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old_wise_man_/r/MGTOW25/11/20 02:02 AM
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Question For Womenold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:36 AM
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Discussionold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:20 AM
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Question For Womenold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:20 PM
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Question For Menold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:03 AM
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Debateold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:19 AM
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Debateold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:27 PM
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old_wise_man_/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:07 AM
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old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:59 AM
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Question For Menold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:19 AM
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old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:45 AM
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Purge Week!old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:06 PM
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Question For Menold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:06 PM
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old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:58 AM
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old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:42 AM
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Question For Womenold_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:35 AM
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Purge Week!old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:32 PM
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old_wise_man_/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:18 AM
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You also know that Finland, norway and those nordic countries also have the highest suicides rate right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:52 PM
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Normal weight, not fat, needs to work ( income is inrelevant), no kids. I need to feel attracted to her Im 24 normal weight, i work, and have no kids. These are the standards or must be. Of course hobbies and other things will make us see if we are compatible or not. But I would only think of pursuing a relationship if she meets those first .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:50 PM
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I had 1 that lasted a year. I was 20 and it lasted until I was 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:53 PM
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Not that. But when you are in the club you can get plenty of info. like we discussing girls and talk about A and they describe A, who she dated and other things. Since guys need to approach first in person, every info is precious before making the move or deciding to make the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:55 PM
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Obviously. The trick is being friend with the popular guys. They know everything and every girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:43 PM
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For you is awkward. For guys is another Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:26 PM
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Big asses....... Yeah....no. The opposite of this post would be tall girls. Tall girls (180cm or higher) are so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:40 PM
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Different times. In your grandparents era , a man hitting his wire wasn’t a problem. do you want to return to those times? I don’t think so. The problem from wishing that men court as they used to is that you have to return back on every moral norm that has been introduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:13 PM
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Videogames, watching anime and reading manga, it’s nice to find someone with the same interests. Someone you can talk about the handicap in fifa or that wonderkid in fm or even how Faker is awesome And redo healer is pretty neat!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:02 PM
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No. Not my kids, not my genes so no. Waste of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:58 PM
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Okay but agressive is something men need. Of course not overly agressive but must have some degree of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:45 PM
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They only thing i disagree is healthy competitive nature. Man are only competitive. There is no healthy part. Either you win or you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:41 PM
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Money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:30 AM
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Normal weight where i live is not fat. We dont lots of obese people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:35 AM
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Normal weight and height, earns a salary that allows her to live and looks normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:13 PM
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In my case i was. Only when the girl literally told me she liked me was when I knew she liked me. And according to her, She had already given plenty of hints. Either way there are men that believe every smile a woman gives is a "she is interested in me" and others like me who just dont get the hints at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:14 AM
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Most men dont have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:16 PM
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Do you know how hard is becoming to read the room in a society that defines everything as black and white (forgets the grey)? I am totally fine with it but with increasing escapes for the youngest generation, reading the room is a skill that is vanishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:27 PM
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Well cold approach does work…. when you are tall, charming and handsome. The only other time it works is if you have enough game and you are fun. But to have game, you need to have experience in talking to women and read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:08 PM
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Agree. A problem I see on relationships nowadays is that they dont put up work in the long run. Very rare are the people who knows a relationship needs work and actually try. A lot of the couples i've seen ( my mom worked as a wedding planner for years and sometimes in my free time i would help her) they go with the idea, i love you today, if i dont love tomorrow, bye. Like no sense. But hey you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:35 PM
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Agree. A problem I see on relationships nowadays is that they dont put up work in the long run. Very rare are the people who knows a relationship needs work and actually try. A lot of the couples i've seen ( my mom worked as a wedding planner for years and sometimes in my free time i would help her) they go with the idea, i love you today, if i dont love tomorrow, bye. Like no sense. But hey you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:34 PM
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Keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:10 PM
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Of course women don’t approach so much since they don’t consider a great number of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:29 PM
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Women do approach. If you weren’t approached by women, you are just not that attractive. I’ve seen women approach and Let me tell you, the only difference between them men and them is that, they expect you to start chasing after them, after they approach. But I mean, if you know X likes you, chasing after her is way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:13 AM
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In a good marriage? Both. in a bad marriage? None
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:04 AM
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Looks are a consideration okay, but she still likes some parts of my superficial. If she doesn’t then no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:43 PM
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Yes . I want her to like both the superficial and the not so superficial. If she only likes the superficial, then it won’t last long. if she only likes the none superficial, then she is settling with me and I don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:53 AM
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Of course. If you are tough, you show that nothing will shake you or hurt you and other man will respect you and fear you. If you don’t act tough, you will be pushed by other man out of existence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:44 AM
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I dont agree. However I do like the way my country works on this cases. When there is a case in court and the man questions the paternity, it’s made a DNA test and doesn’t matter if the child is 5 or 15, he can have his name removed from the Birth certificate if he desires it. If it’s proven he is not the father, the woman is obligated by law to say who the real father is. if she doesn’t want to, she no longer applies for government insurances and monetary helps. It happens because in my country…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:50 PM
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Because I want to see the WORLD BURN! ​ also sometimes you see some discussions in which you only need popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:04 PM
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Nope. If I see her, I will talk to her no problem but starting messages and going in purpose to talk to her ….. nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:57 PM
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Awesome. And then they will say they changed when they are older.... Ahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:51 PM
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Where i live (Portugal) private schools are only for the rich so no problems there( because of expensive those schools are). Just being in a public school doesnt make you worse or better. Swimming and computer literacy is part of the schools programm. Driving license costs indeed Money. You cant have friends without a phone. Maybe thats the problem with todays society. I dont have kids. If i did, i would make sure they would live with me by any means nevessary and would do my very best for my ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:52 PM
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The no sex ends when we get married? If so, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:08 PM
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I dont cheat never did. It one of my principles. I am a defender that cheaters should get nothing in a divorce since they are the ones who broke the contract and they need to be penalize by that. Now i have a friend who is handsome and has Cheated on every single girlfriend he has, but he still gets girls just by existing almost. Note that every that dates him or has sex with him, know that he is going to cheat since he doesnt even hide. I know Im stupid because i dont understand why would you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:00 PM
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Eduacation? Is free until high school where i live. Go to university? Work while studying like a lot of people do. Friends? Do you need money for friends? What kind of Friends are those? Life skills? Since when do you need money to get them? You need a person to teach you or life experiences. Extracurricular activities and books you need money but you already live with one of your parents. Why must the parent who doesnt live with you to pay for everything including this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:55 PM
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where the children are born into a certain lifestyle and it is unfair for them to step back from that significantly because their parents don't get along and weaponize finance. Why isn’t unfair? People who get broke have to adapt. Why should a person be obligated to support a lifestyle? The man must pay the necessary for the well-being of the child, the basic for him to have his basic needs fufilled. More than that is stupid. I’ve seen written on this sub that you don’t need sex to live . True. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:28 PM
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Well i know at least 2 where i live. Plus other people who divorce after honeymoon because they "didnt connect" like please ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:08 PM
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The fact that their wife’s can easily divorce him for no reason. Him snoring isn’t a reason to get divorce! But that is just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:33 PM
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Ç? Are you a portuguese speaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:37 PM
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I already lost hope before even signing on reddit. I just come here for my own amusement. I already have the perfect woman in my life. She is a mix of fictional characters and real women i know. She doesnt exist in RL. And since no woman can reach her knees, i lost my Desire to date. Nevertheless that doesnt mean i dont enjoy my life. I spend my money in things i like that give me pleasure like vacations, museums, videogames, etc. People come to this sub to debate. Some have amazing ideas, some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:34 PM
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She withholding sex isn’t the problem. The problem is she lying to my face. I want my girlfriend to be a virgin so if the date is going well, in the first date I ask her if she is. If she is, we will continue to have dates, if she isn’t , no point wasting both of us our time. My problem is only like 5 dates later, the girl will say she lied because A BC or D. I hate investing in time wastings because all the dates with that girl were that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:17 AM
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Same. I want a virgin woman. she having sex with another woman doesn’t make her a virgin. And yes I know as the older I get , the fewer are the chances of finding one but that is just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:02 AM
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Then the same as female virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:48 PM
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I’m natural fit so I never needed to work out. Never had the desire. I don’t need to do it for myself. For others? not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:09 PM
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Depends on the type of men you want to appeal. Want to appeal for a LTR? Then its good. Want to appeal for causal? Then your partners will find weird you have almost zero experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:22 AM
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Humm thanks but Im not going for 1 or 2. I’m still old school. Want my wife to be my first and last .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:14 AM
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i know I need to find a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:09 AM
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Ear piercings I don’t mind. but those ones I’m the lips or nose or belly or whatever place…yikes…. Again find a girl that doesnt have them. And the majority of girls this age only want to party, yolo…. So its a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:01 AM
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I’m looking in the 20-25 age range, (I’m 23). That said. It’s pretty rare to find a girl in that age who doesn’t smoke at least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:49 AM
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Funny Non-smoker and not a regularidy drinker. Virgin Hardworker Focused for ltr Focused on achieving goals No piercings No tattoos Normal weight ( its isnt fat)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:56 AM
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Doubt because unicorns arent real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:38 PM
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Realized my standards are near Impossible for a woman to achieve. Till this day only One woman fufilled all my standards, my ex. Unfortunately due to different life goals we slipt. And thats it. To be honest, while having a good ( empathis on good) relationship is awesome, the chances of finding One are nearly zero. Its true i could spend my life looking for that unicorn but i only have One life so may as well enjoy it and care about relationships last.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:00 PM
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If She is overweight She is not Becky. A woman who is overweight cant be more than 5. And Becky is a 7-8.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:05 PM
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He is a party guy that everyone knows. Everyone knows what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:06 AM
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Yeah. I just find hilarious when they are cheated and act like it was unexpected
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:49 AM
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Why the girls date him The reason he cheats is Simple. Women are pretty and if they say yes, he isnt going to say no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:40 PM
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Everyone knows. He doesnt hide if asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:13 PM
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Career means less time available. Career means more physical or/and mental fatigue that makes parents less patient and without time to take care of them. I have seen it happen a lot of Times . Yes it happens with Young parents who are also focused in careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:14 AM
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The question is which parent is willing to leave their career. Career women only marry career men. Which One is going to abandon all his/her work? Or is the kid going to get raised by TV, social media and kindergardens? It wouldnt BE the first for sure. Its all about choices. In the end the kid is a survivor (strongest sperm wins) so genetic will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:05 AM
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Nobody wants to follow. Everyone wants to lead. In the age of choice, everyone chooses to WANt TO BE the leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:59 PM
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I did. It made em realize that i shouldnt waste my time. Its too precious for that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:55 AM
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Its the reason i regret dating my ex. She is amazing and all but it didnt work. It was a waste of time for both of us. If i could back in time and knew things wouldnt work out between us, i wouldnt date her .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:49 AM
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Time is the most valued resource we have. I prefer to not waste it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:33 AM
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In my country if you married but you NEVER had sex with your wife ( if you had once, this doesnt apply) you can get an anullement of that marriage. Meaning there wont be any assest split, etc. So in my country marriage does involve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:15 PM
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Nothing of what you said equals health and a stronger immune system More beautiful doesnt mean better genes More beautiful means more pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:00 PM
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Do. And they are amazing. They are all married through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:15 PM
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I’m talking in case they want to LTR someone. They want to LTR someone who would have casual sex with them, because that means that the woman finds him attractive. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:27 PM
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Men want the woman that they LTR , be the same woman they have casual sex. If the woman would have both casual and LTR then it’s awesome. If the woman just wants LTR and no casual , then no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:22 PM
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Yes. And they don’t care about the money she makes. in the majority of cases women want a man who earns at least the same of more than her. So getting a woman who earns more than you is almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:32 AM
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Ahh if he had saved that collection, it would be worth much more.... Just decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:47 PM
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This is bad because ALL and I repeat ALL changes in society happened because people weren’t afraid to die or fight for what they believed. Also the majority of revolutions were made by man. Low testosterone means low aggression prone, meaning that the majority of men won’t revolt even if things suck big time like they are sucking now. Wages rise? Non existent. You have the freedom to think and say what you want but in the end you have to do what the politicians, media and the great lobby’s say b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:02 AM
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Poor guy… lost his most prized collection…… not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:56 AM
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Dude….just dont be average. TRP tells you what you need to do to to not be average. Just use those tools. If you cant get out of average because we all have our cap, then try to go for LTR instead of hookups. If you can’t, well there are other things that you Can do and focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:22 AM
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Chad is like Bigfoot, Chad is like boggeyman. Chad is like everything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:17 AM
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Literally chadlite material. ​ hahahaha I laughed so hard. That is Chad? Hahahah for real……..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:19 AM
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People are responsible for their own dating success. No they are not You can try to date someone, but you can’t force her date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:37 AM
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23M. Virgin. Waiting for marriage and for the right girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:59 PM
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Agree with you. I want my partner to have the same experience as I.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:59 AM
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One of us! One of us! One of us! now for real. Maybe? I would disagree because weird things happen all around the world. But yeah I’m the majority of cases yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:53 AM
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23M 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:33 AM
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One question you demonize incels. Why can’t men demonize femcels?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:18 AM
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I’m from Portugal and while they don’t arrest you if you have 5g of cannabis, if they catch you dealing you go inside. Doesn’t matter if it is your first crime. You go in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:37 AM
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It’s simple. Just because you have sex with 8 or 9 that doesnt make you that. For LTR we actually care about your personality. Are you hardworking? Can you live alone? Meaning like you can cook, clean after yourself, you know what a normal person does when living alone. Do we have the same goals? Do we both want kids? What are your qualities? Do you have any hobbies besides posing pictures on Insta and following celebrities on Twitter? Etc etc. If you cant find someone and you want to find, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:22 PM
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Indeed. But I already have good health
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:47 AM
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1- i don't need to workout to be fit. Im a natural fit guy. I don't get fat. I actually lose weight very fast. 2- i like already the way i look. No need to Change. I only change when going to formal meetings etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:22 AM
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One thing is being my spouse. I wouldnt bat and eye if it was a dinner with my spouse. But a stranger? Well..... I mean dating randoms, is dating people i don't know. The women i already know, arent on my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:59 PM
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Portugal. Wow. Those kind of restaurants are the One on a life time or the ones in tourist areas where only tourists ear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:33 PM
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Having sex on 2th and 3th date is too soon for me unless its a woman i was friends with. If behaves that way, i Dodge a bullet. Sex isnt something you use as a way to reward or punish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:07 PM
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Well must be my country. Where i live 80€ is what it costs the top, top restaurants. If i spent that much Money on a girl i didnt know, everyone would call me irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:01 PM
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When guys talk a out this dinner thing , its because they don't want to lose time. Time is the most valued resource as have. Having dates that lead nowhere is a waste of time. You can work and get more Money but you can buy time. No i don't expect women to have sex with me because I don't do casual. What i do is very simple. First two dates I offer and pay. At the third date,.i wait to see if the woman will offer to pay herself. If She doesnt, i pay without a problem. We just won't have a 4th da…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:58 AM
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Please tell me you are joking. You don't think 80€ is expensive for a dinner????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:43 AM
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Because the only reason i would divorce a woman is because She cheated. And cheaters are bad people. I don't want my kids near bad people. Also the best solution i see in my country is when One parent has 100% custody and the other parent only rarely sees the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:16 AM
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If I was a divorced parent, I would only go for 100%. Wouldn’t accept less. It is 100% or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:37 PM
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But your are judge more by the immutable traits than the mutable ones. You need pass that threshold first before you can show the rest. But if this helps some men to sleep and feel good about themselves so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:13 PM
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Nothing i notice really. In 90% of the cases of women i know, they behave like the online version of theirs. Only the minority behaves in a different way. The only thing this behavior does is reducing my dating pool. The rest doesnt really affect me the way they behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:02 PM
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What is the point of being chivalrous? To bang a woman? Oh please the girl wont bang you because you holded the door for her. Im only chivalrous for elder people because of the way i was raised. Always respects the elders. The rest? They have hands, they can open up their own Doors .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:53 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:46 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:44 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:32 PM
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Its a preference and that is it. I know the majority of women my age don't have it. But if She has then it is a plus. Just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:22 PM
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Then i Guess 12 year old me was a pedophile
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:12 PM
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23M no pill. Preferences: a girl taller than me ( 175 cm and above) black hair glasses. isn’t overweight have hobbies in common with me likes Star Wars. intelligent can fight wears braces ( dont ask me why but since I was a kid , I always loved girls with braces.) goal focused. ​ Deal-breakers: Having tatoos. Smoking or doing drugs Wearing piercings besides ear piercings. no sense of humor Jobless because she is lazy Virgin ​ And that’s it. It’s a long list but what can I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:38 PM
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Yes. And all is due to education. When I talk about education, I mean school, home and tv. People are taught since young ages to be selfish. Only their opinion and pleasure matters. That they can step on others and that’s not a problem. and this leads to a dysfuncional society where everyone is always thinking of what they gain by doing something and lowers people’s morals. lets be honest. nowadays who in the younger generation has morals? Almost no one. Everyone cheats on everyone. Everyone ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:40 AM
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Very important. I’m very religious so it’s very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:30 AM
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I’m 23. Girls my age only care about casual sex and I don’t do that. The ones who actually want relationship….well , they are already in relationships. If I want to date someone I have to go look at women on the 26+ age bracket because I’m not a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:29 AM
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Only one. My ex girlfriend. Since i wanted a relationship with her i ask. And no that wasnt the reason we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:46 PM
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Lana beniko and Kira from SWTOR Esdeath from akame ga kill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:18 PM
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Because he is handsome, rich and has status. Simple as that. If you have all three, you can also beat your wife, cheat on her, leave her and she will be on her knees asking you to come back like Rihanna is. tbh I don’t really care about what happens on other people’s houses. If it’s law breaking you have the police to solve it. If the police cant solve it, you need to buy sodium hydroxide. violence doesn’t solve everything…….but does solve a lot of things. ( it applies to both genders in case yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:22 AM
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Men want monogamy if they want kids. There want paternity certainty. There is nothing more instinctively repulsive than raising another men’s kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:05 AM
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If one relationship is so tiring…. imagine having 4….Just wow. if it were relationships and harem like anime, like you can have an Akeno, An Esdeath, a Lana, a Kira….then hell yeah. Since we have to be content with real women, one is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:45 PM
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Because they don’t want t to be valued by their money. They want to be valued by their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:27 AM
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A t-shirt with a meme saying, jeans, a pair of tennis and that is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:23 AM
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The pay should be good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:44 PM
