as men as concerned you value traditional gender roles, like most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:15 PM
1

You mean by forcing themselves to settle for unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:10 PM
1

What value do incels and all those video game addicts with no social skills living in their parent’s basement have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:09 PM
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No I’ll gladly call out anyone who thinks they know who’s “looksmatch” is who, and that absolutely includes women, god knows some of them do it too. But the whole looksmatch thing is a black pill / incel concept that originated in those online echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:13 AM
3

But who are you to judge anyone else’s standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:25 PM
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But who are you to judge who is in what percentile? I love the made up incel concept of “looksmatch”, where they basically think they can decide who is attractive enough for whom. I agree men aren’t literally swamp creatures but as a guy I do think that most men out there look like crap compared to women in the sense that they dress terribly, they barely do basic hygiene, they don’t groom adequately and do anything to make themselves look semi attractive, or they’re socially inept video game add…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:18 PM
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Pickup skills are really social skills, and social skills aren’t usually a problem for guys who don’t just sit inside playing video games and writing in incel echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:55 AM
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No. Sex isn’t “so easy” to women. Sorry but even as a guy who has spent a lot of time dating different women and getting their perspective I’ve seen firsthand that for the most part what’s actually “easy” to women is shitty sex with a good chance of physical / sexual assault + unwanted pregnancy. The vast majority of the men who approach women are low value men who think that they’re average, offering mediocre sexual performances with a side of poor hygiene and physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:51 AM
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I’m an average guy and my dating life has always been good since my teens, I get approached by desirable women and so do my equally relatively average friends. I’ve never dated a fat single mom or ever been a “jester” for any woman. I think that what you consider average men are actually low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:30 PM
4

Exactly, it’s absolutely ridiculous and most men don’t agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:22 PM
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Yeah it’s actually ridiculous how these guys paint such a dramatic picture of the dating market situation for guys when most guys don’t even agree with their view of things. And somehow it’s always the guys who don’t date or even spend time with women who always claim to understand dating dynamics and how women function.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:21 PM
2

That’s a lot of words to basically say OP is bitter at women and want them to admit men have it harder based on red / black pill theories probably picked up in incel echo chambers and which have little to no factual elements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:16 PM
1

*perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:47 AM
8

It’s pretty inappropriate that you made a statement like “female sexuality is innately selfish” when you have absolutely no personal experience in that regard because it means you’re just basing it on what you’re seeing in echo chambers full of incels and other bitter, socially inept immature dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:36 AM
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As a guy, all I’m hearing is incel-like complaints that life isn’t fair. As an average guy who’s gotten laid a good amount the best I can recommend is to stop worrying about what women do and to just worry about looking your best and having good social skills. That’s what will change things for you dating-wise, not crying about women’s preferences like the other incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:20 AM
2

But the point is why do you care that some men are excluded? Are you seriously upset that life isn’t fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:45 AM
3

But who are you to say who is in who’s league? Let people be attracted to who they want, it’s got nothing to do with you. And there’s plenty of average guys having casual sex, I’m an average guy and had my fair share before getting into a relationship and I’ve seen a lot of other average guys so very well for themselves dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:37 AM
1

Lol what? Men’s standards absolutely don’t include all women, plenty of guys have extremely high standards. And why should women be criticized for having standards that exclude some men? Obviously there’s always a group excluded when someone has preferences so why is it a big deal that women have preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:30 AM
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Do you have any firsthand experience of women’s sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:20 AM
4

Thad’s because you’re not the one dealing with creepy ass dudes approaching to shoot their shot and just being annoying and not taking rejection well if refusing to take no for an answer. I do well with women / dating even though I’m relatively average and that ms because when you have the social / communication skills to read non verbal cues you can tell when someone is into you or not and whether you can get physically close / lean in for a kiss without having to ever ask for anything and risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:19 PM
1

How is weed a degenerate habit? And how is it any worse than having an alcoholic drink in social settings every once in awhile?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:42 AM
2

Bro you sound extremely immature and you sound like you’re the type who should be spending a lot more time working on his social skills and confidence and a lot less time playing video games and complaining about women on Reddit, a lot of your comments make you sound like an incel who has no idea how to talk to or relate to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:25 AM
5

Because they don’t want a girl with enough experience to figure out that they have absolutely no clue what they’re doing.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 04:51 AM
1

Bro get that incel crap out of your head, that’s your major problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:13 PM
2

Actually it’s not meaningless since her experience is consistent with all the other women who commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:47 AM
0

Wrong. Most people look for the most attractive person they can attract. Again, you’ll never find that concept outside of incel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:44 AM
0

Looksmatch is an incel concept, I don’t know a single normal guy who even knows that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:38 AM
4

Bro it’s ridiculous to think most men ever believed being a hard working good guy would ever result in attracting women lol where do you get this stuff? I don’t know a single guy who ever believed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:56 AM
9

So you’re essentially saying that you’re not attractive but you only want to date attractive women?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 09:30 AM
1

Regardless, it’s disingenuous for red pillers or anyone else to claim that men age like wine and women age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:28 AM
8

Despite what red pillers think, most men age like shit. They gain weight (especially in unsightly places like their stomach), they lose muscle tone, their hair lines recede or they end up completely bald, they start having weird hairs growing out of their noses and ears… There’s very few dudes who age like George Clooney and Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:08 PM
1

What’s “vournability”? And if your date didn’t end in a kiss / making out session it didn’t go as well as you think, perhaps the conversation was good but she didn’t feel any spark.
/r/seduction12/01/25 08:46 AM
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You’re completely wrong lol. I’m assuming you don’t have any sexual experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:01 PM
4

Our matches ARE our equivalent on the dating market, that’s why they’re our matches. If you were worth more then you’d get better matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:35 AM
8

I’m 5’6 with a successful dating / sex life and I’ve had women make me feel sexy and desired since my teens and I’m far from only short guy I’ve seen getting this sort of treatment from women. It’s largely a matter of how you look and how you carry yourself. You have to maintain an athletic, good looking body, be well groomed and wear clothes that fit you well and that you look comfortable in, you have to be graceful socially and be a good flirt but it’s absolutely possible for women to approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:13 AM
4

Even if that was the case why do you care? Everyone is free to have their own standards, it has nothing to do with you. I’m a man and I couldn’t care less what anyone else decides to do, it has nothing to do with me. The guys who aren’t successful in terms of dating / sex can’t blame women’s standards, most of those guys have no social skills and would rather spend their time playing video games at home rather than working on being interesting, in shape, and with good enough social skills to act…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:49 AM
3

Lol you sound like an Andrew rate wannabe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:46 AM
3

I’d love to hear what makes you think you’re such a high quality man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:55 AM
10

For someone who doesn’t care this sure seems to get you triggered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:53 AM
1

Maybe not a slave but a second class citizen. Not having full body autonomy, not being allowed to open a bank account or apply for a credit card without their husband’s approval, not being able to vote, not having the same opportunities to work and get education…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:10 PM
1

That’s completely unrealistic. For one thing women have the same voting power as men and would never allow those legislations to pass and neither would most men. Only insecure men have an issue with women having full rights, full autonomy, and the same opportunities as men. So most men would also be against legislation that restricts women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:08 PM
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I don’t think this is particularly good advice. I’ve had a successful dating / sex life since my teens living in 5 different countries, I have good communication with women and even though I understand we have different communication styles and that not all guys who are successful in dating have the same way of doing things I wouldn’t recommend these tips as a general roadmap for all women. I can see how the stuff OP wrote MIGHT work every once in awhile but I wouldn’t call it good advice becaus…
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:30 PM
0

Lol why I get the feeling that you’re angry at women because of your own lack of success when it comes to dating/ sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:13 PM
7

A woman who had casual sex before knowing you constitutes getting one over on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:50 AM
2

Why would you get laughed at? No one cares about what anyone else is doing, no one is looking at you and even if they see you they have no reason to laugh sounds like you’re paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:11 AM
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That’s not it, I think it’s more to do with the fact that if you take the salsa classes fir the sake of meeting women and getting laid you’ll reek of desperation when you interact with women and that will sabotage your chances. Don’t get me wrong, I see your point but as a guy all the one night stands I’ve had and all the spontaneous sexual encounters were had when I was just out to have a good time and meeting women absolutely wasn’t on my mind. That’s when the universe seems to put attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:38 PM
-1

Because the perpetrators are always inevitably male, so you can’t blame women for seeing it the way they do.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 10:15 PM
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The point is that when it’s always men who do that shit, I don’t think anyone has ever been robbed by a woman in a dark alley.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 12:39 AM
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She smiled but she was probably cringing inside women hate when men hit on them at work, especially jobs where woman have to smile and be friendly because men try to take advantage of that to hit on them and it’s super toxic.
/r/seduction25/08/24 06:25 PM
1

So you’d rather women essentially be forced to settle for men they’re not attracted to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:15 AM
1

Depends on your looks. If you’re balding with a dad bod and you’d dress like a boomer things aren’t going to work out in your favor. But if you know how to dress and you have an athletic body and you still look relatively young it shouldn’t be an issue.
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:31 PM
9

Sexual tension isn’t something you do with words. It’s something you do with non verbal cues and communication like looks, your vibe, physical proximity, subtle touching, etc... In fact the best thing you can do is to keep the conversation perfectly innocent but to say what you want through subtle non verbal cues: look her in the eye, think about kissing her passionately, and it’ll show in your vibe and your looks. Women definitely pick up those signals. And eventually, you’ll feel her retuning …
/r/seduction24/08/24 02:31 AM
1

Because the second a girl feels like you’re putting her on a pedestal she’ll never see you as sexy or desirable. Girls like guys that are respectful but that are independent, emotionally self sufficient, and that they have to work for and chase a little bit to get their attention. If she doesn’t see you as a challenge you’re not interesting to her.
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:14 PM
1

They didn’t choose to do what was necessary to be visible either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:05 AM
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Actually it’s poor people having the most kids. The people who remain child free tend to be highly educated and wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:23 PM
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Quality dudes don’t need dating apps to get laid / date. So yeah, dating apps tend to be full of creeps and losers. But there’s also a lot of basic bitches out there trying to punch above their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:19 PM
3

OP is completely wrong and doesn’t seem to understand that being a good conversationalist is a prerequisite to becoming good at flirting. Flirting / seduction are an art, and men who don’t have good social skills will never become good at flirting. The guy with good conversation and social skills at least has a chance to eventually become good at flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:37 AM
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Bruh I’m 5’6 and make less than 60k and I do very well for myself dating wise. I’m thin / athletic and I’m good looking, but I’m not tall or rich and it hasn’t stopped me from getting attention, dates and sex from desirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:34 AM
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An American male? Remember that 75% of American men are overweight, which is considered a seriously unattractive trait in Europe. It doesn’t matter what country you go to if you’re not somewhat attractive, women have the same beauty standards all over the western world.
/r/seduction31/07/24 10:17 AM
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You think Russian women don’t know what an attractive men is? Lol those women are attracted to the same guys that western women are, they have the same beauty standards. But those girls aren’t afraid to play the long game and the only reason they’re associating with guys that are literal incels and probably have shitty social skills is because they want something from those dudes in the long term and if they have to invest a few years of their lives being with a guy they’re not attracted to they…
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:58 PM
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As a guy I think the manosphere is pathetic and that’s it’s mostly full of incels and dudes who are just bitter at women. Plus if a dude can’t figure out in his own that he’s better off going after education and a career that getting married young and to not get screwed over by gold diggers then he’s probably not the sharpest tool in the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:06 AM
5

“Buying”? I’ve never paid for tinder and it works just fine for me.
/r/seduction15/07/24 09:52 AM
4

It’s not a trump card, a guy who doesn’t understand that it’s not safe for a woman to go hiking alone with a man she doesn’t know is a sign that he lacks emotional intelligence, which os a big red flag and a sign that there’s more blunders of the same kind on his part to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:26 AM
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When you hit on someone you’re not keeping it professional. And ask ANY woman if it’s creepy to get hit on at work and see what they tell you.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:53 AM
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I don’t envy lil Wayne or any other celeb because women sleep with then just because they’re famous. Since I was a teenager I’ve been successful at attracting hot, intelligent women and during my time as a college frat boy I’ve hooked up with more beautiful sorority girls and other desirable women than most guys get to hook up with in two lifetimes, and I definitely got my fill since my hoe phase lasted another five years after I graduated and I’m still doing well to this day. And if it’s “reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:58 PM
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I’m not mad I’ve been successful at attracting the women I’m into since I’ve been a teenager. And four years of living in a fraternity house made me go through a ho phase most guys would be jealous of. You’re the one who’s obviously mad because guys only talk like you when they’re bitter they can’t attract hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:17 PM
4

Don’t hit on women at work. It’s creepy and women hate it.
/r/seduction13/07/24 05:15 PM
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Probably because you’re unsuccessful with women. Maybe I’d have the same views if I had that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:08 PM
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“You shouldn’t need to tick every fucking box”. Says who? You? Who are you to dictate what other people’s standards are? You’re just mad you’re not getting the women you want. People have a right to be attracted to whoever they want and to reject whoever they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:07 PM
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There’s way more than 1% of guys that are well groomed, not overweight and who don’t act creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:44 PM
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How is it voluntary? No one decides who they find attractive and not attractive. Why should women be forced to date men they’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:43 PM
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Foreign definitely do want to date western women since they represent the beauty standard of the world. That’s why you have the “bobs and vagene” stereotype of the creepy Indian guy desperate for any action with western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:41 PM
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Why is this weird to you, OP? And I’m a guy and I think most dudes are creeps and losers. This isn’t exactly news to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:39 PM
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Because that’s how seduction happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:18 AM
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Lol like being married is the goal for all women. There’s a lot of women these days who are more interested in having a good career, enjoying heir freedom and seeing the world than they are in staying at home cleaning and cooking and popping out some kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:20 AM
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Lol that’s ridiculous people still had plenty of casual sex and cheated on their partners. Stop idealizing the past because it wasn’t that different from today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:33 AM
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Bullshit. Why should women have to settle for guys they don’t find attractive? That’s only going to end in a miserable relationship, a dead bedroom, cheating with a guy they actually do find hot, and, finally, end with a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:28 AM
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A you said was that a lot of men struggle to get attention and women don’t give them an opportunity, that doesn’t explain why you want women to give an opportunity to men they’re not attracted to in the first place and I’m not trying to argue with you I just don’t understand the argument you’re trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:30 AM
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That’s a question of point of view. What would you consider the bar being on the ground? Every below average guy having a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:14 PM
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Why should they? Are they supposed to start dating men they’re not attracted to just to make incels and other below average men happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:13 PM
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I think a lot of the guys on this sub who complain about women’s high standards think that they’re average when in reality they’re far below average. If you’re a guy with no social skills, who doesn’t dress well, has no confidence, nothing going for him, spends his free time playing video games, doesn’t bother working out / having an athletic body, no interesting hobbies.. then you’re not average, you’re well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:28 AM
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“Whore for Chad”? Bitter incel much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:06 AM
1

There’s a reason people call it “Eastern Europe”. When people think of France, Italy, Spain, Belgium, etc.. they just say “Europe”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:28 AM
1

Exactly. If OP and other incels understood this their situations would probably be very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:51 PM
3

You can tell lie to yourself and pretend you’re “more” European than actual Europeans all you want, but at the end of the day people from the old soviet block are Slavic, not European. Joining NATO and the European Union doesn’t make you European and there’s no one in the world who thinks people from old soviet countries are more European than the French, Germans, Italians and Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:07 PM
2

Eastern European / ex soviet countries don’t have the same culture as Western European countries. Eastern Europeans have been part of Europe for less than 30 years and I don’t really consider them European when it comes to this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:09 PM
4

In Eastern European countries maybe but definitely not in Western Europe and America.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:36 AM
4

Not just American, European women would never go for that bullshit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:31 AM
5

And who decides who’s in their league? The bitter incels and losers who constantly whine on this sub about women choosing “Chad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:23 AM
3

Women have the opposite issue. They get attention from incels, losers and other low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:20 AM
-4

Did you forget to write /s or are you are you actually trying to sound like a Nice Guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:11 AM
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But why do you take it so personally is the question? Like it’s not such a high threshold, I don’t think it’s a big deal but apparently you do and I’m not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:28 PM
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You think that asking for men that are charming, outgoing, intuitive, sociable, assured and low inhib is asking for too much? As a guy I think that’s a relatively low bar, I don’t see how this is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:59 PM
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NiceGuy post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:49 PM
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First, no guy gets laid every time they go to the bar. I’ve gotten laid from women I met at the bar a lot, and every single time it happened I was out to have a good time and getting laid wasn’t my agenda. If you go out and your primary motivation is getting laid, it won’t happen. Women don’t really respect guys who approach. They’ll chat and accept free drinks but they know you approached because you find them attractive and they know what you want. If you go out just looking to have fun and yo…
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:05 AM
3

I go to clubs to party with friends. It doesn’t stop me from meeting women and having ONSs but that’s not the reason I go to clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:21 PM
0

That really makes you sound like an insecure guy who can’t handle a woman who earns good money, achieves at a high level and that you won’t be able to bully into submission…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:10 PM
-2

Why? You think the fact drinks are expensive is supposed to impress her?
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:15 AM
8

Lol how can it be similar if there’s no drinking involved? Alcohol is social lubricant, you don’t have to get drunk but a bit of alcohol loosens the tongues and the inhibitions, and the atmosphere of a fancy cocktail lounge isn’t something you can just replicate by going to a park or a coffee shop.
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:55 PM
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“So I could eat” .. you can’t have your priorities mixed. If you wanna eat then go somewhere with friends on a Sunday afternoon and eat till you’re ready for a nap. But save the eating for a night when you’re not trying to seduce a woman and want her to desire you sexually. No one feels sexy on a full stomach. It’s just not conducive to seduction because it’s a mood killer, which is why restaurants should be avoided like the plague for first time dates.
/r/seduction05/05/24 05:28 PM
38

Look up skylounges in your city. Good cocktails + city skyline views at sunset always make a big impression, especially if she’s never been there before.
/r/seduction05/05/24 05:23 PM
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Such a rookie mistake. My personal go-to is fancy cocktail lounges. You can hear yourself talk, the drinks are really good and you can get some nice finger foods, the atmosphere actually favors creating sexual tension and it’s dark / private enough so that you can eventually lean in for a kiss without it being inappropriate.
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:33 AM
1

This is ridiculous and flawed logic. Money and sex are completely different and unrelated for me. I’ve been having sex since my teens and I didn’t make decent money until my late 20s but I was very sexually active with multiple partners when I was pretty much broke and it made no difference whatsoever. Now that I have money it still doesn’t make a difference in my dating / sex life, and now that I’m older I’m past my hoe phase and don’t feel to have multiple FWBs and ONSs. I basically have one F…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:55 AM
1

I can’t speak for women but the ones I’m Aron d aren’t anything like what you described. All the women I know are college educated, speak multiple languages, own real estate/ have investments, are cultured and well traveled. And how is it so hard to look your best, stand up straight, look people in the eye when you talk to them, and have decent social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:48 AM
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Excellent is material stuff on top of the basics, so basically career, money and lifestyle. I don’t see what’s so hard about looking your best, standing up straight, looking at people in the eye and having decent social skills. It’s not that hard to pull off if you have a normal social life and don’t spend all your time playing video games indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:46 AM
0

That wasn’t sarcasm, the stuff I mentioned is pretty basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:50 AM
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The bar is really not that high. Obviously the bare minimum is being confident, having good social skills, being interesting/ fun to be around, being well groomed and well dressed and having good posture / carrying yourself well and making eye contact when you talk to others. But other than that it doesn’t much to meet women who want to date / have sex. You don’t even need to have six pack abs as long as you’re not fat and have a reasonably fit body. Bit you don’t need to be a bear, don’t need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:04 PM
1

You sound like an angry incel loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:01 AM
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I’m a guy and I don’t think anyone should be accountable to anyone else. Live your life how you want, date who you want and screw how angry Reddit virgins feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:01 PM
1

