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You can intentionally try and correct your thought process every time you slip into that mentality. You can also try and really observe your relatives and be honest with yourself. Do you want to be like them? A bunch of single mothers who gave everything to men and were still left alone (and they are also homophobic on top of that)? Is this the life you want to live? Ironically, the more a woman tries to please a man, just because she’s insecure and doesn’t want him to leave, the less he values …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/26 09:10 AM
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The reason why you want to nag is because you are unhappy with your relationship and disappointed in how your husband is showing up as a partner. You'll stop wanting to nag once those problems are fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 01:37 PM
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So basically you are resentful of your husband because instead of working more so that you can stay home with the baby he works even less than you and you have to go out to get the bread everyday? Does your husband make less than you? If his salary is not good, tell him you want him to consider finding a different job that pays better, so you can switch to part time at least.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 04:08 PM
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Sure, don’t listen to the women who tell you they want an equal relationship, listen to your own single ass intuition and you’ll find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:27 PM
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Because when she dated a man in her league she didn’t enjoy it and realized she’d rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:18 PM
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Ok then do it, no one is stopping you from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:17 PM
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Of course, it can technically be anything, but women do not generally desire an unequal partnership. Would you like a partnership where you only had 20% of the power?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:08 PM
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Partnership requires that both parties are equal, that’s by definition. You can still have a loving relationship without equality, but it will be like a parent and a child, not a partnership between two adults who can depend on each other to navigate through life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:57 PM
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lol that’s what I thought reading this title, like OP if you’re bending over for your boss everyday that’s not normal, that’s actually illegal, report him and seek therapy, please you don’t have to live like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:55 PM
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Does blue pill ideology actually claim that women don’t care about men’s looks at all? Do they think we are demisexual and don’t experience physical attraction as human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:52 PM
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All love is conditional, besides maybe a parent and a child. That doesn’t mean they aren’t genuine or love isn’t there. It’s normal and healthy for someone to leave their spouse if they never contribute anything to the relationship and/or treat them like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:50 PM
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Isn’t that the point of the comment? “Better” is top 10%, not attainable for 90% of women, so she realized she’s better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:47 PM
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Because a lot of women don’t care to have 10 minutes of unsatisfying intercourse with a random man who will be disrespectful or indifferent towards them. There are also women who want to have a partner to come home to, go on fun dates/cuddle with, raise a family with etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:44 PM
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It depends. For example I am bi and find masculine looking women really attractive, I used to date them when I was single. Most men find those women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:42 PM
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Yup. If you are interested in how this works I highly recommend the YouTube video “twilight” by contrapoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:28 PM
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It depends but for a lot of people it’s not acceptable for a woman to be shallow the way it is for a man. Men are supposed to be “visual creatures” while women should mostly care about personality and “finding a good man”. That’s because society at large doesn’t really understand how female sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:58 PM
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Don’t try to change the person you’re dating. Even changing yourself can be a struggle, it is simply impossible to control other people’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:43 PM
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I wouldn’t really care but I am bisexual so I don’t have genital preferences. If your dick can work and you are good at sex, that’s what I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:41 PM
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Yes. I wouldn’t do it, but I want to have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:39 PM
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That’s not necessarily the case though? For me, I’ve had sex with a couple of men and then the only reason why I didn’t want a relationship with them was because they were bad at sex. From the outside you’ll think “oh she gave sex to him without commitment and her boyfriend had to commit” but the truth is that in both cases I had sex on the third date before getting committed. The difference is that my boyfriend has a big dick and a lot of stamina, while the other guy had a small crooked penis a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 PM
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Most real life couples I know had sex pretty early on, like on the 3rd date. It’s not like women “make men wait” for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:25 PM
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To be honest, if she doesn’t want to attract anyone, I think that’s a good strategy for her. Why would the commenters even care about what a woman they don’t know does with her looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:18 PM
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Do you think you would want sex more often if you found her more physically attractive? Does she know that you consider her “average looking”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:15 PM
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When I hear a masculine woman I consider stereotypical masculine physical traits, like having short hair and an overall masculine style (wearing clothes from the male section etc). As a feminine bisexual woman I tend to be attracted to women like that, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:10 PM
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I do care if people I respect think that my partner is rude, dumb or a loser. When it has to do with his outside appearance, I don’t care as much. Sure, it can be a confidence boost to have an enviable boyfriend, but if I really like someone, people’s opinions on his looks won’t stop me. Of course, for me to like someone significantly less attractive than me, he needs to have other desirable qualities, besides being nice or kind of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:08 PM
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So you would potentially marry a woman that has no job, so you have to pay for everything and have all the financial responsibility but who also doesn’t clean so you need to come back home and do all the house chores for her? Really? And in addition to all that, this woman is not smart and has zero interests, so the conversations with her would be boring, she wouldn’t get your jokes, every movie you watch she is asking you “what did he say that? What happened here?”. And she apparently has zero …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:59 PM
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The downside I guess would be that she doesn’t have much of a social life besides you, so she might expect to tag along and join you wherever you go. She might get upset when you want to have a boys’ night and try to prohibit you from doing that. She seemingly has zero interests and is dumb, so most conversations with her would be boring and after a certain point you wouldn’t have anything to say. She would expect you to pay for most things because she doesn’t have a job. She might act like a we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:53 PM
