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This is the realest. Attraction can not be negotiated or forced. An average dude may be able to get some form of compliance from a woman based on his financial or his status but it's going to be forced and synthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:08 AM
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Facts, they don't care about nothing but portraying an image to everyone around them so the man need to fit into the mold so she can flex in front of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:26 PM
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To see what you going to do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:21 PM
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Men like conventionally attractive and the ones outside of that. Any feature or flaw that can be found on a woman is a camp of dudes that probably like it or at least dont mind it. Those women may not like the selection from those dudes but they can't say that their features are a barrier if they just looking for something genuine. Women get themselves into trouble because they don't care about genuine they only care about handsome and the dude makes her look in front of other women. Im pretty r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:57 AM
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I'm not gonna say anything negative. That's good, happy for yall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:49 AM
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men can love women with a wide range of appearances and size. Women lock in on very narrow standards so that make women shallow and hateful to dudes who don't match it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:48 AM
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Yall feel love in stuff but the dude got to be tall and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:55 AM
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Women tolerate men that have resources so they can benefit but for attractive dudes they will cook, clean, suck and fuck while he lay on the couch with no job
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:52 AM
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That's your situation, and good you take responsibility for your own satisfaction. But for other women they judge their good time on how the man performs. That's a whole other topic in itself cause just like many dudes don't know how to approach sex properly, it apples to women as well. And their lack of knowing how to move and orient themselves leaves them unsatisfied and then blame the man. You may have had the clarity to use a particular guy for a certain purpose but other women aint doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:50 AM
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Because they usually can't get the dude that give them orgasms to settle down and play house with her. Hence that's why many women have to "settle" down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:27 AM
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It's a "swamp" for most women because most of them lack the ability to charm/entice the the type of dude they want for beyond fwb. They get all the attention in the world but can't do anything with it nor do they hold leverage over the small section of attractive men they obsess over. If you can't catch a dolphin, maybe the swamp is where you need to be. Women have access to "greatness" at their fingertips but can't get the amazing guy to comply. That means she's less like a mermaid and more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:25 PM
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Lol big facts, most of them can't get the "better" man to comply for a long term relationship. If he is better than you it means u ain't qualified
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:54 AM
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Women going to struggle regardless of society breaking they self esteem down or gassing them up to feel untouchable. Not all women are equal, not all women have the same appeal. Not all women deserve the same level of partner. They have the right to chase and open they legs but if the dude don't come back with the shiny diamond ring that's on her. Women want men who are essentially better than themselves in pretty much every way. That's the issue in itself, you seek for that which you DONT quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:03 AM
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In the long run nah. Women should just take the L and get a puppy cuz she didn't have what it took to make the "better" men comply and forget about the other more beautiful and competent women. Cohabiting with a lifetime failed wanna be bad bitch is like living with a domestic terrorist. Those type of women who settle are adversarial and combative towards the man that they can actually get longterm benefits from. Some women are graceful as they age and accept their level, thereby accept their ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:38 AM
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It's not so much about good and bad, it's more about handsome and not handsome. Women don't really care what kind of personality you got going on so long as you fit the physical image they got in their mind. They'll support good and evil, so long as it's being done by a tall and handsome man. If the most physically attractive men's hobby was throwing puppies off the freeway overpass, women will help with the tossing as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:31 AM
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Aight yeah the less experienced dudes believe in the character that women play in front of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:16 AM
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Lol some dudes are down bad enough to roll the dice with their "dice"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:11 AM
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What does correcting a goofy chick that still isnt gonna change her protocol on how she deal with men she don't like? All roads lead to the same place, attractive dudes get the "right away" treatment, regular/ugly dude get the "run around"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:11 AM
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Women only talk like this to dudes they ain't gonna fuck. Why even waste time conversing with a uninterested woman. There is no debating your way into her opening her legs unless she broke and need 60$ real bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:05 AM
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Women been chasing the image since the beginning, they didn't evolve into it. It's they factory default settings. It's just now they can finally act on it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:39 AM
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Intimacy and validation is more easily accessible to women. Women then impose their psychology unto men who are in a totally different situation, and act surprised why dudes are thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:18 PM
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Yeah they see men as a machine but if you're a tall and handsome machine they'll pay for the meals, home, and all other accommodations themselves. A man doesn't have to do anything provisional as long as he fits the image
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:29 AM
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For my own personal case, American women are far less difficult and less adversarial than what I'm around now. Once again, just my case only
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:20 PM
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The dude can put the effort in to the best of his ability but women compare him against "best" so be default he's bad in comparison. Not all but many
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:50 PM
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Everything I say is from a lot experience. Women act worse in every category when the dude is not tall n handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:46 PM
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They only paranoid if the dude ain't tall n handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:43 PM
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Older woman that do what I say do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:41 PM
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As long as the dude is tall n handsome, the only thing he need to do is show up. women will suck, fuck, cook, clean, and provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:10 AM
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Absolute truth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:13 PM
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In terms of modern feminism... Women can't/aren't going to go to war and take what they want out of life. Their power comes from being in a state of distress and being unsatisfied which causes men to want to fix whatever issue they may have. Feminism is just an outward expression of women invoking their only bargaining chip of being perpetually unsatisfied so they will always need to be tended to. Women's power comes from being upset, offended, and appearing unhappy. If women acknowledged that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:19 PM
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Women are not in a position to need to fuck guys they ain't attracted to or aroused by. Unless she broke, need a place to stay etc If you had the option to fuck only the best looking women, you probably wouldn't go for the regular smegular ones either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:06 PM
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Absolutely, and they love you or hate you based on what you can't change. They got an image in they mind and you better match it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:04 PM
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out of your league for women means you cant get any longterm benefits out of the attractive dude you hook up with, in the form of commitment and what it entails. women can fuck above their level but most cant get voluntary commitment from a “higher” level guy. your best shot is just getting pregnant and extortion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:15 PM
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yeah, and if a woman wants a masculine man she better earn it. if u aint sucking and fucking, cooking and cleaning then go downstairs and deal with the intruder yourself. whats up with these toxic and entitled women thinking a man should be a man regardless? she has to earn that side of a man. makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:08 PM
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Perhaps for you yeah. but for these other women, hell nah... Talking is a shield and buffer to stall out dudes that she ain't attracted to. It's either yes or no... u going to deal with me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:21 PM
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If she not fucking it's a waste of my time. women offer the talking and bonding shit on the front end because it's minimal investment on their part. when dudes play into that side of the game women start seeing you as a homegirl instead of a option conversation with women means nothing if they ain't fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:12 PM
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They only act like this when the guy isn't attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:55 PM
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You don't have to be "bad" for women to not like you. You just have to be "bad" looking for them not to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:59 AM
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I see value in it, but don't do it if you don't forsee anything changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:49 PM
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On God, the only "right" way to be a man to most women is by being handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:06 PM
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My bad I misread what you quoted, I'm handling several debates at the same time lol. My bad my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:09 PM
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Lol nah, most women complaint is regular dudes is boring. And yall compete with other women and shame each other if your boyfriend isn't up to the standards of your friend group. Yall choose handsome, and the handsome dude chose the next chick. That's the game of life. Yall don't care about love or relationship, all clout all status
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:32 PM
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Hmmm Asian country might help. I live in Japan at the moment, it's definitely easy to get hookups here but attitude wise I find American women easier if you can believe it lol. Women have different rules and different behavior protocols based on what type of man they are interacting with. I'd definitely say go for it, but choose the country wisely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:54 PM
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Dam yeah that's rough because the shorter women are more fanatical about the height than taller women. What kind of attention are the women giving you? Is it something that can be turned to your advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:47 PM
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My situation is kinda unique because the women I encounter bash how I look then proceed to bring me over to hookup etc So like yeah it ain't hopeless but I'm constantly reminded that looks is the most important thing. I've been pulled out of night clubs by women to go to the hotel but they want me to walk behind them, wild shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:29 PM
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Good point, I actually forgot why I put the purple pill flair n now I don't remember how to change it or remove it lol. But as far as my beliefs I'm probably more on the black pill side of things but without the hopelessness and hating on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:14 PM
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The modern male yall have to deal with is hyper specific because yall ignore the 80% So most women chase the same set of dudes and get played. As long as he's attractive he can be broke, violent, drug addicted etc The problems most women experience in dating is from a very specific set of dudes. The alternative is the 80% which they don't like. The modern males women flock to don't easily commit and flip women with ease because they behave like groupies when he's tall and handsome. These dudes m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:53 PM
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The only "right" to be a man to most women is by being tall and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:05 PM
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Women would go on hunger strike
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:55 PM
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They'd partake in what's available but make the regular or below average guy she's with pay for it constantly in the relationship as she terrorizes the household. Women who settle usually behave adversarial against the guy because she lack the looks and conversation to obtain and retain a better guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:32 AM
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I get where u coming from. My premise is that even if the dating game was made so called "fair" and everyone was matched with a partner of similar attractiveness; most women will DELIBERATELY behave combative and adversarial in the relationship because of the fact that better or more handsome men exist When a woman is with a man that she think isn't the best option, she think it give her a free license to act like a domestic terrorist in the household. Using sex as a weapon, extortion, and const…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:29 AM
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Even if you took the wifi and apps away from women they still only gonna want the most tall n handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:07 AM
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If the dude is your boyfriend or husband I'd hope that you'd be happy with him, but I run across women who bash the dude even in those situations for not meeting her fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:37 PM
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You gotta read it again, I said the people who end up alone better get puppy or find some kind of hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:37 PM
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then they better get a puppy or some kinda hobby. for me I get a kick out of posting my opinions on reddit. I'm not mad about it when I go outside in the real world. When u step outta the house angry, you attract worse things to come. a lot of the women on here like to jump outta their own on body to defend other women that they don't even know, swearing up and down all women are nice and reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:31 PM
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The end goal is exposing that most women dgaf about a real relationship or connection if the dude don't look like a marvel comic book character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:19 PM
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Yes. if you can't understand this, nothing else will make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:04 PM
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Here she go again. What dude is relying on they momma to teach them how to flip a chick? That's nasty work right there. The nuance is you act sweet n accommodating when the dude looks one way. And yall get acute ick syndrome when the dude doesn't match the fantasy you have in your mind These women need to start taking they vitamins and immuno support. Running around catching the ick back to back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:37 PM
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I think Reddit women aren't "bad" it's just that they play oblivious to how women generally behave. I talk my shit on here based on experience, I've lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:33 PM
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I deal in reality and life experience. Can't no survey or statistics accurately track what women do with they pussy. I been with and around women enough to know how they think about men in general and I observe the behavior People get caught up on this internet shit trying to prove every real life phenomenon instead of going outside n experiencing life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:49 PM
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Nothing but facts. This is how women politic with men. If you ain't tall n handsome, you need not apply
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:45 PM
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This may not be the case for you however for most women, western or not perceive tall n handsome = good personality Not tall n handsome = creepy/ I got the ick now and need a course of antibiotics Most women treat average and ugly dudes like a viral infection
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:41 PM
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Nah You give the handsome dude full cooperation You give the average/ugly dude the run around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:29 PM
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Man f that, most single mothers don't respect the dude that come in after the fact and try to clean up the situation. I don't got smoke for single moms but on the real they see most dudes as a lick if he willing to play good guy role These single moms still be fucking on they baby daddy on the backend. New dude come into the situation and get challenged by the baby daddy who got nothing to lose All the losses and baggage she has with the baby daddy gets transferred onto the new guy cuz she can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:29 AM
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Women simp just as much. They're just only indifferent to men they arent attracted to like... 80% of dudes Sex isn't a need like water, but accessible sex is better than unaccessible sex. There's no advantage to sex not being available. The "not available" aspect is what causes the whining, psychological issues, and the over explaining of why sex is a "need".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:16 AM
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Independent women are.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:32 PM
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It will go back down when the "high IQ" people crash society back into former ages. No wifi, but the women won't be running wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:24 PM
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If they wanna hate men, let em. Most women don't like most men, it is what it is. Women don't have to like men despite whatever benefits they derive. They can't be "talked" into appreciating the idea of men. There is a very tiny percentage of men that they like and worship but for the rest might as well play in traffic It's good that the hate is on display so you can move and adjust accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:18 PM
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Nah it would just make them even more stiff. Rejection don't make the hypergamy turn off. Only thing that turns off/disables hypergamy is hard economic times & no more wifi
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:03 PM
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Paying for women ain't the problem. it's paying for ungrateful, clout chasing women who have the attention span of a goldfish. Many women operate themselves like a live service subscription model. so what dude wants to invest time or money into someone that's try to finesse the front and backend of every interaction with a man? Women out here diabolical like the green goblin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:09 AM
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Most marriages fail cuz women get bored easily and blame their idle mind and lack of purpose on the man. Then they go seek out attention from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:21 PM
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Doing good things don't make you good in the eyes of women. Being good looking makes you "good" in the eyes of women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:14 PM
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If a dude got muscle, he gon flex it. respect the game for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:16 PM
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Most dudes haven't experienced women as they are so they think that their life will automatically improve by having one around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:50 PM
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I feel what u saying but at least in my experience the "extreme" side is the norm. I don't get compared to regular, I get compared to "best"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:49 PM
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Cuz nobody respect a loud ass chihuahua tryna run shit. You look goofy trying to play boss
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:57 AM
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Women act in accordance to how attractive the man is, or isn't. And based on that will determine if you have pleasant experiences with women or volatile. If dude is handsome, women play traditional and accommodating. If dude is not handsome, women play bougie, or domestic terrorist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:51 AM
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This is facts, the image is everything for them. This why they dislike the majority of men because they got a Pixar fantasy on repeat in their heads and any dude that don't match the cartoon is not a real man. When they get in front of the dude who fit the image and ring all the bells most of them don't have the skillset to convince that man to focus only on her and forget about all the other women They are like a toddler who ONLY wants to drink melon soda and can't be shown otherwise. Anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:40 AM
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Setting for men is the cup is half full mindset. Settling for women is the cup is half empty There is no shortage of ugly, fat, and or normal women who bully their boyfriend or husband because she think that she can score a few higher standard deviations of attractiveness in a mate. Men pressing wife's and girlfriends because she doesn't meet the standard is not something normal or average men do. Women who get pressed and experience this perceive the guy she's with as average but in reality he …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:29 AM
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Women chose the bear, but still gonna sneaky link at 3am
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:20 PM
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Women's "options" are just chances to audition in front of desirable men in hopes of getting chose to play wife and mother. Their options don't dictate whether the apex dude is going to commit to her or not. Not all women have the same capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:05 PM
