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We evolved to die in higher numbers than women. Wars are down, things are safer. The increase in self deletion is nature trying to correct what our evolved minds keep getting us past. I mean for generations large chunks of men accidentally did it trying to prove they were tough, get a rush, or the fact that the military has always welcomed unwanted sons . The whole things being safer and food being plentiful is doing a number on women's brains too.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 03:18 AM
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Most of this sub is upset because they would marry a woman making significantly less and the article is written in such a way that it's ridiculous woman would even consider dating a man that makes less, much less significantly less. Not that anyone is considering that society is so fucked right now kids in school would be judged less harshly for being raised by a single mom and absent father than they would be to have a father that made less or God forbid a stay at home parent.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 02:21 AM
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It says very very clearly in the article they when they can't find high earning college grads because of the shrinking pool they go for the high earning non college grads as a second pick. I mean the article doesn't say they are looking for sugar daddies but it's very clear they aren't willing to date someone making significantly less.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 01:48 AM
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If you'd ever been to war, you'd rather not add women to an already bad situation. If they were drafted they should be completely separate from all men on any front line. Seen it too many times to many of the guys simp for wherever girls are there and put the rest of us at risk. Don't care if you downvote me. Yes it's not every man or even most but it's definitely too many. Some of the need these dudes feel is cultural, probably a little is biological but it's probably North of 20 will do stupid…
/r/MensRights12/07/26 06:54 PM
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I'm not giving up my seat just because you're a woman. The times I was alone with a small child on public transportation it was only women that would offer me their seat so I could more easily wrangle the child. Do with that what you will but I'll definitely give up my seat to might child wrangling easier regardless of parents gender.
/r/MensRights12/07/26 04:39 PM
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In the blue collar world where you're working in the actual heat I rarely even see a woman. When I do it's a very rare occasion she's performing at the level of an average man. So I guess yeah men are higher income and can afford ac at home but we're more likely to be hot earning it
/r/MensRights09/07/26 05:03 PM
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I'm telling you the economic situation is getting progressively worse and it will get to the point where the reason they are going to have to step up well be because they can't be stepped on and pushed down any further. Of course society isn't giving them a reason to step up. It wants them pushed down. It will eventually get so bad all these guys are doing in life will be going to work so they can come home to a closet with a bathroom, fridge, bed, alcohol, and possibly and video game console. T…
/r/MensRights09/07/26 04:21 PM
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You missed my point. They aren't going to get the option to not step up. Every generation has had it worse since the boomers became hell bent on destroying the society they were handed. At most you're going to get 2 more generations but probably this one. You're making this too much about dating. That's why I specifically why I said Blair Mountain. Bunch of guys checked out. Saw they were getting a raw deal but they didn't stop at checking out. They also said we aren't doing this shit and nobody…
/r/MensRights09/07/26 03:18 PM
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I feel really bad for the guys without Father's. I picked up most of the traditionally manly things I can do from coaches, the military, and my union apprenticeship and I'm not sure I could have handled the military without my coaches and I'm not sure I could have got by in my apprenticeship without the military toughening me up and giving my a little credit when a manly skill missed over. I coached my kid when younger and helped with his scout stuff a lot. I like to think I gave a few of those …
/r/MensRights09/07/26 01:14 PM
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It's also for children. Seeing a man upset seems to upset them much more than seeing a woman upset. Children just naturally expect men to be composed and in control and if we're being honest men are hard on each other for it to. Hate it all you want it's better for you not to have emotions in front of anyone.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 02:46 AM
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The more money you have, the more rights you have. That's why it matters. Money and connections exempt you from the restrictions average men face..
/r/MensRights07/06/26 06:25 PM
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There have been like 5 articles in the last 3 days that I'm pretty sure are from Russian bots that wanna pretend Ukraine is the only one drafting men. My problem isn't the fight for no single gender conscription. My problem is with the Russian bots acting like it's one sided and Russia isn't throwing prisoners on the front lines. Patton was right they should have just kept going east after Berlin. All of this is Trumans fault.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 05:43 PM
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Mod posted an npr link and pinned it. If you re read the article though.... The better question isn't why these new jobs went to women it's more like why aren't men going into nursing and other healthcare. It's newly created jobs not vacancy filing because of retirement or someone quit style jobs.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 02:25 AM
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Why does everyone on this sub act like draft age Russian men are just free to come and go as the please. It's like it's all Ukraines fault in this echo chamber. Like they are the evil aggressor and Russia is defending itself with all volunteers
/r/MensRights06/06/26 11:01 PM
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Playing devil's advocate. Served with women, served with all male units. Guess which unit I trusted my life in me. Guess which group got more done. Now guess which group had all these distractions and drama.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:17 AM
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If the men in my union stopped taking for 24 hours the economy would crash to a halt. Thats why Biden threatened to jail us if we strike. Can't wait to piss on his grave.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 01:22 AM
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What am I wrong about, Trump literally got elected because she because so many people hate groups of immigrant men. He's definitely not going after the passport wives. Feminists at least call themselves it for not being on the same page. I run a pretty liberal Facebook page so I'm constantly getting faux news adjacent feeds. The number of people posting male refuge pictures and calling them invaders . It the memes with beautiful Ukrainian and Asian women captioned that if those were the refugees…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 08:10 PM
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I'm all about men's rights but are you guys that keep posting this stuff like never around like average, blue collar men. Women coming over, breeding stock. Children with her, need a father. Men coming over, "competing for jobs and breeding stock." You wanna change this over you gonna have to get the men on board before we blame women on this one. You dump a bunch of Ukrainian or Latin American women in a town with no men, restaurants are booked up, flower shops are sold out. You dump a bunch of…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 02:40 AM
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The wnba is one career ending Caitlin Clark injury away from losing those record attendance/viewers. One women can't carry the league forever.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 04:20 AM
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They need to do the same with soccer. Smaller field, smaller ball, smaller goal. Probably less restrictions on the subs as well
/r/MensRights19/03/26 04:17 AM
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On my end women's sports aren't usually as fun to watch because they are playing men's sports. I like softball. Bigger ball, smaller field less innings. Much prefer watching women play softball vs baseball. Imagine how much better women's soccer would be on a smaller field with a smaller ball and smaller goals. I'd keep the basketball court the same size but again smaller ball and shorter goals. I watched my son and 3 of his friends take on the entire starting 11 on the girls soccer team. They w…
/r/MensRights19/03/26 04:15 AM
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If women watched women's sports and attended women's sporting events in the same numbers that men supported women's sports all women's sports would get the prime time slots. They want women to get equal pay without having to actually support them. Imagine being a straight dude trying to run a make up tutorial page or knitting. It can be done but is anyone in here find get mad when the dude fails to earn what the women are because men aren't supporting him and neither are when?
/r/MensRights19/03/26 01:40 AM
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Both parties are currently pitting workers against each other and have been for centuries. Sexism is their new racism. When blacks and whites against each other quit working they brought in Hispanics and they've always been poking the feminist bear to break up a solidarity block. Just because you personally may not be affected by corporate propaganda shouldn't mean that you aren't intelligent enough to see that the majority of every group is falling for it. Took me a while to wake up. That's why…
/r/MensRights15/03/26 04:32 PM
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Thought that was my point was why legislate it but a business providing more female toilets wouldn't automatically lead me to a boycott. Women sit down every time and deal with menstruation in there. Those are biological differences. It takes them longer even if they don't mess with their makeup in there. I really don't think I'm 2026 anyone in the western world is purposely discriminating against women in bathrooms.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 08:51 PM
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I'm with you for the most part, private businesses should be able to factor in traffic flow to an extent. The wife and I would take our son to the movies with equal toilets and still have to wait on her because the women's were backed up We'd go to sporting events, still have to wait on her because equal toilets, women's were backed up despite the mostly male audience. The 50% required female with no male requirements is sexiest but having more for when is common since. Traffic flows and biologi…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:07 PM
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If they've monotized this they know exactly how the world works. The people buying into it on the other hand.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 01:16 AM
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Honestly that's what's wrong with a lot of men now. Someone should have taken them seriously as children, someone should have protected them then.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 06:51 PM
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I don't think some of the angrier young ones in here really get it. It's like if our home were invaded I expect the wife to run with the kids. I'm bigger, stronger, faster. I stand a better chance I'll buy the most time till my kids are safe. As long as one of us is alive they stand a chance. Plus like come on till they are teens they aren't likely to summon help and definitely not as effectively. People don't take kids seriously. If it's just me and her, she'd fight with me I'm confident.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 03:03 AM
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Dude I grew up in Dixie where gender roles are strong. I assure you that women would also be expected to defend children with their lives. I guess that puts her one step below the man because he should defend her if around, while she ran off with the children, while he bought her time. Children should be protected because they can't protect themselves.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 10:30 PM
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White men are angry. I know it won't be done right but the class could be based on the description. You give half the guys that post on here the same class with the same mission statement listed on the article, it's what we're talking about.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 10:02 PM
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Some of its just uniformed. I managed a bar in college. Girls got free or reduced covers. We made more money when there were more females than males. A little less than 2 girls for every guy meant more money. Most of that money came from men buying them drinks. They really might not know how much it costs. Also charged higher covers to uglier or creepy looking guys. Too many of them made the women leave. Sometimes men are also men's worst problem but I worked on commission.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 10:06 PM
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There needs to be some exceptions. My father and other siblings are in agreement that my brother should be paying child support. We are also in agreement that he shouldn't be around his children unsupervised. Ex sister in law has never tried to keep my niblings from Mom and Dad. I pick them up randomly because my kids similar in age. Bro just snapped one day. Couldn't handle the responsibility anymore and ran off. Sometimes the courts are unfair to men. Sometimes the men are like my brother.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 04:12 PM
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First off people are celebrating, including fairly feminist pages on Facebook and 2 the media is trying to keep from making this guy a hero like they did Luigi.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 11:50 PM
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Got a buddy that got out of physical therapy because everywhere he went the one thing the women seemed to have in common was none of them wanted him around.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 02:38 AM
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The parent comment you're replying to from me specifically says I support a ban on circumcision's for anything reason other than medical necessity. My entire complaint is I want to make sure that any law passed leaves room for medical necessity so young men have to go through a bunch of hoops when they are already having to deal with something that is uncomfortable for any minor to talk about with their parents. I brought women into this specifically because they are having issues with bullshit …
/r/MensRights28/07/25 03:37 PM
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Bruh it happens. I get that you hate women. I'm telling you if a doctor being tangled up in red tape from a law written stupidly it can hurt women it will also hurt men. I work in emergency medicine. Its not like I'm a doctor but i fully understand exactly what's happening every time one of these women die because doctors are afraid to act. If my son needs something multiple doctors believe is the best standard of care laws shouldn't tie their hands. Shouldn't have to worry about a daughter eith…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 02:17 PM
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Why not just boycott Apple?
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:36 AM
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Tell that to chicks dying because their pregnancy couldn't get ended. I understand that is also a very small minority but just from recent experience if you aren't expressly clear people are gonna suffer. Doctors aren't gonna do shit if they think they'll get sued.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 12:33 PM
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Add the word elective and you've got my vote. I really hate to tie a doctor's hands if they think it's medically necessary and some men do need them. Granted the number is very low but I really don't want some 16 year old suffering.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 07:53 PM
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There is one Male barber in my town. That's where I go. Dude built his shop up to look like a garage. If its slow we play guitar. Place is all locker room talk. Moms don't usually bring their sons in there. If they do they usually sit outside because the vide obviously changes. My doctors a dude. Guys super athletic. Runs marathons. We train together occasionally. Been taking my kid to him since pre teens. Guy come watches my kids college games. I very much prefer to have a male bartender. The c…
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:17 PM
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The real question is do I trust my government to ban speech and free association? Trust it'll backfire.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 02:39 AM
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Hate that the world is so messed up your time off makes me a little jealous. I got 3 days. Then didn't see the kid for 6 months.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 02:48 AM
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The military still isn't having any of the long hair. Starting to look like a lot of guys are about to have to get a cut
/r/MensRights24/06/25 08:13 PM
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Have we considered that despite increased productivity per worker pay per worker has dropped to the point that one person can not provide for a family alone and that is a problem. We work that out and some of the other problems will go away. The whole feminism movement always had corporate propaganda machines behind it to get women in the workforce full time so someone state approved could raise the children.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:59 AM
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I'm doing pretty good now honestly. A lot of men, probably some women and kids too paid the price for how I'm doing. I try not to think about it most days. Most men's rights issues are economic ones one way or the other. I think a lot of guys on here don't want to see it that way but it's true. Best way for the few families that run this planet to keep their power is to keep men too busy or too low in number to cause problems. War usually achieves both those. I mean seriously the arguments you g…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:54 AM
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It paid for my college and made me an atheist. I really hope I don't have to send a son to one. Military preys on desperate, broke, and option less men. The few real patriots that had another option are usually the ones that get the really bad PTSD in my existence. The ones that didn't really have a choice, we were broken enough already, not as much of a change. It's usually the best men that end up getting gunned down. The strongest, the bravest. Especially in a war with a draft it's the weak, …
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:35 AM
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I'm unsure how saying he moved on too early would make it ok if a woman did it. One of the biggest arguments I try to make on here is that we fail men and women when they are boys and girls. We as in humanity, both genders. It's especially bad with boys though. Boys naturally push away in the teen years. Push their independence, act like they don't need you. Girls get coddled a lot more which creates its own problems but boys by and large aren't getting enough attention and a lot of it is becaus…
/r/MensRights22/06/25 05:04 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/4ApAr2YuTr Front page of the sub. The comments sections all over this sub r/daddit and r/parenting are full of it bruh. There are plenty of dudes getting fucked over. There are also plenty of dudes checking out and pretending they are the victim. You got plenty of shitty women. You've also got plenty of shitty dudes But for the specific comment we are talking about do you mean to tell me that a parent of either gender can in less than a year work 2 children …
/r/MensRights22/06/25 02:55 AM
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If it came off that way the point I was really trying to make is that people giving the advice of get out there and talk really don't understand why it's so hard for people that can't. People that are naturally talented in one area often fail to understand why others struggle. Was kinda hoping anyone that read that would take it differently than how you read it. The fault is probably mine for not writing it better It's hard for most people to socialize. Those that do it well do not understand wh…
/r/MensRights22/06/25 01:09 AM
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Tried scuba? Seems to be a pretty large coed group in my area that are into it and they take yearly trips to do reef conservation or just pleasure dives. Depending on your level of disability you can probably pass a scuba swim test?
/r/MensRights22/06/25 12:56 AM
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Do you have any social hobbies? Like I'm not making fun of your passion or anything. That one doesn't exactly scream let's all hang out at my place. Or let's go out and talk about this as a group regularly. Like I got a buddy that breads and trains blue tick coon dogs. It was amazing the amount of girls that would just leave the bar and go with a group of men to after party at this guys random farm in the middle of nowhere so they could play with the dogs. Got the feeling they aren't as fond of …
/r/MensRights22/06/25 12:01 AM
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So are your hobbies weird ones? Like most hobbies of my activities if you can talk to the guys there you can talk to the girls. Even like randoms I'll end up duck hunting with cause we'll I'll meet new people at the duck club during shoots, someone is always setting someone up with a sister or a wives divorced friend or something. Like are your hobbies something that gives them the ick. Like for whatever reason if I were to spend the amount of time playing I video game I spend fishing, hunting, …
/r/MensRights21/06/25 10:37 PM
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What I really learned from this is we need more labor unions in America
/r/MensRights21/06/25 09:49 PM
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I'm not defending the system I'm defending why you're getting the advice in the first place. I was also very clear to only list interactions with men in my example. Society won't change enough in your lifetime. You're going to be miserable if you can't navigate it and the people who could best teach you don't understand your problem. You'll never pull off cold approaching women until you can cold approach men. You're going to have shit luck with women in a whole if you can't make and maintain ma…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 09:26 PM
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I golf with a couple of guys I met because I was helping my kid do community service for his highschool soccer team. They were grilling Boston butts at the booth next to the soccer teams. The group of dudes my age I jog with had been running together for years. Just noticed they were meeting up and jumped in. Now we have beers after jogging on Saturdays. I went bow fishing the first time because I was sitting next to someone at the BMV who was trying to get new stickers for for boat. We still go…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:34 PM
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I know the 2 things holding this sub back from focusing on legitimate men's issues is their refusal to accept that no matter how bad a mother can be it does not excuse them from checking out on their children and that 30 hours a week video game time isn't "legitimate me time" and is in fact an addiction. Like seriously how are you supposed to argue in advocacy for the overlooked make victims of CSA or physical abuse in general, argue against male genital mutilation, and at the same time try to a…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 08:07 PM
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When you have a child you have brought someone into this world that didn't ask to be here. You owe a debt to your children until they are old enough to be self sufficient. When you' decide to be a father your wants and needs take a back seat to what your children want or need. Anyone that disagrees is probably a shit parent or has only seen shit parents as roll models. If the kids were grown I'd revisit my comment but it is ridiculous anyone would defend a parent moving on that quickly without c…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 06:10 PM
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That comment you down voted, dude lost his wife, had kids at home, and remarried in less than a year. Then invites his late wife's family to the funeral. I kinda gotta side with her. That's pretty fast to move on while you have kids at home who's mother died less than a year ago. If you're looking for issues where men are facing some real discrimination there are plenty. You can do better than this. Women generally tear each other apart for moving on so quick as well. Also it probably was pretty…
/r/MensRights21/06/25 05:40 PM
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Id say they are much more likely to use this little loophole to deny unmarried men and women with fertility drugs. This particular way of fucking up veterans benefits is a trump one. Don't get me wrong it's gonna fuck over way more men than women because more men are eligible but they are definitely gonna make sure poor veterans of both genders suffer.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 08:40 PM
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What kids are still in school in the middle of June? Like our schools been out for weeks. I've never got a father's Day gift made at my kids school because they are out several weeks before father's Day.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 12:23 AM
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From what I read online I know my experience isn't the norm but my kids school did a bang up job of encouraging positive masculinity. Lots of male teachers. Not just there to coach. Most do coach but they are teaching your high level ap dual credit classes. Several teachers played college sports. They encourage the boys to be leaders. Valedictorians and top 10 in general seem to tend male slightly. If a boy wants a captain's letter they will be the stereotypical 1960's sitcom boy that's encourag…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 03:44 PM
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Idk man the kids I came across in the sandbox definitely felt more vulnerable than me and my buddies. They were either unarmed and innocent or they were armed, brainwashed, and either gonna be killed by us or them. There is a big difference in the vulnerability of a child under 15 and myself at 19. Been there, done that, got my college paid for. I've seen it. I'll side with men that women are just as equal and capable of serving and fighting for their country but you lose my support when you sta…
/r/MensRights01/06/25 03:42 AM
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I don't remember it being that bad so I asked my son because it seems like every time we go to visit him he's got a different girl waiting for him after his games. Honestly I've given up trying to remember the names. All the guys in his frat seemed to be doing well last alumni week when I went to visit. Is the problem regional, is our area isolated from a global problem. Like I wear a wedding ring and I've had to turn down a handfull if women this year. Even had to turn down a few college girls …
/r/MensRights01/06/25 03:10 AM
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The other 2/3rds were too afraid to answer honestly for fear of repercussions if their true thoughts were leaked.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 04:10 AM
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It's not just wars, increases vehicle safety standards have also helped increase the population of adult men. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. It leads to risk taking behavior. Even with out wars we'll find a way to kill ourselves at higher rates than women.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:43 PM
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You're so bitter at women it's like you can't see that 2 things can be wrong.
/r/MensRights02/05/25 01:36 AM
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Wouldn't fault a man or woman for giving a baby up for adoption. Being able to walk away from a child you've raised and claimed to love for years on the other hand is very different. Says a lot about the character of a person that could do that regardless of external factors. I've seen a few women abandon their children on the father. The men and women are pretty hard on the chicks that do it. It's usually just men that are trying to bang her that cut her some slack. Even in the echo chamber Red…
/r/MensRights01/05/25 04:02 PM
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Seen a lot of men dump their bio kids because the mom was too difficult to deal with. Says a lot about those men. It's usually that they care more about a partner than their child.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 09:40 PM
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I never said the woman shouldn't be punished, or the hospital in your example but if the hospital switched my kid and I found out 10 years later I wouldn't want to give the kid back.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 09:38 PM
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Does say a lot about a man if he could think a child was his for years and then just walk away from it. I couldn't abandon my cat and I know I'm not her father. Like I get wanting Mom punished. I get no child support to fund her life style but to abandon someone after years. Probably never loved them anyway
/r/MensRights30/04/25 07:31 PM
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They are going to use the same system they have always used because this is not the first time it's happened. WW3 is right around the corner. You're either going to war or going to jail. The guys lucky enough to come back are going to be in higher demand because the ratio of women to men will be in men's favor and things will get better for a few decades. Men rarely stand together. That's why the system works so well.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 06:56 PM
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I'm going to explain this hard truth to you now so you're not surprised or disappointed later. As long as your sister doesn't mind showing men attention she will always have food, clothes, and a place to sleep. You on the other hand will freeze or starve to death homeless unless you learn to work or you find a man that wants your attention. You are a man. It is highly unlikely anyone will take care of you and you're going to have to accept being on your own. It sucks but that is the world.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 02:42 AM
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You said mythically when the correct word is literally.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 12:30 PM
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Was talking to some other parents once and apparently girl scouts is what the moms in the troop put into it. Like some of the girl scout troops do awesome epic stuff but most don't because the women that run it can't. Men, even fathers helping with girlscout stuff are so scrutinized and watched over they are nervous just being there. That makes them act nervous, makes them not want to be there. Then they quit trying all together. Arguably boy scouts should have watched the leaders a little bette…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 09:07 PM
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I love the food. You don't have Drill Sargeant in the navy you have RDC's. They weren't nice but they weren't mean just to be mean either. It was respect. You knew who was in charge but there was never a they were better than us. It was more of a we were gonna be great like them. My head RDC wore a seal pin. He did most workouts with us. 5'7 Filipino. Out of 90 he never wasn't top 5 in runs. He never got beat in push ups or sit ups to my knowledge. They punished us for failure. They didn't work …
/r/MensRights05/08/24 02:36 PM
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God of the Sea banged her. Couldn't have been that ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:56 PM
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hazing, and bullying, among other things If you were getting hazed and bullied by other recruits you probably weren't going to make it as an enlisted or as an officer candidate anyway. It's not a knock on you though. There is kind of a fitting in you have to be able to do. An ability to be accepted by a group of guys that fits into that environment well. Not to say you're not a great guy. Maybe it's just not for you. Think back to Hacksaw Ridge. Mel Gibson threw interviews in of men who actually…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 12:52 PM
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Speak for yourself. I went on a deployment, came back, the dog was then my wife's. She still loved me but the bond was lost. Then again the wife bonded with the dog and not Jody so.. . You win some you lose some.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 06:48 PM
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Because everyone that brings up this topic acts like it's only Ukraine drafting men. Russia is doing it too Russia is forcing conscripts to invade a foreign nation Ukraine is in emergency mode. It's a war zone. Yeah they are making mistakes but at any time Puttin could literally end all of it by stopping and you phrase your entire post like it's Ukraines fault for what's happening to it. Like they should just let Russia invade. Men will be treated worse under Puttin and honestly the more they wh…
/r/MensRights01/06/24 06:48 PM
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Potatoes are just as healthy as rice. Unless you're body building and trying to super cut Potatoes are just as healthy as rice. You're taking keto to an extreme with the lifts bruh. Like when you say things like a healthy food like potatoes is comparable to a donut it makes us question your whole post. Potatoes have less calories than rice and these girls aren't trying to pack on muscle. They can literally have chicken and an even larger amount of mashed potatoes than rice by volume and come out…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:05 AM
0

