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| -1 | Do women even truly like sex?This is the pill that men need to swallow. That unless you're her type nothing you do will make her want you like you want her. Men are the reachers and women are the settlers simply due to demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 07:06 AM |
| 0 | Do women even truly like sex?I do think women feel sexual desire and pleasure for sure. Especially for guys they find attractive. I do think that men want women much more than the reverse. For men sex is more of a need while for women it's like chocolate, a luxury you can live without if only unsatisfactory chocolate is available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Do women even truly like sex?I don't know if all men feel this way. I think men do feel very strong urges but different men can regulate their emotions better in regards to it. Male sexuality is just more outward, both physically and psychologically but it doesn't necessarily mean desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Do women even truly like sex?Would you say that only unattractive men think women hate sex because it's relative to their experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Do women even truly like sex?So you'd agree that women rule, men drool when it comes to the sex and dating marketplace as women are the most sought after while men are kind of an optional accessory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Women don't actually care *that* much about being "pumped and dumped." If they did, they would withhold sex until receiving whatever degree of commitment they want to be tied to sex.Men are allowed to be as manipulative and cunning as they are hot. An ugly guy being manipulative or cunning is unacceptable to women because he doesn't "deserve" to take advantage of women given his attractiveness. That's the male version of hot/crazy matrix. There's a reason why women are quite enthusiastic cat owners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?but I seem to date men that prefer being possessive Do you prefer this or would you rather men be less possessive of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?i can have a wonderful life with a desirable man and not have to share him. i know that seems unfathomable to you, but it’s not impossible. What if you couldn't have that? Would you settle for somebody? Be alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:41 PM |
| -2 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?Hmmm but what attractive young woman wants average or poor Redditers who play videogames all day? She'd want a poly situation with multiple attractive men, as would every other woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:19 AM |
| -1 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?Who said all the wives couldn't join in at once? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:17 AM |
| -1 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?But you'd want to be possessive over a guy you actually want to be possessive over yeah? I mean as a woman you might find a guy who you really want and only wants monogamy. But unless you settle (yuck) you either have to choose poly or being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 09:01 AM |
| -4 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?Ok what if you were married in a polygamous marriage but could have a hall pass every now and then? Man or woman. Would that work for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I don’t see what’s wrong with “ pick me “ girlsPick mes give a certain type of man exactly what he wants. Which is either female submission or somebody who cares about him or at least pretends to care about him. Clingy girls are exactly the same deal. It's all about what the guy values and wants and doesn't already get in his normal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTight tight tight yeah. Blue, yellow, pink, whatever man just keep bringing me that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:46 AM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnpopular opinion for this sub I think women peak in physical attractiveness between 25 and 30. 20 year old girls/women have slightly pubescent faces which looks too much like they're nearly bratty teenagers. Plus women's bodies do develop a bit in their 20s and often get bigger tits and slightly nicer asses. Maybe it was different in the past with less chemicals in our foods/water and less pharmaceuticals people use but I fail to see how 20 year old women are the hottest. This doesn't even take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?The women who are most likely to be married are well educated and the highest income women get with high income men This is because upper class people only choose each other and don't want to associate with the plebs (middle classes and lower). The elites especially practice very selective mating, especially the old money families; you'd think they're nearly all imbred by now given how elitist they are. Also divorce is seen as a lower class thing hence why it's rarer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?Women's socioeconomical status stay mostly the same as what they were born into. Going to college on its own doesn't make you upper class neither does having loads of money. Most women who go to college become middle class ish; both in income and status; they were also born into a family that was on a similar level. Women who never went to college in the past were already of a certain class they just weren't educated. Going to college doesn't change this because you can't change your parents. Mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:07 AM |
| 5 | How can women get a man to commit to her?That does nothing if you still get too attached to him too soon. He Chad gets anxious and feels smothered. Speaking from experience here, unfortunately. Fixed. Plenty of hopeless romantic men who are average and are single. Pick them, not Chad the millionaire stud who has 1000s of female options at once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How can women get a man to commit to her?1) STOP HAVING SUCH UNREALISTIC STANDARDS 2) repeat step 1 until boyfriend acquired Any time I've seen/heard a woman have issues dating it always comes down to unrealistic standards. Be honest with yourself, drop the standards, drop the "imma queen yaas" and you'll find a perfectly fine dude who won't be a fuckup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadObsession is a form of coveting. If it was easy you wouldn't give a fuck about it. Manosphere users who still years later are obsessed with game, attracting women, redpill stuff, being alpha; you're just admitting to the world you're coveting what you don't/can't have. If you had it figured out you wouldn't care and would focus on other stuff. I suppose you don't see pictures of manosphere users with hot girls, or any girls for that matter. Given bluepill users don't obsess and covet over sex th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:41 AM |
| 11 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselvesYeah like those studies women's voices get higher when around a man she's attracted to. Femininity is just to please attractive men. She'll sound like Arnold Schwarzenegger if it gets rid of mr average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:31 AM |
| 17 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselvesBecause they can. There's more demand for women then there is for men regardless of how masculine they are. You can whinge all you like women set the rules so they don't need to be feminine. Women only needed to be feminine in the old days because they were economically dependent on men so needed to put on a likeable image. Now that's not needed they can be whatever they want. A woman once told me: "men are like dogs, lost without an owner". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:29 AM |
| -2 | A man being wanted only for his money is not that bad of a lifeget a gf and swap her. How does one swap a gf? I'm not sure if women want to just be swapped between men like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 08:24 AM |
| 10 | Men want commitment just as much as women, but feminism has erased the incentive to do so.I'd argue men want commitment more than women do and that's why dating and marriage is in the gutter. This is especially true when a woman is in her 20s and just sees life as a big shopping spree wanting to try everything and never have to settle on one thing. While women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment, I think more men want to commit than we give them credit for. Nah women gatekeep both. Men don't gatekeep shit unless they're in the most sought after 5% of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?I work in my field lol (well not currently but I did for a few years). Even though yes the career prospects are worse than civil, mech + elec but I knew that even while I was in uni. But having said that I know tonnes of people who majored in mech, civil, elec who don't work as engineers, in fact many don't even work in STEM. Lack of jobs plus even if you do work in it the jobs kinda suck; you're either a project engineer or in sales. This is especially true in my country where engineering has b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?chemical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:18 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?I majored in engineering and I can tell you, most engineering grads would be better off majoring in art history than engineering. They'd be richer, happier and maybe have a better sex life if they chose a better college major. But no they fell for the "just do STEM" meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?I've become more sympathetic to women's point of view, even if I sometimes deride some of their concerns as them being privileged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:33 AM |
| 10 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?Since women without a degree tend to be much younger when looking to settle down, they have a real competitive advantage. Upper class snobbish Ivy League grads are not marrying 20 year old hottie waitresses unless she's upper class herself. Besides if the woman is much dumber than the man what would they talk about while married? Also imagine the kids they'd produce, jr could inherit mum's lower intelligence and then you have no generational wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?Moreover, a huge amount of people with college degrees have useless degrees and are saddled with debt. Man am I sick of this useless degree rhetoric. Universities should be institutions of learning not job vocational schools. They need to go back to the way they originally were. Now they run as a business just soaking up as much cash as possible. No such thing as a useless degree because it's not what you know, it's who you know. I've noticed conservatives (not necessarily saying you are one) ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:23 AM |
| 13 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateYeah you don't understand male psychology. You rejecting a man sexually is interpreted by him as you thinking his genes are inferior. If he finds out you were a slut in the past but have now reformed at the suspicious age of 35 he interprets that has him being genetically inferior to the other guys who didn't have to play games to play. I fail to see the problem for women in doing this. It's just sex, it's not like you're a nun. Men do things they don't naturally want to do to please women; all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Men are forced to date crazy to gain experienceNah we date crazy because it's awesome sex. Just make sure you drive a car you don't value when you go to see her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Why do they feel this way?I don't know why men gatekeep these shit jobs from women. They're tough on your body, skin and often result in injuries or even death. Morons who think sacrificing themselves is somehow virtuous when the people they sacrifice themselves for aren't even thankful and don't even give a shit. The only advantage of these jobs is you don't have to deal with a narcissistic micro managing shithead of a boss in a confined office however there's plenty of bullshit you have to deal with from project manage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 05:46 AM |
