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| 3 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeremy_Meeks Basically, women saw his mugshot and got hot over it. So, instead of dying in the prison showers or in an alleyway in a few years, the guy lives a far better life than any of us. Just because his picture so thoroughly aroused so many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Nothing. But sexual attraction plays a huge role in relationships, because without it, a relationship is doomed. Indeed, which is why a man should never approach. But it usually amounts to something a man actively needs to be doing, If this is true, why did women elevate a terrible man to the highest positions of society just because his single picture made them ruin their underwear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceCould you please answer the question? Why do women ignore these factors for some men but not for others? What is the variable in that which changes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 15 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Women approach Chad like that. So, women must approach men they find sexually attractive. It follows then that if she does not approach you for sex, then she does not find you sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.What do relationships have to do with sexual attraction? Sexual attraction is determined by the ease of which you have acquiring sexual attraction while explicitly offering the woman nothing in return. I'm not sure something needs to happen. Because for all the equality and equity and diversity, it is still on men to show interest, which is why this CMV exists and has many replies. Nope. If a man has to show interest, he's wasting his time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.No, I notice how women are attracted to the same sort of guys no matter what they wear, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.I'm not. They do not approach me, either. But for sexually attractive men? They are approached constantly. Thus, it follows that if you are not approached constantly, you are not sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceYet women ignore all of these risks with some men, so, we can then say that the risks are not the problem, otherwise they would not ignore them for any man. Yet, they do, so, the only logical conclusion is that the risks of such an action are not the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Women do approach regularly. They just don't approach YOU regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidencePlease answer the question. If women simply desire sex with no strings attached from most men, why is it so hard for most men to get sex with no strings attached? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Do you have less respect for women you meet on dating sites compared to women you meet in person?No, I have zero respect for anyone by default, man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceIf women wanted sex with these men, then why don't they pursue all men for sex? Why is it such work for a man to get sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceIt is voluntary. It's a voluntary exchange, just like me accepting a voluntary exchange of labor for money is, again, voluntary. But it does not mean I want to work nor does it mean they want to have sex with these men. If I could get money without working that's what I'd do. If Melania Trump could have gotten money without fucking Donald Trump, that's almost certainly what she would have done. Almost all male/female sexual interactions are essentially prostitution on some level. I'm sorry that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Statistically unlikely but, if you had the luck to win the genetic lottery, congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceWomen do not want to have sex with most men, but they are willing to tolerate it in order to get what they want. I do not want to go to my job but I am willing to do it in order to get something else. The moment the money goes away, I stop showing up for my job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceNo, I am just able to apply the process of logical deduction to come to conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Sexual attraction for women seems to be much more complicated than it is for men. It's not. You just seem to be confusing prostitution with sexual desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceYeah, it's hard to understand that sexual attraction means someone wants to have sex with someone else. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Sure, they want power and status (more specifically, the things they can acquire from it), but they are not sexually attracted to power and status. If the woman could get the benefits of that power/status without the ugly man, she would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.I can't know for sure, but I can guess that since most women are not sexually attracted to fat, old men, that she is not sexually attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 15 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.It is perfectly relevant. Women will have sex with men for a great many reasons beyond sexual attraction. Or do you think Melania Trump is actually attracted to her husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.She might. Do you think that prostitutes find their customers sexually attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 14 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Yes, but do you really want to be with a woman who finds you sexually repulsive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceWomen don’t fuck average men (on average salaries) for money. And often they fuck men who are as broke as them (no they’re not all hot) Why not? Even a man with an average salary can still buy her things and if nothing else, it is easier to survive on two salaries than one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceYes. And since women are choosing to have sex with many other men who are not Chad, they are sexually attracted to those other men. Are prostitutes attracted to their customers? After all, they have sex with them. So whenever you see an attractive man, there’s a gang of 30 women crowding around him? Every woman within line of sight, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceYou misunderstand how sexual attraction works. I suggest you research it more. Because it seems like you have a very specific example in your head of how it HAS to work. But there’s multiple ways of expressing and observing sexual attraction. No, there's not. Sexual attraction means they want to have sex with you. That’s a bullshit rationalisation that has no basis in reality. Did you not see my post on it? Women not being held accountable for anything they do is a well-documented thing. Some wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 10 | In some significant ways, women are more like men than different, and that seems to be a problem. For men and women.Women are more about commitment. Not true at all. Women love NSA sex with men they just met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceIf she does not treat you like she treated a man she finds sexually attractive, then why would you assume she finds you sexually attractive? Yeah, and most men would immediately jump Gal Godot’s bones with serious vigor if they had the chance, does that mean those men are not sexually attracted to their average-looking girlfriends? Most men would immediately fuck their average-looking girlfriends, too. Most women would not because they do not find them sexually attractive. All the men who don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 20 | What level of female sexual selectivity and hypergamy is appropriate?Women being "alone" is different than men being "alone." A woman who is single or alone is getting all of her social and sexual needs met. Unless a man is Chad, if he is single the only company he gets is rosy palm and her five sisters. If a woman did not have ready access to sniff Chad's ass, we'd see them snap just like men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceShe immediately jumped Chad's bones. Since that is what she does when she is sexually attractive, the fact that she did not do it to you indicates she must not find you sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Are most males left in the dark on their level of physical attractiveness?Nature has dictated that men are the chasers, which is fine if we as a society accept the good with the bad with that setup. Unattractive men are the chasers. Between women and attractive men, women are the pursuers. After all, women are abundant while sexually attractive men are not. That means women have to do all the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceWhy would you want to be with a woman that does not find you sexually attractive? Why not just hire a hooker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 4 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceMen do not have to escalate. If women find you sexually attractive, they will do it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:45 AM |
| 5 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceBut from reading the experiences of the guys who post on this sub and a forever alone sub and other similar subs, I often read about guys who say that their lack of success and lack of experience with women has basically shot their confidence and also don’t don’t know how to play the game of seduction, with all it’s subtleties in the form of body language, nonverbal cues, double entendres and hints. He thinks that seduction requires any of that lol Beyond that, if you are physically attractive t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.No, but the point from the person you were responding to was how female entitlement is treated entirely differently by society. These are some examples of female entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.Can you direct me to the Council of the Incels then? There must be a hierarchy and organization for there to be a unified platform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 11:43 PM |
