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But then how would he keep looking like a good debater?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:28 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:28 PM
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Evangelical Christians
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:04 PM
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How sacrificial of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:42 PM
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Nope. Can’t even hold hands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:41 PM
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Bisexuality is looking pretty good now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:53 PM
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Holy fuck Monster by Urasawa is so fucked up. It’s great and I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:50 PM
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Nah my phone prefers to live on the edge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:49 PM
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Hey man there are worse reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:49 PM
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Because sex before marriage is a sin so if you want to sleep with the guy you have got to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:29 PM
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Means you want to fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:11 PM
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Bruh why are you overrating me? I’m a negative 30 at least. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:57 PM
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Back home I go. Good luck to everyone on PPD. Time to get fat, eat crap, do my hair, sin sexually (by masturbating lol) eat hot chip and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:47 PM
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Not a guy and tbh I don’t think the word slut is even bad. We live in a world where sex before marriage is expected and commonplace; where men compare the blowjob skills of past girlfriends and the average guy I’ve met or dated cannot remember how many girls he’s fucked. We’re all fucking sluts tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:29 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:29 PM
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My personal conviction is that it is bad for the man to stay home full time and the wife to work outside the home. Ask yourself could we live on his income? Why the hell would I even get an education if I’m expected to sponge off the guy’s income?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:21 PM
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If you are really struggling sexually with the guy you are dating, you need to get married right away?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:19 PM
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This is bloody wild tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:14 PM
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My man you need to have higher standards for the girls you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:13 PM
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Nope from our pastor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:13 PM
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Idk I prefer cows myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:12 PM
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Q/A: “ I am towards the end of Phase I and I have held hands and kissed. Do we need to go backwards? (I.e stop holding hands and don’t kiss) Pastor: yes. Me: what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:09 PM
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Q/A from a guy: “ I am most attracted to girls who would hold my hand on the first date, hug me intimately and generally be interesting in authentic intimacy and desire for connection. What do I do?” Answer: that’s a lie and you are interested in pornography. You want more physically than is appropriate for the relationship right now. You are longing for intimacy in a way that is unhealthy. Bro, it’s ok. If you are around check out for the girl in the back in a purple dress, I’ll be happy to giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:05 PM
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Lit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:01 PM
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Honestly you do you. Who the fuck cares? Most of marriages end up in divorce and failure anyway. Life’s short, drink, do drugs and sacrifice some goats to satan once in a while lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:01 PM
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Q/A. “The guy I’m dating has remained a virgin but I have wandered from Christ in my twenties, He has not shown any signs of judging me, but how can I overcome this shame?” I suggest wearing a scarlet letter, wash your husband’s feet every night and make several ceremonial ablutions at different times of the month and different phases of the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:59 PM
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How do we get in the way of the man of our dreams? Show up to the threshing floor and uncover his feet a sans Ruth. Be out there and be involved in places where you could meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:57 PM
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Fuck everything as life is deeply meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:52 PM
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Sounds good bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:50 PM
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Thanks for the blessings bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:49 PM
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Sounds good. You sound like you care about this so much but frankly, I don’t give a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:45 PM
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Bruh I’m not even having PIV sex how would I know? Your guess is as good as mine? Who cares anyway? I’m almost 30, so being a virgin as a girl is not a good thing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:40 PM
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Q/a time: How should men serve sacrificially in a relationship? Bruh, none of the men can answer? That is so fucking odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:37 PM
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Sluts are sluts. They like sex and they want to have it. Eventually they might get bored of you and then move on. I would look for character not how much the woman is putting out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:36 PM
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Yay I’m not a virgin anymore then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:35 PM
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What do you consider sex? Because before I used to say oh yeah I’m a virgin. But I screwed around with a guy and he gave me oral so now I don’t think I’m a virgin anymore but then I’m not sure what to call myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:31 PM
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Bruh maybe I’m called to singleness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:30 PM
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Lol good luck finding a woman who is faithful and also exclusive and also attractive and has whatever qualities you want and wants to fuck 3x a. day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:24 PM
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Lol I appreciate you but I won’t be here that long anyway. I also am an old hand here, under a different account but I’ve known red pill since when they said women were the oldest children in the house. I’m ok but your kindness is quite lovely. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:23 PM
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Oh fuck, I know that. I just find it so interesting how different the advice is in different contexts. And how different church dating/ advice is from mainstream dating/ advice. But yeah, red pillars want to pump and dump, what else is new
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:15 PM
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Disagree. As not all woman are me and I’m quite deprived from never having proper sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:13 PM
