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Idk I’ve been thinking about this. It’s certainly true emotionally, but I have yet to see it explained articulately, you know? They will always hide behind the idea that it’s totally okay because they made a contract at a particular point in time, so what happens after is all that matters. If there’s an issue with your contract, you meet and renegotiate the contract or else dissolve it. Marriage is put into a very material context that makes it hard to explain why men (or people in general, sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:34 PM
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I very much disagree. Cheating is probably more common in general, but marriages are paradoxically more stable these days because the unstable ones dissolve so quickly. Cheating within the marriage is less common now than then. Additionally we have more tools to combat cheating. Partners can easily spy on each other, you can do DNA testing, and so on. There’s apps that literally let you both see where each other are 24/7. I think it’s possible that less cheating occurs, but more of it is caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:28 PM
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Bro something like 10-15% of the population is suicidal to the point of needing antidepressants to maintain daily function, if not avoid actual death. We can’t pretend we don’t have our own unique problems that would equally mystify our ancestors. Their struggles should be used to inspire solutions to our own, not to compare and thereby assuage the pain they cause us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:25 PM
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They would rather be passed around by hot guys than shackled to an ugly one, perhaps even a plain one. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:20 PM
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Nonsense. Cheating is rarer than ever in marriages. It might happen more overall because it’s more likely in the dating phase, but that’s just life experiences tbh, not life ruining stuff like marriages blowing up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:09 PM
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Because he wants to give advice that might actually make your life better or improve the world or achieve literally anything besides bitching on Reddit like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah but it will never happen bro. Women balk at more than 3, and you can’t afford more than 1 on a single income anyway so she has to work. You could end up spending your whole life setting up the conditions for it to happen like a good income, a home, a wife who is open to many kids, etc. And then she could divorce you out of the blue and destroy what you built, it’s literally 50/50. And for living traditionally on a single income with many kids, you are punished extremely harshly by the law -…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:55 PM
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Genuinely stunning to me that you would let anyone IRL know about PPD and the manosphere, or that you know about it. Insanity. Keep that shit buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:53 PM
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Why is this a question for just women? All the men are unanimous in denouncing FDS women too. The smart ones would stay away from people on PPD too. It has nothing to do with the actual TRP or FDS techniques themselves. I mean, it can, but it doesn’t need to. Just the fact that they are clearly a manipulative and controlling person, over analyzing every aspect of relationships and likely their own dynamics. You should be legit scared to be manipulated by such a person. Even if they’re not the so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty rough and the constant gaslighting about it doesn’t help with handling it as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:47 PM
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Congrats on your psych major
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:44 PM
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I agree that people are seriously underestimating how bad things are about to get in the next 50 years. Even if we maintain our current status or improve modestly to rectify these issues, foreign cultures like the East Asians and South Asians will begin to run circles around us. China has already eclipsed our technological edge on them, 20 years before we thought they would. It’s going to get bad, but everyone is all too eager to call it alarmism. The vast, vast majority of people in America thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:33 PM
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Hey I’m doing fine, especially for how I look. It’s still a real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:19 PM
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Yes, a minority of a mere 30-odd percent of single men (defined as no sex in the last year). Just millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:18 PM
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Honestly I think you’re selling yourself short.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:10 PM
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Yeah pretty weird, right? Just both of you getting off to hotter people having better sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:36 AM
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One such country is South Korea, where the problem is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:27 AM
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In the UK, the leading cause of death for young men is suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:22 AM
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Uhhh yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:20 AM
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Value is something that an external observer gives to someone or something. He can't just tell himself he's valuable and become valuable. Everyone is valuable to themselves because, well, they are themselves. The ones who don't are already dead or about to be. Being valued by others is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:20 AM
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Suicide is young men's leading cause of death and people want to buy them prostitutes. God help us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:17 AM
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True. They may be the definition of biased lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:07 PM
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I mean that’s what OP more or less says, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:06 PM
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Lol I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:54 AM
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If only lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:50 AM
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It’s weird to you that girls prefer frat bros to nerdy engineers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:39 AM
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Really? So you see nothing immoral about a man divorcing his wife because she’s too old and marrying a younger woman? She’s not entitled to be married to him, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:38 AM
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Yeah sure she doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:16 AM
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This is patently absurd but I’m a man so onto the AutoMod I go 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:51 PM
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Yeah it’s a minority of girls, sort of the inverse of men who would truly lead a woman on for weeks or even months just to get laid once. But the thing is, they lead on many different guys so even as a minority, most men could encounter one. I can’t say I’ve ever been led on before that I know of, but then I’ve never heard of a man pursuing a girl for months just to smash once IRL either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:50 PM
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Sounds like you want to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:48 PM
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When they say that, they mean they hate “too many muscles” the way you hate massive ginormous titties that drag across the ground. They’re talking about roided up freaks like Kali Muscle (no offense to them, but it is freakish). You will never gain enough muscle naturally to turn off most women. Also a lot of women settle for men without muscle and are just being nice to him. Kind of rude to admit he’s lacking in something he’s just too lazy to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:37 PM
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We should be mandating all boys to lift weights in school as young as 12, perhaps younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:34 PM
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Adultery is down and things are worse than ever. If anything, the reverse is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:06 PM
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No, that’s a totally legitimate concern. She should fear for the child’s safety too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:01 PM
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True. I do my part to discourage them but I do think it’s inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:00 PM
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FYI you really shouldn’t use the same term for secretly taking a condom off (rape) for hiding undesirable aspects about yourself. I was confused for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:55 PM
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I mean just from how you sound so far, would you be anything less than glaringly disapproving if they told you about some Drumpftard/MAGAt/Republicunt they were seeing? Why do you assume it’s about some lefty gf kink? He can’t just think you’re cute? I only doubt because I don’t think I’ve seen a guy with a lefty gf kink explicitly. I will say, I’ve definitely seen guys on the right with a thing for Latinas or Black girls, some usually left wing demographic. That can make things hard for them. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:51 PM
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Bro definitionally if it’s her “true love” Disney-style, I don’t think she can settle for him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:45 PM
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That’s just goalposting. People can be genuinely happy with almost anyone if they keep an open mind. You could probably marry a dude and just be bros and be happy enough. Similarly, you could be happy living in a tent in the woods. It’s still settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:43 PM
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Every time I see an EV without a grill, it reminds me of a penis head with no urethra. It’s honestly a curse. They’re gonna take over in 10-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:42 PM
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No they don’t bro. No one is so delusional that they actually think they met the one most perfect person. They might say that. I know I say it to my partners. Realistically, anyone can always find a better partner eventually if they keep looking. It’s just a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:40 PM
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Well congrats on being an awesome person and tripping over yourself with people who love you. The people who love me are few and far between and I can’t afford to just disregard them. If they have major flaws I have to settle with, that’s just life. I’m not so awesome as you, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:38 PM
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Not really bro. You’re just delusional and dishonest with yourself in a way that I refuse to be, no offense ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:36 PM
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It has certainly led to a bunch of women who are very, very experienced with men sexually, but seemingly have no idea how we think or what we like or what we value in women. At first it was very peculiar to me, but it makes sense that many short encounters is how that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:28 PM
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Yeah honestly fair enough. I read your other post too and it’s true; it’s not a contract and I was mistaken. You seem to have this worked out much more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:25 PM
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Gen X Congrats bro but Tinder took off back when I was in Middle School. Most rejections are online these days and not informative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:51 PM
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Literally zero women would even hint that you aren’t the father if they want to entrap you. Come on bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:45 PM
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No one can disagree with this post. Women definitely have it easier getting experience and it’s a huge plus for them. In fact, men prefer that they don’t have experience. Lots of very undesirable women have more experience than they can even recall, so experienced they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:43 PM
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Are you kidding? You should read about some of those men in colleges who are falsely accused. Their entire lives are ruined with just the accusation because there is no burden of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:40 PM
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Honestly I would be down. Men commit 90% of the crime. It makes sense to keep their DNA on record systemically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:38 PM
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I really fail to see how you distinguished it from fraud more generally. If they are deceived into signing a document, that is fraudulent and the signature is void. At least, that’s how it works in anything that isn’t paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:38 PM
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Agreed. Policing in this country is a disgrace. We’ve had this thread before and I was convinced that paternity testing, while maybe something worth doing, is very inconsequential especially when we do have other things we need the sequencing machines for (rape kits, COVID) atm. Maybe in a decade or two, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:35 PM
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Hey bro I’m open to tips. You’re really gonna make my girlfriend suffer like this and not help me out? PLEASE bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:29 PM
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Thanks I just subbed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:28 PM
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Uhhh I wouldn’t go as far as to say it won’t happen either. You would be very surprised what some girls are into. I wasn’t in DC at the time, but my undergrad was one of the most liberal campuses in America. I did fine while openly MAGA. Granted, I was embedded in the fraternity scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:25 PM
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I remember those articles. Very funny. People always find something external to blame. It can’t be that they’re unattractive politics nerds in a town totally flushed with them. It’s just because everyone is bigoted against them or whatever. Gotta protect that ego
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:23 PM
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I am biphobic as fuck. Deal with it pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:21 PM
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I mean I agree 110%. Where can I sign up? We should force vasectomy any man who has a child out of wedlock, at least in principle. Practically it might be a little hard, like what if she leaves him right after she finds out she’s pregnant? That might be a tricky situation. But in principle, strongly support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:20 PM
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sigh Trudeau, Ilhan Omar, Le Pen, AOC, Cawthorn, Sen Ossoff, Joe Kennedy, (I might get some hate for this but) Kamala, Peña Nieto (he’s out now tho), Joni Ernst, Kristi Noem, Tulsi Gabbard, Sen Scott Brown, Boebert I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:17 PM
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And 6 federally-recognized disasters in the last 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:10 PM
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The sad truth is for most high status men, their time is so valuable that they essentially never can stop working. CEOs will get up to work out at 5, eat by 5:30, then work 6 am to 9 pm (with breaks ofc). Capitalism squeezes as much productivity as it can from anyone, but with people who have high value skills that goes into overdrive. You end up with doctors working 12 hour shifts and CEOs that forgot they had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:09 PM
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Agreed but they’re also invisible to most of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:05 PM
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Bi men are a lot rarer too than bi women (who are massively represented ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:02 PM
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Sounds like you should go to TikTok or Twitter tbh May I ask how you know so much about insecurity? Personal experience? You seem like quite the expert
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:01 PM
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NOOOOOOOO you can’t be grossed out by your man guzzling cum like a calf at the tit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:00 PM
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I mean in his comment he said explicitly “time limited”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:58 PM
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I mean is there a worse fraud that can happen to a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:57 PM
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I don’t think you can really pass laws saying that 20 years after the crime is committed they owe massive monetary fines. It would be extremely odd and possibly unconstitutional. What if she does it once, but happens to have quintuplets? Does she pay the flat 20%, or does she lose 20% per child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:56 PM
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I’m sure getting raped by foster parents will make her an upstanding citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:55 PM
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There are fundamental biological differences that make maternity fraud impossible. Of course we’re only making it illegal for women. Lol Why don’t we pass laws banning women from using the urinals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:52 PM
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At this point, not really bro. A sizable minority of women give birth out of wedlock. It keeps going up even though we’re better educated, have more family planning, and are richer. Being a single mom is seen as something to be proud of, an achievement in its own right. And benefits are WAYYY above a few hundred a month for a woman with even one or two dependents, especially if she’s collecting child support By making single parenthood viable through handouts, we’ve slowly chipped away at the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:50 PM
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No, at this point it’s worse than making the poor suffer because we’ve totally fucked up relationships in poor communities. 40% of children in the US are born out of wedlock now, and 42% are born into Medicaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:48 PM
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Especially given that parents are just less likely to experience recidivism because they have a lot to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:47 PM
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You’re totally right, but you should just leave this as a comment replying to them. It’s not really a good CMV post. This is a practical legal question, not a moral one. Does telling OP his whole post should be deleted count as disagreeing even if I think he’s right? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:45 PM
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Not really. Bro no one expects you to and, in fact, a lot of dudes would call you a cuck if you did. No one is making anyone marry single parents and the social stigma against them gets worse every year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:18 AM
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You need about 30-50 matches to generate a real date which has potential for something further. Most guys can’t afford to be almost any kind of picky, least of all over inane stuff like her being blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:53 PM
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Does it even work that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:05 PM
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Because they are obviously deceived to an even greater extent. Having extra resources wouldn’t make them better able to detect such men. If women can be regularly deceived into being pumped and dumped, trapped in an abusive relationship, and all sorts of other nightmares - why is getting tricked by a TRPer so impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:05 PM
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You’re genuinely insane if you think women have any special social awareness. Perhaps fewer of them are socially hopeless the way so many men are, but they’re absolutely clueless, I assure you. How many women go crawling back to the men who systematically abuse or cheat on them? Since they know better (according to you), I guess it’s their fault. This is misogyny. You might think it’s not because you’re ascribing a positive stereotype to women, but it’s misogyny all the same. The same way thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:41 PM
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You’ve gone so far off the deep end that it’s no longer “women are wonderful,” but now “women are omnipotent”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:28 PM
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Only 1/9 women identify as Feminists, and even if those the vast majority can be talked into Egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:26 PM
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How do you know, since that’s OP’s Q and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:25 PM
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Because no one is arguing that. The line simply has to be drawn somewhere. If it wasn’t finger tips, you’d be whining about it being two inches below it or something. It doesn’t really matter as long as it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:23 AM
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You’re just goalposting now 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:38 PM
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By your logic, all the 14 year old girls should be able to show up in bikinis - not distracting to anyone. In fact, I’m a pedophile if I think it would be I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:18 PM
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Bro it’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:16 PM
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Then the fault lies with the teachers, not the code
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:48 PM
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Literally like a billion people dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:45 PM
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I’m sure what you believe in is even worse, to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:45 PM
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I assure you that it’s quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:40 PM
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Like I said, they were trying to be polite to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:38 PM
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You have to set the line somewhere and, no matter where you set it, they will always push. If you told them they could come in bikinis, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:37 PM
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The Pope?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:31 PM
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What you’re seeing is a divergence. More men than ever go to the gym and work out, but more men than ever also smoke weed and jerk off all day. For the men who can make it, it is a race to the top as you describe. For the men who can’t, it doesn’t really matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:17 PM
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Yeah yeah fuck him for wanting to be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:15 PM
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The audacity of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:13 PM
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Just women? Everyone is into that I mean to be fair, “facially attractive” is too vague to be meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:11 PM
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Sorry bro I think you made a mistake because that would be batshit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:05 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:04 PM
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I wonder what percent of men marry someone they expect will divorce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:55 PM
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Yeah bro why don’t they want to have bastard children like lmao just take a chance with your future family on some shmuck who can’t even marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:48 PM
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So the people who try to be good and fail are worse than the people who don’t even try?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:45 PM
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I would have loved to wear brotanks to school every day, but it was against the men’s dress code. But the girls at my school could wear tanks. Goddamn matriarchy in action, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:44 PM
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Yes but it’s a polygamous relationship where the male gorilla still provides for the family. Part of the reason the females have to be with him is for protection from males.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:42 PM
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No that’s exactly what I mean bro. In the old days (say the 50s, so almost a century ago), everyone had 12 friends. Each of those friends, in turn, had 11 more. So you had 12 x 11 people in an immediate social network. But since the average is 4 today, it’s now 4 x 3 people. It can certainly work, especially since people like to play matchmaker and pair compatible friends so it isn’t truly random or anything. But it’s less viable these days I think the best solution is to admit that it’s harder …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:31 PM
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The men shouldn’t have rights either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah as much as men complain about women marrying up economically, it happens less than ever. Honestly what’s happening is self-assortment by class and it’s actually very dangerous that the income divide is now precipitating a massive social divide between the groups. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:20 PM
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Basically the go-to counter argument is that hypergamy isn’t just resources or anything. Perhaps he’s genuinely stunning or has a massive cock or some other traits that make him stick out. I kind of disagree. Seems like men like to have it both ways. When the woman is with someone better, broadly defined, it’s proof of hypergamy. When she’s with someone worse, it means that he’s so attractive and HV physically that she’ll look past the other issues - the ultimate proof of hypergamy in action, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:18 PM
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She will be eternally dissatisfied and resentful. She cannot help but realize sooner or later that she got a bad deal. Since any woman can get a man better than her (assuming no major social issues or something), she will not be able to accept a man worse than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:15 PM
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and are fine Bro in the UK, suicide is the leading cause of death for young men. Wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:10 PM
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Yeah precisely bro. Unless you already have something in common with someone, you’re not meant to approach them. Even if it’s not a sexual or romantic approach, it’s considered weird and possibly rude (with sexual/romantic ones being just the worst examples of unwanted approaches). No one wants to talk to a stranger anymore. But relying on friends is tough advice too. People have a record low number of friends (at about 4 on average from the peak of about 12 in the 1950s). So not only is their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:07 PM
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You’re both clowns. Honestly I don’t know which one of you is worse. Probably you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:03 PM
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Bro rappers sing about gold diggers on the radio. Where do you think you learned all this obscure bullshit if it’s just so hard to talk about? I’m sorry if you live in a liberal area and can’t shit on women openly. I know I hate the libs too bro. But it’s not like they run society just yet. We still have spaces for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:00 PM
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The most swiped profiles are always mixed (not necessarily just black/white ofc) for the cross-over appeal. Applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:46 AM
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Ah fuck off. A man finally gets the sexual freedom of a woman and it makes your head spin. That’s all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:45 AM
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You can’t be against Johns without being against the sex worker too. As I said, it’s being a SWERF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:39 AM
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Notice how I didn’t say any of that? I know I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:38 AM
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Okay bro I’ll keep that in mind while I fuck her brains out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:36 AM
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Same reason I’d never date a woman who had an abortion in my country where it’s illegal. Can’t be messing with criminals like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:32 AM
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You need to learn to actually like being around women IRL if you want to be successful with them. You should want to spoil them, even if you can’t for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:31 AM
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Most men who see prostitutes are not incels. In fact, incels don’t see prostitutes definitionally. You really think every man who ever saw a prostitute was undesirable? Or couldn’t get a woman if he really wanted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:28 AM
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So just because some men who see prostitutes are bad, you’ll discriminate against all men who see prostitutes? You are a SWERF
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:27 AM
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Remember that she’s just insecure if she’s not okay with it. Not your fault at all, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:25 AM
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Well I’m sure the BPs think that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:38 PM
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Bro he just makes them laugh and they know he splits housework 50/50 smh you’re so clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:35 PM
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Women will literally disassociate during sex with you to trick you into thinking they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:32 PM
