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RED FLAG 🚨RiasXgremoryX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:41 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:50 AM
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Yup, like most scrotes who travel to foreign countries just to take advantage of the women living there, he thought he was getting a “cute, submissive, maid/wife” who does exactly what he says, asks for nothing and carries the entire relationship on her back. Lol cue the surprised pikachu meme, he thought! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:03 PM
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I HATE euphoria. That cancer of a show sexualizes minors and romanticizes the high school experience. It is 100% propaganda specifically targeted to teenagers(teenage girls to be more specific)still in school to make them think having casual sex, dressing like exotic dancers, having an OnlyFans, doing drugs and guzzling alcohol is “cool.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:02 AM
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“Oh the horror!” /s But seriously, I have two gay men in my friend group and they are straight up brutal. They don’t take any BS from the men in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:16 PM
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Or he could date other men🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:44 PM
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It’s very unlikely. Change requires self discipline, consistency, and an genuine overall desire to do better in life. Most men just get better at hiding their filthy habits as they get older and if they’re not getting anything in return for “changing” then most likely they won’t do it. In my experience, a lying, cheating, lazy, violent entitled etc. man will ALWAYS BE a lying, cheating, lazy, violent, entitled etc. son of a bastardman no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:20 AM
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It’s just like what the rich with generational wealth like to tell people who live in poverty or the working class: “just work hard and someday you’ll be just like me!” All of this “practice mindfulness, good vibes only, and toxic positivity stuff” that is so trendy right now is exactly what it sounds like; gaslighting and invalidation taken to the extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:02 PM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🥱🥱🥱🥱😒😒😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:24 PM
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Behold. In true lowlife form, there it is… the main creators and contributors of child poverty, generational poverty and constant financial instability. Okay boohoo you don’t want to be an adult, we get it, but what on God’s green earth makes you think you deserve a GF or a wife if you can’t even afford to pay your own bills? What is the point? Oh yeah, to take advantage of her and use her as a stepping stone to get ahead in life. He wants her to fill in the gaps and make up for HIS laziness. Ty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:27 PM
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This guy I briefly dated years ago would act so disgusted at the very thought of women having periods, giving birth etc. and surprise surprise he had a micro penis and would go soft a few seconds after putting a condom on🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:40 PM
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Gary vee’s father owned a wine/liquor business that made $3 million a year, so he likes to imply that he’s “self made” and everyone calls him “self made” but he’s not. He has had a lot of support from others but credits his wife most of all. This article he wrote about her explains it https://medium.com/the-entrepreneurs-journey/the-backbone-behind-my-entrepreneurial-success-47da46a9eede
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:34 AM
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Lol Get that bag/clout sis! 💵 No but on a serious note apparently his wife(ex-wife?) helped him become the multimillionaire he is today. This is just another example of how building a man does not work out and is never a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:57 AM
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Thank you for explaining this perfectly. Most people do not understand this concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:09 AM
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Exactly. My first thought was “Where are her parents?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:32 AM
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Yeah, right. 🙄And then one day she comes home from working all day to find him in the bed with another woman and he’s just gonna say “Um…..this is for you!” I wish women would stop doing this to themselves. It’s very obvious this “gift” was for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:51 AM
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This is why I’ve stopped dating altogether. Too many men expect sex on the first date, then they don’t want to properly court us or get to know us even at pickme prices(see above). Then to add insult to injury, they expect us to risk our lives and health plus spend gas money getting back & forth, to meet a complete stranger with bad hygiene for what is most likely going to be boring, dry jackhammering 2min sex with no foreplay or orgasm on the woman’s part. No thanks, I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:54 PM
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Disappointed, but not surprised. Violence is the default response towards women especially when we’re not obedient, meek, subservient 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:15 AM
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Same here. I had an ex who was a porn addict and his phone was FULL of nude/scantily clad pictures of women from porn, his exes, and random IG models. He would even screenshot pics of women he found attractive on social media just to have in his phone, He was constantly following/commenting on and heart eyes/kissy facing their photos/accounts on SM. That relationship was a nightmare and now that I know better, one of my absolute dealbreakers for any future relationship is a man being “TOO active…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:39 PM
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Behold, a visual representation of what their marriage is going to consist of; Him being low effort and contributing less than 10% meanwhile she’s going to be doing the full 100% and carrying the entire relationship/household by herself. Always pay attention to a mans actions, His actions represent how he FEELS about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:36 PM
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Makes sense, every narc woman I’ve ever known was extremely male identified and had nothing nice to say about women or to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:35 PM
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You can definitely report their posts but multiple people have to report it in order for it to get taken down(at least that’s what I was told) plus if their post does manage to get taken down, they can just make another one very easily, and yes I agree, their IP should be banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:26 PM
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Wow that’s crazy, glad you’re not dealing with that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:12 AM
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This is so degrading. How is she okay with this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:13 AM
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Same, this is why I don’t use Craigslist anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:56 AM
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As someone who used to go apartment hunting on Craigslist in a big city, let me tell you this is only the tip of the gross iceberg. It gets waaay worse than this, a lot of perverts and predators lurk on there looking for women to take advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:27 PM
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This. Many women have kids with NVM because they think a child will “change his behavior.” Don’t get me wrong men need to do better and be better, but as women we NEED to start being as selective and ruthless as animals are in the wild about who we procreate or spend time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:50 PM
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I hate society’s obsession with celebrities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:33 PM
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Reason #4800 on why we don’t date gamers or unemployed hobosexual men. She’s paying all the bills and supporting him fully, meanwhile he doesn’t care enough about her to even remember her birthday or do something thoughtful/romantic for her occasionally let alone on valentines day. She’s just his mother with benefits at this point. Remember ladies, how he treats you is how he feels about you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:59 AM
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Exactly. This woman has been walking on eggshells for the past two and a half decades, plus there's no telling what other abuse(mental, sexual and emotional) he's inflicted on her during their 26 years of being married but she brushed it off just because it wasn't "physical." What a living nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:23 PM
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Lies, lies and more lies on top of lies. We all know his "wife" is secretly miserable and that's if she exists at all with the way men lie on the internet so much. But that's none of my business☕🐸 so blocking and not responding is the best response. They're all just emotional leeches anyway....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:24 PM
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I would prefer traveling the world(in a more reasonable, enjoyable way) over being trapped in a house with screaming out of control kids that you have to constantly clean up after, working 10 hours a day, laundry, dishes, worrying about paying 60% of rent/bills and dealing with an abusive, lazy, pornsick, cheating, scrotastic, manchild of a huSbAnd any day. Men are the ones obsessed with aging so they project that onto women and try to make us miserable as they are. Believing 30 is "middle aged"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:07 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:47 PM
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Ever since I was a child, every man in my life has been toxic. Every. Single. Last. One. They all had problems/issues(alcohol/drugs/addictions) unchecked mental illness/personality disorders, disgusting habits, bad tempers, low EQ and poor impulse control. So am I going to paint every man with the same brush? Hell yes! Even the supposed “high value” men I knew who had all their ducks in a row, had some horrible skeletons in their closet. The “common denominator” speech is just victim blaming des…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:31 AM
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They go after monogamous women because It’s a fun little game for them to break down boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:40 PM
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Exactly, Fathers day is such an unnecessary holiday imo, its just another way to praise men for doing the bare minimum. We all know most men don't even do 10% of their fair share of anything, so why should we reward them for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:29 PM
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I hope she takes his pedo supporting a$$ to the cleaners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:54 PM
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But watch this entitled POS want a parade, floats, to be taken out to dinner and Kama Sutra moves in the bedroom on his birthday or "fAtHeR's dAy"🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:48 PM
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Bingo. There's waaaay too many men out here who think easy sex aka free access to women's bodies 24/7, is a literal birthright. And don't get me started on their "compatibility testing through sex" trick that men love to pull on women. Its all manipulative BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:31 AM
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$5,000 extra dollars for a car that he is going to use to drive around the next woman? LOL I think the fvck not. True clown tings🤡🤪🥴 right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:48 AM
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"hurr durr, men r pedophiles becuz wahmen." Does this clown even hear himself? because he's gunning for donkey of the day if he actually believes children can consent(they can't).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:25 AM
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Whew...chile the way the misogyny just jumped out. Anyway.....their "anger" is a straight up joke, just look at them getting mad and taking out all of their misplaced hatred on a woman who dared to inject truth into their "reality," instead of at all the male rapists out there. This PROVES Men don't really care about other men getting raped or else they would be activists and would do something about it. They just love it when the conversation is turned in their favor, this is what the "manosphe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:49 AM
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This. This is the one. But no one ever listens because people still believe in that "trUe lOve prEvAils!" bullshit when the cost of living keeps getting higher every year. She'll grow resentful in the future when she's working 10-12 hour shifts to keep up with mortgage/bills, doing all the cooking/cleaning and doing all the parenting while lazy hUbBy is still trying to "find himself" at 35-40 after quitting his 20 hr a week job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:36 PM
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Protectors and providers? Bish where? Men have NEVER been our protectors. EVER. Men act like they've been doing us a favor these past thousand years and all they've ever done is oppress, murder, beat, and rape women and keep us under rule and subjugation, its other women who have fought for us or go out of their way to help others, NOT men. Men only use their "masculinity" to abuse women and children then run like cowards(as usual) when real danger shows up. Men have always been doing this, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:16 AM
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Lol men say "friends" but they want certain things from women that you don't do with friends. Like wanting women to be monogamous, act like a wife and do "couple" things like dates, unprotected sex, cuddling, emotional labor, cooking for them and cleaning their apartment for free with no effort or commitment on their part while they continue to act single. and that reason right there is why FWB is a scam and only benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:47 AM
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You're right, forgive my wording. Edited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:56 AM
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Yup, and their negative zero value fathers actually encourage and influence this type of disgusting behavior at home too. While at the same time little girls are lied to about men's true nature and taught to be bubbly, quiet, agreeable and submissive no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:26 AM
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But yet men love quoting biology or evolution for their behaviors, placing themselves in the role of "protectors and providers" when they freaking NEVER were in the first place. Just a bunch of morally reprehensible predators with no empathy or self awareness constantly lurking around the corner for their next opportunity to use their "masculinity" to hurt women/children, then run when there's actual danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:09 AM
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Women are also not the ones abusing animals for fun, preying on single dads just to rape their children, pissing out in the open on sidewalks, exposing ourselves to people on the street, watching porn in public spaces, having road rage, fighting random people all the time, trying to normalize raping children/teenagers, placing our sexual "needs" over logic and reasoning, ruining other peoples lives just to get laid, spreading rumors to ruin someone's career over rejection, poisoning people for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:29 PM
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Translation: "I shouldn't have to put in effort to get free sex, my stinky laundry washed and someone to bring me food while I'm gaming. Women should be lucky to have me to clean up after and be around even though I have a horrible personality, a bad temper, zero social skills, and can't hold a conversation. I'm lazy and entitled but women should love me for me! that's right, women are the problem and i'm the princess! I'm the prize!" Plus there's a reason why the woman he's bragging about who p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:17 PM
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A hit dog will holler and these scrotes with a guilty conscience are no different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:53 PM
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"No drama" = Sex, silence and servitude. Having a bad day? he doesn't want to hear it. Angry or upset about something? call the priest because he doesn't want to hear it. Your default emotions are supposed to be happy/excited/bubbly and nothing else. You cook, clean everything and do "50/50(90/10)" with a smile. Also in my unfortunate experience, men who say this usually create so much drama on their own and then victimize themselves when confronted or caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:50 PM
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And don't forget the copious amounts of processed junk food they eat every night plus their gross vaping/weed habits on top of not exercising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:34 PM
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My mother had her last baby naturally at 49, on the other hand I've known women in their 20s who were struggling to conceive. Fertility is unique in every woman and I'm glad this myth is being exposed as another one of the patriarchy's lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:54 PM
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No adult man should have snapchat. Its a huge glaring red siren(not a flag, a siren) if a grown man has an app where teenagers mostly hang out and things can easily be deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:38 PM
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Exactly! I'm not a fan of any popular superhero movie for that very reason and anytime I dare to criticize the joker, I get told I don't understand it or even insulted and told to "stick to romance movies" as if comic book movies are so deep.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:00 PM
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Lol "Separated and on the verge of a divorce" is scrotespeak for "I treated my wife like shit one too many times now she's upset and won't sleep with me, I have needs so will you be my temporary bangmaid therapist until she forgives me?" Women initiate 70% of divorces which means most married men have no real intention of ever leaving their wives, they just wanna cheat and come back home to a hot meal and fresh laundry afterwards. Good on you for kicking him to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:04 PM
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I am SO happy I have a place to voice this opinion without men jumping in trying to convince me that its a "complex cinematic masterpiece that I'm too stupid to understand hurr durr!" but I really hate the joker movie, its straight up TRASH yet everyone loves it. They could have done so much with the actual story but they came out with this instead? True clown shit. Furthermore, FDS is about leveling up, being our best selves and avoiding abusers, manipulators and predators, but on the flip side…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:32 PM
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And THIS is why pickmes are dangerous She really just gave men more false psycho-babble nonsense(ammo) to use against us despite the fact that men already twist logic and reasoning and use psychology to abuse and manipulate women on a daily basis. Some poor woman out there who doesn't know better, is going to hear the words "constitute constructive abandonment" from a predator and be manipulated into all kinds of hellish crap because of this video. Women are not obligated to have sex with anyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:15 PM
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Manipulation by money, status, popularity etc. the SOLE reasons why. If he didn't have these things she wouldn't be dating him, trust me👌🏼 And such is the reality for any of these old scrotes who think they'll still be pulling 20-30 yr olds at 50 and foolishly believe these younger women actually care about or love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:01 PM
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Right? the new account and use of the word "females" is a dead giveaway. Mods where you at? delete this post and ban this user!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:47 AM
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Lol men are simply bitter about the fact that this is 2021 and not 1950 and they can't have the same deal that their lazy, good for nothing fathers and grandfathers had. Women are at a point now where men are becoming increasingly useless and we don't need them to survive as we all can have our own houses, cars, pensions, savings, careers etc. now. Long story short we are surpassing men in every way and they can't keep up. "Feminism ruined xyz!" is just another way for LVM men to say "I missed i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:22 PM
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So many men out there are rapists and they don't even care because they didn't do anything "violent and she consented" NO she didn't, she gave in after you begged for HOURS, she gave in after you threatened her, criticized her, punished her, emotionally abused her, gaslit her or you just started forcing yourself on her and she froze because she was scared of the possible violence that would be inflicted on her from rejecting you in the "heat of the moment." Men who pressure women into sex are T …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:39 AM
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I never said it was(?) I just commented that so people don't spread misinformation. Plus I don't care about "how much money she can spend." I'm not defending her, I've never liked her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:17 AM
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Just a side note, kylie jenner is not a billionaire she lied about her net worth just to be on the cover of forbes magazine. This Is Why Kylie Jenner Was So Desperate to Fake Her Billionaire Status, an Expert Explains (cheatsheet.com)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:56 AM
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P R O J E C T I O N.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:36 AM
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Woah, cheers to you for getting away from that POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:41 PM
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Exactly, its everywhere now plus the distorted beauty standards from coomer men and edited social media photos have women running around spending money they don't have, risking their health(and state of mind) trying to "fix" things that were never broken in the first place. Even with access to plastic surgery, a L/N/ZVM man will STILL find time to cheat and look at other women on social media so its a lose/lose situation for women no matter what we do. Men are just plain stupid and do not see wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:39 PM
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Exactly, or they were lazy and entitled and wanted women to do the courting, chasing and pursuing while they do nothing🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:24 PM
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I know, I'm in my early 20s and I've noticed specifically the men my age are all internet addicted to a severe degree, I mean every. single. one. No other hobbies, no other interests or personality traits just "Night of the Living Dead" type of obsession with social media, porn and gaming. Just to clarify, I have no interest in dating older men because I know most of them do the exact same thing if not worse. I just avoid men in general these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:23 PM
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And this is why I'm not dating anyone in this generation ever again. It baffles me how men can do nothing but jack off to IG models or lurk on tiktok or snapchat masturbating to teenage girls all day, yet still feel entitled to a committed relationship with a woman. Can you imagine living like this? co-habitating with a porn-addicted scrote who can barely keep a job, plays video games/on the internet all day, isn't responsible or reliable, horrible in bed, with a bad attitude and even worse pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:49 PM
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Same, honestly. I was always the "paranoid" one in my friend group who needed to lower her standards(according to my friends) but I was always always right, the men were NO good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:39 AM
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Great perspective, also true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:32 AM
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Fvck men's feelings. This is NOT a disney fairy tale land and I'm tired of men pretending it is. As long as men keep trying to "mack" on teenagers, watch "barely legal/BDSM/torture porn, as long as they keep raping, molesting and murdering, while the self-proclaimed "gOoD gUys" sit silently jacking off to women/children's pain in private, They are ALL in collusion and not to be trusted. Men need to stay the fvck away from women and children they don't know. We don't owe them anything. WOMEN AND …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:29 AM
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While I appreciate DJs message, Lori Harvey and Michael b Jordan's relationship should not be glamourized because its an age gap relationship. MBJ has automatically outed himself as low value for dating someone a whole 10 years younger than him🤢 but I agree with everything else Derrick Jackson said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:50 AM
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💖💕💖Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:38 AM
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Lol 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:09 PM
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Lol he conveniently left out the part of the advice about leaving the first women who wasted her time, money and youth after helping him build up his career and accomplish his life goals so he could trade her for a newer, younger model. Men give each other useless, shitty advice all the time and wonder why their life is constantly in shambles. Its the blind leading the blind at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:11 AM
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People don't even realize how incredibly ignorant they sound blaming women for things men have done in a patriarchal male dominated society. Women are not scapegoats for negative/zero value men who have failed at life and I wish more people realized this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:51 AM
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This guy is an abusive man, full stop. The aggressive body language, snarling, lunging at the camera, the name calling, belittling and mocking. I know this because my mom loved these types of men so I was surrounded by them my whole childhood and his behavior brought back so many memories. I am now a bloodhound when it comes to abusive men and this dude set off so many alarm bells in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:18 AM
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So true, just to look at how far society has let this unacceptable crap go irritates me to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:27 AM
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This is why I'm suspicious of ANY man(especially white men) who brag about going on vacation or traveling abroad to Thailand, Brazil, Russia or any other foreign country where women are more likely to be financially disadvantaged, because 9 times out of 10 he's looking for a naive, desperate young women to be his bangmaid slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:25 AM
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It truly is ridiculous. Imagine believing you are on the same level as those who are truly oppressed just because you're not having sex on the regular. How are they not embarrassed at this point? Why do men insist on telling everyone about their desperation for sex unprompted? Don't they know that everyone who lives in the real world is laughing at them for this? Incels live in the Lalaland of the insane, I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:07 AM
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Exactly. I genuinely feel bad for this upcoming generation of children who are about to grow up with video game/porn/internet addicted fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:59 AM
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Right? the level of inconsideration he's showing her(and the babies) is off the charts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:55 AM
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Hard agree on this one. I see delusional men on other reddit subs telling each other their prime is 45-50 and that they have "all the time in the world for kids/marriage or to date 20 yr olds." They don't. This is one of the patriarchy's biggest lies and I'm sick of it. There is actual scientific proof that sperm quality goes down, ED/limp dick starts setting in, estrogen levels go up, testosterone goes down, tooth decay, their bellies get bigger, weird smells that don't go away, they start bald…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:47 AM
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This is why we don't date gamers. Their "hobby" starts consuming every aspect of their lives and suddenly they can't function like a normal human being for a few hours without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:23 AM
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Wow.... the lengths predators will go through to convince themselves(and others) that their depravity is completely normal is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:42 AM
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I hate to say it, but I'm willing to bet its one of his personal fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:07 AM
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Ikr? Its like a strange mixture of jealousy/envy, lust, entitlement and a superiority complex, not to mention the commodification of women through porn and social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:31 AM
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Lol one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:41 AM
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Men cheat because it was a Monday. Men cheat for an ego boost Men cheat if the opportunity presents itself Men cheat because they live in a society that says they can, there is NO punishment or repercussions for them for cheating and its the woman's fault if he does i.e. The wife/gfs fault for not being "pretty/intelligent/interesting" enough or the other woman's fault for "seducing" him. I'm here to tell you if you are reading this, that it doesn't matter what you look like, how much you make, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:29 AM
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As soon as she said that I knew the rest of her so called "aDvIcE" was going to be complete and utter trash. I can guarantee the only thing this man is captain of is his crappy "team" whenever he does raids in video games since he can't even cook or clean up after himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:59 AM
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And to top it all off their breadwinner husbands don't respect them, are usually cheating(or looking for an opportunity to cheat) and referring to his wife and kids as the ol' ball & chain that "ruined his life."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:16 PM
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Constantly seeing men as the prize and other women as their enemies will be every pickmes downfall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:00 AM
127

I feel this is exactly what's going on, this woman probably has an awesome career, she's funnier than him, more intelligent, she's a great person so in turn everyone loves her and he can't handle it. He just said he is the exact opposite of her, now he's trying to reduce her to a "sex only" type of girl just to "humble her" and ruin her self esteem by telling her in a metaphoric way "You'll never be anyone's wifey if you don't dim your light." This is another fragile male ego situation, he's jea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:59 PM
72

Um, no. I don't have random sex with strangers, period. I'm so sick of these new age "sex positive experts" trying to brainwash women into thinking that casual sex is "no big deal" and we as women should all risk our health(and lives) just to appease men. I'm starting to see more and more people parrot this "don't make him wait for sex!" nonsense and it really disappoints me that having sex by the 1st 2nd or 3rd date is considered normal these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:43 AM
69

I've never rolled my eyes so hard, its so easy to tell she's just pandering to the male majority on reddit. Eight dollars? seriously? If you are struggling financially or don't have your life together, you should not be dating period. This girl is in full pickme bloom and she needs to listen to her family because they're right, she should be ashamed of accepting this kind of low bar crap and doing wifey stuff a guy who can't even be arsed to get her a good-priced meaningful ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:56 AM
3

