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| 41 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards. | Debate | Cobra_x30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Could bondage be good for you? S&M enthusiasts are 'healthier and less neurotic' than those with a tamer sex life | Cobra_x30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 06:22 PM | |
| 4 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policy | CMV | Cobra_x30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:56 PM |
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| 0 | What Does self Improvement and agency (power, willpower, freedom, being an active individual) in life mean for a woman?I don't know many men who live entirely for themselves... and the ones who do are heavily looked down upon socially. Prisons are filled with deadbeat dads. I looked at a study one time that showed 40% of men who fell behind in child support ended up in jail for a period of time. That's an insane number of men. For women, I just point to Eat, Pray, Love... since that's the basic standard. She is celebrated for ditching her family, spending her husbands money touring the world and having affairs. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menWomen like Melinda Gates pay into that amount, but lets be clear... she didn't make all that money herself anyway. There are some self made, very wealthy women who pay a lot in taxes and push that number down, but in the bulk, men pay taxes, women recieve tax benefits. Also, think of it like this. When universities were mostly male, nobody was screaming for debt forgiveness. Now, the cost of university has skyrocketed, mostly due to women attending at almost stupid rates. Now that women are unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menThis is a rather recent development... and is likely the result of a lack of social cohesion or traditional gender structures. Meaning men feel protective over women they consider within their tribe, but when women smash that structure, men no longer feel like these women are within the group they need to protect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menWe generally expect women to protect thier children at the expense of their own life, but my point was you don't see them doing that for their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:05 PM |
| -8 | What Does self Improvement and agency (power, willpower, freedom, being an active individual) in life mean for a woman?Since you’re a man and presumably more likely to watch videos geared to men, your algorithm won’t show you much self-improvement advice for women. But there’s a lot of it, on everything from career to dating to physical and mental health. Only difference is the career advice isn’t geared toward attracting a partner as often as it is for men. Are you implying that self improvement advice to women is entirely selfish? Aside from tradwives, most women do not want to be stuck in the wife and mother … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menOk. Well let's say someone is being harassed for whatever reason. I think it's fully acceptable to call the police in this situation with the expectation that they will eventually show up and deal with the harasser. Where I think things get sticky, is whether you are entitled to ask other people to help you. Perhaps uninvolved people should stay uninvolved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:07 PM |
| -5 | Women are not entitled to anything from menIs that an accurate statement? Do people actually have such a right? I think nobody has a right to touch you, or impede your movement in public spaces. However, I think people do have the right to talk to you regardless. You may ignore them if you want, but so long as they are not issueing threats, you don't have a right to force people to not talk for your personal comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:41 PM |
| -2 | Women are not entitled to anything from menLook, you need to reformulate this idea and instead of putting stuff women don't really care to get from men, go for the stuff they do care about and then see how people feel. Safety, The average woman gets $100k-200k from the government lifetime. The average man pays that. That's entitlement. Educational loans(over 60% women)... and their subsequent repayment by taxpayers (predominantly men) Child support - The default divorce should be shared custody and zero child support... unless the mom wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:37 PM |
| 59 | Women are not entitled to anything from menHow about you toss safety on the list and see what people say. I watched a video of a woman getting attacked by some tweaker on a subway and all the guys just looking at their cellphones ignoring it. Let's be real, that firefighter that died shielding his family from a sniper at the Trump rally... I don't see wives throwing themselves in front of their husbands and taking a bullet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?When we defend our "Universal Health" system, we always point at the US and say "Look, there you die if you can't afford the hospital bill". "Look, there you have to pay for ambulances". A hospital cannot refuse to save your life. It's illegal here. However, afterwards they will hit you with a bill like you've never seen before. Half a million dollars or something crazy. The thing is though... they can't collect. People just walk away from the debt. The system itself is very crazy. We found in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?That is very close to what they want to do in the big city near where I live in the USA. The police just refuse to work right now. It has been tested that emergency calls and the police will not show up until the next day. They say staffing levels are too low, but the truth is that the police do not feel safe doing their job, so they just don't. They go to work and then they go hide and do paperwork. They don't even collect crime data accurately anymore, because they don't investigate anything. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?In shitholes like that where self defense is illegalized... not going lie it sounds like the Eurozone bullshit... the way you handle this is to always go out with a large number of male friends. Generally group clashes are less likely because each person is faced with higher risks. Also... women should stay indoors in such places and not go out in public, because it's impossible to defend yourself against agressors. I think the Germans are finding this out, as the immigrants they brought in part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?I've never seen that done. I suppose the best way to handle that is to know your DA and make sure you are a known supporter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:58 PM |
| – | How much do you think is your "negative" version of other side is made by "thought germs" mutating in your group?Lol, no. It'd be a collapse in fertility rates at first (but then again, this is happening anyway) but in the end it would put a lot of pressure on women to change. Men and women influence each other a lot more than most people are willing to acknowledge. Technically these are the least happy rich women the planet has every seen. I don't think that exctinction is coming but essentially western civilzation is going to delete itself. We will see if Eastern Europe can hold out. I suspect that they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:41 PM |
| – | How much do you think is your "negative" version of other side is made by "thought germs" mutating in your group?Let's get real the Red Pill even back in the day had a strong social darwinism problem. That's where all those black pill guys came in... believing they are genetic dead ends drove them partially insane. If you look around the world, most functioning cultures are solid Red Pill. They understand the nature of women and then take steps to make that work for everyone. The English speaking world has created this blue pill to brainwash men. I'm almost entirely sure it's a feminist creation, because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?Mongo is going to vote for Trump now.... or Duke Nukem if he makes the ballot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?Most states do not have a legal defintion for brandishing and a solid lawyer can shred them. The exception is California and in that place all you have to do is identify as a gay native american bicycle and they won't prosecute you. It's truly a place of fucking idiots. The few places that do have a law that defines brandishing... just make sure your GF has the gun, is well trained in how to fire it, and let the punk take even 1 swing and then she can put a few rounds in him.... and almost has t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:23 PM |
| – | How much do you think is your "negative" version of other side is made by "thought germs" mutating in your group?The original Red Pill was devoid of morals because it was attracting men from all over the political spectrum, and religious spectrum, and philsophical spectrum... ect. The goal was to blast through societal programming and lies in order to be more successful at dating. Of course high status men and feminists fucking hated it immediately, because it was working, which both debunked their lies and eroded their power base. Eventually Feminists were able to attack and deplatform the strongest voice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?Sometimes these kids overstep themselves. His real problem is the fact that he doesn't live in a concealed carry state. I'm not going to worry too much about some teen boys trying to group jump me when my date is packing a 9mm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:24 PM |
| 11 | Guy is bullied while on a date skit - thoughts on how it was handled?Would you like a glass of water for that thirst? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:20 PM |
| -2 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.That actually probably played out to your benefit. Having relationships too early might have led you to repeating the same mistakes. Now, you can clearly see the issues and avoid them. My question is... how successful are you as a person? Are you a twice convicted felon with an opiate issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:33 PM |
| -4 | I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids.Correction, women are happier single WHEN they have access to mood altering medications and endless therapy sessions. At least that's what the statistics show. Fact is that people have a need to be needed. Single Childless women aren't needed by anyone. We could send every single one of them over to Putin for his next human wave attack and nobody would notice. Single women with children are failing at everything and stressed to the maximum. If you look at kids who survived child abuse in a two p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:30 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Instead she is financially relying on the government which is fucking totally out of money. When the artificial sugar daddy runs out of money... a lot of these ladies aren't going to look good enough to get the real thing. Also, they will have created an enormous population of useless men as a byproduct of withholding themselves. Both groups will rot in a hell of their own making together. That's what I think people are really missing here. Top 60% of the population is going to be just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:24 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?No, the primary issue with feminism is that it's a lie. At the start it was a useful lie in that it allowed upper class wealthy women to rope-in lower class women and persuade them to fight for equality to men in areas that frankly didn't benefit them much at the outset. I mean even in 1950 almost 40% of the female population was working. The push was always for equal pay... BUT only in high paying, high status professions that benefitted wealthy women most. At this point... the lie isn't worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:18 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Thanks, which parts do you disagree with? I'm always open to criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:14 PM |
| -2 | Most women don't even need to go through a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 dynamic to happenThose women are either selling it... or don't have a choice in the matter. You don't see women putting up Wilt Chamberlain numbers for fun. You just don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?I don't really think women have made peace with this. I think instead women have simply been sold a lie that they believe to be true and are too busy chasing ephemeral feelings to realize what the end of their path looks like. Also... I think government debt is at such a level worldwide that further borrowing is very counterproductive, and as the worlds leading economies are forced to pay back the absolute mindblowing amount of money borrowed it's going to crush single women way more than it wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:48 AM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?This isn't the correct way to look at it. It's part of the issue with feminism and their bullshit views on this mythological patriarchy. It makes people stupid because suddenly they believe in things that aren't true. Men are not a monolith, and neither are women. I understand feminists have lied to you most of your life claiming that we live in a patriarchy where men dominate high positions... which is a stupid and pointless concept. The implication here is that these powerful men use their pow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:41 AM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?James Buchanan was a lifelong bachelor. However, it's also highly likely in my personal opinion that he was gay. He actually lived with one man, who was often referred to as Buchanan's wife, AND the guys family burned all of his letters between the two the moment they got ahold of them. Also, Buchanan's first courtship with a woman in his youth ended with a lot of bitterness and anger on the side of the woman's family. They seem to have felt like he was trying to trick her. So, there's lots of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?https://www.reuters.com/world/migrants-are-being-raped-mexico-border-they-await-entry-us-2023-09-29/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Trump almost never mentions race in these things. I honestly don't think he even knows. Like they just had a little hispanic girl murdered by Venezuelans in Texas. Trump talked a lot of shit about it... so that would literally contradict everything you are saying here. However, I honestly don't think Trump knows the girl was Hispanic because no media outlet mentored her race. I think if Trump was still a Democrat, they would give him the benefit of the doubt and Republicans would think he is rac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Ok, so I have met and spoken to both men and women who experienced it first hand. So, whoever told you it isn't true is a lair and you should not believe them. This absolutely happens, coyotes are not wonderful people... they work for the cartels and a good chunk of them are violent nasty people... Especially the ones smuggling drugs along with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?This has much more to do with the male empathy gap and how political discourse is done in the US, than anything Trump specific, in my opinion. The biggest hits Trump has ever taken politically are centered around both how he talked about women as a celebrity douchebag, and his overall awkwardness surrounding racial topics. The thing you are going to find is that both the American Left and the American Right in large parts will never accept the portrayal of women as anything but victims. Now... t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:48 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneYeah... this particular topic goes both ways. I've seen especially men who have high stress jobs with women that have low stress, low pay jobs... those guys tend to really pack on weight after a while. For women... I feel like it's just centered around children. But fundamentally, the people I knew as a kid that were thin, are thin today. The ones that were fat then, are fat today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?If you set a policy that from this point forward 100% of all immigration to the US must be women aged 18-35, no children, no spouse, no parents. The women in the US would go batshit within a month! Right now we take in about 75% men because it's a long dangerous journey to the US and the idea is that they will send money home to their family. A lot of them don't plan to stay forever. This is why the feminists are cool with illegal immigration. Do you know how many female social workers have been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?He was talking about Coyotes. I think most American's are not familiar with rape trees, but anyone in the southwest knows this stuff. They rape the ever living shit out of young women coming to the US. They throw the panties into trees as a trophy. You can be like the rest of America, pretend it doesn't exist and that your cool with women getting raped like this... but I'm not. He might be a stupid crazy bastard, but on this topic he is 100% correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?This is totally incorrect. Men are not sexually disgusted by other men... otherwise they wouldn't be able to watch porn... which contains other men. The truth behind this phenomenon is twofold. Sex has a very natural Dominant/Submissive nature to it. The receiver is almost always seen as submissive. Even animals get this as they will hump something to show dominance. If a woman has been dominated by many, many men... then that greatly reduces her overall value FOR LONG TERM PROSPECTS. Note that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.There are a couple of things a play here. When we say that men go for the most attractive partner, that doesn't always mean prettiest. If you have a guy who is on top and has essentially his pick, the wife is virtually always chosen for bloodline reasons. Even in ancient times when kings had harems or 50 wives, that kind of stuff, there was always a primary wife and she was chosen specifically for the reason of producing an heir. Different cultures did this differently. We know that Nordic and G… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Not many. Most guys will happily live in a cardboard box with affection and sex, than a mansion without it. Actually... I don't think I've ever known a man that would take wealth over love. The thing is that most men see wealth as a vehicle to receiving this from a woman, otherwise most would not be that motivated for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.I got no respect for it personally. Our culture today has zero concept of honor, and women basically love based on what you did for them today, because yesterday holds no value to them. How many men tolerate absolutely horrific, zero affection marriages because that woman was once good to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Yes, but if we are talking about women this happens 100% of the time. It's so predictable that vegas won't even take bets on it. The moment a woman's career takes off, doesn't matter how much the janitor that loved and supported her did.... or even continues to do. Every single time it's "He couldn't handle my success", which actually means she was cheating with men of her new status level and he didn't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?As a rule of thumb, men cheat to stay in marriages, women cheat to leave. There are of course exceptions. It's one of the reasons why men frequently affair down, while women affair up. How many times have you seen a guy get caught cheating and your thinking, his wife is better in every way, why would he do that? Well, it doesn't matter how great your wife is.. if she won't touch you it's pointless. If you combine sexless, and low sex marriages together they constitute over 50% of all marriages i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?It means she can justify going after married men. Many, many times the justification is "my wife doesn't touch me". I suspect its not very true... but, what do I know about such things. I've just seen it happening in work circles frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?You don't see this much, because only a small slice of these women are chasing younger men. What is really happening is they are homewrecking upper middle class families in the young Gen X category. If you are 55 year old successful guy, and your 55 year old wife is fat, frumpy, and asexual now... a 48 year old that is getting plastic surgery to look younger and is willing to flex down on her morality... that's going to look like a good deal to a lot of these guys. Think of it like a Jeff Bezos … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?LOL... Well, now that's a great reason for moving on! Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:59 PM |
| – | The lesbian divorce rate confirms that women ruin most marriagesJust my personal opinion, but if you really pay attention to the women on this site, you are going to find a bit of a gap between the ones from the west and those from other parts of the world. EulenWatcher is probably one of the better examples. Just read how she responds to things and she has this deeply feminine energy. She will absolutely grind your argument into the dust with politeness and logic. Whatever angry energy you come at her with, you actually have to try and hold onto it because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?Oh... my apologies. Yeah Check out DIM. It metabolizes estrogen, and helps lower risk of a couple times of cancers. You can get it in a pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?I want to point out to you that of all the men and women who read what I wrote there... only you stopped to ask "why?". That indicates to me that you are a woman who cares about these things, which also means you are much more likely to be making your partners feel like you deeply value them this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else (all genders) get torn between wanting to be a slut and actually having something serious with one partner?I've actually done this before... although I didn't have a significant other at the time. Let me just quickly articulate why you don't want to go there. There is a chance that it just isn't very good, and then it wasn't worth it. On the other hand, it could be incredible, and it will really make you struggle to go back to something that doesn't feel like that. That's not a wave you want to ride friend. On the other hand, you could go meet her with your wife. Show her how into your wife you are, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?So, you just won't date heavy set women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:39 PM |
| 3 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?Average age is 27 and only about 20% are autistic. They did some research on the community, so we know who incels are now. They are almost 75% from left wing households. It's the number two predictor of being an incel. 46% retain left wing beliefs, and 25% either become right wing or started in that space. Also, a lot of these guys are minorities... 40% or so. You know they already have apps that tackle most of the problems that both men and women have with things like Tinder. The problem is tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?I have all the same issues. I got chubby during covid so, I just had to go through a brutal slim down phase. Just take a cucumber and slice it up, and take it on the road in a sandwich baggie. Keeps me from getting hungry and buy someone unhealthy. The other thing is Kale, has this stuff called DIM, helps prevent cancer, hyper estrogen issues, and also helps weight loss. I don't even cook it, I just eat it about 30 minutes before a meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?LOL... I like your personality! I hope you have a great day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Why do women find it so hard to not be fat?Well, if you go off BMI, I'm bordering on obese when my body fat is over 5%. I assume every other guy who lifts at the gym has the same issue. Even fat guys that carry more muscle... and they do... they look a lot fatter on the BMI scale. In my experience, There are a lot fewer fat women running around than what the online stats say. Maybe they dont leave the house, or maybe BMI sucks for everyone as a measure of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?I think it's very simple. Women put a lot of thought into looking good, and then from that point they begin to approach dating with this idea that men are exactly like them. So, women who are not hypersexual don't tend to be willing to fake it in order to make me feel attractive. I'm not saying they do nothing, it's just not where they put in their effort. Let me give you a non sexual example. The most common text I get from a girlfriend when I'm traveling for work is "I miss you". Well, one GF … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:22 PM |
| 10 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Women really like to feel sexually attractive in a relationship. If they don't have that, over time it becomes a very big deal. Guess What?... Men are the exact same way. I've been in a lot of relationships and the number of women who have been able to make me feel like they really desired me is very small. The number them that I made feel desired very, very high. It's not reciprocal... women don't even think about it really. If they did, nobody would be making these posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:44 PM |
| 3 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantNo, the problem with this type of woman is that they target the wrong man. Like, half the guys out there would be obsessed with this woman and not willing to give her up. However, being a Pick Me type literally means ignoring these guys because they aren't what you want. THAT is the real problem with these women. It's a strategy for shooting for the moon in terms of dating. Also, you don't have to be married to have kids, and if you want a marriage, any guy with a brain needs to have you sign th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?Well, to be blunt it works sometimes. It can be a really viable strategy for some guys, because it shows dedication and there is a certain portion of women who will change their minds because the guy is able to show how much he really, really likes her. That said... I think it's a crappy deal for the guy and nobody wants to win over a woman like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:32 PM |
| 6 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?That clear and easy method is never making a move on any woman ever. I feel bad for the young guys. I went to this language learning event to practice, and they made this big announcement beforehand that women were complaining that the men kept hitting on them. So, one guy says, "Where are we supposed to meet women?" and the group leaders says "Get a hobby you are passionate about and meet them there." I just kind of looked around the room and thought to myself... that's what these poor fuckers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:30 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceThank you for your wonderful description of your fantasy regarding how men feel. Now, let's talk about how men really feel about this topic, because I've dated some really experienced women and a lot of women in other ranges, I've got some good insight into the issue. Most guys focus on body count. But let's say your GF had 9 previous boyfriends, but they were all in committed relationships. How does a guy feel about that? Ok, now let's say she's only been with 1 guy, but that guy is an NFL play… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursWell, you kind of failed the first blue pill test. How about... please explain your general idea on what makes a man attractive to women in general? Not any one particular woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursI've never met one who was worse off from coming out and working with us. We all got better. If the science is so helpful, what studies did you find helped you the most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursOk. I understand why you have come to this conclusion. Reddit is not the source of the Red Pill. The version you find here has always been mocked and jeered in Red Pill circles. The core reason being it was created and run by people who had been kicked out of the traditional Red Pill community. Also, technically anyone who believes that there is anything in existence like the Patriarchy by defiition cannot be Red Pilled. That's a black pill belief. A core Red Pill belief is to entirely reject th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursI'd invest that money so fast! But yeah... I don't feel like many women would be happy with the bulk of the domestic chores no matter what else her husband does. Personally, I think I'd rather clean the house than pay the bills, but no matter how much I have, I'm a cheap bastard at heart so every penny out the door is painful to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursI'm Red Pill, but give me your relationship any day! When you have a stay at home wife and kids you are taking care of... there is a lifestyle sacrifice that comes with that. Also, there is this kind of fear of what happens if for some reason you become unable to work, or just outright die. I think this is why so many of the stay at home mom's I know have degrees and are able to jump into the workforce if required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursThere is some truth to that. This is technically a Red Pill framing, it's just like you said, the majority of Red Pill guys let the bias get to them. Black Pill would just assume you have Looks, Money, Status. However, that wasn't always the case. Most of Red Pillers have a really easy time dating now. What was the most key insight that allowed you to succeed easily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:29 PM |
| 3 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursTruth, Justice, and the American way? I think the core question you need to answer in order to be Blue Pill is "Are women oppressed in society?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursBlue Pill is not just whatever isn't Red. It's the default view of western society and holds a women are wonderful viewpoint, and a men oppress women viewpoint. There are other things baked into that, but those are the key things Red Pill diverges with them on. So, while there is no Muslim country in the world that is Red Pilled, they are not blue pilled either. If you think that your average follower of Islam is blue pilled, then go to Afghanistan and tell the Taliban they need to give women eq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsIf you take the US as a whole, you are going to get a low percentage just by being Asian. Go to Asia and suddenly your demographic situation is reversed. I think it's important to have some standards, but the more shallow those standards are, the less happy you are going to be. My experience with dating is that women who are very interested in me because I check off all their boxes, also seem to be the ones who are willing to put up with the most unreasonable amount of bullshit that I tend to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Already did 8 years ago, she still cheated. Ok. I'm curious. How did this occur? I will share I also have some experience with this, but my xWife is very good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 04:08 AM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Like, feminism 101 lecture, the first ten minutes, would effortlessly and easily explain how a male farm worker and a queen can exist under a patriarchy. Not just are your attempts at arguing against it answered, they are answered at the level that literal children would understand. I'm listening. Please explain how I am incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 04:06 AM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Notice I said multiple fields of study. They include medicine, psychology, sociology, anthropology, gender studies etc. Patriarchy is identifiable and measurable in all of those fields and more. Which you'd know if you weren't scared of the word. No serious researcher would use this term in a paper. Belief in Patriarchy is a quasi-religious belief indicating the stupidity of the person writing it. That said... feminism is extremely popular and en-vogue. I have no doubt that people of low intelle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 03:04 AM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?I am glad to hear a man say this. Men need to hear this repeatedly. Actually we need to beat them over the head with it until it sinks in. Our culture needs to stop evaluating women entirely based on looks. It's self defeating and stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:58 AM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?All my personal life experience is evidence that there is no difference in (shitty) treatment of avg men between 9s, 6s and pretty much any other number. If you are a 3 then a 6 and a 9 will seem to treat you the same. Stick to women who are 3s just like you. If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, then make an ugly woman your wife... A wonderful song. Look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:53 AM |
| – | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?It’s not at all selfish for women to not wish to be at the mercy of a man. They will always be at the mercy of a man. Virtually all of the negative life effects women face have increased exponentially over the interceding decades. Rape alone is up 300% or more. The independence women have today is a false vision. I knew those older generations, they had more power and control over their lives than most women today who are wage slaves and primary care givers. This is the great joke of the women's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?You obviously know by now that anyone who still considers you a slightly serious person could just go to wikipedia and see the multiple disciplines and decades of research validating it as a concept and prove you wrong. Are you trying to claim gender studies as a serious discipline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?The death of local community and extended family support make being trapped in a house with a bunch of kids and chores a death sentence for a woman's soul. I know a ton of women in this situation and they are absolutely thriving, because their community is not dead. It's the working women who are struggling the absolute most in my experience. I've got one neighbor who has 5 kids and doesn't work. She is busy, social, happy, and all of her kids are thriving. She is also Ukrainian. My other neighb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Women don’t need to prove themselves in order to be appreciated Yes they do. They need to be pretty. Do not envy women because they get a false sense of value and that thin skin often limits their life in big ways. My suggestion is to take testosterone supplements. A few months of that and you will feel much better. Also check your hemoglobin levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Yes, the feminists were right decades ago when they pointed out the myriad of ways that the patriarchy was actively harming men too. Decades ago men weren't struggling en masse the way they are now that dipshit feminists run everything. The "Patriarchy" is a bogeyman that doesn't exist and never has existed. It's just a way to attack men in general and try to tear down the system with no intelligent thought as to what comes next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?Life sucks, but it sucks for everybody. People have more important shit to do than sit around philosophising about what their gender means to them. Shit that means they get the freedom to just be whatever they are without worrying about it. This isn't really true. There is an entire class of people who sit around and get paid insane money to write up this bullshit. Usually they teach gender studies classes at university and these chattering fools drive most of the beliefs people have on the topi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Do men generally accept the social blueprint of men given to us by society and are happy about it?The social blueprint for men is: sacrifice yourself, have something of value to society, work like mad and only then can you feel worthy enough and confident enough to go after hot girls. The core trait that society wants from you as a man is submissiveness. Jettison that shit immediately and then the rest of your life begins work out. Also... this obsession with "hot girls" is juvenile. A woman who is a 6 and treats you like you have value is worth an army of 9s and 10s who treat you like an ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | The Kanye West situation proves that women will get together with known abusers and narcissists if they're high value enoughThat's a pithy way to put it... but in my vast experience stupidity isn't the main female trait that leads to this. It's usually emotional issues, or a need to outcompete other women. Also... women who have a strong need to feel safe. In short there are a lot of pathways that lead to bad men. On the other hand, the pathway to becoming a bad man is usually driven by massive egos and a desire to control others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | The Kanye West situation proves that women will get together with known abusers and narcissists if they're high value enoughYou lost the argument, so you change the definitions? That is lame. Let me quote Websters: Mr. Nice Guy noun informal: a man who treats people kindly : a nice man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Oh no doubt. At the end of the day the most important thing is how you make her FEEL Oh... Ladies beware there is a Red Pill man still lurking on the server! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Of course that was years ago. The 2000‘s were incredible looking back now. I was 19 in 2000 and already married. I didn't get divorced until 2007. I did most of my dating from 2007 to today and I'm on a fucking roll brother! Today is better than ever if you have game. The competition is just not around, and the ladies are sluts like never before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.If they instinctively know this. Then why didn’t she know this 💀💀💀 Because women lie about this shit all the time! Don't you get it? Women spend all their time worried about what other people think. You probably do too, so you should be able to relate. They know it's socially unacceptable to say that violent, dangerous assholes make them wet and nice polite men make them dry as the sahara. Much easier to talk about looks, because on some level that feeds their low self esteem AND turns off the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?I didn't notice this very much until I was living in Asia. I was on a half year work assignment and the Ex Pats had this as a topic. It was only then that I started really looking and realizing it has some truth... especially for the Australians. I'd see fit men dragging around horrifically overweight girlfriends in Asia where all the women are petite and beautiful. It further highlights the masculine actions and general grossness of the women from our countries. Slovenly, fat, narcissistic, slu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Damn right, and that’s exactly what I do, growing on a woman is for simps. All attraction is based in emotion. All of it. The feminists understand this. If every wealthy man, every popular athlete, all media outlets showed a preference for giant fat obese women... this is what you would lust after regardless of how unhealthy it is. The tiny fraction of attraction that is connected to real life stuff would not change. You will always like younger, and more symmetrical faces, but most of the rest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.I do, forget all that. I refuse to have to “ grow” on a woman That's because you think like a woman. You want to be pretty and have lots of attention. Fuck that shit. Black pill is for low effort lazy useless losers. People who desire to be the indulgent wastrel sons of nobility rather than industrious successful men. People like this have existed since the first age. I'd much rather have a woman attracted to who I am than How I look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.redpill doesnt work unless you're already physically attractive, kinda defeats the whole purpose. This is something fools tell themselves in order to justify not doing anything. I've got red pill friends that date way out of their own physical league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 12:56 PM |
| – | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanBut, like you mentioned, often it doesn't work out that way, even if you're cool with it. You can't stop other guys from "splitting up the band" when they get distracted or jealous or competitive, unfortunately, so things can fall apart even if you, personally, are the most asexual, aromantic, inert, stoic, unphased person to ever exist on this planet. I wish more guys understood this. Part of the issue is that because we don't talk about it, a lot of guys just don't realize it's happening or th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.I thought genuine physical attraction created the best outcomes. At the end of the day your money could be taken away, your status could be taken away, but only time or a horrific accident can take your looks away. The best outcome for what? Being a hardass is ten times better outcomes than being handsome. I'm sorry but if you look at history, the best looking men spent most of their time bent over taking hot anal dickings from the meanest nastiest mutherfucker around. Women instinctively know t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanThe reason women are rebelling against that is because there is always a group of socially regarded, uncalibrated men who spoil it for everyone. What I've found is that as the nice polite and intelligent men stop approaching women publicly... it's like a massive drop in competition. Seriously... I'm not going to stop. My success rates are unbelievable now days. I used to hit up 30 women to get 1 or 2 numbers. Now it's like 5 women and instead of a number it's a guaranteed date most of which turn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanWell, that and the fact it messes with the dynamic, so the other half of the people you used to hang out with are now dripping off that woman's arms wishing/hoping/praying they're going to end up with her somehow and be the "winner", and it feels like she's just destroyed the group by tempting everybody to compete with each other. I never realized how extremely important male only spaces are until I joined the Red Pill and experienced one. Women absolutely add an element of competition to everyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:49 PM |
| -1 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Just because you didn't get the ban hammer doesn't mean you are correct. You guys absolutely worship at the altar of female physical lust and essentially disregard all other forms of attraction. In the Red Pill we understand all forms of attraction and learn how to manipulate it. End of the day, I don't give a shit what kind of attraction gets a woman to bang. I've had women that thought I was mediocre and ugly, but after fucking she becomes obsessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.I came of age in the late 90s early 2000s. So when I heard “don’t approach women” I knew it was bullshit. I knew it really meant “don’t approach women if you’re not attractive, but if you are attractive keep approaching. You never know. I've scored with women that were so far out of my league that it still blows my mind years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:09 PM |
| 14 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Like Magic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10Or that money and success made women horny? In the past being a physician meant that you were smart and that you had a high paying job. Today a lot of physicians are dumber than nurses... heck some are dumber than the patients they serve. The pay is bullshit compared to what it used to be. The smart guys all go into dentistry or vet school... or specialize into surgeons after med school. The smart women become doctors in a high paying specialty then only work part time. The average female physic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.Guys with rizz hook up with girls I'm going to overlook the ridiculous slang term and point out that Charisma is not the defining factor aggressiveness is. I've always been blessed with a great personality. Being chubby, nerdy, and poorly dressed meant I didn't exist to women in high school. In college I was captain of my sports team, super popular, and primarily got dates based on my physique. Still didn't hook up with any girls because I had zero aggressiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateAnother day, another fundamental misunderstanding of the term Nice Guy. It does not mean -I repeat- It does not mean “someone who is a good person.” It refers to someone who puts on an air of niceness until they don’t get their way. It doesn't mean that. It has never meant that. When men talk about "nice guys" they are using the real fucking definition, not your Urban Dictionary feminist bullshit. Look, if you try to change the defintion of a word its because you totally and complete lost. It me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateA couple points. First... this very likely was not an English boy who did this. I expect some Paki or something. Second, women need to carry a gun and know how to use it. How many fucking adults probably just watched this shit go down being scared pussies afraid to take action? A bus driver with a gun would have put this rabid dog down pretty quick. Even more... if this fool knew there were guns around him he probably wouldn't have stabbed anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateOK, do you have any suggestions for that? How is that risk ever going to go away? Carry a gun dipstick! Some fool pulls a machete on you... clearly the weapon of choice for your average English boy... and you put a few 9mm rounds in him. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:44 PM |
| 8 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateNo argument about mental illness but this is basically the most extreme manifestation of the Nice Guy TM trope What do you want to bet that this wasn't some nice English boy? The UK media always lies and covers this shit up. I've been to parts of the world where it's not that uncommon to stick a knife in a girl who turned you down. Then you just pay her father X number of goats and it's all cool. England has been importing shit tons of these assholes. So your conclusions are just stupid. I actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:42 PM |
| – | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachProbably depends on what you mean by “useless whores”. In a lot of developing countries, gold diggers are more common because of poor economic prospects and traditional values. Selling duty sex for money is pretty whorish. I've been to those places. Thailand for example abounds in whores, they just aren't useless. I’d caution you about assuming that marrying young means a woman is high quality, or that high quality women always marry young. Some high quality women avoid marrying young because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:33 PM |
| – | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachYou seem to be suffering from it here, by assuming that the women who chase after horrible men are all sweet wonderful wife material. Why are so many red pill guys so enamored of the women who made terrible life choices? Why do so many guys online want the kind of woman who consistently makes very very unsafe decisions to be the mother of their children? This is actually a fantastic point. Maybe it's just our percentage of useless whores is significantly higher than other countries. I can answer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:31 AM |
| 11 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachYou can just be an actually kind person and people will often respect you for it — it’s a great method for making friends that you don’t ever fuck! And it’s great to be kind to women you do want to fuck! What’s often criticized, rightly, is guys being “nice,” and pretending to be her friend, merely because they’re hoping it will let them get into a girl’s pants. If you sit and study history, you will find that virtually always great men are not nice. In fact I believe Lord Acton once said that "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachOne of the biggest issues with our culture and it's primarily an inherited issue from generations past, is that we cannot seem to break away from the belief that women are naturally perfect. Now, combine that with the fact that we now treat boys as if they are evil, and the entire culture works to scare and beat them into submission to women and this basically explains the issue entirely. The women are just as confused and struggling with this as the men are today. You take your average 20 year … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachMost people are nice to other people without expecting anything in return. This is foolishness. I can tell you from experience that the reason nice guys talk about this is because they are baffled by female behavior due to blue pill beliefs. A blue pill guy with a girlfriend is not going to understand why her friends are all chasing after this guy who treats them like shit and punches them in the face. He won't understand why his GF cheats on him. The whole "nice guys" talk about this shit becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: average people are attracted to other average people and aboveAnd yet there are still tons of “below average” guys in relationship. 🤷🏻♀️ There are also tons of WAY below average women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?Um... from 18-32, I was a super snob about weight. I wouldn't date any women who were carrying a bit extra. About age 33 I decided to date a woman who was thick, but with a really beautiful face. The whole experience was so awesome, I changed my outlook entirely. It's not something I care about now when dating women. Obviously there is an upper limit, but even that is going up over time. I did a lot of thinking about it and I know what made the change. I stopped focusing on how things looked and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 41 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Women are on first glance only attracted to the 10/10 guys, according go their preferences. They will make allowances for looks once they see the guy doing things and being a person. Common examples of things that men do that women find attractive: While I don't disagree... if you look a women's fantasy romance it's damn near always them chasing the Prince or some shit. Not that many princes around. Male fantasy is much more possible for average women to step into that role. Also... there is thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:05 PM |
| -1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.This whole "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" is cope. Women are the gatekeeps of sex and of long term commitment. Depends on the culture and laws of the specific country. Cultures that expect women to have families, and don't use government threats of violence to push men down and steal money from them to give to women... in these places men are absolutely the gatekeepers of relationships. You just don't realize how hard Western Governments are actively fucking men over economically unt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:59 PM |
| – | What women like vs what men think they likeI'm 5'3" & 112 lbs In my experience it's MORE common for emotionally healthy women to like feminine features in men longer into adulthood. These are not the girls who chase after badass biker guys. Umm.. I feel like it's hard to rate myself cuz I'm just me lol but I did ask a friend once & they said a 7. Not sure if that rating was inflated by them being my friend or not. I don't really believe in the whole numbered rating system. You can watch the younger guys try to build categories and then p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What women like vs what men think they likeI'm bad at actors names lol but I think my bf's mom's crush is Jason Momoa. Lol He just looks like his face is too big? idk how else to put that, to me. Also he looks too Mediterranean to me. I either like more pale & small almond eyes with the dark hair or else dark hair (or light hair/light brown hair), tan or pale is fine, & blue or green eyes. How would you rate your own level of attractiveness? Scale of 1 to 10? I'm just curious because in a lot of women, how you see yourselves can greatly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What women like vs what men think they likeYeah... that guy is not effeminate. Also he is not very threatening either. There is going to be a reason you like this type of guy. Just think about it for a while and it will come to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Unchecked capitalism allows for monopolies. "Checked" capitalism means the government would step in and prevent monopolies. Do you remember how in the early 1900s the government was all about "trust busting" and breaking up big companies? Well... the companies figured out a way around the law and 100 years later they just sleeze around sliding right under the requirements. People both left and right hate it, but we can't get the political system to do anything about it because they have us naile… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.so it leads to being confused when advice from previous generations don't pan out. Dunno, my parents didn't know shit. For them you grow up either go to trade school and join a union or go to college and work a job after. They didn't even know how to fill out a resume. It's still like that for the blue collar guys my father trained. The advice they gave me was horseshit... and their lifestyle isn't livable anymore. I knew that by age 10, so I busted my hump in school while a lot of others played… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What women like vs what men think they like😂 I'm not scared of men. My bf used to do ju jitsu & I've wanted us to sign up for kickboxing together. & I'm 28 yrs old so I'm not that young. Yeah, it's not a bad thing. If anything I would be willing to bet it greatly helps you in dating because you aren't chasing the same guys all the other women are chasing. These things can be quite cultural as well. But yeah... the main reason this happens is women who fear masculinity. We studied the crap out of this back in the day. You see, we were try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:52 AM |
| 0 | What women like vs what men think they likeYou are in the minority... but it's a serious minority. Huge numbers of girls have this... because men scare the shit out of them. They grow out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Feminism doesn’t demonize women from the 1950s. It points out how shitty their lives were, on average. We demonize patriarchal practices of that time and the men who want to return to it for their benefit. Except it wasn't shitty.... it was the absolute best in world history at that time. Feminism has ushered in an era where playboy shitheads are happy and women are the most miserable they have ever been. Trust me... I've living that playboy shithead lifestyle and even at age 40 there seems to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Any serious government would have taken action on REITs after the 2008 collapse. It seems like half of them are run by foreign nationals like the Chinese. What's worse is that the American REITs are the nastiest... they seem to buy up whole zip codes and then jack up the rent by massive amounts. They use their large buying power to get lower rates and out compete normal home buyers... especially in competitive markets. Seriously... my grandfather's generation would never stand for that. Republic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:48 PM |
