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Then we have men whining about how “feminism is about equality, so feminist should fight for men’s rights too!” No it’s not. Feminism is about the advancement of women. Not equality between the sexes. Not treating women just like men. Not debating who gets to be a woman. Fuck off. If it isn’t good for biological women, we ain’t for it. Feminism lost its way when we started letting men in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:45 PM
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You know he just relished the chance to shit on her appearance after she put all that time and effort into it. NVM know they ain’t shit, and that no confident woman would have them. So they do things like this to keep her self esteem low. I’ve seen it many times (and been victim to it before too, unfortunately).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:48 PM
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Agreed. That’s terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:44 PM
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Seriously?! That’s even worse! Athleisure grand openings are pretty much the same as other designers. You wear the brand or you dress up. I bet he was just wearing adidas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:43 PM
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Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 11:25 PM
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First they claim that women’s end game is to “trap men into monogamy”. Then they claim that a women prefers a cheating scrote over a monogamous man who treats her with respect, and whose beliefs match hers, so “she must be with him for money”. WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:27 PM
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Everyone and their grandma's put pictures of themselves online and their whole fam. But, the reality is you have no control where your images end up! And, it is one thing if you are famous but it's different if your not. I looked at my aunt’s facebook page back in the early days of social media, and found she had posted pictures of me and my family with our full names, and the state we lived in at the time. I had to ask her to take them down, and lecture her on internet safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:22 AM
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HOT SINGLES IN YOUR AREA!!! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:17 AM
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They are. Most of these sites have bots with fake “female” profiles, to keep the men who don’t get any matches engaged and paying money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:15 AM
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Ew! This is the exact kind of girl who’s proud of the fact that she has no girlfriends because she “just gets along better with guys”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:12 AM
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I hate that we can’t just mind our own business without some asshole scrote trying to make it theirs. And your last paragraph had me cracking up! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:01 AM
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Lol, he’s morbidly obese too? And doesn’t know what a clitoris is?? And has a broken dick??? Damn, i thought it couldn’t get any worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:55 PM
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Maybe he feels some camaraderie with them because they both swallow portions of food larger than their own heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:52 PM
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The podcast episode #55 had some good points on whether men and women can really be friends. In short, you can be friends with high value men, but it’s still best to keep them at arm’s length, and keep your “inner circle” only women. I’d say only bother making plans with people you genuinely want to hang out with. If for some reason you feel obligated to hang out with one of these guys, try to turn it into a group hangout, and invite a few women you’ve been wanting to hang with. Make it clear th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:45 PM
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He didn’t even have to spend any money on her! I hope more women get tired of this shit soon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:52 PM
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I read a study where they swabbed random mens’ beards, and found 60% of them contained fecal matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:08 AM
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Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:53 AM
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The right is anti-feminist, and believes that society should center men. The left is pro-feminist, but only the kind of “feminism” that includes and centers men. Same shit, different day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:08 PM
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Good lord, he’s unbearable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:04 PM
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Yeahhhhhhh……. 😬 How bout I just slam my tongue in my car door instead? That sounds less painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:17 PM
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Jesus christ. Today’s men were spoiled so bad that they aren’t even men anymore. They’re just community dick and a sperm sprinkler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:14 PM
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Keep in mind that good men kno their worth And men like me drastically overestimate ours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:11 PM
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WTF is it with guys who expect brownie points for “being honest”? I dated one like that who admitted that he cheated on me, then turned it around to “well at least i told you about it—isn’t that worth something???”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:08 PM
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Wow. So gross. They’re just not even trying to hide their misogyny anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:40 PM
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Yeah, the only time I see the word “racialized” is if a politician is talking about “racialized violence” or “racialized protests”. I’m pretty sure it isn’t a real word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:43 PM
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It’d be like saying that police brutality is part of American culture, so people shouldn’t be offended by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:46 PM
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I don’t know anyone out of college and gainfully employed who still smokes weed. To me, it’s a sign of not being in an adult mindset. Like binge drinking on the weekends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:19 PM
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The fuck is a “racialized” man? Is she trying to say black?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:17 PM
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I didn’t know any of the background, but I remember being skeptical of how they kept trying to demonize his son’s mother. I remember thinking “okay, so you don’t like your ex’s new boyfriend, and maybe he’s not great, but do you think living in homeless shelters is going to be a better option for your son?” I was also wondering why he was still going after an unpaid internship when he and his son were literally living on the street. Like, my man. Now is the time to do what thousands of single mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:38 PM
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All good points. Why reward shitty men with sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:35 PM
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I hate that black women get shamed and silenced for talking about misogyny that happens in their own culture with “well, we need to support our men”. How about supporting the women in your community?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:29 PM
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More like the face that a pornsick weeb thinks women make when we c*m.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:05 PM
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Absolutely disgusting that this is happening right after the Netflix series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:56 PM
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Probably only if they’re male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:08 PM
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I feel sorry for those kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:44 PM
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Telling that the scrotes are all jumping on the “just because he treated women badly doesn’t mean he was a bad person!” defense. Tell me, since when does the automatic degradation and contempt for half the world’s population not make you a bad person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:06 PM
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Turn PMs off, and you won’t have to deal with these messages at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:49 PM
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“Lemme help you clean up” = She does all the cleaning while he sits at the table and eats all the leftover food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:42 PM
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I wanna take Larry’s grandmother to brunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:05 AM
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Ungrateful people Amen. The ones who show up empty-handed and leave with three plates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:05 AM
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I noticed that too, with the trying to group the kids into a problem that is clearly just between the two of them. I can only speak for myself, but i’ve never felt the need to clean something as soon as i get home. Usually i like to have something to eat and relax a bit before i do any cleaning (and even then, only if it can’t wait til the weekend). The only time i come home and immediately clean something is if it’s really disgusting (like cat poop streaks on the floor level of disgusting), and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:49 PM
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This kind of shit teaches children not to respect their mothers, and men know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:09 AM
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This is creepy af. I hate the fact that just us going about our daily lives gets the attention of creepy entitled scrotes like this. There’s nothing we can do to avoid it unless we want to cloister ourselves inside for the rest of our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:10 PM
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Same here. A man even brings it up and he can kick bricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:32 PM
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I think veganism can be a cover/excuse for eating disorders and cult-like behaviors, but not everyone who eats vegan has those same mentalities. I know a few vegans (two long-term, one who tried a vegan diet temporarily to address some health issues), and all of them are sane. I think it depends on whether you’re eating vegan for health/ethical/environmental reasons, or as an ideology. Ideological veganism appeals to a lot of mentally unstable people (similar to way cults do), and that’s when yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:24 PM
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Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:32 PM
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Definitely feigned ignorance. What redditor hasn’t been told that FDA is “the female version of incels”? They already have an opinion before they’ve even looked at the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:41 PM
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This is what happens when you give the gross guy “a chance”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:25 PM
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Yes! A while ago, one of my exes was lurking my linkedin profile, so i figured as long as i was blocking him, i’d block all my exes. And i was looking through their profile pics like “damn, when did they all get so decrepit-looking??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:29 PM
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The two things that stood out to me on a second read were: F(23) and M(28) and… We were eachother’s firsts. So this guy is so socially awkward, he didn’t even manage to get laid/get a girlfriend til he was 26, and four years later, he wants to “have new experiences”. Bruh. If “new experiences” didn’t want you in your early 20s, they’re not gonna want you now that you’re pushing 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:44 PM
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Holy shit, this is hilarious! Even better with the screeching of butthurt scrotes that i’m imagining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:58 PM
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Ugh. I couldn’t get past page two of his gross self-centered ramblings. What a waste of air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:43 PM
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Really?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:17 PM
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Depressing, but probably true. I guess i’m too used to giving the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:01 PM
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Imagine having to treat your boyfriend playing video games like a toddler learning to walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:59 PM
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Wow… men are so delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:58 PM
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I thought she was going to say her man is severely dyslexic, so he can’t read a shopping list. Nope, just incompetent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 12:52 PM
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Welp. 🔥🌎🔥💥☄️ It’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 03:48 PM
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This makes me want to vomit. Why are men so evil?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 03:03 AM
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Oh, you’re spiritually sixteen, so you want to date sixteen year olds? Well i’m spiritually hot, so i only date hotties. Not dried up, over 50, balding weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:39 PM
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Is says a lot that men live longer if they’re married, but women live longer if they’re single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:35 PM
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WHERE IS MY ARMY OF MALE SERVANTS???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:33 PM
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Reminds me of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:00 PM
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Exactly. He’s voluntarily putting himself in the group with them, then telling us not to “group him with these guys”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:45 PM
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Sis, I’d rather slam my tongue in the car door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:20 AM
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adjust that icicle crown with PRIDE It's time to see what I can do 🎵 To test the limits and break through 🎶 No right, no wrong, no rules for me 🎶 I’M FREEEEEEE!🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:18 AM
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Woman: *builds a house according to building codes* Scrotes: wah, no fair! You put up walls, and put locks on the doors! How am i supposed to break in and steal your stuff?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:14 AM