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You only need this to work on some women tho. The 99% that aren't down to fuck serve no purpose at the end of the day. If you ask a woman if she's with it and she says yes or not yet, there's some room to work with. Other than that, it's on to the next one A woman knows within 2 seconds upon seeing a man if she's with the program or not, your job is finding out if it's a yes or no I'm only 5"9 and average at best imo but I have a lot of results. But yeah the goal is to find one good one but a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:52 PM
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My body count is over 60, I don't pay for play. Everything comes down to yes or no. Can't be scared to ask a chick if he she down to fuck or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:38 PM
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I'm not Gen z but you don't really need money to get women and the political stuff don't matter either. You just gotta ask her if she down to fuck or link up, yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:27 PM
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Nah women should not lower their standards and stay away from dudes that they don't want. A woman who settles thinks she has a license to be a domestic terrorist in the household to some poor guy who just wanted to find a loving wife/girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:03 AM
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Yall hand pick the dude based on how tall and handsome he is then get mad because most of yall ain't got the looks or conversation to retain the man and get him to voluntarily commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:00 AM
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handsome, manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:57 AM
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The women I meet are looking for basketball players, rappers & entertainers. They verbally explain how desperate they are to have men like this. They pull out photos on the date of athletes and give a PowerPoint presentation on why they want this type of man. If I sit through the presentation long enough, they ask to go the hotel together. When you go outside you see the reality of women not being able to obtain the "best" so they settle and that's fine. But in my case and experience, anything l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:39 AM
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Hate? Lol stop exaggerating. Where am I bitter at? Women in 2024 are bundles of joy. I attract enough of them to have a higher body count then at least 90% of the dudes who post on here. Why you think I'm hateful tho? What you gotta understand is that it's ok for me to not be the "best". Women are the ones looking for "best" which is why they open the door for criticism. They judge men on shit that can't be changed. Women get a whole lot of slack in terms of attracting a man and they STILL fail …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:27 PM
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They get "canceled" way after the fact when the woman runs out of effective conversation and can no longer influence the guy. Once the dude realize she doesn't serve a purpose then her only option is to cry abuse Life experience is everything and I stand on that. If you hated all men, I wouldn't be mad at all. Not all women are created equal nor are equipped to get the best from the best. That takes skill which women can choose to develop or not develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:44 AM
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Life experience. The women who give flack to celebrity men are just sore losers because they couldn't control the guy so they use the legal system to extort. They lack conversation and game to get what they want so they run to the court as a last resort. A regular dude couldn't take one of those goofy bitches to Chick-fil-A without her spazzing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:30 AM
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All the demonizing, pathologizing, and castigating that society and women put out is towards men who are not tall and handsome. If you don't look like an action figure, everything you do and say is considered wrong and problematic. Image is everything and when women think of "problematic bad guy" it's not the ones they flock to in the nightclub. Feminism would disappear overnight if every dude was built like a Justice league character. The problem is not toxic masculinity, the problem is "non ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:33 AM
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If the dude tall and handsome, women are willing to protect and provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:10 AM
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These women out here fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:12 AM
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Being "nice" while not being handsome gives them the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:04 PM
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Women's sexuality is like binary code. Handsome = 1 Not handsome = 0
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:02 PM
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you have to do the same things non autistic men have to do. try and improve your appearance as much as possible, if you get above a certain level women will stop using the social awkwardness against you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:45 PM
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women who settle act like bitches because they can’t get the attractive dude to comply to her terms and conditions. relationships with women who feel like they doing the man a favor are carcinogenic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:11 PM
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in women’s mind, good man = handsome. bad man = not handsome, and narrow shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:58 AM
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I hate whoever hates me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:32 AM
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Yeah definitely that, I live in Japan as an English teacher at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:40 AM
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Empathy for men, from women, usually comes when there are no or minimal physical flaws. Your mindstate can be unstable so long as you fit her preferred image
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:33 AM
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I live abroad currently, and western women were easier to deal with in comparison. Of this goes against the general experience but it's true for me. I got no smoke/static for western women. When I visit the US from time to time I miss the simplicity of the interactions without the cultural differences Once again this is just my experience and situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:22 AM
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You giving some real game here, let your nuts hang & stop allowing disrespect. Regardless if a dude is handsome or not, or broke or not, a disrespectful woman is useless and adds no value The boundaries you make are not to control women or other people around you but rather to control yourself and your environment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:20 AM
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they seek prostitution because the women who feel like they settling act like a terrorist in the relationship and weaponize sex to control the household. women who think their husbands and boyfriends are ugly act like bitches and blame the guy because they can’t do better beyond fwb with the handsome dude that ain’t going to marry her. i agree guys should not encourage women to settle because women who settle make it their mission to destroy the relationship because she can’t do what the other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:23 PM
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Why even argue with women seriously about it unless you're just engaging them to be entertained by their reactions? Women who aren't attracted to a particular man are gonna be on their worse behavior and at best ignore you or at worst they'll try an monetize your desperation. If a woman don't like you she is going to pretend you don't exist, which is a blessing in disguise or put you on a monthly live service subscription model to interact with her. Just like men, everything women do is calculat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:26 AM
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Women don't desire commitment by just any dude, they want commitment from the dude other women want or have laid claim to. And the prospect of snatching him from another chick is arousing and empowering for many women. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:09 AM
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It's good to value yourself regardless if women cosign you or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:46 AM
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A Woman's competition is other women. If a man is in earshot, they all say they are 10s in unison but when no man is around the truth comes out. Women throw all types of shade on each other. They don't put on makeup for dudes, they put it on to not get clowned by other women. Same thing with the luxury bags and accessories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:52 AM
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even these older women cant find what they looking for. older women taking losses everyday, very few of them happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:09 AM
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who cares what these women say about dudes who deal with younger women of legal age. they always going to hate on a situation they cant benefit from. anything women cant benefit from or take advantage of is creepy and ick. i got a older woman right now as a sugar momma paying errthing. her daughter is almost my age and she cant STAND it, makes me sleep like a baby a night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:04 AM
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it depends on the woman, game recognize game but there are a lot of women that are trying to run a program and get mad when you see through it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:44 AM
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yeah i wouldn’t judge, id be a hypocrite if i shamed women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:22 PM
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i got no issue with promiscuous women as long as there is mutual respect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:06 PM
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lol women aint finna take no advice regardless. they going to chase who they want and most will fail at getting longterm commitment out of the men they desire most. everything gets balanced out in righteousness at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:49 PM
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theres no wrong way for a woman to be a woman but there’s only a few right ways to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:53 PM
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who said its mediocre?, whenever i pulled it out its never been turned down. i got a married woman right now in a fwb situation and she take me shopping n pay for dinner. not all men are created equal, so i can talk like this cuz im certified
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:25 AM
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i could care less, women are still going to fuck regardless what goofy movement shows up. feminism and its other iterations have no power over me getting into hookups or situationships. and if i was in south korea id still be doing my thing with no slow down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:52 PM
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yeah they fuck who they want to fuck like american women. but in all cases the dudes lack the skillset to get to the point with women. prostitution can help, but a lame is a lame
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:39 AM
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Japanese women put effort into appearance but run the household like a mafia boss and train the husband like a chihuahua. Japanese women are utilizing those love hotels too, and taking “English” lessons to find a new boy to play around with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:32 AM
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absolutely, thats why dudes sit up around women who make them wait for sex or extort household chores and gift out them in hopes of being rewarded by “wife”. they are slaves to women’s whimsical “icks”. they let women shame their hobbies and interests. they don’t see that most women are running a program and they just need a guy to play sidekick to the lifetime movie she has in her head. dudes fear being alone and not being approved by the royal highness. she leads him with no destination but if…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:31 PM
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yeah women that don’t have the bargaining power over a particular man but can’t do better elsewhere call it a situationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:15 PM
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take that money abroad, have the vacation of a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:12 PM
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Lol I ain't emotionally investing in nothing at the beginning. We can have a few conversations to check your temperature but if I see she just wants to talk and talk I'm out. I'm a yes or no dude, I don't cupcake or have long ass conversations in the beginning stages. Are we fucking or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:09 AM
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They want to get married/have kids but many of them are holding out for "perfect". Out of that portion you get the ones that lose hope in finding the dream guy and finally decide to settle. On the extreme side, I've met some woman who claim to be be virgins up into their 40s because they are extremely fixated on a particular type of man or a celebrity idol that they have no chance with. It's like taking a kid to the toy store but the game that he wants isn't available. So he gets upset and no al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:03 AM
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They already come to terms and embrace it if attracted to the guy. If it's a situation where she is setting then the guy better set up a lemonade stand for the extra $$
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:55 AM
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I have fond memories there lol. it'll be one of the first fine dining establishments I go to when I return to the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:44 PM
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I like watching women fight at waffle house, but I don't want to see my sister or auntie fight at wafflehouse. I'm pro wafflehouse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:38 PM
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I'm surprised someone had the patience to read all that lol. Thank you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:58 PM
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im in japan, so at the very most they’d sue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:19 PM
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there are dudes that will retaliate when they find out youve been messing around with their wife or gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:15 PM
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ive cheated in the past, and when i did cheat its because the girl look good n got a nice body. currently i live in a culture where cheating is normalized but if i was back in a western country it would be gambling with my life. i have no inner dialogue about being powerful or other goofy shit. if she thick, im down to stick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:00 PM
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Alot of things contribute to this. I live in japan and from what i see its a combination of: Perfectionist culture, leads to unrealistic expectations that need to be met at unrealistic timelines. Men expect women to act in a very specific way, women expect the men to act in a very specific way in dating/relationships/marriage. Both party’s expectations are a turn off for each other. Marriage is a status marker and life milestone for the women. Once married many of the women here deliberately sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:30 PM
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this doesnt matter if dudes would stop being scared to ask a woman if shes down to f or link up, yes or no. its not about asshole/non asshole. its about who acts like a homegirl versus a dude who get to the got dam point. dudes sit up and allow women to trauma/gossip/womanly time of the month issue bomb them to death and get surprised when she see you as a friend or homegirl of course she’s not going to fuck if you allow her to talk to you about her cramps for 45 minutes, learn how to get the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:08 AM
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you can say the same but it wouldn’t be true tho. most unattractive women can’t/won’t play nice with an equally unattractive dude. even if she decides to settle, she puts rules and standards on him that she doesn’t apply to other men. when women “settle” they do so in exchange for dominance over the entire relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:30 PM
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because there is no shortage of dudes that unattractive and overweight women can pick from. those women are just mad cuz they cant compete against better women for the desirable man. unattractive dudes dont have a ample supply of women to choose from because most women are chasing the same tier of men. and anecdotally, the not so attractive women have higher standards and worse attitude than the good looking women because they filled with hate and jealousy. unattractive women blame all they fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:14 PM
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the better you look, the more nice/pleasant most women will be in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:04 PM
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they say otherwise because they can’t get what they want from the men they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:50 PM
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generally thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:40 PM
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lol neglected pp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:09 PM
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where did western women touch you on the doll?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:05 PM
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better not to say anything about it. on the date you’re just trying to determine if shes down to f or not. once she’s at your place you can mention her body/face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:03 PM
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lol i cant go as hard on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:33 PM
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yeah they do mayne
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:07 PM
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going against the grain, i did the passport bro thing before it was a thing. i got nothing bad to say about western women in general. they are not that bad and almost any situation that you end up in with them can be seen coming from a mile away. most western women dont even have game like that, dudes just operate out of desperation and lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 PM
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theres like a bell curve, on the extreme sides of handsome and ugly, women communicate directly when you are straight up ugly or 10/10. the closer you are to the middle, the more ambiguous women will be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:14 PM
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black pill exaggerates too much to run with that label. yes women want attractive, but that doesnt mean only chad is attractive to every woman, all the time. if the black pill was completely true, my whole life would be a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:07 PM
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it sounds impossible but i could go the rest of my life happily without a relationship. as long as i can take care of myself and enjoy my hobbies(sim racing), my cup runneth over. i did the passport bro thing before it was a thing but my reasons were different. i immigrated to a non 3rd world country, and didnt do it for the sake of getting women. the experience put me on a ridiculous trial by fire, but it developed my character in way that i could go back to my home country and repeat the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:58 PM
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nah, its just that women act really stiff around dudes they don’t like and those dudes have no experience being around women who actually do like them. its like trying to explain the intricacies of a sunset to someone who lived in a dark basement their whole life. its gotta be experienced to be understood same goes for guys who think women don’t like sex. dudes need to understand that women switch up their operating system depending on what dude is around. if they think you’re unattractive then …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:08 PM
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the guy is selling himself short to allow a goofy ass chick to disrespect him because she can’t compete with better women. dudes need to develop some boundaries and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:56 PM
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i don’t tell them about the 3 strikes policy. but in a situation where a woman does this 3x in a row(outside of legit being sick or tired), i understand that this is something that will continue to grow until it gets out of control. it’s a sign of things slowing down and when things slow down, women’s attitude generally becomes combative and petty. its like stopping a fungus early. if i continue to lay up with a woman that doesn’t fuck, she interprets that as me having no options or she thinks i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:50 PM
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it doesn’t matter how high a particular woman’s hypergamy gets. she cant do better than what her looks and conversation will allow. spending 3 nights with the “best” guy ever and getting sent back home on a uber is the best most of them can do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:07 AM
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everybody has their own program that they run, so other ppl can do as they please. my rules arent to control the woman, its to control what i allow around me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:00 AM
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lol im reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:51 AM
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i give 3 instances for them to say no if shes not legitimate sick with a doctor’s note. if it goes beyond that im out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:48 AM
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if they don’t like most dudes why does it matter? plus this doesn’t apply to women globally. it would be very difficult to be an undesirable man on every continent. if one market of women is difficult, there are other markets we have access to. i wouldn’t let a demographic of women dictate my entire romantic fate. traveling is good, and if its done correctly you will have developed the skillset abroad to return to your home country and get similar results. most of the women who dont like most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:44 AM
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most women dont care about money when in the presence of a man that arouses them. high earning men have wives and girlfriends whose eyes constantly wander. i’ve met and slept with single/married women with less than 3 dollars to my name. they took me out for dinner and paid everything including hotel & some pocket money money does not make women respect men. women respect men(outside of relatives) who they are attracted to. a broke attractive dude beats a average or below average high earner. in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:54 AM
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Women just make up stuff to say to justify what they are attracted to. They can't go on record saying they like handsome toxic masculinity. It's a survival mechanism to make themselves be seen as more moral than men because they are less able to physically defend themselves. If the stuff that went on in women's heads or the things that arouse them were common knowledge, they'd be treated the same as men. Making them equally deserving of physical consequences and criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:48 PM
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That's why you get to the point from the beginning to see if she's down or not. They already know within a second of seeing you how far they're willing to go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:39 PM
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It mean she tired of taking losses from hooking up with dudes that she unable to get commitment and control over. It's sore loser talk, and is usually only said in front of men she ain't going to fuck anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:02 AM
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Thinking too much, just ask her if she down to hook up or link. Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:00 AM
