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Question For Menruboyuri/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:47 PM
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Are they an adult and do they like me Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:03 PM
2

My dad is fine and normal, on the laid back side. But slightly sexist. I did not date men like him in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:02 PM
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Men with purple socks, not red pills, are considered desirable by attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:59 PM
2

Nope, same study, just in 2021 instead of 2018. It’s an ongoing, decades-long survey, the largest in the US — and is cited here constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:09 PM
4

So, are we to blame politics or actual beliefs and thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:11 PM
8

Is it politics or actual values and attitudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:32 PM
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Awwww, data is useless when it doesn’t say what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:41 PM
3

No good deed goes unpunished, or at least unblamed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:30 PM
4

I guess you know nobody in a relationship, huh? You were raised by a single parent who never dated, have no relatives, neighbors, coworkers, or friends who date or marry….just single people, as far as the eye can see?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:29 PM
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Oh, then it was equal, 20% for each gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:17 PM
7

The JAMA study was an analysis of GSS data
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:15 PM
48

And in 2021, that same study showed men having more sex https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/suxt2k/diving_into_the_2021_gss_data_on_the_amount_of/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/r5pd5d/what_explains_the_recent_decline_of_male/ 22% men sexless, 34% women sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:34 PM
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Why is this not self evident?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:42 AM
6

I’ve had sexless years, as have most women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:32 PM
2

Those can all be reasons, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:31 PM
3

Nuttin’ wrong with being single for a period of time, is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:29 PM
2

It’s not “women like assholes” It’s “women are willing to be sexless and single”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:28 PM
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Yes, thus proving that looks really don’t matter that much to women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:29 PM
2

I’m doing fine. Being civil, not expecting much, being fair, working, paying taxes, not being an asshole, fucking a man, being a responsible citizen, not openly criticizing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:19 PM
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We can judge and make decisions based upon those experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:25 PM
1

Yes. There is a class divide which is not just economic, and not just a gender issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:23 PM
1

That would require effort and platonic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:23 PM
1

We already know there’s a deluge of dicks and a paucity of pussy, man We’ve known for as long as OLD has existed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:21 PM
1

Libido disparity Solved by porn, sex workers and casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:17 PM
1

Not overrated. Just the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:16 PM
2

Sure it does. We all have life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:15 PM
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Yeah, and you have all those other options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:55 PM
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It’s 8% if you use the literal definition https://www.relate.org.uk/get-help/over-quarter-relationships-are-sexless, 30% if you use some weird clinical definition https://www.usnews.com/news/national/articles/2008/03/27/how-common-are-cheating-spouses?context=amp 10-30% seems to be the range for married infidelity, which seems as accurate as we can expect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:54 PM
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I did list money there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:00 PM
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We neither want sex nor get orgasms as much as men So we have less desire and incentive to seek it So, how do men incentivize us to engage in sex with them? Compensation —- companionship, love, money, status, attention, gifts, deference, protection, praise, entertainment, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:51 PM
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No, it’s just you guys demand more than you give back. Sex alone already puts you at a disadvantage. Gotta compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:02 PM
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They are, because it’s not ideal to raise kids alone Plus, Disney indoctrination/social conformity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:30 PM
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You look average, i.e., not notable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:27 PM
8

Always? Then why do the majority of married people never cheat and have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:54 PM
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Yes, settling occurs. Is this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:40 PM
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Of course not. Also, are you sure you’re ugly? Dudes here and the incel subs aren’t always the best judge of that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:39 PM
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No, I really don’t want to fuck when his parents are around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:11 PM
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There’s so many men here who are utterly resistant to basic adulting like interacting socially or leaving the house that we’re going to be suspicious of claims that they’re unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:09 PM
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Yes, young people are idealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:06 PM
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We’re not dudes, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:03 PM
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Immaturity, exploitation, poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:00 PM
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Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:59 PM
31

Weirdly, why are most people in relationships then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:21 PM
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This is so transparently a rationalization for giving up and sitting on your butt If you don’t wanna, just don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:20 PM
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That schtick works when you’re young and no one is famous It totally worked on me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:19 PM
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I’m afraid we don’t need to nag you to think about us, we just live in your minds rent free
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:45 PM
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To, uh, like hanging around me? Is this really hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:36 AM
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For most people, “unlimited” is less than 10 Doesn’t seem that crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:55 PM
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Conflict is both inter- and intragender, and always has been. That’s why we have societies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:33 PM
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Why would women complain about not being satisfied if we’re never satisfied ? If we never had to pretend to enjoy sex previously, why start ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:23 AM
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You do know what slaves, chattel and property are, right? They have no rights, no one cares what they want or think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:42 AM
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Sure, if that’s what matters to them But not every man can or wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:41 AM
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Yes, motherly fixer types want to do the caretaking, not be taken care of
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:38 AM
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Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:37 AM
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Yes, all female mammals have a clit Some mammals appear to orgasm, and some instead have fertile/receptive/promiscuous periods (“heat”) which act as incentives instead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:17 PM
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I was including men in that. Obviously. I’m sure men were involved in the development of dating apps and dating events/spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:40 PM
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Where did you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:03 PM
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The one that developed OLD and other dating spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:13 PM
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OP believes women neither masturbate nor orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:06 AM
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No one is claiming that short lovers are more common than tall lovers, now, are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:37 AM
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You seriously don’t know why popular people are popular ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:36 AM
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Women and men are not equal in many countries by religious decree, so that is their lot and they accept it or leave the culture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:34 AM
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Women can orgasm because men can orgasm. Our genital structures have the same embryonic origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:32 AM
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Marriage was saved by divorce. Relationships are only meaningful because they are optional and voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:39 AM
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You think all marriages are happy and good for mental health? If everyone was forced to stay married/divorce was illegal or rare I’m pretty sure the happiness numbers would go down You guys should be happy that divorce saved marriage, especially for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:26 AM
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Sure. It’s definitely optional though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:21 AM
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That’s happiness, not brain deterioration No studies agree with that statement. Social isolation/sensory deprivation/torture/trauma, on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:05 AM
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Feelz over realz, how very red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:57 PM
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I’m afraid the data does not agree with you on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:19 PM
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So we need all types of love? Or we die?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:05 PM
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Well, aren’t we lucky that love isn’t just romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:16 PM
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Casual is harder. We’re just trying to make it easier for you; you’re so ungrateful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:14 PM
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Men are human adults, so yes It will definitely be harder unless you have some form of help, but it doesn’t have to be a romantic partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:13 PM
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There’s the traditional option, available in the US and other countries. And again, beta bux is the dominant relationship dynamic, by far
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:12 PM
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There’s a big difference between suffocation/dehydration/starvation and sexlessness. It’s called certain death
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:10 PM
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Very untrue. Arranged marriages exist, and beta bux is far more common that alpha fux
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:51 PM
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You won’t die without sex, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:47 PM
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You said sex was the condition of your relationship. Otherwise you would be suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:59 PM
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Would you associate with her if she wasn’t having sex with you ? You did pick her out of a homeless shelter, by your own account
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:53 PM
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“We” meaning society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:53 PM
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If you weren’t in a relationship with her, you wouldn’t love her You love her because she meets your conditions, as you would any woman who meets your conditions That is your definition of love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:07 PM
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I didn’t say anything about women, other than that they are turned off by excessive male thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:06 PM
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That is how they think. If you’re not winning, she can do better and will leave you for better. Because they would
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:05 PM
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That seems to be the main drawback of option 2, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:20 PM
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Your conditions were she had a lower count than you, did every sex act she’s ever done with you, would never be in a position to leave you, and you found her company acceptable You went to find her because you were filling your needs first. You didn’t offer her a roof over her head for free
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:18 PM
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If you hear these guys talk, they do not seem to be very fond of women as people, but they do seem to be interested in women as service providers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:17 PM
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If we had to, some women would Currently we don’t, because men will accept pussy as payment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:50 PM
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It’s also about “fairness” aka entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:49 PM
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And how often does that happen ? It doesn’t happen all that much for women either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:47 PM
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They don’t want a romantic relationship as women define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:47 PM
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Right, but no alternatives in the meantime?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:46 PM
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I want Chad treatment when I’m not Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:45 PM
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Men do argue that they will
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:45 PM
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That is many men’s ideal — loyalty and service
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:43 PM
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You have conditions for your love, ya liar. And you don’t put her first; you wouldn’t be in your relationship in the first place if you weren’t looking out for your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:41 PM
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Relationships are a competition, and you need to win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:40 PM
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A servant or a cheater? I’ll take the cheater, but without much enthusiasm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:39 PM
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We had a perfectly good solution, but you guys ruined it with your impatience and thirst, as you ruined any previous attempts to make things easier. I daresay any subsequent solutions will face the same problem: Dudes are so horny that everything devolves into a rude and crude sausage fest, which of course drives women away
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:36 PM
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If you just thought about reality a little you would not be confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:34 PM
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He does. He doesn’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:31 AM
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Yes. My brain is annoyed because your selfish personal issues shouldn’t be publicly discussed. So I will be rude right back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:29 AM
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We just say this because some men express bafflement about why women don’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:49 PM
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Hot people are prizes, not normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:47 PM
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It goes around 2-3 times a year. Nothing changes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:52 PM
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Lol, sure, that’s why people are terrified of women If only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:46 PM
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Baiting a product with women; groundbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:45 PM
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This was already posted today https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xqbfyi/not_only_is_past_promiscuity_a_good_predictor_of/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:41 PM
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I do, because I have sensory organs and a brain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:41 PM
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When you complain about it, you make it other peoples problem Including mine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:18 PM
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Oh, its not an act or pretense. They just don’t see a reason to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:11 PM
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If you want to and don’t make it my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:09 PM
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The divorce rate is exactly what you’d expect from marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:29 PM
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I think it’s very hard to get free sex and trust. And most people are not attractive or compatible It depends if you want to waste time pursuing sex and incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:24 PM
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Building up something you want makes it harder for you to get it Also, sex is winning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:20 PM
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Now, now; where would we be if they were better at hiding it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:19 AM
2

Just keep it legal and away from me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:26 PM
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They think they can have both. I mean, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:23 PM
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I feel like you’re being deliberately obtuse here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:34 PM
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Boom Triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:45 PM
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Nope. That’s why they can’t just let us be to make our own decisions The single biggest change to gender relations came when normal employment and education became available to women Because now we didn’t have to fuck to live
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:38 PM
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Many people don’t seem to know what “single parent” means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:37 PM
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Men also think they’re sex apps, not dating apps — just like in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:36 PM
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Oh, the hypocrisy and judgement. For, like, thousands and thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:35 PM
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Men make it perfectly clear all the time that our consent and desires are an obstacle/inconvenience to their goals, instead of a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:59 PM
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We already know We’re just not gonna prioritize your needs over ours like you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:47 PM
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Antidepressants can lower the libido. And there is also a thing called self control If men really wanted to, they would, is all I’m saying. If they can make viagra legal, they could make a libido suppressant. They just don’t want to, which is fine — it’s their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:46 AM
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Well, I hoped that user would answer, but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:38 AM
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Women aren’t the ones knashing their teeth and whining about waiting, so it is factually correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:55 AM
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Women could always legally do those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:54 AM
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Yeah, you really should have worded it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:53 AM
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Would you whip your dick out in public? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:23 AM
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No. I’m not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:19 AM
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Since you’re sending them to piss us off, yes But you won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:19 AM
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The best part is that it will never stop. Feminism will always have new material as well as history on its side
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:26 AM
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You just need a little hate in your heart, it’s very easy, especially if you’re a man not getting the sex you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:22 AM
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There’s no need to stoop to their level. Men with jobs who live independently are totally capable of being internet trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:46 AM
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He is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:45 AM
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You knew that, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:44 AM
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Oh, he knows — this is classic gaslighting and denial of our experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:43 AM
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Even my skeezy uncle who ordered me to fetch him beers told me to get a job and education
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:42 AM
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My male family members have been both the biggest misandrists and the biggest misogynists in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:38 AM
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Back when they couldn’t work, vote, have a bank account, buy a house, get an education, travel alone, or decide whether to have kids or sex ? Yeah, I’ll pass on that I don’t believe men who have their own agendas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:37 AM
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Because we have all of history to see how that worked out for women Also, my dad and every male family member told me not to. Don’t you believe men? I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:52 PM
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No, because we don’t want those men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:52 PM
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If you couldn’t breed you could still be fucked and forced to work. That’s not nothing I don’t see how your second point follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:12 PM
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If you wanted to, you would find a way. We have drugs for all sorts of things, including preventing pregnancy You don’t want to This is fine, but don’t pretend it’s not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:47 PM
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Blaming the object of your desire for your desires is a good way to avoid punishment for acting on said desires Today, pedophiles and rapists use the same rationale that the object wanted it and seduced their reluctant selves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:26 PM
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Women are judged by men for their preferences all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:17 PM
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Women love to talk to goldfish about their relationships, renderings men’s role as a sleeve protector irrelevant. This is why preferences are considered orange
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:00 PM
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No. Male socializing is traditionally homophobic. That type of posturing and avoidance is not helpful in romantic interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:53 PM
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I think fame is a legitimate factor in arousal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:51 PM
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Oh, all of human history. And pretty much every developed nation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:50 PM
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Aging takes care of most of this, but dudes want sex NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:49 PM
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But it’s not, and this is apparently a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:48 PM
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Of course it would, but men are very clear that they like their libidos and do not want to change 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:46 PM
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Because all male groups tend to foment and protect sex predators (please see: the Boy Scouts, the Catholic clergy) and sex offenses like gang rape (fraternities, the military), and eventually general exclusion/abuses of power (see: country clubs, the entertainment industry, law enforcement, academia, politics, social clubs)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:25 PM
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Just because some hot famous dudes suck at it doesn’t mean all men do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:17 PM
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It’s pretty obvious They just don’t care enough to stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:55 AM
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I’ve had 80% of my casual sex with 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:55 AM
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We’re not kids. Or dogs. Or objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:51 AM
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Men’s legal “youth” preference is 18-24 Science says so https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:35 AM
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I will be spiteful when you make your unappealingness my problem with whining
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:25 PM
0

