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ChadCyrus/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:38 AM
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A lack of any kind of physical intimacy and touch results in loneliness which increases risk of heart disease, diabetes and other conditions. For that reason I have to disagree. A man that cannot get laid suffers far more than a woman who cannot get a committed boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:44 PM
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Yes they did. They're saying that it doesn't matter if a woman makes money or not, for straight men a woman's value is always in their looks first. But for women a man must have some kind of money or reputational value, whether he's a rich older guy or a popular local musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:39 AM
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Go check out married red pill's rules and OYS posts and see how their ethos lines up to MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:26 PM
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Bro you're 24 living with your parents. Getting kicked out of your parents place would be the best gift you'd received all year. Your plan now: STFU to your parents, work, lift, make an exit strategy ASAP, make some friends.
/r/newTRP05/08/22 08:30 AM
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Check their account, dude is an identity crisis, doesn't know who they are and what they want.
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:18 AM
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Didn't get the tingles for whatever reason, next.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:18 AM
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Good job for quitting masturbation. Jerking off isn't the main problem with ED in young men, it's porn. Quitting porn will help. Good diet and no alcohol and less caffiene helps. Finally, viewing women as a goal to bang can cause ED and performance anxiety. Going too fast before you get comfortable with a girl also can cause ED. I recommend you go on dates and not have sex being the goal in mind, but rather have the goal of seeing if you two click well and getting to know the person for who they…
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:01 AM
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I don't know about you or others. But I've struggled to get it up with partners who I didn't feel subconciously comfortable with due to their behaviour. Thought it was a me issue, until once I tried having sex with my partner and it didn't work then that same day I had sex with a brand new girl and it was like I had Zeus' thundercock.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 10:59 PM
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Don't go then buddy unless you want her to be your mono gf.
/r/newTRP06/03/22 10:56 PM
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If you go, she will likely start mentally prescribing you as a romantic partner rather than fwb. She may not do so if she acts like a platonic friend around you in public and with friends. You know her more than I do.
/r/newTRP05/03/22 11:05 PM
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You both sound young. If she's 22 or younger then she's likely cheating on you as she keeps saying she loves you but then her behaviour becomes cold and distant. Long distance don't work. How temporary is temporary?
/r/newTRP05/03/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah asking a guy what their intentions are before anything has started usually won't work out well in your favour. Works both ways, if you ask a girl what her intentions with you are before you've started dating again or very early days is also a bit of a shock to people and a bit of a personal question. What you can do it go on a date, get to know him again, and gauge his intention from his behaviour. Is he pushing you to go back to his place? Is he fine with just a kiss goodnight? His behavio…
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:59 AM
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Don't go to female dating strategy. If you browse that sub you'll see it's not about how to date men but rather how to be a misandrist. And I guarantee the bitterness there will seep into your psyche. You could shoot him a message and say you want to catch up, do drinks but try taking things slow if you don't want it to be hookups and fizzling out.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:49 AM
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Don't shower her with gifts. Two reasons this can backfire. 1, Gets rid of prize mentality. 2, Everyone has a different love language, she may not change how she feels from gifts but something else like time together or touch or acts of service etc. Figure out what she likes but don't go simping, nobody likes that.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:42 PM
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Most men don't ask n count for many reasons. For me personally I don't want to know, but generally women will reveal their past in other ways. And thanks to past experiences I've learned to not seriously date anyone who has a dense past. But people close to me have lower self esteem and look past that sort of stuff if the girl is pretty etc because they'll think that's the price to pay to get this girl. So you're right, a lot of guys won't care if you're insane and have a dense past if you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:44 AM
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Sounds like you're having an existential crisis. Perhaps you should take a break from meeting new people. Continue to date people you're currently seeing that you like. Then acquire a hobby for yourself that isn't seduction. I found that if I kept dating and hooking up with new people for the sake of it , it turned into me doing it just to see if I could as some kind of validation rather than for my own actual desire. Sounds like you're in the same situation.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:16 PM
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Oneitis.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:11 PM
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It's fine that she's had lots of experiences. But it won't do well on your conscious as long as you feel insecure about it. Sounds like you need to experience more of the dating pool before seriously dating someone who has a dense past. A lot of guys go through this, realising that their female partner has experienced a lot more even though they're younger. If you're insecure I recommend you break up. Otherwise you'll only turn to resentment towards her and it'll lead to a nasty end.
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:30 PM
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First of all, dating apps are used as a supplement to meeting people, not to be used as a primary source. Swipe on a few people you like then close the app for the day, don't swipe like crazy. Second, update your photos to shots that are candid but charming, no filters no more than 1 selfie if you must. Photos should be of you loving life with your hobbies, experiences and friends. Third, you're in a new place, you should prioritise finding a social circle and friends, this takes time but be pat…
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:27 AM
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There are exceptions to the rule but most of the time it is a very bad idea.
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:32 AM
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Nothing, silence and appropriate eye contact is powerful.
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:56 AM
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Sometimes you just gotta rip off the bandaid. Be honest about why you're breaking up but be gentle about it. It'll make you fell better that you did the right thing rather than lying. And she may hate you but later on she'll respect you for it. Edit: whatever you do, don't go back to her after breaking up. As she and you will lose respect for yourself.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:08 AM
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r/theredpill is full of conmen trying to make money now. r/asktrp was an actually beneficial forum to help men gain confidence and inner strength but it got closed down by the mods for further moneymaking. The red pill forums are effectively a shadow of their former self, the old stuff has benefit but there isn't really any benefit in engaging on those forums now. All men should read TRM, exercise and build strength. That is the best cure for boys and men who are insecure or codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:17 AM
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Classic, women don't have accountability statement. You think a 22 year old woman is a child. That is horrifically sexist. If a 22 year old man has sex with a 36 year old woman it's the woman being empowered. But vice versa is predatory because women have no agency? The western world used to be about sexual liberation and now it's turned into reversed sexual repression among consenting adults.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:27 PM
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Simp.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:20 AM
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Just because you have no issues getting women does not mean you're secure. Might have some subconscious deep-seated insecurity you're unaware of to find the irrational love bombing desirable. I agree with the above that a secure person can see through lovebombing as a red flag when it's very early days in dating.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:29 AM
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You clearly haven't experienced nor read TRM. A woman who has left the CC and switched to a BP ideal man is in her epiphany phase. The problem with this is that she will not be loyal or she will not give her husband her sexual best. A lot of women in this phase often start denying their husband sex later into the marriage because they don't find him sexually desirable and don't see the need to pretend. This is a problem that many married men face. I've never married but I know men close to me wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:20 PM
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Gaylubeoil is a conman. The lube he sells is snake oil.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/21 02:39 AM
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I don't believe in media, I do my research into science. The world is not black and white. The world is grey. Media is toxic and full of misinformation, do your research on rational sources. Conspiracy theory is irrational. Men are meant to be the voice of science, reason and rationality. Belief is for children.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 11:05 PM
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As long as this TRP sub is infected with QANON conspiracy bullshit like this, future readers who are in need of help will not take TRP.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 09:29 PM
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That's a lot of assumptions there. I think the way I engage with women now is a lot healthier especially due to me being far more authentic than when I was younger. Yes I can be more outspoken but that's me being real and not being a fake Nice Guy™️. If you want to use gen Z phrases I'd call it "knowing myself and having boundaries".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:43 AM
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People who are aware of the possibility of their woman settling for them are more prepared for the barrage of bullshit that will stop them from becoming a beta provider. In more than a few of my relationships I was able to quickly shut down any girl I was seeing who tried to start shit through emotional manipulation or gaslighting. Any girl that tried to change my behaviour I also shut down. In the past as a young man I was very subservient and would change myself in a flash to appease a woman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:15 AM
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That's where cucking comes in. A woman looks out for a nice beta provider to settle with while sleeping with the hot gene provider. Single mums still can get men easily if they retain their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:33 AM
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What does empathy have to do with your insecurities about art?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:45 AM
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All terms are made up. Strong boundaries is exactly what having frame means you just inadvertently agreed to what I said. You sound inexperienced. Who gives a shit if she has artwork from a previous relationship. You need to stop caring man and live for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:46 PM
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The fact that you're asking before even getting a girlfriend shows that even if you argue, you'd likely "compromise" by throwing it out. Make yourself your mental point of origin. That is frame. Ie. Don't bend over backwards to appease anyone let alone women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:17 PM
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Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:29 AM
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The rule was likely made in countries where the age of consent is 16 (EU, UK, Au, Asia, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:28 AM
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Because the man she wants is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:52 PM
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More like got hit by the bullet then recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:23 AM
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How many partners have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:52 PM
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You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:43 AM
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Yeah but you're a woman. You find maturity attractive. Men find looks attractive. I sometimes find women older than me sexually attractive for their personality while many women younger than me I find attractive for their looks primarily. Post sex banter with a woman my age can be top notch. But sometimes a perky chest and pretty face beats any conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:57 AM
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I agree dating an 18 year old is a terrible idea. Fucking a consenting 18 year old on the other hand is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:05 AM
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Not a bad thing unless they're not complementary to each other or are detrimental to each other's happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:17 AM
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A woman can do what she wants absolutely. And I'm trying to explain why women in the epiphany phase shouldn't be so shocked that they're struggling to find a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:34 AM
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You're exaggerating. As I've said before, once a girl told me that she didnt want me to come upstairs because she wanted to take things slow and openly said "usually I have sex on the first night but I want to take things slow with you." In her mind that was supposed to be a compliment. But every man should know that this is highly unattractive. I don't want to LTR a woman that was the town bike and is now choosing to change her ways for me. Real men only LTR women who are authentically discipli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:53 AM
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If you do both then you should be fine. I've noticed a lot of younger men who spent years ONLY jerking it to porn have ED when they finally have a sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:09 AM
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All the skinny guys I knew who were with fatass women were usually your bona fide nerd who had no self esteem and dated the first land whale that grabbed him and likely lost their virginity to. Usually in these dynamics the woman is the domineering one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:32 AM
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I'm single now and have sex at least 3 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:57 PM
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Yes I agree. I'm rebuting the above statement saying that through social pressure insecure men feel like they are forced into staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:38 AM
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This is what I mean. I believe sex once a week is not enough and if my partner limited sex to once a week I'd have to either break up or seek sex elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:16 AM
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You can work with medical issues, lots of treatment out there. And if that doesn't work can always use alternative measures to please someone whether you're a man or a woman with the issue. If someone uses their medical problem as an excuse to avoid all sexual intimacy then you should leave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:19 PM
