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DiscussionBloofGoober/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:24 PM
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Then you better go into it understanding that the woman you love more than anything in the world is going to bring upon you more pain than you ever could've imagined was possible. This is an inevitability Not better advice, but the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:41 PM
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Shit society cycle, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:33 PM
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The point of marriage is to put you in a stranglehold with no good way out. To abstain from marriage is the best advice you can give a man. Full stop. Ergo what I said is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:24 PM
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I don't need to take the manosphere's word for anything; I already don't. All I ever needed to do, in this context, was look at how it went down for my parents. A good lawyer isn't just something you can go out and get. It isn't obvious where the "good" lawyers are (if there are any to begin with), and they undoubtedly fetch a high price. Lastly, it isn't a hassle; there's just no point engaging in an endeavor when the outcome isn't going to change. He can't be helped. The best advice would have…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:18 PM
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As you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:09 PM
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Where do you live that people just hate you for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:05 PM
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I appreciate it, cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:04 PM
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More-than-likely a case of shit-life-syndrome; not something a therapist can fix. Therapists can't fix much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:02 PM
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That's all you, cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:58 PM
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Bewilders me how people get into said relationships in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:55 PM
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I mean, how do you expect the conversation to go? "Just go get divorce raped, brah, it'll be fun!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:52 PM
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I was agreeing with you. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:47 PM
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There's certainly enough fear, shame, and pain to spare to make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:45 PM
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Not that mental heath care is something to be sought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:41 PM
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To your point that men are more motivated by shame: Most don't know anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:37 PM
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I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:13 AM
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Jesus fuck, you're so saccharine it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:32 AM
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I have. I've worked on everything that's under my control. It's unfortunately progressed as much as it will for the moment. Whatever improvement is left will come naturally with time; forcing it has never gotten me anywhere and never will. The world is unfortunately rather unjust. What might work for some doesn't work for all. Seems to be the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:33 PM
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Certainly bad enough, I think. I genuinely believe it's one of the main things barring me from even so much as getting a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:41 PM
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Somewhere between 5'7" and 5'8". I round up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:35 PM
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You don't know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:32 PM
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Considering investing in some shoe lifts actually, now that you mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:16 PM
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'Cause that's gonna be me in three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:13 PM
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He’d probably do best with a nerdy 25-30 yr old woman who is relatively inexperienced in the area of sex and relationships (yes, there are plenty of them) Fuck, send 'em my way. I'm nowhere near that age, but I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:11 PM
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I hope things change for you, but I understand your hopelessness. You have my sincere condolences for your situation. The world is unfair, and we were meant to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:09 PM
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But certainly more than I'd ever like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:07 PM
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girls want older men with life $$$ and relationship experience $$$ not losers people without $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:06 PM
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I think we agree more than we disagree, generally. I agree that women can be insightful. I agree that men here are paralyzed by an irrational fear of approaching women irl. I certainly agree that there is no universal advice that will work for anyone. I disagree with lambasting those who have indeed tried their absolute damnedest, even those who were even dealt hands better hands than yours, and still managed to find little success. The assumption that they would stems from the perspective that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:00 PM
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Romantic love isn't feminine. Men are the romantics. They love idealistically. Women love opportunistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:28 PM
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You have it backwards. The people who only ever needed to climb the hill sneer at those who have to climb the infinitely-tall mountain, and find a rather inevitable lack of success pursuing that endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:26 PM
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You say that like it's impossible for someone to take your advice and fail. Your advice isn't novel. The Earth has been spinning the exact same way for millennia. Human nature hasn't fundamentally changed; evolution is too slow for that. Something has changed, however, and we can all see it. It genuinely baffles me how so many people, such as yourself, bury their heads in the sand to refrain from having to actually grapple with this new reality we're faced with. You think you're arguing for adap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:23 PM
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Sure. You're not wrong. That's why you strategize. If it's a game you can't win, you find a way to mitigate the losses or you don't play. There's something to be said, however, about your inquiry as to why a game that a man can't win is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:32 PM
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I agree. I also think he acknowledges the pitfalls of TRP that the other "gurus" refuse to, but certainly not in any kind of explicit way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:12 PM
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Junior year. Don't remember the textbook. I might not be calling it by its proper term. Perhaps "literary analysis"? That sounds more correct now that I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:05 PM
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I feel like Rollo isn't quite that full of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:03 PM
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Not the postmodernism part, but the concept of frames of interpretation generally, yes. It certainly was in my public high school in one of the states ranked worst for education in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:31 PM
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I would like to make it clear that I don't disagree with you, because I think you're misinterpreting me. I also neglected to address the rest of your comment. I agree what you say about the way pedophilia is used. I'll even go a step further to suggest that people don't even actually care about "protecting minors". They certainly don't care when their children have sex with other children, they just draw a fairly arbitrary line at adults. I'd suggest that people be logically consistent and go al…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:28 PM
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I think maybe you are using the word interpret in a way that is unfamiliar to me. The interpretation is the explict message. Not necessarily, it depends on your frame of analysis. It's literally something taught in high-school English class. Particularly in this post-modern (or perhaps even post-post-modern) era; the whole philosophy is, in essence, that there are an infinite number of interpretations for any given "narrative", and any one particular interpretation designated as the interpretati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:45 PM
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I mean, you can be wrong. It's fine, we all have those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:29 PM
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You're literally not an average-looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:29 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:29 PM
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The first time I've ever agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:27 PM
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In all languages, music included, the interpretation is more important than the message explicitly being relayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:23 PM
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She settled for him because: She wants his money. She wants someone she can control. She wants status. She isn't sure that she could hold down someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:15 PM
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Money, control, status, insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:11 PM
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You ain't gonna be marrying then, cher. Your beau might lie to you, but your looks will have objectively deteriorated, and he will have noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:07 PM
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The moment y'all realize that it has been and is progressively becoming increasingly the case that you can do everything right and still lose, is when reconciliation might begin. Y'all are the literal embodiment of the "the beatings will continue until morale improves" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:03 PM
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Absolutely with you there, man. Not that I'll have much trouble, can't anything to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:56 PM
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It more-than-often is settling, plain and simple. Y'all need to stop pretending like it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:56 PM
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And I got the downvote brigade for suggesting that our society was sociopathic. Look at this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:32 PM
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The fuck? Your partner can't feel something unless you know about it? What kinda logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:01 AM
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There's a difference between perceiving yourself as being lucky for having your partner and being unlucky for being stuck with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:13 AM
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I mean, the alternative to inventing explanations is to give y'all enough rope to hang yourselves. Y'all don't do yourselves any favors here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:07 AM
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Both orphans were adopted five years apart, and the second kid was still at the orphanage five years later; never chosen by another family. It literally says it if you read the words on your screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:05 AM
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Holy fuck this is an amazing analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:04 AM
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Perhaps not "gotta", and certainly there's a conversation to be had about "oughta", but y'all do for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:00 PM
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But no theory would say that men are, by and large, consciously doing things in order to attract a mate I'm addressing all of the above paragraphs by addressing this: I agree. I'm not suggesting that this isn't all subconscious; but it's still there, whether we'd like to acknowledge it or not. This is all evolved, it began as a sort of "mating call" so-to-speak, but just because it isn't so overt doesn't mean it isn't still very directly affecting every dimension of our lives through our subcons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:58 PM
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Well, men lose a lot more in divorce pretty much across the board. No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:59 PM
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Well, considering the primary motivator for society, as of... the dawn of humanity, was men proving their worth to sexually selective women, it really shouldn't be a surprise. You see the same behavior reflected in animals we share common ancestry with; even as far back as lobsters. When you become dispossessed as a result of a long string of failures in any dimension of life, you see symptoms of depression; because, well, they get depressed. And scientists have found that said animals exhibitin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:51 PM
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Might as well go full nuclear at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:42 PM
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You and every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:35 PM
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Well, the standard for women is feeling unlucky to be with their partners, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:34 PM
