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| 3 | Is this man red pilled ?This guy has more red flags than a May first parade at the Kremlin - RUN! He treats you like an object. He does not show care for you. You are a toy to him, not even a person because he has already removed a lot of your autonomy, for example to CHOOSE YOUR FOOD. He literally sounds dangerous. This man DARVOd you after he overstepped your boundaries and did not show care. He is absolutely redpilled and he will never ever treat you like a partner or an equal, he not only will treat you like a less… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD: How do you prefer a man shows off his masculinity: Thru status and wealth, thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions?Competence and action, showing me survival and adaptability skills. Those are signs of intelligence. A man who betters himself. A man who shows mental development, including the ability to understand that just because women are different and smaller/weaker physically that doesn't mean we're worse. We can make people, you can't do that and that should be respected for the dangerous, body-altering shit that it is. Respect is a key ingredient in a man. It is sadly rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Why don't more young men learn how to validate their own masculinity instead of always depending on the stimuli of women, other men and society at large?what organizations? Are you talking about your friend Andrew Tate and his organization? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?Thank you, I appreciate it and that we can have an adult conversation about these things without making the issue black and white. Truth of the matter is that a lot of people, both men and women, are assholes. I see women do all kinds of evil, stupid, dishonest shit and it makes me a bit sad as a woman to see it BUT it doesn't mean a thing about me, It doesn't affect me in any way that women are assholes and I am a woman. Men are assholes too and there are good and bad men like there are good an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?I claim it's Capitalism. Capitalism has made women in to these hyper-feminine consumers of momentary art and clothes. Women used to make shit, sew and create clothes, food and ART . We ALL used to create things. Now this need to create is channelled into temporary and trivial things like cosplay and makeup. It's all disposable so you have to keep on buying shit. Then they convince women that GROUND ROCK (literally!) will go bad in 12 months so you have to throw it all away when in reality these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:20 AM |
| 2 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?I agree with this. I think using little makeup has worked in my advantage. I am 'pure in spirit, strong in body, hot in the face' and had a long career in STEM, working my way up from the floor, managing loads of men. I de-sexualized myself as much as possible, I deal well with autistic men and nerds and I am the 'big sister' to so many guys, taking tough conversations about personal hygiene and job performance. All done dressed in slacks. But the days.I had meetings I cleaned up, removed glasse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:15 AM |
| 3 | What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man?The first thought is "hmmm, this guy is hot enough to date.! The second though is: "will he treat me with respect. Men who don't respect women will abuse women. That's why we care about respect so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:08 AM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreNo, I am direct. You have absolutely missed the point. It's not about the gift, its about the TOKEN. Since you can neither read nor comprehend this discussion ends here. You are painfully under-equipped for this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:52 PM |
| -1 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?It shows insecurity but if it makes him feel better then I barely pay attention. SOME women like tall men like some men like big boobs. A lot of women don't give a shit and I am one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:33 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreYes we do. We also know psychology and cognitive science. I know you want to believe that this is some personal preference but it is not. You are the abnorm and instead of looking at the data and the studies you decided to lead with your OPINION. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:20 PM |
| – | A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman?Clever of you to leave out SOME MEN. /notallmenbutenoughtomakeitaproblem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?The older I get the more Sapiosexual I feel. There will always be a part of me only reserved for me but I truly appreciate it when a man levels with me and seeks advice. I value that trait in a man, being able to a) identify and b) talk about his feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:36 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreHave you read any studies? Are you operating here from your opinion alone? This person pointed out GREAT insights from anthropology and it went right over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:26 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreI highly recommend the books The Prehistory of Sex and The Science of Sin. Both books go really deep into human impulses and behavior. The Science of Sin is an especially fun read, I bet the audiobook is even better (not often I would say that). They're full of references to scientific research into human behavior and how we function. I studied cognitive science as part of my job in new media communications so I've read a lot of random research into how humans make decisions, our cognitive biase… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:23 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreNo, I feel really uncomfortable when I get gifts unless I choose them myself. I was raised poor and I have never expected anything but birthday and Christmas presents. I fell for a guy because he bought me a Subway on his way back from work. It was his token of affection and consideration. That he thought of my needs and didn't think about the $8 it cost back then. My love language is love. Speaking love, showing love and taking care of each other with love. I know how to love, I know how to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:18 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreThis person loves :-) Yes, I simplified things massively but it all boils down to showing each other that you love him/her with kindness, little thoughtful gifts and consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:13 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreNo, this is not true. If you are an ugly guy there is an ugly girl out there for you. Lower your standards and you'll find that plenty of women want to date you. I sincerely hope you try it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:10 PM |
| – | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreThat statement was based on the repeated posts seen here about how women being single is ruining society. I know most people manage to have at least one long-term relationship in their life and that marriage can be wonderful just like it can be miserable. Yes a good portion of women wants to enter into a relationship even after a failed marriage, I think people act like that's the norm, so when a good portion doesn't want that and remains single we see people speaking about that like it's a prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreYupp, it's literally Survival of the Fittest. Those who adapt to new circumstances survive. Covid19 was a 'refreshing' reminder of that. It saved so many people so much time finding out whether their potential mate was an asshole or not. Personally I don't understand how any man who votes Republican expects to EVER date a woman. He's pretty much just telling her without telling her that he doesn't think she deserves basic human rights. To me it's a clear declaration of misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 12:36 AM |
| -1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreMen are forced to give women what they want. (NO!) Labour, protection and resources are provided to all women gratis Right off the bat you showed that you don't have a clue. Women are abducted, raped and killed on the daily. Just because they are women. They get paid less. The are less likely to get hired - as proven by the new Amazon AI. Nobody is guaranteed a job or a home. Nobody in the US is guaranteed healthcare. Your society barely hangs together. Name something that a woman requires of a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:27 PM |
| 3 | A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman?Let's take a look at your argument. Women initiate divorce. That means women's love is conditional. Women = bad for not loving man more. Reality: Some men mistreat women, make women's lives unbearable. Thus divorce. Nobody divorces for the fun of it. We want love to last and grow. But unkindness and disrespect kills love. I think you just told us why your relationship broke down and your love left you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying such and such is "not a gendered concept"wow, the double standard and misogyny, you can't make up this kind of toxicity and hypocrisy. I don't have civility for this kind of bullshit. You are hypocritical and misogynistic. No need to debate that. Stay away from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:17 AM |
| 3 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?Same as the women. Learn to defend the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:09 AM |
| 4 | A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman?Yes, conditioned on them being decent human beings who treat their partner with respect. +Sorry that's too much for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman?wow, you cannot make these logical fallacies up a decent human being wouldn't be using other people you guys can't even fake being decent lol, thanks for the reminder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.I asked you repeatedly yesterday to tell me who forced you to sign up to the army and STILL you haven't responded because NOBODY HAS FORCED YOU TO DO ANYTHING. You are a toxic hateful incel who is clearly suffering from severe mental distress. Your hatred towards women is not normal. SEEK HELP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Dude, you're paying for it right now in the most expensive yet ineffective healthcare systems on Earth. And we all know your taxes can't pay shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.lol men have NEVER had problem with a pump n dump, not even when it resulted in their own children just be honest about your intentions and not a liar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreI think I know what the problem is - lack of fatherly nagging. In the old days the father would force the son to join him in the work, the women would go do their work and the men would be put to work. Nobody would have gotten away with spending days on end in their room playing computer games and getting out of shape. Men were forced to better themselves, now they have a choice. And the choice often seems to set the ambition at beating the high score, not the bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleReality and data. Women get paid 83 or 87 cents on the dollar iirc. you can then try to justify that all you want but that is what the numbers say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreVIP treatment? What are you talking about? This attitude makes no sense unless you were raised in a household where people could not show love. What you are describing in your attitude is unkindness and disrespect. Are you an unkind and disrespectful man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreSomebody is having trouble with their identity here. You don't have to hate women to like men ,you know. You're allowed to like people and also sleep with men without any of us thinking lesser of you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreI'm oversimplifying yes, but at the end of the day men went out and fetched food and shit while women of course also grazed and gathered but in a group with the children closer to home base or slower than the hunter-gatherer men. It's our monkey brain. Of course I have as a premise that there is an intellectual connection. But I was also married for a long time so I know how to keep the love flowing. Until I got sick and he divorced me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreI love it when people try to argue against biology and studies. We humans are bloody magpies that fall for shiny things. Women decorate themselves with shiny rock. Think about it and get back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleSo your problem is that you don't find women attractive anymore? Wow, women must be devastated lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleThank you for sharing. Your perspective is very valuable and I hope you make a post about it. I'm tired of the endless entitlement here for women or "society" (code: women) to care about men's sexless plight. As if their hornyness should be our problem. Sex-robots can solve this and I think they should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleThe go fuck a man. They're more than willing. YOUR sex drive should not be women's problem. That's a YOU problem. Stop being so entitled. You're not owed sex and you're not owed a relationship, especially when you don't want to put in the work to get it. Besides, with that hateful view towards women you're obviously a guy who will not treat a woman kindly. Unless of course when you want sex. Your perpetual need to fuck is not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleHow do women "win" when their strategy is literally to avoid men because THEY'VE BEEN BURNT. The statistics show us that women will get married once, maybe twice and then choose to remain single after that long relationship? WHY? How is that privilege? The privilege to be disrespected and taken advantage of until you start hating men because you realize most men follow a pattern when they get into relationships: they expect everything to be about them. The woman is there to support him, in his m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleHang on, you think older women don't have active sex-drives and orgasms? Sure it decreases with age but the fire between my legs still burns hot and I feed it regularly ON MY OWN. Because I don't have the patience anymore for bad sex with selfish lovers. That's your 'non existant' sex life, it is very active, just not with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Older men like younger women but how true is it that younger woman actually like older men?No, most young women do not like older men and find them creepy. It is UNCANNY just how many older guys prey on girls aged 12-15. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleWhy do men here whine so much over women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleBecause men want sex more than women. Because men seem to be perpetually horny they will keep on paying in hope of sex. While men keep the transactional sex-economy going there will be grifters willing to take advantage of that just like there are a million guys out there hoping to take advantage of some girl's daddy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:43 AM |
| 13 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleYou're generalizing from your subsection of society. If I'd take my whole highschool and do a status check there would maybe be 10 women that fit your description and they'd all have mental issues and addiction problems. The transactional culture I notice in many places is not my reality. But I see what its about and where it stems from: poverty and lack of opportunities. When women have opportunities to make their own money they usually do it. unless they like being sex workers and having excha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:10 AM |
| 36 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleSo 'ridiculously unrealistic' that she prefers to remain single. That is what the data shows us, that is what OLD shows us. Men don't seem to be able to live without women but women seem to be able to live just fine without men. That's a big part of the whining on this sub: complaints about precisely this. OP's logic doesn't hold. Women still get paid less than men yet women are BUYING homes at twice the rate men are. Where is men's money going? ON THEMSELVES and bad investments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:06 AM |
| 11 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleI was so surprised when I moved to the US and saw this culture in action. I come from a country where all girls grew up with dreams about their education or career. Coming to the US was like travelling through time back to a time where sex and the expectations for sex were the currency and the expectations for women were to land a guy who bought them presents. Capitalism sure has done a number on US women. They've been sold so much consumerism and told to direct their creativity into makeup, som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 10:18 PM |
| 22 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleThis is wrong and the data proves it. Stop projecting your own feelings onto women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?I'm still waiting for the story of your plight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?I'm comfortable. Start your story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?I'm still waiting for answers on my questions. What army were you forced to join? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?This is the price of deadbeat dads and your taxes are not funding any welfare queens. Your meager tax contribution pays for your own services and for keeping poor kids fed and out of crime. Your delusions about women have reached a level that needs expert intervention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subYou need medical intervention. I'm not trying to insult you or win some debate with you. Your compulsive victim complex and hatred towards women is a testament of underlying mental illness that has nothing to do with women and everything to do with YOU taking responsibility for your own mental health. The way you hate on women is dangerous because you have long lost the ability to be fair and objective. You need help before you become a danger to other people. These negative feelings are not nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 02:14 PM |
| 10 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?When were you forced to die for other people? What army were you forced to join? What war did you fight in? Your victim complex has reached a level that is delusional. Women don't make wars so stop acting like women are somehow getting an upside from war. Women get nothing but misery from men's wars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?How many women's lifestyles are you currently funding? Your taxes don't count. Women aren't roads and schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?This is an unusually good post on this sub. Just wanted to give you recognition for that. Guys who never go out and meet other guys don't understand what they're doing to themselves. Sweating with other men is a huge part of how men connect with each other, it triggers men's hormonal balance in a totally different way from how women trigger men's hormonal production. You NEED other men just like humans need other humans. It's in our biology to get a kick out of being with other people. That does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 02:03 PM |
| 7 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subNo that is not the claim. The claim here is ALWAYS women and then leaving out when men do exactly the same thing. This sub is a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:54 PM |
| 15 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subOh wow, yet another man blind to his own sex but generalizing about women. This ignorant disdain for women has a name. Misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:54 PM |
| 3 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.Yeah but can't you see that Ukrainian women are getting all the upside of this war /s To act like women are anything but victims of men's wars is a joke. And before some guy trumps up here with bogs stats on Queen Elizabeth I's wars in the 1500 - save yourself the trouble, we believe our own eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?Here we come to another problem and that is lack of initiative. Lack of initiative is a dealbreaker for most women. No woman will choose a man who cannot muster establishing a new hobby where he goes out and meets women (and men) in a mixed setting where his social circle might grow. Like line-dancing or ballroom dancing or costume design/Cosplay or painting or literally WHATEVER. Survival of the fittest means you adapt to the situation and overcome it. A guy has ran the same losing strategy on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?I can tell you what the problem is here. These 'ugly guys' usually have also rejected ugly women. Women they deem too fat or too problematic to date. When we dig into it we hear that they actually COULD date if they lowered their standards. But they don't want to do that They want the above average women they fap over to drop their standards. They expect women to drop their standards and date them, but won't do the same for the women who want to date these guys. ed. this is so hard to put into w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:50 PM |
| -3 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?Or guys from this sub showing up in our message inbox with insults or doxx attempts. It's pretty tiring and it is abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?I want to address this attitude towards social security. Where I'm from people are well aware of the rare extreme cases of 11 kids on welfare BUT we also know that the average family has 2-3 kids and that social security is what keeps the poor from crime and hunger. Remember Freakonomics and the correlation between Roe v. Wade and drastically dropping crime stats some 13-14 years later? Social security keeps crime down. That's why we have it there, also because that's the humane thing to do and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?I don't even know where to start with this BEING ON OLD IS NOT DATING!!! JFC if you want to meet women you do not do that online. This is a trap and you fell for it for a whole decade?? I'm baffled here. What have you done to meet women in the flesh? What hobbies do you have on the regular? What is your self-growth plan in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownDid she raise their kids and also have a job? Why do you think it was "his" house and not "their" house? Why do you think he should get the house if she's left raising the children? Should he care more about the house than where his kids live? This mentality is so telling, the kids are worthless, it's all about "his" house and making sure she doesn't get to "steal" it as she RAISES HIS KIDS FOR FREE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?Where are you getting this idea from? Americans in general are not hot property in Europe. Y'all have very antisocial ideas about how to live in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:37 PM |
| -1 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?Your definition is lacking half of the equation. Baby-trapping is also done by people who force their kids to have children. It is a fairly common abuse tactic. A LOT of domestic abusers don't start abusing their spouse until she falls pregnant. It is a known abuse pattern to baby-trap women like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Is pre-selection actually real?Again, just your emotional opinion because your prefrontal lobes haven't yet matured into understanding that different doesn't automatically equal lesser than. Just because you can't read scientific studies into male herd behavior that doesn't mean I can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:14 PM |
| -8 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?We don't call it first, second and third world anymore. That classification became obsolete sometime in the 90's. It is now called Western countries or Liberal Democracies. And we can more than make up for the dwindling birth-rates with immigration. It's more economic that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Is pre-selection actually real?Yes this is true and it is true for BOTH sexes. How about you KTSE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:07 PM |
| -7 | Is pre-selection actually real?lol, this makes literally no sense considering how gullible male army's are. Men are way more likely to be authoritarian and blindly follow a strong leader. When you pull misogynistic opinions out of your 'hat' all you're showing us that you're misogynistic and blind to your own genders biases. There is nothing as emotional as a man. Just a little disparaging word on his manhood is needed and you'll see a full-fledged emotional meltdown. Mass shootings are nothing but deadly tantrums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownThat is precisely what the evidence is showing us. That for women, financial strife is not reason enough to settle down with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownCite your sources. Where is that data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:50 PM |
| -5 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownHow exactly? Besides being incentivized by having a shitty spouse. You mean women being able to feed themselves is a reason to leave? Because you're not being kept a prisoner anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownYou don't think both people get the equity and can then buy a home? Or that the house stays where the KIDS are being raised - by a person who is doing it on top of their primary job as a breadwinner. I'm so tired of the endless "BaD WoMaN StEaL MaN's MoNeY" then in reality women are way better with their finances despite getting paid less and being penalized for becoming parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:48 PM |
| 0 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?the birth rate is fine You're just mad the 'right' people aren't being born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:40 PM |
| 0 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?Oh yeah, there's a real surplus of women in Asia.... no wait, the only places where there is a surplus of women are University towns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:38 PM |
| 4 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?roflmao, where are all those men rejecting to be used? Maybe where you are from that is the poverty-dynamic but where I'm from women work for their own salary and thus don't need a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:38 PM |
| 5 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?I predict we'll have more US women trying to marry to Europe, Canada or Australia in order to afford to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:33 PM |
| 12 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”Not maintaining basic hygiene will drop someone below average faster than you can say foreskincheese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How did the famous Meghan Trainor end up in a happy marriage? The red pill said she would be alone now.For the longest time he has dated women his own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:50 AM |
| 16 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?No lies were told here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?see, the person you replied to has an intellectual connection to his wife. If that's not you then you'll be happy with some food and a nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doNo. That is not the reason. Please listen to women, they have told you what the problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"No, that is not what the studies have shown us. They DO want children, they just can't afford one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 08:32 PM |
| 3 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"Aside from people who don't want to have children there are plenty of people who want kids but can't make it work on their current salary or because of lack of childcare and because how expensive it is. A driving force behind the falling birthrate is lack of daycare and support to meet up with the lack of the father's part. Most of the West solves this with immigration OR better system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isI mean, rejecting a guy can literally get you killed or attacked. Women are drugged at bars and clubs on the daily. It is bloody dangerous to be a woman in a lot of places in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:28 PM |
| 8 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysThank you. I'm so tired of these sexually frustrated posts here. The misogyny shines through all of them and yet they claim to be "nice guys". No they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysMen don't need any excuses, the don't have standards. Joining in on the generalizating game here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysWhy? This topic is moot. Yet another poster whining over not enough sex while outing his own misogyny. There is no elaboration needed. Women do not need to justify not having bad sex with average guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:53 AM |
| 0 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysYou are projecting. I see why you're rejected. No woman is going to want to be around a man who clearly has deep resentment towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women faceYou clearly have not read anything from the period. Your ignorance is STAGGERING and quite embarrassing for you. Women were beaten, jailed, raped and institutionalized in this process. They had to fight tooth and nail for it in many arenas, from royalty down to factory workers. Men have never given women anything freely, it always comes as a price and in this case most men simply did not want to grant women this power. But since women could easily prove they were just as clever and self-righteou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:41 PM |
| 5 | What does agreeable mean to you?I agree. A lot of the 'agreeable' people I know are simply people who can't speak up for themselves and expect other people to shoulder that role. Then they often develop resentment towards situations or people because they didn't speak up. Some even resort to petty revenge to 'get back' at people who they feel slighted them in a situation where it was their own goddamn responsibility to speak up. Agreeableness as defined by the personality-test literature is not necessarily what people mean in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What does agreeable mean to you?Yes, because we are used to men abusing power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:22 PM |
| -4 | What does agreeable mean to you?Oh yeah, it's the woman's role to fend off abusive tendencies. It's hers to stop his innate urge to abuse. Right? That's what you're saying, that he will abuse and that it is hers to defend from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:21 PM |
| 7 | What does agreeable mean to you?Because of experience. Because we've met this guy and seen his demands. He's a stereotype. A guy who puts "agreeable" in the description is saying "agrees with me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:20 PM |
| 9 | What does agreeable mean to you?You are the one who is assuming this is what the guy who wrote the advert is asking for. Women know very well that when a man says that he is saying "does as I want". It is euphemism like how some will use "traditional" to mean "the woman takes care of the house".... except they are not the sole breadwinners and expect their wife to also work a full job on top of the at-home work. Y'all talk as if we haven't lived with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 7 | What does agreeable mean to you?It means "does as I want and tell her" It means "puts me first". Massive main character syndrome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Ladies what do you think of Andrew Tate?He's a horrible human being. Anyone talking about him having "good points" is like talking about Stalin having "good points" All it does is show who here loves horrible people who think owning slaves is ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Ladies what do you think of Andrew Tate?The man is a criminal. There is no "loving him" unless you think owning and selling people is ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]No, I cited my sources. I was clear about where I had read the stats. Iceland is a pioneer in research into DV. You're just mad because you can't refute what I said, because you can't work Google translate and because the stats are irrefutable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 02:33 PM |
| 0 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Of course I do. You clearly did not follow the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 01:00 AM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?Here we come to the difference between the US and European political systems. The European systems are pluralistic and have proportional representation and a run-off for presidential elections. Typically governments have majority rule behind them or they have to negotiate issues through parliament. The US is much more Elitist with its FPTP electoral system that creates a combative environment of constant swings and undos where left and right are constantly battling. The electoral college is extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 09:14 PM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?Let's regulate plastic packaging as ratio of product size and put a return-fee on batteries like we do on aluminum cans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 09:06 PM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?No. The US/Trump handled it worse than most countries. You guys still have a weirdly high death-rate and especially long-covid rate compared to European countries, which are the countries you should be measuring yourself against, not Mexico and Brazil. Some European countries also royally fucked up like the Belgians and Brits with their nursing home casualties and Swedes with their "herd immunity" approach that killed at least extra 1000 people compared to Norway and Denmark (per capita calculat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 09:05 PM |
| – | Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level?Have you met smokers and obese people yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 09:01 PM |
| 0 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Here is one of the reports, there was one on domestic violence specifically, I hope you read Icelandic. https://reykjavik.is/sites/default/files/ymis\_skjol/skjol\_utgefid\_efni/skyrsla\_starfshops\_um\_aldrada\_og\_heimilisofbeldi.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:55 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?The same applies to micropenis as women with vaginismus or have had their cervix removed. You have to make it up in other ways. Unfortunately guys with a small penis don't seem to put effort into foreplay and tongue play to compensate. If I was taken care of first then I'd have no problem taking care of him, but it's more like with the guys with big dicks who think that's all that's needed. Men with large penises are the WORST lovers I've ever had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]We've often discussed it here that men who claim to be rejected have actually had chances to be in relationships but decided to not lower their standards and "deal with that". Could it be that you fall into that category, that upon closer inspection you realize that you have also rejected people because you have standards that were not being met by that woman who wanted a relationship with you? This would bring me to the question of whether you have gotten a clear image in your head of what kind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentI get what you are saying but you fall into the same pit every poster here does; You measure women from the scale of men. You expect women to be men, set yourself as a benchmark and women are the anomaly. The Second Sex. Women value security and partnership over sex Yes sex matters but not nearly as much as it does to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:13 PM |
| 2 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Bitter, jealous, full of blame, accepts no responsibility, acts entitled and expects to be treated like King even though he's accomplished nothing. The anti-go-getter, the entitled-bitter-wait-er. Often fatalist. Usually out of shape bc he has no initiative or self-discipline. Has a million excuses to be kind to himself. Expects to get through life with minimal effort where other people pick up his slack. That's the type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Yeah, just deny the statistics and the reports we have from the emergency rooms and the police. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]It is uncanny how easily you brushed past the power-imbalance and domestic violence that's rampant in those relationships - based on the data. Sure some of them work but a lot of them don't and I'm not giving any reject man the benefit of the doubt. If the ugly women here don't want him then there is certainly something wrong with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Are we dating the same guy/girlI'll deal with it right after we deal with 4chan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Are we dating the same guy/girlI refuse to take this discussion until we are allowed to talk about free sharing of revenge P on guy's subs. Women protecting themselves from swindlers and rapists is nothing compared to that - but of course we're not allowed to talk about that here. The mods won't allow posts that talk about anything related to power imbalances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:34 PM |
| 7 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]I agree. We should not assume by default that this is an abusive relationship. I have anecdotes of both horrible marriages and pretty good ones, ratio is 4/2 from what I know personally. I have served in city politics and this was one of the human rights issue we had to deal with, setting up procedures to help these women, securing translators etc. It was a big enough problem to warrant a special response team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:42 PM |
| 4 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Oh really? You see a lot of Western men see this as a first choice and not something they try after all of their friends have gotten married? Because you speak against the data. Usually these men are older than the women they're married, sometimes significantly older. A quick google search showed that the average and median age of men that order 'mail order bride' are in their 40's. So your theory is not backed up by the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:38 PM |
| 8 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]It was a very significant risk factor, in my country several hundred % more likely to have the police called to your house over DV.. As foreigners these women are truly trapped in their marriages. You can downvote me all you want but that is the truth of it. There are decades long studies on this if you cared to google it, these relationships are typically very power-imbalanced in favor of the man and he seems to live up to his standard as a local reject because of his violent behavior. There wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 02:16 PM |
| 16 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Research has shown that there is a higher rate of domestic abuse in "mail-bride" relationships than in relationships of people w. same nationality. These men often use the fact that they are the women's ticket into the West as a levering chip to keep the women battered at home. That's why we look down on these relationships, because we know from experience that the man is usually going outside of his society because women at home didn't want him. He may be what poor women elsewhere are looking f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia?Yet another obsession post about women. You're talking about a closter. It's been done. It's been done all over the world. Women will do whatever the fuck they want to if men stay out of the way. This has all been done before. Not a new idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:38 AM |
| 22 | Q4A what are your thoughts on Deepfake porn?YET AGAIN we see the dudebros with their rage boner gleefully celebrating that women might be hurt by this. It is so telling and unsurprising that they even think women deserve this. This is just yet another form of gender based violence. In this case digital violence. This is impersonation. No ifs ends or "lemme defend ruining people's lives" about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.If I had a nickel anytime a man whined over women not wanting sex as much as men I'd be richer than Elon Musk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do people ignore the possibility of rape in cases of abortions and child protection money?There is no boom in false accusations, cite your sources other than the blackpill community. The fact of the matter is that most sex crime, not even violent SA gets investigated. Male cops don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:40 PM |
| -3 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashlol "female predatory nature on men" HAVE YOU LOOKED AT THE SA STATS? At the same time guys here complain that women won't couple with them - how does that fit the predatory nature theory? I'd love to hear you elaborate on how women pray on men and not the other way around. Bring the crime stats and start your presentation. I'm all ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashThat's the right thing to do. This sounds like some royal upfuckery. I'm glad to see your current-events contribution fly though approval, until now all of my attempts for such posts have been rejected for being "off topic" while being completely on topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 0 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?Here again we see a conflation of two unrelated things and a massive sense of entitlement. You expect women to have the same mating strategy as men and then blame women for not doing their half of the approaching - when women do not see that as a problem. They are not approaching men equally because women are not equally driven to want men. You truly need to stop expecting women to be like men and want the same things as men and blame them for not wanting the same things as men. Very few women e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:59 AM |