Don't we want women carring more about women's sports? Isn't this a way to help achieve some of our goals? Maybe we shouldn't criticize and just let it happen.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 07:23 PM
2

Uniforms!
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:30 PM
1

Girls who don’t get to be as rambunctious or free in their actions Maybe it's a class thing but my little sister was encouraged to be just as rowdy as the boys. Especially by the old women. They sayings would change but my sister is tiny and in trick runs it was easy for me to fling her up into the saddle from her standing while at a gallop. Old lady's would say "Nobody gonna break that mare." I had at least 60lbs on my sister and I was on the smaller side. Nobody was gonna beat her barrel times…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:40 AM

My dad has shoulder length long hair and is covered in Tats. Looks like an aged 80's hair band member. No hair line recession. I'm 40 and keep mine short but again no recession in my hair line. Most of the guys I went to school with have all their hair. I moved to the Midwest and a good chunk of these guys are balding in their 20's. It's like 2/5 are missing huge chunks by early 30's. With even more in their 40's. I think it's regional in the states. Most of the guys here claim Dutch and German …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:00 AM
2

Just my two cents but it seems like sports hit scouts harder than gaming. I've got a 17yr old I constantly hear yelling in a headset but he made Eagle. He wanted it for college. Then he never really went back. He's on 3 varsity sports. No time for it in the fall and in the spring he's still tired from track by the meetings then homework. Plus car means girls, job to pay for the car and such. Happened to a lot of the kids if they weren't close enough to get Eagle before or soon after their 16th b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:59 AM
2

I don't think you understand den mothers or the old boy scout structure in general. Dens are for cub scouts 1st-5th grade. Young Boys. The den mother made cookies for the kids and usually ran the show in most cases because well young kids and men just didn't take care of young kids back then. They go to troops 6th grade till age out at 18yrs old. That's when the predator problem really came in. It was both "isolated and prevalent!" The terms sound contradictory so let me explain. It was isolated…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:42 AM
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I don't think you understand den mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:13 AM
2

We went to one winter camp that did it pretty well. They kept the girls so far away we barley saw them despite using the same spaces. I mean occasionally you'd see a pink snow suit in the distance. If we were using a space directly after or before we usually entered and excited from different directions and time management was spot on. We never got close enough where it affected the dynamics. I think some of it was covid where they had to keep groups separate but it was still the ideal co gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:49 AM
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Of course it's just my opinion from my own personal experience but the girls aren't the problem. It's the v boys reaction to them. The girl scouts teach girls to be more outspoken and be leaders in separation of boys because girls get meek so often in front of boys. It's mostly because societal expectations and hormones. Teaching the girls to self advocate and stand up for themselves in the absence of boys later translates to doing it in front of them Boys are the same but different. They have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:41 AM
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Simple answer is it doesn't every boy. Some need it. They definitely aren't out there being the big brother type. Learning how to be a father when the girls are there. They are too busy trying to impress the girls. Instead of teaching the 12yr Olds perfect swim strokes to make them faster or helping them through a hard hike they are trying to impress the girls. Takes a much more active leadership role to get the same results. I didn't make their biology/psychology. I mean some still do these thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:54 PM
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I could make the argument that boys need a place to go. Away from girls to just learn how to be around other boys. My kid was about to get Eagle when they started letting girls go to camp and things changed. Scouts isn't like sports. The boys are encouraged to take leadership positions. To train the younger boys. To teach them and help them grow. Boys that would normally peacock trying to impress a girl are suddenly mentoring a boy that left on his I own will never impress a girl or do anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:43 AM

You mean a child born to a 1 percenter when I served with several men that were being shot at by terrorists the day their child was born. Kid will be there when the game is over. Yeah dudes job isn't important but he's being showered with millions of dollars for the privilege of playing a game that highschool and college kids are playing for free just to get a chance to be him. Kid won't know if he was there for the birth or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:57 AM

Everyone wanted to get mad at Vegeta for hanging around for his daughters birth. It was more because it inconvenienced them than any men's rights. The same goes here. If he'd been a cop or a factory work nobody would have blamed him. He's carrying fans hopes and dreams with his multi million dollar contract. Different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:23 PM
1

Is this a private school or a public. If it's a private school it should be up to them. Getting the government involved is how we got all the femnazi policies to begin with
/r/MensRights05/05/24 03:42 PM
1

If I've got an hour to prepare for the bear it's no threat and probably dinner. With the women I wouldn't have to worry about fighting it out till we've sorted the power structure but I would have to deal with the group nagging like they knew more then me about what to do to survive. Women group sounds the hardest. All seem survivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:47 AM
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I have no interest that can't be improved by my partner's involvement. That's kinda sweet. Not sure if I'm just a lot older than you or not though. I've been married nearly 20 years. We like having separate hobbies. Gives us something to talk about later. They sum it up really well on Kim's Convince if you've ever seen the show. The really enjoyed looking at the go pro footage from when me and my kid went dog sledding and I like hearing the stories from when she goes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:12 AM
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Your life sounds horrible. Do you not like boats, motorcycles, fishing trips? Like I mean do you and I'm glad you're cool with that simple of a life but me and the boys like to drive atvs too fast and smoke large cuts of meat. All the better if we hunted it first. These activities are usually completely independent of women. If anything these activities are better because our women don't like to participate. They aren't cheap though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:01 PM
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Sounds like the kid needs to experience life on his own
/r/MensRights04/05/24 12:40 PM
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That was an editing error. Should have been male; I meant it as a man in any of those professions with a male in them as opposed to "male nurse"
/r/MensRights04/05/24 11:13 AM
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Now this one's bull shit and ridiculous. If it was a male; nurse, cop, soldier, doctor, teacher profession is always mentioned. Because they are "serving or caring professions
/r/MensRights03/05/24 11:16 PM
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You not on any of this kids legal documents. We usually vote for the right politicians in my state so the laws are a little better for men so my experience might be different but here it's pretty damn hard for a woman to completely take a child from a guy if the kid has lived with him and he's signed some papers/ can show he took care of and raised the kid. They won't even grant a pregnant chick a divorce till she has the kid, no alimony. People really need to stop electing clowns.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:03 PM
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Again as replied to other comments on established trails and such you're right. I'm cross country treks and hunting trips I've stumbled upon pot farms and meth makers. Bear behavior is much more predictable than worst case human behavior.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 08:13 PM
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I grew up in bear country. I've jumped plenty of bear while hiking, hunting, fishing. I've never had a bear try to rob me. The bear will posture if it feels threatened but they are intelligent. They are aware I may have a gun. They know humans are usually pack animals. I believe they are aware that if I'm attacked more humans will come with a vengeance. Barring rabies or something a bear would prefer not to fight me. Now I've been jumped by dudes. I've gotten into it with plenty of men for no re…
/r/MensRights29/04/24 08:20 AM
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Mines more simple than that. My wife has protected me and my body from years of abuse is normally would have received. When I was single/dating. Before I had a wife and child depending on me there wasn't a bull I didn't think I could ride. There wasn't a bar fight I couldn't win. I drove my motorcycle too fast. We raced mountain roads often. That doesn't even cover the drugs. Besides being incredibly fun men do these wild behaviors in part to impress women. Once she locks you down she seems to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:56 AM

Equal effort won't mean Equal results in the way that a 5'6 man will not get an NBA contract with the same amount of practice time as a 7'1 man. I get that women can be the things I listed but there are also women body builders. There are women heavyweight fighters and those on the elite end could usually handle an average man. That doesn't make them normal or make boxing feminine. You watch survivor man. His entire behavior set is considered masculine. Not just his strength. Women and most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:36 PM
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Equal effort will not yield equal results. To add some philosophy and theory so you don't focus on all gym. Men are more visual. Women realize that we just see more. We observe more. We always apply this to when men gawk at Women but women are better at body language. They will see what your stare at but they are noticing you notice it. Not the thing you see. Take a girl hiking. Girls love to hike. They'll see a forest. Men will see deer tracks, squarel nests, rabbit holes. They love when you po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:40 PM
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Idk bruh my wide screams that shit constantly about if one of the pedos did that to her son with an irrational anger and is just as hard on any female predator as she is a male. If not worse because she has that deep seated since of clean your house loudly. Or maybe I just got a special snowflake. I mean I am partial to her but the other boy moms she's friends with really trash talk and demonize the women they prey on young boys. Maybe either I'm in an echo chamber or some of you are.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 07:07 PM
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Closer parking for a pregnant woman is a quite a bit different than women's only and when Babies R US has expecting mother parking we can't treat that the same as when the grocery store has gendered parking. I tolerate the pregos better because when I was wagging around small children rarely would a man hold a door or give up a bus seat but women would routinely. They aren't all the crazy fem nazis. Maybe I'm just too libertarian but it kinda rubs me the wrong way having the government tell babi…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 04:07 PM
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To claim some of the behaviors we would have labeled as toxiclly masculine before feminists abused and warped the term is misleading. Boys very often misuse acceptable masculine traits to Grey areas all the time and it's perfectly social and not even destructive to anyone but the victims. Girls also skew into toxic territory with their feminine traits. Girl bullying is just different and usually much less physical. Toxic masculinity is still a useful term in teaching a boy to be a man. When I'm …
/r/MensRights02/04/24 02:08 AM
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When I am at my child's events meeting new dads this is a common bonding question since you're stuck with each other all season. 1) Job 2)sports teams 3)Hobbies If I ask another man questions in that order I can usually find out in 3-5 minutes if we will be friends or just people that sit next to each other because each topic builds on skill sets and compatability things. Why would women be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:37 PM
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Did you not read the article linked bruh cause you're making men look bad. I'll sum it up. Dr is sucking out bone marrow. She then mixes it in a brine that mimics the inside of a testicle. The cells in the bone marrow become sperm. The initial experiment was tried with male bone marrow but would be easily repeated with female bone marrow. Female bone marrow can only make female sperm. The experiment can also be used for a woman to make her own sperm for her own egg. Women won't Even need women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:34 PM
1

Of my kids friends he brings over one of the most preferred is openly gay. That's really the only way I knew he was gay. Kids a total jock. Now they were going to a winter dance, my wife is taking photos of the boys and their dates, yeah the kid I said I only knew was gay because he admits it, I think the world would be shocked if his date were not gay. This kid is a walking stereotype. He is everything the media tells us a flamboyant gay is. I can't stress enough that this young man wasn't tryi…
/r/MensRights11/02/24 04:00 PM
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Been watching college tour videos with my son recently. The closest college to us has one on Amazon prime show. You look at a census of the city, or a racial/gender demographic breakdown of the school 1-2 out of every 5 kids in the background should be a white male. Not only did they not have a single straight passing white male in a speaking role, they made sure they weren't in the background. They also showed some of the women's sports and ignored the two men's sports that one conference title…
/r/MensRights10/02/24 02:43 PM
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Instead of talking about your junk when you explain why we man spread explain its a difference in hip shape and that it's more because men just aren't made to stay in that position even if the genitalia were removed. It's always helped me explain it and 1/3 of women I've used that on seem to accept it. Over half seem to actually consider it. If it was just junk I could adjust, at least at home. Set it on top of my thighs and keep the legs closed. Through extermination and research into hip shape…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 08:06 AM
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How'd you get title 9'd? Like what's the story there. Really sucks if you were just being awkward and nobody stood up for you. We had a kid that tutored some of us in school. I got through pre cal because of him and a few guys would have been unable to play sports if not for him. He was super weird for lack of a better term most of the time. They would label it somewhere on the spectrum now days. Kid damn near got expelled for a misunderstanding with a girl he thought he was clicking with. He ov…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 06:13 AM
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Me arguing that we should stop it in the moment, when we see it happening and you explaining why we are having to do it in the first place can both be correct answers. Ehh them again sometimes I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:36 AM
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I mean I get that could be part of some stigma but it's not what's getting gay bruhs dragged down gravel roads behind pickup trucks and I say that with the upmost support for the guys. As men we owe it to each other to police each other when we see one of us acting or if line. Would end a lot of the problems people have with gay men.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:00 AM
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I think you're over thinking this. Plenty of manly man war vets with stable jobs have been dragged behind pick up trucks and completely ostracized when their secret came out. Sometimes men are men's problems. Think about the most vocal of men gay hating men you've met. They generally also treat women like shit. Also any man they view as weak. Since they couldn't be in a coed changing room without eye fucking and probably light sexually assault to every woman in there they assume a gay man must h…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:29 AM
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Honestly I liked the military. They took so much of the responsibility off me mentally. Told me where to be when to be there what to wear. Used to hate fist fights. They made me do golden gloves every year because why not. With someone telling me to it really took the fear of fighting and the sadness that usually comes with hurting someone else away. Was very freeing but then again that's why I don't have ptsd. I can easily write off anything I did as just following orders. Same phase has been u…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 02:13 AM
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Depends on where you live too. I mean my wife kinda helps with farm chores but never anything my son wasn't doing more of and better at 8-10 years old. She's not an outside person. Between my salary and farm income minus expenses we pulled in slightly over 120k. My expenses are "assets" though. I could sell those in hard times. If I hadn't bought a tractor we'd have made more. We also farm mostly walnuts. I'm chop down some of the older trees and replant the area to pay for my kids college and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:01 PM
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I'd disagree. Frequency went down over the years but quality has improved dramatically. Our first time together was good don't get me wrong but after 20 years we are comfortable with each other in a way that either of us would likely be comfortable asking another person for even if at thought the likelihood of ever seeing that person again was high. There is a trust and comfort. A knowing how much is likely too far. Knowing when to ask and knowing when to keep going without having to ask. It's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:25 PM
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Posts like this are why people don't take us seriously when we talk about real issues. Plenty of chick's that didn't think dicks were particularly attractive have still sucked and fucked my dick. They are attracted to the male form and not the dick itself and that's OK. Women just aren't that visual Now ask a gay bro what he thinks about dicks. You'll get a different answer. Both groups are attracted to men. Both groups enjoy penis. Only one group overwhelming likes to look at penis though. It's…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:02 AM
2

A lot of dudes got there ass beat cause of this one slut I dated before I realized she was the problem. Glad I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:08 PM
1

I left on my last deployment for 3 months when my kid was a week old. So that was one of the perio at went over 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:17 PM
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I'll just go ahead and answer for you. Been married 18 years never went longer than 2 weeks without sex in that time unless you count the 2 times I was away for work. Yes a wife is much easier to have sex with than a stranger because you've already laid the ground work. Women need that emotional connection. That's why most girls don't bang the 100's of guys in their 20's they have the option to bang. As long as you're maintaining that connection it's like keeping air in your tires. You know basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:57 PM
2

Not in a long time. It's possible I cooked a narrative up in my head that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:36 PM
1

How's that make Gaston wrong? Bell was the only person in the town that didn't love him. He was the protector of the village. The villagers picked him for that. The only thing he did wrong was lose. He thought he was going to save a young girl from a monster that for all he knew was gonna start taking more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:57 PM
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Of cou they stormed his house. Her father comes into the sports bar he owns begging the greatest hunter in the region save his kidnapped daughter from a literal monster. I mean sure she wouldn't have loved him Eben if he'd killed the beast but you gotta admit a literal monster abducting villagers is something that needs dealt with by a mob.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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Beast never got tamed. Gaston was the literal hero of that whole story. Beast murders him with no consequence. People are even happy over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:15 AM

Idk I used to try to find reasons to walk around a party naked and show off my dick. Was fairly ripped at the time which helped. Had a few friends that were girls usually help me find an acceptable excuse to whip my junk out. Sometimes they'd be naked. Biggest benefit I've every gotten from a bigger than average dong was what it did to other men. I mean yeah occasionally someone popped a bigger one out but hey mine was still pretty good sized. The guys who were average or below though. Their con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:21 AM
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https://www.agendaalliance.org/our-work/projects-and-campaigns/womens-mental-health-facts/#:~:text=One%20in%20five%20women%20(19,in%20eight%20(12%25)%20men https://www.upmc.com/services/south-central-pa/women/services/pregnancy-childbirth/new-moms/postpartum-depression/risks-treatment#:~:text=No%20one%20knows%20what%20triggers,does%20or%20does%20not%20do This isn't the snap against women you think it is. Now baby is hard and a big change. Someone already depressed or on the verge of it is gonna …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:42 PM
1