No, I do not lust after 12-22 year olds. They are children
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:22 PM
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“All the attention they want” Nope; try again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:20 PM
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Most Not every You would think so, but men here seem to think that all women are dating and fucking and no men are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:27 PM
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So what are men trying to date ? Rocks? Illuminated manuscripts? Goats?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:22 PM
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I’m not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:19 PM
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Yes, there are plenty of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:19 PM
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I have no spite. If you’re unappealing that’s not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:18 PM
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Feelings don’t justify everything, just as thirst isn’t an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:17 PM
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Over 30. I am not single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:14 PM
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I can spot a lie/inconsistency and identify it as such immediately, as can most people. That’s called being human You saw many, many inconsistencies and lies and minimized, rationalized and denied them. Over months. How many more billboards do you need? He showed you who he was, and you didn’t believe him. Because you wanted the fantasy in your head more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:38 PM
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Please read this sub to answer that question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:24 PM
42

“I love and respect you all” “Your opinions don’t matter” Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:23 PM
16

Men use relationships to get sex, according to men here, because casual is hard to come by and hookers don’t boost the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 PM
9

Yeah, do you blame us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 PM
1

You want a man who appears to be red pilled That’s what matters to you And yet, you didn’t follow the core red pill maxim —— actions > words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:13 PM
1

That’s not the “appearance” you’re concerned with, sugar plum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:57 PM
1

They know It’s secondary to penis plight And female empowerment is detrimental to men who can’t get a woman to like them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:24 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:22 PM
1

I guess you’ll do anything for appearances sake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:21 PM
1

Divorced, bitter and miserly, I’d say Nothing to do with sex, it’s all in the attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:21 PM
1

The data says mid thirties men will be with and marry early thirties women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:19 PM
13

Are you being serious? Most women are already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:17 PM
1

About the same as my female friends obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:43 PM
1

Maidenless is cringe, and also 0.001% of the population so why should we care?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:42 PM
3

Hypocrisy is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:41 PM
1

Oh look a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:41 PM
1

No, many just count on men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:40 PM
4

No, women have no struggles. It’s all easy, we make no effort, are never dissatisfied. La, la, la, piles of money show up, there’s never any physical risk, people bow down to us as we walk by, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:39 PM
1

The gap between ideal and reality is a bitch and always will be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:38 PM
2

Asking young people to have patience and reason is like asking a goldfish to remember poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:38 PM
2

Stop the whining and desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:37 PM
0

“Nearly all women” have high n counts? And how much is “high”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:36 PM
2

Why is this important? Because no hypercompetitive fit young dude is going to be hiding his advantages in a pro athlete environment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:29 PM
1

They do. Usually after they’ve had some fun. And they always to have had more fun than the woman they marry or they feel envy and inadequacy, hence the n count obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:25 PM
1

There’s no gaslighting Men just used to oppress women to get sex without consent Alas, without oppression, men could not get laid as much as they liked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:24 PM
8

Aw, got no rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:22 AM
2

Because thats the root of all this tooth knashing and wailing I don’t see men complaining about women not wanting to marry them or be platonic friends with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:47 AM
4

So what matters more, fantasy or reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:44 AM
13

It’s been pretty steady at about 2-2.2 million a year for at least 15 years https://www.statista.com/statistics/195931/number-of-marriages-in-the-united-states-since-1990/ While the divorce rate has declined every year https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/dvs/national-marriage-divorce-rates-00-19.pdf How very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:38 AM
11

Ah, so no one married after 2013? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:29 AM
10

All women, eh? How do so many non-powerful men get married and laid then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:12 AM
12

We’re never gonna want to fuck as much as you We’re not men So you’re going to have to deal with that, one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:11 AM
4

A lot, eh? Enough to eliminate the whining ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:02 AM
3

Yes, it definitely appears that, given the choice, women don’t want to sex, marry and reproduce with men as much as the reverse. Wow, I am so shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:59 AM
12

The women you asked already answered your question. But, like many a dude, you just dismissed or ignored what they said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:56 AM
1

What do I think? I think the pope is Catholic and bears poop in the woods. In other words…..no shit, Sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:17 PM
10

The vast majority of male problems in getting casual sex and relationships stem from the disparity in male and female libidos FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:16 PM
1

I agree unless they complain about it later. Men want to win, ladies. You either accept it and the conflict it entails or hold out for a supportive egalitarian unicorn. Or a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:14 PM
-2

Everything we can do, you can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:11 PM
10

Why should we care what dudes here think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:10 PM
2

You cheat, I dump. Because I don’t cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:07 PM
1

I’m afraid my life isn’t really inconvenienced by women. It’s inconvenienced by men, and my own body
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:06 PM
3

So they wanted you but they didn’t want you? I am confused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:05 PM
3

The present. Either we can do what we want with other voluntary participants…. or we can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:03 PM
1

Do you ever get tired of posting the same question over and over? This is why therapists exist, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:31 AM
0

You mean “alpha”, which is a red pill term/concept. Check your androcentrism HVM is an FDS term, and is thus a female, not male, standard of success and desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:00 PM
1

Some people just can’t or don’t want our modern western idea of romantic/married love Red pill works for the male versions of these people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:05 PM
0

And if all the armies and draftees of said countries were co-Ed? Yes That will never happen, because women are physically weaker, less respected by men, and can’t rape very well. War is about results first, principles second. Put too many women into your army, in the wrong circumstances, and you’ll lose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:00 PM
2

When you’re young and stupid fucking other young and stupids, the stakes are lower and not taken as seriously Older adults, on the other hand, should behave as their rank warrants
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:50 AM
4

You can get out of the military draft. Be rich, famous or pretend to be ill, hurt or gay Gestating, birthing and caretaking is how women uniquely serve society Oh, and fucking. That’s worth lots to men too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:47 AM
8

Invasion are an every 3 or 4 generations thing. Gestation, birthing and caretaking happens constantly Men are the ones starting wars, so they can solve their own problems
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:42 AM
3

Hot excitement and rebellion/freedom Don’t forget the hot part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:45 PM
1

When we have identical sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:06 AM
2

Legally and consensually, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:22 AM
2

Exploitative, underaged, non consensual, illegal Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:20 AM
4

I’d love an end to unethical porn I don’t expect it would change much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:24 PM
2

If you wanna be a passive, desperate doormat with no agency, that’s on you. And yes, you will be confused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:23 PM
14

Do you really think men never paid for nekkid pics before?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:21 PM
13

Why shouldn’t successful people comment? You only want the blind leading the blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:20 PM
3

Mature adults don’t go around calling men shallow misogynists in polite company, or discuss their dating lives at all, frankly. No one wants to hear about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:18 PM
3

Men call women whores and any names they want all over the interwebs Please see r/niceguys and r/blatantmisogyny for many lovely examples
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:46 PM
3

What advice? Maybe touch grass and notice that men around you under 6 feet are fuckin’?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:31 PM
4

Still sexist and hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:14 PM
7

If you consider anger and horniness emotions, definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:56 PM
5

It’s okay for me but not for thee, because our genitals are different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:54 PM
2

Men insult women and get backed up all the time by their bros. You seem to think we’re blind and deaf or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:38 PM
-3

Sexism is the basis for the hypocrisy, so it’s both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:37 PM
3

“If you can’t get a 7 you ain’t a 7” applies to both genders, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:18 PM
7

No, I like my hypocrisy and sexism out in the open where I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:15 PM
0

Nope it’s the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:01 AM
0

Just like men with commitment. Yay, equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:37 PM
31

When I was 21, 30 year olds were old, weird, boring and lame And often had (shudder) kids. How could I have had anything in common with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:29 PM
1

Oh, if they are moving….that’s also not new either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:31 PM
3

They’re listening like they have since the 50s. They’re just not buying, unlike, say, Chinese farmers or South Asian immigrants are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:31 PM
6

Wow, we have never heard of this tired old chestnut before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:21 PM
2

They want love on their terms only. Is that love?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:27 PM
1

They are. And dating is also getting to know someone like a friend Have you missed socializing for the past 50 years or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:26 PM
14

If you’re struggling, you’re not attractive. Men are notorious for overestimating their attractiveness Or, you’re attractive —- and then fucking it up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:09 AM
3

She was a writer. Their very profession rewards overthinking, overfeeling and self centered navelgazing. You do remember how many of them used to drink themselves to death, right? Well, now they are diagnosed with depression or distract themselves with hobbies like marathon running or homesteading
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:14 PM
25

Posters here: Maybe you should do something that helps you avoid looking like an antisocial weirdo who doesn’t like people. Commentors: But they won’t fuck me! What’s the point? Posters: Well, how about sex workers, since you don’t like people? Commentors: But I want validation from these people that I don’t like and can’t stand !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:20 PM
2

Lol, please do try that, and then report back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:23 PM
3

Brock turner had nothing to do with title 9. It was a rape case, not a scandal, tried in criminal court Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:09 PM
1

By that I mean “single for any amount of time”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:05 PM
3

I’ve never heard of a gay dude who was afraid of women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:25 PM
2

Welcome to Reddit, or rather, to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:23 PM
7

Title 9 is nothing new. People are fucking on campus as we speak. Reagan was 30-40 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:22 PM
4

So no men want your company?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:20 PM
6

Nope, because my grandma lived in an era when women couldn’t really survive without a man. She was a maid, didn’t even go to high school
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:07 PM
1

You just have to wait until the late 30s when they get desperate And some do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:23 PM
1

Not alone they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:21 PM
1

Only if you become a sad brood mare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:20 PM
1

Finally, the truth: it’s women’s fault for not doing what men want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:19 PM
17

Oh, they don’t like it. Kids are now the main mechanism of control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:17 PM
6

Stop being sex crazed and you can pwn women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:16 PM
7

I do! My mom could have done more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:15 PM
11

Awesome, tell me how state mandated homosexuality works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:14 PM
0

This is true for mentally healthy women There’s lots of mentally unhealthy women who can’t be alone or independent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:13 PM
6

She was able to socialize just fine with men in her book. She just found it extremely constipated, unsatisfying and riddled with fear of teh gay Totally unsurprising. Men could be better friends to each other, but they’re scared. And none of that is women’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:10 PM
2

Single older women ? Here? Who? Unless by older you mean 25
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:57 PM
5

Well, most of the whining here is by dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:59 AM
6

You’re the ones who are going to be getting relationships when you really want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:56 PM
9

Oh well, guess nothing will change then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:54 PM
10

Ok, tell the rest of your fellow dudes to stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:10 PM
1

What does he do besides work, go out with you and stay at home ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:19 PM
8

Because women have jobs, domestic management skills, motivation and friends, and don’t care about sex as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:49 PM
7

I’m not hot or an entertainer That’s entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:48 PM
1

Ok, just checking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:48 PM
1

Do you think that is normal or healthy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:31 PM
1

Do you think that is normal or healthy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:31 PM
3