| 0 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?lol, I tell you to stop whining and now I'm in my feelings? you cannot make up the toxicity even if you tried. Stop projecting all of this hatred onto women. You are the person who controls your own happiness. The level of resentment you're showing towards women is unhealthy. You truly need to take a step back and examine your motives and actions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 12:14 AM |
| -5 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?Can you guys stop with the projection here? I'm so tired of you guys endlessly shitting on women telling us, but mostly yourselves, how women are so mean and bad and yadayada yet you can't live without women and the reason for your bitterness is that you fall into the category that is up for discussion here: rejected men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 11:57 PM |
| 0 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?Women get with average guys on the daily. These endless complaints only show us one thing: Men don't want to better themselves. Men don't want to change. While men aren't changing women keep divorcing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 11:55 PM |
| – | Sexual domination and our monkey brainThis here is a must read on monkey-human mating strategies https://www.meer.com/en/64499-harems-and-reproductive-strategies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).or leg day, lots of leg days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?No. There are men in my life who mean well and are decent guys who suck at dating but they are not otherwise mate candidates because they suck at hygiene, carrying their own weight, having initiative, bettering themselves etc. They are emotionally stunted and don't want to put in the work. They expect women to mother them, playing the helpless geek role and it ain't cute. It's manipulative and selfish and that's why all of those guys strike out very early every time they start to date somebody. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women faceWow, I am amazed by your ability to rewrite history. You are DELUSIONAL, I am a political scientist and I don't even know where to begin to correct this nonsense you seem to belive. Women striked, protested, wrote and spoke and were beaten, raped, jailed and silenced just like you guys are doing with your downvotes, trying to rewrite history with men as the good guys. This is just childish and frankly, reveals stupidity and an inability to step outside of your own confirmation bias. https://hist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?When men shame other men for seeking mental help I am going to speak up. It is cruel when men do this to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?Of course you'd think that. You know better than anyone else what everyone else is thinking. I took one look at your profile and saw you shame women for seeking help for mental health issues while men keep offing themself because they don't seek help. Shame on you for shaming men out of seeking help. You capture toxic masculinity - willing to shame men from seeking help that would save their lives. smdh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:56 PM |
| -4 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?Here you reveal a massive misunderstanding about women. WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO SECURITY. THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO THE MAN THEY LOVE. *mindblowing* The nice man is NOT second best, he is THE best choice. Your whole 'second best' theory is ridiculous self-victimization. We ALL are trying to select the best mate for us and that means some people will reject you while other people will want you. Once you're in the 'functioning mate' category what matters is personal connection, friendship, respect and p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Help me understand this guy: The guy that tells everyone whether he would or would not fuck that woman.Yes, the obvious non-kveen-kveen is the female equivalent. I grew up with one and she uses her EEA passport to import men from Africa to have cute babies with. Then they beat her and cheat and she acts all surprised that they're used to thinking that's normal. So we're going for overcompensation? Preemptive rejection? Cuz I think it is more than that, I think they might be casting feelers for comradery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?It's clear that truth hurt somebody's ego here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 10:28 AM |
| 12 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothNotice that even despite the favorable gender-ratio women still don't sign up for OLD. The mystery here is why average men keep signing up and swiping and thinking it will lead to something. If these and other mating-statistics teach us anything it is that women do not like to be treated like items on a McDonald's menu, selected by the pictures alone. If men want to get into relationships with women they are going to have to approach women 'the old fashioned way' by reading body-language and usi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothI live in a very small dating market and check out Tinder maybe 1-2x a year if I need a date for something. I notice that I get first shown handsome new guys and guys that have previously swiped on me before so when I rejoin I have matches waiting. There's a clear pecking order with quality diminishing as I swipe through the deck of cards available in play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothwhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 0 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?It's hard to choose. Once a popular guy asked me at a school dance if I wanted to dance but didn't listen when I said sceptically "with you?" and said "then go dance" then he realized what I said and looked so stupid I couldn't help but laugh The thing is guys have repeatedly pre-emptively tried to use "I wouldn't fuck you if blabla" so often that it is hard to choose. Totally pre-emptively because I was beating them at a debate contest. Once a guy lied that I had slept with him and I confronted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 09:40 PM |
| -1 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women faceJust as when men supported women to vote and build careers, they did it also for themselves. Women took the right to vote. It is a common misconception that it was somehow granted, it was not. It took decades for women to get the right to vote and reviewing writings of the era it is clear that many men expected that the men would control their wives votes. They saw it as a way to double their own political power. I don't know where you guys are getting the idea from that men peacefully and grace… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Men have difficulties and inequalities that deserve recognition, but I struggle to take them seriously when it's often used to undermine issues women face"no one really cares" Welcome to the world of special interests. Some people will care while most won't. I think the failure here is to expect other people to care and do more than you about an issue that burns on you. Women unite and put their collective efforts into solving women's issues, men do not typically do that. They expect "society" to care enough to solve the issue for them i.e. for other people to somehow shoulder that burden without pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Is the bar really “in hell”?It's still Cris' fault for everything Chris does. Guys like Chris pray on young women with low self-esteem who don't know how to set healthy boundaries. Then he love-bombs and creates a physical connection to get hr physically hooked on him. Then he gradually breaks her down mentally. And finally then he'll start being physically abusive. It is far from obvious while it is happening, especially if you've grown up with a father that beat your mom. This is like blaming the elderly for being the vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Where do you hang to witness that? Because on this sub I have not seen a single post about men's height from anyone but men but I've seen plenty of posts from men about men's height and women's weight. All negative towards women of course. This whole discussion reveals a lot of expectations from men for women to give a crap about what men think. OP seems to think that women are not getting dates because they've become too fat. That is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Threading a needle and sewing on a button is too complicated for you? Is this a joke? Serious question. To me this attitude capsulates weaponized incompetence and is a deal-breaker to most women. If you know how to google "how to fasten a button" you know how to fasten a button. Not knowing how the simplest things are done is no excuse not to do it when your buttons fall off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Who cares what you want? These women certainly don't. Why do you think you have any input into how women choose to be? Women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do American women seem to be dissatisfied with the quality of American men?You just repeated what you said earlier and added no arguments or data to back that up. Cost is a factor in dating for loads of people, you're generalizing from your own situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | For the men who follow Tate, do you believe that you have the same strengths as Tate? Do you live up to his standards?Men think "dominant" means "wife-abuser" and that this is TRADITIONAL - to dominate your wife. Remove her "right" to be a person with independent thought. As if the man has any right to make such a determination - it's VIOLENCE. What is a traditional marriage is a division of labor WHERE WOMEN RULE THE HOUSE and men FETCH. For that they were rewarded with or took sex. It did however not mean that the man ruled the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Is the bar really “in hell”?So it's women's fault when their mates treat them like shit? Victim blaming at its finest. Of course it is always a woman's fault what a man does. You guys can't even see the irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 09:17 AM |
| -1 | Is the bar really “in hell”?Are you a guy? Is this yet another question directed towards women that all the guys answer and claim they know better than women what women have to deal with. Automod please. Just in the past 24 hours I read 3 different stories from women with boyfriends who don't do shit but play video games and mooch. That is what women are dealing with. Loads of guys are now trying to be "stay at home boyfriends" but instead of running a household they play video games. This is what young women are dealing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 09:16 AM |
| 0 | Why do American women seem to be dissatisfied with the quality of American men?women are not choosing to avoid dating men because of healthcare or childcare costs mind elaborating on that? Women are choosing not to have children because of cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beNo. There are plenty of ugly/short/stupid guys out there with ugly/short/stupid girls. Lower your standards and dating will not be a... well, it will have different problems. But you'll be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 11:27 AM |
| 8 | Why do American women seem to be dissatisfied with the quality of American men?BINGO The US ultra-capitalist system punishes women with no maternal/parental leave, no vacation time to speak of and no sick or kid-sick days like we have in Europe. I find American workers' rights to be an utter joke and American women (and immigrants) have drawn the short end of the stick, but especially women because of the whole baby-making and home-running demands. Not that things are much better in Germany, European women (esp. Russian) are also holding back on having kids and settling do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?No, oxytocin is measurable in the bloodstream, there are fMRI studies w. blood tests that show this. It's like The Scientific Method has never been mentioned here before. Why are you trying to refute the evidence? We can pull other research that shows this very thing through other ways like who will stick with their spouse after they get sick, a pure measure of loyalty and bonding. Men are 20x more likely to leave their sick spouse and that ratio shoots up to 95% for cervical cancer=No sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?You based that opinion of yours on what research precisely? You speak against the evidence so you are going to have to back that false statement up with a valid citation. Women do not remarry, they'd rather stay poor. That is not hypergamy. What you call 'hypergamy' most people call 'selecting the best mate for you'. Men's hypergamy revolves around looks and a woman that supports him, not a partnership. That's why women don't remarry and your hypergamy theory falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?They are the happiest of all men. They get most paid of all men. They have the most sex of all men They eat better food They're in better health They typically get more out of a marriage than they put in w. total work hours counted - those include work at home and taking care of your kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Oxytocin = one-sided relationships for women?Absolutely, no doubt about that women have more loyalty. The "will your SO leave if you get sick" stats prove that. Considering that women lose quality of life in all other areas than marriage status when they divorce it is clear that the reason is not hypergamy. Hypergamy would be levelling up as fast as you can. Women are not doing that, they take their time. Many men here treat women like subhuman because they don't have the brain development to understand that different does not mean you aut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.Most men eventually develop the emotional maturity in their prefrontal lobes o be able to connect with women as people. When guys talk like this I know something is broken in their empathy regions. Are you perhaps also a libertarian? That seems to be a common political stance around these quarters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.But probably not dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.There is also this weird thing in some cultures where everybody kicks off in mob violence. Trevor Noah has spoken about this iirc but also Serpenza (the South-African motorcycle youtuber who is now being chased by Gyna after showing us how things really look and work over there) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 0 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beCite your sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 12:29 PM |
| -2 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beThere is a huge difference between being muscular and thus indicating that you're in good physical health vs. reaching the 6-pack level. Dad bods are muscular men with a little pouch, they're not the dad bods beer guts of guys in their 40's and 50's, the 'dad bod' young women speak of is a sign of having enough calories but still not being out of shape. Whatever the causation-correlation here the pattern holds, just like being severely overweight is connected to mentality and lifestyle choices w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beI believe that is a general trend. Also because dressing up often includes signals to the opposite sex that we're open to mingling. One of the classiest party tricks I've ever seen was a NYEve party where the host took a moment a little after midnight to tell everyone that we're gonna level up the party by buttoning one button down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beyou did not answer the question. These guys clearly had a type then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:54 AM |
| -1 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to bewe all are, but sometimes being approachable is better than being attractive. Being well put together with an obvious sense of color or flare. Like James Bond had but wearing sweats and yeezys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beI'm mindblown it's almost as if there's a thing called pretty privilege and that it applies to both men and women. But actually more to women than men because men care more about looks/genes, women care more about the mate providing security to raise the offspring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:23 AM |
| 0 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beWhere are you getting this from? Have you had a long experience of having a six-pack and hitting on women? Because I distinctly remember reading a study back in 2011/12 on women choosing men with dad-bods over men with six-packs because of the vanity and work it represented. There was also a link between a 6-pack vanity and cheating. Turns out most people cluster around being average looking and for women grooming matters more than looks because grooming shows he's got self-discipline, self-pres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Women are rude to men without consequencesMoving to the US all of a sudden men came out of nowhere ordering me to "smile more". Like wtf dude, I don't owe you any gestures other than this middle finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Women are rude to men without consequencesWhat are you doing to stand up for women's rights - let's take an important thing like abortion rights - how many rallies have you been to? How much have you donated? What have you done exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Women are rude to men without consequencesIt's like you haven't ever paid attention to how men treat women. Whoosh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menDude, it's a sign you need to up your game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYIf you get fired because of unproven accusations then you have a legal case on your hands. And such a case would be MUCH easier to win than any revenge porn case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Do you deep down see women as equals? Noone deep inside believes that, starting from internet edgelords, ending with international law-makers. Are you saying all men see men as superior? That misogyny and disrespect is ingrained in all men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men?You guys never fail to misjudge women and project onto them your own inner workings. Women do not care whether the guy was a pitcher or a receiver, that distinction is a huge deal for MEN, not women. Women do not want a bi man for the same reason they don't want to date a man that's much hotter than themselves: Because they (rightfully) assume that since he has more options he is more prone to stray. They are saving themselves the heartache of having a boyfriend/husband who fucks men outside of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men?What is this "dominated sexually" bullshit??? Is sex only a power game to you? Normal, not-homophobic, not-misogynistic people call this anal sex. If you see sex with a woman as dominating her then I hope you stay single and fuckless for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 12:32 PM |
| 18 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYIf somebody is getting fired over anything there then there was either something wrong with his behavior or he has a wrongful termination cashout coming soon. If somebody thinks these groups are "ruining their chances in a whole area" as the guy is currently claiming then there is clearly a story there that ruins his reputation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do?Do you build up a lot of women? Seriously asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do?Based on what? Antidepressant use? You clearly are no scholar and no scientist. Read the happiness and life-fulfillment studies - women score higher than men throughout their lives and while married people are happiest the difference between single and married women is just a varying degree of HAPPY. The same can not be said for men. They let their depression go undiagnosed and thus measure as unhappy. Untreated depression is not the 'win' you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do?You are jumping to wild conclusions assuming it's single women taking antidepressants and not the married ones - or that the ratio might be equal. If you have a problem, then take a drug for it and the problem then goes away then that problem is considered treated/under control and not a problem anymore. What is a problem is untreated unhappiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do?No, that is not what "the stats" are showing. The stats show women on average being much happier than men. The drugs are working AND women are happier than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Feminism has not evolved into hating men, some women do but that is usually based on some scarring experience involving a man. Many of these women will date again when they meet the right man for them. What you see as hatred is frustration. Women are frustrated with men. Why? Because we feel that men are trying to take advantage rather than be our partners. We're frustrated by all the cops committing crime specifically against women and how they protect rapists and wife-beaters. That's the kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Rarely do I meet a person that shows interest in their appearance and is also deeply unhappy. An unhappy person usually goes through the motion but doesn't get joy out of many interests. It is a person that gets joy out of feeling persecuted. Not speaking about people going through normal grief after the death of a loved one but people with long-term unhappiness and depression. The body produces hormones that control our mood. If you eat and do the things that make the body produce those chemica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Besides sex, do you even like women?People with different Olympic medals are equal. They're not the same but they're equals. If you can't see women's qualities as different but equal to men's then that is misogyny. An inability to see women's qualities and contributions as equal translates into disrespect in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:15 PM |
| -1 | Besides sex, do you even like women?But you took it off Tinder and went on a date or met up somehow. I qualify that as dating. Staying on Tinder without actually ever going on a date, that's not dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.No, that makes them more susceptible. OP was partially correct, Russia already did this. Except the Russian girls and the GOP incels (weirdly incels are usually right leaning, at least the violent ones) had kids and the girls found live with a conservative bleep to be more tolerable than life with a Russian alcoholic. Remember, Putin has been waging a war on women, essentially decriminalizing domestic violence. Which is why Russian women are staying single and glad when their husbands are now ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.The Russians however... just look at the GOP. IT ALREADY HAPPENED! /s (I'm having waaaaay too much fun on this thread. Gotta commend OP for originality, his brand of Incel is a breath of fresh air compared to the usual frustrated basement fart ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:43 AM |
| 9 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.awww buddy, you have a problem with feelings. That's on your end, not ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:41 AM |
| 1 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Alright Quisling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Just out of curiosity, why are Redditors so up in arms and worried about incels compared to other social media such as tiktok,insta,and twitter?Reddit makes fun of everything, of course incels are among them as well as nasty guys that think they are nice. There are also plenty of incels on Reddit so we stumble upon them frequently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Yet nearly every woman you meet has a story of a situation where her security was in danger or she was sexually harassed. I don't think I even need to discuss the conviction rate for rape around the world. Out of reported rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How much pleasure do women feel?I'll repeat this again, hoping it will find its way into the heading of this group at some point. Men's reproductive drive is to 'spread the seed', women's reproductive drive is to 'secure survival of the offspring (and yourself if you can'. Men here keep forgetting just how dangerous sex has traditionally been for women (and still is in large parts of the world). When something is likely to either kill you or leave your body permanently damaged then it makes perfect sense that women guard sex. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”I just summarized your logic and just how foolish it is and you missed that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Are you a man? Because you are being emotional and stupid right now. This is your "logic". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:41 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”roflmao, you can't even hide the childish misogyny. MEN ARE SLAVES TO THEIR PENIS. Y'all are endlessly emotional, angry and horny. Don't get me started on the bruised ego tantrums. You are not logical. You are blind to your own emotional instability. Emotional men kill people on the daily, yet you somehow try to pass that off as 'logical'. Your view that you are logical and women are emotional is a fine example of misogyny. You think that because women are different they are "Not as good". You a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Whoosh, you perfectly managed to miss the point that his person was giving. Men. Do. Not. Make. Women's. Lives. Better. That's the answer to this magical question you guys ask here on the daily. WhY ArE WoMeN So MeAn AnD PiCkY? Because you add nothing of value to a woman's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Your ability to see men as this magical being and all women as bland and uninteresting make me wonder if you should be dating these men. Women are better off on their own. There are billions of guys looking to be a sperm-donor, there is no need to take on an entitled man who thinks he's owed sex and domestic services just because of his gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Yupp, based on experience and crime stats I much less likely to assume a woman is about to try to rape me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themOh, some will seek out a woman they hate in order to revenge-fuck her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:56 AM |
| 11 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themWe already discussed Heidi and your warped sense of women's purpose in life. Heidi is happier alone than with the wrong guy, For some reason you see that as a tragedy when women see that as a win. If Heidi wanted to be knocked up by a substandard guy she already could have. She already can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:55 AM |
| 10 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themDYING OF CHILDBIRTH IS NOT "EASY SEX", ruining your body is not "easy sex". SEX IS DANGEROUS FOR WOMEN AND MORE THAN 2 BABIES DECREASE QUALITY OF LIFE. I repeat myself here on the daily. Men here think easy-sex is the goal of life. Women think having viable offspring is the goal of life. Men want to create as many babies as possible, women want to keep said babies alive, as well as themselves. Men have never cared about how dangerous sex is to women. Hell, they use it as weapon against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?I wish I could offer lesbianism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?haha that's some heteronormative myth right there. You have literally no comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysIt is so typical that men think women are wasting their time and youth when they're simply focusing on their career and building a life. She is looking lfor something specific, you don't 'win' the love of your life if you don't at least put yourself out there. She clearly prefers being single to being with the wrong guy and I think more people should do that instead of trying to make things work just to fulfil the biological urge to pass on the genes. When a person lives a childless life that li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Do men really get better with age?It is funny how only the older guys here speak of personal development as a factor in becoming better with age. All the boys are just focusing on physicality as if that's a measure of 'better'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Do men really get better with age?It is adorable to see boys here whoosh over personal growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Do men really get better with age?YES! Young mens prefrontal lobes are underdeveloped long after they've reached adult size, making them literally like big children/teenagers long into their 20's. Personally I think men that have reached the most personal growth are fathers over 40, not the stubborn ones, the one that keep learning their whole life through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysThis sub is not for any discussion, it's just guys whining because they've had a bad experience with a woman and then can't get/hold women. Most men here seem to think the ultimate goal in life is to get as much casual sex as you can. That worldview is shallow and pathetic. It demonstrates slavery to the little head and is thoroughly unimpressive and teenage-esque. It demonstrates zero emotional intelligence or forethought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I asked Chat GPT how a short man can be more attractive to the opposite sex, and this is what it said.That AI response is human-approved. I also think that it would be good for people longing for a relationship to take tests to examine their inner biases towards the other sex and other races. I think this can be even more productive than getting in-person feedback because it is so easily dismissible as the other person's prejudice, whereas if you take a test you know the results have been vetted and that you're not being publicly or privately shamed. What we then do with this info can either hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:58 AM |
| 5 | Being fatphobic is the same as being racist and sexistIf being fat is not a choice then it is an addiction. And OP is trying to tell us to date addicts or be addict-phobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Being fatphobic is the same as being racist and sexistYou didn't choose to become fat but you chose to eat all the food that made you fat. Or you're simply an addict and in that case you're saying people shouldn't discriminate against dating addicts because it's somehow phobic of addiction. Addiction ruins lives, first it ruins the lives of the people surrounding the addict as well as the addicts life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Being fatphobic is the same as being racist and sexistRace and gender are not something you can change. Your weight IS something you have control over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:46 AM |
| 1 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?He made it personal when he told me I had some character traits he pulled out of his misogynistic dark hole. You guys really need to understand that misogyny is deeply personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:42 AM |
| -1 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?Not the guys here though, the complaints are about lack of sex primarily (with many many post about why men should not commit to women). Most men do want relationships once they hit their late 20's but not before 25, this is what the data shows. Women are more prone to wanting relationships younger (2-5 years younger than men) but then not necessarily want them again once they've had a long one that resulted in children. Economies play a big part in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?That assumption is simply wrong. Most womenDO NOT prefer to be with a mate that is 'out of their league' (more than 2 levels above them in attractiveness). I was just reading about this on Guardian 2 days ago where an article summarized what makes people attractive. Turns out women DO NOT prefer Chad over a reliable, average looking guy. You guys really need to start accepting the data. men care way more about looks than women do, women care about hygiene and safety (emotional and physical) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:56 PM |
| 0 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?No that work is not 'commonly ignored' and y'all are both overestimating men's transition and their estimation of their own contribution which is by both genders over-estimated for themselves - unsurprisingly with men winning the competition who overestimates their own contribution the most and who underestimates the other party's contribution the most. There was a study posted on this recently in r/psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?That is a delusion. Most men are over 30 years of age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:32 PM |
| -4 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?And nowadays, you will more often than not, find a normal and decent male worker who fancies a "nice girl" only for him to discover that she has no desire for him but is having casual monkey sex with the jobless drug dealer or a toxic player. This is yet another anecdotal delusion that you guys keep throwing around on this sub. No women are not getting with the 'drug dealer'. They usually try at least once to establish a relationship with a man and have kids with him, only to be left with all of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?JFC we discuss this on the daily on this sub and yet you guys still don't seem to comprehend that men are A LOT more sex-seeking than women and that only a part of men is 'presentable' enough to 'land' a woman. Men here seem to think that it is normal that women carry more of the workload and while that attitude prevails amongst men they are going to stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 08:29 PM |
| 0 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?And here you are running on behavioralism from mid-last-century. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?Show your sources. There is a huge difference in autism diagnosis between the genders. it MAY be due to testing errors and it also MAY be due to there being an actual gender difference, we are still at the point where we don't know because not enough women have been tested and out of those not enough have been tested positively. You are literally just making up stuff now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?You are confidently incorrect again. I've studied neuroscience and there most certainly are traits that are "female" and "male". While overall the brain is a sliding scale with intersex being in the middle there is a clear UNDER-representation of interesex brains and OVER representation of male and female type of brains (with quite a range within the genders and some men being more feminine than some women). You speak as if behavioralism hasn't learned anything from the 50's or 70's. Neuroscienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:34 PM |
| 0 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?In the name of wokeness you show absolute ignorance about autistic women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Let me get my tiny violin. That ship is going down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?Narrator's voice: They do. To men sex is the most important thing in a relationship with a woman. This is what the data shows. Access to regular sex matters most, secondly that she is kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?To tell you the truth autistic girls/women understand men better than 'normal' girls. They're usually not feminine women but rather the tomboy type who is more comfortable with boys that share similar niche interests. My family is full of autistic men and I share some traits, I am much better at communicating with men than the average or girly-girls. Sure most autistic women don't understand the sports-guy, but she understands the awkward guy much better and shares more of his interests and mann… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 06:35 PM |
| 24 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?I think this is probably the best answer I've seen here so far. Romanticizing men and expecting them to be thoughtful carers and great communicators who treat them like princesses. The "princess" trophe/role is so goddamn toxic and I feel truly sorry for women who enter life thinking romance isn't loads of work and mutual growing up together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 06:30 PM |
| -4 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?So pretty much the same as men except they don't care about who you are as a person to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking womanThat is not a delusion, that is her experience as well as the experience of billions of women through history. Personally I prefer the qualifier "some men are trash". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Let them eat pie charts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?Feel free to try to debate that, this is a well established fact that men occupy both top and bottom end of functionality/success. More men are addicts. More men are homeless. More men go bankrupt and are in financial trouble (despite a large group of women also going into debt they are less likely to default. More men are in prison. Way fewer men are active participants in their children's lives. Single men live shorter lives than married man, that speaks to quality of life I can go on all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Insecure women can still get into relationships, but insecure men will almost never get into one.Not true. All those men acting jealous for no reason: pure insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriageWhen she has to act like your mommy, taking care of your laundry, cooking, cleaning etc. that is a sure recipe that you will have bad sex down the road. Nothing is as unattractive as a man that you have to mother and a man that expects you to mother him. It is mentally and physically revolting. Receiving care is one thing, acting entitled and overstepping the normal line of mutual care is a recipe for a dead bedroom. Ask any woman who has had a bad bedroom, they cite a burning sense of injustice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:49 AM |
| -5 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?There goes another one. We've clearly spotted a signal. Guys that don't get women a) think they do b) don't see the reason why it is dangerous for men to view women as a lesser-species when they're the more functioning party of this species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?You are showing one of the signs. "It's alright to be ignorant and act like women are a separate species. That doesn't lead to us men treating women like a subservient species at all." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:19 AM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?You are taking a question directed to women and spewing nonsense. You were not asked, don't take that opportunity to lie on women. Show some goddamn respect. Many men don't understand the difference between arrogance and confidence. A confident man would understand he was not being spoken to and listen to the women and THEN he'd speak up. An arrogant man would interject some marginally related insult and think he is clever. ed. a letter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women can't be upset at some men telling them to "choose better" if they keep perpetuating the notion of a "Woman's Intuition."HA HA HA YOU ARE SO UNBIASED AND NOT MISOGYNISTIC AT ALL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | “I see average couples everywhere” Okay, what exactly do YOU think think an “average” couple look like?It seems that average is most hot to most people because most of us are average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Q4M - what happens to TRP when you get a girlfriend?Of course you do. It's that time of the month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 6 | I’ve never experienced a woman initiating a romantic interaction in my life. How long can this continue?Most men wanting to fuck you and making that known to varying degrees is not the 'win' you guys seem to think it is. Men are biologically geared to be constantly sex-seeking and often peacock for both men and women. Women are not so sex driven, women are nest-builders that seek security. Being constantly offered unwanted sex is not some easy life. It makes you a target and can be physically dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:28 PM |
| 7 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodhang on, are you really saying that "all normal marriages" function where the woman does most of the work? Yes things are fine and dandy when you live apart and each takes care of themselves, but then you add kids to the equation which means that while the woman will at first do more of the child-rearing the husband needs to step up in other areas. That may include doing a ton of other chores that are needed in order for a household to function. If you expect the woman to still have the career s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:11 PM |
| 8 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodI expect the man to be a partner in raising the children and running the family unit. I wouldn't expect us to do all chores 50/50 but split the chores based on our different strengths and likes/dislikes so there would be an equitable distribution of labor. What do you expect? To not do half of the work and think that the woman should carry rest of the load? Do you understand the sense of entitlement towards women's unpaid labor that is? Do you understand that you are in-effect saying that you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | The difference between manopsherians and everyone else is an acute lack of perceptiveness and intuitionThat was a good answer you got. I can only add that it is a good exercise to try self-depreciating banter. I had real difficulty with that into early adulthood. I was criticized so much at home that even friendly banter felt like an insult and I couldn't really distinguish between the two and always got angry and ran away. Then I learned to play with it, I exercised in my mind how I'd deal with insults and in some cases it is just best to roll with it and instead of denying that you have a beer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:48 PM |
