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| 2 | What is the driving force behind most couples being looksmatched ?1 point apart is semi common, no one asks questions 2 points apart is fairly rare people would probably guess things like "she must give great head and a great personality" if she is the lesser looking one or "he must have money, or an amazing personality" if he is the lesser looking one 3 points apart is super rare and if the woman is better looking people think "he must have lots of money or drugs she partakes in" or other way around "that guy has really low self esteem, a weird kink, or she g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:34 AM |
| 6 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyA university with significantly more women like a small private religious one or an art school etc... the girls from lack of male attention all start going after guys. Women don't retreat and do nothing with no male attention, they go seek it out. I and many other men probably wouldn't have dated a lot of the women you happily have. You can't go around to guys saying good enough for me good enough for them. That is just being annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyThere are two ways to become better men. Men do even more RP things. Get wealthier, get more fit, get more style, get more social. Or men could just refuse to give any tiny bit of sexual interest attention to female friends, obese women, promiscuous women, status chaser social media women, single mothers, etc... The first way will just make the market more competitive for men as top guys use their wealth, free time, and status to leverage gaming more women with bigger social media profiles. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyForever with AI girlfriends. Learn exactly what they want to hear, how it's said, how often, during what context, always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex?I will just say though it is rare people have the ability to keep current interests in music, art, fashion, fitness etc. to an older age. They have the ability to be more flexible and compromising with the right people as their wisdom grows. I think as you get older you may filter harder and harder with who you spend lots of one on one time with, I think though you can still on the hand become more flexible with those people because you know how rare they are. I hope when I am 70 I still am look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Is political incorrectness/a very dark sense of humor (in both men and women) generally a positive or negative?I was ending a first date kiss in the parking lot at night with a black girl after a few drinks. She asked if I was ok to drive home after drinking. I said I'll be fine, you're the one that is going to get pulled over while I am home sleeping like a baby. She laughed and told me to shut up. Not sure if this works 10/10 haven't tried that many times yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Controversial results about unconventional vs. conventional 'cuteness'Great point I fully agree when comes to relationships or longer term FWBs. For men just looking to get laid though many can get girls that just think they're kinda cute and the girl just wants to get laid herself and he was attractive enough to pass the bar. If a guy wants variety of small doses of different women being kinda cute to a big swath of women helps a lot. For anything more than a short term hook up I agree it is better to be targeted hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to hold frame so that if someone like Dan Bilzerian came knocking you'd be able to keep the girl you're seeing?The willingness to walk away when there is disrespect is about the only thing you can do with a person that is showing a tendency to monkey branch towards what they see as bigger and better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography?Women were not so anti-porn adamant when there was no social media and no Only Fans. There was no reddit. There was no porn sickness concern for women. No limp dick concern. Women didn't flip out over Maxim magazines and pirated porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography?Wow I just can't believe how uniform and women on here are saying they are. From my view the limp dick porn sick distracted boyfriend seems like a big scarecrow. Guessing women are really running into this often enough they have experience or heard firsthand from a friend. This was not the view even 5 years ago. 20 years ago would have been laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Can somebody explain what they mean by the term looksmatchIs this what starting to fall in love feels like?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 05:45 PM |
| 11 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?It is really nuts how almost every man I have ever met thinks he is smart and funny. Red pill, especially Heartiste talked about demographics and implications like a decade ago. If anyone spent 20 seconds realizing that wealth and sex/relationship gap is all intertwined in how society is being run. It isn't Harry Potter magic. Guys read this and get a little red pill light bulb. "Gee whizz golly, never saw it like that before!" This is why TRPers can come off as so dismissive and condescending i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 4 | If you had to pick a side, would you be on the "I'd rather have guy friends, girls are too much drama" side, or the "I'd rather have girl friends, guys are too much of whatever guys are too much of" side?Yes, all wars in history are proof of this very true. Women's drama is directed as mentioned in another post is more evenly spread among everyone in their life in smaller doses. Men's is more cyclical, situational, and much more intense. I think men see other men's drama as more serious, relevant, and even romantic in a way. Men so called taking a stand, taking their balls back, hear me roar stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | If you had to pick a side, would you be on the "I'd rather have guy friends, girls are too much drama" side, or the "I'd rather have girl friends, guys are too much of whatever guys are too much of" side?Very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 3 | This article from a Widow is eye opening and I think confidently shuts down many women's objections to the way men view sex.I am going to fake my own death so I can see if alpha widow my wife or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | A lot of the posts and debates here are just staleOf course, why else do I keep on living? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 06:16 AM |
| 48 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?I'm a guy not a miracle worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:29 AM |
| 6 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Very good observation, I have recommended for a long time if you objective is women learn to work alone. If you have a wingman be picky, and only get one that wants to win for the team meaning he will be chatting up the girl's friend and stay pretty solo himself most of the time. Even better if the guy is looksmatched to you so when you approach women, you can both without ego bruising let the women decide which guy the gravitate towards. Stag parties, sausagefests, and upstaging wingmen are a h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the posts and debates here are just staleBut really, why am I forced to date fat women? Seems a bit unfair & uncivilized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotWow my condolences on the situation. I hope you and your family have a bright future after this all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotI am a tall male. Why is it tall girls don't check me out and tend to be aloof? Short girls go nuts over me probably to balance out the insecurity of being short or to have taller children. Tall girls should be giving the googly eyes to tall men and it is like they are too proud unlike short women that come at me. Edit: Fuck after reading some comments in this thread I understand. They are insecure and uptight so it is tougher for them to let their guard down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotWomen have so much dating abundance they don't understand. I have dated a lot of women as a hetero man and I see both sides. From a place of abundance women's mentality makes sense. From a place of scarcity the dominant male perspective makes sense. People will do what is best for them, not the imagined greater good. The downstream of this is AI girlfriends, metaverse porn, and sexbots become our brave new world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?finally someone understands me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?We are all that horny man behind the curtain, very heartwarming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | [M] in defense of women… men are just as helpless when they encounter beautiful women.Not in my experience. The more they get laid the more in true love they are with themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Why Does A Man Like Dan Bilzerian Get A Pass on the Language He Uses?Potential lost by taking it too far with drugs and partying. Which is what I am talking about. If you start basing your entire identity on partying hard and flaunting it you will be slave to upping the ante until your luck runs out. There is a happy medium. Between 2012-2017 there was a huge ramp up in smart phones, feminism, social media and it came to #MeToo in 2017. Zyzz died in 2011. Even though it was a short time ago societally it was a different era. Trump, Covid, inflation, and now Cold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why Does A Man Like Dan Bilzerian Get A Pass on the Language He Uses?It isn't common, but you are saying you want to project an image like a rapper that is rich as fuck, banging everyone etc. I think what is more likely than anything is the drama of women starting shit with and starting gossip. We are heading towards a social credit system type society where everything is recorded online forever and brought back to attack you if you are thought of as getting out of line. Nothing to be paranoid about, just aware of that it exists and is real. A powerful wealthy he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why Does A Man Like Dan Bilzerian Get A Pass on the Language He Uses?False #MeToo allegation from upset women. From a material standpoint if you flex on social media as this world gets more connect you have men could want to rob you or jealous and want to start shit when you are out if they see you banged their girl. You sound young. Do what's in your gut. You will find your own favored way. Derek Jeter is a prime example of how to do it. Nick Cannon is the idiot way to do it. Self composed vs. recklessly egoistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Why Does A Man Like Dan Bilzerian Get A Pass on the Language He Uses?Keep a low profile on the partying. If you want to flex, flex about the material and social part of lifestyle and keep the sexual part out. If you raise your head too high and brag too much you become a target. Don't give the jealous and outraged any ammunition. Secret society. You can have lots of fun without the drama. Let women wonder don't air out all the dirty details. Be something people have to figure out a bit and find out more about. Don't nail all the panty trophies on your front door … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Surely it's a benefit to monogamy if you rarely find somebody attractive?What a grey awful life for a man, just waiting to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?You have to be pretty horny and have a big thing for women at or above a certain fitness and attraction level to have the motivation. Almost a semi-blinding horniness, which hilariously enough increases as you get more healthy and fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"This is big, real, and true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?Personal anecdote as what would be considered a Chad here. I do more than I would have if it was 5, 10, or 20 years ago. I have a pretty strict diet. Complex carbs, no sugar, no dairy, no super processed food. I have spent many years understanding what work outs and rest periods give me the best results for an aesthetic physique. Broad shoulders, biceps, strong forearms hands. V shape lats. Defined tight butt that has some shape and something to grab or spank, be seen easily in fit pants. Neck e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?Did you read my mind? Are you a witch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?OLD is not a sexy acronym at least OD would be fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?One of the wisest thing I read was from a wealthy business man in his late 40s that travelled and had dated a lot. His take on women being a wealthy man was that they are snobs for status and what is considered high class to them. Even if the women in question have little idea of what high class is themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?sex digger. Thank you for that now I know who I am finally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?Not sure how old you are, I don't think many think anything like doom. I think vast majority understand that other nations have had things much harder. The US used to be the place to see how the future for the globe could be better that is gone. Now it is Scandanavia & Singapore people look to. There is a strong feeling among many though that peak optimism in the US happened sometime in the late 1990s. Dotcom bubble, 9/11, war on terror, 2008 crash, Occupy Wallstreet, healthcare insurance crisis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?The U.S. and western democracies in the bigger narrative were considered the good guys with bad guys like the USSR to contend with. 9/11 that lead to the the NHS, mass surveillance, Afghanistan, Iraq, the Arab Spring & so on made the U.S. lose its credibility as the good guys. On the cultural front we placed crony capitalism above mental health. This resulted putting so many people on prescription drugs including children. On the economic front we passed NAFTA with Clinton in the 90s. This chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?The original red pill relationship wisdom was often tilted towards times of old. Emperors, kings, lords, etc... had harems or a string of mistresses. Keep a family name, wealth, power, legacy growing. Have a don't ask, don't tell, don't embarrass policy with the wife. The modern version would often be a guy has a wife, has one night stand when on the road for business, out of the country etc and uses a fake name, burner phone etc. when hooking up so it never gets back to him. The trad version of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:24 AM |
| 2 | The existence of tits AND ass proves that women were biologically designed to be stared atAssertiveness, takes action with conviction, physique, presence, carefree nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Be honest, in your personal life, do you see more women punching up, or men punching up?In couples above 35 years old and now even younger you see the girlfriend/wife weigh the same as the boyfriend. A 5'4 170lbs with her 5'9 170lbs skinny fat boyfriend/husband you see this all the time. Women physically keep punching up more and more. The big ass and thicc obsessions, of which I despise now encourage women to weigh more. Before it was "I'm a fatty-boom-batty" 15 year ago. Now it's "I'm thiiiiiiiiicccc and got a big juicy ass". Facewise they are usually pretty matched. Men get thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Have people here heard of Norah Vincent, the woman who went undercover as a man for more than a year and wrote a book about it?You have to spell some of the words wrong and mispronounced or it sounds like a really smart person with a speech impediment which is being mean to those people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?I think many don't. They want sex where a woman desires them and personal adoration. I think if a lot of TRP guys could get the same satisfaction and adoration from fucking a Christmas tree, they would stick to Christmas trees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 18 | Men and women flipping roles in terms of pursuing sexWomen without the fear of being labeled for being promiscuous, understand they are allowed to have Chad hunts and bucket list items because "that was college". This sort of mentality was always on its way, it is just after 2017 and the MeToo era began all men now can get financial consequences for being caught voicing any opinion disapproving of this behavior. You are just seeing women doing what they actually want to be doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 20 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Rare to find a woman that is just really into you for you off the bat. Those have been by far my best dating experiences. Many other women I can distinctly feel they just enjoy the company, confidence, and desires of a man they find attractive. This has nothing to do with me being me though. It is about a general behavior pattern women find attractive. This can work for awhile, it isn't emotionally fulfilling though. And as far as the thought it can take a woman sometime to get to know you and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.This is may be the most honest post ever posted on this forum or any RP one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 9 | Q4Men: can you succinctly describe PUA, TRP, black pill, and MGTOW and how they differ?pua get sex with tactics to approach women in person trp attempt to get & keep sex through female respect, and not take emotional and financial losses on the wrong women black pill is going after women isn't worth the pain involved don't even try mgtow is women are not worth being a primary focus in life, they are optional and a low priority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Do you ever think about why you're so dumb or does it hurt your brain too much hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 15 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Every woman I have met has been hugely insecure about a variety of things. Why is being insecure as a man bad? Who cares what is secure or not. Either two people like each other or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Why do women hold serial monogamy as the paramount way to date and have sex? It is just hoeing around on a longer timeline with no end goal for the future. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?I have large balls, I have the same sort of sex drive. There was a girl I started dating, I visited her for a weekend and we had sex 5 or 6 times in 12 hours between a night and a morning. I don't need to fuck for an hour each time though it loses its specialness. Though she said that was the most sex she ever had in that short of time. Women really can't comprehend when some men talk about their sex drive. If you are around a woman you think is hot and you know likes having sex with you it is h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 8 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?We are heading towards post capitalism with digital entertainment (metaverse) and automation ramping up. Less people will be more rich. Average person will own less and make less money. There won't be much hustling in the future. More like UBI and affordable tiny homes. Kinda like fancy trailer parks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Did you mention legbeards? The social media and trash shows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.My bone to pick is there is a positive side to this. If a poor or middle class person reads up skills on how to get wealthy, then they get wealthy and act like a wealthy person... are they still wearing the mask of financially ignorant poor person? I'd argue the person that was poor and then actively sought to learn how to build wealth and built it used logic and reason well. If someone implements TRP or FDS and sees the benefits pans out then it seems extremely logical and rational to adhere to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.(age -12) divided by 2 18 = 3 30 = 9 40 = 14 50 = 19 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Men's standards are too lowWhy is it exhausting to be fit, kind, show appreciation, and love sex? Sounds basic. Most women fit with good hair style and care can be a 7 or damn near it. You know what men are called when they nag? Controlling. Women are allergic to this these days. Why shouldn't men be as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:25 AM |
| 28 | Men's standards are too lowI can't remember a time in my life someone asked me, what have any women done to try to impress you or make you feel good lately? Whereas for men it is de facto you are a loser if you don't know how or don't put in the effort to impress women and make them feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Modern women are becoming more openly and gratuitously cruel and spiteful to unattractive men.Boomer's deserve a lot of anger directed towards them for their folly of over indulgence in materialism and lack of emotional support as long as a roof is over the head of the kids. And, of course their complete lack of political action against the Fed, Wall St., NAFTA, lack of social safety nets, shipping away jobs & not protecting them, lack of concern for the environment, holding onto their power in society for far too long, not being healthy and straining the healthcare system more than they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Most women are practically asexual.Guys actively look for and check out women all the time in public looking for hot ones even covertly with wife or girlfriend holding their hand. Women have a hard to believing this is in fact the daily experience of most men. Sex radar is on to a fair degree at all times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is.You can put a price tag of $1 million on a bag of dog poop and try to sell it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is.Nope its just ew gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is.Best a man could do to change things is the trad legacy route, get wealthy have 5-6 kids, try to make sure your kids learn from your hopefully healthy relationship with the mother and they find good partners when they become adults. Other than tending your own garden it's all LARP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is.Dooooood so so many women probably thought they really had a chance to be with me many many of my male friends over the years when it was a "no duh" hookup. Most women have a very very hard time thinking, "Omg this guy is out with me charming and drinking with me for a few hours, then he fucked me....I mean.... that was like 3 hours and $40 on drinks..... he must like me for me right?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:15 AM |
| 9 | If all men are assholes and all women are evil, they why the hell are you here amongst that which you hate and fear?Because a bad slip to blue pill island can end in unwanted children, a broken family, divorce, losing your home, a false accusation. Falling deeply for someone can come with a lot of consequences so it is good to be informed. No one wants to be: "Did the marriage thing, never again!" "Can't see my kids they live 5 states away it kills me!" "I'll never be able to retire and live poor most of the rest of my life" "I don't trust women/men anymore I have been heartbroken too many times". "Dead bedro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Discussion/question for TRP's about sexercise and women with high countsGuys arguing that are not red pill in my view. They are purple pill and cling to more things that preserve their ego. Going full red pill for a guy that didn't grow up that way is a pretty big ego death. A lot of guys don't want to go that far. I think a big part is the way men are built and don't have the same social support especially when it comes to personal problems. Society puts a lot of pressure on men to perform for them to feel value. It is a very nice fantasy that a man can just focus … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Discussion/question for TRP's about sexercise and women with high countsNo no and no. High N count men who wrote the vast majority of the red pill highly believe women are fine with casual sex. It is called the Cock Carousel. Not the Heartbreak Carousel. Men wrote the red pill because the lie was that women get attached easily, are the true romantics, love personality, and people authentically being themselves. Men find RP because too much RL is seeing women having casual sex in the wider social circles, but not with them. "Oh yeah I heard Brittney hooked up with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Uhhh if you lived within a 2 hour drive I think you'd probably get some offers, but oh noes you may have to send that message to 5 or 10 guys and get only 1 taker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:32 AM |
| 3 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?I love how women are like I am all about personality and tons of their fantasies involved a faceless man meaning never seeing his expressions. Which roughly translates subconsciously into - I want a high value guy to put me in an exciting situation & lust after me. The specifics beyond that are grey blobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Do a lot of nerdy stem/white collar men fail to meet woman's attraction threshold?Here's my ultra red pill thought of the day first: If a woman is over 25 years old I really just don't give a shit what kind of opinion women have about my status - truly - they are into me or they or not. Past that age few are hot enough to constantly care about their opinion. 18-25 year old hot girls yeah, it is worth the upside of a cool job title to impress them, the sexual payoff is immense. My close relative is a hedge fund manager. He had a typically hot wife. By her mid 30s she was nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?The emphasis in RP on casual sex is because if men want that there are windows to do it. Only the top few % of RP men could enjoy or dedicated enough to enjoy casual sex up to maybe early 50s. Most men no matter how much they take care of themselves drop off a lot of SMV by early 50s at the very latest. That is the age most men go from older guy to just old man. Plus their prospects are women in their 40s and beyond at that age. Women at that age are getting near hitting menopause, lower libidio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 9 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?I smiled big reading this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Are any of you attracted to upper traps?Women say swimmer because that is the mainstream way to reference it. And in their heads they are thinking about the top 20% of swimmers' physiques. Most swimmer physiques especially amateur swimmers are very meh bodies even if they swim a lot. What women really mean is they like surfer, rower, water polo, tennis physiques. Usually lean, long, with medium-light upper body muscle thrown on top. Point guards in basketball, wide receivers and cornerbacks in football would be the absolute most muscl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleWell.... a lot of women are unattractive simpletons so that would be in their league... they just aren't very self aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverPoignant. I think a shit load of would-be incels are smart enough at a young age to know they don't have any desire to play red pill games and take the larger ego risks. They hold onto girlfriends often a point or two below them knowing they will end up as incels if they don't. If I was that type of guy I sure hope I would still have the balls to go for the lower shelf of red pill which is get wealthy and get a young woman from a developing nation. Making the best of being a BB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 7 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverBlue pill says getting the woman is at the end of some long journey of community. Red pill says a large large swath of women have had sex the first night of meeting a guy in their lifetime and there is indeed a skillset men can learn to be one of the guys they sleep with fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityYou don't have to tamp down empathy. Women are in contact with multiple men that want to get in their pants almost at all times when single, and even much of the time while in relationships. Many of these women also when single have a FB that is banging the day of or night just after first date with Mr. Right. This is garbage & weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?What does that mean? Women that travel a lot have banged a lot on those travels 9/10 times. What I desire are more fit women that enjoy quieter lifestyles and don't hoe around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The 80:20 rule works for women too.Hahah has anyone seen a fat girl that looks like they are fun to hang out with, gotten their number then texted them about how they should lose weight then we can hang out? Has that happened ever in world history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Is desire the root of all suffering?Yeah sitting around and turning off all your desires can be less suffering but then you are basically are a monk, junky, or old person all jacked up on meds. Great lives. The greater issue is why do people try to hysterically avoid suffering when it is a central pillar of life. Sit with it, and don't give it too much importance like when you take a dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | The 80:20 rule works for women too.I like that you wrote overweight twice in the first sentence. This entire thread is full of people saying it isn't just women are fat, there's more to it! OP: Take a hike fatty!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?I am more astounded that just so many people are unhealthy and overweight. As someone that does prioritize fitness and health as a man it limits your dating pool a lot because all men will chase fit women. Fit women are still much pickier than fit men are. How can the quieter lifestyle types be smart enough to read a lot and have deep knowledge of different topics, yet not smart enough to workout a half hour a day and change their diet. Kills me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male?Weaponized autism of the younger generations is too strong. We will have AI soon like BlackRock (AI manages $10+ trillion assets) and other big money groups have that will upend the economy. There will be some Black Mirror type dating app that matches you on your gene make up worldwide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male?Yeah that's why there is gene editing... why there is AI trained on human behavior to make you spend more time interacting with content or buying things like on this social media site we are on right now. Why there are a huge amount of unwritten social rules everyone follows as a code of conduct. Why good sales or marketing works on people.... You sound like a guy that is mid 40s or beyond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Yes part of the social contract was women would appreciate men openly as men appreciate women. Now with the options women have there is no longer appreciation given in good will. Appreciation is an after thought to a woman's own happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?I see, well I am straight with some feminine traits. I like clothes way more than most men, and I like emotional music. Probably would have been kinda emo/scenester if that was around when I was in high school. I think I feel constricted by some archetypes of masculinity. I am more in the understanding the energy of 80s glam rocker types, Johnny Depp type characters, and like I said emo/scenester type guys. I probably like women too much! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?So you're bisexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?Hey being gay would probably be a lot easier and more fun in 2022. Maybe not 1982. For real though men shouldn't see women as the more beautiful sex. Aesthetically fit men that are well put together out peacock most women just like a pimp out peacocks his hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:51 AM |
| -1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?The greatest statues are all of men, at the high end the male body is more impress than a woman's. Almost any guy can get down to 8% BF and have aesthetically pleasing muscles that will be more impressive than the bodies of probably 95% of women even if they have a decent rack and ass. I know when I am in better shape I am less impressed by female beauty in general because I can feel my attractiveness matching and oftentimes out matching theirs. Male lions, peacocks, male ducks, silver back apes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?The number one bullshit thing for men that is starting to finally be talked about and ended is when you ask a man about another man's attractiveness and he denies about how to judge it because it's gay or he never gives it any thought. Men should learn and be frank about judging other men's attractiveness in their own minds so they know how they compare. If they don't know look at the popular male celebrity crushes of the types of women you want to date and look around in public and your social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:12 AM |
| -1 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?clown show tier of sexual extortion A few clever betas and below are running "men written by women" game At least Red Pill has that balding meerkat-in-the-face clown lol I have to credit women lately. I think women just weren't hanging on the internet as fast as men were so much starting for men in the late 1990s. And before for whatever reasons women didn't seem to focus on being funny as much in the company of men or on the internet. I swear lately though I see more and more women posting on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?I think what is left out of this is that for almost all very successful and wealthy men their confidence overall rises and dgaf attitude. Even if it is a more uptight or dorky attitude it still is more confident, their time is valuable, don't take shit more which in itself is part of that boss attitude a good amount of women are attracted to because it projects some power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?I'm mean sure the guy will probably tell his close buddies "shit I lost one from the rotation". Probably jerk off to her a few times over the next week, miss the sex while he is messaging or approaching new women. I am talking about the type of guy that is used to being a FB or the one that was with a girl much below his normal standards. I don't think he will be texting her paragraphs or confronting her in personal with some dramatic speech though. That is for the guys that don't do FB often an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?That is feminine thought. For male thought is she isn't hot enough or not quite hot enough to want have sex with only for the rest of his life. It is more not a big enough positive rather than it being a negative. Like hitting up a 3 star restaurant with a good affordable weekly special. Not something you want every night, but hits the right spot when its needed. This is why men keep trying to hit women over the head with it isn't a good idea to keep dating out of your league even if you can. Gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?I guess what I am saying is I think very few guys make truly pure fuck buddies unless they do it often or the gap in looks is wide enough the guy won't get attached (much more common). Outside that most closely looksmatched FB relations with guys that don't do it often probably come with problems down the road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Let's have some fun! - People on these sub often point out dealing with 'uninteresting men/women' as a struggle when dating and relationships. So let's see... What makes someone interesting (or uninteresting) in your eyes? *provide examples!A college girlfriend of mine when I first got to knew her only talked about her friends and what they did. I had to tell her to cut it out and talk about herself or talk with me not at me about girlfriend stories. Some women just continue this. It's because media feeds them that is the woman ideal. A group of girlfriends that go out drinking a lot under the guise of trips, events, etc... For whatever reason they think because it is to wine country or brunch it is higher class & interesting, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?For men to really not care the guy early on has to categorize the girl as completely not for commitment usually because he likes the sex but couldn't see himself looking across the table at her for years. Another thing is early on getting to know each other her behavior or something she says comes off putting her in the "never girlfriend" box. When this happens the guy will probably never be asking any questions digging about what she did on Friday night with who. He'll keep everything very ligh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Yes that is the future. These girls in their 20s want to be like JLo or some other female celebrity that is 50 and dating around jumping from relationship to relationship still heavy into career and get attention. As plastic surgery and skincare gets more advanced trust me these women will be pushing hot girl summer to hot girl dead of old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?I will take your word for it! I feel the same way about being with a flabby or overweight woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Because I have a job that has been almost always more intense and demanding than these women and I will sacrifice or plan ahead to see someone I like. These women also tend to use work as an excuse often to block off what would socially be normal times to see a partner. What if we got a house together, dogs, shit even kids... if she can't make time for me now what will it be like with extra responsibilities? As for the example how can you not rest together on Sunday night on a couch? If you don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?You're right misty, it is because the hot girl summer girls tend to stay more fit and do at least a little bit with their clothes and hair that is attractive. I spend a lot of time and effort on staying fit and trying to update my wardrobe and be at least a bit enticing for whoever I am dating. I think the real problem is obesity and slightly overweight is such a huge part of the population there are just less prospects of someone I would genuinely want to commit to. I don't really care about ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Both friends I know seems the main reasons they went for those foreign women is they felt much more appreciated, and since they did then they get more attached to the woman for making them feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:22 AM |
| 10 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?A girl's ass is a big deal to me, so is waist to hip ratio to a lesser degree. I know it sounds nuts but like if I go out with her and we end up having sex and that ass isn't up to snuff I see no committed relationship happening. Wouldn't the rational thing to do is once she knows she is attracted to me she just shows me her ass and lets me grab it at the beginning of the meet so we both know the deal? Sounds ludicrous, probably save a lot of time and heart break though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Almost any average chick can drag out and prioritize the sex and the city life. Very few men can even do hot boy summer for most average men would be having sex with fat girls while he is drunk to be horny enough. 20 hot summer girls for every 1 hot summer boy. The other 19 guys look at the hot summer girls like.... can't take you serious, sex fun only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?No one wants to keep a party girl for life, that simple - trust me I know I've been with enough of them. Hot girl summer is social sanctioned be a party girl as long as you can mantra. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?In these partying vacationing social groups there is always drama, jealousy, and so on. Horny party guys everywhere, promiscuous/situationship girls everywhere. Not good for keeping a healthy relationship. You are explaining like blue piller like all her girlfriends are wonderful. Girls in this lifestyle like I said live more promiscuous lifestyles. They will drop their boyfriends/situationships for smaller slights and for the next better thing. These groups temptations and entitlement in the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 12 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?I'd say there's 2 main expressions of women's independent lifestyle these dats. Dog mom/cat lady & hot girl summer. You are in the former. I think for men committing to a woman who is independent, but lives a quieter lifestyle is a lot more doable than a girl out on the prowl with her friends constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedlmao, could you imagine even day 2 of a 39 year old woman being documented for 60 Minutes following a RP routine Reading Heartiste quotes then going on a keto diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedI really have to say both women and male feminists probably back 10 years ago really lagged in trolling ability compared to TRPers. I have to applaud how far they have come. Both have made significant strides in internet trolling, seen many examples lately here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:18 PM |
| 4 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?The proportion of hot girl summer girls has gone up dramatically year over year. It is prioritization. The guy she is dating is not a top level priority oftentimes until she realizes some of her other girlfriends stop playing that game and shack up with guys of their own. Now that she doesn't have all these options the wants and needs of the guy she is dating now all of sudden become important. Men don't enjoy this and don't like these kinds of girls for commitment. They will find a way out. I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 7 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Girlfriend material is someone that actively tries to get to know the guy on a deep level and prioritizes having time with him and happy to see him. They want to know what he wants in life long term. Hot girl summer girl is one that is flaky with texting. "I can't do Saturday afternoon GFs and I are having brunch". "Oh I am travelling a lot this month, I am going to NYC for a long week with ex college roommate, then out to Hawaii for a week and a half with other girlfriends". "I can't hang out S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 10 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?I think it can be if beta bux type men moving forward can accept this. This is what MGTOW is all about and has been for a decade or more by now at least culturally online. You will see a lot more beta bux first world western men importing third world brides. The red pill culture of not taking western women seriously as dating material has always been there. It is now just being forced mainstream as women don't hide hot girl summer, they full embrace it as lifestyle for their entire life into old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:55 PM |
| 29 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Women have experienced enough wealth, protection, and safety in the world, now more are choosing an endless hot girl summer, and if a guy is not enticing enough for her having to give up some aspects of hot girl summer to be in a committed relationship with him then its a nope. The thing is that women because they are hot girl summering so much they dismiss actually having to develop different character traits to keep a guy around. Hot girl summering all the time makes them worse girlfriend mate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Lmao you lead with of all traits fat haahaha - like bitch couldn't lay down a cookie and take a jog pleeeeease, single moms couldn't plan her life to save her life. This is great woman trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 9 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialFrom a male view, kinda like saying you are at Disney World as a kid trying to have a great time but you crapped your pants and are walking around trying to ignore it and have bliss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialThank you for this comment it added at least an hour to my life from the enjoyment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men put more emotional labor into relationships than womenFor women emotional labor = the labor of nagging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Men and women are more different than they are alikeLMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipI like this response it deserves more credit. It shows what everything adds up to. If you lack shared tradition, shared religion, shared hometown, shared generational contacts, plans for a generational future and so on. Lacking all those deep ties makes the meaning of a relationship more superficial. The stakes just aren't nearly as high. Men historically have placed a high value on being loyal, serving, and sacrificing for something bigger than themselves they believe in. Women have become too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?but they will have the voice of whoopi goldberg and be bossy - there will never be true respite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.They raise attractive women's attitudes by limiting the dating pool even further for men. Fat women are awful for men's dating life, both the ones that date them and the ones that do not! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.They are everywhere AND they are getting BIGGER! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 10 | The myth of women throwing themselves at tall, rich, ripped "Chads"Attractive face should be moved to #1 by far. A close second is having wealthy parents and a boost up in having a nice place, car, clothes, lifestyle etc... help buying first home, nice vacations, nepotist connections etc... Hey my parents have an empty vacation house in Aspen, Tahoe, Hawaii, the Hamptons etc.. want to go for a long weekend, my treat? Yeah that helps attract pussy that finds out your lifestyle and keeps current pussy around for the perks. It is a very rare breed of man that has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:58 AM |
