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Ppdebateismental/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:13 PM
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I just used to scream “daddy, stop crushing my smokes”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:18 AM
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Right? Boundaries are good for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:22 AM
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Nerdy IT/engineer boyfriend first girlfriend Welp ….maybe. I’m a female engineer, some of those dudes are definitely late to the game. I only dated one…..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:13 AM
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😳The ability of men to cock block themselves never fails to surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 AM
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They are all convinced she gave it to Chad in a bathroom stall after knowing him for 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:37 AM
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My first thought exactly…think of the traffic to her site now 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:34 AM
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99% of men posting here have no interest in strict monogamy….for themselves at least. Serial monogamy is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:30 AM
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What percentage of men are married to their only sex partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:22 PM
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Men who struggle are not the majority, and even many of those who struggle want free hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:05 PM
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these types of mental health issues impact male attractiveness far more than female I can’t disagree, but many of these guys want women to see their lack discernment with regard to what makes a viable mate as a virtue, and women’s comparative pickiness to be a moral failing. There is no meeting of the minds between the valuable eggs and the disposable sperm camps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:02 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:46 PM
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strict monogamy 99% of men posting here have no interest in strict monogamy….for themselves at least. Serial monogamy is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:45 PM
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probably mentally disturbed on a partially biological basis There is no winning with this demographic. Clearly a group no one, for good reason, wants to mate with, and yet too disturbed to recognize they are actually disturbed. Anosognosia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:43 PM
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I don’t think you are wrong in general. Also more social in general and more agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:56 AM
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In all sincerity and all kidding aside? I think studies of how both men and women react to sexual images suggests women may be more sexually malleable when it comes to sexual orientation. Men’s brains seem a bit more hardwired, gay men get aroused looking at men, straight men get aroused by images of women. Women get aroused by general sexual situations and sexual context. I don’t think men can turn themselves gay, when you are hardwired by the gender of your preference, it’s hard to turn that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:36 AM
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Someone please correct me because I have no idea what I’m talking about lol I’m not being sarcastic, I say this in all earnesty, this was the best statement I’ve read here in a looooong time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:26 AM
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😝Momma leaves as soon as she gets her meth money. Her meth is like $20 bucks , so after 4 tricks, she heads out for her “me” time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:59 AM
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It’s pretty easy…got a bus station in your town? Practice your wide stance. My old roommate used to cruise the “meat packing” area, which always had a hilariously double meaning to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:51 AM
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You two need to get a room
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:43 AM
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For anyone able to meet people irl? Omg, please do. There are some decent people trying to find something real on OLD. I know some. Even irl, people can fool you, but when all you are offered is a photo and a short bio it’s almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:09 PM
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That’s why a lot of girls think every guy is a fuckboy. That isn’t true at all. On some level it’s also naive to not concede a lot more guys actually would be fuckboys in their youth, if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:36 PM
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OLD users opt into the service, they choose who they swipe on, who they message, who they exchange photos with and who they meet. Can’t disagree. We still, for some bizarre reason, use it as the number one way to meet both hookups and LTRS, instead of meeting through work, school and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:35 PM
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You can think anything you want about her choices, but she is clearly beautiful and clearly been with a lot of men. Even before the age of 35. Because obviously she's no longer that hit compared to 20 year old models these stars can bang on the regular. She might not be your choice, but Affleck is definitely in the “can bang young hot model” camp, he even still looks pretty good, and somehow he is back. I will admit it’s a bit surprising, but there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:17 PM
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From ages 27 to 36 JLo dated…. Wesley Snipes, Omani Noa, Puff Daddy, Chris Judd, Ben Affleck and Mark Antony Those are the famous relationships we know of, very unlikely every guy she had sex with She’s not 45 either, she’s 52 and still pulling guys like Arod and, once again, Ben Affleck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:04 PM
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Not always https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/pictures/jennifer-lopezs-rocky-relationships-2011137/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:50 PM
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Some people are on OLD to hookup, no doubt. Some are there to find someone ltr. Some here on this forum met their so on OLD. No way of knowing just looking at a photo and a brief profile which is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:42 PM
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Men are thirsty and have always been thirstier. This is what some men will PAY to have sex with. https://i.insider.com/4f43aff26bb3f74514000000?width=1200&format=jpeg&auto=webp This is not new to online dating, the high school quarterback has always had options and slept with some less attractive women before getting married to the cheerleader. Most women try for the best, lots of men try for the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:21 PM
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I loved and lost once. It was brutal. I spent a long time alone as well to avoid having my heart broken again. That was fine for a while but ended up being just as bad as heartbroken. Looking back, I can’t say I would have rather spent my entire 20’s alone to avoid that heartache. I loved, I lost and I learned from it. Some people are fine being alone. I’m not one, for me it sucks either way. You can either guarantee it will suck, or 50/50 gamble it that it won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:07 PM
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no guarantee you get these things, Yep, no guarantees you get those things forever. Absolute guarantee you will never get any of it at all, even on a temporary basis, if you purposely rule it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:59 PM
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my family Eventually, you might want your own
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:56 PM
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I think the word “unvetted” is actually totally accurate. We used to marry someone from high school or college. Often someone from our same home town. People used to have reputations. Word got around who got ran through by the football team and who was known for breaking hearts, cheating and using people. People looking for more serious relationships knew who to avoid, had a better idea who was trustworthy and knew who would give them a bad reputation in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:49 PM
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I second.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:01 AM
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Apparently my preferences aren’t important at all. If you asked me for the ideal guy? 6/6/6. Tall, dark and handsome, slim, college educated professional. If you asked me who was the least compatible guy I ever dated? The only 6/6/6 I ever dated, and he had dark hair, was slim and a never married chemical engineer with no kids. He looked great on paper and was a nice guy. I can’t explain it, except to say there was “no spark”. Husband is tall and was poor, ex was short and got rich through self …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:14 AM
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Men who will make it to 30 alone either weren't very desirable in their 30s or have no intention of marrying I honestly don’t think this is true. I’ve known lots of pretty high value guys that didn’t get married until mid 30’s and many met their wives around 30. They often marry women 5+ years younger. “ The estimated median age to marry for the first time was 30.4 for men and 28.6 for women in early 2021,” according to the census. That’s just the median, so there are plenty getting married in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:16 AM
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If a woman is on Tinder, imho it’s just as much on her to say ltr only. I don’t think you are obligated to state up front fwb only.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:23 PM
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Too tall…and I’m not kidding. 6’ to 6’2”? He’ll have to take off that Wendy’s uniform before we smash….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:20 PM
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Double ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:11 PM
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and even then I think there will be a limit I ran into a dude working at Kroger of all places, retired military, who went back to work after decades. Kroger is a notoriously bad employer, I asked him if he was bored. He told me his son was amassing huge legal bills trying to defend against a kiddie porn charge. Holy fuck. He claimed he totally believed the son to be innocent, but I went home found mention of it on the Internet, it did NOT look good. I always wonder what it must be like to be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:20 PM
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😘 that’s the way it’s done …..as John Oliver would say, this guy FUCKS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:54 PM
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Is it parents pushing for prosecution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:27 AM
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The age gap in the us is currently 2 years, the smallest ever in history, and the older the couple, the bigger the age gap. If the trend in age gap in marriages is getting smaller, despite age of marriage being later than ever, it’s a very odd assumption that age gaps in dating is increasing, especially among the very young. The more educated the woman, and the wealthier the country, the lower the age gap. “it is only two years which still applies in the scenario I am talking about with establis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:37 AM
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Sorry……reality check…. the age gap in relationships is closing more all the time. The rule 1/2 + 7? A 26 year old guy and 20 year old girl? “ age gaps in relationships have actually shrunk, despite all the press about celebrity couples with large age differences. In fact, according to data from the U.S. Census Bureau, the percentage of new female-male marriages that are breaking the rule has declined from 30% at the beginning of the 20th century to a little more than 10% in 1980 to a mere 3% tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:08 AM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/66YBN1K1y9gcvs43A
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:53 AM
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https://netstorage-legit.akamaized.net/images/c19afb9ce12e9f56.jpg?imwidth=720
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:47 AM
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I got a job for you…it pays and everything….out in the country 🔪 🔪🔪💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:18 AM
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Bingo. I had the EXACT same thought. And not really in a bad way…like a high school drama way. I posted this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sc6ici/why_does_comfort_and_familiarity_kill_attraction/hu5opz3/?utm_term=38828836479&context=3&utm_medium=comment_embed&utm_source=embed&utm_name= earlier today. People used to have social circles and real life reputations. When people behaved in certain ways, word got around. There was more accountability. If you got played by the town …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:48 AM
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This is twice in two days for me agreeing with him…it’s kinda scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:35 AM
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Fwiw, I agree with you. As long as you are very clear with no mixed signals, I think it’s fine to date again if that’s what you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:34 PM
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Men like to downvote me on this and say I’m totally wrong, but I very much had to move on and process after a 7 year relationship failed. I was celibate for 3 years, and for 2 years after that, couldn’t even entertain a serious relationship. I just couldn’t have gotten into another relationship, I wasn’t ready. Men often say and do the opposite. It’s pretty well known that men appear to suffer more after divorce or widowhood, but they also remarry faster, so my female experience might not be rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:15 PM
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I disagree. We have online dating as a filter now, which sucks ball all around for most people. We used to meet through friends, school, irl interaction. You had social connection, they in turn had more had more accountability. You knew if they pumped and dumped two chicks last month, your grandma might know their grandma. Now you have online dating, a picture and whatever bullshit they choose to tell you. Bad on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:44 PM
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The ability to find a new partner has never been easier Really? We have never had so many unhappy, sexless people in their mid 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:06 PM
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Gonna end next year because he will be moving 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:58 AM
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Fine by me, I would do things as a couple, not one on one with them though, if I was in a new relationship. A guy I dated ended up working for my ex. Nbd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:36 AM
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Hard issue. I can see both sides. If a woman has primary custody, it’s hard to give the kid a lifestyle similar to the father’s, without enriching the mother. Probably joint custody and a trust fund in addition to the 80k makes the most sense. What’s always hilarious to me is the amount of broke ass people who worry about divorce rape and CS. Really wealthy people seemed ngaf. They routinely get remarried and pay over and over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:51 PM
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🤣the destination is the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:35 PM
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You think….IF THEY DIDN’T GET SEX….THEN THEY WOULD UNDERSTAND MEN, just like if the rich suddenly had no food or shelter they would relate to the poor.….It’s just not the way it works. You assume they don’t understand the value of “food and shelter “ because they have always had food and shelter, but in reality if it was taken away overnight, most would not struggle like men struggle. Whether they get it or not, it’s just not a need to the same extent it is to men. We are hormonally different. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:28 AM
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Lots of women really like and enjoy sex, we just actually don’t think about it as obsessively as men do. you know an affordable roof and food isn't that important Here is where we talk past each other. All people, rich or poor need food and shelter. For lots of women though, sex is just not an immediate need like food or shelter. You might as well substitute peanut butter or nice carpeting. To a woman’s mind, peanut butter and carpeting are great but they are not “food and shelter”. If women nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:18 AM
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doesn't matter what culture or country you are raised, men are view as horny dogs Wait….you aren’t denying that men typically have a higher sex drive are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:39 AM
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This is called pp DEBATE. If most of the dudes here are as salty and combative irl as they are here? I can’t believe any of them ever get laid. People generally like people who aren’t in debate mode 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:15 AM
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Lots of younger “normies” would gladly be fuckboys if they were good looking enough and had game. If you see lots of younger women attracted to fuckboys that’s because they are the guys with the looks and the swag to pull it off. Newsflash…women are attracted to good looking, confident guys, story at 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:30 AM
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“A whopping 61 percent of singles reported that they hadn't had sex within the past year, compared with 18 percent of married people” Of course some single people are dating or cohabitating and having great sex lives and and of course some married people are in dead bedrooms. But with those odds, I would say the married people on the whole are doing way better than the single. Plus, being married is pretty much proof of being able to date and have sex at least at SOME point in your “boring, norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:20 AM
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Maybe, I’ve jumped into sex really quickly and had it work out. I’ve also had it not work out too. But sometimes we sense we may be more into him, than he is to us. Seeing if he will wait around without sex helps us gauge his interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:11 PM
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Not totally case closed….I’ve done it to protect my own feelings too, when I’ve been really into him, knowing that if it doesn’t work out, rejection will hurt worse if it comes after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:28 PM
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And lesbians are just as promiscuous as gay men, I’m sure. Is this a joke? Does anyone who has ever had gay friends think this? https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Frelationshipsinamerica.com%2Frelationships-and-sex%2Ffigures%2F8-2.png&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Frelationshipsinamerica.com%2Frelationships-and-sex%2Fhow-many-people-have-americans-had-sex-with&tbnid=s6glGzZ2wndjsM&vet=12ahUKEwie797RiMj1AhUC0VMKHY47DUYQMygBegUIARCAAQ..i&docid=VlwXCNRRFjqCPM&w=594&h=266&q=number%20of%20sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:20 PM
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This is true but one side has it worse, imho. The hornier one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:20 AM
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😞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:24 AM
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Imagine the evolutionary theory was right? Okey dokie. My personal goals =/= to passing along my dna. But if it was my main goal to pass on my DNA, I would certainly consider donating eggs to worthy couples. Each donation is between 10 and 20 per cycle and 6 total donations per lifetime. That’s potentially 60 to 120 children!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:50 PM
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I’ve “caught” him before, and teased him a bit. Never minded it except one or two times where our own frequency was slacking, and I suspected it might be cutting into our sex life, not enhancing it. He caught me once, I’m so old it was a scrambled cable signal. We don’t blatantly watch it together, I think we would probably have VERY different tastes, but we have watched some soft core r rated movies together and it’s been fun afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:12 AM
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Your error is to assume that because .01% of men ( basically pro athletes, rock stars and celebrities) can easily get sex from 100’s of women, that it’s common for women to be willing to share these types of guys. Sure for every one of these guys, there are 100 women willing to share him. That still only represents 1% of women. That still leaves 99% of women who will still not share, and will not care that he is seen as a “hvm” by the 1%. Many so called “Hvm” try to think they can spin plates an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:33 AM
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🤣. It’s a whole lot easier for women to just say nah to all of it, sex included. No sex for three years? Not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:07 AM
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It’s like if you said “I don’t want to marry some washed up pornstar with 3 bastard kids” and were told “oh, so I guess you don’t commitment “. Not wanting a relationship with some tradcon douche who believes in one way fidelity =/= to not wanting commitment. Red pill, one way fidelity is by definition not commitment in my book. People can want commitment, but also not want to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:09 AM
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👍. We always see the warnings of how childless post wall women will be filled with regret and how society will collapse unless we all have kids. So not just in response to you, but my post is to the natalist panic in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:04 AM
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Women gain from having more happiness on average and men gain happiness https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-having-children-make-people-happier-in-the-long-run This is just one of many studies, and this one is from a noted conservative organization. There is very little correlation between happiness and children, and some evidence that childless women are actually slightly happier. People are happiest when they are at their best…infertile people who want children are often very unhappy, people saddl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:56 AM
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Mmmm, let’s see….. extended adolescence, fewer responsibilities, more resources vrs. getting married young, dropping a litter of squalling, snot nosed kids and trying to find the time for some boring weekend missionary …hard choice there. Which one is the hellscape again? Are we surprised lots of people don’t want kids? People are having no kids, or fewer kids, later in life, because they CAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:40 AM
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Two incomes are not “chasing the same stuff” Two income households are chasing two cars, four cell phones, cable tv, not to mention huge houses https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmymoneywizard.com%2Fmillennials-home-prices-today%2F&psig=AOvVaw2TvZSx1_5vd7JnriyaeNcv&ust=1642820690572000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCKi33pruwfUCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:09 AM
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basic ass house https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fmymoneywizard.com%2Fmillennials-home-prices-today%2F&psig=AOvVaw2TvZSx1_5vd7JnriyaeNcv&ust=1642820690572000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCKi33pruwfUCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAD “ Even adjusted for inflation, homes today are cheaper per square foot than ever before. Plus, they’re equipped with incredibly luxurious features that would have previously been cost prohibitive: central air conditioning with programmable thermostats, high t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:06 AM
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with Florida man switching states because his prison is now underwater. Omg…I am literally laughing out loud. My h and I just came back from Florida…..there are definitely some dudes who need to stay the fuck in Florida
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:53 AM
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sounds like you never want commitment women need to accept they will most likely have to share a high value man with other women Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:14 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/thefemininetruth/ 😱 Wtf did I just see? I thought Micheal Jackson died.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:11 AM
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Pro athletes are the ultimate high value male Lol…no they aren’t. They are often just barely above street thugs. https://www.tennessean.com/story/sports/nhl/predators/2018/09/19/nfl-domestic-violence-sexual-assault-child-abuse-nba-mlb-nhl/1335799002/ And many don’t marry, just have multiple baby mommas. When they do marry, they often end up with trashy hoes. If you think hvm means able to get all the casual sex he wants, then pro athletes are hvm. But trust me, when a woman says “hvm” she’s thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:57 AM
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men don't care about your career Well statistically men are increasingly marrying women with the same career as them, not hot Hooters waitresses. Male doctors most commonly marry female doctors, etc. Your best chance of marrying a doctor is to be a doctor. https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2016-who-marries-whom/ men prefer younger women. 35+ women will have a very tough time dating and finding what they want. Men can prefer whatever they want, but the marriage age gap is closing, not getting wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:29 AM
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I cook, he cleans. No problem. We have rental property and live off the income, but when we both worked we had a maid and ate much less home cooking. No complaints then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:15 AM
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Wait…aren’t you the escort? Have you never had a client someone might consider a hvm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:12 AM
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Wtf. I thought your robot girlfriends were going to solve all your anger issues.?!? https://fortune.com/2022/01/19/chatbots-ai-girlfriends-verbal-abuse-reddit/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:14 AM
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I’m discounting the first link, cause…Indonesia? Those dudes are smaller than Peter Dinklage. All kidding aside, I have to say I am kind of surprised. Seems like the sky is literally the limit when it comes to women’s height preferences. I still have to wonder if big height disparities don’t seem better on paper, than in reality. My personal height preferences are definitely for shorter and frankly would much prefer being with guy my own height than one who was even 7 or 8” taller. Things just “…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:12 AM
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Even just from a convenience standpoint I think lots of women would find it awkward to date a guy too tall. I’m a woman..a relatively tall one at that…and think 6’2 is awkward. 6’ is better imho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:31 AM
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Huh…I’m honestly surprised. I’m 5’7” and 5” taller is my sweet spot. I dated a 6’3” guy and found it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:28 AM
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Are young people both having less sex and having sex later in life? Yes. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/millennials-lose-virginities-later-age-26-a8340156.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:25 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:42 PM
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I’ve been using Duolingo and my vocabulary and reading comprehension are actually pretty good. I probably read at a grade school level. I need to start practicing speaking and listening. No bueno, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:06 PM
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The only real standard is to be at a healthy weight and have a decent figure? You forgot young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:16 PM
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She turn to fat cow after marry. https://www.themoscowtimes.com/2018/05/04/russia-obesity-rate-up-almost-50-in-5-years-health-ministry-a61355
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:10 PM
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Why do people expect by default that all foreigners should have crappy English I’ve been trying to learn Spanish for 4 years now and still can barely babble like a slow witted toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:06 PM
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Your English is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:04 PM
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We clearly shop at different Walmarts. Michael Cera is average, not jgl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:31 PM
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Not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:21 AM
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They also stay at home longer than men, allowing them to save more. Source? My source says otherwise “Young men are more likely than young women to live with their parents” https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/09/04/a-majority-of-young-adults-in-the-u-s-live-with-their-parents-for-the-first-time-since-the-great-depression/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:16 AM
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Are you willing to live in a 1000 sf house, have only one car at home, no convenience foods, no cable, no cell phone and at least three kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:43 AM
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It’s not just the price of houses, look at the size we expect now. https://www.newser.com/story/225645/average-size-of-us-homes-decade-by-decade.html. We also expect two cars, not one. Multiple cell phones etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:41 AM
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Short dive into your post history, I’d drop a dime on a no for “attractive woman”. “A Woman” is a coin toss. Barring some serious mental health changes or getting famous, you’re a relationship long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:49 AM
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Why do you think you have never dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:12 AM
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2 inches 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:15 AM
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Define attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:56 AM
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Tough shit, these aren’t “the good old days”. For what it’s worth, the term henpecked dates back to the 1600’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:39 AM
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Assuming we're probably referring to anal sex (hence my logistics comment) A dick can be perfect for vaginal sex. Your anus is not a vagina, it will not work to accommodate a dick. Girth, length, shape, left to right leaning, all great variations and accommodatable for a vagina. Not a bumhole. This absolutely applies to me. Did anal once with the guy I lost my virginity to. Didn’t like it or dislike it really. He was not “well endowed”. My ex was a virgin and wanted to try it, averaged sized. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:36 AM
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That won’t happen, learn to pass them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:23 AM
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Do women actually ask you directly “have you ever had piv sex”? Even if they do it’s a shit test. Tell them I bet my n count is twice yours minus 10. That will shut them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:10 AM
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🤣. Dread confirmed 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:57 AM
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Is she giving you more frequent and enthusiastic sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:52 AM
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Yep, he was great on paper, sucked in bed. My ex was 5’8” and our sex life was great. Look, lose it to a hooker if you think it will help you get over some mental hump (pun intended), but unless you get some crazy great hooker, it won’t teach you how to be a good lover to a civilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:45 PM
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Read my edit. Not really. I had sex with a 36 year old when I was 30….a 6/6/6, and it wasn’t any better, lol. First time sex is often not great. Why do you think women complain about hookups? Only difference is with that 6/6/6? Never got better. My ex took to it like a duck to water🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:35 PM
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It's most likely a deal breaker if the guy has little to no experience. Won't it be advertised if/when she decides to sleep with him? Not if you don’t go out of your way to tell her before hand. Most people won’t directly ask, so don’t directly disclose. Sex with new people is often awkward anyway and sometimes even non virgins are nervous. I didn’t know, and honestly the first time was …mmm…well not great and about a minute long. But by the third time the next morning it was like he had done it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:25 PM
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My ex of 7 years was a virgin. I think he was 21. You want me to be honest? After a certain age, being a virgin is probably also a red flag for anyone who isn’t a virgin too, which will be most women. So what is this "average" guy supposed to do? Not advertise the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:06 PM
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feel like a loser for doing it? Do you feel like a winner when you have to pay for someone to touch you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:27 PM
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genuine interest from a woman And as a woman, a dude who enjoys having sex with a woman who has absolutely no genuine sexual interest back is a red flag to most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:23 PM
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Ngl, I just laughed out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:21 PM
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The religious ones absolutely are, and most virgin girls past the age of 20 these days are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:13 PM
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Virgin women may want the men other women find attractive, doesn’t mean they want them to have given into temptation, especially the religious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:07 PM
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I think most of them are looking for that, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:44 PM
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🤣. This sub never fails to prove there are a whole lot of nutty people with vivid imaginations out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:16 PM
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riding the CC Riding the cc? What’s wrong with that? You’re not trying to shame women who have casual sex are you? You must want to legally restrict their sexual liberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:11 PM
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Lots of dudes around here seem great at pretending. They pretend sugar babies are real girlfriends, only fans are personally invested in them as people, and hookers are just normal, emotionally healthy, non drug addicted girls who need medical school tuition and really like sex. Other dudes pretend every single wife in the world hates their husband, hates sex, and is obsessed with some Chad she knew back in college. There also seem to be a whole lot of guys obsessed with butt sex. I think there …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:06 PM