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idk about “creepy” but theres a lot of goofy things women do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:57 AM
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Expand your market with a passport if you aren’t already
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:14 AM
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ive been with 50+ women, in my experience women definitely care about and judge dick size. or i at least attract the kinds of women who do. women have different requirements for different men, so i have no experience with women who aren’t size queens or close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:47 AM
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women make up different rules for different men, that’s the facts of life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:32 PM
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Women do approach men, nothing would really change. The dudes who get approached are the ones who are handsome/arrousing enough for her to be willing to take a risk and initiate conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:24 AM
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Put some oregano in all of her meals
/r/MensRights05/02/24 09:45 PM
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Nah, these women out here fucking. Women are insatiable around men who arouse them. If women play conservative and low labido around you it's because she thinks she can do better and isn't attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:26 PM
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Lol unintentional cuz I don't see where it rhymed at
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:56 AM
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Regardless of what they call it, women still take their L's so dudes should stop being so upset at the options women have in general. Men get rejected on the front end and women get rejected on the backend Every woman from time to time has to make that moo face when they find out the dude only want the milk and not the whole dam COW lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:53 AM
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Anytime I don't keep it playa I get punished. Gotta do right by the game or pay the fee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:57 PM
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Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:16 PM
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women generally dgaf about all this, they like who they like and fuck who they wanna fuck. women can’t be talked into fucking/partnering with a certain guy because its “better” for society...and it don't matter how many puppies he adopt or how many homeless people he feed current/active potential don’t matter if you’re tall, handsome and got wide shoulders. as long as she’s physically attracted, women will go out and hunt the deer and bring it back: cook it, and serve it to him Women want dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:05 PM
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she can have an edge, because i have a yes or no policy when disagreement comes up or when deciding if we want to push things further along or part ways. she can have all her hobbies as long as we respect each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:33 AM
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nah, a real man to most women is tall, handsome, and got wide shoulders and she can’t control him. and throw in that sacred geometrical, fibonacci jawline a man that they easily control is just a tool, for every moment that a woman feels like she’s in control, her attraction is declining. women do NOT rule gracefully
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:44 AM
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Women aren't gonna give credence to the idea of them passing over "good" guys in favor of whom they're attracted to. Women see it as attractive IS good, or rather their tastes are aligned with "good" by default But at the end of the day women can't be talked into fucking dudes they don't like so it's better to work on building up yourself as an individual so you they will choose up on you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:46 AM
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The dude just wants to not be alone, the woman feels like she is settling but not able to replace him with a "better" guy who will fully commit to her. So she tries to bully him to make herself feel like a bad bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:30 AM
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it comes in form of being deliberately combative and disagreeable. it can appear as her constantly making comparisons to someone she dealt with in the past who she holds in higher esteem. other symptoms include, her withholding intimacy or spoon feeding it because the current guy isn’t as appealing. it’s what women refer to as settling. often times when women “settle” they feel it gives them the right to mistreat the current guy because they’ve “had” better or at least got fucked by better. its …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:49 PM
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hmm average man dont have the same amount of social slack to be manipulative or rude out in society without putting his life in danger. average women can generally get way with talking slick, or holding up the line because she aint get her way. if anybody remember that “bagel boss” dude and how his mouth got him on his back. if a woman spazzed out like that she wouldn’t have been touched and probably get a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:30 PM
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many women, not all who have a high body count have a chip on their shoulder because they had something very specific in mind that they were chasing. it can be in the form of getting longterm commitment(from high level men), it can be in the form of getting resources from dudes beyond a few trinkets or a weekend out. these women over the years usually develop resentment at men, because they were unable to acquire some form of what i listed previously. instead of charging it to the game and accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:19 PM
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high body count women are coo as long as they don’t take the negative experiences and disappointments that come from gaining a high body count out on the new guy who ain’t had nothing to do with it. if you ran up a high body count and don’t have anything to show for it, thats on you. dont wage war on the next guy because you couldn’t outcompete other women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:51 PM
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first two examples you pop out with is getting help fixing toilets and cleaning gutters. what dude expects that from his chick? you need to hire a laborer now for your original post, you describe situations where men have defined roles of providing “x” for women in a relationship but are looking about what women provide in equal measure that contributes to the relationship as a whole those type of situations are already unbalanced because your scenario starts out with a dude in a weak position a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:27 PM
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for what youre looking for, a dude might be a better match
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:53 PM
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women are pretty helpful and eager to contribute/cooperate if they are attracted to you. guys need to stop getting involved with women who aren’t particularly interested in them to avoid these kinds of happy wife, or everything is on ice dynamics. i dont stick around women who act like they’re doing me a favor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:20 PM
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because it’s easier to look up stuff online and count yourself out than to get out in the world and build character. the book says “x”, so that means i don’t have to stop being goofy and playing COD all day. the book says “y” so that means women are fatally flawed in their design and can’t appreciate how high my IQ is. the book says “z” so i don’t have to stop being a coward and i can justify hating other types of men who are better than me socially. once again, doesn’t she know that my high IQ …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:46 PM
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yeah my dude i f with the spiderman animated series 90s heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:28 AM
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the legacy is cool, but most of the dudes who feel like their IQ means something arent doing anything groundbreaking other than playing COD. Tesla should serve as the example that you can be as smart as you want but if you dont get out into the world and deal with people and develop communication skills what is the point. The guys who are destined to do some revolutionary shit are NOT on reddit worried about women seeing them as pushovers. The delusion of a dude walking around thinking an IQ mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:16 AM
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id like to see how many matches a dude will get on bumble by posting his IQ, isaac newton clapped no buns outside the classrooms, in the real world id bet my laurels on social skills and by extension networking. theres no amount of wealth or career that a smart person can obtain that cant be surpassed by someone who has the looks or the conversation to get into the same spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:56 AM
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These type of guys fall into a profile i generally observe: acting tough is nice until you run into mfs that really are on the bullshit. guys who act hard usually have a cluster of other issues and usually don’t get respect from other men as well. guys who are mentally weak, don’t have strong communication skills etc unable to win people over in conversation, don’t stand on their convictions. let other ppl walk all over them. the comments from women alone don’t create men like this. dudes today …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:22 AM
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the dudes that are complaining are usually NOT being allowed to participate in the hookup culture on apps like tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:49 AM
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haha yes….im suspicious of any dude that attacks fat women unprovoked. but in private he jump on big girls while they lay like a christmas turkey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:25 PM
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lol i should have some made
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:15 PM
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dudes that can actually have their way with women dont hve reason to complain about fat or skinny women because they can go out and get one to their liking. and a good % of them would deal with a bigger girl if one showed interest. fat women can get a man to open his wallet just like a slim one can. as i type this, a bigger girl is getting a dining room set paid for by a dude who doesn’t “prefer” big girls. dudes rarely ever stand on business when they list what they “wont” accept from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:11 PM
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if we ain’t freaking we ain’t speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:55 PM
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i knew somebody was going to get what i meant lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:56 AM
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fuck what incels say, and congrats on sorting the psychological issues. you don’t need to be a virgin, go ahead and get life experiences. figure out where u fit in the scheme of things as well as strengths and limitations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:56 AM
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i don’t let women vent to me without the understanding that im not listening for the sake of listening
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:17 AM
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the ones who make references to them being able to do better or having had better. if you could do better, you would. get out in street and make it happen goofy lil b
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:57 AM
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no its not in all cases, its just harder to find regular women who don’t live like that. a woman in today’s society would have to go against the grain to not be promiscuous because its being promoted to women heavily ideally id wanna find a homebody type of woman that still appreciates going out from time to time. even better if she is into art and has her own things that she works on. i don’t need a woman to play the role of a dedicated cook or housemaid cuz i eat out mostly anyway. i almost ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:55 PM
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you gotta tap into your inner troglodyte
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:59 AM
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they arent incognizant, the dude abusing them is just tall and handsome and she aint sure if she can replace him with an equivalent or better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:41 PM
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dudes like this lack game and self respect to walk away from a toxic woman. the single mother bashing is extra goofy because what man “accidentally” trips and falls into a bad situation with a single mom? single moms aint never caused me any problems lol once a woman shows “negative” traits, its the man’s choice whether to simp or stand on business. its not men or women’s fault that we encounter toxic people, but it is our fault if we remain in the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:36 PM
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im assuming youre referring to how things are in the states or some other western country i guess. ive been living abroad since 2019, but have things really gotten this bad? like if you say how you feel, or ask her out, they will flip out and blast you on social media? i know i can be pretty “toxic” in my ways but maybe women kind of expect that from me off the bat. it’s strange hearing about how simple approaching (by a man she isn’t attracted to) is now considered criminal in nature. as far as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:18 PM
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my story is odd, i didn’t lose my virginity until i was 27. i went on pof and met this girl and told her i was a virgin. she came over the same evening to “smoke”with me and she ended up yelling at me for something then gets undressed. its not so big of an issue if you dont have carry certain vibes that repel women. if people look at you and assume your a gamer, its gonna be difficult. if you have that progressive technical death metal vibe, then its gonna be difficult. you can be a virgin but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:38 AM
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in childhood and teenage years it was very troubled. but in my 30s me and mom worked everything out and im glad to have repaired the relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:23 AM
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i got no smoke for western women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:20 AM
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well i have enough maturity to allow myself to be treated well without looking down on her and feeling like i can take advantage. if you treat most ppl like a celebrity you can expect to be treated as a fan i think both genders would likely take advantage at some point if they had a partner place them on a pedestal. personally i don’t feel the need to dunk on women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:19 AM
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who cares what they think. the objective is to find the ones who want to deal with you. a woman that dont like you is a woman that dont like you no matter how polite or accommodating you may be. might as well check her temperature in the first meeting by seeing if shes down to meet up for drinks or whatever. youre getting to the point because you respect her time and your own time. it doesnt have to be rude or aggressive. dont let women gaslight you into thinking you said something wrong when sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:47 AM
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perhaps in your in circle that cant happen, but ive lived it. and it doesn’t have to be someone random of the street. you could be on a date with a woman and if things are going well you can ask are we going to fuck, yes or no. most dudes cant get to the point so they play nice guy, then get mad when she doesnt see u as a option. same thing with a woman at a bar or club, or any place you receive choosing signals i’ve fucked female uber drivers that picked me up for the first time, never even met…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:41 AM
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id like to be wrong in this case but you’ll have to take my word for it. where i live, this is the way they think and operate IF the guy doesn’t fit the image that they are seeking after. doesn’t matter the age, body type, pretty or not so pretty, always the same. so as im working on relocating out of here i put a stop to trying to find a good person because there are none available. the social dynamics here are different, women deliberately choose to be combative and toxic because i don’t look …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:28 PM
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those two arguments are weak and don’t work on ppl in the real world. a woman is gonna fuck who she wants and a man is gonna fuck who he can
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:58 PM
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there is no real manipulation, its just people afraid to state what they want clearly. a real man can ask a real woman if shes down for sex, yes or no. same thing with a relationship. ppl are afraid of yes or no questions so they speak indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:50 PM
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ok my experiences are an outlier and dont apply to other dudes: the”bad” women are everywhere, i dont run across “nice” women. when women interact with me it’s about sex and performance. my dick better be bigger than the ex or its a micro. i better be taller or im a piece of shit. if her ex was 6ft 5, i better be the same or taller. there is no middle ground that i find with women. its either they mad at me for not fitting the image they want, so they want nothing to do with me. or they want me …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:14 PM
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no way, a woman who “settles” for a man is usually going to feel like she has a license to be a combative terrorist in the household. they seek to argue and undermine, demand with no compromise. they think any sex they offer is a gift, and the regular guy is lucky to be graced by her “royal” majesty. most women who settle are sore losers and don’t have the toolset to out compete better women whom are able to get high level men to voluntarily comply and commit. they dont know how to take a loss a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:15 AM
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generally yeah, but its not something that she should be able to pick up on easily. especially upon first meeting. if a woman does “detect” that you have low social value and no options then thats a sign of needing to make some changes. i don’t really have friends that i run with consistently, but i can go out to a bar or club and get along with ppl easily and get included in what they got going on. free drinks, free shots, get a discount on cover charge at the door etc this shouldn’t make or br…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:16 AM
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blue pill woman, for most dudes it takes a dramatic change in appearance for him to lose attraction. plus he has more to lose from sabotaging a marriage than she does women come into the relationship finding the dude unattractive but to continue into it because she needs to get married by a certain age, have kids by a certain age, and have a ring on her finger so she can show her friends. yall enter the relationship in bad faith and if the dude aint tall and handsome then you feel like you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:45 AM
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these older women like younger dudes but a lot of them don’t act on it out of insecurity or they trying to prove a point to themselves. i can confirm and verify older women are down for the get down. older women are easy to talk to as well, especially if you have strong conversation. ive had housewives, school teachers etc. it may not occur as often because it requires one party to pursue the other and its kind of taboo socially. someone has to be brave in the situation for something to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:25 AM
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its not something only women do but it’s something women mostly do. women will say a dude have no standards and will fuck anything. regular dudes arent in position to act goofy in a relationship or situation ship due to a woman’s looks cuz most of them barely got options. personally i never been in longterm situations like that cuz women don’t interact with me unless sex is the focus. ive seen it in the short term when women will act bitchy or throw out reminders about how her ex had more money …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:12 AM
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thats cap, i don’t jump into a relationship with a woman and go out of my way to be difficult and uncooperative because she dont look like beyonce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:51 AM
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alot of women jump into a situation with a dude that she can get to comply and commit. she uses him to produce a child and be financially accountable,then cuts the romance short. most women can’t get longterm cooperation from their ideal man so regular guys are used to validate her status amongst other women. she can now say shes been married and did the whole nice wedding thing. she got a ring on her finger and a consistent man to blame everything on when whe gossip with her homegirls. shes hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:27 AM
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karens are karens, they can be young or old. pretty or busted looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:26 AM
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Because the majority of those traits are a by product of having a high body count and bitterness because of unsuccessful attempts to get the "hvm" to comply and commit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:13 PM
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you’ll find love when you stop looking unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:31 AM
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they can be, or they can be absolutely nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:30 AM
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Nah, women are attracted to guys who are physically attractive. Women go home with dudes who ain't scared to ask for what they want. Dudes are too scared to let their nuts hang and get to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:38 PM
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ohh shit…yeah i got the particular skill set lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:21 PM
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lol i know the actor but idk what movie or story your referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:16 PM
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past traumas have caused me to develop certain skillsets that allow me to indulge with women on a physical level but i haven’t healed from what has happened. this is holding me back from having internal peace and healthy relationships. almost all my experience with women comes from dealing with a certain demographic that are extremely unique when compared to “western” women. i have knowledge and a skillset built up that could help a lot of guys get to the next step and at least become active in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:51 PM
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i think many women have multiple personalities or characters that they will play based on how attracted or not attracted to whatever man they are interacting with. the same woman can be the perfect soulmate and twin flame to one guy, and an absolute terror to another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:33 PM
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Yeah that's more what I'm used to hearing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:12 PM
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Lol, not where I live. The women I come across attack any flaw that they see and compare me against athletes, rappers, and singers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:24 AM
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its what i see and experience
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 01:20 PM
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Get rid of her, nothing worse than being with a woman who thinks she can do better but ain't all the way confident so she makes a dating profile on the side. if you forgive this, you will regret it later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:58 AM
0