| 8 | The myth of women throwing themselves at tall, rich, ripped "Chads"These are good points that I haven't connected together that resonate with my life experience as well. Thanks for the insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueQuestion, do you believe the 5 male gets GPS a lot from pumping and dumping a lot of 3s? Or since the guy is already lower in attractiveness his threshold to go lower is almost none because he really wants a 9 like everyone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI think people in life in many ways beyond sex dynamics are waking up to the fact that as long as technology progress, it is worth taking no deal vs. a mostly shitty deal in many different life choices. Things for everyone are more flexible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI agree with this, it's human nature. People given easy access to pleasure will take it vs. looking at the long term all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueWomen aren't trying to date 3 leagues up they are trying to date up one or two leagues which is still enough to have guys want just sex & companionship and not commitment. Women have a hard time coming the realization a guy that is utterly non-needy, non-judgemental, go with the flow, confidence, doesn't challenge your life choices, doesn't try hard to impress you etc... this guy 99 times out of 100 is acting this way because he for real doesn't give a fuck about the big picture with you. It isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | The pill debate and their theories are ridiculousI like a hot take! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | According to TRP, every successful person is betaIf they put a guy in a jail cell against his will and just let him breed a horde of kids with different hot women marched in and out of his jail cell for life would he be alpha or beta? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:28 AM |
| 28 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI have 2 close male friends currently that are each seeing women, where the woman wants a relationship and hints at it and they have kept in the situation zone explicitly for a long time to keep reaping easy female companionship and sex. Both guys are better looking and have more going for them than the women they see casually. This happens all the time especially with guys are are less beta or not beta at all A large portion of women shoot out of their league constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:18 AM |
| 4 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierI am in the camp boundaries are only useful for family, people at work that you can't easily toss out of your life. They can also keep a casual situation a bit better because women respect guys that respect their own time. Other than that for anything serious if you have to set boundaries often whether for dating or friendship you are better off finding someone that bonds with you easier and understands healthy boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Women, how many times have you or your friends been hit on by a guy and not told them you had a BF at the time because the relationship wasn't greatWhy do you think that is? The woman is over the man she is cheating on whereas the man wants to just have sex outside the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women, how many times have you or your friends been hit on by a guy and not told them you had a BF at the time because the relationship wasn't greatThe response that has gotten me the most laughs when a woman says she has a bf is "don't tell me your problems". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouBig true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouAnother poster sort of mentioned this. The easiest way this is possible for a man is to find a women who is strongly her physical type & style in someway, often based on you looking like one of her celebrity crushes in her mind. Also be a little bit out of her league at least in her mind. There is definitely a huge difference in treatment by women that are easily excited to see you and spend time together. This goes the same for LTR but also even for casual. Hell any same sex friendship is easie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Question to all men out here who work out.Women and athletics when younger (maybe 70/30 split), now more for energy and health more than either of the first two things (70 energy & health / 20 women / 10 athletics). I think you are lucky & wise to have done it for feeling for yourself. It took me a long time to understand that sentiment. Even if you want more attention from women, working out for your own respect, pride in yourself, health, etc... creates more confidence and makes you think less about what women want and more about what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 3 | How do most people just not have to self improve to not get a date?They know their league and stay in it or date down physically if they can't charm someone in their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:37 PM |
| – | Muh "PeRsOnAlItY"I have experienced way too many good looking guy friends that can be douchey user social climbers, and many hot girls that act the same way. These people tend to constantly judge if being your friend or date lowers or highers their status as one of the top things on their mind. Uglier people in my experience can be way kinder than anyone else. There is a small subset that get very angry and rude due to being pushed too far but I am betting the subset of rude ugly people is much less than good lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:08 AM |
| 3 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereLove this! hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.If you want the most in the trenches practical set of game rules that actually get you laid logistically from meet to lay Bang and Day Bang by Roosh V did it the best to show what the mechanics of game are and how it differs from being friendly. He deleted his own books so you'd have to find a torrent copy somewhere. Approach tactics, approach selection, escalating physically, venue selection, venue changing, time frames, logistics, dealing with friends, strangers, & cockblockers, isolating, clo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Platonic social skills and “game.” Have some overlap.First let's get this straight. A lot of very unlikable self important douches get a ton of pussy. How douchey they each are is in the eye of the beholder, but they are all on that rainbow. One one one my view is being friendly is like partner dance and trying to get to know someone while not stepping on their toes. Gaming is more like war and you are trying to quickly gain ground and push into sexual energy. You could throw a risky grenade here and there, there could be casualties or you could w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Do the men here have an instinctual understanding of arousel for women?Most don't a few do usually because of a string of experiences growing up that most men don't have. Women get aroused quickly when men have extreme social status in the moment, are daring, break the frame of the conversation into something more interesting or exciting, show great skill or heart at something women think is sexy. Men admire and study men that elicit these things but most don't want to dig into the gritty red pill and evolutionary details of why. All in all it is a narrow set of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Having a fat woman on TV, however, is something we have only started seeing maybe ten years ago. I know it fucking sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:46 AM |
| 13 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.Many don't get much done, and many others get successful when they are older and aren't as horny and have aged out of getting the women they want so they can focus on work and money more easily. Women have a major advantage in going through college at that age. Many more men take too much risk partying, getting DUIs, and trying to chase girls than studying. Men probably are not in the same headspace as college women lust-wise until they are early 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | The hotter she is, the more insecure she isAlso its bullshit that the hot girl never gets approached or talked to. So many guys I have seen in person when they have a couple drinks shoot for the stars. You can see any average guy amp up his entire persona when talking with hot women. They don't do that around average and below average women. Anyone that doesn't believe in game, that same energy that amps up guys naturally around hot girls is a part of game. It's an energy to amplify your persona and try to make an impression on a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:40 AM |
| 0 | The rise in obesity and decline of testosterone is a good thing for menPeople would have to nag their friends, family, and strangers about eating sugar and processed carbs the same way people did about smoking cigarettes. "Hey you should quit, you'll get cancer, be impotent, you're like kissing an ashtray." For fatties:"Hey put down the cookie you'll get cancer, diabites, heart disease, be impotent, you're like kissing blob." Then when there are enough votes ban eating sugar and processed carbs in public places. If fat people come to your house ask them to consume … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Personality Type & Risk Of Being Perpetually Singleschool pew pew types, I'm dying over here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't "keep a man" unless I do everything.Is this China? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't "keep a man" unless I do everything.I know it isn't realistic with the way society is set up but you tell someone to go in everyday and manage people and get a checklist of shit done with deadlines and financial pressures & they bring that attitude home 99/100 times. Men would rather eat McDonalds, play video games, and jerk off than have a bossy woman roaming around their place of peace. You can't cover a penis spirit with a pencil skirt! "I thought we talked about this..." "Haven't you..." "You should..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels, a pick up artist ?Here's my thoughts. He is a black dude that like numbers and abstractions. He avoided hood culture and went against the grain to do that in his time. I really tend to believe through experience any guy past a certain higher IQ that likes abstractions, numbers, philosophy, studying society at 10,000 feet etc... needs a shitton of drugs, alcohol, cigarettes or any combo in high amounts over lengthy periods a few times hanging with party girls in his life to come off as a more laid back cool person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I can't "keep a man" unless I do everything.Dealing with women is a lot of emotional labor these days. They are too self absorbed in their own lives & success for the most part. Men don't want to commit to women acting like driven men. It is pretty much impossible to be business or career driven and still be highly feminine. Maybe actresses or models but that's about it. Don't punch down on men, punch up on soulless materialism that lacks meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:07 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I can't "keep a man" unless I do everything.There aren't enough hot laid back low maintenance sex crazed women to go around. There aren't enough men that adult enough for women's satisfaction to go around. Dats lyfe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I lean towards it exuding that he feels like a million bucks, life is only getting better, and is carefree. This is when I have had my most "I can't believe that happened" moments in game where very attractive women were on me quick. The life is only getting better outlook could happen when you are partying every night til 5am and sleeping in, doing bad at school, doing piss poor at work etc. If the guy is having a truly great time and focuses on that he will have that energy. His life years dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Depends on the woman. More attractive women that work out a lot and are fit tend to like guys with more shape and definition. Lots of women don't want a guy having an obviously more attractive body than they have, whereas men are all for having a girlfriend with a much more attractive body than themselves. People are getting fatter and flabbier over time so more women are in that category and come with those preferences. You hear women say things like I don't want to have to only eat salads and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 10 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Shit testing is what women do to men to see if they lose their composure when challenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?The ones that like sex a lot and don't want to settle down at the current time do. Many don't want this and just want one girl. Red pill most often says to avoid girls with red flags, and leave relationships where things don't click. There is no bullying in fact red pill would say that is a waste of energy and potential by being in that much conflict with a woman. Red pill does say relationships are a big risk that come along with a lot of things to manage and look out for, hence the easy thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Yes without thinking twice. Dream girl is an extremely tall order though when it comes to red pill. Has to have a long long list of green flags and no red flags. Marriage contract and lifelong commitment in 2021 is hard and will without a doubt only get harder as time moves on and technology changes how people interact. The checklist for a blue pill man getting married and a red pill man is a mole hill vs. a mountain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:59 AM |
| 4 | This is the modern "sexless man"Part of game is giving off the aura you know how and will make strong moves on women treating them as sexual beings. If it works out or doesn't that's fine move onto the next, the energy of conviction is needed though. This is slowly fading away in a virtual society that is very paranoid about offending anyone. This goes times ten when talking about men hitting on women. You can see in his face that wide eyed slightly worried look, instead of a fuck it look, I'm here, I'm me, I think you're attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Women, do you care about a man's sexual history/body count?Where are the women that say "I've never been asked about my history who does that? The past is the past it's my business. I wouldn't be interested in a guy that focuses on that it's weird." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | would you mind dating someone uglier ?Even dads support Chads, they want good looking grandkids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | would you mind dating someone uglier ?butterface is the word you are looking for, it's been around forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?misawginest! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?None of that is lesser known jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?Hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Sexiest Male Celebrity 2021 PollWell now I am gay and love korean guys that look like drug addicted mannequins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Sexiest Male Celebrity 2021 PollI don't see any vote numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Sexiest Male Celebrity 2021 PollIt's a way to look at styles, tastes, body language, vocal patterns, mannerisms, cadence, body builds, grooming etc... that large swaths of women find attractive and what can be learned or emulated. Follow the archetype that best suits you. Or can just be a retard like most of reddit and say "be attractive, don't be attractive" or even better just be yourself bro. People don't think further than their next potato chip or binge watch show. Oh I forgot craft beer and dad jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Sexiest Male Celebrity 2021 PollThis entire sub is about what are the things that attract the opposite sex. These guys are top of the food chain as now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Sexiest Male Celebrity 2021 PollLots of chicks think Pete Davidson is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Why the totally different reactions towards Dual Mating Strategy?I think the problem is women even if they had this guy wouldn't treat him as if he deserves more even though he clearly does. She'd still probably nag a lot and need courting for sex after years of being together. It doesn't matter if she gets that guy she will still revert to the female imperative. That is the baseline always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 6 | How common do you think it is for men to have actual game?Probably 10-20% have game. Maybe only 2-3% leverage that game hard. Many that have game end up in relationships or just cruise and don't push it. Pushing your game all the time takes a lot of energy and horniness. A big part of game is just to keep swinging and putting yourself in new situations. Taking the rejections, enjoying the hunt and the fight. Many guys shy away from this completely and many guys even with game end up LTR'ing the first 6 that likes them back and they are benched! A lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Have men lost their voice with modern gadgets?PUAs are blue pilled in your flair, and you promote go talk to girls in person which is the number 1 rule of PUA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 05:07 AM |
| 38 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?Fat & loud. It's like witnessing a raging hippo. The other type is a 6 that acts like she is an 8, but with a sour attitude on top of the entitlement. This is way more common than it should be. An 8 everyone understands the social leverage they have to act like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the most important part of a relationship and what is your leaning?This is true for a subset of men. It just so happens this subset of men is very horny and egoistic so they come off as outgoing, assertive, & confident when they are just out for pussy and women like outgoing, assertive, and confident. So I think they are overrepresented in women's minds because this subset of men hits on hundreds or even thousands of women in their lives because they are so motivated. Most men aren't like this, it actually takes a lot of motivation and discipline to always be o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do gurls have to have "game?"Not much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do naturally attractive women have to "try"?I guess what I am saying is writing off the typical good looking person's personality hurts lesser looking people, including myself in the long run because that personality can go far with people, especially women. A lot of that personality is about energy, confidence, timing, and like I said avoiding social no-no's that break a vibe. First impressions, second, and even third impressions on new people are very important. Good looking people tend to be more okay with selling themselves because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do naturally attractive women have to "try"?Not sure I agree most men I have been friends, family friends etc... that are better looking men than me tend to have more popular and charismatic personalities because they have gotten so much positive attention from everyone their entire lives. They tend to be very socially savvy because they have played the social game with very confident and good looking people (girls included) since they were very young. This is not saying they are geniuses, but they have a lot of practice especially on wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 3 | If you're upset about not having success on OLD, why not lower your standards?Not just women here, women in society at large only tend to care about men if they are in close knit families and communities. Usually through marriage, children, and religion - which is why they are so useful for society. All of these now have less importance than going on hot girl summer trips in their late 20s with girlfriend and gay friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | If you're upset about not having success on OLD, why not lower your standards?take a hike fatass! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 4 | If you're upset about not having success on OLD, why not lower your standards?Why do women never have an answer for this story that has been told a thousand times on here. Guy friend sees how women friends act on OLD. Matches exactly with way men on PPD say. No woman admits to doing this, yet it happens all the time lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that?I see this most often with sort of a weak willed guy that has mommy issues with a more masculine disagreeable woman that makes more money. He gets an easier life and leadership. Pretty much the same deal a lot of hot women get as the norm. Rare though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | In regards to "average women think they can lock down a hot guy who sleeps with them but they can't" - Well how do YOU know that?Lots of families suck. Lots of spouses suck. And dare I say lots of kids aren't that great either. Many are though, many are not. Don't understand how people can readily see how bad the dating market can be, but think the relationship and family market must be spectacular. They are more the same than different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Men lie to get sex. Women lie to get relationshipsI don't think you are understanding. It is when she talks about her life "I was dating this guy, I was dating that guy" etc. those numbers pile up. If she studied abroad those numbers pile up. If she has party girl friends those numbers pile up. "I got a little wild in high school/college". Those numbers pile up. She has lots of guy friends, the numbers pile up. They are "friends" with lots of bartenders and bouncers, numbers pile up. They like to travel often alone or on party vacations with pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?All women's mysteries when it comes to men is that women refuse to believe that straight men have the same sexual minds as gay men we just can't participate in the same sexual culture because women's sexuality is different than ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna get a sexbot!” is an empty threat just like “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna fuck the quarterback!”Not sure if some guy is banging a super model looking bot and the guy making fun of him has a 6 girlfriend with a couple extra pounds and some saggy skin... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Why do men complain about dating when they're in their 20s? Why not wait until you're in your 30s to start dating?Young pussy >>> older pussy. The experience of having sex with a hot girl in her early 20s is unspeakably better than the vast vast vast vast majority of women in their 30s. Men want to sow their oats as young as possible with the hottest girls as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?It comes down to women are much more interested in the people they know in their life than men. Talking about people they know and interactions they had, and people's quirks is a hobby for most women. Men tend to like short stories and jokes about people and move on. They don't care as much about other people's day to day issues in life. Men tend to care more about things and actions they want to take. So no they aren't thinking nearly as much as women about personal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 13 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonI really think the cure to it for this whole very common and accepted dating cycle is to weed through more first dates, drinking less alcohol, and asking more personality and some more serious life questions on the first date so you aren't juggling multiple people. Women have painted themselves into a corner here by wanting guys to be so carefree and non-needy. Many guys have learned you can't get more serious on a first date or she sees it as too needy, so really the women have to be the ones t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:33 AM |
| 23 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonFrom my own experience and others women have "the talk" about being exclusive usually 2-4 months from starting dating. By this point they have had 5+ and most likely 10+ sleep overs with sex. She has probably in the first few weeks if not month or two still been in contact with other suitors, gone on other dates, or even had sex with a sex buddy or love interest she already had going. This is the time she needs to filter through her current batch of guys and gets tired of testing new ones when s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | What's something the opposite gender gets away with?I think part of it is women probably won't bring up sex history in dating as much as men will. Some women are probably relieved they don't have to come up with their best lie by omission story to keep a boyfriend. So when that same guy is a high sex count guy that also wants to avoid the conversation it kind of solves itself in most cases. Even if the girl has slept with 8 guys but still doesn't like the conversation and will say 4, he is glad he doesn't have to say his lie by omissions of 15 in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 23 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonIt's more like the guy has to be somewhat aloof and distant for the first 2-4 months doing his own thing. The girl throws her conscious and subconscious tests at him. These test for neediness, jealousy, abusive behaviors, being boring. She has now slept with him enough while still seeing other guys and letting them hit on her to the point he has risen to the top of her list and now she has feelings and wants more and softens up. What women don't understand is that passing these tests the way wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 01:57 AM |
| 13 | Women want men who challenge themMy first feeling as well, seems like a job application with tons of responsibility and shit pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 13 | How many potentially amazing, healthy relationships have been "ruined" by another hotter guy she meets a few days later?This is modern day Shakespeare, love it, so much drama, so many questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Lmao hahaha that was great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Opposite Sex FriendsNo, he's right the consensus is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The whole sex acts thing, sexually history generally, etc. is resolved by just not committingIn some way who cares what you think if the other person cares in the relationship about an issue. It only takes one person to care for the relationship to be done. It isn't a democracy. If I don't like something about someone in relationship I don't care what they think about that thing. If it is a dealbreaker I am out and they are in the rearview mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?First thought is a transperson that has switched back and forth a few times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Not sure how cute it is. For males at large has down sides in rape, human trafficking, prostitution etc. It is the truth though, so it is a very serious societal issue. How many school shooter boys were getting laid a lot by hot girls? Or any mass shooter for that matter? There is a huge and deep psychological component. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Yes men want sex for the sake of sex itself. That want is very strong. It really is that simple. Not getting laid sucks. Being in a relationship and committed and not getting laid often in some ways may suck even more. Like a tiger in a cage and steaks are sitting right outside of it and he can almost get to them but can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:51 PM |
| 9 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?No women get this messed up so much on PPD I can't believe it. Men want sex for the sake of sex. Everyone has to write paragraphs on ego, validation, societal expectations. No. We are just horny we want sex for the sake of sex. After sex we feel very relieved and invigorated about life. Women don't understand the male sex drive. It is more like eating food, or getting hug. Very core to the human experience for high sex drive males. Women tend to think of sex like going shopping for fun. Somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:41 PM |
| -1 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?Well I mean come on no man rejects the idea of males having fragile egos and pride that is deeply in our nature. Ego and pride is what makes men strive for success. Some girl getting dick slammed and slapped left and right before meeting him is not good for that ego, so yeah it is scientifically a bad thing. Very bad thing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notThis myth has to fucking end. This is a notion from 3 decades ago!!! Now when women get married and into 30s and 40s with white collar men that make 6 figures they get fatter than their husband all the time. I also highly suspect the men only put on some weight because they already saw their wife give up being fat and happy and said fuck it! There is literally a woman next door 2 kids, husband. She has to be in her mid 40s and she is getting BIG. She could wrestle her husband to the ground who i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notThank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 15 | Why do I pull hot girls but i can’t make them stay?I think the number one reason after they experience your game and even if your sex game is good with them they realize they can run in higher social circles without you as boyfriend. For the cool hot girls they know they can run in fun, often wealthy social circles with good looking successful people. If you don't bring a social circle like that to the table she will look for someone that can elevate her overall lifestyle more. Also I think hot girls want it somewhat in their face that you could… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Calibration is what separates the MEN from the BOYSThe more a man is fine with losing a woman because he has other options that are just as good if not better he can easily go after & will if he stops being happy with the current woman, the more attracted she will be. Women will stay in relationships where attraction does not stay high for all sorts of reasons. A lot of calibration is from truly not caring much about the outcome of pursuing a woman and just having fun with it. Game and red pill call this abundance mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 3 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketAll you can do is try your best! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketMemorable experiences that run deep in the soul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:25 AM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketIt's unreasonable to ask women to be honest in the dating market because it does not serve them. Women again don't think abstractly about big picture things. They think how does this affect me, how does this affect the people I know and care about. So it is unreasonable to ask them that, they personally don't benefit. Men through history have had a line to cross where they have willingly gone into situations to defend their tribe facing certain death. Vast majority of women biologically are not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketMost women don't have the capacity to think far outside themselves about big worldwide consequences. Their thoughts are about today, themselves, their feelings, people they know well and bullshit with everyday. Women aren't loyal to cultures. They are loyal to trends and winners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.Hakuna matata some of us enjoy sex for the sake of sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.How passionate are the surprise blowjobs for those average men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.Any woman with a genuine tight ass and at least a decent face has a shot with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome".Everyone talks about looks and money. The red pill and game especially talked about respect. Women respect a guy that has the option to sleep with a woman as good looking as her or better that week. It is an attitude of not being needy and understanding that the best long term woman for you anyway will show a lot of interest and chase you as much as you chase her if not more. There is no use in being with a woman that doesn't have some fire for you. Men without this attitude don't see or underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome".Smart observation, I didn't think about before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome".Men don't think or feel like women. Women constantly underestimate how important sex and sexual chemistry is for men. Just the sex and being turned on by looking at a woman. Has nothing to do with decoration or having better than. Men want a woman that he starts getting hard just looking at her fully clothed during a mundane experience in the middle of the day. That shit is important and is a huge calmer, stress reliever, and source of joy for men. Women don't understand this because their day i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Refusal to compromise on socio-economic standards will exacerbate the effects of "Golden Penis Syndrome".Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?This is called being spoiled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?why not swipe less so you only message 2 or 3 guys at the same time max | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 3 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?Lots of guys don't want to date paranoid girls that take forever to trust. There is no enjoyment or meaning. Oftentimes a paranoid girl like this is making the new guy pay for the sins other ex-boyfriends or other past guys did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaAgree with this, problem is women sleep around with too many guys out of boredom and loneliness while waiting for Mr. Wonderful and they don't even try to hide it. If women didn't sleep around or practice serial monogamy one boyfriend after the other it would incentivize guys to just focus on building and becoming polished. It is hard as a guy to sit and concentrate on building when you know the women you want are currently sleeping with the musician, bartender, hot guy from the kickball league … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 11:38 PM |
| 3 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?I am much bigger believe in the game and pua way of thinking than the be successful, happy then women will come easily. I believe being active, hitting on a lot of women with the purpose of trying to hook up. Not waiting for signals. Going into all kinds of sets day and night. Practicing crowd work. These skills and experience also help you deal with women in relationships and seeing red flags and learning what motivates women on a deeper level to behave certain ways. When you cold approach wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyNice post, informative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyUh oh bro you are about to get MeToo'd by a reddit comment, better delete your account lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?There's more than a few women I have only had sex with once or a few times that I have sexual memories that are much bigger and better than others I had sex with dozens of times. TRP is often for men that love variety. Variety of race, skin tone, hair color, eye color, height, petite, curvy, nationality, big ass, small tight ass, huge tits, perky small tits etc. Lots of blue pillers are obsessed with monogamy. Red pill is the the deep end of the pool it is for a certain type of man that often va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withNo reason to be silent. There is a multi trillion dollar industry in sexbots, AI girlfriend experiences, VR etc... The more noise about demand the faster it will be met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Some people deserve it. That is how we keep society running. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 3 | To avoid being a "starter wife" or "forever girlfriend," this is the best dating strategy for women:Pretty easy if you have guts ask before the first date or on it if they want to get married and say you are only looking for somewhere seriously wanting that and going after it. For the men that say yes to this I would say at the 4-6 month mark ask if they can see getting married to you. 9-12 month mark ask when he wants to get engaged. If there aren't clear easy answers then you are gambling. Another tell tale sign is how fast he wants to show you off to close friends and family. If it's month … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | "There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works"Money can give men confidence through their power to live a nice lifestyle. Many women are attracted to money and also turned on by a man's confident "boss" attitude he often gets from having lots of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?Sounds like you didn't give much effort before being content with your life. Which probably means your aren't obsessively horny like most men are that are physically healthy. Many men make hundreds of approaches and fail all of them before giving up or stay on OLD for a decade with no success trying with professional photos, profile reviews etc. Men get pissed because they want a sexual partner much more than women tend to and have weaker social support networks. A man's world is often himself, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.Generally MGTOW is for men content with their hobbies and friends. Red pill is for horny guys willing to toil like me that put a premium on hot sex with hot women and enjoy it more than the vast majority of things in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Female sensibilities have absolute social hegemony.eggs rare sperm lots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:40 PM |
| 28 | One thing that is never talked about are the unfair social ramifications of a man shooting his shot and not succeedingSocial circle in general is tough. The best social circle for dating for a guy is a small group of guy friends that are all single, go out a lot, and meet girls all the time without being too greedy. That is very rare, but very powerful. A fraternity or high school & college sport teams are the most common times this happens is much harder to form a smaller version later in life for men. The easiest social circle access for men is to get a nightlife job as a bartender or bouncer. This way the cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?Men I think give into vices more easily because of testosterone. Men get into smoking, drinking, drugs, fighting, looking for casual sex, gamble, make risky investments, speed, car accidents, motorcycle accidents etc. more than women. It is a small amount of men that choose the casual sex vice because it takes a lot more work than all the other vices. I have had a few vices, I would say most men that have vices casual sex with an attractive woman tops the list except for maybe a few that just ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 4 | If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women?Women are the buyers except for the top few percent of men. Then women become the sellers and have to care to compete for them. Law of the jungle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 9 | If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women?A man that acts carefree, charming, assertive, socially dominant, in the moment. If you ever had a time where you felt like a million bucks because lots of things in life were going great you immediately notice more women attracted and with more intensity. Women want to share that feeling. Most men as far as attracting women put too much stress on themselves with work, and wanting to impress women rather than enjoy themselves and enjoy a woman's company. This is why the stereotypes of the musici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.No reason to improve or protect women's rights, they have it far better off in the West than in Afghanistan and they should be elated about it. The power of positive thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | For Red Pill Men Who Believe In Relationships: What sort of women do you seek for marriage and LTR?Fit, hot, into me, highly sexual, agreeable & cooperative, tries to help me and make my day better. Another comment said "treats me like I am the best she can do". That is the very core thing that underlies everything else and is foundational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:27 PM |
| 6 | TV presenter Bill Maher discusses incels, virtual reality and the decline of people's social skillslmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 7 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?More video games, more sports or outdoor activities, more hobbies, more pay for play at a later age. Get laid when you can inbetween. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 10 | Can’t older women just date older men?Women start getting desperate around 34 if they want kids, husband, house living together - any of those three if she sees those as definitely needed in her life plan. At that point not many girlfriends left to do wine trips with, they are the single friend left out of many plans. Women hate not being able to socialize. They get neurotic and pushy real fast. If they had so many options I don't think this would be so obviously felt. It becomes a Stasi interrogation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Give me some of that sweet, sweet ValidationThis place is great because it's the only place I know RP guys actually confront women directly and it isn't utterly silenced. RP forums were siloed and male only before this sub. Doing this in most social circles in 2021 in any major metro area is going to get you a bad a reputation or be cast a whiner. Guys in person talk about this to each other in small groups or one on one. This is the only place you can see what buttons really get pushed hard by RP principles. Age gap dating, holding her s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".i call them carrots of the incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".whenever a woman tells you weight over the internet double it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Do you weigh less than 140lbs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Women play a numbers game for relationships, Men play numbers game for sexAn emoji face for every pill with a glass of wine you drink a day total? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Women play a numbers game for relationships, Men play numbers game for sexThis is women's projection. Lots of RP guys are RP because they have a high sex drive not being met. The majority just like a new variety of pussy. Women just can't get that a high libido guys could have a hot girl whisper "I want you to fuck me" in his ear and could lead him by the hand anywhere to get it on without knowing or caring anything about her personality for the sake of wanting to bang a hot girl. Lot of guys are fine with not knowing the personality or dreams or hopes of many of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".This isn't true at all, women are getting chubbier earlier and life and weighing more and more as the years go on. Men can carry weight better than women. Once women get 10-15lbs overweight everything over is a drastic downhill in their looks. Lots of couples are an in shape or healthy weight guy with a chubby woman. Or a skinny fat guy with a huge woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 10 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".What I see is worse where I live. Men making 6 figures and staying in decent shape into their 40s. Their wives blowing up to 200+ lbs because they have a career job and a husband now it's time to be fat lazy and happy because he is too much of a bitch to leave. I can't believe how common that has become where the wife weighs more than the husband and this is in affluent Southern California. You would think they would be all jogging, doing yoga, tanning by the pool, getting cosmetic surgery. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameThe only practical advice for either sex is to avoid people that are after what they want and don't care about what the other person may want as long as they get theirs. If everyone did this, women not sleeping with guys just because give them emotional excitement and a dgaf attitude, and for guys to stop giving attention and validation to women that aren't obviously pursuing them back with romantic interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:03 AM |
| 7 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameWho cares about what people say out loud, look at their actions. Also women don't have to use the word conquest to describe getting male attention. As long as they are somewhat sexually attractive the attention and validation comes to them. The flower pollen does not have a conquest for bees. The bees just come there on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:57 AM |