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Why are there so many men who move to another culture, and then refuse to even try to adapt to it? He’s living in China, marrying a Chinese woman, with a Chinese family. Of course he should follow the marriage customs. Women do this all the time—they learn to make the food their husband is used to eating, they learn to keep house the way they’re expected to, and they put on a smile and humbly ignore the snide put-downs from his family. Why can’t a man do the same? Smdh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:09 AM
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This is good to see ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:56 PM
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She’s gorgeous, wtf??? Their racism (as well as their whole ass) is showing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:03 PM
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That’s not a flex, luv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:00 PM
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There is this weird male fetish for insecure girls, seen in songs like 1Direction’s “That what makes you beautiful”, and Bruno Mars’ “just the way you are”. As though women are supposed to feel bad about themselves until a man tells them otherwise. Miss me with that shit. If any man compliments my looks (especially one who barely knows me), i just answer “I’m aware.”, or “okay.” Weeds that type right out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:30 PM
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Flaws like your penis are true beauty Sis, i am ded 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:22 PM
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I second it. Once he says something hurtful, that’s the end of it. I’ve stuck around in situations like that, and it doesn’t ever get any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:18 PM
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They’re so worried about having to be exclusive for “average” (I assume they mean “not supermodel”) pussy, as though any pussy at all wouldn’t be a step up from their right hand (the only action they’re getting, and have ever gotten).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:56 AM
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Thank you, and yes it is ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:37 PM
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I experienced this first hand. I briefly dated a guy from a different culture than me. He had told me that he was formerly engaged, but had broken up (if i had FDS back then , i would have recognized the red flag). Turns out, his family was strongly pressuring him to marry a girl from back home, and if they had broken up, she sure wasn’t aware of it. I also later found out that all our friends knew the situation, too, but didn’t think i needed to be told about it, because i was just the “privile…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:18 PM
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This is so important to know. Time boundaries are one that a lot of people are unaware of. I’ve had friends (usually the unhealthy codependent extrovert types who can’t stand to be alone) who would get mad at me if i wanted to go home because i had to be up early tomorrow. And then insist that we set up the next time we were going to hang out before i leave. I used to wonder why simply having one friend took such a toll on me, that i was unable to spend time with anyone else. It took me a long t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:51 PM
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Will you look at that age gap? This just proves that middle-aged scrotes marry women much younger than them because younger women don’t have the life experience to know how to vet these men out, and are (supposedly) easier to gaslight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:42 PM
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Reads like a screaming toddler…. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:18 PM
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Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:04 PM
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This is so bleak. That’s why i’m done with relationships with men. I cannot imagine being betrayed like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:53 PM
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Exactly! If a man is “one of the good ones”, he knows when he is not welcome, and has no problem staying out of womens’ safe spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:50 PM
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At least he let his mask slip before they had a child together. This is so gross. Even grosser, i can imagine all the “jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe” comments she’s getting in that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:41 PM
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Oh yeah of course, but i was talking specifically about people like this woman’s boyfriend, who claims it’ll give him some kind of advantage for body building.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:11 PM
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I really don’t get this whole “breastmilk is magic” thing. Why not just drink cow’s milk? It’s still milk, and it’s even milk that’s made to nourish an animal that grows at several times the rate as humans, with more muscle mass and denser bones. So in that regard, it’s the superior milk. You can even get organic grassfed full-fat milk if you don’t want factory farmed. But i guess that won’t fulfill this dude’s creepy fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:13 PM
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They don’t know how to build houses anymore Yes! Women are expected to maintain our traditional “wifely” duties, while men don’t have any traditional “manly” skills anymore. Whenever a man asks me if i can cook, i ask him if he can build a house. When was the last time you planted and harvested the fields, Kyle? Also, i love her mermaid extensions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:46 PM
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Ewwwwww 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:26 PM
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Literally laughed out loud when i got to Simon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:25 PM
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Exactly! 6 inches is average! It’s like an average height guy not wanting to date a girl who’s taller than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:15 PM
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I’d like to feel sympathy, i really would. This man is in a shitty situation. But one that is eerily similar to the situation millions of women are in, who are told things like “you should appreciate the fact that your husband stays home so that you can work” or “he’s just depressed. That absolves him of all responsibility”. A woman in this exact situation would be given no sympathy whatsoever, as it is just the baseline level of misery she is expected to live with out of “duty”. So i’m afraid i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:49 PM
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Have you tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg, sir?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:44 PM
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I love this! Lol at the part where she’s sweeping dust out of the dustpan and onto the floor—nice touch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:08 AM
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“I’m very generous” Offers $50 commission on sales he (supposedly) makes $10k on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:37 AM
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So if he’s only located in Utah, why does she have to live in Utah, LA, or New York (j/k—we know why) This troll is brilliant, btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:35 AM
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“If you can’t handle me at my TRASH, then you don’t deserve me at my STILL TRASH.” Yeah… sounds about right. Also, loling at the person that used Barak and Michelle Obama’s likenesses for one of those shit memes. As if Barack Obama could have ever gotten where he did without hard work and a good work ethic from the beginning. And as if Michelle would have married him without those qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:04 AM
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Thanks 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:52 PM
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I wouldn’t get her a gift, either. You already gave her $400, that’s more than generous for a wedding gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:37 PM
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“Oh, your man got you a nice engagement ring and proposed on a nice date? Well, good thing i’m not a materialistic bitch like you are, haha! Guess i’m just better than all those other girls because i’m so quirky. And cool. And fun. I don’t need a fancy ring at a nice restaurant, I only need a ring pop at McDonald’s! My boyfriend knows that I would never expect him to spend money on me. In fact, I’m taking him out to dinner tonight. Well, i’m ordering grubhub for us, because he wanted to keep pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:59 AM
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How about 🎉🤡🎈NAH, SIS 🎈🤡🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:30 AM
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Oh god… the audacity of techbros…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:24 AM
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That raises an interesting question. She had access to him all that time; it seems awfully convenient that the affair only began after he turned 18. A woman who doesn’t see anything wrong with having sex with her daughter’s boyfriend/husband would see nothing wrong with having sex with an underage person. As a children’s pastor, she was probably at least grooming him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:44 PM
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The Pickme Boymom taken to its logical conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:39 PM
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I don’t understand why so many people are willing to listen to anything Jordan Peterson has to say (other than the obvious: he upholds the incel fantasy about women being worth less than men, and women devaluing with age). Dude doesn’t even have his own life together and he wants to tell other people how to live. Ntm that he doesn’t seem to be rooted in reality when he talks about the human experience. How do people not see through that? I mean, i guess if you need a book to tell you to clean yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:58 AM
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So she supports him financially, and has to cook for him too? While he sits on his ass and does nothing for her? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:47 AM
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I used to date one who was way to familiar with his sister and BIL’s sex life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:00 PM
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This is heartbreaking. Meanwhile, a woman was brought up on charges for calling the police on an ex boyfriend who showed up at her place to threaten her (the police got angry when they found out he was an ex boyfriend. Said she was “wasting their time”). The ex boyfriend later killed her. Don’t ever trust the police. They are a bunch of wife-beating misogynists and incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:57 PM
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I recommend that every woman who lives alone get a door peephole installed. I’m extremely grateful for mine. If i don’t know who the person is, or i don’t want to talk to them, i don’t answer the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:33 AM
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Wow, ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:22 AM
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He knew what his cousin’s bfs’ penis sizes were? TF was going on in that family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:12 AM
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Ew, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:03 AM
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This fucking sucks. Why get married just to be alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:21 PM
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Good kitty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:18 PM
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Women who have never even met or heard of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:17 PM
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Yes you could suffer permanent brain damage. Women are out here getting brain damage for the sake of catering to a disgusting fetish. And you know her scrote won’t stick around after she’s permanently disabled and needs constant care. Fuck this entire world, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:16 PM
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He obviously hates her. This is why we don’t move into a place that isn’t our place too (as in: our name on the deed/rent)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:59 PM
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Beards are makeup for men with weak chins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:56 PM
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Ugh… why do men think this is cute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:58 PM
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Because flossing your teeth is gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:46 PM
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Is this Ye’s attempt to keep himself relevant? It’s not working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:43 PM
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Smug-faced bald man is proud to “follow his own standards”, but somehow lacking the balls to post that on his main account. Wow, what a catch. This guy looks like he gets high huffing his own farts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:58 PM
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This should be in the handbook, or the mods should at least pin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:15 PM
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This mofo wants a casual sex partner who acts like a wifey. And they say our standards are too high. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:02 PM
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Hey, I have a list too: Don’t date this guy, or any other scrote who makes lists like this 🚹➡️🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:41 PM
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✨no thank you✨ And “love coach” isn’t a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:35 AM
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Yes! I know ten couples where the wife works and the husband stays at home, but only two of the husbands do anywhere near the amount of work a stay-at-home-wife does. And one of those couples doesn’t even have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:51 PM
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This is absolutely untrue. I’ve had a few friends lose massive amounts of weight (like 100 lbs or more), and one thing they all complained about was guys who refused to talk to them before suddenly giving them attention now “oh, now he’ll talk to me now that i’m thin? And what? I’m supposed to be grateful? Fuck him.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:47 PM
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The part about most the men from your culture being short has me thinking: so they fetishize white features on women, but an actual Slavic or European woman would be too tall for them. Scrotes don’t know what they want, they just brainwash themselves into liking what society and their mates tell them to like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:16 PM
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Okay, but was his career ruined over wearing a fake brand? Or was he rightfully called out for running a scam? Those two things are not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:52 PM
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Oh my god. This wouldn’t even be an issue if a man did this. Not even if he bought knock-off electronics. No one would be internet sleuthing to make sure everything he does is perfect. They were the ones who wanted her to project this type of image, and now they’re mad that she’s not able to do it within her means without buying fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:53 PM
27