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That’s not what hypocrisy is and you should call those men out… it’s just tedious because they do it in every thread. If you press them on it, they’ll either agree it’s hyperbolic or go full schizo and say it really is every woman on planet Earth (and the ISS). Either way, waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:30 PM
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This is just word salad. What are you even talking about? Men are perfectly capable of having a rational debate about abortion without having to empathically imagine that they are a pregnant, Muslim, transman of color from the inner city who needed an abortion. I’m sure women can talk about circumcision or the draft without having to hear about their father or son or whatever. This is just misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:27 PM
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She still let him hit it though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:25 PM
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True love that can’t sustain itself if you truly knew who she was?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:23 PM
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Whatever bro. I’ve come to terms with it. It sounds like you’re in disbelief and still blue pilled about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:22 PM
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I agree that’s true in some sense of the word, but people usually mean it in the other way even in this context. They certainly do for the political psychology literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:16 PM
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That’s precisely my point though. The damage from the Great Depression (1929) wasn’t fully repaired until the 1950s or perhaps even 60s. It wasn’t natural. The inequalities created by it (or perhaps by advancing industrialization, or some combination thereof) had to be purposefully created and it took decades. But it will happen again, and the US is better prepared to recover than most other countries are. The Great Recession was on its way to being resolved in total when COVID happened. Unemplo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:14 PM
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Uhh actually Biden literally cut child poverty in half? I’m a rightwing nut job and even I’ll admit he did that. The recovery is uneven, sure, because all recoveries are. It will smoothen out, just as occurred following the Great Depression and Great Recession. It may not happen naturally and we may need to enact policies to make it happen, but I have full faith that it will some time in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:19 PM
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Yeah I also support it even though I have no debt either. Ultimately it just needs to happen. There needs to be underlying reform first to stop the issue from happening again, though .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:17 PM
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I simply cannot lie to myself, I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:15 PM
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Uh yeah they do. That is literally what parents are for lmao Either figure out how to do your taxes on your own like a real man or go to jail, Little Timmy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:14 PM
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No, but the 80:20 rule is real in basically all things. I would be shocked if 20% of the men weren’t getting 60-80% of the sex. Genuinely shocked. Not because of any real world experience per say, but because the Pareto principle comes up in everything, literally everything. 20% of realtors sell 80% the houses; 20% of letters are used 80% of the time; 20% of criminals commit 80% of the crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:14 PM
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Sorry but I know for a fact that I want Zendaya.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:08 PM
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So average woman -> plenty of likes, more than they could ever even need -> but men only focus on the hottest women? Meanwhile, average man -> little to no likes at all -> but women are open to everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:06 PM
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Lmao Methodists are such a joke bro. Imagine being “solely scripture” and then letting a woman be a priest. Methodists take it even further though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:02 PM
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The trend is true, but I actually did a deep dive into the literature on this and found that there isn’t much evidence for it. Older people in other countries can actually be more left wing in other places (ie some post Communist states).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:01 PM
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Google “women rate of depression over time”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:00 PM
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Tell me how that isn’t based af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:58 PM
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No way being a super power is massively underrated, not overrated. Are you kidding? Every financial crisis the US has ever had, we have exported abroad. Yet every crisis that begins abroad, never reaches the US. We always recover fastest in the G7 and are currently the only country there to economically recover from COVID. This is because we literally run the world and can decide everything to benefit us. If no nation was in charge, perhaps that would be fine. But instead, we’ll merely be displa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:56 PM
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And war is peace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:52 PM
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Unironically maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:52 PM
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It’s also something I haven’t heard a Republican politician say in over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:51 PM
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Mostly just that your wife will always have been with more attractive men sexually, if she has been with other people, because women date down but fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:50 PM
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CMV: Literal insanity Mumbo Jumbo about men and women I don’t even understand what you’re ranting about bro. Seems like you just wanted to say some stuff and had to disguise it as a CMV to get past the filter. I get it, but it’s necessary to stop spam like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:17 AM
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This is how I feel. Perhaps women aren’t called out as frequently so their assholes run free? Perhaps men just notice more when women are assholes because it seems odder to them? We have yet to see any real, tangible evidence presented here. So far it’s all just anecdotes, “women are mean to me.” Everyone meets nasty people. A bunch of anxious, insecure people on the Internet are likely to overestimate how much other people judge them, to be frank
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:02 AM
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Sorry bro, but I prefer the darker girls. I’m the total reverse of your preference. It’s probably because black girls prefer black men on average (sad to say), while other groups give more race-neutral answers. I mean, they tend to prioritize white, but the black girls who are loyalists are die-hards bro. It’s crazy what they put up with.
/r/BlackPillScience04/02/22 09:35 AM
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Yeah it’s absolutely horrible bro. And we know they do it because it’s so easy to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:50 AM
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Of course. It should be taken as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:45 AM
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Standards aren’t something people control. They’re caused by supply and demand. For as much as some women may say the bar is in Hell for men, it is likewise for women if not worse. Quality people of either gender are in short supply these days. Perhaps they always were.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:44 AM
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How many women have you asked out on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:42 AM
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If she calls you gay, she’s hitting on you bro. I mean, unless you’re actually gay I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:43 AM
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Have you observed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:42 AM
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It’s AIDS rates.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 05:42 PM
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Probably because height rose so much, so quickly that men who are notably taller than say 6’3” are insanely rare. But why are they rare? We may have reached a short of genetic maximum. Many people had the genes to be 6’, but they were inactivated for one reason or another. Now they are on, but they don’t have the genes to get even taller. They need to now arise by mutation or some sort of genetic modification. Plus it does carry certain health risks, notably heart issues (which is the leading ca…
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 05:37 PM
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Thanks for helping to clear things up instead of just shitflinging. Makes this way easier to understand
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 05:32 PM
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Sure, but only men lack the self-awareness to openly admit they mistreated their partners. life focuses have diverged Okay bro. Why? Why didn’t you purposefully work to converge them with the girl you claim to love? Makes me think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:21 PM
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TwoX is open to everyone and has, recently, been the latest place where genuine, real, normal women are forced out in favor of giving trans “women” yet another safe space. There is no greater comedy than trans “women” posting on a place called Two X Chromosomes. Just LMAO Anyway, it’s not indicative of what actual, everyday, biological women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:17 PM
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Okay well ideally no one wants to come off as resenting the opposite sex to their opposite sex partner. I don’t think believing in FDS makes you a misandrist, because I believe in it and I’m a man. But even if they weren’t FDS, they’d still be misandrists and would be actively hiding it. If anything, FDS gives them tools to better do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:11 PM
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Possibly by snooping through her phone and computer, although that’s a bit paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:09 PM
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I mean honestly if I was a girl and a guy expected me to pay for my meal, I’d think men were trash too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah but you shouldn’t have to. Just as you have a duty to him, he has a duty to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:04 PM
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Don’t worry bro I’m sure Bernie will win next time and give us state mandated gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:02 PM
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The Beauty object is a Success object bro, at least as far as the man is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:01 PM
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No bro, they don’t want to be objectified by anyone except perhaps in a narrow sexual context. It would be greatly preferable to take Chad’s heart too. Even if you didn’t want to date him, it would be fun and validating to win him over. They are tolerating mistreatment from someone because the sexual attraction cancels out. Sounds bad, but remember that hot guys are super rare for them even to find, let alone fuck. They’re desperate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:00 PM
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That wasn’t about comedy. Louis CK was an actual assault allegation. People made the calculation it wasn’t bad enough to warrant being canceled, though he confesses that it occurred (and, of course, they maintain it was assault). But he just jerked off in front of them. You’re conflating it with Weinstein, who jerked off into a plant. Again though, real assault and not super funny imo but I respect the dark humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:56 PM
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No one actually complains about objectification in real life. This is an online feminazi thing. Even FDS isn’t radical enough to mention it too often. Totally made-up, online-only issue. It’s like men complaining about women who won’t split dates. No man in the real world would ever talk about such a thing. It’s an online phenomenon and we just spend too much time on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:53 PM
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They were made tougher in the past. Intelligence is very important, but the kind of absolute soyboy who exists today would be beaten by his father in childhood until he was a jaded shell, and maybe a real man too.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:35 PM
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Among Australian college students, sure. Hm why would these people in a historically white supremacist country be biased towards white people? Makes me think
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:29 PM
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But it’s not cause you’re black bro. Racism doesn’t end at the bedroom, but you black men and Asian women aren’t exactly getting screwed over the way their gender inverts are. There’s certainly still racism, but it could be a lot worse.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:28 PM
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Nah, white men just don’t like black women most of the time so there’s not much of a market for it. I saw one study that said 90% or so of WM would not consider dating a BW.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:26 PM
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Status through White privilege, real or imagined, would increase their attractiveness. It could also be that a sub sample of women/men is pulling up darker/lighter faces respectively. My guess is that the black women surveyed strongly prefer black men based on other studies, and this would lead to them being pulled up beyond whatever they were getting from the other groups. Even if it’s not considered the most attractive by a given person, mixed people have cross-over appeal and can more easily …
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:24 PM
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Look bro I don’t buy it 100% either but even replying to him shows exactly who is coping
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 04:21 PM
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Actually black women do self-report as preferring black men, at least in the United States.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 03:20 PM
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Yep if anything this should be a white pill study about how - yea, facially attractiveness plays a role but - it isn’t everything.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 03:15 PM
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She was autistic bro lol
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 03:08 PM
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So if the study isn’t designed around your pre-existing belief that physical attraction is everything, it’s totally useless? I’m on this sub too bro, but you should still keep an open mind.
/r/BlackPillScience03/02/22 03:05 PM
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Agreed 100%. No one told me anything, then they all mocked me for losing a game I wasn’t even playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:57 PM
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Yeah, for the same reason guys trade jelqing pictures. They want advice from the professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:03 PM
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You are literally molding your behavior to be hotter to men. Whether that’s 4D chess manipulation or, you know, just wanting men to like you doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:01 PM
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So women wear make up for each other I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:58 PM
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Your posts are always a breathe of fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:42 PM
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Hey man, I’m willing to admit men have it worse, but it’s just silly to leave some snide misogynistic remark about how women have no empathy. They obviously do. No one can read about Henry and not feel bummed out that a decent dude is struggling. Also I agree on the male suicide stuff, broadly described. Do you have a retort for when someone points out that women attempt suicide at a greater frequency, even if men commit it more successfully? What’s a solid response?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:40 PM
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It’s fair that I’m being rude and I apologize for it. I think I’m just sick of seeing it described in only the context of insecurity. I’m happy to have that discussion and it has been had on here plenty of times. I’m even perfectly willing to concede that insecurity likely plays a role. But it’s just one factor and, because it’s the one that makes “promiscuous” women feel the best, they cling to it like Odysseus to his mast. Their lifestyle is, was, and likely will be disgusting to most men, no …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:36 PM
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Okay bro you’re going way too far lol. Unless you are a 1% freak in either extreme, your height isn’t going to be what makes you an incel. It sucks because you’re kneecapped for something you didn’t choose, but then other people are born poorer or black or something. My point being, there’s a lot of worse things you could’ve been than short. I don’t think bitching is very productive either, and might even make your emotional response to the situation worse than it otherwise would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:34 PM
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Anyone can have an absolutely shit life. They wouldn’t ignore Henry any more than you’d ignore a struggling single mom, who may be working just as many jobs. Perhaps they would, but then perhaps men would ignore the genderbent situation too by the same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:31 PM
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I agree. Like for example, if you’re short like me, then moving to a shorter country would probably increase your relative attractiveness even more than the boost of being an exotic and “wealthy”. But it’s still not a miracle or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:26 PM
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Yeah it’s called a double bind bro. I either agree that I’m insecure or deny it, and in the latter case that is merely proof of my insecurity. It’s a common rhetorical tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:11 AM
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It is absolutely hilarious to see it described solely as an insecurity thing. Like you guys really can’t conceive of it in any other terms can you? Someone can’t just find it gross that you slept around a lot? It doesn’t have to be some complex feel-good psych bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:04 AM
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You don’t have anyone to talk to IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:11 AM
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Absolutely not bro. Anyone who has thought this deeply about relationships has lost the ability to be a true romantic. They’re too analytical for the real, irrational love upon which a marriage must depend. At any time, they could sit down and realize they can get a better deal and move on from you, assuming they don’t employ any number of the manipulative tactics they gleefully share amongst themselves. Notice how I can say all this without even differentiating between the two? The key is to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:58 PM
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No need to apologize, I think you put it as mildly as you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:54 PM
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How bro? Just befriend girls you don’t want to sleep with. Do they not exist? Do you want to sleep with every girl? Or do you just not want to be friends with ugly people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:43 PM
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Yeah, you would think that. In practice, it actually has beneficial characteristics towards “sexual success” (as I’ve narrowly defined it above) like encouraging you to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:41 PM
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Haha well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:31 PM
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I mean I don’t doubt it. I just think for the amount of time it would take to meaningfully become more intelligent, they could have simply worked out and become more physically attractive. Plus, most Redditors are kind of overly nerdy already, perfectly intelligent enough if perhaps a bit linear in their thinking. Where they need improvement usually isn’t knowledge as such. Certainly, it varies case-by-case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:30 PM
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You’re a fool if you think anything we do has value
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:26 PM
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You wouldn’t happen to have a source for that claim, would you? For uhhh a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:25 PM
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I didn’t say you were bro, but congrats on having meaningless sex with multiple people. I’m sure it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:23 PM
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Not really bro. People just like people with backbone. Nice guys have no spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:22 PM
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Ah yes. MGTOWs are dripping in pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:19 PM
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But all the scientific data seems to indicate that “asshole behavior” leads to more sexual success, both in terms of partner count and number of children. This applies for both genders btw, which is why FDS is taking off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:16 PM
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Who is? OP is addressing TRP, saying the medicine is worse than the illness. Men sitting around playing video games all day aren’t abiding by TRP in even the most tangential sense, let alone in the sense of pursuing sexual success. Of course, that’s worse than what OP suggests too, no doubt. But it’s not a contest between living ordinarily (OP’s suggestion) and video games. We have alternatives and the whole point of OP’s post is to present his suggestions as better. Ultimately I don’t think his…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:14 PM
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HE WANTS YOU TO ACTUALLY MAKE FRIENDS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:09 PM
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Some people are just servile by nature and don’t mind playing second fiddle. They might not even know what to do with themselves if they couldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:09 PM
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Yes, we refer to that point as “the wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:08 PM
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Would women really be fine with befriending an incel? If they knew who he was, what he was, they would run. Such friendships would be built on a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:07 PM
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It is truly horrible, but it’s also realistically the most beneficial thing the man can do. The way to sell it is to justify it as “just dating around,” “nothing serious, just seeing what I like”. Of course you won’t tell people (and certainly not her) until after the fact. I would be remiss if I did not say it is possibly the worst way a person can use another person. Like honestly on some moral and karmic level, it might be worse than rape. It’s like heart-rape. But like I said, it’s probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:04 PM
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It’s true but overstated. On average, a wealthy American family will only remain wealthy for about 3 generations. Eventually, the wealth runs out if you don’t have a success or two in the family. The amount of wealth needed to sustain a properly wealthy lifestyle in America is so vast that almost no family is rich enough to just sit around and waste time. You run into some outliers, like the Disney family or the J&J family. But these are a handful of families whose founders made Fortune 500 comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:59 PM
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My response would be that some men do just that. You don’t hear from them on here because, well, they’re an expat in Vietnam or Nigeria or wherever. The ones who remain on PPD aren’t desperate enough for that. There are people so desperate that they are actively planning on it. Occasionally you’ll see threads about it on /r9k/. They fall into the camp of desperate enough to want it, too depressed to plan it. But you should remember that it’s mostly a fantasy too. You may gain a point or 2. You m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:57 PM
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He means to befriend them to befriend them, as in socialize with them as practice. A better solution is unironically a practice GF, since at least the practice is relevant to what you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:51 PM
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Both FDS and TRP can be true at the same time. They aren’t really mutually exclusive, much as they are regarded as opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:44 PM
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Hilarious, I do. America has a higher broken home rate than literal war torn shitholes. Mind you, you seem to think the war was really bad for Afghanistan. Their standards of living actually improved a lot during the occupation and deaths - while numerous in absolute terms - weren’t a massive proportion of the population or anything. It’s sad to see them at risk of falling back into true anarchic status. Also, totally irrelevant but corporeal punishment? Really? Who cares? Singapore has that and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:33 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:31 PM
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I mean I didn’t write a massive post about it. That was OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:30 PM
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TRP posits itself as a descriptor of reality. There isn’t any more benefit to dating someone who is TRP than someone who is a Communist or a Utilitarian or believes in some other ideology. The difference is merely that it’s a gender-sexual ideology, rather than a political or religious or philosophical one. So there isn’t necessarily a benefit. TRP advocates for men to make a lot of money and to look hot. That may be a benefit. But it would be too eager to assume all TRPers live up to that ideal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:12 PM
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Indeed. All is fair in love and war, but it’s not love if you’re finessing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:09 PM
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Afghanistan, now that it is under Taliban rule I can list some others if you’d like. They’re usually religious fundamentalists though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:07 PM
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Not really. Players have probably always existed but certainly have been common since the 60s. The major issues in dating are more recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:36 PM
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It’s an easy fix, but the solutions are incompatible with a free-wheeling, individualist, liberal (in the classical sense, not the modern American one) society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:30 PM
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Normally I’d agree and I am rightwing so naturally I have as much contempt for those freaks, which you list at the end, as you do. But I do think sociosexual isn’t necessarily a useless term. It describes a unique phenomenon. What would you use in its place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:28 PM
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I guarantee you that literally zero of the men struggling here are suffering from being too muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:56 PM
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If you read closely, (meaning like 1 paragraph in lol) men who overestimate themselves also overestimate everyone else - men and women included. So they may think they’re a 8 instead of a 5, but the girl they think is a 9 is actually a 6. That sort of thing. It’s a clean shift, rather than just self-aggrandizement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:53 PM
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Honestly I kind of agree with that line of thinking. Chad is more mythical than real, a transient ideal which men can aspire towards. Most of the “actual Chads” I know had grim lives when you zoom out and realize they will one day be 45 with a shitty career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:50 PM
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Agreed. If he was attractive, just having sex with him would be a win for most women today. But most men aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:47 PM
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Actually I think I know it better than you do based on those two sentences of yours I read. Sorry pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:45 PM
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There isn’t a point. It’s called the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:44 PM
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Okay you actually gave me a high effort reply I’ll read into it and get back to your with something serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:43 PM
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Sure but if TRPers whining online exemplifies men at large, then so does FDS exemplify women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:38 PM
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Yes I can. I just did bro. If you disagree, tell me the real number of divorces caused by one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:37 PM
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If anything, we’ve ODed on reality and need some happy BP delusion, like maybe religion or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:36 PM
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Ah yes. I’ll merely become the funniest man alive. Did you know the best predictor for a good sense of humor is frequency of suicidal thoughts? Verbal IQ works too though to an extent. You should look at the rate of suicide and how it correlates with male height. It’s so bad that the health gains from being shorter are canceled out by the suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:36 PM
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Ok, so how many divorces would you say are the fault of the woman? It seems the vast majority however you slice it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:33 PM
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No you haven’t bro. You’re mistaken on their quality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:31 PM
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Hey he gets one approach every 25 years or so. Not bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:31 PM
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No one cares but you wrote two full paragraphs addressing it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:27 PM
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Please go browse FDS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:26 PM
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Okay… and? So what? They’re not allowed to feel bad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:25 PM
11