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the continued prohibition of sex with dogs can no longer be justified and is harmful to bestiality interests. Many readers of this board will respond by saying they have distaste for people who have to resort to using dogs --as if their distaste should be determinative of policy. An individual could have distaste for dogs, but this distaste is meaningless and should have no baring on the question of expanding sexual liberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:24 PM
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So saying “ew gross” is not always feminist, and saying “ew gross”=/=should be illegal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:04 PM
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Til, saying a persons sexual history elicits a visceral disgust = feminist shaming tactic. Next time a dude says “sluts gross” I’ll tell him to stop with the feminist shaming tactic. We apparently have lots of male feminists using feminist shaming tactics on ppdebate. But I still didn’t see any pattern of anyone saying it should be illegal becausejohns are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:52 PM
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Do they use that “shame attack” to influence public policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:28 PM
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most dudes will just be screwing them through a glory hole while they lay down on a table Why not just put a gay dudes ass back there? Maybe both will enjoy it and the government can charge both of them, 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:48 AM
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I personally stated that prostitution should be legal and I would not date a John. So did cfinCanada, and probably others. I would say the exact same thing about a trans person. Should be legal, wouldn’t date one. Should also be legal to be 90 years old, guess what? Ask me if I would have sex with a 90 year old? Ewwww grosss! Is your stance that you would date a transgendered individual? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:36 AM
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As if it should matter to them PERSONALLY, not as policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:25 AM
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Lol, so no woman actually said that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:16 AM
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It will starve them of love and family for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:12 AM
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So guys would begin to rise in society again instead of being put down by feminists. All you guys would die out in a single generation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:11 AM
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Many female readers of this board will respond by saying they have distaste for men who have to resort to using prostitutes --as if their distaste should be determinative of policy. I don’t remember anyone saying their distaste for dating johns is the reason prostitution should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:09 AM
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Wekacuck! And back just in time for anal week too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:00 AM
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Damn….my husband isn’t the only person I enjoy spending time with, but he is my favorite person to spend time with. I’m pretty sure he feels the same way. Not just sex either. We have our moments, don’t get me wrong. It’s not unicorn farts and rainbows 24/7. But I genuinely miss him when we are apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:56 PM
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He was, actually still is, pretty good looking, and yeah, some bloated bar flys in the mix, but those were also different days. People really were more sexually open when he was in his 20’s. Now everybody is way more uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:46 AM
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He spent some significant time in LTRS, even back in his drinking days, but when he was single? A different girl every weekend was nbd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:35 AM
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5 bucks is still 5 bucks. Suck it up “butt”ercup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:28 AM
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2 a month? My husband had 4 in the month when I first met him, and 3 knew about each other. When I teased him he confessed he “slipped a traveling nurse” into the rotation. As far as work, he was working as a bartender, so going to work was an actual help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:24 AM
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Oldest ever to post on ppd, 🤣 Mine, 17, I think? I’m guessing. Most of those racked up between 28 and 35. I was in a 7 year LTR before that and had an n count of 3. My husband? Easily 50+. He has no idea. We have mutual friends I know he hooked up and he has forgotten he hooked up with them. Honestly I never really thought about it or cared. Compared to my social circle, I was pretty sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:14 AM
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Sex worker? Well dudes have been telling us all day the following two things, butt sex is no big deal, and selling your body in prostitution is just a job normal people do for some side cash. The butt lubes itself and fucking gross dudes for a living is just another income stream. Time to start putting up or shutting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:47 AM
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Kids suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:38 AM
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I had to explain what really happened to the girl after. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:36 AM
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I had a really good friend who survived on the streets of New Orleans by being a male prostitute at 14. I’ve posted about him before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:23 AM
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Man, I remember a case years ago where a man was convicted of a forcible rape on a stranger and served decades in prison. Victim was positive on his id, the real perp turned out to be his own brother. I’ve seen pictures of the guys, they were REALLY hard to tell apart. https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-2000-04-10-0004100100-story.html We absolutely need criminal reform, no doubt. But saying we “don’t kill enough leo” is a facil argument, and it doesn’t solve the problem of the innocent …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:04 AM
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I don’t care whether or not murderers die, I’m not really FOR their death, but honestly it’s not my issue. But I do care about how many people have been convicted, sent to death row and later exonerated. Many of them with absolutely no criminal record. I do wonder how many innocent have been executed and how we can have a death penalty without an innocent falling through the cracks now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:43 AM
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Um dude, you can totally do it too. I have a male friend with a schizophrenic mom who started turning tricks at 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:14 AM
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Yeah, these women have options https://www.businessinsider.com/check-out-the-stunning-pictures-from-the-citigroup-trader-who-photographs-prostitutes-2012-2 First step is to get off the heroin though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:48 AM
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Take some wet wipes. Stay away from the extra spicy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:11 AM
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Thank you. Glad to be of service. How’s that bucket of chicken feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:05 AM
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I can want it to be legal and at the same time be put off knowing a dude enjoyed paying money to a woman for some weird hooker sex like he was buying a bucket of chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:49 PM
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Personally, it’s gross lol. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:08 PM
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Me too. That and outright science denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:39 PM
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I didn’t say it did, I’m saying that’s what the pro life movement wants though. To my knowledge viability is still at 21 weeks https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwjquOmy-dT0AhUjRTABHVffBr0QFnoECBYQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.today.com%2Fhealth%2Fborn-21-weeks-she-may-be-most-premature-surviving-baby-t118610&usg=AOvVaw37pkBGxBbvEhgDRUZV6qws
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 PM
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As I understand it, it overturns Casey, but that opens 15 to be reduced to 8, and if 8 is also arbitrary, why not 7, …or 6. Don’t pretend most of these people don’t want “life begins at conception “ to be the law of the land.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:23 PM
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They hitched their wagon too tightly to religion and that unholy alliance is driving both off the cliff. https://thehill.com/blogs/congress-blog/religious-rights/243397-mixing-christianity-and-politics-is-killing-the-church https://www.huffpost.com/entry/no-religion-pew-report_n_1949598 Both religion and right wing politics are seeing huge declines among young people. “ Looking at exit polls from presidential elections, the Pew report found that Democratic candidates have won an increasingly hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:15 PM
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I think I remember you saying the exact same thing about overturning roe..it would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:07 PM
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😬. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:09 PM
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Except a man’s fear is rational, based off human nature Considering you have no interest in giving women sexual pleasure, I agree. Your fear you will never satisfy a woman is completely rational
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:07 PM
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My husband isn’t a or b or ab. He’s big “o” positive 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:47 PM
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Look, it’s 2020, at best we can go into relationships with a maybe. I can know it’s a yes for me, I can HEAR a yes back, I might be hearing what I want to hear, I might be hearing him say what he thinks he wants, we could BOTH change our minds after sex. Women have always wanted relationships, very arguably much less than in the past, but we still want them. Men want them too, despite what they say.🤣. But sometimes it doesn’t work out. Sometimes after already having sex. Life holds no guarantees…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:14 PM
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Most low n women fear the same from high n men. Waking up every day is taking a chance. I’m not neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:06 PM
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I disagree. A woman can be very explicit, say she does not want casual sex, say she only wants committed relationships, and still get played. There is no true commitment, the closest thing we have is marriage and that’s still no guarantee. And having some serious discussion about committing long before the sex? Watch most normal men run to the nearest exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:03 PM
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Sexual variety doesn’t jeopardize men’s ability to maintain a family It does in my family. Sorry, I have zero interest in being cheated on and will gladly be single instead. Like most women, it’s a deal breaker for me. Fwiw, both my h and I had high n counts and have both been monogamous for decades. You seem overly fearful of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:57 PM
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Or she finds juice and decides it’s better than all that damn boring water she’s been drinking and never looks back. and still cheats, he won’t abandon the relationship and the mistress will just be some chick he’s banging and doesn’t care much about. And when he gets caught, doesn’t matter. She divorces him anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:02 PM
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You can’t ensure you won’t get ghosted. This. There is always risk. You can only do your best to vet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:50 PM
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Because people say one thing and do another sometimes? Especially when they want something. Because establishing a committed relationship before having sex might work for teenagers, but is unrealistic in the modern dating landscape?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:48 PM
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Young women especially don’t want to be thought of as prudes And I think the boundaries for not being “prudish” have been pushed to mean tolerating painful, dangerous and humiliating acts within weeks or even hours of knowing someone. If I thought I would be expected to provide pornstar sex and get choked while simultaneously losing my virginity, I don’t think I would be too keen on losing my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:23 PM
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From what I have observed in young women today, they are fine with saying no to sex with a boy they are not attracted to, slightly better armed to fend off the advances of much older men and authority figures and more aware of the dangers of predators. Where things get stickier is consent to certain acts with the guys they DO like. Porn has normalized more extreme acts, both sexes assume many things to be standard, routine sexual behavior and even more damaging, those acts are shown in porn with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:57 AM
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There is a reason that Playboy, Hustler, Penthouse, men’s magazines all ushered in the porn age and woman had………?…..There was Playgirl but only gay dudes bought it. Men and women, are fundamentally different in arousal. Women get turned on by the narrative, the story, the sexual situation. Men can get turned on by pictures of random naked body parts. We read erotica. Men don’t get it. We aren’t like you. That’s why you guys keep sending us those dick pics. Unless that dick is attached to a guy I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:10 AM
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Either your observation is inaccurate or I’m an outlier. I shit like a goose. Often twice a day. Still do not find anal enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:37 AM
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And many here will disagree, but more sexually conservative, low n count people are, on average, going to be less likely to try freakier things, not more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:58 AM
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old, and very little I’m even older. Average guys got laid more and obsessed about weird shit less. Everyone was happy to just get laid. The “cream pie” was the standard, not a fetish and this whole ridiculous pulling out to shoot in a woman’s eye? Unheard of. That came from porn that insisted on the money shot. This whole choking thing? Anal? Things that no guy would obsess over not getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:47 AM
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This. My one fomo? Never had a threesome…and it ain’t ever happening inside of a relationship I value with someone I love. Could have done it in my single days with a casual partner, but not with a man I loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:33 AM
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Did anal once with the guy I lost my virginity to. Didn’t like it or dislike it really. He was not “well endowed”. My ex was a virgin and wanted to try it, averaged sized. No…..just no. It was not pleasurable in the least. Plus, despite being “cleaned out” there was poop.😳He never asked again and we never discussed it. Haven’t done it since. I really love my husband, would have a hard time if this was a favorite of his….fortunately he is not interested. Tried a bunch of other stuff with my ex. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:26 AM
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If he's going to get a damn prostitute, I have no idea why he paid for one so stereotypically grimy Right? I mean …..yikes. Fwiw back in my bartending days I have seen decent looking drunk guys leave with way worse looking than that hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:56 AM
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Still, I have a feeling if you straight up told a girl “yea, it’s good you don’t like anal, because I wouldn’t have done it with you like I did it all the time with me ex” (clearly not you, but you get my point), she wouldn’t be too thrilled with you, as seen in a comment on the other thread. Lol……🤣🤣🤣wrong wrong wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:41 AM
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When guys start wanting more out there acts, more kinky stuff…they are getting bored with vanilla or need wilder stuff to elicit excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:33 AM
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Happiest day in my relationship was when I realized my now h and I were on the same page. Anal is way overrated. The butt is for pooping, not for snooping. Well, ….except for 👍once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:30 AM
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Men? And paying for the privilege too.. https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.independent.co.uk%2Fnews%2Fpeople%2Fnews%2Fthe-divine-redemption-of-hugh-grant-a-look-at-the-greatest-pr-save-of-all-time-almost-20-years-after-he-was-arrested-with-a-prostitute-9073158.html&psig=AOvVaw13_8CdL7IGTDUiSGwT5qzZ&ust=1639019438716000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCOi32q2d0_QCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:12 AM
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I prefer to usher it out https://whatstheaction.files.wordpress.com/2015/09/exitonlytat2.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:07 AM
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Honestly, I think most women think the opposite and get paranoid that he is getting bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:56 AM
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Ugh. Welp today is the day I seem to copypasta my own responses to other threads. In my opinion we settle on a partner or settle for being single. Both are valid options, but make no mistake, both are “settling”. There is no soul mate, no perfect match. How can there be? Even if you delude yourself into thinking you have found perfection, you will change, and he will change. I have a pretty damn good husband, he wasn’t perfect when we married and neither was I. We haven’t become less flawed at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:39 AM
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He will get the big girls vote. I understand they are a “sizeable” majority 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:24 AM
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Happens dozens of times a year, it’s just not widely reported https://tenor.com/bwcWz.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:05 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:55 AM
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😳it’s hard to believe this is a serious question. GREY. ALL DAY. and I don’t even mind bald guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:53 AM
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yet these are the same cities that are rampant with police abuse. Not to burst your bubble, but I live in deep red bum fuck nowhere and my area is also rampant with police abuse. And the only murder in my area in years was a recently fired cop who went home and murdered his wife. Daughter narrowly escaped. Not just anecdotal either. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/police-are-killing-fewer-people-in-big-cities-but-more-in-suburban-and-rural-america/ I share a property border with a local she…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:40 PM
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You got it easy. My kind hearted husband got sober long before we started dating but would sometimes drag his alcoholic friends home to help them try to get sober. a drunk can ruin all your furniture within a few days 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:16 PM
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Tmi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:10 PM
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Lol, you know you are actually really lucky for your fatty fetish. Plenty to choose from. There are never “slim pickings “ in your available dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:09 PM
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Lol, there was once a comedian who joked about overeaters anonymous. “You can hide the fact you drink or do drugs, but everyone can spot an overeater from a block away” I need to drop my covid lockdown baking addiction and the 10 lbs that came with it. I’m starting to look like “a great baker”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:07 PM
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I extend this philosophy to the whole idea of “settling “ too. In my opinion we settle on a partner or settle for being single. Both are valid options, but make no mistake, both are “settling”. There is no soul mate, no perfect match. How can there be? Even if you delude yourself into thinking you have found perfection, you will change, and he will change. I have a pretty damn good husband, he wasn’t perfect when we married and neither was I. We haven’t become less flawed at time has gone by eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:02 PM
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Only one side lies? Lol. Show me the dating profile that says I let another boy touch my penis in middle school or I have weird fantasies about my best friends mom. How about a dude who tells his date I watch furry porn and have deathgrip issues. How about a guy who sees hookers? We all have issues that we might be ashamed of, might not be especially ashamed of, or might not disclose…not because we are ashamed but because we don’t want to be judged or just figure it’s nobody’s damn business. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:32 PM
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But the short answer is a man's will to live and procreate will lead him either to jail or to the grave. I have no idea what nonsense you are spewing. That overwhelmingly vast majority of men live fairly uneventful lives, just like the vast majority of women. And where exactly is the malice? Many men here too would agree that having sex with hookers is a step below masturbation. My ex tried to lose his v card to a hooker in a legal brothel, and got to the point of being in the room with her befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:49 PM
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How are sex workers able to have tons of sex and are simultaneously able to sort of detach themselves physically while doing it? Well for starters, it’s a job. Not one I would do, because I couldn’t totally separate, and frankly don’t need to. Would I do it to save my life or prevent myself from starving? Sure, I think. My ex’s mom managed to make it out of a concentration camp at age 16…..never asked, never wanted to know. The real question is how do so many men do it and not out of desperation…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:20 PM
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In a lot of ways… Obesity makes people feel less confident in their appearance. Men less likely to approach, women less likely to put themselves out there. Both afraid of being mocked for their sexual interest. Obesity less likely to trigger attraction. Often, not even fat people are interested in other fat people. You can’t negotiate attraction Obesity literally lowers testosterone and increases the potential for erectile dysfunction. No need to explain further
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:23 PM
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Welcome to reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:52 PM
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It’s like asking if life itself is worth it….yes, imho it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:50 PM
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There is also a chart for the likelihood of casual sex corresponding to the number of drinks she has. I’ve been married for years…here’s a clue….the likelihood of relationship sex also corresponds to the number of drinks involved. Within limits of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:25 PM
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Sure, women think the same. 40 year old retired pornstars want 40 year old investment bankers. Good luck. In reality, and despite what TRP says, most low n count women want low n men. You can want whatever you want…what you can realistically pull is quite another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:11 PM
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Lol. .You read that completely wrong. And proved my point. Yes, you see her willingness as a sign she is super into you….the converse is not true. She doesn’t see your willingness to get kinky as a sign of your attraction to her. If you got kinky with a partner in the past, but not her, she won’t assume you are less attracted to her. comfortable in our relationship. Yes this is correct though. She wanted to explore her kinky side and felt safe enough to do it with you. I addressed that with this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:03 AM
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That’s great if you’re a low n count person yourself who doesn’t mind staying a low n count person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:45 AM
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Older than me…….at the time 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:17 AM
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The idea that she liked doing certain things only with Chad is the myth. You know, the part where Chad made her orgasm multiple times from her anal prolapse. Did they “do it in the past” once or twice and decide it wasn’t for them? Yeah, that’s everyone. Now …..might a woman do freakier shit that she really isn’t that into to try to KEEP a HVM? Yeah, maybe. I could see it. Especially if she has low self esteem. She might see it as something she needs to do to keep him. But it’s mostly going to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:16 AM
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See …..this is also a fundamental misunderstanding of the average woman and her experience of casual sex vrs relationship sex. The vast majority of women experiment with pushing sexual boundaries within the context of a relationship. I’ve had plenty of both casual sex and relationship sex and can tell you if a casual sex partner tried to do some things with me that I did consensually with a relationship partner, I would honestly be terrified. Can Henry Cavill find “A” woman willing to do literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:51 PM
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Sure, I agree to some extent. A mild rise in autism and other problems. But men’s fertility has a longer period of tapering off. Women’s tapers off then comes to an abrupt halt. Plenty more guys have a chance at a healthy kid at 40 than women. There would be no point dating a 40 year old man if I wanted biological children. Here in lies the problem for all but the odd, extremely hvm. Most women under 30 have no interest in the dusty old balls of some 40 year old guy. Plenty of early to mid 30’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:02 PM
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The hero we need right here^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:52 PM
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Repost…until you guys finally get it… “Men don’t understand the gender flip on this question will never resonate with women. To them, doing freakier shit =more sexually attracted and they are all convinced she had multiple orgasms getting an anal prolapse from Chad in college. They don’t get it because women don’t associate a man’s desire for freakier sex with his attraction towards her, in fact, if anything, women are more likely to assume his diminished attraction when vanilla sex is no longer…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:51 PM
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6 in the space of 24 hours. We were both much younger than you are now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:43 PM
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Of course it can. People change, situations change. Your OWN desires can change. Even if you sus every last thing out, the person perfect for you now may not be perfect next year, or after the kid comes….etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:08 PM
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There absolutely is a reproductive wall, to deny that existence is just folly. If I’m a 40 year old guy who wants kids, or has some and wants more, there is no point dating a 40 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:59 PM
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Women don’t think like men on this issue. As long as we are sexually happy, we really don’t care what freakier shit you did with an ex. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/raasss/does_your_partners_past_sexual_experiences/hnieuxu/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:49 PM
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They don’t understand the gender flip on this question will never resonate with women. To them, doing freakier shit =more sexually attracted and they are all convinced she had multiple orgasms getting an anal prolapse from Chad in college. They don’t get it because women don’t associate a man’s desire for freakier sex with his attraction towards her, in fact, if anything, women are more likely to assume his diminished attraction when vanilla sex is no longer sufficient to hold his interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:35 PM
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Yeah I agree. They are only 18, people are acting like she raised a serial killer. She has a kid who needs to grow up and learn the lesson that life isn’t free Mom is teaching them the lesson. Nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:39 AM
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12 at 50 years old? A dude who hasn’t been married for 30 out of those 50 years? Pretty sexually conservative in my book…….certainly different than a 20 year old guy with an n of 12
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:01 AM
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Sure, but managers can’t afford to fire them in this kind of market. It’s like there is no dread in the relationship, 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:26 AM
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Cheaping out on and/or no time for training. Go to any Chik fil a or Trader Joe’s, I guarantee you will have a different experience. Also, 4% unemployment means the lowest paying jobs are not being filled with “la creme de la creme”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:22 AM
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I would argue this isn’t really true. https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fblog.commonwealth.com%2Findependent-market-observer%2Finflation-versus-wage-growth&psig=AOvVaw1RXaSNBwPWW4wOVtoTD8LL&ust=1638741994914000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCLD4neaTy_QCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAP The problem is better characterized as a growth of income inequality. Middle class buying power has essentially been stagnant, while production has seriously outpaced wages. https://www.google.com/imgres?img…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:11 PM
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Factually inaccurate. Birth rates are down across the socio economic spectrum EXCEPT for the wealthiest and most educated. Birth rates are rising among the wealthiest and most educated. ​ https://qz.com/1125805/the-reason-the-richest-women-in-the-us-are-the-ones-having-the-most-kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:35 PM
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Our standard for what is typical middle class standard of living had has shifted. From a previous reply The cost of living has increased, so has the average size of houses. It’s almost tripled, despite families becoming smaller https://www.newser.com/story/225645/average-size-of-us-homes-decade-by-decade.html The number of cars per 1000 people has increased from 323 to 831. If you are willing to live in a 900 sf house and let your husband take your only car to work everyday, no cell phone, no ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:27 PM
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What does this woman seek in a male partner? Tall Employed High-Earning Masculine Deep Voice Tall and deep voiced is imho simply a selection for opposite sex dimorphic traits. It’s part of attraction that heterosexual people innately have, just like men look for lack of facial hair and breasts. “Masculine” is a mix of cultural and innately dimorphic traits. As for “high earning” and employed, we should all want this to some degree. Whether you have kids or not, are a stay at home parent or not, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:06 PM
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crazy dramatic intense fling with a legit crazy chick from PPD and went to Vegas to meet her. 😳 https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qclb1s/if_the_idea_of_being_denied_sex_in_a_relationship/hhhb10f/ And……Here’s the guy who says he married a virgin who gives him a one way Hall pass and routinely vacations with both wife and young side piece because he is such a hvm. Twenty year old women who work in Silicon Valley THROW themselves at him, despite the fact that he is….45? 38? 35? 30?…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:20 AM
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Oh, he shows up for every age gap thread. 110% not a larper 🤣 What “protocol vibes”. Haven’t been real active lately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:18 AM
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And some people settle on being alone because the prospect of settling for a less then perfect person seems horrible. Either way, we ALL settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:15 AM
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That’s the 50 something dude who claims to have a very rich, 10/10 looks, intellectual 21 year old girlfriend, isn’t it? They live on a yacht….of course. I think he has said he is German. But then again, he has said a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:58 AM
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Who the hell has a family with someone he isn't attracted the guy who didn’t wear a rubber
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:20 AM
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As a woman, (and one who rarely shaves her legs I might add) I respectfully disagree about leg hair/body hair. Hairiness is a dimorphic trait. Men are have more body hair than women, so removing it is, especially on legs, pits….and god forbid chests or chins… is just enhancing a dimorphic feminine quality “Hormones called androgens, which are present in both sexes, stimulate body hair (known as vellus hair) to darken and coarsen. Men have higher levels of androgens than women, so their body hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:30 AM
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A yeah, you beat me by 6 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:16 AM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwje9qLV-rH0AhXwkokEHRFKDAcQFnoECAIQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mensjournal.com%2Fhealth-fitness%2Fwhy-distance-runners-are-more-masculine-and-attractive-women%2F&usg=AOvVaw0ow4esqIGvOlDMPh3S8hln Long distance, imho not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:38 PM
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Marry young, divorce young. Fun times, especially for the kids. 25 percent of those who marry after the age of 25 will divorce. 60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:54 AM
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Sure, that’s what you did🙄 https://ifstudies.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/2006-101.png
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:30 AM
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I'd still say get married young and start to pop out babies. Nobody looks better at 30 than they did at 25 Yeah, then she can get divorced young and raise her kids as a single mom. That’s some solid advice right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:43 AM
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No Automod but….. Probably close to 100% of women exhibit one characteristic and close to 0% perfectly exhibit all traits. Belief in TRP is like horoscopes, throw enough shit against a wall and something will stick. Autists see one truth and adopt the entire canon like a religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:06 AM
