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Schopenhauer was like that “it’s probably a tumor” kid on kindergarten cop. He was cynical about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:15 PM
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Windmill Flowers 2.0 Also Schopenhauer was right in his own way. A lot of male observations about women and romantic ideas are clouded by hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:45 PM
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Polanski fled the US and hid out overseas to avoid charges I think he never came back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:33 PM
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Because the people who “campaign” for stuff like that are usually frauds That’s why the “anti racism” people get caught saying racist stuff, the “feminist ally!” types turn out to be creeps and the “Christian anti gay” activist groups usually have gay people high up in the org lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:37 PM
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Let’s face it, most guys already do this w/o even thinking about it. Redditors are just a bunch of autists though so they have to make a spreadsheet or peer reviewed study about how they banged a fat chick because they were horny/desperate etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:27 PM
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The “Personality” arguments on here are always hilarious. It just goes to show a lot of Redditors are either kids or adults who’ve never really dated or had relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:59 PM
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I think it’s probably worse because guys will say “no” out of embarrassment etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:33 PM
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I kind of doubt it. On Reddit maybe it’s common to read dumb shit like that but Reddit is not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:29 PM
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Seems like a strawman, very few men hate womens romance novels or are even aware of them tbh women are more likely to make fun of the industry. If I had to pick something guys hate it would probably be mainstream romance movies/trashy girly RB type music. It also needs to be said that romance books are basically porno for women so they range from normal to rule34 type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:20 PM
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This is something most (read:MOST lol) people understand at an intrinsic level. BUT I get what you’re saying because people gave me the same treatment when I was young. Telling me to try harder and be more confident and all that other BS. Like kids would tease me or rough me up in high school and my parents would tell me that I had to “learn how to be friendly”. And forget about girls that didn’t happen until college lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:12 PM
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Reason and Accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:19 PM
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“Omigod I actually got a girls number this hasn’t happened for months lemme take 10 shots to chill my nerves before calling her”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:32 AM
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As a guy I find that if they’re attracted to me then I’m polite, smart, funny, sweet etc. However if it’s middle attraction then they pick out little stuff to get mad about, I’m annoying obnoxious dumb and can’t do anything right. So maybe that’s what you’re finding OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:30 AM
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Well Reddit isn’t real life also it’s an echo chamber esp politics sections etc so not a great example. My guess is someone that is legit autistic (and if unlucky ugly) their early school/dating experiences were terrifying. Like constant bullying, being ostracized and/or voted ugliest guy in high school (cough lol cough). And they likely didn’t understand why it was happening because they did all the stuff they were told to do. So yeah their posts will be occasionally out of this world. On the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:05 AM
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OP Normal women aren’t disgusted by mens desire. Quite the reverse actually. The kinds of women who make those “all men are rapists who only want SEX” posts aren’t the type of people you want to date, and it’s rare to meet them in real life anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:26 PM
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OP-> Modern media is specifically designed to “fry your brain” and always has been. And it’s not just dating it’s everything. About ten years ago I unplugged from almost all media except some Internet forums - no more Facebook, the IG is just pics of jobs I work on, no satellite TV or news - and when I talk to friends and relatives it’s like speaking with insane people. Whether it’s popular stuff, or news stories, or whatever they are always out of their damn minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:50 PM
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There’s a war against beauty and masculinity right now. All the people mad about Sydney Sweeney in that jeans ad (a ripoff of an 80s one lol) and the push to make “pretty” game characters ugly. Add a bunch of bizarre/ugly/gay characters. And if you speak truth to any of it you will be attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:05 PM
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Men like big tits women like big dicks. And????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:38 PM
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Just legalize it. Penalizing adults because they pay money for nookie is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:13 PM
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They can’t ban it nationwide. I don’t blame you for thinking that way because most people have zero idea how our system works lol. They might ban it in a really really conservative state but otherwise they don’t have the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:08 PM
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I’m trying to imagine the typical “Redditor who has never had a girlfriend” looking for a “practice girlfriend.” Sounds like a Ben Stiller movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:28 PM
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Nothing wrong imho just a different cultural way of going about it. From what I’ve seen it’s usually family members trying to make the introductions more than anything else. Statistically our enlightened western dating habits aren’t great either. We have tons of broken homes it’s not our place to throw rocks at other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:00 PM
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That’s because most men don’t get lots of women. They’re not able to date lots of women or have sex with lots of women. It’s like some kind of sorcery they can’t figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:01 PM
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Lowered inhibitions. The girl or guy you normally wouldn’t get with because they’re low status, a bit overweight, obnoxious, different politics whatever suddenly becomes an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:46 PM
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To your title: Once you realize that society = “everything is the man’s fault” it makes more sense lol. This trickles down to individual men’s psyche as well. I see posts on these relationship forums where guys will come up with bizarre self-blame rationales for why their wives/girlfriends took off. The rest of your post: Sounds like normal guy stuff, especially if you’re trying to date online which is a hellish cesspit. Having a social circle and meeting girls in person is almost like a superpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:08 PM
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Hooo boy I mean be as funny as you can be and as good looking as you can be is a good rule of thumb lol There aren’t necessarily prerequisites though it’s more like who you want to date and where you live. I’ve lived places where the only guys who got dates were that flatbiller tattoo look and others where it’s preppie guys. Tall guys are always a plus. So you need to figure out your local culture/market first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:57 PM
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Muh Gender PayScale lolololol But yeah some of the stuff they list is…pretty silly…or bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:48 PM
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If you take a step back and use your adult brain you’ll realize most of “those guys” are very self centered/narcissistic combined with extroversion. And if they’re good looking it’s party time. That’s why whenever women get with them they’ll make posts trying to fix him IE make him less of a selfish prick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:29 PM
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Well OP asked why guys aren’t chasing (I think they still are) so to play along imagine being the average dorky college guy on a date with them. You’d probably think females are all insane lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:36 PM
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It’s only falling in the west, all the other places are still having lots of kids, more than they can practically care for. For example Bangladesh and a lot of nearby countries are over 2.0, Africa is like 4.0 lol. Arab countries are over 2.0. And many have massive populations already compared to Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:14 PM
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I’m willing to bet every hot hollywood star and all IG models you guys look at today (male and female) have had surgery, steroids, hair implants, all the stuff. My hot ex had stuff done and I didn’t know until she told me. People don’t look down on that unless it’s over the top/bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:44 PM
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That already exists sort of. Part of the visa process is connections in the country like friends/work/fiancé etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:32 PM
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Probably but I can understand why guys would think otherwise. When I first moved to Arizona I tried driving Uber in a college area. The worst passengers were young college girls. I never met so many bratty snide rude little shits in my whole life lol. Half the time I wanted to pull over and slap them. Oh yeah forget about good review and tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:18 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:57 AM
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So we went from “there is no data” to “there is plenty of data”. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:33 PM
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My feeling is that it’s mostly economics. It’s too expensive to live these days in America/Western countries. Back in the 70s a guy who was a renta cop and a girl who was a part time school teacher could buy a decent house in SF or LA and raise a family. Today they need to make like 150k a year etc. And then we have the dopamine fix of social media and video games. Girls post selfies and get likes and “you go girl” comments and the guys play video games where you can have a house, car, girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:01 PM
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As if social pressure to get married disappeared at the same time apps were invented lol. Redditor Logic never disappoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:36 PM
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Well no they aren’t actually. Not every guy is genetically smart enough or active enough to get there physically/financially. You can be the best YOU but not everyone can be too 10% income or strength or whatever. Also: If all men did that women would just find new things to complain about. If every man was a 6’4” doctor with visible abs and a 140IQ they’d start filtering men based on eyebrows or noses or the way he laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:05 PM
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That’s interesting because there is a definite part of the brain associated with face recognition. My personal experience is that ugly male faces do get angry woman responses, perhaps that’s why, “this THING is talking to me grrrrr”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:54 PM
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Yeah i am in the “do not believe” category too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:02 PM
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OK That’s how most people do it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:30 PM
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Wait til you’re 40 to date 40yr olds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:15 PM
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That would mean like 30-40% of young women are lesbians. And not just lesbians but the man hating types who never swing the other way. So yeah ummmmm….probably not happening lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:29 AM
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That’s not quite what they’re talking about but: The difference is guys are honest about it. Women will come up with a whole book worth of crap about how he was magical, amazing, the only one that ever understood me, my twin flame, we have sparks from the moment we met…. Meanwhile guys will just say that “she was hot.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:37 PM
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Not crazy. People have a weird way of feeling sorry for celebrities, criminals, especially high profile ones while not caring about normal people who are in fuckety situations. It’s just how we are wired I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:59 AM
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Literally every advice thread for men will mention fashion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:25 PM
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Smells like a windmillflowers thread lol There are SOOO many average to ugly old married couples all over the place that your argument makes no sense. The biggest thing to break up a couple….is money. Specifically not enough of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:53 AM
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Well obviously two thirds of young men are “below average.” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:08 PM
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There’s more objectively below average people having sex and making kids than any other group lol. Statistics prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:02 PM
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Men were statistically more successful at “finding a mate” prior to feminism, at least in modern times. If you’re going to dig up a study on caveman genetics I’m not sure what to say, it’s hard to argue against that level of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:50 PM
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THIS It’s usually a much bigger problem but they don’t wanna say it so they bitch about dishes or your dog or dirty socks or whatever. When in reality they want you to make more money or a bigger house or show more affection or they’re losing attraction. Another huge thing are their toxic friends. The friends egg them on until they file for divorce so they can be the 31 is the new 21 girl at the bar. Then six months later “I miss my ex!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:19 PM
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OP might be right, or wrong, situation depending. In the aggregate: Free Love, The Pill, Ez Divorces and now Online Dating have all chipped away at marriage and relationships in general. Combine that with the highly inflationary “Global Economy” and it’s no wonder that so many young men are single/sexless/unemployed. And of course we blame the young men for not wanting to eat their shit sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:32 AM
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I was watching the news and a guy was shot during a robbery (he was the robber so screw him) and he had 20 kids all born out of wedlock. So ummmm yeah OP your advice is definitely active in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:25 AM
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Yes, and for attention. There’s a huge tendency for people to say outlandishly stupid things just to get their name trending on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:56 PM
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No way to make it egalitarian with programming or new rules. The whole problem with online dating is that men click almost every single profile and women click maybe 5-8% of profiles. Just look in the tinder forums for data posts from men, even the more successful guys will have like 1400 swipes leading to 20-30 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:02 AM
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My college roommate I suppose He looked like a 1950s blond surfer weightlifter kinda guy I remember girls telling me he posted a really funny amazing pic on his Facebook and it was of an empty ping pong table in his parents garage His tinder game was “hi I think your cute #” and he got laid constantly YES we were jealous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:12 PM
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Real life early dating signs I’ve seen He takes money from her and blows it on stupid crap Borrows her brand new car constantly / straight up wrecks it Lots of insults, bullying behavior, arrogance He gets in trouble and expects her to bail him out/cries on the phone to get what he wants Flakes on dates, spends tons of time with POS friends Messing around with other women Showering her with gifts (flowers, chocolates, jewelry, expensive dinners whatever) and over the top compliments (you’re my q…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:39 PM
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Unemployed/lazy Dishonest Criminal Drugs/Alcohol Irresponsible Poor behavior towards her Stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:54 PM
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America is on track to have more babies born to single women in poverty than any other household situation. Encouraging casual relationships and sex isn’t turning out like we thought it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:44 PM
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Everything if they’re horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:29 PM
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Lol Wasn’t there a Calvin and Hobbes where he asks his dad how ugly stuff like bugs are able to reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:53 PM
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You’ll find love once or twice but the odds of it lasting forever after aren’t super high tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:15 AM
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Not everyone handles parenting the same way. Yeah the baby is cute now but they do get bigger as time goes on. Money troubles, health problems, mental issues all play a part in parents’ attitude. Some people live vicariously through their kids (IE that gymnastics mom). Others put all their stress on them. Yell at the kids to do chores etc. The “sippy cup mom” sounds spoiled. If you lead a life of privilege little things become big things. And then if you are flat broke and every dollar counts it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:09 PM
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Old guys with money banging younger hookers/gold diggers isn’t new OP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:34 PM
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OP, ummmmm…… For whatever reason our current neolib society has decided that men and women are exactly the same and that the lack of women in male nerd circles is sexism etc. As if no women in your local RC hobby plane club is sexism and patriarchy lol. You cannot expect a woman to have the same interests as a man. It’s like when women complain about their boyfriend doing “man stuff”. He’s a guy what do you expect. I’d rather date a woman with girly interests who can tell me what’s popular while…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:47 PM
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I’m old enough to remember pre-internet dating and it was definitely better. Meeting people and socializing was easier. Today girls filter everything online so if a guy doesn’t pass that muster they freak out. It’s like employment and outsourcing, we were told it would increase opportunity for us but in reality it greatly increased competition in ways that are detrimental to our livelihoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:04 AM
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As if apps like Tea have anything at all to do with “abusive” “dangerous” men🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:05 AM
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The funny part is lots of times we guys aren’t thinking about anything. Like nothing at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:23 AM
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That app is such a huge privacy data risk that I wouldn’t be surprised if the dummies using it wind up with stolen identity problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:17 PM
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The “Pay Gap” is pretty hilarious They always wanna be a doctor or a high powered lawyer or CEO 10k a day, never compare themselves to plumbers etc It’s like men comparing their sex lives to the sexcapades of the hottest guy at college and demanding women treat him thusly Like, the world doesn’t work that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:40 PM
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Lol I wouldn’t say “many men” more like a tiny number of men. Most single men aren’t engaging in casual sex. The average single man hasn’t had sex in over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:31 PM
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I mean, if a guy can hook up freely with lots of women then yeah but the whole point of a relationship isn’t just sex it’s starting a family/building a life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:38 PM
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I’ll take things that never happened for 500, Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:43 PM
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Farting privilege ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:50 AM
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Ugly guys in their 30s/40s (her age) know better than to do that lol. Besides the idea that men aren’t hitting on women anymore is asinine. TikToks by whiny women are not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:54 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:50 PM
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She looks like she’s 40something? And bitchy and stuck up as all hell. Probably a bad time for a video but she seems like a nightmare to deal with. Not touching the “8s and 9s” BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:46 PM
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We’re pretty close to that already. If you’re a guy and you’re reading this post you’re probably single, haven’t been laid in quite a while and you don’t own a home. Meanwhile the place you are renting is owned by some rich guy investment group who owns hundreds or thousands of them and the girl you’re talking to at work is sleeping with the same guy that a dozen other girls are sleeping with. Of course this isnt everybody but it seems like every year the number of guys and girls in the above si…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:58 PM
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Women are the same way at least here in the US. A large potion of our population is fat, lazy and stupid lol. Combine that with decades of inflation and outsourcing and we are broke too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:04 PM
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Yeah that’s BS. Women hit on men all the time, just not as overtly or as often as men do with women. Usually it’s more subtle like they are fishing for a response. The hard part is lots of times it just comes off as friendly talk because many women are terrible at flirting. So guys think she’s not interested when she is or worse they think she’s interested when she isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:36 AM
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More sex for sure. Free Love would’ve kept going a lot longer. Gay sex would be off the charts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:26 AM
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You’re full of it you literally said “high prices Ukrainian escort ring” lol. Chicks like that LOVE rich ugly guys you are a steady paycheck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:04 AM
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Yeah I don’t buy any of this it’s complete BS. Escorts don’t care if your ugly as long as you are polite and clean. I’ve known a ton of rich guys who were hideous with women all over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:37 AM
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Reality is reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:06 PM
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I’m not sure why this topic requires a rant post this long lol. Men like boobs and butt, women like a tall fit man etc.There is no magical mystery to it it’s biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:26 PM
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Oh lord have mercy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:04 AM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:37 PM
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Yeah this happens constantly minus the sex part lol Women leading men on isn’t new
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:56 AM
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Yeah it’s like how neckbeards happen. A regular happy kid does all the “right” stuff and gets crap (even traumatic) results. So why shave my beard/neck? Why hit the gym? I’ll say yes to pizza and weed instead. Why go out? I’ll play games at home. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:13 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:39 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:25 AM
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Thought we were already there. We glorify selfishness and singledom. Everything is me me me and the idea of compromise is seen as failure. Our number one way of meeting people is online dating crap where you post endless selfies and write a description nobody reads. It doesn’t help that everyone is working longer hours for crappier pay in a world that is 10x as expensive as our parents’. So it’s no wonder that we get….. “Where are all the good men why can’t I meet anybody does anybody date anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:42 AM
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Funny that you think women being “strategically bitchy” is a new thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:41 PM
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Women blame Men for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:58 PM
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Testosterone is directly tied to sexual arousal in both women and men, and men have lots more of it. That’s why 50% of men would like to have sex every day whereas it’s like 5% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:22 PM
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Yeah it’s just a steep hill to climb if you’re not born that way I had a buddy in college who was born a tall blond surfer looking dude and women would crawl over broken glass to kiss his ass Yes I was jealous LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:02 PM
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Is this a joke? Am I on camera? Are you a dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:55 AM
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All of those things sound like the girl isn’t attracted to the guy very much. Like flaking on dates or having sex in exchange for chores around the house. Also women DO compare themselves to those IG models lol. We all do that stuff to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:58 PM
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OPs not wrong, the amount of horrible advice I see in the Reddit Tinder threads is staggering. Like some poor guy who is a roly-poly neckbeard in a Mickey Mouse shirt and they tell him oh you need a longer dating profile description! Girls like to read the profiles! I used to be that guy too until a friend of mine took me aside and explained everything in really plain, easy to understand “man terminology” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:15 AM
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Damn you win Reddit today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:38 AM
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OP women openly expressed their preferences before 2014 and guys complained about how girls only wanted to bang jocks etc prior to 2014. It’s also funny as hell that todays empowered, educated, liberal women still want to bang troglodytes and then date a guy who can pay for all their stuff. Almost like it’s biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:49 PM
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If that song is the one I’m thinking of it’s all about how she loves to pick stupid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:36 PM
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It’s like the femreddit version of the guys who talk about how “I can’t get a date because all women want tall millionaire guys with 10’ dicks” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:15 PM
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Too much Reddit in one post imho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:52 PM
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It’s not uncommon to villainize the other person after a breakup. Doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:57 PM
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I don’t really agree with OP however there is a lot of statistical evidence to show that women move on much much faster than men. I think it’s something like three months for women versus 1 to 2 years for men after a relationship. And yes I have seen the light switch 1st hand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:03 AM
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That post is too much real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:56 PM
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Testosterone is the primary sexual driver and men have a lot more of it. Dating apps are a business, they want to make money. Men are easy targets. As for the rest of your post I really have no idea what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:55 PM
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The absolute lack of discipline in American public schools definitely hurts a lot of young people. I think boys especially need that structure. And yes the traditional physical discipline produced results: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:34 PM
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Guys did “better” in formal education for the entirety of human history it’s only very recently (like 10-20yrs) that women are doing “better”. It’s feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:28 PM
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Men are vague about what they want because 90% of them will happily date whomever says “hi” to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:52 AM
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It’s almost like emasculating young men and demonizing all the things that they enjoy while simultaneously telling young girls they can do whatever the hell they want has consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:57 AM
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That’s one of those “Science proves Water is wet” things. It’s basic biology Another fun one is when you have a bunch of women in a room and then add one that’s dressed provocatively the other ones turn green.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:28 PM
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Everybody thinks they’re good though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:50 AM
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These questions always bring out the funniest replies like how the “good guy” turned out to be a serial killer or something. The truth is men and women have different priorities. The stuff you think is “good” women don’t care about, and may actually detest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:44 AM
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Really doubt they believe it’s a sufficient replacement they’re just nihilistic and think society is headed for a tech dystopia rather than the interconnected utopia we were promised. Honestly I don’t think it’s unrealistic to believe that lonely people will fall in love with AI etc. Like the movie with Joaquin Phoenix (She? Her? It would’ve been better as a comedy tbh).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:35 PM
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OP if you’ve ever been around those people in real life many of them complain about that stuff they just get laid while complaining lol. Like the women who say men only want one thing and then date that sort of guy on purpose over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:34 PM
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I mean, for thousands of years a girl (or young guy) couldn’t get married without the fathers consent. Now we have sexual liberation which has its own ups me downs (freedom has consequences). Half (40%??) our children are being born into unmarried single mom households and we’ve got a whole bunch of young men who aren’t dating or even talking to girls. As for that guy and those posts…not touching it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:28 PM
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The biggest problem is men being romantic towards women who don’t like them. If you want to find out if your girlfriend or wife likes you do something spontaneous and romantic. You’ll learn very quickly what she thinks of you lol. Men and women have different ideas about romance too. Just look at classical romantic plays written by men. Then look at ones written by women, especially contemporary ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:51 PM
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It’s all perception. In the past there were cultures that thought big noses and beards were “over sexualized.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:55 AM
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If you want a serious answer the problem is that the Internet has become very accessible and very visual. Reading a story is one thing but watching a video and listening to it and seeing pictures is much more convincing on a deep level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:54 PM
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How big of a worm? Can I just buy a nice aquarium with expensive dirt for her to play in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:34 AM
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Pretty sure in the Ancient Greek days gyms were nudist, we could go that route Then everybody would be equal from the thot who wears a bikini to the gym to the old guy who walks around the locker room with his old guy balls bouncing off his knees
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:01 PM
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That “Adolescence” thing was a scam to begin with, not to mention that it demonizes the young boys who are already outcasts etc. And they say it’s based on a true story, well yeah, except with a whole bunch of different stuff lol. I wouldn’t be surprised if the Nazi err UK parliament makes it mandatory viewing for every child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:31 PM
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OP if you actually dig in to that study it doesn’t necessarily say what you think it says. Anyways a guy who gets laid a lot will “like women” more vs a guy who gets shot down constantly. In the first case women = fun while in the second women = frustration lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:01 AM
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Naw. Sovereign Citizen types are more like the nihilistic MGTOW crowd. They think they’re completely independent but unfortunately we’re all in this shitshow together whether we like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:02 PM
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Life experience I suppose. Single motherhood is just one more example of the dysfunction of our society. Something like half the kids in the country are going to be in single-parent households in the near future. Meanwhile you have something like 30 to 40% of young men not having sex or even relationships. And I guarantee you those guys are responsible normal dudes and not criminals, psychotics, abusers etc. And then men get blamed for all this lol. “Y’all need to MAN UP and marry those girls! W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:57 PM
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Why would I want to be him? I can’t even pronounce his name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:22 PM
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Umm yeah OP is full of it. Plenty of friendships are shallow or one sided. Fairweather friends or whatever. Maybe she likes the emotional support or help at work. It’s not sex specific either. Guys friendzone other guys. People (esp narcissists/manipulators) like having followers and fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:27 AM
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He’s just parroting the just world fallacy. The idea that people who win earned it and that people who fail deserved to fail. That if you try hard enough the world will reward you. Real life doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:09 PM
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Lol too much real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:45 PM
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Lol that was age 12+ ????? And the character rapes his relatives?????? Uuuuhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:37 AM
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This might sound crazy but I don’t think anyone is really meant to “live alone” or be “independent”. It’s only been recent times that we’ve glorified the whole strong-single life which is really just selfishness, narcissism and consumerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:50 PM
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There are waaaaaaaay more nerd couples than poor girls with rich guys lol Like go to any Star Wars thing and you’ll see lots of couples
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:50 PM
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I experienced it with my ex. A friend of mine killed himself after I talked to him on the phone and it really bothered me. She used it against me in fights we had etc. My guess is enough guys have had similar experiences to where the “don’t share your feelings or show emotion” thing gets talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 PM
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This is why guys “don’t talk” about this stuff lol. Whatever the topic comes up he must be a “sobbing loser.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:59 PM
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It happens for sure. You could argue as to why maybe he made a big scene or maybe she was a jerk or whatever. It’s common enough to where guys openly talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:56 PM
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Depends, “Europe” isn’t monolithic, Spaniards aren’t French and the Germans aren’t Irish. Berlin/Hamburg reminded me of a big US city tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:35 PM
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It sounds like you’re talking about Indian or Muslim men? They’re such a tiny percentage of the population here in the USA I don’t see how they’re ruining dating or dating discourse lol. Especially since most of them date and marry within their own communities. I’m not sure all western men are OK with sexual liberation stuff either, imho it’s the reason a lot of guys are hesitant about committal as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:09 PM
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So who is this woman who is a scientist, soldier, engineer and supermodel who “can’t find a man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:10 PM
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Lol wtf? Here in real life (IE not Reddit) its women that push relationships along. They go for the marriage talk and the divorce talk. Men just kinda go along lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:29 AM
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Man some of those replies excusing her behavior are moronic but then this is Reddit after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:06 AM
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Huge write up here referencing a bunch of different studies, peer reviewed etc: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8266382/#:~:text=Even%20net%20of%20control%20variables,sexual%20satisfaction%20by%20political%20identification.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:14 PM
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Common sense. People with conservative leaning beliefs will view relationships and sex differently (esp marriage vows and the like). Theres less cheating in Republican vs Democrat households for example. It’s not a gigantic difference though I think like 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:57 PM
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Those profiles scream Socal/Los Angeles to me OP looks like some millionaire influencer in his profile pic (unless he’s catfishing???) Money is certainly a factor Our economy is broken and a lot of men can barely provide for themselves let along a partner, children, a home, vacations Its also a huge factor in breakups and divorce A man can do almost anything in a relationship except go broke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:27 PM
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OP women have always gone crazy for those sorts of guys. In Ancient Rome a popular gkadiator would have groupies/rich older women throwing money at him etc. Musicians and actors too. There is something going on though. Just looking at statistics you have 1) way more single moms and 2) more hopelessly single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:53 PM
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“Heifers” Ze grammar and ze spelling are uber important herr Redditor As to the rest of your post well yeah, online dating has been mostly toast for awhile now. People still use it because hope springs eternal. Also I’m probably the only person here who recognizes the stepin fetchit name lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:46 PM
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In other news Science discovers water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:04 AM
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Lol what part?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:32 PM
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OP is a bot or trolling with chatGP, no human could write all that obtuse crap. When I was in high school I knew a guy who was a pilot. He also raced motorcycles and did offroad trucks. Girls hated him though because he was 5’6 at best. One time in college I introduced him to girls at the fraternity. They yelled the word “short” and ran away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:07 PM
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TL:DR Yeah going by title…nope lol. Those stories and shows have been around since before TV and print media. Current Dating snafu is more recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:39 AM
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Unhygienic? I’m a guy and yeah we kinda are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:22 PM
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Ok I’ll bite. OP, problem is “feminist” today means a lot of different people including a few with personal problems who should be in nuthouses but we don’t have the extra room to house them. Sooo I don’t think it’s fair to say feminists promote it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:21 PM
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Yes men had a high scores and dominated College admissions up until maybe ~30 years ago. But we are supposed to believe that boys are just naturally stupid or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:23 PM
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We have constant warfare right now it’s just fought by drones and proxies instead of Johnny who just turned 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:17 PM
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Well here in America Making sure that young men graduate high school and college at similar rates as women with a focus on STEM/medical degrees/law. Ending the feminist war against male voices. Any time men speak up in any space they’re almost always told to “shut up!”. Health issues/homelessness are becoming epidemic and nobody seems to give a shit (not just a man issue tbh).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:11 PM
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It’s hard for me to put my finger in it BUT I grew up before that crap, Tinder happened during college for me. At first Tinder was fun for everybody - then after about a year suddenly all the guys who told me it was great were frustrated or quitting. Meanwhile every girl I knew was spoiled for choice. Instagram and Facebook are the other two, very accessible and visual. Everybody can see it and experience it. Another thing is approaching and socializing in real life, it’s not as common, they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:43 PM
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OP is 100% troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:05 AM
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This should be top post Reddit politics is not exactly close to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:52 AM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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Yeah right wingers are usually the ones saying man up, get a second job to pay for that kid, be a good father etc. Not “run to the hills” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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I don’t think anybody is going to say that boyfriends require more upkeep lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:28 PM
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Bad troll account is bad Watch what people do, not what they say, is common sense lol There’s even a Bible verse about it (practice what they preach)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:28 AM
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Your figures are quite a bit off, try googling and checking open secrets among others. Here is one from FT: https://www.ft.com/content/c3613e1b-c15d-47b8-a502-400c4114c09e And another: https://www.usnews.com/news/national-news/articles/2024-11-01/16-billion-will-be-spent-in-the-2024-election-wheres-it-all-going Both parties spent a ton but Democrats spent more overall, however Republicans seemed to have saved their money for late game spending sprees in a few key areas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:13 PM
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James Carville wrote an op-ed awhile back stating the Democrat party is turning into a bunch of Karens, nobody listened, now Trump has won even though his party spent less money and nobody likes him. Tbh I kinda agree they remind me of the managers I deal with in HR or HOA organizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:32 PM
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I don’t know what planet you live on but I’ve seen plenty of friends go from no girls to getting girls when they started making money. Also if you actually talk to women or look up surveys/statistics income is a big factor in relationship success and stability. Like it or not the world runs on $$$. Another fun fact: young college men were blindfolded and then given a shoebox. The blindfold was removed and some had porn while the others had money. The money guys had a higher level reaction in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:34 PM
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Halo vs Horns. If you are the cute kid at school you have a halo. Ugly kids get the horns lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:21 PM
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Hahahahahaha And YES to OP most men on those sites just click as fast as they can w/o paying attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:12 PM
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Yes it’s 100% true, I don’t see it as some kind of strike against women per se, more like a job application. Oddly enough if you want a new job being employed and job hopping is better than unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:15 PM
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I’ve a hard time believing her statement about “honest gold digger” especially when it’s coming from one side only. Doubt she was the honest gold digger throughout their relationship however long it was. Tbh a man can do all sorts of dumb stuff in a relationship, just don’t go broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:19 AM
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How is that ad sexist? That’s what normal people do on a special date night lol. Fueled by cheap alcohol too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:40 PM
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Some middle aged redditor gets bonked on the head and hallucinates a hot girl talking to him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:37 PM
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Yeap that’s why I always laugh when I read those “if I only had a (gf, wife) my life would be so much better!” yeah could be waaaay worse too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:06 AM
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Men getting milked by the courts for years and years during a divorce would have new meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:51 PM
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That’s mostly common sense, if a man or woman is picking a partner based on criteria: Having a partner with a lot of debt -> it becomes your debt as well Having a “Past” -> her baggage becomes your baggage Tattoos -> ehhh depends, religion aside tattoos can be expensive and some people pick the stupidest shit (one I knew had sleeve tats of vegetables) Of course sometimes love just “happens” and you go for it anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:15 PM
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The getting to sex part is way more fake and improv than the actual sex part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:37 PM
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They’re just trying to do what they’ve seen other men/women do, lots of people party it up and then try to reinvent themselves to get married, we’re all human after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:05 AM
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That happens everywhere, add a little money to a guy and his dating prospects go up wherever he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:01 AM
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This should be top answer, everyone wants to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:57 PM
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OP hit the nail on the head, also those people are usually lining up a replacement well before the current relationship ends. And of course they never take responsibility for it, the other person drove them away or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:17 PM
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Well yeah bad pics is a thing but ugly short guys are a thing too lol. Losing weight, getting in shape, making a “fun” looking profile with action-party pics got me the best results. My profile description and message content didn’t matter. Sometimes I’d put joke stuff like I work with disabled kittens or I rescue dolphins. Didn’t matter. Finally guys have to understand that it’s a sausage fest. All you need to do is make friends with a mildly cute girl and ask to see her Tinder you’ll be floore…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:04 PM
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Yeah probably Almost everybody is dating someone who is like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:41 PM
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That’s the vast majority of people on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:20 PM
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That’s why the 21st century sucks. Too late to be a cowboy or have the sex/drugs/rock n roll, too early for the sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:08 PM
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LOLWUT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:06 PM
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Experience is subjective. I’ve seen what OP is talking about and I’ve also seen it the other way. “Third Wheel” and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:31 PM
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Just max out charisma, endurance, dexterity, strength, use intelligence as your dump stat and you can’t go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:57 AM
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Truth. It sucks but if you’re fuggo or don’t fit in then you’re not going to be allowed to play with the cool kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:29 PM
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Those numbers are nonsensical. That would mean 80% of “cheaters” are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:58 PM
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Naw. Plenty of men are scared of winding up in a loveless marriage or in a relationship where they’re viewed as nothing but a wallet because we’ve seen it happen. Offhand I can think of several divorces where the wife filed when the husband lost his job or was incapacitated due to disease. So naturally we are all a bit cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:27 PM
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Yeah I’m wondering what “most women” he’s polling for that data lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:31 PM
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The problem with matching on personality is if you’re not physically attracted to that other person it won’t work. I don’t think there’s any way to “fix” apps so that more guys meet more girls. If anything they will only get worse with a smaller and smaller number of men getting the lions share of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:59 PM
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Not surprised because Reddit has tons of weirdos. A while back I made a post (or comment I don’t remember) about how I missed companionship with my ex. How we would spontaneously go out on the town, find some cool little restaurant, or just go for a drive stuff like that. That being alone sucks and isn’t healthy for a human. Several women posted that I’m toxic and one of them sent me personal messages that I deserve to die alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:11 PM
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That is the law in some euro countries. I’m sure women would LOVE to have that be the law worldwide lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:00 AM
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Online is full of fake girl profiles to entice stupid men, years ago a friend of mine worked for a company that hosted fake ones for dating/adult websites (was called vista view or something similar).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:54 PM
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Well if you don’t have any Common Sense there’s always Google. You can search for studies about this. The bottom line is money gets you extra points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:54 PM
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Ummmmm Yeah no OP you are wrong Trophy Wives are a real thing, even for people who aren’t zillionaires I used to live in a rich area and they were everywhere, met so many of them where the husband was a 5’7 dentist or bald fat commercial realtor and then I’d be blown away by how hot the wife was Yes you can buy your way out of ugliness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:58 PM
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That assumes Mayans or Aztecs didn’t head north and conquer everybody (I think they went into TX/AZ). Living under Aztecs was probably less fun than Europeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:18 AM
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Could be a troll but it’s basically what every woman says on here, if your man is suspicious and wants to see your phone then he’s a controlling ass/leave him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:22 PM
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Well statistically men who are in a relationship/married are more productive and they live longer, also commit fewer crimes. We also have a large number of single mommies running majority of whom are on the poverty level. Of course we are told this is all great and wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:31 PM
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Single men who aren’t getting laid will be a much bigger source of economic slowdown/“brain drain” than the tiny amount of men who go overseas to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:41 PM
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So you have a friend who is a very good looking guy and he gets lots of girls online. Also women are very forward with him. Why is this? Gee I dunno better call Perry Mason and have him put his detective guy on the case lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:04 PM
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Baby Daddies usually have a bank account balance of like 15$, if they have an account at all. They routinely get locked up for unpaid child support. That’s why it almost always becomes the governments problem, IE welfare and medicaid. Something like 3/4 of all single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:23 PM
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If she’s happy then your hobbies are fine, if she’s mad then your hobbies will be a problem. Theres also the odd chance you spend waaaaay too much time/money on whatever your hobby is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:02 AM
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I’m thoroughly convinced OP is a guy doing expert trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:51 PM
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The vast majority of humans on the planet wouldn’t comply, just look how fast people are reproducing in Africa, Bangladesh/India etc. Having tons of kids to the point of starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:13 PM
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I’d say 1:10000 but then that 1 guy would be overwhelmed trying to squish all the bugs, unclog all the sinks, move all the furniture, grab stuff off the top shelves and opening all the jars.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:25 AM
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All men are pigs and rapists, working 50hrs a week to pay for my 1br apartment is freedom, also I hope that my student loans get forgiven because otherwise I’ll never afford a new car or a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:27 PM
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We’re being taught that working long hours for comparatively less pay and not owning homes (or families until way later in life, if at all) is “freedom” and that how things used to be was “oppression”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:59 PM
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That’s why they are unsatisfied. When you have lots of options you get really picky and constantly think “what if I’d picked #7 instead of #22” etc, if it’s just a couple options you pick one and be happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:48 PM
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This should be the top answer. If you cannot make yourself look hot and exciting in your pictures you’re kinda screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:46 PM
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I’ve known a few guys like that, it’s was as if they were trying really hard to impress women or something. They do an abrasive “Real Man” act or trash talk other guys, hover around whatever women are in your social group and then way later on you find out he’s a complete perv or turns into an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:44 AM
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It’s our culture. We’ve sent most of the traditional manly jobs overseas, large emphasis on making sure young girls graduate while ignoring boys, and then you have Online Dating which means guys are competing with every other guy within a 20mile radius. And then we have all these “why aren’t young men graduating/having sex/buying houses” gee I dunno what a mystery lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:17 PM
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Well said. A lot of guys will still get in a relationship with a single mom though because of simple market forces. Past a certain age almost every woman you need is a single mom. However those guys are usually hesitant when the “what are we” talks start and even more trepidatious when it turns into marriage talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:01 PM
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no, really it takes a few months to get a feel for who most people are so you need to be a bit guarded at first whether work or romance. Also you can inadvertently shape your own positive or negative opinion of someone else that will fly in the face of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:39 PM
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Hahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:27 PM
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Feminism/Post Modernism. The West had everything and now it’s going off the rails.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:53 AM
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I have a hard time believing that one. Maybe it’s something like “I’ve never asked a girl on a DATE” but they have hit up girls online, or hang out, just not “DATE”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:46 AM
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The answer is yes but it’s not just Monogamy we have traded away. The two toasters commodity argument. If you’re reading this, single and unhappy, it’s by design. American culture is based around buying things to make us feel special rather than producing tangible items. Monogamy gets in the way of that (lots of other things do too tbh). For example people who are “happy” spend less on consumer goods and more on experiences, or they will sacrifice money to have more free time. Single people spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:16 AM
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That’s a horrible idea tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:28 AM
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Hot guys would pay a penny for sex or just not pay at all, uglies would pay hundreds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:43 PM
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OP your list is still kinda the white-privileged-yuppie list, most people are 1) work/money 2)rent/food 3) healthcare. The average working person isn’t thinking about global warming or Ukraine because they cannot afford to (maybe the income equality one because they are living it every day).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 PM
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I dunno bud the woman teachers who bang their students have been going to prison lately (and rightfully so, that shit is gross). Unless you mean sexual harassment but that’ll probably happen next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:23 PM
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Women chase guys for sure, especially if there were lots of fights/emotional ups and downs. Then it’s like drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:04 PM
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Lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:56 PM
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Its because he’s been dumped plenty of times before, maybe a couple of those times he lost his cool and embarrassed himself, so he’s learned to just let it roll off his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:53 PM
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“Normie Goes to a Drake Concert” lol I’ve been around way more than the average redditor and yeah, seen that stuff before. At one time I was living in a dumpster of an apartment complex that was full of baby daddy characters and those guys had a line of women out the door and around the corner. And they didn’t have to work because women would pay for half their stuff and welfare/disability covered the rest. Then I’d go to my crappy IT job with my coworkers who are all straight arrow gym 2x a wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:47 PM
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Positive, upbeat personality. It helps so much to have a partner that is willing to work through things and look for solutions rather than a whiner who wants you to fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:52 PM
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Single dads (full timers) get waaaaaaaaaay less action than single moms. Unless you mean Baby Daddies who are literally deadbeats, then they get tons of action lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:50 PM
