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| 1 | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?Yeah I guess ultimately it doesn't really matter. All I know is that I'm fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 12:49 AM |
| – | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?Same bro. Jokes aside, this will all probably end with my suicide in a few years. The modern zeitgeist no longer supports a man of my subpar physicality and average lifestyle/clout. And by the time women realize that this social-media fueled eat-pray-love going-their-own-way feminist empowering mindset has sold them and their eggs down the river, I'll be long gone. And Chad won't stick around to help raise her 4 kids - he's got literally an entire world of better pussy at his command. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:16 AM |
| – | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?The issue is that human courtship evolved in small isolated tribal environments, but the unique differences between male and female mating strategies opened a HUGE pandora's box when social media was combined with the female mindset. For most men, modern life is like staring directly into the opened Ark of the Covenant and getting blasted by the wrath of God 24/7 while women parade around in constant buzzed satisfaction and validation lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:14 AM |
| – | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?I would imagine that dead bedroom is the outcome for any man that isn't, or doesn't remain, a true Chad. So unless you're considered Hemsworth-level (and society reinforces this for her on a daily basis such that she feels secure in her selection of Chad), you're getting dead-bedroomed or open-relationshipped. Sometimes I feel cursed being an unattractive manlet. Then I remember that only Chad truly wins this rigged game. The rest of us lose either on the front end or the back end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:11 AM |
| – | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?This happened to me. Met a wonderful girl (I still consider her the love of my life) as she was a fresh off the boat college student from an Asian country where I'd certainly be considered more of a catch than I am in the USA. We were in love, but over time as she became Americanized her affection and respect for me dropped considerably, to the point where it was basically dead bedroom and nagging/criticizing constantly. She no longer respected me or saw me as an attractive catch. Ultimately I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:07 AM |
| – | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?I'm not sure what the solution is, but I'm thinking it's a good strategy to invest into Grindr stock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderDon't forget "covered in despicable tattoos and polyamorous/ENM" These prostitute princesses looking like Mad Max rejects | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderInsufferable neckbeards with the single difference being that they can get laid anytime they want. Modern women are BUSTED to such a degree that they cannot possibly recognize the damage it's doing to civilization. It's not really their fault, but it's the reality in the social media era of "prostitute princesses". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderIt's because women select for height basically above all other traits. Men have become slabs of tall meat to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 3 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderTruth. They've been fed feel-good, girl-power, eat-pray-love lies that seem fun and liberating in the short term, but result in everyone (both men and women) ultimately losing in the end. It's because at some point, having a good life sort of requires "putting all your eggs in one basket" (i.e. genuine commitment to a partnership) but modern culture doesn't work like this in any other aspect. The disparity in sexual power dynamic between most women and most men is HUGE in terms of the effect on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrIt's a social stigma issue primarily. If the stigma were removed, we'd do MUCH better and happy lives might be possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrThis is what I've experienced as well. If it's possible to do it in secret, cute women will sleep with me. But they don't want to publicly be seen as dating me as it's equivalent to dating an obese girl. I'm 5'7" Short men are the desperation lays, and the placeholder boyfriends, similar to fat or ugly girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP view men they perceive as unattractive who date successfully or have a lasting relationship?This has been my reality as well, as a 5'7" short man who is otherwise average looking (in SoCal) Firstly, i almost never get any interest from women i find genuinely attractive, in real life or on the apps. I can occasionally get a decently cute girl to agree to a first date, but i always get ghosted after no matter how the date goes; im just not tall enough. Apparently only the fattest and ugliest women feel I am a valid partner material, which shows me my true league as a short man. Ive had 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowIts not silly once you realize that the remaining several decades of your life are going to be the same lonely misery of work/sleep/porn/gaming/repeat, due to factors you have zero control over (too short, bald etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 15 | Men's standards are too lowHave you tried being tall and handsome enough, while having no obvious physical flaws? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Why won't men accept the fact that tall men are desirable compared to short men?It really is attrocious, thanks for being reasonable. If society would simply address the real underlying issue of HEIGHTISM then these problems would all go away and shorter men could be seen as viable partners. Its freaking sad that even average height in men is basically a birth defect now. And at 5'7", i'm genuinely afraid that i'll never get to experience being a husband or father. This height prejudice has GOT to stop. Enough is enough. It's way beyond whatever would happen naturally, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 01:51 AM |
| 2 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."Thank you. I dont think its realistic or possible for a guy like me, but the way I see it... IF she's out there, then I AM the guy for her and I HAVE to find her. She needs me to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 10:31 PM |
| -1 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."Really? Because I feel like im not finding the dream either way. I want to find her. I want to let her know ill always be all in for her, that i can give her my guarantee (that ill love her as long as im alive). I want to feel LUCKY to have her. I wont be able to be happy with myself or my life unless I find this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 4 | VR Porn - "Some experts believe it makes sex so satisfying, men who find it hard to connect with women in real life, might give up completely and happily settle for VR porn as a substitute for real life experiences."As a low value man (below average height and not hot enough to make up for it) this makes me really sad 😥 I just want to be with someone who makes me truly happy, and perhaps I can make her truly happy as well. I hope im enough of whatever it takes to find this, in a lasting way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardI think the below average height thing is the single biggest roadblock a man can face. Im 5'7" and I know your pain well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 5 | "Short Guys Will Never Get Laid"I agree with this, as a 5’6” guy who has had decent success with women and relationships. The issue with height isn’t that you can’t get laid - you can. The issue with height (or really anything that obviously sets you apart as potentially average or below average, like thinning hair or poor physique) is that the lower on the attractiveness totem pole you are, the lower the QUALITY of the women and/or relationships that you can obtain. I’ve had wonderful, beautiful women in my life. I’ve also ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Be handsome?As a 5'6" adult male, I simply cannot imagine that any other man in this world could rattle off a list like that without placing height first (by a significant margin) - regardless of his own height. Have you been paying attention? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 04:42 PM |
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