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as I read more and started finding out things about my family and friends that I never even knew, I started to get angry. Sounds like it was a good idea after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:20 AM
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I was just in a Duolingo chat room with a guy whose profile pic was shirtless. I will admit…era MUY guapo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:00 AM
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Provocative pictures or pet pictures…do we have to choose? Por que no los dos? https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2019-04/18/17/asset/buzzfeed-prod-web-01/sub-buzz-17379-1555623266-1.png?crop=1122:1003;0,5&downsize=1600:*&output-format=auto&output-quality=auto
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:56 AM
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Height is a sexually dimorphic trait. Women are on average shorter. We all want mates that exhibit sexually dimorphic traits. Men also want women with less facial hair and bigger breasts than they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:20 PM
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You claim women are homebodies to a greater extent than men. Higher anxiety =/= to being more of a homebody. The article you link to also says in addition to gender, the young and POC have more anxiety. Do you honestly think that young people are more likely to be homebodies than older people? Then you use studies of free time to draw conclusions about who is less social. The results of how men spend their time shows a high degree of “homebody” traits too. https://www.statista.com/statistics/382…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:13 PM
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Is it hypocritical for a minimum wage earning woman to want a high earning man? Yes, imho, especially if she is a low ambition woman who has no plans for financial success, other than marrying into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:06 PM
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If you're still seeing each other, even platonically, you're still sex partners. Simple as. Lol, you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:39 PM
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Manosphere version…..women fuck 100 chads and THEN marry a beta man and only do missionary with the lights turned off once every 2 months
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:26 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwjJ3dPt6Z_0AhWzRTABHVeUD-kQFnoECAIQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.newstimes.com%2Fnews%2Farticle%2FRacist-threats-case-filed-by-Stamford-High-107476.php&usg=AOvVaw0FUb1A0sswkMu_yDy4U7f6 HEH, absolutely the same Candace Owens. Her family got legal help from the NAACP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:36 PM
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Ahhhh, Candace “I have never experienced racism” Owens The Stamford Board of Education will pay $37,500 to settle a federal lawsuit which claimed the schools failed to protect a Stamford High School student from racial attacks. The settlement agreement, obtained under the Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) by The Stamford Times, states that the school board has 30 days to pay the $37,500 to Stamford High graduate Candace Owens Grifter either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:22 PM
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I think your premise only holds when people are a bit older. I’ve got a higher n count than most, so I’m not advocating for low n counts with an agenda, but I think lots of young women have enjoy both sex and relationships, and therefore seek lots of sex within relationships. Older people with a failed relationship or two who have high sex drives are often not as ready for another relationship and still want sex, hence the higher n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:09 PM
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Ohhhh, I only know the “I’ve been on the road too long and need something that will make me take a shit” Cracker Barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:16 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qur4rh/if_you_are_lousy_boyfriend_lover_husband_that/hkss032/ yeah, that’s going to go really well for him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:48 AM
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Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:45 AM
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How do you know you will be able to emotionally connect with a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:20 AM
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Honestly, this is how I think most of these evo psych theories go. Have an opinion based on what you see as true, what you wish was true or what you have been taught was true….then think you can “science” up your opinion by finding some plausible explanation of why this opinion is the correct one, because 100 thousand years ago it somehow enabled our survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:18 AM
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In light of this, do you honestly think you would be a good parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:56 AM
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Entp here too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:59 PM
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My grandmother remarried at 79, lol. He was 80. He made it to 91, she made it to 92
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:00 PM
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Well most of the comments are “good luck” and they might be spot on. I’ve posted about this before, this was my exact case. My ex dumped me after 7 because he was a virgin, got rich and thought it affected his smv. It didn’t. Yeah, he wasted most of my youth. Oh well, too bad so sad, but he’s still single to this day. Do you think a guy who is “a late bloomer” is suddenly going to be sexually successful? Of course there is no true reverse to this situation, no one is warning women that they migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:32 PM
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Can come off as high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:18 PM
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ask him to lower his DEMANDS? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:48 PM
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And to add to that sentiment….. The average age at menarche in 1840 was 16.5 years, now it is 13. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12319855/ Puts the whole child bride thing in a different light.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:26 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:10 AM
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when it lasts like 10 minutes a day Every day, but for only 10 minutes at day? Lol, no thanks. Such a perfect example of sexual incompatibility, it’s like it writes itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:16 AM
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How many divorces were because the sex was bad? Not many people bother to get married if the sex is bad to start with. Those where the sex gets bad after marriage? Extremely common judging from the dead bedroom sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:43 AM
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This doesn't actually happen. If you have good irl chemistry, you will get good sexual chemistry. This absolutely, totally does happen. I’ve had it happen many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:40 AM
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This was one of the major reasons why gay people won the right to marry. Absolutely. The number of gay men barred from visiting their partners or having any end of life decisions during the AIDS crisis definitely pushed progress on gay marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:27 AM
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but I don’t think you can share insurance without marriage. Pretty sure this is up to the company you work for,, and whether or not they want to allow and subsidize it. Insurance for gay partners was definitely a perk in some more progressive companies before gay marriage became legal https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1995-10-07-mn-54276-story.html Or get a joint mortgage You can definitely get a mortgage together https://www.mortgageloan.com/mortgages-unmarrieds-part-i-9446 I knew two str…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:21 AM
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He is rich, reasonably good looking and 43, she is 30? Not exactly rare. He is 46, not famous, and she is 22 and not a hooker/sugar baby? Extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:50 AM
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Sorry, psychology is not science. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:02 AM
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You don’t believe Jesus died for your sin unless you read the Bible either. You realize that the “side bar “ is not an infallible gospel, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:10 AM
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I’m not even “an alt girl”, except for a few extra piercings, I look like every other boring female engineer, because that’s what’s expected, but no, straight laced guys don’t do it for me. My h had long hair down his back, soul patch, hippy vibe. I dated a few musicians, guys with tats, earrings etc.I think you really have this one wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:46 AM
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a vested personal interest in making his employees feel like "losers" if they take paid leave Exactly. What a shocker that corporate might try to dissuade paid leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:51 PM
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😳did she try to smother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:57 AM
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BUT I’M BUFF, lol. 6’4 195 sounds very reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:49 PM
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Edit, I thought you were responding to my “I’m 250 but buff “ post, but this still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:33 PM
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Yep. Lots of men are in denial that they are overweight. They see the scale and think they look like a linebacker instead of lumpy mashed taters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:31 PM
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👍enjoy that kitty!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:28 PM
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Ohhhh no, I’m 250, but I’m buff!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:27 PM
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This. We have a guy who posts woe is me tales about how his feminist mom and Disney ruined his life and he can only pull fat chicks. Admits to being a fat guy. If not dating thinner women is the only thing that has ruined your life, blame the Burger King and Colonel Sanders, not Walt Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:25 PM
1

Ahhh you got another cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:16 PM
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Yes, and for the record, a few of us are actually glad to say it. You need to establish that you hope the relationship will be a sexual one. You don’t have to press for sex, but at least try for some physical intimacy in my book, or I think you are going to be one of my gay friends who I watch Netflix and talk about cute boys with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:54 PM
1

Still likes his bbw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:39 PM
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lol reluctantly red
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:30 PM
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🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:44 PM
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Slow dancing with a dude just a few inches taller? Gotta admit, very sexy. And if they are happy too? More than the stars line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:35 PM
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I like looking in someone’s eyes, not their man nipples 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:28 PM
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Mmmm, you think unemployed middle aged fuck boys get much younger women with ease? Yeah, it definitely wasn’t enough for me, bars are full of them….speaking of which, where did nonoodlearms, goodlookingloser go?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:26 PM
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Really? I’m taller than most women but I dated a 6’4” guy. For me…eh. Too awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:23 PM
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Lol, who else spends their time here “Hey girls, is it sexy to act like an asexual gay dude who doesn’t want to fuck”. 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:10 PM
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He wasn’t your insurance agent, Right, he was extremely high status He wasn’t a loser. Right, he was extremely high status He’s a guy whose charisma made him sexy Absolutely. And yes, he was also able to parlay that charisma into success too. Like these guys’ money makes them attractive, not their looks Well, 50 year old Clinton’s looks alone would not attract many 20 year old girls. We agree it was his charisma that made him sexy. I’m just not sure his 50 year old looks and his charisma togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:06 PM
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I’m not a man and I like “tall men” but 6’4” isn’t necessarily a good thing. Past 6’1” or 6’2”, additional height becomes diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:35 PM
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I try to pretend I am both…cause I know I sure as shit can be judgmental. I mean I think I am both. I rent to poor folk and every single last one has gotten their ass in a crack all by themselves. But I can be a total soft touch too because I know we all make mistakes, but the poors have no room for error. One kid at too young an age, one time too many calling in sick. Got caught with a bag of weed? Bam, shit meet fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:25 PM
2

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:17 PM
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I agree with her She said sex is a must for chemistry Nooo, read again. She said men had to create sexual chemistry with me to have sex with me And how do we have chemistry if hes "indifferent to sex". the female sex drive requires being DESIRED. She’s saying sexual chemistry is a must for sex. And you can’t have sexual chemistry without MUTUAL sexual desire. I mean I have had chemistry with friends, non sexual chemistry, like I meet someone and think “oh, we could be FRIENDS”. It’s like she sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:11 PM
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Attractive? At his age, when I was 20? I absolutely would not have wanted to bang him if he was my insurance agent. I think success does boost smv, at least a point or two, but that’s always so hard to separate from personality. Clinton was successful because he was charismatic. But if he had charisma and was a lovable loser? Nah. I tended bar, these guys are a dime a dozen. I ran into lots of middle aged guys who were charming, charismatic peter pans and slayed in their day. They were fun to fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:58 PM
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I mean, do you desire sex dont use "desire" only for sexual desire Does not compute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:34 PM
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Exactly. I’m either unattractive to him, he’s asexual or gay. None of the above is going to make me hot for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:31 PM
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Meh, I dunno. But I can totally see what Monica Lewinsky saw in Clinton.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:30 PM
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The idea that stepping into an impoverished country suddenly turns a 4 into an 9 is ridiculous I’m going to “slightly” disagree. In a truly impoverished country, I think the framework is different. If you are a 2? Are you fat, or too old or really ugly…yeah you are still a two. Are you objectively average in looks, but have a huge discrepancy in status? Then I think there can be some alpha male, genuine attraction. An average looking but famous rock star in the US is still going to be found attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:21 PM
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Yep. Like u/Orange_Paisley said as well This would signal to me”I want to have sex AND am looking at a potential LTR” so yeah, that could be a green flag and maybe make me want him even more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:09 PM
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You are phasing this wrong. Speaking for myself, I don’t desire sex with EVERY guy who wants to have sex with me, but I don’t desire ANY guy who DOESNT want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:05 PM
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I’m definitely one of the women who would be incompatible with him. Just one more reason why chastity before marriage is a dealbreaker for me. I would be devastated to marry a man and then find out he didn’t want to be overtly sexual with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:00 PM
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the setting is ready. But he does not seem so interested in sex I try to set him up with one of my gay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:44 PM
1

Ah. Well they really are all taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:16 PM
1

You a shortie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:04 PM
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Ugh. If he was a total playa, he probably would have hit on you in a sexual way when he taken. Maybe he likes you. Maybe he wants to date you. Maybe he wants to hookup and maybe he wants to hookup and also date you. It’s not an “either or” all the time. Go and bring a friend. If he acts like he’s looking for a hookup, let him know you are open to dating, you are not the kind of girl to hookup. If after that he ghosts, he ghosts. I would always get guys hit on me constantly when I tended bar. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:00 PM
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The latest reason men hate women who don’t put out on the first date a woman who wants to control the pace of the interactions through access to sex. That’s masculine to me and a turn off. I’ve heard lots of reasons but calling it “masculine” is a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:46 AM
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Purplishpossum now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:42 AM
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I used to think guys who did bodybuilding to get chicks were crazy…… The vast majority of women really do think they look disgusting. But I will say in any group of women, there will be one that really likes that type of guy. Although women who like bodybuilders are rare, there are more of them than actual bodybuilders , so I think they do get plenty of women at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:39 AM
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Yeah. I’m not denying it. The standard of absolute perfection requires that. I just don’t like the lift 6 day gym rat type of body at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:26 AM
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Plastic surgery, botox Well done, subtle procedures, Botox, peels, professional teeth whitening are all practically routine for upper class and UMC women. I can tell even my gynecologist uses botox. You don’t know it precisely because it is well done and subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:42 AM
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The thing is, the well done stuff isn’t obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:33 AM
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a woman who wants to control the pace of the interactions through access to sex. That’s masculine to me and a turn off. Well that’s a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:30 AM
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Use Rogaine on your brows! It takes a while and be careful, but it won’t look “made up”. And get Retin a. It will keep your skin young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:57 PM
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I lap swim myself. I see normal guys who look like young Phelps…not Olympic Phelps, but young Phelps. Olympic Phelps started to get oddly proportioned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:24 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah, as I said to another poster, I’d way rather see a guy who swam hours a day than lifted hours a day. That’s young, non pe drug Phelps. Olympic Phelps started looking a bit ….weird. I didn’t say it was easy, just the bulky muscle dudes look weird….especially when they get that gross neck As the guy said in that article, a guy who doesn’t look that big in clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:20 PM
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I actually like Michael Phelps in that photo over Olympic Michael Phelps though. But yeah, I realize that what I consider perfect isn’t easy. I would rather see a dude who swam hours a day than a dude who lifted hours a day Arnie is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:13 PM
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https://www.quora.com/Is-swimming-a-good-way-to-build-up-muscles 1 and 2 obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:29 PM
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Ohhh, I get that. I actually don’t like the bulked up look, but I do like lean look that is 2 days a week gym and 4 days running or swimming. I likem lanky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:04 PM
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Texting helps me tbh. Slows me down, keeps me on topic and fewer things I will regret later get said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:01 PM
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I resemble that comment🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:11 PM
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Men say they don’t like high maintenance women, lots of make up, plastic surgery, fake boobs, etc. Lol, they don’t like lots of bad make up, unnatural looking plastic surgery. What they respond to is very well done, natural looking, makeup and procedures which are actually extremely high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:54 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:02 PM
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Well, this might keep you up at night wondering wtf is going on, but many Japanese guys prefer hentai to actual porn. So you first have to convince them that human bodies are more arousing than cartoon ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:02 PM
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….and let’s just face it….a HUGE problem for people who don’t like “immigration”. 👨🏾‍🌾🧕🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:36 PM
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Omg I can’t find the article, but the most batshit crazy one was Japanese government sponsored nude figure drawing so young men might see the appeal of a live woman in the flesh. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:30 PM
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Honestly, you tell me. We are a highly individualistic country. No one is going to have a kid just to take one for the team, nor on an individual level would I want them to. Traditionally highly collectivist countries are ironically seeing the worst problems. Japan may have one of the most collectivist cultures around. They could convince kamikazi pilots into suicide missions and they can’t even convince people to have sex, much less babies. https://www.sbs.com.au/guide/node/15396
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:24 PM
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Just a matter of time Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:45 PM
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True, but a shrinking population eventually causes a decrease in the consumer demand for goods and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:30 PM
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Men on “strike” has less bearing on birthrates all the time. There is no stigma left to single motherhood, especially for women in their 30’s who are choosing it intentionally. I’m not saying I like it, just pointing out reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:27 PM
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Yeah, you can temporarily try to prevent contraction by encouraging higher participation in the workforce. Also redirect and retrain the disabled, raise the age for SS benefits, etc.. But all these measures WILL be temporary without at least a replacement birthrate or immigration. More people are dying than being born. It’s just math. Even if the birthrate stabilizes and it remains where it is, we still will lose population, which might sound great in the short term, but it’s just mathematically…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:20 PM
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Underrated comment. It’s not a one size fits all. Even a cold approach can be extremely rude, which deserves the response “fuck off and die” or extremely innocuous to which the response can simply be “sorry I’m really busy and have to go now, nice meeting you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:21 AM
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You are right. Ironic though, without immigration, they signal future economic contraction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:04 AM
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We can always import people from other countries, right? It’s definitely a option. We are already an incredibly diverse country. My grandparents were white immigrants to a predominantly white country, the future will be brown immigrants to a tan country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:01 AM
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Uneventful, not especially sensuous, not much build up or anticipation maybe even a bit lazy, adequate foreplay. Maybe an o if I got to grind just right. Some nice cuddling after. Terrible, a minute of bad kissing, two minutes jabbing vigorously at my privates and ready to go all in. Don’t even try to last, Just get it over with already. ( you know who you are) Good. Slower at first, each new step I can’t wait for the hand or tongue to go there, building momentum, one o minimum . Great see above…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:52 AM
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Sanpaku…..Easy. Why would I want to sexually desire someone I rarely saw? That’s sounds frustrating and unfulfilling. And then I could not love them either, a life of desire without love sounds superficial. To have love without desire, hopefully no desire for anyone. I can’t miss sex if I have no sexual desire. But I can see them and feel love regularly….. The better choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:17 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:53 AM
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after baby #2 is born Oooo, congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:49 AM
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Both of my mom and grandma were part of the statistically “unemployed “ and worked from home doing unpaid bookkeeping , clerical work and payroll for the family business. I don’t think this was uncommon either. Some genealogy was done on the family and census records show most of my dads family as “occupation farmer” and the wives as “homemaker”, like women weren’t part of planting, harvesting and caring for livestock on a subsistence farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:12 PM
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Tradcons always look to the umc people portrayed 1950’s tv for their historical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:58 PM
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Lol, I didn’t realize side bitches was literal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:57 PM
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Meh, tell him you keep it warm by putting it up your ass while you’re back in the kitchen. With a smile on your face of course That will shut him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:52 PM
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Boy, I just don’t know enough about the culture there. You sound fairly socially liberal enough for a red state US big city for sure, and would be a very popular type of guy in our burbs. I think a big city Canadian woman =/= a big city Texan. In the southern Atlanta burbs you could snag a girl who could dress out a deer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:44 PM
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I would say it’s just as much about your taste in music, your exposure to different cultures, how close to a major city you are. The northeast is way more densely populated, suburban areas are more likely to have rail, exposure to the city. And you are more likely to engage with out gay people on a daily basis, know the difference between falafel and somosa and know people from a wide variety of cultures. I live almost two hours from Atlanta and two hours from Asheville, so it’s country music, D…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:02 PM
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Ahhhh, Toronto eh? I think Canadian culture is on the whole very different from US culture. Maybe a Winnipeg conservative a bit more like a southern conservative? But a Toronto conservative might be more like a New Jersey moderate? Just guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:35 PM
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See this is very different than where I live though. I’m in the rural white south where most of my neighbors are scared to go to Atlanta and couldn’t tell a falafel from a samosa.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:23 PM
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I’m not sure my electrician husband is especially “sensible” with his bowling ball garden, bottle trees and outdoor chandeliers. 😝 He has always been one to let his freak flag fly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:18 PM
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Lol okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:08 PM
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Sure. More likely to be union, more likely to be moderate. A bit more “citified”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:04 PM
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Because “they are the prize”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:55 PM
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I think it has the potential to warp women’s brains more tbh, and I think I know why. Women have been shown to physically respond to seeing sexual situations, men with men, solo men, women with women and even animals mating. Men respond to seeing the object of their desire or an abstracted body part, for a straight guy if there is no woman or woman parts in the picture, he has no response. I think for women who see a lot of weird porn at young ages, they respond and it causes confusion in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:54 PM
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I think the better example is Fds self proclaimed “kweens” who think they always have the upper hand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:39 PM
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Can’t change mine either. Solid take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:37 PM
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Looking is one thing, updating is another. I agree that men who claim they don’t look are lying. In every single instance of monkey branching I’ve ever seen, she has already decided to check out and is just waiting or actively looking for something else to come along. It’s not a crime of opportunity, it’s an escape plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:30 PM
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So so damn weird…. like do manosphere bros talk about trading their dog in every time a cuter dog comes along? Or tell your mom to fuck off cause a way cooler mom wanted to adopt you? You realize that at least some other people might actually get emotionally attached to people they date, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:17 PM
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Tell her you’re a cancer with dick rising then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:22 AM
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We seem to be going through a super neurotic phase around here lately. It’s even making me start to miss the angry nutjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:20 AM
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Lol, you have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:20 AM
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I say you give her a chance, while still being honest about not committing. You don’t have to come right out and say “I don’t find you attractive “, just that I’m not really available or any other “it’s me not you” bullshit to spare her feelings. The thing is to be able to get out of it with no one hurt. If she is considered unattractive to a guy with no dating experience either, she might benefit from the experience too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:07 AM
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Suburban Deep South, this guy would fit right in. He could totally find a nice nurse or schoolteacher who wanted a family with a guy like him. Suburban northeast, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:06 AM
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Yeah, I am with you. Not interested in men in my socioeconomic class either. Female engineer and I married a blue collar city boy. Definitely not racist, homophobic or conservative, but he was raised by pretty liberal parents. Nice to meet a fellow outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:02 AM
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Should these kinds of men give up on the idea of a life with traditional family? And are they of any value to women in suburbs and cities? I mean it’s odd question in my opinion. No, they probably won’t appeal to a lot of urban women, but the guy you described doesn’t live in an urban area. There are still women in rural areas. Fwiw, my h is a blue collar guy and fits your description pretty well except for the hunting and the voting conservative part. I have an engineering degree. He was raised…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:55 AM
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Do you think it’s innate or is it some mother to daughter/media “don’t want em to think I’m easy” bullshit? As a woman who is not a prude, I still think it is something innate. You always have that fear of pregnancy in the back of your mind. You are naked and alone with some one much bigger and stronger who you might not know that well. It’s a very vulnerable position. You are the penetrated, not the penetrator, another vulnerable feeling. Plus, woman don’t have the same sexuality as men, probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:56 AM
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Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:41 AM
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My mama always said, Tinder is like a cesspool of std’s, you never know what you’re going to get
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:29 AM
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Okay, now this has given me fomo😡!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:40 PM
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Years ago my best friend had a two week affair…..with my boss….while she was visiting me. Awkward. They were both single,no harm no foul….but….did it have to be HIM🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:38 PM
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In fact, infidelity would probably lead to more children. Men who fuck around are more likely to have kids with multiple women. It's the guys who are committed who will probably have fewer kids Men aren’t the bottleneck, women are. If one man has rights to breed the whole village and each woman has two kids, that’s still replacement level fertility. What typically happens with the male cheater is the Donald Trump case. 3 kids with #1, 1 kid with #2, 1 kid with #3. He has 5 kids, but between his …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:01 PM
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It's more like we know a component of our desirability is our ability to provision resources, and not bringing in the lion's share of them causes strain on relationships I think this is a great point. I’ve always outearned my h. It’s not always easy when “provider” has been so closely linked with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:11 PM
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I regret I have but one upvote to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:50 PM
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My first was also his first, and we both knew. My ltr of 7 years was a virgin, did not disclose. I honestly didn’t know. First times between young people are often awkward. By round three the next morning I couldn’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah, or busy having threesomes in Mexico with your submissive wife and your girlfriend .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:10 PM