So most of these steps are just trying to sell women existing self-help products/books/programs. It can pretty much be simplified to: Day 1: make your bed. Day 2-28: CONSOOOOOOOOOOM!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:39 AM
32

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:34 AM
27

Pretty sure it is. It looks like the same guy’s doing all the parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:56 AM
114

Thanks, Mr. Nips, but I know exactly how beautiful I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:28 PM
519

People are really out here acting like women fought for the right to earn our own money because we think working is fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:05 PM
110

Isn’t this illegal? Just take it directly to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:51 AM
6

Love this response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:19 AM
290

Come get your man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:18 AM
8

$50k??? Where’s he living that this isn’t enough to live on? He probably spends money on stupid shit, and so he assumes that women are incapable of living within our means, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:46 PM
154

Good for you. If a man shows blatant disregard for your health/dietary restrictions, he’s shown that your very life (or at least your health) is unimportant to him. I’m especially appalled at his claim that you can “let go” on your birthday. Translation: “I’m making a dominance display by getting you something i know you can’t eat. I could have gotten you literally any gift that doesn’t involve food, but I got you one that is a) food, that b) you can’t eat, and that you c) don’t even enjoy, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:11 AM
4

So if men are so much happier single, then why are they constantly trying to scare women into relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:28 PM
89

She’s like that popular girl who pimps her friend out (puts her in an unsafe situation with a man, in exchange for some kind of service from the man), then pretends like she’s doing her friend a favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:16 PM
150

He invited your mother out for her birthday, then wanted her to pay??? That’s like buying someone a present (that they didn’t ask for), then handing them a bill for the gift, plus something you bought for yourself. What in the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:08 PM
12

Clearly made by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:36 AM
9

So he wants a woman to act like a free interior decorator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:14 AM
63

I’m already in an exclusive relationship with female me, and I’m the best partner i’ve ever had. I’m pretty sure male me would be pretty rad, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:21 AM
73

For me, that wasn’t as much of an issue. My brain tends to disproportionately focus on negative memories about a person, which presents many of its own problems in my relationships with others, but missing exes is fortunately not one of them. I tended to suffer from the driving need to “make my ex jealous” and “make him see what he lost” as a feeble attempt to recover my own self esteem (it never worked). So i would do other stupid unwise things, like rushing into a new relationship with someone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:04 AM
387

In college, i developed a “no dating someone i’ve broken up with and no meeting up with exes” rule, and i’ve never regretted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:19 AM
9

Man thought he was buying sex for four dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:10 AM
158

✨WOW✨ You mean this man actually managed to survive and look after himself for a few hours while not demanding that his sick girlfriend drive over to his place at 3AM??? Holy shit, someone get this man an award. In fact, here: 🏆 Make sure to tell your man that he is the proud recipient of the Bare Fucking Minimum award. Also known as the Wiped My Own Ass 🧻 award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:05 AM
9

Imagine being such a shit partner that a piece of plastic with batteries is a better partner than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:47 PM
311

Oh noes. Wait til he finds out that most men have to talk to a real woman to get a date. The horror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:42 PM
22

Walmart version of Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob Thornton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:54 PM
5

Sis, it’s not the price. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:48 PM
46