| -2 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.No. The Nordic models are far more socialist and their income relative to leisure goods is several times higher than the USA and Canada. Hahahaha... No. No. They are WAY more capitalist than we are here in the US. They played around with government control of industry back in the 60s and 70s, but by the 90s they had completely abandoned that. Do not mix up Socialism with Strong Social Safety Nets. One is an economic model, and the other is just a government spending policy! Without regulation, c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.I don't know. I think it's easier than ever to succeed it's just the younger generation is either doesn't understand how to win in this economy or they are just too lazy to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:27 PM |
| -2 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.It's really just unchecked capitalism at work. What exactly do you mean by unchecked capitalism? The problem we have in the US is insane and pointless over-regulation. That is much more indicative of socialism. Actually it reminds me a lot of Nazi style Socialism as explained by Raimon in his seminal work on German economics in the 30s. It's called The Vampire Economy if you ever want to read it. You see... at some point very large corporations begin to make a deal with the government because ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Men back then intentionally subjugated women, were racist, anti LGBTQ, and they had the misguided belief that land should only really be for straight white men. This is 100% ignorant bullshit. Virtually none of this is true because this is the generation that passed civil rights and instituted the Great Society. I don't know where you fools get your stupidity. How do you get this far in life and be this fucking ignorant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:46 PM |
| 4 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Only if your brain isn't working. This person just used your exact same wording... which means... you are the creep. And the obsession with the 1950s makes perfect sense because the US was 50% of the ENTIRE WORLDS GDP during that decade. Also it was the last easily recognizable era before the complete takeover of feminist whores. We have TV and media were you can look back and see how attractive the women were, their hairstyles, speech, mannerisms. You can't do that with the 1850s. It's also tru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityI don't understand the waiter thing, what are we supposed to do? Scream across the restaurant, chase them down, go get our own food? This set of advice is actually very specific to dates 1-3. It only applies when you openly attempt to solicit attention from a waiter/waitress and get ignored. It's not that big of a deal, but it shows the level of detail we Red Pill guys go into when doing dates. We tend to think about and obsess over every little detail... and while most of it is unnecessary it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Yeah until they go after your social network, job, or reputation. Remember West End Caleb? This guy was not cold approaching. Dude was exclusively using dating apps. Also... this was mostly women getting pissed because he ghosted them, not because he fucked them hard and left them wanting more. Listen, being a player naturally insulates you from the bullshit women pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Love is Simping for Someone Who Has SimpedThey try to deny this reality as much as possible, but when that proves impossible they dismiss these guys as simps. The term has been in use among the African American community for a long, long time. It's a combination of the words Sissy and Pimp. The Red Pill picked up the term when there was a huge influx of black men joining the Red Pill back in the 2008-2010 time period. Frankly... that was one of the deepest and most difficult times within the Red Pill community as the introduction of new… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Love is Simping for Someone Who Has SimpedNo, that isn't really what love is... and the simple reason is that love can be expressed in a great variety of ways and for a great variety of reasons. Mutual simping... That really just sounds like two emotionally crippled people using one another as crutches. Let me explain the difference. For me, if I really love a woman I will do nice things for her because I want to do it. Example... waking up early to make her a lunch to pack, because I know her day is going to be super busy and she won't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:11 AM |
| 6 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?Your best option is to just ignore what the shrill bitches say and do whatever the fuck you want anyway. Cold approaches work better than ever in 2023. Fact! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:40 AM |
| – | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westIt’s only a subset of men, and in my experience those who unsurprisingly end up being relatively unsuccessful with women. It's basically all straight men. The ones who don't notice are either gay or just pretending for social convention. I mean look, if some lady walks around with her tits hanging out... YES every fucking straight guy is going to notice. Why does she do it in the first place? Do you think she needs to air them out or something? These women know what they are doing. The idea that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:37 AM |
| – | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westWhat? How? I'm so out of this loop. I'm seeing it all the time. Soft Femboys who aren't gay, but definitely not masculine at all... just claiming to be women and then taking female privileges. Wanna better stay in prison? Call yourself a woman and then get transferred to the women's prison where it's an all you can rape buffet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to save menI think I went pretty hard on both of these useless sacks of garbage. Want me to call him some lame pencil dick loser? His wife already did that. LOL. What's more to say? The fucker looks like the bathroom wall at a truck stop. Some tattoo artist drew a cock and balls on his neck as a joke and the dipshit hasn't noticed yet. Are we to take such people serious? Are we to care about their lives? Most of us can't even jerk off to their porn it's so fucking bad. I don't even really care about them b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:29 AM |
| -1 | The interesting-cunning hypothesisThat's why a lot of women are choosing to be single instead of settling. No, we are still fucking them. They just gave up on actually getting what they want and are so fucking stupid they are convincing themselves that what we want is what they want. The female hamster is unbelievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Stop trying to save menAdam 22 was literally sleeping with like 500 other women and doing porn with them EXACTLY.... he's crap. He probably paid his wife to say this shit just to stir up controversy and turn it into publicity for their shitty sex shows. She fucking calls herself Lena "The Plug"... which is about as sexy as a cup of Metamucil. Frankly... The message that needs to come out here is that nobody should be paying to watch this trashbag with a cavernous vag fuck anything. She made some stupid comment about b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Safe men can change. Safe women can change. It will ALWAYS be a risk. Naw, people don't really change. What happens is that you just got wrapped up in your fantasy and never bothered to learn who you are actually dating. I mean every guy whose GF went from loving and caring to cold and frigid after they got married just didn't bother to get to know her beforehand. Now, people do grow a bit... and I say grow because it fits the situation much better. It's slow and generally always in a known dire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westYou mean Fuck Yeah! Gen Z dudes got this shit figured out and are about to play jiujitsu with feminist double standards and bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Does your attraction towards a specific man decrease if you notice more attractive man/men in the same environmentWell he was "fired" today, because he's hit on every woman in the office, so Everyone but you? I don't know whether I should be sorry for you or happy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westAnd guys who have that and don’t grow out of it or acknowledge they are wrong and change are walking red flags. So all straight men are red flags? Hahaha! How ludicrous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:15 AM |
| -3 | Q4M: What lessons are you taking away from the Jonah Hill text leaks?What do you learn? These bitches need to sign non-disclosure agreements before dating. I mean look I'm not a celebrity and I'm not trying to date celebrities so most of the lessons learned simply don't apply to guys like me. That said... there are definitely times when you need to make women sign legal agreements... because collectively their behavior is atrocious. Every guy who goes into a relationship thinking "this woman is different" is a fool and will be made to suffer for it in the long ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Does your attraction towards a specific man decrease if you notice more attractive man/men in the same environmentIf he bowls me over with charm and make me feel giddy I won't take note of other dudes, but if we're politely talking then he's just another dude, and more attractive men will draw my eye. This is kind of a myopic reply that assumes A LOT of factors in play that rarely are. The truth is that his virtually always matters with most women. With men often times extremely attractive women will intimidate a portion of the men and it will actually increase his attraction to average looking women. Howev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Does your attraction towards a specific man decrease if you notice more attractive man/men in the same environmentHe’s awkward as hell, never smiles, and is weird around women. He’s the only man in a group of 7 young, active, and agreeable women, and none of us want to chat with him. He's just not attracted to any of you... which given the generally low bar most men have... he probably feels stuck in the dogpound. It's also possible he could be gay, but then he would probably see you as potential hags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?Women in the US would just simply stop getting married. If they were going to be bang-maids that can't leave its better to get a job and have a kid on your own then deal with a man. LOL... No, they would do the same thing women in other countries do. They would work hard to get a quality "safe" guy, and then put effort into keeping him. On the same token the man would put lots of work into being the type of guy who is safe and who takes care of family and responsibility. I mean really what we ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westWhat would happen if a man used the exact same outfit? He would just call himself a woman and then appropriate all of that priveldge. Nobody would be able to say shit to him without getting fired and having a mob burn down thier house. Welcome to the 2020s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?IT'S HIS FUCKING HOME TOO. THEY ARE HIS FUCKING KIDS TOO. Have you ever been in a relationship? When a woman is highly attracted to me, I don't have to do anything. Literally, nothing, just provide the D. I've been there and done that. When a woman is not extremely attracted to me... I get treated like a personal manservant. I've been there and done that. Most relationships either I have a higher standard of clean or she does and fights always revolve around that issue. I see #3 being the most c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 0 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westPPD men will claim you’d always want to have sex with her because she wears certain type of clothing. It's the involuntary mental association between immodest dress and easy sex. Even boys raised in nudist colonies have this issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westI think you are missing my overall argument. The fact that you see normal Western clothing to be a sexualization of women IS the red flag. No, this is totally incorrect. The clothing styles are absolutely hypersexualized and recognizing that isn't a red flag... in fact being normalized to it is a red flag. I took my daughter to a water park last month and she saw a fucking 8 year old girl in a thong bikini. It was fucking disgusting! But nobody says anything because we are trying to normalize pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 09:38 PM |
| 0 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?It depends on the country and area, but the number in the US is around 25%. The whole thing where women bitch that a man doesn't do enough household work is bullshit. It's just a statement that they think whatever guy they are currently with isn't attractive enough. You are going to find that the lower the level of attraction a woman has for the man, the more she wants him to do shit in order to get even basic levels of intimacy. Again... this is mostly a thing for the English speaking cultures.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?Sadly it seems so many just give up. It's a choice they make. I think many of them didn't really enjoy sex to being with and the hormonal changes just give them the excuse they need to bail on it entirely. I actually have known some Muslim women who do their best to gain weight in the hopes thier husbands will leave them alone. One friend in particular from Iran taught me about this... LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?Haha... you are WAY above average. However, it brings up an interesting point. While women like you are not common, most men don't realize it because they cannot place your age correctly. I'm sure there are some women I've met in the 45-55 category who are hot and sexy... I just assume they are 35-45. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?American women aged 45-55 are generally fat and frumpy. Most of them in my experience want very little to do with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:04 PM |
| -4 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedI think he was being self absorbed about it, if your "boundaries" are your partner's entire career and social circle and media presence which you knew about beforehand, you should recognize you're the problem and not your partner That's 100% on HER not him. He clearly communicated what he wanted and she accepted. Using the term misogynist to describe him today is bullshit. It's basically this bitch saying a misogynist is whatever she dislikes... it's just stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:00 PM |
| -1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?I agree. Women aren’t just baby making machines but men here seem to think so. This is their primary biological function. Arguing that it's not is just fucking stupidity. In most societies in history a woman's value was directly correlated with her ability to produce children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakWhen you look at the casual sex market, sure it seems like women have it better. But this isn't what most people need... and when you really look at the relationship market the average woman is absolutely fucked. The problem is a collapse in male quality combined with an increase in female pickiness for DIPSHIT traits. So at the same time that quality men are more rare... women are hyper focusing on useless shitty men with high masculinity traits. This has led to women becoming more unhappy than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is is true that being a single mother penalizes a woman more than dating than being a single father does for men?Idk, I know some single dads and they aren't exactly a catch tbh. When I was 22 I was like "I gotta get on that single dad action". Never happened, kept dating childless men. When you are 22 this is true. When you are 32 it's less true, and by 42 the childless men are generally weird fuckers or terrible assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Virginia is going NoFap* tomorrow! Can we speculate to repercussions to the SMP/RMP?Highly doubt people who will be strongly affected by lack of porn are just going to go on dates They might start looking at their wives or girlfriends again... So the biggest impact will be on partnered men who don't know how to get around the ban... ie... older or flat out stupid men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:42 PM |
| – | CMV: Too Many Sexual Experiences Ruins Sex for WomenThat's applicable to both men and women. 100% agree. It's just that men are a bit easier to please. Again, that goes for men too. If you're not compatible sexually then why would you even want to force it? These men and women who enjoy casual sex will eventually find a partner that works for them or they won't. It doesn't affect me so I could not care less. It does blow my mind that incels would rather control women than just simply look for someone more compatible to be with. Eh... sexual compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:09 PM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?No it most certainly isn't. Older fathers have less attractive children, are more likely to have autistic, schizo and disabled children, there's nothing 'junk science' about that. That is also junk science. The average age of the mother was 42. An 18 year old woman who has a child with a 45 year old man has virtually zero chance of birth defects. The chance of miscarriage increases a bit if the man is over 50. The chances of having autistic and schizo children are not appreciably affected by eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 07:48 PM |
| – | CMV: Too Many Sexual Experiences Ruins Sex for Womencounterpoint: this is the exact opposite of my experiences also, this is obviously super made up and nit at all how female sexuality works, but just logically why would sex 1000 times with 100 men affect your ability to orgasm and sex 1000 times with 3 men not? Yes, it's very made up. However, that doesn't mean it's entirely wrong. We can see see from studies that more sexual partners for women equals less overall satisfaction with their current partner. Think of it like this... It's easy to go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:07 PM |
| – | CMV: Too Many Sexual Experiences Ruins Sex for WomenYes. In fact, the women in your example who has sampled more variety is less likely to be stuck in her ways and only able to orgasm from specific, learned techniques. That's not accurate. Women who sleep around a lot are more likely to know exactly what they want and be unwilling to do anything they already think they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyI never claimed they were. It must be taken as a matter of faith. That's bullshit. LOL... you are rejecting the very basis for modern wokeness. Guess i'm both then. I think that I am beginning to really like you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 15 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousAre men not happy single? It depends. Women generally come with big obligations and costs. If you can get what you need outside of a relationship, most guys are actually happier... until they want a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosSo when is your plane flight booked? Have you even applied for a passport? Do it do it do it, if it is so very excellent do it. Hahaha! I've lived in over 30 different countries. The only reason I'm in the states at the moment is because of work, and my daughter. If you ever need the hookup for dudes that need green cards, just let me know. I suggest Kenyan men as a starter. Very polite, very willing to please in most aspects of a marriage, the only downside is they are virtually guaranteed to v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:33 PM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?I'm a woman lmao you're so off LOL. Ok got it. We aren't talking about nonces and 35 is utter delusion, testosterone starts going down in late 20s and sperm quality starts declining at 35. This stuff about sperm quality is mostly junk science. It's like a lottery ticket probability stuff. Sperm have to run a marathon in order to fertilize the egg. Turns out the chance that low quality sperm survive the journey is like winning lottery ticket percentages. So what you are saying is that it's just m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:24 PM |
| 13 | When guys claim their only problem is the lack of sex, we should believe them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be so obsessive about not getting laid.This is actually a deep and intelligent question. The vast majority of men in the Red Pill generally follow a similar trajectory. First, they want sex, so they learn how to deal with women and achieve that. Over time most find this doesn't fill their need. They begin to work on career goals and some kind of financial goal attainment. Then they find that does satisfy their need either. Then they start looking for a wife to begin a family with... and from what I see... this makes them feel what th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingYou attract what you are. Be a shit person, attract shit partners. The purpose of a relationship is more than just naughtiness and power dynamics. True, but perhaps not in the way you currently think of it. Often times opposites attract and the greater an asshole you are the more you will attract nice people. Being an asshole will only get you so far, and hooking up and having absolute shit, short-lived relationships with women who didn't have the standards to stay away from that blatant toxicit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosYes it is, because that's what I've been talking about this whole time and you responded to my comment. That's crazy, because nobody goes overseas looking for basic personality traits. Not once do you hear a guy say something like "I'm going to Russia because the women there are more INTJ." No, they list off cultural behavioral traits... like they take care of themselves, and they value kids, a man who works, and marriage. How did you get off on such an odd tangent? Of course it does. But human … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:50 AM |
| 4 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingThis is foolishness. People who hate the other gender succeed all the damn time. It's not what is in your heart... it's how you present that to other people. Being a misogynistic asshole works like magic on women. Every rapper in the world knows how this works. Every football team in the US is packed with men to talk like women are sex toys... and women throw themselves at these assholes. Why? Because they don't sit around pissing and moaning. Act like you are the shit and women are dirt under y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:44 AM |
| 0 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosPeople in every country have their share of generational trauma. Children in every country face their fair share of abuse. I think you are just thinking of this in an odd way... like in terms of clinical diagnosis or something. That's not the thing at issue here. Yes or No. Does culture impact human behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?Huh? You will know in time young buck. So do most older men, plus younger men are hotter Epstein would tell you women are hottest at age 14.... I think it's more like 35. This is a thing of opinion, not fact. If you think you look best as a young man, well.... only time will tell. When you are older you may change your mind. Until then, just be happy with what you are and what you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:57 AM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?Afterwards I couldn't piss and was standing in her toilet for like ten minutes before anything came out lmao I wish my muscles were still that strong! Now I fucking dribble all over the place for like 20 minutes after peeing. But seriously... those pee boners are not good. A woman mistakes that for morning wood and starts getting frisky... and all I can think is... LET ME PEE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyhow are they being discriminated against? How are black people being discriminated against? If you can measure a difference, then that difference MUST come from discrimination. If you can't accept this idea on faith, then you aren't American... or are some kind of racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:50 AM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?Yeah the first time I had sex I made her cum from head which felt pretty awesome. But I really needed to piss so the actual sex was so-so lmao Hahaha... I tried to hold it one time and wound-up pissing inside a woman. There was this really awkward moment where I tried to convince her she was squirting. In my own defense... I was fairly drunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosThat's why you now have American men, especially the "Digital Nomads" coming to Portugal to try and find a wife. Ah... yes Portugal is good for Wife Hunting. However, if you just want sex... you are almost better off in Iran. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosPortuguese women liberal and not hypergamous lol , Spanish are more liberal but are almost the same in the hypergamous front ( Portuguese man who lived in Spain) Portuguese women are damn hard for foreign men. They are actually HARDER than American women, but also higher quality generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:56 PM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?NFL boring It has it's moments. Jokes aside I am pretty bad at sex so fair Hey... You are miles ahead of me. I was terrible, but thought I was the worlds greatest. I was married at the time. Once while making love... in perhaps the 26th or 27th minute I looked at my wife and she was literally just staring at the clock... like she couldn't take her eyes away from it. Afterwards I kept thinking... maybe that's why she never seems horny. Hahahaha... I started trying to get better after that. First … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:52 PM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?This is just shit that older guys say to put younger men down lol and we see right through it. LOL... one day you are going to be older. Then you are going to look back and think "Why did I think I was so great?" Most young men learn 95% of what they know from porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:46 PM |
| – | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?I suspect you arent' a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:44 PM |
| 0 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosNo, I'm saying who people are on the inside is the same. Narcissism, emotional empathy, cognitive empathy, self awareness. I think you're conflating personality with cultural differences. A narcissist from a traditional culture isn't going to be vastly different to be with than a narcissist from a progressive culture when it comes to personality, to how they treat you, how happy they are, etc. It's the same thing in different "packaging." In the US... our entire culture is narcissistic. We actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:43 PM |
| 5 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosI keep seeing posts like this insinuating a large percentage of women showing outrage over the passport bros movement and I'd love to see examples of this. Um... There isn't widespread outrage if you want to be honest. Although your average woman doesn't like or trust the trend... they also don't think that much about it. American women don't think about shit that deeply. But if you really think about it... the high end white women don't care because all men chase them. The average white women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosCome back in ten years and tell us how that lovely Thai girl who totes worked in an office somewhere not a bar went. This has been done and the results are very good. I mean if you bother to look at the statistics 11% of men have married women from other countries, up from 2% in 2000. This number is going to go sky high in the future. Better get used to the idea of chasing broke ass 3rd world dick.... likely from a country where kicking your ass for disrespect is normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:14 PM |
| 6 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosUkrainian women or any other women abroad are no less likely to be bad people, to be narcissistic, or mean, or good people, kind, or loving etc. Incorrect. The percentages of women with nice personality traits is MUCH higher in other countries. Unfortunately, this also applies to men. The difference is that American women aren't looking for hard working men with good personalities from other countries. They will go down to Jamaica and rent a dred for a week... but that's it. When you go abroad t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?My boyfriend spent his early twenties as cougar bait and rarely hooked up with women his own age or younger. Ah... One of those guys. Most friend groups have at least one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?Do people prefer to watch Pro football, or Pee Wee League football? I mean women basically prefer men within the 25-35 age range as optimul for sex. The guys under 25... they don't know what they are doing, even the guys with lots of experience. I mean my cousin probably shagged 50 girls in high school and if any of them ever had an orgasm, I promise you it was by accident. I remember at a party he started having sex with this girl in his car, and she was drunk enough she needed to puke... so sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | PPD women be like:I also know quite a few white men here that are 10-30 years in with their Thai wives where that isn’t the case & they are just long term happily marrieds. I know a guy who is like 5'4" chubby and older who married a Thai woman who is 5'3", chubby and about 6 years younger than him. They have 2 kids and seem really happy living in the US. Honestly, she isn't very pretty, but neither is he. Here is the thing... Thai ladies like economic security and hard working dudes... they will take a pass on s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.Elliot Rodger also called himself the ultimate gentleman. And the guys in r/NiceGuys also call themselves nice guys act like sleaze bags and say terrible things to women. If you were a nice guy and you went PUA/Red Pill... then you likely were a nice person. If you went black pill.... it's pretty sure you were never nice to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.That's what people have been saying about incels and nice guys. They're just deranged assholes. Most of them don't have fathers... or are estranged from him. They don't have any major motivations in life. They grew up always getting a participation trophy and being coddled by mommie. They have no guidance, structure, or meaning in their lives. All of these things are stuff we used to make damn sure every boy had... but now we as a society have stripped these things away from them and thrown them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Which pill is better for men with aspergers?They are talking about life philosophies.... it's very appropriate to consider these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How redpillers sound sometimesbut it's morally questionable Meh... I decide for myself what is moral and what is not. The only things that truly matter are what a man CAN do and what a man DOES do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.Who swore up and down that he was a nice guy. I actually tried to read some of his manifesto one time. He had serious mental health issues. I mean there was nothing substantially wrong with how he looked. In my opinion our society turned him into a killer. 50 years ago he would have just grown up to be a regular asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.The question isn't "Why would women rather be with a rapist than me?" The question is "How am I so disgustingly foul that a rapist is seen as a better option than me?" The simple answer is that it's because you aren't giving off enough rapey vibes. Most of us struggled... then we found the red pill. After deciding it's Ok to be an asshole version of myself... suddenly women love me. That's just how it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.Lets look at Elliot Rodgers to find that answer: Because he only wanted hot blonde sorority girls, thought he was entitled to them, threw coffee on women, and barely socialized with people. That doesn't sound like a nice guy.... that sounds like a crazy person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:13 PM |
| 19 | We live in clown world 🤡For better or worse, military guys are some of the most cucked guys on the planet despite meeting many of the metrics for traditional masculinity. Uh... Lets be honest, these guys are banging everything that moves on deployment. They marry trailer trash girls at ridiculously young ages 18 for the benefits. Also... 95% of the time when a military wife cheats... it's with another military guy. These dudes are banging each others wives constantly. It's not like these ladies are going to run out to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:11 PM |
| 3 | PPD women be like:they don’t care how ugly, fat, racist or gross she is, as long as she’s white, that’s all that seems to matter to him lol Some of those guys are good friends of mine, and I can tell you for sure that they do indeed have standards. Just because they don't match up to your standards doesn't make them bad. While I don't advocate shagging Jabba, we should start holding women accountable for much more than how they look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:49 PM |
| 8 | Very fucking equalThe reads the firsthand account of an Islamic scholar who lived through the invasion. The way he describes the cruelty and mass rape... It was shocking 800 years ago and even more shocking today. I can't even imagine such a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Just putting this out there. Traditional women only please.Sex tourism with your daughter what could go wrong? Hahaha! Sex tourism in Vietnam? You must be one of those wierd fucking creeps that goes to Thailand for the hookers. Yeah, come try that shit in Vietnam... I will visit you in prison. LOL... They don't fuck around bro. The sex is going to be mostly you getting jailhouse pounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:43 PM |
| 35 | Very fucking equalSound like you lived through it lol. Listen to the podcast by Dan Carlin WW1. It's fantastic and I think it's free on youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Just putting this out there. Traditional women only please.Hahaha! I'm over here in the United States of Stupid. My family is originally from Scotland... like 300 years ago. I plan to take my daughter back to the old country and play around there in a few years. This year I'm taking her to Vietnam... for a month. LOL... we will basically be touring the water parks and visiting her mom's crazy rich, crazy crazy family. LOL... Her mom declined to go... she can't handle the crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:12 PM |
| 87 | Very fucking equalWW1 was so horrible on the Western Front. I know the war was crazy in other places too... but man the constant shelling. People just don't get how bad this war was to experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:00 PM |
| – | Just putting this out there. Traditional women only please.I’m a virgin that can’t drive and I spend too much on shoes What country do you live in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:57 PM |
| – | Just putting this out there. Traditional women only please.I can only spend $80 on shoes? But the lingerie budget is unlimited! LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Yes, exceptions will be made for the extreme outliers. Always. I was talking about that earlier. White women especially are prone to making those type of decisions for outliers. That's a great way to put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:47 PM |
| 6 | For a subreddit that obsesses over the differences between men and women, guys here act more like females than they think.Ok... LilithOfBabylon... You know I love you. You do sometimes come across as a bit autistic, but your observations are also very good most of the time. Yeah, I think a lot of these guys are too effeminate. Each one of your bullet points is accurate. Especially the part where the guys want a more traditional woman but aren't willing to be more traditionally masculine... which would require getting a solid career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Women: "sexual history doesn't matter". Also women: "your opinion is invalid because you're an inc-l virgin who's never had sex"it was poor coping for a multitude of fucked up situations. This is true for most high N count women. The majority of them are just broken or bonkers. Also... I know you think that you know how your husband feels about your past, but there are simply things you don't say to your spouse. I'd be willing to bet that if I talked to him about it, he would tell me something quite different from what he would tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:I hear you on all counts. Jabba can go through life being Jabba DA KWEEN, and whatever...what kills me about Jabba, though, is that if I don't want Jabba, then I'm a superficial, no good son of a bitch. That's the part that kills me. It's an attempt to control and demonize you... and shit on men like to communicate. Some black men and Asian women have a lot in common. They've been brainwashed to worship whiteness. I think it's likely less of a brainwashing thing and much, much more of a differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:29 PM |
| 0 | How to reignite the spark?It is true what they say about ppd men then. Yeah... It's true our standards are low. But hey, if you are feeling bad about having a little extra... swing by my place after work and I can teach you how to turn the passion on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:24 PM |
| 6 | PPD women be like:Often times they don't have a good answer to why they date their white men other than "Asian man bad bad bad" or "White man good good good!" Everything has to be about race or preconceived stereotypes. They don't like their man as a person. Well... I'm a white guy who lived in Asia for a while, so I've spent a lot of time with these ladies. Most of them aren't really "hot" by asian standards to start with... and also I've noticed a lot of them have terrible issues with their father. Depending on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Y'all pushed us this far.looks like you are speaking from experience of kissing your wife while she's sucking those 10 dicks. bwhaha Haha! That does sound like something I would be willing to do. I've played around with some stuff like this in the past. I played the bull one time with this cuck and his wife. She used to spit my jizz in his mouth afterwards... turned my stomach at first, but after I just learned to ignore it. There's a lot of really creepy dudes out there. also i was mimicking one of those incel dudes lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to reignite the spark?A pig is like that. LOL... I take it you need to lose some weight or something? How about trying the haircut thing first and see if that gets him going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:08 PM |
| – | Mental Health in America.I support LGBTQ rights Me too. The horrible thing about all this is that we know from the EU data that somewhere over 80% of the little boys who are being pushed to cut their dicks off and become women are just gay. The surgeries often lead them to becoming sexually dysfunctional and unable to experience orgasms. They don't tell you that shit at 14. Also... the bearded girls... most of them are autistic or have other very serious mental health issues. They have the highest rate of being unhappy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:06 PM |
| 2 | PPD women be like:I've never encountered a woman shitting on short men outside of an incel's compilation. It's a gendered communication difference. So what of it? Women may express themselves differently, but that doesn't mean they don't feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 10 | PPD women be like:They think they should just be able to wiggle their white fatness around and by virtue of their whiteness Growing up I had this lady who was a neighbor. She literally looked like Jabba the Hutt in a blond wig. Seriously... just like Jabba. I remember the first time she got a boyfriend... former arena league football player. This guy was tall, handsome, jacked... and black as night. To this day I can't imagine what he saw in Jabba. These ladies just live a charmed life now days. I don't sweat it,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:get pumped and dumped by white men Getting banged is fun. Slaving away for your husband's parents is work. If we want to be really serious... most of the asian ladies chasing white guys aren't the ones you want to mess around with anyway. They are just looking for an easier way to live and don't value the culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:48 PM |
| 3 | How to reignite the spark?This sounds like a question that a woman would ask. A man would ask how to get his wife to lose weight or buy fake tits.... something like that. I mean a new haircut can reignite my passion for a woman. Now, when women lose attraction there are usually some specific reasons and those have to be resolved before it comes back. The most common I've seen and experienced is women piling up resentments. Another is simply becoming bored with the guy. When I run into this issue with a woman, I always ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Y'all pushed us this far.Like a true incel would say - how can you kiss a woman who sucked 10 other dicks?? are you gay?? LOL... unless you plan to kiss her WHILE she sucks 10 other dicks... I'd say you are just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Don't tell women to lower their standards, tell them to "skim off the milk fat"I’m not grateful to men for recognising me as an equal human being, same as black people have no reason to be grateful to white men either. Being exposed as corrupt and authoritarian doesn’t put you in the good light you think it does. Black men have no need to feel grateful to white men in general... however, the ones who fought and died to end slavery... they should be very grateful for that. There were something like 3 million slaves in the US at that time. There are currently 3 to 4 million … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:34 PM |
| – | Don't tell women to lower their standards, tell them to "skim off the milk fat"Ever notice how the shittest, poorest countries are also those that are most backwards in their oppression of half their population because they’re obsessed with their penises they’re too infantile to control? Some of those countries have tons of women's rights... so you are missing the bigger picture. Do you think feminism made the west wealthy? It didn't. Christianity is what made the west successful and that wealth is what allowed women to have more freedom and rights. The easier life is, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:30 PM |
| – | Don't tell women to lower their standards, tell them to "skim off the milk fat"But you’re biologically evolved to fight & compete amongst yourselves and simp for sex. LOL... The first statement is correct, the second is not. What’s that last paragraph about? Is that your real desires coming out? You miss when men forced women to do things by brute force and violence? Lol. Tell me again how y’all “protect” women… 🙄 No, I'm pointing out that other cultures men are able to stay unified and impose onerous restrictions on women's lives. Personally... the only change I would mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Y'all pushed us this far.THAT makes perfect sense. Good luck in finding a woman who fits this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Y'all pushed us this far.Technically we want a woman that is easy for us, but impossible for anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Y'all pushed us this far.I hate to brea it to but......she probably wasn't a virgin I considered that once or twice over the years, but I'm pretty sure she was. For one thing her hymen was in tact when we met. Second, her mom and stepfather were insane religious zealots and she had lived with them since 13... and I started dating her at 17 and she lost her V card with me after 4 months of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Y'all pushed us this far.Are you kidding? I take women to the same restaurant all the time! I know the staff and tip like a tech mogul. So... I don't really get your metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Y'all pushed us this far.That's usually a safe bet. Here is my point though. If you want something in a woman then you should look for it specifically. If a guy wants a virgin because he feels like his sexual prowess can't measure up... then he should look for a woman that helps with this issue and not look for markers that may suggest this. Women are terrible at dating because they do this crap. For example... they want a guy that makes them feel safe, so they put height requirements on the men they date. But some tall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Does sexual attraction to Ron DeSantis make me (M44) LGBTQ+?You are probabaly the T part of LGBT... fuck the rest of the letters. Those pricks should find their own movements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Does sexual attraction to Ron DeSantis make me (M44) LGBTQ+?More like a smart fucker. A dumb fucker would be attracted to Trump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 16 | Y'all pushed us this far.It's how many of them are inherently wired. You are probably correct. I have to ask the question, because I without really thinking too hard about it married a virgin. I was a virgin too so it kind of just made idealistic sense to me. Years later she was cheating with other dudes and I divorced her... and she tried to come back multiple times. Long story short is that she claimed being a virgin always left her wondering what other guys were like. That made sense to me because I had the same feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:13 AM |
| 4 | What women mean in words is different from realityYou can have that physique with a good diet, an hour of training a day five days a week, and a good diet. If you are over 40, you might need TRT. Jason Momoa is 43 fool. Caville is over 40 too. I don't understand, where are all the Justin Beiber type teen boys women typically lust over. It's like there has been some celebrity male attractiveness depression. Is Dylan Mulvaney the most masculine person under 30 now or what the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:28 PM |
| 5 | What women mean in words is different from realityAccepting a little bit of body fat makes maintaining an impressive physique an option without making working out or dieting your lifestyle. Eat when you're hungry, eat junk food in moderation, and just lift on a fairly routine basis. This is life's dirty little secret. If you don't want to get too big, then just rep out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:21 PM |
| – | Mental Health in America.The folks funding transgender advocacy are the same Pharma companies that make MILLIONS of each one. Puberty blockers are actually cancer drugs... and they have horrific side effects. They lowered the price specifically so they could go after this new market of gender confused kids... and make millions off them. Actually some of the same companies profiting off the trans kid craze are the same companies that profited from creating opioid addicts!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:15 PM |
| 18 | Y'all pushed us this far.My question is... why do you want a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:11 PM |
| – | The call out postMrdrgree gets a bad rep but she's actually chill as hell. I've seen her be willing to reduce bans pretty often if someone has been polite in modmail/has a mostly clean record. We need to create a MrsDegree Appreciation Post! She's Red Pill as heck and has shown a willingness to put up with my crap that no other moderator ever has! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:54 PM |
| 15 | Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with.At least they're not as morally bankrupt as the women There is a red pill saying that women's morals are like water.... they fit into whatever shape society takes. When you let them set the rules of society... then they will advocate only for rules that benefit themselves and not give a shit about anyone else. This is what you see in out culture today is it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:50 PM |
| – | Don't tell women to lower their standards, tell them to "skim off the milk fat"Women don’t have to do anything, they have the power. You can’t tell women to do anything in west, some simp will 100% accept her for her regardless of how flawed she is, that’s just a fact. Men have abdicated thier power as a group. Look how we divide amongst one another and compete, while women are getting "intersectional". They build this social coalition to push stuff that benifits them onto us, while getting useful idiots to support them. A great example is the gay guys. We keep lumping the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketBig if lol. I’m a nurse and I see a lot of sick men well before 70. The saddest ones are the ones that are alone and no one comes to visit them. Mostly guys who had a family, but that family just doesn't care to visit. I worked in long term care in college. I would see this all the time. These guys just sit and wait to die. Plenty of women in the same situation too. Fact is just our culture is horrible. I realized during that time, you can spend your life dedicated to raising your children well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketbanging random women until I’m too old and unattractive to do it anymore some kind of life win You never get too old unless you think the women you are chasing should never age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 08:15 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeWe sometimes have a tendency to sort of forget that people like that exist when we stereotype left-wing people as universally tattooed, undercut, etc. There has been a huge shift in the last decade or so. Politically liberal people are doing much, much more to "fit in" within their peer groups. It's much less inclusive and much more exclusive than when I was a liberal kid. I think that's why we are tending to forget. I've kind of noticed the under 25 girls... bisexuality is almost a MUST have in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 08:08 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI think we need a more ethical form of capitalism that values people more than money. We need more government control for that though. What you need is less government control. I've been all over the world and if there is one thing that I've learned... it's that government people are the easiest to buy off. The only answer is to limit the powers of government to small and specfic things that are of extreme importance. Well, I have the experience with Russian feminism and currently it's the only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerI was born in Russia and lived there most of my life. Then how do you not know this stuff about Russia? How do you not know the raging issue with alcoholism that is prevalent in men? How do you not know the rates of spousal abuse? How do you not know the history of single motherhood being common? I live in the US. I've spent enough time in Russia and with Russian women to know the difference. You can't be a soft man and attract good women in Russia. As I see it.... the issue with Russia is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:53 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI don't think that current social issues come from egalitarianism. It's capitalism, a lack of education and poverty. We can make it better without enslaving women again. Women were never enslaved. I agree with you though that Gender Egalitarianism is not the issue. Socialism is a waste of time. It only works in small pockets within an overall capitalist system. The main issue is Feminism... which is opposed to gender egalitarianism. Feminism is NOT about equality. Technically it's about making s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingEh, that's hardly a strong argument. That's like rebutting evolution by disproving aspects of Darwin's initial theory while ignoring all of the scholarship and how the theory has evolved since his time. I don't really follow your metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.But the blue pill says it's mainly about personality and behaviour, which both can be masculine. No. Blue pill says that women want men who are nice, polite, and serve them like butlers. Blue Pill says that men should be friends first, that you should respect women's space, that looks and money don't matter to women as much as good personality and niceness... ect. Basically the Blue Pill is closely associated with the sense that women are perfect, traditional masculinity sucks and women can and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:28 PM |
| – | When should you become desperate for marriage?But married people are generally less risky in taking decisions, so it’s relatively hard to take big jumps in your career while married. This is actually horseshit. One of the reasons I am so successful today is because I married at age 20 and instead of wasting my 20's hunting for women... I was able to focus on my career and had a wife to help me. We both were crazy careerists together. I worked and paid for her MBA, which she would not have been able to get without my help with classes and fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerGender ratio got restored in a few generations, so it isn't just due to the loss of male population. Sure, it's getting fucked up again, but we had decades with normal ratio. Still a pretty high share of single mothers. All I can say is that you need to go there and spend some time around the people. The generational trauma is something you can feel. They were starved and brutalized for 80 years under one of the modern worlds nastiest regimes. It's just something I don't think you can understand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:29 PM |
| 7 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI think changing expectation and social norms takes more time and self-reflection than we realize. There are still changes and I can see it even just comparing my and my mother’s generations. This social experiment we are running is going to collapse on itself. Nothing is new under the sun, and these things have in various forms happened before and the results will be the same. Our culture has allowed a group of fools to teach the children to despise the wisdom of past generations and to embrace… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:06 PM |
| – | When should you become desperate for marriage?You should never be desperate. The idea that marriage calcifies your social class is not accurate today. Unless you are from India and this is actually a discussion of the caste system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerWhere did I say that this stuff doesn't matter? It clearly matters to the kids' quality of life and we should keep it and do it. But I don't think social benefits alone encourage women to become single mothers, it's rarely one's planned and willing choice after all. You also can compare it to Russia, where there are no much benefits to single mothers and it's very easy to avoid paying child support, but we have similar numbers of single mothers. Russia is not an example. They have been packed wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Conservative women are happy to wait and prefer a man who keeps his hands to himself until time has passed. These ladies blow us out constantly. We love them because they don't play our games. You would be shocked how often I turn these women into long term friends. Women whose sexual identity is intrinsic to their personality prefer chemistry and physicality. Is sexual identity really the fault line? I find this to be the female default today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:42 PM |