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You're still conflating the acknowledgement of the existence of a disease to thorough understanding of how said disease is spread, which is an absurd claim on its face, but then moreover proceed to postulate that entire social institutions were created to mitigate the transmission of said disease; that your own source suggests "...were considered a divine punishment." In other words... didn't understand the means of transmission whatsoever. The closest you've got is that "Some were aware that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:34 PM
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Fuuuuuuuuck... Are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:14 PM
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You assume it's obvious, but we have a scientific framework for thinking about this kind of stuff. Remember how in every science class in school all the way through university they drilled the scientific method, and you thought it was the most brain-dead shit in the world? They hadn't conceived of that way back when.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:32 AM
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You can disagree all you like, facts are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:30 AM
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Regarding your entire first paragraph, I said what I said. Nothing you said disputes that, and your question was answered. You can whine all you like about how you don't like the word "sociopathic", but it doesn't make it any less true. In terms of extinction-level crises, I was talking mainly about climate change. Overpopulation does not exist and is not a problem, and will solve itself in due time regardless. Decisions on an individual scale will not change the course of the world's population…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:29 AM
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That isn't different at all. People didn't know how disease was transmitted period. You didn't answer my question, and you aren't doing much better in terms of "spurious"-ness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:43 PM
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Everyone on the planet with access to condoms, birth control or self control is "spoiled" then. So all developed countries, then? Yes. Who is the real sociopath, someone who is childless, or someone who has a child on an overpopulated planet right before a climate change reckoning during record levels of economic inequality, without much of a safety net? All of this is besides the point, but I'll humor you. In a very technical sense, rearing and raising children is quite literally the opposite o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:39 PM
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Uhh, how does an outbreak of a disease necessitate for those afflicted to know how said disease is transmitted? The bubonic plague went away eventually, and no one knew how that was spread at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:30 PM
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Pretty sure he had it right the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:35 PM
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To add to your point, what man would die for a western country these days? I can't wait for the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:50 PM
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There is no going back. Time to adapt, buddy boyo. That means having the hard conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:48 PM
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You're only proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:18 PM
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You cannot have an argument in good-faith if you don't take people's words at face-value. If I don't mean what I say, then I won't say it. Don't intentionally misinterpret people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:08 PM
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Not rape. Read the words on your screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:19 AM
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Well, most people are fuckin' crazy. Most people are not abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:15 AM
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On the other hand, no woman will know that I have a big dick until one unzips my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:59 AM
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If you suggestion consistently worked, and worked for literally everyone, then sure. We don't live in a just world, unfortunately; some people can do everything right and still get fucked over. This is becoming increasingly more common as time goes on. This is what no one wants to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:52 AM
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I said it's spoiled to have the privilege to opt out. To follow through, as I said, is sociopathic; particularly for the reasons that the majority choose to opt out for. Don't misunderstand me or put words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:48 AM
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I'm sure he'd be happy to hear it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:45 PM
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I don't quite understand how anything you said here has anything to do with this post or that "it's a feature" and "not a bug".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:36 PM
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Ehh, I wouldn't be so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:27 PM
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Uhh... Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:21 PM
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Okay, two articles, one obviously satirical considering the opening picture; only one of which is hardly even over five-hundred words. Both discussing the same paper that neither article links to. Your second link doesn't work. And the paper is undoubtedly simple conjecture, considering my argument. I'm sorry, but human beings thought that disease was spread by "miasmas" or "bad air" as of the 1300's. Idgaf how many "models" you make. There is no way humans could conceptualize sex being a means …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:19 PM
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The fuck does that even mean? You have a square dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:07 PM
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I mean, if you insist...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:02 PM
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Yeaaaaaaah, I'm gonna need a source that suggests that we've thoroughly understood STD's for at least "~10-5k years" when we didn't even thoroughly comprehend how disease propagated until about the 1860's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:45 PM
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Uhh... my world isn't any different from your world, cher; whether you refuse to acknowledge it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:14 PM
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Why do we need a Russia-Ukraine thread in this sub of all places?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:11 PM
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When do you think marriage became a thing? Furthermore, when do you think germ theory became a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:10 PM
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The world we live in is a sad, dark little world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:03 PM
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Uhh... bud... Marriage has existed long before anyone even had the capacity to know that STD's exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:46 PM
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I feel as though I'm the only one being sincere. I said what I said for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:03 PM
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When did I specify that I was talking about any particular gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:23 PM
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That's certainly the question, and there's a conversation to be had. I could list a good few reasons for, and a good few reasons against. That's besides the point, however. I'm just simply calling it like it is. It's spoiled and sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:18 PM
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I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:16 PM
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It's spoiled to have the privilege to opt out of a fundamental imperative of animal biology because of the sociopathic notion that average people cannot possibly provide the superficial qualities that you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:24 AM
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You can't base your life on outliers, cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:12 AM
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This is literal sociopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:46 AM
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News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:44 AM
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Naturalistic fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:42 AM
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"Too tall" ROFL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:40 AM
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I can only imagine how your boyfriend would feel reading that you settled hard for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:39 AM
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You can't tell men to "man up" when you've been telling the last three to four generations of men to "man down".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:36 AM
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You are... insanely optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:29 AM
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I mean, there are solutions... ...Not any anyone is willing to entertain, but they're still solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:27 AM
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Never in human history has there ever been a point where anyone has said "instead of having sex/companionship, I'd rather not". Goes to show how spoiled and sociopathic our society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:23 AM
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If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:42 AM
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Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:01 AM
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I've only met one, but he certainly didn't have that going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:52 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:44 AM
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I mean, I'll take anything I can get at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:48 AM
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I literally explained it to you. I can't be any more concise than that. Read the comment I was replying to, then read that comment you linked again. If you need a more thorough explanation for some ungodly reason, reread the comment you replied to right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:09 AM
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It's so fuckin' sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:47 PM
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I never said that women should wait until marriage; you're putting words in my mouth. I was replying to the woman who suggested that "women can't win" in that there are few paths that lead to non-hoeism. I was giving her an option. I also never suggested that being a hoe was a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:46 PM
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I would also call a man a hoe if he did the same. I never said being a hoe was a bad thing, that label is something you have a problem with. I don't care what men do. I'm a man, and I'm interested in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:43 PM
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Holy fuck you're, like, the only sensible person here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:44 PM
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I never said that. Serial monogamy is to be defined, for the sake of this discussion, as multiple shorter-term "LTR's" that don't ever last.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:33 PM
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It isn't casual if they're still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:31 PM
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Sure, but if he bails the second you have sex, it wasn't monogamy. If this kinda thing is the only way you've had "relationships", then you're a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:19 PM
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I never said that having sex makes you a hoe, you're putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:17 PM
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I agree; except in this instance if they're having regular sex it's glorified FwB for all intents and purposes, if there's no sex by the time the relationship's over then he's being used, and if they have sex once... ... it was casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:16 PM
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If it's "serial", it's happened multiple times. You ever heard the one about the common denominator?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:11 PM
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Jesus fuck, here's some constructive criticism: Learn to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:33 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:17 AM
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If a guy fucks you, then after you never see him again, it was casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:15 AM
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Perhaps we don't agree on the definition - which, fair enough, people disagree on definitions all the time, but I'm not attempting to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:13 AM
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Having sex with the same dude for a while is, I think, FwB. Not sure your comparison between that and casual sex is apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:12 AM
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I don't know why you're getting so defensive about being called a hoe. Is being a hoe a bad thing? You sure seem to think so. Besides, if you'd like to call being a hoe a bad thing, there still is a "way to win", so-to-speak. Be chaste until marriage. Anyway, to answer your question: if she breathes, she's a thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:53 AM
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Notice how the women get offended when someone calls them a hoe, but simultaneously so desperately want for being a hoe not to be a bad thing. There's something deeper within them that they aren't acknowledging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:51 AM
1