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He talks about biblical headship; which starts in marriage. Be careful, women, how you speak of your men to others and how you speak to men when others are listening. Generally, men are less talkative than women are. Women, draw your men out. This is likely good advice as well. Women support your men’s dreams and be his biggest fan, encourage him. Be open to his advice and spiritual encouragement. If he asks how can I pray for you, try to recieve that. Ask yourself how I’m growing in trust in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:09 PM
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Sorry I’m not good at Tldrs. Just ignore the post above all together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:52 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:52 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:52 PM
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Here is further advice: 1) Meet in the right place. Where is the right place? Not a bar, gym, or place of your happiest hobby. But you can meet at your local church’s gatherings and activities. A non hook up app. 2) Date with intention. Get married or break up. Make your intentions as clear as possible each step of the way. 3) don’t pursue a person if no intention of pursuing marriage No date via text lol. We don’t owe each other an explanation for why we aren’t dating if you break up, non-exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:51 PM
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Ergo why my apps are paused and I’m not dating anyone. Why do you think I’m in the wrong headspace?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:18 PM
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50 people at least
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:17 PM
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I pointed out everything I said to a guy here. He clearly didn’t like it. He moved away from me in a way that was amusing. My point was that by following all the advice offered by the pastor, most women are opting into forever single hood. Maybe I’ll slip back into the back here. More questions I have. Most of the attractive girls are already in relationships, which mirrors the real world as well. Another odd thing: All the guys are socializing with each other. Why would they do this? There are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:17 PM
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Sigh. I’m feeling pretty sad right now. 2 relationships in the span of a year both ending poorly and I’m hurting and I feel worn out. So now, I’m in a singles session at our church. And I want to live tweet it kind of with my thoughts. I’m sitting at the back, as my hair is a tangled mess and I woke up late. I don’t feel up to being seen tbh. The number of men to women is 3:1. And most of the men here are in relationships. So for men who want a girl, going to a church is a good way to find them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:44 PM
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Men should stop giving women dating advice. They don’t know what they want and many can’t maintain long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:56 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:30 PM
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He’s gone and I don’t want to hear more about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:14 PM
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It’s tough because the breakup was amicable and I really want him to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:11 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:10 AM
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Too many differences between us
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:52 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:44 AM
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I know ridiculous right? But if I can’t love him the way a woman should love a man, then he deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:43 AM
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I broke up with my boyfriend today. It just wasn’t fair to either of us. I’m depressed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:28 AM
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The bigger problem is there aren’t any good options. The whole”choose wisely” assumes there are better choices to choose from. In reality, if you live in a poor black neighborhood where let’s say50% of your men are unemployed and 20% are in jail, 18% already have families and 10% don’t want to settle down, who are you choosing from? (Note percentages are totally made up here)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:54 PM
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I’m 29, no longer a damsel anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:42 AM
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I’m not sure you can speak for the pressure black women feel. But I think the bigger thing is options. Black guys I speak to will always claim”black girls didn’t want to date me” and I’m deeply skeptical of that. There is such a deficit of black men in our community that black women will date anyone honestly. The real issue is ability and inclination. So we can see in data that black men who makes the most money are more likely to marry out. Why? Because money affords them the ability to widen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:41 AM
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When i was in my early 20s, my dad begged me never to bring a white man home. Please bring me a black man who I can accept. When I was 16, I almost went out with a white guy and my dad raged for hours. I dated a white guy but I never told him. Eventually I’ve been able to argue him to a standstill, pointing out that my happiness and the ability of this white guy to match me should be more important than his race. Black dudes say they don’t care, mostly because we black women don’t date out and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:34 AM
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Sorry your comment doesn’t make much sense. Do you care to explain yourself or maybe you will just say “you’re a bigot” and walk away. I shudder to think people like you who can barely have substantative conversations about anything are the one group protecting my right to an abortion and my right to avoid discrimination. Honestly I only vote Democrat to avoid racism in republicans, my opinion of democrats is not high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:30 AM
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Neither can they lol. Hey I come in peace by the way, all I am saying is shoot your shot sometimes as many girls are likely interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:26 PM
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You are missing a lot of interested women who are wondering if maybe you don’t like them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:32 PM
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But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:21 PM
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Oh really, it was probably bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:02 PM
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Even less guarantee when you are cohabitating. Why set your kids up for failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:01 PM
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It’s not confirmation bias, it’s just truth. Men and women are hypergamous. Sorry you can’t see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:12 PM
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Kids need a stable, two parent family. They need marriage and cohabitation outcomes for kids are much worse than marriage. If you don’t want to get married great for you, don’t have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:11 PM
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I was not saying thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:10 PM
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“Almost none”. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:59 PM
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It’s not sad, it’s true. I’m just realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:58 PM
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Also this comment isn’t completely correct, there is Howard Gardner’s theory of multiple intelligences for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:52 PM