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Because you need Money to live and pays well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:29 PM
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Must bem the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:05 AM
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Not really . Just an awful place to win money. If you want to win money , you need to go to another country’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:11 PM
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Agree with the doctor part. In my country working as a shift manager in a fast food restaurant pays me the same as if I were a pharmacist. Why spend 5 years studying at uni when in 2/3 I can get the same wage with way less stress?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:52 PM
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Includes everything. Doesnt mean we Will do everything. It just means She is available too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:53 PM
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Refuse reality.... Well i understand if you don't want to admit what really happens. I mean if you admitted you would lose a lot of leverage. I get that. Just don't do unecessary Gaslight okay. As a toddler i didnt have any preferences since i couldnt think and distinguish anything. If you did, congrats, you are a more advance human being that i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:29 PM
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I nevee liked baby food so when i didnt need to eat it ( priorities) i stop doing it. Yes the informantion made me Change my flower for another One. Doesnt mean i like the new One.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:11 PM
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Change what i give to her. Don't Change what flower i would like to give her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:44 AM
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From experiences during my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:43 AM
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People only change priorities they don't change preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:33 AM
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But i didnt Change my preference. I changed my priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:32 AM
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Nothing is ever exactly the same as of what happen in the past. But the sexual acts She did with ex and She wants to do with me, did She do it with her exs? If She did all and refuses one, then no go. If She refuses one but Will do One She never did, then its okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:19 AM
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I didnt Change my mine about Roses. Second preferences don't change, just priorities. She will have the same preferences. If i don't belong to the preferences, for sure i don't want to belong to the priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:15 AM
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She doesnt need to do it. She just needs to leave the door open in case i would i like to do. Obviously i wouldnt do things she doesnt like but if she did it with previous bfs, she needs to at least allow that action as an option even though we might never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:30 PM
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rose part yeah. Then i would but roses from a different store. If she doesnt like roses, then i will buy a flower she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:29 PM
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I was saying that i was never a great simp. Now if i didnt give a Rose each time i meet my gf, it means She is less diserable than my previous gfs . I want the same options as their exs have. It doesnt mean Im going to do it. It means that if i want, She Will do it even if She doesnt like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:40 PM
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Husband material is good when matched with wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:38 PM
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Because probably the dude isn’t average if he gets a got girlfriend or the girlfriend isn’t so beautiful if she is with average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:37 PM
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yes even though I was never a great simp. For example if I don’t give my gf everytime I meet her a red rose, she can consider i desire her less. the issue isn’t the act itself since I probably wouldn’t want to do it. The issue is that the option isn’t available. One thing is she saying she doesn’t like it but if I want, we can do it. Another thing is saying that no can do, never ever again. That is what stains. It means she probably doesn’t love me as much she did with her previous bfs. And that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah totally the easiest thing a man can do. Why aren’t you doing it bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:25 PM
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Nah, it’s important yes but not the most important. Looks is more important snd if you have enough money then it emotional intelligence falls behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:00 PM
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I want her to treat me as her best. She gives me her best. If she did it with her ex, then I also want the option. Doesn’t mean I will do it. It means it’s available in case I want. I have my own standards for relationships. If she fufills them , then she must give me her best because I will give her my best and won’t accept anything less than that. No one is forced to do things they don’t want or make the same things they regret. The same way, I’m also not obligated to consider those people rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:57 PM
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Because plastic surgery is cheap and reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:37 PM
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Moving to a different country with a different language is easy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:36 PM
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Hypergamy influence is high now, not in the past. Why would women be the bad guys? Some women are. Are they the majority? Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:11 PM
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The 2020 study says the probability is very close between genders now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:55 PM
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Depends if you have commom goods after marriage. If it is then its half but if it is separated goods then it Will belong to whose name is on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:13 AM
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Yes but in my country you marry with separated good, commom goods after marriage and commom goods existing before marriage. Second option was the most commom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:57 AM
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I agree with you but the agreements Im talking about are gov agreements. Not preanups. My has those, don't know if yours does. I have my own idea of marriage .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:27 AM
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30% are married breadwinners, Means 70% are men as breadwinners . about your last sentence, that happens since nowadays marriage vows equals nothing and that’s it. I’m my country since we have different ways of separating assets when people marry, I don’t see this problem of committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:04 AM
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Well my ex wasn’t like that, in fact my ex would try to give me money when I payed for the dates, like putting it on my jacket when I wasn’t seeing etc, etc. while those women exist, your job is to find the other type. Now the other type is rare and most likely taken? Oh yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:48 AM
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If you believe the majority of people are liars then it explains how we got where we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:29 AM
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While I know it happens. I’m yet to see it very frequently. Where I live, maybe because it’s old school, men don’t live their wifes because they are sick. I knew an elderly man who would even Make all meals and deliver them to their wife in bed. If a man left their wife while she was sick, people would ostracize him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:27 AM
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No because that was the average. Handsome is compared to something . If all people have the same traits then it becomes common and average. Wealthy is also compared. If everyone has the same money, then it becomes common and average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:24 AM
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From the people I know, the ones who did were usually politicians or priests ( who are single).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:23 AM
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Sure it’s Not because it never happens right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:21 AM
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The op was asking on how to attract women. Lies are a good way of doing so. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:42 PM
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Yes indeed. That’s why loyal is so rare nowadays. But that is another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:35 PM
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Don’t lie unless you need to. That’s it. And cheating is different, all cheaters (males or females) should burn at stakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:29 PM
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People don’t change. Just their priorities. The preferences are the same. If she went for hot guy and doesn’t go now is because she either can’t attract them anymore and goes for 2 rated option or puts money on a higher value and you come on top in that area. The choice is yours to do. To accept it or not. Why do you think that cuckhold/netorare and other related topics are so on right now? She can have the dream dick and the dream money. Both at the same time. Choice is yours. You can be a Cuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:27 PM
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What they don’t know, won’t hurt them. Besides, I’m not telling you to tell lies to a person. Only tell them if you think it’s necessary to impress them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:20 PM
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And remember to add events like the stocks and so on. Half trues are also important in a big lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:19 PM
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Remember you have to speak on a serious tone and train your story in front of mirror, this way you will be ready and your body language or a sudden laughter won’t bite you in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:18 PM
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That’s why you live the lie until you are sure. If you think she is only after money or so on….. then you better break up. the lie is only important in the beggining, after you both fell in love, you care more about each other virtues than your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:17 PM
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If it is too much for you it’s okay. If it works? You would be amazed on how many women want to believe that they can live the life they always dream on ( even though you know it’s a lie).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:13 PM
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I told you. When the girl likes you for what you are. Thats when you know you can be your normal and from there develop a healthy relationship that lasts forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:08 PM
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Yes indeed. And those are the only exceptions. The majority of men and women i know, are in abusive relationships because they want. And then they develop penelope’s sindrome and it becomes worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:07 PM
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Forgot to add, always tell the lie with a bit of truthfullness so it becames easier for you to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:05 PM
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When you think that the girl likes you for what you are and not for your money, say that the company went bankrupt , look as the stock markets and say because of “n” situation, the company stocks went down and the shareholders left with the money. Your only option is to leave and get a job if you want to get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:04 PM
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Agrre but people who end in abusive situations are stupid, for example I was going to end in one situation like that if my parents didn’t warn me, why? Because I was being stupid and wasnt being perceptive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:00 PM
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When she asks what you do and you want to impress her say something like you work for a huge multinational company that has profits around 1 billion and that you were twice employed of the month. And you develop accordingly from there when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:58 PM
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Lol. It is not my fault women fall for those tactics, and since it’s well known its used by abusers (dont agree) why do they still fall for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:56 PM
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the richer man may have but men marry down and across and women marry up. Men divorcing women has nothing to do with status or money. Mostly has to do with sex. And sex isn’t part of hypergamy. ​ and it’s bad because you break your vows, you break your word and what is a person who his/her word equals trash?? I was raised in a way that my word is more important than a piece of paper. for example my father sold a field 5k lower than he could because he had given is word to a man before. He doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:51 PM
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Never tell small lies. They are easier to spot and you lose points. I’m not advocating for lies. But if you want to lie, say a BIG LIE and not a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:50 PM
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I have my definition of a good girl And I want a girl with those traits. If they exist in real life,….. now thats another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:18 PM
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Piss on her to show dominance!! more serious note: try to appeal to what she likes and makes her feel wanted. The majority of women fall in love with a men from what they hear from him. So learn how to sweet talk and when necessary telling convicing lies. Remenber a big lie is easier to believe than a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:16 PM
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Only happens to top men since top men are rare, if you increase average, you don’t increase top men. They stay the same number. And average becomes undesirable again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:14 PM
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And I not defending those men. But it’s more rare for men to leave because they found women who is actually better either richer or more attractive than any other reason. Men cheat on their wife with uglier women. I never knew a woman who cheated with a man who was uglier than her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:12 PM
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You are missing the point. The problem with hypergamy is when you are married. You made vows and because now you meet someone richer or more attractive you leave your current spouse for that person. Just that. That is my only issue. From what you said, i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:34 PM
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You are thinking that improvement doesnt have a ceiling when it does. Besides if all men improved, means that the average would improve and nothing would be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:31 PM
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you know That what people talk here, they won’t talk in real life you know that right? im going to bet that 50 %:of the men here rarely talk to s woman in rl without being work related.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:03 AM
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Portalegre
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:11 AM
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3 is good with and without. the rest? Hell no Even with make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:06 AM
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of I like people of the opposite gender, my mom, my sister, my grandmother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:47 AM
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Damn you got me there :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:43 AM
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I also have that freedom. Because you know I work and I am not winning so poorly as compared to other ex colleagues of mine ( even some who went to college).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:35 AM
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Hahaha ya right. That’s people buy the best houses they can, the best cars they can..because they want to be free…right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:31 AM
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What is the problem with living in comfort? Comfort is good. Since life is always changing, it will come a time where I won’t have it. So may as well enjoy it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:28 AM
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A child won’t consider is next move. As an adult I do. I consider all expenses I would have plus time I get to a concluding that living alone equals not worthy investment. You know doing something like math.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:22 AM
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What is so bad about average?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:19 AM
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Who told you I’m not thankfull? Just because I hate it doesnt mean I’m thankful. If that is leaching, it it what it is. I won’t leave my parents house until it becomes a viable investment. Otherwise i would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:18 AM
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If I don’t do it I will be fired and I don’t want to get fired. and I’m not leaching on my parents, I just don’t find living alone worth the investment,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:13 AM
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We can abolish gender roles but we can’t abolish etiquette….sad world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:12 AM
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yep because etiquette sucks and I hate it. But I have to do it because of my work. Shame this things won’t disappear anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:09 AM
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Why wouldn’t I? Don’t pay rent, All my salary is for me, food and other things payed….why would I want to leave? To go to clubs and discos? Not my type. interesting to see that a guy living with is parents is a loser…interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:04 AM
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I’m no a child but okay. I already work and I’m a manager at my work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:59 PM
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I’m. But I still live with them, because you know houses are pretty expensive and renting is absurde. Their house, their rules. I still have curfew
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:58 PM
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medium age at my country. 800€ month. And since I live in a rural area, I can do almost whatever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:57 PM
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Devil is it you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:55 PM
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Humm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:55 PM
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My parents don’t allow me. In fact since they worked at hotels ( they were managers) they are always complaing about some rule or whatever I didn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:54 PM
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Working, earning money, doing sports ( football), videogames and sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:53 PM
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hummm… now that is something I can agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:53 PM
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Wait what about me? I identify as a flying avocado
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:50 PM
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Humm the toilet one is hard cause sometimes making a helicopter is hell of fun when bored……. ( I’m the one who cleans after)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:48 PM
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2 no questions asked. Shame those ain’t real anymore. * back to my dreaming about my waifu *
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:45 PM
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Why must I date a fatty if I am not a fatty? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:43 PM
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They do it because of power and we are living on generations of cowards who don’t have the balls to start a rebellion when need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:40 PM
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0 male, 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:36 PM
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humm no…. The issue is that those bimbos are ml extroverted and that helps them. You need to remember that the major part of the incel and sexles guys are just keyboard warriors. yes you have excpetions but it’s pretty rare. guys like these are introverted and can’t talk to girls so guess what girls they are going after when they have the guts? The girls who are extrovertEd and take initiative in talking. I’m not saying the girls chase them. What I’m saying is that the girls initiate the convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:15 PM
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Only fish tacos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:29 AM
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Welcome to the world of today. Nowadays kids are raised to be victims all the time…… my generation is the first to show the consequences of that type of education. But if society Thinks it’s fine and doesn’t want to change, then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:36 PM
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Promiscuous Smokes Has a history of being drunk and having black outs. likes twilight Obese always talking about the exs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:17 PM
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Because it's what they are missing. They are missing romantic affection not sense of community. And selfish as the majority of humans are, they only care about their problem and don't think that other people have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:26 PM
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Probably. I just don’t see unloading emotions on a friendship as something useful but okay. Friends are need when to move from a house or to spend time having fun etc. emotional talks are something you don’t have with them since it will ruin the friendship since it doesn’t provide anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:50 AM
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Men care about the usefullness of a friendship and women care about the feelijgs transmitted by that friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:29 AM
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Different kinds of affection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:27 AM
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The rise of online dating and videogames being as vivid in graphic terms that the characters look like real people. OlD has risen women’s bar and made sex with top guys easier. Videogames with awesome graphs and with female characters so well written and gorgeous made men who weren’t successful in dating have a virtual life where they rule and don’t need to improve. The so called waifus. Free porn also helps but porn is available for free for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:33 PM
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What I love is that the women who accused him only had the guts now. Now that he is dead. Now that he can’t defend himself, you talk. I just find this amusing. If the guy was a predator or not I don’t know. What I know, is that it requires a low character to accuse someone who is dead when you could have accused them alive. Guys like Cosby and others were accused alived and given a chance to defend themselves in court. Then it was proved they were predators and are now in jail. Now you accuse a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:26 PM
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Yep. good luck jimmy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:10 PM
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I have to disagree based on my previous relationship. In fact my ex was more pissed when I didn’t show any emotions than when I did. She were always telling me that I need to show my emotions and that she didn’t want to date a robot. That said, from what I have seen from my bro’s relationships and other women talking, I have to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:18 PM
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My mom was the one who told me to never ever date a single mom. My mom had to raise step-kids( my half brother and sister) and she told me that even though she loves my father, if she could go back in time she wouldn’t marry him. That being said, people will only date or marry people with kids if they can have their own kids with that person. There is no change in society views. the difference is that opinions became louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:39 AM
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Genuine question. You are in a LTR with a guy. You suddenly meet a guys who has the same virtues but is hotter or richer. Would you leave your current guy for the new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:55 AM
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That is all wonderfull and beautiful but we live in the era of casual sex. You are not going to have a true connection while having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:58 AM
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Not if you are poor. Remember that this is the generation that lives longer with their parents só if they can't afford living on their own, how can they afford a Escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:56 AM
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yep. What a time to be alive and looking for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:04 AM
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So women are virgins by choice while men are virgins because no one wants them……. Seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:00 AM
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Not really. Both my parents were pretty upfront about what a good relationship and how it should work. They always say better be single than in a bad relationship. And they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:52 PM
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Because she is a mother. No problem being single. Problem being a mother. The only ones worthy of my resources are my kids. Not another man’s kids. That is the only reason I don’t date single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:52 PM
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One question what for you is an acceptable dinner date? The place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:17 AM
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overpopulated….. you know a lie said a thousand times doesn’t make it true right? We aren’t overpopulated, we have bad population management. It’s different. We have cities who are overpopulated and areas where we have almost zero people living , in fact where I live, we have officially 2 villages with zero people. Earth produces enough food to feed everyone. Problem, it’s poorly distributed. That’s why you see people starving in Africa and a crazy amount of obese people in Europe and the USA. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:13 AM
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Never. Have already enough friends and people I know. Being with people is annoying and tiresome. Being at parties and clubs makes me a headache if I stay longer than 10min.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:30 AM
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The problem (from my experience) is that women don’t adapt there. For example, in my work we have a clear hierarchy and you must follow it. The new women employees rarely stay because they can’t adapt( even thought we do have our share of women and they are pretty good workers). Unfortunately women like small talk ( in general ) and men don’t. It’s not like men won’t talk but they wont do small talk when we have deadlines to beat and women do and that makes managers ( like me) pissed. You are pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:05 PM
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Flat chest is justice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:59 PM
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and you never wonder why They are not welcomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:39 PM
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And if society goes the same way its going, it will continue. And i see no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:02 AM
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Funny because if you are having sex with a girl who is drunk, she isnt giving consent and you are raping her right? Yeah right. If you as a man or woman drink like crazy until you are wasted and then fuck a person you wouldn’t while sober, is that rape?? Not the person fault you got wasted, nobody is forcing you to drink , nobody is your mommy to save you from the consequences of your actions. This being said, yeah it’s normal alcohol consumption will decrease since if you (drunk) have a sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:37 AM
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Neither did I but my friends they always talk about them and say which ones do better service than others. The majority of my friends do pump and dump because according to them, the only women worth relationship are 25+ and the majority is taken. The ones who arent are the mental issues ones and the single mothers. So they pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:55 PM
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600€!!!???!! Are the hooker made of gold?? I can get a 45min for 50 bucks with washing if I want…. Wow so overpriced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:34 PM
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Usually the man. This should be a reason that a person could be divorced without having to pay alimony even if the spouse didnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:48 PM
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We can't forced anyone to do anything. However if One spouse consistently turns down sex from the other, this should be One reason for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:39 AM
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I have a personal example. My mother. She raised my dad!’s kids from his first marriage. A few days ago , we were talking about dating. And she told: Never date a woman with kids. I asked her why. She told me she loved my dad but if she could go back in time, she wouldn’t marry him. Raising stepsons with the mother alive always complains and lying about her was very difficult to deal with. She wouldn’t do it again. So she told me, marry a woman who is childless. Learn from my mistakes. ​ my mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:01 AM
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No. True story: I had a coworker of mine who was having problems with her bf. She decided to stop talking the Pill and get pregnant. Hoping it would save their LTR.....And it worked.....for 3 months. Then they broke up. And She is raising a single Daughter now with weeks of being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:01 AM
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But the dating around, didnt included sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:53 PM
-2