| 27 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.We're entitled to equal representation in these high-power/high-paying careers. We're entitled to equal representation in the political sphere. We're entitled to equal pay for working less. We're entitled to free birth control. we're entitled to free abortions! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.There is no unified incel platform. Clearly you're just reading what people who have never actually done any real research on them have written. That or you simply believe the trolls that are there to get a reaction out of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.That isn't "entitlement." If, hypothetically, low-caste men burned society down because they didn't get what they want, that is simply a natural progression of things. Society is not entitled to support from everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.No one thought looks didn't matter at all. What we weren't told is that your appearance is all that matters to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderYou shouldn't feel sympathy for any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderWho says I am trying to fight anything? No one will ever allow men to be victims of anything, so the only solution is to treat women the exact same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?No one says these women just disappear. We all know they just hang around waiting to sniff Chad's ass for a decade or two. > It is not like 80% of men are just out of luck for life. Yes, it is. Most men will never experience what it's like to have a woman sexually desire you. >Second, everyone has a “type” which is particular to their tastes. So a guy who may be a 3-4 to many will be a top 10% to another. "Teehee yeah Becky women are so diverse in our tastes. You like tall, dominant Chads who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderNo, it's just that I believe in equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderIt has become a major racial issue, yes, despite the correlation between being murdered by the police being much stronger based on gender than it is race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderWhat logic? You said women don't magically forget personality and I provided you a very big example of how thousands and thousands of them did just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderMy point is that if women did not all lose their minds because of his picture, this guy likely would already have been stabbed to death in prison or an alley somewhere. But since women are obsessed with his particular facial shape, they forgot his enormously terrible personality and instead gave him a life far better than any of us have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderThe whole way he got noticed to become a model was because women collectively ruined their panties thanks to his sharp jawline and apparently his stellar personality of being a convicted felon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderIf women don't magically forget bad traits just because he is hot, then why did women forget all this man's bad traits and then turn him into a rich person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderWomen don't magically forget bad traits because a man is hot. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Do you think lying to get money (gold digging) is okay?Yes. The only thing that matters is you get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 19 | Why is it wrong for friends to develop feelings overtime ? [discussion]It's not. It's just that these men are sexually unattractive. If they weren't, then the women would have pursued them and escalated the friendship to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderbecause of the dangers that come with it. I'd buy that if women didn't suddenly forget all about that the moment a hot guy comes along. because we are heavily judged on our looks Men are far more judged on looks than women. More importantly, men are judged by their physical appearance based off immutable aspects of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Is having no social media presence a handicap in dating?Women don't care either way. If you're Chad, she's into you no matter what you do. I would say it is probably rarer for Chad to not have social media, though. If you're not Chad, she isn't going to feel any attraction no matter what you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderAh, ok. I read it as you justifying it, so, apologies for being accusatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 31 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationOh no, older women get a taste of what most men feel their entire lives!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationAnd also, most importantly, is that gaining confidence will not gain you reassurance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationYou are missing the point entirely. Sexual relationships and platonic relationships fulfill different needs. You can't fulfill the platonic need with just sexual relationships and vice versa. Very few human beings will be happy with no sex. A lack of either can make someone very lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadThe ratio is actually far higher than that. There may be one attractive man for every thousand attractive women. It is why Chad has it so easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationThat is like asking why I should eat if I can just drink instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationYou should only help people who would return the favor. I would never expect a woman to ever do anything to assist me should I need it, thus, I would never help some random woman for any reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationBecause sexual relationships are something that humans are inherently built to desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 32 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationBecause as a woman, validation from men is a given just like oxygen or sunlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderMost people are ok with various forms of discrimination against men because of all sorts of justifications, generally involving violent behavior. For instance, you said that it's a legitimate concern and thus justified to turn down men because they can be violent. Would you say that turning down black people for the same reason is also justified? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderNo one blames individual men. Lol yeah they do. That's why no one cares to help the majority of homeless (men), the majority of people in prison or killed by cops (men), the majority of people who die at work (men). Because men are attributed hyperagency and women hypoagency. We should treat men and women equally. So, that would mean either giving men hypoagency like women or giving women hyperagency like men. The former is never going to happen so the latter is the only solution. So, I think we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderNo, I simply mean presuming that women are at fault for everything bad that happens to them which is what society does to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderWe hold men responsible for things in which they had no choice or say all the time, so I fail to see why we should not hold women to the same standard. I simply believe in equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderThe problem is that the exact same reasoning would NEVER fly with most people if you changed "men" to "black people" or some other immutable characteristic. If you all were logically consistent then it would be a much easier pill to swallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderMaybe it is the action of those patients that caused it, then. We should hold women to the same levels of hyperagency as we hold men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderSomeone doing something unusual and out of the ordinary for you often is an indicator of romantic interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderSee? This right here is why men should never have any empathy for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Calculating "Male SMV" for OLD and IRLYou made being human about someone else desiring sex from them. You even said “congrats!“ to drill it home. No. How women view most men sexually is an effect, not the cause, of that lack of empathy. How you got that other part from what I wrote frankly boggles the mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?Remember, when a woman refers to "men" what they actually mean is "Chad." And of course Chad doesn't do anything for women. Why would he? Each of those women has thousands of replacements waiting in the wings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Calculating "Male SMV" for OLD and IRLSorry, no one was talking about penetrating you. We were simply talking about the lack of empathy that women have for men. Could you please try reading again or if you are unable, seeking remedial reading comprehension classes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Calculating "Male SMV" for OLD and IRLWomen see every human as human. No, they don't. Humans have empathy for other humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingThat does not mean no men are pursuing her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?Women are not the only ones pursued. Men are pursued, when they are sexually attractive. For these attractive men (Chads), the dynamics switch: women pursue and men select. Women hate that Chad treats women like women treat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderThank you again! You are so generous. Not having to go far to find examples really helps. For the men that read this, remember, women in general hate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderIf you're in the U.S., men experience the symptoms of racism far worse than women. The biggest example is how gender correlates with the police gunning you down far more than race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderIt's great because you make a post about a lack of empathy and then proceed to provide very good examples of people lacking empathy for men like this post! Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderHello everyone, when we talk about a lack of empathy, this post and poster right here are very good examples of why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingHence "almost zero." However, I would wager money that your wife's half-sister has groups of men pursuing her too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Calculating "Male SMV" for OLD and IRLWomen rate men on two scales, though most only qualify for one. The first is a binary state: Is the man human (Chad) or not? Most men fail here as they are not rated to be human/Chad. There is more nuance to how women rate Chads against each other but ultimately, for most men, that doesn't matter. So, it's very easy to know where you lie on this hierarchy for most of us: Do women regularly and explicitly approach you for sex? If yes, congratulations! You are a human being in the eyes of women. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | If online dating were so great for women, why are there more men on Tinder?You misunderstand. "Creepy" in the female lexicon simply means "anyone not Chad." Just like "men" means "Chad." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | GRWM d* appointment videos have to be the lowest content I’ve come acrossAs I've said over and over, women will do anything and everything for Chad, so a woman expecting you to put in any effort is not actually attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:37 AM |
