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| 1 | Video showing TRP has always been true | Red Pill Example | Prize-Thought-4205 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 06:47 PM |
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| 3 | It is unbelievable how hostile the mainstream is to even the most innocent attempt by men to "learn" anything dating, courtship or romance-relatedWell of course women want men who have sexual success and experience with other beautiful women otherwise the man is defective or a terrible evil human being. Just like with the halo effect and appearances, women view men without a lot of experience as defective, bad character. Your actual character, morals, ethics all mean nothing to them on a biological level. Nice girls are seen as the peak of attractiveness for men but most nice are disgusting and evil to women, they must only be nice becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?I can’t help but think of all the white suburban housewives that go on crazy cheating escapees to get away from a really boring husband that doesn’t satisfy their desire or emotions in bed. The truth is men can orgasm all they want but it will build resentment and a feeling she should be with some mysterious other man if the women isn’t orgasming multiple times during sex as well. Or if she or the guy don’t care about sex that much if she’s not happy & fulfilled in the relationship as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?The thing is women have ingrained a lot of messaging of being independent and not controlled by anyone or anything, especially MEN because they are ALL evil and none of them will treat you like a cherished human being or respectful if you are submissive & docile to them they will just take advantage of you until they break you or your spirit. This is the main messaging, whether it’s true or not is entirely irrelevant. If a women feels controlled or smothered in a marriage… marriage is not for li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?I think it’s overblown on here how many men lie about wanting a LTR to get laid, maybe in the early stages of dating. Only men outside of the top 10% would ever need to lie or hide the truth or lie by omission to have casual nowadays since casual sex is so expected due to women’s fear if they aren’t sleeping with him another women is, or participate in hook up culture. Which is the majority of men but you have to remember the majority of men also just prefer relationships with the women they’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Only men outside of the top 10% would ever need to lie or hide the truth or lie by omission to have casual nowadays that it’s so expected, or participate in hook up culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Well OP you see after women have all their fun in their college years, and do the wildest stuff imaginable with all those guys over summer break, spring break, winter break (cuffing season), and of course throughout the semesters the theory is they get it all out of their system, and some if they still never found a man to partner up & experience life with still continue the party animal thing into their mid 20s. The idea of the RP is that men get the worse possible deal now with marrying all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Everyone knows this stuff lol it begins on a biological level, women have few eggs while boys that have went through puberty has billions of sperms. This evolves to a societal level & how everyone treats the "men getting girls" thing and builds into the psyche of women that they shouldn't just pick any guy & have to be choosier. So that's the base default, now what happens later on in life as they get to adulthood? Women have a lot more experience dating than the average guy, this means they exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Does sex equal attraction?That’s what happens when a generation is raised with so much instant gratification and commodifying everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Does sex equal attraction?Well this scenario just isn’t realistic, even the most modest women that are non virgins and not waiting to marriage or doing it for religious reasons or serious abstinence from all sexual intimacy for mental health reasons would do it within 3 months of dating the guy. In fact the only reason a women wouldn’t sleep with a man she’s attracted to that long in is if she’s getting all her needs met by another guy. For many modern women? I’d reckon you can make this as short as one month. High schoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Does sex equal attraction?The problem is if she has ant actual feelings for Dylan sleeping with another guy while they’re dating can disturb that, we all know all the bonding chemicals women release from sex and we can assume she’s orgasming since she keeps going back. The truth is Dylan and her likely wouldn’t end up together in reality because he knows that she is not submitting to him or giving him anything. She’s more into the man she’s actually sleeping with, not only because she chose to put out for him in the firs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Does sex equal attraction?Holy fuck, this scenario has happened to me so many times if feels disheartening, countless women do this now a days and it fucks with your head so much because of all the pain men feel over parental security | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdYup if anything I’ve had female “friends” try to block me away from their female friends even though I wasn’t even going after them and I’m okay looking, we’re both single. There’s no hard feelings but in real life a lot of women want to feel like their friends belong to them and so if another mutual friend begins a relationship with them they will feel you’re stealing their good friend away or something, idk why girls do the things they do but that’s my assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Cmv: The cold approach should be socially acceptable.Yeah men here are coping hard lol cold approach is infinitely easier than online dating, the thing is approach anxiety & fear of rejection is very powerful and hurts mens egos so they don’t like it, the sad thing is most of my cold approaches turned out to be very positive interactions even if I did get a polite rejection, if you act creepy or keep trying to get her number or a date or whatever after she showed she doesn’t want to that’s when you open yourself up for very uncomfortable situation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:38 PM |
| -1 | CMV: FDS women are in no position to have the requirements that they doThe reality is if men wanted them for more than sex they wouldn’t be single past 22, having “options” is not something to brag about for any girl that is even a bit below average looking. Unless they are all really high quality men that obviously want to court them as a long time partner & not just sex. Just like having a huge n count or being proud about it is nothing to gloat about for beautiful women, the penis envy & thinking it means the same thing is real lol. They must have dated dozens i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 09:55 PM |
| -3 | CMV: FDS women are in no position to have the requirements that they doThe problem of all the FDS women isn’t always their appearances it’s their personality & attitudes towards life, it’s disgusting. And just because men are married it doesn’t mean they have the healthiest or happiest relationships or won’t end up divorced. Most men in the top 10% in America by all standards will literally drop down from wanting a 7/10 appearance girl for marriage to 5/10 if she is submissive, agreeable, never gives him any headache or problems. The FDS women are terrifying for an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What is a feminine woman?This is such a perfect way to describe the dynamic. The internet doesn't hear a lot from people who are in very healthy & happy relationships, especially those who don't feel they have any major problems about themselves to work on or fix, are just chilling enjoying life & working with their partners. So its very easy for younger people to just think this is impossible & everyone is suffering because the happiest couples are a silent majority, when dysfunction and toxicity are seen as the norm p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:58 PM |
| -3 | What is a feminine woman?Career climbing, age, heart breaks/resentment & trauma from past men they were in love with & fully submitted to otherwise known as "alpha widow" in TRP's terminology, many other variables you can imagine can potentially permanently decrease a women's femininity but not always. Correlation does not equal causation. Every single straight man is biologically attracted to this. HOWEVER, nurture, culture, and how a man was brought up, influenced by in this world can alter & change this ... the base … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?Yeah the problem is the bonding chemicals released when women have sex, especially when they orgasm. Unless her pair bonding is just completely fried up then she won’t care about it at all… which in that case she won’t be good for any man to long term relationship, it will be neigh impossible no matter how strong her values of monogamy are. Tbh women should just only sleep with husbands after losing their V and getting whatever out of their systems. Because so many women give sex, even full on s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 18 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Also, I don’t believe the whole Stacy Beckie Chad nonsense but it is true you see a lot of stereotypical nerdier girls that are decent looking do also sleep with the stereotypical “chad” like guys in college and are even fine with being in a roster for him. This contributes to why some guys of the same hobbies, personality, character, interests etc and okay looking but nerdy guys can’t get into a LTR with them until after college or after they are done with their party phase. In high school ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:08 PM |
| 20 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Just like women lie out there asses a lot of the time irl they do it online too, some just have no conscious idea, and it’s really clear when it happens. Sometimes it’s insightful and nice to hear the perspective of women who are telling their version of the truth & aren’t just coming up with bs excuses or nonsense rationale, saying “that’s not true!!!” but giving zero alternative arguments to what is true, just claiming it’s not true and some even insinuate the OP must be an incel for theorizin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Is Billy Beta happy?You have to understand OP most women treat men who have everything going for them extremely well so they have no reason not to be happy or fall into any of these ideologies unless she cheats with a man she said she hated or whatever thing women do to break a guys reality. If she divorces him or something out of the blue or stops being submissive and kind, having enjoyable sex with the “BB” multi millionaire celebrity guitarist dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyIt’s the same reason women can’t see when they say things like “where are all the good men” “the bar is on the floor, if a man literally just respects me I’d be so in love with him” they are talking about specific men lol, and why men get so triggered or upset hearing women spam the same lines of complaint all the time, maybe they were once that guy that tried to be a loyal amazing boyfriend to this hopelessly single girl complaining about “bad boys” who aren’t really and but that’s another disc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyMaybe they do know, especially with open relationships and girls just accepting guys don’t want them for serious LTRs but still really really desire sleeping with them more & more in this modern day. But they are willfully ignorant to believing they will never be chosen for a LTR and serious relationship with this man, due to something called solipsism a lot of girls think they’re super special and the main character of this world, this combined with consuming too much media & everyone giving be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?Being a women 18 to 30 that’s in the top 20% of looks in first world countries is like on easy mode… but keep in mind many choose to work for themselves and not just be given everything or provided for in adulthood, and many just aren’t connected to the young wealthy men who could just provide them everything in exchange fro their beauty so they have no choice unless they go into things like Onlyfans, use the internet to pimp out their own bodies to… countless strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyOmg this question is asked like every single year on the internet lol young guys have too much insecurity if they think women knowingly are like this & want that, they might do it not knowing they are one of many girls he uses, or knowing & getting excited, seeing him as more valuable since he only wants them for that but what kind of human being would choose temporary bull **** over a healthy loving relationship? That’s just sad and depressing, women aren’t these terrible decision makers guys m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:06 PM |
| 0 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Yeah the problem is that dominant or masculine or disagreeable women will cause many problems that eventually end the relationship. Women in the middle might not be bad so they have no true perspective of any of this despite not being able to view things & experience all the ways women behave subconsciously. But agreeable and really submissive, sweet women are the best and easiest to have a healthy relationship around … assuming you’re a masculine guy with all his shit together and no major prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:05 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversAww man this is toxic lol this is another one of those it depends on context and situations thing, in the hook up culture “hoe” market then yeah if you treat a girl like the latter she might assume you care too much about her or don’t have options. But if it’s a meaningful relationship it can make some girls not want to be with you anymore or think you just see them as some f toy, don’t care about being tender to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.Holy shit, this is scary spot on, this is how it was for most women I’ve met after discovering their past… this is scary what the fuck. Could there be some science behind this? Do the first men most women have their early experience with really strongly determine & shape their perception of the world, how great or bad or meh sex is that much? This can’t be true… but is it? Just because you don’t want something to be reality or very close to the truth doesn’t mean it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Yup, never met a man who got a good amount of experience in high school that ever struggled with women at all in college or post college life. If anything they're likely to easily have harems if they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Oh wow omg, you guys, you guys are killing me lol I can’t stop laughing, never thought this sub would bring me so many tears & smiles, lol wow you guys almost actually killed me I choked on my breakfast. But nah lol I probably believed the same thing at some point in time when I was younger. Women love sex a lot more then men do OP. Men just want sex a lot more than women. And since women already have sex they are often more satisfied if they have a good sex partner, or even if they’re completel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Oh wow omg, you guys, you guys are killing me lol I can’t stop laughing, never thought this sub would bring me so many tears & smiles, lol wow you guys almost actually killed me I choked on my breakfast. But nah lol I probably believed the same thing at some point in time when I was younger. Women love sex a lot more then men do OP. Men just want sex a lot more than women. And since women already have sex they are often more satisfied if they have a good sex partner, or even if they’re completel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Oh wow omg, you guys, you guys are killing me lol I can’t stop laughing, never thought this sub would bring me so many tears & smiles, lol wow you guys almost actually killed me I choked on my breakfast. But nah lol I probably believed the same thing at some point in time when I was younger. Women love sex a lot more then men do OP. Men just want sex a lot more than women. And since women already have sex they are often more satisfied if they have a good sex partner, or even if they’re completel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Wow, this is the most organic & human thing written on this subreddit in maybe... ever. Sadly, I feel like it will fly above a lot of men's heads though. Men in scarcity can't feel sympathy for women's struggles, trying to meet all of societies & men's sex appeal standards of being an attractive looking woman while also not wanting to be dehumanized & only seen as a person by men for what they can get out of you. The true reason women mature so much faster is because they see the darkest & uglie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment?too long didn’t read is just what women and some men write on Reddit when they don’t want to read something they know it’s true since it applies to them & goes against their view of life. This is like a father or dad figure telling women things they don’t want to hear even though it would benefit their life because it’s more difficult to take responsibility & accountability, instant gratification is easier for young girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Social media has become too sexualizedYup if everyone has it no one talks about it or cares, if 30% of 18 to 25 men in America haven’t had it once in a year, MILLIONS of human beings, it’s not like the number is 2%, still large but more understandable like unemployment (also necessarily for mens mental health) it couldn’t be used to exploit people. The pandemic ruined things for a lot of men who weren’t socially connected to a lot of girls before hand as well. And helped a few men massively who were socially connected to girls. OLD … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Social media has become too sexualizedAs always the answer is capitalism and ignorant masses who don’t realize they have been exploited and deesroyed into degeneration and also humans genuinely aren’t fit to handle all the technology we have, every single thread on every Reddit is sexual now… it’s depressing and nothing has depressed me in years. Men are more & more thirsty over only fan girls & the like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?Yup, preselection is strongly wired in women, it triggers a lot of emotions. Jealousy, wanting what they can’t have, thinking the man is a catch and a prize if he has sexual success with other women. They see his value rise massively in their minds, filling all the pre selection boxes can turn a 4/10 man into an 8/10 guy in 99% of women’s eyes. That doesn’t mean he can’t do other things to make himself unattractive and take all of that away though. Also if we’re talking about beautiful women it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do women believe they get to decide on what constitutes a real man?Manipulation, I chuckled at women every time they said a real man would do blah or blah, lol it’s just so hilarious. I’ve never ever heard a man say bull**** like that but girls try to question & reinforce masculinity all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysI’ve even seen it in popular TV shows like Euphoria and some other young teenage shows I can’t remember name of, I never imagined it would get anywhere near pop culture, just like “Chad” its no longer 2018 or 2019 but it’s evolved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysSo the way everyone in this world shames women is to call them sexually promiscuous? Or non feminine, a “bitch”. And the way they shame men is to call them sexually unsuccessful? Incel, Simp, not a Chad. Incel was invented by a women to talk about unsuccessful women suffering silently in society… and now it’s turning into their biggest insult towards young men? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:41 AM |
| 8 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysIt’s like when everyone used gay, fag as an insult but a lot of people saw nothing wrong with it back then. Now our society is doing the same thing with incel, simp, and a lot of men won’t forget when people bullied them, called them that in the past when they were going through a lot of other stuff no one knew about in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:37 AM |
| 13 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysMy only fear is men who are just sexually unsuccessful or inexperienced but don’t harbor the negativity or hatred or jadedness, entitlement & wanting society to suffer as “incels” will see all the news media, countless women online & even some in real life using it as an insult, and start thinking they are othered, start associating with all those people. This can actually grow the “incel” communities and beliefs rapidly, it’s terrifying. The more people use the term… and it doesn’t help that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:35 AM |
| 8 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysYup, that reminds me of when I was in college, the gender imbalance in CS was massive and the social awkwardness, and anxiety of guys there was much higher then in other majors. A few guys had girlfriends or fiancée but most of the time they did not go to the university or the guys did things before CS and got outside the house a lot more. When there are 10 girls in your program and 200 guys if just reinforces scarcity mentality which is like a massive debuff for men being in a healthy normal st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 11:26 AM |
| 6 | The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man saysYup just like the word simp has become meaningless and “chad” got transformed from some insidious word to everyday common language by the mainstream & pop culture LOL what started as some sort of secret matrix obsessed community talking about some hidden truths that the rest of the world would never know, turned into a joke to the world, nothing more than an afterthought that gave us some new vocabulary to use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Yup, most women I’ve met believe that if a man only wants to fuck them and treat them like a disposable object he’s higher value or must be worth a lot & is a lot more special, or worth it than all the other guys. These guys excite them more and it also plays into why women love bad boys & toxic men. They also subconsciously see it as power. You can’t change nature only accept it, women are not all these angelic kind beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.That is all due to porn lol and how porn has influenced society now, it’s the same reason why a lot more men are creepily obsessed with anal compared to the past. And b4 a ton of guys start saying “well nuh men liked it in the past just as much too I’m not influenced by anything” just like the girls claiming people cheated in relationships as much in the past America too, you just couldn’t see how swingy everyone was being it was less socially acceptable. No, the reality is times have changed de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.They’re obviously talking about all the men they let sleep with them effortlessly and that have multiple women they’re seeing, so that’s why they treat the girls so shitty even if the girls are objectively very pretty themselves. Intelligent women seek a healthy relationship with a man who will actually be loyal & monogamous to them. But thanks to people’s attention spans dying and women being tricked into doing things non beneficial to them to please certain groups of men in our society, younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.Social circles and social proof is always greater than cold approach no matter how high status or wealthy or handsome or anything you are. Pre selection is powerful hard wiring and women are a lot more social creatures than men, they need to know of your existence & fantasize about you, this can even boost your value heavily among girls you’ve never even met before if people like you & talk about you. If you aren’t a like-able person and have a shitty personality or interact with others poorly n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.Most single women that are 4/10 or above are in soft harems though. They all share the same men heavily, until one decides to make it exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically?You’re putting the horse before the cart here, the reason these men don’t respect themselves is because they have low self esteem & low confidence, girls smell this like spoiled milk and it subconsciously disgust them on the deepest level, that’s more weakness than crying every day. Just because of that they have no qualms using the **** out of their simps and expecting the world from them while some random rlly average looking guy sleeps with them investing nothing at all into her. The simp obs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically?Staying with a women like that, dedicating your resources, time, energy, money, thoughts & mind to her or helping her in life and solving her problems literally kills your masculinity and decreases your chances with other women heavily in multiple ways. On other hand having social proof and healthy connections with a lot of girls, especially beautiful one maximizes something on a slider, even if you have never done anything sexual with them and have no romantic interest in them, many beautiful w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is mate guarding, even in subtle ways, reviled in western society?It’s not only about freedom or individuality & being in that free spirit state of mind but it goes very deep into the feminine psyche and just triggers female nature just like preselection, when men mate guard it’s seen as anxiety, or desperation, or weakness. All sorts of emotions that disgust the women and make her also feel she can do a lot better than him or why is he so worried? Something must be wrong in this picture, she should be afraid of losing him not the other way around. When women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Unfair question, according to scientific studies men are more risk takers while women are risk averse and have much more anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-ThreadI feel like only 20 to 30% of these mass shootings have anything to do with inceldom, although that would still be a massive amount, we know that the creepy Uvalde shooter was 18 and trying to meet an underage European girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 0 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Being attractive in the modern day is dangerous, if you get anyone & just want any good looking women you will literally get anyone. She can divorce grape you, she can make your life or your kids life hell, countless things can happen if you’re with the wrong women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYup, from 1900 to 2000 in America nearly all women except celebrities only chose from the 100 man they were exposed to in social circles. And they often still got the right guy chosen for them before they began dating, there wasn’t even sex before marriage nearly as much or girls giving their V and essence to any guy until the sexual revolution. Older women and all the people in the young girls life knew that other men of value with skills or resources or generational wealth had many expectation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 13 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingReminds me of all the black women that say they want the black community & hood to change in America lol but they still all reward the guys who fulfill the hood thug stereotype sexually more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 5 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?The problem is a lot of men have approach anxiety, and to top this off also social anxiety or insecurities & low self esteem, they feel something about themselves or their lives is wrong. With all of this they rationalize that women just don’t want men to talk to them or approach them anywhere at all, which isn’t the case, it happens millions of times every day. The only thing women may not want is to deal with creepy guys or men that make them uncomfortable. Even if a man has none of these prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Do guys who have success with women really not give a fuck about attractive women they date?Yup, the post nut clarity is real, after you successfully achieved sex with certain women suddenly all that desire is gone and you dread thinking of having her in your life in the mid term let alone the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Yup this is all just about T and health of the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | If studies have shown that a higher n-count leads to less satisfying relationships, why are some people unhappy when their dates don’t sleep with them early on? Shouldn’t we actually prefer that?Just because we get rid of the illusion of all girls being saints, it doesn’t mean that all guys are now suddenly saints either. Many men also practice dual mating strategies & use girls in the short term while planning for their dream wife in the long term. In some guys minds this way they “spoil” the girl for all future men that interact with her as well, hopefully ruining their genetic potential or forcing them to reproduce with less quality women, thus having less quality kids. This works by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:42 AM |
| 3 | If studies have shown that a higher n-count leads to less satisfying relationships, why are some people unhappy when their dates don’t sleep with them early on? Shouldn’t we actually prefer that?From my experience men only get angry if they find out the girl isn’t doing that for every guy & had sex with some on the first date, or past guys who ended up abusing her or whatever. They sad the girl as a lot less special, valuable & worth investing in or commuting to since other guys didn’t & other guys got full access to her body with minimal effort/investment. If the girl made every single guy wait 3 months this wouldn’t be a thing. Men have trauma from rlly promiscuous girls like this try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:21 AM |
| -1 | We know gym can really fix fat/skinny guys into a more attractive version, what about the rest.There is rarely a “bad face lottery” and more so poor upbringing, not much resources, terrible diets & sedentary lifestyle growing up or poor air quality or water or something. They saw men should be working out at 20 - 25 to greatly improve their bodies… and yet most men still don’t even do this they just complain or think they’re in a fixed permanently ugly state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | In you opinion, how common is the redpill idea of AF/BB dating scene among asian american ?It’s a complete myth & toxic stereotype that black men are players or the most successful with women. Some black men live their lives trying to be hyper masculine, in one form of sleeping with as many girls as they can to get past how society views them & the internalized inferiority, insecurities they have in their minds. But also because black culture in America encourages it so much and think being a baby daddy is normal, fine … this is what we have. If you listen to a lot of older rap songs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | In you opinion, how common is the redpill idea of AF/BB dating scene among asian american ?Hmm I’ve seen this, I never thought about Asian men doing it to Blake women though just because Asian women lone white men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 6 | In you opinion, how common is the redpill idea of AF/BB dating scene among asian american ?My junior year I had a friend who went through a large dry spell of the women, 2 entire semesters with nothing… he wasn’t getting any, every white girl wouldn’t give him the time of day sexually. This was a problem since white girls were his preferred type for LTR, and he only dated Hispanic, Asian girls if he couldn’t get them. Extremely nerdy guy but he wasn’t a bad person at all & did have a rlly like-able personality irl, he wasn’t the best looking but it’s not like he didn’t take care of hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | In you opinion, how common is the redpill idea of AF/BB dating scene among asian american ?Yeah, I’ve seen this too. Back in college I’ve seen the sexiest Asians seem like they just threw themselves heavily at white guys. It was a surreal experience to say the least, I thought I had some sort of favoritism with the way who’re girls threw themselves as me as an exotic looking black guy. I never dated at all in high school so had no idea what to expect freshmen year but I remember the first girls I ever talked to were Asian & they wanted nothing to do with me. I had a white girl I met a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Only for men who are terrible leaders or don’t know how to teach & guide naturally without effort. Women in the modern age generally pick up so much toxic degenerate things from their men. Why? Because they don’t think long term and know they won’t be with these women in the future. People have forgotten they can also be taught really healthy things. Men don’t realize just how much women pick up from the men they sleep with, it’s easy to turn a girl whose never been with any men into most men’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Either bad judgment or highly impulsive. Both terrible traits for a mother to have. Men have to consider everything a women brings to the table if he wants to marry her, especially liabilities (debt, mental baggage & trauma, kids, etc). This is harsh but it’s so the man can give his own kids & his wife & himself a better life in the future. I’m trying to help young men not scrutinize single mother hood which is 50% the fault of mindless horny men that think in the short term. And if she had sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Yes we need to shame people for being daddy’s but not fathers. However girls have 100% control of who they have sex with, & thus reproduce with outside of rape. When a women has sex with any man she’s consenting & saying she wants to have his babies on a biological level. Why do women choose drug dealers, dead beats, misogynistic men so much? They have zero responsibility, accountability in modern America, which is my parents & older relatives just chose for the women in the past… they didn’t wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 10:51 AM |
| 16 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?It’s like arriving to a party after 100s of people have already been there & left with all the best prizes lol. The man has already spread his seed & then just dips to go chase other women or smoke weed & play video games or whatever & you have to pick up all the bags, work super hard as a nice guy at your job to support her… then also get a lot worse sex than all the past men ever got since she’s not in her sexual prime anymore with all the stresses of work, raising kids, and she probably let h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?This is just very sad, saying to be okay with dating single mothers is like saying men should be okay with dating chubby or fat women. A lot of men do lower their standards because they are desperate for sex but it destroys something infinitely more important than sex inside them, their masculinity & self worth. It also promotes a passive lazy mindset instead of a growth mindset always going for low hanging fruit… it you’re a man under 30 even committing to girls with high n count that look good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | NY Post - Millennial men want 1950s housewives after they have kidsYup, and there’s a theory about dominant gens versus recessive gems, apparently Gen Z is supposed to be the passive weaker gen and Gen Alpha is supposed to be dominant, have the most impact on mankind & its future. I could see them turning into nature loving people that are adept at technology but know how destructive it can be to humanity & work on countering that. As well as getting in tune with our natural biology instead of ignoring it all together (feminism). Or believing in the lies & indo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Men trying to self improve solely to increase their chances with dating is not a inherently bad thing.lol not every single guy but most shift to lifting for themselves and just to be stronger, feel more confident & love their bodies, be more healthy & fit, active. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Being "fwb zoned" is much better than the commonly stated equivalent of being friend-zonedHere’s the thing, women & men can’t see each other’s experiences but I think they’re equally as mentally damaging based on the amount of time it last. Women bond heavily through sex, and fall in love with a specific man more than people think after releasing a lot of oxytocin. They also forever have a sort of bias & favoritism thinking about that guy so no longer live in objective reality. Men fall in love through quality time, and if he’s enjoying spending time with a women so much to love bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Being "fwb zoned" is much better than the commonly stated equivalent of being friend-zonedSo you’re saying women should be happy about just being seen as sex toys by their guy friends. And men should be happy to have female friends that don’t want to just use their bodies while not committing to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Never met a single guy that complained about a female friend giving them companionship, affection, a friendly bond. An emotional connection shouldn’t be developed with a girl that said she isn’t interested in a serious relationship with the guy. If the man lets himself keep thinking of her that way he put himself in that position of suffering & it’s entirely his fault if he sticks around as a support animal while she begins sleeping with other guys or stops giving him any affection or companions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 0 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inRead between the lines… every man can fall victim to scarcity mentality or have resentment of past rejections. The truth is men who fail to see the importance in character, personality, values in women only get burnt later in life through divorces or dead bedrooms & their being nothing else fulfilling about their relationship but being trapped with kids. It is far more likely narcissistic vapid women get used as pumps & dumps if they are more attractive than good beautiful women. This makes them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Are men with high body counts more attractive?Many people will assume a man had sex with a lot of undesirable or really plain women if he has that high a count imo, zero standards can make women feel less special. However if the man has proof it’s all highly desirable or quality women he’s been with then it almost never can backfire on him with a girl unless she thinks he has diseases or wants a serious LTR relationship and thinks he could never commit to anyone with a 100+ count, there are many reasons a guy could feel shame or want to hid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 01:48 PM |
| 14 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionYup, it’s all just a manifestation of peoples collective unhappiness, discontent with their lives and insecurity in the age of social media of not living as good a life as other people. Everything is subjective, everything is relative, and in reality self worth will always be the most important thing simply because you only ever truly have yourself, if you love and respect yourself more than anything validation from others is less meaningful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:03 PM |