Putting all one’s eggs in single social basket is also lazy and speaks of poor planning/self care/consideration I want an adult, not an avoidant child
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:30 PM
2

what about family or community?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:53 PM
5

That means he must only want to interact with me for pussy, since there's nobody else he interacts with for no pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:52 PM
1

How about “none” instead of “not a lot”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:41 PM
1

Your partner has no friends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:40 PM
2

I see no sign of change in looks, or anything, really Not everyone is as fat obsessed as yourself either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:38 PM
2

I know no one like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:33 PM
-1

So is a lot of masculinity. What of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:31 PM
9

So he would have no friends? I wouldn’t date a guy like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:30 PM
16

Ok, let’s spread the word —- men only want sex, not love or relationships. The truth shall set us free, and be more efficient to boot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:22 PM
2

Birthing a child for money is not a subconscious act
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:08 PM
1

Do women admire and want to be like Nick Cannon's baby mamas?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:28 PM
14

Women's secondary sexual characteristics are all fat based Men's are not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:27 PM
21

The things that red pillers consider "shit tests" can range from blatant abuse to totally innocuous comments or expressions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:26 PM
28

I believe men, and men say they want relationships and love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:24 PM
1

Do you think people see each other as a singular undifferentiated mass or something? If so, that might be the cause of your confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:34 PM
1

You have eyes and ears. I’m confident you can figure it out, because people talk about it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:32 PM
0

The men who are sexless tend to be antisocial, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:31 PM
1

It’s a good, painless solution. I always thought the Matrix would become reality, so it’s funny that red pill named itself what it did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:30 PM
2

Then almost all humans are beta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:28 PM
0

She did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:27 PM
3

Single motherhood is not idealized. Divorce is still shamed and seen as failure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:26 PM
0

No one’s forcing nobody to do nuttin’, which is the problem. And that is the opposite of control
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:25 PM
2

Men respect other men’s strength/violence and thoughts/experiences/opinions, and men here claim that men are much, much better friends than women. Women’s propensity for socializing, interest in relationships and feelings, and hobbies and preferences are constantly disparaged, disrespected and mocked by men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:22 PM
0

I see no evidence that men are projecting here. Women do profess fear of being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:43 PM
2

Gender roles, by choice But for me, personally, depressing, low self esteem people are to be avoided regardless of gender or type of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:41 PM
10

Well, I guess it’s true, guys; you will never be loved or desired by a woman. Women hang around Chad because he has the best timeshares, not the best tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:39 PM
3

I would think most men here would not even date a promiscuous woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:35 PM
1

And not the only part of a rating, and still subject to variation and opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:32 PM
3

Who would want love or companionship, as opposed to sex, from creatures like women as men here describe them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:30 PM
1

If a rating does not reflect realty, it is inaccurate and useless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:26 PM
11

I like it when people tell on themselves. “It’s not about power — the woman is controlling the man!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:38 PM
15

If you can’t get a 5, you’re not a 5. Attractiveness standards are relative and subjective, not objective and absolute
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:36 PM
3

Hey Hoosker! Have I missed any of your other alts?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:35 PM
1

Those things are not toxic femininity, lol. They’re just individual behaviors you don’t like that may or may not be motivated by toxic femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:04 PM
1

Women and men are not monolithic hiveminds , that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:59 PM
2

Women are delusional after the sex; men are delusional before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:57 PM
55

No, men are complaining about sexlessness, not lovelessness. And n counts, promiscuity, not being able to hit on women when they want, etc. Most of the men here don’t like women’s brains very much, in contrast to their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:54 PM
4

Hypocrisy on the basis of human differences is considered dehumanizing and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:47 PM
–

The latter and no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:45 PM
2

Mail order brides, like age gap relationships, are fine. The power imbalance that can be abused, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:44 PM
1

Love is not unconditional. Men love pussy. Women love feelings. Pet owners love cuteness, obedience, and affection. Parents love cuteness, obedience, affection and their own DNA/ego. And love is not guaranteed in any of these relationships either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:40 PM
8

The 50s were 60-70 years ago, dude. Which was the last time those views were relevant. Let’s try to keep up, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:37 PM
1

Whew, thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:36 PM
2

I show him by not breaking up with him like I’ve broken up with all my previous partners Are relationships a competition to you? Sounds not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:35 PM
6

To have their cake and eat it too, same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:26 PM
2

Nothing he said was new, and I am not sure what the effect of his real achievement, manipulating and profiting from social media algorithms and dissemination, will be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:24 PM
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Prosperity, comfort, stuff, material goods, entertainment, porn, the internet, sports, music, media, games, etc And prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:22 PM
–

Society addresses it. With bread and circuses. And paid sex, just like always
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:18 PM
1

Oh, the exploitation, if it exists. It tends to make people messed up, regardless of gender, just like any trauma. No one likes dealing with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:16 PM
7

You fuck him. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:05 PM
1

Do you have friends and at least one social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:03 PM
1

Awwwwww, I didn’t catch it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:00 PM
1

Sure, less than before. That’s still a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:03 AM
3

I don’t go into relationships thinking I’m going to hold anything back because I’ve already decided you’re not worth X effort
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:25 AM
1

Are rom coms still a thing? Are weddings still a thing? Are romantic relationships either the focus or shoehorned into every narrative entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:10 AM
5

Well, good — I only want people who want to be married to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:37 AM
51

Uh huh, that’s why men never slide into a woman’s dms and try to get her to cheat on her bf, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:42 AM
15

We’ve been having premarital sex/cohabitation for more than half a century. It’s nothing new, and men still proposed the whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:39 AM
1

Obviously you did not read the sub rules, which state “no rants”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:38 AM
2

“Happily ever after” Aka, 75% of media aimed at women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:12 AM
1

Since most virgin-y types are “saving themselves for marriage”, they will probably expect marriage. If they’re not, they’re probably not very attractive And most young men are not into commitment, or even relationships, at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:57 PM
1

It appears that most guys do not want this, at least not enough, based on their current behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:55 PM
1

So why would you not marry a wife material woman immediately if others would definitely do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:38 PM
1

So you’re counseling unsuccessful men to try for something even more difficult? You should probably let them know this if so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:36 PM
1

Why would she wait to get married when someone else would marry her immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:35 PM
1

Why would a low n wifey type wait ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:22 PM
1

The reality is that virgins/very low n count women are a small minority, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:19 PM
1

18 year old girls aren’t eager to marry, unless, again, religious. Or severely messed in the head, which, ya know, isn’t really good for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
1

Anyone who ignores reality all around them has issues and will struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:08 PM
1

Again, unless the woman flat out lies, why would he not assume she has some sort of past?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:49 PM
1

Well, the problem is….they’re usually not hot. Or fun. Or, if hot or fun, they’re religious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:48 PM
3

We’ll just occupy ourselves with other things. And by “we”, I mean “everyone”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:45 PM
1

You like their body and their brain? Is this news to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:43 PM
6

Biology, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:42 PM
1

Uh, they do? That’s what settling is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:42 PM
4

Well, traditional marriage was based on lack of options, so….why would option based marriage look the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:41 PM
3

Depends on his individual person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:39 PM
1

Why assume such a thing? That’s in opposition to reality. Delusion shouldn’t be encouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:37 PM
1

It’s very common for there to be a marked discrepancy between partners’ n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:36 PM
1

Sure. Is that normal or common, you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:04 PM
1

But why tho? Are low n count men unable to discern reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:04 PM
1

Please, how many dudes actually believe women are delicate pure virginal flowers in the age of mass media ? Only those being deliberately obtuse I’m pretty sure women don’t like thinking about their partners banging tons of people either. Again, n = 1 marrying n = 25 is not very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:35 PM
2

Dumb first love happens to everyone. I don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:14 PM
3

So, your post is basically directed at the 0.1%, i.e., 30 year old virgin men who for some reason are unaware that most women aren’t virgins? Ok. Seems pretty niche
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:04 PM
5

I’m pretty sure most 30 year old men know the women they date aren’t blushing virgins. And they are not likely to be virgins themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:29 PM
1

Dictionaries exist. I suggest you use them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:53 PM
2

Babies. The reason is babies And also personal safety
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:51 PM
2

This is humanity 101
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:50 PM
10

They are bothered. How could they not be with all the relentless outside propaganda and nagging ? They’re just not sufficiently desperate yet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:49 PM
2

That is the entirety of your last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:47 PM
10

Yes, people settle down, just a decade later than previously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:40 PM
2

I dunno. How much do you think social structures and interaction affect and motivate social animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:41 PM
2

You saying the other half is toxic femininity? That would be quite logical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:39 PM
2

It’s not dishonest if you don’t lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:35 PM
6

The ones who can get along will succeed. And those who can’t will fail Alas, the cruelty of voluntary relationships and society
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:34 PM
0

Diversity is threatening to the unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:47 PM
4

Yes. Because men will still fuck anything, and women still will not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:45 PM
1

The top comment was about intimidation, which was explained by the second comment as fear of rejection I see nothing about fear of getting what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:42 PM
2

So you’re not afraid she’ll say no, you’re afraid she’ll say yes? Then why talk about rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:07 PM
7

Is marriage not a long term partnership? Are younger people not more sexually ignorant than older people ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:44 AM
7

Humiliation and embarrassment are good enough reasons to dread rejection without bringing children and descendants into it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:33 AM
14

The younger you are, the more likely you are to be sexually ignorant Marriage is the most common and ideal form of long term commitment I don’t see how either of these statements are wrong or controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:32 AM
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It’s right in your title. “Sexual ignorance” Therefore, the younger you are, the more sexually ignorant you are. And if your OP is true, the younger the marriage, the more sexually ignorant, and the lower the divorce rate should be Alas, reality says differently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:05 AM
12

Younger people are more ignorant than older people. Did you not know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:01 AM
7

Please, you’re not thinking about DNA and babies when you’re dreading rejection. You’re thinking about your personal ego being hurt, which is totally reasonable Unfortunately, other men have ruined it for you, so men still have to approach more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:21 AM
2

Yes, “the porn is cheating” argument is stupid. But just that one, and not everyone does I don’t think I’m that special
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:01 AM
5

I dunno, I can love how carbs and sugar taste while hating what they do to my waistline
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:00 AM
2

Oh, that’s easily explained by selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:58 AM
3

It’s easy fulfillment. Having to make an effort to please someone? Not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:47 AM
2

Men want sex. They go out to find it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:46 AM
5

It’s because it affects sex with actual people. Keep trying porn with me, needing it to get off, or nagging me to make porn, and I will be annoyed and eventually break up with you Make it my problem and I will demonize it. Keep it away and I won’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:42 AM
9

Men thinking that having no social life/friends isn’t a dealbreaker. Unless they don’t care if the relationship lasts longer than a month
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:40 AM
1

Not much, because the numbers aren’t sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:38 AM
32

Sorry, younger marriages have a higher risk of divorce. Especially very young marriages https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201606/the-best-and-worst-ages-couples-get-married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:00 AM
1

Sure it does. You think self improvement and social psychology is a red pill invention?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:47 AM
1

Sounds like you can get the same ideas from mainstream advice that you can from red pill, just without the toxicity and hostility towards women. Is misogyny worth it if it’s the only thing that will motivate such men? How many will actually shed the toxicity as opposed to persist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:49 AM
1

We already know why. It’s because both people do not consent, which is necessary for sex to be sex and not rape Luckily, we have alternatives around consent, usually based on money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:44 AM
1

You were talking about me, though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:16 AM
2

So, what is the right amount of sexlessness? Should sex be a human right? How shall we guarantee it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:24 PM
1

They are the same stats that OP used, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:49 PM
3

It’s the same study you’re citing, didya know ? So, for the fourth time, why is this a problem, in an era of voluntary sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:47 PM
2

95 men under 30 Same study that OP is citing, by the way. So if the info I provided is invalid, so is his
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:37 PM
3

Oh, then it was even lower for men under 30 —- 20% instead of 22% So, for the third time, why is this a problem? What is the percentage that isn’t a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:36 PM
1

The JAMA study was based off the GSS, particularly the years 2016-2018. Here are the results from 2021: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/suxt2k/diving_into_the_2021_gss_data_on_the_amount_of/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ts0nyh/women_are_having_less_sex_than_men_as_of_2021/ But again, whether it’s 30% or 22%, what exactly is the problem now, if sex is voluntary? How do you plan to combat this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:15 PM
0

That’s no what the newest data from the same study says, and even if it did, why is it a problem —- if sex is voluntary?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:35 PM
-1

Weird. I guess all my boring normal male friends, colleagues, neighbors and family are actually dating robots and AI and paid hookers then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:59 PM
12