| 0 | You have been made Emperor, what do you do?1) Open borders for hot girls only, no male immigration unless he is Chad. 2) Upper middle class will be forced to work on shovels two days a week, working class get office jobs 2 days a week 3) Corporate filth like McDonalds or Target will be banned from CBD areas and these areas will get a cultural revamp with classic architecture that's not corporatized cheap shit. I have more but this will do for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Men have a very different perception of what women find attractive than women doYeah I've been telling these fools for years that handsome artist types of typically the king of the male sex-having hierarchy. Not roided up bodybuilders (yes almost all of them are juicing). However this is moot because most men do not have a pretty face or the dgaf personality that women masturbate over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Who were the original manosphere bloggers/gurus?Yeah I read her manipulated man book a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Who were the original manosphere bloggers/gurus?Now this is the comment i wanted to see. So it seems that there were 3 camps: PUAs, MRAs and MGTOWs. The PUAs seem to have mostly died out, the MRAs are still active but don't have the media attention they had 7 or so years ago and MGTOWs still exist but have a stronger blackpill fraction especially with the younger generation joining them. So it seems the manosphere is mostly dead outside of quiet MRA activism, blackpill nihilism (including incels) and whatever PPD is lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Who were the original manosphere bloggers/gurus?Didn't he sell his blog and then it became Chateau Heartiste or some shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Who were the original manosphere bloggers/gurus?With Rollo being the only one still active. Roosh is Christ-coping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men?True, being alive is overrated. Living is underrated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men?whereas the older men get the more boring they get. Agepill is the real redpill. Most men die at 30, they're just buried at 80. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:46 AM |
| 12 | Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men?The irony is that redpill teaches you to be a masculine man and to avoid post wall (over 30 women). Yet masculine men are the preference for women over 30 because that is the age they prefer security/safety over thrills and vibes. Feminine starving artists are the alphas and masculine, muscled careerist men are the beta bucks. Young women under 30 don't worry about security because they're not looking to have kids, they have daddy/DADDY to help them if they get into financial trouble and well it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 4 | CMV: the vast majority of men aren't cut out for poly or casual relationships(except the truly unfortunate) Many people reading this fall into this category. It's not just about looks either as many unfortunate guys look normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 12:51 AM |
| 7 | CMV: the vast majority of men aren't cut out for poly or casual relationshipsBut as you said you gotta try it to know it's not for you. Guys here aren't even invited to try it so will spend their whole lives wondering. It's the same with money, you gotta become rich to know it's not all that. But guess what, most people are never going to become rich and have almost zero chance of becoming rich. Again they will die wondering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 12:33 AM |
| -2 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?When you geniunely know women, men aren’t so bad. A blue pilled woman like yourself is somehow more misogynistic than the most redpilled guy in the manosphere. Why in particular do you think women are bad enough for you to think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?I know I am an FDSer and we’re known for complaining about men but I would date a man 100x faster than I would ever consider a woman. Someone needs to run this survey on FDS and see if that is true for most if not all users there too. Oh and the DV rate in lesbian relationships makes me happy to be straight — I am a little crazy but thankfully men can keep their cool and are happy with make up sex. Yeah but having said that women ending up brutally injured or killed from DV would be from men but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?I dunno, birth control is quite recent and men have quite a forceful sexuality to start with. Also women could have sex with both men and women, but only the man gets her pregnant which is all you need to continue evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?So women date men to avoid women for a while? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?There are probably more women who want to fool around with a girl than there are women who want to seriously date a girl. Could this be a form of internalised misogyny (yes a cringe term but I think it's suitable). Women like each other enough to be friends with each other, why not relationships? It's not as validating or exciting hmmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:05 AM |
| -5 | What benefit is there in choosing to be with a man over a woman?Surely many women have secret homosexual feelings to their attractive friends/acquaintances. Even if not lesbian if that fluid sexuality theory is true then there'd be at least some bisexuality going on there and that gives you leeway. Maybe women just don't do lesbian relationships out of social pressures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after allAnyone who thinks women aren't thirsty has never been handsome and with a Instagram account. Unfortunately most men will never experience this so to help deal with reality they just pretend it doesn't happen. I don't know how good looking this guy is but it seems yes just like her male counterparts women want a fantasy. A handsome guy who seems totally into her... mmmmhmmm. Other than that I guess some women will do anything for lots of money. From gold-diggers (old school) to sex work these wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | PPD Demographics Survey July 2021Whatever I want to be. But mostly the first one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 21 | PPD Demographics Survey July 2021Every guy here comes from a middle class family where he was helicopter parented and wasn't popular in high school. Also aspie or higher than average on the spectrum. Every girl here is either mentally ill or a narcissist. Or an autist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 16 | Majority of Women Desire a "power imbalance" in a RelationshipWomen are class conscious and want to move up in social class if possible. That's why they all are going to college because having a degree means more status than not having one. It's men who are delusional and think hard work is a virtue rather than understanding the caste system that is their society. Also remember women have lots and lots of options, they are never thirsty and can afford to shop around for what they want. Their Prince Charming will come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 07:28 AM |
| 5 | Men should underachieve to get what they wantThere's no reward for not being a loser The only reward is the possibility of being able to live on your own in a one bedroom apartment but you need at least a middle class income to do that these days. It's hard to live on welfare unless you room it with roommates. Also you can buy stuff like videogames, cars, instruments, phones/pcs. Which is what a lot of single bachelor men do even if they have average jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Men should underachieve to get what they wantmanchild playing video game Why does playing videogames make you a man-child? Does doing drugs and playing guitar all day make you a man-child too or are you just stuck in the 90s where only loser nerds play videogames lol. The only people who say videogames are for losers these days are Boomers. Are u a Boomer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 9 | Men should underachieve to get what they wantLooksmaxing has its limits as much of what makes you attractive is genetic and can only be improved so much. Even plastic surgery has limits. Worst of all personality is even harder to change than looks so if your personality is not attractive you got a steep hill to climb. While a woman paying everything for you sounds nice, it doesn't happen for most men. Most men are expected to work otherwise you a loser. But men shouldn't slave their guts out to climb a corporate ladder when few will ever r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Which is more of a penalty when it comes to a man having dating options: being "boring", or being "criminal"/"sociopathic"?Is there such a thing as an incel drug dealer? I think there's your answer. I'm no expert on dating. But I have learnt one thing as a man and that's if your dating strategy involves waiting until you're older you've already failed. Unless of course your strategy is beta buxing where you just shamelessly throw money at women and hope they spread their legs so the cash keeps coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 07:43 AM |
| – | Men have rapists mentalitySure why not. But women like it this way for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 09:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen are quite possibly the biggest enigma, likely the biggest enigma to men that they'll ever know. This may partly be the fault of men themselves because in reality they want to be fooled. Just like when you watch a magic show you want to be fooled, when you follow some dating coach you follow him because you want to be fooled. Regardless of what the real truth is, the most successful guys seem to be 1) a hot fantasy or 2) rich. Women be wicked when you're unwanted. When you're wanted women b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 09:35 AM |
| – | Men have rapists mentalityMale sexuality is certainly predatory but this is true in all animal species. You watch any other species of animals such as birds have sex, it looks like rape and the female shows much resistance until she gives up. Males force their seed into the females and that keeps their species going. Also women select and breed for these traits. They could go extinct quite easily if you either didn't choose these men or aborted their babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 09:21 AM |
| – | Men want women with a low n count women want men with a high n count"Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance." Oscar Wilde I might disagree that a man absolutely has to have a high N or anything to be most sought after but at the same time there's something about a man who has endless female options. It's like they release special pheromones, maybe it's metaphysical and they just release these vibrations that attracts all nearby women. Whatever it is the rich certainly are just getting richer when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 01:05 PM |
| – | Men want women with a low n count women want men with a high n countNot rare at all. My boyfriend is this way and I know many men who are this way too. Not every man likes causal sex. Can your man literally sleep with any woman he wants or can he just sleep with lots of trashy thotty club skank types of girls? A man having the opportunity to have a high N count could mean many things depending on his standards... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 12:59 PM |
