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Sciencenick1812216/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:36 AM
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XD A greasy weeb?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:27 PM
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Oh shit, fuck that noise. WGTOW!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:24 PM
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I agree. It’s kind of weird to celebrate anyone’s death, even someone whose views contradict your own? (I have no idea who Kevin Samuel is.) Anyway, sometimes I wish my parents had snxoorsdj ns…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:17 AM
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Some men have it easier, some men have it harder, and some men don’t have anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:13 AM
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According to OPs post and the article he linked, men do accept women being horny. “women are the ones who stifle each other’s “sexuality””
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:38 PM
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me going about me day PPD: “Logically speaking, you’re well below average, probably ugly or boring or something, idk…” Which is probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:00 PM
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Is your polyamorous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:16 PM
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And then she’s like…That’s even worse I only date heterolinguals!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:14 PM
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Belly bumpin’, Knockin’ boots, the horizontal tango, hopping on the good foot and doing the bad thing, the Kalamazoo climax!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:37 PM
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I have platonic female friends, we hang out. The one time I did spend a lot of time hanging out with a platonic female friend, we ended up skoodlypoopin’ and there were feelings and it was this huuuge train wreck. I try not to pursue my female friends, ‘cause I figure they probably get hit on a lot and aren’t looking for that? It would make things weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:39 PM
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28m, lifelong dating failure, it’s like a nonstop battle of the sexes here XD I love spectating!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:22 PM
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That’s pretty creepy! This study found that women’s attractiveness is at a peak at 18 and then decreases, but the statistics were gathered using an OLD site/app which probably has a minimum age of 18 for users… Anyway, that is pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:40 PM
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Lol! I don’t understand. Can you ELI5?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:23 PM
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I’m not afraid of getting arrested, but i agree! The risk of offending someone or the social fallout/stigma is so powerful. (And I mean a subtle/polite approach!) Like asking a friend of a friend out is risky because you can be iced out of the friend group, and it’s perfectly understandable too (understandable that they would exclude you from the friend group after asking someone out in the friend group). So in the pro/con analysis it’s usually better IMHO not to try approaching? Pro: approach, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:58 AM
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I think the male selection factor for beauty is primordial. It has existed for hundreds of thousands of years. And I think most of the traits that made a man ‘successful’ for hundreds of thousands of years as a hunter gatherer or farmer or peasant or etc… are probably still relevant to success today (excepting for strength probably? Beyond a superficial bias, physical strength probably isn’t too relevant in today’s world?) And so, yes i acknowledge the ‘modern world’ at most stretches back about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:40 AM
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‘Only a Sith deals in absolutes Sabii!’
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:59 AM
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So, men are selecting beautiful women, thus making beauty an evolutionarily advantageous trait. Each generation more beautiful women are born. And women select based on ‘success’ when mating, so generation by generation are women making men more competent/successful? Like, women are getting beautified by evolutionary forces. But I wonder how men benefit. What generic traits makes a man more competent. ‘Success’ isn’t necessarily genetic inheritable trait. Neither is beauty, but it is more so tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:44 AM
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My dating life has always been collapsed. Like if a normal dating life is a 3 br house, my dating life has always been a smoldering pile of rubble. So never really had a backup plan, just the original plan: ‘try try try and be ready for rejection’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:06 PM
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That’s so strange. This comment and user profile are invisible! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:58 PM
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I don’t think there is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:29 AM
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I think you’re talkin’ a whole lot of sense Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:08 PM
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I think you’ve got a point. I’m about as ugly and dumb as they come, but I’ve dated some absolute babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:13 AM
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I feel like this is the only place for me to really vent my frustration, my failures, my dating incompetence. I get the perfect mixture of commiseration, disgust, and aloof disdain from people in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:17 PM
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I think I’m ok physically and financially. I eat healthy, go to the gym 4-5 times / week, make $85/hr+bonuses. Lol, i think i just need a new face maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:53 PM
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Is that €2000 every week, every two weeks, or every month?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:10 AM
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I think it’ll still be really easy for you. Just live healthy, take care of yourself, workout, be social. It’ll be like shooting fish in a barrel! (Lol, I know how you feel though. I’m a man and am dreading going into my 30s. Dating in my 20s was ridiculously hard and now the difficulty is being increased while the player base is decreased, fml…)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:12 AM
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Lolol ‘men have almost zero opportunity to meet women except for these several opportunities I’m going to list’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:11 PM
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I’m not trolling! I just meant this as self-deprecating humor. I’m a bottom of the barrel STEM guy, like op’s talking about in his post. I think he’s got a point. All of my friends have no problem getting a GF. It’s just me who struggles and fails
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:43 PM
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I’m uncomfortable with this subject. Let’s talk about football or cars. Hey, how’s your portfolio by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:30 PM
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Me to myself: “is this another one of those posts where men are told to give up seeking romanc—yup it is…” （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:17 AM
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Loled at sperm donor! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:05 AM
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“…we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:24 AM
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I reckon throughout 99% of human existence both genders were just trying to survive, no one was free.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:36 AM
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User name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:20 PM
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Lol, well then it will be a fitting fate for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:12 PM
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“Rely on their bastard children they took care of one weekend out of the month” XD lmao, I’m dead bro. Sounds like something out of 19th century Europe. As a forever-alone-loser/dating-failure I plan on dying in the climate wars, or working to death as a Walmart greeter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:06 PM
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Yes, I often consider my complete-failure-of-a-dating-life and say to myself, “u/nick1812216 my boy, you are an evolutionary cul-de-sac”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:25 AM
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You should try: r/advice r/socialskills r/dating (there’s a lot of dating/relationship subs) Good luck bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:57 AM
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If you’re an elite, you gotta be looking around at the present situation and extrapolating from that what the future will look like. And if in the present situation nobody is having kids, making a living wage, living healthy, has access to affordable healthcare, affordable housing, etc… You gotta be predicting that the future is pretty shit, and elite or not elite, nobody is insulated when the shit hits the fan e.g. bronze age collapse, russian revolution, French revolution, the Khmer Rouge, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:53 AM
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The post is gone, but OP said she and her pen pal would text/call daily for over an hour(not sure i remember the time correctly). I’m an introvert, so maybe i’m projecting, but I can’t hangout with someone that often/long unless there’s some resonance, a strong attraction, IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:36 AM
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I don’t think every guy you meet is going to be interested in you sexually/romantically, but I would say your pen pal definitely is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:39 AM