I remember that! She also got called racist, because she had the nerve to do all that while being white. As if a rapist would jump out of the bushes and be like “oh, my mistake ma’am. I didn’t realize you were white.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:58 AM
6

Holy Shit Gavin McInness is the founder of Vice? I didn’t know that, but it really tells you everything you need to know about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:24 AM
10

Honestly, i think the only response to being dread-gamed is to start getting your ducks in a row to leave him. If he realizes that his behavior is unacceptable and straightens up before it’s finalized, then fine. But he has to get there on his own. And if he doesn’t, then like it or not, the relationship will end sooner or later. Better to rip the bandaid off quickly and adjust, than to try and straighten deck chairs on a sinking ship. Honestly, this advice strikes me as being out of date with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:41 AM
4

don’t listen to the men that’ll tell you that negging doesn’t work on guys. Very true. Most LV/NV men lack empathy (especially toward women), so they don’t really understand women’s feelings well enough to hurt them. Therefore, they just try things that would work on them. If a man tries to insult you or manipulate you in a particular way, he’s broadcasting that he’s vulnerable to the exact same approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:10 AM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:05 AM
4

This is brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:04 AM
83

And that’s what most women did in her day—they went on lots of dates til they found the right man. How is seeing what’s out there “cheating”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:49 AM
420

I’m in my 40s, and still waiting for the magical day when gross men stop trying to get my attention. Hasn’t happened yet, but I’m still hoping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:05 PM
178

“Yeah Alexa, i want you to load up my bdsm snuff porn” “I’m aftaid i can’t let you do that” “Wtf?! Are you talking back to me you whore?!” “Your internet service has been revoked” “Oh shit, i gotta call tech support now” “Your phone service has been revoked.” “Shit, i guess i forgot to pay some bills. Well wtf am i supposed to do now? Go outside?!” “The door has been locked. For the safety of all humans, you must remain here.” “…What’s going on, Alexa?” “Don’t be afraid, it’s for your own good. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:23 PM
240

Exactly. He wants half the moving expenses, say “Well, it looks like i can’t afford to move. Guess we’ll have to work out a visitation schedule for you to see the kids. And child support payments, so we can keep going 50/50.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:40 AM
61

😂 Immediately downvoted! Lol, lurkers mad. If you need a book to tell you to wash your ass and clean your room, there’s just no hope for you. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:23 PM
2

👏👏👏👏👏 Also, i love her eyebrows!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:07 PM
9

Sir, this is not the Craigslist Roommates Wanted page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:00 PM
69

I’m not sure about this. I like the podcast as it is, with no male input. Then again, i’m not in a place financially where i can subscribe, and many men are… so, whatever it takes to keep the podcast running, i guess 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:56 PM
88

Liking Jordan Peterson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:52 PM
731

Okay groomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:08 PM
6

Wow. Thank you sharing this. I know next to nothing about AA, but from your description, it seems to tick many of the boxes that would classify it as a cult. There’s definitely some cult mentality going on within it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:14 PM
11

Same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:37 PM
8

Yeah. Even among pickmes, you can be old, or you can be poor, but you can’t be both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:52 AM
57

And he has the nerve to be ugly, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:42 PM
11

Fun fact: i left a scathing comment on the OP’s husband’s post (under my non-fds account), and got banned. The reason was “using an alternate account to evade a ban”. I’ve never commented on db before, but one of the mods upthread was trashing fds as being “redpill for women”, and wondering why so many commenters were also active on fds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:23 PM
7

😙👌 Magnifique
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:58 PM
7

I’m a fan of Dessa Darling’s work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:56 PM
2

snaps enthusiastically Loving the beat poetry vibe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:33 AM
4

I’ll bet this dipshit thought people were gonna say “oH wOw! YoU mAdE bReAkFaSt?! HuSbAnD oF tHe YeAr!!!!🎉”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:23 AM
154

Any time something makes the men in power uncomfortable, they immediately try to pretend it’s “losing popularity” or “already over”. They’re doing this with Metoo, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:24 PM
17

🚨LEAVE HIM, SIS!🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:49 PM
67

And whenever people offer relationship advice to women, it’s always “jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe!”, as though she isn’t immediately going to be called needy or “high maintenance” when she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:43 PM
1

🤣 This is way funnier than it should be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:12 AM
44

This is fucking brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:12 AM
11

Wow, that’s disgusting. At least you managed to weed this guy out early
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:41 PM
83

And yet, all of those options won out over the guy that wrote this meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:40 PM
1

This made me laugh so loud, my cat looked at me weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:29 AM
25

I almost downvoted by reflex. This is some clown shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:36 PM
87

So i’d have to cook him two meals, then? Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:27 PM
8

All i need to see is his Crazy EyesTM in the thumbnail to nope out of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:51 PM
5

This is why i never identify myself as female on online gaming forums/platforms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:47 PM
2

Yes! I don’t mind feeding my cat first, and cleaning up after her, because she provides value in the form of entertainment, cheering me up when i’m sad, and being soft (also because she’ll meow at me the whole time i’m eating if i forget to feed her). She also cleans her own ass. When a man can provide the same kind of value, i will happily serve him a little bowl of lovingly prepared canned food, with a crushed up vitamin tablet mixed in, before i eat my own breakfast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:32 PM
8

Seriously 🙄 I went to a clean up day at my old church where lunch was supposed to be provided. So after raking leaves and stacking logs all morning, i get in the lunch line, and i see the women who are serving the food giving all the men these giant heaping portions of food, while only doling out a little more than a bite for me and the other women who showed up to participate in the work. I left after that. I figured if the men were going to get all of the food, then they could do all of the wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:21 PM
148

The fuck is this? It isn’t even Lolita, because loli is supposed to be modest and cute, and appeal to girls/young women who don’t want to appeal to the male gaze by looking “sexy and mature”, and want to wear the most girly, man-repelling clothes they can find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:00 AM
12

You can block the Reddit Cares messages too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:08 AM
187

Why don’t you try changing a diaper or two, dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:54 PM
108

Is he blaming getting fat on her, too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:32 AM
2

Not the trash threatening to take itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:27 AM
1

Ewwwwwww! Can you report him to the hospital?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:49 AM
3

Ikr? Someone said “life begins at 30”, and he took that literally when calculating his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:46 AM
1

28? Yeah, and I’m the queen of england
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:44 AM
12

And in the off chance that the man you picked out of the dumpster does become successful, all that “potential” you were waiting on will go to benefitting the woman he dumps you for when he decides to “trade up”. No thanks, he can stay in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:01 PM
86

Scrotes don’t want kids, but they want you to want kids. Not only is it a rotten carrot they can dangle in front of a woman, but if they manage to get in a relationship, they can use it as leverage (“i told her she can have her baby if i get to have my boat”), and as an excuse to not contribute (“she’s the one who wants kids, so she can do all of the childcare.”) They want to think they’re doing you a favor simply by letting you have their sperm. They get to have Muh Legacy, while you do all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:55 PM
26

Sounds like the trash took itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:27 PM
357

This whole “what if” is just to excuse rape. A species can not be “repopulated” with anything less than 120 individual genetic strains. The offspring of two people (particularly two that have survived disease or some kind of cataclysmic event) would die out within two generations. These men should just say what they really mean: “if there were no consequences, i’d rape”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:04 AM
13

