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| 82 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.If a woman would have said that, the amount of backlash she would get would be out of this world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?I didn’t believe in it until it actually happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 14 | The OP gets her exes head above water and wonders why her new boyfriend is mad. Put yourself first, stop being "cool", and let a guy manage his own finances. It was never up to you to SAVE him in the first place!What a dummy. What kind of cool points is she looking for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 28 | this is why I will never settle for less until I meet someone who loves me and respects our relationship like thisI’ve recently been talking to a HVM and the way he respects me is on another level. He even asked me for permission to kiss me after three weeks of talking. He’s done a lot for me in the short amount of time and I’ve never felt like he’s using me. Never came on to me sexually and has helped me so much. It’s possible. Only time will tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 117 | Just noI rather drag my cooch on a hot pavement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 59 | It’s been 2 years since Brenna Taylor was killed. As an Asian woman, I cannot speak for Black women. Watching and reading comments with of Black women dealing with the challenges of misogynoir (sexism & racism) makes me really empathize and want to amplify their voices though. She deserves justice.Thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 51 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.I needed an emergency surgery because it gotten so bad. My mom drove almost two hours to pick me up from my dorm to take me to the hospital that was less than a mile away. She stayed at the hospital and had to call off work the next day in her army uniform. So I can imagine how this young lady feels abandoned and not cared for by her own boyfriend. I really wish these men would just be miserable by themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 19 | If you broke just say that. If you’re insecure just say that. If you’re inadequate just say that. Men get on my damn nerves. One minute relationships should be 50/50. The next minute if we are too independent and have our shit together then we’re unqualified. Pick a damn struggle.Men can have the hot young woman but they even get bored with them because these women doesn’t have anything going for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 208 | If you broke just say that. If you’re insecure just say that. If you’re inadequate just say that. Men get on my damn nerves. One minute relationships should be 50/50. The next minute if we are too independent and have our shit together then we’re unqualified. Pick a damn struggle.Exactly. I have two men at work that want me to be part of their side businesses because they see my value based on my skills. One of them has a crush on me. These clowns are insecure as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 27 | What are some good dating green flags?I’m actually experiencing all of this with a male friend. I just don’t know if he likes me like that. Either he’s being very respectful of not making me uncomfortable or he only sees me as a friend. I can’t tell right now lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 98 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesThank you! If I was man who wasn’t about shit I wouldn’t divorce either. Men are notorious to staying with women they hate but as long as she does everything in her power to prove her worth by doing what he says he would not walk away. If a man leaves such a comfortable situation it’s because he found a younger woman who is inexperienced who’s willing to replace his ex and do the same shit she’s doing. It’s the gaslighting for me. I don’t trust shit they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 05:04 PM |
| 76 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesMen ignore the problems. Like the woman said, if everything is done for him, why does he need a divorce? If a woman files for divorce it’s because mostly she was the only one trying to fix the marriage. Men love to be the victim in these circumstances. But lets be real, men will only stay because they don’t want to risk their finances. They don’t want to deal with child support so they will remain in a loveless marriage with a couple of side chicks to entertain. I literally heard a podcast of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 6 | post about hating women topped off with a picture of an on-screen abuser and the girl he abused!Being single is also a choice. Men can go to hell with this logic because let their wives who just had a baby be tired, stressed, or feel unattractive they will cheat on her because she’s not satisfying him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 113 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.You know it 💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:43 AM |
| 14 | I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentionsLol average men really think they are entitled to women out of their league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 38 | Ladies fire away. I actually know this person because we went to school together. This type of man is not to be taken seriously or even be considered to date. He doesn’t deserve children, sex, affection, etc. He deserves nothing. He wants his life to be easy which is why he’s making a PSA.You’re not speaking out of turn at all. The degenerate part about it is that these same men think dating out will avoid those expectations. Good luck to them 🤷🏾♀️ A woman is a woman and we pretty much have similar expectations across the board no matter the race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 166 | Ladies fire away. I actually know this person because we went to school together. This type of man is not to be taken seriously or even be considered to date. He doesn’t deserve children, sex, affection, etc. He deserves nothing. He wants his life to be easy which is why he’s making a PSA.He’s the type to claim that he cooks and clean. It never pans out that way because men get very comfortable and incompetent