Wanting something isn’t the same as entitlement. No one says they’re entitled to be Chad. They simply want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:22 PM
8

If he looks like Danny DeVito, I really don’t think so. And every study I’ve read seems to indicate women care just as much about appearance as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:20 PM
1

Because it doesn’t work as well as it used to + they have little experience talking IRL with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:18 PM
3

Don’t flatter yourself by thinking anyone gets that ripped because a woman told him to. They like the aesthetic and, I guarantee you, there’s no shortage of women who do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:17 PM
-8

Worth remembering that 9/10 divorces are initiated by woman. Where there is an absent father, there is a woman responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:15 PM
2

Not really bro. People shill the personality stuff constantly, even on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:14 PM
1

You were told the truth from a young age. Men are fed BP fantasies from birth. Just gotta be a nice hardworking dude and you’ll get your wife and 2.5 kids? What a sick, cruel joke… But you were shown the world for what it was, no heart break necessary. That’s fortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:13 PM
2

I’d say at least 30-40% of HS boys are incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:08 AM
21

It’s tough man. I’m 5’6” and really feel like if I was any shorter I’d be totally fucked, as opposed to mostly fucked (or not fucked very much, I guess is more accurate).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:02 AM
1

Traditionalism being abandoned is because of changes to society and technology, not due to personal preferences changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:52 AM
1

My point is that it’s insane to think men could just be with whoever they wanted and I gave an example of a man who was CASTRATED for falling in love with the wrong girl. Mind you, she was never punished even though it was a mutual love. Do you actually think brothels were decriminalized globally since time immemorial? Sometimes they were legal, sometimes they were illegal, and yes sometimes it was as you said. It hardly means people didn’t loathe prostitutes or their customer. In particular, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:26 PM
1

Yeah, she was. Happens all the time, actually. It was pure love in the truest sense, all careful documented by their correspondence over decades. She would end up becoming a nun, and he was of course a eunuch, so they were never together yet they were still in love. Very romantic stuff. When and where are you even referring to when you say “brothels were legal?” They were never legal in some places and have always been legal in others. They also weren’t cheap. You’ve been watching too much GoT.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:14 PM
1

Bro I am begging you to Google what an honor killing is before you say men could be with whoever Read about Abelarde and Helois. The former was castrated by Helois’ family over their (not sanctioned) relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:05 PM
3

Because you aren’t a “real man” unless you do those things. You have no agency in the matter. If you didn’t get married and have kids, you weren’t really a grown man. Some men would love a traditional relationship, but the point is that they never had a choice. They had to love it or they would be miserable. Also a keen observer might realize that “head of the household financially” means they pay for everything and have no free time to enjoy their own wealth. Men were just as chained up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:43 PM
1

I think this is more of an online phenomena, and even then mostly just Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:40 PM
0

They remove men’s agency too, you just don’t notice because we still don’t really have it even in non-traditional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:37 PM
1

Okay but so do gay men and honestly straight men too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:47 PM
7

Wow who knew women want to cum too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:10 PM
1

No it’s just way easier to see a dick than a vagina. If you think men won’t judge your small dick, feel free to tell them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:07 PM
1

Men absolutely do, and they also racialize it on occasion (eg Asians are tighter). It’s a real thing too, meaning tightness differences and not the race stuff. I remember a lady on Crystal Cafe who was so tight she couldn’t fit a toilet paper tube in and said she had issues with even average sized guys (I bet they liked it though). People didn’t believe her but she posted proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:06 PM
1

Good thing we live in such enlightened times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:04 PM
3

Only with guys like us, I’m afraid. I feel you bro, don’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:46 AM
-1

Retaining attraction is a lot easier. In fact all you have to do is not fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:31 AM
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I wouldn’t say it “warped womens minds” or anything like that, because it’s borderline insane. But it is true that charisma is less important than ever, since so much is done via screens (easy to fake a personality + hard to show yours).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:30 AM
2

Is it really a looks”match” if the girl requires resources to accept the match?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:38 PM
1

Solid analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:16 PM
1

I thought it was goalposting, not incorrect. Has it changed since the last time you parroted off this talking point? Women CHOOSE to make less bro. They choose less rigorous majors, less dangerous jobs, and to - oh yeah - carry children for 9 fucking months (+ maternity leave). Once you take those choices into account, they make more. The population distribution is meaningless. Men only make more because they work harder, again by choice. That money likely goes towards a woman anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:18 PM
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They are simply called out for it more easily. When men are acting shallow, we accept it as inherent to their being. We don’t offer women the same courtesy, so their preferences are treated as entirely superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:01 AM
2

Women make more for the same job. That’s what matters. Men simply work harder, so sure they make more in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:21 AM
1

I believe that when used by FDS, it necessarily includes a baseline of integrity (ie. Doesn’t cheat).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:17 PM
1

FDS is a new community and a lot of their terminology, like ‘HVM’, is still in its infancy. It’s very unclear what a HVM is exactly and it seems to vary dramatically based on who is using it. To some extent, I suppose that is deliberate as value itself is inherently subjective. In may case, I think this term will grow to possess a more specific meaning eventually. Otherwise it will probably be replaced by one or more specific terms which narrow down more precisely the nature of the HVM in questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:17 PM
1

No, which is the issue. The man may or may not be a predator. A massive age gap does seem “predatory,” because it hints that the man may be falsely signaling he’s serious for some other nefarious purpose, presumably sex. Yet we can’t say for sure. It’s what dating experts call a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:52 PM
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Men increasingly do the same, to be perfectly honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:50 PM
1

I mean I think my other comment on your previous post in the thread is more relevant to that, so I hope you’ll continue the convo there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:42 PM
0

Well I’m sorry that you chose to make your body into something most men aren’t attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:19 PM
0

I do settle for women I like personality-wise that I’m not attracted too 🤷 Kind of weird to assume a guy arguing for settling wouldn’t settle himself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:17 PM
1

Better to die alone than re-examine my personality and see if that’s why all my relationships fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:16 PM
2

It’s already pretty easy to meet people overseas and it will only get easier as technology improves (easier to communicate, cheaper to travel). I think women will increasingly get mail order brides too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:12 PM
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Misleading nonsense. Yes, when you just take the average, men “make more”. Because we work more hours on average in more dangerous jobs. It’s not rocket science. If you control for hours worked, time in the field, and the choice of profession, young women handily out earn men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:05 PM
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Actually the decline of the family is probably increasing standard of living because there are fewer young, adolescents to support with the same amount of working aged population. Of course, this trick only works once and then your population is permanently in decline but so it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:28 AM
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There is no solution bro. We’re fucked, and this issue isn’t even in the top 10 of issues that are fucking/going to fuck us that can’t be fixed. Good luck bro. I’m planning to move after I finish my education.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:26 AM
2

Yeah but most people who don’t like themselves have massive, fundamental issues that are so significant they have to essentially not be themselves ever again to fix them. It’s contradictory advice to tell them to totally upend themselves and also be themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:22 AM
2

Whatever bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:18 AM
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It’s literally the worst dating advice bro. Anyone turning to Reddit for dating he’ll needs to completely obliterate who they are and rebuild it. They will not succeed by being themselves. It’s a dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:17 AM
1

So a high schooler most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:14 AM
1

Whatever bro you can talk shit once you’re divorced with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:10 AM
2

I sense that you like Latinas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:08 AM
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It’s not bro. Your life would be objectively better as a woman. You’d live longer, make more money, be more educated, and have more friends. It’s just propaganda that men have it better, at least among our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:05 AM
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This is just envy. You don’t become invisible. Attractive people just always steal the spotlight, but the ones who like you don’t need a spotlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:02 AM
1

She won’t marry someone she has absolutely no attraction to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:01 AM
1

Because they distract you from more fulfilling things bro. Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius., or honestly even just read a single sentence that man ever write. It was all written before Christ. I recommend it for that reason, since you seem to have a general contempt for Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:59 AM
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Whatever bro. You’re totally blind if you can’t see how 20-30% of men never starting proper families will totally fuck our current society up the ass. We’re already in massive social decay. We have riots every few years over the police or economic issues. We have mobs in the Capitol. This isn’t a threat, but a description of reality. People like Steve Brannon deliberately market towards incels because they are easier to manipulate. Even if they can’t affect broader social change, incels have and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:56 AM
1

What, am I supposed to pretend she’s not stunning just because I’m ugly? Is affection an emotion reserved for the beautiful? No thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:52 AM
2

Honestly you’d be surprised. I saw a study, which was an OP here, that showed that men actually - in the field - value IQ (at least verbal IQ) more than woman did. However, the amount both sexes claimed to value intelligence (broadly defined) was the same. Worth noting that the study was for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:50 AM
1

Okay well I will simply not tell her that Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:47 AM
1

Meanwhile IRL Jerry Falwell Jr bought his pool boy a house to pay him to fuck his wife. They are just as kinky as you. People are the same all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:46 AM
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Woah wouldn’t wanna give up my carnal pleasures bro they make my life so meaningful and fulfilling If you think she won’t put out Google conjugal debt. She’ll be praying for forgiveness when she’s too sore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:44 AM
0

Do you not realize that like 20-25% of women in America are hardcore fundamentalist Christians? Do you think all of them are having bad sex? Do you really not see that you’re a bigot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:43 AM
1

Honestly I just hate fat people, except Santa of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:39 AM
1

Sure essentials have risen. To some extent, I think that is a large part of the “squeeze” happening to lower and lower middle earners in America today. Energy (gas and heating), rent, and education have all exploded in cost, while wages are stagnant. I don’t have a good solution to this, except that it only affects a portion of Americans who fall into the poverty trap. No shame, of course, it’s a monstrous thing. Medicine is also a great example of this, as is higher education. They have risen d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:57 AM
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Sure but it’s way more likely that they’re just lying on the survey than that most women don’t know what they want in a partner. Do men really know their sexuality that much better than women? I think they’re just encouraged to be open about their sexuality, as opposed to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:16 PM
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I may be a misogynist, but even I have enough respect for the opposite sex to treat a grown ass woman like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:06 PM
1

Virtually all famines these days are man-made. Even if droughts or blights are bad enough to cause mass hunger, the international community can and will help unless something stops them. So, for example, we can’t stop the famine in Afghanistan because the US refuses to let American aid in or unfreeze Afghan assets (actually about a week ago we authorized new aid, but the example worked until then lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:04 PM
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I like how their first assumption is that women just aren’t aware of liking hot dudes, instead of just lying because society told them to for thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:01 PM
1

Yep. Can confirm that every girl who is into me seems to be on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:55 PM
1

Exactly. So no incel is being held back by their personality. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:53 PM
4

Why does your Reddit avatar have facial hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:51 PM
1

All men like younger women between about 16/18 and 45, I’m afraid. The peak is between 21-30. I can point you to some articles confirming this, but honestly it shouldn’t be surprising. Older women are so rare in porn that they get their own genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:49 PM
5

If you are a mentally functional human being and we’re groomed at 30+, you deserve it. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:45 PM
0

Where did he meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:40 PM
1

it’s all about personality but OBVIOUSLY you can have the worst personality possible and still get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:41 PM
1

But standards of living have massively increased. The ability to communicate remotely with any person anywhere on Earth was a luxury even the richest billionaire couldn’t have possessed just 50 years ago. Today, even illiterate tribesmen in rural Sudan have an iPhone or two to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:30 AM
1

Bro even an absurd misogynist/racist/homophobe like me with insane insecurities and plenty of other issues, physical or otherwise, isn’t a virgin. I can only imagine how hopeless these guys must be if it’s their personality holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:54 AM
1

Sure and I honestly have never been with someone that young. Even when I was that young, I wasn’t really into girls same-aged so much. But am I willing to write it off and say a 21 can never really be in love with a mature 16 year old? No, it’s just not a big enough gap to justify being sent to prison, registered as a sex offender, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:52 AM
0

Gambling should definitely be illegal too, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:52 PM
1

It’s very important, but it also is never going to happen for me so it’s just something you live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:50 PM
1

It literally doesn’t matter what your personality is. You should be able to get laid no matter what unless you’re literally shitting yourself in front of her or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:47 PM
2

I mean if he’s that insecure about it, it was probably not something he could ever get over. Certainly not for her, as the relationship demonstrated. It’s a good thing for him that he destroyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:46 PM
1

10 encounters is below average for college educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:41 PM
1

Yeah I don’t think he thought about it too deeply. If she told 10 men she loves him, odds are she’s wrong/lying about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:40 PM
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If they’re having sex, they definitely have something in common lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:30 PM
0

Sure, but you’re so certain it could never happen that you would send them to prison over it? Statutory is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:29 PM
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But raising the age of majority inevitably means locking them out of even more opportunities. It doesn’t solve the “problem” at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:18 PM
3

You really would send a 21 year old to prison for dating a 16 year old? Like, for years? Crazy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:15 PM
1

Did you not get bigger after puberty? I grew another inch and a half. Rough bro. I’m 7” and still get insecure. Can’t imagine what it’s like being average, let alone small.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:12 PM
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They’re just being coy. I’m confident at least a portion had genuine feelings, assuming he’s even the smallest bit romantic. Who wants to publicly announce they fell for the fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:08 PM
2

Right to be Forgotten will never be a thing in the US. The first amendment is too powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:06 PM
7

Sounds more like you were just sexually harassed, rather than hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:13 AM
0

In my metaphor, the house is the country so a neighbor being responsible doesn’t really make sense. I don’t really know what the house is in yours. You, the individual? Your family? Your house is being torched by another individual? It’s a societal phenomenon bro. It’s far bigger than any of us alone, or even our families.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:05 AM
2

Eh they can think you’re a great dad and still do the cost benefit rationally, sad to say. I’m sure there’s plenty of great single moms, but I wouldn’t want to date them either. It requires someone on that stage of life for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:27 AM
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Obviously bro. That means more resources go to their kids with you. Same reason men avoid single mothers, in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:12 AM
4

It goes both ways but single mothers are infinitely more common. No one wants to take on bonus kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:11 AM
4

I’m honestly sincerely nice enough IRL to drive someone to the airport just as a friend and I would have been way against getting gas money or anything too. I think you should have suspected but it was fine to go with. Free ride and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:05 AM
3

Sad but true bro. Incredible to find out how far men will go for a crumb of pussy, but won’t just get good photos for their Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:00 AM
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Yeah I can’t be with a woman who would manipulate me with sex. I don’t think it’s evil; it’s just too effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:56 AM
2

People are just people bro. I don’t know what you expect to find. Do you not feel hollowed out too sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:52 AM
0

There’s honestly something funny about the idea of a hoe who falls into easy traps like boyfriend material/boyfriend dick/etc. Like they’re experienced with men, but not actually in how they think or in any romantic sense, just sexually. I mean, it’s not a mistake you should make ever, let alone defend openly as people seem to do from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:50 AM
2

The house is on fire and you’re mad your bedroom went up first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:47 AM
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No I mean physically she’s in a worse spot. It’s easier for women to date when they’re younger. I have yet to meet men who don’t slut shame in the company of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:01 PM
1

If you are attractive, being with you in itself is a win. She’ll pursue that immediate prize without concern for your emotions. It hardly matters ID you actually want a hook up when she genuinely wants to hook up. Maybe she’s not that type of girl and never hooks up, or maybe she only did it in college or whatever. But if she’s down to hook up otherwise, yikes. Waiting when it’s serious is a massive lie bro. Sorry you had to find out this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:15 PM
2

Cool, but the key words are later in life. She is now seeking a serious relationship way later and kneecapping herself for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:13 PM
1

If someone consents to be eaten after they die, say in an assisted suicide or something, I should have the write to purchase and eat them. It’s something people have practiced for tens of thousands or perhaps even hundreds of thousands of years. It’s entirely consensual and moral. If there are health risks, they’re minimal and I only endanger myself anyhow. I’m not a voracious eater or anything. In fact I try to only eat two meals a day. I don’t go around looking at people like, “ooo he looks ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:19 PM
1

So you on board the people eating train with me? I’m just curious, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:29 PM
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Sure but when I tell people I want to try cannibalism after someone consents to be eaten after death, they all freak out at me. Suddenly biologically-rooted morals, presumably fearing prions, are almost overpowering. The key to avoiding the prions is to eat people very dissimilar to you. For instance, in central Africa they eat Pygmy humans quite frequently and the genetic gap makes prion-borne illnesses less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:48 PM
0

I hate to break this to you but people fuck their friends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:51 AM
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The problem with these sorts of questions is it’s always “if she was the perfect girl otherwise forever”. Like sure dude, if she’s gonna be my perfect soulmate forever I’ll fucking disembowel myself for her. She doesn’t have to be a virgin. I’ll still go into the cock cage (maybe that would conflict with being soulmates). But that’s just not how the real world works. She’s still just an ordinary girl. The only character trait you’ve given us is that she isn’t easy. Sure, I’d be down to wait if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:50 AM
2

This analogy still doesn’t really grasp it. I have yet to seen it placed well, though many have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:40 AM
1

I really feel like it’s dependent on the individuals in the relationship and can even change as time goes on. Becoming a sort of partner-therapist is a trap either gender can fall into. I believe the woman who say it’s an issue in their lives, and I also believe men like you. Perhaps in the whole, I’d wager that men do it more frequently, but that - when women do it - they are usually doing a lot of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:22 AM
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I’m down to get pegged but you’re obligated to date me after
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:46 PM
2

Yeah I honestly hate people, man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:45 PM
1

Why is that? I’ve been seeing more and more about men having a wall at about 28. Seems like attitudes are changing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:42 PM
1

So if I get pegged it all turns around, huh? Or do you not see why that’s ridiculous lol If you think being dominant is more fun, my DMs are open. It’s not just for men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:37 PM
1

She put out on the first date so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:35 PM
4

