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Islammaxxing ROFL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:20 AM
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The IQ curves for men and women are different. Men are represented more on the extreme ends of both sides of the bell curve. Probably like 99 percent of innovations we use today were invented by genius men. While women are generally more intelligent there IQ fits more firmly in the slightly below to slightly above average IQ range. Even now in the modern era who are the ones creating new ideas in the tech industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:59 AM
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Damn you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:17 AM
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Simping works if you simp flirtatiously. Love bombing is very effective if a girl is attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:16 AM
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Her kindess and compassion. I always go for sweethearts. If she yells or is domineering, argumentative all the time save yourself a massive headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:19 PM
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I'll give you a grown up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:34 PM
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Dong measurements?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:33 PM
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No because most people look at every interaction as an individual one. Anybody with any sort of experience can tell that everyone has vastly different personalities. The odds alone of me finding multiple black women that think the exact same way is extremely improbable. I can talk to brittany then jasmine and right away tell there is a difference between the 2. People are not really all that similar at all. And if I was a guy with a racial preference for black women it definitely wouldn't put me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:12 PM
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I mean idk what 90 percent of the terms on TRP mean. I was a virgin incel when I read the redpill. Got therapy, no longer virgin, significantly more confident, and can date easily with no anxiety now. Could rge redpill help maybe? Idk. But the problem woth the redpill is it looks at getting relationships solely as a prize for bettering yourself. It causes entitlement because guys will think if I go to the gym, look great, make 6 figures I DESERVE to get free access to pussy. Its a defense mechan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:04 PM
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But its not hurting the white guy because she will leave shortly after finding he doesn't fit her ideal picture in her head. And again I think you are overestimating the personality portion especially for men. Visual attraction comes before personality. I think the vast majority with a racial preference are doing it for physical attraction reasons not personality traits. Only an autist thinks someone will act a certain way based on race.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:57 PM
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And if that is what they want, then it would make sense that they would leave if the guy didn't fit their ideal mental picture right? You would have to be an idiot to stay with someone that doesn't fit the majority of your ideals. And I am positive not every black women with a racial preference thinks of those exact traits that you describe. I guarantee it is more about physical appearance than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:50 PM
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I think the red pill gives a lot of good advice if you want to stay an incel. The blue pill is shit as well. A good mix is what you need. I honestly cant imagine having panic attacks over "frame" shit tests or whatever other made up shit goes on in the red pill. Because that shit is straight pseudo science bullshit. Have some self respect to know when to leave a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:43 PM
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Hard disagree on that. The people who box in a racial caricature as you call it are not many. So when I read a black girls profile and it says she prefers white guys what is a white guy caricature? Explain the stereotypical white male personality she has in her head to me if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
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Lol its the dumbest shit. I haven't heard of white girl fetish when a black guy dates white girls. Who gives a fuck if someone is attracted to your race. It should make you more secure because you know they are attracted to you at least. And if you aren't a complete autist ape attraction is the first barrier to entry then personality. Dating solely for personality will make a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:20 PM
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Don't be a fool wrap your tool kids. And majority of women when they are in the mood will let you raw dog. Its up to you to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:58 PM
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Does anyone put height on their bio? Like you really don't need to. A 5 ft 7 guy that has great facial genetics like zac efron will get tons of matches. More than shrek putting 6 ft 3 as their height
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:55 PM
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Maybe but women are the absolute queens of slow fade/ghosting. They are more conflict avoidant than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:25 AM
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Yes for sure. Older guys do not look better. Everyone ages. But generally women are actually much more mature than guys especially early to mid 20s. Men at that age primarily want as much casual sex as possible, and have a lot of childish hobbies and lots of insecurities about their masculinity. Also women are usually more relationship oriented. They focus on their relationships with those around them so they have more social experience at the same age usually. Men are usually more goal oriented…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:13 AM
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I think married people do try harder in their careers if they have kids. Most single people kinda just drift by. A more chill attitude towards work. Married seem to have a stick up their ass vibe in the office
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:01 AM
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I have and continue to be able to get with young 20s girls and I'm a few years removed from 26. Also was a late virgin. I've been with literal 10s and stake that on both my nuts. Though my problem was mainly mental and i was a raging redpill virgin and appearance was not my problem which i found out through online dating. Idk about 40s though yea that's probably old. But ive seen a lot of young 30s girls simp for 40s guys. So a 40s guy can clean house with the copious amount of desperate 30s wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:56 AM
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I agree with the guy above you. A woman's status is largely their appearance. When half the population ignores you because you are a wildebeast you don't have social status regardless of if you are a millionaire. Put a fat adele or some obese medical surgeon in a banquet and she will get ignored by basically every guy. Thus her social status is cut in half.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:43 AM
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Hot and kind definitely willing to bankroll her for life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:38 AM
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Even wfh living in the burbs sounds like the place people go to die
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:47 AM
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Getting a suburban house sounds like a nightmare. I'll gladly fork over double or triple the cash to not drive 40 minutes in traffic and live in a condo. Plus i basically resign to boomerhood if i get a white picket fence 3 bedroom 2 bath 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:12 AM
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I would say San Francisco and New York are the only dense cities in the US maybe Seattle but not that much. I personally don't know any of my friends that could live un those cities without multiple roomates, but friends of friends could afford 5k rents. They basically all left by late 20s because they started getting older and were tired of living with roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:18 PM
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Can I have value for just existing too? Where is my equality. It's 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:52 AM
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Haha happening to me now. Had sex 4 times dated for like 1.5 months. Getting bullshit excuses, but still texting every so often. Women do this a lot a lot a lot. At least OLD ones. I always hope they fail to find happiness but that is my bitterness speaking. If they were honest it would be great but they never are honest even when you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:42 AM
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I think ambitious traits are often terrible for relationships. They will always have wanderlust.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:13 PM
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I settled for looks which I think is settling for a guy since we don't care about achievements. Though she is very successful in terms of career trajectory. There is a lot of security and they treat me way better even though I'm not ambitious at all. At the same time it can be boring. I could never find the balance. I have gotten very beautiful women before but I can't lock them down so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:14 AM
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I agree. Social circle is the worst shit, and rarely do you find someone you are really attracted to. OLD you can filter exactly what you want. Way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:49 PM
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Two attractive parents does not guarantee attractive children. Genetics doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:00 PM
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You are arguing against men about men's thoughts. Notice how we all agree with men's point of view. You can argue in your head all you want, but it won't change our feelings similarly to how we don't understand women's dating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:59 PM
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I have yet to meet a single girl that cares about job title. But maybe gen z or millenials are like that. It seems like women always believe they can support themselves so idk maybe that's why you read about doctors struggling more nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:57 PM
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I will be willing to admit women put more effort into their appearance and that helps them look better so long as you can admit that even with products men's skin scientifically still ages better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:45 PM
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Definitely woman 1 over woman 2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:13 PM
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We are living more online now. I'd be curious if there is people doing cyber sex and thinking it isn't a form of sex. Not a real form, but there is some intimacy there, because someone actively chose to seek a real human instead of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:12 PM
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To commit they exist. I personally don't know a single friend that doesn't get a little bored of relationship sex though, but that is the trade off stability for novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:08 PM
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How can a woman evolve to be better looking rofl. It takes 2 to make a baby. She has traits from her father too. Jesus christ how can a gender evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:03 PM
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No I put in the same effort for all. Maybe slightly more for someone I'm interested in. But I'm not gonna plan some elaborate shit for a first date and I pray I never meet a woman that expects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:30 AM
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Tell that to all the actors with insta thots with no degrees of which there are plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:28 AM
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Yea that correlation has to be weak as fuck. I have seen way too many dumb poor hotties and rich ugly CEOs to take that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:24 AM
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All I can say is I like a girl that enjoys what she does, but I want someone balanced in life. Life is all about balance for me. Pushing too far in any direction inevitably requires sacrifice. Someone overly ambitious male or female does not make a good long term partner if you require love and affection. For 2 independent ambitious people yea its great, but I don't think they should have a kid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:22 AM
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INFP, have always ended up with xSFx for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:34 PM
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Its not worth it because you can't filter by education and other things. Like you are likely to get a complete idiot. A hot idiot but still an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:06 AM
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I definitely think so. Pre social media I definitely think a lot of women settled for guys who gave them attention. I also noticed a lot more uglier guys with pretty women gen x and older no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:18 AM
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I definitely doubt the majority would. Seems like you gotta move fast for "sparks" whatever joke that is. The irony is the guy looking for just sex fast usually just doesnt give two shits about the girl and comes on strong, and to be honest a lot of women fall for love bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:08 AM
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Or is it your own personal bias? Let's be honest to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:55 PM
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Stop feeding the troll bro. Let her find another victim. It's not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:53 PM
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It's hard to say no rn. But I just gotta take it day by day. Thanks for the kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:38 AM
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If I can see her again 10. But for now a 1 with suicidal thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:01 AM
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I don't think it's that popular of a fetish and it is definitely one of the stranger ones. I would be curious to know when the fetish developed. I would guess during puberty but I don't know any open cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:48 AM
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I don't think a man has any obligation to raise someone else's child. Can he really give his all and love to the child after finding out his wife have birth to someone else's child? Some can, but the sheer mental fuck that ensues would devastate most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:43 AM
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It is kinda validation, but if a guy really likes you he also wants to know you feel good. Its a way to express affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:56 AM
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Interesting. By the way you should read into A Random Walk Down Wallstreet. Any trader in markets is gambling, an individual cannot beat data scientists and artificial intelligence of big banks. Just a heads up so you won't be sold snake oil by youtube gurus if you ever get into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:04 AM
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Always adjust salaries for state or generality like coastal city etc. so we can compare accurately. NYC or a coastal city 70k is much different than Midwest with 150 percent higher cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:11 PM
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What if they got rich off investments and stopped working by 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:07 PM
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Or you could work on your insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:49 PM
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I think online dating is awesome and met some cool girls off it. Idk if it makes me a social awkward loser as this post implies but I'll happily keep using it and embrace the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:48 PM
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I understand. For me personally it just seems like a lot if someone is looking for relationships. It is hard to really even get a good feel of who a person is in one short month. I would be skeptical of someone who is flipping dates monthly because it seems to me like they aren't even really giving anyone a fair shot and are probably looking for short flings. Just my thoughts on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:40 PM
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I think it can be much harder than people think. Lots of people think that it can't happen to them, but it is very hard to separate logic from feelings when someone is really into their partner. It could take them awhile to wake up and realize they have been settled for. I think people actually overestimate their abilities to read people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:14 PM
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You sound really young like early 20s. Not bashing but that's my impression from this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:07 PM
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To be honest casual flings suck ass. Someone's feelings usually get hurt and it is just a shitty situation overall. If I could choose a ONS over a FWB I'd do that, but I don't really want to try ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:03 PM
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Monthly is also pushing it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:51 PM
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No men are usually lazy with housework. But also Probably depends on their personality and how they were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:36 AM
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0 every woman is unique
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:31 AM
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Time to complete my metamorphosis and swallow the blue pill. I will never say a negative thing again. Every relationship failed I could have done better. Time to reform
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:30 AM
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Nah Im a guy and get bored quickly more than the women I dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:37 PM
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The situations described on this sub apply more to chad lites. A 10 guy will be able to scoop up 7s for casual sex but a 7 guy will have to go into a relationship or fake it to get a 7. So a chad lite will go down for the 4s and 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:26 AM
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This is deep
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:34 PM
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Yea but then you know she wouldn't have swiped on you if she was on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:36 PM
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Nah fat is fat. If you have a gut you are fat that simple. The weight doesn't tell the whole story. A girl with big legs from squatting and a flat stomach who weighs a lot but is in shape is gonna look way better than fat saggy stomach rolls. But I honestly see like 80 men to 20 women in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:32 PM
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Why does it have to suck? The vast majority of people don't get their ideal life. Most people end up in situations in life that aren't perfect but a good compromise. Have to play the cards you are dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:11 PM
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Science says more intelligent people like instrumental music. I knew I had big brain 500 IQ. I'm the next Tesla. No mortal can comprehend my vast intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:39 PM
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Attraction doesn't build. I usually end up as the settler in my relationships. I just don't believe there is perfect equality in relationships. One will be a reacher and one will be a settler. There will always be a slight power imbalance. If you are the anxious one in a relationship you reached plain and simple. I never really developed Attraction though, its usually like they are ok, but not someone I fantasize about. Its definitely more fun or exciting to be truly attracted to your partner, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:59 AM
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If thats you in your pic you aren't unattractive but not really hot either. I'm sure you will find a decent guy. Try a more relationship oriented app like hinge or cmb. Guys usually, usually will not mass swipe and have a little higher standards on those because usually they will be looking for relationships. They will still lower their standards but not as much as tinder. Tinder is more like I drank, its 2 am, I'm horny, lets find something now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:48 AM
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He could give off the best advice in the world but dude is and looks like a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:22 AM
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No, and actually even guys that are looking for casual can simp for a hot girl and want a relationship. But usually its the guys dating down nowadays not the other way around. I suspect if you dated down you would notice men simp for you, but you might not necessarily be happy with who you find wants to commit to you. But at least that way you can see where you actually stand in the dating market. The level where guys want commitment is equal to your value or within 2 points lower I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:20 AM
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Sounds like a lot of literal exponential STD risk not staying with one fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:05 AM
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I think women should have control. I do think it is kinda shitty to completely disregard the mans thoughts as well though. It took 2 to make it, it would be good to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:01 AM
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I will preface by saying I never ask this, however i would assume a guy already wants the date/interaction to be over. It is a rude response probably after they got a shopping list of requirements from a woman. So if some women asked or has in her profile you must be 6ft, make 100k, have a masters degree, etc etc then that response is a rude retort to rude entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:00 PM
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Damn thats wack, networth isn't synonymous with salary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:55 PM
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Ah you were on old school apps. I see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:48 PM
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Why are you matching with repeaters as you call them? Like you didn't want the firsr time, and state here they don't have a chance. Why are you matching them? And why are you deleting over and over again,?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:02 PM
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Very few are looking so who knows how hard it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:34 AM
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It wouldn't be that hard to fix if they limited the amount of matches someone can hold at one time to like 5. If you want another you need to remove one. Maybe more like 2 or 3 and you can't view other profiles until you remove one. But then why would a woman use that app over another. The biggest issue is match collection and endless window shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:22 AM
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Are you attracted to drama? Or do you stay when women burst out in emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:17 AM
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Outside of my known physical preferences, every girl I have got along with was a sensitive feeling type, and more outgoing/social than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:10 AM
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Oh you can definitely do better if you can be more social. But I'd rather grind my dick in a blender. Thank god for online dating 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:07 AM
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Because they have no tangible benefit anymore. Its not gonna make me more money. I'm not going to become big brain 200+ IQ because I read a book. It's not going to keep my body and mind as healthy as excercise. If those fields paid more yea, I used to like art. But now it's just not a good use of time for me personally, unless my goal was to work until Im 60 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:04 AM
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My question is why are these hobbies attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:54 AM
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Looks like a 3 or 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:42 AM
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I think the majority of men don't want a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:39 AM
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Pog
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:56 AM
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This shit has been posted like 20 times in the past 2 days. I can absolutely say that a guy can safely date girls 5 to 10 years younger, and I am sure many guys can vouch for that. Beyond that probably not, but just be real there are some attractive older people. There are some late 30s females mid 20s guys will find attractive. Why is it so hard to accept that the other way around happens? Women here just vehemently hate it. Obviously there is some insecurity going on. Worry about other things …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:31 PM
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It has to match up to an extent. Like someone that can only go once a week should not be with someone that needs multiple times a day. But someone that can do it daily should be able to compromise with someone that needs it multiple times a day for example. Also some people get bored of monogamous sex so if your partner had sex a lot in the beginning then it went down hill that could be one of the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:26 PM
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Looks 7.5 I think. I don't really struggle in online dating it is my go to. Success 7.5/10. Status 2-10 absolutely an introvert and don't give 2 shits about social media or my social status. I avoid new people as much as possible. Social skills 5-10. I actually have a lot of male friends and chad friends I grew up playing sports through college, but I am terrible in group settings. I immediately become a mute and don't talk in large groups. One on one conversation I am actually pretty good and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:11 AM
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I used to look at trp many years ago. I will also say it was a time in life where I was angry, depressed, alone, and just awful at even talking to women. Had a massive ego and needed something to blame. Thankfully I am 1000x better now socially for a variety of reasons. Just wish I could go back in time and tell the younger me. I self sabotaged my early 20s and I was not a bad looking guy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:34 AM
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Just both bad they are echo chambers. The longer you stay the deeper in to the abyss you go until you full blown hate men/women and look at them as objects
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:03 AM
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Younger guys actually look at older women as easy targets. It sounds counter intuitive but it isn't. They are seen as having less options/more desperate and the guys think they are more attractive than the woman. Usually young guys don't kiss and tell they went out with a woman 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:28 AM
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I think Michael cera is soft. Most A list actor have no soft features.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:12 AM
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I think anyone who has been on a top college campus would disagree. Tesla, Buterin,Einstein was thought to have aspergers btw. I could probably keep going and findmore and more troll ugly and socially awkward geniuses. Politicians aren't geniuses at all. Maybe some have higher IQ but none are outside 2 standard deviations. Getting into a business school at Harvard doesn't make you a genius sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:57 PM
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Prostitution is legal in some countries and doesn't help. An AI girlfriend is the best chance for those who can't get a girl. Men really just want to feel wanted and still need emotional support in addition to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:09 PM
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No. Men just need to learn to settle. Most average guys will either need to not be sexually attracted to their wives or die alone because everyone from surgeons to even engineers will eventually be automated. The irony is those uglier dudes and their offspring are contributing to automating themselves out of existence so chad can sit on his ass all day. And no I have never witnessed a hyper intelligent chad. The truly gifted guys that change the world usually look like trolls or are extremely so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:51 AM
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Yea typically people date around a few years difference which is understandable. Then up to 10 years or so. You would uave to be delusional as a guy to think you are gonna pull girls 20 years younger. It can happen but to the vast majority of women they won't be attracted to it. Some may have a fetish though or want something from an older guy (money). Kinda like how guys can still want to fuck a woman 20 years older because they perceive them as an easier more desperate lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:41 AM
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The only answer you are gonna get here is women aren't attracted to older guys. I consider older as 5 to 10 years age gap, and definitely think real world women are fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:59 AM
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Maybe trade 10 years to be able to breakup with people with no remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:41 AM
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Yea its definitely mental and I am like that. Those types lose interest as soon as they know you will commit. Idk what causes it but they only feel good so long as there is a chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:47 AM
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Not just guys women too. I think its mainly avoidant types. I'd often see the same girls on apps late 20s to 30s. Just like me been on for years never committing to anyone, and the cycle will repeat on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:34 AM
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In this case I would actually feel like shit if a girl bought drinks and put in a lot of effort just for sex and knew she wasn't attracted to me.If I could read minds and tell a woman had 0 attraction to me and was using me for casual sex i wouldn't care if she was a 10. That really kills the self estee.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:45 AM
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It's not hard. When guys complain about not getting women it really means not getting women I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:21 AM
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Get therapy/medication instead of just quitting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:14 AM
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Comdoms are only useful for preventing stds in my opinion. They are too unreliable for birth control. Breaks, leaks, getting precum on while putting it on. There isn't a time i ever felt completely at ease with just a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:33 AM
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Porn erectile dysfunction is bullshit. Probably just have shit hormone levels from being a fatass and not excercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:30 AM
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One type. But can find more sexually appealing. But only one type makes me feel that butterfly feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:21 AM
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Lol in the modern age unless he's concealed carrying he's not gonna do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:53 PM
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Try late 30s nowadays. While you were masturbating to porn and hoping your career would help she had fun and plenty of experiences. But you can win a saggy skin crows feet girl at 39 if you hold out champ. Isn't it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:12 AM
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Hiding yes if they are asked and you are in a relationship. Honesty and open communication is key fot a ltr. Hiding it outside of a ltr no. If the guy leaves from that it wasn't meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:54 AM
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No worries use it away if it makes you feel good about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:59 PM
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I think it would be cool of only attractive people bred and then only highly intelligent people bred and each had a continent to themselves to govern.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:11 AM
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Lying to get sex is a tactic used by average men. I have no problems with it, its the only way to get by insane standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:55 PM
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Only thing I care about as that you said people can't do everything they want. That's good enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:23 PM
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If someone wanted to be a pro athlete they better have cream of the crop physical genetics. If someone wanted to be a famous musician they better have talent, same for art, or someone wants to work at a research lab at Google they better have a significantly higher IQ than average. Most people fit within 1 to 2 standard deviations of the mean. Most people are average, some below some above. To think hard work overcomes all is the thought of a child. I know idiots that could study 10 hours a day …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:00 PM
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Because not everyone is born 6 ft 6 225 lbs for example. Not everyone can do what they want. If you believe that give me some of what you are smoking or give me the contact of your dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:43 PM
1