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Stunning-potato? More like stunning-tomato(the king of fruits and vegetables)!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:17 PM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:15 PM
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Holy Sidewalks, and I thought PPD was a little toxic/echo chamber-esque. I was just perusing that FDS post, I feel like Andy Dufresne at the end of Shawshank Redemption
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:14 PM
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Well you have much higher self esteem than i do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:21 PM
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You’re right, but even if it’s only pretend ‘emotional intimacy’, like I said, it’s probably better than nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:09 PM
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Realistically, it would probably be a practical and healthy way to get that physical/emotional intimacy that’s lacking in my life. I am terrible at dating, i’m swiping every day and am able to land a date literally once every year or two. So instead of spending most of my life alone, trying to be with someone, this way I’d at least get the illusion of being with someone a couple hours every week/month? I’m a bit of an idealist/romantic, so i don’t think I’d ever do it. But Imm just thinking prag…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:25 AM
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None of the above. Regardless of age, it is a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:55 PM
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Lol! I’m a guy and if a stranger approaches me I feel the same. “Someone approached me? They probably want money…”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:50 PM
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Yowzuh, :0 based on your comment, I think men should probably stop approaching women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:49 PM
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I disagree. I make pretty good money and can’t get the time of day out of most women. I think women are a lot like men in the sense that physical attraction is a prerequisite. It’s like picking out a book! A women sees an interesting cover, she picks up the book and reads the synopsis on the inside jacket. If she likes the summary, she keeps reading. But if you haven’t got good cover art or a good binding, no dice!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:22 PM
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I think we all have mental illnesses. It’s a consequence of existing. Like how there are no perfect 90 degree angles or circles. Something something Platonic cave of ideals and shadows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:31 AM
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Not very important to me, if I really like someone and vibe with them and want to date them, leg hair and armpit hair seems like a silly reason not to pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:26 PM
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Lol, i agree with you! just the exchange between you two, and the defense you offered were so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:58 PM
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Lolol, Argument: “eugenics is unethical and should be illegal” Counterargument: “It’s already happened” XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:54 PM
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An encouraging post on PPD, a rare and cherished occurrence!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:12 AM
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Sarkington? More like SNARKington! But seriously, i guess it is a bit rich for the perpetrating gender to downplay the fears of the victimized gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah, these posts are always pretty disheartening （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:21 PM
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What is a mouthpiece? Like, being able to talk to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:08 PM
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We all know it comes down to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:35 PM
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I make above average money. In CA I’m in the 80th< (my salary) <95th income percentile for households. Aaaaaand I still can’t get a woman to shake a stick at me! Maybe it helps, but it’s no panacea. If you’re in STEM, it’s a great career, but do not rest easy, it seems like you still have to work on yourself, be social, make friends, go to the gym, dress nice, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:14 PM
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Wow, People still speak transatlantic? Or are you speaking figuratively?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:02 PM
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Is there any hope for the man with poor social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:18 PM
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I have read that our mitochondrial/Y-chromosomal DNA there is evidence that suggests most men, historically, do not reproduce. (Although this conclusion is controversial!) As to why this could be, who can say? (I’m speculating about tribal prehistory in this comment, although it does apply somewhat to modern agricultural society. Agriculture was invented ~10,000 years ago, modern humans have existed for ~300,000 years) -Women have stronger immune systems, so maybe it’s just that more girls than …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:08 AM
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What is the gender ratio like in the sales industry? OP claims it is 95% male. Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:39 PM
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The amount of rejection IRL, and on several dating apps, like total rejection. Based on that evidence, bottom 10%…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:50 PM
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Bottom 10 percenter here! how do you raise SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:32 PM
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you should have made a post about this new digitized/animal-empowered world! It sounds almost as interesting as sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:59 AM
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This man’s never had sex before!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:47 AM
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I’m not just human, I’m INhuman!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:39 AM
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We’ve seen this one before! Answers’re usually 0%-5%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:49 PM
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So you’re saying I can’t blame my shortcomings on dating apps? I’m a loser in this generation, and I’d be a loser in any other generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:45 AM
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But what if, you have below average social skills, looks, AND below average intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:04 AM
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I think she’s saying you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:49 PM
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What does ‘sloppy’ mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:46 PM
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Incredible!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:16 PM
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I think there’s something wrong with society if you have to be ‘above average’ to have a relationship. I think if you want an above average partner, then you’ve got to be above average. You get out what you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:44 PM
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I don’t have a lot of dating experience, but I’m north american and have experienced some if these before. I totally agree with you, they suck! Like forming your identity around politics/work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:16 AM
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God’s Teeth! 30% Wow, wowowowow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:25 PM
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Why did you have such a low opinion of boys/men as a teenager and what changed your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:24 PM
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Actually what you’re speculating about based on anecdotal evidence is a documented/clinically studied phenomenon! It seems Men exhibit stronger polarization in their sexuality, whereas women are more open/fluid. The study i linked showed subjects male-male, female-female, male-female pornography and monitored their arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:56 PM
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yee god’s man Still, I wouldn’t know… “Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.” — Robert Briffault
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:57 AM
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Bog oof man （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:23 AM
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Wait, can you please elaborate on the ballet thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:19 AM
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what does bantam cocks mean? I tried looking it up and am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:46 PM
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I don’t think so. I personally think a society rife with casual sex/‘debauchery’ is more advanced than a sexually repressed one, and I certainly had rather live in a sexually liberated culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:28 AM
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Sure, we’re guinea pigs u/SpectacularTrashCan, but there’s a reason. If we can hang on here, now, one day soon some guy’s gonna check his tinder and see dozens of likes and messages. Maybe we won’t be the ones to see it. I can’t promise you that, but I can promise you that they’ll be there if only we can make the grade now!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:40 PM
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Lol! that’s a good point. The one thing I’ve seen besides obesity, is men asking women to approach/initiate more often. I think history moves slowly. We’re still transitioning from the patriarchal ways of the past. Perhaps in the future we will see a less patriarchal/more equal dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:30 PM