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As long as you don’t pretend anything, either way you’re good. No one has to know, you don’t have to advertise it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:09 PM
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I’m saying there is no reason for for you to share the fact you have no experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:56 PM
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Abuse abuse abuse. ABUSIVE! It’s so completely overused. I saw a reddit recently saying submissives who acted bratty towards their dom were “abusive”. Men overuse it too, ….not as much as women, ….but they overuse it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:46 PM
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don’t know who females are picking and don’t claim to. They don’t share that with me. I don’t know who inexperienced men are before having sex with them I’ve had them not share that and have found out after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:39 PM
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By definition, agreeable means to agree to circumstances that are less than ideal. No one says they CANT, they just aren’t the type to rock the boat. (That’s why I like passive as a descriptor more than agreeable, but I digress)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:24 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:18 PM
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If you sit someone down long enough they’ll be able to explain their bad behavior. Sure . A bully will bully because he has been bullied. But he also chooses to bully. You either believe in free will or not. I believe in at least some measure of free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:58 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:23 PM
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And the irony of men whining about women whining about men whining. Can we all just agree to stop whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:09 PM
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Men tried to talk about these issues, care to guess what happened? Yeah. They didn’t get thrown in jail or knocked down by fire hoses. They got “shamed”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:08 PM
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I’m not crazy about “agreeable and disagreeable “ to be honest. My first gut reaction to disagreeable is someone I don’t want to be around. I would frame it as people who are active vrs passive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:05 PM
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People cheat to fulfill some psychological need, once that need is understood then they may be able to work on THEMSELVES Exactly. Implying it’s often an internal problem, not an external reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:41 PM
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We can’t make guys like fat chicks either, but we sure as hell can stop them from being intentionally mean for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:39 PM
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No, it’s perfect and true. If someone wants to be a cheater, they will find an excuse to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:34 PM
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The guy performing the vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:24 PM
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What's the leading cause of the infidelity tho? Being a cheater. 🤣 Reddit gold right there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:23 PM
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I tried to ask one, pointed out very clear discrepancies in his posts. He said that I must be in a bad place. Okay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:18 PM
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If I could squeeze it into my schedule. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:16 PM
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One stupid person opens mouth. Stupid words fall out. AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:15 PM
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Of course they need to meet a minimum looks threshold. Every woman has a different threshold. No matter how fantastic a woman is, and how beautiful her face is, many guys will not consider her if her body doesn’t meet a certain threshold. If her face is absolutely gorgeous, and her personality is good, but her body is just acceptable, many guys would still be glad to date her. If it’s below acceptable, it’s a no go. And every guy has a different threshold for what’s acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:07 PM
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I don’t condone the mentally ill killing innocents over crazy theories That’s not over civil rights. If you want to see legitimate grievances like unfair child custody laws, disparities in sentencing, disparities in social services etc, then stop saying that being “shamed” is the only thing holding you back from protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:00 PM
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Oh my god, yeah thought about that too. The recent 30/35/45 year old poster, …depending on the post, ….who was married to a sweet shy virgin who gave him 3 ways on the regular, went on vacations with him and his girlfriend and was very happy to let him cheat because he was such a hvm, while she remained faithful herself. Apparently 40 year old married men have to beat off super hot, wealthy 25 year olds with sticks. Yeah, that happened……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:45 PM
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How many of the men who cheated did so because their sex life changed? Lots. If you don’t want your sex life to ever change, don’t have kids. Also, don’t get old. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:38 PM
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This. The whole hand wringing over having to have something more than passable looks and guys who claim they would wife up any good looking chick who wasn’t a total bitch as if that was a virtue. Not being picky =/= not being shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:30 PM
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Oh good, I liked her honesty and her perspective on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:16 PM
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The suffragettes ("first-wave feminists," as commonly referred) were terrorists, undeniably. They have a long stark history of bombing and setting fire to nationalized and private-property under the guise of "activism," for example, I recall they bombed outside the Bank Of England……. Every movement for rights has been led by people willing to do unlawful acts All something men’s rights advocates need to remember when they whine about how their movement can’t ever go anywhere because they might g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:15 PM
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I can't even remember the last time I saw a new idea or thought here. The problem is…I see many of the same old myths continually perpetuated…..every time I check out for a month or so, I check in to see the same crap being shoveled out to a fresh crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:05 PM
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In the OP here, it is stated: "permanently single dudes I know all have issues". But what this assumes is that they had issues from day one. You haven't considered that their issues developed from their experiences. We don't know whether the chicken or the egg came first! This is a GREAT point. Lots of guys who don’t have a lot of early success internalize it and go forward with a defeated ego and a losing attitude, and let’s face, most men don’t have a lot of early success I accept a lot of tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:01 PM
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Yeah, salty actually has me worried tbh. Great guy. Penny stayed active in other subs for a while, and just faded out here. I don’t know if she still does Reddit Dora posted a few times with an alt I think Also loved it when OmarBradley put the amateur historians back in their place. She used to be a much more frequent poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:44 AM
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Saltybastard Nobless0blige Pennnylame There was a woman with Dora in her name
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:36 AM
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This u/SmurfESmurferson is 100% The “threshold”. Height is an easy way to explain the concept. My preference is 6’, but generally taller than me is my threshold. One of the best looking guys I ever dated was my height, 5’6”. His face was an 8 though. My ex bf was 5’8” but he was incredibly smart, kinda cute, and extremely ambitious. He was also, other than his height, specifically “my type”, so I was drawn to him anyway. Would I have dated them if they were only 5’2…no, probably not. Did the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:58 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:36 AM
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I say, in my experience women are the ones who comment on men's bodies Unhuh https://genius.com/Smash-mouth-sorry-about-your-penis-lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:24 AM
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No…….I am saying doesn’t need to continue to lift. It looks weird, unnatural and unattractive, to me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:04 PM
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Of course “women do it too” to men, and men to women. The whole body positive movement AMONG women, is to support and bolster women, by women, for women. There is no such thing as men supporting men. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:54 PM
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Really? https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/the-outsized-fury-of-the-manlet Edit, apparently the knowledge that men themselves were the ones who coined the term manlet has triggered some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:06 PM
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Okay then I guess your premise is wrong then. There is no double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:59 PM
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So are you then claiming women don’t present a United front of body positivity? Some people talk about people behind their backs, you’re missing my point. Women don’t say other women aren’t women if their breasts are too small or their waist is too thick. Women, at least to other women’s faces, present a United front, all women are beautiful. Men shame other men for not conforming to standards and they use physical appearance to shame not just the way they look, but their actual masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:57 PM
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And mocking someone directly to their face to hurt their feelings is somehow better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:48 PM
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Speaking of height, the term manlet first showed up in male spaces, 4 Chan and bodybuilding forums https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/the-outsized-fury-of-the-manlet Pretty sure women didn’t come up with land whale or ham planet to make fun of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:47 PM
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How old are you? Said pretty much every man on the planet. Women don’t denigrate the femininity of other women based on appearance. Men do this to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:40 PM
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Do you even lift bro? Said no woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah, And there are specific insults I’ve NEVER heard from women, like noodle arms, soy boy, dyel. Men not only shame other men’s bodies, if other men’s bodies don’t conform to their standard, they shame their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:24 PM
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Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:44 PM
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Yeah, this too. Women should be sahms and rely on their husbands for support but they shouldn’t judge men on how much money they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:43 PM
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The tradcon guys on this sub are totally schizophrenic on this issue. A sahm is so valuable, her work is priceless, holding the family together, raising the children. But if they separate? Why should she get half! She didn’t do anything. Also tradcon men, women should stay at home, not try to engage in careers, they are so important to family life at home……and then, women’s contributions to society have been zero, all of civilization has been built by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:40 PM
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Sex and sexuality were certainly not seen as sin during the Middle ages. They read Saint Paul. Sex wasn't seen as immoral. It was actually an integral part of marriage which was a sacrament. It was only moral within strict confines though, specifically procreative sex. http://www.thehistoryblog.com/archives/4696 I think the author of the book Law, Sex and Christian Society in Medieval Europe” states that only 47 days of the year would marital sex actually be church sanctioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:08 PM
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I dunno, ask the guy who wrote it. It’s not just status. Men will happily bang hot hookers, pay them money and then hide the fact in shame, when they know the hooker is not getting any sexual pleasure at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:37 PM
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Not really. Tradition? Defining the experience as a “date” with romantic intentions as opposed to a gesture of platonic friendship? My h insisted on paying for our first “date”, but we had known each other and had been friends for a decade. We started doing a few things together, just the two of us. I made him dinner a few times, met up at a party, that kind of thing. He asked me if I had seen a new movie out yet, and suggested a restaurant. He wasn’t making that much money, I was, but he absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:24 PM
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And that its not as easy as X size or whatever That’s why I choose the 12 picture array. Women keep stating they don’t like the gym bro bod. This shows where and how his body creeps into weird and gross to me. If by week 3 , maybe four, he picked up running, swimming or something other than lifting, his body would have been great imho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:02 AM
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Still not digging that body, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:54 AM
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If we are talking sexual appeal, then I’m talking how he looks shirt off. Sorry, he’s just not attractive to me. He really mostly just needed to lose weight for my taste
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:45 AM
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More and more I see this complete catch 22. Men completely neurotic over perceived problems in the smp. They don’t fuck as good, they might get rejected, some bogeyman feminist might destroy their entire life if they approach a woman. Fact is, the reason they don’t do well with women is simply because they are neurotic. Are you going to be a good lay if you are neurotic? Going to have swag to slay with chicks? It is their own neurotic personality holding them back, not changes in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:28 AM
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Edit: also can you imagine medival sex? Like, people didn't even shower back then 🤢 I doubt there was anything oral. Pretty sure there were at least some women in Canterbury tales enjoying sex and some pretending to like it. One woman got some booty licking action too https://www.bustle.com/p/7-times-the-canterbury-tales-was-way-dirtier-than-50-shades-of-grey-66368
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:24 AM
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James Joyce was poor. He was born into a middle class family who lost all their money and attended school on scholarship. He met Nora when he was in his early 20’s. He did become quite famous later, but always had financial problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:56 PM
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Well if you have to give her half, then that is on you for not getting a prenup before marriage. And it’s also on you to make sure that you marry someone who works while married. Hey, I’m a woman and I pretty much agree. But just saying that most tradcons love to extol the virtues of the sahm, and talk about how valuable she is, but suddenly the dollar value of all her work should be zero if the couple splits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:11 PM
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See above average men fucked hot girls that found them disgusting. in other words, many men got what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:07 PM
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Does it make you feel better about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:55 PM
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you think not telling people my real age means anything When you are posting about how women much younger than you want to date you, I kinda think your actual age might be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:51 PM
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So you grew up in the same small town, you know everything about this woman, her finances etc, and she has no clue you are married….if you even are? You posted your age as 30 just a month ago, claimed you met your wife when she was 27 and have been married 10 years, lol. Dude…you know people can see your WHOLE profile, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:38 PM
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There were definitely wild, kinky and passionate couples. The letters between James Joyce and his wife were crazy. Legend goes she gave him a hand job on the street the first night they met. Oral, anal, it’s all there in the letters https://allthatsinteresting.com/james-joyce-love-letters-nora-barnacle Despite “Victorian” being considered a buzz word for sexually uptight mores, Queen Victoria and Prince Albert had an extremely robust sex life, complete with pornographic art to spice up their lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:18 PM
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Shit test her right back and ask her “you paying? I’m eating”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:04 PM
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Look, it’s great if women want to stay home when the kids are little, but it’s just not a lifelong “job” anymore. My mom worked doing payroll and accounting for the family business, but never worked outside the home. She also had 5 kids spread 14 years apart, that’s 20 years of having a preschooler in the house to take care of. This is really rare these days, most people have two kids, two years apart. Staying out of the workforce is just a luxury these days, not a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:36 PM
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Until the divorce, then it’s usually “I brought in all the money (ie did all the PAID work) and have to give her half”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:29 PM
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Should have offered to shave it for her in the shower and then tossed her salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:22 PM
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Pornstaches. I love beards. I love mustaches with that little soul patch under the lip, but take away that little 1/2” square of hair under the lip? get away from me. Gingers. Nah. My dad was a ginger. Not much on blondes, especially ones with blond eyebrows As a blond haired, blue eyed, good Lutheran woman, I definitely believe in opposites attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:20 PM
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Lol, I didn’t get to be a ballerina either. But I would still rather be employed than hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:59 PM
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Rape being bad is an artificial idea. Just another way to establish the correct pecking order!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:27 PM
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The proctologist sure gets a lot of flowers and candy on Valentines Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:23 PM
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People always type lol, but this actually had me laughing out loud…not gonna lie, now I kinda wanna try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:21 PM
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👻👻👻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:17 PM
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Dude, a quick dive into your post history shows you are a massive larper You met your wife when she was 27 and you were 35, you’ve been with her for a decade, but in another post, you are 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:13 PM
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LTR and ideally to marriage, yes. Then why would she ever entertain being a side piece to a married man such as yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:36 PM
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35+ is where it's at when looking to form a power couple or break into the next tax bracket... He’s MARRIED, and claims this is his next potential side piece. If she is looking to be part of a power couple, she sure as hell isn’t dating a 35 year old married dude unless she thinks she can break up his marriage. I’m sure a smart hottie in the sausage fest tech world can find do better than being a side piece to a 35 year old married guy. This story has sooooo many holes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:34 PM
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Not really sure why many people act terrified of "catching feels". Are positive emotions towards your sex partner supposed to be "bad"? Oh not at all…of course. The fwb label tends to imply a transitory or casual situation, one that either side can easily and unilaterally terminate the sexual side with “no hard feelings “ and just remain completely platonic friends. There in lies the problem with catching feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:32 PM
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This. Not even a text. He really didn’t like her or want a relationship with her in the first place. My ex was a 20 year old virgin when we got together and we probably had sex 40 times in the first 30 days. If he liked her, he would have found the time to at least figure out when they could see each other, not ignore her for 5 days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:43 AM
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Think the flair was the biggest clue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:35 AM
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I don't treat her like my gf and I didn't reach out or reply to her texts and calls for 4-5 days. not replying to a text for 4 or 5 days barely qualifies as treating someone like an acquaintance. If you spent all those years as an incel and trying to lose your virginity and then went 5 days without at least making plans to smash, you weren’t into her AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:32 AM
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Now you get it! “Women my age see me as beta buxs, young chicks see me as a successful alpha. Or they will if I can find one to date me, I think I’ll look overseas.” Every damn day, same post.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:18 AM
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Eh, because we're good friends who have sex a couple times a month At my age and after a few decades….we just call that married, but I digress…. So her second paragraph resonates with you, you feel intense attraction and emotional connection. Would you like to have sex or express your feelings for him in a physical way more? I dunno, it just seems like you just might…love him? I’m being nosy I guess, but fwb has just never been doable for me. I can have a ons with a friend, but just a couple of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:11 AM
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40 year old is delivering far more in bed than most 25 year olds Good grief…and this is coming from an old person. It doesn’t take 20 years to get good in bed and trust me….a lot is lost in that 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:56 AM
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Reading your posts makes me curious…why do you always refer to him as just a fwb? Seems you are in an emotional relationship, committed in its own way. Why isn’t he boyfriend, partner, lover …..Fwb just doesn’t seem to reflect the depth of your feeling for this guy. To me a fwb is kind of placeholder, a way to satisfy sexual needs with someone you like, until something better comes along. No judgement, just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:49 AM
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I can fantasize about the pool boy until he’s done fucking me…because being married to him means I have a fucking pool 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:39 AM
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Living with parents to not pay rent. Owns multiple properties in New York …lives with parents …..to not pay rent. Started with Google at 20. Sure, this story totally checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:54 AM
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Okay…you won ppd for the day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:50 AM
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Someone has been wishful drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:41 AM
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And I have met hot psycho bitches that men chase after like flies on crap. He gets girls because he’s hot, not because he’s a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:20 AM
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I'm not super nice and don't try to be. Of course they don't want me It writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:16 AM
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That article basically states that the most obvious desire is “taller and stronger”, not less agreeable. I don’t think we need studies to tell us the sexes are drawn to dimorphic traits in each other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:09 AM
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She might be coming together with some hotter dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:35 AM
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🎼 Oh, she loves me so She hates to be alone She don't eat meat But she sure like the bone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:33 AM
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I call them mine if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:20 AM
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It’s YOUR use of the word “appealing”, certainly not mine. You claimed the results were enhanced to make those pictures more appealing. I literally quoted you..and no, imho, week 12 is very unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:37 AM
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before this photo op to make it more appealing I feel like this convo is flying right over your head…no it is NOT more “appealing” to me and to many women. Go look at the other thread about standards. #1 comment from women is they don’t like this type of body. Some do, many don’t. I personally much prefer a long lean ectomorph.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:21 AM
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whatever, he’s still not sexually attractive after 3 months. He mostly just needed to lose weight to be more attractive to me. Like I said, if he enjoys it, good for him. I swim with dudes at the pool who are extremely fit, low body fat, way less bulked up and way more appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:09 AM
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We had a guy that used to post daily that he hated women his own age because they were the women who rejected him in his youth and they just wanted his money. But now that he was older, young women were going to love him for his true self. You could not convince him there was a flaw in his logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:50 PM
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Not coffee vrs alcohol, I think fruity drink/ black coffee would be very different than scotch rocks/cappuccino. My husband doesn’t drink alcohol and orders unsweet tea, I like dark beers, this happens to us a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:32 PM
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Also….to get an education, find a decent career before cranking out kids, …….but yeah, also to find a compatible sex partner rather than spend an entire lifetime with the first one to come along. I’m glad I’m not stuck with my first. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:17 PM
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Well when you marry at 17, sure…probably lots more n counts of 1 for both. We don’t get married at 17 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:09 PM
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4Bridal pregnancies were very common in The Netherlands in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, as they were in other western, central and northern European countries. Overall, roughly a quarter to half of all brides were pregnant upon marriage. For instance, for Flanders Vandenbroeke (1979, 209) reports about 25% in a sample of communities in 1850-1880. In his sample of German villages, Knodel (1988, 214) found a similar percentage (26) for the nineteenth century. For nineteenth century east…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:01 PM
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https://www.cairn.info/revue-annales-de-demographie-historique-2016-2-page-165.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:22 PM
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Hey, if he’s happy, good for him. If he’s messing up his hormones and shrinking his balls because he thinks it’s appealing to women….he might just be mistaken, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:25 PM
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Yeah, this is an attempt to give a 12 picture visualization and more clarity to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:22 PM
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https://agentlemanslifestyle.com/body-transformation/ Very specifically, for me, week 3 is the most appealing. Week 3 minus a few more pounds would have been even better. By week 9? Gross. I’d rather week 1 than week 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:55 PM
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Overly muscular builds, gym bros who lift. Veiny dudes. Nah. I’ll take a lean, moderately muscular runner or average guy on the amateur swim team any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:29 PM
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We can all make our own deals I suppose. Not the deal I have with my husband, make sure yours is fully aware going in. If he starts getting some erectile dysfunction or becomes ill, I’m not planning on bringing my new fiancé to his funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:53 PM
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How is this any different? I’m not making any value judgment…one is a good reason to leave, while one is a bad reason…..but they are different. Sometimes people leave when they feel no effort and no compromise from the other side, they feel devalued like their partner isn’t trying. They interpret that lack of effort as a lack of love. When looking at leaving because of an illness or disability, you are not leaving due to lack of effort from the other side. The one leaving might not be able to em…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:43 PM
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Actually, a lot of women freely admitted it was due to insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:24 PM
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dated 5’9 and 5’6. They had good face or swag that melted me heart/panties. It’s funny how some preferences can fly out the window when you are drawn to a person for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:02 AM
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If I’m ordering up some perfect , ideal man from a menu? 5’11 to 6’1 is great. I’m 5’6” That said, I find sex is more comfortable with 5’8 than 6’3, and would take a 5’9 model over 6’3 mediocre any day. I like tall, but not too tall. Too short would be 5’4, too tall is 6’4 I would MUCH rather date a short man than be single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:41 AM
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What if he was a sahd?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:56 AM
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Not sure. I mostly knew the boyfriend. He’s the one told me they both were friendly with the older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:34 AM
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Lol what stupid game? Cheating on the wife because of young pussy, marrying up the young pussy without a prenup and without taking into consideration she was a psycho golddigger. Then cheating so he could be with the ex. Total cluster. The little head was doing the thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:29 AM
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Being extremely wealthy is different. If it was money I'd never miss I probably wouldn't care that much. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:18 AM
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if your daughter came to you telling she got sexually abused would you not believe her too? Where did you ever get that idea?What part of my acknowledging how common sexual assault is did you miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:09 AM
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😝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:04 AM
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They sailed around the world, he sent them a ham for Christmas. 🤷‍♀️ I’m not kidding either. He was older and extremely wealthy…she was hot and a total bitch….I think he was just glad to be rid of her. He was cheating on his first wife with her, and then cheated on her with his first wife. The only thing no one could understand was anyone could be locked together in a sailboat with a such an unpleasant woman. Her nickname in our circle of friends was “vinegar douche”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:57 AM
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Here’s the thing, only a tiny percentage of men are rapists, murderers and pedophiles, and yet it’s still extremely common for women to be molested. How are these two things true? Larry Nassar has 265 accusers, Bill Cosby has over 60. Just because sexual assault is common doesnt mean it’s common for men to sexual predators. It just means that sexual predators often commit lots of bad acts My brothers, husband, all the men I’ve dated, my friends, my neighbors…..not a single one is a rapist or mol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:48 AM
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Sweet! Me like money. I’ve never known a guy who got alimony, but I absolutely know a guy who lived off of his girlfriend’s alimony from her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:27 AM
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For whatever reason, people just have a hard time accepting that they might hold a negative bias. Interesting though, …I think you have stated you no longer date straight women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:20 AM
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Great logic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:50 PM
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You realize you were the one making the generalization, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:38 PM
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I’m one, ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:09 PM
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Men aren’t bad. Some do bad things that are typically more common for men to do than women. Women aren’t bad. Some do bad things that are typically more common for women to do. Most people are actually pretty decent but most people have also behaved in ways they aren’t or at least shouldn’t be proud of. Nothing wrong with pointing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:50 PM
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most of them really are pieces of shit who just view women as a maid and a hole, and a large minority are violent. Nope. Sorry. Not even close to a majority or even a sizable minority in my experience and I’ve had more than my share of REALLY bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:31 PM
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Lol woe….I’ll reign it in for the grandma police. Your free to correct whatever you want. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:59 PM
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Then recognize that it’s not “whoa is me, society sucks” and start working on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:47 PM
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Hey, I look at my own naked and aging body….think that’s fun? Lol. Get over it, stop overthinking everything and be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:28 PM