Never had a child I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:37 PM
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It affects somewhere between 6-20% of women. That's about the percentage of women in the population that can't control their emotions during the best of times. Add in a buffer for the women that have it under control but barley to go over the edge. My logic is sound despite the down votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:36 PM
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Pregnant women get so much attention. I mean women get a lot of attention anyway but it's times 10 when they are Pregnant. Then all of a sudden not only is their attention being stolen by this baby but they are having to give it attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:09 AM
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Literally all those things bug me too. The flower thing is pretentious. Over half them are guys not dressing themselves properly, and the garlic clove thing. I'm not really sure how this chick being turned off buy these things is blatant misandry.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 12:11 PM
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I don't think hott is what "threatens" men. Honestly for men I think it's an evolutionary driven competition instinct. I think it's only triggered when a male enters the group. With girls you get mean girls when the new hot girl comes in. With guys they instantly get Braggy, start trying to prove themselves then sort this guy into the pecking order. A guy the looks like a pop star just isn't going to trigger a reaction from me. Any women that's going after a guy like that wouldn't be interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:50 PM
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I work 60+ hours every week and wash 100% of my work clothes and most of my home things. Usually cook on off days because I enjoy it. Only child is 16, in school, and drives. Wife doesn't work. Is it unreasonable to think after a 12hr day in a factory I should come home to no chores?
/r/MensRights29/12/23 01:52 PM
1

Taken women are preselected, by Chad. They don't want his commitment only his body. They wont tell others. Women that want a serious relationship aren't trying to steal men. He's easy to steal. Why settle with that. She either wants a casual partner or to steal him in a power play cay girl world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:59 PM

They only waste your time if your not clear from the start. Why do guys try to ease into the friend zone first? Are they toeing the water for fear of rejection. The reality is she's a women. She doesn't make it through most days without someone making clear romantic advances to her directly after meeting. If you're not clear she probably assumes you just want to be friends. Then when she's built you as a friend. Compartmentalized you, probably watched other romances fail from dudes not to afraid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:09 PM

I think extroverted men are much quicker at letting a girl know who he is, what he has to offer, and how it meshes with who she is, and what she has to offer. There is a reason you'll see cute chick's with broke or uglier guys and it's not always to do with social status or looks. Looks matter to women but the types they like vary wildly and some of that is because personality affects their perception. Not every chick is a gold digger or wants to climb a social ladder. Just like plenty of men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:45 PM
1

That maybe but it didn't go away when he stopped providing.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 12:38 AM
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If that's the case nobody gets unconditional love. Even a puppy wants affection.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 12:37 AM
0

You weren't there when we all took turns wiping my fathers ass for months while he slowly died. The hospital bills eating up everything he ever worked for while my siblings and I pay out of pocket to try and make the best of it. We never expected a return. He died with constant care and visits from kids and grandkids that loved him knowing there would never be a monetary return on that. Would have been much easier to dump him in the closest VA care 200 miles away.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 11:07 PM
1

Some men are worth more than others. Honestly you're in a burning hospital. You dragging out the downed emergency nurse that will probably go on to save countless others or the junkie that he was trying to save from an overdose. One of our problems is we want to confuse equal opportunity with equal results. Then we can add in others start with greater opportunity and you get the picture.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 11:03 PM
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I completely get where that would turn a woman off. Men need social time to. Not as much as women in my experience but when a guy is trying to get what he normally would from an entire friend group. That's the emotional labor reddit likes to complain about. Men's hierarchy seems to make it worse on us. Like if you weren't born with a talent that gave you a better than average starting point we usually don't develop those skills. Like if you don't learn it through being good at sports you probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 PM
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Being the life of a party is only one part of an extroverted personality. My wife's pretty introverted but when she does feel social she likes that I can pull some of her part of the conversation. That I can engage the group and let her slide back for breaks. She's doesn't have the emotional energy to be "on" as she calls it when I'm engaging. The other half of that is I want to do things. Video games bore me. Just stuck in the house sitting. I'm always down for a hike. Love my kayaks. I enjoy p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:30 PM
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I wouldn't say it's hidden just less noticeable. As any guy who's long termed no condom with a woman. I assure you vaginas feel and even look different at different stages in ovulation. You may not can feel it with your fingers or see it at your angle but I assure you it's noticeable. I'm pretty sure there is a pheromone given off as well. When you share a bed long enough with a woman ovulating every month your body starts responding to that cycle. Like I'm also much harder to satisfy on those d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:32 PM
21

What's the story here that she got you that bad. I live in a no alimony state so things like this amase me.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:48 AM
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I think a lot of men feel the need to disappoint multiple women to stroke their egos. I've got a great wife at home. Loyal to a fault and I think somewhere in her brain she feels like I should never have the energy to cheat. I'm happy with that. She is fulfilling my every need. Why would I want to venture out. Obviously I'm doing something for her to treat me this way. It's very possible men are wanting to venture out because they aren't being treated the way I am. It's also probable women aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:14 AM
3

Ai silicone spouses might one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:08 AM
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I don't want to be either. I honestly think it's a hardwired population control built into our DNA. We are beating diseases, beating famine, weather. In the end we have to beat each other.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:49 AM
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I've served with women. If I have no choice but to be on the front lines I'd rather it be with only men. If your gonna have female infantry it needs to be an all female unit. Having women out there mixed in will only hurt more men. Probably women too. My opinion is probably very sexist but it is also very true.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 05:12 AM
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Butters said it best on Southpark. "We all pay for it weather your giving her money or taking her out and listening to her bull shit!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:07 AM
5

It'll fix itself soon enough. Think the last time it got this bad the Nazis rose up. Happened before the fall of Rome, French revolution. Too many men get alone, suicidal, and unhappy the powers that be start a good war. Kill off a good chunk of men and all of a sudden men are in demand again. There aren't enough to go around and you get good times like the boomers had. Zoomers get to live through what the men that were too old to fight nazis got to live through. The ones that have kids; those s…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 04:45 AM
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Let's look at it from a different perspective. How many Virgin men in their mid 20’s have good relationships with other men? Somethings wrong with my brain. I'm a rambler, a nomad, moved around a lot moved friend groups a lot. You can almost always tell if a dudes a Virgin or very low experience. It's not just a short or ugly thing. There is something. Those guys don't interact with other men quiete right either. Doesn't mean we can't be friends but they are not like the other bro's. Maybe it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:39 AM
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Ban used cars from the internet too. Price of them is going up for the same reason. If the owner holds out long enough eventually a sucker or someone desperate will come along.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 02:22 AM

Dude take on it. Every late stage virgin I've ever met in the wild has usually ended up married to the girl that finally gives him a chance. If not her usually the second and they at l have in every case I've met raised someone else's kid. The kicker is the deep seated jealousy these dudes have and the hatred of these women's baby daddies and anyone else that had their dick in her is ridiculous. I'm sure there is also some resentment to her for doing what they wished they could have but they rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:15 AM
2

They've always infantilized youths under 25 in America if you didn't go off to war. Abe Lincoln wrote in his journals at 20 how his father was in charge of the wages he made running a fairy until he was 21 as was the custom. In 1800's you didn't even get the vote until 21. Even way back then they treated them as kids that were still figuring out how to be adults till near 30. Look back at the boomers. Obviously the dudes coming back from veitnam were treated as more mature grown up. They went to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:39 AM
5

We wear uniforms at my job. They don't even cut them differently for women. So yeah I'm equal.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 02:13 AM
8

Maybe I'm either just in a conservative area or am just around a lot of boy moms but in real life I've never heard a woman defend these predators. It's always dudes saying, "Why didn't we have teachers like that?" My wife is pretty over protective of my son and is fairly redneck when mad. I'm pretty sure she'd kill a bitch for that. So would must the moms she's around. Most the dad's would just high five their son if that came out. This is one of those issues I think we have more women that supp…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 02:11 AM
0

That's kind of my point. The feminists are making a word that honestly should be used for us to police each other and teach boys how to be men into something different. You're very correct every positive trait has a dark side and they are toxic. For some reason the feminists want to throw the baby out with the bath water. They don't understand how man land works.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 08:15 PM
1

Founder and Ceo of my company was an awesome dude. He'd come out and work with us in his 70's. We got decent bonuses and raises. We hired people more often when he was alive. He thought we should have time with our families. He got sick, stepped down and died 2 months later. He was barley in the ground before hiring and wages froze. My company is one of the largest privately held companies in the world. You definitely 100% used something we made. Specifically us, not something similar us. And yo…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 06:19 AM
2

Masculinity can cross the threshold into toxic. I'll agree it's overused and the meaning is lost at this point but there is a line. Example: You got your boys high-school basketball team. These kids are at the park playing pickup. The jv team shows up so they round robbin to even out the skill level. They are jv they are younger. All the boys are taking smack and peacocking. Someone dunks over a JV kid, struts and says, "In your face Freshman!" That's just boys being boys. That's masculinity. Th…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:39 AM
7

Of all the beta cuck blue pill bullshit I've read on reddit today this is the betaist. As soon as I read I think women are and always made in the image of god I knew you've put them as a gender on a pedestal. Some women are great. Some are dog shit level worthless. As a group. For some reason the worst of them seem to clump together and make the normies look bad. Women just are for the most part. They aren't some puzzle, prize, idol or whatever. They are people that while they do behave differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:54 PM
1

Colorado sucks. Common law marriage, alimony, these things don't even exist in my state.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 07:36 PM
3

I had an English teacher in 10th grade. He was the biggest asshole at the time. I needed him to be that. He was constantly pushing me. Forced me to learn study habits. His class was ridiculously difficult compared to every other English class. My sophomore level English class in college did not require this level of effort. I was only in his class because of a scheduling conflict. I should have been in normal English with the other slackers. He knew I was smart and didn't have to try. He knew if…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:18 PM
3

I'd say we often overlook the confidence boost most people get from wealth even living well below your means. Money is a top 5 worry for most of us. Not only if you're not worried about it but so far beyond not worried it's not even a concern. Yeah your personality is changed. Your confidence is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:21 AM
1

Bruh is it just you and your girl or do you have a friend group? If you do take him around your friends more. And her friends. It's like socializing a dog. Get him used to people especially new people and get those people used to him and his quirks. That's where the term he grows on you comes from. I'm sure there are at least one or two women on here that will agree a partner needed the friend group push and time around her before she started seeing her guy that way. Before the outcry of compari…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:40 PM
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Wouldn't any of you be creeped out with someone hugging random kids before school. Especially someone that doesn't work there? I volunteered a lot when my kid was little. I definitely wasn't hugging on kids. Op is probably from one of those touchy affectionate homes which is fine when they are your kids. Not everyone is like that and it's gonna creep people out.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 08:54 PM
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I married a girl that describes herself as you do. She married a very masculine man though so. I've noticed men that generally look for the 1950's housewife style woman were generally taught no domestic skills but also don't usually possess the home maintenance skills of a 1950's husband. Have these arguments with my child constantly when we try to teach him cooking, plumbing, auto maintenance, laundry. It's a mentally that he can learn this stuff latter on YouTube when he needs it. My water lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:02 PM
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future baby daddies ftfy
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:13 AM
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Why we blame feminism for this? You got so many dudes willing to lower their standards, paying for their only fans, constantly validating them trying to jump in those pants. It's basic supply and demand and so many dudes be jumping these women they don't even hand to go looking for an upgrade. Sometimes men's problems we only have each other to blame. This is an area.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:55 AM
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Waking isn't going to help him build muscle and increased muscle will increase his testosterone production. Waking is just going to help him maintain what he already has.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 02:35 AM
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So your excersise is walking and you wonder why you got low T. Bruh I ran 6 miles today after my leg workout. My t trippled on its own in 6 months when I decided to work out again and be consistent. You're a dude. Waking isn't gonna help you.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 08:58 PM
4

I have a duty to respond to a medical emergency as part of having a valid medical liscence. There is an exemption for me to not have to render aid if my personal safety is a concern. I can see someone getting stabbed and raped. Legally I can exit the situation but I at least have to call the fucking cops as soon as safely possible. Throw a personal safety exemption in there it's gender neutral and fine with me. I mean I come up on a rape and me and my buds are leaving the gym or pub yeah we coul…
/r/MensRights13/12/23 06:48 PM
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We have an extracurricular rule. Pick one or its picked for you. It's worked so far. Mines old enough now be can take the break between soccer and track. He spends enough time at the gym to make up for no current activity. Well they off season soccer twice a week now but it's not a full time one. I tried going to the gym during his usual time. Yeah that's social. Tons teens his age, mixed gender. Our gym has indoor basketball. Kids there for hours. I prefer not to be there at those times in wint…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:33 AM
1

That's sad that she gave you all the tools to sucess at a young age and you wasted them. Maybe if you had a father around doing the sports with you it would have helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:29 AM
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They only say that to men they don't want that attention from. I assure you that if a woman finds you attractive she's fine with being treated like a piece of meat. Think of a high end car dealership. They'll get aggravated when window shoppers come in looking knowing they can't buy anything, wasting their time. If you walk in and they know you can afford the car and are likely to buy they are fine with you looking, touching, kicking the tires. Women don't always say what they mean or mean what …
/r/MensRights12/12/23 03:42 AM
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It became a thread about women the minute op interjected them. We can fight for men's rights in most circumstances without mentioning women. It makes the cause more appealing to women when we don't make it a suffering Olympics. Yeah family court you kinda have to bring them up. Boys being abused, circumcision, boys falling college enrollment: I can make an entire argument about all these things without mentioning women. Women I talk to genuinely seem more supportive when the argument doesn't inv…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:51 AM
3

You've never been to war have you? While there situation does not appear ideal it does not appear they are being beaten or tortured. They are being search and hobbled in a way that has minimal lasting affects on them. I say minimal because the pain is psychological and trust me. They are in Gaza. This is barley a blimp to what they've seen. From the Israeli perspective they've noticed a threat. They are not in a civilized land where probable cause is higher. Their friends are being shot and suic…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:46 AM
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If people would stop watching their bullshit it will eventually end but no. People keep giving it another chance or what can you do? and watch it anyway. I've canceled everything except the VPN I use to private.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 03:17 AM
2

Mostly because of the way our more passionate members go about promoting them than anything. The other his how bat shit the radical feminists are. Real normal women are against boys being sexually assaulted. Real normal women want boys to close the education gap. It's good girls are doing better now. Most women want boys to catch up. Women don't like seeing good men get fleeced in divorce if he wasn't cheating. They hate to see his kids used against him. I've seen plenty of cheating women social…
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:20 PM
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It's been my experience that modern women over manage and lose their minds when men simply don't see the big deal. All the super moms really set each other up for too high expectations. My wife was sick for a long time and when I had to take care of her and kids she was amazed at how easy I made it look. Until she realized half the stuff she stressed about I didn't give fuck. Life was still going strong, house stayed clean, grades stayed high, socks didn't always match much less colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:57 PM
1

Red pill. Women evolved to be close to the children. That's why they lactate and men don't. Men are bigger and stronger. Better for hunting, farming, fighting. 1000's of years of evolution stuck us with a mindset modern convince hasn't breed out yet. It even comes down to hobbies. Men hunt, fish, sports. games. Especially the damn games most of which are war and fighting. None of these hobbies you can do while watching a kid until they are old enough to participate. Look at woman hobbies. They c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:52 PM
1

My inability to be a house husband has nothing to do with my wife and everything to do with every other man and woman I'd interact with. Other men will respect you less. Women will to a lesser extent. You'll be viewed as lazy, untrustworthy, feminine, or any combination of those and several others. People will be less likely to allow their children over for play dates and I can't imagine fathers being excited about "the house husband's son" dating their daughter. I mean you get the girl to marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:12 PM
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Nah. I took a factory job when I was laid off years ago. It's skilled labor and they will only hire people at this factory with a minimum of 5 years manufacturing experience a vacation diploma and two years or time in military. The last one is because we get a bunch of government contracts and they have to higher a certain % of vets that apply. I got hired though. Had bachelor's in IT and business. MBA with tech focus. I make more than our IT people here with less work honestly. I mean the weath…
/r/MensRights06/12/23 04:30 PM
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Idk man. I run a smelter. It's kinda hot and can be loud but I make 6 figures and honestly it's lower stress than when i was using my masters degree.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 12:41 PM
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When my wife does the fine whatever thing I take her at her word. You should do that. Also I'm probably a good bit older than you. There is a reason old men hunt, fish, golf instead of Xbox. It gets you out of the house when they be like that. Then again I had a son so when was hunting, fishing, throwing a ball around he was with me and she was home alone. The longer you take it the harder it will be to change.
/r/MensRights05/12/23 05:00 PM
1

Yet life continued in post war Europe.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 05:46 PM
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The powers that be are working towards the third solution they usually takes care of the lonley single male problem. It's worked throughout history and unfortunately will work again this time.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 12:36 AM
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r/purplepilldebate seems like the go to for a lot of guys on here. You check a few of the profiles I'm sure there are better ones they also post in.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 12:34 AM
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You always hear them talk about single moms being like discount fruit or dented cans at the grocery store. Ban abortion means more single moms. Men bring away at oil rigs lowers the male female ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:49 PM
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At birth maybe. Check the numbers of breeding age adults. Especially around the world wars. Op makes a valid argument. Men aren't dying like they used to. Cars are safer so vehicle deaths are down, violent crime is down, wars are down. Add in women can function economically without a man in this day and age. There are too many men. Why should a woman settle when the odds of dating to are in her favor. You stack the deck the other way guys aren't gonna date down just because. But honestly this re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:29 PM
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It makes it a good thing exactly for that paltry reason. Imagine a child growing up knowing mom picked a Korean boy band over it. Just the level of not giving a fuck.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 06:05 PM
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No woman gives a fuck if you bench 80 or 100 kgs, they can't even tell the difference. Isn't that a working set for average men after 25 or so. I see teens throwing that around. That's like what 200lbs less?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:37 PM
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Who be judging you for wanting a male Dr. Never had a woman tell me that was an unreasonable request. Wife said several women get all judging about her preferring a female obgyn though. Said the women be like, "how do you not feel like a lesbian with her touching you" I picked a male urologist for the exact same reason she picked a female obgyn. Dudes got the same parts. He doesn't just text book know about my junk. He knows exactly what it feels like to be grabbed and pulled there.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 03:09 PM
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How ugly and or weird are you? I've literally been stabbed in bars but never been talked to for making women uncomfortable. I managed a bar for a while and ever dude we had "to have a talk with" usually made dudes uncomfortable to be around too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:05 PM
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We've all been rejected in some form or fashion in life. Didn't get the date, promotion, picked last for kickball, was left out when everyone else made plans. Overlooking someone or flat out rejecting politely isn't wrong in and of itself. Still hurts the rejected person though. I've had more success in most aspects of my life than most black pillers and a good chunk of the red pill crowd. Despite my successes I can still feel the pain of some of the rejections. Except for dating anyway. I was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:57 PM
2

I used to give Junior sailors the same warnings. my command was all male every time we hit a port city. It usually never worked out for the ones that wouldn't listen and struck off alone.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 03:36 PM
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He was adorable. We are in a transition to becoming empty nesters now. High school junior doesn't have much time for mom and dad. We've hit a new stage in our relationship our whole dynamic will change again when he leaves. It's weird dedicating so much of my life to something then it's gone. I mean my kid will come to visit after he leaves. He'll still need advice and probably money but will definitely not be on my top 10 list of things I'm responsible for. It's an empty feeling. Guess the wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:30 PM
5

I'm telling you, by the time a kid is teen or later preteen scuba certification is fun. You actually get elective credit for college. Our state university accepts it anyway. You can all take the classes together. Was a blast and we took some fun trips after.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:28 PM
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It boggles my mind how little time some of my dude friends spent with their children when they were little. I mean some had their kids a ton. Some never. There isn't usually an in-between for men Like my kid was like a little me. I was a hero. The little guy wanted to be just like me and thought everything I did was awesome. How would you not want to just enjoy as much of that as you could. Honestly in my house I think we argued more over who was hogging all the kid time. We both had absent pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:08 PM
1

I feel safer in Chicago or Detroit than I do San Francisco. That city has become a hell scape over the last 10-15 years.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 04:30 AM
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Sounds like it's written by human trafficking. Go out little girl, sleep on couches, let guys buy your drinks and rooms while expecting nothing in return. It's totes safe.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 04:08 AM
1

What's wrong with abortion? As incompetent as the government is I don't think I want them having the power to regulate it. Had a cousin have a baby delivered early. Would have counted as an abortion in Texas. Would have killed her not to have it though. After a few weeks of healing she got to show that baby off at church. We need to be specific in criticisms.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:36 PM
1