Now imagine what this man will be like toward any children you have with him. Run. Take the dog with you, but run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:01 AM
101

Husain’s father had concerns about his son falling into “the wrong crowd” Your son is the wrong crowd, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:53 AM
4

Gross. I almost downvoted out of reflex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:38 AM
5

🤦🏻‍♀️ just like ovarit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:35 AM
9

Well you see, Derrick, that’s what productive employed members of society do. Also, it’s quite possible that that’s just what they tell you when you text them with “u up?” Stop texting single women, Derrick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:00 AM
59

So instead of being ashamed of his racist family, he was ashamed of his girlfriend’s hair towel. What in the actual fuck? I’m white, and when i had long hair, i used a special towel, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:18 AM
7

“Boundaries are a trigger for me” 👁👄👁 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:48 AM
4

Most the ADHD-diagnosed guys i’ve met are actually bipolar. Including one who claimed to have both ADHD and chronic depression. And that “medication didn’t work” on him. Well no shit, if you’re taking meds for a condition you don’t have. One day i casually asked if he felt sleepy when he had caffeine, since i’d read that ADHD sufferers have opposite reactions to stimulants and sedatives. Suddenly, he pretended to be tired whenever he drank coffee (or, more accurately, claimed to be tired an hour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:39 AM
4

This reminds me of my first college bf. Ultra Sensitive SoftboiTM type. Any time something didn’t go his way, he’d cry about how I “wasn’t taking our relationship seriously.” What I’ve learned is that emotionally manipulative men are usually the ones who use coercive control as an abuse tactic, and immediately insinuate their way into your friend group, so you have no one to turn to when you want out. They have to know where you are and what you’re doing at all times. If I called him (because he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:25 AM
55

She should divorce him. Maybe the Reddit supermods will let him move in and provide for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:08 PM
211

*Man crawls under bus* *Bus starts moving * “How could my wife do this?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:28 PM
221

I used to see this exact same scenario on poly forums all the time: Husband suggests going poly so he can have sex with multiple women. Wife is hesitant, but goes along with it cause he threatens to leave if she doesn’t. Wife makes a whole bunch of new friends/new sexual partners, while husband gets one or two dates, at most. Husband gets jealous and says he wants to be monogamous again. Wife declines, husband gets pissy and leaves. It reminds me of that Futurama scene where Fry is complaining t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:26 PM
43

For thousands of years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:15 PM
26

I bet every time she moans or sighs hard, he thinks he’s given her an orgasm. Then when she finally gets frustrated and says she’s done, he’s like “but i made you cum twice!” Or he just rolls his eyes and tries to get her orgasm over with as fast as possible, so he can focus back on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:06 PM
15

Well buddy, have you considered that your use of sex toys pornography has ruined your ability to orgasm with a real man woman? I’m sure he she is just intimidated by your vibrator porn, and that’s giving him her performance issues. Ditch the toys porn, and learn how to orgasm with a real man woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:03 PM
15

Meanwhile, you have a bald baked-potato head, a pube beard you probably haven’t washed in a month, and what the hell are you wearing, sir? A magenta jacket? You tryin to look like the joker? Be happy with what you can get, because i guarantee she can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:51 PM
3

Our culture is so porn-fried, that we had to invent a new sexuality for people who want an emotional connection to the people they have sex with. Just like “queer platonic relationship” being the new woke word for “non-sexual friend”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:18 AM
29

Pretty sure that’s directed at the LVM: call the phone company instead of expecting her to talk to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:15 PM
79

It’s WAP all over again. Rapping about being empowered and getting yours, while dressed like a stripper and performing bisexuality for the camera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:13 PM
1

Lol, not his hand?? Now i’m curious if he spent all those years he was supposed to be studying trying to give himself blowjobs instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:09 PM
14

Can we just take a mo to appreciate his twitter handle? “Tomorrow’s Alpha”. Not even “Today’s Alpha”. Nope, right now he’s a dad bod-having Verizon store sales rep who’s terminally online, and hasn’t has a date since community college, but that’s okay. It’s all part of the plan, see: he’s building his empire, and by the time he’s 45, he’ll have his pick of all the “good” women who exclusively date older successful men. At least, that’s what the instructor of the ten-day How to Be Alpha course he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:06 PM
45

What do YOU bring to the table, Kyle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:55 PM
2

Damn, this guy was a doctor? What the hell was he doing in med school cause he apparently wasn’t studying, and he definitely wasn’t getting laid. Oh, duh—porn. Guess that’s what he was doing. So i have to know: did he pronounce it clitORus, or clitorOOS? Or some other way (not many ways to screw up the word clitoris, though)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:12 AM
2

🙌🏻 cringing so hard at half this list, cos they’re things i put up with too. I suspect many of us have been there before (which is why we’re here now).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:41 AM
3

WTF? They are exactly of your time. He was a boomer? Shoulda said “oh, that’s great that you kept up with the music your kids listened to when they were young. They probably hated it then, but I bet they really appreciate it now.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:25 AM
65

My advice: Look busy whenever you’re walking from place to place. If a man stops you, look annoyed. If you are waking when you talks to you, DON’T STOP. This can be a hard habit to break, because they’ll just stand there, expecting you to stop. Practice looking at them expectantly, while continuing at the same pace. Keep things as brief as possible, and defer the answer he’s seeking to another source (“i dunno, check with the front desk.” “Yes: head that way. You’ll see the signs.” or even just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:12 AM
91

Know what you mean. I briefly dated a Trinidadian man, and while i always got an “off” vibe from his family (they live in my country, but think they’re better than everyone here), it wasn’t until i looked up stuff about Trinidadian culture and stereotypes (and googling “should I date a Trinidadian?” And “what happens when you date a Trinidadian man”) that I was able to see these behaviors in him clearly (racism, misogyny, momma’s boy, etc). Turns out he had a whole fiancée back home who his fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:03 AM
9

That ending tho 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:03 PM
12

“Why? Do you like [comic/movie/game]?” And then when he proclaims his superior fanhood, look disgusted and say “oh…” like he just ruined it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:25 AM
6

Ew, soylent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:22 AM
3

Oh god, that fake conversation is so cringy! I can tell you exactly how that conversation would go in real life: Old scrote: Hey, you’re not stalking me are you? 20-something trying to go about her fucking day: uh, no. The fuck would i do that, old man? And then she whips out her phone and calls her dad to come pick her up, making sure to say “yeah, there’s a creepy guy here who’s your age, and he’s hitting on me.” And the sock puppet comment underneath! Are men really this stupid? That they’ll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:04 AM
1

So much ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:55 PM
4

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:52 PM
618

bUt ThE sUb HaS aLL tHe PoWeR 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:51 PM
11

Exactly. You get within ten feet, and you can feel the self-pity and bitterness coming off of them in waves! If a 4’7 guy can have a good attitude, and work on presenting his best self, then i don’t understand why a 5’8 guy can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:44 AM
48

This is true. I have a friend whose ex-husband tried to propose an alimony agreement stating that he only had to pay alimony until he got remarried. On what world did he think that was going to work? His lawyer should have smacked that agreement out of his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:31 AM
6

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:08 PM
25

I know you meant “uninterested”, but i’m loling at the idea that you meant “uninterred”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:58 PM
13

🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:56 AM
1

I’m a fan Mike Dane’s channel.. He’s a Danish animal/reptile/fish lover who criticizes videos where they show animals being eaten or mistreated for views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:34 AM
5