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You don’t have to protect yourself buddy, no woman is trying to get with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:47 PM
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You need to go out and touch grass, your comments are insane. You can’t be well adjusted in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:43 PM
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Because when we say “just approach women” we (wrongly) assume that you have some minuscule amount of social skills and are able to understand if a woman might be interested in you before you actually go talk to her, by observing her eye contact and body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:39 PM
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You can say whatever you want but it doesn’t matter because she knows her relationship and you don’t. I hope you are under 18 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:35 PM
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As a woman, we are not unaware, we just lie because otherwise we will be labeled as shallow. Maybe if you stop expecting from women to “give nice guys a chance” you’ll hear some unfiltered truth, but I bet you won’t like it (by you I don’t mean you specifically, just men in general).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:28 PM
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I actually laughed out loud when I read that part as a bisexual woman. Yes, finding a woman to have sex with is not as easy as finding a man to have sex with, but if you know what women like you can definitely find a woman to have sex within a week. I’ve done it multiple times before and I can do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:25 PM
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If he has a pretty boy look that means he is very attractive, so it makes sense that he is being approached. “Chads” don’t really exist. Attractive men exist. A lot of men don’t understand how someone who isn’t Henry cavil but looks more like a k pop star can be seen as attractive by women, because most men don’t understand what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:22 PM
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Oh come on really? Palestinian? It’s not like there are many Palestinian immigrants in the corporate environment. Regardless, there are some women that are open to casual sex, but even those women would not risk their reputation to sleep with someone who has been trying to get with every woman in the vicinity. I have seen it time and time again. A mediocre looking man at the bar hits on the hottest friend. The chances of him being rejected are precisely 100%. Then he goes on to the second best l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:20 PM
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Seems that their investments are going pretty well if you consider that single women are significantly more likely to own homes than men. You can argue that part of the reason for this gap is because some women divorce and keep the home (although my sister had to buy out her ex husband to keep her home, so she still technically paid for it). But that’s still an investment. Cool username btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:41 PM
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That’s possibly because I don’t talk about how happy I am all the time and I don’t make posts about it. Obviously if something is going wrong you’ll talk about it more. Around half the couples I know met through online dating and I bet you don’t see those women writing pages upon pages about their good fortune online either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:24 PM
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I think this theory is definitely part of why women are slut shamed. It also explains why a lot of men would be ok with their girlfriend sleeping with another woman, but not with another man. The explanation? “You can’t unsuck a dick”. In addition, I think it could explain why a lot of bisexual men are being seen as gays in the closet, but bisexual women are regarded as free spirited and experimental straights. Even lesbians could not be conceptualized for a very long time and that’s why in a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:06 PM
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What are you talking about? I am more satisfied than ever. If I lived 50 years ago, I would be restricted to my limited social circle in finding someone. With dating apps I had thousands of men to choose from, according to my preferences. I got to go on a few dates with a couple of very attractive and interesting men. After only a few dates I found my boyfriend, who is exactly what I wanted. I could screen him in regard to looks, interests, wit, education and career/income before even meeting hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:47 PM
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I’m sorry, but how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:41 PM
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I would argue that a lot of red pill men definitely believe that personalities, “game” (or rizz nowadays) and the way you carry yourself play a big role in relationships, that’s why they have all those guides on how to act and how to talk to women. Even black pilled men talk about “personality maxing”. Sure, a lot of their strategies don’t really work that well, or only work in specific contexts, but saying that those men believe personality doesn’t matter is simply not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:36 PM
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I personally find it hot, although I am bi myself. I know some women who do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:32 PM
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Bro being a drug dealer can also lead you to prison, probably for a longer time too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:31 PM
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If you have a few hundred, you can have access. It’s that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:28 PM
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That’s not a problem, that’s just nature. If it’s any consolation, we are at an all time high in regard to women not mating and the trend seems to be growing. Of course, most of those women are childless by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:23 PM
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This is starting to change as women’s wages catch up to the men’s. In fact, childless women now make an income that is about the same as men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:21 PM
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Yup female sexuality is more fluid, as shown time and time again in women’s prisons. I am mostly attracted to men, but I’d much rather find a nice woman or even stay celibate my whole life, than be with a man I find undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:16 PM
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Is it though? Because if they have sex with him only for drugs and are not attracted to him (which is definitely the case for a lot of desperate addicted women) technically any man could have the same level of success, just by hiring a bunch of cheap prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:12 PM
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No, women want attractive, confident men. A lot of us might prefer someone who is a bit less nice, than someone super nice who is ugly and self conscious. But most women, regardless of age, are not specifically looking for assholes, unless by asshole you mean “confident and self assured”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:09 PM
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I think it depends on their level of experience and emotional intelligence. Most millennial and gen z women have been through it at least once. Maybe the older ones too. Some of them have experienced this scenario multiple times and I am assuming for them it’s the first, they know it deep down, but they are fooling themselves. Unfortunately, most women don’t receive good advice and in those ages it’s basically the blind leading the blind. Even your friends couldn’t tell you the obvious, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:22 AM
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No, of course that’s a great thing for you if you are into that, I just explained why it happens because you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:14 AM
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Lol a woman could literally spit you in the face and you would think she is actually salivating for chad’s thundercock
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:21 PM