| -1 | OLD highlights how men are neglecting their skinBecause most women use the cheap shit, then when their skin gets worse wears more of it which makes it even worse. Models, IG thots are all using the expensive stuff and even they aren't always safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | OLD highlights how men are neglecting their skinWhy? Because this shit is mostly genetics like almost everything else... Yes this. Even though diet, exercise, health etc helps genetics is king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public?Are you American or different country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public?Yeah I'm Australian so I know what you mean. We're like many Northern or Western European countries where approaching is quite frowned upon. Little different in America and certain Southern/Eastern European countries like you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How to Resuscitate Marriage and the Birthrate?Have a baby passport to use social media when a woman is a certain age (like 25). She can't use social media unless she pumps out a kid and gets a baby passport. Similar to what they're doing with vaccines for COVID to get people to take them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 10:54 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Isn't Bill Cosby being released soon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:24 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Any answer that doesn't involve 'move to Thailand' is clueless. Or dealing drugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:23 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?I’d go to therapy and learn how to not internalize rejection. This is actually not possible unless you're a psychopath. The best you can do being a non-psychopath is have had lots of success with women in the past so if you do get rejected your past successes protect your self worth and keep it high even if it takes a small blow. Guys who get rejected tonnes are internalising the rejections they just keep approaching women because their dating coach told them to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:20 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?6'0 guy is actually 5'10 when measured so both are fraudin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho's the most despised social class? Is it the elites? The upper middle class? The working class? The elites only give a shit about money and power for themselves. The UMC is Reddit and Tumblr; filled with social signalling and a bourgeois elitism (despite the fact they're actually plebs to the elites). The working class is perceived as racist, sexist and anti-intellectual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 0 | Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportionNah these women are right that men only want sex. What they don't take into account is that there's a reason these women only are wanted for sex. There's tonnes of women who men want to call the next day, if you're not one of them it's because you suck. Men can be excused for being unattractive because there's a huge surplus of men. Women are by definition scarce so they have no excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's nice. It's still a male contraceptive because they only have a fertility rate of 0.2. I'd know lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 11:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAutism is an ever better one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Mate Selection for Modernity> This imbalance in the sexual marketplace is not a good thing. A society teeming with lonely women and sexually frustrated men is one hurtling toward disaster. It is imperative that we, as a society, think carefully about solutions to this burgeoning crisis. This was more of an issue in ancient times. In modern society the men become placid with videogames, porn, internet, sports and beer. Women can either eat, pray, love their way through life or find a community of women (femcels, FDS, femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Mate Selection for ModernityWell at least you're honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anythingMake up and clothes are meant to impress other women bud. Facts. Fools here will never learn. It's not hard to sexually attract a man either even with minimal effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 20 | CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anythingSure but this implies that masculine energy is all you need. Which maybe is true. But, what type of guys have this masculine energy? Guys who have been pre-selected by women since they were like 13 years old. That Indian guy you talked about was probably that extroverted popular guy in school who would have been dating since he was 13 years old. His confidence only grew with age because success is all he has ever known. In contrast a guy who's never had a date will have zero confidence around wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 08:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree now that VR might be a solution too. Especially if sexuality isn't a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 05:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWeren't as trustworthy as today, could break easier plus the male might not wear it properly or at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHmmm didn't think about virtual reality sex. But really advanced stuff, much more advanced than Pornhub has today (I haven't tried it so I don't know how good it actually is). Asexuality will be a challenge. Even physical castration doesn't remove thoughts of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 13 | What are going to be the biggest problems and challenges for generation z?Gen Z will face a world where you will own nothing, because the elites will own everything. You will rent for the rest of your life, you will have limited employment opportunities unless you're born into the right families, you will have temp jobs if you have one at all. You will have anxiety + depression that will be un/under-treated, you might have a girlfriend (if she gets off social media), Gen X and millennials will get into political power and will be just like their parents. You were prom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:35 AM |
| 6 | What are going to be the biggest problems and challenges for generation z?Also they never fully got to experience BlockBuster, which is a travesty. I'm a Zoomer and I got to experience BlockBuster. Fuck I miss videostores. Some of the happiest moments of my life browsing all the possible movies or games to rent; spending ages until I finally made a decision. I'd trade my testicles to bring BlockBuster back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | What are going to be the biggest problems and challenges for generation z?Move to the gahdamn midwest if you can get remote work in a HCOL and you’ll be living large. Remote work means Cheung and Radjesh can do your job too. Remote work = the whole world is your competition > This is the least mobile generation ever while having the most access to resources. How can they move if they don't have the money to just pack their bags. Unless their parents help them or they live in their car they may not be able to afford the new place to move to unless they're moving to an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust because something is not effective for everyone does not mean that it is not effective. That means it's advice that only works for those who don't need it. Which makes the advice worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCosts cash that you might not have. I know there's very cheap hookers but 1) the sex matches the price you pay and 2) their vagina nasty I live in a country with legal prostitution and there's no liberated male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:12 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe female sexual revolution was sparked by the invention of the birth control pill where women could have no strings attached sex without consequences. What could be the male sexual revolution? No it's not a male birth control pill because men don't suffer as many consequences from pregnancy (only financial and life circumstances). I think the male sexual revolution would involve men having the ability to have sex whenever they wanted. But this isn't possible for most men in heterosexual relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Modern women and modern men are not compatibleNot it's just the internet. People would rather use the internet and be in a virtual perfect world rather than a messy real one with imperfections. Most people are dating in real life but there's a reason these relationships end up being 3am service station nachos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern women and modern men are not compatibleNah being a career woman is ezy pezy. Most career women are in white collar professions where you do only about 2 hours of real actual work a day and the rest of it is spent socialising or pretending to be busy. If these career women were working class women working shit jobs or doing manual labour I'd agree being a career woman sucks. There's a reason women don't want to be housewives anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUsername checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | What is a "virgin"? Please define it.Many think a virgin is a woman who's never taken a penis. In reality a virgin to a man is a woman who's never been with a more attractive man than him. The fear is that she will pine for the superior guy she once had and you'll never be able to compete with his memory. This is what they mean when they say men want virgins. She could have fucked 100 guys before you but if you're more attractive than those 100 it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"You will own nothing and you will be happy." Have redpillers on realising the slow movement to neo-feudalism where the masses will own nothing and live in servitude to the elites to eat + sleep also applies to dating + relationships? Do they predict that the masses of men will have no woman and will just rent a woman (prostitution, OnlyFans, maybe Rent a Girlfriend like in Japan) while the elite men have polygamous marriages with many women? Feudalism and polygamy were very common in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:34 AM |
| 8 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)The more common scenario is not being dateable to the women they’re attracted to. Again you don't know this. Probably because it's hard to fathom a man who has no options because it's not your experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)This is why I think suicide needs to be legal for people 30 or so or older. They should basically know what it is going to be like by that point and should be able to go to a doctor for a stick of some sleepy time gravy. Why 30 or older? Why not younger? Futurama predicted suicide booths in the future I wonder if we could have an equivalent where you don't even need a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)The trouble with telling guys that they’re undateable is that a lot of them think they’re undateable when they’re not, even if they do have a lot of disadvantages. Just because you perceive them as dateable doesn't mean they are. Women decide who's dateable, not you. They may not be un-dateable due to looks either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Is it ever okay to tell a very unattractive man to focus on something else besides wanting to date? (Genuine)Self improvement is the new "just wait until you're older". If it's not happening today it won't be happening tomorrow either unless you completely change. This is not an easy thing as change is very hard; plus some parts of you may not be changeable. Some things aren't meant to be. People have to just realise this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Masculine men are most attractive to working class womenOnly in cheesy superhero movies. You're right many of them are sauced as fuck (such as Hemsworth) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Masculine men are most attractive to working class womenSocial masculinity seems to be much easier for men to achieve. In fact social masculinity in the way you describe just sounds like social