| 37 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionThis is actually the main reason “incels”‘exist, both societies, men & women’s heavy expectations they put on men to be as sexually successful as possible to determine qualify & how valuable they are to themselves or society… and also the reason the word “incel” exist in the first place, so we can punish men not fulfilling their role in the patriarchy. Ironically in modern day you see feminist use incel as an insult a lot more, just one of countless ways they reinforce the patriarchy & show that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.All this being said very introverted nerdy guys CAN still have massive success connecting to women in real life if they’re any cities, as long as they don’t have an overwhelming amount of social anxiety, take care of their appearance, hygiene, weight etc. there’s a ton of DND clubs, social scenes, comic cons, all sorts of stuff in many cities for nerdier guys. Introverted men with social anxiety shouldn’t feel like they have some excuse, put down the games, chips, and put yourself out there, sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.Yup, a lot of what OP says just isn’t true, I know a lot of introverted girls that have a ton of guy friends, a very active sex life & can easily find relationships. The only difference is you have to be an attractive looking introverted women, if you’re average, 5/10 or below & also really introverted as a girl then yeah sure maybe people won’t make a high effort to include you in things or be around you. But you can still get tons of attention easily as a 4/10 or 5/10 introverted girl with jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?I love how this sub keeps making all these threads every couple months & eventually reaching the same Logical conclusions the men in the communities they criticize have come to years ago, “wait a min, oh *… is this why young people don’t want to marry or have kids as much!? If divorce grape & having to pay child support for theirs or someone else’s kids happens a lot now a days… why do it all?” I mean obviously there’s already a ton of mandatory vulnerability, opening up & giving your Partner th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 9 | Most men just take the little options they getI find it sad men take all of this so seriously lol, I know it can only mean one thing… deeply internalized scarcity mentality. They browse the internet looking for some proof that women can’t or won’t be attracted to them, obsessing over everything women say… they feel like women are rejecting them when they see comments like this & become afraid to interact with girls in real life… when in reality this is the norm for all women, girls don’t get attracted from purely physical like men do, they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 6 | The problem of RP menI’ve been terrified about this… that former super ugly guys from 13 - 22 that go through some massive transformation when they begin making good money will just keep resenting & remembering all the terrible treatment of women instead of enjoying the present of finally being able to experience life with women, they will take it all entirely the wrong way, make it very personal & ego driven instead of self improvement & giving girls what they want. Instead of reverting to the “blue pill” & doing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:49 AM |
| 10 | The problem of RP menYup, the funny thing is accepting that I don’t & will never have complete control of how women respond to me, embracing rejection or very disrespectful & toxic women (removing them from my life permanently on the very first instance or sign), & most importantly detaching my ego from dating made me infinitely happier, more confident not just in regards to love or sex life but in life in general. I’m not dependent on a women’s validation or approval & its alleviating, it feels powerful, it’s tough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.Well, absolute celibacy gave people a lot of spiritual power & brought them closer to god, literally being able to control their urges. If you are an adult man that’s healthy & have a ton of T you will know how crazy it would be to never O for an entire year. Especially when you have access to women. It’s more powerful than literally every drug in existence. And now celibacy & abstinence is demonized, hated by ppl, they will bully you in college if you aren’t ruining your life doing what the hiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeSo what does he mean by fiscally conservative? Is OP saying men unsuccessful in the SMP compensate by avoiding consumerism, going minimalist & accumulating a lot of funds/resources? Or is he talking about politically, these men are more likely to be conservatives & support something like say, no abortion laws in red states? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Black women are the least desirable in the dating world today.Yup, black women, and darker skin women may be the least desirable in the status quo… but OP, I hope you realize that is entirely in your own head and you are basing your value entirely from how other men perceive you. There’s a lot of reasons this is philosophically, spiritually messed up, an attack on your ancestors worshiping white so much, but it’s also psychologically, emotionally, mentally damaging & draining to not see prefer your own skin to white. In reality, you could perceive yourself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | 90 percent of open relationships are destined to fail.Yup especially because we know from countless scientific studies women release a lot more oxytocin, bonding chemicals with sex & opening up their bodies to a man like that than men do. Men have to feel like they won something & it’s more valuable, she isn’t just sleeping with every guy that shows interest in her in the first 3 months. And if it’s the highest quality men in a culture… she has to not only make him wait while enticing him enough & maintaining that flirtatious desire but make him co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 09:17 PM |
| -3 | 90 percent of open relationships are destined to fail.Whatever the case, just like with tattoos and smoking… now vaping, drugs and alcohol. Historically in America whenever men/young guys introduce all the women they are sleeping with to ANYTHING that can potentially be very destructive & dangerous without responsibility or anyone to tell them what they’re doing isn’t right (since you can’t criticize women at all in the modern America or you’re an evil misogynist) they run wild with it, it becomes a lot more popular with girls until it enters the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 6 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.Yeah if women had a more favorable view of men the divorce laws wouldn’t even be bad at all, like legit they’re just to make sure women & kids aren’t trapped in a bad or toxic situation 10 - 15 years later & higher status men can’t get married & pick new younger women without any consequences. The general view of things that all men are devils & all women are angels is very dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.Yup the reality is there’s a reason laws are in place. Not only to protect women but to avoid unlimited unpunished polygamy and hypergamy… to encourage monogamy, all men want to have their cake & eat it too. It’s why they caused open relationships to increase so much, men keep asking their women for them relentlessly. The creators of our societies infrastructure know for a fact from observing past civilizations & cultures outside of America that monogamy makes people a lot more productive, socie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Yup, looks is the #1 thing for women, your kindness, morality, ethics, personality, character is all completely irrelevant to 99% of girls until you pass the looks threshold. And agree ALL of that? Then you can talk about compatibility, shared interests or values and actually being a good couple. From the time people are born society lies to them. Tells them being nice to women is the best way to get them. Mean while the amount of skinny fit attractive girls in America shrieked a ton after the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | What speaks to you about the situation of modern society when it comes to Kevin Samuels Death?Kevin Samuels spirit will never die, he touched the black community of men on the internet (in regards to dating & sexual dynamics’s in the 21st century) more than any other content creator in internet history, there will definitely be many spiritual successors carrying on the torch, and OP, no matter how negative or toxic all the women are online about him dying or laughing, dancing in happiness & planning to act super chaotic without any content creators holding them accountable anymore, their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialI’m not saying people shouldn’t have any accountability or responsibility in who they chose to invest into and have any forms or relationships or intimacy with, especially given that it effects everyone in their life & future kids as well indirectly. But when men have been raised by a dominant mother & submissive father, PLUS also got abused by that mother as well they are very very likely to seek out a women and fall in love with one, to replay this dilemma unless they recognize & fix the deep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialYup it reminds me of when abusive men say that the girl they have been physically and verbally abusive to for several months … gasp attacked them. And spread the rumors around all the social circles that she is the abusive monster since she attacked him & all those times he did anything to her? Maybe it was true but it was just to defend against her abuse. abused people turn into their abusers, if not to other people to the one abusing them eventually. Toxic relationships make you a more toxic p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 3 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialYup, the worst narcissistic women are not only this cruel & toxic to all the men they encounter but the women as well. Unless they see him as like 3+ points above them in value then they obsess with him & sleep with him for awhile until he noticed there’s something deeper wrong with her character & no matter how good the crazy women sex is they leave her to not get burnt being stuck with them. Family is also a taboo for people to part ways with someone that narcissistic and it’s also possible th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkI mainly see girls 15 - 22 and mindlessly like a monolith lol they all want the guys that they know other girls are already into & with. Girls are much more attracted to guys with cute girlfriends, regardless of the quality of the man this drastically boost attraction. But make no mistake this pre selection makes women’s hind brains go crazy with desire too it just applies to knowing you are having a lot of sex with other women. No matter who the girl is she will want to be apart of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions.The powers that be didn’t want black communities to have social safety nets and a good base standard of living so did all they could to ensure it wouldn’t be like that in America’s future? Even if it meant harming all the lower & middle class of every race as well. It turned modern America into a classism state of capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions.Everyone in the modern generation forgets… America used to be like that for a time. People have no idea mainly because just how bad racism, slavery, and even everything that happened in the generations after slavery ended in America has been watered down a ton to not make white people feel as and or messed up for how much their ancestors did just because of the skin color other humans were born with. All the social safety nets in America were removed purely due to white people in power fearing b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything elseIt’s a major red flag to me, women are never naturally like this… it means men have done this behavior to her in the past probably multiple times & she has picked it up through imprinting & mimicking to cope. I’m not saying pair bonding being dead is entirely the reason, pair bonding ability decreasing does exist but it’s more of a physiological thing, and women releasing all that oxytocin for countless men makes her think it’s all just temporary dopamine feelings & she doesn’t have to be attach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything elseYup, if a women wants to fuck you. She will find a way. It doesn’t matter how sexy she is or shy & introverted, unless you’re super oblivious & obtuse women will present themselves to you & find a way to give you an opportunity to fuck them if they want you like that. And they will do it anywhere in public as well not caring who might see, they only think about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasonsMen tend to ignore how sex is meant for literally creating a brand new human being, so women naturally test for men’s fitness. So yes technically a lot of the most beautiful women WILL be extremely shallow but that’s a given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Yup, it’s super depressing to see a lot of loss men mindlessly lifting weights and going to the gym in the modern age thinking this is the secret to success and happiness in every aspect of life especially with their women & ensuring they don’t cheat on you or ever disrespect you since oh look he has giant muscles. Men are so so afraid of that pain, they will do anything to their bodies, that says something about how poor mens mental & emotional health, stability, strength is in the modern Ameri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.Yup, the reality is the opposite scenario can occur with girls as well, they get very emotionally invested in a guy that has absolutely zero interest in them as a partner, only a bang toy. Not even a short term girlfriend relationship just nothing at all. And when they keep chasing him, expecting some investment from him they get very angry and say all men are abusive or evil or assholes. The only thing that makes this different is this girl could have 10 “nice guys” of equal physical attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Holy **** lol, my last semester in college I saw this and it terrified me. Dated some sexy freshmen girl from tinder for a bit, eventually after 2 weeks of text I convince her to walk to my apartment & guide her a bit off campus, we have a ton of fun and smash but a week later it doesn’t work out and she’s very interested in meeting/banging new people so I don’t try to get invested in her (she was extremely open with all of this and how promiscuous she wants to become in college) I helped her ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.If a man pretends that he doesn’t want to sleep with a women and sleeps with many other women while playing dumb with her it will heavily trigger her jealousy, curiosity, preselection, hypergamous nature and she will sleep with that man even if she had none of those serious emotions b4. If he doesn’t commit to her she will become obsessed with him. I’ve seen it so many times, keeping women as fwb, f buddies is the easiest way to get a relationship with them in the modern day. It’s depressing but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 6 | Having options as a man makes you more attractive to woman.Yup, I’ve seen men who are far below average looking still bag multiple average girls due to this pre selection thing and perceived higher value. You don’t even need to truly be a high value man, whatever that means, most women aren’t too bright about picking who to sleep with they just want someone that excites them emotionally. The tough thing is what if a man is in a dry spell and actually has no inherent value? Uh oh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Q4M is it easier to hookup or get a relationship with a 22 year old woman or a 32 year old woman?This is only a narrative apart of your indoctrination and brainwashing, that men are all these evil abusive exploitative monsters who want to oppress women. The reality is women are more attracted to men higher up than them in hierarchies and reward these men the most. This is dangerous however since if all the women chase the men at the top then the men at the top value them a lot less & some will treat them very cruelly or discard them after they get everything they wanted. Or after a much bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 15 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?lol a girl being 18 to 25 in America and not fat or obese already puts her in the top 20% of women, when men need to be around 6 feet or above, make around $100k a year or more, be fit, confident, assertive, have all their shit together to be a top 20% or top 10% man in America, no one ever said life was fair it just is how it is. When the bottom 40% of men think they’re entitled to a top 20% college girl they consider “Average” and get angry thinking women have ridiculously high standards is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?That’s what happens when modern society commodified love, romance, sex, dating, people and adds in massive FOMO with social media, messed up expectations from corn. Every guy wants to do anal sex with their gfs regardless of pain or zero cleanliness or lack of prep work. With no more virgins being married to each other girls end up being used & abused by many different men that dump them for the next guy, that guy gets a worse version of the girl but has to pay a lot more for it. Any man abused … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?If a women gives it away on the first date it’s valued a lot less in the guy’s eyes. It means that she probably has slept with a lot of men in the past and given that to others so it doesn’t mean much to her anymore. Let’s not put economic theory in this but the reality that men can only ever truly fall in love through time & a lot of quality time with a compatible women. So when they get the thing they are there for, and only have lust there’s no reason to stick around. This doesn’t mean men wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you.Ehh sure but I would change that to a couple dates, a few weeks or a few months of spending time together. Some girls really just can’t know or get a guy after knowing of his existence for 2 to 3 weeks, some even 2 entire months so they don’t feel that deeper “love” and desire for the man, being exclusive to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | My two dates experience as a manIt depends on the night club tbh, I don’t go to them at all anymore, but it’s easy to tell high quality from low quality ones. The high quality dance clubs have no smoking or vaping or nasty shit allowed in, a bar area & drinking away from the dance floor, great music, a lot of beautiful girls and maybe some shy women just sitting alone afraid to dance. The point is there’s a lot of opportunity for men, if it’s a 50/50 ratio a lot of guys will be too terrified to dance or make as well. If there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:14 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThat will not give the average man the deeper affection or love & acceptance he craved and deeply wants so badly, seeks through this idea that casual sex with women is the answer to this, but falls into a new kind of depression, suicidal thoughts & anxiety when he discovers sex with women isn’t some magical bullet fix to a bad life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | The women that “Bad boys” pick up are also low quality like he is ;Yup, it also co aligns with all the fan groups & love cults that teenage girls make obsessing over male serial killers or past male school shooters. You never see anything like this with men obsessing over female killers. Could their be some sort of primal urge for young girls to desire sex with “bad boys” is it just purely the excitement? The knowing that the drug dealer doesn’t care about all those girls personally but wants to use all of their bodies? If women are only used to guys trying to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 3 | What would you teach your children about the opposite sex?The reality is a ton of people are giving birth to kids that they will give shitty lives to or be bad parents to (not consciously realizing this and trying to do their best possible job to be parents but heavily failing due to lack of knowledge & wisdom about parenting). While it’s easy to say a lot of these people shouldn’t have kids, that’s when you start getting into eugenics territory and if that ever gains mainstream appeal … it’s likely it will just be people eventually moving onto the ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Western Society has enabled toxic femininityThere’s so much misinformation and misunderstanding out there lol. I’ll just address one thing in your ideas/arguments. The thing that makes a lot of young women 18 to 25 age very prematurely and permanently lose their looks is all the smoking, vaping, drugs, alcohol abuse, not taking care of their bodies through exercise and skincare, eating junk food & neglecting their bodies they throw to any guy that gives them attention, the time of day. It’s not purely all the casual sex from guy to guy th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women?It depends on environment once again, in a university setting I've heard of it happening a couple times, every where is sort of game for day game. Anywhere in the real world? Never heard of it. You can surely have casual friendly talk not seeking anything with people you meet outside & get contacts if it goes really well & they seem interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021)Yeah, a lot more women have bought sex toys since the pandemic begin. People have been going out less & socializing less but make no mistake if a women really wanted it & didn't care about who or how it happened, she could. It just might not be too enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Its non existent for girls who only have sex with boyfriends & in exclusive relationships they have already spent a lot of time before any sort of sexual activity, bjs, handjobs, intercourse happens. But its PRETTY common for girls who are activei n casual sex scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Will Jada Smith VS Chris RockAlso, be careful of the Jada Pinketts, some women get off on trying to dominate men, because they were dominated by men so hard in the past the idea of taming a lion is irresistible to them. But once that lion is tamed they become more vicious, cruel, resentful of the little kitty cat they become and make them suffer like an animal abuser. They might not be aware they are making their pets suffer but they are. If a women has been dominated by a man in the past & it didn’t end with him wanting to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Will Jada Smith VS Chris RockWhen you let a women emasculate you and wear the pants in the relationship it’s already over. Cue dead bedroom, cue manipulation, cue narcissism, cue asking for open relationships, cue cheating on you even if you don’t want one, cue her feeling resentful & hateful about you, having no idea why, cue more arguing, disagreeable vibe, cue the endless nagging and you being terrified of getting on her bad side or upsetting her so will act out of character & do or say things you normally would never to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Are shit tests effective in generating attraction?She might tell the guy she finds something about him very unattractive. Just to see if he acts differently and stops doing whatever she claimed was unattractive. Women end up sleeping with many men they “hate” the guts of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do you think it’s possible to be unsuccessful in romance/dating and be happy/ok with it?There’s infinite more things in life than women. If men want to focus entirely on their own thing and finding happiness, fulfillment from other stuff more power to them. Also remember OP, some philosophers argued that lust, sex, all of that desire isn’t healthy for peoples souls & seeking it out can ruin them. That all of that can cause needless unnecessary suffering in life tbr can be avoided, and the only reason people go towards that is biological drives … now their own true free will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why is sex important or significant at all?I find that a lot of intellectual, more nerdy men very interested in things like science or getting into the details of something are less interested in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:28 PM |
| 13 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.This is interesting, I’ve never tried to sleep with any female friends before after being burnt by a girl staying in the friend zone over a year, catching feels and proceeding to have her tell me details about all the guys she’s having sex with. But then again, most female friends are in relationships with guys I’m already good friends with, and so I just never thought about any of them like that. I have a couple female friends from college that are really beautiful and single but I just never h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I like how you say men need female friends and never give a list of reasons why except that it would benefit the women and make them less dehumanized. Having a bunch of female friends makes the guy act more natural around girls & understand them more without all this toxic internet ideologies dehumanizing generalizing redpill black pill pink pill yellow pill white pill race pill pill pill dr phill non sense. People need to go outside in nature and just relax and call a week off from the internet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedwell, all of us might be wrong here or right a tiny bit. Apparently Will released a book about his life & opened up about his deepest mental health hurdle... he's always felt like he;'s been a coward his entire life. Because when he grew up his father physically abused his mother & he did nothing about it, and he did not want to be like his father when he became an adult so... yeah. Everyone has so much deeper trauma than what's on the surface, despite Will always seeming like a typical good dud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Are shit tests effective in generating attraction?what the f lol tickling you, hugging a guy in front of you. i can't stop laughing lol. those aren't even shit test period. only extremely anti social people would view them as such & be so intimidated, scared of a women's touch or view it as something that meaningful. i think we all need to go outside after this one. the reality is girls who are interested in you & serious will make it easy, effortless, and won't throw any test at you. girls who want a masculine man though & don't know if the gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 5 | How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs?For most humans they can only do it when they've had enough casual sex, become desensitized to it or have gone through a ton of trauma or have some sort of childhood trauma. This trauma makes them terrified to grow attached or be too trusting of other people so their minds literally block themselves from it to avoid pain. This happens to a lot of men & women who are actively in the casual sex scene & not looking for a serious monogamous relationship... just endlessly chasing causal sex. These pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 13 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedYup, women becoming "alpha" widowed by more masculine guys that had sex with them in the past is a very real thing. They won't respect any future men unless they somehow seem more powerful & turn them on in bed more than all the past ones. Women need to feel that high, and without respect a marriage cannot last... if it does it won't be healthy, will be miserable for the man, worse or as bad as a dead bedroom situation. So well does this lead men who invest everything into a women as they are to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedIts because that's how it usually is when you watch the interactions between people. If a man is in a relationship with multiple women, hes normally seen to be a more masculine & dominant guy who gets many women to submit to him. If its an open relationship where the women just goes out & finds a bunch of guys, the guy is usually a doormat, a nice guy, a good guy, typically a people pleasing person that tells everyone in society what they want to hear. And gets ran over for it. I think all non m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedYup, it frustrates me how people who are upset at Will about this don't see how Jada reacted & how she influenced Will's lashing out, ppl have been saying he should have gotten a divorce for a long while now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedAnd yet, millions of young men agree to open relationships with their women, even if they truly want it deep down... but want to seem cool & okay with her wanting to explore, don't want to go against her desires in fear she will break up. They convince themselves that they want it, & this is perfect for them. And so the narrative is that open relationships are mainly men's ideas & what they want, its a telling sign of the times we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedyup, Will Smith not only might have gotten admiration & desire from Jada from that. But he now has tons of celebrity women that want him as well. Its pretty hilarious how everyone demonizes masculine behavior in the spotlight, but behind the scenes women reward it more than anything? And we all love to praise nice guy Will Smith that he's always been... but in reality everyone disrespects him? Wtf, how does that make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedIts not easy earning respect or love or desire for sex/affection by a women whose emasculated you for years or already gone on to sleep with other men, see you as not man enough. But its possible... it just can destroy you as a man & sends you down a very dark path that isn't a route i'd recommend any man to ever go. Just leave her & call it quits, begin again with a new women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedI find it funny, and sadly depressing people are trying to make this a political thing when its mainly a psychology thing & all the context that's been happening in his now known to be open relationship, all the disrespect he's been getting from Jada or society in general these past couple years. You could feel the blood boiling rage Will had, always trying to be the nice guy for decades & do everything right, getting heavily punished for it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedTens & tens of millions of American boy felt like they were Will in that situation & identified with him more than any actor in acting History. Literally, I don't know how all the people who watched the Oscars live say "I thought it was scripted, I couldn't believe what was happening" thought that it was all acting lol no. Men are tired of being emasculated, feeling so weak & powerless in this era, men are tired of being told to be a simp towards women & support feminism as much as possible. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: you do not need to appeal to ALL women. You only need to appeal to ENOUGH women so that you are never involuntarily celibate.Yup, realistically men only have to become around the top 40% to 50% percentile (average) and get in a LTR with an average or slightly below average , 4/10, 3/10 to avoid inceldom entirely in youth (not all the toxic hateful & bitter bad rep incel black pill ideology *** but just not having any intimacy or sex with women when they want it)* in their young years. A ton of men will say this is bullshit, you need to be an above average man to lock down any average women & keep her loyal, but it’s l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Contrary To Popular Belief, Women Seek Sex First, Then Relationships. Men Lead Hoping For Relationships, Which Would Lead To Sex.Yup, and if a man is interested in a women, it’s reciprocal but he never makes a move. He can lose her to the man that does have sex with her months later, and since so many other guys are that forward said man has to learn that he has to be as well even to get a LTR or marriage with a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Contrary To Popular Belief, Women Seek Sex First, Then Relationships. Men Lead Hoping For Relationships, Which Would Lead To Sex.Yes, it does. Similar to how women can be creepy, clingy, co dependent, and a ton of other things as well. Women can face rejection, and until men see it happen to enough decent looking or attractive women they will not understand how common it actually is or that this is all a human normal natural thing all genders have. Most decent men that really care about other humans on a base level put her in the friend zone when they are not interested. But a lot of men do put them in the “fuck zone”, ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Contrary To Popular Belief, Women Seek Sex First, Then Relationships. Men Lead Hoping For Relationships, Which Would Lead To Sex.If the man she wouldn’t be opposed to having sex with never makes a move on her she rules that as either 1. He’s not really attracted or that into her, this triggers the women on many levels or makes her feel very self conscious, insecure, and rejected by the man if she’s more introverted, shy & soft spoken type of person. Or 2. The man isn’t confident & is too scared of her to make a move. In the modern age not being an aggressive man at times is shooting your self in the foot heavily, but also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Contrary To Popular Belief, Women Seek Sex First, Then Relationships. Men Lead Hoping For Relationships, Which Would Lead To Sex.What he’s saying is women bond with and only open up emotionally, think of men that way only after they’ve had sex multiple times with the man and gave their bodies in that way. They see him VERY differently from how they see all normal guys & the “friend zone” fear never applies to him, even though I believe men can only place themselves in the friend zone & choose to remain there if they find out they are. It changed my world view for years when I found out this is how women are, not from read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Contrary To Popular Belief, Women Seek Sex First, Then Relationships. Men Lead Hoping For Relationships, Which Would Lead To Sex.Out of the 10 closest men I know in LTR for multiple years from college or with married wives now. Literally all of them begin as fuck biddies then became boyfriend & girlfriend, times have changed indeed. If many men have slept with a women she has gone there with them and will not respect or fall for guys who are spending a ton of resources or time or energy or whatever on them but haven’t gone there. If a women is interested in you sexually and loves hanging out with you, she won’t consider y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?Apologies, I ignored the main reply you had… it’s unfortunate you never had that chance to find that someone in college, two years wiped out of doing everything in person & ppl being a lot more social, a lot less judgmental. But as you said it’s possible that time could’ve been wasted by men who aren’t serious but pretend they are. I know some girls that stayed in relationships with men are 4 years of university expecting marriage & he breaks up with them senior year old in the end, they were lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?Yup, again culture and environment. In other places of the world women that are expected to be virgins by marriage and men that are expected to pay the bride price. And sometimes even go & drink with the father, give him gifts to pay respects & spend time talking with the father to ask permission to keep dating his daughter. I mean similar things like this happened in America’s past with courtship but you can still see it in African and Indian cultures. I don’t know about China, if all their wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineCollege is still worth it for the socializing aspect, this is the only reason to go in the modern day now unless you want to do a specific career where its mandatory. And if you are a masculine man now that many colleges are turning to 30% 70% ratios, all the women are now desperately in deep scarce supply of straight cis het men in general. And in even deeper scarce supply of naturally masculine guys, so you essentially get 1 - 5 girls in a harem for you in their most fertile years & can mess a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?Yes, the theory is when women end up losing the game heavily & failing from all the poor decisions/choices they made in younger years. As they approach 30 they no longer prioritize chasing the men they feel like are out of their reach for fun/excitement. They think about their futures a lot more & want security, families so will marry a "beta bux" even if they don't have that primal desire to sleep with him. A lot of men will be bitter about this of course because... they were super nice & gentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 3 | What is the driving force behind most couples being looksmatched ?uhh... biology & science? I don't know why people on this subreddit try to ignore the facts & science on all this stuff that has already been done decades ago lol. People are naturally more attracted to others who look similar to them, in the opposite sex. This means that the whole value system, a women being 9/10 in terms of what society loves... is nothing to a man compared to an attractive women that has the same features as him but she's a women (& the equivalent feminine features) facial sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?Its entirely based on circumstance, and other influences. In the most base default, & healthy state where both parties are satisfied with the relationship on all levels (which is honestly pretty rare since at least one party gets in the relationship for the WRONG reasons, for men to fulfill sexual urges with whatever good enough looking women they can, for women... tons of reasons), and are currently mentally/emotionally stable in their lives they would never ever act on the opportunities in goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?Well it depends on environment, culture, countless things. The main place I think of whenever anyone is discussing red pill, blue pill, purple pill stuff is a college & university setting, and perhaps what happens in the next 5 to 10 years after this, why it all happens. So 18 to 22 yo girls in their prime years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?AWALT is just a medicine in the cabinet to stop men from fantasizing and idealizing every girl, prolonging a disease they refer to as “one-itis”. Because of the world we live in with women having endless sexual options & also still wanting sex a lot if they are healthy… combined with female empowerment, combined with a scarcity mentality vs women’s natural abundance. A lot of guys want to believe a women is this special angelic unicorn and only submissive or like that for him. Paired with mens n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?Yup, nearly all of the top 10% of men have standards they will never compromise too, and the ones that don’t are already taken/in a LTR. In a way I guess you can say men can be hypergamous but it’s more about opportunities. If they could date more beautiful women they would. If they have a chance at a sexy new girl even if they’re in a LTR or already have women if they face no consequences & have low character they will jump at that opportunity but still go back to their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanIt could be due to lack of intelligence, but the other main thing people ignore here is… ego. Every human being has some sort of ego, but the way it can manifest itself in people, ESPECIALLY men can be very toxic, harmful to themselves both in keeping & gaining relationships. If a lot of men have spent over 6 months learning what women are attracted to & taking action with all of that for a year but still don’t make any of the women they date want a relationship or to be around them more. It’s l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanDamn this is the most real and raw emotional post on this sub, the darkest truth beneath the 10,000s of threads we’ve made trying to find some secret hidden truth of gender & sexual dynamics in the modern world. In our age of commodification and dehumanization, taking away meaning through dating apps and social media, atomization. Every human being, cis het average men, below average men, even the top 1% of men, celebrities, multi millionaires, they all want to be treated like human beings by wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Unconditional love doesn't existLove can only happen naturally and organically, and 95%+ of people aren’t capable of true love, not in the world we live in. Even though love technically is real, that super idealized love… the vast vast majority of people will never ever have it or experience it. People might think they feel love when it’s really just infatuation or adoration or co dependency or countless other things. I suggest anyone who feels like they aren’t capable of true love and ever want it in this life time to read “T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 0 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.Most women don’t have the option to be hypergamous in reality, and if they do it’s only in their younger years and when they have the intellectual capacity to think long term about their partners and already have a branch set up to “swing to”, so yes they cheat & leave for the better man permanently facing no consequences from that decision. So at 18 to 23 … but the thing is most women that age just want to have fun and also go to colleges where male ratio is 40 to 60 and so women are more likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:39 PM |