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I just browsed the 10 latest posts on /hot/ and most were from women, but sure. I think it’s a recent phenomenon that plenty of men have become some porn addicted that they have lost interest in sex, especially in relationships. It’s becoming more and more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:17 PM
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Oh come on, just go to r/deadbedrooms and you’ll see it’s actually very common for men to sexually reject their partners as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:12 PM
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I am a woman so I am asking how me not having sex with a random man is going to hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:58 PM
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I am sorry, but how can not having sex with a random man hurt him? And even if it does, how exactly would he be able to “protect himself”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:51 PM
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Why would a woman date someone she is not attracted to if she has the possibility of a better option, or if she has the chance to have a good time before settling? How is that in her best interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:47 PM
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You literally have 3 women above commenting “NO, WE LIE WE REALLY BELIEVE LOOKS ARE VERY IMPORTANT BUT WE LIE ABOUT IT BECAUSE OF SOCIAL PRESSURE”. And you still don’t want to hear us and instead make up these dumb theories about how we are lying to ourselves, just confirming each other’s stupidity. That’s just too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:45 PM
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No, we are definitely lying in many cases, I have done it before and I know other women have too, because we have talked about it. I remember one time my friend was telling me: “I suspected that the guy I met the other day at the bar was as dumb as a rock, but I tried really hard to steer off complicated topics so that he wouldn’t say something too dumb and completely destroy my attraction to him, because I found him so hot”. I am sure plenty of men do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:40 PM
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I mean who knows they are fucking teenagers. Both will probably move on at some point. If she managed to have a serious relationship with a popular athlete I am sure she won’t have a problem attracting a decent man for a monogamous relationship if she is interested in that later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:36 PM
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Most attractive men are self declared liberals, just look at celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:28 PM
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No, on tiktok I have actually seen plenty of videos by women asking men to take care of themselves more, especially with skincare. Some very young 18-22 Korean prettybois are very successful among young women of all races, just doing their 12 step skincare routine or hair care and “fit of the day” videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:24 PM
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First of all, he did commit to her, because they got married, and chances are she left him because most divorces are initiated by women anyway. But even if what you say is true, why would she admit that her ex had a bigger dick than her current husband? Are you like 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:16 PM
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Just steer clear and not be around them then. Men who whine about what random women like or not are repulsive btw. Oh and anger is a feeling too lol, so maybe don’t be so emotional about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:09 PM
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Tbh I think that being hypergamous is a great thing and the only reason some men try not to be is because they don’t have the guts and the game to do it. I don’t consider being hypergamous as an insult, everyone should strive for the best they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:06 PM
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You wrote a very emotional comment and she responded accordingly. Anger is an emotion too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:04 PM
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Ok so, when they settle for them (which they do, otherwise most men wouldn’t eventually get married) you don’t like it. When they don’t date them because they don’t want to settle, you still don’t like it. I know you want to move a magic want and miraculously make women fall head over heels for ugly, socially awkward, unsuccessful men, but this is not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:57 PM
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Yeah I got what you said, but I disagree still and I have heard those “forced birth” arguments before a thousand times. I have many counter arguments, but I assume you’ve heard them all too and you still hold the same opinion. So there’s no point in trying to convince each other. If you want to call me “pro abortion” sure, I don’t care, call me that. I don’t think abortion is a bad thing at all and I don’t lose any sleep over it. I would definitely have one if I got pregnant and feel zero remors…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:52 PM
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No, I get what you are saying, I just don’t want to differentiate myself from the other women, because this isn’t in my best interest. You forget that many of us have already secured a man who does not share these misogynistic insecure opinions as the OP, so we have nothing to earn by pretending we have only had sex with 1 more person in our life (or god forbid, actually having sex with only 1 person in our lives lol). What is in my best interest is for the woman’s place in the society to become…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:45 PM
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Did you date her with the intention to have a LTR and possibly get more serious (propose etc)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:23 PM
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Even if we wanted to, women are not a monolith, we can’t collectively decide a certain course of action and force each and every one to follow. Regardless, women in this thread, we don’t mind this silly test at all, because it wouldn’t affect us in any way: We wouldn’t keep dating someone who tried to push for sex, especially on the first date Even if we really wanted to have sex with him for some weird reason but we also wanted him to see us as relationship material, we would know better than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:23 PM
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Lol ok sure but she is still not a priority. Did you end up seriously dating the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:14 PM
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Well, what you say makes in fact perfect sense and I would agree with you, if I believed abortion is a bad thing. But I actually don’t believe that abortion is a bad thing at all, so I don’t see a reason why people should only have sex if they are open to having children. They can have sex and abort as many times as they want, I don’t mind one bit. I also think it’s ridiculous to essentially claim that men and women who never want to have kids should never have penetrative sex until a woman hits…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:11 PM
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The dude is lying about being busy and he is only saying that he wants to get to know her, but in fact he just wants to get easily laid a few more times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:06 PM
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That’s heteroromantic bisexual and it’s still bi. Unless they are not sexually attracted to those women, in which case I have no idea why they would even do that. And I don’t want to invalidate anyone, but I have been through that before as a bisexual and the reality was that I was in denial, not that I was straight. But that’s just my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:04 PM
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The point is that a woman like that would pass this test, so it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:40 PM
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There isn't a specific kind of woman. Most women who have been more sexually promiscuous during a period of their lives eventually grow out of it and stop having sex so early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:37 AM