If its my body my choice then yeah its her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:44 PM
11

Im with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:29 PM
1

If she is my GF, I don’t tolerate cheating. If we are just going on dates before i ask her to be my GF, I accept that she can do everything she wants. i will decide after if what she is doing is a dealbreaker or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:25 PM
2

A funny nice and average guy may have sex…….but it isn’t for those qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:09 AM
0

Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:22 PM
4

This was already discussed today. Women will fuck because you are handsome. They won’t fuck because you are funny , nice ,etc. If I am going to be on a LTR with a women, I want her to treat me as her best because I will do the same. If she makes me wait for sex ( like 3 months for example) and fuck guy A on first date, she isn’t giving me her best. Yes women have more value than sex. But in a LTR, I want her best in everything, that includes her best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:10 PM
1

Okay. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:17 PM
2

Cheating? Its not cheating since we aren't on a LTR. It just shows me we have different morals and because of that we wont be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:16 PM
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Yep. Means she won't go to other dates with other guys. If She goes, She is telling me she only sees me as a friend and nothing more, so i will no longer go on dates with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:04 PM
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No. It means that if I go on an date I intend to start a relationship with that person. She will either accept when I ask or not ( I wont ask on the first date obviously). If I go on a date with another person , I will feel bad with myself. The only way that happens is if girl A is out of the picture because I didnt like our date ( it was the first and last).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:58 AM
5

I debate here to waste time. nothing more really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:42 AM
1

Hmm interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:41 AM
5

Nowadays that difference/ that line is blurred. That’s why I’m asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:40 AM
1

just really feels wrong Agree with you,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:38 AM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:37 AM
1

hm interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:37 AM
1

Interesting agree with you even though never had this exclusivity talk or needed it in my LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:35 AM
2

Portugal. When I go on a date, it means I want a relationship. I don’t need dates if I want a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:34 AM
-1

Hum. And you go for example in 10 dates with 10 different people. Do you have sex with them when you are exclusive or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:36 AM
1

Hummm interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:34 AM
1

Yeap from the comments I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:33 AM
1

So you only had sex when you were already exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:08 AM
0

