To begin the standard traditional definition of a AFBB does happen, my view is not a negation of this concept. However I think it’s vastly overstated. So theoretically women pre-wall in their 20s are at their most valuable so they are dating the highest value men they can fuck and are trying to lock them down. Sweet angelic cherub beta men are stuck with their video games and waifu porn. But unbeknownst to Becky the party girl the beta has a secret weapon. Much like a tiger he’s an ambush predator as the wall ticks and 30 looms, Becky has realized that Chad has adjusted his rotation down to women that were the age she was when they first met and she is all alone and baby rabies are eating her away. Now the beta is in position to attack. One bite to the neck crushes her corroded arteries where tingles are manufactured , And she goes limp, awakening eight years later with three kids, a dead bedroom, and a divorce decree in hand.

So what happens to “Chad”? Does he keep rotating his pool of plates until he can’t get it up anymore? Or how about this...

They guy I’m seeing and I are in our mid 40s. We’ve known each other almost 2 decades. We met at a strip club where I was working and have been party buds and occasional FWB through out this time If we weren’t in other relationships at the time. I didn’t try to lock him down or anything. He was cool, and I was just having my fun like women supposedly do throughout their 20s without thinking about the future. Just to note in this context neither of us wanted children so for two people who do,just assume they’re in their early 30s. Aside from that it’s the same concept

So I’m Looking at him last night and realized when I was pre-wall hot AF in my mid-20s, he was partying Chad in his mid-20s and now we both just aged, so if someone didn’t know our history, they might think that I settled with a high Beta bucks. Like he’s still attractive but he’s not tall, has some grey hair and is fit but not ripped, bit of a belly. Has a lot of money and lives in a nice place and he’s very generous financially.

Look guys, men who were not successful with women in their 20s don’t get an automatic glow up in their 30s that make them more sexually attractive to women. Some men are late bloomers and figure out that they need to lift and maximize their looks and game in order to get women and have varying degrees of success. Same is true conversely for the alpha. Young naturally fit and lean energetic Chad is going to get fatter, grayer and more wrinkled if he doesn’t take care of himself. Even if he does, Unless he’s some weirdo obsessed with plastic surgery, the signs of aging will still be there. Fortunately for men things like grey hair tend to be pretty attractive but it’s still a visual indicator that he’s not in his physical prime anymore. And remember women are not as obsessed with youth and neotny so as long as he makes her feel desired she will be just as into him sexually at 40 as she was at 25. It may not look like that to the outside especially if you’ve discovered red pill and you’re looking for a confirmation of it all around.

Let’s fight!