Don’t you know how to flirt? Seduction is mostly body language and subtle non verbal cues. When you walk into a room most women will at least glance your way and have some sort of reaction. Most of those reactions will signify indifference, but with experience you can know who to talk to and who’s receptive to a conversation at the very least. After that it’s up to you to be charming and interesting and to know how to create and foster sexual tension.
/r/seduction27/04/24 09:52 PM
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Dude you don’t say you’re attracted to her and you want to kiss her, you SHOW her that you’re attracted to her by being flirty and playful, and by leaning in and kissing her when you feel the moment is right. You have to know how to read her signals because 99% of flirting / seduction is non verbal cues. That’s how you build sexual tension, all the looks, the eye contact, the body language, the tone, the vibe.. when you and the girl are talking about something completely innocent but your eyes a…
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:41 PM
1

No. Well adjusted men don’t function and socialize in the digital world, they have friends, hobbies, play sports, party, and date girls in the real world. The digital world turns guys into incels and losers with no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:30 AM
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Lol that’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:54 AM
1

I’ve never gotten the contact info of my ONS. But either way you NEVER reach the next day after a date.
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:14 AM
2

That’s a stupid suggestion life guard doesn’t force you to interact with women on a daily basis and doesn’t teach you about how your vibe influences social interactions.
/r/seduction29/02/24 11:34 PM
1

Bartending. Or fry cook at hooters.
/r/seduction29/02/24 11:31 PM
2

So you want women to find boring guys with no social skills who play video games and don’t even work out to stay fit or be remotely attractive… attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:37 AM
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Essentially there is no flirting possible without a certain level of social skills and nothing will get better until you get past some of your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:47 PM
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Most of the men I’m around are very good at seduction and they’re also are very good at picking up subtle cues and reading non verbal communication, so this isn’t a thing with all men by any means. But I do agree that guys who don’t do well with women and don’t know how to flirt usually have lacking social skills and are incapable of picking up on non verbal cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:43 AM
1

Dude you have no idea. My fraternity has stereotypical frat dudes but also dudes who were straight nerds, some into music and photography, some into shit like robotics. And yes, that is what I’m saying. That a lot of those dudes who complain about “Chad” and about how “it’s over” for them are really guys with decent looks who don’t bother developing the social skills required to have the kind of relationships with women they wished they had. If my 5’6 ass can do it in college and in four differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:05 PM
1

Dude I’m not in college anymore. I don’t live in my college town anymore and since graduating I’ve lived in four different western countries and my dating / sex life experience has been the exact same, how do you explain that? It has nothing to do with being in a frat. It has everything to do with social skills, confidence and attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:03 PM
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I’m a dude and I think most guys look like crap. They’re either unhygienic or overweight, they don’t dress well or wear things that compliment their body type, they don’t take care of their bodies and have fat stomachs, and on top of that I’m seeing more and more men that are socially inept because they sit at home playing video games during their free time and their “social life” consists of talking online to other basement-dwelling mouth breathers. And the more I see guys like that, the more I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:45 PM
3

Stop the philosophical bs, being nice is the bare minimum but it’ll never be enough to get laid or a relationship. There needs to be physical attraction and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:12 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:05 PM
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You are making excuses. Dude had a good night because he had good social skills and didn’t let the fact that the girl he was talking to had a friend who didn’t warm to him instantly and that other dudes were around hold him back or make him give up and he kept a good attitude throughout. That’s what made him successful, and that’s definitely not minimal effort. He absolutely did “game”.
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:32 AM
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I have a feeling he’s more the $1 bill type of dude.
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:04 AM
1

That’s not true, I went to college with a bunch of guys who had that vibe at 20 years old. I’m also like that even though I was a bit more high strung and intense when I was 20 but the results were the same when it came to dating and my sex life. The point is that it’s not necessarily something that can only happen when a guy is 40 years old, a good amount of my fraternity brothers were already like that at college age.
/r/seduction19/02/24 09:47 AM
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The dating market absolutely shouldn’t be about fairness because for it to be “fair” then women would have to be forced to date men they’re not attracted to and no one should have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:58 PM
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That’s such BS, women lie nice guys, it’s guys who are boring and have no social skills and who don’t even bother looking their best, standing up straight and maintaining eye contact when they approach girls who finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:59 AM
0

Exactly, that’s what all those incel dudes should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:18 AM
2

Sounds like you want women to lower their standards and date men they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:38 AM
1

Ok, and? If you can’t get what you want from the dating market should you be forced to date someone you’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:12 AM
2

Why do you care of society reproduces? People have a right to date people they’re attracted to and that make them happy. That’s what’s important. To live a fulfilling life and to be happy. All out society does is cause wards and ruin the planet, who gives a crap of it reproduces?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:14 AM
2

And who decides who’s in who’s league?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:42 AM
1

I’m just talking about my experience with women living in six different western countries, how is that disgusting?
/r/MensRights10/02/24 03:12 PM
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No, they’re not. I’ve met dozens of them and hooked with my fake share. And I’ve lived in a bunch of different western countries and had the same positive experiences in my dating / sex life wherever I went. The more you give in to incel / loser mindsets the more you’ll feel like having a dating / sex life with attractive / high value women isn’t attainable but unless you’re super ugly or have terrible social skills, there’s definitely a lot of good women out there.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:29 PM
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I never start making the conversation sexual unless she does it first and even then I don’t just go all thirsty I match her energy and let HER escalate. I’ve never asked a girl for nudes or phone sex, and when they send me nudes or videos of themselves playing with sex toys it’s always because they took the initiative. It sounds to me like you need to work on being more smooth and being better at reading the level of excitement and sexual energy and not coming off as thirsty. You gotta know how …
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:25 AM
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I’m here to read posts by crazy incels who completely lack self awareness. It’s kinda like looking at a car crash on the side of the road. It doesn’t make me feel good as a person to be entertained but I can’t look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:48 AM
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What are you talking about? There’s a lot of good women out there, and I’ve dated quite a few who had no interest in money or social status and loved me for who I am and in the one who ended up leaving because I wanted more excitement and didn’t want to be in a monogamous relationship. The point is, they’re out there, you just have to stop listening to incels.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 12:35 AM
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Red pill is actual bullshit tho, it’s a completely flawed ideology that mostly appeals to losers and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:27 AM
2

You sound like you’re still very young and don’t have a lot of experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:23 AM
2

Dude, what? I’ve been with a good amount of women and I don’t get nervous around women I find attractive but I absolutely don’t consider women “fuck meat”, and a lot of the men in my social circle also do very well for themselves when it comes to dating / sex and none of them are like that, they’re all confident but very personable and interesting to be around. If we considered women like “fuck meat”, we wouldn’t be able to hang out with and attract high-caliber women. That only works on insecur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:23 AM
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More like good looks, social skills / flirting skills, being interesting and fun to be around, confidence, well groomed, good body, good clothes, good posture.
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:11 AM
0

I’m a dude. Nice try trying to insult women who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:59 PM
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If that’s what you think of all women then you need to stop associating with basic bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:17 PM
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I also approach women but only if I get the signals that she’s interested in me approaching. And as we interact I can read from her body language and her vibe whether she wants me to actually ask her out. And that means that I never put women in an awkward predicament or have them actually reject me. Again, if you’re around as many women as you say you are then ask them if I’m right, it definitely is pestering to keep pressing them even after they said they’re in a hurry and don’t have time to t…
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:07 AM
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It’s the case the majority of the time. The fact one of them became your gf doesn’t mean anything, the majority of women say they’re busy because they don’t want to sound rude and risk getting assaulted. If you’re really around as many women as you say then ask one of them if I’m wrong.
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:23 PM
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No. If she says she’s in a hurry she’s essentially telling you she’s not interested and the last thing you should do is keep pestering her.
/r/seduction04/02/24 09:55 PM
1

In a way, I’m not surprised that the frat boys you’re friends with are all assholes, or that you resent their ability to attract women. Nevertheless, I’ve seen a lot more of greek life than you have, and judging all frat boys is about as intelligent as judging all incels. If we’re all assholes, you’re all Elliot Rodgers. Just because I have a successful dating / sex life and I’m a fraternity member don’t mean shit. You have no idea what I’ve accomplished and what kind of person I am. But thank y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:44 PM
1

Ok kid. At least I don’t live at home with my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:21 AM
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You’re not a man, you’re a child who lives with your mommy. And I’m not a woman you idiot, I’m a man over thirty years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:08 AM
1

Are you a child? Your sentence isn’t grammatically correct and makes no sense. If you want others to understand you then write correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:05 AM
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You don’t get it. You say it’s a song and dance like you’re a jester dancing to entertain someone but it’s not like that. The girl does the same exact thing, and it’s a playful push and pull and it’s a lot fun. If you’ve never experienced seduction it’s obviously hard to explain but it’s not like you pictured it. And it’s definitely not always men initiating, I’ve had women initiate probably just as many times as I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:04 AM
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It’s how judgmental you are that speaks volumes. You don’t know any frat guys personally and you just spew hateful stereotypes. I’ve never bullied anyone because I was shy and short a kid and got bullied for it so I know what it’s like. Except I decided to do combat sports and improve my social skills to become strong and confident, not bitch on Reddit and blame others for my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:00 AM
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Re-read what you wrote. It doesn’t really make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:51 AM
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This is such a Nice Guy post. Dude the game of seduction is half the fun. All the flirting, the subtle signals, the body language, the vibe, the smiles, the sideways glances that you catch from across the room, the playful to and fro teasing, all that shit is part of the seduction process and it’s a lot of fun when you get good at it. And women value guys who know how to play the game and they enjoy watching men play it because it tells them a lot about the character of the guy in question and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:25 AM
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If being slim and in shape is I only the case for men who are significantly above average then why would any average guy expect to hook up with women who are remotely attractive and in decent shape? Even if 70% of women were in good shape why would a single one of them want to hook up with an average guy? It’s normal for people who are attractive and in shape to want to be with people who are also attractive and in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:04 PM
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Homer are Peter are straight fat, not dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:58 AM
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5.7 ain’t huge but it’s enough to satisfy a woman if you know what you’re doing. Have you considered that they run not because of your size but because you’re not a good lay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:53 AM
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So what would you say average men do in terms of their physical shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:47 AM
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Social skills are the other half of the equation.
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:32 AM
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That’s not it, women want a guy with a little bit of edge, someone kind and reliable with just a little bit of danger and adventure mixed in, and the guy that is nice all the time has a flat personality that is completely boring. It’s not about oppressors and oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:14 PM
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You probably won’t be stuck at mediocre for ever but if you’re not a good lay there’s no way and if you guys aren’t sexually compatible she won’t ever think you’re one of her best, she’ll just tolerate the sex like a large percentage of married women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:04 AM
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That’s not necessarily true, I’ve had relationships grow out of FWB situations where at first women enjoyed my company because of my capacity to give them good sex and orgasms and then things evolved because we’d spend time together before and after having sex and they’d notice that I’m kind, that I’m fun to be around and that I’m smart and things have evolved into an exclusive relationship multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:00 AM
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If you’re a bad lay your wife definitely knows it and thinks about what she’s missing out on. Just because you married a virgin doesn’t mean you married an idiot and if you don’t please your wife sexually she’ll eventually find a way to get her rocks off, whether by cheating or divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:41 AM
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She was a wearing a dress, what’s the big deal. You incels crack me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:30 AM
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Hey if that’s what want to believe because it helps you sleep at night you’re absolutely welcome to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:42 AM
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Lol bitter much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:04 PM
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That’s a ridiculous comment. How is it exploiting anyone to have been an early bitcoin investor or a stock exchange trader? Or having a company where employees are simply well paid for their labor? I can think of so many ways to be rich without exploiting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:03 PM
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Lol how does rich = scoundrel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:53 PM
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I’m willing to talk about experience and social skills if you want. And don’t get me wrong, I’ve never gotten rejected because I’m good at reading signals and body language, so there’s been plenty of times where I saw a woman I found attractive but from the look and body language I knew it would be futile to attempt anything. I don’t want to make it seem like I never got rejected because all women find me attractive because that really isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:52 AM
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The what? I’m not sure what you mean by “bangers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:16 AM
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Rejection only happens to men who don’t know how to flirt and the read signals and all the non-verbal communication that seduction is based on. The only guys who get rejected are the ones who couldn’t read the signals of lack of interest and kept going, so obviously it ends in failure for them. When you know how to read the signals you know exactly which woman is attracted to you, interested, on the fence or completely not interested- and you act accordingly: if you see she’s interested you inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:34 AM
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I’ve met women in gyms, libraries, grocery stores, bars, clubs, hotels, and a bunch of other random places. I’ve had sex in the back of a college library at 11am, a random person’s garden outside a club at 4am, a hotel after meeting a woman at the cocktail lounge thirty minutes before, and other random encounters in different places. I’ve approached some of those women myself and in some other instances they approached me. But whenever I approached them it was always because there were signals o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:25 AM
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Men don’t peak at 40. There’s only a small minority of men who look good at 40. Most have receding hairlines or are balding, have beer guts and are generally overweight, many have a poor sense of style and are broke or working shitty jobs. It’s only a minority who still have all their hair, athletic bodies, and have the type of lifestyle, career and finances that can make a 40 year old actually be considered successful and high value. The guys I know who at successful at 40 were already successf…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 10:54 PM
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And how the hell is that any better? I’m talking about a marriage with a healthy distribution of power where no one has more decision making power than the other and no one has to be submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
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Submission means a power imbalance and that the man will always have the last word, and that’s not healthy or fair. And you say the man also relies on the woman but he’s the one with the power because ultimately he’s the one with the money so if shit ever hits the fan the woman will be completely powerless and unable to do things like just decide to hop in the car and go stay at a hotel room for a week if she feels like things are too toxic at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:57 PM
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No, just a lack of control and a power imbalance..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:41 PM
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But it does mean that the woman has no control on finances and that the man decides how money is spent / not spent and that’s a not a good power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:54 PM
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What power dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:52 PM
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So why don’t you make the bread? Why don’t you want a woman to have a job and make her own money that she can spend how she decides instead of having to ask you for money and having to let you control how money is spent ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:51 PM
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By “natural femininity” you mean her being submissive and you making the decisions in the relationship right? Because a woman who doesn’t work has to rely on the man for money and essentially he decides what he gives her money for so she has no control whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:49 PM
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You’re off the mark. No one respects a weakling who can’t even protect himself. A man who is capable of violence and doing damage but who has the wisdom and the self-control to only use violence when absolutely necessary- that’s who people respect. No one respects the weakling for being non-violent because he doesn’t have a choice; being volent isn’t even an option for him so there’s nothing honorable about him being non-violent. But a man who is strong and capable of damage is absolutely going …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:42 PM
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You don’t want your GF liking fashion and being sociable? You sound like a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:52 AM
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Two inches isn’t a small dick, it’s a micro penis. And even if a guy has a smaller penis why wouldn’t he want love, companionship and intimacy? You can’t get that from a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:06 AM
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Exactly. You don’t want to settle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:51 PM
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These days most people would much rather stay single than have to be in a relationship with someone they’re not passionate about. Especially when you can still have a social and sex life without have to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:49 PM
2