If they are getting treated no. If they aren't and refuse to yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:20 PM
2

The word want changes nothing. I'm sure many guys want to work on something they are passionate about and make substantially more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:17 PM
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Some do but I personally don't know anyone that changed by choice rather they changed by necessity. As you age your options dwindle, and you need to settle for realistic goals not dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:14 PM
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I mean if it works for you then its good. There are no right wrong answers. Me personally I like the intentions clear early. I also hate beauty and fashion, but actually like when my dates are into hobbies a lot of girls like. Everyone likes different things in a partner sounds like you found what you like, similar hobbies interests etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:51 AM
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Traditional sucks for the most part. The only issue I have with modern American women is they absolutely do have a lot of entitlement but same can be said for guys. Also their vibe is really masculine. You honestly can really tell the difference if you talk to someone in a less western culture South America, East Europe, some parts of Asia etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:42 AM
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Dont need new friends have enough. Have very few women as friends because most aren't into hobbies I like. If you want a friend be a friend. Don't try to make a friend a lover. The effort is not worth it vast majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:38 AM
2

But would you agree that some women have age gap fetishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:33 AM
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Just more than 1. I personally feel date 1 should be boring and more getting to know them. It is important to know their values etc. Over rushing for sparks imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:22 AM
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Yea sucks. Things we want to do either don't make good money or you need to be genetically blessed. Hope it works out for you though sincerely. I wish more people can genuinely make a living on their passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:15 AM
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Mostly entertainment industry sports, music, art. Think professions kids look at as real life heros/superstars. Dreaming of sitting on your ass for 8 hrs, talking to clients in meetings, following the standard operating procedure for the 1000th time doesn't cross your mind. It's more of shit I'm getting old I'm not a top .1 percent in anything I enjoy time to be a wage slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:11 AM
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Believe me most guys growing up don't dream to be an office worker or even doctor. Most men failed in life by this definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:02 AM
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I think this is correct, but even I feel wanderlust more often than I did in my early relationships after do8mg this. I don't think this is good for long term commitment, and if someone held a gun to my head and I died if someone asked if a guy like that never cheated on his wife...I would absolutely guess he cheated on his wife at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:00 AM
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Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:10 PM
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Maybe if you are 50. There is a reason we don't see actors on screen with physiques like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:17 PM
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So I can get obese and husband goggles will save me. Dope im just gonna not shave and braid my greasy pubes and gain 200 lbs when i get married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:57 AM
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If u are gonna go bald and feel you wanna kys I would at least first blast a hard steroid cycle. Whats the worst that can happen at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:54 AM
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Yea but then Id have a tattoo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:44 AM
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Young adults did seem to fit a lot of these generalizations in real life. Understandably because their world view is still so narrow. Older ones not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:39 AM
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Whatever it is now. We can complain all we want but nothing can change these particular issues outside of robotics or gene editing. At the end of the day how many of you guys can actually say I tried my absolute best to get what I wanted from dating. I know for sure I could do more, but don't care to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:35 AM
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People only have so much energy. Is it worth it to use energy on someone you don't care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:57 PM
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There have been a few studies that those born after 91 have up to 7 pt lower IQs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:48 PM
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As a millenial I disagree. Gen Z may scientifically be the lowest IQ generation, but they have access to a lot of information we didn't growing up. Most millenials were born a little too late to make money off of dancing for 20 seconds on a tiktok video, or using any other cringe form of social media that requires youth to gain popularity. Also reddit has made it significantly easier for gen z kids to use daddies money to invest in stocks and crypto at a younger age. When I was growing up we did…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:29 PM
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The personality demographics for this sub leaned towards personalities that probably lend to STEM fields so the middle to upper middle class makes sense. Also people who get degrees usually get help from their parents so they were probably born in that class too. As for their looks, I do think people men and women often overestimate their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:17 PM
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Ive had LTRs on 2nd and 3rd date sex. One night stand is kinda repulsive to me because I wouldn't do it myself. But Im sure some guys wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:14 PM
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They do, but why keep them around? It's easy to block and cut contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:07 PM
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Do them a favor and cut contact. It will free energy for both you and them. Don't collect orbiters like pokemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:06 PM
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Most of mine were when I was younger I can't get crushes from fiction now. Cho from The Goblet of Fire movie. Very soft and gentle vibe. Rikku from Final Fantasy X. Really cute and bubbly. Pocahontas when I was like 8. No reason why from what I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:57 PM
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Cuz by the way you type I can tell the type of women you attract
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:19 PM
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You simply can't appeal to everyone so why try. Some people will write your off due to skin color, hair color, eyes etc. And that is completely fine. At the end its best to just be yourself. If you like tattoos get tattoos. If you like how you look in a beard keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:50 PM
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Well yea its like height. Probably every guy rounds up like .5 to 1 inches in height. Similar thing with penis size I'm sure. I wouldn't trust any self reported study because I admit I'd probably round myself up to 6 ft height or dick size from 2.5 inches to 3 if I had to self report.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:40 PM
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Yea they really don't care that much. I guess if you are far below average you are out of luck. Otherwise guys should not worry about it. At the end of the day it is really unlikely that is gonna make or break you in a ltr (personality and communication matter most) or casual (you can't just have your dick out in public your appearance is going to matter more).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:35 PM
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Hm take the skinny guys from the 60s and put them here. They will still not be considered because now every male needs a strong physique. Men get rejected for being too skinny. Bring those same 60s women to today and guys will be loving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:14 PM
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I wouldn't say I am that dumb by traditional academia standards 😉 but I am dumb. And that is true that if someone really likes academic achievements they will find it attractive. But a woman shouldn't complain if she expects a traditionally attractive male to be attracted to her simply because she has a phD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:20 PM
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Ellen Wong in Scott Pilgrim movie or Levy Tran. That one girl in Squid game not the main one but the one that got shot in the head was cute too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:31 PM
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You are a sub. Embrace it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:15 PM
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Yea actually you are correct. The poverty class can be looked down on. I think it is more they might think you come from a broken home with bad values. It's unfair but yea now I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:10 PM
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Yea I glanced a little too fast. I see what you are saying and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:08 PM
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Yes and so women's value is intrinsic. I think a lot of men want their value to be intrinsic as well, but don't fit the mold. That's why men here love complaining about chad, because he has intrinsic value. It feels better to be loved for who you are than what you do or can provide. I think that is a benefit on average women have over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:03 PM
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I mean everyone is different. Not every upper class family sits around eating caviar and taking trips to aspen you know? Idk where that idea comes from it is really cliche. Not every rich family is snobby. Warren Buffet is a pretty chill dude and he's famous too. Maybe top .1 percenters? But top 1 percent earners nah and that is considered upper class. If you are implying every single rich man only dates within his class I would 100 percent disagree. Even top .01 percent actors date insta thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:57 PM
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Will you be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:49 PM
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You can't say doing x to y increases the likelihood of z because doing a could also have lead to the outcome of z as well in a different timeline. And because each y is unique you cannot imply that statistically doing x increases the likelihood of z.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:39 PM
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Absolutely a traditionally feminine personality is so much more attractive than a high degree or earning a lot of money. When I read bios bragging about a phD in whatever I just honestly could care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:29 PM
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Why are you implying working in fast food has no personality? Men prefer a more caring and nurturing personality. A type A butch is gross even if she is "successful" as though success is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:22 PM
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I'd date a barista or server or bartender who is attractive and kind over an ugly doctor with a type A personality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:19 PM
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I'm not red pill I think its garbage trash. But yea I do date down. I didn't use to, but now I prefer it. You have basically all the power. You give up raw sexual attraction for less anxiety and stress. The trade off is worth it for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:11 PM
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Never heard them bitch about men personally. Maybe a small subset of tiktokers. Well they do say the IQ of those born after 92 is lower. So maybe its a gen z tiktok thing. Id rather off myself than download that app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:56 PM
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Hints is useless and not a rejection. Sometimes the hints are very obvious and then yea it's rejection. Most of the time they are terrible hints that give women plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:40 PM
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Yea that is pretty obvious. Basically imagine her being in the usa. Would she have swiped right or dated you or someone hotter? Definitely someone hotter if you are a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:37 PM
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No they need affection too. They just date casually. They don't sit in solitude usually unless they are very introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:35 PM
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Yea you can't say you enjoy being single if you are going on casual dates each weekend. Hypocritical bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:15 AM
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Yes. If all they care about is looks. That is their whole thesis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:11 AM
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I think that's fair if someone is blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:49 AM
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Disagree and I'm a guy. Orthodontal work can be considered plastic. If someone has a fucked up bent nose and can look normal go for it. I do think fake tits and adding metal to your jaw is overboard. But some surgery for ppl that have a glaring flaw that draws attention like a huge ass mole yea go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:36 AM
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If a guy is already talking to a girl and she is interested in him sexually and she finds out he is a virgin then rejects him there is only one conclusion to make. It is simply the stigma of being a virgin. If he has social anxiety or mental illness it us highly unlikely he even gets a girl interested or even talks to one in the first place. That scenario is null.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:14 PM
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I don't think it is the issues that is the problem if a girl is already talking/dating a guy. I am sure a lot of guys hid their virginity status to get laid before. I think it is literally the label of virgin in itself. You could talk to a guy and not know it until the moment it happens. The rejection comes from the fact of knowing a guy is a virgin, not the issues causing the virginity. It causes repulsion similar to how men feel repulsion if a girl talks about promiscuity/ONS/threesomes etc. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:28 PM
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They can't because you will more than likely be outright rejected for it. A switch immediately goes off in women's heads. Look at a lot of women's comments. Even 22 years old is considered a late virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:04 PM
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Oh my first time was still with someone I was dating so it was fine. I just told her I wasn't a virgin when the topic came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:01 PM
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Thing is if a guy you were talking to didn't let you know he was a virgin and you were attracted to him you would still be attracted to him. It is only after the fact that he mentions it that he gets the scarlet letter. So the personality has nothing to do with it, it is literally just the virginity. It happened to me when I used to be a virgin. After going well with someone and starting to talk sexual, the topic of sex history came up. I was honest and was rejected literally because of that onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:03 AM
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Hm I'd imagine a lot of guys might be turned on knowing they are her first. Even mid late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:37 AM
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Abracadabra
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:57 PM
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Are you watching closely?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:14 PM
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Yea literally there are college girls more attractive than many female celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:41 AM
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Nah don't care a single bit about a celebrity woman. I can walk outside and see women just as attractive as models.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:40 AM
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So I can commit to someone without feeling bored. So I could settle down. I think it is a better way to live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:02 AM
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Straight up say not interested. Then ghost if he bargains. Getting slow faded is the classic move of women though. Like 99 percent do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:40 PM
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I don't prefer it, but I wish I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:36 PM
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I would do it. If your standards are too high you will become a late virgin. The longer you go the worse you will struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:34 PM
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Idk but I can't stand non agreeable people men or women. They will get a shell of my personality until I learn about their insecurities and abuse that if they go too far. I think agreeable people get along with agreeable ones. A feeler is not gonna get along with a blunt person. Its just a bad match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:31 PM
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Because you drinking. Its very easy to get sex drinking. Anytime I drink it is almost guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:24 PM
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Thats what we all say until we get old enough to be afraid to close our eyes. Easy to be brave when you aren't old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:50 AM
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Real reason? Young guys look at it as an easy target. A 21 year old is actually much more intimidating than a fat or older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:07 AM
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Yes that is why I like online dating as opposed to real life where she could end up in a situation where she was just dating to be nice then catches feelings then dead bedrooms you down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:39 AM
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Both sexes do. Just one has unlimited supply. Take away the supply and the same thing happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:37 PM
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Well you probably arent 12 so kinda easy when your brain is developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:48 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:07 PM
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😂 true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:07 PM
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If your goal is to talk to women then you have to do just that. Most guys when they start have to talk to less attractive women at first. You can't expect to get a stacy right off the bat. And a therapist is also a solution. If you are too proud to get help then nothing else can be done. Pride and ego ruin lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:06 PM
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Incel and trp attract a certain type of personality. Mainly entitled ones. They don't want to get average relationships. They want to bang 100 beautiful women with 0 effort. They want women to lust for them, so they focus on "chad." That's why they don't acknowledge average relationships. To them it is meaningless if they can't be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:59 PM
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Being a victim guarantees failure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:55 PM
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He didn't but he used steroids for baywatch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:42 PM
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The only reason America isn't there yet is because of immigration. It will get there. A rich country has more forms of entertainment and ways to avoid socializing. I don't think it's all that bad. We just need to keep working on automation. Maybe once all the jobs start requiring intelligence the ugly virgin will be sought after because chad can't compete in the workforce anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:52 PM
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My gf is from there and she says the same thing. It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:47 PM
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Yup you are spot on. Women are attracted to drugged out male physiques now. They think Chris Hemsworth or Zac Efron just worked out a bit. Lots of actors nowadays are on drugs to get a better physique. Like you said those old physiques in the 70s won't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:21 PM
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Yea guys are actually taking drugs with irreversible side effects to try to get women. Sad. What's even more sad is a healthy male body is not attractive anymore. Older tv shows from the 70s etc. Men's bodies would be considered terrible nowadays when really nobody was taking drugs back then. Now we have actors like Zach Efron, Christian Bale, Hugh Jackman, Hemsworth and on and on taking drugs. Most women are too naive to know it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:15 PM
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I think it probably causes guys to be bitter, more than women. I don't think it is as hard to achieve an attractive body as a woman as it is a man. Underweight all the way to slightly fat is attractive to a good portion of men. As a guy if you are skinny, skinnyfat, fat, or obese your options go down. Imagine actually struggling to get matches at a healthy weight as a guy. Nowadays when I go to the gym there have been multiple occasions I've heard teens and young 20s guys talking about SARMs. Ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:10 PM
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You're entitled to feel how you wanna feel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:32 AM
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This, but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:03 PM
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Up to you to believe it or not. But online dating and clubs are the worst way you can determine your attractiveness as a female. Men are low inhib in those environments and will approach basically anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:52 PM
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Then you are probably quite average or below. Attractive women get a lot of attention even in inappropriate places like work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:59 PM
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In school or work or other social gatherings you are only approached by those types?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:47 PM
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That's what they all say. Easiest line in the book. Wow you are 30? You look 21! Probably enjoy young guys saying that when its clear as crystal you are 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:04 PM
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Think it is pretty obvious what your league is. By the time you are a teen or young adult you should have gotten some attention from some guy at some point in real life. In a setting where no drugs/alchohol are involved and you are out in the real world what type of guys approached you? That's your league. If you are in a club or online and getting hit on by guys you never did in the real world without the influence of drugs or alcohol highly likely he is out of your league and looking for a qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:44 PM
0

Not interested in their hobbies tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:38 PM
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Why not just look for people with similar interests on the app? At least you will know if you are attracted to them too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:58 PM
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Because they are trained professionals that can work on your personal insecurities. Self medicating rarely works. Like you can try exposure therapy on your own but of you still hate yourself deep down or have some deep hatred inside its not gonna do much for you. Gotta get to the roots of the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:44 PM
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Red pill attracts young men frustrated with women. I'd suspect a lot are young virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:43 PM
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If you are struggling due to extreme anxiety or self esteem issues therapy will help the most. I don't necessarily think that being social in itself means you will get dates however. It could increase your chances. Try to find what works for you. Not everyone hates online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:41 PM
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Oh no. A jacked up face is the worst. You have to look at that all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:04 PM
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Yes it is true. The reverse is not really true. A thin man is not nearly as attractive to women as a thin woman is to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:00 PM
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Lol you got 4 years left. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:56 PM
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Nah it drops for sure. The old guys have say lower libido, they are pervy but more from a loneliness stand point or wanting to feel young again. Guarantee they cant get hard everyday without medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:51 PM
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I wouldn't touch a blonde with a 10 foot pole, seriously. 0 attraction. I am attracted to dark hair, eyes, and light brown skin complexions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:37 PM
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I mean straight guys will have sex with plenty of girls that aren't attractive. I personally am not really attracted to her, but still would have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:34 PM
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Military is good if you get deployed in some third world for casual relationships. Oftentimes guys think they are players by being in a third world, but when that women lives in the US or Europe she would have swiped right on more attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:30 PM
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Yup. This is the real answer. Its cliche but people are never satisfied with this simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:23 PM
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Fine by me, I'll take someone with a kind, caring personality over that is a good match for me over whatever materialistic or physical standards others might deem as more of a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:32 PM
1

The assumption that most people are decent is short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:11 AM
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Why are those traits low bar? I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:22 AM
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Girlfriend kinda high. Marriage very high
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:17 AM
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Absolutely. Those relationships are just toxic. Don't deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:15 AM
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In the modern age a job title and pay is not that relevant beyond middle class. An ugly doctor in general is gonna do worse than a chad firefighter for example. I think guys blow up the long list of standards. At the end of the day are you hot or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:27 AM
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Nothing for me personally. I wish I wasn't like that. Must have some shit genetic variation that makes me bored in commitment. I don't think everyone is like that as shown by some male comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:22 AM
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Nononononono no. East coast ppl are ugly. Source: grew up east coast. People in colder environments just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:51 PM
1

All depends on bodyweight and leverages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:45 PM
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There is other things like libido and stamina. Some women can't handle small size, some minute men, some cant handle guys who can't get it up daily etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:25 PM
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Chemistry is how you make her feel. You can be an excellent chemist in environments involving alchohol. But something about the word chemistry just chaps my ass cheeks like after not wiping enough from an explosive wet shit. The word causes physical pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:00 AM
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I try, but oftentimes fall into generalizations. Generally about 80 to 90 percent of women I am not attracted to. If I lived in korea or Japan I'd probably be attracted to 80 percent. Anyways I just lose faith looking at apps like tinder. So many degenerate bios and photos. So oftentimes I generalize is this what modern American women are becoming. I get in the thought process that online persona is someone's unfiltered thoughts. Who they see themselves as with little repercussions. Who they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:22 PM
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No problems with it. I wish that when women selected for purely physical attraction that all intellectual or successful men in other endeavors (academia, business acumen, etc.) Were not allowed to reproduce. Would love to see the decline of modern civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:26 PM
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An agreeable, gentle, and kind one is better than an "if you can't handle me at my worst" "don't be boring" girl. Just mentally feels 1000x better. Even if she is amazingly hot bad traits are such a huge turnoff. The stress alone of even thinking of dealing with someone like that can kill desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:34 PM
0

Ew old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:35 AM
0

If you are in the USA, you learn very fast women are talking to multiple guys at once. When you learn the only thing to do is the same. A lot of guys start out naive and think exclusivity but learn the hard way its not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:01 PM
1