| 23 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameThank fucking Zeus!!!! As a man it is like living in Black Mirror or Twilight Zone not seeing this reality as obvious as gravity just not being openly admitted. The largest harm from this is as a man who is dating and single you don't want to invest in a woman nearly as easily anymore because you know if one thing goes wrong she can be talking to 10 other thirsty suitors that night on her couch with a glass of wine. Only a few men in comparison can do this, and even those men have to be smooth, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 17 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameWomen do the same when the keep in contact with multiple men that they know have crushes on them and turn around and say "it's not my fault he wants more than I do". Women treat men as attention and validation pawns much more often than men treat women as sex pawns. Perhaps 10-100 times more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Mostly likely won't be until I am 55+ and libido drops a lot. It takes dating 2-3 girls casually at once to feel truly satisfied unless one woman is very HL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Once a day in my view is normal. Lots of men want multiple times a day and surprise blowjobs out of nowhere. They know that isn't the norm and not to expect so they don't voice it to avoid looking like what society views men with HL as "sex crazed" or "ruined by porn". If I was in any relationship and it slipped under 3 times a week if I was living with them it would be major problems! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Thank you for this honesty. I totally agree by the way. I think in modern day if two adults are mature even if they have kids they are much better off separating amicably and living lives of joy which will positively affect their children and their ex partner. I have tried doing the fuckboy approach and the serious boyfriend approach with women. I am at a point I don't care what the end result is I just want joy and satisfaction day to day when I spend time with a woman. Never know when things c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Lmao fuck right off with this 1 time a week? Stop eating the potato chips and get some sun doooooood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 4 | What are some of the worst “feel good” lies about daying?The #1 reason to take rejection well is so you don't have any texts, or any sort of unknown recording put on the internet forever or be spread among your social circle if you share it with the other person, and more simply just to move on faster - out of sight out of mind. Tons of media portrayed showing up at someone's front door throwing rocks at the window and pleading as romantics a few decades ago. Now it could be a viral video and a police report. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the worst “feel good” lies about daying?lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:03 AM |
| 2 | What is your advice to men on how to get the most sex? What is your advice to women on how to get the best relationship?Pussy (notice I don't say love or companionship) is a competition we all know this, like anything you have do what it takes to win if you want real results. Build an online business, or have your normal day career and do the pussy side gig part time on the weekends etc... the side gig will probably grow your social circle through meeting new people all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 4 | What is your advice to men on how to get the most sex? What is your advice to women on how to get the best relationship?Smart move is for a driven guy to have his own online business or career during the day, be a part time bartender at a nightclub or party bar on the weekend. Bank the extra cash from part time pussy gig into investments. Aslo, maybe not the absolute biggest reason but in the top 3-5 reasons for guys to become doctors, lawyers, firefighters, bartender, high finance guys etc... is for the status it can get from women to find relationships and get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 03:21 AM |
| 9 | What is your advice to men on how to get the most sex? What is your advice to women on how to get the best relationship?For men: Desirable centrally located residence in a dense city or metro with a large number of single women. No roommates, nice furniture and decor. If there are lots of transplants, newcomers, and tourists all the better. These new girls are looking to meet new men. Be lean and have decent musculature and clear healthy skin and teeth. Have a stylish wardrobe and haircut. Get a part time or full time job that has you interacting with lots of women: bartender, bouncer, barista, front desk at a yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach doesn't work unless you're attractive enough to not even need to cold approachI'd agree if you said getting into, expanding, and rising to the top of multiple large social circles with many attractive single women in them. These groups are rare outside of college activity clubs and maybe some large non-profit organizations with 10k runs and shit. Otherwise you can cold approach doing your daily errands at Trader Joes, Starbucks, trendy independent coffee shops, Whole Foods, Target, trendy malls, going for your run in the park/on the beach etc... This does not take extra t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach doesn't work unless you're attractive enough to not even need to cold approachI've done over 1000 cold approaches in my life. Many ended up in great sex or dating experiences. One even lasted over two years. The majority during the day, with still a lot in nightlife. All those would have never have happened without doing them. And successfully getting a one night stand or dating a girl you cold approached is a huge confidence booster to see what you want and go get it. Social circle and online just isn't nearly same ego boost. Some stories of the rejections can be hilario… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?If this advice was any good maybe dating reddits would have 1% of the men and the top end men would get laid a lot less because "being yourself" for the average guy would steal the lionshare of girls so no guy could rack up huge lay counts. Men seek girl tips because being yourself doesn't work off the bat for a large majority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?Well said, I totally agree! I've been in game circles and ran game in different states, countries etc... People heavy into game love the chase and trophies. I always just liked sex with hot women more than temporarily winning a girl over or charming her. I really think to have the highest combination of frequent passionate sex with the lowest emotional drain is to do the hard practical work of the numbers game and just quickly weeding through women that don't show strong attraction signs off the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?I think if every guy in TRP had a girl that they thought was hot come willingly by raw desire to their doorstep and bang them 3 nights a week with no effort, and otherwise not talking to the TRP guy or spend anytime with him, then there wouldn't be a TRP. It is about getting enough voluntary and willing sexual validation from an attractive girl to be able to focus on other things in life. It turns out for most average guys it takes a lot of effort, lifestyle, and social changes to keep an attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and the Laffer Curve.I have dated and had sex with some pretty hot women. The last women that approached me outright to hit on me was a barista at Starbucks that I frequented all the time. She was short and fat. I was shocked she had the audacity. I am trying to even remember honest approaches from women, maybe 5 in my life and all of them are fuzzy probably 3 of those were not attractive. When I was younger prettier girls did approach me out of those 5 times in my life lol. Many women really believe nowadays they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | How do you think the future of dating will be?I have to say though America is a nation of immigrants in which tens of millions of people moved to a place with no connection for a better life. Which I believe means current Americans have made the decision a city life with no kids and amenities is better than a middle of nowhere life with little financial stress and a big family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you think the future of dating will be?Just curious because your thoughts have been interesting to hear from a Gen Z, why do you feel it is that people don't take their remote work or move to places like the Dakotas and other middle of nowhere places to buy a decent house for $120k and have 3 kids? Do you believe your generation values cosmopolitan lifestyle over family? I think for the most part as time goes by each new generation values a city lifestyle with events over the boring and what modern people would consider extreme sacri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Men need to reign in and focus their rage and indignationThe smart side of the RP is to gain financial assets therefore, freedom. Get into a position to dictate your own schedule and life. A healthy body that is in great shape. A great wardrobe. A great place to live with women and activities you enjoy. Do interesting activities, go to interesting events. Talk to lots of beautiful women whenever you get the chance. All the anger and arguments just leads back to the conclusion of putting in the work to gain what is above. The only solution is to become… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:31 PM |
| -1 | A transgender man describes what it was like experiencing high levels of testosterone for the first timeIt was like being in a pornographic movie house in my mind. And I couldn't turn it off. I could not turn it off. Everything I looked at, everything I touched turned to sex. lmao exactly how it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexIf she ends up not being red hot the first time you have sex after waiting I agree. If the connection and anticipation doesn't lead to great sex, I'm gone. That said in the build up of waiting for sex there should be some heavy making out and groping etc... if there is no great making out by date 2 I am also gone unless she was a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI think there is a middle ground where if she makes you wait she needs to enthusiastically want to have sex with you when you start having sex and she needs to want to do all the sex acts she has done previously if not more. If she slips that from that at all then yeah, I am gone and onto the next. If she makes you wait and gives head with no enthusiasm or worse doesn't want to give head, bye Felicia. The waiting should make her more sexually comfortable out the gates if it doesn't it's a shit d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexIf you are looking for someone you look forward to spending time over the long term I think your view may change with time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexYeah agree same advice as said on here if you can't get a hook up once a year from a girl you find semi cute you have to rearrange your life that it revolves around exercise, skin care, hygiene, grooming, fashion, and practicing socializing at events with lots of girls that include at least light alcohol drinking. If a guy isn't willing to do that then I fully see he is shit out of luck. Sex costs the vast majority of men quite a lot of effort, part of the modern game. Whether it is worth it to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI think you should only wait for a girl you have a deep personality connection with. Where a nice hug goodbye on the first date feels really fulfilling. This doesn't happen often like I said in my dating life meeting a girl like that is once every half decade. Also a girl to wait for is agreeable, and opens up her schedule, communicates fast, doesn't act flakey. These girls have been rare for me personally, but they are the few I wouldn't care about blue balls, or paying, or the work because bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI think it depends on each man's confidence. I know after 1 year of no sex in my life my confidence gets down to whether I will ever get laid again or does any woman find me attractive that affects the rest of my life which isn't good. I can go 6 months with no heavy mental effects. I am sure as I get older I can go longer without sex. At 18 years old 6 months would have really gotten to me especially if I saw my friends and others hooking up or having an SO. Probably not many are meeting the mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI know it's not easy. I think that is the best there is though for now. If I was early 20s right now and had a hard time hooking up ever while on the wait for a deep match girl with today's info I would probably learn Spanish or Portguese and have yearly trip planned to South America or to Thailand and just go party and on apps and with backpackers and try to get my yearly fill that way while doing some fun touristy nature and tourist things to bring some stories back home, and if I didn't think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI honestly think the healthiest happiest thing to do in the modern era for most men is to hook up minimally but at just the rate that keeps you mentally confident, then spend the rest of the time weeding for a personality dream girl aggressively. I think if you gain enough sexual experience with different women from hookups that waiting for a dream personality girl even if she had a one night stand in the past won't matter if you had one or a first date hook up etc. I know the tit-tat is dumb, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexI think that's a small vocal hear me roar women crowd. I think there are way more women that sleep with guys the first night or date 1-3 and don't feel good when the guy disappears or all effort disappears hence FDS etc... Also in the vast majority of men's views, giving a man sex is one of the highest respects you can give him if not the ultimate respect for most men's egos. So for most men the action of receiving the sex is much more powerful than the internal thoughts of the woman that gave i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Why different men are ok or not waiting for sexYes, in an ideal world I think intimacy would be the best if everyone got together as virgins sometime in their early 20s and just dated before that. That rarely exists outside small church religious communities in the West. Also the very real risk of sexual chemistry not being there I think makes 1-2 months ideal of not wasting too much time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The vast majority of men's dating struggles would be resolved by pursuing fat womenMen pay to not have to do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 01:39 AM |
| 4 | AA/BB is not decided at birth; you mindset is fucking you upI've seen people change in that they get more upbeat or productive if things are going well, or downbeat and lazy when things aren't going well. Their personalities are the same when things are going well their personality gets amplified, when it isn't their personality watered down. The only thing I have seen change people's personalities is long term substance abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | AA/BB is not decided at birth; you mindset is fucking you upI think man that is a short and a 5 in the face can land a variety of short 5's and 6's with a lot of effort. That is what game really does it gives you more options at your looks level and little bit above that is really its promise. Versus no game, no fitness, and not being able to land anyone at your same looks level and only being to land girls 1-2 points below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:54 AM |
| 7 | AA/BB is not decided at birth; you mindset is fucking you upI agree very hard to change personality. What you can do for dating is filter it hard. Lower the volume on the undesirable parts and learn when to amp the desirable side. Most of the things that keep men from getting laid is saying the wrong things, and not making a physical move right time - usually too late or never. Being smooth, sharp, and easy going is much easier for anyone to practice than being funny, gregarious, or charming a group. As an introvert going out and being outgoing meeting n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | What has your experience been regarding women sabotaging other women's relationships?They understand, it is just a massive inconvenience to their egos and desires so they dismiss it as not even worth thinking about, and they won't have to ever with the way society is set up. They have safety nets, shoulders to cry on, and forgiveness around ever corner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:08 PM |
| 4 | If Chad is so desirable to the vast majority of women, why is he fucking average looking and below average women? Either "Chad" isn't a Chad or women aren't impressed by male beauty.Chad's game and presentation to a Becky is often so enticing because women value non-neediness, nonchalance, carefree, assertive, complete authentic self expression - and Chad doesn't care at all if Becky sticks around or if she is impressed deep down so he shows many traits she is highly attracted to. Because Chad doesn't give a fuck it makes Becky even more attracted to him. With Stacy, Chad could start really liking her, get nervous, not bring his A-game, get a little too needy. Stacy could g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Europeans on this subreddit. What do you think about American dating culture?It is because women found out they could date 4-5 guys at once. Get free meals, drinks, conversations then bat down any guy that asked early if she was seeing other people as being controlling and insecure. That behavior was rewarded over and over until guys gave up and said they will just hit and quit because seriously trying to court a girl seeing 4 other men at the same time feels gross. Not to mention the red flag of the attention and validation that a girl needs from so many men and isn't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What women wantWhat probably will make her the most lustful is if she sees her husband in action and sees other women that are of a higher caliber than her lust after him. It isn't about a checklist of things women want to be better. That is all talk and it never ends. It is about them feeling they have their best option. The one thing that makes women start thinking logically is when they do see with their own eyes that the man they have is most likely the best they can get if he has the ability to walk at an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Do overweight women with fit partners acknowledge the difference in appearance? Do they care or view the relationship as "equals"?You got that right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Do overweight women with fit partners acknowledge the difference in appearance? Do they care or view the relationship as "equals"?There is no easy solution to this. The only way around it as a guy is to move somewhere with more fit women which almost always means more expensive. Men have to really put in a lot of effort to be able to stand out and beat the pussy inflation price where now if all girls are chubby and fit guys desperate for sex still date them like normal then the chubbsters have all the power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 9 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.2012 the year Tinder went and Instagram both went super mainstream. Pictures as life took over. Also the year by which everyone had gotten their first smart phone. The first iPhone came out in 2008 and most people didn't start getting their first smart phone until 2011. There was no such thing as an IG lifestyle before that, and OLD before then was still considered underground and something many people thought was embarrassing to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:19 PM |
| 11 | The cost of a beautiful womanI think most men if their girlfriend is hot, and clearly into him, and treats him with respect would offer to pay for a lot to keep her happy. Men's complaint is the attitude of these women is of entitlement because they know they can get the same treatment from other men so even when they get what they want they act spoiled about it instead of have a mutual gratitude with the man and try to grow a deeper bond out of mutual respect. If I could easily find a hot girl that was really into me, want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Don't believe PDD women - IRL Most Women actually PREFER OLDER Looking GuysA good portion of women 18-25 can be attracted to a guy that looks 5-8 years older. And a good portion of 25-40 year old women can be attracted to a guy that looks 10-15 years old. Any looking older than that the likelihood drops and money comes into play real fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?Between overweight women, women with sordid sexual histories, women with male orbiters, women in contact with exes, and women with entitled attitudes in relationships it is just the path of least resistance to view a new woman as winning the game is having sex. A relationship seems like it has so many hurdles that it isn't a main focus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 5 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?The biggest one is that from early dating years 14-23 women are looking for pretty boys, exciting guys, guys with defined style and outfits, guys that have leadership positions in student clubs & organizations. Young boys at the age of 13 of whenever they get interested in girls should be told the truth about how to be successful dating at a young age. Much of the blue pill advice tells men how to prepare to be a left over man women choose from after the age of 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it more important to you that a woman is attractive in looks and personality, or that she's "skilled at" sex?Looks and personality. Taking an inexperienced or unskilled 8 to pound town is way way hotter than a 6 that is really good at blowjobs and riding cowgirl. A big part of it sexually is how into the sex she is even if she isn't doing the work. Some of the worst sex partners are women that think they have skills and use you like a human dildo to try to get off because they have to gyrate and hit their clit just right. Most of the best sex I've had isn't fancy or skilled it is just animalistic grunt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Sounds liken a cool bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:12 PM |
| 14 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.The norm for younger now is a skinny fat guy that probably used to be more fit, but his GF is 30-40 lbs overweight so he lets himself slide a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Study: Couples with ‘matching’ levels of attractiveness are more likely to date sooner after meeting then couples with ‘mismatching’ levels of attractivenessThe best way to date someone hotter is to look like either celebrity crushes or an older person they knew IRL that they had adolescent fantasies about where the celebrity/older person was not considered conventionally hot, but is niche hot to them for whatever reason. It is still looks based and a luck thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 5 | July 2021 PPD Demographic Survery ResultsN count 50% more for women. That must mean we have double the men as we do women on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:46 PM |
| 4 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitIf PPD had 10 million subs one day do you think dating culture would change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitWomen across the board act like hoes these days, newsflash from 1995. The first wave of dramatic change in the way women dated happened when showing bellies in halter tops, belly button rings/gems, and low cut jeans began to come into fashion and junior high girls had to do the Superman test to see if they could wear a top at school. Not long after around 2000 the tramp stamp tattoo showed up and tattoos on women skyrocketed in popularity. Now we have 13 year olds regularly wearing thongs at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Women treat the man who invests in an LTR with her Worse than the Man who refuses to LTR herPeople treat others better when they want something from another person. Once they get it, the incentive to treat above and beyond ends. Men in relationships are incentivized to treat women better because oftentimes if a man is willing to commit he believes she is near to the best he can get and doesn't want to start dating all over from scratch. Women can much more easily find a new man. Proof of this is where women have children from 3 different fathers and can still move on to a new man to da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:11 PM |
| 28 | what makes a man regret sex?DING DING DING Pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 07:14 PM |
| – | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Women have one night stands and casual relations purposely all the time with men they wouldn't consider for long term dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 02:41 AM |
| – | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Our society keeps adding substitutes for in person real social relationships. Social media, video games, podcasts, streams all act as substitutes for real life companionship and this is just an addition to substitute for girlfriend. Would be interesting to see how many OF users have girlfriends and wives, and even if they do, then OF can act like crutch instead of getting intimacy out of the relationship or getting out of the relationship so they can find a fulfilling one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 02:37 AM |
| – | CMV: The Average Male can become attractive enough for casual sexWhat is with all the fucking bold text lately. It's like some maniac that read an online copywriting guide from 2009 took over PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 11:38 PM |
| 31 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.College has gotten a lot more stressful than it used to be. Jobs and internships are more competitive. Tuition and student debt is higher. Rent and cost of living is higher. Places that use to be party schools 10 years ago are now serious study schools due to the academic and job competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.OLD Social Media Smart phones takes women's attention off real life flirting and has texting to manage many suitors Income & Education hypergamy #MeToo and men hitting on women in public is now considered negative by many people, when before it was considered a right of passage as a man Porn addiction Video game addiction The concept of FWBs & beta orbiters that act as a substitute BF so women are kept off the market and are harder to compete for than they were Dog / Cat Mom phenomenon. Women su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 11:08 PM |
| 15 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.You are forgetting part of the reason men sank into video games, porn, alcohol, and weed is that when they went out starting around 2015 once Tinder and Instagram were very mainstream girls were not nearly as receptive to getting hit on in public due to choice online. Guys back then went out to bars, clubs, cafes, whatever and found girls standing in circles with their phones out taking pictures of each other. "We aren't going out to meet guys, we are going out to dance and have fun with each ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Do Chads/ top tier guys say whatever it takes to get laid?Not whatever it takes, but they start I'd say most of the time on 2nd base, and rarely 3rd base if they are knockout good looking. What they know from experience is often what not to say to gets them rejected and how to transition from meet to bedroom. Chads have the advantage of often getting recognized and friending other Chads to wing and talk about women. This gives them a positive feedback loop of soaking up knowledge and see how things play out in real time much more often than guys that d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Ideal dating locationFor sex: Tons of money (mansion, pool, estate, dope cars) - Hollywood Hills Ton of money - Manhattan Nice money - Miami Normal money - Bogota / Medellin Colombia, somewhere in Poland For relationships: Probably a city in the Midwest or somewhere in North Carolina where people have that kind down to earth feeling. Mexico tends to have a lot of relationship and family oriented girls. Somewhere in Sinaloa or Guadalajara. Women I find consistently go with a handful of places: Australia, South Europe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The greatest determining factor of dating success for men is to be happyHave no problems. Don't have problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Romance as depicted by media has set more unrealistic expectations in men than in women.There are a lot of guys that buried heads in books and didn't party and stayed fit that got good jobs and girls aren't lining up. Getting women is about personal social power and numbers game. Number of positive flirty social interactions with attractive women is king. Either by belonging to a social circle or cold approaching. A single guy just needs to ask him self how many of these interactions he had this week and how can he increase that number. This is RP defense vs Game offense. Offense g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Whether sex is good not is not always guaranteed. Sometimes I can use the same energy and moves in the bedroom and the girl is screaming for more. Other times I am the same me and the girl is a sack of potatoes. Sometimes it is just raw sexual chemistry, or the girl has some hangups around sex mentally. I'd say the majority of the time the guys that put a lot of effort into improving their game like sex enough to go through all the hassle and want more. So they also learn to be giving in bed so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:06 PM |
| – | Woman don't consider overweight and obese woman to have as negative of a sexual marketplace value as men.Leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Most guys with good game don't have to deceive or manipulate, women have sex with them on the first meet oftentimes before any sort of talk about any commitment is months away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Women used to wait for marriage before sex to avoid all that. They made the choice to stop. This is now reality. Welcome to Hunger Games - women wanted this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:55 AM |
| 18 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Game is a lot broader than PUA tactics. Game and understanding what women want to hear, how they want to hear it, and how smoothly lead dates and conversation gets you laid. Pretty much all guys that have sex easily use Game whether they realize it or not or only use some things they picked up from friends, older brothers, movies, the internet whatever. Plus Game is fun to practice especially when you see certain things work over and over on girls of all types of personalities and tastes - fasci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:51 AM |
| 7 | What is more important for a guy: sex or money?If I could get laid constantly and easily by hot women I'd probably live with a handful of cool roommates go surfing and play video games with them and get some fun part time job just enough to pay the rent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 04:10 AM |
| 0 | It seems well-known that women find "ambition" attractive, but what types of ambition, specifically?A little HAHAHAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 0 | It seems well-known that women find "ambition" attractive, but what types of ambition, specifically?AF/BB is mirrored positive sexual feelings / positive comfort feelings. Male artists elicit positive sexual feelings from women same as an Adonis Chad does with his body. This guy gave off that he offers more positive comfort feelings than he really does, so women feel cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Men want commitment just as much as women, but feminism has erased the incentive to do so.Yes women absolutely value commitment more in the long term. Women have more access to commitment though so they get tastes of relationships often consistently even if they don't work out. When men haven't been in a committed loving relationship for years on end they get a lot thirstier for it. If the average man had the same access to committed relationships with women they are attracted to as women do then you wouldn't see the inversion going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Men want commitment just as much as women, but feminism has erased the incentive to do so.If you just want to get laid with a variety of women does that really make you a bad boy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:15 PM |
| – | Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard.A lot of it is universal. Clear healthy skin, straight white teeth, full healthy hair, good facial bone structure, clearly defined square jaw and chin, no unibrow, confident posture, confident eye contact, easy going smile. Has a clothing style he obvious puts effort into wearing nice outfits that compliment his looks. Has a hair style that is obviously well maintained and compliments him. Very often women can see a guy she attracted to and say he looks like a mix of one or more celebrity crushe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?This kind of paints an even worse case because if a guy goes out gets in great shape competes in a sport at a high level and has a bright future he is still beaten out by a pretty boy easily that may have none of that going for him. At least 15-20 years ago there were definitely athletes that were not the best looking that got girls easier. Pretty boys were still a thing, but I can feel reading about younger men's experiences that women now seem to care about looks more then men, much because wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Women just need to stay thin, they don't even need to work out. That is really all the work they need to do to get increasing options as technology allows them more options year over year. The list a man has to meet to be as attractive as his looksmatch woman is only increasing in about every category imaginable. The deal gets worse year over year for men especially as the economy and cost of living degrades the middle class. Women are increasingly looking to be pleased rather than be in love as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Why are we taking advice on the opposite gender from our own gender?If feel like we as men have made a ton of progress in that department looking at the current sex culture, our advice seems to be turning into reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Why are we taking advice on the opposite gender from our own gender?I've had women ask "did you have this all planned out before we met?" they still will come home and have sex. They don't care if they are turned on - what works just works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 3 | “He’s not emotionally available”. But is she?If you are a man I am shocked at your view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateMen have to focus on women's feelings constantly from the beginning or they would never get laid let alone a relationship. A man not caring about a woman's feelings isn't going to plan a date. Isn't going to show up on time. Isn't going to offer to pay ever. Isn't going to ask any interesting questions to her or bother to create interesting conversation. He won't try to make her laugh. Men that don't care about pleasing women's feelings don't get laid or get relationships. Men inherently underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 5 | “He’s not emotionally available”. But is she?Women are pretty bad in general at consoling men in romantic relationships. Their answer to hearing a man vent or have fears and insecurities is to just fix them and move on. Yet they can vent and spout constantly about their work and personal relationships on things that don't mean shit and you need to act like you care. Guy friends in my experience have been much better listeners and better at consoling than women. A lot of times women seem to act like what are serious stressors for men when t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateBig True: Women care far too much about their own feelings in the initial parts of dating and not nearly enough about how the man feels or how to make him feel better. Many women start on date 1 in a stance of caring about their own feelings 80%, the man's feelings 20% or many times less. If they warm up over time to want to be the guy's girlfriend then they often care more about his feelings than their own. The fact that women don't start on first dates at 50/50 is what is so bizarre. It isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | "Men are not 'more visual' or more easily turned on than women are, a study finds"When I started wearing tighter and tighter shorts, then the women came out and started handing me their numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Selective reading skills?I actually wish more RP and PP believed in game. I feel like there are 5 Game Pill posters on this sub. Game is the ability to use social savvy & dominance in a positive light to influence people and make them enjoy your company. It is having active charm with an end goal in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 06:25 AM |
| 13 | Selective reading skills?FWBs are treated much better than boyfriend candidates. Something I haven't thought about until you put it so succinctly. The FWB treatment overall in text response time, how the hangouts go, things that go far beyond just getting laid. The FWB treatment also means the girl often lets her guard down and shows her softer or more authentic side sooner. Way less tests in general and much more of a humorous tone when having conversation. Whereas the BF candidate gets more hoops and has to be much mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.OnlyFans are not the worst offenders, they are actually pretty good at establishing cash relations. The real offenders are orbiters that get treated with little to no respect from women and act as their emotional support and errand helper with no rewards and lost time and emotional investment. Substitute emotional support boyfriends that work for slave scraps are the real bad guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Are your dating chances really better when the ale/female ratio is in your favour?Oftentimes private religious affiliated colleges, college towns, tourist & hospitality locations and chic urban neighborhoods have the most favorable ratio for men to date in. The more miles you get away from any of those the worse the ratios generally get for men. Pretty much for every 5 miles you live away from one of these centers dating gets a step harder for you as a man. The best being in walking distance of any of these locations. If you live more than 30 miles away from any of these good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | When high value men date women less attractive then them, why does this anger people?Men link the beauty of the woman that is the girlfriend or wife as a sign of how much self pride and self respect the man has. If a man is dating obviously down in looks other men can often question how much self respect that man has. Same with if a woman cheated on him or is flirty with other men in front of him. You're being like everyone else on the internet and turning everything to an extreme. If a guy has a girlfriend below him most guys behind his back to other guy friends would just say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | When high value men date women less attractive then them, why does this anger people?Working & competing as a man is hard enough, to look up to these men and try to emulate them... then see the pay off is existentially depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withI would keep that the same. It all has to be done through local communities which religions used to do. There is just so much money in keep people single and into casual sex instead of pairing up and then saving and investing money to build family wealth. It will never be mainstream media and entertainment that promotes early pair-bonding it kills their bottom line and their advertisers' bottom lines. I think the biggest modification is to set up a social place that has the intentions of pairing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do.Loool cook and gather your way into cutting down large trees and making a log cabin in the woods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.Women court with their vaginas not with their personalities and their wallets like men have to. "I thought if he had sex with me he would like me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 17 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.Women throw themselves at the very hottest guys in about any larger social group. In that way they are courting a select few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Men have a very different perception of what women find attractive than women doMen just look at who women have sex with and mimic that. Different women have different tastes, but even then there is still a handful of archetypes they consistently go after. That is what men try to become, one of those archetypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Men have a very different perception of what women find attractive than women doMore girls in Twilight had lust for shirtless ripped werewolf boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Men have a very different perception of what women find attractive than women doThe real question for women is should a man with a 5/10 or 6/10 face and average or below average height have a swimmer's body, or be really buff like an movie action hero? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withI asked a girl who I dated early on in life who had been promiscuous for that time back then 9 sex partners at age 19. She ranked me #7 out of 9 guys. Back then it was a huge red pill. Now I laugh about it because I grew to become more attractive and successful with women over the years. It did teach me early on though that just because I wasn't the most attractive she had been with, she still was very enthusiastic sexually for me and had very strong feelings for me. I will say though I really t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Do you realize that even the most attractive men do not categorize women into insanely boring after a quick conversation when first meeting them. They will take a girl on multiple dates and give them a chance to get to know them as long as the woman is kind, and seems interested in the man. I would think most average or under average men would never think to classify a woman is insanely boring after a quick conversation if they were attracted to them. Some people are introverts, shy, maybe haven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Reactions to male-favoring versus female-favoring sex differencesC'mon we all know women are that villain in the movie that hides in plain sight as the best friend of the hero that betrays him at the end. They're the bad guys lets just finally embrace it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?I think it is because from men's point of view even if they have been successful they notice not a lot of women are great relationship material. I would say of attractive women of dating age I've encountered maybe 1/4 are good relationship material. The other 3/4 aren't bad people, they are too self-centered and don't seem to put much weight on the man's happiness vs their own. Because of this most men run into single women that are too self centered which makes casual sex the path of least resi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?propaganda, Automod please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?What characterizes a woman that is a creep? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Six disreputable places to take young women on a dateTr... oh nevermind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Six disreputable places to take young women on a dateCasinos are fantastic first place dates. Lots to talk about, lots of fun, can take a break to have a deeper conversation in the lounge after some gambling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:36 AM |