Well that's a big fat lie. Men's insecurities stem from excessive porn usage. They constantly watch other men have sex and start comparing their bodies to the men in porn, then they project those insecurities onto women saying "wahh! they all want 6'4 chads/tyrones with big d1cks!" Once again they take NO responsibility for their own downfall and use the eViL WimmEnz argument to keep their paper-thin egos safe from criticism. Men are making themselves so easy to laugh at, I mean the pure stupidi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:20 PM
60

She is 100% a pickme/cool girl, she brags about "not being like other girls" and liking the same things men like🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:39 AM
31

Lol and Antarctica. Dress warm scrotes! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:07 AM
510

Omg this IS a hard pill for many women to swallow and SO true. I've seen women on other subs trash talking FDS saying that this is the very reason they hate this sub, because we tell them the honest, brutal, unadulterated truth about how men truly feel about women. "WAAA! its too negative and hAtEfuL! I don't wanna see that all the time! nOt AlL mEn! WAAA! they'll ruin my chances at finding true love!" is what I've legit seen other women say in certain posts. They hate the fact that society lied…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:58 AM
286

Right. If he thinks he can just gleefully run free into the Texas skyline leaving her destitute with 3 underaged kids, he's got another thing coming. I hope she takes his ass to the CLEANERS for practically spitting in her face after she sacrificed everything in her life for his ungrateful ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:43 AM
34

This is the very reason I don't care for that "vibrational" stuff. I understand taking personal accountability for yourself, but at the same time men are master manipulators and pretend to be good people all the time just to trick women into a relationship or into sleeping with them. It doesn't matter how much "positive or negative" energy you have. I do agree that women need to vet ruthlessly and always watch out for red flags but ultimately its MEN who need to do better and be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:46 AM
32

Disappointed, but not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:47 PM
89

Lol they forgot the empty chip bags, soda bottles, various piles of trash and crusty dirty socks/underwear scattered all over the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:43 AM
85

This guy is 100% still married and he's just looking for a secret "on call" woman to give him free sex whenever him and his wife aren't getting along and she refuses to service his pp. I bet she doesn't even know he's on these dating/hook-up sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:38 AM
296

Omg that second to last paragraph in the middle slide is horrifying. These men are delusional and out of touch with reality, life is not a video game and a woman's no means NO. It doesn't mean "convince me or just force me." This is disgusting behavior. Side note: I'm so tired of idiots using science or "millions of years of eVoLuTion" bs to justify being a depraved criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:48 PM
21

Lol men act like they don't age and still look 25 at 45, society needs to start being brutally honest with men about their appearance/fertility more. There is nothing and I mean nothing sexy about out of shape dad bods, rotting teeth, balding heads, corpse-like dry skin with sunken in dead eyes and skinny-fat beer guts. He is in fact not aging like a fine wine and they usually don't, its rare when a man actually ages well. Men waste their 20s/30s dicking around wasting their lives then at 45-50 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:32 PM
65

This. And don't forget the mgtows/RPs telling them to protect the -$50 in their bank account from the evil wimmenz aka gold-diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:40 PM
23

Finally. Its not a comment section full of people gaslighting her and telling her its a her problem lying about how "normal" that picture collecting crap is, when its not. If a man is married or in a committed relationship, he should not have a stable of random photos of semi-nude or fully naked women in his phone, at all. If he's SO addicted to these photos of random women, then he doesn't deserve to be in a relationship🤷🏼‍♀️ so dump that trashbag man and make him single. They never change, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:08 PM
38

Oh sure, he doesn't want his wife/gf wearing certain dresses, short skirts etc. but watch him break his neck just to look and openly gawk at the woman who is wearing high heels, short skirt, crop top or spaghetti straps. And you have to sit there and LET HIM do it, if you don't you're being "insecure, controlling, not understanding his nEeDs!" I thank God every day that I'm single so I don't have to deal with this shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:57 PM
28

??? yet they call themselves the logical more intelligent gender? What a bunch of braindead monkeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:43 AM
217

I wonder if that magazine also listed his yearly income so all the delusional scrotes know that this isn't a reality for them unless they make 500k+ a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:18 AM
61

One thing that baffles me about pickmes is the complete lack of empathy and compassion for women who have had bad experiences with men in general. They're always so quick to rush and defend men they don't even know and brag about how every guy they know is sweet, kind and loving or about how well men treat them. Not only are these women out of touch with reality, they are completely oblivious to the fact that they're invalidating another woman's experience by shouting "not all men!" or doing the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:03 PM
663

"She has to be natural!"🤪 Also men: *Proceeds to jack off to thousands of videos/photos of women with heavy makeup, extensive plastic surgery, photoshop, filters, and airbrushing.* Men's idea of "natural" is warped by porn and social media. They really be out here thinking that's reality and get mad when women don't live up to the actresses in their favorite porns or IG models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:27 PM
300

Lol his whole dating profile sounds like he's having 'Roid rage and his picture looks like it too. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:13 PM
146

If anyone wants to know what porn addiction looks like.....this is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:20 PM
251

For anyone confused on the true meaning: What simping is: Pursuing or doing too much for someone that has no interest in you or someone you do not have a chance with. The person in question is usually married or in a relationship already. ​ What simping is not: Holding doors open, holding the bags/groceries, buying gifts for your wife/gf, treating women with respect, kindness or as human beings, taking care of your daughters, protecting and providing for your family, loving animals, giving compl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:50 AM
52

Right? I bet his soul left his body in that moment, lol I wish I could have seen that irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:55 PM
65

Men just like bringing up wars THEY started as a way to one up women, they don't really care about men in the military/navy/air force. Furthermore, many of the men who complain about men dying in wars haven't even fought in one or ever been in the army. Lastly, women do join the military all the time, but men harass, rape, assault and do everything in their power to keep women out because its a "bOy's cLuB." They truly are a bunch of idiots and grasping for non-existent straws at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:47 PM
17

And don't forget fresh out of high school or freshman in college🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:15 PM
23

This. It starts at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:30 AM
80

Why do I feel like he used his son's birthday as an excuse to bring his favorite stripper into the house? This is what happens when you let men slide, they start ice skating. Her husband(who has been cheating this whole time btw, that's why he's been more irritable lately) thought "since she's okay with letting me go the strip club to cheat every month, she'll be okay with me bringing a stripper home and cheating under her roof!" This entire post is a horror story and what can happen when you ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:20 AM
4

lol they can choke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:28 AM
122

Same. I'm also tired of people calling justifiable anger "having a victim mentality." Like NO, I worked hard to be this angry at my abusers after years and years of repressing my emotions and pretending everything was okay when it wasn't. So those people who sprout that toxic positivity/suCcEss "mindset" can fvck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:06 AM
378

I bet all the guilty perverts have their shit-stained boxers in a twist in the comment section. "Hurr duRR iTs jUst mUh pRefeReNce!!" No kyle, you're just sick in the head from watching too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:49 AM
103

Exactly and I think that's the whole point, men who want women to initiate everything will also expect her to deal with his life obstacles and his problems for him while she's balancing the household, children and her job/career on top of everything else. He'll just sit back playing video games all day talking shit about her to his friends, casually leaving out the fact that if it wasn't for her, he'd be homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:40 AM
288

So this absolute dodo brain was jacking off to other women/girls on one of reddit's predator porn/pedo subs and only decided to get upset when he saw his wife's photo? the stupidity..... Male logic amirite? 🤪🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:22 AM
41

This is what happens when you don't vet and jump right into a relationship thinking that unadulterated pure lust you're feeling is "soulmate/true love" mumbo jumbo. You end up with a person you don't even know very well, who does terrible things you don't like and REFUSES to change. Yet she has to make all the sacrifices and changes but he gets to stay his gross self? how is that fair? always keep vetting/leave at the first red flag no matter what because the game is rigged against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:05 AM
47

because men aren't allowed to comment here and apparently we're a "sexist hate sub(not true btw)" yet reddit refuses to do anything about the porn subs, the misogynistic violence subs, the racism and the rampant pedophilia going around this site like wildfire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:43 PM
258

LOL she's playing the "coolgirl" role until the wheels fall off, acting like she's okay with her gross bf jacking off to and gawking at other women when in reality her self-esteem is in shambles and she is slowly growing resentful of him with every passing moment. "wE pErV tOgeThEr!!" her and her partner sound like a couple of criminals tbh, plus she won't be too happy when her POS bf starts wanting to open the relationship and be "poly."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:33 PM
124

Men do not care if you're an "old soul" or interested in the same hobbies/activities they do. They just want to know if its going to be easy to have sex with you or do they have to put in effort? After they figure which one you are, they'll treat you accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:07 PM
6

Wow. He hates her. This is worse than gas station flowers, worse than those cheap chocolates that taste like plastic, worse than a gift store teddy bear from the hospital.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:29 AM
86

Alexa play Irreplaceable by Beyonce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:11 AM
214

I can't help but laugh at the part where he said he always thought he was "better than most people," until his highly accomplished roommate came along and held a mirror up to his dusty dopey a$$. ​ LOL you thought bytch, you thought!!!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:06 AM
256

Agreed. They don't think its their duty to protect, provide or have any kind of empathy or compassion for us like a real man should, yet they think women should give them everything for free and cater to every demand without complaint no matter how sick we are or how we feel. More women need to be comfortable with being single, a break up/divorce is not the end of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:17 PM
76

They really be out here not showering for days, sweating down there, pooping/urinating and expecting women to have sex with them, touch it and give them bjs??!🤮 haha no. Why don't you fvck off and go take a hot shower with industrial strength bleach while you're at it. They're not going to use those wipes anyway.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:33 PM
103

Ewww. Porn really does rot the brain. Men can't even make a simple pregnancy announcement without talking about their dicks the whole time🤢 This whole iG post just reeks of narcissism on his end. His selfish "I, ME" statements are so telling because he doesn't say anything about his gf/wife? or future child, he just goes on and on about sex and what he is getting and how he feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:13 PM
125

Their mothers should've gotten their periods instead of these broke, short, neckbeard misogynistic scrotebags who bully women/children on the internet all day. Can you imagine giving birth to a son who eventually grows up to do this? A grown a$$ failure at life so he has to make fun of/bully women in order to feel like a "big, strong aLpHa mALe." They truly are the LOWEST of life-forms. Big flaming bags of stinking human garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:14 AM
179

Funny how EVERY mans love language is "physical touch(sex/blowjobs) and "acts of service(emotional/physical labor from women). I haven't met one man, not one who has a healthy understanding of what love languages truly are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:37 AM
144

So basically he's dating his mom? because that's exactly what this sounds like, I feel bad for his wife for devoting all her time/youth/energy and body to this poor excuse of a "man." More like happy anniversary to himself for "bagging" a good little pickme surrogate mommy because the only one getting a good deal out of this is him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:25 AM
122

Yup its called strategic incompetence. Its when someone knows how to do something but they mess it up on purpose so that they're never asked again. Men do this A LOT and pretend they don't know any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:50 AM
457

Ah, yes the internet. A place where men can let ALL of their hatred, racism, unresolved issues, narcissism, pedophilia and misogyny just hang out and ya know.... be men!🤪🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:54 AM
58

Hoarding that much wealth and doing nothing with it to help others is absolutely disgusting. I don't care what anyone says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:34 AM
79

This world doesn't need anymore corrupt greedy billionaires making money off the backs of the oppressed and contributing none of it to help the problems in society. What would one person do with billions of dollars??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:09 AM
2

Thank you, and its a recent diagnosis(I found out from a psychotherapist around 6-7 months ago) so I'm currently trying to figure out what works for me and what doesn't. Right now I'm doing CBT/Distress Tolerance Skills and its helping a lot so far, I'm trying to work through it without needing meds because certain medications make me ill. Other things that help me is being in nature during the day, using a weighted blanket at night, I try breathing exercises, I love animals and I'm thinking abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:25 AM
79

They're all a bunch of zero value/negative value pornsick pedos trying to justify preying on high schoolers just because they can't use and abuse older women the way they can use/abuse kids. As I've said in another comment on a different post men value power/control more than anything else and they love to exert some of that over women cause they see us as animals/objects. These kind of men are black holes, forever cursed and they will never be happy or satisfied no matter how young their "waifu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:45 AM
9

Its ultimately a form of control. Men crave power more than anything else, especially men who are insecure, broke, lazy, boring people with deep rooted psychological issues that lead unsuccessful lives and feel slighted by women. Even if you're the most beautiful woman in world they will still find something to criticize you over and call you a "5" as if any of these skinny-fat greasy weebs with broken limp dicks from porn addiction have the right to critique anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:25 AM
52

They're also washing his skid-marked underwear and cooking him a hot meal while he scrolls on Instagram/TikTok lusting after other women/teenage girls uwu!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:29 PM
25

I feel your pain, my birth mother was a pickme/coolgirl/doormat with a string of low value boyfriends and she would do ANYTHING for these men if they asked. I'm not going to get into details of everything she did, but because of her careless/abusive actions I now have C-PTSD as an adult(that's a hint to how bad everything was). Now that I'm older/wiser thanks to FDS(and life experience), being around her just doesn't feel right anymore and I don't even like to be touched by her or even want to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:52 AM
3

So accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:08 AM
47

Animals, pipes, corpses, food/rotten fruit, a hole in a mattress, bottles, basically any cylindrical object with a hole in it, etc. they have negative zero standards and they don't discriminate🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:07 AM
58

Just another classic scrote gold-digger preying on women's natural caregiving/empathic instincts. I hope no woman falls for this hobosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:46 AM
76

Separated aka "My wife and I aren't getting along/having sex right now so I'm looking to trick some poor unsuspecting woman into sleeping with me until my wife decides to forgive me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:38 AM
318

A hit dog will holler and these criminals by association are no different. They're big mad because its true and the guilt is slapping them in the face like a wet towel, but since men are incapable of self-reflection without causing narcissistic injury/rage to their fragile egos, throwing a tantrum and trying to DARVO anyone who calls them out is the next best thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:51 AM
68

#YesAllMen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:55 PM
465

Men: "She has to be skinny, long hair, big a$$, big boobs, long legs, tiny waist, long eyelashes, no body hair, perfect height, perfect face, looks like a supermodel or she doesn't have a chance with me!"👹👹👹 Women: " I like big dicks." Men: "NO! thats bOdY sHamIng! thAt's HatE sPeeCh! REEEEEEEEE!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:10 PM
104

If he stereotypes an entire race of women that just means he doesn't see women as people in general, just objects. He just thinks of women in terms of positives(submissive, obedient, hot) or negatives("unattractive, difficult, aggressive") instead of separate human beings with their own autonomy, thoughts, desires, minds etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:01 PM
3

The double standard is insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:51 PM
111

Not to mention that comment he gave OP is horrible advice, they're really out here just screwing themselves over at this point. I'm weAK 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:12 AM
256

Compare this to the majority of Hollywood men who look like stir-fried trash and aged like a carton of milk left out in the Sahara desert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:58 PM
272

These guys are WAAAAY off the mark of what a HVM really is. Having a six figure income/no debt/no kids etc. does NOT make you "high value" or otherwise, all they do is project what they think a good/HV man is to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:53 PM
137

I'm willing to bet the age range for him is set to 18-29 👎🏼 and the "blue eyes" obsession is giving me huge WASP trad-wife vibes. Yuck! I just can't believe this dude wants to be 50-60 years old chasing around toddlers, the delusion is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:29 PM
208

Its all because people sell them the delusion that men are more logical/rational, so they confuse masculinity with having zero empathy/compassion for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:22 PM
107

​ Just a bunch of porn-addicted rapists plotting on how to manipulate/cross boundaries so they can force women into non-consensual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:20 PM
150

Lies, lies and more lies everyone is just too busy drinking the patriarchy's brand of "feminism" to realize it. He's just another whining man baby who is upset because he is LEGALLY obligated to take care of and pay for the welfare of a child. Also he's not telling the full story of why this had to happen, he's being dishonest and leaving out important details that would explain this situation. This is why so many men advocate for "shacking up" and having "forever girlfriends" instead of marriag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:03 PM
59

I think about it like this: Would he make (insert his fav celebrity/actress/model/porn star) pay on dates? no. Would he make these women go 50/50? Nope. Would he take these women on cheap $2 coffee dates? No way. Would he guilt trip these women about a "free lunch, "gold-digging" and being used?" Hell no. Remember, men will spend their last dollar on a woman that they are serious about. Hell they'll take family money thats for food, rent/mortgage, bills etc. and use it on porn subscriptions, Onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:38 AM
57

This is one of the sweetest things I've read on this site! SO cute!💖 Women were never complicated, that's the patriarchy's biggest lie. Our needs are simple we just want respect, love and most of all EFFORT! to be treated like a human being and not an object. Men who think women are "complicated" are just lazy, low-effort and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:22 AM
200

Exactly. They got quiet because he's delusional. Parents really need to start teaching their sons that women aren't congratulatory prizes to be won for being an adult or achieving the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:50 AM
94

This is their exact thought process. They are simply incapable of self-reflection and empathy for others(women) "Me, me, me!" is the only thing they care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:40 AM
154

Men will lead women on, live with them, do "coupley" things together, impregnate them, take money from them, whisper sweet nothings and promises for the future in her ear but then turn right around and say "we're just friends!" "you're not wife material!" As if these dirty dicked bastards were ever "husband material" in the first place. The psychological/physical damage women take on just by being friends with benefits with men is WAY too great. Men love FWB because they get the most benefits wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:37 AM
7

I literally said this on another post almost 2 weeks ago and my account got reported and I was suspended for a week. I knew I wasn't wrong, most of them really are pedos and this is one of the reasons I'm not ever having kids. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:50 AM
25

Alexa play "Obsessed" by Mariah Carey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:53 PM
28

Porn addiction is causing men in their 20s and 30s to get erectile dysfunction. The worst part about that piece of "advice" is that viagra lasts anywhere from 3 to 5 hours and what a lot of men fail to take into consideration is sex is not guaranteed so any man who actually does this is going to be on a date sitting there with an erection he can't get rid of making a complete fool out of himself. The woman is most likely going to laugh at him and end the date early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:39 PM
43

I think a man can be HV without being physically attractive or being your type, but that doesn't mean you should force something that isn't there. Forcing feelings and attraction only makes you miserable. Attraction is important and women have been forcing things for too long, enough is enough. Yes HVM are rare, but dating one you're not attracted to just because he's HV is giving them way too much credit, plus men can change from HV to LV at any time. At the end of the day women are the choosin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:59 AM
31

Yup. They are inferior. I guess making improvements on themselves is "too hard" so invading women's spaces and harassing them is the next best thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:43 AM
742

When men say they want or are looking for their "dream girl" what they really want is a woman doesn't act or behave human. Think about it. Men cry over supermodels, porn stars and actresses they can't fuck and put them on this pedestal of the "perfect woman," when in reality if they ever knew these women in real life they would become disillusioned and start abusing her and treating her like crap because no one is perfect/flawless 24/7. When their perfect manic pixie dream girl/top model gf gets…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:19 PM
96

EW. Gross.🤢 No one is calling it out because age gap relationships are normalized as "goals" these days, and nobody wants to be the odd-one out among friends for commenting on the wrongness of it all. If you do say something, people will accuse you of being bitter, jealous and spreading negativity, so everyone is brainwashed and its no use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:52 PM
1

Its okay, I didn't think you were feeling sorry for yourself, I just understand how it is and I'm glad your life is good and you're doing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:27 AM
125

Men have NO standards. They'll have sex with anything and that's why STDs/STIs exist. So I could care less about their perceived "desirable-ness" and their princess mentality because we all know its bullshit. Even the best looking, richest man has to work hard at getting a women into bed. So what can these videogame/porn addicts with bad hygiene and less than $50 to their name offer? nothing but dust, negging and "50/50" manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:07 AM
15

He's trying to shame her. Women are taught from a young age that one of the worst things we could be is a money-grubbing "gold-digger" who uses men. So of course men are using this "free lunch/meal" bullshit to victimize themselves and guilt women into having sex for $2 coffees or fast food from the $1 dollar menu. Its worse because he's doing this to a literal child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:49 AM
16

True. The only way I see him finding another woman is by him pretending to have good hygiene until one day she gets a big whiff while going down on him🤢 or seeing those nasty streaks in his underwear while doing his laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:57 PM
133

What "dark humor" in men actually means: "I'm an insensitive asshole who likes to play Schrödinger's douchebag with topics that aren't funny to make up for the fact that I have no personality and previous mental issues that I refuse to go to therapy for, so I cope by using "humor" which is actually just thinly veiled misogyny and a general dislike for women. But don't you dare call me(or other men) out for it! that's sexist!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:46 PM
209

So this blows their "men need harems and can't sleep with just one woman becuz bIoLoGy!" argument straight out of the water. Men were never supposed to have easy sex on tap with multiple partners so freely as they do now. Hookup culture is contributing to the breakdown of actual meaningful romantic relationships just like porn is and I wish more people realized this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:56 AM
179

"i'Ve Got mY eYe oN heR rePlaCemEnt"🤪🥴 Dude, you just admitted you don't wipe your butt after #2 and walk around stinking with poop in between your asscheeks!! what replacement is he talking about?? what kind of woman could he hope to attract with his terrible hygiene!?!? and if he doesn't wipe, he most likely doesn't shower often or brush/floss his teeth either🤢 He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship, this is appalling behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:03 AM
57

As soon as a man starts telling you that you are crazy, seeing things, hearing things or flat out telling you "I didn't say that!" and "that didn't happen!" RUN, don't walk. He's testing you to see just how much crap you'll put up with and trying to fix it to where you can't trust your own mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:20 AM
32

My heart goes out to you💖💖💖 and I empathize so much as I don't know who my father is, plus every male figure/ex/male friend I've ever had in my life was trash-ass, loveless piles of excrement so just like you, I can honestly say no man has ever done anything for me. Even though these things have happened, it has ZERO bearing on your worth, you deserve love, respect, happiness, security and to be treated like the precious gemstone you are💎 Its only upwards from here and you've already taken the f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:59 AM
30