| 6 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.The unpopular opinion people hate me for believing as a fact is, OLD and all sorts of online dating actually killed/ruined a ton of casual sex and made it infinitely tougher for the average guy to get it. A ton of mystery and wonder of meeting ppl irl is completely gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.Yup, every single “single” women I knew back in university had multiple fwbs, fuck buddies, “best friends” that they had casual sex with at times, which is rlly just fwbs with extra steps, and a support network of many men or women emotionally, mentally. Many, but not all single men have absolutely nothing period. Imagine guys having to go through all of high school and college, having no value & having to watch women easily get everything they want, still complain about other problems they have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 6 | While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born withYup, if you even have the mindset you're doing anything for women or want some certain outcome, that's already coming from a place of weakness, scarcity, and dependence. It saddens me men don't value or care about themselves so much in the modern day. Do they really feel like they are not needed by everyone in their lives? That will dramatically drop self esteem & confidence. Women will sniff it out like a dog sniffing drugs, people want to hope they can't find them in your college dorm, but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:27 AM |
| -1 | While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born withIn this age confidence & self esteem is the #1 thing young men lack, and the thing is improving yourself to reach your max potential in something is a massive confidence booster. So regardless what OP thinks, men who do this see a massive boost in sexual success from putting in a ton of effort on their health/well being. Causation is not the same as correlation. Going to the gym 300 days in the year might not do anything for the guy who wants women, but it made him more confident so when he does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:15 AM |
| 6 | While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born withThe face is the #1 most important thing for all human beings of all genders & all sexualities. Height is largely overblown. Not every girl is crazy about muscles. Not every guy is crazy about boobs. Not every girl likes tall guys, & it has never been found to have any effect on women's attraction period in science... longer legs have though. It might be a socialization, nurture aspect of girls wanting taller guys... they DO sexually prefer men who are bigger than them though, so I guess technica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?Yeah, men really just want women are extremely into them and pick mey for them if they care about & prioritize loyalty, sex in companionship. Many men know their positions on the ladder board and have too much insecurity if they date the most beautiful women they can… consent competition from other men & possible heartbreak. It’s pretty depressing, men are extremely predatory against 1. Chubby & fat women 2. Women with ugly or butter faces/heads, they see them as easy lays & don’t care about the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Women do care about about male body count.Well, most men only get attacked or shamed for virginity by women. 50 to 70% of women would deny a men sexual intercourse, respect him less and not treat him kindly if they discovered he was a virgin. The rest probably just want to enter a relationship with him and see him as so masculine or high value they want to sleep with him even if he’s a virgin, in fact it turns them on they get him entirely to themselves and get to teach him to do whatever they want in bed. On the flip side is this men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Simps and online sex work have no effect on dating. So why care?I don't know about that dude, I know a handful of girls in my college who had onlyfans sometime in their 4 years... all those nudes & videos of them fucking other guys are still in existence permanently. And all of them ended up getting engaged/married to a man within a year of graduating. You might think, wow just a handful, but this is only the girls I knew... and the ones I knew had an onlyfans, countless more girls at my school could've been doing onlyfans or even actual sex work, I would ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyWell yeah of course, the horniest highest T men on the planet wouldn’t think about sex or women at all if they suddenly weren’t able to breathe, or haven’t eaten food in days & desperately need to find water. Similarly in times of crisis, women become a lot more sexually open & use their sexuality to bargain for survival. In a way men’s horniest is a feature that really just benefits women's survival, with the idea that it means his genes survive as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyIt’s not possible for men to fulfill the relationship without real women, not even artificially fulfilling it with a women who doesn’t truly give a shit about them on Onlyfanz, only temporarily fake dopamine. The entire reason women want this mythical “chad” like figure is to feel special, even for a couple hours in bed if he stops talking to them for weeks, pumps & dumps. They at least get to temporarily feel his true real raw lust & desire for taking them in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyYup, whatever the elites can come up with to keep the passive subjugated consumerist masses at bay. They will keep everyone in ignorance, have more thinks like Onlyfans to fulfill their base urges and keep them in economic slavery, poverty & scarcity mentality for as long as modern western civilizations go on to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyMen and women got married, had kids a lot younger in the past, even in American history it was often around 18 women. Now a days people prioritize slaving away to the elites all their young years and not owning homes or starting families, they prioritize educations indoctrination and parents, kids all believe in feminism, weakness, and many other toxic harmful beliefs to the human spirit. Most people don’t even have any idea how far gone they are from nature, reality. How deeply women and men ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyIntellectuals know of and understand Maslow’s hierarchy, all the controversy mainly comes from the beginning of the pyramid where sex is listed as a base physiological need for men & women, after puberty for men and shooting up again after both genders turn 18+, become fully developed adults. Feminist won’t allow it to become popular in society or taught to any children, since it might make young boys think it’s natural to have sexual desires, they won’t feel as much shame & think their sexualit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyWomen want to feel special, chosen by the players or f bois who get with many women, or assholes who don’t care about treating a lot of ppl badly. If they are abused or treated with toxicity? That preys on all their insecurities and mental health issues, tells them that they are not special and mean nothing. This also goes against all that society tells them, that women are the most empowered and special things in existence, so they go back to the abuser both to try and win him seeing them as sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I've had so many women back in college brag & gloat about all the men they had sex with. All the wild fun sex they've had lol it just made me disgusted with them. They seriously believed it made them more attractive, and that I would want to have that same type of sex with them, pursue them instead of boring "vanilla" prude girls. Most of the virgin women 18 - 19 or in their early 20s I met back in college...were really nerdy/dorky in High school and/or late bloomer's. They just weren't to appea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanModern women are not good or evil, no human being is, they simply are. All modern women that sleep around when not in an exclusive relationship with a guy are signing up to be "Bang maids" and very few give a **** about forming any sort of identity away from men, their lives still revolve around being sexually pleasing & attractive to men, finding men to bang them & help them through their "empowerment" which is rlly just slavery to a select few men. Men are getting with the program, women contr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | can men and women be friends without attraction?Well, if both parties are not physically attracted to each other. Yes it is possible. If one of each party might be physically attracted to the other but hates her personality/character/lifestyle? Then yeah it is possible, since the man will never want to go there with that person & is less attracted even if she's physically decent looking. The problem is, if you don't like a person in some way why are you friends? That's where you see the whole "Men & women can't be just friends, the guy will a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:54 AM |
| 5 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanHealthy masculine men leading humanity, partnered with healthy feminine women supporting them. It’s time to put the failed experiment of feminism aside, we’re putting ourselves back 100s of years if not 1,000s in advancement. We have countless more people alive now but the quality of men have greatly decreased. And women desperately try to be masculine or go against their true nature and true desires to be submissive & supportive of the right men in their lives. There’s loyalty in the natural or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 3 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanOur helicopter parents literally taught us this lol and the grandparents just sat back enjoying all their wealth and staying far away from Millenials & Gen Z, now that covid 19 wiped out a lot of them there will be no one left to see the west degrade more and more. People fall for the feminism and instant gratification scam more & more. Getting poorer and living in even more scarcity, depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanfeminism and women have taken away many mens biological imperative, the culture tells all of them that it’s not healthy for them to want women and they are some evil beings if they complain about one man sleeping with 5 women for all of her youth, laughing & mocking the poor weak man trained to support feminist if he looks and says “oh wait a min, is this really right? I have nothing and I’m shamed for wanting anything?” lol I’m sorry, but it’s funny, an ideology successfully trained some men to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:38 PM |
| -1 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanIf humanity can survive world wars, climate change, nukes. Then it’s safe to say that nature literally wants humanity to survive and thrive. The universe really wants humanity to survive. We are part of nature and the most sentient conscious things we know to exist. A beautiful flower can not live forever, it will die and new flowers will take their place. Just like women, just like men who gain power or strength & masculinity in their life times. Just because people stop passing things onto the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 0 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanYeah, you can tell by the massive amounts of girls that hit up all the nice guys that they didn’t give the time of day to at 18 to 22, they begin acting so lovey dovey at 25 - 30, but by then the nice guy has risen in value so much, been burnt by being kind & seeking marriage with the wrong type of women so much, he doesn’t want to give any of those girls the time of day & runs away at a tiny sign of them being damaged goods. Why marry a women with mental, emotional baggage or that will expect y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | People discredit the lifetime consequences of leaving a serious LTR as a womanYeah, I feel like more and more and more scientific studies will be released about the depression, mental health issues that come from girls leaving relationships even past the age of 25 so much that lasted years. Girls need to date men as quickly as possible, NO SEX, every young girl has been indoctrinated into thinking dating = you have to have sex with men lol this is how men have won the modern dating game so hard, also the fallacy that “well the guy has to try the goods to know if he rlly l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueRemember, that is the average, a lot of people do actually get married or engaged at 18 to 24 in/after college after dating around to find their match/pair bond with a man they deem valuable enough and also form a strong connection, memories with. If a man has sex with too many men though the theory is pair bonding can actually break entirely for certain women. You do not need to have sex with the men to date around & meet a lot of people. In the past dating actually didn’t even exist, because e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueEven though most colleges have shifted to 40% men 60% women and some are even at 30% male to 70% female girls still bring out the Pareto principle in nature… it might not be 20% 80% though, it might be 30% 70% depending on the culture & school. And if it’s a school where ONLY people from higher socio economic backgrounds go & very attractive people everywhere, it’s likely to be a 50% 50% ratio, meaning anyone who wants to date or puts in any effort to get sex can get it. No one is really left ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueMost young boys and adolescents in high school are still growing rapidly, extremely hormonal and want to explore women’s bodies, learn about their own feelings and feel how sex, blow jobs, fingering a women etc is like but next to none, well let’s just say 80% of 14 to 18 yo boys have NO intention of staying with their high school girlfriends. 20% might want to marry them and stay with them for life, but not all of those relationships end up lasting either. Im pretty sure there are statistics fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"Huge difference between SMV and RMV, most young men keep girls in relationships but still only see them as sex objects to release all their needs/urges, and occasional affection to boost their ego, fulfill that desire on Maslow’s hierarchy of reproductive urges & focus on building themselves up. Years later after the 4/10 or 5/10 girls best years have waned these men leave the girls entirely. Or stop putting up a charade, the facade and turn into assholes to make the girl leave. Some cling on kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?I know it’s pretty much universally expected for either the quantity or quality of sex to decrease, its pretty uncommon for women to completely not be wanting to have sex after a year or so in marriage, but even 5% of time can impact millions of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | If you notice a trend in how your past partners treat you, it’s probably your fault. Instead of generalizing “all (wo)men,” realize that there’s something lacking in what you offer.Many people that suffered abuse or a dysfunctional or many NPD, BPD like parent in childhood strongly fall for and go for partners that mimic the abusers traits. If they have daddy problems to they obsess over men like this, if they have mommy issues and were dominated by a more masculine but abusive mother they go for crazy women that cause highs and lows to mimic the love they received and think they deserve. Childhood is everything in human psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:46 AM |
| 8 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.When a women has sex with a man, she's giving him full access to her womb & child bearing ability. This means she is taking it away or threatening that ability of all other men sexually involved with her. Nothing is being taken away from a women if a man cheats or has sex with multiple different girls in an open or poly relationship, unless he chooses to invest his resources & time, commitment, love/affection to one of the girls but not the other. Then that women is screwed & in historical terms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Controversial results about unconventional vs. conventional 'cuteness'The problem is, we can't compare celebrities & all we see in media to real life. In the modern age, unconventionally attractive people ARE the most desirable, seen as high status & sexiest people. Think Adam Driver, Anya Taylor Joy. This is because we value individuality much much more than in previous generations of human civilizations, so in the masses eyes conventionally attractive people might be alright for modelling, seeing them in advertisements & as backgrounds in TV shows or movies. How… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 42 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsYup, this is a scary thread, like all the messaging men get from women ... its only to decieve them & manipulate them into being seen as weak. Women are terrifying creatures, on a subconscious level I don't think people ever think about, beneath all that cuteness, softness, kindness... if they deem a man weak they will show him no mercy. Tens of millions of men on this planet get burnt EVERY SINGLE DAY for being emotional with their girls, opening up too much. Falling for the trap card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsAll the most feminine & attractive women will lose respect or attraction or stop rewarding their men if they begin releasing their true emotions. The problem is since most men bottle everything up so much, when its truly released it just can't be stopped, its like a flood gate & they feel they need to keep releasing everything. This is dangerous since when a women sees a man like that she changes her views of him, and might not want to have as passionate sex with him or touch him at all... might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Being promiscuous after you have children is not morally okInstead of investing in their children & gaining happiness through them... they keep investing in selfish futile other people who don't give a **** about their kids & probably don't even truly give a shit about them as well. If they're men they're just excited about being an affair partner. If they're women they're just excited about stealing away a married man. And if the parents are split they 100% shouldn't be promiscuous, that's very time consuming & the kids probably already think one of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Dating requires intention and hard workAren't their studies saying the girls who go further into their education are the ones with the highest number of sexual partners? I can't remember where I read it but it was crazy, never expected the most "intelligent" book smart women to have slept around the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Dating requires intention and hard workYup, most of FDS & TRP tactics only work on low self esteem men & women, or people without any true confidence or self respect internally... ironically... lower value people. If they want to get a in a LTR with these people its fine. For RP it seems like they only want to have sex with them so I guess its fine? Damages the women permanently even more since someone with low self worth can't handle a man that they deem as superior using their bodies like that, they will either try to cling onto hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 6 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?I agree with this, got betrayed by a best friend of 4 years I bonded with so much, told him all about this crush I was talking to for a couple months & how excited I am about finally meeting a great girl. He keeps on acting like he wants to help me get her somehow and make it easy (he's the main friend that host all the parties). I show him pictures & eventually share her snap, he wants to see if she'll add him back. Next weekend you know, he has a party without telling me anything about it, I f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?A lot of women seem to think that they can use sex to make up for any lack of love or genuine emotions the man doesn’t have for her. It can work for a while since men love sex, and will use the fucking shit out of her body for as long as they can to fulfill those urges, but they will never want to be lovey dovey with her or show affection in other ways or anything. The women eventually will have to face herself, her esteem & low sense of self, why she can’t let this man go? This is supposed to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Yup, men would never want to date a women they aren’t strongly attracted to either. All relationships that men stay in like this are GUARANTEED to turn either abusive, toxic, or neglectful. I’ve had one women literally confused & dumbfounded how her man was super abusive verbally for months on end & she kept trying to get him to talk to him about what’s wrong but he wouldn’t, just exploded in rage when she got emotional with him. As soon as she left the house I calmly walked towards him, he put … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Yup, a lot of men think the solution to the modern dating world in western cultures is for all beautiful women to just give every guy a chance instead of crying about being used or abused lol, in reality those girls must have chose those men for some reason, ppl shouldn’t assume it they would have happy fulfilling relationships with those girls either. The dark truth is that these men they don’t give a shit about the women as people either, they dehumanize them wanting to take away their autonom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 40 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?I imagine marriage and any situation-ship like that is extremely damaging to people mentally and emotionally. Forcing any women or any man to be with a person they don’t truly want to be with is NOT the answer to mens short comings, it will actually create many more problems than it solves, sadly I feel like some men are so clouded by scarcity they think “Women have to stop chasing mythical chad like figure!!!! They would be happier just settling for a nice guy like me!” When in reality they wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Lol I’ll admit I once had these thoughts at 18 to 19 when I was first getting experience with girls, never had much in high school besides like 10 different girls being interested and me being completely oblivious even when one of them my senior year sat in my lap every day in class no matter how much the teacher told her to stop doing that since it’s distracting the class. Yeah I was that much of an oblivious idiot in high school. Anyways… I kept on chasing women in college, major mistake, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Body count and infidelity excerptsBy virtue signalIng they mean acting like you’re innocent or it doesn’t apply to you since technically you or girls you know don’t fit the exact description. Sure no one you know “cheats” with someone they’re in a relationship with, but most women remain “single” but fuck around heavily anyway. They have sex with guy friends, with new men into them, keep old flings around. It makes it to a point where few average or above average or sexy women are truly single. Even though more & more science co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Body count and infidelity excerptsSo in short the main issue here is that A LOT of the best men that value it get locked into serious relationships, and a good majority of the best men that DON’T just want to use the shit out of women, won’t get into marriage with any of them though. There’s also the next top 20% of men, closer to average sure but they still can fuck at times trying to mimic what they see some of the top 20% of men doing, they see that pie, all the women being in extremely slutty for the right men & want to expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Body count and infidelity excerptsI think it’s more like 80% of women hate and despise, resent virgins, and some women, maybe 20 to 30% even are less respectful of men who have like less than 5 n count, so 10 to 15 isn’t terrible for a non religious conservative guy who has no interest in hedonism or fucking around for years in all his 20s or older teenage years and even some of his 30s, just wants to find a good wife to marry & share going through everything in his life with. Unless the women is a virgin herself, value purity, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?Nope, the healthiest and most mentally/emotionally stable people don’t feel the need to do anything and aren’t easily influenced by peer pressure or FOMO or wanting to do what they think others are. Men or women, young pre teen girl or boy they might have curiosity or feel lust but the healthiest people that were raised correctly don’t feel like they’re missing something deeper or need sex with many people to discover themselves instead of the billion other ways they can discover themselves. Rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Sex is overvalued. Value is declining. People struggle to catch upYup, modern American girls have gotten really great at having sex & finding it. So now it’s so overblown funny enough sexy is becoming even less valuable than a nice make out session to men who get it enough. People are starting to see cuddling, little acts of affection a lot more valuable than sex. And of course… a quality women that would make a great feminine submissive wife, an amazing nurturing mother is seen as infinitely more valuable than sex, but getting to be with a women like this can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:58 AM |
| 27 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionYup, all the girls that would sleep with a guy the first night want him to take full responsibility. In the modern day its very risky even going there though, no matter how into you the girl seems. We just live in a different time, protect yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 12 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionThey will if you have the right logistics & circumstances down. For example, some guy friends as wingmen that also know how to click with most women quickly & get them attracted to the wildness, the adventure, the excitement. Lets say you have a nice clean apartment with a ton of potential things to do within 20 miles of the bar. Lets say you have a big nice truck or car that can fit a bunch of people (or at least enough for girls to sit on the laps of guys they're interested in in the back seat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionYou seem ignorant Op, women, especially, beautiful or cute looking ones have endless interactions, endless interactions you would deem positive with men every single month. They also have high sex drives as well and most likely have one or a couple you already fulfilling their sexual needs. And so yeah that’s how girls are, even if they really click with you and have a ton of chemistry they don’t have with other men, if you don’t excite them enough or quickly get them to release the sexual bondi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage mean something different for women?Yup I’ve seen it so many times in real life it’s not even funny anymore, it’s not even shocking, it’s just a sad depressing “water is wet, a new boy touches burning hot stove for millionth time oh well” moment. The amount of resentment, loss of attraction women get for men when they have all the dominance & be like man shit feminism encourages is outstanding, it’s irrational. It’s like the disgust a lot of average men have for super huge, obese, overweight women… except that makes sense since it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Does marriage mean something different for women?It’s not blue pill this is just having some base level of self respect and self esteem. It’s what happens when helicopter parents and weak or absent fathers, or “daddys” since that is all men want to be nowadays, daddies have boys but don’t teach them anything about life. They grow to be weak, dependent on others and women for validation. This type of men follow culture as religiously as women do and actually believe in feminism. I’m all for equality & no sexism or misogyny, but that’s not what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage mean something different for women?Men staying in the friend zone chasing after a girl that’s already banged tons of other people & slept with men 1,000s of times in all that time, deserve all the pain & suffering for sticking around. Only reason a girl would care about a guy that has no self respect like this is to drain him of his resources or sabotage his life, make him suffer. These girls don’t consider “orbiters” real friends, other wise they would introduce them to all the beautiful single girl friends they have. Men fuck z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?Yeah lol but if we are going really deep and philosophical in this thread, trying to humanize all women and their actions/behaviors…the sad reality is most of these women have mental health issues or were not raised/brought up right as children. Sure we can be bitter about men and women doing whatever is best for them regardless of who suffers for it, but just like with that people aren’t thinking of others or how it impacts them only themselves. A LOT of people have not been raised well at all.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Women positively reinforce the “bad boys” but love complaining about themThe thing is a lot of girls, 17 to 25 that do this are really… unintelligent. They’re either meek, easy to impressive & take advantage of, many of them will even be extremely submissive & enthusiastic for all the first guys that use them, not knowing how to differentiate all that excitement & emotion from true love. Then they become bitter feminist (red flag) shows they make poor decisions in the past. It’s not only pick me girls who are like this, people have to understand a lot of young girls … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Women positively reinforce the “bad boys” but love complaining about themFor a relationship sure, but for exciting casual sex most young women, even introverted or nerdy girls prefer a “bad boy” that they know is already sleeping with multiple people and won’t commit to them. I would argue it also depends on social economic status of the girl, and the exciting “bad boy” can change based on life circumstances, the nice sweet good guy is too boring for women and wants to be loyal to them when she did nothing to deserve it, this turns girls resentful since they biologic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.Well if the women doesn’t want to tell the guy or feels ashamed it just means that there is no true trust in the relationship and it’s all dead & phony already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.Men will ride that shit to the day they die too if it’s a beautiful girl they took the virginity from lol, but most cheat & jump ship the first chance they get since they never rlly have a shit about her at that young & age, are acting purely on hormones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menI thought it was only me, so many people on the internet make arguments about how “but but explain why girls love baby face guys or pretty bois then” but in reality I only see that among young 13 to 24 year old girls in all my experiences irl, never ever seen 25+ yo women interested or turned on by these guys, but they all still go crazy over masculine seeming & looking men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 15 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Yup, I don’t think a lot of guys realize how quickly modern society would collapse if 90% of men disappear, they do a lot to support all our infrastructure. The remaining men might have harems or women but have to work x100 harder, much more difficult lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Lol you wish you Reddit creepers, for the first year or two all the sperm banks on the planet would be drained entirely. A lot of the top 20% of women will still and share the top 20 to 30% or men in the world or whatever country this happens on, all the top men still get harems of women but now it’s socially acceptable & prided in normal culture/media, polygamy might be legally allowed for a decade or two, however long it takes for more men to be born…. Meaning each top 30% guy gets 3 to 5 of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Damn so western men should just steal the beautiful Russian women if they want feminine submissive wives? But that can create new problems, how do you know if she’s truly good or just using the guy for a marriage visa & will divorce rape his wealth away as soon as she can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 11:04 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Perhaps, perhaps not. I'm not here to propose some end all be all truth, just provide a different perspective. A theory you might say, I like many other men might seek out truth, a deeper understanding of this world. Initially to somehow benefit from the truth, but eventually just to understand what happened in their past & why other men live life they way they do presently. It’s normal for men to be upset, hesitant to accept any sort of world view or reality that goes against what they know & t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Reality is insane, like literally. Millions of men & women go through the same things past ones did in bars, or in societies as a whole, thinking they're no different from all other humans. They do the same thing again & again, expecting different results. We have books of intellects through out history giving everyone the cheat codes to many things in life that even apply to modern life but people don't like to read books. They think that all their experiences are entirely about them & never ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?I would argue our modern dilemma of sexual dynamics is heavily influenced due to how capitalism has progressed & the state of technology, everyone being infinitely more connected than in past generations. Not even the wealthiest people, literally kings or lords of land could be connected to every single peasant, every single citizen, every single soldier the way they are now. When men of much higher status can be connected & seen by countless women of lower one... even if no one acts on any impu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Is following your nature a bad thing, and how do you circumvent the morality free will in the dating market?Well, what would you say if all the women that become interested in you, are interested in you only only seeing you with other women? Women want the best men to reproduce with... but a lot of people have egos & go through moral dilemmas, would say it feels like cheating the system if you trigger someone's impulses & make them want to sleep with you based on their nature. People have free will, but there's always something that influences their choices... its just that people don't consciously un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 4 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?You might be thinking "well wtf why are some women so paranoid & reactionary about me or that other dude at the bar or my friend at the park over a tiny little engagement? when they never rejected us yet & we are just trying to chit chat!? that isn't fair, we would never rape them no matter how personally we took the rejection or signs of disinterest" It could be for a multitude of reasons, even if you seem to be doing something socially acceptable & are emotionally intelligent about things, fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 9 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Okay, I could answer this, but it would involve going deeper into American history & (the history of bars) and deeper into all past civilizations, the previous sexual engagements between men & women. This deserves to be an entire topic of its own, and explains 99% of the interactions you see happen in day to day life that 99.9% of men will never think about, and all women think about but subconsciously. Because they’re terrified of lower value men… and specifically having unwanted sex, ie rape. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?The fact that this thread even exist, that we are associating high value with toxic masculinity shows how backwards our culture has gotten (not every sexual interaction between men & women but a lot of them obviously) to think toxic masculinity is similar to being high value is absurd. We live in an era with more broken men & broken women, think it’s normal and don’t even bat an eye of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 37 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Yup, women don’t give a shit if the wealth, money, status, power, fame, position in life or whatever was gotten through corruption or evil acts, the suffering of many others only that the guy has it. Very very few girls genuinely care about character or morals of the guy when it comes to dating & casual sex. Many girls even get excited if they think the guy portrays certain traits since they associate it with masculinity. And thus not every man is going to live of mainly positive masculinity 80%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Think of some super powerful and privileged white dude who is interested in sleeping with a women he deems as lesser than himself on the hierarchy, if the women rejects him and doesn’t want to sleep with the guy like all the other girls do, he may turn extremely aggressive, violent & try to socially harm her or attack her in a different way. He might talk about her to people behind her back very negatively. He might use all the power he has to try & make her life worse in that environment purely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:26 PM |
| 18 | When people parrot that "dating is a numbers" game, you damn well this is only because we're living in an atomized societyFemale virgins are only shamed by boys that want to sleep with them and people not into the marriage mindset. And of course all the ignorant and pathetic men who are terrible at sex or showing any love affection f through physical acts & are bad teachers as well, either know they can’t teach a virgin women to be great at sex or have no interest in exploring things with her because they don’t give a shit about her, once again, they only care about using her casually or in a relationship for a whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Women will soon stop being wonderful, is that a good thing?You’re speaking of older generations of men mostly, who are the majority you see in monogamous healthy pairings. Or you’re speaking of men in eastern cultures instead of western ones. Younger people begin to become aware of it, when dating becomes tougher and young high school or college guys notice women clinging onto & being enthusiastic in getting to know or sleeping with a man after hearing or learning he’s really successful with women and is already sleeping with one. All the younger people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women will soon stop being wonderful, is that a good thing?The next generation of the post sexual revolution era (we are only in the first generation of every young person being born in the post sexual revolution & pro feminism era where more people are easily influenced by it versus conservative values) will be a lot less bitter, angry, disappointed, disgusted by, depressed due to, surprised/shocked by women’s nature. Especially thanks to the internet. The next generation will be something we haven’t seen before in human histories but that did lurk in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayHe’s probably mixing correlation with causation, a huge fallacy people believe in with many arguments or statistics they try to claim. In reality men who play sports in middle school and high school, or even elementary & have a healthy diet, exercising their bodies will be taller in adulthood than if they didn’t do all of that. The younger they begin the more effect this has. A guy growing to be 6ft 2 instead of 5’10 from eating a lot and having nutrition as a kid is HUGE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?It would be different if most guys gave a shit about women’s pleasures or understood how to get them off in bed but most guys are EXTREMELY selfish, to a point which I don’t think most guys ever think about. Combine this with it being tougher for women to orgasm & all the natural risk, if a women is mentally healthy & emotionally stable (which most 16 to 25 year old girls in America ARE NOT) she won’t feel this deep need to have sex or have a guy to cope. They already have good friends, pets, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What solutions would you guys propose?Yup girls worship hedonism and self destructive behaviors that damage their once beautiful bodies A LOT more than religion in the west at least, America and some European countries. Most have no conscious idea of what they are even doing, instead of preserving their value or sex appeal they rapidly destroy it after some guys got to use the shit out of their asses young. Why? Because they figure there are so many simps and weak men some guy will want them in the future anyway no matter what. Femi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:26 PM |