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Lol if she doesn't sleep early with you it might mean that she ''doesn't give it up that easy'' or that she has had sex on the first date with someone else but she isn't that attracted to you. You will never know which one is true. If I were a man, I would want a woman who is clearly very attracted to me, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:23 AM
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No one needs to communicate anything, we are explaining how the phenomenon works because OP asked. Women and men both have their reasons for not sharing. For women it's either because they don't want to feel bad, or they want to keep the guy around for validation and other perks, or they are scared that the guy might turn agressive. For men it can be one of those, although the latter is way less common. They it's usually just the first two, or they just access to easy sex. But the lesson from my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:19 AM
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I think it happens for both men and women. It might be a bit more common for women, because they are conditioned to value committment more, plus if they want to have children they might be in a bit more of a hurry. But I think that for a man to marry, he also has to settle if he is unattractive, unless he has something else going on for him (personality, status, money etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:05 AM
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It's not about you, it's about what they wanted to do. You just happened to be there, willing, attractive enough and you didn't do something extremely stupid to not fuck it up. You were just a tool to get the pleasure/validation she needed at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:45 AM
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Women have higher standards in general, because we can. Men can complain all they want about it, but just because something isn't fair, it doesn't mean that it will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:21 AM
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Of course is naive, but those women are usually young and inexperienced and his actions initially might have matched his words, plus there is some level of emotional investment on her part that makes things a little blurry. I do agree that you need to be more selective with who you have sex with if what you are looking for is a relationship and if being dumped after sex really affects you negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:20 AM
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My fiance went to the most expensive private school in the country and let me tell you that no one of his classmates married a hairdresser. When we are talking about very rich families, there is still huge influence on who you will marry. They can be extremely elitistic. But even if you are a male doctor, statistically, chances are you'll marry another doctor, not a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:18 AM
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No, of course that's true, I am just in awe that this theory is something you would need the red pill to figure out. Like, what did you expect before you found the red pill? That women's ass would spontaniously open up for you because you were kinda nice to her and you took her out on a few dates? As a woman I can't wrap my head around this logic. What the red pill gets wrong is that women are ''like children'', ''solipsistic'', ''illogical and only care about FEELINGS''. No, you are literally d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:14 AM
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Lol as if most men are not equally overweight and obese as most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:07 AM
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I don't think you are part of the demographic OP is talking about then. I agree with you that middle class men don't really care about career, as long as she is able to support herself usually, which means she could be a nurse, hairdresser, or a teacher. But if we are talking about truly rich and successful men, especially the highly educated old money types that are the most sought after, they obviously look for someone attractive, but they also want the woman to be educated and have a decent i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:56 AM
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If after the sex he changes his mind but he doesn't communicate that clearly and instead finds excuses and pretends he would be open to a relationship eventually in order to get easy sex again for a couple of months, then he is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:45 AM
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That's just silly, people of all genders cheat and it's not because they are children or because they find a way to excuse their behavior necessarily, people are just selfish and they make mistakes. Trying to claim that women are dumber or more immature by nature is just a desperate attempt to feel like you have some control over other people's behavior. But you don't. Of course some women have done things for their ex partners that decided weren't for them and they stopped doing them for their …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:40 AM
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The equivalent doesn’t mean it’s fair, it just means that it’s a big part of what’s considered attractive depending on your sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:06 AM
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It doesn’t matter. I am talking about what is considered equal in terms of attraction, not what is supposed to be “fair”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:05 AM
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He pretends to be more enthusiastic than he was. He is not deliberately deceptive, he is just blinded by his own selfish desires. Of course, this is not a crime, but it’s fair for the woman to feel used. All actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:44 AM
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I am actually a woman, but yeah. If a man suddenly becomes busy after you have sex, but wasn’t before it’s just a textbook scenario like the one I described above. This happens either because he never wanted a relationship and he was actually playing with other women at the same time (happens but not that often) or that he was truly open to a relationship but he realized he didn’t really like you that much after getting laid and seeing things clearly (more common).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:42 AM
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If you think 50 year old men usually date and marry 20 year olds then you don’t live in reality. I would never date someone who only liked younger women, because we are all destined to get old eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:34 AM
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Of course, but we are not talking about average women here, we are talking about very hot influencer type of women who have sex with nba players. Those women are already good looking and take care of themselves tremendously, so they will most likely be hot in their 40s. The average man/woman is another conversation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:28 AM
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That’s just not corresponding to reality. The truth is that the average man marries at 29 and the average woman at 27. Most couples don’t have an age gap of over 5 years, regardless of what you’d like to believe. I am 27 and I’d never date a man who was 35, most of us wouldn’t. My fiancé is actually 1 year younger than me and still pretty successful. The stats don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:19 AM
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The men that I know always swipe right very quickly without looking at them and then if they get a match they consider whether they like her. Usually their standards are very low because men fuck anything that moves, but that doesn’t seem they are less shallow, they are just more desperate. Plus, they have an almost guaranteed orgasm, unlike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:08 AM
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Women see the unattractive men, we just don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:06 AM
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You know ugly women get pumped and dumped by mediocre guys who don’t even pay for a nice meal with them, right? Having sex with extremely hot and successful men, who wine and dine you and fly you first class all over the world and eventually pay you a few millions because you had a child with them is a great outcome. Plus, a hot milf in her 40s who takes care of herself and is a millionaire, can still find a relatively successful and decent looking man who is a bit older than her to marry, if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:58 AM