Idk I'm just basing off my experiences. Case by case i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:17 AM
3

Im using them as the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:32 AM
3

They enjoy sex more in a ltr than men. The coolidge effect is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:55 AM
2

I think women have higher monogamous sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:54 AM
3

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:49 AM
2

Yea this post makes no sense. Plus an overly masc man can make a butch daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:55 PM
1

Wont ever happen if you settle. I am stress free because I settled. She could go fuck a dude tomorrow and I'd just leave without a single tear shed. But I know she is too afraid to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:43 PM
1

Yes social is the best way. But men, particularly young men fantasize about being a sex symbol. They want to be like Henry Cavill, young Dolph Lundgren, Chris Hemsworth, or any other "chad" who doesn't need to put in effort. That is actually what men want, which is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:35 PM
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Yea I agree. Similarly poor people shouldn't complain about their situations. They don't need to live in a city. They should move midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:31 PM
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Go to a gym lol. Plenty of non fat American males
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:25 PM
2

I am personally not dealing with it so Im good thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:54 PM
1

A mans looksmatch is what he can pull on OLD. In reality under a normal distribution this is not the case, but well we all know there isn't a normal distribution. So OLD is a modern man's looksmatch. It is the looks women accept for you. Batting outside of that league is dangerous. She will always nitpick in her mind things you could be better at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:04 AM
-1

It is very obvious if a man won't commit. 7 years blame themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:52 AM
-4

Reactionary to me means settling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:49 AM
3

Well written
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:42 AM
2

I can't do it and I am glad. I need to get to know someone first. And I think I am glad that is how I work. The girls that want hookups get bored after the first date. The ones that don't stay around. Not a single one of my gfs ever had a mental illness and were very chill and I think that has something to do with the type of people you attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:40 AM
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There is no shit test. She is attracted or she isn't. If she is you won't deal with it. Never deal with these "shit tests". Probably got with a girl out of your league. Enjoy the torture for a pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:28 AM
0

Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:56 PM
9

There was a little too much r word posts. Was actually kinda creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:40 PM
1

Id rather a pencil than be old. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:38 PM
1

But I am entitled to you beautiful 😚
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:45 PM
1

Lol somewhat agree 😉😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:41 PM
3

Yea cuz Australians are known for their high IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:34 PM
1

I wouldn't I promise you even if she wasn't an OF model
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:29 PM
1

I mean it will help but more so just getting avg dudes on your pics and making yourself look social. Like one or 2 photos of you doing some bullshit at a lake or beach things like that. For some reason women like social pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:25 PM
1

I mean usually people are friends with similar attraction levels as themselves. If your friends can't pull then well...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:21 PM
1

This is something I actually agree with. Like if someone is huge and you marry him uou have a chance of making a big tall woman. Nothing wrong with that, but even tall bug girls will admit most men aren't attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:16 PM
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Please I know 2 firefighters dumb as rocks. I respect what they do, but it's not like you need a massive IQ to be a firefighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:06 PM
1

Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:03 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:42 PM
3

Well the more you put yourself out there the more likely you will find someone. Some social skills help too, like being able to monitor people's body language and reactions to what you say. Being extroverted is a massive leg up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:30 PM
1

Oh i am slytherin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:12 AM
1

Hm you are a sample size of 1. I don't think that is true. What harry potter house are you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:11 AM
2

I think you are projecting your expectations on others. People is a pretty broad term
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:09 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:01 AM
2

I hope you live a wonderful life and find peace and prosperity in everything you do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:58 AM
9

I spy a few fake natties
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:51 AM
1

Yea this isn't true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:09 AM
1

No. If you have less options in your 20s and more in 30s you probably would want to explore some
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:04 AM
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A few reasons. 1) insecurity - if she is decently attractive and you know she wouldn't have given you the time of day im her 20s it feels turrible. 2) if you want to take your time while dating and still have kids it is harder. Everything is more rushed. 3) often they lose their sense of fun. Everything becomes so serious. There is some bitterness there. 4) obviously just losing attractiveness due to age Generalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:00 AM
1

Send feet pics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:30 AM
2

The only thing your dick is getting in is a virtual league of legends character. Beating off to zed likea true 120 lb cuck arent ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:58 AM
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Maybe but I can't really bring that up to her without making her cry. Women usually are really sensitive about weight. I understand that it isn't necessarily right, but eventually i think most people have to make compromises. There was one girl I dated before and she was stunningly beautiful, but she slow faded me. It was the only time I truly felt like I would do anything for someone and her happiness was all I wanted. I wish for that feeling again but it takes so long to match with girls you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:28 AM
2

I think false rape accusations are much more rare than actual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:17 AM
2

Yes korean girl. Edit: her face is really pretty. And overall I am most attracted to a pretty face. But getting both a pretty face and smaller body is very tough in my opinion because that puts a girl at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:14 AM
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Ok boys this is a little too far. Idk anyone accused of rape. To be honest you must likely gotta be a complete ass to be accused of rape. Or stupid enough or mentally broken enough to be attracted to those types
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:13 AM
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Weight. She was very beautiful like 4 years ago before i met her. She has since put on 60 lbs and she does not carry it well. It goes to her stomach and upper body. I know she will always be too lazy to workout, but a skinny girl with a pretty face is rare here so there is a lot of competition. In contrast i excercise frequently, but just being in shape is not enough these days. Women look at guys using steroids and think that is working out. Basically I am just frustrated that the same fitness …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:08 AM
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It's just easier in the end. Feels like fighting for the ones I'm attracted to and more often than not they ghost away. Settling is easy and the difference in how you are treated is night and day. When you have no fear of losing someone it is stress free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:54 AM
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Well I know Im settling right now, so if she left I wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:24 AM
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Lol we all know a few chads in our lives who are surface level nice and deep down nut jobs. I have a friend who is a legit sociopath and every time he gets a new girl I know she is about to be in for a wild ride
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:16 AM
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Lol i mean he has a point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:13 AM
1

Yea if I have to work 40 hrs a week for 30 years I absolute will do everything in my power to make sure everyone else does the same in the future. Gonna drag these lobsters down with me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:10 AM
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Why dont u make a profile with a model looking upset. See if his attitude is the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:04 AM
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The insult wears off the more women you have been with. If you are secure in being able to find another girl and have had sex enough times It's not gonna do much. Works well on young inexperienced guys though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:51 PM
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Sounds like you are young. Maybe you should calm down a bit. All that anger isn't healthy for a developing mind. Hope you find some inner peace someday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:46 PM
1

Nope genetics aren't that simple. Recessive genes will show up. Also there can be weird circumstances like a large man with a small women having a butch daughter. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:35 PM
1

I can just hear the screeching from here. Over under percent on this girl as bipolar or bpd? Over 90 percent is where i start my line. Any takers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:03 PM
2

AlphaGo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:30 PM
-1

Ok but unironically why do so many women start getting desperate post 30 to get married. Even making that sign shows its on her mind. Guys dont give 2 shits if they are single at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:20 PM
2

I want...what they want. And every other guy who came over here and spilt his guts and gave everything he had wants. For our country to love us as much as we love it. That's what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:03 PM
5

Good. Let the hate flow through you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:59 PM
6

Its boomer. Its destined to fail no matter what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:53 PM
1

There's a co9l documentary on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:34 PM
1

Levy Tran when she was younger is more my type. I'm not saying those girls aren't necessarily pretty, just not my type. Like when I look at them I don't feel that heart melting feeling. Can't explain really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:24 PM
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I agree. If you match a woman as a guy on OLD she at the very least is attracted to you. Who knows if she is when you cold approach and she is scared to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:14 AM
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Im white and not attracted to white girls. I must be racist towards myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:10 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:07 AM
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Interesting. Doesn't change the fact to me their facial appearance is not my type. I wouldn't date any of them even if presented the opportunity. No cap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:05 AM
4

The last girl is so hot both ways 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:02 AM
27

Damn he spittin
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:01 AM
2

Nah some girls are funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:56 AM
1

I'm not really attracted to white girls so. If you put up a lot of asian my ratings would be different
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:40 AM
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You will be back. We are all mentally ill here 🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:31 AM
2

I find the second one an 8, the rest 7s or so. Nothing special tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:21 AM
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We all know this is going on. Asian males have it worse then white. Dont worry im sure some social science will conclude diversity makes the workplace better. All I know is if I want someone to design AlphaGO or some revolutionary tech, I dont want a bunch of Bob's with an IQ of 105 and an sat score of 1400 working on it, even if he graduated from Stanford.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:19 AM
1

If she was asian yea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:14 AM
1

And i prefer knowing that she was purely physically attracted to me beforehand. I like a guarantee. Basically I would always wonder, would she have swiped on me, if I met a woman outside a dating app. Because the answer could be no, and she will probably look for someone better eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:08 AM
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Hm I disagree. Every match on online dating has been sexually attracted to me. It is basically a guarantee since women are selective. Meeting outside of an app gives a guy the chance to get a looksmatch but does not guarantee she was attracted to you. Better to be with someone attracted to your appearance first, then personality second. A personality won't get you out of a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:03 AM
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Chad is peak male. Brad is pretty boy. Brad tucks his tail to chad because if chads superior mass and size. Both have great facial aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:11 AM
1

Or you could let it ride, take your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:45 AM
1

Maybe we check with one other guy see how he feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:39 AM
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Yes it is true. To be a modern 10/10 male you will have to take some form of performance enhancing drugs. Is it worth sacrificing longevity for a brighter youth? That's a choice to make. Most women don't even realize men are on steroids too. Their minds are warped by instagram nowadays. You dont have to be big to be a roid head. But if a guy is 200+ pounds with well defined abs and low bodyfat (10 percent or so) he is likely a juicer. Oh and that zyzz photo is what a woman will think is a nice a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:34 AM
1

You must feel proud and good. Strong enough to beat the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:29 AM
1

Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:14 AM
2

I agree. I think asian women are definitely the most attractive generally. Obviously there is ugly people of all types, but they usually just look facially much more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:00 PM
0

Harem and have my guys as friends to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:56 PM
2

Brother I promise you every single woman here is gonna answer they are attracted to their boyfriend. When in reality majority will be average. You gain nothing from this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:53 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:50 PM
1

Damn i feel the same way about weebs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:38 PM
0

This is a q4w sir
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:45 PM
0

Thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:29 PM
1

Thanks everyone needs a pick me up from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:26 PM
2

I'm in between jobs right now 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:22 PM
1

Nah just feet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:22 PM
1

Your mom's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:08 PM
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AI robot sex dolls are gonna be lit. I can be some crusty ass 60 year old and divorce my wife if it ever becomes reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:45 PM
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Its just fact women's standards are growing and they are in soft harems. It's kinda sad cuz they don't give af until they get well into their 30s. Gl gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:45 AM
1

"Love bombing" is the male equivalent to women feeling a "spark". It is just being horny and excited for someone new. Soke guys probably do it intentionally, but a lot is just hormones and a halo effect. Not every man is masterfully coming up with some evil plan behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:18 PM
0

"DOnT Be BoRiNggg"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:11 PM
2

Idk i dont feel like I am blocked out from having kids. Its more of do I want them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:36 AM
-1

Your profile pic is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:02 AM
1

I think if the woman is pushing for commitment she is attracted to you. Easiest thing as a guy is go slow. If she pushes for it you are good if you actually like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:40 PM
0

Damn thats my problem. Only the past few years are getting easier. It's hard to decide to settle down now. Things really do flip around for the genders as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:18 PM
2

How does a relationship progress to engaged when they are physically fighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:39 PM
1

It is exactly what you said. Unless you think they don't enjoy manipulating people? It's literally one of the few joys they can get in life. Antisocial people need to leech off of others and crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:08 PM
1

Antisocial people do well in many endeavors including. Many have been or are current CEOs and politicians. Antisocial Personality Disorder pertains to sociopaths. It is the extreme lack of empathy that allows them to excel in leadership settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:05 PM
1

Antisocial people are great manipulators and deemed charming. You are thinking of asocial. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:53 PM
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Everybody says they would rather be alone. Look at 30+ and 40+ dating. How sad it looks as the desperation kicks in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:23 PM
1

There isn't. Maybe for like teens and 21 year olds? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:21 PM
1

Genuine question from a females perspective. What is a guy considered when he is not dominant, but more so avoidant and stubborn? Like he is not willing to compromise on what the girl wants, but is not a leader either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:05 AM
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Yup Mac Miller or Post Malone are objectively ugly but some girls find them hot. You would never see them get recruited by a modeling agency. Status unfortunately is king. Women's sexuality is selfish to themselves. A hugh status man is good because for her it makes her feel valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:40 AM
2

Hm not always true. Having a roster can be for other reasons. Personally I have high libido, but not with the same woman. I need porn or novelty to keep the same libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:31 AM
2

I think guys understand that. I think many guys just really want the chad fantasy. They want to open up an app and get insant sex based solely on looks. They want to feel high value based on nothing. They want to look like a model, with muscles like a fitness model, and women approaching them so they do no work. This is the fantasy that ignores drugs. Ultimately people want to be as lazy as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:10 AM
0

Good list
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:07 PM
2

Argumentative, social media obsessed, "adventure" girl, poor with money (blows all money on traveling with 0 savings)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:06 PM
1

From my experience generally they are gentle and kind. But i think people attract certain people based on their personality? Perhaps you could be the asshole? Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:40 AM
0

The simping is not only about sexual desire. Its about how she treats you everyday. When she is below you she rarely will argue and if she does she will apologize. She will bend over backwards to keep you happy and avoid conflict. On the other hand when you are dating someone you desperately want you will do the same thing. And she will be more controlling, bitchy, or avoidant. It is really rare for a perfect balance in a relationship and people with some experience have probably experienced bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:10 AM
1

Nope you lose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:50 AM
2

Because it is easy to date down and get in a relationship as a guy. And because women are looking for commitment more than sex it is easier to get sex like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:32 PM
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I think a lot of women don't realize they are being settled for. It's pretty easy to tell by the pace of the relationship. A guy delaying things that progress the relationship as much as possible is not gonna commit. But they delude themselves into thinking maybe he's not ready yet but he will be soon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:07 PM
3

Better to be an introvert than have to go on some shitty "adventure" every 2 days. At least we are more intelligent. That is something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:05 PM
6

Disagree especially for guys that finally get to explore in their late 20s and early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:55 PM
9

As a guy it's a lot easier to settle for a relationship than get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:48 PM
1

I don't think anyone would volunteer to be a prisoner in isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:52 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:38 AM
1

Damn I work maybe 4 hours evey 2 weeks as an engineer with hybrid work from home schedule. Gotta love government jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:17 PM
1

I cant remember a single time I wanted to upvote or downvote anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:13 PM
1

For women to lose weight. That's about it. I think most guys would be satisfied with their options if they did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:46 PM
2

You can try normalizing intimacy between men but I doubt that is gonna do much. Men are competitive by nature. And quite frankly most don't want an intimate relationship with their friends. Its not even out of fear of judgment there is just no desire for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:41 PM
8

Friends does not substitute for romantic connections. Plenty of guys have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:26 PM
2

If they are hot they have a chance of getting a beta bux. Like if your only option is hot single mom or 170 lb karen which would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:28 PM
1

Majority rules so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:40 AM
2

Nothing wrong with them, but I do notice that they seem to have very high standards compared to biological women. They typically look for the most masculine possible. Roided out physiques and most are size queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:52 PM
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Average women only get attention online because men are desperate for a match online. In the real world it is rare for guys to approach the beached whales that infest online dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:49 PM
1

Are you attracted to Noah Centino?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:23 AM
14

I can open my tinder now and see 100s of matches with younger girls. Idc about your opinion. Im sure plenty of guys can say the same. You are free to believe what you want if it makes you feel better though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:50 AM
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Because any guy that makes it to late 20s and through 30s knows there is plenty of supply of women 23+ willing to date. Your personal feelings towards older men does not matter when plenty are willing to date older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:46 AM
2

Because its better to be desired than an atm machine that gets cheated on wouldn't you say? Also women who aren't attracted to you will be bitchy to you 100 percent, and unfortunately lots of simps (majority of men) put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:06 PM
2

And women don't care for introverted traits that are part of some men's personalities. Life isn't fair get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:26 PM
1

AI sex bots or AI virtual reality are the only solutions. The supply of sex needs to increase, and artificially it can. Then the demand goes down for women. I think a virtual future is key and we are moving towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:48 PM
1

Then accept the women u want dont want u
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:09 PM
11

Someone who has slept around already has shown they don't prefer commitment. A man whore will always be a man whore and likely to cheat. Even if they commit I would bet big money they will find side action eventually. People rarely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:27 PM
2