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A man who leaves his wife because of sex issues is often called shallow or a dick or that he was the problem. While if a woman leaves a man due to sex issues it's usually because "her needs weren't satisfied". I agree that nobody is forcing men to stay, but socially we are guilt-tripping men to "endure" as "that's what a man does".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:14 PM
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Likely because she believes marriage-minded guys are high value but doesn't actually want marriage. Either way if she doesn't change her hypergamous ways she'll continue doing this until she hits the wall and has to settle for someone of lower value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:46 AM
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Boxing feels good. It hurts but adrenaline highs are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:42 AM
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I once thought I had been shitty to others then realised I was projecting my own unhappiness onto girls that enjoyed the nights with me. A man is not entitled to sex. A woman is not entitled to commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:44 AM
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Some people enjoy the dominant and submissive power structure. I read an article once about a guy that let his wife sleep with whoever she wanted and he slept with no one else. The article and all the commenters said she was empowered and in her right to do so. No comments on the kindness of the man. But when a guy does the vice versa suddenly the man is a pig. Regardless if guys don't mind their wife sleeping around then sure, and if a woman doesn't mind her husband sleeping around then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:51 AM
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Women want men who act like they have a high N count but actually have a low N count. Thus iron rule 2, never under pain of death honestly or dishonestly reveal your N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:42 AM
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Being fit is mutually beneficial. I get a hot babe, and she gets to be healthy and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:05 AM
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Being fit is mutually beneficial. I get a hot babe, and she gets to be healthy and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:04 AM
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Behaviour, bodily appearance and style. Behaviour can be improved by acquiring a good posture, learning appropriate social conduct and learning how to become confident and comfortable in your own skin. Physical appearance can be improved through exercise eating healthily, building muscle. Style can be improved through fashionable clothes, good hair styles, facial sculpting (facial hair, skin care, and other maintenance such as eyebrows, nose hair, etc) and good hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:53 AM
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The Bible was written in the first century AD. We have sourced philosophical genius from Greece, Rome and Asia up to 800 years before this time. To say that the Bible is peak human thought given its time is frankly retarded.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 08:08 AM
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Wrong, women who cheat do so because their partner is also getting lazy and isn't gaming her. I've seen a lot of HB9 with fatass boyfriends and when they give me a extended look while walking by I know that they're not satisfied and looking to branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:43 AM
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There are some people who are doomed due to genetic disorders or traumatic injury. But I honestly believe most people who are not attractive can improve themselves to the point of becoming top tier attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:10 AM
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Excuse you, I made myself a Chad thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:50 AM
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I think most red pill guys would agree that the best sex comes from girls you see regularly over one night stands. You can't really bring out the toys, ropes and other shit with a one night stand as easily as a FWB or partner. But some of the most raw and animalistic sexual encounters were casual one night encounters. I think due to the mutual knowledge that it was a temporary encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:55 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:25 PM
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Was your best and/or wildest sex with casual hookups? Or with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:07 PM
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Yeah I agree with you. TRP is flawed. And I think we should all be critical of it. Doesn't mean there isn't any good teachings in there though. Don't have to see the world so black and white.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 09:01 AM
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They tell you to lift weights and exercise because it increases motivation, health, testosterone and makes you look good (SMV increase). You absolutely can attract girls by being emotional, sensitive types (see: epiphany phase women). What it warns against is being neurotic men who rely on women for their mental health. Your partner shouldn't be your therapist. It also warns men against following the same problems many other men find in the future even if they do find a partner such as sexless m…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 08:31 AM
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That's not what TRP says at all. TRP tells you to improve yourself and stop caring what others think about you (I am the prize). I feel like most exredpillers in this sub have misunderstood TRP and are just members who exited the anger phase and turned back to idealists rather than composed realists. Yes I'll be downvoted, but I'm looking for discussion here to see why a lot of exredpillers make claims that TRP don't even state.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 08:17 AM
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I'd like to see some sources for these stats. Because from what I heard, people were marrying later and getting divorced sooner. Thus singles are increasing. Besides just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:47 AM
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Jazz bars, clubs, events in the city, women of all ages go to these, especially in groups of girls. Bring a friend if you're afraid to approach girls and talk to them. Otherwise, I've gone out by myself before and hooked up with groups of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:30 PM
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Nice cope there. I guess I'll tell all the girls I hooked up with that they weren't meant to like my approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:26 AM
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Stop swiping and go out and approach women at bars and clubs dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:45 AM
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Yeah this guy is gonna turn back to TRP if the girl folds from the pressure of being "the healer" in a relationship. Been there done that. We don't need TRP, but we need to find strength in ourselves without the reliance of external variables.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 05:40 AM
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"During the Epiphany Phase a woman’s inner and outer dialog is self-excusing, virtuously self-educational, and self-congratulatory." "It’s during this stage that women will make radical shifts in their prioritization of what prerequisite traits qualify as “attractive” in a man and attempt to turn over a new leaf by changing up their behaviors to align with this new “do-it-right-girl” persona they create for themselves." "For the metaphysically inclined woman (which is to say most women) this may…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:21 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but from what I've read it looks like you're in your epiphany phase. You're talking about having hooked up in the past and now tossing it aside with a newfound sense of value. You can't change the past. Just like you, many young women will enjoy the mysteries of the CC and then hit the epiphany phase after they're left wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:25 AM
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"Reasonable" people may exist, but I and many other men will not risk that ever again and keep ourselves as the mental point of origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:33 AM
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As much as I'd like to agree with you, the terms "divorce rape", "branch swing", "dark triad" exist for a reason. I've seen the experience both a priori and a posteriori.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:31 AM
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Last time I became celebate because my partner asked (bp days) she started bouncing on dick in three-ways with other men during 7 months of our non sexual relationship. Lesson learned, never accept celibacy in a relationship again and I strongly recommend other men don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:19 AM
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The inverse is also true that a woman you commit yourself to and support may not like, care or be attracted to you but just seek validation or security from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:04 AM
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Source please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:04 PM
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We still have murder and robberies but we don't have a murder culture. Do you see the point I'm trying to make? And debate is about open discussion, when you try to silence someone it shows your position is on shaky ground. Cutting out my tongue does not prove I'm a liar, it proves that you're afraid of what I might say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:36 PM
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I'm not white but if I was a white middle class boy growing up now I'd feel like shit with how media and society rails the demographic. We need to realise that putting down other genders, races and classes will not help us in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:27 PM
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Did you read the paper? Transwomen are 2:1 to transmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:59 AM
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Adding my comment here too just in case it got missed: The point is is that western society does not trivialise sexual assault and rape. We are past this. Look at third or second world countries where a rape culture actually exists (India, south Korea, Saudi Arabia, Sudan, etc.) Western society once had rape culture but now it doesn't, and with the death of the older generations, younger generations of men are being bred to believe their gender is evil and/or wrong. This demonisation has resulte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:24 AM
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The point is is that western society does not trivialise sexual assault and rape. We are past this. Look at third or second world countries where a rape culture actually exists (India, south Korea, Saudi Arabia, Sudan, etc.) Western society once had rape culture but now it doesn't, and with the death of the older generations, younger generations of men are being bred to believe their gender is evil and/or wrong. This demonisation has resulted in increased rates of gender dysphoria and transwomen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:12 AM
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You'll pull most tail in India. Other countries would be hard mode. Coming from an ethnic man born in a western country. Every time I'd visit my parents' home country I'd pick up so much more easily. Edit: Not to completely discourage you, I'll explain my case. My style, accent and way I behave and hold myself has made me attractive to women of many backgrounds including white western women. However I've apparently done so well that when I meet people from my background who were born in their co…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 08:04 AM
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I've seen a lot of girls who weren't attractive in the face but had a top body thanks to gymming (squats). A good ass and slender waist can give you +2 points. Same with men, guys who lack in face or posture can gain some points from gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:34 PM
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I read this thinking you were both 16 to 18. She sounds very immature and you need to hard next.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:30 AM
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Use your wealth for professional shoots or go out to bars and approach women in real life, way easier.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:49 PM
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Become fluent in Spanish, change your name to Rodriguez and now you're from Colombia. But seriously clean yourself up, look hygienic, clean shaven, get jacked, nice haircut, learn a few languages might help. I met an Iraqi refugee in Sweden who had a very western style in clothes and look, could speak multiple languages and had an American accent. Accents are key in attraction. Had no idea he was Iraqi and he was handsome too, picked up quite a few girls.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:20 PM
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Yes that's what he was referring to. Then you tried to claim he was homophobic when he didn't even mention gay people. I was explaining what he meant by 60s degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:00 AM
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Nice projecting there buddy.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:17 PM
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Better to go to married trp maybe
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:49 AM
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This man is right. Low intensity cardio and yoga are great for rest days.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:19 AM
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I tried telling my siblings to leave their stupid ass partners and they just resented me and isolated themselves. Tell your sis you don't like how this shit smells and then leave it at that. Don't be pushy. She is responsible in looking out for herself.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:03 AM
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Or she gets post partum and kills the baby.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:36 AM
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That blue pill is stuck in your throat son. Sports aren't manly, being shredded and looking like a sex God from sports is what makes women wet. Even the hot egirls I fucked, fucked me as shredded Chad, not as the blue haired gamer.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:32 AM
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The 60s movement wasn't so free love as you think, rather, it was just plain hedonism. All the free love hippies shared was with straight white people. Blacks and homosexual people were still heavily persecuted while the masses indulged in sex and drugs. Then when it was over those same hippies turned around and condemned sex and drugs for the next generations to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:28 AM
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The problem is ive talked to a lot of younger men who think that women hate it when guys want to have sex with them. So they desexualise themselves and become beta orbiters who purely love a woman for their heart (so they say). This turns them into orbiters as the woman of interest can't view them as an option after they behave platonically. Eventually these boys will learn that you have to show interest, and learn game. This then gets the guys laid but then they use the same rinse and repeat te…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:40 PM
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And that's fair, frankly i agree you shouldn't LTR a woman who is more than 10 years younger than you as it'll probably end in failure unless you two have strong family values and intend to build a family. But casually dating and hooking up with girls who are 20 to 24 when you are 34 I think is more than fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:50 AM
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No one mentioned teenagers, we're talking about age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:11 AM
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As I stated below it is one thing to have a preference. But when you judge others, that comes from within not externally. I don't judge other people's kinks and preferences as long as it aligns with legal consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:59 AM
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If I see a younger guy sleeping with a much older woman I think it's gross but I don't judge. If you're judging then that means it comes from a place within not external. Edit: Don't judge meaning, I don't think the guy or woman is gross for doing it, I just don't like it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:05 AM
0