Yeah, alright dude, stop bragging about your imaginary girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:09 AM
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What is your definition of casual sex? Having sex with someone the night you meet them as opposed to The guy isn't sexy enough to make the woman hot for him night one, so he waits a few months to get it for the first time; then he dips. Hardly any different. I'd argue the second is worse because the woman was gullible enough to think she was getting something serious out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:02 AM
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However there are still woman out there who don’t derive there self worth and life satisfaction from being able to just open there legs and shout “come and get it”. The number of women who do this should be as close to zero as possible, and that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:58 AM
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It very well can be, and often is. Just not from the woman's perspective. I'd argue it's worse than one-night-stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:55 AM
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Serial monogamy is hoeing it up with a different name, change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:42 AM
1

You are absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:03 AM
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I've asked the threes on dates, if we're going by the looksmatch chart. ... and also have been rejected by all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:58 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree, but that's besides the point. If you aren't interested in having good-faith discussion then I'm not interested in discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:45 PM
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It's astonished me for quite some time how often RP gurus lambast tradcons, among other groups, for being quick to blame men for society's woes... ...then blame men for society's woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:34 PM
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I have. I also bear the brunt of it myself plenty enough. I agree with what you're saying. I've upvoted many of your comments in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:25 PM
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Women are excellent liars, especially to themselves. Particularly useful when "sexual partners" is rather loosely-defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:54 PM
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I don't disagree, but the one you're speaking to in particular is new and sweet; if a bit... slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:52 PM
4

Someone didn't pay attention in statistics...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:38 PM
3

No need to be so incendiary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:36 PM
1

Pregnant is sexy. Obese is disgusting, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:31 PM
2

I've come across maybe two non-fat women I'd consider ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:28 PM
3

I tend to find blonde women less-than-attractive. My favorite hair color is brown, for sure. I've met blonde women that I'd have married, given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:25 PM
2

I'd never assume that you couldn't be empathetic. Black pill is a pretty accurate way to describe where I'm at myself. I guess it's true, you could look at it from the outside. Acknowledging how things are despite not having to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:18 PM
3

I don't understand. Black pillers are empathetic? I think perhaps you need to reword it for me, I'm not catching your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:10 PM
1

Says a lot about you, I think, that you'd call it malevolence when cornered animals act irrationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:04 PM
1

We have the exact same perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:56 PM
3

That's... not what I mean. It seems to me to be the case that people usually get to the blackpill through lack of ability to procure relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:48 PM
2

Hardly anything that could possibly be going wrong with men is even a vague concern for the general community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:45 PM
5

Most men don't have a fuckboi phase. Most men don't have opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:40 PM
6

Relationship and black pill is an odd combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:29 PM
5

Simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:26 PM
1

No. Never have been. Negative. Ex-redpill. They make some good points on occasion, but it's unconscionable to follow their advice. I've learned the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:23 PM
1

Right... That's why they call their movement feminism, right? 'Cause that's such an appropriate word for "equality between the sexes".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:11 PM
1

Certainly most don't have issues, but neither do they have particularly positive dispositions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Aaaaaaand silence. No rebuttals? None? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:07 PM
1

Oh right, let me just choose from my absolute abundance of options... Oh... wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:58 PM
2

Doesn't mean the women don't love 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:57 PM
1

You didn't read the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:42 PM
1

I don't understand you. What you're saying and have been saying literally has no bearing on the conversation. You continuously assume that I believe things that I've never said and you're talking past me, and I can only assume this is because you genuinely cannot conceptually comprehend the words I've typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:05 AM
1

You're incredibly naïve if you don't understand how absolutely pervasive it is, considering the "lookism" I describe an entirely subconscious process that is hardwired into us. It isn't "certain people" that are shallow. Human beings are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 AM
1

And that, my friend, is solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:03 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by "men".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:44 PM
3

You've made me realize that I don't really find bald/balding guys much visually appealing. That... really shouldn't have been hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:44 PM
2

I'm sure you've never had to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:43 PM
1

Women don't like to share men if they can help it. They still need emotional things like love and romance, and some guy who is being shared with other women is not going to give that to them. So what say you about the idea that they aren't going to be getting their love and romance, and that they'll have to make a choice between being members of literal harems and being perpetually single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:25 PM
2

It's predicted that 50% of American women will be single in 2030. Nothing to be said of the men. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:06 PM
1

Just like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
1

And now you're being disingenuous with me. I called what he said to gimpgirl based. I could agree with you, if you didn't dismiss people's arguments, not on the actual content of their argument, but the words that you put in their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:39 PM
2

Notice how no one wants to discuss. The one person who said anything explicitly finds the tiniest thing to nitpick for a poor excuse to dismiss the actual content of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:15 PM
1

TRP didn't "turn women into villains"; women "turned women into villains".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:01 PM
3

Reread your comment. You called him out for his alleged lack of good-faith, can't you spot your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 PM
1

I don't feel as though this argument is useful, as you're repeating yourself and it's obvious to me that we can't even agree on the simplest of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:56 PM
0

Negative. You're awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:53 PM
4

In long, tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:44 PM
-1

As are you, you are unbelievably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:40 PM
8

You are unbelievably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:40 PM
1

You're being incredibly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 PM
1

It isn't crucial to this particular argument, and 80% of people don't meet offline, but I understand your point. Times are changing. It isn't obvious whether for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:32 PM
2

I haven't been blocked yet. I await my turn with utmost suspense. I similarly have my grievances with TRP and FDS. They aggravate me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:29 PM
1

OH! You mean that part. You're right, that's probably wrong, though besides the point. Although, if you follow the trend of online dating over the next five years after the conclusion of that graph in 2017, online dating more-than-likely makes up at least 50% on its own at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:50 PM
2

You aren't wrong. I don't particularly appreciate the disingenuous-ness and refusal to practice good-faith of most here. Can't tell you how many arguments I've been in where the other very obviously doesn't even have a point, they're just arguing to argue. More-than-likely because they didn't like what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:47 PM
2

It only makes you bitter if you go into the process expecting a perfect partner at the end of the road. Imagine my shock, when I have everything that you described in your advice post going on in my life, when I only ever expected to find a partner, much less a perfect partner, and haven't even managed that. The issue I have is that you're giving men false hope. For some it will work, for most it will not. I'd bet my life on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:45 PM
1

There actually isn't a gap at all, hence why I said that it was probably correct, and I'll explain why. The pew research suggests that 30% of the American population has used a dating app before. Imagine how much of the population is too young to date, and imagine how much of the population didn't become an adult and/or weren't single come 2012-2014, and haven't been single since. I'd imagine the number is 30% of the population; yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:40 PM
0

That doesn't suggest that I'm misinterpreting anything. The original suggestion made by Mr. Ney was that online dating wasn't to be participated in. My suggestion was that online dating now makes up a near-majority (as of 2017) of how couples are meeting, and so you'd be shooting yourself in the foot not to participate. Your suggestion is that I'm misinterpreting the data, but even your highlighted portion only suggests that the bar/restaurant category would not be represented the same if it wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:35 PM
1

Perhaps. You might keep well above-average company. Or delusional company. I want to note: I'm not trying to play "gotcha" or anything. I'm sincerely trying to share my perspective with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:04 PM
1

Precisely. Edit: Relatively, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:02 PM
2

Your suggestions certainly are things that some people need to hear, but it isn't anything that is particularly profound whatsoever, especially in this sub. To anyone who takes the advice to heart: I hope it works out, but don't be surprised when it doesn't. As plenty on this sub know, doing any and all of this guarantees you nothing, and putting all of your eggs in this sort of "soft-self-improvement" basket will make you significantly more bitter than you would've been otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:01 PM
0

https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf They highlight that in Table 2, second-to-last page. It's distinguished exactly what proportion of those who met online also met through other means. It isn't a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:55 PM
2

I never said 40% of people. I said 40% of couples. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:07 AM
1