| 7 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodI agree with you. Unless you meet a man that sweeps you off of your feet and makes you feel like you've met your soulmate then you shouldn't do it. It would be different if the biological urges were telling you to have babies. Since you're not interested in that I urge you to use the fact that men are enamored by beauty and take your brains to make something that creates wealth. Capitalize on your beauty while it is fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:38 PM |
| 7 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodbeing a father maybe, but not doing half the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 9 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodIs that really your argument? That half-ass is better than nothing? That it is normal to expect women to do more than half of the work? Please elaborate on your standpoint here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 9 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tThis is not true, behind married couples single women are happiest. Women that were happy before marriage are also happy once they bounce back from the divorce, unlike divorced men that seem to never be able to achieve the same happiness they did in their relationship. Divorced women who choose not to get remarried do so knowing that a happy marriage could make them happier, but the odds are that an unhappy relationship just won't be wort the hassle. Divorced women would rather live in poverty t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:58 AM |
| 11 | Men need to give up on western women and go overseasLabeled? Or simply BEING a criminal because your ego can't handle that women don't want to have sex with you. I feel sorry for the women that are forced by poverty to act like they like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men need to give up on western women and go overseasIs it morally incorrect? Maybe if you believe in that sort of thing, but does it work? Hell yeah. So if you believe in morality and not abusing the poor then you wouldn't do a thing like that but if you're the kind of person to have no morals and see nothing wrong with abusing other people's poverty then it's a gold-mine. Dude, there is a reason no Western whale wants you. You are not good people and people in poverty have no choice, unlike the Western whales that rejected you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:32 AM |
| 10 | I’m surprised they allow purge week on the sub when this week shows how unregulated red pill ideas absolutely stomp all over the blue pillThe whole "Red pill" name is so idiotic when they are the ones that are trying to hold on to patriarchy and how things have always been done while society is moving in an egalitarian direction. Changing society from being male-dominated is what's happening, the change that the blue pill represents is in reality the opposite of what bluepillers represent. It's absurd and sad at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:56 PM |
| 9 | I’m surprised they allow purge week on the sub when this week shows how unregulated red pill ideas absolutely stomp all over the blue pillI couldn't agree with you more. I've posted critical stuff here that has been removed because of some bogus excuse when nearly identical material has been allowed here without hesitation when it suits the mods propaganda. The mods on this sub are highly biased and unable to curb their own authoritarian tendencies. Very much similar to what is happening here during "purge week" which is just an excuse to behave like dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking womanAnd? Let her believe that and keep on moving. Why are some miserable guys so obsessed with taking down confident women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:45 PM |
| 1 | The real reason the manosphere is hated...Of course I find you here :D that explains so much Just how many women are you harassing in messages? | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?Points to beauty industry. Women are also much more likely to go take a course to learn a new thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 02:44 AM |
| 4 | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?You speak as if those very standards aren't applied by most men. KTSE dude, it is embarrassing that you cannot hold that same energy for your own gender. Men expect the woman to take a shotgun seat and support him. Women are looking for a partner, they reject that support role which ultimately leads to divorce. Then the man complains that the divorce came out of nowhere. Looks matter less to women than men. Hygiene matters to women. Having the mental capacity to register that it needs to be done… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:52 AM |
| 6 | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?Guys in my country don't even write a description. They put in two or three pictures, typically doing a hobby such as playing golf, sports-fishing or watching the ball. Absolute minimal effort. Which tells me this is a minimal thought-minimal effort kind of guy. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:47 AM |
| 1 | What does the "average man's" standards look like? And the "average woman's"?man: sex and maid services, will raise his kids and support him woman: security and a father to raise the children with, a partner of equal measure. Men expect to contribute labor/salary and think that is enough. Narrator's voice; it is not enough by her standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenBlablabla tl;dr you are CLUELESS to the dangers that face women and have the audacity to write women's safety off as less important than your feelings - because you want to have the freedom to approach women - and you want to force her to be nice to you because it is so unfair that she is RIGHTFULLY SCARED or, what's more likely, wants nothing to do with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid."abruptly broken up with" give me a break when women file for divorce it is because of pent-up issues that she's been complaining about for years - the top two leading reasons are a) financial or b) unequal division of labor c) disrespect your "abrupt" divorce is him digging his head in the sand and not fixing what needed to be fixed in order for the marriage to work. I've seen it more times than I can count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?You're literally equating the two and don't see the irony. You cannot make this gender-blindness and childish misogyny up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?Zelensky, I always fall for the funny guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:19 AM |
| 11 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?Oh you mean like on 4chan/8chan? Or all the forums where women's NUDE, PRIVATE pictures are being shared by men. Y'all are bothered women are sharing profile pics and speaking from experience yet I have NEVER seen anyone here even mention predatory male behavior. It rarely comes up here and is NEVER the topic of a post. Ed. It doesn't seize to amaze me just how clueless men are about these things. These are not gossip forums but forums set up because too many women have been cheated on or as in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 10:20 AM |
| -2 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?This bothers you? But not the forums where nude pictures are shared of people against their will. Speaks volumes what men care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selectionroflmao, have you met my father? He did my eldest half-sister a favor by being absent from her life. He was mostly absent from mine except when he beat me. I am used to men not giving a fuck or leaving when you need their help the most. That is men to me. When women came out of the woodwork to help me the men I knew disappeared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub?That's precisely why these guys are rejects. Men with their exactly same looks and body-ttpes are doing well with women but 'for some reason' the RP audience takes absolutely no accountability for themselves. They have no responsibility in the matter, it's all the bad womenz that won't fuck them. When in reality they look fuckable enough, it's their misogynistic, self-centered lack of emotional intelligence and blatant sexism that drives women away. When a guy complains here over not getting wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Is it unethical for men to purposely seek out women with less life and relationship experience than them? Why?Intelligence repels both. I earned my way into high-value society and it is so obvious that some of the high-earning guys are always trying to get a good looking girl to match their car while the high-value men always go for brains and looks, with higher emphasis on the brain because those women are never as 'made up' and 'beautiful' as the bimbos. Certain high-earning guys attract gold diggers, high value men usually don't because they see through it in 2 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub?Jealousy is just about the ugliest character trait there is. It explains the sentiments and success of the guys on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub?What you are missing here is the personality traits going along with having nothing to offer. We're looking at the rejects of the world, not because they're that physically unattractive but because they subscribe to futilism and never putting any effort into things, except blaming other people for their own misfortune. Just look at the blame and resentment reeking from the guys on this sub. Brad Pitt would be unattractive with that mentality because he would have let himself go while expecting o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Women don't necessarily want the best men, they just want a guy better than themYes, it is a futile. There is no purpose in bettering yourself as a human, you'll always be second-best to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.It never seizes to amaze me just how prone the male brain is to find fault in everyone and everything but itself. You have control over exactly one person in this world: yourself. If you are not getting picked you can better yourself. Jealousy is one of those ugly character traits people stay clear of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about the type of job you have?social skills over social status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist.You assume a high N count woman would choose a 'beta', I assume she'd pick an alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's?Oh yeah, I surely discriminate when I don't fuck people decades younger than myself. Please don't cancel me for not being a cradle robber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:45 PM |
| -4 | The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist.I won't date a bi guy because I think he is deep down looking for things that I cannot provide and will thus start hiding things. But I would platonic-throuple and cuddle with him and a guy just because it's a fun family dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsI'm still trying to look sexy lighting a goddamn fire from scratch. (Anyone got matches? quick before she sees) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's?what a weird and ageist question Why the f would I want to fuck a child that isn't even good in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Women don't make dating appealing to the below average menYou fail to see that these two things are not the same and both or one can be true at the same time. Men are both whores and hypergamy, the stupid and young ones only value women for looks and sex, can't even distinguish between a smart woman and a stupid one. The smart men do though, and they choose to marry up and to secure a dowry. Your weird definition of hypergamy totally excludes hypergamy and pump'n dump (which is pure hypergamy and a numbers game) When you can't even understand the basic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 06:16 PM |
| 3 | R*peplay is such a common fetish with women because they crave being dominatedYou could believe women when they tell you that they agree with this explanation. I feel it is at least half of why I'd like to be mildly manhandled (while also taking a dominant role at other times). There is way too much stigma related to women's sexual inhibitions and fantasies where women are overpowered remove that stigma. Plus men also have these fantasies where they're ravished by a woman, but they also have these fantasies - that some of them act out to either act like they take a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:13 PM |
| 4 | R*peplay is such a common fetish with women because they crave being dominatedSo you want the fools to start acting out violent fantasies, assuming they are kinks like OP did right there. Guys that cannot understand the difference between fantasy and acting out a kink/fetish don't have any business trying to insert themselves as dominating to any woman. Men that complain the most about women rejecting them are not being rejected because of looks (99%) but because something else is a dealbreaker. Usually it is that these guys don't see women as people but sex objects that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:09 PM |
| 5 | R*peplay is such a common fetish with women because they crave being dominatedI feel it needs to be restated on the top threat that OP is conflating fantasy and fetish/kink. Those two things are certainly not the same or I'd be a convicted bank robber many times over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | R*peplay is such a common fetish with women because they crave being dominatedDude, it is a FANTASY NOT A FETISH. Your whole premise is ether based on misunderstanding or bad faith. I'll edit as the fallacies hit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex as a reward seen as a bad thing ?I believe sex as a reward is now seen as a negative thing because now in this new society we romanticize sex so much to the point where some people see it as an expression of love, as a bonding experience that ties souls rather than just as an animalistic act meant for reproduction and pleasure. If anything modernity, contraception and porn have de-romanticised porn. It used to be way more dangerous for women and thus women had to be lied to in order to have it. Men back then didn't really care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.where did I mention ugly men? I mention "not ugly enough" which is your "average" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Women don't make dating appealing to the below average menThat is a very well documented thing. Men fucking anything that moves and ditching out on their responsibilities. Just because men have been doing that for eons doesn't mean it is't hypergamy, it just means that you're blind to your own sex' behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Women don't make dating appealing to the below average menroflmao, but they are just as judgemental as women with options. Looks like you are looking for a captive audience and are not at all a nice human being. You seem to think the ugly guy is the only one lowering his standards. At least she knows she's better off alone than with a guy that thinks like that. That's not a guy that's looking for the right woman, that's a guy looking for ANY woman for selfish reasons. The way you talk about doing a "favor" being in a relationship with "rejects" like si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:44 AM |
| 24 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.That is precisely the topic of your post. That women are not sleeping with ugly enough men and that somehow bothers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:26 AM |
| 51 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women."yes but she's not having sex with guys like meeeeeee" This sub never fails to go lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.Yes, men would put up with "anything" just to have sex. That has been established. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.I'm sorry you were dropped on the forehead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?In that imaginary world under those imaginary circumstances sure. In the real world where things are quite different. Nah, I'd rather be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women think nice men are least sexually attractive but best for relationshipsThe funny thing here is that OP and men seem to think that this is a negative thing WHEN TO WOMEN IT IS A POSITIVE. Men are sex-obsessed, women way less so except early on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?Look at you guys giving each other bad advice based on your limited experience of women. True brotherhood right there. u/KingWhoCared86 read the room, use ambiguity to your advantage and simply try a little flirting. Some women might discuss a direct shot with a girlfriend or two but light flirting is nothing to write home about. The theory about "poisoning the well" is not based on anything other than fear, there is no such thing because women know that different people fit differently together… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveI'm just glad somebody overcame the graveyard smell. You have my blessings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveDeep down you know that nobody likes you as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 12:20 PM |
| -1 | Playing hard to get is perfectly accepted by women to do. But it's not perfectly accepted at all for men to do and it's a big double standard.You clearly have not dated men. Men play games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractiveNo we could not avoid incels altogether because it has its roots in mental illness. It's not their looks that creates incels, it's their own toxic views along with an environment (parents, other guys) that keep sheltering men from the 'horrible' fact of life that if they want something they're going to have to put work into being better people. And that's too much for them. Thus they blame women and get violent. At the end of the day men's addiction to sex is to blame. Take it up with your own m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.It's not social pressure that's the problem but BIOLOGY. Men are so sex-driven that they cannot thrive without women to have it with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveThey certainly are not not shooting their shot based on personality which was the whole point. Your whole "gotcha" failed on premise. Handsome men hit on me, the ugly ones don't. The men that hit on me can easily find sex elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | All the weight is on men for date ideasOP is clearly a person that values new experiences, he is dating the wrong kind of people. Most relationships I know of the dynamic is reversed, the woman is making sure they go out and do things, especially once they have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 10:12 AM |
| 11 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveMen don't care about personality. How do I know? I'm a good looking woman that's also a borderline autistic overachiever. I'm absolutely not for everyone yet guys keep shooting their shot, knowing I have absolutely NOTHING in common with them. They don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:44 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women are bad at detecting fake confidence, contrary to popular thoughtWhat a misread. They leave him because he won't be changed. He doesn't pull his weight. Recent research shows that while both genders overestimate their own contribution to the common work men TRIPLE the work in their head and overestimate their own contribution at a much higher rate. That's the reason for the breakdown. Not that he too too much guidance. You know nothing Jon Snow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women are bad at detecting fake confidence, contrary to popular thoughtAll people fall for bullshit artists, according to the polls men at an even greater degree than women. They still support the guy that stole state secrets and tried to overthrow democracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | There are two types of men that women hate the most: men with options and men with self control.Do you like being treated as an option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone changed their dating habits as a result of SCOTUS reversal ON Roe v. Wade?I love that this is happening in older circles, that vasectomy is a selling point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save youIt rarely lasted longer than 15 minutes. I could hardly move my hips without it ending in a shake and a whimper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save youBut they fried him in the end though. One thing I will never understand; women that fall for prisoners. Unseen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menI love a little crazy, people that think out of the box. It's not the safe choice but it absolutely is the fun choice. I regret nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menThat's a whole lot of assumptions and claims backed up by one link. Men are CONSTANTLY driven by their feelings, especially their need for sex. We are witness to it here on the daily, emotional men complaining about loneliness and lack of sex. Your premise is false, the whole case falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Most men here complain about (non)access to casual sex, while most women try to answer using long-term relationships.Equating Tinder with dating is your first fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 8 | "My favourite thing about a woman, is she is not a man"As long as femininity is seen as weakness you'll have that rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingThat's rich coming from a digital ginger. Why is your hair the color of chili runs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingAdam Collard did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:12 AM |
| 10 | Men who leave women who make him wait but not other men previously, is not entitlement, and is more than reasonable for the man's own goals and desires.This is a weird obsession with sex, statistics and "winning". Don't get your ego so mixed up in winning, mate. Sex is about a connection for a woman. And she wants to be reassured that she doesn't get 'used for sex' by somebody who doesn't value her as a person. Not having sex is the default option of communication. You argue as if having sex is the default setting for male-female interactions. Think on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:58 AM |
| 17 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?ahh, yet another guy thinking that the male perspective should be the default setting and anything women do is somehow not "very healthy". What is not healthy is being dishonest about your intentions. They are honest, you say you are honest about you looking for sex - but you are allowed to say so but she isn't allowed to prevent both of you a waste of time when she is not looking for that. You are right that she shouldn't have to say it, it is after all "online dating" not online "hookups" or "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:28 AM |
| 27 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?This is precisely the kind of behavior we don't want. She is being upfront about what she wants just like you are about wanting sex, but you somehow think that what you're doing is normal and what she's doing (pre-empting your advances) is somehow bad. You're a hypocrite buddy and precisely the kind of guy that she doesn't want to waste time on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every manWoosh on the part of the study that said agriculture changed all of that so for 12000 years evolution led us down a different route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every manyou are wrong, there have been human and hominid tribes ever since the dawn of humanity. Monkeys live in tribes, all of them. Groups of hunter-gatherers are tribes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every manChimps and Gibbons rape, so do humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:18 AM |
| 0 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Perfect example of the mental pretzels people put themselves through when they expect the solutions to magically materialize. If if could make men's lives better then why wouldn't they voluntarily do it? Because at the end of the day they feel entitled to not doing a damn thing but still having a solution delivered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 11:30 AM |
| 7 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?But men don't want that, they see being horny as being manly. We're still fighting prejudice against snip-ship's because so many men think it makes them less of a man to 'shoot blanks' even when it has no real effect on them except knowing that they can't have kids anymore. Lowering men's libido could be of great benefit to men if men let it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.Tell me you don't see women as people without telling me that you don't see women as people. That was just sad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | What is your toxic dating trait?I think I communication-bomb which scares most people. I don't mean anything by it but I also refuse to not do it. My friends appreciate it, those who are afraid of it are generally scared people prone to limited thinking. ed. I want to switch fast to voice, I hate typing, it wastes so much time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Only thing that make men need women more is sexBut nobody would ever confuse an icel with a happy, fulfilled person. They're involuntary-celibate, not single by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Only thing that make men need women more is sexI say this out of concern: You need to go speak to a mental healthcare professional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | women are not more socially intuitive it's just that they're socially forgiven moreI had never seen Karen behavior in the flesh except on the internet. I honestly don't remember a single incident. I think you forget that women use a different tactic to punish women than men, women ice other women out. That's rarely seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s?I know he's not whining about it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.It's also about 'the bell curve'. If you find your place on either end, odds simply are that you'll have a harder time meeting someone which is why I think the things you're doing will lead you to a like minded person. You let the process/hobby do the pre-selecting for you since a motivated, smart lady is more likely to be found at a class with other motivated, smart people. From the replies I have gathered here, a lot of people don't mention the mental or continued betterment part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.Now we're talking. I like it when people give a thoughtful answer and make new points that I hadn't thought of before. I think you're really onto something in the last part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.You are arguing against the data and the very valid premise of this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.That reply makes little logical sense. The premise, backed up by data, is that men don't compliment other men. Yet you claim they do. So which is it? There is no reason why women would 'value attractiveness' in other women because other women would be competition. The reason is much more likely social and to create a social bond, because at the end of the day when things get difficult women rely on other women, not men. Just notice who shows up w. food and offers for help when somebody gets sick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Where in this group? I have yet to see that discussion in this group. Provide links since it is discussed "all day". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:08 AM |
| 0 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalWhen it revolves around making fun of the person/stereotype you're impersonating it is 100% relevant because it is not only a part of the joke, it is the joke itself. Using your logic blackface can't be racist because that's also just dressing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?You're still jumping to conclusions and are now accusing me of lying about my own opinions that you claim to know better than me based on your own inability to understand what I said. It is worth researching why men feel they are doing their half while their spouses say they are not. Nowhere did I say anything about the reasons but if you had bothered to inquire about the meaning of my words I would have told you that I think the reason lies in different standards and expectations. And that some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.Empathy training, communication training. Empathy training: Watching a show or movie when the main characters are showing strong emotions pause the show and imagine yourself in their shoes. It takes less than 30 seconds to imagine yourself in that role-play, what the motivations are and why the character is behaving like they do. This is easier for movie and tv characters because they're simpler than real people. Try feeling the feelings that would come with the character's situation. Plan B wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?How you feel has everything to do with how you feel. And what you think. On the upside there's always this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EuJzSTNDUGI&ab_channel=McTezTube | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Oh yeah, wanting to see research into this discrepancy is soooo sexist. I'm not the one that jumped to conclusions and made a fool of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:30 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalThere is a ridiculous imbalance in guys impersonating and/or making fun of girls and women, it more than borderlines with drag. You don't see the reverse in nearly comparable numbers because on the whole women are not doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:29 PM |
| 25 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalNo, all feminine traits are mocked and looked down on. Just look at all the people that have a weird obsession taking teenage girls down. Endless tiktoks by grown ass men doing that and thinking they're 'funny'. Where are all the women making fun of teenage boys? Not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalMen and women are not equals and they were never meant to be. Neither is inferior or superior, Men and women ARE EQUAL. They're just NOT THE SAME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalr/asaferengi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:23 AM |
| 14 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?That makes no sense. Not unless he's the highest paid handyman around. Three things stick out for me on this sub: many people seem to think that the person that gets paid less for the same work outside of the home should be making up for that within the home, thus being screwed over twice. These are the same people that seem to think that being a SAHP is a 27/7 job with no weekends or time off ever. And they value domestic work to absolutely nothing. Unless they're doing it, then it should be pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?I'd love to see objective research done on this because so many men I know claim to do "their share" of the housework but their wife does not agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:18 AM |
| 8 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Your hurt feelings are showing and seriously clouding your judgment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Everything we split should be split. But if I don't eat half the food then I shouldn't be paying for half the food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.Sweden has had this moral guilt over their 'neutrality' in WWII which made them very philosophical about their role in the world as peacemakers... which led to them accepting refugees from war torn countries to a much greater scale % wise than other European countries. Turns out people move their contentious culture with them and create mini 'old country' areas that follow the patterns of former war-torn country. With their own justice system and 'police' or lack thereof. Then there's that pesky… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.I highly recommend audiobooks instead of reading, most people learn best when they listen while doing a repetitive task. That's how humans evolved sharing and absorbing knowledge, by the fire while working on stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me"OP didn't even provide a source for that claim, yet you're not pointing that out—why is that?" I owe you nothing. Make your own observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | red pill is lowering man’s self-esteemWe are all an "unfinished product" of our own device. Women are a bell curve just like men, it is absurd to claim that women only date the "top percent". In reality women just want men to be above a basic threshold of self-sufficiency and demonstrate an outlook that they'll continue bettering themselves throughout their lives. Pessimism and lack of initiative is a sure dealbreaker and coincidentally it is usually the guy that complains about all the work he needs to put in to land a woman that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.Why? Why can't men compliment each other? Why is there an expectation by men, see this thread, that women step into men's compliment void? - when women have just told you that it is often misunderstood and can lead to unsafe situations for women. Is it because men want to avoid that very same scenario? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.No, women are only complimented by men when they are sexually attracted to the woman. It is a form of "compliments in - sex out" expectation exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:26 AM |
| 9 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.We get compliments from other women. Or men when they want to fuck us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.How about you guys start complimenting each other to get rid of this phenomenon? That would be a win-win situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:25 AM |
| 7 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.womp womp womp and yet so much can be done about it. My sister came out of her shell taking Dale Carnegie courses, I saw one course using humor to increase social skills on youtube yesterday. Women are attracted to men that have social skills and men that go out and put work into things they deem worthwhile instead of sitting at home whining about how bad their lives are. Him being an introvert is not a problem for women, women date introverted guys. Him being negative and unable to harness his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How many women expect their partners to do unreasonable amounts of housework?She does do more, did you read the post? He "helps", he has to be told what to do. That is not somebody who takes ownership of his contribution to running a mutual household. u/w1se_old_tree tagging you since I don't feel like repeating the point. Women are tired of having to be the manager of the household and a boss to their spouse. It makes sense to keep a list. It also gives an overview of who does what and roughly how much time goes into it. I'm not going to discuss the merits of this case … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex?Not if you're comparing with other guys. You should be setting your own standards instead of comparing with other guys like that, especially when it's on such a pointless metric. Before you go off trying to explain to me how to you it makes sense to obsess over how fast other guys got it - it doesn't matter because you are not the decision maker. What matters is the criteria made by the decision maker. You are fine to set yourself a benchmark but to do so in relation to other guys is insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:15 PM |
| 13 | How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex?No, this is a myth. A man that I'd 'make wait' is a man that I want to establish a connection with before I have sex with him because then he's more likely to stick around. This obsession guys have with "how long did she 'make' others wait" is in my opinion a huge red flag. Any guy that is worried about what I did with my exes is revealing his own insecurities and control issues. He's preoccupied with "winning" sex instead of building a foundation for a relationship. It tells me that this guy do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Just Realized that the reason why women on here dismissed so much "loneliness" of men is because women know that no matter what If they truly want, they will be in a relationshipThis is simply not true. We've had the discussion before about why people don't drop their standards. It applies equally to both the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:59 AM |
| 11 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meYou are reading into the numbers without context. Men that have never been married are less happy throughout their lives until the very end. The reason we don't know but it may be that they finally move into care homes where they get the social aspect they've been missing. Probably that very same reason is behind the upswing for men that were divorced or widowed, they clearly take dips related to relationships ending and midlife crisis and then gain happiness again when they're at an age where t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 0 | The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only".No. Nothing I have said here only applies to ugly guys. It is an EXTREMELY unattractive personal trait to be so jealous of handsome men and so resentful towards women. That's why guys here are single. I'd like to thank all the guys here who keep telling us over and over again that men are only nice to get sex. I understand you so much better now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren'tThat's not what women want though. We want a partner. Most men don't want to be a SAHP anyway, except when there are no kids, then of course it's sweet to be a SAHBoyfriend, who wouldn't want that? The problem is that men are (extensively researched) more change-resistant than women. Men themselves are lagging and that's the reason why there are so many single guys that "just want to be loved as they are" but there are no women willing to love a guy with his habits and traits of change-resistanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren'tI don't know what Bible-belt you live in but where I live nobody would be made fun of for being a SAHP. You need better friends or to update your perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most menIt's like the idea to talk to women like you'd do to a man you were being friendly with is alien to reject guys. They're so eager to get sex that they're sorely revealing that they see that specific woman as no more than means to a nut. Or every woman. These men don't seem to understand socialization, which is to interact in a group of mixed company without hitting on every woman and instead calming the fuck down and just talk to people to get to know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this subThe mods here are absurdly heavy-handed when it comes to "bluepill" posts and comments made by women. It is ridiculous and childish behavior on behalf of the mods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 16 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsIt's so embarrassing how some guys always have to tell us that "I'd tap that". WE KNOW! WE KNOW YOU'D FUCK ANYONE AND ANYTHING THAT LET YOU. What we don't always know is how dishonest they are about getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentionsAll that to tell us that deep down men suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10?No I don't expect a 10/10 but I do expect a MATCH that's 8/10 or above. Being KIND is not a vague thing. Being SELF-SUFFICIENT is not a vague thing. Being A PARTNER is not a vague thing. Knowing how to groom yourself is not a vague thing. Knowing how to run a household is not a vague thing. Cleaning up after yourself is not a vague thing. Being respectful is not a vague thing. Being willing to ADAPT is not a vague thing, it is the ability to embrace change instead of knee-jerk fearing it. Taking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how would you feel if a guy you were dating ended up giving you his grandmother's engagement/wedding band as a purposal?Funny you should say that because the word for wedding in my language is literally "bride-buy" (brúðkaup) and once they're married the wife is "given" (gift) but the husband is "wifed" (kvongaður). Exactly the same words used 800 years ago in the Sagas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how would you feel if a guy you were dating ended up giving you his grandmother's engagement/wedding band as a purposal?These heirlooms often become the subjects of drawn out divorce proceedings so therefore I think it makes most sense to pass it through the female line. The whole rule of it going through first-boy is a remnant of birth-right-patriarchy where the first-born son got everything and the younger spares were shit out of luck and forced to go fend for themselves. Birthright-anything just seems so out of place in modern times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how would you feel if a guy you were dating ended up giving you his grandmother's engagement/wedding band as a purposal?Yeah everything that has to do with birthright seems a bit weird in the times of all citizens being created equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.That is not true, women just rarely do it in front of men because we don't think it is your business to discipline women. Older women and friend-groups absolutely hold women accountable, it's just not done the same way men do. Men would rather step in and use body-force while women use social shunning and all kinds of harsh words. Mothers/aunts/grandmas never stop picking on the daughters of the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:40 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, how would you feel if a guy you were dating ended up giving you his grandmother's engagement/wedding band as a purposal?I would not like to have an engagement proposal be a surprise, let alone spring a ring that I should be wearing for the rest of my life on me without a discussion first. I'd prefer to get my own ring and let the women in grandmas family take that ring since it has sentimental value to them and not me. It makes little sense for the family to pass it on to a guy that then passes it on to a woman that has no emotional relationship with that ring. The daughters and granddaughters should be the ones … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Some women are to blame for the toxicity of some men, through the enabling of bad behaviourPer your logic you are responsible for rape and murders by not stopping the misogyny that they spew on the daily. Men that spew this kind of hate are WAY more likely to commit violent acts towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:16 AM |
