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Dozens of clubs do this out of 3,823. Not something men should care about tvh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:55 PM
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Never seen that in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:09 PM
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Every single RPW I know serves mens Imperative at the expense of their own comfort and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:29 AM
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FDS are not feminist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:27 AM
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FDS serves women's imperative RPW serves mens imperfective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:26 AM
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I've never in my life seen a club that does that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:56 AM
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You should ask this question on a sub with sexually active men tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:33 AM
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Are you talking about oxytocin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:58 AM
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Does it not ruin men's pair bonding ability?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:15 AM
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Clubs and bars always seem pretty balanced put for both genders IME. Although some genres do attract more men (dubstep for example). I'm from the UK so things might be different here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:27 PM
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Something doesn't add up. You can cheat on essays and get someone else to do them, but it would be pretty hard to cheat on exams (which afaik make up a lot of the credits).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:24 PM
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I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:23 PM
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No idea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:48 PM
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How did she complete a degree? Don't they have exams and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:45 PM
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And ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:27 PM
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I just block them. Nothing constructive can come out of discussing cultural expectations/dynamics with people from completely different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:37 PM
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My IG is predominantly plants, my cat, gig pictures and my kid. I think I have three as selfies done in the same sitting on there. When I used to have FB I would share political posts, memes, ask practical questions and share party pictures. So yeah, I think you can gauge what type of person I am from SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:35 AM
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'frothing at the gash*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:54 AM
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I have no idea, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:52 PM
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Basically yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:20 PM
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Ide fuck the chad till I met someone suitable (and attractive) for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:08 PM
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I'd pick the former and keep things casual with him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:53 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:55 PM
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Two things: Go porn free (but still wank to imagination), not Vidya, become amazing at something (DJ or start a band), Ide go partying every weekend and build a huge friend group and put on parties myself and I'd hit on women that were my looks match. Also go porn/Vidya game free but focus on a decent career, save up money and get some plastic surgery to enhance my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:54 PM
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Why not neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:12 PM
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When did you first feel attracted to people or get a crush? I recall seeing a Spiderman poster and feeling arousal. My first crush was a boy a few years older who didn't feel the same way. When did you have your first romantic experience or relationship? First relationship was just before I was 16 When did you encounter pornography? Saw glimpses of potato quality porn around 13, saw my first proper video around 18? When did you lose your virginity? A few weeks before 16th birthday When did you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:47 PM
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If that were true all men would go around raping and fighting/killing each other en masse - as violence is aggression and aggression is masculine. People have autonomy and can consciously decide how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:41 PM
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Of course. Sociosexual people should date other sociosexual people. Or she could just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:31 PM
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Why? Why can't men exercise good aspects of masculinity but not bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:30 PM
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Watch what men do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:19 PM
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What if I do anal from the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:39 PM
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Seriously, I get them five times a day and they're only vaguely related to the comment I've made.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:36 PM
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My ex just googled 'escorts in X city" and it took him to a bunch of sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:33 PM
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I assumed she meant screen grabbing his profile picture and number then texting it to her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:32 PM
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Really? I've never heard that before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:23 AM
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No, I'm not. How you want to be treated by your sexual partners is not the same as how you want to be treated by every single man. I'm regards to catcalling, not the 'objectifying' music videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:14 AM
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How dare you make it difficult for me to rape you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:10 AM
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Hmm.. What you call the female awxual Revolution also meant that men could have no strings/ pre marital sex which benefitted them. I think the current sex positivity benefits men by allowing them to be more open about polygyny and different kinks as well has homosexuality/bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:08 AM
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How long ago are we talking? Things haven't changed that much in 15 years IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:03 AM
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I like it when my man slaps me on the butt whilst I'm cleaning the house, and I like it when he puts he pulls me towards him in public to kiss him. Does that mean I should let everyman do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:01 AM
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I work with autistic kids, they're some of my favourite people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:52 AM
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Do you have a link? I can't find one on Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:51 AM
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That sucks, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:50 AM
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Yes, it is. You should probably leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:49 AM
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Why would she ask men this question lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:48 AM
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The drink thing is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:47 AM
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Why? Do men not have autonomy? Are they not capable of exercising their masculinity in a good way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:47 AM
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They don't grasp the basic concept of toxic masculinity. It refers to a SUBSET of masculine traits, it is not an expanded noun phrase. My current boyfriend is gentle, cute and kind but he's also a jock and can exercise his aggression and competitiveness in a non toxic way. My last boyfriend was also very sweet and gentle (and actually VERY emotional if I'm honest) he was also incredibly ambitious, high T and a risk taker. My first boyfriends only masculine traits were being aggressive and domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:46 AM
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Ide happily be a pet cat for some hot guy. I do fuck all and get free food and endless attention on my terms - what's not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:41 AM
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The idea that tin foil can stop the government from reading your mind is wild speculation. The act of using these precautions to ensure a man can be arrested if something bad happens is not wild speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:18 AM
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That is being responsible? She's taking precautions to mitigate the chance of being harmed in a way that has ZERO negative impact on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:10 AM
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Aren't guys on here always telling women to be responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:01 AM
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So women don't fuck and date men with positive masculine traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:54 AM
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There's a really good, safe male contraceptive. It's called a fish in a profile picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:53 AM
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What's the problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:51 AM
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We're talking about Photoshop and how in can airbrush skin to look perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:48 AM
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Google 'pores' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:38 AM
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I'm not sure how I can write it in a more explicit way .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:35 AM
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Having no pores
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:29 AM
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No it just smells horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:06 AM
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If men are naturally polygynous, is there any point in marrying them at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:58 AM
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Pores are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:47 PM
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I've never actually heard them talk about what they want sexually tbh, outside of they want to enjoy it. I just think it's bizarre that wanting a decent man means wanting a sexually submissive man. I'm sure you know from experience, sexually dominant men have all kinds of personalities outside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:12 PM
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First time I've actually been down about covid since the first time it started. Hmmph.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:06 PM
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It's not an attack - there's absolutely nothing wrong with being ESL (in fact I think it's very admirable). However, you can't comprehend what I'm saying and vice versa. So there's not much point in discussing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:02 PM
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I can't have this conversation with you as your English is too bad. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:52 PM
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Closet gays or asexuals. If the opposite gender icks you put, the opposite gender is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:50 PM
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They do things for others benefit all the time, just not eating out women. I don't understand it in the slightest, no matter how hard I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:47 PM
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Well apparently there's entire nationalities who don't want to eat out women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:45 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:38 PM
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They need to change their entire product lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:25 PM
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As if toxic masculinity is only about certain behaviors that you women and feminists deem bad. No, men are the ones effected by being emotionally crippled by being overtly 'stoic". Men are also effected by violence and sexual assault. The toxic aspects of masculinity hurt everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:16 PM
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One would think you guys hate capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:40 PM
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No idea what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:29 PM
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I'm a slut for energy drinks !
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:07 PM
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Or they 'top from the bottom' and find a man who's sexually dominant on HER terms. Lots and lots of BDSM folks are hardcore feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:58 PM
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Bleuurgh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:56 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:56 PM
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Nope. Lots of big brand catwalk models have unusual pigmentation and unusual/deformed facial features. Barbie and the fashion industry also have shorter women, women with stretch marks and different body types
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:48 PM
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Ehh..people talk and very very occasionally that leads to numbers being swapped. The culture of men deliberately talking to strangers in queues etc with the intention of swapping numbers is very very low IME. The only time I've seen it happen was (I think) 2008 when a mutual friend of mine met his gf by sitting next to her on a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:16 PM
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The irony. If there was ever a pussy deterrent, axe/linx is exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:47 PM
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Oh yeah. Most IG thots have had dental work, Botox/fillers and an insane work out/ skincare regimen. Of course some women are naturally gifted, but they're rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:33 PM
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Of course. This Op Was specifically addressing 'beauty standards" so that is what I expanded on. To put it succiently, men own and control most of media, it appeals to the male gaze and the beauty standards are often unattainable to women - which makes them feel shit about it. Women themselves internalise this and push these unattainable standards themselves on to other women. We're all to blame, and it unequivocally needs to be addressed and mitigated. Maybe media have done all the research abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:29 PM
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Yes, but beauty standards are more intensive for women. Shaving genitals, looking younger than they are, body shapes that can only be changed artificially etc. I'm not denying that men don't have standards to adhere to physically, but it's not even close to women's. Plus it's ultimately men who "run' most corporations and the media, so the male gaze trump's the female gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:13 PM
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Yeah. But that point of views blames men anyway in the end. Standards that we don´t have at all. It's everyone's fault, but ultimately it benefits men because Hollywood etc caters to the male gaze, not women's. And men will always opt for the women who shaves and adopts typically attractive feminine aesthetics over a woman who does very little to look good So for a woman to succeed in the RMP, she has to do shit like shave her armpits,. Wear makeup etc - otherwise she's at the bottom of the pile…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:01 PM
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Err, not quite. The feminist perspective is that women, as well as men (society in general) perpetuate unrealistic body standards for women. And that women, as well as men, Stoke 'misogyny". It's all changing though! Lots of female directors have come out of the Woodworks and Kate Winslet has refused to have her body modified on her new series and in posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:37 PM
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The media starts it, women aspire to it and men (naturally) chose those women over lesser-looking women. We're all at fault really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:12 PM
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It's not just about plus size women. Body positivity encompasses women with non-idea fat distribution, short women, women with stretch marks, women with non-ideal skin etc. Basically a backlash against taking normal women and photoshooting their faces slimmer, airbrushing their natural skin and shrinking their waist and enlarging their butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:57 PM
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No one's blaming men ffs. The 'blame' lies in media, Hollywood and the fashion industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:55 PM
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It usually applies to teenagers and younger women. As you grow up you're bombarded with images of women that look a certain way that is NOT attainable. Whether it's surgery or Photoshop. Subsequently, they feel shit about themselves and there we have large swarves of teenage girls with body dysphoria and self esteem issues that manifest as depression and all sorts. No one is blaming MEN - the blame lies in society who play along with this and perpetuate it. This is exactly why body positive is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:54 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:49 PM
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Yeah, seems similar. I'm not actually in London but I've lived in the countryside and another city. IME people will chat to you at the bus stop, say good morning on a walk in the country and shop keepers will make conversation with you. What I DONT see is men cold approaching women in public places to any success. However I see cold approaching white frequently in clubs/pubs etc and I've seen it happen successfully (it's how several of my sexual encounters have happened). The distinct difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:47 PM
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Sounds similar to UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:15 AM
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The bat-shit insane corners of the internet do not exemplify real life culture or real life normalities
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:06 AM
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Something I only found out about a year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:34 AM
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A non virgin male is not “deflowered” or “used” yet a female is, the men complaining that non virgin women are somehow changed by men fucking them is interesting. It ties into the notion that male sexuality is destructive & defiling. In the fifties and outside the west, sure. This sub is focused on the modern sexual/ relationship marketplace. In the anglosphere and western Europe. No one views virginity and n count like this anymore. As long as you're not a literal prostitute/porn start or you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:30 AM
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UKF. Dinner dates aren't really a thing (especially from OLD) and people tend to go to the pub together. Going Dutch is the norm and waiting for sex is definitely not the norm. (Far less religious and puritan to our American counterparts). Outside of high school - n count isn't really a thing. It's a given that most millenials and zoomers hook up or have fuck buddies when they're single. Unless you explicitly say you are keeping it 'casual" with a new date/sexual partner - it's a given that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:11 AM
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No, people need to understand English grammar better. Or at the very least RESEARCH the phrase and find out what it is about. It is Not an expanded noun phrase, the 'toxic' describes a subset of masculinity that is toxic. Masculinity can manifest itself in extremely positive ways, but also extremely negative ways. The negative aspects need to be addressed because those are the ones that are detrimental to men and the rest of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:46 AM
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No, people just don't understand English grammar very well. Toxic masculinity was always a subset of masculinity, not an expanded noun phrase to describe the entire noun. When I say 'I hate shitty movies' I'm not describing ALL movies as shit, I'm saying I don't like it when they are shit. Likewise - when someone says 'toxic masculinity" they are SPECIFICALLY referring to the aspects of masculinity that are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:42 AM
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So it's not the having sex that makes them stupid, it's the having unsafe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:40 PM
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Yet these things exist in countries where prostitution is fully legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:37 PM
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Honestly I would lie and just say it happened a couple of times and I'm a bit inexperienced. Then the taboo isn't there but she won't freak out if you cum too quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:22 PM
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Before 17 = possibly bad at making longterm decisions How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:21 PM
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Women literally froth at the gash at an Irish accent - no matter the nationality. They also seem to like French, English and Italian. Personally I love the Scottish accent, the Irish accent and many South America/Mediterranean accents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:46 PM
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He gave examples though!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:32 PM
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There's more cuckolds than cuckqueens. The latter is barely heard of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:30 PM
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I was prompting you to expand but nm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:27 PM
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A post for the wall of fame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:27 PM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:23 PM
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u/smurfesmurferson
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:10 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:09 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:07 PM
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No. Women don't want to see men they like (but aren't dating) canoodling with other women. Very few relationships are open, and a lot of those don't actually work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:06 PM
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No. Learn English.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:58 PM
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Are you really denying that a large majority of women are ok with open relationships? Have you not seen women doing bat-shit crazy things because their bfs/hubbies were canoodling with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:45 PM
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So is my what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:38 PM
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So if you were in a love with a guy, you saw him as a strong caretaker, alpha, ideal longterm partner, whatever - and he said 'I have sexual urges you may not be able to fulfill. I love you. I promise to be respectful and clean, but I refuse to let my marriage end because of a bodily function I can barely control, therefore I'm not going to set a precedent of being 100% faithful. Can you accept that?' you would tell that guy to go fuck himself? I would laugh and ghost hom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:36 PM
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Pointless anacdote. This doesn't apply to about 99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:34 PM
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Imagine having a step dad that slags you off online every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:26 PM
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Looool, this is one for smurfies hall of fame. Women are super possessive of their men and will often go hulk-mode when they sniff cheating. It the JEALOUSY that enrages them the most. The thought of THEIR MAN with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:23 PM
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zoomer/millennial Twitter feminist I hear about these all the time on Reddit but never met one in real life. And I studied a branch of sociology which was 95% female zoomers in Europe, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:30 PM
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Toxic masculinity describes certain elements of masculinity that manifest something detrimental to him or others. Aggression can manifest as rape, violence, sexual assault and stoicism can creat crippling mental health issues that can lead to violence. Fyi it was men who coined the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:28 PM
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Can you imagine if some of the regulars on this sub gave phone access to their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:00 PM
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Beauty doesn't take up enough time for you to need to compromise a career. Plus, beauty is expensive (especially hardmaxxing/ dental) so having a career would pay for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:08 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:18 PM
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Afaik rhiannas company uses plus size models it and that's been very successful. It seems VS are just copying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:17 PM
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Lol, this alone tells me the study is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:03 PM
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That's adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:24 PM
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I had a child when I was young and I don't recommend it. At 20 you're still learning about men and relationships - you simply don't have enough knowledge and experience to vet a man for good father/husband material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:08 PM
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I show comments like these to women so they'll buy my tickets for the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:44 PM
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What kind of cretin won't buy a house because of 'ghosts" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:42 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:39 PM
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A close female friend of mine legitimately wouldn't date my close male friend because he had tiny hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:16 AM
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Disagree. Women have more wiggle room for looks - especially if men have other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:38 PM
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You don't look like you have any muscles though - you just look extremely poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:37 PM
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Nah - ugly men don't have nicer personalities than chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:24 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:22 PM
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Sure - but men are stronger lookists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:17 PM
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Well good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:16 PM
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You're doing a real disservice to you're children - they're watching their mother seriously destroy her body and it's going to be heartbreaking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:12 PM
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I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:06 PM
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I literally can't fantasise about anything that is not viable. All the scenarios in bed head need to have some chance of actually happening. So taken men are off the table, same as celebrities. It's wierd..I wonder if anyone else is like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:50 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:48 PM
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Cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:47 PM
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Wierd take? Cats are good pets for people who don't want anything high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:46 PM
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I feel ya. I enjoy talking about gender dynamics but I dgaf about the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:45 PM
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If your partner's identical twin is dating a gorgeous woman, does that mean you're also gorgeous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:44 PM
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For women SMV. Men will overlook ALOT if a woman is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:41 PM
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I think women subconsciously prefer a sociable and amiable man - which are going to smile more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:40 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:54 AM
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At least two LTRs of 3+ years one of which he has cohabitated with. A handful of casual partners (>5, <40) Lots of STRs is not acceptable, especially if they're back to back. Also a man that has paid for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:38 AM
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Swap causal sex with relationships and you're bang on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:38 PM
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I can't speak for everyone, but my looks standards has gone waaay up between the ages of 16 - 30. It's a combination of being more confident in yourself, realising that lesser attractive men don't have better personalities and being less needy (which puts men off). Whilst I don't care about height - my standards for facial attraction and masculinity have increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:18 PM
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The only things I don't like involve lots of screen time (games, TV, films) and consumption (shopping, collecting etc). Until recently I said 'no guys into watching sports!' but tbh - it's the compromise you often have to make of you want a buff man :p I like music, fire spinning, the outdoors and gardening. My 'boring' hobbies are skincare and watching comedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:30 PM
2