| 1 | To game or not to game?That's wrong, though. All women will approach gigachad and if you don't agree, you clearly have never been around attractive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Women would like a long emotional relationship with Chad, yes. They would prefer to be single than to have one with any other man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Also, single women can get their sexual needs met by very attractive men. Single women have rosy palm and her five sisters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?Apologies, I thought you were someone else and got my replies mixed up. So, I will ask you this question: Since all women have had sex with Chad simply because he is present, with no effort on his part, why do you believe her not treating you like him (a man she finds sexually attractive) means that she does not find you sexually attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Do men and women (straight) actually want LTRs nowadays?I can't speak for everyone, but I certainly would like one. Hell, I'd even be happy to take care of her so she wouldn't have to work a day in her life (and have the resources where I could do it). The problem is that I'm not going to keep a woman around who simply is after those resources. If she wouldn't fuck my brains out while I was poor with no prospects of anything else, then I might as well just get a prostitute and save time/effort. Since I am not a gigachad, the only women who ever might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?Do you believe that a prostitute is attracted to her john? After all, she has sex with them too. And marriage has nothing to do with sexual attraction. It is simply a transaction: sex for resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | To game or not to game?Could you please answer the questions? Or at least admit you are wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?It sounds like you had to put in effort to talk to her and effort to escalate sexually. So, no. Why would you believe she finds you sexually attractive when it is a certainty she slept with Chad who had to do nothing but be present? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?If he had to initiate or escalate to get to sex at all, no, she is not. If she was sexually attracted, why did she not treat him like gigachad? men are supposed to do the initiating Untrue entirely. If this were true, then why do the most desirable men never have to initiate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?I am arguing that if she does not approach you, she does not find you sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?Not many, of course. But what it says is that when women find you sexually attractive, they will do all of that. So, it follows then that if they don't do that, they do not find you sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | If online dating were so great for women, why are there more men on Tinder?They are on it for a few days, find some male models to screw them senseless, then delete their accounts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?The idea that women will just approach you is a fantasy idea. It is not. If you are sexually attractive, women will approach, initiate, and escalate all interactions. If you aren't, they won't. I've spent enough time around actual gigachads to see the truth of that. They were approached, constantly (often sexually assaulted) and propositioned for sex by women of all ages, personalities, etc, within minutes of meeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | To game or not to game?If women don't come to you, then they don't want you. If you have to put in effort, they don't want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | To game or not to game?Like you see a girl and you’re thinking I have to neg her, then emotional rollercoaster, then detach from her then pay the bill, then compliment the waitress and flirt with the waitress then do this that and the other…. When does it stop? If you have to do any of that, then you are not good looking. The only game an attractive man needs to have is to be present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?just rolling my eyes at you. I am no 'tolerating' his height, I don't gaf. Yet you call it 'unimpressive'. But I have good news for you too. Your height is not the reason you can't get a woman interested in you. No. I'm actually above the 6' cutoff for women to consider you a human. They aren't interested in me because my face is not the correct shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?No? If women wanted most men, then why, as soon as they are allowed to do whatever they please with no consequences, that they proceed to fuck only the same tiny percentage of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?People tolerate things all the time to get other things that they desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?What does marriage have to do with anything? Marriage is a transaction: sex for resources. Attraction has nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?And as result, most women want… 90% of men sent to death camps!? Yes? That is how the process works, especially when the dehumanized group has desires or interests that run in conflict to the dehumanizing group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Flavors of the "Women Are Wonderful" phenomenon and red pillers. Why are so few red pillers working on exorcising this bias from their movement and themselves?Who even has said that having sex with the average man is disgusting? Women. After all, it does not take much research to find women talking about how men below 6'0" are disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?The minimum, at least was, 6'0" though my guess is that increasing competition between men and increasing female standards likely has raised the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Sure, but in some way, you had to pay for it. Chad does not. Indeed, Chad often is paid by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 11 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Some of the only satisfaction I get in life comes from knowing that Chad often treats women as badly as women treat most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?No, it's just that women never wanted most men, they just needed them for survival. Also going to the gym and even getting jacked does not make you attractive. For instance, if you're jacked but 5'11, you're still inherently sexually unattractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?But does it though? This old hag was prominent in the 70’s. You do know that she has heavily influenced mainstream feminism, yes? The sort of thing that most women subscribe to? I also don't need to, I assume, state that books like the SCUM Manifesto are still common reading, too. The existence of crazy women is not great evidence that “women would largely be happy to consign most men to death camps if they could get away with it.” But they would. They have already done the first step, after all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Is female sexual attraction more binary, whereas male sexual attraction is more of a spectrum?It was not an outlier group of women that elevated him from a convict with a life expectancy of a few years (mind you, a violent one too) to a man living a far better life than any of us simply because of the shape of his face. To a woman, Jeremy Meeks proves it is pretty clear that a man can become appealing, even if he is a terrible, violent person, just because he has certain facial features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?Well, the fact that prominent women in the feminist side of things can advocate for the culling of 90% of the male population yet not be dismissed as genocidal maniacs says a lot. To a woman, sexual attractiveness is morality. If you're hot, you're good. Men are the same way, simply to a lesser extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 7 | Is female sexual attraction more binary, whereas male sexual attraction is more of a spectrum?An ordinary looking man can become instantly appealing if he's smart, funny, and personable. Maybe for you, but most women are perfectly happy to start gushing over a guy and turn him into a billionaire just because his face is shaped a certain way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is female sexual attraction more binary, whereas male sexual attraction is more of a spectrum?I knew this already, but it still made me feel ill. Who women are is not important; how women look is important. That’s all they need. Don't worry, women feel exactly the same way about men. The difference is that most men find most women's appearance to be attractive but the opposite is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Is female sexual attraction more binary, whereas male sexual attraction is more of a spectrum?It is binary, at least when determining if you are Chad (sexually attractive) or not. Of course, there are some Chads she will desire more than others. When given the choice between a Chad that is 6' even and one that is 6'5" and who beats the shit out of her regularly, of course she is going to pick the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?You are correct. However, women would largely be happy to consign most men to death camps if they could get away with it. The depths of hatred the female holds for a man who has the gall to be below six feet or have a face not shaped in the way she likes is limitless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Are women really the victims of male thirst?They are in front of the mirror for Chad's attention, not for male attention generally. After all, women only desire Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Are there more undateable men than undateable women?A wife is far more expensive than getting a maid to clean your place, getting meals sent to you, so on and so forth. Men don’t have these things. Guys can go all day without looking in a mirror and have to gain A LOT of weight before their pants even feel tight. Not true. Beauty standards (And the penalties for not meeting them) are far more strict and harsh on men than they are on women. A man who does not meet beauty standards will likely never have a woman desire sex with him for the sake of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 7 | Are there more undateable men than undateable women?You have to have something the other side wants in order to have leverage. Most men have nothing most women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Are there more undateable men than undateable women?If the guy pays, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 3 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyYes, I get it. It's a drastic solution. I toy with the idea myself but there's always lots of bad possibilities when it comes to toying with your internal chemistry. But other times? I realize how pleasant it must be, being free from a hunger that can never be sated nor satisfied, or in my case as well, needs that cannot be met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:23 AM |