So let’s get this straight: he did nothing wrong, but he “did assholish things”? What? He either did something or did nothing. If he owes her nothing then he’s not an asshole at all. If anything, he’s a great dude for being open and honest about what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:34 PM
2

How is pump and dump mistreating? You don’t owe some random woman anything, not even an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:31 PM
2

I see you’ve slowly moved from generic insults against le RPers to just being mean in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:28 PM
5

Fat people are literally everywhere bro. Congrats on living in a wealthy urban center, I’m assuming. I live in Colorado and it’s the thinnest state, but they’re still goddamn everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:26 PM
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It makes no sense to get married when either party can just obliterate 20 years of marriage for any reason they want. And people will rush to defend their right to do so. If it was a genuinely permanent commitment, it would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:19 PM
4

I will avoid commitment until marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:52 PM
2

So what? No one is even saying he shouldn’t, just that it’s mean. They’re even saying he should because it’s so effective lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:51 PM
2

More and more this mentality applies to marriages too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:49 PM
1

choose to be duped? Are you having an aneurism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:10 PM
7

Not only clueless, but the poster child for thinking it’s okay if it’s technically okay (“on a break”). Very reminiscent of BPers on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:09 AM
1

AskTRP was the best meme sub about the subject that ever lived. “Men who make women cum are betas (for caring about their pleasure)” has to be the peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:55 PM
1

Sure, but you can reasonably infer it from the subject-matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:54 PM
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He dates a 17 year old while in college. Doesn’t even get laid. Big L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:50 PM
1

Because otherwise it won’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:19 PM
1

Bro it is truly amazing how you manage to end with a period trail every time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:19 PM
1

Sure, especially during COVID and with inflation a concern it makes it even more important to spend on the most important stuff so as not to drive it higher. But at the end of the day, it might be something worth doing eventually. There’s a lot of benefits besides just paternity issues. I had no idea about the breast milk stuff. That’s really cool and I’ll look into that more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:18 PM
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The cost is absolutely marginal. Less than 50/parent easily. Ideally you’d want to test both actually though, so perhaps 100 additional. Out of a delivery that already costs about 10k on average in the US (this is a low ball, it’s probably higher now), that is 0.1% additional cost. Unrelated, but other medical supplies are in short demand because of monopolistic price gouging, not the actual cost to produce them. Insulin only costs 3$/dose to make, but sells for hundreds (I forget how much they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:56 PM
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Sure but if it’s not mandated, most dads who are cuckolded will be duped successfully. That’s just how it is at the moment, and you prefer that to a 15 dollar paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:51 PM
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Damn you really have no fucking clue how to write man. Took me a while to understand that. There will always be an issue someone thinks is more important. Is it COVID? Is it Russia invading some country? Is it climate change? Racism? Always something. We passed a great infrastructure bill earlier this year, but if you were in Congress you would’ve said we can’t until we deal with every issue that’s more important. We should take small actions where we can, even on issues that aren’t that big a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:50 PM
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It’s uncommon in general, but it’s perfectly common among nerdy/socially awkward men. Go on any of the relationships subs and you’ll see very inexperienced man/experienced woman pairings all the time. It’s the usual answer when women are asked who had more experience in their current LTR. Inexperienced men absolutely do have to worry about ending up with a mismatched, experienced woman. Happens almost every day that I see a post or comment about this dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:42 PM
6

Reddit-tier advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:38 PM
1

Honestly the state of men has declined so dramatically in recent years that surviving on just enough seems like an appropriate goal for many of these guys to have. Most incels simply are never going to be any woman’s top choice and should learn to be satisfied with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:37 PM
16

So it’s mens’ fault that they are constantly propagandized to think they’re awful for having those feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:34 PM
1

Yeah I can
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:31 PM
0

My dude it is like 15 dollars per parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:31 PM
2

Yeah okay. I can say that about any issue. Can’t talk about anything if there’s something more important? This is clearly just a way to casually dismiss something you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:30 PM
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If you find out your child isn’t yours, say at 6 months, you’re fucked and will be paying for him for another 17.5 years. There is no way out, even if you test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:25 PM
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Ah yes, one genetic test per parent (we already test the babies) and a one trillion dollar universal healthcare system are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:24 PM
1

Yeah we need every penny we can spend to give SRS to veterans and bomb shitskins on the far side of the Earth. Can’t be spending any money at all to make medical testing available. Do you not understand there is a real public health hazard to people not knowing who they’re related to? Not just inbreeding, but they don’t know their medical history and literally never will unless some law forces their actual father to become known.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:21 PM
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Bro just think of it in terms of cost benefit. It’s literally the worst thing that can happen to you and it’s prevented by an afternoon’s test. Literally zero cost. why would I get a colonoscopy? I don’t live in perpetual fear and paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:19 PM
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Most places will already screen the child’s genome. All they have to do is take the prospective father’s to match up, which would be voluntary on his account. It’s a little concerning I guess, but honestly they basically already have your DNA, or rather enough of a picture to identify you if you commit a crime. They’ve found people through Ancestry DNA websites that were just second or third cousins. Imagine you’re sitting pretty after your crime spree only to find out Old Uncle Chuck you’ve nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:17 PM
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It is a multitude of times higher than 1%. It’s literally a fixture of pop culture to find out the kid isn’t yours when he turns 18. 3-10% sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:14 PM
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I don’t know I’m pretty confident I look far from anyone’s ideal man too. That’s just the circumstance of being ugly. The porn isn’t really the issue. If you were hot, you would look like the people in porn. Most of the guys watching porn don’t look like most of the male pornstars either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:05 AM
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It’s totally degrading bro. Imagine walking in on your dad jerking it. I’d honestly rather walk in on him boning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:02 AM
1

It’s interesting that Hunger Games’ lasting legacy is essentially creating a new genre of video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:23 PM
1

It may feel like the end of the world if you don’t make it, but it’s not. It’s going to get a lot worse first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:15 PM
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I mean that is part of why they are devalued now. Supply and demand has made men less valuable, while women’s liberation made women more valuable. It also is due to the reduction of manual labor as a part of their economy, something men simply perform better. As work became more cognitive, service-based, or even mechanical, it became easier for women to compete economically with men as they can perform virtually the same in those fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:11 PM
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It’s not like feminism is particularly insane in Japan either, at least in the same ways as the US. I don’t think misandry is really a major factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:10 PM
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The fact that a guy just two inches below average, in a place where people are relatively tall, is known for being particularly short should tell you all you need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:59 AM
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There is the revenge fantasy people have already talked about, but it’s also that people don’t warn women at all about the fertility/birth issues associated with age and the fact that men generally prefer 21 year olds. It makes sense to secure a match when you’re at a highest value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:31 AM
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Not what the OP asserts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:27 AM
1

BMI is unrelated to body fat percentage, at least in this context. You definitely need both to get a full
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:52 AM
1

Agreed. BMI was designed for populations. It has a tendency to overestimate what a woman should weigh and underestimate a man (although it’s usually perfectly fine most of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:49 AM
3

Lmao okay dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:02 AM
14

Bro obviously we can still get laid. It just sucks being permanently kneecapped for something we can’t control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:00 AM
1

True but I don’t think it’s that unacceptable for men to show off either. I guess it depends on the crowd you run in and if there’s an excuse for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:02 AM
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How can I ignore them when they take up 3x the space lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:44 AM
1

Like I said, they’re just plain gross. “People don’t want to date them” is just being polite, and look how common it is in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:43 AM
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Any of them? Being single for life is more popular than ever, or at least more common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:42 AM
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Do you care when you watch someone inject heroin and slowly kill themselves? Maybe not, since it “doesn’t impact you”. It’s the same thing with food. It’s an addiction for these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:07 AM
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Obesity in general has ruined it, but what OP is meaning to say is that it has ruined it for the thin people. The value of just being in shape is now exceedingly high compared to what it used to be. Like, being a healthy weight is abnormal as far as the average person goes. In the past, most people were thin and being fat (or more muscular, even) was rare. So to get with someone who is also thin is a bit more hard than it used to be, due to supply and demand essentially. But I can’t defend him s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:05 AM
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Because it’s just plain gross to see these 600 lb life people waddling around bro. How can we as a society turn a blind eye and let them destroy their bodies like this? We at least need nutritional awareness for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:02 AM
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Oh say can you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:01 AM
0

But more people than ever are dating for the second reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:19 AM
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Yeah if you think the only possible complication from birth is literally death itself, then you’d be right. Too bad putting off kid increases your child’s risk for autism, psychosis, and asthma. There’s even more complications associated with caesarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:00 PM
2

Google bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:55 PM
9

It will never be as bad as being touched by nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:09 AM
1

Most guys can’t just sit around waiting for the perfect woman to show up bro and people on PPD are already at risk. You need to please the women you can actually get and if most are turned off by crying then it has to be known.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:11 PM
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OP came here to be lied to. He has plenty of experience and is begging people to tell him why it’s not valid. Nothing to be done. Hopefully he’ll learn his lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:08 PM
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Honestly we could probably offer special visas for women from the developing world to come and rebalance gender biases in the demography. We could even do the same with women-dominated areas like NYC. That’s the only solution within a liberal system. Otherwise we’d have to order the women or the men (or both) to live in certain places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:59 PM
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It’s considered late for older generations, even though the average age is 17 now (and trending up every year).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:44 PM
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And validation of your attractiveness is more or less nonexistent for men outside of an ongoing relationship, casual or serious. If you’re in a bad headspace, the only recourse is to fuck your way out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:41 PM
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I mean, statistically they did want to sleep with you. Easy 40% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:49 PM
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What he’s mocking is “bad personality” in the sense of hating women or something. That’s something that could easily be resolved if he really wanted to. The bad personality at actual play is an extremely warped psyche that has been festering since grade school or perhaps even earlier depending on the quality of home life. They need to be fundamentally torn down and rebuilt, not so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:49 PM
2

Maybe we can make them all sing Kumbaya and hold hands too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:46 PM
6

They don’t exist, so it’s logical they’d have a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:44 PM
3

Negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:43 PM
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The fact that the social isolation predates sexual maturity (both of them and their peers) indicates it’s almost definitely the latter, but as the paper says they need to prove that still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:41 PM
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It’s not just that the fame makes them hotter, but that being famous explodes them to literally millions of women. If even 1% finds them attractive, it’s thousands of people. Adam Driver wasn’t considered hot by basically anyone until he reached a certain level of fame. I remember people laughing about his face when the first Star Wars sequel came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:37 PM
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Maybe for a Star Wars character lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:34 PM
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Absolutely but I don’t think it’s the key variable or anything that decides why men sleep around. I think it’s almost entirely a self-confidence/insecurity/reassurance thing. Perhaps I am simply biased to my own reasons, though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:33 PM
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I’m a man and I pretty much keep all of my escapades quiet IRL. The social status is secondary to a personal validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:28 PM
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Post your dick stats and I’ll let you know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:29 AM
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He did cuck himself, but girls like that come and go. Anyone with 50 partners by their mid 20s clearly craves variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:25 AM
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Bro you really think that out of 50 guys, you’re the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:22 AM
1

There was a thread on this the other week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:53 AM
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No, it’s absolutely true for LTRs as well. Women’s preferences aren’t that different between LTRs and ONSs as far as appearances go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:49 AM
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No, women actually care about looks more than men do. Especially when you consider that their standard for looks is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:38 AM
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Best possible reply
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:02 PM
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They’re just excuses to make a point 90% of the time, so they have to proactively fight the circle jerk I don’t even know how you change his view on this. It’s just a fact agreeable people get laid less, whether they’re men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:00 PM
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It matters in the context of the post, which is narrowly defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:58 PM
1

No I’m just not an alarmist who thinks we’re all doomed either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:13 PM
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Or maybe I just have better things to do now that this thread is old
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:08 PM
2

True. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:07 PM
2

Yeah honestly I think I’m just a freak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:07 PM
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Uhhh no, actually men literally are more varied than women. Like if you look at a distribution of women’s heights, it is closer together than a distribution of male’s heights. Meaning that men literally are more varied. Another area where this is well studied is intellect. There are more male geniuses, but also more male retards. Yet women are just as smart as men on average (actually a little smarter).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:33 PM
2

**Boys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:32 PM
2

Potentially. I basically never get angry either and I’m a dude. I even got my T levels checked (can’t blame a guy for trying to get some supplements) so it’s not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:32 PM
2

If she has sex with you less than once every other day, she doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:30 PM
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Their women just don’t like them. It’s sad, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:30 PM
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Sigh Do you really think I can just make up stats on Chad’s demographic transition?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:15 PM
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It’s all so tiresome to hear the same tired arguments made by people who have no clue what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:15 PM
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Black pill communities are essentially just depression pits that would exist with or without TRP. /r9k/ predates the TRP sub and will likely exist long after TRP is banned. Honestly the stuff there is even lonelier than any sub here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:22 AM
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But I’m not. The same mechanisms are at work against ADOS, so called foundational black Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:44 AM
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Again, every country on Earth is beginning the experience it. It’s just that Chad - the last country to experience it - didn’t begin until about the 80s or 90s, while the UK started in the 50s. They’re just a generation or two behind. By the year 2100, those countries will stop making babies too. The issue is that we have no way to reverse this process. When we do shrink well below the Earth’s carrying capacity and can afford to grow again, we won’t be able to do it. New technologies will furthe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:05 AM
0

That life is mostly suffering? Uhhhhhh yeah, you kind of do. You’re supposed to be reasonably content most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:12 AM
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Perhaps marginally, because by circumstance women are the sex that actually gives birth. It’s unavoidable. But they aren’t patriarchal for this, nor were they patriarchal when they restricted women’s rights to discourage birth in the 60s-90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:59 AM
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They’re doing a 180 on rights more generally, for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:31 AM
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I wish I could make you read books bro. Your entire worldview is upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:29 AM
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Uhhh did you not just hear men’s rights? If we had the right to pick and choose where our money goes, not a dime would go to an ex-wife and everything would to to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:26 AM
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China is absolutely a country with liberated women and feminism. It isn’t the virtue signaling, misandrist, trans-obsessed shitshow that the West has, but it’s absolutely feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:25 AM
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Sorry but she’s right bro. Even in countries like Iran, it happens. Iran actually has more female engineers per capita than the US, by the way. Crazy what you can do when all the Insta time goes to studying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:08 AM
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Honestly it sounds like you just have depression. I’m sorry to hear that. For most people, life is an experience that is, on the whole, positive. Humanity had to evolve this way. We would not survive as a species if lifelong agony was the norm, no matter how common it is these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:05 AM
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would be raped anyways if they didn’t immigrate WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:03 AM
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You can’t pick and choose which stories to believe in the Bible. What? What you mean to say is that you’re a cultural Christian. You still observe and are maybe a deist and you might even pray, but you don’t really have faith in the religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:02 AM
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Yeah another problem people don’t realize is that they think the developing world is a bottomless well of new immigrants, who can easily replace the ones dying off. But even if they could be integrated seamlessly, the developing world is rapidly experiencing the same shift. Perhaps it will experience it even faster than expected because new technologies, such as male birth control, may be invented soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:59 AM
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When you’re adopting a kid, you are taking a gamble that someone smart, kind, and healthy decided to ditch a kid in foster care. Unlikely, and sadly about 50% of behavior is genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:57 AM
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Except in reality the only group in the West that is breeding above replacement levels is far-right religious nuts, whose views on women you probably find reprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:54 AM
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It is absolutely a problem that is latent in every society on Earth. In some countries, like Chad, where they still have many more children than parents, the problem is obviously not urgent. Still, every country has begun the demographic transformation that follows industrialization/women’s liberation/family planning distribution. The most educated and productive members of every country are the ones having the least children, and this paradigm occurs on a global scale as well. In time, perhaps …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:52 AM
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Sure, I suppose. But the rest of the world is developing at a prestigious rate. It takes a lot to motivate someone to learn a new language, abandon their family and friends and homeland, and cross the sea. As those countries have gotten better, while ours has remained stagnant or even backslid in recent years, they have stopped coming - at least to the same extent. Furthermore the quality of the immigrants have gone down. The average immigrant today is less educated, less wealthy, and less likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:49 AM
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No, it’ll get worse. As the proportion of whites has decreased, we’ve grown correspondingly more divided politically. Not because whites are so great or anything. It’s just that more unique and diverse people have different, and occasionally conflicting, interests. That fosters political division. Each American election has been consequentially more cataclysmic, rapturous, and impassioned than the last, reaching a new high pitch in 2020. This has only a little to do with shifting demography. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:40 AM
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Yeah man. Lots of not college educated people who can just rattle off the country’s demographic history to you off the top of their head. Where do you think I learned all this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:37 AM
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If she wasn’t going to accept you at 5’8”, the odds she will at 5’11” are marginal at best. Especially after she finds out you spent your nest egg on making yourself unable to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:09 PM
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You’re in denial if you think it’s not an issue. Why do you think this post has 400 replies? The fertility crisis is where dating strategies intersect with global problems. I agree that it doesn’t really matter who is incentivized to have births, but my point is that it isn’t enough. You’re only marginally increasing births and only among the worst members of society. You need a bigger change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:08 PM
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Women would probably be disgusted with you if they found out this was how you spent the 10-30k. Especially since you’re still short afterwards lol. If they care about height, you’re still not there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:51 PM
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I mean you could have done some self-improvement to get better options. That might be preferable to lifelong loneliness. I’m just throwing out a suggestion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:26 PM
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All they have to do is not be fat and be nice. It’s so sad man. How did we get to this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:25 PM
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Jesus how did you end up like that? You need to make a post warning women how to avoid your situation. Like, can you not just lower your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:23 PM
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Yeah I’m sure we’re a super power because of diversity and not because we genocided an entire continent and used it to fuel our empire. Additionally the US was 85% white prior to 1965, meaning our status as a superpower pre-dates our status as a diverse country. I sincerely don’t know why the left thinks diversity is a strength. Doesn’t that imply that different groups are inherently different and therefore racism? Idk. Oh well. Numbers are a strength, not diversity. Diversity is a weakness. We’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:12 PM
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Bro it’s just a fact that the French are dying out just as rapidly as the Germans, British, Italian, and every other European nation. Your numbers just look better because your government actively hides the information. I am xenophobic and you do need me. Your country won’t survive without people like me. Increasingly the French agree. If it was just the French who could vote in France, we’d already be in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:10 PM
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I wish I had your unbridled optimism, but we’re at least a hundred years away from artificial wombs that are just as safe as a real pregnancy. It’s a fair point though. If technologies were invented that lowered fertility like BC, surely other technologies may be invented to raise it. That has already happened to some extent. The issue is that most people can have kids when they want to; they just don’t want to. That’s why we’re economically and demographically FUCKED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:07 PM
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We won’t be invaded by force. We will voluntarily swing open the gates for millions of, perhaps even a billion in total, climate refugees, which will be sold to us as an economic stopgap measure to combat the dwindling population. 2021 was the year they first designated a group as climate refugees, and it certainly won’t be the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:03 PM
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I mean would choose 10 offspring, but I’m probably going to have to give up like 7 of them if it’s a definite single income. But I’m really into the idea of being a dad. Most people couldn’t handle that kind of lifelong loneliness even if they wanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:01 PM
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Yeah, how has that rudimentary economic incentive been working for them? Oh, not at all? Okay, thanks. Maybe you can’t solve massive societal issues with a small handout lol Yeah yeah, diversity is our strength. America has never been more diverse. Never been stronger too, right? Never been more stable? Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:50 PM
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France is actually just as much of a shitshow as the rest of Europe, if not dramatically worse. Yes, France successfully limped its way back over the replacement line. How? Not by getting Frenchmen to have more kids, no. Today, about a third of France’s births are non-European and about 40-45% aren’t even French. The French are still going extinct, while the immigrant groups that are parasitical upon France to grow. How is this hidden from you, a Frenchman? How could you not know this? Your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:48 PM
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The issue is that financial payments don’t work, incentivize births most among the “undesirable” groups, and don’t solve the crux of the issue. Hungary tried this just a few years ago. They managed to marginally raise fertility, yes. However, most of the gains were among the poor especially the Gypsies - who have the most to gain from additional children. But our fertility isn’t declining because there are millions of women desperate to have children who simply cannot afford it. That simply isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:44 PM
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Yeah I’m sure the world will be much better when Communist China and 3 billion Africans take over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:39 PM
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It’s beneficial to the whole nation to avert a demographic collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:36 PM
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No, obviously not. Men, on average, are more free than ever and have less kids than ever. PPD’s solution? More freedom! Yeah, that’ll work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:35 PM
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Do you have literally any evidence at all that that would impact fertility? Like literally anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:33 PM
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Like do what? Implant a uterus? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:33 PM
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No it doesn’t. They use immigration to keep wages down and they’ve been very successful at that since ~1980, but also to a lesser extent since ~1970. Home-grown Americans could conceivably reduce wages, but in practice you will never birth enough extra of them to have a significant impact. We just want enough to replace the population, not tamper with the labor market. Additionally, it takes 20 years for each one to grow into a worker, so the economic impact is significantly delayed relative to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:32 PM
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That works in terms of getting fertility up, but not really in a constructive way. This exact plan was tried in Communist Romania to disastrous effect. The only ones who profited from such heavy handed tactics were the orphanage owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:29 PM
-1