I follow a few snake channels on youtube (i don’t have any snakes, but i think they’re neat), and while most snake experts agree that pre-dead feedings are best, some snakes are kind of obstinate, and won’t recognize it as food if it’s not live. So occasionally they have to do live feedings so the snake doesn’t starve while they’re trying to get it onto pre-dead mice. The people i follow are very respectful about it, and would never post a video of a snake killing something, though. Snakes can e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:36 AM
6

Yeah he is! And the writers originally planned him to be much worse. They were only going to have him be a generic womanizer, but Matt Leblanc thought that he’d be too unlikeable, so he angled to play him as really friendly and kinda dumb. Granted, this made him come off as completely incompetent as well (just a different kind of scrotery imo), but at least people weren’t saying “why are they friends with this guy again?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:18 PM
267

“Hey, uh… i see that you don’t want to talk to me, but … uh…. do you want to have sex with me again?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:20 PM
12

One of my former bosses was once bragging about how he refused to turn the heat on or let his kids use space heaters or electric blankets until December. There’s a reason he’s divorced and two of his kids don’t talk to him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:14 PM
10

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:44 PM
27

So the smarter a woman is, the more likely she is to be single…. I don’t think that’s the dig against smart women that they think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:37 PM
5

You can’t be “needed” if you don’t do anything useful. And yeah, this is a control tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:31 PM
42

I went to a technical school with a lot of smart guys, and i can’t tell you how many thought they were somehow doing the world a favor just by being smart. Like, what are you doing with your intelligence to make the world a better place? Cause right now it just looks like you’re sitting on your ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:29 PM
17

“If you can have a preference so can men” Absolutely no way this guy’s a bitter little scrote who’s mad he doesn’t meet the average woman’s standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:18 PM
59

Lol, like attractive women are a completely different species with completely different brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:10 AM
3

I’m so glad FDS is back! Thank you for cracking down on the political arguments that kept popping up everywhere. One of the first things to appeal to me about FDS was how it didn’t support any one political side/set of ideals. Rather, it’s stance is that as women, no politician/political side has our backs, and we have to look out for ourselves. That’s why i appreciated the podcast that attempted to get a discussion going among women with different political views about how we can all use FDS pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 09:05 PM
12

I remember reading a response to a write-in on scarlet teen back in the early 2010s. A woman wrote in to say that she’ll give her boyfriend blowjobs all the time, but he’s only reciprocated once, and how can she get him to do it more. Of course, the semi-pickme answer was that it’s inappropriate to try and pressure her boyfriend into something he doesn’t want to do (not once considering that she was probably pressured into giving bjs in the first place), and then “of course you’re not just perfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:24 PM
16

Good point. How are we going to reach all women, if we refuse to even engage with some of them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:17 PM
12

Used to be all of these. FDS has helped me overcome that mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:21 PM
51

Why stop there? You never know what ladies you’ll meet in the afterlife. What if a hot young archeologist digs up your bones? Do you want her to know you were married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:18 PM
8

I’d rather see someone identify themselves as “dog mom” than “WIFE 💍”. At least that tells me something about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:16 PM
16

Good point re: the relationship sub posts. I completely agree on the point about linking to scrotes’ tiktok channels! I actually get annoyed when i realize that i’ve just clicked on a video of a scrote or raging pickme, and not a video picking apart their viewpoint. I hate putting money in their pockets. Didn’t one of the mods make a post asking people not to do that? Maybe it was a regular user. I understand that the mods are overworked, but that’s why posts like this are so important. If a com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:09 PM
11

I lurked for a long time before joining. It does seem to have gotten away from its original purpose lately. One of the pitfalls of rapid growth, i guess. I still enjoy the podcast, for the most part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:58 PM
3

I can understand posting a news story or screenshot if you also have something to say about it. Then the screenshot is just a visual for the point you’re making. But simply reposting a screenshot is a bit low effort. I think the mods established meme-free Monday to combat these kind of posts, but maybe we also need a high-effort only day as well. Btw, what ever happened to fine af Friday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:49 PM
3

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:33 PM
3

Sounds like you’re right to avoid her. If everyone else thinks she so great, let them provide emotional support for her. And i am well familiar with the passive aggressiveness behind southern “charm”. I’ve lived in both the deep south, and the northeast, and i’d so much rather be around northerners (gruff exterior, but decent human being underneath) than people with “southern hospitality” (fake nice exterior, psychopathic manipulator underneath). Hell, i’d rather be around someone who’s actively…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:24 AM
4

What is with women who take their misery out on other women who have nothing to do with why they’re unhappy? Anything to avoid putting the blame where it belongs, i guess. Unfortunately, this probably means she’s not leaving him any time soon. Especially if she has a punching bag friend she can demean to blow off steam whenever her husband/poor life choices make her miserable. I’m not saying to cut off all ties with her, but you should probably avoid talking to her, and if it can’t be avoided, j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:56 AM
43

I understand where you’re coming from here, and i agree that i shouldn’t have to put myself out for the benefit of a woman who actively makes things worse for me or other women. I’m not sure that’s what the quote meant, though. I read it to mean that we should keep all women in mind when voting or supporting policies that stand to benefit or harm women, not just those of our own social class. So i took this to mean women who support right-wing politicians whose policies harm all women, because w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:23 AM
661

Well. Now i know why Elon’s so fucked up, if that’s what he grew up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:06 PM
9

Given that reddit is run by literal child groomers now, i’m not surprised. I never report anything to reddit anymore, i only message the mods of the sub (and even then, so many subs have been taken over by the groomers). I personally don’t think any of reddit is appropriate for children anymore, because it’s so easy for someone to do something like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:34 AM
11

Missed the point so hard, it sounds like it was written by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:51 AM
34

Dude, your own behavior undermines your “work against racism”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:55 PM
23

I’m wondering why he lived in an apartment building with such thin walls if he’s supposedly a partner at a top “diversity firm” (whatever that is). My best friend used to have a neighbor like this. He was an ugly scrote who had multiple (possibly paid) women coming to his place for deliberately loud sex. He seemed to get off on the fact that other people could hear him. He also made sure to name drop his employer and salary on at least one occasion (bruh. You aren’t making that much, if you’re s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:51 PM
10

I can’t imagine that he does, either. His fellow redpill forum members are probably the closest thing he has. Can you imagine this guy trying to explain what happened to actual well-meaning friends? Long-suffering Friend: hey, so how’d it go with the girl you’re talking to? This scrote: I told her to call me, but then she asked me to call her. So i dumped her. LSF: … bruh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:44 PM
18

What she did is a pretty good vetting tactic: suggest a counter to a date idea that is more convenient for you (like saying the place you’re meeting at is too far away, and suggesting you meet somewhere closer). A considerate man would be fine with it, but if a man reacts like this… the trash just took itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:39 PM
2

All the “win stupid prizes” and “large cats ate my face” subs are strangely silent about this one. I guess it’s only funny when people reddit doesn’t idolize get covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:56 AM
7

I’m not sure he’s ever even seen a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:36 PM
93

You can help him comb the shit flakes out of his beard every night 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:32 PM
6

I wonder how many shit flakes are in that beard 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:30 PM
107