| 0 | So is it good or bad to share your woman?If she is attractive and sexy to me I'd consider swinging with other attractive couples if we both wanted to experience more. If I had kids with her, loved her to death, and she let her self go or aged badly I'd probably push to open the relationship for both us anyways - if she wasn't interested in that I'd probably amicably separate as best I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?This does seem to validate boys will be boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:03 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?Why doesn't misogyny sell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?If 10-15% is true then why do so so many women say one or more of their exes was abusive or toxic? Are women lying to excuse their faults of the relationship failure or are they all picking the same toxic abusers? We have a BP white knight from London shout out! in another thread saying his women friends need to raise their standards because they are all with toxic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 06:48 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 6 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?Then why do women on the internet and media in general make it seem like such a big problem. All the MeToo stuff and so on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill, Manosphere , And PUA Communities Are Proactively Predatory , Hypocritical and In No Way Comparable To The FDS Which is Protective And Reactive. My POV Is Summed Up And Supported In These Two HONEST Videos Created By MEN..Can't a guy just want to get laid without essays written about how evil he is? All this reaction is just adding new incels and MGTOWs. I know most women don't want to hear it, but back 10-20 years ago where men focused more on going out and approaching women and being witty and getting numbers and dates... that is a much better era than guys sliding into DMs with dick pics which is what men that aren't taught how to talk to women and go after them resort to. To really change things women would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Women don't need to lower their standards. They need to raise them massively.You are creating propaganda to make women less likely to pair bond with a single man, form a family and family wealth, help build a stronger local community etc... by excusing their horrific relationship decisions. Lack of strong families that save money, invest, and form family wealth is the number 1 way the powerful keep us as atomized debtors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Women don't need to lower their standards. They need to raise them massively.If they are more successful financially that only means they need to lower their standards to meet the equivalent male in success. If women want one man that doesn't have multiple women, then the math says they have to date down success-wise or they will be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Women don't need to lower their standards. They need to raise them massively.Your looks standard of what you are attracted to is too high or too picky then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 8 | childless denial? how many more woman can pretend their childlessness isnt eating away at their soul?Honestly if you live in an urban area and have childless friends you probably barely notice kids exist day to day. The biggest worry is having people with kids and families asking why aren't you like them. This is all based on the social circle you build and how healthy it is. If you are single and have no childless friends the pressure is greater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveThat really isn't that wide a range. The archetype for attractive man is lean fit, attractive face, clear healthy skin, good hair, taller than her and a style that stands out as a certain type. Great some have a little bit more muscle, they wear different clothes which all types are stylish in their own way, some are pretty boy good looks vs rugged. The archetype is still pretty narrow. No fat soft, no short, no stalky, no bald, no average clothes. And the personality & voice archetype is even m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 13 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveThis is where women think if men don't care about the same aspects of relationships as much as women do they just don't get it. No, they just don't value or care as much about those aspects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveIf magically all the men your mom, sisters, and you find attractive could be made taller if they are under 6 feet, have a six pack if they have a belly, or make more money if the made less than 6 figures, would any of them say no to that? Like lets say your sister had a big crush on a guy that is 5'9, with a small belly, and makes $60k. If he could instantly be made 6'0, 6 pack, making $120k - would your sister say yes or no to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I think the most misandric and misogynistic subs are respectively FDS and MGTOW. Does it say something that the former is about getting in relationships, the latter the opposite?Summanuh beetch! Whata ever-uh happened to the loooooove-uh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | A man has no value in today's worldAgreed, men are absolutely less ambitious because it is much harder to keep a thin, fit, cooperative girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women appreciate the avarage "blue pilled beta" provider?You see dead bedroom stories all the time of no sex on the wedding night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Western women are the overwhelming object of interest of this subreddit, yet are a less significant demographic with each moment that passes, and will matter much less as time goes onWhat is cool, sexy, & romanticized sells. Hollywood in film & TV, and now American social media influencers have had the first mover advantage of exporting culture. No culture will have its own identity completely separate from Western identity unless they have strict internet firewalls, or they have their own version of Hollywood and social media influencers that can shape culture. The problem is even if a culture has its own media entities that are stronger than Western ones they will still fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there men here who are happy or content to be single?To spread wisdom hahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 05:09 AM |
| – | Mate Selection for ModernityI think the average modern woman severely underestimates how much a young woman (thin & feminine) that is supportive of a young man emotionally and sexually can be fuel for success. It takes a very strong willed young man with no one at his side to bother with a strong future rather than just skating by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 05:01 AM |
| – | Mate Selection for ModernityTROO DOOD Men will be too fat, high, sore dicks from masturbating, dead brains from video games there will be no marching in the streets over women... as long as they keep the games, comic book movies, and fast food deals churning out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:57 AM |
| – | Mate Selection for ModernityOne of us... One of us... One of us! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:54 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Get into a leadership position in a social or business circle that has a lot of women and be sure to make a good impression and be well-known at any event. Money never hurts either. Becoming a doctor and working in a large hospital system would probably be the most surefire professional way. Others I can think of are being high up in education administration, healthcare/hospital admin, marketing executive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott AdamsSmall subset usually of very handsome men that are artistic substance abusers that get paid for. You also see some men that aren't 8s or 9s but are still attractive that date a frumpy career woman that knows she can't get a hot a guy with money so they pay for Chad-Lite. There are women beta bux and that group keeps growing. True equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott AdamsHow fat is she though? This girl with her own money not on OF...be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality as destructiveSquirting all over the bed and a guy's lap is also very very defiling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 12 | Male sexuality as destructiveHave you ever seen semen splattered all over? It is utterly defiling, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Experimental Evidence on Gender Differences in Lying BehaviourI've tried using "whatever it takes" as an opener to girls at the bar. Works more often than you'd think before trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How Come Men Are Not Pushing For Plus Size Models? [Serious Question]Take it back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Men who say "men who pump and dump are just dumpster diving below their league" are being intentionally dense80/20 rule. 20% of the guys getting 80% of the casual sex. 80% of men have a hard time finding sex of any sort, especially casual sex. 20% and moreso the top 10% have a relatively easy time finding casual sex. You say you are an engineer I don't understand how you don't get the numbers. One handsome charming male 8 that is a player but also potential boyfriend material in the eyes of women has 5 girls in his phone and is dating them all once a week, once every two weeks whatever. He never says a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Men who say "men who pump and dump are just dumpster diving below their league" are being intentionally denseWhat you think is guys lying to women saying they are looking for commitment when they aren't is the big problem. Everyone else on Earth is saying women NOT mentioning they want commitment and sleeping with a guy for 2-4 months before asking the guy "where is this going?" is the entire real problem in modern dating. One guy out for casual sex not lying at all can have 4-5 girls he is doing this at with once. If this one guy takes 5 girls off the dating market without lying at all (she never brin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Men who say "men who pump and dump are just dumpster diving below their league" are being intentionally denseLet's clear up a few things. Ugly guys can have high N-counts if they bang a lot of very fat girls. That is how most of them do it using alcohol as their closest ally to help him and her both get excited about it. Fuckboys say many women are crazy because a lot of women that knowingly sleep with fuckboys on the first night either are going through a crazy sexual phase for whatever or many women that are dynamite in bed have mental issues - this is how they can be so unrestrained in bed because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Who is Chad sleeping with?Wow is this the prologue for your new love novel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?I'll tell you any changes you make and you start getting laid more easily with hotter women you start enjoying those changes real fast. Whatever you thought about the changes before are distant memories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:18 AM |
| – | YouTuber Alexander Grace: "SINGLE WOMEN ARE A MYTH"Can I get an Aaaaaaaamennn!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Who is Chad sleeping with?What would you say are the best signs to look for out of woman in a bar, club, or event that is looking for sex, or at least very open to it happening that night? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Who is Chad sleeping with?Ok well maybe you are so hot that what 95% of other people consider Chad you don't even register which I can understand. To me top 5-10% of men are Chad archetype. Top 0.5-1.0% are living in a different world and in my life knowing hundreds and hundreds of men I have known 3 like I have said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: if you're "divorce raped" it's your own fault.I love to whisper in a woman's ear after having sex the first time: "Don't forget to Venmo me for all the drinks, food, and Uber rides I bought you." Good anti-divorce rape stance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Who is Chad sleeping with?No offense but are you from a lower level socioeconomic background? You're definition of Chad is like 1 in 100 or even 1 in 200 guys then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Who is Chad sleeping with?Looooool :D Trust me Chad player types with high sex drives approach constantly and bang and move on from Beckies constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Who is Chad sleeping with?Staceys know they are Stacey if the Chad invites them to be around his friends or the Chad is constantly hitting her up for repeat business more than once a week and takes her on more fun dates. Chad may not want that Stacey to be a girlfriend, but he wants the sex with a hot girl to keep going. Beckys will get a week or two of being ignored, hit up at 11pm on a weekday, or just no call back after Chad has had all the sex positions he wants out of her. Chad may put in extra work for a Becky if s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Who is Chad sleeping with?I have known and chase girls with a lot of Chads in my life. They all without exception will go after Beckys all the time as long as they pass the cute barrier for casual sex. Because there are way more Becky 6s arounds Chads tend to bang them more. The only Chads that stick to hot Staceys almost exclusively get in relationships or are the top 20% super chads that are so good looking that their Beckys are Staceys to other Chads. The same exact dynamic applies. Not all Chads are created equally. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Who is Chad sleeping with?Staceys when he can. (at your looks or above) Beckys when he can't. (a step below your looks) Fat Claire when he is wasted and in a big slump. (must still have a pretty face under the fat and big juicy tits/ass) Every Chad I have met that likes to sleep around and not just hold onto one girlfriend at a time goes after women a step or two below him somewhat often. He heavily prefers girls at his looks or above, has to get laid though at some point to keep his sanity and confidence up. This is whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Describe a “red pill” womanNice ass and a big chest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older5/10 handjob incoming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Any reason women seem to care about some forms of status more than othersDrew Carey could get girls attracted, he would have to change his demeanor to more of a big boss type with a little teddy bear thrown in like Tony Soprano when he is flirting with women. If you aren't artsy, mysterious, or physically hot you have to play the boss card, and like a boss be ready to send women packing at the first signs of them being a user or disrespectful. If you have money and status though you could still net a shitload. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV Every man needs to go through a wild phaseI am just saying the OP is asserting men are getting in their bachelor years and wild phase 27-35 and women are rushing to get married. I am saying barely any women that aren't coupled up young are rushing to get married. Women don't treat marriage seriously that are over 28 for the vast vast majority. It has turned into if it happens it happens. "I don't need a man, but I want a man" mentality. If you talk to a lot of women over 28 that haven't been married you ask if they were in a LTR in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 4 | CMV Every man needs to go through a wild phaseJust saying the culture has been retarded. If children and marriage are a major dream and life goal it is a serious matter with lots of planning. Women talk more about education, career, and travelling which are less important in terms of life meaning. It's a dumb strategy. Gets back to what I was saying a shrinking subset of women are intentional about getting married and usually are engaged by 26 and married by 28 at the latest. Often from medium to small size cities and in religious communiti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 4 | CMV Every man needs to go through a wild phaseThere is tons of propaganda out there to take advantage of your time, money, emotions for other people to make gains from you. Don't be dumb enough to fall for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 10 | CMV Every man needs to go through a wild phaseI don't meet any women in a rush to be married at any age. I've been on dates with 100+ women in my life I can remember three that mentioned wanting to get married. Not to me, but just in general as a life goal of hers. There is a crop of women that are engaged by 26 and married by 28 at the latest that really want to get married. Every woman after that age is not intentionally serious all of them have been in different shade of figuring things out. Pride gets the best of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Is 24 too early to get a vasectomy?Yes I would wait til 35 or 40. Every 5 years I have a very different outlook on life and what I want. Use condoms every time, pull out every time, make sure to put mouthwash, or whatever else into the condom and rinse it out real quick in the sink before tossing it. I would only take advice from men in their 40s and beyond on this. Men that are past the normal age to have a child. I am younger than that so even take my advice lightly. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionMen are horndogs, rain is wet. With VR porn and everything coming down the pipeline I think women are looking for Jesus, instead of the guy next door that undresses every semi attractive woman he sees with his eyes immediately. Men minds run wild allllll day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?The funny thing - the daughters of the foreign bride couples in the boonies will move to the cities. Their sons meanwhile will get foreign brides from even poorer countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 10 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?Number 2 is false, women that are ambitious go-getters in business and career hook up more due to efficiency and see men in a more calculated fashion. For many of them relationships are just a 6th or 7th priority. I think the middle ground for a girl to not be promiscuous is went to a commuter college living at home or with female roommates that all had boyfriends so being a hoe would look bad. After college she gets a job where she has normal 9-5 hours with little stress and is more focused on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What about Kevin Samuels and his ideas that has made him the most popular redpiller?He is popular because he is the first public red pill type to be a desirable outcome for men aging to their 50s. Everyone has already mentioned him being black which gives him protection against cancel culture. He is very red pill in the sense of what is best for society and communities to prosper. Had a child, had a successful corporate career, in shape, well groomed, well styled, good lifestyle. Has the ability to date women 20 years younger due to all this. He is a smooth guy that has the pac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 03:06 AM |
| 6 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?people have feelings you big autist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?People can make informed decisions on how to live their life and handle relations towards others knowing the truth. That is what RP was made for. It isn't about fixing or solving, it is about navigating with a trusty map and compass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 5 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying MotherhoodIt's when they mistakenly slept with a guy friend while drinking too much that has been orbiting for 3 years - he proclaims his love after, they try a relationship and she is dissatisfied within about a week and a half, but tells herself she gave it a good try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 8 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying MotherhoodI cannot remember IRL or on a dating profile I ever saw a woman from ages 20-26 - prime years to meet someone to eventually start a family - say: "I want to be with someone that will be a great Dad". That is so far down their new age decision tree and checklists. Now its Education -> Career/Travel -> Learn About Myself -> Hot Guys -> Not So Hot Guys -> Back To Hot Guys It isn't even in the Top 10 of thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Most single mothers would rather marry a single childless man than a single father. The opposite is untrue. I think these are the reasons that justifies why single childless men should not marry single mothers...Oh Good Lord you are a single mother? Now all your posts make soooo much sense hahahahahahahaha you couldn't make this shit up if you tried! I was just starting to be a bit less red pill and a little bit purple. Man man man deep red. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isWomen have the option to have casual sex and not talk about it to anyone they know. Men do it all the time. Men usually won't tell everyone in their social circle that they had sex with 3 new girls off Tinder last week. Maybe a best friend that understands it is inside info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Is the value of "Red Pill" media help or entertainment?The best use would be is just read the TRP sidebar and then never read anything red pill again. Just notice when you observe RP principles happen IRL and take notice. Turn all those real life observations into judgment and wisdom and take action based on those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 4 | What is it like being a straight women sexually?Hahahaha is this is came straight from the puritan feminist psycho handbook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Does it sound anything like a starving man eating out a pudding cup with no spoon in sight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 7 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Interesting conclusion seems like overall personality like cool smooth vs. nerd/dork/goof doesn't matter. Open-minded, laid-back, non-judgy does seem to matter vs. Close-minded, uptight, judgy Of course the obligatory hot passionate stallion in the sheets persona matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Probably a lot of women here that had mindblowing sex, I am betting more than just a few of those guys that gave them mindblowing sex believe this. And of that group of guys I am guessing many if not most don't say much about their prowess, just come across as relaxed, and self-assured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Yeah I would say that matches my experience. Whenever I have been on a run and super confident arrogance or laziness is my downfall instead of sticking to the basics that got me there in the first place. No different than sports really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Mother Mary & Joseph! Did that turn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?I have a theory that only few men get their ego wrapped up in their sexual skills. Many many men want sex for the release and validation they got laid but they don't have an ego about it like it is a sport to be played. And that the men interested in women's orgasms tend to have a high sex drive, along with a personal pride and ego at stake in sex. I think the surprising thing probably to most women and a decent sub set of men is that men can be and act so horny, but not enjoy trying hard in bed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Has arrogance ever blown your chance to get laid, or made it even easier most of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 7 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?C'mon! Not 80/20 aaaaagaaaaaiiiinnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?If you feel attacked, everything will be ok I promise ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?i have lost innocence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?"20%" noooooooooooooooooooooooooo Fine motor skills lol, just imagining guys having hand and finger spasms they can't control like their hand has a mind of its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?80/20 - no one dare reply with lol So the 80% were less enthusiastic, with often smaller dicks, that stuck to the same few things, and don't do oral enough or well. And guessing more uptight personalities. Did they wear Old Spice or Axe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Ok I will keep getting better at sex so I can behave worse overall and coast, thanks for the tip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?If there was a bar named Complete Chads, with all Chad bartenders, doormen, bouncers - how much money would it make from women? (And gays) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Did he do the spider man web hand and press down with his other hand or even lay his shoulder down into your lower pelvis like it was some sort of advanced birthing procedure mixed with a Heimlich maneuver | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?"Oral sex gives me a strong advantage with most of you" slap it on the dating profile front pic bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:17 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Feminist huh, man I am just thinking... "Can I spank you a first time? Consent? Yes!" "Can I spank you a second time? Connnnnssennnt? Yes!" "Can I spank you a thiiiiiirrrdd time? Connnnnsennt!?!?!? YESSSSS!!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Oh that? Was just guessing at the dirty talk lines that worked well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?"a pig fell in the mud... and rollllllled in it" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:58 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?This is why I love guys I know that walk around thinking every girl could be into them and that they are sex gods. It is so delusional because it is like a 1 out of 100 a random girl would be sexually attracted and have her mind blown in bed. These guys with that delusional confidence is quite heroic. In his head every girl he slept with had her mind blown, and maybe they all thought he was terrible. BUT he still walks around like it is always mind blowing! Love it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 8 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?ED, PE, DE, small Didn't expect that. I guess they put in more effort to make up for it and also maybe take their time. Many women seem to complain about the jackhammer, cum, & then snore triple combo. The man with the detachable penis may be the best in bed of all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Do you think most women you know share the sentiment to your answer for #1? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Now we know why you are only at 20%. You've been avoiding the men that are best at sex all along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?It shows subjectively what portion of men the women here had enough sexual attraction to sleep with paid off big time sexually or not. So if a woman thinks 1 of 20 guys in her age range is sexy enough to sleep with, and only 1 out of 5 of the ones she thinks are sexy ends up actually being greatly sexually satisfying. She really has a 1 out of 100 guys chance that can blow her mind sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Does it make them better in bed if they use Old Spice or Axe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?I am guessing you answer to #1 is that 100% are great in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 8 | What percentage of men you've slept with are great in bed?Loooool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 4 | How Will Smart Pornography Change the Dating Landscape?This deep fake stuff will soon get to where you can take a few pictures of someone especially in a bathing suit, tight dress, workout clothes etc.. and then generate videos of them doing anything naked that will look pretty much like what that person looks like naked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.Tits for tat bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.I don't know what country you are in, meth and opiates are in higher use in poorer areas usually away from desirable metro centers. My experience living in desirable metro centers are that alcohol, cocaine, mdma, and weed are the drugs of choice with the archetypes of males I listed as the kinds to use each. No friend group I have ever has had anyone in any scenario be propositioned to do meth. Outside of heavy drug users in college, anyone after that I have never seen anyone bring or a stranger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.Aren't you some old chick? hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.Leaving a good proportion of hot crazy bitchy girls on the table for casual sex if you forego it altogether and those circles. As I said situational use not regular. This could mean once or twice a year. Like if you met a girl out at a house party or club and her and her friends want to do some bumps. Definitely worth it. Doing it every week before you go out to get pumped up? No that is a dumb trade off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.There are ranges with drug users. Cocaine addicts are often Chads or semi chads. Sorta the same with MDMA probably not to the same degree. Weed addicts I'd say vast majority are lower betas with some Chads sprinkled in, and those Chads are under performing in dating compared to if they used weed a lot less - as in only using it when they are spending the night with a new girl or one they are already having sex with. Lower betas also tend to love beer and craft beer. Alcohol is so prevalent it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | No, she’s not going to treat you like Chad, or any other man. The dynamic between you is unique, for good or badShe's post-wall, but still attractive enough. She's low maintenance. No no no. Cmon this is no different than if she was fat. She has pressures on her to act a certain way now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 0 | No, she’s not going to treat you like Chad, or any other man. The dynamic between you is unique, for good or badYes, this was very well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 6 | No, she’s not going to treat you like Chad, or any other man. The dynamic between you is unique, for good or badThe balllllllllls on this chick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the phrase “rejection is better than regret?”Sliding scale, too much rejection or too harsh is worse for mental health if you don't see success to bounce back from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Would you want to find your soulmate?How good are their handjobs? Serious question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Is Porn a Cause of, or a Symptom of, the Rising Number of Virgin/Sexless Men?Because I would believe sex for many men is like having a good healthy meal with their girlfriend that they initially like. It is healthy for them. It is the same meal over and over though with different spices and sauces thrown in. Porn is like diving in the pantry for cookies, or the freezer for ice cream and there are one millions kinds and flavors to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Have people lost their communication skills?True it is usually always fear and sadness expressed as anger because society wants to see men as "in control" so the cogs keep turning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Have people lost their communication skills?friendship ghosting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Hot/Average/Ugly men and PerceptionAs someone that is white and grown up in a lot of white circles: #1. 5'10 or above #2. Face #3. Confidence/Game #4. Lean #5. Good skin #6. Ultra skinny musician, surfer, swimmer / A little bit jacked jock / Bulkier teddy bear type Many white guys make the 5'10 cut. In my groups I would say 75%+. So if you run in those circles as a 6'+ guy it really doesn't mean much. I am 6'4", I would trade down to 5'10" and a less in shape body if I got much more handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedIt's a super power to approach often. The younger guys mostly have never and likely will rarely if ever do it because of the culture now. The older guys that have and still do, there are only handfuls. It is so rare now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:56 AM |
| 5 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedGirls be collecting souls of male virgins left and right. Time to get with God sons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?I just looked up that guy's photos he is the ultimate pretty boy. Model girls plastered in makeup next to him that would be by far the hottest girl in the local club look like clowns next to him he is so good looking. I am straight. The best looking men though blow women out of the water in looks. They don't need makeup. If they are very fit even the body is more interesting for an aesthetic perspective, unless the girl has some absolute unreal gravity defying curves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | To those of you who support traditional roles in a relationship, would you date a woman who makes it clear that she's looking for a man with a good income so she can stay home?Sure. The problem is women that could possibly have that attitude usually want the guy making $150k+ if not $250k+. For this to work society wide women would have to be ok with the guy making $60k+ and be very agreeable to living a very inexpensive lifestyle without getting fat and lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Can't wear sweatpants without underwear looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 8 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.Take it back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menNo, its because they would have even less chance with women because the women would be kept by warlords. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:33 PM |
| 0 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menEarn is such a dirty word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.That's blue pill. Every time I or friends have gone on big runs through women we have been obsessed and go out all the time to bars, events, parties and hit on them at every turn. It is no different than saying the less that Michael Jordan cared about basketball the better he got. The less the neighborhood Dad cared about spending time with his family the better Dad he became. Looooool "No but women are different" - No they aren't, that is the entire point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?Dear God was this beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.cats != kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The future of the average manAnytime a woman says "he 's emotionally unavailable", "he's afraid of commitment". She is already likely in a harem and doesn't want to face it. Men that soft harem women don't point it out. They treat each girl like they are the only one spending time with. Men that get laid a lot are smart. They tell women what they want to hear, not how the sausage is made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The future of the average manLoool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 5 | The future of the average manI don't think so. The guys that offer the most value to the system for the foreseeable future are tech guys that write code. They are much more ok going sexless for long periods, having very shabby girlfriends that wear the pants, and more apt to get lost in digital worlds in their off time. The guys that would cause the most damage by leaving are getting paid well to sit around in a hoodie and write code which most love to do and would be some of the last to leave. If blue collar construction w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | What will be the next major event to shift the dating market in America?UBI Being able to look younger longer (gene editing, supplements, micro plastic surgeries) These will accelerate the current trend. Men no need to provide, women not hitting the wall as fast and having even more suitors than they already have into an older age. Best advice for men is try to fit a "type" a large sub group of women are into and really go balls out to exude it. Rock musician, sporty, preppy/dressy, hipster, bohemian/artsy, surfer, skater, fighter, tattoo/body mod guy etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 12 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Thank you for saying this! You should be a mother, not the women that need to have it all at all costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness.Lmao true, very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The asshole theory, let's examineYou choosing a good father to have kids with is much more important than trying to get deadbeat or abusive dads to be good dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 11 | The future of the average manMagic the Gathering will be the highest viewed and highest grossing sport in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Let's say you were only child with abusive parents. Once you are an adult is best to cut them out of your life. Yes it sucks to not have parents and to lose having a family. It is still better than keeping a relationship with them though. It is not healthy for men to not have relationships with women. It is much worse though to be rejected over and over and then get into bad relationships over and over. It is like being starved of food as prisoner then being randomly beaten with a huge stale bag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:35 AM |
| 10 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I have never met a man of any age that expects girls the pursue them. They are all utterly conditioned that it is their job to pursue and create all the magic. They know it is not worth it to compete for their mental health. Women on average are that flimsy, flaky, and difficult to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Most people, men and women, are better off if women make men wait for sex ."fuck everyone else" How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:44 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Yeah pretty much same here. Maybe with variation of artist or musician ultra skinny lanky, tatted, prettyboy type as a second version. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | sexual/partner insecurityRed pill infomercial writes itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I don't think progress will halt. The oligarchs at the top will have so much money they will set up any super IQ genius inventor and scientist types with wives or whatever they want. Most of the important progressions in science have only been from a small crowd of minds. Automation takes care of the rest. In fact with gene editing the oligarch class can make their own children and top level workers increase their IQs, lifespans etc... What would the single men fight for to make chaos? Women tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 05:57 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Bro I am not saying it's fair trust me I have gone on a lot of dates that were shit, and dealt with women acting like shit. I am saying in a world of unrestricted female sexual selection the best we can do for men is give them a leg up as being as competitive as possible to find long term mates. Placing boys and girls together so much to be productive and in harmony together at young ages I think would also have women see men as something more than a swipable face and guy #12 in their phone, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Yes there will never be perfect balance. I am going to guess if the average 23 year old virgin gamer, porn watcher etc... had been in schooling like this though since grade 1, he would have had a much better chance of success by his current age. At the very least over that many years and interactions with girls growing up he would know what types of women are warmer towards him for possible matches for him as he navigates dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:51 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Curious what do you think may be a few differences between what a stereotype of an American Chad would be vs. a UK Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:46 AM |
| 6 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I don't see how you can possibly teach women to go against their unrestricted sexual nature. They want men that have power, whether that is social confidence, money, looks, body, connections whatever. There is no way morals are going to come back to shame women away from their natural instincts unless deeply religious people out-breed secular people. That will not be in our lifetime. The best chance you have is making boys be as socially & emotionally intelligent as possible with girls. Things l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:28 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I don't get responses to this post. It is like red/black pillers see it as offensive. I am a Game guy #1, RP #2 Boys best chance in this future dating world is to become better at socializing with girls at a very young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:03 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I think girls would also learn how to more deeply relate to boys if they spent close socialized time with them. I am just saying the all school work home work, and often sex-separated extracurricular activities makes both genders look at each other more like a commodity if their first dating experience is off Tinder or something similar. I think any teaching girls or moral stance about this is over with. The horse left the barn. All you can do is better prepare boys and girls socialize and hopef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Question for the short guys-are you less likely to ask out a taller woman?Short girls are way more into it. I'm am tall. Taller women seems like 1 out of 5 gives me any extra points for being taller than them. Much shorter girls more like 3 out of 5 seemingly gave me major points for being much taller. My theory is tall girls when they get the model type attitude if they are thin and tall. They get many men only a few inches shorter wanting to conquer them as having the tall hot model type girlfriend. Tall girls just have had worse attitudes all the way around. Even o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Ok I think porn has been prevalent since dial up connection in 1997. And I think delayed adulthood is due to wages, housing prices, student load debt. I think they play a part I think though there was a major major major shift that started around 2012. FB bought Instagram and pushed it from a camera filter app to a lifestyle, who is the the hottest/most popular app. Tinder started in 2012. That shift of social media and swipe apps having so much power of over the behavior of women in the sexual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel bad when women say the male body is unattractive?Seen too many women while in their company point out guys in public purely based on body. Lean, very toned, very clear skin, tan. Women often times need all these. Of course they had handsome faces as well loool. Men are often ok with just a nice ass, just a nice ass, just nice legs, just a nice stomach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Are you a boomer? Have you dated a girl under 25 years old within the last 10 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:22 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.You think if Denmark goes from 10% insemination single moms to 30% it will be chaos? I don't think so. I think it would be sad or frustrating from the view of many men. I think men will become more comfortable not having life long relationships with women. It is on its way there. When you have these single moms raising all boys alone, these boys will be conditioned that this is completely normal as well. The only chaos is if a country like China forcefully rebukes these ways and starts taking ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 11:09 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.How can you have the cognitive dissonance to date romantically when you know 10 other guys are in her phone coming after her including current fuck buddies & exes. It is the least romantic thing ever sadly. "I had 7 first dates last month tee-hee!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 09:15 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Yeah I believe that. I think there is a direct correlation of men spending lots of time with porn, video games, solo substance abuse and what they subconscious deems as it is a bad deal to participate and compete in society. I think the only solution is that it has to become a culture norm and a part of public education to teach boys growing up social etiquette. I think there should be partner dancing in school with the opposite sex starting very young and should be a daily 30 min class. That sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:00 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Women will get more artificial insemination, have the government support for childcare so they can still have a career. These single career moms will share alpha men for sexual needs. Human harems, rare natural impregnation. Alphas they have sex with not responsible for children. In a way just a capitalistic-socialism that allows women "to have it all" just minus an alpha committing. In fact this may be a better reality for many women, they get to chase an alpha's love until death, and still hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:47 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Too many distractions for young men and women. Men when ignored or rejected have many comfortable hobbies to hide away from the world. Also now in text or social media a rejection or something embarrassing can now be spread. Women have too many distractions with social media and dating apps. They have too much attention and too many choices so they are less likely to see any one guy is special unless he is highly desired by other women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?Like I said I don't think any sex work is good for society. I don't think porn is good. I'd want every man to be at the top of the action list by getting to know and hitting on women in real life. I think dating apps are really bad let alone porn. Yes it is an accessible way to dabble in sex work in a mainstream way and will get more intense with newer technologies, and that isn't good for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?This is upping the ante a lot going to OnlyFans. If you think about male sexuality and confidence, top action being most confident/least desperate to bottom of list least confident/most desperate Goes in public, hits on women Goes on dating app, hits on women Jerks off thinking of hot girls he has seen in real life Jerks off to free porn Goes to strip club Hires an escort to have sex with Pays to jerk off to porn Pays camgirl to jerk off to Pays OnlyFans girls for the girlfriend fantasy ------ T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I think it is triggering to men because it is an obvious gateway to the future of male/female relationships being warped by what is easy and gives a high. In a way no different than seeing meth or fentanyl use spread in an area. It isn't good, and the designer drugs of sex work in the future will only get more intense with augmented reality, virtual reality, deep fakes, AI etc. I don't think anyone wants to live in the world of the movie Her or Deus Ex Machina. Seeing how popular OnlyFans is tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?I have massive sympathy for women that lack perky tits and ass cheeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.I'll take average girl Muffin Top Syndrome for $100 Bob! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?ITS JUST THAT BAD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?Evolutionary poor genes supporting richer genes. Ultimate halo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.The mean/vicious girl tends to be out more and more outgoing. If she was at home all day she wouldn't get a reputation for being a mean girl. Because the mean girl interacts with more men and can not usually remain successfully monogamous in her younger years she will get more interest just being out there. The sweet girl probably gets into longer relationships where she is off the market. Also most very sweet people are not extremely outgoing or social ladder climbers. Lastly guys can envision … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placeboRed pill is a fantastic defensive set of rules. How not to get used, disrespected, time wasted, money lost, emotions abused. It is also fantastic for setting hard basic boundaries that many people lack for various reasons. It is great for emphasizing the basic passive attraction factors that all women are drilled with since birth. However it is not great at offense and going after girls. That is game. How to make a connection with women, be interesting, have an attractive attitude. How to be som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 5 | I can only see current trends acceleratingYou still haven't even touched on that even if you become advantageous by being fit or upgrade all the same old shit the new girl you can date has already been through Chads and she isn't comparing you to fat guys with a stained t-shirt. She is comparing you to the Chads. If you are number 6 in attractiveness out of 9 Chads she banged she will always compared you to his confidence, looks, status etc. You won't be looked at the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count?He got to marry you, mission accomplished. Same as women that lie downward about it. Just stealing from women's bag of tricks. It works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceJust say no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | If women are hypergamous by nature....I am guessing both genders would prefer that people seek social value in personality rather than looks/money/presitge, and that would translate into genetic sexual value. Personality just does not as much as people hope though. A lot of people love the shit out of each others' personality in dead bedrooms and it doesn't translate at all. And plenty of cases of two people that get on each others nerves all the time and have amazing sex. That is pretty much blue pill idealism. "There is someone fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 09:35 PM |