Also it's REALLY worth doing if you're into history. It's not difficult at all to find Roman/Anglo Saxon/ Victorian etc coins. My stepdad keeps them all in a folder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:28 PM
3

My step dad does it and he's always finding Roman coins, Anglo Saxon belt parts and all sorts. It's quite hard to find something that makes lots of money, but for a history buff - you'll have an amazing time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:27 PM
2

There's a really good series on BBC called 'the detectorists'. It's a comedy/drama set in the beautiful west country. Highly recommend!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:26 PM
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Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:01 PM
6

Eh, the formatting is wierd. But most men don't have an 'issue' with addiction, porn and anger". So I don't see why women should accept this as amalt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:54 PM
10

Most men I know are pretty inactive on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:52 PM
-1

I assumed she meant an issue with porn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:49 PM
3

The majority of men don't have those issues - jeez, where do you live ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:47 PM
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Oh, you mean the good looking men who were ever so slightly awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:33 PM
3

Ide say that having a high-quality of life makes you a 'winner". If the guys stressed out from constantly chasing money and depressed from loneliness - then he's a loser. If his job genuinely makes him go to bed happy and has good quality interpersonal relationships - then he's a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:13 PM
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Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:11 PM
3

I don't like anything gaudy or ostentatious, I don't even like labels tbh. Casual, low key clothes look best for me personally. Jeans and a simple tee, shorts in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:07 PM
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For sure. If it doesn't work for them, they shouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:45 PM
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I didn't blame men, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:44 PM
2

If women are confident, assertive and are picky about partners (like myself) they can very much enjoy casual sex. Too many women have internalised misogyny and feel subconscious 'shame" when hooking up which ruins the pleasure and some are too scared to 'guide' the man and point out when she's not enjoying something. I've had lots of enjoyable casual sex and I wouldn't change that for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:39 AM
7

We tell each other what we're into and what we've done, but don't give names and details of which boyfriend did what. If we have a boyfriend, it's a given that he's good in bed (otherwise we wouldn't be together). Details are shared about embarrassing sex stories but only with random guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:01 AM
7

As a teenager I fantasised about love, not sex. (This was pre orgasm days). Since my first orgasm with a man, all my fantasies have been sexual. I think that I can go longer without love than I can without sex. After a few weeks without sex then I start craving it. However, after a relationship break up - it takes me a while before I crave love. I've had three 'proper" relationships and they all started with sex and love blossomed after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:49 PM
1

Uk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:33 PM
1

Between the ages of 16 - 18 I would often have spats of 3 - 4 months without sex. Since having a bf at 18, pretty much weekly since breaking up with my second boyfriend last April and I didn't have sex till the end of June.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:51 PM
1

Depends where you are. In mainland Europe it's quite normal for women to wear 'skimpy' clothes and even be topless on the beach. In some places like Germany, Sweden etc they have plenty of nude friendly places (beaches, sauners etc). It's no big deal. Hopefully the rest of the world will go the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:46 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:36 PM
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It doesn't sound like drilling, though. It sounds emotionally charged and that they don't actually like their SOs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:33 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:32 PM
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And that's fine - but they don't actually seem to like their SOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:32 PM
1

Not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:15 AM
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Yeah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:15 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:15 AM
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MRP = Married red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:14 AM
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I've noticed that RPW all speak respectfully of their SOs (even when they often don't deserve it). Yet MRP talks about their partners in the most degrading (and often hateful) way as possible. Even TRP are pretty nasty about their casual partners/ plates. What's up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:49 AM
1

Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:33 AM
2

There's a space between ugly and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:33 AM
5

This would explain why it supposedly shot up in 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:34 PM
2

Jim from the office but with a blue collar job. Also he's ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:33 PM
7

Lots of guys here claim some actresses and models are 'ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:24 PM
3

I'll take Jim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:16 PM
1

How gradual ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:00 PM
2

Depends on girth. With a good, thick girth 5 is the threshold. With an average girth, 6 inches min length.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:51 PM
5

Too many to mention, but to name a few... Shorter than me ( <5'5 ) Thin/pointy facial features. Unmasculine facial features Bald/shaved head or receding hairline. Overweight or underweight Small hands. Skin problems. Cock size needs to be decent, not too long or short and DEFINITELY not too thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:26 PM
1

Ngl, it's immensely important to me. Make me laugh, fuck me good, make me go 'naww' and I'm putty in your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:04 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:46 PM
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Can't remember her name.. She proudly declared her strategy was finding a shy, overweight neckbeard and LTRing him. He would do anything for her as she was an attractive woman and way out of his league. Step two was to make him hawt by encouraging him to lose weight and get fit. Everybody clapped Then, after this guy became hot, he realised he could fuck other women and dumped her. Ruh - roh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:28 PM
-1

Yes! Such a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:45 PM
1

It's just unattractive and unproductive seeing someone you share a life with fuse to a seat and obsess about these things. A million of times this. Ive had partners who have completely different hobbies to me. However, they were all productive/ creative and I enjoyed hearing them talk about them and found it interesting watching them engross themselves in it. Passive hobbies that entail screen time bore me senseless and I just cannot find myself attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:43 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:23 AM
9

Men with sexual experience are better in bed. Rich/ hot men have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:59 PM
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You son of bitch, I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:50 PM
2

His crotch deserved an award for supporting role in the labrynth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:53 PM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:18 PM
1

Yes ok, this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:38 PM
5

Very masculine men can afford to express their emotions without being seen as weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:34 PM
1

But why do young women en masse opt to have effeminate guys as heart throbs when they can instead have masculine guys as heart throbs? Likes they have all these musicians and actors to choose from, and they decide that they like some effeminate guy the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:53 PM
1

Yeah, this exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:51 PM
3

I think it's quite psychologically masculine women that end up with cocky jocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:27 PM
2

Masculinity manifests itself in different ways Imo you can be masculine and still be in touch with your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:26 PM
10

Hmm, no. I think the women who comment on men on SM are young themselves. Young women are more attracted to slightly effeminate men and they become more attractive to masculine men as they get older. This is exemplified by looking at teenage heart throbs through the decades. Most of them had 'cute" and sensitive dispositions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:17 PM
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Iir Rollo pushed the 'men age like wine' thing and encouraged men to chase younger women as they had matched RMV. Then he married an older woman in his forties. So maybe it's not actually that easy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:14 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:39 PM
3

This made me chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:53 PM
1

I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:49 PM
2

Hmm, let me think about that... No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:45 PM
2

I have no interest in any of this, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:05 PM
3

Isn't he the guy who said that men age like wine and should go for younger women, then ended up marrying an older woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:00 PM
2

My life is fucking awesome, thank you very much ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:53 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:44 PM
2

Someone's good or bad skin is either due to genetics or lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:30 PM
2

Because of lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:22 PM
1

Haha, happy weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:36 AM
1

I said the opposite of that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:26 AM
1

Oh dear...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:33 AM
2

My sister is 18 months older than me (we both have the same parents) and people can easily think there's 10 years difference between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:26 AM
7

I've noticed that people who push their bodies really hard with exercise tend to age poorly, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:20 AM
6

True but considering the vast majority of men don't look after their skin, and women do - women have surpassed them in well aging skin now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:19 AM
4

I saw a meme that said "They already have a male contraceptive, it's called fish in a profile picture"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:17 AM
1

For me empty bio > a red/orange flag in the bio. Agree about the photos. Often I see no photos of them smiling, face and no body, body and no face, standing in the distance where I can't make him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:15 AM
2

I agree. What I frequently see is 'I don't like X' or 'swipe left if __'. It's a massive turn off and an instant swipe left for me. You have a few sentences to describe yourself and you're choosing those sentences to be negative? Why would I want to date/fuck a moaner? NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:13 AM
2

I always read the bios, even when looking for a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:09 AM
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It's easier for women to have their needs met outside of a relationship. They can have emotional connections and closeness with their friends and family members. They're less thirsty for sex but when they need it, finding a fuck buddy is incredibly easy for them. I'm seeing a nice bloke, but at thirty I've never tried to be in a relationship because they're not that important to me. This just fell on my lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:05 AM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:45 PM
3

She used to have comics about tradcon gimp women loving neckbeards. Maybe deep in her post history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:45 PM
1

Her pickme sub..it's amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:44 PM
1

It would be interesting to see which uni this is. Afaik Oxford is the highest ranked uni in the world, followed by a couple of other British unis. A high ranking university would subsequently have higher achieving students who party and date/fuck less. But there are also unis like my one in party central cities where students frequently take drugs, fuck and do their essays two days before hand in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:59 PM
4

There's always going to be some discrepancies because of male variability. Also it's not unusual for women to date men 1 - 3 years older than them who would not be at university themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:47 PM
1

You know it's a joke account, right? Her own sub is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:43 PM
5

Uni students are partying less, and partying is where most casual sex happens. This survey was done during the covid pandemic. 20% of students are foreign born. Many of which aren't as suited the British SMP/RMP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:43 PM
0

This definitely works on me, bit only for the first couple of months when I meet another guy and lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:59 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:07 PM
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He looks like a potato now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:59 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:52 AM
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Apparently lots of women on here give blow jobs but don't do anything else beyond that (including getting off themselves). Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:32 AM
1

Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:31 AM
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It's a million times better in almost every way. The only thing I miss was the endless snogging. Hours and hours of snogging because we hadn't gone any further yet. It's a shame we stop doing that when we become sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:11 AM
1

Most women are far more open to casual sex with men they're acquainted to IRL (even ones they just met at a party) than casual sex with tinder strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:31 PM
2

Yeah, I'm not trying to sell it as a strategy. I'm just pointing out that those people dont have the same sexlessness rates as the social groups these men move in. It's not about landing ONSs per sa, but being part of a community and networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:44 PM
-1

I'm terrible at knowing celebrities and celebrity names, but most male models have a 9/10 or 10/10 face and the underwear models have the 10/10 bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:26 PM
1

Ok that made me laugh a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:07 PM
1

If people thought men who watch porn are losers then literally every man alive is a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:04 PM
4

I'm not a single mother, I have a LTR. Which posts 'make sense' now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:40 PM
-12

BS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:28 PM
3

Same here. Firstly, balancing two schedules for childfeee days is tricky. Secondly, if both our kids met and bonded, it would be messy of we ever broke up/divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:27 PM
-1