That doesn’t sound like “absolutely zero accountability” to me, but I guess words have no meaning, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:58 PM
3

Red pill pretends only women do x behavior, and if not, x behavior by men has no effect on women. Or, if y behavior worked on some women, it works on all women Obviously, both of these conclusions are incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:54 PM
1

Then why are you bothering ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:51 PM
4

If being shitty, but not criminal, gets you laid, have at it. I don’t care, because I certainly am not going to date you. And if women are complaining, who cares? They don’t have to date you either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:48 PM
11

Weird. I’m pretty sure there are female prisons and inmates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:48 PM
16

Approaching and fucking early gets you used for sex Men will eat the sex hot dog off the ground, so don’t be the hot dog on the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:00 PM
4

In front of your friends? Sure On an anonymous survey? Why bother ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:03 PM
3

Men pursue more due to thirst And everyone be lying according to the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:31 PM
7

Male thirst and manosphere solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:34 PM
2

That’s because you need a trusted servant or shiny trophy more than additional money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:01 PM
2

You don’t have to listen to the dumb women you want to fuck, obviously. Unless, of course, you are interested in their brains
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:37 PM
-2

Why are you here and not r/dating_advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:19 AM
1

Sure he did. How do I know ? Because men say so all the time. Don’t you believe men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:40 AM
7

I don’t know about women, but this OP is all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:38 AM
0

Not if the man has money or status. I am unclear if hotness makes up for shitty sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:07 PM
7

Of course they do. Most people are not wealthy It’s just priority 4-5, instead of priority 1-3, depending on your income level and values
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:03 PM
1

I would love to be attracted to women also. They already hit on me so it would be like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:00 PM
-2

“I’m ugly” ignores all the wonderful options men have that women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:59 PM
1

I don’t, because I am not good at sport fucking either? The only things I can think of are borderline illegal or toxic, so I’m not going to give out info like that to fuck both of us over
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:57 PM
1

They do, because they think men love unconditionally Which any normal person can see is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:00 PM
1

When you’re accustomed to primacy, equality feels like oppression Oh no! You have to get permission and consider the sex object’s feeeeeeeelings! This is not right! How am I supposed to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:55 PM
-1

Daughters have your DNA Your wife does not They are you, and your wife is not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:24 PM
2

Comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:23 PM
1

Greater propensity for socializing and greater amounts of targeted propaganda/coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:32 PM
1

Weird, because dudes are always complaining about not getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:37 PM
2

Hostility, contempt and resentment are generally bad for any type of human interaction, online or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:37 PM
1

OP says every man should do this. I think most dudes would prefer to make up their own minds; I know I would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:59 AM
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Op is not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:38 AM
2

Everyone has their own individual desires and priorities. Thankfully, we are all able to choose for ourselves what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:34 AM
1

Sure, but not all men care that much about probabilities. Some just want to be desired or loved, or just want sex It is very fortunate that we are all allowed to make our own choices about our priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:32 AM
3

He doesn’t want a serious relationship anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:03 AM
2

They also hate the feeling of their dicks being dry, so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:00 AM
1

Sure. But not every man cares that much, and they can make choices
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:57 AM
1

Again, those things are decided by the brain, not the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:40 AM
2

Of course. Do you think women like thinking about their partners fucking other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:31 AM
3

It is. Because if the vag was touched, the important attribute is gone. You can have prudence and fidelity and all that without the hymen, but you can’t have virginity Therefore, the state of the vag is the important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:21 AM
1

Yes, and none of those are guaranteed by non-vagina use
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:09 AM
10

“Less likely” Not guaranteed The only thing that’s guaranteed is the virginity. Of the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:08 AM
6

That is not what defines a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:54 AM
4

All those are things are not part of the definition of virgin. They are irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:50 AM
5

The only defining characteristic of a virgin is her vagina So that is the thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:47 AM
12

The only defining thing about a virgin is her vagina So that is what you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:44 AM
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Because some men want to have relationships with women, not vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:34 AM
1

Sure, if they want to benefit the man and hurt themselves Or maybe not even then. Wealthier people are able to perpetuate wealth more easily. So it doesn’t even benefit the man if the woman is poor and uneducated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:20 PM
1

Sounds like these men should hire sex workers since feelings, love and affection are so painful and unpleasant for them And if that is all men, oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:17 PM
1

Women don’t want twu wub and happily ever after ? Mmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:43 PM
1

Normalcy seems to work for the normal dudes in my life 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:41 PM
-1

They’re fine. I’m not gonna marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:24 PM
1

Hm, looks like no men are disputing this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:38 AM
1

In modern western society !? Perish the thought, no irony
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:04 AM
2

Of course. But many people would consider a very subjective and personal thing like sex to be a personal and subjective thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:53 AM
-1

“how many do you think are actually happy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:51 AM
1

It cannot graph this crazy formula which exists in the fantasy dimension
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:50 AM
2

Not unless you think women should be men, physiologically speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:47 AM
5

If people can break up and divorce, why should the rest be unhappy ? That’s the whole point of divorce and breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 AM
3

Because you want to be with a shit ton of women. That’s called hypocrisy, if you didn’t know Not one of those guys? Then we’re not talking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:29 AM
1

Google exists And most normal people shut up. Of all genders and orientations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:28 AM
2

No, the overwhelmingly correct move is to DTMFA<sup>TM</sup> . A privilege that, I must remind you, wasn’t realistically available for women up until 50 years ago. But many women won’t….because loooooooooooooooooove Their love, by the way, because we can all see that he doesn’t love her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:17 AM
3

They show what people want and aspire to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:16 AM
1

Conducting electricity is nowhere near conducting thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:59 AM
1

Oh, the sun, huh? Not the greatest concentration of human beings existing and being in constant communication, both virtually and in real life, nor the neverending deluge of information from media that’s everywhere The friggin sun is causing social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:09 AM
1

And for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:16 AM
1

Worked for me so far 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:12 AM
1

Then those people aren’t normal and don’t require normal solutions like common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:11 PM
2

Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:57 PM
8

On gender and dating subs, yes On relationship and abuse subs, no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:52 PM
1

That is why my first comment says “almost”, mmmkay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:13 PM
4

“But I looooooooooooooooooooove him!” “But I’ll be alone!” “But what if no one else will love me?” “But what if he finds someone else?” The excuses, I am tired of them. Especially when they involve children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:08 PM
4

I guess the brookings foundation https://www.brookings.edu/blog/future-development/2016/02/16/climate-change-fertility-and-girls-education/, the world bank https://blogs.worldbank.org/health/female-education-and-childbearing-closer-look-data, the economist https://www.economist.com/international/2019/02/02/thanks-to-education-global-fertility-could-fall-faster-than-expected, the UN https://www.un.org/en/development/desa/population/migration/generalassembly/docs/globalcompact/E_CONF.60_19_Plan.pd…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:03 PM
6

He sat at the other end of the bar near the end of the service and drank and got loud. Which, fine, it’s your restaurant, but still not a good idea. Who does that in a fine dining place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:52 PM
2

Well, that’s what annoys me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:51 PM
1

What are we supposed to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:07 PM
1

Obviously you did not grow up with sisters or female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:47 PM
0

Ok So how can we make men be better and women more horny and indiscriminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:25 PM
2

Oh, so you’re just one of those people who sits on the side and complains without doing anything to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:22 PM
4

Sorry, I don’t have my calculator on me now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:20 PM
4

Half the country is conservative so I don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:14 PM
6

And we have provided solutions to this all too common problem with no fault divorce and child support, although we need to do better with contraceptives and abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:58 PM
5

How will you know you won’t like it if you don’t try it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:38 PM
16

Here’s the thing — they’re no different from men complaining about having to do x or y to get sex Nobody has to love you, just like nobody has to fuck you. No matter how much cost is sunk or OnlyFans purchased. Women who have babies simply to manufacture a captive companion are no better than men who groom naive girls or purchase economic dependents from poor countries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:29 PM
15

Yes. It’s funny how dudes here think divorce is some calculated malicious act when any idiot can marry. You’re even allowed to be intoxicated while marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:15 PM
4

Counterpoints: Twu Wub Happily Ever After Average wedding cost $28,000 + average divorce cost $17,500 = $45,000 What do you think we are —- made of money?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:12 PM
12

Not according to the women living in these hellholes Anytime you give women basic autonomy they have fewer kids. A lot fewer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:11 PM
9

“Horrible disrespectful things” Is that love to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:09 PM
4

It’s more pathetic but usually cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:09 PM
11

I’m sure people living in the slums of megacities or fighting over barren land or going without clean water or air would totally agree with you, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:08 PM
8

What, 8 billion people stinking up the planet isn’t enough for ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:54 PM
28

I find it surprising that so many of you are surprised. Have none of you watched a movie ? Particularly those produced by a certain Mouse-themed company ? Or been to a single wedding ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:21 PM
22

The ones that can or will, do. And then brag about it. Sometimes a little too much, if ya know what I mean The ones that can’t or won’t, don’t. And then make us all miserable with their complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:11 PM
16

The worst is when they make a baby for this purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:01 PM
101

“My bf is a great guy……who does all these horrible disrespectful things to me. Don’t tell me to break up, just magically make him stop doing these things, Reddit!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:42 PM
8

“But I love him, daddy!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:36 PM
25

On the other hand, if women weren’t mooshy love addicts, the earth would probably be a blackened cinder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:26 PM
11

Because that usually means “underaged”, and men aren’t very enthused about being religious. Too much reciprocity and rules
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:05 PM
2

Ah, we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:01 PM
1

I’m trying to pin down a slippery eel here!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:41 PM
0

Oh, so we shouldn’t be able to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:38 PM
4

Don’t marry for sex, and don’t expect justice from law enforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:23 PM
399

Women’s desperation for love/inability to be alone is almost as pathetic as men’s desperation for sex. And also almost as selfish Edit: I am seriously surprised that this is news to all you crazy animals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 PM
10

He had a rep. I lived in NYC during this time and everyone in the restaurant biz knew he was a drunken sleaze, as opposed to, say, Jean-Georges vongerichten or Eric Ripert. Hell, I watched him get blitzed at his own restaurant while I sat at the bar Great food and wine, but no one was surprised, if you noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:04 PM
-1

I guess men are the illogical gender swayed by emotions not facts, lol But we already knew that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:03 PM
1

OK? I wasn’t asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:36 AM
3

Marrying a virgin housewife is a very unusual situation in modern western society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:19 AM
5

Reproduction isn’t a competitive sport to most women It’s a big fucking deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:17 AM
2

Yes. So why is it ok for the man to be damaged by sex and not the woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:15 AM
2

“Emotional tampon”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:22 AM
1

Sure they do. Men complain about having to deal with female emotions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:16 AM
1

You are trying to reason with the unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:10 AM
-3

Not getting what they want tends to make people angry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:57 AM
1

Having a reciprocal, supportive relationship is pretty much already known to be the ideal. I don’t know why you think we don’t already know this Red pill doesn’t prescribe this because they are explicitly selfish, which most of us also already know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:52 AM
3

Commitment under duress is meaningless and invalid, as any lawyer would tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:48 AM
6

PUA and red pill do it as a test, which is disrespectful and manipulative. Unequal/unreciprocated requests are also disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:34 AM
2

You’ve been damaged Why would an undamaged woman want an unfair exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:29 AM
2

Why would you want to damage a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:27 AM
5

The ones who are straightforward and like respect will leave And the ones who will entertain demands and disrespect will stay Very simple, don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:25 AM
3

It’s a revenge fantasy, not a delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:22 AM
1

Sure. Ain’t no rule against judging and complaining tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 AM
7

I’d say “you can’t complain about women having sex when you’re trying to do the same thing” is a better line of reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:20 AM
1

Then you should indicate that in your title
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:16 AM
4

Fine, because it’s voluntary Some people seem to not know this, for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 AM
2

Most men do fine here so do not find it necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
3

So why is it ok for you and not her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:26 AM
2

You haven’t had sex then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:57 PM
5

There’s only two reasons people take issue with virgin hunters 1) hypocrisy 2) judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:39 PM
2

Yes. Women were and still are not respected for having pussies and wombs that everyone wants to use
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:33 PM
0

Of course One commands respect and the other does not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:11 PM
4

Counterpoint: no one cares other than a quick “ew”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:05 PM
3

That guy in particular is an entertainer; he doesn’t need help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:59 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:30 PM
3

Society can only support so many sociopaths It’s a collective undertaking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:30 PM
2