You date 10( random number), have sex with the 10 and when one decides to ask you to be your BF is when you become exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:07 AM
3

Hummm interesting okay,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:06 AM
0

Then why did you decided to go on a date with him/her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:05 AM
1

Okay interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:04 AM
6

Interesting . I have the same view you do. You from Russia right? Funny how things on other countries are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:02 AM
4

So you only start to have sex when you were on a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:42 AM
1

What was the longest if you can remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:41 AM
1

All good women are taken. The ones who aren’t.......well good luck finding one. It’s easier to find a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow than meet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:34 AM
1

You mentioned personality on your post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:05 PM
1

and what includes that exceptional treatment? really curious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:21 AM
2

A coworker of mine once told me that when she ( and others girls who are into casual), they will fuck you because you are handsome not because you are nice or funny or whatever personality aspect you want to insert here. In casual women fuck because of your looks. Now if you want a LTR, things are different. Unfortunately I only know a very small group of women who are LTR worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:07 AM
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Average in my country is 170cm men, 155cm women Both normal weigth, not muscular or fat. Average paycheck, normal face, unremarkable and normal, no ugly or pretty. Average intelligence and average wardrobe. Fits but doesnt shine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:22 AM
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Never blaimed her for being a single mom. Being a mom is a choice nowadays. If I want to be a parent thats on me not on the rest of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:19 PM
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Indeed but the Child was her choice. She has to deal with it. Why should single men have to pay for a Child that isn't his?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:50 AM
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Bro... Rule Numbers 1: Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:04 PM
1

Supportive? Really? You really don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:01 PM
1

But he gets what he wants sexually , my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:54 AM
2

So that they can complain together right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:53 AM
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What you said is right. You are just forgetting something. When you make the guy waiting for sex because you want a relationship with him ( totally fine and your right to so ) the message that the guy gets in his head is that he is inferior to guy A. Let’s be honest, who likes being told ( directly or by actions) they are inferior? the rest I agree with the majority of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:19 AM
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i live near the border with a country where its legal. Guys go n times there. I’ve talked to the some of them and they say they prefer going there , its cheaper , safer and std free according to them. I think it would do wonders legalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:52 AM
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What for you isn’t boring? Like for example for me art, painting and all those are boring. If a women wants to talk about them I will listen but will not participate since it’s something I don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:51 AM
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Every man thinks like that even though they don’t say it. You partner ( if u have one) feels he is a success because he gets what he wants sexually. what can women give to men that they already don’t have ( the same applies the other way around)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:41 AM
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I don’t agree with you title since in my opinion, everyone contributes to society even if their contribution is to destroy it, like drug addicts, etc. Now what i don’t accept is people bs me since working on engineering is tough and complain people are too competitive and have no problem stepping on others to get results and promotions ( I have heard this bs from both genders). We have as society abandoned religion and one thing religion brings is morals, without religion there are no morals bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:29 AM
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What is the problem with only having interest in sports, cars etc? why should I show interest in reality shows and gossips? (Since this is what the women around my area talk the most and their greatest interests).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:14 AM
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Problem is that hooker is illegal.....now if it was legal......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:12 AM
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If they can’t get laid how do they form relationships? If they can’t get dates that will lead to a relationship how can they have them? ​ just curious please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:12 AM
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who are you to decide that 50% of the possible relationship. that is who I am. And life is short. Not going to waste time with someone that doesn’t want anything to do with me. So be direct and say it. Thank god that the majority of women i know dont think the same way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:10 PM
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who are you to decide that 50% of the possible relationship. that is who I am. And life is short. Not going to waste time with someone that doesn’t want anything to do with me. So be direct and say it. Thank god that the majority of women i know dont think the same way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:33 PM
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1st biggest issue is having black-or-white thinking what is the problem with this way of thinking? Either you want it or you don’t . I’ve always approached women this way. Direct and simple. It’s the best way and I didn’t get less dates than my friends by using this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:01 PM
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Here in Portugal have these kind of restaurants that only Open at lunch since their main target is workers and people having lucnh hour break. And they make pretty good money just by serving lunch and have very tasty food at a good price.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:34 AM
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The kind who is more interested in what i say instead of what I can buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:32 AM
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I do but they are rarely open at night. they only open at lunch hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:17 AM
1

Yeah sure. I dont only take women to McDonald’s. I also take them to other restaurants but I need the person to prove it is worth taking her there ( to those fancy restaurants).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:29 AM
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That is what happens after dinner. Usually go near the river
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:42 AM
1

for me a quality date is one where I enjoy the company of the women and not the food itself......
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:38 AM
0

I choose McDonald's....and like that restaurants. You would me amazed what you can discover from a person in a relaxed, no etiquette requiered place. Best place to find what people trully are for me .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:20 AM
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You see? At the end you agree with me. I never said women were only one to blame. Im an outlier since I don't do hookups. So if a girl I am going on dates with you went on one, i would end things there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:27 PM
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Yeah that isn’t the issue here. The issue is people not being consistent. Like with guy A you had sex date 1 and guy B you didn’t had and wanted to wait. All this is fine, it’s just a flag for men to decide if they want the girl or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:14 AM
2

Democracy is a statistical error since in democracy, the majority decide and the majority is formed by a bunch of morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:30 PM
1

You know majority of MGTOW are divorced who had bad divorces. They vetted wrong. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:27 PM
1

But men will fuck the hoe. Won’t commit but will fuck. now will women fuck and not commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:58 PM
2

Breaking laws that are useless doesn't make you a bad citizen either. Yes it does. A good citizen follows the law even the stupid ones. You can’t choose which laws you are going to follow or not. If you want to change the law, run for the gov to change it. ​ and drugs do make you a dangerous person since they modify you during consumption and you do things otherwise you wouldn’t. Why is it that driving drunk is considered dangerous? And we are talking about a legal drug call alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:06 AM
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Waste of money. Better things to do with my money. Beauty without utility is equal to zero. I agree with the romans who always had utility mixed with beauty. Utility over beauty everyday of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:16 PM
3

The problem is that society assumes men are rapist by default. Guilty before innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:21 AM
1

Dude Esdeath is so cute like man...... Do you see her interactions with Tatsumi?. Leone is also forcefull sometimes..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:55 PM
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I didn’t say that I needed every hobby to be shared, yeah I know that won’t happen. I want at least 1 or 2 that we both like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:30 PM
1

SWTOR——- Kira and Lana If you add anime then Esdeath from akame ga kill. The rest maybe hot but don’t attract me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:27 PM
3

I know.... Life isnt as we want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:08 AM
2

Because i want to Share.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:07 AM
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Funny, cool, shares the same hobbies, don’t have tattoos or piercings (except ear piercings) , doesn’t have kids, has no problem saying what she likes or not etc,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:57 AM
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None of the women i know meets the standards I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:17 AM
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you don't need to blame all women for that. But did I blame anyone? ​ Yes I would like to get married but I don’t know a women worthy enough to have a relationship with. ( more than friendship obviously).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:50 AM
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No need for vasectomy since I don’t do casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:48 AM
2

Look at MGTOW, they FEEL that marriage is a bad deal and they FEEL that women are blame. Mgtow are mostly divorced guys and who had a bad divorce so yeah it’s normal for them to hate marriage. In my country , Portugal we have a 70% divorce rate. Meaning that 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce and first marriage is about 50%. Men now because of what have been seen and noticed think marriage will always end in divorce. So they think it’s worthless to invest in something that is going to fail. For…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:47 AM
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If I wanted children, I would marry. Since I don’t want them......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:24 AM
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i think you are forgetting something. The risk/benefit calculus. Men nowadays more than ever do this math. Is the result worth the risk? If yes then proceed. If not, don’t do it. I live by that rule. I analyze everything to the infamous detail To see if it’s worth. nowadays very few things are worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:05 AM
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It's just money Yeah like the world doesn’t go around money nowadays...... nowadays money = power. do you want to be powerless? Be my guest. I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:02 AM
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because men care more about the outcome and the result than how it made them feel. The majority of women I know care how an action affects them personally and how their feelings will handle or be after the action. Men care about the results of said action. That’s why stoicism is only applied to men. I have yet to see women being stoics. Thats why I think men and women belong together because the logical plus emotional will be stronger and raise a stronger society. Unfortunately society is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:59 PM
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If you aren’t her best, she is going to leave you sooner or later. If you want to have a relationship that lasts 50 years, you need to be her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:17 AM
1

Multidating that is for real? I thought it was just an online thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:09 PM
4

Hypergamy is not good or bad. The only thing it says it that men shouldn’t fall in love with a woman because she will trade him up ( meaning they have a LTR) when she gets a better offer (better man). If she doesn’t, she will resent him. Now it’s your choice to accept that and decide what you will do with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:08 AM
1

Qed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:21 PM
4

Tbh I also wouldn’t get this as an IOI.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:02 PM
1

Portugal. I live in a rural area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:45 PM
4

I have women with boyfriends do all the above to me. And yes they weren’t interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:41 PM
4

Wait......you are telling me Im a Chad and I don’t know it????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:23 PM
2

The same I have now. Do my stuff, mind my own business and if I see someone showing interest , I would analyze them to see if they are worthy of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:17 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:10 PM
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You and your generation of coddled soft boys haven’t done any of this. then why blame men as the opressors when none of the men today are like that or even have those privileges?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:44 AM
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You keep trying because you are biologically programmed to chase women :) Women are also biologically programmed to have kids and guess what? Birth rates are declining......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:36 AM
1

Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:46 PM
1

Black Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:40 PM
1

Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:39 PM
1

First what is the problem of eating cheatohs and watching anime? Second i know plenty of guys who are "normal" ( i don't believe that normal exists but that is a personally believe) they have muscles, work hard, etc and the only way they get sex is to pay hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:18 PM
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They don't need to be Ugly. They just need to be unactractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:16 PM
1

Oh but they do evaluate and they know what to do. They just think that the benefit is not worth the cost. Maybe not outside the reach but the cost is great. Like Pirro said "Another win like this and I will complety ruined".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:15 PM
1

I know. Doesnt matter. Not going to low my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:11 PM
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Like you said they tried in their own way. For you that wasn't enough, for them it was. For them the cost of trying more than they did, was not worth the result. Cost/Benefit. Because of internet nowadays, a lot of guys use the cost/benefit calculus. If they see that the benefit isnt worth the cost, then they wont try because they would lose more than they would win. Idk if you are a man or a woman, but you have to keep in mind that men are very logical (sometimes too much) and that they calcula…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:05 PM
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Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expect a different outcome. The majority of ugly men have already tried to be more attractive, going to the gym, buy fashion clothes, etc, etc. the result? Still rejected. So what do these men think? I’ve tried and failed n times , why keep on trying? So they decide to go live their live the way they want. Playing video games, watching porn etc. If I try but can’t get, why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:40 PM
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The majority of guys wouldn’t care as long you aren’t fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:13 AM
1

Nope. I like how I am so no. If you like awesome, if you don’t awesome again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:21 PM
1

There are people who smoke tabaco. For some it's a dealbreaker, for others it is not. Depends on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:35 PM
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Smallest-0 largest-0 non-negotiable. I know it’s impossible to find one but a man can dream right? now back to 2D.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:42 AM
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There is a difference from good to fuck to good to date. There are plenty of girls I would fuck. There maybe be one or two girls I would consider as dating prospects (LTR). Sometimes average people forget that, and it makes them frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:38 AM
1

All? Everyone = All? ​ Never met a man or a woman without one addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:33 AM
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Everyone (both men and women) have addictions. If it affects relationships? Thats up to their partner to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:54 PM
2

Everyone has an addiction like coffee. The question is if you will deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:57 PM
1

Kira from SWTOR, jedi knight companion and Lara Beniko ....... those are top Waifus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:57 AM
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The problem is that the girls I want are ........ 2D.......... why do 2D have better personalities than 3D ones? it’s a shame shame.......oh well gotta live with it, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:52 AM
1

Fashion?? I hate fashion. So unstable and I hate unstable. I wear clothes that are simple. Sometimes I wear a long sleeved shirt with shorts or a t shirt with jeans, I don't really care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:19 PM
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There will not be a beta uprising. What is going to happen is the elderly population grow and not enough people to support them. What will also happen is that country A starts war with country B and the majority of men will reject to be called to war. Why would they fight? For example in some years like 50 years, USA enters a war with China and needs soldiers because war can be advanced as you want but you still need soldiers, men refuse to go to war. The law says they have to and they say fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:24 PM
2

Everyone can have whatever standards they want. It’s called Free Will. Just don’t complain that no one meets your standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:23 AM
1

I discarded every participation trophy, medal or diploma that I got. I have only kept the ones where I was first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:15 AM
1

Okay. Being married is not the goal. Enjoying life is. If I get a woman that passes my standards is One thing, and j only found 1 until today ( my ex). You can be fit, and have a normal weigth just by eating right and not eating lots of junk food. Why do you think i live a bellow average life if I live a normal life? Why would i CARE what a high quality woman thinks? Like why would i care for anyone's opinion at all? Dude I'm happy the way I am. Get that into your head. You don't believe, fine. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:38 AM
2