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It could correlate! There’s the ‘beautiful/attraction’ bias. So from an early age, and throughout life attractive people have more social interactions and more positive interactions than ugly people. This could stunt ugly people’s development. Alternatively, you could argue that due to this bias, attractive people’s personalities don’t have to develop as much as an unattractive person’s, the whole ‘ugly people have to compensate’ argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:24 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:47 PM
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I’m a man. And I would say that the life of a child, or a woman is more important than mine. I don’t know why that is. It’s just something I’ve known since a young age. It just makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:42 PM
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Only a Sith deals in absolutes u/festethefoole1!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:40 PM
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But he also can’t not tell me, because I’ll unmatch him for that too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:20 AM
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Alternatively, instead of discouraging women going to college, perhaps we could encourage men to go to college. We as a society could have more social outreach programs targeting boys/young men. Get them out of seclusion and engage them in society, get ‘em into colleges, extracurricular programs, vocational schools, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:08 AM
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What’s your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:05 AM
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I work in engineering and have had a similar experience! The work environment is mostly men, mostly clearing six figures, and mostly single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:02 AM
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Oof （´＿｀） This is my point. I thought they looked better than me, but most people think they’re ugly or below average…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:28 PM
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Lol! If these guys are getting such low ratings I’m probably dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:43 PM
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“Looks are the entry point” I tried explaining this to a woman I was dating. She thought i was only attracted to her physically. She ended up telling me to eff off…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:08 PM
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Oh man, if i could have slept around when i was young, I totally would have!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:07 PM
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Damn, retirement at 45! Congratulations on being bad ass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:06 PM
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I would say it’s the normal from here on out. These trends actually precede millennials and start with gen x (trends being: lower fertility, lower marriage rates, lower homeownership, lower income, lower ‘generational wealth’). Economically, I think it may just be that this has always been the norm, and the baby boomers were just the ‘once in every 250 years’ exceptionally lucky generation born in the right place (US/Western Europe) at the right time (post-WWII, invention of the transistor, long…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:46 PM
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Perhaps we could unionize?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:11 PM
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Me: “I expect a perfectly average relationship, or at least a date once every few mon-“ Op: “I’m going to have to stop you right there”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:43 PM
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As an undesirable man, I say: “Hear, Hear! Full speed ahead!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:36 AM
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I think it would be awesome. Sex-robots would be a grand-slam for both genders! Both men & women can have ideal partners, physically and emotionally. Men no longer have to struggle and get rejected and etc to get a date/gf. Women no longer have to deal with unwanted male attention and creeps and etc. Sex-robots are a win win all around!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:21 AM
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I have a pretty shitty skull shape. There’s like this big knob at the back, and some scarring on my scalp from a childhood injury -__-
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:53 PM
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Typical ethnically British face (I have a shaved head though, went bald at 19), 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:30 PM
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Being rejected/unnoticed has driven me to change myself: work out, eat healthy, dress better, earn BS/MS degrees, pursue career advancement more aggressively, be open to new experiences, be friendlier, etc… None of this has worked mind you! XD But I am more fit, healthy, make good money, more outgoing, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:54 AM
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I will admit, sometimes I can be a little naive…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:37 PM
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Hahaha, I’m a ‘slave-breeding-North-Korean-red-piller’? There’s something about this sub and sensationalism. Anyway, it was just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:03 PM
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Perhaps, with artificial wombs, child rearing can become a prerogative of the state until the children come of age at say 16-18, at which point they enter a trade or vocational school, university, or (for the boys) are conscripted for 1-2 years? If a couple does want to rear a child, they can submit an application, and based on income/EQ/IQ levels they can be granted a child? This would mean complete control over population growth, and total liberation of women. One wonders though, what the soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:15 PM
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Ironically celibacy is on the rise in the liberal west and fertility rates have been below replacement and falling since the 70s. Statistically, perhaps more liberal sexuality results in less sex and less relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:06 PM
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Romantically/dating-wise my 20s have been so abysmal thus far, I was really hoping in my 30s I might turn this franchise around. （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:20 PM
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“Why does only fans exist and why do i hate it so much?” XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:40 AM
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I don’t blame others or think I’m a victim. Just this whole dating thing fuckin’ sucks. I really really struggle just to get a match or a number. I wish I knew what is wrong with me, so that i could do something to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:01 AM
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drinking green tea might help?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:27 PM
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There’s gotta be a pill or something that i can buy to fix me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:41 PM
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Is there ‘extroversion’ conversion therapy? This whole introversion thing is starting to sound like a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:12 PM
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I would say women with social anxiety probably fare a lot better than men with social anxiety in the dating world. IRL she can let men take the initiative, and OLD is a turkey shoot for most women (right?).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:11 PM
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Oh my days, that’s a really good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:52 AM
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Isn’t considering yourself ‘the prize’ kind of narcissistic? Or maybe i’ve just got really low self-confidence/worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:25 PM
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Hear hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:23 PM
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Lmao! user name checks out As a quiet/reserved man, thank you for your service o7
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:01 AM
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Did you end up buying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:02 AM
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Whoa, Really? I didn’t know they could refuse like that! Can you try another doctor or is it like all doctors that refuse to do it? Are female doctors the same? Why do they refuse to perform the surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:58 AM
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I’m a man, and I’ve had some somewhat similar experiences. You voice an idea/solution in a business/technical meeting and your idea is disregarded and then later somebody else brings it up and suddenly they’re a genius! Or one time at work, there was a senior engineering position available and they hired an outsider. He made like 50% more money than me, and I had to teach him! But I ain’t had no nasty pranks pulled on me at work. And at work, nobody’s ever harassed me sexually. That sucks man. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:54 AM
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Yeah, i’d say she was really successful at dating. I get one or two dates a year
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:10 PM
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What are the differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:03 PM
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I’m fugly. And I’m pretty isolated (introvert with a remote STEM job and attending uni remotely), so i don’t get to meet a lot of people, let alone women in the dating market. It seems like the only thing really is just to keep trying my luck on OLD and hope for the best, pray to the algorithm gods!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:55 AM
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I’m with you OP, it ain’t hurting anyone and it’s their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:39 AM
1