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If a guy is attracted to a girl he’ll try to hook up with her. Its not some dastardly control evil thing it’s just biology. Also many guys WILL go for a promiscuous woman in that case, they’ll troll tinder or bumble for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:11 PM
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OP just posts nonsense anyways. Normally I would think it’s trolling but in this case I’m not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:31 PM
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There are plenty of married career women you know. Statistically higher education means a greater chance of a stable marriage. Fortune 500 CEO vs Barista? Hyperbole ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:52 AM
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What you are talking about is someone who is selfish and has no empathy. Honestly the modern world of IG, Facebook and bullshit office jobs might be easier to handle. A guy with that brain chemistry also gets laid more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:11 PM
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Your 2-3 line sums it up pretty well, I’ve known a couple guys like that over the years and we were always jealous of the amount of attention they got. Chasing him through a parking lot, strangers honking on the freeway, plus he had all sorts of sexcapades starting around 7th grade. And to him it was all normal. When I started taking steroids and ballooned up on water weight I got a ton of comments from women friends about how they never realized how sweet/smart/nice/funny I was. It makes me won…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:44 PM
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Oh yeah I remember those days lol. The funniest thing was the bluepill boomer advice, girls just want an emotional connection, apparently that “connection” was a buddy of mine who was tall and hot. And yeah I still dated but damn it was not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:02 PM
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Of course it’s not a disqualification lol. The thing about “ALPHA” or any other motivational advice, financial, life guru is that many are charlatans. They’ll talk about how they built a huge business and then you find out they inherited money. Or fitness gurus who are “all natural” using steroids. Investment gurus who have less than 50% accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:37 AM
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OK If you as the average semi-skinnyfat Reddit guy could make a dating profile with 3-4 crappy pics and get 114 likes in one day along with random nudes and hookup offers…you’d probably do all the same shit. And then the social pic example, if a mid girl has a really hot friend of course you look that way. Hard not to. The only thing online dating has proven is that women are just as shallow as guys are. Because women are people too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:38 PM
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I think in the song she ends up depressed all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:20 AM
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That’s not a realistic scenario, if she’s pretty and they get along well BUT her voice is annoying he will buy earplugs and keep seeing her. I know of guys who have been married for 20yrs like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:35 PM
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OP the women who say that stuff are talking out their asses. Its just noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:21 PM
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Men will never stop because it’s kinda part of the wiring to try and win over girls, impress them whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:43 PM
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She probably is we just don’t see it on these IG article type things. Frankly I do not trust the influencers at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:43 PM
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Not to mention she is married into a big money family, the JetBlue guy is worth 400mil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:00 AM
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I’ve been that guy before and I was just trying to figure out what went wrong. It doesn’t help that women will continue calling and flirting with you after a rejection either. So they get even more confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:33 PM
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She is blowing hot air. Also she 99% chance has a fwb or quasi-boyfriend right now. Might even be married and making clickbait crap videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:42 PM
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There are tons of studies about this, it’s not bro-science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:06 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:01 PM
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Science: Women dress sexier/more revealing clothing during ovulation (IE when most fertile/horny etc). So yeah…they do it for men lol. Thanks Science!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:54 AM
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I dunno about that BUT one thing I’ve learned from dating women is that there are women who love men and women who hate them. It’s hard to explain, I don’t mean promiscuous either, but after you’ve been around a bit you kinda get a feel for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:49 PM
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That’s a really good answer tbh My ex was addicted to IG, wanted to be an influencer, she was hot/rich but it didn’t work. I tried to explain that it’s all BS but she didn’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:33 PM
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I live in AZ/Socal so… Social Media m/IG have completely warped the brains of most women I meet. Even if they aren’t posting thirst pics all the time they’re worrying about how a selfie looked or if they smiled right or whatever. Wannabe movie star mentality. Considering obesity rates I don’t think it’s raising beauty standards in the aggregate. More like ego inflation. Men I dunno it seems more like video games and porn are a bandaid solution. They strike out all the time so they self-medicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:30 PM
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Yes but that isn’t something people share right off the bat, if they share at all. I wish I could’ve had that information beforehand it would’ve saved me a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:11 PM
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I’ve never really gotten that vibe from most of those guys, their dating advice revolves around cultivating social skills while making yourself better looking etc. Like how to flirt, look confident, carry yourself well, when to call/text, whatever. The problem is a lot of the generic “social skills” suggestions are stuff like “just get out there and be friendly!” which is insulting because it presupposes that the guy who “can’t get a date” must be walking around acting like an A-hole 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:41 PM
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“Children Penalty” lmao Today in America you cannot generally get by with one income - both have to work. However someone also has to take care of the house/kids. The only way to have absolute kid raising a equality time would be a both parents work the exact same part-time sort of jobs when making enough money to survive which is damn near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:44 PM
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Good genes lol. A lot of celebrities are mentally ill train wrecks who made it big by being a mentally ill train wreck at the right place and right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:48 PM
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Lmao at the tats, beard and lifted truck Some places in socal or Arizona I can’t throw a rock without hitting that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:23 PM
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Perhaps it was a positive thing 30yrs ago but today when the average American is so fat they cannot get out of their own way the concept of “body positivity” has become a joke. Putting obese slobs on the cover of beauty publications and trying to remove the pretty girls from video games makes it even funnier. We’ve gotten so huge that normal sized men and normal sized women are now a skinny minority. A relative of mine is a grade school teacher and has fat kids that are 200+ pounds in her class.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:27 AM
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Reddit has a really weird subculture that is NOT representative of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:52 PM
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It depends on whether or not they have a feminine warmth. Some do, some don’t, some are just pissed off Ice Queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:40 PM
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I had a friend who went schizophrenic/psychotic and it was nothing like that. He was normal during school but around his teen/adult years he got weirder and more irrational. Lots of drugs and abusive home life didn’t help either. In between bouts of violent craziness and hallucinations he managed to knock up a girl who ran like hell from him after about a year. Now he lives in a group home type of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:13 AM
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A man who is desirable to women will be having quite a bit more sex than an undesirable man. Therefore he’ll have more kids/higher odds of marriage. Of course they could be childless by choice, or the hot ~30yr old guy you are using as an example was an ugly nerd student at age 24, late bloomer etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:42 AM
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I would imagine that (in the aggregate) guys who are very attractive might not be as helpful around the house as a less-attractive guy. There are studies where husbands with “more attractive” wives put in more work sort of thing. My theory is that men who are less attractive will make more of an effort to be useful since they can’t get by with looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:08 AM
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The title is “hidden competition among women”. It’s hardly hidden lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:32 PM
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Science discovers envy, thanks Science. I would hardly call how women compete with other women to look the sexiest in order to attract the guys - and how they turn green when a hotter woman shows up and/or has a hotter guy (better husband etc) - some kind of big secret. If you go to a wedding and pay attention to how the bridesmaids smile you’ll see what I mean. Some will have a big happy smile and some will have the rehearsed toothy “how did this bitch get that guy” smile. Guys get jealous too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:15 PM
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This might come as a shock to you but different countries have different cultures and they aren’t monolithic. Some countries are more traditional and the man will be expected to provide more etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:42 PM
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My theory is that I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:53 PM
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More eduction generally means higher income and a more stable relationship. Being broke sucks, you pick between dental bills and vet bills, shop at Walmart, live in crappier areas, lots of stress over losing your house or job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:39 PM
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Men and Women are “different”? Wow jeez thanks Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:05 PM
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For most of human history rich or desirable men having harems was the way things worked. Judeo-Christian ideas about marriage and laws against polygamy combined with early feminism changed things. Now current feminism/sexual liberation are moving things backwards so we are headed towards a weird unofficial polygamy where some men reproduce at a much higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:04 PM
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You cannot trust anybody on what they say lmao you have to watch their actions to see if it lines up with their words. Again, common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:27 PM
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I’ve had woman friends tell me that they lost interest in a guy because he was too nice/kind/good, not everybody has the same tastes not sure why this topic hurts peoples feelers on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:05 PM
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I’m not sure why this is so hard for some people to grasp (or admit to lol). Not every woman wants to date a kind, loving, honest and smart man. A good chunk of them want to date morons, liars, violent thugs and only date good (or just plain normal tbh) men after they’ve exhausted every other option. When I encounter people like this I keep them at arms length. They often have drama and will put their crappy partner above everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:58 PM
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Friendly/bubbly personality. Someone who is really upbeat and positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:58 PM
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OP isn’t wrong but that kind of guy isn’t going to be able to speak to 100 women without a lot of medical help (Xanax, testosterone, years of therapy, alcohol lol). A guy who is in that position will need months or years to get out of it. Most eventually do, some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:40 PM
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Of course they have a point I’d think that is common sense. Women like men who are strong/protective/provider, men like women who are young and pretty. Not sure why this needs a pill to be understood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:50 PM
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Love and respect are the same thing in that case. If she doesn’t respect you she won’t love you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:11 PM
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I picked up one at the grocery store, flipped it open and it was a man and a woman sitting in lounge chairs on a beach. The dude was buff and tan, whips out his dong and a can of lube and they go at it. I see grandma looking women reading these things wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:20 PM
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I don’t think you understand what it’s like to be one of those hopeless dateless guys lol. That’s OK but don’t be surprised if people don’t take these videos seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:17 PM
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That sounds normal. When people say “bluepill” they mean those insufferable twits who make endless posts about how looks don’t matter and you just need to be confident like their imaginary midget friend who gets all the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:26 PM
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If there was an AI that sent smart ass messages and had game id use it. Let it run all day while I’m at work and then when I get home in the evening check for matches. Let’s face it until you meet in real life and go on a few dates you have zero idea what that other person is actually like. So I might as well use a chat program to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:30 PM
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Yelling for a refund at a drive thru window is bad behavior but taking a hammer to the windshield of an occupied vehicle is literally grounds for a justifiable shooting (fear or imminent attack with a deadly weapon). I looked up the thing. 22$ coffee at a drive through fucking yuppies and their overpriced coffees. And the dude was behaving like a POS. Then the kant swings a hammer out the window lmao. Bunch of wackos up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:54 AM
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What the hell does that even mean lol. If you have kids you will either spend lots of time raising them, pay for nannies (not the greatest idea) or be a deadbeat parent who is never available (probably worse). That’s the reality of having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:30 PM
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The woman is waaaaaay worse in this case but I wouldn’t be surprised if she was let off and he gets a bunch of BS charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:26 PM
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The idea that you need to be special or exceptional to date women is dumb. Its like saying “if you’re an average woman with a bland life you don’t deserve love/marriage” which is completely asinine since bland people get married and have sex all the time. A better question might be “why are there more single young sexless men than women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:40 PM
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I don’t really agree with your description of the average guy lol. Average man dating is about 6-12months of singledom before meeting someone to date. That’s a mean statistical average taken from tinder. Women I think it was 2-4 weeks. Most men seem to have their first sexual experience in college so that could qualify as another average milestone. This assumes people in their 20s and 30s actively looking. No idea what over 40 or 50 metrics are like. You also have a large swath of young men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:35 PM
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0/10 OP. That’s kinda like saying men shouldn’t go to a beach or a gym because women wear skin tight clothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:48 PM
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Well over the years I’ve known a few guys who were able to bang lots of girls and yeah I was jealous of that success. When I sort of got that same success it kinda jaded me. Ex I’d post a pic when I was really fit, they would message to see my abs, then lots of times we’d hook up lol. Then I’d find out she was a vet tech and living with her boyfriend who was a really good dude, nice pics of them together on dates and I felt shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:58 AM
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Tell em you have a penis. Problem solved (well maybe) and no lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:38 AM
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Oh lord. There are plenty of women who get with guys in their teens/20s and stay with the guy. The wedding happens after college etc. I’d say this is at least half. Some women are manipulative and look for a boring guy with a good job, especially one without a lot of experience or with self esteem issues. That’s the mad rush for a wedding before age 30 crowd. Finally the “settling” and the “beautiful friend with an ugly husband” are almost always regular, normal people having a normal relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:37 PM
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I actually did that one a certain website awhile ago using a profile with “average woman pics” (I googled and found an article and stole the pics lol). So kinda overweight and frumpy. Put down I like hiking and traveling etc. Honestly didn’t get any really weird messages, mostly “Hey” and some well written ones, the guys were decent looking at times. Wanna say about 100 messages after a couple weeks. Tbh I wanted to see the competition and a lot of em had better profiles than me ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:55 PM
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OP’s post is bad and trying VERY hard to cherry pick the result he wants. One of the defining characteristics of those sorts of people his risk taking and a lack of empathy or feeling. They are willing to do crazy things. The same mechanic that allows them to commit criminal acts without remorse also allows them to ask out 50 women and not care if they say yes or no. That alone boosts the odds quite a bit. And when you combine it with narcissism… Yes, they are definitely having more sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:28 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:44 PM
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Well there are historical and dramatic books that also have romantic elements - dr Zhivago etc. The dedicated romance market is a little “different.” A lot of the biggest selling romance novels are muscular tough guy men raping the female protagonist. I think the biggest selling one for awhile was the Fire and Flame which is a guy who kidnaps, ties up and assaults a woman on her wedding day. So yeah, restraining orders for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:22 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:18 PM
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All those seem common sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:25 PM
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Damn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:24 PM
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Ummm Ho boy The majority of people are relationship minded and will marry someone they dated during their formative years (school/college/first job) - if you missed out during this time it’s tough to catch up Red Pill is right about almost everything too bad it’s a magnet for grifters and people with personal problems A real relationship isn’t all about sex/sparks/romance but rather creating a life together/having children/starting a business, lots of people get butthurt at that one for some rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:23 PM
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Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:27 PM
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Honestly that’s probably a worse way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:22 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:21 PM
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People oftentimes don’t like the truth. You’ll tell somebody the truth, you’ll show clear evidence and they will do everything but admit that maybe you have a point. They will invent weird examples, come up with their own “evidence” that makes no sense and just argue argue argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:10 PM
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The title isn’t really wise/intelligent more like psychopathic. A lot of people think that means “Axe Murderer” but it really means is a person with zero empathy for other people. They don’t feel bad if they hurt someone else or use other people to get what they want. And yes I have known women who did those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:52 PM
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Look up the anime Vandread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:26 AM
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Most guys are very lonely so if an attractive woman is friendly, asking them about their day etc it’s all it take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:05 AM
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Vast majority of dating site users are men - and they will join ANY dating site (Muslim, Christian, vegan, cheating, atheist whatever). Women by and large do not use dating sites so the companies create bots to draw traffic. There’s other stuff I wanna say too but tbh nobody should be surprised at a dating hookup site being massively fraudulent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:54 PM
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Lol “A Challenger Appears!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:19 PM
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That topic gets addressed every day on here lol. Sometimes 5-6 times a day. People always say dumb stuff like it’s “only damaged women” or maybe the drug dealing, no job low life is really charismatic and handsome. Except you hang out with those men and the women they date are nurses, teachers, educated, good families. Women love bad men. They always have. Eventually they go with regular guys for stability but that’s another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:16 PM
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He’s living in Hawaii with his boyfriend right now *I haven’t checked in a couple years but his Facebook pic was the two of them under a waterfall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:27 PM
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The tinder swindler was hilarious. “Nigerian Prince who wants to give you a million dollars” type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:57 PM
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More they have tons of crazy sexual options like hooking up with DJs and basketball players meanwhile the average dude who is their “best guy friend” at work they tell it all to hasn’t been laid in a year lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:53 PM
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Its not unbelievable. I’ve seen a lot of wacky things in my life it would rate like 3/10 on my “BS” scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:19 PM
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I had a friend like that and he was banging neighbor girls and women during junior high and in high school he ran through a couple dozen that I remember, every job he worked he would sleep with a few women. He even had sex with his own aunt and bragged about her buying him stuff. The funniest part is he was gay, when he got stoned he’d ask if we’d ever gotten boners over other guys, we all thought it was pothead babbling and laughed it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:56 PM
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Smells like copypasta Anyways the Dark Triad makes sense when you understand how those traits are expressed The 80/20 thing stems from dating site and sexual activity statistics where young men are getting way less matches and going sexless for months/years in greater percentage numbers vs previous decades - young women however aren’t going sexless at the same rate Age thing makes sense when you consider that it takes men longer to become independent these days, make money, have your own place a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:23 PM
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Its like anything else the more effort the higher the odds of success. Also those guys usually aim a lot lower as they become more and more desperate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:08 AM
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I doubt we’d have the same amount of technological and medical advances, also there would be a population collapse or higher degree of warfare and instability due to the weird population dynamics. Same goes for a 90% male population it would be crazy warfare all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:41 PM
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Lol I dunno about that one man BUT Over the years I’ve known guys who would go out of their way to talk about how good they were with women, how much they trusted their wives, how they just “knew it all” and the guys who had dating problems or marital issues weren’t trying hard enough/confident enough/small pee pee whatever. Those guys always had some massive issue at home and were trying to talk themselves out of its existence. People who have actual, healthy, trusting relationships will be ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:34 PM
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That’s a big one for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:00 PM
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I would argue that UAE/Saudi Arabia are better examples. Taliban are a horror show. There was a time when I’d have been disgusted by the idea but after traveling a bit I dunno. We are taught in the West that we are superior and our liberalized way of living is the best but I’m not 100% sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:00 PM
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It’s a push back against the crazy feminism permeating our society. We have been slowly disenfranchising and marginalizing men, especially young men, over the last 20 years. It’s only natural that ideologies which were once considered fringe are becoming more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:07 PM
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You can trap yourself. Plenty of women will stay with a shit guy because the sex is good or they are just plain used to being with him & don’t want to take a chance on a new guy. Same for men. They aren’t really attracted but have been together for awhile so they are settled in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:16 PM
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Its just another sign of the sickness of our society. We’re sold this idea of being a 30somethimg single career whatever making lots of money in a tiny apartment that costs a bunch of money with a gazillion dollars of student loan debt as the pinnacle of “modern living”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:28 PM
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Oh yes absolutely. A guy who doesn’t have a lot of experience, browsing Internet Dating sites and reading comments by women on message boards will think he has to be 6’4, rich, confident, funny, athletic (with visible abs), sparks on the first date, hung like King Kong etc. And the more women who get together, the more they talk, the crazier their standards get because they constantly try to one up each other. Or they come up with stories about all the hot guys chasing them 24/7 or how they turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:02 PM
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Yes of course they are lol. Women are aware of waaaaaay more stuff than guys give them credit for (or what they’ll admit to).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:03 PM
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Yeap seen it happen many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:14 PM
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LMAO at the “accidentally” line at the end of your post. Women know all this stuff they just don’t like to admit it. When they talk about hating “Red Pill” they mean ugly guys trying to be pickup artists. A handsome guy who is self centered gets a pass. Anyways is it really so surprising that women will have casual sex with a hot/rich guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah the whole “it’s gonna be a feminist girlboss utopia full of world peace, prosperity, robots and frozen eggs” is pretty hilarious. Might as well predict that Vandread anime will become reality. *not that I wanna live in rapey no rightsville lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:09 PM
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If a guy is nice all the time they take it for granted or start thinking he’s fake etc. if he’s a selfish prick most of the time (but really nice/affectionate sometimes) they will value his “nice” more and work for his affection. Eventually they get burned out but it takes awhile. Sometimes 40 years lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:36 PM
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Its a bullshit stereotype based on the stuff you see on social media (pretty much every woman has flirty sexy trashy IG pics etc). Those pics aren’t for you Mr 5’9 redditor they are for Mr buff guy at the gym or their favorite basketball player or the 6’4 guy they saw at work last month or the convict with the ankle monitor who lives across the street etc. Statistically people have less sex these days and way more men are single. So people are “less slutty” today than they used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:30 PM
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They like it when you get mad. Its macho + they think if you’re angry then you “care about them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:26 PM
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I’d say this was written by a chatbot however this is Reddit, some people have the energy and craziness to sit down and write this sort of word salad litany lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:04 PM
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Lol When I was in college one of my friends got 1.8mil at age 21 from a super rich relative. He became super popular, his house was the party spot and he banged tons of chicks. So yeah, money can definitely help!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:01 PM
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Most are they just don’t like to admit it. If you hang around them enough especially when drinking they will blurt out what they actually think. Also some are normal, some not normal, some of em deranged. Because you know, women are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:44 PM
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1) having regular sex keeps them at home 2) their wives are domineering 3) they use their wife as an excuse 4) lots of new obligations like kids, job, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:41 PM
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Going by your title no of course not. Its just life. Sometimes those guys get hurt/frustrated because it ends with “he’s a sweet guy, he treats me great but he’s bad in bed so I’m dumping him for the guy who is good in bed but terrible at everything else” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:42 PM
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Its an act. A lot of the red pill motivational guys are charlatans. They put up a front that is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:14 PM
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The beer belly husband who goes to work 5-6 days a week, watches football and eats whatever she makes is the very definition of “domesticated” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:30 PM
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It was, Redditors are dumb lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:10 PM
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Iirc it was one of his agents who got caught with a hooker at a cheap motel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:09 PM
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I think it’s mostly common sense these days especially if you are a celebrity, politician, big $$$ executive etc. These days men are guilty until proven innocent and you have to be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:33 AM
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Golden Retriever for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:47 PM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:10 PM
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Way too many people have a me me me attitude with little regard for the other person, or make no effort to try and understand their position. Narcissism I guess. Women who live in other towns expecting me to move there to be with them, women telling me that a good man knows what a woman wants before she wants it, does things without her asking, etc. That’s not how real life works. Men I dunno, seems like I meet a lot of guys who are depressed or just don’t give a damn. Nihilism would be the term…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:20 PM
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So he is tall and handsome but not attractive. Oh boy. It sounds to me like he needs and edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:58 PM
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He’s too nice and/or not very good at flirting. Probably thinks that online dating and hooking up isn’t for him etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:56 PM
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This, working as a team rather than doing it all on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:26 PM
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Ugly and dumb is always worse. Unless you’re dumb to the point that you’re always happy no matter what, that might be OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:09 PM
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FPNI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:55 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:55 PM
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“Grandpa what you mean women never should’ve been allowed to vote” Reads Man vs Bear posts “NVM sorry grandpa”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:33 AM
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Well yeah it’s a paradise for a smaller number of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:16 PM
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That’s a good point since Men have traditionally fueled the economy. During ww2 you had women working factory jobs but still not on the level of men (who were given deferments to avoid service as their labor was deemed essential). Society would also be more tyrannical. Partially to make up for the loss of productivity but also because women generally do not vote for libertarian ideas like men do. Of course if we invent robots to do all the work that would change everything, until AI goes Skynet …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:12 PM
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You can look back historically to countries after wartime to see how they deal with a large loss of the male population. It seems like after ww2 there was a large rush in the west to have way more babies. That could be due to some countries “winning” and “losing” the economic side of the war though. Current universities where women outnumber men aren’t some sort of hookup paradise since larger numbers of young men are going sexless statistically. More virgin men now than 20-30 years ago. A catas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:03 PM
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Like I said dumb or insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:56 PM
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If you really wanna know it’s all based on their feelings. Lots of guys who are pieces of shit know how to make her “feel” good whereas normal guys will unknowingly make her feel “bad”. Situations you don’t think about will make them feel all “weird”. This is also why you end up in situations where something is nothing to you but a massive deal to her. Anyways being at a gas station at night means it’s dark and she is by herself, Mexico vacation means posting beach butt pics on Instagram, of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:21 PM
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Yeah it actually is pretty irrational to say you’d rather be lost in the forest with a bear than with a man…think about it for five seconds, you are surrounded by men every day lol. You’re on the bus with men, at work with men, at restaurants with men, taking this joke at face value is either low IQ or insanity tbh….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:57 PM
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Maintaining Attraction has very little to do with it. He married (dating? Can’t recall if he put a ring on her) a piece of shit is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:01 PM
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Its like a guy saying that he wore a nice suit and shoes so he deserves a blowjob. I get the feeling but it doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:11 AM
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The last woman I really dated we knew each other for about 5-6months before dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:11 AM
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She doesn’t have 1700$ on her face that’s not how math works lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:08 AM
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I’ve seen false sexual harassment/rape allegations firsthand and the mob mentality is terrifying. There exists a large group of people who will believe it no matter what. Even if the accusations are proven false those people will argue that it was good the man was accused falsely because guilty people might get away with it. Of course oftentimes those accusations do not rise to the level of legal action because there’s zero evidence of a crime. However by that time the man has usually been throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:25 PM
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That doesn’t make any sense. Sorry OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:23 PM
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The Bear-Man thing is either a massive shitposting joke by women or an example of how women are a bunch of idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:34 PM
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Oh jeez Friends means you have something in common - work, religion, hobbies whatever - and your personalities somewhat align. Also it’s OK to be attracted to a friend (or not). So you can have ugly friends, pretty friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:04 PM
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OP if you actually sat down and thought about your title - I mean really THOUGHT about it in relation to current society (massive numbers of single moms, baby daddies, many people perms-single and sexless) you’d realize that the vast majority of people aren’t choosing “love”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:29 PM
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Men and Women have always written songs about heartbreak or the one that got away or the bad boy/trashy girl etc. This didn’t start after 1970 lmao. And men aren’t the ones “blowing marriage” either, not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:24 PM
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Hmmm is this a case of Autism or AI chatbot…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:21 AM
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Maybe he is a burly guy and ate a bunch of food but no way is it lean mass. And all in his chest sure bud lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:13 PM
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Its probably higher than that tbh. I’ve seen studies that found certain areas/populations to be around 8-12% lol. Her baby, his maybe as the saying goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:01 PM
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The bear vs man thing is a joke anyways. Its like asking a girl if she wants to hug a puppy or a dirty homeless man. Except men have Man Brains so they start thinking “OK how big is the forest, what kind of bear, is the guy a nerd or a survivalist who will build a lean-to and catch fish” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:50 PM
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Traveling I’d say that I met the nicest women (and people in general) in the Eastern/Northern Europe and possibly Greece/Med. When you get into Germany/England it’s a lot like the USA. France isn’t much better. Asia idk as well but everything about it seems like a “white” guy could do really well over there provided he has some sort of alternate income (working as a foreign resident can be tough). They can be racist against black and Indian people though, especially black people. And I mean for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:20 PM
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There was another awhile back where they found that Men swipe 120? times to get a match whereas women swipe a dozen times and get a match. So yeah, online dating doesn’t favor men numerically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:11 AM
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Its a strategy to shut someone up without acknowledging their position. Both men and women do this. Its especially true when someone (usually a guy) points out something that is obviously true but not socially/politically popular. Also…nobody likes to hear complaining. We like to hear action oriented stories or something that has a happy ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:09 PM
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First I’ve heard of this. Probably same for 99% of guys and girls out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:34 PM
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Our society doesn’t give a shit about men so they don’t give a shit either. Everything is girl power, new girl superhero movie, no matter how much they suck you’re supposed to shut up and watch them, manly jobs are automated/outsourced, wages through the floor/cost of living crazy high, oh your video games won’t have cute girls in them anymore, you’re behind on your student loan payments and your tinder profile hasn’t had a hit in three months. Welcome to the shitsville that’s modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:09 AM
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Because they’re dumb, never been around a lot of women etc. Makeup done well can turn a “5” into a “9” sort of thing. I always laugh when guys talk about “not liking makeup” on a woman. 99% of them post up a pic of a woman who has makeup on (plus lighting, photo touch up) as an example of their favorite “natural” look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:51 PM
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People oftentimes punch down because they are too scared to stand up for themselves. Like they have a hard day at work so they yell at their kids etc. If they date someone who is selfish/jerk they will take out their frustration on other people rather than standing up to the real perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:45 PM
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You still don’t get it, you cannot tell those guys “girls don’t care about X” because that’s not how their minds work. They have a completely different set of problems anyways like depression and self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:00 PM
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A lot of those guys are deeply depressed or suffering from other psychological issues like paranoia or anxiety. You cannot tell someone who is depressed like that to just “be happy!” it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:05 PM
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I would say yes it was a huge deal if you could prove adultery. Proving it being the hard part. Sex was definitely part of their relationships just look at how many kids they would have. Prostitution was also widespread and tolerated. Parts of town would be set aside for hookers with rules about when/where they advertised their services.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:56 PM
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We’re already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:28 PM
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Dating from the male perspective? Rattlesnake Shake Marriage? Out of Jail by Now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:01 PM
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I love when they act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:36 PM
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IG influencer fresh and fit thing? I thought they were all sex workers/strippers/onlyfans etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:24 AM
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No idea but I do think people have unrealistic ideas about marriage and divorce. Like having constant romance in your marriage or that most divorces are because of cheating. Or that marriage will automatically make you happier, or your spouse is supposed to make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:32 PM
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You are still good friends even if you don’t have passion, you have a shared home/business, other obligations etc. People will stay together for a few months or years and then divorce amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:01 PM
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No it’s not, if you actually look up this stuff you’ll see it’s things like “lack of commitment”and “we argue too much”. Cheating isn’t nearly as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:02 PM
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That’s because they are human and humans are idiots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:30 PM
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Its not mental gymnastics, they naturally do a lot of the things and have the attitudes that self proclaimed redpill guys try to emulate. Like being self-assured or making the first move, being in charge, how they present themselves. Basically they “get it” without needing some sort of explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:19 PM
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Everything is the “Man’s Fault” lol. Most divorces I’ve seen in the actual adult world happened due to money issues (husband not making enough $$) or different expectations that finally came to a head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:11 PM
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They aren’t out of their league per se. Maybe they (gasp) like each other? Something you can’t see (money, humor, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:02 PM
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If it’s necessary to explain why taking someone’s money is worse than having a fling that goes nowhere you are beyond all hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:00 PM
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That’s not really how it works, people who behave that way are manipulators due to personality and not looks. Annie and Bernie don’t have to be good looking to lead people on. Anyways to answer your (fail) post stealing money is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:10 PM
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Its just more feminist insanity bullshit that will have zero actual effect on anything. One more sign that our Mouse Utopia is going off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:40 PM
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Theres a lot of truth in OPs post, not really sure what to say about it though. Its one of the many reasons our society is turning into shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:22 PM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:42 PM
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It would be a relationship with a very self centered person which sucks. Also you’d be wondering why she insists on solo trips to social/party places. So trust issues. And then later in the relationship something bad happens financially but she still wants 5k to go to Hawaii and take selfies with her cousin. Ick ick ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:28 PM
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There are objectively dumb/irrational things people reject others for but not invalid. Nobody should be forced to date someone they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:40 PM
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Like if it was on everyones dating profile? Women would brag about hooking up with the lower IQ guys and then marry the higher IQ ones. They kinda do this already tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:38 PM
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Well if you’re going by online chatting good luck, women get a bazillion messages so they don’t put in much effort. Women are people. There are plenty of women who will yak away at you because they like the attention, women who won’t talk & then get mad when you break things off. Women who are shy, women who are talkers etc. Generally men seem to be better talkers with people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:33 PM
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Whitish guy 5’10 When I was in really good shape and going to bars constantly dating was easy. Most of my dating page pics were drinking at the bar sort of thing. My description was the same generic stuff m everyone posts. Girls would message asking to see me shirtless etc. Now dadbod and online dating is hard mode lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:37 AM
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Traditionally parents did that (plenty still do). Young man find yourself a nice girl and get married etc. Steering daughters away from the sorts of idiots teenagers always fall for lol. The whole “avoid marriage/family go to college and have fun until you’re 30” is a recent liberal-boomer parent thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:32 PM
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Trashy Romance novels. If you’ve ever picked one up and read it you know what I mean . They’re porno without the pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:23 PM
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Future dating in America will be a dead zone. We’re all gonna look like fat fuks on Wall-E except no spaceship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:06 AM
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This is kinda like the engineer who built the car arguing with the guy who drives it every day about how to change the oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:02 AM
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Guys are usually honest about it. Yeah she is toxic but the sex is hot. Or you can tell he has no confidence/is scared to tell her no. Plus men are constantly told to be patient/tough/stoic so we put up with way too much crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:00 AM
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Impossible to answer imho. If your Plain Jane is in a big city and hyper sexual and very active online she could theoretically pull off a different guy every night but I doubt any woman would want to do that. The most promiscuous woman I can think of was/is some dating coach that had 300 guys in a year. The highest scoring guy used to be Gene Simmons who kept photos of all his “winnings” and it was somewhere around 4500 when he got married in 2010. So a new girl every couple of days, or orgies o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:50 PM
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Yeah and I kinda doubt that will happen slander damage is hard to prove. I had a slander case against someone who did all sorts of crazy shit and the judge awarded no damages although he did order the guy to cease/desist/stay 100yds away from me, my place of work etc. This as after an entire year of him behaving like a crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:33 PM
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Those “are we dating the same guy” things are hilarious. Of course you are all dating the same guys lol. Pretty sure another guy who dated ~50 women in one year is doing that in SoCal. Women cut and paste the same stuff onto every guy they are mad at but before the Internet it was just hot air. Now with everything online it is borderline slander and quasi legally actionable. Also that dambrosio guys tax case is hilarious, claiming 100k in charitable donations with only 4k in income 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:21 PM
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They become more withdrawn and are loners. Engage in self destructive behavior like alcoholism or drugs. The more time you spend alone the more self-centered you become so it’s harder to let people in. Redditors also seem to be more neurotic than normal. I’ve had a few very strange experiences on here. So not the greatest place to ask some questions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:09 PM
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I was watching a cop show and they had this 19yr old gangbanger with five babymamas and a pregnant girlfriend. Dude was obese and could barely form a sentence. Meanwhile you got Redditors who have a job, house, go to the gym and can’t get a date to save their lives lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:45 PM
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They say all that stuff and then a year later she is dating a broke douchebag who has two babymamas and no car/job lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:33 PM
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Our society is failing that’s the problem, not men or women specifically. We’ve allowed all sorts of bizarre weird shit to becoming a daily normal thing while simultaneously torpedoing our economy so that people work two jobs just to get by while owning nothing. If Americans were fit, if the economy was going well enough that a living wage was attainable for everybody, if we had some morals and pride, you’d see a larger number of young people having families and getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:25 PM
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Poly isn’t hugely popular except within a few Reddits. Open relationships have always been around, swingers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:41 PM
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It makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:20 PM
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High value means attractive I guess. So sex with a hot girl who doesn’t like me (this makes no sense but it’s Reddit) or a hot girl tell me that I’m a great friend but she’d rather hug a rabid porcupine than touch me. I’ll take the sex option thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:18 PM
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You don’t know huh? Women can get really jealous over relationships and wedding type stuff. So if one of their group is younger and gets married before they do, or married a hotter guy than they are dating, or any number of things….out come the daggers lol. Or the Wedding Olympics where they all wanna have a bigger better wedding than their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:48 PM
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The first part about the weekly food and steroid budget I been there lol. I wanna see pics of the 200k car.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:31 PM
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Well OP people are hypocrites. Women are people. Therefore women=hypocrites lol. Instagram is another funny topic. You’ll have girls who post nothing but cleavage selfies or butt pics with 10k guys following the account one handed. But then girls get mad when they find out their guy does the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:05 PM
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90% of women will get with any man that flirts with them? That’s not how it works at all lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:31 PM
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FWB is not a dating relationship. For whatever reason women have gotten it into their heads that having a fwb sex situationship with a guy is the proper way to start a monogamous relationship. It doesn’t work that way. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:00 PM
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Second girl is much cuter than the first mostly because of her hair/fashion choices, they both seem stuck up but at least the blond is happy and outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:15 PM
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That’s not true. There’s been a lot of studies about this but men take longer to mentally process a break up & they take longer to start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:21 PM
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OK science time. Women “get out there quicker,” have more readily available dating options and a larger social network. Men typically have smaller social networks and a much harder time meeting new people to date. Also men take a lot longer to mentally process a breakup. My theory is that men have a harder time emotionally investing and divesting from relationships because relationships aren’t as accessible or common for them. Lmao at the raging mad women, the guy must’ve been hot to leave that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:46 PM
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I’d say men are treated worse for a lot of different reasons - but not necessarily by women if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:46 AM
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Theres standards and then attraction. “Standards” are a mostly-woman thing. They have so many choices that they’ll come up with a dream list if things that a guy has to have & then declare that he’s her “type”. So then they flip through hundreds of dating profiles looking for that elusive 6’2 surfer guy with a law degree. Attraction is different. You can be attracted to all sorts of people but they may not fit with your mental image of a partner (or be an obviously bad idea lol). Also men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:29 AM
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I’d think it is self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:54 PM
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Probably lack of respect/unappreciative. Taking him for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:36 PM
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First off people are becoming more critical, not less, which is why podcasts and indie news services/bloggers are so popular. Also you’re vastly overestimating the number of men who watch those doofy relationship podcasts, or the videos where they interview dumb women outside bars who say stupid shit like “I’m a TEN!!” LOL. Even if the YouTube has say, 3mil views there will be some video of a cat falling off a bookshelf that has 4mil. Its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:50 PM
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There have been several articles/research projects where women (reporters, bloggers, sociologists etc) pretended to be men and yeah they mostly wound up reddish pulled lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:50 PM
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Whenever this topic comes up people like to talk about the worst possible example they can think of. That’s what sticks in your head. Most of the people I’ve known who got divorced it was amicable, or at least not unexpected. Same for breaking up. The only difference I can think of is that the laws and social conventions favor women over men in most of these cases. So generally it’s the woman who calls it quits first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:15 PM
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Never seen it myself but it probably happens. Single Dads get no love. Of the few I’ve known only one had a dating life. Single moms are the exact opposite, they usually have too much of a dating life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:33 PM
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This guy should shack up with that woman who posts the AI generated rants about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:52 AM
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Its a coping mechanism. There are a lot of single people who are secretly scared of relationships so they will come up with really grandiose standards and fantasies as a way to pump themselves up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:36 AM
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You’ll get a bunch of angry responses but really it’s just a reversal of how it is in America for a lot of young men. They’ll have their dating app with two messages, haven’t been laid in a year & overseas they become a dynamo lol. Theres a Japanese comic about it called Charisma Man. It really hits home tbh. Some areas you will be in demand just because you are a “white guy from America” but other areas it can be due to culture, personality etc. A guy who is “boring” in one country will be desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:06 PM
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Gotta give him props for the easy to follow directions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:21 PM
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I used to go to a friends college for lunch sometimes plus if your that age then you look like another student. So not unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:55 PM
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Going to bars or clubs that are near campus to meet girls is normal, going on campus as a non-student is a little silly and may be trespassing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:39 PM
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They’re not unaffordable lol Also the reason guys recommend that is if the guy is selfish/self centered and just wants to get laid. At that point you might as well just hire someone because you are obviously not interested in company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:09 PM
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Vetting is easy people avoid it because they are horny. Guys like hot women who wear makeup and act sexual. Girls like psychopathic douchebag guys with swagger. So they’ll date them, the person will do a bunch of wacko stuff and they’ll put up with it until it’s impossible for them to put up with it. Only difference is that men put up with it for a few months whereas women will put up with it forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:03 PM
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There’s tons of redpill blogs where they rail against “simps” and “chads” so yeah they are mad at them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:05 PM
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Of course they all want the “same guy” that’s why you see all those studies about disproportionate numbers of single men vs single women, “are we dating the same guy?” facebooks etc. However there aren’t enough of those men to go around so if they want an actual relationship they have to pick a guy who is not “like that” which leads to the “women have different taste in men!” stuff. I’ve noticed this in every single friend group of women that I’ve had. They will hook up or casually date the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:04 PM
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I would say that “more social” leading to “more dates” is common sense. Of course if a guy is legit autistic he will have a bumpy ride on the way there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:36 PM
1

Hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:28 AM
2

Well I know that Men do take longer to get over relationships & that “love” has a lasting impression on your psyche. And the other one about people who’ve had fewer sexcapades being more loyal/better relationship partners. Men constantly looking for a woman who is “just like their first” is kind of a stretch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:37 PM
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That’s just par for the course, girls probably danced like that back in the 50s too (maybe not the really skanky looking chicks who are trying too hard lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:48 PM
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I’ve had that experience too but I’ve also been in relationships and known plenty of people who are very affectionate to each other even after years and years of being together. Our current culture is poisoned by social media/online dating so it’s getting tougher to find that sort of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:47 PM
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I’ve had the opposite experience, if they like you then they will be crazy about you and “love on you” (IE do things to get your attention, favors, etc). Of course not every woman is going to like you, plenty of single women don’t like men period lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:46 PM
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Yes because 30+ year old single women all know exactly what they want and never have hormonal SNAFU feelings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:11 PM
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I was one of those guys sort of and dating “younger” women was easier. It’s hard for me to explain though because if you’ve never been there you won’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:07 PM
1

Big fingers vs IPhone autocorrect ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:01 PM
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Men who have those self-professed “very low standards” get no dates lol. They don’t pick and choose qualities or personalities or life goals or whatever, they get one date every 6months and try to make it work even if it might be a bad idea on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:09 AM
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More TikTok cringe. I swear that whole app is nothing but single women ragging on men lol. As for dating in a friends circle…yeah it can work, or not, and the amount of “signals” you get from women can be meaningless too. If we left everything up to women the human race would go pfft. Even the mythical “CHAD” character would be toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:42 PM
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The DNA testing and studies (that I’ve read) of early societies points towards a patriarchal structure where only a small number of men would have lots of children with lots of women while the majority of men had few, or possibly none. A good example would be Native American societies from the early colonial days. It wasn’t uncommon for the chief to have 10+ wives and 20+ kids. Powhatan (Pocahontas father) had around 20 sons and 10+ daughters depending on the source. Another chief had 35 kids wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:48 AM
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Not soon enough for any of the Redditors reading this to buy one is my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:48 PM
1

Well… I think foreign media and independent media will become a lot more popular/acquire more market share. You will see much higher quality movies coming from smaller studios and foreign studios then we are accustomed to. Comics are an interesting example. The Asian ones (manga?) and smaller/indie comics take up almost 3/4 of the entire market. It used to be DC vs Marvel dominating things. Hollywood will always be a thing because of the name but they are definitely going to lose power and wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:31 PM
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Firstly I don’t see the current model of completely open borders and refugee immigration being sustainable, it will have to change into families/men with work visas etc. Probably more interracial couples and possibly blended families once things stabilize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:19 AM
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Men get pissy because their woman friends tell them 1) looks don’t matter 2) they don’t care about money and 3) they want a “nice man” who treats them right…and then they run off and do the opposite of everything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:36 PM
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For starters I think a lot of parents are scared their son or daughter is gonna have sex, get pregnant and wind up being a dad or a mom at a young age instead of going to college thing. Also modern Western society is based on consumption. If you go to college, get a good job, make lots of money and then spend lots of money you are seen as a good person living the good life. If you don’t make a lot of money, if you live frugally, maybe you get married and live simply it’s seen as something betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:00 PM
1

Lol The girlfriend/wife usually pays for all their stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:28 PM
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If you go to the gym lots of muscle guys will have fat girlfriends/wives what is this shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:28 PM
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Lol its not nefarious. Women aren’t Men. They don’t know what it’s like to be a guy dating a girl. That’s why they give “bad” advice. Another thing is that they’ll put halos on women and horns on men so you will get all sorts of stories about their lovely/beautiful girl friend who is dating an (ugly/dorky/chump of a guy) yet when you meet them in person…it’s almost always an average-ish regular couple doing average regular things with their lives. The rest of your post I dunno, people date/have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:47 PM
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There are AI fake only fans and IG accounts right now that are being swarmed by the same dickless wonders who throw $$ at OF. So yeah it might not end it but it’ll steal some thunder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:33 AM
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Good luck. Women don’t understand other women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:13 PM
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I think men want to be that sort of guy & women want a man who is that sort of guy. However they also want to be respected and appreciated for that quality, rather than taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:34 PM
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Talking to lots of women/abundance mentality/avoiding the whole “oneitis” where guys obsess over a girl etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:29 PM
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Depends on if I liked that person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:22 PM
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That’s what normal people do when they like someone. Try to emulate them in certain ways, take an interest in their hobbies/beliefs etc. Its how you get to know another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:31 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:46 AM
2

Male criticism of women dressing provocatively has mostly died off over the last 20yrs in the West. Frankly the bar for public dress/behavior has dropped so low here in America that nothing surprises me anymore. People looking like fat slobs, prostitutes or freaks is kinda normal in our cities. Just go to Walmart after dark lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:20 PM
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LOL You know what’s really fun? When they act like they’re crazy about you & then it turns out they actually hate your guts. Now THAT is a fun one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:06 PM
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Deepfakes/AI videos on dating sites combined with virtual reality AI girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:18 AM
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It’s crazy when you realize that it’s only happened over the last 10-15 years. As soon as tinder was invented the number of young guys who are “dry” tripled lmao. Ima little older started dating before Tinder Online stuff got huge and things were really different. We’d go out to the hookah bar at the college to meet girls. Now it’s a bunch of 30ish yuppies in teslas. The young people sit at home and filter their dates via online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:34 AM
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Something like a third of men age 18-30 are single or haven’t had sex in a year, they must all be defective lmao. Redditors ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:15 AM
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Its a quote from some famous French guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:04 PM
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I’ll gladly admit that women are better than men as soon as they stop trying to be like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:43 PM
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Hahahahahahaha not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:46 AM
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Honestly, there’s probably a fair chunk of marriages that are exactly like that. They could love and care for one another but not romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:33 PM
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Because 95% of the time its a bullshit/ugly situation. Extremely rare to see healthy, happy, normal-ish people selling polyamory on Reddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:33 PM
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Lots of people can be convinced of various things by a therapist, or at least suggested as a concept. I don’t think you could make a guy date someone he isn’t attracted to but you might be able to convince them to ask out a lady friend instead of patronizing prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah there’s very few co-ed stuff going on outside of school for kids, video games are huge etc. I lived near a river where we partied all the time during high school and now it’s old people and yuppies for the most part. Very rare to see teen kids socializing. Theres a park near my house (big soccer baseball thing etc) and it’s very rare to see kids hanging out. Usually just 1-2 old people. No kids on bikes misbehaving or riding to the mall like I did. Everybody stays home and games I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:14 PM
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You could date and kiss etc but stay technically a virgin. Would take a lot of willpower though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:59 PM
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OP a single guy who checks all those boxes will be top 1-3% statistically. The economics part is the toughest one, most working men cannot set aside the time or money to cultivate that rich social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:27 PM
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“Male Dating Coaches” are a tiny number of men who are listened to/patronized by a tiny number of men. Also they have always been around. Romance books about how to get the girl (or guy) aren’t new either. If you want the real answer to why dating sucks, is hard, is ruined, whatever, it’s our dumpster fire of a culture. Our popular music is synthesized garbage, our movies suck, everybody is fat and broke, ugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:28 PM
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He’s attractive, maybe not in the textbook way but if he can hit on random women and get numbers and dates more often than not obviously they must like what they see. And if he’s a smooth talker who loves chatting up women then it’s game on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:55 AM
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I don’t know if I’d call it reasonable but I understand that feeling and how guys come to that point. You are X age, haven’t had a date in months or years, if someone asks you to rate yourself you feel like a zero. You look in the mirror and feel you have no worth as a human. Suddenly you meet a girl and everything is great. The two of you are hanging out, going places, having sex, all the stuff you secretly dream about. Then she cuts you off without any explanation, or worse she runs around bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:04 PM
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The only database you need is her phone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:05 AM
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I understand that it’s frustrating when they’ll reject you for silly reasons and then run off with a POS but that’s just life. The sooner you accept women for who they are (and men for who they are) & put yourself first it becomes much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:09 PM
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Most people understand that it’s perfectly normal and natural to develop feelings for someone else over time. It just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:56 PM
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The biggest thing I’d be scared of is to have a kid who was a shy ugly nerd like I was. I’d want them to have good experiences when young, to have friends etc and enjoy school. My school life was hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:20 PM
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Its both of their faults, nobody’s fault, whomever got fat and lazy’s fault, biology’s fault, who the hell knows lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:17 PM
4

Third times a charm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:37 AM
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Lol how many times you going to make this thread? Did you get dumped and are trying to rationalize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:00 AM
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They only do that if you’re unattractive. If she’s attracted to you then you can do no wrong. Or at least you have a lot of room for doing wrong before you really screw up lol. Guys are the same way we are just more honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:55 PM
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Because too many Men think that being a good husband is the same as surrendering and giving her whatever she wants. You see it in parenting too, people who want to placate their kids, don’t tell them “No” and avoid punishing bad behavior. Its like they are scared of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:34 PM
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I always thought the Red Pill stuff was a conservative counter culture/reaction to feminism. Our current society has also disenfranchised young people (especially young men) in a big way. Nobody seems to give a shit that young people are out of work and will likely never own homes, be debt free or have families because of social issues/inflation etc. In that vacuum it’s not surprising that the “Manosphere” and “Red Pill” are thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:34 PM
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Is this the article where the psychologist talks about two patients of his; a regular guy down on his luck and a wifebeating criminal who has been married five times? That was a wild read lol. As for the “Manosphere” I think those beliefs will become much more widespread because those experiences are going to become much more widespread. You have a large number of young guys who are unemployed/underemployed, can’t afford a home, can’t get laid to save their lives, in debt with nothing to show fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:47 PM
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Your first relationship will likely fail, that doesn’t make it a “starter” girlfriend/boyfriend lol. That redpill stuff is just explaining it in a way that autists will understand. Instead of searching for your soulmate you date the girl who exists in real life. Yeah it probably won’t last forever but that’s OK because you will learn things about yourself and relationships which allows you to move forward in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:42 PM
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I don’t know why it’s so hard for some people to accept that men and women have different tastes and priorities. If you are very handsome everything else goes out the window but if you’re in the middle like most guys then the size of your friend circle, your income, your personality these things become a big deal. Mate Poaching is a legitimate thing. Women want the guy other women want. You see it in primates as well (chimps have “beta bucks” too lol). Its how women are wired, just like how men …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:47 PM
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You don’t have control over someone else’ feelings AND a wife can file divorce like ordering a pizza lol. So even if you are doing everything “right” she could still be unhappy and check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:50 AM
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LOL Hoe Math is such an assclown
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:06 PM
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OP yeah I been there the low-to-mid office white collar jobs suck because of that social environment. Theres usually weird dynamics between the guys and the girls, also you have the people who are brown nosers that want to “climb the ladder” so they backstab or screw over their coworkers. And then the promiscuous office drones who brag about their gross conquests. That’s the biggest reason I prefer to work with IT nerds and construction people rather than the cubicle warriors in cheap suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:33 PM
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Statistically? Under age 25 YES. Young men focus heavily on women and dating. Past that not as much. Past 30 the onus of dating is more on women. Past 40 the woman probably has to physically kidnap him at gunpoint lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:03 PM
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The “Settling” people talk about on here is usually other people dating their actual match. I’ve noticed that women especially like to torpedo this, “oh girl you can do better than him blah blah blah” when in reality their girl friend can’t lol. Then years later she’s still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:59 PM
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It’s not surprising at all tbh. I can guarantee you that on Reddit any of the subs related to firearms/weapons, political ideology, particularly political action are being monitored by multiple agencies. Muslim ones for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:50 AM
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Its not surprising given the “Evil Empire” nature of our government who want to control everything. If Snowden and the Twitter files didn’t wake you up to the crazy amount of government bullshit going on then nothing will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:26 PM
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OP is definitely overestimating the women and underestimating the men in his/her examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:12 PM
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Some people cannot function in a normal relationship with a normal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:39 AM
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Hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:32 PM
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If you’re attractive (in her eyes) you don’t have to “get to know each other” first lol. The get to know each other part is for borderline-ugly-ish guys, IE they want to see if you are fun to be around or have something else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:29 PM
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Going by your title alone… I’d say women are “more malicious” than men but it’s more like a social meanness and not overt. When I was younger I always thought it was just girls picking on me but during college when I started dating I realized that women did it to other women too. The amount of times I’ve seen women using systems (social media, HR, whatever) to bully other people is off the charts. It doesn’t stop when they get older either. Even little old ladies use Facebook and Nextdoor to pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:05 PM
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I’d hate to have a period every month. Hell with that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:06 PM
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Destiny is a grade A douchebag. I hope she cleans him out in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:37 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:43 PM
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It’s your mental state. Some people really are happy with normal regular relationships and some people are grass is greener or straight up delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:00 PM
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Its Western Pop Culture. Anything Normal is “Bad” and weird screwed up shit is “Good”. A friend of mine has two daughters and he was ranting about how the Halloween costumes they get to choose from are all skank uniforms lol. And his 11 year old told him she wants a “serious boyfriend” like in some nasty RB video (Kesha? or some other gutter critter). When I was 11 I think I wanted an RC monster truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:58 PM
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Everyone but the most dense of the dense Redditors understands that being rich and popular will make a man more attractive (women too I suppose). However when the money and fame run out…POOF goes whatever you had lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:52 PM
2

But with fat people calories check in…but they don’t check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:57 PM
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Maybe he meant Calorie Count?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:12 AM
2

Lol Its mostly their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:19 AM
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This “problem” is mostly in western/wealthy countries who are “solving” it via mass immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:32 PM
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That’s genetic, it has to do with how your body stores fat OR You can pay for liposuction / use fatburners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:27 AM
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Redditors deciding who gets to breed 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:24 AM
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In America? 100% yes lol and it’s way beyond dating or financial success Literacy rates are low - a school with 65% literacy in America is considered “good” Comic book movies for adults make billions of dollars, garbage electronically generated rap music, the wet pussy song whatever - the vast majority of art our society produces is worthless and will not be remembered Obesity in America - most people are too fat, some people eat to the point they cannot move under their own power or fit into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:33 PM
2