Its definitely projection. Most men want to be just like him, they think just because they want to be like him, others do too. That "EM" comment was most likely a reflection of his own insecurities and how he feels toward himself, but he took it out on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:28 AM
2

Yes! so true, he is also impeding your personal growth and keeping you financially/emotionally stagnant by having you "on the hook" and he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:38 PM
109

"Imagine human females evaluating their male mating partners as ruthless as other animals." YES. This is how women need to be. We need to stop procreating/having sex with lazy, pornsick, video game addicted, selfish men. Giving men that privilege is the HIGHEST honor from a woman and we need to stop giving out chances. If society went by the same rules as certain animal hierarchies, these men would be cast out. They would be the literal dregs/scum of society and no woman would even talk to them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:29 PM
102

Wow. His wife(a human being, a person.) gets kidnapped and subjected to the worst torture of her life and all he can think about is how he wouldn't be able to cook, clean or take care of the kids he HELPED create by himself.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:39 PM
187

Lol the gross sexpats/RPs think East European women and east/southeastern Asian women are submissive, desperate and stupid when that couldn't be further from the truth. Many of these women don't put up with the 50/50 lifestyle and don't want to be with lazy, video game addicted, pornsick men who are not providers. In reality, the women they fetishize would want nothing to do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:47 PM
2

Amen!👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:29 PM
166

Or he's found someone easier with no standards(free sex, wifey duties), who can give him what he wants for zero effort on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:26 PM
42

These are the same men who wont wipe their ass after #2, wear sunscreen/lotion, take regular showers or eat a salad instead of doritos/tacos/sodie pop 24/7 all because they think its "gay." What a bunch of clowns.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:12 PM
16

Exactly. His GF is the best thing that ever happen to him and somehow he thinks he's the prize for nothing except getting older? what an idiot😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:41 PM
29

THIS. I hate when men brag about "bUilDinG cIviliZatiOn" but when I look around at the current state of the world and how men have completely destroyed society on a global scale, I think to myself; why are they so proud of that? are they insane? they haven't been doing a good job AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:02 PM
42

This is why I don't debate with men on certain issues anymore. Many of them go by conspiracy theories and will lie/make stuff up to fit their "women bad" narrative. They have no idea what they're talking about, yet they believe they are the "intelligent/logical/rational" beings just because they have a pair of stinky testicles and whatever insane, blubbering drivel comes out of their mouths is "fAcks & LogIk, even when its not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:45 PM
62

Lol at newly risen "seXuAl maRket vAlue." Unless this delusional manipulating abuser has started making 500k+ a year, his "SMV" to women hasn't risen AT ALL and the likelihood of 20 year old women being interested in a leeching old scrote with kids is slim to NONE unless he's willing to give them a crap-ton of money for dealing with his geriatric a$$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:12 PM
175

These same hypocritical dirty dicked men will complain about how their virgin wives are bad in bed and then cheat on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:02 PM
139

Same. I see so many unmarried couples shacking up for years, buying property together, sharing bank information, having kids, etc. and I was taught to never do that outside of marriage. Its way too many commitment phobic men out there who just want subsidized rent, free sex and maid/cook duties from women, but do not want to be held accountable if things go wrong or if they decide to leave when another woman they think they have a chance with shows up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:26 PM
3

Ugh, so true. I keep forgetting it doesn't even matter to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:40 PM
20

I get what you mean, I like some of those movies also. The main character in the movies are not to be taken seriously or emulated, almost like the movie is telling you what not to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:35 PM
3

Woah, major predator vibes. I'm glad your friend did not date that sicko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:22 PM
2

Yup, I've heard of it happening in nursing homes, to special needs/mentally handicapped people, men are just depraved and do not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:11 PM
37

Lol, you should have told him that American Psycho was written by a gay man and the movie was directed by a woman, the movie is a literal parody of hedonism/capitalism, consumerism and toxic masculinity and its not to be taken seriously. Since liking the movie AP is not unique, I'd say he's the one with the bad taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:35 PM
89

And don't forget The Wolf of Wall Street🤢 Honestly I think many men live vicariously through these movies and wish they could emulate the characters. Its just another testimony to how out of touch with reality most men are. Many men think liking these movies makes them some kind of intellectual genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:26 PM
637

Any man who thinks a woman in her 20s is "old" when the average human has a 80 year life span is either; A redpilled low income incel loser who believes women hit the wall at 25-30 and watches too much loliporn. Really bad in bed and knows anyone over 21 would make fun of his little penis, zero skills, premature ejaculation and ED. A pedophile An abuser/manipulator Or D, all of the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:18 AM
4

Ikr? I can feel the second hand embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:23 AM
128

"He replied, "Well we're both in our 40's and it's hard to find someone at our age, so I guess you've just given up on men, huh?"..." Lol no, its hard for him to find someone at his age. You can get anyone you want at anytime not him, men really do love to project all their insecurities on women. His subtle attempt to "neg" you into bed failed😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:14 AM
79

Translation: "I am a manipulator/abuser who needs a woman with low self esteem who hates herself enough to let me do whatever I want without consequence."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:39 PM
78

Hard Truth: Men on the internet who complain about their "eViL eX gIrlFriEnds" or "fEmAlEs nOt liKing nIce gUys!"🤪 deserved to get dumped and they had it coming. What they're really upset about is women not putting up with their bullshit lies, cheating, abuse and blatant disrespect. All this is refusal to take responsibility and lack of accountability, all they do is play victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:00 AM
380

Any man who wants to go to Hooters, Twin Peaks or any sports bar/lounge/casino as a first date is trash and you shouldn't be going. block and do not respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:38 AM
196

Men's delusion knows no bounds, there are actually men out there who think they can beat THE Serena Williams in a tennis match. So when they claim to be more athletic than they actually are, I just laugh obnoxiously and that usually shuts them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:34 PM
105

I'm still stuck on the 2.7 million dollars part, I mean WTF? what a waste of money! its just so much financial irresponsibility.🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:32 PM
76

Has anyone of them been paying attention to human history for the past millennium? how are women "emotionally incompetent" when men start all the wars, all the riots, they rape, murder, steal, throw literal tantrums and beat people up when they don't get their way or if their egos are bruised, but yet women are somehow the problem? The most overemotional, irrational, lying, illogical, ill-tempered people I've ever met were men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:21 PM
2

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:27 PM
154

Exactly. I'm not teaching a grown man how to act, respect me or be responsible. If he can't get it right the first time, I'm gone✌🏻 I don't give second, third, or fourth chances and I advise other women to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:34 PM
35

How about NO. 😈🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:59 PM
55

Exactly. If all his exes were bad, then its time for him to start looking in the mirror because the common denominator in all those failed relationships is him. He's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:26 AM
8

and they say women are the dramatic ones lol, he made a fool out of himself telling his whole life story in a text. 🤣 Men will hold on to stuff that happened to them in elementary/middle school, apply it to their entire adult life, and make everyone suffer for it( especially women). She definitely dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:13 AM
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Wow the internalized misogyny is off the charts with this one and I'm pretty sure her "saint" of a fiancé isn't as innocent as he claims to be. Most men are unreliable narrators and will lie or leave things out of a story to make themselves look like the victim or the "good guy." This is why we don't date men who trash talk their exes, or play victim and refuse to acknowledge their role in the breakup by avoiding responsibility/accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:57 AM
109

It baffles me how proud men act of oppressing an entire gender by bragging about accomplishing more in history when women were not legally allowed to do or own certain things. Its like, that was a literal crime against humanity and nothing to be proud of, yet they constantly bring it up as an "ah ha!" moment against women. What a bunch of deluded, disgusting monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:25 PM
37

WTF? this guy doesn't need a relationship, he needs a therapist. There's SO many red flags here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:05 PM
42

Men know this too, its part of the reason why they love stringing women along for sex in the first place. They know women are socialized to be monogamous so they take advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:50 AM
36

Thank You. These women run to reddit after being openly disrespected talking about "I don't know what to do!" They know what they need to do, they just don't want to do it because its not the easy solution or they are uncomfortable with being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:42 AM
2

I saw some of those videos and honestly, what did they expect was going to happen? they are truly deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:30 AM
208

Lol men like this always tell women to lower their standards and "don't expect much" but guess what they expect us women to do for them? cook, clean, pay 70 or 100% of the bills, have their kids, do all of the childrearing, have a good paying career, give them emotional support, do their laundry etc. and most of them want all of this without a ring or commitment just to add insult to injury. But women are the greedy ones? I have to laugh🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:26 AM
26

He 100% killed the cat on purpose, I have never heard of anyone using a pellet/BB gun to break up a cat fight ever. She needs to get the heck out of there fast because now that he knows she's still chooses to be with him after confessing to murdering her cat, more abuse WILL start to escalate and he'll start introducing her to more depraved crap little by little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:00 PM
96

Human beings can live to 80 or 100 yet they love telling women their time is up at 30(WTF?) Its not only projection, its also some revenge fantasy bullshit too. Women their own age DO NOT want these men, women their own age know these men are inferior/damaged, so these men love saying "yoUnGer woMen aRe bettUr!" in order to get back at the pretty and successful women their own age who rejected them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:51 PM
1

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:52 AM
135

And men LOVE to call themselves the logical and rational gender🙄 yeah, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:48 AM
102

Yeah its even other women sometimes, its like we can't have any other emotions besides happy/bubbly/excited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:43 AM
26

Omg, yes its like they'll start pulling crap out of thin air like its facts or something. I'm starting to think men confuse/conflate "masculinity" with having all the answers or knowing everything even if it means blatantly lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:48 AM
354

I worked in retail for 3 years and it really opened my eyes to how bad male entitlement really is, the amount of men telling me to "smile and act happier" was astounding. I've been denied a pay raise because I wasn't being "friendly" enough to the customers and someone had complained(I'm willing to bet it was a man who complained🙄). I've also had men as old as 50-60 ask for my number or on a date despite the fact that I'm in my 20s. I'm so glad I quit that job and because of those experiences I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:00 AM
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This is a little off topic but why on earth do men say the most ridiculous, far-fetched bs in a baseless argument with NO evidence to back it up? I see this on reddit so much, they just automatically assume things about an entire group of people as if life were a movie or TV show. I've never ever been in a casual FWB relationship in my life and this is why. Most men barely have any respect for their wives/gfs, so what makes you think he'll respect you if you're offering up free sex whenever he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:06 PM
33

Exactly. They could be waking up next to the most beautiful, charismatic and successful woman in the world and they'd still secretly think to themselves "What about all the women I haven't fvcked yet?"🥴 Hollywood is great example of this. So many 10/10 women getting cheated on, used, abused and disrespected regardless of their status, personality or overall attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:37 PM
34

Bingo. This is emotional abuse plain and simple, they call it breadcrumbing and benching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:33 PM
21

On todays episode of "WTF did I just read?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:01 PM
56

High Value? no. He's teaching weak, impressionable, anti-social men how to be users, abusers and manipulators. He's telling them that its okay to be entitled, lazy and treat women like crap. Two things they need to realize; Women don't owe them shit. We're not here on this earth for them. Get over it. The second thing is men who act like this are NOT HV and they never will be. Real HV men are not complaining about women 24/7 or blaming women for their own problems and since men like this refuse …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:44 PM
5

The projection from them is so obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:03 PM
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🙄Its always the male "artists" and "photographers" with this sick played out sex/nudity shtick. I'm so sick of them contributing to the commodification of women and calling it "art."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:51 PM
5

So true, I don't even think some women know how long it takes to undo years of patriarchal brainwashing/manipulation/abuse. It doesn't happen overnight(I'm still undoing the damage to this day) and many of them think when they join FDS or call themselves a "feminist" it all just goes away, not knowing many of them deep down still follow the rules of the patriarchy and act like "cool girls/pickmes" without even realizing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:26 PM
2

I know, my response was in agreement with yours because someone gave me the "he comes home with me," speech yesterday, sorry for the misunderstanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:46 PM
5

LOL someone just told me this. "He's dating me, not other people" 😆 like its going to make things better that he's settling on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:22 AM
2

Oh don't worry, I can tell you're new at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:17 AM
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Lol he probably thought she was going to send him nudes, SYKE!!!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:13 AM
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"Blah, blah, mUh pEnIS!, blah blah, wont somebody please think of the men!🥴 blah, blah I'm da victim!" That's all I heard from this idiotic argument. Human beings have gotten along just fine without porn for thousands of years, plus literally nobody told this guy(or men in general) to "never masturbate again" WTF is he talking about? this is what happens when you're pornsick, his brain has turned into a fried egg and he has one caveman braincell left up there knocking two synapses together whene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:31 PM
17

There is this popular saying that I really hate and it goes; "There will always be someone prettier, smarter, richer, etc. etc. than you" then it will go on and on about "self acceptance/fixing your iNsEcUrItIEs." To me this is such a harmful/hopeless way to look at life because it has the implication that we are replaceable(worthless) and we should just accept whatever or tolerate whatever abuse or mistreatment that comes our way. It sucks even more when women parrot this BS and enable bad beha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:08 PM
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He's interested in someone else. He thinks he has a chance with the new person and he is using his "busy life schedule" as an excuse to not talk to you anymore. He WILL be back if his plans with the new girl fall through, I think you should block this guy so he isn't using you for emotional supply anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:19 AM
38

This is one of the reasons I'm starting to really hate the internet. Its given a platform to angry, miserable, sadistic and hateful men to bully women and children without consequences. The worst part is when they're not bullying children, the pervs/pedos are trying to get nudes from them or sexually harass them online. They are a plague upon this earth, with their disgusting behavior and should have their IPs permanently banned from the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:06 PM
57

So accurate. Its all projection. Unlike men, women are very in tune with reality and know they cant live the "party girl" lifestyle forever. Hence the reason women have careers, houses, money/savings/retirement after 35 and men with peter pan syndrome are finding it hard to do the same. Men are the ones desperately(and pathetically) trying to hold on to their youth and prolong boyhood for as long as possible, you see it everyday with 35+40-50 year old men on dating sites saying they "want kids s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:01 PM
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P R O J E C T I O N.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:35 AM
32

Bingo. They don't really want advice, they want someone to listen to their sob story, pat them on the back and give them sympathy for knowingly making bad decisions. Martyrdom is a crutch many women use to cope in bad relationships and this is why I don't give sympathy to women who do that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:24 AM
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My guess is a lot of men confuse "masculinity" with how much sex they can get or they have deep seated emotional issues they refuse to get help for, so they cycle through women hoping one day they'll find a woman who can "cure him" which, I'm pretty sure is what this guy is doing no matter how much he brags about being mgtow, clearly that was a lie. As for the rejection? fragile male egos. Many men are incapable of self-reflection without causing narcissistic injury and acting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:34 AM
30

Exactly. I'm not lowering anything because men don't lower their standards, and no one tells them to. They're always punching above their weight with no self awareness and they all want a successful high maintenance woman to go above and beyond for him, but what do they bring to the table you ask? the short answer is nothing. Secondly, the pickmes are already enabling these lazy, cheap, porn-positive, sociopathic nvm enough so I'm not adding any more fuel to that dumpster fire. Women don't need …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:41 AM
22

Many men are jealous of kids; they get more time, attention, love and care from women. This is also one of the reasons why men rage about single mothers, they know the children will always come first no matter what and to a narcissistic man who wants to be the center of a woman's world, being second to a child is unacceptable. Men really are just dumb gigantic adult babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:08 PM
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Omg what did I just read? this guy needs psychotherapy not a relationship with any woman, let alone a younger unexperienced woman. He is an absolute train wreck who is disconnected from reality and obviously pornsick because of his obsession with girls ages 18-22 despite being in his early 30s. He actually thinks younger people telling him he's too old to be at college clubs is "younger guys afraid of competition" NO you delusional predator, you're a creep! they know you're too old to be there a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:37 PM
12

Exactly. This buffoon knows he doesn't even have two pennies to rub together let alone 10k? there are wedding rings out there worth 500k or even millions, yet he's saying 10k like he just did something lol I'm WeAk 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:06 AM
45

This is common knowledge. Men will always get salty when we as women refuse to stand in our "respective roles" aka cook, maid, schoolteacher, caregiver, babysitter, housewife etc.(no disrespect to anyone who does these things for a living) or anything that is inherently "woman's work." If we try to expand on our skills or branch out to learn new things as human beings with our own autonomy, they accuse us of trying to imitate men. 🙄 Oh puh-leeze, as if any of us want to be useless, rude, whiny a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:44 AM
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I know this sounds cynical, but I agree. Men have always been problematic since the dawn of time, but now that OnlyFans/tinder/bumble, social media and tons of porn has contributed to the commodification of women, they're 10 times worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:15 AM
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Its a shame it has to get to that point in order for people to start taking abuse seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:20 PM
324

Yes to all of this. Men WILL lie, cheat, steal and play games to get exactly what they want at any cost. Never show them your cards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:00 PM
78

I came here to say exactly that. She's a Quarantine girlfriend(like so many other women are doing right now) she's being used for sex, resources and housework then when life resumes he's going to drop her like a bad habit. It IS terrible that scumbag men are out there using women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:53 PM
74

I truly believe there are men out there who provoke women on purpose. They want a woman to try and defend herself so they have an excuse to use their FULL body strength on her and beat her within an inch of her life. So when the cops show up they can say "She hit me first! it was self-defense!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:00 AM
17

Thank you and it truly surprises me how many hypocrites lurk on this sub. one of them has already commented on this post despite shaming me for my emotions just last week.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:10 PM
43

Omg. This. There are two people on this sub(who shall remain nameless) who have completely invalidated my emotions/anger. They told me my "attitude wasn't helping anyone" and they both accused me of having a "victim mentality" for being justifiably angry about my mistreatment in life. It was all very misogynistic and I felt like I was talking to two men. They were very self-righteous and just wanted me to "get over it" and stop being angry. I will be very surprised if those two people comment on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:42 PM
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You didn't research anything Kyle😆Don't these men know when they say things like this they're telling on themselves? all this says to me is "I hate women because I can't get laid."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:29 AM
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The scrotes are getting creative with their fantasies, lol The whole "wanting to be hit regularly by her psychotic bf who has violent nightmares and beat up three guys in a street fight!" comment gives it away and even pickmes don't talk like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:04 AM
42

Whut? lights off? He is 100% on the DL or a pedophile, its the only explanation at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:44 AM
67

Yup, its only going to get worse from here and she has no idea what she's in for if she stays. Even if she did go get labiaplasty it will not be enough for his broken dick/fried brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:22 AM
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When being a pickme doesn't pay off....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:42 PM
20

The A U D A C I T Y.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:46 AM
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The fact that he equates a woman having a healthy self esteem to having a "shitty attitude" is the worst part about this, besides him having a girlfriend he doesn't deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:42 AM
7

While I'm glad you we're able to make something of yourself at 16 and rise above despite the obstacles in your life, our situations were very different. At 16 I was being physically/sexually abused plus I wasn't allowed to leave the house, so after full 18 years of severe abuse/neglect my mind was so damaged that I could no longer function like a normal person anymore. My whole life was taken from me. It took me years to recover. Today I work two jobs to keep up with everything and put myself th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:34 AM
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The downvotes are from people who lack compassion/empathy and live in a bubble where they had support and everything came easy to them. "Just work hard and you'll be rich!" they love to say. They don't understand that for people who were born into hell and have NO support, guidance or parents to back them up, the good ole "hard work" speech means NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:20 PM
49

Omg, my ex was actually 4-5 inches but he ALWAYS brought magnum/XXL condoms and I shit you not, he would roll up the slack at the end that didn't fit then try to have sex with an ill-fitting condom on. It took everything in me not to laugh at him because the situation was so ridiculous, why do that to yourself? just buy a normal or small condom. So much second hand embarrassment.🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:20 AM
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All these are pretty good and accurate but I usually prefer deadbeat, good for nothing POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:53 AM
36

Agreed. Better yet, lets start shaming men who leave their kids the way they do single mothers who stay and actually take care of their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:06 AM
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Men are so delusional to the point where they start viewing women as a single monolith and believe just because one pickme put up with their pornsickness and disrespect then ALL women will participate and if we choose not to, we're boring prudes and there's something "wrong" with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:30 AM
79

Lol men's actual love language is sex, silence and servitude, only on the woman's part tho. Everything is one-sided in their favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:39 PM
133

Exactly. Men don't date down, so why should we? Last time I checked, we all have eyes and preferences. Women have just been conditioned to accept a man at his lowest point in life by society and men know they have this working in their favor, this is why you see broke, unattractive men with bad hygiene who have high standards wanting to date 10/10 women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:18 PM
27

Lol "50/50" its more like 80/20 0r 90/10 these days on the woman's part. Low-effort men really do think as long as he's working and he's not hitting her or the kids that everything is "perfect" and she's nagging and ungrateful over nothing. Him bragging about not taking his wife on dates or never doing couple stuff with her on top of all the emotional labor/childrearing/housework she does for him and the kids with NO thanks or appreciation is going to backfire on him, and I wont be surprised if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:50 PM
254

This is the result of a patriarchal society letting men get away with everything and act like rabid animals, while shaming women for being justifiably angry/upset over something in the same breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:19 PM
11

I have two reddit accounts for this exact reason, if you go to any male-dominated subreddit and try to comment(and they don't like your comment), all it takes is one misinformed person to look at your post history, see FDS, start harassing/bullying you over it and get others to join in too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:32 AM
340

I can't believe he had the nerve to say he knows his rights after violating her rights, WTF!? the absolute audacity. He is not invincible and he can get in serious trouble for this, someone point this poor girl to r/legaladvice and FDS stat. I hope she presses FULL charges on this POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:29 PM
3

Exactly, men know what they're supposed to do in relationships. They just don't want to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:19 PM
52