Well, that’s how you motivate people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:25 PM
2

Anger is a necessary part of the red pill They say so themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:18 PM
1

Most men say it’s about disgust at pussy use
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:13 PM
1

So? Worth is worth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:38 AM
7

What do people love women for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:38 AM
3

As with anything, if you’re loved for it, you’d better hold on to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:03 PM
2

Yeah, we all could Do we all do it ? Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:59 PM
16

Weird that you think people don’t love or care about their sons. Because all the evidence indicates that they value them more than daughters, in aggregate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:58 PM
12

Only if you want to have one. Lots of people seem to be doing it at gunpoint or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:56 PM
1

Great, sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:15 PM
1

And you’re prepared to do that every free minute you have, unless you pay someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:04 PM
1

This person did their homework; did you? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x51ngb/most_men_and_women_experience_the_hoe_phase_at/imzhygx/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:54 PM
1

Good for you. All I’m saying is that “lower” doesn’t mean “zero”, which is what you know some guys are going to interpret it as
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:30 PM
1

Pill followers are usually antisocial, not fond of people, and just straight up scared. They prefer theory to practice, because practice is scary. I would pity them if they didn’t go out of their way to be unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:11 PM
4

The ones complaining ? I dunno about that — you do have to leave the house to get laid, because an older women isn’t going to fuck in a dank gamer den or with someone’s parents around. And they also have to be able to hold a conversation and dress……not badly Other than that, sure, have at it. There’s still standards though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:06 PM
2

According to men here, women live in a shower of favors, love, protection, attention, concern, compliments, presents, flowers and praise from birth until death, without lifting a finger Life on easy mode, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:03 PM
1

That’s one type of transaction. You don’t have to sign up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:47 PM
1

Can young people make decisions? Sure Are they crap at it? Usually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:45 PM
6

I went to high school, college and grad school. People were fucking all over the place. So were/are people at jobs, sport groups, clubs, professional events, friend groups, and even……parent groups. Ewwwwwwwwwwww People fuck. That’s why they get into so much trouble, they’re fucking around so much. Especially since we all love alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:56 PM
5

You said some words, yes Do you have any proof that those words are true? I can make shit up too if I like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:26 PM
5

I am wondering why you think men and women have different hoe phases. Are women only fucking older men during their hoe phases? Are men only fucking younger women during their hoe phases?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:16 PM
53

The wall is a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:55 PM
3

I am disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:54 PM
9

“Young, dumb and full of come” doesn’t apply to men? Seems like it would I guess frat boys are actually having study parties not beer blasts nowdays huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:53 PM
2

Have you ever held or cared for an infant ? Or toddlers ? Or children, period?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:46 PM
4

Normal men are not here because they already know this. Thus, this is the place to educate the ones who do not know. Efficient, don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:45 PM
2

Those men need a lot more than surrogacy if they’re that unaware of basic medical/fertility practices in the internet age Your post seems a lot more about being antimarriage and antiwomen than informative or concerned with the practicalities of childcare and fertility issues. Especially the extensive costs, occupational detriment and time suck involved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:30 PM
4

Right, but that is the dominant belief of this sub and anyone who subscribes to afbb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:29 PM
2

I think men know that surrogacy is a thing. It’s not that difficult to understand and is common among the rich and famous, especially the gay community
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:28 PM
2

Totally. Please go your own way already, no one will stop you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:22 PM
5

Well, men have to tell men that. Because nobody listens to women, not even other women, occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:17 PM
5

Well the disturbing thing was much of his fame was because of his boyish, underaged looks. Eeeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:42 PM
22

Do women actually care about Leo? He’s old and bloated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:30 PM
1

It depends on how long you want to be alpha and also alive A short time ? Be the most violent rapey asshole possible and dgaf A long(er) time? Have allies and family, and make bank/prosperity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:22 PM
2

That sounds about right. Sexual harassment vs emotional harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:19 PM
9

I am told by men here that men only want to be valued and desired for their looks, because that gets you the most/best sex and the least cheating. Money or status based desire is beta bux, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:17 PM
1

That’s not what the manospherians believe I don’t want kids so 🤷‍♀️. They’re too much work and are too judgy and fickle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:18 PM
1

Oh, you mean the same single mothers who produce criminals and murder society? Interesting coming from a manospherian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:48 PM
17

I mean….you have eyes, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:20 AM
2

I find this particular argument a hilarious quandary for red pill, because it pokes holes in so much of their worldview. This is because the dark triad is a way to shift blame for male behavior on to women — women are in abusive relationships, therefore they must love abuse But when you point out that must mean they should be sociopaths to get women, they have a million reasons why they can’t, so they obviously know it’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:56 AM
2

Well, please tell your fellas that, including the entire red pill Because we hear this over and over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:48 AM
2

Sure. That’s why 90% of men are sexless and everyone has an abusive dad, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:22 AM
1

Alphas aren’t sociopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:49 PM
1

The things we do for love….and self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:49 PM
5

Mothers used to die all the time, often during childbirth For some reason, humans did not go extinct, nor become unsocialized monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:49 PM
16

Ahahahaha, do you have a job ? If you do, you’ll be paying for at least two childcarers the first year or two. You gonna date or go out at night ? Find a good regular babysitter. You go on business trips? I hope you have an au pair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:42 PM
18

The important word in your sentence is “couples”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:39 PM
24

Anderson Cooper is a Vanderbilt (and also married) You got Vanderbilt cash? Vanderbilt servants and castles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:39 PM
26

Are you planning on caring for a newborn by yourself? An infant? A toddler? If not, you’ll be paying a woman for a while. Probably more than one at a time if you plan on sleeping at night And then, you’ll have to do it all again if you want another
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:36 PM
0

I am also in favor of humans using the brains that have made us so successful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:59 PM
1

Well… you usually get what you pay for, I’ll tell you that much. Having said that, you should always be able to get something decent for $20 (white) or $25 (red). Rose wines have also gotten much better imo and are no longer watery shite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:55 PM
1

Wine of course The drink of sipping and judging
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:38 PM
3

I’m old and deserve rest and comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:33 PM
4

Sex is not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:32 PM
1

Oh no, that’s how these tantrum throwers describe themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:47 PM
2

Generalized niceness also sounds impersonal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:29 AM
3

Exhausting? Immature? Yeah, kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:28 AM
-1

Nah Women will always be desperate for love or status as expressed by money Or at least the non-well adjusted ones will
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:25 AM
1

It’s a transgression so I’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:20 PM
0

the entirety of marriage is essentially just prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:14 PM
1

Not at all Because I was young and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:59 PM
1

Please find me comparable content then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:22 PM
6

Society punishes after the murderous rapey ass kicking acid attacks, not before
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:21 PM
26

Men were always the biggest and most vehement misandrists in my life. You should hear the things they say about each other; phew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:20 PM
1

Yes, and men should also be clear on how much sex they expect, in what way, the required level of enthusiasm, fetishes, etc., and what they will do if they don’t get it. Communication is most effective when it’s mutual, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:14 PM
5

There’s a lot of young, inexperienced or awkward types who might not understand that there really aren’t only one or two ways of doing things, choices, types of people, etc Just trying to save them some time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:12 PM
2

Paid, scripted content for profit is always so helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:41 PM
0

We already know this The ones who don’t are being purposefully deceived or deliberately obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:40 PM
9

Generalizing broadly will always help you deal realistically with individuals, is that right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:39 PM
2

That is the solution society has provided, yes. What else are we supposed to do? Pressure/coerce people into engaging in an act of looooooooooooove? Sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:54 PM
1

Why here and not an appropriate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:45 PM
2

It’s good practice, no? And preselected
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:45 PM
3

Marriage is also voluntary and terminable. Again: problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:43 PM
2

Only siths believe in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:05 PM
4

Less dating, more artificial
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:05 PM
2

I see nothing currently preventing people from ending relationships based on this so there is no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:03 PM
0

Nah, men are easy to fuck. I’d do fine as a gay man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:44 PM
4

They’ve all been swallowed up into the Trump Borg Which makes sense — he’s been way more successful than them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:42 PM
2

I don’t begrudge people being better at getting what they want than I
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:40 PM
4

It is if you’re annoying people with your current act
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:38 PM
-3

If by “women are wonderful” you mean “women are not a physical threat” then I agree But that’s not the same thing now, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:52 PM
1

Uh, you have seen all the “why should I get a social circle? What good will that do?” posts, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:51 PM
4

Why can’t we take issue with both content and presentation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:46 PM
-1

Ok, how do you get laid? When you tell women you have no friends and don’t go out, how do they react ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:49 PM
0

Ok, how do you get laid? When you tell women you have no friends and don’t go out, how do they react ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:49 PM
1

Ok, how do you get laid? When you tell women you have no friends and don’t go out, how do they react ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:48 PM
2

Wallflowers get ignored, ask me how I know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:46 PM
1

I don’t mix my friends and family There’s no rules
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:45 PM
4

When you network/socialize you aren’t competing with “that guy” And looks have always mattered, they didn’t just start when the smartphone was invented in 2007
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:43 PM
1

All men care about sex, so why should we offer more if you don’t demand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:22 PM
1

Talking to humans to interact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:02 PM
1

Hasn’t your question been answered the first few times you asked this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:02 PM
5

“Men who never socialize are so hot and I totally relate to them” — no normal woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:59 PM
2

Pussy is a legitimate answer Because pussy is worth a lot It’s the most important thing in the world to men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:53 PM
2

That’s still an effort, which op claims women don’t put forth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:50 PM
1

Which is silly, because the answer is right there and not shameful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:53 PM
0

We already do this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:51 AM
1

I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:50 AM
7

A chair. For me I hope you brought one too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:48 AM
2

I already know this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:48 AM
0

Yeah, well, leave her. I would say the same to women who complain about this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:56 PM
7

I would tell him to ask himself “why would a woman fuck me?“ I cannot tell you how many unsuccessful men get angry and refuse to answer when asked this question. It would be funny if it weren’t so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:54 PM
3

The cosmetic, beauty, fashion, and fitness/diet industries say differently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:52 PM
-3

It’s a shame there’s only one way to do things, isn’t it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:54 PM
0

Then why bother “doing” anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:53 PM
1

That happens in male gaze movies anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:53 PM
1

Finding out what doesn’t work is an important part of learning, and is also not the only way of learning Observing others and learning from them is probably the most important part of being a social animal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:54 PM
1

Never He has to do a little bit more than just “open his mouth”, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:58 PM
2

Woman not sexualized, and not ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:57 PM
2

We will when you are up front about how much sex you expect as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:33 PM
1

Women want love, gifts, favors, nice photos and weddings Men want sex And both rarely get what they want in the amounts they want them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:52 PM
1

If she has accomplishments, she isn’t a trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:51 PM
1

They are already
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:50 PM
2

Not like his fantasies, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:49 PM
0

We don’t We expect you to learn because you want sex Just like women learn to get status, money and love Seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:48 PM
9

Oh, because we don’t want sex as much You’re all free to walk out the door as soon as hormones appear No one likes or respects hormonal terrorists of either gender, even though many people put up with sex pests and crazy chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:46 PM
7

Considering the 18-25 year olds I know, fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:22 AM
1

It would be rude for women with children to tell the truth, so it is also rude for childless women to tell the truth And also rude to ask them, unless you personally are struggling with the decision
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:36 PM
1

It’s doesn’t matter, that’s what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:34 PM
1

Not much, but still more than id like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:34 PM
1

Sex is not the problem It’s validation and love that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:34 PM
74

You do know how marriage used to work, right? And prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:33 PM
9

I have to keep reminding myself that some posters are in fact children, or practically children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:15 PM
2

That’s what porn and social media is? When I was younger it was gfs and people we knew, and they weren’t as good at being discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:13 PM
6

OP is 22. ‘Nuff said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:12 PM
31

Your title is “women prefer toxic men” but your post content is “dumb children eventually grow up” I should make a similar post and entitle it “men prefer living in filth, setting things on fire, drinking shitty beer til they puke and masturbating into a dirty sock five times a day”, and then act indignant that they usually pull themselves together and get jobs and marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:47 PM
1

This is my choice, I am not prescribing it for anyone And, if you couldn’t tell, I am not pretty, so that part is not a factor; I’d prefer they like my personality instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:37 PM
2

They’re discreet, not ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:35 PM
3

Aw, you had to show me up huh? Fine, I won’t give the game away next time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:26 PM
16