Complete bullshit. Have you guys ever been around hot women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:16 AM
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Its a true statement for lots of reasons as the West is an extremely Feminist society with a tiny bit of Patriarchy waaaaay up at the top. To be fair though everybody in the West is living life on “easy mode” compared to the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:21 PM
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Its economics combined with a me me me culture. High cost of living, education etc, lots of older folks who should retire but cannot afford to (or refuse to) so younger workers can’t move up, crazy inflation vs wages, then add in the “selfie culture” & look where we are. Sex Scenes in movies have almost always been cringe lol. I’m old enough to remember people joking about the Top Gun scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:28 PM
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Lol All of em don’t but some? Damn they bring home one deadbeat after another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:45 AM
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Autism ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:36 AM
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City Dating is better than Suburban/Country Dating but there’s hardly a “Man Shortage”. Even in the places that are supposedly Heaven for single guys it still leans towards women at most age groups. What makes it “better” is the culture and the sheer number of gathering places. As for not finding guys who are “on their level” that’s more narcissism and ego than anything else. When you talk to them you find out they have a steady dating life and are single by choice. Not the same as the guy who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:22 AM
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There seems to be a fad on TikTok where they brag about rejecting guys for various reasons, lots of times I wonder if the guys actually exist or it’s just BS stories for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:31 AM
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Yes people will google you lol. Its all available online with just a couple clicks. Honestly its good policy sometimes you find out some really crazy stuff (like arrests, batshit social media postings, weirdo ex boyfriend/girlfriend still in the picture). As for the woman in that video…no thanks. She has bad vibes imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:02 AM
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100% yes. If you look at tribal societies it’s not uncommon. Pocahontas was one of like 54 kids that the Chief had by 28 different wives lol. Polygamy was kinda the natural order of things up until Christianity took root as a legal system (so probably 50k years of humanity). Prior to that having several wives or a wife and mistresses/consorts was normal. Kings or Chiefs would have dozens of wives. Even after it became a semi-crime you still had rich people/nobles/kings etc getting married multip…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:21 PM
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It can go both ways. They’re paranoid she’s going to get knocked up by some goof and then grandma and grandpa will have to raise the child while she’s at school for a teaching degree or whatever. It’s also expected that a father will flex his authority over a situation involving his kids. Once they figure out the guy is a good guy it’s usually different. They were girls I dated in college where after we broke up I still hung out with their dad every now and then because we got along well. We wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:27 PM
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I always laugh at these threads. The first sentence is logical but everything else? Haha. Movies are bullshit. If you were trying to draw life experience for movies at tells me you haven’t really done anything with your life. You haven’t been anywhere or had those experiences so you look at movies for guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:16 PM
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I think Men are less equipped mentally to take care of a sick partner. The numbers are still low, it’s like 1/5th of men vs 1/20th of women doing the “leaving sick partner” thing so not an epidemic. Divorce statistics by and large still slant heavily towards women leaving the man - 80-90% filed by women (finances are usually reason #1). So husbands who have sick wives are still way less likely to divorce/leave vs ANY woman in any marriage anywhere lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:34 PM
1

Women = Dolly Parton Men = Gregory Peck maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:02 AM
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I think people are scared to stand up for themselves because if they do then they risk losing their mediocre job, being branded a troublemaker (racist, sexist, weirdo whatever) so they just do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:19 PM
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We rarely talk about much tbh. Several years ago my mother introduced me to a woman at her work. She was cute, had a boyfriend who was a worthless shit/abusive etc. it didn’t work out at all for obvious reasons. The only people I know who are happily married with kids are from very religious circles or they met in high school/college and stuck together like glue. Everybody else is either a single mommy cruising the bars or a single guy sitting at home lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:15 PM
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Emancipation? Not really. The current political fusion between liberalism and feminism is an embarrassment to humanity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:10 PM
1

Everybody’s the same but older lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:26 PM
2

That’s not “normal” but at the same time…yeah I have had similar experiences. It happens lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:10 AM
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Yes and no. If a guy went around banging women/getting multiples pregnant or whatever it might be considered Bigamy especially if they lived in a Common Law relationship. That was one of the biggest complaints against Mormons and how Joseph Smith got killed by vigilantes/sheriff posse (running from Bigamy charges iirc). In certain societies that man would be on the hook for a dowry payment. If a man had sex with a chaste woman it was literally considered rape even if it was consensual. The punis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:29 PM
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Nope. If anything the college/stable job thing will hurt a man’s sex life. I once lived in a crap apartment complex (the green oaks lol) and it was filled with these low class ghetto baby daddy gangsta type guys. They’re all broke, they are always fighting with each other, no jobs, in debt, angry baby mamas and yet they would have girls lined up to bang them. It was unreal the amount of women these guys had chasing after them. Most had at least one live in GF who worked and paid the bills while …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:41 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:51 AM
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They aren’t really single. If you get to know them you’ll find out they have friends and are usually having sex with a guy on the side The single men you know are usually 10,000 million percent single. They have almost no friends and haven’t been laid in over a year. Keep in mind I’m not saying that there aren’t lonely women out there because there are. However when this topic comes up it’s almost always younger people and not older people who are widows or widowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:56 PM
2