fluency/abilities. A nerdy guy who's neurotypical could be very good at this while a muscled frat bro could have bad abilities. I'm more referring to rugged masculinity I guess you could call it. Risk taking is one key attribute as well as being handy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Masculine men are most attractive to working class womenOn a college campus you'd see tonnes of guys that have that Michael Cera lookin face right? I highly doubt they're all single. Ya know thinking about it I bet there's a hoarde of guys who look like that on a Harvard campus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Meanwhile America rewards those that inherit their wealth best of all. They’ll even make them president Yep. For a country that claims upward mobility and "class doesn't exist" they sure as hell don't vote like it. When was the last time somebody working class became president? Exactly, they're all Ivy League educated upper class douches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 10:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt began when the left became disconnected from its labor roots and was coopted by intellectuals in continental Europe and the US. When abouts did this start? I was thinking about when the upper classes became progressive the other day. In America for example I think the dominant ideology pre 1960 was anti-communism (which was really anti-soviet) but sometime after then the upper classes started to adopt the progressive ideology which has now evolved to what some people call woke politics (inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 07:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFriendly reminder the pandemic will never end even with a vaccinated population. There will be an outbreak of the disease, people will freak out over variant Epsilon and we'll be back in lockdown. Start getting cozy on Reddit because this pandemic ain't going anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | For women who want relationships, should they focus on succeeding in their careers or focus on their looks?> I’m a girl and for me personally I’ve been focusing on my looks and being well read. I’m in tech- I make 130k and own a condo in Seattle but I can tell guys don’t really care about this. Actually when I tell guys this- it does that opposite of attraction and actually scares them off, some guys think they can’t compete at my level and other insecurities come out. I think you need to escape Seattle and live in a place where men appreciate a more successful woman live. Like California, Portland, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 06:26 AM |
| – | Women and Mens views of casual sex vs relationship material are opposites of each other.What % of men fall into this category? If you'd ask some female Reddits they claim it's like less than 5% lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:32 AM |
| – | Women and Mens views of casual sex vs relationship material are opposites of each other.The prize is to get a sex-guy for a relationship. But most women settle for betabuxxers because they're not interested in sex. Are you saying women are interested in sex but lose interest because they don't marry Chad? Or are you saying women don't really like sex so marrying Chad wouldn't benefit her in the long run because she'd need to put out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?You thought about them 80 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?America is slowly becoming more and more secular. Many people are just religious by name not by lifestyle. It might have been true in the 80s and 90s that the church had a lot of power in America (especially with the rise of neoconservatism during the Reagan era) but now it's a vestigial institution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?The studies I've read state that gen Z is more conservative than Millenials and once they grow up have family and bills you lose the ideological views and become more practical and conservative. Have these studies controlled for social class? Lower class people are socially conservative while upper classes are socially progressive. Everyone talks about these woke left wingers and such. Go to a meetup or see these people in real life and you'll find they're all mostly upper (middle) class white p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 01:11 AM |
| 14 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?The protestant mindset also teaches that hard work is the key to success. So if you're not like the people on TV that means you didn't work hard enough. One of the purposes of school is to teach this mindset. Harder work leading to grades establishes a reward circuit in your brain that teaches hard work leads to rewards. Many adults never challenge this mindset and often they only challenge it when it's already too late and their bed is set. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 25 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?American culture is a success culture. Not necessarily a everyone is successful one but a worshipping of those who are successful. Success in America is entirely defined by money, status and influence; less to do with talent or actual accomplishment. Celebrities, millionaires and billionaires, athletes etc. are all worshipped in burgerland. Failure is very punished and shamed, this means most people live in quiet shame. The Europeans don't shame failure like the Americans do. They also realise t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 12:59 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe opened the jar, sleeves rolled up and vein protruding out of his arm. She bit her lip, boobily arching forward with her heavy cleavage. The tension was high, any minute there was going to be a short circuit. Wonder if that's good enough for r/menwritingwomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 10:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHouse someone was murdered in = on sale. Cmon Millennials, let's buy it before Blackrock does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looksI agree with your post but I will add one caveat. Being rich and powerful doesn't necessarily mean you're sexy to women; but you are part of the class that controls the country so who cares? An influencer may have more casual sex than a wealthy billionaire entrepreneur but that influencer is a loser in the power game because the influencer has no say in political decisions of his country. The influencer also depending on his social class may marry a lower class woman as well which means no gener… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 08:40 AM |
| 2 | To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks> Biggest HVM’s are people like drake, Connor mcgregor, Floyd Mayweather ect ect.. We're talking about who controls the country. Not who the masses worship. The masses don't run the country, the elites do. Yes controlling the country or even the world doesn't necessarily mean you make panties wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueNah it’s just that ugly guys have to lie about their intentions to get sex Yes this. They have to. If women would have casual sex with more ugly guys (when being honest) they wouldn't have to lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueNo men are the ones writing the love songs about being cheated on and left for another man and their heart is broken forever. Women are writing songs, articles, books on Eat Pray Love stuff and how hedonism beats any man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueNo. Being ugly doesn't guarantee a man is good. Maybe use this energy to encourage men to be better instead. Better men are boring. Trashy men at least get noticed and with rampant low self esteem in women they don't want any better until they're at least 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueThe ugly one might remember your name because you're the hottest girl he's had. To the hot one you're just another jizz collector, your name is simply Beth. Both of course only want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueYeah bro, an old lady dropped her purse today, I picked it up for her and she offered to blow me back at her place. I'm so alpha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueAmericans are far more attractive than the British. Not because of looks but because English female accents are horrid. They sound so trashy. Good thing Europe has many countries very close to escape that accent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueThis is why cat ownership becomes quite popular this time of year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:32 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLarger boobs = more feminine, more womanlike, possibly more fertile (bodyfat storage). Less chance you're secretly a dude and more chance you're fertile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:28 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat just means women are attracted to lean men, probably in the 12-15% bodyfat range (not too lean, but lean enough for a chisseled V). Having said that some men have better V lines simply by genetics (bone structure). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:25 AM |
| 10 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueThese guys are more redpill than the redpill guys themselves lol, damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen, is the male equivalent of boobs hands and forearms? I've heard many women claim that hands and forearms turn them on immensely. If this is true are men just productivity machines as women are baby-making machines? Hands and forearms sound a lot like women are attracted to men who work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think you need to be a world-class musician to get a gig at some random bar, there's only so many of them to go around and they can't be everywhere at once. Many ok musicians with an acoustic guitar get to have a go; you don't need to be like Hendrix or Frusciante to play guitar at a random bar. Some horny girl notices you, she says wow you're so good at guitar and everything works out from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Should women prioritise looksmaxxing to boost their dating success?Yes, focus on your looks. But make sure you're educated, knowledgeable and have hobbies/interests as well. Don't just follow social media as a hobby otherwise any man you'd want will be bored, unable to connect with you and it won't work well. You have to ask yourself what type of woman would the type of man you'd like want to be with? A woman can do well by focusing on her looks, having things to talk about that isn't Kim Kardashian and not being a dumbass with her mate choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:43 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf redpillers only cared about getting laid their advice would be 1) be as handsome as possible 2) be a bartender 3) do coke. Alternatively 2) can be replaced with become a musician, you could even be a musician and a bartender. But no, they don't do this. Instead they're lifting weights and learning Machiavellian manipulation techniques and discussing how women suck. They're doing things the throbbing hard way with no guarantee of any results. What's going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What do You consider interesting hobby?When guys say women have no hobbies they mean she only watches Netflix, shops and travels (take pics of herself in first world cities). They're shitting on her being a conformist and attention whore. Those hobbies are more indulgences than actual hobbies. A woman needs to do something that's unique and also be good at that thing. Like playing guitar is a good example, it's unique and she is good at it. Sure she can stick her tits out for subscribers but her guitar skills can't be faked. Although… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre gay men hypergamous and all gunning for gay Chads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo artists become drug addicts because drugs make you more creative or is drug addiction just a consequence of having a chaotic mind (which creative people