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Of course you need to work towards that. I don’t think most women would have a man not being 6’ as a deal breaker. Sure, they might prefer it, but most would be open in dating someone who is 5’10 or even a bit shorter. I know plenty of men who are 5’8 and still date. And yes, there are some women who want 6 feet, but if that’s what they are attracted to, I don’t understand why you criticize them. Would you rather have them date someone short that they weren’t really attracted to, just to settle …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:49 AM
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You can’t make someone else carry a child for 9 months and then give birth to it. You just can’t. This is a decision only the person doing it can make for themselves. This is a painful and dangerous process and a third party can’t subject another person to that, just because he nutted inside her once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:43 AM
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How many? 10? 100? 1,000? The rest of the women you have seen don’t do it but you only focus on the ones you do. If most women were bi, most men would never get married, but eventually most of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:31 AM
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So why do you keep asking women “why did you have sex with him just because he said he wanted a relationship, if he didn’t commit to you”? This is just not the norm in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:27 AM
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Nope, most women are not bi. Most women are not open to dating other women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:25 AM
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The boobs are controllable too, you can easily get them done or wear a push-up bra, so your own example is flawed. The number 1 deterrent for men (besides disfigurement) is if the woman is fat. The number 1 deterrent for women (besides disfigurement) is if the man is short. Ergo, equivalent (≠ same). It doesn’t matter if it’s fair or if it makes sense, women can like whatever they want. At the end of the day, it will only limit their own dating pool and if they are fine with that, why do you car…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:21 AM
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I truly don’t understand what the red pill guys expected before they found the red pill. How are they so shocked? Oh, women like hot guys, what bitches! Like you literally like hot women too, would you look twice at an old obese woman? Why don’t you marry her and love her “for her”? You literally want the same things as we do and then you say we are like children. I assume this is because “we think we want a nice guy” but at the end of the day we want “chad”. Let me tell you, we know very well t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:11 AM
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Most women (and men) in America are overweight. So, by not dating fat women you literally say no to over 70% of the population. Same with women wanting the top 30% of taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:00 AM
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If he is an incel nothing will work. The dance classes I have been to are usually 60% women and 40% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:59 AM
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That’s not true at all. I know in the Latin nights to the bar I go to, the students are encouraged to ask every woman to dance, regardless of age. In fact, over half of the women there are over 45 and they still get offers to dance. This doesn’t mean the men want to date them obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:57 AM
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And that’s why people usually don’t start a relationship before they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:47 AM
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No, but the man will usually say he is open to having a relationship and that he just needs to know the woman better. After a while, they have gone out a few times, he has introduced her to his friends and things seem to be getting more serious, they text almost daily etc, so the woman assumes this is headed towards a relationship. They have sex, probably spend the whole weekend together and they both seem to be very into each other, she thinks things are basically official, they just need to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:41 AM
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Of course we like attractive men, why is that so shocking to you? And yeah, of course we want to date someone who has a good job and is ambitious, why would I want to date someone who doesn’t care about anything other than playing video games? If you had the chance to choose a woman who was a millionaire and had a mansion you could live free in, the means for you to travel first class whenever you liked, a yacht and a few really nice cars that you could drive, wouldn’t you think this is a plus?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:20 AM
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Boobs is not the equivalent of height for women. Being fat/thin is the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
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I mean, of course. If you are just looking to have sex why wouldn’t you be shallow? This is a shallow endeavor. Why would a woman have sex with someone ugly just because he is a good guy? I personally cared for looks when I decided to date my husband. Why would I want to have sex with someone for the rest of my life if I didn’t find him attractive? Sure, for some it matters less, or some have unconventional tastes, but of course women like hot men, we are humans just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:16 AM
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I used to think that too, about some of my friends “she needs to drop her standards”, but now I see it differently. Like, people can’t choose who they are attracted to. If she only wants men out of her league and she prefers to stay single if she doesn’t find one like that, then that’s her prerogative. Some people have a good time being single and don’t need to be with someone they are not attracted to, just to not be alone. The same stands for men, but the only difference is that the women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:08 AM
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I never went on a second date with someone who didn’t pay for the first and had no issues finding partners or attracting a good husband. There are plenty of men who would pay for the first date and treat you well, if you are attractive and confident enough. Women accepting men who don’t even do the bare minimum will only do themselves (and the rest of the women) a disservice. If a man can’t pay for the first date, how do you expect him to give you a nice life? You’d be better off as a liberal, a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 12:54 AM
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Most women who want to have kids later in life want to do so because they want to have money and usually don’t wish for more than 1 kid. It’s also very rare for a woman under 50 to need a surrogate if she doesn’t have health problems. Even 60+ year old women have been surrogates for their daughters. In general, if you freeze enough eggs before 38, the chances of eventually achieving a healthy pregnancy are over 90%. Obviously, for men the process of freezing sperm is even easier and I believe th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 10:38 PM
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If you want to risk having a disabled child then yes, you can try having a kid at 50. Women can also freeze their eggs and have YOUNG eggs at any age now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 06:55 PM
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Already being with someone and having their actual kids is way different than meeting a stranger. I don’t know strangers any attention. But sure, if my husband is not attracted to me anymore because I “let myself go”, then I don’t want him to stay out of pity. As a woman I 100% that I can find someone else who actually wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:09 AM
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Not being mistreated and regarded as “lesser than” is not a technicality, it is the bare minimum. Yes, the bar is low, but there are clean attractive men, with stable jobs that will respect you. You might need to be single for a while until you find them, but you certainly will, as long as you possess those qualities yourself.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:23 AM
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Girl, you can find a guy who treats you right from the get go, you don’t need to “train him” for years to not be gross and disrespectful!