when it comes to household duties. When children are added the pressure is even more on the woman. The MARRIED men tried to give their perspective in the comments on why this wouldn’t work for a lasting, healthy marriage and he didn’t care about their opinion. He would rather work you to the bone because he’s the one with the penis. If he believes he’s not supposed to do hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 65 | Beware of men who prioritizes his “dusty legacy” than being financially, mentally, & emotionally ready for kids. He has nothing to offer children but a warehouse job. So what is he truly leaving behind? The struggle? Men who don’t prioritize the quality of his future kids’ lives DO NOT DESERVE KIDS.Yep that’s part of the reason for me being childfree as well. I refuse to be a mother under these types of conditions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 35 | "b-but I'm homeless king"I have as well. Besides, men don’t want to be with the woman that’s a reminder of his lack of manhood. That woman knows his true weaknesses. That woman seen him at his worst. They claim they want a woman to be a “ride or die”. No they don’t. They never did. Nice girls never finish first. That’s why when they get their lives together and their dream woman, they go all out for her. He all of sudden knows how to be a good man to a woman. So the woman who stuck through it all feels cheated and used.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 29 | "b-but I'm homeless king"They can get a therapist. The problem is they refuse to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:34 AM |
| 24 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴If a man wants to get all bent out of shape over some tea, then he’s not worth wasting anymore time. They love to get a woman over for sex but throw a broke tantrum over coffee. Cheap men are the bottom of the barrel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:23 AM |
| 44 | Pickme woman giggles as her boyfriend shops for expensive jewelry himself and gets her nothing. A year later, he evicts her and their baby, then beats up her brother with his crew.I never understood the need to have an entourage. It’s a waste of money to spend on people who are moochers. They don’t even do anything productive but be yes men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 22 | Men Who Hate Women Show It When Women Are Most VulnerableMy mom got her tonsils out and I stayed with her during my spring break to help take care of her. I had school projects to finish as well. It was hectic but she didn’t have anyone else to take care of her so I flew in to be there. And yes you do need someone because the pain is worse as an adult. Soon as she got out of surgery she was in so much pain. She couldn’t eat or drink without being in pain and I had to monitor her medication. He just doesn’t like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:55 PM |
| 77 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.Some scrote tried to leave a comment saying since there is five children involve, why not try to sort it out? She only has one family. This sub is full of hate. Blah blah blah. Let his girlfriend or wife fuck his father while he raises one of the children that’s not his. He wouldn’t stay with her anymore and rightfully so. He would go no contact with his father and want nothing to do with her. He knows who he is and he can shove it where the sun doesn’t shine. Men leave for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 218 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.I read where he says that he hopes she remarries quickly so he won’t pay alimony. I hope she stays single forever! Bleed his ass dry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 82 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.My mouth was to the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 381 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.Seems like it because her comments about what he husband says continues to get worse. She’s handling it with grace and it’s a good thing that she’s pregnant. Because if she wasn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:23 PM |
| 17 | When they show themselves in the second message…. Boy bye.If we don’t give up sex then we’re playing games. If we give up sex then we’re sluts. And people wonder why I don’t listen to men. They will have you miserable out here because everything they claim as “advice” is simply for their benefit. Not ours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:52 AM |
| 8 | When they show themselves in the second message…. Boy bye.They can’t function without it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:50 AM |
| 15 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItSo let me get this straight, men feel as if they don’t need to earn having sex with women but think that a woman has to earn being treated right by testing us? So we’re supposed to be okay with a Mcdonalds date looking beautiful for what exactly? But they expect sex ALL the time. And if you don’t give it to them they don’t think you’re worth waiting for. The mental games and the hypocrisy really makes me want to be single for the rest of my 20s at the least. We’re too grown to be playing games i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:46 AM |
| 69 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItIt’s only harmful when we do it. It’s childish when we do it. It’s emasculating when we do it. It’s makes us a bitch if we do it. They have all sorts of boundaries of things they won’t ever tolerate but we must pass all of these tests with them with a smile on our faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:36 AM |
| 16 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.Girl yes to all of this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:08 AM |