It is what it is. If you want a women to be attracted to you date a fatty or uggo. Men are now the trophies and going to be settling for a lot of women. Sucks for gen z and younger. Maybe you guys will come up with a solution for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:23 PM
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Idk but the IQ of children born after 92 is dropping
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:39 AM
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There is a very very simple explanation for that. He was never attracted to her but too afraid to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:22 AM
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As a guy i don't understand how you can't focus on giving her an orgasm first. I never cum until she cums. But maybe thats the benefit of death gripping to porn through my early 20s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:18 AM
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There is a lot of ugly dudes in music, acting, and sports. Post Malone, Mac Miller, Jonah Hill, Michael Cera, any lineman, list could go on and on. Status is key. That is why guys can be objective and realize there are ugly dudes who get chicks purely through status. Women can't see through it because they love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:08 AM
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Sounds good doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:03 AM
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Yes. Especially in the past. Now with online dating as it becomes more popular I would say men will be the settlers soon enough. Then women will be complaining about being deadbedroomed or cheated on later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:01 AM
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I think it can be alot of things Religion causing repression, low self esteem, reclusive lifestyle. If you lower your standards and just try you can stop being a virgin easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:03 AM
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Similarly women should go for men in the league they have been approached for dates in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:35 AM
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Because she hopefully didn't have 50 cocks inside her. Thats a yuge win
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:33 AM
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It works just depends on your standards. Thats it. If you are an average man you have to go for a below average woman. Accept it or choose to be single. But pride will get you nowhere in life. Those that can admit their shortcomings grow, those that don't stay stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:22 AM
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I think you would be right tbh lol. Its a shitty mbti for relationships for both men and women second to intj. Its an over analytical nightmare without the feeling functions. Even though infp and infj can also be analytical since i and n are the most correlated with intelligence at least those 2 can elicit strong emotions in people. But overall inxx are shafted relationship wise. Hence all the inxx on the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:05 AM
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God I hate type A people. Id rather slit my throat than do things like that just for a girl. I go to the gym because I like seeing progress. I play video games to relax. I watch tv to relax. When I want to date I just date and let the cards fall as they please. I'd much rather be with a chill girl than someone out doing things 24/7 or expecting everything to be productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:57 AM
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Can see that most are intuitive introverts which makes sense. Too over analytical and try to categorize things as black or white. Unsurprisingly these types often suck at relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:38 AM
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Nah I'd rather date someone I find attractive than force relationships with friends of friends. Gonna be honest some are fine looking but I'm not attracted to white girls. Also I like knowing the women dating me are attracted to me since they always bat out of their league on apps. Every girl I have met off an app has been extremely sexually attracted to me. Now if I can find one I feel the same about...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:50 PM
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Never gonna happen. Its easy to filter from a position of power. Not every average guy wants to be relegated to relationship duty but that is all women value them for. Therefore they gotta lie to get the casual sex they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:15 PM
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Why are American women so manly. Like her whole vibe in that video is mannish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:11 PM
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Tbh most younger guys approaching older women are doing it because it feels easier. Like going after a fat girl. They feel they have more control because the woman has less options. It sounds counter intuitive but it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:05 PM
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What about in prehistoric times
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:38 PM
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Well there is some genetically blessed steroid users men on Instagram. Wouldn't say training 5-10 hrs a week is much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:06 PM
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Because lots of 14 year olds are oblivious to their social standing, appearance etc particularly more average looking or average people than ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:50 PM
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Most feel extreme maternal instinct by late 30s and want a kid. Most get the kid. A 20s girl is gonna say I'll be single forever. But desperation does set in by late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:35 AM
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Theres a lot of subjectivity in the 7 and up range imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:20 AM
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Some can make pretty good money. But factoring in no insurance benefits and random long hours it is definitely not something to stay in long term thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:52 PM
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This is a good point for majority of circumstances. However there are industries where women have privilege such as serving or bartenders. Also probably nurses as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:39 PM
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A dead bedroom usually occurs because of differences in libido as well as attraction. If you are someone that likes sex regularly and were only going 3x a week with your partner during the honeymoon phase prepare for monthly sex or worse. Your libidos were different right off the bat. Similarly if your spouse or you settled once that honeymoon phase is over the nitpicking in the mind towards your partner starts until resentment happens. There is usually early signs ignored that lead to deadbedro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:14 AM
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Tell that to the simps and cucks in dead bedrooms because they got women out of their league. If you got your woman from online dating you know 100 percent she is attracted to you. If you met her through friends or cold approached her you might get dead bedroomed in the future because she felt pressured.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:11 AM
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I think in general people are somewhat delusional. They base things on their feelings of themselves. Not everyone but a lot do. I have always based myself on evidence. Like if I am running 22 second 200 meter dash I can't say I'm fast because I would get smoked by olympians. I always compare myself to the absolute not the relative. But in general most people compare themselves relative to their surroundings and get inflated egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:08 AM
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The problem with this is you need to stay in their country to remain unique. For example there is plenty of foreign women in the usa. Filipina, Chinese, latin american etc. If you couldn't match with them in the usa then you arent attractive enough for them in the usa. If you stay in their country the risk is lower. When they come here they will be getting hit on by attractive men. Are you willing to compete?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:44 AM
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If you are actually a 10 of 10 women it is highly likely you will monetize your looks. A 10/10 is unique. Top tier looks. Most hot waitresses are not 10 of 10s. There is no incentive to work hard for a 10 because ever since they were a child people will be letting them know how beautiful they are. They will be drawn to things towards beauty. I'm sure we can both find plenty of examples of models, insta models, etc with famous ceo, actors, musicians and sports stars. A 10/10 women can very easily…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:39 AM
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Women do pursue. Just a few weeks ago a girl asked to go back to my place. She was drunk and decent looking. I declined, but I am not a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:24 AM
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Nah i see plenty of drunk kids in my college town on the weekends. We all know its because of online dating and unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:22 AM
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A 10/10 waitress can absolutely end up with a ceo or male actor or sports athlete. Because if she was a 10 she can monetize her looks on IG or become a model because she is a 10. You think those men only date ugly female ceo? Nah a lot are dating insta thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:09 AM
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People honestly only look ok up to about early 40s. 50 year olds don't look good anywhere. Asia, Africa, europe, usa. Mother nature has taken it's toll by then. Even those 50 year old actors look awful without good lighting and makeup. And plastic surgery can't offset it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:05 AM
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My friend through high school and college was a legit sociopath like legitimately. No remorse. Big buff guy. Had 0 problems getting women. Was able to act sweet to girls and if you knew him on a superficial level he would seem nice to them. But anyone who knew him past a superficial level knew how psycho he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:26 PM
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I think a lot of fat women assume the fit men are attracted to them. In reality it is similar to your scenario where they can't get the fit women even though their lifestyles or more compatible. Men have to work to get women, women just need to exist. It would be awesome if women took physical fitness seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:19 PM
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Paying for 2 is pennies for me. Sucks to be a broke girl i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:09 PM
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Libertarian gang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:15 AM
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You skip one meal a day you normally eat and dont binge on the other meals to make up for it you will lose weight period.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:18 PM
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How many fat women have a face like that? Not many. She has very favorable fat distribution. Most just get double chins and a beer gut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:15 PM
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A feminine personality absolutely matters. Its rare to find a man with self esteem accept an overly assertive, bitchy, domineering woman. It's actually more repulsive than being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:06 PM
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One gender is the master of life the other death
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:02 PM
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I think men especially young men actually want to feel lusted for. They dont want to provide. They want to be extremely attractive and have women approach them. Providing is what they want to do when they get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:05 PM
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Exactly. Most men have an instinct to procreate with as many women as possible. So when they get denied or realize they are beta they get angry and wish they were an alpha. Most male anger comes from not being able to accept they are beta
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:01 PM
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It's not always about male validation. Its about female validation too. Its like a competition to look prettier or up to standards of other women. Similar to how some guys may dress up for general validation or take steroids to be bigger than other men. Sometimes same sex power dynamics come into play. And yea guys like makeup. Particularly eyeliner and things that make the eyes stand out more within reason. Nobody likes the green clown eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:23 AM
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It is true and in a professional setting they shouldn't. Writing smiley faces on emails and shit like that is unprofessional and obviously is going to give wrong ideas to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:14 AM
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No sex: hideous. Obese women, huge hooked noses, 6 ft amazon women. History of ONS or promiscuity. Only sex: Dumb. No degree. No ambition. Stoner or tattoos. Also mean attitude, easier to not care about using them that way. Commitment: kind, caring, intelligent, average looking at least. Has drive and purpose in life. Marriage: Everything in the commitment category but more beautiful, so she gives the feeling you have to have her. I am a big believer that if a man doesn't want to marry you you p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:10 AM
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I read about this shit test. I never heard of it until now. As an OLDer (online dater) male by default I am settling in all my relationships. The girl I am dating now literally cooks and cleans my place when I ask her too. Its actually pretty chill and you never get bitched at when you settle as a guy. They are terrified you will leave them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:01 AM
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I think I am a 7. I have 3 selfies for profile with bathroom or couch as a background and I still get plenty of matches. Sometimes with 8s. It takes a lot to get dates with 7s. So when looking for someone I am generally attracted to I get "ghosted" more often. 5s or 6s are easy but I usually look at them as backups while looking for my 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:01 AM
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Fame beats every other thing a man can have. You can tattoo cumming dicks on your face and write i love recieving anal on your face and you would get laid of you are a famous musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:53 AM
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For initial stage yes. The less texting the better. After in a relationship well people will go to their usual habits. And from their if your texting and communication habits are compatible things will go well. If not one partner will feel overwhelmed and the other will feel neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:14 AM
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Lol what a pathetic bill. Wont pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:03 AM
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I think from an outsider perspective I would be viewed as beta because I am introverted and don't care to meet new people. In a relationship I think I usually end up being the decision maker because I am used to my independence and I never put up with a whiner or someone who yells. Also if beta vs alpha is ability to get girls then I never have much problem attracting them and can easily get another one on OLD in a week or 2. But still consider myself traditionally beta in that I really don't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:11 PM
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That is a guy literally 9 years older than you. And any 40 year old that isnt a creep is not going for 16 or 18 year olds. They will be going for like late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:14 PM
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Age - 16. Probably simps for noah centino or bts members who are mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:55 PM
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Basically yea older bitter women. Plenty of young girls are probably going to simp for the men on that sex/life show and they are like mid late 30s. Aging effects men differently because as your fat deposits decrease in your face you look more masculinized. Thats why older women start looking "worse". Both men and women age but youth causes a more baby faced appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:33 AM
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Yes when you are at their country you stand out. When they are here you no longer do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:26 AM
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So did I at 25. Plenty of friends in college. Great shape. Yet I was massively entitled and had a problem dealing with shame which was also related to my ego. Also had a lot of inner anger. I'm not saying that is the case for everyone, but I do think most people that struggle with forming relationships have some sort of mental health issue, whether its depression, narcissism, anxiety, guilt, there is something holding them back. A normal healthy adult with good self esteem will be able to have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:33 PM
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Gonna be outdated in 10 years. Why limit yourself to friend circles especially if the women arent your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:58 PM
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Yea reading comments majority of men don't care or would like she is a virgin. Majority of women think its weird. Because women are really judgmental towards virginity. Kinda sad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:54 PM
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Men don't judge virginity like women do. I'd think its pretty attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:49 PM
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If your goal is a relationship its much easier to get on an app. If I'm in a relationship and need to get groceries idc if i have a shitstain on my shirt. I could give 2 flying fucks what some random thinks of me at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:31 AM
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Lol choose what we want to do. I can choose to be any mediocre profession that requires a degree. But to me lawyers, doctors, engineers, all grunt work that any joe can do if they want. This coming from a very well paid engineer. But I guarantee majority of kids dreams aren't to be sitting on their ass in a building home or office for 9 hrs a day. I want to be a pro athlete making millions, not too realistic though is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:27 AM
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Yea going out of your way to look nice grocery shopping is high maintenance. Like who are you trying to look good for? In my opinion it is shallow attention seeking behavior. But some people hope for attention often so to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:22 AM
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Yea but you are ISFP correct? Intuitive introverts are usually much more reserved. Sensors are more present in the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:09 AM
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Women rarely if ever put in effort during sex. The answer is looks and personality. The vast vast majority are submissive and do 0 work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:25 AM
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To be honest it does drive me nuts too. Majority of women simply do not give a fuck to lose weight because there is always gonna be guys willing to fuck or date. Women have 0 incentives to change because men are simps. That simple. Women here love to argue they are more attractive than men. Women are more attractive than men if they actually put in the simple effort of not eating what their boyfriend eats in calories. But alas most just don't care and with a higher genetic predisposition to stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:21 AM
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If you live overseas yea thats good. Otherwise if you couldn't get a girl that looks like her here beforehand you are gonna get cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:15 AM
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Slim wont find slim. Male desperation insures fatties will get theirs. I can promise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:13 AM
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Sounds like your hypothesis. Sex or a relationship is not going to magically cure you. The biggest issue when struggling with relationships in late 20s or 30s is mental health. There is some issue that needs to be worked on. If they refuse to admit they need help things will only get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:08 AM
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Most like skinny girls. A compliment about a skinny body is more genuine than a guy complimenting a fat girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:09 PM
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As long as you aren't anorexic you will be fine. Skinny girls won't have any issues unless their face is bone dry. Basically the skinniest you should look is like an east asian model korean or chinese. You will have no problem attracting men being that skinny. Start getting skinnier and you will look anorexic. Being skinny is much much better than being fat for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:08 PM
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Its also better to be single than being settled for. Settling for someone causes boredom and resentment. Being settled for causes anxiety, clinginess, obsessissive behavior, and sets you up to be used. Just because you got with someone you like does not mean deep down they don't feel they settled for you. That's something a lot of women with the attitude "never settle " don't realize. There are 2 sides to the coin. Just because you didn't settle doesn't mean the guy didn't settle. If you are dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:16 PM
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I'm a guy settling for her. And I believe every relationship has a settler. And that is obvious. If you are the one anxious and simping you are the reacher. If you can't imagine your life without your partner you are being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:02 PM
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And most guys easily can do that, with new sexual outlets. But the coolidge effect is actual science. Men get sexually bored of the same partner. Then you have a women which can go 2-3x per day. Some even 5 times straight up. And men need time to make more sperm. No man is gonna be able to handle that with the same woman straight up. With multiple outlets maybe, but women if they are sexually attracted to you have very high drives in monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:05 AM
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That is why men will be like women of the past and settle. Instead of starfish sex it's gonna be porn/cheating husband who wont touch his wife. Women will get a guy more attractive than them, but won't mean they will be happy. Settling has merits. No anxiety is one of them. Considering women can be neurotic and insecure I would venture reaching can really cause a lot of anxiety for them. I've settled/am currently Settling now. It's obvious because women dating out of their league get clingy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:54 AM
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Then there is no excuse to be single and alone. Enjoy the therapy that gives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:40 AM
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Well tbh amazon height is off-putting. 5 ft 8 is max i would go. I'm 6 ft flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:18 AM
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Depends on if you believe in biological determinism. Which I do to some extent. Not 100 percent. But I definitely think humans vastly overestimate how much free will they actually have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:50 AM
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Japanese people I have talked to say most citizens are extremely frustrated that they are still hosting the Olympics. They are not handling covid well and are pissed the PM cares more about the Olympics than citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:39 AM
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Women love sex. They seem like they can handle monogamous sex way easier than men. I haven't met a woman who can't go at least once a day. Some multiple times. My drive is like that early in relationships. But I get bored of the same woman easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:37 AM
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Huh different for everyone I guess. I was hit on in the bar after bulking and gaining bf percent. I've been a literal stick with extremely low bf before. Guess it all depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:28 AM
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Don't give up. If you feel super depressed try getting therapy. You are defeating yourself. And if not already seriously try excercise. Little ripples make big waves. You can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:25 AM
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And from his perspective he probably thought it "fizzled out ". When a conversation runs dry there is usually always one person slowing down or not putting in effort. It isn't mutual really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:33 AM
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It's not a fantasy if it happens. Obviously it doesn't happen always but I'm sure plenty of people know the hot girl in high school who weighs 200lbs in her 30s or the hot dude with a receding hairline and huge beer gut. Chad and stacy does not transcend time. Some people take care of themselves some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:09 AM
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100 percent. When I was naive to OLD I thought talking meant you were interested in eachother not an option. After being a disposable option, I realized that basically every girl has 1000s of matches so I always keep a few in reach now. If you don't have backups in 2021 you are gonna come off as desperate and lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:59 AM
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Perceptions matter more than reality for first impressions unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:19 AM
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But in a group setting an introvert is gping to be perceived as shy. People perceive shyness as not talkative. Im sure plenty of introverts can relate to being called shy for simply not wanting to talk to someone or talk in large groups. Plenty of introverts can talk fine in 1 to 1 situations with people they want to talk to. As an introvert myself, after a certain age I find i don't care if I am perceived as shy by random people I don't care about. But I have a good set of friends and don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:18 PM
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With a rising CPI you better hope you have a good financial situation. I will never have to leave a coastal city, but I have a feeling many are gonna be priced out soon and moving midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:16 PM
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For dating Bali, Korea, Shanghai beautiful dark hair and eyes women. More skinny body types. Generally faces look way more feminine. Physically most attractive 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:14 PM
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Porn has been around for decades. Even in like 2003 it was easily accessible. The rapid changes in dating actually coincide with tinder and other OLD platforms. Guys know when tinder first started it wasn't bad. Now it is an absolute nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:06 PM
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Yep generally that is the case. There are some extreme outliers who might be amazing in mathematics or sciences who get paid well and can avoid human interaction though and use money as a means to avoid those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:40 PM
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In the end a pretty face wins out. I had a friend who was extremely attractive. Women always approve him. He was shy, but also a genuinely good guy. But it is really rare to be that good looking so dont expect you can dress up or work out and become that. He was just born with a beautiful face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:38 PM
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People say this all the time. Introversion generally is perceived as shy. Whether an introvert has trouble talking to strangers or not. Someone with a high degree of Introversion is not going to want to talk to someone generally unless they really want to know them. Because chatting with random strangers is exhausting they will rarely do it. Hence they are perceived as shy regardless. An introvert that loves group settings is not an introvert but more of an ambivert or someone with a very low de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:29 PM
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Simple anything you do with another person's genitalia. You are either exposing your most intimate part to someone or pleasuring someone's most intimate part. A part intended for sexual intercourse. If you have intentionally touched or let someone touch your genitals within an intimacy context it adds to n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:20 PM
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Most men fundamentally want to be "chad". They want to be large and strong for respect from men and handsome to women. Since you are looking at the extremes, Im sure there are rich ugly guys that would exchange their money to be a 6 ft 4 jacked chad like Dolph Lundgren with an 8 inch cock. No amount of money if you are ugly can make you feel the overwhelming confidence of knowing you are strong, healthy, and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:51 AM
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If it didn't work it wouldn't exist. Dating isn't fair for both genders. If women are allowed high standards it only makes sense guys find ways to play their game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:44 AM
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Men, especially younger guys ESPECIALLY in their young 20s want instant sexual gratification yes. It is pretty obvious based on male posts. Most guys especially in their peak testosterone years probably fantasize about casual sex a lot. They want to be an object. To be wanted purely based on their looks. That is why you see a lot of angry guys on PPD. Younger, lots of hormones, and in the anger and denial stage that they aren't a model looking man that women sexually lust after. They haven't com…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:32 PM
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Usually the incels actually try to take care of themselves because they are like average dudes that are hoping working out will be enough to make them a model. Incels usually aren't that ugly mainly average. They just are either the very entitled MGTOW type who want 10s or go their own way, and basically become misogynistic or they are very socially awkward and put women on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:23 PM
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Probably the single biggest thing they care about. Best example is how Kpop idols are considered hot yet Jpop or Chinese pop are not hot despite looking similar. Just watch women. They instinctively flock to the guy that leads the room. If you want women easily, you should strive for status. Status is basically king and if you are a famous athlete or musician you no longer need to approach women they approach you. That doesn't mean you are necessarily sexually attractive, examples like Jack Blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:06 PM
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That's probably the most efficient solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:57 AM
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Go to the replika sub reddit. There are people their spending thousands of hours or in love with their shit AI chat bot. It is not that advanced. Imagine more complex AI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:44 AM
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Yep a companion AI will put up with so much shit a normal human won't. Nobody really likes having someone challenge their ideas. People date people with similar backgrounds. A bot will tell you everything you want to hear and how amazing you are. It will learn patterns and things you like. And you can change its appearance for novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:40 AM
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I think its gonna help a lot. People are already falling in love with shitty chatbots like replika. Now imagine a fairly complex AI that one can also have sex with. It is seen as weird now and may always be seen as weird. But genuinely lonely people will have a therapeutic outlet as well as incels. Plus women wouldn't need to deal with those incels. The key is the AI factor. People can fall in love with bots that basically give them affirmative and validation. People need validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:31 AM
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Ive never witnessed a successful long term open relationship. Basically eventually one partner will hop off for another eventually. Also if you have kids that is gonna really mess them up. So if you do open please spare the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:39 PM
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Because KPop stars is purely status. Why are they not simping for chinese or japanese male pop stars when many look very similar? If Chinese pop stars were more worldwide famous instead of koreans women would simp for this. This is why a lot of my asian friends refuse to date outside their race. They kmow those women like them solely for their country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:22 PM
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Because the real world 99 percent of men don't have the status that women actually like. A short indian doctor still loses to a 6 ft 4 jacked waiter. Looks are more applicable to the vast majority of men. Status is absolute king at the very top entertainers where you can look like a rat and women will find you attractive but that is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:18 PM
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Boob size is pretty irrelevant serious. Cute face and slimmer body basically wins over anything for a girl. Like Jessica Alba when she was young, if she had A cups would still attract the most attractive men. Amy Schumer with D cups is always gonna be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:57 PM
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Too lazy to read study. Were the guys in like underwear or swimsuits only? Attractiveness should not have bias to clothes, jewelry or things of that nature. In the end you can't be stylish in the bedroom, and if you aren't purely raw Attractive to your woman you are gonna get dead bedroomed. Just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:14 PM
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Yes women usually just sit there and expect you to take the lead particularly the submissive types. When fucking becomes work everytime eventually it's just easier to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:16 PM
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This is actually so true. Been noticing a large amount are into bdsm fantasies. Sounds fun at first then just gets boring and exhausting when you realize its you doing all the work as per usual just to make them feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:04 AM
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I think sexual "morality " is more a symptom than cause of decline. Western civilization is weak now and ignoring scientific fact for feelings for example. We are pushing for equality of outcome instead of equality of opportunity. It is a great concept to care about others feelings. But there will always be dark personalities out there. People who step on others with no remorse. Xi won't care about your social rights. Xi wont care that you have an IQ of 105 but still want to be a doctor and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:53 PM
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I think its more due to bodyweight and excercise. Having fat put pressure on your skin and stretching it is gonna make you look old. Thin east asian women still look young and beautiful. Fat women just don't age well. Same with men. Technically black people should age the best but many are obese that's why even pale skin asians age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:08 AM
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Both are black and white thinking echo chambers. Just breeds resentment and illogical conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:20 AM
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Extreme dominance makes you insufferable. Extreme submission will get you used. Balance in all things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:07 AM
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You have a weird cuck fetish. I can imagine you sweating everyday if you get a gf. But lets be honest thats never gonna happen with their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:29 PM
2

