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Yeah, that might be a poor person thing (wanting to provide) or maybe even a traditional roles mindset. I’ll never know what it’s like to be a man, so I don’t know what it’s like to have the pressure of being a provider. Also, think that’s probably less of a pressure on men here in the US. Even though I’m a woman, I’ve always wanted to be able to make enough to provide for myself and my spouse if needed. Think it’s mostly PTSD from having been poor and hoping to never have to experience that aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:53 PM
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The men I know aren’t valuing youth over developing careers, interests, and fostering healthy relationships. You must be hanging out with a really immature group of guys. Also, the women in this age group are hooking up with other guys in their age groups…probably even guys that they go to college with! * gasp * So don’t say it’s difficult for men to “get casual”. You’re just upset because you’re the older creepy dude looking to bang college chicks. No one owes you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:43 PM
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Don’t know about you, but I consider a person to be “prime” when they look good AND have their shit together. Not many women have their shit together between the ages of 18-23, nor do they need to. Speaking about fairness…nothing is stopping you from dating a barely legal woman who hasn’t grown as a person yet and will probably leave you once she matures. So make it fair. Go get em, tiger!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:34 PM
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We keep our bank accounts separate. I pay quite a bit more of the bills than he does. Originally, he was trying to pay more, but we figured out a way to make it balanced. Now we do it more based on percentage relative to our pay. As far as financial decisions go, we’re both equal partners and get an equal say. Although, if he wants to make a purchasing decision without me, or vice versa…I trust him and he trusts me. After a decision is made, we split the cost based on percentage of whatever the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:05 PM
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And that sucks. I’m a woman and I’ve met every single one of my dating/relationship partners at work. But I know that meeting women at work is a slippery slope, esp for men. (Because of the potential for sexual harassment claims, or workplace tension.) So like you mentioned, you’re relegated to joining groups where you might be considered “the weird guy”, etc. I think it’s a much tougher world out there for dating than it was twenty years ago. It’s really skewed perceptions. Edited: to correct s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:49 PM
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Thank you. :) He’s an amazing person. I do believe that some women didn’t see that when he was dating, but again…maybe some women DO worry about not being able to support themselves. Or it might even be a learned behavior from having to “keep up with the Joneses”. (Or basically, I need a highly paid spouse to outdo my peers.) Lol, this has really been my only advantage to having grow up poor. I’m not judgmental in that realm. But I know this is a thing that a lot of women do care about and it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:25 PM
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If you go on dating apps where the premise is to form any type of romantic/sexual relationship then you’re going to get rejected, probably by most people. These profiles are all based on shallow criteria and make it easy to for others to judge harshly, especially when it’s a buffet of imagined options. If you meet someone organically IRL, then you get to know that person on a contextual level. This is hard to do in this day and age, especially with people doing everything remotely. So it’s a tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:19 PM
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Oh I agree. In this society, especially with online dating apps. Those apps create destructive behaviors for both men and women. Honestly, I feel like with social media, many young women turn down MOST men simply because that would deplete the amount of male attention they receive online. Like you mentioned, there’s a lot of people (esp. women) that seem to place stock in what other people think of them. Many young women aren’t going to give up the droves of male admirers for someone that they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:53 PM
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My husband makes way less than I do. It was never an issue to me. I’ve never cared about the level of income of my dating partners, friends, etc. Some of this might be because I grew up in poverty, but did well in school…then later got lucky with a high paying career. I broke my family’s cycle of poverty. At that point, I decided that I’m responsible for my earnings and financial wellbeing, not other people (or in the case of the article, a spouse/dating partner). The upside to having been poor …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:42 PM
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They also resent women that aren’t willing to give them sex based on the fact that they perceive themselves as kind and honest. Some of it is that women are turned off by the entitlement attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:30 PM
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Now you have me wondering what an 8/10 looks like at 85. Thanks, OP. Haha. Though I get your point about attractiveness being relative to age. Enjoyed your prospective on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:27 PM
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You sound like a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:11 PM
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I love Cobra Kai. So good. :) As a very young adult, don’t you think it would make sense to add experience into the mix before solidifying your mindset? Feel like you’re painting yourself into a corner and it’s going to limit the amount of true interactions you have with people in general. Not saying that what you feel isn’t valid, just saying that people are complex creatures and applying a blanket ideology to your interactions might interfere with your ability to process relationships on your …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:47 AM
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Guidance counselor? How old are you, kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:46 AM
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Again, you’re missing the point. Thinking women are “hot” or being sexually attracted to them is not objectifying them. But treating someone or an entire gender as an object(s) existing purely for your sexual whims is a form of dehumanization/objectification and is something that women have had to deal with for centuries. Not shaming male sexuality in the least. You can be sexually attracted to a woman and treat her with respect as a person too. It boils down to how you treat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:05 PM
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You are totally missing the point. There’s a difference between sexually objectifying women and being sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:48 PM
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Hence the word “exclusive”, meaning that some men only view women from the position of what sexual value they provide and physical attractiveness. There’s nothing wrong with having a sex drive, preferences, or appreciating women on a physical level. But some men get so caught up in the physical objectification, so much so that they don’t see the value of women beyond that. Then they sit their ass and complain that no one will have sex with them. If a man only wants sex, then maybe they SHOULD se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:14 PM