| 12 | No 🥰Not at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 259 | Why you can’t take men seriously…Imagine not being loved by a man like him? Bummer……… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 132 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.I changed the flair. But I’ve even seen a BM “joke” (he was being serious) about saying if he have baby with a woman he would feel like he owned her. Some pickmes thought it was funny and most of the men laughed and agreed. I wasn’t shocked but thought how bold he was with his statement. It’s really how they think but of course the black community will laugh it off and ignore this repulsive behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 135 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.It’s common in the black community. My close friend almost was in this situation. I told my friend that her and her child deserve better. She doesn’t need to lay up with him for him to be a father. I didn’t think I got through to her until I brought it up again and he doesn’t do anything for his daughter anymore now that she stopped giving him access shortly after our conversation. Christmas passed and he called wondering what their daughter got for Christmas. Disgust wasn’t even the word I felt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk hobbies! What are your current hobbies? What’s a hobby you’re interested in starting?Anything art related. I have a studio and just recently bought new supplies. Even my new job allows me to be a bit creative. Being a full time artist is my ultimate goal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 33 | Jordan Peterson + Childless WomenI never wanted children. The things I want to do in life will be put on hold if I had kids. I make sure my life is planned in a way that’s not even appropriate for kids. I want a home with just me in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 119 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)I’m sorry she’s an idiot. One thing I make clear is I will never participate, initiate, or agree to having a threesome. I’m good enough. Threesomes always lead to some drama. The man will be expecting it more or he will find sex with the other woman better and now the girlfriend’s feelings are hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 6 | They tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. Just say you can’t satisfy a woman and go. Low value and sexually useless. At least he’s making it known for women to avoid him.It’s not. Some women orgasm more with oral. I actually prefer oral even if the sex is amazing. It’s just a particular spot that gets me off the quickest orally that sex can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:47 AM |
| 8 | They tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. Just say you can’t satisfy a woman and go. Low value and sexually useless. At least he’s making it known for women to avoid him.Sis, let me cry for you. I didn’t think I could either but it just takes an unselfish man to get the job done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 50 | This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive.He’s simply useless and abusive. Not worth furthering the relationship and her self esteem. She can be happier being single than dealing with him. 21 years old and already on the verge of ED. But porn is sO hEaLtHy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 137 | A teenage boy full of gratitude to his mom & treating her after years of sacrifice is a good thing to see. This is what a (possible) baby HVM looks like. Take note, lurkersAny time me and mom may need some money from my brother he just says, “take it out of my account”. My brother was deployed last year and I needed to get our mom a gift and told him he will have to pay half. He just said, “Doesn’t matter the gift, I’ll send half”. No pushback ever. Last thing he wants to see, is his mother and sister on hard times if those moments happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 14 | Once again, Guard Your Womb, Sisters.I just read about a soon to be father was willing to be late to his baby’s birth because the release of a Batman movie will most likely be on that day. He said the worst could happen is him being a few hours late. I mean anything can happen in those few hours and he won’t be there because of a movie? Men make it so easy to be childfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:38 PM |
| 11 | Man Triggered By My Post History On This & Similar Subs, Uses Slurs Such As "Whores" & "Faggot," Justifies Male Violence Through Evolutionary Biology, Sees "Legit" Pornography As Acceptable Due To Lack Of Explicit Trafficking (Missing Underlying Problem Of Misogyny & Sexualization Of Women/Children)It’s giving sassy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 107 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.Because regardless what she is going through she has wifely duties to fulfill including satisfying his needs no matter what. Sarcasm, obviously. I feel that in vulnerable situations such as death, being sick, and pregnancy is a determining factor of how a person really feels about you. It shouldn’t even take seeing their true selves during those moments but for most people it does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 151 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.Fortunately it was only a few commenters who clearly are incels. Everyone else understood that her husband is a piece of shit. It’s always going to be a few idiots of the bunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 454 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.I’m not sure. But I saw a comment from a man who claims he’s a cop and basically said there is three sides to the story. He said that it’s not worth breaking up because of opinions online. For a cop to say that was shocking. So a woman who was raped by her husband shouldn’t divorce. He kept emphasizing “cOmMuNiCaTiOn” with her POS husband. We try to stress to women to be aware of red flags and leave bad situations before it gets worse. This is a clear violation. But then dumb motherfuckers say s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 128 | Reminder that this is the common behavior of husbands. Vetting is lethal and so is depending on someone other than your romantic partnerMy grandfather is basically taking care of my grandmother because she has dementia. He does all the driving, cleaning, and cooking. But it’s to be expected because that’s just the man he’s always been. He’s actually my step grandparent but he treated my mom, aunt, and all his grandchildren as his own. I didn’t even know we weren’t blood related until later in life. You wouldn’t know considering how much he loved us. I even have a relationship with his side of the family and we all treat each oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 55 | Reminder that this is the common behavior of husbands. Vetting is lethal and so is depending on someone other than your romantic partnerBut they love to sit online complaining that women don’t care about their feelings. But they don’t also talk about how they will cheat on their pregnant/sick wife or in worse case scenario: leave. It’s all about them and only them. Pull a man’s move on him and he is ruined for life. I’ve heard way too many women talk about how their husbands showed their true colors during such a vulnerable time. Hell even I can remember when I had an emotional breakdown on the stairs and my ex at the time sat a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:54 PM |