| 0 | What solutions would you guys propose?Yup, it’s why I cringe so hard when I hear guys trying to hit on or ruin things with female friends and have no idea how to be normal & cool around them. These guys have no idea, they’re ruining the mass amounts of girls they could meet naturally just by being on good terms with her. They cry about not knowing a lot of women or being to approach them… then ruin the social connections with women they do know? It doesn’t help that men with no or little experience… whether socializing or sexual wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:06 AM |
| 5 | What solutions would you guys propose?This is true… so long as the economy is well and the family is financially secure. And the kids get to socialize, interact with other children outside of indoctrination camp like school settings. Now a days kids interact with technology more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:58 AM |
| 6 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Nah dude lol the majority of American men are numb, idle or never thought of any of the “pills” or any sort of weird to them internet ideologies, funny enough a lot of these men actually do alright and have at least one women in their lives since they NEVER overthink things, compared to Reddit users anyway, and don’t have all this weird neuroticism or anxiousness around girls. Think all the blue collar workers and just normal men out and about operating society & building everything irl. The nex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.They’re just enjoying their lives in college my dude lol don’t over think it, women and men get turned on doing things they think of as not appropriate or socially acceptable elsewhere. And also, based on the culture & the type of school, party, a lot of those super sexy girls you see dancing & twerking like that want a guy to twerk on but with how shit is people are too terrified to. Decades ago it was all normal, and often if you just be one of the guys to stop standing in a corner & vibe to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.Wtf man, every single year for the past 10 to 20 years you have people coming in and saying “all these fat and obese or chubby women are the true problem with dating in America!” Could one factor really create such a massive effect in the statistics of dating and guys seeking attractive, suitable mating partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:15 AM |
| 5 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Yup, women have no idea how much pair bonding and hormones in their bodies trigger from sex, it strongly clouds their judgment. And so if the guy has a masculine edge or dominance even if he’s toxic or a bad boy a lot of younger hormonal girls 13 to 25 will still fall deeply in love with him and be overwhelmed with emotions. This is why nice guys will always finish last, because women are the true ones who can’t keep it in their pants or say no to sex, they’re addicted to good dic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.True, never thought of this, if the girls actually didn’t have such shitty attitudes and weren’t so unpleasant to be around then maybe some could land the guy they want despite their ridiculous expectations (whether they will have a happy life with that guy is another thing) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsEvery day, millions of American girls have sex with guys hoping he will like them or commit or give them something in the future. When the guy is pounding away like an animal thinking about all the pleasure & the present lol he has no intention of every sticking around with the girl & gets anxiety she’ll get pregnant. But also for happy thoughts, everyday millions of serious monogamous couples already in exclusive loving amazing relationships with each other that want to be together for as long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesFor guys who want nothing else in life but to marry a virgin wife? 10+ is still huge. In reality a huge minority of girls have under ten by 21, even less so by 25. I’d say maybe a bit under 1% stay virgins by 23 to 25. At 18 to 20 there’s maybe like a 10% chance she’ll be a virgin you can marry. But that decreases fast as time passes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:32 AM |
| 38 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.Across the entire internet, women in general and especially feminist were extremely silent about the Ukraine war for the first week. Then people only begin talking stuff after hearing of rapes or sexual assaults happening in captured cities. Women don’t give a shit about men sacrificing so much to keep society functioning or dying in wars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth?Compatibility, confidence, self esteem and organically bonding with others. Oh and all humans love sex deeply, and sex is entirely free. On every country on this planet even the poorest ones all humans can have sex with each other, the only difference is the west is birth control is everywhere. Social media has made us think the top 1% people are everywhere and we all deserve them… not even one of them, but that we deserve all of them or else we are missing out. It’s brainwashed people to not be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowI feel depressed every time I see guys so much better than the women they are with wasting years of their lives with her when they could be with a women a lot more beautiful or having better character or hobbies & interesting lives. These guys settle for good sex & a girl who worship them but discard bettering themselves to experiencing all the other things a feminine higher quality women could offer because they don’t think any of these things exist in many modern western women anymore. They do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Should men be judged on their history too?Only if they have a really big number. And if they abused or mistreated past partners… and/or if they didn’t get their history (high n count) from women by just wanting variety/fun in different experiences but because all the women they’ve been with eventually see a ton of red flags and run away from them. The thing is every man has a ton of embarrassing **** he would never want any girl to know from his past, the only difference is men don’t go opening up about weaknesses or past girls that hur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 0 | This subreddit feels like it's become almost entirely Q4W at this pointYup, it feels like a toxic way to censor men and keep them out . It’s like a passive aggressive attack on all the men who lurk here or post on this sub. It feels like pseudo feminism taking over just like it takes over and dominates all spaces in society. Or perhaps simpletons think women’s opinions and point of views are the universal truth & matter a lot more so only they show be asked questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highOverall TRP is a philosophy about sexual strategy in the modern age of society & self improvement. Immoral & moral ways to be a more sexually successful man by putting yourself first & not buying into indoctrinations. Whenever I look at FDS it just seems to be about finding a relationship with a “high quality man”… but at the same time giving no advice to women for how to become the girl that man would want to pick. Giving no thought or pondering what modern men most deeply want in a women for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too highI just find it hilarious PPD has always had this notion and idea that TRP and FDS would be perfect matches for each other and it doesn’t make any sense why they don’t date each other, no group of people are obsessed with the opposite sex so much yet hold so much resentment & toxicity toward them from past actions members of the opposite sex did or did not do. (Withholding relationships or commitment to women & only using them for sexual pleasure and bedroom fun) on women’s end (Withholding sex a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about?Health. Fertility. Big boobs, nice buts, flawless symmetrical face, long luscious hair. Men for all of history and for all of the future will always fall deeply in love with these. Same as women loving strength, muscles, power & dominance (no matter how narcissistic or masculine modern western women try to seem) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?OP, I just want you to know this shit has fucking been posted like a million times on this sub and like a trillion times in other places on the internet & asked on discussion podcast or talks to guys about the dating market. YOU ALL ARE TALKING ABOUT 10% OF MEN THAT TAKE ADVANTAGE or aren’t happy with it. It’s such a stupid nonsensical argument with zero basis. Stop obsessing about the 8% of men that commit sexual assaults in an area and saying “well all men are just innately evil predators and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it moral to have hook-up, one night stands but withhold sex from guys which are relationship material.Is moral or ethical or sign of good character or any sort of genuinely quality women/girl? No. Do most American women do this and have been for the past several years? Yes. If any women has ever done this in the past or does it presently she will never be a quality person, of course it’s possible to find one that is but it’s far unlikely the average guy will ever meet that girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle.I roll my eyes every time a women on here say they don’t want f boys and would love a virgin man. Unless they grew up with that culture or are religious or are currently virgins 18 to 25 themselves. They are 99.9% of the time completely bullshitting, and don’t deserve a virgin man to settle down with if he does reach higher status in society. They are most likely used by a ton of lower quality but exciting “bad bois” and got tired of all the sex. Time to settle down with the friendly nice virgin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Sad, this sub has grown so much and it’s still filled with men who only have America’s perspective. Getting slim tight virgin women is VERY effortlessly easy to LTR or marry in most other countries on this planet, America is the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | One More Condom in the LandfillThe main problem with this is if they have sex to all past guys in under 3 months of serious dating & intimate moments with each other. NEVER the case, all those girls were loose af in the past, punish the better man for nothing he did wrong while they gave other guys their sexual best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 0 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsYou guys aren’t thinking about a few things though… you understand how something is, the state of American born & raised women with their divorce rapeyness. But not why. Average women put out so much because they know they will be priced out of the market and have no power like beautiful looking women. Beautiful girls can have everything handed to them and easily get 1 high value man’s interest, which will make 2 other high value guys be interested in competing for her and being respectful, bend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemYup, but in America this was achieved by putting deep anxiety into people's minds. To feel like they're missing something or need something, or have to get the latest fashion/tech/etc to be on par with other people who get them. I feel like preying on low self esteem or body issues is mainly for female buyers, which are the biggest consumer base so it might ring true. For men its literally all advertising for what can get them more sex, what makes it easier to conquer women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemAgreed, just getting sex or "fake love" from guys wanting to exploit your body as much as possible. The pain that comes from all the 'top guys' leaving you after they get what they want is real for women. It can actually leave mental scars, trauma that LITERALLY impacts their behavior for the rest of their lives, and the way they see/treat men. They're letting these men inside their body, to take them at their most vulnerable for their pleasure... of course that effects them whether they like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makehttps://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/02/modern-dating-odds-economy-apps-tinder-math/606982/ This is why it is a market place on OLD period, women see all the guys in a 100 mile radius when they hop online. Women might only be willing to meet up and have sex with or hang out with guys within 30 miles, unless its a really higher status guy than her they will literally fly across all of America just to sleep with him. People inherently dehumanize other human beings even using OLD and try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do.Yup, even the most good, innocent seeming, nerdiest women you can possibly think of or meet in America. They are far more likely to end up with a stereotypical good guy/nice guy but if they got burnt/messed up from an early age by guys, 14 - 18. 100% they will go fully "bad" and desperately chase all the misoygnistic or guys that will use & abuse them to somehow recreate what happened in the past, fix it. Women in abusive relationships are likely to enter into new ones, simply because that's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?Isn't it pretty depressing though in reality? Countless young guys use Twitch & Onlyfans to desperately try to get a virtual girlfriend experience... like what the f, how are these even big industries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?All these men are just angry and bitter millions of women on this planet can easily earn $10ks a year or a lot more and afford to fund their entire lifestyles entirely from online sex work. Only fans, tiktok, Instagram, camgirls, porn, etc etc etc. They're bitter that they have to work so hard doing real jobs while a women can bend over and instantly gain $100k from that one time. The reality is, the vast vast majority of these girls doing all of this aren't celebrities or women born with a silv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".There is a reason America doesn't like teaching critical thinking in middle school, high school, and even the vast majority of college courses. We try to limit teaching kids or young people to be thinkers as much as possible, because it's very dangerous having a society where even 10% of the citizens always consider why everything is the way it is. We live in a vulture society of capitalist preying on everyone beneath them & encouraging everyone to fully submit to profit seeking to succeed in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:34 AM |
| 6 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".Women and men aren't the same biologically though, women know the child is there's, men don't. There's a reason every culture in history valued virginity in women so much but no one cared about it in men, in fact it was always acceptable for higher status men to have many mistresses, concubines etc etc even if they were promised to a virgin women. We haven't gotten past our programming and most likely won't until technology can literally bio engineer us. And you are taking the argument the wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 11:45 PM |
| 11 | You are not struggling in dating due to the opposite sex. It is that you don't socialize enough and are only using OLD.Here's the thing, people who get sex, love, attention, approval early on in high school, and then even more as soon as they get to college and are overloaded with abundance, options, while all the average or below men who never socialized much or had an evolution from loser to demi-chad or thad or just a normal healthy functioning adult who can get a LTR & not worry about the SMP are playing catch up. Or if they're very socially awkward and tied to some engineering or mathematics major with zero… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 15 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewYup, girls deeply hate & resent guys they see as weak, emotional, passive, or vulnerable. They always reward the guys with qualities they see more as masculine. Even though women entirely control the selection, they will always option for men they see as better than them in some way & most likely to already have pre-selection (other women they know the guy had sex with or wanted him, past or present) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 21 | Why is acknowledging the fact that most men are not physically attractive to women seen as massively controversial and even TRP'rs are in denial about it?Society literally gaslights & manipulates boys & men from birth to neglect their physical appearance. And now you are angry at them for thinking what they've been told their entire lives is true "it doesn't matter since you're not a girl" wow Most guys that many girls find good looking are quickly taken out of the market & already in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | 80% of men desire only the top 20% of women.2009 article? lol rofl Complete bull****, the reality is in America most women are just fat, chubby, obese, or too dominant/masculine & have slept around while most high quality guys don't want a used baggage car with 400,000 mileage on it to keep for the rest of their lives even if guys do go for average looking, 5/10 women with a ton of 'mileage' they still have to be very up there to prevent her from branch swinging or later on divorce raping him. sometimes nothing is enough for certain girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthlessSo no homosexual or asexual people at all browse this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Dating benefits men and men should stop whiningWhat kind of logic is this? Here's the thing, it's not purely about the sex or banging some sex dolls in Eastern countries or Central America or wherever that fake enthusiasm & love for your money. It's not even about trying to feel like some king with a harem to boost men's tiny fragile little egos hidden behind all the bullshit they say or think, literally every modern guy started out just wanting a meaningful relationship & connection to one women in their home country. But then they discover… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Men do peak in their 30s, but most men do the wrong things and don't put in the workI think men begin starting to reach their physical peak & getting into a very healthy state of emotional, mental power, learning about the world & how it all works by 23. And from there it either keeps growing or decaying, or stagnating at periods or skyrocket growing. They also all got into their careers by 23 &/or are starting to make money & have something more to offer than their social value (personality, sex/body appearance, confidence). By 30 if they kept growing... then yeah they start b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 04:53 AM |
| 9 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanLiterally just stop OP. Just stop everything you are doing or thinking or your anger or resentment about America and go travel to one of your favorite countries to import a humble beautiful feminine virgin wife. No matter how good of a guy you are, how respectful or decent you are to everywhere throughout your entire life. No one will give a living shit about you as a man. Especially after you turn 21/22. The truth is no one owes you anything at all, women do not owe anyone virginity, respect, f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierHere's the thing, this can be reenacted with real data in circles of populations. Think colleges, universities, small towns, areas in cities, all sorts of places. The only thing stopping women from doing this and constantly bouncing from guy to guy is not knowing of their existence. But because of the internet & instant messaging ... now people know of many people's existence & women are overfilled with dopamine & desperation for attention/sex/whatever from a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:26 PM |
| 3 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierArranged marriage has been the most popular form of marriage for MOST of human history that marriage has been around. In America however it was more of a pseudo arranged marriage, most of the time the parents or guardians of the young girl just recommended her to guys she could/should marry. They could meet & 'date' with a chaperone around, depending on the girls age & how long they have both known each other. After this it turned into full courtship. Of course the guy was expected to be a gentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:54 AM |
| 5 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierSex. Affection. Intimacy. In the past, men could only get this from a wife or girl they dated with permission of their parents. Or otherwise prostitutes which was seen as shameful & outlawed in most of America quite a while ago now. In the past men were guaranteed a virgin wife, that was respectful & pleasant to be around. Nurturing, feminine, sweet, clean & quality. As long as they played their part that is, worked hard as a masculine man, having a ton of different useful life skills & people s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The Redpill takes a lot of flak for being "misogynistic" ideology, but it views women in the better light than most modern women see men.the thing is people see it as fair since men's standards have never ever changed since the dawn of time, and the top men in society for all of human history have completely ruled, dominated, & engineered the game for female beauty standards, or what women get or done get in life. Be muscular, big, strong, have some sort of power, confidence, & status. There, its done. Really, the only thing that it's all about is power, & signs of good health, more wealth for men. No matter how a man is born, un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The Redpill takes a lot of flak for being "misogynistic" ideology, but it views women in the better light than most modern women see men.If a man followed this "Red Pill" philosophy why would he listen to the opinions of people in society? A society he thinks failed him completely? A society he thinks lied to him about being a good guy & nice gentleman to everyone & every women, thinking no one would take advantage or disrespect him his entire life from this behavior in adulthood. Nothing is stopping a 28 yo accomplished man and multi millionaire from marrying, impregnating & starting a family with an intelligent & beautiful 18 y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouYeah, you should definitely be deeply in love the women as well, but we as men understand that if the women isn't there initially after knowing you more it will never be. The thing is we as men know that this step comes far more easily for men into women than it does for women into men. As long as the women is pleasant & isn't insufferable to be around, has a good enough physical appearance the guy can develop that deeper love just from spending enough time with her. The man just has to be that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:12 PM |
| -2 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouThe difference is women love & will bang the living shit out of a guy they worship. But they're completely disgusted and actually very resentful of guys that worship them, respect them too much, do all this nice stuff for them when they never earned any of it and sleep with men who invest 0 into them. 99.9% of girls i've witnessed & met, would see all the guys that worship them, or want to shower them with gifts & whatever dumb onlyfans bullshit would see all of them flayed & killed. Just for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: as long as women hold views like these regarding male virginity, you cannot act like male promiscuity is equivalent to female promiscuity.Science does not want to talk about studies that can upset the public at all... just like with the negative effects of porn on young men. But there are many studies just with indirect topics, if you piece together the findings & surveys you can conclude this yourself though. It's just common sense if you've been in college/high school this past decade or speak with all the young guys/gals. Girls usually lose it around 15/16, but by 18/19 the amount of sex they have skyrockets with the amount of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:53 PM |
| 7 | If women gave genuinely good relatiomship advice to men, then boys raised under single mother households would have the best dating outcomes.Something i've noticed, is boys raised in families with strong mothers. Dominant mothers. Or otherwise passive fathers end up having very terrible dating/sex lives later on. The opposite is true for men with strong, confident, leaderish type & dominant fathers. They end up succeeding a lot from 16 onwards in life & don't need any help at all from external teachings. Women suck at giving advice in regards to sleeping with them period, they will tell you ridiculous things that can get you crucifie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | What happens to men who struggle in dating?They either improve and gain some success, lock down just 1 average or below women to avoid the dating market if they struggle for many years. Or they improve, get more options & lock down someone they're compatible with & enjoy being around, probably an average quality women too though, and probably or potentially also has a high body count b4 being with this guy. Or they improve and lock down a high quality women, there's still a higher chance she divorce rapes them eventually though or tries … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Workplace relationshipsThat's just natural OP lol you sound really jealous of all the girls throwing themselves and sleeping so easily with the attractive male doctors. It takes a lot of years of work to become an established doctor, and even more years of experience to be paid very handsomely for it. Now you're in your 30s, a well paid attractive man working a serious profession and everyone looks to you for answers for everything. That authority, that power, that excellence. Commands respect, you can't expect all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | No one owes you sex.I feel like OP is talking about two completely different scenarios. All her high school boyfriends and all the guys she knows her girl friends date, and all of them pressuring their girls for more sex, shaming them or spreading rumors or disrespecting them, giving them less time or punishing them in some other way if they say no. Versus All the guys that get no sex period in highschool and even college until they made something of themselves. She's not focused on the 30% that get left out of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | No one owes you sex.So you're saying, if a man is attractive enough and commands enough attention from women, he's owed all the sex he wants from them? Is this why all the really handsome frat bros feel confident in raping any of the lesser attractive girls that party with them & they think they could easily smash anyway? This idea you have, that women would only not want to have sex if the guy is unattractive looking, or if he's seeking it out of pity, desperation, begging for her crumbs of... whatever. Is very da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:25 AM |
| 3 | No one owes you sex.Anyone can survive yes. But psychologically, mentally, emotionally how damaging will it be to a person to never have shelter? Never have safety, security? Similarly, if we can understand that logic how damaging would it be for a women or a man to go 20 years, post puberty, without any sort of sex, intimacy, touch with another human being? I think maslow's hierarchy pretty much got it exactly right as a philosophy for the human conditions & everyone's wants/needs in life. Sure no women or man nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 3 | No one owes you sex.Wtf? For most women, sex is physically painful if you're not attracted to the guy. Uhh. No OP. lol I can already tell you are very young by saying this. I've never seen or heard of anything like that irl, besides literal rape or sexual assault, which is not the type of sex we're talking about. I've listened to stories of girl friends having sex or doing things with guys that they weren't really into, and it seems like it was mentally or emotionally painful for them. But never physically. I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 3 | If your Vagina Magically Disappeared tomorrow. What would you do to keep your man?Notice how OPs post gets downvoted more than any other recently posted here. All the women responding to this thread are just ignoring the question or deflecting in some way. All modern women in general... know that they never clean or cook consistently for their men. Don't know how to do it well at all. The only thing they offer is sex & their bodies, it's why women cling so hard to men after they give it up... they're terrified that was the only value they had to offer. Or well, at least this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Society is crumbling because people arent taking responsibility for their dating - PetitionEven if this is true. It's too late to go back to the previous model. And most women don't have positive role models to look at so it will never change. Most men will never be masculine enough either or ever become a strong enough man to literally change a women's will & make her want to be influenced more strongly than him by society, Tiktok TV shows Anxiety or click bait news Toxic & degenerate music Social Media Media in general Her friends & everything they do Her sisters & mothers, how they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you have male friends and if so why?This is a very sad anti-social depressing view of things OP. To make it really simple for you all the true female/male friendship dynamis have no interest in sleeping with each other on BOTH sides. If one side has a crush or any ulterior motives at all, or is actively thinking about or trying to have sex with the other or planning it somehow then. That's something else, people just playing their own games & hoping for some future outcome, a friendship to lead to something more. If there's mutual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 11 | FDS are "pick me" womenThe problem is the average fds subscriber is actually the opposite of what every RP philosophy believer thinks is the ideal women for marriage, in America at least if you did want to settle down & marry a women. Most fds rode the "CC" in one way or another, which is how they got so bitter & resentful, hateful & nasty about men. Or they fell deeply in love with one man, probably gave all their best years 18 - 25 to just that one man. They discover he wanted them purely for their bodies & all the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 17 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?I've seen girls post themselves having sex with other guys on snapchat private stories & tik toks just so guys they knew were really into them could see it to get in their heads. The thing is, this is getting so much more common, along with open relationships amongst generation Z it's not even shocking to me when it happens anymore. Girls are completely out of control now a days, they literally all want to be "baddies" as much as they possibly can be. Smoking... or now since it's not your mentor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 04:14 AM |
| -1 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?For most guys day ones aren’t a thing, they’re entirely alone until they gain success or status in the world. It’s a cold harsh cruel reality for most men. It might be impossible for women to understand that with such natural abundance, they have endless guys giving them opportunities for sex, affection, desire soon after 16. Albeit a lot of those men won’t genuinely be into her either and just love getting off. A lot of girls through sexual trauma and all the lessons society teaches them about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?And also the other issue is 99.9% of American girls don’t want to spend anytime with the underdogs, so eventually after many years of hard work the underdogs end up big & remember how all the girls never looked at them when they had no money or success or power. The thing where it gets very dangerous is when all of these girls not only don’t spend any time with the underdogs or give them any love or affection but actively treat them like ****, disrespect them or act like they’re invisible. Event… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?It’s easy to look at celebrities but millions of American men do this to girls all the time. Normally the girl is aware of it, since she’s not in a relationship with the man. But still you’d be surprised just how many young guys 16 to 23 get in relationships purely for consistent sex with an easy girl that “loves” them with the plan in mind to upgrade to a better sexier or more intelligent or something women when they’re older, wiser, leveled up in life, health, money etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Where does this hate for TRP come from?It used to be very misogynistic place, filled with a ton of men obviously adding in rage, resentment, and bitterness mixed in whatever truths about modern society or women they unveiled... masking the sexism as "truth" and just part of the world. It was ridiculous, it stopped being an ideology about finding the truth & believing in it... stopped being one about critical thought and finding the objective facts or hidden meanings behind what happens in society. People kept using their individual e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?Lol I only say things based on past experiences, my life is very chill & drama free for over 2 years now but I can at least understand the sentiment from both men & women. Or why people might believe some of the crazy things they do on this sub & come to their conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?Yup, human beings evolved to see that whoever can capture and conquer the most women usually wins out in wars due to sheer numbers & size, more people to innovate or strategize. It all goes back to basic biology and evolution. Also male sperm is billions while eggs are few, women can only get pregnant with one baby for many months, nearly a year. They’re also very vulnerable during this time (why protective males genetically survived more, and why being a nice guy to women is default PC behavior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 09:58 AM |
| 4 | It's not "the patriarchy" that upholds unattainable beauty standards, it's other women.Yeah lol the truth is the guys get suckered in from all the love bombing or sweetness the girls give initially. They stick around just hoping for that to return & when it never does they just stay conscious of how they've never had any of those of feelings their entire lives. Even a tiny tiny hint of the honey, a little sprinkle every 10 gallons of salt & bitter medicine will make these guys stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?So many men never expect a women to have hair & don't know that is a completely natural thing for the human body. So many guys expect women to love anal even though is painful for them & are completely shocked when a girl doesn't love anal & act super excited or happy he did it against her wishes. This is all really terrible, given that women just want men to get what the best things to do to her in bed/sexually are. To just get her emotional & mental stimulation, exactly how to turn her on in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 2 | RedemptionThis is a beautiful idealistic dream OP but it will never happen in the next 200 - 400 years. Not in a country like America at least. America is all about inequality, capitalism, one man gets all the money & sex & women, another men gets nothing at all period. That's the true American dream. That's what America is all about. 100 people make $10k a month while 10,000 other people only make $2k a month. THAT IS AMERICA. THat's how its been all of the 21st century and how it will continue to be OP … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?Just like looking beautiful is a strongly tied pressure on women and if they are ugly, unappealing to society they suffer mental health issues. Men have that same pressure but to be sexually successful with as many women as possible, regardless of which other guys they throw under the bus to achieve this. Or how many uglier women they. This works perfectly since the lesser desirable women also feel happy, successful & get off if they think they're pulling in the highest quality guys. It's not a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Sex is only not seen as a need for women consciously because they have such abundance of it, there's no fear that they will never be able to genetically reproduce. Take away all sexual acts from women for 10 years and we can test out if their mental/physical health suffers or not. The problem is, men know & understand if a women isn't having sex with him, she is most definitely having sex with other men and developing deeper connections, love for them. The men she lets inside her fill her mental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:12 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Low n Count 3 or less, very naturally sweet & feminine. Very beautiful looking, doesn't have masculine aura or try to be like a man. Takes care of her health & body but not narcissistic or selfish at all. Down to earth, extremely humble (even if she gets with a man that has 100s of millions she will never ask him to spend a penny on her, only cares that he provides for their children if they have them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Men with a group of girlfriends they're closer to than all their guy friends just cry to them, have fun going out or staying in & cuddling, watching Netflix, trying to make each other feel better. Then if she is they think she's ready mentally try to take her out or introduce her to new guys but mentally healthy people know getting under someone isn't the best way to get over someone you had any meaningful bonds or connections with in the past. It can actually make things more traumatic trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 01:18 PM |