That’s a very naive way to look at things. People would rather stay single than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:47 PM
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Your ex is a loser. Any guy that asks about your body count is just insecure about his lack of experience and is a major red flag.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:53 PM
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“Attractive women usually have less personality”. According to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:16 AM
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There’s absolutely no way of knowing if a guy is capable and or / willing to be a woman an orgasm when they hook up before actually having sex with him. Just because a guy is attractive and confident and looks like a good guy to have sex with for a one night stand doesn’t mean anything in terms of what to expect from his performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:35 PM
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You’re clearly a guy who’s very inexperienced with sex if that’s what you think. Ask any woman on this sub and see if they agree with you. Go on, I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:09 PM
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She could. But the chances OP is going to meet his dream girl who also wants the stress and the discomfort that comes with traveling broke is very slim. It’s more likely that he’ll meet a woman who supports his dreams but not if it’s a stressful, miserable experience every time.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 11:12 AM
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Dude I’ve traveled across the world and lived in six different countries and I can tell you that traveling without money is a nightmare and that any woman you’re with won’t want to travel with you if it’s just one long stressful nightmare. I have a feeling you don’t know what it’s like to fly coach for 15 hours at a time or stay in shitty hostels with no air conditioning in countries that are boiling hot and worrying about not getting robbed or attacked by some junkie outside your hostel because…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 11:09 AM
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You’re right, 1 doesn’t equal fat. What I meant to say is that if he meets a woman who’s willing to indulge and support him in his dream of traveling the world, that woman is going to have a real hard time of it. She’ll have to travel in really shitty, cramped conditions for long ass flights and stay in shitty hostels with no air conditioning in countries with weather that make Florida summers look pleasant. I love traveling as well and I’ve lived in a bunch of different countries. I also know w…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 08:11 AM
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So you think it’s obnoxious for women whose BFs / husbands don’t bother giving them an orgasm after they cum to complain and blame their husbands for being selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:22 AM
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Why do you care what other people do? How does it affect you if other people like to date and hook up with multiple people? And who died and gave you the authority to say what needs to end? Just because you can’t stand certain things doesn’t mean they need to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:20 AM
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The fact you think that people who want to experience orgasms at the end of sex are entitled children is indicative that you dont understand sex or women and that you’re immature enough to think you’re superior to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:25 AM
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This post is so naive. Good luck traveling the world without large amounts of money or doing it with a 1/10 overweight woman who has to spend 9 hours at a time stuck in a little airplane seat in coach because “money isn’t everything” and you’re too broke to offer comfortable means of travel. Or good luck finding a girl who’s content sleeping at shitty hostels and eating cheap, shitty food because you wanted to travel the world without any money. I don’t know if you’re stupid. But I do know you’r…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 02:17 AM
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Lol. Don’t forget to mention that to the next woman you hang out with so she doesn’t waste her time having sex with you. People do enjoy the experience of having sex but they do want it to end in an orgasm. Sounds like you’re either incapable of giving a woman an orgasm or just to selfish to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:12 AM
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Tell us you don’t know how to please a woman without telling us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:59 AM
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Then why would any woman want to have sex with you if that’s how you see things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:58 AM
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Telling other people how to live their lives needs to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:57 AM
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That’s so stupid. How the hell are women supposed to know whether the guy they pick to hook up is capable of giving them an orgasm or whether he’s some inexperienced guy who sucks at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:54 AM
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Sounds like you don’t have a lot of experience with women. Nobody said they don’t enjoy hookups but for women hookups are very likely to end in no orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:52 AM
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Lol. Nice try, but you’re wrong. I’m in my late thirties and I’ve been having sex my teens and have a lot of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:38 AM
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People with experience don’t feel the need to discuss their sex acts we hook up with people that we assume have the same amount of experience as ourselves but it’s just creepy to ask that’s part of people’s past and their privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:18 AM
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Dude most men don’t even ask their girlfriends to give them a list of every single sex act they’ve done with every single ex the only guys who feel the need to ask are the ones who feel insecure about their own lack of sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:12 AM
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So a woman isn’t allowed to try something and decide she doesn’t like it and doesn’t want to do it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:25 AM
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I’m circumcised and I love that my parents circumcised me. I’ll never know what smegma looks it smells like and I always hear women talk about how they prefer circumcised penises and I think they look better as well. Most men I know are glad to be circumcised. And I don’t see what that has to do with grown men being creeps and acting predatory with 9 to 12 year old girls those things aren’t remotely similar or related.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:02 AM
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I’m aware of her case but it’s a hell of a lot more rare than predatory men. Ask any woman what age she started being hit on and experiencing creepy behavior from much older men and they’ll usually say between 9 and 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:24 PM
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I because women don’t do what Eliott Rodger or Alek Minassian did and they don’t start sexually harassing young boys at 9 years old the way men do with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:13 AM
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Experience isn’t something that’s talked about, it’s something you see in how a person acts, their maturity, their confidence, their approach to social interactions and their problem solving, etc... There’s no faking experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:24 PM
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Nothing breeds losers like video games, lack of team sports and lack of a real friend group / social circle. Young men don’t acquire social skills / flirting / seduction skills by talking to girls online but by having a group of guy and girl friends that they regularly hang out and party with. That’s how the high school jocks end up hanging out, partying with / hooking up with the cheerleaders, because they actually interact in real life and then take those social skills to college and capitaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:14 PM
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Why would any woman want to teach a grown ass man to have sex and social skills when normal people figure all that stuff out in their teens? People are looking for love and relationships, not for someone to teach about basic human experiences they couldn’t figure out by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:24 AM
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Lol this post is incel garbage. Women absolutely can genuinely love men, and a guy in his mid twenties with absolutely no sexual experience is a red flag including for other men. Whoever wrote this post clearly has no experience with women and just reads about them on incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:20 AM
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Lol you think all those immature incels and autistic red pill types raging about Chad and feminism are driven by logic? Most of those guys are far more emotional than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:52 PM
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Are you saying that you have better decision making skills than women or that men in general have better decision making skills than women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:26 PM
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First off what my would the husband need to take responsibility for his wife 24/7? She’s not a child, adults take responsibility for themselves. And how does having a full time job “playing a little pretend independent game”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:23 PM
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Just because women reject guys that are below average doesn’t mean OP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:19 PM
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I’m a dude and I agree with OP, my dating / sex life are great despite not being “Chad” and most of the men around me also do very well with women without needing to compromise their values or finance / provide any resources for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:18 PM
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What I wrote is true, not fairytales. I’ve been experiencing it since my early teens and to this day twenty years later. What I say comes from my practical experience and the experience of the men around me, as opposed to the guy whose comment I was responding to, whose posting history shows that he has no practical experience whatsoever and who’s “theories” are pure conjecture and repeating crap from incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:19 AM
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You sound like a depressed incel who’s never had a relationship with a woman. There’s plenty of loving women out there and all the women I dated were generous women who probably provided for me more than I did for them and asked nothing but love in return, especially at the time in my life before had money or a career. No offense but it sounds like you’re just regurgitating stuff you read on incel forums with no practical experience of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:42 AM
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You don’t get laid or associate with women in real life, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:09 AM
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Can you post the messages from thirsty dudes on r/creepypms? I’m sure a lot of them are hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:38 AM
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How edgy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:08 AM
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Or maybe it’s because you’re boring, don’t have much of a personality, lack confidence and let people walk all over you, aren’t fun to be around, have anger / resentment and or other mental / emotional issues.. usually the guys who say that nice guys finish last don’t realize that being nice isn’t their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:07 AM
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What are your talking about the Nice Guy trope is pretty much universal at this point because of the number of men with no personality or attractive traits who expect women to reward them with sex and relationships for being “nice”. It goes way beyond Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:46 AM
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Lol I never understood what capitalizing one out of every two letters, I’d love for someone to enlighten me about what that’s about. A “Nice Guy” is a guy who doesn’t have the confidence to tell a woman he’s attracted to her and wants a romantic / sexual relationship so instead he pretends to be friends and thinks that he can seduce her by being “nice”, so it’s absolutely not bullshit. And women do like guys who are genuinely nice but if a guy is nice and has absolutely no personality, no confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:43 AM
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That’s perfectly understandable, the point is that you’re calling the cops and doing something about it. Some incel types were acting like they would just walk by and couldn’t care less that some woman was getting beaten up and just assume she deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:08 AM
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As a guy if I walk past anyone victimizing and attacking someone weaker than them I’m going to do something about it, I don’t care if it’s a guy attacking a woman, a guy attacking a smaller guy, a child or an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:00 AM
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You wouldn’t care if you saw some dude beating up a woman? Wtf? Like I can understand not being able to do anything because the guy is bigger and more dangerous but not caring at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:57 AM
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That most men are bitter, angry, bad lays, generally mediocre or a combination of all those things. I’m a guy and even I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:22 PM
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Impressive debating skills.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 06:48 AM
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I don’t get it, if you have a good dating life why do you care? I’m happy with my dating life and the current reality, and the women I’m around aren’t anything like what you described, I’ve never even come across women that make me think shit like that. And do you even get these theories that women are stupid and can’t handle freedom? That’s basically incel rhetoric with no facts to back it up.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 06:08 AM
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So what exactly do you want to change?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 05:43 AM
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Considering a lot of incels talk about being “low IQ, “spergs”, heavily autistic and suffering from a host of mental illnesses it’s pretty ironic you’re calling women incompetent. What are women supposed to do, use tinder to to date guys they’re not attracted to?
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 04:23 AM
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Dude no offense but I get the feeling you don’t know a lot of women personally. Quite a few women I dated who show me their instagram DMs and yes, attractive women get a lot of them but for the most part those guys are all losers and creeps, quality guys don’t message random chicks. And I can also tell you that most women don’t respect those guys and think it’s pathetic how thirsty most of these dudes are. The girls who showed me their DMs were literally making fun of the guys messaging them and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:52 PM
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Jestering? Lol I’ve never had to do that in my life. And who gives a crap about bc as long as they don’t have STDs? I like being with women that are as sexually experienced as I am.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 05:04 PM
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Most incels have never spent time with women on an intimate level yet they keep acting like they know women and relationships better than those who actually experienced them.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:42 AM
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Are you insane? Men’s circumcision and women’s circumcision are COMPLETELY different. I’m a guy and I’m very happy to be circumcised and a lot of men are. Cutting off a woman’s clitoris with a machete is straight savagery that has no medical benefits. People understand that men have more testosterone than women. But what isn’t tolerated is the men who aren’t strong enough to CONTROL emotions like anger. Not being able to control emotions is a sign of weakness, it shows that the man loses control…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 08:38 AM
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Bro I have a life. A good social life, dating / sex life and hobbies. There’s nothing anyone on Reddit could say to me that would get me worked up or triggered. If anything I’m amused at how childish you are to to think that capitalizing those letters is going to affect anyone other than making us think that it’s no wonder you’re an incel if that’s how immature you are. And to answer your question I know those theories about women and relationships are completely made up because unlike the incel…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 11:39 PM
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Because I actually have a good dating / sex life and I actually know how those relationships work. And you may think you’re edgy but you’re just showing the world that you support a murderous losER.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:04 AM
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I don’t find your social and emotional issues insulting, I’m sorry that any guy is experiencing those problems, I can’t imagine being in that position. What I do find ridiculous is when incels try to avoid responsibility by blaming their problems on “made up” archetypes such as “Chad”, hypergamy, feminism, OF, online dating, “soys”, “cucks”, “bluepillers”, etc… And I also find it ridiculous when incels who have never experienced sex and relationships personally act like they understand those thi…
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 02:33 AM
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sweety Sweaty is someone who is perspiring.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 11:57 PM
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Revenge against who? Like who’s actually going to give a fuck to the point you can actually call this a revenge?
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 11:49 PM
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The gender roles you described were put in place by men. For the most part women didn’t have any say in the matter of traditional / conservative gender roles and the second they had the opportunity to vote they decided to try to change things. And to this day the fiercest proponents of traditional gender roles are right wing leaning men. It’s not women who are in the way of change.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 01:42 AM
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So your argument is that in the 50’s overweight losers managed to get married as long as they were providers? Sounds like a good way to end up with a woman who’s just with you because she needs physical safety and economic stability and has no physical attraction to her husband whatsoever, as was often the case back then. I’m glad to know that the women I date are actually attracted to me and find me sexually desirable. I’m pretty sure that the incels of today wouldn’t fare better back in the 50…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 02:44 AM
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Yep. Because the alternative is complaining like a bitch even though it won’t make one iota of difference and it’ll make other people lose respect for those who chose to complain and wallow in misery instead of manning up, growing some balls and making the best of their situation even if it’s less than ideal. Man up.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:34 PM
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Because that’s how the world works. The genetic lottery is the luck of the draw and everyone has to make do with what they have. And frankly when I read the bitterness and the resentment in incel subs it really doesn’t sound like any of them are taking responsibility and owning their respective situations.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 10:23 PM
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Your height isn’t your issue, I’m only 5’6 and I do very well with dating / sex. Sounds like your personality isn’t exactly stellar.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:48 AM
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It’s not just incels, no human being asked to be born and to have the genes they have. That’s just how the world works. Happiness, health and relationships aren’t guaranteed to anyone and the fact you feel victimized by mothers whose kids turned out to be incels instead of taking responsibility for turning your life into what you want shows a real lack of maturity on your part.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:46 AM
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That’s like saying go on inc*ls.is just for a minute, you’ll see millions of men discussing how evil women are, how entitled they are, etc.. and then saying that incels are a monolith. And I never told incels they can’t speak, I don’t know where you got that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 11:38 AM
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I’m definitely not an incel but I’ve seen enough posts by incels to see their bizarre theories and the things they obsess and rage over. And I’m well aware that incels aren’t a monolith, but why can’t you see that women aren’t either and that making posts like this one where you accuse all women of being evil and selfish makes people not take incels seriously because of the general lack of discernment and objectivity in their black pill theories about sex, women and relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 10:45 AM
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It’s just ridiculously ironic that an incel would accuse women of not thinking about the greater good when for one thing women aren’t a monolith and don’t all act the same, and second incels are generally angry, bitter and immature and constantly make posts that show they don’t give a shit about the common good lol.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:47 AM
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LOOL right because clearly incels are concerned about the greater good and aren’t just positing hateful crap and ridiculous theories about relationships they’ve never experienced..
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:56 AM
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What do you call being treated like trash? Is it just them not matching with you or if ignoring your messages?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:16 AM
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Dude most women date average men.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:14 AM
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I’ve never heard women say that they want the common man to “stop exiting” and I’ve never heard men saying that they’ve been told that by women. In fact the only place where men say shit like that is on incel forums where a lot of the guys are paranoid and delusional because they hate women so much.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:12 AM
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Took the liberty of sending you a PM.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:10 AM
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I know that I have a good looking face and a nice body, and I wouldn’t exactly call myself neurotypical but I have good seduction and social skills. If you don’t mind my asking, how long has it been “over” for you? Did things begin well and eventually go downhill? What would you say is your biggest issues in terms of dating?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:33 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong but from what I can see nobody except incels believes the black pill is the truth and I notice that guys who claim to believe in the black pill are all miserable, angry and severely lacking in social skills and that’s definitely not my case. Plus I thought the incel handbook mandated that “Chads” had to be 6ft tall, and I’m 5’6 with shoes on lol.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:01 AM
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Have you been to college? Because I have a sneaking suspicion that a guy with the username “uselessloner” has never actually seen sororities in real life and that you’re just talking out of your ass. Obviously not every single sorority girl in America has the body of a model but what I can tell you is that on most campuses there’s a “Greek ghetto” where all the fraternity and sorority houses are, and my house was surrounded by every single sorority on campus and it wasn’t the top sororities, it …
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:55 PM
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Sounds like you’ve never met sorority girls personally. All the women I interacted with in college are still gorgeous years later and in the same shape they were in college.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 10:50 PM
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I’ve never dated or had casual sex with women who were even slightly overweight and I had none in my social circle. I left the USA after college but during college I spent 4 years in the Greek system and all the sorority girls we partied and hooked up with were built like models. I noticed that it’s usually poor people who are fat because they don’t eat well and don’t go to the gym. Rich people only eat unhealthy shit when they’re drunk but for the most part they shop at Whole Foods and work out…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 08:40 PM
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Lol I think it’s pretty obvious OP has never been anything but single.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:44 AM
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I’ve gotten approached a fair amount over the years by women who were interested in both casual sex and relationships, including one woman who was engaged at the time, one who knew I was FWBs with her roommate and who wanted to “try me out” and a bunch of others. When women are attracted to guys they have absolutely no problem approaching and making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:19 AM
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This isn’t accurate. I’ve had plenty of good relationships and a lot of casual sex at a time in my life where I was broke and god knows I’m not the only dude who has.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 AM
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That dude is SOLIDLY under average and overweight.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 11:58 PM
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Part of the things that make a man attractive is how he interacts with the world and navigates social relationships because it says a lot about a man’s character to see who a man has around him and how places himself within social hierarchies. I don’t think I would have had a quarter of the dating and casual sex experiences I’ve had if I wasn’t part of the social circles I’m part of and didn’t occupy a certain place within them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:18 AM
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Because about 99% of guys who believe in it seem to be losers who are just angry at women for never picking them.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:33 AM
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Again, it’s doesn’t sound like you know a lot of women personally. Guys who are successful with women aren’t going to approach them just because they’re wearing something provocative, only the losers, simps and the thirsty guys who don’t have a chance do that. And the second they approach the women lose all respect for them and at the most they’ll accept a free drink from those guys but will never hook up with them. The hot guys that women actually find attractive don’t approach because of a wom…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:58 PM
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Have you ever lived with hot chicks that you aren’t related to? I have a feeling you don’t know women personally because most women dress sexy for themselves. They don’t need to wear sexy clothes for men to approach them, men will hit on women wearing baggy sweat pants and a hoodie with no makeup on.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:22 PM
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There’s no such thing as a looksmatch people are attracted to who they’re attracted to and that’s it. Nobody outside of incel forums talks about looksmatch, it’s not a real thing.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:03 PM
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Don’t be mad people are calling out your flawed incel logic.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 08:02 AM
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This is a ridiculous take. First off if you can’t get her to hook up with and she has zero attraction to you then she is actually out of your league. Just because YOU think that you’re more attractive than someone doesn’t necessarily make it so.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:55 AM
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To be honest I don’t even know what constitutes a “Chad” but if you’re curious what I look like let me know and I’ll send you a couple pics so you can decide for yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:45 PM
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I don’t know if there’s much of a difference between me and the guys who are 20-25 years old right now. I’m in my thirties and the last girl I dated was 24 years old and my current FWB is 27. I also see the new generations of guys in my fraternity and most of them aren’t “Chads” and they’re also around 5’7-5’9 tall but they’re all getting relationships and casual sex with attractive sorority girls. Obviously they’re all in good physical shape and they’re confident, have good social skills and ar…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:21 PM
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I’m pretty short, I’m 5’6.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:50 PM
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lol I’ve never measured my dick it’s mostly the reaction I get from women and from seeing what guys in porn are working with when I still watched porn in my early twenties.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:39 AM
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My what? No idea what you’re talking about.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:35 AM
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I don’t view you as an incel, I don’t know your life. And I’m not “larping”, an incel subreddit is the last place I would come trying to get clout lol. I’ve always had a good relationship with women and lost my virginity in my teens to a girl two years older and a lot of the women I had sex with was during college where I spent 4 years living in a fraternity house and all my neighbors were sorority houses. My hoe phase lasted until I was 32 and if you’re having sex with 4 to 7 women a year it ad…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 08:34 AM
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Please don’t think that all men think like you because most of us don’t. I’ve never asked any of the women I’ve dated what their body count is, I really couldn’t care less and I would rather be with someone as experienced as I am as long as there are no STDs. My body count isn’t super high compared to some of my friends and fraternity brothers, I’m somewhere between 40 and 50 different women I guess, and some of those girls I’ve had sex with hundreds of times and I know I’m a good lay and I also…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:36 AM
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Take some responsibility. If you’re a mn adult guy who’s an incel and a loser it’s your fault. Once you turn into a grown up the responsibility to better yourself is on you. No one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:01 PM
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“A love that goes beyond the self, towards the stars and benefits everyone”. I really don’t see how that it the case.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 12:29 AM
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Dude you can’t talk for all men. There’s plenty of us who have absolutely no problem approaching women and getting approached by women. A big part of getting good at flirting and seduction is knowing how to read the non verbal cues and the other subtle signs that women you’re interacting with are physically / sexually attracted to you and want you to escalate or that they’re not attracted and that nothing romantic will happen with that particular girl. Either way, whether you read attraction or …
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 11:05 PM
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Actually it’s because people despise what people like “ER” and “AM” did because they couldn’t handle seeing other people happy and having normal relationships and sex lives. That’s why people despise incels, because they imagine that all of them have extreme and hateful views. After being on this sub for a little bit I now know it’s not the case but you can’t blame people for assuming it is.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:34 AM
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I feel the same way. When you get good at flirting and seduction It’s a lot of fun to go out and party with random people and get the hits of dopamine and ego boosts that coke from getting attention and feeling desired by attractive women, especially when you’ve had a few drinks. Most of the time I don’t even need to actually bring a girl home to have a good night out, just the drunken flirting and making out are plenty of fun and the guys who are good at flirting usually have enough sex to not …
/r/seduction24/10/23 11:15 PM
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Social skills are what allowed me to learn to read the subtle non verbal cues that make up the game of seduction and allows me to know whether a woman is into me or not without having to say a word. These same non verbal cues are also what allows me to flirt innocently and increase sexual tension without ever actually addressing the fact that I’m about to go home with this girl and have drunken monkey sex. Social skills / seduction are a skill. Teenage men need to actually work at developing tho…
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 10:55 PM
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Do you?
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 04:08 PM
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No offense but how do you elaborate these theories if you’re a virgin who’s never had a gf?
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 09:22 AM
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People still go to restaurants for dates? I always have first dates at fancy cocktail lounges, definitely more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:54 AM
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I just told you I never experienced any disrespect or any of the things you described, you haven’t made any points at all, you just told me to get my eyes checked, which isn’t a logical argument by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:32 AM
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Obviously if those guys could attract good looking women for sex and relationships in their own country they wouldn’t have to travel to third world countries where women pretend to like them for green cards and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:29 AM
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Wait so women ignoring thirsty guys who comment on their IG posts is disrespectful? I fail to see how it’s insulting that a woman doesn’t feel like talking to every dude who comments on their posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:14 AM
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You say women don’t have common decency for men anymore like it’s a general thing with all women lacking respect for all men but I’m a man who’s never experienced disrespect from any women nor have I ever had any dirty looks from women or have them act like I’m creepy or not worthy of their time. That’s never happened to me or any of the men in my social circle so please don’t believe that most guys experience what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:12 AM
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Roasties? Really bro? Maybe stop being a raging incel and you’ll be taken seriously enough to have the option of getting laid. It’s not just girls who like having sex, I’m a dude and having sex with women I randomly met that same night, I find it kind of liberating to be able to have a mini love story where I meet a girl, party with her, flirt, make out, have sex all in one night and then wake up single and free to mingle again the next morning. So it’s definitely not a woman thing.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:39 PM
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We all graduated a long time ago it’s just that I’m still close with my brothers so I know how their dating / sex lives are going. But since graduating I’ve become a digital nomad and I’ve lived in six different western countries and my experience with sex and dating has been just a successful as it was in the USA so while the fraternity thing may make a difference in college it makes no difference after graduating. And I was also successful with women before going to college
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:01 AM
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I think a fair amount of men fall into that category. I had weekends where my ex GF would come over to have sex on Friday night, I’d go on a date on Saturday night and end up having sex and that same night have one of my FWBs call me drunk and horny at 5am asking if she could come over. 90% of my first dates end in sex and I’ve also had plenty of one night stands with women I met that same night and I have more than one FWBs. And the majority of my friends and fraternity brothers are similarly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:31 PM
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5’6
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:44 PM
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It’s absolutely not proven that women as a whole lose attraction after commitment. I’ve only seen those stereotypes on incel forums and red pill subs.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 12:57 PM
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I wouldn’t call myself a “Chad” and my dating / sex life is going great. There’s plenty of guys who aren’t “Chad” who are doing just fine.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 12:55 PM
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I don’t think there’s much to learn from my sorry since we’re all different with different circumstances. My mom and the other women in my family never hammered into my head the things you mentioned and movies didn’t give me that impression. I’ve had a successful dating / sex life since my teens and if anything my mother never said much about women and relationships. She knew that girls found me attractive and I remember that in middle school girls parents would come up to my mom to tell them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:49 AM
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You mean like the story of my dating life? Like what would you like to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:36 AM
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“We each have to go through..” please don’t try to speak for all men because I’ve never experienced any of that and neither have any of the guys I’m around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:00 AM
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Who cares? If you’re competitive in the dating market it’s not an issue. I’ve never thought about the other guys in the DMs of women I date, I’m the one those women choose to date / have sex with so why should I care who many guys try to slide in her DMs? Plus from what I see women just find it creepy when guys creep on them by sending them DMs, my current FWBs shows me hundreds of unopened DMs from random guys and finds those dudes pathetic for being that thirsty and trying to hit her up that w…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:24 AM
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Do they brush you off the second you walk over or after you talk for a few minutes?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:14 AM
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So you’re not mad that women are having sex you’re just mad they’re not having sex with you?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:12 AM
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How does a woman having a sex life impact you negatively? And why do you find it disgusting if women have sex as long as they have no STDs they’re physically the exact same as the girl who only had sex twice with her high school BF.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:11 AM
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The wall is a red pill and incel concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:25 AM
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Lol she’s not allowed to have an opinion because she’s married? Cool, then incels shouldn’t have an opinion on women, dating, sex and relationships since they have absolutely no knowledge or experience in any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:24 AM
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The only guys who do that are incels and losers who can’t handle rejection and getting their fragile little egos bruised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:19 AM
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And what’s the problem? Everyone has a right to be attracted to who they want. And still there’s plenty of not very attractive guys who still manage to have good dating / sex lives. In fact quite a few of my fraternity brothers were overweight and didn’t have supermodel faces and yet they had women attracted to them because they were fun to be around, they were interesting, confident and had good social / seduction skills. Who fall for guys that they originally didn’t find attractive all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:42 AM
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It’s not BS she didn’t say weight was the only factor. If you’re not fun to be around, confident, well dressed, with good social / seduction skills and an pleasant face obviously women aren’t going to be attracted to you just because you’re not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:00 AM
1