| 71 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?Everything morally wrong when it comes to sex is excused as long as it’s a kink these days it seems. This will be a huge red flag to NOT ignore. Choose better they say but men with this mentality want to convince women that this is normal male behavior because it’s kinky. Nothing wrong with kinky 🙄 These are also men who portray themselves as nice guys but in actuality they are weirdos with perverted desires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 24 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksWith four baby mamas as well. He even lied about how many kids he had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:14 AM |
| 60 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksThat’s embarrassing when a man doesn’t even value a woman enough to pay for $2 shirt. That’s how low he thought of her and she’s probably thinking in her head that she isn’t like most girls trying to stand out when she’s setting the bar straight in hell. Your sibling needs a wakeup call STAT lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:12 AM |
| 55 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksNot only that one of his kids were sleeping in the same bed as them. He even took her out to see a nice apartment only to tell her he had already renewed his lease and the new apartment was too expensive. So he wasted everyone’s time being broke. I think he was only an Uber driver. I was disappointed to see her marry him and have his 6th child. He was every bit of dusty you could think of in a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Men's standards are too lowBest advice in this entire thread. I tried to tell my little brother but he didn’t want to hear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 26 | I love herSewing is an impressive skill. It’s actually an important skill to have for survival purposes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 55 | I love herI do 3D architecture art to eventually turn into a career. It’s fun and the skills can can be used in architecture firms, game design, animation, full time artist, movie/television, cartoons, theatre design, set design, etc. I went and got a master’s of architecture degree so I can have options. He’s just jealous 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:57 AM |
| 24 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.Promises can be broken. A promise ring doesn’t represent a commitment. So it doesn’t mean anything. A wedding ring holds more weight because there are expectations that come with it. It provides security for women when that man wants to act a fool. We’re grown ass women and need to be treated as such. Promise rings are for teenagers. Men have absolutely no problem putting a ring on a woman he truly loves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:58 PM |
| 181 | Woman levels up, LVM ex is vengeful and escalating. She's trying to co-parent for their daughter but it's entirely one sided.My dad hates my mom because she doesn’t fall for his games. They separated when I was six. I’m 26 now and he still can’t stand her for whatever reason. He was the one who walked away from his family. He wanted to act single so my mom granted his request. Filed for separation and then divorce. He wanted her back and she said hell to the nah. My last conversation to him recently, he spoke so ill of my mom that I was disgusted with the amount of hatred he had in his voice. I told her do not ever be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 71 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?Seems like she was over the date anyway with the tone in her response so I’m sure she didn’t care about paying. We rather pay to get rid of a man for good. Men like this are so common it’s not even worth pretending to care anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 149 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?Men must creep on this subreddit because I just got a chat invitation from one. He asked what’s wrong with exchanging sex for money? Ugh. I’m not even going to respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 158 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?It’s not winning at all. I was dating a guy while we were both in grad school (I graduated a semester early). He picked amazing restaurants with nice ambiance. He looked forward to my outfits and gave me endless compliments. He paid the bill each time whether we went out to eat, the bar, club, game night, etc. He even took pics of us together to send to his group chats with his best friends because actually liked to show me off during our dates. His friends even showed a liking to me (not that I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:10 PM |