| 7 | It's not "the patriarchy" that upholds unattainable beauty standards, it's other women.Yup, the halo effect has been studied for many years & always rings true. Take an average girl, 5/10 she befriends a man, that's 4/10 and the man crushes on her, begins to want to date her. She might treat him like meh, he's not that ugly & she loves his personality/character but wouldn't want him as a boyfriend. She will keep him around since he's at least fun to talk to. Take the exact same guy but make him 7/10 instead? Suddenly she's super submissive, nice & kind to him, offers & has endless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Opposite Sex FriendsWell, Women gossip and spread a lot of drama/trouble much much more than men. So not exactly. Men love to talk about the craziest stories with only guys around... because they know that the info won't get around or some women won't try to ruin reputations or tell all the girls about stuff. It's not 100% of the time, just my personal experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 10 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationYou have a good point OP, prostitution was illegal for a time in American history that actually benefited both genders in a way... but now it only benefits women. They have full access to any men they want, sexually, romantically, in every way. While men as a whole have decreased access to women. The problem here is there's a cognitive dissonance with the female viewers of the sub. They can't possibly understand what it feels like to be in that deep scarcity, receive no attention, affection, phy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 5 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…Behavior, personality, how you carry yourself & interact with women is #1 when you get past the bar. Looks have diminishing returns for men at least. Status, wealth & resources, social proof can also give the halo effect if you look okay enough. It’s embarrassing for men to obsess about looks as much as women, demonstrates no confidence or power. Looks can be all you have if you have nothing else going on for you since it can hint at pre selection, women will throw themselves at you if they thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultDangerous stuff OP, on one hand the girl will be super happy & excited, turned on that the guy fingered her asshole or took her anal virginity or did whatever he wanted to her in bed afterwards despite not wanting it previously, look back up on as passion. She might never want any future guys she comes across to do it if she sees them as very different than the first couple guys she did all that stuff with but that’s because it makes her very uncomfortable, it’s weird, she can’t just Go back to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 7 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.The powers in charge of everything in America really f'ed over women hard core & all the men not in the top 5% of earners. They made everyone think it should be mandatory for women to work. Then all businesses priced things for two incomes instead of one, and every women wants to be in the office. The idea is to make women as a whole more masculine, unattractive, not knowing how to be healthy capable human beings in the home or nurturing around men/children so they raise lesser quality people. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 13 | Over half of young adults are obese or overweight, study says. What might the impact be on dating etc.?It means that the market will be more competitive. Skinny & attractive fit women are in extremely high demand, and when this happens they have to be even more selective than girl's naturally are. Every other man has to settle for chubby, obese, or fat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:54 AM |
| 18 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.It's not that deep, everyone already knows society indoctrinates men into killing off them masculinity, not realizing its not an optional thing for a healthy man. Even the most feminine men you have ever known to exist need an underlying healthy masculinity deep inside them to be truly content with life. A lot of problems happen in society where men think their true nature is evil & shameful, they never get to express themselves. Meanwhile females are more empowered & should be happier than in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating market.Lol OP only narcissistic or BPD women want simps and beta orbiters to serve them, and turn into cruel or manipulative monsters to the guy if they say no when it goes on long enough. You could argue a lot of girls are like this but I’d say it’s simps faults for putting up with this & valuing themselves so lowly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 12:48 PM |
| 6 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Yup every girl I’ve ever met with an n count above 10 said she doesn’t feel any deeper love or emotion or passion for the men she has sex with. If women could pair bond easily past 20 men I wouldn’t care about marrying a women as long as she’s never had STDs, STIs or been pregnant, hell she could even have slept with 100 men if she pair bonded naturally well & was still feminine with me, gave me her best instead of her worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarIs it really hypergamy though? Pre-selection would be the better choice. We know how deeply ingrained women choosing & being highly more likely to select men when they see he has either sexual experience or other women that desire him in the scene. We know that girls are a lot more okay being sexual with a man if he has a girlfriend already or fwbs or girls interested in him/dating him. When they see other women like a guy, they think he's the most desirable highest status/value guy in her world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:15 AM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?It's not even about that. From what I've seen it's all the mental health issues, baggage, trauma, toxic attitudes or behavior all these girls dish out on the men they end up in relationships with cause of the 10s to 100s of past guys (for some girls) they've slept with. This guy couldn't ask her to be feminine, sweet, cheerful, loving & nurturing to him, let alone decent & give him her best. These guys normally get these womens worst side & attitude while all the past guys got to enjoy their bes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | My slightly different take on the typical rise in sexlessness postIf the Gabby Petito situation wasn't writing on the wall for the social media generation Z kids, I don't know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?Before they discovered how 99.9% of American born women are, disappointing, hypergamous to the max, don't believe in any romance at all but just having sex with or trying to a marry a guy 2 or more levels above them. Not feminine, not nurturing, doesn't really offer anything a man can't do & isn't expected to do entirely on his own now (cooking, cleaning, all home maintenance). They were silly boys who believed in a fantasy, played the good guy & did whatever society or parents or their women wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How would you sum up the message of Red Pill in one sentence?Most women are average & should be treated as such, most modern women would rather be objectified by an average looking guy than pedestalized by an attractive one. The problem is you can make a lot of strong takes about 'TRP' but that's pointless if the average man would never ever believe it in the slightest, it just won't ever register with him that any of the stuff they say is true or some law of reality. The truth is usually somewhere in the middle & takes a lot of critical thought to unders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men get manipulated the most by the women they fuckWhenever a man’s life is actually ruined it’s usually by a women he has sex with in the past, but causation does not equal correlation or something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withYup, first they get countless young girls to religiously worship & overvalue promiscuity, rap culture, being a baddie or whatever. All desperately trying to look cool to appease or get validation from men, but they aren't even conscious they are doing all of this for the top men & were indoctrinated to see it all as empowerment, what they truly want in life from their authentic selves. Albeit you also see the same thing with men "Fuck bitches get money" idea, essentially that boils down to a lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:57 AM |
| 9 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsWhen guys are deep in a mental disease called "oneitis" it does feel like they have absolutely no agency or control to stop it. The source of the disease is scarcity & low self esteem or some other deep insecurities the guy has about himself. He subjects himself to the lowest form possible and rationalizes that everything he does is okay in the name of love. Which is really just his idealization of who he thinks the girl is/wants her to be vs reality. They're so blinded by emotions they can't ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsI hate how guys try to act like the victim all the time. When the truth is they likely just had ulterior motives & didn't get what they truly wanted (sex). So lash out. The reality? Men love being useful to women. They get off on feeling like they're needed, like they're important, like they're useful. They genuinely do. Maybe not in the way they get off on all the pleasure & dopamine during sex or validation from that. But it doesn't make it less true. If men didn't enjoy it so deeply in some w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationLmao, I know. I thought the same thing, I never watched her any of her onlyfans stuff, only seen the news articles & people talk about it, that one video she made when she returned to the internet. But I did watch one interview with her and it was very clear the deeper level of intelligence/business savvy she had, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rg68p\_PdjfU, she's a real human being behind all her profiting from simps. But she goes about her business in a playful humor type of way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Most Red Pill Influencers have likely suffered some sort of traumaI remember watching a video about that Alexander grace dude, he went to a college to ask girls all these questions about what guys they would sleep with or whatever. One group of girls reports him to campus police and he tries to play it off to all his viewers that “you see are evil and insidious women are? This is why I teach you guys all of this, just to show you how much of a problem girls are, I was just asking them all innocent questions and they try to get me in trouble” lol he sounded cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Most Red Pill Influencers have likely suffered some sort of traumaIt’s funny how obvious it is to know what peoples backgrounds are, fresh and fit are Ex black nerds who got into lifting & built an influencer platform/business/persona where they enact revenge of the nerds non stop preaching to lost younger men how to be masculine or successful in life, the blind leading the blind. Alexander Grace or whatever his name is seems like that one kid that got crushed super hard in high school and never recovered from it so tries to use all sorts of rationalization, “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?That's online culture, and while a lot of manipulative women are out there in real life, few will ever use the term "incel". Or even care about a guy being very inexperienced unless he's being socially awkward all the time, making a big deal about being socially inept, or being creepy with them. A lot of shitty human beings in general will take advantage of you or walk over you, or try to make you feel bad about things the culture i'm talking about is much worse. The reason is that its insidious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?The thing is women act super sweet & innocent or decent in public or without any guys around, and generally don't have any degrading things to say or talk about the men like objects they're using while speaking about the sex to girlfriends. They talk about how much they enjoyed or hated something. And the genuinely higher quality ones speak about things in a suggestive way & just use facial expressions from the few girl's nights I had the pleasure of listening in on hiding in my apartment room. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 16 | CMV: If you’re struggling to find a man to commit it’s your job to improve your situationThe idea that personality doesn't matter for women is the most dangerous and deadly one instilled upon in young girls heads. Almost as deadly as the idea that looks don't matter if you're a guy is for men, I've seen it play out so many times in college. All the attractive looking women with entertaining or interesting personalities & good character? Maintained relationships with high quality guys, ended up engaged/married happy as can be focused on growing greener pastures in life instead of dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?Yeah the sad truth is a ton of young people push this culture. You tie this to the idea of scarcity mentality, men believing in scarcity for so long and it dominates their life. To one man sex is completely worthless, a waste of time & resources chasing women when he could be working on building his business to be worth 100 million in a few years, having girls come to him. To another girls are everything due to either past scarcity or trauma, his life flashes by & when he finally gets girls he l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 14 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?Yup, the first time girls ever hear "locker room talk" amongst men and see even the guys they thought were the best of guys, really great character participate in it they're absolutely shocked. Hearing guys talk so poorly about the girls they have sex with, how they have flat asses or their boobs are too small & justify cheating on them with other girls because of this. The girls they talk so terribly about behind their backs have no idea at all and still try super hard to please the guy, it rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 10 | How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything?Yup, all the top models & hottest girls in our society have known this for decades now. Just look at all of Brad Pritt's girlfriends, they all know that they're only there for a temporary time but it will be a good time & they get to tell everyone that they had a ton of fun with that upper tier guy. All the men they get with in the future? If they are lower value men then that guy they don't care, they're just happy to be with a beautiful girl now even though she's older. If they're upper value … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:True, it depends on what the other person is looking for. And ideally men will find women who want commitment, are really into him and will have sex with him before asking for anything to prove that. And women who want a man for a serious relationship will ideally find a man that actually cares about besides thinking she has a really nice body, The problem is everyone goes into it (at least in my young generation) with either not knowing what they want, not wanting to reveal any of these details… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are so terrified of being taken advantage for sex, and men are so terrified of being taken advantage of for money/paying for dates, when the answer is simple:OP, you and everyone else in this thread are crazy. Let me explain. You literally just explained the whole "game" with your simple solution, but why? BECAUSE THEY CONFLICT WITH EACH OTHER. If men seek out sex & using women without any commitment or romantic interest in them, they win the game & can just leave her no worries, they had a shit ton of fun, she maybe slept with them in hopes of commitment or money or resources or even just his time & acceptance/validation but never got it. Women migh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.If the man is a virgin I think its completely reasonable to want a women who is also one or only has 1 - 3 body counts at 18 - 25 tbh. This might be less than 10 - 15% of 16 - 25 girls in America. And probably less than 1 - 5% or as high as 20 - 30% depending on the areas you live in (Religious or Mormon or whatever compared to super liberal & free areas like California). The only question is if this guy is high enough value to make this girl never ever wanna branch swing and just enjoy being in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | TV presenter Bill Maher discusses incels, virtual reality and the decline of people's social skillsYup, some guys are lucky & learn very young how important character, personality, depth, and good morals/ethics are in women. They find a great women to marry that also luckily happens to be beautiful. Others just chase shitty women based on their appearance & wonder why all these women are so superficial, narcissistic, BPD, or whatever. Or otherwise they just accept any lower quality women that will sleep with them & waste years or a lot of time/money & attention on them just because they have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 8 | TV presenter Bill Maher discusses incels, virtual reality and the decline of people's social skillsPay attention to the messaging & wording. Those who can see that shadows on the wall in Plato's cave understand what they really mean. There's a lot of serious things going on that 99% of people will never know or think about in their entire lives, this sounds like a lot on conspiracy stuff but its blanket reality. All the big news & media outlets are controlled by the higher ups of society, most of them can be traced back to singular corporations, which are influenced & mostly controlled by sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | TV presenter Bill Maher discusses incels, virtual reality and the decline of people's social skillsWell, the script writers for his show are a lot more genius, in tune with how young people work & Gen Z, all of "wokeness", his personality just shows it off well to let older people & those unaware of a lot of things going on in the world understand. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYSLyvbR_1w video of his mentioning the Gretha Thunberg climate change scenario & reality of everyone caring about profits more than the future even in 2021, especially young people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Does having sex “early” ruin everything?This is male nature in modern age... before sex with you, they pursue you heavily & seem super amazing. Then after they get the sex all attention wanes. Their sex drive and interest in you drops heavily, you or no longer some prize to be won or conquered. Some guys even kid themselves into staying with a women they don't like or are unhappy with for years for a consistent supply of it, then after 4 - 5 years maybe they meet their dream women and drop the girl like a bad habit to pursue & immedia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | "Femininity" isn't the natural state of women and what we call "masculinity" is normal animal behavior.Nope. Women were capable of giving birth to more men & women, necessary for most civilizations & kingdoms to thrive in the events of conflict. So they were protected and seen as a necessary resource or claimed as prizes, rewards for sacking cities or vikings raiding & pillaging villages or one empire/territory seizing & claiming another. Women were thus left out of combat while men fought & had to get a lot stronger in order to do so. Men had to constantly think of more creative ways to kill oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | "Femininity" isn't the natural state of women and what we call "masculinity" is normal animal behavior.I disagree. While there are biological aspects of men & women femininity is a developed evolutionary behavioral trait women used to survive. Submissiveness, manipulation with offering sex, bending over & being receptive to men who kill all the groups of men that used to possess them, everything that helped or guaranteed a women's survival. There's a reason women are so much better at social cues & reading people's nonverbal body language/behavior. A lot of it happens unconsciously, they can feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Are you fucked if you don't engage in drinking culture?not really, most girls I know have sex with/fuck guys casually - even friends they already know if no other guys they want are in their lives at the moment when they're doing drugs. it gives them plausible deniability and many women claim it makes them a lot hornier, more excited & down to do it but who knows. I've never done drugs... well fine i've experimented a few times & only 1 time got "high" i guess, nothing crazy happened but time slowed down a lot and my senses felt most sensitive, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Latest stats on sexlessnessWow, this is actually very fascinating, it looks like for the first time in American history (or at least modern American history sexual revolution past 50 - 70 years) sexlessness for younger women has increased & gone up above men's sexlessness. Everyone's sexlessness has risen in general in the past 2 years... but what if for couples the pandemic actually caused sex to increase? Or perhaps for all those relationships that it did not increase with it caused breakups/divorces to increase instead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Can’t older women just date older men?Well, for the vast majority of men that's the norm, when they get older they date women in their 30s & 40s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderThis comes across as crude & throw awayish way of trying to understand the philosophy & its origins. Rollo never invented TRP, and not everyone agreed with his philosophies or practices. The name itself came from the movie "The Matrix" and sometimes also the original "Mask" movie with that comedian actor turning into the green guy. The name & idea for "TRP" or a transformation of men, a difference between the man women want & the one that gets hated or despised by them. The ideology is trickier,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Yup, I remember in college absolutely melting and going crazy with attraction & desire to be on my best behavior, loving & kind, achieve more in life whenever I was around a feminine women, she was like a hidden diamond in a haystack that shined so bright. Her scent, her behavior, her appearance, her personality so soft and sweet, young and beautiful. She never needed to be masculine or rough since she was taken cared of, you felt like you could actually be vulnerable to her and open up entirely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".There are all sorts of mental health things that go on when women sleep with men they seem so superior to themselves. It really triggers all sorts of psychological issues and self esteem problems that can impact them for many years. It’s very predictable which women end up like this too based on how their childhoods were, super hyper sexual and wanting to fuck like men when the vast majority of men don’t even participate in the culture like that… and even if they wanted to they have limits when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?Not really, that’s only if a guy is in the top 10% of money and flexes it as well. Or gives signs that he’s well off and not stressed about money, acts & behaves like he can pay for the women all the time which makes her ask for more & more. When he gives in he’s screwed since the kind of women that genuinely likes him wouldn’t ask or expect him to keep spending more. Just like a guy genuinely in love with a women would never expect her to have sex with him or feel bad if she doesn’t, he just en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What are you?What am I? What kind of question is that lol i'm a human being. I don't think it's fair to try to summarize countless subjective abstract metrics of value into a single number or for any other human being to estimate their or other's value even if it could be stripped something as simple as a number. The reason men do it with women so much, a 1 to a 10 (and most intelligent men all still have their own standards for what they consider to be 1 through 10 on the scale so it doesn't matter) is beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think that young people are becoming unhappier in sex, dating and relationships in general?Millennials & Gen Z with less capital, free time to pursue serious partners they want to settle down with... and addicted to technology will be unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How many young women would take an interest in an older guy assuming he’s rich and reasonably good looking?Most young women I know into "older guys" are just into guys 3 - 4 years older lol not even like a 10 year difference but it's definitely out there. All the 20+ year differences I know are essentially just sugar baby relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:42 PM |
| 3 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?This. I never even wanted to believe in "pair bonding" with women when I first heard of it but holy, I've seen it happen & play out in literally all my friend groups and social circles... its terrifying **** to believe and see evidence of again & again. Just like all the damages porn & masturbation has to men's brains. No scientific studies are gonna be done to research any of this, who will fund it? Maybe 100s of years from now people will know but right now we're playing the modern 21st centur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 0 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?The problem is women are a lot more attracted to men with more sexual experience & female partners. Pre-selection is a well proven thing it might as well be a law in dating girls. Due to biology though and all sorts of anxiety that pop up out of nowhere in a man's head when he gets the thought "Oh wow this girl has a lot of sexual partners" for some reason it might not even click to the guy that they're all past partners so don't matter, they still exist in the guy's head & linger there. All the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?Holy f lol I don't know why I haven't thought about this question in such a long time When I was a naive 19 year old who didn't know **** about American women and how sexual most of them actually are I wanted a virgin wife & wouldn't settle for anything else. And now... i'm fine with any women with just less than 5 past sexual partners. I don't care if she's dated 100 guys but never did anything sexual beyond 5 of them, since that tells me she still has all the same values for intimacy & connect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Dang, this sub sounds really awful the way people on PPD talk about it, but if all of this is true how is it possible that its not quarantined like TRP subs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?What the f is this? What's with r/PurplePillDebate fetish & kink for shipping TRP men & FDS women LOL don't they both already have specific defined list of what they want in partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Pros and Cons of a Traditional girl vs a Modern girlI’m sorry, I just woke up and I’m reading this and j can’t stop laughing for some reason lol I’m crying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Playing the numbers game and relaxing your standards actually yields you more total 'stunners' as a guyPre selection is a golden rule for female behavior it seems, if they see other women sexually & socially open to you they’re strongly more compelled to me as well. Compared to it you were some virgin only talking to or pining over them instead of 50 other potential girls. Looking handsome enough is BUILT in pre selection, and also having a girlfriend or wife you’re already with & very actively sexual with is built in abundance. This is why they call it “cheating” because men have it so much easi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 10:19 AM |
| 0 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realI used to not believe men like you saying this, even all the older 40+ men that kept trying to warn us younger guys about how countless American women are with these things. But after seeing it happen to Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and many other billionaires, guys with 100s of millions it can happen to anyone. It also explains why modern geniuses like Elon Musk never get married despite falling in love with Grimes & having a baby together. Well, IIRC Musk got married in the past but signed prenup s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | If a woman spends her prime years with Chad but decides to have a child with someone after 30, isn't that still the ultimate win for the father?The ultimate win is finding an amazing partner at 18/19 and still being a very healthy lovey dovey couple at 30+ OP, for all the young adults that miss the college & new adulthood boat. 23 to 25 when you just get into making real money & experiencing life is the next best option. Then of course 26 - 29 when most people get married, if you find someone then and stay together the rest of your lives that isn’t a lot of time lost. Don’t be fooled, men have a time limit as well... how long will you b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realThe only men who have no loyalty are the ones who settled for women they aren't genuinely in love with or not really that attracted to and just have because they couldn't get good consistent sex anywhere else. And I feel like the genders aren't too different at all... because a women would only practice hypergamy or want to leave her man if she wasn't genuinely into him as well, if she was only with him because of material stuff like money or status instead of all the meaningful things & shared … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realBecause some women are intelligent, they know that playing the grass is always greener game is a suckers game. They know that the whole notion of sleeping with someone higher up doesn't mean that person will stay with them. And when they leave their boyfriend of 2 years for a single night of fine with that "higher up" guy which doesn't really exist but whatever their feelings & emotional high conclude is somehow a better man than their partner. He doesn't have to take her back at all, and now sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I think most men know their league of who is too hot for them. But do women just NOT have an awareness of who is too attractive for them?Change that to top 20% irl and top 5% on OLD websites and maybe: the truth is all the lesser attractive girls want the best guy willing to make them orgasm they can get if they’re not looking for something serious. They don’t care the top guys will never settle with them. After many years of sleeping around the only thing that will make girls who value that & are stuck in that cycle stop will either be getting knocked up or losing attractiveness until they’re forced to settle down with a nicer n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenFurthermore even all the men that don’t care know they have to sleep with women ASAP at risk of the women disrespecting them or seeing them as less than all the previous men that aggressively had their way with them in multiple ways much much sooner than this new guy they’re dating did. This is a ton of more girls 16 to 22 than any time period in history. Social structures are the way they are for a reason, it doesn’t help that some girls actually mirror traits of previous partners, even toxic o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenMen love sluts, whores, easy when it benefits them. If it never benefits them they hate, despise, resent them & want everyone in society to be chaste & loyal so they can just settle down with one nice girl. Biologically, men might be very alarmed at high body count due to fears of paternity fraud, a lot of men have been with this women in the past & who knows some are maybe still in her life so it sends off a lot of warning signs subconsciously even though consciously the guy is completely fine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenJust watched the movie love hard on Netflix and holy fuck it was so real LOL that’s 90% of women and 100% of men who spend years on tinder still with no luck on that lame app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?Hmm so if a hot guy is friendly & nice, wants to pump & dump a ton of women with lesser attractiveness than himself and/or use them faking “love” until he decides it’s time to search for a looksmatch to marry is that better than a guy being an “asshole” or toxic, rude, mean to the girl? Making it clear he has no deeper feelings or desire to be with her long term while continuing to have sex with her & sexually gratify himself with her body? I’m not saying I have any opinion on the matter, just i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 11:15 PM |
| 3 | You are not entitled to anything, just consume and produce shareholder valueDocile, submissive, mediocre, passive men are easier to control & profit from in mass. They're easier to fill with propaganda, advertisements, misinformation, disinformation, fallacies, and it's easier to stop them from questioning anything they hear from people or see on the internet/media. The capitalist doesn't care if 30% of men are sexless as long as they contribute to profiting billion dollar industries ie porn industry, video games, social media, and many other forms of distraction young … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different culturesIn America most women earn a good living salary entirely on their own or own their own businesses nowadays so they don't need to rely on men on anything (although most would still prefer the man they date/marry make more money than them &/or pays for more of the bills) MOST American women are like this, NOT ALL. One might argue in America this doesn't matter at all though being the buying power young people have is so extraordinary small. 45k a year isn't much in America anymore, even in 100k a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop validating women to get upperhand in SMPYup, not saying I agree with OP's logical basis but all the solution's he/she recommends are just plain unrealistic. Sure maybe everyone would be happier if our society had certain different variables, we can try putting 50,000 men & women on a dummy island, remove all those things to test it out and compare their dating satisfaction with normal people in cities of nearly 50/50 ratio. The thing is the people who come on this subreddit are a very tiny % of Reddit. The people who go on the interne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop validating women to get upperhand in SMPDisagree with cold approaching. 99% of men are too scared to actually cold approach women and just lukewarm or warm approach through social circles or don't even approach at all & rely purely on OLD matches. It builds confidence, character, self esteem & eventually shows every guy that girls are just human beings, easiest way to talk to them or set up dates is to be natural & chill. This entire post is entirely off base though, you draw all these solutions men should do & conclusions... and they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 12 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?This. This is the thing a lot of people ignore on this sub. There are different types of women, it's not all AWALT. Half of women in many scientific studies don't even orgasm once during sex with SOs. And people think ALL women enjoy & benefit from hook ups the most? Will want to have 50 different partners? Its as delusional as RP men saying that men having multiple partners, "plates" will magically fix all their issues in life. WHEN THEY CAN'T EVEN HANDLE & HAVE A HAPPY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WIT… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I've seen this irl as well back when I hung out with a lot more christian men... and the main problem is actually the guys not bringing enough excitement. Either through their personality, through their behavior, or through their hobbies & interest in life. A lot of guys like this can come across as having no identity of their own, they just flowed with whatever adults & other people told them was the right thing to do their entire lives. Boring & predictable aren't exactly the right words eithe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Young & broken women are attracted to this, a lot of young girls under 25 have very low self esteem or insecurities deep down so aren't able to feel love or emotion for "nice guys" that seem like genuinely kind hearted sweet people and are pretty attractive looking themselves. It also seems boring to them. Then you have all the demonization of society, telling women that all "nice guys" are only being nice because they want something, so women should make sure to treat them cruelly & reward the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Will and Jada Situation Gives Me Lowkey DepressionObama is biracial, not black. It's completely fine for mixed race people, when it comes to being politically correct & getting benefits for being a minority they will mention how they are black. There's a big difference, just like Zendaya technically can identify as "Black" since she has a black parent & Naomi Osaka. Countless people are technically biracial or mixed race black people, which means its far more acceptable for them to not be stereotypically black. At the same time they can use the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Will and Jada Situation Gives Me Lowkey DepressionDude, don't sweat it. It's always been this way in America OP, here's the blanket reality, the 401k for any black men on the internet that might stumble across this... or even just non black men who want to have sexual relations with American black women. Black women love thuggish men, or men who can pull off the thug/ghetto/player style. Or you can be an athlete type guy, or a comedian class clown funny type guy with some swagger. Or... how should I say this, they don't like nerdy black men, bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltHoly f, this is so true now that I think about it, girls just want to find out how many guys a women slept with so they can accidentally slip it to the high quality guy she's dating and either take him for themselves or hook him up with a women friend of there's that hasn't "been around town" as much. I never even realized any of this behavior happening, women can be extremely catty & cruel to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 03:57 AM |