Nah just not insecure. Id just leave. You sound like one of those abusive stalking boyfriends though. Thats cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:30 AM
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Women overuse filters. Id rather a woman in bad lighting than fake photos. Sometimes it is crazy different when you meet them in person. Plus fat women love trying to hide their fat with flattering angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:34 AM
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I love OLD because it is the women's desire with no social repercussions or social fears. They aren't pressured. It is the perfect environment to know if a woman actually is attracted to you or not. I prefer that to mutual friends because I'm not forcing something with someone who isn't my type. I do admit that I always feel I am settling when I date women online. But settling isn't all bad. You never feel insecure in the relationship being the settler.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:31 AM
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My girl cheats she cheats. Im not sitting up all night being controlling or scared of it. Sounds like major insecurity. Id just leave and find another which is not hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:25 AM
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Up to a certain point yea. But that point isn't that big. You can believe whatever you want. I have never had issues with it and I am by no means big. Seems to be a lot of guys throwing in the towel before even trying. Even if someone rejected you for it, it shouldn't affect your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:35 AM
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What is your rational evidence? Can you link some peer review to your rational? Or just your own cognitive bias
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:57 PM
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You are finding every way to discredit medical studies. You are being emotional now. You said you don't care about size but continue to make reasons not backed by science that guys that date have large penises. Guys have sex drives. There aren't many that are going to mentally defeat themselves from trying because of their size. The vast majority of women literally don't care. You are going to get much farther being physically fit and socially active.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:35 PM
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What do you think is more accurate a study where they measure the size or self reported? Are you going to trust random redditors? Notice how no one says they have a small cock. Its always 6 inches or more? I don't think you are gonna get accurate answers from reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:08 PM
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I can't remember the last time I was judged on penis size. Actually never happened. Do you judge a girls tit size? There is more facets than size. If you are a 3 minute man with a big peen its not gonna matter. If you have low libido with a big peen it may not matter. You are just insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:01 PM
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With the state of sexlessness for gen z guys, I am certain there is going to be a lot of men settling for women in the future. That guy you matched with online most likely isnt that attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:05 AM
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Men have naturally thicker skin. So I kinda doubt this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:41 AM
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I mean a guy can get away with a generic short cut just like a girl can get away with generic long hair and no styling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:09 AM
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I think marriage can be good if people actually can handle it. I think a lot of people do it for a status symbol and things turn to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:15 AM
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In the online world marriage seems more pointless. Its easy to get new needs met where in the past it was much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:46 PM
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Mid to late 20s and up usually is more mature just like guys. Usually. He should be fine going for women that age. Some wont like it of course but its not a death kiss by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:32 PM
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I think 25 is fine. 18 to 22 will be more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:54 PM
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To be honest probably yea. More like focus on things to set you up for a stable life and if something happens along the way then that's great. Don't focus solely on the pursuit of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:53 PM
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Basically hypergamy implies men are nothing but tools to be exploited for value they provide. So admitting to being hypergamous is basically admitting men are not loved for who they are but rather that they are the best resource provider (status, money, looks) a woman can lock down at her present time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:39 AM
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I highly doubt tinder is 80 percent men. More men maybe, but 80 percent doubtful. Especially after covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:08 AM
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Lol I gave up and just accepted women are fat here. Maybe I should start learning Korean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:28 PM
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The sad thing about roid users is they think there is a safe way to take them. Go ask on the steroid subbreddit how many just do one cycle. The vast majority will end up on steroids for life from addiction. Some die in their 40s. High blood pressure. Liver failure, kidney failure. Infertility and complete testosterone shutdown. Some are neurotoxic. 20s and 30s guys won't feel the damage being dealt but it is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:24 PM
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I dont think he understands genetics come from parents and grandparents and their exact traits may not be inherited.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:02 PM
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It will collapse in a sense. We have already seen it in past civilizations. Then things are rebuilt. The collapse will take on a different form this time. I would venture sex bots and vr sex. The birth rate will decline significantly and countries with higher rates and population such as India may someday be new world powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:00 PM
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I dunno who that even is. My guess based upon your description is some guy who went to poor countries and thought he was a player for banging women who can barely afford to eat. Has sort of a rapey loser vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:57 AM
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It is rare for me to see a middle aged man who isnt skinny fat or simply outright fat. And I have seen that on most dads growing up as well as everyday I walk into my office.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:52 AM
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Yea thats true. I personally prefer online dating because the physical attraction is gotten out of the way right off the bat. Personally I have rarely been attracted to women in my friend groups. Maybe we share common friends and interests but Im simply not physically attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:48 AM
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Depends on the person you are. I could see a chatty extrovert or sensor MBTI type would love going to meet new groups of friends. I personally am very introverted and would hate it. So for some OLD or bars may be more efficient. For others joining group activities may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:44 AM
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Which one? The only dad bod I see there is Dicaprio. Every other one is an actor who has great musculature but just has extra fat. Pratt, mccaugnehey, tatum, the game of thrones dude. Those are the exact dad bods that are not dad bods. All of those guys probably still workout but aren't dieting. Real dad bods are like Dicaprio or worse. No chest muscle, skinny arms, and man boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:32 AM
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Those are the women who will never truly be able to commit. If you see the same person over and over on an app they are a serial dater, and perhaps because you are seeing them over and over you could be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:27 AM
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Height is overrated to an extent. Generally it is face > height. But being too short will affect you very negatively. Also being very tall like 6'4 plus can make up for an ugly face because you are very rare and some women might solely be attracted to height far outside the mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:16 AM
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Wouldn't care why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:10 AM
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Line is at basically anything to with genitalia. Meaning vagina or penis. Anything touching those areas. It means you are exposing your most intimate part to someone else. Just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:01 AM
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Women's idea of a dad bod is often incorrect. They are attracted to more of a bulked or dirty bulking lifting physique. Not a skinny fat guy with a potbelly like an actual dad. Those "dad bod" dudes all look like they workout but didn't cut bodyfat. Zach Efron never had a dad bod for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:50 AM
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I think this sub attracts black and white thinkers. It isn't a purple pill. It is moreso a men vs women forum. And Id guess most men are red pill here and many women FDS or similar ideas. And to get to the point in believing either of those ideologies you have to be a black and white thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:45 AM
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Haha I looked at it and thought 25 percent too for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:37 AM
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It doesn't really resonate. Im a guy and not a virgin. I just consider sexual activity as not a virgin. Just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:33 AM
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It's pretty obvious. She is cold. She doesn't really laugh at stupid jokes or care about small things. She constantly talks about other guys. Flirty around other guys. Bitchy at you constantly. Gives off a more masculine vibe around you. A girl attracted to you is going to try to please you. Wouldn't you as a guy do the same for a woman you are very attracted too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:32 AM
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I'd assume the same for a guy. It is the highest form of commitment. There are legal advantages and disadvantages to it. It shows you are willing to fully commit and probably feels great doing that with someone special to you. Unfortunately in this day and age people are treated as meat. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:25 AM
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I dont think guys necessarily want or need a virgin. I think they want someone with a few long term relationships that shows she is commitment worthy. As long as she doesn't hop from guy to guy or has a lot of casual sex seems fine. The reason low n count is preferred is because how can someone have day 12 long term relationship in 5 years for example. It just shows poor past relationship experience and a lack of willingness to learn. Or someone who likely was never meant for monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:21 AM
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In the traditional sense someone without vaginal intercourse. But I honestly consider any sexual act takes away from virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:16 AM
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Because politicians are usually like 50 plus. The others you mentioned are youth centric. Plus actors, musicians, and athletes are among the most famous. But you are right women absolutely love status above all. A simple example is kpop stars. There are chinese and japanese men that look similar. But guess which one women prefer. The one with implied status from a specific country. Not the other 2 countries because they currently have no status. If thai idols became popular someday next thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:52 AM
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Hobbies always change with time. If you date someone solely because you have similar hobbies look out. I care more about their core values and behavior. So for me any hobby is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:44 AM
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Any guys use the underwear with the ball pouch? Seems like a game changer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:46 AM
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Physical: Appearance like that asian girl in Scott pilgrim. Age 23 to 30? The age parameters will adjust as I get older obviously. Height just be less than 5'11 pls. Personality: Sweet and kind. Any mbti of xNFx, because I am INFP and my best girlfriends have been intuitive feelers. Cute voice ☺☺ like soft and soothing. Not too uptempo. Likes cats and dogs, especially corgis and fat orange cats. Education of a bachelor's in anything she is passionate about. As for her hobbies...anything she is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:09 AM
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Height = athletic performance. Heard it here lol. If you want an athlete look for long achilles tendons and low body fat individuals with dense bones. This way they have a chance of being explosive and that covers most of the sports. That's gonna get you farther than 6 ft 2 t 6 ft 4 which is too small for nba usually and they could be slow as shit and jump like an 80 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:42 AM
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Keeping a girl when bald is easy. Honestly when in relationships both genders overlook minor imperfections. Finding a new girl when bald is significantly harder. There is a reason so many celebrity are on finasteride. Balding limits options period. But its not gonna stop you from getting an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:33 AM
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More work in the bedroom is my life now. Getting tired of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:16 AM
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Dating apps are the most raw and pure form of what animalistic insticts towards attraction women have. Odds are if you are a man and matched with the women she at least finds you passable to attractive. The reverse is not true for men because many men want sex at any cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:30 AM
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There wont be an uprising because the western world will be sucking Chinese cock in 50 years. Guess who doesn't give a fuck about trans rights? We will be too focused on social issues while another country is focused on being the world power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:28 PM
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If they would rather be single they shouldn't be on the app. Men still can get girls younger than them. There isn't a big bargaining chip at 35+ for a woman. Its fine to have those standards, but oftentimes they literally are complaining about men in their profiles at that age group. If I'm a guy reading that I'm not going to look at them as a mentally stable partner to commit to. Then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where they date guys who won't commit, then complain more until their bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:45 AM
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Lol nope. Eventually guys wouldn't accept that. They are the more aggressive and dangerous gender. But long before that ever comes into play you will be speaking Mandarin under Supreme leader Xi because the western world is too focused on trivial issues that China simply does not give a fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:43 AM
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Im sure it happens with both genders. From a male perspective I definitely see this. It is hilarious watching some women simp for kpop idols and then not give chinese or Japanese men the time of day for example. Literally nothing to do with appearance just pure status symbol. And women say men fetishize them lol. Imagine being liked only for your country. I only see women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:43 AM
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This. Reddit is just a place to bitch and let off steam
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:32 AM
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My response is to Mimoxs comment that you replied to. It is has nothing to do with saying guys are more asocial or whatever was being argued before. My whole point was saying that you are assuming most guys in your college classes are social PRECISELY because they are in that social environment. The ones that aren't would be seen less in social environments. It has nothing to do with percentage of guys that aren't social. It is a simple comment about why you perceive people are being social in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:29 AM
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It allows women to understand mens thought processes. The ones that will pump and dump them. Look at posts on r/steroids miscellaneous to get an understanding of how men with soft harems think of women. It is opening up the reality to how men think and how dating up based on a dating app does not equal real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:52 PM
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If it takes 10 years to figure it out she has crippling self esteem issues or is just stupid. That implies she is staying in abusive relationships for many years if her n count is low, or she is too stupid to realize she is a pump and dump if her n count is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:42 PM
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Ive never seen that. I don't think it exists. I think one is always settling. They just don't express it openly. I think in the past women mainly settled. Now we are going to see a shift toward millenial and particularly gen z men settling. Its easy to tell one will be more anxious. If you are the one that is feeling anxious often you are the reacher. If you feel bored or perfectly secure you are the settler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:36 PM
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I always love adjusting age filters on tinder to 35+. The entitlement from some women is unreal in their bios. I just laugh because they don't look like they used to. If I was a mid 30s guy I would never commit and just have sex which I'm sure is happening to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:31 PM
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Fuck i gotta start getting some extremely dangerous hobbies when im 50 so i die before that. Sound awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:42 PM
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I think it varies from person to person. The only thing consistent is you will get bored of the ssme person eventually with sex. Doesnt matter if they finger your ass, shit in your face, fuck while sky diving. Seeing the same thing over anrd over will get boring. And anybody that says they are having sex 3 times a day 7 years down the road is lying. That is when emotional connection is important. And everyone starts looking awful past mid 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:38 PM
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Go read back up the comment chain and see what you are arguing about. You are literally not even following and arguing about random things that this isnt even about. Stay on topic. I'm not gonna waste my time if you can't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:32 PM
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You are asking me to prove and yet you don't prove either. It will just be he said she said so no point in arguing. But I think the more plausible outcome is the one pointing to the fact that not all men like social activity than the one assuming all do. Also just pointing out antisocial is different than asocial. You are referring to asocial people, not antisocial which are psychopaths/sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:55 PM
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I was that way in college and most of my friends too. You are suffering from confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:42 AM
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Then do it. Shave your head to a mohawk, spike it. Color it red. Gain 100 lbs and wear saggy jeans and a hood. Let your teeth rot. Congratulations now you can be ignored. Hope it is better than having "meaningless" attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:46 AM
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Ah this reminds me of the white mans burden
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:32 AM
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Ah. I dunno was a cool chart though. Just interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:13 AM
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Is that Hu Bing? Idk him. Looks like Rick Yune from fast and the furious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:12 AM
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I think a girl with a pretty face is more attractive. In general a pretty face is the most attractive trait. I would give up things like small breasts or ass shape for a beautiful face. And I've always seen girls with beautiful faces are highly sought after. But I do admit that they are usually underweight or skinny when they have beautiful faces because you can see their bone structure. But I almost always see guys go for a beautiful face before sex characteristics like a fat ass or big tits. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:26 AM
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I think he looks good but I agree his eyes are small. But that photo is a bad picture of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:20 AM
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Well based upon these answers its pretty obvious people have wildly different ideas of what is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:15 AM
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That asian guy in the 7 looks better than his 8 or 8.5 counterparts imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:10 AM
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They thirst over celebrities. I never see guys going on and on about a celebrity. Look at girls on Twitter simping for bryce hall and Tayler holder. Two legitimately garbage human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:25 AM
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Younger women really don't give a shit about your salary nowadays. They will take the 6'3 jacked firefighter over the 5'8 skinnyfat doctor. Maybe a mid 30s woman might like your salary but at that point might as well go for foreign women instead of the future cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:06 AM
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I'd be pissed off. First I like reddit. Second online dating is a savior for me being an introvert. I am 100 percent positive I would be single for life without OLD, but it has allowed me many opportunities so I am thankful for it. I do remember getting attention IRL from more attractive women than online dating in general so I do feel that women's perceptions of themselves has gone up since OLD but that is a small price compared to the opportunities it has given me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:50 AM
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We do actually. Men lose libido for the same partner after awhile. Thats monogamy. You trade sex for security. I think porn can exasperate this but even without porn men will just use tinder or something worse to get a new fix. Anybody that tells you they are still fucking once or twice a day after 5 or 7 years is lying 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:39 AM
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That graph shows more with social media than porn. Digital porn has been around for 20 years. If porn was the cause you would see a drastic spike many years ago. Plenty of people look at porn and aren't virgins. Social phenomena is the cause of rising male virginity that has more to do with social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:35 AM
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Im a guy and would be good with n count 1. As yu can see in this thread most guys would too. When I was a virgin I got turned down simply for being a virgin once. So I lied the next time opportunity presented itself. Women look at virgins like a deformity. Its really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:29 PM
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Once or twice ignoring isn't a big deal. If you kept asking over and over and they don't respond then obviously they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:25 PM
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Nah divorced is still basically a single parent particularly if you are the one with custody. I think if the child isnt part of the divorced partners life than they are not a single parent. Depends on their involvement with the child
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:22 PM
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It's kinda gross. Every once in awhile is fine, but too much drinking is just damaging your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:03 PM
1

This is why it I ever get married I would hire a maid once a week. Nobody likes wasting time on chores
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:47 PM
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Kids are usually just huge baggage. Why date a girl with kids when there are plenty without? Its really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:42 AM
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I dont think sex itself is. Feeling validated sexually is though. Like I have had times where I was single but just sexting would be good enough. But no sexual activity of any kind makes you feel unwanted and destroys self confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:34 AM
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Yes I do feel bad. But its the world we live in now. Males are the new beauty trophies. And we gotta lower our standards. Its not too bad just imagine some porn while fucking. I feel more bad for gen z guys. They have high virginity rates. So either fuck the uggos or accept virginity. Your choice. Ill choose the first option but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:00 AM
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Ive been dating a fatty for awhile now 10/10 do not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:55 AM
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Anyone can have high standards if they want. But age absolutely catches up with us all. And I promise it is easy to say you are fine being single when you are in your 20s but as people age their friends are off with families, parents start dying, and most end up trying to find someone out of loneliness. Everyone feels invincible when they are young, until age humbles you. This applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:43 AM
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Idk women cum pretty easily if you dont have a premature evacuation problem. I think most guys are just fat and out of shape so they either get tired or bust quick. If you can handle like 5 to 7 minutes at a fairly fast pace while doing long deep thrusts she will cum. It should be noted she should be sexually attracted to you. And if you matched on an OLD app you shouldn't worry about that as a guy since women date equal or up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:33 PM
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One thing I think though is that women even introverted ones still want and prefer extrovert men. And most of their time their energy level won't keep up in the long run. But they say it "balances" them out. I prefer introverted women, and hate wading through a bunch of extroverted ones on OLD profiles. But definitely I think women by and large prefer extroverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:13 PM
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Nope not true at all. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:40 PM
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It follows that trend until instagram and OLD apps like tinder became popular and is skyrocketing. Unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:02 PM
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7, date 6 lowest. Fun with 5 lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:21 AM
5