| 0 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.You just blew totally over the meaning of red pill or blue pill. One represents status quo the other represents change yet men for some reason absolutely missed the point and thought misogyny was some great new revelation. The second half of my comment is simply scientifically proven facts. Men cannot handle change nearly as well as children and women. Not even when it saves their lives. Just look at the guys still objecting to seatbelts, they're still at it, killing themselves 'on principle. Sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.I find it hilarious that men have named it the red pill and not the blue pill when they are the ones that want to keep the old status quo and women are the ones changing it. Research after research shows that men have a much harder time with change than women. Men resist change so badly that it literally kills them. Covid is a perfect example of that, instead of adapting to survive they were much more likely to refuse masks and vaccines because they didn't want to "show fear" when in reality the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:38 AM |
| 3 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.Usually when a man complains here about women being "too picky" I ask him what he has done to a) make himself more dateable and b) go meet women where women gather. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I get no answers. Because they haven't done anything other than their old habits that aren't working. They feel entitled to a woman's love "the way they are" instead of seeing that EVERYBODY needs to better themselves in order to be presentable as a partner. It's called being a capable adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?No debate needed because you didn't back your opinion op with any facts. You pulled it out of your 'hat'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 09:29 PM |
| 8 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?And working out certain muscle groups can make you look boxy instead of feminine. Britney is a perfect example of that. Her waist disappeared and she became boxier the more she worked out. Too many straight situps and not enough hip abduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?Everybody pretty much is indoctrinated with bluepill ideas from the moment they are born. This is simply not true. Your insecurities are showing. NEXT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 10:31 AM |
| 4 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?He decided to date someone less attractive, less sexually appealing, because he likes your personality better, nevertheless, he still find the ex more sexually attractive. I think you are wrong in this assumption. The 'crazy in the head, crazy in the bed' girl may be a great lay but if he loves OP then sex with OP is always going to be better than angry fucks with a crazy person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?I do and I contribute to way more causes than gender issues. Do you do anything beyond your gender and race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?That is simply not true. It changes a lot of things and even though some women are corrupted on the whole fewer women are corrupted in public office. If you put them as accountants in a small firm then that's a different story but it holds for public office. Women entering politics has changed a lot of things especially what issues are now considered political like body autonomy, social services, healthcare etc. Don't say stupid shit like that just because some women turn out corrupted like thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowYour "thoughts" about women are delusions. Your assumption about women's income is just something you want to believe but doesn't fit reality. Most women work for a living and even though they earn on average less than men they STILL are better at paying bills and keeping a roof over their head and for their kids. Men can't both want access to sex and at the same time no responsibility for said sex. Men like you complain that when women get half of the marital assets they are 'stealing' from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?Most men who are raped are in the minority and most rapes are committed by a rapist who is a multiple time offender We know this. The police knows this YET the police, controlled by men, simply DGAF about this kind of crime. Take Detroit where over 10k rape kits revealed a little over 300 repeat offenders. These men are not unknown, they've been identified YET nothing happened for decades. The investigators and prosecutors all made endless excuses why not to deal with the issue. They deliberatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:41 PM |
| 10 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowIf you interpret more women opting out of dating men as winning then that's probably right. Women are not as sex driven as men and women do not see it as 'winning' to have endless choice of strange D's looking for easy sex. I don't consider it 'winning' to be seen as a hole and not a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowSocial media didn't exist the way it does today, these guys were still out there spreading their toxicity, they just did it in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?I don't understand your point unless you want to muddy the water enough to ensure that the problem doesn't get dealt with. Enough men rape for it to be a problem but even worse is that most men don't see rape as enough of a problem to spend any money solving it. Just look at all the rape kits that never got processed. When you talk like that you're telling us that you don't think it is a problem wort solving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it?Sex positivity does not mean exploitation positive. There is no destigmatizing prostitution without first removing forced prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 11:51 AM |
| 5 | According to a survey in Sweden, men want to pay for dates more than women want them to pay and are more negative to splitting the bill than women are.I don't think that's a fair assumption though. As a woman I would maybe like to see you again but I do not want to create any blurred lines when it comes to the "law of reciprocity". If we're equals then I want to set the tone for equality from the beginning and send you the signal that I don't see you as my meal ticket. It may have something to do with not wanting a second date and it might also have nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:55 PM |
| 3 | If you were good at sex, you'd be having it.But for the most part sex is equal for both parties if you exclude BJs etc. No, that's the whole problem - it isn't and it especially isn't during a first-time-hookup, they're typically very disappointing for women and there are still loads of guys who shirk from oral but expect it in return. Not necessary - many times those are done to get the dick hard - something pretty important for successful sex you would agree. Women need at least equal foreplay to men in order to get wet. Very important … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Being *too* attractive not worth it/a handicap for women when it comes to achieving socio-economic status?But do you see them put a lot of work into their appearance? I think that's the difference here, whether they looksmaxx or not. I found the halo effect worked fine for me in IT as long as I did not signal that I put any work into my appearance because that indicated I was trying to get ahead on something other than my 'natural' talents. I do clean up well but don't think it is worth it to put in all that work because the return-on-investment seems to bring out more superficial guys with more 'su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Average men struggle to date because they haven't/aren't building lives any woman in her right mind would want to be a part of.All those prejudice you claim other people have is not something I have nor the people around me. We don't think less of men that are in tune with their feelings and can verbalize them. We don't think less of a man that doesn't want to be community D. He might be seen as selective or possibly gay or asexual, after a couple of lines drawn he'll be left to his own devices as part of the group. The only guys I have perceived as creeps are guys that have come in with sexual energy, sly looks, 'innoc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | If you were good at sex, you'd be having it.I hope you were being ironic there He still enjoys the sex and so you should, right? As if women don't deserve to be pleasured just like he is. Blowjobs are, especially in the beginning, not something women enjoy to do. But they do it for his pleasure, typically getting only disrespect in return. Casual sex is fine if you enjoy it, but since we don't enjoy hookups with strange men that may or may not be good in bed or may or may not be selfish lovers, it simply isn't worth it. Add to that all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?Not true. We do it just fine on our own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:58 PM |
| 19 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?I find it amazing just how sex driven men are and that they can't comprehend that women are not that sex crazed. They don't even register the risks for women. The cruelty of underdeveloped prefrontal lobes cannot be underestimated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:05 AM |
| 26 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?Have you met men? Because that's how men treat women. And again: Women don't even get their must basic fantasy fulfilled - to get an orgasm from a man without having to do the work themselves. There is literally a little magical button right there but men can't even find it - or what's more likely - they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?Sources? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?WRONG! Most women's only sexual fantasy is to have a bloody orgasm and you guys can't even give us that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 7 | why is is when a underage male is in a relationship with a a women of age, usually other men are encouraging it?But there must be a 'something there' in all those comments from men. This was their dream as underage men: to get sexually schooled by an older woman that knows how to have good sex, knowing that there is no future in it. And that they don't see a manipulative power-imbalance there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from?Where are you getting this from? Medium height in the US is around 170cm/5ft7' Some women are fixated on height just like some men are fixated on boobs. Humans are mammals and at least half of us is dumb AF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 4 | in some parts of RP and BP circles there is this belief that women ‘share’ the top % of men - where does this idea stem from?Just like how when us girls went out only the hottest ones were hit on until very late at night. Until they were seen as a last chance to get a cheap lay with a woman they never intended to speak to again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Oh yeah, how lucky we are to have you here to tell us what women like based on your extensive research. Even though all the women here have told you that this kink is not common for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?You are the one that put yourself on your perceived low horse and now see everyone looking as higher than yourself. That's on you,. You are generalizing based on your own experience about women. This is not what the research shows most women like. Two books I can recommend for you; The Prehistory of Sex and The Joy of Sin. Facts based on research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?What does that have to do with anything? Most people don't have a degrade kink. You speak as if I haven't slept with people before. Check yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 6 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Most guys just want to have normal sex with a loving partner. This is no longer the case if they 've watched porn. They think porn is how sex works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:57 AM |
| 3 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Right! Not for me and if the question has been asked and answered he should not try to change my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:55 AM |
| 2 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Generalizing based on somebody with a degrade kink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:55 AM |
| 2 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?That may work for the leather leashed dog collar type of gal but that is not majority of women. Your experience is far from the norm. And I wonder why you seem to gravitate towards people like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:54 AM |
| 4 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?You know, when you're doing it with your boyfriend and the pizza man arrives. So you just spontantly ask him to join. Does. Not. Happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Going straight to fingering instead of playing with the clit. We can all see just how dry and uncomfortable she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsPretty much like every other poster here. This mentality is well studied, reject guys that resent women for not wanting them so instead of bettering themselves they focus their energy on hating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.Silly me thought this was a debate forum about actual issues instead of endless whining over personal grievances. It' got old the first week. Sometimes people bring interesting points here and we have good talks but at least 60% of the time it's guys generalizing about women from a toxic place of externalized internal problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?People shape up for all kinds of reasons. It still signals that the person is willing to put in the work if they deem the goal worthy. People that still want the result but don't put in the work and instead whine over injustice and blame it on other people (women being shallow*) instead of changing the things they can change (themselves). Whining and complaining is just as unattractive as fatalism and constantly blaming others. Fortunately a lot of the time these unattractive personal traits als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:06 AM |
| 4 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.Don't make up scenarios in your head. You will not like reality. Any woman with half a brain will think no less of you and see it as normal. What you're not taking into account here is many men's willingness to commit crime at the expense of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.You are way off here. Intoxicated to the point of being unable to resist will get you a rape charge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:20 AM |
| -3 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.The lack of self-awareness on this sub is beyond embarrassing. Nothing but guys whining about being the victim and how women are s0 MeAn to them. A joke. That's what this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?Deflecting. Are you saying that if given the chance every single man will cheat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?I'll keep repeating this ad nauseum: GROOMING AND BEING FIT MATTERS MORE THAN LOOKS TO WOMEN.* Because women seek security for their offspring and a man that pays attention to his wellbeing and PUTS IN THE WORK is a man that will also put in the work on behalf of his family. A man that is defeatist and doesn't even try better his own circumstances because he believes nothing he does will pay off is a repellent. That is a sure sign this guy will do nothing but brood when life gives him lemons bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 10:36 AM |
| 16 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?Taking care of your body makes a person attractive. I'm so done with the endless defeatism here. Your happiness is in your hands. YOU only have control over yourself. DO THE WORK, IT PAYS OFF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?YES! I am not a very easily swooned woman but dear lawd, when I see a fit man working with his body it does something to me. ANYBODY can be in good shape, it is just a question of determination. A good body is usually a signal that this person cares about their health and is less likely to become depressed or physically ill from lifestyle ailments. And a fit male body triggers something very primitive in me as a woman. I find women more attractive and beautiful but fit men are rrrrrr sexy. Unfit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??You're projecting. Your utter inability to understand women doesn't anger me at all. The only emotion it evokes is pity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??No need to get emotional. I'm allowed to state facts just like you're allowed to state your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.I feel sorry for you. I've had great male friends. Too bad they died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??Not true. Again this sub proves the guys here don't know women but keep on explaining women to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??You act like women get orgasm from sex with new men. It rarely happens. And you act like women are as sex-crazed as men, they aren't. Women get baby-fever but it doesn't take constant quest for sex to solve that and plenty of women don't heed biology without it affecting their quality of life. The truth is that men simply expect others to solve their problems. Maybe it's genetic or socialized based on the fact that they've had women solving their issues since the womb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.This was posted on r/psychology rather than r/neuroscience maybe 3 years ago, I don't have the time right now to hunt it down. But I took special note of the results because it confirmed later research I read about men and women becoming friends first. You claim men are only friendly to women because they want to fuck them and are waiting their time. That's a whole lot of waiting on a whole lot of women, pretending to be something you're not: a nice person. Repeating ad nauseum that men are only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 10:17 AM |
| 2 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.I hear ya sister! Cheers to us planning our own adventures and creating our own happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 10:08 AM |
| 3 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.Just because you've gotten women on your looks that doesn't negate the fact that every other post here is a complaint about women being picky from a man that doesn't put in any effort. You claim looks because that's your reality, as if your experience is the only one. As if you haven't read this sub before. Congrats on your pretty privilege, that doesn't change a thing for other guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:56 PM |
| -1 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.It is astonishing that you claim to know women better than women themselves. Know when to stfu. The reason you're not getting anywhere is because you are unable to listen to people that know better than you. This determinism is very unattractive because it robs you of the good things in life. You've decided that things are one way so you don't give it a chance when you're told how things work. Women and men connect best when working on projects together. This is scientifically studied and proven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.your reply makes no sense You just told us that you don't know women at all. If women like you but are married they will set you up with their girlfriends. It's like you don't know women at all. We vet for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 10:34 PM |
| 9 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.Bingo. Two of my friends went on a trip to a major European city for a concert. She booked everything and got them to the hotel, he slept for the next 2 days. Everything he prepped he started way too late so he ended up not having money available, he didn't activate his phone so he could be reached, he picked up his passport on the way to the airport and he never checked his plane ticket. He expected her to act like his tourguide when HE felt like doing something but had no problem blowing her o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 5 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.They want a partner on their own terms. Women should come to them and be their "partner" but they don't want to do anything to meet her half way. Their expectations to being serviced in a relationship are usually ridiculous and bear no resemblance to a partnership or a friendship. It's all about their needs, she should be supporting their anxiety/depression/needs but never the other way around. A man that thinks and acts like this is not suitable to be anyone's partner. If he really wanted a par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 17 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.I keep repeating here that men who complain about not 'getting' women should go and meet women where women are found. I keep suggesting crafts courses and dance lessons but nobody has bothered doing that. These guys don't want to put in any effort, they want women on their own terms: no effort, no equality, no friendship. Just sex and maid services. No wonder they are rejects, they behave like rejects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 8 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.Wrong. Research shows you are wrong. Most married couples start out being friends first. Chimp males go around in groups EATING other chimps and raping females. I presume OP is going to explain to us next how gang-rapes are just natural to men because of our monkey ancestry. This guy makes NO sense. Yet another incel with a warped world view trying hard to look elsewhere for a solution to his social ineptness. I've been on this sub for almost a year now and when I ask the guys whining over not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 6 | According to a study, the best strategy for struggling male chimpanzees looking to mate was to befriend high ranking alpha males as well as to form large networks with other males. Notice how they didn't need to befriend female chimps. In my opinion, we should give this advice to struggling men.Chimp male groups also hunt down other chimp groups and rape the females and EAT their chimp children. I presume you're also suggesting copying that - or what? What else are you going to learn from your monkey friends that you can't learn from HUMANS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Money and power can be faked. So can security through lies. Debunked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:23 AM |
| -3 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"The hypocrisy would be funny if it weren't so bloody sad and pitiful. For eons men have been able to walk away and leave women to take care of the kid. But now women get to do the same and then men want increased rights - to not even have to pay for the kids they create. And now you lot are actively removing choice from women - but still want to of course retain your traditional capability of being a POS parent that walks away. Either you take the responsibility of having sex or you don't get to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:59 PM |
| 0 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"You are drawing claims out of thin air. FATHERHOOD IS NOT ON THE DECLINE, IT IS ON THE LEVEL. And those fathers are doing a BETTER JOB than their fathers. Your whole premise is simply false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment?Yeah but then they couldn't be endlessly mad and claim to be the victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment?roflmao, anything to get offended and feel like a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?Earlier for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:15 AM |
| 0 | People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for thatIt is really telling of the men that frequent this sub just how envious they are of "Chad". Envy and jealousy are such a bad look on any human being. It is a sure sign that there goes a person I have no intention of getting to know better. Ugly character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Men desire virginity because women lie about body countThe difference is that women rarely turn violent based on the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Men desire virginity because women lie about body countIt's partially about jealousy. She's been able to have sex but he hasn't so he feels bitter. She shouldn't have anything better than him anyway because he's the man... in his mind. And it's about control and their own need to feel superior instead of an equal. It's all about misogyny when you start digging into it. And OP is totally wrong about what is cause and effect here. Women lie not because men care but because men will treat women like crap if they don't like the answer. Some will turn vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men desire virginity because women lie about body countThat is the biggest nonsense I've read all day. Men have a ridiculous obsession with women's purity. Men have a ridiculous obsession with women overall or rather, men have a ridiculous obsession with fucking women and women's sex lives. The lie comes from men caring so much and being NASTY if the woman isn't pure enough. Women lie because men will hurt them for the truth. Because there's something wrong in the head of some men so they take it out on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman?Because they're the men that women reject because of their views towards women, it's a vicious cycle. I wish you all the best with this girl, you've started on the right foot. Now she's reached out so you'll be expected to make a move. Make it a classy one, something that the two of you like to do together but in a more fancy way and as a date where you're allowed to call a 'time out' to have sidebar with your best friend i.e. switching from friend-hangout or date mood for fun. Make it something… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Maybe you don't see it in your generation but I see this clearly with people 35 and older. And I see a whole lot of boys acting like their girlfriend is their new fuck-mommy in the youngest demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?I read a study a year ago that showed women lose way more financially and don't usually get half, they 'deal out' in order to get out. She'll do worse financially but she'll make it work while he's likely to get a raise after spending his newfound free time at work. Meanwhile she's doing most of the childcare and takes a paycut because of the kids and the status. BUT on the upside she gained her happiness and is content with the decision, more and more women are choosing not to get married again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:58 PM |
| 10 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?This view reveals such blindness to the work that goes into raising a family. Because the man got the paycheck he thinks he did all the work and that the woman is "stealing" his hard work - when in reality she worked just as hard keeping a home and raising the kids on top of her job outside of the home. It values the work of women to zero and shows total disrespect for the children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Precisely, all it does is show who is the one that gets shit done in that relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.And not want him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:56 PM |
| 3 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I'm not sexless. I'm just partner-less when I have sex. Big difference. Sure I'd like to get some male pheromones in my bed but that would be at the expense of an orgasm and I'd rather have the orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?That makes no sense. Nobody is asking for no responsibility except the men that expect to be able to walk away after the deed is done. The decision to make a baby was made upon gestation, the decision whether to carry it to term is the womans (in civilized countries) based on her body autonomy. It really stings some men that women now have this power over their own bodies, as if men aren't benefitting greatly from it in form of casual sex and fewer unwanted babies being born. You are blinded. by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingOh no, he won't be nice at all. He'll most likely be extremely rude just like he is to any other woman he wouldn't fuck. The hypocrisy in the posts on this sub are killing me. Whooosh after whoosh, claiming women do something that men do just the same. But of course they're blind to that and wouldn't ever blame men for that because that's 'natural' and what women are doing is 'bad' because it hurts Op's feelings. I try to tell myself that I must be speaking to teenagers but the replies show not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingDude, it seems you're missing the point that women are people and men do this very much too. Loads of men are only 'nice' to women they'd like to fuck and AWFUL to women they deem unworthy. Try flipping the coin every once in a while and asking the question if you're blaming women for your own shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingOP seems to think that only women demonstrate the halo effect when it is just as much exercised in men that are only nice to women they would like to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?You seem to think baby-making is only the responsibility of women - dude can you not hear your misogyny? It takes two to create a child an it happens at the moment of gestation. But I hear you loud and clear when you tell me that women should not let men come near them so we don't give men the chance to create fatherless children - I have no problem avoiding men. You seem absolutely clueless to the responsibility of men after ejaculation. As if children that the father doesn't want (after gestat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Why do you continue going back to thinking that women should be solving these problems for men. Can't you see the sense of entitlement you're showing here towards women? I don't expect you to solve my problems, it is ridiculous that you think I should be solving yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 17 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Do you see us blaming men for how teen girls feel? No we don't. I'm so tired of men's ENDLESS blame-game. It's like self-care and responsibility for yourself is a novel idea. It always boils down to you guys thinking women should be making sacrifices and solving your problems. What are you doing to solve women's problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:06 AM |
| 16 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Then why are men not doing anything about it? Where is the support older men should show for younger men and their own sons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:04 AM |
| 16 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?What are men here doing to fight the gender based violence women face on the daily? What are men here doing to make women's life easier? Why do you think women should be thinking about making your lives easier when you don't do the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps.Or... or... accept that men and women use dating apps for different reasons and that it is not the best way to meet a serious match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:38 PM |
| 5 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?don't forget the trauma of endless school shootings. Kids don't feel safe at school . My kid wanted to stay home during Covid, he loved it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Men are endlessly horny. That's the problem. If men weren't so horny they wouldn't be so driven to mate with women. That would take a whole lot of pressure from male-female interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give?Mind answering the questions first. What have you exactly done, I'm not talking about your perceived rejection but concrete actions taken. Out of their league I mean women that date guys with more success, smarts and traditional beauty. Hitting on somebody who feels they can do better. The fact that you went straight to that part makes me think there is a 'there' there. Somebody you deem good enough to date doesn't see you the same way. It should not be a mystery why that is. What have you done … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give?What do you do to put yourself 'out there'? Do you actively go out of the house to places or courses where you can meet people and strike up interactions? Also I don't know why people use the excuse that they are 'ugly' when a) there are also ugly people of the opposite sex, and b) grooming matters more in women's assessment of you than looks. Guys that say women find them too ugly are saying that they're hitting on women that are out of their league and that they are in denial about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give?He should go learn ballroom dancing. Or contact sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:08 AM |
| -1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?It's almost as if the odds are that guys are shitty and therefore women aren't dating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:02 PM |
| 8 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?The next guy may be nice. That's the difference. Her happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 16 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Dude, you're clearly not relationship material and it is not your looks that keeps women clear of you. Please make sure to speak exactly like that to women in the future. We don't want anyone thinking you respect or like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menOh you mean like how white guys are importing women from other countries because none of the local women will have them. Only to show us in the stats that domestic abuse is way more common in those relationships. Most of the guys here have not done the things they're been told women appreciate. Because they feel entitled to women without putting in any work. Boohoo, they get rejected. Boohooo, she's not a virgin. Booohoo she won't put up with inequality and disrespect. Boohooo. It's about entitl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menAll that copy just to show us that you don't know women at all. Instead of writing long essays on what you think is the case you should try looking at the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsDude, you have no claim on my body. You just revealed your sense of entitlement to women's bodies and how they should be. Mind your own gd business and leave women alone. Go bugger a friend, you don't control me or anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies.Read your post again. Try reversing the genders and read it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies.You are saying that women don't deserve love because men can't feel those feelings. Telling on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:04 AM |
| 7 | Why do some women want an equal relationship but a dominating man in bed?I don't know why you're conflating the two. And I don't know why you imagine yourself that this is something many women want. Ed. It honestly sounds like you've been watching too much porn and think it is real life. It isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?As long as nothing has caused problems and HPV doesn't cause cervical cancer I don't see any reason why it should matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?While I do think men can raise kids I still think a connection with a 'motherly figure' is needed, especially if the child is a girl. Research shows that same-sex parent relationship is most important for children BUT boys also need their mommy and girls need their daddy. Just like I think kids of single mothers do need male role-models in their life I also think children of single fathers need to supplement and find their kids a female role-model too. I don't think kids come out damaged per se … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?A guy that does well with women is POSITIVE, when he receives bad news he processes them, talks it out and then manages to move beyond it without thinking the world is out to get him. Pessimism is a repellent. Optimism attracts. Persona-maxing and looksmaxing, making the most of what you have shows that you are able to make the best out of what you are given. This is an essential trait in a mate, it shows that he has the ability to move beyond his obstacles and move up and on. He is respectful. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Women feel entitled to men liking themWords have meaning. Men can reveal in countless ways how they don't see women as people without ever saying the words explicitly. OP showed us that in his opening statement when he said that women weren't entitled to being "liked" which translated to "being treated with respect". Women feel entitled to being treated with decency, OP is showing us that he doesn't think that is the case. Sorry if I'm going to fast for you here, loads of guys have trouble keeping up with logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Women feel entitled to men liking themIt's a misogynistic rant. Just because you can't put two and two together that doesn't mean we can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Women feel entitled to men liking themYou are conflating common decency with "liking". Women do not want all men to like them. We just want you to treat us like humans even though there's no sex in it for you. Women absolutely do not want all men to like them. We are disgusted by a lot of men and their behavior. Especially guys that don't see women as humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:56 PM |
| 6 | Women feel entitled to men liking themWait you mean you don't have to treat every women you don't want to duck like dirt?? Are you insinuating that OP should even treat them like humans? But why would he do that if there's nothing he wants from them? Why would you ask him to put in this gargantuan effort to be decent when his brain wants to go straight to being nasty? What's in it for him to see women as people? That's the question OP is asking when he claims "women are not entitled to being liked treated with basic decency" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Women feel entitled to men liking themOf course he's spewing misogyny for the clicks. Guys with the same view are eating this BS up and using it to justify their own abuse of women. Research has repeatedly shown that men that talk about women with disrespect are also men that treat women with disrespect and are also more "prone to" beating women up and raping them. The guy that tells rape jokes is more misogynistic than the next guy and he's also more likely to rape. Research results that match with everyone's experience of said typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Women feel entitled to men liking themDude, you're saying women aren't even worthy of decency and civility You are really telling on yourself here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Women feel entitled to men liking themYeah, based on experience I have learned to loathe a certain kind of man. The kind of man that doesn't see women as people and only sex objects. The kind of man that clearly has brain damage in his prefrontal lobes and is thus uncapable of empathy and decency. I absolutely hate men like that. I didn't always, but they taught me. Thank you for your service. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Women feel entitled to men liking them"Women are not entitled to being treated like humans" Dude your misogyny is on full display here. You don't see women as people and you don't even see a reason to treat women like humans. That view is held by people unfit for civilized society. Please make it clear to the women you encounter in the future what views you hold. We don't want anyone misinformed about who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 21 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men."self-reported" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 21 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaRight! I can't stand the gym-type. I'll go with my man to the gym but we're not there to get buffed but to stay in shape and maintain our body. The guys in the picture are the kind of guys that I would go for and they seem to like my mom bod too. No problems here. Single by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 6 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themThis is my experience from Tinder. I unironically feel 'too good' to be on that site, swiping away on guys that I would never give the time of day out in the real world, as if I've got anything in common with them. And then most of them don't even write a bio. They put such low effort into their profile that it is obvious that he doesn't know how to put effort into anything. Some guys there look alright and seem like ok dudes but they still seem to run on the "sex app" mentality and not "dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 6 | A lot of Men and a lot of Women aren't marriage or relationship materialBingo. In the old days people like that would just have lived in the multi-generational home and never had to worry. Or they could join a convent or the army and just live out their lives in an organization of sorts. Work-camps are often like this, many men like working on oil-rigs or obscure construction sites because there is order, there is a boss, there is pay and everything they need. The company provides company. I think lonely people need to insert themselves into situations where they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 12:37 PM |