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B-b-b-but my astrology chart said so….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:51 PM
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I would agree to marriage if I couldn’t get a dime. I’ll make more than the guy I’m dating. It’s about the stability for the kids not cash and alimony prizes or whatever you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:48 PM
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Women are options for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:46 PM
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Most redditors here aren’t in relationships forget about married. I would guess from my snooping that only a total of 20 redditors here are married, maybe 30 at best. If we take 30 married redditors, assume a divorce rate of 35% by removing repeat marriages and then an alimony rate of 10%, you get 1 redditor here that pays alimony. So I amend my first opinion here, almost no one here will pay alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:45 PM
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A man is only as faithful as his options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:09 PM
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Does not change the fact that statistically none of you redditors here will be paying it because it only affects maybe 10% of divorces if even that much. I might pay it if I marry and divorce my bf but he doesn’t seem the type that would want alimony, maybe child support, sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:08 PM
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Stay single then my dear friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:07 PM
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Lol TRP didn’t see empirical evidence. I remember I would argue with TRPers on this thread all the time, I was younger then lol. And after pointing out their arguments didn’t have sound logical or scientific bases they would point out that they knew women”were the oldest teenager in the house” based on how they”felt”. At the end TRP and FDS were all mysticism. Trp has an idea based in pseudoscientific knowledge about women that gaming stats and making odd statements would get the woman in front …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:04 PM
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Stupid post, didn’t read FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:00 PM
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When trp existed it overlapped with mgtow, red pill marriage and incel subs. I’m old enough to remember how trash TRP was unlike you younguns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:00 PM
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Taurus intelligence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:57 AM
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I really wanted an educated and intelligent guy but they never approached me. Maybe these guys just aren’t asking women out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:56 AM
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FDS got censored too and no longer exists on Reddit. I get censored on Reddit because I don’t believe trans women are women and I don’t think JKR is the scum of the earth. So whatever. Reality is that Reddit is a giant hugbox for liberal men who have the following beliefs Everything, including bdsm is ok as long as there is consent Being trans is next to godliness Marriage is mean and scary Traditional gender roles are dumb Bernies Sanders is our God and Jonny Depp is. Jesus Christ who suffered …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:51 AM
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But you would play football which is idiotic and has a small chance of success but not invest in an institution which brings stability to society. Haha. Let me warn you that the black community is full of men like you. And look what that is like. No marriage? Sure welcome to baby mamas, breakdown of family, endemic violence and poverty and suffering. If you want to live in a world that twenty years from now is less safe and free, please don’t get married. But all I ask is that you get a vasectom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:49 AM
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To which woman who will accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:46 AM
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Lol. What woman who loves you will be ok with shouldering all the risk of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:45 AM
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Good luck finding a virgin. I was a complete virgin for years. It was exhausting, I’m tired of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:45 AM
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That they then generalize to a whole demographic of 3 billion people. Love that for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:44 AM
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Article written in 2014 off old census data in 2010 which doesn’t reflect the increasing men getting alimony(unfortunately the best data we have so far) Also alimony only occurs in 10% or less of divorces. https://www.reuters.com/article/us-women-divorce-alimony/how-bread-winning-women-are-driving-alimony-reform-idUSKCN0T61O920151117 Even more, alimony reform is happening because women don’t want to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:42 AM
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Men are hypergamous too. Do you really think if a girl who was hotter and younger than me propositioned to my boyfriend that he would stay faithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:36 AM
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Sure. Her husband could die. He could develop a degenerative disease and become horribly abusive. But she can’t be so afraid of this that she doesn’t get married, doesn’t give her all to her husband and doesn’t appreciate the love they have. C’est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:34 AM
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And you are free to do that, as it is a free country. But when you are old, with no kids to visit you, dying and alone; you might regret your decisions. Life is a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:31 AM
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Because she doesn’t want that if she wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:29 AM
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Most men won’t keep a quality women if they won’t commit. If the guy I was dating right now was not talking to me about marriage I would have left him yesterday. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:29 AM
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And I’ve known women are who are totally destroyed financially and socially by their divorces. It honestly just depends on who you talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:27 AM
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Do you talk to the women or are you just reading the husband’s side? Divorce for women is social suicide. Most women do not want to be divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:24 AM
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But depending on the way you read the data you can come to very different conclusions. Be wary of simply statements that mask complicated realities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:21 AM
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Also this masks a a lot. When you look at the reasons women initiate divorce, they are due to “infidelity, abuse” etc. so this statement makes it seem like women are initiated thousands of divorces because they are “bored” and not because there is something fundamentally wrong in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:20 AM
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Me: takes notes Why is 4 so important? Is it the culture? Training?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:16 AM
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If you want to have kids you need to get married. Anything else is deep irresponsibility and cruel towards your kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:15 AM
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Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:10 AM
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What would she come with if she is educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:43 PM
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I don’t feel that he is beneath me or worthless or deserves scorn, just disappointed that he is best I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:42 PM