| 23 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?Chili’s uses the tablet as well. Their food is gross to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 121 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?That’s why we have to do our own thing and enjoy being single. Less problems and less gross expectations for a cheap meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 243 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?I like being a bitch 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 49 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »I wish I would go through all of that just to drink a caramel macchiato and eat a double smoked bacon and cheese sandwich. I can do that in sweats and a hoodie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 59 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »I live 30 minutes from the city so if I’m going on a date it needs to be worth my while. I can go to the coffee shop with my dog and he doesn’t care what I have on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 195 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!The crazy part about it is I watched a podcast of three men say that they purposely did fucked up shit in their marriage to push their wives to divorce. They even said more men need to admit that they want out but rather the woman initiate the divorce. They are fucking cowards. But then want to flip it like women are the ones divorcing for the sport of it. It’s so hard to have respect for men with the shit that comes out of their mouths but love to call us crazy or delusional when we see right t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 26 | Almost every comment is telling her its none of her business, don't get involved. Not only would I tell her immediately, I would convince her to dump him 💅Nah I’m telling my friend. Don’t help your friend walk into a desperate marriage knowing she’s unhappy. Your loyalty is to her and her only. Help lead your friend into happiness especially when you know she’s miserable with this guy. I’m sure her friend has told countless stories of the mess she was dealing with and we all know a ring doesn’t fix shit. It’ll be different if her friend was in a happy, healthy relationship but she’s not. So do the right thing for your friend’s sanity and the well … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 492 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Exactly! They love to throw out that statement of 80% of women initiating divorce but they don’t want to admit that some of these wives know that their husbands don’t love them. They really like to act as if they don’t contribute to the downfall of marriage. I just read on Reddit of a man asking for a divorce right after their honeymoon. He didn’t love her but settled because the one got away. At least he said she didn’t deserve it but I was still disgusted with his actions. This is why men have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 59 | Stop getting into cars with men.Oh no doubt. I know better now. Didn’t think a simple drive in the parking lot was going to lead to that. That night taught me a huge lesson though I didn’t go to another evening date for years because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:27 PM |
| 164 | Stop getting into cars with men.Thanks! It means Black Male Worship. I didn’t want to call 911 because I didn’t want to risk him getting beat or shot by the police. I I live in the south. It’s not uncommon to think that way. I put his safety above my own because I wanted to be “race loyal”. I’m only loyal to myself now and couldn’t care less about that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:15 PM |
| 329 | Stop getting into cars with men.Storytime: Went on a weird date with a guy a few years ago. I met him on an OLD app. I believe it was Bumble. We had good conversation and he asked me out. I told him I will drive there. I live outside the city. Get to the restaurant and it’s super packed and the only restaurant with less than a 30 minute wait was Chili’s. I don’t like their food at all but I was starving. He arrived 20 minutes late and looked like he rolled out of bed. Immediately I knew I would not continue to talk to him afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:54 PM |
| 56 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I feel that SAHM definitely benefits the kids BUT it’s smart to either have a small business or work from home job. There is nothing wrong with having cushion money in case your husband starts to abuse you or cheat. I’m just gonna say I’ve seen way too many women I know who kept popping out kids just for their man to start acting like a fool. One was even physically abused when she was pregnant. She only stuck around because she didn’t have the resources to take care of their children (they have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 42 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.Trust and believe I’m not worried about what a 52 year old lonely man have to say. He needs to figure out his senior living situation because I doubt any woman or family member want to take care of him with this attitude when he gets older. Since he wants to point out facts he better have a plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 15 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornI’ve accepted that men simply don’t care what women go through which is why I don’t give a shit about what they go through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 60 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Exactly! His pregnant wife has to be the one to protect the home front. She really married a bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."They always go for women way out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 44 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Childfree by choice! I felt the same way and refuse to be tied to an ungrateful man. I refuse to put myself at risk of being a single mother for a man who insist on being an idiot, selfish, and stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How many people here have had their heart broken?I was ghosted in one relationship and the other used the fuck outta me. I guess when some other woman with more money came around he didn’t have no use for me anymore. Found out about his engagement on IG. Now he’s having a custody battle with that same woman and she’s the baby mama from hell. Karma is a bitch. I don’t care about these men’s feelings to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 4 | How many people here have had their heart broken?Sounds like you need to remain single. Men want women to go against their nature for what exactly? To appease the man while she’s miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 3 | How many people here have had their heart broken?It’s never that serious. I used to be a pickme and it’s actually very exhausting. Having a piece of a man that makes you miserable is not better than being happy and single. Men tell this lie when they don’t even like the pickme that they