I’ll just r/woosh myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:20 PM
1

Fascinating! I don’t quite understand though. I think i see some fallacies. Assuming you do want romance/relationship, you’re giving full agency to men? I think this means you’re empowering men? I don’t think being attracted to someone or asking someone out means that your life revolves around them or their gender. Alternatively, if someone were attracted to you, following your life mantra, then they shouldn’t ask you out because it is empowering not to revolve their life around someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:33 PM
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Interesting! but why not? Shouldn’t women be empowered? Don’t wait to be ‘chosen’ by a man, take control of your own life!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:54 PM
3

That herd mentality stuff you mention is a pretty compelling argument. Still though, you’d have to be pretty sick/twisted just to get it up in a situation like that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:09 PM
2

Well Imma just try to make good money, and live within my means? Regardless, the retirement picture is pretty grim for most Americans. I envision most of us working until death? With deficits every year since the 70s and ~30,025,000,000,000 dollars of debt (124.72% of GDP) I don’t see the federal government being able to afford an effective social safety net in the present or future. Wow, I’m looking at the debt clock and the biggest expenses are medicare/medicaid 1.2 trillion and social securit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:29 PM
1

I’m the opposite. I’d want a best friend/cuddle buddy/all that corny bs, and I don’t think I’d care if anybody knew or not. But i don’t have anybody pressuring me to be in a relationship, sounds like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:58 AM
2

What’s the podcast? I’m really interested in listening to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:43 AM
2

For me personally yes. If a woman is nice to me there is a knee jerk reaction. I immediately hope/think she may be interested in me. This is an emotional response. However, the rational part of my brain overrides this emotional/knee-jerk response and I don’t act on the belief that she is interested. The rational brain thought process is something like: “she said a nice thing, but she is probably not interested, and it would be a faux pas to assume she is. She is a mature adult and if she were in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:57 PM
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I don’t know what to chalk my failure up to, i just know that if this many women over such an extended period of time are rejecting me, I am the problem. You know? Most People do succeed at dating, so it’s not a societal problem, it’s a ‘me’ problem :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:08 AM
1

I’ve landed dates with really successful/attractive ppl, so in my personal experience I’ve witnessed women’s standards at their lowest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:56 PM
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I would look at that as a bad outcome. I want a partner! And also, as a single guy society does regard you with suspicion/caution. People/society are a lot more accepting/forgiving/friendly if you have a gf or wife IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:32 AM
3

Lolol, maybe a slight bump in the socio category, but definitely a massive downgrade in the economic category.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:08 PM
5

HEY! As a low socioeconomic status individual (the lowest of the low, a grad student) I take offense! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:40 PM
1

I think maybe it’s because dating in general is great for women? Men are driven to OLD because IRL doesn’t present a lot of opportunities?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:31 PM
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I agree, but what about when a woman sexually harasses a man, or when a female teacher has sex with a student? It seems much less unconscionable than if the genders were reversed, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:01 PM
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As a rather unattractive man, I have only gotten contempt/hostility/insulted for my appearance by a woman maybe once or twice. As an ugly guy you’re really just invisible. That’s been my experience. They’re not attracted to me, which I completely understand, and they’re mostly super friendly!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:03 AM
2

Speak for yourself, AOC is AOK, 10/10!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:41 PM
5

Too low, or not low enough? I haven’t had a date since last year!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:20 AM
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I mean, I’d like a woman who is loyal and caring (Obviously I’d be loyal and caring to her too), but not submissive, noooo thank you. I’m interpreting ‘loyal’ to mean ‘exclusive’/‘monogamous’. Since when are loyalty/caring outdated? I should think anyone (regardless of gender) would have to possess these traits in order to have a monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:13 AM
1

Yes, I’m not going to avoid people because of religion, race, or subreddit membership, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:57 AM
2

28m, i got: Masculinity: 129 Femininity: 78 . . My god…I’m a stereotype…have i got any personality/individuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:12 AM
3

（´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:19 AM
1

I feel the same way, totally invisible to the opposite gender! I can’t get the time of day out of most women. Still though, you oughtta be nice to people OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:21 AM
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Hey now, . . . that’s controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:42 AM
2

Who are you and why are you mentioned by name in the post?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:56 AM
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I’ve been so neutered by media/society/academia/idk that I don’t really initiate. This is really the only way I’ve gotten laid, women literally laying on top of me or pulling my pants down to give me a ‘hint’. It’s a wonder I lost my virginity at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:51 AM
5

I’d just be glad to have any sort of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:23 PM
5

Yeah that’s a good point, ever since the 1930s(I think) the average American work week has been steadily growing and growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:35 PM
2

No We must do the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:53 AM
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Lol IKR? I think the disparity is just so dramatic though. That’s why it keeps popping up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:18 AM
1

That’s an interesting point. Women have been the majority of college grads and college students since the 80s. Currently, American women represent about +60% of college students. I bet we will see a reversal of the gender wage gap in our lifetime. Also, most positions of leadership will probably be female, right? With the majority of highly educated people being women, that’d make sense I think. I don’t know if it’ll be the end of marriage, but it’ll certainly change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:44 AM
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Lol, in the 1st half of the comment i was like damn, is this woman a sociopath? but then in the 2nd half you’re very empathetic! A great character arch. I agree with you. A man’s got to be responsible and treat people with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:54 AM
0

You’re right. That’s really fuckin’ weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:04 PM
2

You’re a woman. You’re young. Don’t sweat it. Just exercise, eat healthy, dating’ll be like shooting fish in a barrel for you! Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:31 AM
1

Lmao, that first paragraph was like a personal attack XD It was pretty accurate though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:25 AM
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I’m 28, and it’s a red flag. I have been rejected because I haven’t had a gf before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:06 AM
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I agree. Men are more shallow than women, and yet, aren’t women more selective than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:32 PM
2

Lol! Maybe you’re right at that! I appreciate your forthright candor. You should be a dating coach or a life coach. I bet you’d be good at it. You seem to be good at calling people on their BS XD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:24 AM
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I agree. These guys in the articles you’ve linked should be arrested. I don’t think it’s entirely legal repercussions that hold guys back. It can also be a social faux pas to approach women. Most women don’t want to be approached by men. I feel like when women are at a bookstore or the gym or a bar they’re there for a specific activity such as shopping for a book or working out or drinks with friends, not to be approached by guys. And if you ask someone, “where is it appropriate to approach wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:44 PM
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Lol! IKR? The disparity is glaring. A Tale of Two Cities, haves and have nots
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:23 PM
2

Well this is probably a group project where we have to work with a partner. I wouldn’t be able to find a partner and get an F.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:19 PM
3