| 6 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Well, a guy having sexual options & able to get a lot of women might just mean he's a more attractive person in general, correlation does not equal causation. However if you brought 2 men and there were no differences between them at all, except one guy had a fwb, a girlfriend, and tons of past sexual partners while the other man was a virgin with no sexual experience. No differences at all between the men but this. The vast vast majority of girls would choose the guy they know already has all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 6 | FWB Relationships: The Gatekeeping of Sex by Women vs. The Gatekeeping of Relationships by MenHoly ****, I have the exact same experience... in fact every single healthy longer term relationship I've ever seen between men & women seems to have began as a fwb, or fuck buddy situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.This is the harsh truth some men on PPd still don't want to accept... or aren't old & wise enough to accept perhaps. The reality that a lot of bitter men on Reddit, the internet in general & struggling in real life can't accept. We live in the best time period of all of human history FOR MOST MEN to have amazing sexual options, opportunities, interactions with women. As long as they take the action every day & don't sit on their ass, or spend more time on porn/video games/the internet etc etc et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | In the modern age what do you considering winning/success in the dating game for men?Never heard of a man who became super accomplished in life towards late twenties, marries any girl he wants and “still feels like a loser” because he couldn’t lock down the party girls in high school or college when he was a nerdy ignorant man without much experience or wealth to offer her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderMost men I’ve met are absolutely appalled by the idea of dating an escort or a stripper, some even have gripes & shame about having to sleep with them to get their urge off. Then again I guess the grass is always greener for men, when they do get sex but it’s from average or ugly women they obsess about how they aren’t having sexy with actually attractive women & it gives them an inferiority complex where they only care if the women is like 8/10 or better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of people absolutely do use relationships for personal development and growth, intentionally or unintentionallyNearly all relationships in high school lol a shit ton (but not always) the case in colleges/university as well. Men know a starter girlfriend or long term fwb saves them trouble of finding girls for years while they rack up all the experience of a relationship or sex or experiencing intimacy & dealing with women they want. Then when they’re ready & build themselves up enough, off to get the girl they truly genuinely want & could fall in love with, marry in a year or two after meeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI see where both of you are coming from in your arguments, but the reality is a lot of men, ESPECIALLY, ESPECIALLY western American men have been traumatized too much so avoid 'love" with women or displaying anything like that too overtly. They have to always make it clear they're superior to the women by 1 or 2 levels & have many options before they feel comfortable even given a tiny hint of vulnerability because of just how absolutely cruel, heartless, and callous women can be about all this b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do you want marriage and children?People desperately chase confirmation bias, to fulfill a fallacy... that the information & opinions they search for makes what they want to believe true. Beyond this, even if everyone in any given society believes a certain thing & you can't find any good opposing viewpoints if you search for them instead of being afraid to hear & think about the points the other side has, that doesn't mean it's true either. We should hope for a society with peer research & critical thought found everywhere, not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts?If all these “high quality” men are demanding women with less than 5 partners before they settle down why shouldn’t women demand the same for all of them? Equality would shut them down fast, imagine how shitty they would feel if you rejected them for sleeping with more than your “n count” limit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)You bash women a lot on parenthood here but ignore the same is true for most modern men. Most men aren’t good enough to be decent or true fathers, let alone great ones. Anyone can be a dad, or a daddy, anyone can have kids but not everyone can raise them well & actually set the child up for an amazing life rather than leaving their fate to school system, luck, other people. Most young men under 25 now are either 1. Simps, nice guys, clueless or socially awkward with girls & don’t even have confi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.Sadly since pros is illegal in America tons of young guys do this just for consistent sex/emotional pleasure by women they have no intention of marrying or being with long term. These girls go back into the market jaded, bitter and... with a lot of mental health issues that cause future relationships to fail as well. I honestly wonder if pros would actually be a great thing for modern America, with everyone having to be safely tested for disease b4 anything happens & all employees getting a ton … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity?Never heard any women say as high as 6’4 before, this is counting all the super narcissistic empty vapid social media instatthots you would never want to date or settle down with too, the main thing I hear is girls all saying 6 feet minimum which is very toxic too, imagine roller coasters banning you entirely for being a normal or average height no matter anything else. This being said the vast vast majority of toxic masculinity I’ve seen is actually from women expecting guys to be more masculin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 9 | "Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World FallacySome men will fail & lose, not get any success with girls no matter what they do, other men will easily have girls throwing themselves at them purely because of some status or muscle they built or pre selection, previous success with women & all the confidence that comes with these things. It doesn’t mean they weren’t once a hopeless romantic falling in love all the time & getting no attention from girls. Besides even if you don’t ever get girls you have to become best version of yourself anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 19 | Porn addition being bad for men is one of the few topics that TRP & FDS agree onThat would be hilarious, they both pretend to hate each other more than anything but it sounds like they’re actually soul mates. Just like Joe & Love in You | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Porn addition being bad for men is one of the few topics that TRP & FDS agree onBecause porn and video game addiction hints to the true issue all modern men and women have with each other. If there were a lot more quality Masculine men and thin women 99% of problems would be solved & people wouldn’t care about this hypergamy thing they claim leaves countless young men completely sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Is there any actual evidence behind the idea that women actually "like" sex?Also, NEVER look for long marriages to determine it, the vast majority of men in them kill all attraction & emotional regulation that turn on women the most in them sooner or later. If anything it just goes to show that most modern men don’t understand women & marriage is very difficult post feminism for them. I’ve seen men 10 years into marriage having very happy active sex lives with their wives but they handle it massively differently to the masses. It’s possible but it’s based on who you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there any actual evidence behind the idea that women actually "like" sex?Men love sex with the right man. In fact heterosexual women love sex much more then men do, they just get turned on & emotionally stimulated in different ways. Now this is not to be mistake for how much women WANT sex, this is the thing 99.9% of the population and human beings get wrong, living in ignorance. I’d say the majority of the most successful top 30% of men on this planet learn this but don’t consciously realize it or think about it, they just naturally stumble into seeing how much wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.Yup this 100%, this is the thing every simp and nice guy ever don’t know. They actually did scientific studies on mating success & attaction, and it actually found women aren’t most attracted to the asshole men or bullies or ones with ***** character like everyone keeps saying, they find the most assertive & intelligent men the most sexually desirable. So this means that yes if you’re decent looking, intelligent in multiple different ways (socially & emotionally are most important with girls) an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Women like all types of guys!The sad depressing thing is there's lot of positive rap music out there, and it's usually much much better than 99.9% of mainstream rap. Doesn't rely on much cursing or any of the negative harmful stereotypes. It was especially prevalent around the time Tupac was alive. Now a days all this music is in the underground and considered "Indie", black people consume it much less, the markets decide what musicians rap about. Maybe its because they relate to it yet but I also feel like it ties into sys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!Wtf why are these all white guys with really nice looking heads/faces lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:44 PM |
| -1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.This is one thing the philosophical called "dualistic strategy" TRP had before it got purged & executed entirely from Reddit while its opposite FDS subreddit is apparently still around? I think actually had an interesting take on. I've just seen it far too many times in high school, college, adult life with all i've witnessed & experienced other guys experiencing with girls. They tell all the men they don't want to have sex with immediately in a moment of truth tone of voice & manner "You would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:36 PM |
| 12 | Why do women make some guys wait for sex and not others?This is one thing the philosophical called "dualistic strategy" TRP had before it got purged & executed entirely from Reddit while its opposite FDS subreddit is apparently still around? I think actually had an interesting take on. I've just seen it far too many times in high school, college, adult life with all i've witnessed & experienced other guys experiencing with girls. They tell all the men they don't want to have sex with immediately in a moment of truth tone of voice & manner "You would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | You're a loser, that's why.Fuck, this is one of the realest post posted on a red pill forum in a while, we all already have the tools & strategy, the only thing we need is discipline & to get going on the road. Any reading looking for some secret truth or answer to our individual problems is just mental masturbation & will only lead to physical masturbation. Every man is the captain of their own ship... and a lot of boys, older teens & young adults hasn't even become men yet in the sense of mental power/strength/disciplin… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | People. Give a woman enough time and they will destroy themselves: the anecdote.It sounds like OP caught feelings or **** for a girl in a relationship in his friend group, trying to fuck her but failed & now she's the toxic troublesome person, classic incel behavior. The definition of scarcity, lack of abundance, and a weak mentality. Obsessing over what happens in other's relationships, drama etc, painting their whole world view & new frame with it. With the right man, the right circumstances & leadership a quality girl won't cheat or even contemplate it, she won't fall in… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 10:00 AM |
| 9 | People. Give a woman enough time and they will destroy themselves: the anecdote.Women can be a great help on the team of the actual builders & leaders of a nation, as long as they're strong willed men who keep her in check & give limits on her power, are willing to shut her down if she crosses the line even a centimeter. The way it is now, most guys in relationships aren't willing to even whisper at the women to stop when she ran 100 miles past the red line. When men have lost their balls & allowed women to be as promiscuous as ever, supporting a more polygamous society (th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 09:54 AM |
| 21 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneIt sounds like you desperately wish you were born in the time periods of romantics. Or at least decades ago, the time period of gentlemen ruling the dating game & being rewarded with literally countless feminine beautiful VIRGIN women to choose to wife up, settle down with & enjoy amazing families. All whilst being praised for their masculinity, having an identity & feeling like they're needed in their family unit & society at large, thus having far greater mental health, testerone... I could go… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How to move on when you lost a truly high quality girl?You’re retarded, you’re just going through a “didn’t realize what I had until it was gone” syndrome, everyone in successful LTRs or marriage on TRP knows that you have to give comfort or puppy love or whatever the girl is into if you’re serious about her and want that relationship to last. Otherwise the end result will always be a toxic mess with a ton of resentment when she grows up or is tired of your treatment, TRP works best for short term relationships and being aware of all of it to more i… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | 0% ChanceOnly advice I can give to you is relax, be chill and a new form of outcome independent, while also not being afraid to poke the beast and see how far it lets you go. You might just end up taming the beast & riding it (sex). They’re just human beings in the end, and love sex as much as you if you get them in the mood & don’t act awkward about anything, get rid of your anxiety and have it in your mind you’re the prize. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:13 AM |
| 23 | Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR.Bf? Probably less than .1% of the time, however girls cheating/doing stuff behind the guys back without the BF knowing anything? Happens all the time. Which is why guys feel it’s worth it to see if she’s one of those chicks that will fuck around with anyone that shows interest if no one finds out. However some girls do entertain other guys or give more attention to other men in social events often when they’re dating weaker guys just to make them suffer, and that can be soul crushing | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Just lost my virginity at 26This happens a lot more than people think, a seemingly good looking and socially adept fun guy still being a virgin in his early to mid 20s. The only difference is other guys chase after girls more & make an attempt to get them or just get lucky & met more chicks that wanted to do things with them. But either way giving a shit about virginity or n counts because society or other peoples beta degenerate bullshit. It doesn’t have to matter at all it’s all based on perspective. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Couldn’t get over her past and why you should never remotely judge her or any other woman infront of herDamn it actually makes me sad and depressed how naive young men are to this shit, this is just the tiny beginning of all the bullshit women do behind your back, you have no idea how degenerate even the cutest face women can be | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Are you born a beta or raised to be beta?On the physical side it’s half genetics half diet/physically taking care of yourself consistently & being athletic. Genetics is huge though god tier genetics can make a 25 yo who smokes drinks alcohol and never exercises & eats junk food 24/7 look 7/10 with good dress and a bit of skin care. Opposite is true for a super bad genetics 25 yo they can do anything even surgery and still look 4/10 at best. Mentally it’s 100% how people are raised though. There’s also the physiological side, good looki… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 4 | What can I improve for my physical SMV?I read a research survey thing accounting for people’s opinions and real life accessibility, and it said the ideal height was 6’1 since really tall people all complained about things like not fitting in cars or roller coasters and really short people complained about lack of respect in business settings & less dating options. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What can I improve for my physical SMV?It’s most likely your social skills that need work and how you talk to girls far far more than looks if you’re above 6’1 and muscular with a clear face | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Only Fans Hypergamy or Prostitution Lite?It depends on whether they’re following religion because they believe in it & don’t want to sin or disappoint everyone. Or if they’re following it purely because others expect them to, and they want to look like a good women not actually be one. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Only Fans Hypergamy or Prostitution Lite?I know a ton of young high quality men absolutely appalled when they see their young female friends on onlyfans and others simps losers & desperate young guys in scarcity excited & wanting to subscribe. They’re not thinking about the future, they will have to marry these women start families with them & thousands of guys have seen her in all sorts of ways. It’s not special being with her anymore it’s pure vanity and hedonism. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many rude entitled bitches everywhere?Give her some credit it’s a fat chick in the gym lol he might be one of the women in disguise we get here | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | How fat is too fat?Some men don't even like chubby girls, some guys love chubby girls as long as they have a nice round but. It really does depend on the guy, but generally anything above average body weight for their height would be too fat. Some women have the body shape that they can have a bit of chubbiness and still look sexy. Others can be really skinny but look ugly af because how their body is shaped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Men and women do not get each other's problemsThe thing about women having sex with guys or giving them affection or **** is that they could easily give it to the starving virgin guy but they don't because they're deeply disgusted by him for his lack of power/options. It tells them he isn't masculine and can't dominate them in the way they deeply desire in their mental psyche. Even having to waste their time in the company of a guy like this breeds resentment, hate and makes them want to ride the carousel, cheat or find a chad to fuck even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?Being fat and/or poor hygiene. Even if a women is completely non feminine & dresses like a guy a lot of men will still want to fuck her if she's deemed fuck-able. Other than that perhaps having kids or being a single mom decreases the value of women in most guys eyes, just being honest. In the past it was worse, even not begin a virgin would completely wipe out their value for a ton of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel pressure from society/family/friends to give "good guys" a chance?True, a lot of times when women do just get with the good guy to have a cleaner conscience or begin a family or whatever they end up disrespecting him or resenting the fact that he isn't their dream guy. Hell even if the guy is super attractive she still might find herself thinking if she could've done better. She loathes that he treats her so nicely or acts like real life is a disney romance when she legit isn't even that great a human being. This resentment either turns into an unhealthy unsat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 17 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?So all the women giving men advice to "just be confident" or complaining that they have insecurities, lack of dominance and aren't like the chad they had sex with last night... are actually onto something but in the end wrong? Sure confidence is key but the most confident men all had prior experiences with women or have pre selection currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 16 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?its called the positive feedback loop vs negative feedback loop (guys get rejected 6 times & passes by 100s of women but never ever tries anymore due to negative experiences, being called a creepy rapist or whatever) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?half ppl have it half don't /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Don’t know if this will be viewed as beta but...is it my looks? I know y’all won’t lie to me.First of all never assume what a red pilled man wants. White girl fetishizing is one of the most beta things you can do as any race of man. Hot is hot, ugly is ugly. If they're clean, fit, & sexually attractive this doesn't change based on the idea we call race. Second of all you sound really bitter, and this gives me a hint you have a scarcity mindset, one of the most crippling & damaging mental frames for guys. It's not 100s of years ago, there are an abundance of women of all races & monogamy… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 03:52 AM |
| 7 | How to meet 10s?idk all i know is i've never met a 10/10 girl on a dating app, only through social circles irl. out of 1000s of women there have been a handful of 10/10s, and they actually had really down to earth chill bubbly & fun personalities, came from great strong families with good father figures & established wealth. I guess you can find the hottest girl on the dating apps but they're usually damaged in some ways or have a terrible nasty past. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship?well ppl are lonely my dude, and after they get a significant other who they can enjoy physical intimacy with too & solve their loneliness they don't need guy friends as much. maybe a shoulder to cry on or advice if the guy abuses her or does something she doesn't like. but she can also complain to girl friends about this stuff who probably have no bias (if the guy has feelings for her it really doesn't matter what he says) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really prefer younger women to women in their age range?It's complicated, the few young women that they actually start a LTR with are either very intelligent along with their beauty or already successful in life in some other way. If you say "most" definitely no, the men who would want to date, consider for marriage or even have sex with girls 10 years younger than them is the minority of men. But even if its 20 - 30% that's a lot of men. A wise 30 year old man isn't gonna pick up some 20 yo when she's a liability financially just because she's sexy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.Yeah, I went out to a huge public event today (everyone vaccinated & wearing mask) and seeing people interact naturally is x100000 different from Reddit. There were a lot of beautiful women having fun & talking to average looking or below average looking guys. There were a few "chads" in appereance I guess? Acting as the leaders & making sure everyone is having a good time, interacting with everyone and not really being like assholes or rude or anything they all were good "nice" guys. I guess se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I matched with the manager of my gymIf its a huge gym like a university campus gym you can 100% mess with any of the employees or ppl there. If its what you're describing & you've had convos irl with gym manager or have seen her looking at you she's most likely interested, just focus on your shit at the gym & only give her energy, attention if you completed your work outs. don't even peak at her during them. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceidk I've seen girls that get pregnant or settle in LTR with high school sweethearts & minimum wage jobs hit the wall at 18 - 25 very hard. They don't look as good anymore, what age you hit the wall is dependent on factors more than just age like genetics, how you take care of yourself, skin care. There' also a mental wall I suppose though, pair bonding, how much effort a women is willing to put in to relationships etc. Also, could this be why the average age difference of married couples is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | If the redpill is meant to be an unbiased look at the sexual strategies of men and women, why is there so much moralizing and pathologizing of female sexuality?A philosophy is just that, a philosophy. But if it’s believers have bias and prejudice that’s how they will portray it to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?"Women should just have sex with every guy they come across and rack up 100s of bodies!!!!!! so this is what you all wanted all along huh?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 0 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?This is very simple answer, but because women straw men the guys on here they don't even think about the solution. You can be slutty, just after you get in a serious relationship with the guy. NOT during first dates or second or third dates, after you guys discovered you want to be together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Hmm true, it doesn't make sense to me how a lot of women without kids can still get a ton of male attention in their 30s - 40s. I'm early 20s so only have what everyone is saying online to base it off of, its supposed to reverse for men in their 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?In theory sure, but in practice nope. Not until they get older & lose beauty anyway. If a better man than their previous chad comes along they will still have sex with him & have wild sex on first date. Women completely fine with casual sex are more impulsive & act on emotion already anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 12 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Sadly, this question is mainly the whole reason TRP as we know it was invented in the first place. The whole problem with any gender issues in the current age. Men are not only no longer promised virgin untouched girls that respect them for marriage. They get women that hate & resent them for being number 1,000/100,000,000 instead of top 10 all because they had sex with a few top 10 guys in the past. Men get a lower quality product at a higher price. And the product doesn't perform its best for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)Yeah this happens a lot now a days but far far less than it would a decade or two decades ago due to all the me too stuff, women are attracted to power and authority | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 3 | What goes through your mind when you see very mismatched couples? (hot person with ugly person)Hmm when I see an ugly girl with a hotter guy I think he's using her for sex & affection, they will never get married. And if they do they won't be a happy couple. When I see an ugly guy with a hot girl I think she's using him for his money, will cheat on him any chance she's given. Or otherwise the guy is very funny, very charismatic, very interesting personality, very something. And probably financially well off too. Idk, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A girl might find a 6'2 man with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 13 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Women that have been used for sex by a lot of guys or pumped and dumped are also more likely to be emotionally unavailable or ill equipped for a serious LTR since they value it less by the get go, its basic street wisdom that TRP philosophy just gives a ton of previously "beta men" tips on. Why should men have to deal with a women's past trauma, trust issues or whatever & suffer all the consequences while reaping 0 of the rewards? (Her in her best sexiset young years)? The whore/madonna thing ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Other than moral obligation, why shouldn’t i just be a piece of shit to females??Ignorant naïve perspective on things. Negativity breeds and creates more of it. If you want to live a happy life filled with abundance and a clean healthy mindset, mental/emotional state at all times & enjoying all your interactions with women, good, bad, win lose... you have to have outcome independence & a deeper level of confidence. Not the fake confidence most guys use to get laid a lot. True confidence, which means if a women doesn't want you its her loss not yours & you never sweat any gir… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:49 AM |
| 13 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundOn one hand I would never want to be a women having to deal with creeps, unwanted attention, potential rapist, lots of people wanting to use me for my body while having no interest in the actual me. On the other hand, getting sex, physical affection, and some perceived version of "love" easier would've solved a lot of trouble in my earlier pre teen, teenage years, the mental anguish of not having anyone I deemed attractive enough interested in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityMen CAN be hypergamous. But its not in their nature, they fall in love with a good enough women that gives them all they want, beauty, consistent sex, affection, and good times. A much better option comes along and tries to seduce them? They might be flattered or even fantasize about exploring it but they just think about how they're in love with their current women and that special bond means much more to them. For women the way their minds work is they have a really great guy, but suddenly 1 m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Low-Sociosexuality men consider a woman choosing another guy as a reason to "next" - here's whyAgreed. Most women that have casual sex know the guy is like this too. but they use something called plausible deniability. They have sex with the guy when they do weed, drink alcohol, vape, do drugs, or on vacations & in foreign countries or states where "anything goes" so it doesn't count at all. Some women even go as far as saying "He had a condom on so we technically never had sex, we didn't have sex FULLY!" i've literally heard it all, nothing surprises me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Low-Sociosexuality men consider a woman choosing another guy as a reason to "next" - here's whyIts just has to do with self respect & self esteem. Unless a guy has extreme one-itis for that girl he is not gonna want to stay around and still go after her after seeing she's been having sex with one of the other men chasing her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Men are the ones creating male hierarchies pushing "weaker" men down.This doesn't make any sense, it doesn't explain all the attractive men that are already successful with women helping all of their friends with them if they need advice or a wing man. And all the lower value men in a scarcity mentality going after each other's girls or doing everything they can to get her. They're the ones that fulfill the crabs in the bucket mentality. Secure winners have no reason to care about other people becoming winners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Mhm, a lot of guys will have no interest in even marrying or settling down with her but just have a fetish for taking a cute women's virginity. So they will play the "good boy friend" card for as long as they need to. Then afterwards the women becomes a promiscuous women to get revenge on the bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.In most environments, for the last 10 - 15 years 5 woman having that type of sex all slept with 1 guy. They're all taking turns to fuck drug dealer or charismatic asshole man or wealthy guy with social proof & pre selection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.The problem with unicorns (an attractive women above 18 that's a virgin) is even if they are real they will get taken out of the market & go extinct soon after being discovered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Using a slut financially?Lol enjoy post feminist society, now some women are starting to have their own money & just have a ton of boy toys my dude but make no mistake. You're her plate. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 04:25 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menSurvivorship bias. 99% + of naturals out there never need to waste time looking up any RP philosophy or PUA or study anything about gender or anything at all. They're just naturals, have natural abundance, outcome independence & a ton of high quality sexual options. All of the "founders" are just bitter old men and losers on this planet rationalizing their past mistakes & trying to reason all female behavior when every women is different. One universal thing though is, all human beings can be se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 37 | If you give her the best D she’s ever had, she will never leave youShe will probably just become an alpha widow looking very fondly of the time she was your fuck buddy. She might not always be physically with you, but you are always mentally with her if that makes sense. The sex god method has some interesting TRP truth's in it too if you apply it not to just sex. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 11 | Are fetishes or kinks a red flag?Girls will tell you all about their past sexual experiences and wildest most fun times having sex, and even go in detail about the guys. But if you start judging them about n count or whatever bullshit. They will change script fast and suddenly their memory gets fuzzy. You get less material to vet them with now. Guys really love shooting themselves in the foot even after discovering TRP. It's no longer by being oblivious to everything its by knowing **** but thinking everything is a red flag or … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”.Lol the guy probably got some affection from her when they were younger in high school and had fun times. Let them reconnect but go there with her and establish frame. Hey if you’re really insecure try to be friend and have some good convos with the guy yourself. At the end of the day she will never forget you forbidding her from seeing her old friend and if she really wants to she will do it anyway and that will put mental fragments in your relationship already since she went behind your back. … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Feminism Mega ThreadPeople argued that apartheid was a good system since black people had a better society if white people were in charge of everything in South Africa. But the reality is racism caused very painful traumatizing emotions for any black or half black people who experienced it. And nasty thoughts of superiority, being able to do whatever you wanted to the “lesser” person appeared in whites. People living together in a society like that isn’t healthy, and even after apartheid ended the effects of the pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manWrong. Quite the opposite. Because the average young women is chubby, fat, obese, or doesn't have a sexy body figure. And so many young men are decent looking. This makes all the attractive women much more scarce in America and thus, they have a shit ton more options. Not to mention because of how hypersexualized everything is people want a lot more sex. Even guys with gfs cheat or attempt to cheat with attractive women they see as f-able. Most young guys only have Gfs as safety options & for co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is Hitting The Wall at 30 a American Phenomena?... no. This is just basic fertility. Due to biological reasons attraction drops. The wall at 30 is also not talked about at all anywhere irl. 35 is the base start of "the wall" And it only matters if you're a women competing with women. A 21 - 25 year old girl won't be worried about competing with the 32 year old girl for marriage with a 30 yo multi millionaire with a ton of established success & connections in life. These are the type of women who began talking about the wall in the first plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there any point in trying if you are ugly?You answered your own question. If you're too insecure about your appearance you can work on that. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with?Guys who are obsessed with lifting weights or their cars or fucking random girls, all meaningless things to me, tiny accessories or luxuries to life and when guys make it seem like a big deal all the time it demonstrates lack of purpose, meaning, scarcity mindset and of course mediocrity & loserdom. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?The average for men was 16.8 partners in 2005. That’s how many different ones the average mad had back then. And so now in our age... I’d say sexually successful and winning the game as a man around 50 and high n 100+ if you’re a guy. For women they can get any number of sexual partners and will often lie or not tell their partners how many ppl they had sex with to evade judgment. Most 21 year old women have around 20 as their true count. But it could be 100+ too or only 2 or 3, depends on the g… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItWhy can't everyone just let things happen naturally like its supposed to? We don't have to play all these stupid games with sex or mind games & psychology tricking the other gender bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 0 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyStupid thread, men are the ones approaching women with the idea of relationship/gf or even eventually wife hood when they really just want sex. This is why everyone says it might be best if women date guys that were never looking for them or interested in pursuing them but that they initiated things with. Also, while everything might seem good & well with the guy the women picks to initiate things with, he can still suddenly turn into that pump & dump not gonna call you the next day or only repl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Having low standards doesn't make you any less shallow.lol, everything was just a 20 year old women for guys, interesting data. As for the post... i'm not sure about the women having less casual sex. In fact in most environments in America i'd argue women have more casual sex than most guys. However if there's 10000 women in an area and 10000 guys and 5000 women have casual sex while 3000 are in relationships & 2000 are single. But the 5000 women having casual sex only have sex with 500 of the 10000 men 85% of the time & lets say 15% of the time for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Just face it, Relationships are deadIdk, men could always try to socially punish/shame men for not practicing monogamy and having so many 'soft' harems in high schools & colleges, applying the 80/20 philosophy in most environments or 60/40 in terms of LTRs. Right now its the opposite of this, men are praised for being good at casual sex & having multiple sex partners. The only danger to modern relationships here is when some good billy beta falls deeply in love with a women, but then discovers she is a member of chad's carousel & … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:33 AM |