Men want sex/women want relationships, take #765,119,434, blah blah blah, I’m already bored Your libido is your problem, and I can understand it just fine. It doesn’t mean I have to prioritize or indulge it I’m sure the first comment, if I get any, will be some veiled threat about men burning down civilization if they don’t get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:17 PM
1

I have eyes and ears. Lots of my male friends recommend porn or hot chick social medias to each other, discreetly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:16 PM
2

I’m not looking to be a free plug-in, lol Either you like my company or you don’t, which is why I only date people I know from social groups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:53 PM
1

A good man is always a status symbol. Doubly so if he’s dependent on you for his goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:26 PM
6

Men fuck ugly low status women all the time. They call it hogging or dumpster diving or coyote ugly. Because they have “needs” That is also why they claim women can’t be incels, because someone will close their eyes and fuck her. Men will fuck comatose vegetables with catheters, infants, toddlers, goats, melons, and holes in the ground; of course they will fuck ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:00 PM
1

Nope. Casual is not worth it. I’ve had plenty of sex already
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:58 PM
6

No, women generally won’t fuck an ugly, poor nobody casually, but men will. Because women don’t care about sex that much. Women will not pay to look at, talk to, touch or fuck the opposite gender, but men will On the other hand, women will fuck ugly men if they’re rich or famous and poor men if they’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:18 PM
15

Of course they do, but for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:59 PM
0

Lol, you know how many dudes use porn, or go out with their buds to ogle or feel up women, or swap nudes and vids? I’d say the vast majority. I’ve been hit on or groped by so many men in relationships. I feel no shame, because they clearly don’t either. We all know that “a man is as faithful as his options” and “men are dogs” Why? Because they tell us so themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:54 PM
2

I can’t, because red pill obviously suits their needs better. No one embraces such a philosophy because they like women and people, and I’m not interested in fixing them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:52 PM
0

They need a manager, obviously. The more capable the better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:49 PM
3

I do not accept cold approaches. Why would I date a man who only cares about my looks? He’s either desperate or only after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:48 PM
1

Yes, and? Do men in relationships lust after and hit on other women ? (Yes. The answer is yes, to a disturbing amount)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:47 PM
1

If “yourself” is the problem, of course you should focus on it And if no one wants “yourself”, it seems pretty clear that “yourself” is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:56 AM
1

Yes. “Better”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:55 AM
3

Why would I be wrong? Do we ever think easy things are more impressive than difficult things? If so, please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:44 AM
3

Great rebuttal; very convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:38 AM
1

There’s only three pieces of advice, all linked: know thyself, take responsibility for thyself….and then stop fucking whining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:37 AM
1

Beta. The fuckboys all become betas anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 AM
1

No good deed goes unpunished.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 AM
2

Only a sith believes in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:34 AM
1

Gee, I wonder why the gender that cares more about sex….cares more about sex? It’s so puzzling!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:33 AM
3

Obviously social deficiency is a turn off in social relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:31 AM
3

Of course there’s more status for doing more difficult things. Bad boys are harder to domesticate than simps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:31 AM
5

That’s fine unless he says it directly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:11 PM
6

Lol, women always want their men to change. Men are constantly complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:09 PM
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Taming the bad boy or living happily ever after Come on, nobody’s hiding anything from you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:37 PM
4

Who is shaming you, personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:14 PM
1

“Focus on yourself” doesn’t mean “give up forever” or “do nothing” Please give examples where this advice was “incorrectly” dispensed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:10 PM
3

If you’re willing to put up with a lot of desertion, death, mental breakdowns, and blatant hypocrisy as far as the wealthy and famous are concerned…..sure? I don’t think the voters would be down for paying for it just to get some nerds laid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:06 PM
4

It’s a shame you think you’re being oppressed when you aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:05 PM
3

If more men stop being nice and considerate when they don’t want to, I am all for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:04 PM
2

Weird that you think about dating in this way. Is this common for dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:03 PM
1

Sure. I am confident that will never happen because dick uber alles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:02 PM
11

Accepting a date is not a submissive act, unless you think women don’t actually want to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:08 AM
1

“Tend to”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:07 AM
2

Oh, because people tend to care about the people they date and fuck? That tends to be most of the reason they claim to do it The fact TRP doesn’t makes it misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:14 AM
1

Why should it be ok for one but not the other? If men stop, we will stop, k?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:49 PM
1

No, because men do the same thing, they just call it hoe/housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:16 PM
1

Humiliation is a fetish, as Louis CK could tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:08 PM
1

No, they don’t care about fighting other diseases, they care only about fighting cancer Just like TRP doesn’t care about fucking straight men and all non straight people because they care only about fucking straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:07 PM
0

The more messed up the woman, the more messed up her consistency, obviously And I don’t hang out with messes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:40 PM
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The reason TRP is misogynist is right in the sub description — “Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men” They only care about getting sex for men, because the world, aka women, is against them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:37 PM
1

Why? Winning is the most important thing, and men are winning, so you guys should be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:34 PM
7

I know lots of people who have been burned, are legitimately too busy, too poor, moving, prefer casual, prefer computers, prefer drugs, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:33 PM
1

So why all the whining from dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:56 PM
2

Well then women are the dumb ones and suffer more. Victory for men, yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:09 PM
3

Women are known to have pet squids that they practice kissing on, making them better at debating Fat people develop a second pair of genitals which makes them more desirable Marriage contracts have clauses for puddle stepping and door opening built in Feminists are lizards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:52 PM
2

Yes, for the sex hot dog on the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:50 PM
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When half of people who are single say they aren’t looking for a relationship, it probably is a factor There has never been a time when the rich and powerful didn’t get more and better, so I don’t know why this is a surprise to you. In fact, man sharing is probably less common than previously because women are no longer economic dependents
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:48 PM
1

Fetishes are the result of blue pill oppression? Who knew ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:46 PM
8

Most people marry and almost all people date. Are they all giant flaming horrible assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:46 PM
2

Only in this sub would common sense be so abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:17 PM
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I love how adamant they are that things that women want in a relationship are definitely not the things women want in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:17 PM
10

Not interacting with people has become more common with the rise of the internet. Anti social people could also be lazy, poor, or mentally ill/dysfunctional as well as misogynist. We just don’t know, but all those put together can definitely explain the singledom rate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:13 PM
2

For casual sex, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:11 PM
1

It’s not silly, because women aren’t as motivated by sex. But don’t worry, once a woman is invested, either physically or emotionally, a man can do all sorts of horrible shit to her with no consequences. Women are dumb that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:40 PM
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Oh, I just meant any counterproductive behavior. Although I have known men who tried their darndest to find fault in every woman they dated because of….I don’t know, fear of attachment? Lingering oneitis?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:36 PM
1

Lol, suuuuuuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:34 PM
1

Oh, I just meant any dumb behavior that causes them to be unsuccessful. Perving, cringyness, clinginess, pickiness (yes, I’ve seen really avoidant guys make up reasons to not date someone and then bitch about being single), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:32 PM
2

I didn’t know the number was supposed to be the same for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:05 PM
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We expect them to give us orgasms, load and unload the dishwasher, change a diaper, socialize with us, have interest in our thoughts and feelings, and talk to their children That wasn’t expected before
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:03 PM
0

The same thing you guys think of a male friend who does the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:58 PM
3

Those are not the women OP wants or is looking for and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:57 PM
2

By their members, ye shall know them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:56 PM
1

Well, there’s always sex, which also makes you feel heard and seen, I hear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:48 PM
2

If you’re not able to listen to someone, yeah, you kinda are. You do know what “communication” is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:34 PM
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Looks vs personality/morals If you need to ask which one, you’re being willfully obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:45 PM
2

If men were truly that socially incompetent and unable to imagine what other people think and do, society would not function All social animals can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:43 PM
4

I’ve laughed at conservatives social media, does that make me conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:42 PM
0

Hate, suits, shoes, literacy and written communication used to be normal for the middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:42 PM
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“We don’t care what men do because we aren’t trying to fuck men” Heard that a lot when this is brought up Here’s the thing: women react to what men do, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:41 PM
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Or, more common imo, one or both partners is lazy and/or selfish and/or settling/not really invested
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:40 PM
0

If they wanted to, they would
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:53 PM
4

On this sub? No, they’re not here because they’re gay and not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:51 PM
1

That is the basis for sexual Puritanism. Service, obedience, and self denial
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:42 PM
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You just needed to write “most women just want to feel seen and heard by their partners” In fact, don’t men want the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:40 PM
2

Viral content based on social media algorithms does not equal mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:38 PM
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All red pill terms have an opposite gender or gender neutral equivalent. They just pretend they don’t exist Ex: Hypergamy —-> trading up/trophy wives/starter wife Pair bonding ——> love Cock carousel ——> sowing wild oats/“sport fucking” (thanks, commenter!) AWALT —-> a man is as faithful as his options/“men are dogs” Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:22 PM
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Gay kids get kicked out of their families more often, which is why more of them are homeless, mentally ill, suicidal, and employed in survival sex work Gay people only recently won the right to marry or sue for discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:20 PM
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If women have abundance, why would they deny themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:40 PM
8

Are you attractive and normal? If so, why do you think this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:39 PM
3

Ratings are subjective. Otherwise all men could get money or plastic surgery or learn game and up their level
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:38 PM
2

Be better or fuck hookers Simple, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:08 PM
9

If you can’t get an 8, you aren’t an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:51 PM
5

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:50 PM
5

We all know what the rebuttal to this is — “women b lying”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:56 PM
1

It saves more than it rapes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:56 PM
4

Persecuted minority groups tend to not draw attention to embarrassing and selfish behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:55 PM
4

Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:54 PM
12

No, just anyone we don’t want to fuck Just like back in the good old days of socioeconomic dependence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:54 PM
1

Everyone does, so I don’t see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:58 AM
2

Life with other people involves compromise, and we are all perfectly capable of doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:59 AM
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And every generation thinks it invented the wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:42 AM
2

Gold digging and trophy/second wifing are well known
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:39 AM
12

All the sexual revolution was about was freeing people from the idea/principle that the only purpose of sex was reproduction, at least for women And in that it has definitely succeeded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:29 PM
2

Yes Bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:12 PM
0

It’s probably high, because it’s not a random sample Fraud should be treated like fraud but with child welfare in consideration. Which means that it probably won’t be prosecuted very much at all It would be nice to have truth, but sometimes people already know. That is why paternity is treated as a privacy issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:30 PM
1

No, greed is a very common human vice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:20 PM
1

TIL getting used for sex makes a woman red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:19 PM
2

The blue pill. It’s red pill minus the antisocialism/sexism. It also acknowledges gender differences just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:16 PM
1

Women don’t have “sex” as an incentive to interact with men intimately, so we push “love” on them as a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:15 PM
1

Red pill is avowedly apolitical and eschews solidarity and cooperation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:15 PM
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Many men are capable of socializing without being competitive, bigoted, insensitive, sexist, or aggressive. Anytime “locker room talk” is an issue, men claim this Some cannot, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:13 PM
1

Too many guys just won’t approach and complain about it. Or complain that a rejection means the woman has it out for them. Or that one rejection means no woman will ever say yes. Or, even more common, they complain about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:09 PM
1

If he was that attractive I wouldn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:08 PM
1

No. It’s about making choices
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:08 PM
2

That would be red and black pillers, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:10 PM
0

If you can’t handle the risk, you shouldn’t be playing Very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:05 PM
2

Red pill is only for men, blue pill is for everyone. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:21 PM
1

We could ask the same of you, but reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:20 PM
2

Young people need information
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:20 PM
3

I’m not atoning for the sins of womankind or male desperation/thirst. Relationships are voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:18 PM
1

They would do it more, sure. Not enough for men to be satisfied, and certainly not enough for you to be satisfied. Because you don’t just want casual, you want hot casual. So, there’s going to have to be other incentive, and the best one is money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:16 PM
1

I wouldn’t. Why argue with that? It might even be true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:48 AM
2

Porn, the sex industry, and online dating beg to differ, as do crime stats and the flow of money. If women wanted to, they would — free of charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:30 AM
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Women can sleep around consequence free if they want to. They just don’t want to, and never will as much as men want them to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:02 AM
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It’s too easy to blame external factors, so weak, lazy selfish people will continue to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:39 AM
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There is no satisfying the male libido, ever; there’s always a different pussy to desire. You yourself require many, many more pussies than is fair, so you are contributing to the problem more than most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:31 AM
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As many times as I have to say it, I will: You’re not looking for 50-50 monogamy You’re looking for as much casual sex with hot partners as you can get, ie, many, many women — hundreds and thousands of them So why are you complaining about things you don’t even want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:15 AM
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We’re looking for a little more than “basic decency”. Men and women just have different ideas of what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:47 PM
1