Actually making people richer causes them have less children. The poorest nations, and the poorest folks in the rich nations, have the most children. This is a problem that has been latent in civilized society since the time of the early Roman Empire. Note: I say early. They solved it with, over the course of the empire, millions of slave laborers. Kind of like how we “solve” it with outsourcing and immigration of low-value wage slaves. Their attempts to integrate immigrants proved even less suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:27 PM
0

Even if the problem is less, it’s still a real and serious problem that needs solving. Doing literally nothing (your unironic suggestion) will be disastrous and merely incubates the problem until it gets as bad as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:26 PM
3

Lol yeah millions of Somalis, millions of homegrown children - exactly the same, right? I can’t help but laugh at people who suggest such things. That’s what we’ve been trying, yes. How do you think it‘s going? America is literally the most divided country politically in the OECD and we have mobs in the Capitol. Must not be enough immigrants here lol. People don’t even want to come here anymore. We’re only taking about a third of the people we were taking 20 years ago, even though the population…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:23 PM
2

Always funny to me to watch people ascribe the worst motives possible to someone when they don’t like him Yeah surely this massive demographic issue that is just about pussy. Why would we even need a million babies when we can have a million immigrants?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:17 PM
3

He wasn’t confident enough. Smh rookie mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:26 PM
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Uhhh kind of, yeah. America was one of the first countries to do it, especially if you count the state-level. We were the first great power of the day to do it, and as the world’s foremost democracy (at the time) we essentially laid the groundwork for the international liberation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:51 PM
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Not at all. I’ve never had anyone outside of my group stick up for my group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:45 PM
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It was also because the concept had been successfully tested in some western states like Montana, which gave women the right to vote in the 1880s (or 90s I forget). They actually sent a woman to Congress before she could vote in federal elections, hilariously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:44 PM
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What do you think women scared men into doing it? Or even harassed them particularly harshly? It was more of a genuine, intellectual debate where men were convinced. People today like to pretend some nasty suffragette in circa 1910 personally held Congress at gunpoint and forced them to give them rights. In practice, it was a gradual change about a hundred years in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:38 PM
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Can’t wait to say this to women/black people/LGBTs any time they ask me for literally any support
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:36 PM
2

Honestly sad if you’re American and can’t afford to leave. Good luck in that case bro. It’s a harsh country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:39 AM
1

That’s why god invented adderall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:09 AM
1

I don’t say it to be mean. It’s 75%+ Christian. That’s changing in some places, but most of the demographic groups that are swelling in size are religious. You’d be much happier in a country like Sweden or Denmark and should move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:06 AM
1

This has to do with predation risk, though. It’s a risk men must take, but females of the species are incentivized against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:36 PM
3

The best way is to offload child labor to grandparents so both parents can continue working for the first decade or so. Then it becomes a lot easier to juggle a family and a career as most of them grow out of the totally inept baby stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:35 PM
1

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:18 PM
1

What’s your relationship with your father like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:16 PM
-4

Then GTFO of America it’s a Christian country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:15 PM
5

People with kids, especially at that age, just can’t afford to fuck around. A “child free” 22 year old can do whatever no consequence, contrasted by the supreme responsibility of motherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:08 PM
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Odd to prove men aren’t the bitchy gender with two paragraphs of ranting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:18 AM
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No police officers died during the protest. Go check out the Wikipedia page.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:27 AM
10

Wow, that horrible thing where men want their wife to be the woman they are most attracted to? Surely women don’t do that at all 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:26 PM
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OP, your own post says that 20% of men get 80% of the attention. Meanwhile, 33% of women get 66% of the attention. Are you incapable of seeing which is more equitably distributed? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:24 PM
2

I won’t object to its efficacy or even deny that I will lie voraciously to my own partners. Love is a battlefield. But can you not see the hilarity of women so desperate for these “brainwashed” men that they lie about who they are to get with them? Like, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:19 PM
4

What the deeply traumatic act of watching me do what I love, watching me practice self-care by responsibly consuming ethically-sourced heroin at a PARTY? If this was 1922, would you call me an asshole for having a beer in front of a kid? It used to be ILLEGAL for women to wear pants in the town of Tucson, Arizona. Would you be an asshole by wearing pants in front of a kid? They didn’t consent to seeing you break the law? Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:11 PM
2

It was a spontaneous protest where 99.99% of attendees were peaceful. Of those who made it inside, 99.9% were peaceful. The only person killed was an unarmed female protestor/young mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:05 PM
2

Refusal? Those aren’t even options. It’s biological impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:58 PM
7

Men here vastly over accredit dating apps. They are certainly an extremely stacked deck, but men who can make a perfect profile and still not get even a message are NOT going to get laid with any frequency IRL either. Your profile is likely just absolute shit, like most profiles are, or your standards are too high, like most people’s are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:49 PM
5

No no no. I am the one doing the heroin, not the kids. You think I’d share? It being legal doesn’t matter. I consent to injecting myself with heroin in front of baby children. It has no impact on you. Fuck off and let me live my life, free of your moral high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:45 PM
5

Imagine meeting your “soulmate” but you can only keep them around by deceiving them systematically. I can’t say I won’t have to as well. But, you realize they aren’t your ideal partner then, right? You probably think they’re an evil misogynist. As a guy, having to lie to get partners is bad enough. As a girl, it’s downright pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:42 PM
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Really? So you wouldn’t judge me at all for doing heroin at my child’s birthday party? Totally consensual. Lots of people make such judgements. Loot at this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:50 PM
3

Bro go read any of the posts on short guys in FDS and you’ll see the reverse Halo in action
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:25 PM
4

You really don’t think anyone was promised that they would find a spouse one day? WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:21 PM
6

Lying is still considered wrong inherently in this society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:58 PM
2

Yeah, not really. It’s pretty easy to keep an act up in the short term with a GF you don’t live with. The past isn’t something he can fake away, assuming you know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:57 PM
2

I doubt it given how defensive they are, even anonymously online
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:56 PM
2

We can’t care because it doesn’t violate our “freedom or human rights”? Are those really the only objections men are allowed to raise before a lifelong commitment? If these men find those women so disgusting, why even ask them to pair up? You’re setting up marriages to fail. Promiscuous women should therefore be loud and proud about it, so they can rule out all the insecure misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:16 PM
3

Such is life, man. Such is life. And I promise you, they will believe it. Women truly want to believe you won’t care and are eager to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:10 PM
3

Bro they just lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:09 PM
3

What he did in the past is your best predictor for what he will do in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:08 PM
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And I am free to ask every woman who calls men insecure over this what her body count is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:06 PM
1

Urine is a sterile solution bro I’m not arguing with an anal fetishist about why the pooper is very hygienic. Sorry. Take some time off the anal category to go Google some sex ed for once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:17 AM
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My point is simply the double standard. Such generalizations are misandristicly thrown at men with the full implication of some biological and innate failure, but apply them to other groups - women included - and they’re offensive even to state. I also don’t really see the relevance that most crime is intraracial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:17 AM
2

Actually they’re not if you include “””gang violence””” in school shootings. When it’s a white kid, it’s a disturbed bullied kiddo. When it’s a black kid, it’s a ruthless thug/executioner for some “gang”. They’re definitely not for pedophiles either. My go-to is beastiality, where the lion’s share is done by the white man, in all his glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:13 AM
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As I said bro, one is self-lubricating and the other is the one you shit out of. Which do you think is more likely to get infected? BIG BRAIN TIME you can do it bro I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:17 AM
1

Unfortunately we will likely be around for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:27 AM
2

Not really. It’s literally dozens or hundreds of times more likely to spread certain STDs like HIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:57 AM
4

Yeah except all that stuff still happens to this day across most of the world. The religiously mandated orgasms do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:02 AM
5

Makes sense, I will fully admit. I just can’t get over the pooper, you know? Maybe I’m just immature. I’d try it if she really wanted to. Nothing to do with the physical sensation, though? How does that differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:48 AM
6

I don’t know about that. Did you know in the Middle Ages it was a sin to not make your wife cum during sex? They thought it was needed for reproduction and since all sex is for reproduction, you had to make it happen or you’re just a dirty sinner using her to masturbate. She could conceivably even have the marriage annulled if you couldn’t, but in practice that would be difficult to do and I’m not sure of any cases as such. Imagine if today, you could suffer at-fault divorce as a man for losing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:42 AM
5

Black people are a majority of murderers. Did they fail themselves or did society fail them? I hope this comparison will show you your bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:39 AM
6

Teen pregnancy is way, way down man. People don’t even lose their virginities until 17 on average now. 1/3rd of college freshmen are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:32 AM
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You already have it. Young women make more than young men, are less likely to kill themselves, have more friends, and - while you may disagree - have more political power. Unlike past generations, most young men today think feminism has gone too far. They’re not more misogynistic; they just see the deck is stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:30 AM
1

According to women, men peak at their age+2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:28 AM
0

Men will always put down other men about their inherent flaws, so even if women are policed socially it will surely re-emerge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:26 AM
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He means it’s literally just more single women than men. Most places have more single man than single women. NYC is highly unusual in that regard and it has real life dating impacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:24 AM
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It does when she lies and deceives men about them, which is OP’s point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:21 AM
3

why do people keep voting for Capitalism then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:20 AM
3

What percent of girls do you think do anal more than once a year? Can’t be more than 10% imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:18 AM
3

Me neither dude and I’ve definitely noticed it’s more common with them. Well, that’s how it seems at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:17 AM
10

I mean, can you really read posts like this and not believe in those concepts? OP truly believes that no anal/BJ = no love. It has literally warped his understanding of a relationship to over examine sexual dynamics. So even if he meets a nice enough girl, he’ll inevitably asks for anal since he clearly has a thing for it. She may well be down to try it or love it, whatever. But she could also just say no for any number of normal reasons and he will assume she doesn’t love him, either romantical…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:14 AM
1

Yeah is anal even in the Kama Sutra?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:07 AM
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If you can’t figure this out for yourself, there’s no helping you man. One is self-lubricating, the other is full of gut bacteria (or worse). Which do you think is more likely to get infected? Big brain moment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:06 AM
2

It definitely has to be a one or the other thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah, because men have prostates and so they have even more reason for anal stimulation than women. See: the entire gay community
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:03 AM
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I truly wish you the best bro. Remember, it’s the motion of the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:54 AM
8

Yeah another reason why men are forced to date down in age. Women could too, but are too prejudiced against younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:48 PM
4

Sure bro we completely believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:41 PM
0

The averages are deliberately exaggerated way down in order to keep men happy. It’s an open secret in academia. The average man, if he is hauled into a sterile medical lab and groped by a 55 y/o “scientist”/dick measurer, will only be able to maintain a 5” erection. It’s true; anyone would shrink dramatically. But during actual sex, that isn’t your real length. Another factor is that these studies don’t usually adjust for age (your dick shrinks with age, but of course men have no wall lol) or ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:31 PM
3

I mean, maybe? All men learned it from porn, just like anal. Anal is just clearly a bridge too far. Idk. Porn sick isn’t well defined
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:37 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:25 PM
5

Absolutely man. It didn’t used to be this way. There’s writings from like the 1920s that are basically TRP, albeit old timey as fuck. We got sent into a nightmare world by feminists and their pathetic, cuckolded allies. They undid centuries of wisdom to literally propagandize about the equality, if not superiority, of women. Today, you literally cannot question their narrative. It has completely subsumed the West and will inevitably destroy us via collapsing fertility rates (all 1st world countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:25 PM
1

You’d be surprised how small they actually are. Go to r/measuredpornstars (very NSFW) and you rarely see one above the coveted 8” mark. Above 9” basically never happens. They can’t really measure girth well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:19 PM
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It’s undeniable that they were no where near as common before porn became so ubiquitous to male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:17 PM
-2

The average is actually about 6.5 inches long among young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah massively insane to DEMAND you can stick it in the pooper lmao I’m a total degenerate and even I have literally no desire for it. Just why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:13 PM
2

Uhhhhh the sex alone is absolutely a concern, however unstated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:10 PM
3

Okay I think you’re just being deliberately silly now. How did he become famous, any guess? Perhaps because the first woman say him and said, “wow this child beater is a literal 10/10 I should share this”. The phenomenon arose because he was hot, not famous. The fame is just an afterthought to the vital image.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:07 PM
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He wouldn’t be dating literal billionaire heiresses, no, but he’d still be getting literally hundreds of women. 80/20 rule is a bitch once you hit the true 10/10s. Mind you this is a guy who got famous for assaulting a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:05 PM
2

This can happen to anyone and has nothing to do with gender as he implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:03 PM
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Making moral judgements about evolved behavior is pointless, even if you can somehow justify it. They don’t choose to be hypergamous; they simply are. Those that were not did not breed as effectively, just as guys who only wanted one girl did not breed as effectively. You may call them shallow, but men remain attracted to primarily 20-25 year olds for their whole lives. If you don’t believe me, Google 39 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:01 PM
0

Happiness is everything in life So sick of Redditors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:30 PM
1

Sure you’re not bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:38 AM
1

It’s because most porn is white male porn, or the vast majority at least. It’s made for a primarily white audience after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:37 AM
1

It’s not bro. Sorry about your dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:34 AM
5

even if by some horrible circumstance you were into it, why would you ever trust another person to stick something up your urethra unless you absolutely have to? Jesus Christ bro do it yourself and save your dick Genitals are extremely soft and prone to infection. If it hurts at all, you have to go ASAP. Even a small amount of rot is life ruining if it’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:23 AM
10

Bro my god. People need Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:22 AM
4

It’s a simple and direct answer, but it doesn’t explain why it became the norm in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:18 AM
6

If your goal is to avoid being looked at the gym (presumably the reason you don’t like working out in public), looking good is the worst thing you can do. Maybe you can’t help it though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:16 AM
3

Yeah but I don’t think that’s a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:45 AM
3

Nothing? I was just curious. I’m not actually a dramatic person so I’m not offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:36 PM
5

Outside of the Internet, not really. Sexually unsuccessful strategies like focusing on a career, avoiding crime, and being a faithful partner are strongly encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:35 PM
2

I’m getting divorced the second my wife hits menopause. Just reserving my rights, you know? Who are you to tell me how to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:31 PM
2

And they say men don’t hamster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:29 PM
1

You must not know a lot of women 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:22 PM
1

What’s your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:16 PM
3

That’s literally exactly what you said. Either high school or early college. For old guys like me (23) it’s literally over. Every woman has a double digit body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:02 PM
5

I can’t say I don’t admire 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:00 PM
10

Our countries are in economic implosion since March 2020. It didn’t used to be this bad, even just a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:14 PM
1

It hasn’t been a worse time to be a single mother since like the 19th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:12 PM
5

Men can’t just download Tinder and have a party phase. It takes literally years of bodybuilding, personality work, and other self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:12 PM
1

Honestly hook ups are one the few outlets as a man. It mirrors women. Perhaps more accurately, women mirror men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:11 PM
1

Yeah can’t imagine why women who are offered everything and waste it are mocked so hard At least most incels never had a chance at a normal life. Single mothers did and wasted it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:06 PM
4

It’s true. Basically every woman in America is “promiscuous,” to put it kindly. If you didn’t start looking at 16, it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:05 PM
0

No I’m in favor of standardsmaxxing (minimizing?) and already have. The misogyny is arises partially because the only women they deal with are insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:57 PM
1

Uhhh yeah obviously it’s better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:25 AM
3

Most women do stuff like that bro. They keep it to themselves and don’t tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:55 AM
1

It’s better than dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:09 AM
0

Yeah exactly. That’s the kind of women you interact with when you have zero standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:06 AM
2

What’s your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:01 AM
1

What makes you say that about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:00 AM
1

Yeah exactly lol. 20 relationships is insanity. You must deliberately not even take things seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:55 AM
2

Their women are just honest with them, friend. They lie to guys like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:23 AM
1

I will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:17 AM
1

AskTRP is basically a meme sub where we shitpost about how making women cum is beta because you’re putting her on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:04 AM
3

Imagine seeing some shy, socially awkward dude and immediately assuming he’s part of a fringe radical group of less than 50k people. No other possible explanations?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:49 AM
13