So now it’s anti American to not be attracted to overweight guys and to notice that there’s a lot of overweight guys out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:58 AM
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Obviously it’s not just about weight if a guy has no social skills, dresses poorly, has no ambition and is completely boring to be around being slim won’t help his situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:44 AM
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I’m not in favor of restricting anyone’s options, men or women. And also I guess that the current system has been really good to me throughout the years. My dating life has been consistently good since my teens and after graduating college I became a digital nomad and I’ve lived in six different western countries and my dating / sex life stayed consistently good throughout my travels and a big part of that is because of online dating so I really don’t see a reason to change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:41 AM
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So what difference does it make if they meet those guys online or in person? Why would you want to restrict their options?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:19 AM
2

No you can’t force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:41 AM
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I’m a guy and I’ve never had any of the issues you deceived. My dating / sex life is really good and I’ve never experienced a woman “running all over me and trampling my manhood”, and I’ve never seen any of the men I know have those issues either so I’m really not convinced that many experience these things as often as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:05 AM
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Are you suggesting that the overweight guy who never showers and just stays in his mom’s basement jerking off to hentai and playing video games has no friends, no social life, no dating / sex life and no social skills whatsoever all because women make social interactions unbearable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:40 AM
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What does “fuck her like Chad” even mean? Why can’t he just enjoy his own sex life with her instead of worrying about the sex life of some other dude he’s never going to meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:31 AM
2

So essentially you want to force women to date men they’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:24 AM
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I’m not sure you know what bragging actually looks like and never said I was better than you or anyone else. I’m just explaining my point of view and the things that make me think the way I do. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:21 PM
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Needing to compare yourself to every other guy you see is a sign of insecurity. Confident people measure themselves up against the high standards that they’ve set for themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:13 AM
-1

But the point is that you don’t need to be Chad to get laid and be attractive to women.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 09:15 AM
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So basically it’s a pride and ego thing. Do you think a woman is going to respect you if she knows that you’re asking her those questions because it’ll be too hurtful to your ego to know that “Chad” got sex from her without having to put in any effort? Any women (and most guys who have experience) would find that absolutely pathetic and a sign that the guy is severely immature and insecure and would ghost you. So are you just going to keep asking women until you find one that will “promise” that…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:33 AM
-6

It’s always the guys with no experience who feel insecure about it who ask those questions. I’m a guy with a lot of sexual experience and kind of a hefty N count and the men I’m around are also very experienced and none of us grill women about their past and who they gave to whom after how long just to make sure “Chad” didn’t have sex with her faster than I did, that’s just major insecurity and women wouldn’t even answer that question they’d just ghost the guy for being insecure and it’s since i…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:08 AM
0

I have an attractive face and a bigger than average dick and I’m only 5’6 but my height has never hindered me in dating / sex life. In fact if I had to pick between being tall, having an attractive face / body and having a bigger than average dick I would keep my looks and my dick, I’m living proof that height isn’t that important when you’re attractive, confident, fun to be around and have good social skills.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:15 AM
-7

That’s seriously incel logic.. “why should I invest anything in this relationship when Chad got it without having to do anything!”. It’s crazy this “Chad” who doesn’t exist lives rent free in incel’s heads to the point where they think normal men quiz women on all their past partners just to make sure she didn’t fuck “Chad” on the first night whereas she made you wait until the third date.. like do you not see how ridiculous and insecure that makes these guys?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:09 AM
1

First off I’m only 5’6 and I’ve hooked up with plenty of women who were taller than me so I really don’t mind that they compare my height to their because it doesn’t stop them from hooking up with me, and neither do I care if they compare me to other guys they dated because it certainly hasn’t hindered my dating / sex life.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:08 AM
1

What difference would it make if they “see” averages? Women go for guys they find attractive, not for people because they’re “average”. It’s like you think that “average” women should be attracted to “average” guys because you think they’re at the same level but that’s not how things work.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:36 AM
1

And I’m not trying to insult or make you feel bad but looking at your post history and comments it’s 100% certain that your personality has A LOT to do why you’re constantly getting rejected, it’s definitely not just looks. It’s clear that you have inferiority complex, jealousy and anger issues, bitterness from feeling inadequate compared with people who have no problem dating and attracting women, that you resent the fact that you’re a smaller dude who was bullied, and that you have self contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:07 AM
1

I mean that I don’t know you or your situation personally but the average guy doesn’t get rejected and mocked hundreds of times by women. We constantly see all kinds of men who are very far from the “Chad” stereotype having decent dating / sex lives. In fact a few of my fraternity brothers were out of shape alcoholics and some definitely didn’t have the best communication skills but they all got female attention to some degree, and those women weren’t after them for any kind of money or other re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:20 PM
5

It’s definitely NOT normal for most men to be called ugly or not her type hundreds of times. And in my experience women love and crave sex as much a dudes, and I’ve often had women initiate sex with me in places where I had absolutely no intention of having sex but the women wanted it so I happily obliged, but the point is that they were the horny ones who initiated sex in places like my university library, a car in a crowded college parking lot, in a random person’s garden outside a club and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:13 PM
-1

There’s no such thing as an accurate rating system because beauty is subjective. What really makes sense is that people date people they’re attracted.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 04:19 AM
1

Bro women don’t give a crap about men that have nothing to do with them, they don’t even know you exist. Stop the incel paranoia. Women aren’t even aware of your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:52 PM
-3

No one forced to be losers with no ambition. Society didn’t fail them, they failed themselves. And you say no one gives a shit about them but nobody gives a shit about anyone else, it’s up to them to go out there and make a living.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:54 PM
0

Honestly I’m no my sure what to think about that because I’ve never had that issue and neither have any of the men in my social circle but I have a feeling that there’s a lot of guys who think they’re average and are actually below average in terms of dating market value. I’ve read plenty of posts from guys complaining about women’s standards saying they deserve an average pretty girl when those guys are overweight, don’t have a job, have no social skills, no confidence and stay at home playing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:36 PM
1

I’ve had plenty of women be romantically and sexually attracted to me before I was even remotely successful.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:26 PM
0

I may be short but I’m conventionally attractive, I have a nice body, I’m fun to be around and I have an interesting social circle, I’m smart, I’m cultured and I’m confident. I’m not providing anything material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:21 PM
1

Why? First off most guys don’t ask women about past sexual experiences unless they’re insecure and feel like they lack experience and that they feel threatened and emasculated by a woman with more experience and I don’t have that problem but also I think she should date whoever she’s attracted to and feels good with.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:17 PM
0

Lol that’s never been my position and I’ve had just as many women ask me out and pay for dates and for us to get drunk together than I’ve paid for dates myself so I’ve never felt taken advantage of or like I was only liked for what I provide. I’ve had girls offer to pay my rent and pay for my pet’s vet visits and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:15 PM
1

Honestly I don’t know because for one thing I never ask women about their body count or past sexual experiences because I don’t really care and I’ve also never had the issue of being with a woman who didn’t want to try certain things with me all the women I’ve dated have been very adventurous sexually and were into everything from but stuff to threesome with their girl friends and sex in places where we can get caught like the back of my university library, trains, random peoples gardens at nigh…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:11 PM
2

I’m a guy and I had a long how phase from the time I joined a fraternity in college to the time I was 32, and it was a blast. And I certainly wouldn’t care if a woman I dated did the same stuff I did in my promiscuous phase, plus I didn’t do anything that bad, I mostly had sex with women I had just met in weird places like my university library, in a random person’s garden outside a club, trains, cars and other random places and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s the type of stuff people do w…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:12 AM
1

How is it disrespectful to do whatever she’s comfortable with with different guys?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:06 AM
2

Have you ever had sex or had a girlfriend?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:05 AM
2

I’ve never had the issue of being ignored, I’ve always had a good dating / sec life and since I’ve left the USA I’ve lived in 5 different western countries and traveled through even more and my dating has stayed consistent throughout. I know you’re not interested in reading the stuff that makes me attractive but the point is that I do very well for myself without being a millionaire or being 6ft tall and I’ve been at plenty of events with those type of guys and I do just as well as them dating-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:10 AM
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I am a man of pretty good calibre. I’m not a millionaire yet but I’m on my way, I’m conventionally attractive, well traveled / cultured, confident and fun to be around. It’s just that I’m short and not filthy rich yet but I can definitely hold my own around “high caliber men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:54 AM
0

Are you just pretending to be dense for the sake of being annoying? She’s clearly saying that there’s plenty of guys out there who aren’t tall and who aren’t “Chad” stereotypes yet who do very well with women, professionally and socially. But incels still make posts saying that it’s “over” and that society hates them because they’re not 6ft tall with a square jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:12 AM
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It’s definitely not 90%, you’re grossly exaggerating. And there’s plenty of guys who aren’t physically perfect, including myself, that have very successful dating / sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:08 AM
-2

Can you blame them? The “average” guy in American is overweight and poorly dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:39 PM
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I’m not a “Chad” and neither were most of my fraternity brothers and we still all had a blast and even the fat guys got laid.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:12 AM
2

They were pretty much forced to because of lack of options and societal pressure. Now they have the freedom to date men they’re actually attracted to and that’s a good thing, even if you don’t like for personal reasons. And your education, career and other factors should mean something to YOU. It’s very “nice guy-ish” to think that because you have a degree, a job and you’re “nice” you should be able to find a girl willing to be with you. And I don’t see how being attractive, confident and fun t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:55 PM
1

Lol. “higher class competition”? Really? There was no higher class competition women didn’t have a lot of options and had to marry guys within their immediate geographical position (basically within their village / town) and were often pressured into it by family and society in general and for the most part they had to get married to have economic stability and physical safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:00 PM
5

So just don’t date those kinds of women, no need for a robot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:39 AM
7

Why would any guy who gets hot chicks in real life want to fuck a robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:14 AM
1

You couldn’t pay me to use a sex robot no matter how realistic. You know when you’re about to have sex with a girl you just brought home and she’s literally tearing your clothes off and has that look in her eye like a tiger looks at a gazelle who she’s about to eat? I love knowing that there’s a beautiful woman who could have any guy she wants but I’m the one who’s clothes she’s tearing off and giving me that look like she’s going to devour me. And you can never get that from a robot, and even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:11 AM
7

Why would they outlaw them? Those of us who aren’t incels and have no issues dating will never use them and I doubt that there’s many men who will want to use them even if they don’t regularly get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:04 AM
0

That’s not necessarily true dude, most of my fraternity brothers got laid and some weren’t good very good looking and straight up alcoholics, like the unattractive kind of heavy alcoholics that were overweight, had stretch marks, red faces, puffy skin and most of them still had girls paying attention to them because they were fun to be around. It’s not always about looks and there’s plenty of guns with mid tier looks that still manage to have girlfriends and sex lives. Seeing good looking guys g…
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 08:24 AM
-1

Lol. I don’t even know what the OF homepage looks like. And from your comment history it’s pretty damn obvious you’re an angry incel so I’ll just let you rage since this is clearly your only source of satisfaction in life.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:53 AM
-1

Somehow I REALLY doubt that. And I’m not going to get into a pissing contest, but I do very well for myself on that front, which is why I don’t have a bone to pick with women.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:42 AM
2

So? Does she not get to have preferences? And why do you take this stuff so personally? Like what did women do to you other than not have sex with you for you to be so angry at them?
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:30 AM
1

I’m not a blue or black or red piller, I’m just a dude who’s been fortunate to always have had a certain ease and facility attracting women but I’ve never recommend to anyone to just don’t give up and keep trying if he had a history of constant utter failure dating / sex wise. In not stupid, I see how it works out naturally for some dudes and how it doesn’t happen at all for others. I lost my virginity at 13 to a girls that a bit older than me but even when I was in grammar school other parents …
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 11:03 PM
-1

That’s not true dude, it sounds like you don’t have good relationships with women or that you don’t have relationships with women at all and you’re just repeating incel stereotypes that you read on some black pill forum somewhere.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 02:22 AM
2

I lost my virginity in my teens, did the whole college frat boy fuccboi thing and had a blast, and kept having a good dating / sex life afterwards but I’m definitely not misogynistic. If anything I’ve learned that women enjoy sex as much as men but they have to be a lot more selective because most men are terrible lays. I’ve had girls initiate sex with me in the back of my university library, in cars, trains, and even someone’s garden at 4am on our way out of a club, and a bunch of other places,…
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 02:19 AM
5

So? People have the right to be attracted to who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:51 AM
2

So? People aren’t allowed to be attracted to who they want anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:05 AM
2

Working absolutely is a right.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:26 PM
3

I think you’re mistaking real life and porn.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:09 PM
2

Who’s “we”? Because I’m pretty sure most women would disagree. Shit I’m a dude and I don’t even agree.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:36 PM
3

Except Islamic values are the opposite of “true equality” so this makes no sense. There’s nothing equal of women are under the authority of men and can’t freely associate with who they want, work where they want and dress how they want when men can do it. If anything things are a lot more equal now.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:53 AM
-3

So you’re in favor of restricting women’s rights?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:40 AM
3

Male intervention? Like what? Restoring patriarchy and making it so that women are forced to marry men they aren’t attracted to just to have physical safety from and economic stability? Like I’m curious about what you mean by male intervention.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 05:02 AM
2

That’s not what you see on incels.is, that place is filled with hate and racism.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:20 AM
1

Then how come they don’t erase their posts on incel forums and make it clear to everyone that those pieces of shit aren’t welcome in the incel community and that they don’t represent the movement as a whole by publicly denouncing them?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:19 AM
1

It’s kind of hard to take it seriously when incels claim to be bullied and discriminated against and then when you see see incel forums like incels.is you see it’s considered completely normal to call black men nigg@rs and sh$tskins, black women “sheboons”, constant anti semitic talk calling them kik#s and other horrible things as if it was the Jews who purposely orchestrated incels’ misery, constant talk of normalizing sexual assault of women, calling women “fids” and “toilets”, and a bunch of …
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:11 AM
1

You mean anyone who’s ever had girlfriends and good relationships with women will never take them seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 12:52 AM
2

I’m a guy, dude. And even outside of my dating / sex life I’m around women all the time and again, and what you’re saying sounds to me like incel / black pill talking points from someone who doesn’t interact with women in real life. Like do you really believe that us guys have “genuine” attraction and that women attraction is the product of shitty ideology and indoctrination, making them attracted to “bad things like players and narcissists instead of mentally stable men that will treat them lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:02 AM
4

Your comment is verging on incel logic, saying that women have an inflated sense of self worth thinking they are a 7 when they are a 5. We don’t control who we’re attracted to. That’s why your logic doesn’t make sense. There’s no such thing as a person who is a 5 thinking they are a 7 and refusing to settle for a 6. Whether a person thinks they are a 5 or 7, if they’re not attracted to someone they’re not attracted to them, end of story. They’re not capable of saying “I’m a 5 so I should settle …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:35 PM
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Come on dude you being dramatic, just because chicks don’t want to date dudes they’re not attracted to doesn’t mean they treat them like subhumans chicks mostly just ignore dudes they’re not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:34 AM
1

According to who? Those fat kids with anime body pillows? Globally the beauty standards are Eurocentric, meaning western white women.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 03:22 AM
4

Mohamed was a pedophile and you think the west is degenerate? Lol.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 01:45 AM
-1

Thai post is completely ridiculous. Studies show that on average, women are happier, healthier and have better careers making more money when they are single. So the ones that chose to get married obviously did because they wanted to and because they’re attracted to their husbands. And you completely twisted the words of the post you quoted. Back in the days if those old French ladies most of them DID NOT have a choice to get married. They were either pressured into it by their families, by the …
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 12:46 AM
0

Except they didn’t pick those men. Most of them lived in small villages before dating apps and had no choice but to marry those men because of societal pressure, because they had to obey their fathers, because it was the only way to get physical safety and because there were no guys she was attracted to where they lived. The western women today actually pick the men they marry so your argument makes absolutely no sense.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:12 PM
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We didn’t “decide to let women run sexually rampant” we just realized that no one has a right to tell anyone else how to live and that no one has the right to make women be married to some guy she’s not even attracted to at 22 years old so she can be a miserable housewife and be stuck in the house raising a bunch of kids she didn’t want. French television interviewed a whole bunch of women from our grandmothers and great grandmothers’ generations and they all said that they got married because o…
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 10:13 AM
1

Because I’m not agreeing with everything you said. The sign of a good date isn’t that you spent hours talking about the human condition, a good date is a date where flirting and sexual tension was felt throughout and that ends in kissing / making out at the very least. If that doesn’t happen there’s absolutely no use in asking for a second date. These days dating isn’t like back in the day when you actually asked girls out on a “date” and you went to dinner and a movie and hoped that she liked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:53 PM
2

Nah, in my personal experience after an evening of drinking and sexual tension build up most women would be disappointed and think a guy had no balls if they didn’t at least make out at the end of the night. These days no one really asks women to go out “on a date” like they did back in the day, I always ask women if they want to go for a drink with me and since there’s already been a healthy amount of flirting and sexual tension buildup before I even ask them out the women are well aware this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:46 PM
2

Dude if date 1 doesn’t end in making out, you don’t ask for date 2. Plus I’m pretty sure no one asks anyone out “on a date” anymore, I just ask women if they want to go out for a drink, and if you have the right energy from the get go she’ll definitely know it’s a date. If you project a week, docile, “friendly” energy from the beginning she’ll treat you like a friend from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:36 PM
0

I’ve never picked on anyone. But if I come across a guy who tells me he’ll walk by a woman getting victimized by some bigger dude I’ll gladly give him a taste of bullying to remind him how unpleasant it is.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:08 PM
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I am a short man and no one fucks with me. I’ve been doing combat sports since I was a kid and it did wonders for my confidence, my physical shape and a bunch of other things. Height has nothing to do with being picked on or not, it’s a matter of attitude and confidence. If you’re in great physical shape, you always stand upright and look people right in the eye when you talk to them chances are very few people will want to mess with you because you don’t carry yourself like a “victim”.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:06 PM
-6

lol no just BJJ.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 03:22 AM
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I couldn’t care less if a guy is unattractive. But a guy that tells me that he’ll just walk past and do nothing if a woman is getting beaten up by a man who’s significantly bigger and stronger and the guy chooses not to help specifically because she’s a woman- that’s what makes him a pathetic incel, not his lack of attractiveness. If you don’t care about bullies picking on people who are smaller and weaker then you’re a straight up piece of shit. I wouldn’t let an adult hurt a child, I wouldn’t …
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 03:22 AM
2

It’s hilarious how you incels let women live rent free in your heads 24/7. I don’t think anyone is entitled to anything from anyone else either but if your mentality is that if you see some weak little girl getting attacked by a bigger dude you’re not going to help just because you’re angry women don’t want to have sex with you then by your logic since I’m a strong guy who’s trained to fight when I see some pathetic incel “manlet” I’ll just grab him by the collar, slap him around like the bitch …
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 11:21 PM
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The difference between OP and her is that she probably has a happy life with a well paid job, friends and loving relationships whereas OP is going to a broke virgin loser his whole life. That’s just karma “respecting” hateful incel losers.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:21 PM
3