| 5 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyTrue freedom would simply be to no longer have a sex drive. Once you are freed from the curse of the male libido, then you have a real REASON to not care what women think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Yes, pictures won't keep her interested when the prospect of sniffing Chad's ass is there. I fail to see why you think this is some revelation? You do know that the way women treat attractive men is worlds away from how they treat every other man, yes? The fact that they are 100% willing to meet you ASAP means that they are turned on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?The halo effect is the psychological phenomenon where people attribute positive things to attractive people simply because they are attractive The opposite of that happens, too: unattractive people receive negative attributes in the minds of people who meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:45 AM |
| -2 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?Sure, you do. Humans in general do, the difference is that to men, most women are some level of attractive while to women, almost all men are completely unattractive. This is why both the halo and horns effects are a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?Which makes me curious of what kind of message that sends to younger men: "Attractive women are for sale." This has always been the case, just remove "attractive" from the statement. How many years have we been telling boys to get a good career so a woman will love them? All women are open to selling sexual access. The only thing that varies is the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?You are correct. Women have always hated 99% of men for being sexually unattractive. It's just in the past, running their mouth might have gotten them hurt. Now that they have largely been removed from any sort of accountability, why wouldn't they express what they truly think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.It is a very representative sample. Almost all women use Tinder. They are only on it for a few days because they find a few male models to sleep with and delete it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Can you justify any of your conclusions through anything that isn't OLD? OLD is an objective measurement of a person's attractiveness to the opposite sex. (And you can see that men who are 5'11" tend to have plenty of luck in real-life dating lol.) Sure, if they pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.A lot of men do get to "pick", As an absolute number? Sure. 1% of the population is still a lot of people but as a proportion? No. notably whether you're fun to be around and whether you make them feel comfortable I am physically unattractive, so no to both of them. It's funny though how much attention I got and how apparently engaging my company was when I changed my tinder profile pic to some really hot guy. I guess it helped my personality shine through! I would wager that you yourself have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.FGM is a religious practice as well, the difference is it is done to women so people actually care. Tinder isn't a good example of who gets noticed due to gender ratios. Gender ratios do not matter. If there were 100 women for every man but these men were all 5'11", then they still would have no luck. Tinder is an objective view of your sexual attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.Being envious of someone who gets what you desire simply because of the genetic lottery is perfectly reasonable. Being bitter because you are treated like a sub-human is also perfectly reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 3 | How do you view sex?That is fine that you don't know it, but that's how life works for most men: romance is something we do because women do not find us sexually attractive at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men struggle with sex because they pursue women with low/average sociosexualityAll women. Sexually attractive men are rare, so, women generally cannot control themselves around them. The amount of outright sexual assault some legitimate Chads I knew when younger had to deal with was eye-opening. Constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 05:48 AM |
| 3 | How do you view sex?Less attractive does not mean they are not attractive. As I said before, that you are a woman means dating, love, and sex are all things you can simply be the recipient of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyIf that were true, then why are men more physically built and capable of violence? If women did not select for it, then we would not be that way. Let us also not forget the universal height fetish that women also have, as a stand-in for violent capability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyThat does not change their in-built sexual desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyNo, most women punish men for it. Otherwise, the trend would not apply like it does. That is how statistics work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologySo a very tiny percentage of women want empathetic men. Why should men care? My original statement that the world punishes empathetic men still holds true. It is not a choice, it is based on feedback the world (especially women) give men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyA significant number then must be rewarding them. So, women, in general, reward violent behavior with sex as we've established. Why then do you say that women want people who behave oppositely to what women reward? How is that at all a logical thing to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyWe're not talking about the women here. We're talking about men. If women largely want empathetic men, then you would think that such traits would result in more sexual partners, yes? It is no different than how peahens want peacocks with particularly vibrant tailfeathers. That is the reason peacocks even look like they do: such traits are rewarded with reproduction. So, if women don't want violent men, then why are violent men being rewarded with reproductive opportunities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.See there it is again. I'm telling you that's something a lot of women appreciate That's fine but why would I believe you when statistically speaking, what you are saying is not true? if it's true I would imagine it simply comes down to being more discerning. Most men do not get to pick partners. It is women that do the selection, not men. A lot actually don't Estimates of physical strength determined over 70% of men's bodily attractiveness. Additional analyses showed that tallness and leanness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Wym why fuck them? To have sex and they are willing? So, there must be sexual attraction there. Maybe not much, but it's there. Why don't they just fuck another dude if they can fuck people they do not find attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyPlease answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyIf women want gentle, empathetic men, then why do violent men have more sexual success? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.that doesn’t mean they are attracted to them Yes, it does. If not, why have sex with them? being a bbw would be mainstream, There are plenty of fat onlyfans models making plenty of money. You seem to be mistaking "less attractive" for "not attractive." Yes, some women are less attractive than others but no women are wholly unattractive to men like how most men are wholly unattractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.That's your own perspective, not an overall perspective No, that's simply how it works. Humans, as a group, are often somewhat predictable. And yes, you can generalize what men find attractive: most women. Obviously there are going to be things that are commonly sought after, such as intelligence and being able to have a good conversation. Those aren't sought after. A strong jawline and visible abs are sought after. If women wanted intelligence, why does a higher IQ correlate with being a virgin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.You can’t group men all together because men are stratified as a group from 1-10 and their levels of desperation differ. Yes, men are demonstrably more varied in what they find sexually attractive than women. So it is more difficult to group them. You can however group men in that almost all of us have difficulty finding sexual partners to some degree or another that would be completely alien for a woman. Every man doesn’t find every woman attractive. No, but every man finds, at the very least, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideology"Intelligence and physical violence emerged as being especially likely to boost sex partner accumulation for the number of lifetime sex partners and nonrelationship partners in men." Sorry, you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyThat does not mean that women are gentle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyNot the ones who want well rounded and emotionally intelligent children So, none of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyWomen are not gentle and empathetic naturally. They are just as violent as men, though their violence is kept in check by the fact that men are better at it. There's a reason lesbian relationships have such high instances of domestic violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 4 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Women are cowards because they behave in a cowardly fashion. That's it. They might learn to rise above their fears if they were forced, as men do, but they are not. I, however, believe in equality thus women should be judged by the same standards as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.There isn't a point. It's the same stupid talking point that women use to downplay the fact that men are murdered at vastly higher rates than women. This is why men do not and should not care about bad things happening to women: women certainly never will care about bad things happening to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Biological vs socialized gender theory and pill ideologyBecause the world (especially women) punishes men who are gentle and empathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.But it is that way, it isn't going to change, and women are the primary group that says it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.So why post that it's different because men are the ones killing other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:18 AM |