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:12 AM
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Correction: women shouldn’t care about looks. As if we are not human beings with an actual need to feel attraction. As long as the man in question is not abusing us he is “a good guy” and we should “give him a chance”. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:20 PM
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Thank you dear 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:45 PM
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Umm ok I will do my best not to burst a vein, I hope I can manage to save my veins lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:08 AM
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Since you can’t choose who you are attracted to then it would be viscerally disgusting to be with someone you find unattractive. Relationships shouldn’t necessarily have to be about personality only, it’s ok to want to be with someone you are into. Stop moralising and projecting your values on women. Like, you literally said women are not after LTR’s because they don’t want to be with ugly guys. That’s why so many women lie, saying they don’t care about looks etc. Because if we admit the truth y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:24 PM
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I guess you can keep hoping that women won’t care about looks in a relationship, hopefully this will help you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:08 PM
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The two extremes aren’t “lonely guys in basement” and “average looking men who have some female friends on their circle”. The opposite of the basement dude is a man who is very attractive and popular, has great social skills and a success with women. Judging from those two polar opposites, what is average is actually the average looking guy who has some friends and a few women in his circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:06 PM
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What? As a woman, I do care about LTR’s but looks matter too! I wouldn’t be with my partner if I wasn’t attracted to him and yes, my standards are high. I’d rather be single for life than with someone I am not attracted to, that would be disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:56 PM
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I don’t quite understand wether you think this is related to the man or the woman. Do you think it just happens that your wife is one of the lucky few who can orgasm through penetration, or that if you dick down a woman (any woman) good enough she will be able to orgasm through penetration alone? By the way, even if I came and watched that wouldn’t prove anything to me. Only if I gave your wife the serum of truth would I be able to tell, since it’s very easy to pretend and many women (including …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:27 AM
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No, it would mean that you think penis is enough to make a woman cum, even though the vast majority don’t orgasm solely via penetration. The fact that you had three kids doesn’t mean you are good at sex, or experienced in how to give women pleasure, it just means that you ejaculated inside a vagina at least three times. Great accomplishment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:09 AM
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Found the inexperienced guy who watches too much porn for his own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:40 PM
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That’s pretty much the definition of Madonna/whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:34 PM
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As a woman I 100% disagree. I mean, of course if I don’t find the guy attractive sex is never going to happen. But I will always prefer average looks with amazing sex that leaves me trembling than a 10/10 with average sex where I don’t even orgasm half of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:28 PM
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Yup, these days dating is basically a capitalist game and tbh I love it as a woman. I truly don’t think that being in a manipulative relationship will make anyone happy, especially if it’s something that doesn’t come naturally, and honestly it is probably going to lead to ridicule. Keeping your “frame” at all times is needed, but negging a woman on the first date is not going to be received well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah that’s not enough. If you are a 6/10 trying to pull a very hot woman, only high status/amazing social skills/lots of money can help you. Because there will be other people who won’t treat her like a goddess and these people will be the ones who are equally or more attractive/popular than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:14 PM
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I have met average or semi-attractive men who have had a few one night stands, but you are generally right, yes. I would argue that if a guy is high status and deemed cool and popular by their peers (bartender, team captain, influencer etc) that could be even more important than looks. The things is, if a woman is willing to have casual sex, extremely hot men will be willing to sleep with her, no matter how she looks. So why would she choose a 32 year old socially awkward loser like OP and not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:03 PM
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I am just wondering, if you and your husband are both working full time, but you also do more at home and try to keep fit and attractive for your husband, don’t you feel like you have too much on your plate? Or if not right now, then certainly when you have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:48 AM
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Lol I don’t think that this is accurate, I am quite sure that if any man put their standards in there they would get rated as an “aspiring cat lady” just because they would check the box of not wanting an obese woman. But I have met plenty of men wanting to date me who fulfilled the basic standards I put in this calculator (including my current partner) and I don’t think that I was exceptionally lucky, to the point I have defined the odds a dozen of times even though the chances are supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:11 AM
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So having a friend of the opposite sex (one that your partner knows and is ok with) is now the same logic to being a cheater?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 06:55 AM
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You wanted us to explain you why women use the “boyfriend material” excuse and I did, from the women’s side. The reasons why men don’t want to commit to a promiscuous women are irrelevant, wether I like them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:52 AM
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Yeah that’s irrelevant (and not entirely true), the fact is that they still don’t want women who do it and that’s why women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:13 AM
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Yeah I am saying what would be more effective to work on, but of course there are many excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:02 PM
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The point of my reply was that even the concept of men (not saying it was you, but you did imply a sizeable amount has this notion) is under the impression that women care about the fact that men experience rejection and lack of interest. I just can’t wrap my head around this, why do you need to point it out and say that they haven’t figured this out. Is this actually a thing, that society says women supposedly care? Who promised them that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:03 PM
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As a woman, I do kind of care in theory I guess but it’s the same way we care about kids starving in Africa. Sure, we feel some empathy and we sometimes might even donate some money, but the vast majority is not giving up their luxuries and giving all their disposable income for them and we don’t adopt one or more of those kids. Most people even by products that are made by exploited kids. At the end of the day, it’s none of my business. I try to be kind to men if they are kind to me, no matter …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:29 AM