tend to have)? Mind you there are renowned artists who have kept clean their whole lives. But nevertheless depression and drug addiction is so common in the arts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy comment wasn't sarcastic. You're legit one of my favourite users here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're not a scientist either? This is the problem with "following the science". Most people can't do it because they don't have the ability or interest to understand science at a level to be able to have a worthwhile discernment if something is at least possibly legit or not. The experts are often wrong, either accidentally or on purpo$e (humans aren't perfect). Most progressives who support increased efforts to combat climate change are as clueless with science as most Fox News watching conser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe beauty of the scientific method is that its self-censoring and self-correcting. Only one funeral at a time though. Science is no different to any other institution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd it's working. These tech corporations are the government and can do whatever they want. "But muh free speech" said the right winger. This is why they lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI already have plenty of friends and I am not a therapist. I’m here because I like arguing, especially with misogynistic men who aren’t half as smart as they think they are. Love you too Poppy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen you'll be disappointed to see people shitposting on the internet with legit IQs over 140 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 74 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionPeople in the past weren't perfect. People want perfection as a result of improved living standards. People aren't worrying about a bomb dropping on their head, starving to death (although both of these are quite possible in the future). People aren't even concerned about disease because Covid didn't end up being the plague. When you don't have anything major to worry about you'll create something new to worry about and worrying about how perfect your present/future partner is what you'll worry … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:20 AM |
| 3 | What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex or seeing someone since you’ve been sexually active ?once you become an adult most people dont care, the ones who do usually dont get any action. and 9/10 theres a reason why. Cold blooded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Women should stop having hookupsIf you want Chad, you need to provide a great experience. Even if you have a great personality as a woman Chad is hard to get so you need something extra to win the war among women. Being good at sex is the key here to get that final nail in the coffin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChina already tried this (accidentally at least). It didn't go well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, I fully expect my daughter's to slut it up. Well at least you're sane. I've read redpill entries in the past where the user was deeply afraid of his daughter being a slut/thot. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo redpillers with daughters really think their parenting will stop their daughter from becoming a slut/thot? You can discipline her all you like. Even if she doesn't rebel in high school she can/will rebel in college where she will be surrounded by horny attractive guys ready for service. Besides the fact that genetics influences behaviour more than parenting, culture influences people more than parents as well. We're all just a bunch of conformists looking for validation + acceptance; plus sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 02:53 AM |
| 11 | 2 weeks ago there was a post with a graph about decline in sex for UK students that attracted a lot of comments about open hypergamy and 80/20 ratio. The study itself can give way to more concrete numbers.Most guys I knew at uni weren't getting laid at all, but the top shaggers were able to rack up ridiculous body counts, 50+ per year for some. They say porn isn't real life but then you meet guys like this and go wow, dreams are possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Are women progressively dressing skimpier by personal choice or by social influence?Definitely personal choice but with social influence as well. It's to compete amongst other women (make other women be "mirin" to borrow a term from the great Zyzz); feel like a million bucks and attract the attention of some attractive guy. It's got nothing to do with male plebs, I don't even think you exist in her world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPopular right wing commentators on Youtube such as Crowder are so lame. Shapiro is even worse, I feel like I lose testosterone whenever I hear his voice. If Crowder or Shapiro represent conservative masculinity no wonder the left won the culture war. One side follows the rules (right wing) while the other side makes the rules (left wing); the left are definitely the higher testosterone group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?Not true. At your average city gym you would be hard pressed to find ONE guy who is actually on steroids. Most simply work out like crazy and eat protein powder. Nope. There's a steroid epidemic in places like the US and the UK, probably in Australia too, probably in most Western countries really. Most guys on gear don't necessarily need to look like Rich Piana to be on gear. In fact many guys on gear aren't even that big, or in many cases not big at all. Many are not even bodybuilders, but yes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 11:29 AM |
| 8 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsThe problem with guys who struggle is that they are introverted and have limited social circles. Their hobbies are often solitary and they don't meet large numbers of people. They also just dislike socialising for the sake of socialising. Unfortunately dating is like employment where it's not what you know, it's who you know. Extroverts have large social groups and long contact lists; even if most of these contacts are shallow relationships. It's an extroverted world unfortunately and being intr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 11:05 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's because single women don't exist. They're all taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 11:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadredpillers and FDS users are the perfect couple. They're both autistic, they're both full of hate for each other and have similar interests and values. Get a room. Wear protection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh and all those “online jobs” are quickly being called back into the office Then the proletariat quits and the bourgeoisie lose their slaves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?This is a social constructionist take. This would also mean that women could all become lesbians if it becomes popular. If I've learnt anything in life it's that if sexuality was a choice the human race would be extinct lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?But at the same time, I do think the younger gen are more open and less constrained by gender norms so it lets those who are more interested in feminine men express it more. Agree but just to add to that. I think it's mostly middle or upper middle class college educated younger people who are more into egalitarianism. Of course Reddit is dominated by this class so of course Reddit users think that everybody is like this because their social circles is exactly like that. You hang around working c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?This is the real alpha fucks, beta bucks. Alpha = feminine pretty boy, artist, non threatening, not into egregious displays of masculinity, bipolar (trait not the illness), egalitarian Beta = self reliant, stoic, ambitious, careerist (STEM, law, finance), into fitness/bodybuilding, displays masculinity, believes in sexual dimorphism The former are attractive to women in their teens and 20s. The latter are preferred by women 30+. If the redpill only want women under 30 they have their ideology ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlookism = critical face theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathread> Ah yes. Going under the knife so that you qualify to be a masturbatory tool for men Didn't you tell me that you went under the knife to improve your looks? Not a dig at you at all, nothing wrong with that and of course despite the "just be confident and yourself" bullshit you notice everyone treats you better and doesn't see you as a plastic bag when you're more attractive. Cans do get the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if you're unattractive you're doomed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou never hear about people in jail for millions of dollars worth of fraud getting any love letters... Well it's rare for rich people to end up in prison because laws are for poor people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat about criminality and women with Hybristophilia? I don't think all criminals are good looking that are getting love letters. Although notorious criminals are by definition famous so maybe fame is what is working with them in conjunction with being a criminal. You'd have to see if there's any non-famous criminals getting love letters but I wouldn't know the first clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah but going from sucker to asshole is quite a change. Easiest to just go hardcore then adjust backwards if you're gonna do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs being a jerk the best way for unattractive men to get laid? If you don't have looks, money or popularity to be sexy to women is there anything else men can do to be attractive? One possible thing to try is being a jerk, it won't work on all women but given there's girls with low self esteem you have a chance of being lucky. There's zero chance being nice will get you laid if you're not sexy as a man. Life is so much simpler for women. Just get a boob job and boob boom you have endless options… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen's the pinkpill OnlyFans dropping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?"If you're homeless, just buy a house!" Some UMC thot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 01:26 AM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?I think it's very likely that he lacks EQ and empathy, No you perceive him to lack empathy. EQ also is a made up metric to sell book$$ Do you feel empathy when you walk past a homeless man? Do you feel empathy when you squish a spider because it frightens you? Humans are not evolved to have empathy for hordes of people/animals they are designed to have empathy for small groups of people or animals like your grandpa or cat. Like Stalin said: one death is a tragedy, a million is a statistic. Him n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnpopular opinion: there are no women on FDS Like RPW before them, it's all dudes larping to promote the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating Marketmake more money In Millennials and Zoomers this isn't true. In fact I think in many places women outearn men on average. This is probably going to keep trending this way with women getting more college degrees and not to mention OnlyFans + social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:14 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThose 10s are either some sex predator, a Nigerian scammer or some girl looking for Instagram/OnlyFans followers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?when women take courses in college like gender studies that undermines the husband's authority, and the nuclear family. Even conservatives swallow the progressive ideals of the empowered careerist woman. Well to be fair women have always worked unless they were rich but women having careers and not compromising on work for kids is relatively new and came from tech advancements and modern capitalism. Maybe capitalism killed tradition like video killed the radio star. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Uneducated = lower class Educated = upper class Usually it's women who are more class conscious with their partner choice (logical) while men sometimes think love can be found anywhere (idealism). However sometimes men will refuse to be with an upper class woman either because they're just too different or he feels he can't please her. Also your social circle is often formed from your career or college. Who do you think ivy league law grads hang out with vs plumbers? A classless society is like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?Is maturity a consequence of lost attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?Does being a jerk make you confident or more confident? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?For every successful narcissist there are like 10 that amount to little or nothing. So being attracted to narcissistic traits because of the flawed idea they'll be successful is dumb. If all they care about is success they need to be at the finish line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?I'm addicted to you don't you know that you're toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Women are sexually attracted to Masculine Men only. The Red Pill is true because it explains this dynamic.It explains but it can't teach you how to be masculine. Masculinity is instinctual and RPers are neurotic nerdy dorks. You also can't learn how to be masculine by reading, only doing and being. Also manosphere gurus themselves aren't masculine. You see photos of guys at manosphere conventions (for example 21 or whatever it is) and the lack of testosterone is palpable. I can see why there's never any pics of these guys with women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:59 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWell having real self confidence can help with this. The problem is real self confidence comes from within and it comes from success and overcoming problems. A man who keeps failing is never going to be truly self confident because no real evidence suggests he's competent enough to triumph. Therapy, redpill, self help, it don't work because it doesn't change your core inner psyche around your self perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:37 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOnlyFans and social media proves men are the low self esteem gender. Men be doing anything for validation while women just get pampered and feel like a million dollars. Self esteem studies are based on self assessments and humans notoriously lie about themselves. For men this is true with self esteem because 1) being a low self esteem male is not acceptable by mainstream society and 2) even if you do have issues nobody cares about them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread2 most women who want to fuck a tall, fit, well endowed facially attractive guy can just do it instead of paying for a fantasy on onlyfans. Are there no giga-Chads or celebs who are so attractive and out of reach that having sex in real life is not an option so paying for a fantasy online out of desperation is the only way to go? Women may be surrounded by hot guys but maybe not super hot guys. These super hot guys are somewhat mythic and can only be seen online. Are there women who pay for this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 7 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAre you sure you don't just suck? I beat out 794 people to get into my grad program This is a very narcissistic take and sounds more like a cry for validation than anything. I don't know you so I don't know what type of family you come from. But it's amazing how many grad programs end up being nepotism hires and are an executives son/daughter. To be fair sometimes nepotism hires deserve to be selected but sometimes these companies really are just lucky the government doesn't care. If you did ach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf women are surrounded by water, water is not of interest. Women will want lemonade for a drink because of how tasty it is. Is lemonade (hot guys) making the women thirsty and wanting a drink irrespective of how much water she's had or is available? Are there any examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI agree it's both. But the woman is hot especially if the woman is making good money on OnlyFans; so he wants validation from an attractive girl. OnlyFans in many ways is an online strip club. Music, sometimes dancing, a look but you can't touch policy and dumb guys (simps) thinking the girl is actually into him if he keeps paying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhat aspect of “looks theory” is this testing? Whether women are attracted to men in the same way men are attracted to women. Looks theory claims women are just as thirsty as men visually they just have high standards. A hot guy with an OnlyFans proves if this is true or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAre there any male OnlyFans accounts where there are WOMEN (not gay men) paying for the guy's special videos or photos because of how handsome/attractive he is? Basically are there any OnlyFans accounts where the guy is sexually attractive and has a horde of female SIMPS paying him for content? This is the true litmus test of looks theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 01:39 PM |
| 28 | CMV: Only men can change the messed up dating market by having higher standardsYou can only attract what you can attract. Many men only have so many options so will choose what they can get over being alone. There's only so many good women and they are snatched up early. Leaving men over 30 thinking shit, what other choices do I have? Of course you could argue they should just be single and be happy alone but this is easier for some than others. Also juggernauts law rules supreme: unattractive women be like min wage jobs with 1000s of applicants. Your movement will be drow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWomen want a capitalist in the streets and a communist in the sheets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Redpill philosophy makes you boringWell there are some desperate people out there looking for this "secret" to success. Looking for a guarantee. Which is not a knock on them, they just need to get over their fear of failure. This is why younger guys are the biggest market for gurus. Also autism and OCD/anxiety/depression is quite high in these communities. They're looking for help, but not in the right place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Redpill philosophy makes you boringThis is just a cynical viewpoint that all women cheat. Which is not true. There are guys you'd consider Reddit soy boys, guys who look like this and their wives never cheat on them in their lives. In fact she loves him despite his flaws. There are shitty women out there but there are some good women out there. There's just not enough for every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:16 AM |
| 9 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleDating apps are a by-product of capitalism where everything is about profit/value. You'll only be selected on dating apps if you have sexual attractiveness, wealth or status to offer. Your morals/values/interests are well below those aforementioned 3. You need to lie just to get a chance in the first place. Kind of like employment where so many people realise they get far more interviews if they lie and make the lie believable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?"Men are like dogs, they are lost without an owner" Some woman somewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you honestly believe men age better than woman?No if anything women age better due to male sex drive. Women just ain't thirsty so just can't find themselves horny for your average George Costanza dad bod over 40. A man can find your suburban Karen sexy simply because boobs. Most men do not age like fine wines. Not just balding and developing beer guts but also losing testosterone, virality, not to mention erectile dysfunction. Women's sex drives stay the same throughout their lives and their energy levels don't decline like men's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 15 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleGood Profile = Sales Sales = Bullshitter Therefore good profile = bullshitter Women just want men who are good at lying to them. Ya'll just want a man who eat hot chip and lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menThere's no pressure for men. Coming early just means she's hot, if she can't realise this she's a moron who you'd be glad is out of your life anyway. Being good at sex "comes" from experience. Having sex also makes you release pheromones which attracts more women who want to have sex with you. The rest is having some empathy for your partner, finding a partner who vibes with you and one you find sexy and just want to rip her clothes off. Male psychological performance pressure is a shill that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Is manosphere ideology just millennial discontentment with reality?Nope. Millennials are the tradcon generation, they never had trouble getting women. What about the guys online? Sure the average guy might have had no issue but what about the below average? > Also they never wanted to be Homer Simpson, they want to be Hugh Hefner. I'd argue men wanting to be Hugh is a response to women wanting to be Sex and the City girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Is manosphere ideology just millennial discontentment with reality?Women dictate the rules, what women want, men will try to be. If being BP got you success with women, RP wouldn't be a thing. This is very different to the "don't care what women think" mantra I see around here. > If being BP got you success with women, RP wouldn't be a thing. Most men are BP, the average guy of course isn't a stud but does achieve some success. The average guy using BP or RP advice will get similar results. If I see a RP average guy do better it's because he lowered his standar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:31 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhen will redpillers admit that getting girls is all about ego and getting your masculinity affirmed? For guys who claim they don't base their self worth on what women think you seem to care a lot about how attractive you seem to them. A virgin paying a hooker or Alpha Adam hooking up with some Tinder slut, it's all the same. If you think otherwise you're admitting that women's validation is everything to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:24 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAlso hot girl famous means you'll only be famous for a decade or two. Which is ideal so you can be treated like a king for a couple decades while avoiding public areas and TMZ. Then when you lose your fame you can go wherever you want and nobody will recognise you. If you're famous young and not famous old that works out quite nicely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 12:31 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat Megathread"Being an ugly woman is like being a man. You're gonna have to work." Daniel Tosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 12:09 AM |
| 3 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Yes, that is what applying for jobs is like. And you do it, again and again, until you get one. Smarter idea is to aim for a less competitive job if you need money then network and get jobs by being likeable. The key to getting a job is to not even need a resume. Same with dating. Success comes when you don't even need to approach women and they do the work for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingDon't fall for the meme. There are plenty of conservative girls in the West as well. They just get ignored. These guys don't want trad waifus. They're all closet coomers. Conservative only means something if she's hot lol. And let's face it hot Instagram/Onlyfans girls are certainly not conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingIf men actually woke up they have the power and the leverage to essentially replace western hoes with Conservative women. Conservative until she gets the green card. Then you'll see how conservative she really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:43 AM |