| 6 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Women are largely allowed to wallow in their own cowardice and neuroticism because they do not get it beaten out of them like men do, so, it should be expected that what they say is basically meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Does a murder not matter just because someone of the same demographic group as the victim committed it? Stop with the stupid logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Because the response to our trauma is "man up and get over it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:15 AM |
| 9 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Reality: A 5'11" man looked at me and smiled on my way to the store this morning. What she posts on social media: Omg I was almost assaulted and raped today! Be careful out there, ladies! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Yes. When I chadfished, I regularly received addresses as the first, unsolicited message from women. All concerns about safety are thrown out the window by women when there's even a chance of licking Chad's asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.The problem with that is while gamers have wildly varying tastes in games, women do not have wildly varying tastes in men. Goth Becky just wants a tall, muscular, dominant Chad who happens to wear a lot of black, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.The difference is that all women get far more attention than all but the top tiny percentage of men, thus, by your logic, it is not surprising that women in general are far less humble than men as a population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 7 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Women should be held to equal standards as men, and if the genders were switched, we'd call the man a coward. So, it is important to call women cowards in situations like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:08 AM |
| 0 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.It's important to judge women on equal standards as men, so, calling out women on their general cowardice is both important and highly feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.And even in my own anecdotal view, the men who just want to use someone as a "human jerk sock" are very, very good at hiding it. No, they aren't. Anyone with women in their social group likely has watched woman after woman go after the known womanizer, despite the warnings of everyone else, and then wonder "Well how did he fool me like that?!" when they get pumped and dumped. The only reasonable conclusion is women love random pump and dumps, but only if it's Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:06 AM |
| 0 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.I would believe you that it is more natural for women to be risk adverse if all that didn't go out the window just for a chance to sniff Chad's ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Men's standards are too lowMen's standards for women are so low that a mere compliment is enough for them. But it's not just that, from childhood, men aren't taught or told that they deserve the best for them, men aren't taught to have standards, the summary of what men are taught is basically: Nor should they be, because to teach them that they deserve the best is simply to set them up for disappointment. Secondly, for most men, having standards for women means going without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 4 | How do you view sex?I wonder why we have such different experiences? You're either a woman (who has an easier time than all but the most attractive men) or an attractive man. Male success in sex is not a smooth slope but instead is exponential: the top guys get almost all of the female attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.No one sees the market as a whole. Yes, they do. Every seller and buyer does as they participate. women are not a monolith. No, women are human and groups of humans behave in similar, often predictable ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Modern women are becoming more openly and gratuitously cruel and spiteful to unattractive men.It is in human nature to hurt those who are below you. Since almost all women are above men on the social totem pole, it again makes sense that women as a group would be cruel to men as a group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Yes, that is why no one seems to care that men kill themselves far more than women, men are more likely to be homeless than women, that we practice male genital mutilation (at least here in the U.S.) very commonly. The conclusion must be that women do not largely see men as human. Maybe you have low standards but most men don't notice women who aren't at least cute, younger than them or about their age, and slim. Maybe you have low standards but most men don't notice women who aren't at least cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Yes, men as a group pursue almost all women and almost all women have groups of men pursuing them. For one period in my life, I asked out every woman I encountered that I found attractive but then, since there are big social costs for men to initiate, it is better to simply let the woman do it. They pursue Chad, thus, they must pursue men they desire. Then it follows that if they do not pursue you, they do not want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Most women experience no physical arousal either from most men, but the best measure of whether someone finds someone else attractive is whether the first one pursues the other. Since women pursue very few men, then women must find only a few men to be sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.All? No. There are some horribly disfigured ones out there. But they are a statistical anomaly. ALL women have groups of men who are into them. The reason you cannot see that is you do not register most men as human beings. Your statement is correct if you replace "men" with "Chad" which is generally the case when women say something about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Could you please try reading my statement again? You know, the one where I (generally) agreed with you? Best regards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Yes, the root cause is that they are ugly, but people naturally ascribe negative traits to ugly men. It has nothing to do with their actions, but they may rationalize it later by thinking he was dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.If women care so much about interpersonal stuff, why are almost all of them willing to go fuck Chad behind the dumpster at 3am after meeting him on Tinder 20 minutes prior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Most women are practically asexual.You can disagree all you want, but there's a reason it is far harder for men to get sex and relationships. Almost all men are 100% sexually repulsive to women. Do highly attractive women have more options than less attractive women? Certainly, but almost ALL women are sexually attractive to almost all men, to one degree or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:52 PM |
| 7 | Most women are practically asexual.You could show them a pic of a hot guy and they’ll be like meh. They need to know what he sounds like, how he carries himself, is he popular, do other women want him, how does he smell, can he take the lead, is he making lots of money, is he powerful, is he protective, is he funny and socially calibrated etc. To be frank, only unattractive men believe this. If this were the case, then women wouldn't have turned Jeremy Meeks from a guy who had a likely life expectancy of five more years into a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.No, the majority of women are, to one degree or another, sexually attractive to men. The majority of men, on the other hand, are not sexually attractive to women at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.But no one really has an objective view of the whole dating scene like that. We're not talking about any one person's view. We're talking about the market as a whole. Do you get what you want? Then you are high value. Do you not? You are low value. If you rebranded yourself a bit, or associated with different people, you'd be thrown in with a whole other crowd, and just like that your "market value" has changed. For a woman, yes. For men, no, as almost all women want exactly the same thing in me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 5 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.They 100% think attractive men are harmless. We as humans ascribe positive traits to attractive people and negative ones to unattractive people, no matter their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 6 | How do you view sex?A curse. Having a male sex drive without being Chad is being cursed with an insatiable hunger for people that do not and will never desire you like you desire them. It is also a very easy way for people to exploit you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men struggle with sex because they pursue women with low/average sociosexualityIf women didn't get hot over trash men just because of the shape of their face, then this man would not have gone from convict who would likely be dead within a few years to living a far better life than any of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men struggle with sex because they pursue women with low/average sociosexualityIt's a magic combination of two things: A. Someone who is attractive enough and B. Someone who appears willing. That's all men need! Women only need one of those things: A. Chad arouses women simply by his presence. The difference is that women ONLY find Chad sexually attractive. Women have a different arousal mechanism and it takes someone who is confident, worthy, self respecting, a leader who she can feel safe with to be her sexual self. lol no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men struggle with sex because they pursue women with low/average sociosexualityWomen do initiate all the time, but only with Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Most women are practically asexual.Women never lose attraction for Chad. What you are talking about only happens because women settle with men they do not find sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Most women are practically asexual.If you think women are asexual or close to it, make a Tinder account with a male model's pictures. Women are more pathetically thirsty (for Chad) than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 08:49 PM |