They God are those the loudest too. It's like every top poster from r/twoxchromisones gets a microphone and the majority of women get the blame. Same happens here with the make version of those shit posters. It's like I hang around because occasionally there is a legitimate men's issues like our education gap but the majority of posts are women don't wanna let me smash. Some people need to touch grass.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:32 PM
2

Idk bruh I got some really nasty burn scars I got from war. Like horribly disfigurement level but lucky cause shirt covers them mostly. Can't wear sleeveless and even some t-shirts have a creep up. Anyway. Every biker I've ever met wants to buy me a drink and hear the story as soon as I say where they from. I'm not talking just the old dads with a midlife crisis either. Got to hang with a full on group of Hells angels at little Sturgis when it was still fresh and I was self conscious. Was the ce…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 03:45 PM
0

I wasn't gonna shop there anyway because why would I but now I'm gonna not extra.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 06:35 AM
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I feel it's because some men do. Are there no men you see on top of the world. They are assuming we all had his advantages because our culture tries to force us to believe that billionaires make their fortunes solely through hard work. You still have more men at the top. It's all nepotism and crony capitalism of course. Imbred blue bloods hiring the incompetent children of other imbred blue bloods because those men do live their sons keeping the family name on top. Those daughters are fine being…
/r/MensRights23/11/23 03:55 AM
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They can deny it all they want it still stands most are. Just as most men are influenced by the heard mentality of women and other men. Where you think normals come from? Normies are also different across different cultures but human brains are similar enough the only reasoning his heard mind. Of course some people are outliers. Some outliers slay. They are good looking enough and social enough to affect heard think all by themselves. Some are incels. Ugly or fat or short or socially awkward. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:18 PM
-7

Misandry? Most men hold other men to those rules only stricter than Op is. If anything she's giving men more leeway than we would give each other. Sometimes men can hold each other back and women just echo it. Guys do sometimes decide ok this is appropriate behavior for and women are stuck accepting this is how we be. And they do the same shit with each other. Ain't no straight guy ever been like she's only an 8 because her eyelashes are too short or the other weird shit women think they have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:36 PM
3

Thought they could jail people over there for making fun of someone over race? "Mexican Shrek" seems worse than the war vets that were holding British flags the police dealt with.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:49 AM
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The people in power want us all fighting against each other. The biggest hit is women against men. They are also trying to pit the races against each other. The economy is shit. The environment is shit. Overall quality of life is shit. Usually when that happens they get out the guillotine and knock the people out of power. Those in power can't be having that so they are trying to redirect our anger at each other.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 12:45 PM
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They didn't want it converted, they wanted it gone. They settled for letting it house women instead and Senator John Liu believes it's a "Far better outcome." It's a residential neighborhood. The residents didn't want any homeless or low incomes there. They just knew they would get destroyed speaking against a women's shelter.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 12:41 PM
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I'd make the argument that what they call the patriarchy is really just a large group of elites that have almost always held power in some form or another for thousands of years. Of course the families at the top change some but what they want doesn't. They want people to busy to realize we are in a fucked system that holds us back. They want division. That's why they fund laws that split a man's income forcing him to maintain two homes to feed children he can barley see. He's too busy working t…
/r/MensRights18/11/23 08:47 PM
7

What the mother said to the court. At the hearing the alleged victim's mother railed against the teacher for 'abusing' her son. A trusted coach, teacher and friend that abused our trust and violated her oath as an educator. She has ruined our son's life,' this distressed parent said in a statement to the court. He should be 100% focused on being a fun-loving football-playing young man, but this predator has robbed him of that ability. No young quarterback or athlete is safe in our community if t…
/r/MensRights18/11/23 05:51 PM
0

American cancer society funds research to cure prevent the spread of cancer = They hate and don't care about Diabetics. I mean damn this sub gets so whiney sometimes. No wonder they look down on this sub. We shouldn't have a problem with a feminist group doing whatever the fuck they want until it actively harms men. Like how title 9 forced schools to give equal boys and girls athletic scholarships. I could almost agree with that until the militant feminists made sure cheerleading though competit…
/r/MensRights18/11/23 05:38 PM
3

I agree with almost all of everything you're saying. Kathleen Kennedy is cancer plain and simple. That's why I pointed out the Thor saga used as an outline could have been great if not for all the woke bs pandering at every turn. But my original comment and follow ups were simply they did try to make him look like a Dad not a Nanny. We could use a lot more Dads in media that are more like what we got on wonder years or fresh prince and we don't need to diminish it when we get it.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 10:14 PM
3

Look the movie sucked and had plenty of flaws but the last scene where he is competenly making breakfast for his adopted daughter. She did end up with him by agreement her father free of the God killer wanted Thor to raise her. I like to cook. That kitchen looks awesome. I see nothing wrong with it. Parents cook for their children . The apron while pretty flowery isn't overly feminine but it is several sizes too small. Like it belongs to someone else. While Thor is standing in such a way that sh…
/r/MensRights17/11/23 09:31 PM
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Nanny is kind of disrespectful of adoptive fathers don't you think? He took in a kid that needed a home and found a purpose. He was raising her the way Odin raised him. Through battle. I mean be took in an orphan like Odin took in Loki. It's not like his GF got knocked up and tricked him and everyone knew the baby wasn't his but him.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 05:02 PM
1

They are all the type of men that will be complaining in 10 years about the Ukrainian draft dodgers taking up all the women in their country. They all worried about dieing for their country. I spent my whole time at war trying to make sure the other son of a bitch died for his. One of my biggest regret is I didn't make sure more of them got their 40 virgins.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 04:55 PM
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Most of this tread is pro Russian trolls ignoring all the Russian men that are actually getting forcibly dragged into this. Russia pulls out today Ukraine won't follow. But they blame a Ukraine draft.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 04:51 PM
1

You're making the same fucking point I'm making and it's possible you are too mad or too traumatized to see it and I'm sorry for that.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 11:11 PM

Had a "friend" guy who hung out with us. Couldn't hold a job always last one picked when we'd play sports, wasn't consistent at gym and also the most arrogant of all of us. Then would blame failures with women on being ugly and poor. Well yeah you're poor you keep losing jobs because you play video games till 5am then call in work. Yeah you're skinny fat you're playing video games while we're all at the gym. It's not like he was really that ugly compared to the rest of us that all partnered up. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:57 PM

You can be cocky and kind! When I'm playing basketball with the bros I'm definitely going to let her know I'm fucking awesome by showing off. I'm not cutting my buddies any slack in front of my girl. When her little brother or cousin is shooting hoops in the yard and I walk out I'll let him past for a few layups. I play down, encourage the kid. Let him get some good shots in when he makes a good move. You don't dunk over a little kid like you do an adult. If I see an old lady struggling to carry…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:10 PM
3

It's mostly because they've spent years simping in the friendzone doing all the boyfriend work without any of the boyfriend benefits. If they would have cut their losses and looked for a girl that wanted them as more than just a friend instead of pining over "the one that is only attracted to assholes" their views wouldn't be so jaded. Inability to move on really warps some guys minds. Seen it happen to a lot of dudes. I blame teen romcoms. There are just too many movies where the girl finally n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:48 PM
1

So my ignorance is from blaming national for not taking control much earlier, for trying to cover it up, from pointing out that individual troops had too little oversight for far too long, or is it from pointing out the same the same safeguards that were missing in scouts are also missing in many other boys programs. My post completely wonders why more predators and cover up people aren't in jail. Like I said in my post my kid was getting close to eagle when shit hit the fan. Maybe I was simply …
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:53 PM
0

So why she an ex if everything was so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:12 PM
4

How you make it 6 years without raising your voice. Most the time I'm like, "I'm not doing this" and exit to another room but every now and then it's going to boil over. For whatever reason some women will forget you're bigger and stronger if you doormat for them for too long. Occasionally they need to be reminded or you end up like the guys getting beaten by their girlfriends on r/mensrights
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:24 PM
12

Could just prove that everyone is tired of her shit. There comes a point where if every man a woman gets with is abusive maybe she's the problem. How many times you think sigfried poked that tiger in Vegas before it had enough. It is highly likely at least a good chunk of these women are taking good guys, pushing them over the edge and crying victim after the fact. Because that's what manipulators do.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 05:14 AM
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Shawshank Redemption had a man being raped, still a good movie. It's not like the movie shows it as a positive that her dead ex lover was possessing someone else's body and using it for sex. It goes so far as to replace the actor. Showing the audience her mind was clouded by the magic as well. It's not like it encourages men being raped. Or that at any point she realized she was raping him.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 03:49 AM
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I liked the first wonder woman a lot. The second one was decent. I honestly feel like the captain marvel actually hurt those movies. That and DC just loving to make really shit movies kept people from wanting to give it a change. Then again I also really liked both the Shazam movies so maybe I'm not the best source for reviews. Seems like they can't make anything medium now it has to either be all over the top dark and edgey or so kid friendly it may as well be on PBS kids. That scene where wond…
/r/MensRights14/11/23 02:25 AM
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If that's really you and they keep fucking with you about your height they are trying to take you down a peg. A lot of women try to keep your self estime low. They don't want you to think you have other options and this one obviously bothers you. If they didn't think it bothered you they would move on to something else. I'm 5'10. I say 5'9 and wear flats when I'm not actively farming or on horseback. Women like to comment on how I can't be 5'9 because random guy said he's 6 foot and he's wearing…
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:24 AM
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It's like the women making less in sports argument. If women watched women's sports in the same numbers men watch men's sports your female athletes would be making more than their male counterparts. Because men are also the primary audience for women's sports. Mcu was a franchise where they tried to bring in more female viewers. Most men I know are fine with female action characters. Alien and terminator are classics done right with strong females. This shit though. It's preachy, pandering, and …
/r/MensRights14/11/23 01:09 AM
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Of course some do but it's a numbers game. Some men watch the romantic stuff my wife watches while I'm out fishing with our son. Those men are not the target demographic though. They are not the core audience that's going to keep the franchise flowing in cash.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 01:02 AM
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3/4 of normies and almost all women wish they were.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:44 PM
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You're a conservative Asian in California from what I can pull from your post history. I'm in the rural Midwest and one of my best friends is a conservative Asian bro. A lot of our factories are Japanese in our area. A lot of their kids are born here and just stay. We have Japanese speaking schools. Like a ridiculously high number of Japanese mostly Asians for the Midwest. Also a lot of Indians. Just met an Indian bruh at the gym last week and we work out now. Maybe your problem is your area. I …
/r/MensRights13/11/23 09:19 AM
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You're seriously going to try to equate the seriousness of what you went through in private to the what happened to op. You were A) A Child B) What happened to you was serious and repetitive. The people on the streets literally saw a woman have a hissy fit, kick op in the shin like she's a spoiled child, and run off. Op is a grown man least we forget. The people rightfully minded their own business because nobody needed immediate help. What were they supposed to do, come cuddle him in a circle o…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 08:15 AM
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I never said he wasn't a victim. I clearly wrote he was assaulted but damn he acts like she kept beating him like a redheaded step child. She kicked him once and ran and that is why the crowd did nothing to support him. My comment clearly points out my shock that some white knight didn't come over and blame him like he's some human trafficker trying to abduct her. My comment wasn't a troll. It simply points out why he was left to himself after she kicked him and ran. I'm sure if a bigger stronge…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 05:29 AM
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What did you want them to do when someone probably much smaller than you kicked you like a child would and ran off? I could understand if Freda Foreman had you pinned down just wailing on you but really. I mean you weren't crying, you weren't asking for help, you weren't on the ground, and the confrontation was over. She literally ran. Honestly you're lucky they didn't come white knight assuming you were trying to abduct her. Sounds like you got the best crowd reaction possible for what happened…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 02:51 AM
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Been married nearly 20 years and get sex about whenever I want. It's not that important to me but then again my needs are more than met. I'm positive that it's much more important to l People that are getting none/ not nearly enough.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:57 PM
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Personally I think you'd catch just as much shit from dudes wearing that. Blame feminism, blame patriarchy I guarantee a dude wearing that into a store in my town would catch shit directly from other dudes. depending on how tough he looked would directly affect how many dudes said something That said I'm also having to hear my kid complain the boys are being forced to wear shirts at track practice. Several old women went to a school board meeting. They thought it was inappropriate the girls were…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:50 AM
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I've never met a man irl life tried for 50/50 custody and didn't get it. Most of my "friends" that divorced wanted to be the every other weekend parent so they could live the free life and parent when it's fun. Then again I live in a no alimony state because we don't vote in these clowns that pass stupid laws. As for the media, men have longer lasting power than women in cinema. Still. On the radio you'll still hear several men before you get to woman. Academia is tracking in the favors female's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:42 AM
1

I agree. That's why I used my LeBron Example. I had a captains letter in basketball. I could never have competed at a college level. Probably not even at a different school considering I only remember winning 2 games in my career. No amount of effort was going to let me keep up with guys over 6'5 much less the 7 footers. On the other hand plenty of guys at school wished they could have been me. I did complete at state in track. Kids that put in as much or more effort than me couldn't place anywh…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:58 AM
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Gym is effort. I enjoy my time in there but some dudes just hate it. My whole point is equal effort doesn't mean equal results but even Chad's strike out. Looks get you started. Looks take effort. They aren't going straight from the street to the sheets. He can blow it at any time. His personality doesn't have to be there at the level a 5 does to hold her attention but it has to exist on some level. Money is usually work unless you're born to it. So is status. Both can also be lost easier than t…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:36 AM
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Gymmax and personalitymax aren't effort. It's like saying LeBron James puts in no effort to be where he is because of a genetic advantage from birth. Yeah it was easier for him. I'd never be in the NBA no matter how much effort I put in. Doesn't mean he didn't put in work though
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:03 AM
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Honestly I used to sell drugs. Like a lot of drugs. It started out as a way to pay for college then I lost my job. Then I was making more money selling on campus than I would be making with my degree. I slept with a lot of women. Went above where I should be able and below. The number of women that would come by wanting a discount. While their boyfriend was in the car is ridiculous. Usually also wanted a personal stash in a separate bag. Still made money off them. When your fucked up and living …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:58 AM
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That's why I added that last part honestly. Thought more guys should see that part. He was a real bro all the way through and even went over some mental health stuff. Unlike every other urologist he never questioned my one and done decision but was very clear on the being the paper signed. Said he out right refused to do it without it and if one guy got burnt on something he could prevent it was too many. Said it in a way that if I were the type of man that was afraid to make my wife sign it he …
/r/MensRights11/11/23 01:03 AM
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My Dr was pretty clear there was no coming back. Hell couldn't find a Dr my insurance covered that would do it in my 20's. He also made my wife sign a paper saying she couldn't use that as a reason to divorce me. Apparently in my state infertility is grounds for divorce.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 04:39 PM
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Why would you get a vasectomy if you thought you might change your mind? No way in hell they going back in to undo mine. Once in that chair was enough.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 05:25 AM
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Nah he means the autism shit. Not driving too fast and getting into fights. Of course women love when you win fights and do scary exciting things. They don't like people spazing from loud noises and having ticks.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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If you're good looking and tall personality naturally develops to match unless autism. I mean the geeky stuff is a set back don't get me wrong but nuerotypcal kids that are used to pretty privilege get into sports and know what parts of themselves to leave at home.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:55 AM
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Steady sex has inflated your self estime. I'm sure if you were a 6 5 or 7 with your height you wouldn't have been a Virgin at 27.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:40 PM
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it's difficult to sell something to women outside of clothes and beauty products This language isn't helpful to our movement. I'm fine with calling out the crazy at Jezibel but to say things that slam all or most women makes us look bitter and sexist. Maybe the women you're around are like that. My wife is mostly looking at camera equipment and crafting stuff. Got a sister that's really into baseball right now because my nephew is. I'm positive that if there was a demand for the jezebel articles…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 09:23 PM
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Men don't get the ick when a women is crocheting. They get the ick when she won't put the hook down when he's horny. I think it's very similar to women really only get mad at men's hobbies when it cuts into the time she wants with him. Eventually people have to choose a hobby over their partner. I think everyone on this thread is missing that. I can sit and play my guitar in the living room while my wife is doing some crafts. We are talking all is good. When I'm in another room playing games wit…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:55 PM
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The kind of women that go after a guy like me aren't impressed by a BMW. Kind of girls that like a guy like me definitely notice the jeep with a 6 inch lift and definitely want to see how much mud we can run it through.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:35 PM
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I don't know about needed but they are obviously more social and women usually don't criticize social hobbies to the same degree. I bought an old Volkswagen a few years ago. Completely rebuilt the engine and transmission. Lifted, new tire, brakes, roll cage. Made a Baja bug. Just a giant toy. Kid and I did most of it. Buddies and I did some while my wife and their wives did whatever women do while men are in the garage drinking. Nobody said shit to any of us. I spend a lot of time murdering anim…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 04:04 AM
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You're missing the point I'm making. Probably because you spend too much time in your room playing games. Nobody is giving guys shit for a few hours a week on a game. They give guys shit for being obsessed and spending a weeks worth of time every day on these things. Every hobby I listed is either social or at least can be social. You can have conversations doing them. If all you do every day is play games why is everyone surprised they have no girl. Is she supposed to just wait on you to get do…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 01:24 AM
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My friend, myself, and our sons went and murdered a bunch of Asian carp with bows last month. Nice night on the river cold beers. Spent the weekend skinning and processing the deer my boy shot. You got time for hobbies with kids.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 10:30 PM
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They give you shit for useless hobbies you obsess over. Nobody gives dudes shit for Grilling carpentry restoring cars hunting/fishing kayaking sports The hobbies you listed are looking at a screen all day alone and providing nothing of value and you wonder why people shit on you doing it literally all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 10:26 PM
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My brother in law is 5'5 and he married my favorite sister. My parents openly tell my other sisters she got the best man of them all. He's just got a normal job. Sister is a cute Latina. He's a white dude.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 12:42 AM
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I'm the only "white passing" member of my family. I got blue eyes because different dad. All my siblings have been called illegals at some point. I assure you if you think you don't have privilege remember that it is easy for you. It's that it is even harder for others. Just the way my brothers would get stopped by the police for walking compared to how little they bothered me was amazing. Plus white guy, speaks Spanish, Hispanic name. My employers have all loved that. My brothers despite simila…
/r/MensRights08/11/23 12:03 AM
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Idk I think they are on to something here. I was always kind of an emo. I also grew up rural and rode in rodeos. Depending on how I dressed and acted definitely affected how the horse girls interacted with me after a win That's right I could win this rodeo either dressed the part or dressed like I just left my chemical romance concert and was treated completely different. Depending on how I was dressed and the music I had playing back at my trailer. I mean I married a girl that likes the real me…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:44 PM
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This is the first I'm hearing of this. My teenager spends almost all his free time hanging out at either the basketball courts, pickle ball court or a few random parking lots. It's getting cooler now so his group will probably go to the indoor courts at the gym while the other groups will take the bowling alley. Parking lots will still be pretty full at night. Especially the pool.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 06:07 PM
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Idk man it was all over the news when the story broke years ago. My kid eventually dropped out of the program because kids not in would tease him about "potential abuse" The issue we need to discuss isn't that nobody knows now. The issues are why aren't people that covered it up for so long in jail. The victims that come forward are getting support. Our issues with that need to be is in adequate. Also why aren't more coming forward if there are more? New rules were eventually put in place. The s…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 01:36 PM
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I've seen bigger losers. 5'6 skinny fat, narrow eyes. You're ameture hour for the Clown at work I have to deal with. If he didn't have important enough family to force him into a decent job this dude would have ropemaxxed years ago. Honestly I'm pretty sure the world would be a better place if he would. Even his family that got him the damn job would be happier after a brief period of mourning. Doubt they'd even miss him after a month or 2.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:55 PM
1