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So h0t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:09 PM
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I’m watching season 2 of the Bridgerton. Again for the third time. I have the worst crush on Jonathan Bailey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:02 PM
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How are the Supreme Court justices being doxed, we already know where they live?? Also no one showed up to the Supreme Court with a noise trying to hang a Supreme Court justice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:52 PM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:58 PM
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🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:58 PM
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None of that makes me contemptuous of him. It just makes us different. Those are things that give me pause. And how do those statements make me contemptuous of all men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:13 PM
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Love that for him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:59 PM
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I would rather be with him than wait and hope for a man who might never come
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:56 PM
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He’s agreed church is important and he will go to church with me. I will work on him. I’m not going to wait till marriage because I honestly can’t anymore just till commitment; he knows the deal. I think losing weight will help me but even when I was very young and a size 4-6, I didn’t have a beautiful face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:55 PM
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God I Iove Boondocks and your picture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:17 PM
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I’m curious as to what makes how I spoke contempt? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:22 AM
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I like him but I don’t know that I love him. And I don’t have contempt for him as I would never. I think he’s a good man. I don’t know that I want to try waiting forever for dream guy, but hey Kevin Samuels said settle and this is what that looks like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:10 AM
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Sorry I didn’t mean to be racially charged just to illustrate the issues within the black community, hope this is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:08 AM
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I want kids and I want them when I’m young enough to marry. Each year I wait, I grow uglier and more eggs die. I want to have my kids when I’m still strong enough to carry them and survive the pregnancy. Hopefully he can still give me healthy ones. He will be a good father. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:47 PM
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Only around 7-10% of black men have a professional graduate degree. If that’s narrowed to men making more than 50k, who are not overweight or married, I have a better chance of winning some lotteries than finding this type of man. I really like men and dick too much to be alone forever, so I have no choice but to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:46 PM
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It’s the way it is done. Kevin Samuels was one of us(black) and there is a way to gently tell someone she is wrong without being cruel and cold. You’re a four at best. This is not the way to do it. There’s this belief that black women are tough and can handle tough love. But it’s a lie. They can’t. Black women are suffering and the break down of our families and communities is starting to be more than we can bear. This is especially true for black girls whose suicide rates have increased 6% year…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:23 PM
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Who didn’t know him and could help him. Who had no commitment to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:44 PM
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A random women who didn’t love him or know him, no children to visit and a mother who learned of his death on Instagram because he didn’t even have enough family who cared about him around. Especially not the kid he never sees. winning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:32 PM
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I’ve considered it, but it’s not that simple to date interracially. Many men don’t find black women’s features attractive and when you are average in beauty, it makes this even harder. But I agree that the most beautiful black women need to and should date out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:52 PM
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At best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:04 PM
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Sorry If I wasn’t clear, I didn’t date the guy, I talked to him and dipped out around the time I discovered the existence of baby mama 3. And the truth is for black women, there aren’t better men out there. That’s all it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:47 PM
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I am a black woman, dating in the black community. I’ve watched Kevin Samuels and I feel somewhat familiar with the degree of pathology of our community so I feel comfortable saying some of what I think. First of all, while Kevin Samuels may have had some valuable advice, he is also guilty of using the pain of black women for clout and gain. I won’t sugarcoat it at all. Things are really really bad in the black community. As a woman dating here, to say I’m unimpressed with the quality of black m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:28 AM
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No trans women are born with penises and are sociAlized as men. It’s really interesting as I see trans women constantly try to take up space, think their voice matters the most and impose their will on the female community. While trans men are quiet and fade to the background. To be honest men are taught the world owes them love, happiness and women. Women are taught to expect and deserve nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:39 PM
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Trans isn’t real. Also women have issues and I’m tired of the debate being derailed by the 1% of trans people. You have your own subs and safe spaces. Stay there. lol I will probably get banned for this comment because you can’t say anything critical of the trans movement anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:37 PM
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Sry I like big dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:59 PM
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I avoid being friends with men. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:12 PM
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That’s utter stupidity. First of all if your issue with marriage is that you don’t want the government in your business, then why in the world would you bother with having the government in your business with a “legal advocate” when marriage is more widely understood and easier to navigate for every party. Finally, if you are injured and they have no one to contact, who do you think they will contact, your girlfriend who you’re not even married to or your mother who is clearly easily understood …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:18 PM
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lol don’t listen to these idiots. I work in the medical field and I can tell you most of the time, yes you do. If your boyfriend gets hurt in a car accident, unless you have a durable power of attorney and even then; we often default to family members before “girlfriends” . A girlfriend only means he’s not committed to you enough to marry you. There is a word for women who are in committed relationships with their boyfriends, it’s called wife. These red pillers don’t like marriage and don’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:25 PM
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I want to get married because it’s the best institution to raise kids. I don’t care about alimony or child support as I don’t intend to be divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:49 PM
1