I’m a guy and I sure as hell do that and so do all the men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:36 PM
1

Me and my other happily single guy friends have pretty much the exact same life you described in your post so it’s definitely not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:58 PM
7

The explain to me why it’s necessary that the human race doesn’t go extinct if all we do is fight among each other, trash nature and completely destroy animal’s ecosystems? Other than your pride can you give one good reason why humanity should keep reproducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:53 PM
-2

Lol it’s always hilarious when guys who have never set foot in a Masonic lodge or who don’t k ow the hierarchy of our degree system act lie they’re experts and know more than guys who are actual members. You’ve never experienced freemasonry from the inside, you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about all your “knowledge” comes from conspiracy videos online.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:46 PM
-1

I’ve been a Freemason for over 15 years and made it to the high degrees of the Scottish rite and I have yet to see any sinister shit or hear about global conspiracies. Dude you need to stop watching Alex Jones and antisemitic YouTube channels who attribute every major historical event to global manipulation by the Rothschilds.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:48 AM
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OP sounds like you really really wants the patriarchy back. In case you’ve forgotten, that would mean women having limited rights and being forced to marry men they’re not attracted to or compatible with in order to have physical safety and economic stability. It would mean women pretty much being told by men when they can terminate a pregnancy and when they’re forced to keep it. Is that the kind of world you want? And who gives a crap if the human race goes extinct? All we do is fuck up the pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:59 AM
5

Empathy involves putting yourself in someone’s shoes, but that doesn’t involve tolerating toxic reactions like anger, refusing to take responsibility and blaming others. And most of those incel posts are angry guys blaming women for having unreasonably high standards, blaming “Chad”, blaming feminism, blaming online dating apps, blaming OnlyFans… they take no responsibility and act like they are the helpless victims of women and their evil ways. Sorry, but that’s not empathy and understanding. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:32 AM
-1

I don’t know if you’re still young or just naive but for things to be “fair and equal”, either men would have to be less thirsty or women would have to thirstier. And as a guy I can see why most women think that only 20% of guys are remotely attractive when most guys you see walking around are poorly dressed in clothes that don’t suit them or compliment their body types, that many are overweight and don’t make any effort to look fit / healthy, I see beer guts, receding hairlines, poor social ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:25 AM
1

My dating / sex life is going very well, actually!
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 04:31 AM
0

I’m not, I’m just commenting on your angry incel vibe.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 02:47 AM
-1

Lol you sound bitter.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 02:06 AM
1

Are you kidding? Incels.is is FULL of sick fucks talking about how women owe them sex and how raping women should be normalized. An example among many: https://incels.is/threads/foids-owe-me-their-vagina-from-how-much-abuse-theyve-given-me.525779/
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 11:37 PM
-1

Have you ever gone on incels.is? Because the amount of racism and bullying there is absolutely unreal. I’ve never seen a forum where people treat each other like shit in this way and call others faggts, niggers, kik*s and talk about raping and hurting women like it’s the most natural thing in the world to want to do that to women simply because they’re not sexually interested in them. So to hear OP talk about incels being bullied and subjected to hate and racism feels very hypocritical and ironi…
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 10:53 PM
2

Why would you want women (or men) to settle?
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 09:09 PM
1

I have a good life dude, I think that somehow I’ll be able to sleep just fine tonight knowing you’re not jealous of me lol.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 11:30 AM
1

The same way you approach anywhere. Just by walking past people you see how their eyes and their body react to you, or after all these years even just by locking eyes with a woman across the bar or at the other end of the supermarket isle I can tell when they’re interested / open to me approaching and from there you start an interaction and you’ll know very fast if the woman is receptive by reading her energy, how she looks at you, the warmth in her voice when she talks to you, the body language…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:53 AM
1

This is a stupid question. I’m a guy who had a long ass hoe phase and I still pretty “liberal” when it comes to dating and sex simply because it’s fun, because I have absolutely no desire to get married / settled down and because women enjoy spending time with me. I have two different FWBs and I still hang out and have sex with my ex GF a few times a month and there’s nothing wrong with that. Also, your burger and steak metaphor is bad because the quality of the sex I have with the women I date …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:32 PM
2

I wouldn’t know how to rate myself, and it’s not like I’ve ever put pics of mine on a “rate my face” type sub. I’m only 5’6 but I am attractive I guess. Enough to lose my virginity in my teens and to always have a had a successful dating / sex life, to be approached and hit on by women and to date more than woman at a time. But a lot of that has a lot to do with the fact I’m very sociable, I’m fun to be around, I was in college fraternity and I’m a DJ, and those two things alone put me around a …
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 11:22 PM
-1

Stats? Like wins and losses? I have a sex life, I don’t play professional sports. And I’m on Reddit because my job involves being online a lot and Reddit allows to take mental breathers throughout the day. And I may not be filthy rich just yet but I am successful. I started a real estate business with some of my fraternity brothers at the end of college and then became a digital nomad and have lived in six different countries in the past fifteen years making money on my laptop by doing freelance…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 11:05 PM
-2

Lol. I’m good looking enough to have a successful dating / sex life.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:24 PM
-2

Dude you think women give a crap what random dudes do? Just because incels let women live rent free in their heads 24/7 doesn’t mean women do the same with incels. Women and most men don’t think about you guys, and when we do we don’t give a shit as long as you’re not shooting up a school.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:10 PM
0

The evidence is that women don’t find most guys attractive and that the way they usually start to be attracted to guys they didn’t previously find hot is by getting to know them and being attracted to their personality. If course this doesn’t work for guys that women find unattractive right off the bat but for a lot of guys that women found physically “neutral looking” attraction grows out of being attracted to guy’s personality.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:41 AM
1

All the time. There’s a bunch in my social circle and I work with some as well and I DJ at clubs and lounges which also puts me around a fair amount of women. I have a steady FWBs. an ex GF I still mess around with and I often meeting new women my friends bring around.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:55 AM
1

Why would that be a larp? You sound like s teenager who hasn’t seen much of real life if his comment seemed unrealistic to you.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:43 AM
0

Lol like you give a crap about anyone’s opinions. You just want other incels and other guys who are angry at women for never giving them the time of day to validate your ramblings so you can feel like you got a W since you’re only getting Ls IRL so you get what little validation you can in incel eco chambers like this one.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:44 AM
0

And yet you’ve never had sex with one.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:06 AM
0

Exactly. These guys have never been intimate with women and act like they know them better than they know themselves and better than men who actually have good relationships with women. Incels have one hell of an imagination.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:04 AM
-2

How would you know? You’ve probably never been close to a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:03 AM
0

I’ve never shamed anyone for being a virgin. But when guys who are clearly virgins and who don’t have any close relationships with women IRL concoct ridiculous theories about women and act like they know everything about women and relationships and call the guy who actually do have good dating / sex lives clueless about women simply because they’re not angry and resentful at women like they are.. that’s usually when I start shaming.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 01:36 AM
2

So what’s the issue? Studies show that for the most part, married women are in poorer physical and mental health, poorer finances, poorer career options when they’re married than when they’re single.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 12:59 AM
1

What’s wrong with multiculturalism?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 12:56 AM
-4

Lol like anyone is going to bother writing some incel on Reddit an essay with cited sources. All you have to do is go on incels.is or read the stories about the many many “nice guys” who were outraged that they had been nice to a girl and she didn’t reciprocate with sex. This is really a lame attempt at rage bait from OP who’s clearly just angry at women because he’s still a virgin.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:02 PM
2

Are you really that clueless? I assume it’s because you’re just not close with any women in real life but if men were really taught to be respectful of women there would be no cat calling, no stalking, no dick pics, no rape, no roofies, no assault. And yet women experience all those things on a daily basis. So you really don’t know what you’re talking about and I think you should stop letting incel forums rot your brain. Let me know if this looks like a guy who was raised to respect women: https…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:51 PM
-2

This is straight up incel garbage. Most women have to deal with agressive men on a daily basis, including guys that will justify extreme behaviors by saying that the girl was dressed like a slut and asking for it, or because she wore red lipstick or because her shirt wasn’t thick enough and he saw the outline of her nipples through the shirt and decided to aggressively hit on her and keep following her down the street because he thinks that a slut like that isn’t in a position to reject him. Wom…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:51 AM
-1

There’s plenty of women who initially don’t find men attractive and the end up being attracted to them as a result of their personality. If you actually knew women IRL you’d probably know that. Or, you could go to any woman’s sub and ask the question.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:58 AM
-1

I love how it’s always the incels who have never been intimate or remotely close with women who claim to know everything about them. Even when actual women come to correct OP he still doubles down on his crap. I’d love to hear the source of OP’s “deep knowledge” of women.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:56 AM
2

Since leaving the USA I’ve lived in six different western countries and from what I’ve seen most guys seem to lose their virginities between 14-18. Granted I don’t see a lot of the type of guys who don’t really socialize with women and the type of guys who stay home and play video games or watch anime, but the type of young guys I was around definitely seemed to have an active sex life by the time they were 16-18 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:37 AM
3

Except she isn’t a “party whore who gets passed around”..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:49 AM
2

I’m a guy with a good dating / sec life as well as a good social life and I still enjoy reading the crazy shit that people come up with on this sub, and I’m definitely not the only guy with good relationship / dating options to lurk here for shits and giggles so it’s definitely not just women.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 03:39 AM
2

I’m the exact same, I’ve been having sex since my teens and I don’t have the patience to deal with inexperienced women. And it’s not just about them being bad lays it’s also about them being sexually immature; most of us who have been having sex since our teens have had ample time to try different things with different people, explore different fantasies and sexual practices and to really figure out what we’re into / not into, and that’s something that an inexperienced woman simply hasn’t had th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:28 AM
1

Lol I seriously doubt it. Ain’t nobody got time for bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:13 AM
1

My intention wasn’t really to let you know how happy I am but to make you understand that you and the other bitter incels in this sub definitely don’t get to talk for the majority of men.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:51 AM
1

It’s pretty clear that OP is an incel and is suffering from poor mental health, but yeah this post is ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:54 AM
1

You think women give a crap that “men are walking away”? Studies show that women are actually much happier, , wealthier, healthier and live longer when they stay unmarried and focus on themselves. And it’s only incels and red pill rejects who claim to be “walking away” when most of them have never even had a woman to walk away from. There’s plenty of us guys who still have very good dating / sex lives these days and who are happy with the way things are. I sure am.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:46 AM
0

Wtf are you taking about stop regurgitating the crap you read on incel forums.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:57 AM
0

That’s a lot of words for “I’m mad I’m an incel and that women want nothing to do with me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:46 AM
1

Or, maybe you could have benefited from being around a group of guys who had your back and who had a lot going on socially-speaking to “show you the ropes” of developing a social / dating / sex life in college. Many of the freshmen who pledged my fraternity didn’t have great social skills and basically learned by being around older brothers and by being at different events + parties with different sororities at least twice a week. Somehow I have a feeling that your college career would have gone…
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 10:19 PM
0

A few of my friends and fraternity brothers definitely weren’t tall and “handsome”, but most of them still got laid a few times at some point during college. If anything, college is where I’ve seen pretty much everyone get laid, including me plenty of not particularly good looking. As long as you were outgoing and had social skills, you were getting laid eventually.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 08:16 AM
1

Even if she’s only had “your dick” she’s still going to know if you last two minutes and you can’t even give her an orgasm and she’s going to wish she could be with a guy that is a good lay regardless of she was a virgin or not.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 12:11 AM
3

Lol it’s hilarious to see that incels have women living rent free in their heads 24/7 ams hey say that other people are “coping”..
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 03:29 PM
1

Not really lol. Women live rent free in incels’ heads but women don’t ever think about incels, for the most they couldn’t care less about their existence, so they’re definitely not “tormenting” them because that would require them to invest some energy into incels. 2/3 of women definitely work end up alone but hey, if it gets your through the night to believe that they will, then do your thing.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:12 PM
5

And who decides who is in who’s “league”? There’s no such thing. It’s like when incels call women their “looksmatch” just because THEY arbitrarily decided that a woman is on their level. But that’s not how it works since looks aren’t everything and we all want different things so there’s no such thing as “leagues” and even if there are no one can really decide who’s in their league or not. The people in your league are the people you can hook up with. Period. If they don’t want to hook up with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:29 PM
1

Sex with “Chad” is usually better because he knows what he’s doing. It’s usually average joe who’s a terrible lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:26 PM
3

That’s also because most men suck at giving women orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:21 PM
1

Lol. You actually want women who never did anything to you to suffer just because they have better lives than you and I’M the one wants raised right? Sounds legit.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:49 PM
-1

Considering most normal guys don’t need you to get laid I don’t see you making a comeback outside of incel forums anytime soon.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 08:14 AM
1

I love how incels who have never been emotionally intimate with women act like they have them figured out better than anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:14 AM
1

Do you have a single source that proves your “theory”?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:13 AM
0

He’s a clown? Dude you’re literally complaining that women are exercising their free will to date and have sex with hugs they’re attracted to and making a retarded assumption that ALL the women in committed relationships are with “chads” that cheat on them. If you made that statement ANYWHERE outside of this sub full of incels you’d be mocked and ridiculed. But he’s the clown…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:10 AM
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It’s funny how incels / guys who don’t get laid always assume that they’re smarter / better people than the guys who do. I have a very good dating / sex life and I’m also college educated, speak five languages, never been to jail, I’m cultured and I’ve lived pretty much all over the world. And most of the other men I know who do well with women have the same type of profile I do. Stop stereotyping men just because they have lifestyles you can’t relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:22 PM
-4

If he wants women to suffer just because he can’t figure out how to get laid he deserves his inceldom.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 07:31 PM
-6

Are you kidding?? That just makes you a petty, vindictive incel who deserves his loneliness because he’s immature and bitter.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 06:35 PM
-3

I’ve dated you plenty of kind hearted women. My current FWBs has seen me be vulnerable plenty of times and the at hasn’t affected our relationship. Just look at OP’s post history and you’ll he’s highly delusional and paranoid, dude keeps accusing feminists of having lynched his father.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 06:47 AM
0

I’m in my thirties and I also have the same body I had when I was 25 with six pack abs and good definition all over but that doesn’t mean it’s the case for most guys.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:17 PM
5

Lol are you kidding? Men develop dad bods, beer bellies, they have receding hairlines or are straight up bald, start getting weird hairs sticking out of their noses and ears.. Most men age like crap.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:50 PM
6

It’s definitely not just her I’ve met plenty of women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:59 PM
3

If you’re 56 years old it’s also going to be really hard to attract women from the club and social media generation who are 25-40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:58 PM
1

Lol. Trust me, it’s definitely not.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 08:37 AM
7

Have you? Or do you just go out of your way to defend pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:06 AM
2

Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:02 AM
7

You’re the brain dead one if you don’t realize that 1/5 males are pedos and that every woman has dozens of these predators come at them attempting to groom and assault them by the time they’re 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:01 AM
0

That’s exactly what I was thinking. OP actually described the girls he follows on TikTok and IG that he wishes he could have sex with but calls them whores because they only like “Chad”.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:24 AM
-3

Of all the garbage that gets posted on this sub this is one of the most retarded incel takes ever. A women is a slut if she is extroverted, has a nose piercing, tattoos, uses tinder and wears Nike shoes? Do you even begin to realize how stupid you sound? Seriously you sound like one of those incels who doesn’t interact with women in real life and you’re basically describing the girls on TikTok and instagram that you wish would give you the time of day. I guarantee OP is a virgin.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:21 AM
2

You’re pathetic dude. And everyone is telling you you’re wrong but you somehow still think you’re the smartest person in the room says a lot about the kind of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:49 AM
2

I’m sorry to hear that. I admit that I have no idea what it’s like to have that problem but I have seen guys blame their looks for their lack of success in dating when what really makes them unattractive is the fact that they’re bitter / angry / petty / jealous / emotionally unstable / misogynistic and women pick up on it instantly and get immediately turned off. I’m not saying that’s your case, but that I’ve definitely come across some nice guy / incel types who fit this category.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:13 AM
1

You’re just mad because not a single woman wants to have sexual with you. And it’s pretty funny you don’t want to people to stereotype you and make broad generalizations about incels but that’s exactly what you’re doing when you say that all women comedians without exception aren’t funny as if you’ve heard every women comedians in every language. That’s pretty damn ironic, not to mention hypocritical.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 12:15 AM
2

That’s because it’s not about looks, if you have no social skills, if you’re boring and you’re not fun to around, if you have anger / depression and your emotionally unstable, even women who are -5/10 won’t want anything to do with you. That’s why the looksmatch concept is flawed, since relationships are about much more than just looks.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 11:55 PM
2

Why should women in porn be blamed?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:24 AM
1

You can be introverted and still have social skills and be fun to be around. Introverted doesn’t necessarily mean being a reclusive guy who never does anything fun, has no social skills and never leaves his house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:32 AM
1

What’s holding a lot of men back is lack of social skills, not working out / being in poor physical shape, being boring / desperate, and just not being fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:29 AM
-1

I love how this sub is full of virgins who barely interact with women yet they act like they’re experts on women and relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:45 AM
1

I’m 5’6 and I my sex / dating life is going splendidly.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 10:30 PM
-1

It’s definitely enough to get laid and get relationships if you have other things going for you like looks, confidence and personality.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 03:08 PM
2

I feel like most of us are doing just fine when it comes to sex, it’s just that Reddit has a STAGGERING number of incels and antisocial basement dweller types who never go to the gym and non ironically use words like “vidya” and “tendies” who feel it’s not fair they’re still virgins while the rest of us get to get laid. And that vocal minority probably makes it look like men are a lot more desperate than what they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:03 PM
-1

Are you really gatekeeping being a loser?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 08:02 AM
1

I hear ya and I definitely believe you, my girl friends from 16-25 were similar and I also hooked up with a fair amount of girls who were into me because they liked my “don’t give a fuck” attitude and liked the vicarious thrill of being with a guy who sells drugs and has shady underworld contacts. I know all this. But here’s the thing. Women don’t like guys BECAUSE they’re toxic and because they’re drug dealers. They like those types of guys because they live life on their terms. They’re not afr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:36 PM
1

No dude, it’s not. No offense but I’ve had a very active dating life since my teens and have lived and dated women in ten different western countries and from what I’ve seen and experienced it’s definitely not all women and usually the guys who say it is are the ones who aren’t dating at all and just repeating incel stereotypes to be edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:22 PM
1

Are you in good physical shape? Do you have a good confident posture where you don’t slouch and look people in the eye when you talk to them? Those may seem like trivial details but they convey confidence and BDE. THe guy with real BDE has a quiet self assurance and knows he has nothing to prove. The obnoxious guy with the loud mouth is the guy who deep down has no confidence and who therefore has something to prove. People (women especially) can sense that stuff on a guy clear as day, which is …
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 03:55 AM
0

You sound angry. It’s pretty easy to see that I’m not an incel or a believer in black pill stuff dude. I don’t really fit the profile either, im a Greek life member who lived in a frat house whole time I was in college, I’m a DJ and I’m a digital nomad who’s lived in six different countries since graduating college. I’m not exactly the type to be into incel stuff but again, believe what you want.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 03:39 AM
0

I lost my virginity in my teens and I’ve always had a good dating / sex life. But believe whatever you want.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 03:16 AM
1

I am also 5’6 and it hasn’t stopped me
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:36 AM
3

You realize that there’s plenty of guys who don’t want to get married or to settle down with anyone long term, and I’m one of them. I enjoy casually dating, I have a FWBs whose company I really enjoy and I still see and hook up with my ex GF a few times a month. Every once in awhile travel with my women I date and we get into something that looks like a semi relationship but I have no desire to settle down, get married, have kids, or have the white picket fence lifestyle. And there’s been awkwar…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 06:16 PM
3

It’s not about being an asshole or a “bad boy” it’s about being confident, being fun to around, being passionate, extraverted while also not taking any shit from people within being obnoxious. Nobody likes a bully, but most women will tell you that a guy who exudes assertiveness and quiet confidence is attractive. Guys who are in good shape and are clearly capable of doing some damage but who choose to be calm and collected until someone actually tries to assault them. The few women who are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:01 PM
2