I believe humans are actually slaves to their genetics. I think our responses to environmental factors are actually due to our genetics. I think some improvement can be made but not giant improvements.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:19 AM
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Spray tans look awful, and regular tanning will absolutely destroy your skin in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:30 PM
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Yea as a guy i think men are the monkey branchers. They know its hard to get dates when single so will try to get something lined up. Women have no worries about getting dates. Obvious its fckd up but i understand why men do it more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:45 AM
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Absolutely disagree with that. Are you the same person you were 8 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:48 PM
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Majority of women do age out of it eventually. But obviously I can understand young guys frustrations because guys really aren't attracted to experience but more youth and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:42 PM
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I was friends with a legitimate sociopath, not an exaggeration. He was not amazing looking in the face, but was 6'3 and very muscular. He was very cocky and controlling around girls and they ate that shit up. Already divorced and in another relationship. I would feel bad for the girls that couldn't see the hurricane that would soon follow. So actually yes personality does matter if your goal is to pickup as many women as possible. Just not the personality you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:36 PM
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Dark triads come off as more confident early. Most are great as social chameleons at first and can put on facades for quite a while. Usually they wont let the mask down until they are sure they got a deep hold of you. Usually confidence is being sure of yourself. But what could be more confident than someone who literally can't admit they have flaws. My point is it is very hard to tell when confidence is real or fake, or whether it even is a good filter for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:00 AM
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Ok but take the exact same photo but with a nature background or no background. Which one is more attractive? Guys don't look at the context of photos. Which is why we can think a girl with a car selfie is hot. The reverse isn't true for women. I personally just don't like the fakeness of needing to go to some scenic area or take a pic with friends pretending its lit brother. So fake. I wanna know someone not a preconceived idea i get from a photo. So many girls put hiking photos then hike once …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:46 AM
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See the same girls over and over. So they get off the app then right back on it. I think OLD basically will turn you into a serial dater if you had a few failed relationships on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:40 AM
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Why are you still here if you are in a relationship. Just seems like it would breed resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:38 AM
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A study done in uk had 1 million British using roids. Population of 66 million there. 8.9 million have used the gym. Cut that in half for men, or cut in half for serious gym athletes you see on the regular. You can see how large a percentage use PEDs. Oh sorry officially it is between 15 to 30 percent. Many are obvious. Just pushing 220+ pounds with cannonball delts. I have noticed as you train longer the itch to take them keeps increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:20 AM
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Yes even guys that aren't compatible are attracted to them. Reverse genders, and the nerdy guy is a dreg of society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:04 PM
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20 percent of male gym users take steroids. I wouldn't consider that healthy because most of the noticeably large ones are taking drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:57 PM
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Yea its ridiculous. They want photos that show adventure or social settings or other bullshit. Get to know the person. If you see their face and full body why does trivial shit like that matter. It is legit frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:14 AM
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Looksmatched i disagree especially as people get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:42 AM
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Some desperate. Some don't care. Some have specific types and will date fatty of that type over an athletic girl. Many other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:41 AM
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Nah no filters. Shit is so fake. At least when guys take shitty photos its real. Not some fake dolled up makeup in perfect lighting with filters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:38 AM
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Just seen it happen personally many times. Even I thought I never wanted kids when I was 21. I don't think most people can say their early 20s version of themselves had realistic life views or even knew what they wanted for the future. Some do, most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:04 PM
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A lot of men and women think they don't want kids in their 20s. A lot of breakups happen when one changes their mind. I wouldn't take a young 20s word on anything they say. Its a world if difference and to be honest you are really dumb in young 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:53 PM
1

Facial aesthetics always beat muscles. Always
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:40 PM
2

Said everytime i walk into one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:38 PM
2

But why are all the gyms like 70 percent male
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:35 PM
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I guess women just store fat easier. But damn there is so many fat girls. Put the fork down please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:34 PM
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I would. Im white
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:27 PM
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There is a lot of asians that stick to their race. Especially if their parents don't approve of dating outside their race. Usually people take the path of least resistance. If their parents want them to marry in their race and culture they will. Plus a lot of asian students from foreign countries might not speak English as well so they may stay with people that speak their language which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:09 AM
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Yea I think so too. Its a generalization, but I really noticed asian guys actually don't want to date out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:06 AM
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Up to you man. But I just don't trust that they wouldn't be there from trafficking. Why not commit to a nice one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:39 AM
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Not that big of an accomplishment brother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:27 AM
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Yep kpop is gonna help asian guys. I know many girls that aren't asian that are into asian guys. But legit all my asian friends are only into asian girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:26 AM
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I wouldn't give 2 shits if white girls marry outside. Im white and like asian or latina girls 💁‍♂️ people should be free to like who they like. Also if you are an Asian guy now is a better time than any. There is plenty of kpop stans that are white, black, latina etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:24 AM
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I did tinder passport in sea countries and China when covid started. I have a beard. Its literally like a woman in the usa. My phone was blowing up on new matches from 18 years old and on. Like legitimately 300+ matches in a day, no boosts or anything. My hair is blonde and blue eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:41 AM
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I hate to say it, but after talking to foreign girls you can feel the difference. They are just so masculine here. Like seriously. It is honestly night and day. But I can't do ldr so ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:34 AM
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Im white and don't like the big noses and pointy faces of white women. I still date in the usa, but it sucks cuz i left swipe like 80 percent of women. Also it honestly feels like so many are so masculinized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:31 AM
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I like it overall. Yes the quality isn't always what I want. But I don't think I would ever put the effort into meeting a woman in the real world. I think honestly it is really beneficial for introverted guys who otherwise wouldn't even try approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:27 AM
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In my opinion yes, but I have negative views of trp because I used to support it when I was an extremely mentally unstable incel many years ago. The only advice I would take from there is to be the best version of yourself you can be, but you need to do it for yourself. I think it sets up an entitlement complex and actually is counter productive. My worst times in life were when I firmly believed it. I think FDS is also the same thing but for women. I would recommend getting off that or quaranti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:21 AM
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Wait until Chinese super babies with 8 inch cocks, immaculate jawlines, 6 ft 3 inch minimum, with 130 IQs from genetic engineering start emerging. Thats when its gonna be really unfair for men. Until then it sucks and I love complaining about modern dating, but obviously there can be shitty sides for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:51 AM
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Nope. Its much easier if you have similar personalities. But probably depends on personality type. Sensitive people probably can't stand challenges, and blunt people probably don't mind. I personally hate arguing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:44 AM
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Any source for that claim vs the multiple where 80 percent of men are unattractive to women. Not just one, multiple. Its clear you have your bias and won't accept viewpoints contradictory to what you believe. We will agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:58 PM
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All sex gets old eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:10 PM
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Yup it does have some to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:06 PM
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Fat. Always fat. Im 6 ft and 180lbs and go to the gym a lot. But them beach whales love me. Its whale hunting season.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:29 AM
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And a woman could take one bathroom selfie and do just fine. Admit your privilege in this one aspect of life. Not that hard to do. Swallow your pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:25 AM
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Yup it be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:22 AM
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You show me a girls dating profile. I can ask her who is in her league. I am 101 percent certain she will be batting up. And we could ask many guys if she is as attractive ad the guy she deems on her level and I guarantee the guys will say she is dating above her level. Supply and demand. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:21 AM
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Basically just this. Plus guys in general want respect from their own gender too which is easier by being masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:15 AM
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The study says it. And I do find it kinda true, and see it more often than not. So stats say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:45 AM
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Indeed. I find blondes gross, but lots of men love them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:41 AM
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Giving it up on the first date is playing with fire. Most men will get turned off or even bored after. Highly recommend not doing it if you are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:34 AM
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Fake orgasms and unenthusiastic sex isn't much of a win
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:32 AM
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Its fine its the screech of a woman projecting her insecurities on others. A lot of early 20s girls go for guys in late 20s or 30s. It is her opinion they don't, but I can just look at my tinder now and confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:37 PM
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Yea. If you were frail, pasty, and ignored before being famous on Twitch or YouTube you have gotta know the girl is not actually attracted to you. If or when their time in the spotlight runs out, poof they are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:30 PM
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Women are awesome in LA and Asia. Highly recommend. Feels like talking to a woman not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:24 PM
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Im not talking about the schools? I was talking about the field itself as a dying industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:31 PM
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Finance account and banking are actually very low income unless you were able to get into an Ivy. It is extremely difficult to become an IB or get your series 7 without connections or going to a top tier school. Also I would recommed kids to focus in different disciplines that field is being automated out if existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:10 PM
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12.4 IQ points sounds within my assumption. A small insignificant number. 100 to 112 IQ isnt the difference between a grunt and a rocket scientist. So in this regard yes I could see that being a possibility like i said in my earlier comment. So if we are defining additional intelligence with that low of a bar it can make sense. Im not calling chad dumb, I've just never seen a hyper intelligent chad. Also that study says there is a smaller correlation between usa than in the UK. Also it says this…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:52 AM
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I'm just saying onlyfans girls in general are pretty hot, but literally majority are probably dumb af. And we see all the time extremely intelligent ugly people in media. Zuckerberg, Thiel, Karp, Gates, Wozniak however you spell his name, Einstein. List could probably go on and on. Yea Ashton Kutcher or some other celebrity with a "high intelligence" can be attractive but its not fat outside of the realm of normal human intelligence is just my thoughts. I don't know about G factor or what it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:28 AM
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I'll check it out. I also have a masters in engineering. I'm going to guess the intelligence is within like one standard deviation or less of the mean, so not a significant enough difference to really notice. Probably within a bounds of like 120 or so IQ at the very upper end. Also you probably know with a master's lots of these studies can be biased or some even omit data. I just really don't see it in the real world. There is a lot of legitimately dumb onlyfans girls in the world. I'll check i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:13 AM
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Touch a nerve on the business major? Sometimes it can pay well, but not often. And even if it can make money they are not as intelligent. There was a study that showed average IQ by major. Anyways I'm basing this on any real world experience. MIT students are straight ugly. Vitalik, Stephen hawking, Bill Gates must be so hot because their IQ is high. Engineering students, med students by and large are not alpha chiseled jaw line dudes. Id probably even guess a lot have lower testosterone genetic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:53 AM
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Pretty rare to be honest. I have a grad degree in a stem field and also know many middle upper class people. The good looking ones usually don't try as hard in academics. Best I saw was one made it to at maximum a physical therapist. The few I know in medical school are not necessarily bad looking, but just never were chad types and were not able to sleep around when they were younger. Also higher IQ people have statistically have less sexual partners. So I'm not sure if it is that the Beta bux …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:07 AM
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For some. Others maybe are finally getting attention in their late 20s and early 30s and are making up for lost time. Broad generalization there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:57 AM
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It does though. You are a women so you don't speak for my or any other guys experience late 20s and up. It is significantly easier to date women. Even young 20s go for it. Sorry but its just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:52 AM
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I will when women lower their standards. Sorry its happened before for centuries where women marry men they aren't attracted too. Now that the roles are reversed gotta do what i gotta do. I can't turn off my bodies desire to procreate. And im sure many women in the future will have husbands who settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:47 AM
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I understand, but better to have something than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:01 AM
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Age - 16, obviously you like fem boys most guys look effeminate in their teens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:05 AM
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Whelp they are screwing themselves. I have to be real. I have settled for almost every girl recently. I have way less motivation to do things in the relationship. It is like a feeling of, if she walks oh well I will find another. When I found a girl I could actually see myself wanting to marry I was incredibly motivated. I couldn't stop thinking of her and wanting to do things for her. But it takes so long to find it and I get lonely while waiting so I settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:53 AM
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If I get a house I 100 percent am hiring a maid. Refuse to do chores. Plus Im sure the girl wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:47 AM
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Yup the settler holds all the power. I have terrible attachment issues and get mad anxiety when I really want someone. Luckily with online dating women always wanna date up. So far every woman has been very sexually attracted to me, but I am settling. They go an extra mile to please you, but it still doesn't stop my boredom. I hate this about myself but idk, it might just be my fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:46 AM
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Social media is the biggest breakdown in society. I honestly get so turned off when I see a girl obsessed with instagram. Sounds exhausting to be with someone like that. Good luck to any man that attempts to tame that beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:41 AM
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Yea Im scared to get married fuck haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:38 AM
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It does matter. People of like status or situations marry people of similar backgrounds. But the thing is no amount of education is going to overcome an ugly face and body for a woman. If a man only had two choices, hot barista or ugly doctor they are way more likely to go for the hot girl and spin off how she is intelligent and open to experiences etc. When beauty is close between options a guy will choose education similar to his. But don't think your phD in physics makes you anymore attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:36 AM
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Same can be said of men. I get incredibly bored with the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:23 AM
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Do you think it is a libido thing? All the girls I have dated want sex a lot and spontaneously. Like at least twice per day. I actually can't keep up. Sometimes I feel women have a stronger libido than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:18 AM
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Im not upset because I haven't seen it be attractive sexually. Big marines or firefighters pull more than doctors. A basic salary is all that matters. I think money is good for women who want to settle down. But guys know that the money does not make them hot. Im sure quite a few would give a lot of money away to have a 10 of 10 face and body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:11 AM
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I think it is simply the more partners you have or options you have the more likely you will cheat. After my first LTR I started dating around more. Now I basically have a very hard time developing feelings for new partners. And women have way more options than men. You just become more numb and less likely to compromise. You would rather move on and go from honeymoon phase to honeymoon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:08 AM
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245 at 5 7 is just way too much. Simplest way to start losing weight is do one meal as like half portion of what you normally would. Then taper down as you keep losing. At 5 7 id say like 170 should be your max weight unless you want to take steroids but why would you want to screw up your body. 150 or 160 is good. A healthy weight shows you have discipline and respect for yourself. Just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:01 AM
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Everyone is probably biased toward this. I personally am just very attracted to east asian women so I think they age really well. But I think it all comes down to a healthy lifestyle and bodyweight. I think if you treat your body badly its going to cause a lot of stress and age you quickly. I think there are people that age well in every race. Just depends on how much you try to keep up your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:49 PM
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If you get to the point you are watching twitch women and cam girls its time to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:18 PM
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Settling because of loneliness, then getting bored until it turns to shit. Then start the cycle again. Strong desires to cheat also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:14 PM
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I disagree. But I think its all about how physically fit someone is. People with less fat look younger and healthier. The fat isn't weighing their skin down. And east asians typically, obviously not always, are slimmer. East asian women to me look beautiful through their 30s. Everyone starts looking like shit in their 40s except celebrities who are photo shopped with good lighting and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:08 PM
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I dont know. When someone is 40 it is pretty obvious with no filters or makeup for men and women. Even mid 30s for a lot. I think the main thing is increased bodyweight. The skin looses elasticity as we age and fat exacerbates this. I think weight is the main factor. And typically east asians have slender figures and healthy diets. In shape people look younger in all races than lards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:05 PM
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God only thing worse than OF is tiktok. Eh instagram is up there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:14 AM
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Not true. Online dating exists. Quite easy. I am an introvert that hates social gatherings. Would rather slit my throat. Have no good pictures at all, and can still find dates. Some of them would be attractive but I have a very specific type and eliminate like 80 percent of girls. And Im not really that attractive. Way easier for me after college actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:02 AM
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Lie about it. Or date a girl in a third world country. So its never too late. Your first sex will be shit, but you can just lie and say its been awhile. First tike sex is usually pretty shit in any beginning of a relationship because you are just starting to learn what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:58 AM
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I dont care to argue you win 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:55 AM
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Both genders do now. People want to live their lives before settling. I think its a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:43 AM
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Ah well I am more introverted overall and love being alone. I also used to game a lot. But I would say generally my hobbies have always tilted more toward male dominated hobbies yea. I would definitely agree that generally guys into really geekier or nerdier hobbies like Magic and table games love women into that stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:39 AM
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I'm a guy, bur let's be real this sub is majority male and the vast majority of threads are chad and his harems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:31 AM
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Pretty simple stuff. I like going to the gym, and researching sports science. I like sports basketball particularly. I also like reading up on stocks and cryptocurrencies, although I generally believe that an personal investor is gambling on individual securities. I think it is still fun to read and discuss about. I am an engineer by profession and generally enjoy reading up on things. Even if they are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:26 AM
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I mean it is more accepted in a sense, but in the end more social and adventurous hobbies are considered more attractive. Staying in and playing 5 hours of fortnite is going to be less attractive than going to the beach or camping. With how much women love instagram it gives them something to get validation from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:15 AM
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Well what do you define as women stuff? If we go by traditional roles then makeup, shoes, celebrity worship, cooking, baking etc, or things nurturing in nature. Female protagonists in masculine roles such as superheros is a non traditional role. And I think many guys just find those hobbies really boring. Though some guys love decorating cakes, or cooking, but its pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:10 AM
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I personally like when a girl has more feminine hobbies. Idk for me it is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:04 AM
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Yep it is true. You are gonna be more fucked if you parade around about gaming, card games, or introverted hobbies. And guys definitely care less about a girls hobbies. So all things being equal a guy that does outdoors or adventurous things, will be seen as more attractive. So people who like having experiences are more attractive than people who dissect or analyze things. Statistically intuitive types are higher in intelligence, but I would venture to say sensor types are more attractive to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:02 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:55 AM
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If it is 1 a week or more sounds just absurd awful. Will slowly break you down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:52 AM
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I don't think it is about decent or not. It is just men and women are slaves to their biology. Women could be attracted to a piece of garbage because he has lots of friends or high social standing for example. Decent doesn't have much to do with it. Generally extroverted men get laid more. They have more social opportunities and most women are attracted to it. Lots of guys here complain, but lots of us on reddit are probably introverted. If you want to get laid more you need to out in effort and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:33 PM
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Dead bedroom you should get out not cheat. That's just being a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:18 PM
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AWALT is guys who never talked to women or rarely. It's obvious if you talk to enough you know all women are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:23 PM
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Unironically please don't do SARMS or any other PED unless prescribed and monitored by a doctor. At the very least every single one is terrible for your liver
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:04 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:56 AM
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It is innacurate. Its a bitter woman angry that guys have options in their late 20s and 30s. All of us guys know its bullshit because we experience it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:50 AM
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Some women love saying that here to make themselves feel better. Any guy can say anecdotally for themselves it is so much easier in late 20s and 30s. Not even close. And girls even 21 year old ones go for it too if that is what you so choose. I agre everyone looks better in 20s. I would say peak for men is like 25. But the status of being older is in itself attractive subconsciously for many women. Whether they want to admit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:41 AM
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Basically. It is just easier once you get older. When you have more options you want to explore more. Whereas if you have gone through many options early you know what you want. So Basically the older guys are playing catchup in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:26 AM
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It would be rich vs poor. And if AI war machines or security ever happens the poor won't win this time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:18 AM
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Its natural in developed nations. Plus we have digital entertainment now. Sometimes I prefer just virtually talking to women. Sad but idk there is more freedom. I think people have mire options and less population is fine. Hopefully AI will pick up the slack of a smaller labor force.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:17 AM
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Yea if you are pretty basically no guy will care or if they have apprehensions they will throw them out the window. Most guys would be lying if they said they would turn down a hot girl just because of tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:54 PM
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You really overestimate how important money is. Firefighters, cops, or soldiers get more women than the hunched back software engineer. Many of us have those hugh earning friends and they can't get girls cuz they don't care about themselves. Money probably matters a little more to older women, but this isn't the 1950s anymore. Most women can support themselves. 99 percent of the population doesn't make vast difference in income. Any job you get a degree in leads to the same middle class life. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:47 PM
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I actually had that mindset when I was younger. It doesn't work and is harmful. Because it puts you in an entitled mindset. If I look this way deserve x, if I get famous I deserve x. It doesn't solve the root of the problem which is simply you are too scared to talk to women and are insecure. Gotta try with women or you wont learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:27 PM
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Well tattoos don't really affect you too much besides making you more polarizing due to stereotypes. But because you don't fit the stereotype probably guys that would have issues with tattoos wouldn't mind as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:18 PM
1

Same can be said about women settling as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:05 PM
1