| 5 | q4w: would it be better if guys just didn't send dick picks, period?Yeah, I've never had this urge and most women do not want guys to get sexual fast. Dickpics should never be sent without being requested and certainly not as first contact. We all know that's no different from the guy that exposes himself to women on the street. I can't even stop laughing at somebody being stupid enough to try that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?Cite your sources. I want data on this mystery phenomenon. No handsome guy that can land a 10 is staying with a 3. Men are "visual beings" and way too preoccupied with showing off their catch to ever go for an unattractive woman. If he can do better he is doing better with everyone in sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla?Now you're just setting up scenarios to fit your narrative. Nbody "insinuated" anything, men LIE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:52 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla?woosh A guy taking it up the tail is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?No, because it is a way worse problem and the men are not only brigading in the comments but also harassing women in dm's. That doesn't happen on the men's sub. Just like here men will pop up in dms of women here trying to doxx or take a losing debate there rather than on a thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:51 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla?I don't think any decent person condones this any more than they'd condone the guy that's leading women on for sex. Men claim getting scammed for money is worse than being scammed for access to y our own body. I don't think they've taken it enough up the tail pipe to make that comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla?Welcome to how it is to be a beautiful woman. Nearly. Every. Single. Guy. And even the married ones. Men that could be my sons. 95% of them don't gaf about me as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 11 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryWho knew birth-control was such a turn-off? WOMEN! We've been telling you guys this for decades yet there is still no pill for men. No research done to meet women in the middle. And who knew bad sex could be such a turn off? WOMEN! Also not seeing men's bulging muscles anymore as men do physical labor is one of those lost opportunities you'll never know he missed. There's also very little dancing together nowadays, big mistake on behalf of guys that think they are too cool to learn Latin dances.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:13 PM |
| -11 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...roflmao, yes, men are the victims here You guys can't even distinguish between good reasons and bad reasons to reject somebody. And to claim you care about women is just BS. And who should care about men if not men themselves? You certainly seem to care enough here but when it comes to donating any effort to a good cause most of you are nowhere to be seen. What exactly are you doing to show you care for your fellow man? Other than bitch about women on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Would gender roles and dating dynamics be different if men didn’t prioritize sex so much? (ie: “think with their dicks”). If so, how? (tagged NSFW just in case)What chivalry? You mean normal courteous behavior like holding the door for the next person? Cuz I'm not seeing the chivalry. I'd rather have an equal pay check than have some guy open the car door for me. It would not be bad at all. I'm sure we'd see way less of stupid behavior and violence by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:32 PM |
| 12 | Would gender roles and dating dynamics be different if men didn’t prioritize sex so much? (ie: “think with their dicks”). If so, how? (tagged NSFW just in case)And that wouldn't be bad at all. Those who would get together would do so after getting to know each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Yeah, sure, that's why men are endlessly infiltrating women/girl groups online, pretending to be women and sending harassing messages. Get over yourselves and your toxic misogyny. Women's groups are only boring to the boring. The childish audacity you have to deem others unworthy and boring because they dont' share your interests and worldviews. Something has seriously failed in your upbringing if you think that just because other people have different hobbies that means they're somehow inferior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Dude, the infiltration is WAY WORSE on the female subs. There the female members are harassed in messages and have to deal with endless posers. Why can't women have their own spaces with men not only infiltrating them but ruining them with sex and violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtYour dislike towards women is misogyny. How you speak about women reeks of misogyny. You're clearly speaking out of personal bitterness, generalising about women and spewing negativity because you feel bad. It's a very unhealthy way to deal with whatever it is you're dealing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.You forgot that I am an attractive high-powered woman which is why these high-powered men go for me in the first place. They like my power no less than I like theirs. We're talking about getting validation by flirting with somebody that you deem at your own level. It just doesn't tickle the same way when a hot-dumb guy makes a pass at you vs. a hot accomplished guy. These high-power men voluntarily surrender their power to me. I can't tell you just how many have 'begged' me to take them home and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:01 AM |
| -1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtIt is not this simple though, plenty of women are made powerless through sex. It is only when you ration it that you hold power over a man, while he's preoccupied in the chase. Sure some women can keep a man p-addicted but often that doesn't turn out as intended with the woman getting attached and hurt. Play with fire and get burned and all that. Plenty of women are powerful and don't seek their core power in sex, while that can certainly be a part of her arsenal. Just look at Merkel, ERII or Hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:50 AM |
| 9 | [Q4W] Why women don't like when their male friends are attracted to her?Plus this was a question to women, but somehow these guys always think they know more about women than women themselves. Guys that hardly know women in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:32 AM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Why women don't like when their male friends are attracted to her?Why are you answering for women? Especially when you know so little about women. Women dislike this because HE IS A DANGER TO HER. Most rape is committed by somebody you know, and it is unfortunate just how many "friends" take advantage of their position by turning into Brock Turner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtDude, you're just projecting your misogyny here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtyeah but only the womenz are bad for that - right....right.... right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:01 AM |
| -1 | Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old womanonly the toxic ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 07:28 AM |
| 0 | The vast majority of male problems in getting casual sex or relationships stem from an overwhelming fear of rejectionI have not noticed men being too afraid to approach me IF they are just striking up normal conversation. I think guys that are petrified like that are afraid to talk to women because they don't talk to women as people with hobbies, interests, education or common knowledge about the world. They want to go straight to the part where it is determined if there is sex to be had or not. It doesn't work like that. Usually you don't have to go to the 'rejection phase' in the conversation because before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.As a woman I find this a bit hard to admit but I really like it when high-powered men pursue me. They're usually wickedly smart too and it really tickles my brain to flirt with them. Most of them are married and since I'm not an asshole I never do anything with that chase, but I sure enjoy it upto the point I tastefully shut it down. Flirting can be like poetry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 7 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?Thanks, oh yes this is clearly a scared guy that knows he's weak. I read one of the MA thesis he guided and it was so piss-poor that I'm still trying to scrape my jaw off the floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:56 PM |
| 10 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?Just yesterday A professor told me that I'd have to put my doctorate studies on hold because he was going on research leave and nobody at Uni could possibly take his place as my guide. Which is not true at all. In truth I have far superior knowledge in our field based on my previous working experience and I could just hear him being the same as every guy I've surpassed in my job, telling me how I shouldn't go into new projects that would make me obviously more qualified than him. All my life guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 0 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?Oh no I'll allow it 🙄 Two identical posts yet one of them has to be specially "allowed" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Because typically the person that is whining has not put much work into looking their best. Looking good takes work unless you're born with genes like a Hemsworth, but even for a Hemsworth it is still LOADS of hard work to look like that. The guys in my social circle that complain most about being lonely and not being able to find a relationship are guys that I consider 'rejects' because they've got the attitude that "effort doesn't work so why bother". But they've never even put any effort into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?And women are expected to serve men in other areas on the daily. Are you making sure to give them special consideration because of that? This whole discussion is just an outlet for hostility towards women. There is a name for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?You don't go around calling people liars unless you know they've acted in bad faith. It looks like you're just trying to escalate the discussion and turn it nasty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?No, men went to war in order to gain other people's resources and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:18 AM |
| 35 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?OP is making a whole lot of assumptions as if the whole country didn't unite the last time around... except of course rich people. OP is just looking for an excuse to demand continued privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:17 AM |
| 0 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?No. Since when has your country been invaded? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?That is factually incorrect. Even though many of the men that speak her sound like children they're actually adults. They just speak like they lack the brain development needed to have an adult conversation. Any intelligent man over 40 will tell you just how immature he was well into his 20s because of a lack of prefrontal development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsIt was a straw-virgin argument, not a slippery-slope. Y'all want women that have slept with fewer men than the women you guys either have had or wish you had had sex with. Men generally do not refuse sex and what they call "post-nut-clarity" is biology tricking them into wanting to go to sire another womb instead of sticking around to take care of the life they've possibly created. It's all about how you deal with animalistic urges, also the one to not want a woman that could possibly be carryin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsYour reply made no sense. Seatbelts don't prevent accidents, they prevent injury if you get in an accident. Sort of the same reason you buy condoms, in case you'd have to use them. But we all hope nothing happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 09:24 AM |
| 16 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsSo you whine over not getting sex but also don't want women who have had sex with other guys, totally oblivious to the fact that if you didn't marry the girl then you are one of those guys. There is no having it both ways here. You guys can't both whine over women not wanting to have sex with you but at the same time slutshame women that do have sex and act like she's dirty for mingling with your own kind. Hypocrisy is staring you right in the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:40 PM |
| 125 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsThen all of you need to stop whining over women not giving you sex before marriage. There is no way to have your virgin and still fuck her. The hypocrisy here would be funny if it wasn't so sad and toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.The replies from men here and elsewhere on Reddit have proven you wrong. Most men see women as utilitarian, just there to serve a need. It is easily proven in just how many men that were happily married but then lost their spouse take no grieving time but go right out and replace her within weeks or months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 13 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueYou have two options here; keep on wining or looksmax and get fit. One option is attractive to women the other is a repellent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?No, it is not something women that age in generally think is normal. Older guys that go for women this much younger than them usually are guys that don't value women as people, they're just looking for somebody weak to mold into a Bangmaid. Or for ONS. Girls that go for guys like this are usually girls with daddy issues because their father was a failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Please explain this behavior - meanness after sexY'all keep saying that as if it is normal to turn NASTY and MEAN. That is the part you are going to have to explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Please explain this behavior - meanness after sexMen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Please explain this behavior - meanness after sexMore like post-bender clarity, the moment you sober up and realize that was the alcohol making him 'nice' enough to have sex with. For most women sex is an extension of intimacy and trust. That doesn't necessarily mean we want to have a relationship with the guy but it would mean that we'd treat him with more familiarity when seeing him. Because sex is an intimate act. It is very weird for a woman when a guy has been spending time to get to know her and she feels finally comfortable enough to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Please explain this behavior - meanness after sexYou do realize what this just said about you? And it has nothing to do with body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Please explain this behavior - meanness after sexBut that still doesn't explain the mean behavior. Unless they think being mean is superior to ya know, communicating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men turn mean on the women they just had sex with?Yeah but why be mean about it? The girl didn't do anything wrong and certainly doesn't deserve that treatment. We've all seen it happen. The guy that shits on the girl that he just had sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men turn mean on the women they just had sex with?It is no more leading than the posts from the guys here on the daily. The mods are HEAVILY slanted in their rulings here. This is something every woman has experienced - I am looking for an explanation. How would is suit you that I phrase it? Because this is "a thing" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenOh yes, we're here to help! Seriously. I take no pleasure in men and women hating each other or despising each other and I certainly don't wish bad sex on my sisters going forward. So I'm all for educating you guys so you become better lovers :-) Don't underestimate the power of anticipation. Take your time. Play a lot before you start doing the deed itself. if she says she likes something DO NOT change it up. Not while doing the deed either, keep doing exactly what you are doing if she says she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenPlease make a post with all of those links about porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenBecause they are still performing for the male gaze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenAre you unable to read the room? WTF in the obscene childishness is going on here? is this how you argue on the regular? Creating straw-scenarios that have no basis in realty? ASK YOUR PARTNER. Dafuq | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenAll porn. It's all intended for the male gaze and certainly NOT for women's pleasure. Absolutely no fucking way. TAKE NOTES ON THIS THREAD. SAVE IT. You guys are getting gold advice, now it is up to you to learn from what women are actually saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:12 PM |
| 8 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenThey're still playing it up for the camera. Women need way more foreplay than porn teaches you. And you certainly do NOT start pumping right away, you need to go slow at first because the vagina needs to elongate to fit the penis. If he rams it in and just starts pumping it is hella uncomfortable and even painful Also: THE CLIT IS THE RED BUTTON. It is not the same as a man's head, it has way more nerve endings, it does not like to receive the abuse your penis does until well into the love makin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Porn is actually the best way for men to learn to have sex with womenI take it you are a guy. Therefore I don't know why you have the audacity to think you can speak for women. How they do it in porn is NOT how you have sex with a woman. They nearly always leave out foreplay and act like women like things that most of us don't. If you want to know how to MAKE LOVE to a woman you ASK her to teach you. But that is the point where most of you fail. You don't take direction because at the end of the day most men don't care if she enjoys it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many men turn mean on the women they just had sex with?You speak as if you are gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many men turn mean on the women they just had sex with?I think this is getting close to the correct answer. They were never decent human beings to begin with. They just pretended to be nice in order to get the sex. Now that they got the sex they can go back to being their true misogynistic self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:36 AM |
| 9 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?Yeah, no. My family is full of autistic people and while a lot of the traits make them assholes to be around they still were taught to respect the fact that other people also have personalities, deep thoughts, dreams and emotions. I don't know if your parents are failing you or if you lack empathy training but this is really something you should work on. And it is very easy. Just take a moment to pause any time you an emotional scene in the movie your watching and try putting yourself in the sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:31 AM |
| 11 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?OP is just a raging misogynist, looking for ways that men are better. I often wonder if the guys posting here are all 18 or rejected adults still living with their mommy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 13 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?Dude, you are over and over again just showing us that you are extremely misogynistic and that you don't know women at all. What on Earth do you think all those women that are graduating with Uni degrees talk about? That they're uncapable of discussing it - while graduating with higher grades than the men? All you are showing us is that you don't get close enough to women for them to want to even engage in conversation with you - because you are misogynistic. Most men that I know are unable to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:08 AM |
| 8 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?ERRRRR WRONG! More women study political science than men. I discuss PoliSci theory on the daily. Try again kid. The reason why women aren't talking to you is your blatant misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:04 AM |
| 8 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?roflmao, you clearly don't know women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:03 AM |
| 11 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?Thank you for outing yourself as a raging misogynist. You clearly don't know women and have some sort of disability to recognize that just because people are different from you that doesn't make them less than you. I'm so glad you guys are showing your true selves here. Always when I start thinking men might be decent you guys come and prove to me just the way men think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Why shouldn't men be the catch in relationships?Wow, you regressed women down to "sex" - do you have any clue what that says about you?? It tells the rest of us that you don't see women as people. You only see women as suppliers of sex. That is RAGING MISOGYNY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Precisely! OP u/jmoincali why do you think all women are the same? Is it because you fail to see us as people? That we can't possibly be as diverse as men. Should we infer that all men want to have 9 kids with 6 women because that's what rappers do? Or should we just generalize about certain races of men? Explain to us why you think women are this one block of people that all think alike and men aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:50 AM |
| -2 | “Women make their own money now”Immigration solves that problem in a jiffy. Lack of people is not a problem in the world, quite the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:07 AM |
| 13 | “Women make their own money now”That's because Swedes have taken in so many asylum seekers that they're trying to curb the number of people coming in through these same refugees. Swedes are unfortunately paying the price now of letting in loads of people from "shithole countries" (quoting, not judging, war and dictatorship is objectively a shithole) in where they keep on behaving as if they're in a shithole country and it is causing a lot of strain on the Swedish society. They're limiting the number of 'foreign families' withi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:05 AM |
| 17 | “Women make their own money now”Yeah, I fail to see the problem. Except of course that this creates pent up anger in men that don't feel like they should have to put in effort to attract a mate. That's a societal issue that MEN need to address and solve. I can't get in the head of those guys, only other men understand this slavery to the little head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.He is no Chad, but he is fairly good looking and through his WIT can get pretty much any woman he wants. He is charming because on top of good looks he is also highly intelligent and would get bored with a "good girl" that wouldn't try everything once. By the way, it is very childish of you to downvote my comments just because you disagree with me. This is bad Rediquette on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.Men are the opposite. They do not like bad traits in women. By my experience this is not true. My friend only dated 'crazy girls' and used to say "crazy in the head, crazy in the bed" - unironically. Totally forgetting that he himself was absolutely crazy in the head. They sure had good sex while it lasted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveNo, they are not the only ones that struggle but as people get older they become louder and more desperate. "Just shower" is the bare minimum, if you think you have established in yourself the qualities and habits that women want from a mate then we can move on to the next level of where and how you approach them. Are we there yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:18 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveThis is just not true. Ugly men get sex on the daily just like ugly women. If women put work into their appearances that makes the average woman that much more attractive than the average men the solution is not for women to stop grooming and looking their best, the solution is for men to shave, shower and wash their clothes. Women are not the only people that like looking their best. Loads of guys do too and take good care of themselves, but unfortunately they seem to be a minority, at least ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 12:02 PM |
| 63 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.It is very easy for men to get full or joint custody. MOST MEN DON'T ASK FOR THAT. Go speak to men about why they're not taking care of their own children before you blame women for not being able to do the job of two people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:19 AM |
| 33 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.Of course WoMeNZ should give up all the sex and not bother men with those minor details. Also if a baby comes out of it then it's the job of the woman to deal with it. It's unfair to blame the guy that contributed half the DNA. Let's blame the person that took responsibility for what happened, either by ending the pregnancy or by raising the offspring. WoMenZ aren't doing a good enough job ON THEIR OWN. Let's spew some vitriol and blame their way - from the shelter of our immorality and irrespon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menroflmao, but you guys absolutely are. Research shows looks matter more to men, hygiene to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menPrecisely my point, basic things like respect, grooming and decency is too much of an ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:34 AM |
| 5 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menSo your ideal society is one where women are treated like property? And parents negotiate to assign women to men against their will. That is utterly disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 27 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menIt is perfectly fine to want to date somebody who matches your own attractiveness level. The trouble is that the guys that go for the hot girl are often not so hot themselves. But of course she's the shallow bitch when she rejects them. My point is hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menNo, the question is why men don't do the same. Men keep complaining about not getting women but when we tell you guys what we want the answer is REPEATEDLY "it's too hard, I'm not gonna try because it's prolly not gonna work" which is a L-Loser attitude to life. Women try to present themselves in the best manner possible because it makes them feel good to look good. Which makes them on average prettier than the average male (again, check the stats men are fatter than women even though women were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 45 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to men"Hotties only, no uggos or fatties." Also him "Shallow FeMaLeS! They're only interested in looks" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.Then you need to accept that you'll never be in a relationship with a woman because your consistent complaining and unjust blame-game constitutes emotional abuse. Serious question: what do you say about yourself on Tinder? I'm not asking for the exact copy, just the gist of what you say on your profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?What "benefits" are that exactly? Being endlessly blamed for anything men feel is wrong with their life? Or the violence that springs out of it? Or lower wages and way more unpaid work? Or the fact that women had to set up ALL social services because while men were solely in charge they didn't do that. Or that women's rights to THEIR OWN BODY can be removed by religious nutters? The fact that SOME men can't find purpose in today's society is painted to be women's problem because these same men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 0 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.You seem to have completely missed when you answered your own point. If men are this bad ad socializing and reading social cues the only way to solve that is TO PRACTICE being social. But nooo "too hard to bother". Again, showing us that it is your quitter attitude that is your problem. Nobody wants a spouse that never does anything worthwhile because it is too hard. Stop blaming women for troubles of your own making. Edit: Out of curiosity what does your Tinder bio say about you and how many pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.You are so wrong I don't know where to start. Honestly I just can't *yet again* correct the same nonsense here over and over again. Yes. Men will spend money to get laid. OLD is just one way of many. Wrong. If you are constantly striking out that is a sign that you have set your bar too high for the level you play at. Either you lower your standards or remain single - this is the same for EVERYBODY. Everybody is trying to punch up, if that means you strike out you need to either strike at your o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:38 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherThere is a mountain of money to be made from these men and is being made as we speak. All the porn and gaming services are precisely speaking to this void. Also gyms. Also the army. What you notice Bill Maher not doing which is done on this sub in every single post on the subject is that he doesn't blame women for men's problems. This is a problem OLDER EN NEED TO SOLVE WITH YOUNG MEN. It is not "societies" role (read: women's role) to solve these problems to save themselves from men. It is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:24 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherWhat is the cost precisely? Unethical solutions? Which ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I presume you're going to want to leave children and the elderly alone with the dudes that are eager to work those positions - right? Because we don't know that predators try to mix in with the caring guys. With that said WOMEN DID FIGHT TO GET INTO THE MILITARY AND FIGHT. Women had to do that and many were ATTACKED and RAPED for daring to do so. Don't even try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 09:49 AM |
| -2 | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?Because they are going in for fields where their conservative views would be enforced like economics or programming where they earn a lot and don't want to share it with the government. Libertarians are typically people that have been blessed with a high socioeconomic stature as well as the ability to earn a lot (fit, good looking, smart... gifted in all areas but the prefrontal cortex) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 09:31 AM |
| 0 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?No, it is a personal issue for you. But it can become a societal issue because single men are way more prone to violence, crime and destructive behavior. Y'all need the army. This is why kings used to have wars. Not only for the spoils but because you need to get rid of all those extra, antisocial men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 0 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?Women are the majority of college graduates. Men are the uneducated ones. This just revealed your own misogyny and misconceptions about what is really going on in the world. The reason you don't write about women in history books is because women have been deliberately OMITTED and BANNED from taking part. So many women have been written out of the history books by guys like you. You are blind to women's accomplishments because you don't see women as equals. That is misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Dude, I run my own household and have ran big households. I know what needs to be done. It isn't even close to equal what you counted. It's periodical work vs. all the stuff that needs to be done on the daily. Why are you fighting me on this instead of learning from what women are telling you? This is one of the main reasons for divorce (cheating and finance problems too) yet here you guys are telling US WOMEN what WE think and why WE make the choice that is ASKED about in the OP. Stop telling u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:16 PM |
| 19 | Granny admits that the biggest mistake of her life.....is getting married! Ladies, what and who needs to change, to get men and women back to committed relationships?Odds are you'd still end up with most of the work especially the child-raising. I liked being married but it nearly killed me because the workload was so unequal. I liked being a 50/50 parent the most because that ensured the fairest division of labor. And it gave me time to live my life every other week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?All you named is periodical stuff, not something that needs to be done on the daily. And women do most of the gardening besides mowing the lawn. Cars are taken to the mechanic. all of those are things that I do every once in a while myself as a homeowner, none of them equal the work of cleaning the home, cooking, shopping, washing and running the household. Let alone if you add kids to this equation. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?If what you are saying is true then why are women choosing to be single? That's what this post is about. The fact that women prefer to be single than with men. Men keep blaming women when in reality you guys haven't followed with us into a society with equal roles. We "get" to work outside of the home but when we come home our spouse still thinks everything in the home is our job and he should only "help". Same with the children. I see this pattern all over the place. This is the reason women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I am sapiosexual, I am attracted to brainpower. And that requires respect. Men seem to think women should be their new sex-mommy. That's not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 12 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?And teachers, nurses, daycare and government agencies are not society? Yet again you guys show us just how blind you are to women's work. Ed. This was just embarrassing for you. Very common, very telling and very embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?You're confusing money that is directed towards children through the parents. Parents know this . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:33 PM |
| 0 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?Based on what? Maybe keeping quiet long enough to listen to women. If we are financially independent then we do not need a man. Finally women have the chance to focus on more important things like science and social issues. This is great for humankind but mostly womankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 3 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?The result will be more happy women and great leaps in science now that these women can focus their time and brainpower on something worthwhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 28 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Wrong. We simply want a partner that treats us as equals. And that seems to be too much to ask from most men. Simply putting in equal work is too much of an ask for most men. Treating women with respect and not expecting a servant seems to be too much. This sub is a perfect deterrent for any woman that has been thinking about dating. One visit and I'm reminded of why I just can't be bothered with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?It is not because men are unable to love. They think sex is love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Why are you listening to people that don't know the first thing about women and not listening to women themselves?? You guys are just unbelievable with the misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Yet that is not what women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 14 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?You are clearly not a woman and don't know the first thing about women. Stop trying to mansplain women to women, stfu and listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 24 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?You don't know the first thing about women. Stop trying to tell women what women think. You guys are unbelievable in just how you ignore anything women say about the issue and just create BS in your mind and then run from there. Mansplaining women to women, how embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 14 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Yet again this sub doesn't fail to whoosh. Women are not as sex-addicted as men are. Women get companionship from each other, usually better companionship than they get from men. You guys aren't allowed to beat us anymore. Now we're "allowed" to own property and get educated, something men prohibited women from achieving through the centuries (cue some guy naming exceptions...). We would be with men IF they pulled their own weight and were NICE to be around. Since that criteria isn't being met w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 9 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestYet another one sided post that completely leaves out the causes or state of affairs in Korea or the reason for 'radical feminism' to become so popular. Because it is an extremely misogynistic society and has been for ages. But that part and all the actual violence was left out. Yet another WoMenZ BaD post without any ability to see the other side. Yawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:22 AM |
| 14 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I don't understand why they obsess so much over women's sex life. This is next-level obsession. I'd be embarrassed if I was this obsessed over men's behavior. The only reason I'm here is because of the onslaught of FeMaLeS BaD posts that get posted here and the fact that if left unchecked this kind of obsession easily becomes dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:46 AM |
| -1 | ComicCon has a sex worker problemI mean most of us could if we bothered put in the work. I just can't be bothered than do more than what I feel is 'peak performance' for my body. You know, walking often enough outside to keep from getting depressed but not enough to be really called fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:39 AM |
| 9 | ComicCon has a sex worker problemRight! This is where my progressive ass draws the line. DO NOT MIX KIDS WITH SEX-anything. I stopped bringing my kids to my city's pride parade when they went from carnival costumes (very skimpy) to several near nude bondage floats with middle aged sadists forcing the crowd to take part in their kink. Same with dragging kids to drag shows, they're often hella crude and sexualized. It has no more business there than at Dita Von Teese's show. Just like the church the woke folk need to leave kids t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneThe test is whether you maintain a friendship when sex is off the table, even though you're attracted to her and maybe coulda,woulda in another lifetime. If the 'friendship' ends when sex is politely removed off the table then that is not a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveDoing the things that make the brain produce the chemicals, not doing the things that create negative emotions. Now we have a list to work with and it includes things like never leaving your spouse with a burning sense of injustice, remembering to kiss and cuddle, doing stuff together, not betraying trust etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:49 AM |
| 14 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveOoooooOooooOooooooOhOh OooooooOhOh OooooOooOh Oooh Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh Ohhh Yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityParagraphs. Nobody reads that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityOh of course men's behavior is somehow women's fault. This sub is a prime example of misogyny. Nothing here is ever men's own fault, not their own sex life, not their own behavior - NOTHING. It's all the BaD FeMaLeS that "make" men be and behave like assholes. Because women gave birth to men and did most of the work raising them. Even if being an asshole came naturally to these same men and is an innate part of their personality. You guys are whiny babies that can't handle being an adult that ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityOf course men's behavior is somehow women's fault and not their own. Men never take responsibility for their own shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:22 AM |
| -3 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Funny how the reverse scenario, a guy sleeping with other women, seems to be totally normalized amongst men though. I can't with these "one set of rules for boys and another for girls". If they are not exclusive they are free to do as they please but one would think that these sex-only encounters would fizzle out as the serious relationship develops. Sleeping with the same guy while getting to know another is only a sign that she's trying to keep her body count low. If she jumped into the sack w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneOP is not their friend! Stop acting as if he's doing something noble while they are using him for "emotions". He is pretending to be their friend in case sex would be offered. OP is not a friend or a good guy if he does that. If a guy isn't a friend when there is no hope of sex then he is not a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:39 AM |