If that’s what you genuinely believe then I guarantee you don’t have a successful dating / sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:40 PM
1

I don’t really know what to answer that. You don’t have to be James Bond or a renaissance man to be fun, passionate, and spontaneous. Even if you like good food, anime, Harry Potter or art you can plan a surprise trip to the museum to see a cool exhibit or go to a pop-up food joint and then go to a nice cocktail bar together and listen to some jazz or go to the movies to catch a late night Harry Potter rewatch just the two of you slightly drunk and in a good mood. Or something I like doing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:19 PM
1

By “boring” women usually mean a guy who’s completely predictable, repetitive, and lacks spontaneity. It’s fun to be around someone spontaneous, that can be a little unpredictable (in a good way, that has a sense of adventure and who knows who to live in the moment, and that’s usually what women mean when they say they don’t want someone boring. Some of the things about me than women I’ve dated / FWBs found fun about spending time with me: - I DJ and know a bunch of other DJs which means playing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:50 PM
3

That’s not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:30 PM
2

No offense but you sound pretty young and like you don’t have much personal experience with relationships. Have you actually seen any of what you’re talking about in practice?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 10:04 PM
0

I really recommend you surround yourself with the dudes that have the kind of social life you want. If you’re in the USA you should really think about joining a fraternity. People think that all frat boys are the same drunken assholes on steroids but it’s just a stereotype. My fraternity had all kinds of dudes including the token nerdy guy who was into robotics, and he fit in just fine because he was a good dude that just wanted a fun social life.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 04:11 PM
1

“Only bisexuals would be gay for pay”. Wrong. OP has no idea how many straight males are “gay for pay” among homeless men, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:46 AM
1

Bro you’re a self-described “manlet”, so you’re probably not very tough yourself..
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 07:01 AM
1

Lol. You’re the one who wishes this “brainless gender” would look your way and give you a crumb of pussy so what does that say about you? Who’s really “brainless” here? Women don’t give a crap about you but they live rent free in your head 24/7.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 06:46 AM
1

Same, and I’m 5’6 but anything that isn’t black pill negativity isn’t believed by all these incels. These guys just want to be miserable, I wouldn’t bother if I were you. I’ve tried.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 12:05 AM
0

I’m not a believer in any kind of pill. I understand that the guy who really is 5’2 and a bald Indian janitor will never attract good looking women but this sub is full is average 5’6-5’8 guys who could be getting laid if they weren’t so bitter and focused on shit like women who slept with “Chad” faster than they did with other dudes. I’m always trying to explain to these dudes that I’m 5’6 yet lost my virginity in my teens and have a very successful dating / sex life because I work at maintaini…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 11:58 PM
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They do, but there has to be physical attraction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:15 AM
1

Bro you’re hilarious. I’m around a lot of guys who are very successful with women and not a single one of us talk like an incel, using words like “Chad” or “chadlite” un-ironically, especially referring to ourselves. Your posts reak of attention and validation seeking, like when you say you’re “literally in bed getting your dick sucked” or that you’ve banged a bunch of your GFs best friends. Speaking of your GF, I love how last week your girl was Colombian and now she’s white. Guys with nothing …
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 09:47 AM
-3

Actually self improvement is always hard. You’re just looking for excuses.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 09:46 AM
1

And women “behaving like human beings instead of listening to their inner instinctual hooting fucking monkey” is having to settle for guys they’re not really attracted and marry them for a lifetime of unhappiness? Bro these incels don’t give a shit about society either, they’re just mad that they’re not getting laid like the rest of us and are finding any excuse to force women to be back in a position where they have to be with men they’re not attracted to in order to have physical and economic …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:13 PM
1

It’s ridiculous that you expect women to be beholden to a “promise” made by some lady author they never met or cared about. Like please tell me you see how wrong it is to expect that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:31 PM
1

Dude it’s a book from the 18th centur, you can’t possibly seriously think that this constitutes women “promising” anything. You think women nowadays give a crap what the lady who wrote that book said? It has nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:28 PM
7

Wound you rather know a woman settled for you and that deep down she doesn’t find you desirable in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:21 PM
8

Going for anything other than what we’re really attracted to is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:18 PM
1

How about you let everyone just shoot their shot with whoever they want since it doesn’t concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:17 PM
-6

Waiters stare at you with hatred and the waitresses consider poisoning your food? Riight, you’re clearly not delusional or paranoid, OP.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 10:01 AM
1

Agreed. Whoever made this post hasn’t hung out in sorority houses or any other place where large numbers of women are together. The bitchiness, passive aggressiveness and backstabbing I’ve seen over the years completely contradicts OP’s assumption.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:28 AM
-2

Guys who get around a lot in college had to have the confidence social skills and experience to be seen as desirable before they even got there.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:56 AM
1

Plenty of people have zero interest in kids and cooking at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:58 AM
1

Why do you think marriage and kids is the ultimate goal for everyone? There’s so many people who have no interest in being married or having kids. Most marriages go to shit anyway and a lot of people would rather have a career and see the world and work to afford having the freedom to live how they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:57 AM
-2

I said it’s a combination of all the things I mentioned. I’ve known quite a few guys who were taller and more handsome than me, including among my own fraternity brothers and friends, but who weren’t as successful with women as I am simply because they lacked the other attributes I mentioned. But hey, you’re welcome to believe whatever you want.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 12:17 AM
3

What an intelligent comeback.. so if it was up to you, would women actually have to date guys they’re not into so that things could be more “fair”? I’m just trying to understand your reasoning.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 12:00 AM
-1

You actually think hate towards women is justified just because they date / fuck guys they’re attracted to and not the guys they don’t find attractive? So if it was up to you women would be forced to date guys they’re not into?
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 11:40 PM
-1

They’re conventionally attractive yes, so slim and athletic. Before college it was your usual high school girls, during college mostly sorority girls since I live in a fraternity house the whole time I was in college and had the social life that came with it and since graduating I became a digital nomad and have lived all over the western world so I’ve dated women from all over Europe, north America and Israel.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:36 PM
0

I do have an objectively nice looking face and I have a very athletic body but if I had to wager what gets me laid the most I would say it’s my social skills, my sense of humor, the fact I’m fun to be around, that I have interesting hobbies, that I’m confident and that my friends and fraternity brothers give me a crowd a guys that are similar to myself that appeal to certain women’s heard mentality in places like clubs or social gatherings.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:33 PM
0

That’s why I said it to emphasize that I’m short and I still do well with women.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 03:05 PM
-4

I do, both relationships and casual sex / FWBs and have been doing so consistently since my teens and I’m a 5’6 guy.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 01:08 PM
-2

Dude most of the losers in then sub aren’t even worth trying to reason with. If you’re one of the few guys who has a decent sex life then just do what I do and just use this place as a source of entertainment.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 11:04 PM
0

Incel loser <<<<<<<< guy who gets laid and doesn’t have a miserable attitude
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 11:02 PM
1

Who the hell wants to date people they aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:42 AM
-2

I’ve traveled all over the world. And even in the non western world I’ve never seen women who were tens be interested in bitter angry ugly guys just because they happen to be western.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:33 PM
-6

Speak for yourself. I’m a 5’6 guy and the west has been very good to me when it comes to dating and sex. And since graduating college I’ve lived pretty much all over the west. My advice is to stop using words like “geomaxxing” or “maxing” of any kind because even non western women will think a guy who talks like an incel and has the anger / bitterness / resentment of an incel is a loser they’re not remotely attracted to. Learn to speak at least 3-4 languages and become and interesting person. Ma…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:31 PM
1

I am a short guy (5’6) and I’ve had a successful dating and sex life since my teens so why would I care that some women have a preference for tall guys? I’m living proof that if you have good social skills, confidence, if you’re fun to be around and if you have an athletic body then being short won’t hinder you from getting laid. And plenty of my friends and fraternity brothers who are the same height as me do just as well or better than me with women, which shows that I’m not the exception by a…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 05:54 PM
1

Bro you don’t seem to believe it because you’ve never experienced it personally but there’s definitely plenty of women out there whose libido rivals most guys, it’s just that they only fuck guys with a proven track record of giving them orgasms and guys they generally find attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:32 PM
1

Lol if you want natural stop driving a car or using the internet.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 01:28 PM
0

I don’t really like the word “normie”, but yeah I guess you could call me that. I got to be the “normie” while my brother was a virgin until 32 and these subs help me understand some of what he went through while I had a social and sex life since my teens. And btw I also post on fraternity subs, DJ subs and a bunch of others.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 06:42 PM
1

Lol I’m not an incel.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 03:04 PM
1

Against whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:22 AM
-2

“Sweaty” is a person who sweats a lot. You meant *sweety.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 04:14 AM
1

If some guys aren’t insecure then why care about stuff like hot girl summer and girls having had previous sexual experience? And wanting to be the best she’s ever had by limiting her experience of other sexual partners? I have a lot of sexual experience and I’m around a lot of guys who are very successful with women and I’ve never heard any of them say the kind of things you said about wanting to be sure she never gave ex to another guy earlier. We’ve all had plenty of women come at us and we’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:57 AM
1

Would you like me to let you check out my Facebook profile and go over all my IG pics lol? It really doesn’t make any difference to me if you believe me or not, either what I’m saying makes sense to you or it doesn’t.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 01:49 AM
1

Not all men are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:58 PM
-2

I’m in my thirties but most of the women I date are 24-28.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 11:45 PM
-2

I’m 5’6 and my dating / sex life has always been very good. As long as you have an athletic body, good social skills, you’re fun to be around, you have a solid circle of people around you who regularly do fun / cool things and invite women from their extended friend groups and you at least have the basics of seduction down, you’ll always do relatively well for yourself even if you are kinda short.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 10:05 PM
1

During my college fraternity days I had a fair amount of casual sex, both with repeat FWBs and randoms, had random sex in the back of my university library, cars, a random garden outside a club and plenty of other random places. And as much as a usually don’t agree with any sort of incel / black pill theories, I kind of have to somewhat agree with this one; I’m still friends on FB with most of the women I had sex with in those days and I see the type of guys that they ended up marrying and most …
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:32 PM
2

He said he was forty but as a “transage”he basically identified as a teen. Pedo and delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:22 PM
6

Yeah that degenerate lowlife actually referred to himself as “age fluid” and “trans age” because he identified as a 20 year old and as such he thought he was entitled to be with teenage girls or “kemono waifu” as he put it. Disgusting 🤮.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:51 AM
0

Lol no you didn’t. I’ve seen your post history.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:33 PM
1

It only matters when their husband is a bad lay compared to guys she’s been with in the past and she knows what she’s missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:17 AM
-2

So you’re 40 but you’re a young man but 18-20 year old women are middle aged? Makes sense.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 01:26 PM
-1

And again, why would they be attracted to an old man like you?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 10:51 AM
1

Yeah good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:04 AM
-5

Stop it with the creepy degenerate shit, you know damn well 18-22 year old women aren’t “middle aged”. Or if they are then at 40 years old you’re a senior citizen so why would an 18 year old woman want to be with a geriatric senior citizen like yourself?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 08:02 AM
3

You think that restaurant owners are high status? When you said high status I thought you meant Silicon Valley tech startup CEO, oil tycoons, multi-billion dollar hedge fund managers or Wall Street trader.. I just don’t see how marrying a restaurant owner isn’t a “normal life”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:04 PM
4

The point is that if any women thought that stuff was anywhere near interesting or attractive, do you think you would have been been an incel for years now?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 08:01 AM
6

If there was any girls who thought it was “cool” you wouldn’t be a virgin incel right now. But you are, so what does that tell you?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:41 AM
10

Yeah, cancel culture and feminism are so bad for not letting 40 year old weirdos harass teenage girls with hate speech because he thinks he’s entitled to a virgin kemono waifu..
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 07:40 AM
1

He’s just an angry incel. Don’t worry, he doesn’t talk for all men, just bitter virgins.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 08:05 PM
1

Because that’s the kind of thing you might hear from an angry 16 year old but to say this kind of stuff at 32 says a lot about your maturity level.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:55 PM
0

It’s incel to think that if it a woman wasn’t attracted to you and didn’t give you a chance it was because she was shallow, and on top of that you’re generalizing saying that they’re all shallow. And you say that “men hating” posts are allowed on PPD but I’ve never seen one so if you can show me one link to one I’d like to see it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:53 PM
-3

They aren’t interested in the real discussion? Dude I’m one of the guys with a normal dating / sex life and a good relationship with the women in my life who’s on this sub and I read the posts and we both know that the incels who post here aren’t interested in having any sort of discussion either they use this sub as an echo chamber where they come to spew their hate and get upvotes from the other angry virgins, they’re not here to have any sort of discussion in good faith and they’re certainly …
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 01:05 AM
-3

Maybe incels.is might be more your speed..
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 01:37 AM
2

Are you really complaining that women are rejecting men they’re not attracted to? Would you rather they be forced to date creeps, and overweight smegma-laden incels? And I’ve never heard women complaining about being approached it’s being approached in a creepy way and refusing to take no for an answer that is the problem. I’ve dated women I’ve met in supermarkets, college libraries, bars, parce and a bunch of other places and I’ve never been told I was objectifying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:37 PM
-1

Bro no woman would get pleasure from what you described. Only guys who are bad lays think that constant jackhammering is in any way orgasmic.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:51 PM
2

Why would a woman agree to go in a date with a guy she’s not physically attracted to? Personally, I’ve never gone on a second date with a woman if we didn’t make out / have sex at the end of the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:21 PM
1

Lol. You’re welcome to tell yourself that if it helps you sleep at night but all your posts complaining about being short have comments from other short guys telling you they’re doing just fine dating-wise and that it’s lost likely your personality that keeps you from getting laid and you just refuse to believe it. So keep on believing your height is the problem if you want, my dating / sex life is going just fine and I’m 5’6.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 06:31 PM
0

A lot of us guys don’t like them either. I think they’re a waste of time and all the guys I bet who were gamers were either overweight or socially immature or straight up incel types. There a lot more interesting things to do with limited time.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:49 PM
0

Not in my experience.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:34 PM
-2

Actually it’s real life personal experience and the experience of a lot of the men around me.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:32 PM
-6

Exactly.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 09:38 AM
9

If a man generalized women as much as you did with men he’d be called an incel. You know damn well that not all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:29 AM
2

You seem to be the only woman who feels this way. Relationships, or any partnership for that matter- are a give and a take. Meaning that for things to work both people have to pull their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:26 AM
1

Actually I was trying to have a discussion in good faith but I was taken aback by how agressive you are. If you feel like making a few bullet points that you’d like me to counter / discuss I’ll do it gladly. All I was saying is that I don’t think that the guy she described is as rare as you may think since I’m one and most of the men I’m around are like that, and my other point was that all her “requirements” were things that guys can actually work towards having: confidence, good manners, good …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:11 AM
3

Then we should also take away men having to pay any child support whatsoever, wouldn’t you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:03 AM
7

You do realize that not all women want kids, right? And when people start dating they’re nowhere near the stage of having children, so in a society that favors equal rights for men and women I really don’t see why they shouldn’t have to pay half.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:01 AM
1

It’s not a contest dude, it’s Reddit. But if it was, the guy who loses the discussion would be the one who can’t / doesn’t bother to counter any of the points the other person made in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:54 AM
-12

Not this height crap again. Bro it’s not your height, it’s your personality. Jesus. Me, my friends, my fraternity brothers, many of my coworkers are 5’6-5’7 and most of us do very well with women + society treats us just fine. I’ve never been given a single indication that I’m viewed as genetically inferior, and not only do people respect my opinion but there actually interested in it. If you’re weak, it’s YOUR fault. I’ve been doing combat sports since I was a kid and I do push-ups and sit-ups …
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 08:52 AM
1

Dude why are you so bitter? I don’t know why but you seem to be taking this very personally. I asked because I was genuinely curious. And making eye contact and being physically fit are things that pretty much most guys can do / work towards, it’s not like she wrote that being 6’2 tall was the requirement, so what about that do you find so unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:39 AM
1

Ned Flanders is boring, doesn’t have a captivating presence and isn’t self aware enough to realize he’s annoying. That’s totally not what she described.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:06 AM
1

How is this a fantasy? I’m seriously asking what part of this seems unattainable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:04 AM
1

I’m like that and so are most of the men in my social circle, and I’m not that special that I consider myself a top 2% kinda guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:02 AM
1

No offense but I’m a guy and I tick every one of those boxes and so do most of the guys I know, being confident, having good posture, being respectful to waiters and maintaining an athletic body is pretty basic stuff for a guy with standards and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:57 AM
3

I’m 5’6 and things aren’t even tough, they’re actually really good dating / sex wise.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:52 PM
-1

This guy is a degenerate even other incels can’t stand him and down vote all his posts.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:50 PM
-1

No one’s going to help you be an ephebophile.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 12:42 PM
-4

Bro what 18 year old girl in her right mind is going to be attracted to some 40 year old incel? You’re going to be alone forever.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:33 AM
-2

For being a weirdo 40 year old who wants to date teenage girls.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 11:32 AM
0

So you don’t want women having access to education and employment? Would you rather things go back to when women needed to marry some guy they weren’t even attracted to just to have physical and economic safety?
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 08:19 PM
1

Most women want to have sex and have fun before they get married. It’s THEIR choice.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 06:24 PM
4

What’s evil is a 40 year old man trying to get with teenagers. That’s evil.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:42 PM
0

Because no one wants to be with someone who isn’t emotionally self-sufficient, it’s a sign that someone is poorly adjusted and has maturity issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:39 AM
5

There’s no such thing as transage you’re just an old pervert who wants to be with teenage girls. 17 year old girls think a 40 year old man looking for teens is gross and sick in the head.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 08:30 AM
-4

LOL this is the stupidest incel crap I’ve ever read. Bro you’re completely wrong. Ask a doctor or any physician and they’ll tell you that “the different semen and juices” absolutely DO NOT stay in the womb for life and women do not carry the residual energy of sexual partners for life and the vagina does not get looser with additional sexual partners. I don’t know where you get that stuff but it’s completely ridiculous. All you need to do is ask a doctor, a nurse or any other physician if you do…
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 05:18 AM
0

What difference does it make if she’s been abstinent less than six months?
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 04:07 AM
21

Exactly so saying it’s not misogynistic to hate “bad women” makes no sense at all since there’s no one definition of what constitutes being “bad” so hating women for completely subjective stuff is misogynistic if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:14 AM
22

What’s wrong with not wanting kids and wanting to focus on yourself? And many of our mothers and grandmothers were miserable because they had to marry men they weren’t really attracted and have children when they wanted education and independence instead but back then women needed men for physical safety and economic survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:11 AM
-4

Source: trust me “brocel”!
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 03:50 AM
1

That’s fine by me. But just so you know, I’m not the only one most of my friends and fraternity brothers are also around my height and most of them also do very well with women.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:16 PM
0

Bro I’m also 5’6 and my dating / sex life is going great.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 06:11 AM
3

Who cares?
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 07:34 AM
1

How are your social skills? Are you fun to be around? Would you say you’re interesting? Do you have cool hobbies? Would you say you’re good at flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:58 PM
9

If that was true my 5’6 ass wouldn’t have lost my virginity in my teens and wouldn’t have a consistently good dating / sex life in 6 different countries. I’d say it’s my face, my body, my confidence, and the fact that I’m sociable and fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:49 PM
1

Nobody is right or wrong, it’s just a matter of having different values. Some people believe individual freedom and liberty is what’s most important and others believe that the family unit and having kids is what’s most important and depending on those views people will have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:42 AM
-3

The sick fucks on Incels.is calling women toilets and talking about wanting to rape women, to treat them like animals, to take creep shots of them in the streets and on the bus / subway, and who worship ER are no better than the “bad guys” OP is referring to. The only reason incels don’t actually act on all the sick shit they talk about on incels.is is because they’re cowards. Not because they have any sort of human decency.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:17 AM
1

The thing is that men are still needed as protectors, providers, soldiers / conquerors and laborers but everything is a lot more competitive these days. You wanna be a provider, start a business that needs a bunch of workers and provide them with jobs, you want to be a conqueror type then you can open some sort of big tech startup and start fighting for market shares and big money, you want to be a protector then be part of the scientific community and come up with some shit to save people from …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:42 AM
4