No, but there are women like us who genuinely love their husbands These are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:05 AM
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I'm not sure what you're referring to. The data I'm referring to has been being kept since the 1940's. Fairly certain there wasn't internet back then. I'm also not sure what you're citing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:13 AM
3

You're close. Men are struggling to find relationships period. Of the men that can find relationships, they're primarily finding them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 AM
1

I looked him up the first time you mentioned him. He has a bad hairline, but he otherwise isn't balding, is thin and possibly at least vaguely fit, he obviously has money, and he's 6'2"; only 3.9% of American men are 6'2". I couldn't imagine he isn't the least bit charismatic. Besides, you're getting those reactions from who? Women? Wouldn't that suggest further that the average woman wants nothing to do with the average man if she couldn't even be satisfied with a demonstrably average man at wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:01 AM
2

So at least 5'10".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:51 AM
1

Because generally finding a relationship from strangers is the norm now. Times are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:49 AM
1

That is not a below-average man. This is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:43 AM
2

I sincerely don't think it matters. All dating apps are in a very similar position in terms of gender ratios and results. I'm not quite sure how you figure that differentiating this would make a difference. If the study were to differentiate the data by age, It would not disprove that the near-majority (per 2017) of people meet through dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:40 AM
1

That very much depends on your definition of average, hence my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:33 AM
2

It doesn't particularly need to. Your implication in your original post was that the failure of the men in the post was to be placed at their own feet for having the audacity to use dating apps. If we're to follow the trend of that graph over five years after its conclusion, it's safe to assume that the majority of the couples that meet nowadays do it through dating apps. To suggest that one shouldn't use dating apps is akin to suggesting that one should accept their lot and give in. You'd be cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:27 AM
3

I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:23 AM
1

If you'd caught me a week ago, I might not have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:15 AM
6

I absolutely agree. Suggesting not to participate, however, is to suggest not to play the game. Not saying that's a bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:10 AM
2

Of course. You're a very pleasant person, it's the least I could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:08 AM
1

I don't particularly find this article reliable, as it's incredibly poorly written. The pew research is probably correct, though you have to consider that 30% includes Americans who became adults and found relationships before online dating arose. Regardless, I'll take your article and raise you a proper scientific paper: https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf There's a fun graph on the last page.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:07 AM
2

He means you can find every age between 18/19 to men well into their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:59 AM
10

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet as of 2017. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:58 AM
2

You can't base your future on outliers. Assuming it's even true to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:57 AM
5

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet as of 2017. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:57 AM
3

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet as of 2017. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:56 AM
5

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet as of 2017. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:56 AM
3

Not wrong. Some people are still plugged into the Matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:54 AM
15

Some meet their forever-partner at 22, some have never even had a date by 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:52 AM
1

Not most, per the graph's conclusion in 2017; but if we follow the trend, we can assume it is indeed now most. Times are changing. It isn't obvious whether it's for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:48 AM
1

https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf There's a nice graph on the last page. It only suggests "heterosexual couples"; though those words heavily imply it's something at least vaguely longer-term. The graph was polling data, which would indicate that they asked couples. Meaning they self-identified as couples. Edit: This data concludes in 2017. This is the latest data. You can imagine what has changed in the last five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:38 AM
1

I meant in the technical sense. I don't have an opinion on what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:04 AM
1

It's not exactly useful to make value judgements when they cannot possibly affect anything, is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:02 AM
3

His suggestion in the post was that the bottom 10-20% of women go after the top 20-40% of men, which would be beyond "Chad" territory. I wasn't insulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:01 AM
2

Educated is the opposite of dumb, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:58 AM
0

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet nowadays. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:51 AM
1

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet nowadays. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:51 AM
1

Dating apps make up 40% of how couples meet nowadays. If you combine dating apps and bars/nightclubs, it's 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:50 AM
1

What about the men who've never had anything; not even a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:49 AM
1

Perhaps you fit in that "Bottom 10-20% of women" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:40 AM
1

This is assuming there isn't a distinction between reality and perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 AM
2

Idk, I've never had a date before. Would it kill a woman to let me treat her to some free food? I can't even just enjoy the company of a person of the opposite sex? Lookism is everywhere. Men who are "less desirable" are seen as less competent and less worthy of respect across the board. It literally effects every dimension of life that involves interaction with other human beings. Including your relationship with your boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:37 AM
1

Absolutely everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:32 AM
0

It doesn't matter in the end. I don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:30 AM
1

Dating apps, bars, and night clubs make up 60% of how couples meet nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:22 AM
2

Dating apps, bars, and night clubs make up 60% of how couples meet nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:20 AM
1

You're reversing cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:17 AM
0

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:16 AM
1

And here I thought you were gonna say something profound. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:11 AM
0

Men certainly settle no matter what. Combination of idealistic love and the incapacity to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:09 AM
2

Some men on this sub don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 AM
2

Many women have the choice to engage in hookup culture but don't. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 AM
1

How long until it isn't a minority? That study wasn't concluded in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 AM
2

Women might give a fuck, my boss might give a fuck, the divorce courts might give a fuck... Plenty of examples to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:00 AM
1

Ehhh... Probably a lower chance of contracting an STD from a hooker/escort than from your average woman, if we're being real...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:57 AM
3

You can't know that, and it's irresponsible to make those claims. Don't give a man false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:53 AM
4

I understand where you're at, buddy. You have my condolences. If you need to talk to someone, I'm here. I know how I felt. Don't want you to feel the same if I can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:52 AM
0

By "freedom of choice" you mean women's freedom of choice. This is making an implicit value judgement in favor of women over men. It isn't obvious that that's preferable. ​ May I remind you that nothing in this world is free. All actions have equal-but-opposite reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 AM
1

I only propose that we don't play coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:58 AM
2

Depends on your definition of "harm" and "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:43 AM
3

This is why the correct solution is to no longer be limited by liberal enlightenment ideas about human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:22 AM
10

Look into Jean Piaget's works. Us creatures have a "fair play" circuit hardwired into us from at least as far back as rats. Perhaps life isn't always fair, but we are social animals; we tend to want to be able to interact with people rather than not. In that case, it's more-than-likely in your best interest to make the part of the world that you occupy as "fair" to people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:55 AM
0

Well, no. Not everyone has relationship dealbreakers. You have to have standards to have dealbreakers, of which not all of us have the luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:49 AM
7

Presumably, female selectivity is the primary bottleneck here. ​ So society may simply need to train all men out of them to the greatest extent possible. Damn, you almost had it. Of course, resort to the tried-and-true "Women are the problem... blame men".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:44 AM
1

You're a real one, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:01 AM
2

Nice advice for people who can get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:47 AM
2

This isn't a democracy. There is no choice. It's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:44 AM
1

Holy fuck what I'd give to be this naïve. I've always wished I could live in another world. What did it take to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:41 PM
1

Why not just go all the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:39 PM
1

If we ever get to the point that artificial wombs are a thing, it will literally make women obsolete. They'd never let it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:38 PM
1

Well it either needs to be solved sooner or later, or let it get so out-of-hand that it gets beyond the point-of-no-return. It's only a matter of time until society collapses. It's average men that keep it afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:37 PM
4

The finish line is the starting line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:34 PM
2

Trust me, cher. The men not being part of the family isn't men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:34 PM
1

It's easy to imagine that this is the case when women generally rate men 1-2 points lower than their actual SMV, and women are rated 1-2 points higher than theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:27 PM
2

God this society's fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:20 PM
2

"Can't be fixed"? Make me dictator for a day; it'll be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:15 PM
1

Certainly not tall enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:06 PM
1

I'm assuming because I'm only so cute and because I'm a bit too "lil" of a "baby".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:54 PM
1

Zoomy goomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:44 PM
3

Not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:42 PM
2

I mean, I'm not a millennial. I agree they're largely useless. I make about that much money now, though it's relative to where I live. Also depends on which age group you're looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:40 PM
4