I did. You can do all those things with more than one person — why do you think they are/need to be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:14 PM
2

No, men still want sex, last I checked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:11 PM
2

I didn’t say they liked doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:11 PM
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I’ve been offended by way, way more men than I’ve been bored or physically repulsed by. Also, I am a boring person with few hobbies, so I don’t want someone who is going to make me feel inadequate or guilty for holding them back or being unable to reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:08 PM
1

It can be with more than one human being
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:05 PM
2

No, I assure you people can and do have sex with more than one person, and also enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:04 PM
1

Why does one have to have a partner to do any of those things with, now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:17 PM
1

Psychological prison is insignificant compared to actual prison, and is insulting to people in actual prison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:16 PM
3

No one is forcing anyone to do anything, last I checked. If you want to act out your consensual collared submissive relationship, you are free to do so, likewise being a “surrendered wife”, a transactional relationship, hoarding, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:57 PM
2

Foods, travel, jobs, friends, residence, styles, hobbies and interests — cool to try out Sex — nuh uh!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:26 PM
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“The bar is in hell” refers more to behavior in an already established relationship than pre-relationship courtship behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:23 PM
1

So….straight men are responsible for female bisexuality? Maybe the mercenary ones, who you probably want to avoid anyways Otherwise, I doubt it. If I had any inclination to chase pussy and tits, I’d be doing it right now instead of dealing with men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:19 PM
1

Sure, if they prioritize looks and themselves and wish to communicate that Men who don’t want to communicate that, on the other hand, might want to refrain from giving the wrong impression
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:18 PM
4

If you don’t mean women only, then why did you address women only ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:17 PM
3

Of course it isn’t because you are a very superior being to us and we should beg you to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:00 AM
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Oh, the trades guys I ran into were earnest, demonstrative/communicative/emotionally available, competent and hard working but also sexist/traditional/unfaithful, mean and rude I’m afraid the stereotypical class divide is very much a thing I didn’t find artists/musicians to be lying sleazeballs but they were self-absorbed and emotionally unavailable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:40 PM
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Nothing, because I don’t do transactional. But some women do Oh wait, that’s not true; not-hot intellectual guys have a chance, now that I no longer trust contractors, artists and musicians
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:02 PM
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Aw, there it is — “I have no rebuttal, so women b lying !” Please explain my life to me, o great man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:01 PM
1

If you know they are unavailable or uninterested, easy If not, difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:50 PM
24

The words that come out of men’s mouths are the number one cause of disinterest on my part. Is that personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:49 PM
2

Because you need to get another person to like you. You don’t take this tactic with people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:59 PM
1

Depends on how much effort you’re willing to put in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Would I be turned off by insanity? Yes, yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:57 PM
10

Most men accept reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:55 PM
5

Men are on social media to thirst, not to create thirst Women aren’t thirsting over men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:54 PM
1

No, because they refer to attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:53 PM
1

There’s a lot of ground between simping and vetting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:41 AM
1

No, seems like they feel obligated to do stuff for pussy just cuz At least women do dumb shit for love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:37 AM
2

I’m not denying sexual assault happens I’m denying that men worry about it from women and avoid them because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:18 PM
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I’m not denying that it happens I’m denying that people are afraid of women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:17 PM
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I’m not denying that it happens I’m denying that people worry about it “I’m not walking home alone because a woman might assault me” — no man ever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:16 PM
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They envy the sex part They’re fully aware of how it sucks in all other aspects. Every man in my family/social circle who cared about me was very clear that my life would be harder than a man’s, because of men. That was their basic life advice to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:49 PM
3

“Women live life on easy mode” Because we’re not trying to get people to have sex with us “Women are valued just for existing” Because we have pussy and no violence/perving
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:48 PM
1

Then explain how love and romance are different I gave examples
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:49 AM
1

Romance tends to be idealized, performative and somewhat formulaic. “Romantic gestures” are pretty narrowly defined, for example. When we “romanticize” something, we’re not seeing it objectively I suppose I see it as romance is one way to express love, but not the only way. I don’t care about flowers, candy, gifts, favors and other grand gestures which are widely considered “romantic”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:11 AM
1

I’m not poor, I’ll take the man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:09 AM
2

People can draw erroneous conclusions from real life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:08 AM
1

I want love, not romance. I consider them two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:06 AM
5

Yes, so that’s ignorance instead of intent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:05 AM
4

Acknowledging mistakes or believing in change is very blue pill, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:05 AM
3

I don’t consider it ruining it if it’s based on a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:04 AM
2

We already are, but get called liars or are expected to be perfect/speak for all women/be accountable for all women I’ve never been dumped, and every guy I dumped knew full well why I dumped them. They don’t care to be better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:01 AM
3

Oh, but change is hard and whining is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:20 PM
1

Yes, you’re less attractive to the looks focused people. And in non-urban areas. And many people have paired off and married the further you go, and what’s left is weird and dysfunctional On the flip side, breakups are always happening, and people might be more mature and stable at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:19 PM
1

They search it because it is unusual or unexpected Same with dead bedrooms or other lack of sex issues We expect it for women but not men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:16 PM
2

The data does not agree with you https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf We do pretty much everything online now, even socialize. It is unreasonable to expect dating to resist this trend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:14 PM
2

So people are always right about their issues and should never be encouraged to examine, diversify or mitigate their desires, even if those desires are causing them problems? The customer is always right!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:18 PM
2

What are people supposed to advise or say if substitutes or mitigations are not acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:46 PM
2

Nice deflection Got no answer, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:14 PM
1

What are we supposed to do? “Lol, sucks to be you, sad loser” I thought you wanted society to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:06 PM
22

Funny, I don’t think men cared very much about how sexy women thought they were for almost all of human history. They just wanted to fulfill their “needs” You know full well why women make men get to know us first. But you don’t care about our reasons It’s fine, many men do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:01 PM
1

Do you think your behavior is normal for women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:59 PM
0

Uh huh, how many men have you paid for sex or sexual content? Do you spam guys on dating sites or send thirsty messages to their social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:02 AM
1

As common as women making false rape accusations for cash and prizes. Yes, I have heard men claim this. Revenge, sure; enduring hours of bureaucracy and interrogation and also paying for the privilege? No; there’s no cash and prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:26 AM
1

I have, technically. I was sent to cockblock/chaperone a 16 year old classmate from porking my younger sister. At McDonald’s. I got a quarter pounder out of it, plus a friendship with the 16 year olds much nicer younger brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:23 AM
1

You’re paying for human judgement and contact, babyee. Don’t be so confident that you aren’t going to be replaced by a machine, robot or computer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:19 AM
1

Almost as common as it is for men to wank it to porn, their friends, family, coworkers, women they see in real life, social media, celebrities……ok, maybe not quite that much, but cmon! We have female libidos, ok? We can’t compete with you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:13 AM
4

Oh yes, I know. Isn’t extortion great?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:11 AM
1

Unless she says that she prizes sex above relationships, no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:33 AM
1

Um, because they’re selfish jerkwads?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:32 AM
1

Transactional women are different from companionship women. But of course they get conflated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:29 AM
-1

I don’t see why there isn’t a concern over the rise in single females, since polygamy is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:26 AM
1

Because they can’t fuck like Chad? No, there’s never been an uprising over that, ever. That’s a <0.1% problem Most people fuck just fine Your problem is that you don’t want what most people do. You wanna be the king of hot chick action on a fast food salary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:54 PM
1

Awww, the crab bucket village mentality, the attitude of winners and innovators!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:23 PM
1

Uh, I don’t understand why you’re all bitter that you aren’t in a traditional, obligatory marriage where you only fuck one person your whole life, because that’s the opposite of casual sex with many, many hot partners —- you know, the thing you say you want. The difference is that, finally, you don’t have to be in a lame, dutiful marriage —- you can fuck hookers, fatties and uggos your whole life, if you want, on a middle class budget! Freedom! It’s always sucked for Mr. Average Joe. And Jane Av…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:45 PM
1

There was never a time when joe average peasant or worker was fucking like a lord, when sexuality was free and easy, or when whoremongering was open and respectable. Only lords fucked like lords, and everyone else did their duty to god and family and hid their shameful, sinful impulses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:19 AM
-1

They seem to have worked just fine for men since prostitution was invented. Most men’s wives and partners throughout history neither wanted nor enjoyed sex with them, and men didn’t shrivel up and die — they just fucked and lived their lives anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:00 AM
-2

There’s always been alternatives. And you have money, so they are available to you. I fail to see a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:35 AM
0

Relationships, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:55 AM
4

No. It’s low attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:50 AM
1

We’re all tools, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:38 PM
2

If you have to relook, you’re behind the curve
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:33 PM
2

Transactional relationships are still considered option #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:33 PM
3

The most common is refusing to use your inherent ability to empathize in favor of projection. What a waste of a perfectly good social animal brain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:29 PM
1

Every man has the potential to be funny, charming, kind, persuasive, skilled, etc., because you have a brain and a body. It just takes varying amounts of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Proof, and lots of it, is bad etiquette?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:10 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:09 PM
1

He claimed “no man” and I produce thousands of man. It counts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:08 PM
2

Sure you can. People just….don’t pursue child support, for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:06 PM
1

I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:04 PM
1

Imo, no — this is perfectly explainable as bitter resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:04 PM
1

But are they denying there are men answering?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:03 PM
1

“I never posted anything like this” Liar liar pants on fire
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:01 PM
2

You misspelled therapy. Because that’s what he’s doing here — scratching his brain itches. It doesn’t appear to be working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:30 AM
1

Well, when everyone has the basics/an even distribution, I suspect new problems will announce themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:30 AM
5

This is the correct answer. Money solves everything in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:02 AM
3

It’s too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:34 AM
5

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/uo76qp/guys_whats_so_much_of_a_turn_off_that_it_actually/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/v976fv/what_job_mentioned_by_a_woman_when_asked_is_a/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/tff99d/what_is_your_immediate_turn_off_for_a_dating/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/shydxm/whats_the_biggest_turn_off_in_a_woman_and_why/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/a9yuoy/how_many_times_have_you_been_turned_off_by_a/ https://www.reddit.com/…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:29 AM
3

So if a man says he turns down women, he is automatically lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:28 AM
1

Take it up with the guy who popularized the term or the academics who created it, not me. Words have meanings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:26 AM
1

It was 6 days ago he posted this the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:23 AM
3

Yuh https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wf98gr/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/ https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wfb263/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/ https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wfb1jy/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/ https://www.reddit.com/r/DoesAnybodyElse/comments/wfb6q8/hae_noticed_that_not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:21 AM
3

Yes you did, 6 days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wf98gr/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:20 AM
1

Your claim was “not one man”. So if one man disagrees, that disproves your point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:17 AM
3

Sure we did. It’s called….not supporting your child, financially or otherwise. That’s what “choosing not to be a father” is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:05 AM
5

No, because then men would never support their children, that’s what we used to have
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:57 AM
3

Sure they would, and they say so here https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wfb263/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/ And here: https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wfb1jy/not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would_reject_an/ And here; https://www.reddit.com/r/DoesAnybodyElse/comments/wfb6q8/hae_noticed_that_not_one_man_of_any_caliber_would/ And here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/qg87kg/whats_the_most_superficial_reason_for_what_you/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:55 AM
2

Not splitting children down the middle referred to abortion, not divorce. You can’t go halfsies on existence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:51 AM
1

Jordan Peterson, the guy who brought up the concept in the first place, admitted we already have “enforced monogamy” — he’s just concerned it may decline further. Polygamy is illegal, cheating is stigmatized, marriage is legally, economically and socially sanctioned and incentivized, divorce is costly, acrimonious and onerous, couples are the dominant social and economic unit —- that is how monogamy is “enforced” by society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:48 AM
3

Nope, at fault divorce incentivizes acrimony, expenses, abuse accusations, escalation, and lying And children can’t be split down the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:45 AM
4

No fault saves sane people a ton of time and energy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:00 AM
6

Uh yes; how else am I supposed to get to know him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:30 AM
3

Unfortunately, two become one, but that one cannot be split again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:28 AM
4

Most people waste their potential
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:12 PM
7

Yes, because of the disparity in libidos. You’ll fuck anything (collectively) and we will not. That’s pretty much all there is to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:39 PM
1

For middle class children and up, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:36 PM
1

We already have enforced monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:34 PM
5

Ever? Oh my
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:29 PM
1

Oh, I just meant in the sense that money is better than poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:29 PM
22