Well I’d argue the emphasis on a male star’s appearance IS evidence of a masculinity crisis. But this is more to do with ‘gender norms’ and culture. It’s not a crisis. The definition of masculinity is just changing. Such has it always been, such will it always be. I think a more compelling argument for a ‘masculinity crisis’ or rather a ‘fertility crisis’ is a scientific one. The empirical male congenital deformities/lower testosterone levels/decreased fertility evidence for me is far more convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:55 PM
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I don’t know, but I know I’m unattractive. I guess I just accept the 80/20. I don’t resent women for it. I’d do the same. I also wouldn’t want to date me! I work on myself, live healthy, have a good career, work out, try to dress nice, etc… It’s going to be a lonely life, but at least it’ll be a comfortable one （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:42 PM
1

Hahaha Oh come on!? Cats are a red flag now? XD You just can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:47 PM
1

Who can say what is right and wrong, what is true love and what isn’t. One man’s rotting milk is another’s cheese. As long as it’s between consenting adults, I say go for it. Your body, your life, your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:11 AM
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It’ll probably be a lot easier to get dates with men at least!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:40 AM
1

“You’re not so very different. 3 sides to the same coin.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:56 AM
1

Which faction is the strongest: blue pill, red pill, black pill, incel, FDS, MGTOW, or purple pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:51 AM
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It sounds somewhat controversial, but there is evidence that birth control use “significantly decreased women's preferences for male facial masculinity but did not influence preferences for same-sex faces”. So you may not be crazy, and there may be a drug/chemical factor driving this phenomenon? I feel like in the developed world our diet has become so processed/synthetic, polluted with industrial chemicals. This is just one example, but there’s also phthalates/micro-plastics, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:21 PM
2

I been meaning to make a post about this on r/dating_advice or something. It seems like most of the women’s profiles i see on OLD are like corporate officers or PHD candidates or managers or lawyers or “insert job title above and beyond my socioeconomic class”. Is there like some way I can alter my profile/filters to view profiles of women more within my class?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:40 PM
1

I’m just inntimidated by intellignet leopla!! Regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:01 AM
1

How did you comment on this? I thought the post was removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:22 AM
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Man here, I don’t mind at all! But you’re right. I feel like if I glance at a woman dressed in tight clothes I’ll get arrested or for being a creep or something. So it has pros and cons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:45 AM
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Lol, no, i have this big knobby lump of bone at the back. And some scarring from childhood injuries. I think the bone lump might also be from childhood injuries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:46 PM
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Lol I went bald at 19 -__-
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:31 AM
1

I don’t want a woman who fucks like a pornstar. I’m no pornstar myself. I guess i just would like to be with someone who is enthusiastic about having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:37 PM
5

Now tell us how you really feel!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:54 AM
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I sort of agree. When I see a woman complaining about how hard dating is because she can’t find a quality date, or someone willing to commit, or etc… I empathize. These are viable problems, but from a man’s dating perspective it does remind me of that old “1st world problems” meme format. I commiserate with the struggle of sorting through a bunch of thirsty dudes and ‘nice guys’ and creeps, but at least you’re getting attention as a dude you’re sort of nonexistent by default. So in conclusion, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:18 PM
10

Lolled at: “For me, [a specific category of humans] are like NPCs”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:00 PM
2

Never tell me the odds! (Fml 28M, never been in a relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:13 AM
1

I don’t get it. Can someone explain what this is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:01 AM
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Isn’t it the best way to date people though? Some women are ok being approached in public, some women aren’t. OLD removes that uncertainty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:11 AM
1

Sounds like someone was stabbed in the back by a thirsty friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:37 PM
8

I’m so starved for physical/emotional intimacy I would choose the 2nd option
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:28 PM
1

So, hypothetically if someone were: 5’11 Bald Braces 6 figure income Introverted In ‘ok’ shape (slim, but not ripped) They should draw attention away from bald/braces/5’11 and instead draw attention to their income?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:58 AM
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I think dating in the US in general (or at least in Southern California) is a shitshow. Either that or I’m a total and complete failure that needs to work on himself, but I refuse to entertain that notion! I’m failing at dating, ergo I blame my entire society!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:36 AM
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I don’t know, but I will say I’m pretty old, near the wall, 28. And the dating pool seems to have gotten better? Man, back in my teens and early/mid 20s it was like shouting into the void. Things aren’t great now, but it seems like I can get a date (usually with a woman OOML (out of my league)) every few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:35 AM
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If I could also form a real emotional connection with it, hell yeah. I’d go well over the $15k asking price here. I’m a low smv guy in a male dominated STEM career field in a region of the country that is majority male. So realistically this’d be the surest way to emotional/physical intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:15 PM
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I’ve read that Men have a higher basal metabolic rate for equivalent body mass. I think this is because of more testosterone/muscle mass, greater percentage of body weight is muscle. So their baseline ‘calories out’ is usually going to be higher than a woman’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:05 PM
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PPD comment of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:51 PM
2

Why are there more men than women in these states?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:31 PM
3

What is ‘Intermountain West’?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:39 PM
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Well I’m a below average male. Low intelligence, bald, braces, F.U.G.L.Y., etc… You spend a lot of time alone. If you wait for someone to fall into your lap you might meet someone, probably not though. You really gotta be proactive. Once in a while, maybe once a year or every couple years I’ll get a date through OLD. So, it’s pretty grim. But I have a great career, friends, hobbies, pursuits, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:31 PM
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I’ve got a pretty low IQ, below average I think, so take this with a grain of salt. Nobody really likes or values intelligence. Think of the smart kids back in school. They were always isolated. Pariahs almost. I’ve read that an IQ difference of 10-20 points makes it very difficult for people to communicate and form bonds. So maybe only smart people like smart people. And if you’ve ever seen an IQ bell curve, this means if you’re trying to date and you’re smart, you’re screwed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:29 PM
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I mean, you make sense. I totally agree with you, but that hasn’t been my experience. I’m fugly (and broke) and I’ve dated women so far out my league we’re not even playing the same game! So I don’t know what to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:14 PM
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Someone made a post a couple days ago asking women if they would ever approach a man… I’ll just leave it at that! (I’m sure on the PPD subreddit we only really see a small subset of the genders. In my day-to-day life experience and dating experience I’ve never encountered anyone entitled, or at least between men and women I’ve never noticed one gender being more entitled than the other)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:50 PM
1

This really surprising. It’s like an entirely different world view!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:44 PM
2