Simping will only get worse as relationships grow increasingly unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:06 AM
1

Which is honestly more problematic than being sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:38 PM
3

The only girl I ever seriously dated off an app was like that too. You could tell she had no idea how to make a profile and had only been there a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:40 PM
1

Racial crime disparities are a major faux pau, even when they make whites look bad as opposed to - well - the usual guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:46 PM
3

Unfortunately white men (and women, to a lesser extent) keep fucking animals. Something about white men means they are about 4x more likely to molest an animal in the US than men of other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:32 PM
7

How do you reconcile women having a stated purpose for circumcised penises with them being “half working” and I believe in another place you said they hurt you? Seems contradictory. In fact most of the women in this thread seem to have no preference or even a stated one for circumcision, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:37 AM
1

Because America is a cesspool that produces the vast and overwhelming majority of pornography
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:29 AM
6

Cutting your dick up to appeal to women is the ultimate beta move
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:28 AM
2

And they are free to get surgery to change that. Some will have to at some point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:26 AM
1

You’re blatantly going around coming up with every excuse. The odds a man gets falsely accused of rape in any consequential way are way lower than a girl actually getting raped. It absolutely happens and we should look at each case individually, but it’s nothing you can worry about. Might as well worry about getting struck by lightning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:27 AM
4

Yeah I’m sure that happens literally 100% of the time retard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:18 AM
1

Men aren’t shy about being dangerous. Women should be scared of men. We commit 90% of the violent crimes. You’re so much more likely to be killed by a man than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:08 AM
13

Have you heard of the dog pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:45 PM
1

The most successful women are the least kind, especially to lovers. Women should only be kind to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:29 PM
2

Children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:23 PM
2

Absolutely. I think those advantages matter increasingly as time goes on. America, at least, is growing more stratified by class and income mobility is down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:49 PM
7

In what universe are they not going to be bitter about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:34 PM
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Not really. It’s basically Elliot Rodger’s epilogue of a Holocaust for women. Whoever posted it should be on a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:33 PM
4

Not really. My private school was full of tubby kids. I was one of them. There were a few super fit kids, sure. I bet all schools have them. Two of them were brothers whose dad groomed them from like age 8 to be massively shredded. The younger brother was even more shredded if you can believe it. Yeah, it would have been nice to be groomed for that from a young age. But most people won’t and it’s a massive investment for the dad time-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:29 PM
1

I’ll do 1, 3, and 7. I’ll throw in other easy things that are like 1 like shaving or giving up weed and video games. 2, what’s a master sharpener? 4, well, you saw my post history. Maybe I should make a post here while it’s purge week. 5, 6 just not possible if I’m being honest. At least not in the short-term. Maybe in like a decade. 8, I don’t think it’s possible either, but I guess I’m not an objective observer (see point 5). But any improvement certainly helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:26 PM
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What exactly is the help supposed to be? There isn’t any help. He’s just wrong, in that he doesn’t realize that things like sports or whatever was the self-improvement. Plus they keep at it. Most HVM work hard to stay in shape, build careers. It’s a choice they make every day. Just keep at it. It’s not like you’ll make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:20 PM
1

Hey give me some tips and I won’t have to post here anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:11 PM
1

No it’s not. In a vacuum, perhaps if they were offered side-by-side. But women who live dull lives crocheting are just not as likely to bump into suitable men. It hurts them dramatically. That isn’t to say exposure to more men is worth becoming an alcoholic, but the reversed case isn’t really worth it for men either. Perhaps it does apply more to men. I don’t really think so because I think men have more freedom to be exciting than women do. But that’s a very subjective opinion without a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:10 PM
1

I mean I can’t say I feel that way sometimes. It’s mostly because slaves are inherently an unproductive and outdated mode of production. Our Capitalist masters didn’t free slaves (and end similar servile practices for groups like white serfs in Europe, white debtors) because of any genuine love of freedom or equality. It was entirely because slaves always drag their legs (assigned to tasks they don’t like, pay never correlated to performance) and do not pay taxes themselves. Their masters pay a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:05 PM
1

You spend time posting on Reddit 😐 that’s the biggest one tbh I’m sure you can have a man any time. So can I lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:00 PM
1

Not really lol. Most people are absolute pussies until they’re drunk. If they aren’t terrified of you, they’re terrified of the social/legal repercussions of fighting. We’re talking about a society where known criminals walk right into a store, grab whatever they want, and walk right out. There’s no heroes left. No Country for Old Men and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:49 PM
1

Okay. The same goes for you, as I’m sure your lived experience confirms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:46 PM
1

There is no easy solution. But even if there was one, our system is too dysfunctional to implement it. It would take massive social change to undo this, on the same level as the change that was needed to bring it about. It is a problem no one knows about that they can’t solve even if they did know about it. It’s like the climate change of demography, but even this analogy isn’t accurate because at least we’re having a discussion about actual climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:45 PM
2

I don’t think anyone equates the harm of racism to dating preferences, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:25 PM
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Even as someone who usually defends IQ, sociopaths are a good example where smart and IQ don’t line up. It’s undeniable that they are “dumber” in that they perform more poorly on IQ tests, but they’re smart too in that they can lie so much more easily and convincingly and can incorporate those lies together into a narrative. It’s a massively useful skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:22 PM
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I’m sure he knows to be more tactful now too. Even as a man, being invited over for just sex with no established sexual relationship is absolutely tactless and I’ve rejected women I otherwise would have given a chance to for being that way. Mystery and will she/won’t she are exciting, but they’re also classy and tasteful and subtle. If fate is going to bring you together, why make it easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:16 PM
4

Lol weren’t you saying you weren’t white earlier? Green eyes smh u/vrtidolla
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:07 PM
2

My dream is to one day be infamous enough to get a call-out post. Honestly I’m sad I’m not there already. You guys don’t like my posts enough, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:05 PM
2

Fair enough. Maybe one day I’ll get off my ass and open Google Scholar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 PM
1

Yeah fair enough maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 PM
2

No, sorry, I meant you made a good point about Japan and their daycare system, not him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:59 PM
1

You have the most charitable possible interpretation and I have the least charitable one. On the whole, we’re both too lazy to find more studies and see who is actually right. But I will admit I uncritically saw this chart and adopted the views I already laid out, never even considering the point you made. I don’t know. There is very little about white liberals to suggest they like whites, imo. As in I literally only hear them say bad things about whites
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:59 PM
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This is just unhinged misandry. Sorry. I would love to be able to vet women. Unfortunately if I had even the most basic standards, even to the point of the woman just being attractive, I’d never get anything. Most men simply don’t have the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:52 PM
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Literally the standard for thousands of years until about 1965. Most men still want it, but most men are sub 9/10 so they can’t even if they can find the last virgin woman in America. Meanwhile male standards haven’t changed, and have only gotten more extreme. Each year, the average man is becoming taller, richer, fitter, and so on. Since it’s about relative success, the baseline only increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:48 PM
1

Don’t complain too loud bro. All that shit is coming for men too, and women and soyboys who vanguarded the movement for women are doing it for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:47 PM
1

Tinder matches and getting casual sex don’t matter in isolation, sure, but they’re a signal that you’re hot enough for genuine female attraction from people you also find hot. That is something that is very hard for men to live without, and impossible for them to really be complete without. I don’t know if women need men or not, but men absolutely need women. I think you just don’t want to see how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:45 PM
2

Perhaps you could give more accurate advice by experiencing the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:41 PM
2

Women are and always will be a massive tax drain that, on average, take more than they give. In the past they used to give us kids in exchange for help. Now they are maxed out at 3 kids and expect even more benefits for doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:37 PM
1

Men will deny it, but it’s obvious that status matters for them too. It may not be as important, perhaps no where near as important, as it is for women - but it is still preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:35 PM
1

Yeah including rape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:31 PM
3

Your last paragraph is self-contradictory, I’m afraid, but otherwise solid comment. That being said, you should really do a Tinder experiment with a man you find average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:26 PM
2

Don’t worry bro. You’ll be lucky if she’s polite and pretends she doesn’t so you don’t feel inadequate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:24 PM
1

Pretty sure she’s white
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:19 PM
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It’s a good point about Japan, but he got you with the gender quota stuff, I hope you can admit. Most recently created constitutions in the developing world do a lot of work to ensure women are actively represented. Even if they don’t have quotas, human rights are enshrined for women. Rwanda famously had ~2/3rds of their legislators as women for a time (due to a combination of the quotas and the prior genocide killing so many men).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:16 PM
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I am though 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:13 PM
4

Okay the group anal sessions might be a bridge too far lmao But the spirit is true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:12 PM
1

It is effectively the same thing. In a dispute between white and black, white liberals conspire against their own side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:11 PM
5

There will never be a guy happily marrying a woman with 40 bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:13 AM
5

super mega cope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:12 AM
3

If she has been perfectly forthcoming like a good partner would be, than surely being anonymously DMed a recording of her getting railed will only be showing what he already knows and won’t ruin things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:11 AM
5

Yeah, but it could easily be true mate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:10 AM
0

Ah yes, all those wealthy famous dark skinned short men with dominant personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:07 AM
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Pretty sure Adolf Hitler was a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:04 AM
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Sure. I don’t envy women who want that kind of man. They must be truly impossibly rare in the West. I literally have never met a volcel man. Seems impossible to find even a woman who waits, let alone a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:00 AM
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If you can’t get Tinder matches, you’re not even playing the game IRL either. No matches means virtually none of the girls you like, like you. Meeting you IRL won’t change that unless your profile is shit or you’re super judge mental on Tinder for some reason… Basically, it’s worth getting sorted. Also it’s increasingly popular, especially for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:57 AM
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I think so, but it’s hard to tell with a sample size of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:55 AM
1

This is true but it applies equally to women. He points it out himself in his post, but doesn’t really elaborate on it. No one likes a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:05 AM
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Single motherhood is always avoidable. It’s not like every black woman is a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:39 AM
1

You’ve misread the chart. They are biased against their own group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:38 AM
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White liberals are absolutely loathed by other whites, non-whites, and even themselves at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:31 AM
1

Older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 AM
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If they’re pussies, peer pressure would be higher because they’re more susceptible to manipulation, no? Oh well. Go off, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:57 AM
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Yeah it seems like the womanly equivalent of asking about her sex history to see if she’s a hoe. Some girls like softboys, and some guys like hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:52 AM
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Really? Europeans had strict monogamy for over a millennia, with even things like divorce being outright impossible, because some dude in Judea circa 35 AD said to. Is that really men “in charge”? I guess Jesus was a man. Men had strict obligations too. One of the extreme cases that permitted annulment was impotency, for example. Porn sick men would be on suicide watch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:37 AM
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No, it’s slow. It took literally generations to work up to where we are. There is almost no one alive who can remember a time when women couldn’t vote federally, and literally nobody is old enough to remember when no states allowed them to vote either (the first was in 1880). Inventions like no-fault divorce took 2 generations to implement. Even still, women largely are dissatisfied and allege the existence widespread sexism. Countries like Rwanda actually had a majority of female legislators fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:29 AM
2

If I had to guess, it might be related to the 400 years of racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:10 AM
0

Worse than being black? Not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:08 AM
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You can get the BW to WM response rate because it’s actually the lowest for BW at a mere 5.4%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:08 AM
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Lol exactly. I’m sure he just wanted to see if they were sexually compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:40 AM
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Yeah but guys like us are in the bottom 5% of height mate. It’s not usual. If your height was a dick, it would be like below 3 inches or something. It’s a serious impediment. Just thank God every day that height and dick size aren’t linked. It could be a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:38 AM
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Not really bro. Being a video game autist who plays grand strategy games for 8 hour sessions will always be unattractive to most women, and most people in general for that matter. Plus it whatever truth it has cuts both ways. No one is gonna give a 10/10 shit for dressing as a cat on Halloween except to neg her maybe. Plain Janes not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:27 AM
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Nah looks being more important in HS is a meme. People are still figuring themselves out (see r/blunderyears) and fail a lot, then look for easy things to blame like looks. People actually get more superficial with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:25 AM
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It has probably happened to every dude ever at some point, knowingly or otherwise. Like I don’t know of any specifically but I’d be surprised if I had never been led on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:24 AM
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Yeah if it’s ever long distance, you should just assume they’re cheating. Just easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:23 AM
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Single fathers usually have no say in if the child was born
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:21 AM
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Whatever bro. You think most of them would have kept that baby? They didn’t have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:15 AM
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My point isn’t that it’s impossible. It certainly is. But after about age 35, the MTTH (mean time to happen) for conception is roughly 2 years. Essentially it’s no longer reliable and you shouldn’t plan or expect to have children there (but certainly you should still take precautions). It’s even more important to take precautions, in my opinion, because health risks for the mother are increased (though still low).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:51 PM
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Yeah lots of hot and bothered teenagers talking about the age women go into menopause with each other. It’s my favorite pillow talk next to discussing how my dick will lose an inch or so by age 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:17 PM
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I fully encourage any woman dumb enough to think she can expect to have a kid at 45 to wait and remove herself from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:16 PM
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I absolutely agree, but it’s significant and noticeable even from a young age. Just denying it isn’t suitable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:54 AM
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I agree. Men totally refuse to accept that their standards are rapidly raising too. I think pointing to this in the context of attractiveness (as you describe it, a points scale) is very abstract and hard to measure. But more materially, standards among men have risen. For instance, single mothers are far less tolerated than they are 20 years ago. That being said, I think the same is true of women to some extent. Everyone is being flooded with attractive people 24/7, be that through porn, social…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:21 AM
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Well okay, sure yeah. But no girl in their 20s will expect a guy of similar age to make 6-figs. Just spending money on them is good enough. In something extremely high stress like a residency or grad school, sure, that’s VERY hard, since you have little free time and little money. You can’t be worried about sloots. But you make that sacrifice consciously before going in (I hope).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:16 AM
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It’ll only get harder the older you get, so start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:14 AM
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Yeah they would rather give up than try, which is the whole point. It’s just emotional venting, not actual solution-making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:13 AM
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Perhaps the majority globally don’t. After all, billions of women live under strict and draconian patriarchy. But in the West, especially among the college educated? A double digit body count is perfectly normal, I am afraid to say. In countries like Sweden, the average woman has 10+ partners. It is truly astonishing, especially given that older generations bring down that average drastically. In the youngest generation, virtually every girl will engage in casual sex at one point or another. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:10 AM
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I wish I went to band camp. My parents sent me to science camp. I never got laid, but I guess I got an alright STEM career instead of delusions of becoming a rock star.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:07 AM
1

MASH intro song
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:58 AM
0

Total irrelevant, difflectionary non-sequitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:57 AM
2

which is the majority of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:56 AM
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So any girl who fell for Ted Bundy is at fault, not Ted Bundy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:56 AM
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This is your daily reminder that the series of comics known as “Black Pill Comics,” heavily circulated in incel and MRA communities, is produced by a self-hating, half-Asian Redditor known as EurasianTiger, a moderator of various Asian identity subreddits. He claims to be the product of a, and I quote, “self-hating Asian mother and a racist white father.” Please do not listen to this mentally disturbed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:53 AM
1

Well, why not? What else makes a man HV?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 AM
1

Yeah, but there will always be a segment of men for whom it is genuinely true. Quadriplegics just have to swallow the black pill and admit most people value attractiveness a great deal. Men like that will be discontent and will complain, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:30 AM
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Most will, but some will doubtlessly linger and only grow more radical, violent, and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:28 AM
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I would never post this if it wasn’t purge week, but the incel to MtF pipeline is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:26 AM
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No, they’re absolutely a cause. Depression and ASD plague the majority of them, and likely would continue to even if they could secure an LTR with a looksmatch/valuesmatch girl. The majority of men who labeled as incels are not incels as such, but are a more moderate, and perhaps more insidious, group of disgruntled failed normals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:23 AM
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I am once again BEGGING older women to DM me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:22 AM
1

Damn girl just @ me next time 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:22 AM
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Essentially because I view things through a strict ideology informed mostly by pop-evolutionary psychology. The idea that women are attracted to strong men who either could provide or, more darkly, could compel women to accept them by force. That makes sense; strong men produce the most resources or have the most force with which to dominate others. So why are softboys beloved? I don’t get it. Well, I do. As a man, I fully understand why someone would want a partner who is sweet, diminutive, cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:20 AM
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AskTRP was hilarious. I remember asking them how to give head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:16 AM
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MindGeek disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:10 AM
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Mate you’re the one who can’t prove you’re sentient lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:09 AM
1

How’s high school going, champ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:07 AM
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If 80/20 rule is BS, why does your man have so many bodies while most men have below 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:06 AM
2

How do you stop counting at 15? Come on bro. Have some self respect and keep the tally at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:04 AM
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Yeah, but just from talking to most people the idea that the average is 5-7 is unthinkable. Like truly, how can it even be that low? I guess you don’t hear from all the zeroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:00 AM
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Okay so a 12 year old getting head from a grown woman is traumatic but a 12 year old having horribly unsafe sex with another 12 year old is fine? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:57 AM
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Not what double think means. I invite you to reread 1984, one of the greatest books of the last century. It’s too complicated for a High Schooler to fully appreciate, which is when they assign it (I read it initially).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:43 AM
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The average age boys see porn is 11, but even sex ed is before that. They absolutely know what sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:40 AM
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I wouldn’t even say exposed. Men openly volunteer it. To some extent, it’s baked into our biology. It is merely something to live , and I will say I think most all men are capable of genuine love in spite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:23 AM
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I agree and I think your last sentence especially is very poignant in its phrasing, but I think the genuine TRP folks wouldn’t be surprised if a tubby and apathetic doughboy couldn’t get anyone. Self-improvement is a core tenant in their gender ideology. That being said, I bet a lot of the guys ranting about women online are like that. They may vocally agree on the importance of self-improvement, but fail to live up to that standard. I can’t say I’m not one of them, at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:21 AM
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Bro they literally say the same shit when men post an obese girl’s Tinder bio demanding a 6 foot demigod. Did you know this, or do you have zero self awareness? I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:13 AM
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It’s funny because incels call themselves “males” all the time. They just talk like Internet autists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:10 AM
0

Keep coping uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:07 AM
1

I would have wanted a blowjob at 12. Shit, I would have wanted one since 10. Give me one at 12 and it’s 2 years too late. Why are you against Kodak Black’s nephew getting one? Sounds like free sexual expression to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:56 AM
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:/ Lol I peeped that as well 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:53 AM
3

all black white supremacy cult NIGGA WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:50 AM
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>5651 posts This man deserves a PhD in Virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:42 AM
0

Yeah orgy porgy very healthy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:40 AM
2