Of course you'll judge. You'll judge and think "why can't I have that?", but then repress that thought and then you'll be annoyed and you'll think its because of the man and not yourself. When I was 24 dating a 21 year old all my close 24 year old friends got angry at me saying the age gap was too wide. Then I told them they just weren't getting laid that's why they cared to which they admitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:57 PM
3

You've never had one. You take the IDEA seriously but all you're doing is dreaming, not living.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:24 AM
2

Hey there ethnic man. As a fellow ethnic man who had ethnic parents with a non-liberal world view imma say this. Reflect carefully on your values and see if its truly you or if it's just your parents in your head. I don't mean 100% your parents, I mean if there's even 30% of your parents' values in you then you aren't thinking for yourself. You'll see in a few years and you'll change. Or you won't and neck yourself/get a mail order bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:20 AM
4

He should show it by instilling dread, not by telling her he's butthurt. Start gaming other girls, including in front of her, maintaining physique, get some plates.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:10 PM
6

The married study is outdated and has a correlation causation fallacy. Of course single men who can't have sex (incels) die sooner, and men in relationships or who have a woman live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:19 AM
3

The girl speaks the truth. Also to other guys here: Dating apps should be supplementary game for men, the main game is cold approaching and gaming girls irl. If you're not gaming irl then you're doomed to smash mediocre pussy from OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:01 AM
1

Easiest way to do this is to ask her an open question, let her speak then think about kissing or fucking her, maintaining eye contact. Say nothing. When she stops speaking and inevitably asks "what?", you kiss her
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:13 AM
14