Yeah the “omigod he STARING” TikTok’s are cringe. Imagine if a guy made a thread about a woman staring at him at the gym. And he tried to figure out who she was so he could shame her publicly. It’s laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:49 PM
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Seems like a bad femcel troll thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:01 AM
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When I was in college I wrote a prank story for a writing class about this. The Men lived on one planet riding around on motorcycles and having monster truck rallies. The Women lived on a nearby planet and would occasionally send robots to kidnap men to be used as slaves to fix all their broken stuff, move furniture, squash bugs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:25 AM
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Because that’s how Men think. Logic, patterns, math, rtfm whatever. Like it’s an established process & all you have to do is follow the steps properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:56 PM
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I’ve dated a few women who aren’t like that list but…dammmmmm……….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:30 AM
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Online culture can be a cesspool & it screws with peoples’ brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:09 PM
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Lol I’ve known so many liberal single women who ran their mouths about how they won’t date trump guys & later on they’re living with one. As long as you two are on the same page about what a relationship is the rest doesn’t make a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:32 PM
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I was floored that she would talk about her own child that way. And then all the other women nodded like it’s some kind of common knowledge thing. No wonder cousin Paul doesn’t like going to family get togethers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:43 PM
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A relative of mine has two sons. The oldest one is a really smart kid in college working on an aerospace degree. He’s also a little on the unfortunate looking side (weird eyeballs, shorter) and from what I hear he doesn’t do well with women and his high school life was hell. Thank God he was able to get into a good college. Then there’s the younger brother who is extremely handsome - like a character from one of those pop music bands that girls go nuts for. Or maybe Twilight. He’s still in high …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:47 AM
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My parents are boomers who married a hundred years ago when I visit them it’s not like they are flirting with one another. They do stuff together a lot though, like road trips/movies/hikes/gym. If they fight I never see it happen. When I was a kid arguments and fights were rare. I don’t think many millinials or gen z will wind up in the sane sort of relationship. Lots will be single into elder years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:53 PM
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That kind of thing is super rare and only happens with basketball player types and other flamboyant people. The vast majority of “successful” men will be married to “successful” women that they met during college etc. Someone who they click with that’s supportive and stable. As an aside my ex was from a rich family and a wannabe Instagram influencer. There is a weird subculture of those girls looking for rich guys but it’s not what most people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:07 PM
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A lot of guys won’t admit it but they have only been with 2-3 women by age 40. I think by that time women are more “weirded out” if you haven’t been married or had children. Also the 40 year old virgin is a thing and there are more of those guy than people realize. Honestly…I wouldn’t even think about it but rather ask yourself why you are in that position and then try to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:08 AM
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Three things: First off the women you list are pretty. Men like pretty women. Second of all I was in a long term relationship with a woman as you describe and she was very manipulative. It’s hard to get out of that when you are in it. Thirdly plain Jane women get plenty of attention. An “average” woman will get plenty of attention and dates online or in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:47 PM
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Whenever these articles pop up it’s (usually) women talking about how they are educated/professional/independent and “why can’t I get a guy who is all these things”. Hence they are the men they want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:07 PM
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We went to the movies and saw Despicable Me. The theater was sold out and it was 90% little kids bouncing off the walls. Completely hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:44 PM
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I think a lot of those “NYC Women” went to college, studied hard, got a respectable job and now they have become the man they always wanted to marry. Its the ultimate failure of modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:58 PM
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And people wonder why things are shitty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:38 PM
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Reproduction is literally the number one goal for every life form lol. I don’t blame your sister for thinking that way. Our modern society trains people to be selfish. Taking pics of yourself and buying things is a substitute for community and family. Sacrifice is BS, why wait just put it on a credit card and have it NOW! Of course not everyone is falling for it but it’s getting to the point that normal relationships are almost counterculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:51 AM
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“Are women jealous” Yes! If you’ve ever had lots of girl friends or lady coworkers you’ll know what I mean. Guys get jealous too of course. It just seems to be more common with women especially if they are competing with other women. Even a little old ladies. It will become the war of the grandkids. Whose grandkids are prettier, whose grandkids are smarter, who wins via Zerg rush because they have 23 grandkids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:18 PM
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They get lazy thats all. No big secret. Stop wearing makeup, eat junk food, when they go to the gym is just to walk on a treadmill for 20mins and then drink a huge cappuccino etc. Husbands get lazy too but in different ways (oh your birthday is today? Anniversary of who? Huh what?). Your only real option is to lay down the law early on. Like from the get-go you have to make it clear what’s OK and not OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:53 PM
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Lol Look I’ve known a lot of those guys and they are usually good looking/macho/manipulative and that’s really all it takes. The antisocial behaviors are icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:10 PM
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I think a lot more women would divorce the husband to try to get with the “perfect guy.” They are much more willing to file that divorce paperwork than men are. She would spend a bunch of time thinking about it and convince herself she’s unhappy so that divorce is the right thing to do. Men would have an affair but not leave. Stick his weenie in her a few times and then block the hot gf phone number. I don’t know why she’s calling you at work honey! I’ve never heard of her honest. No idea why sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:42 PM
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Every guy has had a friend/relative etc who is a complete piece of shit yet got tons and tons and tons of women. Wherever they went they had women crawling all over them. I’ve known a couple. When I was down and out I rented an apartment in the not great part of town (the Heritage Oaks lmao) and the complex was full of these baby daddy characters. The guy will have no job, no money, no car and yet he has three different baby mamas. Meanwhile Mr. regular ordinary Reddit guy is sitting there with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:26 PM
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Suggest a different date idea then. If she is interested in you then she’ll go bowling or to the arcade or for a walk downtown where the bars are or meet up at a club or whatever. There are a ton of date ideas that don’t involve dinner at a restaurant. After a couple casual dates have dinner at your place. If she stomps her feet and insists on a restaurant where you’d never go in the first place (it has AMBIANCE) she’s obviously not the girl for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:47 PM
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Earth has ~4 billion men on it and they don’t like good women lol. Its like the “women only like jerks” but in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:27 PM
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Humans have a “stranger danger” mindset whether it’s daily interactions or crimes. We want to think it’s an outsider that does these things and not a member of our community. Most violent crimes are committed by someone close to the victim, robberies committed by people who live nearby etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah I’ve noticed it too reminds me of the redpill bioscience evolutionary posts/off the reservation bluepiller stuff about monogamy being unnatural or other wacky stuff lol. I think they’re reading lots of psych blogs and picking up on buzzwords. Too much internet for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:32 PM
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I’d want him to be happy period. Encourage him to participate in school parties/drama that sort of thing. If he came to me “dad there a girl I like” blah blah I’d try to make him confident in himself. If(when lol) it ended I wouldn’t bring him down or make him think it’s some horrible failure. By the time he is a young adult not much you can say tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:57 PM
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Me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:20 PM
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I’m not anywhere on the political spectrum tbh. Like I’m technically pro-gun/privacy/free speech but then I also have crazy ideas like using tax dollars for health care/school/take care of the poor and not allowing billionaires to buy up the world. So not in either party really. More Redpill but don’t buy into the bro-science stuff. None of this affects my sex life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:28 PM
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If you want to have a family imho. And she needs to be like-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:20 PM
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TL:DR Going off title Modern Society exists because we moved past a lot of primitive/“natural” behaviors. You have an iPhone in your pocket and an Internet forum to post these thoughts on because a guy who was not an “Alpha” was able to become an adult, attain a monogamous relationship, have kids etc. So while it might not be evolutionarily natural it is definitely beneficial to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:23 PM
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Meanwhile on another part of Reddit: “I’m a guy almost thirty and only had one girlfriend seven years ago and never get matched on Tinder. What are the odds of improving things for myself?” Reddit: HAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:17 PM
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Lots of times that “bad relationship” isn’t really bad & they have a shared home, business, children. Also life is tough it’s so much easier when you have a partner even if you are no longer horny for them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:39 PM
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I’ve known lots of women who dated around a lot and they still liked men. They like going to bars with men, playing video games with their man, they like big fat guys (huggable!) nerdy guys (so smart!) shy guys (so cute!) short guys (hobbit!) they like Men lol. Also I don’t date Man Haters. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:53 PM
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When they say Mamas Boy it usually means he either lives at home or his mother is very domineering. Like she is right next door all the time & he won’t do anything without her approval. As for daddy issues my ex used to sit on her dads lap as a 20something adult 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:16 PM
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Usually when this topic comes up on her it’s not abusive guys but rather guys that are toxic. Men can see these guys coming from a mile while away. It’s so obvious he might as well glow in the dark lol. But the women think he is wonderful. There’s some stories I could post on here that are mind boggling. Also while women might talk about “red flags” they happily throw them out the window for one of these guys. So then the process starts all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:07 AM
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Kinda vulgar way of saying it but yeah absolutely correct lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:36 PM
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At least you learned a new trade
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:58 PM
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I can understand why guys might think like that. Plenty of guys have gone to bars/clubs, had all sorts of online dating profiles and everything and gotten three or four dates within a couple years. Or no dates at all lol. And then there is the patronizing advice on forums like this. Telling the guy he’s not trying hard enough or that maybe there is something wrong with his character or personality. Like it’s a moral failure. So yes you are going to find men online who think women are monolithic …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:31 PM
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Personally (man) was a surprise birth party for my ex with a bunch of her friends at a club she liked. Paid for drinks and DJ.She complained afterward because I didn’t get her a birthday card. In retrospect she was spoiled so not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:27 PM
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I knew how it was going to end after the first couple of paragraphs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:22 PM
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LOL it’s always the “Man’s Fault”. Doesn’t matter what it is. I don’t buy that study people keep quoting on here either. Just more of the same “ThOsE MEn NeEd to StEP UP aNd DatE tHoSe poOr GiRls” nonsense. The whole argument defies simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:59 PM
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Tbh I kinda did, we had a lot in common and similar personalities unfortunately she had a couple (big) problems that I don’t and it went to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah uh no lol. We are just collectively nicer to women when it comes to the topic of looks. That’s all. Wipe off the makeup, take off the filters and we’re all pretty much average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:27 PM
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A receipt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:53 PM
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Women Oh man the off the wall conversations I’ve had lol Every now and then you meet one who is fun as hell to be with but the shit in between oh Lord
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:10 AM
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Yeah it’s kinda the new popular fad to post “I’m so hot at the gym all the guys are staring teehee!” TikToks. Which is fine until they start with the “everyone harasses me at the gym” and try to shame guys for looking at them. Which is silly since you know the videos they post are 90% viewed by hopeless drooling neckbeards lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:59 PM
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“Influencers” LOL If I managed a gym I wouldn’t ban filming but there would be a standing policy to ignore complaints from and/or eject the obnoxious ones. My old gym had a huge mat workout area for push-ups/stretching and there was one girl who always tried to monopolize it for her videos. The narcissism is off the charts with IG girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:41 AM
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Yes but it doesn’t mean there’s no dating on the other side of “The Wall” lol. Everybody gets older. Things break down. You wear glasses to read. Other less fun things happen. Its just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:45 PM
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LOL at some of the wack shit people post up on here The funny part is the title probably makes perfect sense to some of you nuts I can’t wait for someone to reply with the “logical explanation” of OPs psychotic word salad rant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:18 AM
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You need to have a certain personality (IE be good at “fake”) and live in a place with lots of single people (big city). So for all 3 it’s probably 5% of single men. Now let’s say the guy is willing to make all the changes in his life - move, change jobs, learn how to be fake (diff appearance, clothes, musical choices, game), gym, steroids and he is willing to go for women he normally wouldn’t…I would say its possible for almost all single men to do. 95% or more. Also by “women he normally would…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:42 PM
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The first two are hard to pull off on a monthly basis as an adult with medium income, full time job and no drug habits. You either make dating your second career or you aim waaay low. Or both lol. The third one isn’t hard for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:27 PM
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The more time you spend alone working on yourself the harder it is to connect with other people. You become self-centered and have a tough time letting strangers into your life. Everything they do becomes a red flag sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:55 PM
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In 10-15 years it will probably be a crime for an ugly/awkward guy to flirt with women. UK is already halfway there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:53 PM
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I half wondered if that doofy guy in the clerk video was a Redditor trying to “touch grass” lol. Letting feminists make the rules means insanity because they’ll constantly change them to suit their feelings. Like Calvinball. And of course anyone who points out the insanity is labeled a (whatever). Just more of the same stupidity that’s infecting our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:00 PM
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Oh man when I worked at a grocery store the middle aged housewives flirting with teenage bag boys happened all the time lol. They had this thing where if they ask you for help with loading the groceries you had to take them to their car. There was this one big blond lady who goosed literally every guy in the store at one time or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:19 AM
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Statistically it’s around ~70% Welcome to America here’s your fried bacon wrapped twinky and extra large coke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:13 AM
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You in high school or college? Oh cool I went there graduated in 08 I pledged too. Whats your major? Right on. Use IG? College has an IG group for that major check it out. Dude was just an awkward autist that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:49 PM
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All the redditors saying he’s a creep need to post video of themselves trying to flirt. It would be a goldmine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:52 PM
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When I was in college I had a retail job and can remember some oddball conversations like this. It wasn’t unusual especially with older people who are kind of senile etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:51 PM
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Well he did mention hack e sack which is creepy as hell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:44 PM
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Naw it blew up because most redditors are morons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:40 PM
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Completely harmless dumb guy talks to girl whoopty do And Holy Shit the comments As if half those redditors aren’t equally awkward and clueless in real life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:27 PM
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I’d get behind that fat pun but my car only has a half tank of gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:34 PM
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Women hooked on IG is the nature of the beast these days. Men’s brains and women’s brains respond differently to stimuli. Women get an extremely large dopamine rush on social media (IG whatever). It’s very similar to how Mens brains react while playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:39 PM
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“Everything is bigger in TEXAS” is not false advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:34 PM
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Haha welcome to America. I am a guy 5’10 and 170 pounds. Most women in America weigh as much or more than I do. We fat as hell in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:57 PM
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If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife In my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:57 AM
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No. I used to follow a few girls IG accounts and there was one I talked to a lot but I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:53 PM
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LOL Your whole post is delusion according to your title. I mean you start off with one absolute statement and then contradict it in the title. Either one is higher than the other or it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:52 PM
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What is this word salad? You high OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:49 PM
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Like a Cherry 2000 (look it up if you haven’t seen it lol)? I think Western governments, because of feminism and conservatism, would outlaw them. You’d have to go to Asia or someplace to buy one & then smuggle her back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:40 AM
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Those numbers are based on raw data they don’t lie. When you put in single men then yeah it’s only gonna be like half. Because a lot of guys are married. Now out of single man do you have ones who are obese so again and the number is smaller. Some men are short so again the number goes down to a little. Average income in America is around $40-$50,000. So yes if you make 60 or 70 you’re way above average for a single person. Unfortunately the “average” in America is pretty sad these days for a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:35 AM
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If they start throwing money at onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:31 AM
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I was watching a documentary on some bad part of town sort of school in Detroit. In one area something like 500 homes with children only five or six had both biological parents. That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:21 AM
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The funny part is that OP has made a list of everything that is wrong with “modern society” without realizing it. Obesity rates to the point where it’s hard to find someone who’s “not fat.” Terrible inflation and low wages so nobody can afford anything. paying for a night out is a big thing. Single mothers because of the breakdown of the family unit. Young men dropping out of society because they’ve lost hope of having anything better for themselves. This is not rock bottom yet though. You still…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:21 AM
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I’m kind of surprised someone made a good response on here. Marriage is definitely a team effort. Raising children is a team effort. One person will have to spend more time with the kids while one person spends more time working. And then you have Redditors talking about getting married based on divorce statistics from a spreadsheet they found via Google lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:44 PM
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I suppose you could try but it wouldn’t work because there are way too many men ready and willing to throw money at women in the hopes of getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:37 PM
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I always laugh at this topic because I can read the replies and see who has “been around” vs the people who get all their info from blogs. For example when I was broke I wound up in an apartment complex that was notorious for being a craphole (anything called Oaks/Greens/Fountains is usually sketchy) and it was filled with bad boy baby daddy characters. Those guys got so much poon it was unbelievable. And then you get the average Redditor saying well it’s “damaged women”. Or the really funny one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:58 PM
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Seems like this forum is getting dumped on by bad trolls lately. They must have closed one of the wackier “dating” reddits so they’re posting in here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:00 AM
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Lmao Awhile ago I made a profile with “Average Woman” pics which I found via googling (was from an article written by a woman about being average). If I had to guess I’d say she was maybe 5’5 and a little heavy. I think the number was 115 messages after a couple weeks and the guys were mostly decent looking with nice profiles. Messages weren’t obscene plenty were boring though. “hi” etc. So yeah…sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:15 PM
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Extremely tiny, maybe 1:10000. Even in prison the numbers of men who are SA/scum charges aren’t that high. Obnoxious men are of course much higher but obnoxious = \ = rapist etc. Also consider that people love to bash on an ex lover sort of thing. We’ve all done it. L O L at the down votes. You morons really think 10% of man are rapists/predators? That would mean about 15 million men in the USA alone. You have to have a non-functional brain to believe that’s anywhere near reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:29 AM
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My biggest fear would be picking out someone who is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:39 AM
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Yeah whatever. I’m calling it, you’re full of shit. No way the richest guy in town is hitting on you lol. Whole thread is a bunch of Reddit wacko fantasy crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:20 AM
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Question doesn’t make sense. Plenty of women are happily married to men they don’t find “hot” or who aren’t their “type” because the guy is funny, charming, supportive etc. Way more than women married to guys who fit their checklists (tall, confident, blah blah). Repulsed as in she hates you? Why would she marry you? Sounds like either a failed relationship or a failure on her part (married the guy who fit her checklist/parents picked him out etc) which isn’t necessarily the man’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:49 PM
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I think it has more to do with your personality and life experiences. A lot of the redpill stuff I read online are things that I have experienced in my own life or seen other people’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:02 PM
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LOLWUT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:14 PM
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Ok Boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:12 PM
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Aside from biological and behavioral issues and differences in the sexes….a lot of people simply never learned how to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:16 PM
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Funniest ones are on women talk about how they’re too hot to get a good guy. Or there so hot that they can’t get a relationship or whatever. In case you slept through a psychology class everybody does this. Theres a natural human need to protect your ego and your identity. It happens in everything whether it’s work or politics or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:06 PM
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“It’s the MAN’S FAULT” is not new lol. Been going on forever. The dumb dad stereotype, the clumsy brother whatever. It’s always been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:02 PM
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As a guy who went through the same thing I answer (mostly) no. Not for a lot of the reasons people here post up though. Usually what happens is years later after college you get in shape and your life is going well. You make that post on Facebook and then someone you knew from high school and college whose life is not going well hits you up. There’s also a lot of emotional baggage. You’re not going to romantically date the person who made you miserable when you were 16, 18, 22 etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:52 PM
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I doubt you’re repulsive, probably just shy and need a haircut tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
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Not feeling it OP. I got called ugly all the time and I’m nothing close to androgynous. Still do every now and then. Sometimes ugly really is just plain ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:42 PM
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Sure. Why not? Its fun to give/get little things here and there. Big gifts not so much. Spending a bunch of time/money picking out a new handbag for her and 5mins later into the closet it goes with the others lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:17 PM
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Huge numbers of men aren’t “undesirable” lol. Also that term is very relative…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:55 PM
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Gyms have a social element too. Most have group workout sessions, boxing clubs etc. Theres also nothing bad about going up to someone just to ask them out. Never know until you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:27 PM
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True. Lots of times those guys are very depressed. As for the Saturday night thing most people really do just sit at home. There are people who are allergic to normality so they need constant chaos of going out/fighting/drama whatever but that’s a small number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:22 PM
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I’ve noticed it too thankfully it hasn’t really caught on. It’s just more feminism/demonizing of men. You’re a man so you’re dumb, you’re ugly, you’re short, you’re awkward, you’re goony, you don’t know how to flirt, you can’t kiss, basically you’re an idiot lol. And then women make posts about guys being timid, Guy is not flirting with them enough etc. Clown World lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:27 PM
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He sounds friendly and lonely to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:13 PM
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When you’re a kid your mom will do this all the time. Kids are morons your mother has probably saved you from being squashed by cars and eaten by a zoo animals and who knows what else. Adult? Not that I can recall sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:26 AM
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In the past month you’ve made posts about how you can’t get a friend with benefits and another funny post about a hot wife seducing you (BS). You also posted up looking for a friend with benefits in one of the creepy subreddits. So yeah I don’t think you’re much of a ladies man. Sorry bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:42 AM
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It’s funny how half these posts always boil down to everything being the “man’s fault.” Not trying hard enough, not being funny enough, not being social enough, no game, not having enough friends, not understanding body language, no fashion sense, you don’t know when to make a move, on and on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:35 AM
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I’ve seen men pull other men out of dangerous situations before twice in my life. Yes guys white knight all the time but real, genuine danger is very rare and women are almost never exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:30 AM
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The guy you are describing is the guy every girl wants. The guy who’s you know 6 foot tall with that yuppie kind of haircut all the Los Angeles guys have, fit, dressed homogemously etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:08 PM
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Lol If any of that were true then women’s beauty products would not be a thing. Women’s clothing would not be revealing. Instead it would be lots and lots of baggy clothes and products to make you ugly instead of pretty. Women love male attention. Everybody loves attention. It’s part of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:47 PM
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First part nails it for most guys. Just having a little money and your own place opens up a lot of dating/relationship options. For whatever reason (some) people on this forum get all bent out of shape over this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:56 AM
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Lots of things that make a man attractive don’t happen until a bit later in life. Having money, your own place, something going for you etc doesn’t usually occur until late 20s. Same goes for social skills. Most who are shy when younger will become more confident with age (you get a degree, make $$, start dressing better, public speaking, meetings at work, you complete projects, whatever).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:09 PM
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I grew up in a very rural area. Our grade school had about 800? students and the high school had maybe 300. My high school grad class hadI think 65 kids. Lots of people dated and then later married people they knew from junior high. They met in 6th grade, went to high school prom that kind of stuff. If you were a single adult there were very few single women and every guy knew about them lol. If a pretty woman moved to town everyone knew who she was within a week or two. There was ZERO dating it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:05 AM
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In my life it was more looks than anything else. I was always pegged as socially awkward/weird etc but when I got in shape and started dressing more homogeneously I became the funny/smart guy. When I spouted off some autist facts girls said I was smart, when I said autist WTF kind of stuff girls said it was funny. So yeah just don’t be “ugly” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:37 PM
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Lol another low energy bluepill post. Character and honor are not gender specific. I’ve personally known women who left husbands when they were dying. One of them went through a horrible divorce while he was in the hospital dying of cancer. Oh I just remembered another one, a guy I worked with became paralyzed from the waist down. His wife left him and took the kids to marry a guy who ended up banging one of her daughters. So yeah…some people are just shit regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:21 PM
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It’s happened to me a few times in my life, once at work. I didn’t ask anybody out, I didn’t follow anybody around it was more like schoolyard bullying that went off the rails.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:26 PM
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I love Steve Buscemi. How someone that goony looking made it big in Hollywood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:34 PM
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I don’t know if I would call it “commonly held” but the broscience posts about how dating is survival of the fittest/women only pick the best of the best men to procreate with are pretty hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:31 PM
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Yeah because every guy carries flowers and a machete. Judging the whole world by that standard shows a complete lack of thinking skills. Or troll post. Hopefully. I suppose he would need the machete to cut the flowers so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:19 PM
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If you are thinking in terms of quantifiable contributions you’re failing imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:39 AM
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I’ve never met a man who was mad that “girls don’t like video games”. Its more along the lines of they want to be left alone to play their games w/o interference sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:01 PM
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LOLWUT Obviously you make them sign a waiver drawn up by a Lawyer and then duly notarized by a registered Notary Public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:21 PM
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Police report after the fact. Hospital visit. Injuries. Witnesses. Statements by perpetrator (oftentimes they brag afterwards). “Dozens of testimonies doing questionable things” isn’t evidence of anything. Yelling RAPE months or years later smells like BS. Also when its a celeb/politician you have a ready-made mob of people who will believe/disbelieve any and all accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:46 PM
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Go look at the freeway during rush hour. We are ants lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:23 PM
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You’re misreading the data. Women will go through 60,000 profiles and like 3000 of them. Men will go through 60,000 profiles and like 20000 etc. The Match isn’t a date. If you actually care to look it up there are various nerd types who have posted YouTube videos with like/dislike/match/date statistics for say Tinder or Bumble. The numbers are sobering lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:07 PM
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The definition of harassment today is very very broad & it doesn’t take anything to make an accusation. Mean girls/schoolyard bullying is a thing for adults too. And then you have the “if he is accused he must be guilty of something” mentality that goes along with the “I’ll never be accused because I know how to act properly” BS. I had a harassment claim against me and I almost never left the server room lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:53 PM
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Accused? 100%. People love to gossip and if you’re an unpopular guy stories will spread like wildfire about you. Anyone remember that girl who walked around with the mattress to protest rape culture or whatever? She got the guy kicked out of school? That was all fake. Now just imagine something like that happening at work. Kiss your job goodbye! However The odds of it going that crazy and turning into something huge where you’re in serious trouble are very very low. Way less than 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:54 AM
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I remember him lol. A friend of mine wrote/emailed Tom Leykis about a teacher he hated and Leykis called our high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:28 AM
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Women and accountability. Yeah um….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:48 AM
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Yes it was my first sexual experience. I was an ugly nerd with money and my own place (no roommates!) so it was a no-brainer. We would talk online (escort websites etc) and then meet up. Other times I would go to the Nevada ones that are legal, or to the girls house. One time I ended up dating one. She was a stripper and owned three houses in Reno and one in Sacramento. We broke up because she was always ordering me around lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:22 PM
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I kinda doubt it but it’s kind of funny that normality is becoming an almost counter-culture movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:31 PM
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That’s not a man vs woman thing. Everybody is mean to “ugly” (unpopular) people. Meanwhile when we see a pretty or handsome face there is a positive feeling. Endorphins etc. That’s why you see pretty people in most advertisements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:18 AM
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With guys all that stuff is in the same category. So yes guys worry about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:15 AM
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Feminism used to be about equal rights under the law but it’s become a nonsensical hodgepodge of different grievances. Plus you have people with mental problems who use it as an excuse to behave bizarrely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:29 PM
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“Banishing Menstruating Women” where do you guys come up with this retard babble lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:22 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a bullshit term to begin with. Its just another part of the war against men. Imagine if we used the term “toxic femininity.” People would laugh it off. The very concept is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:38 PM
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Economics for one. A living wage is becoming harder and harder to achieve & we are drowning in debt. Yes I know guys who are broke deadbeats getting laid constantly but for the most part women still look at guys as providers. They expect you to have a job, place, your own money, a few extra bucks so that you can enjoy your hobbies and whatnot. It seems like a lot of guys aren’t in that position until their 30s, and by then it’s usually built on top of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:51 PM
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Genetic choice for sex depends on an either/or so you end up with just two genders in an equal amount. The slightly more males vs females could be due to non-genetic factors. “Chad” is just some guys being more attractive vs others so women go after them - and since we do not punish promiscuity you end up with these sorts of “harems” which are more like a waiting list to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:43 PM
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Nope if my elderly parents lived in a city I would rather my mom took a hypothetical woman-only subway. Unfortunately US mass transit is a crazy horror show so you would have gangs targeting the woman-cars etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:31 PM
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Wasn’t there a Seinfeld episode with George wearing a wedding ring to try and get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:34 PM
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Having a partner to help you in life. Granted it may not always turn out that way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:06 AM