U make baby, U pay? Is this news to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:20 PM
0

We don’t need stability or kids much anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:14 PM
12

I don’t understand why this even has to be said Autistic people aren’t overly fond of any human relationships much either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:04 PM
3

People can empathize just fine It’s just not going to change their minds or prioritize others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:02 PM
6

It’s true, not a platitude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:58 PM
31

All men have potential
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:53 PM
2

Money based attraction is still about money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:30 PM
7

Oh, you mean emigrating. You should clarify that in your OP. That is not traveling, and has never, ever been easy. Because that involves money from the recepient country You would get better info if your ops were truthful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:24 PM
3

All your comments talk about money and what you get for it. It’s pretty obvious what you really mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:20 PM
1

Oh, you mean emigrating. You should clarify that in your OP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:15 PM
72

Depends on which part of Men’s rights we’re talking about. Encouraging therapy, emotional health, community building, socializing and lack of homophobia? Sounds great! Pushing for more paternity leave and work life balance? Sign me up! Encouraging domesticity and female breadwinning to take the pressure off male breadwinning? Sure! Expecting that doing these things will be a form of pussy exchange? Booooo! Child support, abortion, and no fault divorce should be abolished? Hell no Women are evil …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:05 PM
0

Monogamy is about stability, money and kids, not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:01 PM
8

Getting a tourist visa is hard? That is basically telling a country, “I am going to give you money from another nation without asking for anything in return”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:59 PM
5

You don’t care about attraction. You care about getting sex for money, which is the whole point of traveling for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:58 PM
1

I’m talking about lying to people you ask for advice, not people you’re trying to get pussy from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:57 PM
1

I didn’t mean lying to get sex. I meant lying about what you want advice on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:56 PM
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OP doesn’t care about love, he wants precisely what you described — an economic sexual dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:09 PM
6

That’s not dating. That’s prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:03 PM
7

They’re not looking to date. They’re looking to purchase
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:02 PM
15

It’s already very easy to travel. It’s never going to be free
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:02 PM
2

As you can see from this entire post, lying gets you bad information, which is inefficient and wasteful. Isn’t that bad for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:47 PM
3

Some women are open to fuck. And if all you want is sex, there are much, much better ways to get it than lying and getting inaccurate information
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:47 PM
2

If you start a business, you don’t lie about what your business is and then blame the customers for taking you at your word. That is called fraud, and is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:31 PM
3

Yes. So stop asking how to get dates and relationships and stop lying to women and then blaming us for not assuming you’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:30 PM
2

I thought men’s standards were very low
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:05 PM
1

Ah yes, that would be the ticket. But then they would have to admit what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:02 PM
4

“How do I get sex at any cost, except paying money for it or violently raping?” That’ll get you much better answers, but way, way fewer of them. And none from women, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:51 PM
3

Do you want “most women”, aka any hole, and don’t care why they want you? Then yes, get rich, famous or hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:49 PM
2

The real question is “how can I get sex, even if it hurts other people?” No decent person is going to tell you the truth, aka lie, bully, cheat, and cater to the fucked up and dysfunctional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:44 PM
2

No, men who want sex and validation at any cost, even illegally, should listen to male and female sociopaths, swindlers and criminals. Because that is what they are really asking for — “fuck you, I want mine”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:05 PM
2

Nope. It works. And men admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:02 PM
12

Lol, you heard rap/hip hop lyrics for the past 30-40 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:38 AM
3

Sure. Totally neutral sources
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:32 AM
21

“Crazy lying goldigging bitch” is not a novel concept
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:30 AM
1

Aw, you’re no fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:22 AM
19

Men here admit they think less of easy sluttiness all the time. And I believe men. Don’t you believe men? “Easy” is not a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:21 AM
-1

Well, ya know, if you can’t be with the hole you want, love the hole that’s willing and available
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:20 AM
9

No, the red pill ignores what men do, or uses bio truths to justify the behavior. And no one buys either tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:18 AM
5

Oh, who doesn’t experiment with a little jiggery pokery for kicks? What are you, a prude?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:10 AM
9

Sure. We’ll simp for Chad like you simp for Stacey. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:07 AM
6

Great. Go gay; problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:06 AM
9

Women aren’t men. Sex is a side issue, not the goal. No woman has to date to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:58 AM
14

Men taught me how to deal with men Specifically that no one respects free and easy shit, aka easy come, easy go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:54 AM
15

Usually it means the man is a child expecting mommy to pick up after him and run his life. Or, alternatively, there are some real doozies in dating. Men who don’t shower, brush their teeth, use sheets, wipe their ass, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:46 AM
23

Nope. It makes the lazy users leave because they can’t stand your actual horrible, boring, frivolous female personhood. Boy, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:45 AM
1

Friendship vs penis? Yes, it kinda is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:43 AM
1

Yup. Sex is the most important thing about women. No sex, no point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:09 PM
1

I don’t believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:02 PM
1

A bond between two people? How many ways can you describe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:48 PM
1

It’s called love, k?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:01 PM
1

It’s an option, one of several.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:13 PM
1

The hypocrisy and incoherence is part of it, and ensures it will never be a mainstream movement — because reality is a bitch. It is a feature, not a bug, and thank god for that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:12 PM
2

Men complain about not getting sex all the time, lol. We all hear about it. That’s why you even know the term “friend zone”, and women are called “stuck up”, “picky”, “entitled”, “choosy”, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:10 PM
1

Dehumanization and selfishness is still dehumanization and selfishness, and we’re not fooled by or going to be silent about it. As long as lust is easier for men than love and women prefer love to lust, it will be thusly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:45 PM
1

If you like drama and conflict, that’s the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:44 PM
1

It is, because men can buy sex, are expected to sacrifice promiscuity, which they hold in higher esteem, and say no to relationships/marriage The only difference is now that women are also the gatekeepers to reproduction. But reproduction sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:42 PM
3

Red pill fully discloses that its aims are selfish (amoral) and against social stability (enjoy the decline). It’s “sexual strategy for men” (at everyone else’s expense) Hey, at least they admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:39 PM
4

It’s because saying/believing in “love” is ghey and weak Ewwww, gross adult feelings!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:36 PM
1

Modern society killed it Chivalry is no more than a type of systematized/standardized male protection from other men to women and children. We have outsourced it to the government
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:35 PM
2

No, it’s pretty clear monogamy is the easiest. It’s just still a mess, because people are still a mess. Dysfunction doesn’t just exist between mommy and daddy but between everyone. I, for example, have not very amicable/nonexistent relationships with my parents, siblings and extended family; I’ve made and then lost a ton of friends; I don’t always get along with my neighbors, service providers, elected leaders, government agents, colleagues, superiors and subordinates. Is any of that surprising …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:30 PM
1

Yes. The influence of childish fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:26 PM
1

Your standards should be set by you, as decided by your human capability of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:06 PM
1

We mock people who believe in childish fantasies. Even women. That shit is embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:05 PM
1

Sure it is possible. You just have to be sufficiently motivated, usually by deprivation. The reason you think it’s unfair is because we’re otherwise used to getting what we want in modern western society — but as we all know, you can’t buy love
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:01 PM
1

Nope. It’s amazing people stay married as much as I they do, considering it’s all voluntary. I mean, have you met selfish, petty humanity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:58 PM
2

Exactly, it’s not natural
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:31 AM
1

Where did I or anyone say “obligated”? So, being upset means we feel men owe us something? That means men must feel owed sex or relationships when rejected then. Glad we cleared that up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:33 PM
2

Some men are more mature/considerate than others. Some aren’t as horny. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:09 PM
10

Please do not get married. If you have to be convinced, you don’t deserve it. Save us all the costs of your weddings, divorces, therapy and dysfunctional children — and of course your pages and pages of complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:02 PM
3

People are doing what they want and not doing what they don’t want, which I find ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:01 PM
1

I’m not going to defer to or pity or mommy you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:00 PM
10

The phrase “the child that does not feel the warmth of the village will burn it down” is thrown around all the time, as is the nice euphemism “redistribution”, as is the claim “men built civilization (for sex)” with the lovely insinuation that they will tear it down if they don’t get what they want, “degenerate society due to female promiscuity” a la Rome Very coy, gents, but we aren’t fooled
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:57 PM
1

Again, where doe this “owe” come from ? I think you mean “judge you for caring about your dick more”, and yes, we can and do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:44 PM
11

Men here describe murder/revenge fantasies all the time about raping and enslaving women. Most mass killers engaged in similar It’s a logical result, and the reason for monitoring of such spaces by law enforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:34 PM
0

It’s unhelpful, wasteful and unfulfilling to you, yes. So own up to it, instead of blaming women: “My dick is the most important thing” We will all respect you more for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:49 PM
3

Which is strange because most friendships with women don’t require men to be wallets or bodyguards or weapons or machines, but men often complain that female friendships are unfulfilling, wasteful and useless because no sex results from them Ah, the human condition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:11 PM
8

I am totally unsurprised by all the gender fluidity you see in kids nowdays, because gender roles suck ass to curious and flexible minds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:07 PM
4

Attractiveness is too complicated for that. It has to be taught and calibrated, and effort isn’t always rewarded. Think of how varied clothing, hairstyles, skin decoration and ideal body shapes are between cultures and time periods. It is often also highly dependent on wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:04 PM
2

I didn’t say it was the only thing, I said it was the most important thing. It’s not surprising that women don’t like being reminded of this, any more than men like being reminded that the most important thing about them is their physical strength or paycheck or capacity for violence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:40 PM
6

We’re pressured and incentivized, aka the carrot and the stick. Conditioning, at least in the classic sense, is creating an automatic response to a specific stimulus. The Pavlovian experiment is a classic example
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:38 PM
8

No, conditioning is a form of training that bypasses reasoning, like Pavlov’s dogs. Vanity is a bit too complicated to become an automatic response, although there is definitely a reward for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:35 PM
-1

Why? No one is telling these dudes to keep being friends with these women. Sure it is devaluing. You yourself have talked about the “use” and “value” of these friendships, and whether they serve you or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:57 PM
9

Fan fiction is allowed on ppd now I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:50 PM
1

I don’t believe there are any stats on this, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:49 PM
23

Why is it criticized? Because women don’t shoot up nightclubs and yoga classes when they don’t get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:47 PM
19

We’re not “conditioned”. We are very conscious of it, and many of us don’t like it. Just like men are pressured/incentivized to be strong and aggressive, and also don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:44 PM
7

Wow, none of those things are in the least bit important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:42 PM
2

I don’t fear women. Ever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:41 PM
13

Yes, men have to be taught, trained and shamed into doing this, as you noted, and expect a reward for doing it, and get angry when they don’t get it. That is opportunistic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:37 PM
3

Again, where are people saying “you owe me”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:36 PM
4

The point of your post is to invite disagreement; why you getting mad at people for following the rules, bro ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:34 AM
2

But you are asking people to change your view. Do you actually not care? If so, you should change your post type
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:41 AM
7

Why not? I’m normal, and most normal people don’t base their self esteem and identity on how many people they’ve fucked — yes, even men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:33 AM
7

Only if you believe women can shoot mind control rays out of their eyes or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:16 AM
16

And men love women opportunistically based on what women add to their life, primarily sex but also service, support, and submission
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:12 AM
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Being annoyed/sad that our pussies are more important than our company/personhood doesn’t mean we think we are owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:10 AM
7

Picking up young, hot, normal women is hard. Fat, slutty, crazy, ugly, desperate, addicted, not young women, not so much I can think of so many more impressive/difficult skills to learn than getting women to fuck you. That is sad that you hold it in such high esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:04 AM
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When has “get a job”, “look good”, “socialize”, “make money”, “be successful” and “make people like you” not been good advice, now? And you can say that all without adding “women can’t love” and “women are irresponsible spoiled children”, which tends to piss women off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:23 PM
2

You’ll find people who disagree with the sky being blue or that lizard people don’t exist. Doesn’t mean it’s a worthwhile discussion to have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:05 PM
2

This is basic information that everyone, throughout history, has been aware of. Because we are visual social animals. Or really, scratch that, because we are animals. Even blind, non-social animals distinguish superior and inferior, which is the basis of sexual reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:33 PM
1

A rebrand of an old concept, just with reversed accountability to favor (usually) men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:29 PM
2

It’s not a cop out. It’s an admission that men won’t. Unfortunately, some women don’t believe this hard truth, because it’s inconvenient or they’re ignorant On the other hand, it is good to remind men of what we expect, so they can’t go whining that they didn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:25 PM
1

Please think a little harder before posting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:24 PM
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