Why does everyone in this sub say they'll keep it short then writes a novel?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:59 AM
4

How to easily pick up SEA girls in SEA: be white. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:07 AM
10

Are you East Asian or Middle Eastern? Confused by your oriental tag as this means many things depending on culture. East Asians look good with the kpop style look. While middle eastern men look good in full sheikh outfits and turbans. Jk, Middle Eastern men look good in the usual tight fitted clothing, clean stubble, fades, muscles. Fun fact: right after 9/11 many American women stated they had a Sheikh fetish.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:20 AM
6

Taking the moral high ground only alienates others and makes you seem like a pompous dickhead. Just spend time with friends. You'll understand when you grow up and find yourself alone.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:10 PM
1

Link me the evidence of Rollo assaulting someone, never heard of that before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:10 PM
6

Emotionally pullback, see them once or twice a week max. Be less responsive and less available via phone and text.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:45 AM
2

Women burn fast then fizzle out, while men take a while to start warming up and then burn long into their senior years. Women who sleep around and never settle down often become bitter when they no longer can have the same fun they did nor can they get a handsome partner like they used to. Aka hitting the wall.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:35 AM
-2

Go google a ton, but essentially the gist is, if you use sex as a bargaining tool, you make it transactional and that permanently affects the way in which you view sex. You no longer have sex out of raw desire, but use sex for rewarding or punishing your partner like a dog. It doesn't help that TV shows and films perpetuate these relationships with laughtracks played. Desire cannot be negotiated and the best sex anyone can have is sex out of raw desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:29 AM
3

Many men use women for sex, but also emotional and social support (all of which don't require long-term commitment). While women use men for security, material support, status or children (most of which require commitment). I was having a conversation with one of my girls and she said that I would drop her and all other girls for a rich girl (projecting her own desires). I told her I actually have the opportunity to do that now as one of the girls I'm seeing is from a very wealthy background and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:57 AM
12

Statistically speaking, women who withhold sex at the start of a relationship will have a lower sex drive and less fulfilling sex life in that relationship. I don't want to sign up to any LTR that I know will be shit or no sex. The Rational Male also states this that women who weaponise sex for compliance or commitment generally will not be good partners for sex. This is why experienced men don't like to date women who withhold sex. Even if they like the girl they know the future looks grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:30 AM
4

Most virgins I hooked up with just wanted to be rid of their virginity. Didn't have to do anything special like candlelit dinner or any of that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:01 AM
0

Virgins can be fun, just gotta teach them the ropes after a few tries. They also tend to be naturally submissive in bed which some people like and some people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:40 AM
6

Convert her to plate by emotionally pulling back, seeing her less (1 or 2 times/week max).
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:37 AM
4

RP men and the average woman seem to hate the same type of man. Gamers, porn addicts and men who rely on women for mental health support are seen as weak, who don't have or are not following their mission. They need to grow up. Go look at exredpill and you'll see a lot of these soyboys who think they're now free thinkers when in fact they're still the same old insecure gamer boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:40 AM
9

May need a new setting, if you can't leave where you are then AA and addiction therapy is the way. There are some good books I've heard that has helped many alcoholics. Can't remember the names of the books specifically
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:14 AM
16

Millenials and Zoomers are allergic to phone calls for whatever reason. Just set up dates via text.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:20 PM
1

First adultery would be a crime then Shariah law comes next. Adultery should not be a crime but it is taken into account during divorce proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:08 AM
2

You'll find a lot of women hate men/older men, perhaps due to trauma. Best you can do is just move on and date women who don't have that emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:45 PM
15

Why are you in an LTR with an older woman.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:14 AM
2

What about older guys that have sex with adult women 20 years younger and 20 years older, targeting no age in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:28 PM
8

Yeah shit like slim jeans/chinos, white sneakers, timberlands, any quality shirts that fit you well, good haircut, clean shaven or clean facial hair and fit body is all you need really. If you want to be extra get some subtle bling like chains and watches. Glasses can look slick too depending on the person.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:34 AM
3

Exactly this is men's rights activists, ie. Male equivalent of feminists. Both men and women need to realise life is full of suffering and to harden the fuck up. Self victimisation is defeatism and makes excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:30 AM
5

Yo you are asking her about what she says she does. Not what she actually does. I bet she would toss out her criteria if the man gave her tingles. But maybe that's what she means by making her feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:02 AM
8

Hey I post pics of my plates on my story sometimes. The others see it, and get more keen, dread game runs strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:27 AM
1

If 20 year old men and women weren't held accountable then crime would soar. All adult individuals are free and all are accountable to their actions. You live your life full of regret, controlling yourself and others for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:08 PM
1

Most countries allow drinking, gambling, etc. from the age of 18 sometimes even 16. You can infantilise women if you like but myself and many other men and women will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:53 PM
6

You are conflating sexual desire for adult women with pedofiles. This is a strawman argument. One of the largest problems with modern day feminist rhetoric is that 'women should not be infantilised and are strong and capable people' is often coupled with 'a 20 year old girl doesn't know any better and thus is susceptible to predatory men'. Where is the accountability? When will we be able to take women seriously if they don't know any better and aren't ever accountable by their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:20 AM
3

Get some better plates 2. Stop giving a fuck and chances are she'll stay, you caring about her breaking is pushing her away. 3. Don't be nice, don't be an asshole either, when a plate is teetering pushing will fuck it up, you do you and let the plate balance itself
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:25 AM
7

Instead of looking strong, you look like an insecure bitch. Why? Because you told her that you'll go no contact if she gets dicked down by Chad (mate guarding). No contact works only if you don't spell it out. . She told me her mind spirals out of control... Look at what she does not what she says. You yourself said that previously when she "lied" about missing you but then having a girls weekend. Get your head in the game man.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:54 AM
11

Yo make business investments for money not for women.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:29 AM
1

Aubrey is right, you have to seem interested in whatever woke bullshit they're excited to tell you about. They have to feel like they're "not like the other girls" at that age. Tbh not worth it for 18 to 20, 21 to 24 is much better.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:53 AM
1

Australia
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:56 AM
13

Yeah so it's miscommunication. Girls tell guys what they want in a provider (partner), when in fact most guys just want women to desire them. Leaving guys scratching their heads when the girl they like fucks the guy that she said she hates. Thus the lesson is to watch their actions not their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:35 AM
24

Good girls are for dating, insta hoes are for fuckin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:45 AM
12

"I told her calm down, it was a joke." You DEER'd. Should've DARE'd. Also could've used more tact instead of using the bitch line.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:02 AM
1

What you mean nigga? Always be aware of how people work my boy
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:48 PM
5

Keep in mind that when cheating, women (and men) sometimes openly talk about the person they were attracted to so that they're not caught with the contacts (insta) later. It also seems innocent, like they're not hiding anything thus absolving themselves of any potential guilt they may have and pretending to be innocent.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:16 AM
15

It's the anxious ones that cheat most. And I'm sure you know but don't ever move in.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:02 AM
10

Pregnant while away from you? Well if she keeps it make sure it's yours before you sign any papers
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:45 AM
2

Security. Move around as much as I want, pays well, flexible hours.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:34 PM
8

Office work might not be for you. I quit that shit cos I was losing my mind sitting still for 8 hours a day. I need to be active at work. Perhaps you're the same, find a job where you're not immobile. Or better yet get a passive income and live your life freely.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:17 PM
15

Accept it's your fault. And now you've learned not to be a blackpill cunt to women. TRP utilises yourself as the centre of frame and the balance of push pull, ie. Don't pedestalise, don't dehumanise either. TRP is not about abuse and zero affection, these things will alienate you at best and get you into legal trouble at worst.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:28 AM
1