I can be physically fit without going to the gym. If you are single, you can save plenty of money even living on minimum wage. I have life that i like and enjoy so i wont change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:34 PM
2

Live life to the fullest without losing too much time or energy working.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:46 PM
2

Maybe. No point chasing the wind. Working like a dog in a corporate job that doesnt pay you what you work its not my style
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:46 PM
1

Not really interested because in this world everything comes to an end and possible live extension would included living more years( good) but most likely in pain ( diseases, loss of relatives, etc and Thats bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:15 PM
1

I think the gender part is because women are seen as the biggest consumists. Some women are, some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:18 PM
5

Yep i couldn't because i only met one girl who passes my standards. The rest, even though they are nice people, are not dating material.( Women i know)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:16 AM
1

So a unicorn........ do we also have a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:05 AM
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If you as a man can’t attract women, why go through all the trouble. I still live with my parents. I work a let’s call it easy job ( a so called dead end job if you like), I make the minimum wage, have a lot of free time, contribute with money and some labor at home and I manage to save most of my money. The question is why would I want to live alone? I help my parents in what they need and my father now has a medical issue, so I’m the one closest to him to take him to the hospital and things he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:51 AM
0

First honest reply
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:15 AM
5

Raising another man’s kids? Disgusting!!! Thats is the problem with single moms. I know some are nice people and I am even friends with some. Date them? Hell no. Not going to waste my resources on a kid that doesn’t have my genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:56 AM
1

I’ve work like hell at my job because we are on cleaning week. After I arrived home, I rested , played some videogames and had a new hair cut.
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 01:09 PM
2

I don’t do casual so I’m fine. the only thing you shouldn’t do is lying. The rest is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:03 PM
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Depends on how she responds. If a woman gives me no reasons to think she is desperate, why would i think that way? Everyone should go after what they want. for example my ex was the one who asked me out and that didn’t make her desperate, in fact she had plenty of options but choose to ask me out. That is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:56 PM
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While I agree with you, I’m not rat that is going to compete like mad for the last spot. If what I am right now is not enough, fuck it. I’m used to live alone, have my hobbies and other things that occupy my time so I’m always busy. I have friends to spend time with. To date, the girl needs to be an unicorn that will make me want to spend time with her instead of spending that time with my hobbies. And unicorns don‘t exist unfortunately(?). Some men just need to accept that they will be alone al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:12 AM
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Does status gets me money? If not I don’t care. If it does, then I do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:32 PM
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Maybe when we have too much elderly people comparing to working people and that will cause problems for the gov int terms of money. Eventually it will lead o a revolution or WW3 and people will die and the survivors almost will be forced to marry to have kids since we will have few people on earth. I truly hope to be dead at that time because it’s going to be a shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:24 PM
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Relationship? What is that a Pokémon?..... I still haven’t got one...damn it. ​ More serious. No, the only gf I had was in the same league. In fact the only reason we dated was because she chased me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:00 AM
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Depends. Everyone always talks about the winners because they forget what happened to the losers. Nobody cares about the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:24 AM
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A woman who is childless? Sure, in fact she will be chased by almost all men for casual and LTR. a woman with kids? Way less options comparing to her 20s. For casual about the same, for LTR close to zero. Still more options than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:25 AM
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Haven't some men throughout history done just that? How did it work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:58 AM
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Would you ever start a fight where your chances of wining are 10%? Nowadays getting a good job is difficult even with all the effort, finding a good woman ( or partner in general ) is rare and with globalization, the amount of people competing for the same job is huge. now do you think it’s worth the work? Then go for it. For me it isn’t. I prefer to win minimum wage, live on minimum wage ( live in europe), have time for my hobbies, if my boss wants extra time he needs to ask! and I can say no a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:47 AM
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You the man!! I had the same though. Finished high school with good grades ( I could go to any course of my area) but I decided to work at McDonald’s. It Is not a hard job, sometimes a bit stressfull sure but which jobs isn’t? I have a good amount of free time while earning enough mine to provide for myself. ( in my country the minimum wage is good and since I do the night shift, I get more than the minimum wage.) in fact in my country unless u graduate from medicine o IT, you will earn the mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:30 AM
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What variety? I don’t have a 1000 women waiting for me with their legs open no matter how hard I work my ass off. and that’s fine, everyone is free to do whatever the fuck they want. I choose to live a simple life, earning the minimum wage and enjoying the good amount of my free time doing my hobbies. What is the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:21 AM
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Everyone wants to age until 25, after 25 they want to be given less years that they currently have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:20 AM
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Give me money or i will accuse of rape. Pretty common this kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:20 AM
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Money? the guy doesn’t want to date her and she wants payback? because she felt like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:33 AM
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Yes. Now tell me where is the gender in government
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:11 AM
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What has covid do with protecting? Besides look at India. Amazing work defeating COVID. Defeating covid has nothing to do with gender. it has to do with gov policies and interests behind each ruler.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:19 PM
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Okay if you want to go that way go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:15 PM
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Yes they did. But they didn’t do it because of the women they didnt know. They did it to save their family and kids and/ or because they had ideals in which they believed. Not because of instinct like op said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:52 AM
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Most men have protective instincts for their women and children. The women and children who aren’t theirs, they couldn’t careless if a truck runs over them, or they are stabbed or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:25 AM
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Yep. If she likes those things, means she has something in common with me. So I will like her as a friend at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:38 AM
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My father lost his parents about 30 years ago. He tells me that not a day goes by that he doesn’t remember them. its normal to think of him. Just don’t let it haunt and prevent you from living your life. Keep being a role model for you brother and doesn’t matter how you live, be always sure your father would be proud of you.
/r/MGTOW224/05/21 03:09 AM
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I’m c at this point. Only had 2 girls I really liked. The girls I know, even though they are nice people, just aren’t dating material. So me, myself and I.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:55 AM
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Small city
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:58 PM
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No. In Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:42 PM
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Not where i live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:53 PM
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Taking into account the nearest major City is at 200km going plus 200km returning...yeah not a fan of going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:20 PM
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I know Im not missing out on anything. Because Im single i managed to go to a lot of different places of the world. I was comenting what i see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:35 AM
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If men should or not be shamed for dating younger kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:27 AM
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Oh yeah I am already thinking of going that path. Where I live , you would be amazed to the amount of women who at 25 already have kids. People here dont believe and that’s fine. So when I try to find a girl who doesn’t have kids, she is always in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:21 AM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:18 AM
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Who is obsessing? I said in my post than I have single moms who are my friends and are amazing people. Just not dating prospects. The problem is that the majority of women my age already have kids, so I need to go for girls who are younger to date. Just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:16 AM
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The problem is that the majority of women my age already have kids. Why would I care about improving to be with those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:10 AM
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Not zero obviously. But the majority already have kids, at least where I live. The ones doesn’t, funny fact, are already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:09 AM
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Only if one keeps dating into older and older age and refuses to date in their new age range or consider someone with children. So basically the only option is to become a beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:31 AM
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You are right, but sorry to say but I won’t sleep worse knowing that. Yes it’s bad but there is nothing in my power to do. In Fact I dont worry with things about of my power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:27 AM
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If those people in their 20 are the only ones childfree what can you? Be single forever? Became a beta bux? so you had no luck in your twenties ( couldnt find a LTR) so to hell with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:25 AM
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They can have in common the fact that both of them don’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:18 AM
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But at some point, the gap is too large. in this cases , you are doomed to be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:16 AM
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Marriage isn’t as beneficial to men as people think. That’s the point. But hey whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:08 AM
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Because it’s what i see? And in my line of work, restaurants, i see plenty of women around 30+ and they are always accompanied by one kid at least
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:59 AM
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Yes i do see à problem. But in those countries those are the only choices. What do you prefer? Start a freedom war or waiting 500 years so that stops? Sometimes things aren’t so linear and easy as you may think. Why do you think getting democracy as we have ( still imperfect) took so long?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:58 AM
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Well where I live pretty much about 90 of the girls my age already have one kid. Single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:50 AM
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Those marriages under 18 must be approved by the fathers. The issue is tHat we no longer live in nobility times so it’s strange for us but was pretty normal about 500 years ago. one guy creepy it’s not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:49 AM
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agree on civilization. I Thought you were going to say games like LOL and Dota since those, when played at high level, requires intelligence and also require plenty of hours to master. Either way i agree with you in taste and correlative intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:47 AM
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Bill gates was already rich when he got married, bezos equally, mark only for married after Facebook was a hit....so i doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:43 AM
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Yes totally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:42 AM
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I was specifically talking about the single ones. And yes the majority are married and those who aren’t have in most cases kids already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:42 AM
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I Will never apologize for having good taste and being the smartest person in the room. My future unicorn needs to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:11 AM
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What are the videogames for high intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:10 AM
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My first date was at Burger King... my first dates are always in fast food restaurants. They are cheap and usually women feel pretty comfortable in that area and you can discover a lot of things because they are comfortable .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:03 AM
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Fun fact, in the top 10 us billionaires, 7 are divorced or in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:00 AM
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Where can I find them? Do they sell in the supermarket ? Usually girls who are religious are non practitioners, so its basically the same as other girls. The difference is just they try to hide it better. The ones who actually practice the religion......are already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:01 AM
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That woman just doesn’t count as a dating prospect. Exactly. The only issue is that when you reach 30 and you are still single, the majority if not all women of 30+ already have kids , so your only option is going for 20+ women. And when a guy 30+ goes for a women of 20+ is called manipulator,,,etc , etc..... it’s like the guy is “forced” to be the dad for a kid he didn’t make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:42 AM
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I think the real issue men have with the AF/BB is having to raise other men’s kids. If the kids are theirs, then they don’t mid. If the women already has a kid from her party years, plenty of guys will be disgusted to the idea of having to raise Chads kid. That’s why this concept of AF/BB is so popular ( and unfortunately accurate at the same time ).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:20 PM
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https://www.equifax.co.uk/resources/money-management/prenups-and-divorce.html The judges want the prenup to be fair and that’s bs for one reason only, prenups aren’t about what is fair, they are about protection. If a woman wants a prenup she should also write one a say that if the man wants to marry her, then he should sign it. There is anything unfair on it. You have options either sign it or not. It’s free will for everyone. Applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:58 PM
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Go looks for news in the UK about prenups and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:36 PM
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Usually men and women have different tastes. For example I prefer to watch a Syfy movie than a romance one. Women I know would choose the romance one. In fact my ex and i had a very different hobbies. She preferred spanish music and pop, i preferred ncr music and metal. She liked romance movies and comedys, me syfy and anime. This will only matter if you want a LTR, for casual people don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:17 AM
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You know prenups are , at least in the UK, ruled out in divorces? Lots of courts have ruled out prenups signed being one of the escuses the women being afraid the guy wouldn’t marry her since he said “ if you wont sign the prenup, I won’t marry you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:53 AM
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Not south US. But yeah same thing. Im from Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:07 PM
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22 and yeah the majority of women my age already have kids or are pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:55 PM
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The problem is that the majority of women my age are already single moms and I’m not having that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:00 PM
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A girl who is nice and funny to be around, religious, has her shit together, knows how to do maintenance in the house ( i do) , knows how to do house chores ( i do) , and that is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:16 PM
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One question, is it true you become a wizard if you a Virgin at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:51 PM
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Not finding a girl who has the same morals as me and isnt a single mom. Only met One girl who was the closest to my expectation ( my ex). Where i live , believe it or not, the majority of the women who are single my age are already single moms. The hard part is finding one who isnt. They finding one who has the same morals is like to try to find water in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:35 PM
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Fine by me. Just don't Blame guys for not thinking the same way you do as i don't Blame girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:51 PM
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you know being a good person is tied to morals right? That’s the definition of good as a word. Yes obviously the man ( since they are the chasers) needs more than being good. He needs to be attractive, romantic, etc ,etc. I just find it funny when men think of good, they only think of morals. When women think of good, they think of morals, attractiveness, chemistry, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:24 AM
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People ( both men and women ) look better without tattoos. Also usual tattoos mean that person has some issues ( my experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:20 AM
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This looks like Batman and Rachel. Rachel tried to changed Bruce and in the end She complained he was no longer the man She knew. So She went to marry Harvey Dent. Yes its fiction but it explains that dating someone who wants to change you will never last and it will lead to a lot of future problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:35 AM
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Me! Me! Did I said me? When a woman wears make up and I notice, my attraction levels drop. I think if the original was good she wouldn’t wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:33 PM
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If a woman grabbed my ass ( has happen), I will tell her to stop ( they usually do), the one who didn’t , got an elbow to her face ( sorry didn’t see you , you ok?). No woman has ever tried to assault me, if she did, I would quote hk-47: Violence isn’t the answer. Violence is the question and the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:09 AM
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Yep. It’s weird but a lot of men won’t accept a girl asking them out. Where I live since the man is the one who should ask, a lot of guys reject girls because “they didn’t follow the procedure “. Whatever . You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:49 AM
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Why those values mean she is a feminist? These values don’t have anything to do with being a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:30 AM
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Because its ended and brought me at the time, a lot of pain. So no point suffering again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:08 AM
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Yep. Had one gf and while she was amazing and it was a lot of fun and very well time spent, still not worth it in the long run. Hope you find a guy who finds you worthy .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:50 AM
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Sometimes the pain that the search brings, it isn’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:28 AM
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Being alpha is different from beta, not different from simp. Simp is a guy who has no will and only lives to do a woman or women bidding. And while I agree when a person is horny leads to dumb mistakes, it’s stupid to make excuses for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:26 AM
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Yeah shame they are pretty rare. They say unicorns exist, I just haven’t seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:24 AM
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I never had sex without a condom, because of that i lost some opportunities to get laid. Yeah some men may hate them but they are the minority. And just because the father isn’t present, doesn’t mean the kid is fatherless. Just because he/she had a father that doesn’t care, doesn’t make him fatherless. Let me get you a different analogy. If Apple needed money to make phones and you were the owner of Microsoft, would you lend them money? Give them money? Arrange contracts for them so that they wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:22 AM
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Intelligence. Moral values. Isn’t afraid to follow what she think is right even tough the majority may be against it. That’s heart melting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:10 AM
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I also know people who have married single mothers and I think the mother has been heroic in her struggle and are in a great marriage. So you know simps? Normal. Jumping on a dick isn’t an accident. Getting pregnant because you and your partner didn’t use protection isn’t an accident either. It’s just carelessness. Not a quality I want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:08 AM
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1 it’s not hate. We just don’t want to date them, since kinds come first, bla bla bla, you know the usual. 2 raising another’s man kid is so disgusting. Remember the 2 girls one cups video? Yeah that level of disgusting. 3 it’s shows lack of sexual safety. Like she didn’t push her sexual partners to wear a condom. So she can also have STDs. So nope. ​ I only wish everyone to be happy and also wish single moms to be happy in theirs lifes .........just not with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:01 AM
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sexual history is not indicative of a person’s attractiveness. Yes. It’s an indicative of a person’s morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:47 AM
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's groups that gain traction and fight for men. Feminism has been so successful because women banded together to create something. Until men are able to start doing that, feminism can only do so much to help, especially when it gets repeatedly shouted down. When men band together and fight for men's rights it's call misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:09 PM
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And she is out in 8
/r/MGTOW15/04/21 07:57 PM
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Yeah and that doesnt make finding unicorns easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:03 PM
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Like I told earlier, i live near a border and yes the majority of the girls where i live are having 10+ n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:45 PM
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Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:26 PM
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Both show me she has a different idea of sex that i have. No point wasting each other's time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:23 PM
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My threshold is that 2 digits is too much period. If it’s average or not I don’t care. I will not date a woman with 2 digits. Sure we can be friends and so on but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:24 PM
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I live near a border. So plenty of drugs, alcohol, free access to a lot of illegal things that eventually lead to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:04 PM
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When every women you know is at least 10+, it’s hard to find one who isn’t like that. The ones with 9 or less are pretty rare. And if you add the ones without kids, is like searching for unicorns. You can be lucky or never find one in your lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:00 PM
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They are possible. Don't mean it is common. To have a healthy LTR you need to find a unicorn. Yes they exist, but are pretty rare. Now the question is, are you willing to spend resources, time and energy looking for one even though it is not garanteed you full find one in your lifetime? You can be lucky and find one or not. Your choice. I decided that is too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:58 AM
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Yes women prioritize LTRs. That is normal. What isnt normal is you saying that guys who get in LTRs have Higher value than the guys who will do casual. From a guy you require a relationship to have sex. The other you don't require that. How does the first one have more value than the second one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:58 PM
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Hum okay interesting. That explains a bit of why there are so many single moms in the Us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:43 AM
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Its a measure. Do the men also have a saying in stopping the pregnancy? Btw one question, are abortions free in the US? Where I live (Portugal), they are. The State pays for the abortion and if you live in one of the isles, the State will also pay for your trip to the mainland. Just wanting to see if it’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:16 AM
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For these guys, sex = highest value. So the man who gets sex = highest value male In a woman’s reality, sex = cheap. We’ll fuck low value guys we’d never actually commit to, because we vet much harder for LTRs You are thinking guys want relationships. The majority don’t want that. The majority just wants sex. They don’t care what you think as long as you are having sex with them. Almost everyman wishes for a harem. For you a LTR is important and that’s because you vet much harder ( and rightfull…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:01 AM
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I didn't mention genders. What i say applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:55 PM
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Like your partner snores and you leave him. Not first spouse I know to do that. And that is being unhappy? People nowadays give up without a fight in terms of commitment. Minimum problem between them, they divorce. Just because one spouse fell out of love, doenst mean the same happened to the other. And in this case his/her feelings doesn’t matter right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:16 AM
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and You had already a man in the waiting. I love the future
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:49 AM
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I said everyone. Didn't diferiate on gender. Either way, in my country abortion is payed by the gov and the women can always say no to sex if the guy refuses to wear a condom. And a guy who refuses to wear a condom on casual is either dumb or stupid and probably full of stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:55 PM
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Everyone is free to have sex with everyone. The only problem is people not willing to accept consequences as unwanted pregnancies, stds, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:03 AM
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I’ve been accused by my ex gf and some female friends that I am too dense. That I can’t read the signals. Like my ex had to be her asking me to date her. That said being dense has its benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:05 AM
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Okay. If you say so. Like n girls fuck chad thinking they are the only one but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:22 PM
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You are wrong to think that the previous man was bad but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:42 PM
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Is the girl prettier than you? Rich? Can be and you are right or not and men just cheat because 1 they are stupid, 2 men just want to have sex with different women “ new cow syndrome “.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:15 PM
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Of course not. They just ”fell out of love” my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:00 PM
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Damn. I’m from Portugal. If Romania is doing this, won’t be long until my country does it too
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 02:42 PM
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Funny because a lot of women tend to deny hypergamy. Tend to deny being part of chad s harem. you talk about make up, manicure etc. Feminine man do that . Masculine man don’t. It’s stupid for you to compare that. And according to women, they prefer masculine man not feminine ones. But hey maybe I’m the one wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:30 PM
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Men don’t deny any of it. It’s women who deny it. That’s what RP is saying. Point out the actions are different than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:21 PM
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Yep 100%. I just said 2021 because it’s the year we live in. But I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:47 PM
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Women love the money a man provides and always want more.The moment he stops providing that money/ stops pursuing higher pay jobs because he has enough for his life time, they will stop love them and will monkey branch to a guy who makes more money than him. Just a regular day on 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:06 PM
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You can’t choose what you are attracted to????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:56 AM
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I said I don't like poly so I wont have a open relationship. To have this kind of relationship the 'side girl and side guy' must be know for both parts (me and her), we both must agree and they need to get tested for std, blood problems, etc. And no, never did that, never will. And yes i agree with no ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:37 AM
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Yeah. Will do that
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:34 AM
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First If I live in a perfect world, I would be monogamous. Why? Because the prefect girl exists. No need for another. Since we don’t live in that world and no girl is perfect, I could never be content with one girl. Because of that i prefer to be alone than be miserable in a LTR. Second I don’t like poly. Poly implied she also has sex with other guys. Also implies she could get pregnant with another man child. And I won’t raise another mans child. That is disgusting and humiliating. Raising some…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:13 AM
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My grandparents 50th anniversary is this year. My parents 25th anniversary is also this year. So yeah, they always give me good advices. One of them is : better be single than in a bad marriage. Since I haven’t found one girl worthy of marrying , I continue to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:14 AM
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Double digits . Any girl with double digits. But hey you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:43 AM
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Marriage was an institution to raise kids. Kids without fathers weren’t well seen in the past. Where I lived, the guys who got a girl pregnant would have two choices, either marry that girl or run to a different country to not be castrated( yeah since a girl having a child without being married was a shame, the father/brothers/uncles/whatever male figures of that family would go hunting the guy) Nowadays that doesn’t happen. In my country, to get a divorce, you go to the Conservatory and in 15mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:12 AM
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Damn now i need to learn to read signs. Well got to go to sign languagues classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:33 PM
12