| 14 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Women use OLD to interact with strangers all the time so long as the stranger is hot. It was insane how many women were sending me their phone numbers and addresses as a first message when I was chadfishing. Safety is only something they are worried about with ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.You cannot get rid of "high value" because that is determined by the market, not by people. If the market says you are high value, then you are high value. If the market says you are low value, then you are low value. It is an objective measurement of value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionInertness – treating the person as lacking in agency or activity It's funny because women do this to themselves whenever it is convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.This comment is one reason men should dismiss any struggles women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Most women are demisexual.This world does suck, yes. But you can't change it. Even the suggestion that women might be simply as shallow as men is something people cannot even accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.No, they find transactional relationships. That is how humans work. If you're pretty, everything you do is good. If you're not, then everything you do is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?The amount of women increasing does not matter if none of those women desire most men, which they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.It has nothing to do with values. I am simply not attractive enough to elicit love in a woman, like most men. That's just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Most women are demisexual.I'm not talking about gender roles. I am simply stating that I have no desire to be with a woman who does not desire me and since most women do not desire most men, such a thing is very unlikely. If I found a woman who stayed around because she wanted me to provide for her, why not just lease women instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?If you fix womens issues with dating, then the ratio will fix itself. No, it won't, because women simply do not desire men like men desire women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Most women are demisexual.I could get a romantic partner. However, like most men, I have to pay for it in some way. Why would I want to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.So if some men are hotter than others, why can't we have a colloquial name for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.So do you really believe some men aren't far more attractive to women than others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Alternatives to Monogamy?Why would they do that when they can hop on Tinder and live their fantasies in real life that night? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.Well, if you think women's only valuable attribute is their pussy then women are gonna only see you as a wallet. Where did I say that? My ideal would be an actual equal partnership with a woman who would stick with me, money or not, but women do not want that. Men that sell their bodies look a certain way because of beauty standards They look a certain way because that is what women are willing to buy. If women were willing to buy access to a wider variety of men, you would see a wider variety o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:04 PM |
| -1 | Alternatives to Monogamy?Because women are driven insane by a specific shape of facial bones, that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Alternatives to Monogamy?They work for a few men at the top of the pyramid. They are awful for the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Alternatives to Monogamy?Why do we have to restructure society to help women? Why not restructure society to help men by letting women who cheat and have children starve to death? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Alternatives to Monogamy?No one. That's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:48 PM |
| -1 | Alternatives to Monogamy?If you think female sexuality is mental, go Chadfish on Tinder and come back to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.Plenty of guys who don't do well on tinder can have a regular sex life. Sure, if they pay for it. But at that point, why not just go and get actual hookers? The woman only sees you as a disposable wallet, to be cast aside the moment a better opportunity comes along. And internet dating might be the most common way of finding a partner nowadays but it's not the only one. For the most part, it is. Mind you, that survey is from before COVID. My bf is what your ppl would call a soyboy, he's 5'3" at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.Of course through Tinder and online dating it's gonna be exclusively about looks. And Tinder is an objective way to determine your attractiveness to the opposite sex. It is, quite literally, an entirely free market. If you're attractive, you get matches. If not, you don't. Simple as that. If you don't do well on Tinder, you're not attractive. You're really downplaying how personality matters. "Personality" is just your physical appearance.. We simply judge people who are physically attractive to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Most women are demisexual.You're pulling statistics out of your ass and talking about Chad shit. Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder — a quantitative socio-economic study https://web.archive.org/web/20180316224430/https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e?gi=2ebda7bc8be3 "As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium." Oh and this thread which I am pretty sure is what got Tinder stats ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about biology (and not hypergamy for once)More like a bunch of women having casual sex as often as they can with a really attractive guy until they either press for more or he gets bored of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Most women are demisexual.How typical, when the woman can't argue with the logic, she goes back to the one valuable thing about herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.Are we ONLY attracted to these type of guys? Yes. Literally who are you to impose or assume what ALL women like? Someone with the ability to read statistics. If all women were shallow, vapid, frat boy fuckers then how do you explain me? It's amazing how many women you meet that claim to be special and unique despite the statistical likelihood of that being true is close to zero. You're saying this stuff because you're probably not conventionally attractive There's no such thing as "conventionall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about biology (and not hypergamy for once)Yes, you do. They aren't like the old time ones with the Sultan who has a bunch of women locked up in the seraglio, but there are indeed "soft" harems everywhere. That's why Tinder is so successful, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.I asked you how/why it is unethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Most women are demisexual.The difference is that women are ONLY attracted to the tall, athletic guy with cheekbones. Of course men are attracted to those women you say but they are attracted to most other women, too. I've seen enough super hot chicks dating average (or even below average) dudes and I'm sure you have too. I could go out with a 10/10 woman right now, but only if I pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Let's talk about biology (and not hypergamy for once)Having to share a man makes him a lot less appealing. Which says a lot about how women view normal men that they still prefer sharing a really hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 4 | What do you think the future of dating will look like?There is less stress on men to be traditionally masculine. Unless you want things like relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.Why is it unethical? We treat men and women differently all the time and generally that benefits women. I'm perfectly happy restricting Chad, too, by the way. I don't benefit from him being able to do as he pleases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:47 AM |
| 4 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingIdk maybe I’m Super naive but I feel like if anyone put 100% effort into finding a partner they could do it pretty quickly, no? Women, yes. Most men, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:22 AM |
| -1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingYou weren't that attractive, then. Women will absolutely kiss the ass of and pay the way for truly attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:21 AM |
| 6 | What do you think the future of dating will look like?Gender roles are more challenged. For women. Alternative relationship styles and casual dating are more accessible through modern internet. For women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 7 | Most women are demisexual.Are you saying you believe the negativity on PPD is exclusive to the men who post here? How do you account for the similarity on TRP? Have you seriously never seen these attitudes outside of Reddit? Because most people outside of places like this subscribe wholeheartedly to the normal bluepill ideas of women. Women can do no wrong, women are wonderful, etc. Stop this necessity and there would really be free love. Nope, women will never find most men attractive. There's no way to change this. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:04 AM |