I’m already rock bottom ugly,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:57 PM
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I dunno, the vibe I’ve gotten is that it’s socially unacceptable. ‘Where, how, and when’ are subjective. There is no correct answer. In OLD you’re approaching women who you know are open to being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:48 AM
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I don’t really have any. I just shoot from the hip so to speak. But that being said I’m 28 and have never been in a relationship, so I have no experience in selecting a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:22 AM
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Oh yeah, good point, is human nature monogamous or polygamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:30 AM
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XD His comment is so sensationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:27 AM
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Bring on the ‘sex robot AI revolution’! It’ll be like a 2nd sexual revolution. Most men don’t like getting rejected, most women don’t like being approached (or harassed/catcalled). I feel like this solution could make everybody happy! Men and women get their physical and emotional intimacy and hopefully all the aggressive/creepy guys will be satisfied too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:18 AM
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On a ‘game scale’ of 0 to 10 I’m like a 1 or a 0. I am actually much more fluent and socially adept when talking to complete strangers and acquaintances, but once I get it into my head that I am attracted to this woman, it’s like all my social skills evaporate. I become a bumbling moron. I have difficulty forming complete sentences, conjugating verbs, etc…!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:54 PM
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Reading these answers as a man is very interesting, to see things from a different perspective. It’s a paradigm shift!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:29 PM
5

XD I think that’s a Ghandi quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:20 PM
2

Well I’ve always been below average, so I wouldn’t know!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:15 PM
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“everyone can have a good job and become wealthy if they just apply themselves and work hard. Rich people are rich for a reason, they work harder and are smarter than poor people”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:14 PM
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You really gotta be careful when approaching women. Yes means yes, and if she isn’t showing interest, back off. And generally most women don’t want to be approached or pursued. Lol, at least this has been my experience as a 3/10 on the attractiveness spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:15 PM
5

It seems like everybody does a lot of straw manning in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 PM
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I agree it is and has always been unethical. But in a worst case scenario, I think it would be pragmatic. There’s a lot of historical precedent throughout human culture over the past few thousand years! And I think we already do this on a small scale with the military, youth labor corps, the prison system
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:55 PM
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As a lonely undesirable man, let me just say, it sucks for me, but it is probably really good for the planet! And uh, I don’t think there is a fix. Dating is competitive and most men won’t succeed. Actually men these days are probably having more romantic success than they did for most of human history. Long term, if society reaches a point where a large disenfranchised male population is causing unrest, hmm I could see like a mandatory male corvée labor program, or male conscription. Some form …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:38 PM
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I’ve had the opposite experience. I’m fugly, and pretty much every woman I’ve dated has been way out of my league
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:40 PM
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Ironic right? I’m no misandrist, but that’s been my dating experience. Most women I’ve dated have been women W.A.Y. out of my league. IMHO for guys appearance is a big deal (at least initially) and for women attractiveness seems to be more eclectic/holistic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:17 PM
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I agree. People make it up, probably as a way to cope with rejection/dating failure. “A 2010 OkCupid study on 200,000 of its male and female dating site users found that women are, except those during their early to mid-twenties, open to relationships with both somewhat older and somewhat younger men; they have a larger potential dating pool than men until age 26. At age 20, women, in a "dramatic change", begin sending private messages to significantly older men. At age 29, they become "even mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:10 PM
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Let me just say, I completely disagree. Women are way better looking. And as a heteroman I speak without bias
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:54 AM
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Oh, lol, I completely misunderstood. That makes sense, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:54 PM
3

What does ‘fluffy’ mean? Like not sure what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:50 PM
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Big oof man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:36 PM
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Yes, I agree with you. But in this case, I don’t think any of these guys were getting any dates at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:18 PM
5

Good point! OLD pretty much IS the market these days, no? Like 60% or 70% of couples meet via OLD these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:24 AM
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That’s my experience too sort of! At the last company i worked at, I had a couple coworkers in their 20s, making like 6 figures, and they were all bachelors. I also have a few personal friends, just below or in the 6-figure income mark, and they’re all single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:16 AM
3

Permanent DD!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:05 AM
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Blast, this was the crutch that held up my ego. Now I’ve got nothing but the crippling realization that I’m just that ugly and boring (ノ﹏ヽ)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:04 AM
1

Nooooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:00 AM
2

Hey thanks! What do you mean ‘more attractive “group” ‘?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:46 PM
4

I’ve got like 5-6 friend gf pairs that fit this category. In two of the 5-6 couples the boyfriend (my friend) is a few inches taller than me (I’m 5’11. Those two are like 6’3 or something), but in the rest I’m taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:22 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:14 AM
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I have a healthy bmi, i workout, diet, rock climb, hike, bike, etc… I’ve scored once in the last 4 years. And I have several friends who are a little pudgy but have very attractive gfs. So I’m skeptical that this carries much weight (no pun intended) with women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:30 AM
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Oh! My b, disregard everything I said!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:57 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:06 PM
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Lol, it seems like most of the posts on PPD are about ‘if you’re a guy trying to date, you’re fucked’ （´＿｀）
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:14 PM
3

I’ve read there’s some biological evidence to support the existence of the 80/20 rule throughout human history! Mitochondrial DNA shows much more diversity than Y chromosomal dna, which some interpret to mean there are more female than male contributors to the gene pool. Or in other words, over the past couple hundred thousand years a small number of males have been hooking up with most of the women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:17 AM
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The first time a woman showed me her tinder account it completely/fundamentally upended my perception of attractiveness. Previously I thought I had an ‘OK’ feel for how attractive people are, like: “she’s very attractive, probably successful at dating”, or “he’s not attractive but he’s in shape, funny” etc… I had a friend in college. We were friends, she was good people, very intelligent, but I didn’t think she was very attractive. I assumed she would have more success than me in dating but stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:50 PM
1

They say the secret to seduction is proximity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:35 PM
1

What is CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:42 AM
3

I’ve got female friends who are bros. I also had a friend back in college (he was a man) who took advantage of this woman he was hooking up with. She’d give him rides and money, etc… He took advantage of me too! I’d give him rides help him with his schoolwork. Man that guy was hilarious though. It’s kinda like when someone knows they’re being an asshole and they play into it? I don’t know but he was self aware and acknowledged it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:28 AM
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IKR? It started pretty mild and then became so comically over the top XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:05 AM
5