Of course you accept. Im not telling otherwise. If you can have sex with someone more attractive than you, go for it. Just don't come BS me that you cant make that person commit to you and the man only wants sex,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:44 AM
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Because unattractive guys have no shot with unattractive girls. Unattractive girls can have sex with Chad, Brad, Tyronne and whatever guy. SO they think they deserve them when they dont even deserve Joe. But hey whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:49 AM
0

Move on. Go to another place. Ignore him. If he tries to touch you, call the police. If he doesn't , leave him alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:41 AM
2

Portugal. its still a very conservative country and those kind of things are seen as boys stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:38 PM
4

Yes. Also men and women think differently. So in the majority of the cases, they have different views and interests. For example, I like videogames and sports. The majority of women ( nearly 100% where I live) don’t like that. The only sport they like is volleyball. So why would I be friends with people who don’t like what I like? I hate gossip. And also hate shows like big brother and so on. But the majority of women love them. So yeah no. No friendship with them. ​ Friendships is one of the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:48 PM
3

Why should I care about the gender of my friends? My friends are only people who l like to be with and enjoy time with. I’m not saying men and women can’t be friends, they can sure. But it’s pretty hard. They think differently. Men tend to think more about actions and results. Women tend to think more about what feelings an action is going to cause. The reason I don’t have female friends is because they value and like things I don’t. The majority of women ( and nearly 100% where i live ) , don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:21 PM
5

If She was my wife, yes. If She wasnt, no. With a wife I made vows and promises that i will fulfill. With a partner I made no promises.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:06 PM
5

Of course not. Money is just must
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:14 PM
1

Its the internet. Everyone shames everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:08 PM
1

None. Regular sex wont get me a pay rise unless I sleep with my boss ( who is female )...so no.........
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:44 AM
1

Well I didn’t mind because I like her but for sure it was tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:41 AM
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Yeah. Dating her was pretty tiring because if I wasn’t texting to her every 5min, she would call me, sometimes if i didn’t wanted to go out, she would come to my house and dragged me out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:41 PM
22

As a intro, meeting people is a pain. When I got my ex gf, having to hang out and so on was so tiring that I would get exhausted at home. Nowadays I only leave my house to go work. And that’s it. It’s so much better me alone at my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:38 PM
2

Just be confident = just be attractive Oh well ....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:24 PM
0

Women do whatever they want. They just need to accept they consequences. For example a guy says he wont date a girl who is double digits, they accept it and move on. Im religious but some of my friends who arent, they say it like this: you ride they town bike but you don't buy they town bike. You ride the town bike because its cheaper, easy, low effort, etc. You just don't buy it, because you don't know who also rode it and the damage it did to it. If you buy it, you will probably need to do rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:11 PM
1

My hobbies are all male oriented like sports , football, basketball etc and videogames. And for sure I am not going to fake interest in other hobbies just to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:41 AM
1

I am a man and I have high standards. A girl who doesn’t fit my standards won’t even glimpse my eye. And my standards are both looks and personality. Fortunately or Unfortunately whatever you may call it, women don’t fulfill my standards. The problem isn’t you being picky, the problem is you acting like you aren’t picky saying personality is what matters and all that bs sentences when it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:17 AM
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Key word "unattractive"..... They don't even have a chance . And since they don't have a chance they don't try. For example why would I apply for a doctor position when I don't even have a degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:53 PM
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It’s fine by me. Just be honest and admit you only find 20% or less of the men attractive. I’ve seen so many women lying about that and in the end it’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:24 AM
11

Man and they say that the 80/20 rule doesn’t exist...... I‘ve seen shopping list with less things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:05 AM
2

Yes. I don’t have sex without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:34 AM
1

Not fat..... I am thin. Got a job...... I got a job. Likes videogames... I like videogames. Likes Star Wars and these type of movies..... I like star wars and these type of movies. Makes me feel at ease..... I try by best to do that with the people I care about. a joker..... I am a joker too. Someone who makes a lot of jokes.. religious.... I am religious. And I mean religion not like going to church but more like reading the Bible. I don’t care about what the church says but I do care about wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:32 AM
1

Society For rewarding stupidity instead of intelligence. when you ban a emoji like pog because it’s racist/sexist whatever and everyone claps, it shows your stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:43 AM
1

Orange juice or apple juice, whatever suits your taste. Remenber, must be instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:18 PM
3

Neither. My threshold is reality. 3D=No 2D=Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:36 PM
1

Precautions 1 go for condoms... check the condoms to see if they are good. ( no holes..etc 2 make sure she is on the pill 3 If 1 and 2 not available, only oral ( for me and her) 4 If 1 and 2 not available and she wants more than oral, then no sex at all. 5 Orange juice always works. Not before or after. orange juice instead of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:31 PM
1