| -2 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneMen ENDLESSLY whine about women not wanting to have sex with them while complaining over women being sluts. MEN SHOULD STOP WHINING AND FOCUSING ON FUCKING OTHER MEN. Problem solved for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't EVERY guy prefer a virgin for a serious commitment?roflmao, this swings between being funny and sad. Because the virgins you speak of are religious nutters and don't know any better. You sound EXACTLY like one of those guys that joins a cult for the women. Lord save them from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't EVERY guy prefer a virgin for a serious commitment?"MAKE WOMEN IGNIRANT AGAIN!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Is increased porn use a cause or symptom of sexlessness?So you're comparing dates with sex. Sure both events should include eating out but you can't really conflate conversation and the intimate act of letting somebody enter your body. It just isn't the same. Even if you're a bottom it still isn't the same because that won't potentially affect your baby-making gear and whole future quality of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Is increased porn use a cause or symptom of sexlessness?Even Playboys weren't necessarily easy to find. Now it takes 30 seconds on the internet to find whatever you like. Pfff, my father was considerate enough to leave it in the bottom drawer. I also read a lot of his imaginary erotica. I returned the favor later and brought back tapes from Amsterdam. But seriously lack of sex is why it is more common, but that doesn't explain the overconsumption some have fallen into. That's just a drug addict, wanking triggers their dopamine so they act just like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 17 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationDude, you're telling on yourself. I suspect you're either very young or have had a stroke in the prefrontal cortex that's limiting your development of empathy and complex logic. Bless your heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:45 PM |
| 14 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationThis guy was doing us a favor. Every day I hang here I like men a little less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 22 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Funny thing is that most of the guys that want a 'pure' girl WISH that they could land more girls themselves. They are hypocrites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?People are not soda. You are going to need to dig deeper for the real reason.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:46 AM |
| 9 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?I love my post-marriage-and-kids adult life. I'll date casually and do social things but there is no way I'm ever going to have another person dictating my schedule or asking me if they can 'put some clothes in the next load'. This service desk has permanently closed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 7 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?Sure, but to show that you do know your way around a saw, drill, jack and powerwasher absolutely increases your value as a man. As a woman I find men are hesitant and scares when I show that I know my way around the tool shop. They'll start second guessing my plans - as if these men knew the first thing about how to execute what I'm about to build - and then when I explain the process they'll tentatively nod their head and quietly agree that "MAYBE" my plan might work but make it obvious that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 3 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?I can assure you that we were thoroughly unimpressed by his behavior. It is a sure sign he'll treat us the same if we date him. If anything you gained sympathy points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to turn down sex with a woman and not lose a fanAnd if the other person said "Nobody needs to know" you say "I'd know. And it would interfere with my work. It's nothing personal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to turn down sex with a woman and not lose a fan"Sorry for phrasing it so crudely but I don't crap where I eat. It is a principle of mine because I need to eat and have a home." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 20 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyI think the reason they want a virgin or low N count is because they don't want her to have any comparison in bed or experience to be wise to their BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 09:50 AM |
| 5 | Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives?Monogamy is never going out of style. You'll always have a majority of people that are in a two-people relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:08 PM |
| -1 | Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives?As a woman that was preyed upon by an older coworker creep that worked on me for a year as a side-hustle, I have to say that it is not a completely bad experience IF you get out early, as I did. Yes he absolutely preyed on me with his superior seduction skills. The sex was great and his act was good which kept it going for a few months. But at the end of the day I was just a conquest, once I was 'conquered' in the bedroom he didn't have a clue what to do with me. I would never have been the subs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?You do realize the same goes for men? A woman can provide them with everything and still they'll go out and cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Way to try to make it about OP and not him. He is the one with the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Of course you are the person to bail on your close ones when they really need you. What else did we expect? I'm so glad you guys are here to remind me how men really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Awww, you think only your kind of emotional counts. because your brain still hasn't grown to be capable of empathy. Right now you're stuck in your feelings without the ability to register other people's perspective and feelings I know it is hard to overcome your bias towards women but if your mom came to you and told you the same it is nice to know that you'd jump straight into doubting her. You really need to overcome your negative feelings towards women, being so emotional will make people avo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 07:47 PM |
| 13 | Are women just as cruel as men?No. The murder and crime stats prove that women are not as cruel as men. Women do not abduct men and keep them in a basement for DECADES while raping them daily. That's all on men. Try again. Ed. do you see women whining and hating on men on this sub to the rate that men do? NO. The aggression is all from your side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 7 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Now you are just making up scenarios in your head. We have no information to indicate any of that except that she has a warrant and NEITHER one of them trusts the police. We don't know anything about what the warrant is for, in the US poor people are left to rot in jail whil ethe rich bail out. You guys jump straight to thinking shit about this woman making up excuses why OP should treat her with unkindness and selfishness. Yet you claim to have something to offer a woman. This sub is full of wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 09:31 AM |
| 3 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Right! That is very likely the answer. And how does this sub 'help'. By calling her a hoe and telling him to leave her. And then they have the cluelessness to wonder why women will choose Chad over them. Because at least Chad knows to fake nice. These guys can't even manage that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?And yet you guys wonder why you're single. Somebody gets assaulted, what do you do? LEAVE. Yeah, if that's as helpful as you'll ever get that's the answer.. They should all leave you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Go ask on a sub for these things, you literally just asked the second most toxic group on Reddit. r/redpill would have given worse answers but not by much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:24 AM |
| 3 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?This post is so revealing about the empathy you guys show to somebody who just got assaulted. There is no reason to think that she had anything to do with it yet all the guys here jump straight to blaming the victim. This is why you can't get women. You are not right as a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?You just got proven wrong. You also just lied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:21 AM |
| 2 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?Do you know anything about crime? Women are TAKEN off the streets on the daily, assaulted in their cars, in their homes, in the street. This sub is full of people who blame the victim. Disgusting. But very on brand for half of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:21 AM |
| 9 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?THAT HAPPENS EVERY SINGLE DAY! You clearly don't know about how often women get assaulted out of the blue. None of the people here have provided any good advice except for the person that said go to rainn.org. This is why the guys on this sub are single. Because they're toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:20 AM |
| 17 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?A person just got assaulted and you call her a hoe. OP, this is a fine example of why you should not have asked on this sub, some people here are both emotionally and cognitively challenged. Nobody with half a brain cell and a functioning sense of empathy would ever speak like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:18 AM |
| 4 | how you do really help somebody who has been assaulted?This is so far from being the sub for that discussion. Go to r/askwomenadvice You will get half good advice here and half very bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter?Not threaten his ego apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 25 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeI think all these guys that complain over women dating jerks don't understand is that THESE GUYS ACT NICE TO WOMEN, which is why women date them. They only show their true face to other men because other men will defend them, they're 'the bros'. The assholes also show women a side of themselves that they never show other men, EVER. Then they go and act like assholes around other men, showing off just how degrading to women they can be to look "cool" - because apparently men seem to think that it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.I have yet to meet a man that truly considered women to be men's equals. Different but equal. It is always "different and thus less worthy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 12:23 PM |
| 9 | What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter?I agree with you, I don't know where OP is getting that she thinks she is better than them. She is being forced by the format to reject a bunch of guys and she's trying to pick reasons to eliminate them one by one. I think this post is a really good demonstration of the fact that men will find any imaginary reason to hate on a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenSo we should teach girls to treat boys like they're disposable servants. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Those were the guys that came there with intent to have fun, the others were there looking for something more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.To be fair, nobody needs to teach men that. It seems to come just naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.No, she is not the mad one, they are. She is trivialising their anger. They are justified getting mad for having a whole team of people waste their time and play with their ego, but they are not justified threatening her. She doesn't understand why they are pissy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.whoosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 8 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenGuys, you really need to start going to therapy. These conspiracy theories based in no knowledge about women are getting beyond tiring and frankly rather embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealAre you really saying that protecting women from rape and being a rapist is cut from the same cloth? Because ultimately the goal is to dominate a woman? Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealI understand that you are serious but you can't really argue that the state of men is to be violent rapists. Because if you read again that's what you're saying is missing from masculinity. Be whatever you want to be but stop bothering women with it. We don't want your violence or hypersexuality Just leave us out of it. Sorry that you need to be considerate of others, I know it's not your natural state. (or do you maybe, like most women, reject the picture that the opposite sex paints of you?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsNo, women condemn men for how they act towards women. And they don't do it nearly as viciously as men do - just look at this sub and the ENDLESS whining over women trying to live their own life without men. Not bothering anybody, just choosing not to date an it is the source of ENDLESS complaints and violent offenses out in the real world. Violence is the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?Women try to use their words they rarely use force. There is a HUGE difference between the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 09:59 AM |
| 7 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.Yes, I keep telling you guys to start fucking each other. It's only gay if you're gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.Why are you guys so self-centered? You claim men make ALL the effort yet haven't spared a thought into what work women put in or the money they spend on looking good for attractive mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:48 AM |
| -2 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsI presume that longrant about being used for sex stems in the "incredibly warped" notion that sex shouldn't be transactional and wasn't for them. See how men keep condemning women for not being like men. To me men are the twisted ones. They are the violent ones. They are the antisocial ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?No, this totally depends on the company you keep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?Again you try to divert from your own contribution. I asked you questions, please answer them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsWhy can't men here stop obsessing over women and making up shit that has no logic or base in reality. The reason so many men don't have dates or sex is BECAUSE THEY DON'T PUT IN THE RIGHT EFFORT. You keep thinking you'll get women on your own terms and then whine and complain here over women not wanting you but at the end of the day very few men that fall into this category ever put any work into their looks or personality. Women should just fall out of the trees and into their lap. Stop obsessi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:31 PM |
| -1 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?Maybe if we're lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 21 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?What exactly are you doing to accommodate women's hormones? Since you claim to be putting up with so much you wouldn't mind explaining to us all the hard work you're doing because of women's hormones. Don't skim over your assertion and go straight to "what can I get out of it", first you need to tell us exactly what you are putting in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 23 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?Women ARE endlessly putting up with men's hormones. Nearly ALL the violence in the world is due to male hormones. Rapes and murders of women too. You really need to get out of your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 13 | Is redpill really that bad?yes, redpill is hella toxic and misogynistic. These guys are so preoccupied with Chad and how he's getting all the girls instead of focusing on the fact that a) women are people that generally function differently than men b) women are very rational people, you can talk to them c) women don't owe anyone sex d) women like guys that looksmax, that's the only part of the RP you should adopt because that revolves around bettering yourself but apply the same logic to both your looks AND your inner ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Are older single women who never had kids actually happy or is that a lie?research indicates it is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.So his hotness outweighed the misogyny and have even been a leading factor. The thing here is that you guys are wrong thinking that sex has anything to do with it. You'll see it in who women choose to live with permanently. Young men are typically horribly sexist due to their immature prefrontal cortex and complete lack of ability to put themselves in other people's shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.Trust a man to boil it all down to a measurement of sex. Look at the divorce reasons. That's where it's at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic mentl;dr too many men are toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:13 AM |
| 0 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingYes. Because the handsome fool is disposable. You guys really need to work on looksmaxxing or stop the whining. No less than 5 supposedly functioning men in my life need to be regularly reminded to clean themselves and their clothes. All of them wonder why women don't want to date them. The floor is lava. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingNo it does not. Yet again we repeat ourselves on this sub: the men we choose for ONS are different from mates. I swear you guys are OBSESSED with women's sexual behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Attractive men are really rareThat is factually incorrect https://www.statista.com/statistics/237133/us-obesity-by-gender/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Attractive men are really rareFor some men it obviously is, but you really need to stop assuming that everyone thinks like you. I can objectively find people beautiful or even attractive without wanting to have sex with them. The sooner you realize that people have ALL KINDS of reactions and thought patterns the sooner you'll feel more at home in life and have less altercations like this one where you keep telling me what I must be thinking. It took me a long time to understand just how sex driven men are because as a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 10:25 AM |
| 6 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?Nope. You guys just don't understand women. I would fuck a pretty fool but I would never willingly have a potentially stupid child with a stupid man. All of this just yet again shows us that women value babies while men value sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:05 AM |
| 0 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?Your answer just showed us that you know very little about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Men cannot talk to women the same way they talk to men, it is bad advice to tell men to treat women like they would their guy friends.BOOOOOOOOO! I AM A MAN WHISPERER. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men are really rareIn this case majority views. Both men and women find women the fairer sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ?Not at all. I spoke to two guys off of Tinder last night after matching with them - on the phone because that is the fastest way to screen out whether we're compatible or not. Saves loads of time. Turns out one was a cook and the other was a painter... and they had no interest in academia, which is my life. This is why people need to put stuff in their bio so people can save themselves time. I don't care how good looking a guy is, if he isn't quick in the head he's of no use to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themMisogynistic men are typically deeply insecure men. Stubborn people are typically emotionally stunted people that are unable to see things from other perspectives than their own. Once they grow to be able to see more perspectives their ability to compromise and work out solutions grows, Whenever I see a stubborn, jealous or prideful person I know to avoid them regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themNo because to women it signals strings-attached and we don't want any man to be able to pull the 'norm of reciprocity' on us to pressure for sexual favors. I know very well how many men change their behavior to be fake nice when they want to sleep with me but are general assholes to all other women and of course me when I've refused their advances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?An "on the spot" proposal in public is my idea of hell. This would be on my list of a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?I don't know what you're talking about. There is way more demand for me than supply of me going around. I'm not looking for a husband. I'm only looking for partners in crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:43 AM |
| 7 | Attractive men are really rareWoosh Women are simply objectively way prettier than men. Even a woman like me that only finds men sexually attractable can see that most men are not attractive and that the average woman is way more attractive than the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Attractive men are really rareAnd yet he married that woman. You should see the pics of when they met Leonardo DiCaprio roflmao. These guys prove that looks are not needed to pull women. Power, money, charisma, talent , potential- all of that also pulls women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men are really rareJeff Bezos has entered the chat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men are really rareThe Oppenheim twins have entered the chat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 17 | Attractive men are really rareI believe I'm straight but I still find way more women attractive than men. Not that I have sexual feelings towards them, I just objectively think they are more attractive than the average man at their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history?As long as they are disease free or a virgin IDGAF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.WRONG! Backed up by studies. Show me the research for your claims. Women care about hygiene more than looks and women care more about security for their offspring than looks. Just look at Jeff Bezos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.Here's a fine example. You automatically assumed I was a man. Man is not the default setting for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.Nah, just the men trying to hmu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?I would say: I'm sorry. There is nothing more to say. He's not a sucker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:21 AM |
| 11 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.The 'funny' thing is that many guys that have casual sex with a woman will wake up the next morning and try to punish her for hoe-ing around - as if they weren't benefitting from it and doing the very same thing. This tendency of being mean or plain up evil to women who have done nothing but have sex is revolting and certainly not a good testament of the psychological workings of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.Women don't want to fuck uglies. No more than men that place an even bigger value on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:32 AM |
| 8 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.You are showing such entitlement here to sex it is disgusting. "because she didn't make that guy wait she's wrong for making other guys wait. Also men hate women that have sex." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.She is not wrong for living the sex life she wants,. You guys really can't see the sense of entitlement you show here. It would be funny if it wasn't so sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.No, she sleeps with who she wants if she feels like it, just like a man. Just because she sleeps soon with one men she's not obligated to do that with another man. But clearly women should simply not be dating men because according to you most men hate women anyway and only see them as cumbuckets or breeders. Nice picture you painted here for us of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:29 AM |
| 16 | Why its not in your best interest as a woman to have a promiscuous past.tl;dr Men are hypocrites that whine over women not wanting to sleep with them while having contempt for women that do. This just makes me like men even less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 4 | (The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRLDon't worry man, just stop having sex with kids in the home. Take them somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:16 AM |
| 4 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menYou're overestimating the 'gayness' of women. Women rarely act on their bisexuality, not compared to gay or bi men that frequently engage in casual sex and treat it as a much more trivial thing than women. Women connect through friendship and shared feelings more than sex. Everything with men is either about sex or ego/competition. Even in the relationship many men feel like they constantly have to win over their partner - and in doing so start viewing their partner as a loser. It is toxic and n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 0 | "Male doctors murder women!"That's not how % work. I read this study a while back, it is a macro study with tens of thousands of patients iirc. The difference was deemed statistically valid. This is unfortunately true. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Women control how men act in datingScroll through the sub. It's a constant whine-fest over how hard it is to date nowadays... because there aren't enough women, aren't enough venues and even if men meet a woman she might not want to 'go steady'. Most single women over 50 don't ever want to live with a man/husband/boyfriend again. they'd rather live separately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Men dont have much to offer in datingYou would not believe how many men I know that can't even manage to keep themselves clean, let alone their clothes or home. One very sharp friend who works as a journalist is also a trash-hoarder. He's regularly kicked out of apartments for hoarding. While being an expert in his field. Another friend lives alone on a farm and never meets anyone. Is deeply misogynistic and expects me as a woman to take care of all logistics as if I was his mother. Then he complains over not getting dates. He smel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?I doubt that no girl has ever shown interest in you. I think there must be at least one instance where you have rejected a girl because you didn't think she was right for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on stay at home dads?You are wrong in your assumption that women would do the bare minimum for a relationship -the division of labor just doesn't reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on stay at home dads?Are you a woman or a man? As a woman I can answer for me and for the sentiment of the women I know and many of them are strong women that would not have any problems with their husband being a SAHF. I however have a feeling most men couldn't cope with the role and thus project onto women what women want. But maybe I'm just assuming and men would like to raise the children and keep a spotless house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.No. Most women in that situation offer other solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Men dont have much to offer in datingThis means women do not have the incentive to get into relationships and the only reason they would is if the guy is perfect and they really like him. Oh honey, have you met men? None of them are perfect and neither are women. Women are desperately trying to find a man that will CARRY HIS WEIGHT in the relationship. He doesn't have to out-earn her, he doesn't have to be perfect, he just doesn't have to be an entitled asshole that expects the woman to do majority of the work at home because of he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 28 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.Yet every single oncologist warned me about this, especially when the woman becomes unable to have sex for longer periods of time. Men are WAY more likely to divorce a sick spouse than vice versa. Just look at what happens when a wife dies, the man typically has her replaced within an embarrassingly short amount of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:51 AM |
| -2 | Women control how men act in datingThis theory that women control how men act is the biggest hogwash and transfer of power that I've heard in a long while. Men have had the muscles, economic power and pretty much all power in society because of muscles and military might - but dare claim that women are in control of how they act. Give me a break. Men are responsible for themselves. Grown ass people trying to transfer responsibility for their own behavior on the people that suffered the behavior "if you had set boundaries this wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Women control how men act in datingYou can't make people responsible for how others act. Men here complain that women have stopped dating and then have the audacity to blame women instead of looking at themselves and why women wouldn't want to go out with them. Notice how all the complaints over not getting enough of the other sex is ALL from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:46 AM |
| 4 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Don't argue with the numbers This is just r/badwomensanatomy on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexSo now you know what other people think?? You know nothing Jon Snow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessThis whole discussion has revealed that men could get a relationship if they wanted.... they'd just have to drop their standards down to their own level... sorry, that's reality for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:48 AM |
| 17 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?That's because women are designed to carry more fat than men. When a woman is 'cut' she still has double the body fat that a man does. Fat is necessary for women to be able to have babies, if a woman gets too skinny she'll stop menstruating. You can't compare women's fat to men's fat as if they're two equal things because they aren't. With that said: Both genders have become fat as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Right now you are at PEAK WIFE MATERIAL. Do not worry, get in there. I give you the same advice I give the men: Go sign up for a hobby class in something that's a man's dominated field. Doesn't matter what it is as long as you enjoy doing it. WORKING TOGETHER to solve common problems is how men and women connect best with each other. Scientifically proven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 2 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessThis is the trade-off ALL of us face. The problem isn't lack of possible relationship partners, it's lack of partners you'd accept. Which is why everybody should be working towards selföimproving. Because if you're stuck out of the market it's clear you are the one that can't offer enough to a partner you would find acceptable. Either people have to lower their standards to match their own level or level up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleIn a vaseline jar. Or on a fleshlight or sex-robot site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessSo the problem could technically be solved by lowering your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessHave you ever rejected a woman that you felt wasn't good enough for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessBeing a decent human is necessary for a happy relationship and long term love. Imagine offering a partner this view on life: "other people manage to stay in shitty relationships so why not me?" This is so often the reason people get divorced, because they didn't put any work into themselves or the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessThose take loads of work from both people and I think the sexes typically want romance and sex in reverse order. The biological urge to procreate is strong and so is the human need for company and love. The problem is that people have to work at these things and give just as much as they take. That's where I typically feel the whole thing starts to fall apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 12 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessYou are conflating sex and dating here. And sex and romance. If sex is what guys need then that's fairly easily solvable with money. But that's rarely how they want it solved. They want 'the problem' solved with conditions, typically that they don't have to put in any work to improve themselves for a potential partner. It's about more than just a sense of wanting physical intimacy, it's about getting solutions all on their own terms. Nothing in life works like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:52 PM |
| 9 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleI'll make food for myself. I won't expect a random cook to come provide it for me. Unless I'm willing to pay the cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doOh, we've seen just how low 'average' is. Thus the 'crazy high standards'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.I don't know what to say about that because what I'm describing is the broad strokes of gendered sex behavior. I highly recommend the book The Prehistory of Sex if you're interested in reading about all kinds of weird human sex behavior. Whatever words you use this is the gist of it: women give sex out sparsely because of the risk and men constantly seek it because it is so low risk. Birth-control and DNA samples might change that sometime down the line but not in the two generations we've had s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How common do you think Foodie Calls are?Solely for the purpose of pump'n dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 5 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.Women typically guard sex, men seek it. I don't like persistent male attention from anyone but the guy that I am into. Otherwise it's just the friend zone until a guy has proven himself to have a great personality. Plenty of relationships begin with friendships. Not all of course and I understand that to a horny guy it is difficult to want a woman that doesn't want to have sex with you immediately. Men keep forgetting that sex is extremely high risk for women, it could mean death or a life or ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanAnd? You just told us who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).That's not just it, what OP is saying is backed by stats from surveys. People, especially men are more lonely than before. Fewer people are having sex and more people are getting fat and depressed sitting at home with the blinders on. Humans evolved working in nature and creating things. Men were created to work with their bodies, out in nature. Sweating in community with other men. We don't do that anymore so we're not getting the chemical-high that the body produces to evoke the feeling of hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 6 | The best way to get women is to surround yourself with women.YES! I'm so glad to hear you say it. I keep telling guys here to go into hobbies that are dominated by women - it can be a cooking class, crafting of all sorts, nature/planting or the best one: large Latin dance lessons. Take a few classes before going to open salsa nights that are all over. It will not only bring women but also bloody interesting and fun hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menHey, just like autistic men have special interests so do autistic women. They're all over the place here on Reddit, in RPGs etc. Try talking to them online first and socialising on your and their hobby. And again, I cannot say this enough: GO WHERE THE GIRLS ARE. Men keep complaining but then don't do the things that would lead to success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:49 AM |
| 6 | What’s the solution?the point is not to find a solution, the point is to complain over the other sex, usually on this sub: complain over women not giving op the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:07 AM |
| 4 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?Not just that, men rarely write anything about themselves. US guys are better but where I live I'd say 80% of the men say fuck-all about themselves in the description. They just put in 1-3 pictures and think that's gonna do the trix - expecting women to be just as shallow as themselves and swipe solely on look. Sorry guys, women like to see your personality and I will not swipe on low effort profiles. Because a low-effort profile shows me that this is a low-effort guy. I have no use for another … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:06 AM |
| 7 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?I know at least 10 guys like this. They self-sabotage, can't be bothered and generally are over-indulgent with themselves. They never do difficult or hard things that need to be done, they always take the cowards way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?Read up about the importance of grooming and looksmaxing. Looks matter but not to the extent you think. A good portion of relationships, some 35% started with friendship first that then grew into something more. The problem is that men don't approach women where women come to get approached. Go learn to dance. You'll meet single women there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important?I don't get why you're talking about this from the angle of sex and not procreation. The purpose of life and marriage is to make and raise babies. In partnership. Men don't want to raise other men's babies, women don't want the father of their children to split the goods with another woman's children with him. The woman wants security for herself and their babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 13 | If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important?It isn't about sex. It's about making babies. Monogamy secures that you'll be raising your own children together. That's the whole shebang About establishing a unit that makes and raises babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Women really dislike autistic menDude, this is why you should date autistic women. I'm borderline and I do so well with men. Mostly because they want to fuck me, let's not kid ourselves, too many men don't see friendships with women as worthwhile and lack the ability to connect with women as people. Autistic men are often very socially inept and self centered. My family and friend circle is full of autistic geniuses, some high-functioning,. some barely-functioning without help. Autistic men are so heavy and labor demanding. I j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALOk, you used the word-bastard IRREGARDLESS. It's REGARDLESS. This post is a troll. Moving on. Just too bleep for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALBlueball-philosophy does not apply outside of the blueballs area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?The floor is lava. I know too many men that barely function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Men don't owe women friendshipThis whole post has only revealed who here is unable to see women as people instead of sex objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Men don't owe women friendshipDude, stop calling it friendship then if it was never friendship. Call it what it is: pretending to be nice in order to try to sleep with a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?No. Men value looks more than women. Women value security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:19 AM |
| 8 | Men: how many of you are willing to risk getting married?Dude, almost nobody gets alimony these days, you are harping on something that barely exists. Besides, I doubt most people are wealthy enough that you'd be in danger of paying alimony. And even if I did have to pay alimony it would be pay for raising my kids. Secondly: when men seek custody they typically get it. The thing is that men don't want custody. Women are the ones getting the short end of the stick nowadays. They're forced out of the workforce to raise *mutual* children, get penalised f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Sex is much higher risk for a woman. You are going to have to make a choice here if you want to be a decent human being: You either make her your girlfriend in earnest or you stop pursuing her. If you continue with the intent of sex which she has told you she doesn't want to do unless she's your girlfriend, then you will be a selfish a-h. Respect her boundaries man. She's told you the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 12:49 PM |