| 6 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?It's not that women who say this expect men to not feel shy or nervous. It's that their standard for "really wants me" is, "wants me enough to fight past their anxieties." The point isn't that they "don't mind approaching any woman they like." The point is that they do mind, and do it anyway--due to sheer strength of desire. Do women realise that men actually get rejected. Every time you get rejected means you had to overcome anxiety, put in effort just to fail anyway. So a man is expending tonn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:54 AM |
| 4 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?> You end up being the "man" of the relationship. You have to take initiative for everything Don't modern women want "equal" relationships? That means both partners are men and women in roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Most people, men and women, are better off if women make men wait for sex .He at least knows if he likes her enough to consider the possibility. Does he know if he wants to marry a woman after a date? Definitely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Most people, men and women, are better off if women make men wait for sex .A guy knows if he wants to invest in a woman whether he waits 1 date or 100 dates for sex. Waiting for sex may involve a man spending money on a woman but it doesn't prove he actually likes her. He's just paying the price of admission. I'd argue women are better off sleeping with men quickly so you know if he sucks in bed, has a small dick etc which no relationship will make better. You can cut it off before anything serious or time investment occurs. It's good for men because a man only knows i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | AWALT is a feature, not a bug.Is there any study that looks at this and controls for wealth? I only looked the Pubmed one and there's no control for wealth. Reason I ask this is if men with more money are given more loyalty because of the inheritance when he's gone. Compared to a divorce where the wife would only get 50% of the wealth at best compared to 100% when still married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:14 AM |
| 3 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.The least successful Kardashian is still way more accomplished than you are, and probably earns more in a week than you would in your entire lifetime. If the average person was smarter this wouldn't be the case. Imagine that, scientists/researchers being millionaires because average people pay to learn about their research. LOL jk, here's season 25 of The Bachelor! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemGuys think “personality” means “she wants a religiously moral teetotaler.” I think it's more interpreted as being interesting hence the advice given as "get more hobbies". Getting more hobbies or life experiences does not mean you will be seductively charming to women. In fact a boring guy with no hobbies might be very seductively charming and he has no life other than Netflix and videogames. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemHmmmn I think it should be clarified that the social skills to be charming to men and the social skills to be charming to women are different. For example I can make a man laugh really easily, at least a high percentage of men but women laughing at my jokes is quite rare. In fact I'm at a stage where I don't even joke around women anymore. In fact when I do talk to a woman it's almost entirely business like and would be the opposite of charming. But this works out well for me because 1) I don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | People being born naturally RP? A discussion.Yes people born into either extreme poverty or extreme wealth usually have redpill mindsets. The people who were born in the middle are the bluepilled so that means the majority are bluepilled. Good looking guys are usually bluepilled while the reverse is for very ugly guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Do people really change?What's life for women like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 10:10 AM |
| 5 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"Sure and nothing wrong with that if you can attract a guy who meets your standards. Women who whine about most guys not meeting their standards and can't attract the guys who can meet her standards should either accept what she can attract or shut it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"Not? Gross 7-11 warmer hotdog The type that will make you sit on the toilet all day afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:19 AM |
| 5 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"" Men are like parking spaces, the best are already taken." The problem is women want men who have already been chosen. Every guy you find attractive is either fuckboy material or daddy material and they already have tonnes of women fighting over them. The problem with competition is that someone has to lose. There's nothing wrong with the average guy. He's just not a stud and as you said you see him as a hot dog on the ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Can the majority of guys be hot though diet, excercise, grooming and acting?The majority of guys can get attention from women simply by being a felon. It won't attract every woman but it sure attracts more than you could ever have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:17 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat Megathread> “a can-do attitude,” “hard work,” “operating from principles,” and “striving towards success” > devastating” to women and minorities. Ima work for Lockheed now and show this company how to not be oppressive to women and minorities. Forget unions, I have CRT to cover my ass now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:07 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMyth: With the amount of information available online it's never been easier to succeed at anything. Fact: Most information available online is low quality at best and usually useless. If it's never been easier to succeed, why aren't there more successful people? Millennial life coaches selling shitty E-books + courses telling you how to be rich and successful (despite the guru being none of those two things) is not really what you wanna be or what you wanna follow. Self help has probably ruined… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 09:05 AM |
| 7 | The most effective Blue Pill Strategy is exposure + timeI'd say alcohol is the most effective blue pill strategy. "Ah I was so shit faced last night, I shouldn't have fucked that guy. We can be that mistake!" [Seth in Superbad] Alcohol + some pingas = sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 09:47 AM |
| 2 | It's not an issue if women don't want to date you or sleep with youIt has nothing to do with anybody having a right to anybody's body. Women would of course have an equal voice in whatever solutions we come up with. Contrary to opinions on this sub I think most men and women in today's society are happy with how things are. Or they're at the very least content with how it is. You try telling most people that Western freedom was a mistake they'd look at you like you're an alien lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 04:59 AM |
| 4 | It's not an issue if women don't want to date you or sleep with you> Most women are happier with a husband and kids than they are riding the CC until they’re too dead inside to be worth it for Chad. Are you sure about this? Many women were dead inside pre 1960s being a traditional woman. I mean there certainly would have been happy women too but many women may have only put on a happy face in public but were actually very miserable. Also if it was better back then why didn't it last? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 04:56 AM |
| 14 | It's not an issue if women don't want to date you or sleep with youDo you feel women feel entitled to men's bodies? When you apply for a job do you feel entitled to getting that job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:32 AM |
| -2 | It's not an issue if women don't want to date you or sleep with youMaybe the population doesn't give much of a damn about morality and being moral? You're right that all the time in politics, business, dating and such immoral behaviour is actually rewarded. People see this they just don't care so that means people don't really care about morality. Remember it's a huge assumption to think people not only care about morality but also have self awareness to highlight their flaws. Instead people will just rationalise they're a good person regardless of what the evi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:29 AM |
| 7 | Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is?How can "the wall" be true if women initiate the majority of divorces? If most divorces are initiated by women that means they see a happier life away from their current husband. It is also very likely he is very replaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 06:54 AM |
| 3 | When is ‘confidence’ actually confidence and when is it arrogance or fake?Both are attractive to women. In fact you could argue that confidence is arrogance anyway because it takes arrogance to trust yourself despite the odds of success not being in your favour. Many arrogant men are kings in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.Most vetting decisions are based on a gut feeling which really is just how much you like the other person. It's not objective because people are easily fooled all the time. You see this in dating, in voting for a politician, in employment; it's all about that gut feeling which is usually wrong anyway. If humans had good intuition of other people why are people so surprised when a certain celebrity ends up with these sexual assault charges all of a sudden? You liked this celebrity now you don't b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ?Because children mean responsibility and responsibility takes away from having fun and pleasure. Liberal feminists believe pleasure is the meaning of life and life is about maximising pleasure/happiness/enjoyment. To have fun you are told you need to travel, party, socialise, have the sex you can't have in a marriage, save the trees and the bees in some prestigious corporate job. Of course everyone who's done any of these activities knows 95% of it all is overrated and the happiness/enjoyment yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 03:56 AM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHow many rich men (rich meaning >100 million net worth, I control politicians rich not millionaire next door rich) are single unmarried bachelors? By unmarried I also mean never married, not guys who have married and been divorced. How many very wealthy men live their lives completely single and never getting married? I'm sure they exist but it doesn't seem like too many are around. Why this is could be due to appearances and social status (being married helps in career and in upper class social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:37 AM |