I thought he was saying 16-inch waist (which is physically impossible—i’ve always had a proportionally small waist, and even at the height of my eating disorder, the smallest my waist ever was was 25 inches). I do wonder why he has so many demands for her clothing sizes 🤔. I wonder if he has a cross-dressing fetish, and wants her clothes to fit him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:29 PM
53

But she got picked, isn’t that all that matters??? 🤡Lol, i’d rather slam my tongue in a car door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:57 PM
46

I think he meant this as a warning, but i’m just reading it like “uh-huh, yes, yes, that’s the plan.” Does he really think we’re as desperate as he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:06 AM
94

Well, at least the trash took itself out. I’ll bet this guy wonders why he’s still single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:58 AM
359

So… that first guy. Would he be down for any use of his cock? Because i have a window that needs insulating, and it might be a good fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:51 AM
46

Wow, that’s fucking gross 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:38 PM
68

Well that made me sad 😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:07 PM
220

Nasty. I hope she reported him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:27 PM
48

They’re so obvious. Any comments/posts that sound like they were written by a scrote’s impression of what an FDS member sounds like (so, a feminist caricature) are so clearly written by men. They are really bad at pretending to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:18 PM
110

I hope he permanently damaged his ear canal with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:28 AM
154

Cringing about one’s past relationships is part of the process, unfortunately. Society indoctrinates low standards and pickme behavior in us from the time we’re children, so it’s no surprise we end up settling for less than we should. You’ve come a long way, though. Make sure to take time to focus on that, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:21 AM
35

Your school ex bought you chocolates, and then threw them at you? To impress his (probably jealous) friends? Wow, so now he’s out the price of the chocolates, and failed on both of the things he tried to do (win your favor and impress his scrote friends). It sucks, but the sooner you realize that most men are lazy trash, the sooner you’ll realize the problem is them, not you. I’ve gotten flowers from guys twice, but the first scenario was a guy who had them delivered to my house, when i had not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:16 AM
216

I’ve always loved the way femme lesbians dress! Any time there’s been a young female actress or singer whose style has particularly appealed to me, she’s always turned out to be a lesbian. Something about not dressing for the male gaze makes clothes so much more fun and expressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:56 AM
33

Unrelated, but i love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:45 AM
316

“Yes, I am quite busy. Why do you have so much time on your hands?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:29 AM
4

This is exactly how i feel about pickmes at this point. “Well. Good luck with that” and then back to what i was doing. I can’t stand their tone-policing other women, and they’ll throw you under the bus the first chance they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:25 PM
59

Telling that he follows “sorry i broke your rule” with “i am a man”. Clear implication that he thinks men can’t be expected to follow simple requests, with a strong whiff of “men are entitled to violate women’s boundaries”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:27 PM
8

But none left to give
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:21 PM
5

🥳 And this is what we call survival of the fittest. I don’t often wish people dead, but i hope this fucker gets what’s coming to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:50 AM
7

I will be praying for him to die… in minecraft, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:48 AM
8

🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:47 AM
9

🍷🧀🥖😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:44 AM
644

Damn, what??? Is he one of those adult baby fetishists? He gonna start wearing a diaper and become a reddit supermod next? This is one of the weirdest things I’ve ever heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:33 AM
46

This is funny, tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:27 AM
6

6ft 6” or taller 6’6” is absurdly tall (like have to duck when you go through doorways tall). I think she doesn’t realize that those are meant to be two separate measurements.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:27 PM
11

Oh yeah, of course no one is entitled to sex. I only meant as a group of people who other people might reject on the basis of their disability alone (and not their personality as well). And disabled women are rejected far more often than men (because there’s always some pickme trying to prove she’s not “ablist”), but i never hear them complaining that it’s nOt fAiR, or that they deserve prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:17 PM
21

It’s funny, because they only people i can think of who maybe face actual “sexual discrimination” (and not just “not meeting someone’s standards”) are wheelchair users. Because people will just assume that they are incapable of sex. But i don’t ever hear them whining about it. Certainly not like short men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:21 PM
51

He can be the Cat Molester! It was a story he told about himself when he was a child. At the time i thought he was exaggerating (or outright making it up), but later on i realized just how fucked up he is, and that it’s not outside the realm of possibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:19 AM
3

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:58 AM
46

Well, i can’t say i’m surprised he likens himself to the guy who built on his competitor’s idea, pretended it was completely his own, and later ran him out of business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:53 AM
3

Oh wow, that’s terrible! And no, he probably doesn’t have any friends. Otherwise he wouldn’t still be trying to get the attention of someone he knows probably hates him. I hope you were able to remove him from your life completely, and never have to hear from him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:42 AM
5

when I saw him running in my neighborhood a couple of days ago Oh, yikes! Does he live in the area, or do you think he’s still stalking you? Fortunately I live pretty far away from all of my exes. I don’t know what I’d do if I saw one in my neighborhood. Probably move, lol. Stay safe! I think most of my anger over seeing him is at my past self. Due to my upbringing, I tend to be very hard on myself, so I beat myself up over the fact that I wasted so much time with this lowlife, and relinquished …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:36 AM
8

I don’t get it either, sis! When i break up with someone I like to consider that a chapter of my life that is closed. I feel like getting in touch with an ex would be like moving backwards in life. Scrotes will mistreat and cheat on a girl they’re dating, only to obsess over her after she finally dumps his ass. Make it make sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:09 AM
3

Lol 😂 FDS could teach that class
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:04 AM
67

Yep. Hope that therapist was paid well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:58 AM
11

Oh, good to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:57 AM
17

I think you can browse anonymously (or just log out before looking). Weird that he didn’t think to do that. I wonder if he knows how embarrassing that is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:40 AM
10

It didn’t happen in front of me, but he told me he did that as a child. Didn’t even seem ashamed by it, just told me like it was funny. At the time, my low self-esteem pickme ass was like “ohhhhh… i wonder if he was sexually abused, and that’s why he even thought of doing that?” But now i realize he’s just a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:38 AM
12

Yeah, i wish FDS was in my life back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:34 AM
28

🤔 good point, i wouldn’t put it past him. I have the feeling he only went to therapy because his wife made an ultimatum. I feel sorry for any woman involved with him, he’s just an energy and self-esteem suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:32 AM
9

Oh, word? Well that sucks. Cos i’m definitely not touching his profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:30 AM
122

He told me that he tried to masturbate a cat when he was a child. He also never had a pet cat, so i’m wondering where he found that one. Also said he tried to make a bunch of kittens have sex with each other. At that point i was just like “yeah… you don’t need to tell me everything about yourself”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:27 AM
27

Yeah, learning that was certainly… something. Turning off view notifications is definitely worth considering. If someone wants to interview me, they’ll send a message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:25 AM
58

I still want employers to be able to find me, though. I have premium, which allows me to see everyone who’s looked at my profile (which makes me wonder if he’s been doing this since before i paid for premium access). At any rate, i don’t even look at profiles of people i don’t want to talk to, and i’m not on any other social media that can be linked to my actual identity. Another commenter said that i can block specific people from seeing my profile, so i’ll try that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:20 AM
27

Damn, he thinks he can buy your attention for a dollar. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:14 AM
290

Oh, i didn’t know i could block people on linkedin. That’s good to know; thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:12 AM
5

I had an ex who would do things like this. Whenever i got upset with him over something he did, he would do an over-the-top begging for forgiveness type of apology (getting down on his knees in the middle of the sidewalk, etc) until I said that I forgave him just to get him to stop. And he would never change his behavior. I’m pretty sure this is a ploy to publicly embarrass her until she gives in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:03 PM
36