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Meaning that’s their modus operandi, or way of viewing women in general; as sex objects. This isn’t all men, but it’s a concerning percentage. Not only that, but you just proved my point by mentioning lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:56 PM
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I’ll upvote that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:40 PM
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I do agree with that. Honestly, technology has really fucked the dating scene and how everyone interacts. It’s all based on shallow preferences. And like you mentioned, it changes the way people act irl. If I were stilling at the dating stage when the apps were introduced, I might be loving attention from a bunch of different randos too. Who knows…These apps are psychologically harmful for women in that way as well, just because there’s a higher percentage of men on there. If the average woman g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:39 PM
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No, but they at least didn’t have their phones up their asses 24/7 and that helped with forming social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:29 PM
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Yep, again…get off of the apps. That’s not “dating”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:28 PM
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Get off of the dating apps for a start. Most of the women on there are there for an ego boost, not for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:27 PM
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Absolutely this. Lack of social skills is the major reason these men don’t have options. I’ve also noticed that some of these men only go on dating apps to “talk” to women and then believe that’s putting in effort towards forming relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:26 PM
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Horseshit. I know lots of men that exclusively objectify women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:20 PM
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Their gooch starts to smell kinda? No, not if you wash it. Start finding women that wash down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:43 AM
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Personally, I’d rather be a swamp creature than care about what a dude thinks of my looks. Sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:40 AM
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It’s real, but as a woman in her 40’s…I can honestly say that it doesn’t affect all of us. I’m not maternal, but I’ve even been hit with the “what ifs” a time or two. But it’s not something that consumed me over the years. That being said, I’m not a Stacy or whatever bullshit everyone is going on about. Feel like women that place a lot of emphasis on superficial things, also feel like babies would complete that picture perfect image of what they think women should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:39 AM
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If I’m meat, then I wanna be bacon. That shit is delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:28 AM
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You need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:42 PM
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Maybe they do, maybe they don’t. Or maybe they are men, so they are more receptive to casual encounters than women despite their sexual preferences. Attractiveness isn’t always paramount when we’re talking about one night stands, but these casual encounters DO result in having more partners overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:56 PM
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It’s been my experience that gay men are even more picky about looks than women. Finding someone attractive isn’t about libido. Your drive doesn’t lower your standards. Finding someone attractive is about individual preferences. Some people find a wide variety of others attractive and some don’t. I’d be willing to say that it’s the other way around…The wider (or flexible) your preferences are, the more likely you are to seem as though you have a higher sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:08 PM
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I make more than 2x what my husband does. So I must be the outlier, yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:33 PM
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If reproduction is main objection for sexual selection, then what are gay people’s attraction perpetuated on? Or even couples that are childless by choice? Your biological theory doesn’t hold ground, simply because humans are thinking and speaking mammals with preferences for mates that go beyond physical attributes. Additionally, men do care about finding a women whose genes they wish to carry on. If they didn’t, so many men wouldn’t commit to a woman for the rest of their lives and have famili…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:38 PM
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How are you a victim? Victim of what? Unrealistic expectations? Women don’t owe you a relationship or even a chance at one, just because you believe you’re a good catch. Serious Tip: Stop placing all of these expectations on women before you even get to meet them. Have standards, but be compromising. No one is perfect, and even if you meet someone that “checks all the boxes,” they won’t be perfect either. Relationships are hard work after the shallow honeymoon phase even if you’re with your soul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:48 PM
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Especially since he seems to think that women have such charmed lives. This would be a good exercise in empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:32 PM
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No real reason to reject you? Any reason she might have had was reason enough. If she didn’t feel reciprocal interest, then she didn’t owe you a relationship…period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:30 PM
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Did your mom tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:23 PM
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What do you like to talk about? I’m sure there’s women that hold similar interests to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:48 PM
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Calling people “stupid bitches,” sounds totally calm and non-threatening. Lol. I know a lot of handsome guys (both in personality and looks)that aren’t violent, because they don’t have a chip on their shoulder from whatever sex they seem to think women are entitled to give them. And this…my dudes, is the secret to attracting women. Don’t be an insulting ass. Spread the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:12 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:54 AM
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Nope, I’m 17%. Have a machine at my gym that measures BMI. And I’m not underweight either. No ribs showing on this bod! Edited: That being said, I’m naturally athletic and have always been trim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:00 PM
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Again, you must be hanging out with some unhealthy people. Most women I know are in the the healthy range or just a little above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:22 PM
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I’m at 17% and I’m a runner, but nowhere near world class. You probably need to look up healthy BMI ranges for women, it’s between 18.5–24.9, with the average US adult woman being a little above that range at 26.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:18 PM
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Where are you finding these big ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:15 PM
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