LOL. A “king” that couldn’t get laid in the western world and who can’t attract women based on his attractiveness so he has to go to third world countries to women who will sleep with him because he has American dollars. That’s nowhere near having “the best” and OP is nowhere near being a “king”.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:02 PM
4

Dude you don’t get to talk for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:14 AM
-4

The black pill is a flawed ideology. It’s intellectually lazy and it’s a cowardly way to live. You’re much better off experiencing love and relationships all the way and getting used to the fact that getting hurt is part of the game but ultimately getting hurt helps you mature and grow as a person. That’s why black pill followers seem so immature and inexperienced at life by those of us who have had a lot of experience with dating / sex / relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 01:45 PM
2

Don’t believe the incel hype, most of us are doing just fine when it comes to dating / sex. The problem is that these subs are overrun with block pill weirdos who think that they get to speak for all men when their experience doesn’t represent what the majority of men are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:53 PM
0

If by “classic femininity” you mean not getting an education, not having a career, not having independence, not having decision making power, and having to settle for men they’re not really attracted to and be stay at home moms, the answer is NEVER.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 01:57 AM
3

I think it’s pretty obvious this guy has never had a girlfriend.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 11:39 AM
-3

Let’s be honest, passport bros are lame AF.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 03:04 PM
2

Bro you don’t speak for all men and we really don’t all feel that. I have a lot of sexual experience and I don’t want to be with a virgin or a woman with little experience, I want a woman who’s sexually mature and who’s a good lay as long as she has no STDs. Plus virgin women haven’t had the opportunity to figure out their kinks by experiencing different things with different partners and figured out what she’s really into. That’s another part of being sexually mature and there’s plenty of us gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:06 PM
2

Bro don’t bother, I’ve tried. Other than the few normal guys like me and you most of the guys here don’t realize that they only represent a small subset of men and that most of us are living perfectly good dating / sex lives with attractive women who aren’t exploiting us financially. But the incels here actually think they speak for all men and that we’re all in the same boat and if you try telling them that’s not the case you’ll only get downvoted.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:00 PM
-8

Wow, bitter much?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:23 AM
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Wasn’t Caesar bisexual and a cross dresser?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:17 PM
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Children are overrated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:06 PM
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How is that a problem? The world is already over populated and the world would be better off without the human race to destroy nature, ecosystems wipe whole species of animals off the map. So I really fail to see how it’s a bad thing that women choose to have less kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:03 PM
1

I love being single. My ex GF still calls me for sex about 3-4 times a month and I have another FWBs that I see a couple times a week and I’ve also hooked up with her roommate. And when I don’t feel like hanging out with any girls and just want to chill and home and get high or go out with my boys I can do that without anyone getting offended or acting like I’m neglecting her. I also don’t have to deal with all the crap and the drama that comes with relationships and I definitely enjoy that. I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:39 PM
-4

I know that some men struggle, sure. But I don’t struggle and the men I’m around don’t struggle. Just yesterday I commented on a thread saying that short men are basically doomed to be incels and I responded by saying that I’m 5’6 and my dating / sex life is great and most of my friends and fraternity brothers aren’t much taller than me and also do very well with women. Your post basically said that there’s no point about caring about women for any guy, and it’s simply not true. Maybe for some g…
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 11:27 PM
-5

He’s right tho. Not about insulting but about the fact that all you have to do is go outside to see men and women having healthy, balanced relationships and doing just fine, and you didn’t address that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 11:16 PM
1

None of that excuses getting agressive and acting like an entitled piece of shit because of a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:32 AM
0

Dude this sub doesn’t reflect real life. Most men are doing just fine in the current dating market and I think it’s pretty sad that some guys want women to have less options just because they’re not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:28 PM
1

With traditional gender roles women are forced to settle for men they’re not really into for financial and physical security? Do you think that’s fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:18 PM
-2

I don’t know why some guys here keep repeating this crap. I’m 5’6 and I lost my virginity in my teens and I’ve always had a successful dating / sex life. I get hit on, invited out on dates that women pay for, and all the women I’ve been with have been attractive. And most of my friends and fraternity brothers aren’t much taller than me and most of them also do very well with women. I think it’s more a matter of being fun to be around / party with and social skills. Of course you also have to be …
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 10:57 PM
2

I can see why this post got negative likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:39 AM
3

Actually maybe you didn’t get the memo that we’re equal. Woman have something you want too, remember? It’s a good thing that young woman laugh at you when you tell them you’re the boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:01 AM
5

“Who the boss is”? Why would women young or old see you as the boss? And do you know how pathetic that makes you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:58 AM
0

Ten is a big number to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:48 PM
3

Why would women be inferior in hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:35 PM
1

If people thought marriage was a path that was “rich and fulfilling” you know they’d do? They’d get married. But you don’t need to be married to enjoy sharing a life with someone, being in a relationship and having someone to live and travel with. You don’t even need to be married to have a kid. And the best part is, when you feel like sharing your life with someone else then all you have to do is breakup and not have a costly, messy divorce. So I really don’t see how marriage is so good when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:21 AM
1

To most people these days a career, financial independence and the capacity to go travel, explore the world and find themselves. That definitely beats marrying young to someone from your hometown without having seen what’s really out there and really seeing all the options that are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:39 AM
-10

What’s your point, OP? That it’s not fair?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 01:30 AM
4

What exactly was this post trying to achieve other than make you look bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:49 PM
0

“Most women cannot accept the reality that they’re shitty people”. Dude the second you start making these incel type broad sweeping generalizations without so much as a source people don’t take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:52 PM
1

As a guy I don’t give a crap about those groups. They’re welcome to exist and women are welcome to run them, my dating / sex life isn’t affected and my FWBs know about each other anyway.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 10:27 PM
-1

Incel brain: I blame women, the Jews, “soyciety”, and the “bluepilled cucks” for my own shortcomings and spew hate and flawed theories like the black pill on Reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 12:19 PM
-2

Bro I know you think you’re edgy but you just sound like an incel loser who’s never touched a woman IRL and who trolls on Reddit in order to avoid being confronted to his own feelings of inadequacy and the fact you’re still a virgin.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:12 PM
1

Lol you’re like the definition of the angry little incel with your ramblings and your little threats of incel takeover. Do you know how ridiculous you sound?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 10:28 AM
1

Lol we’re they supposed to save themselves for you? And what difference does it make if they’re not virgins? Are you that worried about them comparing your performance to some other guy with more experience and hurting your pride?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 04:53 AM
1

I’m also an American who lives in Europe and I can tell you it’s definitely not all the same.
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 03:40 PM
1

I’m a dude and I’m definitely hypergamous. I usually date women who smart, cultured, well traveled, speak multiple languages, and who are college educated. I don’t really care if they don’t have a lot of money, but those type of women do tend to come from wealthy backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:23 PM
6

I’m a guy and I think you’re full of shit. Women can’t avoid being slut shamed because there’s always going to be some loser incel who’s going to call them a slut no matter how big or small their number is. Even if their number is less than ten there’s going to be a guy who thinks that’s too much and will talk shit, so it’s not because of women’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:22 PM
1

But you and I both know that those chicks in that video aren’t representative, those 3 are clearly clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:21 PM
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I’ll never understand you incels. If women are so evil then why do you allow them to live rent free in your head and to post compulsively about here to complain about them? It’s like y’all are obsessed lol, you guys may complain about them but you still wish some of them would find you attractive enough to throw some pussy and some affection your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:14 PM
-3

You clearly don’t have any personal experience with women, women can be smart and loving same as any man.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 02:57 PM
1

But why else would guys who never had sex make these elaborate theories about threes ones and other sexual situations that they’re never going to actually experience themselves?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:34 AM
1

This is the kind of shit they come up with to tell themselves that being an incel isn’t so bad lol. “I don’t even want sex with two hot chicks, that would be cucked”!
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:42 AM
1

These guys clearly don’t have a sex life..
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:40 AM
-1

Sorry to hear that, are you involuntary celibate and just not satisfied with your size or have you had women say they weren’t satisfied with your size?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:39 PM
-2

Dude are you insecure about your dick size or something? Because it seems like you’re obsessed with this dick stuff and incel stuff in general..
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 08:52 PM
1

I’m not trying to sound judgmental here since I’m not personally affected but don’t you think it’s selfish and immature to actually want women to have less options so that they’re forced to date men they’re not really attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:45 PM
1

Because most of us have a good dating / sex lives and we’re happy women have options; I like knowing that the women I date physically lust after me. But even if I didn’t have a good dating life I don’t think I’d be down to do something as petty and immature as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:30 PM
2

I just don’t understand why you’d care that women have a lot of dating options if it’s not about you. I have a very good dating / sex life and I don’t see any of the issues that a lot of the guys here say women have.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 11:33 PM
4

So you’re basically annoyed women aren’t forced to settle for you anymore because these days they have more options?
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:38 PM
2

You’re aware that semen doesn’t stay in a vagina after a woman washes and showers, right? Just because a woman isn’t a virgin doesn’t mean you’re getting anywhere near another man’s semen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:25 AM
1

Bro I don’t know what it is with you and the yelling with capitalized letters but you’re not exactly making a whole lot of sense here and you sound like you’re still pretty young so I’m not gonna bother going back and forth with you.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 10:10 PM
0

So how do you explain that so many guys like me who are not “chads” somehow have successful dating / sex lives with quality women?
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 09:46 PM
0

First off I take whatever she says with multiple grains of salt considering she’s barely older than a teenager and looks like she has little real world experience. My views came from my own experiences with women and those of my many friends and fraternity brothers. None of us are “chads” yet the overwhelming majority have very successful dating / sex lives and from what I can see it’s good social skills, being in good physical shape, being fun to be around and projecting an overall good vibe th…
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 09:40 PM
0

Dude I’m by no means a “Chad” but I’ve had a great dating / sex life since my teens. You don’t need to be 6ft tall and have a jaw that could cut diamonds to be appealing to women so that they actually approach and engage with you. If anything you need good social skills and you need to be in good physical shape and to have an appealing “vibe” (as in don’t reek of anger and bitterness). Most of my friends and fraternity brothers do very well with women as well and none of them are over 5’7 with s…
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 07:47 PM
1

OP no offense but this post is in very poor taste. There’s actually many people in this sub who have “normal” to “very good” dating / sex lives and we do give our opinion on this sub and engage in discussion but none of us actually talk about numbers / our stats because of the number of incels that are in here. I had a hoe phase I started when I moved in my college fraternity house and that I kept going for another seven years after graduating when I became a digital nomad. I’m still very active…
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 09:16 PM
1

That still doesn’t explain why y’all would give a crap about a chick “acting hotter than she is”. The only possible reason is that you’re bitter that y’all are getting denied by a caliber of women that you feel entitled to because they’re “on your level” or your “looksmatch” as the incels like to say. That’s the only reason why anyone would take that shit personally like y’all do.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 08:58 PM
-2

Really? So who gets to decide what women are acting “hotter than they are”? The Incel Looksmatching Institute? Let’s keep it 100 dude, all this shit about women acting hotter than they are is just about a bunch of incels being mad they’re getting rejected by chicks they think they should have access to.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:55 AM
9

Can’t they be attracted to whoever regardless of race?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 01:26 AM
0

Why do you care how “hot” somebody acts? Attractiveness is completely subjective so everyone has a right to think they’re as hot as they want and if you don’t like it just stay away from them. The only reason incels say they care is because they’re getting rejected by women they feel entitled to.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:22 PM
1

Are you currently dating a young 20-something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:42 PM
3

Who else’s fault can it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:57 PM
5

No it doesn’t. I’m a dude and I’ve met women I dated or had FWBs arrangements with at grocery stores, the street, clubs and all kinds of other random places. Women let you know with body language and other subtle non verbal cues when they’re interested and want you to approach, but once they send you those signals it doesn’t mean they’ll be into you once you start talking. They might find you arrogant, boring, or get annoyed because you’re not reading their signals properly and then decide not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:53 PM
0

Dude have a little class, jesus you’re just making yourself look like an angry incel right now who’s losing it because a woman had the nerve to call you out in your shit. Like look at how personally you’re taking this lol, you don’t see anyone else here getting this angry and resorting to insults like you’re doing, do you know how immature that shit is?
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 02:29 AM
3

It’s not shallow to want to be physically attracted to the person you get into a long term relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:36 AM
3

How is it shallow to have personal standards and preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:27 PM
1

You could have said “I’m a bitter incel” in a lot less words. Women ask out dudes all the time (the ones worth asking out). And why would you give a shit if a women has tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:20 PM
1

No it just prove ls the black pill is garbage.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 11:45 PM
1

Lol. You sound really butthurt, OP.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 10:45 PM
0

To most guys getting laid / relationships is nowhere near as hard as you make it sound tho.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 10:32 PM
1

So why don’t you tell me what “average” dudes are like? Now I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:23 PM
1

I see. And essentially the study says that what percentage of men are single? Best in mind that single doesn’t mean celibate, I’m “single” since I’m not in a relationship but I still have two FWBs and an ex GF that I still mess around with here and there so just because the study says a big percentage of men are single doesn’t mean they’re not sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:15 PM
1

That doesn’t answer my question. Where did the study take place? The USA? And even if nick canon has multiple Gfs I still don’t see what the problem is. It’s not like you need to be famous to date multiple people, I’m not famous and I have two regular FWBs from the same group of friends who are well aware of the situation, and another one that I chill with about twice a month, mostly just for booty calls. But that’s MY business, I don’t understand why some people care what other adults are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:48 AM
1

Where? I’m pretty sure that study wasn’t for all of western civilization..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:04 AM
-3

Obviously you’re entitled to your opinion but I see dudes writing posts all the time about being 6 foot + and not being able to get dates / laid, and their problem is that they don’t have the confidence, the social skills and the communication skills to be good at flirting / seduction and look attractive to women, so I really think that if guys don’t manage to get laid at 5’8 they won’t manage to get laid at 6ft either.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 02:20 AM
-2

This leg lengthening crap is so stupid, I’m 5’6 and have been dating / getting laid since my teens, and most of my friends and fraternity brothers aren’t much taller than I am and most of them do well with women. If a guy can’t get laid then he probably needs to work on his confidence and social skills, and make sure he’s got an athletic body. If he doesn’t have those things, adding a few inches to his legs won’t change a damn thing.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 01:12 AM
1

I’m a dude, genius. Girls don’t live in frat houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 PM
-3

Wow, bitter much?
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 08:22 AM
2

Dude that’s an ugly stereotype, most of my fraternity brothers paid their way through college and through grad school. And yes, I did leave after college, I became a digital nomad and started living in a bunch of different countries but that doesn’t mean I don’t know what happens back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:26 PM
1

I don’t I need to read articles to know America, I’m from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:42 PM
-1

I hear ya, but are you telling me that your ability to get laid changed after college? Personally, after I graduated my dating / sex life pretty much stayed the same, including when I lived in Israel and a bunch of European countries, so I’m not sure I agree that being a fraternity member has that much to do with dude’s capacity to attract women. If you’re not a sociable person with good communication skills and an extraverted temperament then you’re not going to have an easy time with dating / …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:41 PM
1

That’s a fair point, I lived in a fraternity house the whole time I was in college and since then most of the people I’ve associated with have been DJs, content creators, event promoters and guys who are generally pretty extraverted and “socially capable”. I don’t know any guys who are socially inept, introverted “vidya and tendies” types but I still really think that the bitter dudes, the incels and the red pill types who seem to make up a big part of this sub are a minority out there in the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:50 PM
2

Dude you’re just repeating stupid incel stereotypes, most guys I was around in the USA were doing just fine dating wise, and since I’ve graduated from college I’ve lived in 6 different western countries + Israel and everywhere I went most dudes I was around were doing just fine, it’s just on these incel / red pill subs that you see a majority of frustrated dudes who are bitter at women because they’ve never had decent dating / sex lives but the guys on these subs aren’t representative of real li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:04 PM
2

The point is why do you care what people do behind closed doors? It’s none of your business, people are free to live how they want to live and I don’t understand why you want to interfere with people’s freedom. Sounds to me like you only reason you care about “de facto harems“ it’s because you’re bitter you’re not getting any. Sounds like a you problem, not society’s.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 04:59 PM
3

Road laws are necessary for people’s physical safety, enforcing monogamy would only limit people’s freedom and their ability to live how they want, it has no purpose.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:39 AM
5

Bro men who aren’t incels or red pillers don’t believe in that crap either, so don’t act like you get to talk for most men. Why would we have any rules that limit personal freedom? Let people live how they wanna live as long as they’re not hurting anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:09 AM
-4

As someone with a good dating / sex life who’s just on the outside looking in, I couldn’t agree more. All this black pill stuff is just toxic garbage and it’s an elaborate way to blame the rest of the world for one’s shortcomings and to justify one’s anger and bitterness. I’m short (5’6) and I’m on the spectrum but I realized early on that social skills and confidence was everything, and not just for dating but also to get the respect of other men and I did everything to work on my shortcomings …
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 10:41 AM
0

Jesus what’s with all the incel crap on this sub?
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:43 PM
5

No we absolutely don’t need to make romantic life reachable to most because that would mean making people lower their standards and date people they’re not really into. The dating market is regulated by supply and demand, that’s it. Everyone is free to have their preferences. There’s no such thing as making a “fair” dating market because that means forcing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:51 AM
1

Were you purposely trying to write the most incel answer possible just for shits and giggles or are you actually this pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:15 AM
1

Dude it’s only in these weird incel forums that I see men saying they care about this shit but in the real world most people don’t even ask and don’t even care. Plus asking about that stuff is guaranteed to make a chick think that you’re insecure about your own lack of sexual experience and just insecure period. I’m your “average” frat boy, DJ, and extraverted type. I lived in my college frat house for 4 years and afterwards I became a digital nomad and lived in a bunch of different countries in…
/r/AllPillDebate01/05/23 03:22 AM
2

How are tattoos a waste of money when you literally get to keep them for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:55 AM
4

How hard is it to understand that people put on things at different moments that make them feel good about themselves, not for any other reason. It could be putting on clothes or makeup when going out or it could be putting on nice lingerie underneath clothes or cute sleepwear; whether people see it or not, it’s something that people do for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:54 AM
0

I don’t know about a “Chad” face but the point is if you’re decent looking you don’t need to be 6ft tall to get laid.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 07:35 PM
2

Lol I’m 5’6 and I lost my virginity in my teens and have always had a successful dating / sex life. After I graduated college I left the USA and lived in a bunch of different European countries + Israel and did just fine dating wise in every country I’ve lived in. Most of my friends and fraternity brothers are also relatively short and almost all of them are highly successful with women so this height thing is BS as long as you have an athletic body and good social skills.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 12:04 PM
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Flirting is the art of seduction. It’s all the subtle non verbal cues that people use to demonstrate attraction without having to actually say it out loud. Things like looks, body language, the “vibe” you project, etc.. and that’s how people can have a perfectly innocent conversation with a stranger they just met at a bar and create sexual tension that will result in a one night stand or a date later on. Basically the guy who has to “say it out loud” is the guy who has no idea what he’s doing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:02 AM
21

Dude screw that everyone has the right to dress in a way that makes them feel good and that’s that. It’s ridiculous to think people should have to accommodate the whims of incels, Muslims and manosphere “trad” losers when they pick their outfit for the day every morning. And it’s also ridiculous to think people should have to worry about someone being jealous or offended. That’s THEIR problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:15 PM
3

I couldn’t agree more, it’s better not to have children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:58 PM
1

People lived shorter life spans 50 years ago. And all the studies show that the people having kids at a younger age are the poorer, more uneducated people who are less capable of giving their kids opportunities to have better lives. And why would you even care that people want to live their lives, educate themselves and start careers before settling down? Honestly these days it’s better not to have children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:56 PM
5

Exactly. OP has no idea what he’s talking about and should probably stop listening to red pill / incel “trad” garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:52 PM
2