what kind of life experience do you have under your belt to be so sure that nothing can be done
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:58 AM
1

when they had more money than me, but were “into” me it was never a problem. when they had more money and were just “dealing” with me, they created conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:02 AM
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women only place those demands on guys they aren’t attracted to. if shes into you, love from a woman is an incredible thing. a woman that loves a man, sometimes knows him better than he knows himself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:57 AM
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i don’t really care about gender roles as long as we respect each other and she’s down to smash when needed. i dont need women to cook for me cuz im happy with taco bell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:49 AM
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if you had women figured out, you would say what you want from the beginning. there would be no friend zone issues, and men wouldn’t feel like they wasted their time on dinner with an uninterested woman because you too scared to ask if shes down to fuck or not
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:41 AM
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this is mental poison and an excuse to be weak
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:35 AM
1

handsome men need game to “manage” all of the attention and opportunities that come with being attractive. that is a skillset that needs to be developed over time and experience. a handsome man with game can get unbelievable amounts of money and trinkets from women. game is just interacting with your given environment/situation in the most optimal manner. nothing more, nothing less. regular and below average men need game to acquire AND manage whatever attention and opportunities that may come u…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:30 AM
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you dont need to love yourself to get girls, but if you deal with women long enough you’ll eventually learn to love yourself in the form of setting boundaries
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:24 AM
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next time someone gives you bad service, ask them to get someone else to assist you. repeat as needed or go to another bank branch
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:21 AM
2

women cant demonize my hobbies cuz i don’t allow them to dictate my peace. plus if a woman actually likes you she’ll immerse herself into what you’re into. if a woman is constantly nitpicking your hobbies, its out of boredom which means either shes needs your dick, or some other guys dick.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:18 AM
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bro with women, its either a yes or no. most guys dont say what they want from the beginning and hang around the woman like a bff, then get mad because she dont want to fuck you. u need to ask them upfront, are we gonna fuck, yes or no
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:12 AM
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who care how much money women make. u dont need money to get women. if u can attract women they will spend their money on you. feminism teach women to take every loss and disappointment they experience from tall/handsome dudes and blame it on regular and below average men.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 02:05 AM
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its a lot of goofy women on this app looking for attention and/or conflict. the others are just entertained seeing the whining and desperation
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 01:59 AM
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because yall only “act” good towards men that have no use for you being around. you look for the dude that has 1000 women chasing him that can all cook, clean and fuck on demand. you can’t hang on that level, but when you get in front of the regular dude you make it your mission to let him know at every turn youve been with better. the part yall leave out is yall cant retain “better”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:14 PM
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if they go outside and everyone isn’t happy to see them they think it’s an unchanging reality. they are hard headed and don’t learn from the feedback they receive from the outside world. they walk around with emperor palpatine vibes and wont even consider the possibility that ppl may not be so receptive to them because they’re goofy as fuck
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:03 PM
1

a lot of them just want to stay in place, and die out. they reject all forms of reason and advice. they think they understand women better than men who have far more experience than themselves. online, they have a talking point for everything under the sun but in real life many of them are soft like wet tissue. they have a warped perception of reality and anything that doesn’t follow their line of reasoning is cope
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:58 PM
1

if a man voluntarily simps then he deserves to get played by women. a few hours into a date i ask the woman directly, are we going to fuck, yes or no. if the answer is no i bounce to the bar or nightclub in the same evening
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:53 PM
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even if they don’t lower the standard, sub5 is in trouble unless they seek greener pastures
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:45 PM
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yeah its better to stay home and gain no life experience while waiting to pre order the next buggy game that comes out
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:42 PM
8

who care what women say, look at their behaviors only
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:38 PM
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before getting to the stage of moving you could just get some experience with traveling and interacting with different types of people and women of course. traveling regularly is achievable and better to do while young instead of waiting till your in the golden years. there are places that you can go where women will be less difficult for you to interact with and a nice language barrier as padding which will improve non verbal communication. less difficult doesnt mean easy, but it will allow you…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:45 AM
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The problem is they are indeed incels until they get into an environment that they can develop in. If I'm a short Indian guy, I'm not going to hang out in Santa Monica trying to spit game to white girls. You have to go to where you can best be marketed at. A lot of people have fucked up childhood and upbringing so it may not be their fault for having high inhibitions or social anxiety, but it IS their fault for not correcting it A guy who is a shy 25 year old virgin living in Miami is going to g…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:39 PM
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Yeah, I have the remedy for most dudes in this situation but they rather downvote me to hell because I DARE suggest that their life can change for the better if they do xyz. The black pill is becoming more like a black pillow to hide under
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:19 PM
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You don't have to be crime prone, you just can't be afraid to let your nuts hang and tell a woman exactly what u want from her. It's more dangerous to live life being scared of everything because you attract predators. I don't let people try me in real life, I don't hesitate to inconvenience those who try to inconvenience me. I'm cool with whoever is cool with me, and I hate whoever hates me. If you too scared to ask a woman for sex, it's not gonna happen. If you alone with a chick and you scare…
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:07 PM
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I'll disagree with this, 50 women aren't enough. And 50 women not responding on an app means less than nothing. 50 women from all in the same area is insufficient, and 50 women from the same demographic is weak data to base an overall conclusion of hopelessness on Most dudes aren't willing to take a vacation and travel somewhere out of their comfort zone. Most dudes aren't willing to relocate to a place where you have a stronger market value in dating. Traveling is demonized by women and men it …
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 05:25 AM
2

facts on facts.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 02:34 PM
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I've been with a lot of older women, they are just as fun as a younger chick if not more when they are actually attracted to the guy. Women just act "stiff" regardless of age to men they aren't so attracted to. I can confirm, older women are freaks
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 08:39 AM
1

If the dude is tall and handsome, she's the sweetest thing in the world
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:47 AM
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women are women, if you can find a plain jane or a homebody type of chick then consider it a blessing. Gotta stop caring about what they do with their mouf and pussy
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 09:41 AM
2

i didn’t really hit the ground running until my mid 20s. i can survive without love if necessary, i’ll always have access to situation ships and fwb till im old. there will always be a next girl, so if life plays out this way im coo with it
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:43 PM
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It's interesting because you're 18 and barely out of the tutorial mode. Which one of these reddit guys hurt you? Lol Also, holding out means that you've wanted to indulge but you didn't for some reason. What's up with that?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:03 PM
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nah, cuz a woman that needs to be assigned to you is going to be a terrorist in the relationship. it will be her mission to make you as miserable as she is
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:38 PM
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18 years old.... But "ready" to give up. interesting
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:32 PM
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Fuck all that conversation. Ask her are we going to fuck yes or no. If she say no stop contacting her. If she tries to deflect, redirect her back to a yes or no. If a goofy chick like this had anything or anyone better going on she wouldn't be playing around in your dms. Use her like she using you Women like her are like young deers that ain't learned how to walk straight yet. When women drone on and on with silly conversation, it means she has excess energy that is pent up. Whenever a woman is …
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:46 PM
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keep a tool on you, and only pull it out if you're gonna use it
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:39 PM
2

Lol yeah, my life in japan is very strange
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 02:43 PM
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Good question, It's a combination of all these factors and some additional things. But to speak from experience, if you are black but not the tall and handsome ideal, women here(japan) talk a lot of shit, and are significantly more confrontational than the they would be if I fit the image. However I'm still "sought" after and command a lot of attention because of the hypersexualization as you mention. In their eyes a black guy can only be in the category of a handsome NBA player or a 4'11 Africa…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 12:32 PM
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bro u cant use the women on tinder in 3rd world countries who match with foreigners are more likely to be a scammer. all im saying is taking a trip and actually interact with people. you wont know till you go. it sounds like you just looking for reasons to not try because of goofy bitches on tinder…and u was asking them silly questions
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:43 AM
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how do u really know that u can’t get a casual hookup with some girl if u were in her area? most of the guys on here exaggerate how bad they look. and even if you looked bad there are way’s around it. once again i fully grasp how competitive dating is in western countries but the world is much larger and expansive than the west. how do you know for certain you can’t compete?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:34 AM
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bro i understand that, but whats the point of chatting with them if u arent in proximity to make something happen with them. when you send messages and match with women in different time zones and regions you’re creating a situation where the only thing you can really do is send her money. even if the convo is good and you take a liking to the girl, you have no leverage to establish anything serious with her because you aren’t present. this is the trap that dudes who get into ldr fall into. so t…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:11 AM
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If u go to non 1st world countries you wouldn't need to do all that extra shit. People have attacked me for suggesting this but most ppl on here aren't even willing to go outside and try to make a conversation with a woman you see down the street. If it takes going abroad and dealing with women who don't have as many upfront barriers to entry then so be it. It will only improve your social skills and with time you can get some milestones accomplished so it's no longer on your mind. A lot of dude…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:46 AM
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take a short trip to the actual country and then fire up the app, if youre not in proximity to fuck on these hoes whats the point
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:35 AM
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This is facts on facts, she'll pay for both they meals and go back to his place and let him fuck her raw on a air mattress
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:53 AM
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Any man can set boundaries, but yeah women will only stick around and adjust their behavior and adhere to the boundary is if he's tall and handsome
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:40 PM
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They're able to pair bond when the tall and handsome dude shows up, and if he has no money she'll add him as a beneficiary on her insurance policy
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:41 PM
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some of those women have legit issues whether it be physical or mental, but the majority of them are goofy as hell
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:20 PM
2

lol on god
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:19 PM
2

feeling like shes going to get something is just as good as a promise to some women. some of the more ratchet ones can line you up to get robbed. another factor as well is if a dude didnt have experience before getting money, is he sure he can actually finesse a bitch effectively lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:01 PM
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this can work but there are some women who aren’t going to take a loss. they will escalate it to accusations of abuse, unless you having every girl sign a nda
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:56 PM
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Usually women like this are bad at interacting with men without bringing up their accomplishments or basic adult things that they do. They argue points that nobody cares about, they start conflict, they expect the man to behave like a subordinate at work. They end up in a lot of hookup situations if a guy and sit through the conversation long enough and then he runs away eventually. They emphasize the fact of them not needing a man, not recognizing how goofy it would sound for a man to say the s…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:22 AM
1

listen, your energy levels are not every other womans energy level. there are women out here that are absolute freaks and have higher labido than most dudes. ive lived and experienced it. women have play with my dick while im sleep just to get me back up. you may not be like that but you cant take your mood and make it every other womans mood
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:08 AM
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that’s initially. once the relationship has been going on for awhile she may or may not be hyper active in bed but there’s certainly no bargaining or negotiations taking place for sex if shes into me. i don’t come across women who stick around if they dont like the sex. the focus is men having to ask or cut deals for you to be down to fuck, there are men that youll crack your legs upon for, and there are other men that you require them to write a 30page essay on why you should let them get some
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:49 AM
2