To be honest I don't think there's any way to be %100 sure of a man's true intentions. The only advice I can give for this is to leave at the first tiny red flag, don't wait around for the next one or a bigger one, many men start introducing bad behavior/abuse to women in small doses to see how much we'll tolerate and because its harder to catch when it immediately happens. "Oh he's just having a bad day!" or "he just doesn't feel good today, he wont do it again" is what most women tell themselv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:04 PM
60

This is some serious triangulation her bf is playing on both of them. I hope she breaks up with him, not worth the trouble👎🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:50 AM
4

Very true, so many women(including myself) have been guilty of this, thinking if we go above and beyond for someone he'll change his behavior. I'm glad she saw through his BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:48 AM
145

I don't trust any adult man who has Snapchat or TikTok because 9 times out of 10 they're using it to get nudes from women/teenage girls or jack off to videos of women/teenage girls🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:19 PM
113

So true, this guy is delusional and I don't think he understands just how much work goes into agriculture, gardening, raising livestock, building a farm, buying/tilling land etc. those things are NOT easy and require what he hates the most: work. The reality is he wants to sit on his ass 7 days a week playing video games, hanging out with friends and using his extended break to "find himself" aka party, live like a frat boy and possibly cheat on his wife with other women while she's funding his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:35 PM
78

My ex tried to hit me up last Christmas to ask if he could come spend the holidays at my house(I said no). Can you believe that? I was fuming because he had the audacity to act as if we ended on good terms and were "friends," when in reality he made my life a living hell when we were together(physical/emotional/sexual abuse, narc, pornsick, tried to ruin my life by spreading rumors, etc.) My sister checked him out on Facebook and dude has hit the wall hard at 100 mph, He is fat balding, deep wri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:35 PM
164

OMG I wish I could send this to every pickme and libfem woman and show them the REALITY of the patriarchy, double standards and why they shouldn't EVER support "sex work" the porn industry, OnlyFans or prostitution. The very men they support and cater to will use them and discard them like trash afterwards with no remorse or shame because they don't see us as people just objects. They want to be able to take advantage of women, use us for sex, make us pay on dates, pay their rent, bills, mortgag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:15 PM
32

They really do think we're all as stupid and simple minded as they are. More projection from the bottom of the barrel brain-dead scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:47 PM
184

She finally caught the "Ick," good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:07 PM
376

I see she has caught the inevitable "ick." All he ever does is eat, sleep, shit and play video games while she works, cooks, cleans, gives massages and buys him a crap-ton of gifts. He does nothing for her yet he's "cOnFuSeD" as to why she's no longer attracted to him and wants him to move out. Gee..... I wonder why? could it be because you're a lazy, selfish, unmotivated NVM with zero ambition who expects her to fund your lifestyle while you sit on your ass doing nothing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:03 PM
64

He IS mooching off her because he works part-time and builds his career/education while she works full time, yet he still makes her go '50/50.' Part time is a very miniscule amount of money to bring home (especially in this economy), it wont even cover all the utilities/food so I'm guessing its more like 80/20 or 90/10 on her part. He kept his spanish speaking skills a secret on purpose so he can listen in on her family's private convos, plus there's no telling how long he's been doing this. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:37 AM
146

The sad part is even if she was skinny and his "dream girl" he would still think he can do better than her and find something to complain about, I've seen it happen before and delusional men like this are never happy or satisfied. Dump him!👎🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:06 AM
168

Reason #2745690 of why I'm staying single. Imagine loving and caring for someone only to find out they hate your freaking guts, in actual fact they want to beat the living daylights out of you over nothing. Its just not worth it and men do not deserve us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:51 AM
45

A little off topic, but I am SO sick of people calling healthy romantic relationships "vanilla." It makes me angry that people are trying so hard to normalize abuse and suffering in relationships. This has the same energy as men calling other men "simps" for doing something nice for their wife/gf or treating women with respect in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:03 AM
38

Um, what? this is nothing to brag about. This is one of those things you put back in the recesses of your mind and never speak about again, she should only bring it up every now and then as a cautionary tale to remind herself of what NOT to do next time. But she's proud of it? poor woman, she's lost in the Pickme matrix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:18 PM
53

Control. In their tiny delusional baboon brains, everything a woman does is for them. We're "property, cattle", etc. and they tell us who and what we are depending on how fuckable or unfuckable we look. So you can imagine their anger when a woman( especially a conventionally unattractive one) decides to completely disregard their opinion and live life for themselves and NOT men. They incorrectly believe women are supposed to be desperate, scrambling and fighting over any attention they decide to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:11 PM
455

I'm a former foster kid. I do not know who my father is and I've never met him. One thing that truly pisses me off, is men making fun of or criticizing women for not having a father instead of placing the blame where it belongs: on the POS father. Its all bullshit and its just another way to blame women for men's short-comings and bad behavior just like every other problem in this world men have created but once again take zero accountability for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:44 PM
19

So true, its like they're all going by the same blueprint because I keep seeing them do and say the same disgusting things over and over again with zero shame. They really just don't care and think women are supposed to accept them even if they are total POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:39 AM
24

That's my first thought. I don't trust any grown man who has TikTok or Snapchat etc. because 9 times out of 10 they're using it to lurk on teenage girls/young women's profiles🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:45 AM
6

Lol men want a trophy for adulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:05 AM
4

He got his ever loving nerve to have a checklist for women when he looks like a mixture of The Nutty Professor and Rasputia from Norbit. And they love to say women have unrealistic standards for men, yeah right🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:03 AM
24

Same. My last ex cheated on me for this very reason, he couldn't wait for sex. I've been passed on for easier women also, because my standards were too high and I have low tolerance for games and disrespect. This used to make me feel bad when I was younger, almost like I was missing out because I had to see all my friends and family in relationships while I remained single for long periods of time, but looking back I'm so grateful because I've saved myself from so much stress. I valued my own co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:30 AM
154

This. I noticed a lot of men think its just a small percentage of men running around hurting women and truly believe the delusion that good men outnumber bad men so women are just being "dramatic" or "not choosing the right guys"(classic victim blaming) The truth is LVM outnumber HVM by the thousands and many of them don't want to admit or believe many of their friends, brothers, fathers and even themselves are opportunistic violent predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:42 PM
91

I never have and why would I? so I can be gaslit? so I can be told my problems aren't real and don't exist? so some arrogant manlet who will never have a period or give birth in his entire life try to explain my own body functions to me? so I can be lied to and told "not all men?" or worse given a bunch of whataboutery? No. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:15 AM
5

Very true, any man who actually believes in what this guy says is very out of touch with reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:57 AM
181

Men don't deserve us. At ALL. The more depraved, messed up, hypocritical, nonsense I read, the more I am convinced of this. I really hope she doesn't break her resolve and marry this guy because he already hates her guts! plus he's one of those religious types meaning he believes her place is in the kitchen or the bedroom which is also the reason he picked a younger women so he could easily manipulate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:30 AM
30

I think a man wrote this, it reads like a poorly thought out romantic fiction book and the whole thing just sounds off, plus a lot of things don't add up. Lastly whoever this is sounds like they're trying to push an agenda rather than share an actual experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:02 AM
203

This. Women his age don't want him, he's inferior and bitter about it so he thinks he's getting back at older women for rejecting him by claiming younger women are "better." Classic revenge fantasy bullshit, its so typical of weak men like him who can't keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:34 AM
39

Besides all the obvious lies and misinformation, this imbecile just outed himself as a predator. This deranged and delusional sicko actually said "women" MID-TEENS to mid-twenties is perfect for saggy nasty 35-40+ year old scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:19 AM
2

my doormat pickme mother and various foster parents raised me to be a "good girl." "Be quiet, be agreeable, don't rock the boat, don't start a fight, don't say anything, don't stand up for yourself, if you are quiet things will be a lot easier for you, why are you starting trouble? why are you being mean? why are you being a bitch? all men hit/yell/kick or hurt you just power through it and wait until its over just be silent! don't ever yell, you are not allowed to be angry, its not ladylike to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:32 AM
7

Lol exactly. What a delusional prick🙄 I hope she leaves him, he is just wasting her time/youth/money at this point and he obviously he doesn't deserve her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:20 PM
139

"Why hasn't he proposed or bought me a ring yet?" And why would he? take a look around you, he already has it made in the shade. So why get married when you're already cooking for him, cleaning, sharing a home, going 50/50 on bills etc., giving him children and playing house. He's got all the privileges of having a wife without ever having to commit to her. He just has her around because she makes his life 1000 times easier and he's keeping his options open just in case his "dReAm GiRl" shows up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:40 AM
99

Lol at Mr. brokeNsweaty, he's so desperate and thirsty for women's attention that he has to harass them daily. It doesn't matter what outdated rhetoric these baby manlets continue to spew, we don't care and we're NOT listening. Blocked and deleted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:06 PM
2

makes sense, they all sound as crazy as they love to make women sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:14 PM
82

Your comment has been removed for violation of the following rules: "Telling women the truth."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:12 PM
137

You could do everything right and follow every rule in the "cool girl" handbook and you will still get cheated on or treated like crap. Your great personality wont save you either. There's no amount of makeup, plastic surgery, diet, exercise or winning of the genetic lottery that will make a man act right if HE doesn't want to, that's a personal choice on his part and if he chooses to treat you as a non-factor despite you doing everything in your power to please him, then that is how he feels ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:49 AM
1

If you go on r/TwoXChromosomes this is exactly what's going on. That entire subreddit is a mess because men are allowed to comment. Women get their experiences invalidated and shut down, women have to edit their posts so the men's feefees don't get hurt, and if you don't edit your posts to say "not all men" prepare for harassment DMs from booty hurt scrotes. example 1: "Not every man" : TwoXChromosomes (reddit.com) example 2: I'd never, ever told a man that his experiences were invalid, yet as a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:43 AM
2

My mother is like this. I had to distance myself from her because of this and she never changes her situation, she just keeps complaining and putting up with bad behavior/bad people/bad situations then expecting sympathy from me and others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:13 AM
42

I will never understand the mgtow movement. They rant and rave all day about how they hate us and how they're much happier, richer, without us etc. etc. then they go off and do stuff like this.🤡 Lol I bet he angrily tosses that doll in the closet after having sex with it, then feeling disgusted/ashamed at himself he goes on reddit to talk shit about women for hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:44 AM
24

This reminds me of a reddit post I seen a while back on r/unpopularopinion where a guy was saying waiters/waitresses shouldn't be tipped at all. When I read the post, I found out the real reason he was upset was because his gf was a waitress and bringing home $200 in tips and making more than him, while he worked in a "highly specialized tech field" with several degrees. Men just can't stand it when we are doing better than them, I'm glad you dropped that jealous dead weight he did not deserve y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:51 AM
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lol these kind of men lurk all day on the internet rating women they will never have a chance with as "4s,3s and 2s" when NOBODY asked for their crusty ass opinion. Meanwhile they look like Grendel the Troll from Beowolf and smell like hot flaming garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:42 PM
64

Internalized misogyny, low self esteem, believing men are the prize, competing with other women gives them an ego boost. etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:13 PM
100

The Great Gatsby, 500 days of Summer, The Wolf of Wall Street, You.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:59 PM
3

Wow that's not funny in the slightest, glad you cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:13 PM
110

Imagine being this entitled and deluded. This guy has absolutely nothing to offer and brings nothing to the table except limp dick, dust and bubblegum, yet he still believes he deserves a 10/10 supermodel type beauty queen who makes 80,000+ a year.🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:08 PM
240

A lot of closeted misogynists call themselves "feminist" as a performative gesture. It means nothing to them, except a way to fool women into having sex with/dating them or trusting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:12 PM
261

I feel so bad for any woman who decides to date this POS. Basically you have to have enough ambition to have a minimal education/menial job to go 50/50 with him for bills, rent, food etc. but not enough ambition to out-shine him, make more money and take away attention from him🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:45 PM
145

Insults are not "jokes." Name calling is not a joke. Bringing up personal issues to hurt someone is not funny. Being an ill-tempered "honest" asshole is not funny. Demeaning and degrading people(women) does not make you a comedian. If more men realized this and stopped, they wouldn't have to worry about "women not having a sense of humor." Its not that we don't have a sense of humor, you're just not funny, you never were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:22 PM
4

Its idiots like this who are the first to die. I'm not surprised at all because what do men do these days except watch porn, play vidya 24/7 and gorge on junk food all day. They can't cook or clean for themselves, can't properly wash/wipe their a$$ and can barely work a 6hr shift at work. No survival skills, no plans, no common sense, just an irrational need for sex while they're starving to death and dying of thirst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:07 PM
28

Since he wants to be Mr. Bad Ass on Facebook he can eat Thanksgiving dinner for the next several years by himself because the next dinner I'll be cooking for him is a burnt charred steak with DIVORCE PAPERS on the side. F this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:10 PM
13

Thank you! It was years ago but after the other woman found out about his lies she didn't want anything to do with him and I broke up with him 2 days later, so he was left "empty handed" so there's a small happy ending.🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:00 PM
34

I would also like to add if they start fights with you out of the blue or for no reason. When my ex was cheating he would look for the tiniest reason to get mad at me then have these "big blowups" and start screaming and yelling at me, then leave and not talk to me FOR DAYS. These moments terrified me and I was always walking on eggshells, over-analyzing everything I did, trying to do everything right etc. but no matter what I was always the bad guy and nothing I did was ever good enough. Turns …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:32 PM
25

Lies, lies and more lies. Sites like this contribute to men's entitlement, self-delusion and already over-inflated egos. And those pictures mean nothing, its just a fairy tale to sell to the desperate male masses. There's no telling where he actually stole those photos from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:21 PM
29

Somebody needs to post this in the relationship/dating advice subs because the people on those subs are EXTREMELY confused on what a healthy relationship is supposed to be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:14 PM
45

Men: " Women need to lower their standards! stop being shallow, not everything is about Chad and his good looks! Give all dusted, busted, crusted and musted men a chance! Give the ugly, broke, nice guy who needs psychiatric help a chance!" ​ Also Men: "She must be a 10/10 supermodel type who is a virgin but knows every move in the Kama Sutra, slim with big boobs and a nice rounded bubble butt, a pretty face with a tiny waist, hairless except for her long hair, brows and eyelashes but ALL natural…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:18 PM
145

Lol at the men who really think they are geniuses for doing this. Years ago before FDS, my narc ex used to text me some mystical, spiritual, soulmate/twin flame mumbo jumbo between the hours of 9pm and 6am. He would get so angry with me because I always replied "what do you want now?"🤣 A man who texts you between the hours of 9pm and 6am is always looking for sex aka a booty call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:12 AM
161

WTF is wrong with men? they act like having a girlfriend/wife is SO problematic🙄 then why do you manbabies keep pursuing us? if we're impeding with you're precious "time with the boys" then just STAY SINGLE you degenerate, good for absolutely nothing jacka$$. Too many men want all the benefits of a relationship but still want to act single. Truly disgusting behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:19 PM
7

No. Just no. This is NOT empowerment and I know people deal with trauma in different ways but this is not it. This was extremely dangerous/risky and she could have been hurt or worse. Please see a therapist, scream, cry, break things if you have to, anything just never go back to your abuser, ever. Plus I seriously doubt she felt better after reliving her rape and cheating on her boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:55 PM
80

And I'm willing to bet he was going to expect sex after that cheap clownery too.🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:23 PM
3

so true🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:33 PM
64

Lol when men think they're the prize🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:32 PM
91

Its about control. Its a way for men who don't have a lot of money, prestige, respect, accomplishments or good looks to feel powerful. LVM can't get the women they want so what do they do? lie and say "she's a solid 3/4/5 anyway etc." Its basically a cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:22 AM
26

I thought the same thing then I looked it up. It really is a whole mess https://www.the-sun.com/news/1855719/nigerian-playboy-wedding-six-pregnant-women-claiming-fathered-all/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:07 PM
129

How about you mind your own business and stop watching so much porn 24/7, then maybe you wouldn't be so morbidly obsessed with pretty strangers you don't even know to the point of literal insanity. Stop it. Get some psychiatric help. This post is straight up disturbing and he sounds like the type that will stalk a woman just because she was kind to him once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:57 PM
15

YES. If I could upvote this comment a million times I would, never give lvm/nvm a chance. EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:39 PM
73

"And the awards for Best LVM and Best pickme supporting actress goes to......."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:18 PM
66

For real, I do not understand how some women can have make-up sex after fighting, I don't even like to be touched when I'm angry. I just don't get it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:43 AM
6

Its not surprising. Everyone worships this guy and LV men praise him to the sky, so of course he thinks he's a god. I once had a guy foaming at the mouth because I dared to say something bad about "his preciousss"(smegol voice)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:12 AM
32

Same, Its on my mom's birthday and I'm just like no way. Not ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:11 AM
86

I'm SO tired of men trying to compete with women over the most ridiculous and arbitrary non-existent crap. Seriously, they can f**k right off with this one🙄🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:08 AM
57

"Bu....But... how can we control you if you're smarter than us and can make your own money? "How do we get sex? how do we LiVe!!!????" dEaR gOd wIll soMebOdy PLEASE tInk Of thE mEN!!" "How DARE you be better than men at something! This is misandrist 'fEmAle privilege!"🤪 -- Sincerely, The "rational" gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:38 PM
119

This is the conclusion I've come to.... Be the confident hot wife/girlfriend in public. Just in public. Therefore you become the object of envy to outsiders looking in giving bf/husband an ego boost.( basically make him look good) Be the submissive, quiet "cool girl" in private who tolerates abuse, remembers her "place" and plays therapist while never questioning him, disagreeing with him or having you're own opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:22 PM
58

Personally I just ignore men who prioritize men/boys over women/girls whenever I feel those feelings creeping up and watch videos on YouTube of fathers who love their daughters and are more than happy to be spending time/playing with them. Real HVM don't care about the gender of their kid, they just want them to come out healthy. On a side note, EM may be "academically smart" and successful but that's about it. He treated his ex-wives like objects/trophies and would make them bleach their hair, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:58 PM
26

Yup, its always the men who can barely wash/wipe their own buttcrack or pay for anything by themselves so they need "50/50" trying to tell a woman who she can't see or what she can't do etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:37 PM
4

LOL 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:25 AM
20

Yeah right, those men don't care about homeless men, male suicides, or whatever they choose to argue about or else they'd be addressing the Patriarchy, not women. IMD is being used to shut women up, PERIOD. This is about playing the game of "who had it worse," invalidating women's experiences, letting all their misogyny hang out plus gaslighting us and telling us we're the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:23 AM
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Look up "Reactive Abuse" on the internet and suddenly everything will start making perfect sense. I realized that a lot of "crazy ex-gfs" are victims of covert narcissist predators who abuse them in private and literally push them to their breaking point. Then when the victim finally explodes and loses their freaking mind from constant emotional/mental manipulation, he can play the good guy and start setting up his smear campaign and start recruiting his "flying monkeys" aka trying to turn famil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:34 PM
166

As usual men wanting "wifey things" from women while they continue to act single and contribute absolutely nothing. This is just as ridiculous as those "girlfriend tests" that men like to pull on women they're dating to see if she's wife (aka good slave) material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:17 PM
46

Lol at the men who actually believe in this BS and really think this is going to help them get laid. They're in for a L O N G, lonely, desperate and miserable life. Plays the song "U and UR hand" by P!nk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:28 PM
2

Lol🤣 for real tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:15 PM
230

So he's a lying, pornsick, unemployed, entitled, time wasting fool who is argumentative with anger issues and no patience. Sounds like a "great" guy.🤢 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:12 PM
151

😴😴😴😴😴Me when he texts a number that he's been blocked by at 2am and I'm perfectly content and sleeping soundly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:13 AM
2

Also a possibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:26 AM
79

Ew. Just.....no. It sounds like he's testing her and trying to introduce her to some kind of gross age regressive kink mess. 🤢🤮 soon he'll start pooping/pissing in diapers and wanting her to clean it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:53 PM
50

Plus a cheap $5-10 bouquet of wilted roses from the corner store/grocery store is also UNEXCEPTABLE. My own mother goes to an actual flower shop and buys me a beautiful custom arrangement from time to time, and she doesn't even have a whole lot of money. So there's no excuse for these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:18 PM
49

It all boils down to control. To men, we are who they say we are. That's why men HATE women who are confident and outspoken with high self esteem who doesn't care about their opinion or feefees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:18 AM
38

If anyone is looking for the true definition of a gold-digger, this is it. He doesn't give a shit about her, he's trying to use her to move up in life and advance in his career. This happens to women all the time, its just not spoken about the way women are shamed for being "gOlDdigGers🙄there are men out there who are always looking for the easiest way out and they will take take and take with no remorse or shame. I hope she gets out of this without spending a dime on this leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:04 AM
12

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:10 AM
87

"you're not like other girls" "I like/love that you're low maintenance" "Its good that you're strong and independent" "Wow, you're really good at driving/math/gaming/(insert any male dominated hobby/task occupation here)etc."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:03 AM
243

I agree so much. I'm in my early 20s and most of the men my age are entitled, porn-sick, lazy man children who lurk on Snapchat/IG/TikTok all day lusting after other women/teenagers, then spend the other half of the day gaming. Plus at the same time wanting women to cook, clean, protect and provide while they do absolutely nothing but offer stress, limp dick and bubblegum.🤢 No thank you, I'd rather be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:58 PM
163

Holy gaslighting. Men will ask for sex then say they didn't lol🙄 they really do think we're all stupid and desperate. We all know what he was planning, there's no way he was inviting you on a trip for free just to "catch up and hang out." He was %100 dead set on getting casual sex out of those 4 days with you. Good on you for shutting him down, bet he wasn't expecting that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:37 PM
92

"I've been used/hurt/cheated on in the past so idgaf anymore." Translation: "I am going to make every women who comes in contact with me miserable on purpose, I am a black bottomless pit of a person and my past failed relationships(that I take NO responsibility for) give me an excuse to let my hatred for women hang out, so you have to constantly prove to me you're "not like the other girls" yet I will never be pleased and nothing you do will ever be good enough." On a side note, I've noticed "cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:49 PM
11