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I’m eating at this restaurant, if I go back….then I’m happy with the food. I’m not obsessed with how much better that $300 meal I had once in Paris was. If you got no return customers to your restaurant? Yeah, you got a problem. A big problem. But, you got a steady and loyal clientele? Comparison is the thief of joy. for those who do suffer from inferiority complexes. Fun fact…you aren’t ever going to be the best at anything, and even if you are one in a million who is, you won’t be the best in …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:25 PM
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Imagine thinking marriage will be the CURE for sexual boredom 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:08 PM
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Meh, all this obsession with “the best” anyone has ever had. My h was 40 when we got married with a huge n count. Was I the best? Good lord, I know I wasn’t as hot when we started dating as the chicks he was banging in his early 20’s. I teased him about a very attractive girl, 10 years younger than me once…he had forgotten he slept with her, then he laughed and said, oh yeah…I remember now! He can’t get it up 10 times a week and keep it up for hours like my ex….who was 20. Are we each other’s “b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:59 PM
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I could get on board if this “difference” wasn’t his need to control addiction tho… He states he is addicted to new partners and new situations. Complete abstinence has been his only control. Waiting to find out after getting married if he can have a normal sex life is a bad idea for him, a horrible idea for the poor woman he is marrying and frankly not just foolish but also selfish. Different is one thing, this goes beyond different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:33 PM
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at least half of the topics were about shitting on women More like 90%. For guys going their own way, women sure take up a lot of real estate in their head
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:03 PM
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Yeah, it’s ridiculous tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:30 AM
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And what happens to this poor girl if … You can’t control your urges and become an addict again You Can’t control your urges without becoming completely abstinent again. Neither of you will know if this will happen until AFTER you marry her. If some chick told you “once I got a dick in me I couldn’t stop, I ended up getting cream pied by random hobos at the bus station “, so “I want to abstain until marriage, no dick till then but I think it will be better once I get a piece of paper”. How does …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:34 AM
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Bully for you and your growth…..How about what’s fair to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:21 AM
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And you want to abstain the whole time? Or just until you feel committed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:17 AM
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Why should a woman wait till marriage to find out you can’t control your sex addiction? You say you could not control yourself in relationships then, so how do you know you will control this addiction once you are in a sexual relationship again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:15 AM
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ask people to abstain for a little bit =/= sexual abstinence until marriage Which are you wanting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:11 AM
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Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:41 AM
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I usually find no matter how flat the pancake, it has two sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:38 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:24 AM
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Adam. Mogged by a snake ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:14 AM
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I don’t know about “female ideal” but……. If I hear “abusive relationship “ one more time I’ll scream. Wtf happened to “we fought too much and didn’t get along”. I know. It happens, sometimes relationships really are abusive, but most shitty relationship happen between people, not from just one of those people. And that description of an abusive relationship is generally from my fellow women. Every damn break up was caused by “an abusive ex”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:54 AM
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The article said A senior U.N. environmental official says entire nations could be wiped off the face of the Earth by rising sea levels if the global warming trend is not reversed by the year 2000. Not A senior U.N. environmental official says entire nations could be wiped off the face of the Earth by 2000 from rising sea levels if the global warming trend is not reversed. In reality, this was probably optimistic that we could turn it around to something manageable even back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:59 PM
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Wrong or just hasn’t happened yet? Fwiw, the prediction my professor had in 1990 was probably 2 degrees, over the next 100 years……seems pretty plausible. Earth’s temperature has risen by 0.14° F (0.08° C) per decade since 1880, and the rate of warming over the past 40 years is more than twice that: 0.32° F (0.18° C) per decade since 1981. Looking at change isn’t the whole story, you need to look at rate of change. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:2000%2B_year_global_temperature_including_Medie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:08 PM
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His prediction He said even the most conservative scientists ″already tell us there’s nothing we can do now to stop a ... change″ of about 3 degrees. ″Anything beyond that, and we have to start thinking about the significant rise of the sea levels ... we can expect more ferocious storms, hurricanes, wind shear, dust erosion.″ Seems entirely possible. Hella a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:56 PM
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The most conservative scientific estimate that the Earth’s temperature will rise 1 to 7 degrees in the next 30 years, said Brown. Which has already happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:50 PM
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NOW before its too late. It was too late a long time ago, my thermo/heat transfer prof said it was way too late back in 1990…..now it’s just about how bad it will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:46 PM
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Sorry, I just can’t resist “It feels like bags of sand when you’re touching them”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:18 PM
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Lol, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:04 PM
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Physically? Yes. I worked two jobs while going to engineering school. Want to know which was “harder”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:03 PM
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“We entered the relationship childfree and marriage free. He changed his mind on both”. So I guess that depends on whether he paid off her debt before or after he changed his mind. Plus, he was cheating the whole time, (edit)…..and was in love with someone else, …..so your definition of “in it for the long haul” is probably quite different than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:13 PM
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compared to becoming a licensed electrician. Lol, what? Where was this? My husband was a licensed master electrician and literally picked it up by osmosis on the job and a single night class at community college. I married a blue collar guy and have a bsme, so I’m not knocking anyone, but getting an electrical license is hardly difficult Edit, changed time frame, my h just told me he had a journeyman license first for a few years. But still…..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:06 PM
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Anecdotal only, but I’ve seen lots of local Laotian kids raised in the US who are already overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:57 PM
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realized some combo of buttons elicits a reaction….. than they actually know what they’re saying So, similar intellect to some ppd trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:01 AM
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because she's probably in her 30s Try 55
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:53 AM
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Don’t want to right now? Huh. Maybe that lady doesn’t want her picture posted here right now either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:42 AM
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Where’s your picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:27 AM
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Took some LSD earlier. Hope everyone here had a good weekend Not as good as yours I need to work on my anxious-avoidant behaviors so I can be happy and actually trust a romantic partner This sub is probably not the best for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:22 AM
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Good…..post it then. I ‘ll be glad to repost it to all sorts of social media, so people can tell you you are unattractive. At least you will expect it. Look, people putting pictures on Instagram to show off whatever assets they have, or think they have, is one thing. Fair game, they are asking for the attention. Reposting pictures of random people clearly meant to share with their family and friends is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:17 AM
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Post a picture of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:06 AM
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Dude, just stop. These people aren’t posting pictures for your amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:58 PM
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⭐️ Take my discount Reddit gold. Wish this post was higher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:33 PM
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more inconsistent than male libido Read below. Yep, it can be off the charts in the honeymoon phase. Lower before that, lower after
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:49 PM
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They’re seen as gay and constantly have to prove their attraction to women. And anyone who has hung around any gay men will tell you a majority of those gay men will tell you he’s actually gay as well, but in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:52 PM
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I know they are all bald, but that is on purpose so they look more "masculine" but ugly? You think these guys actually have hair? Nah, it’s not on purpose. It’s hot despite being bald, not because of being bald. There is “hot ugly” but the only one you mentioned who fits that category in my opinion is Danny Trejo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:48 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:31 PM
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I just googled him. Face looks way better with a beard. A few pictures with facial hair he looked well above average imho. Body ….not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:30 PM
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Lol, no doubt. How my mom died. Glad I didn’t smoke that long and we both quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:16 PM
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We had only been in a sexual relationship for about a month, and both still smoked. My house was raised, but my street flooded, the power was out, phone out, pre cell phone era. I was on my porch when I saw my now husband wading though chest high flood water with two dry packs of cigarettes held high over his head. (We quit together shortly after). Added plus, when the flood was over, he completely dissembled my flooded car, dried it out, reassembled about a week later and it ran like a charm fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:59 PM
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What kind of dude pays for a chick's degree without a guarantee that she's in it for the long haul What kind of dude pays when he’s not in it for the long haul either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:52 PM
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Ohhhh should have just told people you were Scandinavian then. My grandparents would just have pronounced tooth as tootd
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:10 AM
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I had speech therapy as a kid, couldn’t say my R’s. It was a better solution than moving to Boston.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:03 AM
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Okay, I’ve personally never been a girly girl and have no problem with spiders…..BUT …this https://cherokeehighnews.files.wordpress.com/2020/10/comparison.jpg non native has invaded my area. Even my h is too creeped out to kill them with his bare hands. For all of you arachnophobes out there, sweet dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:43 AM
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PPD is a cornucopia of damaged people “who hurt you” is definitely a cliche, but behind very angry people, especially those who seem consumed with anger at a particular demographic, there is often literally…someone/something who hurt them. Especially people who beat the same drum with every post. Every once in a while, what I call the “origin story” slips out, some facts of the case, some unprocessed pain that people have trouble moving on from. We should probably all just put the answer to “who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:56 AM
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Not imho. In my former social circle, I couldn’t name a single low n count person, male or female tbh. Well I guess the n=20 crowd thought the n=100 crowd was a bit too slutty. Still didn’t stop me from marrying a manslut. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:41 AM
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No, they don't like men with high n-counts If I’m ever widowed? Send them my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:37 AM
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I think women get similar disgust from promiscuous men and men do promiscuous women Only the religious, low n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:35 AM
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Lol. Brad Pitt was 5’11”, and 154 lbs when he did fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:21 AM
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Not me…extrovert all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:09 AM
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I’m with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:45 PM
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Yeah, I got that…it’s one of those things that works great until it doesn’t. Then one side cries divorce rape and the other side never does catch up financially and neither is happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:39 PM
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Meh….keep your heart open…maybe you’re not ready….yet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:24 PM
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I mean I get that in a way, but it really depends on the couple and the agreements they make between the two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:23 PM
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Actually, it’s now not that uncommon in Atlanta at least. It’s still no where near a majority, but I see as many black women with white guys as black guys with white chicks all the sudden. My brother has three mixed race grandkids, and his oldest granddaughter is in a prestigious music program. Both her college boyfriends have been white
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:19 PM
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Not necessarily submissive to be a sahm. If you want to be a stay at home parent when your kids are little it makes perfect sense to me. If you want a lot of kids, being a sahm for 10 or 15 years might be great for your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:13 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:09 PM
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I really did believe we would always be in each other's lives. I still really miss her lol Call her up. I reconnected with my best friend after years of not speaking. We talk every day again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:07 PM
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How much lard should a fella pack to give you tingles? None for me thanks. Again, this was a “guy” group? Ask them how much lard a man has to have before their butthole lubes itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:05 PM
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For example there are guys who wouldn’t take certain girls out in public or introduce them to friends/family because they don’t think she’s pretty enough. Aka “the moped”, fun to ride but you don’t want to be seen with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:24 PM
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For example my father was not allowed to bring his trash mistresses into the house. That never stopped men from knocking them up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:47 PM
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Lol, that’s hilarious. You should tend bar for a few years and witness the tragedies that men will throw a fuck into when they are horny. High status men have historically paired with as many women as they could outrun https://www.cbsnews.com/news/who-is-mildred-baena-arnold-schwarzenegger-love-childs-mother/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:42 PM
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We are programmed to value neotenous features, and women are typically much more babyfaced than men https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20160913-the-benefits-of-having-a-babyface
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:37 PM
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Doesn’t compute. If only a few men breed with multiple women, you think they are average guys? Cuz high value men don't breed Beckies? Lol. Lots of men dumpster dive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:31 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool Women have no problem passing on their genes, it’s men who don’t pass on their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:43 AM
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This, it’s almost always a mix for me, with it varying wildly even with the same partner. Even with a ons, I typically (hopefully) feel at least a touch of some warm fuzzy affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:32 PM
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Being obsessed over/creepy about celebs or people one is attracted to is an adult behavior? Lol. Okay…I am fully functioning adult and plaster my walls with posters of my celebrity idols. Then I practice kissing my hand. I’m not dodging any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:01 PM
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it's borderline creepy how much they obsess over these men Are you calling them stunted or something? Welp then…what would you call them🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:00 PM
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Ah, yes. A woman who would have sex with him Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:56 PM
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Google “male Kpop fans” https://www.reddit.com/r/kpophelp/comments/ciy4uj/are_there_any_other_male_listeners_of_kpop/eva1ww3/?utm_term=32366289603&context=3&utm_medium=comment_embed&utm_source=embed&utm_name= 53% male….so just because there are “fans” doesn’t mean all those people are sexually attracted to them. I’m a fan of Thom Yorke. Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:49 PM
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shaking the machine to get stuff out Most of the deaths women cause are from dudes trying to get something in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:30 PM
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Well my daddy always told me “Vending machines will get you killed young lady” so……his post makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:26 PM
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do you genuinely believe most women would find this boy NOT attractive? Most WOMEN will not find this BOY sexually attractive. Most GIRLS will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:23 PM
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actually made all the right and smart choices. but it still never seems to work out for her. Sounds like my early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:06 PM
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There might be more outlandish behavior among the outlandish, I dunno, but….. spring break scene in some show So, likely still not the experience of the average spring breaker. Reminds me when we took my mom to Mardi Gras and told her she needed to take more bags for beads. She looked at us like we were crazy, and thought you only got beads by baring your boobs. Brought home three huge bags before she got bored. Can I take you to the 5 or 6 blocks where this happens? Yes. Do most Mardi Gras reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:59 PM
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Spot on 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:36 PM
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Girls Gone Wild was from the late 90’s. It captured the most outlandish behavior of the era. Those videos probably didn’t reflect your experience in the 90’s either. It’s called editing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:31 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:01 AM
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but otherwise fine Just what we all want to hear…gee Becky you’re kinda okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:00 AM
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25 years and counting!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:53 AM
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I didn’t feel any chemistry” or “I’m looking for a spark”. The more I think about it, the more ridiculous and illogical this reasoning seems. Well you might be right that it seems illogical, but in my experience, as illogical as it may be, if you don’t have that intense attraction, you won’t get it. I really tried to date a few logical choices, mostly fellow engineers. I tried hard with a 666, decent looking, very into me. We dated a few months. He would have been a very logical choice, but no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:22 AM
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swiping and crying Another great country song in the making
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:16 PM
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Too bald at 22 for Rogaine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:09 PM
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fucked his ugly babysitter Ethan Hawke? https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.the-sun.com%2Fentertainment%2F2253753%2Fwho-ryan-shawhughes-ethan-hawke-wife%2F&psig=AOvVaw2WFNeOWzRDgG1ppJo8LSRD&ust=1633978639993000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCMjd8PXCwPMCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAP Robin Williams? https://www.alamy.com/los-angeles-ca-june-9-l-r-producer-marsha-garces-and-comedian-robin-williams-attend-event-on-june-9-1991-in-los-angeles-california-photo-by-barry-kingalamy-stock-phot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:07 PM
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https://youtu.be/eU0JpLMJY6U
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:44 AM
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Say it louder for the back….I have stated before that at least SOME of the 30% of sexless men are so by choice, or for whatever reason sex is not a priority. The involuntary celibate and the ones very much bothered by their own sexlessness insist this is simply impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:59 PM
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Germany He’s Muslim. Post history…..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:51 AM
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How about “I’m never fucking another goddamn man as long as I live” phase. Talk about a red flag. Whoa the man who showed interest in me then. As a happily married woman, I NOW refer to that part of my past as my “celibate phase”. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:42 AM
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Bingo…this was my response to the hookup culture thread 3 days ago It was great for certain times in my life tbh. When I broke up with my ex bf, I spent two years completely celibate and had a fair amount of hookups for the next three years. When it stopped being fun, I stopped doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:52 AM
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Exactly. I did TONS of stuff when I was younger that I don’t want to do now, but I don’t regret having done most of the crazy shit in the least
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:48 AM
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If there is no regret then it is just a change of lifestyle and not a character development. It is a change of lifestyle because you were forced to start dating the resourceful guys because you realized that you start aging and eventually your looks fade My h and I both have higher than average n counts. We both were ready to settle down. Neither of us regrets our wilder days. I have news for you, people of any age still have loads of options for casual sex with people of a similar age. I know m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:42 AM
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But she puts the bag on you because she secretly wants to tag team you with her mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:37 AM
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Check
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:08 PM
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Retin a
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:12 PM
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The phase, no. Two specific experiences, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:54 PM
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Unsurprisingly, the sound advice is coming from the people with experience in LTRs. I think it’s easy for all parties to be horny and down when the relationship is fresh, you see each other only once or twice a week and you have been anticipating seeing them all day. When you are together 24/7/365? Then try that for a few decades. Most couples have sex once a week, what are the odds you will both just magically be in the mood at the same time? That’s why keeping the sexy attitude alive and being…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:27 PM
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Pennnylame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:56 PM
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Logically, I should be more horny after a few days of celibacy, but it's actually the other way round I don’t think this is uncommon at all. That’s why I personally don’t think people should wait until everything is perfect, and both parties are simultaneously super horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:52 PM
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Do you think he ever has sex just to make you happy? Curious to see the flip side of the mismatched libido where the wife might want sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:01 PM
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Yep. I got serviced a little while back and my husband declined reciprocity. After we curled up and he fell asleep on my stomach . After 25 years? I’ll take it. I think people are hung up on the word duty. I call it maintenance sex. It’s not giving in to something unpleasant or painful. It’s just pleasing your partner, and enjoying intimacy when you aren’t really crazy horny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:59 PM
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I would say more similar to not feeling hungry, but then being exposed to a delicious smelling dish. If you are sick or just ate….nah, you still won’t want the food. But most of the time, once you smell the food, you start to salivate, anticipate how good it will taste. It’s probably actually pretty convenient, in a long term sexual relationship where you are together day and night, the likelihood both will spontaneously feel desire at exactly the same time is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:49 PM
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This sub doesn't understand giving in a relationship obviously. I think this sub doesn’t understand sex in the context of a long term relationship in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:32 PM
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get turned on by giving head It can be very arousing. Which is exactly why “to completion “ is much more likely to be a duty bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:09 PM
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The bj as foreplay is almost always out of sexual desire, the bj to completion much more likely to be out of a desire to make him happy, at least around my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:02 PM
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“ALL CAPS” slap fighting. See below……
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:21 PM
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But he didn’t put any effort into my pleasure, the foreplay, or the lead up to sex, (didn’t care if I was turned on or not). He got really fat and couldn’t get hard anymore so the sex was just him trying to stick it in while soft. I need to lose a few lockdown pounds, so thanks for that appetite suppressant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:15 PM
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Right? Like back to the basics here ..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:37 PM
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It's not realistic to expect a man to cater to your libido all the time, any more than it's realistic for him to expect you to cater to his all the time. 🌟 take my Reddit discount gold
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:49 PM
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You and I are pretty much on the same page, my previous comments below you otherwise didnt feel enthusiastic about. …this one is complicated. If it’s a no go, I genuinely don’t feel well. That’s a 0%. If it a meh, maybe, and he can get me physically responsive and it’s tender and comfortable? 20%. Lots of slow, lazy, morning sex like this. I actually enjoy this kind of sex a lot in its own way, more for the cuddles and less for the sex. Am I going to resent you jackhammering me at 6 am like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:47 PM
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she started dropping ass like a pro We have sex now twice a week AT BEST
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:07 AM
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So she likes that so much, she makes it last two minutes? Lol. Does that sound right to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:36 AM
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If she isn’t in the mood…it will make her cum even faster, lol.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:35 AM
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When our libidos are mismatched, my husband doesn’t approach like a pig, he doesn’t order me on my knees, he doesn’t push farther than I want, …that’s the difference between resentment and enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:34 AM
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Let’s review….she isn’t in the mood, but “she lets you” eat her out, and then sometimes gives you oral……but the word “duty “ freaks you out….okay, whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:30 AM
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I stoped in the middle of a sex session once because she seemed like off. I asked her what happened and she said nothing, I kept pushing and to make things short she said she wasn't feeling like it but she was doing it for me. Fucking terrible. Read my response to this question you otherwise didnt feel enthusiastic about. …this one is complicated. If it’s a no go, I genuinely don’t feel well. That’s a 0%. If it a meh, maybe, and he can get me physically responsive and it’s tender and comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:07 AM
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In her own words, she doesn't need to be in the mood for a good lick Annnnd, she doesn’t need to be in the mood…..it’s a middle ground, just like I’m not in the mood, but don’t mind giving oral. It’s not that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:56 AM
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“she lets me”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:50 AM
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I honestly don’t even understand this question in the context of modern sexual mores. You meet, you are attracted, you hang out, you have sex. If one or both isn’t into it, you just hooked up. If you both want to continue seeing each other, you just started a relationship. If you are more sexually conservative you probably hang out longer before sex. There is no formal commitment outside of marriage and in reality, either party can turn sex into a hookup unless you wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:46 AM
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It was great for certain times in my life tbh. When I broke up with my ex bf, I spent two years completely celibate and had a fair amount of hookups for the next three years. When it stopped being fun, I stopped doing it. I think people should do what they want and need. It’s not all women wanting commitment and men wanting hookups. My husband was ready to settle down every bit as much as I was when we got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:34 AM
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out of fear that I would dump them. I mean, I would definetly break up with a woman if I'm not sexually fulfilled. So a woman with a lower libido, who loves you and doesn’t want to lose you should do what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:23 AM
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Btw op…..good topic…one of the few discussions where we might actually learn something about each other and how we experience sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:19 AM
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keep them happy. 10% because you felt it was expected of you 0%. never had a partner pressure me you otherwise didnt feel enthusiastic about. …this one is complicated. If it’s a no go, I genuinely don’t feel well. That’s a 0%. If it a meh, maybe, and he can get me physically responsive and it’s tender and comfortable? 20%. Lots of slow, lazy, morning sex like this. I actually enjoy this kind of sex a lot in its own way, more for the cuddles and less for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:16 AM
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Bugs me how many women say they give "duty blowjobs". I'm also very vocal about being a very sexual man who bails the fuck out of a relationship the moment my needs are not being met. All of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:54 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:46 PM
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I think your characterization of A is more likely to be conservative and your B is the one more likely to be liberal…..as a gross generalization of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:45 PM
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I seem to like the ravishment aspect This. This all day. Every once in a while, I don’t mind it turned around. Initiate hard and ravish him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:24 PM
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Not into it in the least. No judgment, not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:22 PM
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BDSM No. Power play? Yes. It’s nice when one partner is dominate once in a while. Actual choking, spanking or spitting…no I like domination in the form of passion and intensity, the feeling you are irresistible. Pick me up, turn me over, love my body, give into your desire to have me. I don’t respond to a desire to want to hurt me. My line is probably at being held down, flipped over etc, again with the subtext “I want you so bad”, not “I want to hurt you so bad” No judgment, ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:58 PM
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Short skinny….I might be a minority…..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:02 PM
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Then get married. “ being born into a cohabiting family sets the stage for later instability, and children who are born to cohabiting parents appear to experience enduring deficits of psychosocial wellbeing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:59 AM
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Tall and skinny>short and skinny>Tall and jacked>short and jacked. Reality though? Face>body (not fat)>height
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:54 AM