| 13 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.something society knew until recently. It's the fucking blue pill pushing these lies! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 12 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeAt the same time she doesn’t want to play female traditional gender role and it’s just…very curious and I’d say it’s hypocritical. Women like this are the vast majority of ladies I date. I don't really care what they say... virtually all politically left wing women highly value a man who on the surface agrees with them politically, but also takes on traditional masculine gender roles. This is going to be especially true of the ones who put effort into their appearance. I want to make sure people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingI've been involved with the Red Pill community for years and this isn't something we say to each other in my experience. Honestly, the label has gotten out of hand lately and people use the label on themselves who shouldn't, so who knows what people are saying now days. Red Pill was created by the pickup artist community and spread from there... so at it's core all Red Pill theory is designed to help men get laid, and get laid today, not tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingIt's not red pill advice. It's a red pill narrative myth about the blue pill. It's one of their straw men. No, it's something blue pillers used to say all the time back in the day. I think newer generations have realized the error here and so the advice has fallen out of fashion. You have to understand most of us OG Red Pill guys started in the 2005-2008 time frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.It doesn’t. Feminists have corporate/political sugar daddies. Sounding like an idiot without power will not yield the same results. True and true. I'm not saying they will be effective, I'm just saying they have been taught from birth to be like this. Most people are capable to understand that gender does not defined them, only morons, think that. Gender is deeply important to a person's life and how they interact with society. We have been moving towards reducing that importance for generations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.I don't fault anyone for copying the feminist way of talkin about these things because it's proven to work. People don't like complicated or nuanced answers to issues. So, if we don't like this way of talking we should first take it up with the originators... the asshole feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | You cannot build confidence because it is a self regulatory psychological mechanism.But confidence with women? That comes last, after consistent success. I grew up in the 90s. You didn't have a fucking choice. I learned to just fake having confidence and act like I was the shit, when deep inside I felt like a loser. Guess what... It worked sometimes and in 2 years I had built up very serious and very real confidence. By 30, I had become unshakable.... literally nothing stops my confidence because I KNOW that I will always win in the end. Women can't match that shit because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerThey don't get that much and society clearly prefers to keep children within their families rather than in a system where they'd cost even more. Child support transfers alone are something like 800 billion dollars a year... and that isn't even counting the money taxpayers spend on programs for them. Medicaid is another 750 billion dollar program... designed mostly to give free health insurance to single moms and their progeny. The average single mom draws something like $40,000 in tax benefits e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingAh, I've heard these arguments about waiting until you are older, they mostly come from red pillers. That isn't Red Pill advice at all. We never tell guys to just sit around and wait. Experience is the most important part and we tell men to get out right away and go at it. In fact, you are much more likely to hear red pill guys say... If you can't get the women you want right away... start fucking fat chicks... or some such thing. The stuff he is talking about is all blue pill bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Choosing the Passport Bros option is not a poor reflection on your social skill in your home countryWhite men get the women that the locals and other Asians don't want. If I have 4 mate requirements, looks 7+, some education, sort of bohemian-arty, and sexually open-minded, I face two obstacles: Op is totally a knobhead! We used to have a bloody awesome forum that was all red pillers, where we talked about wife hunting both domestic and international. That thing had so much good info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 10:16 PM |
| – | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base levelHaha! I wish the people here thought like you. Most of them treat me as a bug to be swatted. But you are quite right that people who are charming to me tend to get fast and easy access sometimes against the bosses wishes. These people are idiots! I'd be more likely to suck up to you than to your boss. The thing with bosses is that they tend to be very used to people treating them like they are important. When I treat them polite but normal, it puts them off a bit and makes negotiations easier. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Choosing the Passport Bros option is not a poor reflection on your social skill in your home countryYou don't know that. I dated a woman in the Phillipines who was 5'11". LOL... I spent the entire first date feeling super suspicious, but I work in plastic surgery, and she was all natural. She just absolutely towered over the other women in the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Choosing the Passport Bros option is not a poor reflection on your social skill in your home countryThey don't even partic like white people either and would much prefer to be with not only another Thai person, but one of their Thai sub-ethnicity. A Thai-Chinese person will marry a like-partner 99% of the time. THIS is totally accurate. I felt like I was doing pretty well in Japan... until I checked with a few buddies and 3 of us had all dated the same girl. The big thing here is that beauty standards are different. Japanese guys like their women tall and light skinned. White guys don't really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Choosing the Passport Bros option is not a poor reflection on your social skill in your home countryA lot of the YouTube ones are black guys going to SE Asia That is surprising. I rarely see them around when I go.... but they absolutely crush it in Latin America. I mean black guys do way better than I ever could down there, but in kind of flips in Africa and Asia. They can also do really well in the middle east if you know how to run social circle game... and of course Western Europe is like a pussy paradise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:45 PM |
| – | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base levelEh, I don't really value money, I have a lot of freedom with this, but make enough, and I'm a secretary so most of my day is just preventing people getting access to my really cool and kind boss. That's awesome! Aren't we supposed to say executive assistant now? I work in high end sales. I've spent most of my career in medical and in my experience, secretaries are the most important people to treat nice and be friends with. LOL... I'm always showing up with chocolates, or flowers... and lots of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Men are more superficial about weight than womenand are just as much of a pain in the arse. LOL... when red pillers say thick women are more likely to do anal... they meant your dick in their ass, not a strap-on in yours. With that cleared up... yeah they are still women, and generally still American Women with all the privileged entitled shitty behavior that comes with it. That said... women only get away with what you let them get away with... and these ladies just do shit the ones with higher self esteem don't. Also... I'm not talking abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:17 PM |
| 0 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerHahaha... my phrasing was clearly sub optimal. Good catch! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerOn a side note, I'm not sure that a lot of single mothers actually demand much empathy from men around them. Correct, they are too busy demanding access to public money to support their lifestyle choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:58 PM |
| 3 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerTo women who gave birth after being raped? Single mothers who have been widowed? Hold on, we must consider the .001%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerIt’s possible to be empathetic to people who are going through a difficult experience even if they share responsibility in the choices that brought them to that place. We aren't talking about empathy... we are talking about using threats of government violence to force me and other men to subsidize their lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:49 PM |
| – | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalOr at least above the average of my UC Engineering classmates. Look at all of the famous alumni of the Yale drama department. You can also look to: Matt Damon / Harvard, Conan O’Brien / Harvard, David Duchovny / Princeton as well; granted they were all English majors and not drama. Meh... I had a very good friend attend Princeton, and her roommate was Natalie Portman... who she only met like 3 times all year. Ivy schools take a lot of dipshits into their program. Matt Damon... I've never seen an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenTwo points since this topic seems virtually played out. First, women don't complain about fat men because in the minds of said women... fat men don't exist. They just sit back and wait for suitors to do all the initial work and screen out the fat ones. There is no animosity because they live in what the Red Pill calls - Abundance Mentality. Now, why do men seem so obsessed with the number of fat women out there? Because these men never get women who approach them, but in the very rare occasion t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base levelMisty is a human who makes mistakes and sometimes has been known to type while on the phone with consumers who are wasting her time by being chatty. You know this dynamic totally changes once you increase the value of the thing you are selling. I love chatty customers... I will talk to them for hours on end. Then I will sell them several million dollars' worth of equipment and then go buy houses with the commission check. Misty Needs a New Job. Ample was what I meant. CRAP! I totally thought the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:09 AM |
| – | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalLol, I don’t want to date her either because I am the same 👆🏻 Oh.... so you are also a married heterosexual woman. Well that doesn't stop Hollywood types from going down on each other... but that does change why you likely identify with this TV personality. Do you think your husband is going to go chasing after a woman 10 years younger? I'm probably the most mercenary man around, like I just can't catch feelings for anyone. However, there have been several women I found myself unintentionally fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceFat awareness isn’t to push sexual attraction but rather acceptance but let’s say for feminists it’s about pushing attraction. Does it work? According to this sub absolutely fucking not. The attraction mechanisms of incels are... mostly based in fantasy. We should not take them serious in any way. Some men here want women to operate in ways that benefit them and act offended when they refuse, no different than those feminists Totally agree. You mentioned a comment about race and sexual attractio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Self Improvement Discussion ThreadAnyways yeah I’ve been cold approached and turned them down politely. I work at a restaurant as a server. Been approached there a lot. Been cold approached on campus and at festivals, gas stations. When we running cold approaches this is all we ask for... polite honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceI just finished saying attraction isn’t moral. It says nothing about me morally. It’s a subconscious thing. If this is true, then why are feminists trying so hard to change media representation away from current male preferences? Why does the ideal female and male body type change from culture to culture? No, I think you are wrong and this lazy fatalistic view is one of the reasons Red Pillers struggle to respect women. The feminine view is that self improvement of the mind is pointless... it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceLook up, sexual attraction is racist af Let's not get into that particular topic... because once you really start talking about this honestly suddenly white liberal women begin looking like the planets worst humans. We don't want to go there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base levelI think that may have been a typo of "ample" (sufficient, plenty, large). I considered that, but Misty is usually a really good typist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base levelThis is a very incorrect reading of history... and the present day situation. Sluts were always popular with men... going back 5000 years... we love them. WOMEN are the ones who shamed and attacked them. Back then there was no child support or alimony. These ladies could take your husband and your kids... then you'd be out on the street. The victorians tried to mitigate this a bit because they were horribly panicked by the spread of syphilis. The only thing that's changed today is there are ways… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base leveland that he appreciates my amble and firm behind. Ok... This terminology I've really never seen before. A firm and "amble" butt? I can only assume this describes a woman who does a ton of hiking. I dated a woman like that once. I used to call her Erica "Snacks"... she must have hiked 30 miles a week on average.... kind of tall and blonde. She abhorred clothing and walked around my place naked all the time. Her ass reminded me of a racehorse... I never considered it a turn on. Anyway... that's wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalA lot of people who want to become actors move to LA and work regular jobs until they can get acting work. That’s the shows whole premise. She worked at the restaurant that served as the setting for the show. Widely considered to be the most independent, intelligent, rational, well spoken, kindest & most fair-minded cast member by the majority of her cast mates and by the fans. Not a thirsty bikini model with no brain (unverified IQ of 150 range). I know they call it reality TV, but that's an ox… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:51 PM |
| 3 | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalShe’s got a degree in Theatre/Broadcast, was a bartender What? Couldn't get into the basket weaving program? Bartender is definitely a failed actress job. Likely spent some time on Harvey Weinstein's casting couch, and then got cast for one of these Bravo shows. Look, I've got low respect for folks whose reason for success is looks, and a willingness to prostitute themselves. I can't think of a better example than Kim Kardashian. I don't know why you think these people are great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:12 PM |
| – | The women that go viral are not representative of average womenI can’t answer that as we’re talking in very general terms, there are OF models from all over the world who have different regulations and loopholes. I’m sure some are smart about avoiding/minimising taxes, but there’s no exemption from tax for OF models. You seem to think they are making the bulk of their money from the website. That isn't the case at all. Instead the OF site is a vehicle for self promotion and finding clients that will fund them directly... often in ways that avoid tax structu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversYou sound like the type who doesn't commit but, if you are, what type of woman would you seek in terms of N count. I wouldn't take N count into a very deep consideration. I've loved women who had been with 5 guys, and I've loved women who had been with 500. I refuse to play around with virgins though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:30 PM |
| 3 | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalWell she’s a celebrity too & demonstrably not dumb. Let me guess... she made her money as a bikini model or something? I'm willing to bet money she didn't invent a new type of silicone. She's dumb, lets just admit it and move on. Conclusions are often drawn from that though even when this sub’s women counter such nonsense in a through & articulate manner. It is the real life experience of the people involved & she is receiving widespread support because many women relate. Some of it may be pilin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:25 PM |
| – | The women that go viral are not representative of average womenIdk where you’re from but it is not tax free. If you live in a high COL city, $2500 doesn’t get you far at all, have you heard of rent? It definitely doesn’t cover a luxury home, head to toe designer clothes, trips to Dubai… These ladies very rarely pay taxes on their OF income. Have you ever met one? I mean look depending on the country... social welfare benefits can be worth $50,000 a year or more in EU countries. Swedes for example pay over 60% of their income in taxes. I mean look, you proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:19 PM |
| 3 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.Oh my heavens! I'm sorry, but you black pillers desperately need Red Pill advice. Lesbians orgasm more not because they have higher levels of arousal... most lesbians are big as a house! Instead it's because they don't bust a nut and then roll over to fall asleep. Instead they keep licking each other like a dog on a peanut butter log. Ever see dogs just wander around licking the air? Yeah, lesbians get that facial twitch too after going down for hours on end. This stuff is just too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The women that go viral are not representative of average womenWomen on OF are a minority of women, what are you on about? It depends on the place, but in the Western US it's about 1-2% of the female population. Professional finance workers are only about 2% of the population here too... so fairly equal representation between your profession and theirs. The threshold for the top 1% of OF workers is $2500 a month pre tax. They make out like it’s a gold mine but very few make serious money and its usually if they already have a large social media following … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf men will just assume a woman’s body count is 3x more than what it is, why wouldn’t she just sleep with however many people she like and lie about it - since you assume she’s lying anyway. It’s such a dumb incentive to stop women sleeping around. Are you living in Iran or something? We don't control whether women sleep around or not. They are going to do it regardless because the culture as a whole is permissive of it. All we can do is mitigate our feelings towards it. Also... fuck yeah women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | The women that go viral are not representative of average womenThey are probably more representative than you think. I mean professional worker women tend to definitely see themselves as a cut above, however, in the end the difference isn't that great, they just tend to have slightly better impulse control. Also... The Only Fans girls are raking in a lot of money... probably more than a lot of professional office workers. But really... I've never been impressed with investment bankers. I had to deal with them off and on when I had my startup company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not saying you are lying... I'm just saying the rule of times 3 is a fundamental law of nature and must be mentally applied. To be honest, I think most guys use this rule so that they aren't disappointed or upset when they discover that she is just counting the "relationship" guys and not the 2 guys she met on vacation in Jamaica. I have learned over the years that a good many women definitely try to minimize. Of course there are always exceptions. Sometime I should tell the story of dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:36 PM |
| 3 | VPR’s Scandoval - Reality TV betrayalAny woman who is dating a male celebrity needs to check her head if she is expecting fidelity. This lady is just a dumbshit and the only people that sympathize with her are the fools who watch her crap show. I don't think you can draw any kind of real life conclusion from this garbage... besides the fact that the core audience is low IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityI am not expect women to change or coddle my insecurities I am just pointing out their flaws Doing this in a straightforward manner will get you nowhere. If you want to criticize women, then you must do it indirectly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve only slept with 3 people including my current bf. But if I were single, I’d have a hard time wanting to be with someone with an N count of over around 20. X3 rule means we can safely assume this number is actually 9. However, that aside... most of us think of it as a good thing. You think most of these guys have posted like 20+ lovers? Even guys like me who have been with quite a few ladies in our time have no issue with you wanting a less experienced man. It makes sense for many reasons an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:07 PM |
| 3 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.Exactly, because men dont magically make things better. Let me ask you. What kind of father do you have? A person being a good or bad influence on a child is IRRELEVANT to their gender. It's not entirely irrelevant. Gender of the parent does matter, because generally speaking children get different things from mothers than they do fathers. It requires balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:58 PM |
| – | The main reason why men like young girls is NOT fertility/beauty.I think that society fetish youth, specifically women's youth. We have too rosy of a picture of the average young persons fitness level. *shrugs* What can you do? Our society sucks ass. What I do about it is travel. I spend a lot of time outside the US and I value that time highly. We way over value all the factors of youth. Wisdom is probably the most important trait a person can have and we simply don't care about it, because it only comes with age and experience. I of course have a limit, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenI mean only she can answer as to the semantics of what she said, but it seemed to me she was saying she loved their real personalities not some image Just trust the words she used and stop trying to read between the lines. She phrased it that way even if subconsciously because that's how it works. I was 19 once and being idealistic and desperate for someone to love me as I am drove all kinds of big mistakes back then. I'm 40. I am the veteran of many, many relationships. I have had a lot of wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:59 PM |
| – | The main reason why men like young girls is NOT fertility/beauty.They have less signs of aging. Their tits haven't sagged yet and they have less cellulite. They, more often than not, just look fitter. That's probably the most common reason. Well... it certainly isn't conversation skills! But, as an older guy... I think I prefer saggy tits and I see more cellulite on the younger women today than I ever remember as a teen 20 years ago. Women's bodies if even a little bit of care is taken hold up WAY better than faces and necks. I've been with some 50 year old w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:49 PM |
| 4 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.Keep in mind, I think Canada is a shitshow, especially now finding out they have people lining up to be euthanized because they're “too poor to live”. The goverment of Canada would rather euthanize people who can't pay taxes than pay for thier medical treatment. This is totally true. But the US isn't really that far behind. That doesn't always involve a man. Was it health for the boys of that lawyer guy to be raised by him and have their mother killed by him? Was it healthy for a mentally distur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:45 PM |
| 2 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.I think a lot of the scenarios you are posting about are much more complex than you present. Ethan Crumbly for example had huge issues with his mom. Let me quote an article about him from school counselors who noted that Ethan was drawing pictures of murdering people with a gun - "Jennifer and James Crumbley were shown the note and advised that Hopkins was concerned for his well-being. Hopkins testified that he didn’t recall Jennifer speaking to her son during the estimated 15-minute meeting and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.There are about 20 or 30 different studies that show the opposite of what the LA Times is saying... which is a garbage propaganda site to begin with. The 2013 Canada study shows that in particular daughters of lesbian couples have insanely low grade scores and drop out of school at something like a 75% increased rate. Chilren of gay men performed MUCH better. Fact is that in a normal healthy situation men do perform a very important role in child rearing. The problem with modern society is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:29 PM |
| 8 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.'children need a second parent There is some truth to this. Two lesbian moms have Ok child outcomes, but still below a man and woman, and also below two gay men. The most surprising part of the study is that the difference between being raised by a straight couple and two gay men is shockingly small in terms of emotional well being. I remember thinking it possible lesbians performed lower because of small sample size... or potentially because the vast majority are so morbidly obese that this may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityYou are taking this the wrong direction. Places like this should be where you learn how to talk to women without actually doing it in real life. It allows you to test out modes of thought and see how women react to them with no consequences. You seem to be most upset that women aren't sensitive to your insecurities. That isn't going to change and in real life they are only going to pretend to care because that's what is expected of them. So, you are probably getting a heck of a lot more fakeness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:13 PM |
| 0 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityI just hope you realise - as I came to - that these attitudes are usually exaggerations and are not commonplace in real life. Don’t let them muddy your spirit - keep an open and positive mind. The anonymity of online spaces allows people to test things that they think but can't say. Women can say all kinds of nasty stuff about men in real life with zero consequences... men cannot. So, these online spaces give a lot of guys the ability to think through stuff. We should also acknowledge that the v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenRead what she wrote! She accepts and respects, not loves them for who they are. THIS is what you should desire from a woman. She also says she loves them for what they meant to her... and that clearly is something that changes... also something that isn't based on who they are. This lady is honest and intelligent. What I require from a woman is physical affection and a small level of obedience. How she chooses to love me is entirely up to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:42 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversWhat's your source on this? Presumably you have just the one cock. Unlike alot of other guys, I put some 3 years of effort into making mine appear longer and thicker. The results have been quite good while the effort was... it was a lot of work. I didn't start out small to begin with either... so I went from a bit above average to potentially capable of making dirty movies. The point of all that is, I can compare before and after. I also have seen studies that back up by experience. The study in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenWe are talking about women... love will always have an element of fantasy and when that fantasy fades into reality the love also fades away. This is why so many relationships seem amazing at the start and not so great a few years in. What you are talking about is theoretically possible, but also rare to the point that you should not expect to find this kind of thing for yourself in your lifetime. You are much more likely to find a woman who loves some parts of you and doesn't love some parts and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversLOL... It's ridiculous but it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:05 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenIf you want someone to love you for who you are... go talk to your mom. Otherwise women are ALWAYS going to want something from you. Romantic relationships are... not required for sex or for fulfillment. They are very nice though. You just shouldn't use them to plug holes in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyYeah... I knew a lady who is a physician that kind of got a 45-55 deal too once. The funniest is when two gay guys get divorced and the court can't figure out who to fuck over. This is why lawyers suggest they just put on wigs and dresses to confuse the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenI accepted and respected men for who they are. I loved them for what they meant to me. That is wonderful and it's what you should do. But lots of men have ridiculous expectations. They want some kind of unconditional love... like the way a mother would love them. It's unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:36 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversMost women are content with average-sized cocks, and many with small cocks. Truth. Are there size queens out there who aren't? Sure. Just like two people can be sexually incompatible because they have incompatible sex drives or sexual interests, they may also be incompatible body-wise. (That can just as easily mean having too large a cock, since many women find that very painful.) Also true. But if you can bring her to several screaming orgasms with your tongue, most women are going to be pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversHahaha... the question marks suggest otherwise. I don't put much of any value on N Count for women at this point. Fact is that it's the really high N count women that tend to get crazy addicted to me now days. Probably because I've got so much experience dealing with women who have their kind of crazy... that I just kind of get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:03 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversYes, I would be In the Red Pill... we typically teach this as a personal choice, not a requirement. I'd say half the guys don't care because they only plan to hit it and quit it. The other half run game more like me and put in the effort. That said... the longer things go the less effort anyone puts in because... it's such a giant pain the ass and the return on investment is super low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:58 PM |
| 7 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversSo don't use dick weights then. LOL... Too late. If you're trying to say you'll never be good in bed because your cock isn't long enough, interrupt yourself midsentence and instead do some tongue exercises. If you are trying to say that this doesn't matter to women... you clearly lack experience dating them. Tongues are great and it's a required skill... but I'd suggest to you that some 20% of the female population isn't really going to be satisfied with just that. Be real, stop with the blue pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversAm I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:37 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with womenYou need the Red Pill more than most. You seem to be under the impression that women can give you something... and that isn't going to happen. What you are seeking can only be found within yourself, or with a belief in a higher power. I've had women desperately in love with me, I've had them ignore me, and I've had them hate me... and even had all that from the same woman. At the end of the day it's an experience worth having, but if you want to be loved for who you are... no woman is going to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:36 PM |
| 13 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversThis is where you’re wrong. There are no “tricks” that work on all women, there is a learning curve with each new partner. That's not completely true. I mean you will find that like 30% of women like X, another 25% like Y, 10% like Z... and so on. There is an incredible amount of overlap once you have some experience. The real key is being able to quickly determine a woman who like X from a woman who likes Y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversI'd bet if you dated a woman with 100 scalps and with your current ability talked to her about exactly what she liked, listened to her, and did that, you'd be top 5 in a month. You would be surprised at how many guys do this already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:49 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversSo learn. It's all a bunch of learnable skills. When I started having sex with men, I spent a lot of time reading sex books and resources to improve my skills at sex. I even went to some how-to seminars about sex tips. I improved because I put effort into it. I agree in general, but keep in mind you can only take this so far. You have no idea how long I and many other guys spent using dick weights. Not many guys are willing to go through all that crap. It's a lot harder than just doing some Kege… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:48 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversLet me explain this situation a bit. Women in general don't care too much if you declare yourself as having a preference for Low N count women. The reason is that the female hamster is usually the strongest hamster of all. However, most of us say this kind of thing by tossing negatives at the women who sleep around... and they hate that. Again this is simple women really dislike being held accountable for any action. I didn't realize how childlike most women are in this way until I had a kid of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyI also spent some time in Las Vegas shoring hookers. The two things actually share quite a few skill sets in common. Some of the ladies will just straight up ask for money... this is much more common now than before... but there are still a large number of women who basically use it as Tinder for wealthier men. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyAffirmative action is just a foot in the door for women and minorities. It has nothing to do with firing people who do no work. People who fo no work get retained all the time, while a small minority usually do most of the work. That just the nature if the working world I'm afraid. I think Jordan Peterson is correct that Feminists and their ilk have been attacking competence for a long time.... trying to devalue it. When I first heard him say that, I couldn't believe it and just assumed he is ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThe Romans did not witness 100,000 years of evolutionary history. Sure, but people didn't change and still havn't changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:23 PM |
| – | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?You get it. I'm 100% in favor of FDS as a side note. Most women simply rely on bulk attracting and then tight screening for finding the right man. It's rarely well thought out and has a ridiculous failure rate for getting women what they want in a man. FDS could be revolutionary for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyAnd you are also right about women doing very little in most jobs. Especially those geared toward men. This was kind of implied, but not said. I'm actually surprised you picked up on it. My issue with what's going on today is not that all boys are getting screwed over... because a lot of boys are actually benefitting from the failure of their peers. We can't really blame women for this... they are politically sticking together for their own benefit, while men are screwing each other over for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyDidnt Twitter clear out a good chunk of employees who were mostly women once Musk took over? Dunno. The article I read suggested he just fired anyone who didn't want to work or who had a useless position. If that was mostly women then so be it. I don't think he targeted them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyWell actual gender quotas are illegal. Federal law requires companies of a certain size who seek federal government contracts to institute diversity policies but they arent required to hire a certain # of women or minorities or any at all, tbh, they just have to have the policies in place. That's how it's presented publicly. However, I think we both know they have numbers to hit. Maybe the government doesn't give them those numbers, but they certainly are pushing them in that direction. I agree … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyNext few years we'll see outreach to boys for the first time Don't hold your breath bro. I spent quite a bit of time on Seeking Arraignment and you are going to find a lot of those feminists on there chasing around with me. They are getting theirs and you aren't ever going to convince them to care about boys. It's like asking Nazi's to care about Jews. It's ridiculous to think it's going to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyNow you're referring to agricultural societies. I'm talking about hunter-gatherer societies where women had a much more significant labor role. These are TRIBAL societies that coexisted and were eventually dominated by agrarian societies. Also, it's not fantasy, this is work from anthropologists who studied hunter-gatherer societies and collected data for the ethnographic atlas. Rape within your own tribe is evolutionarily a terrible strategy and the risks were severe. People have estimated the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThat’s simply not how the law works though. The government is not coming in and suggesting businesses hire more women. They don’t allow unlimited lawsuits and the damages are definitely not limitless. What country do you live in? The US Department of Labor is actively engaged in this shit every single day. Regarding the concept of unlimited frivolous lawsuits... they do not cap the number of lawsuits that can be brought against a company, so you are incorrect. Additionally, if the lawsuits are p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyI don’t think you know what you’re talking about. I haven’t seen a single government policy that results in what you’re describing and I also work at a large tech company Explain exactly what you see going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThe idea that recipients of AA are "unqualified" to the point of being useless and doing "zero work" like the mad up story provided by OP is such a canard. Sure buddy... because you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyIn fact, rape within your own tribe is a terrible strategy that hinders trust and cooperation, creates conflict between families, and gives women poor incentive to raise their offspring as they didn't select their mates. We know what these societies looked like because they were well documented by people who encountered them and had writing.... like the Romans. Women were somewhat akin to property. We know some groups gave them forms of sexual autonomy... like the Scythians who would just put th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyOnly if you close your eyes and shut your ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policySaying it’s business culture and saying it’s government mandates are two very different arguments. I think you don't understand the interplay between the two. The government comes in and suggests they do something, then allows unlimited frivolous lawsuits for not following this behavior with practically limitless damages. What the hell do you think hyper nervous investors are going to do? You think all this crap just magic wands itself into existence? These companies have not changed. If they co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?So basically just pretending to care about more than the physical? It is a kind of theatrical play? The moment we abandoned the courtship system in favor of dating... fantasy became more important than reality in the initial stages for almost every man who is trying to secure a mate both short term and long term. I've never had casual sex. The only person I've had sex with, it my husband, and reality is that he loves me for more than just my body. What is your primary culture group? Was this par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThere is indeed evidence of cooperation in child raising and in general amongst small units of humans in early evolutionary history. This is derived from fucking monkey data. It's not real. People lived in tribes all the way up to the 20th century and thier social structure is well documented. Moreover... we have 5000 years of documented history and none of the bullshit you folks are spewing is evidenced in this. I will give you an example. The primary bride practice in the tribal Eurasian Stepp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyIt will probably be that way for my lifetime and beyond. I have to take responsibility for my situation, whether I think it's unfair or not. The most traditional trait of masculinity is self-control. Self-reliance and most of the others we currently recognize hinges on this one. If you look at our society as a whole... it doesn't value self-control at all... instead it values self-indulgence. My belief is that as they seek more and more to punish and eradicate self-control traits like competence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThere are a myriad of laws that deal with this issue. I've already gone into some depth with someone else on the topic. Another person makes a very good point that some of this is cultural at this point and they really are wanting to promote unqualified women and push the workload onto their male colleagues in the name of social justice or whatever they call this thing now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:11 PM |
| -3 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyI have no idea who has it "worse" in general, men or women. I don't think there is a definitive answer to this question. I think men have it worse specifically in dating, but there is no way to prove that either. Who is doing worse and who is doing better. Wouldn't that be a good indicator? If we are striving for an equal society... shouldn't we be taking steps to address the imabalance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policycited primarily family structure as the cause for the disparity in achievement between boys and girls. LOL.. Family structure? It says single moms who don't care about their sons future represent a small portion of the issue. The rest is unknown and we know that unknown = discrimination. Again... where is the congressional action? Where is the national media discussion? Could it be that the country as a whole just doesn't care about the lives of boys? What is your explanation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyIn 99.9% of our evolutionary history, we were polygynous meaning you could be the wife any man you wanted. Ok... this is absolutely ridiculous fantasy. What you are likely describing is a gang rape situation. Where do you get this idea that in the past men had no jealousy... that they raised other men's kids happily? Where do you get the idea the men did't just take what they fucking want? Tribal society... the number one goal of any woman is safety. Way beyond anything else. The second is statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?No. Why do you think I am on the spectrum just because I don't understand why a woman would want to be considered "sexy" by a stranger? Just curious. The word stranger implies something that isn't what we are talking about here. You don't need to be lifelong friends with a woman, but you definitely need to do some rapport building before you move into this. I don't just walk up to a woman and start talking about what we should do together. There needs to be a period of flirtation first... Have y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policywomen don't need an average man even financially any more since they out-earn men on average already. I think this part is artificial. I think the government is openly pushing down men to lift up unqualified women. I could be wrong, but this is what I see often. In the professions that have quality standards... only the best women move through. Female physicians are just as good as the men... but if you go to any hospital in the nation your going to find most of the women physicians aren't born … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyHow is that in the dating realm? Aren’t those just bigoted policies in hiring and such? But I can’t fathom how a man’s dating problem isn’t 100% either by being clueless, or having unattractive genetics. Go look at that marriage income data thread. Women marry equal or below. When the dude is equal he has to have BETTER genetics and be a lot less clueless. If you artificially push 20% of boys into the dirt and make them into human stepping stools for the advancement of women... that 20% of women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyRegardless, none of this is government imposed. This is just culture. There's not some conspiracy. Companies are doing these things because they believe they will be more profitable if they reflect an image that is culturally in line with their customers. THIS is a good argument. So, in your opinion we live in a matriarchal misandrist culture and that's the primary issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyIt was only wise for women to invest in their educations as they became more independent (from about the 1960s on). Wrong. We passed legislation to force universities to accept more women and make these universities more friendly to women. Now the gender imbalance is WORSE than it was back then but in favor of women and girls. Where is the legislation to help boys? It doesn't exist. You can't get anyone to talk about it. But I'm wondering about why K-12 is supposedly designed for girls and hampe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThat doesn't even come close to the reproductive disparity that men faced in our evolutionary history which is why you can't blame it on government policy when it was significantly worse before. I don't think you understand what you are talking about. First, in the distant past, female choice for mates was... well lets just say they didnt' get to choose. When families chose they picked men who were resource controllers. Indeed most women in any setting ever choose resource controllers over every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:36 PM |
| 0 | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?I'm a woman, but I honestly don't get it either. Are you on the spectrum? But, if a man in reality was interested in ALL of her, he would want to have a relationship with her and not just sex. So reality isn't relevant, only her feelings? Are those women just misleading themselves? Reality isn't relevant only feelings matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:32 PM |
| – | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThat is a subsidy you ding dong! Some government incentives are subsidies, but not all of them. Could you at least sum up the brain cells to talk about the issue directly rather than parade around your ignorance of definitions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:29 PM |
| 8 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyLet me ask you a question in return. When the university system was 60% male and 40% female... what was the response by the US Government? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyIf you take the primary reason women chose a mate for 100,000 years of evolutionary history... and then fill that need with a government program, then you are doing more than just exacerbating the issue. You are in fact creating an issue that was not there before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyYou don’t know what “government incentive” means, do you? Anything that motivates you to do something is an incentive. When that thing comes from the government... it is thus a government incentive. If the government says... We will allow frivolous lawsuits for unlimited damages for gender based bullshit... that's an incentive. So, what part do you not get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?But they also don't want to be objectified. What is the difference between being desired and considered sexy by a stranger who doesn't know you and between being objectified? I think a lot of younger guys don't really get this. They just hear the feminist talking points and eat that shit up like brainwashed zombies. If you make her feel like you don't really give a shit about her... you just want sex with any particular woman... or only want one particular part of her body... she isn't going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyPlease elaborate. What incentives. It's called risk management. If you talk to any CEO in the nation... risk management is the number one goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | In a Growing Share of U.S. Marriages, Husbands and Wives Earn About the SameThey think that they are being used for their money and a green card and that she’ll split or find Chad the first chance that she gets, or that she’ll be brainwashed by western values to become a raging feminist Let me be blunt. This usually happens to 60 year old fat balding men who marry young thin beautiful women from the 3rd world. I have a coworker who is short, fat, bald, and 50. He got divorce raped twice... TWICE by local American women... because he makes really good money. One of the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:11 PM |
| 2 | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?I'm not a woman, but in my considerable experience... women really like to feel desirable and sexy. Sometimes they like the feeling of that more than they like the feeling of the sex itself. Although if that happens it's a huge failure on my part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:00 PM |
| 2 | In a Growing Share of U.S. Marriages, Husbands and Wives Earn About the SameThe data suggests you are very wrong. Every social survey finds a Tsunami of single moms who eat up insane amounts of social resources and tax dollars while producing children that are almost guaranteed to fail. If you look around the world... US women are the absolute worst females on planet earth. Take a random woman from Nigeria, give her an average American Husband... those kids are going to Harvard Law. Take a random American woman... give her an average husband anywhere in the world... it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:33 PM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?most of those are extremely liberal women which i know you’re not seeking out No... These women are typically my targets. They spend most of their time hanging around male eunuchs with more estrogen than them. I don't know why but very liberal women have always loved me... I'm like some form of catnip for them. Fact is that there are lots of overlaps between them and me that make it a great fit. The Cheerleader type girls... and instagram model types... I pined over them as a teenager, but once … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:08 PM |
| -1 | Q4M. What do you think is acceptable/tolerable for giga-stacies that is not for other women ?Giga Stacy could make me go to target with them on Saturday LOL... if Giga Stacy is shopping at Target then she is probably buying those swim shorts with some "tuck" space built in. Good luck with that! If I go shopping with Giga Stacy... (what a ridiculous term), I'm going to Nordstroms or Saks... otherwise she ain't that hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:05 PM |
| – | PPD mens hubris of the false notion that women cannot survive without menJust because a group of people chooses not to do something cause it sucks doesn't mean they wouldn't do it out of necessity. Think about this for a second... because you are kind of making a really profound point and missing it. Women don't like to do hard difficult jobs.... not because they can't, but because they don't want to do it. Even when the job pays really well, they won't do it. If all men magically vanished... sure they would find a way to get it done... even if it meant enslaving and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:01 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingbut also to knowingly be a part of someone cheating and build that dependence on you is also a good sign of moral deficiency Women almost exclusively fuck over good men. Men are kind of equal opportunity offenders, but in my experience they tend to target bad women more.... or at least good women are better at avoiding bad men long term. I've known multiple guys who had financially dependent cheating wives. Most of these guys are just very weak men... and our laws have stripped them of everythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?No, that just means what you think of as a “ hobby “ isn’t good enough. Yes, you are completely correct. Hobbies just have to be something done for enjoyment, but I really don't consider anything a true hobby unless it develops some kind of skill. LOL... I knew there was a reason I liked middling women more than the ultra hot ones! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:35 PM |
| 0 | is what germaine greer actaully says true?mf you litterally said that thing about men and women in that african tribe like??? how???? which tribe is that There aren't that many tribes in the world who still live ancient lifestyles. The study I read was from decades ago and it's one of the San peoples that live on the edge of the Kalahari. This isn't really just about them though... ALL tribes were probably like this. Where women do the great majority of work while the men exist to just protect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:28 PM |