| 8 | If one is a rich man, should he actively avoid showing too much of his wealth to women?Never let her seduce you into buying her anything big. Treat her like a peasant. And since you're the actual king you will reap rewards. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?No man wants to settle down with them. He doesn't see as much worth in her besides casual sex. Are you telling me you can grab a random American women and she will be great at cooking all sorts of meals, great at cleaning, not narcissistic or addicted to tik tok, instagram, snapchat, etc etc etc? An amazing mother, amazing wife, amazing life partner? lol when women get older they get better at these other things besides just being good for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching pornFurthermore, its easy for men to shame women or blame them for the fall of any given civilization since its not easy for those men left out of the attractive enough equation to live out this life while even the ugliest of women can have a very high abundance of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching pornNo, its just that they never got to fulfill any of their fantasies or had casual sex when younger so always have this grass is always greener view of things. Women are fucking men and giving them experiences, simply because they see it the other way around they're the ones getting that fun wild experience with all of these different men, its just that they don't pity fuck men & most men never learned how to be & stay attractive so they aren't invisible in her life so he isn't ignored or used as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?Yup, that's the other thing. A lot of women who were really cruel to you 18 - 25 suddenly come back when you're a made man, treating you like a king & forgetting how they treated you in the past. Seeing these same women treating you so well when they wouldn't give you the time of day at 18 after messing around for so long really does rub guys the wrong way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.Countless people attacked me years ago when I was explaining to them how tinder is designed so you never find your "perfect match" that you would be happy in a LTR/marriage with. They were saying "It's impossible stop being dumb, they don't have enough data or information to determine that and why would they prevent you from finding someone?" money will make people do the evilest things possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 11 | Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching pornThe problem is when they're addicted even after getting into a relationship with the women. Needing to masturbate or watch porn/hentai or even soft erotic stuff demonstrates a huge problem. If you're not addicted and just do this moderately as like some sport/hobby and can instantly stop for months or years whenever you want its different. But most men into this stuff cannot do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?True, a women has to be sexually attracted enough to the guy to even be considered the man she wants. And due to this, most women would sleep with this man they're already attracted to when he pushes for it. And so there isn't really a reason to commit. After he gets sex attraction drops already, she isn't some prize to be won and gives it up to any man she wants to fuck. If the women isn't attracted to the man, not that truly into him she won't really want to sleep with him anyway and so the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?He's most likely thinking of tall muscular frat boys. Or otherwise outgoing fit athletic more extroverted men around average height. Everyone else in college just has a LTR and maybe a handful of hook ups/fwbs during college or nothing at all. And honestly, most of the people that all of these college guys casually hook with are seriously average looking women at best. People over exaggerate the women they're getting with significantly or have no idea how to judge on a global scale of all the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?Yes women date guys 3 - 7 years older, but all of these guys are still marrying the 18 - 25 year old women and setting down with them so the best women get taken out of the market. It's the same way some of the hottest girls just get pregnant or in LTRs in high school and lose their beauty. Some of the best most feminine women to have as wives already meet their husband at university or shortly after university (1 - 2 years). A very sexy and also feminine down to earth wholesome women is becomin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Is there anyting wrong with having a girlfriend?There is nothing wrong with it as long as you’re improving yourself and chasing all your dreams. If not when you’re thirty you will find yourself with time you never got back and a gf/wife who probably betrayed you. Just like happily married couples live longer, young people in healthy relationships have better mental health and well-being in general. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 3 | What are the best hobbies to meet women?Dude you’re talking about only the top 1 to maybe 5% of hot girls so that’s misleading. A ton of top 20% love art writing horseback riding geology or some science hobby while they also travel a ton of **** | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What are the best hobbies to meet women?I’ve met more than 100 pretty cute white girls at my time in college just approaching at Starbucks, half panned out into nothing or had relationships other half were fun one night stands or nice friend girls | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?This is the result of a feminized society, if men were more masculine and could all achieve sexual success with women or had a better identity with women needing them to take care of them instead of the government or females own careers this would never happen. You get guys leaning towards homosexual or changing their gender instead of being with super fat women. Or the countless feminist colored hair chubby girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Why do high value women date betas?Yup they either ask their “chad” for an open relationship if he’s beta or if he’s alpha they cheat on him in as much secrecy as they can then hamster it into being a huge mistake & get super cry baby to try to garner sympathy from the alpha. However the more RP aware and not taking her shit he is the more her hamster spins and she creates this new form of respect & attraction in her head. The funny thing neither chad or the beta fucking her realize is this girl is most likely low value due to he… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | My LTR is clearly losing attraction but we live together. How can I put some distance and kick her out?This is exactly what happens with a low interest girl, she gives her attention to other guys and is super captivated by other people while not caring much about you. The only way is to improve yourself heavily while focusing entirely on other girls and ignoring her until she displays a lot of interest in you or drops herself. If she drops it’s whatever you already got a much better girl who wants a serious LTR with you. I know it can hurt she’s sexy has a great personality and you wanted a futur… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 6 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.Live laugh lie is only a thing young hot girls do though? I mainly see young guys following live laugh love. And get burnt for it. Live and let live is a better saying for men after they get burnt, you can't do anything about all the girls riding the CC or lying, cheating, manipulating men. You can't control their decisions or actions, only focus on your own life. [edit mb you were saying that about girls not to do it, fuck bitches get money is the way] | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What the hypergamous groups teach women about dating does NOT work.Well, a few intellectual women have been honest about it and pointed it out. In books like the manipulated man the author states how women have always used love as a way to manipulate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Stabbed in the back by brother in lawYou're 19 and young, don't understand anything about how human nature works. Read the 48 laws of power and never let anyone know you're aware of it. Learn to use enemies, rivals, and people who did you wrong, they've more to prove & you're already very skeptical of them. If it bothers you again when everyone is in a good mood let them all know it was just a misunderstanding but no hard feelings about it. However never forget, your closest friends & family will be the first to betray you, whether… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:52 PM |
| -11 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.He vetted poorly. Her even having an instagram is a red flag if she's not a celebrity or someone making serious money from it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.Honestly, this happened once with me & a girl, I was dumbfounded, I wasn't angry or jealous about her cheating but just that she did it with a much shorter low life degenerate just because she was obsessed with him talking to her like she's a sex toy. I pointed out how she told me she wasn't attracted to him at all 9 months ago when I pointed him out and she just called him a loser she'd never be interested in. Women literally obsess over your actions, even subconsciously if they think one thing… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?Bro, you guys wouldn't fucking believe me if I told you. I was a hb 5 guy objectively. Maybe even below average in some guys & girls standards. But back in 2015/16 tinder I had very sexy hb 8+ chicks literally just coming over to my house and banging the living shit out of me in the kinkiest sex ever. This happened a handful of times out of like 50 matches but it was super amazing and made me fall in love with the app. Then in 2017 something changed, I only started getting this once a year inste… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.The truth is at least 80% of virgin or sexually inactive or more men aren't actively seeking it much. (Besides possibly dating app which is passive nothingness since 80% of girls don't use it) or just stopped trying completely so of course they don't meet all the also single and sexually inactive pretty attractive girls on their campus that would be completely fine having sex with them after a few weeks of hanging out... and think they look alright. These people look decent but literally think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Human affection is NOT code for sex. If a man is truly lonely, he can make friends.Every man in a heterosexual relationship with a women is only interested in sex, stop shaming incels virgins or lonely sexually frustrated for over a year men about it. Stop gaslighting them and lying to them, telling them being in their mental desert of not having something and wanting it being evil, wrong of them. The problem is if they were attractive to women they would already get the thing they truly want, affection and love from them. And wouldn’t care about sex too much. But they would m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 2 | When you go to clubs/parties/bars, is your intention to have fun, or do you just care about hopefully hooking up?Focus on having fun but don’t be afraid of interacting with and dancing with or giving tiny touches to the women showing you high interest. Later on in the night if you bump into each other make out and leave it at that. If she tries to sleep with you get her phone number and do it another night since most of the time people don’t even want to see the strangers they have fun with and hook up with or grind on or dance with at parties and if she tries to have sex with you there’s usually very seri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 4 | LTR texting a guyMy dude this is a more terrifying thing to find out. Its one thing to see a ton of orbiter or beta messages but this dude sounds like he could be some old wealthy guy with money or some young player trying to have fun with her & her friends. Bang them with his friends. It's completely done after this, and remember curiosity killed the cat. Fuck her very hard one last time as hard as you possibly can then break up with her the next day and cut all contact. She is cheating hard or planning to chea… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Just because the top 60% of girls are dating and having sex with the top 40% of guys in whatever social sphere you're in it doesn't mean hypergamy isn't true. And keep things in perspective, the top 40% of guys in your sphere might be the top 20% or even 10% in America, way higher value than you would think. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with basic girls?Yeah, i'm obviously talking about before the pandemic... I myself haven't even cold approached since 2019 (fine not true I just haven't done it often this or last year). But back then I had been lifting weights for years but kept telling myself that I wasn't sexually attractive no women could ever be interested in me since I wasn't tall, was a minority and didn't think too highly of myself. But then besides some guys complimenting on the improvement of my physique I began thinking "hey, whenever… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?We 1. try to teach boys that attraction matters & give them books on how to grow up to be attractive & attract girls in middle school organically (where their final destination should be holding hands, having special kisses, learning to talk with & bond with the opposite sex, and in serious relationships making out) They should have absolutely 0 exposure to porn and no talk about blow jobs, sex, losing virginity, n counts etc or sexualization & objectification of their peers. Then high school we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with basic girls?Well yes but my dude don't be afraid to just be walking somewhere and you look at a cute girl for a moment, if you see she looks back at you & smiles. That's a vey high sign to act immediately. don't think because you were the first to catch her eyes she isn't interested. Since most guys will be to scared to approach & people love good quality social interaction (very scarce now a days) she will get even more excited and happy you actually walked to her & began a conversation. From then on you s… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 19 | Anybody else have a landwhale problem in their area or city?Cancun, Mexico beach. If you've been lifting for years like TRP said with masculine frame, in your 20s with a few thousand in spare money change you will do very well here. As someone else said there's some great places in America too, check the Florida beaches, or Puerto Rico if you're willing to travel there. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ the fact that **** like this happens as often or even more often than guys getting screwed by divorce rape or having to take care of kids that aren't their own or deadbed rooms says a lot about girls, how much they really care about the good guy that decides to step up giving everything to them & receiving no love in return. Women do not understand, them having sex with a man is telling him they love him more than anything. A nice guy getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:58 AM |
| 63 | Anybody else have a landwhale problem in their area or city?You guys need to travel out of America, i'm at beaches where the girls I think of as hb 5 would probably be hb 10 in your little town, they're everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts?I never thought about it this way, I like this and will probably use it if I hear a girl say "I'm not that kind of girl" again or on tinder "I'm done fucking around, if you're looking to fuck swipe left" | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?There are high value men who just want a nuclear family their whole lives but also enjoy sex... but value their nuclear family more than anything and wouldn't cheat or leave the women if it meant their dream could be destroyed. But you just didn't get with a man and that's okay. Other men value sex and a physically attractive wife more than anything, and will do anything to have this relationship if that means lying or pretending to their girlfriends/finances/wives, acting like they want the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I've seen the fwb beginning relationship work out well for people for a couple years... until the guy decides she isn't good enough as a wife and moves on. I've seen the second relationship workout well for 10 + years with 2 already matured and experienced individuals, until the women gets older and unattractive. The sex life dies since she hasn't taken care of herself. There's little no win with some people regarding HVM. But still, regardless of all this there's something people really do igno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruh'Naturals' are all just men who have positive feed back loop by having sex with women they went after. For some men being confident means being seen as creepy, weird, stalker etc. If you're attractive and confident though its all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I just think all women should Be honest with their future partner/husband or whoever about all their past sexual experiences Give their future husbands even crazier & better sex then all the strangers she did it with... and treat him better than she treated them. Often the sex dies down and she disrespects the beta nice guy that took her up. There just isn't much rewards for men being good guys in present day, this is a very toxic system for society & the future of mankind. If men aren't rewarde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Are most modern relationships with people under 35 pretty much doomed?Every couple I know from African, Australian countries or some European ones and a few of the millennial kids of immigrants are still in marriage/LTR but I guess a ton of these count as over 35/40 and coming from out of America technically means they weren’t raised for the westernized mind | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 10 | What do you think about a woman having male friends?Holy fuck, this is 100% true one of the realest comments I’ve seen on TRP, every single women with only guy friends I know is like this, they used to have a lot of female friends but were complete losers in female hierarchy either due to their behavior and attitude or being too unconventionally attractive or always trying to steal guys from female friends and be negative. This is as powerful a sign as females having a bad father, having non homosexual guy best friends and mainly guys as friends … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?That’s a genius dual mating strategy if anything, impregnate one young sexy women in a cheap cost of living country and your first back home in America. Easy to multi task and even have a great relationship with both if you have the money to go on vacations often, and it’s also like having plates that love when you’re around, behave when you’re not in fear of you being gone forever. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?Such is the blessing of being red pilled b4 getting married, countless men have enjoyed this in the past decades with 0 divorced 0 serious problems arising from their wives | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was considering for a LTR throws this text at meMan this would work on an American college girl but idk where you are something feels off. You could go full beta but it’s dangerous waters. Especially if she already lined up other guys. Maybe half compromising ignoring everything or just texting her a week later to hang out pretending you didn’t see the message, treating her nicely upon meeting initially and then escalating to sex after wards. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 5 | "Being nice doesn't get you laid" and "Bullies have more sex partners" does not translate to "ALL WOMEN LOVE ASSHOLES! NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!"So basically women will give their maximum validation passion and sex if you treat them like shit at times and put them in their place. But if you treat them nice they will make you wait for it and a lot more difficult for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Unattractive nerds should try to hit on intelligent womenthis is the truth that floats by a lot of men's heads... they think that they're the ones using women. when its the women choosing and using them, there's a reason women sleep with very sexy but empty headed guys more easily & often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive nerds should try to hit on intelligent womenHuman beings are pretty similar after all, countless nerdy guys in high school and college of after that sexy popular girl or the cheer leaders... they obsess over them then cry that the universe is evil & against them. Mean while they ignore all the good girls, or are super intimidated by intelligent ones and wonder why they don't succeed in dating. God forbid the girl is really conventionally unattractive, they might even treat her badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 7 | Just met an Ex and she really wants to get togetherYou have to date her, to practice frame and see how much you’ve truly grown | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 8 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Oh, true, I wasn't thinking about OLD at all. I imagine its literally free for chad's on there, even women 4/10 & below swipe left on all the average guys and would beg for chad's dick, show up to his place to fuck no questions asked. It's shame because she's ugly or fat, not that she is easy for him. Men don't need "some chase", we're just forced too because women want it. I never thought about it this way, it really is just a social convention for men to chase girls and it to be expected. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 05:08 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Lol every man has different standards. I see chubby girls or land whales as 1/10 ... disproportionate bodies or weird faces filled with acne & scars everywhere as 2/10 with visible fat in the wrong places. Disproportionate bodies & asymmetrical faces but clear faces, flat ass & probably no big boobs 3/10. Closer to proportionate body, either has an alright ass or alright boobs, clear face & somewhat of a symmetrical face but still unsymmetrical 4/10. And then I think we all know what average is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Seriously, I keep feeling like something is wrong with my view or there is something i'm not seeing irl. I keep looking for proof & confirmation that... 9/10 & 10/10 girls are these huge sluts. Since holy **** that's the sexiest thing around right? Every guy must have been on that. But no, it turns out a lot of guys are afraid of them. And we all know faint heart never fucks fair lady. But from everything I have ever seen ;/ they always end up having less sexual partners than all the 6 & 7/10 gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 9 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?I disagree, they're easy even if you aren't chad if you get them alone away from whatever group they're apart of & flirt with them in the right way. In fact if you're a 9/10 man I feel like ugly, f'able but unconventionally attractive women would be very skeptical of you approaching or interacting with them. Like "wtf... why is this guy? oh he must want to use me". In a party setting or bar it would work but in regular day to day life? I don't think i've ever seen a chad ever approach a women be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?If you're a 7/10 or above man, they're literally free cake. They do not care if they're a side peace & know it or if you cheat on them. They don't even care if you disrespect them, they would still rather be banged or even gang banged by you than a 4/10 dude in their league. Maybe they will got to him for a relationship and make him wait for sex or comfort & complaining about all the bad men from her past. Never forget this top answer from Quora. Ugly & below average women are desperate for affe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4A] Do you think if a man doesn't put a ring on it after the 4-5 year mark, that he never will?Well yes, most young men in high school or college just have starter girlfriends. All others just date & mess around with many girls. And the rest are incels or MGTOW, there's no in between. This being said I know quite a few people with fiances/engagements under 25 from college. A minority of them don't pan out and it ends due to one party cheating. But all of the rest seem to be working out well, still happy healthy young people who love each other & plan to get married. I've never seen any st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?You can still find some mormon virgin girl to marry and have a healthy happy relationship the rest of your life, not worry about dating anymore hopefully... if you're aware of red pill & blue pill philosophy you can probably make it work well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 09:08 AM |
| 3 | For those where it's applicable, who hurt you and what did they do?Damn, its too painful for me to even go back there or describe in detail what she did. My first one-itis ... the first girl I poured a ton of time, money, resources, affection, emotional energy into. Looking back in retrospect, I should've known she was cheating early on... and later finding out she also slept with one of my best friends behind my back. Made me lose all hope in females, love, and ever finding a relationship (I was 19 at the time) and just discovered TRP, I devoured it like a bab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?If he is other wise an attractive & mentally healthy man? Yes, more high quality women without high n counts themselves would consider this man more desirable. But why? Generally, most guys seeking & getting 50+ n counts 100+ n counts and keeping track of all the women they've banged are doing it because they have something to prove. There's some deeper sense of insecurity, low self esteem, or confidence issues stemming from their scarcity days. When high quality women get older, more mature & w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Men here are too obsessed with masculinity, even though women love feminine men too.You're thinking about the toxic masculine guys or hyper masculine people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you want your son to be like? What do you want your daughter to be like?God, I don't want my son or daughter to be like anything, I just want them to be able to experience all the most beautiful things in life, like holding a girl or boys hand, idolizing & fantasizing about their first kiss instead of thinking about sex. I want them to have the amazing lovey dovey childhood I had. If my son or daughter discover porn before they ever held hands with someone & enjoying just walking through a park or holding each other at the movies. I will be depressed and feel like I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 5 | Men here are too obsessed with masculinity, even though women love feminine men too.That all heterosexual relationships with a feminine man and masculine women are unsuccessful, stale, or not healthy compared to the opposite. Does the man and women have a very active & happy sex life in any of these relationships you know of? I'm willing to bet no, the masculine women gives the guy no sex or even cheats on him and fucks other men. She isn't attracted to him & has no desire to pounce on him. This is reality, you literally can't argue against biology. I even see it play at in les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Men here are too obsessed with masculinity, even though women love feminine men too.I mean sure, american women love feminine looking boys with cute sexy faces. However... how do they fare in actual real relationships? And in the long term? Do these relationships even last beyond some quick sex or some cute fun dates. No I don't think so. We all know how Justin Bieber turned out how Chris Brown turned out. Don't be so naive, just because society no longer cares or wants women to act feminine (what men naturally desire the most) it doesn't mean men should not care or want to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 3 | What do you imagine a White Pill community would be like?Under the white pill both men and women will believe in permanent marraige, they believe that all problems they come across can be worked on together, as teammates & they can get through anything together due to their love & understanding of one another. Men and women wouldn't be comparing each other to others and have the grass is always greener effect. They will truly believe themselves to be 10/10 people on all grounds and their partner to be the same, but also that they should both constantl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:50 PM |
| 7 | What do you imagine a White Pill community would be like?The white pill will be about: inner peace, prosperity, entirely on individuality and having the best possible relationship with yourself, self actualization, detaching from all negative emotions & not taking bad things that happened to you personally, being a warm person to everyone in your life, a source of positivity & joy, connection & spontaneity. Being thankful for everything, being alive, your food, the fact that you're able to talk to boys or girls, the fact that you're able to have sex o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:48 PM |
| 12 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Women do want 'nice' guys, or well good guys. For the most part, if they're attractive and have a lot of other things going for them besides being good. Then the women will choose the good man. This is not to be mistaken for a women misbehaving herself, and forcing the otherwise good man to be bad & not take her shit. This women will always be miserable and just end up in long relationships with toxic guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:38 PM |
| 8 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Its true, there are a lot of ugly undesirable women out there, too, not as high % as men... and a lot of them are just fat/chubby so if they shed that off they would be really desirable & get a ton of attention from men like others girls, the only possible problem they might have is self esteem issues from they got no love or attention & watched all their girl friends get it. Women can also go through mental health issues by the issue of being only used for sex by men and not genuinely loved or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What the hypergamous groups teach women about dating does NOT work.Women are reflectors of their culture/society. Since men began talking about hypergamy and pointing it out a lot now a ton of women are overtly trying to practice it lol, its hilarious since this too shows TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itYeah, it depends on where you are in the world that it can be seen as a great thing or a bad thing... and what your demographic or men/women is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Men say they love sex because it’s “proof” of women desiring them. Here’s why they are lying to themselves.You mistake the meaning of what I say. Being a manifestation of nature isn't a bad or a good thing it just means they are how they are. Women subconsciously get creeped out by many things that tell their body to not sleep with a man, and they also get turned on by other things that tell them to sleep with him. Who they want to sleep with has zero to do with morals, ethics, right, wrong, and so trying to judge men based on who you want to sleep with... is pointless. If you did not already choose … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Men say they love sex because it’s “proof” of women desiring them. Here’s why they are lying to themselves.Its also about the natural affection, attention, validation, connection women give to men. When men see a lot of women giving this to everyone else and they get 0 for years & years it affects their mental health significantly. And of course, sex is the ultimate form of physically showing this, so when a woman has crazy sex with bad boy abusive player guy while never having sex with him he thinks... "OMG SHE LOVES THIS MAN MORE THAN ANYTHING T-T WHY CAN'T I HAVE THAT" Even though for women, they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itI will agree with her that, there's a lot of shadow women in college... lonely introverted ones who aren't too bad looking that no guys go after. It seems like most chicks who use tinder are towards the slutty or extroverted side of things, there must be something wrong with them if they're on the app, or quickly find a BF if they are seriously using it for that so they won't be on tinder anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itI'm shocked when really attractive guys I know go on tinder with a couple good pictures and only get 10 matches in a day. While other 4/10 women I know or even 3/10 get 100s in their first day. Sure you could argue that the guy should get seriously great pictures and a lot of them but meh. All their matches were barely receptive. While any guys the girls chatted with quickly responded & were really down to meet up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itMhm, on one end you have some guy doing everything to please a sexy women, spending all his resources, time, mental energy on her & getting nothing in return. While this same women is freely giving away her sexual energy & attention to another man who is seemingly exactly the same as the first guy except her disrespects her every chance he gets & doesn't pedestalize her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 15 | What would the affect of another global war or conflict have on PPD-related issues?The hilarious thing is this is true. All the modern women in America today... even the most hard core feminist ones. Will absolutely love it, their wildest fantasy come true. The ultimate 'bad boy', the war hero who survived hell when all the other young men died coming back to fuck them. They won't give a shit about all the men that died beyond temporary virtue signaling, its scary how much women can just forget things & move on mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What would the affect of another global war or conflict have on PPD-related issues?If 50% of young men died off in a war the problems would be solved. In the past to combat the issues young men face in modern day... they literally just killed all the other young men competitors in battles war, 1 on 1 combat & they didn't have to worry about sharing the sexy women they wanted to fuck. And so there would be a ton of females in America but not many men. And the men that are left would become very hardened, so naturally attract females cruel nature. More likely though they a lot w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Do you really think men will say no to a women who is 27 but has a body count of over 20 if they still find her sexually attractive? All the men who got nothing when they were younger would surely marry that if they've never heard of or learned of TRP, the truth. These men are also most likely to find them really attractive since they never got with the women when they were really young at 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?The problem is men have to act this way due to female nature. The women won't be attracted to the man if he's some kind sweet gentle loving person that puts her needs before his own. Imagine a spider complaining that if flies did not want to be eaten, they shouldn't have stepped into my web!!! This is the same argument, its literally nature for the spider to spin webs, catch flies & eat them. Telling the fly to just avoid the web all together is crazy talk. In reality though the most delicious f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | [Question for Women] Do you use view attractiveness as the "end-all, be all" when you're beefing with other women?All of the response in this thread are interesting... most women seem to deny it all together. However we all know, that women communicate mainly covertly, and everyone in this thread is only denying other women overtly doing it. This tells me that it happens all the time in everyday life but older women just ignore it perhaps. Remember, a group of young women invented the term "She hit the wall" to refer to not having to worry about older women approaching their 30s in the life of the HVM one o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Kevin Samuels vs 3 Ladies (Fresh&Fit Afterhours) discussion escalatesNo, i'm biracial. My fully black father taught me to ignore the shaming and date the highest quality women I could find whose personality I like regardless of race. Black women will often complain about no good men, about broken homes etc while only seeking sex & relationships from 14 - 25 with toxic men or abusers. Yes I know this is not all of them but I've seen it happen enough irl that its ridiculous to me. Nerdy PoC have no choice really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:49 PM |
| -2 | What is the future relationship between men and women?masculine. high value masculine men. a man can be high value but not be masculine. ok lol i just came up with that in a sec but its true, i don't use TRP terminology anymore so I misspelled it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels vs 3 Ladies (Fresh&Fit Afterhours) discussion escalatesYoutube is such a weird place. You have Kevin Samuels explaining why the most successful black men are marrying white & hispanic women instead of the sexiest black women when there are already very few eligible black bachelors & quality men to raise families with in the black community due to all the young black deaths, incarceration, or mental health issues they fall victim to due to poor circumstances. Besides this a good portion of the most successful ones are only interested in sex with youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | A woman's POVMan, it seems like this is the type of girl that every guy lucks out on meeting & ends up in the most happiest fulfilling relationship with when they discover eachother. I wish I met you at a bar op. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 12 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Women's standards are infinitely higher than men's... when it comes to casual sex & casual dating, fuck buddies etc. Men's standards are high when it comes to serious LTR & marriage. HVM men anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?The porn industry is gonna be so much larger in the future, everyone on this forum wouldn't imagine it in their wildest dreams. Our kids & grandkids (if we have them) will look at us like absolute legendary studs for even talking about having sex with each other lmao real people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Which opinions do you hold that would be considered unpopular or controversial even on PPD?Most women who do it... do it because the influence of peers, society, other girls. Not of their own accord. Or they do it because some guy hurt them & they've trying to feel good by sleeping around with many men. Yes yes I know there's girls out there who do it purely for the fun & thrill, have 0 mental health issues going on with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleHigh value women usually will give guys "turns" to have them, spend time with them etc if the association is beneficial to them in some way, be a fun entertaining guy to have around, be an intelligent guy that can help her, be a strong guy that can help her move, be a resourceful guy with cars/money/status... if you can be everything & you often get your turn if she's not in a LTR or vining for a LTR with one specific guy (even if she is you still get your turn often anyway since she has insecur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleHmm there's a huge difference between extroverted egotistical average men who feel like they have something to prove & rack up a ton of n counts (most of the average men you and most likely other attractive women have sex with) and the introverted average man who just wants to enjoy life & grow with a beautiful women by his side while he strives to his full potential (less likely to meet you at a young age). The thing is most men that marry & settle down eventually become some version of "chad",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 4 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleYour 2nd & 3rd boyfriends were probably objectively 6 or 7/10. Objectively. Men's value aren't based purely on looks. But still, whether a man cheats or not if given the option to is based on his character & how much he cares about the women, NOT his physical appereance or SMV. The highest tier men in looks are likely to have less character with so many options & all the arrogance, ego that comes with that, so what you're saying doesn't make much sense. Average men are far less likely to cheat o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 5 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleYeah, I've never seen or heard of any ugly or average man cheating on a sexy hot women or even entertaining the idea. They're more than happy with their deal already, whether its a legitimate relationship born from the women falling in love with his personality & character. Or from the women being a sugar baby, stripper, eye candy trophy wife girl with him for all his resources & power. He's happy & satisfied with his deal as long as he gets to smash every once in a while. The opposite is true f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleHmm, the amount of resentment, toxicity, plain evilness. & cruelty females share for other females when sharing a man & trying to win him over that other girl is toxic to people's mental psyches on a deeper level... unless you're the man benefiting from it all. This changes if the women is bisexual & desires both the man & women, or if she doesn't see it as a serious relationship & doesn't think she is good enough to have the man all to herself. But if the women has high levels of self esteem, c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 18 | The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks.Yup men who aren’t genetically blessed have to do so much more and even then in modern times your 6/10 high school or college girl might turn into a complete narcissistic, cheat on you or ride 10 guys cocks when you go on a break or disagree with each other. This is what dating is like in sexual revolution combined with technology times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.This is genius rationale and explains everything more clearly, it adds a dark sense to the females agenda but in a not so awful way, all human beings love power & control, what’s more powerful than stopping a man from fulfilling his most base natural desire? Marital rape was made illegal in many American states just a few decades ago, 1 generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 4 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Hmm. This is interesting, i've had guy friends open up about not being able to get turned on or orgasm with women they had no feelings or emotions for, or complete strangers. Never due to wearing a condom. Maybe try fantasizing during sex more and exploring all the parts of her body with your hands, moving around more roughly & passionately? Sex isn't just something for... your dick to experience, and if your dick can't feel the sensation of rubbing inside of a women due to wearing rubber all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 3 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.hmm so unwanted sex is like rape to women huh? And unlike men, women can't get turned on from the act itself... like if you start having sex you suddenly want it much more & get instantly so horny your brain goes numb from the pleasure. This is interesting stuff, when/if I ever get married later towards the end of my 20s i'll keep this in mind, I have to always stimulate women emotionally & mentally, use countless good senses like smell, small touches & foreplay before I go into sex. Hopefully t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Be the Beta - when appropriate.This is one of the most true post ever on TRP, even when I first discovered i I unconsciously always did this around male friends and everyone who knew me b4 RP when out with girls, it keeps the peace & makes interacting with everyone much easier lol. Its best to fit in with the crowd, sound politically correct etc and not stir trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Which opinions do you hold that would be considered unpopular or controversial even on PPD?Fat body, not in shape, clear clean looking faces/hair. Chubbier or disproportionate heads though so you can count that as ugly. Most attractive women that have been single for a long time do get high pretty quickly. When they past 10 they kind of stop caring tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:29 AM |