Lol, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:19 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:11 PM
-5

Sorry but you're wrong. I know swarths of free spirited/ hedonistic men and they're perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:05 PM
5

That's clubs. Social circles who put on their own parties and frequent raves, festivals and other hedonistic gatherings do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:04 PM
-5

I've been going to raves/festivals/parties for something like 15 years. All those mixed gendered friends get laid - ALL of them, even the uggos. both genders together + Sex positivity + drugs and alcohol = dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:47 PM
-2

I've been on the party scene something like 15 years. All those people are getting laid - even the uggos. Drugs/alcohol + sex positive people = sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:45 PM
-1

Jammies rustled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:55 PM
4

No one's saying you SHOULD enjoy nightlife, but it's just a fact that there is where casual sex happens and widening social circles happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:53 PM
3

It's literally just about scheduling. It's hard to find someone who has the same childfeee days as yourself. Myself and all the single mothers I know have no problem re marrying or finding another LTR Watch what men do etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:02 PM
6

obvious wank fodder request is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:51 PM
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'men' or TRPs? I'll start with TRPs: The cock carrousel. I know I joke about it a lot - but I genuinely think the idea is retarded. Miniscule women/girls DELIBERATELY opt to have casual sex instead of relationships for long periods of time. Most girls/women spend their late teens and early twenties in LTRs and STRs with some casual sex in-between. When they eventually find someone suitable - they cohabit/marry/have kids. Beta/alpha Most women are with men who are a mixture of alpha and beta. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:45 PM
1

This seems a bit unnecessarily belligerent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:35 PM
1

Current bf is 5 5, last one was 5 7 and my FB before him was 5 7. I'm all about the handsome face and muscular body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:47 AM
2

K
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:46 AM
1

Agreed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:37 AM
3

They didn't fail, they ended. Not having one single relationship for the entire duration of your life is not evidence of 'failure". You're have to look long and hard to find a couple that has stayed together indefinitely - and I doubt those are rosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:12 AM
3

I didn't get on the carousel till I was in my late twenties, and one year in my mid twenties. I've spent most my adult life with two different boyfriends (7 and 3 years). I'm so glad I did.l, such amazing times and one fuck buddy blossomed into something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:05 AM
8

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:48 PM
2

Some of my top guys were short term partners. Actually most of them were hook ups that turned into FWBs and LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:44 PM
0

Oh god no! I've met some amazing men and had some amazing sex. Knowing my sexual side so well means I can find a partner with incredible chemistry and my sex life now is even more awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:32 PM
3

Get a monopoly board then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:58 PM
2

Not been there in a while but just found this: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/nugnnl/husband_sends_me_pictures_of_instagram_models/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:39 PM
3

Not at the top of my head. I just recall a lot of women on FDS saying they moved there from RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:36 PM
2

Yes, there's quite a few I believe. It's probably responsible for it's decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:28 PM
17

Hard disagree. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:24 PM
17

If the bar is just keeping the man, then yeah. But most women actually want to thrive during relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:20 PM
5

Forgot to answer question 2 and 3. They were all turned on by proxy. They would eat me out like a dog on got chips and had a raging hard on whilst they did it. They were open minded and not afraid to get 'dirty', they were physically fit and had stamina, they didn't rush things and a session lasted a good 45 mins. They were all..nice? They respected women and had female friends, they had amiable personalities and sweet dispositions and they were also alternative/ open minded types. There's one g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:14 PM
33

FDS serve womens imperative, RPW serves men's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:05 PM
1

You realise that no one is denying or criticising age gaps of five years? Only large ones. I can't access that study that says Dutch women like a max age gap of 5-10 years (wierd wording) - but it contradicts your first study that says their mean preference is 2.73 years. Genius. Please real in the personal attacks, thank you. France for example. A quarter of which are Muslim, which exemplifies my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:49 PM
1

What? That's every 3-4 days. Doesn't sound like most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:29 PM
1

You claimed that Dutch women preferred an age gap of 5- 10 years. Then you posted a study that said 2.73 years. Your study also shows that in developing countries, women liked a bigger age gap than in developed countries. Which confirms my point that there's a correlation between financial hardship and large age gaps. There's also a correlation between age gap and lack of women's rights. Iran for example Lastly, I didn't say they were 'forced". I said where they had 'less options' which again is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:16 PM
1

You get this reverberated sound in your ears that pulsates, you hear your blood pumping, feel an intense euphoric high and go light headed. Crack is also similar to an orgasm (not that I would know...)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:56 PM
1

Ooh, actually I take that back. Anal plus clit orgasms are more intense by quite a lot! All my orgasms involve the clitoris though, so that might explain a lot. Also, jealous about the nipple orgasms! Mine are super, super sensitive (where I sometimes have to stop him lol) but I've yet to get an orgasm from them being touched alone. Maybe I can make it happen with sheet determination lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:54 PM
1

A preferred age gap of 2.73 - that's not what people say when they talk about 'age gaps'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:47 PM
1

Have you ever done nitros balloons? My orgasms are like that sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:14 PM
1

I've just started squirting, but the orgasm doesn't feel different to a regular orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:13 PM
0

The carousel is awesome. Five star trip advisor, would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:10 PM
1

https://nltimes.nl/2019/02/14/dutch-grooms-mostly-older-brides
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:06 PM
8

Bell-end curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:01 PM
2

Oh haha, oops. B+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:32 PM
9

Difficult to remember to be honest. Two guys were bad-bad and those guys also had the biggest dicks. Maybe 20% have been 'meh", 60% enjoyable but not memorable and 10% have been amazing. Generally sex has got better as I've got older, the majority of men (aside from the first two I mentioned) have put in effort to make me cum and ask me what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:38 PM
1

I've worked in three different all female work places and it's actually quite fascinating seeing the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:51 PM
0

Ngl, it's not for me. I have a massive lady boner for male hair. I always run my fingers through it and grab on to it during love making. I also love some sexy face stubble and small amounts of chest hair and pubes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:44 PM
2

I've only known a couple of people IRL who know about it and they use it interchangeably with Incel. AFAIK it was quite big ten years ago and has now dwindled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:41 PM
1

Thats much higher than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:26 PM
1

When young people have money they can move out of their parents and afford to go out and party.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:32 PM
5

Women can be needy and desperate, I know I was when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:30 PM
1

I think that's not the right number you typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:29 PM
2

Relationships are conceptualised as a partnership in with equal respect is felt between the two people. That is, they're both on 'level" with each other in experience and intellect and defer to one another. A large age gap is too akin to a father- daughter dynamic (he looks after her and thinks she's cute) which is why it evokes the 'ick" factor. On top of that, people are protective over those younger than them, or those with less capability than themselves - which is why you see people of both…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:23 PM
4

You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:36 PM
2

Interesting how it shot up in 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:47 PM
1

It's meant to all be a really good portrayal of mental health. Let me know what you think!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:45 PM
2

Asking them a lot of questions about themselves and being really interested in their answers, lots of eye contact, flirty body language (playing with hair, leaning close to them), asking if they're single or taken, complementing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:44 PM
2

It's a comedy written by Rebecca bunch. She's a woman with BPD who stalks her highschool boyfriend in quite a duplicitous way. These kinda shows aren't really my cup of tea, but I absolutely fell in love with this. My daughter has seen it all three times. https://youtu.be/mIJKuxzWAGs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:38 PM
1

That's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:25 PM
1

Have you seen crazy ex girlfriend on Netflix?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:23 PM
5

My god he's dreamy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:20 PM
4

Legalise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:10 PM
2

Yeah, your description is good. I feel the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:48 PM
1

Some guys just do in it for you, eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:46 PM
-2

How so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:34 PM
2

I don't need an emotional connection - but I do need to 'vibe' with them (for lack of a better word).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:23 PM
1

I like fun, adventurous, open minded men. These men are also very often wreck heads, emotionally erratic, disorganised and unsuitable for me. So the dating pool is quite small lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:08 PM
3

Being rejected after a fling that lasted five months hit me harder than breaking up with my 3.5yr boyfriend after finding out he cheated. I've only fallen for a couple of men, and when I do I fall hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:06 PM
0

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:48 PM
2

I was not referencing the covid uni study, I was referencing the American one that claimed 28% of men and 18% of women were sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:47 PM
2

And the big one that gets touted 10274 times a day shows a ten percent difference in female and male sexlessness in young people. So I fail to see how hypergamy is the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:30 PM
0

I can't tell if this is a joke or not haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:18 PM
1

My mistake, USA is top in the world though, followed by UK and then Denmark. So there's no correlation between Welfare and single mothers. If there was NZ and the other scandi countries would be top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:02 PM
1

The welfare countries have have much lower single mother rates than non welfare countries So the incentive doesn't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:07 PM
0

I don't have a Scooby what's you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:39 PM
1

Yes it's always womens fault. Always
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:39 PM
1

I mean you need to actually build up a social circle. It's much easier to get sex from friends of friends than it is strangers in bars. If you do hit on strangers, you're going to look more amiable if you have a group of mixed gendered friends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:08 AM
0

Dat 1000 porn stare tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:55 AM
0

I agree with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:51 AM
-2

Lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:51 AM
1

How can it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:50 AM
1

https://images.app.goo.gl/4UDmMnwai2vDfrZv7
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:49 AM
1

My DMs would agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:48 PM
0

Sorry, but you have to start going to clubs and parties and building a mixed gendered social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:45 PM
4

It was your idea to cheat innumerable times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:42 PM
2

That's how you get acquainted with people. You open conversation s with causal conversation. Flirting comes after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:42 PM
1

Yet this is how most sex happens. None of you live in the real world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:24 PM
2

You all have this wierd idea about 'approaching". Most sex doesn't happen with a random man approaching a random woman and complementing their looks They flirt AFTER they have built rapport with said woman through conversing with them casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:21 PM
4

How many times have you been divorced ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:14 PM
14

Counter point: The woman wants sex six times a week but the man can't because of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:06 PM
22

A single parent is a parent who is...single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:20 PM
1

Mm hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:00 PM
1

Tbh I don't have a Scooby Doo what you're saying (which is a frequent occurrence to be honest). So that concludes the chat, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:57 PM
2

Kids don't associate nudity with sex. You associate nudity with sex because you're an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:53 PM
3

I'm a woman. When someone goes quiet it can be for myriad reasons. Yet you instinctively thought 'this is all about me!' and blocked him. You're not at the centre of everyone's thoughts and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:50 PM
1

Yeah, 💯.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:43 PM
1

Why do you think kids care about seeing body parts? Why and how is it having a negative impact on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:41 PM
2

When you get older you realise that some people need space to 'recharge' and it's ok for friends to go quiet for a period of time. When this happens I just text them and tell them I notice that something wrong with them, I'm here if they need me and they can take all the time they want. Not everythings about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:38 PM
1

Kids couldn't give a flying fuck what adults wear in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:35 PM
6

I don't understand this. You talk to a woman like a normal human being, you both give IOIs during the conversation, flirt, see if they flirt back and then one asks the other out. I don't see how you can accidentally be creepy whilst doing this? It's how all my sexual interactions have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:34 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:56 PM
0

People with down syndrome deserve to have normal lives just like the rest of us. She's inspiring for other folk with down syndrome to have aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:53 PM
-1

She's amazing, I'm really happy for her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:47 PM
-2

There's quite a lot in the fashion Industry now with birth defects. https://youtu.be/KY8jy6EjK8s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:35 PM
1

Yeah but I'm referring to men I date, and those men have options. So if they sleep with a prostitute, it's not put of desperation, it's out of choice. And that's a big ol' red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:12 PM
4

Having sex with men isnt feminine ? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:13 AM
2

Sort of? If I meet a guy through OLD for a hook up - I always spend 3 - 4 hours chatting with him just to see if I think he's sound or not. Fortunately I've not copped off with any dodgy men. So I guess I'm aware of it and take a few measures but I'm not completely risk adverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:57 AM
1

Some do some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:41 AM
1

I don't think so. All the men I've known can only enjoy sex when the woman is enthusiastic about fucking him. The idea of 'paying for access" doesn't do it for them. Hell, even some men on here say that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:38 AM
1

You charge money for a reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:36 AM
2

Unenthusiastic is the word I was looking for. The men are content having sex with a woman who's unenthusiastic about doing it with you (which is why she has to charge you money to do it).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:35 AM
3

I'm not saying brasses are repulsed by John's, I'm saying that the Johns don't care either way. I don't think paying for sex is immoral, because I think for struggling men it satiates a need. But having that attitude towards sex does not gel with me and subsequently I wouldn't be attracted to a guy who does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:05 AM
7

Partly. I think one of the issue women (myself included) have with it is that they're content sticking a dick in a women who doesnt want it. To many women 'sex' is a mutually enjoyable act. The notion that men are enjoying something that the women isn't goes against how they conceptualise the act. I've found that most guys lose a hard on when they know I'm not into it and dislike the idea of a sexual 'favour". For example: "I'm tired and not horny but I'll suck your dick?". Most guys I know coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:49 PM
1

Would be interesting to see the ratios on each one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:46 PM
1

Non western men are usually conservative and traditional. They have certain expectations from women and relationships. This doesn't appeal to most women in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:40 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:41 PM
2

It ultimately comes down to looks first,then chemistry and general worldview There's not enough info in OP to deduce any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:05 PM
9

If any men think that being non-sociable is a feminine trait then they're genuinely idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:01 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:23 PM
1

I'm mean on aggregate - not many women actually go on tinder. So I don't see how it's having the impact everyone claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:18 PM
1

But most women aren't even on tinder? Only one in five users of my memory serves me correct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:53 PM
4

Yes, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:41 PM
1

I approve of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:27 PM
20

Americans are a strange bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:27 PM
26

This is something TRP and FDS have in common They both want the other sex to play the traditional role without playing the traditional role themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:26 PM
11

laughs in European*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:23 PM
15