Ok I see. I was confused since you said Ned and assumed it was medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:38 AM
1

Honestly the numbers seem stupid to me. It’s all arbitrary bullshit based on how you feel and whatever experience you have. If you banged 7 women this week, suddenly your preferred N would be between 17 and 42.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:20 AM
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Sorry I’m confused about an aspect of this. So you said you were in an accelerated program. Those programs usually take about 6 years from the age of 18. Leaving you at 24 when you start residency. How are you making 100k a year in residency? We all top out around 60 -70k?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:56 AM
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No cats unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:55 PM
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Shouldn’t you go back to coloring?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah so you also can’t read. Unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:38 AM
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I don’t even have a tinder account so go figure that. Also the cheating rate among 18-29 difference is 11% of women to 10% of men. From 30-80, men cheat more than women to the point that at 80, 26% of men cheat to 6% of women. Once a man locks you in; it’s time to trip and fall on some new pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:47 AM
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I doubt that. The truth is most men want sex and no commitment. Marriage is not a big thing men like and historically they can’t keep their socks in their pants. Very few men can sustain the boredom it takes to keep a marriage together. That’s just how it is. Every man feels he’s different. That he is special. But he’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:26 AM
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If that’s all you got from her spiel then you’re as low IQ as I have said most of the men here are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:01 AM
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You could try but the reality of it is men push for sex. They lie about commitment, lie about love and lie about everything. Be honest about the nature of men, they are one of the most destructive forces in the world. They care about NOTHING except banging something out and moving on. They couldn’t give a fuck about what happens after it is somebody else’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:55 AM
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I just had a relationship end with one guy who tried to “surprise” stick his penis near my vagina when I told him three times that hey I was not on birth control and no we could not have penetrative sex unless he wanted to be a father. Most men are idiotic morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:51 AM
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Time to find God, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:34 AM
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No. Why would I do that? That’s just being a baby momma with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:25 AM
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U too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:09 AM
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From where I’m standing you are projecting and you played yourself. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:22 PM
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Ok so you don’t know what the red pill is. Cool. Ok for you to admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:10 PM
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I.e like people generally do in partnered relationships? Or are you saying that only married women should have sex without birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:46 PM
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I don’t care if other people don’t marry as long as they desist from having children but if you have kids out of marriage; then it damages society. Single parenthood is bad for children; it’s been disastrous for my community, (the black community) and is highly correlated with poor outcomes for children (decreased social mobility, decreased self esteem for girls, etc). If men don’t want to be married fine, but they need to get vasectomies and avoid traumatizing future generations of kids. Harsh …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:06 PM
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I think men who don’t marry the woman they have kids with are selfish and incredibly damaging to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:57 PM
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Lol. All the single mothers were partnered too; how do you think they became mothers? Immaculate conception?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:54 PM
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You are the one claiming to understand the red pill more than any one else so the burden is on you. Come on, show us what you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:52 PM
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I don’t think you can either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:30 PM
1