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Men are told to be confident. Confident Men will think they look “good” even if they don’t lol. Also women are rough when it comes to judging men solely based on looks (which is who is doing the rating obviously). They will pick guys apart on eyebrows, his nose, his hands, smile, how he walks, clothing color choices, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:58 PM
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Psychotherapists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:52 PM
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I respect A for getting back in shape rather than just giving in to the pizza and ice cream like most others do lol. B is gorgeous. Others not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:02 PM
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The Boomers got the best deal imho. Economically, sexually, everything. Subsequent generations have been living off their scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:45 AM
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You’re normal. The “happy when single” thing is a scam made up by people who want to replace community with $$$ doodads and websites. They want you miserable so you’ll work to earn money which you spend to feel better. Humans are social creatures it’s literally proven that sociability/social life is health related. Nobody is happier single unless they are defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:39 PM
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All of those scenarios can be (somewhat) true at the same time it just depends on the guy. I don’t ascribe to the doomer philosophy either but I understand how some guys wind up feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:58 PM
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Everyone who has been aged 18-29 knows the answer. The “Single” Women are all trying to date or FWB the “same” guy. They make whole websites about “are we dating the same guy” because they all want the one guy that their friends want. Waiting for “Mr Right” to leave “Mrs Wrong” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:25 AM
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Yes guys do that all the time. Its not usually sexual though more like sitting on the couch nodding “uh huh really wow then what happened” while she vents at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:25 PM
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Not surprised. “Anti-Redpill” guys are creeps. Its like the dudes who talk about being male feminists, 9 times out of 10 they wind up being perverts or nutjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:02 PM
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Its almost like being a filthy whore is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:23 PM
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You can’t 100% prevent anything that involves another person. Marry a high libido person? A friend of mine did that. Blows every day! Until they got married. Literal wedding night she clams up. Tells him she doesn’t want to sleep together. They only had sex when she wanted to have kids and the doctor said 2x a day, 6 days a week (Sunday is the day of rest lol). Do all the “right things” and be the best spouse ever? Yeah that doesn’t work either. Plenty of people do that and wind up divorced. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:49 AM
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I imagined Mr Burns saying it while rubbing his hands together lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:57 PM
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I don’t blame her for making this thread because she’s probably a kid. First off most people are nice but even nice people get mad when taken advantage of. If you have a friend who’s really sweet and easy-going and they let you borrow things that doesn’t mean you can keep that stuff forever. If you have a friend who always buys the drinks at the bar that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pitch in $$ every now and then and say thank you. Even the kindest person in the world can become incredibly angry i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:31 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:37 PM
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My ex is hot and her family are millionaires so her life will always be great until she’s not hot/family cuts her off sort of thing. She won at life the day she was born. No idea what she is doing but I haven’t heard about her getting married or anything serious. She was rushing marriage with another ex boyfriend but he said NO lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:52 PM
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Moot point. Vast majority of men don’t earn the kind of $$$ necessary to be a sole breadwinner, mostly because of crazy inflation (and wages not keeping up). As an aside I think a lot of women would love to be with a man who made enough money for them to be a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:49 PM
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I don’t care I’ve got my own shit to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:40 PM
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I’ve traveled to other countries but not to get laid. Other countries/cultures you may find to be more appealing. Same for the climate, food, whatever. For example I absolutely loved Poland/Finland. Going overseas just to “get laid” you’ll probably end up with hookers. Ymmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:41 PM
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Well as someone who has been accused falsely of things before it’s tough to get out of. You can’t prove that something didn’t happen-didn’t happen sort of thing. One of the best things to do is keep good records. Save all your texts and emails. This is true whether it’s business or social. Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who will falsely accuse you of things to get themselves out of trouble and even if you have proof they are lying they will keep lying anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:34 PM
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Make me ugly and charismatic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:40 PM
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There have been a couple of times that women introduced me to friends etc. It happens. Not often though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:02 PM
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I think it’s common sense that whomever has more free time should do more stuff around the house vs the other. Odds are the higher-earner works longer hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:43 PM
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I hear that he loved animals AND he was a vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:38 PM
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Conversational skills are huge. Get them talking about whatever they are interested in and listen intently. Look your best. Being attractive always helps. They’ll have more fun talking to you because you are nice to look at. Try to keep up on whatever pop culture cancer the women are interested in where you live. Where I used to live during my 20s it was DJs. Even women that were in their early 30s still wanted to go to clubs where certain DJs played. As you get older the pop-culture part matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:40 PM
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Women are sexually attracted to celebrities even ugly ones. Ron Perlman gets womens underwear in the mail ffs. Also those celebs you see on TV that are sexy are covered in makeup and filters. So they look even better. A non-famous guy who looked kinda like a famous star would be a local oddity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:18 AM
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Their choice. Lack of sex used to be legal grounds for divorce. Several married guys I know have girlfriends because their wives allow it. They don’t want to have sex with him but they don’t want the stigma and financial loss of a divorce. They’ve got a nice house kids going to a good school so they keep up “married” appearances. I’ve known a couple women who did the same because the husband no longer wanted to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:54 PM
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Its only half the story. There have been times in my life when I was in the middle of drama like that between two friends or coworkers, and times when I broke up with someone and she went around telling similar stories. Later on you hear a completely different story or you find out some crucial detail that flips it around completely. So perhaps first husband was a troll. Or maybe he was a blue collar guy and mommy always wanted her to marry a lawyer. This is why you stay out of other peoples fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:46 PM
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Depends on where you live. In the poor part of town even a little bit goes a long way. In the rich people part of town it’s normal to be rich so you’ve got to be obscenely loaded to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:57 AM
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Lol @ the playbook part. Seeing as how people have been getting married and divorced for 1000s of years you would think we’d have it all figured out by now. People get married because they’re in love and want to have a family. When you have that sort of feeling you don’t think about all the other stuff. If you want a simple answer about marriage counseling here you go; most courts either recommend or make it mandatory before granting divorce proceedings. In some states it’s three meetings, and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:31 PM
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C and D tits aren’t grotesque lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:18 AM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:30 PM
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What state is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:14 PM
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Those are the chicks who 99% of the time end up head-over-heels in love with douchebag/abusive guys. I could explain it but it would take too long & a lot of people on here wouldn’t believe it because they haven’t been around that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:27 PM
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Well assuming it’s true (smells like tons of BS)… “Boyfriend of 7 weeks” lol that is not a relationship. Maybe she just felt like bailing on him and used that as an excuse. Or perhaps it was something wildly different and she posted that story online to make herself feel better. Oftentimes people will trash a recent ex to justify breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:12 PM
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I think a lot of them don’t have a choice so they just deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:06 AM
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A lot of opposite sex “friendships” aren’t real friendships. To be honest a lot of friendships in your life/work are fair weather friends period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:58 PM
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Guys get bent out of shape over this topic because we all know a man who is a complete piece of human garbage yet women will crawl over broken glass to suck his dick. No matter how much of a screwup he is or what he does they’ll forgive him and take him back. Its like his veins are pumping catnip. Meanwhile Mr Average is sitting there with his tinder app, curated profile, “professional pictures” and zero matches going AAARRRGGHH!!!!.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:14 PM
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Man that’s a lot of fail in one rant. As if average “good guys” don’t drink or smoke weed (as if that makes someone a Bad Boy lmao). And all the nice guys are shut-ins. What kind of mind comes up with shit like this? OP must be a bot or angry chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:28 AM
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Physical attraction? Women will be attractive to the majority of men if they aren’t fat and are younger. Even if they are short and chubby most men will still be interested. Men have a high sex drive especially when younger which no doubt contributes to this. Most men will never get the same reaction. You have to be exceptional to attract the attention of the majority of women right off the bat. Regular relationships are completely different. Just because you are attracted to someone doesn’t mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:00 PM
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There would be no society. The human race would struggle to reproduce, or not exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:52 PM
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I’ve traveled overseas and yeah America has the most fatties. It’s embarrassing. If I were president there would be a “War Against Fat” to make America Healthy Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:47 PM
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BS its never too late to fix your screwed up life. I turned my life around from my early 20s. No longer fat and broke now I am looking at building a house and debating between a gen 1 and gen 2 raptor for a desert truck. Likewise I know nerd dork loser guys from school who turned out well and popular jock guys that are basket cases. Cheerleader chicks with straight As who got fat and had a bunch of ugly kids with loser guys. On and on. If you think your life is over during your 20s you have a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:07 PM
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I’ve actually traveled to Europe, Mideast, Sudamerica, never saw as many fat people as in America. This whole country has Diabetes. Also Americans are rude but that’s another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:12 PM
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Its because Reddit is full of fat/stupid people and trolls. These girls are gonna be diabetics with bad knees by the time they’re 30ish it’s nothing to applaud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:07 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah those chicks are all 200+ but diff stroke for diff folks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:12 AM
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I’ve done both and the older ladies are more fun. Bigger chicks are a bit too much for me to handle TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:10 AM
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Ummmm I’ve known a lot of fat ugly people who have casual sex with other fat ugly people. Probably more than attractive looking people lol. So no that’s not it. A lot of of it is just sociability and a willingness to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:27 AM
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Yes but didn’t try to get back with her. We met in college she was the first girl I ever really dated. Unfortunately I screwed it all up because of inexperience and she went back to her ex, then bailed on him for a guy I had never heard of & had 3-4 kids. Last I checked she is still hot too. So yeah major fuckup on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:49 PM
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Its both in equal measure for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:07 PM
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JMHO While Christianity has a lot of things about male and females roles a lot of red pill stuff I read comes off as nihilistic, not religious. Its a fatalistic view of the world where they talk about “enjoying the decline”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:08 PM
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Internet Anonymity. If you really want awful behavior I had a woman match with me one time just to tell me that I was gross lol. I’ll let you know the secret; a lot of those girls you talk to online are not happy people. You look at their pictures and they’re not smiling or it’s a very rehearsed selfie smile. Also while their profile makes them look like some kind of a world traveler party animal living a stupendously wonderful kick ass life…they’re just as boring as you are. Soooo when you send…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:34 AM
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Making someone wait only happens when she isn’t into you. If a girl is attracted to you it’s not gonna take that long for things to get moving. You cannot force commitment either (unless it’s a shotgun wedding lol). There is no formula for it. Having children or a shared business etc can help strengthen those bonds though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:39 PM
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I’ve no idea tbh. My ex was my “ideal” and that turned out just wonderful 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:54 PM
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Lol this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:54 PM
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Although they are loathe to admit it Women generally prefer a guy who is a bit possessive and sets boundaries. Where guys screw up is they have no boundaries in the beginning & then when things start to go off the rails they attempt to set boundaries to save the relationship. Good luck with that one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:28 PM
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Straw man. I’ve never heard that and I grew up in a community that had a big private Christian school (ie quite conservative). All the conservatives I knew shoved their kids into college just like everyone else. Conservatives seem to put more emphasis on getting into relationships and making it work but even then I dunno, seeing as how they get unhappy and divorced at nearly the same rates as liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:58 PM
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Well going by the results I get online: If they are an average sampling of the average population maybe a 1/3rd. I’m in my late 30s and the dating game is dramatically different. If they are all “hot women” (fit, dressed well, wearing makeup) I could get a few numbers but no idea on dates, perhaps 1-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:46 PM
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Be more selfish/self centered. Put your own goals and needs first. Don’t do favors for people. Show up late to parties (not early/on time). Spend more time at the gym to look good. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:52 PM
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Broke + fit and on drugs I dated lots of women short term but never really committed because I knew that I was a basket case and it would likely fail. A couple of them asked me to move in and I declined. “With all my problems you want me in YOUR house? Shit” lol. When I was fit and making good money I had a few flings and then a steady girlfriend whom I really liked. Unfortunately she wasn’t that great of a person and I lost my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:06 PM
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Gregory Peck in To Kill a Mockingbird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:37 PM
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OP has a lot of “Supreme Gentleman” vibe going on Anyways The average woman isn’t any better. They’re 30-50lbs overweight, wearing stretch pants and cheap makeup, waddling around Wal-Mart with a cart full of junk and a screaming kid lol. And yet somehow they are marrying those fat dorky video games playing guys who also have jobs, houses, pay the bills etc etc. Does it bother you???? Really???? Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:08 PM
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I was one of the kids who got bullied all the time and it really screwed me up. My parents were equally terrible. Not mean just worthless and no help. To be fair we were broke as hell so they were stressing over money all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:02 PM
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Shaved head is in style now. I see lots of younger guys with shaved heads. Most of the swole guys at the gym have shaved heads from all the test-e leading to baldness lol. And then if you’re a bit older and have a beard? Sheeit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:46 AM
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I bet you have but didn’t really notice it or think too much about it. Facebook and other sites allow you to filter by school etc so people will use it to reconnect or straight up go fishing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:50 PM
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Its amazing how many women from your “past” will suddenly pop up on your Facebook etc when you get near 30. There’s a big rush to get married prior to that 30th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:05 PM
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As someone who has been there I will tell you the good news is that during university you’re surrounded by cute girls your age who don’t have a lot of baggage. It’s the perfect time to build real relationships with other guys your age who have similar fields of study. You should be super excited about starting university! I loved that time of my life. Getting older means more baggage. More jobs, more bills, more bullshit etc etc. People can become a lot more cynical. Another thing is that you’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:53 PM
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Its only a red flag if he’s upside down in debt buying dumb shit. Some guys like to spend money. Maybe he is loaded, maybe not so loaded, but it’s not necessarily a red flag. It could be how he spends a Saturday night dating or not dating. He spends on a big dinner date - that could be normal for him too. Not every guy sits at home bbqing lol. Expecting a return on his investment - that’s another fail one. This might sound shocking but some guys like to buy shit for other people, pay for the dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:34 PM
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Well the people who post in forums like Incealtears/niceguys/other bullying forums I won’t name have very low self esteem. Otherwise they wouldn’t spend all day making fun of strangers internet dating profiles etc. As for the PUA looksmax forum guys…I doubt they all look like that lol. They seem very ocd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:31 PM
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Because they’ve been married for like 12 years and have four kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:06 PM
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About my heigh 5’10 or so? He is about up to my nose so I’d say 5’6?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:58 PM
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Something is up with your buddy, maybe he has a hard time letting people into his personal space/life? I have an old friend from college who is similar (short, handsome, rich) and got a lot of women. Married now his wife is a knockout too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:14 PM
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Both parents work because they have to in order to survive. Its not by choice. If by traditional you mean “sole breadwinner” then he’ll have to be statistically higher income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:26 PM
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USA is full of traditional guys just gotta look in the right places. Churches are full of them. Most men lean “traditional” tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:19 PM
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I am a late bloomer and have never really felt that way. There’s a lot of women who will be very interested in you because you don’t have the same baggage as other guys. This is especially true if your life is mostly together(house, job etc). You were kind of a blank slate to them. Of course I did have a couple bad experiences starting out. I learned fairly quickly how to avoid women who have lots of baggage and bad attitudes. It’s not too hard to tell once you know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:09 AM
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Doubt it. Just make a dating profile with average chubby girl pics and get loads of responses. The average chubby guys with average chubby girls is every married couple in America lol. I think its more economics and normalizing casual sex. And people on here being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:15 PM
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Lol Look you know the answer already. He’s handsome/macho/loudmouth etc. Thats all. Maybe he is psycho or on drugs so the relationship is a rollercoaster ride of emotions. I know it’s infuriating when they tell you to be an extra-good-guy and then run into the arms of some waste of space because “he’s so SWEET” or God help you “he UNDERSTANDS me” haha. Its just life. So do what every other guy does, go to the gym, new clothes, adopt a bit of swagger and odds are you will start going on dates. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:22 PM
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Radicalizing the Romanceless was hilarious and unfortunately true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah thats BS. At least the title. Not gonna jump into the rest (tldr). What happens is a young guy will talk to girls/women to see what they want in a guy and get all vanilla responses - then he’ll compare himself to the criteria and wonder why it doesn’t work in Real Life. He’ll date a woman, try to be the Best Guy Ever and she will bail for a douchebag who has no job, treats her like shit, forgets her birthday, bangs her friends etc. And then comes the “But I’m a nice guy I treated her great …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:02 AM
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America be like: Gimme a number 7 with fries and a DIET Coke!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:11 PM
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1) America hadn’t started destroyed itself 100% yet. Obesity was much lower, housing was cheaper, the dollar was stronger and there were still plenty of manly blue collar jobs available. 2) Online dating didn’t exist. Women couldn’t swipe through 800 guys looking for the one with eyebrows she liked (yes someone told me she did this!). You dated more within local friends circles and took the other person “warts and all”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:43 PM
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The oceans aren’t rising, America is just sinking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:18 PM
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I’d be happy for her. It would be fun to have a workout partner again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:17 PM
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They do lol. Just read all the message boards where women talk about guys not wanting to commit/answer calls/go on special dates etc. Many guys seem to have adopted a sense of nihilism towards everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:02 AM
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Biggest thing is after you kiss. If she’s looking at you with that look or if she just goes “ok bye” and leaves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:12 AM
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As long as Guy A doesn’t do anything idiotic like end up broke with a bunch of baby mamas or shoot up drugs he’s going to be the hypothetical winner. With an average IQ he’ll wind up as Guy Bs manager and make lots of money while B does the work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:25 PM
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First off Jonah Hill didn’t do anything wrong, I don’t see him beating anybody to death either. Maybe she had racy photos on there and he’s applying for a family friendly acting gig. Hey we’re together what’s with all these pictures of you hugging other guys on your social media? Thats normal stuff. I think she was trying to Metoo! him out of spite and it didn’t go anywhere. As for the rest of your stuff about violence etc. I’ve sat down with women friends and explained to them that the guy they…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:58 PM
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They want a tall burly guy who is a bit possessive. A lot of what they look for in a guy depends on their childhood. If there’s baggage with their father then watch out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:50 AM
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Everyone wants to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:40 AM
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I would think you are normal. Most people don’t really have anything resembling a sex/dating life until the college years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:00 AM
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OP has achieved Ultimate Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:08 AM
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All of that stuff goes out the window if she’s attracted to the guy. Like genuinely attracted. They’ll throw caution to the wind, forget all their rules and do pretty much anything to win him over. They will ignore every red flag and gush about how smart and sweet and funny he is. The guys who get hit with all of the insecurity and paranoia are the “shy nerd” types. They’ll get it in their head he’s a creep or a loser and then see evidence of it everywhere. “Did you see his shoes and his hair so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:40 AM
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I think most men want to be seen as the “provider” so the idea of losing their job and having to depend on their wife’s income is a scary scenario. Like being less of a husband/man. Of course it’s going to happen though because like I said most households are two income so someone is gonna be fired every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:19 PM
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The Media is full of morons with a massive anti-male bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:09 PM
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Yes but (most) everybody is “older” too, with jobs, kids, baggage. Also they’ll compare you to all the other guys they have been with before. The taller guy, the hotter guy, the guy who was better in the sack, the guy who had a better job, the guy who partied etc etc. AND the stomp stomp biological clock. Big rush to get the big wedding. So what happens is guys date often but with less effort/commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:30 PM
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They want the financial freedom of career etc BUT they also want a man who can provide for both of them in case something bad happens (or they decide to stop working for whatever reason). Unfortunately it’s near impossible for one income to support a family these days so both people need to work near fulltime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:07 PM
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Of course but high school/college they all changed. Its like when puberty hits they turn into barracudas and by college everyone was doing their own thing. After that there was one woman whom I was close to but it was more business related/professional. Now that I think about it there was one other woman I kept up with after college but I don’t hear from here often anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:52 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:23 PM
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These threads always bring out the lulziest stuff from the hairy legged man hating feminist crowd and the doomer crowd. Your hypothetical guy could be shy, a workaholic, maybe he has a horn growing out of his forehead who knows. Tons of reasons for someone to be single/not get matches online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:22 PM
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They do all the time. Women will say stuff like “why did you marry X profession and get mad when he is (on the road, deployed, working nights/weekends). Why have kids and then expect them to raise themselves?” You just don’t see it in the pity party threads where they all complain about how John works too much, he doesn’t love me, whaaa while living in the 3600ft house John bought in Y neighborhood because it was near that special school and shopping etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:57 PM
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OK maybe the top-heavy one on the bottom right. God help me if it’s really a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:43 PM
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They’re all different types of hot depending on a guys taste. The first one looks like my ex lol. Most guys just want a woman who isn’t fat and has some boobs/butt with a face that doesn’t scare the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:21 PM
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OK A narcissist will be overly concerned with their appearance and how they are perceived A psychopath at their core has zero guilt or empathy combined with impulsivity. You could argue that sociopathy overlaps or is now anti-social disorder. A macheivellian (he should’ve been born with a less fucked up name lol) will be obsessed with power, control, social hierarchy etc Our modern society is tailor made to produce people like that and put them on pedestals. Every popular YouTuber, politician, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:12 PM
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Both can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:04 PM
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I don’t agree but I understand why a guy would think this way. The number of women I have met who rejected me for bizarre reasons (or bragged about rejecting other guys) is staggering. A lot of it comes down to self-centeredness and narcissism. If you are single for a long time you become prone to self centered thinking. It’s hard to let other people in. You immediately look for flaws or become annoyed at minor things. It happens to guys as well but seems to go the other way, turning into a mass…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:17 PM
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From what I can tell he asked her to delete some racy photos off her IG and to not hang out with some trashy people. That’s normal relationship stuff. In Hollywood where image is huge it’s even more important. Oh hell there’s tons of examples lol. Depp and Heard was a big one. Paul Mcartneys wife accusing him of abuse and then getting a huge pile of money in divorce. Its almost like they immediately accuse the other of controlling/abusive behavior just to make headlines. Oh yeah Roseanne Barr st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:41 PM
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I think the vast majority of people want monogamy and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:19 PM
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Lol at some of these replies Its like Redditors have zero capacity for critical thought She’s a hot looking middle aged millionaire media type person, those people live in a completely different reality. None of what they get away with applies to your 50k dollars a year regular 9 to 5 life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:54 PM
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I would ask them if they were actually serious about commitment or if it’s just something they say to feel good etc. Odds are they probably don’t want commitment so much as the ups and downs of does he love me, love me not sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:55 PM
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He says some common sense stuff and he says a lot of dumb stuff. He says stuff about men needing to be dangerous whatever the hell that means. He has a lot of you need to fall on your sword kind of thing. And he has a lot of stuff like you’re not a man unless you do X Y and Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:57 PM
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Of course it’s anti-male. Women don’t buy sex, men do. The reason laws like this happen is because America has really weird attitudes towards sex, gender roles and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:00 AM
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Women like to hook up with hot trashy men. Dominating/violent men are a turn-on too. 10 years ago when I was in very good shape going to the gym all the time they’d ask for pictures of my abs and tattoos. Now that I’m dad bod they ask what job I have lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:15 PM
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I had no idea that permanent alimony was a thing. Seems like insanity to me unless there is some factor to consider (severe disability?). Even in California which is a police state its still 7 or 10 years iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:51 PM
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Our society seems to judge men based on their vocation more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:47 PM
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This must be a bot running chatgp etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:05 PM
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Waaaaaaaaay more with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:47 PM
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Lol at some of these answers. When I was in high school they voted me the ugliest guy in school. After college I became a gym bro for awhile. So I guess I have experienced both sides. If you’re a good looking guy there is no such thing as a cold approach. At least not how they describe it when you read these online pick up artist things. Most women will be friendly and positive towards you. If you get rejected they’ll be polite. If you’re average to ugly every “approach” is definitely a “cold ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:52 PM
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I’m not even sure what that means. There are no scientific standards apart from looking at statistics where people usually marry within a similar age group or race. People do stuff like post their pics online for ratings but that is very subjective and always leans female. Maybe sorting by education and income but again, both sides might not like the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:12 PM
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Its reddit most guys/girls on here seem to be shy/nerdy types.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:43 PM
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If your friends were high quality guys you wouldn’t be making this thread lol. Guys who have never done online dating think its a meat market, guys who have generally think its a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:23 AM
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Most men just want to meet somebody, anybody lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:02 AM
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Guys are attracted to pretty, flirty women. Very few guys will date a hot girl because she keys their car or changes her mind every five minutes. They date her because she is HOT. Also “crazy” people know how to keep up appearances. She’s not going to call your mother and claim you are abusive or wreck your apartment refrigerator within the first few months. She will be the greatest girlfriend ever…until she’s not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:26 PM
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If she starts gaining weight due to bad habits - and doesn’t want to change - its probably over. Once that ball gets rolling it never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah 800-900 No tits either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:37 AM
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If I could be on test for life via doctor prescription/supervision I would do it, buying it from bros at the gym hell no. See thats the thing if you start it you basically take it forever along with blockers and you need to be careful about dosage. It took me about a year to get healthy again when I stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:15 PM
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Behold the magic of steroids. The media sells it to you as “hard work” and “diet” lol. When I was younger I worked out a lot and was in fantastic shape but it wasn’t until a cycle that I started to have “the look”. Also I was amazed how many guys were using them at the gym. Young guys, teen football players, old guys, literally every guy who was buff, all of them were on the needle. On the other hand you have people who completely give up and turn into fat slobs walking around in outlandish outf…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:05 PM
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I read an article about her she’s very tall and strong but has Hashimoto’s disease so she quit competitive rowing iirc. It’s a thyroid condition that causes weight gain among other things. Poor woman gained 100lbs in a year. Honestly I think it’s very mean for OP to use her as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:48 PM
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Seriously OP? Ash Pryor is over 6 feet tall and close to 300 pounds. When she was a competitive rower she weighed quite a bit less lol. You can’t use someone who’s almost a foot taller than the average woman as an example of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:58 PM
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Most men and women are having sex within relationships and not randomly. If they are single they will wait until they meet someone they like and start dating officially. By their mid 20s its time for that wedding ring for most people. That being said there are women who get around too and it can be pretty mind blowing. Not uncommon to meet a woman who is dating three or four men at once. And if you are single you’ll find that women seem to “share” men in their friend groups. They’ll wait for Chr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:56 PM
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A lot of the women I’ve dated in my life were people that I got to know over a period of several weeks or months. The hard part is in today’s society we are becoming increasingly isolated so the only time you might meet a woman you could date is a very brief encounter at the bar or a store or something like that. Or God help you online dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:01 PM
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Personally…I think its economics and social policy. More women graduating college than men means a group of women who will disdain the majority of men their age for their lack of formal education. Also you will never hear the politicians/reporters say “we need to get more men into college” its always “these young men are stupid, lazy, need to try harder!”. The inflationary nature of our economy means that many people will have to work twice as hard as their ancestors did in order to earn half as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:11 PM
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That’s pretty much how I was raised. My mother was the smart one who worked in a clean room building medical instruments while my father was a surfer living on a pot farm🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:48 PM
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A childless 40 year old woman who (ostensibly) makes 170k a year & pays almost $2000 a month for a tin can of a “house” in southern california. It’s literally everything that has gone wrong with our modern society in one article.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:46 PM
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The way I remember it the “scene” girls were always dating guys who had that same look or vibe. I played in a band but I didn’t have that same vibe and was very organized/serious about my equipment etc which was probably a turn off for the girls who came to the shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:03 PM
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For every guy complaining about single moms on the Internet there are 20 guys who will date one. The same is not true for single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:17 PM
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Biology is biology. After your mid to late 20s your body starts to change. This is true for both men and women however women get hit a lot harder. The same is true of pregnancies with hormones and bone density among other things. It becomes harder to get in shape, to stay in shape, to have children, to lose weight. That’s why I always tell young people to cultivate healthy habits. You’ll thank me when you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:15 PM
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Lol its infuriating tbh. Single guys get pissed because they know of guys who do everything wrong and still get tons of girls while they are trying to do everything “right” and stay perpetually single, or close to it. And then Mr. single guy goes on a dating app and meet women who have a ton of baggage, whose lives are all dumpster fires because of the bad boy ex - and those women make him jump through endless hoops before running off with that same ex who ruined their life. This is why so many …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:06 PM
