Ladies fire away. I actually know this person because we went to school together. This type of man is not to be taken seriously or even be considered to date. He doesn’t deserve children, sex, affection, etc. He deserves nothing. He wants his life to be easy which is why he’s making a PSA.

PenelopePitstop21 · 2022-02-26T13:51:31+00:00

Women SHOULD NOT earn only 70c for every $1 men earn!

Women SHOULD NOT be forced to bear their rapist's child

Women's labor SHOULD NOT be devalued in the workplace

The economy of every nation in the world SHOULD NOT be founded on women's unpaid domestic, emotional and social labor

Women SHOULD NOT be groomed from an early age for sexual exploitation by men

Women SHOULD NOT have to endure orgasm-free sex with men

...wanna trade? I'd pay a few hundred dollars for that exchange you idiotic male fuckwit.

(Not with you, though!)

myheartisfulloflove · 2022-02-26T16:16:39+00:00

Never let men like this lower your standards. I have known and seen men pay thousands of dollars for plane tickets to travel to foreign countries for the sole purpose of fucking, dating, and even marrying women over there; I have had men write me paragraphs upon paragraphs over why I should consider easing up my boundaries so they can be close to me or date me/spoil me with money. I've seen men drop serious cash to attain the latest games and gadgets, vehicles, and awesome experiences with their homies. Men like this cry for 50/50, but then you catch them paying hundreds and hundreds of dollars to IG/cam models, prostitutes, mistresses, and strippers. They get to have all that money and adoration, but regular women who don't sleep around get nothing? Bollocks.

Most men have the time, the money, and the privilege to treat a woman like a queen. Hell, even poor overworked men take the time to cherish their wives and children on their days off. The LV scrotes just don't want to and/or they don't want YOU. It's that simple.

bleda_princezna · 2022-02-26T13:48:37+00:00

He can keep this opinion, noone can take it from him. But then he'll be the one crying that no woman wants him.

Personally I could care less what opinion on this some man has. I used to have a very 50/50 mindset and it only got me in trouble, because as it is repeated on this sub over and over - a man spends money on things and people he cares about and values. In my relationships, "50/50" later showed in other areas as well, when I had problems and couldn't focus all of my attention on them without asking for anything back, I got ignored. Or I got straight up abused for being nice and caring towards them. I have a very caring nature and I'm the type of person to be happy to help others when they need. But then would get abandoned if I needed something. The whole 50/50 is only true maybe when it comes to money, but when it comes to other areas of a relationship, it's often more like 0/100. Fuck that.

I'm not looking for someone to pay for my bills or fund my lifestyle, but after going through several shitty 50/50 relationships, I'm not willing to spend my time with a guy like that anymore. If he's stingy with me, it's clear he doesn't care and I'm a placeholder or he's trying to get something from me and use me. So unless he cherishes me, we're not going to be together.

He's against that? I'm fine with it, he can think whatever he wants - but I'm leaving and he can find someone who will be on the same page.

I'm done with guys like this, having barely any money to their name and complaining about gold diggers while looking for a woman with no needs of her own that will give them the wife treatment. Why would I willingly go through that? They don't want to pull their weight in a relatioship, but they expect women to have a one sided relationship. Seriously? :D

Carneliancat · 2022-02-26T14:05:15+00:00

Yes, he should, actually. Women bring enough to relationships. Much more than enough, actually. And since I own my home and have zero plans to ever let a man move in with me and won't require his help with bills, he can very well fund every moment of our relationship and the activities we do together. It costs women enough to be in a relationship with a man. He can put up the coins. If he complains, then let him keep walking. There are men out there who are happy to treat their partners well.

warinmymind94 · 2022-02-26T23:57:48+00:00

Men used to pay all the bills when all the wife had ro do was be a bangmaid. But now women are expected to WORK full time more AND still be a bangmaid while ALSO paying the bills! No it shouldn't be that way! I'm not bearing his kids or being his maid and still paying the bills! If I still have to pay bills then I'll get a roomate or live alone.

Remember if you want to share the bills with someone or go 50/50, you can get a roomate or 2. If you don't want a roomate but are still on a budget, you can look into studio apartments or consider being willing to commute. I commute an hour and have a 3 bedroom house for what the city an hour away charges for a 1 bedroom apartment! This will obviously vary though depending on where you live. I don't go to the city everyday though, but it's close enough that commuting is no issue for me.