How is partying 'little as possible' a feminine trait? Women are extremely sociable, it literally hardwired I to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:20 PM
1

Yeah for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:01 PM
24

Kate Winslet has given the best example of body positivity I have seen in the media. She has refused to have her wrinkles photo shopped out of posters and told producers they were not to edit her 'wobbly tummy' from her new TV show. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/film/2021/jun/01/kate-winslet-says-she-refused-offer-to-edit-sex-scene-showing-bulgy-belly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:49 PM
2

Yeah, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:19 AM
2

Western women don't like dating non western guys. They have a reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:46 AM
2

RP men and the average woman seem to hate the same type of man. Gamers, porn addicts and men who rely on women for mental health support are seen as weak, who don't have or are not following their mission. The old RP for sure. It seems to have devolved into gender war bs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:37 AM
12

After a while my ex just stopped doing housework all together. I'm far from a clean freak, by I need my space to be reasonably tidy and spacious. Just so I can relax and feel at ease. After a while he just stopped doing housework and would say 'why didn't you ask me to do X? It had a massive impact on the quality of our relationship. I felt like he was another person to clean up after. It contributed to us breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:35 AM
1

Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:31 AM
2

I'm saying ai don't struggle with the commitment part
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:30 AM
2

I wonder how he smells? I like smelly men but that might take it a bit too far...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:14 PM
5

When you're so bad at sex the women become born again virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:49 PM
1

Oh how lovely x
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:33 PM
6

You find washing dishes and hoovering a 'struggle' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:39 PM
0

Lube and arousal is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:38 PM
1

Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:37 PM
0

Depends on their age. Probably one or two STRs by uni, two LTRs (3 years plus) by thirty. Whilst single maybe one hook up every six weeks or a FB lasting a 3 - 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:36 PM
-2

We know we just don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:31 PM
2

What domestic activities do you struggle at ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:29 PM
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the process of becoming stronger and more confident, especially in controlling one's life and claiming one's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:27 PM
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Yes, but they're also (most the time) selfish and unpleasant people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:29 PM
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No one says 'promiscuity' is empowering. Doing what makes you happy IN SPITE of judgment is empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:55 AM
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I'm too busy enjoying my hot girl summer to care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:53 AM
1

Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:41 AM
1

It's legal in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:40 AM
10

a well-raised Ewww.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:13 PM
7

Ide rather shit in my hands and clap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:45 PM
30

I don't have a pearl necklace to clutch. Can you give me one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:44 PM
1

I dread the day my kid moves out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:36 PM
6

Watch what men say, not what they do I've dated and known enough men in my adult life to know there's no correlation with 'nice" personality and looks. Plus, sexual attraction and chemistry is pretty damned important
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:32 PM
3

Take it up with your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:31 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:23 PM
4

Disagree. Ugly guys are as likely to be arseholes as hot guys. It's all about his actual personality and (to an extent) how he feels about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:22 PM
2

Putting on a contrived, chivalrous facade is treating women better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:15 PM
12

Nope. Ugly men don't have nicer personalities than hot guys. Might as well get the hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:14 PM
9

Yeah but why choose a competent, self-assured older, less attractive guy when you can date a competent, self-assured, younger more attractive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:14 PM
3

Lol if you think older men treat women better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:09 PM
2

They have sugar sites for that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:08 PM
10

Why would a woman choose to date men that are sub-bar in looks? Like..what's in it for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:56 PM
6

This is pretty much my 'crazy bf/gf' theory. All the 'highs' (the excitement, the laughs, the fun etc) outweigh the lows (the angry outbursts, the toxic behaviour the mental instability). Eventually the person can no longer deal with the lows and they break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:05 PM
5

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:06 PM
2

No idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:05 PM
5

Wtf? No. Most you g women and teenagers are obsessed with 'love' not casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:01 PM
3

The rhetoric goes with a certain personality. Guys like this are super easy to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:00 PM
1

The 90s called and they want there 'the X called' line back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:36 PM
1

I really want to do a master's but I can't afford it sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:19 PM
2

Incredibly happy, have been happy through the second half of my twenties and thirties. Got a tiny flat with a lush garden, I get to work in a supportive environment with the cutest kids, my daughter is just amazing, great social life, great sex life. I don't know what else I want tbh. Probably the slight health issue I have with my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:18 PM
1

Ah ok. I've not k own any dudes to care outside high school. And whilst they cared - they still dated those women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:15 PM
1

Yuck. I'm not wasting my precious time dating and getting to know a man who I might not have any sexual chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:10 PM
1

So you mean virgins, not young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:55 PM
2

Haha, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:39 PM
-1

Good. People shouldn't stay in relationships with people that don't add value to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:34 PM
-2

Different people attach different value to sex. I guess a lot of it is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:32 PM
1

So it's not about age, it's about the number of sexual partners the man himself has?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:30 PM
1

Why would young men have more discuss than old men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:10 PM
1

No it's not 'young' men. It's foreigners and conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:10 PM
1

Which forums ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:10 PM
3

His rhetoric isn't normal, at least not in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:09 PM
13

That analogy can only apply to people who think the vagina has some sort of magical virtue. To other people who just see it as..well..a vagina - the analogy doesn't work. It doesn't offend me, I just find anyone with that rhetoric hilarious and unequivocally unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:08 PM
2

I don't call street harassment being 'hit on' because those men aren't actually trying to get your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:22 PM
0

Depends how you define arsehole. Ide argue that it's quite important to women that her partner is likable and capable of 'impressing" her friends and family. Hard to do that of you're incorrigible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:20 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:49 PM
3

Err..have you seen the demographics at quanon rallies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:48 PM
1

What do you mean 'approach"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:36 PM
1

Yeah I've learned that now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:56 PM
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https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/bmjopen/9/10/e030708/F1.large.jpg The men are doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:27 PM
1

A hot guy is a hot guy. Doesn't really make a difference if he just woke up, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:13 PM
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Every PPD thread is a feminism thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:17 PM
1

Guys don't look bad when they're messy/sweaty or sleepy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:16 PM
6

Beards are 'manly' so probably more attractive to women. I like short beards but hate long ones. Bald with a long beard is the worst combo IMO - looks like they have their head on upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:05 PM
1

I actually know a gay guy who donated sperm to a lesbian couple. The kid lives with their two mums and they see their dad a couple of times a week. The only issue is that he's not on the north certificate so doesn't have rights. Fortunately I don't see any reason the couple would stop him seeing his kid, but they could if they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:48 PM
3

How is that the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:45 PM
1

This! I'd make a lousy cougar And youde eat your cows!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:16 PM
1

Oh really? Younger than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:09 PM
-1

I'm a bit on the middle. I have as little clutter as possible (no books, DVDs, ornament s etc) but lots of houseplants, some nice are on the walls and LED strips on the walls. I don't even have a TV anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:56 PM
5

How is a man going to have a career and raise a child on his own? No men are going to find this prospect attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:54 PM
1

Looks don't really fade because most people are attracted to people their own age. When I'm forty my good looking boyfriend will be good looking for my age group. It's not one or the other either. I can find a very good looking partner who is also commitment material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:42 PM
12

Having a house with a nice vibe is where it's at. Just sitting there surrounded by nice pictures, houseplants and lighting feels great. Plus guests enjoy it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:21 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:17 PM
1

Which was?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:07 PM
1

Ideally women want a physically attractive man who they can talk and 'vibe with" Younger men (usually) don't bring enough of the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:06 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:03 PM
1

It's a big thing for me, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:02 PM
1

I used to swipe left on younger men on tinder - but when we chatted I just didn't vibe with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:01 PM
2

I didn't make that assumption. But older men are worse looking than men your own age, so obviously they're more likely to be beta buxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:58 PM
1

Most relationships are under five year age gaps. The rest are literally beta buxxing older men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:54 PM
2

No it makes no difference to me how many men women sleep with - and I firmly believe they should only have sex when they're ready and not because of peer pressure. However, most sexually active men in the west are not willing to wait long periods of time to have sex with their girlfriends. They just don't want to be sexually frustrated for long periods of time. Plus, lots of men emphasise sexual chemistry. Ideally, men want a woman who won't make men wait to have sex, but don't have a large N co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:51 PM
3

Most people date in their economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:04 PM
8

Yeah, for sure. My bf won't date someone six years younger because thats his sister's age. A lot of guys draw the line at 'shes young enough to be my daughter'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:53 PM
1

Oh I see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:43 PM
1

I'm young and I agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:39 PM
1

What does 'success' mean in this context ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:37 PM
1

Well if you're a nine now, you would never have been that low in attraction even if you 'let yourself go'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:18 PM
1

You're think the relationship where there was more attraction would have the higher success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:15 PM
6

Stopping them from pursuing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:40 AM
2

I thought being thirty and single would be difficult for me because I don't want a child (and most men do). But insofar it's way easier than it was in my early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:37 AM
2

I have found dating way easier at thirty years old. Im more confidence and I just understand the game better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:33 AM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:30 AM
20

If you look at the stats, women over twenty are the most attracted to men their own age until they hit around forty - then they are attracted to men younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:27 AM
6

How many threads are you gonna do about age gaps bro? Why are you looking for internet strangers validation for trying to fuck young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:26 AM
1

This is really informative, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:56 AM
3

I get accused this all the time. I'm not 'throwing shade" it's true that low n girl are perceived as being 'frigid" and at times struggle with dating. Low n girls and virgin girls make this complaint all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:53 AM
7

No, the internet is just obsessed with talking about sugar relationships and only fans. The majority of people have never touched those things in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:42 AM
2

short No, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:34 PM
7

In those examples the women are working
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:22 PM
1

And ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:13 PM
3

What's this hot to do with my comment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:12 PM
5

Lusted after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:11 PM
2

Well that's me put your dating pool then, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:10 PM
2

Ultimately looks is the most important thing for women. HOWEVER I would argue that a shit/ boring personality would not get you a QUALITY boyfriend. Just someone your looks match with an equally shit/ boring personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:10 PM
6

On what planet are women not expected to work and provide ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:55 PM
1

That would suck. I am a bit jealous of all the wilderness and open space in the USA though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:49 PM
1

Well yes, stem men are famously sexually inactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:48 PM
1

I think most people know the root of Japan's problems. I'd be interested in seeing some scandi, southern Europe and Anglosphere stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:47 PM
1

I suppose it depends on where you live. New York looks like it has great social culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:45 PM
1

Which country is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:41 PM
1

So I can't compare two different cultures to control for variables because it hurts peoples feelings. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:38 PM
1

That would be awesome !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:24 AM
2

Oh ok. Yeah the pub/club/festival culture here is pretty damned amazing. Actually, in most of Europe - the music and festival scene is pretty incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:56 PM
2

Why makes you say that? A study in the UK shows that sexlessness is less than in the USA. UK is in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:27 PM
1

Why do you think women are less picky ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:23 PM
1

Yeah but porn is consumed in the UK as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:23 PM
1

Oh haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:21 PM
2

Jesus.til
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:20 PM
3

This is a great point. Pub culture is huge here and most people live very close to towns with pubs/clubs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:51 PM
2

I don't think hookers would make an awful lot of difference considering how few men actually use them. It would be interesting to see how the other countries with legal prostitution fair in sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:50 PM
4

You think the US has more feminism than the UK? Lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:20 PM
2

What don't you buy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:28 PM
6

And you think the UK doesn't have these things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:56 PM
5

I imagine men would think the opposite. They hate social media addicts who make them take 19274 pictures next to the sea for IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:49 PM
0

I don't have a frame of reference, but I'll take your word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:47 PM
-1

And? The songs about eating women's buttholes and men's perfectly curves dicks aren't talking about love being 'the purest and best thing in the world'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:46 PM
2

So you think American men are big pussies compared to the UK and women aren't fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:41 PM
2

The difference isn't big enough to explain the gap. Our foreign born population is 9% and yours is 14% Plus, most our immigrants come from areas far more socially conservative than Mexicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:35 PM
1

Nah - there's more songs about sex and partying than their are love songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:30 PM
1

Lol. I knew a British nationalist party member who always used to play 'gangstas paradise'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:28 PM
2

You think the UK doesn't have lots of immigrants?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:17 PM
5

Men who are not tempered with What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:13 PM
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Not too old, then. Lots of women that age still wanna have fun and party.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:11 PM
2

Well you should take it up with the people who conducted the study, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:08 PM
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It's almost like we want a nice balance between being an emotionally repressed wreck and getting upset by mean internet strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:04 PM
–

How old are you now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:03 PM
4

Wow, very informative - thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:59 PM
7

Oh dear oh dear oh dear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:54 PM
2

Why do you think there's more whiney bitches in the states than other places? Doesn't America have more of a 'boot straps' culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:53 PM
4

If you're going on actual dates, it's assumed after a few weeks - or when you both start to 'like- like eachother. If you hooked up on tinder/at a bar and continuously have sex - then you do have to have 'the chat' to describe your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:52 PM
2

Oh I see!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:49 PM
-4

Hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:49 PM
-1

Scrolled all through midwests comments and didn't see anything suggesting the age of consent should be raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:28 PM
5

It's probably the most popular genre of the last 20 years lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:27 PM
15

And that song was a chart hit bring played on music TV every five minutes. I don't know how anyone could have missed media like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:21 PM
4

Link to them both?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:06 PM
2

I find this happens a lot when I debate conservatives. Me: X isn't a decent thing to do Them: oh you want preventative measures to stop this? How ridiculous! It's entirely reasonable to critique behaviour and norms without asserting we need to enforce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:34 AM
2

Literally any standards whatsoever. They're entitled to date and not date whoever they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:23 AM
3