Around the age of 29 is when either sex get married. Women when they no longer have options. Men when they're starting to get proper footing in their careers. married men typically are most successful. why do you think that is compared to their single counterparts? You're reversing cause and effect; it's a selection bias. Not all men who are successful are married, but all men who are married are necessarily successful as a prerequisite. idk what this second line means The game doesn't start unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:33 PM
6

Plenty enough do, I think. For men, the finish line is the starting line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:42 PM
-1

Sure, I'm 100% on-board with that. ... In your case, not compatible height-wise, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:23 AM
3

I feel the same way. Wish people would stop with the dishonesty and bad-faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:17 AM
4

Interesting how they're all exes...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:16 AM
1

In what industry is it standard practice that the talent endure physical, emotional, and substance abuse, and contract incurable strains of STDs? EMS. Not "standard practice" per se, but it always seems to get that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:55 AM
0

Super weird to think that ad hominem attacks are arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:33 AM
0

Sex is a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:05 PM
1

Because one has it worse than the other. Demonstrably.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:55 PM
1

And what if I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:46 PM
1

I think many things are meant to hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:57 PM
3

'Tis unfortunate. He's endearing, though. I think we should keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:31 AM
1

You can assume whatever you like; ain't gonna hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:00 AM
1

He kinda is, isn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:33 AM
1

Oh yeah, of course. I didn't start this way. It's actually a relatively recent development.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:04 AM
1

Mike "Turn Those Fruits into Vegetables" Pence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:51 AM
6

*Sharp inhale* Not wrong tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:27 AM
2

Uhh, excuse me. Life makes me believe I can't possibly be loved or experience mutual attraction. I ain't red-pilled, cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:19 AM
1

Anytime, bud. Keep on rockin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:17 AM
2

That's only true because she's holding out for the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:09 AM
2

If I may: I also have a lot of respect for you. Every time I see your name, I know it's gonna be something good. You have the best takes, even though I've seen you have to take some L's. I'm always predisposed to upvote a comment of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:02 AM
1

I don't have friends. All I have are you fucks. I hate you all. Love ya. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:59 AM
2

Yeah, you know it. What? You want me to DM you a pic? I'm down, but I don't keep pictures of myself. I'll have to take one for you. Might I ask what you expect to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:43 PM
1

I legit hate y'all. I want with every fiber of my being not to, you haven't given me a reason to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:38 PM
1

I've talked to you before. Don't remember what it was about. You asked me what my favorite color was. I don't know whether or not I'm below average. I don't particularly like myself, so I rate myself low. One male friend has suggested multiple times that I'm fairly handsome, and another compliments me on my beard every time I see him. I don't get feedback from women. In fact, I've never gotten anything from a woman. My own mother doesn't give a flying fuck about me. No woman has ever shown inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:33 PM
1

Paramedic friend! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:28 PM
2

Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Gahdamn. The only woman with self-control is one that's kept in a box. TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:21 PM
1

Ayyy, my fellow deformed friend of the "pectus" variety!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:18 PM
1

PFFFT. "Popsci" Nice reliable fuckin' source there, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:05 PM
1

'Cause it's fuckin' true. I don't think that, I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:00 PM
1

*Head I know, man. Reality is rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:58 PM
2

He's special. Don't mind him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:56 PM
1

It doesn't work, buddy boyo; was never meant to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:49 PM
1

Around 70% of women are obese in America, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:46 PM
1

It ain't any better out here in the rural parts, cher. Stop deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:44 PM
3

And by the way, the majority of incels aren't white. Whites make up a significant portion, sure, but they aren't the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:15 PM
1

If you can't repair your trebuchet on your own, are you even a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:32 AM
1

To be completely honest with you, I think it would suck to be in your position. Being black in America probably feels isolating and makes you wonder what's so wrong with you that you ended up here. You may feel like you missed out on a lot of important life experiences, and when people act as if your situation is not that big of a deal, it goes completely against how you feel. I can understand why you're starting to hate your fellow countrymen. You have all of pain, and obviously you don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:12 AM
1

Yes. A woman who does not in any way-shape-or-form practice self-control is a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:08 AM
1

Gahdamn, you're comin' in hot. With all the men going off about their PUA "Just approach literally every woman you come across walking down the fuckin' street, bro. If your number isn't in the thousands before you get your first number, much less date, you aren't even trying!", you think even any of the men who actually have some semblance of success with women get to choose whatsoever? And I get it, I'm sure there are men who shoot for the fuckin' stars, cher, but that certainly ain't me. I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:12 AM
1

I guess they never miss, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:55 AM
1

I like your gusto good sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:23 AM
1

Mmm, I'd bet you $100 if there were ever a study on it, the results would show that virgin women are much more likely to share that information than men. Sure, there are plenty of virgin women. Everything's relative after all. If your definition of "plenty" is twenty. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:22 AM
3

Idk what world you live in where men "pick" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:18 AM
2

I mean, they don't really exist in practicality. Certainly none of the twenty of them want anything to do with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:13 AM
1

I'm tryna make more money too. I like having things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:35 PM
5

I agree and I don't. I also don't particularly like myself. Self improvement should be the striving to improve yourself, but not to the point that you're doing something you have no personal stake in; or worse, sacrificing parts of yourself in the name of it. I speak from experience. Self improvement for the sake of self improvement isn't any better than not trying. I'd argue it's actually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:41 AM
4

I mean, sure. Self-improvement isn't the trump card you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:09 AM
1

Just goes to show the value of pussy, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:06 AM
10

I'm sorry, but a six-figure salary and being 6'+ doesn't seem to scream "not conducive to finding a woman" to me, despite what you seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:32 AM
8

ROFL Is this meant to be satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:33 AM
2

This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:31 AM
5

Women love for the duration of their partner's immediate usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:26 AM
9

Same, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:59 AM
2

Or the men are approaching because they feel like they couldn't score with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:58 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:57 AM
3

To answer your question, you've got a guy like that right here. I'm sure I'm, like, the only one on the sub though. So one out of... however many people at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:55 AM
3

Height is really most of the equation, honestly. 6'+ and you've got a really good shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:47 AM
2

There could be a variety of reasons a woman agrees to something long-term. Men get used all the time. Particularly men who don't have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:42 AM
3

stick to virgins who can't compare you to anyone at all. Would be nice if those existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:37 AM
4

Women love opportunistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:36 AM
0

They might-as-well be, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:27 AM
2

Indeed it is. Indeed it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:21 AM
14

Should it not sound like insecurity? Why is insecurity a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:06 AM
1

Not sure, but it won't be this. That's pretty much all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:04 AM
1

Time is more useful spent some places than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:04 AM
0

Throughout history for every one man who made it, there were countless others who fell despite trying just as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:34 PM
3

My game crashes when I open it and everyone's advise is to grind for XP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:29 PM
1

How tall are you, might I ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:20 PM
1

Time is money. How much is minimum wage over there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:19 PM
1

I'm not a woman, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:15 PM
1

You're not wrong. Some men are genetically predisposed to be good hunters. Most aren't. Combined with the fact that you have a lot less agency over your own life than you'd like to believe, it's hard to give profound, tangible advice. If one thing's for certain, however, it's that society can't go on like this for long. This isn't sustainable. It's hard to know the way forward, and plenty are attempting to figure out what that way forward is as we speak. My suggestion is that there isn't. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:13 PM
2

You have a whole hell-of-a-lot less agency than anyone would like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:08 PM
1

Do you also sell out all of the convenience stores of their lottery tickets? It's all a numbers game, after all... Build resilience. Play the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:00 PM
1

Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:58 PM
1

Marrying isn't the greatest idea nowadays, but if that's what you'd like then be my guest. Don't be fooled into thinking it isn't going to fuck you over, though. You aren't special, it isn't gonna be different for you. Also, moving to NYC to date sounds like the worst fuckin' idea I've ever heard. I'm sure it's better to go literally anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:57 PM
1

It'll happen on its own. As soon as the inevitable collapse is upon us. Until then, we wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:55 PM
1