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That might be true for you, but it’s not the case for most people, sure a good personality can help but it’s not the only thing that matters in dating and I am saying this as a woman. Sure, personality counts, this is a prequisite, but so is finding someone physically attractive. Someone can want both, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:12 AM
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So you do admit that they don’t have good personality (come on, moderator of 4chan?), you just believe that they would be forgiven if they looked good. Well, that’s a different thing, stop changing goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:10 AM
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Women can hook up with much hotter guys, sure, but most women can’t find someone who is a chad, has a huge dick, money and status, because those men are very few and have too many options to settle with someone who is just moderately attractive. Women don’t date down, yes, but if he makes up for his mediocre looks with status/good sex/intelligence/whatever then this is not dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:07 AM
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I am just wondering, did those women drink with you as well, or were they sober and just liked you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:58 AM
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You are talking about a committed relationship or hookups? Because if it’s the former personally most couples that I see are on the same league looks-wise and eduction wise. Sometimes men make more money, yes, but women also do most housework and childcare. I just think that men are not benefited at all from online dating, they need to have decent social circles and meet women through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:52 AM
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Completely agree. If a 50 year old can manipulate someone who is 26, that’s not because 26 is too young, but because this person is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah the crashes are more severe because men are worse drivers maybe? What does this have to do with the seatbelts and why do you keep repeating the same things over and over?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:50 PM
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Well, I hope chad has a good insurance, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:34 PM
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He wouldn’t be trash for leaving his girlfriend, most people break up, it’s a part of life. But cheating, yes, that’s a condemned behavior right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:29 PM
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Is Loki considered more desirable than Thor??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:09 PM
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Oh, I just now found this subreddit, so I am browsing on top of the month. Feel free to not answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:01 PM
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Oh well, I am depressed that I haven’t won the lottery, but such is life, one must just accept the reality and get on with it. On the other hand, even the simple fact that you realise this truth, means that you are in a better situation than you could have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:00 PM
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Most women get married at some point of their lives, so I am pretty sure we have figured that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:58 PM
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I don’t know about that. Jason Mamoa as a khal drogo was a sensation amongst most women I know, plus thousands of comments I have seen on several videos featuring him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:54 PM
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If you check out the beauty sub you will see they are populated by women by 99% and there is are also multiple posts daily talking about nose contouring, lip fillers, tape tricks for slimmer nose and plastic surgery. Maybe some more men could look into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:52 PM
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Oh yeah if you are 5’6 it won’t be easy to have casual sex, especially if you are not extremely charismatic and/or successful. And if a woman has an ugly face, she might be able to get used for sex, but socially and personally she is going to be pretty busted too. That’s just a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:50 PM
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You can’t choose who you are attracted to. Like it or not, most women will prefer the more objectively attractive males. That’s even true in nature, the vast majority of males never get to pass on their genes onto the next generation: https://www.nature.com/scitable/knowledge/library/mating-systems-in-sexual-animals-83033427/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:45 PM
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Do you really think that most women would feel the urge to masturbate in the cinema while watching 50 shades of grey? That’s the kind of hive mind you are talking about? That’s kind of hilarious and concerning at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:42 PM
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We are not mad as hell, we just don’t like it because it’s not ideal for us. But it’s not like we can’t get over it or anything like that lol. It is a fact of life that the top attractive/high status/charismatic/rich and otherwise desirable people have a lot more leeway to do whatever they want and remain desirable. That’s the truth, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:33 PM
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Of course we are, like wouldn’t men prioritise sleeping with the top 10% of women if they had the chance to? Now, imagine if casual sex was as risky for the average man, as it is for the average woman. Would you risk your life and safety to do it with a mediocre woman, when you have the opportunity to do it with the top 10% of the most attractive women, whenever you wanted, easily? I just don’t understand how men “don’t get women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:31 PM
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As a woman, I can say that’s a great analogy and it’s one I have pondered about myself. That’s why I am wondering, if she is conscious enough to actually not sleep with OP early on for that reason, why would she tell on herself that way? I guess this is an automatic process that happens and not an actual masterplan, maybe she now trusts his feelings for her more and knows that he won’t see her just as either a “girlfriend” or a “slut”? I don’t know. But, yes, if a woman ever does the mistake of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:21 PM
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Ok sure, I will. Personally, I don’t do that (I will tell you why at the end of this), but I think I can grasp the reasons behind this anyway and they mostly stem from one thing: patriarchy (or “we live in a society”, for those triggered by the p word). So, basically, you have a society telling us that women should not be “sluts”. Like, literally, that’s the worst thing you can ever be, it is the most demeaning insult when you call someone a “whore” and even more so, if she does it for free. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:52 PM
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Nahh I have heard from many men that they “like the chase” and when a girl sleeps on the first couple of dates I have heard on more than one occasion “they always say that she has never done it this early before, what a coincidence” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:30 PM
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This can only work with men who are attractive and charismatic and could get laid, if that’s what they wanted. Undesirable men who behave poorly are not going to have sex or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:27 PM
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I mean, I kind of get why she did it, but if she realises that the chances of OP committing would be lower if she slept with him on the first date (which is what she pretty much said) then she must understand that the reason behind this is because she is not supposed to be “the kind of girl who does this”. So, why would she tell on herself like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:20 PM