| -2 | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?For what its worth when I was a hot young thing I wrote and published a lot of poetry, but a majority of my free time was spent looking cute and partying. Poetry is a hot girl hobby from my generation... the ones below me are much less literate in my experience... and more shallow in many ways. I think there is just way too many things to competing for their attentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Man who are you around where the average woman’s hobbies is a 3 some 😭😭😭. I live in a liberal safe haven and these women have regular hobbies . Marching around in pussy hats shouting into a megaphone isn't really a hobby. In some ways the OP has a point. A lot of the "pretty" type girls don't have much going on in terms of hobbies. They like shopping, going to concerts... basically play activities. You don't find them building model airplanes or bird watching on weekends. That said... they are f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | is what germaine greer actaully says true?are you satire? It depends on your perspective. But the core truth is that the world is ruled by physical violence. All things come down to that, and weak must bow before the strong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:14 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingI agree that such a man who does prey on these women is a horrible human being, Seriously... most of the times this stuff happens the guy is a very nice person who is just being taken advantage of by the lady. Most women in this situation are very low morals... which also means they absolutely tend to cheat at higher rates. I had a woman who didn't love me that was financially dependent on me for about a year or so. The difference is that she was upfront and honest. She was in the country illega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:53 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingThis is totally untrue. Men get raped from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:41 PM |
| 0 | is what germaine greer actaully says true?The whole thing is absolutely stupid. I think it's entirely possible in the future that women could live without men... I mean when I studied anthropology in college I was somewhat stunned to find all these practically neolithic tribes in Africa... women do 99% of the work, and provide 90% of the food, build the straw huts... they literally do everything. The men just hunt once a week and spend their time brewing alcohol and getting drunk. Still... these women support the whole tribe. Sure they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Men can't determine whether a woman is " post wall" or even overweight/obeseWhile I may not completely agree with your politics (though I’m not American and consider myself a centrist mostly) I understand what you’re saying. I sympathise with the anger at the contrast between being a dedicated and very hard worker and being a criminal or chronic moocher off the welfare system. It’s a kick in the teeth to see people scamming the system or living happily while contributing next to nothing. I think this is caused by many social and systemic failures - which are very hard t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Men can't determine whether a woman is " post wall" or even overweight/obeseToo often I’ve seen people get knocked down who weren’t rubbing their success or confidence in others faces - they were simply the subject of envy. That’s an ugly thing - but we’re probably all guilty of it from time to time. Well we celebrate petty socialist pricks who are clearly just motivated by pure envy. I spent from age 8 to age 22 working like a bloody animal studying constantly, while the assholes around me partied and did drugs. Now I get to pay ridiculous amounts of taxes to support t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Men can't determine whether a woman is " post wall" or even overweight/obeseStill, overweight or not, it doesn’t make her ugly or mean it’s ok to bully her for not being thin. Young men have a natural tendency to want to knock down people who seem ridiculously arrogant or have confidence for seemingly no reason. It's just part of being a youthful boy. Your point though is excellent, there are many overweight women who are beautiful, and to be totally honest... good at stuff thinner women just don't care to be good at. As to the bullying thing... It's hard for me to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Men can't determine whether a woman is " post wall" or even overweight/obeseOf course. Like always. Somehow it's all of you here who get rated ten years syounger. Such a huge coincidence, I wonder why that is... Uh... I use a lot of face cream, avoid the sun, and every 5 years or so do a chemical peel. Been doing this for about 15 years and at 43, I can sometimes pass for 33... but not very often. Even with all that work people still think I'm late 30s most of the time. Part of that is horrible skin care the first 30 years of my life... as I grew up in the desert and ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 10:18 PM |
| -1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooYou would be shocked at how often those assumptions are accurate. The thing is that marriages require work and more often than not women pile up resentment and anger against their partner. That drudgery and resentment can often be an opportunity for an enterprising single guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:52 PM |
| 0 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooMost of the time husbands are boring and nobody likes them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?So what? That last 1% is a doozy Absolutely! However, you always need to keep the 99% in the back of your mind... because it doesn't go away. That 1% just gives you the opportunity to control it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooSame thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Your flattery is super effective, i won't lie. Tell me, what do you like the most - the chase or the reward of the chase? Don't think of it like flattery... because with flattery there is always a sense of untruth or even manipulation. Think of it more like the ability to see things other people don't and the desire to state those observations with honesty. I spent a lot of time learning to just observe how people interact... even in online chat forums. I'm not normally in the mode to be nice he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooHow so? Perhaps the father is working on that day? Bored housewives are the best! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooFact! But I'm not going to be trying it on with single dads or whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?We’re not chimpanzees that smash other people’s babies against the rocks to promote our own genes, we’re an intelligent, social species. If you believe in God... then this argument has weight. Otherwise, just go home because our genome says 99% chimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?He's not being forced to marry me. I wouldn't stop loving someone just because they had cancer. I know plenty of guys who wouldn't get involved just for the fear they could lose someone they love to a relapse. If you are worth loving then losing you is a risk that must be taken. But... that's also why I would want to do surrogacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?You are such a charmer 🤭 i can see why you are so successful in your "occupation"! You come across as the type of person who is just fun to talk with. That's the primary reward... fun conversation with witty women. The rest just flows from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooOr maybe it’s the mom who takes the child there. Same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Haha, i was just being cheeky... LOL... I bet you have wonderful cheeks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?I can have kids, but I also have a blood cancer that could return at any time and I couldn't receive treatment if I were pregnant. If I was your husband, I would get a surrogate provided you were willing to do the required treatment. Barring that I would have my own child with a surrogate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?y’all need to quit confidently “making bets” off people’s lives who you don’t know 😂 don’t you think she knows him better than you do?? The closer you are to a situation the more emotions cloud your judgement. You should know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:18 PM |
| 0 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Not everyone feels a need to have biological kids. We want kids to love. No, 99% of the population desire biological children. It's instinctual. Raising someone else's progeny is perhaps the most ridiculous evolutionary action of all time, and thus has been heavily penalized for a millenium. Heck, many mammals will kill the step children when they begin mating with the new female to make sure these step cubs don't compete for resources with their own kids. I mean look, if you can't have kids you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are women blamed for “hypergamy”, or more accurately greater female reproductive success?Like if the one allowed outlet for men to get physical affection and support is in a relationship with a woman... but it's not realistic or masculine to want to be desired or appreciated from your partner. I mean maybe the people that want to be women have a point. Am I crazy? You are thinking with Greek Logos or Logic, not emotional logic. You think that being able to express a need for something is going to get you that thing. Anyone who has ever dealt with people... especially women will know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?That is very weird. Does he have terrible genetics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Technically... I'm a highly paid skill worker who works mostly with C Suite execs. However, I wasn't being that literal. I was referencing the "player" lifestyle we operate and promote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Yeah, I'm the pain in the ass for guys like you that doesn't bed anything immediately or even close to. You can't just look like what I want, you've got to pretty much be the thing I want. And the only way a dude is getting around that is if he's willing to put on a con job for like a year or more and lie directly to my face. And I mean, if he's willing to do that, I guess god bless and I'll look forward to karma putting her shoe up his ass. LOL... most Red Pill guys are like the Nigerian Prince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Question for the 35+ crowd42 - M - In 3 Relationships I think there is a large group of boys who are totally lost and need someone to reach out give them a hand. That used to be what the Red Pill was all about. Today I just see them wallowing in despair, which will not help anyone. Younger folks need to understand that Nihilism isn't an answer. The only thing that younger people face that I didn't is an economy that is harder to succeed in if you don't study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Question for the 35+ crowdI think social media and apps are still a relatively small percentage of the entire experience, and all the crying about tinder/etc. is blown out of proportion by the Terminally Online. From what I see, social media has broken down the cliques. I'm not sure if you are old enough to remember the skaters, jocks, nerds, drama geeks... ect. I do see that most of Gen Z girls don't use the way younger millennials did. They seem more saavy. However, I also disagree that it hasn't had a major impact....… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?They want what I want and got, they just lack the patience, discipline, and willingness to die on the hill that I have. Yes. I think a lot of women are plenty willing to die alone with their careers and a bottle of wine to comfort them. It's the patience, and discipline you mention that they lack. As someone who greatly benefits from this... when they see something that looks like what they want... they hop in bed with it immediately. What is interesting is that I find they are much more interes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Says she can’t clean because she’s “stressed” She is high anxiety and thinks that controlling everyone around her will fix it, but that just makes it worse and makes her less functional. The way to move towards resolving this is to take all of her control away and make her get used to following. Once the anxiety of being in charge dissipates everything improves. I've been through this with a couple of ladies. Let me give you an example to understand how this works. A lot of people are incapable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?The younger brother of the guy above has 3 kids and is married to a woman who basically runs his daily life and he’s rarely able to see his family. He’ll lose everything if they divorce and is royally fucked This is a lot more common than you seem to think. This is what we call "Yes, Dear" culture where you do whatever is needed to placate your wife. Usually both parties in this relationship are unhappy.... but we teach boys to be like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?It's always been a thing. You can read the writings of ancient peoples and see that some cultures the men greatly preferred fierce, strong, and independent women. I once read a story about a Roman Centurion who raped a Galatian Celt woman. She returned a few hours later and stabbed him to death in a knife fight. Celts were infamous for having their wives carry giant shields into battle to protect their husbands from blows... the idiots fought naked and painted blue. Super submissive, passive wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooUh... I used to take my daughter to the zoo when she was a tiny tot and the place has more than a few single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:41 PM |
| -2 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?I'm not a one night stand girl, I run across your posts in this sub from time to time and I'm not sure you realize how unique you are in your mindset. The dating market would be a much better place if the majority of ladies were like you. LOL... It would also put guys like me out of business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:28 PM |
| 4 | How more comfortable would you feel with (and willing/happy to have sex with) a man who had a vasectomy?Does he already have biological children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:23 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineGame recognizes game! Posts like this are the only reason I bother sticking around this cesspit. This stuff works like bloody magic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:44 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineRaw Sexual Chemistry, Opposites Attract, Similarity Attracts, are the most common ones to use. I forget what we used to call the other two, but one has to do with dominance/submissiveness, and the other with excitement. You can add stuff or divide them, but the core point is that it isn't fucking "fate". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are women blamed for “hypergamy”, or more accurately greater female reproductive success?I think this question deserves an answer. Men and women have different brains... we can see this in scans. There are certain modes of behavior that women tend to naturally exhibit. This kind of attention seeking is one of them, and it makes perfect sense since it's designed to get a man to stick around and raise his kids in a world where there are no child support laws and no welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:17 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineOlder women don’t put up with that paternalistic and condescending shit at all you mean. This assumption that women never do anything bad is fucking stupid. Get off your high horse! This works much, much better on older women. They know what they are about and greatly appreciate when I'm being honest and forthright about things I don't like pertaining to their behavior. Let me provide an example. A few years back I had this thing with a lady a bit above my age and she kept cancelling dates and n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Any women here..87% of women never cheat and approximately 80% of men never do. In other words a vast majority. Also infidelity declines in each generation (lowest currently among millennials and zoomers) and the gender gap continues to close as well. I think these stats are not accurate. I suspect that infidelity within relationships not just marriage is much closer to 50% for both genders. Also... women cheat ALOT and they lie about it and don't get caught. I've been a partner to it many times... so I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.Deriving pleasure from one's own traumatic experience is the brain protecting it from itself. Why make it unbearable if it could also be nice, right? What you say here makes a lot of sense. I will definitely think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:34 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineFor all the RP shit spewed, I think the way men and women handle conflict is the number one takeaway men need to have (maybe other than sex). The blank slate does so much fucking damage in that regard. Always keep your eye on the power dynamic of each relationship, and each potential fight. A lot of time women use fighting as a form of shit testing... but that doesn't mean what she is upset about isn't real... it's just obscured. The reason that being playful and then moving fights to sex is so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Why are women blamed for “hypergamy”, or more accurately greater female reproductive success?They view sex as the ultimate most important thing in the world With attractive people. They feel this proves their own worth. So everything else doesn’t matter, they get to have sex, their lives are charmed. They see manhood as a burden This is a really good way to describe the situation. They are driven almost exclusively by envy. If you ask them about money they have a disdain for work. They feel any effort you expend it bad, because it means you werent born a blue blood. That is in fact thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineThis is a man dating women. Most people like to think of "chemistry" like some form of fate. It helps them deal with both rejecting people and being rejected. Now, this is accurate to a certain degree like in matters of physical attraction. The same woman with makeup and a low cut blouse may be more attractive to me than the same woman with bare face and a turtle neck. So, these things are also somewhat malleable. Now, there are about 5 different types of chemistry, and I'm VERY good at creating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 8 | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mine--fighting with women is a losing proposition because you're on their turf. They seamlessly transition between logic and emotion and that mean thing you did a week ago and their feelings about their job/parents/problems and back to logic again. This is why men are told simply not to argue with a woman. I rarely fight anymore. I just have them tell me their concerns and I listen. Then I tell them what I'm willing to do. Any other kind of fighting is immediately turned playful and then sexual. Whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:58 PM |
| -2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.You can’t tell me it’s garbage when I’m telling you it is ACTUALLY the reason I’m into CNC lol. I already said that I can only speak from my own experience and viewpoint, but I can and do pinpoint that as the reason I’m into it. It gives me an out from shame. Sure. I'm just pointing out that you have a clear motive to lie to both yourself and everyone else. ETA: and it DOES explain about Muslim women who are blamed for their rapes — because even if they’re blamed for it, IT STILL ISN’T THEIR FAU… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessI am literally saying the same thing you are. People shouldn’t do things to benefit others. Yeah. Sometimes you have to say it in multiple ways before someone get's it. I really thought your post was brilliant... but it's that idea RadicalQueenBee put out that this needs to be 'naturally fitted' to you that I disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Any women here..Surgery 15-20 years ago would have made a difference, but in all honesty being "an uggo" didn't really hold me back as much as they say it should have. "Let me give you some advice, bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Any women here..But there's only so much polishing you can do to a turd! Regardless, I agree that any man, whatever their attractiveness level, will benefit from exercising and dressing well. Plastic surgery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.It’s VERY common to be into what OP mentioned in terms of porn or books I used to have a craigslist personals post where I just had a photo of my body and then some well typed bodice ripping fantasy. I cannot even begin to tell you how much I learned from it. I actually got the idea from a gay friend who did the same... just for a different audience. I've also gone into this in multiple relationships... but it's because of the above experience that I could. It's very, very, very hard to play out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:47 PM |
| -3 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.The first is that a lot of women, including myself, have been both shamed (and, thus, ashamed themselves) of being sexual beings and having sexual urges. With CNC, there isn’t any guilt from having an orgasm or being aroused because those things were forced onto you by another person. You get to enjoy all the parts of being a sexual person without feeling ashamed or bad about yourself because it isn’t “your fault” that it’s happening to you. That fails to explain why Muslim women who ARE blamed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.This has been a long going debate within the Red Pill. No consensus has ever been reached and not that many guys are willing to play around with this to the point where it matters. I think it's always there lurking in the back of your mind and then an experience can bring it forward. This is much better explanation as to why some people experience violation and then want to essentially reenact it, vs other people who don't. A guy I grew up with went to prison and was raped... multiple times. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.A mental fantasy vs actually doing it in the bedroom are two completely different things. How sure are you of that? Because in my experience if certain conditions are met... the two things can blend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Any women here..I'm about an objective 3/10 80% of the male population is a 5 or below when rated by almost any woman. Looks maxxing is a worthwhile endeavor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:13 PM |
| -1 | Any women here..Goodlooking men get cheated on too. It can happen to anyone. Absolutely! Women will always cheat if you let them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Any women here..I'm "2/10" looks wise Lose weight. There is no reason to be so low on the totem pole. I know dudes wanna date without working on themselves, but this is a foolish idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:09 PM |
| – | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”That’s sad because I was really looking to be eDuCaTed by an Andrew Tate simp. Need to brush up on my leadership skills I actually could teach you. I could teach you a lot, but I would have to take the measure of you first. I mean if you think Andrew Tate is some kind of leadership example... you definitely need help. Do you know the single most important trait a leader must have? What do you think it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:04 PM |
| 14 | Why are women blamed for “hypergamy”, or more accurately greater female reproductive success?This is a Red Pill vs Black Pill difference. The Red Pill asserts that women are hypergamous. There is no real value judgement on it and the only reason we even talk about it is to attempt to understand how hypergamy works so that we can game the system. The consensus is that this is achieved by affecting the aspects of a resource controller. Thus looking masculine, appearing wealthy, and giving off high status signals are the three key needs and we have developed a huge amount of techniques to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessPerhaps you are looking for a reward in the wrong place. When I was younger I absolutely hated having to spend time in the gym for sports. Later I hated doing it to look attractive. It was only once I quit putting in the effort and became pudgy and constantly tired that I realized the reward I wanted was not the reward I needed. Now I'm happy to go to the gym and I don't skip leg day, not because other people reward me... that does happen sometimes too... but at the core because it makes me feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:28 PM |
| – | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”What am I supposed to respond to? Misogynistic drivel? I have no expectation for you to respond to anything that may challenge your delusions. Have a wonderful day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:20 PM |
| – | New GSS Survey Dropped: "Is The Sex Recession Over?"In my opinion this is great news if accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Q4allI've done this. It's not as great as it sounds. These guys often have weird fantasies of you fucking them too. Otherwise... there is a subset who don't find their wives attractive anymore because they are fat, old, short hair, not feminine... ect. These guys will get off watching someone else find their wife attractive. It sounds odd but it's really like that. The last group are the raceplayers. These are the creepiest people around and I suggest everyone avoid them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?So what you are saying is hard work and courage and being social are good things to be doing? Hmmm I feel like I’ve heard that from people before, Just work at making the life you want. One of my Red Pill buddies is probably the lowest ambition dude I've ever met. He literally just needs beer and a place to sleep, and occasionally a woman. That last part is what got him motivated just enough to achieve his life goals. He taught himself JAVA and takes work on some app like FIVR. He basically trav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”Wouldn't that also mean that men who aren't a physical threat because of being really old or infirm couldn't be leaders? Yes. You know that this is true because you can feel it in your bones. This is why tribal societies almost never had elderly infirm leaders. It's also why so many rulers of the ancient world attempted to deify themselves. To lead you must be able to borrow the strength of others, and belief can be a powerful tool to achieve this. Once you move into the era of Divine Right of K… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?That doesn't really fly in the face of my 'gross older dudes' inference. It kind of depends on your definition of gross. Technically you can find anything gross. I know kids who think rainbows and unicorns are gross... but my daughter loves them. As you know... life is often about perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”You claim to have a LOT of leadership experience… yet judging from your username you have been very much led by an internet personality in to a cult-like extremist movement. Strange. I do, and I have no idea what you are talking about. I think it's much more likely you are out of touch with reality than I am. It’s quite obvious that your claims about women in leadership are bullshit. But I wonder why it is you need to believe that? Why do you need to undermine women? I’d imagine it has a lot to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingLol, even the most hardcore PUA/game guys admit they ain't getting shit from cold approaching and that most of their lays come from online game. Most guys are running both. Online sucks way harder in my opinion. The quality is lower... it just feels easier. I will give you an example. I was spending 2 weeks in Alaska for work... Pre-Pandemic. I had been getting some quality leads on Tinder, but they didn't match their pictures well and were very flakey. The first 4 days I only scored once. Then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching I can imagine that for the women cold approach works on, it's great for dudes to have less competition. Makes good sense to me. I'm not surprised especially if you're older because in my humble experience, dudes from older generations (I'm a millennial) tend to know how to talk to women and socialize much better in such a way that they can thread that needle. They also tend to have the money to back that life-style up. Other than my current man, I'd say the men who ever best hit on me tended t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:38 PM |
| – | So guys can just have a kid or kids with a woman;I kind of understand what you are driving at. I have one daughter... I'm not with her mother and have not been for a very long time. I don't want more kids because it would take away some of what I have with my daughter. If her mom wanted more kids and asked me to donate sperm, I would say "yes". If another woman asked me... I'm going to decline. The cost, the time, the energy... it's all more than I want. That said... there are a ton of low investment fathers who have tons of kids and put zero … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Interesting. Appreciate the perspective. Just keep in mind that the Red Pill and PUA community are almost one and the same. We always considered the Reddit folks to be... fringe, and mostly a pack of idiots. If you really listen to them, most are black pillers and incels. You cannot be an incel and Red Pill at the same time... it's not possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?You can't "seduce" a woman who does not want to be seduced, but you can make things more likely to happen than not. Yes, but women are VERY reactive. They have to be very firm in their mind that they don't want this to happen. Otherwise most women are open to seduction most of the time... and that includes married women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Does PUA actually work?Last Minute Resistance This has been taught by lots of guys and I'm also not a fan. Using emotional pressure or tricks to get a woman to have sex before she feels ready is not what we should be doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:14 PM |
| – | Does PUA actually work?What guy, especially young men, wouldn’t be willing to put down money to be able to do that? Because it requires WORK, and most of you pudwackers are lazy as fuck. It also takes courage, and most young men are extreme cowards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?Look, a lot of the stuff you see posted on YouTube are paid actors and they are trying to make money by selling weird systems and methods. Let me be the first to say that "game" works. PUA is so effective that once you get good at it, women are never really a struggle again. The other thing is that there are many different ways to run game that work on different types of women. What you need to do is figure out what types of game come easy to you and then begin running that type of game. At my c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:02 PM |
| – | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessObesity isn’t that, and as you said we can change our body fat percent. Are you kidding me? Considering the number of people in history who starved to death... Obesity is a huge advantage. If you visit any culture where food was scarce at some point in the past... fat people are viewed as VERY attractive. That's just a fact. People are always shocked at the medieval paintings of chubby women who are considered the "most beautiful" of their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:48 PM |
| 5 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingA: It means relationships are more likely, and casual sex is less likely, which is generally what women want. A lot of Red Pill guys... especially older Red Pill guys like myself have had this discussion many times, because we are absolutely crushing it. I'm doing better with young women today than when I was 30. These ladies are not more attracted to me now... it's that they have fewer options in their own age categories. All the other Red Pill guys same the same thing. We are all running harem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”There are core personality traits that leaders need. Women don't tend to have them... and when they do it often comes across negative. Dominance and aggressiveness are great examples. When I come at a guy with dominance and aggression, they will always in the back of their mind perceive the threat I represent. They want me on their side, not as an opponent. When a woman comes with the same energy every guy knows in the back of his mind that he can kick her ass, so that dominance and aggression f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”Are you for real? Out of interest - what’s your leadership background like? I have a LOT of leadership experience. I captained sports teams my whole educational career, built charity organizations, created a tech startup and sold it... I teach, I coach. Almost everything I get involved with I wind up in leading. There are definitely some tricks to it, but a lot is just core personality traits and they tend to be very rare in women. Although, women who are good leaders tend to be the very best. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?What is wrong with you people? Do you think Bezos is ONLY shagging this lady? It's like all of you wierdos who just assumed Bill Gates was completely faithful until someone spilled the beans that he had been banging younger women for decades. Hell... Epstein tried to blackmail him over shagging a 20 year old bridge player from Russia. You people are absolutely ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Yeah. I feel like most redpillers are either young men or gross older dudes. Having been in the community for years... You are dead wrong. At least a quarter of Red Pillers are black guys of all age ranges and backgrounds. Hispanic, Indian, East Asian... these guys make up at least another quarter of us. When we did regular meetups the professions were all over the place. Physicians, Lawyers, Construction workers, Day Traders, Crypto hounds, Sales guys... and even some waiters and pizza delivery… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:03 PM |
| -4 | CMV : Women DO have varied taste, but it’s not anywhere near as unique as they think. Men would do best to adhere to the “fundamentals”but mostly because women haven't been put in positions of leadership because men restrict our access to senior leadership roles. The vast majority of women are horrifically bad leaders, so nobody is holding you back, it's just that you are totally and utterly incompetent. The few women who ARE good leaders always rise to the top and nobody can stop them. I've dated a lot of Type A women like your sister. They are almost never really happy with submissive men, although they tend to parter with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:43 PM |
| – | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Why would the average woman care about the ‘gravy train’ of government assistance ending? Because you don't understand how deep the gravy train goes! You know that job you have, but aren't good at or even qualified for? Yeah, that's part of the gravy train. Women seem to be doing great at getting basket weaving degrees in college, but with most men sitting out the whole economy starts to sink and we can't afford useless mouths in most companies. What you seem to fail to realize is that everythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Whatever makes money... right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Damn few single women can pay for IVF alone. The ones who do are usually lesbians... and that's a whole different set of issues for a young boy. Still, having two lesbian moms is way better than just one mom... which still isn't optimal. I think you are wrong that it's just money. Yeah sure male family members can provide something... but it's typically very limited. I've know more than one emotionally stunted failure, who had a mom who made plenty of money. Fact is someone was raising the kid a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything.I think, on a per-passenger-mile basis, the dangers of Vietnam become apparent. Uh... if you are going to do that then you need to factor in the fact that Americans have to drive like 10 or 20 times greater distance to do anything. That makes it look safer when it's not. The fact is that they are about equivalent... despite the fact that Vietnam has no rules and everyone drives scooters. The US has way higher speeds and a lot more dipshits on their cellphones, and people high as a kite. I've don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 8 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.So men should be entitled to a female partner to prevent people with more access to guns than mental healthcare from killing some randoms a couple times a year. Entitled to a woman? What kind of stupid framing is that? There is a problem and we should be working to fix it as a society. It's like this fentanyl crisis. We lost more people in 10 years than any war in our history... and our best solution is free needles and tents. Really? What the fuck is wrong with you people? This wave of incels n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Now that that’s not needed, women can be more picky. We don’t even need to get married to have babies, we don’t even need partners to have babies. Ultimately, marriage was never a true positive for women: it was a means of survival for some. No, women still need a man... especially if they have kids. The outcomes for children without a father in the home are fucking horrendous. What's really going on is that women have passed laws to pad their own incomes and give themselves jobs they aren't' qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:17 AM |
| 8 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.It is men who have decided that there is a 'big picture', and in this big picture almost all men should get a woman and vice versa. Because a large number of men are not stupid and they don't like being gunned down in the street or in their schools by some pissed off incel. People who can't see the bigger picture are what we call idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything.The only aspects I don't miss are the women, the cost of living, and MAGA. But I'd rather live under Trump as emperor than the Vietnamese politiburo. You have to understand how to work with them! If you are useful to them, then they will treat you well and give you all kinds of advantages. Just understand if you make ten bucks, you are going to have to pay them 8 or 9 smackers for the privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything.Even Amber Heard. Are you suggesting the western gold diggers will cut your finger off and shit on your pillow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:22 PM |
| 0 | I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything.I took my half-Vietnamese kids outside of the country the moment I could. Vietnam has about 7,000 traffic fatalities per year, the US has 40,000. It's pretty equivalent per population unit. We drive way fucking faster, while texting and high on weed. They just have no rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalI disagree. If I get to know a guy who looks ok to me and we click really well I can get past the fact I wasn't fawning over his looks in the beginning. However if I find him unattractive we will just both be miserable in the relationship. It's just harder, not impossible. There are enough good looking guys that you shouldn't have to work that damn hard. In this context I don't understand what personal responsibility women are supposed to own up to exactly It's just a general observation. See wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalI don't know where you live, but I don't see lots of grossly overweight white and asian women in their 20s. If the argument is that they are fluffier than 30 years ago, or that obesity that used to very rare in young women is more common and visible now, I would agree with you. This is just an issue of percentages. Most women I see in their 20s have BMIs between maybe 19 and 27. And honestly? The fluffier ones that are well-proportioned and pretty are still desirable to most black and hispanic m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:41 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?What is the point of enslaving people if bots can do all the work for you? I think it's obvious I'm on the anti side of AI but if we're worried about scheming elites I think it'd be more likely they automate away the need for the peons and then let us eat eachother. I suspect you are imagining an AI capable of doing things that at the moment is inconceivable. They want to dominate things that display true emotions. They want to dominate you and me... not some robotic facsimile. I don't think tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:44 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Ah yes because there aren’t any male democrats and men have NEVER implemented policy that turned out to be a mistake. JFC are you for real? The party agenda is exclusively female, because without women voters they couldn't win any election in any state. The gender imbalance in the parties is that bad. Do men impliment bad policy? Sure. Then they change when it's not working. I see no signs of women ever changing... so you have these policies that don't work and continue to not work, and nobody e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:40 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?having a bigger GDP then some countries, providing the highest percentage of food to the rest of the country, and funding failing red states, what are they even good for! CA is NOT LIBERAL. That is horribly fucking insulting. Also... everything you list was built by men in my grandfathers generation. Did women build silicone valley? Did they create the gold rush? Pump the oil? Build the aerospace industry? Build Hollywood? Not much. As for funding Red States... that's always been a bullshit meme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalThe men on here don't seem to complain that women go for looks full stop. They complain that women only go for EXTREMELY attractive men, that the couples they see aren't "matched", that ALL the young 20-something year old women they see about town are grossly overweight, etc. That is a sign something is miscalibrated in my opinion. Some truth to that. The human brain isn't designed to do mate selection from an image. That's a fact. This is something new to this generation. I've noticed it with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalWhat can we do about it though? Genuine question bc as a woman who is very aware that I don't find most men attractive I don't see how I could change that. I've been told to lower my standards but I can't exactly force myself to find a man good looking and no physical attraction isn't a great start for a relationship You need to start by figuring out how your attraction actually works. I think there is enough evidence that our attractions are malleable that we can jettison this idea that someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalPicky makes it sound like we have the choice between Colgate and crest and just refuse to use Colgate because we're such princesses. Yeah... I will concede this is probably a good critique of my word choice. I'm using picky because most people use the word picky. I think you make a good case that we should be using a different word. At the end of the day, women are really trying to do something very different with this, than most men are doing. I don't screen women out. I don't have to. Women on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:07 PM |
| – | Can men here comment on these hypocrisies some men say about women?You sound like you're in denial. This is a medical fact. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/44641#1 Women of any age who become pregnant with older men also have a higher risk of miscarriage, the study found https://www.med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2018/10/older-fathers-associated-with-increased-birth-risks.html https://health.usnews.com/health-care/for-better/articles/late-paternity-can-older-men-have-healthy-children 40 million births is a HUGE sample size. So big in fact that I can g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is your age range in men?But to your question, I definitely took him seriously as a romantic partner— I was just worried he wouldn’t take me seriously. The risk paid off though— I’m very happy with him. In my experience, some guys like older women. Ladies live longer so technically this could make a lot of sense. Usually these guys tend to not be super successful with women to begin with, or deeply introverted. If something changes and they become more desirable... younger women will absolutely try to take him away like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:30 AM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?I think this is broadly where we'd be going without AI - but AI could give us an eternal cushy existence and allow us to get perpetually more pathetic while insulating us from collapse. Uh... Have you seen how Russia, China, Iran, Venezuela, and all the other autocratic governments of the world use AI? It's much more likely to usher in a new dark age of human bondage and slavery to an all powerful ruling elite. The whole world will be like North Korea. Western elites are eyeing these changes wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:24 AM |
| – | Can men here comment on these hypocrisies some men say about women?It's a fact that sperm quality and count reduces. That's the reality of ageing. Hence why sperm banks have upper age limits. They have upper age limits because that drop in count matters. But I thought we were talking about birth defects? Because in aged parents it's 80% the mother. But it isn't the men buying sperm! If you look at studies of older fathers, they only have significant issues with birth defects if they are having kids with older mothers... which is virtually always the case. Now..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:02 AM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?It's more likely you will be too obsessed with your AI fuckbot to care what real women are out there doing with their god damned cats. I don't think you really understand what the future looks like... with a male population that is checked out and unwilling to do anything but the bare minimum. Do you think women are going to take over and run shit? Look at the policies they support right now? It's going to be all kinds of free shit for a while and then we wind up living like Mad Max. There simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:46 AM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?That's always been good enough for me. I don't need you to own a boat. Sure, but that never stopped a woman from ending the date on my yacht and testing out the motion of the ocean. If I compare to the success rate of walking her back to her apartment... it's a significant difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:34 AM |
| – | Can men here comment on these hypocrisies some men say about women?You are going to find a lot of younger guys can't tell when a woman has makeup on... and certainly can't tell when they had plastic surgery. This takes experience. Regarding the age thing... Men age slower that's a biological fact, however a lot of guys don't take care of themselves, so they look like shit. Still a man with wrinkles does look much better than a woman with the same. The reason is simple fertility. Anyone who doesn't realize this is dumb as hell. That's not to say there aren't som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:24 AM |
| 4 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalThey do not necessarily reflect how men look in real life because they often take poor photos and neglect their grooming. This puts them at a disadvantage and results in lower ratings for attractiveness. Most of the studies took random men and random women from college campuses and then made them put on white T shirts and then took head shots. Then the opposite sex rates them for attractiveness. While you aren't wrong about how men talk, move, and act being factors... they virtually never change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:59 AM |
| – | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".You are a peacock. You fluff your feathers and do your dance. That's the reality of being a man in this world. Too many guys now days bitch and whine wishing they could be women. Well... guess what? If you want that, then you better make yourself the fucking King... and even the king often has to do his little dance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:53 AM |
| 13 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalI wouldn't say more picky, I'd just say men are choosing to almost exclusively pay attention to one thing that they find easiest to deal with on most levels and are ignoring the other thing until it is to their detriment. Women are pickier.... you should just own it. I can't say that it's a horrible thing. Women are actutely aware of both levels and only motivated if both are in conjuction. So... in my experience being "fun" counts for a huge amount with women. I know ladies tend to think they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.Long time, hope all is well. My Heavens! How are you? LOL... I bet you are still the most beautiful woman on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:42 AM |
| – | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalLearn to play guitar and join a band to make up for it. I had a friend who was 100lbs overweight and played the bloody Keytaur in a band and got women from it. You cannot believe how stupid he looked playing the keyboard guitar on stage. I remember him pointing at this lady during the concert and afterwards they are making out back stage. Female attraction is so stupid I've never been able to respect it. It's so easy to game that the only women I wind up having big respect for are the ones who c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:36 AM |
| – | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".A lot of ladies have this perception that the older guy is looking for a naive woman who will put up with his bullshit... or isn't financially established herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:48 AM |
| 5 | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".When people say that they mean the 21-year-old with a car who delivers pizza and dates a high schooler who thinks their car is cool. LOL... It's not the 80s anymore. If you want to attract a high school age girl with a car, it better cost $200,000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:46 AM |
| – | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".Truth. If you are an older guy and want to date younger women... the larger the age gap the more attractive you have to be as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.It’s basically a fetish for self pity mixed in with laziness and self absorption. I talked to a few of them over the years thinking maybe I could help them raise up. What I found is that they are so totally filled with jealousy and envy that it's pointless. They literally resent the fact that they have to work to improve themselves and in fact believe that when guys like you or me put in the effort it's proof that we are losers... because we need to work at it. Basically they are upset they were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:41 AM |
| -1 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaic💪 gfu brobeans! The best part is that I had a decent career, but basically wasted all my money on stupid shit. From 2008-2016, I stopped spending on women and dumped all my money into real estate and creating rentals. Almost everything I bought back then has tripled in value and rents have blown up. I completely paid off 2 properties during the pandemic and when the market dips I'm going to buy more. I also plan to buy some stuff overseas to diversify. The Red Pill changes lives! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:38 AM |
| 11 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalDue to this difference in communication patterns, men naturally assume women are concerned with things that aren't as "shallow" or looks-based. After all, she isn't talking about a meaty cock, jizz, fuck-me abs, or oral lips, so you know, this is about personality...right? But a woman would easily know that if I say my boyfriend has a nice smile, I am expressing physical attraction, I'm just doing so in a womanly way. I think there is a lot of validity to what is being said here. But also... the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 17 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalA bigger issue is that many men overestimate their own looks and what the equivalent woman looks like, not the small percentage of oddities that didn't somehow absorb this information through osmosis. Studies suggest that this isn't accurate. Women don't rate average looking men as average looking... they rate them as ugly. The attraction bell curve for women is fucking insane... THAT is the core issue. An average guy assumes that an average looking gal is going to be interested in him... and sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:24 AM |
| – | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalhow many of them have already lowered their standards as far as they can though and still have trouble in finding dates? Listen, you need to sign up for an acid attack support group! These ladies with melted faces can sometimes have lower standards. Sometimes! It's no guarantee of success... because you are still going to have to have a certain level of financial ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicWhat's your story with escaping the matrix? I was one of those 6 pack college athletes and good looking enough to get tons of female interest... but still couldn't get a girlfriend. Finally I got lucky... or not... and married her by age 20. At 27 I caught her running around behind my back and went through a nasty, nasty divorce. Lost, alone, desperate... I figured why not give this red pill thing a shot in 2008 and WHAM... I'm practically drowning in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.Sounds like it was fun. Amazing times! We actually had a network and we would regularly meet up to go test out ideas. Eventually we got older and all of the self improvement stuff began making huge dividends. We got wealthy and started doing international trips together. I spent a month rolling through South America with these guys who came from literally all walks of life. We were wild, we were fun. LOL... I've got a million crazy stories from that time period. Like we were in Bali and my buddy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:11 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.P.S. The stewardesses thing just sounds straight out if the first wave of RPers. Look, we got deplatformed. THAT is what happened. I was running field reports all the way up to 2019. A great example of this is that they started claiming Roosh was a rapist and getting his stuff banned everywhere. They went after our meetups... if we posted stuff publicly wierdos would actually show up and threaten us. Roosh had to leave the US essentially on a permanent basis. Last I heard he is still over in Eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicPretty much everywhere else in the world it's not shocking that this stuff works. The fact is that we have allowed Feminists to lie to our faces all day long and anyone who challenges their lies gets knocked down. The reason we chose the "Red Pill" term is because we are living in a feminist build matrix of lies and deceit... this false reality. It was a call to wake up and fight. But this was impossible because there is no brotherhood of men. The blue pill asshats refuse to make a change that b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 11:52 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.Roosh V and Strauss would never say “dump your gf and wait until you get rich and commit to one woman!” They would say keep her and cheat. I knew Roosh personally. Red Pill was intimately linked to PUA. They didn't really care what you did with it or how you ran your life/game. Honestly, there are two goals, breaking your mind free of the blue pill bullshit and second is improving yourself. I've never in my life experienced a more powerful and supportive community for men who helped to push each… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Men being required to ask women out overvalues womenOr perhaps these men just disagree with you on what they want in a partner. Um... This is part of the answer. Most of the time you see high value men dating down, it's because that guy wan'ts to play the field and this is the woman who is willing to accept that. The mid range guys who date down are not really in the same boat... these guys just don't have options good options, because the women they should match with are busy chasing the super high end guys. As much as this poster would like to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?This is why more men need the Red Pill. The Zero Date Bang method probably would have worked fantastic in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:27 PM |
| – | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.Oh, there are tons. I'd say anywhere from 10% to 20% of male celebs marry average women. Guys like Mel Gibson. If you changed the divorce laws so that low earning women couldn't fuck them over horrifically, then this number would jump like crazy. How many male professional athletes marry wealthy celebrity women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:11 PM |
| – | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.About as many as hot celebrity men dating normal women. As in, pretty often. Yeah... when the hot young starlet marries a janitor, you can come back and tell me. I will wait patiently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes are very bad at assessing their own level of attractivenessYou mistake the bar to get married vs the one to get sex. It is much easier to get a gf/casual sex but yes it's provably harder to get married. Being a provider isnt enough anymore now you also need a healthy relationship and true love. There is no more any safety emergency to get married. No more need to commit to have sex thanks to the pill/abortions Nothing new here. They used to sacrifice unwanted children to some god or whatever. Burning a newborn is not functionally different than abortion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:08 PM |
| – | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.American men are so resistant to dating their American looksmatch LOL... If you are a 5 looking guy and go overseas... you aren't going to be pulling 7's and 8s. Even if you got money you won't be doing this. Now you can take advantage of different beauty standards. Like when I'm in Japan, I know the ladies interested in me are the equivalent of the fat ugly girls in the US... but I'm cool with it because my beauty standards are not the same as theirs. B | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:02 PM |
| – | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.How many super hot celebrity women do you see dating normal guys? I mean you see male stars married to everday women all the time, but never the other way around. So... there you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:55 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of male celebrities who despite being found not guilty of their sexual assault allegations are still canceled and banned from their industries?Guilty until proven innocent is a beautiful concept when you assume evidentiary law always works and that bad guys cannot win because daddy has more money and better lawyers or the cops were negligent that day. And on a lot of these things, they're so much more complicated than anything evidence can ever really do, that the best we have is killing people in the court of public opinion. We use evidentiary law because that's how we make informed and correct decisions. You are correct that a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Would you marry someone that was not very bright?That's good enough for you? but also dumb as a post. I knew a guy similar to this. It seems fine up front, but over time it really wears on you. He did not keep girlfriends for long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Women want men who elicit in her the same behavior that they find so abhorrent and repulsive in men.if anything i’m a brat/sub type that j enjoys being adored and praised Shocking how BDSM archetypes can often completely and accurate describe what you want in a relationship in one sentence or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of male celebrities who despite being found not guilty of their sexual assault allegations are still canceled and banned from their industries?I mean, I don't speak for the others. All I'd say is that I don't think the justice system is always the best way to achieve justice in many many circumstances. Yeah... I hear a lot of activist types saying this. The justice system exists for a reason and the rule of evidentiary law... guilty until proven innocent and stuff like that are all hallmarks of a fair and just system. On the other hand guilt by accusation is the core trait of evil dictatorships and terrible people. I personally wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?I’m too much of a dork, and until my husband I was too much of a virgin. I’m simply not the attractive type. Thank you for sharing. I'm very glad you found someone who loves you. It has also been a major benefit overall, though. I have never had issues being taken seriously professionally or as a friend, which is pretty great. This is a true benefit that people don't often talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.A lot of women from these countries will TELL you their gold diggers themselves that they’re looking for the best provider for their families. I don’t begrudge them that at all but it’s not a made up phenomenon. I find men to be shallow no matter what their country of origin is Yeah, I've met those ladies too. It's the percentages that make the difference. When I lived in SanFran... the women are just trash. I dated this lady who worked in marketing for a tech company. This was like 2007. On the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Both sexes are very bad at assessing their own level of attractivenessDamn, you fantasize a lot the old times. Well... It depends on where you lived and what you did back then. Most men that didn't die in a war, or through some occupational hazard was able to get married and have children. The bar wasn't that high. Like if you know China today, guys have to be seriously set up financially to get a wife. But you also have to understand that people back then lived in constant terror and fear. Protection was their number one concern by a huge margin. First of all i d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.Theirs just…no proof this is happening. This is made up uncle rhetoric with very little basis in reality There's is the correct form of the word. What the hell is Uncle Rhetoric? What part of this are you doubting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of male celebrities who despite being found not guilty of their sexual assault allegations are still canceled and banned from their industries?She wrote that she drove back to her San Diego home and awoke the next day with a split lip, a swollen jaw and cheekbones, two black eyes, “over 10” scratches on her face, and bruises on her gums, buttocks and vagina. People need to get more judgmental over other folk's "kinks", and women need to stop reading 50 Shades. There are so many women under 30 now who think it's awesome to be choked and slapped during sex. It's weird as fuck. What is wrong with our country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:55 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of male celebrities who despite being found not guilty of their sexual assault allegations are still canceled and banned from their industries?It is however, quite sad if it got the wrong people....I just tend to think that's quite rare when the people accused have like...that many women accusing them. But if it were to happen, I feel sorry for them I think the people who push this type of reputation destruction have openly said they don't care if it hurts innocent people. They think the ends justify the means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?I don’t think I’m ugly. Just plain. Ordinary. So-so. There is a beauty in being plain. It's hard for me to explain. I once had a very good female friend I would have described in such terms when we had only known one another for a short time. I can say for certain she has a powerful smile and a personality that can be magnetic at times. I cannot explain why, but after a few months her features became wildly beautiful to my opinion. All I can say is that what is beautiful and what is ugly... we o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:38 PM |
| -2 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.Again, what are the hotter women doing then? Do you think they're single? One gender only dating up makes no sense if you apply any thought to it at all. When the obesity rate for women under 40 in the west is like 40%... it means there are a lot fewer "hot women" by your average man's standpoint. Male obesity is also high, but a few percentage points lower.... but these guys don't date anyone. The young thin attractive women of any particular western country are generally dating the upper class… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.I've dated in a lot of different countries. Western Females tend to be very shallow. It's just a fact. It doesn't have anything to do with real attraction... it's the same crap psychology that made Hugh Hefner date 20 year old girls when he was 80. It makes them miserable, but they do it to prove something to themselves. Now, people are gonna say that the rest of the world are just Gold Diggers... but it's a lie. These ladies plan to have kids and a family, so they choose men who will be good fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.I think you might just be selectively looking. Naw... this is a long running joke we used to have about the Western guys when we were living in Asia. You constantly would run across these tall handsome fit guy... mostly Australian in Asia dragging around some overweight busted looking girlfriend. The European guys tended to be stick thin, but generally handsome with mediocre looking women. The fact is that in the west... women have used government to tilt the economic playing field in their favo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?I’m just not that pretty looking, have a big nose, was 30 at the time, and it was a relatively rural area. I would be willing to bet you are more attractive than you give yourself credit for. Also, keep in mind that beauty and sexiness are two different things... and men respond most to sexiness. I honestly started using Tinder and immediately felt like the ugliest dude on planet earth. It was WAY worse than meeting women in person. I stopped and thought about it a bit. I've never been the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?I'm a small, attractive, mid-30's woman of color. Oh. So it's related that BIPOC term? Can I be honest... I find it deeply wierd. I was a kid in the 90s and I remember when my grandfather who was born in the 1920s was trying to adapt to new politically correct lingo and stopped using the term "colored people". Now this term comes along and it just makes me feel like racists found a new way to say this crap again... but I suppose it's just a cultural thing. I pretty much stopped paying attention … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes are very bad at assessing their own level of attractivenessIn the past when I would use the apps I’d go for who seemed the most interesting rather than who was hot (conventionally). I absolutely hate it, but modern dating is all about marketing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Both sexes are very bad at assessing their own level of attractivenessMarry a woman who chose you because she know you are the best looking guy she can get, and not the richest/better class, and you will have sex whenever you want. The issue with this idea is that the female sex drive is signifigantly different than that of the male sex drive... it's much more responsive. Women respond to shit. The main reason for dead bedrooms is men who don't know how to get what they want, and/or are not willing to drop the hammer. When a woman wants to keep you in her life you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes are very bad at assessing their own level of attractivenessIt's the exact opposite , we had to marry for a pussy now it takes 3 beers ... Even in 1820 that wasn't true. Prostitution was bloody everywhere and super affordable. Also... it was so common for dudes to promise the moon, bang and then dump that most countries made it a crime called "seduction". There is definitely pussy inflation... and like all things capitalist the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. LOL... except I suspect the communists won't touch this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?More like slightly better I guess. You must have used truly awful profile pictures. My sister had better results than you cliam to have had and she complained constantly. Then I pointed out that one of her pictures you could clearly see her beard... because she has a hormone disorder. After removing the bearded picture... the male interest skyrocketed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men would enjoy having your experience with online dating? Why or why not?I'm a cute, petite (post-wall) WOC What does this even mean? Look, I know men who have incredible amounts of online attention. They get picky. That's just what happens. Sometimes they get picky regarding who wants sex RIGHT NOW, or sometimes they get picky about women's looks or educational status. They just get picky. That's how having lots of options works. It's also why men who bitch about women being picky are just fools. Now... we can have a conversation about the absolutely ridiculous and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?I don't think that's really what they are trying to do. We essentially tell boys that if they cannot be attractive to women they have no value. They internalize this and then throughout their lives they continually try to prove to themselves that their lives are valuable... even when they clearly aren't. I personally have found that maintaining financial control over people is much more valuable than sex... and a much better way to prove your own worth. So work your ass off and put the money int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadI had quite a few Red Pill friends that are black americans and traveling together I learned quite a bit about where they had challenges and where they did well. Honestly... I think overall they have an easier time than me, except during one trip to Shenzen. The nice part about Europe compared to say Minnesota... the competition is lower and the women don't expect you to conform to stereotypes... you can kind of be yourself more. Individual experiences will vary though. Also... be careful in Ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:49 PM |
| 50 | The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher.So, this guy made vast amounts of money telling women what they want to hear??? Listen guys, there is nothing you can do to make these ladies better. Just sell them lies they want to hear and cash those checks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value?She would be way more up to it, if she wasn't in a relationship with the guy. Because FFM is a competitive scenario with the perception of there being a lot of risk and chance to lose and ruin the relationship. So of course a random tinder date would be more likely to get her to join into an FFM. This is not my experience. I find the key indicator in openess to this kind of thing is bisexuality in the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadI dont know where you get that. I often hear from other red pill men that even if our women are "kinda crazy" they are not american level women, also they tend to be hotter and better behaving, thus better overall. An assessment I tend to agree on. Interesting. Maybe things have changed since 2019 or so. I felt especially in the areas south of Rio that too many of the ladies were becoming feminists and trying to copy all the bad stuff American women do. Still... I think it would be difficult for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadThe biggest plus is the fact that it's a tourist country anyway, a lot of places to party on the seaside and hook up. Yes, the tourists are much easier. Don't slander my guys, Croatian men are pretty great <3 You should definitely take that stance. They are really protective of their women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadI figure there has to be some component of being a wealthy foreigner? If he gets 200 likes a week on Tinder/Bumble, would a Black American get 40 maybe (so it's 80% white, 20% rich foreigner)? That's what I'm curious about. Black guys can do very well in the Phillipines, but most don't bother. It's MUCH better in Latin America or Western Europe. Go to Germany where it seems half the female population wants to try it on with a black guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadYeah, or just looking for girls who throw themselves at a dude for a possibility of a green card or something. Ok so the general Red Pill view on Croatia is that it's worthwhile because the women are fantastic, not because they are easy. Also Croatian men are well known cockblockers... although nowhere near as bad or aggressive as Serbian guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadSingle western men who come to Brazil in the pursuit of marriage for the most part indeed marry the women here... the thing is, they fuck a few women... but then just marry/date one after a long while. The Red Pill community does not particularly like Brazillian women. In too many ways they are just like American women. They also dont usually take them to their home country promptly either. This is very advisable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadWestern women don't fuck short poor Asian men in Bali. Oh, but there are enough Aussie Bogan dudes running around there for everyone. That particular group of men may take the title of worlds most thirsty. I've never been anywhere else where a drunk dude is basically willing to fight you to the death to take home a fat ugly blond girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadI found that documentary because it would seem that American men seem to think European women are'nt after money their money? Blue Pill guys are going to be idiots no matter what group of women they deal with, and it's simply becuase they have been lied to their entire lives about female nature. Most of these guys are low Emotional IQ to begin with... so this cultural scam we run on them is just horrible. American women keep this shit going so they can fuck these guys over again and again. At le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:04 PM |
| 2 | on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship?And what are your stellar, 18 karat qualifications, may I ask? Or will you bow down to ‘non-STEM’ women when they have your nuts in a vice over a family law issue? Or an insurance claim? Hahaha.... Did I hit a nerve? The dudes who struggle with family law are the nice guys. I don't play nice and I certainly have the resources to get what I want. But more to the point... University doesn't make you smart. More often it just makes dumb people think they are brilliant. The STEM majors are difficult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?I think you are going to find that if the perception of need does not exist within the relationship.... the man will not be as emotionally engaged. If I look back on the myriad of relationships that I've had, the ones that evoked the greatest emotional response from me are the ones in which I felt needed. That makes sense if you really sit down and think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?It’s not that no one cares. It’s that for most women, it doesn’t really matter. People will like you or not as you are, you should be yourself and not date the people who don’t like that. This is abundance mentality talking. Today we have 8 billion some people on the planet and finding a new lover is as easy as swiping on a photo. But human beings are not entirely built for such a world. Deep in our psyche there isnt another person right around the corner... and you can't just act however you wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:04 PM |
| 0 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?if it matters to you, cool. it does not matter to me. It doesn't matter to me. However, it still affects me just like it probably affects you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?My father said nothing about women’s “body count”, either in a positive or negative manner, so I’m not sure how you think he’s somehow “unique” or what you think he was presenting in a positive light. That's not quite what I meant when I used the word Unique. I was referencing your fathers love style. Not many men are like that, and the ones who are tend to be very low experience. I assume your father is high experience and still capable of strong emotions in this regard. Many of us men are not.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:48 AM |
| 0 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?It definitely matters. Honestly when I had just been with a handful, I wasn't as picky. I also loved stronger and deeper. I think not caring is a sign of not understanding people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:45 AM |
| -1 | Should sleeping with others in the talking phase of a relationship be seen as a dealbreaker? why or why not?And they'll show themselves out.. Yes we do... usually about 3-6 months later. It's weird how people think disliking casual sex, and fucking around on the side while dating, is a value only religious or conservative people can have. It's not wierd... it's kind of factual. I travel a lot for work and I date all over the place. Religious people come in two flavors... Serious and Cultural. The cultural ones just make a big show of this shit and then act like anyone else. The serious ones are... v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:41 AM |
| -1 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?we might organically talk about past relationships and attitudes toward sex while we get to know one another This is actually how I know. In fact not that long ago I dated a woman who had been with... a lot of men. I just knew from her childhood issues and other stuff that this was the case. She straight asked me how many I'd been with and I gave my standard lie... she on the other hand was very honest. Interestingly, she was very shocked that I wasn't shocked. My real number was more than 3 tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:33 AM |
| -3 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?I have never noticed any men vetting for partner count, no one I’ve dated has ever asked, nor has anyone left me when they realized I wasn’t a virgin or something. Your father is either unique or presenting himself in the most positive light for you. I will probably do the same for my daughter so as to set her expectations correctly. Regarding not noticing men vetting.... only really low experience guys would openly do this. The rest of us do it on the sly as we go. Also... I suspect you weren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?Not really. Like attracts like so it's not really an issue that comes very often. Unstable party girls and moralizing conservative men have 0 mutual interest in each other. Except when those moralizing conservative men have huge dicks. I've seen that shit show at least twice in my life. By the way... opposites very often attract | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:23 AM |
| -2 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?i’ve experienced only indifference. Ok... clearly you either come across as one extreme or the other. Or... it's also possible you are in some kind of niche community... like you exclusively date gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:20 AM |
| 3 | on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship?Because I have no fucking patience for nice, but completely incompetent people. I don't care how nice you are. If you're incompetent and unaware of your incompetence I will greatly dislike you. There goes the majory of women with advanced "non STEM" degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Why isn’t the idea that men should do all the chasing questioned?i think it’s really wonderful when two people are essentially trying to one up each other with loving gestures. I've had so many different kinds of relationships. I think deep down I like this kind of gentle intimate relationship... with a quiet lifestyle. My grandfather was a farmer... and I greatly miss summers out on the farm with him. But there is also something to be said for that wild passionate thing with intesnse makeup sex and fast living. It's also possible I'm just so engaged in this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Why isn’t the idea that men should do all the chasing questioned?reciprocal doesn’t have to be both people taking on equal amounts of the same exact role. I was like 33 and dating this Chinese lady in LA. She started bringing me these pre-cooked meals. First time I ever had a woman do something like that. I'd had women pay for my meals and other stuff... but frankly that's all low effort. Also... restaurant food is mediocre in flavor and terrible for health. Her home cooked food was so much better... and it took a lot of time and effort. Eventually I started … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Why isn’t the idea that men should do all the chasing questioned?didn't like the book really The book is about class divisions and inequality. HG Wells was well aware of the Rousseau saying "Eat the Rich". In fact, I hear people quote this all the time. However, Wells in his perfect use of irony shows that the very people who say that... often do so while uknowningly being prepared for the slaughter, where they will grace the tables of the rich. So, technically your use of the word Morlocks describes wealthy people who hide and obfuscate their power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?So we’ll stop having sex and go fantasize in the the next bedroom by ourselves if we’re loyal, or we’ll actually go cheat. This is absolutely true for a good chunk of women. Throughout history the answer was always a saudi arabian style system. However, I don't think it's possible for that in our society. Instead they should just be like face tattooed and disallowed from raising children or getting spousal support. Then everyone knows who they are, they can't fuck up any kids, or financially exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:06 AM |
| -6 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Look at it from a Red Pill perspective. It doesn't really matter what kind of man you are... society as a whole and women in general are pushing you into the role of traditional man. A lot of guys don't want that, but literally get forced into it because women have voted themselves the upper hand. What do you get for taking on this role and all it's burdens? Do you have a woman that does the same? Nope. As they work extra hard to uphold men to traditional standards, they have also successfully r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?However, it ended up being beneficial to Kuwait there's no denying that so I guess war isn't always fruitless. I take it back. In fairness there is a long, long history of countries where even winning the war was so costly that it destroyed the core of the nation in the process. The Roman Republic is a good example. The allies during WW1... and also perhaps WW2 are perhaps another. The UK for example went from world superpower to unable to even manage it's smallest colonial assets. Victory essen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:03 PM |
| 3 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?This statement assumes that a young man's family is the same as the government that rules over his family. It fucking isn't. History is filled with men who helped put their families in positions of priveledge by working with invaders. Somebody has to rule over the place once the current government has been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 2 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?You sound like a good patriot. You would only have to go to war if you chose to. Your father would be in a position to keep you out of any dangerous military service. He would have plenty of connections as a vital part of the war economy. LOL... I'm not far from being a grey hair myself. When I was young I truly believed in the Iraq war for about 3 or 4 years. Then I started to see the effects on people. My personal philosophy is that I don't want to see young men die in war unless I'm willing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact means ioi? Indicator of interest? Since when?Just grow a pair and ask him out. Yes... eye contact is and indicator of interest... at least for those who have normal brain fuction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Only a tiny amount of the young male vs female relationship difference is explained by lgbtq womenThat's not true at all. There are countless stats that I could point out to conservative people and I'd get the same type of response. Medical bills are the top cause of bankruptcy in America. "So what are you saying? We should have death panels and communist medicine?" Please link these studies, because they go opposite to my LIVED EXPERIENCE. I think you are totally full of shit... or very ignorant. I spent 4 years traveling the world doing international sales. I talk to people constantly wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Not surprised you don’t know very many queer people, hmm I wonder why that is. I probably know more than you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both gendersYou can perhaps subsitute Mexican for Middle Eastern women. Cartels... well Europe still has it's criminal element... usually Russian Mobsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both gendersCrude but true. I think Muslim men have this shit figured out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:25 PM |
| 4 | It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both gendersI had guy in high schol already balding. Damn that was brutal back then. Had a friend named Ryan who just shaved his head bald in high school. Pretty much only the Mexican girls dated him. He also made some side money selling drugs and wound up murdered by a cartel hitman at age 17. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 07:29 PM |
| 3 | It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both gendersYou dont get it. Men over 30 are undesirable to women under 28 This might be the most ridiculous thing ever said in the sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 07:25 PM |
| 10 | It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both genders. When it was all the lads together we had a good time. As soon as an attractive girl was in the group the guys changed. Starting insulting and trying to one-up/belittle each other. This is why Red Pill men believe it's absolutely essential to have male only spaces. Women have invaded everywhere and torn down our traditional gathering places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Think about media, how many shows/movies include a happy healthy lesbian relationship? Forget the media. I don't know many happy lesbian relationships in my personal life either. I can only think of one and it's an open relationship, where both women are completely obsessed with Skiing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 07:14 PM |
| 11 | Only a tiny amount of the young male vs female relationship difference is explained by lgbtq womenIt's not just a Reddit thing. It's an American thing No, it's a Left Wing American thing. I live on the coast, but my territory takes me inland quite a bit. Go to Boise Idaho or some place and you here polite discussions of these things happening all the time... and I've noticed they tend to be respectful. I've become increasingly tired of left wing america over time. I kind of feel like Bill Maher does... this is not the movement I grew up with. I sometimes wonder if we were always this stupid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:52 PM |
| 8 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.I know that they usually think they’ll be worth more because of their money but some of them legitimately think they’re going to be physically more attractive at 40-45. I know quite a few guys that were mediocre in high school, but look very good at 40... so it does happen. It's rare but women can do this too. I also find that having enough money allows you to take care of yourself in better ways. The prettiest girl I knew in High School looks like and old bag now. Meanwhile I'm in decent shape … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:38 PM |
| 6 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.The problem is that these guys want to believe that dating 20 year old instagram models gets easier in their 40s…they don’t view women in their 40s and 50s as human🤷♀️ Well... on the apps we just tell guys to lie about their age a bit. Whatever they can get away with. Like if you are 45 and can get away with it... post your age at 39. Does it get easier to date very young women? In some ways it does. I struggled from age 14 to 18, and from 18 to 27 I was married. So I don't really know what it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:32 PM |
| 0 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.beattempting to get in shape if he's not? We are always telling men to get their ass in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?If the US was invaded, no, I would feel a sense of duty to fight for freedom. While I wouldn’t want to fight in the sense of I don’t want to do violence in general, if my country was being invaded I would rather fight than lose my freedom. I thought about this. If Russia invaded California... I'd say fuck them. I'm not willing to fight for that pack of assholes. I've already got enough guns and weapons out outfit a small army. My father owns a bullet manufacturing facility. But... I'd rather cut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?War is always fruitless This is untrue. War is typically beneficial to the victor in the past. Modern war has been much less so, but only because the US has been a highly moral superpower. In a world without the US... the Iraqi invasion of Kuwait for example... the victorious Iraqi's would have taken all the oil, and enslaved the Kuwaiti population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:43 PM |
| 5 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?Have you read any history? I highly recommend almost all of Ken Burns books. They go highly into the detail work of war, the atrocities and the logistics. They don’t really highlight women, but some are mentioned by name. I think most of your analysis here is spot on. What I'm taking away from this conversation is that for many young men and boys like the one you are currently talking with... the social contract has been ripped up in our country and they aren't willing to fight for what has take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:35 PM |
| – | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?It's not that I would feel like a perv... that stuff doesnt matter to me. However women in that age bracket just aren't that appealing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 05:07 AM |
| – | CMV: Red Pill molds men to be ironically weak who conform to what TRP expects a man to be irrespective of family stability.Interesting , do you deny that TRP believe men should be leaders , make unilateral decisions etc because we are hard wired as such? Or is just about getting laid to you ? Look, there was always a divide among the Red Pill on this sort of thing. Some members felt that it was more masculine to use their dicks to ply women for gifts and money. Other guys felt that a guy had to lead and make his own money to be masculine. So far as I can tell both work, but on different types of women. If you want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.I kinda feel that's like if I constantly talked about the perfect recipe for pot roast...while being vegetarian lol. Haha... that is a fantastic analogy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Most men here put “pussy on a pedestal”You obviously misunderstand my position, I’m literally preaching the opposite of entitlement. I understand you now. You are correct that I probably just didn't read you correctly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.Though, note, Tate is in prison not the women that he abused. Everyone knew he was a rapist and a creep in 2015... actually much earlier. Women kept throwing themselves at him and then complaining about the abuse afterwards. Hey, Romania doesn't play around with that crap, and he is going to prison for a while, but you can bet sure as the sun rises that as soon as he gets out there will be a line of women waiting for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toI'd prefer to stop being bisexual Ok, I've only known 2 people who successfully did this and they weren't trying. Both were women and both gave up men after severely traumatic events. The key here is that bisexual people tend to be very fluid. To add rigidity you need to introduce an element of disgust or fear... typically some negative emotion and nurture it over time. The overall difficulty of this is likely why few women do it. I think it's easier for men who are less fluid by nature... but n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Why TRP men worry more about childless women than the homeless, the addicts, the poor, the handicapped, the mentally ill, the abused, the unhappy mothers and the children without families?All of this shit applies to feminism as well. They only care about themselves, we only care about ourselves. If you want more then you need to move outside of the red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.!! If I chose to like Tate, it's my choice. Hence, the incel that shoots women would be let free and the wounded women would go to prison I think you are pretending this is more complex than it is. So if a guy chooses to be like Tate that's his fault, but if a woman chooses to date men like Tate this is also the man's fault. This logic is fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:59 PM |
| – | CMV: Red Pill molds men to be ironically weak who conform to what TRP expects a man to be irrespective of family stability.Just because you don't make the money doesn't mean you can't be a leader... or display leadership qualities. If you don't want that... then it's fine. You are getting laid I presume and that's the benchark for Red Pill success. What kind of relationship you want is entirely up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:53 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).It’s your fault you cheated tho? You want a “pure” woman but can’t hold yourself to the same standards Hahaha "pure"? The last woman I actually fell in love with had been with over 100 men. I don't care about purity anymore. Maybe when I was 18, but certainly not then and not now. Also... I dumped her and left. I don't consider it cheating, but I won't quibble with it if you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man."The male peacock has bright feathers" aren't criminals. It's nature. Men just do their dance and women choose. I don't understand why it's so controversial that women be held responsible for their choices... even in aggregate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.I can understand that, yeah. With a touch more thought... I think a lot of women who profess liberal ideology don't really do it whole heartedly. It has some very popular and attractive ideas and I think many women kind of glom onto that popularity but don't think that deeply about it or let it affect thier lifestyle. I see similar stuff with other popular ideas and sub cultures. The Red Pill is actually a fantastic example... since most of these tool boxes seem to be black pillers in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:39 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).So… you left her for another woman and she’s just supposed to “deal with that”?? It’s your fault bro She begged on hands and knees for me to come back. Yes, I did expect her to deal with that if she really wanted to give it a second try. That's how these things work. She was an absolute shit bird for years... I just wanted out. The idea that she would change made me hopeful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.So, men - according to your logic - are so toxic, so monstrous just because of women Bro, we do what works. End of story. The male peacock has bright feathers because the female peacock desires that. You are an idiot if you can't realize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.I'm a liberal and masculine woman who isn't hypergamous. In the general population you are a unicorn. However, my experience with liberal leaning women is that they DO tend to walk the walk somewhat even if the percentages are smaller. This is actually why my softer more intellectual persona works so well with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 12 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.I hate bringing ideologies into discussions about attraction People are sorting themselves based on this though. It does make a difference. I think the difference it makes is sometimes powerful and sometimes not. I can say for sure that the largest group of single women aged 25-40 are hyper liberal. I date this cohort constantly and don't really chase conservative women often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.What do you say then to my hardcore liberal feminist colleague who dates a man thats pretty opposite to that? It always makes sense. She is probably a 4 in the looks category and she is just making compromises. I've also seen where these ladies open up the relationship later. Point is that it always makes sense when you see them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toI've tried to condition my sexuality before. Didn't happen. Hmm... Like I said, it's a slow thing. Like how you think 18 year old boys are hot when you are 18 too, but at 40 they don't look as good. Actually... if that change hasn't taken place and you still like young boys then you probably just have some mental hangups. But it also depends a lot on what goal you are trying to achieve. Are you trying to become bisexual for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:02 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Yikes, you just admitted to being an abusive partner. No wonder she left you. Actually... I packed up my shit and moved to New York. She begged me to come back and I did. It fell apart as a result of my leaving... for another woman. In the end she just couldn't deal with that. I don't blame her, but I really wish she would have not gone all out begging me for a second shot. That was truly miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t existAre you insane? We created subs like this to share knowleged and tips regarding what works well with women. Most of us have had periods of time where we absolutely crushed it. At 32 I slept with 32 different women that year... which is how I remember it. My friend Gaius scored well over 50. We were constantly sharing our experiences in subs like this. Of course back then they were locked and not open to the public at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Most men here put “pussy on a pedestal”When are you guys going to realise that some people will do better than others, and complaining about that only makes you sound like a loser. Nobody is owed sex or a girlfriend, if you can get it good on you if you can’t bad luck. They are just responding to your attitude of entitlement. It really takes a shit ton of work... and I mean real work, not 2 pounds of makeup and skipping dinner once a week. This is why we absolutely do not put pussy on a pedastal. Sure the black pill losers do, but Re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:44 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).This is inaccurate as hell. First, women in the 40s and 50s expected to begin having children immediately. They chose men that would make good fathers. THIS is the primary change. Today's women would rather chase dipshits, gang bangers and all sorts of entertaining losers because they don't expect children right away, and if they do, they know Taxypayers are going to foot the bill. They have no shame in living off the system... in fact they consider it a right. The serious man is downgraded whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:37 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).People now marry for love. In the last 20 or so years, men have had to become actually likeable as you said. And they don’t want to hear that lol. Because it isn't accurate. Look, I'm very successful with women. My job and investment portfolio is part of that. Being "likeable" is a great way to sit in the freindzone forever with a woman. It isn't enough. Today's women highly value hypermasculine traits. As they age they become willing to put some of this aside, but always crave it like a crack a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:29 PM |
| 2 | People dont chose what they're attracted toI'd need to see evidence of that. I think if she was on Tinder in the US her phone would literally catch fire. I've been to Kenya. I've seen what the dudes like. For the most part they arent' really picky guys however there are some traits they greatly prefer. For one thing they like large butts, they also like large tits, and they really like big lips. These are all somewhat common traits in Kenya... so they prefer thier own women to a degree. https://www.instagram.com/p/CK1ZePonBrA/?utm\_sourc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | People dont chose what they're attracted toShe's pretty in China, the US, Kenya, and anywhere else on Earth. Not to the same degree. This girl would get passed up in Kenya for many other types of women... same in the US. In my experience changing your attraction to different face shapes is extremely difficult and time consuming... however it happens naturally over time no matter what you do. The enjoyment of fat women in ancient times is very simple to explain... they were rare and very wealthy... thus high status. Also... they tended to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toOk, you are somewhat correct here. In particular noting the difficulty in such a transition. The key is understanding WHY women do not like weak men. This part generally will not change because it's so deep in the psyche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toand that makes them weak pushovers? they dont even look femenine. No, he is correct. These guys do not display hypermasculine traits that women tend to crave in the western world. The Kpop boy phenominon is typically found in very young girls and women who find masculinity threatening. Remember that the first step in female sexual attraction is safety. This is the key issue as to why so many prefer tall men. It gives them a sense of safety. It does some other things as well, but safety is the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | People dont chose what they're attracted toThat doesn't mean they have any control over it though. This is wrong. Change the media you consume, change how you think about things. It starts slow and builds over time. People control all different kinds of stuff about themselves. Most don't put any effort into anything. This is just one of those things that would require effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:55 PM |
| 2 | People dont chose what they're attracted toHow and when did it change? Im just curious ... At first it changed a little bit. Then it's like a ball rolling downhill. I'd say the first thing that changed was how I talked to myself inside my head.... followed by the type of media I consumed. My tastes for lots of things have changed over the years... like my food preferences. But when it comes to attraction, I would say the first major change was opening myself up to dating women with higher body fat than I had previously. At the time I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toCould you cite some examples for this? There is a study that shows ABC... American born Chinese men have an increased attraction to fat butts. Think Kim Kardashian. China raised Chinese men prefer very slim women... like very slim. They will look at a woman with a size 6 dress and consider her horrifically unattractive. Culture matters. In a lot of ways you choose what you are attracted to by the media you consume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toThe thing is, you can't force other people to go through this process, it has to be willingly done. Yeah, I would agree with what you are saying 100%. It's very difficult to make big changes quickly, however small changes build over time. I've personally gone from not being attracted to overweight women at all, to finding a lot of those body types sexy. It has to be within reason... like once you go over a certain BMI, I begin to lose interest. However, other guys are going much deeper down this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:41 PM |
| 8 | People dont chose what they're attracted toThis fatalistic crap is garbage. You can go around the world and see that Chinese guys raised in the US are attracted to different things than Chinese guys raised in China. Sexual attraction has some parts to it that are hard to alter... but it's entirely plastic and moldable. In fact people change what they are attracted to throughout their lives. I've personally experienced this. Your theory fails to explain any of this... because it doesn't really understand what attraction IS or where it com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [QFW] How do you feel about the character Waymond from EEAAO? Would you be attracted to someone with a similar personality?Well the pool of experiences we have to draw from for the matriarchy are all within the past century MAX. And it comes with many caveats, like the place, time, and degree to which women are really in charge. I believe most political, religious, and corporate leaders are still men. All of those leaders in our current system do the bidding of women. The idea that simply because a leader is male he will only care about what men want is fucking stupid... and easy to see it's false. What those men in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:32 AM |
| 2 | The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill MenAre the red pill men here frustrated that their name and group is being tarnished by the black pill subset? Yes we are. But for the most part we dont' engage. The Red Pill lifestyle teaches you to let go. We let go of material possessions... all the while gaining them. We leg go of women, while also achieving our goals with them. This is just one of those things we cannot change... It's a new generation and what they deal with is worse than what we had. Also they are from the participation troph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to dismantle the blue pill in 8 sentences, and dismantle the red pill in 9. I will then give what I believe is the only valid approach to mutually fulfilling relationships.Welcome to the blue pill. You disagree with red, so it's your lucky day! Blue pill is just disagreeing with red. Except OP doesn't entirely disagree with the red pill. He basically states that you should be red pill and then encourage your partner to also be red pill. His definition of red pill relationship theory is actually black pill fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:02 PM |
| 5 | [QFW] How do you feel about the character Waymond from EEAAO? Would you be attracted to someone with a similar personality?So you let women define who you are as a man? I live in a culture that is completely controlled by women. Every man must define their masculinity based on what women desire where I live. It cannot be avoided. If men ran these things then most of our social issues would be greatly reduced. Violence would be lower, income inequality would reduce, and men would define masculinity around socially beneficial traits as was once done in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men?but idk ime only men who have hang ups are like that. This is wrong. Having spent massive amounts of time chasing women in the company of other men it has everything to do with competetiveness as a personality trait. Non-Competative men are the ones who don't care... this group is much more likely to have odball hangups... as it includes cuckolds and all other types of crazies. One guy in particular stands out as he was always trying to push his GFs into having sex with his dog while he watches.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:40 PM |