Different states vary on effectiveness of a prenuptial. If you're in California, New York, really anywhere on the left coast or liberal New England they are trash. A lot of states do much better.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:45 PM
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Worked out great for me. Benefits gave me a better life.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:03 PM
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I just work a lot and I'm paid by the hour. What do you expect me to do here? My job! I'm not letting my fat cat corporate overloads get more than the bare minimum. I have to be here to push a button or turn a nob occasionally but they aren't getting more than that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 05:34 PM
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Had the same with a friend. Bruh was 6'4 in high-school and well over 350lbs but a really great yet creepy guy. Met him cause a teacher randomly paired us for a project. Once you got passed his mild autism he was a loyal friend. We were all track runners so at started making him go to track with us. He kept running in the off season and dropped the weight. Having friends taught him to mask better. He still doesn't do well in long term relationships because you can only mask for so long but mid 3…
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 12:08 PM
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Bruh I scrolled through all 4. That's why I could describe all 4 articles. Op didn't post jack shit about its response to why women are stupid in the original gallery.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 12:00 PM
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Irrelevant to the discussion since op didn't post it.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 01:37 AM
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Two articles explaining why men take risk seeking behavior and appear dumb as part of culture and two articles detailing men are just as emotionally aware and empathetic as women but express it in different ways. All brought on from a chat prompt why are men stupid. A litteral chat bot linking articles in opposition to the prompt. Helping a possible woman who types that same thing in better understand men and you're being downvoted for pointing out bot did a good thing! What do the guys want it …
/r/MensRights02/11/23 11:39 PM
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Dude said in the comments second pic was his high-school grad pic and was 6 years old.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:34 PM
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I always found my head was clearest when there were bullets flying around it. The hours after when you're still on alert but you're probably safe was when I did some of my best thinking. I was happy in war. Everything made sense. I knew exactly what to do, what to wear, how to deal with whatever pops up. It's here where it's quiet. Where people can talk out their asses and do things that don't make sense, get results that don't make sense that makes me uncomfortable. You can probably add in rock…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 09:27 PM
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I forgot about how giant his forehead is, especially with the receeding hair line. The super thick eyebrows that somehow look thicker because they are even thicker than the super thick rims on the glasses kinda help hide that. Literally ever feature be has is Frankensteined together from the bad features of another person. I'm not knocking him for glasses. I'm knocking him for those glasses sunglasses would help this dude with the right frame. Different glasses would at least be neutral. This du…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 08:43 PM
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Dude has squinty beady eyes, a giant, nose, giant ears, thin lips, and glasses on top of the squinty beedy eyes to really draw your attention. Plus fat. I'm in a factory full of blue collar workers. Dude is either bottom tier or the genetics in my area are superior.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 08:01 PM
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If he's what you guys are calling average no wonder I've never had a problem with women. I was Chad all along and never knew it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:57 PM
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The equal rights equal fights often leaves out the sheer size difference in the mental image you get. Some 12 year old boy comes at me, pissed off, punching, kicking I am much stronger than him. Despite him being the aggressor it doesn't give me the right to use more force than necessary to stop this kid. Add to that most of the 12 year old boys I've been around were probably stronger and faster than the average woman that would be coming at me I need to measure my response. If I'm on a jury and…
/r/MensRights31/10/23 07:47 PM
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Only about 10% of marriages end with alimony being awarded. 30% of first time marriages end in divorce. Yeah the rate is higher for your second and third but if you've had multiple divorces you might consider who the problem really is. Is this a men's issue we need to be focused on? We're talking like 7 dudes or of every 100. Then again my state doesn't even offer Alimony but we don't elect clowns here.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 11:45 AM
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I been married nearly 20 years. I get all the sex I want usually so it's no issue to potentially kill the mood making sure she's actually awake. Asking questions she wouldn't answer in a sex dream and such. That said I know women get all kinds of evil in divorce but my wife wouldn't invent a rape. She's the kind of person she'd be too worried about what everyone else would think. She's such a doting and spoiling mother to our son she wouldn't risk the social impact on him for his dad being label…
/r/MensRights26/10/23 12:20 AM
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My wife has this problem where she can wake up riding my dick. Like I have to make sure she is awake and conscious if I wake up and am getting surprise sex. I married a good one. She never accused me of rape or anything but it did upset her because some mornings she would wake up sore, "notice what happened cause cleanup" and would be upset. Didn't even remember the sex and some of it was great. I can see where couples could have a problem if they don't have healthy communication. I do think he …
/r/MensRights25/10/23 06:24 PM
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Puberty was so bad to you by 17 women are still like hitting you? That's horrible man. My kid thought he was never gonna grow. He was 5'2 at 14. He's 16 now and just peaked past my barley 5'10 barefoot. He's the shortest of his friends and takes it kinda hard cause they'll fuck with him to feel better about themselves. Then again He's the only junior at the school that captains a team so they can only fuck with him so much. Girls kinda prefer ability to height if you've got a minimum. The 6 foot…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:13 AM
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I honestly can't believe I lived this long with all my limbs and digits. I look back on life, especially on a cold rainy day when my joints hurt and think, why did I ride those bulls? Now I watch my son do the same shit I did. Woman I ended up marrying isn't even impressed with the dangerous stuff I did. A lot of girls were but none worth marrying. Can't tell a teen boy that though. Testosterone is a hell of a drug.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 09:12 PM
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I'm not being clear. That's on me. When our issues go into other spaces it usually turns into a who has is worst men or women circle jerk and nothing productive ever happens because of it. In all honesty we are our worst problem on men's issues. If we banded together like women do we would already be seeing the changes we need.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 02:22 AM
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The question is what are you doing to further men's issues? I have coached, mentored, and volunteered for all kinds of programs to help boys become men. Including tutoring. My wife has helped. Lots of moms come help. Or do you want a cause to donate to like some of the feminist money laundry schemes that really only make influencers rich? They got that commercial with the dude that can't lift the bench press bar for men's mental health. It's not like nothing is being done. The problem is men lov…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 09:39 PM
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My kids school seems fine. I wonder if it's a regional thing. Former mma fighter is pe teacher. Like had paper views he titled. Vice principal and student recourse officer run cross country with them. Valedictorian last year was also captain of the boys wrestling team. Set a record for scholarship money. All my sons teachers say my honor roll student is slightly rambunctious but he's just being a boy or They wish he had morning soccer practice but it's said as a joke. I'm not doubting these thin…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 08:58 PM
2

If a for profit business with no government funding wants to discriminate let the free market decide if it's ok or not unless it gets to the point it's detrimental to public welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:48 AM
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Bad bot. I is a man. You is wrong and need adjustment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:45 AM
5

Why would you want to be vulnerable? Like in front of people. I've never understood this. We teach daughters to hide that shit in my culture as well. If anything we should be discouraging all these feelings in women not encouraging them in men.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:32 AM
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I think we are agreeing just coming at it in a different way. My son and I love to scuba dive. We watched all of the Chris Hemsworth Disney plus special where he's doing the more male geared activities on Disney plus. My wife on the other hand is usually showing me videos of women walking through those open air market places. I think men like to travel but there are different expectations of it. That and these zoomer men seem to be more home bodied than men previously. I'm me 20's me and the boy…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:17 PM
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I'd disagree to an extent with that. There is a base level women are looking for but it's not as high as men think. If me and the boys are hitting on a group of girls of course they weed out the ones far below at first but after that the women start adding in the other things they are looking for. The two most physically attractive won't always be the ones to pair off. What women are looking for is usually more complicated than simply looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:35 PM
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I am positive that despite a genetic advantage from birth a model has to put effort into her appearance, diet, excersise, and marketing just like an NBA player has to do all of those things. I wouldn't have been LeBron James no matter how much work I put in. That doesn't mean he didn't work very hard though. It can be easier for the women that do those travel blogs to do them and still be work. We miss that a lot when we have these arguments. That things can be easier for the other gender and st…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:21 PM
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Through marketing = not having to pay for things yourself . I'm not saying these women pay for nothing but covers for clubs are either lower or don't exist for women. They generally eat less. Things are cheaper
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 04:51 AM
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It's definitely cheaper to travel as a woman. Not having to buy your own meals, drinks, and such. Not to mention women kinda team up together when they meet at a hostel. Dudes kinda don't.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:38 AM
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If the dad is capable of caring for the child without the mothers help maybe she shouldn't have custody is my argument. If the family has enough money to care for the child together, and someone leaves, if one person doesn't need assistance caring for the child why are we giving the child to the other parent in a lot of cases. Then making the parent who provided for the person when the parents were together, and could also care for them solo pay the other parent support?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:45 PM
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Every time child support is brought up the argument is its just another way to stick it to the father. It's my reply to that. Did mean to hit a comment under yours though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:27 PM
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Quit voting for clowns that pass laws that allow that shit! My state, no alimony, prenuptial will hold up well over 20 years unless infidelity on my part can be proven, have yet to meet a man that wanted 50/50 custody and didn't get it. You know what politicians are favoring and catering to the laws that let you get raped in divorce and you still vote for them. Even if you're not voting for them you're staying in clown world states. You bring some of this on yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:13 PM
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The Japanese kid on my kids soccer team has zero problems dating white Stacie's. Kids top 5 in his class with strict Asian parents about grades. In a pretty white area. Hell the Japanese bench warmer has a Becky. Maybe the problem isn't that you're Asian.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 12:32 PM
1

Honestly it's difficult to get mine to give a shit about anything but sports now. Glad he's got college coaches actively recruiting or I doubt he'd even want to go.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 04:01 AM
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I got into even better shape after high school, did a little time in the military, finished college. Gained some weight when my kid hit his teens and depression cut l from talking care of dieing parents but that's almost all gone now just like my parents I use dark humor to cope. 40 now still got all my teeth and hair. People tell me I look late 20’s.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:42 AM
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Idk I got a huge signing bonus, they paid for my college, employers love to higher vets, got a really good rate on my VA loan mortgage, they paid me to be in really good shape. It really wasn't all that bad.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:34 AM
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I was an assistant robotics coach at my kids school. We had enough kids for three teams. The teacher made an all girls team with a mom in charge, because we got extra girls in stem grants for an all girls team he gave me all the hyper athletic kids and kept they shy, quiet, high achieving boys with good grades for himself. I had my kids running laps for misbehaving and generally just threw an athletic component in. Taught them the engineering and coding skills and let them do their thing. They t…
/r/MensRights16/10/23 01:49 AM
1

That's 1 arm right?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:20 AM
1

Read Arnalds fitness Bible. If Mr. Universe had to put on some fat during a bulk even with all the roids he was shooting up your not going to be any different.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:19 AM
1

If you don't think quality will improve a company's business you've never had the pleasure of owning a echo weed eater . Knowing that it will last me 5 times as long as the cheap competitors for only double the price. Knowing that with basic maintenance it's going to start reliably every time and do everything it was designed to do. Let me tell you about my straight bar echo string timmer. I paid extra for the quick attachment configuration on the bottom. Sure I had to save a little more upfront…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:26 AM
2

That's sad bro. I hope things get better for you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:16 AM
1

Did you ever try fighting your bullies?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 04:52 AM
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My doc covered it under my insurance. I'd switch doctors bruh. They need to learn to code better.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 01:09 AM
2

I don't think it is at all. I do think if polygamy was socially acceptable though men with a lot of money would attract a larger number of women than someone living modestly. And of course Bezos got left. She was entitled to enough of that fortune to be secure for the rest of her life. If she thought she were leaving with nothing would she have left? Of course we can say, if he'd payed as much attention to her as he did figuring out how to exploit workers and feuding with Musk would she have lef…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:46 AM
1

I think Benjamin Franklin is the man most desired by a lot of women and Elon has a lot of pictures of him. Osama Binladen had a lot of wives and he was at least as ugly as Elon Musk. I don't think the Polygamy being common place would affect the dating market the way you think it would. Chad's would probably feel a hit too. I think jealous women not wanting to share a man keep Polygamy from being common and legal. Women don't want some other bitch touching her man, having to give his resources t…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:07 AM
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It's illegal for taxes. You can only have one legal spouse. Nothing is stopping Elon Musk from moving in 10 women, pounding they tuna, and calling them wives. They are stopping him from getting multiple tax credits for them.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:42 AM
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Meanwhile my child with his blonde hair and blue eyes with a barley 3.5 unweighted and a mediocre sat is having no trouble getting acceptance letters from top 50 schools because he just kicks a ball so well. World sucks dude. Like I love my kid and whatever high end school he picks will definitely improve his life and earnings potential but he skated by. Barley put in any effort. There are plenty of people that deserve his spot more.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 08:11 AM
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My argument isn't that pheromones can make you cheat. My argument is that they help you bond. They have and effect on emotions for men and women that make you not want to cheat. Makes sex better with the same person over and over. Unless you're desensitized to it because you've had so many different ones. It doesn't make you cheat or not. It can make it more difficult to. It's more emotional than sexual. Parents also use pheromones in a different way to create the emotional bond with infants. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:52 AM
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You're leaving out the uniqueness of individuals pheromones that play a key role in forming pair bonding emotions. Is a person used to the same pheromone triggers leading to anticipation of sex or will any man's do? Honestly the pheromone telling the brain hey we are getting ready for sex is like clicker training a cat. Once it's trained will a whistle work? A bell? If you use all 3 all three equally all 3 will work equally. If you only use one the lithe 2 are confusing. Obviously we are more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:55 AM
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Before the mid twenties of skews in the other direction. Men die at a much higher rate. Wait till ww3 kicks off guys. Chad's will be on the front lines because strong, tall, dominant, inspiring. They will lead the charge. Then be some of the first to die. If you live you'll do much better with the ladies after. That's why we are in the situation we are in now. Too many lesser men lived through ww2, Korea, and Vietnam to pass down their genetics . We still have some Chad's because some grandpa Ch…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 02:33 AM
1

His mom helped a lot. I married a hot athletic chick.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:29 PM
5

I'd move more to say the violent fantasies are a trauma response from rejection and bullying. I've been to war bruh. My job sucks. I don't think of like murder sprees and ripping people throats out. Violence usually comes to me as a direct response to a threat. If a guy starts raising his voice in start posturing. I'm ready to defend myself. I don't go home and contemplate murder as a cope. I've killed enough already. If I do it again they need to really deserve it. This might just be a you prob…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:03 AM
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Is it really that bad for most dudes now? Seems like my kid changes women every 2 or 3 weeks. I quit trying to learn all their names.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:31 AM

Every man is familiar with the 'pervert' tag I've only heard this out of women in a serious manner when they don't think a man's attractive enough to be considered a boyfriend. I've never gotten it thrown at me without a smile and light slap on the arm. Usually followed by more flirty attention. You're probably not on your own with that feeling in this sub but but every guy is familiar with it the way you make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:13 AM

I got the variety out of my way when I was young. I like having a wife that takes care of me. I get sex about any time I want it. She feeds me we have fun talks. We like to go places together. Honestly I'm shocked mine has stayed so low maintenance this long. In read and shit on here about some of these married guys stories and I'm like damn dude. Why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:44 AM

Have you not fucked the same pussy without a condom frequently enough to notice differences in feel, tightness, and overall wetness during different stages of her menstrual cycle. That doesn't even cover pregnant puss. You're not wrong on a lot of your points but you're not factoring in simple biology either. You have a chick in ovulation that orgasm button is easy to find on almost all of them. It gets there quicker too. You get them on a period or just before you're going to have to work very …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:12 AM

Idk he did list handy. Usually when I spend the day working on my wife's car she has dinner ready. We had a pipe burst in our basement about 6 months ago and she had a shop vac out sucking up the water while I went and bought a new pipe and patched it. Usually if I'm out bailing hay she'll clean the house up a little. I cook and stuff when she's working on her things. We've got a pretty good division of labor going. I think if she's expecting me to lay a new pipe or take care of the farm she inh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:29 AM
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You could always be the femboy. Seriously though dude, join the military. They teach you social skills. Well kinda beat them into you if you're not a fast learner but I saw a lot of weird kids come out normal enough to score after. Had several forever alone style guys that got better. It's a very weird dynamic where you're kind of encouraged to help each other out you just can't get anywhere else as a man.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:15 AM
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My Latina sister won't date gringos so there is that. There is definitely a cultural element to some people not dating outside their race. I spend a lot of time at family events trying to get family to switch to English or at least slow down the Spanish for my wife's sake. I refused to speak English to my kid until he was probably 10 or older unless we were somewhere I pretty well had to use English. like a parent teacher conference. Since my kid speaks Spanish they kinda forget about her now. *…
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 06:41 AM
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I've seen reddit defend plenty of people not wanting to date a certain race because they weren't attracted.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 05:50 AM
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Well I spent about 2hrs just having sex today. Then went for a jog before work. My hill route today had a much faster time than last week on a no sex day so. .. Take from that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:29 AM

Why didn't you learn how to ride? We board horses for mostly rich white girls. My child has made a killing training, feeding, and exercising these things. Like between that and some rodeo winnings he's made at more than if he was full time at McDonald's. Like I started subtracting the price of feed from his wages when was like 12. That's when he was big enough to just take it over from me. He's 16. The horse girls fawn and fight over him. Sitting at 5'9 and showing off his buckeles those horse g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:05 AM
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I feel like these "mythical Chad's" are in a lot of cases just dudes with much better social skills and much higher self estime than most of these guys. Like the nice guys actually start out nice. They back off, respect boundaries, then get turned bitter when girls aren't being aggressive about sex. Like they never lean in for the kids because they are scared and stay friend zoned because she didn't ask to be kissed.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:54 PM
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Nothing wrong with them if you're a cow boy. I trained a bull calve to saddle and ride. He was so tame it was ridiculous. More gentle than any horse at that horse show. I was king of the horse girls the they l three shows I took him to. Never had a shortage of them wanting to wear my buckles just at regular rodeos. My kid does pretty well with horse girls too. He put his in bright pink halters and when the girls ask why his horse is in pink he says, because she's a pretty girl he taught her to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:34 AM
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Was cooler when I was younger and could ride bulls. Now I'm slow to get off the horse. I coach better than I do. Not to mention if I want to go to a store that isn't walmart, tractor supply, or dollar general I have to drive over an hour. I've got a kid that will be leaving for a pretty big state school on an athletic scholarship in 2026. It took a lot of effort to put enough culture in him him where he can fit in the places you just naturally fit in. Hell it's like an hour and a half drive if h…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:31 PM
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The glass are fine. The hair and facial hair is fine. I see what look you're going for and I think elect doesn't. You look soft. Like you'd strike out hard where I'm at but in a city i bet women who like men with feelings and don't care if you can rebuild an engine or ride a horse would be fine with it. Not knocking you btw. Just different standards. I can be covered in cow shit and still get attention. Not from the girls that like you though. They will not be impressed in the least by the tik t…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:27 AM
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Been married a long time bruhs and chick's. 90% of the time when she initiates it's really just hinting letting me know it's there. Wearing a skirt around the house without panties and bending over for no reason. Playing with my hair or rubbing my shoulders. Telling me how strong I be looking. Maybe 12 times a year it's straight to just grabbing at my dick. Even then it's usually been a while. Like I take my son to camp for a week every summer. If it's been like 5-7 days yeah it's the obvious bu…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:20 AM
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Statistically you'd fail at it. Women aren't nearly as good at it as men. Kinda like sports, opening jars, and reaching things on the top shelf. Then again reading the posts on this sub I think a lot of guys on here struggle with the last few too.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:08 PM
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The answers to your points read like 1.) Sounds hard I don't want to try 2.) I've already got video games and the number 1 I'm putting off 3.) Working out cuts into my video games and the not working on making money I'm doing. Bruh I fucked around in college and lost my scholarship. Joined military and finished my degree during my first 2 years in. I got out with work experience and already had a good job lined up because veterans preference in hiring. I was also in shape because they pay you to…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:25 AM
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I've never seen any adult come out of therapy and thought to myself, "wow that person is more functional and better to be around "
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:25 AM
1