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Why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:17 PM
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There are not statistics about that, but there are not statistics about the length of marriages between doctors and nurses either, at least I am not aware of those. I would assume the success rate would be similar with most marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:31 AM
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Yeah probably you are not the type of guy the commenter has been wanting to attract. According to statistics, the most sure fire way for a woman to marry a doctor is to be a doctor herself (1 in 4 female doctors marry another doctor). Sure, the doctors marry the occasional nurse, or secretary, but usually they are going to lack in some other department, they are going to be older, uglier or just not respect their wife the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:28 AM
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Maybe she wants to make a lot of money, whatever that amount is. Maybe she defends poor victims of abuse. Maybe she just likes her job. Or maybe being a lawyer sucks in the beginning and you don’t even have the option to work less when you are fresh out of school and she doesn’t want to give up her whole dream career she has been striving for for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:18 AM
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So you are trying to say that the fact that some women allegedly (according to a small sampled study conducted by a private evangelical school) tend to go out with random men they aren’t into for free dinner, that they also marry men just to have kids and dump them later to fuck Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:28 PM
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Do you think that sub is a typical representation of women? Wtf?? You just get your conclusions from extreme spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:54 PM
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I base my argument on credible, scientific researches, you base yours by random YouTube videos and huff post sensational articles. We are not alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:23 PM
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You literally have no basis for those claims. I provided you with sources and you still didn’t want to believe me, I don’t think there is a point to discuss any further, you have no proof of what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:32 PM
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Good on you for avoiding the substance of what I am actually saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:39 PM
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This is huffington post, not legit at all. And it’s just one woman. Are you sure you are educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:52 AM
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Huh? Where did I say poor men are degenerates? I also talked about self made rich people so your argument about being born in upper class is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:04 AM
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Just using the phrase “giving him sex” tells me everything I need to know about you. Oh and by the way, it’s funny how you choose to believe what you want and ignore the science. It’s very similar to religious people. Your personal anecdotes are worthless in such conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:01 AM
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Umm that’s anecdotal and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:30 AM
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Because I told you literally 3 times already. I believe the reason why women choose bad men is patriarchy, which dictates that they NEED to get married and have kids otherwise they have failed as women. Society keeps telling them not to be too picky and find a good guy to start a family with. This can lead to some women picking men they are not that attracted to, sure, but mostly leads to them choosing men who don’t treat them that well, or they are just not that compatible with. Patriarchy also…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:19 AM
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What money? More than 1/3 of women out-earn their husbands and many earn around the same: www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/%3famp= Women do more chores than men: https://www.nsf.gov/discoveries/disc_images.jsp?cntn_id=111458 Employed women seem to spend double the amount of time doing housework than their spouses: https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=el&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=women+more+housework+than+men&oq=women+mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:06 PM
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No, women are mostly unhappy because they do more around the house and more childcare, while their man just comes home from work, spends half an hour with the kid and expects a blowjob for putting his underwear in the laundry. Again, the fact that women do more even if they work the same is proved by research, where are you basing your claims? On red pill forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:53 PM
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Ummm is that a scientific term? Because everything I said in my comment is backed by research.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:48 PM
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No, women divorce because they are not happy in their relationships. Men tend to remarry more after divorce. Women know it will be more difficult for them to find someone better, especially if they have kids but decide to leave usually because their relationship is no more beneficial to them, since they tend to do more housework and childcare even if they work the same as their husbands, so the resentment builds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:16 PM
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Usually if someone is self made rich, they are intelligent, charismatic or hard working in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:10 PM
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I mean I don’t know what comics have to do with this. That’s a pretty neutral trait. I don’t think most women care if a man likes comics, gaming, sports, cars or whatever random hobby as long as they find them physically attractive, fun and not total losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:08 PM
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I think that the men that go through what OP described, don’t usually have the option of FWB. For them, putting all this effort in, is their only hope to get laid semi-regularly. In addition, they are a 5/10 man trying to fuck a 7/10 woman consistently. You can’t do that for free, except if she is very insecure. If you are able to have numerous FWBs, at least a half of them would be happy to turn it into a monogamous relationship, without expecting you to do more work than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:03 AM
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I don’t think that’s the case at all. Go to r/relationships or similar subs and you will see a large number of posts, with women having those deadbeat boyfriends who don’t work, cook or clean and always play video games. Some of them are not even willing to fuck them, or take care of their own children. It’s sad af and unfortunately I do know of similar cases in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:58 AM
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Yes, men are down to fuck them, but no one is willing to put effort into taking them out to nice places and date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:55 AM
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As a woman who used to be way less attractive because of obesity, I can guarantee you that my standards are much higher now. I knew that I couldn’t expect too much when I was fat, so that was the main reason I went celibate for two years, until I lost the weight and gained my confidence back. Otherwise there was no point in dating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:54 AM
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