...Aaaand negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:48 PM
3

Negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:48 PM
1

Long term no one has any ideas. The way things are, nothing is sustainable. All that's left to do is enjoy the decline and await the inevitable collapse. I just hope it happens in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:45 PM
1

As I've always said: for men, the finish line is the starting line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:43 PM
1

Most people come from your direction, indeed. I think it's foolish; but you'll find out eventually, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:38 PM
1

It didn't used to my perspective. Though my perspective has shifted, my life hasn't changed. I'd wager it's the same for anyone. It's just too uncomfortable for you to come to terms with it. I don't blame you, I was the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:34 PM
1

If there's one thing I've learned in my time on this planet, it's that by-and-large things are out of our hands. I don't think that nihilism is going to make anyone happy, I don't think it will change anything. Nothing changes anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:30 PM
1

You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:28 PM
1

If only you knew how full-of-shit you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:13 PM
1

I mean, you basically described me, except for a couple of minor things. I've never been on a date (and not for lack of trying), so take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:03 PM
2

Being jacked is exceptionally overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:01 PM
1

Looksmaxxing is easy if you have a foundation to work with. Otherwise it's effectively impossible to get any real results. In that case, statusmaxxing is much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:00 PM
1

It's called malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:55 PM
11

Going to the gym rarely ever changes anything. The gym can't change genes. If you already have some success, it could get you a bit more. That's about all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:54 PM
2

Not all men who are unattractive have no chance with women. All men who have no chance with women are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:51 PM
2

However, I just can't understand the whole "I need a chaste woman" thing. You know that shit doesn't exist lol. Unfortunately, I think we know all to well that that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:02 PM
4

There's a lot to be interested about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:02 PM
4

To be fair, gotta give credit where credit's due. You're absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:57 PM
1

Lots of things aren't rights when they should be. Doesn't make it moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:09 PM
4

I'd put a billion dollars down that the numbers would not be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:05 PM
2

I think the statistic goes something like 67% of women in the US have had 10+ sexual partners. Hardly any different from 20, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:58 PM
3

Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:24 AM
-1

Pfft. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:23 AM
1

Authentic "nice" is desirable. Negative. There's no room for that in today's society, I've come to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:18 AM
2

Goddamn dude, tell him how you really feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:56 PM
1

Sure fam, lemme just do that real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:51 PM
0

Well, reason nombre ein why I hate the guy is 'cause he never tells me such nice things. He's kind of an ass. If he ever did say nice things, I wouldn't believe him. It's also the case that I'd legit rather be anyone other than me. Me sucks, fuck that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:57 PM
3

Not the same guy, but in terms of the couple of guys I can still consider friends: No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:53 PM
0

I'll be your friend. We can be no-friend-havers together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:52 PM
0

Good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:51 PM
1

Your case is special. Not that you're wrong. Don't think compliments from men really helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:50 PM
2

Me? Fuck, I hate that guy. Can't I find literally anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:48 PM
1

Well, talk to the other men on the sub, I guess. I don't have women to "put in place".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:45 PM
0

Or even a guy in his early 20's? ... It doesn't even have to be casual. QQ
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:40 PM
0

Ehh. It's easier to cheat than it is to do the right thing. I doubt most people have that kinda self-control. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:38 PM
1

I have. I've lowered my standards through the fuckin' floor. I've only gotten rejected. I've only ever gotten rejected. Must be different across the Atlantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:36 PM
2

Yeah. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:12 PM
2

All you need to do to get asked out by a girl that's into you is wait and not fuck it up while waiting. Thanks, I only needed more confirmation that I've literally never had a woman even vaguely show interest. Before I could've at least deluded myself into thinking I missed something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:05 PM
1

I mean bro, you can compliment me all you like. Ain't no way I'm believing any of that shit. Just doesn't play out that way in reality. There's no evidence that anyone's compliments have merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:03 PM
3

Do you live in Brazil?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:59 PM
2

PFFFFFFT. Height needs to be at, like, 50% bro. No cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:55 PM
4

And plenty of women who think they're in relationships but aren't, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:36 PM
2

If they've only ever been that kind of guy they'll find the idea of doing it comical. I love how you say if as though a guy could manage that without having popped out the pussy being that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:32 PM
1

I was expecting something more along the lines of "Well, you know, he's short but he's aight. Works out regularly and whatnot. Didn't used to be successful with women, but he's doing alright now." But you actually decided to conjure up the most undesirable guy you could think of, and suggest to me that that motherfucker, coasting through life, somehow managed to snag some puss. Even just once. No way, dude. Can't be real. Edit: How old are you fucks? No way you aren't, like, sixteen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:27 PM
2

It isn't scary, it's just easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:47 PM
5

Sure, bud. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:35 PM
4

I have the most reliable metric. Do a 180, see what changes. Nothing? Must not be me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:28 PM
9

Certainly none that lasted. I actively have, like, two people that I don't even regularly talk to. It's just me out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:26 PM
3

The dog preference is the secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:25 PM
8

I used to be the most empathetic person I know. Now that I've quit, nothing has changed. I don't expect anything to change. So I'm good. It's easier this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:24 PM
10

You wanted to focus on point one... because your default is to blame men, and that point was giving you more credit than you deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:17 AM
2

Again, yes. Men literally risk their lives in hard, manual labor jobs in order to keep society functioning. Fields that are grossly disproportionally made up of men. Again, male suicide is skyrocketing. Ultimately, though, I agree with your sentiment. Please, stop sleeping with men. Let's all lose our minds. The sooner the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:13 AM
2

They are usually very literally risking their lives, actually. Male suicide is skyrocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:09 AM
2

Tried-and-true strategy: blame men. I feel like I recently read a thread somewhere about the lack of empathy either gender tends to show the other...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:04 AM
10

Never had relationships to begin with. As with all things, I'm coming to find, nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:51 AM
10

For one, you're being a hypocrite. I like how you dodge the number two in the comment you replied to. And of course, as anyone could expect, the tried-and-true method of simply blaming men for all of society's woes and absolving yourself of any blame. It's almost like you're... sorta... exactly the person OP was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:47 AM
0

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:43 AM
22

I've been "left on read" so-to-speak by a psychiatrist. Tried therapy first, didn't help much at all. She didn't seem to really care, and there was a degree to which I felt like she didn't really take me seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:38 AM
30

Ain't nobody ever shown me empathy. I'm done with showing it to them. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:34 AM
2

I know someone who shared your sentiment. She's with her cats and boxed wine pulling her hair out 'cause she isn't married and wants kids. No man wants anything to do with her, unfortunately, now that she's 29/30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:25 AM
8

True. Gen Z reporting: blackpill is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:19 AM
1

It was a sincere question. In my experience, it literally doesn't work for just anyone. I've been thinking about it a lot recently, and I was wondering if anyone had any insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:08 AM
4

I mean, that's fine. We can all be liars sometimes. We all have those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:33 AM
7

Jesus fuck, bro; his point was only that Brazil is getting in on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:25 AM
2

How tall are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:21 AM
3

You have the most correct stance. If you ain't popped out the pussy able to get pussy, then there's no hope for a motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:20 AM
0

A one size fits all "hit the gym and take up muy thai and listen to joe rogan" stereotype won't work for everyone. Have you ever considered why that might be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:14 AM
12

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:10 AM
1

We can always default to the tried-and-true method of blaming men for all of society's woes, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:57 AM
2

How nice for you that you can just choose when to be single and when not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:28 AM
1

Me too, but I'm still a virgin. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:04 PM
1

Such a nice, frilly way to tell guys who get the short end of the stick to get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:04 PM
2

Everyone in the world. Or even the universe, really. I trust him. The aliens should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:48 PM
1

now what if i told you, that can’t be true because majority of men’s favorite color is blue? You're misinterpreting my argument. You were arguing that your standards weren't high because you only simply need: men to be able to exist monetary wise, have some ambitions, and be attractive to me. I was simply suggesting that that doesn't necessarily mean that you don't want the fabled 666. Your standards very well could still be high. The only other part of the argument was when you suggested that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:23 PM
3