The black pill is real but it's not as extreme for most people unless you have a very severe deformity.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah women have those instincts but most dudes are afraid to ask a woman for what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:16 PM
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Asia, Japan
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:36 PM
1

game recognize game lol
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:34 PM
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You are in the least mentally stable portion of reddit and u shocked because they come for you in dms. Your purpose here is to troll, and you like the backlash. Own it and roll around in it lol. I'm not telling you to stop
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:32 PM
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Telling thirsty ass mf that you're fucking your bf 2x a day is you flexing because u know how theyll react. Now you pretending to be shocked lol. If you wanna troll these dudes then at least stand on it, it is what it is
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:29 PM
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If you are that goofy, then I'd suggest asking women u meet on dating apps about your size being okay for them because your not sure and dont have much experience. Once she indulges this conversation she'll be more willing to look past you being goofy because it's been confirmed that you can reach her cervix if you really got the equipment. With women you can't tell the left hand what the right hand is doing. Act like you're a clueless guy with a big dick and women will talk you into their pussy…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:26 PM
0

It's cause you teasing them
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:20 PM
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Have you been straight forward and direct with a large amount of women about what you want and they all denied you? Unattractive dudes need to learn how to get to the point like a Chad would, especially if you feel like the answer is gonna be no regardless.. Why not skip the bs and save time. I think a lot of dudes on here might surprise themselves and get results if they stop being scared of women
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:17 PM
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This will stir up the hornets nest... The women that deal with me are looking for a good time and good dick. Majority of them just wanted that, and if things ever got to the point where they have to ask for oral, they end up looking for a new guy OR enjoying it too much that they don't want anything else and constantly request it. The ones who enjoyed it demanded it round the clock and it didn't improve how they interacted with me after the fact. I live in a foreign country which makes me "exoti…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:02 PM
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Most of this is true, especially the head thing. If a girl ask me to go down on her I know it's the beginning of the end lol. Women who were into me would take care of me for hours and initiate it multiple times a day. Once you know how nice and accommodating women CAN be, you never view them the same way again
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:04 AM
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nah that's bad advice, most dudes have no luck because they have bad social skills and are scared to ask women for what they want
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:32 AM
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in terms of dealing with men, yeah generally women act like assholes towards men that they dont find attractive. the worse looking you are, the more bitchy she will be up until you having a medical deformity. if you have a clinical deformity, they lighten up
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:23 AM
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This is actually true, if you have to ask or bargain for it, you might as well leave and find a new one. A woman who is into you will not let you sleep for long without waking you up for another session.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:54 AM
1

You could also work on yourself. Develop social skills, learn how to deal with people. Stop being scared to tell a woman how you feel and what you want from her, but most of you don't have the nuts to do it Or you can continue roaming on reddit going back in forth with people who present a solution and continue to not get any sex or relationships. Do you have the skillset to attract women without paying?
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:11 PM
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I think you misread, I'm not having a bad time here as far as the dating and sex goes. Even back in America i get better results than most of you that post on here. And if I went to other western countries I'd still do better
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:47 AM
2

I'm banned from ppd, because I said women like tall and handsome dudes. The mods are offended at the audacity
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:06 AM
0

For the case of regular white dudes, observing from the outside looking in. Just deal with Asian women and that pretty much solves most issues. White guys have more sauce with Asian women than they do with their own counterpart. If you're younger, consider relocating or visiting 1st world Asian countries and deal with the women there. Plus it would be good life experience for you and should improve your social skills if you have any ability to adapt to new environments and people If you're older…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:33 PM
3

They can be, I can't speak on other groups of men but for black dudes women are just more strict and specific about our features needing to be hyper masculine as possible. I'd say Asian women for example pretty much conceptually hate everything about the black male image. However, when the hyper masculine NBA player aesthetic type of black guy shows up most of them change their tune and are down to fuck. Our image around the world makes us extremely polarizing but even amongst the women who "dis…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:18 PM
0

A woman that acts like a woman, let's me fuck pretty much whenever I want within reason. Both respect each other, not into social media, not into dressing sexy for attention in public. Able to take helpful suggestions as well as offer helpful suggestions. Leaves her past in the past as I will mines As far as looks, idk. I've had a lot of variety so the attitude is the biggest factor
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 03:15 PM
0

Most women dgaf about nothing concerning a man unless he's tall and handsome. Women will grab a homeless chad from the street, throw him in her car, go to the star bucks drive thru and order him a pup cup
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:51 PM
1

Dating apps are real life but it's filled with the lowest hanging fruit in the form of women who can't get commitment from their ideal man. Those women are the ones with the baggage and mind games
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:39 PM
2

i do it all the time, absolutely necessary skill to be able to deal with people
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 02:57 PM
3