Men should be stepping up if they want to date us and especially if we marry/move in with them. We don't make as much, physically men are generally speaking stronger and taller hence he should be willing to do more of the heavy lifting and reaching. The burden of birth control still falls more on women - even so vaginas require more matenience so to speak - annual check ups, the area just being more sensitive and prone to uti, yeast infections, bv, etc. It's on us women to pay for for and attend these dr visits, as well as the ones responsible for paying for /getting/maintaining birth control of iuds,and patches, pills, etc. We have to deal with risks and side effects and additional costs or appointments- more effort, money. And time.

It's the women who get pregnant. We have to carry and give birth. The man doesn't.

Remember ladies YOU are the whole table. You're smart, a lot of us are educated, have good careers, manage our money, maintain our looks, many of us are good cooks and clean. We stay on top of it all. I'm not splitting bills with a man who wants sex and labor from me

saint-jezebel · 2022-02-26T16:19:24+00:00

It never ceases to amaze me how men who can’t get women grow bitter and resentful of them, always wanna go their own way but never really do and then think they are the prize.

How many circuses are in town at the same time????

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-02-26T17:37:11+00:00

While I worked 2 jobs including graveyard shift to put myself through school there was always some broke lazy scrote calling me a gold digger because my standards weren't in the gutter . Women don't gold dig, we give waaaaaay too much , it's loser men who look to exploit us cradle to grave.

SerialGeneralist · 2022-02-26T13:31:54+00:00

He’s the type to claim that he cooks and clean. It never pans out that way because men get very comfortable and incompetent when it comes to household duties. When children are added the pressure is even more on the woman. The MARRIED men tried to give their perspective in the comments on why this wouldn’t work for a lasting, healthy marriage and he didn’t care about their opinion. He would rather work you to the bone because he’s the one with the penis. If he believes he’s not supposed to do his part as being the man of the household then he doesn’t deserve a good woman. My coochie will dry tf up if a man said some shit like this to me. Ladies, get your coins up and level up because it’s really ignorant out here. I rather work than not work but that doesn’t mean I’m willing to contribute to a man’s manhood. Either come correct or stfu. That 50/50 lifestyle never works out for women. Ever!

RiasXgremoryX · 2022-02-26T14:27:36+00:00

Behold. In true lowlife form, there it is… the main creators and contributors of child poverty, generational poverty and constant financial instability.

Okay boohoo you don’t want to be an adult, we get it, but what on God’s green earth makes you think you deserve a GF or a wife if you can’t even afford to pay your own bills? What is the point? Oh yeah, to take advantage of her and use her as a stepping stone to get ahead in life. He wants her to fill in the gaps and make up for HIS laziness. Typical entitled scrote.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-26T16:25:31+00:00

"Waaaaahhh WAAHH Women are so eXpEnSiVe"

Bruh, then date yourself!!! SMH. These men systematically do nothing and think they are so special, that they are the magic penis.

They don't address their fellow mans issues and take credit for the "good" that men have done when they ain't done jack shit.

STFU man...pay your own bills.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-02-26T14:40:56+00:00

If he earned a good living and actually loved his wife, he would.

purasangria · 2022-02-26T18:33:38+00:00

If a man cannot pay all the bills, and feel delighted to pay all the bills, I am not interested in him.

I currently pay all my bills, all by myself, and I will only get together with someone who is at my level financially, or better.

Don't date broke men, ladies.

Constant-Wanderer · 2022-02-26T16:20:21+00:00

Haha don’t pay them, then. Men like this don’t matter. Leave him in his dirty diaper to cry about it.

Determinedblonde · 2022-02-27T06:11:25+00:00

His post reads as “would like to meet low maintenance, desperate woman. Prove yourself to me.”

I wish more people noticed how often men do this - telling women to compete when there’s no prize on offer.

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-02-26T16:48:37+00:00

Oh a loud and unsolicited opinion from a Scrotey McScrote?

How unusual 🙄🙄🙄

Buttercup5555 · 2022-02-26T19:24:03+00:00

Smol weak boi energy

LittleSnackPack58 · 2022-02-26T21:02:44+00:00

How come we never see Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos posting shit like this online? Because it's broke men projecting their insecurities. If you're broke just say it.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-26T17:18:56+00:00

Reads like a screaming toddler…. Smh

up_d00t · 2022-02-27T12:35:48+00:00

Guess I'm a gold digger. Funny. I thought I wanted an equal partner.

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