You’re a liar and delusional! . . /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:43 PM
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In my experience, people generally don’t like smart people. I’m not smart! But in my life i have been around intelligent people, and seen them ostracized, isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:49 PM
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As a hetero man, I may be a little biased, but I beg to differ! Women ARE more attractive by default
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:32 PM
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Most of the foreign women I’ve dated have actually been wealthier than me -__-
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:54 AM
3

Wow, very interesting article. It certainly jives with my experience as a young man during the study period -__-
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:52 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman simp for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:33 PM
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Oh vow, that’s a good point. You could also cite domestication of animals! It’s kind of grim though, sort of an acknowledgement of biological determinism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:56 PM
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How can psychology evolve? Psychology is an acquired trait right? It cannot be passed to offspring. It has to be taught, which would then be sociology rather than evolutionary psychology i think? Or I suppose one could argue nature over nurture, but I thought nurture won that debate a long time ago? (I’m not trying to be confrontational. I genuinely don’t know and am asking)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:46 AM
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I was chatting with a woman, she was asking me a lot of questions: ‘are you seeing anyone?’ ‘Why did you end your last relationship?’, etc… as soon as I sent her a selfie, she stopped texting So in the looks department: 2-3/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:28 AM
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THIS man don’t feel that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:32 PM
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Not at all important
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:27 PM
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Can’t society leave us ugly unsuccessful men with the sop of hypergamy! Sure we may be ugly, unattractive, alone, etc But! In the future, if we work hard and make enough money, things may get better!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:22 AM
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I’m glad for your success, but I’m still going to downvote out of jealousy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:15 AM
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Rules 1 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:14 AM
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Well, fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:30 AM
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This was in my mid 20s, like 25-27. I’m 28 now, and in grad school
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:54 PM
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When I do it or when I see other men do it, I see it as punching a pillow, getting shitfaced, or shouting into the void. You’re just releasing. You don’t really expect solutions or empathy, it just feels better to exorcise pent up feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:22 AM
2

Gee, I wish I was a golden penis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:49 PM
4

Wow, thanks! I appreciate your positivity. And fuck that noise bro. Don’t listen to the haters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:01 AM
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Maybe statistically these guys are are the guys who are confident and forward enough to take initiative and approach women. So, the odds are that when you hook up, it’ll be with someone like this? It’s sort of like natural selection in progress! People with advantageous traits have sex more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:29 AM
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Whoa! take it easy on my pal u/KJones24346
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:57 AM
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I suppose I may be a little naive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:18 PM
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Dude, I would totally date outside of my ‘economic’ class! Lol, honestly lol, I’D be hypergamous to go after most of the women on dating apps! I wonder what would be the best method to date outside of your socioeconomic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:20 PM
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Doesn’t this sound a little misogynistic? It’s the old hypergamy argument in new clothes. In my personal experience, being wealthier than a woman cuts you no extra slack, lol or maybe I’m just so unattractive as a person, that wealth has no effect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:49 PM
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Ooooh, I see, thanks. But I can still see it? Is it removed and only i can see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:18 PM
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Oh vow, very cool, my German teacher was Romanian! your English is impeccable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:53 AM
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What is your culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:52 AM
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As long as you follow rules 1 &2, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:27 PM
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Shiiiiit, when you point out the genetics factor, I guess women are doing humanity a favor by not sleeping with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:29 AM
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Oh no, this is how idiocracy happens. Only the smart adults are like, “I probably won’t have a job in the next 2-3 years due to automation or economic periodicity. I def shouldn’t have a child”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:36 PM
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With the advent and proliferation of contraceptives, i think a collapsing fertility rate was inevitable. People can have sex, without having kids. It’s perfect! We have more control and freedom in our lives. Perhaps eventually, after decades, maybe centuries of dwindling populations, technology will reach the point where laboratories can make test tube babies, and then childrearing/procreation will become a prerogative of the state. There’ll be a host of moral issues naturally. It’s all a bit Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:32 PM
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This sub never disappoints
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:10 AM
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You know what it’s like out there bro. Why, most dames would just as soon stick a nickel in a jukebox as shake a stick at me. And I can’t say as I blame ‘em neither. I’m a solid 3-4/10, a real Darwinian ‘one-off’. I believe in people being in control of their own fate. Work hard and you’ll get results. But this ain’t the gym, or school, or your career, where success is somewhat formulaic (i.e. eat this amount of calories to lose wait, or study 2 hours for every hour of lecture, or get this degre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:37 AM
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Man, it sucks to be culled :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:05 PM
2

Dayum, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:01 PM
0

It’s difficult to have a preference with no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:30 PM
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I would prefer if they didn’t!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:56 PM
1

Lol, well this is embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:20 PM
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Fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:55 PM
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I think it was a perfect analogy that elucidated your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:54 PM
0

I prefer tomboys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:17 AM
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Hahaha, I’m sorry. It’s just a thought! Something to ruminate on, draw your conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:37 AM
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Depressing as it sounds, I think TRP is being realistic when they say that men have to get used to being alone/unloved, and that they’re disposable/useless. I would cite mitochondrial vs chromosomal dna diversity, gender roles in other animal species, traditional gender roles in human societies, and demographics to substantiate that view point. I do not hold this viewpoint as dogma, nor indeed with any great conviction. It’s more a nagging suspicion born of observing repeated patterns in the afo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:28 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:28 AM
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Soporific and cliched, you have a discerning eye u/StarchRunnet. I commend you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:26 AM
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Here here, you don’t pick your friends. They just sort of ‘happen’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:40 PM
2

Ah jeezus, different genders different rules, I don’t know. I don’t think society would look kindly on men trying to do this. IMHO, you’re friends with who you vibe with regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, creed, etc. I’ll get off my soap box and stop sermonizing now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:39 PM
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What is a ‘herbivore man’?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:50 PM
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Well, college is also a recipe for a sexless life for an average man. What are average men to do? And what if you’re below average? (Asking for a friend. I’m way above average, def alpha, I do the sex all the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:27 PM
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What does ‘they’re going herbivore’ mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:42 PM
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I’m not critiquing what you’re saying! I’m a below average guy who’s struggling with OLD. So I’m just askin’ where are women turning to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:49 AM
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everybody takes a beating sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:46 AM
2

Well…where are they turning to??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:19 AM
1

Testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:54 PM
2

I’ll do anything to clear my student debt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:46 PM
1