It's an interesting dynamic and the jbw thing is strong but ive seen other foreigners do well too but for us, we have to be more physically attractive or have a very high level of game to intice women here. Women have paid me for sex under the guise of wanting an "English lesson". There are some japanese dudes that do well too but they are the ones who are tatted up and have the gangsta look. Japan is absolutely cut throat for non white dudes but it's been a great teacher for developing social s…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 02:40 PM
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good looking/cute girls are a dime a dozen in asia and most of them aren’t considered attractive by their own group standards. bro u cant be asking these women about their pussy history. i thought they were just teasing you to make you feel bad but now you saying that you asked them questions that you dont want the answer to. you need to learn some game to straighten out your conversations with women lol
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:47 PM
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wait okay so you were matching with the low hanging fruit, which are the first batch of women most foreigners encounter when they get off the plane. also why are they discussing other men when your chatting with them?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:42 PM
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this is shocking as fuck, i thought asian women are only heavy handed extra particular with black dudes. i haven’t been to vietnam tho. did they let you smash and then talk shit afterwards? or did they outright reject you actually were you messing with one of those of bar girls because those are the worst. if you go abroad to an asian country i suggest to stay away from the red light districts or the pay for play shit.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:34 PM
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did this happen abroad or were they westernized? i know asian women are super strict about black dudes appearance and size. what race are you ?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:31 PM
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if u have a small deal, then i suggest relocating to an asian country if possible or just visiting several times a year to date around
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:24 PM
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that means you got everything you need to win, download hellotalk app and start talking to japanese women. ive seen dudes transform out here, especially if youre white. use it to your advantage i say
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:55 AM
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or you might come out here and transform into a certified mack lol. id say it’s worth finding out
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:52 AM
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ive lived in japan for 5 years, almost exclusively in osaka. it happens quite a bit. book a flight and come check it out, not all behaviors are documented in surveys and online databases
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:46 AM
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Nah, nothing I say on here is gonna change what women do, nor am I trying to. Reddit is a place I can rant about whatever. I get a kick out of it. And women who read what I say and argue over it ultimately get a kick out of it as well. If they had something better to do, they wouldn't react The biggest difference between me and most dudes that post on here is when I get off reddit and go outside I'll meet another woman and the process will repeat I guess
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:40 AM
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Incels, have no experience with women and can't get laid. You can say I'm toxic, but you can't say I'm an incel
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:05 AM
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Women are tricks, and when the handsome dude shows up she'll pay for way more than a dating app subscription.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 11:01 AM
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This situation is absolutely real in japan and has happend with me many times. I can go to an izakaya/ snack bar or nightclub and a Japanese woman will see me and if she's sauced up she will straight up leave her man and start hugging all over me and grabbing my dick. In nightclubs they will pull me out of the club and her boyfriend will follow us while begging her to stop all the way to the hotel lobby
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:56 AM
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Shame, hopefully he'll learn from it and learn how to stop negotiating with these terrorists
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:51 AM
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Lol almost every woman I been with did a size check on me upfront.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:49 AM
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You're best weapon against women's hypergamy is being tall and handsome, your second best weapon is not giving a fuck about what they do with their mouth and pussy If a chick I'm involved with go off and fuck on the next dude, then cut her off. If you stay and try to negotiate with her then that makes you a cuck Women are gonna always choose up if the opportunity presents itself, the power of not giving a dam and being willing to let her go back to the streets deprives her the satisfaction of se…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:46 AM
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So that tells me that although you say you aren't a "Chad" they see you as a valuable catch and step into the situation with their best foot forward. They come in with the intent to build and not destroy. For me, women "gravitate" towards me but put out disclaimers in the very first conversation. "My boyfriend is xyz, you're not like xyz. But come to my place and fuck me, but walk behind me when we get close to my apartment, I don't want people to see you walking next to me" These are the type o…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 10:36 AM
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I've had an abundance of situationships too, but the difference imo is that the women who are down to fuck enter the situation with a chip on their shoulder because they fucked a Chad in the past. So they step into the situation acting like she doing me a favor by letting me smash but the only reason women come around me is for dick. Anything i do or don't do that she doesn't like she'll use it as a reason to sabotage the interaction. Almost all my situationships with women have been volitile, w…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:14 AM
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fairytales about what
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 02:57 AM
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u tripping, ive dated doctors, strippers, school teachers, housewives, and everything else. this is just how most women are, the only thing i can judge initially is there appearances. always the same thing, they wanna smash but they feel the need to let me know that they’ve fucked “better” looking guys when nobody asked them. u probably the same way, nice to “chad” and a terrorist to the regular guy
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 02:51 AM
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Social skills are very important, being goofy will hinder your chances with women. You need to be able to go out and deal with different types of people and learn how to handle conflict. Strong conversation is developed overtime, chiefly through life experience and when you open your mouth people can tell within a few words if you're qualified or not. It's okay to use reddit to vent about stuff u cant change but if you don't go out into the real world and see what you can accomplish, you're only…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:29 AM
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Women will build and erect treasure cities, cut bricks from sandstone with precision, and decipher the emerald tablets for the Chad hath commandeth it so.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:16 AM
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It's not that, the truth is that women switch their character based on how tall and handsome the guy is or isn't. I'm sure every woman that gave me a headache are sweet and caring to a dude that look like Chris brown
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:02 AM
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lol don't let this reddit fool you, I've had more than my share of relationships and situationships and everything I say, I've lived it. If a guy don't the fit the image that a woman wants, the more they start comparing him to an ex, or some nba player that she don't have enough game or conversation to pull. I've sat down with women and they'll immediately start showing pictures of different dudes that they can't attract and start asking me why I don't look like them. After I sat through it, the…
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 11:55 PM
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the first woman is actually attracted to her husband and the second woman aint
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 06:13 PM
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if you aren’t tall and handsome, expect for her to cause all the problems in the relationship if it even gets that far
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 06:11 PM
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yeah women confuse their sexual market value with their commitment market value
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 02:39 AM
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The barrier is looks, it's absolutely shocking to see how "nice" women can be when she thinks the guy is hot. Women have a "come as you are" doctrine for tall and handsome dudes. If you don't have the looks you will constantly experience the bad side of women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:34 AM
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most of these OF girls are bums and sleep on a air mattress. they have skid marks on their kneecaps and can’t afford to pay for a root canal.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:52 PM
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blackpill has a lot of elements of truth but its not as rigid as ppl make it out to be. there are ways around it and theres no one solution that will work for every dude. some guys will have to work harder than others, or take more risks than the next guy. some dudes need to relocate etc its a case by case basis
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 08:08 AM
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This is cap, every bad bitch have a laundry list of broke handsome dudes that they gave their best to. You may not do, which I highly doubt but most women will absolutely trick off money and resources for a dude that fits the image. Most women do not stand on any foundation when the man with wide shoulders and square jaw show up. You could be a life long Christian and he can be a devil worshipper but if he look like Chris brown you'll help him light the candles to worship baphomet
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:07 PM
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Yall don't care about him being broke if the dude is tall and handsome. Women have greater patience than Buddha when the guy have wide shoulder and square jaw.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:02 PM
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You only need tangible value if you aren't tall and handsome. If you fit the image that women want, they will go out and hunt the deer, kill it, bring it home and prepare it, then serve it to you
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:59 PM
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I can't vouch for incels however the elements of the black pill are observable however not as severe and absolute as it's made out to be by some people. Exposing how women are more visually oriented than men is disruptive to their social "image" that they want to uphold as the fairer sex. It's also for their own safety as individuals that they be regarded as "good" generally.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:53 PM
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They don't accept the truth in terms of conversation but when they get off reddit they go out and chase the tallest and most handsome dude they can aquire
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 09:51 PM
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chat with some Filipinas, they usually don't make big deal about height... the non westernized ones I mean
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 02:30 PM
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Looks open the door and good dick keeps it open
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 02:17 PM
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Women and handsome dudes can get financially supported by the opposite sex
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 01:30 PM
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It's happened and I learned the hard way
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 01:24 PM
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I live in Japan now so I don't really come across black women that often but when I was in high school I had bad social skills, was overweight, and goofy so I can't even be mad that I had no interest from them at the time
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:44 AM
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Nah man, most dudes will take anything and if that "anything" cheats on him he's willing to go John wick on a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:51 AM
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one thing that helps is not being scared to ask or communicate what you want without fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:19 AM
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Even 50 is not gonna get it. Yeah race, height etc
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:46 AM
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Hmm several is not enough lol. What's your stats and demographic?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:44 AM
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What about all the other women out there tho, have far have you gone to see if you can get some results?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:35 AM
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omg yeah, when i was younger i was extremely overweight and had a fucked up haircut. clothes looked raggedy and my shoes were busted lol. where i live now i get reminded sometimes but those same women want to hook up if i sit through all the insults and complaints
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:51 AM
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yeah in school if a dude is ugly, women are very thoughtful and will notify him about this….repeatedly
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:31 AM
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facts. keep it playa and stop inquiring with women about what they did with someone else. appreciate that women lie about this because a lot of dudes would throw themselves into oncoming traffic if they knew what kind of dick your girlfriend had before you as long as she is treating you right dont tamper with the relationship dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:25 AM
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in western countries yeah, it exists and its a real thing but i believe only a very small handful of men fit that category. where i live now, the women are harsher on me here than back in the us but i still have a lot of situationships and meet new women all the time. i feel like if i can do it, most other men can find someone who actually likes you. chances go up in places like philippines etc
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:20 AM
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i think my opinions about dating and much of women’s behavior is in line with the black pill but ive gone out into the world and have gotten repeated results. i can go on reddit be negative and fatalistic but when i log off i can still attract women at least for short term activities. if your gonna ride with an ideology, make sure youve gone out into the field and thoroughly tested yourself. if every woman from top to bottom hates you or doesnt want you then its okay to fully give up
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:54 AM
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lol i bet a trip to the philippines would fix things faster than waiting for robots. plus every man has to ask themselves are you SURE that no woman wants you? it may not be as hopeless as a lot of guys think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:48 AM
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even if we are aware we can either get with the program and improve the appearance as much as possible or get lost in the sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:36 AM
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there are different rules for different men. various factors including race, age, financial status, and location. i live in japan, so women are more strict about judging my appearance but other foreigners will get more slack for this situation, id be careful because dudes will crash out over a chick and u could get your life took. what for another opportunity to open up
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:17 AM
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Moral of the story, women be capping like a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:05 PM
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This facts and ppl on here act like I'm exaggerating when I say being tall and handsome is the most important thing and it will determine how nice or not nice women will be to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:55 PM
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Not all of them but the high body count, toxic relationship seeking ones do. Women like this will stay in a abusive relationship longer than a "boring" one. A lot of these kinds of women like a roller coaster of emotions, and go out and seek it in the form of sexual trauma and abuse. The boring dude doesn't make your cylinders fire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:26 PM
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Facts, a chick that's on the streets see these type of dudes as a lick and you can't do nothing nice for them in those situations without going unpunished
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:01 PM
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It's worse to be the guy who's unable to get into a relationship because you have a long road of toxic experiences to endure if you think dealing with a drug addict woman is better than loneliness. Lots of suffering in store for you But this may be necessary for some men because it will force you to develop some character and self respect if you don't end up following after her habits or her setting you up to get robbed or killed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:56 PM
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Cuz many women act all extra'd out when theyve been with alot of different dudes and compare the current guy against the best she ever had in every way. The current guy can be nice, attentive but if he can't clap her buns like the ex, she brings it up in different ways to remind him that she's had better. A lot of women have this really stong need to let you know theyve had better, or on the flip side theyll trash their previous guy constantly if your performing better than her last High body co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:16 PM
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If she putting sanctions and embargo on her pussy then she can kick rocks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:39 PM
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If she's a grown woman who wants some dick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:24 PM
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Let women do what they gonna do, shaming them just makes them lean harder into what they already been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:18 AM
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Average women are the ones that can't get voluntary commitment from the men that they are highly attracted to. What makes a woman average is a combination of her looks, hygiene, and game(interpersonal skills)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:15 AM
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im average, i just invite her to my place and if shes down for tht i just get to the point. if shes at my place and things have been going well ill just put her hand on my thing and its either yes or no from that point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:50 AM
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This is reaching too far, plus a lot of guys don't get any results because they aren't upfront and occasionally toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:13 AM
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After pondering on it, id say yeah. Women are very particular about casual sex but apparently they will stay in relationships with men they are not attracted to to maintain status of having a relationship or whatever financial benefits Personally I can't relate because women want absolutely nothing to do with me unless they want sex and depending on how that goes will determine if it gets more serious or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:31 AM
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At the end of the day, who cares what they think. We have all the data now. They want tall and handsome, only thing left to do is try to improve yourself as much as possible or sit on the sidelines. There's almost nothing a handsome dude can do to give women the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:38 PM
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It depends, I got a OG that's 63 years old and is still high power and can go to clubs and young women will come up to him wanting to fuck. He says don't chase women and he lives it. He's one of the few guys I've seen in the field I would call a certified stepper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:35 PM
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I mean I guess, but it's still bad and that's how women think when they come across dudes who don't get any play. Nothing you or I can do to change how shit works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:01 PM
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it's more bad if you can't get any casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:15 PM
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I live in Japan, that American dude was being extra. A lot of Japanese dudes do harass and touch women on the train. A lot of Japanese dudes ignore the women only car "rule" and get on board regardless. Also if it's extremely crowded for rush hour, nobody is going to voluntarily be late for work just to respect a woman's only car. Being late is unacceptable here It doesn't bother me until it's rush hour and I have somewhere important to be and the train is packed. I'm not gonna risk getting fire…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:56 PM
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Women only resent men in this category if they don't think he's tall and handsome. If he makes the cut and meets her physical standards, most women have a "come as you are" doctrine with attractive men who may lack experience or social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:43 PM
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In general women see regular and ugly men as opps
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:34 PM
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I need to improve my appearance, the better the guy looks, the better the woman will behave generally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:06 PM
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I can already sleep with women I'm attracted to, the problem is finding a woman that's not toxic or a wanna be bad bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:40 AM
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Who says men with no options only wife thots? Not every thot is on the same level socially... Kim Kardashian is in a completely different tier than some reddit girl tryna promote her OF. Ciara has rank, and she look good. She's mentally stronger than Russell Wilson and truth be told there a lot of men who are attracted to women that are dominant and run the program. Steph curry is in the same situation as Russell. Steph curry upgraded his chick so she think she outranks him and that's why he get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:14 PM
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There ain't enough tall and handsome dudes to evenly distribute amongst all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:00 PM
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This is facts, if u not tall and handsome women are gonna be stiff when interacting with them. If u wanna experience the "good" side of women u gotta try and improve your appearance as best as you can. Most women ain't compromising on this. And many of the ones who do will use your looks as justification to treat u like absolute garbage in a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:54 PM
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I got no smoke for promiscuous women. The problem is many promiscuous women take their dick sampling "experience" as a badge of honor and weaponize it against the current guy they get involved with. Most promiscuous women remain in that state because they get dismissed by the tall and handsome dudes and don't have enough game or quality pussy to get him to commit voluntarily. After repeated failures with the most sought after men, promiscuous women get involved with "regular" guys and can't stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:18 PM
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Yeah, women pay for sex but it occurs in less obvious forms. Some older women will play mommy for a younger guy she think is cute while she gets dick in return I live in Japan, so a woman may invite me out for dinner or drinks. Or they may request an "English lesson" at her house or my place. All leading to sex but doesn't always end up in me getting cash in hand but some women will pay to setup a situation to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:32 AM
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I have, it's a necessary skill that needs to be developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:21 AM
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It influences how I approach and handle them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:57 AM
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This stuff about women not enjoying sex is really baffling to me. In my own experience, women dealt with me particularly for sex and put extra emphasis on it. Women would never hang around in a relationship with me for any duration of time if they weren't enjoying sex. The relationship could be toxic in every other category but the situationship would continue on until the arguing and conflict gets completely out of hand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:51 AM
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Im average, but I do find my way into situationships whether I'm looking for it or not. I only struggled when I was younger because I didn't know the game and was too afraid to say what I wanted. Thinking too much and very high inhibitions are the enemy of making friends and connecting with women You gotta let your nuts hang
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:42 AM
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For me, I think real life is better than dating apps, cuz on the apps you run across the low hanging fruit and the type of women who have long standing history of failed relationships /situationships. Size queens, failed bad bitches, and poor decisions makers who don't take accountability are the majority of women on those apps Plain Jane type of women who are low key and the exceptionally beautiful don't fuck with the apps. Plain jane is off in her own world, making art or watching documentarie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:41 AM
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Absolutely, I have called things off at the last minute because of women who had goofy attitudes or left them in the hotel room. Can't do nothing with an unruly woman who took a bunch of L's and didn't learn anything in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:25 AM
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The difference is I can be "settled" with a woman and not treat her less than human just because I can't knock the baddest bitch. Most women settle and then try and flex on the regular guy because they don't have enough game to get the tall and handsome dude to voluntarily commit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:22 AM
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If a girl not letting you smash her consistently that's a clear sign that she not really into you like that. If the dude that arouse her show up she going to bust it open and ride
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 PM
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If u want that u gotta come at women with a yes or no doctrine. Can't waste time asking about hobbies n shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:44 PM
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The women who aren't on reddit know this, but reddit women cap so much but when you check they page they posting on r4r or trying to get u to subscribe to they OF
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:28 PM
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I don't think so because if a man complains about bad dating experiences, the first thing reddit women say is he must've been chasing bad bitches as the reason things went wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:15 PM
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That's all good, those are just past experiences that were learned from. I'm just sharing the revelation that women who may be beautiful aren't necessarily shallow and women who may be unattractive aren't necessarily sweet and kind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:08 PM
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The women in this sub who say sex and the intimacy that comes with it aren't important are capping unless they are asexual or some psychological shit is wrong with them. When a woman is around a man that arouses her, their sex drive can outperform most men. Women know the benefits of intimacy and chemical release. They can generally access it easier so they don't perceive it as a necessity but they damn sure indulge in it. What they say don't matter, plus anything a non tall and handsome dude ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:04 PM
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Who said I can't get a woman in the first place? I've dealt with good looking women and not so attractive ones and I experienced far more toxicity from the latter. They were the types that would compare me to an amazing ex that they failed to maintain a relationship with. They would openly remark on how they wish they could find an NBA player or rapper and how I'm not like them. I've been with women who complain about how I look or my height etc, and then ask me to fuck them after I sit through …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:47 PM
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The only men who put casual sex on the forefront is tall and handsome dudes. The regular and below average are bargaining relationships to have access to some level of sex. Most dudes on here will say yes to a volatile relationship just to be able to clap buns
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:13 PM
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yeah it's all good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:52 AM
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Baddies exist, but baddies earn no stripes flexing on regular dudes. Only girls that can't hang do what OP does. If u a certified bad bitch your conversation should be on a totally different level
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:49 AM
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If they lying about getting sex, then they're goofies. Most dudes that i see on here are crying about getting a first girlfriend or losing their virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:46 AM
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It's all good to disagree and invoke, but OP seeks to troll and provoke. Posts such as "average men shouldn't procreate" etc etc she trolling and has an axe to grind with ppl so surely she can take a little criticism. if she can't handle it, her foundation is flimsy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:45 AM
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this is capping, there are many men who are willing to crash out and catch a murder charge over catching another man clapping their “non stacy looking” wife’s buns
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 09:38 AM
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she has no game, and can’t teach anybody anything. look at her post history, real bad bitches that can get their ideal man dont hang out in places like this. she salty because she can’t compete against better women for chads commitment so she comes to reddit to flex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:20 AM
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there ain’t enough tall and handsome dudes to distribute amongst the non hot women. why would you be so selfish and take a chad away from a more deserving attractive woman? have u no shame?
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 09:08 AM
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facts, nothing worse than being with a “non hot girl” who is big mad because she can’t a tall and handsome dude to voluntarily commit to her. these type of women make it their job to be a terror to any regular man who gets involved with her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:04 AM
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the girls who aren’t hot cause more problems than the actual hot ones in my experience. this post is like saying if my lottery ticket doesn’t win me millions i should have chose a better ticket. these bad traits that people have a rarely shown until youre already waist deep and invested into the person. people also change their minds at any given time. this post reads as inexperienced and simple minded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:57 AM
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I've run across that as well. And sex with them was just like animals fucking. No connection or intimacy, they just wanted me to pipe them and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:02 PM
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I'm kinda cautious of dealing with them because in my experience many of them are more demanding and superficial than the so called "pretty" girls. Some of the worst and most hateful women I've ever come across where kind of chubby or fat. Not all of course
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:52 PM
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The only solution is to improve your appearance as much as possible. If you want to see a direct and immediate change in how women treat you, this is the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:07 PM
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they don’t want a father,they just want a tall and handsome dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:06 PM
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Just be skinny doesn't work on Chad, just be skinny works on the men that you're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:27 AM
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If she's nice to interact with and we both respect each other sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:36 PM
2

Beautiful woman, average women, and below average can go online and set up IG and OF and develop large fan bases of dudes who will trick off money just to see exclusive selfies. There are no groups of women who prefer "regular" dudes, there are no groups of women who prefer short dudes. Women always say: men will fuck anything. If they will fuck anything, they'll marry anything if they think it will allow them to keep fucking potentially. Average women don't get treated like a baddie, but averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:27 PM
1

This is facts, a lot if women do not know how to take a loss and get dismissed by Chad after Chad. They never learn anything from it, but keep trying. Lame ass chicks literally get put out on their asses and Chad can't stand them at best for more than 3 nights in a row. These women have terrible "lay up after sex" game, and talk too damn much. Even a regular dude can't wait to get rid of you. Every day women miss their blessing with Chad. They get salty over time then start dunking on regular du…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:09 PM
2

Let her learn the hard way, they think fucking a string of Chad's back to back while getting nothing tangible is somehow winning. Once they catch on, it's gonna be regular dudes job to pick up the slack and offer that stability she couldn't finesse from Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:53 PM
5

Yes! But unfortunately a lot of men will remain in a bad situation because they think nothing better will come. It's better to be alone than with someone who resents you for not being the ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:22 PM
4

All the ones I come across are volatile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:39 PM
8

The yes or no is in reference to hooking up and fwb situationships. I have no problems getting sex, the problem is finding non volatile relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:31 PM
3

The wedding is a woman's ultimate flex day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:23 PM
12

The magnitude of difference in how women treat Chad vs regular guys isn't comparible with how men treat beautiful women vs regular women. Sounds like you're trying to justify playing mind games with guy's because of how they look. Where's the maturity in that? But when Chad calls you over at 4:03am and sends you back home without even paying for your Uber fare, women feel used and taken advantage of Why play games when you can improve yourself as a woman and not even need to get involved with "a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:03 PM
12

But if he's tall and handsome it's okay to be a non functional adult who's only after sex? Because like we established before, women are making up rules for regular dudes and not applying it to "Chad". Women need to step their game up if they want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:55 PM
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Because they don't benefit you or me in the process. If you're so bothered by a dude not being tall/handsome enough then you gotta develop the skillset or looks to attract and maintain better. The solution is not to try and put the guy on a hamster wheel to amuse yourself because you can't compete with higher caliber women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:43 PM
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Because the boundaries and hoops yall create are disruptive to the bonding process and only exist because you're not able to get better. Plus any dude who follows the goofy rules yall make up turns you off even more. Women who do this step into the relationship with intent to sabotage the situation and when the smoke clears blame the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:33 PM
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I don't need to be treated like a god amongst mere mortals. Just stop making up boundaries and hoops for to jump through because you're not able to get the type of man whom you really want. In my experience, the extremely beautiful women I came across kept it really simple with a yes or no. Average and below women made it their job to be a terror in the relationship and in the household because they don't have enough game to get the best of the best. It's like asking if a woman doesn't look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:25 PM
3

once they say no, their interpretations don’t matter. its on to the next one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:55 PM
2

women shouldn’t settle unless they can look in the mirror and accept that they don’t got the sauce to get longterm commitment from their ideal man and NOT punish or bash regular guys to make themselves feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:55 AM
8