Bro Danny DeVito is like famously ugly (while still not being so ugly that he’s just gross. Quite an interesting line to walk). He isn’t getting raw sexual attraction the way K-pop idols are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:24 AM
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Yes but we don’t understand it so we reject it, without even worrying about how it disproves our beliefs. Girls, just why? I don’t get it. Even serial killers make more sense to me as crushes than K-Pop boys. But girls do like it, and it has real world effects helping my Asian friends get laid so I’ll tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:23 AM
1

Male enhancement surgeries won’t be big for at least another decade. They’re becoming more common in places like Korea though, which will pioneer it for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:21 AM
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Mega cope calling FDS femcels. Sorry bro. They’re getting laid plenty and, if anything, probably get more from men than most girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:47 AM
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Women systematically date older men by an average of 2 years. It’s not as extreme as women pretend men think it is, but it’s certainly real. It’s kind of like saying women don’t like taller guys because once they hit 6’8” they’re too tall. Yeah, the extreme isn’t exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:44 AM
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With an entire roster of women and a penchant for sociopathic manipulation? Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:58 PM
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Little dick faggot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:13 PM
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Post your cock oldfag
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:03 PM
2

Listen man just because they’re down doesn’t mean it’s love or anything serious. Sure, she could have an affair if she wanted to, you win. But it’s not like she could easily find a bond as strong or valuable to her as the one she has with her husband amongst them. That’s not something easily replaced for either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:49 PM
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I feel similarly about a lot of my friends. Dudes just want to come over and play my video games or whatever. They never want to fuck. It’s like, come on bro, do you think I’m a chump? I’m not just gonna let some guy use me as his emotional condom without at least getting some ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:47 PM
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Have you guys never been friends with a girl who is just not your type or - God forbid - ugly? And maybe you’re ugly and she doesn’t like you that way either? You can still be friends, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:45 PM
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Congrats on the funniest post I’ve seen on this shithole subreddit ever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:19 PM
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Because these are men who typically have one or more mental illnesses, most commonly depression or ASD. They disproportionately come from impoverished, broken homes and tend to be isolated socially in a variety of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:18 PM
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I hope it gets better for you bro. Don’t let the loneliness consume you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:15 PM
1

Love Potion #9 remains an excellent movie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:12 PM
2

The irony is that the inside does count for far more, but it’s hard to tell what someone is like inside - harder than ever today. Maybe things will change, but I honestly think they’ll get worse in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:09 PM
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Ah okay I’ll simply become the Steven Hawking of my profession. Hopefully without the genetic defect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:07 PM
3

I truly think most of them who are insecure, schizoid, and introverted enough to end up as RP or even PP are likely to be so paranoid around women that they simply cannot be exploited. We’re talking about men who won’t even pay for her dinner and then brag about it. Their class is a bottomless pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:04 PM
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POST. DICK. PICS. Faggot It can literally only help you bro. Go on r/bigdickjoy and see just how much it does so. Honestly if you’re that big you can probably get some random DMs from here just by proving it. Like if I had an 8 inch dick, I would PRAY for it to be leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:00 PM
1

No, but at the same time I’d kill myself if I could never have sex again so it all balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:57 AM
2

I really don’t see the point of the back and forth. Either way, the men are permanently knee capped romantically based on an immutable characteristic. You’re not even disputing it, just disputing that people even argue to the contrary. You’re basically just arguing it’s even worse than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:55 AM
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Mega ultra turbo cope bro. If you’re so sure, go make a fucking account with any one of those pics. Go make a bio that says you’re a KKK grand wizard. It literally doesn’t matter if you’re hot (and not obviously fake I guess). Better yet, why don’t you compare Grand Wizard Chad to your own profile and then take a stiff drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:49 AM
2

Bro what do I have to do to get PND by women? I am literally in my knees begging for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:47 AM
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Precisely bro, which is why any nonsense about giving them special privileges or resources or respect should be wholesale rejected. They’re the same as us, and would you really marry a man? I think he’d cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:45 AM
1

Guys who would rather jerk off than fuck you Guys who can’t get laid anyhow Guys who are below the 6/6/6 mark that we know women require to even glance in their presence, or even breathe, lest her inner balrog be unleashed and devour the poor pseudo-male whole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:40 AM
2

There literally is no alternative for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:40 AM
2

True, but if he’s doing that he isn’t going to magically be a perfect partner because she put out. You’re describing a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:38 AM
1

fucking purge week lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:35 AM
2

Yeah very true. Anyone who can get intimate details like this should be getting laid. Maybe he just is so disillusioned he doesn’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:34 AM
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Because they can just actually have sex with phenomenally attractive people, retard. Imagine if you could just make a Tinder account and 6/10s were begging to come over before you even finished putting up pics. Would you even type those sad, sad words, “pornhub dot com” ever again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:32 AM
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Don’t worry bro you get to marry them and slowly watch the sex dry up and then get lectured about how sex isn’t a right on the dead bedrooms sub like you’re an incel or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:30 AM
2

You get them when you’re older bro. According to PPD you have to fight post-wall women off with a stick once you turn 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:26 AM
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Post dick pics bro I don’t believe you If it’s as big as you say, you have nothing to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:22 AM
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I completely disagree. While MRA shilling isn’t particularly effective, I truly believe women of the upcoming generation are more inclined towards genuine egalitarianism than they are towards fighting an endless gender war, as past generations of feminists have done (and, indeed, had to do in order to secure their rights). I see online communities, at the very least, becoming more pro-male in areas like alimony and divorce. Conceptions like marriage are more and more disregarded, largely due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:19 AM
1

No, but I go insane when I like the girl and I’ve been practicing a lot lately. Oh I see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:48 AM
1

WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:44 AM
3

It is more or less inevitable that they will be marginalized, in my opinion. They will never be fully accepted by the political left due to their historic complicity in slavery and white privilege more broadly, yet the right will also likely never support their extreme social and economic positions. They will be, and to some extent already are, caught in the middle - as evidenced by the close split of white women between the two parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:42 AM
3

You don’t have to be racist to be a Karen. It’s basically used to shut up any white woman at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:39 AM
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They will never step it up bro. Whites are very last century. Luckily I’m Italian so I can play both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:37 AM
0

You are literally 70% white and LARPing as “Hispanic”, a made up race. Basically all the indigenous people of Puerto Rico were obliterated and if you are mixed, you’re most likely mixed black. Congrats. Only white people can be 70%+ white and “not be white”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:36 AM
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I more or less agree with this and eagerly await them limping back to the political right after they figure out how much the left hates them. Maybe they won’t though. Lots of white men still haven’t figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:34 AM
3

>Greeks >White
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:33 AM
3

It’s more that height is one component of many in looks and different girls weight that differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:31 AM
2

No, it is. It’s bottom 1/3rd of men, so short. I mean it’s not the true suicide zone of 5’6” and below, but it’s short. But a guy like Tom Cruise isn’t hurting for being 5’8” either, even if people know he’s “short”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:29 AM
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I love how of all the things that make life unfair for you, it’s dating. Not wealth inequality so vast that some people walk bare foot so others can ride in luxurious sports cars, not food inequality so vast that people eat themselves to death while children starve, not the thousands of annual rapes and murders, not the innumerable wars and genocides - no! It is dating that made you realize this. They aren’t sending their best folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:19 AM
2

When you read a list of the most prolific serial killers, most despicable tyrants, most unforgivable Wall Street cheats - which gender are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:16 AM
2

If they’re gonna think you’re a hoe, they probably will regardless of your skills 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:08 AM
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I’m 5’6” and I do fine. There’s nothing a good person can’t overcome, but it is real. And when it’s racial, it’s worth talking about. And I say that as a white guy. Also I think you’re 100% right with the recency. Anime and K-pop and other Asian trends have blown up in the West and are at absolute peak popularity. It sounds stupid, but I’ve met plenty of girls obsessed with Asian men. There isn’t stigma against fetishizing them the way there is for other groups, so they tend to be very open abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:05 AM
1

Prostitution is essentially already decriminalized, and alternative methods of sexual gratification (like sex toys or buying Tinder Gold/Platinum/TungstonMAXX edition) are more or less openly accepted, or at least tolerated. It won’t meaningful impact things. Australia has legal prostitution and it hasn’t changed anything there. I hate to tell you this, but you can see a prostitution in any major city in America in under 2 hours tops at any time of day. 99 times out of 100, no one is coming to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:15 AM
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Based comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:05 AM
1

This is true on average but not if you look at the youngest generations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:00 AM
1

No one should be able to call themselves an incel until they actually try to break into a woman-dominated hobby like crochet or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:58 AM
0

This post singularly proves that removing downvotes was a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:00 AM
0

They do when they like the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:56 AM
4

Thanks for a totally irrelevant tangent about how I must be an asshole because I’m bad with women 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:33 AM
4

I’m not judging them for being overweight so much as lamenting the injustice that women literally just have to not eat so much and they’ll be able to get any guy they want. Meanwhile guys can work for years and still be total failures. Yet girls take this massive privilege for granted and decide to give in to the lowest temptation, food. If you can’t resist food, you are literally a dumb animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:26 AM
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It affects you in that everyone likes you less because you are fat, especially the opposite sex. I can find relevant studies if you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:25 AM
1

Yeah but in reality those men probably could get a morbidly obese girl. They don’t want to lose their virginities that way or already have but don’t enjoy that enough to pursue it for consistent sex. Most incels are “vol”cels in that they could fuck somebody just not somebody they are attracted too. I mean, every last one of them could fuck a dude, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:24 AM
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No it’s because higher testosterone, fit, successful dudes are generally just fun to be around - regardless of which sex you are. There’s actually been some studies showing that higher testosterone makes someone more likely to make sacrifices for the group, ie. They’re bigger team-players. It’s certainly still a subject open to debate, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:27 PM
2

There is a middle ground between government mandated GFs and doing literally nothing, as we are now. What about greater out reach to people with ASD (the vast majority of incels)? Basic stuff can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:56 PM
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The Netherlands already has this for disabled people and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:54 PM
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That he’s been married multiple times? Uhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:29 AM
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Usually yes, and of course the US is a diverse yet largely segregated country so average height will vary a lot by who you’re interacting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:28 AM
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Yeah, but on Tinder they don’t have to settle for a dad bod at any height
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:39 AM
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Where is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:54 AM
1

There’s still time at 41 bro. Especially as a person of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:43 AM
1

Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:28 AM
2

Divorce was illegal for centuries actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:09 AM
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Ah yes. I’ll let the guys and gals in r/deadbedroom know that they should just take them out to dinner. Damn, why didn’t they think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:07 AM
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This is too extreme, but it’s true that a sizable minority of men simply cannot vet and I don’t fault them for taking whatever they can get. “They should have higher standards” neglects that they simply cannot have standards, period. For them, all women might as well be trash because it’s the only women they can interact with romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:04 AM
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Odds are those people would have stayed together even without the formal marriage. Also if they’ve been together for 25+ years, they’re from a generation where marriage was expected and perpetual dating would have been more unusual. I guess 25 is only 1996 though. Damn we’re old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:56 AM
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Lots of states, at least in my country, have Common Law marriage which gets around this loophole. My state does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:54 AM
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I sincerely have no clue what the benefit is in an era where women are perfectly happy to have kids for their baby daddies. I guess moderately higher quality women? Maybe if you’re religious it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:39 AM
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I mean you’re the one trying to insult a stranger online for no reason so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:38 AM
2

I honestly think this is the best answer. It’s all downhill from 32 or so no matter how well you age. Mid 20s for men and early 20s for women lines up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:50 AM
6

Post test levels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:43 AM
2

Yeah not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:42 AM
9

Sorry but this is just revenge fantasy posting. Being a white American is an instant +2 in most of the world. This goes for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:41 AM
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Yeah this might be the most retarded post I’ve seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:37 AM
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Perhaps. I wonder if there was a way to see without accounting for the millions (billions?) of malnourished people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:53 PM
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No, it means only a small fraction can really manage it and even in the best case can hardly reproduce at the extent required to sustain our population. The average number of kids in most Western societies is below the 2.2 required for this. It’s even lower if you remove recent immigrants from the figure. In a nation like France, French men have a reproduction rate of something like 1.8. Just pitiful shit that will cause generations of economic problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:22 AM
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Okay, I guess you’re really bright and people who have the money to spend on thousands of dollars of fertility treatments should feel less worried waiting. But the vast majority of people do not and it bottle necks how many kids they can have to 2-3 maximum, even if they can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:17 AM
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Fertility treatments = $$$, and like I said my parents had issues even with them. I mentioned this on your last reply and you ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:52 AM
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Your post is so laughably out of touch that you mentioning dropping 20k on surrogacy per child as something an ordinary family can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:37 AM
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It was definitely less common in an age of untreatable, horrifying STDs, no protection, and religious fundamentalism. Syphilis slowly rots your mind and dick simultaneously bro. I would be a volcel for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:16 AM
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Yeah, my parents told me that if I had been born defective, I would have been aborted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:14 AM
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Bro I am absolutely 100% telling you right now that it is about my future wife’s fertility and my own family’s experience with fertility issues. If you don’t believe me, you’re genuinely an unempathetic and spiteful person. I am opening up about my family to you to explain my view and you’re throwing it back at me. Oh wow I can’t wait to abort my child. What a wonderful notion to keep in mind as we try for a child. Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:13 AM
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Yes a billionaire and a sports super star can afford to wait to have children. Surely regular, ordinary people should too. I’m sure your reasons for putting off children are just as important as organizing a billion dollar corporation and being the greatest woman athlete of a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:59 AM
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The answer is simply what you refuse to accept. Fertility drops off dramatically after age 30. Infertility is perfectly normal for women 35+. My parents had difficulty conceiving just 2 children in their early 30s and did not have more. Drugs and fertility treatments are expensive and risky. Frequently you can have issues like twins. Even if they succeed, the risk of birth defects is even higher than a normally-conceived child’s would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:56 AM
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No, it absolutely is about reduced fertility, health, and - yes - the horrifying possibility of a deformed child being born unnecessarily. My parents waited and had fertility issues. Waiting makes absolutely no sense for someone like me, who has fertility issues in his familial history. It is absolutely something people care about and are justified in caring about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:45 AM
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No the average person is certainly getting wealthier, fitter (even taller), is less likely to have prior children, and so on. Expectations are rising on both sides in terms of these, to be blunt, superficial standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:37 AM
1

I strongly urge you to make a Tinder account for someone you think is average and see the struggle for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:34 AM
1

I find this perplexing because it seems like men today offer less than ever. They’re less masculine, less wealthy in relative terms to their spouses, more likely to divorce you, and so on. They don’t really offer much on average because a young woman today can achieve almost all of what a young man can, barring a few things like priesthood or being in the Navy Seals. In the raw and unsoftened patriarchy of pre-industrial society, men offered resources and women offered family. The transaction wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:22 AM
1

Fair enough yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:57 PM
2

You are not an attractive man either bro. Sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:57 PM
2

I mean have you ever slept with a white man? Then 50/50 they were a Trump supporting conservative. If they were above the age of 30, it only goes higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:08 PM
2

You do, you were just deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:46 PM
1

The thing is that they aren’t using the men on PPD. It goes into AF/BB. For most men here, that knowledge is genuinely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:43 PM
2

Post face and we’ll see who the incel is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:42 PM
3

It’s literally all men except whiny white liberals on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:28 PM
3

If the virgins cheat, you think the hoes don’t? If what you say is true, it just means there’s no hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:22 PM
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I think you might be reading too much into this mate. She could just be hot. Apparently she likes diet soda so I’d believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:35 PM
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Yeah but it’s weird and childish and rare, even for a total degenerate like me. I remember a comedy skit on College Humor that mentioned it. More of a weird puberty thing that is conflated with genuine crushes than anything. Perhaps some actual grown men are so far gone they would gladly cross this line, but I’d hate to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:32 PM
1

What the fuck have some goddamn self-respect woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:31 PM
1

By making that about 50% of what they do, directly or indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:30 PM
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The problem is that virginity is prized in women, but most prized by men who are virgins themselves. Meaning it is desired most by the lowest value men, generally speaking and disregarding youngsters. This is an untenable dynamic, of course. Also remember that women are less likely to be virgins, lose their virginities earlier, and have sex more frequently than men, on average and only among cishets. There is a continuous surplus of virgin men, even if they were somehow paired up one-to-one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:27 PM
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Because I read the studies that show it’s objectively better if she’s a virgin. I mean, it’s better if I am too but I can’t undo that. I fully encourage women to pursue virgin men if they feel that’s hypocritical. Sadly the best places to find them all got banned off Reddit so you might have to go to 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:16 PM
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In Islam, traditionally the man is supposed to love all his wives equally (within reason) but I see your point. Certainly polygamy/hypergamy played a role, no one is doubting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:03 AM
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Well I assume you don’t hold resentment to virgin men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:55 AM
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This is a wonderful collection of misleading studies. For instance, men do feel worse about their partners with age. So what? That has literally nothing to do with being “visual” and everything to do with maximizing partner fertility. Male fertility simply does not diminish with age (as greatly, it still does hence the aversion to older men in the extreme). The key flaw in the article you quote is that physical attractiveness IS a marker of male fertility. Higher testosterone, larger genitals, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:46 AM
1

a fast metabolism Bro stfu the only thing you have is a poor understanding of biology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:35 AM
1

5 is an entire standard deviation below the average, and 7 is an entire standard deviation above it. All told, 5-7 encompasses about 66% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:33 AM
1

Such a pointless discussion. Every time it’s “yes it’s bigger, but luckily so much blood will rush from his head (to his head) that he’ll forget about foreplay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:32 AM
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I’m sorry bro. Check out jelqing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:30 AM
2

No picture is going to be hot enough to fix a 2-1 ratio against men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:29 AM
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What even is this retort? Just bigotry that all virgins are puritanical? Can you really not think of a single reason why someone might wait to have sex besides religion? For all your mewling about promiscuous being insulting, you seem to have a lot of resentment towards women who didn’t make the same choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:24 AM
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I really don’t think sex work will become more tolerated. Quite the opposite, in fact. It will literally haunt them and their children and their spouse forever. Globally sex tourism and prostitution are being rolled back, even if pornography is more present. It’s likely that less women work or have worked in sex work than ever before in human history. Edit: not to come off as vindictive or anything. I don’t really think kids should be bullied or think that’s fair or anything, but I do think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:20 AM
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Even if what you said was true, women would at least still have the option of socially-accepted and affordable and relatively safe surgery. Men have similar cut-offs in height, dick size, and so on but no solution exists for them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:10 AM
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Her body is great for being morbidly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:09 AM
1

I’m so sick of it man. I just want society to be normal again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:09 AM
2