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I just looked it up….statistically, it’s a dead heat. Only 30% make more than their husbands, but 50% now make the same or more. https://www.npr.org/local/305/2020/02/18/807050015/more-couples-are-embracing-female-breadwinners-despite-decades-old-stigma But this also brings up the point why most quality women insist on marriage instead of cohabitation. Most quality women realize having kids will ultimately diminish their earning power, they are willing to take the hit for the sake of the kids, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:35 AM
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If someone says “you’re smart” they get “me, I’m not smart” or “you’re the smart one” or silence in return. I don’t think it’s that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:21 AM
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Actually, he looks pretty handsome in this picture. In others? Not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:18 AM
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This could just be how he was raised. I was raised by Danes and Janteloven is the default social custom. You can give compliments, but it’s considered boastful to accept them. I was pretty much taught, “no you” was the appropriate response to a compliment Doesn’t mean he still doesn’t appreciate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:45 AM
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Ahalt?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:30 AM
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🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:08 AM
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You really didn’t make the contrast great enough. Guy on the left just needs to Rogaine that beard, he’s not an ugly guy in the least. Dude on the right looks like he gets ass fucked at the airport bathroom. Guy on the left, all day. Btw….how tall are they, how much do they make and how big is their dick /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:55 PM
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Some of the red pill field reports are such obvious fiction, it’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:39 PM
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https://www.shutterstock.com/image-illustration/angry-man-pump-rage-face-meme-507511672
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:48 PM
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borderline mentally ill Lol, omg. Harsh facts, but facts none the less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:41 PM
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As long as they are happy…in other words anything but an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:04 AM
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as long as he's not slutty Good luck https://relationshipsinamerica.com/relationships-and-sex/figures/8-2.png
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:01 AM
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“ A sizable minority of childless men (44% of those 18 to 49) hope to become fathers at some point, and another 35% are unsure if they want to become parents, according to a 2017 Pew Research Center survey. Among childless women in the same age group, 50% want to become mothers, while 22% are unsure if they want to.” https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/06/12/fathers-day-facts/ This is men who are currently childless, so when added up, a large % of men do want or already have kids. Only 21…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:33 AM
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He was above average in looks. He was SERIOUSLY below average in personality and probably a mentalcel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:19 AM
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CASUAL SEX…NOT YOU PICKLE…low n count girls don’t have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:12 AM
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At least you got some practice talking up a strange girl and getting her into a conversation. Sounds like you even made her boyfriend a little jealous. Before the goodbye, should have asked her if she had a younger sister
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:44 AM
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Good for them. She’s not a kid, she’s 37 years old. My best friend just lost her husband, he was 23 years older. Personally, I think older guys are gross and have zero interest in having sex with them. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:25 AM
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I love a good pit lickin….lol. I’m on an anonymous board.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:53 PM
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“The demographic profile of the suspected Capitol rioters is different from that of past right-wing extremists. The average age of the arrestees we studied is 40. Two-thirds are 35 or older. “ “Gen. Z came of age in the era of Trump––and they overwhelmingly view him unfavorably. In the 2020 presidential election, 65% of young voters cast their ballots for Biden, versus only 31% of whom voted for Trump. This difference of 34% is monumental and signals imminent difficult times for the Republican P…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:52 PM
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Low value men create havoc? Lol. Revolutionaries are men who have no bread. Low value men today in the west can barely get their fat asses off the couch for more Doritos and government cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:39 PM
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Dude…I think you are being shamed for talking about your kinks, not having them. Every body shits, I don’t need a blow by blow of the details. Ever hear of tmi?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:31 PM
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I mean do what you want…people around me seem to make shitty decisions all the time. 🤷‍♀️ I hate the idea that someone gets married or doesnt get married because of what they read on the Internet. Maybe just wait a while before you have kids…cause you can’t shove them back in and restart if it all goes south….just saying….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:23 PM
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Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:13 PM
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So why assume you will marry a broke ass woman? Look around. Who’s more likely to be a broke ass bitch working for minimum wage? A single mom whose never been married or a married mom with a job? Jesus…stop aiming low. Find one who makes MORE than you, then marry her or not. But don’t expect a quality woman to procreate as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:10 PM
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Are you rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:02 PM
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having a big dick Meh. As long as it’s not extreme in either direction, most women don’t care. Most women care about your ability to tie a cherry stem without using your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:59 PM
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And tbh sometimes it varies depending on the day Bingo. Only one thing to learn, how to read the room. And if the reaction isn't much try something else And for the love of baby Jesus,if the reaction is good, don’t stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:57 PM
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Most states require a minimum of a legal establishment of paternity. All states have different rules. If your ex wants to be a real bitch? Lol, watch out. Here’s a fun one: In Missouri, if a child is born to unmarried parents, then the mother is automatically given sole custody with full parental rights. That is unless the mother signs an affidavit acknowledging that her partner is the father. If the mother refuses, then the father must establish paternity via DNA test or court petition. Op why …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:46 PM
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Re beard filler…..Rogaine! Also, I have sparse blond eyebrows and hate that painted on, solid look and brown shades can be tricky on blonds. A year into daily application on my brows has made a nice difference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:39 PM
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Yes. You need to tailor it to your subculture and the type of woman you’re interested in. I agree with u/CloudBerryPunch. Almost anyone can pull off a lightly tinted moisturizer. If you are looking for Alabama sorority chicks, don’t try guyliner but if you are looking for big titty goth girls , have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:12 PM
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That you actually might be able to dig yourself out of poverty? If you like your status as another broke ass crab in the bucket, don’t get married. https://www.stlouisfed.org/publications/in-the-balance/2018/as-fewer-young-adults-wed Not that you can’t build wealth or home equity if you are single, but it is much easier to do with two incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:41 PM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:21 PM
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Both, lol. I love body hair, and I love funny. Also seem to have a particular attraction to Ashkenazi genes, although my husband looks like he has Native American genes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:15 PM
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Dude needs a beard. It would hide his unfortunate double chin and minimize his ears His smv would rise 3 pts, his eyes and skin are good and he’s not fat. Average guy who could easily be above average imho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:08 PM
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Like every other poster here…he probably met a reasonably attractive chick who met none of his stated criteria and is now in luv
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:42 PM
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https://www.funidelia.co.uk/grandma-losing-her-battle-with-gravity-adult-costume-11913.html Can I roll em back up now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:35 PM
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Once you have kids together, the state will interfere for 18 years, married or not. Divorce without kids? Once it’s done it’s done. Plus it’s virtually impossible to maintain completely separate finances when you have kids, married or not. The worst is fighting in court over braces or piano lessons or anything one side deems necessary and the other doesn’t. You can be married and have separate finances very easily. My h and I did exactly this for the first two years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:00 PM
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Yeah…I would recommend anyone entering into to an extremely financially lopsided marriage to get a prenup.. But many couples these days make fairly similar incomes, and two similar incomes can build equity faster than two individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:54 PM
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Owning a home is where the majority of net worth resides in the us, regardless of your income bracket, your home equity is statistically where your greatest net worth lies. Can you structure your life so that this isn’t true? Of course. But most people don’t save shit. Most people have their net worth tied up in a home and if both work, they buy a bigger, better home. Singles more likely to by condos that don’t appreciate or rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:48 PM
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Median Value of Assets for Households by Age and Type Age of Householder Married-couple Male householder 35 – 54 $195,500 $39,260 55 – 64: $375,000 $71,580 65+: $482,900 $141,800 All: $233,100 $37,290
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:40 PM
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Maybe..but interestingly enough, married couples have way more net worth to split than single individuals, married couples have about 4 times the net worth of single men. I owned a house and was an engineer when I got married, my husband was broke at the time. Not gonna lie, it was a gamble. Find one with money if you are that worried
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:36 PM
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Maybe. This rule also proves the woman loves neither herself or her children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:31 PM
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The best relationships are when both have a good balance of independence and reliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:30 PM
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Like myself, ….gilfs? My ideal man https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww4.pictures.zimbio.com%2Fbg%2FBorat%2BLA%2Bpremiere%2BM35fLoFias_x.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.zimbio.com%2FGuess%2Bthe%2BCelebrity%2BBeach%2BBody%2Farticles%2FQNfeyALC5Lu%2FSacha%2BBaron%2BCohen&tbnid=HbFMP88PS1TU1M&vet=10CBYQxiAoB2oXChMImION-amu8wIVAAAAAB0AAAAAEBQ..i&docid=MEbcfAkzByTjLM&w=667&h=1024&itg=1&q=sacha%20baron%20cohen%20shirtless&client=safari&ved=0CBYQxiAoB2oXChMImION-amu8wIVAAAAAB0AAAAAEBQ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:21 PM
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If you are worried about the downsides of a committed relationship, don’t ever have kids. You can get out of a marriage with a spouse who works pretty easily, you can’t ever get out of parenthood, or get out with having to deal with a baby momma for 18 years, not if you want well adjusted kids. Marriage is a piece of paper, parenthood is no fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:06 PM
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Trigger warning….tall, lean and lanky, dark hair especially if it’s curly, dark eyes, fond of facial hair. Pretty much my opposite (except for the facial hair😜). My first boyfriend in 4 grade fits the description, lol. My huge, unrequited high school crush fits the description, my ex was only 5’8” but otherwise fits and my husband fits it to a tee. But a handsome guy is a handsome guy. I have been attracted to all sorts of guys. I’ve never been attracted to big, burly, buff or anything close to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:48 AM
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You look young for 39
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:23 AM
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I definitely have a type. I don’t think many people choose their type, unless they choose mates for how their Instagram page looks. Someone who is my type has a bit more leeway, I will probably think they are attractive and even if they are objectively not anything out of the ordinary, they will be attractive to me. And someone not my type, ie, short , blond, not slim, has to be exceptional in some other area. I dated a guy who was a slightly shorter than me, and a bit stocky, but his face? 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:08 AM
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Ime, very few young women are actually physically attracted to older dudes until they hit mid 20’s, but lots of mid 20’s women are attracted to mid 30’s men. I only knew one girl in college who dated an older guy and she was….not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:46 AM
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I had an Indian TA in a engineering lab who was 🔥. My husband’s gastro is a handsome dude too. When those guys are hot, they are super hot. Unfortunately, most are not and are culturally weird to boot. I don’t think it’s just their looks, I think it’s their overall inability to fit in with western culture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:28 AM
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Or twice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:46 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:36 AM
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now kiss Yeah, more like “get a room”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:20 PM
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Lol, it’s not fine with most low n count women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:00 PM
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You may have never loved someone as a human, with their own feelings, emotions, opinions etc. but sadly, no, I can’t relate. The love I have for the humans I love is absolutely nothing like “luv” for an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:58 PM
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Well that’s how men used to treat their “beloved” object wives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:14 PM
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Ahhh yes, the dude who “collects” cars, as many as he can afford. Just like the “high value men” in the olden days who shelved the old car aside in the garage and picked up a new one to drive when he could afford it. We women LOVED being treated like that when we got stretch marks, saggy boobs and wrinkles and hubby would just get a new young concubine to ride
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:46 PM
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a quality or conservative partner Doe not compute. Choose one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:39 PM
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Don’t speak for all men. It’s simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:36 PM
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It’s historical revisionism to say there has always been a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:35 PM
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If I have low body count I would expect the other person to be the same. This is fine and to be expected tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:32 PM
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So men want to love a woman like they love a new car? Jfc. No wonder they trade them in when they get old, and abandon them when they get sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:29 PM
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Women see individuals, men see objects. So you love women, but see them as objects? If I wasn’t already happily married, the men here would turn me gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:25 PM
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👊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:23 PM
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You’re kidding, right? Every day there all multiple posts about why it’s fine for men and not women to sleep around. Women are cheating whores, but high value men are “exercising their options”. It’s noble for man sluts because it’s hard for a guy to sleep around, but gross for a woman because it’s easy. Sperm is cheap and needs to be spread, eggs are valuable and need to be guarded Ah, hypocrisy, batshit denial of reality, and a fixation on labeling everything “feminism”, the three pillars of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:20 PM
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before I turned 18 Sounds like New Orleans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:13 AM
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Yeah…..I was older than you are now when Katrina hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:05 AM
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You’re only 39, I’m safe, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:03 AM
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Ohhhhh nooooo. I’m OLD. Oldest here. Shit, might have to delete more accounts, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:01 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:00 AM
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Ohhh, I was thinking guitars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:54 AM
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Not like other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:35 AM
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You like anything expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:25 AM
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Well I actually never thought of book as buff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:23 AM
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Spain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:17 AM
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?? Book?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:15 AM
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I think you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:13 AM
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Yeah, I actually imagined him as a happy guy irl who gets salty online once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah, but happier! That looks like a happy guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:53 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:42 AM
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since I’m like the oldest person here. :/ sadly you are not….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:39 AM
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Very cute…Tulane?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:31 AM
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I have contempt for all 30 genders
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:29 AM
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I’m not anti porn. I don’t think it’s been an especially good influence overall, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:29 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/?attachment_id=28971 That’s not what I saw, but I’ll take a deeper dive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:29 PM
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Yeah, just mentioned that to to another poster, could easily account for 2 to 3% of that 10% discrepancy an sexual activity.. good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:26 PM
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Men 33% not looking, women 39% not looking in the 18 to 39 range, certainly not insignificant. I mean that’s pretty high for BOTH sexes in that age range. Also, the default here is always to assume dudes not having sex because they can’t, but at least SOME of the 30% of sexless men might not be all that interested either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:12 PM
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Offf….that’s an EXCELLENT one….it needs to be its own thread. Can I get a link? Is it broken down by age? I find this really easy to believe in women age 40 plus….. Also forgot rise in bisexuality among women, I personally think it could contribute as much as 2 to 3% of the 10% difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:02 PM
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1/3 of marriages occur between those within a years difference in age https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships Couples date almost 5 years before getting married and live together 3.5 years. That means most men are meeting their future wife when she is around 23 and he is 25. https://www.weddingstats.org/average-time-dating-before-marriage/ Age gaps in relationships are much greater in second marriages https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2014/12/04/tying-the-knot-aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:46 PM
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when the amount of sex goes down for young women, women date older, The age gap for marriage, in the us at least, is the smallest it’s ever been in history, so women dating older probably only affects men mostly in the 18 to 20. There is a decrease in sex for those women in their teen years Also you have social media, where women can compare more, a young guy might have won against better guys because the women had no contact to the "better" man in the past so she took the guy that they see on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:56 PM
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Don’t forget puppies…he loved puppies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:12 PM
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Yeah, it does get boring OVER TIME. We are starting later, which also contributes to fewer kids. The upside? Less fomo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:04 PM
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some killer jokes Well done sir, well done
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:29 AM
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Well thirst for starters, but also to copy and paste my response to some else….. Fat is literally feminizing though, it decreases testosterone. Women can get away with a bit more and still be somewhat attractive, women at a healthy weight have more body fat than men to start with, it’s a dimorphic trait. Men might prefer a slim woman but many aren’t put of by a few extra pounds, especially if it goes to boobs and butts instead of belly. Men’s attractiveness takes a much bigger hit when they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:26 AM
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Fat is literally feminizing though, it decreases testosterone. Women can get away with a bit more and still be somewhat attractive, women at a healthy weight have more body fat than men to start with, it’s a dimorphic trait. Men might prefer a slim woman but many aren’t put of by a few extra pounds, especially if it goes to boobs and butts instead of belly. Men’s attractiveness takes a much bigger hit when they are overweight. There is no “ phat in all the right places” for guys. It’s not “fair”…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:23 AM
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Men fail early and they fail consistently Many are already addicted to video games and porn even before puberty. Also, the number of teenage girls having sex has dropped over the years and girls are also staying virgins longer, but everyone’s perception is that everyone else is smashing except for them. I think those two facts do work together to lead guys to give up early and retreat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:14 AM
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Online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:49 AM
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Yeah, part of the decline of friendship and irl human interaction in general, especially among boys and men, AND contributes to obesity and decline of testosterone……it’s all connected imho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:46 AM
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I think there are lots of overlapping reasons. OLD for starters. Complete shit for most average guys. More than half (52 percent) of young men are currently living with their parents, compared to 44 percent of young women. Fewer young men in college which is probably the easiest place to get laid. Hard to get chicks back to moms house…. General increased isolation for both sexes, but more pronounced in men” The decline in male friendships has been precipitous. A May 2021 poll from the Survey Cen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:11 AM
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I’d hear girls talking about what guys in the different bands were hot…… a 5’9 man I am more disgruntled about the fact that I’m not viewed as a viable option for casual sex Lol, and those guys were getting attention because they were musicians, not because they were 5’10”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:41 PM
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You can be terrible marriage material in your 20's and good marriage material in your 30's. My husband has an alt now?, lol. He definitely was not marriage material in his 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:44 PM
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Based on this photo https://en.todocoleccion.net/cinema-photos-postcards/sean-connery-james-bond-007-shirtless-photo-foto~x198552840 I say pretty, pretty, pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:28 PM
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Because if 1% of people do bad things to one person, your likely hood of being a victim is 1%. If one percent of people do bad things to an average of 20 people, your likely hood of being a victim is one in 5. One out of 100 odds or 1 in 5 odds…which one should people be more afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah but it's different? I’m lost. Do we agree that “ very few men rape“ and “sexual assault is disturbingly common” are both accurate statements? Then is it fair to say few men are victims of false accusations but many, many more people (both boys and girls) are victims of assault? I mean looking at the probability of any one particular man being an offender =/= to your probability of being a victim. If you know someone who has already accused dozens of different people of assault and still get…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:02 PM
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…..exactly…... that’s exactly why “very few men rape“ and “sexual assault is disturbingly common” are both accurate statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:38 PM
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A tiny percentage of women file false rape accusations, a tiny percentage of men rape, but there is one distinct difference. Men who rape often rape dozens or even hundreds of times. Cosby had 60 known accusers, Larry Nasser had between 150 and 300. Some dude in the UK was accused of drugging and raping 195 men. Comparing the known, convicted sex offenders who are registered in my county? A little over 1/2 of 1% of all men aged 0 to 100, so only .005% are convicted sex offenders, but I will guar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:18 PM
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My husband wasn’t the primary breadwinner, no one should cheat, everyone should be actively involved in raising their own children, everyone should try to stay slim and healthy and neither my husband or I were pure for marriage…..how does that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:52 AM
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Should be intuitively obvious to the casual observer….women are more likely to read porn…men more likely to look at pictures. There has never been a successful equivalent to Playboy for women, the only people buying Playgirl were gay dudes. https://www.nature.com/articles/ijir201247 “ In other words, men are more sexually aroused by visual stimuli, but women are more sexually aroused by concrete, auditory, olfactory, touch and emotionally relevant sexual stimulation.4, 5, 6 For example, adolesce…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:02 AM
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the message was loud and clear. As a man I am worthless to both society and to women and can get my FREEDOM taken away at any time for any reason. the reason I am against commitments is not because of that experience its really because I am against losing my FREEDOM,.. avoiding the high likelihood of having kids that are gonna be my whole life and then ripped away Lulz. Read what you just wrote. Anyway, I am aware of my issues Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:27 PM
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dads literally have zero value to women or society Not true. Sorry your mom apparently thought so….you did not. You loved him and he loved you it sounds like. Sounds like you went through some trauma being without him. You do realize that isn’t most people’s experience though, right? Even people with divorced parents have can have great relationships with their dad. be prepared to lose them at any moment Tbh, this whole fear of commitment might be less about “my freedom” and more about the fear …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:45 PM
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We aren’t programmed to choose men based on pictures and we aren’t as visual as men. It’s human nature to just give the best looking guy the chance when you have no other information. But choosing from a photo isn’t the be all and end all of our attraction to men. Also, most of the best looking guys interested in committing…well they are already taken, lots of the ones left on online dating are just looking for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:33 PM
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Maybe…at least they get their foot in the door though and get SOME exposure to dating. I keep thinking of that virgin redditor who was a decent looking guy and got lots of female attention after he made an old profile
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:27 PM
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You okay ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:08 PM
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but the baby herself does not need a daddy :( no one can replace a good dad. I had a great dad. A very flawed , very human dad who loved me very much. Sorry that as a man you can’t see or have not experienced how important great dads are. Even if your parents split, if your dad didn’t fight tooth and nail to spend time with you, he’s an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:54 PM
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The only winners are socially awkward men who are photogenic. Maybe 3 to 5% of men. Virtually everyone else is a loser and the average, normal dude is the biggest loser
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:35 PM
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I post when it rains. Mostly from the bathtub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:51 PM
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We all know these posters…..All women bad, all men bad….. Two quotes I find appropriate to this conversation: If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole….. And If everywhere you go it smells like shit, maybe it's time to check your own shoes."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:43 PM
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discussed porn things with friends and family My grandmas policy was definitely “it’s an exit only hole” when it came to butt stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:26 PM
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Same here and only 3 of those get me there…the rest are for the hubby when I’m done or not getting there anyway🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:24 PM
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Atlas as always keeping it real🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:22 PM
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skinny-chasers The skinny ones run faster so it’s much harder to catch them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:09 PM
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Huh? I dunno where you live, I’m in the rural south and this is pretty standard religious teaching http://www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_sex_denial.html I had a friend who was mortified, she was going to marriage counseling at some southern Baptist church and two days later, after discussing the disparity between their sex drives, the minister based the whole sermon on this topic…specifically wives who “defraud “ their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:03 PM
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minor motivation I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:57 PM
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6 has such great face gains from the hair and added facial hair. The after body? Yeah, it’s better. Meh, for me he could have stopped somewhere between before and after and would have been just about perfect. I know you don’t mind a chunkier dude, but 13 after looks? For me? No bueno. Just on body alone, I would prefer the before, but again, I do think here was some stage between before and after I would have found to be an improvement. My mom used to say “that’s why Baskin Robbins makes 32 flav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:52 PM
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I agree. Order of importance is face, second is don’t be fat. And when it gets to the point where youre weird, misshapen, veiny and your pecs are bigger than my boobs? Ewwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:33 PM
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Lol, this is true. Men are WAY more obsessed with both dick size and muscles than most women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:27 PM
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I like skinny men too and actually prefer a few of the before bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:26 PM
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Meh, 9, 15 and 16 just needed to lose a bit of baby fat, a few look worse to me in the after photos tbh. I’ve seen 9 before…prime example of diminishing returns. There is a 10 pic array of his progress somewhere on the Internet, if he wanted a body that would appeal to the most amount of women, dude should have stopped at around progress photo 5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:20 PM
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Both look hotter, but both have better facial hair/hair tbh which makes a lot more difference in my book than the muscles. Second dudes more muscular body looks “off” to me somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:56 PM
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I was attracted to PLENTY of men, just not fellow engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:12 AM
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You realize that sex is still the way we make the babbys and the babbys need a daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:10 AM
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When you're a hot guy, some women will try to create a spark even when there isn't one and neither party is feeling it. Not just hot guys, I tried to do that with guys who were good guys and logical choices, one in particular who was way into me, decent looking, made tons of money, no kids, etc. You really can’t negotiate attraction. Pretty ironic as a young, female engineer, I was surrounded by men and not a single coworker did it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:46 AM