I’ve been reading red pill longer than you have been trans so yeah I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:51 AM
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Better virgin than a woman getting pumped and dumped like our generous chump over there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:05 AM
1

So you don’t really understanding what things are like for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:16 AM
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Ok then don’t expect women to be kind. It’s not a good use of our time. You created FDS and you get what you asked for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:15 PM
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I’m not making her into a victim; I’m just laughing because men create the environment they complain about. When men enjoy women’s kindness and company without marrying them or offering commitment; women start to wonder what is wrong with them. FDS exist because despite men claiming they want women who offer to pay and treat men to dinner they don’t marry them. That woman is probably right now wondering what’s wrong with her and why men don’t want to marry her. She is probably on FDS too. Look m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:32 PM
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You just aren’t looking in the right places. Have you tried going to church?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:10 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:09 AM
1

Sure; but it will take days to establish that and even then; the family is still going to have a strong say. If your significant other ends up in the hospital, they will call his mother or father first before the girlfriend. And if the decision is time sensitive; and you don’t have a chance to get to the hospital with all that “medical proxy” paperwork nonsense; mom and dad will have made the decision before you even get there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:01 AM
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It really is, believe me I’m old enough to see a ton of heartbreaking situations where the man didn’t marry his gf and it led to a bad end. Hospital doesn’t care about whether you are a gf or not, we only recognize blood unless you’ve got documentation and even then the kids and the parents still have higher priority by law than a gf. If a guy really loves you he will marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:35 PM
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Oh my God. I love ❤️ to hear that tbh. So few men like this nowadays. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:24 PM
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What kind of girl would agree to a forever girlfriend if she’s not a slut, SJW or feminist? Calm, well raised, pretty, well behaved women don’t want to be forever gfs. She will leave eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:23 PM
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Sure we will have single motherhood everywhere, higher income inequality, poor schools, poorly behaved kids and higher crime/ prison populations! Along with the crunch in childbirth as many women look at their options as being either a baby mama vs single and say hey, might as well go single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:17 PM
1

Can’t force a man to do something he doesn’t want. Similarly you can’t force me to stay with you if you don’t want commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:15 PM
1

Not marriage puts me in a bad spot, so yeah we should get married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:13 PM
1

And men who will stick around get married. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:12 PM
1

Then she is not your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:07 PM
1

How do you have a wife if you are against legal marriage? Don’t you mean first bangmaid? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:05 PM
2

But if men are marriage material they value marriage and men who value marriage get married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:04 PM
1

Aww the dream. So cute. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:04 PM
1

Agreed. That woman is a clown on a fast track to single motherhood. Why not just be a single mother and call it a day, don’t waste time playing house, safe yourself the time and energy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:02 PM
1

Or you can just get married, save yourself the lawyer fees
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:58 PM
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Blood will always trump forever gf. Sorry that’s how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:57 PM
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Never. In fact, I run like the speed of light any time I start smelling forever gf type nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:56 PM
1

Brilliant, deeply kind, loves me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:53 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:52 PM
2

😐
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:46 PM
1

Hey they finally added dogs to eat before we were just going to get eaten to death by our cats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:42 PM
3

Things women have been saying time immemorial. If your first filter is looks, then this is the world it creates, a world where women have less substance and the average woman knows that a few thousand bucks on makeup and clothes is more important than nonsense like working on her personality or her mind. Why are men complaining about this? This is what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:41 PM
1

And this is why women are the way they are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:37 PM
2

Yep. I don’t think you’re the only one who feels this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:36 PM
1

Lol. Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:24 PM
1

Yet most of these guys responding to me aren’t in relationships and 7 women agreed with me. So yeah, I’m not the only one who feels like this. Like I said, men do not give a fuck who they put their dick in. They do it with a girl who has BPD, HIV, syphyllis, cancer and is doing heroin. But for marriage? There’s a reason why women talk about what it takes to keep a man, it’s hard. And the more options a man has, the more likely he is to cheat on you to the point that once a man has enough money n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:21 PM
1

What am I going to do all day at home? What I want is for men to talk half of the load at home and really trade off for us in a partnership not to be sitting at hone for the rest of my life until the guy divorces me and fucks a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:18 PM
1

So TERF has nothing to do with what girls want in men and honestly it’s a slur to women; so I don’t really trust any man who uses those words. Sorry, you’re blocked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:17 PM
1