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Not really, most any girl with an IG account will have hundreds of followers. If the pics are all skanky w/a bunch of guys slobbering all over her I’d be worried though. I think my IG has 1200 and its pictures of woodworking and my dog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:25 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:23 AM
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Nope. Just look at the growing number of guys who are perpetually single/dropping out of the dating game. Statistically they make less money and are not as healthy as the guys who are in relationships/getting laid etc. To be fair I don’t blame those guys for giving up. Western Society is dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:15 PM
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Eh who cares what some rando troll account on Twitter thinks lol. Whenever I see the snarky femcel accounts I feel sorry for them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:31 PM
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Are these people you know from somewhere? I can tell you that as a really ugly dude when I started working out/dressing well some people tried to sabotage me. Lots of petty insults, icy stares, oh he thinks he’s cool now lol. Most of my friends were supportive though. If its complete strangers you’ve never seen before they could be checking you out, trying to figure out what your deal is etc. Your own negative self perception is probably whats bringing you down. A narcissist would automatically …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:27 PM
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You can 100% do your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:36 PM
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Lol Most women today take part in online dating & are glued to their social media. Not sure how you can date today as a straight man and avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:42 PM
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I think its pretty obvious they aren’t married because they don’t want to be married. Career, celebrity, money, pick your reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:33 PM
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Power of Positive Thinking. Logically Conservatives put more emphasis on the sanctity of marriage (IE cherish your wife/husband), working hard at it, traditional roles etc so their marriages work out better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:50 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:39 PM
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Oh man yeah seen that before. I’ve known women who had literal homemade altars dedicated to their “bad boy ex”. Some of it was so wild that people on here wouldn’t believe it. Guys get hung up on exs too but not to the same degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:34 PM
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I think fathers are more worried about their daughter going out with a lazy/criminal/scumbag type of guy than anything else. If she was in college dating a ~40 year old doctor its going to be different than her being 19 with a 37 year old ex convict who has no job (both of which I have seen lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:07 PM
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We’ve had massive immigration over the past couple decades that is overwhelmingly young and male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:03 PM
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That would be nice but I’ve never really experienced it. I do have a couple friends who seem to be in that sort of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:03 PM
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Reddit ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:08 PM
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Well first off the vast majority of people date in their own age group. Older guys dating younger women is rare. I don’t think the kind of “older guy” who dates “younger women” is intimidated either. Seems like a lot of cope in one post OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:06 PM
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LOL Its not hate to call it like it is, a bunch of low rent porn where (because of heavy competition) they have to do all sorts of wacky shit to make a buck. The PC newspeak about how they are “content creators” is equally hilarious. Sorry but ya’ll are a bunch of cheap skanks posting videos on the net for pennies on the dollar. And then it caters to the lowest form of male life on the planet, the Neckbeard who will pay $$ for a girls bathwater. Keep in mind I’m an anarchist, I don’t care what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:21 PM
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Self-improvement is always good but if you go outside and look at the couples you see very few of them are fit, toned, etc. Its not really a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:18 AM
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I’m pretty ugly and most of my relationships have started out like that. We’d hang out in a mutual friend group, start doing stuff together and hook up. They would even tell me they thought I was gross and obnoxious at first meeting lol. There are things you can to improve your odds like clothing style/hygiene which tbh are the biggest “uglifiers” for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:13 PM
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Economic status = Stability Less likely to have drama, divorces etc would be my guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:53 AM
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Not really, but you don’t need to be jacked or get a degree or make money to get laid either. I think a lot of that crowd have untreated mental problems with depression or anxiety that make it hard for them to engage with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:17 PM
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Yes but kisses and hugs are a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:28 PM
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When I hooked up a lot I loved the attention from women and the sex but I hated the clubs, the music, going to the gym all the time and injecting steroids on tuesday and thursday. There you go lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:33 PM
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Of course there are. There is a guy for every girl. There are men who would impregnate a brick wall if they could figure out how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:13 AM
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If the man is shy/lacking in social skills he might be there forever lol. Women don’t sniff out a man’s personal values its more is he attractive, funny, have something going for him in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:31 PM
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Majority of men I know believe in those things and are either dating a woman or married to a woman. I know it may not seem that way but if you think objectively about the men you know it will become apparent. Also you can be a guy who has those values while at the same time having the option of casual relationships. I think for many men the hard part is figuring out how to be attractive in their own way and how to break out of that toxic “singles scene.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:25 PM
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Men push for dating but women initiate relationships. Honestly you do not want to be in a situation where you (the guy) are pushing for exclusivity. It almost always fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:50 PM
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I feel sorry for the kids. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:10 PM
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I’ve actually traveled a bit and going to other countries won’t automatically solve your problem. What does happen is that you may find yourself more attractive/successful in those areas because the culture is more of a fit for you - and because Westerners are seen as having more money, treating women better etc. Personally I think everyone should travel. See it while you are young and can participate in the fun. Don’t wait until you are old and can only visit museums lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:48 PM
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Statistically Women -> lose mass (but don’t become legitimately anorexic) Men -> gain mass (just don’t become legitimately obese)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:35 PM
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LOLWUT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:33 PM
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LOL. I could see the flower thing working. Really its communication breakdown. Lemme tell it from a man’s perspective. What usually happens is the guy will go “OK I’ll fix the sink that will get her off my back” and then a week later you get a new nag to worry about. Nagging will become a pattern and your marriage goes to hell. Then you go looking for help and of course everything is your fault because you left your socks on the floor like the worthless bastard you are. In my case it was me not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:35 PM
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I lived with number 2 for several years and it didn’t work out. And the last woman I was with was the number 1 and it really didn’t work out lol. So yeah, relationships don’t always go like you think they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:11 PM
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Something catastrophic like she is paralyzed in an accident? I wouldn’t leave but I’d probably end up fooling around every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:37 AM
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Its been normalized on the Internet and in Media for a looooooong time. Dumb Dad stereotype etc. Seems to be getting worse but then almost everything seems to be getting worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:27 AM
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Well first off it only applies to women. Fat guys aren’t “handsome plus size men” they’re just lazy slobs lol. Second of all America has diabetes and its only going to get worse because its the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:50 AM
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There was a Seinfeld episode about this. Jerry dates a really hot girl and she gets away with all sorts of stuff because she’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:43 AM
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What’s funny is the guys who say that post of a picture of a woman who is obviously wearing make up. Personally I love seeing lots of make up all done up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:03 AM
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My ex was hot/model and while she talked about all sorts of hobbies and traveling most of it devolved into popularity stuff IE parties and clubbing/being seen at expensive restaurants and promoting her IG account. There were a lot of nights out where I took a bunch of pictures of her eating dinner at a steakhouse to get just the right pic. Her friends (all hot) weren’t any better. I spent a lot of time trying time get her interested in a lot of different things but she didn’t care. If anything i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:10 PM
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Most guys? Not lazy. Energetic. Gets shit done. Too many of us have come home to a lazy women that expects us to cook/clean/spend our day off fixing all her honey-do’s. Hell with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:07 PM
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Feel sorry for them. Mostly undiagnosed mental illnesses/anxiety. Very little societal help for young men who are having issues whether social or educational. Theres this attitude that people who “fail” deserve to fail so screw em. Its kinda like Karma, they must have bad Karma from a previous life if they failed etc. It’s like college enrollment numbers. Instead of saying “we need to get more young men into college” they say “young men are failing.” Now we are facing an epidemic of young men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:24 PM
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I think a lot of guys who have anxiety or OCD see those stories in the news about men being falsely accused of whatever & get paranoid. Most guys aren’t scared to talk to women although they might be standoffish in certain places (IE at work).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:32 AM
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Naw Costco and Walmart lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:28 PM
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Our modern world sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:27 PM
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Getting near 40, male, separated I guess is the term The only time I find this forum really interesting is Purge Week Otherwise the know it all bluepillers/feminists are kinda annoying and I feel sorry for the doomers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:28 PM
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The Internet is a big place and it allows tiny numbers of people to organize into huge groups. The number of guys you’ll meet in the real world who crave a strong woman to protect them is gonna be super rare but online? Probably whole message boards dedicated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:10 PM
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What some people don’t realize is these things can exist at the same time. Like how you can have patriarchy and matriarchy at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:03 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:01 AM
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Do you remember how school libraries used to have those laser printers that were the size of a Volkswagen? They print 100 copies in a second? They use that to make the ballots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:22 AM
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I was voted the ugliest guy in school (they had ballots and everything) and I was able to get out of that hole. Its tough because your mind is working against you & women who are bullies will pick up on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:10 AM
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I’ve known all sorts of guys who “got lots of women” and the one constant was their aggressiveness. They would hit up women everywhere all the time. And then if you can be good looking and fun (go to lots of clubs or parties, take the jetski to the lake, ride motorcycles) its even better. Once you reach a certain age it’s expected that you’ll have a bit of disposable income in order to do fun things. Some kind of hobby whether it’s ATVs or motorcycles or boats or fishing or something. That’s a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:10 PM
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I thought it was hilarious how fast they promoted her. Then she got transferred to a new bank to be branch manager and she quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:03 PM
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Probably true for women who are conventionally attractive/hot. My ex got a job at a bank as a teller and within 12 months they were making her manager. Meanwhile the frumpy hard working lady who had been there for 8 years and the nerd guy who had been there for probably 5 weren’t in the running. If you’re ugly? Gotta work for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:30 AM
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“Female Women” Only on reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:10 AM
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Maybe a hook up once or twice. Or if its self-reported he’s lying to make himself feel better about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:59 AM
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Yes women have fantasies about being taken by guys. Have you ever read one of those trashy romance novels they sell at the grocery store? Full of stuff like that lol. The difference is the “rapist” is a hot guy who makes sure she has plenty of orgasms etc and not Joe Average skinnyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:03 PM
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I always laugh when they try to come up with an exact 3, 4, 6. Average is most people so it encompasses a wide variety of races, ages, heights, sizes etc. Most people who kinda fat, kinda fit, kinda short, kinda tall, kinda smart, kinda dumb are kinda average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:19 PM
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Absolutely yes. Theres an element of wanting to fix him/save him from himself. And the Forbidden Fruit sort of thing. They will deny it or say its a tiny number of women but its not. And if the guy is handsome/persuasive? Straight up kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:14 AM
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Its because they (singles crowd) all want the same guy (mate poaching). They’ll hang around waiting for him to have a fight with his fiance and then jump on him lol. Seen it a whole bunch of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:01 AM
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Well anti-abortion people believe that it is alive, or will be “alive” so it is still technically the killing of a human being. Personally I am not anti abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:58 PM
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Well to play this game: Maybe they believe that its murder to destroy a fetus? Especially the late term kinda stuff where they use a drill to drain the baby’s brains so that the skull can be flattened for easier extraction. There was another doctor who used garden shears to cut the fetus’ spine at the neck. Also inc downvotes from all the redditors who cannot handle a differing opinion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:24 PM
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I would say 0-2 times per year for an average single guy. Most guys take about 6-12 months to meet someone they would like to date. *also they want to have sex in a relationship, not with random stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:02 PM
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To get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:09 PM
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You are overthinking it. It’s OK to talk to a girl if you think she is cute and it’s OK to be a little bit “pushy.” What you think is pushy is probably normal assertive male behavior. The thing you don’t wanna do is end up politely following her around like some kind of lost puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:59 AM
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Most guys swipe randomly on hundreds if not thousands of profiles and hope for the best. What are they looking for? Anything lol. Phone call, hangout, email reply, anything. The majority of men live incredibly lonely lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:26 AM
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Most of the “trying” is happening online. Hitting up girls on their IG or whatever kids use these days (I am nearing 40 so almost officially old, no idea what app is current). Girls also gravitate towards the same small number of guys, always have, thats why I laugh at those “are we dating the same guy” websites. Yea you are lmao. I should add that social media can be incredibly toxic to the self esteem of young people. Average normal guys think they are gross, girls act all hypersexual because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:04 AM
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There was an article on here written by a psychotherapist about “radicalizing the romanceless”. Its worth reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:59 AM
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I dated 20 years ago (well high school). Porn isn’t the problem. The biggest difference was no Social Media. Factoring in Social Media you now have to compete with thousands of people for popularity etc. Back then you still competed but it was with one other guy, or a dude she met at the mall. Also people went out. Hanging out at the river or the mall was a thing. Now malls are going out of business because nobody goes (or they’re robbed by flash mobs 24/7). Our society is also going to shit eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:00 AM
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Good and bad. First off its made it easier for people to get out of bad relationships or fly solo. If you can figure out how to play the “dating game” you can be single and have sex without any consequences for your whole life. I think it has made dating a lot worse for more traditional, slower moving types. Same for marriage. People running around with two or three divorces have produced some messed up kids who avoid marriage altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 PM
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Thats a lot of raging autism in one post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:45 AM
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I’ll be old too. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:29 PM
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Very true but also people who are public figures attract all sorts of haters online too. Like a politician gets a speeding ticket and reddit pol section calls for his execution lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:25 PM
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It was Jordan Peterson, they hate him, if it was some Hollywood sex symbol guy crying over his dead goldfish they would go “awwwwwww”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:49 PM
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Everyone does that to a certain extent. I think Women are more image conscious and socially conscious than Men. More concerned with how they are perceived, style, being with the “right” groups, having the “correct” opinions. You won’t really know until you are intimate with them for awhile. Say six months of dating and sleeping together. Then they start to let their guard down. In the past I’ve known men who girl-minded like that, guys who are the male version of a “social butterfly” so they exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:24 PM
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Everyone does that to a certain degree, protecting ego and so forth. Its human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:01 AM
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Well to be fair the UK made it de facto illegal for ugly guys to look at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:57 AM
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You don’t read very well. Both experiences are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:52 PM
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I hate to say it but when I was a complete POS doing drugs, no job, steroids I got laid all the time - and not with “scummy” women but women with good jobs in healthcare, jewelry store, schoolteacher etc. When a friend of mine OD’d (on purpose I think) I made a conscious effort to clean myself up. Did all the right things like fulltime job, no drinking, church. Sex life went to zip lol. Now I am not agreeing with OP because I know from life experience that most men aren’t irresponsible druggies …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:30 PM
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I don’t have a type and can never predict what women will be interested in me and the ones that run the other way. Its bizarre tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:47 AM
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Reddit wins again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:43 AM
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Ummm Thats up to you and yours. Free country and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:01 PM
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Yeah I googled for “average woman” and used the photos to make a generic account. Didn’t get a zillion matches more like 100-150ish but the guys weren’t obnoxious or trollish. A lot of them were pretty good looking or at least nice looking profiles. My ex was cute-hot and had thousands of matches. Not to mention tens of thousands followers on IG. She would post a picture of herself by the pool and get hundreds of comments and thousands of likes. Different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:58 PM
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Plenty of loving husbands cheat. I think a lot of times the husband is in a “dead bedroom” situation and winds up telling a woman friend or coworker about it. Then they hook up. Pretty rare for a guy to leave his marriage to be with his girlfriend. Most of the time they will try to work things out and have counseling & if he does get a divorce he will be on his own for awhile by choice to figure it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:04 PM
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Guys mostly look to see that she is self-sufficient and not a spendthrift disaster. Even then some guys will still go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:31 PM
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Telling guys its their “personality” is evil. People always told me shit like that, or “try harder to be friendly” was another one lol. That makes a young man think he’s stupid and worthless. If you teach them how to dress and how to work out they will have pride in themselves and radiate confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:36 PM
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Looks are the number one thing that matter to women when you are younger (everybody really). Most people are at a position where they are good enough to play the game imho. However if you are on the lower end of things (like me) its one hell of a pit to climb out of. You’ll need braces/jaw surgery/testosterone therapy/skin treatments for that really bad acne a lot of different things. Getting older the priorities change. After college its money, ambition etc. I suppose when you are very old (70?…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:28 PM
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We’ve had so many high profile cases of women accusing men of abuse, using social media as a weapon etc that turned out to be BS so…color me skeptical…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:59 AM
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A lot of marriages are similar to that with both spouses working and splitting the bills. One income towards car payments, one towards rent, separate accounts because you get paid directly to your checking etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:18 AM
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“Car Mods” Massive stereo, expensive wheels, loud exhaust, neon lights on the Corolla you got from your grandmother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:23 PM
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Hahahahahahahaha We’ll look like Wall-E except no spaceships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:47 AM
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Ok lets say you are a dad to a little girl. If you do a good job when they are 6, 8, 10, if you keep them away from drugs/alcohol/stupid people, teach them to have confidence, how to stand up for themselves you have a 80-90% shot they will turn out OK. You may have to be a tyrant or take time off work or sacrifice things in your own life but that is part of being a parent. Once they are an adult not much you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:16 PM
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Married men everywhere are laughing at the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:51 AM
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Aw jeez If a girl likes you its easy. When you’re just kids in school she will want to sit with you and all of that, ask around about you, call or message you at night, etc. As an adult its pretty much the same thing except she will want to come over to your place as well. When they start putting conditions on everything is when you are probably a second or third place prize. Some guys are OK with that because they want to win her over, some guys aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:35 PM
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Lots of horrible takes in this thread. Women generally want to date Men who can provide for them & Men want to date pretty Women who are available (by their standards). Guys don’t usually think in terms of money but rather is she cute, is she funny, do I enjoy spending time with her. If you are a guy making 60k a year, dating a woman who works part time at a preschool for 25k a year, that is perfectly normal/average. You aren’t slumming it and she’s not a gold digger lol. And then theres the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:20 PM
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Lots of divorces happen when the guy loses his job as well. And its not usually a case of a butt ugly guy and a hot girl…I’d bet that most are just average regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:21 PM
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There’s nothing creepy about it and most women don’t care. It’s perfectly normal and happens all the time. Women who say that stuff are acting on their own insecurities or feelings of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:17 PM
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She sounds over the top dramatic, maybe a kid/teenager, so yeah if she is an adult its gonna be heartbreak for the “sweet guy” in this story. People like that gravitate towards emotional highs and lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:22 PM
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I always get a kick out of those sites. The women in those urban singles groups always gravitate/share the same group of men. Dating the guy who used to date one of your friends who you met at work while he was dating your coworker and then they had a fight so he went back to his ex and then you hit him up on his IG cuz his pics were so hot and… Of course you all end up dating the same guys lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:16 PM
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There’s a lot of sexism in those studies. They’ll argue that narcissistic behaviors are natural for women (IE misunderstood feminine behaviors) while being an unnatural behavior for men sort of thing. For example (in the study) they define narcissism as having difficulty maintaining relationships, unethical behavior, and aggression. The further state that assertiveness and seeking leadership roles is “narcissism.” So the engineered a study that is inherently anti-male. It’s no different than tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:50 PM
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There’s some truth to that. I think what people need to realize is that both patriarchy and matriarchy can exist at the same time. Most men live in a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:22 PM
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I grew up out in the woods and it didn’t make me attractive lmao. Just makes you skinny and hairy (or fat and hairy).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:53 PM
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He still makes like 50-80k a month off youtube alone, dude has already won at life and all he does is talk smack and play video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:59 PM
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He has a net worth of several million dollars at age 22, he’s still streaming and has his own site IIRC, he could literally live the rest of his life off his current money w/o working. Just invest it conservatively. If he really does fail (IEgo broke) it won’t be the RedPill just poor investments. Like exotic cars or boats or “mansions” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:49 PM
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Men don’t ignore those women. They date them all day long. Very few men date / hook up with objectively hot women, and the ones that do oftentimes marry them. I suppose some guys might purposefully marry an unattractive woman for other reasons (money????) but thats hardly gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:40 AM
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Lol nope. Today it is a crime to visit a prostitute in 99.9% of America. Back in the old days there were parts of cities set aside for legal prostitution. London has a street called “Grape Lane” which used to be called “Grope C*nt” street because that was where the hookers were.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:36 AM
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During Freud’s time it was normal for a man to be married to a woman but satisfy his sexual proclivities with prostitutes etc. A man could have a loving relationship with his wife whom he cared deeply for & at the same time be carrying on with whores. I think Freud was trying to come up with an explanation for why a man could maintain a healthy loving marriage while simultaneously visiting prostitutes (IE sex is dirty, I cannot do those things with my wife). In fact there were times when it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:44 PM
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Women lie about stuff? When did this start happening?????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:32 PM
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Men become “less horny” after about age 30 so just look at the way dating is for 21-25 year olds compared to the 35+ bracket. It does change a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:42 PM
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Lol seriously? Plenty of women live on tight budgets too. I do know what you mean though because I have encountered the “all men have money” women attitude. And of course the numbers they come up with are hilarious. Thats more of a young-single-girl thing though. Eventually when real life hits people start to realize that every weekend isn’t a party and bills need to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:04 PM
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I think it stems from jealousy. My ex traveled a lot. She was born rich + hot so she could do pretty much whatever the hell she wanted to lol. Went to all the places I wish I could go to but can’t for money reasons etc. Same thing if you think about it. They read some guy bragging about how he traveled and partied and met a bunch of women & it pisses em off. Bonus points if its an average joe or dorky nerd guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:14 PM
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Old Men 30 Arrrrgggghhh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:04 AM
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Lol Dating apps are a horrible example. First off (statistically) they are a revolving door for women and a pit of despair for men. So you have women matching with a guy they would like to date within 2 weeks while men take 6 months or more. Also the populations are way off, anywhere from 3:1 to 10:1 men vs women. Active users will be 30:1 or more. And then its semi-anonymous so you have no idea who is on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:37 AM
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Most men will be with a woman who is 5’6 or less because most women are 5’4 or less. I’m not sure how people can say being tall is a bad thing. Most women who are cheerleaders or models are on the taller side. I think its true for doctors/lawyers etc too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:17 PM
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Well for one thing men are told to work out/self improvement/put in “effort” to get dates - oftentimes by women lol. Also most sexual relationships in the real world start out as friends. You hang out, get to know one another etc. So of course guys are going to think they can “earn” dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:03 PM
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I’m sure they do but when you get stuck in a pit of depression and self-doubt it is hard to escape. They cannot just “think positively”. Guys like that their brain is their own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:04 AM
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Lol Yes pretty people really do “have it easier” than ugly people. More likely to be promoted, more likely to be given a good grade, more likely to make the sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:39 PM
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You don’t have to be a “rich guy” to get stuck in that situation lol. Usually what happens is the wife cheats too much and the dumb husband finally catches on or she tries to replace the husband with whatever guy she has on the side. So I guess the only downside is everything going POOF because of cheating? But then if the guy is the one making the most money he can get shredded in family court. Especially if he has a trusting nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:45 AM
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Have you considered that perhaps Men don’t cheat more than Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:52 PM
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Lol Ok ok I’ll try to play along Aside from Americans getting fatter and fatter (and poorer)…it seems like a lot of people seem to be far too concerned with themselves to maintain relationships. They aren’t particularly interested in other people’s lives while at the same time having a grandiose view of their own life. Or they are uncompromising and want things to happen a certain way, to feel a certain way, except life doesn’t work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:44 AM
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Depends on how interesting her job is I guess. If its something really creative thats great, if its bullshit-advertising-marketing-management-LAWYER uuugggghhhh not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:22 PM
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Most people will say yes but honestly its a bad idea unless there are healthy boundaries. I’m older and I have been there, too often the “best guy/girl friend” becomes a factor in your relationship. You really need to focus on one another and work out problems together. Thats the best way I can put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:31 PM
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It’d be great until they went nuts and we’re all living in Terminator Land.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:44 PM
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I got 6% which seems pretty accurate tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:27 PM
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Its becoming such a big economic problem that it can no longer be ignored. Not the relationship aspect but the education/employment aspect mainly. Young men (young people in general tbh) aren’t finding good jobs, they are unable to build careers, they cannot afford homes, no health insurance, the list goes on and on. Our society is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:36 PM
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They are. Movie industry for example. When I saw Captain America in theaters the housewives were falling out of their chairs during the scene where he comes out of the steroid machine all half naked and buff. There was a whole row of them having one giant hot flash lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:11 AM
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We had healthy and positive masculinity, we still have it too although its declining. The problem is not masculinity but over the top crazy feminism/wokeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:18 PM
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No but I have (well cokeheads lol). Here in America many young single women are addicts of some kind whether its alcohol, drugs, social media or the roughly 1/3rd who are on SSRI or other medications. Its really hard to find someone who isn’t a drinker/“druggy”/taking mood stabilizers/has a weekly therapist/cannot stop posting selfies online etc. People are going to get all pissy but I am not judging here. It’s just the way our modern society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:04 AM
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Physically yeap there are ugly people. Well unattractive is a better term. “Genuinely Ugly” is a little different. They would have to be completely horrible all around. Honestly a lot of the attractive and “popular” “social butterfly” people I have met throughout my life have been pretty rotten on the inside. Dishonest, screw people over, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:39 PM
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Yeap!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:04 PM
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I am old enough to remember pre-internet and it was different. People socialized more. Going out to the river or mall to meet girls was a thing. Now you go out there and the only teens at the mall are a flash mob looting the Ulta store & the park/river areas are old people walking their dogs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:38 PM
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I know people who live that way. IIRC the husband is an autistic engineer type once the kids were old enough they bought separate houses. Another one the husband and wife weren’t really in love but they had a business/tax/insurance thing so decided to stay legally married because divorce would be too expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:31 PM
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I don’t think so, at least not a “lot” of them. In the 30s age bracket on up…definitely. Thats when you have a lot of single guys who have been divorced, already dated a lot, have kids etc. They simply won’t jump through the same hoops vs when they were 22. However guys in their 20s are very focused on women and relationships. Completely different environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:37 PM
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I think the first mistake is believing that women make less money. If they’re buying houses at higher rates than comparable groups of single men then obviously they have more funds available to them. Not sure what you mean by “become better”. Most of those blogs I read talk about Hypergamy and not “women be better”. More women than men are graduating college so statistically that means they will have higher incomes. In a normal functioning society they would try to get men to graduate at higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:20 PM
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Having been a manipulative relationship it’s because I wanted to believe she was for real (not sure I qualify as a guy who has played lots of women lol). I think people who are manipulative can sniff out targets. They can tell if you are lonely or what buttons to press. I once read a scientific experiment where men with domestic violence convictions watching videos of women walking down a hallway. They were able to pick out the women who had been in abusive relationships by the way they walked. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:57 PM
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A single father is a single mom without any support lol. Those guys never get any love. Deadbeat dads are sperm donors. What blows my mind is women are always ready to hook up and have babies with em. Then they complain about how the previous babymama is a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:38 AM
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Give (even more) of my tax dollars to women having irresponsible sex with stupid men in order to make more babies in single parent households? Thats the solution? Thats terribad even for TheGuardian lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:32 PM
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Not really. Just practical statistics. If women want to get married and stay married some of them will marry guys who make less money on paper. There are only so many guys making X per year sort of thing. I expect it to be 50-60% in the future because of the continuing social war against young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:54 AM
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My ex had 1500 and all of them were good looking guys with really good profiles. Messages through the roof. If you are a single guy never look at a woman’s tinder lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:15 PM
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Yeap!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:15 PM
3