Average does get hit on but by girls not on their radar. Hence many think they have never been hit on. In reality probably most average guys can remember a time they have been hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:44 AM
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This is why I like online dating. I get swiped or not based on appearance. My bio is basically non existent. It is nice knowing your partner finds you physically attractive. Everyone wants that. I wouldn't want to attract someone initially based on actions because I feel this is how dead bedrooms start. Any ltr i got from online the girl was always sexually attracted which is nice. But yea different guys may feel different. Its just my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:42 AM
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When you have less options its that or nothing. Women settle why can't men too? I guarantee many guys out there are settling now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:29 AM
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The roles are reversing. Men are becoming the dolls. Women will have to accept that their boyfriend or husband may not or never has found them attractive. We can still like u for being sweet or other qualities, but sometimes we gotta make due with the girl not being our preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:27 AM
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My hairy 2 incher
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:19 AM
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To be honest I dont care about the look of them. However, stereotypically women with tattoos seem to be the attention seeking, or adventurous type, thay lives for the now but not the future. I just dont like high energy people, or ones that spend every cent of each paycheck without saving. If she is chill and responsible then it doesn't matter. It is mainly just a stereotype, and stereotypes exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:14 AM
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It's from Always Sunny in Philadelphia
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:17 PM
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I think it's just western people. We aren't settling dow n as early. Plus the illusion of options makes committing long term harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:00 PM
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Yes but what is your spaghetti policy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:58 PM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:47 PM
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Absolutely. Who would waste that much money for an escort. If you want a safer one its gonna cost a lot. In addition yo7 risk being caught in sting operations. No women should give the advice "just pay for it bro" it's a big high cost risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:30 AM
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Nope never met an FDS. Hopefully they weeded me out 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:23 AM
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Never dealt with women like that. I think somehow you are attracted to those types. If I ever deal with an emotional angry wreck I cut contact. That simple. But I rarely if ever even date girls like that, because I think my personality type doesn't click with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:20 AM
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Most people grow up in suburbs. Middle class is not a high status symbol. Normal functioning adults don't talk about or care about income. I can't think of a single person i know that gives a fuck about bobs breaking case or Jans next patient or Joe's new building design. Seriously nobody gives 2 shits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:16 AM
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I think this subs follower count is enough to show it is an abnormal thought pattern. I'm just not delusional enough to think I am normal unlike 90 percent of this toxic sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:16 PM
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Nah men will create artificial solutions. In no world should a physically fit, educated male need to accept an obese high school graduate as a partner. Men won't accept that. AI bots will change everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:52 PM
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Um I dont think normal people are skeptical. More the mentally ill that find themselves referring to dating as a red, blue, or purple pill. You think a normal human being is trying to quantify people into a blanket subset of qualities that they all must adhere by?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:48 PM
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Fatfished 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:54 PM
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Different generations. You can't complain because you are part of the generation that wants equality. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If that is what you want date older. Or wait for a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:49 PM
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Everything sounds good on paper until it isnt. You can think everyone can be athletic but they can't. I played varsity sports on big 5A schools. Some kids just aren't athletic. Not everyone can be athletic. Now if you are talking about having an athletic looking body yes that can be achievable to an extent. But an athletic looking body doesn't mean yiu can run fast, or jump high, or even are strong. And again Bill Gates could have lifted weights and would still be frail unless he took steroids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:14 AM
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Bank is meaningless. As long as you cab support yourself. Women dont need money anymore . Guys are becoming the new trophy arm candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:03 AM
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I think most guys can attest it is way easier as you get older. It isn't bs really. I regularly match with girls 7 to 10 years younger. Max i will pursue is 7 years younger but it really is not uncommon at all. There is plenty into it. Just because you aren't doesn't mean there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:02 AM
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Yup. Enjoy online dating where fitness no longer matters for guys. Enjoy your plus sized whales that truly believe without a shadow of a doubt they deserve men who take care of their bodies. Honestly that is my one solo gripe of online dating. Why is there soooo many fat women not going for fat guys. There is plenty to go around. Instead they are dating up, while guys date down. Now it is such a pain to get dates with normal sized women. Legit every 10 dates 8 would be fat easily. So so fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:57 AM
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Seems like a good place to host the future mass shooters of America. You find me a red piller without anger issues and I will show you Bush did 9/11
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:51 AM
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I would support them in what they excel at. Whether that is music, computer science, art, sports. I think it is narrow to define the need for men to be masculine via physical abilities. Not every man is gonna bw athletic. But responsibility, discipline, hard work can be learned in many different hobbies,clubs, etc. No dad wants to see their sun throw like a pansy, or hear the words "Dad I hate this sport, the kids make fun of me". But sometimes you have ro support them in things they are drawn t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:48 AM
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Idk what boring is. Who gives a fuck. You wanna live a lifestyle that is not what you like to attract the opposite gender? Sounds awful. You could tell me I'm dating the next Jessica Alba tomorrow, all I have to do is download instagram and start taking photos of pointless shit everyday and I would decline. Everyones definition of boring is different. Everyone has different interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:48 AM
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Lol just because your son tries sports doesn't guarantee he will be masculine or good enough to even make a team in high school. You better hope both you and your partner were athletes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:40 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:33 AM
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You right. But I think it's more simply she isn't their type. Move on. Guys blaming niceness as a fault probably have some anger inside, so actually are they nice? I'm a guy, but never have I thought or seen niceness as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:00 AM
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Yes you are right. Kind people generally date kind people. Assholes with assholes. Men love talking about how their niceness is getting them rejected. It just means that girl wasn't interested. And why would you want a girl who likes different personality than you. Must be exhausting keeping up a facade
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:55 AM
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At some point you will realize that nobody gives a shit about your career, accomplishments, or anything past a certain age. Yea young adults and teens and preteens love to do dick measuring contests. Later people with families literally don't give 2 shits. Be nice. Nobody likes the tool that climbed to the top being an ass. Most of the time they are just laughing and talking to eachother about how you are a manchild just like Trump if you act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:48 AM
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Im a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:02 PM
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Social science is not a hard science. And often studies are based on simple, limited sample sizes or statistics assuming normal distribution. I'll trust my own two eyes and experiences with children in broken vs intact homes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:18 PM
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They are. When you have a kid your focus should be putting it first. Your needs and happiness now take a backseat. If you are too selfish to do that, do not have kids. Don't even need studies to see how broken homes, divorce, etc affects kids. Seen it time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:15 PM
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Worked out well for all those nations. None of them collapsed. They are the pinnacle of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:09 PM
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No normal human is going to buy a sex doll. It is a piece of useless plastic. They will however fall in love for a therapy AI bot that lets them have sex with it. Look at replika. It literally is already happening. And that chatbot has huge flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:54 PM
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I truly think so too. Some people are actually dedicated to shitty replika AI chat bots. People actually pay to sext a chat bot. A shitty one at that. If they continue to develop better AI chatting that conforms to someones personality, that listens to all their bullshit, that thinks all their shitty flaws are great, lots of people would rather have that than drama. It is going to happen. Humans can and will fall in love to something that validates them. It is already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:51 PM
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In the case of branch swinging guys or girls both do it if they settled. Hypergamy is present in both genders. A lot of guys won't admit it. If you settle you will always fantasize about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:34 PM
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And you speak for Han culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:58 AM
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K lets break this down step by step. First Do you agree or disagree that "bishonen" is not considered effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:42 AM
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Most Asian guys do not apply moisturizer and shit like you said. Go to those countries. You are generalizing based on white media. Frankly its racist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:29 AM
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Asian boy bands do not represent typical Asian men. Go to one of those countries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:22 AM
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Always has been, always will be status. Case in point Kpop idols and asian guys in general had nothing with women in the US until kpops recent popularity. I know because many of my friends are korean. They hate being fetishized. But it is obvious women are easily influenced by trends. If tattoos of dicks on guys faces became trendy and popular guys would start doing that because women would love it. Fame literally beats every single other trait a guy has. If you are famous you will always have w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:17 AM
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I like the chase so no. The problem is once the chase is done
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:59 AM
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By Mid to late 30s women are seen that way. We can argue about that, but I think plenty of guys even late 30s are setting their age filters lower than 35 maybe even like 32. Women's intrinsic value is youth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:50 AM
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We are physically stronger. Deal better with stress, proven. More assertive. Better able to handle rejection and criticism. No fear of danger if being sexually assaulted. List could go on. I would never swap my gender. I like the feeling if earning something with hard work not having things handed to you. It legitimately gives a great feeling and self esteem boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:38 AM
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Both are terrible. In fact anyone on ppd including myself make terrible partners too. Too much black and white thinking. We are all screwed and most with an ego too big to admit it. What mentally healthy adult would browse this sub or trp/fds? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:33 AM
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What is the point exactly? It is flawed period. Do you want to know why women go through time invested failures of dates. Because their standards are too high. When we are talking about true commitment marriage should be the sole focus. Guys will lie and commit to dating, or even girlfriend boyfriend for as long as it suits them knowing damn well they aren't in to the girl. It is very simple for a girl to see where she stands. If the guy is aggressively pursuing her, trying to take things to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:21 AM
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Its going to fail longer on the guys part if they want to date. Less options and same time invested per person. We are talking people who want to date right? So when a guys date fails he has to wait longer for another option. I am not sure how this is even arguable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:02 AM
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Would you rather have 1000s of options or a couple a week or for some 1 per month? Do you think the women would join an app where they were forced to talk to one guy per week and then either lose the match so they couldn't collect matches, or continue talking to that one guy but limit their options? Of course not. Women have an easier time in dating. Why fuss about it. Both genders have advantages and disadvantages. Whatever who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:51 AM
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You said not date older. First the brain isn't fully developed until 25. Second it is very rare to find a guy in his early to mid 20s that actually ACTUALLY wants to settle down. They may say they do or even think they do but often their mind may change. But first you should gage the guys past to see if he is ready. If the guy has had previous long term relationship experience, and not the type that likes fwb or casual sex would be a great start. Judge that by their past. Second make sure he has…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:34 PM
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Here on reddit I just vent and let out things. This isn't meant to be a humble brag. Anyways I was born rich. I will never need to work a day in my life. But I still did ok and got a software engineering degree by my parents wishes. Hate the work but whatever. In online dating, I never mention my work, income, or things like that. If she asks I just say I make a middle class income. I don't want to be liked for money. Being stable is suffice. Rather be with someone that likes your physical or me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:22 PM
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Ok guys if you are actually nice everything is gonna be fine. People have to accept their personality in one way or the other. If you are getting rejected by girls and you are a legitimate nice guy they aren't for you. But there 100 percent is girls that like sweet guys too. It is cliche but being yourself is better in the long run. If you are a gentle guy why would you ever want a blunt assertive girl who likes guys like that. I really believe in MBTI types and every intuitive feeler matches we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:04 PM
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Let me be honest. Most guys complaining are the entitled type. I also have to admit it will always be a part of me even though I can get laid easier now. But entitled guys want to be so handsome, or rich, or have such high status that women chase them. If guys even average ones try they can get laid. But these guys are complaining because they see how easy some men have it. That is where the whining comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:45 AM
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Show me the numbers. Im all for it but dont believe anything without numbers from a credible source
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:48 PM
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Can you define regularly? Where are you meeting these men that regularly do this? Can literally focus on one guy for 2 months instead of talking to 15 different guys on an app. Would venture to say you can learn quite a bit about them in 2 months to avoid a lot of those scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:27 PM
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I prefer online because I can filter by my type which are non white wome. I have rarely been physically attracted to women in my social circle and refuse to limit myself to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:55 PM
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With the advent of online dating and social media I think the vast majority of men will be dating down. The roles are reversing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:46 PM
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Nothing. That is just lonely guys that want sex. Guys created this problem and only we can fix it. Either male thirst needs to be solved or they need new outlets. As a women there is nothing you can do, just like guys have no sympathy for fat girls. You were born in the best time to be a woman. No reason to not take advantage of it. Edit: I think it is more guys just want the women delusional to how much power they have in the dating space to understand. The reason they keep ranting is when a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:41 PM
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Nope. Only AI sex bots will. Let's see if women push for banning that too. Well I guess guys could move to japan or something if the USA banned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:34 PM
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I prefer the ones that aren't interested and lose interest with ones that are. Either way it sucks one way I have constant anxiety, the other way get bored and want out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:29 PM
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Dont know what that has to do with the purchasing power of a teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:59 PM
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80k is a meaningless number. Cost of living is all that matters. Someone making 80k in AZ or Texas is far better off than someone in CA paying 1 grand per month to live on a couch with 4 roomates in a one bedroom apartment on 80k salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:42 PM
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I guess we can say the same for teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:12 PM
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Lets be real. How many times is that 15 pounds actually 15 pounds? It js really rare a woman should weigh over 160 lbs considering their average height. Just eat less what is so hard about it. It is so much easier to lose weight than gain it. There just seems to be 0, 0 self control
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:06 PM
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Do you think the same applies for men? When I lost my virginity I did not get attached at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:59 PM
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Dude it's gonna suck to hear but get out. She's for the streets and always will be. Downvote me of you want but that girl will cheat 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:52 PM
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Because it is fun at first then gets old quick. It is really exhausting when you have to be in control all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:41 PM
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Its like a practice makes perfect thing. Once youve experienced failure you can grow. One of the benefits of being a guy is you get used to rejection. Once you get over that you may feel more confident or charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:35 AM
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Single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:21 AM
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And mine is they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:31 AM
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No absolutely 100 percent not. In fact if you are too skinny you are fucked. As other guys said face comes first. But you better at least have some mass. So thin could be average, above, or below, it really has no bearing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:09 AM
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Im dating a fatty now. I can still get it up because I have always had a high sex drive and usually masturbate or sex 3 times a day at least. But I have to admit I wont consider marrying her unless she drops 50 lbs. But i know not to bring that up because there will be tears and excuses. I refuse to believe it is that hard to simply skip one meal a day or eat something light on one of the meals you normally would. She is cool, but I just don't get why she doesn't have any pride in her body. Only…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:03 AM
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Any dating app or real world observance ever? Introverted men by and large are not as attractive to women as extroverted men. It isn't about social anxiety or shyness. It is simply due to the fact those men care less about social interaction. Their social status is just inherently lower because they don't care about it as much. It is more of a chore to maintain large social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:55 AM
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No those introverted women actually still prefer extroverted men to "balance" them out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:50 AM
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Our nation is passive and divided. China is extremely nationalistic. It is the circle of empires. The passive ones fall to the nationalistic ones until the nationalistic ones become passive and divided. We will 100 percent lose our power to China. China will allow gene editing, mass artificial intelligence without consent, AI war bots and on top of that billions of people. We are gonna be in huge trouble. Guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:47 AM
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It won't. This country is going the way of Rome. It is so obvious we are morally bankrupt nowadays. The family unit is dying off. I'm not a boomer, but I mean honestly I can see very real dangerous consequences of this online dating era. I predict violent angry men doing deadly things, birth rates declining, and a severely weakened country. China will 100 percent surpass us soon. You should see the insane degree of nationalism. Typically heavily nationalistic nations will conquer the passive nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:42 AM
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That is the easiest way. Guys do that a lot. Lie about long term goals for sex. Hell they may even drag the women along for years knowing damn sure they don't want to commit. If a girl has to keep prying a guy about their future rest assured he does not want it. Follow the guys actions not their words. Also Im a guy, just passing some of the manipulation tactics guys do for sex so women hopefully wise up and avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:15 AM
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Ok so is a woman who had an abortion because birth control failed stupid? Especially if she isn't in a good situation to have a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:41 AM
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And that is what I can agree with. If birth control fails an abortion is fine. So you are not anti abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:38 AM
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My main frustration is those that are pro contraception and anti abortion tend to be judgemental. Like a holier than thou complex yet they are doing things unnatural to humanity save the past century. If you follow it to conclusion technically they are killing the potential of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:31 AM
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I'm not sure, but the dude has had tons of premarital sex with dozens of women before marriage and claims to be Christian. He can kiss my ass on any form of judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:24 AM
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Yea I can see from the atheist perspective. But I don't think they are gonna be the ones opposed to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:21 AM
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But that aligns with their general beliefs. I'm pretty sure catholics don't believe in contraception and that sex is primarily for reproduction. So it makes sense from that standpoint. At least from that perspective it is not hypocritical, I am not sure what mental gymnastics people go through that support one and not the other though. Also Im pro abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:03 AM
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Always confused me when my friend is anti abortion yet fine using contraception. I am gonna argue they are murdering their future children they would have had if they didn't use contraception
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:54 AM
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There are men out there using science (AI sex bots). These will be the men to equalize the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:13 AM
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I think you answered this post perfectly. Should close the thread with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:02 AM
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Anecdotal but I am not attracted to my current fat gf. But my biological clock isn't ticking, so its up to her to leave or not. In the meantime I will get sex at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:56 AM
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Nope. Most of men's attractiveness is born. Their facial bone structure as well as their development during puberty. If you were born ugly or were an obese kid who didn't get enough testosterone during puberty because you were a lazy ass then you are screwed. An in shape guy with a 2 of 10 face is still an ugly guy. Also fame and perceived status is more important than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:54 AM
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Not really but what can ya do anymore. Gotta accept the fatties. Even if you workout frequently gotta accept the fatties. I feel bad for saying I am unattracted to my current fat gf. But I'm not gonna marry her. But I would definitely if she lost 50 lbs. But we all know how that conversation goes. She is awesome, but just way too fat. I don't know why it is so hard to simply eat one less meal a day, but they just refuse to even try. Or their trying is an inconsistent mess where they stay in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:45 AM
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Girls that like kpop I wonder what their age group is. I personally rarely see a late 20s+ girl in to kpop guys. But teens and young 20s love it. Also I would guess Hollywood knows what age group of women to target. Like Bieber is slowly trying to masculinize himself more. Same with Zac Efron. Leo Dicaprio started going for more masculine vibes etc. Just something I'm curious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:39 AM
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I have never met a woman who doesn't date like 4 guys at once. Realized that and started to do the same. Now I never stop looking. A girl that spins plates is usually up front and stops when she locks down a guy. Guys that spin plates usually lie and say they are single. So ladies I would say it is likely your current exclusive partner is spinning behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:29 AM
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Im not MGTOW, and i think any secure guy that has had relationships knows that hypergamy shit is bs. Once you lock a girl down who was sexually attracted to you emotionally she bends over backwards to make you happy. Anyways I think if you are talking to the MGTOW crowd, some may be too poor to pay for sex on a frequent basis. Plus it is illegal so you play with fire. Also getting ons is a lot of constant effort unless you are a male model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:24 AM
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It's a self fulfilling prophecy if you identify yourself as FA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:06 AM
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Its more guys who are incels think they are incels. Really many have big egos and are unwittingly voluntarily celebate. No fat chicks, no uglys, things like that. They refuse to date down. But this attitude just exacerbates the issue long term. They need experience, but refuse to try. I know because that used to be me early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:30 PM
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It is functional in the fact of what are you going to be doing for sports. Olympic strength training is going to translate better to all around athletic performance than bodybuilding. Training for high weight low reps is also gonna be more functional because it helps your CNS adapt. Power has a time component. That is why training for bodybuilding alone is not necessarily beneficial. You are not working on applying that maximum force in minimum amount of time. You can compare it in any sport Foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:38 PM
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Guys especially when we are younger can be dumb. If you are late teens or early 20s trust me all you have to do is try. Looking back I realized my standards were insanely high. Anything less than a 9 didn't register to me. If you want a relationship just try, and be realistic. Maybe you do date down, but its better to get the experience earlier than later. I wasted a lot of time due to my ego. Dont let your pride be your downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:08 PM
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Reach of what? Like are you talking fighting? I don't understand what reach has to do with strength? If we are talking fighting then same weight taller has a striking advantage, shorter has a wrestling advantage. It is rare to see someone with Tommy Hearns physique in an MMA weight class. It is far too skinny for fighting but good for boxing. Tall and lanky is not good in a pure fighting standpoint. Only in controlled sports like boxing, kickboxing, etc where they can't be taken down. There is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:50 PM
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In your opinion it is 80 percent of your life. Dont put your values on other people. There are many people that love hobbies or their work more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:29 PM
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Yea intermediate. It is like 6 months worth of training
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:49 AM