OMG YOURE BEING HYSTERICAL, STOP BEING HYSTERICAL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:12 AM
3

Hardly anyone actually thinks this. Sorry, but it's not worth the effort of debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:09 AM
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You really didn't need to take the time to write an enormous post debunking this. There's probably one person on this sub who thinks the age of consent should go to 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:00 AM
3

Did I say otherwise? Op asked for examples where older men manipulate younger women for sex. This was my example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:59 AM
3

He was obliged to be upfront about his intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:56 AM
2

Yeah this makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:24 AM
2

I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:03 AM
1

They want to ensure that their 30 year old “sisters” maintain the safety net of men in their age range, even though they themselves don’t want 30 year old men. But they don't want to maintain the safety net of their 18yo 'sisters'. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:58 AM
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People don't just hit the age of 17 and know everything all of a sudden. Growing up is learning about things and developing knowledge. They don't need a chaperone, that's just insane. But people shouldn't be dicks to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:03 AM
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I didn't read the entire post, but confident women always do well with men - even if they're average looking. Hell, the men I date at thirty are waaaay higher rmv/SMV compared to when I was 25 and supposedly 'hotter'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:53 PM
1

Why on earth would they feel threatened by girls dating men they're not interested in themselves? 50yo women don't want to date 30yo men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:51 PM
4

Not true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:15 PM
2

Men can also do it! The pink pound is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:06 PM
1

> Ive had female friends who were practically sufar babies to men who did not even want sex. ​ So they say...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:59 PM
1

I think calling it manipulation across the board is bullshit personally. I think a lot of 30 something women piss and moan about men their age being interested in younger women out of simple jealousy because they are no longer sought after. And when 50yo women moan about 30yo men hitting on 18yo girls - are they 'jealous' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:40 PM
3

jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:37 PM
6

Yeah, it just boils down to women who are upset that they missed out on those men and don’t want younger women taking what’s theirs. It messes up the strategy. Chase But women of all ages look down on guys who do this. I'm not jealous of an 18yo girl for dating a 25yo man - he's not in my dating pool at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:36 PM
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I'll give you my story, not because I want a pitty party - but because its a good way of exemplifying my point. At 17 I was cut of from my friends (long story) and living with my father and step mother in my old family home. At the time, those two were making me feel as unwelcome as possible so I would move out and they could have family 2.0. I also had no qualifications and I was working as a pot wash full time. Needless to say, I was very miserable and my self esteem had hit rock bottom. At wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:33 PM
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Because they say it makes them feel shit after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:11 PM
1

Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:04 PM
1

Sex positivity and the sexual revolution are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:34 PM
1

No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:01 PM
1

Lol feminists catalized the sexual revolution in the 60s. The female eunuch et el was all about educating people that women enjoyed sex and didn't just endure it. It's why women from the 60s onwards embraced their sexual sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:16 AM
1

Cutting down on animal products and food wastage would definitely mitigate things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:44 AM
7

I don't know why men can't meet in the middle, carry on wanking but without using porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:33 AM
6

I always find it sad when I fly and look down and land is mostly used for agricultural. Call me a silly hippy, but I like the natural world and losing that really upsets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:32 AM
3

I'm starting to think I love the guy I'm seeing atm. Despite being very very cynical about 'love'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:27 AM
1

Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:21 PM
3

the last one did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:06 PM
6

I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:06 PM
3

Semantics. I date/have relationships what ever without any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:32 PM
3

What makes you think none of them felt the need to 'lock me down" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:11 PM
1

"all my sexual partners fell into the 20% of women that could come from PIV. What are the odds!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:50 PM
2

Women need to learn to be more demanding and own their sexuality. Stop trying to be over pleasing and saving face. Ask for what you want and if he doesn't deliver - tell him. It's something I learned in my early twenties and my orgasm success rate is almost 💯.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:49 PM
0

Ha! Birth decline ATM, probably the same across the pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:16 PM
2

How could I forget you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:58 PM
1

It has a population of 68 million lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:58 PM
1

Better yet - we talk about all decisions like adults and find a compromise. If he's throwing a tantrum about something, I'm not going to 'do what's asked" (and encourage that behaviour) I will walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:04 PM
7

If someone ever used the word 'chad" I would have laughed in their face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:48 PM
8

Depends on what the age gap is I was 18 dating a 25yo on two separate occasions. I would have been grossed out by a man who was 30+ But alas, I was over weight with very low esteem, so whilst it wasn't exactly what I wanted - it was something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:48 PM
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That happens when you have a low self esteem and don't understand human behaviour very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:29 PM
14

I'd someone told me what I know now about older men I would have avoided them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:24 PM
1

You're back !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:22 PM
1

o can't sing it's praises enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:21 PM
2

Well few women do like it. En masse women have been striving to be independent and emancipated from men because they want to direct their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:52 PM
1

Yes but it's not HIS money. Why would I STFU and let me husband spend OUR money on a car WE can't afford. It makes no sense whatsoever for me to let one person make decisions that directly effect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:50 PM
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Women of all ages warn other girls of creepy older men. Men of all ages warn girls about creepy older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:46 PM
-3

How comes in the UK more men are sexually active than women? How comes in the UK, over 90% of men and women are sexually active between the ages of 24 - 54? Women here have OLD and the opportunity to swipe and fuck as many chads as they like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:43 PM
1

I don't like tradcon men and I don't like men who like submissive women. They just aren't the guys I want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:40 PM
1

What 'should be let go" ? Your husband buying a car you both can't afford? Or him taking the wrong turning on a freeway? Because those are two examples from the lady who started the method.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:39 PM
1

The STFU tactic means shutting up most the time (even when your partner's doing something stupid). The lady who came up with it (her books mentioned on that sub a lot) shut up whilst her husband made all kinds of crazy decisions that effected their relationship. Examples include going skint and not affording lightbulbs because he forked out on a new car and travelling an hour in the wrong direction because that's where he thought he should turn on the freeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:38 PM
3

Please read the RPW sidebar before commenting. I'm referencing a book and a tactic they endorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:46 AM
2

Stfu, the 'captain' and anything tradcon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:39 AM
2

letting the man lead, STFU method (the submissive wife tactic). A handful are tradcon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:34 AM
1

Of course I do. Just not the dynamic they have. Urgh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:33 AM
1

r/splendida then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:58 AM
0

I actually have the same list of requirements and standards as FDS. However, I acquire that in a different way to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:43 AM
2

No one cares if you go childfree - for those that do, it's not worth making such an enormous lifestyle change because of what THEY think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:40 AM
1

What's with the downs votes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:37 AM
0

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:33 AM
7

Ide rather shit in my hands and clap than be in any of those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:32 AM
7

Using RPW tactics might help keep a certain type of man, but you wouldn't enjoy the relationship/marriage which defeats the object
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:31 AM
3

FDS is good for taking women out of their pickme stage, but doesn't have much practical advice. r/splendida has some awesome advice on looksmaxxing. Redpillwomen..just...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:30 AM
2

Haha yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:26 AM
1

As am I. So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:26 AM
3

Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:31 PM
-2

We call this coping. What is a hot guy whose good for sex but not an LTR? One who won’t commit. Seen it (and even been the guy) so many times. No, not at all. You can have sexual chemistry but not romantic/relationship chemistry. I've had two separate FWBs where I just didn't have any feelings for them. They're good for sex and drinking/chilling - but I never felt that I could ever fall in love with them. My last FWB I held off a relationship with for 9 months because shortly before I had a brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:30 PM
1

Yeah but sometimes you want a break from relationships, or you meet a hot guy who's good in bed but not relationship material. FWBs serve a function for a particular time in your life. They're not sub par relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:13 PM
6

I actually met a guy on tinder with a cuck fetish who's biggest fantasy was to share his new bride on his wedding night. There's cucking and then there's CUCKING. I quite liked the idea of having some fun with him but all his fetishes were a bit much for me. Mine were like sesame Street compared to his.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:11 PM
7

Wow TIL!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:08 PM
7

People get married to be recognised legally and socially as a 'family". A wedding is a big fun day where you get to look amazing and are the centre of attention. Unsurprisingly, lots of women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:07 PM
1

I'm still not sure about how this 'pair bonding' works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:05 PM
1

Why would I be 'ho hum" to my fwb?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:03 PM
4

I just block people. That way I can talk to people like yourself and not have to sieve through too much shite. Weirdly terfs also invaded 'mumsnet' which is literally a website to talk about mum stuff. They sure get about hah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:07 PM
5

The downvote thing is pretty new. I used to just get downvoted for making crass/rude/disagreeable comments. Not I get downvoted for literally any innocuous comment - like asking if someone recovered from surgery. Seems there's some sort of recent influx of certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:49 PM
5

You actually read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:46 PM
0

My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:46 PM
2

Paragraphs are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:45 PM
1

Why would you think that? FWBs are usually hot .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:42 PM
1

There's two definitions. One definition is a man who adds value to a womens life. The other is that his value the marketplace has set for him. It gets confusing sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:48 PM
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It's no one's business how silly your standards are, but I will argue that of you are able to meet the requirements you set - then those requirements are not unreasonable. If I described my standards on here, people would probably laugh at me. But I've never struggled to date so they are reasonable by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:41 PM
0

I was going to tag you in this! Yet another example of the 'PPD is pointless" rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:35 PM
15

A woman's FWB is like a mans FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:27 PM
3

Does anyone have any studies about the state of sexlessness in Europe and the rest of the anglosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:26 PM
0

No I'm not The post you linked me to shows a conversation where the guy uses emojis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:01 AM
2

Something about cold places...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:52 AM
3

Crack open a cold one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:51 AM
1

I can see this going. Spectacularly wrong. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:42 AM
2

u/TheBookOfSeil See, one of those 'ppd stoopid' posts we were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:41 AM
2

Thanks, you're very sweet :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:39 AM
2

There's actually a lot of stories of people losing money for IG likes. So a few gold diggers DM you, how much money are you going to have to spend before she realises you're fake ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:38 AM
0

When I talk to men on tinder, I find over use of emojis really odd putting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:36 AM
1

The male biological imperative is to father as many children as possible. A man who heedlessly pursues his imperative will basically be trying to have sex with as many women as possible, he'll be trying to get sex at the lowest cost to himself in terms of effort and resources. In this scenario, how would any of the kids servive (evolutionary speaking)? If you get multiple women pregnant, but you're not their to support the mother - the kids die Also there's all the subsequent incest (no one know…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:34 AM
1

And I'd no one DMs him he's just wasted a shit load of money for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:47 AM
1

People can vastly improve their appearance with money, this increasing their SMV. You can get a nose job, get your teeth fixed, buy nice clothes, stylish hair etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:46 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:30 AM
2

Good looking people have no problems getting married - regardless of their N count. This sub is too obsessed with N counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:29 AM
3

Meh - lots of male comedians are pretty misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:13 PM
5

My favourite comedians is Dylan Moran and I think he's makes the most accurate observations about gender. https://youtu.be/CWxAarluK8s (My favourite joke starts at 8:35
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:26 PM
2

I've never understood the Amy schumer hate brigade. There's a ton of terrible American comedians, but a huge focus on her? I liked this one, anyway: https://youtu.be/e8teRxOSNHs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:12 PM
3

Thanks! Yeah it was quite tiring, got a 2:1 though which I'm proud of :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:04 PM
2

I wasn't actually working whilst I studied, but thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:58 PM
1

We're not doing it for men, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:02 PM
5

💯. I had my kid at 20 and wouldn't recommend it. Things worked out Ok because I live in the UK and I can have a low income job and live comfortably.(and still managed to get a degree). But if I could choose to live my life again I would have traveled, gone to Uni, got a better job, had a relationship 5+ years and started family early/mid 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:00 PM
2

I had a child early (20) and I would 💯 recommend my daughter and other women/girls to establish a comfortable lifestyle before having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:57 PM
1

I do when I'm dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:28 PM
-1

I'm really turned off by men using lots of emojis
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:26 PM
-1

I'm a big advocate of taking things slow. You go on a date, see them maybe two weeks after for a second, then go on more dates and gradually see them more regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:24 PM
1

I'm pretty sure the definition of 'tribe' is universal. A group of people that live and work together as a unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:21 PM
1

By definition a tribal is a group of people who share and care about each other. You can't really be tribal and have hyper self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:54 PM
1

I'm not sure what you're saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:48 PM
1

I live dating in my thirties. It's way better than dating in my twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:31 AM
1

Tribal as in 'you scratch my back I scratch yours'. People doing each other favours, networking each other, having big parties with extended families. I don't think trumpers do this. It's more like a group of people who circle jerk one another's believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:21 AM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:20 PM
1

SPF EVERY MORNING (regardless of weather) moisturise twice a day and use retinoids in the evening. This routine will cost you about a tenner a month, and you'll definitely feel the benefits in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:03 AM
1

Looking or acting? People are definitely growing up slower than before. The average age of marriage and kids is much older than it was '30s is the new 20s' is a thing. With regards to looks - people realise that looking after yourself as a young person means you will feel the benefits as an older person. I've used sunscreen on my face since I was 28. I don't care about aging NOW but I know that when I'm in my late 30s/early 40s I will be thankful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:01 AM
21

Women are warned from a young age to be weary of men. We're aware that men mostly go for looks. If you mean the online internet spaces, trp is pretty much used interchangeably with Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:57 AM
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I've heard that Italy is not individualistic but very 'tribal'. So if you're 'in' you'll have friends of friends and distant family doing you favours and going out their way for you. But if you're out, you're pretty screwed. I've also heard stories of people falling out with family members over not so big issues and bring shunned
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:48 AM
1

Yes, ideal bodies are generally not achievable by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:40 AM
1

Last year I had the 'Im sorry you thought I cheated'. (After finding out he was so thirsty over lockdown he made a profile on an escort sight).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:39 AM
16

Men also do the 'it just happened" thing. I've heard it innumerable times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:53 PM
1

Haha! How big is beefcake?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:13 PM
0