You can't run from your past. You're only now facing it because of years of suppression and self-awareness is finally coming through. Only way out is to face the things you have done, accept them, learn the lesson and move on. Once you have internalised this you will change, mature and become internally stronger than before. It's called growing up.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:00 AM
1

Couples therapy isn't for keeping dysfunctional couples together. It's for self awareness and to hopefully make the relationship or even breakup/divorce more civil and less turbulent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:47 AM
1

Insecure bitch
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:58 AM
1

If she's a plate past doesn't matter. If she's an LTR past 100% matters and should be held at high regard. I've dated too many girls with a high n count to make the mistake again.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:03 AM
3

Nah dog, it's very brave to physically stand up to your abuser. He did the right thing and put his dog of a father in his place.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:41 AM
1

Madonna-whore complex.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:24 AM
1

As spoken from the horse's mouth. Learnt this lesson the hard way. First time physically abused by someone half my size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:04 AM
3

Cute on the outside and often psycho bitches on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:40 AM
1

What about work? I hear pay is shit house in Eastern Europe.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:30 AM
5

Strong self awareness. Now you know your problem, time to stop being a bitch, lift, go out with your friends without LTR and run dread.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:36 AM
31

LDR? So you're single then. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:43 AM
32

Send him TRM. Play it off as a normal self help book that you liked. Don't mention TRP.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:30 PM
3

This, works ridiculously well.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:01 AM
2

I had three women who turned down sex on the first night. Two of those women explicitly told me that they usually have casual sex but for me they want to be the best version of themselves. From a woman's perspective I can understand why they thought it sounded virtuous. But from my perspective it means they've rode the CC and want to beta bucks me with an LTR which is a huge turn off. As a man it is more attractive when a woman sleeps with you on the first date because it's clear the desire is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:08 PM
1

There's growth and freedom in teaching. You can apply for international schools and work around the world if you're smart enough. Plus can travel a ton during holidays.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:16 PM
43

She's chatting to you now because other dude (chad) fell through.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:06 AM
1

Do some research man, you'll find individuals all have different preferences in lifestyle. There were many intellectuals from Europe who decided that living a life of sex with multiple partners and never having kids until they die was the ideal lifestyle. And in their death never regretted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:56 AM
1

Yeah you're right that a lot of men don't know how to please women consistently. Except lesbian couples have even less sex on average than heterosexual couples. So this is an incorrect correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:20 AM
2

Guys don't give a shit about the fwb zone. The friendzone means platonic friend not sexual friend. Myself and many men I know love having fwb. If anything as a guy it's harder to get a fwb with no expectations than a girlfriend. And an ugly girl maybe vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:01 AM
6

Think of it this way. Your dreams are your subconscious archetypes trying to communicate with you. Your shadow is the aspect of yourself that you hate and repress. So you have repressed your beta self from your conscious mind so now he communicates with you subconsciously. You can't kill your shadow, you can only keep him away or become him. In my experience, when I was BP my shadow was an aggressive and intimidating man. After becoming RP my shadow became the fearful BP self I used to be.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:30 AM
2

Gates was a simp. Melinda was not even interested in him at the start and would sleep with other colleagues. Their relationship was almost undoubtedly transactional for Melinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:08 PM
3

"Come over tomorrow night"
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:59 AM
12

I know a 30 year old guy who is almost completely bald, is short, skinny and his behaviour is cringe. But he has a gf 10 years younger than him and has threesomes with other women on the regular. Why? Because he's a musician. Own your look, lift and build your skills in the things you love and women will naturally follow.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:40 AM
1

I used to live in a country town and it took me a while to find out that a ton of people were cheating. They would leave town to cheat at brothels or with each other. Turns out the older people knew but no one talked about it. While the younger crew had no idea.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:38 AM
2

You're talking about a priori observations but you're blind to your own bias and not seeing all the unhappy or dead people who got divorced after 30 years or cheated on their partners and never told anyone. Scratch what I previously said, you need to work on yourself more and spin some plates before you even tease this idea of idealistic marriage.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:50 PM
1

How do you know what long term happiness is? How many lives have you lived? Sounds like you're romanticising and idealising something that you have no idea about.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:43 PM
4

It's normal that you want a traditional loving relationship. However, if you're from a western country, modernisation has changed things. It's hard to find a good loving wife with the same loyal values. You'll either have to move to a very rural religious village in your area or try your luck going overseas, but I don't recommend trying to have a serious relationship with someone who has a very different cultural background to you.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:33 PM
2

Yeah for real wtf is this shit.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:31 AM
1

If you have multiple plates that only see you aka OLTR (open on your end, closed on theirs) you then you won't get any STDs.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:33 AM
6

No back in the day, the only way to have legal sex with a woman of quality was to marry them. Thus men had an incentive to marriage that they don't have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:35 AM
2

I agree with you. For a second i thought you were gonna victim blame. But in general I see men have more expectations to take accountability than women do. So if you said it's their fault for getting into an abusive relationship I might agree with that too. People should vet better relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:29 AM
4

Attachment issues, gaslighting, feelings of obligation, generally abusive and controlling women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:52 AM
2

Have you ever heard of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:46 AM
15

Men used to propose. But now it's usually proposal under female coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:08 PM
8

Seriously, it sounds like being in social isolation for so long from a pandemic has made you become socially anxious. The only cure to social anxiety is putting yourself out in public situations like that often. Avoiding it will only make it worse.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 05:21 AM
1

Not just your relationship. When I was younger I stupidly dated a girl who had two abortions for her ex despite badly wanting a baby. She was perpetually fucked in the head and I partly blame it on that and mostly blame myself for not vetting properly. Lessons learned.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:15 AM
9

I had a girl do something similar when we smoked weed. Turns out the weed made her start overthinking shit.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:12 AM
5

Just support her as best you can. If she wants a child right now but is getting an abortion for your sake then expect some kind of resentment forming later down the track.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:09 AM
1

Thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:42 AM
2

Great thing about 18 year olds, I get older they stay the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:31 PM
2

Sounds like you need a non material mission. Maybe try volunteering, helping others, something bigger than yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:40 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:30 AM
1

True my knees and lower back feel 20 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:34 AM
0

Narcissists? You seem jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:21 AM
2

Of course, as stated in TRM by Tomassi, it goes something like looks > game > wealth. Looks are important but not the sole aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:05 AM
3

As someone who was described as hot and boring when younger, it's because he had no game. You can't always rely on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:11 PM
3

Congratulations, you're a man now
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:25 AM
11

Don't rub one out, this is shitest advice, he'll be lucky if he can even finish his first time. If he blows early, mazel tov. Then go again.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:48 AM
1

Arrests and crime rates are completely different. For example the US arrests more black men than white men which seems like black men commit more crime. However most crime is not even committed by black men, it's just that black men are arrested more often. Edit: in other words, it's a correlation causation fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:27 AM
1

Oops meant arwen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:38 PM
2

Maybe, regardless I understand the roots of RP has a desire for the 1960s ideal of the nuclear family. Very traditional and conservative ideal of a man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:16 PM
9

Bro take it from us. The age gap is bad and she's likely in a position to easily manipulate you without you even realising due to her experience in life. Let go of your oneitis for this girl.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:58 AM
7

I think traditional femininity is also required. I believe AWALT is a mantra to make men stop pedestalising women ie. "you're not like other girls." and become a realist. AWALT is also used as a reminder that all women have the potential to be what AWALT subscribes to. Thus don't let your guard down, treat every woman like a gun, behave as if they're loaded even if they aren't. For example being blind to red flags like evidence of cheating or when she is abusing you, ie. "she loves me, she'll ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:37 AM
3