A chick can be a plain jane all her life with no trauma or issues but just simply be curious about dick and venture out in her late 20s or beyond to see what the fuss is about. A hoe phase is about a woman that just needs her spot to be stimulated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:05 PM
1

Most women only comprehend tall and handsome, and in his presence they try their best but most won't make the cut because they're ain't enough tall and handsome dudes to distribute for all the women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:33 PM
6

How can guys do the "same" thing that you're saying women don't do? and without flexing I have more experience with women than most dudes in general, online or offline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:26 PM
1

As far as I see it, to be able to call yourself a man is to have gone through great trial and tribulation whatever that may manifest as. They key would be to emerge out of it still standing and as a better person. Prolonged situations where your back is against the wall, sink or swim etc. I think those either make or break man I can be around almost any demographic of people and handle myself from having tea with a 96 year old Japanese man who complains about his wife to drinking Olde English wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:03 AM
1

A person may not be "ugly" but as time goes on, standards go up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:37 AM
2

Whether I look toxic or not, my boundary is my boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:06 AM
2

A lot of women are haters. if they all in the club or bar, one girl might be on the brink of finding a soul mate but her friends ain't finna let that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:04 AM
2

I'm still open minded for it, especially if I find one that doesn't wear her politics on her sleeve and is a homebody
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:02 AM
1

I think most people struggle cuz the overestimate or underestimate what the other person across from them has to offer. They overestimate what attractive people offer and underestimate what less attractive people have to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:00 AM
1

Yeah she would, cuz my ideal woman looks at my character before anything else and she not trying to build followers on IG or strike big on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:54 AM
4

They taking Uber home after getting put out of the tall and handsome dudes apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:52 AM
32

Women don't match to reply most of the time. They match to get the euphoria of matching along with the ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:49 AM
2

I been saying this, promiscuous women are sex connoisseurs and every new man they meet had better perform better or be on par with their "amazing" ex. Otherwise, he's a piece of shit and she will treat him accordingly Alot of the women on here just debate for the sake of debating but when you put the phone down and actually go out deal with women, my words ring true for many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:17 PM
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Yeah they'll marry them when many of them accept that they ain't going to get the "perfect" guy or ex they are obsessed with. Problem is these failed perfect man chasers are gonna go out of their way to make the man that DOES wife them up miserable while she run the household like a mob boss
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:02 AM
1

If you tall and handsome, she's gonna be attracted regardless of birth control, antihistamines, or multivitamins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:49 PM
3

Ain't nothing wrong with eating box, but I'm not doing it for a chick that has a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:39 PM
2

Money helps you get into situations with women who aren't attracted to you but are willing to use you as a lick. Money helps you get into situations with women who aren't attracted to you but tolerate you because they can't get commitment from a better guy. Money helps you get into situations with women who constantly disrespect and undermine you because you aren't a "real" man in her eyes. For most women, a real man is tall and handsome. Anything else is just a boy compensating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:05 AM
2

not even close, but carry on lol
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 10:35 PM
16

Cuz, what women have between their legs makes you forget about all the difficulties and frustration you may encounter in the process of arriving there
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:20 PM
1

"chubbier" women in my experience have higher standards and more hard to deal with than "prettier" ones. Because they weren't the ideal, so they demanded the ideal. If she's big and short, I need to be like an athlete
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:58 AM
2

There are cases like that. When i was in my early 20s, only older women would show some kinda interest in me. I'm 33 now, and I guess I'm in the sweetspot. But I will say that I get a long with older women FAR better than ones my age or younger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:25 PM
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Glad it could help, I've experienced this from many different women so I can sympathize People have a "image" of themselves that they want to put out into the world but they can't bend reality to match that. So they feel like they are "settling" or compromising their status to associate with u Unfortunately when many people compromise and settle they punish you because THEY can't do better. The world is backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:12 PM
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It's difficult to be used for sex and then degraded after. The eyes closed thing is a big indicator. Them being reluctant to do things centered around pleasing you. Little to no affection after sex is finished, friends with benefits can still have affection. Another sign is them not wanting to kiss you etc. Before the bedroom stuff happens there are some visible signs like them being ashamed or refusing to be seen in public with you. This is the darker side of male sexuality because we can fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:53 PM
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this is facts, but ppl fight against it tooth and nail. tall and handsome are a status object for women. the only “right” way to be a man in most women’s eyes is to be tall and handsome
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:23 AM
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even the 300lbs woman got a bad attitude and wants a tall handsome dude
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:08 AM
3

this sounds good, but women still going to tolerate all of it if the guy is tall and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:33 AM
2

neurodivergent and neurotypical men should just seek to improve their appearance as much as possible and things will work out better with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:35 PM
0

yeah, how dare the dude be “noice”. she’d much rather have a tall and handsome dude run circles around her, kick her out to bring a new girl in to fuck and rip the door off the hinges every time he’s ready to come back and smash. that’s how u treat a lady. those evil noice guys are so manipulative…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:31 PM
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Women's senses jam like the broken hyperdrive in the millennium falcon when they see a tall and handsome dude
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 01:52 PM
12

women eat hot chip and lie
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:57 AM
2

i feel bad for women who going thru this. it sucks but they need to take their loss and charge it to the game. alot of them take their frustrations out on regular or below average men who are willing to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:50 AM
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They only empathize and sympathize with tall and handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:50 AM
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This is really true. The rudest types of women I've come across were the ones who were not so "conventionally attractive", however they had the highest of standards and the most exquisite of tastes in men. And because they repeatedly fail at gaining commitment from those "exotic" men, they bring down the wrath of God upon "regular" or below average dudes because most women don't know how to take a loss gracefully or accept that they can't compete on a certain level for the most sought after men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:07 AM
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Women have more game than that. They ration out sex like an IV drip to loaded dudes with no game or looks. Any woman that has skill handling rich dudes will make him cash her out per interaction. Gold diggers are mentally stronger than a lot of dudes who have money but can't pull women. A guy could be a CEO of a top company and have all these leadership qualities but the woman he has runs over him like a mob boss He can probably get away with this on a few chicks but most women ain't going to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:14 AM
2

If marriage don't benefit women then stop pressuring dudes to marry you so you can flex on your wedding day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:37 AM
0

A "betabux" has no rank or power to apply any kind of pressure for sex. He gets whatever a woman decides to throw at him. Those type of guys are on very thin ice with women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:35 AM
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Dude I was young and broke and piping women who paid for everything in my 20s. How you going to tell me where my dick has been? Lol u speaking on shit you haven't lived
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:24 AM
5

you never heard of women with loser ass boyfriends that have no job and live off of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:19 AM
2

No, they see financially stable men who aren't tall and handsome and are unexperienced as a lick to take advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:15 AM
2

Most women dgaf if the dude isn't tall and handsome.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 10:10 PM
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This is facts, I've had women tell me stories about how their "amazing" ex used to punch them, throw them on the floor, fuck her, and then kick her out to invite the next girl over who is pregnant to fuck lol. It's like mortal danger arouses them A lot of women get straight up misused and abused and run straight back to that guy or look for another guy that is similar. Then the regular guy comes along being nice and respectful and she thinks he's a bitch because he ain't ripping the door off the…
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 10:01 PM
6

I was doing it tho, and if I went to the state hospital id be piping the nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:51 PM
4

Keep up with what? If you're young and can't get laid what can you teach anybody lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:42 PM
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I have a remedy to either get them to proceed to the next step or weed them out immediately if they really just aren't interested, but it's a toxic remedy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:35 PM
13

Exactly, you gotta be able to pull these women off the muscle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:32 PM
18

This is cap, young broke men who arouse women are piping them left and right. Women even provide their housing, clothing... Even apply for jobs on their behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 PM
5

Big facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:11 PM
9

Big facts, it takes time to learn how to politic with women so dudes need to get they pen and notepads early
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:28 PM
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You need to learn how to deal with women even when you're young and broke. If you wait till you get "successful" women just see you as a lick to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:17 PM
7

I'll take tall and handsome, if you have those attributes the world is at your finger tips
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:57 AM
2

Depending on how you look, women will say no gracefully or they going to go out of their way to dunk on the guy for his audacity to think he can be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:23 AM
2

“need” from a woman turns into resentment real fast. wanted is better because the foundation is built on her actually choosing to be with me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:51 PM
10

big facts
/r/MensRights15/07/23 06:36 PM
4

almost any negative and/or weak behavior a man can display, most women will tolerate or accept it he he’s attractive enough. in this day in age its more important to look like a man, rather than act like one. if you fit the image, most women are willing to go out and hunt the deer, cook it, and serve it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:02 PM
3

women get the ick whenever they want to get the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:07 PM
22

the golden rule for approach women is be tall and handsome. if you cant be that, expect to be told things that don’t make sense or work when applied. the only “right” way to be a man to most women is being handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:21 PM
2

if you approach women and get poor results, women will say just try being her friend. if the dude follows that and becomes her “friend”, and the girl find out he’s attracted she say he’s a creep with hidden motives. women need to pick a lane and stick to it yall only place guys who arent tall and handsome in that kind of paradoxical situation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:13 PM
2

OP went mask off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:55 PM
1

Older women are cool, if you have a strong conversation so she won't be running circles around you. If you don't have a strong conversation and aren't able to diffuse the mental games then you can anticipate being talked down to like a little boy.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:36 AM
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I definitely tolerated too much, from a combination of feeling isolated in a foreign country. So to have some kind of intimacy I allowed women to run over me in the past. It made fwb more like enemies with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:14 AM
3

Hmm well I'm 33, and I've gotten a lot more situationships than when I was younger. Can be a good or bad thing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:10 AM
1

They put a negative emphasis because they want me to be taller, big muscles, and the face of whatever rapper or athlete they like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:24 PM
2

The really "hot" ones were generally pleasant for the moment. I guess I can't attract them for relationships but I can arouse them for one night situations or just fwb routine. I pull the most when Im drunk I my experience, the not so pretty ones came with the most mental instability and physical violence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:03 PM
2

1 to 3% I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:00 PM
1

Yeah quite a bit, I guess it may be where I live.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 04:55 PM
3

Idk, im from the US but living in Japan currently. There is some pressure they place on each other for height. And for dating context it's favorable. For my individual experience here, they put extremely high focus on my height (5'9) even though a lot of men here are much shorter. As far as dating dynamics, the women here have different rules for different men. If I was a Japanese man, or a non black foreigner here my height would be considered acceptable and even "tall" depending who you're aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:38 AM
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they damn near 100% reflect women’s sentiments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:00 PM
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when women get their ideal tall and handsome man (not regular guys) they get a status object and companion that boosts their image amongst other women. when they go out an about with a man like this it boosts their ego, and the envy they see from other women gives them euphoria. in 2023, a “good” man is walking trinket that women use to flex on other women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:57 PM
0

gen x and before didn’t have the same dating dynamics of today so back then women had to weigh a mans character more heavily into consideration when choosing someone. today, character is out the window and if a man is tall and handsome, women will go out and hunt the deer, cook it and serve it to him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:42 PM
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women are unmoved by those traits if the man is average. women are evolved to want tall, handsome and wide shoulders. thats all it has ever been and will be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:33 PM
2

most women see short men as a drink coaster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:09 PM
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I'm not mad at them. It's only a problem when the females who give up chasing alphas start bullying the regular dudes they settle for
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 12:36 PM
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sure, why not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:55 AM
3

god damn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/23 09:02 AM
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My unpopular opinion is that most women will fail at getting their most ideal man. And they take those failures and long journeys of disappointment and attack regular or average men for it. They get involved with a "lesser" man and do everything in their power to dominate and emasculate. Constantly make comparisons, constantly remind the guy about how she's experienced better. They are deliberately toxic, and put minimal to zero effort into creating a functional relationship. They think regular …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:47 AM
2

Yeah I'm working on getting out of here at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:24 PM
2

Well yeah to be fair I live in Japan currently so I guess the social dynamics here are different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:11 AM
2

It starts within the first 15 minutes of meeting them. They go in great detail about how the ex was blah blah blah. They take out their phone and show me gallery collections of different NBA players and how they prefer this and that. When I sat through all of that they ask to me to come to the hotel or to their place to fuck. Some of them even demand I need to walk behind them to the place because they don't wanna be embarrassed. The only time they not talking shit is in bed. After it's finish t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:26 AM
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If tall and handsome dudes liked to stay home on Fridays and play magic the gathering, the girls would follow along. All the hobbies and interests that you listed are primarily occupied by 6ft, dominant men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:15 PM
3

I think generally men do want to love, but generally women can't/won't love a man unless he's tall and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:03 PM
3

Reddit posts aren't gonna move the needle. She's either attracted or she's not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:02 PM
1

Most men don't respond like Eliot Rodger tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:57 PM
0

men face rejection and lash out at that particular women. women take rejection and lash out at regular men who had nothing to do with the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:04 PM
1

Most promiscuous women talk shit and go on a campaign to degrade regular guys who don't match that one ex that had a 9 inch. From now on anything less than that is a micro to them. Sex is like raiders of the lost ark for them. They open many tombs and find one golden cherubim and now every new tomb better have a golden cherubim or else. Experienced women wont/can't accept that every person is different. If the ex was 6"4, why can't all the other guys be 6'4...whats wrong with them? Experienced w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:48 AM
1

I guess there's truth to this. I've slept with a lot of women who I knew did not gaf about me, just to get temporary gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:33 AM
1

They cold approach for sure, but they also GET approached by women very often. I've been in circles with dudes like this and women will pull up on him for a conversation while he just eating a sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:55 AM
2