| 43 | Are you sure monogamy is the answer?This has already been discussed countless times. Monogamy is the best for society if the women are feminine, have great values, but also the freedom & independence to express themselves, end things with too abusive husbands. The thing about this, a girl like this won't cause a ton of issues herself that make the guy turn abusive. She will look her appearances up & have a submissive aura, good supportive nature to her. 99% of young women don't have this now a days, everything is about sex. We're … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/21 04:23 AM |
| 6 | Which opinions do you hold that would be considered unpopular or controversial even on PPD?I agree... the most interesting thing I read from TRP community years ago before it was banned from Reddit, everyone agreed that all the modern young women today are the result of bad/weak fathers or dad's that did not teach their kids any values or meaningful things & didn't take the role of father seriously. They all said this but yet... it was mainly brought up to talk about how to fuck and take advantage of all the easy girls who must not have had good fathers, "enjoy the decline". They cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Which opinions do you hold that would be considered unpopular or controversial even on PPD?Due to social media making everyone have unrealistic beauty standards for each other, OLD giving women infinite options by 100s of matches and 1000s of likes within hours of using it. Feminism for pushing female empowerment everywhere for last couple decades and having all the crazy freaky sex with whatever guy they think is chad & tyrone? Then yeah. A chubby women can have a lot of sex if she so wants to. She will just be pumped & dumped, disrespected by the men who use her and a lot won't even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Will the SMP continue to increase in competitiveness to unbearable levels?Yes, a ton of the next generation will prefer virtual women to real women. And if they succeed in stimulating the feel of a real vagina this will be about x5 or 6 the case. In a sense the sexual marketplace will begin correcting itself when its not purely one sided men chasing women since men no longer need women for sex or the feel of a real women being with them (AI combined with deep fake combined with augmented reality combined with sex doll & porn). Or full blown having sex in VR (probably … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 37 | Is LTR and monogamy coming to an end ?Trust me, as a gen z guy, in social groups with many gen z college girls... they have very short attention spans and just can't have genuine interest in a guy for a long time. All of the ones in serious LTRs/practicing monogamy have more conservative views and desire marriage with their higher SMV boyfriend They also still love and believe in the disney fantasy of marriage & life happily ever after one day so their hamster spins any cheating the guy did in the past & always turn back to the supe… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Will the SMP continue to increase in competitiveness to unbearable levels?My dude, it will get x100 worse. The porn industry has yet to receive its next revolution. Sex robots. Deep fake fucking celebrities. VR sex becoming popular. AR, imagine having very SEXY GIRLS THAT LOOK LIKE THEY'RE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU AND IRL. I know some stem guys researching this **** and they expect it to be a fucking... trillion dollar industry. Yes. Trillion dollars in the next 20 years. You think this is the end game? Lol boy, this is the fucking beginning. Adapt or die. Be glad you kn… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Buddy (28) is about to commit to his 36 yo single mom of 3, LTR.Tells her everything you talk about... my dude. Stop. If you say **** to her and her hamster gets hints of RP **** being fed to him she will dig him into a deeper deeper grave since women are naturally full hardcore RP. Sharing anything with women is already a bad idea, they will go around telling everyone what you told them if it can be used to bring you down. Sharing things with men who will in turn share them with women... can often result in catastrophic things happening. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Only the wealthy and affluent can actually afford to have childrenTwo people making 50k to 70k a year out of college make millions in 17 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 12:06 PM |
| 23 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.True I feel like most women and 99.9% of attractive women have a strong cognitive dissonance, they think sex is as easy for men as it is for them. Ima make a good quote for it now “Getting sex for men is like flying mail in a helicopter to Texas, getting sex for women is like walking to their mailbox” now any man can learn to be a great pilot and maybe even fly the helicopter every day to different states if he’s skilled, but will he put in all that effort? Or maybe the guy is already in Texas a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 3 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.Most men arent sexy enough or social & confident enough to get consistent fuck buddies so they settle for having an uglier or lower smv women as their girlfriend who they don’t truly love. Everything else is just them rationalizing they love her and want what’s best when they really just love the affection and sex. Everyone else gets accidental pregnancy, which is going down. I get the sense this is a personal thing for you Lilith, I’m sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?The last 5 chicks i cold approached and got number one all seemed super enthusiastic at first but all ghosted, ignored me after first couple text, either I’ve somehow gotten really shitty and dumb in pick up or it’s gotten tougher from 2018. It could just be the pandemic but I feel like gen z girls are much more superficial than any past generation of women when it comes to physical appearance, average looking is bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Its horrible advice if you're socially retarded or emotionally unintelligent, which is most men. This advice is for when you're already dating a girl, and most men will cock block themselves because of the #metoo movement, over policing themselves & taking every reaction a women has as a "Oh she doesn't want me or isn't interested". A women reacting with disgust, uncomfortableness, surprise + fear is in an entirely different universe. Usually even if a women doesn't show any reaction I can tell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Never display neediness or desperation, always display confidence and outcome independence, focus on entertaining yourself, having fun for you first and the girl second. NEVER be afraid to escalate or try little touches on her, gage response. Learn to read emotions, body language well and don’t mistake her being shy or silent or responding weirdly to the touch to her not being dtf later that night or even 30 mins later. For men it’s just about being a guy who fucks and understanding it’s more me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: American Women Undervalue American MenThis post almost made me cry, thank you OP. I always wondered why dating, sex, romance, everything was always infinitely easier when I went to other countries. I figured its just because I am wealthier there or they want a free visa or i'm exotic. American women always have treated me with disrespect at times, disdain and as just another option. I figured its just because I wasn't born some 6'ft 3 trust fund chad after discovering TRP. Until I saw women treat friends of mine like this with the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | 20% of men get all the women because 80% of men aren't willing to put in the workVideo games porn instant gratification depression due to loneliness and lack of socializing tons of things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Agreed, even when TRP talks about "plates" since the beginning of TRP all of the leader figures in its community always said the purpose of plates was for men to gain experience with women & understand them so later on when they can get a true LTR they can deal with it a lot easier. And also making everyone in their lives a lot happier, bringing joy & excitement to any girls they're involved with. Hell, TRP even goes into pleasuring the women & getting them to orgasm, mastering thinks like the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Agreed. I once looked at FFD once to see what all the fuss was about on TRP community & PPD ... it was literally just bitter resentful women hating on men non stop. I can't believe TRP got banned from Reddit back when I used to read on it but this literal male hate "helping women" sub is allowed. None of the female friends I know in happy LTRs with really quality guys follow their BS advice. I feel like most of that advice only works if you're dealing with toxic men, asshats, and losers from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 11 | The rise of neetsIt seems like every article released now only talks about women's problems. Women this women that. Oh no poor mexican girls, poor indian women, poor black women. Yet there's 0 articles or news or anything ever talking about men. Or men's problems in modern society... I wonder why? Women seem to be the most empowered group of people now a days and yet... everyone only talks about their issues in life still? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men can’t understand Gen Z womenFurthermore, with OLD being such a popular thing, you kind of have to look like a god to them but be a man to have access to even 3 & 4/10 chicks sexually. In the past it was just who you knew or who lived around you, nowhere near as much competition. Women weren't meant to fuck guys based entirely on appereance the way men are, that's why they use tinder so much less. Women naturally know when a guy is confident , dominant, etc and all of these subtle & covert behaviors turn them on, if the guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Gen Z men can’t understand Gen Z womenThis thread is blowing up fast because its true... Gen z girls, all girls 13 - 24 these days are completely different from any other generation of women. They all say they don't care about money, but they actually do. They all say they don't care about looks or appearances & confidence is all that matters but they do. They might tell you they're not looking for sex or a relationship right now... but they're very sexually active. It's all so contradictory lol like there's a smoke & mirrors thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:25 AM |
| 3 | If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do?Agreed, guys with a high amount of natural self esteem won't care as much about attracting women or how many girls they can get to have sex with them. These things simply don't become a problem in their minds without the insecurity, fear of missing out, and feeling like they aren't good enough for the most attractive girls. They begin to focus on other things in life, and the ironic thing is when they do reach this place of good energy & vibes, healthy self esteem they attract women easier. A ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do?Because I value personality and connection, how much I enjoy spending time with her outside of the bedroom more than appearances. Most of the really hot girls I meet or know are just... not the type of girls I could fall in love with. They either aren't into my hobbies, reading, writing, art, philosophy, anime or care too much about things like social media, partying, drugs, being promiscuous and fitting in with what others are doing. I'm still really young early 20s so of course most attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do?Yeah, agreed. Facial symmetry & a clear nice looking face is number one, I should replace everything with "pretty privilege" and while being really handsome is great for any guys naturally born with it, i'd argue its even more so for a naturally conventionally attractive sexy women. The amount of free stuff & kindness she can receive from the highest of value men... is ridiculous, I don't think even HVM understand just how much attention, love & validation these girls can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do?I understand what the OP is trying to do here but this just doesn't add up. Society has always told men that their looks do not matter, and demonized them if they groom or take care of their appereance. But in reality there's only so much a guy can do and it still might not be enough for a lot of sexy women unless its mixed with a ton of other things. (Whatever society tells her is sexy & to bend over for). It doesn't matter, if the guy isn't 6ft +, doesn't have status, intelligence, charisma & … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I leave a good girlYour girl might seem like the sweetest most innocent and thoughtful women you have ever met but dude if she isn’t sexually satisfying you she either 1. Doesn’t really care about you much or 2. Isn’t sexually attracted to you. You seem like a stud compared to her so it can’t be 2. You can try to praise her in bed and escalate for sex more often but ultimately if she wanted sex with you she would be enthusiastic about everything | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirsHonestly for guys general things like being confident & in control of frame work so universally regardless of your personality or looks (besides a base line of good hygiene) but for women it’s so heavily appearance based it’s just so fucjing tougher, a women with a certain high status (not career based status but social & peer popularity popular girl) type can make guys want to fuck her more but this is only temporary, and they soon see her as nothing special especially if she isn’t sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consentI agree with this. But only if the man is emotionally and socially intelligent. Which most men aren't. It's fine to ask for consent and if doing something is okay, then getting back into the mood when you get a yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?If you're a model tier looking guy on tinder/OLD you can say the most sexually degenerate **** to girls and they will love it and want to F you even more. If you're not, you're invisible. IRL though its not like this, you have to be extroverted & outgoing, be making the first moves or else... well, you get nothing unless there's some girl with a masculine personality/frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone considered that women are just more physically attractive than men objectively, and that’s why there appears to be an imbalance in how many can get dates?Disagree women have fake beauty and deceit, men have more natural beauty and handsomeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsYeah if this guy never had kids and really wanted to have one, maybe even planned & prepared for the baby's arrival he wouldn't just get over. And despite suffering in silence it will always pain him until he has a baby with a different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 04:49 AM |
| -4 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsHell yeah, imagine getting a women pregnant and wanting to have a kid. But then for some reason she wants to punish you and just kills the fetus before it grows behind your back. This would be emotionally devastating for a man knowing he had 0 power to save his kids wife and it suddenly died because of some vindictive women he trusted, or a young girl who was too afraid to go through the pregnancy. Men should be allowed to abort a pregnancy and also keep a pregnancy (if they agree to fully take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 13 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Yeah, don't get me wrong men definitely do this. But the media reinforces this more than any perverted or creepy man ever could. Sex sells, its been selling forever, and wealthy men know to sexualize things to make more money if they can. From the male perspective, there's definitely a ton of young guys who fall in love with a women & want to be with her forever but then got burned hard by hypergamy. She cheats on them, overtly or covertly. Or just leaves them & ends up with some "better guy" or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Is The Red Pill Community Fundamentally Toxic?Agreed, men having no standards & just wanting to have sex then move on to the next women is what got us here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Strong masculine guys don't need the approval of others, you misread what I said. But boys? If they wanted to be strong masculine men they should also want the acknowledgement & respect of men already on the top. Need is a strong word, and of course in our age there aren't many true male communities in real life, there's no brotherhood or greater bonds besides the one's men fantasize about having with a women. It's tough for me to imagine, not knowing the happiness & satisfaction of getting prai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 8 | Is The Red Pill Community Fundamentally Toxic?Agreed, why do men even love all the low quality girls or “bitches” so much I will never know. Perhaps they feel really bad about themselves or live boring lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 21 | Is The Red Pill Community Fundamentally Toxic?Is nature fundamentally toxic? You might say so, but others might say it’s perfectly beautiful and natural. Women want a man superior to themselves, even feminist women, and they usually are only fair & compromising with men superior to themselves in relationships. This by nature means, all of these women must have some innate deep desire to submit to others. Just like men have an innate deep desire to dominate women. Many people have lost touch with themselves or believe otherwise due to social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 14 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Woah slow down there. "Entitled" who said anything about entitlement? That's a gigantic idea to jump to. True entitlement is when someone has had something, and then feels like they should keep getting that same thing later on. And its not about which babies get this shiny cool toy or which baby gets to eat this candy, and which ones don't get that candy & shouldn't get it because they're "entitled" its about how 30% of babies not getting the candy or cool toys will affect the daycare (society a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Probably because most american and western women aren't feminine like. Countless girls just burp out of nowhere now a days. Little things like that... just like how no female can truly respect a man who isn't masculine, dominant, powerful. A lot of men have also dealt with women that acted "crazy" or "manipulative" or something and this causes them to see all women as less than permanently, since its easier to generalize than look at every human being as an individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:16 AM |
| 34 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Yeah, it always saddens me here when girls quote 30% and spout "See, its not that bad at all ;)" Anyone who has taken a statistics class... or well elementary math, knows that 30% could mean millions or billions of something. And the value being all those individuals in the 30% is the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 8 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Nah, America is doomed and in the decline. 30% of men being virgins, we are not talking about how many young men have active healthy high sex lives under 25, this is literally just having some sort of sexual intimacy once. This isn’t the problem itself but it alludes to a very grave and insidious problem that’s worse than a ton of young men wanting something so badly while having 0 access to it. Men being a lot weaker than they used to be in America. Men are so much weaker mentally, physically, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 10 | How I banged one of the hottest chicks of my life within 6 hours of meeting her.Nice FR, some okay lessons that can be applied well to real life. I feel like you messed up wanting to wait to do it with her though. As you said later on... you may have never seen her again. There's windows of opportunity, times to approach, escalate, strike. And if you let them go more often than not you never get them with the same women again, too many variables out of your control that can prevent the same chance or circumstance. The only time you can be sure of is the present, and don't f… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/21 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Should women give 2nd chances to men who breakup with them?Probably not, the main reasons guys break up with women is because they got bored of using them & thought they could get sex from a better women. The only reason they would go back to said women is if they actually can't get the girl they broke up with Gf for. Or for some reason he's insecure & angry at the idea of you being with other men (usually doesn't happen unless he sees you on social media with other guys or irl) If women give the guy a second chance... he will just leave her later on an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women.So in other words women are only okay with men seeming weak & vulnerable if they're attracted enough & aren't practicing hypergamy. Everyone tells us when we were young boys that the most fulfilling relationships need vulnerability from both sides... but the thing is, women's nature doesn't tolerate weakness so she has to be very attracted to you for it to be okay. Then its fine to open up & cry when you're feeling really sad & depressed (but this still has to be a rare occurrence) or else she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 19 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?Never ever show weakness. I once talked to my girlfriend about my brother's death and got a bit depressed & teary in the eyes because of it. She proceeded to repay my opening up with riding other men's dicks behind my back. I thought everything was okay... but I made the mistake, I never opened up with her before this and when I did she just completely became a different person & didn't hold that same attraction anymore. I feel like women are the truly most heartless beings on this planet by nat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHoes, women that do it for money... only fans thots, were not hoes until they were sluts. Now, this is all derogatory language that I would refrain from using in real life, but the thing is all these young college girls... and friends of mine refer to themselves that way, as sluts, hoes, bitches. If not in positive connotations being happy they're this way, in negative ones when talking about other girls. It doesn't matter who sluts or hoes fuck, because before a hoe decides to make profit from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadJesus christ, PPD is shaping up to be the most interesting & heated gender debate sub on reddit, its interesting to see what females think of all the male rationality and her multiple sides of modern 21st century relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Is men's value at an all time low because of the population of the world?This is stupid, if there was 0 fat or obese women in America and all women all didn't mind being shared by the top 20% men you wouldn't think like this. Decades ago when there was reputation, dignity, respect, and honor tied to sex/mating as women's fathers & mothers helped them choose their partner, virginity & chasity were praised instead of demonized, treated like an evil satanic thing not racking up a ton of partners for men & women, people seeing those with higher "n counts" as winning some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Never let anyone steal your energyI don't get this, the more you practice amused mastery with women & some men shit testing you, the more they just try to enjoy having you around, please you and enjoy life with you. They kind of want to feel like they possess you I guess, like you're apart of them. Be very careful about bad influences amongst your friends. Just because someone is walking some path it doesn't mean you should too. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 08:18 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobPeople born & raised in lower, middle class their whole lives are indeed naive. If a women is objectively an 8/10 or above on societies objective standards & ... this is the big and since many people don't understand this for some reason, have a very attractive, bubbly, fun & playful feminine personality she can literally seduce millionaires to carry her through life & have whatever she wants. She doesn't need college at all but might go to good ones just for a chance to meet them. Yes, this wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Insights from the film "A Promising Young Woman" ...discussActually, it makes perfect sense. Men who are entitled because they have had things in the past feel like they lose power if they have to follow all the rules, stay in line, and only get physical with a women with her consent & permission. Privileged people who have always been given everything in life thanks to their parents know how to handle rejection less than the average person whose faced it countless times through jobs, women, everything in life. You're thinking in too many absolutes. A m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Insights from the film "A Promising Young Woman" ...discussThe truth is most rapist are social, extroverted, charismatic and pretty handsome men. They might have some privilege or some power that allows them to get away with shit socially and financially. The women gets with them thinking she’s landed a catch, agrees to have sex with him or maybe flirts with him a bit or something. Then the guy just takes her thinking she wants it anyway or knowing that nothing will happen to him if he does whatever to her. Either due to her not having as much social po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Is the red pill popular now?I’m seeing gen z do a lot more entrepreneurship and side hustles than millennials ever have, besides YouTube millennials haven’t gotten into much of their own shit. Might be because gen z is so accustomed to the internet. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Is the red pill popular now?All of those alpha female girls who don’t need a man really just want to submit deeply to an actual man. They only pretend to be like that for followers and money. Irl they will act very submissive feminine and slutty for the right guy. You can’t make this shit up. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 05:40 PM |
| 11 | What is the shortest height a man can be while still being seductive?He's a mega tier celebrity though because of Game of Thrones, an outlier among outliers. Even midget celebrities don't achieve that status, even 6'2 celebrities don't achieve that status. Comments like this will just make short guys feel like shit, since they know they will never have that amount of status to make up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingMhm, this is why the average women can get super turned on 'wet', & overwhelmed with positive dopamine & emotions when having sex with a man she perceives as higher status, wealth, success, power than her regardless of how the actual act is. Even if the men look the exact same physically, have all the same external attributes. Because the higher status super successful millionaire man takes her it is also some sort of validation boost. The man doesn't have to dance well, HE has to be beyond well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?I agree, but not to the extent a lot of decent looking friends i've had do it. They literally block themselves from experiencing so much, thinking this women is unattainable & never trying or that women is unattainable & would never in a million years be interested in talking to him. No one can be in a man's way more than himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingHoly **** lol yeah, environment plays a huge role. I went to college in a rural area. And don't get me wrong, there's also all the daddy issue yoga girls who do it for mental health & really promiscuous ones who do it to look more sexy instead of their health or perhaps bend easier for men they already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | There are no good women or men when it comes to relationships, everyone has a list of must havesDating, sex, everything is infinitely more fun when you don't limit yourself to things and just let it naturally happen. Though this might too just be my opinion & not reflect the truth, and i'm also a man... for women they might be a lot more concerned about having kids with a terrible guy. But then again I am technically biased on this as well... I never approach or try to date or have sex with fat or chubby women so that's already me having a transcationary thing I just never think about. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?OLD doesn't work. Have great hygiene, take care of your body physically, eat & sleep right. Take care of your mind mentally, cold approach (focus on having fun, entertaining yourself & asking the women out on action dates), always be escalating physically a little. If you don't get a girlfriend within 2 months of talking to a women displaying some interest back DM me. If its a women you never see often always go for calling/facetime or you don't exist to them period, dozens of guys text & they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThere's only one possible truth, one possible reality. Then there's men's reality & women's reality. Most women inherently want a strong dominant, confident and commanding man to submit to. If they're more masculine than feminine this dynamic begins to shift, and they might just be comfortable being like men themselves. Then there's what every individual man & women think, due to their past experiences, their own perspective, and their own intentions/agenda. Most people don't psychoanalyze their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingHaha, i've met quite a few women like this in my past 4 years at university, they don't hang around places men often frequent or talk to women at. I've met them volunteering, in the library, in yoga classes, and in regular classes I took as electives (Art, writing, etc). As an engineering major I did not see too many girls in my classes, but all the ones that were got overwhelmed with attention & desire from all the guys and most decided to date (or now marry) guys outside of our major. Some of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThis is why the purple pill is the most interesting subreddit to debate on male & female relations, we get to hear from both men & women's perspectives. The truth is men who are in a scarcity mindset can't possibly imagine what its like to be a woman, although men will too be disgusted, unattracted, appalled to a random guy assaulting them, petting their ass or verbally harassing them sexually (asking them to do things or go places). Guys in the middle of the spectrum (not scarcity but not abund… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingWhen men speak out of emotion, they come to bitter conclusions, because the chick they went after only had sex with these guys they want to say AWALT. But the truth is, it can also be argued that these same men who chase after these women... do it inherently because they love the "bad" girl, the crazy girl, the toxic girl, the slutty thrill seeking girl. Women are subjected to culture, how they were raised, what all their peers/social groups think & do. I remember reading this somewhere years ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThis is somewhat true but also false. If a women has low self esteem, confidence, insecurity... even if she is 10/10 on the outside and doesn't show it? She will be most attracted to and want to be with the drug dealer kind of guy & open her legs easily for him. If she's living a healthy, quality life with endless pleasure without needing drugs, alcohol, smoking, seeking male validation, etc? She will be most attracted to great quality assertive guys (not guys that will let her do whatever she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the Issue with Dating in the Modern World from Increase in Sexualisation of our Culture?Possibly, I always hear college girls saying they wish they did not lose their virginity at 16 and waited until 18 or 20 instead when they understood guys better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Should I assume she's DTF?only older ppl go on formal dates now, the younger crowd its meet at parties, meet to hang out & chill, meet to smoke or drink, meet to play games (real life or video games), or to watch some shit. then I guess you can consider going out to eat places or checking out new places are "dates" but most people don't think them like formal dates anymore lol unless they're in a boyfriend & girlfriend relationship. its literally very easy to lay, no one even expects you to be in a relationship to get se… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:07 PM |
| -2 | Plate of 10 months has dropped a few blatantly racist remarks over the last few months with no remorse. Time to drop?Tell her she & her kids can be slaves/property for their entire lives, and everyone can call anyone in the next hundreds of years that looks similar to her or her next of kin "Cracker", ask her if she's comfortable and fine with this happening to her. After the generations of her family's slavery is over, they will continue to be treated like shit, inhumanely by everyone who looks different than them in the country they were forced to be in. It's good to try to get people to put themselves in ot… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | LTR asked me to cut off other women that I communicate withTrue, how could I forget ;/ it must be because i'm talking to men, I remember whenever I tried to argue rationally to my ex gf it always made the situation much much worse. "You're my girlfriend, not X name" should suffice. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | LTR asked me to cut off other women that I communicate withMan, tell your girlfriend that getting attention isn't a bad thing, but acting on it or flirting back is. She sounds like the type of person that would act on all her attention if she got random guys like this, keep your options up & high to keep her in check. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?Yup, this is why I only cow girl when I'm half up on my back & can hold them, make out with them too. You can do it with your back against a wall if you want to relax. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?holy shit, TRP forums is stupid af sometimes. No, not all girls give you star fish because of lack of attraction, not actually wanting you to fuck them, or wanting to shit test you all the time. GIRLS HAVE ANXIETY, NERVOUSNESS, INSECURITY TOO. And if they're not really sexually experienced, it will show way more heavily than with guys, unless they have trouble getting aroused or their dick hard with the women too. You can give her instructions, to get on all fours... stick her ass out and maybe … | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | HB9 liked my hinge pic i ask for # then she hits me with this bsjust an intro new person shit test, say a funny/clever joke or come back, maybe with a lil of abundance & idgaf mentality (for your own entertainment) but not too much to drive her away. She's basically saying "lol y don't u be my beta loser simp & join the thousands or tens of thousands of desperate jack offs that validate me on my insta :)". Because of the way she framed the question I would just treat her like a child & make her follow through with your request for # or set up a date. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Should i have cut my best friend off for talking to my ex?Bros before hoes. Guy friends can last forever, hoes come and go. However, this "best friend" may not be a true bro. Now, him going behind your back is something really serious and is more about his character and how well he sees/values you as a friend. There's either a huge lack of respect, fear, admiration or something going on here or a lot of pent up jealousy & resentment? There isn't a good chance for this unless you both had a thing for this girl before you guys got in a relationship. Eith… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:58 AM |
| 23 | I can never understand the "guys should get with as many girls" while "girls have to keep their body count as low as possible" comparison. Can someone explain?If a women is easy to have sex with, and gives it up to any guy that she wasn't even in a serious LTR with, that women is not LTR material. There are exceptions to the rule but generally this is the case. There's tons of things you learn from experience, any women that has more guy friends then girl friends or even just a lot of guy friends in general. Huger red flag. Girls that tie their identity to alcohol, smoking, tattoos, etc. Huge red flag. Girls that love drugs, experimenting with shit an… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Is Black Pill full of shit?the black pill preys on unconfident guys. Confidence & security is more important than looks, this is an objective fact. But taking care of yourself & looking clean enough is still very important. If you show you're not confident & you're insecure, desperate or needy to women its a huge turn off for them. Those average 4/5 out of 10 guys you see with 9 and 10/10 chicks? They have their shit together, are fully confident & secure in themselves. Maybe they're a bit funny but not really much more t… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | My OWN Sister did this.My dude, women are literally brain dead social creatures, if the social norm becomes height is most important for sex and mating and the standard becomes 6 feet + guys, all it takes is for society to instill that in her. Don't be surprised that women can't think for themselves and are programmed entirely by society. Just look at all the ethnic women obsessing over white men over their own ethnicities, Asian, Indian, Black, Hispanic, all of these women prefer white to their own races in dating & … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/21 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Confidence in looks as a black guyIma be real with you since this is a problem with society & media. Ignore white beauty standards, let your hair grow out, keep lifting & getting a sexy aesthetic ... ignore what all the girls say and especially if they're white & mention shit like "I don't have sex with black guys, they aren't attractive" Ask yourself? Why would any non autistic person say this? Its because they were programmed and trained by society to find white most beautiful and sexy. And they feel the need to say their prog… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you eventually forget about your ex/oneitis?Lol get in line, it's been 2 and a half years for me and my first one-itis. Banged all of my friends and I couldn't get over that. All the betrayal... backstabs, lies, lying by omission, treachery. Until I did. How? I had sex with objectively better women than her and then easily convinced myself she was a piece of shit human being & I shouldn't of let her so deeply into my life anyway, there were a shit ton of red flags in the first couple months we knew each other but I kept pursuing & pursuin… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Preparing for the next market crash/correction/pullbackMeh, I've lost good money, mixed out on x10 by taking out at wrong time, lost 30%s by buying back in while something is increasing then it goes down even more than it started at. There's no real way to know what will happen, and if you did you could turn $1000 into $1mil with just 3 FUCKING X10. Just 3. just one x10 a year (some valuables x2 a day), 3 years and it's done. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/20 03:33 AM |
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