I'm also incredibly pessimistic. That's what so awesome and exciting. We get to see the collapse in real-time. Isn't that amazing? The only way for things to possibly change for the better is if things get a whole hell-of-a-lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:59 PM
1

Purple, funny enough. How 'bout you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:56 PM
4

Do you seriously lack the awareness to realize that the post you're currently commenting in is literally on the topic of how the previous technological revolution has thrown our society into the trajectory of oblivion? It's plenty justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:51 PM
1

There is no "your truth". It's either truth or it isn't true. When was I defensive? When you asked me a self-admitted irrelevant question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:46 PM
2

You're funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:19 AM
5

It's statistics, cher. No, it isn't subjective. It's pretty demonstrably objective. Yes, all women. Idk what a fuckin' borg is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:36 AM
1

What beliefs do I need to compromise on? Why did you ask me if it didn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:34 AM
1

Exactly what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:08 AM
0

Sure fam, your anecdotes are as good as anyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:07 AM
1

What would it change for you if I were to say that I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:06 AM
3

Easy. Don't blame yourself. For anything, really. Doesn't make a difference either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:02 AM
1

i got no reason to need someone that makes more. that’s cutting majority of my pool being in my mid20s. Women do that shit all the time. Top 20% and whatnot. Pretty well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:00 AM
2

Well sure, she was exaggerating. Only slightly though. I'm sure she'd be okay enough with a 6'0" guy. I'm sure if his jaw were sub-optimally chiseled, she could make do. If he were only born with a four pack, god forbid, I guess it wouldn't be that much of a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:57 PM
9

Yeah, let me just go ahead and choose which woman I want to be with real quick, given all the wonderful options I have... ... oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:53 PM
0

I'm glad that you're working on yourself. Perhaps you'll gain a bit of humility. You have a whole lot less agency in your life than you like to believe, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:50 PM
2

You contradicting yourself is a "literal mindset"? Mine or yours? Serious question. And I highly doubt that that's what you're "literally saying".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:49 PM
3

i literally require men to be able to exist monetary wise ​ money is not a determining factor. Those two statements are diametrically opposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:42 PM
1

I meant that I don't think your opinion compared to hers counts. Idgaf about your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:40 PM
1

Color me surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:36 PM
3

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I'm not sure that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:31 PM
1

Are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:27 PM
0

You're a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:26 PM
7

there are men that don't meet my standards that aren't unattractive or low value. Yeah, it's well-documented. Women aim for the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:24 PM
1

Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:19 PM
1

i literally require men to be able to exist monetary wise, have some ambitions, and be attractive to me. Six figures, six pack, six inch. What has anyone here said that's wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:18 PM
2

No one is expecting you to do that. Sure, no one cares whether or not any given individual plays the game. But it's common knowledge that, for men, the finish line is the starting line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:16 PM
2

Your "80%" is actually the 20%. The rest of the men are invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:14 PM
1

women are not consciously thinking anything at all about LVM, men they are not attracted to Truest thing anyone has ever said on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:12 PM
7

I do not need six pack abs, perfectly chiseled jaw or a 6’5 chad. ​ But I do want someone who I am sexually attracted to Those two statements are diametrically opposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:10 PM
1

young man Another assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:07 PM
4

No surprise there. Lack of introspection... check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:05 PM
1

you'll gain absolutely fucking nothing from it. I've gained absolutely fucking nothing from anything I've ever done in life. I'm coming to find out that this isn't any different. It isn't "lol fuck women". I don't discriminate. And I don't have "boys". Stop assuming you know anything about me. im just asking you to not do it here, for me, please. I don't owe anyone anything. Certainly not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:00 PM
1

It's hardly his fault. Blaming him is the reason society is fucked. No one is capable of even a semblance of introspection any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:46 PM
2

Won't happen. Only hope is the collapse of civilization. Besides, the collapse will come first. Enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:42 PM
4

No man can have the best of you at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:40 PM
0

You have no reason to be mad. You do it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:37 PM
5

A nice, heartfelt post positing harmony as the way forward... ... and all you can think about is how men need to be blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:36 PM
1

Do we really need to jump at every opportunity to remind the other they deserve their pain, because our own went ignored? Yes. Yes we do. I certainly do. It's my mission at this point. I'm tired of refusing to acknowledge the truth. I'm tired of censoring myself. I'm tired of blaming myself. I agree with the sentiment that we need good-faith arguments. You can't find that here. Everyone here lies. No one is willing to tell the truth. It's extremely unlikely that this place is ever going to be wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:28 PM
1

That's assuming they're ever honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:32 PM
1

Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:26 PM
2

So you can't be fashionable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:43 AM
2

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:18 AM
2

En vogue means fashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:17 AM
2

Wouldn't be surprised if that were the only way to get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:16 AM
2

Good, good. Keep it that way. Don't throw the silver platter y'all women get handed the second you pop out the pussy out the window like a moron. It's en vogue nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:14 AM
1

I have an absolute fantastic sense of smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:11 AM
1

You're gonna be sad that you didn't see it coming. I wouldn't give it another fifty years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:04 AM
2

It's going on a year now of my entire life falling completely the fuck apart. I've been in a grossly self-deletious kinda mood since long before then, and it only gets worse by the day. I am only just now seeing the world for what it actually is, and I'm slowly abandoning all of my principles, inhibitions, and virtues only to see that my life isn't getting worse as I'd dreaded for so long. To answer your question: I've never felt fuckin' better. I mean that incredibly sincerely. How you doin'?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:02 AM
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Being there for his emotional and mental health... Until he actually, like, takes you up on that offer. Suddenly you make like a fuckin' tree and skedaddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:50 AM
2

You know you'd dip the second shit hit the fan. Don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:48 AM
1

Fuck you, I ain't dying for a hoe. Idc who it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:46 AM
2

Have to be born that way, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:43 AM
1

The perfect level of enough for society to completely collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:39 AM
1

You literally can't get the idea of men and sex out of your mind for two fuckin' seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:34 AM
1

I used to blame myself for everything too. Until I realized that I have a whole lot less agency in my own life than I'd ever like to believe. Now I just chill. I can hate and blame people and the world at large and it feels good. The best part is that though it changes literally nothing about my trajectory in life, neither did anything else I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:32 AM
2

It's fuckin' wild, isn't it? Cucked world, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:29 AM
1

I mean, I'm not a "stemdork" and I don't own a fleshlight, but that's me. I'll be the first to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:19 AM
2

Most men have sex at least once in their lives, sure. Most men don't have sex regularly. A very disconcertingly disproportional amount have never, and the way things are looking, will never.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:12 AM
1

She is the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:05 AM
1

Yeah, back in the olden days. Women don't do that these days. It's hardly a relevant argument anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:54 AM
2

And before she was "very unattractive"? Y'all crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:50 AM
2

You can't disagree with objective reality, cher. You'll figure that out sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:46 AM
7

unlike women, who look for men that are above average in every possible field and settle for nothing less Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:45 AM
2

If only that shit were real anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:39 AM
2

Classic alpha imprint. Another one for the books.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:37 AM
63

The interesting part is that you believe her wholeheartedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:13 PM
3

She and I met in a very specific situation where we were forced to spend time together, just the two of us for the most part, in a multi-hour long period over the course of a day. We had plenty of time to make conversation, and we had really awesome chemistry. I wasn't crazy attracted to her, but she was really cool. At the end, I gave her my number for unrelated reasons. I didn't have any plans at the time to ask her on a date. About a half-an-hour later she was texting me, and we were texting …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:00 PM
3

The last woman I asked on a date was fat and ugly. She rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:42 PM
3

Send 'em my way, cher.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:35 PM
5

I mean, if female virgins existed...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:06 AM
2