Oh man flashbacks to my ex lol. Women rate themselves and other women comparatively higher than they do men. Just hang out with them and they will rate themselves as 9s and 10s and when you point out that they are mostly average they’ll get mad as hell. Meanwhile every guy in sight is a 2 or a 4 (or a zero) unless he is smoking hot to the point that I’d go gay and bang him. Then he is a 7 etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:14 PM
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Why not? When I played WoW one of the guildies was always hitting on another one, apparently they met up in real life and got married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:18 AM
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Friend of mine killed himself after I talked to him on the phone. It really bothered me for awhile. She bugged me about it & then used it against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:17 PM
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Because lots of em go way overboard and have no boundaries. My ex was always posting selfies and chatting with guys. Too much of a dopamine rush I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:35 PM
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Nope. Unless they are stuck on the “one that got away” in which case they will never be happy with you no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:10 AM
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That would mean life as normal for most Reddit guys except now they are millionaires. Personally…not hypothetically worth it, especially since adding money increases your odds of getting laid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:38 AM
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I’d buy #1 a vacuum cleaner and then take her to the gym. Also recalibrate the bathroom scales to read higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:23 AM
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My experience is that women take it to a much higher level. Even in the adult world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:17 PM
1

It’s all relative. I would say from my personal experience that if she is nice, funny, easy to be around she probably won’t be single & her man will fight to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:05 PM
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My IG has a whole bunch of girls on it because I spammed “follow for followback” and I’m a guy. A lot of them either have bots or the boyfriend running their account so you will get a follow from them. Honestly it annoys the hell out of me to log in there and see a whole bunch of wannabe instabimbos selling themselves especially since it is more of a business account. I might try making a completely new account and wiping the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:59 PM
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Almost immediately but then I was starting from zero lol. It took a couple years for me to get everything in order tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:57 AM
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Just started taking care of myself. Actual cologne + antiperspirant, haircut and sunglasses that fit your face, skin care, lift weights, decent diet, clothes that fit your body, new shoes, etc If you are really screwed up you might need braces for your teeth, maybe other medical treatments Mostly Common Sense stuff tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:33 PM
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Nope. Everybody is fat though, at least in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:52 PM
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Lower and lower rates of marriage except among the wealthy and small insular communities More use of Porn among Men, particularly VR porn Lots more fat people (those hover round scooters will become fashion items) WAY more single moms on the government dole Women and Bluepill Men demonizing single Men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:50 PM
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More sanctimonious Bluepill BS that ends with Redpill stuff about how diet and exercise take time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:44 PM
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I used to have a couple “toys” when I was hooking up with lots of women. Its nothing to feel ashamed of. Of course if its really wacko stuff then I could understand a wtf reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:10 AM
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Not for me lol. I was just an ugly teen. Out of shape, goofy teeth, bad skin, I didn’t wear cologne. When I turned this around during my 20s I suddenly started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:49 PM
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In the US its about 25-30% of your paycheck and then taxes at the end of the year depending on your income bracket. The health insurance may or may not be part of that 25-30%. Also health insurance is expensive here so it might not cover everything. Finally the Social Security (public pension) doesn’t pay very much in relation to income. The people on the bottom-to-lower-middle get 800-1200 a month. So if you live in the USA you really need to spend extra on health insurance and private retireme…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:12 AM
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My ex put on an act of loving all the stuff I did etc. It made me think I met my dream girl. Whoops!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:04 AM
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I’m a guy so nope. If she brings it up then I will tell her but otherwise I just go with it. In the past I told people early on and I found that if you tell the wrong person they’ll put on an act. There is one thing I should mention and that is I make clear boundaries early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:37 PM
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Child Tax Credit is another one. Those things are good imho simply because US taxes are too high on working people. Especially since you have to pay for your own healthcare and our pension system (SSecurity) is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:38 PM
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Yeap. Bet your ass a “single guy” tax is coming. When I was in college I had a creative writing class taught by a feminist teacher. She asked us to write a story about an uplifting future so I wrote a story about a man who lives out in the forest with his dog. About halfway through the story he’s kidnapped by a bunch of angry women and their robot army who force him to move furniture, fix leaky pipes, replace lightbulbs and squish spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:30 PM
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Because (some) women get irrationally angry when they see a happy man doing his own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:38 PM
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Which will only be available to the rich. Most people will be slaves who own nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:37 PM
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Rejected Made fun of Bullied Ignored Isolated at work (unless its a heavily male dominated field) Viewed with suspicion Race can play a factor as well, I noticed the Indian guys at my old IT job got a lot of shit thrown at them The good news is that most of it is fixable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:31 PM
1

Ummm………..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:26 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:21 PM
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I don’t blame OP for posting this. For whatever reason some women seem to think that “single” men are all pieces of shit whereas all men in relationships are “good” (or the single guys are all players, that’s another funny one). Truth is most of “those guys” have low self esteem and/or social issues. They think they’re crap because that’s what they have always been told so they are timid. Once they get out there and start earning/accomplishing things for themselves they become more confident and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:11 PM
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Wtf kind of person doesn’t cook or clean lol. Talking scum of the Earth status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:17 PM
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The Men voluntarily stayed behind & female Titanic survivors erected a monument to their gallantry. Women and Children First was for real back then. Love the yellow warning label.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:11 AM
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It’s not so much the dogs are bad as the owners are insufferable fuckwits. I just stuffed my baby inside the kennel along with my five pitbulls teehee! Look I put a tutu on Nala and took her to the grocery store! She is licking all the potatos so CUTE!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 AM
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Making that money and renting???? Lol you must be trolling Anyways Socal making lots of money get yourself a raptor or sand rail/RzR go race around in the desert with your kid, winter go up to Big Bear etc, put up pics of yourself doing these fun things on your dating profile plus say you are looking for a FWB type thing, you should have no issues unless there’s something you are leaving out (like you are really 5’8 and make 40k a year in LA)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:28 AM
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My ex was exactly like that lmao. 14k IG followers and she was always pissed that it wasn’t 100k+.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:59 AM
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Canttellifserious 400k what, pesos?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:28 AM
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Men do not have to Be strong Have a job Be masculine Have hair Eat pie Shower Eat healthy Wear stylish clothes Be polite Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:40 PM
1

Yeap different shaped glasses for different faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:21 PM
5

Women and Bluepill men will literally start a civil war to keep you from having your fantasy robot girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:04 PM
5

Couple of them would look good with a shaved head and short beard kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:04 PM
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Inflation gone through the roof Wages fallen through the floor People getting obese and stupid Being obese and stupid is “empowering” IE “fat acceptance” Not standing up for their rights Electronic voting machines Corporate Media/Lobbying No Common Sense Bizarro World shit like “Drag Queen Storytime” and 64 “genders” Free Speech is “violence” Apparently “Us Men” are supposed to “Man Up” and fix this disaster The giant meteor I keep hearing about needs to hurry the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:32 AM
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Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:01 AM
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