| 11 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?That logic applies both ways. HE should be the one respecting her physical boundaries. He's the aggressor and I'm not helping him take more from this poor girl. You're saying it is not a problem that men try to use women for sex and free labor like this guy is doing because it is somehow a game of 'how much can you get away with and this is just how men are created. Good reminder. Men can't act like women should just accept that men are made the way they are but never give women that same courte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 25 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?No, right now she's his maid, he's trying to make her his BangMaid™ without giving her anything of himself in return. OP is acting hella entitled and selfish here. He wants all the upside of the relationship without making her his girlfriend. In other words: OP is just using her and has no intention of making her his girlfriend, he just wants to get everything he can from this girl until he finds somebody 'better' and more worthy of the label girlfriend. Because OP clearly is some prize bull... … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?So you want all the benefits of a relationship without actually being in a relationship. Don't you see the hypocrisy here? Of course she wants some guarantee from you before she starts taking that risk. You are the only thing standing in the way of your happiness. You are acting hella selfish here, wanting all the upside for yourself without giving her anything in return. You don't spend any money treating her nice, she actually cleans and cooks for you and is providing you with free labor that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would be some underrated dating advice?MEN: Go learn to dance. (pref. Latin dances) There will be single women there looking for a partner. STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Does a guy wanting to sleep with his female friend make the friendship less legitimate?Is he faking the friendship? Will he change his behavior and lose interest in the friendship if they sleep together? If that's the case then he was never a friend, just a guy that was playing the long game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Do women really mature faster than men?Yes they do, it has been shown that women's prefrontal lobes mature faster than mens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Do women ever think that the high value dude they are going for can pretty much leave at any point for someone better?Abso-fucking-lutely, I would be very afraid of that to the point that I'd rather date a guy that was not as handsome if that meant I'd get to keep him to myself. I do not trust guys that are too good looking, too many options and the dick usually has no loyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 7 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?The same can be said for men though, so many of them actively ignore their wives sexual needs and think they are beneath putting in work. As if a BJ isn't massive work, the clue is even in the part JOB which should frankly be a paid job if the favor isn't reciprocated. ed typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?excluding complex medical situations Would you guys ever date a woman that was absolutely perfect in any way but she couldn't have PinV or PinA intercourse? Would you leave your wife if she couldn't have sex anymore? (let's say you've already had kids) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Womens body countOr I also feel like now women are sort of like dragging me down with them? Mind explaining this a bit better. It sounds like the only reason you don't have sex with people you'd like to have sex with is because you want to "be good" and because you WANT to be judged on it. That's quite... eh... pickme. This view towards sex is very sex negative and indicates insecure to me. You're not doing things because you want to do them, you do things because you don't want to be judged for being 'bad'. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?No it is not worse when a woman does it. It is equally bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to comeI highly doubt these were all ONS, even the Tinder ones. I also think that this overview represents C-19 restrictions since the switch was so sudden in where she got her bedmates. There was no bar or uni to go to, there was only OLD as an option to get to know people. Then you have a skewed sample of guys on OLD trying to score vs. trying to get into a relationship. Guys that use lines like "what did you think Tinder was for?" when everyone knows Tinder is not just for hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to comeI've kept my list for 45 years. It is important to know one's sexual history just in case or just in case you want to have a reliable account and not just the faded memories of drunken romps in your head. There were people in there that I had totally forgot about. I was surprised to see that my number was 20% lower than I had thought it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to comeIt takes years and if you clock in 3 a year you're up to a high number in a jiffy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?I agree with the sentiment of empathy... which is why I find this sub so toxic. It is a debate sub filled with complaints and demands of empathy while showing little empathy but much frustration with women. Underdeveloped prefrontal lobes along with an overzealous sex drive is a horrible thing to live with. For all involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish?Nope. Boyish men have always been my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man?Not at all. I am the brains of this operation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 5 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?I do not like being sexy. I don't like it when a man says he wants to fuck me as if he thinks that makes me feel special. It doesn't, it makes me feel like an object and my safety is threatened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:16 AM |
| 5 | I don’t like being a man.No it isn't, You are speaking from the depths of depression. Please seek help, | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 10:00 AM |
| 17 | I don’t like being a man.Being a woman is certainly not better. You're tired of the rat race. I recommend spending time in nature and finding your purpose | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering.I saw it happening before my eyes with a large friend group of guys, every time the girl pursued him the relationship ended in him cheating or losing interest, the relationships that stuck were the relationships where the man was constantly interested and pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:51 PM |
| -3 | Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering.Men will not date a woman that they don't chase. Women that come 'too easily' to a man are not deemed worthy or interesting. It's like the guy that's jealous of a woman's exes because he feels he doesn't measure up to them. Not realizing she chose all of them and thus must see them as more or less equals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering.I understand that it can be defeating to be repeatedly rejected. I do not sympathise with men's constant need for sex and I think it reeks of entitlement when men act like their higher libido should somehow be women's problem. Men that want more sex from their partners should ask themselves if they've been selfless and giving lovers, and if they've been receptive to the guidance given on how to pleasure her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.And it is usually done because of a perceived threat or for the personal loot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.So for example men's rights didn't get off the ground In the 1970's women couldn't even have a bank account of their own. It has been and still is a man's system. You speak as if there isn't a massive assault on women's rights right now. An assault that will make many men unwilling fathers and harm kids of both genders. You are right about the fact that most men can't bind together unless there's something explicitly in it for themselves. There are notable exceptions to this though. Women's unit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Its harder to be attractive as a female than it is a maleWomen are more inclined to overlook look 'flaws' for a good partner. This argument doesn't hold when you compare in earnest. Studies show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?You speak as if none of us have lived with men and don't know men. And that we're on top of that unable understand academic literature despite our academic education. This is what so many marriages are like nowadays and it is one of the leading reasons for divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to?Yes, plenty of times. And also lost interest in a handsome man that opened his mouth. I prefer relationships that get built out of friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better?I agree. I find that the rejects are not rejects because of looks but what they did not do with those looks, they barely take care of themselves, are overweight and under-exercised, often suffering from bitterness and a sense of entitlement towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?Because when women become unemployed they do all the housework which men do not do. A man that neither earns nor does anything of value around the house is just dead weight. Reddit is literally full or women looking for advice because their boyfriend quit/lost their job or sold that he was going to SAHP - only for the majority of the house work to wait for the woman when she gets home from work as the breadwinner of the family. This is an ongoing battle all over the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?This is where I remind you that men are 20x more likely to leave a sick spouse than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?Abso-fucking-lutely. I'm a self-made woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What would you say the best places in the U.S. are for men to find a quality woman?Here is a map of where there are more women than men. Looks like your best bet is Mississippi if you're looking for quantity but I'd take any metropolitan area in a women-majority state and work from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexis a classic case of top-out It is a normative curve, people that are too smart start losing social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Do feminists consider sexual activity for men a human right, and if not, why is this the case?If sex was defined a human right that would immediately make a lot of people justify rape. "I'm sorry your honor but the urge was so strong it was either me or her" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Do feminists consider sexual activity for men a human right, and if not, why is this the case?Healthcare is not a human right it is a citizen right derived from your participation in The Social Contract i.e. paying taxes. Different countries have different definitions and many places do not define it so. Being free from violence is defined a human right. Access to reasonably priced water is a public good and thus a human right where defined so - in other places it is not defined as a human right. Sex is not a MUST, it is surely a human URGE and for some it may be a NEED to get an orgasm,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Do feminists consider sexual activity for men a human right, and if not, why is this the case?Nobody is owed money though. The demand is simply that people be paid a fair wage for their job. There are loads of things that are good for you that the government does try to help with but giving access to other people's most innermost spaces is not one of them. You are not owed a cook either even though homemade food is better for you. Ed. I'd be willing to take part in subsidising your vaseline, that's as far as I'll go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Do feminists consider sexual activity for men a human right, and if not, why is this the case?No. Nobody has this right to another person's body or sexual services. If they can find somebody who is willing to do it without being forced then that's fine but no, other people's sex life is not government mandated no more than the government forces you to stop smoking or removes mold from your house because that's also good for you. This is infantilisation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:24 PM |
| 4 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?Entrepreneurial spirit. When he shows you that he will always land on his feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 5 | If you have gold digging tendencies you deserved to be pumped and dumpedThe flip side of this coin of yours is that 'players' deserve to be used for their money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Male beauty standards are exponentially more critical than female'sWomen buy more supplements than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Male beauty standards are exponentially more critical than female'sThis is not a thing. You are sadly misinformed about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:51 AM |
| 12 | Male beauty standards are exponentially more critical than female'sSource? Men put A LOT less work and attention into their own looks. Heck, I can't even tell you just how many men I've met that needed other people to remind them to shower and wash their clothes. That is how 'high' most men's 'standards' are. The literal floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Male beauty standards are exponentially more critical than female'sYet another post with no backup except OP's skewed opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:39 AM |
| -3 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?I agree. I don't have a problem with a man that has a fluid sex preference BUT knowing what I know about the sex life of gay men and how many men are on the DL cheating with men on their partners I simply wouldn't put myself through worrying about him cheating on me with men as well as women. I would be afraid of disease and emotional disloyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingWomen dying of childbirth in the 'olden times' was often due to the fact that they were made to have children way too early before they were themselves fully grown so their bodies hadn't grown to give the space needed to birth a baby. These 'women' were often 14 to 17 years of age when they died in childbirth, usually with their first child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingSo you're using them for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:56 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingNo, most men are not that diligent. They're too lazy to do that much work for sex. If the bar is too high he'll move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:55 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingFor a man that knows little about women you sure are confidently wrong in your assumptions about how women think. Nobody is expecting a Disney prince. We expect a guy that pulls his weight in the relationship, that goes both for earning and working at home, as the divorce numbers demonstrate. Money and unequal workload are the top two reasons women divorce men. Cheating is a whole other issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:53 PM |
| 11 | As a man, I'm super envious of attractive, healthy women. How common and justified do you think this feeling is?I'm a habitual line stepper when it comes to challenging ingrained gender norms and it needs to be done oh-so-tactfully because as a woman you can't get away with the same things as a man. You can get away with different things but not the same ones so during my career I tried to carve out that inbetween ground. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't but at the end of the day I couldn't hide that I was a woman and that my existence as a capable woman is a threat to some guys. Yes as a guy you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | As a man, I'm super envious of attractive, healthy women. How common and justified do you think this feeling is?Oh you should aim to be an attractive man. Most of the same benefits with MUCH less hassle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | what can we do to pull men out of / deter men from the redpill?I think the approach is some sort of self-improvement without the redpill angle, looksmaxing and bettering yourself from a humanist perspective, not mating one. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 9 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.I'm a woman and I've never subscribed to that. I read the wonderful book The Prehistory of Sex a long time ago and it was extremely insightful in revealing a lot of things about sexual behavior. This is pre trans-wave so the lines were pretty clear. To quote myself from last week "men seek sex, women guard it". It's classic animal mating behavior with a human twist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:57 PM |
| 4 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?Oh there are also ugly people gang bangs all over the place. Join a sex club and you'll see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?You speak here as if men have standards. I'm baffled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | The idea that “you can’t control who you’re attracted to” is disingenuous, and fails to recognize the variable of relativity in women’s ability to be incredibly selective. That is, a persons “standards” are fluid and fluctuate quickly in the absence of options.There are 8 billion people on Earth. This is not a problem. And even still it would only take 2 minutes from a fit guy to secure the species. No need to enter into a relationship with a mooch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 3 | The idea that “you can’t control who you’re attracted to” is disingenuous, and fails to recognize the variable of relativity in women’s ability to be incredibly selective. That is, a persons “standards” are fluid and fluctuate quickly in the absence of options.I don't get the problem. If a man doesn't live up to the basic standards a woman has then they are both better off alone. This endless attempt to get women to lower their standards (so you lot can call her a slut) is pathetic. I'm sorry you can't get all the sex you want, now that Roe v Wade has been overturned expect to get even less of it. That's your 'traditional' relationship for you. Wait until marriage or stay 'single'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 28 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?Not a real problem. Enough kids are being born already. Jost not in the 'right' country for some. Why does it matter so much that white women keep on having kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 14 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?This is a non problem. We are over 8 billion on Earth. Having more kids is not a problem. but the US is still using 'the stick' to force women to havre babies. It is not going to go well. And it is nobody's to mess with. It is a private issue for women whether they decide to have kids or not. It is not your role to "stick" or "carrot" anything. Feel free to apply the method to your own relationship and see how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:00 AM |
| – | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?As the demands increase and even below average women are starting to want above average men, the below average men and average men are getting pushed out. Some live with their parents for way too long. Others just stick to a basic job that's "good enough" with no signs of climbing the ladder into hell.This means, in general, that men are less attractive and generally will remain a virgin for a very long time. In the old days guys like that could join a monastery, that's what gay guys and 'reject… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | TRP behavior and modern women behavior are mirror images of each otherSex and the City? Dude, those women are in their 50's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?That's what these guys are whining about. The mental gymnastics behind a man's victim complex is just absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 06:46 AM |
| 3 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?I'm not helping a substandard father become an even more substandard father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 04:35 AM |
| 0 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?Absolutely. You can also start out feeling you didn't hit the jackpot and then grow into love and realize you've got the best partner for you. That is hopefully how things turn out... but reality of course is over half divorce rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?Why on Earth would you tell somebody they're your second choice?? No wonder people have relationship problems on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:12 AM |
| 4 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.Dude, not everything is about you, this is about other people, millions of other people that draw behavior out to a pattern. I don't debate with people that deny reality, it is pointless. Bad day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.The work load inequality. It may be news to you but it is a well established fact through research into who does what in the home. The woman does more free labor taking are of those pesky kids she has on top of all those tools that never get used in the garage and prevent it from being used.... oh no, wait, that's not her stuff but his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 11 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.You are wrong in your assumption that the inequality has changed. This is still one of the leading reasons for divorce and THE leading reason why women over 50 don't want a man. That's a good 25% of life you choose to stay clear based on previous experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 2 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?And? That lowers aggression and sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected againstYes, that's Malthus' law on populations. Malthus specifically stated that the human population increases geometrically, while food production increases arithmetically. Under this paradigm, humans would eventually be unable to produce enough food to sustain themselves. It was in-effect until birth-control and abortions. Now it's on again in some parts of the world. It's going to lead to overpopulation, hunger and eventually war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 04:11 AM |
| 4 | What are ways to affirm a man’s “masculinity” that aren’t tied to “dominating” or “subjugation”?This is what immediately came to mind. A big part of how I experience masculinity is being helpful in ways that utilize male strengths. Like asking a man to help me move some heavy shit. Then I'll cook for him in exchange and I can just see him buzzing on the way out the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 3 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?This is such a classic misogynistic take, usually there is nothing to take except half of what is hers already. She takes HER HALF OF THE ASSETS CREATED DURING THE MARRIAGE FOR HER WORK DURING THE MARRIAGE including most of the work taking care of the children. Men that want custody usually get custody. It is utter BS that "women take the kids" when in reality MEN DON'T WANT THE KIDS. Y'all don't want all the work, you just want to bitch over her taking her fair share for her work, unpaid or not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 03:23 AM |
| 3 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?Future? Why not opt for chemical castration today and live up to your full potential as a cerebral human being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 08:22 PM |
| 6 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?Oh yes! Their victim complex tells them "She used to date hot guys and then she settled with me, booo hoo I feel so sorry for myself" when the guy is perfectly on par with the guys that she used to date. Maybe not ALL of them but surely most of them. But no, he needs to feel sorry for himself because once she dated somebody hotter so he must be second best. Let's all resent on that for a moment, that's surely the recipe for a good life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:39 PM |
| -2 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?If you can't comprehend "everybody is somebody's second best" I really can't help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 14 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?The irony is that to men who the woman is doesn't matter, she is always second best to somebody else that didn't want to fuck him. Everybody is somebody else's second best. That's reality. Instead of getting all buthurt about it you need to grow up, build a bridge and get over it. We're all here just maximising out options based on what we can get. Women are after all way pickier than men so men that are hurt over being' second best' better accept it or subject themselves to self-inflicted pain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:27 PM |
| 3 | I predict that the next generation after zoomers will all looksmax with the pressure on TikTok it is to look perfectPhew, thank goodness that tree was there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:32 AM |
| 9 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?How guys treat women after sex is critical here. If he was a good manipulator he would leave her feeling good about herself and possibly willing to give up more sex in the future. That's how smart manipulators do it. Then you have the assholes that make it abundantly clear afterwards that they were only after hitting it once and that their 'niceness' was just a front and that they are in reality just conniving assholes. I'd say a good 50% of the ONS I had from the age of 14 to 18 were guys being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 09:55 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?Yeah I'm the same. The chances of me getting my dance on increased greatly since it's only us girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?I prefer the term clam-jam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Not to take away from what women do, but I do think men do a lot of emotional labor than what’s saidGuys that receive head but don't give any back have entered and taken over the chat. The imbalance of sexual favors is not in the direction you claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 30 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?It's about way more than sex. Older women are done raising kids and donating their free labor to somebody disrespectful and ungrateful. An overwhelming majority of men thinks living with a woman means that she takes care of you and does most of the unpaid work while he picks and chooses what he's willing to contribute. That may have worked when women didn't have options but nowadays they'd rather be single than live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexWell that's the experience most people have. ONS can be good but are usually disappointing. And if I had to choose I'd rather have meh fuck from somebody I love than a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 10 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexIt is so obvious these guys have little to no experience with women. Good looking guys that don't have to work for sex and have never been in a long term relationship are usually AWFUL in bed. And they don't have good sex. They barely know how to. I could always tell when a guy had been in a long term relationship with a woman who had trusted him and taught him to work a woman's body. The difference is night and day. OP just told on himself, he doesn't know any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexBy many women's own admission, there are hot guys who can have sex right away and there are not-as-hot regular guys, who need to prove that they're good relationship material before there's any sexual intimacy. It then follows that casual sex is more likely to be fulfilling for men than relationship sex. Explain this logical leap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you think your boyfriend truly cares about you?Same here, he did have permission yet he chose to hide it but then he left. So many people run the other way when somebody is dying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 12 | Do you think your boyfriend truly cares about you?I'm not convinced. I've seen what I thought was 'true love' couples deal with a lot of cheating, cheating while the woman was sick, divorcing a deadly ill person, getting married immediately after spouse's death. It seems more to me that in most cases men miss the services that the woman provided more than they miss her as a person. Surely not all but enough for me to seriously question it when most men claim to love a woman. I think they love what she gives them, not her because who she is. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What's the consensus here about women approaching men?I am usually friendly with both men and women but as a general rule women will stop and chat to me as a stranger while men are way more inclined to look at me like I'm some weirdo and not just that chatty lady that has no problems speaking like a friendly human to another human. I would very much like to make a new 'man friend' that way and see where it goes, but it must start with friendship and that's where I don't think men know how to behave. It is perfectly possible to think somebody is hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 21 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?There is so much unsaid here. Men want sex from a good looking woman and free domestic services in exchange for meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?The problem is that he does ask for a lot. He asks for more work than he contributes in kind. And is usually disrespectful and acts entitled while at it. So modern women would rather be single moms than to add on the work of an ungrateful man that doesn't contribute. It is better to let the courts force him to spend some time with his kids and pay their way. Men need to make it clear that they don't see women as free caretakers for them and their children. That is done through contribution and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV:When dating women, It's better to be an asshole than nice even if uglyYou claim women are all over the place asking for men to be more chivalrous and I'm asking you for current links to such claims. Sure you'll find women that have this idea (I'll wait) but contrary to your belief they are a vast minority of women. Women want men to be courteous - just like women are to each other. It i not "chivalrous" to hold the door for the next person, that is normal courtesy. The absence of chivalry should not mean absence of civility but that's not how most men seem to unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 12 | Why are men in redpill are obsessed with women?Or have had none and are bitter because they've never had sex and how dare women not want to have sex with him. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | CMV:When dating women, It's better to be an asshole than nice even if uglyShow me the links from the past week, not just something drug up from historical record. Women want human rights and to be treated like people. men can't even muster that. You just told us on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 5 | CMV:When dating women, It's better to be an asshole than nice even if uglyAhh, how unrefreshing. A guy that knows nothing about women trying to tell us what women want. On the up side at least you won't have to pretend to be an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:05 AM |
| 9 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasks"It's your own fault men are shit" FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it really this complicated?It is not this hard. The 'trick' is to meet women where women are. There are many great places to meet women but usually it is not at their work, unless you work there too and are just getting to know each other slowly. I'm talking about meeting women at their hobby places with DANCING being the absolutely best opportunity and usually totally overlooked too because men think that somehow they're 'degrading' themselves by going dancing. Usually it's just insecurity because they fear they can't mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Women outnumbering Men in college.Women have shitty husbands thrust upon them. Imagine thinking you're marrying your partner only to find out he expects you to do all of the work. It is WAY rarer for women to expect to become a SAHM than it is for a man to expect that his spouse works full time - just like him - and then he thinks she should do nearly all of the work in the home on top. This is unfair and it should not be condoned. The free-loader is at fault, not the person that says stop to the free-loading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is gonna have casual sex, what kind of guy and why?Women do not have a single taste in men. But most of them don't like assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | 105 men born for every 100 womenThe best part is "More men are born than women - thus society hates men." It makes NO sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:59 AM |
| 4 | 105 men born for every 100 womenSo you went from "there aren't enough women" to claiming that because there aren't enough women so that mean society hates men. When there are more men than women to shape society just like they want it - and they do. So because there aren't enough women born for all men to have sex that must mean women and society hate men when in reality MEN are men's worst problem. Women are not forcing men to fight. Y'all do that without any help from women. And again, I'd love to hear you walk yourself and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Even above average women can get insecure in a dating situation.This is just not true. Very few people get things handed in life unless they have rich parents or work in finance. Some beautiful women can marry for money but mostly I notice a little above average girls pimping themselves out with MASSIVE effort and then landing guys to take care of all the cost, paying dearly on a personal level because if you're beautiful you're only valued for your exterior and have to fight for people to give a shit about you as a persona. I was blessed with a high IQ (off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | cheating while drunk is WORSE than cheating while sober.Alcohol lowers inhibitions. You are letting your own hurt feelings cloud your judgment on the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 22 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.I read somewhere that using the term "simping" makes one a Beta. You seem to think that being nice is an act to get sex and then complain that women are insanely picky. I know this may be a shocker but women actually like men that are genuinely kind. If you can't fake it then you're better off single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Women outnumbering Men in college.Then men need to ensure that men aren't left behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:06 PM |
| -2 | Women outnumbering Men in college.This is BS, obviously the women are being treated like garbage since they're forced to divorce these men. Nobody likes to get divorced, you do it as a last resort because your spouse won't pick up their 50% of the effort of raising a family. That is the leading cause of divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Women outnumbering Men in college.Come on now, it's not the smart guys that are going into trades, they go to uni. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Women outnumbering Men in college.Yeah I see the problem. Men are not smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.You have absolutely forgotten to think about shitty jobs women do for their families. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:56 AM |
| 0 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateof course you are the type who doesn't respect women's body autonomy, that comes as no surprise. Some guys just can't become fathers without forcing a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:54 AM |
| 0 | What age does pretty privilege run out for women?Technically that's true for everybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 2 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themYes, I mean rape. It is very much in the arsenal of war crimes. Should have called it by its name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:43 AM |
| 10 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themBingo, men see sex as a power tool and on top of the ejaculation they get a high out of scoring with that woman. Many men will also instantly lose interest in the woman after intercourse because to them it was all about conquering penetration. Sex is one of the most commonly used weapons in war. For example right now in Ukraine. It is very much a power tool to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Fake flattery doesn't feel like a "privilege"It is still just currency for sex. Men will say anything to get sex and they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 06:39 AM |
| 42 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?I'm going to be frightfully honest here, I was blessed by the creator in the sense that I have very smart, successful and beautiful parents and my grandparents were lookers too. I have beauty-queens in my family and they're all well educated and successful in their own right. Two of them coincidentally married heirs that were their college sweethearts. You could say beauty/Handsomeness runs in my family. So anonymously I can speak about the observations I make about how my beautiful group of rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | are people under estimating the factor of chemistry in attractions??At least one of us can laugh about you being single :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | are people under estimating the factor of chemistry in attractions??Chemistry is not overrated, it is the key to modern society. Without chemistry we wouldn't' have all those advances in science and agriculture. Chemistry is also a vital clue whether people are biologically compatible or not. And humor is essential if you're going to have a happy life. It is a critical indicator of whether a person is going to sulk, bitch and moan when things go wrong or see the bright side of things and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women as they approach mid 20s / 30s start to cut out male 'friends' from their life?This is not unique to women EVERYBODY feels the pressure of age. And they didn't want you to follow them anymore because you're not friends anymore and there is no reason for you to follow them anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:12 AM |
| 5 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?I fail to see the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario?That still doesn't mean she isn't single when she's single. The fact that men want sex does not mean that women want sex or men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:37 AM |
| 1 | A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario?B because every other scenario is posessive and childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Why is a successful man attractive?Ahh yes, doing sports is absolutely a hobby, I turned the need to move my ass into the hobby of walking all green areas in my city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is a successful man attractive?I presume the difference is whether there is some 'activity' and effort involved and the level of fandom. I watch a lot of total BS youtubes about celebrities but I would never claim any of that to be my hobby whereas I'm sure there are people that legit have it as a hobby to stalk celebrities. (Everybody knows it's much more respectable to stalk them as a job /s ) While I have a certain disdain towards sports fans I will say that I see its purpose as an outlet for primitive biological urges. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Roe V Wade Overturned By Supreme CourtNo need to, Republicans already did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | what would happen if there was a pill to remove sexual desireOh no, it's much better to whine over not getting any sex than solving the problem so you can think about other things. What a wonderful life it is to be a slave to rubbing your peepee until it throws up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plusFunny that the buthurt guys here would downvote you when you're showing exactly what my tall girlfriend has been telling me for years. I see WAY more posts online in relationship forums and casual posts from tall women that get rejected by shorter guys than the other way around. When men do it they're apparently doing it out of the great need to feel like big men but when women do it they're being shallow. You cannot make the hypocrisy and lack of self awareness up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Why is a successful man attractive?This also boils down to the genders considering different things a hobby. I for one will never count watching TV as a hobby and thus don't consider watching sports a hobby. It is a past time/entertainment, not a hobby. A hobby involves 'some' effort beyond not changing the channel. Turning a page suffices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Why is a successful man attractive?Q: Why is a successful man attractive? A: Because he (most likely) won't subject you to a life of hardship like so many unsuccessful guys. He also probably knows how to take care of himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Women should stop trying to give men dating advicelol, men can't stop whining about not being able to find women but don't want to hear anything from women on how to meet women. I hope you stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?I place high value on humor and wit. Unsurprisingly I'm single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?Wit and resourcefulness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | If you're not supposed to expect relationships to make you happy, then what's the point of being in them?I have lived a blissful married life with a lot of success for both of us with healthy, procacious children. It was what I would call the pinnacle of human happiness. Then shit happened and we ended up getting divorced. Now I choose to be single. Am well off, my home and life could not be more wonderful, have great friends but sometimes I miss that companionship and love. But then I also remember all the drama and am glad I kept a diary that reminded me of how much work went into keeping things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 30 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Oh, and let's not forget the lifetime effort and cost involved in taking care of a child. And of course the fact that women often died in or following childbirth, especially young brides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:05 PM |
| 91 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Basic biology. Women bear all the risk of childbirth and then most of the cost and effort of raising a child. Sex is high risk for women. Low risk for men. Men are driven to sire as many wombs as possible. Not much regard for whether sex creates a child or not. Thus women guard sex, men seek it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Anecdotal evidence on mental health: I have a few male friends that suffer from mental health issues and have a tendency to isolate themselves. I notice the difference between them and my girlfriends is that my girlfriends will call if something is wrong. They seek help. The guys rarely do, I am usually the one to initiate contact and catch up with them in order to make 'dates' out of the house for lunch or a walk or something. When they call I know they need to talk about something but I have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How do people on this sub view queer and gay relationships?I'm all for the rainbow of relationships and that there are more than just two genders. The only problem I have is when people of differing body build don't compete with each other. That is not what sports and sportsmanship is all about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | how to address gender entitlement?Oh yeah, I remember the rapist Brock Turner, almost as well as I remember good'ol athletes turned rapists Ma'lik Richmond and Trent Mays from Steubenville. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Mr. Darcy is a fictional character from a book written in 1813. You couldn't find a more recent strawman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:25 AM |