| 18 | If women are hypergamous by nature....Hypergamy is based on value. That value can be genetic value (sexual attraction) or social value (money, career status). RP has said over and over that sexual value is more important to many women up until their 20s. Some women make a switch over to seeking social value at an earlier age, some always value genetic and are serial monogomists, cheaters, or girls that just hoe around into the 30s and beyond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I've dated plenty of women in their 20s and a few in their 30s. The ones in their 30s that don't want kids or marriage seem pretty relaxed about life. The ones that want marriage and kids have long checklists and are digging for red flags. And many of them either can't help themselves or on the tip of their tongue is to vent about life baggage with the insecure implicit message of "I hope you won't be future baggage if you are please come out and say it now". Girls in their early and mid 20s hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:26 PM |
| -2 | women HAVE to be hypergamous because of the desire to submitAgree 100%. Said in another post guys' best strategy is get an LTR with a girl that is a step below in facial looks, but has a banging body and is your type that and she is really into you. That is the best trade off for attraction + respect. Only exception is going to a different country where you are wealthier and exotic, and those factors help push up your value to get a hotter, yet still submissive girl. You have to stay in that country though to keep your value that much higher though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.If it isn't a Herculean task why have women had article upon article and book upon book about dating before red pill was even a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 05:41 AM |
| 3 | What cultures do you think produce more toxic/terrible women than average?I have heard Argentina, Italian, Spanish can be the most entitled and annoying to deal with. In Colombia the whiter girls in Medellin definitely have more attitude and entitlement than other parts of the country often with dark shades of skin. French girls in my experience have been very irritating. I think beyond these places I have heard that Russian, Scandanavian, and Australian women all have their pitfalls. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Men don't put in effort in marriages because they're already overexerted by not sleeping with other women.My pants are always tired tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How exactly does career/wealth play into SMV?I think if you are using money to attract girls I think having a $80k+ car (doesn't matter if it is leased), a nice apartment or house in a desirable area living alone maybe $2.5k+ month rent for an apartment. Nice furniture. Money to take out to expensive restaurants, events, and vacations. Several weekend get aways a year to a nice resort/hotel. Buy expensive gifts for birthday, Christmas, Valentine's, anniversary. Treat her to some free shopping gifts here and there. Wear nice clothing, expen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?It sort of is, I think also if you look around and want the best deal for an LTR in an anglo country that is it for long term companionship. You trade up on looks you are often asking for quite a bit of long term extra headache. Otherwise you need to go to a country where you are considered wealthier and exotic. You are just playing the same game where the girl needs to think you are her best catch, now she is just hotter at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 8 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Well they hold all the cards. They have better social support networks, infinitely easier access to casual sex in a slump, and can do without the hunt and sex mindset a lot of men thrive in. They can keep pulling the lever for a better pick at a much smaller cost socially, emotionally, energy-wise than a man. I mean all men even outside RP know this instinctually that probably the best pick is a girl that is less good looking than them, really into them, but is their type especially bodywise. Li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason why "we" have this warlike conflict between the gender is due to the fact the ego is drowned in being "a man" or "a woman".Horniness scorned is the real monster under the bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What do guys think when women casually show up at the same place to get a guy’s attention?I think as a girl you have a range of time a man maybe really into you if he keeps responding warmly and initiating good dates regularly. If he all of sudden stops its either he has better options or the girl dropped the ball by not being warm enough or seemingly into him. I think the way women have treated men as more disposable through choice has also made men say to themselves, if she isn't acting really into me fast after getting to know me I need to get ready to move on. I think the girl in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 3 | The average woman is more attractive than the average man, but NOT because she’s actually more attractiveNo no no. There has to be a study of men and women and how many times they collectively get off a week. Many men can get off 3-5 times a day every day even if they have the flu or got in a car accident. Not many women are rubbing out at that rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is more attractive than the average man, but NOT because she’s actually more attractiveI think this does show how players are born. It is the one guy either naturally or through learning that can pretty much clear his head of the fact women are more in demand and that society caters to them. He focuses only on his own enjoyment and that of the woman he is in the company of, he doesn't take any of it seriously. It is a big game to make some good memories for when he is in his rocking chair in old age. Women feel his attitude of non-neediness, no expectations, carefree nature toward… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What are your views concerning the “long game?”I think you are right in the fact men over simplify red pill. RP does teach one way to pursue women for casual sex that is obviously much more popular as men that gravitate to red pill have been burned either self inflicted or by partners in relationships. Most RP guys use that casual sex thought process for all women. There is RP for LTRs but it has the pretext of find a very low N-count girl that is a pleasant and agreeable person. Most modern women don't fit this stereotype so most RP have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 07:24 PM |
| 7 | [Q4M] Have you ever had a relationship with a woman way out of your league?Nope, they been a half point or point below me mostly with great to decent attitude. I have slept with girls above me. Most of them had crazy personalities, or they had so many options that being able to connect with them or stay together seemed like a pipe dream. Girls have seemed much much happier when they know they are dating up a bit. The worst girls are the ones that are not as conventionally attractive as me and I am not their type and they have treated me that they are above me. The hot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Women That Have an N-Count of 10+, Have You Ever Slept With a Guy Out of Your League?Omg dont be so nasty hurts my feelings nasty woman nasty woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?I believe the farther we get from tribal living to atomization the father and mother figures both fall so the family falls. In a tribe every child in fact had many father and mother figures and grandparent figures. Children could take the best and worst lessons from each. Now we have moved from tribes, to multigenerational households, to nuclear family, to single parent homes and screens. Children can be exposed to more father and mother figures through social media and things like that, but it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"LOL trust me I try to every day!@@!@ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 5 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"More attractive women that are more confident in themselves tend to be more honest about how they date. I think because they know they are hot so they can be honest and not care any outside opinions. I think more average women play it nicer and don't explicitly say "I go through a lot of guys, even some pretty goods ones, but I think I can do better anyways" because they are afraid of upsetting the more average guys they end up dating that they have desire to bang and give their moonshot at lock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"Yeah if you want a take charge guy you are probably on the wrong guy if you have to make the first move, those type of guys will probably make a move on you surprisingly fast. I will warn you though as a take charge guy myself and I have had quite a few guy friends the same you gotta vet and make him slow down a bit. With these types of guy they can get so wrapped up in the good feelings of getting a girl worked up about them that they don't treat it seriously or as carefully as the more stable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"bravo and brave are two words in English | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I am going to win this argument by putting a curse on this post and saying woman reading it that agrees with you will have to settle for a 25 year old guy that has a gut, wears only star wars t-shirts, and has milf fetish. Good debate while it lasted now you are doomed so sry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Women go nuts say they have it just as hard as men with dating. Now in some sliver of conditions it is said a narrow group of men have an advantage of finding higher quality relationships over women and they DENY DENY DENY Whaaaaaat? If women vehemently argue they have it better at the age men may arguably have it the best in the dating life then that means at any younger age women are just admitting they have it 100 times easier The insecurity is so blatant! Get that new wine fridge & get that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I am arguing a 35 year old man has a larger swath of younger women to date seriously with no divorce kids baggage. A 35 year old woman that is supposedly still hot, that 45 year old guy what are the chances he doesn't have divorce or kids already? Or the chance he still wants to get married or have more kids? Or the chance he is lying about having a wife and kids and has a woman on the side. The type of man a hot 35 year old woman is after has probably been in high demand for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 29 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?LOL you are personally part of the reason men put less effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?I am not saying they should be, I am saying that is a deep impulse in men that needs to be fed no matter what. It can't be ignored. The only way I see to do it is the form very closely bonded male tribes that strive and bond together the same way military units form high level of cameraderie. We need that to be a top priority for males from young boyhood to death. Men aren't as good as casual socialization like women are. We need missions and schedules and purpose to bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?No, males do have a warrior spirit. That is why the even the fattest and skinniest nerd play shooters and dragons and knights games. You would need a society based less on jobs and money. One that has ultra abudance. Young men would need to be conscripted into masculine activities to build bonds and contribute to the community. Wilderness skills, first aid skills, fighting skills, fishing, hunting, athletics etc... men need to consistently bond and feed that spirit through life. Helping communit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?I've asked myself this. I think some men have gotten so little positive feedback from women, or gotten burned bad enough they don't even see it as a possibility. Also if you are going to the betabux poor foreign country game to keep the girl happy you will probably have to move to that country to the guy's status stays high as a provider and she is still happy being close to friends and family. When she moves to the Western country she will probably see she can trade up and that will sour her at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 11 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Very underrated. Many men in the past derived purpose from being willing to die for causes. For a God, a religion, a country, a tribe. At this point in history the biggest nemesis is unfettered corporatism which is a soul crushing and unfulfilling enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:18 PM |
| 20 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Women if even half way attractive can have an immediate string of casual relationships with men they may not get into an LTR but will validate and entertain them with little work. Even if they are in a bad mood recovering from a break up. Some men can go get hookups easily, but they have to do the work, be charming etc... if they just got out of a breakup and are depressed and angry it is hard to have the energy to seduce. A woman can open an app or text a male acquaintance to come over for a gl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 69 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?I would say my number one thing over the years of dating since the smart phone came out is that women taken less and less effort to treat me as someone special on a date, and take less initiative to be good company. I have noticed a trend of more women being passive or just venting about their lives. I feel like they are squarely more in the mindset of "is he giving me a good time? is he worth my time? will he make my life better?". Instead of a 50/50 while also asking "how can I help give him a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"I'm curious what are any patterns you see in guys that almost make the cut, but don't and you want to try again with someone new? Is there anything in common they share that makes you want to move on? Because if you have that many options it would seem at least a few of the guys have to have been close to making the cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.To me LTR is building a future life, kids, family, someone you can trust, a legacy. I think you getting a hot girl in her mid 20s that is down to earth with her head on straight will be a lot easier than this 35 year old chick getting shrimp and Skittles with Lamar Odum looking for love and actually finding it! If you are talking about just getting wined and dined by guys with money and status yes at any age forever attractive women will always have better options by far. You have to remember hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:56 PM |
| -2 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Not really. A 35 year old guy could easily date a 25 year old women. Most women won't date much younger. Her options start to be divorcees or married cheaters. Also women have the genetic where some of them no matter what they do the skin on their face just sags and wrinkles easy in their 30s even if they never smoke and do skin care. Just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 12 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I'd argue a 35 year old man with his shit together has better options for an LTR than an equally attractive 35 year old woman. The woman is now having to deal with most HVM being married already or divorced etc with bagged. The 35 year old man can date a 25 year old woman. But whatever you didn't read the post you are just a RP hater that's fine. Life gives it's own lessons lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.RP never has said older women will be lonely or lack options. This is a misconception. It says women hit the wall at some point it is different for all women and they go from hot and sexy to would not bang in looks for RP men. It says the juice isn't worth the squeeze for commitment to an older woman because you lose out on the younger hotter years, and you have to deal with her baggage and set in her ways. No one in RP would say that a normal 45 woman has less good options relatively for her ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"Girls are so fat girls are so fat girls are soooo faaatttt lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 21 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"There is one woman in here that admits she is good looking and fit and that she puts herself through the struggle of dating and being single because she wants to keep gambling on better options even though she has a wealth of options. Bravo and a lot of respect for this woman. Statements like this would make men feel much more warmth towards women in the dating world if they just told it how it is. Beyond this is to have women stop deluding themselves when it comes to male players and guys out o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 10 | How do you know what your SMV/RMV is?I knew I was hot when she said at the end of night, "oh its okay I'll get the Uber back to your place" as I layed facedown on the sidewalk slurring about how sexy she was.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Has a legit actual confirmed chad ever posted on here about what their dating and sex life is like?It is easy with girls that are a step or half step below you in looks that are into you. It is still difficult with girls at your looks level or above unless you have status or popularity that they want a piece of. Examples of status that would make Chads easily get their looks match of hot girl would be trustfund wealth, high status job, legitimate artist with legitimate following etc. You still have to do the major things right in conversation, venue selection, making moves. You definitely sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still existHigh beauty standards? All the women seem like they are front running the cookie stocks like Nabisco, and loading up on Oreos as a path to early retirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] how important is it that your man is intelligent or smarter than you? Like , is it ok if he's kind of dumb if his other personality traits are good?So you do enjoy dating dumb men then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on Couples Therapy? True or Phony?bullshit dont fly here bruh!!!! welcome to equality!!! lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in dating: you have extremely unrealistic expectations.Seconded! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Effective Flirting Is The Most Important Dating Skill for MenI think being well put together or wildly charismatic would be the top 2. Followed very closely by socially dominant. I think flirting and the confidence to flirting skills are extremely useful, but they are really icing on the cake, compared to just having a very charming and attractive presence. If you have that presence all types of people will want to get into deeper conversations women included. If women are into you, hell they will take care of a lot of the flirting leg work themselves. Wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 5 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Trust me not being fuckable to at least a reasonable amount of women you find attractive (most men are a pretty reasonable and only complain about not being able to get with their looksmatch) is extremely mentally damaging for men unless they want to become a monk or are asexual. Without that there is little foundation to build upon. The number one reason men become is to attract women. If hot women would sleep with a man that has no status men would live in tents on the beach, get a dog with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Ooooopsie!!! Old mad woman being old and mad. Watch out everyone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 14 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?Does anyone else see the insane conundrum that multiple women here said men shouldn't care about the why, the motive, or what women think ever (because they have no chance of getting it right) just focus on what they do. IE don't treat them as people. This may be the biggest AWALT from the horse's mouth I have ever seen. It is saying there is no reason to want to know a woman's true motives, if that is true why ever really trust them? When women obsess and talk for hours about why a guy did some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested.lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Attractive women, have you ever been treated differently because of your looks?You have to understand if a guy doesn't make it clear as day who he is after the girls often want to throw a bone to the average girl in the group that has had a dating slump lately and that really sucks as a guy acting like you are you interested in the entire group when you really just want to hit on one girl. It is a hard balance to strike to be friendly with everyone, but have it be known who you are flirting with. For example if there were 5 girls the 2 hot ones and another would form a lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and Red Pill should only be followed by men who have totally failed at the dating market.I think MGTOW yes, if guys have been dealt bad cards genetically, mentally, through bad experiences it really can be the healthiest route. For those guys I honestly think being very involved in a religious or charity organization is the way to go. If not that then make good money, save, and looking into dating in other countries where a woman would respect a provider. I think any guy no matter what age or their success level can benefit from RP knowledge. The problem with most guys is being in c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 19 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Guys say she's a fox as a compliment. Not she's a whale as a compliment. Women have so many suitors so easily no one needs to give men advice for anything because all guys except the most good looking or smoothest talking all know how hard it is without any advice. The amount of things a man can and has to do to be more attractive is so long it is barely worth talking about. For a woman it is stop having bad judgment in who you date and put the cupcake down. No book needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 9 | How important are muscles to find a relationship?Muscles for men are often about self confidence. It is a competition against other men and if you feel you are beating most of them you have more self confidence in general. You don't need them but they help your inner game. There are chubby guys that are charismatic party animals that get laid alot. That is a rare breed though to be that secure in themselves in what they have to offer. So yes, muscles help, but they really help you in your own head. I would say as far as attracting women being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Women explains why hot men treat fat women better than average menYou are getting your perception of pursuing wrong. The hotter guys are just more confident and have better game from having success before so they just go for it. Guys that stay hot are often more motivated get new sex than average guy who doesn't have the motivation to get and keep hot in the first place. Hot guys will be more in shape often have better genetics, and have more testosterone. The thing you are comparing is hot guy game to average guy game. I guarantee if you saw a camera recordin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.If you can't stomach ghosting and she asks what's up. "I'm doing other things with my life, good luck" (also who cares what the fuck the last line in even if it was "i luv you so much cant I take it!!!! i must go!!! im obsessed with worshiping uu!!!!" who cares the last line is nothing but ego for the guy. Anything short of blocking/deleting when you are done is all about protecting the male ego. Either I'm not the bad guy, or haha I got the last word in and am righteous. Both are fantasies. She… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Got told I’m desperateHit on more girls. Need to be in contact with 3 minimum, 5+ is even better. Be desperate, use girls to practice on and get it out of your system All the gurus try to say "I made every mistake in the book so you don't have to" that is all bullshit. You will learn some principles, you need to take action and make mistakes (a shitton) to truly learn the lessons yourself. You asked how to meet more women, well you need to be around them constantly. Find the best coffee shop near you that attractive … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Is my 1-strike policy about last minute cancelations of first dates dumb?Don't have a hard rule do it girl to girl situation to situation. You know yourself and how invested you are in a particular girl and you know how long it will take you to get over it if she does it a second time. You gotta do what's best for you. If blocking them right away strike one helps you move on to get back to life and getting even more chicks then hell yes it is the right decision. The fact you have to make a post means you should block them. One day when during a period you have more a… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)I charge girls for condoms on Venmo after I first have sex with them just to make sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:57 AM |
| 3 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?How many fat girls on opiates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:29 AM |
| 2 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Try living in any my major west coast city LOL way harder than NYC for a guy. Women are difficult everywhere in NYC at least you can play the numbers game. In other places you run out of numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 0 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Best Dating for Men: Bangkok Manilla Ho Chi Mihn City Lima Bogota Medellin Cali Montreal NYC Chicago Houston Miami Santo Domingo Kiev Moscow St. Petersburg. Budapest ------------------------------------------- Best Dating for Women: Anywhere in Turkey Anywhere in India Auckland Sydney Melbourne Washington DC Toronto San Francisco LA San Diego Portland Seattle Austin Rome Milan Madrid Barcelona Paris London Athens Glassgow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?You must have a grrrrrrrrrreat ass!!! LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Smart and they like tall men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Nope. As a man when you approach and pursue many women you do see what your equivalent is. Many won't be into you because women set up so many varied objections. However you will find a number of women you do pursue that like you back. If you sit around and let women hit on you, you most often get low hanging fruit women that are batting out of their league. Women making a move is rare. It puts their ego at risk. If they swing, they swing at the fences. Guys in a rut will swing at the pig pen so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.I'm gonna get super hot then not fuck anybody. That will show them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 25 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isWrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/OlderWould I rather read his autobiography or the guy that maxed his 401k and has 2 kids with a 6 that puts on weight over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/OlderMy uncle was recently divorced by my aunt at age 80 and kicked into a small 1 BR condo by himself to die in. What about that story? Lol. Mine isn't hypothetical it just happened. Look up grey divorce trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/OlderYeah women love carefree. If any guy had a interesting pussy cat nip career to talk about and was always out drinking and partying not thinking 2 seconds in the future he will always be in the present. Beyond that your career has built in practice to express yourself so you can elicit emotions from other people. For the average guy you need to imagine its like you won lotto. No worries about work tomorrow or bills. And you party like you are a freshman in college all the time. Oh and anytime you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/OlderFit Wealthy Silver Fox Young Gun Ass Tapper Chad Charisma and Game to pick up a stripper Such Beta, So Cuddly, Mmm Mmm Big Hearts Big Hugs!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn.Not sure about that I've had a lot of porn screaming, squirt, spank fest sex. If you don't feel like a bull in a china shop during sex you probably won't experience this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 9 | Discussion: top 20%Incredible point and also why when you go out as a man looking to meet women you are best going out alone, or with one other wing that is near the same looks or below. Less choice for the women to not pick you. If you go out with a group of 5 single guy friends and try to hit on groups of 3, 4, 5 women etc... this just doesn't work as well. Women in the group want the top 1 or 2 guys more and don't want to feel they got guy number 5 out of 5. If it is just you alone and you have the confidence a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her?Sexuality is strange. Relationships and dating I have more of a classical man's mindset of this can all logically make sense if we want it to. Sexuality on the other hand is where I finally get women on so many other fronts where they say to don't know why they like or dislike or take action because "it just happened". For this, if a girl slapped me out of nowhere during sex I'd find it a masculine act and a turn off. If she asked to be choked I'd also somehow see it as strange or desperate. Now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ?The practical way is meet these women at night venues with dance floors and lots of liquor flowing or at a rave/music festival with drugs flowing. Girls are dressed up sexy and their hormones are jacked up. Usually these girls are out with a couple friends and they are either visiting for a long weekend or they just had a break up and need to get laid and the friends support her getting laid that night. Other way is weeding through OLD and trying to get girls to come straight to your place. Can … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?Sex power envy sure. Men would love to have women's sexual power. I can't think of a power a human has that takes less effort for the amount of power received than women's sex appeal. Having power over money, governments, military, businesses, men, difficult skills... all much more work for the end power goal. Women just have to stay thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Do women get bored of relationships faster than men?I would argue being in a more pineapples and fishing society and having a woman easily attracted to you would be a lot happier and fulfilling life than paying taxes and having to perform in text, social media, dating apps, or approaching constantly in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Do women get bored of relationships faster than men?God yes finally the truth! Men put on a performance persona to get laid. Many many do day in and day out especially if they are young enough to date hot younger women or they are newly in a relationship. Doing that performance year over year is almost near impossible. The men that are best at doing it for a girlfriend or wife often times have the motivation to keep doing it because they are still staying sharp to go after other women as well on the down low. Men can enjoy the thrill of the hunt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateGood story, the part I think women don't understand because they have different tastes in men they can hardly explain most men agree on what women are attractive pretty closely. If any of my guy friends were out at a bar and there was a group of 5 girls almost all of us would agree roughly how attractive they are in order. He said he thought you were out of his league because he had rarely if ever had a flirty interaction with a girl at your looks level. Almost all men except a very delusionally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Depression and not caring what others thinkAll you should care about is growing your own loyal audience. Any authority figure or prize means shit compared to that. We live in the decentralized technology age. Build your loyal audience, everyone else won't matter because they won't be listening to you or paying you. Everyone else is a waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?Due to culture it is way more work than it used to be in order to be a respected husband. She can get fat easier. She can leave easier. She can take your money easier. She can have bad influence friends easier. She can have bad influence media easier. She doesn't have cultural reinforcement from a religious authority, her mom, dad, grandparents, friends to be "good wife". Everything is about her now. Managing the relationship with her has 10x the pitfalls and challenges it used to for arguably l… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateI was never the one pushing to keep contact The rest of them were all driven by them Definitely the communication part played the biggest part Quoted for the guys the fascinating parts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateEven free pancakes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateConversation flows there's no awkwardness Guys if you are reading this those were the important parts to remember! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Yeah I agree with this. I think the underlying trade off is as a guy dating casually you can sort of put on a one size fits all more pop concert attitude or energy that will play well to a broad range of girls. The more open you get about yourself and deep its like you are putting on a more indie or even underground depending on how deep you go and that may only play well to less girls but it will play very very very well to them because they love how authentic it is. I think it is just hard hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?I think boys and men are undersocialized overall and red pill has too many short cuts and hard rules to make up for the undersocialization. Game as much as it was and is probably made fun of encouraged men to watch comedy, dramas, learn to express themselves creatively. Get involved in the arts, be a better conversationalist. Be original, and grow your personality. That took alot more work so it went out of fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Lol I love Dark Age of Camelot and I am one of the best fucking Pac Healers that game has ever seen! I've never said that to a hot girl, but damn it one day they are gonna hear it and have no idea what it means and I will be proud as a lion as I roar it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 7 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?What if the host ended up being the love of your life? And you slept with him. Does he have motives? Any two single adult attracted to each other and left alone have ulterior motives all the time. Lol did the girls that stayed with me and had sex with me, did they have ulterior motives? One girl that stayed with me had condoms ready in her purse! She was from Germany obviously looking for a good time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 7 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?In almost ever date or first encounter meeting a women there are always 2 or 3 turning points where as the man you really need to "make things happen" in a smooth way. I don't know when exactly these things may come up and it may be 3 instead of 2 or 4 instead of 3... but they will come up and I know as an instinct I have to do or say something right at those points or I am just spinning a roulette wheel hoping for the best. Do I ignore that I know when to take action and just hope the roulette … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:04 AM |
| 6 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Yo you fly down to a Mexican beach city, meet a girl with a tiny waist wide hips perfect C rack, little bubble butt, zero fat, dancer toned, Sinaloa chica and have her screaming her head off banging my brains out in a gorgeous ocean view apartment on the water and report back to me that sex isn't great. Did I even mention the acccent yet??? Dios mio! Are you the reincarnation of Hitler!? Be gone demon! Your understanding of men is less than a rabbit has | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Yeah, I don't think tricking fits the bill lol. That would be like saying if a girl wears make up and a tight dress and does her hair and all that she is tricking me because she doesn't look like that all the time outside the date. Or that she'll smile alot, giggle, touch my arm, laugh at my jokes. We all know down the line that isn't happening when a girl in a bad mood whining on the couch one night. She tricked me! She does it because it works and gets good feedback. She doesn't think twice wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:43 AM |
| 5 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Kinda sad because every boy meets girl story going back to ancient times alot of them was a guy approaching in the day. I was approaching during the day in the first month of corona and hitting on girls from 6 feet away haha I got some numbers. It is still doable but I had a lot of experience before this new brave world. I fully admit starting day game as a newb would be a lot more stressful than it was 10 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Lol you sound like a stripper giving her life story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?I have been out of practice for a bit with rona and all. I was approaching about a year ago at the beginning of rona and it still worked out ok back then. There will always be approaches at bars when alcohol is involved. During the day I don't know. I think all the apps and other stuff probably scared most guys off. So I think there lots of room to do it now. I am physically a Chad by this subs definition and have had some Chad type hobbies over time but am overall maybe 1/4 computer nerd 1/2 jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 8 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?They left stellar reviews, and I had plenty of guests where nothing sexual happened Aren't women trying to be equal? I mean I don't care if women want to get laid, I am for it. Be supportive, be better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?If you are into that frame stuff you should look at old school Game stuff. Game is offense, there is no losing frame you are trying to change and improve other people's "frame" instead of worrying about your own. Capture hearts and minds go on offense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Yeah it's hard to describe because of red pill and pick up tactics all being associated with this as all having a specific line or comeback for every situation which in reality as anyone could tell you that has dealt with tons of different situations and personalities will never be genuine or keep people's interest for long. I go back to the late night talk show host or a mayor or some other person that has a TON of experience improvising when talking to new people and it is more just being very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:41 AM |
| 0 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateI think that's changing I honestly think guys are running out of outrage about girls getting laid. The cultural tide is just too strong. And I say this as a guy that has very hypocritical idealistic traditional views sometimes. Also I think enough guys are getting wise to the fact that guys that don't care if girls are trying to get laid tend to give out an energy girls want to get laid with anyways. C'est la vie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateDid any become FWBs? If so for the ones that did was it because they made the effort keep in contact or did you? How much would you say their sexual performance vs. how they communicated with you was of importance to being a repeat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateMen that have that happen to them don't call it an accomplishment they call it a lay up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:21 AM |
| 12 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Yes if you study yourself, society, and history we are all boxed very tightly into countless norms we follow everyday. Within those norms there are degrees to act that are received better than others. We can't walk out in public with underwear on our heads without being laughed at. Maybe in 50 years that would be the fashion trend that gets you laid lol. It is all quite ridiculous if stand far enough back from society and look at it. Just the fact we try to be so serious sometimes yet anyone in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:51 AM |
| 9 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Casual sex with women above a certain hot level that wants to fuck your brains out the same way you do to them NEVER gets old. NEVER. That level is different for every man and what their tastes are. At least for me it will never get old. Casual sex with an ok looking girl, my imagination is better these days. When I was younger my balls ruled over my brain lol That I am not sad or saying ironic in saying it is better than any drug experience or Christmas as a kid or hug from my grandma or whatev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:18 AM |
| 8 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?1000+ cold in person approaches including in foreign countries and some in a foreign language I was learning Lots of hours "in the trenches" (my favorite nostalgia term) in bars, clubs, travelling, and just on the streets or campus approaching women Endless hours listening to what most these days would classify as cheeseball mysognists on their theories about how to talk to women. One CD set I pirated that was recorded in like 2003 or some shit. A lot of primal theory of how the sexes interact. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:13 AM |