Ehh, I wouldn't be so sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:00 AM
1

True, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:58 AM
3

I feel like you're making a lot of assumptions, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:05 AM
5

And unfortunately one side has all the power...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:45 AM
14

For what it's worth, I'm sure he's absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:42 AM
2

Those studies are all polls; polls are flawed because people lie. It's common knowledge that men overreport and women underreport their n-counts. There are social incentives to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:41 AM
2

My man comin' in clutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:12 PM
3

Perhaps. The bitterness and resentment is a relatively new development. I'm sure it won't help, but I'm almost just as sure it won't hurt. None of it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:09 AM
4

I don't hate you. I don't hate very many people. At the same time, though I appreciate the sentiment, your advice isn't particularly novel, and I'm not particularly naïve. Certainly not anymore. Similarly to my friends and their compliments, it isn't obvious that your frilly words hold merit. To the degree that I lack confidence, and that it's unwarranted, that wasn't always the case. Whether I do or don't doesn't seem to make much difference. It genuinely seems to me to just simply be the case …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:01 AM
4

Idk, maybe nothing. I have a decent job, nothing to write home about, but it's aight. I'm probably at least a bit ugly; it's hard to say. I've been complimented on my looks by friends, but I'm pretty used to being patronized and condescended to. It isn't obvious that there's any merit there. I'm a bit on the small side; both height-wise and weight-wise. Probably not for the best; and hasn't changed much despite my best efforts. Seems largely out of my control. I don't really have problems talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:36 AM
2

Terrible, typical bluepill advice. Not that redpill advice would be much better. Personal development is a farce. You have a whole lot less agency in your life than you believe. Edit: You even said it yourself: I started dressing better to attract the man that everyone wants. Only to find out it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:06 AM
3

Nothing matters. There is no improvement, you either are or you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:40 AM
4

Enough, sadly. And with more women that I'd lowered my standards through the floor for than I'd like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:58 AM
1

I still remember that day that a woman said that she liked my jacket. And to a lesser extent, the day that my aunt said that she liked my beard. It was my aunt, but still. I am no longer accepting jobs that require me to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:41 AM
10

Too low, or not low enough? I haven't had a date in my life!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:39 AM
1

I said survival of the fittest died, not biology. Whether a good thing or a bad thing, lineages that should have gone extinct long ago persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:40 PM
2

Popped cherry don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:37 PM
2

Survival of the fittest died a long time ago. Advanced civilization killed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:19 PM
5

No hymen no diamond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:06 PM
8

I'm at war with you demons. I'm fighting for my fuckin' life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:00 PM
2

Women also lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:56 AM
1

My lack of friends are what makes women promiscuous? I don't follow the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:16 PM
4

I don't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:27 PM
4

Most women are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:46 PM
2

I'm hurt too. I have every reason and every right to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:26 PM
3

Absolute LUL at the guys replying to you who think it's appropriate to suggest that you need to swear off women for the rest of your life. Meanwhile they've had enough sex to last a man from five generations ago a hundred years; undoubtedly without much effort on their part (certainly not nearly as much as they like to think) besides being born. It's like a conversation between a billionaire born to a wealthy family and an impoverished man who never had a chance, where the billionaire is suggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:19 PM
4

Literally false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:06 PM
1

More-than-likely the divorce was initiated by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:08 PM
1

Monogamy is already dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:43 PM
17

That isn't the future. That is the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:41 PM
9

Literally reality as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:27 PM
2

Idk what you're talking about. Monogamy is already dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:24 PM
1

Yeah, I'm pretty sure you're correct. Everyone here keep mentioning that women have a lower sex-drive than men, but there's a much better explanation. I can imagine that if I had as much sex as the average woman I'd get sick of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:22 PM
10

It's a selection bias. It isn't that men are more likely to pursue relationships, it's that women have less need for the apps. The overwhelming majority of men simply have a rough time with women and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:54 AM
1

I've had my heart broken. Not even just women; generally I've watched all of my hopes and dreams die. I've tried the self-improvement game, I've tried to put my best foot forward, I've moved towards the goals, and I've seen the progress. None of it ever mattered. It wasn't meant to be. I used to believe in the bootstraps, and I genuinely believe I tried harder than most, but ultimately the way you were born affects more than anyone likes to admit. In terms of women, I've never had a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:49 AM
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Even on the thread yesterday asking men about their successes with women, half of them hadn't even approached the woman, the women approached them. Clearly indicating that it wasn't through any self-improvement effort on their part that they had said success. The red pill is an absolute joke. If you ain't popped out the pussy able to get pussy then there ain't no hope for a motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:55 PM
4

Because people with two brain cells to rub together are realizing what a crock-of-shit the redpill is generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:18 AM
1

Oh god, I'm so sorry. Don't worry, this one will be relatively brief. ;) I wouldn't say necessarily that women are emotionally distraught and unfit for relationships, but rather that because of their failure to adhere to their biological imperatives, as you put it, society suffers. I'm suggesting that this is perpetuated by the abandonment of religion, skepticism of the institution of marriage, lack of traditional values, and the de-stigmatization of divorce and promiscuity. The first half or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:09 PM
1

Okay... a lot to unpack here. Another wall incoming. First off, we are in agreement that there have always been dispossessed men. The reason I worded it as "disproportionately" dispossessed is because it tackles the heart of the issue. There is always going to be inequality. That is intrinsic to nature, and we aren't going to be thwarting nature anytime soon. Trust me, we've tried. The problem isn't the inequality's existence on its face, but rather whether it can be mitigated, if we want it to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:49 PM
1

Hi. First off, I'd just like to say I appreciate you taking the time to read through my post and engage. I don't quite agree on a few points here though. I never suggested that women, pre-marriage, ever sought to only have one sexual partner. My suggestion was that they only have children with the best of men, measured by competence. These aren't mutually exclusive. You can have sex with multiple men and still not have sex with the majority of men. Men still get dispossessed. I agree on your poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:17 PM
2

I appreciate your time, cher! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:14 PM
3

I'll just post this again, since I feel it's relevant. Sorry in advance. I welcome discussion, if anyone gets through it. My suspicion is that it has, more-or-less, explicitly harmed society, and could continue to get worse. I think it all hinges on the value of sex. I'll explain, but please bear with me as this is probably going to be really long. As far as I understand, one of the driving forces separating us from chimpanzees, in terms of evolution, is the development of human females' sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:12 AM
2

I did say "roughly half," did I not? Do women not make up the other half? I appreciate that you bothered to read all that, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 10:57 PM
2

"The first step is to risk trust, and I say risk in a specific sense. Naive people trust automatically because they think that people are basically good and they won't get hurt, and then everyone gets burned. Burned people get cynical, and cynical people don't trust, and that's a barrier to intimacy. You can go beyond the cynicism, and you have to do that. You do that by understanding that if you put your hand out in a gesture of trust, you call to the best in that person to respond properly. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:26 PM
1

My suspicion is that is has, more-or-less, explicitly harmed society, and could continue to get worse. I think it all hinges on the value of sex. I'll explain, but please bear with me as this is probably going to be really long. As far as I understand, one of the driving forces separating us from chimpanzees, in terms of evolution, is the development of human females' sexual selectivity. The development of sexual selectivity, it seems to me, caused an interesting dilemma; theoretically women wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 03:10 PM
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Not sure I follow. Mind elaborating? I don't wanna mischaracterize your argument. Edit: Thanks for the reply. I appreciate the engagement. Edit 2: Why does spell-check say "mischaracterize" is misspelled?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:30 PM
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I find the premise of this thread rather disengenuous, but I'll approach it in good faith regardless, and I'll hope you guys afford me the same courtesy. ​ I actually really appreciate a lot of the posts floating around here that spread the idea, essentially, that women need to understand their worth. I genuinely think that the failure on women's part to do this, in large part, is why there is what I'd describe as regression in our society today. ​ But then, and I'd love to have a discussion abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:58 PM
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