It's a positive thing to be confident, but if the dude ain't tall and handsome most women are not going to cooperate with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:45 AM
5

Yeah they can, or cause a fall out after sex has occurred. Especially since I live in a country that's not my own. I don't bring up politics on any level unless I know forsure if we are on the same page. I've had countless debates/arguments with women and it's just simply not worth it. Women in my experience usually bring up their politics pretty quickly and if it's too far out of alignment with my own views I end it there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:41 AM
2

This is facts. But I'd like to ask an outsiders opinion. If a guy is told by women constantly about how unattractive he is, or how he doesn't have xyz trait that the other guy may have. However these same women will still initiate and or ask for sex. What category would you place him in? A guy who can "arouse" women but still be resented/insulted for not being the ideal? This messes with my head. The women who hookup with me are just as cold as the women who want nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:36 PM
1

I can complain about things some women may do on reddit but in real life I have common sense. Women and children are and always will be the priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:17 PM
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The ones that slay is because they're tall, handsome and have wide shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 PM
1

This is facts, even if you ask most women what an average guy is they name people like Michael b Jordan as a starting point. Average to women starts at 7, anything below 7 is an abomination to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:54 PM
3

They know what to do when the guy is tall and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:43 PM
2

It depends on the type of guy. Women wont ask for big muscles on a guy who looks like Johnny Depp. But other guys women will demand he needs to be built like a DBZ character, in my experience. Most women don't care about what's practical or realistic. The only "right" way to be a man in the eyes of women is to be tall and handsome. They don't care about the character of the person on the inside they just want a image and a man who doesn't match that ideal is less than human to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:18 PM
2

This is facts, they like tall, handsome, wide shoulders etc He can be dressed in a suit or walk around with a blanket tucked into the back of his shirt collar as a super hero cape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:08 AM
2

Women usually bust it open for attractive dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:05 AM
2

Because they give up on chasing the hot guy and as they get older it's more of a flex for them to have a husband they can complain about rather than be single at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:47 AM
2

They're are no acceptable places to meet women, they're are only acceptable faces to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:42 AM
2

Super attractive people are rare yeah. However most women are gunning for that specifically and when they do fail to attract that person they settle with regular dudes and talk shit about him and complain constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:35 PM
5

Because they're aren't enough guys who look like Chris Brown to evenly distribute amongst all the women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:29 PM
4

Most women consolidate average, below average, and anyone below Henry Cavill or whatever celebrity they like as a non option
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:16 PM
1

Because speaking as a guy who has been with a lot of women, I understand that women come in all shapes and sizes and don't expect every new pussy to be better than the last one. When women have a high body count they expect every new man to look and perform better than the previous man or else he's a piece of shit The more experience I gain, the less I expect because as life goes on, people are different . As most women gain experience with sex, they view it like a video game and every new man m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:26 PM
1

Most women are incredibly aroused by tall and handsome dudes with a destructive lifestyle style. It fires all cylinders for them because of the physical attraction and the dramatic situations being involved with him creates. It allows her feel like a hero in her attempts to "save" the handsome guy from his own bad habits. Yeah I agree that it's good to not try to convince women to change or get upset about it. These type of women bring down the wrath of God upon regular men after they do finally…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:03 PM
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its no different then women not liking a man unless hes at least 6ft and built like a marvel superhero. women aint concerned with the normal physical characteristics of men, they want and demand only the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:24 AM
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This is cap, women can fuck multiple times within a day if the dude is attractive. Women's sex drive is superior to the male sex drive when around men that they like. I've been with women who would NOT allow me to fall asleep next to them for more than a couple of hours without waking me up to fuck again. I live in Japan, a very conservative country and people. There are "love hotels" almost everywhere except in the countryside areas. Professional women, housewives, you name it have extremely hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:08 AM
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The only information that has the primary impact on a man's results is his height and face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:09 PM
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Most women will put effort into dudes based on how handsome he is or isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:07 PM
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its not hard to court women, they make it hard if the dude isnt handsome
/r/MensRights25/06/23 06:58 PM
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guys who may be undesirable in a western country should indeed seek for someone abroad. i dont see anything wrong with it. its better to be appreciated and/or tolerated for the benefits you provide than to be disliked and rejected for not being tall and handsome enough. its not good to give such a small population of women so much power over the years of life you have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:47 PM
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hmm I think, prettier girls compare me to average so they don't view me as harshly. I don't look so bad when compared to average or normal the less pretty ones compare me to athletes and rappers so there's no way I'd match up. I recognize it might just be because of where I live but I literally get complained about for not being super tall and having huge muscles almost always from average or below average women prettier ones just enjoy me for the moment and keep it pleasant usually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:18 PM
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I kinda agree for a different reason. Going for the more "attractive" ones in my experience are usually less rude and dramatic about saying no if they do happen to say no. If I'm going to take a risk and approach, the better looking ones handle it better and interactions with them tended to be more positive The average, and not so attractive women did the most, over the top or outright ignoring. Also some would just laugh in my face. Another factor is that many of the less beautiful ones would r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:16 PM
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I wouldn't talk about it, but if you happen to be in a relationship with her she'll pick up on it. women are not socialized to deal with male issues. It's something a lot of women say that they want to see but cringe when it actually comes out. Usually women don't like advice from men because our perspective is outside of their world. They call it mansplaining, so in like manner what advice can a woman realistically give you for your internal issues as a man? Uncertainty, and doubt in men turns …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:48 AM
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Lol have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:39 AM
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Lol you missing the point. Its fine to be picky, just be honest about the terms in which you're willing to engage. If I claim that I "don't" like small talk, I need to be consistent about that. If someone who intrigues me approaches me for small talk and I happily participate and forget about my little "rule", that means that small talk ain't the problem in the first place. If you're picky, then stand on it lol. There's no shame in it. But don't say you dislike "social interaction" , be clear an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:56 AM
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Both sexes view the other sex as "winning" in an adversarial context. Men think that because women can have easy casual sex, she should be able to gain commitment and a fulfilling life. Women are the gate keeper to sex, and men view control over sex akin to power over life and death. Women take losses when they encounter "attractive" men whom they are not able to get commitment from. So they view men as a whole to be liars and players rather than realizing that women are mostly interested in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:35 PM
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Yeah most ppl will lose in the end. Average guys take a landslide defeat, and women run out of time on the shot clock
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:53 PM
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Women have to take the loss as well, they're aren't enough tall and handsome guys to distribute across all women. Not all women have the looks or game to get a top tier guy to willingly commit. Most women actually don't have game or a good enough level of conversation to convince someone to be with them long term without using guilt, ultimatums, or sex. Regular guys don't have to drop out of the market unless they want to or don't find anything that meets their own standards. Regular guys can st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:43 PM
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Women aren't forced to settle but most of them will be forced to take a loss when pursuing "high value" men so it all balances out in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:31 PM
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My confidence comes from what I've seen, what I've experienced, and what I've endured. All those factors build your character as man. I can stand on my square front of anyone. Other people have nothing to do with it, and other people can't tell me shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:23 PM
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I agree and disagree at the same time. Yeah if a dude in a western country doesn't live up to the standards he will most likely be left behind. But make no mistake, women in like manner are taking their losses but it's on the backend that we don't see. Women get humbled all the time by the type of men that can easily swap them out and replace them. They get kicked out after sex. Messages left on read, only get called at 2:44am to come over and fuck etc Not all women are winning. Only a very smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:07 PM
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They know men in general are gonna hit on them but they only "accept" it from the handsome dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:51 PM
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most women have been and will always be attracted to and aroused by tall and handsome dudes. its unchanging, women may end up with less than their ideal partner but thats after they give up on chasing the “upper” tier of men. its futile to try and explain how unrealistic you may feel women are being. most women are willing to sink with the ship on this. attractive men and unattractive men are like two different species in a womens eyes. id never encourage women to lower their standards because w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:08 AM
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I'm talking about any woman who repeatedly gets upset about not being able to get commitment from a guy they're fixated on. at the end of the day they're most likely not going to change as long as they get to sleep with guys above their level from time to time. Women think the willingness of a man to have sex with her runs in tandem with the willingness of that same man to commit to her. Women like this will bring nothing but toxicity and disrespect to a "regular" guy that she feels she has to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:30 PM
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Women will fumble a situation with a man who provides a 200k lifestyle for the tall and handsome dude who push carts at Walmart. I'm telling you, money doesn't make women attracted, it makes them see you as a trick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:38 AM
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Online dating made looks and status more important than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:26 AM
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im glad women dont lower their standards. its better that they chase what they want rather than “settle” for a regular guy and make him miserable because he isnt her ideal. being around a woman thats lowkey mad at me for not being as tall and handsome as she prefers will degrade my health and sanity. leave these carcinogenic hoes alone, and look for a real woman that is not chasing clout, trying to be cute, and racking up body counts like league of legends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:51 AM
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women are, and will always take their losses on the backend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:27 PM
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I get the opposite reaction, women I come across complain about me not being like Zion Williamson
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:46 PM
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The mans first mistake was not standing on business and letting her know what he wanted from the jump. Its okay to make this mistake a few times but after that the blame is on you. You don’t need to stay in the friendship but you should be reflecting on what lead to this result. Id rather women think im toxic than see me as a “male” friend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:38 PM
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That's what I mean when I said attraction. Without that attraction, the likelihood of anything going beyond that is low. Maybe I didn't articulate it clearly but I didn't mean for the guy to go up to a random girl and ask for a relationship, although it does work on some women. Sorry it came off that way. What I mean is that when I meet you from the first interaction, I'm going to check your temperature so to speak to gage if there is attraction or not. I'd ask if you're down to link up/get a dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:16 PM
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Yeah so with that risk, he should be clear about how he feels. It only takes you a second to know if your attracted or not. Hanging out with you on the hopes that one day you'll grant clearance for things to go beyond platonic friends is too much of a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:29 PM
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They'll call it harassment if you are far below what they are attracted to... So I get that to a degree. I'd rather have a woman think I move too fast than to see me as a platonic npc. If they aren't down to link up with you or date just move on the next one. You are saving yourself so much time and headache
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:36 AM
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Those guys end up in that situation because they don't say what they're looking for from the beginning. Women don't respect that, and there's no way of explaining it that's going to make them respect it. It benefits men to be direct from the beginning as well. If you're too scared to ask for a relationship or a hookup then expect to end up in "friendzone" situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:15 AM
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Yeah contributing back then was at least something tangible. Nowadays women want someone who looks like a man but he doesn't have to do anything beyond being the tall/handsome guy that she can parade around with her. If a dude is tall and handsome, women will go out and hunt the deer, bring it back, and cook it for both of them to eat.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 12:06 AM
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For most women yeah, if you not tall and handsome they'd rather you go die somewhere
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 03:48 AM
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Someone who's nice and happy at the level theyre at.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 01:31 PM
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this is the gospel truth, ugly men make women sick
/r/AllPillDebate05/03/23 03:41 PM
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women are dirt bags
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:40 PM
1

hey man thanks to you and everyone else for replying to me, im 28 years old. it took me a very long time find my first job after years of applying after highschool. i had worked at stage coach company (just cleaning tour busses) that i discovered was shady after a few months(ended up not getting paid for a month of salary) so i had to leave and file a complaint. During this time i was taking courses at community college here and there. i should have finished it a long time ago, but i felt like t…
/r/MGTOW26/07/18 09:07 PM
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A more suitable answer than complaining about other people complaining.
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 01:12 PM
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OP is 100 % accurate with this one. status will let a man with unattractive physical features, little money, and not so great personality get into relationships /fwb with women. A woman scans your social value against other men that she has come in contact with. Most relationships between men and women ultimately fail but if a woman sees you as low status she won't even give a potential relationship with you a chance to fail.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 04:45 AM
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The answer is not only "no" but hell no haha.
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 06:08 PM
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this is very common and very accurate lol. it's like high school again and if you aren't liked socially it could at worst cost you you're job reputation. Hr department is probably not going to have your back on this kind of stuff, they'd probably ask why you don't want to hold the baby haha. Congrats on landing the job though.
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 05:53 PM
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wow yeah I see u make sense, the rsd stuff is a more abstract. How long has it taken you to get results u wanted?
/r/seduction22/06/18 03:09 PM
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ah yeah here and there, mostly just watching the rsd material on YouTube but like you said I almost never try to start any communication... there are times when a woman will talk to me but I never know how to turn it into something more.
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:36 PM
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most of the time yeah I don't try to open on anyone however I've been at this for the past 3 months so when I go out now people will usually speak to me or invite me to chill at their table with them. I've at least gotten rid of the type of vibe that makes people not want to interact with me lol. but as far as trying to approach women I feel it's set up for me to fail on that
/r/seduction22/06/18 07:32 AM
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never done it during the day actually, I get way more nervous. it would probably help overall tho lol. too many mental barriers
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:37 PM
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I been going out by myself for the last 3 months for at least twice a week to practice my social skills and the clubs and bars but I been struggling with it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:39 PM
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wow man that is awesome, I hope I get to that point eventually
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:15 AM
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My club experience last night was horrible, it's 7am and I can't sleep. Still thinking about it lol. learning curve is too steep
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:05 PM
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Yeah that's true, I'm actually on the way to a club now. I don't how I can raise the confidence level without the experience to enforce it. I'm not giving up tho lol
/r/seduction17/06/18 03:19 AM
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women are extremely flakey and will change their minds on a minute to minute basis. she is focusing on another guy, it really sucks but eventually you will become just as indifferent as them if you continue your search. ignore what she says and pay attention to how she acts
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:13 AM
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yes and no, some see it as a turn off of course. however there are others that see it as an opportunity to have control over you, as they feel like since you lack experience you wont cheat or be *able* to upgrade for someone else. be careful of those types. you may need to deal with them to get your initial experiences with women built up but that will be used against you later. once youve graduated so to speak you can move on lol. the less a woman knows about your past the better
/r/seduction08/06/18 10:42 AM
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wow dude congratulations. that's really awesome actually
/r/seduction03/06/18 07:19 PM
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