| 11 | Most women are demisexual.None of the men in PPD are the men women care about, so, yes, they can and do have as much sex as they want. These aren't coincidences. The less society coerces women to repress, the more their libido seems to "exist", but we're not even close to 100% yet. Yes, and their libido only exists for Chad as we see. The biggest lie of the 20th century was that most men would benefit from free love. In all practicality I am 100% for restricting female sexuality because why not? I don't benefit from them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Most women are demisexual.Relationships start as hookups. that is why you can't order sex like you can pizza. Yes, you can, if you're Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Extremism Will Get You No WhereTheir intentions are to do anything that will result in a gain for themselves. That is not necessarily bad for anyone else in theory, but in practice is almost always is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingPlease be upfront, however, that almost zero women fall into the "ugly" category. There is a group of men out there for you if you're a woman. On the other hand, almost all men fall into the "below average" category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 0 | the way women approach dating is nonsensical and makes it impossible for me and i assume most if not nearly all other guys. How can a guy possibly find a serious relationship when women are almost completely unreceptive to male attention? there is nothing a guy can do to navigate that.They are receptive to male attention. They aren't receptive to YOUR attention. So what is a guy supposed to do? Get hot. That's the only thing that matters in life. If you're short, consider leg lengthening surgery. Get in the gym, get a good steroid regime. If your face isn't attractive, consider more plastic surgery. I will repeat: the only thing that matters is being hot. If you are hot, women will come to you. If you are not, then it does not matter what you do or where you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 19 | Most women are demisexual.What percentage of women are on Tinder again? At any one time? A small number because they meet a few male models after a day or three then remove their accounts. How many have used online dating at one point or another? Below age 40, I'd say all of them use it when they are looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Yes, and a woman marrying someone because he can provide resources is also transactional. So, what is the difference? Some hookers do the girlfriend thing, too, so there can even be a connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.So have you ever slept with a prostitute? Do you believe that prostitutes "really like" their Johns? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Because it is the only one that has value. Female sexual attraction is rare and in high demand, thus, it has value. Anyone can get any woman they want simply by paying for her so, thus, it has no value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Correct. They may get sex but it is never because their partner simply desires sex with them, instead the partner is getting something else out of the deal which allows them to tolerate sex with an unattractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:40 AM |
| 16 | Most women are demisexual.Not true at all. Female sexuality limits itself to only very specific men, whereas men clearly are, as a population, attracted to most women. Women are 100% free to have as much casual sex now as they want and instead of every man getting some slice of the pie, it's a few guys get the entire bakery and the rest of us get nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:39 AM |
| 22 | Most women are demisexual.No, I am telling you that their "demisexuality" suddenly vanishes as soon as the guy looks a certain way. They don't need any sort of connection to want to bang him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 33 | Most women are demisexual.No, all women are as sexual as men but only for Chad. That is how Jeremy Meeks went from a guy who was likely to die in some gutter to living an amazing life simply because of the shape of his face. If you think men are thirsty, go watch how women behave around an attractive guy. It's even more pathetic than male simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 30 | Most women are demisexual.Yes, because women make an account, find a few models to sleep with, and then get rid of it in a few days. Again, go make a tinder profile with some really hot guy's pictures and see how differently women behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:23 AM |
| 198 | Most women are demisexual.Go change your Tinder profile pictures to some really hot guy's and see how demisexual women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about biology (and not hypergamy for once)I never said it was pretty. I said women prefer it over having a normal (sexually unattractive) man all to themselves. Of course it has plenty of problems, first of which is that there is no incentive for all the other men to not just murder Chad in his sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Because women are not attracted to static images the way men are. Sorry, this has been proven, over and over, to not be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.5’8, but that alone isn’t a death sentence. If you want to be sexually attractive to women, it is. just stop comparing yourself to the most attractive men Why? Doing so lets us know how women act with men they find attractive. We can then compare that to how women act around us to determine what they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Your mental health issues would likely go away if you were sexually attractive, as getting one's needs met is important to a healthy life. Besides, attractive people are treated better across the board, so why would you be anxious when the world basically loves you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about biology (and not hypergamy for once)Because they prefer sexually attractive men and women all have roughly the same preferences in men, so, the lucky fellows who fall into this category have no shortages of options. So it's accept a harem, accept a normal man, or be alone. Women mostly prefer the first option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples?An 8, no. With a few years in the gym, a, rigorous steroid regimen, as well as a series of plastic surgeries, a 7 MIGHT be able to attract some enormously overweight single mothers but only if he pays. Once you break the Chad/Ugly barrier (An 8), gender roles flip. If women aren't initiating with and pursuing you, you're not attractive. Dating apps work great for the demographics they cater to: all women and the top few percentage of men. Lastly, just because people on this forum rate them as so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:53 PM |
| -1 | Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples?If you can't attract good-looking women on Tinder, you're not a 7-8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityIt generally is not explicitly "pay me and I'll fuck you" but instead it is "Hey now that I've got a kid and you've got a good job I've totally changed my standards and what I look for in a man teehee." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityPersonally I don't think it's a normal experience It actually is the normal experience for men, as most men are sexually repulsive to all women and thus will never be the target of female sexual desire no matter what they do. That is why Chads have it far easier than even the most attractive women. If you were lucky enough to be born attractive, congratulations, but that is not the norm for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect People overall like women better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityYou need to differentiate between their attraction to a customer and their sexual attraction. You are absolutely correct that women care about social relationships and positions of men but only when they are trying to find someone to whom they wish to sell sexual access. For sexual attraction, on the other hand, women are far more visual than men. All that matters is your physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityWomen do approach men they like. The problem is they only like Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityIt's a well-documented thing that people like women better than they like men, simply by virtue of them being women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityThat is only true if you use the woman definition of "men" which basically means "Chad." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | On the topic of Women: Being a "Woman" involves being attractive and well keptNo, it isn't. "Attractive" just means that people find you attractive. It is clear that men largely find most women, to varying degrees, attractive. The opposite is clearly not true at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityYes. What does that have to do with the fact that women find most men repulsive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityThey don't perceive themselves as unattractive. They are unattractive. The sexual market is very clear to men about where you are on it and for most men they are squarely in the unattractive section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityThey don't attract any women, hence, incels. This is because women find almost all men to be sexually repulsive, no matter how attractive she herself is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 0 | On the topic of Women: Being a "Woman" involves being attractive and well keptAll human interactions are filtered through one's appearance. The difference is almost all women are somewhat attractive while almost no men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?Most women aren't interested in dating a broke man so if one with status was to come along they would pick him All women are perfectly happy dating broke men so long as he's hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?So long as inferior (Almost all) women do not reproduce as well, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?Certain types of women (introverted, nerdy, dyed hair, read books, browse ppd) will not give up their principles for a guy just from his looks. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | 90 Day Fiance Mega-ThreadI am not talking about considering short-term sexual encounters, which can often be done for profit. I am talking about whether they experience sexual attraction for a man. In that, only your appearance matters. She might still have sex with you otherwise, but it is not because she wants to have sex with you but instead because she wants something from you and sex is how to get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | 90 Day Fiance Mega-ThreadIf you have seen anyone elaborate on your belief that "men have a more holistic appraoch to desire" link me to it. Both sexes only care about your appearance. For women they look at many factors - status, looks, competence, emotional intelligence, personality, etc. They look at that when considering if they wish to sell a man sexual access via something like marriage. They do not when they are considering if they want to have sex with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 0 | 90 Day Fiance Mega-Threadespecially because women have a holistic approach to desire. Why do people here keep repeating things that have repeatedly been proven false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:38 PM |