I know when we are shopping for stuff for our toy box at home you can sort by girth. It's much easier to find different widths than lengths. I've seen vaginas expand to dump out a baby. Don't get me wrong here. If you really put enough time and effort any girl can take a fist but that doesn't mean they are getting pleasure from the width.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:06 PM
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Wife and I were talking about this cause a few guys in know thought everything was going great then boom she's moved out and handed divorce papers She read me some women's article where it's common for the dudes to think everything is fine because the woman just gives up. She stops nagging, complaining, bitching, trying to change him andall her other shit and starts getting ready to leave. Apparently if you aren't getting bitched at because you still don't fold the towels right She is probably g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:24 PM
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I'm not so much cherry picking as I am complaining about changes in a program happen. I was pretty clear in my original comment on how much it could vary just troop to troop based on the adults in charge. Bruh we went on a dog sledding trip and built igloos and camped in the snow. We took a week long scuba trip in the Florida Keyes. We paddled kayaks all over our national forest. We went to one camp that was a week of water sky's and jet sky's. Did a few rock climb trips. We took some extra kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:10 PM
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That's kind of my point here. It's how people are viewing average. You can actually see in the real world. People actually precieve good looking, charismatic, or athletic people as taller than they are. u/keeenw views himself as average. He's looking in the mirror and comparing his features to other men. u/jazzlike_worth_9908 posted that attractiveness was more than that. My examples simply show that in the real world people are taking in a lot of factors other than just looks to form an opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:54 PM
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I just got the first one. My brother got him the second time after a second offense. He probably deserved the third too but in all honesty guy probably took dozens. Like I said youngest brother was in a gang. Once they marked him you'd just have groups of 12-15 year old Latinos beating the fuck out this guy to show how tough they were. It wasn't uncommon to see him limping to the gas station, his shoes, jacket, shirt, wallet taken. Guy lived with his mom and she kicked him out cause the place ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:42 PM
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I'd say the toy isn't the best measure. She's controlling depth and angle. If she buys 12 inches and only needs 4 she chokes up on the bat if you will. A longer handle. Instead of resetting a machine for multiple lengths it's probably cheaper to just make a few sizes.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:42 PM
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It's fairly easy to punch her cervix with less than 8. I'm barley 7 and there are positions I just can't go all the way in.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:38 PM
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I think you're pulling something from my comment that wasn't there or maybe I wasn't clear. Bullying when girls were added wasn't the problem Our troop was made up of boys 11-17. As some turn 18 you roll in new younger ones. The boys getting older take in leadership rolls and mentor the younger boys. At camp they have a list of classes they take individually and group activities and tasks they complete later in the day. We had always expected the older boys in the program to take things like bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:29 AM

It's probably not her fault she got her ass beat the first time. It's definitely her fault she kept coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:08 AM
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With the amount of men bashing other men for being beta cucks on this sub do you expect someone to argue against you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:07 PM
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How many times on cops you see the chick yelling as they drag off the guy who just beat the shit out of her ,"don't take my man I love him"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:03 PM
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I'm legally required to in my state to respond if I come up on something like that. In exchange for that I'm granted immunity in anything other than gross negligence when off duty. With that I'm also a mandatory reporter and finding a girl unconscious like that I'm legally required to call emergency services.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:59 PM
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Yeah but most workers don't actually accomplish shit and a lot of the ones that do wouldn't be needed if the population dropped. Manufacturing wages would climb up a little with war demand, women would leave the office for more money. Eventually someone would realize just how useless most office workers are and they don't need nearly as many. Service industry would shrink cause everyone is at war or work. Those mostly women world go to the factories as well. After the war. Well not nearly as man…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:19 PM

I'm married now is why I used past tense and you're right. Eventually the little games didn't seem like they needed to be played. Just started being a friend that I was also romantic with. The Netflix documentary. Town was pretty small. You could really narrow me down with the documentary and some comment history. They made her seem like she hadn't been on probation for theft, drugs, and a slew of other things since she was 14 in it though. They painted her so nice in it I was almost convinced t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:39 PM
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I'd just got back from a deployment and my youngest sister told me that our middle sister got her black eye from the guy she was dating. Wouldn't you know it I actually come up on the guy with her shoved against the was in my Abuellas house. At my welcome back party. I drag him out the back door and throw him in the yard. Told him to stand up and get ready to fight. He tried to talk his way out of it but I didn't let him say much. Dad finally got me off him. Then my baby sister told dad why and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:30 PM
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Heck if a man protects his wife from an intruder in their home he can be criminally charged... Nah my state votes in the right direction. Once they break and enter I can legally shoot them and call the police to clean up the mess. You guys living in those clown world states or countries need to vote better or relocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:19 PM
2

What was "the day" they literally had to start a national lunch program because boys were too was like weak and malnourished to go to war.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 09:00 PM
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We've already had 2 fairly big world wars and production and labor kept on keeping on. Women worked outside the home while men were "away and busy" only the specials got a pass to not get drafted. Men were actively getting culled. Still seems like a much easier way but then again looks like we are headed towards a 3rd anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 08:59 PM
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Wouldn't a good old fashioned dig in the trenches world War get them where they need to be faster? If they are that powerful seems like this route is a waste.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 08:44 PM

My strategy with women was always to treat them like a cat. You have to let the cat know you want to pet i. You also have to ignore the cat and act like you're not to eager. Cats hate when you're too eager. Sometimes the cat will jump on your lap and to keep it there you have to act like it's a chore to pet it. Also every now and then you have to feed it and initiate the interactions to keep it interested. Your comment implies women are playing this same game. Op talking about the girls wild dan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:39 PM

I'm 5'10 just never was around a single girl that was taller than me. Totally wouldn't have cared. Had a few that were eye level though. Never bothered me when the eye level ones wore heels so they looked taller. It's the really short girl's I was adverse too. Like I'd prefer a girl be able to reach stuff without me having to get up and get it. Standing sex is so much more comfortable the closer you are in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:21 PM
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Got double advice for you bruh. 1) Bootcamp and school is going to fix a lot of those problems for you. 2)Depending on your branch your going to have a harder time dating close to base because the male/female ratio sucks. When you get out though you should be able to go back with your new confidence, gym maxed body, and decent job and do fine without the surgery.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:00 PM
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Some of you do it to yourselves. Men used to have manly hobbies now you guys just sit and play video games when you could be restoring a car or building something. Most of my neighbors grow gmo corn an soy. Most of us don't have the men not being men problem they have on the left coast. Property laws in my state forbid alimony. Completely outright forbid it. They also can't take a family farm or other property that was inherited. "can force a deed restriction to keep you from selling to make sur…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:58 PM
1

If your wife gains 300lbs in a depressive episode and you leave her I'm not gonna shame anyone. At the end of the day are you really leaving her because she's fat or because she changed her lifestyle so much that she went from being your girl that loved to go out and dance and became jobba at the cantina? Sitting there eating refusing to do anything but watch a screen and eat. If she adds a little weight and a few wrinkles after getting older and having kids but is otherwise a great wife and the…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:40 PM
1

Not been around a lion but I've road plenty of rodeos, worked on several farms and been jumped by plenty of bears. All those animals read body language probably better than human women because they also understand my smell. Guy going ape with that stick is definitely dead. The lion, bear wolf, they see a threat they are going to have to deal with. Women have to see that in a similar way. When the same animal sees me. I'm calmer, a little more confident. They still see a threat but I'm a threat t…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:11 PM
0

You're a hard black pill on this. I belive that you are right. A lot of women do just get board or tired and leave for an upgrade. I believe men do it too. That said I'm just more purple pill about it. I think you have a lot of people in the middle that there are so many aggravating factors that go along with it you can't possibly chalk it up to simple biology of always looking for the upgrade. It's a cut and run bell curve. It's a how shit does it have to get before the person cuts and runs. So…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 04:19 PM
1

I've got a friend that thinks his wife left him because he's going bald. I feel so bad when he tells the story. Until I remember him kinda drunk yelling at his kid for being a pussy and a participating trophy getting loser in front of everyone in the stands at the last game before she filled for divorce. And the stories my kids friends used to tell about when they were over at his house. Older friends dating the guys daughter about how sloppy drunk he would be yelling at everyone. Falling down a…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:58 PM
1

I also see plenty of women staying loyal after her husband's looks start to decline. I don't think it's a starting to think someone is ugly overtime that causes people to cheat and divorce. I think people aren't working as hard to get along after the kids come now that it's acceptable to just leave when it gets hard then low and behold step dad doesn't have those problems because he gets time with the woman with no kids. Because dad has them. Kids aren't exactly the problem but the way they deal…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:35 PM
2

On it's surface your argument makes since but let's say you get married. Your wife births your children. She has a c sec so her stomach always droops even if she loses the baby weight. She fed your children naturally so her boobs sag some. They don't just sit up like they did before? Are you going to tell her to get surgery? Are you going to tell her she's unattractive? Is it possible that if she stays a good partner the whole time that your love for her will make you overlook and not care about…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:03 PM
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I think boy scouts helped some of the kids in my area that otherwise wouldn't have had a male role model being a man but that whole program is very different depending on who is in charge. Our group had a bunch of dads that were all war vets. We all put our boys in there because the facilities are so incredibly cheap for camping, rock climbing, shooting, white water rafting, dig sledding, water and snow ski, sailing and other stuffstuff most people couldn't take there sons on 1/3 of the trips we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:17 PM
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This. I actually heard it explained the best from children once. A meeker quiet boy was taking to one of the really outgoing athletic ones on a road trip another dad and myself were leading. They were taking about height. It took us forever to convince the meeker kid he was taller than the athletic one. He said, "He acts tall" like how do you act tall so well. It's not just women in a sexual situation that see confidence and charismatic men as taller and such. I'm teaching same group of kids how…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:26 PM
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That first one I can let slide as just something funny. Where a married couple is getting their groove back after adjusting to hectic schedules with small kids or even just surprise unusual sex they are usually too tired for. The next two are so black pill and it's so obvious the women are wrong the women in the comments are shit talking the wives. It's bad when on reddit women flock to defend a man. Dude with the wife with the male friend was so beta she offered to cut dude off and instead of t…
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 11:17 AM
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My old neighbor had like 2 ex wives and all 3 of his kids were by different women. Dude was 5'6 and couldn't hold a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:09 PM
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Well I can't use the r word that used to cover them all now can I? OK I've got it. Nuerotypcal is any kid you've ever heard described as normal. Nuerodivergant is any kid you've ever heard described as weird.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 08:03 PM
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Normal and autistic. Typical are normal people but the autistic parents don't want to accept their kids aren't normal so they label both kinds of people to be politically correct.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah but the rolling average has cripples and autistic people in the mix bringing the average down. I'd assume if so sampled all normal guys it would be higher.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 08:21 PM
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Is more than 10 girls a lot now days. or was this made by a high school kid?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 06:47 PM
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It's been better to me. I'm glad I'm not part of that dystopia you describe. Sounds brutal.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:49 PM
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Now that dating apps let women shop for men like auto trader let's us shop for cars eventually short men will be eliminated from the gene pool. Or at least heavily decreased. Sounds like your problem will eventually solve itself when the last generation of shorts help a single mom raise Chad babies.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:49 PM
1

I'm not really sure how the car exhaust isn't just as valid an attempt. It's arguably the most painless and preserves the corpse in such a fashion that it is probably the most presentable you'll get at a funeral. Just logically speaking that one is very thought through just on the prep work. As for the pills my male friend went that route. Fight or fight kicked in and he called 911 but will openly admit at the time he was trying to end it. It wasn't a cry for help. Men do usually chose more viol…
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 03:28 PM
0

It's much easier for these people that "need therapy" to just take the advice. excersise if your depressed after you didn't work out hard enough long enough. *dedicate more time to work, community service or hobbies * ones you actually do something physically and mentally. Not just video games. If you're occupied you don't have time to be depressed. Quit using alchol or pot to cope These just make feelings you can normally suppress come forward. Accept the shit you can't change Something not wor…
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 07:50 PM
2

Women love therapy and attempt to off themselves at an even higher rate. Only reason our numbers are higher in actual suicide is because we are better at it. Every dude I knew that offed himself was already in therapy or on antidepressants. That shit don't work.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 05:23 PM
2

I'm currently training for a marathon. I let myself get really bad out of shape around pandemic. So I got a lot of weight to lose. I'm also 40 though so... My sophomore year of college I decided to quit doing drugs. Put on about the weight your face shows maybe more. Went back to running. That's the way my muscles go. I can't do the huge body builder muscle without steroids. Endurance athletics though. Bruh I got you. My face looked like yours. That's not water my friend. You won't go gaunt beca…
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:04 AM
2

Dude I looked at your photos every pro tour have can be fixed if you'll put in some muscle and grow a beard. Your face still has baby fat so you might not be able to yet. The normal weight loss from a cut should fix any problem with a jaw line she cheeks without the beard. Beard is definitely quicker though. Like I can tell you're not fat but you got some pudge in your face. You're gonna have to get low body fat to knock that out.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:28 AM
1

How are chiwawas so aggressive when pit bulls exist?
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 05:06 AM
0

My only argument is the child should have stayed out of what is practically a war zone. For all I care he could have opened fire on every looter. Would not have convicted. He is still a child. Thought he'd be tough. Show off with his gun. He didn't expect to kill someone. He expected to be tough and feel intimidating. I even get that. His mom's job was to deal with all that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:40 PM
4

Why wouldn't they. He's such an alpha being sprinkled with his manly seed will overwrite parts of beta DNA. Not that he would waste it on them with all the Stacy's he's go lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:33 PM
11

More I keep reading this I just keep imagining Jason Momas taller stronger older brother waking the Hell Hound Cebris down the street. Forcing lesser men to cross all while women follow like he's the pide piper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:21 PM
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There was this mid 20’s guy walking a huge Doberman and I walked out in the street to avoid being bitten. Walking behind him was a mid 20’s girl who was on her phone Op wonders why Chad isn't worried about him stealing his girl. How op describes Chad latter in guy comes out not wearing a shirt and showing off his abs and a bunch of girls are checking him out. If you read this the way I did it sounds like op is afraid this Chad will decide to start walking his giant attack dog shirtless and end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:37 PM
0

I'll give you that. I'm still not blaming him. She should have been watching him better in any case.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:45 PM
0

What gets me about Rittenhouse is that his mom got off so easy. Like if it had been a family store he was defending we would be having a different conversation but chick just dropped him off practically a war zone for a kid with no training on how to deal with that stuff. Like I've been to third world countries. I've been in war zones. That was not somewhere I would just drop my kid off. I hear the arguments he's almost an adult well at the time he wasn't. The line in the sand was drawn in such …
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 04:35 PM
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People like to have someone they are better than. Someone to punch down at. The groups they usually did this to are not protected. Replace incel hate with gay, trans, black and see how long that post lasts on here. You're just in the minority group that is different and also ok to hate this period of time. Humanity needs someone to hate.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 02:10 PM
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Who would have thought making your intentions clear from the start would work so well. Try to be her friend first without making it clear you view her romantically this is how got get friend zoned She got tons of dudes lined up that are clear they want to date, or at least smash. She don't henge time for you to play around with mixed signals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:19 PM
2

Trust me when you're dealing with other people's money you need people skills. Especially if you're a payroll accountant.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 02:47 AM
1

If the bot passes the Turing Test aren't you getting that too?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 11:12 AM
-6

I think society hates incels. There is a reason nobody is fucking them. That reason usually makes them unlikable in general. Like what Incel is surrounded by loving friends, super extroverted, and a natural leader?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:45 AM
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They are attracted to masculinity and most don't seem to have a problem with it. When I'm say on a basketball ball court or playing softball with the boys and we are smack talking, posturing on each other, all around being aggressive and competitive with each other, they roll their eyes or mildly complain to the girl next to them because they enjoy the behavior. Their problem. What they call toxic masculinity is when we leave that court and start harassing the skinny, mild mannered guy playing P…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 12:53 AM

Manliness encompasses the qualities of what men should aspire to. Helpfulness is under that umbrella. You're assuming the poster was female. I imagined a shikiny 5'5 guy posting it. If the man decided he wasn't going to risk his life to help a random woman, he would have been manly too. Risking life is a bit of a stretch in this story. For all you know the dude pistol whipped and unarmed 5'2 manlet and held a gun to his head till the police arrived. Gun vs knife or unarmed wins because logic is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:51 AM

I analyzed the situation perfectly. Dude saw someone that needed help, realized he could help. He did. That is manly. U/TSquaredRecovers getting jumped and not being able to fight off multiple people isn't unmanly. My standard for manliness isn't doing the impossible. It's helping when you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:48 AM

Dude sounds like a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:04 AM

I'm as likely to help a 100 pound gay kid getting attacked as I am a woman and for the same reasons. It's absolutely shit when people bully and hurt someone just because they can. Society as a whole needs to address this any chance they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:03 AM
1

Sorry for you bud. I honestly feel some of my luck is cultural as much as looks. I feel like women's beauty standards are heavily influenced by local culture. When I was in the military I could do ok in bars in the bigger cities. When I was traveling on a rodeo circuit girls approached me. I didn't have a big name for myself at the time. I'm definitely not the guy women who like tailored suits give a second glance to though.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 08:21 PM
2

And that's the dating problem in a nut shell for some. you're much better off finding something you're very good at and doubling down on that thing. The lawyer in your example not fixing his car when it breaks is not the same as the lawyer not being able to change a roadside flat and having to call triple a. In all honestly changing the flat himself gets him to work making 500 an hour quicker. Hell I wouldn't let my kid take his liscence test till he could plug a tire on side of the road. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:23 AM
8

I never thought in was capable of loving someone till I did. Never realized how nice it was to have someone around me that I genuinely cared if they were happy just because it made me happy till I had it. I kinda felt like you for a long time until I found someone that took care of me when I was hurt and helped me chase dreams. Honestly I feel like she does as much or more for me than I do for her. It's not a I couldn't live without her the way you here people describe love but I genuinely crave…
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 03:43 AM
-3

That's kinda really sad bro.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 03:22 AM
-4

I mentioned a scar on here once that I was ashamed of. Horrible burns on my upper arms and shoulder. Got it in Iraq. The bullet I took is also in that area. Didn't even want to show off the bullet wound they looked so gross in the mirror. Turned out girls would love to sit and touch my scars and listen to my stories. Definitely an ugly scar with an alpha characteristic making it hot to them. Then again another guy on here pointed out women women laugh and make fun of his very similar scars. Not …
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 02:17 AM
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I feel that I more than acknowledged that it sucks and in implying to lower standards I write that with hurt. It sucks to watch people struggle. I had a friend in high school. Over weight, cross-eyed as soon as he took the windshield thickness glasses off and all around has horrible features. He was tall. At 5'10 he's still a head taller than me but no amount of weight loss, when we finally got him to try in college, was getting rid of that lose skin. His standards though. He wasn't interested i…
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 01:26 AM
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How low have you considered dropping your standards? I mean you're upset about your looks but I've seen plenty of women that are also lonely and very upset about their genetic make-up. If you lower your standards enough, you'll eventually have a companion. Don't want to lower them? That's how the everyone else feels too. Trying to get the best they can.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:51 AM
2

Looks will stop mattering nearly as much when ai companion robots become so life like they pass for human. If for the price of a car any body can have the perfect mate supply in the dating market is going to go way down. You'll have 7/10 women slumming because nobody is gonna work harder than a car payment to put up with her shit. The used bot market sounds disgusting though.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:47 AM
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Lust isn't the problem. It's where it's directed. I can give my wife all the attention a simp gives a cam girl. It's fine. She reciprocates. It's not messing with her at all. She likes it. Now when simps do that to a girl who clearly will never Lust for him back. When she is entertaining it from multiple simps she starts to get a very over inflated ego. Why wouldn't she? People are all the time telling her she's great. Men need to learn to take no for an answer and either treat her like a bro af…
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 08:07 PM
2

I don't see it as a problem when women have male friends. I see it as a problem when they A) only have male friends B) are often alone with only male friends Girls that spend more time with men than other women have always had at least 1 thing about them that made them undateable in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:26 AM
0

I'm only 5'10 at the time I was like 190. I mean I go to the gym but I only had 4 abs lightly showing. My shoulders are fairly wide for my frame though so they helps. Way I hold weight when I was 190 people thought I was 150-160. If that helps.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:18 AM
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I'm not arguing that I wasn't already attractive. My argument is how you behave can move you up or down several points.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 09:59 PM
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I feel bad for some of these boys that think holding a conversation and making eye contact is all women mean when they say personality matters. Half the dates or hookups I ever got me and the boys were drinking beer, working on a car, truck, boat, or bike and the guy who's house we were at would have a girlfriend that would get board and call other girls over. Was helping a friend rebuild a motorcycle engine when I met my wife. His girlfriend got bored. Called my wife over. I didn't know her at …
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:53 PM
-5

Put it to you this way guys, I'm decent looking. Like I blend and don't stand out. Women aren't repulsed if you will. That being said I was at a middle school soccer game a few years ago. The easy these bleachers are set its a 15 foot drop to the field. One open gate at goal line and a 7 ft fence all around. Kid broke his arm @mid field. Could see bones sticking out. I jumped down the bleachers. 15 ft and landed and ran out to treat this kid. "No trainers coaches are volunteers." Now oddly enoug…
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:26 PM
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Reddit is full of that shit. I've got a shit ton of downvotes over on r/dadit for simply suggesting fathers should teach their sons not to cry in front of people. Same dudes gonna wonder why their sons are bullied, lonely, or possibly married to a bitch that got him raising other men's kids.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 08:14 PM
3