Dude I’m autistic and I used to be very introverted. I had to learn social skills and to not get stuck inside my own head so much so that I could be more extroverted. I had girlfriends and hookups before I learned good social skills, but it’s only after I learned that I became good with flirting / seduction. I think you have this idea that all fraternity members are rich, good looking tall guys and that’s not necessarily the case. Looks matter, sure, but not as much as you’d think and a lot of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:26 PM
8

I don’t have “frat brother” written on my forehead, so it’s not like any of the women I’ve dated since college knew I was in fraternity and nobody cares about that stuff after college, so that has nothing to do with how successful my dating life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:01 PM
0

I’m not in college anymore, after graduating i became a digital nomad and right now I live in Amsterdam but dating-wise things haven’t changed, I still have a good dating / sex life. And I’ve also lived in Rome, Tel Aviv and other places and it was the same over there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:00 PM
2

Dude I’m not that much above average and my dating and sex life have always been good. I’m only 5’6 and most of my friends and fraternity brothers aren’t that much taller and it’s of us do very well with women. So I think that your outlook is a bit pessimistic, I think the average guy who has an athletic body and gold social skills should be able to find sone chicks who will have genuine interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:39 PM
7

How is that being fucked over? I like knowing that the chicks I date are with me because they’re genuinely attracted and not because they didn’t have many options, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:59 PM
3

Most of the time it’s incels who have never touched a woman or been in a relationship making grand assumptions and theories. For those of us who have experience with women it’s hard to take seriously the type of guys with incels.is accounts and who say things like “vidya and tendies” in a non ironic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:12 AM
2

How many relationships have you been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 PM
1

That’s not how that works. If you’re not cool with something your partner does then move, that person ain’t for you. It’s up to them to change who they are for you. You’re not going to change your views, don’t ask them to change themselves for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:13 PM
1

It’s controlling and it’s ALWAYS going to backfire when you try to control what your partner does. They’re to resent you and end up lying to you or worse. Everyone can do as they like. And if you’re not cool with something someone does then the only thing to do is move on and find a partner you don’t cash with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:02 PM
1

How mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:14 AM
3

Lol whoever wrote this clearly hasn’t ever dated anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:11 PM
1

That’s big words coming from a guy who’s never had sex.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 10:46 PM
-1

Not in a way that’ll stimulate the clit or bring on an orgasm. Bro you might wanna stop acting like you know anything about sex, especially after making a ridiculous incel post and trying to pretend you’re a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 10:33 PM
0

You’re an incel dude who’s clearly never seen a woman naked. No, they don’t. It’s actually the pelvic bone that’s against the clit if you know how to position yourself correctly.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 10:14 PM
-1

Bro no offense but it’s pretty damn obvious the closest you’ve come to seeing a woman’s clitoris was in online porn. It’s like y’all go out of your way to come up with the stupidest theories and saying shit to purposely have women find you even more repulsive. Shit, you’re the “volcel”.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 10:09 PM
1

I don’t need to “cope”, my existence is just fine, as is my dating / sex life.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 04:57 PM
0

Don’t even bother trying to debate this lot most of them are teenage incels who think they know everything.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 01:32 AM
-3

Jesus bro, what’s with the incel stereotypes? It’s pretty clear you don’t know any women personally if that’s what you think. This post is basically about you being frustrated that you don’t actually hang out / date any women and that the only women you see are the insta thots you wish you could be banging.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 01:30 AM
1

OP that’s not how “game” works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:20 AM
2

You act as if women have a duty to sustain humanity. That’s no one’s responsibility, and if women choose to get an education and a career and not to get married until their thirties or not get married at all that’s on them, they don’t owe humanity anything, if anything we all have a duty to ourselves to achieve happiness because that’s the best we can do in life. And for more and more people these days happiness doesn’t revolve around getting married young and having a bunch of kids in a white p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:52 PM
1

Actually it does there’s limited spots available to get into med school so they take the people with the best grades and the best test scores.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 06:37 AM
1

Dude I’ve traveled all over the world and lived in six different countries and in every place I’ve been the happiest women I met were the ones with money and careers and the freedom to live life how THEY WANT, not how some red pilled incels who have never touched a woman imagine women should be like because it’s more comforting for them.. And from the way you talk I assume you haven’t seen much of the world and that you don’t have much experience with women either..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:30 AM
2

I’m a dude. And just because women have tits and a uterus doesn’t mean that they’ll be happier married with children, that’s ridiculous. The happiest women I know are successful, with money and investments of their own, free to travel the world and they don’t want to be looking after a bunch of kids and changing diapers and they’re getting much more satisfaction out of being free and enjoying their life as they see fit than living for their husband and a bunch of kids they never wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:13 AM
3

“More in tune with your nature”? Lol, you got sources for this? Because it sounds like an opinion to me. A lot of people are finding that having a career and the money + the freedom to travel and explore the word is a lot more gratifying than getting married young and popping out some kids. And why would marrying a virgin be better? Just because you don’t choose the white picket fence married life doesn’t equate to being an STD-laden whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:21 AM
1

I’ve had a successful dating / sex lode since my teens and it’s been pretty constant, except for my big “hoe phase” in college and the few years afterwards but things have stayed fond since I turned 30 because I’ve kept an athletic body, I still have good social skills, I’m fun to be around and since college I’ve lived and worked in a bunch of different countries and I find that women are attracted to that as well (the culture, the “laptop lifestyle”, etc..). But I would disagree that most men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:24 PM
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That’s absolutely not true. I’m just mentioning some of the things that happen when you date women that are financially independent, we spend pretty much the same amounts of money on each other because the men on this up constantly complain about women only dating men to get gifts and free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:22 AM
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But a relationship is a partnership. You want a someone who isn’t your equal and who you can boss around and always have the final word in case of disagreement. Do you even realize that that’s peak insecure, small dick energy? You won’t find a self-respecting woman who wants to date a guy who wants a woman he can control and not let her think for herself. What you need is a dog, not a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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I have high standards when it comes to women I get into long term relationships with the women I go for typically have bachelors / masters degrees, speak multiple languages, are cultured and well traveled, have good careers as well as investments of their own. Obviously none of those things are a prerequisite for me to date a woman but somehow that’s usually how it works out, the women I attract have those types of profile and those are the women I’m into. It’s just my personal taste but I’m int…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:35 PM
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Wow dude you really have some big insecurity issues..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:17 PM
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That doesn’t mean they’re attracted to them tho, it just means they’re getting financial/ material incentives to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:37 PM
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OP do you know how flirting and seduction work? It’s all in the body language and the w non verbal cues. I’ve approached women at the grocery store, my university library and a bunch of other places but I never just “cold approach” and shoot my shot, I only approach women who have given me the non verbal cues that indicated that they were open to being approached and that they were interested / intrigued. That’s what makes it non creepy, most of the time the guys who get called creepy are the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:07 PM
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I didn’t say Eastern Europe. Dude stop being a child you’re trying to find ways to get me to “be wrong” and it’s a little pathetic.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 11:50 AM
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I said I moved after college, learn to read.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 11:48 AM
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You’re wrong. Europe IS part of the west. Google it. And I’m from America, I lived there my whole life I only left after college.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 10:21 AM
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Except my social bubble isn’t small, I’ve lived in fours different countries since I graduated college and I’ve experienced being a guy living in Israel and all over Europe, and that whiny manosphere perspective is a huge minority everywhere.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 10:01 AM
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Get a dictionary. You don’t know what “rape” and “pedophile” mean.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:46 AM
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I’m not sure you understand what the word “rape” means..
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:43 AM
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Do you know how ridiculous you sound? How is circumcision “rape”? I love being circumcised, I have no idea what smegma looks or smells like and women much prefer circumcised dicks so I have no complaints. And again, I’m around just as many women as I am men, and none of the men I know feel “oppressed”.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:38 AM
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Bro most men don’t feel oppressed and if your dating and sex life was going great you wouldn’t be making comments about being “mgtow”. The whiny dudes in the “manosphere” definitely don’t represent how the majority feels. None of the men I know have those kind of views, and most of my friends and fraternity brothers actually have very good dating/ sex lives and have no reason to complain.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:24 AM
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You think incels are oppressed?
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:06 AM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:36 AM
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I’m an American living in the Netherlands right now and I’ve lived in a bunch of different places in Europe and Israel as well. There’s plenty of American guys here. My dating life / sex life is going very well and the other American dudes I see seem to do well too. Basically if you were getting laid at home you’ll get laid in Europe and Israel as well. If you weren’t desirable in the USA chances are you won’t be in Europe either. Third world women settle for balding out of shape American men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:30 AM
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That’s a lot of words for “I can’t get laid in America..” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:21 AM
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Skill with sex I’d absolutely not a fallacy. Skill won’t make up for a very small dick, but skill in sex is very much something that we learn from learning how to please different sexual partners and from learning to find out partner’s kinks, turn ons and their body’s erogenous zones.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 01:11 AM
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I’m currently living in Europe and spending time in Israel and the difference is insane, most men are sculpted like Greek gods compared to the slobs I was seeing in the USA. Outside of the USA most men over 17 don’t play video games, don’t drink soda, only eat shit like chicken tenders and fried garbage when they’re drunk on weekends and go to the gym at least three times a week. I love it because it motivates me to maintain an athletic body, but whenever I go back to the USA I’m always surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:18 PM
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I don’t know why anyone would want to get married to begin with, whether it’s been for medium / long term relationships or just FWBs type scenarios I’ve never thought that getting the government involved was a good idea, especially since I don’t need a ring to get committed monogamous relationships, and when my desire for freedom and desire to date different women comes up I can simply walk away without any type of legal repercussions. But anyways these days I feel like I see more guys aging poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:25 PM
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I traveled to a bunch of countries because I’m a digital nomad, I learned to make money anywhere with a laptop and a wifi connection. I went to a good university but it wasn’t prestigious or very expensive. And I don’t care what other people do, I was just responding to you saying being short meant not getting laid / dating. Anybody can go to community college, anybody can go to the gym and anyone can work on their social skills. You talk about it like it’s some shit only privileged people can g…
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 01:42 AM
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First I never said anything about money so I don’t know why you wrote that. And yeah do you think chicks like boring fat dudes who just sit at home and play video games and have no life? Social skills and having a good body is some pretty basic shit, and confidence as well. These aren’t exactly unattainable things dude.
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 12:44 AM
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Dude I’m 5’6 and my dating / sex life is going great. Most of my friends and fraternity brothers are about the same height and most of them also have very successful dating lives. If you have confidence, good social skills and a nice athletic body height isn’t an issue. I’m a digital nomad so I’ve around a lot and I’m currently living in the Netherlands, the country with the tallest men in the world and being 5’6 hasn’t stopped me from dating / getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate01/04/23 11:31 PM
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This is ridiculous. I’m in my thirties with a very successful dating / sex life and only have a small private instagram and all my followers are personal friends and women I’ve dated, so basically only people I know IRL. The vast majority of the women I date are between the age of 24-32 and none of them have even asked me about instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 AM
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Dude there’s plenty of us who are getting laid and doing great dating wise and it’s not like we’re all ch@ds, I’m 5’6 and my main assets are my confidence, my sense of humor and being good at flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:10 PM
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Dude there’s plenty of women out there and most of them want to get laid and have relationships. Are you in good physical shape and looking your best? Are you interesting and fun to be around? Are doing working in an industry you’re passionate about and feeling good about yourself? Do you have good social skills? Are you confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah it’s definitely based… in incel delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:45 PM
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Yes they most certainly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:58 AM
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My current FWB likes to scroll through all the unopened messages from randoms she gets on social media and most of the dudes were ugly / “low value” AF, and she’s not the first to show me for shits and giggles, I’m very much familiar with women options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:26 AM
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This is such an angry incel take. Dude women are “drowning” in a sea of unsatisfactory dick belonging to unattractive men with beer guts and dick cheese who are bad lays and who will never make women orgasm or provide more than shitty, awkward sex. You think that’s a privilege? It’s just as hard for both sides to find “high value”, quality partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:25 AM
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“Chad, pump n dump, coping, maxxing, manlets…” lol I swear y’all crack me up with your incel lingo.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 02:53 AM
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Why would we want traditionalism back? Wouldn’t you rather be with a woman who’s actually sexually attracted to you and who genuinely likes you instead of a woman who’s with you because women need men for physical safety and financial security? Do you think it’s normal that women used to need a man’s approval to open a bank account or had to marry some guy picked by her father? Because I can tell you that most men don’t want that, the angry incels on this sub are a minority and even they don’t r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:44 PM
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Dude if you have good social skills and the willpower to go work out you’re already doing waaaay better than the incels and “vidya and tendies” losers that make posts complaining about women on this sub, so my advice to you is put away the bitterness and try to have a better mindset. I’m not sure how overweight you are but if you’re not morbidly obese you don’t even need to go to the gym every single day. I’m in my late thirties and I still have the same body I had in my twenties just by doing p…
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 07:55 PM
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Bro having a dad bod doesn’t mean being fat or overweight it just means not having defined abs and other defined muscles like a dude who goes to the gym regularly, but it certainly doesn’t mean being fat. Anyways having good social and communication skills is probably the most important thing combined with an athletic body.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 04:13 PM
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That doesn’t mean it’s easy for them to find quality men, most dudes are low value AF.
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 06:58 PM
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Guys like me have no business setting the tone for the sub, I’m here out of a mix of morbid curiosity and because my brother was the opposite of me, he was bad with women and stayed a virgin until his thirties, so I joined subs like this one to have a better idea of what he went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:05 PM
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A human isn’t a “something”, and whatever happened before you is none of your damn business. You won’t find a single woman willing to have a relationship with you with those views.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:55 AM
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OP talking that purity culture crap will only make women look at you like a pathetic incel and I guarantee not a single woman will want to be with any man that has those views, much less a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:51 AM
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I definitely had a hoe phase in college and for a good 5 years after, as did the vast majority of my friends and fraternity brothers. If I’m just going by the men I’m surrounded by it appears most men definitely have a hoe phase that seems to last longer than women’s hoe phase. I think a lot of the guys in this sub are the exception, they seem to get a lot less sex and relationships than the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:29 PM
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Are you really that scared to be judged because of your lack of experience compared to her previous partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:25 PM
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Dude for most guys on this sub who say they want a “low n count” woman, it’s not about “pair bonding” or any of that crap, it’s about preserving their egos because they feel emasculated by being with a woman with more experience than they have, and who’s likely to compare the guy’s performance with previous partners and those guys are afraid that an experienced woman will think the guy is a bad lay because he doesn’t know what he’s doing compared to other guys she was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:23 PM
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I hope all those guys on this sub who supposedly want “trad” relationships see this sub and realize that the old school relationships our grandparents and great grandparents had were far from ideal for the women and that most of them didn’t get married because they were in love, they just didn’t have much of a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:56 AM
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Bro I’m 5’6 and my dating / sex life is going great and it’s been that way since my teen. Also most of my friends and my fraternity brothers are around my size and the vast majority of them do very well with women and the two who straight up slay are both 5’6. If you’re confident, fun to be around, interesting, and in good shape physically, the vast majority of women won’t give a crap that you’re shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:02 PM
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Why? What good would that do? Other than preserving the ego of certain men with zero experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:19 PM
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Lol. So if the chick has been with 9 guys she’s not a slut but if she’s been with 11 she’s a ho? And who decides what number constitutes being a “slut”? You? What about the guys that believe the number should be 12 and not 10? Who’s right? And should women should just live their lives according to guy’s arbitrary beliefs? How should they know who’s definition of a slut they should go by and know what number to stop at? Like do you see how this makes no sense at all? Should women run a poll among…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:55 AM
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You can be with someone who is sexually experienced but who’s not a slut. A chick who’s been in monogamous relationships since she was a teen is obviously going to be experienced by the time she’s 25, does that make a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:42 AM
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From what I’ve seen in the majority of cases it’s ego preservation. Obviously I’m not saying that’s your case, but theoretically speaking why wouldn’t a guy want to hook with a chick that is more experienced that can teach him new things and help him discover new kinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:50 PM
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A high body count and promiscuity aren’t the same thing. Plenty of women have higher body counts because they were in various monogamous relationships. That’s not promiscuity. It’s never guys with a lot of sexual experience who care about n count, it’s always the guys with little to no experience who care because it helps them preserve their egos, they’re insecure about their own lack of experience and about being compared to other partners who were better lays that them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:04 PM
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He’s an incel troll he’s just trying to get a reaction out of people, that’s why his account is two days old he’s probably been banned from this sub before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:58 PM
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A cuck is a person who craves the humiliation of having his CURRENT wife / gf fuck other men. I just want to date women who are as sexually experienced as I am, I don’t have the time or the motivation to teach someone how to be a good lay. Most women also want experienced men.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 05:46 PM
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I don’t want to be with a boring lay so I’d rather be with someone who has as much experience as I do as long as they don’t have STDs. Being cuckholded is something completely different, and it’s definitely not my cup of tea.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 01:17 PM
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Why would I care as long as she’s faithful and has no STDs?
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 05:21 AM
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So was I. Just because I don’t want to get married and I don’t like kids doesn’t mean I don’t have relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 05:20 AM
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Wife? I like my freedom and I enjoy dating different people, I have no intention of “wifing” anyone. And if you think a woman is a slut just because she’s sexually experienced then I suggest tou stop believing that incel crap. An STD-laden habitual cheater is one thing, sure, but just having experience is another.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 12:09 AM
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You don’t talk for all men. I’m surrounded by men with a lot of experience and none of us are interested in virgins who are going to be boring in the sack.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 11:08 PM
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Who gives a crap about body count as long as there’s no STDs? I’m a dude and I’m not interested in being anybody’s first or anybody’s last and I’d rather date women who have as much experience as I do, who have explored their own kinks and who won’t be boring lays.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 11:06 PM
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This isn’t valid for all western civilization by any means. I used to live in a college town on the east coast and most women were extremely attractive with athletic bodies. And since I’ve left the USA I’ve lived in Tel Aviv, Rome and Amsterdam and in all those cities I didn’t one fat person. I Tel Aviv everyone hangs out on the beach and most of them were sculpted like Greek gods, men and women alike. A guy who’s having trouble finding attractive women in western civilization is either overweig…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:29 PM
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Sure but why should that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:07 PM
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I’m not swaying it was a cakewalk for anyone, that’s why everyone is better off now that women have the freedom to be with who they really want and men can rest a little easier knowing that if a woman chose to be with them it’s because she actually wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:09 PM
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The rules are the same for men and women. You know what makes your “score”? It’s who you can attract and hook up with. Standards don’t mean shit if you can’t find someone who finds you attractive enough to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:33 AM
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People can have the standards they like and it’s no one else’s business. If a woman can get a “10/10” guy then she’s most likely not a “2/10”. That grading system is stupid to begin with, the delusional ones are those incels who claim they want their “looksmatch”, as if they get to decide that a woman has a certain value and that value somehow “matches” theirs. Everyone has different values to everyone else, a person that is a “2/10” for some might be a “10/10” for others. The guys who are bitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:16 AM
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Back then women didn’t have the same opportunities that they have now to get access to education and make their own money and to be completely independent. Like I said, our grandmothers still needed a man’s approval just to open a bank account or they couldn’t just buy a car and be mobile freely. Plus online dating wasn’t at thing so women couldn’t just see what the men were like in neighboring towns, they basically had to settle for some dude from their immediate surroundings, so basically they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:14 PM
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You think older generations were perfect? Those “trad” couples from our grandparents generation cheated more than they do now, with women being resentful that they had to marry men they weren’t even attracted to for physical safety and financial stability and the fact they counts even have their own bank accounts without their husband’s approval. You’re sadly mistaken if you think previous generations were good and selfless just because they were “traditional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:41 PM
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Who are you to say that anyone else’s standards are too high? Everyone is free to define their own standards, why should women have to settle for men they’re not attracted to just because those men “think they deserve” hotter women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:42 PM
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No, sorry but that’s not true. The language of seduction is subtle, and most of the time it all happens through non verbal cues like looks, smiles, the warm / inviting vibe a woman will “project” towards you letting you know she’s open to doing more than talking, etc. And the way sexual tension increases is by the conversation staying innocent while the non verbal cues are telling both parties that it’s time to make out and go home together to have crazy monkey sex even though you just met at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:47 AM
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