| 3 | My take on the "average man"I've been with women that were so indirect that their initial response to guys they were disgusted by was near enough indistinguishable from their response to the guy they were sleeping with. (Me) It's likely that they were getting something else out of the relationship with you since they do not sound at all sexually attracted to you. Were you paying them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 3 | My take on the "average man"Some women approach It was a broad enough cross-section in multiple geographical areas that we can reasonably say all women will approach if the man is hot enough to risk it. If he's not? She won't. So, you can tell whether a woman finds you sexually attractive by her willingness to approach you for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | My take on the "average man"No. There are a lot of very serious consequences of a man approaching: humiliation, personal injury, or even death. So it's reasonable that a man doesn't. Women cannot control themselves around Chad so it should be expected that they approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:23 AM |
| 3 | People confused LVM with literally average guysSureeee, if you think the average woman walks up to men, a propositions them for sex, the same average woman who get anxiety when ordering in the drive through As I said, I've seen it. You are 100% right that they are anxious, but the sight of Chad gives them such intense tingles that all else is forgotten. you can’t honeslty think the average woman does this. J As I've seen it, yes, I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 10 | People confused LVM with literally average guysNo one told me. I just had male friends who happened to be sexually attractive to women. Women of all ages would come up to them and very often explicitly proposition them for sex within a few minutes of meeting them. Women are NOT subtle for men they find attractive. Since women will do this for attractive men, we can then say that if they do not approach you in this way, they do not want you. I had to stop hanging out with these guys because it was bad for my mental health to see that sort of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | People confused LVM with literally average guysNo, they don't. Women approach attractive men by coming up to them and within a few minutes, explicitly asking for sex. No one misses that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 7 | My take on the "average man"If a woman is indirect, she is not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:22 AM |
| 6 | My take on the "average man"What? You see women approach ALL the time if you hang out with attractive men. All sorts of women, too. So, if she doesn't approach you, she doesn't want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?I believe that you truly believe what you are saying, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?And it has been long established that to a woman "average" means "average of the men I notice sexually", so your idea of average means tall but maybe he's doing his winter bulking to get ready for the summer modeling season right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Sure, there are more things to their attraction than looks but that is no different than saying a prostitute is attracted to her John because he has money. There are different types of attraction. When it comes to their sexual attraction, all that matters is your appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?You are saying women do not enjoy sex with men they find sexually attractive? Ok lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Where did I say women were not sexual and did not seek sex for its own sake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Wrong. When a sexually attractive man is involved, women are the active participants in romance/sex. They simply care that he is tall, muscular, and has a face shaped a certain way. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?"It's not the gotcha you think it is but I cannot actually explain why this is the case." Ok, I suppose I'll take that to mean "I'm wrong and you're right" thank you for admitting that you were incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Where did I say women do not enjoy sex? Women absolutely enjoy sex with men they find sexually attractive. It's just that women as a group find almost no men sexually attractive. There is a reason the thirst women have for Chad makes men as a population look like eunichs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?If it's so simple then why don't you lay it out rather than simply making statements with no support? Again, please answer my questions or admit that you're wrong. It's very easy just like not having sex is apparently very easy, according to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 11 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Not true at all. Almost all sex acts are transactions in some way, whether overtly or covertly through prostitution arrangements like marriage. Most men will never, ever have sex with a woman that simply desires them. She may desire something from him: money, status, or whatever, but if she could get those things without having sex with him, she would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?Again, how is your bodily autonomy violated when you choose to partake in an action that can result in having a child? Also, could you either please answer my questions instead of avoiding them or post that I am correct? Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?When you do something, you do consent to the possible consequences of said action. If I jump off a cliff, should I complain that I injured myself? Should I start yelling that I only consented to touch a hot stove but that I did not consent to burning my hand? The only way this would not be the case is if you have no agency in life like children or the mentally infirm but in that case you cannot consent to sex, either. Even better, I have heard many women here arguing with men about financial abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 2 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?If you make the choice to do something that may result in a child, I do not see how it is violating your bodily autonomy to expect you to carry that child to term. You did not have to have sex, after all. You chose to have sex and thus you chose to risk having a child. Again, you are avoiding my question. It really seems to me that sex is a big deal to you and you feel that you are owed sex with no consequences. Where do you believe your feeling of entitlement originates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?I somehow doubt most abortions are done because of rape. And that circumstances can change between becoming pregnant and actually giving birth. So? You can solve this very easily by just not having sex. It does not matter how the circumstances change if you simply do not have sex. Again, please answer me why you are unable to just not have sex since it is not going to kill you? Why are you avoiding answering this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:19 PM |
| 3 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?It is choosing to accept the consequences of having sex which can be having a child. So, as I said before, why are you so unable to just not have sex? As you said: You aren't going to drop dead from lack of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?you also can't force me to give birth. Removing your ability to have an abortion is not forcing you to give birth. You have a choice whether you have a child: just don't have sex. As you said, it's not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?Except you aren't starving. You aren't going to drop dead from lack of sex. So why do women make such a big row about abortion rights? Why do you need them? Just don't have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 20 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?Sure, but they are demanding it of the men they enjoy having sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menYet they are largely things that women do not consider when determining sexual attraction, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menSome guys personality is written all over him physically See what I mean about nonsense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menFar less nonsense than listening to a woman talk about what she thinks is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menAs a woman personally I stopped reading here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:35 AM |
| 7 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menWrong. Women are largely not on Tinder at any one time because they make an account, find a few male models in a day or two, then delete their accounts. Almost all women are on Tinder and almost all women are having casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menBut women find attractiveness in other things No, they don't. Women are even more "visual" than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?I know the answer. It was a rhetorical question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?So why does everyone continue to lie to these men that they are doing something wrong? Why can't women just admit that "we don't care what happens to you and it's totally natural that most of you don't get sex"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyWhy would a man approach women when we all know women will approach men they desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 13 | Why do people care about male virginity?That's not really true, though. Women will absolutely be ok with all of that so long as the man is physically attractive which is ultimately the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsThere’s legal and Moral duty to a man’s offspring. There is a legal one, but there is no objective moral duty to one's offspring, since there is no such thing as objective morality. In any case, I don't believe society should legislate what people have to do so I do not think there should be any legal responsibility to one's children, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:26 AM |
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