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Maybe a higher portion of the people who are too invested in social media are women. But that doesn't mean that a high proportion of women as a whole are like that. Definitely doesn't mean all women are like that, or even the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:26 AM
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Yeh this is a super weird one to me!! Everyone needs attention and validation. I don't think there will be many men that don't want a partner who gives them attention and affermation, and makes them feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:22 AM
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This is neither exclusive to women or something all women do. Men need attention and validation too. Maybe you see more women posting on social media, but that definitely does not make it all women, or mean that men don't do it. Also, that last sentence, what does that mean? Are you suggesting men will have more success with women if, when they see a woman they like, they don't give her attention or validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:21 AM
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I don't actually think this is true. I think if someone is mean to an ugly woman in public there are a portion of people that will back you up, and a large portion of people who will be (correctly) horrified. I think the same goes for the other way round - if someone is mean to an ugly man in public there are a portion of people that will back you up, and a large portion of people who will be (also correctly) horrified. I think both men and women feel much more comfortable criticising people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:38 PM
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I agree. Also the west elm Caleb thing seems like a different issue, cause he was definitely not unattractive haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:33 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to talk to me too! I'm glad to have had a good discussion here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:50 PM
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Yes, that theory seems pretty solid! A good way of phrasing it. Those ideals like big house, fancy lifestyle, loads of money kind of obscure a lot of the personal qualities that are important like being kind, respecting people, looking after yourself. I think I'm definitely not alone in saying I'd much rather date a nice person who doesn't expect me to do all the chores compared to a rich man who's a dickhead, and actually those personal qualities are much more important (and achievable) than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:30 PM
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I'm not saying it doesn't happen to men, I'm just saying a lot of women will put up with this behaviour because it's very common. So women do not have the massively high standards people in this thread seem to be saying. I specifically say in my comment that I am not treated this way. It's just when you look around and see a lot of women being treated like this it makes you lower your standards a lot, basically to "I just want someone nice, who knows how to do personal chores", cause suddenly th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:58 PM
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I 100% agree with you on that. Not all men suck at all. I think distilling either gender down doesn't do any good at all. I'll take that line out my first comment cause it is just a bit too inflammatory. I just wanted to impress the point that women don't all have massively high standards, and I think saying that men really low standards and women have really high standards is just totally incorrect. A lot of the standards women have for men include these basic things, that are kinda just the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:39 PM
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Yeh I mean that's what I'm saying. This original post and comment I'm replying to are dumb because both men and women can be shitty. A lot of men and a lot of women suck. But I'd strongly disagree that women have higher standards than men, which is what the original post says.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:11 PM
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Haha thanks, I will continue to keep "won't force me to have sex every time he's horny" and "will do the dishes half the time" on my list of standards for a partner. What unbelievable high standards I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:03 PM
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Oh my god. Is this real? This is literally the problem!! Holy shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:58 PM
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Haha, uhm, my boyfriend's have been lovely. It's just looking around and seeing all my female friends going through this shit is terrifying. I don't think all men are like this. I just don't think it's fair to say women have higher standards than men cause it's just not my experience at all. Also I'd watch out with that language a bit, if a woman ends up in a violent relationship dont... blame the woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:46 PM
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This is 100% the message women get too though. They are told to put up with sexual harassment, violent behaviour and the inability to do basic household tasks. If a man looks good and makes money he's a "good catch" no matter how he treats you. I don't think on average women behave worse in relationships than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:02 PM
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As a women I have often felt lucky to have a guy that doesn't abuse me, respects it when I say no to sex, and will do basic household tasks. Because a lot of men don't fit those three categories. Dating often feels like you're doomed to have to put up with abuse or incompetence if you want to be with any man. I've never heard a man say that he feels lucky to have a girlfriend who isn't abusive and has basic life skills, cause that's the norm for women. Honestly I'd argue that the bar for men is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:56 AM
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I really don't think this is specific to men. As a women I have often felt lucky to have a guy that doesn't abuse me, respects it when I say no to sex, and will do basic household tasks. For men are the "standards" your talking about physical attractiveness? Because I've never heard a man say that he feels lucky to have a girlfriend who isn't abusive and has basic life skills, cause that's the norm for women. Honestly I'd argue that the bar for men is literally on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:54 AM
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