| 5 | [QFW] How do you feel about the character Waymond from EEAAO? Would you be attracted to someone with a similar personality?He’s confident without puffing his chest out. Peacocks aren't colorful because females choose the dull looking ones. I don't give a shit how confident you are, women always initially gravitate towards the chest puffers. Those who say different are fucking liars. Now, in a relationship that quiet confidence is preferable to a lot of ladies, but 9 in 10 times those dudes don't get the chance until it's very late in the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Sounds like your dad’s.. like a really hot autist or something? That’s fascinating In the 70s he looked like one of those male celebrities. My mom is also very good looking and in fact they kind of look similar. I don't think my dad is autistic... but he is certainly an oddball. He got pretty high up in his union... and was a very active communist. He just isn't someone capable of living in reality. He can be magentic in terms of personality, but not because he is outgoing. It's mostly because h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Tbh, it might be better for her to learn how to shut down punk trying to kiss her than relying on daddy to step in. Don’t cultivate learned helplessness. Totally agree. She is 5 though. By 10 she will have a concealed carry and have a large amount of Jui Jitsu training. Most boys aren't willing to risk a 22 caliber round going through their ballsack, but until she has the actual skills to defend herself... I'm going to be there for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?this sounds juicy. lol. But I am sorry your marriage didn't work out. It must have been for the best More nasty than juicy. I'm not sorry that it didn't work out. I'm sorry that I was brainwashed into being a beta loser for nearly a decade of my youth. Had I grown up with my grandfather... I likely would have taken a similar path to my younger cousin. He's about 10 years younger and so was about 17 when my divorce hit... and then we both had a wild phase at about the same time. My wild phase jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesLOL... I think he just inspired the Pound MeToo movement. I suspect that while we see him as orange, creepy, and aged... those hardline Hillary supporter women secrectly masturbate to his image while their beta bitch husbands are doing dishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaUnderfunding of public schools, and the way the system is built is what explains the lack of a proper education. Underfunded? It's the most expensive school system in human history! If it was a private company running this most of you fuckers would be wanting to burn it to the ground. We fund the US military at about the same level we fund schools and in return we get the top military in the world... and they are totally wasteful corrupt dipshits. We should demand the same return on our dollar f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesYes, let's look to "10,000 years of human history" on "common sense" social regulation from the same folks who brought us several millennia of slavery, torture, genocide, and general brutality/cruelty predicated on superstition and ignorance. We have all of those things going on today... brought to you by science and logic. Actually... technology just makes the scale and capability of evil that much greater. This makes my point rather well though. In the past, it was understood that men have vio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?You left out the part where it wasn’t consensual. Besides of you had a boy you would probably be dealing with him being the one trying to kiss unwilling girls. Of all the boys in her class, most of them are good. Just this one little prick that has issues. Frankly, I think he enjoys intimidating other kids and making them cry. Why on earth would kids at age 5 be kissing consentually? Where do they even get the idea? Let be be blunt. You have no idea what other parents are letting their kids watc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:09 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?Imagine you have a son. Would you be just as mad if little girls tried to kiss him? You're basically confirming one thing for which it's better to have a girl. At the age of five, no one will perceive her as a predator and intimidate her so much that she will pees herself. YES! Yes I absolutely would do the same for my son. If he came crying because some girl was forcing herself on him. Hell yeah I would come after that girls parents... and absolutely that girl would step lightly around me. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?What the hell is wrong with you? If my 5 year old daughter doesn't want to be kissed then nobody should be kissing her? What kind of fucked up world do you live in where you think it's Ok for a 5 year old girl to come to you crying and say some boy keeps trying to kiss her and you turn and tell her that she has to allow him to do it because "That's what 5 year olds do"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesThat is the most stupid response possible. I hope it doesn't reflect on you and your reasoning capabilites... I will consider it a one off. Now, this topic is very controversial today, but common sense for the last 10,000 years of human history. Both men and women have natural impulses that it is societies job to regulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesYep. Men dont like women having freedom because it means they actually have to be decent for a woman to stay with him. Since men cannot be decent its a bad thing. That's like saying we don't want lions roaming the streets unchecked because we just arent' fast enough to run away. This has been debated ad nauseum among Red Pill guys. The core issue isn't that women shouldn't be free. The issue is what women DO with that freedom. It has a horrific effect on young boys and an almost wrecking ball ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Traditional 1950s was economic slavery for women.Marriages worked? no , the average age a woman married was 20 in the 1950s, no unilateral divorce until Reagen, no birth control and financially dependent on the man.Women were economic slavesThey didn’t really gain their freedom until 2016. I suppose Trump freed the women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?I have an active father, but it's kind of complicated. For one thing he was extremely good looking and can't understand why women didn't chase me. Another thing is that he has crazy social anxiety problems, and has lived his life totally obsessed with his hobbies of building things. Basically, my father was wonderful at most stuff, but just wasn't equipped to help deal with social issues in any way shape or form. When I got bullied at age 7 his advice was to just punch the kid in the face. I tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If you grew up with an active father, why did you need the manosphere? Do you blame your father? How will you raise yours sons differently?and not having to deal with any real challenges in the dating realm like if they were men. You are insane. I have a daughter, I know. I'd rather have 5 boys than 1 daughter... it would be much easier and a lot less worry and stress. My daughter already has little boys chasing her around the schoolyard trying to kiss her... AT AGE 5!! I had to basically waffle stomp this boy and then bitch out his mom... then threaten to sue the school into non-existence to get action on it. Now the little shit h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaSo, daycare being expensive somehow makes your neighbour's wife dumb? Not the fact that there is no affordable childcare? No, it makes both of them stupid. Her husband although a very nice man is complicit in this decision making. The affordability of childcare is not something that is going to change. I hear some people advocate we start public school at age 2 or something ridiculous... which tells you what they actually think the function of schooling is... daycare. That explains why so many s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Cuddling is more intimate than sex?I always make clear from the start that I'm waiting until marriage. Full respect for your choice. I did the same when I was a kid. Married my first. Anyway. Cuddling should be avoided because it turns him on... and it will probably turn you on too. That's just a bad situation for someone who wants to take the path you are choosing. That's my 2 cents. Also... once turned on a lot of guys get pissy about being shot down. It's just how we are... think of it like it's a man's time of the month or so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Cuddling is more intimate than sex?I'm fairly certain that my aversion to touch is because I'm autistic, diagnosed in 2nd grade. Yes, Autism will do that to you. I'm genuinely curious what things about myself you think I'd need a psychologist to find out? For non-autistic people this usually occurs due to a lack of care during the first few years. If it gets bad enough a child can develop Reactive Attachment Disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:37 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to lookmax?Are you planning to get a fucking face transplant or something? Most plastic surgeries can make a drastic difference at very minimal risk. We stare at celebrities all day that have had work done on everything. You think all these women in Hollywood are just natural beauties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:32 PM |
| 6 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?I stumbled onto a website primarily for black folks who didn't want to deal with white people anymore. Funny thing... they talked a lot about all the shitty experiences they had with white people in the past. I just couldn't understand why all the topics of discussion weren't focused around the latest Black Panther movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:28 PM |
| 5 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvaniahttps://www.politico.com/news/2022/12/19/democrats-medicaid-covid-00074563 Lol... you just lost $500. This emergency declaration cost 100 Billion for 3 years. The 2023 budget spends 100 billion on Ukraine in 1 year. You are probably one of those people who thinks there is a major difference between the two parties. In some regards that's true, but in the ways that matter, they both don't give a shit about the little people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenCitation? I’ve seen evidence of regulated rape in Uighur prison camps, but I haven’t seen or heard of women being forced to abandon one husband and become the sex slave of another. I forget where to find the link, but it's part of the same Isreali study that found Uighur body parts were being sold to wealthy Isreali's on the black market. Evidently the Chinese have run tests on all these folks and when a rich dude wants to buy a heart they just take the poor schmuck who has a match, cut his hear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaCanada has paid parental leave up to 18 months. The base is 55% of your salary and several companies top that up. I also think some places have communities where people tend to have more families. Like perhaps rural areas vs urban Our maternity leave is up to 24 months. The first 2 months are 100% pay, then the next 4 at 80%, and then after that it's around 55%. I've never met a woman who used more than 6 months, likely because our cost of living is insane. I don't know what California is like, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenSounds like a bunch of pampered idiots who aren’t aware of how China treats its ethnic minorities. Hint: they don’t give them a girlfriend. LOL... This is correct. China is taking women from minority populations and basically assigning them either a husband or a new husband. They got A LOT of extra men in that country and they are also doing this softly in parts of Africa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:58 PM |
| -9 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenThis is an unusual take. We keep seeing posts saying the opposite, that the women in Latin America are much more traditional. It's a conundrum. As Red Pillers... we LOVE Latinas. They are more traditional overall, and can often make much better relationship partners. However, they are also incorrigible bad boy chasers. In the US and West, there is still this lingering blue pill propaganda that pushes women to at least try to date nice polite men. This doesn't exist in Latin America. So, if you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaSeems to apply to very specific man though. Look at the data in the study. It suggests that this applies to all men, but most strongly applies to men with no children. All men prioritize fertility over income. The difference is in how much. Childless men prioritize it more, men with children prioritize it less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementYou keep bringing up your anecdotal history like it means something but it keeps validating my original point about blowing up the percentage of these people in your mind. You essentially just stated you're living in a bubble with an inflated number of these people you despise ... so rid your mind of them and move along to people you like. I'm 41, is there a magical awakening I should expect in the next 2 years to make me a more angry and bitter person by trying to bend the world to the way I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:38 PM |
| 5 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaDude... Dems just kicked about 2 million people off medical insurance so they could send Ukraine 100 billion in free money. A big part of me thinks... how much of that is actually going to Ukraine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:15 PM |
| 4 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvaniathe US having the worst maternity/ paternity leave polices in all of the developed nations. This isn't accurate. When you look at the US you need to think of it like the EU. The state I live in has better maternity/paternity leave laws than almost anywhere in the world. California which is our most populous state also has very generous maternity paternity laws. But, our fertility rates aren't increasing. In fact we are losing people and surviving on immigration. So, the idea that a month of mate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementThese places remind of those old movies where the guy is strapped into a chair and has their eyes taped open watching a bunch of propaganda on repeat You are talking about A Clockwork Orange. I'm not sure how you are able to have a passing familiarity to the concept of the novel or film without actually understanding it. With that said.... you come across as well meaning but stupid and naive. I'm 43 and I have spent the better part of the last 10 years fucking feminists. Blue hair, pink hair, pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)So red pilled dudes even blame feminism for the man tits and beer guts and overall inability to make themselves look presentable.. Talk about engaging in a way that is logical huh These dudes are blue pillers. The Red Pillers who have beer guts and man tits... they know women don't like that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:19 AM |
| 0 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)How is men not putting work into their appearance the fault of feminism? You clearly didn't read what I wrote. Stop being stupid. Feministst want most men to be print Tshirt wearing beer gut trolls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:17 AM |
| 11 | Is sex better when you’re older?Does sex get better with age? YES! This is especially true for women. Did you miss out by having a relationship? No. I was married from age 20 to 28. I had plenty of sex during that time. When it ended I went on an international binge and dated women from a crazy number of countries. I'd say 28-35 was fantastic for dating. The sex though... it keeps getting better as I age. The core thing you need to do is focus on rehab. Drugs and Alchohol will destroy your enjoyment of sex... and I mean true e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don't think you are alone in this fantasy, but it's not doable. I to have a craigslist posting where I offered to fulfill women's sexual fantasies, so I have a little bit of experience here. The issue is that anything public involves way too much risk today. However, that's not why I typed a reply. I actually had a pretty similar fantasy about a woman I didn't know groping me on a bus or some form of public transit. That fantasy ended abruptly when it actually happened while traveling in asia.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou only find your power when you stop caring what she thinks and feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementwell, I cannot find any data to back your assertion. You got some? This is my personal experience, take it or leave it. With all honesty, I've never seen facts or data persuade a feminist of anything anyway. It's a pointless endevour. We are talking about a movement that is predominantly existentialist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:43 PM |
| 21 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementYou find it hateful that women want the agency over their own lives, freedom and equality? That is gender egalitarianism, not feminism. The classic move of feminists is to try and confuse people as to the two terms. Feminists believe in a "Patriarchy" that has never existed, and never will exist. It's a stupid ideology that only survives by lying to people about what it is and what it intends to do. Like some shitty cult or any other kind of scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)They never seem to be able to make the connection. This is really just a failure to overcome feminist brainwashing. First thing I noticed when I joined the Red Pill is how all the guys stopped talking shit about fashion and started engaging in a way that is logical. We encourage lifting, running, fasting. We also encourage tailoring your look to the kind of woman you want to score. There is a subset of women who thrive on the beer gut and print t-shirt guys. Even more so because feminists have e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementOn the homelessness front... I used to work with a charity that helped homeless people. The government funding for homeless women is like 90% more than for men. We have tons of women's shelters that are completely empty. I once had a guy who was homeless but working and living in a tent was creating a big problem towards keeping that employment. All the men's shelters were full. I stopped by and visited some women's shelters that were completely empty. When I finally spoke to the person in charg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:22 PM |
| 10 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementThe kind of women you're talking about are miserable people You are wrong for a couple of reasons. First and foremost is that while openly hateful views are rarely expressed, it is the ideology of feminism itself that is hateful. Secondly it is also the government expression of this ideology which is additionally hateful. A great example here is that if a plane crashed with 200 people onboard, a feminist news outlet would report the tragedy of 100 women dying. We see this kind of thing happen al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessI was somewhat similar at a young age. We do definitely try to make sure he knows we are proud of him and I really hope it’s just something that will settle with time like yours did. I think a lot of people go through somethign similar. A family can only really provide so much in terms of support. Kids crave validation from peers. One of the very few tools at your disposal is controlling his environment. My parents really didn't give a crap about anything beyond education. My point here is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessNot body image issues, self image. He overthinks and thinks people don’t like him. It’s definitely anxiety based and we are working on getting to the route of it! :) Yeah... I definitely had a period of social anxiety. It was so bad that if people were talking and I couldn't hear what they said... I would just assume they were saying bad things about me behind my back. It went away over time, but not before developing some signfigant scar tissue. Take this for what it's worth, but I think it's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:32 PM |
| 3 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationships. It's more that they choose to avoid weak and non-masculine men Please... this needs to be a public service announcement. It's pure fact, but so many boys are being drowned in the opposite message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...That’s a naturalistic fallacy. Human beings are social creatures and our status in society isn’t based primary in our physical strength. You are talking about that thin veneer of civiliztion that is showing signs of completely cracking in the future? The strength of any nation is built upon the willingness of it's men to fight. Policemen keep you safe from criminals and Male Soldiers keep you safe from foreign invasions. Fact is that whatever you own, I can beat you and take it by force and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 3 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenesswho is having some problems at school with anxiety and self image. Mindfulness is a nice thing to learn, but without understanding the cause of these feelings then you aren't going to help him. You need to actually find out WHY he is starting to feel this way. Puberty has not begun for most boys at age 10. He should not be having body issues at this age unless he is excessively chubby or short... both of which affect athletics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 05:51 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Hi. Employees are competent adults. Haha... if you think that you probably havn't worked in the last 20 years. I have more incompetent children at my workplace than you would find at a daycare. Regardless. My point is that authority is ALWAYS an obligation regardless of whether it's authority over children or employees. Women can make fantastic leaders, but not if they don't understand the obligations that come with leadership. I see this trend among modern women that they want power, but do not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 05:17 PM |
| -1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...If you don't find the idea of being submissive yourself, why should women do it? Because women are designed for it. Why should panda's eat bamboo? Why should eagles fly? If women were meant to rule by nature they would be able to kick my ass in a fist fight, which they cannot. In regards to men submitting to authority... we do. We submit to higher powers all the time. The only governmental power I work with absolute insane diligence to undermine is the IRS. Luckily the weatlhy have provided all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...maybe, it's individual. but i don't think doing their job makes them weak. As the veteran of many, many relationships, I can say without doubt that you are missing the point. Submission isn't the same as weakness. Frankly, I'm sick to death of women who make relationships into a constant struggle for power. It's just not worth it. I fuck them and string them along, then ditch them. It's the only path that makes sense with these women. My X, Lexi was a shit driver. I'm a platinum rated perfect dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:08 PM |
| -4 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...Why do men view it as an insult then? We don't. You do. What men find insulting is something that doesn't conform to it's nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleTranslation: I want my wife to be a free caregiver to my aging parents. Will you provide for her to stay at home? And some lady became famous on tiktok and Instagram for taking care of her dying husband AND his aging parents. She was Asian, with short hair, and around 50-60 years old Of course she is Asian. By and large Western Women only care about themselves. I can't say that our men are any better. I've dated a 50 year old asian woman with short hair. She looked like 35 and was fantastic. Had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleAlso some lady became famous for taking care of both of her parents with schizophrenia. When you cut through the base level thirst of men... this woman will be in much higher demand than a similar looking woman who dances in bikini's and likes to travel. Fact... when a guy just wants his nut, he doesn't chase nice women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.That’s why they overturned abortion laws. But children being born without families are the number 1 indications of a future of crime, which they elite obviously don’t want. Are you nuts? They don't give a SHIT about abortion laws. They just import people from other countries and they don't even have to wait for them to grow up. It's kind of a great idea too. I mean instead of waiting for one of those 10,000 a month babies that didn't get aborted to grow up and clean my house for dirt cheap... I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.This what cultural elites want. Men and women divided. This is how they’re cleverly doing it, by pushing the red pill on men. They did the same thing to women just before. Yeah... that's why they spend all their time banning and censoring Red Pill speech while pushing the education system to indoctrinate young boys into blue pilled bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.Convince them that sacrifice in itself gives purpose, the military knows how it's done: https://youtu.be/bCjEV75F2tM Dude... the military is totally failing. Nobody wants to sign up and definitely nobody wants to fight. The majority of men are like... "Fuck this place". We have nothing, so there is nothing to fight to protect. Like any smart person, I'm always ready at a moments notice to move all of my money somewhere else and just walk. This place does nothing for me and I'm not going to do an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.How are you going to convince a group of people who are being attacked, vilified and crushed by our cultural elites and feminists to just shut up and become cogs in the machinery of such a society? The more men that tell the culture to essentially go fuck itself the better. The larger and stronger the red pill gets, the more men we save. The black pill is nihilistic trash and we should be fighting this as hard as we fight the blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 09:34 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Having authority over them is not empowering or a compliment. It's an obligation The same would apply to an employee though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:28 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleSince when is it bad to enjoy traveling? It's simply spending money. I'd rather meet a woman who loves her family than one who loves to vacation. Why don't we see them posting pictures of themselves caring for the elderly all the time? I see this with women from other countries, why not here? Oh... because our people are shallow shit bags. That's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Women being loyal and contributing to the war effortActually... I've seen women from other countries do something like this. My buddy got into a relationship with a Peruvian woman who cheated and ran off with another guy. She paid my buddy $8,000 back for him buying her a car. So, I've seen women from other cultures give and be fair, but I've never, ever seen an American woman do anything remotely close to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Eat your heart out Sex-Bot boy. We'll have anti aging drugs in the future so we can be hot 25 year olds forever!I did research on this in college. Aging is caused by cell division, which is required for healing. The best way to slow down aging has been available for 5000 years and anyone can have free of charge. Basically it's called calorie restriction and the magic number is about 800 calories per day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How shaken up would relationships be when decline in males born gets critical?The standard American female is immune to any kind of logical or percentage based thinking. To them only about 20% of men actually exist anyway and the other 80% are beneath notice... unless of course they stop paying for shit. To them life is a movie and they are the main stars. Everyone else is just supporting cast... even romantic partners who are highly disposable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Women have a stronger ingroup bias than men. Thus men’s dating woes will never be fixed unless they develop an ingroup bias of their ownOur culture uses victimhood as social capital. You can parlay victim points into money, jobs, relationships... virtually anything, and the best part is that you don't have to work to earn it. Yeah, tons of guys here... especially the younger ones who buy into this system literally have never been allowed to think differently. The system is created by feminist women and backed up by laws. I seem to keep running into this issue were women refuse to take responsibility for the results of thier hors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeYou need to be better at drawing boundaries. The fact that they begin to expect you to spend on them is not a great sign in my opinion. I'm similar to you, but pretty much invested all my money from 26 to 36 in real estate. So, I didn't really start making money until late 30s. Of course I have a really cushy high paying job too. The bottom line is that I know what you are going through... because I kind of went through it. Part of this is your fault in how you set expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:46 AM |
| -1 | Does hypergamy differ per continent?Hypergamy literally involves some sort of comparison between the woman and the man directly Does it really? I think it just manifests itself this way because at some point they reach their own limitations. Although more often than not those limitations are mental rather than reality based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youthsThat's explains your biases lmao Buddy it does not. My bias is due to a fully functioning brain. My parents are card carrying communists... I know all the bullshit. When you are a lazy git and you don't wanna work, it's damn easy to think you can just take shit from the people who do... and if you convince enough people you can absolutely do that. The problem comes after. I've lived in communist countries and I've seen the results. They always turn on each other for power and money in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youthsIf you stay home, then it becomes even more important that your husband is a good provider. That really depends on your standard of living. My xWife absolutely cannot live without $2000 purses and a spa budget of at least $10,000 per year. But I have a friend who mixes cement for a living and he has no issues taking care of his stay at home wife. I would guess that $50,000 a year would be enough for most families... $70,000 in more expensive places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youthsWhy don't you go live in your North Korean utopia. LOL... the idea of kissing my own ass is quite funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:26 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youthsOr... you could just stay at home and raise the kids. Do you really need Gucci shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youthsYeah under capitalism that's why if we kick the rich out and take power for ourselves we can change the world. Are you serious? How many times does an idea have to fail before people stop flocking to it. Fucking idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Redpill is not an ally to monogamy or romance especially in youths. You honestly think that most young women deliberately seek out asshole men and sleep around for this purpose, lmao okay. Any serious person admits that this is a true dynamic. They don't wake up every morning thinking... "Today I will finally find someone to abuse me"... instead they look for the guy from 50 Shades and when it turns out he is an abusive asshole they are always shocked... even though they went looking for exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?We all run game differently. We do not have the same goals or the same techniques or even the same capabilities. Noob idiots will tell you up front they are RP. That basically means they read some shit on Reddit and now they think they know something. The RP guys I know have mentored each other for years. We put massive work into our style, our looks, our finances. Some of us did stocks, some did crypto, some did real estate... some failed at making money, some like me did great. The best way to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of anglesFully valid question. Basically every man is against age gaps when it's a woman he cares about. Very telling. That's total horseshit. I have a daughter and I think a guy about 5 years older would be ideal. I'm not going to push her in any particular direction though. Also... women absolutely do not age better. For one thing men have thicker skin. Women generally age at a constant rate... by 45 most look like shit. Men age slower all the way up to what looks like 50 or 55 depending on sun exposur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 09:51 PM |
| -2 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?How would a woman even know the difference? If a guy is talking about Red Pill shit to a woman... then he probably isn't Red Pill at all. The core difference here in action is that Red Pill guys will do everything from abundance mentality. They will be much more fun and engaging... because they have more experience probably better in bed as well, although not always. The blue pill guys are going to be a lot more insecure. Much more likely to do stuff like beg for sex, or expect that paying for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Does hypergamy differ per continent?There is truth in the above. But I also think that these environmental/cultural factors eventually get baked into the DNA to some extent. Furthermore, there are older and deeper things, predating becoming humans even, that are baked into female DNA with respect to hypergamy. Things to do with dominance and submission, and with evaluating male fitness using the woman herself as a yardstick. And maybe other things beyond that. So IMO there is a core, evolved instinct behind hypergamy that is hard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableI had a career mom who was also a great mother. In this day and age, hating career women seems like shooting yourself in the foot with where the economy is at. And, just being honest, and I'm not saying I'm like absolutely brilliant, but I'm pretty smart, and men have NOT enjoyed that. Decisively have not enjoyed and belittled me even for it. To the point where I would largely say men like stupid women. They may not realize that, but it seems very true from my experience and that of many other i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:20 PM |
| 0 | More examples of Purple Pill Debate going semi-mainstream.Think about it, there are many Buddhist monks and nuns all over the world who are very happy single, There are also a lot of budhist monks who are gay and shagging each other every day when you aren't looking. Also... the stories of child abuse among this group makes catholic priests look tame. It's true that being single and childless doesn't have to mean bitter and angry... but you get to a certain age and it's more likely than not. I will say one thing for sure... if there is a huge chunk of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.. Women like a lil ab and a lot. 1st - Congratulations. Most people never hit that level of low bodyfat. 2nd... I don't really understand what is "a lil ab". Either you can see my muscles or you can't. I used to obsess over the v shape in my pelvic region, the teardrop shape between my biceps and triceps... lots of other stuff. But the abs... either I'm cut like a greek god, or you cant see the muscles. I'm 40... I don't give a shit anymore. I'm mostly focused on making money. I don't need to wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 2: The Myth that Women Don't Want Vulnerable MenHowever, you may be right. A big reason so many men fall to the Red Pill is because they just view relationships with women through the lens of sex. It's why they go after really good looking women and define her worth through her looks rather than vetting and figuring her character. The Red Pill started in the PUA community. We started using the term way back in 2008 and actually guys were using it before that. The terminology itself comes from the Matrix a movie from 1999 where a guy is given … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.And I think red pill and black bill try to do a lot of this, but they often address these issues through...dehumanizing and destructive means which turn women into enemies, other men into enemies, and men themselves into victims. And that's just not gonna be a good long-term strategy. You must understand that often times people have competing agendas. Women have been working for decades to use the brute force of government to give themselves every available advantage in persuing their agenda alm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.I don't think it really takes the throw down dehydration insanity you mention to have these things, I just think most guys don't bother very often or are mad about it. Which is fine. I had six pack abs for about a year in college, and it was it was insanely difficult. The level of starvation and excersize... I could only do it because I was an athlete. I tried again when I was 29 and found it impossible. In college I did 3 workouts a day including a daily 9 mile run. With work I just couldn't ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 13 | CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 2: The Myth that Women Don't Want Vulnerable MenLet me explain this succinctly. The Red Pill is primarily focused on getting laid. Once sex is achieved, the Red Pill kind of stops. This is why we heavily discourage dispays of vulnerablity. It's not an initially attractive feature and is much less likely to help you than almost any other emotional displays. Now, the way you tackle the topic... racist bullshit aside... is generally correct. Women like the appearance of vulnerability in long term relationships, but it's not real vulnerability. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableForgetting that women are who would nurture your children and you is a huge mistake. And almost all of the men here make it because they're too busy being annoyed about women having expectations. IQ and Education are not the same thing. Red Pill has very little to say about long term relationships. The OP is kind of an idiot who doesn't know what the Red Pill stands for and so it just chasing strawmen. Now, with that said, within Red Pill circles there are plenty of guys who get married. IQ is H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.This is typically because the issue isn't really the issue. This is the core difference between Red Pill and Black Pill. Red Pill men from the very start are a group of guys who wanted to do something to achieve a better life... to achieve what they want. We spent massive amounts of time collecting data and trying out theories. I mean if I have a crazy idea and 500 guys who are willing to try it with me and report back results... that's powerful. Black Pill boys, they all seem to be much younger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Interesting. I think everything you say here is correct it's just in a different direction than what most guys say on this topic. I think what most guys are upset about is this media ideal of men with six pack abs. I don't know about other men, but for me, that requires a diet under 1400 calories per day AND an intense ab workout routine. On the other hand, when I was using steroids it was much easier. So, it seems clear to me that most of the guys in Hollywood are using steroids to achieve this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | More examples of Purple Pill Debate going semi-mainstream.Just so you know everyone can enjoy single-hood as long as they enjoy their own company but if that’s too difficult then the golden girls lifestyle might be for you. I have family members who tried to do that. I've met very few people in their elder years who were truly happy without family... and most of them had some kind of mental illness or impairment. My grandfather had a sister who never wanted kids... didn't even like them. She drank herself to death at age 64. I remember her as the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | More examples of Purple Pill Debate going semi-mainstream.Seems the current game plan is to force women to be in relationships with men by taking away women’s rights. I don’t see that helping men in the long run though. Do you have evidence to back this up? What I see happening in my big city metro tech hub is that men are just marrying women from other countries that actually want to have a family and aren't mentally fucked. I don't know many guys at all who are married to local women anymore. Ive got a good friend who has 3 babies with 3 different lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.The idea that beauty standards are somehow societal and hence can be changed is obviously detached form reality. Go to "old school cool" and check how people considered sexy looked back then. Let me break it to you: pretty much as today. Oh I totally disagree with this. I think you need to take a deeper look at history. In the middle ages women used to shave thier heads way up high because men believed high forheads meant intelligence. Look at skulls from Huns. They used boards to shape baby hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | do you think you have perpetuated toxic masculinityCan you give some examples of rarer ways women do it? I don't really believe in this bullshit idea of "toxic masculinity". All traits both masculine and feminine when taken to extremes have negative effects. However, the one thing I've seen in my life that women constantly seem to push forward is dating verbally and physically abusive men. It's like dumping gasoline on a fire. It convinces bad men that they are doing the right thing, and it convinces good men that their overall goodness is a neg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Also, men tend to treat women they deem unattractive poorly. This is a cultural thing. You don't find this stuff happening much in the rest of the world. Most guys actually kind of cherish the unattractive women for their friendship. In fact my friend from Russia used to always say "All women are beautiful".... and by that he didn't mean how they look. Also... I think you will find that women in the US do treat unnattractive men differently... very differently. It's not just the ones they don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:54 AM |
| 6 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.As do many men lol Difference is an ugly rich famous guy can actually get a hot girl A hot prostitute you mean. And yeah... the same applies to men. Remember the mad scramble among men to wed Elenor of Aquitane? They say she wasn't that hot, but every man in Europe dreamed of marrying her and instantly becoming the richest man in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:48 AM |
| 0 | I know what I want in terms of dating is impossible but I don't think my expectations are unfair at all. And again i know they are deeply unrealistic but I don't think they r unfair. CMV they rI'm just saying that you're acting like a sore loser. Yeah, the same way black people were sore losers when racists told them they had to go to the back of the bus. At some level unfair shit is just unfair. It's ok to say that life is unfair, but women don't get a pass just because they have a vagina. I'm kind of sick of people giving women a pass on every kind of behavior just because they have tits. It's kind of disgusting... much more so than the simple fact that life is unfair sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.I think it’s a bit of a backlash. Women learn as young girls how important their looks are, we still have men here who think women will find them sexually attractive despite their appearance. It's their primary way of competing with other women. I think the standards of men are only half of the issue or perhaps even less. Women are so picky and demanding of others that they often are aware enough to understand they fall short of their own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 5 | What does the 'AF/BB' theory have to say about the 'Orgasm Gap'?because you don't know until you have sex and/or our culture is obsessed w telling us to give men millions of chances/assume the best about men. Our culture is like dipping your brain in battery acid. I think you make a very fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.But where are all these women insisting that men in the media be a certain type? In order to see, you must open your eyes. Media follows money and look at what women spend their money on in media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:20 PM |
| 5 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.It's not though because the movement is about representation/acceptance for different body types in media and public life which has nothing to do with an individual's own preferences. You are misinterpreting the comic. The picture represents media standards. In one the woman is ripping the standard placed on women, but upholding the standard placed on men. This isn't about who you date, it's about fighting for selective causes. It's like a person who sympathizes with black people, but hates asia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Everyone is beautiful, and nobody should get shamed for not being XYZ or whatever, however that doesn't mean that I need to be dating any of them. That isn't really the direction the artist was going. The picture she is ripping is the media standards put on her as a woman. The next picture she is upholding the media beauty standards for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.can you give an example of something negative women say/have said when you bring this up? I've never openly talked about this myself to women. What would be the point? I've seen at least 2 men complain about it... both chubby men. The first was accused by a chubby woman of whining. The second time I don't remember exactly what was said, but I do remember that the woman didn't talk to him anymore the rest of the evening. If a man has complaints about life, it's better to talk to his dog than a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 4 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.It seems you are having trouble properly comprehending what he wrote, as he explains it pretty plainly so it should’ve been easy His interpretation of the picture is obtuse and incorrect. I guess you didn't get it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:48 PM |
| -3 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.this is gross tho Sure. But it's like the Holocaust. We call it horrible and a travesty of justice because it happened to the ancestors of our jewish friends. But we sit here silently as the same thing occurs to Uighurs in China. Nobody gives a shit because... we don't use the same name for it. Women judge men just as harshly... maybe even more harshly than men do on appearance. It's just men do it more openly and let's be honest as a culture we care about women and couldn't give a shit about me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:46 PM |
| 4 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.I agree with the other comment about the logic in your OP is flawed & is a classic bait and switch for the exact reason he gives LOL... it's just hypocrisy. There is no bait and switch. A woman who fights for different beauty standards in women should also do the same for men. If she doesn't fight for better representation of body types for men it means she is a hypocrit. It's really that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:43 PM |
| 8 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.This is a canard. It's a bait-and-switch. Uh... it's called hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 6 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....It is pretty amazing, that they can go through a complex process, and still wind up with running people as uncharismatic and unexciting as Hillary and Biden. If you spent time working in the system, then you will note that this is a design, not a flaw. Actually a lot of Democrats still hate Obama for coming up the way he did and not building the system of favors and crap that the other Dems had to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Naturally, both men and women try to get rid of their own beauty standards over other people's. In my experience women demand that men be insanely confident and complaining about beauty standards is the exact opposite of that. It's why most of us can't talk about this topic in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | The Discussion Around Gendered Beauty Standards.Explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What does the 'AF/BB' theory have to say about the 'Orgasm Gap'?Well you are suggesting a connection in the opposite way than the commenter I was replying to. Lots of men here think uglier men are more likely to care about female pleasure and give her orgasms, which is what I was saying I haven’t found to be true at all. My point was just that I didn’t see any evidence that hot men are worse in bed as many men here seem to think. Most of the time, ugly guys DO care more, but that doesn't mean they know how to be good at sex. In 2012 we created about 7 or 8 d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meor most women. This is where we are going to disagree. Absolutely some women look great after 30. However, most women do not. Most women look about as bad as most men after 30. Notable places where this isn't true... Northern China, Korea, Japan. South American women are probably the worst, not because of genetics, but because 20 years of eating tacos takes it's toll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What does the 'AF/BB' theory have to say about the 'Orgasm Gap'?Also I found no connection between men that are good in bed and being a Chad or not. There generally is a connection, you just aren't seeing it. For one thing most of the actions you describe disliking are due to insecurity. The better looking guys will often have a lot more experience and less insecurity, but they also come with some negatives as well. I know because I've watched female friends try to chase these guys around and it's just ridiculous. One friend proclaimed her 23 year old lover … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 12 | What does the 'AF/BB' theory have to say about the 'Orgasm Gap'?What am I fucking a dude for if I’m responsible for my own orgasm? That is exactly the question you need to answer for everyone else. Why would you fuck around with a guy who is super handsome, but clearly doesn't give a shit whether you get yours or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meKim K This woman is nasty, but I'd overlook it because even a 6 month marriage could net me 100 million in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me(And I honestly wish my gf was a bit older; if we didn't have so much in common I probably wouldn't date another person this young. I'm hoping if we stay together I can build up her assertiveness/confidence levels.) LOL... so she is some project you need to fix. She is going to increase her confidence over time anyway as she ages. As to why she gets more crappy male attention than you... it's probably just down to looks and body language. I was never good with the young pretty things. If I saw y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meYou guys really really want this to be true yet every woman I know who's been single after 40 hasn't had any issues or is having the best time of her life. No, I don't think Red Pill guys care one way or another. We used to have a thread where we basically just celebrated all the women who still looked hot after 45... which is where most women hit the wall. I still remember all the glowing praise for Jane Seymour who must be 70 or so and still looks good enough to score young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meThank you for saying this. I never understood where people got the idea that at 30 women just become fucking pumpkins. It isn't the case at all a lot of times. I don't know. I've met a lot of European women who look pretty bad by 30. I mean our perception of these things is realy dominated by botox and makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.I'm not going to feel super safe if I'm taller than him. Once a guy knows that this is the core issue, there are ways to make a woman feel safe other than just towering over her. A great example is this time I was at a party and people were moving this heavy couch down the stairs and a very tall lady was standing at the bottom of the stairs right in their path. Instead of saying something I just picked her up and moved her out of the way. Then I apologized saying I felt they were likely to lose … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Having known a bunch of tall ladies, they don't care about the man's height, the men do and are insufferably insecure gooses about it to the point of the ladies not wanting to be with them. I find that to be fairly accurate. I had some struggle with that myself as a younger man. Luckily it's just an insecurity thing and not an attraction thing... so it can be more easily gotten over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsAs Plato puts it, the only true form of self deception is ignorance. Great Quote! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsBingo. Women don't realize that they aren't asking for a man's authenticity, but rather for him to put on a sexy mask and set a sexy mood. 99% of the disagreements on this subreddit are basically attributed to the female hamster. Their capacity for self rationalization is insane... like beyond what most of us believe possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.didn't know he seems to talk bullshit and he chose the only bad country in south america aparantly, It depends on what you want. If you want to smash tricks and ho's all day... Brazil is a great place. Especially if you are taller, have low body fat, and darker skin. Those girls like all of these traits a lot. If you want a virgin for marriage... then there are better places. Brazil has them for sure, but they can be hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:55 PM |
| -1 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Oh so you quite literally did try to keep the same standard for a mate all from high school through young adulthood for a decade and a half… No, I think I just wanted to prove something to myself. I dated a couple of girls that rejected me when I was young over the years. I actually had a torrid affair with one that was married.... but that's not a relevant story to this conversation. I think of who I was interested in in high school and it seems ridiculous to me now. That’s not because of who t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:52 PM |
| 0 | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?Oh, so more "I hate children and I hope they die" rhetoric. Good luck with that. The guys who are the type to tell their kids to just fuck off and die... women in these countries won't touch those dudes with a 10 foot pole. Meanwhile were I live these dudes have 10 kids with 11 different women. They are like catnip because the state is going to pay for the kids or child support will. Whatever the government pays you to do... you will do that more. It's a fundamental law of human nature. The vast… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Extremely tall women, maybe. I assumed we were talking about slightly above average height women who would be a bit taller than shorter men. These women could still date average height and above men without being taller The taller the woman the less they care about height as a general rule. Naw, this is a myth. There are obviously some examples here and there, but most shorter guys end up with shorter women. It's just because most women are pretty short. But yeah... the most obsessed women are v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Yeah all those women going through years’ long relationships just to bail out and finally land a 6-footer… Women don't actually think like that. I don't think you understand the power of the female hamster. People get into and out of all kinds of relationships for all sorts of reasons. The OP is trying to claim that central to those reasons is height. Anyone with eyes can see being under 6’ is not stopping the majority of men from finding women. OP is wrong. Height is an important factor, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Carole Hooven's podcast with Chris Williamson shows how powerful and "automatic" the male sex drive is and the problems it causesWe tend to look at old people as innocent but forget that they were subject to the same temptations as today. Go back some generations and you find this was tempered greatly by Religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Carole Hooven's podcast with Chris Williamson shows how powerful and "automatic" the male sex drive is and the problems it causesIt depends on a number of factors. In my study of military history for your standard European or East Asian army this stuff is generally prevalent in low levels. However, when you get into high casualty fighting all bets are off. Steppe peoples and tribal societies are much, much more likely to rape and murder as a matter of course. The Carib tribe of the Caribbean for example, was infamous for taking women as sex slaves and then eating any children under 6 caught along with the women. Men were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.But the premise here is that under 6’ can’t even get that far. If they are getting divorced they sure made it a long way… That isn't my premise. The point here is that some women will date and marry men that are below their preference, often until they are able to monkey branch to a man who is more to their liking. We are not talking about a monolithic group here. Even in the study 15% of women showed no height preference at all in the positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:50 PM |
| 0 | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?I see no fault divorce be brought up by the manosphere, especially MGTOW. Which is why I brought it up. There are many states that offer the chance to divorce either With Fault or No Fault and virtually everyone uses No Fault. It's quicker and easier. Most of these guys assume that by assigning fault you can get rid of alimony. However today child support IS alimony and nothing can save you from this... just like pre-nups are now useless. This must depend on local area, because I have never hear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.Been to a lot of weddings where the groom isn’t 6’…. I've seen a lot of divorces where the husband isn't 6 foot either. Both are fairly meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.lol wut I'm talking about relationships in general. You are going to find that the average person dates about 10 people until they find one to marry and then the failure rate of marriages is at minimum 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.It can also be made up by approaching women shorter than average (as she implied), but you completely ignored her point. That isn't actually true. In my experience taller women are much more likely to not care as much about height and shorter women tend to be the most obsessed with it. So her point isn't a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:14 PM |