| -1 | Men that have been successful casually dating do you ever feel like it's a performance? If so how do you deal with it?Thank you for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateHave you had sex with a guy friend for the first time on a later date like the 3rd or 5th? If so what was the difference between the guy friend that you slept with on the 1st date vs the one that took longer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateThanks for the answer. If a guy meets this casual standard and you want to get laid do you have sex sooner than a boyfriend material guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateOnly question is was the guy conventionally better looking than guys you usually date long term or in the same league? If he came off more as a charming player would you care or would it have stopped you? If you are a guy and you want to get laid fast travel or meeting girls travelling to your town on vacation. Dance at night with drugs and alcohol involved and make a move lol. Never take off your sunglasses because you're having such a good time you forget they are on day or night. Also bonus e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateWhat are your normal objections? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateThank you for give a real answer! Every other one is smoke and mirrors! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:53 AM |
| -1 | The fact that manipulation gets people what they want doesn’t mean people are sexually attracted to assholesActing like you don't care whether a girl likes you or not when first getting to know her or any person is a healthy boundary to have. If there is mutual bonding you both start caring for each other over time. Negging is a grey subject. Someone confident and playful likes to tease where both people are laughing and touching. The classic she punches you on the arm. A mean comment meant to be negging goes in the abusive column. I guess what I am saying is that asshole behavior doesn't exist to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | War is necessaryI need a robot to wipe my ass, this is what is necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 6 | The fact that manipulation gets people what they want doesn’t mean people are sexually attracted to assholesAsshole really can mean assertive socially and sexually, strong boundaries, lack of self-pity, lack self-deprecation. Many of the assholes that women whine about after sleeping with them isn't because they were manipulative. It was because they were attractive enough the women slept with them and the assertive guy didn't want to come back for more at some point. Women don't like that in their own minds they made a mistake and don't have control of the situation to fix it. Women should really cla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateI only dated one girl that liked to mix harder drugs and sex, I think it becomes a dependency to let go and relax though. Girls that want to aggressively bang sober have been the best in bed in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Women: Describe The Men & What They Did That Had Sex With You On The First Meet/DateI've heard that before. I personally never felt more sexual or open to it while on cocaine. More so booze, weed, hell... even opium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Had my first date "red pilled" need help to categorizeTake the lead, text her you had a fun time and ask if she wants to join you for something fun you are doing soon... maybe tomorrow maybe 3 days from now. Depends on your schedule and what your gut tells you is good timeline to send the text and set up the next meet. If you drive the bus you get to choose the possible destination. If you let her drive the bus it is like playing roulette in Vegas. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneTurbo Autism Reached | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Exactly how much should you bend over backwards sacrificing your hobbies and likes just to appeal to women?The guy I knew that got the most action in college (sex with 20+ girls freshman year) was electrical engineering or something like that. He was the most extroverted person I have ever met, and socially dominant person I have ever met. He was tall enough, good looking, strong enough looking etc. He would flirt and be extremely friendly with every girl he saw or met. He always had social energy. He was always calling people or organizing something. Focusing on what degree you are doing to meet wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I started weed because of this whole COVID 19 shit, not sure if bad?My personal rules with weed I use it if any of my chronic pains get out of control where I can't be productive or happy which is rare. Otherwise I try to save any drug or alcohol use only for social occassions. I would smoke weed with a friend I hadn't seen in a long time or with any hot girl I am banging for the bonding experience and sexual highs. By myself on a random night because I am bored? Nope. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | How to stop thinking about ass?Trust me you will miss this feeling if you don't have it in your life. It is a good distraction and motivator. Much better than what a void causes. Unless you are out feeding poor children in African villages, thinking about ass is a top tier distraction to have. It means you are red blooded and healthy and have drive. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?They don't see a way out. With Me Too, and ultra feminism, micro aggressions etc... all Game went underground. Sweet talking a girl into bed used to be seen as an admirable skill in a man. Now in great pop society it is seen as acting in an amoral and borderline predatory way. Men don't have role models growing up. They don't see their real options. Men have to be more careful nowadays. Before a bad rejection was laughed off and forgotten. Now it could be recorded and spread on social media, sam… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?These situations are always the same. If you get disrespect and need to feel out the negative emotions that come with it that is fine, and good, and human. Feel these out, let them sit and do what they need to do. They will pass, like having a cold then getting over it. During this emotional time, keep distant from the girl keep it light. Even if it is bitter and you are biting your bottom lip when responding with a light fun distant text. If you can't handle that drop her. Give yourself two wee… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.He served her emotional needs better for a time period where she felt they were important and he pressed those buttons, and he most likely didn't even know what he was doing. You have to learn this isn't a comparison of him vs. you. It is who served her emotional needs better during a certain time period. You can work on your game to better read how to serve a girl's emotional needs and decide whether it is worth serving those needs to get what you want. Many times it isn't worth it because thei… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Of course it is harder. Only answer is to hit on thin chicks only in person. Only hang out in the parts of town they are. Whole Foods, cafes, vegan joints, juicer joints, parks, trendy bars, trendy music venues. Stay in incredible shape yourself. Join large coed fitness groups. That is the only answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.It has nothing to do with financial burdens. If they handed out $4k a month UBI and gave everyone a free small house girls would still sugar. The sugar is about getting more things easily. There are girls that strip that could work retail or as a waitress and live fine during economic boom times. It's a choice women make because it is easy. Women are hardwired to extract resources. This is no different than men chasing casual sex because it has been made easier. This is evolution, not about fina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Loooool, I got you out of downvote territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "move on" advice given all the time, no matter how small the circumstance?Because the best relationships usually don't have a lot of bumps and drama. That is what makes them good and lasting relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Are women intimidated by men with high SMV?Women are different on this. There are girl players that aren't great looking, but can sense insecurity in good looking successful guys and run their life. Those guys on paper are high SMV, but not in their own hearts. Other women that are not girl players know when a guy is out of their league and just act hesitant knowing that sort of guy probably won't stick around. I wouldn't say they are intimidated, just being cautious. Girls that are not players and are closer in SMV to the higher SMV guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadIt will help alot more to have Chad friends than women friends vast majority of the time. It will get you more social and in front of and hitting on new women more. This idea overall though is like saying make a rich friend if you are poor and hope he pays for your cover fee or restaurant tab. Still best to become independently wealthy yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?They're hot and men want to have sex with them. So their behavior is closely watched and criticized if it doesn't benefit men having sex with them, because men want that sex and it isn't being had enough so the frustrations must be vented. Even some men getting laid a lot still want 4 times the sex they are having or more. There isn't enough variety and wild sex with hot girls that involves true desire from women as well and not cash to go around for all the guys. Straight men want to have sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocializedVery well put. I am the complete reverse. Pretty unconfident at most times. I learned how to be charismatic when I wanted to be though, charisma is much more powerful when it comes to other people than confidence. Though confidence has its own uses it doesn't measure up to charisma when it comes to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocializedMost guys that are extroverted, popular, and know girls have, or are trying to have sex with attractive girl friends they know. If you are friends with extroverted social guys often it become more of a friendly competition to bed girls in the group. Usually in a lot of groups a few guys are all going after the attractive single girl, and on the flip side usually the top one or two single guys in the group get most attention from the girls (who they sometimes have catfight drama over). So as a gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.Try a few more hot girls most will be great in the sack. This is a bad story men tell over and over. The hot girl isn't great in the sack. Most are better in bed than average girls by far. I don't know why this story gets told by men it's bad advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Modern women's demands for constant contact is a leading cause of relationships going staleHaving an attractive fuckbuddy for a woman is easy. Men all want that badly with an attractive girl and it is much harder to accomplish without her wanting more or finding a better fuckbuddy or boyfriend candidate. If a man could have a knockout 10 easily as a fuckbuddy, a hell of alot of girls would be getting dumped tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Mentioning you have a good careerOnly casually mention your career if it is exciting, dangerous, or artistic. Every other job for women is just source of money to get things they like. I have a friend that makes good money owning his own appliance repair business. Had a nice Audi, nice house with a pool. Women looked down on him for being blue collar supposedly. This just says it really isn't even about the money for them either for beta bux sometimes. They really care about the sex appeal of the guy, then the sex appeal of his… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of men get very clingy and needy after dates/sex with you?Outside of assertively making passes at women, most men so rarely get positive attention from attractive women it puts them through a loop when they get it out of the blue. Even many attractive confident single men have to be actively flirting or making passes at women fairly often so when an attractive woman in something like a social group is just making friendly conversation they can see the conversation as just friendly, and don't need to cling onto it. Those men got their fill of positive a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 06:30 AM |
| 7 | I’m not going to lie to incelsLooooool. Troooo doood. Hahaha, the strange lack of fairness turnabout is what makes is cosmically comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 2 | I’m not going to lie to incelsGood thing I outlived Hawking I will get laid, I am not sure if he will. -gymbro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Women don't understand that you still need a good personality in order to keep a high quality man aroundUsually, let's be honest, they will go for the slightly hotter one even if bad personality. Hit it while you can mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Women don't understand that you still need a good personality in order to keep a high quality man aroundlooooool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Women don't understand that you still need a good personality in order to keep a high quality man aroundTo care so much to put so much effort into one's own looks you only have so much focus in life. If you are hot mostly likely you are conceited on the inside. Not many people are naturally hot with no effort, especially in a society filled with sugar, alcohol, drugs etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Women don't understand that you still need a good personality in order to keep a high quality man aroundAgreed for emotionally immature men usually younger and less experienced in relationships. Most men move past this because the effort too high and emotional and sometimes financial losses are too great to keep dealing with these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Women don't understand that you still need a good personality in order to keep a high quality man aroundTROOOO DOOOOOD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Men need sex to thrive, women do not.Agreed, men need a fulfilling life to thrive. A fulfilling woman is needed for the vast majority of men to have a fulfilling life. Sex with women that aren't fulfilling your soul is no different that doing drugs you enjoy or eating a nice sandwich. It hits the spot for a small time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Plate is falling in love with me, and it’s making me feel like shitOnly see her once every month or two. Then there will be no more illusions for her. She will understand you are her stunt dick. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else been extremely paranoid about women since becoming redpill?Keep women around that are fun to be around. Understand which women are fun for what situations. Some girls are one night stand only, some fuckbuddy, some friends with benefits you care about and help each other, and rarely a LTR girl. Keep gaining wisdom on what each girl is good for and keep them in their lanes. The easiest way to manage your expectations of women is to just not take their bad behavior personally. It isn't personal it is how that girl treats many men most of the time, and she … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first?You are right, trust your gut. Find someone with the same heart and you may have found the love of your life. Sleeping around is for people with high sex drives, high physical validation needs, most times both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women?Leo DiCaprio, Derek Jeter, Dan Bilzerian, Jack Dorsey are better examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Curious about the value of sex - how can the spectrum be shameful and boastful at the same timeThat is my line to get the girl back to my place. "Sex is just like kayaking, let's go!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Friend of a friend said his wife that makes good money, got competitive with him when got a promotion and made more and brought her insecurity into the relationship. Goes both ways. Some people have money as part of their identity, and project that onto others' worth. Some people just see it as a tool to put food on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?It's why red pill often advocates get a 7 that thinks she's a 6 and you're set. Most 8+ are too much trouble for LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?Many women I have slept with have said after sex. "I wasn't sure you liked me." "I wasn't sure you'd call again." And many other dates where I clearly showed I liked spending time with women they never answered my next call. Many women like feeling anxiety of not knowing does he like me or not during the first few dates. The drama is exciting for them. Gives them something to think about all day and blab to their girlfriends about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 14 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?A lot of emotional maturity in men comes from being satisfied with and liking yourself. Men that have had a hard time getting laid oftentimes don't like themselves and aren't comfortable with themselves. This generates all kinds of negative emotions. This is why there is advice for men to fake it til you make it if they are beginners with women. Even if they feel like losers they need to project confidence and emotional maturity to see success. Many men are bitter about having to put that act on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What makes some people better at getting casual sex than others?Being assertive and very warm at the same time. Other person gets comfortable quickly from the confidence and warmth they experience and it gives them the freedom to feel attractive and sexual. Many people that are very assertive come off as pushy, rude, or overbearing. Many people that are very warm come off as too nice (men especially) and not having a sort of sexual edge. People that can be balance both together can charm people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in datingThis reddit and red pill wouldn't exist if these problems weren't large. These aren't exceptions they happen most of the time. Exceptions are great and are a blue pill happily ever after way of thinking. That doesn't work out for many men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Not everything has to be sexyImagine if you didn't have a husband and only had a few guys in your life that pumped and dumped you. And you are in you are into your 20s or beyond and have had no hope of attracting or keeping any guy you really wanted. How much would you think about dating or landing a loving relationship? The same feeling for men with sex, maybe stronger on a primal a level. In fact a woman is usually satisfied with one relationship at a time. Many men even getting laid want more variety and more sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manMen that have more experience with women just play the game better and move on faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 0 | What makes women in "1st world" countries like USA, UK, Canada, etc. better than women in "2nd world" or "3rd world" countries?How good are the sandwhiches though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What makes women in "1st world" countries like USA, UK, Canada, etc. better than women in "2nd world" or "3rd world" countries?Colombian women put all others to shame, women from all other countries should just hang up their jerseys, quit the league, and retire /thread Gracias a todos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 07:31 AM |
| 13 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manThe red pill can be twisted like that. I'd say the men that seem to have more experience with women and agree with red pill views wouldn't say women are lying whores that cheat all the time. They'd more say unless you've dated a woman for a long time and she has proven loyal, helpful, and battle-tested, that you should more think of it as a house on sand. It could sink away at any time for a bunch of reasons and you should get some insurance on that bitch instead of acting surprised when it sink… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:26 AM |
| 4 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manEveryone is fickle. Religions for thousands of years have demanded people show up to worship, read the scripture, pay homage, and follow the rules to keep human fickleness inline and society going. Women's interest is very fickle and easily destroyed in 2020 at the beginning of a courtship before sex. Men's interest can be very fickle and easily destroyed if they are not sexually satisfied, or think they can get better sex without too much effort. Let's say these statements are not black and whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manYou seem young. Everything in life is shades of grey and tradeoffs. There is no fault it's not men's fault and it's not women's fault. If it was someone's fault it is God or the universe's for setting these rules in place. The rules have worked pretty well so far though we came down from trees and conquered the world and got to the moon. All you can do is go out there and play the Game of Life with the best knowledge of the rules. You win some you lose some. I have spent more time in this realm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manNot sure if you are a woman or not but sure sound like :D Women or passive aggressive men tend to take everything they see or hear and personally apply it to themselves and if they don't agree or they don't think it applies to them then it is a personal attack. Red pill is a set observations. There is no fault. All you can do is play the game by the rules that are set by our genetics, culture, and society. Both sexes have fickle interests at different times in the courtship process right now in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manYes men's interest is much more fickle after sex, especially if he has options or is having sex below his league. This is why a red pill view would tell women to know your league, do not go above your league, and date looking for commitment before sex while also not having a sordid sexual history following you around so the current man does not feel like he is jumping through emasculating hoops or getting leftovers. Learn to make great food, and learn to love giving sloppy amazing blowjobs. If t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 05:07 AM |
| 26 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manRed pill for all the hate it gets is mostly emotional common sense for overly idealized and sheltered notions. Girls learn that they need to be pretty very early to get attention. Boys until recently could be called a fag for being too into style or caring about their diet, with harsh social consequences from other males. Imagine if very young boys were told "you're so smooth", "way to be smooth", "this would make you look smooth" as much as young girls are told "you look so pretty", "this will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manYou're asking for an amazing high wire act, we all know every guy secretly believes all that & more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:51 AM |
| 29 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manI don't see myself as a red pill only person. This however is red pill 101. She loves what you are first, and who you are later and sometimes never. This initial interest phase has always been somewhat fickle and has always been presented in blue pill romances in media since the beginning of time. There was however a much bigger leeway for a man to recover attraction. He had more chances. Since there have been smartphones and dating apps that leeway to recover keeps getting smaller because women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 12:12 AM |
| 80 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manThe complication is that women can make it obvious they are interested in a man, that interest though can be lost dramatically with one wrong word, text, or a few bad or milquetoast jokes, stories, conversation topics, or body language postures and is extremely hard to recover attraction until you've banked enough emotional investment from her (banging her) that you can lower your own behavior bar to mostly normal behavior. That interest is extremely fickle and easily destroyed which is what con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | As a man who's seen hypergamy in action, it's amazing that other women seem to be blind to itMen and women are ambitious for very different reasons oftentimes. Ambitious women want to believe ambitious men, their perceived dating pool to have the same reasons for being successful. I have never heard a woman say she wants to be more successful so she can get laid easier. Guys this is implicit and maybe only 20% of ambitious men don't have this as a major driving factor - ones that most likely have low sex drives and probably aren't as attractive on average. Good looking male friends I've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | As a man who's seen hypergamy in action, it's amazing that other women seem to be blind to itMy experience as a man with a decent education, decent pay is that women that have the type of drive to be very successful at a career and take great pride in it also don't leave alot of feminine energy left on the table to give to the man. Also if a woman is that into her own stuff she tends to treat the man as a lower priority in her life. She also tends to talk about her own ambitions or things going on towards that drive constantly. Men already have to play role of therapist, therapy cuddle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.You are pretty much advertising with that view point that a bachelor making decent money can spend some extra money like $500 a month on a cleaning service he is coming home to a hotel with maid service and no complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.That's what all wealthy people do the second they have money to. Now wife can bitch about vacation plans, family affairs, in-laws, and more petty things instead. It doesn't end. Women just find the next best petty thing to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexCorrectly correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4A Gen Z guys and datingArt has become a copycat of what has been successful recently in a cycle since 2000 or so. The difference in art between the decades of 60s to 70s, 70s, to 80s, 80s to 90s was much more vast. 2000-2020 art have been a hodgepodge or recopying and twisting the same crap. Like a cook that keeps throwing too many spices in the same dish rather than making a whole new dish with completely different ingredients. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the rising popularity of androgynous men? Why do many men believe that masculinity will make them more attractive?Androgyny guys that are successful early with girls are almost always pretty boys since birth. They don't have an awkward looks stage or bad acne so they have a feedback loop of confidence for years. Average looking guys being androgenous using the same fashion and lines on girls as the pretty boys won't get anywhere. These guys are called nerds, dorks, and weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Most women have guaranteed options in both sex and dating; a lesser proportion of men do in both areasYes, women tend to act entitled with the guy that will actually have them. Guy she got banged by that has hotter options she is chasing and has no entitlement mentality becauses she knows he would ghost her out just outright tell her to fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:05 AM |
| -1 | Most women have guaranteed options in both sex and dating; a lesser proportion of men do in both areasBeing able to go on 15 dates and getting rejected by 14 means you were going on dates with guys that had better options and were out of your league. If half rejected you it means you are dating in your league. You weren't. This is why women's psychology these days is messed up they think getting rejected 14 out of 15 times as a 22 year old women in her sexual prime is something to make her learn about herself. No, this isn't natural to get rejected that many times. You dated guys that could fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Most women have guaranteed options in both sex and dating; a lesser proportion of men do in both areasWomen tend to think most of their girlfriends are beautiful or hot. You hear this not sometimes, but all the time. This protects women's egos because society values their looks so much if they admitted their friends were average or barely above average that would probably make them average for hanging in that pack. Men aren't told directly by society that their looks matter nearly as much so they don't have such an ego about looks and it is often considered unmanly to care where you land on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Access to lots of sex but no children? Would you take this deal?I could do it. I would probably just be a very involved uncle and volunteer time with things like Big Brother and youth male sports to have that fulfillment. Sex with hot women anytime would take a shitload out of stress and angst out of my life. I'd probably never drink or do a drug again. A big plus is I wouldn't have to have such a focus on how to live my life in a way to attract women I would be much more my true self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.Hot boyfriend wakes up brings back a cup of coffee shirtless smiles and says hi when she wakes up. Chick registers it as sexy flirting. Thinks about sucking his dick. Much less attractive boyfriend wakes up brings back cup of coffee in Star Trek T-Shirt with his gut bouncing out. Smiles says hi, chick registers it as annoying because she wants to sleep longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?Those relationships are hard to find. Post a pic of your girlfriend, I bet I wouldn’t want to fuck her for years on end even if the anime was amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardThe guy you describe has bravado, charisma, and is a salesman willing to work for it by hitting on every girl. That is what you need to get laid consistently. He was sexual, he was social, he could change attitude to being a dick. He didn't care about rejection, not giving a fuck. Most guys don't have those traits. He is not part of the 75% checking boxes. He is in the top 5% because of those traits. This is all basic red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How much does your sex drive influence the way you treat women?Text more, call more, talk more, smile more, compliment more, drink more, make physical moves faster, dress better, workout more, put more time into planning fun dates that have a chance at having sex during or just after. Sex drive is down all attention and effort towards women is down. I wouldn't pump up my entire persona for hanging with guy friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?I am a social traditionalist. I don't believe a woman should be sharing intimate sexual details with other men, especially one she has started dating. If she has a lot of trust built with the man she is dating then sure. The underlying answer is I don't believe the same things as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?crymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?If she's trusting enough to disclose things she has done with other men then she should have the trust to do them with the current man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?If you have ever been with a girl early on and given an open minded non judgemental attitude many will open up about how many different men they have dated (fucked) voluntarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Question for Men: Have any of you left a women over her N count or past?Yes. A woman could prevent this by not being in contact or be friends with anyone they have had any kind of sex with. Don't have any social media floating around of party pictures with drunk guys, shirtless guys, douchey guys hugging your or looking at your in a sexual way. Pretty much men other than family shouldn't be anywhere on your social media. Don't talk about ex-flings or ex-boyfriends. Or do what most of them do which is lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?I don't know any great fathers and husbands that are assholes to other men. I do know fathers that aren't around, or are burnouts, or cheat on their wives that are pricks to other men. Fathers that are pricks to other men really aren't great fathers. They are on the antisocial spectrum and make for worse families in general. So if you have a father or husband that is a prick to other men in general you probably are one of the families bringing the society down. That's fine, it just shouldn't be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?It is for you, not for society overall. This is why there are so many single mothers with dead beat dads. The guy can't keep relationships with others going because he is a prick. She doesn't care she saw him as "strong". Now he isn't around a few years later. This is why the U.S. is slowly turning into Brazil because its culture is being cheered on to be ghettoized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Whats been your most impactful purchase for 100$ or less?Condoms. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Yes, I can observe that they are occasionally dickheads to other men, but why would I care? And why would I stop dating them - they’re good to me. This mentality is why women's reputation as a whole amongst men has taken dive bomb nose dive since around the early 2000s. And why the U.S. is turning into a new Brazil that will have broad lower class of poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Another thing is a lot of these asshole guys are actually nice to their women they’re just assholes to other men. This quote is something that has really given modern women a bad reputation in the dating world. It is the fact they don't care how a man they are attracted to treats others. Just if he turns her on. This is why red pill grows so fast. This mentality screams for men to treat women like disposable sex objects until proven innocent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Are women more critical of men?Because male romanticism is just another nice way to frame their solipsism for new pussy and fleeting infatuation. I have to say, insanely insightful to the male mind. If you are a woman that is impressive. It isn't always for new pussy, for players yes, many men though do like doing romantic acts in a serious relationship, they do want good sex and that feeling of teen dating infatuation though which is a healthy desire. Who wouldn't want those feelings sparked up from time to time to keep a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Swallowing the Purple PillRuhruhruhruhruh ReeeeeeEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDD PiiiiiiiiiillllLLLLLeeeeddd! Dun - Dun - Dun - Dun Duh Da-Da-Da POW! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 5 | My little brother (10) is being affected by our parents divorce, how can I help him?Be his substitute dad when your dad isn't around or is too stressed out to be a good father. Take him to the park throw a ball around, make memories. Most 10 year olds don't have much to say, they will appreciate positive engagement and a role model more than anything. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Have women treated you different after getting into shape?They stop wearing underwear around me. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Can being too hard on yourself to be successful cause depression?I have often heard successful people in life even as a child had a dream, faith, or just knew they would be successful as a given. For whatever reason I think the people that don't grow up with this faith, people that want to make it and constantly struggle with themselves to fake it til they make it or whatever do end up really stressing themselves out and I think it is unhealthy. If driven comes from an uplifting place of self faith it is great. If it comes from beating yourself up for not bei… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Dominate the conversation or the silent stoic?Dominate as much as possible while still getting everyone involved and making them feel the spotlight as well. Late night TV show host, or Running For Mayor. How does the presidential candidate act in the diner or ice cream shop with senior citizens and kids in Iowa? The silent stoic is playing defense he is leaving untold multiples of social benefit on the table. The guy running for mayor is playing offense. Red Pill on this sub is too much defense (frame, stoicism, not opening up to chicks). T… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Does what women constitute "asshole behavior" muddy the water?You'd be surprised how many women are poorly socialized when it comes to what and how they say things on early dates. Many times girls don't get why guys disappear after sex. Many times the man notices the poor socializing, doesn't bring it up and holds on for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 0 | The recent chain of posts reinforces how apathetic women are to men's emotions.Women want to hear what they want to hear all the time. They only understand what they want to hear and someone telling them firmly without argument to stop acting out when they don't hear what they want to hear. Everything else is an agitation and an aversion for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour?The comments by men on here are the best promotion of why not to be in a relationship with a woman than anything I have ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Does it get lonely at the top?You can't sit still and smell the roses. Well that really sucks. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys find being a man exhausting? What can I do to not burn out/crack?Never give advice here. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | First time noticing this: Getting ignored by girls in social circle settingsThis is why it is recommended to go out with usually at most one wingman and have the wing be supportive and want you both to get wins. In any social circle environment all the girls want the popular guy. Everyone can't be the popular guy in any group there is always hierarchy. This is why it is best to be loosely connected to top dogs in many different large circles and float among them. Hanging out with a group of guys where you are middle or bottom rank with different groups of girls coming t… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim?How in the world is yours the top comment? Also forgot to mention these rich beautiful addict girls usually have shit personalities and maladaptive personality defects that run deep. The addiction isn't some topical thing, it is deeply rooted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 05:57 AM |
| -2 | Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women.If you were a man you would understand from the birth the extreme pressure to forgive women for everything and anything. They can do no wrong. Always Believe Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women.I am the flock Moses! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Excerpts relating n-count, likelihood of infidelity, sociosexual orientation and divorce in women.Thank you for that honest answer. It is nice to hear these because men don't say them aloud often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenThis bothering women is like being bothered the sun rises or the fact gravity keeps you on the ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why aren’t men open to receiving health and “beauty” tips?Men already have to do the approaching, the courting, face rejection constantly constantly constantly, not commit a perceived #MeToo. Put up with bitchfits. Now they have to be as beautiful or more than women? Yo I'll put foundation and concealer on when bitches are blowing up my phone telling me the different ways they want to blow me and sending me pussy pics before first dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenI co-authored that study and firmly believe in its groundbreaking findings! - Triple PhD Harvard, Stanford, Oxford Sexual Relational Biology Behavioral Evolutions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenI've laid a fair amount of girls, still not into high N count girls as serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenI wouldn't! I would think it's hot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Q2Men: if you had easy access to sex, how would your behavior and lifestyle change?Be sending a lot less text messages, coming up with a lot less dates ideas, saving a lot of money, masturbating a hell of a lot less. Would take more care to get to know a girl I wanted to date before trying to get her into bed. If personality had things I didn't like I'd be a lot more ready to drop her sooner if I can get sex elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days agoI read over the data and exclusively did not circle jerk over it. Fat plain girls love hot guys. Plain girls love hot guys. Average girls love hot guys. Cutish girls love hot guys. Really cute girls love hot guys. Hot girls love hot guys until they love guys that are rich as fuck. Science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | I’ve been on TRP for a few years now. I feel like I should be having more success with attractive women than I am. Is there something I’m missing?Here's some simple numbers if you are going after 7s 8s and above and you get 1 in 50 from cold approach to bang especially in a Western wealthy country (instead of a gringo in Brazil or Colombia) that's not half bad. 1 in 20 is actually amazingly good. If you approach 25 girls a week (out 3 times a week at night, approaching girls in the day wherever you go) a 1 in 50 would mean you bang 25 girls a year. Really to beat those numbers you have to have an amazing social media, micro/regional fame,… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Are most of the couples you know in life looksmatched?Thanks for the response this actual real knowledge to learn from a man with more life experience. All makes a ton of sense. I believe because women differ so wildly on what makes a man attractive to them, and that personality take a much bigger role for them to judge attraction it is much harder for them to even perceive things like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 7 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)No hubris | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:14 PM |