In cringespeak (LOTR analogy) ideal TRP man has the traits of Aragorn and the "unicorn" or ideal woman has the traits of Eowyn. Ideal woman is modest, loving, caring, selfless, family-oriented, gentle yet strong. Ideal man is strong, selfless, stoic and puts the mission above his own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:24 AM
2

From what I've seen polyandrous relationships usually have LVM and average to unattractive women while polygynous relationships have HVM and average to attractive women. That's just observation though and could be confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:34 PM
5

Sounds like you're self isolating yourself mate. Deleting social media is only good to stop yourself browsing nonsense. If you're more alone than before get back on social media and talk to your friends online. Also start making friends in real life, and ask out some girls, make an effort even if you don't feel like it.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:38 AM
9

Isn't sniper approach what Billy beta does to get oneitis?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:19 AM
1

You forgot option D which is CHEAT BOYS AND GIRLS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:50 PM
2

Start applying for higher paid jobs, and start gaming all the girls
/r/askTRP26/04/21 06:46 AM
1

No spark means you didn't kiss her
/r/askTRP25/04/21 11:36 AM
2

Simp
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:02 AM
7

You're not the victim. Stop threatening people with death and rape. Learn how to communicate effectively by talking calmly when people bully you. Talk to HR or your supervisor or manager instead of threatening people.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:24 AM
4

This is it chief. I'm tall, and in my early years I was told more than once by girls that I was handsome and fit but my confidence was terrible that's why they didn't go for me. Confidence is key.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:16 AM
2

That it claims the goal is equality while simultaneously promoting misandry.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:50 AM
0

Keep telling yourself that buddy. Wake me up when you get out from under that rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:06 AM
-4

I know hot girls who exclusively go for fatasses or old af men. Leagues don't exist, everyone has a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:34 AM
2

The greatest warriors in ancient Greece, the spartans, didn't use a gym, they used high intensity callisthenics and cardio. Search up their workout and do it every day
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:48 PM
1

Exactly, who cares what she thinks. Just get your dick wet and continue as normal, doesn't matter what she says about some dude.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:37 AM
0

Women should be held accountable but also beware of looking like a little bitch if you head home after something small like that. Remember men are supposed to be level-headed and strong as well.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:24 AM
3

Man you're fucking retarded.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:00 AM
1

You DEER'd when you said you're going home because you can't sleep. Should've DARE'd, also probably should just not respond when she's having a tantrum and wait for her to cool off.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:09 AM
2

I'm self diagnosed autistic, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:46 AM
4

Just get up and order her whatever drink, and you order a non alcoholic beer or something. She won't notice it's not alcoholic. Then game on as normal, obviously don't get her drunk. I usually go in for the kiss on drink number 1 or 2 anyway.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:23 AM
8

50 years ago being diagnosed with autism meant low functioning, literally stabs someone if they take their toy train. Nowadays everyone is diagnosed autistic thanks to the spectrum. Fully functioning adults who would've been described as mildly eccentric are now autistic. People with severe autistic tendencies where they can't even speak however suffer a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:00 AM
1

Hold a gun to the head of someone with downs syndrome and you'll see they usually prefer life over death.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:19 AM
1

True. So does that mean you are pro life or pro choice? Because pregnancy/abortion takes many choices that affect multiple lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:47 AM
2

Everything I say is opinion at least subconsciously, it's impossible to be purely objective. Why do you disagree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:19 AM
1

Yes you're right the choice doesn't exist in a vacuum. She has freedom of choice and so do people around her. She needs to plan her actions around her situation, same as men. Forget about morality, consider that the world is varied with many cultures and value systems, you're allowed to adjust through external factors like moving residence or internal factors like changing behaviour. Not just for women but for men too. Even a slave is accountable for his actions. Everyone should be held accounta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:08 AM
22

You can own someone, just become Saudi oil prince.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:02 AM
1

I'm an existentialist and I believe the mother has the right to do whatever she wants. I am also aware that this is killing a human existence. I knew you would say that too, but an embryo and a newborn both have equal awareness of their impending destruction. That is, neither are aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:56 AM
3

Existentialist point of view for the parent: I decide to kill the child for my sake, or keep the child and risk living a less happy life. Existentialist Point of view for the child: I live or never exist. Edit: moral is, objectively there's no difference between abortion and shooting a newborn in the head from the perspective of the baby. Abortion is entirely for the benefit of adults, not the child ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:50 AM
2

What is relationship material? I've seen many men and women who were "relationship material" in the eyes of many due to their caring nature and low maintenance. But they would cheat on the regular as well then go back and cuddle with their partner whom they have limited sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:29 AM
2

40% of domestic violence victims are men by female abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:04 AM
3

It affects mental health due to the stigma, specifically by people like you who says many people won't date them. Also from people I know a lot of people don't care about your health history it they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:39 AM
1

Try to stop fapping then and see if that increases your desire to ask out women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:11 AM
1

Dude you've hard-wired your brain to prefer porn over women. You have a libido only for your fist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:07 AM
16

Most STIs are treatable and most uncurable infections are not life threatening. Just test yourself regularly (twice a year at least) if you're sexually active among multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:02 AM
2

I skimmed this. Demote to plate or next, fix yourself. Stop writing novels about women.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:30 AM
2

Affirmation is fine only when they do something that warrants it. Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:28 AM
-1

Wrong, I stopped pedestalising women after abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:53 AM
11

Never done any of those, but I'd wager something like 10 to 25% have done at least one of those things. Edit: I just want to add having consenting sex with someone then regretting it after is not rape. Men like me have experienced serious regret after sex with a woman, including negative flashbacks of the experience that create discomfort, but I acknowledge I consented at the time, and do not point fingers after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:35 AM
5

You have a lot of anger and that's fair enough. Remember that life is grey and there's good and bad everywhere. TRP empowered me after years of abuse and a DV relationship. I don't want those things you say I want, if that makes me not RP so be it. The world isn't black and white, take what works and chuck out what doesn't. Anyway I wish you peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:27 AM
0

Both genders are guilty of these statements. After a life of promiscuity its harder to settle for challenges like sexless marriages. Harder to compromise yourself for your partner. The first romantic partner you have often is one of the strongest attachments and every partner after that is weaker, more economical relationships based on value. That's why men in TRP and women in FDS say "what does your potential LTR bring to the table?" They've experienced emotional burnout. A lot of men who talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:06 AM
1

As stated before, those who bitch about women's promiscuity are black pill or men who are early in the stages of the red pill. The red pill specifically states that the purpose isn't to hate women but to understand how their minds work and why the way you approach dating isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:45 AM
6

I think many men live life in ignorance about the nature of people. But they might find themselves in their elderly life alone due to divorce or death of loved ones and a lot of men over 50 commit suicide due to this. I believe RP actually helps prevent suicide in those types of people who breezed through life and now face tremendous challenges. For me anyway RP made me realise how to build my self worth without relying on ideals dependant on other people and their perspectives. Reality isn't di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:19 AM
6

I disagree, I don't think people feel irrationally anxious or emulate behaviours out of choice, but more subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:13 AM
4

Okay tell me why you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:47 AM
7

It's not conscious, it's subconscious. Same as how many women have perpetual body anxiety due to social media and instagram unreality vs reality. Everyone knows it's fake yet people feel inadequate and still follow influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:39 AM
17

Most Hollywood movies and shows in the modern day either display men doing stuff that is cute in movies but very creepy in real life (love actually), or display men who are incredibly stoic and naturally win the affection of women by displaying manly traits without escalating (captain America, wonder woman). Even Daniel Craig's James Bond is very stoic and doesn't actively pursue women. While most women enjoy old school attraction in a date setting, where a man will actively show interest in an …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:58 AM
2