are with because the woman they truly want doesn’t want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 99 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Honestly I would get an abortion. He’s not worth the risk. Women are more likely to be offed during pregnancy by their husbands/boyfriends. It’s still early for her to make a decision. She needs to value her life first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 209 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Her life depends on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 156 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!I know I wouldn’t. Coparenting with a man like that is a guarantee nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 44 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Dump him, enjoy Valentine’s Day alone and enjoy yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 25 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himThey tell us to watch for red flags but then tell us we’re overreacting. Damned if we do damned if we don’t. That’s why I stopped giving a flying fuck what people have to say. I’m the one that has to live my life and I won’t waste it with a dustmite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 19 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himNow that’s what I call a queen with boundaries who demands respect. One thing my mom told me is if you show any weakness of compromising boundaries to a man he will continue to challenge you. He’s not going to respect anything you say because he knows he can get you bend to his will. It will start with small actions like this and then snowball into bigger problems. Ever since that conversation, it has been stuck in the back of my mind. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Stand firm and asse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 44 | STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state.I wouldn’t meet up with him at all. My ex left his speaker and I told him I will meet up with him in a public space but he will have to find the time. He never did. I didn’t feel comfortable with him being in my apartment especially with the creepy texts he was sending me. Men only tell you that to get you alone. I didn’t compromise my safety over a stupid speaker. She can send that watch to his dad’s house or something. He kicked her out in the middle of nowhere and didn’t care about her safety… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 32 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.She’s the type to set up her friend by leaving her alone with her “friend”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 40 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthAn emotionally stable man who is respectful to women and a decent human being is considered a simp in their eyes. And they wonder why no one cares about their mental health. They want other men to be just as miserable while they dog out women. But women are starting to put themselves first while enjoying being single so they don’t know how to act when we pull the rug from underneath them. They actually need to be good people to have better mental health but they don’t want to lose their “alpha” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:25 PM |
| 5 | I had no idea you ladies are so hated. I’m curious what other subs I’ll be auto banned fromI love this sub! It has really helped me get clarity on dating. The posts here reminds me why I need to have and keep high standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himYep the sweet, hardworking, loving man who would never tell me no ended up being mean, lazy, and always told me no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 194 | The bar is in hell.I bet he’s expecting sex though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:47 PM |
| 129 | The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨Older men swear up and down that they are the top picks for young, youthful women. The delusion is quite scary. The wall is the their greatest karma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 74 | No second date, so he wants moneyWith his broke ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 8 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.Men are naturally selfish and only love themselves. With them, women should love them for who they are but it’s never reciprocated when it comes to women. That’s why I feel women can be as picky as they please. I roll my eyes every time they bring up women being shallow when it comes to men having money, height, cars, etc. I bet they won’t ever give up the opportunity to get with a woman as beautiful as Megan Fox if they had the chance. Doesn’t matter if she’s shallow or not. They say one thing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 163 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮don’t do this!!! Have some self respect. No thank you.How low was her self esteem to date a man like that? He was honest about his degeneracy and she didn’t think to herself to leave him be? Okay then…. I feel like it’s levels to pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 40 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂He can’t afford basic necessities and he thinks it’s crap? She’s trying to make the apartment feel like a home and he’s complaining and being cheap. Never let a man move in with you. I hope she dumped his ass because all I see is problems in the future for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:15 AM |
| 13 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesEw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘That wall actually sounds peaceful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates?Wasn’t an impact on my mom’s career. She retired in her early 40s before my dad. It wasn’t easy but she did it and even secured her own house. She lives off her disability and retirement checks. She doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t want to but she’s bored and want to do something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Femininity YouTube?Ada Rose. She’s an image consultant and I love her humor. Straight to the point. I also like Neemah Speaks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 12:31 AM |
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