| 25 | This girl keeps asking me " why do you talk to me" What the fuck do I even do with that? I cant say "cause maybe we'll fuck one day LMAO"Guys always same this for RP, game, pua whatever. I think this saying is way too rigid and only right a small amount of the time She thinks she's too hot for you > Ignores you She sees you at the very edge of being attracted to you no matter how hot or ugly she is > Shit tests hard She sees you as an equal but not attracted to your type > Shit tests an average amount to high amount She sees you as an equal but very attracted to you > Shit tests a little bit in a fun cutesy way She sees you as a … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave herIn most women's eyes and in the men in relationships that believe they understand and are amazing at relationship with women - yes the vast majority really truly are emotional morons in their view of reality. Most men are not wired to deal with paying attention to every subtle hint and change in behavior from women. The fact women have so many experiences with men over their lives can't come to terms with this is bizarre. It is just so much easier for women to spill their guts once in awhile for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her^ How about her being an adult and just flat out telling him why? Why is it his job to solve every relationship problem like a detective? Are women children? Or aren't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave herI am going to say women overall after having dated a large sample are awful overall at complimenting men. Are also in general pretty awful at initiating affection. Surprising a man with a gift or date? Even worse. Women don't court back and it gets old putting all the energy into it and yes you can get sex and pleasant demeanor in return, but it often isn't enough. Foreign girls especially Latinas tend to be better about returning the favor and understand men having a ego too and like to feel a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageJust want to say I have met plenty of slutty girls with a full life of career they like, big group of friends, close friends, close ties with family. Promiscuity is not inversely related to that as it seems. More common connection is what are her friends like guys and girlfriends alike. Are they party hedonists or serial dating monagamists or anything like that. If they friends are all in stable long term relationships that is a more likely tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageHow the hell am I supposed to pair bond with a woman who doesn't like to fuck 24/7?' Bro you should lead the women's march next year lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change.Bro where's the axe and where are the murder victims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How did the TRP subscriber count grow so fast??I realized that I needed to make a change at age 18, so I went around and asked women to help me. Subsequently, gay men hit on me for 5 years. Christ dude I haven't laughed that hard at a reddit comment ever! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | How did the TRP subscriber count grow so fast??Haha "he was just too... nice... I guess... I just couldn't see him in THAT way if you know what I mean, I'm such a bitch aren't I lol, so will Chad bring some yay to the party tonight? I can't believe I sucked his dick in the bathroom that one time uuuuugghh God I hope he didn't tell his friends! lolol" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexParty foul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexMake some good male friends that want the best for you and that are decent with women. Keep doing fun things with them and keep growing. Volunteer to help people that have it worse than you do to get some context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexexpect sex and sympathy Yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:36 AM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexI sympathise with someone who would like to systematically socially and economically disadvantage me so I'd be forced to become his bangmaid Say it again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what do you think about women keeping their maiden names?Bitch move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What top X% of men do women deem to be attractive?By being that way you make it worse for the rest of men, because women don't view men in such a high esteem so easily. Ease back the blue pill every girl is a beautiful princess thirst for all men's sake please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Women indeed do not care about muscles, you guys are just too uglyI am tall and considered decent looking. I was very skinny at one point. I put on muscle and can't tell you how many more times women touched my shoulder, chest, or arms out of habit and how much more often they would stand closer to me to be able to touch me more. Also just getting looks from random women when up times 5. Beyond that like women feeling sexy, a man feeling fit and strong and liking what he sees in the mirror gives him confidence. Lifting weights to put on some lean muscle can ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Just how important is height really?Don't worry bro everyone suffers in life. You're short. Some people get cancer and die early. Some people are morbidly obese and can't stop stuffing their face. Some people the love of their life dies in a car accident. Everyone suffers different things constantly. No one is safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceBreathing easily is def overrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceHey having sex with a butter face and putting her on all 4 fours without much kissing happens a lot and alot of guys repeatedly call that girl back and very satisfied sexually. Elaborate masturbation, still fucking awesome! High five! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceIf your sister likes dogs, getting ice cream cones, and holding hands I'd take a run at her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceIt will vastly change the way men put up with female behavior though. Women will experience a lot more ghosting and flaking from men. Maybe times 100 of what it is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceBros and sisses I care and I don't even have a closet full of 'em yet! Bigger question, why aren't women more excited about sexbot men that know exactly how to thrust, touch, talk dirty and grunt to make them orgasm repeatedly? Anyways the end result of sexbots for women would be they would absolutely have to act much more enthusiastic, warm, and fun to keep a man's attention than they do now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Just how important is height really?6'5 I just had a girl message me first on a dating app she wants to do the koala challenge on me. Not the first message I got from a girl about height. The girls this aggressive are always 5'2 - 5'4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Ladies. You've done the impossible and gotten commitment from chad. Hypothetical situation.Just give me a chance! I know I'm horny and dumb but I will make you so happay@! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Ladies. You've done the impossible and gotten commitment from chad. Hypothetical situation.as some women look better in their 30s than they did in their 20s (rare, but does happen) Never lie me to me like this again charlatan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?Don't troll. Don't use all caps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?You're totally right, feelings trump everything. If you feel great and make decisions to feel great you will live a life. Doing things just because they "make sense" or because society wants that out of you is a disaster. I think the ideal human behavior and the reality are often two different things. Everyone's ego also acts out in different ways and people are wired differently. Me personally if I was rejected by a girl I really liked then became more attractive and she was willing to go out w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Being unable to get commitment is not comparable to being unable to get sex.Sometimes after you comment I think you date mannequins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | People assume any approach is a sexual approach because it's no longer common to have casual friendsVery unique observation! Impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 07:09 AM |
| 3 | People assume any approach is a sexual approach because it's no longer common to have casual friendsAgreed very smart comment hard though because I saw years ago compared to my older brothers also much more inbreeding in social groups became acceptable along with hook up apps. Girls would watchs their reputation a lot more closely. Once cell phones were everywhere that changed. Once girls could hook up on the downlow easier, hooking up out in the open sooner followed. This eroded these non sexual large mixed sex friend groups where you could find life partners. Once Stacy had banged her third … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do women today feel pressured into having sex?Beta orbiters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 06:48 AM |
| -1 | Q4W Do women today feel pressured into having sex?You're evil! A witch! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Q4W Do women today feel pressured into having sex?It's not like. I've had sex with plenty of women on informal first dates if you can call them that. It is lust, how can you even know someone's personality after a couple hours barely getting a glimpse? That isn't liking. Liking someone is knowing them pretty well. I'd say you determine if you can even really like someone for their personality you'd need 10 dates or a few months. The usual timeframe before the "what are we?" talk comes up. That timeframe occurs naturally for people to become cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Sluts mean more to men than non-sluts ever will.There are a small amount of high sex drive men that can get casual sex easily and for that set it is entirely about just the sex. That's how some straight men can get an N count into the 100s. It is entirely about the sex, everything else is a facade. Crushes may form, but will fade easily with flakes or new sex. For any guy outside this set I agree with you completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in love? If you don’t then tell us why.Women want too much, too often, and are too sensitive about all their constantly changing needs. They have too many men willing to make attempts to satisfy them at one time or another to try to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 12 | I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that?Fat getting fatter and think they are average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Can you guys clarify what you mean when you say don’t chase women?I think chasing women is a great thing in the right way. It sharpens your social skills, charm, confidence, helps you read people, spot red flags faster. Spending too much time or money on any girl that doesn't put out is bad. Being in contact with 5 or more different girls trying to get them out with you at any one time is a good thing and approaching and going after hotter girls that are more well put together is also a good thing. If they like you so much they start initiating dates and sex g… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterShe wasn't the right one. Men tend to be awful at recognizing empathy in women because they focus too hard on themselves and what they did wrong or right. Self improvement is much overdone in society to men's detriment when it comes to men's relations with women, government, and nation. There should be a balance of judge the other. Men should be 50 focusing on women's behaviors in the small things, calling them out, 50 self improvement. Instead men have resorted to 100% it is always my problem m… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dumpI don't understand why love bombing gets thrown around so much. Women often say they get turned off by a guy coming on too strong and don't trust this so how does love bombing ever work? Love bombing has never worked for me. Is love bombing when a guy out of her league acts like he's falling in love so then she thinks "this is it! I've found the best guy I will ever be able to get and he's into me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?Thank you for the reply, the girl rare girl that was upfront with me usually was in an experimenting or party phase in her life or she lived at some sort of distance 45 min -hour and a half away, and she pretty much wanted to know she was going to have sex if she was making that trip and kind of neither of us expected to date each other especially at that distance. I agree the more party phase of life I was in, late nights, hung over days, less responsibilities I think I attracted the type of gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Speculating how much the average woman sleeps around in collegeNo I am a man that had casual sex with a number of college girls where we had open conversations about sex. I am telling you what they told me about themselves and their friends. For your reference also the one of my friends biggest college player I ever knew who was an extreme extrovert throwing parties of 100+ people probably had sex with 40 girls during his college years was leaps and bounds ahead of all my other male friends none of whom to my knowledge had sex with more than 10 different gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t men encourage women to become community sluts?They do they are called fraternity houses and male sports teams with groupies. This only works if your male group has enough status otherwise if you encourage it more girls will just be even more open about having casual sex with the hottest guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 11 | Speculating how much the average woman sleeps around in collegeMy anecdotal evidence is from around 5 years ago at a large public party school. I would say the girls on the higher end average that did not have long term boyfriend during college racked up about 10-12 and the highest ones which were much rarer were in the 20-30 range and those girls tended to have sex at house parties or after them often in one night stand scenarios. Higher than that happens too I am sure but the higher you go it gets much much rarer. The average college girl at an average co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?Uhhhhhhhhhhh lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?So what % of men you've had sex with in your life have you offered a sex based relationship to explicitly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?I know right? That's why I think every woman I ask out is nuts after she doesn't immediately offer a congratulatory blowjob when I get their number. I've had the male fantasy that this would happen with all this female sexual liberation going on :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?After that would you tell him you want to be keep a casual hook up with him? Or do you see how the sex went, go home and hope he texts you within a week to see you again at midnight? Do you take charge and tell him you want a sexual relationship to continue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 05:08 AM |
| 5 | How often do women explicitly state they want casual hookups to men they are sexually attracted to?Lol first response already got me good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Why so many weird foreigners only want to date white girls?There is a scientific term for them: The IRT Indian Race Troll He is a horndog from India that is sex starved and because of media influences believes white women are the highest prize and also extremely sexually easy. When they find out attractive white women are often no picnic to court and are only easy for megachads they get ornery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I get more girls in my sphere?Bro I just of want to say I am 35 and you sound like you could be 50. 7+ girls that are 18-25 almost rather have a guy act like a bigger out of control 16 year old with some money and his own place for the entertainment and thrill than a fuddy duddy 50 year old acting guy that is just the truth. At that point they want fun, entertainment, and guy that other girls think is hot. The hard worker money stuff doesn't kick in with most of them til their late 20s to mid 30s. Especially the hot ones! 5'… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | How do I get more girls in my sphere?You're 25 and sounding like you're on the straight and narrow. The majority of hot chicks in your wheelhouse 18-25 are in their prime party years. There are rare ones also on the straight and narrow looking to be healthy and successful. There are a good number of 6's that are. If you are an 8 you probably want a 7 or 8 girl. Those girls are living like mini celebs with all the men, social offers, partying, travel offered to them. Hot girls are more likely to party, not party hard, but be at part… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | 4th Reminder: If every woman you know is a gold-digging dysfunctional skank, you're the problem.It's not how fast the BJ is receiveth, 'tis the enthusiasm behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | A visual depiction of the fuckzone vs the friendzoneLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.Playing hard to get means not putting out too easily signaling you have done this with 20 other guys. That does not mean acting busy or being hard to schedule a date with. Playing hard to get is about sex, not your social calendar. A girl acting too nonchalant and busy is telling men she dates multiple men and values multiple things in her life more than potentially being his life partner. Again that is a woman projecting her paranoia of acting desperate and her extreme anxiety to adhere to soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.Women mostly can't handle rejection and do everything to get away from it. A man that disappears when you act interested is rejecting you for a serious relationship the vast majority of the time. They think getting the guy to stick around longer and get to know them will sell them better and adding sex may be another lure to a relationship. It really doesn't work like that. Men know within maybe a half hour if they see a long term with a girl. This rule doesn't change for womanizers either, they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.#8 It's because they are too picky and prioritize many other things in their life above finding a guy. "Oh I am busy for the rest of the week can we raincheck and maybe next week?" Most guys if they are interested would jam in a sliver of time in a busy schedule to see a woman they are interested in. Many women have enough options over a lifetime unless the man is wildly attractive they treat it with too much nonchalance and men tire of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.Yes yes yes yes yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.No they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do women tend to sap the male "fire" and passion? Noticing a diminished "drive"It's the finality, the possible this is it? In adventure you don't know where it goes or how it ends, that's why it's an adventure. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Not Being a Girls Number One OptionMy experience is it depends on the guy. Men and people in general tend to think what happened in their experience and works, should work for everyone, and that is far from the truth. Everyone's personality and psychology is different. I would say do whatever keeps you at the highest confidence level riding high on the horse. That is usually when you have streaks and bang the girls at the hotter end of your wheelhouse. Some guys it doesn't bother them to keep a girls number and give a restart tex… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Most men stop the emotional effort they put in from the beginning once they get the girl. Why are men surprised when sex dies down too ?Pussy you've already had isn't worth as much as new pussy plain and simple. If women took this to heart it all makes sense. If you got your hot girlfriend to come join your boyfriend for a threesome he would probably be putting out his best emotional energy like when first dating. Need strange. Need new pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that the relatively few times women approach men it is overwhelmingly with a guy way out of their league?I am saying you are a woman and will never have the experience of being a man that has gone out a ton, dated a ton, had male friends that go out a ton dated a ton. You have your one off stories I have 1000's of experience through hundreds of nights out hitting on girls and being hit on. I am telling you what happens most often by a far and wide margin to most guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pill Men: Would you like a society similar to the Stepford Wives movie where women are replaced by robots?I want the sex robot that is a 10. It would save my conversation time with different women by probably 80%, cool chicks only sex would be an after thought. Sex drive and want for variety is too high for me to do this without one. My pursuit of women would be a lot more focused and genuine at building on personal connection. Sex drive clouds everything if you have a high sex drive and love variety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that the relatively few times women approach men it is overwhelmingly with a guy way out of their league?Last paragraph, very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the observation that the relatively few times women approach men it is overwhelmingly with a guy way out of their league?You must be a woman. Most quiet guys rarely to never get approached. Most guys that are get approaching are sticking out having a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that the relatively few times women approach men it is overwhelmingly with a guy way out of their league?Wrong, wrong, wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Are most men really attracted to everything?Last sentence is absolutely true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Are most men really attracted to everything?In a slump, most men will. Also the men more likely to get into a slump probably have lower standards for sex anyways. But yes, guys with high sex drives that are good looking want to fuck everything that moves. Many even if they had amazing sex with the girl of their dreams the night before the next morning if they see a redhead or whatever is a different type of theirs that is hot they want to be balls deep in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | It f***s me up thinking how "I can't be my personality" if I want to attract girlsGetting the best responses out of anyone in life is a performance. If you give a bland performance you get bland responses. If you tell your friend unfunny jokes and have run on stories about nothing he would probably take longer to pick up the phone. Women are very harsh in this realm. They need a great performance consistently. Their payment is looking hot consistently and being good in bed consistently. They probably don't always want to put down the ice cream, or do their hair that day. And … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you perceive the sex lives of men who fall into the 'top 20%' category?Face, hair, clear healthy skin, skin tone are all more important than height. People in general just don't talk about men's faces the way we talk about women's faces as part of beauty, so it gets left out in people's minds. I am 6'5". Height is like having big tits and an hourglass figure. It is not the same as having a very good looking face which is more powerful and rare. Plus women don't view body parts alone the way many men would drool and go after a girl with an amazing body, but average … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 04:17 AM |
| 3 | How do you perceive the sex lives of men who fall into the 'top 20%' category?Yep you are I am probably top 20% not near top 10% or 5%. I have had sex come easily, I am always the one approaching though and putting work in. Once in my life I had an easy layup where a girl approached me at a bar and pretty much wanted to go home immediately, she was thin and kinda cute not a knockout though. That is after countless nights out and hundreds of approaches. I have known a few guys where the girls will put in the work. Me, I have to be witty, have good timing for making moves, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Here Are Actually Red Pill?Just so you understand a real Red Pill guy understands cancer exists, car accidents exist, pandemic viruses exist. Even if he is married to the love of his life he keeps his upkeep for his own health, enjoyment, and to be ready to be back on the dating market if either something tragic happens or if simply the woman fucks up (gets fat, lazy, bitchy, entitled or cheats) and there is divorce. A Red Pill guy will not get to loose baggy t-shirt, eating Doritos, & video games. He wants to feel great … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | "Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this?Yes, but that doesn't mean that it is the best route. It is just your best option. A red pill truth is that often luck is much better than hard work. If you don't have luck you are forced to forget about luck and put in hard work. Some guys have younger sisters with hot friends that they hook up with throughout their lives. They sisters bring these girls into this guys life without him even trying. That is better than going out and approaching dozens of girls. I didn't have younger sisters with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Here Are Actually Red Pill?A lot of the newer watered down Red Pill is about playing defense. Don't get fucked over by women, don't become a beta, a defensive paranoia. Trying to dodge bullets in other people's realities. Red Pill originally was about offense. Rack up more positive friends, women, business relationships in your life and let everything else fall to the side. Act how you want, manifest your own reality, be socially dominant and cast that reality over others. I would consider myself on the farther end of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | "Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this?This is evolutionary biology at work. A female wants the best genes. If you are a man born extremely handsome, tall, well-mannered, with family money you are a great catch. The fact that this man did NOT have to work for his looks, genes, or family money is in fact a positive because he is the most sure thing to have healthy protected offspring. This whole capitalist work ethic thing is a new invention. In the old day you want to fuck the nobility, the kings of the tribe. Not the guy "working hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | To WOMEN, how would you honestly feel if your parter was unable to cum from PIV Sex?Wow is this a statement of how women really are less horny than men. I don't think I have ever thought of something else when fingering a girl to orgasm like a shopping list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: What makes men and women - in my opinion - "HV/Alpha" and "LV/Beta"The guys paranoid about women treating them badly tend to be guys who aren't exactly the pick of the litter. And rightly so because if a woman perceives a guy as below her after getting to know him she often does treat him very badly. So if a guy is not "pick of the litter" he should have his guard up waiting for this to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | What's your experience with "ugly" guys who are extremely charming, smooth, great at flirting/seducing?To guys with a very high sex drive, oftentimes the more a woman talks the less attractive she can get. Many exceptions of course. A fantasy of a girl dancing with you at a dark club and ends up just whispering "let's get out of here", no more words, get back to place, make sweet sweet love. She leaves and doesn't say a word. Credits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.Can you blame them? What would I do if a friendly charming knockout woman far above my league that I liked spending time with kept asking me to come over hang out and have sex with a happy go lucky no problems attitude, but didn't want to me to be her boyfriend? I would probably make the same mistakes on purpose. That experience with her would be worth catching feelings and fall out after. It's that good. Better to have infatuated lust and lost than never infatuated lusted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Average men would get more casual sex if they had female friendsAs a man if you want fast sex, sex with a variety of women, if you are willing to put in the work going after strangers and being in a large number of social circles at the edges is the most efficient way for most men. The other way is if you have a group of high status men or work at a high status venue and you are at the core of the social group that attracts rotating groups of women. Playing around an existing women's social circles is just too much squeeze for the juice. Better to make a han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Zero motivationMen love instructions. Discipline. Red pill has an over sensitive boner from this. And often success is rewarded to some type of discipline, when I think success comes from other deeper causes. Desire comes from within. Fear comes within. These rule everything. You pointed out your past is still holding on to you. I would become more emotionally in touch day to day. Instead of listening to your thoughts "I don't want to do anything today". Try to search for what feelings are going on let them in… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Is the current state of the sexual market place skewed heavily in favor of women?Same thoughts here exactly. Weird experience even though I know why it's happening as I get older is the women my age that are more looks match are finally being aggressive with me. My whole life I have been trained to go after younger women because the ones my age wanted the hotter guy, so being the older mature guy got me hotter younger women. So now it's like well do I want a woman much younger that is little less attractive or a looksmatch (that are rapidly losing their youthful glow) my own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Haven’t had sex in 4 years, how do I not fuck things up now that I’m back in the game?You don't have to do it forever. Also that is the goal aim for the stars, land on the moon. Most likely this guy in this terrible slump would get laid by the 4th or 5th girl he dated learning on his fuck ups. And maybe that girl would become his girlfriend and he is done after 3 weeks. Focusing on needing sex when you are in a major slump though is tough to maintain a smooth attitude around women. People reading on this forum I have learned are young, and incredibly literal when it comes to read… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Haven’t had sex in 4 years, how do I not fuck things up now that I’m back in the game?Keeping dating, keep asking new girls out. Abundance, abundance, abundance. Make your goal was to get 10 new girls out on first dates every month, not sex. Sex will just come closer and closer, faster and faster. The girls you are on dates with will pick up that you have female attention and distraction in your life. At my highest levels of success I get so comfortable with all the critical transitions from intro to sex that it almost feels boring from so much predictability & abundance. At that… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedForce yourself to go sleep with more women while you feel attached. Spend less time with attached person, cut down to once a week. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that women ride the carosel in college because they don’t understand that male sexual attention is very cheap?TLDR It is well known to RP that college girls are oblivious to potential SMV in college bubble, once they get some sexual experience and get into a big city after college they see their SMV skyrocket because the range of potential suitors skyrockets. For some guys especially ones that are puritanical about age matching women they date they have a hard time understanding that the hot 21 year old college girl is often a lot easier to bang and date than a much less attractive 26 year old woman liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with anger?Stoicism is a bad answer, always has been in the Red Pill. To be emotionally healthy you don’t have to act on emotions, it is best to truly let it have its time to be felt along with all emotions for brief periods then moving on. Keep an open house for your emotions without judgement or putting words on them. Let your emotions be felt and try to gently think about the root cause. I think many men think in terms of managing emotions which often ends in blocking, denial, avoidance. Having a view t… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 09:20 PM |
| -1 | When do most womens looks start to fade?It's tiers. The fat rate constantly rises and takes girls out over the years. Big first tier is after college around 23. Another big drop off is 30. Especially white women got too much sun, cigarettes, cocaine, or alcohol. 40+ I rarely see a woman worth pursuing from a purely physical standpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls think that guys only want sex?Deeply truthful comment, that has been me. I think a lot of it has to do with at the start of dating someone and meeting their friends you usually are just starting a relationship and don't know where it will go so you don't give a damn about their friends. Especially when younger, hormones, drama can happen etc.. I think this goes for both sexes by the way. As a man I don't remember too many friends of a girl I dated really trying to get to know me with personal questions or be more than just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t picky for not wanting to fuck average men; they’re normal. Average men are not sexually attractive.jynx maze She's an 8. People always make the retarded make up argument. I don't care how much make up or good lighting you put on most women they will never be an 8 or close. Most people can't get above 6 on their best day ever, no matter the tricks involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t picky for not wanting to fuck average men; they’re normal. Average men are not sexually attractive.Most women wear a svelte dress less than 4 times a year, if that. And most can barely fit into what could be called a dress, more like a robe at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 05:16 PM |
| 0 | What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about?Hahahaha ahhhhh yeah that was so so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about?It sucks that's why so much thirst. I fucking WISH all guys expected super model bodies. Things would be better for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do men with options even get into relationships?They look the same with their clothes off? Dude just wheel yourself into the retirement home buddy and stock up on juice boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 06:00 AM |
| 4 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?I’d MUCH rather date the unambitious stoner chick i always low key support from the start. Smart man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.Ok the guy from Slayer vs. John Mayor. The guy from Metallica vs. Adam Levine. You haven't thought about this. The Rock vs. Leo. Vin Diesel vs. Pitt! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Which is more inherently attractive to most? Genes or hard work?Genes x 1,000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Do good girls like bad boys?This is the best answer. Chris Brown would not be considered a bad boy if hey was cross-eyed and missing some front teeth. He would just be a piece of shit animal loser to all would-be female fans. Handsome face is so far above any other characteristics that have to do with being a bad boy. This is just good looking face with bad behavior from time to time beats good looking face with angel behavior. Only mild exception is a fun drug dealer who isn't handsome with yay & X. But the girls that wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Do good girls like bad boys?Pit bull defenders are retards. Usually have a strain of white trash or bro meathead in them. Too many people own them that can't handle them out in public when they get aggressive with other dogs for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 4 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.John Mayor or Adam Levine would crush Jason Momoa in the groupie department. And in 10-20 years they would crush him even more. It's like saying does Arnold or Bruce Springstein have more groupies now? I mean come on. Get real bro. Guys are super fans of Arnold, Jason Momoa, the Rock. Yes they have groupies nowhere near like pretty boy ones though. Male projection on being in lifting weights and wanting to be like those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the CarousalThe title of this post is the Myth of the Carousel and you wrote what the carousel is word for word. Girls have foursomes in Cabo in their early 20s then doing a 180 in their late 20s when time is running low. You are saying the carousel is natural. It isn't it is a societal construct. 300 years ago girls at 18 years old may have be having their second child. There was no Cabo to go to. Men are merely and rightly recognizing the mainstream social construct for female developed world sexuality in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:44 AM |
| 3 | The Myth of the CarousalThat's your group and I believe you. You are playing the long serious boyfriend game in mind many girls don't think that way they bounce from guy to guy. And on top of that I would say if woman in this day in age is willing to go to that extent to not post racy social media photos. Not have a bunch of guys friends that flirt with her. Not have a group of friends where they have a bunch of girls' night out at the bars and club. And is smart enough not to have slept with people connected to her so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The Myth of the CarousalMost women aren't from well-to-do families. Most women slip up. And as time has gone on trust me from dating women since smart phones came girls more sexual liberation women are way more open to talking about wild times they have had. How old are you? When was the last time you dated a girl in her early 20s? Let alone dozens of them. They talk about about wild times pretty easily or hook ups they have had. Lots of guys don't judge these days. In fact when I have asked girls about N count and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 7 | The Myth of the CarousalYou don't have to ask. You look at their friends. You look how much they drink. You look at how many times they travelled by themselves to Bali, Thailand, Australia, Spain, Italy, Greek Island, Ibiza, France etc.. Did they live the L.A. / NYC party live for a few years or more? You look at social media posts how many times they have some random guy hanging on them at a bar or festival. How many exes is she still in contact with? How many sexy photos does she have on Instagram, how often? How man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the CarousalNot like Brazil, I've been there have you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageWhy are there so many fat girls then and why does that number keep rising? I'd rather have a girl with a buzzcut, no makeup, that wear baggy sweats with an amazing body than even a slightly overweight girl with the best outfit, hair, makeup, job, friends, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Any guys here that are aware that they are good looking?Yes extreme privileges (even moreso with men than women especially if you are a Chad that treats men with respect), extreme halo effect, yes Chad, red pill. Slept with virgins on date 2. Slept with a stripper. Slept with girl in AA house. Slept with ecstasy head grad student ex-rave girl got addicted to heroine. Slept with valedictorian girl, chemical engineer, math major from China. Redhead English major. Ridiculous Mexican and Colombian girl in their countries where spoke almost no English and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Men Do You Know What Women Want To Hear, But Are Just Tired Of Having To Say?Yo I'm glad you enjoyed reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Men Do You Know What Women Want To Hear, But Are Just Tired Of Having To Say?You said my entire post in one sentence. Eloquent. The "you never did" part is where it feels like they are getting stricter and stricter on what and how often they want to hear what they want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 10:16 AM |
| 2 | How do I tell gf that I don't want her going out after work with her regulars without coming off insecure?LOL, that sounds like a joke someone from Afghanistan would make. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of the CarousalRed Pill men believe current dating norms for women is the carousel. To us you are a carousel rider on the lighter side. Also as a man what women don't understand is that the male online communities like this do not want to hear a women dated crappier boyfriends in the past, and had dicks inbetween before meeting the man she settles down with. In this view the women had bad judgement in both past boyfriends and sleeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 09:18 AM |
| 7 | The Myth of the CarousalI don't know. I have had sex with a lot of women in their 20s. I have also had 5 friends over the years were/are massive players. Some had sex with over 100 girls. These are good looking, very clever, charming guys, who get what girls want. The girls aren't low quality. Many times on here both women and men say high N-count men must only bang clubrats and so on. As any high N-count woman or man can attest to, you end up sleeping with a range of the opposite sex, virgins, hoes, normal, high educa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of the CarousalSo is that also why Brazilian girls are known for liking it in the butt, and in the U.S. we are just catching up with butt sex? We are behind the horny girl curve. Also why in Brazilian making out extremely fast in a club is common. Maybe this is where the U.S. will go, along with our fucking middle class being shrunk! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of the CarousalI think he means the guyfriend that had a big crush on her, but she kept friendzoned, or the guy she slept with once and the guy fell hard for her and got too clingy and scared her off. These guys were the ones that would have stayed with her through sickness and health, until death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 6 | The Myth of the CarousalI'll say my experience after dating lots of girls in their 20s. The ones that slept with me and were in my league looks, education, intelligence etc... seemed like they knew they could get a lot of suitors and it felt like I either had to put a lot of work into charming them over time that I was "the right choice", or anytime my game faltered at the slightest the got distant and were off with other guys. I could have seen myself settling down with several of them, but the feeling I got of them e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | The Myth of the CarousalJim Jeffries, who as fate would have it autistic, perfect for PPD, yet at the same time a far left activist with mysognist jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:37 AM |
| 8 | The Myth of the CarousalI am a #2. I don't throw shade on any woman, but I have no time to LTR a high N-count girl, all deep feelings vanish. It'd just be fake to be with a high N-count girl, would always rather go after multiple girls. Don't think it will change for me, it's in my blood. I think part of it also isn't just the sex. It's that I had to work for the sex, rejected way more times than successful, plan all the dates, always being in a positive good mood. Many women on dates you have to warm up a lot conversa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 08:14 AM |