It’s inherently flawed certainly but it’s an interesting discussion that’s worth having
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:08 AM
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I have yet to see this actually proven by anything remotely conclusive. All scientific studies appear to show that both sexes are equally “visual” or that women are slightly more visual but not a dramatic extent. To me it just seems like wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:02 AM
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The majority of that “less than half of men reproduced” stuff was due to infant mortality and the like. Also remember that people whose progeny failed to propagate into the future didn’t count. So maybe you had two kids, but one was gay and the other died in a war. Both may have lived long after you died, but technically you “didn’t pass down your genes” and genetic analysis wouldn’t pick you up in our ancestral record (which is how such stats are calculated). Throughout history, some groups hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:05 PM
2

Truly asinine that you think this is a meaningful and fulfilled life that most women would even remotely consider. Single motherhood by choice? Are you fucking crazy? Christ. Please do not having children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:01 PM
4

More like the Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:58 PM
1

That’s kind of precisely the problem bro. AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:55 PM
1

I can think of nothing worse than sleeping with hundreds of women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:40 AM
2

I hope not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:18 PM
3

Yeah I’m sure you’re a real prize bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:53 PM
2

Truly enlightened comment bro. Meanwhile in reality I think half of TRP is engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:20 PM
1

They would if he was hot enough. I guess you can say that for anything though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:17 PM
1

What makes you say you aren’t suited for parenthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:16 PM
3

That guy could literally rip your tits off with his bare hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:00 PM
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I think a lot of boys legitimately grow up with the impression that women aren’t as “visual” as men, when in truth they are just as visual if not more so according to some studies on the importance of attractiveness in relationships. So they know it matters, but they fall for what Gimpgirl called “simping for men”. I believe that. Body positivity for men, more or less. “Size doesn’t matter” is a good example. I legit thought this until I started having sex lol Women are taught that men are liars…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:50 PM
0

Like I said, my DMs are open
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:15 PM
0

No I think it takes more consistent failure than getting PnD’d once. Surely most of these promiscuous women online have had such experiences, but one or two recently isn’t enough to make them so jaded. It’s a lifetime of such things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:05 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:53 PM
-1

Those people are truly disgusting bro. The Bible calls them an abomination. Fitting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:33 PM
5

I mean I just see pictures of gay men kissing and I’m disgusted bro so I think I know lol I would consider being a top if I was in prison or something, but again I’m a manlet bro there’s no way I can be wrestling cons to the ground for the bussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:14 PM
1

I seriously can’t imagine ever being a bottom and I’m a manlet so it’s a rough combination being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:02 PM
0

I am absolutely ready to be used for sex. I guess you can’t really lie to me because you don’t need to. That’s fair. But I am 100% down for whatever you’re describing. My DMs are open. Imo a more apt comparison is men being lied to by women in order to trap them in a relationship. Ie. My n-count is 4, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:58 PM
3

Get off of this website kid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:55 PM
9

Men have plenty of emotional depth, but the world does not afford them the opportunity to express or maintain it. It has to be deliberately marginalized most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:54 PM
2

Because they physically cannot perform a sex act with another man without losing their erection, because they are straight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:53 PM
0

I would love to experience it, and that alone should show you which is better lol I am BEGGING women to “fuckzone” me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:51 PM
2

I’m sure a similar dynamic can happen to men, but it’s much less likely because men - on average - have far fewer options than women. It simply makes no sense for the average man to remain a bachelor until 40. Most single men that age have less than one unique sex partner a year. Pretty rough. The thing to remember is that RP men are convinced that they can get women who are at least 5-10 years younger. For them, the clock is far less pressing. Whether or not this actually happens has been discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:45 AM
1

She just messaged him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:53 AM
1

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:52 AM
1

Sure, and women are usually getting financial services and whatever else from men. Most relationships that a person lingers in offer him/her some sort of benefit. What explains it is that men have few options, whereas a woman can find a man to buy her dinner in literally minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:44 AM
2

Man if I could be a house-spouse to a 5/10 it would be a dream come true. I know I could do it easily if I was a woman, but I’m a man so it’s literally imposible. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:42 AM
2

Yeah enjoy watching her lose all interest in you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:39 AM
5

Till their relationship is literally at a breaking point and totally intimacy starved? Yeah okay maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:38 AM
1

The strategy as a man is to put out low effort because only highly interested girls will respond. Since most, or at least many, conversations will lead no where, it’s best to whittle down to the matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:33 AM
1

Men receive higher sentences for the same crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:28 AM
1

Yeah they said that before Nam too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:26 AM
1

This is more like the standard reality of dating women in LTRs than anything to do with her situation in particular. Most men in LTRs are not the most attractive man the woman has been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:46 AM
1

I would love if women befriended me to try and date me, so I’m just treating them the way I’d like to be treated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:43 AM
1

In theory, but in practice anyone who has been scorned that long will cling on for dear life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:34 AM
1

Whatever bro you can only fall for that stuff if your parents are total cuckolds who let the public schools and TV raise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:23 PM
2

Just find a woman who likes games too problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:21 PM
-1

Ok sure man once you simply give up on reproducing point blank, it’s not so bad. Kind of a big sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:17 PM
7

You’re right that it’s getting worse, but it’ll be WAY worse for men than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:09 PM
10

The ones who can get with high schoolers can also get same aged girls. Same with ones who can get older women. You either made it or you didn’t. Age is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:02 PM
0

sex isn’t about responsibilities, also lick the box scrote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:26 AM
6

Sorry bro but the vast majority of women are trash at sex and positions like cowgirl are just beyond them. Literally none of my partners have been able to maintain it for any real length of time and I was only able to finish from it maybe once or twice (because I had been warmed up thoroughly in other positions and was trying to finish). It’s a porn thing, imo. I sincerely would love to meet the women you know, but they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:24 AM
1

Yeah imagine having to communicate with your sex partners 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:21 AM
1

Even the Taliban opposes the practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:13 AM
1

Don’t worry bro. Literally every man who ever lived thinks more women fucked = better man. Just know that is 100% natural and not at all from the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:09 AM
8

I think the same applies to gals, no? It makes sense that the most promiscuous select few of each gender is getting a majority of the early sex, so that most people lose it to the most promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:05 AM
10

Okay bro I’m sure you know exactly what some random woman on Reddit is going to do sexually 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:03 AM
5

Sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:02 AM
-3

19 Take a seat over there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:01 AM
22

A lot of people want to be SAH parents simply will never be able to afford it, sad to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:53 AM
3

I’m gonna call bullshit as well. ER was never worshipped outside of 4chan or maybe the incel subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:28 PM
1

Sex is far more than “making” your partner finish 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:11 PM
1

I’m not being rude. Hard truths just cut both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:52 PM
1

Lol if you think women know how to work a dick. Most of them are trash at it, especially if they have to use their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:41 PM
3

Well if you tried the 7/11, it’s over bro. Nothing gets a bitch barking like a slurpee. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:17 PM
12

No she wasn’t. They both worked at a hedge fund, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:58 AM
8

It’s true. It’s so much nicer to just date the girls who finish from PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:53 AM
10

Or at the very least, deeply warped by egocentrism. Unreliable narrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:15 AM
1

Let me know if you want any dieting tips. It’s pretty easy once you know how to count calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:25 PM
2

Stay mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:22 PM
2

Honestly I’m a die-hard FPHer, that’s all. But you guys are a drain on the medical system and whatever. Once a fattie, always a fattie. It’s true. But she looks a lot better now at a healthy BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:54 PM
2

Yeah, so what? I deserve to be bashed, as do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:07 PM
3

She’s not fat anymore lol I bash them IRL too. Don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:28 PM
1

I have a gf and she lost 50 lbs since she started dating me 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:18 PM
1

They have the highest fertility rate in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:39 AM
2

What a pivot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:38 AM
3

Certain cases, like automatically losing custody because you’re in prison, are included as “men not seeking custody” when really they are legally denied it. Compounded with the fact that men receive greater sentences for the same crimes, it creates an inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:33 AM
3

Marriage is a scam for whoever invests more, because the other person can blow it up at any time, for any reason and come out ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:31 AM
1

Honestly one of the problems with Reddit is people have no idea who they’re talking to. No one would assume you’re one of the 2-3 women with a single partner who’s active here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:29 AM
1

The sex drive is way higher + you can’t get sex, only relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:27 AM
3

I think there’s very few well adjusted, competent people around these days and unfortunately they are very valuable, regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:22 AM
9

That thing guys do where they get married to “prove people wrong”? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:21 AM
48

“Why don’t poor people just cut back on expenses?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:19 AM
4

Yeah I am mad, honestly. How hard is it to switch to diet soda?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:14 AM
5

Such a great film
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:08 AM
2

If you’re the kind of guy who can’t get casual sex, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:05 AM
12

It’s genuinely laughable that you think women never settle down with men they aren’t attracted to. Have you seen most men? Get real bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:03 AM
7

BC can be thought of as tricking the woman’s body into thinking it is already pregnant, which has accompanying psychological effects. Relevant to our discussion, it causes them to pick less masculine men. Generally, people believe this is because such men are more likely to invest in their children (or whoever’s child it is). The effect isn’t massive and hearing it for the first time can sound somewhat ludicrous, but there are studies to back it up. The “beta bux” explanation is more of an after…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:01 AM
1

No, they also want to use it for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:15 PM
2

Sure but you're going to end up old and alone too. You don't get that much more time than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:11 PM
1

Military drafts are actually very common abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:15 AM
1

Yeah but it’s not as immoral as it was prior to the 1960s, because what are the consequences? Certainly better than bastard children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:03 AM
2

Rape is bad CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:01 AM
0

Not really and honestly usually people who get upset about it are the ones who slept around already
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:48 AM
0

Yeah they literally don’t give a fuck bro. It’s kind of endearing in a way. They will walk right over you if you’re dying on the street. Just look at how they refuse to even wear masks. Muh freedom. I assume other places are the same way, at least to outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:21 AM
4

The top 10% will never be like that. The rest of us, probably so. All the more reason to get top tier men when you’re not getting a paternal investment anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:14 AM
1

So you prefer community dick? Or do you value purity in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:01 AM
1

Those 4 things mean less than 5% of men are “Chad”. We know that the 80/20 rule is in play, so it should be simply the top 20% of men. Perhaps men with any 2 of those things (and otherwise alright, of course, though this is implied in your post too).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:58 PM
0

You should be trying to get married and have kids if you’re a late 20s man bro. Otherwise you’re going to end up with 1-2 and you’ll be in your late 30s without the energy to raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:55 PM
2

So called grey divorce is on the rise, yes. Pretty brutal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:54 PM
1

Maybe that’s more true now as the site has become more mainstream, but I think it’s deeply optimistic to think that people actively posting on Reddit aren’t less attractive than people posting on Instagram. Facebook is for Boomers and I don’t think it’s a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:30 PM
2

Of course they can cheat. It’s just that a girl with a double digit body count (literally the average woman in some countries, like Sweden) is 14x more likely to cheat than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:43 PM
0

I don’t have any anxiety disorders bro. I’m ADD though. They are high value. Their antithesis, being promiscuous women, are low value. It’s a tale as old as humanity itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:27 PM
0

It’s funny how girls will deny their supposed soulmates sexual gratuity that they know he wants, that virtually all men want. Do they not think Tinderella knows how to swallow? Surely deliberately giving my life partner sub-par sex cannot end badly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:26 PM
3

Is it really that hurtful to tell a woman she’s bad at sex? She has a right to know and it’s not like girls pop out of the womb w skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:02 PM
1

It’s a pointless discussion. Low value, virgin men aren’t getting virgin women anyway. They get the most promiscuous, lowest value women. The obsession with chastity is reactionary to the women they’re made to settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:51 PM
1

Can it happen with other forms of antidepressants? I do think a lot of the “LVM” stuff is just depressed men. That does make them low value - technically - in the same way that a paraplegic is a low value mate. They’re somewhat incapacitated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:49 PM
0

Everyone over 25 is a Boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:46 PM
7

I don’t think they’re crying for Reddit girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:43 PM
7

I think the feedback loop is much more reinforced by free time (for exercise/make up) and money (for braces/augmentations/hair treatments), than it is anything genetic. Facial attractiveness is a very narrow genetic window. It’s easy to miss it, or find a good one from two unattractive people. I remember seeing a Miss France winner (obviously stunning) with her parents and they were disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:41 AM
14

Honestly all fat people know they should get in shape. Just telling them about it doesn’t motivate them, or else they would have likely already changed. I know I did once I was about 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:51 AM
28

It’s definitely not just weird fetishes. I’ve seen a lot of male sexual issues (premature, being unable to finish, difficulty maintaining erection) blamed on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:49 AM
2

Honestly I truly believe at least 50% of the problem is early diagnosis of and intervention for ASD and some other behavioral disorders. Autism has the highest fertility impact of any mental illness (pretty much all have a strong, negative one). Rise of inceldom and male autism seems inextricably linked, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:29 PM
1

Why the unnecessary beta/alpha shit? Men rebound more than women do. They use Jane to console them until they find a Stacey? Lol Pretty sure they just wanted a pick-me-up. No wolf shit necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:06 PM
2

It’s socialization 101 bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:57 PM
-1

Whatever. If they really love you, they just want you to be happy don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:56 PM
1

I agree that they’re being very anal about the word choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:54 PM
0

I pay my taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:54 PM
5

I have no idea how you think being an incel won’t take years off someone’s life. It is a miserable and lonely experience, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:52 PM
10

The trouble is that they aren’t going anywhere. Their numbers will only multiply, especially as the phenomenon goes global. Without understanding them, how are we going to stop that? Even with understanding, I doubt it’s possible. We’re already at a terror attack every 3-4 years. There’s no reason to think this problem can’t get a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:48 PM
8

Some salty Ukrainian made this bot and now we all have to listen to it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:04 PM
1

Hey at least some of the N count ones use real studies. Not like the “what is she did anal” ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:01 PM
1

Fair enough. I was overzealous with that phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:35 AM
1

Honestly pair bonding is just bad form in a world where people casually cheat on and divorce each other without consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:21 AM
1

Sure but divorce rates are for both, so sure women are happier in the marriages that remain. I don’t even really think the data says that though. They probably just had a low sample size for high n-count women (especially the 21+ champs).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:18 AM
2

I’ve found all the explanations for the 2 partner phenomenon pretty dissatisfying though so I’ve usually thought of it just as some error. It would seem odd to wait until marriage (or the marriageable person) but only after one previous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:14 AM
2

Why are women saying this as if it’s some kind of own? Few people dispute it and studies confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:11 AM
2

Yes but it’s more true of women than men. But it’s still true of men, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:08 AM
1

Usually award winning characters don’t make Tinder accounts, in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:55 AM
1

Everyone is lazy when they can be 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:54 AM
1

Probably for the best cause it’s hard not to envy them. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:52 AM
3

Honestly calling MGTOWs pussies who gave up on life is quite fitting imo. They’re playing it safe, far too safe, and that decision is self-reinforcing because dating only gets harder as you age (even more so if you were on the bench the whole time)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:49 AM
1

This might be the worst possible reason. You should just point out that penalties for assailing or robbing women tend to be higher or something, but that this is warranted because women can less easily protect themselves (on average ofc). Not really a satisfying answer, but it’s better than some misandrist ravings about how men have more money to rob or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:44 AM
1

not just if he’s an incel or anything, but if he gets caught up in any cult-like community with a history of violence, you should probably intervene literally ASAP. Even if you’re a selfish prick, people will judge you by your children and you should try to help them turn out normal enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:42 AM
1

Come on is it really a complete genetic failure to be ugly? Why do you think God let us have plastic surgery, if not to correct His mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:40 AM
2

I mean if he’s a self-identified incel, odds are he has issues bigger than attractiveness that will need substantial time to correct. Sure, attractiveness is probably a big issue, but almost everyone can get laid even the most ugly people. It’s less than 4% of men, and that includes men who stay celibate by choice (they really do exist).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:36 AM
1

I’m sure you have a lot of friends. Guys who get pissed online always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:37 AM
1

You fail to see how you’re the ones acting shitty, of course. Whatever. I guess if you were deep thinkers you wouldn’t be on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:05 PM
1

Oh man would hate if the girls I sleep with constantly auditioned to be my wife and went full pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:49 AM
1

You know bigly is a real world, right? If he had used largely in that context, it would have been incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:49 PM
1

Finally someone asking the important questions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:47 PM
4

They just go around yelling about shrimp dicks instead, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:35 PM
3

I can assure you that my dick is literally the only physical trait I have that I’m proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:10 PM
2

You seem to be fixated on shrimp dicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:06 PM
4

To some extent, kind of. But Western civilizations experienced absolutely unprecedented population growth from about the 1700s to 1960s. The growth is even more massive when you consider that we're looking only at Europe. Europe's many colonies like America, Australia, South Africa, etc. all exploded in European population at the same time. Until the advent of birth control, our entire society was essentially constructed around endless population boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:59 PM
2

If they aren't consenting, it's rape. Are prostitutes being raped by having sex purchased from them? No. Are gold diggers being raped when they sleep with a man (or woman) purely for their resources? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:56 PM
2

Because you're 65 and can't get a 23 y/o for free? I guess that's pathetic? Show me the men who can get them for free, and maybe we can discuss what movies we like seeing them in because they're probably famous actors. Is it pathetic to not be able to do what no one else can do? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:50 PM
1

There's plenty to dislike about prostitution that might keep someone from doing it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:48 PM
2

The moral equivalent of supporting Big Tobacco but hating smokers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:44 PM
1

95% of straight men will never fully understand their own sexuality. Honestly not even worth worrying about as a man. You're lucky if you can get consistent sex from a woman you are straight up just plainly attracted to. I always have sympathy for men who monkey branch or stray in a relationship because odds are they didn't even know what they wanted before they got into it, though scientifically experienced men are actually more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:42 PM
1

Presumably because they are outraged by impovershed women being imprisoned for solicitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:40 PM
3

Honestly low key it kind of is, but no one will ever agree with you unless they've been that depressed guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:39 PM
1

Yeah but prostitution is a particularly expensive habit to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:37 PM
1

they are the only ones who pay them to leave. I can't imagine actually believing this shit lol Pay them to leave? Are you crazy? Is she going to overpower you and force you to let her sleep over? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:36 PM
1

14% of American men have paid for sex at some point in their lives. How many guy friends do you have? Is it more than 10? If so...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:35 PM
2

So your fear is some nonsensical stereotypes that are only loosely connected with the thing you're disgusted by?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:33 PM
1

Perhaps not literally all men, certainly not all men, all the time or anything. But all types of men lie to get laid. She attributes their lies exclusively to them being Conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:31 PM
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