Exactly, Its supposed to work "in theory" but all I can imagine is some sweaty, nervous guy mumbling and making a complete fool out of himself while both women start laughing at him, then he walks away with his pride/ego hurt and cries in the car on the way back to his mothers house/roommates apt, gets angry, trashes women on reddit for an hour, jerks off watching porn, then falls asleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:22 PM
109

Translation: "Lets see if you are a submissive doormat who laughs at all my bad misogynistic jokes, can handle insults and negging on the daily, plus many forms of emotional and mental abuse. If you even attempt to call me out on anything, you are too sensitive, a drama queen, crazy/mentally ill and therefore have a "bad personality with no sense of humor." haha your loss lol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:56 PM
140

This is a classic PUA tactic. Its supposed to make the "hot girl" desperate for his attention, a woman with low self esteem will scramble trying to "prove herself" to him. Plus its supposed to make the two friends fight amongst themselves giving the offender a massive ego boost and to open up the possibility of sleeping with both women. Truly disgusting behavior.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:12 AM
137

"She wears too much makeup" "she's stupid/low IQ" "she's bad in bed" "she's shallow/a bitch" "she's a gold-digger." Insecure men will always talk shit about women out of their league while secretly lusting after them. ALWAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:46 AM
81

It sounds like her sisters boyfriend is attracted to her. Plus I'm glad she refuses to shave because if she were to shave her legs, he'll see it as an invitation and I'm willing to bet he has some sort of pornsick sister fantasy he wants to try out and then brag about to his friends. Either that or its about control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:20 AM
139

More proof that men don't really see us as human beings. He speaks as if women get pregnant and have periods just to inconvenience men and its some sort of crime against humanity that he doesn't get to rape women without legal repercussions. Imagine being this stupid as well as entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:21 PM
57

Wow, there's SO many because my ex was a pathological liar, lets see here.... He lied about his birthday, he would tell people he was born in May, April or June, his real birthday was March 18. He would lie about his height saying he was 6' ft. tall when in reality he was 5'8(huge difference) He would blow small stories out of proportion (saying he's been shot or stabbed before, but his cousin whos known him all his life would tell me that never happened.) Telling people he has an allergy to Oni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:59 PM
26

What could you do? hmm... I don't know, maybe clean up after yourself! do your own laundry, dishes and chores, cook dinner for HER, lighten the load, make her life a bit easier. Just because you work full time, doesn't mean you are exempt from daily housework🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:17 AM
19

For real, that was my first thought. What kind of recycled, played-out, generic TV show "insight" can a 21 yr old offer to grown men? absolutely nothing that we as women don't already know about, that's what. There's no amount of profile tweaking in the world that's going to help a LVM get a HVW, its so much more complicated and requires a lot more work than just "knowing the right words to say."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:21 PM
57

Why on earth do men think being middle aged is their prime? who lied to them? that's literally when everything starts going down hill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:10 PM
2

When The Problem asks you what the problem is. Smh 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:59 PM
52

What's worse is that other women are parroting this absolute BS. I see this everywhere now. Tiktok, snapchat, Instagram, in comment sections etc. So many women running around brainwashed and bringing up men whenever women's issues come up. They are even going so far as to say you are not a real "feminist" if you don't: Support/build with men, treat them like babies/children, deal with their crap, play free therapist, etc. I've even seen a pickme say in a YT comment section that she's "scared for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:45 PM
103

WTF is this? she's a preschool teacher! how is she supposed to dress? like TeacherBae? This guy is an absolute clown and he doesn't deserve her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:42 AM
32

I swear some of these men are on the DL, they could give James Charles a run for his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:45 AM
87

H Y P O C R I T E S. every single last one of them. I lurk on other subs sometimes and the amount of filth I have seen on various subreddits is nothing short of horrific. Misogyny, anime pedo porn, naked women, subreddits dedicated to boobs and/or bums, videos of people being shot or stabbed, misogynoir, women being rated on their looks, bullying, harassment, blatant proud racism, videos/posts of assault, violence and depravity. There are people(not you) on this website that should have been ban…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:29 AM
51

I can't believe she's defending him in the 2nd paragraph, girl he IS disgusting. I'm willing to bet she still gives him oral sex knowing he's filthy and needs a bath🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:50 PM
74

He's using her. Its only a matter of time before he throws her out of the house completely for another woman. I hope she hires a lawyer or seeks legal counsel because $35,000 is spending WAY too much money just to not have your name on the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:13 PM
3

Also true, it all boils down to trying to have control over women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:53 PM
34

They really are grasping at non existent straws trying SO hard to be the victim.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:44 PM
18

Right? I suspect her mom might already know about it, but doesn't say anything out of secondhand embarrassment or just not knowing what to do about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:14 PM
74

His brain is a fried egg and his dick is an overcooked limp noodle. Porn is turning men into useless zombies whos one function is to jerk off all day in a trashed house while he's waiting for you to come home after a 12 hour shift to clean up and cook him a hot meal. Their relationship is a whole a$$ joke and I hope she wises up and leaves him soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:28 PM
202

Men say they want someone thicc but call women "fat" and shame them for gaining weight. They'll also shame you for not having big boobs/ass or say you're too skinny. If we enjoy sex, we're gross "ran-through whores" we don't have sex, we're prudes and we need to lighten up. They'll tell you they hate pink/blue/green hair, too much makeup and tattoos but will cheat on you with the exact woman they said they didn't like. Men will say they wouldn't want their daughter or wife to be a stripper/prost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:37 AM
8

💕💖💕💖 you're welcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:25 PM
49

That woman gave you awful advice, pretending to be someone you're not isn't going to work out in the end because eventually you'll get tired/frustrated of being the "chill, always happy" girlfriend, and whoever you're dating will see through that too. Secondly, her advice ties into the incredibly sexist way of thinking that men have about women, for example if a woman has any emotion other than happy, she is "crazy," "causing drama", being difficult or aggressive etc. Women are human beings abov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:17 PM
19

I agree. I feel Black mermaid is probably a covert narcissist after watching a few of her videos (she ticks a lot of boxes) and I had to unsubscribe from shera7 because her videos became too long, plus I don't like how she encourages age gap relationships. I think most of these channels give women bad advice and follow the patriarchy's definition of what a woman is supposed to act like, plus I feel like certain coaches secretly pander to men as well as women. At the end of the day its all about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:39 AM
22

Sorry about that.....Its times like this I wish the memory neutralizer from Men in Black was real lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:56 AM
253

"Cuffing season," more like "hunting season" because that's when all the lying, users and predators come out the woodwork trying to waste a woman's time, money and resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:41 AM
10

That too, how could I forget lol🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:42 PM
64

The only reason LV men with kids like to date is so that they get a built-in maid/babysitter. I'm convinced none of them actually want to deal with their kids on a daily basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:24 PM
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This is all fine and dandy UNTIL he ghosts/breadcrumbs her after getting easy sex and then she's running to the advice subreddits asking "I lowered my standards, accepted netfix/pizza dates and did anal but now he wont talk to me, what did I do wrong?" "He's really rude, cheap and selfish, but overall he's a really nice guy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:47 PM
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I may be reaching but the guy she's dating is probably a narcissist, they make you work EXTRA hard for their love and attention and nothing you do is ever good enough. Maybe this is the reason she felt like she had to do something so drastic to prove herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:13 AM
104

"Too opinionated" Translation: "you don't share the exact same ideas as me, why aren't you fighting to win my approval? You are supposed to be submissive, passive and agreeable to my liking at all times."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:04 AM
67

P R O J E C T I O N. Its them who need us and they hate that dynamic because it makes them feel like helpless little boys, so they lie to themselves with "philosophic bs" just to feel better about being inadequate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:53 AM
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Ikr? "wE're aBoUt tO hIt ouR 23rd aNniVeRserY🤪🥴 I'm willing to bet they are both miserable, he probably ignores her all day and lurks on IG, OF, and porn to get his "teenager fix"🤢 for his limp noodle. While she's secretly resentful she wasted her youth and time on this fool who she realizes will eventually become old, then she'll have to take on more responsibility than she has now. There's no telling how many times he's cheated on her and how much housework and 50/50 bullcrap she's been doing.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:41 AM
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Exactly👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:21 AM
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They're mad because its the truth, the lack of real world experience is astounding. They don't want to admit that situation is most likely the case, They want to think every relationship is a happy ending and the husband is a "prince" just as long as he's not hitting her. Once again the bar is on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:05 AM
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I agree with this also. This is a direct result of ending the vetting process too early and the settling mentality. We all should use this as a cautionary tale on what NOT to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:42 AM
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She just told on herself and said in so many words that her husband doesn't help her with the kids AT ALL. How do you not have time to wash your face? the basics!? I'll tell you how: when you spend all day/night changing diapers, running errands, doing feedings, constantly cleaning, making snacks, cooking breakfast/dinner, doing laundry and waking up at various times in the middle of the night to comfort a crying baby while your SO/husband(whatever) doesn't even bother to get up or help. Yet whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:20 AM
43

Wow, that's awful. I'm sorry that happened to you, 14-24!?😱 He is such a horrible person for taking advantage of you and wasting your time like that! The good news is that you're still young and have the rest of your life ahead of you and I'm glad you found FDS so you know what to watch out for in the future.💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:00 AM
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​ She will have to drag him to the altar by dropping hints(sending IG photos of rings/dresses), giving him ultimatums or even pressuring him to get a ring and set a date. I watch this scenario play out all the time on advice subreddits by exhausted pickmes wondering why their "bf of 10 years" hasn't proposed yet. He hasn't proposed yet because he's keeping his options open. He thinks he can do better than her and he wants to have the free option to leave just in case his "dReAm GiRl" shows up. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:56 PM
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This is so important! age is a big indicator too, watch out for the man who is in his 30s and 40s and still working beginner/entry level jobs(fast food, retail) and has never even thought of going to college or "says he's still trying to find himself."🚩🚩🚩 This means he has NO plans for the future(or he wants you to help him build a future) and he is most likely financially irresponsible. He wasted his 20s high, drinking, partying or just being plain lazy living off his parents and thinking the g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:13 AM
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He doesn't like you, he likes what you do for him. He likes the free sex, cooking, cleaning, childcare/babysitting, emotional support, subsidized rent, not worrying about bills etc. He doesn't like you, he likes how you make his life a 1000 times easier. I don't care what anyone says, men are the ultimate "gold-diggers."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:24 PM
16

My ex was like this. He didn't have any positive or redeeming personality traits so he borrowed phrases, habits and hobbies from other people, movies, TV shows etc.🙄 Its possible he does this because it makes him look "cool/badass" and will make it easier for him to get laid. This has the same energy as the men who claim to be "feminists" just so women will have sex with them. I think its a sign of immaturity/insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:50 PM
68

Future faking💍 and carrot dangling🥕 the oldest manipulation tactic in the book and the hallmark of an obsessive psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:48 PM
63

Block and delete. Ignore and Ignore. "Closure" after a bad relationship is the biggest myth man has invented, Men do not care about what you have to say and they are not going to listen. Instead they are actually hoping you'll come back and "try to talk some sense into them" just so they can gaslight you, manipulate the conversation and twist the situation around on you to make you look like the a$$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:32 PM
3

That's so sweet!💕 you're father sounds like an amazing person😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:33 PM
50

This is what too much porn does to people. On a side note men who brag about their supposed sexual skills are usually horrible in bed, here's what really happens: No foreplay, lots of jackhammering while you're dry, no oral(for you) or clitoral stimulation and limp noodling after a few minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:25 PM
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Lol 🤣 he could've just said "I'm gay" and went on with his life but men ALWAYS try so hard to act intelligent and wax poetic about simple things, as if they are these philosophical beings who have transcended to a higher plane of existence, like they do with polyamory🙄 also he says he prefers men who literally dress and wear makeup like women but thinks actual women are too masculine? that makes NO sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:07 PM
32

The cheap "coffee/walk date" alone shows this isn't his dream girl. He just wants to have sex with her but he's so desperate he can't tell the difference🤪🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:28 PM
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This. We don't even have to be moderately attractive, rich or have a perfect body to get laid and it burns them up inside. They hate us for it. That's why they made up the false concept of "FeMaLe pRiViLege" as if that makes up for the discrimination, domestic violence, pay gap, femicide, rape and all the other terrible things women go through.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:10 AM
70

This sounds like grooming. No wait, it is grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:53 AM
8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3hTwsvJV_A
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:30 AM
6

Internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:46 AM
14

True this may be a lesbian couple, but one of them has a LOT of internalized misogyny. She must watch a lot of porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:44 AM
66

So right! 18 is just what they can legally get away with in USA, if they could go younger they would. Even the age of consent in japan is 13🤢😱 this is why I DO NOT trust men who brag about going overseas to different countries to find women, because its usually to prey on and take advantage of young women and little girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:40 AM
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This is the usual. Men always want praise and accolades for doing the same things women do 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. Taking care of your kids and spending time with them is the bare minimum, its what you're supposed to be doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:22 AM
9

Exactly 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:08 AM
58

His post reeks of entitlement. Men like this always feel women owe them even if they are short, unattractive, broke etc. and are resentful they don't get to date the women they truly want, therefore he feels wronged like he missed out on one of the "most important fundamentals of a mans life"🙄 So instead of self reflection, he chooses to blame women as a whole for being "shallow" and goes out of his way to catfish the "shallow" women he thinks he deserves. Hypocrite. and he's not being 100% trut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:56 PM
96

Just say you're gay and go😂 Seriously the last two paragraphs are absolutely disgusting🤢 I have said this before and I'll say it again: Princess mentality on a man is UNATTRACTIVE. Men who want to be treated like "the prize" aka pampered, waited on, courted, "spoiled" and treated like a woman on a date or in a relationship is a huge turn off. Just date another man and leave women alone. He's not going to attract the women he really wants with this mentality anyway..... women don't owe men sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:18 PM
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I just saw a post on r/niceguys of a man calling a woman "misandrist" just because she wasn't interested in a hookup with him. Victim mentality isn't attractive on a man and men trying to compete in The Oppression Olympics against women over a system/society that MEN themselves have created is the ultimate pinnacle of stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:07 PM
149

Just say you're looking for free prostitution and go.😒He's really looking for someone to help him cheat on his wife, these men really have no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:36 PM
17

Ugh. I had flashbacks about my pickme mother from this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:41 AM
14

Exactly, did she even hear herself? does she think women are out here getting themselves pregnant?🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:32 AM
50

Same. My ex said "You're not being realistic and that's just life" when I told him I didn't want to be treated badly in a relationship. He would use the ole' "hard knocks of life" speech calling me "spoiled" and saying I wanted things to be easy. Then he'd complain about how all his friends had "cool, chill girlfriends" and why couldn't I be more like them. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:29 AM
47

This woman has so much internalized misogyny in her its disgusting🤢 There's so much to unpack! She favors men! why doesn't she just admit it? she's still clamoring for male validation even at her age. "boys don't bring babies home." WTF is she talking about? There are more deadbeat dads running around than there is single moms. Where is the accountability? there's no personal responsibility at all for men in her crazy a$$ head. This kind of favoritism is what's breeding all these entitled man ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:03 PM
15

Men also think feminism is a woman being able to take a punch. That's what equality means to them(other than us paying for everything), which is beating us senseless without legal repercussions. This is why they are trying so hard to make BDSM normal and okay and anyone who disagrees is "kInKsHaMiNG." This is their only loophole into abusing us and getting away with it, if anything goes wrong(murder or severe injury), oopsies! just blame it on "rough sex!"🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:03 PM
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Lol Apparently this is also the reason why they don't bathe properly, wear deodorant or wipe between their ass after #2🤢 They think only gay men are supposed to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:11 PM
50

They always talk about women who are way out of their league as if they had a chance in the first place.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:01 PM
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And to add on, vetting is an ONGOING process. Keep vetting don't stop. There are too many women out there who will date a guy, fall for his love-bombing and future faking, end the vetting process way too early, and sleep with him too early because they are convinced they found a high value "diamond in the rough" aka needle in a haystack. Then when he changes(drops the mask) they'll be running to the advice subreddits asking "what happened?" and wondering why their bf or husband disrespects them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:02 PM
189

"Fun?" No, we just don't find the crappy jokes you make at our expense funny, we don't want to compete with other women on onlyfans, porn and IG, we don't want to be gaslit when calling you out on bad behavior, we don't think cheating is "okay" and part of the ups and downs of a relationship. We do not want to watch you sit around and play video games all day. Excuse us for not wanting to eat/drink beer, pizza, doritos, soda and smoke weed all day.🤢 "Sorry" if we don't enjoy being stalked, haras…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:39 PM
47

Yeah, that was SO ridiculous. MM already had a problem before he met AG and that was the literal reason they broke up. She refused to stand by, watch him slowly destroy himself and be second to his addiction. She was tired of trying to keep him sober. I hate how this society tries to convince women to stay in toxic relationships because we are supposed to be "ride or die" and accept men at their worst, but people don't even stop to think about what a bad relationship does to a woman's mental and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:49 PM
49

Men be like "I was nice to you for 3 whole hours!! do you know how hard that was?! its only fair that you have sex with me, cook my dinner, clean my house, do my laundry and bear my children! saying no is sexist, saying no is MiSaNdRy! you are denying me my basic human rights!" 🤪🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:57 PM
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Men who act like its their God-given biological birthright to lie, cheat and indulge in violence straight up disgust me. They need to stop using science to justify being a horrible person and accept they are a total piece of shit, there's no way around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:39 PM
32

Clueless redditors live under the delusion that anyone on FDS "hates men." We don't hate men we just have standards and refuse to be treated like trash bags. Yet they have literal subs filled with naked women, anime pedo porn, rating women's looks(celebrities and non-celebrities), subs about women's body parts and hateful rage filled rhetoric about women that reddit does nothing about. Hell, they even have a sub all about women's breasts! They are the ultimate hypocrites about two things that ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:32 PM
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Lol the same ones who pout and get upset at buying an engagement ring or spending any money on their forever fiancé/GF They'll also complain about paying on dates, always looking for the cheapest way to get the most out of women, but we have to be a "ride or die wifey" and accept less for them. Yeah right🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:14 PM
90

Men have so much to say about women with kids, but say nothing about the neglectful "baby daddies" walking around with 5-6 kids by different women that they do not take care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:24 AM
68

This is what happens when younger women are lied to and tricked into believing that the patriarchy's brand of "feminism" which is paying on dates, going 50/50, helping a man build his career or life, lowering your standards, degrading yourself and doing OF/sex work is the right way to go and is "empowering." So they shame anyone who doesn't follow the script. None of these things are empowering. In fact it just benefits men and ONLY men. When they get older some of them will see the light and re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:20 AM
11

That too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:25 PM
71

When men try to act like the prize🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:01 PM
88

This has the same energy as men wanting a trophy and a parade for feeding, cooking spending time with, or cleaning up after their own kids aka the bare minimum.🙄 No Kyle, you're not a prize just because you use emotional and mental abuse instead of just outright physical abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:27 PM
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Ikr? Number 7 is horrific. 🚨🚩If anyone is wondering what an abusers profile looks like, this is it! 🚨🚩🚩 He sounds like the type of person who would beat you for burning dinner or making a simple mistake. Its NOT hard to piss off a person with anger issues(trust me) my mom kept dating aggressive men with anger issues and let me tell you, anything and everything set them off! Breathe wrong? beating. Use wrong tone of voice? beating. Got a C on a test instead of an A? beating. The sky was purple in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:03 PM
18