One day I wanna make a break down of all my lays/relationships and where I met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:01 PM
1

Because there's a study run by a shaving company that said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:31 PM
-1

Oh fuck yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:13 PM
6

Like anyone would admit if they didn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:31 PM
0

No idea, I've never given it much thought
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:06 PM
1

It seems women like popular men. Men with a large pool of friends who like him. Which pretty much contradicts the notion that women like dark triad traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:41 PM
1

Smooth skin, minimal/no body hair, thick penis 5-7 inches long, defined six back and cum gutters, muscular arms, full head of shiny hair, smooth skin no wrinkles/sagging. Footballers have really nice bodies. Beefcakes, fatties and dad bods can jog on. https://www.google.com/search?q=shirtless+footballers&tbm=isch&ved=2ahUKEwjlxcijzezwAhVOYxoKHZxAC1cQ2-cCegQIABAC&oq=shirtless+footballers&gs_lcp=ChJtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1pbWcQAzoECCMQJzoFCAAQsQM6AggAOgYIABAHEB46CAgAEAgQBxAeOgQIABANUMMfWLg0YPo3aABwAHg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:31 PM
5

Right? I've never got the whole 'feminists/ liberals like girly men' rhetoric It seems the pro-sex camp put a much bigger emphasis on alpha traits because sex matters to them. Where are the conservatives put more emphasis on the man being the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:04 AM
1

When did I say children should be 'coddled" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:53 PM
1

I genuinely think you have your ages mixed up. A 6 year old isn't quite ready for hikes and journys into the city by themselves. Their brains literally aren't developed enough to calculate risk adequately. You can tell a six year old to never get in a car with a stranger, but I guarantee that a man will be able to talk them into doing exactly that. You can tell them not to get into the river because of the current but I guarantee another child will be able to dare them to do it. Kids are rule br…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:51 PM
3

Aww diddums
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:33 PM
2

There's a space between putting kids in danger and turning them into pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:23 PM
1

No offence but I don't think you k ow much about children and child development. I think you're not a very good judgement of children's ages and milestones either. Four year olds are just after preschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:18 PM
1

Porn addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:16 PM
8

He's probably high tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:12 PM
1

Dude, I literally have a degree in childhood studies. There's a way to build children's cognitive development and resilience without putting them in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:11 PM
1

r/coomer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:03 PM
4

Seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:02 PM
2

the little brats Yeah, not someone to take parenting advice off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:01 PM
12

He is a divorced dad! You can see in his comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:47 PM
3

Coomer not cooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:44 PM
6

See comment history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:44 PM
5

I guarantee that a single mother like me finds it 10x easier dating compared to a coomer/gaming addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:33 PM
8

So you're a single dad shitting on single mums? Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:32 PM
1

Young children can't do this, though. You're thinking of older children/ teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:54 PM
2

It's not one or the other. I don't think it's helecopter parenting not letting your child who's aged 2 - 8 walk to the park on their own and be 'free range'. At that age a parent needs to be nearby watching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:53 PM
1

A lot of parents don't have a lot of outdoor space or places where children can be 'free range'. So this entails the parent taking time out of their day and taking them to a park or something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:47 PM
1

It's doesn't matter how loud you shout, if people don't like what you shout - they will block it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:43 PM
1

Sexy, fun to be around, nice to me and others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:35 PM
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If you can successfully date whilst having said standards - those standards are not unreasonable. Narniafox has met and married a man who fits these standards, hence they are not 'unreasonable". Plus the 'submissive woman' thing is laughable - it's quite fucking easy to find dudes that do not require women to be 'submissive".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:43 PM
1

Yeah. Her and Angelina Jolie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:42 PM
3

Yeah, I imagine this is what actual 'locker room" talk is. Akin to 'the Inbetweeners'. Guys being a bit crass, joking/ discussing sex, laughing at each other and a bit of banter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:34 PM
2

PP: I've always gone Dutch on the first few dates. After dating regularly the man normally falls into a habit of treating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:05 PM
3

I'd also just tone the fucking language down. There's a lot of guys who'd do WAY better with this shit if it wasn't presented as the end of the fucking world that they used to be bad at flirting or whatever And it actually deters normal men. A regular dude who's down on his luck isn't going to enjoy a space that calls women 'children' and 'holes'. He wants to have sex and perhaps find love - he doesn't want this gender war/ male supremacist bs. Its what has led to it's demise and turned it into …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:02 PM
5

Ppw I'm not a tabula Rosa, gender constructionist - but I don't think evolution guides our every decision, either. I think we're somewhere in-between and focussing on one is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:52 PM
1

No. I think it's 'petulant and immature' when older men date women my age. I'm certainly not jealous of these women - why would I be jealous of old, immature gross men when I have attractive men my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:28 AM
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Men flake out all the time on tinder. It is what it is. People find another person or they simply forget about you, then they just can't be fucked to explain everything to you and get into an argument about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:29 AM
5

I found dating at thirty a breeze compared to sating as a younger person. More confidence, better at reading people, less insecure, sex feels nicer etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:17 AM
3

Ten hours! Go you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:10 AM
5

I've been a STAHM, I've worked full time not doing childcare and I currently work 35hrs in childcare. Whilst childcare doesn't really require the brain to work 'hard' it requires the brain to work 'constant'. You're having to stay alert for long hours at a time with little or no breaks in-between. Keeping them safe answering questions, teaching them stuff etc etc. I actually somehow manage 18-20k steps a day at my job, and walking there and back only takes 15 mins. That's thousands of steps wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:07 AM
2

Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:10 PM
4

A fish is an OLD profile is the world's most effective contraceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:30 PM
1

I spend ages having sex, but wanks are literally just for getting to sleep and occasionally making bathtime fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:13 AM
2

This is true for the beggining stage for sure. I think after you've been together for so long, the mistique dwindles and they're just a regular partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:46 PM
1

she'll change her personality, kick up most of her ideas about "female empowerment" . What does this mean OP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:44 PM
1

I don't know eitherz but I hear it a lot on here. I guess they think women with blue hair who screech at men on the subway for manspreading? Not just normy women from Western Europe and the rest of the Anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:43 PM
1

Well I guess it's because they're passionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:36 PM
1

Right? Like entire countries are predominantly feminist and they have perfectly normal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:33 PM
8

Eh. Fiery women seem to do just fine. All fiery women I know have partners
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:27 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:51 PM
1

I've never successfully dieted, but I've had lifestyle changes that have made me slimmer and hotter. The biggest difference was that I could get much hotter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:16 PM
2

It's mostly looks. Aside from that, it really depends on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:14 PM
5

I agree with a lot of their common sense stuff with edgy terminology. But I often disagree with their explanation to WHY those things work (sometimes). I also think their edgy terminology is what has been it's demise and which has made way for the Incel/black pill take over. A normal bloke who's down on his luck who visits the sub is going to see the ostentatious, try-hard misogyny and he will subsequently find it off putting. However the perpetually angry, misanthrope sees it and thinks 'wow, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:06 PM
1

Yeah, something inbetween sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:50 PM
1

It's ok, I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:49 PM
1

In those virgin Chad memes, how is chad " but also as dumb, rude, inconsiderate, short-sighted and concerned with nothing but pleasure seeking".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:43 PM
3

Calmer. Little or no emphasis on 'popularity'. Smaller but much tighter group of friends. More interested in starting a family (possibly panicking depending on how far into their thirties they are) Sex is better than in the 20s More confidence. More effort put into self care (skin needs taking care of, more aware of diet and exercise). Makes a noise when getting up and out of a chair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:12 PM
1

Which memes, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:04 PM
1

I think people have a vague idea about what they want, but they rarely pass up the chance of seriously dating someone they have a lot of chemistry with. I've never met someone expecting a relationship and stated that to them - I just have a good time and if things there's really good chemistry then I take it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:03 PM
4

Q4W How much money do you spend on beauty a month, and how many hours of work is required to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:00 PM
1

I have and I don't notice the difference at all. It's just a bunch of singles (and occasional poly) looking to fuck and date. All three aps had the same amount of people looking for hook ups and relationships. I used tinder just because there was more men on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:58 PM
2

He looks like a cloud
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:33 PM
2

No this is some wierd revenge fantasy. Chads are good looking guys - some have shit personalities and some have lovely personalities. Some are wonderful partners and some are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:32 PM
1

I literally just start wanking to whatever (memories usually), then watch a porn clip for about 20 seconds, cum and go to sleep. I don't got time for build up or storylines lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:30 PM
2

Nowadays I know more couples that met on tinder than real life. Tinder is like going to a super busy singles bar. People are there for all sorts of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:23 PM
5

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:22 PM
2

Does it matter which app they use?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:19 PM
13

You can absolutely find a relationship on tinder - people do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:51 PM
6

Well, you're wrong. Normy men in progressive countries don't like waiting long periods of time for their girlfriends to put out and are scared of the idea that said girl is low libido and frigid.# Also: > Take Chad for instance: they're portrayed as big, strong, good-looking and sexually successful, but also as dumb, rude, inconsiderate, short-sighted and concerned with nothing but pleasure seeking Also wrong. Chad is literally short hand for 'man in the 99 percentile of attractiveness'. It has …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:48 PM
2

Where are you from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:33 PM
9

Super modest and virginal girls/ women have their own obstacles in dating, they're seen as frigid and low libido. Additionally, many men dislike the idea of waiting long periods of time to have sex with the woman they're dating. Of course everyone should have sex and date at their own pace, and find someone with a similar level of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:32 PM
1

uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:14 PM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 07:32 PM
1

Meh - people say the same about black folk, Asian folk, Americans, the irish, Germans etc. Just seems like xenophobia to me. Besides, the suggestion that a country with a population of 68m cant find enough attractive women for a pageant is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 07:20 PM
1

lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:18 PM
2

eh, not really. I don't secrete loads of saliva when I lick, there's a small amount of residue. There's more saliva created through oral sex. Plus sex is pretty messy any way - I don't see how a tiny bit of tongue residue is worse than all the pussy juice and sweat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:17 PM
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None. People should find a partner and lifestyle that suits their own personality. My mother is happy being a domestic goddess and full time dog mum whilst her husband runs a business and works. My best friend has a good career and does most the providing whilst her husband cleans windows - they both take care of the children and that works really well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:12 PM
1

Yeah literally every woman I know loves it when her man cheats and fingers herself in the bathroom thinking about it. They all go wild for sharing their man with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:02 PM
2

you don't lick and kiss womens bodies during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:58 PM
3

swimmers bodies are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:57 PM
2

TBF I don't think many women have experienced a guy with a nice face and a muscular body - and women will always prioritise facial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:45 PM
2

I actually bumped into the miss (county) in the UK and she was legit less attractive than me. I can only assume the pageant culture is so unpopular in the UK that the bar for winning is really low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:39 PM
0

Yeah. I kiss his neck and chest and then roll my tongue down the torso until I get to his cock. Men do this to me - its quite a normal part of making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:36 PM
1

insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:33 PM
1

Honestly I wouldn't know where to find examples. When I type 'topless man' into google its all ripped guys. Maybe show me some examples and I'll say which is 'meh' which is 'yaas' and which is 'nope'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:33 PM
2

friends are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:17 PM
5

I absolute go wild for muscles - I love running my hands over them and licking/kissing them. When a guy has a 'meh' body I don't find myself doing this and the sex isnt as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:05 PM
2

I read all kinds of books - mainly head-fuck-sci-fi that explores wierd concepts. I almost exclusively watch comedy on TV (not movies) and usually british comedy ( I like a couple of american shows). I actually stopped watching porn but I always watched porn with close up penetration shots and usually BDSM stuff (nothing 'rapey'). The porn differs to what I like in the bedroom. I like close up penetration shots in porn, but IRL I love receiving oral and I wouldn't be able to come from PIV and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:02 PM
6

I moved in with a boyfriend and had a child in my early twenties and I would 100% discourage it. I didn't have enough dating experience or enough people experience to decipher whether or not this guy would make a good lifetime partner and father. Alas, the relationship went to shit, he had to move out and I was a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:53 PM
1

eh, dont really see it. Similar beards but thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:49 PM
2

sonic? I believe he posted nudes of them before during a purge. She was petite and he was actually quite over weight IIR
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:39 PM
1

relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:50 PM
2

I would literally give hitler a rusty trombone if it saved my childs life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:31 PM
3

I got kicked of fds for saying this lol. So I get three orgasms, the dude gets one - and somehow he's the one using me. doyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:25 PM
1

no it speaks of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:22 PM
1

where did I say otherwise ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:18 PM
4

That's actually adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:33 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:22 PM
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Link or it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:12 PM
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Being a caveman doesn't mean treating a women like a toy. I've had plenty of partners that are raw dominant and animalistic but in-between that and leading up to that they're very sensual. Actually in most sub/dom relationships, the sub is on control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:01 PM
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"gentleman in the streets, but a caveman in the bed". Fuck yes! I am engorged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:59 PM
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They hang around with other losers and think it's the norm. Your vibe attracts your tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:50 PM
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Gosh, I don't know. I suppose they have a relationship/ fling and then nothing for three months and then another one. Maybe one or two ONSs in-between if they're lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:48 PM
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Hi guys! Did you know that women care about physical attraction and that good looking men have a better time at dating? It's hardly even mentioned here, and I thought I would point it out. As you were...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:46 PM
2

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:40 PM
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I can't imagine anything more bizarre. It goes against all my human instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:39 PM
2

That's a bad compassion. A good comparison would be lying about wearing make up, which most women don't do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:32 PM
7

If you enjoy the company of people much younger than you, you're immature. There's nothing wrong with avoiding immature men or women. It's a trait most people find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:30 PM
2

I'm focussing on being a mum at the moment so I don't have the time and energy for a career, hopefully one day though. I love my job at a school as an individual needs assistant. It works around child care, time wise. The staff and management are really kind and supportive - I feel valued as a staff member. I'm outside a lot. The atmosphere is always vibrant and energetic - I think the kids are just great. Downside is it's really exhausting both mentally and physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:27 PM
6