I’m pretty much always less successful at dating than everyone I meet, so this has never come up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:19 AM
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Wow, I don’t know what to say. This has never happened to me on reddit before. Usually responses aren’t quite so civil/rational Thank you, I feel a little more confident voicing my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:14 AM
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I don’t support traditional gender roles, but I also wouldn’t want to deny custody to a parent on the basis of my personal beliefs. Who am I to tell someone how to live their life or raise their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:46 AM
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Hmm not only the creeps’ behavior would change, normal guys’ behavior would change too. I think it would mean a little less respect from most people (normal non-creepy guys), in addition to more respect from some people(the creeps). Which would be a good thing, imho. It would be a more equal society. We would maybe see the gender wage gap close?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:28 PM
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Hell, I’m bald, boring, and fugly. I’m not complaining about hypergamy, no sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:27 AM
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Oh phooey, it’s a silly premise, but please entertain it, and tell us what you think would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:11 AM
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“Truth is like poetry. And most people fucking hate poetry” -Adam McKay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:57 PM
1

i’d be like: “I try to avoid looking at me too”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:29 AM
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I try to prioritize a partner’s pleasure, but I usually lose the will to live after ejaculating…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:29 PM
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Another commenter made a good point regarding the public shame thing. If you’re a guy who can’t get a relationship with a woman (speaking from experience) you’re damned either way in the court of public opinion. I hope that AI does reach the level that it can provide intimacy and companionship to lonely people. It’s not something you’d wish on anyone, to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:14 PM
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Oh my god! It’s the famous LillithofBabylon! This is like seeing a celebrity in public. I never thought I’d get to see one of your posts. You’re pretty famous in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:27 PM
1

Oh yeah!? Well how do you explain that date I went on 4 years ago, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:16 PM
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Lolol, “he’s perfect…there must be something wrong with him!”, you just can’t win :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:42 PM
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Lol! I kind of have had a similar but inverted experience. I went on a couple dates with a woman, we hooked up a couple times, and once we/I started feeling more serious about each other, I got all stressed out about stuff like: ‘omg what if I’m wasting her time?’ ‘We should not be having sex! That’s not what adults in serious relationships do’ ‘maybe this is just a physical relationship for her’ ‘if i’m having this much self-doubt I’m definitely wasting her time’ et cetera, et cetera, aaaand I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:56 AM
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No no, this also a common sentiment in western/secular culture. I’d hazard this is common not just across human cultures and religions, but also among species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:54 PM
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Shit, I’ve been driving the same car since high school. I can’t afford a pet cat let alone a baby. . . . . And also, I couldn’t get laid in a monkey whorehouse with a fistful of bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:37 PM
1

Oh hahaha, I see. So it’s like a comparison Ancient men: conquer cities Modern men: go to wine bars
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:29 PM
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I don’t understand. What in blazes does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:20 PM
1

What is ‘THAT pill’? And how do i get a blue text quote next to me username like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:28 PM
2

Why are women’s standards lower in the Midwest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:41 PM
1

XD Funniest post i’ve seen on this sub so far!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:23 AM
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Hahaha, i don’t get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:00 AM
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Usually Asian or Latino. Is there a specific ethnicity that your post refers to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:58 PM
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I’m white, and I’ve definitely landed dates with non-white women who are W.A.Y. out of my league (like we’re not even playing the same sport). I think there might be a bias in favor of whites in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:48 PM
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I think you’ve got a really good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:50 AM
1

I have no idea what’s going on in this sub. They’s red pill, black pill, purple pill, and you can take ‘em?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:01 AM
1

Ey lemme get 2 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:49 AM
1

Oh, you can still have teen sex…. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:33 AM
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Hundreds of sex per year? Pssh, That’s impossible! NOBODY’s that attractive. A more realistic number is like 1 or 2 every couple years IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:31 AM
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Really? That’s crazy! Do you have a link to source material?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:58 AM
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I would like her to scream it at me In a house With a mouse In a box With a fox Here or there Anywhere I do so like being screamed at Thank you, Thank you, Sam-I-am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:05 AM
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How else will the world know about my hot legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:57 AM
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Pareto distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:52 AM
2

If a woman did this to me, it might work. But yeah, if a guy did this to me, I’d be pretty weirded out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:02 AM
2

Did/do you masturbate at all? In general how strong is your sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:30 PM
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Easy for attractive people to say! Like a price gouging brick and mortar retailer in a small town, I need women without options to get a date. Amazon be damned!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:05 PM
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Close, but i drive a ‘97 civic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:00 PM
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Damn your eyes meme_lords_unite, You don’t know what it’s like to be ugly, and boring, and alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:35 AM
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A friend asked me if I’d be interested in a threesome once
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:34 AM
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both of these are better than being alone. Take what you can get, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:45 PM
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Hahahahaha Conservative, und auch mit dem blauen augen und blonde Haare?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:56 PM
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Lolol, As an ugly, poor man approaching his 30s this is all very depressing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:04 PM
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This is 2021, not 1960. If we both work full time we might be able to afford an apartment together, and a used car. Kids were never an option in either scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:05 PM
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Man here, i do want women to have careers/work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:59 PM
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I see that a lot in public bathrooms. Guys not washing their hands. Lotta guys in a hurry I guess, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:08 AM
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Do you ever look at/check out really ugly people? Like when you see something disgusting, but you’re so curious/grossed out that you can’t look away? Sometimes I catch people glancing/staring at me, and I wonder if it’s because I look weird or fugly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:21 PM
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Yes! About 28% of men under 30 were celibate in 2018. The share of Americans not having sex has reached a record high
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:57 PM
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Wow, your English is amazing, better than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:24 PM
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(28m) Well this is all very depressing…. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:12 AM
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This, if you’re not building wealth and grinding by 4th grade, gg, you may as well give up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:09 AM
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Well I’ll devote extra effort to Bumble, thanks for the tip. Lol, I’m so bad at photos it’s actually a running joke in my family!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:39 AM
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These comments describe me perfectly! too shy/awkward to approach women IRL, also think most women don’t want to be approached IRL, so I stick to OLD. I don’t think it’s realistic or productive to expect women to approach me. the solution, for me at least, is to keep plugging away at OLD, and probably stay single for several years. One day I’ll meet someone though, and it’ll be awesome! just gotta keep trying, just gotta let probability work its magic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:44 PM
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This has been my experience. I’m a STEM Grad student, and being in higher education doesn’t really help at all in the OLD game IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:34 PM
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