Light skinned no tattoos beaner here. At 5'10 I never had trouble picking up hotties in the bar. I'm light enough Latino to have blue eyes though so maybe I just pass for white? I'm probably a 7-8 in looks though. Maybe looks > height as long as your over a certain height.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 04:44 PM
1

My parents actively pitted us in direct competition. I remember one family event my mother compared and contrasted the girls myself and each of my brothers had brought with us. In front of the girls. To see which of us won. My father liked to provoke fights between us and any boys my sisters brought home. Everything was competition. Probably made us better but the environment was hostel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:32 AM

You always pay for sex in one way or the other. Personally I'd just rather not know about my kids sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:19 AM
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Equal effort does not yield equal results. No amount of training will give you the height you need for the NBA. You can't teach tall. My kid will get a d1 scholarship next year in soccer if he doesn't get hurt. The coach that came to look at my kid was also looking at a kid the grade under so he was just answering questions anyone asked. Goalie asked what he looked for in a goalie recruit. Coach just said, "your too short " brutal but guy won't even consider a guy under 6'1 Now my kid might get …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:05 PM
1

You asked why people think it not if it's true. I posted a legitimate widely, avaliable, heavily circulated source that not only proves your point that lots of people belive it but also gives the reason why. I win this thread for accuracy if nothing else.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 03:06 AM
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Humans evolved to take on a lot more of the fathers features is one theory. https://www.nytimes.com/2005/03/22/health/the-claim-babies-tend-to-look-like-their-fathers.html
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:48 AM
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Honestly I think I would be disgusted if I had to watch a video of some of my own "adventures" in my misspent youth. I'm positive women would also be disgusted with some of the things they did looking back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:23 AM
2

Personally I just here my friends and people at work bitch about the women they are with. I don't talk about sex around women so I never really hear their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
3

I've heard that particular argument from my friends too many times to where I just assume that's what it is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:10 PM
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This post more or less reads "My gf let some other dude fuck her asshole and won't let me." "Chad had an experience with her I never will" "He claimed a part of her I will never know" "There will always be something special between them I can not have"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:01 PM
2

Population is trending down in the west as my comment points out. Politicians hate this because it's easier to pass policies where people have more kids than to redistribute wealth and fix the problem of not enough workers to maintain a broken system. I'm just pointing out the obvious. You are correct about the need to reduce Population. A nice big world War would fix that and this make loneliness problem.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 09:54 PM
3

You ever play with a cat and it'll back off after a minute, you lounge, then you step back and it jumps at you. You both do this over and over acting like you only kinda care. If you care too much the cat leaves. You ignore it a little and it comes back. On some level you do have to care a little though. This is how you "chase women"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:58 PM
2

Just don't make it all you talk about. Damn those bros are just as bad as the ones that desperately need the martial arts to begin with.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 08:37 PM
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Women get turned off when men aren't being men. Who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:44 PM
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Maybe your problem is you're into self help. Obviously yourself is the problem. Find a trainer or life coach.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 04:51 PM
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When has anyone ever accused a modern politician of doing anything in our long term best interest. Europe, us Japan, and China have a birth rate problem. Not enough workers being born to replace the ones retiring. The solution has pretty well been to import migrants and really mess with the local culture. Or China letting people have more kids. The real long term solution would obviously be to retool the economy. Have a better division of resources. The easy solution is to set up a system where …
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:36 PM
3

If 7/10 people enjoy something or at least tolerate it doesn't it make more sense to expect the other 3 people to conform than to shift around society for the other 3. I was new to the area I'm in when I was early 30's. I don't like softball. They had an adult softball league though. Built in friends and forced get to know you. When you make the friends that's when you start getting invited to the stuff you do like. They aren't always playing softball and watching sports. People in there 30's do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:26 PM
4

Why wouldn't they be. It takes a massive strain off social welfare programs.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:40 AM
1

Property any engineering rate would toughen him up enough. Give him better career opportunities after too. You get good at welding and the engine work you'll make 6 figures without the degree.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 01:43 AM
1

Obviously every command is different but he'd have gotten over being a coward at my command real quick. My chief felt he had failed as a sailor, leader, man, instructor, and general bad ass of we couldn't compete at the highest level for peir golden gloves. I had my ass beat so many times I fear no man. I've been hit before its not so bad. I'm not even trying to claim bad assery, I just take a punch really well. Made me an ideal training partner. If I ever won a match it was a knock out. I never…
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:46 AM
0

I went navy. Got picked up for rescue swimer school, "women love those stories" 2 Arabian gulf deployments on a mine sweeper and a bunch of humanitarian aid deployments. Women also love those stories. You can join navy and coast guard as non combatants and pretty well be stuck to a hospital ship helping people after hurricanes and crap your whole time in. You definitely won't offend even the hate war women with those stories. And they will give you school and certification for any job from plumb…
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:05 PM
0

Give a few years of your life to the military. Let them bulk you up. They'll teach you what you lack and you'll probably look better after too.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:38 PM
2

I've seen what this sub calls average. They posted a dude so skinny he looked like someone stretched a sheet across a Halloween skeleton and a face looked like he'd been hit by a shovel and they didn't let his jaw set right. Most of the dudes here were like 5/10 rating. Way dude looked I'm surprised he survived bullying into adulthood.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:35 PM
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From the male perspective on autistic males there is a danger component. I've never met an autistic woman I thought stood a chance of physically overpowering me during a "meltdown". Watched a sixth-grade child in was tutoring in music my junior year however show super human strength during one. More than I've seen any of my gym bros display. And this was a high functioning kid at a private school. In higher level math. He could even mask a bit at times. Sometimes autistic dudes get that look whe…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 05:50 PM
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Aren't men also trying to punch up? Not even trying to blue pill here. It's like buying a car. Aren't you gonna try to get a deal and get the best for your money or just grab what's close. Also just personal experience two pretty people don't usually have ugly kids. Sometimes they have an ugly one out of 3 but even then it's not nearly as common as when you see two ugly people drop one that looks just like them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:30 PM
3

Not really sure why ugly women breed either. I get wanting a partner. I get wanting to be attractive but why do people feel the need to pass on their genetics when they were the last kid picked at recess. When they know they are not as smart as average. On top of all the horrible genetics they are going to pass to this poor kid they are also usually poor. Just setting a kid up to fail before birth. As far as the women's ugly genetics I assure you if you drop your standards enough you'll get one.…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:10 PM
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That's because you'll be passing the same poor genetics to her children. Why do so many people that got bullied their whole lives for being ugly want to bring children into this world to have the same problems. We raise cattle. Low birth weight is good for a bull if they gain weight at a high rate after. The ones that are born small and become mass monsters I pen off separate, register and sell for breeding. The ones that don't we castrate and end his genetic line.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:01 PM
1

Honestly you're probably right. I think I am a little jealous. She really was polite and bought him food. Also seems to be a very big fan of his sport.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 12:48 PM
0

My kids a 5'9 high-school kid. We took him to a college tour literally last month and he ditched us for a sophomore that was at least an 8 that drove him around. Took him to her sorority to show him off. Bitch came down for labor day weekend to watch his game and take him out somewhere. I guess that athletic department really wants him if they are giving that attention. Height only matters when something else isn't specific about you. I also never had problems with college girls at 5'10. Then ag…
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 10:28 PM
1

Was assuming. A lot of people that are overweight get the unhealthy eating habits young because bad parents.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 10:04 PM
2

Why not get revenge on your parents for giving you horrible genes and eating habits?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 09:04 PM
2

Mines trying to decide which of the d1 college coaches that are actively recruiting him he wants to play for and which sport honestly. He'll probably be fine.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 09:50 PM
1

It's the little things that matter. I mean there is more. Almost all those she's don't today though.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 08:00 PM
5

My wife plays with my hair if I'm in a bad mood and rubs my shoulders if she thinks I've been working hard in the fields. I like taking to her. Sometimes she will send me random articles to read when I'm at work. It's usually something she doesn't even care about she just knows I'm interested in it. She holds a flash light better than my son.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 07:36 PM
0

In my state the only one that can fill in a father's name on a birth certificate is the man signing it. Even that overturns easily unless you fill out a paternity affidavit filed with the court separately.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 07:30 PM
3

Is there are reason it's hard for you to get respect and have people talk to you. Like I don't think I've ever put in any real effort in making friends or having a career. I barley make six figures and people more or less treat me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:15 PM
5

"Authentic Emotions " that's your problem right there. You should have ignored and stunted those to the point they didn't exist years ago. It gets better being a man when you're older. Trust me. If you're 40's and haven't messed up your life people give you lots of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:18 PM
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Then they're just passing the genetics for ugly to the next generation. If we do nothing in 150 years or so we can breed the ugly out. Sooner if they would pass a permit test before someone is allowed to breed.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 02:50 AM
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I get laid regularly and am not looking for a different partner so I think I'm looking at it from a more clinical point of view. The zoomers have been telling me my advice won't work cause society has changed. What's the biggest change. The ratio of men to women is a glaring one. Why is the ratio different than it has been through history. Less men are dieing. Personally when I went to war it was to keep from being homeless. Anything else was an afterthought. It was one of the best decisions I c…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 10:40 PM
1

I'm not advocating war but lack of a big one is definitely contributing to the collapse of society we are seeing. Everyone on this sub seems to keep posting about sexual value and all the competition in the dating market. Since they like to call it a market it seems fitting it would also be subject to supply and demand. They complain that in online dating they might get two messages while the average girl can pull hundreds. Imagine the ratio of men goes from what it is now around 99 men per 100 …
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 10:30 PM
1

If they want to focus on getting laid war would be their best bet. There have been more male births every year since they started keeping track in the 17th century. Despite this almost every country in the world has more women than men. Why do we genetically have more male births. Because men die younger. We just make it to adulthood at a lower rate. You start taking out the massive casualties we are used to in previous generations of war and you get a surplus of men. I spent my time in the sand…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 10:10 PM
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He does bring up a good point though of how society evolved. On a certain level humans evolved social skills and pair bonding came from that. Now we are moving away from that. More boys and girls are being raised by single moms. Society and genetic evolution go together. Gorillas in their congress, lions in their prides, humans in their family's. The way mammals group together effects their genetic diversity and evolution. There evolution also effects the way they group together. Yeah some peopl…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:46 PM
2

Trust me bro's. It is infuriating raising a son. You will see every virtue you have mirrored in them. You will also see every flaw you have amplified. Knowing if he would listen to you his life would be better and watching him make the same mistakes anyway is horrible. My kids off to a better start than in am. Already broken a school track record I set. GPA is slightly higher than mine was. Still though. You have to let them make there own mistakes. At some point you've taught your lessons and g…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:27 PM
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It's that they hate the low value males existing to begin with. It's only been a couple hundred years since they stated letting men of lower social status into the same spaces as the upper crust. It angers them every time they are reminded you are alive and visible.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:02 PM
-1

You need an adventure my dude. How can we make your life better?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:45 PM
2

Read it again. I'm agreeing with you and adding to your comment.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 09:54 PM
5

One of the main themes of this sub is why would people want to play on the beach when they could sit in a dark basement and play video games. Of course girls don't want to sit in your dank dungeon watching you game. There is fun shit outside.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 09:21 PM
2

For white dudes about 5'9-5'10 not looking obese, non descript features. Remember average height for white guy in America. Any guy below that is already below "average " since this sub seems to focus so much on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:37 PM
2

I've been married like 20 years. Been vulnerable maybe 3 times. Why are you guys being "vulnerable?" I just don't understand all you kids having so many feelings. My wife is crying her eyes out because my kid is driving now. It's making her a nervous wreck that I act like I don't care and I'm not worried. My Indifference is actually bothering her. I'm about to go fix something outside because I'm tried of how upset she is. I'm worried but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:40 PM
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Hot take. A lot of dudes assume average is much lower than it actually is. Lots of women are going for average men those average men are just so superior to what you believe average is you think they are Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:34 PM
1

Anger is sometimes a justifiable response to a threat. That's why it's acceptable. And only sometimes. Men are also not judged and it's acceptable for us to be happy. Nobody will usually judge a man for being sad at say, his mother's funeral. Men get angry differently than women. Lots of women cry when mad. Because 10x testosterone men don't. We don't cry as much in general. Because we are so much bigger and stronger than women on average we are expected to control that shit better. There are bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:22 PM
0

I don't need a "male best friend" just sounds gross. Like a guy you'd have feelings around. I get the don't spend too much time together but honestly I barley have feelings with my wife. I'm definitely not going to have them with men around. Keep your appearance up? That might be a need for you city people. I'm rural. Scruffy beard and hair, muddy boots and wranglers I'm fine. Stay sexual. That's easy. I'm training my 16 year old son for a few rodeo events. My wife isn't gonna sit and watch me o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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Your going to definitely go through some crazies before you find one you can live with. Some of the problems men have dealing with the games I hear guys deal with is because they play them. My wife gets too much for me cause she's in a mood ill go work out, go feed the cows. Sometimes I drive my tractor or four-wheeler around and just look busy. The guys that are always complaining about a nagging wife just stay there and deal with it. Of course you can't play a video game when she's near you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:44 AM
2

I think he means random babies. I've never seen a baby and been like omg let me hold your baby. I might make a funny face at some random baby if it's looking at me but I can only really think of 1 baby I've held that wasn't related to me. I guess we are at 2 babies if I say wasn't blood related because wife's cousin just dropped hers in my lap at a party once cause she was tired of holding it. That baby was so loud and always crying. He's like 13 now and still crys. With people around.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:14 AM
1

Humans thrive on chaos and suffering. That's why humanity has great leaps during those times. We are happiest when external forces are making us miserable. If they aren't we create those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:00 PM
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Put it to you this way. In high school was dating a girl. She was still a Virgin. Said her last boy friend never went all the way because she was nervous and wouldn't say yes. She wanted him to just be a man and do the deed. I noticed this red flag and left her right there. My friend started dating her. I was a bro. Pointed out this red flag. Guess who got the reputation of being a rapist a month later. My friend. Some women just need to be stayed away from. Girls that are playing hard to get ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:38 PM
-1

Men want mustangs not camrys no matter how reliable they are.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 07:57 PM
-2

The cougar usually isn't going to A) get pregnant B) Physically overpower the 18-25 year old. Be can usually pull the benefits of a sugar baby without nearly as much risk. I mean come on do you really want your grandkids having a father the same age as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:51 PM
2

I wouldn't want to presume about your Healthcare system. Hopefully you're in the normal range and some of this is just in your head and the symptoms will clear up after. It is common for people to get in their head about stuff like that. I'm sure the doctor will know how to handle it. Test is just a small blood draw. Had one last week.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:41 PM
1

If you're American and have even the most basic insurance the test for your testosterone should be covered in your free physical but you have to ask for it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:58 PM
1

You gotta get that checked to be sure. Most people are just naturally lazy and try to blame it on low test. Don't think I'm making fun of you. I'm actually trying to help. The human body is very adaptable. You will get used to an increased activity level. If test was all that mattered with the symptoms listed little boys wouldn't have near the energy they do. Watch even a high preforming athletic dude try to play with an 8 year old all day. Yes you'll hold out longer. They will eventually crash.…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:11 PM
1

5'10 Mexican here. People don't belive I'm not white. Even when they hear my Spanish. Even when they see my darker siblings they think I'm adopted. Never had issue dating.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 03:11 AM
2

That's sucks. Had a bullet go through my thigh. I've had girls ask me to pull my pants down to show it. I always thought girls liked scars. How bad is yours and where is it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:34 AM
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I came back from war with horribly disfiguring burn scars on my arm, shoulder, back, even a little on my chest. Women loved to touch it and here how it happened. A massive disfigurement and most didn't care. If anything it made them want to know about me. My confidence kept that from being petty.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 12:43 PM
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I think that's true for the sex starved men that post here. Like a starving man that will eat food from the trash. Things have never worked right for me without an emotional connection. A girls personality and actions can affect her beauty and desirability much more than her clothing or hair. Maybe that's why I've had better luck than some of the guys. I listen to the words coming out of women's mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:45 AM
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I'll agree to that. I'd say the last shows to have competent fathers also had competent mothers and women in general. Family Matters is one of the last to come to mind. Both adults competent, capable, fully developed characters.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:26 PM
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Some of this possibly comes from how single minded men can be. I can sit in a tree and watch for a deer for hours. Only thing going in my mind is what's going on around me. I see gamers "not really my thing" devote the same amount of time to their screen. When men do things we are in the zone. Every woman I've ever spent any kind of quality time getting to know on the other hand can be crocheting a hat, while watching a TV show, and carry on a conversion with her friend who is making a scarf. Wh…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:08 PM
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If they were really looking down on male hobbies the bass pro shop wouldn't be so awesome. Never had a cookout or fish fry after a hunt people didn't come to. And women are making the sides while we drink beer and run the grill/fryer/smoker. Now the gym I kinda get. People get boardrline obsess. Like when I can do 45min cardio and an entire chest routine and the same group of dudes is there when I get there and when I leave yeah they are just hanging out. No wonder there women are looking for th…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:21 PM
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All I see is families because that's the places I'm having to go now. Give it a few years. You'll see an older couple. It's probably me.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:36 PM
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Lower your standards?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:07 PM
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Because children are liabilities. They are like boats. You keep spending money on them. You enjoy them. You are not expecting a return. It's only dehumanizing if I'm also not being an asset to her. Did you miss the entire tangent about getting a return based on what you put into it? I think you're just completely missing my entire point. I put in effort into the relationship. She puts in effort. We both appreciate in value to each other based on maintenance. People who don't invest in maintenanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:46 PM
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Object may be a bad term but asset can be an applicable term for a spouse. This sub focuses too much on looks as the only thing especially women" have to offer and this is not true. My wife has went up in value to me over 20 years. She has a few gray strands now and has birthed my child but she also contributes a lot to our house and quality of life. Excellent mother. My son My heir would not be the man he is becoming without her. The love she gives me. The support and friendship. I like having …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:48 PM
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I Miss lockdown. We had fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:33 AM
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You don't have to be into the things I listed. There are other activities that will put you around women. That I'm not that into so didn't think to list them. I've just always been the kind of person to try all kinds of random things for any reason. Some new things I hated. Some I stuck with. Like how many things I listed have some of forever alone people even tried? I also homebrew and home distill. That's as much a bro hobby as war hammer. My home brew shop is literally the middle two isles of…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 09:40 AM
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How does branching out and finding new experiences change who you are. Well I guess all the things I've done have changed me along the way but it was never for a girl. Girls just happen to like all the things I listed. I also love to bow fish. I left that off because that's a hard no for most girls and op wants to meet girls. Hopefully he has fun in the process. I'd hate to think he ended it all and he was a scuba class away from having friends and romance.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:56 AM
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I'm not even pulling strange anymore. I been married for a bit. My advice is solid. If your main hobbies are war hammer and video games you're going to have a hard time meeting women.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:48 AM
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If I thought there was a chance you were local I'd gym with you. If you're in good shape you can't be that ugly. I got a friend that is so ugly his mom put a paper bag over his head to breast feed him and he was out boating with us and had his new girlfriend with him. We can find a way for you. I know you've tried hobbies to distract yourself but how many of those hobbies are ones that girls like? Hobbies you can do with the kind of girls you're interested in. Hobbies don't stick with me long us…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:07 AM
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Let's talk about this bruh. Everyone has a low point. Even if I can't help you with girls maybe I can be a friend. What do you do for a living?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 03:51 AM

Agree to disagree. Wife still likes to drive like when we were young and dating. Trust me she would tell me if she didn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:21 PM

I drive like an asshole for me not for them. If they want to come along great. They know what's up. Like I said I slow down if asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:20 PM

I live in the mountains. I don't feel that I'm having fun if my foot pegs don't scrape around the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:08 PM

Ww3 is coming up any time now. That should fix a lot of that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:41 PM