How annoying that you wasted all that time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:23 PM
2

He has a lot of masculine and feminine traits. He's smart because he has taken the best of both worlds and used it to his advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:21 PM
5

She already explained, she has more in common with men her age. My cut off is four years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:20 PM
7

I've met with men who look really different to their profile picture. I suspect they used really older pictures and lied about their age - though there was no proof. Either way I just ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:17 PM
6

How is having standards being "petty' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:15 PM
0

There's a fair share of both in society. Ideally men need to retain their 'mojo' but navigate getting sex in a salubrious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:35 PM
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Yeah, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:50 PM
2

What has that got to do with men opening up to men in men's spaces? Since when were women attracted to depressed, suicidal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:11 AM
2

Depends what you mean by 'opening up". I've 'opened up' and scared men away, several times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:05 AM
2

Toxic masculinity is a subset of masculinity that is toxic to men. House know that of you took five seconds to Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:40 AM
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Does this really need to be said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:38 AM
1

Yeah but UK has a puritan past as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:07 AM
5

Aside from legalising prostitution, what else can anyone do in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:58 PM
1

I kind of understand having a hang up about sex, but I don't understand the logic behind "its ok to have a dick in my mouth but not my pussy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:53 PM
3

Productive with regards to educational pursuits, career goals, hobbies, friends, community participation and mental health. I don't understand this? Do you not think male children aren't already encouraged to persue these things in our culture? We live in a really career focused culture and there's no end of leisure available to anyone in 2021. The left has been pushing guys getting help for mental health for years now "toxic masculinity" - but a lot of men just aren't interested in it (especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:52 PM
3

A woman was just grabbing your balls and ass to be friendly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:41 PM
2

Do it and get back to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:30 PM
2

Doh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:28 PM
3

They grabbed your balls but didn't want to go out with you? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:22 PM
1

Only if I can beat you at scrabble first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:17 PM
2

Makes sense. We're pretty godless here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:17 PM
2

Haha. I was referencing allana from broad city. When she's excited she looks at her crutch and says 'im engorged".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:15 PM
2

Some people like middle of the road music, I guess. if it can sell, record companies will throw money at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:14 PM
2

I wonder why the two countries are so different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:11 PM
1

I love it when a man takes his teeth out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:10 PM
1

Tinder in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:09 PM
1

I've never seen this in my life but apparently it happens all the time on PPD. People hook up and fuck or they don't. I don't know anyone who goes to second base but doesn't do the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:07 PM
2

"I'm engorged"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:06 PM
9

Well they both sound mentally unstable, and mentally unstable women are pretty common in the Polly community. Expect lots of fighting between the two ladies and STDs from the other guys they're fucking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:02 PM
2

There's thousands of talented artists put there that are unsigned. Having looks and charisma is what gets your talent noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:59 PM
2

Fucking great film. Do ya like dags?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:56 PM
1

They mind be different over the pond. Here they're a bunch of sniveling misanthropes that enjoy other peoples misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:13 PM
2

I dunno - all traffic wardens I've met have been cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:34 PM
2

Yep! You get to see the sexy calves and a bit of shaft. Canny beat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:06 PM
2

Yep. 18yo me: "He likes me because I'm mature for my age, he's really cool". 30yo me "I was really fucking dumb and childish at 18, and he was immature for his age and pretty uncool"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:57 PM
2

I love a man in leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:17 PM
1

https://images.app.goo.gl/x15WSHssNFqL43H68 That looks like a very handsome face to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:15 PM
1

Aww traffic wardens or squadies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:57 PM
2

Yeah but women aren't typically swooning over him - are they? I mean, I've not actually heard of him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:51 PM
3

Boy George definitely has charisma. I wouldn't call the other two rockSTARS - just popular musicians. 'Rockstar' refers to a musician who interacts with the crowd like a 'star'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:47 PM
2

Nope, I think you just don't recognize how men flirt with women and how they flirt with other men. They were unequivocally flirting with their female audience z they literally oozed sensuality and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:43 PM
5

There's a lot of examples in the 50s/ 60s. The Beatles probably had the biggest female following of all time, they had to stop touring because of screaming women. Frank Sinatra was very pretty looking and 'cute'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:30 PM
1

Why do the women WHO swoon over famous fem men, choose to swoon over them instead of the masc ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:49 PM
2

No c'mon, women in the 80s/ 90swere HOT for Bowie and Prince - their pictures adsorbed teenage walls and had thousands of love letters sent to them. 'Gay traits' are distinctive traits that are compartmentalised on their own. Gay men might have feminine traits, but feminine traits are not gay traits per sa. Ask gay men how their gaydar works. They don't see tight clothes and jewellery and think 'gay' they go for a whole host of other traits that are often invisible to straight men. There's a dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:38 PM
1

Women will fuck them because it's 'cool' to fuck a famous person, or because they want some of the guys money/resources. Women don't have raw sexual attraction to them. Women are not masturbating to the thought of these men naked on too of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:13 PM
4

Oh god no, Bowie and Prince were very fucking hot. They are famous because women and girls en masses would literally get into bed, take down their panties and masturbate to the thought of them. Music labels SAW this in them, and they cashed in on it. Those men had sexual energy. The way they talked, sung and moved oozed sensuality. They just screamed 'Im amazing in bed" - and women and girls lapped up that vibe. Do you not find with women that the way they move and talk can be "sexy' like apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:09 PM
1

But we're not just talking about about physical features, but also aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:51 PM
1

Wrong person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:48 PM
1

No one is saying they are. OPs point is that there are physical aesthetics and characteristics that women are SEXUALLY attracted to Women dating and fucking rich men isn't the same as them lusting after them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:47 PM
-2

And do women en masses have those guys adorned on their bedroom walls? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:42 PM
1

I think men need to choose an aesthetic that suits their physical traits, and adjust it to their dating scene/ desired dating scene. I've seen a lot of millenial dudes my end hippymaxx and that evidently has worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:42 PM
1

You do see it. Go to any liberal arts college or your local theatre and see how much pussy these guys get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:11 PM
1

It’s not that someone like David Bowie or Prince got by on their looks, it’s that they’re really, really good at something. It's both. Music labels can see sexual appeal and presence in these artists which is why they sign them in the first place. They spot the potential and realise they can cultivate a huge female fandom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:09 PM
11

i say this all the time. Rockstars become rockstars BECAUSE they have sexual energy and charisma, they don't get famous and develop that after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:06 PM
2

One of the benefits of being an artsy guy is that artsy girls tend to be pro-sex feminists. Those types of women are way more open to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:59 PM
1

Yeah, it's about taking the attractive fem and the attractive masc traits and using them to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:29 PM
2

I think it depends on the traits. E boys and k pop stars rarely get noticed by over 20year olds. But Russell brand, David Bowie etc are popular with all age groups. It sound wierd but I think some guys just have an author of 'I can fuck' about them. Like they appear really sensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:18 PM
1

I just don't consider them as a part of my dating pool which is large enough not to feel a scarcity from excluding them. Yep, this is exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:56 PM
1

Hahah what, that's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:53 PM
1

Man smells Mmmmmmm yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:51 PM
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Because yeah unconfident men who are passive and wait to be approached arent getting laid at no age if they arent at least a 8 lol. Well no. The women who like feminine men don't like ALL feminine traits in men, they like a select few traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:44 PM
1

i think you need to understand that there are certain feminine traits that are attractive, and some that are not. Your bi friend obviously has some of the traits that don't appeal to women, or he is coming off as bisexual which makes him somewhat unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:40 PM
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Women swoon over Tom cruise because of his face and on stage presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:38 PM
2

A pitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:37 PM
1

Those men she listed are swooned over en masses by girls and women. The same cannot be said for Danny devito. Really wierd comparison you're trying to make there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:37 PM
2

I actually disagree. I think that men should pick a 'look' depending on their natural appearance. Guys with pretty faces would look wierd with big muscles, but guys with masculine faces and big jaws look weird in skinny jeans and eyeliner. And ugly guys should opt for the grotty punk/ rocker look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:35 PM
5

That's a bad photo of him. If you look at his facial structure and not his general health -he's a handsome man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:32 PM
2

That doesn't answer my question at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:30 PM
7

Why are young women choosing to swoon over famous feminine men instead of the thousands of masculine famous men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:00 PM
2

Yeah. DGAF guys are attractive. Some guys exemplify this by being feminine and bit caring what others (especially men) think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:59 PM
1

I'de say it's an aesthetic, and it's quite popular amongst maybe a large minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:58 PM
1

Haha. It junk Harry styles is just so handsome that he could wear a potato sack and be sexy tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:55 PM
3

I'm sure they do. But the women who like that your are overwhelmingly young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:54 PM
3

Modest 100
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:19 AM
2

Two things. Men don't understand the nuances of femininity and the aspects that women construe as attractive and unattractive. High pitched/ lispy voice, bisexuality, make up (except eyeliner), actual women's clothes (although Harry styles gets away with this for some reason) = unattractive. Feminine walk/ hand gestures (think Russell brand, prince, Mick Jagger), long hair, jewellery, feminine clothes like skinnies and tight tops = attractive. Add to this that this tends to be younger women (und…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:16 AM
2

Compatibility and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:09 AM
3

Oops!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:24 PM
2

Oof - sorry about the breast cancer. My friend has it at the moment, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I'm quite 'open' about my emotions, but admittedly I often don't show them facially or articulate them to other people. I have noticed since covid that I randomly get intense stomach pains when I go through a difficult time (break up, start of lockdown, etc). The stress manifests itself physically but not mentally - which is such a difficult concept to get your head around. This is supposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:21 PM
2

I was referring to my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:00 PM
4

I think he was backed into a corner (knew he fucked up big time) and was grasping at straws to try and mitigate this. Interesting fella, none-the-less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:53 PM
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I had a LTR with someone that earned way more money that me and honestly it caused problems. He wanted to do and have nice things that I couldn't afford, he would end up having to pay for me and it created frustration for him and a bit of power imbalance. Even to this day he resents me for it and did use it to justify him cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:45 PM
1

Interesting. You always seem really emotional to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:35 PM
1

Extroversion 88 Emotional stability 74 Agreeableness 62 Consciousness 24 Intellect/ imagination 52 Not sure what to make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:33 PM
2

I've only ever heard it reference s on here and maybe one or two movies. Is it just guys talking about sex? I don't really care about that, as long as the men don't know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:18 PM
1

I'm in the south and it's exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:15 PM
1

Babe, honey, sweetie" I use these terms about fifty times a day with almost everyone I meet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:30 PM
2

This is difficult because I'm working class English, and I frequently use terms like hun, darling, dear and love/ my love very casually (even at work). I call my daughter sweetheart and poppet. With boyfriends I use all the above (except poppet) and gorgeous/ babe. I generally show endearment with lots of physical affection and compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:29 PM
1

Where can I do a test?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:21 PM
2

Sounds wank.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:27 AM
3

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:56 PM
2

I'de say it's mainly American, however a lot transfers to the rest of the Anglosphere and western Europe. Theres a few political and cultural differences in the US and UK for example that would render dating experiences and expectations quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:39 PM
0

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:36 PM
4

I really respect people who go vegan/ veggie but I'm such a foodie myself and I know it will be problematic. My current fella had three GFS who were vegan (he eats everything ( and it sounded like a right nause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:08 PM
1

Yeah, I just go to the pub. No pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:49 PM
1

That's definitely one element of it. I don't want to feel like I owe the dude anything. I also don't want a man to be a provider, because it means I'm expected to perform certain roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:42 PM
0

Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:55 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:48 PM
1

Weirdo Reddit rhetoric is not real life rhetoric. The majority of people don't bat an eye at this age gap, especially when the woman is done with her "formative years".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:44 PM
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Because they think its "gross" and it otherwise causes an emotional reaction. The men are usually accused of being manipulative and manipulating young women. Right, and people of all ages and sexes think like this. Older people want to 'protect" younger people (and men are very in tune with how predatory other men are) Younger people just find it viscerally gross. The thought of someone my age dating an older person is viscerally gross. I'de think 'err..is she ok in the head?' Would most of us t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:42 PM
1

This conversation is specifically about relationships, though. Of course it doesn't matter if you're just hooking up, that doesn't need to be pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:38 PM
4

I think people have different definitions of 'bad boy'. One is "he acts bad towards other people' The other is "he goes against social conventions"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:37 PM
1

Of someone is having sex with you, you are hot enough to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:32 PM
1

Of course he was hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:28 PM
5

I was obviously referring to the actor, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:23 PM
2

Were talking about serious relationships here. Not hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:13 PM
-1

No everyone does this, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:07 PM
3

Because I like men who are sensible with their money, and spending lots of money on someone they hardly know is not very sensible Of course, if an actual boyfriend did that it would be lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:49 PM
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Woh, chill. I don't respect the act of being frivolous etc, so no - I wouldn't date you or see you as a dating prospect. That doesn't mean I'de be shitty to you or act in a negative way towards you. How you conduct dating is your business. I just wouldn't see you as a dating prospect for the reasons I've listed And you probably wouldn't see me as a dating prospect, so it's all cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:40 PM
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I don't care how other men chose to date other women that are not me. What's so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:33 PM
1

Ehh, not really. If you both have kids, it's much more difficult to find free time to actually date. Plus you risk the kids getting attached and you both breaking up But I agree, they're way to obsessed with single mums. These types of men don't appeal to single mums for a myriad of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:17 PM
1

'playboycel' Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:11 PM
-1

When there's a large age gap men as well as women outside of this man's dating pool will shame them. So I don't see how thats 'sour grapes"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:10 PM
3