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I can’t do it honestly. Too easy to catch feels especially with someone I already know well. The whole fwb thing is not for me. I know several people who hook up with friends, I think in some circles it’s pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:28 AM
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Oof….glass houses and stones and …something, something, something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:26 AM
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Wife #2?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:11 AM
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Similar story here. I met my ex bf of 7 years in a bar, I thought he was cute, we ended up talking till 8 am and went out for breakfast. An hour into our “first date”,a few days later, I was taking his virginity. First time I laid eyes on my now husband….I thought dammmmmm…he was a mess at the time though so it took many many years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:01 AM
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Pretty much always immediately. I’ve actually “tried” to develop attraction but it doesn’t work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:55 PM
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Jfc, I mean you seriously can’t guess? It’s like people forget the entire purpose of sex is pregnancy and children. Why wouldn’t women want to drop litters with randos that might be gone in a day….let me think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:02 PM
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I volunteer for an environmental benefit music festival every year and u/poppy_blu is 100% right. Mostly young people. Lots more women than men, and lots of opportunities for guys to swing hammers and lift heavy shit. Once the bars get built and stocked, plenty of beer and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:52 AM
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/s It’s hard enough to maintain a great sex life after 20 years, I can’t even imagine how dead that “best friends” bedroom will be if it starts out without enthusiasm, chemistry and deep sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:35 AM
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It’s a fine strategy for anyone who doesn’t prioritize a decent sex life, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:18 AM
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Married long time……he’s two out of three…..ain’t bad. I can get my own money, but I’m into the stability of monogamy and if I only get to have sex with one guy, it’s helps if he happens to be one I really want to have sex with. I’ll go with employed, at least as tall as me, and orally gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:02 AM
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but I have to get back what I give in enthusiasm pretty quick In my experience, this is the way. I was pursued by a few guys and even tried dating a couple of guys on the theory that attraction would grow. It didn’t. Two major relationships in my life and I was completely into both soon after dating. Approach, be assertive, but if it isn’t there, be gracious and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:33 AM
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it's just not the sex you want to see or think about. Lol, the old also fall into this category, but they are having more sex than gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:17 PM
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Average tells you zero….my husband and I both skew these numbers. 😝 Median tells you a bit more. Mode also paints an accurate picture of how many guys almost NEVER get laid. Mode for men is supposedly two
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:14 PM
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Most gays are twiggy fairies? Like I said… leave your moms basement once in a while https://www.alamy.com/shirtless-muscled-men-at-manchesteruk-lgbt-pride-parade-august-2011-image244052752.html Gay guys care more about muscles than straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:03 PM
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Lol, LOTS of gay men are into muscles, which is also why lots of gay guys are bodybuilders. Ever been to the Castro? For that matter, ever left your mommies basement? Not to notice how many gays guys are into both bodybuilders and bodybuilding ? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:52 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fpin%2F863706034762672366%2F&psig=AOvVaw24II1ni2znf7_A7to5b3H4&ust=1632844839363000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=2ahUKEwizg6GWw5_zAhUOUFMKHcDABEoQjRx6BAgAEAk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:01 PM
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This. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah, and if he likes the gym bunny look on a woman he will do well as a gym bro. I’ve noticed lots of women really into fitness themselves gravitate towards gym bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:54 PM
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High school. And before that? Books
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:30 PM
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Taking TRP truths as gospel and regurgitating their aphorisms word for word is an indictment of someone's intelligence tbh 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:22 PM
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a thousand years ago I’m not THAT old, but judging from what I know of the last few hundred……
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:16 PM
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younger women It’s not “young women today”, or social media. Young women have always been like this…young men too but to a lesser degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:09 PM
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You can never look too gay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:55 PM
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To be unaware of how hard is it for average men I think he is saying it’s not hard at all. If you want consistent sex a few times a month, stop being picky and find someone you can be content with. If someone isn’t getting sex at least a few times a month? Then by lots of people’s definition, they are a loser. Especially if they spend all their time complaining they never have sex, then I kind of agree. You apparently think he’s the loser since the person he is with isn’t that attractive.🤷‍♀️ I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:52 PM
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Where I live, both of them are easily 9’s. If they walked into my local Walmart on a busy Saturday, they would easily be the best looking couple in the entire county. I guess they would be “slightly above average “ in LA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:25 PM
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I work in a gym and I was having a conversation with a girl who said "That guy looks like he is wearing his body, it doesn't fit his face." I always used to say jacked guys were doing themselves a disservice if they were doing it just to be more attractive to women, most women prefer a lean swimmer’s body. I’ve since realized the flaw in my thinking. Being overly jacked will not impress most women and will in fact, drive more away. BUT, I will concede that there ia a small subset of women who re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:13 PM
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8 or 9
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:39 AM
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Focus on trying to BE a quality person Caps are mine….100% correct It’s not only thing that counts, you won’t meet a great partner in your basement, but it’s the most important if you want a lasting relationship. You won’t keep a good partner unless you are one yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:56 AM
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the average Reddit user doesn't actually interact with people all that much, Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:13 AM
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Oof…my tramp stamp reads EXIT ONLY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:54 AM
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This needs to be it own thread. So high n-count people are usually looking for and pairing up with other high n-count people, while virgins are looking for and pairing up with other virgins In my experience, this is 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:21 PM
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less of a problem if a woman is really pretty face Woman here who thinks you have it100% backwards. For most guys, actual obesity (not overweight in the right places, some guys can tolerate that) is an absolute dealbreaker no matter how pretty the face, but a hot balding guy is still hot. Balding hurts average and below average men much more imho. Handsome, balding men have their fans for sure, especially if they are Uber masculine and shave their head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:10 AM
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socially inept You answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:17 AM
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with an eyeroll and a smile? Not when I was growing up. My FATHER was much more hostile toward men than Andrea Dworkin when it came to men who “might only want one thing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:23 AM
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-23, solidly purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:35 AM
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https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/5-advantages-being-older-parent-ncna775581 A lot of evidence that older parents have healthier kids that live longer and are smarter. Of course lots of “correlation =/=causation “ in this. But having kids in your late 20’s to early 30’s seems the ideal time to me. Ours brains aren’t even fully developed until 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:03 AM
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Wahhabism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:15 AM
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I hate to be this person….but actually….the ADA blew the call years ago with required retrofits in gendered bathrooms instead of required family rooms. Handicapped people often need a caretaker to help them use a public toilet, and that caretaker is quite frequently of the other gender. Family rooms benefit all sorts of people, the handicapped, transgendered and obviously…families.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:57 AM
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It can happen; but you're not that guy Sure, like I said…if you are Jared Leto. If you weren’t attractive to 20 year old women when you were 27/28…peak of your attractiveness as a man imho, you sure as hell won’t be sexually attractive to them at 38
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:21 AM
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But even more recently it wasn't uncommon for leading male movie stars to be paired up with much younger love interests Yes….By male directors and producers. Still do. Teen girls liked teen idols, mostly men in their 20’s. We liked mid 20’s rock stars in high school, our moms liked 40 year old movie stars. I have known a fair number of 40-something guys who would regularly get 20-something girls for one-night stands I tended bar for 5 years and have seen all flavor of hookups. The guy in his 40’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:30 AM
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There were teenage women who swooned over near-40 male movie stars. Really? Hmmmm. Yeah I don’t remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:05 AM
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Female, I had a huge crush at 7 and the boy did too. We only saw each other once a week at church, but always sat together in the back and would hold hands. I think lots of people experience attraction long before they understand sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:53 AM
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I knew I liked boys in a romantic way second grade for sure. I’m older and have had gay male friends tell me at that age they experienced a lot of confusion because they knew they felt an attraction towards certain boys that they had no name for. An older gay man I know told me he had a huge crush on a teen idol at around 6 or 7. Same sex couples were just not openly portrayed to him as a kid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:47 AM
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I’m an older woman. A man old enough to be our father when we are only 25? Male fantasy. We never saw it. Not raw physical attraction. We might have seen a good provider or a meal ticket. We might have seen someone we wanted to have children with, but we never saw someone old enough to be our father as someone we wanted to have sex with. Not at 25. As always, Jared Leto is an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:28 AM
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A forty-five year old guy might be objectively hot to a 25-year old woman Those men who are actually sexually attractive to a 25 year old when they are 45 are extremely rare. 55 and 75 makes way MORE sense than 25 and 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:12 AM
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Want to actually worry about something? Worry about sex selection with in vitro fertilization. People will increasingly use in vitro to select for all sorts oftraits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:40 AM
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“ For First Time in Modern Era, Living With Parents Edges Out Other Living Arrangements for 18- to 34-Year-Olds” https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2016/05/24/for-first-time-in-modern-era-living-with-parents-edges-out-other-living-arrangements-for-18-to-34-year-olds/ So the age of marriage has gone up and the number of young people cohabitating has gone down. 50% of millennials are planning on moving back home with their parents https://www.forbes.com/sites/zackfriedman/2019/06/06/millenn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:46 AM
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Exactly. Extra fat is a dimorphic trait. Fat is very literally feminizing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:30 AM
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Fine with me. I think there needs to be some affection/kissing/ physicality to differentiate the potential sexual relationship from a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:43 PM
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I would assume she meant online dating, and yes, many guys think it’s free hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:37 AM
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Neither me nor my partner can cum on LSD, but we love pounding away for hours Until we realize we’ve been in the living room and our roommate has literally been trapped in his room and would practically have to trip over our naked bodies to get to either the kitchen or bath. Oopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:49 AM
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I see so many overweight kids, “dad bods aren’t just on 45 year old dads, I see them on high school boys. I have also watched as everyone I know has packed on a few over the years. I know you like em big and were once big….I just think if all these kids are that overweight now, diabetes is going to be the norm for middle aged folks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:00 PM
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You know what I just realized after all this time though….most dudes I went to school with HAD bodies like Jim Morrison. He was known a “the Sex God” in his time and that body didn’t take much effort except not being raised with big gulps and video games. The Jim Morrison body was just the default for moderately active guys. That second picture is Wayne Coyne, who should be the number one example of a guy who got WAY better looking as he aged https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/585a044…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:53 PM
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You know what? I just realized maybe I’m just old as fuck. https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-5af877f5f673a06edacaf6bfaef5f43b As a young girl forming attraction to men, most of our preteen celebrity crushes were skinny ass rock stars who never ate and didn’t lift shit https://www.google.com/search?q=jim+morrison&client=safari&channel=ipad_bm&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjwtK225vHxAhWWAZ0JHSVoD9AQ_AUoAXoECAEQAw&biw=1269&bih=1476#imgrc=s2mrZhmets-2XM&imgdii=c0pn6_Lc5rgBxM Most of my cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:52 PM
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🤣Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:36 PM
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I hope thicc goes out of fashion. It just serves as cope for people with unhealthy weights, who want to think “it’s not that bad”. If leanbeefpatty comes into style, at least people will strive to be a bit healthier. All beauty standards are impossible. One, they are based on age so even the most naturally gifted are only perfect for a short time, and two, they are also airbrushed and doctored. The biggest problem with thin hourglass was the goal wasn’t even clear. At least thicc acknowledges mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:38 PM
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hot “dad bod”? 😡 Like military intelligence and jumbo shrimp. I dunno, for me most men don’t need to lift heavy things, they need to stop lifting their forks. That after picture is the cusp of acceptable body fat for me, not the before
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:06 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say. Men will say they dislike materialistic women, but the high maintenance ones seem pretty popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:54 AM
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1/2 of this sub just came in their tightie whities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:12 AM
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https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2016/06/15/this-is-how-your-thoughts-become-your-reality/ This seems like a good place to put this. Echo chambers start as a safe place to vent, but can end up making your problems worse. “Once you draw a conclusion ……..you’re likely to do two things; look for evidence that reinforces your belief and discount anything that runs contrary to your belief.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:16 PM
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My examples may have been too narrow. To some extent, you can change your demeanor too, so if being unpleasant to be around is a problem and driving off too many potential partners, if you recognize that, you can try to change it. If you can’t change your overall personality personality traits, then you can at least police what comes out of your mouth. A lesson in there for bitchy, nagging women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:07 PM
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I’ll buy part of that, that there are good matches out there…it’s just that your logic sounds a bit like “I’m 440 lbs and can’t get dates” and your response is “I’m 445 and found a wife despite my weight”. When people aren’t successful, but can change what’s making them unsuccessful, my first go to advice would be try to change ie, lose weight so you can broaden your pool of potential mates as wide as possible. If a dude is 5’3” or autistic, then it’s time to hunt unicorns. Judging from the peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:45 PM
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You are lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:37 PM
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I don't care about attracting the average person Kind of doesn’t disprove his premise. You admit your views narrow your pool of available partners and found one who loves you “despite”your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:51 PM
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almost always from women a bit older than me Well like I said, woman can still get young men who will pump and dump…… Old men can still get sugar babies ….. Sex is always available even if you don’t change your standards. But if you are older and want true intimacy and affection, you WILL lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:33 PM
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There is too much agreement among women about which guys are attractive for that to be the case. I would argue that online dating has narrowed it further. You have a choice of guys that photograph well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:19 PM
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Cmv. Everyone’s standards get more realistic as they get older, at least anyone who wants intimacy and affection. Older women can still get young men who will pump and dump, old men might pay a prostitute, in reality neither is young anymore though, and youth is beauty. I worked with lots of elderly people, and the amount of widows and widowers dating each other in that group was high. Everyone looked like death, everyone could say, “still had sex”. I think past 30, unless you are JLo or Jared L…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:06 PM
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Oof, I posted under an old name about this. Be yourself, unless you suk. Rip my inbox. DaNcE mOnKeY DANCE….Guys very angry no one wanted what they were selling with no interest in diversifying the merch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:18 AM
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Pretend to be hot? You know you can see people’s pictures, right? It’s probably easier to pretend to be cool. Say in your profile that your band just got off tour, pose with a rented motorcycle, rent a boat and hire a bunch models for a photo shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:11 AM
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First is meeting a minimum standard of being attractive. No matter how cool you are you still need meet a minimum. After that? You are right. We will be attracted to a really cool guy over a guy who is objectively more handsome(…..and then we turn around and proclaim the cool guy is hot, sometimes to the point of absurdity like Mick Jagger, a very cool but ugly man) One of many reasons online dating has been a disrupter. It’s hardEr to convey that cool through photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:01 AM
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Ohh of course! There are a a ton of “orange flags” It does make sense to look at the dynamic of the family, but also how much people mimic behavior or reject behavior. If you start dating a chick whose mom was convicted of domestic violence and she starts to fight unfairly or become irrationally abusive, don’t be surprised if she starts hitting you too. If someone’s parents are alchies or druggies and you see them start to get trashed a bit too often, it might not be a passing phase. I married m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:55 AM
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It’s not destiny, but it is a higher likelihood. Certain studies have shown that daughters of divorced parents have a 60 percent higher divorce rate in marriages than children of non-divorced parents while sons have a 35 percent higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:41 AM
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Mmwr? They gave my friend the right antibiotic and all was good fairly quickly. They missed it at first because he had been in one place on vacation were it was not known to occur and diagnosed in another place where it was not known to occur. Apparently the theory is he got at a rest stop on the way home. They spent a while on Guillian Barr (I’m sure that’s spelled wrong), before testing for it. Good luck…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:07 AM
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Okay, I was wrong then. Your wife is nothing but a vagina. Happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:23 AM
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First, FIND ONE THATS READY. If a guy isn’t ready, he isn’t ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:04 AM
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GeT oFf ReDdIt🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:02 AM
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You don’t need anything more strenuous than walking. Pick a beautiful spot, either early morning or late afternoon. Take some music you love. Give it a try. It’s free and can’t hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:48 AM
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My brother has two bio and a third one adopted out of foster care. We disagree on a lot, but he is definitely a good human being
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:41 AM
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They did a great job of presenting the data, but I have a feeling the Venn diagram on this looks like a target
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:36 AM
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Do you exercise? Seriously if you don’t, start. https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/exercise-is-an-all-natural-treatment-to-fight-depression It changes your brain chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:32 AM
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https://www.everydayhealth.com/depression/symptoms/depression-symptoms-you-shouldnt-ignore/ Number 2 on the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:26 AM
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Pickle….I think you are saying any low n count woman could get you, ….you are but one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:23 AM
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Yeah you beat me to it. Needs to get tested for depression “seems "boring" that I don't have any interesting activities that I do.” I always see listed as a classic symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:19 AM
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I knew a guy who got erlichiosis, good thing they are testing him early. He turned out okay, but good thing they are testing him for Lyme/ erlichiosis/Rocky Mountain…whatever might be in your area. 🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:15 AM
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I agree. The point of a first date is to talk to each other and do something together. I had known my h a long time so our first “official date” was dinner and movie, but he had been to my house a lot before that, I made him dinner, etc. That “date” was just to confirm we both wanted to turn things romantic. Did some “dinner and a movie” first dates with people where you want to get to know them, but by the time the movie was over it was already getting late and you part soon after. It was awkwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:03 AM
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Like this? https://www.denofgeek.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/silence-of-the-lambs.jpg?resize=768%2C432
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:43 AM
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plan something before or after the movie., well if you are going to do that, then definitely something after, drinks or food, or even a walk, is better imho. When the dinner part of a “dinner and a movie” date is going well, it just kind of interrupts the flow to me. Edit happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:38 AM
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40% make more, 50% make the same or more. I think if all those women make less than their husband, they probably dated them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:22 AM
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Don’t have suggestions for all of A to F, but hated movie first dates. Just awkward, you are sitting close to someone you don’t know in silence for two hours. Also not great is too noisy bars, go to a quiet one with booths if you want to meet for a drink. I know a guy getting married next year and I asked him how they met. He saw a girl on an indoor rock climbing wall and recognized her from his graduate degree program. He asked her to go rock climbing in real life, not an indoor rock wall. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:16 AM
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I had an ex who was only an inch taller. I still wore modest heels, but I’d be down for guys to wear heels, that way women can wear big heels without towering over a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:02 AM
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Interesting read https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_marshmallow_experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:19 PM
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6 is already too big for some positions and times of the month. Yep, cervical pain. It might just be coincidence, but had it more when I had an iud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:12 PM
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If you are smart, you can figure out how to drop out if you want. True story, knew a woman who couldn’t afford $400 a month rent but she COULD afford $100 a week. That’s how you spin your wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:06 PM
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Hey….he helped a dog and a plant too, we are in good company. Damn I think I just bought some life insurance in Thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:34 PM
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Jfc. Chill. I wasn’t even the one who made the original comment. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:53 PM
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Wow first young oryx, now you. This post is bringing some users from years ago out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:58 PM
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Yeah, for the most part, women aren’t men. If a guy has sex with a woman who thinks he’s fat….he still had sex. If a woman has sex with a guy who thinks she isn’t attractive? No woman wants to be in that situation. For the most part, guys who are willing to wait are probably more into you. There are always exceptions, like she takes off her shapewear and the titties hit the knees, but most guys know ahead of time if the woman is attractive enough to pursue a relationship with or if he’s just dum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:50 PM
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I think the prevailing narrative is that men want sex, women want relationships, and if you get to smash, she is already naming your 3 kids. When you say you hit it and quit it, you are reaffirming the myth that men are always the gatekeepers of a relationship. They often are, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:43 PM
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Since every post I’ve posted this morning has been downvoted tHe SkY Is BlU knock yourself out. Downvote away!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:18 PM
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Again, if any man here showed even a fraction of the vitriol towards women that women show towards men Funny from a woman’s point of view, I feel the same about some male posters
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:54 PM
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That is pretty funny, not gonna lie. We all have our blinders, but men love to jump to accusing women as being triggered, without realizing almost every other post is “woman bad” , ……………….or at least it seems like it to me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:52 PM
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“Date night “ or just special occasion dining for us is specifically a place that has table service, alcohol, and more upscale food. We do this a few times a year for birthdays, anniversary’s or a big score on eBay for my husband, like a $100 windfall. We “get food” like Mexican pizza or Thai about twice a month. If I am just as likely to get the food to go as opposed to actually eating there? That’s not special occasion. We live in the middle of bumfuck flyover so there really isn’t that much d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:46 PM
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Well that’s certainly a more challenging app. But putting on a timer is still a good reminder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:29 PM
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Got a timer on your device? I put one on mine. I can override it but it’s a good reminder that I’ve spent an hour on Reddit or games. Some IT person needs to develop an app that makes me do an hour of my Duolingo in order to unlock an hour of games. Or even better, tie it to a Fitbit and make you run an hour to unlock an hour of games
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:12 PM
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Female 13.2….As much as I try to forget, I still remember that .2
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:29 PM
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We thank you for your service. It’s war out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:26 PM
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We all know that women lie down and men lie up on n count, I bet it’s actually more like 50%. Special Armadillo even told me that 50% of men who say they have cheated are just lying up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:24 PM
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Really? I would have thought higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:19 PM
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My ex was a virgin when we got together and his spergy passion was what made him so appealing. The first time lasted 10 seconds followed by a second that lasted a few minutes, followed by a third in the morning full of passionate kisses and some very promising sex. We probably hit two dozen times the first week. My husband had a HUGE n count when we first started dating and the arc of our sexual relationship was very similar. The very first time with anyone is often awkward. Desperate? This is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:09 PM
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True that. My activity here greatly increases whenever it rains.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:52 AM
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Holy smokes. It seems like more than a year since I’ve seen your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:49 AM
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I am always interested in people and what makes them tick. I meet a wide variety of people from all across my region in a rare, niche hobby and one of those is a gen z/millenial cusp guy who identifies as a romantically gay, asexual. I’ve also been aware of falling testosterone levels, changing gender dynamics, rise of alternative definitions of one’s sexuality, and have a kind of an atypical sexual history and marriage myself. Since I meet so many divergent people, I fall into many rabbit holes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:46 AM
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Women are increasingly becoming primary breadwinners. Half of all women make the same or more than their spouse, so men are becoming less of an atm all the time. This is a huge shift in the last 30 years so men should be celebrating, not crying. Women might not NEED men, they can get a job and be a single mom, but women still WANT men. This should also be good news for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:44 AM
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I’ve never read it. I assume it’s sarcasm? Anyway, WoMeN Do IT tOo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:38 AM
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I will happily say no thank you to anyone who says I am just a vagina. If you would want your sister or daughter to date such a man, well there are plenty of them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:35 AM
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Oh, I have to go back to building my big glass dome around him so dust doesn’t settle on him. I’m thinking of a UV coating too so he doesn’t fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:02 AM
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We had fresh corn on the cob. It ain’t fresh unless it’s 10 minutes from picking to eating. Gotta get the water hot before you head out to the garden
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:44 AM
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According to dudes here, there’s lots of stanky coochie out there then. Low n count women have coochie that smells like lemongrass and angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:41 AM
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💩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:39 AM
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get closer to hang out with her friends. High school girls do that too. Kids are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:38 AM
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She's getting called a creep because she has "a divergent personality and malsocialization and a high n count🤭 Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:37 AM
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I have some fans who follow me around and downvote everything I say. Dirty, dirty little stalkers 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:35 AM
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That’s actually an interesting theory. Not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:31 AM
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Yeah, but don’t tell us most men value femininity. Regardless of the fact that we have been the ones that have been pushing bowling ball sized humans out of our vaginas since the dawn of man, apparently the world would just be way better without the dead weight I love men. I value men. If you actually value women, I appreciate the sentiment. Men who actually value woman as something other than wet holes seem rare around here. We don’t care, doesn’t change how we navigate through life, but don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:22 AM