| -1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.like brazil The fuck? Have you ever met a Brazilian woman? They are just as westernized as American women, but without most of the benefits that make them attractive to brokedick losers.... like splitting the bills. Also... Brazil has more than it's fair share of party sluts. I do not suggest chasing these ladies unless you have spent time in country and know what's up with the culture. For higher qualities ladies in South America... my suggestions are Afro-Caribbean women (not often virgins), P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsAgain all women aren’t into causal sex. For the love of god, stop lumping all women together. About 20% of the female population never does casual sex... and most of them get married pretty quick in life. What you aren't saying is that you can't just walk up and ask someone for sex. A guy has to do the dance first and do a lot of flirting. You say the guys you've been with really cared about you... but that's mostly rare and it probably isn't true. Much more likely that they were guys like me wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.I disagree with your point, however I love the way you wrote this. It's a mix of intelligent, sarcastic, and direct. As the Red Pill became more popular and lacked a centralized evangelist group or even message... more and more silly things have become attached to it. In particular this is a Black Pill belief that short men should just give up. Look at the study percentages. Being really tall gives you an 18% advantage over being short with women. A Red Pill theory is that women care about heigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.But still, no one is lying when they say they don't need their man to be 6 feet tall. You are very short. You say you need a guy taller by just a little bit... that isn't a number. I know you probably do these things by feel, so you don't really have a hard number on it, however I'm sure you have an ideal. It also doesn't explain where it is in terms of priority for you. The situation most guys are in is not reflected in your statements. This is a prime reason we tell men to just ignore what wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 17 | Men on reddit are being systematically disinformed.As a 6’-1” man I gotta say I see an awful lot of sub-6 footers running around with ladies. I don't know what you think this proves. Most of these relationships have like a 95% failure rate and you can't predict which one is going to collapse or for what reason. The most likely scenario is that a good chunk of these ladies are just settling and deeply resentful about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:19 PM |
| – | CMV: creating a bio on online dating isn't all that important.You should view your pictures as your bio. That said, you should not ignore the written word unless you are an idiot. It's a great place to showcase stuff that you can't show in your pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What do people think will change if no fault divorces go away?No Fault divorce is mostly a target for Religious people who dislike the idea of people splitting for temporary reasons. It will reduce the divorce rate somewhat. This isn't really a Red Pill argument though. Red Pill political ideas generally support the dismantling of our gender based welfare state in favor of something more equal. The end of child support and alimony along with gender based affirmative action. We generally want a merit based society instead of a society that is built around c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?but because men would fuck a hot pocket and their orgasm is almost guaranteed. They’ll be fine. I think most guys just don't have the experience to know the difference. It changes not only how it feels, but also the way you make love. It's all the way around a better experience. I'm a bit above average in size so that may make a difference. I mean I suppose if you are a guy who is rather small then nothing is going to feel all that tight, but that's just conjecture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?Why would she want you? What are you bringing to the table? She’s apparently a mythical unicorn so she doesn’t have to settle for you. This is actually some really solid advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?Dick size likely won't even register as a thing she cares about as long as it's near average size and works (and even small is usually just fine). In reality this isn't true... it's just something people say to make women seem like better humans. I get that some ladies don't care and it's a sizeable chunk, like 30% or so... but the other 70% see this as a much bigger deal than they let on... with a sizable minority like say 20% who see this as a top priority in a mate. More to the point though..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?After all, I was a downgrade right? I don't know. The difference here is that beauty queens just look nice. Sex with a woman who looks nice isn't always the best. Ive been with more than a few who were not great at all. I think it's much more similar to things women never think about. Outside of the US, I hear women worry about how good they are in bed with relative frequency. There is some special thought towards vaginal tightening. In the US... and it's likely because early dating makes women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative numberAnd what exactly will this “fairly close guess” be based off? The things she chooses to tell you? Your special psychic abilities? A time machine and spy goggles? Do tell.. Look, you need to understand that women are almost completely predictable. Once you factor in family history, culture, and personality type, you can basically make a rough estimate. Once you get her general life story you can narrow it down even further. The bottom line here is that women who are emotionally and mentally healt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 3 | It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative numberThe last thing I need is a thot comparing my dick to her ex. There is at least one ethnicity where it's damn hard to escape this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative numberThe best advice I can give you on body count is that there is literally NO WAY for a man to know what the absolute truth is. If you can't make a fairly close guess then you are an idiot. The only time I get stumped is when the number goes above a certain point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | The tinder cycle for the average man and woman and why you shouldn't get frustrated or take it personally.when you can't form a lasting impression on someone just by liking a pic. This is kind of good advice, but it also misses the mark. Look, a woman isn't going to max out her swipes generally speaking. If they swipe 10 guys... you could be number 11. Work on your pictures and profile. If you can't get a converstationg going past a certain point... work on your chatting skills. These things will help you in real life too. Taking a break is good advice for women. Let's just be blunt. The early stage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The tinder cycle for the average man and woman and why you shouldn't get frustrated or take it personally.Like that's basically encouraged in red pill circles. Red Pill dudes don't complain about dating apps. We are the Jedi Masters of that shit... the guys who spend time thinking about their photos and opening lines. Black pill schmucks are the guys bitching and whining about dating apps. They put ugly selfies of themselves doing nothing and use "Hi" as an ice breaker. Honestly, if these apps are so shit, stop using them. Nobodies forcing you to. I get laid so much off dating apps that it's ridicul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | A huge chunk of heterosexual women are bicurious and find other women attractive.We actually don't know that though, the "lovers" part of the Sacred Band only showed up in writing a few hundred years after they were already gone and their contemporaries (Xenophon?) only mention that they existed as some kind of military unit. Ok... this is actually a really good point. My thinking has always been that Xenophon being too contemporary held a great distaste for Thebes as a whole due to them siding with Persia. He doesn't really address any of their history. Plutarch on the othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?The only time sex becomes less imporant is when you are getting plenty. If you can't meet a guys needs then you shouldn't expect to have yours met in return. It's really that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women's strong ingroup bias is the reason an honest debate about dating dynamics can never be hadI think you are headed in the wrong direction with this. For one thing it looks like this study was done using Western Women and Western Men... which makes this very specific to our culture. Now our culture is particular because it's entirely dominated by feminist brainwashing. Every girl is raised and taught in school that all men are evil and oppressive and that they MUST band together to fight the imaginary "patriarchy". Whether the women believe it's core tenents or not the overall thinking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?No, he's not actually trying to understand. In the beginning I was making clear arguments, with examples for clarification, etc etc. He ignored all of that. I read what you said. You didn't connect the dots well in my opinion. Your statements require a base level of understanding already. My suggestion is that in the future you lay this stuff out in a very organized fashion. They may not respond well to it right away, but I guarantee they will still be thinking about it weeks later... and should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrativeThe guy is good looking and rich. What the hell do you think he was going to do? Also... the guy worked at Buzzfeed so you know he was slime to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?How did you read all of what he wrote and not notice that he just wants to win? It's like you go to an exclusive restaurant and buy a $200 steak. You tell your friend about it, but he's never had steak before. How do you explain the experience to him? That's why he seems stuck and why he is tuning out most of you say. He can't conceptualize the female experience. He tried it out superficially and found that women have easy access to what HE WANTS, but it's impossible for him to understand the ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?Yep exactly. And being the best sexual partner a woman has ever had, is not what makes a relationship. That's you talking about your needs and totally dismissing anyone else's feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?You two are definitely talking past each other. I don't think he understands what you are trying to say. From my experience on dating apps, you need to hit up a woman within seconds of matching and be very witty and charming otherwise she is going to get overwhelmed FAST. He doesn't really understand because he can't change his mindset. That means YOU need to be very clear about the issues and stop being vague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | A huge chunk of heterosexual women are bicurious and find other women attractive.Easy answer lesbians are hot 🥵 🤤 😋 Have you ever met one? Most lesbians I've met are very fat and ugly as hell. Gay guys tend to be exceptionally well groomed and fit. Also they have a great sense of humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | A huge chunk of heterosexual women are bicurious and find other women attractive.That would be almost impossible to know given that almost all interpretation of ancient sexuality is from fragments. "Homosexual acts" seem to be depicted or alluded to in some ancient texts/drawings for some civilizations but it's a lot of extrapolation to say how common it was. What are some examples? Yeah, I actually thought that myself until I began systematically researching the religious practices of the time period. The major cults of the time employed young boys as priests and worshipper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.Nope, I checked and even more women in the 18-30 range were sexually inactive relative to men. It was basically a reversal of the 2018 data I checked the STD rates and they dropped among both men and women in 2020... so this fits. However, if you look at 2021, straight women were getting STD's at nearly DOUBLE the rate of straight men... despite having somewhat similar risks. Keep in mind that when we take MSM out and only account for MSW it reduces the number of men with STD's by something like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 01:23 AM |
| 12 | A huge chunk of heterosexual women are bicurious and find other women attractive.This is an evolutionary psychology topic. I think sexual fluidity is higher in both sexes than you currently imagine. We have ancient societies where virtually 100% of the male population practiced homosexuality. Heck, it was baked into most Mesopotamian Religions some 4000 years ago. I dare you to read the Epic of Gilgamesh and not see Enkidu as his lover. When Enkidu dies Gilgamesh buries him in the manner of a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?I don’t think it’s right for anyone to do what they want if it hurts others. That is a silly standard. Most relationships fail at some point because someone wants out... or wants a new person. Are you saying that is wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:23 AM |
| 0 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Aka when ladies want just casual sex the do t choose me Aka when women want to have relationships, only then do I get picked. This is why I am a terrible person. However, your paraphrase is all about YOU. What else was there? What is left is for you to deftly defend casual sex and sexual selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?I think you are kind of slow. You can be apathetic regarding on thing, yet passionate about another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?No, I'm fulfilled, happy, and successful. The concept of "revenge" is for other people, not me. I don't really care to be honest. For me it's all about getting what I want and letting the rest sort itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?It does matter, not because I want it, but because I'm willing to take action to acheive what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?You're mad about a system that doesn't operate under genuine meritocracy. Lying to get sex is not "taking back your power". But building your own business is. I built my own business. Actually I've built and sold 3 of them in my life thus far. The last one paid for the house I live in and one of the 4 houses I rent out. You cannot escape this stuff because the government enforces it. As to how the two things relate to one another... Let's just say when I was young and broke dating was a lot hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:36 PM |
| 0 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Wait I'm possibly a horrible person because you aren't the guy people have casual sex with? This logic is hilarious LOL... your ability to paraphrase is abysmal. You are terrible because you think your dishonesty is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?I wouldn't really call it that, but there is such a thing. It's not codified into law, and there is probably a billion dollar legal industry revolved around attacking it... but yeah it still exists in some fashion. Meanwhile the opposite is coded into law and rigidly enforced in every sector of employment. So... apples and oranges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?it’s still wrong and you still shouldn’t do it if you have any respect for women (or yourself tbh). I learned a long time ago that life isn't fair. I do what must be done to acheive what I want. You are basically arguing that women can do what they want yet I cannot. It's bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?If you go around the world and date in other places, you find that beta type guys are a lot less desperate, and also a lot less willing to play dirty. The problem is our culture, not beta guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?In a certain way you are correct. However, I know the type of life I want to live and sometimes you need to go with the flow to get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?I practice it in many aspects of my life. I just make sure it doesn't complicate dating. It's sort of like holding your temper. It does not mean you aren't angry... it just means you are controlling your display of anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?My aunt once joked that sex was like oxygen... you don't really think about it until you can't get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?I don't know any red pill guy who hates women. We hate living in a society that is so entirely devoted to women that the lives of men are of no consequence. So, we hate the culture, and the attitudes it produces in women... not the women themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Not everyone can or even want's to be super Alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?Specifically the people who come back here to ask why it's "wrong" to do X thing. These questions always get posed by guys who can't figure out why society rails against double standards that disadvantage women, yet absolutely terrorize anyone who objects to double standards placed on men. The answer is that we do what we want and stop caring about other people say, or their ridiculous one way morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?You are clueless. You think apathy is the way to respond to a society that hates and discriminates against you? No. The response is to take what we want and disregard the moralistic double standards that seek to shackle us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 0 | what's the difference at the end of the day?You do you. I got laid way more when I started being honest with women. It just doesn't work that well for some guys. Especially the ones with more Beta energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | what's the difference at the end of the day?I'm happier knowing I'm not a terrible person, but you do you. You probably are a terrible person it's just nobody bothered to call you out on it... so you get to wallow in self righteousness. When ladies want a fun time... I've never really been the guy they choose. When they want me to pay for stuff and give them emotional feelings... Only then do I get picked. In this situation only their agenda matters. Only what they want matters. Well... fuck that because they are terrible people for runni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?You've basically just let everyone know that you only do the right thing if it gets you what you want. That's just gross. I do the right thing because it feels good, and I know it's the right thing. Not because of any reward system, unless you count me feeling good about doing the right thing. Horseshit. Pure horseshit. You've probably never done the right thing in your life, you just wallow in self righteousness like a pig in shit because everything is given to you on a silver platter and you'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:17 AM |
| 6 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?how will people know that society turned you evil if you don’t tell them? The same man can be radically different if you change the environment. In my heart I value honesty and loyalty, but I feel no need to indulge that feeling in a society that doesn't value it... a society that only values victim points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?They feel their desires are more important than allowing others to make adequately informed decisions. it's just basic selfishness. No, it's about taking your power back. A society that pushes you down at every step for being male. I spent 6 or 7 years working like robot to get to the next level of my career only to be passed over not once but 4 times for less qualified women who did half the work I did. I finally said "fuck it" and built my own business to get rich... but 7 years is a hard fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:53 AM |
| 6 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?As a grown adult, you do the right thing because you have integrity, not because you expect a lollipop When you are starving... integrity doesn't fill your belly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:46 AM |
| -4 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?There are obviously people who get off on the discomfort/stress of other users No, this isn't it... at least it isn't for red pill men. We use dishonesty as a calculated tactic. I've never met a red pill guy who enjoys doing it... but it's an absolute requirement due to the way we have built our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:39 AM |
| 2 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenThink Forest Gump... but with a more down syndrome look instead of Tom Hanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?But I do think most men find ways to express dominance that isn’t harassing people. I can't be sure that the need for dominance is what drives this particular behavior, but... I can say for sure that something like 60 or 70% of men have an absolute deep need to feel powerful. The suppression of that need is what made my teen years so absolutely miserable. I think as we close more and more avenues for young boys to express this... the more it will turn to violence and anti-social behavior. Also..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenMen will also do this. I knew a paraplegic and he ended up cheating when his chick was there by his side all those years!!! Damn waste Douche move, but it's not hypergamy. Instead it's the male version of it which works very different but can be just as destructive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: drug and alcohol useHope things continue to go smoothly for you now that she's out of your life. Um... I'm highly successful despite having some issues with drinking. I've cut myself down to just maybe 3 beers in an evening every couple of days. Still not ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 7 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?That's not true at all. I've dated women who are taller than me and I'm basically 5'11"... or 179 cm to be exact. The primary issue wasn't that I didn't find her attractive... instead it was that I assumed SHE wouldn't be attracted to ME because I'm not huge. In fact, she did not initially find me attractive... I just kind of pushed my way in through sheer force of personality. So there is a huge number of shorter guys who like tall women, but because female height obsession is so ubiquitous... … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenLook, this always requires men to date down and at some point you reach the bottom. I've got a family member whose father married a woman with genetic issues. The girl got out fine, but the boy has major problems. Nicest guy you will ever meet, but five foot two, pot bellied, and ridiculously bald. He's had GF's before. The last one was so ugly I couldn't look her in the face, and so fat no chair in the house could hold her... he had to buy something special. That 1 out of 10 lady dated him for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?Most men don’t act like this I don’t think. It’s hard to understand some of the crazy things other people do. People talk about sex all the time, but they don't really talk about it. I've found that virtually every sexual relationship I've had contained some form of dominance and submission dynamic. It has to be a thing of instincts. Even women who were the most hardline feminists I've ever known liked having their hair gently pulled and their ass smacked lightly. Why? Studies show that the more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?spending time at a gym that doesnt help is less time for your goals. I'm going to say this as someone who has tried both methods. Hit the fucking gym... it helps you with virtually every aspect of life. When I get my gym time in I have way more energy, less stress, higher confidence, and greater concentration to tackle my life's goals. Now... I've pretty much achieved everything I wanted age 20-35, so I'm here at 43, not really putting in the gym time anymore. Especially since COVID. I'm working… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?You should be doing it for yourself though, not because you hope women will notice. This isn't really a motivator for a lot of guys. They need something extra. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?if they had facial hair it was styled much more attractively, and even casually dressed they were less snobby looking. I can really relate to this. I was watching a TV show from the 50s and just kind of wondering what hair products they were using. The guys clearly put a lot of effort into hairstyles back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?That is also part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?Those are some interesting ideas. I was raised in a Christian environment and expressions of male sexuality were heavily discouraged and shamed. I can't say that I ever had an urge to do something like this... ever. Maybe because I was exposed to porn at too young of an age and didn't realize I was endowed better than average until much later in life. Maybe a desire for penis approval drives a lot of this stuff. The idea that they get off on scaring and humiliating someone... It's possible but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | If age gaps are wrong because of a "power imbalance," the same is true for income gaps.It's disingenuous to take one extremely rare situation and try to use it as a means to dispel the fact that age gap relationships involve a power imbalance by default. You set the bar at ALL age gap relationships. You didn't say MOST. However, the example I gave points out the major flaw in your entire theory. It is not the AGE that creates the power imbalance. Instead it's material wealth in most situations. All these women seem focused on age because they feel threatened by the prospect of you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | If age gaps are wrong because of a "power imbalance," the same is true for income gaps.All age gap relationships involve a power imbalance Totally untrue! I know a young woman who at 16 married a 30 year old man who worked for her father's business. She absolutely had the heavy hand in that relationship. One word to daddy and this guy knew his whole life would be finished. We used to laugh about what a whipped loser he was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?I don't know why some women make it seem like it's only women who encounter people who only desire them for superficial qualities. I mean...look at which gender is making height requirements on OLD. When I was 28 and first got into the Red Pill community this question was asked a lot. Eventually someone came up with a theory that women much more frequently suffer from solipsism. They honestly believe that life is a movie and they are the star... everyone else is just supporting cast. Once I got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?Creepy as hell, no matter how rare it is, lots of women have known people who had things like this happen and it means we know how scary “male attention” can be. Where do you think these guy come from? What do you think creates this behavior in men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?Pretty sure it will feel like a humble brag and that I'm trying to show off how big of a stud and a chad I am but believe me, it's real and it's annoying. I went through something similar in college. The only reason it was annoying was because I had a fiancé who was insanely jealous. When it went away I felt bad, and my fiancé turned wife became a lot less interested in me. I got divorced and then got back into shape. Got my abs back and all that. I started getting a lot more attention from wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?men want you just because they like being inside you, you are not special and most wouldn’t care if you were, This only lasts until they love you. This is what drives me nuts about modern women. They are so fucking dumb and self centered that they can't really understand the process or how anything works. When you are dealing with men, you job is to engage them emotionally. If all you do is flaunt your shit, that's all they are going to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | “How Does It Feel?”: Is Sexualization All It’s Cracked Up To Be?My point was that it could be implied that I was "objectified" by those specific women but I still took advantage of it. As a white guy who spend a significant amount of time traveling... I've been in this situation before and I'm not quite sure how to feel about it. It's much stronger for me in Asia and Africa than other places. It's also quite a bit different for black men in America, because the stereotype is so double edged... especially if you can't live up to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather get the amount of attention women get, or amount of attention the average men get?an old man pulled up and said you were a hot little slut while stroking his dick? When I was a teenage boy approximately 95% of the times this shit happened it was a near age peer who did it. The dirty old man shit just needs to stop. It occurs, it's creepy, but for fuck's sake it's pretty damn rare unless you live in 3rd world Latin America. Even most of Africa the older dudes have more tact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: drug and alcohol useCongratulations, man. You're really strong to be kicking that habit. I'm an alcoholic and will be one for the rest of my life. Some of these things we are better off just never starting. I appreciate your kind words though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveEh, my dad is 5 years younger than my mom and they've been together like 30 years and are doing very well. I'd say they're both much smarter than the majority of people in this sub. I don't know your dad, but there is almost always a reason for this. Maybe he is a hideously ugly bugger, or has personality issues. Who knows. I can say for sure that the relationship works for a specific reason... it always does. Some guys just have serious mommy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveGaming. I think video games are for kids and he thinks they’re for adults. I miss arcades and he misses when MMOs had less incels. He thinks $2000 is a reasonable price for a gaming setup and I look at him like he just turned into a demogorgon when he suggests spending $300 on a used console. We’re fucking grownups. Jesus Christ. THIS is one reason I always struggled with women my own age. Watching TV is fucking dumb. I can only do it while I'm on a treadmill. Playing games is active, the storie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:49 PM |
| -1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveAge gaps are not the norm. Most women prefer to date people closer to their age unless they're heavily prioritizing resources, novelty, or are the rare person who is actually into age gaps themselves. Women age way faster. That said I don't recommend more than a 5 year age gap. Most guys simply don't take care of themselves. A guy who takes really good care of himself... should still stick to around 7 years max. If he goes beyond this... then he should not expect the relationship to last forever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: drug and alcohol use. I don't drink much, a 375ml bottle takes me months to finish unless I'm cooking with it. Good heavens! My ex wife used to drink 750ml of hard alcohol every two days. When I was a raging alcoholic I would drink 200ml a day of vodka. I can't even imagine being able to keep 375 in the house without drinking it immediately. I never kick up red flags for women because I keep my usage to at most 20oz of beer in a day. However, I definitely used to be an alcoholic and it's very hard to control. Lucki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Well “mansplaining” as a concept is more about a man describing in detail a topic that a woman already understands, giving the impression he thinks she’s ignorant. I think the word is misused a lot. Essentially this only applies to a handful of topics... such as pregnancy issues. Women give shit advice at dating. It's not that women are incapable of understanding... it's simply that their experience in modern dating is horrifically out of touch. Like a billionaire trying to give advice to poor p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:47 AM |
| 2 | How much do you think your relationship with your father has affected your dating life?My dad is one of those “too analytical to enjoy nonsensical fun” types. So I’m the same way. It has made dating hard in the past since “I’m still a kid at heart!” is a very popular sentiment among people my age. I have women my age who still draw mustaches on their fingers and men who wear full dinosaur pajamas and think they’re cool because of it. It is the result of a culture that doesn't respect the elderly. The boomers started it as they generally despised their parents generation and decide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.Hahaha... Yeah because the 96 year old women don't have lovers, while the 96 year old men are simply dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:11 PM |
| 10 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.Those are the pandemic years, also they included women aged 30-35. That may actually make a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What gender cheats more?Wars tend to kill people through starvation and cutting of supply lines and pre rifle combat was not as lethal as movies would have you believe The battles themseleves often did not kill many people. I mean you see some hoplite battles where 80,000 men clash and only 4,000 or so die in combat. The majority of deaths generally occur as the losing side begins to run and is chased down and destroyed. Similarly with Civilian populations, mutch of the death and destruction came after losing the battl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Evidently not as much as he thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What gender cheats more?Unlike what a lot of people say the main thing that killed people back in the Middle ages was starvation and disease not war and those things tend to affect both gender's equally sometimes women more than then so I'd like to see any research you have on the demographics of that time. War and dangerous occupations removed at minimum 10% of the male population of pretty much every civilization throughout history. Only after that can you apply starvation and disease. Most periods of human history t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:34 PM |
| -2 | What gender cheats more?That’s just so awful. How do the women whose husbands or family haven’t murdered them yet even live with that situation? I know; by having no alternative. But it breaks my heart. Are you joking? It's no different than dating a professional athlete and the last time I checked women here were lined up miles deep to get a chance to be cheated on and physically abused by one of these guys. What you are actually saying is "How horrible for women to deal with this behavior from average type men" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.If I ever found Adam Levine attractive, all that went down the drain when I saw the simpy “holy fucking fuck your body is absurd” texts he sent to that girl. Adam Levine... that guy looks like the bathroom wall of a gas station. His body is fucking absurd and not in a good way. The fact that he acts like a blue pill dipshit is secondary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Which Would You PickThe first one is the obvious choice. No man will ever truly know if his wife or girlfriend really loves him. We just assume so based on actions. I'd say a large chunk of the female population in the western world isn't even capable of really loving a man. Love tends to require sacrifice, service, and sometimes submission. We are surrounded by women too self centered for any of that, and it's fine because many of us men are not capable of it either. I will also say that most people in our culture… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Which Would You PickThink about it. You NEVER really know if someone loves you for truth or not... nor do you know to what degree they love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.especially among gender lines , with men being less likely to admit to infidelity. I've never seen anything that backs this up. It actually seems quite ridiculous on the face of it since men are much more likely to be risk takers... which is proven by many studies. I will say this though... Calling yourself BluePill kind of explains why you shit on men and put women on a pedestal. So, maybe this is just the bias of your worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.The WHY is very important. Everybody has different lives and come from different situations. I dated a woman who got trafficked to the US as a teen and her N count was through the roof. It took her years to get her head on straight, but she finally did she was a great partner. Also knew a lady who was essentially a virgin until marriage. While married she lost like 100 lbs and evidently that was what kept her from being a slut because she cheated on her husband like it was her day job. You seem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Marital blissLook, this topic is very complicated. It isn't the criminal conviction itself that attracts most women. Instead it's the idea of being dangerous. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The Cultural Left has no Prescriptive Model of MasculinityThinking independently isn’t narcissistic or stupid. One who follows and cannot think independently I would say is stupid, though. Funny how everyone who says stuff like this basically conforms to the values around them. A man has to understand who he serves first and foremost. If you only serve yourself then your masculinity is hollow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:17 PM |
| -3 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryThings I consider rights: private healthcare including reproductive choices without husbands present. So... the ability to kill someone's child an not let them know? Reminds me of the guys who used to complain that thier "rights" had been taken away when they could no longer simply light their wife on fire as a divorce method. The ability to dress how I choose. A lot of Muslim women dislike dress codes. I personally don't consider this one very important to overall life quality. The ability to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistorySome of this is going on, but also I think women today struggle to even imagine a world where thier worth is tied 100% to their children. If you can't produce children then you were just a useless mouth to feed. Communities were 100 times smaller, and you were constantly surrounded by death. Also, in many cultures the rate of childhood rape and abuse for women was very high. So, suddenly you combine all these factors plus mental illness and you can see how people might have acted very different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryAny estimate on how effective that herb was? It was a poison, and it was described as being very effective, but with very serious side effects. I believe the Egyptian women used cammel poop inserted vaginally as birth control. If this story is true... then I can only assume it's effectiveness was in keeping men away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:41 PM |
| -5 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistorySo, the fact Islam as a country's religion and a countries poor women's rights track record venn diagram is just a circle is a coincidence? Define "women's rights" I know some ladies in Muslim countries that would argue they have more freedom than western women. When you listen to their ideas of women's rights then suddenly the western world looks very oppressive dangerous and scary. I live in a city were women basically can't walk down the street without crazed drug addicts attempting to sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:21 PM |
| -6 | Marital blissMeh... most women are like this to some degree. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | q4w: Why do some women think they are more valuable than men because you let men pump and dump you?I had a FWB situation where the guy was a sweetheart, changed breaks on my car, took me out, etc. I never felt like he held anything over my head and that lasted over a year. I'm more like this guy. It's just my personality type. I know it kills attraction for a good chunk of women, but it works well with others. I've learned to be a bit more balanced over time. With that said... guys like me keep what we really think of women to ourselves. Your personal trainer guy is just kind of a standard pl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?Men, you are not competing with “chads”, you are competing with the still serenity that is my single life. At 38... you are not the target of 95% of red pillers. I know you say that you shag younger guys, but those guys will rarely stick around unless you are willing to play mommy. That said, you are probably much more in my demographic of targets. Lucky you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 4 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.You describe as young fit pretty women as being shallow while ''ugly women' ' liking attractive men. I' m like, ok? Look, when I was young, wealthy, and very fit... the women who chased me were also young, attractive, and fit. When I got chubby, those fit attractive women no longer were interested. When I got my abs back, they would come running. I'm just one of those guys who yo-yo's in weight within about a 40 pound range. I gain weight fast and I lose it fast. So, I know more than anyone what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Yes. I would have my photographers take the pictures and usually they looked decent. Then I would send them to the photoshopers and they would come out looking amazing. That said... some women look decent in person but do not photo well... so it goes both ways. I'm convinced that so many men in fashion are gay... they choose women for models who have a more masculine face shape... and it takes some editing to make them appeal to a wider audience. Guys like them because they are stick thin and po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:25 PM |
| 3 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.And why are you complaining about gigachad when you ignore fat or ugly or older women? What are you smoking? I don't even believe in Gigachad... it's a boogeyman for black pill dipshits. Regarding women... I love older women, I chase chubby women all the time, and I have spent more than my fair share of time shagging ugly women too. Some players think that a woman's looks are all that is important... I personally have a wider range of things I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | q4w: Why do some women think they are more valuable than men because you let men pump and dump you?I don't think it makes me more valuable but also not less. I think you missed the point of his post. You might think of this as mutual pleasure but the guy you are sleeping with does not. This kind of goes to the point of female self delusion. I've been in FWB relationships many times... and often with women I have some kind of emotional attachment to. However, I never share how I actually feel about the situation. It absolutely lowers my valuation of the woman. That's just a fact. But the quest… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.I disagree. He's exactly what I want and sought out. Just because he's not what you value doesn't mean he's not the most valuable to me. Again... what YOU want is clearly niche. People need to understand just because you want him doesn't mean other women do as well. You may be the only woman on a planet who likes bald midget's with micropenis. We don't know what you are into and we don't really care. The point is that your perception is not reality, and the way you phrased things can seem mislea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 4 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.You can try to pitch the fear factor but it's not really a thing. I'm not trying to sell you anything. I'm filling in the gaps for other readers so they don't get confused reading your post. There is this gap between personal perception and reality that makes reading these comments often times misleading. If your BF is worried about you walking... then he isn't shit... regardless of what you tell yourself about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 38 | Red Pill vs human sexual biologyI was part of the Red Pill community since at least 2008. The number of red pill men I've known who seriously sought out and expected to partner up with virgins is zero. I know some guys who thought it would be cool, and I know some guys who actually did it. However, the thing that defines guys who move to the Red Pill is a desire to be successful in dating. Most of us would greatly prefer sluts... which is great because our culture practically pumps them out like a factory. Now Black Pillers se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:04 PM |
| -1 | The Cultural Left has no Prescriptive Model of MasculinityThe mostly salient aspect of being a man is choosing your own values, rejecting those imposed on you that you disagree with, and acting in the world as you see fit This isn't masculinity... this is just narcisism and stupidity. The defining trait of men has always been the role of a protector. If that isn't part of your defiition then you are a fool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 6 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.Why would need to cut down on the gym to read? This kinda makes me think you're doing neither. Audiobooks on a treadmill are amazing. Although sometimes I just like to listen to music too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 3 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.There is a lot more to women's attraction to men than status, wealth, height and beauty. Low standards are man's best friend as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.This is a pile of bullshit with some truth sprinkled on top. The truth is that you simply have to understand what kind of woman you are dealing with first. Fat, old, and ugly are more likely to be as you describe, while young, pretty, and fit are much more likely to be shallow. I think one of the primary reasons for that is shallow people are more motivated to care for their looks, however I digress. I will provide an example. I have a friend and she is originally from Guatamala, but raised in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 29 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.I don’t like muscles so I wouldn’t date a gym rat 9 out of 10 women who I've heard say that are totally full of shit. What they really mean is they aren't into bodybuilders who look like Arnold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:31 PM |
| 17 | The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women.. I'm not threatened by him "leveling the playing field" Nice looking women are a dime a dozen. A truly attractive man is very rare and if you aren't keeping your eye out for competition then your guy just isn't one of those men. Fact. When I was 30, making huge money and in fantastic shape, even supermodels could not touch my quality. Without makeup and photoshop most of those ladies aren't shit. I had a side gig owning a photography company at the time, so I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?Our current VP Kamala Harris is perhaps the dumbest person since Dan Quayle to hold the position... despite a fawning media and an entire team of exasperated professionals trying to make her look like something other than a bimbo. But that kind of makes the point for me. Plenty of incompentent fools in leadership positions. The more a meritocracy breaks down the worse that situation gets. Virtually all of the men running the US government are either puppets or muppets... the women are no better.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:39 AM |
| -3 | Ladies have you thought about going on the Fresh and Fit podcast to debate Myron on red pill talking points or is it too much of a challenge?“Wimmen be indecisive about lunch” is hack though. I've experienced this so many times in my personal life that it just drives me insane. Plenty of dudes are like this too, but it's just out of control with women. Also... most women DO make shit leaders. They make great managers and other things, but horrible leaders. The moment it becomes your job to run a country you need to put your own bullshit aside and make very hard choices. Many countries are totally falling apart because women are the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The "ick" phenomenon.The act of knowingly messing with someone who’s cheating is immoral in itself. Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Then they should turn off their screens and go seek happiness in the real world. Not pretending “the feminists are out to get us” like a cowardly lion. That sounds like Red Pill advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.omg being stronger than your boyfriend would hang a dark cloud over the relationship 😫 To be fair... she is not a weak woman, but yeah. I know for fact she was very torn about ending the relationship. I once dated a woman who is a body builder. I've never spent so much time in the gym... and weighing food. It took me some time to get over how big her arms were, but in the end it was a very fun relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Dude, you went full on nazi with this post? I've spoken to a number of gen z feminist boys and the main thing they all have in common is a complete lack of happiness. They are maniacly depressed as a group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?We’ll see who wins I guess. It's typically the one with the most power. Luckily the power of the United States is fading fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Where did you get your opinions about women? Do you live in a democracy? Then anything funded by those tax dollars is by definition democratically funded. We don't get to vote on how a university funds different departments. I literally said I was a anti-feminist, based on the flimsy arguments I believed in. I'm not proud of that, and I'm not proud about how I was utterly defeated by more well researched, well reasoned arguments when I entered college, but it happened. It's just brainwashing, it is absolutely not a better reasoned argume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemConservatives like to watch cuckold porn, feminists degrading porn. Straight homophobes secretly enjoy watching gay porn. My experience is that very few conservatives like cuckold porn... and when they do, they like to imagine themselves as the Bull guy. My liberal friends are MUCH MUCH more likely to get off on being shamed and degraded... which makes sense because if they didn't like to be shamed and degraded they probably wouldn't identify as liberal and a male at the same time. The straight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Like almost all Red Pill men, I developed my opinions of women from close observation of my interactions with them. If my opinions were still those given to me by the culture, then I would still be a blue pill feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 10 | Where did you get your opinions about women?to engage with higher level readings and in depth studies exploring the ideas of gender and society. Understand that my tax dollars are stolen to fund an army of useless mouth thinkers who produce bullshit feminist literature like factory that makes fake poop. This golden gilding provided by academia and undemocratically funded by pure theft makes their ideas sound good vs. some guy on a YouTube channel who has to work a full time job and just does this on the side. I've engaged with both. Very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Where did you get your opinions about women?You have a 0% chance of meeting a western woman that hasn’t had her brain altered by feminism in some way, shape, or form. Honestly... I think this is a big piece of what is driving the rest of the world to hate American Cultural Imperialism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Where did you get your opinions about women?They need an arch villain. A foil. Otherwise it’s just a dude who can’t figure out how to get laid. Or... just maybe they realized the dominant philosophy of our culture calls them "The Patriarchy" and tells everyone they are the equivalent of Nazi's? Most of these young guys aren't having issues getting laid... it's only the bottom 30%, yet nearly double that number hate feminists. Yet, what is truly shocking is that 40% of boys in Gen Z are wiling to embrace an ideology that fucking hates them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Go ahead, Im sure she’ll pinky swear that shes not interested in your money or a green card. I'm so tired of this shit. Foreign brides like this tend to have some form of a moral code and some pride. Even when they screw you over they don't go at you even half as hard as the local bitches do. 100% of the guys I've ever known who faced false charges for abuse/rape whatever... all of if from American women. The guys who get suckered for greencards come home from work to find their wife gone and al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 0 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.So when you go abroad, you speak extensively to local women about American man, so fluently that they don't know that you're American? Don't be a turd! What he/she says fits. I've also traveled a huge amount for work, often spending months at a time in different countries. I dated in almost every single one... Even Dubai. When you are foreign this is a big topic of conversation. There are plenty of stereotypes to go around but American Women are generally viewed as trash by traditional cultures,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:10 PM |