| 2 | The internet and OLD increase equality of opportunity for men to get laidWouldn't real life be better for average and below average men because they're not reliant on a picture to get swiped? Being classically handsome is mostly genetic although you can maximise what you've been given by being thin. If it's genetic your ability to improve it is limited to being thin and perhaps plastic surgery if you have the money. However real life requires social skills, extroversion and such which are also genetic but can be improved somewhat. A non handsome guy might be able to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.How does one rent a wife/woman besides escorts and sugarbabies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Most Preferred Occupations For Your Partner- And Why ?Hot lawyer chick has always been my fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Career Motivatiion Differences Between Men and WomenAre most people here older such as Gen X or Boomers? Because with younger people it seems like careers for life are a yesterday thing. These days to start with you're lucky to have a career at all instead of a dead end temp job and if you do have a career very likely in 10 years time you'll be doing something different. Jumping from career to career if you're lucky, or job to job if you're unlucky seems to be the new normal. Personally I prefer this because I have no interest in doing one thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Is male status overrated?Does the guy need to care about his life if you're just looking for a hookup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Is male status overrated?Any man who spent his early life rejected by women once becoming famous/successful will try to leverage their wealth to get pussy. This is why Hugh Hefner really needs to be an example for men who feel they need to "catch up". Bill Gates pretended to be a virtuous human who's beyond all that and would look down on the Hefs of the world. Now he's in hot water; imagine thinking Epstein would help him win a nobel prize just so he could seem godlike. Godlike just to get more pussy which is really sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Is male status overrated?Ok I agree being celebrity famous can be essentially makeup for men. Yes because many women want validation of having slept with the celeb even if they don't find him attractive. But it's not a good strategy for most men because most men will not be famous like this. Not even temporarily because most fame is short lived too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Is male status overrated?Professors and CEOs (of respected companies or universities) are high status but not necessarily in a this guy is so sexy way. They are attractive in a social standing kind of way so yes there are women interested but I'd argue these men are more in the "marriage material" category. Of course you can be a stud CEO but most CEOs are not like this, in fact many are dorky and boring (nothing necessarily wrong with that); same with professors too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Is male status overrated?Do men value other men based on how handsome or intriguing they are? Although guys with lots of female attention usually get respect from other men because they envy his success. He may not be high in the pecking order though but he does have respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | If you're an independent career woman who is very financially successful would you be interested at all in a younger intelligent man with a normal job who would be willing to support you in your career and take responsibility of the domestic chores? Or do you still expect an older career man?What about having a handsome trophy husband? He's hot as hell plus you can show him off to your girl friends. Is this not appealing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?I agree. Been telling these fools for years. Young women are all into Harry Styles looking guys. Pretty boys who play music and don't give a fuck. Masculine looking attractive guys such as Henry Cavill are preferred by women who are in their late 20s or older. I see guys here telling men to just become more masculine. Get jacked, get money, be alpha, all that shit. Then also saying that younger women (under 25) are the best. But these young women see an alpha male as a handsome starving artist w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 14 | Most men don’t really become marriageable until after 25.Marriageability =/= sexual attractiveness This applies to both genders ftr. No one cares how marriageable you are if you're unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives?In the past they were used in wars or slavery. That kept the numbers down. I wouldn't worry about low status men rebelling against the government/elites because not only are the people too docile to do anything about it but also are too satisfied with dopamine induced activities. Look at Occupy Wall Street which had something to protest about because of the major difference between winners and losers in today's globalised capitalism. Competition means someone is gonna lose and the losers are los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you think socioeconomic background/class matters for men or only for women in today's dating scene?Western society is very much a caste + classist based system even though it's politically incorrect to talk about it. Why else do parents send their kids to private school (it's not because of better teaching)? Why else do people of certain groups want to live in certain areas and hang out at certain venues? To marry somebody from a lower class than yourself your parents will need to approve of them. If William Thaddeus has Third has values of the upper class and Sabrina Thotimus Prime has the v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits?Openness - High Conscientiousness - Low to mid Extroversion - Low Agreeableness - Low Neuroticism - High Although Big 5 personality testing like all personality testing fails because people see themselves ideally rather than realistically. People are bad at understanding themselves and are not honest. Especially if doing these tests for employment where there is only one correct personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 0 | The victim is never responsible for being abused, raped, etcWould you agree that a victim can be responsible for being a moron? While I agree a victim is not responsible for being raped/assaulted as the crime is entirely committed by the offender so therefore it is the aggressor's fault. But they are responsible for being a moron with their choice of dating a certain guy. Even though people may say that some guys are very good actors and only showed their true colours later; usually there were warning signs before it happened and the woman just chose to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 6 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?Red pill gurus can't attract smokeshow women because they're frauds scamming lost boys for money. I agree looks aren't everything but there are beautiful women with good personalities; these women have better options than manosphere dating coaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 07:35 AM |
| 2 | The bad-boy appealPerhaps it's less about the bad boy and more about her. Many women love to think that they're the better half in every relationship so choosing a bad boy makes her seem like the goody goody two shoes who can't do no wrong in the relationship. This means anything that goes wrong is his fault and she has no fear of societal judgement or ostracization. Every woman who dates these guys also mentions that only she understands him and he really does have a pure heart. Sugar n spice and everything nice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status.Have you ever heard how women in elite law firms talk? What words they use? How they communicate? I assume they talk about this restaurant called Dorsia and compare business cards all day. They probably also discuss politics all the time and realise there's more important issues in the world than Sri Lanka. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status.Because it's for other women to do, not for her to do. Do as I say not as I do or some shit. An upper class college chick can't marry a blue collar worker because daddy would never accept him. He needs the upper class credentials such as college degree from the right school as well as career at correct company. Rich girls don't marry poor boys. Upper class woman may also have different values to working class man. At the end of the day people just want approval and validation from others and be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isI agree but it is what it is. If human insecurity was rare capitalism would die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isIt's not necessarily about sex, often it's not necessarily about love either. It's feeling left out and possibly feeling defective because you can't get what you want. Nobody respects someone who can't get what they want. It's all about fitting in and feeling like you belong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Cheating Mega ThreadAre women turned on by her partner cheating? I know of a couple where the guy cheated on the girl. You'd think they'd have broken up but instead they're still with each other. In fact after being found out for cheating their relationship seems happier and more stable than ever. There might be more to it but it's weird. The reason I ask the above question is because I know that women will spend a whole afternoon whinging about certain traits in a man then the next day hookup with a guy that has a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Female dating coaches are the most selfish people on Earth.I'm the kinda guy who watches Kezia Noble videos with the sound off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/Older> Have causal fun That for just see some escorts if they're desperate with no success. Unfortunately male desperation makes everything worse so you need to do anything that will quench the thirst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Women should generally be the first person in a committed relationship to initiate sexYou'll be waiting years if you do this lol. Unless you look like a Hollywood stud you need to invoke female desire by forcing your way into her panties (consensually of course). Women are like walls and when life gives you a wall you break the wall down. Although if a woman wants to fuck you before you even say a word you're golden. Also a good idea to always push for sex quickly with women because you'll know whether she's just a prudish bore or unattracted to you very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 7 | AF/BB is mostly the same guy, Younger/Older> Look guys, men who were not successful with women in their 20s don’t get an automatic glow up in their 30s that make them more sexually attractive to women. I agree that a guy who fails with women at 25 will in most cases fail at 35 unless he fixes some core issues that are making him unattractive. Most guys failing with women on Reddit are too autistically obsessed with self improvement and their STEM career such as engineering. In many cases they can fix their issues by being more open, less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Cheating Mega Thread"Men are like parking spaces, the best are already taken." That's all I have to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Men do care about a woman's occupation. (CMV)Ahhh the woes of being a substandard, lower class man when the women of your dreams are hottie bad bitch lawyer chicks. Sometimes you just don't want to wake up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?What men get upset about is being unwanted before they had money. Especially if the woman isn't noticeably as attractive as she was when she was younger. No man wants to be chosen when a woman only chooses the guy after she has lost a large amount of what appeals to him. Also guys who did really badly when they were younger will be cynical about a woman showing interest all of a sudden when he's older. He is haunted by the lovers he never had when he was at his most vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are most college graduates women?College is a class tell. These college educated women want to be considered at least middle class class and want to avoid blue/pink collar work. Also maybe women on average just have more aptitude for academics then men. Women are also smart in that they major in degrees that are better choices such as arts or business. That way they major in something that allows them to work on their personalities, network and ultimately enjoy their college experiences. Many engineering grads are very disappoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:13 AM |
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