I mean I know girls get prettier with make up. And I know 90%of them, use make up. It’s fine by me, but you won’t see me approach does girl. The only girl that I ever dated didn’t wear make regularly. She only wore make up on special occasions. My mind thinks : if the original was good, she wouldn’t wear make up. Maybe I’m wrong, but wearing make up is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:03 AM
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Advice: Focus on your inner self. Focus On being kind, amicable etc. Focus on being a good person and having a good personality. Reason : 1 made me think I had a chance on the dating scenario ​ P.S. Good side : The elderly like me , so they are always giving me presents, like cakes, money , etc.. so not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:49 AM
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Women will only chase the ones they want. And even those they won’t most of the time. My ex gf told me she felt a bit humiliated because I was so dense to her invitations that she questioned if I was hetero or not. She even Invited me to a date and I said no because I had already scheduled football for that time. But she didn’t give up and we end up dating. Now the guy she is dating, he did all the chasing and all of those things and she just waited. She told me I should have been like that. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:24 PM
1

A) no b) no c) sometimes but I got used to it. Nothing a good videogame/movies/anime/manga marathon won’t resolve. d) I do because I have strong believes. Also because others don’t like my hobbies ( eg. videogames) and i don’t like their hobbies (eg. Going to discos/ bars etc). And no I don’t have a support group. e) No F) No. In fact it would only create more. G) Depends. If that woman is a co-worker of mine, yeah her behavior will affect my job ( good or bad). If that woman is nothing to me, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:35 PM
1

Not so much where I live. One of the reasons that happens in my country is because men know that having a degree doesn’t equal good jobs. I mean in my country is pretty normal for graduates to win the minimum wage (unless you are a doc,nurse, prof or head chief engineer). You leave college and you know you are more than likely going to win the minimum wage. Now the question is why go for all the trouble? If you start working after you leave school, you can get the same minimum wage pay you get f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:18 PM
1

Yeah I know. But being sexless is not that hard if you find other things to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:19 PM
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My experience. I got a gf. She was and is an amazing girl but unfortunately different life goals led to our break up. I don’t regret dating her. I just regret all the money, time, emotion and etc I had to spend to be with her. Having a gf ( and keeping her happy) it’s so exhausting, at least for me, that it isn’t worth it. So after this experience i decided to stop dating because I don’t have the energy, the money or the time to have a gf. So no for me it isn’t worth it. Talking about Ltd becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:59 AM
1

Good. It showed people’s true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:43 AM
1

Not really. it only means that the standard for chad will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:39 AM
1

Not only that. If you as a man have sex with n girls, you are superior. All animals are like that. And since humans are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:49 PM
2

We are talking about casual sex and in causal sex, looks its all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:42 PM
1

Every society (human or animal) has alphas, betas and omegas as males. Since it will always be the males chasing the females, there isn't any female hierachy like the one in the males side. For example, The alpha wolf will get majority of the females, the beta will get one if they are lucky and the omegas will they die alone. Now transfer that to human society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:29 PM
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That is how it should be. But since Chads have a list of FB, that go from 7 to 10, a guy who is a 8 has to go for a 6 girl, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:12 PM
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You think there aren't women gave up being wife material? Just because you gave up on being wife material doesn't mean you gave up on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:10 PM
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Yep. Agree 100%. If Chad can have regular FB who are 9 or 10 why would he bother with the 6,7 etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:02 PM
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because those 30% already gave up on the SM . So they have nothing to lose. The other man still haven’t given up so they say they had sex so that women wont shame they and would actually agree to casual sex with them. If you admit you are a virgin, its pretty rare to get causal sex. It’s almost as if you need to be in a relationship to lose your virginity (9/10 times). And you also have to take into account some of these guys who report sex weekly , they do it with hookers so yeah, they aren’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:57 PM
2

Yep. You have chads who have sex with a wide variety of women. The rest of the men have to be content with the scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:49 PM
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I want a girl who isn’t overweight ( I’m not overweight), who likes syfy and anime ( I like both those things), not ugly ( I’m not ugly) , virgin ( im virgin) and doesn’t wear make up or at least rarely uses it ( I don’t use make up). After all these things taking into account, I will wake up since my alarm is ringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:49 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:42 AM
1

Yes but only once a year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:26 AM
1

I have a full time job that pays the minimum wage. Don’t need to pay rent neither will have to since the house is bought. Live in Europe where a lot of Medicare, etc is payed by the gov. So I don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:10 AM
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22 and I live with my disable dad who needs care 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:51 AM
2

Yeah sorry forgot about those...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:30 AM
1

Just because I inherited a house? Oh okay sorry for having parents I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:30 AM
1

Yeah I agree with you. Funny that the only people I can hang out who thinks like that are the ones I meet only through discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:28 AM
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I just don’t get what is the issue if someone doesn’t want to build a career and wants to live only with the minimu wage. Why people are always complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:44 AM
2

I live in the north countryside. Portugal is a pretty good place to retire. Not very high cost in the countryside and people are usually nice to each other. Where I live is almost mandatory to say good day to anyone you cross in the street since If you don’t do it, people will say it to you and if you don’t respond they will look at your awkwardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:43 AM
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I have a mine pool for them. If you can call it that. It’s both for meat and eggs. I always have to cut a part of their wings when they are young so that they don’t fly away. And yes they are assholes .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:41 AM
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I have chickens and gooses. I cultivate a lot of potatoes, cabbages, lettuces and have some vineyards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:48 PM
2

find a job who pays enough. There will always be jobs. Automation isn’t going to be a thing when the government starts losing money from taxes. your employer pays taxes to the government. The gov will tax robots. For example for each position that a robot is doing, the owner has to pay taxes. Doesnt need to pay a wage true but will have to pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:39 PM
2

Thanks for the advice, however I don’t do revenge or these type of things since to do that I would have to care and I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:49 PM
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Okay. That explains a lot. Where I live ( Portugal) you can live a pretty decent life with minimum wage if you live in the countryside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:41 PM
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I don’t give a f about what anyone thinks. Never did, not going to start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:29 PM
1

Yep I can. If I can’t work anymore, there are helps from social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:28 PM
1

Not a farm. a field, 1hectare that I cultivate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:07 PM
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No. I work. My house is mine and the fields I cultivated are mine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:49 PM
0

I only have an income. But since the house is mine, I don’t pay rent. I also cultivate the fields my parents left me so I don’t need buy a lot of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:48 PM
1

I only earn 4€/hour and get the minimum wage and have a good life with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:47 PM
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I don’t worry about rent since the house was from my parents. So I don’t pay rent. And i do have good amount of money for emergencies and when I want to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:46 PM
1

I discover that the best method to not be creepy is to never approach women. If she is into you, she will come on her own. I only “approach a girl” if a friend of mine is trying to get a girl and that girl is with a friend. So I take the grenade for him. The rest? Just sit quite in the club/bar and girls will come at you (Drunk or not they will come).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:40 PM
1

I only care about looks if I try to get a girl. I am as strong as I need to be .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:03 PM
1

When the risk is way higher than the reward...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:36 AM
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Interesting since women wanted to be like men, however aren’t willing to be the providers of the relationship. this is not a critique, just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:51 AM
6

Yep almost like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:49 AM
2

Twenty quid for a haircut!?.?.? Mine is 7 and Im thinking of changing my barber because it’s too expensive. I don’t have 30m to work at my home. I don night shifts and during the day I help my parent with what they need at home since my dad is disabled. I am thin so i also don’t care. yep, i had gfs but they were so much time consuming that it wasn’t worth it. They were amazing girls and I’m still their friend but it isnt worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:44 AM
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You are joking but where I live I know a lot of guys who are 25-30 who do this shit. They do some handy jobs on the side for the extrabucks and don’t worry about a thing. and I am the one who works 40hs week on night shifts to get a bit more than the minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:40 AM
2

All of those required one thing who is the most expensive and unfortunately I don’t have enough, time. My life I so busy that I don’t have time to spend on the gym and so on. Is getting laid so important and good that it’s worth the time spent on this stuff? Been there , done that and no it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:33 AM
1

Yep. Damn it those social parasites, if they at least worked..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:30 AM
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In my country you can apply for social security help and you get money, discount on electricity and water bill, etc and you stay home doing nothing and still get enough money to go by. I mean it’s shitty if they don’t get work because I don’t want to provide for social parasites. However if they get work, they can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:29 AM
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Because doing these kind of things are guaranteed to have sex? i can do all these things you mention. It’s not guaranteed that I will get laid so what the point? Calculate cost/benefit to see if it’s worth . If it’s not why try? Ex. I dont pick fights that I know I can’t win. When I pick a fight I need to be 99.9/100% sure I will win. Same principle applie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:57 AM
1

I would never date a women who makes me feel like 2 option. Unfortunately a lot of those pretty women do. So better alone .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:26 AM
1

And have you been alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:54 AM
2

Yep 100% with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:54 AM
1

Yeah I agree to same extend. I only pick fights i know I’m going to win. I only play games I’m 90% sure I will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:37 AM
2

Because that’s what happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:12 AM
0

Whatever men tell you, you divide by 3. Whatever women tell you, you multiply by 3. Simple as that. That is how I calculate I really life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:00 AM
2

Well that’s a incredible way of getting married to a guy who is going to divorce you later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:58 PM
11

Likes to play videogames, not fat, honest and direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:36 AM
1

No and you should never improve to attract others. Improve only for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:42 AM
1

The usual dense MC that makes you rage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:39 AM
2

Nice guys want sex. Mgtows dont. There is your first and big difference. Nice guys get mad if they can get laid. Mgtows dont want ltr and only want casual. And they wont work hard to it. If the women wants cool, if she doenst cool to. Move to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:31 AM
1

Its indeed not a large town but because of my job, i know all of the bar owners so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:43 AM
2

You have emigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:35 AM
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1.) Beyond increased STD risk, does sexual history/ n count really matter that much to you? If so, why? For casual no. For ltr yes. And since i dont do casual. If she has a lot of partners, it shows me she doesnt value sex, she can like it but doesnt value. Since i think sex is one of the ways a couple can deeply connect, if she doesnt value it, she isnt the one for me. 2.) Do you view your sexual history/n count the same way you view a woman’s or a potential partner’s? Yes. 3.) Have you conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 11:54 PM
0

One thing is poor people. Another thing is giving money just because its a single parent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:22 PM
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People only care being sexless if they have to pay for someone else's kid or being constant reminded of that. If these things were eliminated, they wouldnt care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:21 PM
2

You dont pay anything. The labor from the parent that doesnt want to provide for his child is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:32 PM
0

If he doesnt, to jail with him and working as a garbage collector, in mines or whatever and is wage instead of going to him, would go to the gov who would support the child. Of courae the guy still gets food, clothes and a place to sleep but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:04 PM
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Simple cut 60-70% of is wage automaticly. He then would have two choices either accept or raise the child to not have the pay cut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:54 PM
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Because the money he receives from the mother (child support) would balance things out. Yes women should also pay child support if they dont want the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:53 PM
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If it was a buck i wouldnt mind. Free kindergarden, cheaper health care, more finnancial money given by the gov etc..... it is ways more than a buck. At least in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:34 PM
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One thinga is child support. And child support is payed by the real father ( the one the dna matches) and not the ex so/bf ( you would be suprised how often things like this happen). The gov would force that guy with realistic values not extorsion like they do and thats it. No more finnancial support, like cheaper healthcare etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:32 PM
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Force them. You made the kid, you have the obligation to take care of him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:03 PM
1

If the child had two people who made him/her, then he also have two people to take care of him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:59 PM
1

Its already like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:58 PM
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The problem isnt sexless man. The problem is you paying to raise another 's kids through taxes ( singles mom the biggest example) thats the issue that needs solutions. One would be to cut finnancial help by the gov.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:30 PM
1

Probably. Unless they were feminine man. The rest would be cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:06 AM
2

Yep. I mean all fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:53 PM
0

I love the slut for what she gives and not what she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:37 PM
1

I love to ride the town bike. I dont love the town bike. Its different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:27 PM
1

Why buy what you can have for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:18 PM
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Men love women who have a lot of sex like them. "The sluts" are loved. What they dont want is to marry one. Its the difference. In the world you are describing what would die would be a LTR. For example, I would ride the towns bike but i would never buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:36 AM
1

All the more reasons to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:24 AM
1

N count matters but it isnt the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:41 AM
2

Like women never used men in games........
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:36 AM
3

No. I dont know where you live. You want equallity on your country? Fight for it. Dont sit behind a keyboard. After all my comments you still didnt get my message so i will say it once and only once: You want something? Fight for it. Dont care about what others think. Fight for it. Others will make the path difficult, you fight it. You only stop when you win or are dead. If you cant do that, dont come complaining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:36 AM
1

We dont be on women. We bet drinks. We just need to get laid to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:32 AM
3

French revolution. Do you know how many people die for them to be free? Do you have any idea how many people in your country died for you to be free? And you cant do that for the future generations? In my town, old people would plant trees so that their grandchildren and sometimes great grandchildren to eat their fruits. They and theirs sons would never eat those but thought about next generations. If you cant think about the next generations of women from those countries, then stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:31 AM
0