Your lizard brain has got it half right. You're depressed because you're 20 and dependant on your parents. Get a job, save money and move out into a cheap place by yourself. You'll feel much better
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:18 AM
2

Sexual liberation in women somewhat lies its origins in western philosophy (particularly France) which promoted freedoms and liberty. If you want conservative women then you'll have to go to some backwater part of a developing nation where globalisation hasn't touched it. I myself prefer the liberties of humanity, learn to play the new game and have fun, don't take life so seriously, because if you go after a "traditional" woman you'll find it's not as fun as you thought.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:32 AM
16

They're not more confident, they're more assertive because hot women get approached while ugly girls don't. Thus ugly girls start making the first move. Edit: I'll expand on that to outline this is why you often see average looking skinny beta boys in relationships with fat women where the woman is dominating force in the dynamic while the dude does as she says.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:59 AM
3

When a girl says "wyd" I always would say "come over" worked 90% of the time.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:11 AM
1

The lesson was that the teacher was far from being alpha, only perceived as such by minors who had only teenagers to compare with. And that he completely fucked himself over with scarcity mindset by hooking up with a minor. In my opinion Rollo isn't saying he's alpha at all.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:07 AM
1

Are you gonna call this toxic masculinity and tell us to be open with each other and paint our nails too? Chill the fuck out man, even OP has more frame than you in the face of criticism.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:09 PM
3

You really gonna simp for this incel bro?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:42 PM
6

Bro clout IS the attraction. Women may say they like hot guys, but they LOVE social status even more. This includes your influence over others whether that's celebrity status or being very dominant and display leadership qualities (eg. fat as fuck bikies with tatts that fuck like kings). Women themselves will agree sexual attraction is much more than just physical looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:40 AM
1

I'm a fken idiot, I thought Bette male found a new girl with red flags but now it's even sadder after your explanation.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:09 AM
3

Lmao dude. Please God save this poor soul
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:57 AM
3

Looks like Bette male found A girl at least
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:31 AM
3

Lmao wtf is turbo-motherfucker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:46 AM
1

Do yoga for 1 year, after that start approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:50 AM
1

The thing about AWALT is that NAWALT but AWALT. It's a defence mechanism for when someone you trusted hurts you, manipulates you or instills fear (red flags) based on your traumatic experiences with women. Even red pillers will say women are different but AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:44 AM
2

Sounds like you have eostrogen build up causing you to be anxious and hamster like crazy. You'll feel better after 3 months of daily lifting at the gym.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:10 PM
2

You shouldn't have told her that you hate him. As soon as you did that he looked more valuable in her eyes.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:31 AM
3

It ain't her fault, the more it pisses you off the weaker you look bro. I honestly can't see why you give a shit, orbiters are normal to any woman that doesn't look like a swamp creature.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:54 AM
2

Murder is not wrong objectively. Murder is wrong subjective to morality. This is why arguing against other people's cultures, ethics and values is called "taking the moral high ground" and is an act based in ignorance and self-righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:42 PM
1

I reckon high N count causes both men and women to become jaded. In myself and my friends who confided, I always emotionally bonded and got attached to the first few girls I was with, after a certain point I just don't anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:45 PM
9

My ex came over once saying "I'll come over but no sex today" I said "ofc". Then we had sex. Just ignore and escalate to sex as normal. If she says "no" and gives no reason or shit excuse, soft next. Desire can't be negotiated.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:19 AM
5

Try approaching while smelling like a babboon and report back with results.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:48 AM
1

Keep lifting until you're not unfit. Stop contacting your ex. Game other girls. Sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:46 AM
1

They don't talk to you* Use it mate, I got a few lays from it this year.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:22 AM
10

There isn't. Women get old, fat, jaded. New is better. Plus one man's top is another man's trash.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:22 PM
9

Great gatsby, if you want to see how oneitis will ruin a man's life while highlighting the red pill man who spins plates.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:15 AM
4

I believe it, have you ever been harassed? Chances are you have whether it was high school bullying or a stranger on the street annoying you with unwanted attention. Sexual harassment can be anything such as an inappropriate joke or a comment on someone's appearance and it taken as offence. Think about the depravity of the average person, then remember half the world population is more depraved than that. Plus I'm a man and I've been sexually harassed before as a teen.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:50 AM
2

Just read the fucking books.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:41 AM
4

Sounds like you're using women solely for your social life which results in using them as your therapist. Get some male friends as its a small city, work on yourself to get abundance mentality, lift.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 05:13 AM
1

Being full of anger and manipulating people will not benefit you at all and you might find yourself in legal or immense psychological trouble if you continue this path. Find a male therapist or talk to someone you trust. Focus on building yourself instead of women.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:23 AM
4

I knew a guy who was closeted gay and he tried to fuck my gf to spite me. Don't make assumptions. Read TRM on men and women branding attractive men as gay to lower their perceived SMV too.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:35 AM
1

Do you get paranoid about your health regularly in general? If so, sounds like health anxiety or hypochondria. If that's the case then look up some methods of catching your anxious thought train. Meditation, talking to someone and breathing/mindfulness helps.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:21 AM
4

Next time she says "that's it?" just leave on read, or respond with some dumb emoji/gif
/r/askTRP14/03/21 10:36 AM
3

Respect
/r/askTRP14/03/21 09:01 AM
4

Yeah what he needs is romance in multiple plates. Fucking for superficial reasons is empty, real connections make plates more fun.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:31 AM
3

Thus don't shit where you eat. Hard to avoid when you are roomies. Either you move out or stop being a bitch and behave like normal.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:52 AM
1

You need to LIFT MOTHERFUCKA
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:17 AM
9

He didn't get it for free, he burned both his money and worse, his time for this woman.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:20 PM
9

I had some friends who said racist shit as a joke for years, one day I snapped and gave them a taste of their own medicine and they stopped after that. Sometimes it's not the severity of the comment but the ongoing bullshit. He did the right thing in making his friend stfu.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:27 AM
3

For real, sex education in schools should teach boys about the problems of gorilla grip and porn.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:56 AM
4

I agree, Judo is great for grappling on two feet, BJJ is most beneficial for when a fight inevitably ends with one of you on the ground. Some BJJ instructors teach general take takedowns. But if you want the full sweep of takedowns judo is good to learn too.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:31 AM
4

Piquing*
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:12 AM
11

Muay thai or any kickboxing art for striking and BJJ for grappling. Krav Maga is a military martial art and thus teaches how to kill rather than safely remove a threat without killing.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:47 AM
7

We could all play armchair psychologist but a real psychologist would do a much better job. Things your psychologist would focus on: No real male role model in your life. How was your relationship with your mother growing up and how is it now? Also quit jerking off to porn, lift weights and force yourself on some dates man.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:16 AM
4

Been here, it's hard to leave but can't stress enough that you need to leave. It only gets worse when you stay, never better.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:25 AM
7

You're right in a lot of Eastern and non-anglo nations the red pill isn't as well-known due to conservative family values still being mainstream. Women don't sleep around as they are expected to marry early and start a family. However, I believe the application of TRP in developing yourself as a strong man and having a mission is still valuable to men universally.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:08 AM
6

Had a girl like this, she was Chinese, bad at English and wanted to have sex but wanted to save kissing for a committed boyfriend only which i declined to being. Different cultures man.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:54 AM
144

When a girl does any of the following: behaviour becoming full retard, eyes are fading, she's stumbling and losing balance, slurring words, puking, blacking out, these are signs of being too drunk. A girl who has had one or two drinks only is fine to smash.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:02 PM
1