| 11 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Korean men don’t eat pussy? 😨 Depends on the guy. I have an african friend who lived in Korea for years teaching english. Her BF was a pussy eating machine... and could do crazy stuff with his hands. The only issue was they were wrestling on bed and she pinned him, like he couldn't move. She told me that sat in the back of her mind for months until she had to break up with him. Otherwise... best boyfriend ever in her words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 5 | I understand feeling sad, lonely or even suicidal but I don’t understand blaming it on someone let alone an entire gender.. Maybe I’m off but that’s my reading. You are most definitely off. At the end she rants about dress sizes and how all men want a size double zero woman... which is so completely untrue that you have to be stupid to even say it. However, it is the exact same crap she is complaining that men do... which is hilarious because the whole post is hypocritical when seen in this context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 6 | I understand feeling sad, lonely or even suicidal but I don’t understand blaming it on someone let alone an entire gender.Hahaha... it's like you just verbally walked into a brick wall. Everyone else sees it but you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women be picky?Females are also having less sex compared to years ago according to stats, teen pregnancy was a bigger thing in 90's than it is now. I was around in the 90s... I remember how that stuff worked. Women have less sex, but with MORE partners. Don't mix up your stats. Back in the day... women would get a boyfriend and they would shag all the time. Now, women get boyfriends and then stop having sex, for whatever reason... maybe too many guys have porn addictions. Regardless... the number of one night … | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women be picky?Did you know that women are allowed to reject anyone they want? Sounds like you are whining that women actually choices now. That isn't even close to the point here. What is wrong with you? We are discussing the feelings of men, yet you constantly respond with rights of women bullshit. That kind of sums up my issue with feminism in general... it is probably the most narcissistic ideology of all time. Why are you comparing businesses to women? You're the one who brought it. It's a dumb comparison… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women be picky?i used to work in childcare and the same thing kept happening over and over again. I think you are misinterpreting this. I've never seen children be lookist until after the culture really gets it's hooks into them. The racial thing is just a comfort deal. Kids have anxiety around strangers. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women be picky?That's a stupid comparison. Businesses are expected to serve the public. Women aren't obligated to fuck or date the public. This is how women get high N-counts. Isn't that what you love complaining about? Businesses are expected to serve whoever they want to serve and they can reject any client they wish. We made special rules forcing them to not deny people based on certain categories, but they can always lie about it. You clearly don't understand basic civil rights. This stuff only fails to ma… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/09/22 09:22 PM |
| 3 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?Why can’t women initiate in men they’re interested in? Instead of trying to get guys to understand how to do it correctly? Let me explain something. Women tend to build attraction over time and through actions. They can feel very strong initial attraction, but it often doesn't last and it's very shallow. With these guys they will often initiate touching. The reason you need to get off your ass and learn how to do it is because most women are not going to find you immediately attractive and you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.Back on the hallucinogens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?Why don’t the women just do that touching themselves instead of “teaching guys”? What? You seem very confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 4 | You will never be a high value man.But you are not necessarily telling me anything different here. A 5”2, low intelligence, severely disabled is probably never going to be considered a ‘high value man’ in the eyes of the rhetoric – no matter how hard he tried. Does not mean this man cannot better his life or be content through effort. In some cases massively. You are massively wrong for 2 primary reasons. First, is that you seem to not understand the point. The point is not to become a percentage point, it's to improve yourself f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?Or holding hands. Or when you're crossing the street, you can kinda hold her around waist and "oh watch that car". Compliments are great ("you look nice today"/"that dress really suits you"/"your makeup looks great" etc.) We have been teaching guys this for two decades. Non-sexualized touching is a must on most dates. I mostly chase after feminist types due to availability, and they are hyper sensitive to this stuff. However, in my experience as long as you avoid erogenous zones at first they ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 10 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealIf one doesn’t have a center it doesn’t matter whether they’re masculine or not because at that point they barely quality as an adult. Meh... Look people are going to expect shit from you in life. While it's up to you whether you meet that expectation or not... and you are arguing in favor of not meeting it.... life becomes more difficult for you. I've succeeded in life because I embraced those expectations and then took control of them. Sometimes it's hard to do things you don't feel like doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Why shouldn't women be picky?Why do you care that she's rejecting you? You wouldn't want to date her anyway. Make up your damn mind. This is like wondering why black people hated segregation. This business rejects you, just focus on the ones that will serve you. I'm sure if it was just 1 or 2, this kind of attitude would work, but when the issue is culturally pervasive... you can't just ignore it and move on. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingI'm not sure where I'd go with a post on it, tbh. "In praise of sexual restraint?" It's not a new message, just out of fashion. It's so out of fashion that most people don't even think it's possible. Do you classify this as still being romantic love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Double standards - Are they something inherently bad, or just a part of dating?I’m just saying that if I, a woman, who is surrounded by women, have no way of indicating or establishing a cause and effect (or even a correlation) between n count and behaviour then that’s telling. No, it isn't telling, precisely because you are a woman. You aren't trying to date these ladies. The things you have to think about are entirely different. I don't bother to ask about this shit because I generally know long before the topic comes up. Last year I had this lady nervously say... "You k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Why shouldn't women be picky?He did a full farewell tour... even publicized it. Pulled most of his books that pertained to casual sex off the internet. He had already been living in Russia almost full time. The one thing he did was go back to the original Persian spelling of his name so people wouldn't recognize it... but he lives in Europe today as far I know. If you look at most of the guys who went Red Pill in my time frame 2006-2014, there is a very clear pattern. Most of us were very traditionally minded men in a socie… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Guys seem obsessed with getting cheated on or being the ones who women cheat withWe are competitive. That's just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Double standards - Are they something inherently bad, or just a part of dating?You risk gaining weight by eating certain foods, you risk your health by overworking and going after a big pay check. I've been with a lot of women and in my experience high N count correlates directly to mental and emotional wellness in women. That's just a fact. Dudes that work themselves to death or comfort eat from stress also have mental an emotional issues... they just tend to be less extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingI'm sorry if I can get partners consistently as a transsexual regular straight men with a far greater potential dating pool have no excuse. Women are all different, and some women date differently them others, theyre not all some stereotype you saw in a chick-flic Naw, I'm happy for you. I figured out women years ago and I'm doing fabulous. I've got a childhood friend that is trans, and I've seen the struggles. To be blunt she isn't super skinny or super hot or super young.... so it's a heck of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingIf most women are in relationships with assholes, does that mean most men are just assholes or what? I can't speak for anyone else... but in my case I have to force myself to be a jerk. At first I hated it, but now I'm at peace with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?Oh, don't feel bad. It sucked for a year or so, but I bounced back way stronger. I changed lifestyles... dated college girls for a while. Started a tech company... sold it... got into real estate... sold it... did some stock... lost my butt... got into bitcoins... made a lot... got back into real estate... became a landlord. All the while keeping my day job. Today I think I could go toe to toe with her family lawyers and win... mostly because now I'm just as ruthless. I think had I not gone thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't women be picky?Don't you know? After his sister died he converted to Christianity. He got married and has... I think 2 kids so far. He's working in cancer research. The last I heard from him was in 2021. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women be picky?It's just been from what I've seen that ugly men are the ones who commit the most sex crimes. So we are right to be wary of them. The sex offender list is packed with tall handsome guys.. what the hell are you talking about? | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't women be picky?I see many men complaining about how picky women are on Tinder. Then you completely missed the mark, because we have hard data that shows women are picky on Tinder for entirely different reasons than you suggest. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/22 12:09 AM |
| 7 | Why shouldn't women be picky?You are totally missing the point! Guys aren't bitching about 30 year old virgin women. They are bitching because the same woman that is too picky to date them is attending gangbang parties put on by the local college football team. How fucking hard is that to get?? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/08/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingI can't exactly dress to show off I like art, science, history, whatever. That isn't a niche. You use your physical appearance to display your niche! The way you dress and groom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingThis is actually very good advice. I suggest anyone reading this take it seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingLike, i'm a transsexual, and data suggests only 2% of men considering dating us You are dealing with men here... which makes it a lot easier to screen. If you decided to start dating women things would look a lot different to you. Just for example... that 2% of men may go up to 15% just based on how beautiful you may be. It won't be like that with women. When they want assholes... you cannot expand that 2% number... and in fact they are so picky on other traits you basically just find yourself l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingMost women don't date assholes. Hahahaha.... obvious bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingI think a lot of the trouble is telling people to obey their attraction instead of controlling it. I've been attracted to plenty of men. I'm married to one. Most of the attraction I've felt is irrelevant to my life, though the patterns I see in who's appealed are kind of interesting. This is absolute genius and you should create a separate post just on this. We generally do not think hard enough on these issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingThis is of course the ideal. The complaint is that women prioritize the edge over the reliable niceness... particularly when she is younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 30 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingSome dad bods are power lifters (me) and it shows, women like that. That isn't Dad Bod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?If I can’t find a job with the same flexibility, I’ll have to take what I can in the short term, but getting back that work/home balance will be a priority. It doesn’t have to SAHM or high powered career mom who is never home. There’s a lot of options in between. You clearly prioritize your children over your job. THAT is what I care about. Women seem to want a guy who can pay for shit, or a least match up to their lifestyle... and they emphasize this trait to such an extreme degree that I find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyMost women are fine with this idea. I think they are fine with this happening to other people. I've never met a woman that reacted positively to a guy telling her he was going to DNA test the child they have together. Even faithful women dislike the implied accusation here. My cousin has a child with a woman who faked the court ordered DNA test to cut him out... and put another guy on the hook. I know she faked it because I've seen the court paperwork that says my cousin is not the father. I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyI split my time and assets between several different countries... that don't like to work together. Even this only makes a small difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?😂😂😂 ask everyone who ever got blindsided by a cheater if they trusted their partner. I certainly did, that's how he got away with it so long. I trusted him, I didn't need to check up on him. 🤷♀️ I have a cheating x/Wife. I always trusted her, but the affair was not unexpected. I'd been secretly looking into divorce for some time because of existing issues in the relationship, which is why the affair didn't really surprise me. The thing that completely caught me off guard was her absolute refusa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyprivacy issues around the central national database that would have to be created This is a God-Damned good answer! I would argue that no centralized authority should be allowed to keep this data. However, there are other ways to implement this type of thing. I personally did a DNA test on the sly. I know a lot of other guys who are simply afraid to even do the test for many reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 3 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyWhat woman has a problem with the concept of universal paternity tests?? The ones who do stuff like VOTE. This idea has been crushed in about 4 or 5 liberal democracies in the last 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 19 | What are good examples of the female gaze in media?I love twilight, but I always think of it as a perfect example of the female gaze that most men are familiar with. Never forget that 50 Shades of Gray is just Twilight Fan Fiction! I view female fantasy through a cultural lens. The standard female fantasy in the US is fairly similar to that of say... Japan, but the small differences tend to be very impactful in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Q4M fidelity testingCheating is also a risk Risk vs 100% guarantee... these things are not the same. All children should be paternity tested as a matter of course upon birth. It should be the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?Humiliation is a fetish, as Louis CK could tell you Louis CK was power tripping... by forcing women to watch him pleasure himself. I wasn't there and I'm not Louis CK, but my interpretation of events is that he was getting off exerting power over these women. Weinstein is a known rapist... and would routinely trade sex for jobs. Getting a woman to watch him shower is less humiliation than a grooming technique. Look, men are men. How these emotions and desires are channeled matter. The blue pille… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:28 PM |
| 9 | Q4M fidelity testingProvided the damn thing was accurate then YES. However the analogy is stupid for the following reasons... not all cheating results in children, children represent a very strong emotional attachment, and children also represent an enormous financial investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?Women are safer in general making sure they are able to be financially self-sufficient, whether or not they ever need to. How about marrying someone you trust? If you can't trust anyone... it's probably because you aren't trustworthy yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Most men have low or zero standards?We are living the dream because we chose to divideband conquer, and we chose to honor our marriage vows and stick together through thick and thin. Most women hate to hear this. They like to think of love as something that is fated, or just happens. They use words like "chemistry" and other stuff that's beyond their control. It's a nice way to live because nothing is ever your responsibility. What you say though is the truth of it. Love is a choice, and sometimes it's a hard choice. You have to k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?You don't expect your partner to be able to function as a self-sufficient adult, or make a financial contribution to the relationship? Honest question. I've been so poor that I lived in my car, and I've been so rich every aspect of my life is luxury. If you choose people based on their fortunes then you might as well marry your bank account. I don't care about a woman's level of ambition and I don't care if she makes a lot of money. I've dated women that make six figures but won't wash a dish. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?I make over 100K. I expect the same from women. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?For all the guys on here terrified of “divorce rape” you’d think more of them would be looking for partners with similar earning potential. This is bad advice. I've been through it and I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Most men have low or zero standards?There’s a difference between wanting a free ride and wanting a partner who makes a meaningful financial contribution. There are more important things than money. Not to mention it’s just practically important in many cases. If a guy is making less than 100k (or maybe high five figures in lower cost of living places) and he desires children, he’s probably going to need a wife who makes decent money. 🤷🏻♀️ I had a high powered worker bee mom. You know what all that money did for me? Not a fucking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Yeah, if you want to be scared that a woman will say something which is far less probable than them not saying something cause you (and not you, but a general you) are not a creep who is taking advantage of them, then that is your choice. I can't disagree with anything you say. It's not crazy common yet... definitely growing though. They changed the legal standard for this stuff in college, and they are trying to do it for the general population too... it's only a matter of time in my opinion. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?Fetishes are the result of blue pill oppression? Who knew ? You think Weinstein was just a fetishist? How naïve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Most men have low or zero standards?I kind of cringe when I see men say things like they don't care about her having a job or anything like that. That should be a red flag in my opinion. Why? I'm looking for a woman not a purse to pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?It just seems, I'm not sure the word I'm looking for, maybe cynical? That is the correct word! Cynicism is the fate of most young idealists. I used to idealize idealism, but over time I have found it was a very destructive force in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Fuck around and find out... you absolutely won't be lonely in prison. My honest advice is to be very careful with women and let them know that you will aggressively attack any form of reputation destruction they may try to pull. You have no idea how common this bullshit is today. My cousin just went through it last year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?By their members, ye shall know them LOL... you just went partial King James. Having spent a large amount of time in the community... there is really no better group of men... particularly at later stages in life. I mean they had to create an entire twitter movement called MeToo to deal with all the nasty blue pill guys. I've seen this thing time and time again... and honestly I could see myself having fallen into this trap too if not for the red pill. You see blue pill guys don't stop having th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?the overdone duck lips is pretty gross in my opinion. i mean stuff like nose jobs or facial contouring The issue I have with nose jobs is that a large number of surgeons tend to basically do everyone the same. We used to joke and call them the barbie doll factories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.This is just men failing at being men. How many times have I seen a woman's dating profile that said.... "not looking for one night stands", yet we end the first date naked in my bed? How many times has she said... "Must be 6'2", and yet she is driving away from my place at 6am? Just stop listening to what "average women" say and start fucking chasing them with confidence, enthusiasm, and a sense of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:03 AM |
| 6 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?Thank you porn, I guess? Yes, this is almost entirely a porn thing. As a man... I greatly dislike it. The prep is annoying and failure to prep is disgusting. My primary experience in this is with women from highly religious communities who need to remain virgins. As for AF/BB... It's extremely common. Anytime you see a woman partnered up with a soft weak man, you know for sure this dynamic is in play. Since our culture is basically a factory for soft weak men.... it ensures women dating beta bux… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?Heard that a lot when this is brought up You are correct, and Red Pillers will acknowledge this in a tangential way. The thing is that most of us are somewhat in an atavistic stage and self reflection doesn't come until later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex?Women usually settle down with these men, because they see these men as the best option to secure the future of her kids You missed the point. She settles with this guy, but remains somewhat open to flings with more attractive men. This is key to AF/BB dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!i have a great relationship with my dad who was always clean shaven. i love bearded men. as in all aspects of life... exceptions abound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Drunk people meeting at a bar is rape? If she is drunk, then they can call you a rapist afterwards and you have no defense. Welcome to the United States of Feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Depends on what you like. I find the changing of hair colors or the removal of serious flaws to be more than Ok. However, most women are much better off without the fakeness. I don't think I've ever in my life seen a woman who looked better with duck lips. Perhaps it's that I worked for years selling surgical devices into the aesthetic market and I can see all of those nips and tucks that other guys may not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?You've trained yourself to notice women's physical flaws. That's... certainly a life choice. I think in a normal world where kids are taught truth and not fantasy, that this would never have been necessary. However, I was brainwashed by the blue pillers my entire childhood and this was an essential step to break the chains they put on me. Everyone has flaws. Not seeing them isn't some wonderful thing... it's actually sad. Today, I can see a woman, see her flaws, and love her along with them. Fla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?and the women are drunk, everything changes. Yeah... they call that rape today. That's probably why nobody is talking about it openly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:17 AM |
| 3 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Attractive means many things. I run game pretty much the same as the guy above and it works fantastic. I'm not some super handsome guy... I'm like a 6 or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:14 AM |
| 8 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?Nah... I've trained my eye over the years to notice the flaws in women. Damn few can really pass muster. They slather shit on their face, get fake hair, fake teeth, fake nails, fake tits, fake fucking hair... I see through all that shit. Not that many women are above me... although many of them think they are. I mean honestly, you never really know where you sit on the looks scale until you have been legit weighed and measured... and not by horny drunk dudes. The only natural beauty I routinely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Why men fall for Andrew TateRyan’s Toy Review! - you don’t know how much money I’ve spent on that little fucks toys for my son all the while kind of bitter I didn’t think of this genius idea 😭 This kid makes like 50 million a year! What you have to understand is that 5,000 families had this idea all at once, and his parents just had the cash to spend millions on marketing with the goal of making him famous. People think that the age of social media means anyone with talent can rise to the top, but actually it is the exact … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!If you have ever been to Jamaica you will occasionally run across what the locals call "rent a dred" guys, and the racial fetishist women who use them. There are lots of other examples, but this is probably the most common in north america. I want to stress that this is not a common thing for women of any kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What is the point in discussing these issues if there is no solution to them?I don't know where you have been the last 20 years, but the Red Pill IS THE SOLUTION. If you are a guy struggling with dating, take the red pill, wake up and learn how to get dates. If you a woman who feels surrounded by losers and can't attract the guy you want... take the red pill. Essentially what this means is stop looking at people's behavior through an ideological and frankly quite insane lens. Stop asking for the world to be fair... it's fucking juvenile. Accept the idea that you are goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!Where in Africa? We got white ppl begging on the streets here in SA I've never been to SA and only rich women will date a beggar just because of his ethnicity... and with that said... I've only seen rich white women do it and even then only when the guy is younger and more physically attractive than she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Sex/relatioships!What is the goal of these questions? Are you wanting to learn how to heal men from their anger towards women as a whole? Also... your Ex/BF is MGTOW, not Red Pill. Most of us who are Red Pill actually love women in general. We might be frustrated by modern culture, but fundamentally we love women and want the best for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!I've found this effect to be strong in a lot of other areas as well. My time in Asia and Africa... I noticed that women who didn't like to date men of their own ethnicity almost always had serious struggles with their fathers. I've often wondered if I have a similar thing going on regarding my relationship with my mother. I think the correlation is probably a lot less strong with men... however I'm sure it plays a role somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 14 | Why men fall for Andrew TateNo, the easiest way to make ungodly amounts of money on youtube is to have your 5 year old kid unbox toys and play with them. Look at the top 10 youtubers.... making millions and millions... its got like 4 kids who just unbox shit. The guys promising help with women have been dropping like flies and were never anything more than niche. All of the truly good PUA guys have been deplatformed over the last 10 years. This is not a path to money, or even fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!i have a good relationship with my father and yes, he’s had a beard my whole life and yes, it’s uncomfortable to think about lmao I was just curious because I read a study that showed women who had a father with a beard also wanted a husband with a beard... provided the relationship with her father was good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsIf my options for apps is one that’s geared towards relationships and meaningless sex which one are women choosing and which ones are men choosing Dunno... I've scored from Tinder, Bumble, Hinge... so many apps. All dating platforms are venues for getting meaningless sex. Any woman who thinks that the guys on Bumble are more serious is an idiot. For what it's worth... I've found the Tinder ladies to be more cagey because they expect a higher level of bullshit. Other apps, women tend to be less g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | "100 strokes of brush..." or "the MAXIMUM of sex is done with MINIMUM love" conundrumMelissa has written a partial autobiography. She was 17 when the book was printed. Maybe not complete, but the events are mostly real. If the events are real then she is probably a very fucked up individual... and is popular because for some crazy reason European people love train wrecks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!I don’t give a fuck if a guy is bald so long as it is kept clean and tidy. But I do require a beard, that’s the hair I care about. Curious. Do you have a good relationship with your father? Also... did he or does he have a beard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsWhat a lot of guys don't realize, is that a non-paying guy on an app, is like a guy who complains about the weeds on a golf course, when he's just a non-paying guest of a country club member....you're the lowest of the low, like a stowaway on a cruise ship LOL That's entirely true, but the issue is that paying doesn't solve the ratio issue. Dating apps suck balls and we should be happy to see them all go away. However, we also cannot allow feminists to attack young men for flirting and scare the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | "100 strokes of brush..." or "the MAXIMUM of sex is done with MINIMUM love" conundrumThere are some things that once you experience them, it changes you. I think when it comes to sex, women are much more deeply affected than men. There are of course some exceptions to that, but the simple truth is that men are much better able to disengage their emotions from this stuff. I've known many women who did wild stuff in their youth. Never once have I met one that was better able to have a solid relationship because of the experience... and in fact most were virtually incapable due to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseWomen who have a "Hoe Phase" never really leave it. They can put it aside for a while, but it always comes back to reassert itself later down the road. The girl in high school who slept with an incredible amount of boys in her 4 years... including at least 10% of the football team... got out of college and married a pastor. We were always told that she turned over a new leaf... then 10 years later she gets caught in a torrid affair... divorces and is now once again the party skank... but this ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | women have no trouble determining if a man is insecure.Oh... Jussie Smollett is now a 10 year old rape victim from Ohio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsI won’t be confused with stats like I won’t be confused by someone throwing out numbers, without your own stats what am I to think? I'm just suggesting you think for yourself. What percentage of women under 40 do you think have ever used Tinder? Why is the active userbase of females so low? Once you think about it, the answers become somewhat clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsLOL... you remember the internet back in the 90s? I used to play this text based game on a bulletin board system. My friend was totally infatuated with this person going by the name BaronessBliss. We found out 6 months later that the Baroness was a 400lb slightly balding late 30s man named Al who ran the comic book shop in town. Hahahahaha Look, the core problem with dating apps is that women are not supposed to work like that. The guys who figure out how to be attractive to women through market… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsPeople who don't condone rape? I would think you'd want to be counted among that group. This is just a stupid word game. Nobody is in favor of rape, but also nobody wants to use your dipshit fake definition of the word either. Roosh didn't rape anyone. If he did there would have been a criminal investigation and he would be in prison. So, get off it. Is that honestly something you needed to learn? Yes, it is an extremely important skill. It helps in almost all aspects of life... but it impacts d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | women have no trouble determining if a man is insecure.The anti abortion laws sweeping the us don't have a rape exception. Women are struggling to get ectopic pregnancies removed and can't get DEAD fetuses removed. Now this is mostly bullshit. I sell these products directly to hospitals. Planned Parenthood is one of my top customers and none of this is true... even in the deep deep red states I work in. It's all fear mongering bullshit to make women who don't know any better jump up and vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 03:35 PM |
| -1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsDidn't that guy admit to situations that could be considered rape? That's the "thought leader" ? lol Who the fuck cares? The guy was a genius. Probably the first one to cut out the hokey crap and just teach people how to have fun conversations. Which sounds really basic until you realize 95% of the male population totally sucks at talking to people. lmao WIA and BlackCaesar were two of the best. Never got to meet them. But I did get a chance to see some of their friends. This crew was absolutely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsJust wanted to include a visual of the pickup community you were talking about. In case people weren't aware of them. Just a bunch of average looking guys... which is why the Red Pill is needed. But it's important to note these guys are just the most popular... not the most influential. The thought leaders were guys like Roissy, and RooshV. WIA and a lot of black guys too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?Half of social psychology studies can't be replicated, so its not unusual to find one which is wrong It's true that Sociology is mostly bullshit at this point. Dated a professor in this field some years back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Which gender does sex most have to do with in terms of social dynamics?If women gatekeep sex, so do men. It's called "consent" and it's not a bad thing. Just because someone offers you a job doesn't mean you have to accept it. However, you are going to find that in 99% of circumstances... empoyers hold all the power and viewing this power dynamic simply in terms of mutual consent is totally meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsMasters of invention pictured above What's the point of the picture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Which gender does sex most have to do with in terms of social dynamics?This is a difficult topic to parse out, because there are many different ways these things play out... and have played out over time. For Example... in the distant past there wasn't even a concept of marital rape... even further back and most marriages were not entirely consensual. However, we are talking about the here and now, and in the US particularly along with adjacent cultures. In this situation women are generally speaking like Employers and men are generally like Job Applicants... and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Which gender does sex most have to do with in terms of social dynamics?It is fucked up to think men can't say no to sex or don't ever want to (not saying this is what you were postulating just that sometimes the mindset of gatekeeping seems to think men have no impulse control and aren't allowed to say 'no' to sex or never want to). It's like the whole concept just went way over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?I agree with everything you said except this. Men will never, not even black pill men, see 80% of women as below average like women do with men. Don't misunderstand that stat. I would bet money that more than half the women I've banged in my life thought I was below average in looks. A good portion of them became horribly addicted to me. Women just don't place the same emphasis on looks that men do... because they view the whole world through an emotional lense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsYou have no idea what you are talking about. It reminds me of the time I tried to listen to a 4 year old explain how rainbows work. You want to have a specific discussion about Red Pill ideas and beliefs... then I'm willing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count?It does seem like the only person who can be ok in a relationship with a High N woman is another High N person. I'd say most partners are matched when it comes to N count. Do we really ever see a virgin and a High N man partnering in the West? I've got at least 2 Red Pill friends who have married virgins and are doing well. My buddy Gaius is probably the best example. He probably slept with 30 to 40 women a year for about 6 or 7 years. Somehow in that process he found Jesus, gave up womanizing a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 11 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsYou seem to be confusing Red Pill with Black Pill. Every single Red Pill guy I know is doing very well with women. That's the whole point of the Red Pill. The Pickup Community fucking invented it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 10 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsDon't be confused by statistics. The percentage of women who have used Tinder is not that far from the percentage of men who have used Tinder.... It's basically within about 6%. The fact that the ACTIVE userbase skews heavily male is simply because women either find what they want quickly... or find they absolutely hate the app fast. Men on the other hand will be active users for huge periods of time... LOL... often times well into relationships and even during marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsThis is highly misleading. When you look at stats like 60% of the female population under 40 has used Tinder at some point.... then note that only 25% of active users are female at any given time. What this means is that the majority of women use Tinder, but then stop.... while men will actively use it for much longer periods of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:47 PM |
| 6 | If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count?Yeah, I actually believe that. It makes her feel like she's showing him the ropes. Whatever the reason... I think a lot of guys have an innate sense of this and it's one of the reasons men strongly dislike relationships with promiscuous women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?I believe the ovulation studies were retracted. There have been so many of them done that I would be shocked to see all of them retracted. Also... under what conditions were they discredited? Feminists have been attacking science for decades now, and they hold most of the power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?. Until that changes eventually average men are all thats left once the hvm are locked down. Black Pillers will never be attractive to women. First off... their bitterness is completely off putting. Second, their victimhood complex prevents them from doing the work to be better. Finally, the miserable pricks are more picky about women than women are picky about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 8 | If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count?Because men put a lot of value of sex as validation I think. While this is absolutely true, we also know from studies that the more promiscuous a woman is... the less likely she is going to be satisfied in a relationship with a low experience man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 11 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?average guys are doomed and will never get sex or a relationship This is black pill bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction?My sister for instance, only likes meek prettyboy sort of feminine guys, and she's not alone in finding that type of man attractive, a lot of hearththrobs right now are more feminine men. This is called the 'boy band paradox'. We have studies that show women lose attraction to these guys when their fertile part of the month peaks. So, we know that women are choosing soft effeminate pretty boys for reason's beyond actual attraction. We have found this to be much stronger in young women... and it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Dating is EXTREMELY easy for men.These ladies tend to be in relationships already and you don't find them on the market much. What most of us are dealing with are the chronically single women, who tend to have all kinds of negative characteristics that men here complain about. The simple fact is that really good women don't stay single that much... the demand for them is just very high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | It is outrageous that two of our needs (affection and sex) are totally controlled by someone else (women).This is 100% Red Pill thought! | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | "Women Choose" is why undesirable men are bornWomen have definitely always married for height, looks, and status. When they COULD. This is the key point I was making. For most of human history we put constraints on female sexuality... because women don't become intelligent at picking mates until the very end of their ability to produce children. To be fair men are basically the exact same... give an 18 year old boy a choice and he is going to pick big tits over brains almost every time. Also... quoting the writing of gay greek men from anci… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenAnd why is it bullshit - different strokes for different folks 🤷🏻♀️ Let me put it to you like this... if 50 Shades had a male protagonist that lived in a trailer park it wouldn't turn anyone on and likely most ladies would be calling the cops. When a billionaire does the same thing it's "sexy". That's why I think it's bullshit... but look, there are lots of things I think are bullshit. The male obsession with anal is one. Maybe I'm just fucked because I grew up sneaking my dads old porn from th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenThe moment women start paying for porn is when the industry will begin catering to their fantasies.... which is basically going to be 50 Shades of bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:38 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: how many women believe that guys “enjoy the chase” and that you have to be a little aloof to get them to want you and work for you?I think it's more about extroversion vs, introversion. I know guys who could have tons of options, but hate chasing them down. On the other hand, I probably have a lot fewer options, but I love the chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: how many women believe that guys “enjoy the chase” and that you have to be a little aloof to get them to want you and work for you?Oh.. Guilty as Charged! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?BB woman/man is not an eternal situation, it’s a state of disappointment. And I sympathise with their feelings and aknowledge it can happen both ways and it sucks just as bad. I understand what you are saying, and we should be more considerate of women who face the beta buxxing situation. I knew a lady who married a guy 10 years younger. She basically raised him like a kid for years. Then when she turned 50 and he 40... he filed divorce and ran off with a 35 year old woman. You can say that she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?but alas, I was making a joke. Yeah... You are better at math than I am. Probably better at math than he is as well. LOL. Having a Reddit argument that you win is so rare that it should be savored. LOL... I think you have deftly defeated those trying to insult you and should savor the moment. I salute you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?‘beta bucks’ being portrayed like something just men go trough boggles my mind because it deffinetly happens on the female side too. It does happen, but for every one woman who gets stuck in this situation there are at minimum 10 men. The fact is that men just simply are not as picky and are much more open to a wide variety of personality traits and physical appearances. This is why we basically ignore the female side of the situation. Women with very deep negatives of some kind really struggle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?The truth of the matter is some women know what they like/want better the more partners they have. Also people evolve. The best partner for you in your teens might not be the same as the best partner for you in your twenties. Have you ever sat and talked to a woman who is in the middle of an affair? I have. Have you ever talked to her afterwards? I have! You are clueless and don't know what you we are even talking about. People do change it's true, but that's an entirely different phenomenon. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?If you're truly confident in your ability in anything you basically never have a need to talk it up, or talk down others. Show it, let them make their own judgement. Just so you know, this doesn't always apply. Especially when you are dealing with one of those eye rolling ladies who have been there, done that, and the experience wasn't great. Not everyone is going to just trust you. Instead, you tell them what you plan to do to them in sultry detail. If you know what you are doing then it's goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | TW; SA (Title in post)I don't think this question needs to be asked, or this topic discussed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Do women lie to themselves or others? The answer is both. Emotion = Reality for most of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?This isn't about the PPD community at large... which yeah has a lot of insecure black pillers. It's this idea that you think no woman has ever settled for any reason other than money. I find that to be... fanciful thinking at best. I've seen women settle all the time. It's particularly bad here in the US because of this perception gap women seem to have here. The less you financially struggle the more you focus on other traits. Women don't get jobs and then get less picky... they get MORE picky.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?We’re all working stiffs who take pride in our careers, not looking for someone to take care of us I think money is the most obvious one, but women constantly settle with men they aren't really that attracted to for a variety of reasons. When I was young I got picked several times simply because I was a guy who parents always approved of. Each time the relationship failed... in particular due to her cheating with a more exciting guy. I think the worst one was with a drug dealer. Sometimes this s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?No, 100th percentile means there’s no one better in the data set. He's implying that your N count is over 1000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Personally I think some women convince themselves their current man is the best. THIS is exactly the truth. Women emotionally rewrite their own history all the time. Most of them are going to tell you that each successive guy is better and better... that isn't the truth at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?You are basically screening out women who like sex. Instead be very confident in what you are good at, and very open about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?I'm not sure how accurate this is. It's likely you just can't tell when a guy is seriously confident and when he is simply covering over his insecurities. I feel like a lot of women who just have super shitty taste in men, like to blame guys in general without really examining their own choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Nobody loves you for that. It’s RP/black pill fear monging. Do you really believe that? I've seen so many guys partnered up with women who were just taking the safe option that it blows my mind that anyone could deny it. It's like calling the world flat... it requires this form of willful ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:01 PM |
| 13 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?It works out by allowing me to select for men who don't see their partner's virginity as something they're entitled to. This one has pissed me off before. I don't mess around with virgins, and I'd like to know up front. Then again... I don't really like women under 30 either and I think I've only met one woman my entire life that was a virgin at 30... and she was hyper religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:56 PM |
| – | Thoughts on this.Um... if you think about the word in it's original context, I believe humble would be a better fit, but there is also an aspect of obedience to God contained in it. This being a religious text... I think that fits well within the desired parameters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:52 PM |
| – | Thoughts on this.Galatians 3:24 What about it? The Christian view of the Pentateuch is that the covenant of works was given to the Jewish people so that we could all understand that works alone will always fail. Indeed the Animal sacrifice rules of the Jewish faith are radically different to other contemporary religions. For one thing it's clear that God cares nothing for the sacrifice itself. For another, it's clear that the worshipper is meant to understand that the animal being destroyed represents the fate o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:50 PM |
| – | Thoughts on this.Quoting the Beatitudes and then applying them to secular... I don't even know what you are applying to to actually... It just doesn't work. This is from one of Jesus's most famous sermons. "The Meek" is not a reference to children, but instead a reference to those who accept the will of God without anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:09 AM |
| 4 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.not saying this to invalidate what OP is saying because it is super messed up that society accepts small dick jokes Think about it like this. If you watch any amount of Anime, you will often find main characters making small boob jokes... often to female characters that are considered the most attractive. Every culture kind of has it's taboos and acceptable jokes. We are simply a highly feminized culture and so we do our best to crush the spirit of beta type men. Also... don't get me started on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 4 | "Women Choose" is why undesirable men are bornI think you are entirely incorrect. The system as we have it today is entirely new and is entirely supported by a rather fragile cultural elite group. In the past, women did not marry for height or looks, or any other such bullshit... Otherwise we would all be big ass gorillas. In the past women generally didn't choose their own mates... their family did. Even then had you given these women the opportunity they would have consistently chosen stable, intelligent, hard working men who can feed any… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 6 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Sure, because sex and the city is representative of all women… it’s a freaking comedy! All exaggeration!!! That show is female fantasy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 12 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.The majority of woman are incapable of vaginal orgasms Dunno... I'm not small and I definitely beat the stated percentage on this. I'm still probably way better with my hands, but still. I've got a friend who is quite big and his GF claims she never had penetrative orgasms until they started dating. But to be honest, I think this has more to do with what goes on in a woman's head than what goes on in her sexual organs. If she gets extra turned on by a larger man... she's just going to be more li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 6 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Leftist circles? Ok we’re done. Meh, most of the folks who irrationally hate men inhabit this sphere. It's like saying you hear racist language from Nazi's the most. I know nobody likes to get called out on their own bullshit, but this is just a damn fact. Girls are encouraged to be tom boys This is ALSO true. I've got a daughter and it pisses me off constantly how much media tries to sexualize her at very young ages! My response has been to just let her run with whatever captures her imaginatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.But never heard the opposite stated by anyone around me. I've heard Tina Fey use this particular term more than once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 14 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Women aren’t forcing you to like those type of women, you’re choosing to. Plenty of women like regular average men. This is just some fevered crack dream. Look, it isn't just about getting laid. Beta dudes get treated like shit in relationships. I'm willing to bet that 70% or higher of the men women cheat on are beta acting guys. I've seen it so many times it's predictable. Doormats get treated like doormats. Most of us have been around the block a few times and we know how shit works. What we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beI suppose when you are dead fucking wrong and all the facts are stacked against you... just call it a conspiracy theory and then nobody will notice your argument is stupid. At least you hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Female friends and acquaintances have admitted to conceptualizing my appearance as a "player" (I'm not). How can I diminish this perception to my advantage?You buried the lead here, that’s a HUGE amount of women, I’d even say the vast majority excluding the women that fall into that buck is overrepresenting the outliers. I suppose it depends on where you live. Where I live less than 20% of women are any kind of religious. I live in a big city, near multiple large universities. Which is very important if we talking trends. Definitely important, but it tells me you aren't an idiot, and instead just someone with different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beSome mental gymnastics to get from 'guy isn't flirting' to blaming the entire feminist movement for guy not having the balls to escalate. More of the same, generalized excuses for specific and solvable problems. Wait... so you don't think it's fair to blame a movement that fucking 100% owns the educational industry for what it's teaching young boys??? Talk about mental gymnastics! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Female friends and acquaintances have admitted to conceptualizing my appearance as a "player" (I'm not). How can I diminish this perception to my advantage?If a woman feels you a man-hoe, she may doubt the likelihood of a lasting LTR with you. Yeah, that's true in most cases. However, the only ones that truly shut you down are the ones who tend to be religious and have a disgust feeling towards man hoes. Otherwise, the vast majority of women are open to something less than serious and there is always a large portion that thinks they can reform the player. Essentially we don't disagree. It's just all about the percentages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Female friends and acquaintances have admitted to conceptualizing my appearance as a "player" (I'm not). How can I diminish this perception to my advantage?I just prefer to feel special and like he's not hitting up every woman. You are a unicorn hunter. Dating is ALWAYS a number game for men. Otherwise he is choosing you because he doesn't have other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Is it? I'm always intrigued in the influence class plays in power, because it's a major component of structures and identity. I would assume this would be covered, but I have noticed even with Deleuze's work, that class nuance doesn't seem to be examined very closely. I debate getting into some sociology to look into it, and tried start Bourdieu's "Distinction" for fun, but that's more about taste and cultural capital rather than direct focus on class in relation to power. I think that the prima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:27 PM |
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