Wow. I was talking about guys making bets with other guys but okay. Explain me how am i a perv?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:28 AM
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If you are not going to defend those women, who will? Like you claim to be on this big crusade for womens rights, mens privilege and so on. Are you doing on western societies where everything is equal? Thats easy, even my dog could do it. Go to the countries where things are hard. There was a girl in paquistan(i think dont recall the exact country) who fought for womens rights, got shot in the head, survived and still keeps on fighting. If you dont have those guts, dont blame it on mens privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:25 AM
0

Ahhaah you are joking right? Banging 7 different is 7 different nights is pathetic? Do you really think that guys dont make bets with themselves? The same way girls talk, guys talk. The difference is that guys are more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:20 AM
3

Okay then go save them. Privilege? Yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:17 AM
1

But am i forcing you? You said no, they move to the next girl. They only get angry when they are trying to do a perfect week and dont have enough time for the next one and lose the bet and have to pay boose for us during a weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:15 AM
1

Okay. Then you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:10 AM
3

I am amazed how people in this era cant ignore others. Like put your headphones hear music and totally ignore. I do that everyday. When i go to work on foot, i dont care about what is happeninf around me. You should try to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:09 AM
2

These guys i am talking about are 7/8 and usually bang 7/8 girls. They only get angry when they go for a 6 or below girl for whatever reason and the girl rejects him. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:07 AM
3

Why you bother with incels? Like, let them. Everyone is free to think whatever they want, to do whatever they want. If they break the law, society will punished them so dont worry. I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:05 AM
2

Usually at the least the guys i know, dont get angry because they didnt lay a 10. They tried, they know she is out of her league and want to see. They might get a bit frustated and thats it. They move on to a next one. They only get angry when the girl is below is level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:04 AM
4

In the post no. In the comments yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:00 AM
1

who am i blaiming? Im just stating what you said but with less words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:59 AM
2

Funny that the man is the one who should go for his league or below and not the woman. Just interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:54 AM
11

None. I dont care what women ( and men) think about me. Like literally no f. given.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:22 PM
1

You need to be the best she can get. If you are then you are going for a LTR. Its is going to be awesome. If not, just enjoying your turn while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:14 AM
23

Well. It was love at first Visa.
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 08:37 AM
7

Exactly. If you are man who was also drunk, you cant be raped. You gave your consent even though you dont remember anything from last night
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:04 PM
9

One of the reasons i dont go to night clubs is because of that. I dont like to drink alcoohol. And since if a girl is drunk, she cant give real consent, then i am better off at home or working.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:23 PM
19

I dont press period. If the girl im talking to says maybe and not a solid yes, i will move on. Not going to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:16 PM
34

So now we need to worry about consent and real consent? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:13 PM
43

And she doesnt like casual sex. Imagine if she did.
/r/MGTOW12/01/21 06:27 PM
1

Its something i never thought off but it would be because i didnt want to be a step parent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:25 PM
1

Never had thought of that. But what i probably do was raise the kid alone. It would be hard but doable. My father during a long period of his life, raised my half siblings (2) on his own .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:54 PM
3

Sure? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:57 AM
1

Life is unfair. Even in that situation i probably wouldnt do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:47 AM
0

The hotter, the crazier. And remember dont put the dick in crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:36 AM
9

That guy sounds as an amazing guy, but i could never do what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:31 AM
6

Thats good to know. That families with step parents work. However, i would never do it. I could love the girl but love isnt going to solve everyting. Im from my fathers second marriage, so i have one half brother and half sister. My mom tells me that if she would go back in time she wouldnt marry my dad since the trouble my half siblings gave was insane since their mother was always trying to used them to separate my parents. The wise man learns from others mistakes and i really dont feel like r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:27 AM
5

Yes. And tell the kid what he can do, what he can do, what is morally wrong, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:19 AM
1

Because that happens? And a lot. The single moms i know always tell that they dont allow their BF/SO educate her kid since the kid isnt his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:16 AM
2

Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:15 AM
5

Exactly. If he did the kid, he should be the one taking care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:14 AM
1

Humm okay interesting view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:13 AM
3

Because the kids arent his. The kids are hers. Im not saying single moms are bad , no. Some of them are really nice people. I will be friends with them, now more than that? Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:12 AM
1

I agree in part. Most of them came with baggage. Like as friends is okay, more than that is a big NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:02 AM
10

Every country if you can become a gray man. I live in portugal and after becoming a gray man no one bugs you. I live in the countryside where people are more conservative and its being normal and without troubles .
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 03:55 PM
35

Know a dude in Canada that spent 7 years in jail because his daughter accused him of rape. He lost his job, his wife etc... After 7 years in jail, his daughter told the police that she was lying because her dad didnt allow her to go to night parties and arrive home past midnight. He then got released and what he got was a sorry and a pat in the back. The daughter was 17 at the time and 24.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 03:00 AM
2

Know a dude in Canada that spent 7 years in jail because his daughter accused him of rape. He lost his job, his wife etc... After 7 years in jail, his daughter told the police that she was lying because her dad didnt allow her to go to night parties and arrive home past midnight. He then got released and what he got was a sorry and a pat in the back. So yeah better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:16 PM
0

It sucks until you get used to it. After you get used to it, you will start to enjoy it and you won’t want anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:41 PM
1

What is the point? Save yourself and warn others The rest is up to each one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 08:18 PM
2

Until you aren’t. Like I told, these men will try to be ghosts, so slowly, one step at the time, will do the necessary to stop being society dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:53 AM
2

Yes and I live in Europe. And in my country we also have guys and girls who don’t work because they Don’t want to, and still are subside by the gov because everyone needs the minimum to live. That’s bs. You don’t work , you don’t get anything, why must I pay for your easy life with my taxes? Then lowered will think that since they are losers , they don’t need to contribute and will stop working and will get this subsides by the gov. And guess who is going to pay for it? Yeah the winners. The win…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:39 AM
2

Food exists way beyond society has we know came to exist. Shelters can be built or look for natural ones ( like caves). The rest you will that isn’t necessary to live. I don’t need a phone to live. Society is the one who told the losers to fuck off we don’t want you but wants them to be useful. They say fuck you society but will take the resources they can from it. Men will be using society the same way society uses men, as a discardable plastic cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:35 AM
1

They grow their own or go live in forest. They will become autosufficient. Adapt to survive like Darwin said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 12:32 AM
2

You don’t need a great car to live and if you live in a big city , you don’t meet a car at all. If it just you, you get Money to buy food for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:30 AM
1

Nowaydays with equality women have the same value for man in war. After all they can also fight like men. And I’m not being ironic. One law my country is trying to pass, is the mandatory call of women in war times, so both men and women will be called when war comes. That is what equality is about. Same privileges, same obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:07 AM
1

i Think that depends. Would they fight for a society that doesn’t care about them? What if the other country who was invading offer the, better live style and so on? Are you so patriotic that you prefer to leave in the trash than be treated as a king? Well I know my answer and the answer from my guys friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:03 AM
1

Get the minimum wage, pay minimum taxes, and you manage to get enough money to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 03:00 AM
3

Like what? What creature would be so expensive that they need to work hard to get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:57 AM
3

No not really. Both capitalism and communism have flaws. I’m just saying what these men will start to think as these things go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:56 AM
3

Men must become ghosts to be desired or survive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:54 AM
2

If the government did that, a revolution would occur. The government may do that, but men will fight it and do a coup De etah. I think this is how it’s pronouced. Remember the gov has to keep balance, if the enrage the population to much, well things get bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:53 AM
11

They would become happier. The goverment would receive less money form taxes, they would just get enough money for them, like why would they work extra hours if they already have enough? Usually men shop less, and they usually spend more money in their woman or the woman they are trying to impress. If they don't have, they will keep that money instead of spending it, what will cause less money to circulate and will hit a bit capitalism. Nowadays, these men are still few so things wouldnt be noti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:24 PM
4

never said it was easy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:15 PM
41

The way I see it, the problem is society wanting these low value man, the losers, to contribute to society. That’s stupid period. Why should I contribute to something where I get no benefit from ?. These man should focus on themselves and forget about society. Literally don’t give a fuck about what society says. If they don’t do that, they will always be miserable. Contribute I mean by paying taxes ( yeah taxes is the biggest rip off there is), being nice, polite, try to climb in your career, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:13 PM
3

Men won’t mind having sex with high n count women. They mind marrying high n count women. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 01:47 PM
0

The MGTOW talk a lot about women. Their idea is to warn young men to not fall for the same schemes they did and not suffer the same consequences. If the guy is a fresh MGTOW, he is going to be full hating mode. After some time (moths, years, the amount time he needs), he will embrace apathy. That’s the goal to MGTOW, to become total apathetic. The ones that do go ghost mode and will stop using social media (reddit included). So we don’t know for sure how many men are like that. What I know is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:08 AM
1

Low effort how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:23 AM
1

Depends if you have a good marriage or not. Better be single than being in a bad marriage. I won’t get married until I’m sure that girl is the one and because I have trust issues due to various bad experiences ( both male and female), I will enjoy my single life to the fullest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:15 AM
3

Those statistics included divorced man or not? Because they can ask divorced man if they are happier now or not. Because if you only included married man, your study is being biased. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:11 AM
4

Not really. My ex was the one who approached me and asked me out after, according to her, 5 years of sending signals I didn’t get. And she was amazing and no lesser woman just because she took the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:02 AM
1

An actual reason. Either way i think the same if a man/woman sleeps around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:28 AM
1

Thanks for showing me how dense I am.... like really....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:04 AM
1

Okay thanks. My GF did the same. I just thought of her being thoughtful and nice nothing more. Didn’t cross my mind, she did that because she liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:03 AM
1

First I’m not comparing girls to lumberjacks. Second I don’t have the strength of a lumberjack Third I just want to know opinions. I have mine made from personal experiences and that just isnt going to change. Fourth thank you for your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:01 AM
1

Well my gf was the one asking me out so yeah. Even after all the obvious signs she says she showed, if she didn’t asked me out, we probably woudnt be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:58 AM
1

The problem is that cohabitating laws already exist in n countries. In my country, if you cohabitate for 3+plus years, it’s the same as marriage. After the break up you need to slipt 50/50. So yeah thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:32 AM
2

Number 7 is doable as long: You don’t have conversations with women or when a fight starts you immediately agree or just walk way. ​ I think the problem with mgtow is that they have been fucked by courts and women that they prefer solitude instead of trying. Their mindset is : you will lose the game, why play? p.s I’m talking about the real mgtow not the bitter incels or teenagers who mask themselves to cover up their sexual failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:30 AM
1

All people should know how to take care of themselves. If you can’t do that, then you need to learn. Your partner isn’t going to be your slave to take care of you. Shame some people don’t care to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:27 AM
2

First you dont hurt my feelings. I know what society thinks. I just wanted to know what people here in reddit think. And for sure I’m not going to change my idea just because that makes me a lesser man. I would rather be a lesser man than a crippled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:22 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:20 AM
1

I have some girl friends who know kickboss so I don’t worry about that. I just wanted to know opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:19 AM
1

Exactly. Unfortunately I find that a lot of people aren’t guided by those ideas of true equality. Shame. But I think the world will change in that areas. I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:17 AM
2

I don’t know since I never did that. But OP is forgetting one principle very important to Mgtow. Dont give a fuck about society. My friends literally don’t care what happens to society or what society thinks/says about what they should do. They just want to live their life without anyone bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:14 AM
3

Why is that? Because they are phisically weaker than men? Or another reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:08 AM
3

Yes. I have a female coworker who says the same. One time during a conversation, this subject came up and she told us she wholeheartedly agrees that men should hit back without looking at the gender. Here I’m talking about being reactive not active, if you understand what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:08 AM
2

5 is wrong. You don’t marry and you also don’t cohabitate. Never. All the guys that I know that indentifies themselves as Mgtow, they don’t even let women in their house to have sex. They prefer to rent a hotel room.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:03 AM
1

No. If the original is already good, why go for fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:47 PM
5

All actions have consequences. Some good. Others bad.
/r/MGTOW25/11/20 03:18 AM
1

Tbh right now I’m not looking. I’m just not ready since I think I still need to mature. Idk about the 3 partners. I doubt I would be comfortable but I don’t know. Probably going to stay single my entire life. Ah well. Life is just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:11 AM
2

Religious. I am a virgin and will only marry a virgin girl. ​ Thank God videogames exist so being single won’t be so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:28 PM
111

Tell her that while she live under your roof, your rules. Unless she wants to start paying rent, pay for the phone service, etc, she must obey your rules. My brother didn’t agree with my father curfew hour (00h). One time he wasn’t home at that hour and my father went to the city looking for him and when he found him, he said “ go to the car now”. And my brother complied. My brother was 25 at that time. After he left the house he could do whatever he wanted. My father always said to his two sons…
/r/MGTOW20/11/20 05:20 PM
1

Well I can do both. I help my dad when he needs to do maintenance so I Know how to do a lot of things at home. I also do a lot of the traditional women chores like iron the clothes, cooking etc. Both of my parents taught everything so that I can live alone without worrying or marrying the first girl I see because I couldn’t do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:59 PM
3

If the original were pretty, they wouldn’t have to wear make up
/r/MGTOW13/11/20 04:23 PM
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