I 100% agree. To group something so unimportant such as sex with real needs like food, water and sleep etc. is so misleading and straight up wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:37 AM
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Can you imagine your WHOLE life being controlled by sex? these guys are so far removed from reality its not even funny. Their dicks control their entire lives 24/7 and its disgusting.🤢 I pity them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:38 AM
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"Gold digger" is the go to insult for women who have high standards. Its supposed to make us backtrack, explain ourselves and scramble for male validation. The term is supposed to trigger a Pavlovian response in women to feel ashamed and lower our standards so that entitled LVM don't feel bad about themselves for being poor and they keep believing the delusion that they shouldn't have to put in any effort to date or have sex with HV women. It is their biggest cope. Pickmes fall for this all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:18 AM
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"Gold digger" is the go to insult for women who have high standards. Its supposed to make us backtrack, explain ourselves and scramble for male validation. The term is supposed to trigger a Pavlovian response in women to feel ashamed and lower our standards so that broke, entitled LVM don't feel bad about themselves and keep believing the delusion that they shouldn't have to put in any effort to date or have sex with women. It is their biggest cope. Pickmes fall for this all the time and the ter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:45 PM
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"How DARE she be a woman in public?" Can you believe?!" Once again they're using cavemen logic to shame and blame women for existing.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:51 PM
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What I meant was those things are expected of us so its easily overlooked until its time to criticize, but I get what you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:34 AM
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Same! I saw that post too and she kept insisting the man was "high value" and I was thinking to myself "Um no, if he doesn't care about your orgasm, he isn't HV." I'm starting to see some confused women lingering around on this sub embarrassing themselves. No offense to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:47 AM
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I'm not surprised, the youtuber I'm talking about also overexaggerates because the mother is still in the child's life, they are just not together anymore. He also has another girlfriend and most likely she's the one helping take care of most of the childs daily needs, so he's not being %100 percent honest either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:27 AM
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Society will always praise men for doing the bare minimum vs women who do these things everyday and no one cares. These days men begrudgingly do little things for their kids and then expect a parade with floats afterwards.🙄 For example, there's a youtuber who makes a big deal out of being a "single father" and working 12 hour shifts(welcome to the real world!) so men and pickmes praise him to the sky in the comment sections of his videos. Meanwhile these same people(men) will shame women for bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:01 PM
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lol 💖 gotta ask the important stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:09 AM
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Men who ask questions like "can you cook and/or clean?" to a woman they don't even know, are men who don't have their lives together and are looking for some poor naïve woman to pick up where mother left off. They think they are being "proactive" and smart about dating when they ask these questions when in reality, they are being disrespectful, intrusive and sexist because cooking and/or cleaning for yourself is a basic everyday skill that EVERY adult should know how to do, not just women. When …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:46 AM
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She knows exactly what she should do. Counseling isn't going to do anything because the constant negging about her age and weight is not going to go away, its just going to get worse plus even if her daughter leaves he'll get his "fix" somewhere else(porn, OnlyFans etc.) or he'll just eventually cheat on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:13 AM
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Reason 237 why I'm remaining single. My ex used to say the same things to me when I was younger and it ruined my self esteem. So any guy who tries to neg me again even as a "joke" is getting broken up with, blocked and ignored. I do not care how long we've been together. I wont stand for blatant cruelty and insults disguised as "men just being men" and no its not insecurity, its your intuition telling you something is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:13 AM
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I know, its horrible and some of the articles I read truly disgust me. Its like their default reaction to normal everyday situations is violence or murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:14 PM
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Everybody limbo! how low can you go?🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:34 AM
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I always laugh at these "doomsday preppers" because most of them have the delusion that they are Bear Grylls or Coyote Peterson and can survive an apocalypse, when in reality they'll be the first to die🤣 Very few people have the skills, resources and general know-how to survive if civilization ever collapses. What I've found after reading or listening to men's convos about a situation like this is most of them talk about getting away with murder, assault, robbery, arson, rape and having a harem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:28 AM
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I just ignore it. I keep walking and I don't even acknowledge or look at them. Some sick men like to provoke women on purpose just to get a reaction and I decided I'm not going to give them the privilege of my time to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:31 PM
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Damned if we do, damned if we don't. As women we just can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:57 PM
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Exactly, why someone would be mad about more money coming into the house is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:52 PM
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I know right? What is it with men making jokes about murder all of the sudden? this is not funny or a turn on. It never was. It baffles me how men love to make fun of very real terrifying situations that have actually happened to women, let alone something women have to worry about on a daily basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:39 PM
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Blah blah blah, woman's fault, blah blah blah, poor men, blah blah blah That's all I got out of that persons sloppy counterargument. Once again women are the scapegoats and men have no accountability or personal responsibility, therefore its okay for them to behave like animals. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:12 PM
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Oh my gahd... 🙄WE DONT CARE! take your pixelated porn images and cold lifeless plastic dolls and go. leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:01 AM
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Agreed. Street smarts does not equal emotional intelligence, critical thinking skills or basic common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:35 PM
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I think he was lurking on here, got his feelings hurt, realized his fiancé was a "pickme" with low standards who could do WAY better than him and suffered a narcissistic injury to his inflated ego because he noticed he was doing some of the cheap, despicable, abusive things we tell other women to watch out for and stay away from. Long story short, he was in several posts on here and he didn't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:54 PM
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Exactly. Way too many men wanting surrogate mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:43 PM
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I'm childfree, but I was looking at the r/breakingmom sub out of curiosity one day, and I was appalled at how insensitive the some of the husbands are to their wives who have chronic illness/pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:38 PM
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WOW. As long as they're getting laid men literally just do not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:30 PM
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The men in the comments are only mad( more like foaming at the mouth!🤣) because they are in fact NOT financially secure. They're flat broke, living paycheck to paycheck plus they don't have anything else to offer to get the beautiful and successful women they want and they know this. So of course instead of getting a better education, finding a higher paying job, or having the ambition to start a business and work hard they blame women for their incompetence and play the victim. So unattractive🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:24 PM
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Thank you, you said it perfectly. I meant they take things at face value instead of looking it up or making their own decision. Sorry, I have trouble articulating myself sometimes.😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:55 AM
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Don't forget the Erectile Dysfunction, is any one else disturbed that its starting to happen to men in their 20s and 30s? I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:56 PM
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After reading this, It always baffles me how some men do not have a willingness to learn at all. They don't bother to actually read about anything and if they do read about it they misunderstand completely. I noticed they go by "word of mouth" a lot too, for example if one of their friends says a certain topic is "wrong or bad" they follow it without question. As long as its a man relaying the information and he sounds like a college professor, they'll follow him to the ends of the earth like sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:51 PM
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Well, men did invent bestiality.🤷🏻 You cant "train" anyone to do anything. If some guy turns the light off on me and goes in his room ignoring the fact that I'm upset, I am not going to follow him into the bedroom submissive with my head down, mumbling "sOrRy, dAdDy🤪" In fact I wouldn't be on the couch in the first place, his behavior is just going to show me he's a piece of trash and I would break up with him so fast his head will spin. What these "redpilled" clowns fail to realize is their lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:06 PM
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I know right? you're not even supposed to treat your dogs like this. You can't tell me this guy doesn't abuse his pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:24 PM
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If anyone asks why we need Feminism, show them this. this is why. Men think of us as dogs, animals, objects, robots, a means to an end. They do not see us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:03 PM
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True. Men will tell us to stop watching romance movies and say its not realistic or fair to expect "Prince Charming" but yet they'll try to convince a woman to settle and marry for "tRuE LoVe" all the time. If we want anything more we're too "materialistic."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:57 PM
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Lol men think as long as they keep dating and having sex with high schoolers/college girls, the patron saint of death will ignore them and they'll live to 200🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:30 PM
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Exactly, Dr. Ramani knows what kind of audience she's dealing with, if she tells people how she really feels about porn they'll accuse her of "kInk-shAmInG."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:16 PM
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"We'll get along if you can deal with sarcasm and brutal honesty" Translation: I am emotionally and mentally abusive and will neg you to death. I have no plans to change. Deal with it. and is that a child in his DATING profile picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:42 AM
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No its not just you and the so called ex is usually a woman they were not in a relationship with in the first place(FWB) or a woman who broke up with him first and moved on to another man quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:36 PM
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Their little "tests" are getting more and more pathetic. I'm so tired of men walking around saying "protect yourself" and "the biggest threat to men is women(having standards)!" and "mEn Are ThE rEaL vIcTims." Is THIS is all they can think about? The money they don't have? The non-existent gold that they hope "gold-diggers" don't find? They want to be the victims so bad and victim mentality on a man is disgusting. I don't even accept grocery dates and as soon as he mentions the word "store" I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:51 PM
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So true! my sister was going to get her record expunged, she decided on one of the best lawyers in Las Vegas, and the consultation was $900 !! just for a consultation! This alone shows he has no idea what he's talking about, doing something like this is costly, time consuming and quite frankly, a waste. Women have more reasons to seek counsel than this guy and forced victim mentality in a man who has nothing to worry about in his daily life is just pathetic and laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:06 PM
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So true.... bringing up the topic of women's rights, wage gaps, diversity, minorities, etc. usually exposes a LVM for who he really is. They always tell on themselves with eye rolling, huffing and puffing, yelling, getting red in the face, scowling, getting violent and argumentative if you don't agree with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:28 PM
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Translation: " I want to be in a relationship but I have severe mental issues and wont get help for them. I have a horrible temper and want to be able to punch, kick, strangle and rape my significant other whenever I feel like it, but I don't want to face jail time and criminal charges for it so I'm willing to threaten her and gaslight her with legal action to "pRotEct mYseLf" just in case she gets pregnant on purpose(the audacity) to ruin my life and to make her out to be a "crazy liar" if she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:41 PM
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I did OLD once and promptly stopped because men do not try anymore. No matter what changes I made to my profile men just kept trying to get a cheaper deal out of me(I never gave in). The choices are horrible: men on there have bad hygiene, bad teeth, bad skin, receding hairlines, they're about 50lbs overweight and 10 years older than they actually are. The internet is a cesspool for LVM and the pandemic has made it worse, OLD is basically a catalog, women are the product, men are the consumers s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:22 PM
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That whole "no talking to him until he gets xyz" and "hanging out together on weekends is off limits" is straight up disturbing and I'm willing to bet the reason he wants nothing to do with her during the day and needs consistent uninterrupted time is because he watches a lot of porn. Also why doesn't he have any rules? did she even ask herself that? why is it always women who have to compromise and follow rules in a relationship but men don't?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:53 AM
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Then they call anyone who gives the best advice(which is leaving) "divorce happy, miserable or JeAlOus" and downvote them to hell. The relationship subreddits get my blood pressure up and I cant stand it when they sit there in a SEA of red flags, ask for advice then choose to ignore it because they don't want to be alone or they desperately don't want to believe their "Prince Charming" doesn't give a fuck about them and it damages their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:28 PM
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An elderly church woman I used to know would call eyes like that "Fish eyes." Basically the eyes of a person with evil intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:08 PM
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I always wondered why men were not wiping after #2, not brushing their teeth and not showering all of the sudden and I've noticed since women are getting degrees, high paying jobs, raising our standards, not accepting less and therefore making it harder for LVM to get laid by the beautiful successful women they want (because we literally don't need them) they started doing this. I've seen videos and posts on the internet(mostly RP, Mgtow, etc.) telling men to "rebel." Basically men are acting "o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:59 PM
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Every post I read is a nail in the coffin, it solidifies my choice to stay childfree and single for the rest of my life. Men are showing their asses everyday on the internet and its getting worse and worse. Imagine genuinely loving and caring for someone whom come to find out, actually hates your guts and sees you as a walking sex/household appliance. I wish I could show this to his wife, poor woman, there's no telling what else he puts her through. Her life is probably a living hell and he thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:50 PM
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In the sixth paragraph he boldly asked if "they were going back to her place(sex)" after torturing her mentally, then in the 8th paragraph after she left, he texted he was "just kidding" about treating her like shit. that's what RedPill men using PUA strategies do. They believe in the whole "women love assholes/abusers" myth and one of their tactics is to wear down a woman's self esteem through emotional abuse "so she'll work harder for his validation and be easier to have sex with" according to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:36 PM
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and anal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:27 AM
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Exactly, its always been a power play. They're not interested in us as people, they want our emotional and physical labor. Society has told them when they're too old for mommy to take care of them, they need to go and find a girlfriend/wife to do what their mother used to do. They want us to cook, clean, do their laundry, listen to them whine and solve their problems, give sex and blowjobs on demand, let them cheat and abuse us, and most importantly don't complain or expect anything in return. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:07 PM
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Cue all the angry men clutching their pearls at this post saying: "mIsAnDrY! "tHiS iS wHy wE nEEd mEn's rIgHts!"🤪 "this is sExIsM!" "waaah! waaaah! not FaIr!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:41 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....😂 no its not. I wonder who rejected this guy🤣 he probably couldn't get her off due to not knowing where the clit is or refusing oral("cAuSe vAgInAs aRe gRoSs") and she wouldn't suck him off(or let him "smash") and left. So he ran to social media furious to vent like a clown, what an uneducated big baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:05 PM
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WTF is this fool talking about? you can do anal, threesomes, let him choke you, BDSM, watch porn with him, let him deep throat until you puke, and do that stupid role playing ddlg crap and guess what? G U E S S W H A T? He will still find reasons to cheat, he will still visit prostitutes behind your back. A cheating man is exactly that, a cheating man. so no amount of pickme actions and playing the "cool girl" will stop him from doing what he wants to do. There are men out there who think its th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:54 PM
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I bet she wanted to put "men" so bad but used gender neutral terms instead just so men don't throw a tantrum and attack her in the comment section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:19 AM
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Oh believe it, there are no bounds to men's depravity. They pretend to be good people, but a lot of them are prejudiced, have awful fetishes and fantasize about some truly disgusting things, they just wont say it to your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:53 AM
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ewwgh 🤢🤮 the audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:56 AM
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Men will say vaginas are nasty and gross but they LOVE doing anal and putting their dicks in a place where literal shit comes out of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:41 AM
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27 physically but 16 mentally🤣 and Phoenix__Rising2018 is right, men who are constantly worried about men "being there before them" are HORRIBLE in bed. My ex was the same way, he hated that I was with someone before him and would always bother me about it but I didn't know why until we had sex. He had bad ED, a tiny 4 inch dick, never gave oral, couldn't find the clit and deflated after less than a minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:34 PM
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Deliberately rude or cruel to women for no apparent reason. Will brag about not holding doors open for women, ignoring women on purpose at their jobs, in public or on a date and wont do anything "courteous or chivalrous." "EQuAl rIgHtS, eQuAl FiGhTs!"👊 Mentions the terms Beta, Alpha, or Omega or calls themselves "wolves" anything about Trump, Ben sharpiro, or Jordan peterson etc. Thinks of themselves as "smarter than the average bear," they "know the truth" and every one else is "brainwashed."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:53 PM
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That's because all the LVM want to be the princesses and pickmes agree. Most of them have no idea how a healthy relationship is supposed to look, and they've been believing all the BS on the internet about "men's rights" and actually think women are beneath them. Incel/RP/PUA forums have told them they are the prize. So when they see a happy, healthy couple they get SO jealous and outraged, the guy just has to be a "simp" or "beta" loser when in reality, hes just doing what he is supposed to do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:23 PM
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Men who constantly talk about wanting much younger women are ALWAYS horrible in bed. severe ED, no stroke game, don't know where the clit is(and don't care), too focused on their own pleasure, will not give oral and if they do manage to get hard, they cum in 45 seconds then turn over and go to sleep. They know a woman their own age will make fun of him and the mere thought that she has had better will cause narcissistic rage/injury, because in his mind he's the biggest dicked alpha sex god that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:03 PM
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He's basically reducing us to household appliances and disposable objects. This is the number one red flag for a low value man. A man who is a good person and confident/secure in himself doesn't feel the need to bash or tear down women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:06 PM
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Oh no, was he one of those textbook guys who somehow expected to become magically rich one day doing absolutely nothing? because if so that is not how you do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:02 AM
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#1: its painful for women #2: too much porn #3: society tells them is "normal" to expect it #4: There was a "cool girl" before you that did it, so why wont you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:53 AM
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Go on r/relationship_advice and r/dating_advice and you'll see the majority of complaints are from women ages F18-F25. The younger women they said they "prefer" are getting abused, cheated on, taken advantage of or being ignored over other women/porn. And the dude they're usually with is M30-M45. They also treat younger women like shit IF they get lucky enough to date them, so what is the truth? it doesn't matter. They just want us to have low self esteem and no standards no matter the age, so t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:38 AM
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Relating to your first point, men really are not funny. I noticed most comedians sketches or shows are about them bashing their wives or girlfriends, sharing humiliating stories of them, talking about how annoying or "crazy" we are and telling played out, gross, inappropriate sexual jokes. In fact I believe if rape jokes, misogynist jokes, and jokes about race/minorities got banned, people would realize just how unfunny they are and stop paying to see them on stage or TV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:04 AM
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Same girl, same😎 lol at all the men that think we're sitting around biting our nails, counting the days before "getting older," and crying over it when its the other way around🤣 They love to project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:44 PM
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Wait a moment.... I'm looking into my crystal ball🔮 and I can see this won't end well....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:28 PM
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This. Off point, but men do this with chores a lot, I had a friend whos dad would purposefully mess things up just so he would never be asked to do it again. He would burn dinner on purpose when asked to cook, put a red or black sock in the whites when doing laundry, put dishes in the dishwasher with food still in it and clog the dishwasher breaking it, etc. rinse and repeat, trust me these men know what they're doing, their goal is to get the most benefits for very little effort and always take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:33 PM
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"WhAt? you mean you can't orgasm while bent into a pretzel shape🥨 with one foot out the window?! did you at least tRy?" lol🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:34 PM
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That's how I know this is a fantasy and this guy has never gotten laid using this. No woman in her right mind would ever go to a Hooters for a first date, because #1 he'll be too busy gawking at the waitresses in their Hooters uniform instead of you. Secondly chicken wings and beer🤢 is a low value/low effort date, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:27 PM
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lol Do not pass go or collect $200🎩💰🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:18 PM
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"The "LoGiCaL" gender." 🙄Oh puh-leeze, most men I've known have had ZERO critical thinking skills and the emotional intelligence of a 5 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:11 PM
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Lol I know so tempting🐱‍👤ฅ(≈ȏ ﻌ ȏ≈)ฅ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:16 AM
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This is one of the reasons why I have made the conscious choice to not get married or have children. They talk about "the wall" and wanting younger women, but on r/dating_advice and r/relationship_advice all I ever hear about is women ages F18-F25 talking about getting cheated on, abused, taken advantage of, or how their SO cant stop looking at porn/other women, so this is a rigged game that women cant win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:41 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkODKl7jOrE 😊🔪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:32 AM
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According to uneducated angry men on the internet: "She'll be fresh and lovely as a spring garden after the rain, prancing through a pink castle with plump skin, long gilded hair and small lithe bodies....." But soft, look! On the eve of her 30th birthday she will fall into a death-like sleep and awaken the next morning with haggard, folded skin of elephants, spindly fingers, long greying strands of tangled rats nest hair. " Her form, once slender, will resemble a stout stump of a woman and her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:14 AM
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Exactly, they're looking for any excuse to prey on children using "fertility" as a valid argument when in actuality they're just pornsick predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:22 PM
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I wish people would go back to school( and pay attention this time!) seriously. Its not cute or "edgy" to be this freakin' stupid! This is one of the most inaccurate, false, blatant lies I've ever seen about women floating around on the internet. Women are not "infertile after 29" its a LIE, women can have babies well into their 40s and being infertile can happen to any one at any age, I'm 22 and I know women who are my age, younger and in their 20s who are having fertility problems. why doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:01 PM
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I just read the original comment and holy crap! it is disturbing how full of rage he is at not being able to stay in the room to see a strangers vagina😨 did he forget what he was taught? its the PATIENT'S decision if someone can be in the room, not his. This isn't about him. Its clear what his intentions are and he is definitely planning on using his "Doctor" status to take advantage of and "examine" women in the future, because no one should be this mad about it. Its not a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:19 PM
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Most of the people in RA or DA just want to complain to a sympathetic ear or even worse they want a pat on the back from others for putting up with blatant cruelty and abuse. Some people genuinely don't want to be helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:40 PM
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Lol 🤣🤣 I'm dead💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:13 PM
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That's why this woman needs FDS, not r/relationship_advice because men can comment and give her biased bad advice. I feel if she does go through with this and they have sex, he will start "acting single" immediately afterwards taking her through hell, destroying her self esteem, and ruining her early 20s. Then she will be back on reddit months later asking for advice on "what she's doing wrong." and then here come the men again with more bad advice convincing her its all her fault.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:49 PM
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Also true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:18 PM
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He wants her to be a housekeeper, sex slave and therapist without putting in any effort or spending money on her. He wants the privilege of being able to leave anytime he wants because he hasn't made an investment on her at all(but she will make one on him) also he is 19 and the likelihood that he wants to spend his entire 80-90 year life span with her is astronomical, I truly hope someone gave her some good advice, because her "fiancé" is clearly getting the better deal out of all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:10 PM
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lol she's going to be eating chicken nuggets, mac & cheese and Kool-aid when she finally does get married because the bar is spinning in hell at this point🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:56 PM
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I wish someone would send this to his med school director/principal etc, so he doesn't get to use his future position of power to further traumatize and harm women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:48 PM
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Men who cry about "free meals" crack me up, no she just found out she wasn't attracted to you bruh🤣 stop looking for excuses for your bruised ego. I've seen men on reddit post: "I went on a date and paid but she declined a second date, did I just get used for a free meal?🤪 or "she wont have sex with me after I paid $6 for her coffee, is she a gOlDDigGeR?"🤪 They clearly don't know how dating/courting a woman works because they seriously can't be this stupid. Someone needs to tell them life is not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:37 PM
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"No games "aloud" (its supposed to be "allowed) Translation: Only I can play games, not you because me man, you woman. I right, you wrong. hurr durr 🤪 bIoLoGy and EvoLuTiOn said I can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:42 PM
7

Gotta get that narcissistic supply somehow..... any attention is "good attention" for these full grown toddlers.🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:57 PM
75

Two words: Instant Gratification. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Why take a woman on an actual date when there's internet porn, OnlyFans and a plethora of women on dating apps who will sleep with a guy on the first date for free while accepting walk dates, sit in the car dates, McDonalds dates, netflix/pizza date etc. and calling it "empowerment." Why do 100% ? when you can do 20% or even get away with 5% Why deal with a woman who has boundaries, knows her worth and makes yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:18 AM
84

Seriously its 2020, just say you're gay and go....why go through this much trouble? is he trying to make a statement or something....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:59 AM
12

Men who do this are truly ignorant because they end up turning those "naïve, inexperienced" women into the very women they claim they're not interested in after putting them through heaps of bad behavior and abuse. They don't know its a cycle and they are the cause of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:39 PM
73

I didn't care, because its an illusion. Not everything is as it seems, both my exes are miserable, cycling through women, have criminal records and in baby momma situations and they still try to talk to me to this day, Yet they pretend to be happy with other women. Its a game to them. I think you should block him and stop watching his life from afar because its doing a number on your self esteem. There was nothing wrong with you from the start and if he treated you that way, that's on HIM. Event…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:14 PM
30

Him: "I don't hit women" Translation: "I want to and I think about it a lot because I have the emotional intelligence of a 5 year old and cannot control myself so basically I'm monky haha lol, but the thought of being bum rushed in prison and having a DV charge on my record is keeping me from doing so."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:47 PM
59

There are men out there who provoke women on purpose, so if she tries to defend herself he'll use his full body strength on her and if the police get involved he can just say "she hit me first!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:14 PM
50

Oh and don't forget "I didn't think it was a big deal," a married man tried to use that one on me before...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:02 PM
1

oh, okay thank you!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:58 PM
113

Men hit the wall at 100 mph without a seatbelt🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:56 PM
11

This may be a silly question, but what is bumble? I've never been on there before, is it a friends app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:03 AM
70

"BUt i lOvE hIM!!!" "dOnT jUdgE uS!!!" "cHOose lOvE inSteAd oF hATe!! "hE hAs a MenTaL illNeSs!! 'Hes wAs jUsT uNdeR A lOt oF STreSs!!" Just a few of the things I've heard lost pickmeishas saying when their boyfriend or husband does something depraved and horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:22 PM
77