They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:07 PM
2

A 33 year old man interested in an attractive 25 year old woman is No one bats an eye at this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:06 PM
1

Then why are younger women shaming these men? And why are much older women shaming these men? (50yo woman shaming a 30yo man for dating an 18yo) And men are shaming them as well? Literally loads of examples where the 'shamer' is outside of the man's dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:05 PM
3

Dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:31 AM
2

Malfoy is probably the hottest male cast member tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:30 AM
1

Because they're exciting, charasamatic and they have balls. I made a post about the 'crazy' boys/girl appeal - you can see it in my post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:28 AM
2

What are we meant to be debating here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:23 AM
1

I don't really care what other people do, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:21 AM
9

This is a really good point. Women tend to swoon over actors because of the characters they play, and artists for their theatrical stage presence and the art they express. Some athletes get swooned over, but normally if they play for her favourite team or have an attractive personality. I don't know any woman who swoons over male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:51 AM
2

I'm sure another looksmaxxing sub will pop up soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:35 AM
4

I'de assume he was just having a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:11 AM
2

I've got so many good tips from there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:07 PM
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Honestly I don't think I can respect a guy who spends 50 - 100 quid on a woman he's just met. It shows he's frivolous, sycophantic and has poor money management skills. Plus I hate that tradcon bullshit. Not good traits for an LTR at all. Funnily enough, I've always gone Dutch on the first few dates and my last two boyfriends have been incredibly generous throughout our relationship. My last bf actually helped pay my rent when I was in-between jobs for three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:59 PM
2

Love that sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:49 PM
0

I've been mildly catfished once. He said he was a gym freak, but he actually just freaked out when he saw a gym. I also went on a date with a guy ten years older by accident because I didn't notice my feeld app went to that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:08 PM
1

So don't hit on women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:47 PM
2

Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:24 PM
1

None of my bfs have said that the women they dated have lower sex drives than them. I think they're all really good in bed though so their women are more keen to fuck then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:56 PM
2

I always make sure I get at least four hours a day in the winter, and I feel guilty of I don't. I think one of the reasons I'm such a chilled person is because I make time out of my day to be outdoors and I chose jobs where I get to go outside a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:52 PM
6

Being sexually repressed means you feel an element of shame or discomfort around sexuality. Needing to trust a guy doesn't correlate with those things. Some women are just low/lower risk takers and need to feel safe with a guy before they have sex. I'm completely sexually liberated, I have kinks that I'm not afraid to express and I enjoy casual sex. However I like to get a good 'vibe' from a guy before we fuck - even if he's very sexually attractive. Some women take a whole evening to feel his '…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:31 PM
1

What difference does it make? Being a pickme doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:26 PM
2

Pink pill got shut down for being terfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:23 PM
1

Are you ESL ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:47 PM
2

Uber eats, darling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:47 PM
6

Women BAD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:47 PM
3

Of course they do, but not as much as their age matched counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:34 PM
1

They all have six packs and big arm muscles, one dude has cum gutters. I define six packs as 'buff'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:32 PM
3

So being a pickme didn't work? Funny that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:12 PM
1

You're probably not worth such a toxic lifestyle My exes/ FBs would beg to differ. One had cum gutters because he rode a bike throughout the day (and occasionally did it handless to get his core muscles going) second one had a physical job and the current one runs three times a week and plays football on the weekends. All gorgeous hunky bodies, none of the toxic lifestyle. and you're probably not making it easy for them nonetheless. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:06 PM
1

I want men to be ripped because I want to enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:42 AM
1

That happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:24 AM
14

I dunno, lots of men get bored of homely women and cheat (if they're hot enough to, anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:17 AM
2

Well good for you! I'm glad it had the desired effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:09 AM
2

I like men in tank tops... Well any top that shows off the arms but isn't tight will show of muscles but not look gay. You catch my drift...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:01 AM
6

Well ones in the formative years, the other is not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:59 AM
1

Keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:57 AM
3

Same with women. When I lost weight my face looked so much nicer. I got a nice neckline and my cheekbones are more defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:57 AM
4

It's all about your aesthetic and how you groom. Tight tops that show off your muscles look kinda gay, but a loose fitted tank top that hangs on a buff chest and shows off buff arms doesn't. Also too much jewellery and designer clothes can look gay, but a nice haircut and beard doesn't. Of you catch my drift...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:53 AM
4

"real women like men with curves"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:46 AM
5

Lol bullshit, stop making excuses not to get ripped. Ripped men are gorgeous. It's something women primally lust after
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:39 AM
13

Sex is a visceral, primal need that very much contributes to ones wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:18 AM
3

Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:15 AM
6

Women with Tats and piercings are trying to attract men who also have tats and piercings. I don't see what it's got to do with parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:15 AM
1

FDS is more the equivalent to WAATGM, not nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:13 AM
6

It's way more than a third of SMV dude. Women are very shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:11 AM
5

Bullshit - women go wild for cum gutters and six packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:09 AM
2

This is typically what gay men do. They groom their hair and find a decent style, they moisturize and wear suncream to slow down aging, they exercise and wear clothes that show off their hot bodies etc etc. I think men are crazy not to looksmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:08 AM
3

They call it the 'squirty thirties' for a reason. I would argue that sex in your thirties is MUCH better than sex in your twenties (for a woman, at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:04 AM
1

Older men are most likely the betas - the younger women are with them because they typically have more money and resources. If they want a man for his looks then they'll go with the youngner, more attractive men Most men want to be the latter, there's not much to be jealous of in a beta/sugar daddy scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:00 AM
-2

Nice guys are typically guys being petulant and rude to women. - not the equivalent to WAATGM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:56 AM
1

Nah, not really. It's different each time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:09 AM
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I think it's more of an issue when people are in their formative years. There's not much difference between a 32yo and a 40yo, but a big difference between a 20yo and a 28yo. Also I think some people think there's something wrong with you if you pick an older less attractive person over a sexier person your own age group. "Oh she much have low self esteem".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:45 AM
2

Does anyone think of food as soon as they cum? Im deciding on what to eat whilst I still have jizz on my leg. Is there some sort of explanation for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:39 AM
1

I've never even thought of it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:31 AM
2

age gape This is the second time I've heard you say this. Do you type the word 'gape" on your phone a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:31 AM
1

It's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:18 AM
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If you feel on the same level as someone much younger than you the assumption is that you're petulant and immature. Petulant and immature adults are generally looked down upon by society. Couple that with the fact that people are protective of young women, so they try and veer them away from (what they perceive as) predatory men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:16 AM
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No the guys that run and contribute to that sub are typically incels. Normy men don't shit on women they don't want to date for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:35 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:07 PM
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You should just avoid those types of spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:06 PM
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According to what men? The men on here? Lol, ignore them. Lots of women get more attractive in their thirties. Sometimes they get a slimmer face (they lose the 'puppy fat'. Sometimes they're more confident, and sometimes they're just healthier looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:05 PM
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Oh, ok. Yeah the manosphere extends to those other apps I'm saying as a single mum, the hate rarely exists IRL. I don't get praise, hate or pity - just indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:03 PM
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More confidence? Maybe you're more attractive than you think you are? Also most men in the west (non tradcons, anyway) aren't obsessed with virginity. If anything it scares them off as they think the woman is frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:59 PM
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That sub is made by manospherians (incels, terps etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:36 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:33 PM
1

Honestly when I see racism I report it to Reddit admin and it gets deleted. I'll try and screen grab in the future. Just look at the commonest section when there's black people on the picture (the women in the screed grab or one of her friends in the picture).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:24 PM
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And you know this, how exactly? The majority of single mothers were in relationships that broke down. Single from the start (or infant years) are actually quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:17 PM
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Because they want their cake, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:11 PM
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Aww thanks. I'm Ok, I miss him as a friend but sadly that didn't work out. Do you have ADD per chance? My ex never got himself diagnosed, but I'm certain he had ADD. People with ADD can obsessively hyper focus on one things to the detriment of other things in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:09 PM
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Most of these relationship breakdowns are with men who weren't 'unfit fathers' to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:07 PM
1

50% of people who marry and have kids stay together until the kids are grown up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:06 PM
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Tbf I'm subbed to loads of them, simply because it goes well with my Popcorn 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:05 PM
3

Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:02 PM
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Yeah, that happens. I was with someone three years and he worked stupidly long hours. He eventually developed seriously bad mental health issues from the stress and lack of sleep. He went from a normal, slightly quirky bloke to someone who was completely disassociated from reality and often had bouts of alcohol induced psychosis. Luckily I didn't have kids with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:02 PM
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Often it means they choose (or accidentally if that is any better/worse) to have a child in a relationship that most likely had some red flags. You can be happy with someone for five - ten years before seeing 'red flags" and divorcable behaviour. It's just unfortunate that having a baby/child brings stress to the relationship and often catalises shitty behaviour in partners. For example a wonderful man who you live with peacefully and happily suddenly doesn't cope with the stresses of a family a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:59 PM
2

I'm hopefully going to a topless feminist rave in the summer. All the nipples!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:55 PM
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I'de rather be a single for a year and have one night stands than be an Incel and be single for a year and have no night stands. If the single mums go on ten dates and five are failuresz she's still miles better than the guys not getting any dates. And I say this as someone who has been a 30yo single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:53 PM
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I mean they have much more luck than incels when it comes to dating, not sex. Simply because acquiring a date in the first place is much easier for them. The women going on 10 dates and failing five is better of than the Incel who went on one date and failed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:50 PM
1

Naww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:42 PM
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Yeah, exactly. There's a lot of guys I wouldn't date, but I don't shit over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:26 PM
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As you get older you realise how much people change over time. Not just partners but close friends and family members. You can spend your early twenties finding a husband/wife, vet for five years and plan children - then after X amount of years that wonderful person can turn into an addict, a cheat, verbally/physically abuse etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:25 PM
4

I know is single mothers get a lot more hate then single dads Fortunately, outside of the manosphere there is very little hate towards single mothers. It is in the UK, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:20 PM
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I'm asking you as you're the one asserting that those people are the norm and the people that aren't doing that are 'failures'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:10 PM
5

What percentage of couples with children are happily together and have been for 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:08 PM
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How is anyone meant to predict which person they can stay with and be happy with indefinitely? It's not like humans and the future is predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:06 PM
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So anyone that has ever broken up with anyone has a poor ability at understanding humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:01 PM
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The funny thing is that those 30 something single mothers having ten times the luck dating than the people on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:00 PM
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Half the women in the post belong on choosingbeggers, the other half ai just feel sorry for. The sub itself is just a bunch of salty Inc*ls furiously masturbating over the fact that some women are worse off than then. It will most definitely get shut down eventually for racism because they're always shitting on black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:58 PM
1

I don't think you have a very good definition of 'chad'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:15 PM
1

Lol no way. Average weight, but his face is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:22 PM
2

I understand not liking choking someone - but facefucking doesn't have to be aggressive IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:21 PM
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That has nothing to do with her comment. She's saying that the women who DATE/t LTR chads in their youth (IE Stacie's) date 40yo chads when they're 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:30 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:26 AM
1

Right on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:42 AM
3

women who get young Chad also get old Chad Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:45 AM
2

Nah he's above average. That's a nice face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:08 AM
5

Madonna complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:53 AM
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He sounds like an alpha buck - a lad who's alpha (you're sexually attracted to him) but also beta (can provide comfort and resources). Lucky you, you struck gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:50 AM
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Yep, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:43 AM
3

What if she played with herself on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:38 PM
2

Ah I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:38 PM
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Wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:16 PM
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The best thing to do is raise a children anywhere where the parent or parents are emotionally stable, financially stable and happy. Functionality > structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:02 PM
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All my partner's absolutely love the upside down face fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:00 PM
5

Poor mental health as a result of conflict between parents (and the conflict itself) has a very detrimental to the children in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:58 PM
5

Why is it called negging and not teasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:03 PM
2

How is that a neg?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:22 AM
1

A pickme or simp is going to want the guy regardless of whether they neg or not. It just doesn't always act as a deterrent. Actual normal people banter with one another, but a normy reads the room and knows which subjects are off the table. Insulting a women's looks (especially comparing her to a man) is pretty retarded imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:22 AM
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It doesn't 'work' on pickme/ simp - it just doesn't not-work. The pickme/simp wants the man whether he negs her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:18 AM
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Hi purple pilled, I'm alberto
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:40 PM
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No one can answer this because no one knows your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:38 PM
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Go and look at relationship age gap statistics in the US AFAIK there's a whole wiki page on it. Most Age gaps are three years, big age gaps are pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:59 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:48 PM
2

Why don't you like her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:19 PM
2

When women cheat, they’ve emotionally checked out of the relationship Nope. Some times she just wants the excitement, or the opportunity arrises and her urges get the better of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:55 PM
1

Condoms make me sore, and since having a child my labia are slightly raw on the inside and can hurt sometimes. With no condom and lots of moisture it's perfectly comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:34 PM
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Actually my mum has a story like this. As a teenager she was really conscious about her labia and noticed it was bigger than other girls. My grandmother took her to the doctor about it saying "my daughter has something wrong with her vagina' (obviously the whole thing was horrific for my teenage mother). The doctor laughed and said no, its a perfectly normal vagina. And she said that since no man has ever made a negative comment about it. I felt pretty bad for her. Up until she saw the doctor sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:32 PM
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I don't know anything about the depth of my vagina, and it's not something I think about. Guys say it's nice and like it, so I guess its alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:29 PM
1

What age group so you mean when you say 'young women' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:27 PM
3

No ot having a LTR/spouse doesn't mean a life of 'solitude'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:35 PM
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Can also confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:10 PM
1

Oh!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:01 PM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:59 PM
0

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:58 PM
1

Busy girl! I don't understand dedicating a WHOLE day to housework, though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:58 PM
1

That's close to what I have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:56 PM
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I have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:55 PM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:26 AM
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