It may be possible but I think it is definitely harder for both sexes to pairbond when they have a high n count. That's not necessarily a bad thing, could mean you have higher standards thanks to abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:59 AM
2

I agree to what HumanInTheRaw said, especially in terms of trying to find the pattern. Perhaps you are affected by seasonal change (Seasonal Affective Disorder).
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:37 PM
3

A lot of guys here say you should go for sex on the first date. But to be honest a kiss on the first date is enough. Anything less is a disaster.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:18 AM
3

When I was a young boy I thought like you, twice the circumstances were perfect, the girl I liked jumped on my lap and wanted to make out, I said no because "the circumstances weren't ideal". I realised later that I rejected girls because of my own fear and expectations. Stop romanticising and fantasising. Life is not a Hollywood movie and just date women, the more experience the better. I guarantee the day you wake up you'll wish you didn't waste so much timing overthinking.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:34 AM
3

Some people are fucking nuts that's why.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:50 AM
1

Never DEER always DARE. Don't be defensive, be rational, only trust your gut when there are signs, not just due to your insecurities.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:11 AM
1

Listen, BetteClausen you have given up a lot of your personal information and you're reasonably identifiable now. Your obsession is due to your mental illness, insecurity and your healer complex. You blame yourself because you think you treated her like shit, and now miss her that she's gone and your brain can't get over that. If you actually fix yourself through therapy and medication then you'll become stronger as a man, then you could get plenty of other women like that, and hopefully you'll …
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:04 AM
1

Stop whacking off to your ex. Then stop whacking off to porn in general.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Personally I believe everyone has the freedom to fuck around as much as they like. And everyone has the freedom to choose an LTR based on certain values and traits. The point of the red pill is to not seek validation from others but from your own efforts and achievements. In terms of gender dynamics and sexual attraction, I don't write the rules. Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 12:44 PM
4

You've made the first two steps, acknowledging your problem and seeking help (therapy). Continue therapy and work on yourself in areas that you might feel are lacking. Exercise, lift, strength build, surround yourself with strong and good men, do a martial art and focus on your goals (find your mission if you don't have one). Be patient with yourself as the road is long and healing takes time. Do not get into any LTR. Only consider an LTR once you are secure with yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:44 AM
2

The reason for this is that a woman does not need to put in effort to get laid, while a man can only get laid if he is perceived of having value. A man with more sexual partners is perceived as higher value. A woman with more sexual partners is not.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:32 AM
6

Wtf is this thread. Make a move next time you see her, if it fails, hard next. You're supreme orbiter at the moment, giving off empty validation for nothing in return. The way this is going it will not end well for you. She will keep you waiting until she finds a real man that gives her tingles. Also read the side bar.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:16 AM
1

AWALT. Soft next my dude
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:45 AM
9

Last girl who did that to me literally jumped on a threesome with her ex before we broke up. Any persistent contact with ex us a huge red flag
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:37 AM
1

The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:41 AM
7

Christ man, listen to yourself. Get a job. Get a job for your own sake, not for your ex who has been getting plowed by other men for over a year
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:50 AM
11

Also from Aus, one of the best countries to live in, but if you want attractive women on average north-east Asia and Eastern Europe are the best places. I thought everyone was hot but I realised they were just more fit on average
/r/askTRP07/02/21 04:31 AM
4

Read The Rational Male by Tomassi.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:12 AM
1

Because that line puts you into her frame.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:58 AM
6

Man that father must have brain issues too to think that you would be the best man for her. She clearly has a shit track record and your insecurities about her friend and also aggression shows that this relationship is doomed to fail. But that's my opinion man, you do you.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:31 AM
4

Fat people will be fat? Lmao this comment is defeatist as shit. What is happening to this sub
/r/askTRP03/02/21 11:22 PM
1

Insecurity, overthinking, fixation on the past, my diagnosis... oneitis. Go spin some plates bro.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:44 AM
7

This is the dumbest shit I've seen in this sub. Only betas blame their lack of game on conspiracy theory for their beta ass.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:22 AM
2

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:15 AM
0

Yeah solo travelling means she'll smash other guys. I'd just demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:46 AM
2

Why are half the "questions" in this sub a PhD thesis in length?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:06 AM
-2

When I had a break from alcohol I took girls on hot chocolate dates in the evening at some chill places. Sets the mood, get tipsy and high from the sugar and caffeine, make your move.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 06:24 AM
5

If she's a plate I don't care. If she's an LTR I've learned that this is a huge red flag that tends to snowball into other bad/manipulative behaviour.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:04 PM
1

There, you answered your own question. Next time don't lie.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 04:06 AM
2

You do you. You asking this question shows you're unsure of your actions and how it affects others. Lesson for you is that there's more to learn.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:54 AM
3

Everyone is into different things. Sometimes I like to dominate, sometimes I like to be dominated. It's okay not to like anal. Do whatever you want, don't let other people's kinks make you feel like you're doing it wrong. And consider that maybe in the future you'll change and get a different sexual appetite over time.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:30 PM
3

You're going soft either due to sensitivity or the break in sexual action leaves you feeling tense while putting it on. And then the fear of losing the erection while putting it on perpetuates the issue in the future. Happened to me when I first got out of my LTR. My advice is, let the girl put it on you, continue foreplay with it on even if you lose your chub and tell her to keep touching you and your boy will perk up again. After a few times with a condom your mind and body will get used to it…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:41 AM
2

Both men and women feel resentment towards their exes if they feel like they were used, or if there was an unfair power play. Many men who come to TRP usually come here due to that same resentment she's feeling. I didn't read your essay, but reflect on what you did that might have been controlling, manipulative or excessively selfish (situations where you greatly benefited and she lost) and that will answer your question on why she resents you.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:37 AM
1

Not sure if you're serious, but if so then you and Bette male have scarcity mindset and oneitis. Improve yourself until you become the 10/10, and improve yourself for the sake of yourself not for the sake of validation from women.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:29 AM
1

Read a variety of topics from arts to history to science to psychology. You'll find a new purpose when you come across something that inspires you. That's what happened to me
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:43 AM
4

This is psychotic and very insecure behaviour. Go see a therapist, you have severe attachment issues.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:46 AM
11

If they're in your room and there is physical contact then you're both feeling the tension. Next time just kiss her. She would 100% kiss you back at that point.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 03:16 AM
250

I wouldn't follow anything remotely TRP on instagram as what you follow is publicly viewable. Rule 1 of fight club.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:41 PM
2

I get it. It is/was bad for all of us. I spent 7 months with no women and though it was a struggle I didn't waste time. Read as much philosophy and history as you can, learn as much as you can. Realise all problems are temporary and you'll forget all about this struggle next year when its over.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:11 PM
6

She hit the wall. She wants to settle down after living a fulfilling and wild sex life with other men. She wants you to be the beta provider who will be happy with sex once a week.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:59 PM
2

I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:39 AM
2

Get some respect yourself. She used you. She still has an effect on you. The revenge is you getting over it and changing your behaviour to serve yourself rather than anyone else.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:57 AM
5

No.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:27 PM
3

In high school hormones run high and girls branch swing like Tarzan on coke. Make a move on her, be assertive and if that fails, hard next. Plenty of other girls who are keen in high school.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:06 PM
6

LDR without communication is destined to fail. You have to communicate with her or next, before she gets bored and branch swings.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:20 AM
5

Bette male
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:47 AM
1

My family knows my relationship history. So when they asked about me seeing many women at once, I told them what I told the girls. "I don't believe in monogamous relationships anymore." Be authentic and own it. Everyone will then see your logic.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:36 PM
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