Yes to all of this. Every time I hear another one of those "scrotes wet dream" reddit stories I feel like a kindergarten teacher listening to a child tell outrageous stories about dragons, dinosaurs and zombies🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:28 PM
49

I know right? They really think being exposed as a degenerate cheater(which they are), to their family/friends is actually worse than betraying their wife or girlfriend's trust and humiliating her. More proof you cant trust anybody and most men think its their "God given bIoLOgiCaL right" to cheat even when they're married or in a relationship and we as women should expect it and "just deal with it."🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:59 PM
54

I always love getting the back2back texts when a man knows he effed up🤣 did he really think you were going to chase him? nope, he's talking to himself now. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:41 PM
21

So basically dating to LV men is a game of limbo. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:33 PM
29

Very disappointed and disgusted, but not at all surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:25 PM
71

Age gap is way too big, they got married too soon out of infatuation and most likely didn't know each other that well, she's young and pretty while he's aging badly plus he's overweight. Sounds like a match made in heaven! what could go wrong? This sounds like the premise to a bad Hollywood movie to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:23 PM
6

Lol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:26 PM
12

and don't forget the 2 baby mamas and 3 kids already at the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:25 PM
7

I cant stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:25 AM
67

So..... they're just not trying anymore right? this pandemic has got people just not giving a shit at all.... see, this is what happens when people keep accepting walk dates, coffee dates, park dates and netflix/pizza dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:50 AM
36

I swear🤣 they turn into Sherlock trying to sound so intelligent using these huge four syllable words they barely know the meaning of 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:54 AM
3

Also, Chloe_ lets men comment on her videos, I had to unsubscribe. I used to watch her videos all the time but stopped because her advice doesn't apply to everyone's experience and the evil/disgusting things men would say in the comments yet _Chloe would NOT go through her comments and delete them. This is why I like FDS instead, women can come here and discuss our ideas, experiences and give advice without being harassed, threatened or invalidated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:26 PM
6

They will ALWAYS be the good guy/hero in their own stories no matter what they did. Anyone who dares to disagree and call them out on their delusions and bad behavior is the "evil villain" by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:50 PM
12

Wow, I feel for you, my ex would also invite me to parties/get togethers, say he'll text me the address, then suddenly change his mind. I always wondered why until his attractive single male cousin told on him and said other women were at these parties and he purposefully wouldn't give me the address because he thought he had a chance with these other women and "didn't want me to ruin it" his exact words. I've been there, done that and never going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:44 PM
2

Or Jordan Peterson. ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:59 PM
10

He is 100% seeing someone else....that was my first thought after reading this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:23 PM
6

This is the exact reason why some of them hate cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:03 PM
11

yup that too, There's a lot more to her than what was portrayed in the movies and her character was very sexualized especially in the 2000 movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:02 AM
22

Agreed and to add on: Cheating is not "normal" and part of the "ups and downs" in a relationship and No, a man doesn't get a free pass to treat you like shit when the "honeymoon" phase is over, I've seen way too many women(and men) use this as an excuse to justify bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:29 PM
109

G R O S S but unfortunately true.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:19 PM
15

How do these women do it? I'm too afraid to get on a boat with men all by myself, they could do anything they wanted to you and then just dump you in the water afterwards never to be found again. The worst part? they can say "Oh she just fell off and drowned😈🤷‍♂️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:42 AM
25

Aaaand there you have it. He could have been in a relationship by now if he wasn't constantly punching above his weight. Its like it doesn't matter how old or overweight he gets, he'll still believe his "soulmate" is a slim 20 yr old college student🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:36 PM
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Oh no. They're not leaving until they at least get a handjob😂 lol. I feel like many of the insults come from being rejected by asian women, which is not a surprise because asian women have incredibly high standards and most of these pasty, low effort, entitled, narcissistic western men with princess mentalities cannot live up to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:23 PM
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Many of them come to those countries with the clear intention of getting laid and they believe that whole "foreign/asian girls go crazy over american white men" myth🤮 so a lot of them think being an average run of the mill white guy is all they need and therefore don't have to try at their appearance(or hygiene), and when that angle doesn't work, they start flashing money they don't have in the hopes that she'll sleep with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:54 PM
18

My ex would deflate mere seconds after putting the condom on and still try to have sex while limp noodling thinking I was too stupid to notice lol🤣 he was pornsick with ED at 24💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:06 PM
35

Same tbh. Predators will always use the "fertility and biology" argument to justify being sexually attracted to underaged little girls (despite this argument being an outright lie). I'm starting to see this more and more online these days. Its so disgusting🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:20 AM
7

woah....I just googled her and OMG, the horror😨 this is exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:48 AM
12

Exactly. I don't trust any adult man who lurks on Tiktok or has an account, because 9 times out of 10 they're on there lusting after 13-16 year olds. Social media has made it easier for pornsick men to stalk children on the internet 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:04 PM
57

"And then I know a nice quiet "flower" field we can go to afterwards."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:34 PM
106

What a broke man really wants is a woman who will help build with them, someone who will encourage them, spend money helping them through school, housing them, feeding them, clothing them and spending her best years teaching him how to walk, talk and dress for success. Now years later, when the man finally has all that success and money, he will start negging her, cheating on her, calling her old and implying he "deserves better." then he will drop her like a hot ass rock for a younger and hotte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:41 PM
18

Nope it would have been sold out in the first week, won a Pulitzer prize, called "groundbreaking and insprirational" and "appropriate for the times." Every man would be walking around with one, at coffee shops, reading it at the gym, it would be next to their PS4s and PS5s for daily reading and they would be posting quotes from it on their lame Instagram and snapchat pages saying "tAkE nOtEs laDiEs!🤪" Lastly it would be a incel/RP/mgtow mascot book and they would be harassing us with quotes from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:07 PM
327

Because even as a "friend" they still think they have a chance at sleeping with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:48 PM
112

Always be prepared, always have a plan B. Never quit your job, stop going to school and put a stop to your career just because you think you've found a "high value prince" who will "take care of you." At the end of the day, men are out for themselves and they change their minds rapidly like children no matter how much time you put in the relationship. Most importantly, always have money saved up even if you don't make that much put away $100 dollars every time you get paid and it will eventually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:34 PM
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That's a weird way of saying "I'm too lazy to give genuine effort and make improvements on my personality, appearance and finances because women expecting to be treated like human beings and taken on a actual date is asking for way too much amirite?( lol teehee!🤪) so I'll resign myself to binging on internet porn daily and trying to hire escorts I clearly can't afford."🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:59 AM
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She played herself🤦 incels/RPs want the 10/10 beautiful confident woman who knows her worth so they can try to tear her down and ruin her self-esteem on purpose. However, a woman who tries to be a masochistic cool girl takes all the fun out of their revenge fantasy for being rejected and that's why women who act like this get no respect from these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:50 AM
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Right? That doesn't even register in his mind, oh no. He doesn't even consider the fact that her father is gone for reasons beyond her control, he just sees women who don't have one as "flawed" because of misinformation from other men that he reads on the internet. This demonstrates a total lack of empathy and compassion for another person and men who think like this isn't someone you'd want to be dating in the long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:59 AM
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That's what blows my mind the most, he's trying to make sense of his insane depravity by disguising it as "BDSM kink." This is one of the reasons why I've decided not to have children, not with all these predators running around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:25 AM
16

You're right, many prostitutes and escorts become therapists to their clients, its all "part of the experience."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:31 PM
11

lol I must've missed that seminar 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:39 PM
13

And he's hat fishing😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:13 PM
34

Right, this could literally apply to anyone.... and someone should tell this asshat that ALL women have to walk around with mace/pepper spray no matter what neighborhood she lives in, W H Y? because men can act like fvcking animals anywhere. It doesn't matter WHERE you live. That's why.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:45 PM
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I wish people would stop shaming women who don't have a father. How is a child supposed to make her father stay in her life? and no one shames the dead beat low life dad for abandoning her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:41 PM
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I would also like to add: keep an eye out for red flags that may pop up overtime. Don't be so infatuated to the point where you completely gloss over things that are not okay just because "Its not a big deal" or you don't think its serious at the time. Leave as soon as you get that gut feeling something isn't right. I've seen some posts from women on r/relationship_advice and r/dating_advice (not just on FDS) who ended the vetting process too early, slept with him, started ignoring red flags and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:28 PM
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I've learned to never underestimate what these incels/RPs/mgtows are capable of. Many of them have severe mental health issues with WAY too much time on their hands, some of the things I've seen them post on the internet is nothing short of horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:52 AM
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You would think a guy with all these requirements is very good looking and has a lot to offer himself right? I'm willing to bet if we saw his profile picture we'd all be very disappointed.....and disgusted.🤢 edit: I just saw this guys profile photo and sure enough I was right🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:34 AM
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I'm SO glad they can't comment. They would be calling this guy "simp" and saying other incorrect things about his character not knowing that this is what a man is supposed to do for his wife/girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:05 AM
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I know, I've heard horror stories on the internet and irl about men being HV at first then changing up after a few months or even worse years later after a wedding and kids. I feel like even with FDS, vetting, hearing good things from their family/friends, and doing a background check nothing is foolproof (especially when dealing with a narcissist or sociopath). Always expect a man to be LV until he proves otherwise regardless of good looks and high income. Most importantly always have money sav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:54 AM
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Men: "yr ugly bytch and yr gonna die alone, haha jk i luv u pls call me back."😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:21 PM
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"This is the topic we'll cover in todays episode of "Women are objects!" *cue audience applause*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:57 PM
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Exactly. I know some women in these comments think this is fabricated and I rarely believe men on the internet myself, however there are plenty of desperate and insecure women out there who would gladly ignore red flags and give their time, bodies and their last dollar for a speck of male attention, validation and "struggle love."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:47 PM
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exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:56 PM
3

Very true, movies like "pride and prejudice, little women, cleopatra, or basically any movie where a certain time was romanticized have the women thinking the men back then were better. sis, its just a movie! if things suddenly went back to the old days or our society welcomed arranged marriages(like say, India or Islam), men(even HV) would be lining up at the govt. offices to get their pre-appointed obligatory wife/girlfriend with no intention of using her for anything but sex, housekeeping and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:54 PM
1

Thank you!❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:32 PM
12

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Let the church say amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:48 AM
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This has the same energy as young women wishing they could go back to "simpler times" like the 50s, ancient times, the Victorian era, medieval times or renaissance times and I always say "um... no. You don't." For men it was simpler times because women were obligated to take care of them. This girl has no idea that having a "slutty phase" only benefits men, her idea of "fun" is messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:40 AM
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Tbh I would also laugh at a person who tries to "mansplain" my own career to me and brings up his "high IQ" every 20 minutes. Everyone is laughing at him because he is a c l o w n🤡 what did he expect? applause?🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:15 AM
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My ex used to do this, it was so annoying to the point his own friends would laugh at him for it. Its like dude, NO ONE cares about your IQ! that's why everyone keeps laughing at you. Its not because of your gf, goofy🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:59 AM
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Women: "We need feminism so we can finally be treated like human beings." Men: "haha so we can beat, rape and torture you right?" Women: "......O_o......no..." Men: "hurr durr ThaT's nOt rEal fEmIniSm! "compliment us more! pay on dates! support us! men's rights! die in wars that men started! have sex with male strangers! StOP beInG SeXisT!"🤪 Basically men want us to "play fair" in an unfair world. When men hear "equal rights" they think women want special treatment, so they flip it around and ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:37 PM
2

I still can't believe there are men out there who literally don't know women have a urethra and a bladder. They really think we are walking subhuman fleshlights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:58 PM
15

No matter how "intellectual" or "philosophical" a man tries to be in life, they will almost always be the more superficial and materialistic gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:19 PM
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I heard of it. I wouldn't go on that site if I was paid to. Why? because there are evil, spiteful men on that site who will call beautiful women ugly on purpose as revenge for being rejected irl or "just because they feel like it. Some men get off on upsetting women. A woman could be a 10/10 perfect bone structure and body but men will still destroy her with any perceived imperfection they made up. Men subconsciously hate us, so the answer will always be a neg. I wonder why on God's green earth …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:10 AM
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That's exactly what's going on. If he ever has any children(God forbid, poor babies😟) he will practically resent them for taking his girlfriends attention away. Its just another awful thing some men think about but never say out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:16 AM
22

What's most likely going to happen if she takes him back is he will go back and forth between them. I've seen this situation happen before with my mom and a couple of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:47 AM
21

He is not kidding about that 1st part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:33 PM
9

This doesn't surprise me. Men are claiming to be "oppressed" by women for being expected to pay on dates and for women not wanting to have sex with them on the first date. lol Victimhood and princess mentality doesn't look good on a man, its a huge turn off. Last time I checked entitled male incels are the ones acting like the KKK, murdering people and believing in the torture and the enslavement of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:01 PM
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Watch, years later she's going to be wondering "why he hasn't proposed yet?" lol sis, why would he?🤦‍♀️ he's already got it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:56 PM
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They really think name calling and harassing us daily is going to make us cry, delete our accounts and shut down FDS.🤣 Only in their wildest dreams....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:48 PM
37

either that or he was at another woman's house getting pampered/taken care of.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:27 PM
31

Mine too, this man was 100% taking advantage of her. He was acting single in a relationship and he thought because she had his baby she was obligated to be a housekeeper/babysitter/sex slave. And of course its her fault for "having a baby before she was ready" because obviously us women get pregnant by ourselves to spite men and "RuiN tHeiR LivEs." Therefore he decided she didn't deserve a break and deliberately left her alone with the baby all day every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:23 PM
11

I know right? what exactly is men's obsession with children? what is the psychology behind this depravity?🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:42 PM
39

There are some men who really think as long as their not hitting you, they can treat you however they want. And if you call them out on any emotional, mental or sexual abuse, they'll call you crazy or overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:05 PM
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Exactly. Men have this false image of what 30 is supposed to look like because of porn/misogyny. On the incel/RP sites they lie and say all women after that age are ran through(loose), overweight, covered in wrinkles with 3 kids. The reality and the truth is your 30s isn't that much different from your 20s(for women at least), especially if you take care of yourself(wear sunscreen, eat healthy, have a skincare routine and exercise).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:39 PM
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She's brainwashed, choosing to be ignorant. I've seen some of her tweets and she says some pretty messed up stuff. He was saying I looked like her when she was way younger. dude, not a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:55 PM
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I LOVE being called high maintenance. Every time I hear the phrase I feel reassured, like I'm doing something right. Its an awesome feeling 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:36 AM
14

As a former foster kid I know how you feel. We have to be extra careful because we don't have anyone to help us if things go south. Men would use and abuse me in the past with no problem knowing I didn't have a father or male relative around to back me up. So I just decided to remain single and keep to myself. I'm just glad FDS has taught me how to recognize a lot of low value behavior so I wont be making any past mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:07 AM
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A guy friend once told me I looked like a very young Jenna Jameson, I stupidly thought this was a celebrity/actress. So I googled her and when I found out who she really was, I was like 😳 it just shows how consumed they are with porn. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:33 AM
11

That's exactly what they expect. lol 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:23 AM
19

lol that's what all incels/niceguys claim to be doing is "making money" while we're all out "wasting our youth" getting ran through by "chads." Yet they're on every internet platform crying about women 24/7. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:14 AM
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Ikr? This guy is about to die single🤣🤣 He's trying to justify his hypocrisy and double standards by throwing "religion" into it. Um...sir, Jesus doesn't have anything to do with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:36 AM
23

Ew.🤢 Princess mentality in a man, That is NOT a turn on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:43 PM
52

Oh puh-leeze. Women these days are cooking, cleaning, childrearing, paying half or the majority of the bills, doing backflips in the bedroom and guess w h a t? they're STILL getting cheated on, disrespected, and taken advantage of!🤣 nothing is EVER good enough. I'm willing to bet this is a troll masquerading as a woman, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:25 PM
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You nailed it. They are delusional and the steroids make it worse, they hate women but want sex and when you hate a person nothing they can do will ever be good enough. So any woman who is not 100% perfect(that's every woman btw), is an "uggo" by default in their drugged out sick minds. To them, they actually believe they are perfect even godlike with their 'Roid Bodies(skinny chicken legs, bulging gut, hunched posture and inflated King Kong arms).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:16 PM
1

Glad to hear you're doing better❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:00 PM
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I wont hesitate to divorce, leave or break up with a guy if I find out he's hanging with the dregs of reddit, in these misogynistic swamps full of bog creatures👹 conversing and talking ish about me to their so called "friends" I do not care if I have a kid or "too much to lose" I got my own money, I'll be alright BYE!😁 They call it the INFJ "door slam" and I'm good at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:56 PM
22

When they start using huge $50 four syllable words to explain something simple. 😆 trying to sound intelligent using "fAcKTs and LoGiK."🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:39 AM
15

Every guy thinks they look like chris hemsworth and jason momoa with a beard. I also noticed men using the pandemic as an excuse not to get haircuts and shave their beards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:00 PM
69

Most western men want to be victims so bad and its such a turn off.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:43 PM
138

Its conditioning. Movies, TV shows and porn prove this. A beautiful and accomplished woman is expected to pick a homeless guy up off the streets, dust him off and turn him into a husband. If she refuses, she's "materialistic" and a bad person. On the flip side, a man who is insecure, unemployed, flat broke with bad hygiene, no social skills and a horrible personality deserves a successful, warm, loving, beautiful size 2 supermodel type and he can do no wrong. 🤢 EDIT: I have nothing against homel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:31 PM
2

I also noticed that whenever someone tells them to "be realistic" or to stick to women on their level, they would get triggered and go ballistic over the fact that they shouldn't have the successful 10/10 VS model type and I always wondered "why does someone with nothing to offer want someone completely out of their league so bad?" this post explains it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:06 PM
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I'm struggling with this right now. Lost my entire childhood and teen years to mental/emotional, physical and sexual abuse. Everyday is hard but I'm working through it and this is not going to beat me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:20 PM
5

OMG now I've seen everything 🤦‍♀️ They're really out here teaching each other this nonsense? lol they should rename that site "How to be a leeching, low value bum."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:02 PM
105