You just have not looked back far enough. I’ve been seeing trp and monitoring their assholery for over ten years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:16 PM
1

But they are out there. They are just not 7/8 in beauty and busty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:14 PM
1

I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:12 PM
3

So you like fitness models on Instagram and you keep dating fitness models on Instagram ergo why you keep attracting hustlers and scammers because that’s all you want. But you’re not looking for marriage so you further prove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:04 AM
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So you don’t want traditional. If you want it enough, you would get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:58 AM
1

The bf still ain’t marrying her, so what the hell does it matter? Even a fat 200lb women from the ghetto can get a bf if she is willing to settle enough, boyfriend means nothing Commitment is everything Hell that girl is likely on FDS right now, wondering why she can’t make a man stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:54 AM
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If you want a traditional relationship then stop dealing with hustlers, it’s not hard to find a marriage from a traditional woman as a man. And yeah, most men don’t expect a woman to be a traditional wife nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:52 AM
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The girl who bought this guy dinner didn’t get married. She’s alone too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:41 AM
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Men don’t say it but this is what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:38 AM
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So the cute girl and the split, yes, that’s for sex, maybe even a 2 year relationship but not for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:38 AM
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Lol I wish But if you do that, guys will call you a gold digger. So make up your mind men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:34 AM
2

They referred to us as the “oldest teenager in the house” Trp’s attract girls but they can’t keep them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:25 AM
0

Is trp having sex now? Back in my time they were just raping women. There were entire posts on how women couldn’t orgasm so having just for you sex made the most sense. I think people forget how trashy and bad TRP was now that it’s quarantined. It is a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:24 AM
2

And have Down syndrome and autism at higher rates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:59 AM
2

My god that’s not only insanity but it’s horrible advice for young women; please don’t mislead them like this. We don’t have all the time in the world that men have. Every day we age and we are less and less attractive. Every day, we lose fertility. By age 35, half of the time you try to get pregnant, you will fail. Many women will have missed the boat on children by 38 or 39. Yes, for women that want marriage if the relationship ends without marriage or a proposal, it’s wasted time. This is why…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:58 AM
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That poor woman will probably be in a relationship for the next 13 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:53 AM
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Why didn’t you marry any of the three? You, as you have said, have options, many women would marry you and date you but you are still single. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:51 AM
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That’s always the candy those men hold out. I dated one, maybe if you’re good enough or try harder or… The truth is all your efforts cannot make a man settle down if he doesn’t want to. In this I do agree with FDS, you can’t turn a chad into a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:50 AM
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But he doesn’t commit. If he did, I guarantee he would be married already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:47 AM
2

That’s true but he definitely had relationships and LTRs during med school and residency; but he didn’t marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:44 AM
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My relationships ended amicably with mutual respect but no commitment, lol, women take my advice on how to be in your late 30s and getting pumped and dumped!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:41 AM
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Did the guy marry her? Nah? Damn that chick is forever alone too. Who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:40 AM
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Exactly. Like great our handsome 6 foot 1 millionaire decided to enjoy getting a free dinner off this cool girl; but he still didn’t marry her. He didn’t commit. And now she’s still rich and awesome and likely on the late edge of 36, with no prospects, no husband and no hope of a child. So yeah, to an average woman who wants to be married and not just date forever, who are they going to listen to? FDS or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:35 AM
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I have no idea why you are putting terf into this, what does this have to do with anything? And no offense, if you are 38 and unmarried, why is that? And are you really the best person to talk about relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:34 AM
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From a woman’s perspective, I think that money isn’t what makes a man a HVM. A HVM is a man who wants to commit to you, and is willing to move heaven and earth to marry you and be with you. It’s not only someone who wants to commit but someone who loves you and knows how to love you. My life issue is that every man thinks that he has a job with six figures or seven or whatever and that makes him high value; when I just want a guy who genuinely cares what my goals and dreams are. Every guy thinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:16 AM
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Men have no standards for who they fuck, this is true. But for commitment? Oh my God. It’s too much. They have this image in their head of who they want to date and it’s usually a 7/8 blonde and busty woman. The woman has to be kind, can never nag or complain. The woman has to work nowadays and bring half the bacon. She’s got to have kids then have the baby and after the baby she had to snap right back into being as thin as before she had the baby. Don’t forget the fluffing his ego, knowing how …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:57 AM
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