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Hey, I did get a $250 scholarship from the Society of Women Engineers. It was nice, but not as big as the Ashrae scholarship I got for having the highest grade in Thermo. Would it make you feel better if I gave it back? Graduated cum laude, and had two jobs so the rest I earned on my own🤷‍♀️ I didn’t have to worry about equality when I actually did better without any help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:15 AM
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Has helped white women…. HAS….past tense. If you guys need help in return, I’m not petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:03 AM
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Well two guys now claim they said otherwise. Good for you, I congratulate you, and have already recanted that NOONE valued women. But that post was primarily a dumpster fire of men shitting on women, all the while saying women were worthless AND women should stay in their lane and continue to be worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:01 AM
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AA, affirmative action, you mean how about we get rid of it for men? https://www.ivywise.com/ivywise-knowledgebase/resources/article/the-truth-about-affirmative-action-for-men/ Nah, it’s okay. You guys can have it. Who said anything about victim hood? The thread went like this. Femininity is not valued. I responded Yep. You responded “well women are unnecessary. Hey we are agreeing with you. Fuck femininity. It’s unnecessary Again, I’m no victim. I know what type of behavior will get me mine and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:54 AM
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Sure whatever. My world smells just fine over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:44 AM
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Nah fam. I found one that doesn’t feel that way. I don’t think of him as a status symbol either. When the whole world smells like shit, check your shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:17 AM
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Either value us or don’t. I don’t care. More women everyday don’t care if you find us unnecessary. We know you don’t care about our brains or careers, yet we are still getting higher education and getting good jobs everyday. I’m no victim, I got mine. But don’t expect us to be feminine when being feminine is unnecessary….you do want us to have agency, right?…or so you tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:15 AM
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True, at least he’s honest here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:42 PM
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Men want sex and we don't destroy sexually fulfilling casual relationships as a general rule. Depends how immature he is and how much pussy is waiting around the corner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:43 PM
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Props for the honesty. 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:41 PM
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One time I ghosted because I fucked really good and was embarrassed by being so passionate Bad move
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:39 PM
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Honestly, I have talked about this guy before, but I know a guy with a mentally ill mom and the cops ALWAYS believed her. It’s not just his account either, its the same story from people who knew him as a kid. Shits fucked up and I do think it didn’t help he was a male child against a mom. Very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:21 PM
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I cook better, my husband has all those dimorphic traits we women like so he lifts the heavy things. But I would warn anyone, male or female, of being financially dependent on another person. And as the bigger earner, you can bet your ass when it comes to who “leads” in the house, I am hardly submissive on matters financial. He’s lucky, we make decisions together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:12 PM
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she earns the respect of all those around her Let’s see how far that gets her if she ever needs to support herself and her resume reads “housewife”. Then you’ll see how much respect she gets when she really needs it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:54 PM
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I don’t think you are a misogynist asshole, I have no idea where you got that. You asked why women don’t want to be “feminine”. I am….at home. But I told you. It doesn’t pay. And I like to depend on myself. I think it’s great if women stay home if they can afford it when the kids are little, but I made a shitload more as an engineer than the cost of a housekeeper. Ymmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:32 PM
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Men: you’re not just a vagina, we like that you have uterus too. Women everywhere: no thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:48 PM
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If you are a carpenter you have other lumber suppliers. And lumber suppliers have more than one customer. Pretty sure a wife is only supposed to have only one husband. Would you start a career that depends on the loyalty of only one employer? Pretty risky proposition, especially when there a a few million other people out there who can easily replace you in your “job”. In fact as a wife, we are constantly told here that our value decreases the longer we hold that job. Plenty new, fresher employe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:33 PM
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Lol and if she doesn’t do her job your house is messy and you eat take out, if you don’t do your job, there is no house at all and no food to cook. Stop the hamster, she’s dependent. Your lifestyle might be better with her, but her very survival depends on you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:31 PM
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Okay, then I retract. But 95% of posts were just dudes shitting on women as worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:24 PM
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Outside of sex? Lol, you’ve been here long enough to know better Male contempt for women is pretty obvious Red pill version. Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:58 PM
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Absolutely. We had a post last week where a woman was basically saying “sorry we didn’t help you men build society “. Not a single man voiced the opinion that the feminine roles women played in the past were in any way valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:54 PM
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Don’t you have a sahm for a wife? Isn’t she dependent on you? It might not be slavery because it’s voluntary, but it’s still dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:51 PM
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I’m pretty feminine in my personal relationship…but to the outside world? Feminine as in submissive, passive, letting someone else lead? Lol We live in a capitalist society. Feminine doesn’t pay. I got cheated on by an early relationship and got red pilled. Love is great, dependancy sucks. Got a stem degree and take no shit. And made more money than my h too, but that doesn’t mean he gets to stay at home and not work. We don’t live in Sweden. Fuck feminine, lol. Feminine women are poor women if …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:42 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:08 AM
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Previously, if young men had frequent sex, young men were married. Ready to get married? Who do you want to be having all this sex with when you are young? You don’t like it that women get high n counts, you don’t like it that young women waste their youth not having children, you don’t like it they are single mothers. So who do you think you should be able to have sex with when you are young?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:42 AM
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not-super promiscuous women hook-up with very promiscuous men…. Sure it happens now and then. I do think the harem thing is overestimated though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:18 PM
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Outliers exist, some people lose weight, or gain muscle, or go from looking like a kid to looking like a man. Many many more just gain $$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:34 PM
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It will, and not in a good way though. 20 year old women aren’t likely to be sexually attracted to the kind of guy who was unsuccessful in his twenties. If something has changed in the last 10 years, it’s not likely he got more sexually attractive. ($$$$$)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:50 PM
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But it seems they only want to be friends, nothing more. They are afraid by how society reacts, don't want to be ridiculed for being with an older man. Look, this is a harsh reality, but it goes further than most 20 year old women aren’t attracted to 30 year old men. For the most part, they aren’t. But I have even worse news for you, the ones that ARE sexually attracted to 30 year old guys are not sexually attracted to the guys who weren’t successful at 20. Twenty year old women today aren’t dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:39 PM
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Excellent take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:42 PM
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Overrated? Yes. “In love” in high school? Only unrequited No. I’ve told the story here before about how my high school crush was driving me home from college and out of the clear blue sky asked me if I wanted to hit a motel on the way home. I’m so glad he was not the person I lost my virginity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:25 PM
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Actually yes, also hung out with lots of sluts of both sexes. My anecdotal experience tells me they mostly bang each other. The dudes banging multiple girl mostly bang the girls banging multiple guys. There was just a much sharing of promiscuous women by promisiscous men as the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:40 PM
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I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:36 PM
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Well you have jumped to some odd conclusions. For all we know, 20-24 year old men might be having MORE sex than 18-24 women. But let’s assume they are having identical rates to 18-24 year old women, ignore how many may have had same sex encounters, and that the age distribution of the poll was perfectly even, 600 women and 600 men. 80% of the women had sex, so 480 of them 67% of the men had sex (2/3 cause I don’t want to shift to calculator🤷‍♀️) or 400 men. If the 20-24 year old men had sex at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:26 PM
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IT WAS COLLEGE!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:13 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:12 AM
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They use the argument that since more men report more partners, that this is evidence that all those are Chads who are hoarding all the chicks. You are right that those statistics of who has multiple sex partners don’t take into account some of those men are gay, bi or possibly seeing prostitutes. There are always a billion ways to slice up numbers to make them say what you already believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:22 AM
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Lots more men in those narrow age ranges are probably sexless because 18 to 24 year old women are on average dating 20 to 26 year old men. Typical age gap for marriage is held pretty steady at 2 years even while marriage age has risen, which suggests that even in younger ages, there is often an average age gap in relationships. 18 year old guys in college / out of high school don’t have as much access to 16 year old girls, and even if they are dating 16 year old girls, most 16 year old girls are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:54 AM
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make love. What’s that? It’s not one of porn hubs categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:10 AM
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Women are already slightly more likely to marry down in terms of educational attainment. This shifted almost a decade ago https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.latimes.com%2Fbusiness%2Fla-fi-mo-record-number-of-educated-women-are-marrying-down-20140212-story.html&psig=AOvVaw13fGMn3VBKjypfRmB2306J&ust=1626441519421000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAgQjRxqFwoTCPDMxf2U5fECFQAAAAAdAAAAABAD Women with mid income college educated careers like nursing and teaching are often married to men …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:24 PM
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Yes, and lots of 'alpha females' of the same pedigree as i am (and you are) are having a real fucking hard time finding someone to marry That might be your perception, something you read in a think piece or something that seems intuitive because women traditionally “marry up”but it just not factual.. Assortive mating is the norm and college educated women have the highest rates of marriage of anyone, even college educated men. The higher the degree, the higher the marriage rate https://i0.wp.com…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:15 PM
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Oh I forgot….remembered later. He told me his high school girlfriend was coming, she had discovered she bi and was BRINGING HER GIRLFRIEND. (That’s where the bi part came in). Lol. Dumb me just assumed if she was bringing her girlfriend too that they weren’t fucking still. Also, he was saying things like “I can’t wait for you to meet her.”, implying our relationship wasn’t changing with her arrival in the least. I interpreted all this information in the wrong way. He actually was a fantastic guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:21 PM
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Women always had a low view of men's sexuality. lol Admittedly I got mine from my father, who warned me about the evils of male sexuality……and reading “The Good Earth” in high school. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:45 PM
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And it's not going to get better for women for a long time. Sorry, instead of an edit I’m posting a second follow up question. What do you make of data like this, showing the perception of who wants marriage, vrs the reality of who wants marriage? https://relationshipsinamerica.com/marriage-and-divorce/whos-more-interested-in-marrying-men-or-women “Women report little gender distinction in who they believe desires marriage more: 18 percent of women report they want to get married more than their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:37 PM
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young men today have had their noses rubbed in women's sexuality. I argue that this is a backlash against women having their noses rubbed in men’s sexuality, which started in the Playboy era and the 1950’s, but I digress. But specifically “dangerous “ to marry, would you agree that in reality it’s factually less dangerous, but everyone is just more aware of the danger?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:22 PM
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I met my boyfriend’s girlfriend one time, does that count? To be fair to him, we had not expressed any exclusivity, he repeatedly told me how his childhood girlfriend was coming to visit, and it turns out she was bi and they were in a long distance open relationship. Imagine my surprise when I went to his apartment, looked through the French doors and saw them in bed together. She said “hey, nice to meet you, I’ve heard all about you” and we all had coffee together. Edit tldr I was an idiot. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:16 PM
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genuine desire will keep you guys attached. Sex is the thing that keeps the oxytocin running, but it isn’t what will get you through horrible shit. What gets you through horrible shit is that in addition to lovers, you have become a family. You figure out how “we” will cope. Sometimes you won’t be at your best and will need a soft place to fall. My husband has lost two twin brothers to a neurological disease and his best friend all in the last 12 months. Had a house and both our businesses lost …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:55 AM
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I disagree. Stop gaming and seducing your wife? Hello complacency and dead bedroom. Put all your effort into “me” and no effort into “we? We’ve grown apart. Not support some load, without resentment and blame, when your partner isn’t at their best? First layoff, job loss or setback, let’s get poorer still and split up. You won’t be at your best every day for 40 or 50 years. It’s great knowing you are both strong separately, but much more important to know you are strong as a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:16 AM
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Not for me, too many upsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:05 AM
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Yeah, I had a relationship where I got cheated on. I actively failed at preventing by boyfriend’s dick into falling into someone else. Now I take active control and closely monitor my husband whenever he takes his dick out of the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:03 AM
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As someone with a high n count, I won’t deny a correlation, but I’m skeptical of a causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:00 AM
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Eventually. If all industry goes the way of farming, there will be an over abundance of product with an ever decreasing need for labor https://tdaynard.com/2015/11/22/facing-the-lesser-known-challenge-an-over-abundance-of-agricultural-productivity/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:56 AM
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Serious question, I always hear men say how the bar has been raised…in which ways though? There is less alimony than 40 years ago, women have been helping to bring in more money all the time, so a 50/50 split of assets is somewhat more equitable, child custody hasn’t changed that much in 40 years, if anything 50/50 custody is more common today and divorce rates are lower. It just seems to me that 1980 would be a much riskier time than now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:51 AM
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I’m not really sure how all of this has much to with my post. A good life isn’t easy in general. You can have an effortless life, effortless career, effortless family? You get out of life what you put in, imho. Watching tv all day is effortless. Being single and jacking it to porn is effortless. Effortless to me doesn’t necessarily = worthwhile. I dunno, maybe my definition is different. Sure, fighting all the time will kill a relationship. Absolutely. No reason to put effort into something that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:23 AM
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Whoa, very unusual. How sweet? I like sweet and salty a lot, but I’m still not sold on this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:08 AM
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Like “cream cheese”? In New Orleans you can get something called Creole cream cheese ice cream which tastes like cheese danish filling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:05 AM
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Peppermint. Oddly, my husbands too. The pink kind with hard little chips of candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:02 AM
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Once or twice, out of curiosity wouldn’t bother me. And men with high n counts don’t bother me. Someone who felt like sex was something he did to a woman, not with a woman, with no personal connection, would not have the same values as me though, and I feel like a guy who really liked hookers treats sex as a one sided,impersonal affair. The kind of men I want to have sex with enjoy reciprocal pleasure, deep kissing, eye contact, sexual response and mutual pleasure. Real connection, not pretend. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:56 AM
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And that we still value you as people and partners Some men do, some men don’t, and some men only value certain woman as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:17 AM
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It will be enhanced masturbation for sure. It will probably just make more guys too complacent to look for real human intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:10 AM
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because they only see women as a "human fleshlight to masturbate into" (seriously, that's how some women see sex? Fucked up, man...) I think you misunderstand. Women don’t see sex this way. Women think MEN see sex this way. If someone can explain to me how most prostitution differs from having a human flashlight to masturbate into, I’d be interested in hearing it. All men want sex. You are saying men don’t want ONLY sex, except sometimes they do. If you are repulsed by high n count women, don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:04 AM
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meh, I’m 5’7” and dated a guy my height. My ex was 5’8”. Not saying you will be everyone’s cup of tea either. It will help to be well above average in some other way. I see guys post about being 5’3”. That’s time to get realistic about your limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:50 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:39 PM
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Not tragically short.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:38 PM
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I’ve made it over 20 years. Both my h and I were single long enough to appreciate that having a partner and companion was worth putting in the effort to stay together. But my relationship hasn’t been traditional at all. I earned more, came into the marriage with more, we both had lots of casual sex and failed relationships before getting together, we split chores….mostly evenly, …..(but I definitely do more of the cooking and cleaning). I would say… Learn how to fight fair, stay on topic, no low…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:55 PM
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I've been asked out a few times by women ….don’t say that around here, incels will be flooding your inbox 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:10 PM
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I still think you settle for someone or settle on being alone. Don’t get me wrong. Either is a valid choice, but unicorns kind of are a bit mythical, imho. It seems like the women who are into you are just not attractive to you ? And the attractive women aren’t attracted? Or is it their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:57 PM
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I think it’s a combination or sitting too long, lack of vegetables, and “poop shy”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:34 PM
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🤦‍♀️ Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:32 PM
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I watched a fellow waiter pick up the top of a customer’s sandwich bun and lick it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:29 PM
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Hey I actually saw part of the answers to the poll. What REALLY made me sad was the two different guys who were widowed, one from his wife’s suicide, and both had believed they had found unicorns. Like those are men I would love to talk to. My dude you are way too young, seem way too decent, and seem to actually want a wife too much to be posting on Mgtow……
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:21 PM
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Okay. Try to get through med school. Then come back and say it takes no discipline of at least some kind. I guarantee a doctor who is not disciplined with money still has more of it than 99% of high school graduates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:27 PM
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Show me the person who has the discipline to make it through four years of higher education OR give up Netflix. What I see is that those with that type of discipline do quite well in life in many ways. They end up with a lot more than 40k after 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:40 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Statistically a person with a degree outpaces one without one. But I can’t argue that someone could go into a trade and be financially successful if they wanted people who shit on college degrees often don’t understand the actual math. Ftfy, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:35 AM
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Sure if you value only money and big trucks, it might be a good bet. It might not. Like I said, it’s about what you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:20 AM
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$15 a month invested over 50 years at 5% return will net you how much? About the cost of that college education. https://www.investor.gov/financial-tools-calculators/calculators/compound-interest-calculator How much has your Netflix enriched your world? It’s all about what you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:03 AM
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Where I live no one has an education, but they love to max out their credit on a 40,000 truck every few years. I’d rather have a good education than a new monster truck every few years. Different values I suppose. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:53 AM
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I’m lost… Why should a young woman advertise her intelligence when the world says “that’s cute sweetie, now show me your tits”? Why does the manosphere seemed surprised so many try to monetize their vagina when they are told by the exact same guys that it’s their only saleable asset? And why should they bother seeking long term relationships with men who will only find value in them for a decade out of their life at best?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:17 AM
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That’s fine. But then why turn around and complain we are just a vagina with a pulse? You reap what you sow. Some young woman seem quite glad to advertise they are a vagina with a pulse, because they know nothing else is valued about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:06 AM
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I've noticed conservatives (not necessarily saying you are one) are the ones who shit on college degrees Mmmm, maybe because learning to think and being open to new ideas is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:55 AM
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👊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:46 AM
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How about if she’s married to a man with over double that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:41 AM
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Ask you wife to track how much work she does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:38 AM
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Boy that’s not hard if you have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:19 AM
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So they have no jobs, education or hobbies? O key
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:00 AM
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This. The only one of my friends who has been successful in online dating did it precisely because she lives in a rural area and has few common interests with the few single men in her town. She has an LTR who lives about 40 miles away she met through a niche dating site designed to connect people with similar interests Most of my friends in the city who online date flip through hundreds of pictures and dumb profiles that are about as trite as I like dogs and long walks on the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:38 AM
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Whenever women are expected to be more than a pulse and a vagina you ladies cry sexism. Oh…I think you are absolutely wrong about that one. It’s lots of men that are proud of posting “we don’t care about job, your education or your hobbies “. Just be young and hot. Young women would be thrilled to hear a guy actually admired her for something other than their vagina And from what I understand Japanese women are in the workforce in record numbers, but Japanese men are the ones refusing to pick up…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:24 AM
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Looking around my Walmart, people are still finding their looks match. They are having relationships based on love, not necessity, and that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:47 AM
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Some so called “Hvm” have a wake of first and second wives behind them too, each one younger than the last. I’ll get what I want on my own terms by my own efforts and marry for something other than resources. Not marrying a guy for his money benefits everyone imho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:43 AM
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As I have stated, that data wasn’t granular enough to say anything other than men have more sex than women and women are more likely than men to have had only one sex partner. It neither proves or disproves anything with absolute certainty outside of those raw numbers. I have already pointed out to op there are lots of factors like gay men are included, men might be seeing prostitutes, bisexuality. Of course woman have the ABILITY to “casually” date. No one needs a study for that. Watch a gross …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:55 PM
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women can have disagreements on who is attractive, but they have widespread agreement on who is unattractive. Yeah, I think this is fairly accurate…..all except the female poster a few years ago that found Steve Buscemi attractive. I’ve never forgotten that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:39 PM
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Like I said, as always, outliers exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:35 PM
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How many casual opportunities does a woman have a month? Is this a joke? INFINITE. Literally as many as she has time for. She doesn’t even have to be remotely attractive, she can smell like death, AND she can even get paid to do it. https://www.businessinsider.com/check-out-the-stunning-pictures-from-the-citigroup-trader-who-photographs-prostitutes-2012-2 What does that have to do with how much free sex women are interested in handing out to randos?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:33 PM
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Using porn as a metric for what women find attractive is off target. Male pornstars are chosen by men, for men, not for straight women. Women have more sexual response viewing sexual situations, men have more sexual response to viewing a particular target of desire. It’s been shown that women respond to seeing nudity in a sexual situation in either sex, and even show a mild response to watching animals have sex. Men do not. Straight men have sexual response for only for situations portraying wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah, I get that, and in that age range it’s very true. Lots of 18 year old guys are sexless and lots of 18 year old girls are with guys in their early 20’s. And the average age of marriage is now 28 and 30, so lots more 24 year old girls have settled into an LTR than 24 year old guys. But it’s hilarious to me that this data is supposed to show lots of sexless guys, not because women are also sexless and more monogamous, but because there is lots of casual sex out there and Chadthundercock is ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:15 PM
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No one in their right mind thinks it’s easy for straight men to get casual sex. Never has been, never will. What it shows is that 83% of men had sex and 81% of women had sex. It shows more men had sex and that more women had sex with only one person. Those numbers actually help disprove the notion that all women are having lots more casual sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:38 PM
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It’s always hilarious to me when tradcons want to tell women to stay in their lane and simultaneously say being a teacher, nurse or sahm have low benefit to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:40 AM
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As a female engineer, I’m absolutely positive I would find teaching a room full of kids, or wiping old peoples asses all day much more challenging than sitting in my quiet office. Just saying…..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:06 AM
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🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:56 AM
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I think this is wishful thinking. Sorry dude. But something weird is up in China. “In China, “little puppy,” or 小奶狗 (xiǎo nǎigǒu), refers to a man who is younger than his girlfriend, whose qualities in the eyes of his lover include being simple, naive, considerate, and caring—and most importantly, loyal and clingy, just like a pet. The rise of little puppies as an ideal type of boyfriend points toward a shift in popular culture in the country, where young women are increasingly defying tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:51 AM
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Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:29 AM
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Bi men are not necessarily closeted, the survey asked gay or straight. Lots of men are romantically straight but sexually bi. Given gay or straight on a survey, which one do you think they pick? Latest from the cdc… “2.8 percent of straight men reported having had sex with another man. “ So we might chip away a few more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:59 AM
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And…..How many men went to hookers? How many of the upper 10% of women had sex with the upper 25% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:54 AM
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We haven’t even talked about the down low, and the survey had people choose between straight and gay “When sexual identity and attraction were controlled for, behaviorally bisexual men were predicted to have had 3.1 more past-year partners than behaviorally heterosexual men”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:42 AM
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The data shows gay men are chaste and women routinely hire male prostitutes? Come on dude. Get real. That’s just pathetic grasping at straws. Some of the discrepancy is of course due to some guys getting more casual sex for free than others, but not as much as you claim. There are other legitimate factors explaining some of these percentages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:38 AM
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Thinking Chad Thundercock is the only explanation is then equally speculative. How do we know women aren't hireing prostitutes too? The comedy keeps coming….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:28 AM
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lesbians having sex with other women at an equal percentage as gay men having sex with men Lmfao….someone has never gone to the bathroom in an airport. True comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:20 AM
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Fewer woman are not sexless, actually more women are sexless. 81% of women total had sex, 83% of men had sex. So either there are some men having sex with men…4% identify as gay, men are seeing sex workers, or the 10% of women with three or more partners are spreading the love to 25% of the men? It shows more women are sexless and more are also women are seeing one man at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:07 AM
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A total of 81% of women had sex and 83% of men had sex. So part of that discrepancy is men having sex with men and men having sex with sex workers, two categories very likely to have had sex with more than 3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:55 PM
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I read the brief paragraph s and looked at the tables. I saw no positive indication that gay men were left out of the tables indicating the number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:46 PM
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Married and unmarried, but didn’t read the whole thing, just looked at the tables. Does this include lesbians and gays or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:36 PM
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I imagine her playing dead Chill her body in an ice bath and have her remain very very still for full effect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:13 AM
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