Now this man is the true definition of protector and provider. The women in his family are truly blessed.💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:55 PM
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I've been noticing "Errand dates" are becoming more and more common, and the fact that men are using the pandemic as an excuse to lowball women and get easy sex is even worse🤢 they don't give any effort and show their true colors right off the bat these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:09 AM
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"A date? haha no, but wanna link up at the gas station? I need to put gas in my car, hey you got $10?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:52 AM
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Oh and don't forget completely flipping out and killing/murdering women, their families and friends over being broken up with, divorced or rejected. We all know who the real overemotional unstable crybaby ass toddlers are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:44 AM
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And these type of men have the absolute NERVE to want wives. They don't want to spend any of their money on a woman but trust and believe he wants her to do all of the housework, all of the childrearing, all of the cooking, cleaning and slaving while having a job at the same time and paying half or the majority of the bills. LOL 🤣 this POS doesn't deserve a wife. He needs to get his finances in order before demanding anything from a woman. Same goes for those basement dwellers in the comments. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:22 AM
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Happy Birthday!🍰🎁🎁 and congratulations on being happily single! ✨ ✨ here's to 2021!🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:09 PM
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"What do I do?" Girl, hurt his feelings. tell him it SMELLS🤢it looks awful 🤮and you can't bare to have sex or kiss him with those rotten zombie bone sticks in his mouth. Stop tiptoeing around his emotions because if the roles were reversed he would point it out in a second and wouldn't hesitate to insult you for it. either that or leave, see? problem solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:47 PM
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😆☢️⚠️I know, these stories are some of my worst fears. I actually have nightmares about being trapped in a house by myself with no money, no career and a baby/kids all day, or coming home from a 10 hr. shift to a trashed house with kids running around out of control and a husband glued to the tv playing video games. I have way too many dreams, goals and aspirations and I'm not letting anyone talk me into sacrificing them for a warped, dystopian version of "love." Because we all know how much rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:09 PM
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Yeah, everyone has normalized dating down, getting cheated on, abused, disrespected and abandoned, calling it the "Ups and Downs" of a relationship/marriage. I never agreed with the whole "that's life" sentiment everyone else has. A person who truly loves you wouldn't make you suffer for "love."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:46 PM
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exactly! everyone is acting like OF is some big money making machine. Its not. Only the girls with a big following make the most money and you have to be posting new content AROUND THE CLOCK with snapchat and skyping customers too. One girl says she works 80 hours a week on OF. There are millions of pretty girls on OF and don't forget free internet porn so the "competition" is tough and you have to find ways to stand out. https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wxeavm/making-money-on-onlyfans-is-a-lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:55 AM
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The ego part is pure projection. We all know men lives revolve around their dicks, they're the ones killing people over being rejected/broken up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:29 AM
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I still can't believe there are men out here not wiping after #2 and feel entitled to a wife/girlfriend and oral sex🤢 I feel bad for any woman who has dealt with that🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:23 AM
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I can personally vouch for this. My mother was a "cool girl" and a pickme for YEARS and it never paid off. Some of the things she put up with was downright horrifying, she gave all her money, time and body to men letting herself get abused/cheated on by every man she was with all because they "promised her a ring." Men don't respect pickmes/cool girls and they never will. Never pander to the male ego. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:57 AM
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For real she came to the wrong neighborhood🏏👊 she's not wife material, she's doormat material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:47 AM
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Proof that men see women as replaceable objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:24 AM
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also true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:07 AM
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This. My ex called me a "sociopath" for not wanting to argue with him or get emotional, meanwhile he was screaming, red teary eyes and bottom lip stuck out. I just stood there and let him make a fool out of himself🙄 Yet, they're supposed to be the "logical/rational gender." lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:35 AM
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Exactly, he is cheap. $60 is nothing to a man who is truly into you, there are men who will spend their last dollar on a woman they are serious about. This just shows how low effort he is and quite frankly she dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:05 AM
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the best part in my opinion was when he called saying no to a proper date "standing his ground" 🤣 They want to be the victim SO bad. His cheap/broke a$$ doesn't deserve to be dating. get your finances in order before wanting a woman's company, Cheapy the Cheapskate🤡🤡🤡. These type of men always want sex on the first/second/third date for the least amount of effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:53 AM
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I'm guessing this guy doesn't own a mirror.🤢 He's got a lot of nerve shaming someone while looking like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:18 AM
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WTH? and people still wanna act like this is normal...? I don't care what anyone says if you can't go more than 24 hours without watching porn, you have an addiction and yes its a problem. Its bad enough he's watching porn at all when he shouldn't be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:54 PM
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It surprises me how many men out here don't know that relationships require constant work and effort. Men these days don't want to court women anymore, they want a women to bend over backwards to keep them happy/satisfied while giving absolutely nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:47 PM
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lol right? um, sir.....that's a teenager. how is this more mature? Its not about maturity, women this young are naïve, don't have their own finances and are inexperienced in dating so they cant tell a LVM from a HV one. He just got tired of being rejected and called out on his BS by women his own age. He's emotionally immature/stunted and stuck at 17-18 himself so hence the reason he's dating a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:35 PM
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He has messaged me too saying some really racist stuff, I just report and block. This guy seriously needs a life(and a therapist).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:07 PM
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yup, never date a man who cant communicate effectively a man who is truly into you would never make you play guessing games about who you are to them. Men who do this have other women they're talking to, or women he thinks he still has a chance with. He's just keeping her around for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:58 PM
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I've also learned that we have to be extra careful because OLD is a cesspool of users, abusers and middle aged/old men who wasted their 20s-30s so now they're looking for a nurse and a purse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:16 AM
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I've watched the China's "leftover" women video on YT and the comment section is a big mess. Its filled with "ha ha!" "na na na boo boo"! that's what 'ya get!" type of jeering from men acting like kids/pre-teens saying the most horrid misogynistic vitriol you'll ever read in your life. The other 30% of comments are saying "bUt wHaT aBouT mEn?" "tHiS hAppEnS tO uS EVerYdAy!" They claim its "the wall" these women are "too old" and should have chosen(wasted their youth on) a husband/kids instead of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:32 AM
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So true, when a LVM finds out he's not getting easy sex the mask comes off, he starts fidgeting, constantly looking at his phone and acting angry/irritated because he has zero social skills other than pick up lines and negs from PUA/RP and the time he's "wasting" at that dinner he could be using to talk to other easier pickme women. Been there done that, not going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:44 AM
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Ikr? lol I've read a lot of books on wolves so I have tons of info about them and when a man says "I'm tHe WolF" or omega, I always laugh and think to myself yeah, the lowest one, buddy.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:30 AM
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Yeah, the whole hierarchy terminology for wolves comes from a book written in the 60s that turned out to be false. Wolves actually live in families and have no innate sense of rank. The so called "alphas" are actually the parents whom the younger wolves/pups obey and follow, there is no born leader that has to "fight for dominance" and younger wolves eventually grow up and form their own packs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:24 AM
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Omegas are supposedly the lowest ranking member of the "pack" and are considered the "court jester or scapegoat" they spend a lot of time alone so I guess it makes sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:00 AM
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He's trying so hard to sound intelligent🤣 just say you're too broke/cheap and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:22 PM
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I keep hearing men use the term "beta, alpha and sigma etc." when referring to themselves and other men. Its so pathetic and the hierarchy that wolves supposedly utilize doesn't exist in human beings, so they sound uneducated af when they say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:55 PM
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*sighs*🙄 men expecting sex on the first meeting/date, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:28 PM
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Most men who "can't afford child support" are living beyond their means anyway, trying to live a Champagne diet on a beer budget will never work out. Single mothers have had to sacrifice and downsize for decades while the deadbeat father is crying about his $5,000 a month luxury studio apartment and two range rovers in the parking lot. What? Get a cheaper place and sell one of those cars, problem solved! Oh BOO HOO👶 you have to take care of the children you helped create🍼 waahh!" get the bleep o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:20 PM
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ikr? dude is 35 almost 40 and he talking about "girls after 1993." Stick to your own age and leave those (fresh out of high school/sophomore in college) girls alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:06 PM
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The comment section would look a little like this: "gOldDiGgeR!" "all these women want is muh money!" "all wives/girlfriends are gLoRifIed PrOstItUTes!" "prenup!" protect yo'self!" "what do you bring to the table?" "AbUsE! tHis iS abUsE!" "mIsAndRy!" "BoO hOo! MENS RIGHTS!!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:03 PM
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That's not including the games, headset and all the things that go with it. Its expensive, the pre-order is already sold out on different sites and some men want women to spend $600-700 on a game system + all the fixins? Where is their money at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:16 PM
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This is the exact reason why. They have to maintain control/power at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:09 PM
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Wow..... I'm so glad I don't live out there. No offense, that is way too much to live up to and way too much pressure. I don't like how people out there sacrifice their youth to be overworked and overachievers.(where's the fun? lol) I definitely wouldn't fit in there or be marriage material. I'm a mixed asian/white girl, born to a poor, uneducated single mother, foster kid, I don't know who my father is, no money for a good college, size 3(still skinny imo), and the only thing I have going is th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:54 PM
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Me after reading this: 🤢🤢🤮🤮 This is why I don't want to have kids ever, men are so sick, depraved and openly disgusting! they don't see anything wrong with their horrible psychotic caveman behavior. what kind of??? 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:56 AM
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These were my exact thoughts. A man shouldn't look at a living breathing human being as "vagina." that right there screams low value sociopath who should be avoided at all costs. This guy has issues and its not normal to think this way about a person in general and I wish people would stop normalizing this way of thinking (i.e. women=objects).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:24 AM
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They always tell on themselves so we don't have to worry👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:41 PM
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unfortunately some ignorant, uneducated fool with a god complex in denial will call this guy a "simp" even though he's speaking straight facts and truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:35 PM
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Men are thinking we as women are so desperate for attention because of the quarantine and corona lockdown that we'll accept any and every common situation as a date. lol they thought! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:04 PM
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True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:50 PM
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and taking the photo from certain angles to make himself look bigger. lol 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:43 PM
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Yes, this is Pickme behavior. I used to be like this, my ex was a violent abusive narc who compared me to celebrities, IG models, strippers and porn stars he could never have. I self harmed and hated other women. I acted just like your sister, I would have a disgusted look on my face every time I saw them and would talk crap about them. But I realized: who keeps them in business? who's funding their lifestyle? who cheated on me? who hurt me? men. Not these women who are just doing their jobs and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:17 PM
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Women who lie about being okay with porn or say "its not a big deal" or even worse "wE wAtcH iT tOgeThEr!"🤪 are playing the "cool girl" role 'til the wheels fall off. She doesn't mean a thing she's saying. She's holding out for a ring, waiting for him to change or just desperate for male attention and doesn't love herself enough to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:57 PM
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I agree, also I've heard many men (especially online) throw around the word "feminism" like its some dirty STI/STD. Men will call a woman "feminist" as an insult these days and this is what causes women who are still desperate for male attention to have that knee jerk reaction to the word feminism and reject it as a whole. Men have created this "unattractive, fat, angry, desperate, overemotional slob" narrative for feminists(which is not true)and they confuse it with being the female version of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:44 PM
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Cardi B has been playing the stereotypical "cool girl" role for a while thinking its going to pay off and she finally got tired of that doing that exhausting bs and decided on divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:04 PM
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This post reminds me of those wealthy billionaires/millionaires who date and marry mail order brides from Russia, Philippines, etc. who come from poverty, or a young woman who doesn't have her own finances yet. Then they get SO mad at these women for needing money in general situations or trying to take half during a divorce🤡 I mean, you're the Dodo in this situation for pursuing a poor/working class woman who can't provide for herself, can barely speak English, or fresh out of high school and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:45 PM
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or the very disrespectful "you look sick."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:49 PM
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Smelling good, showering your body thoroughly, and wearing deodorant, brushing their teeth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:47 PM
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Did he just waltz into HER room like he owned the place and tell her to stop singing in her own room?! he's lucky that wasn't my room. Yes, that was a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:58 PM
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Ikr? I've owned cats(ragdoll and persian)they got regular baths, a clean litter box daily and my house was spotless and never smelled. However every dog persons house I've been to smelled horrible with urine spots everywhere, torn up furniture and mud/dirt all over the carpet from outside. Also dogs put their buttholes everywhere too? I mean; its an ANIMAL! all animals do gross things. I'm appalled at the behavior of some of these women frothing and foaming at the mouth about cats when its reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:26 PM
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Women get paid $30,000 for their eggs, while men get paid $50 at the sperm bank😆 🤣enough said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:27 AM
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same💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:23 PM
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This discussion is hilarious as I love dogs and cats equally, and personally its okay with me if someone isn't a cat person or has allergies. "I don't like cats" is a perfectly valid statement. Its when people have an insurmountable and unnecessary amount of rage, anger and murderous rampage(hatred) against cats is where as an animal lover I find it really disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:33 PM
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Yes this too👏🏻💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:16 PM
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There's been a misunderstanding. what I mean is irresponsible owners who get these dogs because they "look good" but refuse to train them, or get them neutered. It happens a lot and bigger dogs(guarding breeds) need constant exercise and training(i.e. stimulation) or they go insane. I love dogs and have no problem with them or the breeds I mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:56 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯 There's a psychology involved with hating cats(not including allergies) and this is exactly what it means. Edit: Not being a cat person(i.e. "I don't like cats") is perfectly fine and valid but having an extreme psychopathic hatred for cats is not normal. Seriously y'all lets all calm down, the OP was talking about men hating cats with a passion( a man's mentality is different from a woman's) and generally speaking, I don't think pets have a lot to do with dating HV or LV in the first pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:35 PM
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Its so hard to have sympathy for these women. They come to reddit begging for advice knowing their boyfriend/husband is a bad person, but they still make excuses for horrible even borderline abusive behavior believing they have the magic touch/love to change him. They gladly put up with cheating, abuse and obvious disrespect because they don't love themselves enough to be alone. This isn't Beauty and the Beast, he's never going to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:15 PM
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yup, they'll always have pit bulls, rotties, cane corsos, etc. and they're always unneutered, untrained and violent, but they are quick to say "he's nice, he don't bite!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:17 PM
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I love cats and most people I know hate them. To me this is a good indicator of character, It means that person wants someone to control, push around and do anything to, while the person constantly loves them through all the disrespect and cruelty (like say, a dog).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:07 PM
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The way he treats his mom is going to be the way he treats all women. Edit: I'm fully aware this doesn't apply to every man, or every scenario and how a man treats you vs his family is a tricky topic that everyone will experience differently in their lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:55 PM
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Women had to fight tooth and nail for rights(they were literally thrown in jail), nobody gave it to them. and even after women achieved them we still faced adversity, disrespect, objectification and violence to this day. I hate when men say this delusional crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:45 PM
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the answer is simple: women need to stop chasing and pursuing men. She spent all that money on him just for it to get thrown back in her face, he started an argument on purpose (trust me, I know) and men don't respect or like women who buy them everything/pay for everything, They just like the easy sex. On a side note: she looks beautiful❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:17 PM
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Oh yeah, she's definitely happy cant you tell ? You can tell by all the swearing, defending and nasty insults that she is overjoyed that her "HVM" has the better deal. she did all the chasing, pursuing and courting and now she feels stupid🤡 Why is she so mad? oh right because she's "HaPpY" and "iN lOvE!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:05 PM
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Exactly they are beautiful, he has a lot of self hate going on. I bet he wouldn't say this to an asian girl or white girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:34 PM
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Be careful with this because there are men out there who are looking for a "career woman" so they can take advantage of her. No cooking, no cleaning and no watching kids, some men think they're above doing chores so they wont do them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:14 PM
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Pickme's definition of House husband: He does laundry, makes breakfast, gets the kids ready for school, vacuums, dusts, mops the floors, does all the grocery shopping( and does it right), takes the kids to school, picks them up, watches them, gets dinner ready, does dishes, gets kids bathed and ready for bed, he is also caring, great in bed and runs my bath water after work!" All I have to do is work/bring home money! ​ Men's definition of House Husband: I stay home all day playing video games a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:57 PM
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That's all men ever do is receive. It seems like they're constantly stuck in a perpetual groundhog day loop of "working on themselves." Why? cause they never bother to fix anything and choose to stay incompetent/stuck/stagnant. They're the biggest bloodsucking freeloading vampires and they don't even realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:27 PM
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Why do men who are flat broke want a girlfriend/wife? seriously, their whole lives could be falling apart and the first thing they think is " I need a girlfriend/wife/sex." WTH is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:11 AM
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Um... sir, walking dates are for dogs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:03 AM
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Jokes on them🤡. Statistically its harder for men over 35 to find a date, not women. It literally gets worse for them year after year after year( balding, beer bellies, hairiness, bad hygiene, rotting teeth, bulldog faces) their delusions of banging hot 20 yr olds into their 50s-60s is just a made up lie. Women have no problem finding love/getting laid after 30. They know this which is why they're blaming society for feeling worthless like they try to make women feel. All they do is project on wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:52 AM
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Men who say this don't even have a table, or a car, or a job, or a house/apt that they don't share with roommates or mommy. I notice successful men who are secure both emotionally and financially almost never say this because they know how courting works, and are fully aware that a woman should never have to bring anything to him because he should already have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:01 AM
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His "type?" He's not even his own type. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:45 AM
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exactly ,he's almost 40 talking about "pussy, money, weed" and "aspiring pole dancer?" he needs to grow up. this is something I expected to see on a 21 yr old's bio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:19 AM
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Men subconsciously hate us. We cant win no matter what we do, Yet they still shout "oppression!" from the rooftops when we wont sleep with them. He thought her rejection was a good excuse to be cruel to her, In other words: He threw a tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:02 AM
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Some current red flags I've been noticing lately is hating Brie Larson as Captain Marvel, disliking Wonder Woman for no reason and hating Birds of Prey but saying Harley Quinn was hotter in Su cide squad(WTH?). Also Blaming woman directors for bad movies in general. Yet calling movies like The Wolf of Wall Street, Joker, Scott Pilgrim, American Psycho and The Great Gatsby great/inspirational or any movie that is inherently misogynistic and glorifies hedonism are huge red flags for a man to be ob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:34 AM
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I understand, thanks!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:46 PM
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With men its always about power and control. Its not about age. It never was. A successful educated woman isn't impressed by a man with a low effort, average GED/high school diploma and always broke life therefore he will start to resent her because he knows she can do better. However, an inexperienced 18-19 yr old will be easily impressed by breadcrumb attention, McDonald's dates and bad sex because she is naïve and has nothing to compare it to. He gets to stay in control. This is why men becom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:36 PM
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that, what a pornsick piece of s**t. He is a predator plain and simple and the best part? This isn't about you. He resented you because you are a reminder of what he'll never be! you wont be impressed by his average, broke, low effort life. but an 18-19 yr old would be impressed by his McDonald's dates and bad sex because they are naïve and don't have any world experience. With a poor inexperienced high school girl he gets to stay in control and that's what its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:46 PM
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They're looking for any way and any loophole to legalize their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:10 PM
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Ikr? I'm starting to see this more and more these days, men who are butt ugly, broke with no more than a GED or high school diploma, narcissistic, bad hygiene, ED and a terrible personality talking about what their "type" is. They got some nerve. These manchildren think they can hurt our feelings by insulting us and talking about other women in the hopes that we'll desperately start scrambling for their breadcrumb attention. He knows you could find somebody better. Its pure insecurity and resent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:01 PM
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Polyamory for women? you may as well open up a Day Care center because that's all you're going to be dealing with is a bunch of grown manbabies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:29 PM
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The exact translation I got from this was: "GRRR!!😡 you bytches better start having sex with us or else!!!"😤 this is a threat! they are seething at women who have standards and don't want them. They think they can scare us with cold steel robots??? lol boy bye just leave already 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:12 PM
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No surprise there... "poly" men are the biggest hypocrites. Only they are allowed to have fun and see other people. You're supposed to be in the house "miserable, lonely and waiting up all night for him." lol oh puh-leeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:46 PM
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I agree with everything you said especially the ''harem'' part and what makes me laugh the most about these low value bums is that Wealthy KINGS and EMPERORS had a harem/concubines, most men are delusional and think of themselves as royalty or nobility(narcissism), Yet have NO intention of taking care of the women that they're using and abusing. With these modern day men its all about entitlement and believing they are ''KiNgS'' that deserve a literal army of women cleaning for them, cooking for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:36 PM
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Right, I just wrote a comment on a post yesterday saying most of what men post on the internet is completely made up, its literally a scrotes wet dream. A fairy tale, something to help them sleep at night because they cannot live with themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:49 PM
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Exactly, The term "roasties" is used to describe a woman whos vagina doesn't resemble a "tiny pretty pink slit." It comes from that horrible phrase ''roast beef curtain vagina" and is used to shame women as a false indicator of how much a woman has had sex, when how we look down there is entirely based on genetics. This is not a preference but a symptom of pornsickness. I like this post but not that word. This shaming is one of the reasons literal teenagers are considering labiaplasty. https://w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:24 PM
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The last guy I dated was a Capricorn. He specialized in 2 things: cruelty and audacity. But signs don't really mean a whole lot. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:53 PM
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Exactly and "open-minded'' translates to: ''I want anal, threesomes and polyamory but for me, not you.''
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:37 PM
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Its that same bs men love to sprout about wanting a woman to love eating copious amounts of unhealthy greasy fatty foods but wanting her to remain a size 2 in the same breath. lol idiot. He's the type to get mad at you for ordering a salad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:23 PM
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No disrespect to you, but your dad sounds like he needs to grow up. I personally don't believe men who say they hate weave, makeup etc. Why? because whos liking all those photos on Instagram of women with heavy makeup and plastic surgery? that's right, they are. Who's frequenting OnlyFans and paying for nudes/photos of a heavily made up woman wearing a wig? right again, men are. Whos binging on porn?( also full of heavily made up women.) Whos at the strip clubs? whos funding sex workers lifestyl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:59 PM
61

If it makes you feel any better, most of what men post about women on the internet(especially reddit) is completely made up. Most men are unreliable narrators and will omit important details and twist things to make themselves look like the victim or good guy. Its just like when a guy says ''All my exes were crazy psycho bytches!'' but he'll fail to tell you what he did to make them act that way. Men are the main perpetrators of violence, war, abuse, addiction, depravity and oppression. they kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:47 AM
6

You're right my bad, that's even worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:55 AM
25

I thought the same thing, when I was 18 my LV ex insulted me daily, called me names, yelled at me and said I was ugly and annoying. I always thought ''why is he doing this?'' as it turns out, he found out his ex-gf was newly single and wanted to get back with her. I was a rebound and didn't even know it. He was trying to bully me into dumping him because he didn't have the guts to do it himself. The best part? When we broke up his ex-gf wanted nothing to do with him so he tried to run back to me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:20 AM
25

Incel is right, this manbaby is going to die single because no woman is going to agree to this modern day slavery. How is she going to do all of this on less than 2 hours of sleep?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:37 AM
20

I literally screamed when I saw his photo. OMG he is not 36.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:12 AM
7

Once again, they're doing everything BUT going their own way when all they talk about is women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:58 PM
8

So.... let me get this straight, he wants 5 kids, but he doesn't have a home to raise said 5 children in. He wants a woman to do 50/50 which is most likely going to be 60/40 or 80/20( her doing more than him in terms of housework, emotional labor and child rearing.) He wants a woman to sacrifice her entire life, health and body to make him happy, but she has to pay for/support herself the entire time? The worst part is he wants to do this in New York! freakin' expensive New York?! where the chea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:45 PM
5

Right. She can pretend she's happy and ''woke'' all she wants. her husband/boyfriend got the better deal and she knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:01 PM
27

Meanwhile, when you try to tell them about your problems or why you're sad/upset, they tune you out, ignore you, tell you to be quiet, say their ''too busy'' to listen to you or my personal favorite is ''you're so annoying'' or ''StoP nAggiNg mE!!''
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:22 PM
6

Exactly, like WTF? she has to offer him something in return to get attention from him?! and she probably thinks its normal too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:44 PM
92

Men want to be children these days and it gets worse, I've heard women talk about having ''chore charts'' for their husbands/boyfriends and trading blowjobs for everyday routines/housework. this is disgusting behavior and I'm not buying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:46 AM
5

Surprise, surprise, he most likely neglects/abuses his children too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:26 AM
18

This man is abusive. There is no excuse for his behavior ''I want to be a good husband and help her...she makes it hard to be supportive.'' How does she make it hard??? by not remaining a size 2 supermodel after two children that you REFUSE to help her with!? someone needs to tell him that excessive weight gain is caused by the stress hormone Cortisol. He leaves her alone with the kids when she has a paper due!? He has no remorse, he yells at her, there's his answer. the weight gain is caused by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:16 AM
19

OMG I am disgusted! now these young eyes have seen everything....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:47 AM
21

agreed. I don't care what anyone says, cheating is blatant disrespect and is NOT apart of the ups and downs of a relationship. I'd rather be single than stressed out with low self esteem and competing everyday in the Pickme Olympics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:11 AM
6

He's just another delusional narcissist scrote thinking he can turn asexuals and lesbians. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:33 PM
11

Translation: ''I want you to chase me, compete with other women in the Pickme Olympics, deal with my moodiness/bad temper, cook for me, clean my room, be on call 24/7 for sex with NO reciprocity and pay for not only yourself but for me too.'' Ha! yeah right, good luck :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:19 PM
45

Movies like the ''Fifty shades of grey'' trilogy and ''365 days'' are trying to brainwash and condition women into being more accepting of thinly veiled abuse disguised as BDSM. This type of ''kink'' bs only satisfies and benefits MEN. not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:20 PM
48

Exactly. They're not ''exploring their sexuality'' they want a harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:12 PM
8

women ALREADY work more than 50+ hours a week, wtf is he talking about?? its 2020 just say your gay and go.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:42 AM
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