| 2 | The issue with the rating system and looks vs personality argumentThanks for answering that honestly. I think people, but mainly in my view women are utterly don't care they act so lukewarm, or even mildly unpleasant as a default and men dare not tell to their face. It felt like in 90s people would call out bad behavior to the person's face much more often. If a girl was acting bitchy guys would have no problem saying "why are you acting so bitchy? stop it.", even to another friend's girlfriend in his presence, and the boyfriend along with the rest of the grou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 3 | The issue with the rating system and looks vs personality argumentMen do go nuts for sweetheart good girl acting women that are a pleasure to talk to. Quality men are smart enough to know women that behave this way are usually the best to spend time with day to day. Most women don't give off this impression, and seem to actively to try to get away from giving off that impression ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Feeling tired of fucking girlsTrust me if you are banging the hottest girl in the dorms you will cherish that memory 20 years from now. You will get old, you will start losing your sexual prowess to young attractive women. Going through a drought is infinitely worse. Don't blame this on sex with new girls getting old. Sex with new hot young girls will never be a real problem, only a scapegoat. Blame this on not having a more meaningful primary drive, and meaningful relationships in life so you are looking around at other thi… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Say a woman has a 4 face and an 8 body. Is she still considered a 4 or something in between?1 - disfigured / over 350 lbs 2 - extremely ugly, no symmetry, terrible teeth, extremely overweight, extremely underweight 3 - 200-350 lbs woman, or maybe an extreme birth mark on face, terrible skin condition, cystic acne pockmarks 4 - either at least 30 lbs overweight, somewhat unattractive face or a combination of both Like a 6 must be a healthy good weight (no chubbiness or flab), and a noticeable above average cute face. 7's (often her close girlfriend group) are most often the best looking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is male confidence necessarily linked to their sexual success?Confidence with dealing with women one on one in a seduction context is yes, directly linked. A conventionally unattractive guy that is not confident in his life, could be very very confident in his abilities to bang women from practice. Many people think being confident at being funny, confident at talking to people at a party, being good at a hobby, confident in their future, confident in how interesting they are... this can be, but to a much less degree. There is a certain confidence that is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness.You aren't doing the math that you were part of the problem during your phase of getting better with women. You were male thirst, batting below your league. Millions of men are currently in that phase or forever will be in that phase because they are still on the bottom rung of the ladder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness.Men should have higher quality approaches on a narrower group of women that they truly desire instead of shotgun messaging every girl on social media and dating apps because they aren't getting responses and would rather keep shotgunning than improving their approach. Won't happen, path of least resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness.Don't know about that. Ever been to West Hollywood? Gay neighborhoods often really, really, have their shit together as a community. Many gay neighborhoods are cultural centers for the arts and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness.Yes male thirst (attention) is the emotional supply from men that I argue if withheld, trumps pussy as a physical supply from women. If men were more disciplined I think women would change their behavior radically if they were starved for male attention. Men are very used to being completely starved from female attention and sex, women for the most part are not. Will not happen until sex robots or haptic suit VR porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?Yes, that definitely makes a lot of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness.I have gotten most of the way there where I don't let sex dictate my actions, also I am in my 30's. This was completely impossible in teens and 20's for me, and I am a very introspective person. There just was no higher purpose than fucking. I can lie to myself or try to dress it up, there just wasn't. I think in many higher libido men it is the same. They put either money & work, or a passionate hobby or two, but they also place sex at that highest level and if honest with themselves it is a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?Can we just get rid of the the Why in the title? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?True, good point I think it is foreign to me because though I dated a stripper once I think my perception of women are my peers who are college educated and often have advanced degrees who are somewhat cute, and to my knowledge haven't done sex work nor would ever consider it. These same women like sex too, but haven't partaken. And I couldn't imagine as a man if at least somewhat attractive women wanted to pay to see me naked and even more to have sex with me. It is unimaginable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Say a woman has a 4 face and an 8 body. Is she still considered a 4 or something in between?It's a very steep bell curve. So the middle 70% of women would be 5's, 10% would be 4's. So 4s would only be more attractive than like 5% of the population 1s, 2s, 3s are rare and so are 7s, 8s, 9s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?Why do they do sex work then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Say a woman has a 4 face and an 8 body. Is she still considered a 4 or something in between?I love the face, body, personality index. So if she had a 6 personality she would be a 4 / 8 / 6 Everyone ideally wants a 7+ / 7+ / 9+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?I don't know man been to Spearmint Rhino in LA area, Vegas, or Dallas? There can be knockouts of all flavors. One of my old neighbors was a busty Latina, I found out she as a stripper by going to the local strip club. Knock out, for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?LOL, yeah I probably would have done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?Good points. I just feel like a somewhat clever really attractive women could get a really cushy job if she went especially to a STEM company getting handheld (by dorky men), then have her wealthy boyfriend buy her things. I agree as soon as you throw in women competitors or horn dog Harvey Weinstein types it gets shitty fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?True the hotter the girl I have ever dated craziness has gone up dramatically especially when they are in the knockout range they get reckless fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a high ratio of extremely good looking women willing to do erotic work?The question isn't about the less attractive ones. Even if you do the make up argument there are still way more girls that do one off porns like a Casting Couch and their bodies are off the charts. And if their make up looks that good in video a knockout is still a knock out. I don't care how much make up you put on the vast majority of women they will never be a knockout just from their bone structure and bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Lost. No friends, no girl, no mission or purpose, no job, no hope. What to do?Get a job at a decent restaurant that has a bar where you can eventually become a bartender. This will give you an immediate social circle of co-workers. Go to community college and start your path to become a Lit. professor at a university. Write your own stuff on the side as a hobby. Join some sort of YMCA men's sports rec league, or a fighting gym to make male friends When you get your own apartment be sure to spend some money on a nice bookshelf tower with a hardcover books of books your lov… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Let’s say red pill/blue pill theory is true...so what?Are you a woman or just a really passive aggressive guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Are most women even attracted to men?Girls bang attractive guys out at parties or bars after a few drinks with barely knowing the guys name every night of the week. I have see it plenty over the years. Also if there was a daily count of first date online app sex somewhere on the internet I bet it could be in the thousands every night just for the U.S.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.If you've gotten enough positive attention from women and success, if you don't settle down with a girl and keep climbing the ladder, you do start to care. I am saying this from experience that gym will give diminishing returns after awhile, being better at socializing is endless in its potential (Oprah, Kobe, Bono etc..) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledLOL that would be like a woman arguing her ass and tits are an exploitable weakness because it attracts so much unwanted attention, and men exploit her by put sexual behavioral pressures on her against her will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.Yes they do, but like I said that increased interest is often from women that were already in his league face wise or below his league. Also part of the gain of respect is the confidence a noob has after getting some gains. That confidence I would say is more part of persona. Men will especially respect you more if you are buff by nature so as a man that lifts people in general treat you with more respect. What I am saying is very specific, guys that are a normal build (not twig skinny, or a fat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.Men project onto women how important bodies are. Because for men, a woman's body is extremely important. For many guys it is just as important as a girls face. As since most guys are not choosy about a girl's height, or style, or friends, or hell even how social they are... body matters a lot. So men think body is just as important to women, hence part of the reason some guys put so much time into the gym. Many men by nature also find going to the gym and lifting a much easier task than working … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common?Haha I laughed at men giving kudos to women for knowing anything they didn't think a woman would know, and women resenting this. I learned a long time ago to just shut my mouth and expect women to not know 95% of things I may talk about and to never give a compliment or act excited if she knows some of the 5%. As a man shut your mouth! Women go haywire over the smallest perceived slight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?No, you may have sex a few more times. The test would be if he bring you around his friends. If everything is alone or straight to someone's place it's all about the sex. Approaching in public to get a one night stand or a number is much different than bringing a girl to his friends' house party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetYou give it up for adoption to the government to be raised as a super soldier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetDepends if the woman in question is in the same arrangement. Simple fact less and less people are having kids and they are older and older before having them. There are plenty of singles out there, and divorcees on top of it. She may just have a dog and her own house. Who knows. If she was a mom in the situation it wouldn't be much different than dating a single mom. Probably bang at a hotel. Or in the car if you really need to max those college funds. I have thought about banging at one or the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetIf you were rich enough for the dinners and hotel and if she wasn't your wife, but your family partner and she already had her own long term boyfriend that paid for her dating shit so you don't have to. I am fine with a few drinks at a pool bar and banging at my girlfriend in question at her apartment, but go nuts if you need a $600 night to get laid once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetOk I am going to follow my heart, fall wildly in love. The first 2 years will be magic. Kid one comes. Some pregnancy complications not too bad. Year 4 sex wanes. Second kid, tough pregnancy, really tough. Fucks up her hormones, PPD, meds. Sex life down toddlers everywhere. Fast forward year 7 or 8 the itch starts, vanilla fucktoast sex. Year 10 thoughts of separating occur. She hits me with a divorce. We lose 30% of our net worth. I hate her. She hates me. The kids hate us. I live in a crappy 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetThat was done to build wealth, power, and acquire land. Not simply to build a healthy family with two parents with the same life goals in an era where having kids is by no mean a necessity, and instead a huge financial debt. The incentives and personal motives are polar opposites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI think it would be way easier than a man trapped financially in an unhappy marriage or a single Dad that most likely doesn't have the best relationship with the mother, and probably has lost a lot of money in divorce and child support. You would have a supportive partner that would take care of the kids on your date night. If you wanted to go after different or multiple women you could (Obviously only bring an established and serious romantic relation around your kids). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI don't know how people can argue against this because people are so into monogamous love, then argue the other way if people kept dating separate from parenting and family formation it would be a raging sexfest for women. I could easily imagine if this option was a norm in society you would have plenty of parents in these relationships that would have long term boyfriends or girlfriends just like people have long term relations now. What I am saying is people could still be just as monagamous a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 2 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetAccording to the divorces, substance abuse, fights yelling, unhappy couples I have seen around me my entire life. If you have been around well adjusted couples your entire life that is nice. Many of us don't grow up in those circumstances. Many of those maladjusted couples the crux of their issues is their romantic unrest with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outset30s, have only lived with women for months at a time when younger, had relationships for years though. I have always thought I wouldn't want to move in with a woman be it platonic or romantic unless I was surefire I wanted to have kids with her. This whole thing is just an idea I have had for years I haven't heard anyone talking about it and it seems so reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:42 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetWhy do the clear majority of people do a bad job of picking romantic life partners to have kids with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetYou are saying like you live together one day one, before becoming friends for most likely years just like the timeline before getting engaged to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI'm glad I've changed the Overton Window on family formations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetDon't understand do married people have 11:30pm on lock down as a time only married people can be together in the same room? This couple in my post would live together with the children. They could talk at 11:30pm or 3:20am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI'm glad you understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetBetween divorce, unhappy marriages (70%+ between the two), and kids that grow up in violent houses, addict houses, or houses with parents screaming at each other I would say most people have a big problem with monogamy over the long haul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetLOL I feel like you are not from a Western country. Sure he will pay for the entire thing by law. Every cent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetSeparate like any other parents if it must be. My thought and argument is romantic love goes up down and sideways. The divorce rate and unhappy marriage rate has to be at least 70%+ of all marriages. How could this not have a better shot if people know the deal going in? Also because there are no romantic expectations taking time away from each other more often would be more acceptable without hurt feelings. Most likely you wouldn't sleep in the same bedroom even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetIf the woman's mind is a pregnancy calculation probably the man in question isn't the right man for her to partner with, or the woman isn't focused on building a family first and on her individual ambitions second. You're commenting like they matched on an app and she gets in vitro the next day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetWhy play decades long emotional roulette with a spouse and with your kids younger years. Why not be free? Caveat is it would be planned to live together for the kids needs. Not having them live between two homes. A stable environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 0 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetSure why not. Is that a big deal? I mean the couple in theory would be buying a house together and living in it for decades. Is this pregnancy cost a show stopper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:03 AM |
| -1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetPeople keep saving love meaning romantic love. There would be love a familial and deep friendship love built with this other person for years before having kids. Yes this couple would pool their finances to build a family like any married couple or co-habiting parents do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 05:01 AM |
| 2 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetThat's some real real Red Pill shit. Men and women will despise each other without sex in the cards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetNot sure what you are talking about my post says this couple would meet and form a bond over family values, parenting values, life goals, morals, building a home together, building a deep friendship and love that just happens to not end in money shots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetUh.... because you chose to have children together and raise them? What are you talking about? What do you mean stale? You would both would be dating other people. Your relationship is around raising the kids. If you didn't want kids you'd never get into this sort of relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:44 AM |
| 0 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetYou think no love would grow for that person over the years of building a family together? I think they would be your best friend in the truest sense of the word. How do people grow up in families for 18+ years and bear it? I am saying this new family would likely have less family drama and issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:43 AM |
| 0 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI'm just pointing out it is pretty obvious with a high divorce rate, so many dead bedrooms and so on... So so many parents that fight in front of their kids of many time issues that deal with sexual love frustration, instead of family... Why not get the best of both worlds and leave the positive focus on the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:41 AM |
| 0 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetWho said perfect? That is like asking why didn't gays marry and have in vitro and have kids 20 years ago often? Gay marriage was a HUGE deal in 2010. What the fuck happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 0 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetYou really believe people don't closely follow social norms until a new set of social norms is introduced and accepted? It's like your saying no major societal change has been because it was considered on the fringe until enough people bought in. Like the great herd of humanity knows all the options of how it could behave and is choosing the way they like best. Society bestows a very tight set of accepted social norms. Have you ever been travelled to an exotic country from your own and hung out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:37 AM |
| -1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI am not sure Madonna is a great example of a potential mother no matter who she is with, just from the standpoint of time to be a caregiver. Open relationships are too much drama, this is not an open relationship. This is something planned from the outset for people with the same life and family goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outsetI think that is weighing your own sexual and ego needs vs. finding the best parental partner, family supporter, and stability & happiness for children growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Can women feel strong sexual attraction to a beta partner?Beta would depend on if you own a business, vs. having a job and how much freedom and pay is dependent on your boss & company's whims. It would also be beta if the money you earn is spent frivolously against your wishes by wife and kids vs. alpha if you decide how to use or invest that money in beneficial way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail?OP I hope you find love. It sucks all those men burned you in different ways, and understandable that would make anyone angry. As a man my only suggestion would be trying to cultivate an eye for men that really admire you when they spend time with you, and to not waste a second on those that will burn you again. Just keep putting yourself in environments with caring people and look for the man that is gracious towards you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe they deserve what Chad gets?You haven't run in drug scenes then. There are lots of drug addict, drug dealers guys that bang lots of hot party girls. Of the hot girls I would say no matter the social class, a large portion of them for at least a handful of years go through a heavy party phase where they are around these party drug dealer Chads and do get fucked by them. No, not when they are 29 looking for a husband - back when they are 19 in college at a rave... or 24 year olds and living in a Manhattan doing coke in a clu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Do guys realise when girls are playing mind games with them? Or realise the power dynamic in relationships in regard to who doesnt need the other partner has more power?Easiest way to gain skills in women's mind games is to hang out in strip clubs as a man. Don't pay for lap dances, just have drinks and buy drinks with strippers and talk to them on your lap. See professional manipulators sell with their ass on your lap and tits in your face. Most guys think the girls is mad and fold when she is just playing games. Guys that know often will be stubborn against her and try to enforce a boundary. Guys that have known for awhile will laugh it off and call another u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Do guys realise when girls are playing mind games with them? Or realise the power dynamic in relationships in regard to who doesnt need the other partner has more power?No, that's why there is divorce, and second divorces, and third divorces. And dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] Do you want to be a manwhore or do you want to only bang hot chicks?First of all RP since 2015 has had a dramatic drop off in players because that died in the culture. It has been come more about managing a few girls without getting emotions involved. Players tend to focus on trends, fashion, actionable advice, getting new leads, venue selection. So as time goes on RP players goes down. Most men would like to bang a lot of hot chicks and would if given the opportunity. Many not even know they want it because it never has been an option, but many guys that have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | A very common female fantasy is to have sex with a man who is dominant in bed (hairpulling, spanking, choking) what is the equivalent male fantasy?Get home. Girl smiling in the living room with a sandwich made, drink on the table, and a joint sparked. Good music playing. You sit down, she kisses your cheek. You put the sandwich in your mouth and she puts her in hand in your pants, biting her lip, with the joy of a child opening their first present Christmas morning at 5AM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 07:03 PM |
| 6 | So I hard nexted my ltrCould you imagine if you did this to some girl? Demand to see her for 7 days a week, start fights, then threaten you are going to go around fucking other women? Unless the girl was severely damaged she would see you as a controlling lunatic. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundActually, Not few have 'avoiding social interaction' as their primary goal once they acquire what they consider basic resources (usually, sex + wealth enough to get the basic needs). Laughed at how true this is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundMen have to try to be funny and show off hobbies to be attractive unless they are really good looking. Women don't to be dateable not in the least. So less women try to be funny or have serious hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Sometimes I think the woman has several men making moves on them at any time that they get small amounts of validation from each man (plus matches on apps, likes on Snap/IG) that the energy to make a single man feel special goes out the window. If she was born in a small town 100 years ago and there was one guy in the town that she found attractive and that was courting her she much more likely would treat the man much more carefully. Nowadays though it isn't one man in that village. By the age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?Of course you are the stereotype. Why are there countless stories just like yours of White American man with immigrant East Asian woman, and barely any of White American man with German or Nigerian girl? Well because those countries produce radically different personalities. I have gone on dates with a few German girls, and I frankly think they are half robot inside. If your Viet girlfriend was born and raised in Germany she would be a completely different person when you met her, and I doubt th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | So everyone knows that a guy being short, fat, bald or having a small penis is unattractive, what's the female equivalent?Fat, fat, fat, fat, fat Wrinkles, sagging skin Some girls have really ugly assholes, as an assman that is a big turn off Big chin Thick neck Strong jaw Big hands Big feet Receding hairline, big forehead No tits, no ass, still a fat spare tire muffin top Saggy tits of any size Oversized areolas that take up half the breast Ugly pussies, too much roast beef Bad smelling & tasting pussies Narrow hips Cankles More gums than teeth when they smile Resting bitch face Vocal fry The grandma face, some wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | So everyone knows that a guy being short, fat, bald or having a small penis is unattractive, what's the female equivalent?Preach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 06:21 PM |
| 7 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I think I have been blessed with a better hand than most men when it comes to dealing with women. I would say if all men became more attractive because of the contest, then the women would just still select to the top shelf of that more competitive field. The statistics show that competing in the contest isn't worth it to many men. Guys not having sex. In 2009 men 18-29, 8% were virgins, 2019 men 18-29, 27% virgins. Many more stats about men earning less than women, less ambitious and so on. In … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Bro now I know you never screamed out "genetic success!" when blasting into a woman to enhance her orgasm. Read a book bro, read a book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I'm autistic. Like calculus in my sleep autistic bro. S's'autistic. You did that whole marriage thing being a RP hater, like you used the RP handbook. You lead and "chose" her. You went after an introvert that isn't an attention whore. She was extra extra compliant (fav word in English). So hey, don't hate on RP when its tenets worked out for you to a T. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:12 PM |
| 13 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?A good portion of women have gotten sold men need sex in three dates or less. And the classic either a woman can be a prude or a slut she can't win. The problem with men being desperate for sex so bad they go slump busting or get into a relationship with a bitchy woman when they have a drought is the mirror reflection of girls that give into having sex early because they are desperate for validation or a relationship. The truth is if women had more pleasant attitudes and didn't keep in contact w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 66 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Sex lasts 30 minutes. Bad moods, too many needs, entitlement, or bullshit she conjures up can have lasting effects for decades. It's all about the great sex to bullshit ratio. In relationships that ratio can go to shit quite easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: For those running social circle game exclusively, how are you doing?Have to admit it is often incestuous. If people are tight in a circle that big lets say out of 100 people you see every few weeks or months there are probably 10-15 girls all 50 guys want to bang and date. Most likely if you end up with one of those 15 girls, she has banged 1-3 guys in the group, Unless she is new in town and you get to her first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there are better and worse parts of the country to meet high quality women?Yes of course, this is true for any market in which location affects the market which the vast majority do. Just like some cities have more sex positive and stylish girls, others have more down to earth and relationship oriented girls by the culture. Location is still a strong determinant of culture and how to socialize people. I think a good city size is 750k-1.5m. Big enough everyone hasn't dated everyone, and usually metropolitan at least some of the girls are educated and know how to stay th… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Call plate on her shit?Her behavior is because she has other guys she is just as or more interested in right now. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Why does my good guy game work so well?Lots of game styles work with a segment of girls, but not others. If you are getting the girls you want don't change. Shifting to the bad guy can be a tool to deal with crazier girls, stubborn girls, bad girls, shady girls, damaged girls. It can also be a great tool to deal with bad behavior. Sometimes girls don't want you to be the carefree guy with loose boundaries. Sometimes they want a strong and cutting show of distaste for poor behavior to be "put in their place" for bad behavior verbally.… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | The paradox of game...OP, How many average sex partners do you think an attractive, social, developed country girl by the time she is 25? Now how many of those she banged did she think before she banged them, damn this guy is husband material? Let's say this girl in in question has banged 7 guys and she meets number 8 and marries him at 28 years old. At 25 I doubt when she first banged him he looked at him at husband material before sex. If you also listen to girls sex history the majority are usually not relationshi… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are both men and women so insecure nowadays?Realest comment I've read in awhile. Glad others notice it. Female Dating Strategy had a post of a girl saying there are lots of Red Pill guys obsessed and enamoured with having it all and replying to anyone that seemingly desire to just be average as being something shameful which isn't healthy. She dated a guy that she said was acting a bit unhinged and her observation was he could never live up to some wild perfection fantasy in his mind he thought he deserved at all costs. This led him to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else find this ridiculous?Worse than 1 girl per 100 approaches means you need to keep getting better at socializing which means keep making cooler guy friends. At the same time improve your looks. Getting better lines or approaching more probably isn't as important yet. Still approaching is always good practice. If you can name 3 guy friends that either have very cute girlfriends or can get laid easily with cute girls you are on the right track. If you have 5+ guy friends that have hot girlfriends or can get laid easily … | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsI think what isn't thought of is the other side. With her looks she has a lot more incentive to be open and fun or she would never get any attention. If she grew up hot do you think she'd be the same person? Not a chance. This girl is driven by incentive like anyone else. I am sure there are fat ugly guys with hearts of gold that she has shot down or ghosted on. Hell she probably is right now on dating apps as I type this. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I am profoundly unhappy.What have you done that is soulful or creative lately? What have you done that you could see yourself remembering with a smile 30 years from now? How close are your relationships with family and friends? How many of the girls do you see currently do you miss when you aren't around them? Redpill ignores a fulfilled soul, it focuses on a "mission" and materialistic results only. Redpill should be used to get a baseline of materialistics things, beyond that though it won't fulfill your soul. Creati… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | LTR broke up, now comes crawling backIt will never be the same again. 3 years from now there can be a spat between you both, this past will always make you mistrust her even if on some small level that will cause problems in the future when the cards are down. All that matters in an LTR is will things make it when life is at its worst. An LTR at its best is just a monogamous fun hook up, which why bother then? The lows are when it counts and grows. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:53 AM |
| 2 | LTR cheated with female best friend. lGBT+ BullshitAs said plenty, sexually confused people are often mentally confused in life as well, so this isn't a girl in a stable part of her life right now, so really not an easy problem. 20/20 hindsight, you said you did silence and pullbacks. Maybe this was too much red pill and not enough game. Frame and dread are blunt tools that can easily be overused. You need to listen to a woman, form a connection, get into her frame, and give her positive options about how she views the world by using your connec… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Keeping girls without staying "on" all the timeTruth that game worshippers don't talk much about and are so keen on just nexting girls and moving on... It's great to have A+ game if you aren't great looking. Don't be mistaken though that A+ game is the price of admission, and girls don't love you for you. They love that A+ game. If you want a LTR that lasts I recommend only being with one seriously that you can cruise by with B- game and she is still crazy about you. Sadly for the less good looking guys this means dating less attractive wome… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to get over a fear of breaking women's heartsOnly spend time with women you can see a future with. You aren't the "she's only for sex type" kind of emotionally colder player. That type of guy can enjoy and want the sex and not care for the company of the woman or really anything about her because sex is that important to him. That guy will naturally set up a dynamic where there is no false signals to the girl. She understands what the deal is. You get tied up with how a girl feels. Stick to girls you actually want something with. You are n… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:39 AM |
| 4 | How to stop playing the comparison game and build frameFirst off, you are at an Ivy. Not a top 10 or even top 50 party school. I never went to an Ivy but I never heard, nor seen, nor met many Ivy chicks that are nearly as hot as party school chicks, state university, community college. In fact community college chicks oftentimes are hotter than the hottest girls at party schools. Beautiful girls always have the option of working less hard. What I am trying to say as I know you study at an Ivy and in your world you think Ivy girls in your school is y… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?Yeah that is bad luck. The entire obesity sink for women has killed many relationships and future families. No good answer there. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | RedPillers over 30, What do you feel was the best time of your life?28-30 School done, money, my own place, can hit on 18-22 no problem, energy for 3+ nights out a week, no health problems, not a ton of responsibility at work. Still peers in same age group also with $ and time on their hands to have fun without marriage, mortgage, or kids yet. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?Morbid death ratios in our favor bros. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menVietnamCupid.com, start conversations. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?You most likely won't end up with the hottest girl you ever bang. Give the green flags girl a real chance especially if she is fit and crosses the cute line. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How should you handle "grass is greener on the other side" thoughts?As you grow older bad things in life happen that tend to put things in perspective. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menLearn hat game and have beanies, baseball hats, artsy hats etc that work for you. Hang around Asian groups with short women. Have a back up plan to have lifestyle that includes long trips to Vietnam, Phillipines, and maybe Africa. Having wingmen is out of the question as you said attention will be stolen. Get used to working solo. Get practice at hooking women in online dating with conversation. If American sites/apps get no matches start messaging girls in Southeast Asia and practice conversing… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | 57, no friends, stressful job, minimal family life, haven't dated in 8 yearsMy heart goes out to you, you have had a tough life. Charities, churches, video gaming groups, card game groups I would think would be best ways to find genuine companionship. Good luck and I hope you find love in others and peace. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Why can men continuously raise/maintain their SMV throughout their 30s-40s but women can't?The real truth is looks. If men take care of themselves they can look more attractive and confident through those years. Women don't. After that it is downhill just like women though. 50+ guys usually have to have a big money/lifestyle angle to be dating hotties. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 01:41 AM |
| 6 | LTR noticing declining interest in sex with herThis is the realest answer and no one talks about it: If you want kids find a woman that would be a good mother. Don't get married. Knock her up. After enough kids find a way to separate on good terms. Then go on to be a player for the rest of life while having the good terms of the baby mama and kids. I honestly think emotional relationship/parental parternships should be completely separate from sexual ones in society. There is no reason to smash it all together under one roof when they demand… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Taller men, are comments on your height By women an IOI?I'm 6'5", gotten comments on my height from girls my whole life. It's cute to get the comments, doesn't mean anything unless you make a move. Nothing matters until you escalate successfully. If you aren't in a position to physically escalate on her, nothing matters until you can get there. Everything else is bullshit. God's truth. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I hooked up 25 girls but none of them were pretty. What I am doing wrong?The better looking girls you talk to can sniff out that you haven't had other good looking girls. Stop banging average and below. Approach more good looking ones only. Get comfortable just talking to them without fear of loss. Get comfy enough you see their flaws. Unpopular feels, but more alcohol can always help, find a way to get her to take shots with you. A dare, a contest, anything. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:16 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with me and relationshipsI read more of your stuff. It's clear you don't have enough experience hanging out with women in an affectionate relationship. The fastest way? Don't be picky. Date a 6 that you are whatever about and spend quality time with her. Then after 6 months break up. That is the stone cold player answer. You will get a big dose of positive female attention so you aren't as needy. Something's off here, you casually state you have plates going like it is no big deal, then turn around and say you act d… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | I can only get girls by lying that I also want a relationship. But it makes me feel terribleIf you had more girls going on you could easily just pass on the ones that want a relationship badly. Just projecting the energy you are moving that fast through girls, they will know what's up on some level and know what they are getting into and probably won't start these conversations. I don't get asked this question of what are we by girls because I drop the ones that want to wait for sex, and the ones that want sex as bad as I do know the risks of putting out early. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are women ashamed of being women these days?God damn fine answer. There was some Atlantic survey, 75% of couples now meet online. Meeting through family, friends, or church all took a nosedive. People want easy over foundational. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:30 AM |
| 18 | I can't fucking do it.Dude not hating, I LOL "I'm so fucking beta". I have been completely red pilled for about 10 years now, I got this way before ever reading Heartiste or any forum shit. I was purple pill for another 12 years before that, noticing red pills in front of my face but not having someone confirm for me directly. You sound like you never even had a purple pill stage out of your own observations. You are big drama man right now. You will laugh in a few years how feminine this was. Eat some steaks… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it a terrible idea to have female housemates?99/100 Yes. 1 out of 100 may be the cool chick that brings cute nice friends over, and also adds a warm personality to the house. This is 1 out of 100. The chances of a girl also not gossiping or semi cock blocking your dating is also near impossible. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Offering to help. Beta or Not?Never be able to make an omelette without cracking some eggs. You're too careful and women can see that as an opening to start acting up and testing. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Offering to help. Beta or Not?Don't agree. Next day was booked to pack all day. No need to walk on egg shells feeling bitched out by a chick because she had anxiety about the move packing little things. Who cares if she gets upset? Women get upset about small things all the time. They should be reacting, not provoking. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Offering to help. Beta or Not?"Not doing it right" "Getting in her way" Bitch says this to me in a pissy tone I respond seriously, "Whatever's going on let me know calmly or figure it out, enough of that tone though" If she get's worse maybe give her one last chance again a serious tone almost like a parent to a misbehaving kid "Are you sure that's your answer?", she doesn't take the hint she is playing with fire, leave the house for the night. If she doesn't genuinely apologize after, time to tell her you need a break… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How to ACTUALLY change your frame/reality/inner gameThere is no way around expending time and energy in the field. That is where you experiment and also build up your auto-pilot game so you can focus on higher level things and nuance going on and start to treat it more as artistry than a struggle. Inner game in terms of dealing with women means building up your base line persona to get used to and be ready for whatever is thrown at you. When I have done a week of 20 or more approaches and specifically a day where it is my 5th or 6th approach … | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I go from friends to friends with benefits with her?Stop listening to her problems. Invite her out or to your place. Make a physical move on her. Be ready to cut the friendship if it fails. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 03:03 AM |
| 4 | My biggest fear is coming off as boring when seeing someone but I still manage to do itYou can being boring in your off time. You can tell women you are a garbage man. You can tell women you are boring in your off time and collect garbage. You can still get laid way more than a guy that works an easy 35 hours a week makes good money, and has tons of interesting hobbies and friends. No one can save you from your own presentation to women and how it affects them. I just want to say "interesting pursuits" may be a way to self satisfaction, fulfillment, maybe confidences, an… | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 02:53 AM |
| 3 | My biggest fear is coming off as boring when seeing someone but I still manage to do itDon't expect your game to be it's best when your energy is sapped. Game is purely the ability to send out a certain energy which women take hold onto and have their feelings amplified and changed because of it. This takes energy. How much laughing, sexy smiling, deep eye contact, and touching happen on first dates of yours? If the answer is "I can't remember", "not much" or anything like that, there is your starting point. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?Also a fellow guy that has enjoyed dating some trainwrecks for the fun and experience, you get to see deeper layers of female psychology on display. These chicks can't hide their bad sides as well, you see the same things in good girls in lighter levels that they try to obscure this same side of themselves, even though they still pull dosage back it is clear as day if you look for it. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | What red pill facts surprised you the most?Spectacular post. A way explained with more nuance and angles at explaining female friendships I hadn't seen. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:28 AM |
| 5 | Not feeling any drive towards dating anymoreNo more Anglo country women. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?LOL sucks to be 6'2! | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Led on and dumped for another guy after 3 monthsWow who cares about game, being needy, or taking over a girl's mind for this case. Junkie dad, rough upbringing, domestic abuse, loads of self harm marks on legs? You can't catch a ghost by trying to tackle it. Consider you won the lottery by not making her pregnant. Sometimes guys respond with a "win at at all costs mentality", "there is always a way to win!". No, seriously, most of the time it is best to walk away start anew, for Christ's sake. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you emulate the badboy successfully?Yo you sound purple pill. A somewhat nice guy, that is rightfully pissed off he sees that the world doesn't always reward upstand behavior. You need time. When you post something and you feel no attachment, no anger, no need for women to like you then you are on the right track. It will take awhile to rebuild your persona... you can do it though just like learning a new subject or changing your body. Keep in touch with these angry feelings because they will be the drive that makes fruitful c… | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you emulate the badboy successfully?Bad boys do it by not giving a fuck about small social rules and not being the nice guy for the sake of it. Bad boys illicit this without direct words. 98% of aura cast upon others is unsaid. You seem like you are trying to make friends and be warm. Women upfront when they like a bad boy don't want the soft little teddy bear upfront. They want the somewhat friendly looking tiger they aren't too sure about, and hopefully can pet if they play their cards right. Girls especially fall into this fram… | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | dealing with envyThis rarely if ever has happened to me. When it does it is usually guys I don't know at social event with friends of friends and the guys don't like that I am getting women's attention. They probably think I am some sort of jock dork douche. Usually they are the passive aggressive ironic types or wannabe cool guys that struggle to know how. I like having complete nerd male friends that are smart.... so if they only really knew I didn't stuff guys into lockers and trash cans in junior high. Men t… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | A summary of the most attractive traits in a man?Emotional IQ Emotional Control Vocal Tone and Control Posture and Mannerisms Being able to emotionally emote, and emotionally lead women Spontaneity Not giving two fucks because we are all dead anyways A dick that works and works hard like a miner | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Holy shit... I think I'm slowly actually getting it.Please stop, you need to throw your old self out the window along with gayish corny jokes. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Abundance of Plates Hindering Motivation to ApproachUse your carefree attitude to approach girls hotter or more exotic than what you are used to (preferably both) in more challenging sets to experiment and push yourself with much less fear of failure. Confidence that fosters the desire to experiment freely is when a unique style & mastery begins being etched. Paint a picture with words with whatever is floating through your mind to them. Be authentic, act like it is The Truman Show because in reality that's what this all is anyways. Break the… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Four months in setting boundaries?;) | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Four months in setting boundaries?Because this is an LTR, not a bang. I think any guy that is serious about an LTR is fuckin' nuts to not check up on a woman's behavior when making a life investment. I would tell her to cut it out firmly. If she comes back with any you stalked me? He is just some that was part of my life! Out, out, out. Not three strikes, one strike. This is a life investment, not some dreamed up Game scenario. Him ignoring her social media, and focusing on "being the man" won't do shit for him in the si… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:07 PM |
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