I honestly think these guys don't see a difference in a girl feeling safe with me in a scary situation vs me making her feel unsafe. Women that date a guy like me know it's dangerous and scary the speeds we are driving on my motorcycle. They just feel safe with me in control. They enjoy the adrenaline rush. The men that hear her screaming around the curve on the other hand. Well I must be an asshole. And I keep making her ride. Never had to make a girl. Some girls hate it. Ask me to slow. I do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:38 PM

Are you sure it's so different? Could it possibly be that you would have also struggled 5, 10, or even 20 years ago? What are your hobbies? What do you look like? Just the hobbies I have I'm around a lot of guys in there 20's. Guy I went fishing with last week has to tell girls he doesn't have time to take them out on his boat cause he's tired of entertaining. Guy is slaying so much strange he's turning out down. This guy has a lumberjack build. Other guy that's with us drives an 80's model t to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:01 PM

It's not enough for me that someone pretends. You can usually tell the difference but as we see with our political landscape it is expected you at least give it lip service. The fact that people try to fake it at all shows it's a desired trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:23 PM
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I know a few of those guys too. I spend a lot of my misspent youth riding motorcycles with them. That doesn't change the fact you at least have to pretend you possess a strong moral character to get the privileges and respect a "man" expects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:33 AM
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A real man must absolutely have a strong moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:08 AM
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In rodeos we win belt buckles instead of trophies. They are very ornate. You can let your special girl wear them for the night. We call these girls buckle bunnies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:43 AM
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I was in college when 9/11 happened we had a housing bubble and a recession at the time. My job opportunities were military or starve but hey my student loans don't exist. It got better for a little while. My contract ended after the bubble burst. I got a hell of a deal on this house had I bought 3 years earlier would have cost me similar to what it's work now. It's not that different when I was 20. I was luckier than a lot of 20 year Olds now. I also worked harder than a lot of 20 year old that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:22 PM
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I remember thinking my father had no idea about the things men in my generation dealt with and how I knew better. Turns out I was wrong. The only advice I even gave was always wear a condom and vet these women better. I was bow fishing the other night with 2 guys in their 20's. Honestly there are no significant differences in what they are going through other than online dating messing with their brains. We had online dating in the year 2000 and it was just as big a shit show then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:24 PM
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At this point in my life most of "these men" are kids from my prospective but when you tell an early 20's guy that women lie about birth control and even when used correctly. They just look at me like never my girl Then they are like the bitter old men I go fishing with eventually. It's sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:51 PM
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Damn I know. I'm so tired of all my friends that will bitch about how they got "Trapped" I was married before I ever blew a load in a chick. Well in her vigina in any case. If these guys are getting Trapped it's not like it's some kind of sneaky thing everyone else didn't see coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:55 PM
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https://marketurbanism.com/2013/03/29/ranking-state-land-use-regulations/ I made the top list.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:48 PM
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Who hurt you? My baby leaves for college in 2 years. Said baby has lived with his mother and I his entire life. There are good women out there. You just have to go through so many shit ones and weed out so many red flags to find a good one. Also wear a condom every time because you don't want to knock up the shit ones before you find a good one. We give woman a lot of shit for doing shit tests but men need to test and vet the women they are putting baby in too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:45 PM
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I love my state. We have a law if it want to build it for my personal use they have to let me. I can't sell it v without it meeting certain codes and such. That's why it's a good thing my son will inherit the farm. No way is my barn meeting any kind of code.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:37 PM
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I would differ. Maybe I'm just old school but there are qualities I expect from a man before I'll call him a real man. Arnold Schwarzenegger shows a lot of them. I remember someone on reddit making fun of a down syndrome body builder on reddit and he jumps on here with his verified account. Doesn't even completely tear the bully down. He uses it as a teaching moment. To tell everyone on the sub that day how to encourage and treat each other. I also remember another man posting a progress pic on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:35 PM
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My grandad was at iwo Jima in WW2. He almost always wore long sleeves because he grew ashamed of his tattoos. If you had full sleeves like by grandad did from the time he was from you were a bad ass. Full stop. Sleeves now means you had some extra cash. Personally I don't feel that I need a tattoo to attract women or look manly. I've got a huge burn scar on my shoulder upper arm. It usually gets way more attention than anyone's tattoos. Happened in the sandbox while also underfire. Tattoos just …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:21 PM
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Never has for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:47 PM
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I married an introverted nerd girl. Turns out the girl that's usually taking pictures of people at the dance really wants to be asked to dance. She also loved being on the back of my motorcycle just as much as any party girl. Biggest difference was I had to ask her instead of her asking me for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:45 PM
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I put it to you this way bruh. Height is only a filter on dating apps. If you've got a chance to make an impression it doesn't matter nearly as much. I'm 5'9 barefoot but never had an issue out in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:30 PM
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We are all shallow to some degree. People just complain when they don't have what the other person is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:44 PM
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Is it possible she thought your autism was worse in the beginning? Obviously there are people on the spectrum that can't give consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:17 PM
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I think she was trying to morally justify letting you down. If a mild, barley noticeable case of the tism was the only issue and she thought you had adult mental facilities she'd have took you to pound town.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:22 PM
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Depends on the redpill flavor you follow. A change in mindset isn't dishonest and learning skills that can make you high status not only help you with dating but in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:03 PM
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I took a pretty girl on a date. We went to a play and dinner. She was really pretty. Half way through dinner, hearing her sum up the play she wanted to see, I knew I couldn't be around her long enough to do the segs. Took her straight home. Her personality just got to me. I probably could have got some that night. She still really liked me. But like damn the effort of having to be around her long enough wasn't fair to either of us. I just don't know how some of these guys are so sex starved they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:44 AM
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Her reasoning would matter a lot in that scenario. We've been together over 20 years. It would take probably something medical to stop her at this point. I kinda owe her the loyalty she's given me all these years though. Like I doubt you're scenario will happen. If it dies we will work with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:48 PM
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In one case you're making a decision based on a strangers health. In the other is someone who has shared the best years of their life with you. These are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:56 PM
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Try keeping one around long enough you can teach what you n like. My sex life gets better every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:11 PM
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There are benefits in a longterm relationship outside of sex. Benefits I didn't see in my early 20's. Sex is an important part of my marriage but at 40 I'm not sure that it's top five. Then again I still get sex 'most' times I initiate and she still initiates as much or more than she did 19 years ago. In the beginning. So yeah maybe sex would be more important if I weren't completely satisfied with a partner that makes sure I'm taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:07 PM
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I feel bad for any man that has achieved so little that this is his greatest compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:01 PM

You're right two dumb people usually don't realize they are both dumb. It's difficult to be in a relationship where you're either having to talk up to or down to someone. I really need someone in a life partner that is intelligent and confident enough to tell me when I'm wrong and consider that I may be correct when I think they are wrong. I'm not gonna get that with a dumb girl. I'm just gonna get kids where my intelligence is watered down by her lesser mental faculties mudding up my DNA. Same …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:17 PM

She was great around kids I was afraid it was genetic. Also broke up with a girl that was allergic to peanuts. I could never love her as much as I loved peanut butter and I didn't want a bunch of kids running around my house that couldn't eat pb&j.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:54 PM

She also used to brag about being valedictorian and would get mad if you pointed out she was home schooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:44 PM

Omfg roflmao She was hott but she was always saying dumb shit like that. She also needed more male validation than I was going to give her. Got another ex that killed her boyfriend and got a Netflix documentary out of it. I guess I "dodged that bullet"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:40 PM

I once dated a girl that genuinely wondered why the fish did not die in the Great flood because she researched the Bible and Noah did not have an aquarium on his ark. I assure you intelligence is definitely important. I couldn't have my future babies possibly getting those genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:24 PM
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The irony doesn't escape me. I can be fairly arrogant. All my friends are blue collar as an I. I'm usually not it situations where I have to flaunt my academic achievements and when I am I hate being talked down to. It puts me in a mode acting like the people I hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:36 PM
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It may not sound like it but I'm agreeing with you. Both men were behaving poorly and you would have been work punished no matter what you did. I'm just trying to explain why they acted the way they did. I am sure the man that baited out the whole confrontation is the reason you were punished. After he instigated all of this his beta feelings were hurt. He then went around using the same manipulative behavior to isolate you from meeting. When I did white collar work if I brought a girl around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:48 PM
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I'm just telling you what went on. Honestly the dude you defended was the wrong one in the situation. It's nice you defended him. He should have had thicker skin. He shouldn't have let it get to the point you noticed. That showed he was in fact inadequate. Plus he's emasculated you defended him because he couldn't control his emotions. Yeah he got baited and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:23 PM
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There are social interactions that happen to you as a woman I will never understand. I assure you that what you saw happen was a male interaction that you will never understand but I will try to explain it. For whatever reason when guys group up some of the men, "usually a friend zoned beta cuck or 3" will start doing little digs at the men that girls in the group bring around. When you're this guy getting dug at you try and roll with it. Sometimes it's just to over the top. The guys are usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:04 PM
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Most 20 something guys don't like the work because we work 2 weekends every month but I'm also off 7 days in a row every month. Of every 28 days I work 14. I left an IT job and gave to my office because they pay was so much better. I do also get 2 weeks worth of paid vacation and 4 personal days so if I need an extra weekend I take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:56 PM
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The way people like your "friends" talk to me when they find out I have a blue collar job vs how they talk to me after I tell them I have a masters in accounting but this pays more is why the boy friends get defensive. Nobody likes being talked down to and people with higher education levels do it without noticing. They have become so used to hiding behind their intellect it has become second nature. They usually hide behind the intellect to hide physical inadequacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:47 PM
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When did we start considering service work "blue collar" almost every factory in my area pays double or more than the service jobs you listed off. And they are automated or partially automated. Of course women will date skilled labor blue collar guys. I'll net six figures this year and have a pension. The cost of living is also very low in my area. They are hiring people off the street right now. No college, no trade 26 an hour with pension and 20 dollar a week insurance. Once you've put in a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:42 PM
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About 15 years after they invent a neonatal test for autism and we get back roe v wade back this site and especially this sub is going to get really empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:13 AM
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Post said dating not fucking. Also my entire comment was adding on to the many other reasons. Girl might overlook one but the list. Eventually that face ain't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:59 PM
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Some of them are also stinky, broke, or just weird as all hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:32 AM
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What makes tattoos a masculine thing. Half the women I see have at least one now days. I'm not sure I ever dates a girl that didn't have at least one and I don't even care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:47 PM
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Been my experience that any woman that wanted to spend time with me wanted to shoot guns, be driven to fast and all kinds of other shit. Why else would they ask to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:17 AM

Wtf dude. I was done having kids by 34. What made you wait so long to find a relationship. We need more of this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:53 PM
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My wife helped a lot but kids are easy if you're prepared. She worked at home in her own schedule even before kids. I work a swing shifts so I have weekdays off fairly often and stuff. Made places practically empty if I wanted to fish, swim, hunt, play on the playgrounds, ride rides at an amusement park. We could all go to a nice restaurant for lunch and not bother adults trying to relax and date. It's a great low pressure time to teach children to behave when it's during most people's work hour…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:52 PM
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I think most do. Reddit and especially this sub are filled with the outliers. I know about 5 guys in their 40's or older. All married with no children of their own. To women who have multiple children but will never give these men children of their own. They all act with a sense of moral superiority because they raise other men's children. Must of the people I know are in marriages with a blended family of some sort. Very few of us are still married to the biological parent of all our children. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:38 PM
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What other choice do they have really. I never had the problems a lot of these guys on this sub have and a lot of my friends think I slept with way more girls than I did. For the record I never claimed to smash a girl I didn't. But when we would leave to together and we had been flirty all day and having a blast they assumed. Reality was women so not want sex nearly as much. She wasn't up for it she just wanted to have fun that day and I respected that and didn't push. Pride won't allow me to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:58 PM
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Every example you have listed of what women "can do that men can't" is all 100% because of men. You don't have casual sex like women because they aren't fucking you. You don't become a hero sex worker because they aren't even fucking you for free. You don't go to bars showing ball cleavage because women don't want to see that. The pictures you upload to dating apps matter very little because so many other thirsty dudes are in her inbox. Why should she pay for weed when there is a line of dudes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:51 PM
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Think that depends on the area you're from and genetic diversity. My dad in his late 60's still has 80's hair band hair. My hairline is perfect at 40. I don't have chest hair though. Couldn't grow beard til mid 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:37 AM
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I think a lot of relationships end because both people stop trying later in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:51 AM

And if someone leaves a failing marriage and at a latter date moves on to a different women that is far different from getting caught fucking the baby sitter. Leaving for is not leaving and moving on. Op's entire post is that as get beauty fades her value decreases and she should be traded in. My counter argument is that the worth of a woman that has shown love and loyalty is far deeper than the beauty that came from her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:21 PM

I feel like my son is going to be a party boy for at least another 5 or 10 years before any of these girls lock him down. I guess I had to sow my wild oats too. My wife is freaking awesome though. Think I just met her and knew I needed to lock that down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:12 PM
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You're right they any kind nice=ugly to the girl or that girls somehow love assholes. This is not the case. At 21 I didn't even notice the boring girl that was probably just as pretty as the girl that loved to scream while my bike was on one wheel. Their problem is when they see this girl having the a good time and me not really giving 2 shits about my life or anything else they call me an asshole. They assume she's riding the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:38 PM

You're giving me too much credit. She still lays her head in my lap like a cat so I'll play with her hair when she has a headache and will rub my shoulders if I look like I had a bad day at work. We laugh at each others jokes and help each other through all the bull shit life throws at us. I think the dudes in this sub are too concerned with sex. I get laid more being married than I ever did single. I'm only horny so much of the day compared to how often I'm bored or hungry need a friend. She ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:42 AM
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That's kind of my point. The whole nice guy thing is pretty much in bought your dinner now you put out like sex. Like she's a prostitute your purchasing for the low price of shrimp Alfredo at the olive garden. I keep telling the boys in this group if your goal is to show her a good time she might feel like having sex. I been on dates where after an hour I know I don't want to smash. Her personality completely destroyed my sex drive for the night. Women are obviously even more keyed in to emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:22 AM

It's definitely not the deciding factor. It simply influences the other factors is more of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:15 AM

The Tom cruise argument is at one time he wasn't rich and famous. He was short but attractive and became what you see now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:14 AM
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I'd counter that just as many men don't want stability on the younger side. I was buck ass wild in my 20's. It attracted buck ass wild women. I didn't want kids or a wife. I wanted to jump out of airplanes, ride bulls, see how fast my motorcycle really went on curving mountain roads. Naturally if i wanted company she needed to be able to keep up. A lot of women can't keep up that lifestyle for very long. Honestly I couldn't either. Just longer than the girls. Part of why I think I grew up is I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:31 AM

Guy I work with married 22 year old in his 50's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:27 AM

Society should shame a man who leaves a loyal wife and mother of his children for no other reason than to fuck a younger chick. My wife has never given me a hint that she had any interest in any other men in 18 years. She is everything I would ever want in a wife. She is such a caring mother. The loyalty she's given me deserves being returned in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:25 AM

I'm using personality as an umbrella term to include characteristics. I do think it is used as a gaslighting term from time to time. I'm sure you and I both have the friend that always has to pick a fight, a friend that always wants to do something extreme, one that's always working on something ect. I'm not sure what gravitate certain women to certain personality types but it's easier to example. I used to ride rodeo. Some girls couldn't get enough of the fact there wasn't a bull I didn't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:46 AM

My argument is that the positive validation you get from practically anything is the same confidence. Elon has had enough luck multiplying his father's fortune that being wrong the times he is can be written off. I'll grant you the dude looks dumb. Often. He is still successful. On a dunning-kruger curve he obviously has more confidence than he has ability. The ability is high enough to where he is filthy fucking rich. Dunning-Kruger does not apply to men at his status. The case can be made for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:11 AM

Tom cruise is pretty short. A lot of the mma fighters are ugly as fuck. I'm sure you'll argue rich, good looking, high status. Have you ever rode with a bike gang. My misspent youth taught me those men could score some of the hottest, wildest party girls. Dudes were ugly and fairly broke. I was in fights every night. The confidence of a real biker gang member doesn't come from looks or height. The tallest is best looking weren't usually the leader and definitely didn't get the most chick's. Conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:43 AM
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My state doesn't do alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:52 AM
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I don't know that I could ever fully respect or include in my Peer group a full time stay at home dad. It's odd, I'd be a little jealous, and I don't think he would ever understand what men go through while he's bitching about them same stuff my wife does. I've only met 2 or 3 in the wild and they were all lazy, useless pieces of shit that were mostly stay at home because they couldn't hold a job to begin with. They had no ability to perform basic male tasks and are just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:28 AM

Data also seems to indicate cars are getting much safer. The increase in car safety over the last 20 years, especially car seats has made the gun deaths look even worse. Had cars not gotten safer they would still by far kill more kids than guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:41 AM

I chaperoned a few trips my son took to various Boy Scout Camps. The difference in how the boys behaved when they started letting girls attend was staggering. Instead of learning new skills the boys were so awkward around the girls and so afraid of trying things they weren't sure they would be good at a lot quit. Or they just stuck with things they thought they would be good at. Instead of helping each other and showing leadership like they used to do they spilt into alphas and betas. Like at sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:04 PM
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I'd argue that women's sex drive is affected more on a hormonal level. Female testosterone peaks at night. Male testosterone peaks at morning. Men have 10 times the test women do. Birth control suppress what makes women horny. The closer women get to menopause the hornier they get during ovulation. Women get so many hormones trying to get their last chance baby. This is why women in their 40's are hard to keep up with. Women are easier to bring to orgasm the closer they are to ovulation. The fur…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:54 AM

In the US if I deed my home over to my heirs before time to chunk my in the nursing home my VA benefits will pay for my senior care. If I need said care sooner than 5 years before said deed has had time to "settle" my corrupt government will steal the home I worked hard to pay for before they will give me the VA benefits I Damm near died earning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:14 PM
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Yup. Any woman will be just fine in the bedroom if your personalities click but finding one your mom likes, that can cook and is fun to be around. That's gold standard. She can even be a little heavy or whatever. Especially after having my babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:04 AM
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I'd rather have a pudgy girl that can cook well and likes to do it than a skinny one that at best makes health food but more likely makes me take her to dinner she picks at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:23 AM
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Loving to cook and do it well could easily top sex or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:22 PM
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The truth if he says he's 5'8 he's probably 5'6. We been giving a guy at work a complex. I round down on my height and say I'm 5'9. I'm 6 in work boots and closer to 5'11 barefoot. He tells everyone he's 5'10. All the guys his height say they are 5'10. It's possible the short doctor really is arrogant and annoying. Men with deep insecurities often try to over compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:47 PM
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I've found that when men outnumber women in an environment all men's attractiveness goes down. I think it's more survival for her at that point because everyone is eyeing her trying to get a piece. I think it leaves the sexual at that point and becomes a safety concern to most women. Ever noticed a club with a doorman charging men more to enter? Women to men ratio is higher. Girls are happier. Then go to a sausage fest women are all reserved and such
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:00 PM
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Girls have a built in system to help them mask autism systems in Western society men don't have. Men don't feel as bad because the women are more high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:43 PM

I've found that when men outnumber women in an environment all men's attractiveness goes down. I think it's more survival for her at that point because everyone is eyeing her trying to get a piece. I think it leaves the sexual at that point and becomes a safety concern to most women. Ever noticed a club with a doorman charging men more to enter? Women to men ratio is higher. Girls are happier. Then go to a sausage fest women are all reserved and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:13 PM
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I'm 40 and my guy friends do not get hugs from me or each other when they are sad to my knowledge. Then again I've been married last 17 years so not sure I could figure out dating again. Was always my experience girls would let you know if they liked being touched. Starts with a brush of the hand. As she allows you to touch her pay attention to her. Is she touching you back or just allowing it. If she reciprocates keep doing stuff if she is hesitant back off it's either not the time or she's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:12 PM
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Why would you want non romantic people touching you? Like if a bro tried to hug or snuggle me we would probably be throwing hands. Like I might give my dad a side hug. Sounds more like a quit porn and stop focusing on romance kinda thing. Like I've got a bro I've been gym and drinking with for years. Never hugged. We've wreslted a few times cause one of us was drunk and mouthy. I'm not sure it's normal for cis guys to want that in western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:55 PM
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