| 0 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Dude, guns disprove your theory of women being the weaker sex. Women could easily use poison or guns to kill men, but they don't. These false claims you're so worried about are a drop in the bucket when it comes to REAL RAPE AND VIOLENCE THAT DOESN'T GET PUBLICLY REPORTED. Even women that go through the courts can't talk about their experience until the investigation and court case is over. It is simply proven that men are the more violent sex. And it is proven that misogynistic men are more pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 0 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?That's not hate. That's stating the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?ERRRRRRR - WRONG! Feminists rarely use violence. Misogynists OFTEN do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:30 AM |
| -1 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Of course there is such a thing as "casual stalking" for a guy that stalks women casually without realizing what he's doing to them. To him this is just casual 'checking out' but for her and everyone else it is stalking. There are many levels to stalking with casual stalking being one of the lowest forms of in-person stalking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:29 AM |
| 5 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Not all. Take the rapist Brock Turner, he was just a creepy rapist that still looked decent. Those who escaped Ted Bundy called him creepy. The way a lot of guys talk about women and interact with women is creepy. Hell I'd say the way many guys here speak about women is predatory and creepy, as if women should be their sex dolls and are defective for not wanting to fuck to have endless children. Ed. I'll leave it at that but if you associate with a guy that tells rape jokes there is a sure reaso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 07:45 AM |
| -1 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?woosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 07:43 AM |
| -3 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?No, we´re talking about casual stalking. It is so sad how few people have a clue about just how sexually predatory many men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 07:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversNot true. I remember the lovers that aimed to please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women do not care about confidence , really attractive people just happen to be more confident due to validation from the outside for being attractiveThe easiest way to skyrocket in the eyes of a woman: Play an instrument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:36 PM |
| 14 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.For men it’s finding drinkable water in a desert and for women it’s finding drinkable water in a swamp. This is what it boils down to - and the fact that men constantly think women are defective for not constantly wanting sex when sex is a VASTLY higher risk game for women than men. To women men are defective for their endless obsession with sex and lack of participation in child raising. Women focus on keeping existing people alive while men focus more on making new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers?Out of curiosity what have you done to put yourself 'out there'? Because there are several hobbies that I know for a fact would be a great forum to meet women but men don't want to put themselves 'out there' by starting new hobbies that could be considered feminine like dancing and crafts with soft materials instead of hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 11:51 AM |
| 12 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.That's the problem. I remember the lovers that truly put effort into the seduction and foreplay to the point that I was begging for it. Dining on the muff with smile in their eyes, taking pleasure in giving pleasure and being good at it. And then we have all the guys that don't wash their hands, don't cut their nails, don't pay attention to what they're doing, don't know how to work the clit, don't know how to pace things, don't know how to move their tongue or where to put it despite being guid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.These posts are getting pretty tired. You are never going to get all the sex you want because your lust is endless. Stop blaming women and blame your own biology that can't stop trying to make babies. Women don't want endless babies. Women are not defective because they don't want endless sex, quite the opposite. Take the problem up with your libido and biology and stop taking your frustrations out on women. It is not hard to contribute semen, it is hard to carry and raise a human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingBecause sex work is often a last resort of the desperate and is work that's highly traumatizing I do want to see laws and regulations about it so sex workers are not taken advantage of. Unfortunately often when prostitution is legalized it also removes power from the sex workers and to the customers. In principle I have nothing against making it legal, I just want the law to protect sex workers so users that violate the Terms of Service are punished. Boundaries need to be respected and those who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:57 PM |
| – | Why male virginity rates are increasing according to Economics!They more than make up for it in immigration rates. Global warming is already displacing people. We're about to see a lot of wars due to border restrictions in the next years and not in the places you'd necessarily expect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:22 PM |
| – | Why male virginity rates are increasing according to Economics!I thought we were talking about virgins. Women can be virgins too. And again, not a problem when people can just self-relieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:16 PM |
| – | Why male virginity rates are increasing according to Economics!I fail to see the problem here. There is no 'problem' to solve. The Earth is overpopulated, I hope as many people as possible don't manage to reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 09:55 AM |
| 26 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?Biology. Their reproductive strategy is to spread their seed. That means standards vary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 8 | The experience of being a woman online.I can tell you who has it harder. The gender that has to pretend to be of the other gender to not get harassed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?You mean Big Parent Government because in most civilized places it provides schooling, healthcare and social services, not something men are typically known for. Big Parent Government is bailing out the sexual failure of the man that created children with her but is not shouldering his half of the responsibility. She doesn't need 'his' money THE KIDS NEED THE MONEY. It's ridiculous how many guys think child-support is somehow support for the mother - as if she isn't providing ALL services for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 0 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?'funny' how bitter and disrespectful men are when they talk about single mothers. It's like they're bitter that some woman rejected a man. How dare she. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?It is not delusional standards when the alternative to a substandard man is a good single life. The frustration men are having now are manyfold a) in many areas men are no longer guaranteed a spouse since so many girl fetuses have been aborted that there is a shortage of girls b) women are content being single rather than with a substandard man c) men in a relationship are no longer guaranteed sex through marital rape or coerced sex. Men act like women are the problem when in reality it's the bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?In-group vocabulary doesn't translate well in mixed company, these are men and women. If the point is that these women 'give out' sex (or rather have sex) with somebody with or without a date that's because they're looking for sex only. If you're looking for a partner you date because there is no other way to get to know a person. A guy that's getting sex without commitment has no incentive to become a loyal partner, he can get away with dropping in for sex only. At some point in time these wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?pssst, I hear from solid sources that a lot of the gymcels are closeted gays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 5 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Either way women don't owe this guy emotional support. The endless whining here from guys about not getting sex and support from women is from guys that provide no support to women. Au contraire, they're full of entitlement towards women and hostility because women aren't jumping high enough to men's demands to jump. I'm so sick of it. I'm sick of the whining on this sub, I'm sick of the misogyny and I'm sick of how the whiners never have any initiative to look inwards for solutions, noooo, it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.You do realize that women don't like to have 13 kids - right? Women don't like to have endless children which is usually the result of continued sex with your partner. Unless you take birth control which will usually lower the libido and have other side-effects, some dangerous like the risk of a heart attack. Funny that there STILL isn't a male contraception pill... because men don't want to subject themselves to any side effects - cause pregnancy is a women's issue. Hence: women have a lower li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Show me where women are saying that ONS are great. Give us a link to a forum where women are saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:40 PM |
| -1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Most ONS are unsatisfying and women will tell you so. The clit is a big red pleasure button right there - if you listen to a woman she'll tell you how to work it, and it will get her to orgasm. But yet that big red pleasure button above the desired fuck-hole(s) marked PRESS HERE FOR PLEASURING YOUR PARTNER is clearly not enough of a in incentive to use said pleasure button. Because really most men are not interested in pleasuring women, they're only interested in pleasuring themselves. Facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Source? Have you scrolled through this sub? It is full of posts from boys whining about how women don't give men enough attention, sex and emotional support. As if men are known for their support of women - right? As if the first response of a most men when he hears about a woman being raped is to immediately go making up reasons for why she is herself to blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Well then you are an abnormality on this sub that almost solely focuses on whining about men/boys not getting enough sex and blaming women for it. Just take a scroll through the sub and see the flow of misogyny and blame directed towards women that dominates this sub. Posts from women are few and far between and when they're posted they're usually about bigger gender issues. There is no gender communication here, no real exchange of ideologies and takes on different gender issues, this is an ado… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:30 PM |
| -2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.This whole sub is dedicated to men's sexual frustration and how they blame women for it. I'm getting so tired of the sweeping generalizations and the sense of entitlement but clearly this is a giant with many heads so as soon as you educate one another one pops up from the sexual frustrations of puberty only to blame women for their own sexlessness and undatability. The topic is getting really, really tired. This is not a forum where we talk about gender issues, this is a forum where sexually fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.This is hogwash, sorry. You clearly are over-generalizing based on something you've experienced yourself. Your take on women is simply wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:27 PM |
| 0 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.How refreshing, yet another post that generalizes about women without actually knowing women. A post rooted in sexual frustration. Again, women don't owe you sex. Women are not one monolith and your generalizations have little to do with reality. I hope this is starting to register with this audience but I'll reiterate it once more: SEX IS A HIGH RISK ACTIVITY FOR WOMEN. Thus women are way more selective than men. Sorry that weeds you out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingI thought we were on the RP topic of self improvement, personal grooming of body, mind, home and happiness. My unprompted personal take that would be sold to you in a self help book for 1 Audible credit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?Dance school. Overflowing with single and married women that don't have a dancing partner. Don't write it off as if you're above it, I've seen guys do that a million times before which is why it keeps on being a great place to meet women. Dancing is also a great workout and keeps dementia away. Dance classes are a very underrated and unutilized forum to meet women in an intimate setting with lots of touching, heavy petting and good music. Grab drinks first or after and see what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?Yupp, I have friends that had no need for it, mind you most of us still masterbate regularly with great results. It's just the whole act of unfulfilling sex that doesn't do it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?Dude, your perspective is not more important than the ones that vote for a sexless marriage. It may be a need for you but it is not a need for other people and that is no way disrespect on you. No need to get emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 0 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingIsn't that discovery more like Tantric Yoga than RP? The discovery of oneself and one's senses through a series of methods with sex being only one of them. Just throwing it out there :D I think overall men and women forget what nature designed us to do. My key to happiness is catering to how my body works and I notice that I get most joy out of things you'd do running a farm. Through natural selection I am a biological force on a mission to a) live b) pass on my genes c) help my offspring d) Hey… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 04:08 PM |
| -1 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingSpot on assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 7 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingRP is a mentality, it is not good grooming habits. Good grooming habits are a separate thing of their own that have little to do with the ideology, you usually have one without the other. It is fine that good grooming habits have been adapted by some in the RP community but most of the guys here are not improving themselves according to the ideology. Because there is an ideology at the core of all of this that encaptures the RP mentality, which in short is a view that women's existence should ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Unattractive WomenThe Law of Reciprocity is well known from marketing and influence/manipulation studies. It's this Dwight Schrute scenario. Plenty of men have, do and will try to use it as a way to coerce sex and most western women no longer want to put themselves into that situation. I recently paid $300 for a dinner that I promised to pay for if he'd share a good/entertaining story/joke. I ended up paying for dinner as I promised but he just promised to 'come with something next time'. Next time was a joke but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Unattractive WomenThe Law of Reciprocity is well known from marketing and influence/manipulation studies. It's this Dwight Schrute scenario. Plenty of men have, do and will try to use it as a way to coerce sex and most western women no longer want to put themselves into that situation. I recently paid $300 for a dinner that I promised to pay for if he'd share a good/entertaining story/joke. I ended up paying for dinner as I promised but he just promised to 'come with something next time'. Next time was a joke but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Unattractive WomenThis is just hogwash. Absolutely untrue. Women can orgasm if they have a decent lover that knows what the hell he's doing. Most men don't and certainly not until after a couple of LONG, trusting relationships where a woman communicates and he feels a vested interest to listen. He improves to get more sex thus he learns. Guys that go for one night stands don't do this. I am a fantastic lover and have had multiple reviews from great lovers about our fantastic sex. I know good sex. I also know how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 5 | Unattractive WomenMost guys do not care. How do I know? I have slept with men. Usually only men that have been in long term loving relationships know how to please a woman. Guys that only do one night stands or fwb are usually bad lovers that don't care. FBW makes them maybe a little better if the fwb guides them but even guiding a guy gives no guarantee hope of him actually a) listening and b) being able to process it and c) actually doing what was asked. Overall most hookups are disappointing. When men claim wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:34 AM |
| -1 | Unattractive WomenThe Straw Women here are horribly misandrist, always saying and doing nasty strawoman stuff that actual woman have only heard of from the strawomen. And of course their misogynistic makers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 13 | Unattractive WomenVery few women are blaming men for that. Most women WANT low commitment first dates like a walk or a coffee because we don't want to have to spend an hour or more on a hopeless date. I'm well fed on my own income, his has no appeal to me, especially not when so often it comes with strings attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less.men's schools, colleges, workplaces, and public events You are sorely misinformed if you think these belong to you because you are a man. They don't. They don't belong to you and you are not entitled to shit because of your gender. These institutions used to belong to men because men are sexist assholes that bullied women out of them. It has been proven again and again in research that it is the WEAKEST men that are the most sexist and exclusionary, because they rightfully have to fear women's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less.Dude your bitterness is showing. You are sorely misinformed if you think women have it easier in life. Women are left with most of the work. Women are left with the danger of men. Women are left with being selfless for the sake of children. You don't want to start that argument so let's stick with the main question. Yes, women are the happier sex, this is what research into happiness and life-fulfillment shows us. Research also shows us that most men don't take responsibility for their own happi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.Have you even met men? Most guys don't have a romantic bone in their body unless they want to bone and then it's about as low effort as they can muster. I have gone on dates with probably hundreds of men in my fairly long lifetime and probably 20% were truly romantic with the man having a good sense of romance and wooing. I was/am also a woman that men will usually put effort into dating so I don't believe it was anything personal when men didn't romance. I was raised by an autistic man and have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically?That is precisely what "not all men" sayers are claiming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically?It's what all humans do. There are posts all over Reddit about guys that thing they're the main character just like there are posts of girls that think they're the main character. It's what humans do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Not the case. It is the idiots. Absolutely the idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menALL of the men that I know that are single but looking are single and undateable because of bad habits and a bad attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menMen find most women attractive. But yeah, men tend to treat 'ugly' women like shit so that stands clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalNot true. I want equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Women are taking revenge against all men because what a minority of powerful men didNo they did not. If you had tried raising a handful of children yourself while running a home you wouldn't speak like this. Just because something takes more muscle power that does not make it more difficult. It makes it more difficult with people that don't have the muscles to deal with it. Same with childcare and cooking, it is easier for people that have got the skills for it, harder for those who don't. This is a clear example of misogyny: you value manly work more than women's work. Even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Women are taking revenge against all men because what a minority of powerful men didI don't know where you are getting these ideas from but I can assure you that they have no connection to most women. And no, it is not just a few men that behaved badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Is this sexist?Personally yes I find it sexist. It speaks to your need to have a dainty woman to protect. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 12:55 AM |
| 12 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?There have been studies and they reveal that men wash less than women. Men wash their hands much less than women This is a solid indicator of the difference between the sexes. Then there's all the guys that don't air out their apartment while living with cats and guys that don't know how to work the washing machine so they wear the same smelly garment over and over again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 12 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?I would say the ratio of men that smell vs women that smell throughout my life is 8:1. I've worked with several guys that stunk so bad we had to have hr talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?Women are playing easy mode?? Is this a joke. The danger of a date for a man is maybe disappointment, the risk for a woman is DEATH or RAPE or BABY. The risk is significantly more for women. Women do not have it easy. Take your problem up with the force that made you have this endless need to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?I hope you are the one to have the decency to wash your genitals before any kind of sex but especially oral sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?Because it is primarily affecting people that suck dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:42 AM |
| -1 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?Neither can women. Remember, women are people too and they are just as important as men. Repeat ad nauseum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?A lot of men don't have standards and a lot of men think they can score several leagues above their own. All you can do is present the best version of yourself to the world. Maybe if fucking wasn't the end all and be all of some people's existence then they wouldn't have this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:41 AM |
| 15 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?This is verified by research. Like research into hand washing which was just saaaad, revealing that most men don't wash their hands when they go to the bathroom - friggin 2/3 skip it. I know plenty of intelligent men that are hopeless at personal hygiene to the point that I have to make a comment and ask them to air out their apartment, wash their clothes and have a haircut. Intelligent men that should be functioning but somehow aren't. Unless a woman reminds them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?Yes, unfortunately a LOT of men have bad hygiene. Just look at the research about hand washing, most men don't even wash their hands after going to the bathroom regardless of whether they had big or small business there. I've even had arguments here on reddit where a few men dared argue that the dick is so clean that you don't have to wash hands after touching it when you piss! Oh the delusion! Oh the disgust! Then we talk about the fact that most men don't seem to understand that it is common c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 4 | why do men puruse women who don't have profile pics on their tinder/okc profilesIn my books neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I hate being black. Being darkskin is a curse unless you’re an athlete or rapper.I am so sorry. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Dating market is skewed because most women don't have real friendsYou are way off with this theory. The goal is to make him father material. That is the ultimate goal of mating behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Dating market is skewed because most women don't have real friendsThe main issue is whether he sees himself worth more than you because he's a man and you're a woman. This is such a fundamental thing that needs to be established. It is shown in the little things. Like whether he always thinks his thing or his feelings are more important than hers. Whether he thinks his bros outrank his girlfriend. Whether he thinks some chores are beneath himself but not beneath his girlfriend, like cleaning the toilet that he pisses in. Basic stuff that demonstrates a pattern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Dating market is skewed because most women don't have real friendsI don't think women are the only people to do that, the sexes just do it in different ways. I think women often delude themselves but are also often deluded by men... remembering that study I read this week about men lying twice as often as women. The part of why women get into hopeless relationships with losers is also this self-delusion tendency, they think that he can be made into a better person and that their love can do that - and often women are right, men that could not function before a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Are men also affected by having high n counts/sleeping with many different women?You lost me towards the end when you started talking about women. Women do not have to be especially beautiful to have many partners given the fact how easy it is for women to get sex. But to assume it is because of her higher sex drive is a GREAT misunderstanding. It is way more likely that this woman has been abandoned by her father and is looking for male love through sex. It would furthermore be more likely that she was mentally challenged than that she had a high sex drive considering just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityAnd here I thought being respectable and decent was drilled into y'alls head before 'be yourself'. This is where most men fail: they don't treat women with respect. Just take for an example all the men that won't even clean up their own piss from their own toilet. Nooo, they expect their girlfriends/wives to clean up their own piss. Because they think she was born to be their servant - in short: misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 03:04 AM |
| 32 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualitynot gonna lie, you had me at the first half and then the logical fallacies started to show. This whole sub is boils down to men's frustrations over women not wanting them. A good 90% of the posts here are from frustrated young men that blame women for their own failure in the mating market. Genetic health is measured through 'beauty' - of course both genders are going to select the most genetically healthy mates BUT there the comparison ends. Men want to mate with nearly every woman, women need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 03:01 AM |
| 11 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityi.e. treat women like people and not sexual objects and then you'll have a fighting chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Do hormone levels determine if someone is dominant or not?this is a question for r/biology or r/psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 04:35 PM |
| 10 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?So much for the female perspective OP asked for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 15 | Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is.Did you also notice how men's bad behavior is women's fault for 'reenforcing' men's bad behavior? It couldn't be that men are responsible for themselves... ... unless OP is telling us that the nature of men is being an asshole first and that they'll only be decent if a woman rewards them for it with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is.Of course being kind is the bare minimum. Stop blaming women for men's behavior. It is not women's fault that men behave badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | It's less women are "more content being single" than men, and more women ARE "more okay choosing single over choosing a relationship that doesn’t net positive."Yes it is a question of framing and instead of seeing the work women put into having those relationships you focus on what is expected of men - not what men can do as adult human beings. I don't know anybody who thinks men shouldn't discuss their problems with their friends, but what I do see are loads of men who put little to no effort into maintaining social relationships so when they need help they have muh difficulty reaching out to talk. Then it's all about why 'society' doesn't care when t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Women need to step up in the modern dating worldI think you are generalizing waaaaay too much about people's relationships throughout the ages. Often couples lived apart, often the woman kept the man on the straight and narrow, often they divorced without getting a divorce. Secondly, dating is simply too costly for women. We bear nearly all the risk of sex and raising the offspring on top of our own work and then he dumps work on us too. No thanks. Men need to step it up in order to make themselves presentable mates. That's where the chain is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneYou seem to overestimate average men and their ability to treat women like people. The bar for HVM is low not because it is so hard to achieve the bare minimum but because so few men bother to reach it. There are plenty of HVM out there but most of them are already in a relationship. Sure some can learn from their first divorce not to repeat the same mistake but odds are that he's just not that into learning and would rather try to force another easy-access-to-sex-coerced-domestic-injustice rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneWomen's options increase with age? That would then be the option of being alone that kicks in heavily. Most women that divorce and weren't cheated on do so because they got fed up with the unequal division of labor, or do so because of finances. Women seem to be able to do way more for their less money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 0 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneWomen's options increase with age? That would then be the option of being alone that kicks in heavily. Most women that divorce and weren't cheated on do so because they got fed up with the unequal division of labor, or do so because of finances. Women seem to be able to do way more for their less money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Women have made it very clear they don't want sex but "relationships". But what does a "relationship" entail exactly and what part of a relationship can't you get from other aspects of your life?Respond to the right person then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Women have made it very clear they don't want sex but "relationships". But what does a "relationship" entail exactly and what part of a relationship can't you get from other aspects of your life?You can have some hot and intimate sex even with a man who wants just sex. You can kiss and cuddle after sex and watch a movie together afterwards. It's not like it's sex and then immediately leave the moment the guy ejaculates, lmao. This is just OP's imagination. Guys that just want sex are usually very disrespectful and bad lovers and they NEVER cuddle or do any semi-decent things. They're usually disrespectful, misogynistic and selfish. Y'all keep thumping on up here presenting men's probl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 20 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveI sincerely hoped that was true until men proved me wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?So not only do men want to take away women's right to an abortion they also want the right to leave the woman with the child without any responsibility in the repercussions of their own actions. Yeah, you can take that and stuff it. When you have sex you are taking the chance of having a child. There is no taking that away. This is how babies are made. If you want to not have kids you should sign up for the trials for the male contraceptive pill and take full responsibility for protection. Since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Puh-lease. Every. single. man. I have ever been with has expected me to assume domestic services for him. That is a bullshit attitude and I will not accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men?It is relatively easy to do if you put work into foreplay and then gently on the clit until she tells you to apply more pressure. Keep yourself clean and don't have sharp nails. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:15 AM |
| 7 | Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men?Dude, women marry men even if the sex is meh if everything about him outweighs that she thinks she can train him. The best lovers are men that have been coached by women and LISTENED and applied their knowledge. I had to work out the taint, balls, suck and swirl from outside sources. Get your shit together, there is a pleasure button right there on women yet most young men still miss it. Treat it with respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 10 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatThis was the truth though. Just look at other species, humans behave in very much the same manner, the approach, the shiny gifts and flowers, the nest building, the security, it is all just biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Your anecdote goes against what the research shows us. It makes perfect anthropological sense if you think about the risk of childbirth for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 10:39 PM |
| 27 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Also: Men are simply too much work to be worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Dude, I haven't posted pictures to insta in like 8 months. NAWALTA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | If all men who don't have success getting sex/ relationships with women suddenly start hitting on women constantly, subs like thus wouldn't exists and men would be happier.Shock and denial. Pain and guilt. Anger and bargaining. [current step] Depression, loneliness and reflection. Upward turn. Basic hygiene reinstated. Spends time in nature. Reconstruction. Acceptance and hope as a single man that pays for companionship until old age when his time will briefly come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.It is not the minority of you. Again, most of you will not treat women like equals let alone think it. That is why we don't get with you anymore. Fix the problem on your end. You are not owed jack shit from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:14 AM |
| -2 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.It is NOT a vocal minority. Don't try that. This is a prevailing attitude. Most men are not even able to acknowledge women are their equals and are essential for the procreation of the species and apparently to serve as fleshlights for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.This sub is not about "mens struggles" but it has made it pretty clear to me that men keep blaming women for their own struggles. Most guys can't even treat women like equals and then have the audacity to blame women for not wanting to be around them. Maybe if you treated women better they'd be into you. There's a wild idea I'm positive you won't get behind when it is so much easier to keep on blaming women for not wanting to be mistreated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more red/blackpilled.Dude, your problem with women is clearly that you are trying to date out of your league. Stop it, not everybody ends up with the hot girl - the hot guy does that. If you're not her or him then tough shit, you're stuck in the middle with the rest of us (not really, I'm hot but I'm trying to be realistic). | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | If all men who don't have success getting sex/ relationships with women suddenly start hitting on women constantly, subs like thus wouldn't exists and men would be happier.Oh yeah, because all guys behave like Tom Brady and all girls do like Kim K. What kind of teenage wet dream is this cuz it's not thought out at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Who is he to 'put her in her place' and tell her she's not worthy of her own denial? His logic: "who do you think you are to deny me?!? You must be taken down!" It's just pathetic to think he is in any position to rain on her parade. Makes it more than understandable why she passed on him. I would stay clear of this kind of guy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | What is some good advice/tips for an inexperienced guy looking to date/have his first relationship?Good hygiene is the number one advice I can give you. Bad hygiene is an instant dealbreaker for most women. Just talk to her like you'd like to talk to a friend, a successful relationship is built on friendship and love so focus most on the intellectual connection rather than the physical one. Make her feel special and tell her why you like her/what you like about her. Either she'll be into that or you'll get that instant rejection where you know you don't have to waste your time. Do not try to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they sayFunny that the ratio of men that are accused of appeasing women when they agree with them is not 50/50. A guy couldn't just think on his own that whoever has the most muscle doesn't automatically get more to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.You seem to think that it is some kind of 'privilege' to be constantly hit on. It isn't. It isn't either a privilege to have your right to body autonomy and the right to an abortion removed and thus bear ALL of the risk of conception. I don't even know why US women are entertaining sex right now. There is no "state" of dating that requires women to act. We are much better at being out of a relationship than men are. You have sweeping generalizations there without backup in research, like that op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesI found the secret. Smaller portion sizes. I stay relatively thin for my health, I couldn't care less about whether a guy wants to fuck me or not. Turns out they pretty much always want to anyway. There is an oversupply of dick in relation to my vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 10:13 AM |
| 8 | What speaks to you about the situation of modern society when it comes to Kevin Samuels Death?That's just ridiculous to claim. If men lived in fear of violence they wouldn't spew nonsense so freely in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 10:05 AM |
| -5 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?From an evolutionary standpoint it makes perfect sense that women's libido is lower than a man's. Often in a couple, especially as it matures, a part of the time sex is had for the man, not the woman. Since she's doing something for him that she's not really getting anything out of (it is weird how few men know how to work the clit or even care to try to pleasure a woman). So yeah, from an evolutionary standpoint it makes sense that some women do that. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 09:51 AM |
| -1 | What speaks to you about the situation of modern society when it comes to Kevin Samuels Death?who? I could not care less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 09:49 AM |
| 9 | What speaks to you about the situation of modern society when it comes to Kevin Samuels Death?That is just not true. Many women live in fear of violence if they say the wrong thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | The “Limp D-ck” male wall counter argumentNot everybody can take viagra. With age other ailments will prevent that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 9 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant."Most women can't orgasm from sex" is simply not true. Women orgasm just fine when having sex with themselves. It's men that don't want to take the time or attention to give women an orgasm that's the problem about the female orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:18 AM |
| 19 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Research has shown that the key to the female orgasm lies through the clitoris. Imagine having a big red button saying "pleasure your partner here" but STILL being unable to do that. OP just showed us how deep the misogyny runs. If women aren't like men they're defective, it couldn't be that men's ENDLESS need for sex is a behavior that leads to violence and hunger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:17 AM |
| 7 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Using that sama logic: If you don't think with your penis you're clearly not thinking.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:14 AM |
| -1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.So because women aren't governed by their libido means women don't have "real sexualities" or a sex drive at all. The nonsense and misogyny spewed here is just that, nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkThat was a real roundabout way to tell us that most women don't like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own agePlus it doesn't hurt other women at all. This is just a ridiculously male centric post. "women hurt men by lying about their age so they're really hurting other women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own ageroflmao, no women are not hurting other women by hiding their age. Your POV is ridiculously male centric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:00 AM |
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