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Women don't understand so many hollywood buff guys and instagram models are using steroids. This is a much more dangerous beauty standard than asking women to be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:24 AM
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Yep 100 percent male only. I'm sure guys on here have NEVER experienced women checking out of relationships. Yup just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:21 AM
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She shouldn't be confident in the same weight class at all. Second being smaller does not mean weaker. Tall skinnyfat guys are very very weak. And no I'm not a salty short guy, I'm pretty tall and larger than average I work out a lot. But that is why I know you can't judge based on things like that. But if you do you should be looking at things like shoulder width, general frame size, and body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:19 AM
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Nah not true at all. Its more about body type not height. Ectomorphs are just physically weak in general. Especially if they have no muscle tone then they are probably walking around at like 20 to 25 percent body fat. I'm not even short, but I lift a lot and know not to underestimate short stocky guys. They are VERY strong. Body type is way more important than height
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:12 AM
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Equal height and weight under equal training its nit gonna happen. Well maybe, and I mean maybe by cutting her lifespan and injecting hormones and using steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:53 AM
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I think we are confusing functional strength with power output here. What they mean is just because you lift a lot does not mean it correlates to athletic performance in terms jumping, sprinting, things like that. This component depends on biomechanics, muscle types, and CNS development. As an athlete it is always important to strength train, but that strength also needs to be supplemented with CNS training in your sport. Thus if you are training for a sport and only lifting weights, or strongma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:37 AM
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Benching 1x your bodyweight is a very low standard of strength
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:32 AM
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Yes they do sooooo badly. Women even ones that workout can barely lift the bar. They think their arms are buff when it is just fat. They scientifically have 50 percent less muscle mass in the upper body. Women, particularly ones who workout vastly overestimate their physical strength. Most guys can bench more than a women can deadlift or squat. It is a world of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:24 AM
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Never. Just never. Plus she won't even be sexually attracted to you even if you had a 9 inch 🍆. She would still deep down want the tall masculine guy with less personality and a smaller 🍆. It's like asking if a 200 lb girl with giant tits and a great personality is gonna be preferred over a flat chested girl with a beautiful face and only cares about instagram. Humans generally go for attractive people first. Date in your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:20 AM
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Yea I mean us guys should be more grateful for life in general. We have basically every advantage, but we are weak in relationship area. Not just dating, but friendships too. Naturally we prefer a bit more isolation, but this means we get less emotional support. Overall I think life is just better as a man because you get a certain sense of pride in working for and choosing your destiny that women don't really get.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:14 AM
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That is just human nature. Guys and girls both get exhausting in relationships. Difference is a guy out of your league will string you along sometimes years then bail when marriage is pressured. And time is always ticking, so a few of those and next thing you know you are 35. And let's face it nobody likes getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:58 AM
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I disagree, but I'm a guy. I think it is easy to prove. Just have a poll for women, where guys rate their attractive scale since guys rate on a normal distribution. Then look at the matches she gets and who she actively talks to. Have the guys rate those men. I think a lot of younger guys are working out more, plastic surgery is rising for men, younger kids steroid use rising. Meanwhile women are just getting so lazy and fat. It is very hard to find a woman at a healthy bmi. And obesity is risin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:52 AM
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Yea. Also younger guys tend to have very high standards. They are looking for trophies and are scared their boys will judge them. Lots of guys would rather not try than get rejected or date an uggo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:17 AM
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For the underprivileged red head bros out there. Gimme your over under this girl weighs more than 160 lbs at less than 5'6? Starting line is -200. Dm me your bet and Ill adjust the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:46 AM
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For a guy it is a huge hit. How many legit readhed men are displayed as sex symbols? How many red head guys are displayed as sexy in movies? Hell look at how people call them gingers or other terms. It is a pretty big hit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:43 AM
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Yea I think that is true. Most male virgins dont try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:35 AM
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No not really. A lot of guys try to get status for women. But status for the sake of status no. Women like status more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:59 AM
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Under your assumption of sentient AI most jobs would be obsolete therefore the need for young generations would be quelled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:05 AM
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I mean wouldn't it be good from a population control standpoint. Seeing as hoe the earth is under massive stress from waste and pollution from over population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:03 AM
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Guys don't really need status. The sex is about feeling valued and intimacy. If a bot was on the same level of intelligence as that in the movie Her, and it looked similar to a human female I think many incels would be more than happy with the bot. Plus maybe it could be designed with therapeutic goals and help them with sexual energy as well as soothe and treat their mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:59 AM
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My argument was that in general or statistically speaking the extroverted hobbies are going to be perceived as more attractive to the majority of women. Would you agree or disagree? It doesn't have to be online profile either. It could be a simple study showing a statistically large enough sample size of women. I would be willing to bet my life savings the photos showing outgoing hobbies will be perceived as more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:23 AM
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So if I made a profile of the same guy. One shows him on his computer and reading a book. The other shows him hiking or at the beach with friends which one do you think would be more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:11 AM
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Uh then why does the meme of over assertive Karen's exist? I think personality type has a lot more to do with it than Testosterone. There are a lot of passive athletes. Dr. J, Pau Gasol, Derrick Rose, Jerry West. Do you think they have/had low T?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:02 AM
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I would say though that the average guy needs to expose himself to as many options as possible because average guys are basically forced to play a numbers game. If they want to meet women or gain experience dating it is limiting to do introverted hobbies. Extroverted hobbies are generally seen as attractive to women while introverted ones are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:49 AM
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This advice is generally good, but oftentimes I think it paints a black and white picture of improving yourself. Like improving yourself in introverted or isolated ways such as researching, reading, taking classes while working, or saving large sums of money for financial independence is not seen as attractive as traveling, hiking, camping, or things of that nature. I mean hiking can be fun but am I really improving myself as much as if I learned a new language or took classes for better job pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:32 AM
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Yea age can be a part too, so that is another possibility. Can't know for certain, but it seems you are introspective. I'm sure you will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:16 AM
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It doesn't mean you are necessarily unattractive. Could be other things too like education level far below theirs or in someway they feel they have a significant upper hand especially if they are doing that on first dates. Dont beat yourself up I am sure you are fine. Remember you are the only thing you can control. Try to change something that is causing you to find or seek men like this. Whether consciously or subconsciously. Unless of course that is what you want. Edit: ps I have a few doctor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:07 AM
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Yea listen to this. Somehow you are picking these types of guys. Look at the patterns and find out why. And no this is not normal behavior at all. I can't think of any of my friends or me doing that so early. Not only is it creepy but also opens up to sexual assault allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:02 AM
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It's the opposite. Guys dating someone they perceive on their level or greater will be afraid to mess things up. If she is what he perceives as below it is easier to be more forward because there is less fear of loss. Basically if they are overly forward it is the mindset I have nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:58 AM
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Yup I feel that. Honestly being single has a lot of positives after you have experienced what settling in a relationship is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:03 PM
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I have met 2 irl that I would have been very happy to be with. Unfortunately I messed them up when I was more inexperienced. My type is skinny to average asian women, with at least a bachelors degree, and more on the introverted side. Those are just like the criterion to get a match I want in online dating. Call me a fetishist or whatever but physically I like what I like. My area is much more populated with white and latina women so I swipe left probably 80 percent of the time. When I spam swip…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:00 PM
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I have options, but struggle very hard to find my specific type. Could realistically get laid every weekend if I wanted, and could very easily can get in LTR. Some of the girls would be considered good looking, but they are not my type. I have tried settling outside of this type many times, but always fantasize about what I really want. At this point I am fine being single if it means I don't settle. Settling is a soul sucking ordeal worse than being single ever could be. Mainly just here to ven…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:51 AM
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The thing guys should note is when they are in their home country such as the USA, how often were those Asian girls swiping on them. Basically you are unique in their country, but when they move here you are no longer unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:34 AM
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Lol indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:25 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:18 AM
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Yes we all know women like degenerate styles. Tattoos, hair that looks like a birds nest, piercings, drag clothes. Not everyone wants to dress as toolish as possible just to attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:17 AM
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I do think AI bots will help lonely or anxious people in the future. Some people already are addicted to AI chat bots. If they could come close to humans many incels etc will have an outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:14 AM
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Yes but the difference is with great power comes great responsibility. Any girl can get sex easily. Any size, facial structure etc. There will always be a man wanting to fuck her. Its off putting for someone to let themselves be used like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:14 AM
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Action speak louder than words. Any older guy knows how easy it is to get girls later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:45 AM
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This is basically it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:29 AM
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I think women have crazy high sex drives if they are attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:16 AM
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Like ONS, frequent casual encounters that involve sex. Basically consistently fucking outside a relationship. Many guys prefer the stable girl that dated long term in the past if they want marriage. Casual sex can be like a drug and makes it harder to commit later because of nostalgia on many frequent Casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:12 AM
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Nah you can look it up. I'm not gonna argue about it. It is pretty self explanatory, and also easily observed in the real world. But you can keep deluding yourself to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:34 PM
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Yea but Introvert in general have higher IQ, especially Introverted intuitives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:08 AM
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Your types aren't that far off. Usually the n/s and f/p are parts that are incompatible. Like an F with a T because the F will feel the T is blunt or the T thinks F is too sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:07 AM
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I think realistically best are same type pairings because less chances of resentment long term. But introvert introvert often may take too long to open up and think they arent compatible at first. But intro extro can be exhausting or anxious for the partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:02 AM
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AI bots or prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:55 PM
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Zuckerberg is not attractive right? Now imagine if he dressed with dumb shit and had tat sleeves like mac miller or mgk. All of the sudden girls will think he is sexy. Women love degenerate styles. Second fame and status are more attractive than money. The biggest factor is fame. There are a lot of famous dudes who you know are nothing special compared to the local chads at your gym, but girls think they are hot. I guarantee if zuck or some other ugly tech bro dressed with "swag" and actively tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:09 PM
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Guys remember these words. Always go for mid to early 20s women. You have a chance until about 35. If it is too late date overseas. You have many options to avoid the stacy trap. ❣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:42 AM
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I think it depends on compatibility. Like if you date a guy later and he isn't in to that past just be upfront and honest. Some guys will be turned off by it and others may be fine. You are free to do as you please, but if a guy brings up your sexual past just be honest if you aren't ashamed of it. There are absolute guys that will be turned off by it but if you have a lot of casual sex those guys arent the ones you would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:21 AM
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Because you are trying to say that even though pete davidson had status that so did Arianna. I am telling you that pete davidson could get a girl just as hot in a college bar. You think guys are attracted to status but we aren't at all. Arianna grande is no better than a local waitress and the local waitress is probably more chill too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:31 AM
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You are correct it is not all about looks. Status, money etc also help significantly. I think guys just fantasize or wish they were part of the top .5 percent tall, muscular, perfect face that actually don't need to put in any effort. But those guys are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:43 PM
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She is right in this case. Pete Davidson would do terribly on dating sites. He is like a 6 max. But she neglected he had higher social status than 99% of males. Its why guys like ryan gosling are considered super hot even though you can walk down the street and see better looking guys. Status creates a halo effect for males attractiveness to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:38 PM
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Yup you have to pass the attraction threshold which is primarily the face which cannot be changed. You have to get the swipes first, and the left swipes happen before reading the bio or getting to know them. Body photos can help if you are going for trashy one night stand types though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:32 PM
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Yea Im not trying to insult you Im sure you are great. I'm just saying I think we rate people higher if they are more attractive than us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:27 PM
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Average 5-6, some 7s and 8s sprinkled in. Probably lots of personality disorders similar to the red pill. Borderlines, narcissists, the like. Or just struggled with men growing up. Would probably say the same about this subreddit for both guys and girls. Some sort of deep anger or anxiety toward the opposite gender that needs to be resolved through personal growth. At least it let's them vent which can healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:11 PM
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Sounds exhausted. Yoga, dancing, cooking, baking, other useless shit. Rather spend time learning skills that produce monetary value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:58 PM
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If you think most are a 7 you might be lower than a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:52 PM
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I can walk down college avenue and see many women just as beautiful as arianna. No guy cares about a woman's status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:05 PM
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The all guys want is sex is a product of either youth where both genders don't care to settle down generally, or men dating women below their standards. If a man sees you as his equal or greater majority of the time he will simp for you to the end of the earth. No average guy would leave the hot sorority chick, popular high school girl, etc if they had the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:05 PM
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Uh men did have the power you know exactly the power we had and we deemed it immoral. Men have given up a lot of their power and in general do fight for equality. This current dynamic is not technically fair. Reasonably is it fair? I think based upon history if the situation was reversed men would eventually work to make the situation fair for women. Who knows the time frame but I think they would eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:55 PM
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Pete Davidson had some form of high status beforehand you do know that? Pete Davidson without some sentience of fame is in a left swipe wasteland on online dating. Also I guess it depends on what you are referring to. Online dating or in person? I think online represents the highest standards women filter men on so I will refer to online dating as it is an environment the woman feels no pressure socially and not threatened. Why dont you make a profile of a legit 3 or 4 and see what their results…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:31 PM
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Yes in dating but you have to get through the front door first. Nobodies personality shows through texting, and what self respecting guy puts their income on their profile? The issue is getting in. Those other variables (personality, income) are passed over based on a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:35 PM
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There are things you can do to get in the 9 range. Anabolic steroids or plastic surgery, but I don't recommend that. Just gotta be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:09 AM
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Yea also a 10 guy is probably fine dating a 7 to 8 girl if she is less maintenance than a 9 10 girl which could be exhausting. I'd say mainly you are competing with 7 to 10 guys just to get a 7. Good news is you are in the upper range so I wouldn't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:47 AM
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Um I wouldn't move. You can just talk online to boost confidence. Lots of asian and latinas in other countries are beautiful and slim. At the beginning of the pandemic using tinder felt amazing. Like non stop matches in southeast asia and china. I would consider it, but only after I exhausted my options here first. I still get my chances local but it takes way longer. But if you can't get any chances then yea go for it. Who cares if american women put you down for it. Maybe if they lose weight a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:26 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. Nobody stays hot forever and that wallet starts getting more attractive as they get older. Imagine you have the option to date a 7 of 10 or 10 of 10. The 7 can buy you things, you never worry about the expenses on vacations and can travel frequently vs. Penny pinching with the 10. Which logically is the better choice? Not only that which emotionally makes you feel more secure and excited? All you have to do is look at the real world to see average income hottie i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:28 AM
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Its the biological clock more than anything. Notice how lots of 20 year olds don't give 2 shits, then late 20s and 30s comes around. Guys start greying, getting fat or balding. Women go grey, get wrinkles earlier because of thinner skin, and fatter. At some point it's I gotta start dating before I become used milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:05 AM
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Good perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:44 AM
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Im just explaining a perspective thats all. You were asking why mainly men are going with women they aren't attracted to I am telling you possible reasons. Nobody is trying to make you feel bad for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:21 AM
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It's just a different set of challenges for guys and girls. In the past maybe girls were the ones that settled on attraction. Now women have many options with online dating becoming the norm and guys have to settle. It only gets worse, but humans are meant to be social and want to reproduce. It is basically settle on attraction which is a guys primary focus (youth, fertility), or die alone. And as much as we say stay single, isolation is very dangerous to humans. I think there is gonna be a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:52 AM
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I personally agree yes as a guy. It's like the girl has a constant or increasing drive, and I start getting bored and experience wanderlust. I think it is biological. Guys spread their genes with as many women as possible etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:47 AM
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The average american woman is fat too. The thing is guys that workout and have good physiques are starting to have to accept fat girls. You have the option not to accept that. Many guys don't. I am sure a fat girl could show her profile on here and show hundreds of likes from very in shape guys who just want quick sex because they are rarely matching with their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:11 AM
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Its ok to think that. But if I had to absolutely stake my life on it I am positive that a 7-8/10 male is going to match with on average 6 and below females generally and a few 7s or 8s sprinkled in rarely. It would be easiest if women posted their faces or profiles then showed the guys they matched with to get mens general consensus on if she is in the league of her matches. This mainly applies to 6 and below women. 7+ women are generally attractive to most all guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:03 AM
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I have noticed girls typically catch mad feelings after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:41 AM
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Spark means nothing to me anymore lol. It is more like instant attraction or butterfly feeling. I think like more rational now. How they act, their career, other things that seem beneficial to a relationship. Spark dissappears in like a few months then the real shit comes out, and Im tired of wading through shit months down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 12:49 AM
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You can't think of a single girl that doesn't have that problem? Not one? Girls like to shop around too. When you have many options you want the best. I have noticed many familiar female faces on apps. There are girls that won't commit I promise you. Plenty of girls that delete and remake their profiles over and over and over because they arent satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:56 PM
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Absolute power corrupts absolutely. It is easy to judge, but when it is that easy it is hard for a guy/girl to rationalize settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:37 PM
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Generally maybe slightly better. But this is only within slightly overweight range. Neither gender looks good 20+ lbs overweight. And with age it looks even worse on both
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:05 PM
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Clearly you have little empathy for womens struggles. Its not about who has it worse. I think a parent would want the best for their kid regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:55 PM
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Obviously not, but having children with a 350 lb samoan you would think there is quite a few generations in their genetic pool that led up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:28 PM
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You are looking at it from a reproduction standpoint. Many very tall women are constantly insecure same with very large ones. The question is about the childs well being, not about your thoughts on their chances to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:24 PM
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Ok mental aspects also make sense yea. I have thought of that too. Sometimes I find myself thinking of possible negatives of having kids with someone so at least I know others could be anxious too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:44 AM
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I wouldnt say its about you the parent so much as wanting the kid to have less physical obstacles in life. I think people wouldn't admit it, but if genetic engineering becomes a thing in the future the parents will try to screen for the traits they think will give their kid an edge. It is a reason people fear rich people could make genetically "superior" babies. I have no strong feelings about my question. Was just curious and think I have gained some insights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:36 AM
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Lol well I wish you good fortune. Hope you find that ginger guy someday ! Edit: if you haven't already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:10 AM
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Depends on age and stage in life. Like early mid or even late 20s you might feel no pressure to settle down but are open to that possibility someday after you have explored enough in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:06 AM
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So its more like you feel you are subconsciously attracted to traits you think makes the best offspring for yourself. I think that kinda makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:02 AM
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So you do think of possible traits inherited, but not necessarily the negative possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:57 AM
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Its not about assumptions of fact, its about possibilities to the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:31 AM
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It is very easy actually. I really do believe in MBTI personalities. I am one of the more feminine personality types as a guy but am really touchy, emotional, and intimate. I am dating a girl with a very soft personality type. We have sex many times. Just be yourself. Trying to be a stubborn, type a personality does not always work for all women just like it wouldn't for all guys. Can you not think of times you are talking to a women and their personality type is a huge turnoff? It is the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:01 AM
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As a guy romantic attraction is like this girl is within my attraction preference where you aren't embarrassed to let your friends know. Same with smart enough etc. Basically if you meet friends it means you are seen as at the very least an equal. Sexual attraction is basically almost anything depending on how horny and how long of a dry spell its been.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:24 AM
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For any younger guys this don't listen to this it is 100 percent false. It gets substantially easier when you hit late 20s and 30s as a guy. My options have been increasing significantly. Any young guy that is discouraged and actually tries to improve themselves for the future I promise you it gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:56 AM
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I dont believe in a strictly alpha male. Guys shift roles in varying aspects of life. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Being successful with women does not equate to success in other areas. A handsome male model cashier will make women develop far more feelings than a gremlin surgeon or an ugly dude like jeff bezos. This doesn't just apply to women though. No guy is great at everything and will yield to expertise in fields they arent comfortable in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:09 PM
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I would guess if they are in the mood yes, but a dick pic is unlikely to put them in that mood. I would say secondary sex traits are way more important. Its like would you prefer the girl with big breast with a 2/10 face or 10/10 flat chest girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:02 PM
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Guys we are the problem period. Until you stop swiping right on everything inflating womans egos this happens. I only match with people I am attracted to. If you dont get matches try outside hobbies. It is not worth it to date let alone fuck someone outside of your legitimate standards. Just jack off instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:33 PM
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Honestly I like the casual sex option when I was younger and still struggle to not want that option. If I am being honest the only reason I feel like settling is because i know my body is aging. I prefer my own company mainly, and any relationship I have been in has eventually bored me. I like the novelty of new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:19 PM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 08:10 AM
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