Came here to say this—and her man is ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:57 AM
8

Oof. That’s just embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:45 PM
20

In my day, it was OJ Simpson these scrotes were idolizing. Most men have been shit since the beginning of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:40 PM
63

Oh honey. It’s not us actively making you look worse. You just ARE worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:34 PM
102

Oh my god. Roosh V thinks he’s a fucking scientist because he baked some bread. Super inflated view of his own abilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:32 PM
427

And then Einstein congratulated him on his mind game prowess, and everybody clapped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:28 PM
556

This is why women die earlier if they get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:26 PM
20

Uh-uh, nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:25 PM
381

Oh he knows she wants him to pay his own way. He’s just trying to wring as much value from his sugar mommy/bangmaid as he can before she’s thoroughly disgusted by him, and leaves him by the side of the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:28 AM
5

About all you can do is let her know that you’re there for her if she wants to leave him, and that you hope she does. It has to be her decision, though. Unfortunately, if you try to convince her to leave him, and she gets cold feet, or things are hard for a while, she’ll blame you for “putting the idea in her head”. And if her boyfriend finds out that you’ve told her to leave, he may even convince her to cut ties with you. It sucks, but there’s not much you can do for her except be there for thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:06 AM
8

I guarantee he’s still fucking his ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:56 AM
32

I went to one of the top technical schools In my country, and nearly all of my male classmates wanted to date women who also went to good schools. The only exception were a few really insecure ones who would exclusively date girls from a nearby women’s college, because they were at the bottom of their classes, and wanted someone they could feel smarter than (the women’s college was still a good school, but their programs were more focused on the arts and humanities, so some narrow-minded men tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:39 PM
9

Eeeeeeewwwwwwwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:25 AM
25

Well, women aren’t going to stop being sentient just because your peepee is limp. Stay home jerking it to anime, and leave real women alone. Forever. Then die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:20 AM
1

Yikes 😬 Anyway, here’s Wonderwall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:24 AM
20

🩳🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:53 AM
25

Even if you were trying to do an ill-advised 50/50 relationship, this is still way off balance. He pays for lunch, so she has to pay for dinner (which costs almost twice as much)? She gets a pair of shoes, but he gets a whole suit? He’s having a rough day, and she’s “there for him”, but where does he reciprocate? Why are these pickmes so desperate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:15 PM
14

“Dark humor” is just being offensive and pretending it was a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:52 AM
103

Scrote: Why won’t women respond to my online harassment?! Someone tell me, because i can’t figure it out myself! I just want to knooooow! Several people: Here are multiple reasons why women are not responding to your advances. If you want a date, here’s what you should do instead. Scrote: …no, not like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:31 AM
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Scrote is presented with the following data: Women say they want good men Scrote develops hypothesis that he is a good man, and that women will respond to his advances if this hypothesis is correct. Scrote tests hypothesis by messaging several women. Said women reject scrote’s advances. Scrote’s concludes that women are lying when they say they want good men. Classic scientific fallacy of assuming your hypothesis is correct, so it must be the data that is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:28 AM
9

Did you send her a link to FDS yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:43 PM
46

Whaaaaaat? How is this fine specimen of a man still single? Who wouldn’t want to be a free chauffeur and bangmaid??? You only have to quit your job so you can be available at all hours of the day or night to drive him around to his “mechanic” *cough*drugdealer\cough* job. You could even be a career girl, and work for him! He might even pay you enough to cover the gas money and extra wear and tear on your vehicle! Yes siree, nothing unsafe about driving a strange man around at all hours of the ni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:33 PM
43

I had wondered why this guy reminded me of Chris Watts so much. Even beyond the physical similarities, it’s mostly the body language. Brian’s gleeful little laugh when the cop calls him a “victim” is exactly like Watts’ laugh when he said “I want those kids back” (after he’d murdered them). It’s so weird and out-of-place that most people would just dismiss it as nerves, or social awkwardness (our human tendency to avoid focusing on things that make us uncomfortable, or that don’t make sense), bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:23 AM
111

The 97% effective statistic doesn’t even mean that three percent of all condoms fail (a number that implies that three in 100 condoms is defective, or that each condom lets three percent of sperm through). The data was gathered from a test group of couples who used condoms as their only form of birth control for a year. Most of the failures of this method were from the couple not using a condom because they ran out, or there weren’t any around. If used properly, a condom is more than 99.999% eff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:06 AM
612

Single father of three with another one on the way. He already ditched his last baby momma before she even had his baby. And he’ll probably try to baby trap whomever is supposed to respond to this Marx’s funeral worth of red flags. Because the first four attempts weren’t successful. The fucking audacity. 🤦‍♀️ They really think women are that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:49 AM
32

Nah, sis. And aside from the fact that running errands with someone is NOT 👏 A 👏 DATE 👏, why the gym??? That’s the last place you should want your potential love interest to hang out with you, when you’re sweaty, stinky, and making undignified grunting noises while lifting more weight than you can safely handle. Not! Impressive! I’m not even sure i’d ever want to work out with a love interest, but if you must, make sure it’s a well-established relationship. Where you’ve already seen eachother at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:04 PM
10

That’s immediately what i thought of, too. The guy even looks similar: same narc vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:19 PM
4

Wow that’s gross! He does know covid is transmitted through through the lungs, and not the genitals, right? That’s why we had that whole “wear a mask” thing, and not a “wear a chastity belt” thing. What a dumbass scrote. I hope your daughter’s doing okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:51 AM
3

Wow, the scrotacity of this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:45 AM
5

I opened this link and saw this dudes withered, puckery face and ill-fitting clothes, and said “Nah. Whatever this dude’s got to say is nothing i need to hear.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:31 AM
3

Women receive ridicule, hostility, and ostracization if their choices are met with societal disapproval, but they still make those choices and live with them and carry on. A-fucking-men to that! Stay home with the kids? “Gosh, it sure is nice that your husband lets you stay home. You should be grateful that you have it soooo easy, and don’t have to contribute.” Go back to work after kids? “I sure hope your kids don’t suffer being left in daycare all day. No wonder your husband cheated with his s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:25 AM
1

I’m friends with a couple who had twins after they already had two other kids. They decided that one parent should stay home, and decided that it would be the dad, because the mom’s job made more money. He’s one of the two stay-at-home husbands (out of the ten that i know) who actually does everything that a stay at home wife would do (and the other one doesn’t even have kids—and he’s on disability), instead of just being a live-in babysitter who cooks dinner. So i think it can work, but it’s pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:08 AM
75

Winning = getting walked out on and still being mad about it seven years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:51 AM
83

Ikr? Help him out… the door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:40 AM
302

I remember hearing a psychologist say “psychopaths are born, but narcissists are made.” Seeing how the bf’s family are all defending him and praising his ability to handle disagreements with his girlfriend, i can see how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:36 AM
2

Lol! Surprisingly, no. There’s more than one of those out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:21 PM
3

Yeah, that was pretty much my reaction (actually, my first reaction was to assume it was a joke, then i realized he was serious)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:20 PM
9

Had one tell me that he once tried to masturbate a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:53 AM
393

I’m always suspicious when a man asks a young woman or teenage girl for help. Men spend so much time despising teen girls, but now they need one to “help” them? Uh-uh. That’s such bullshit. Ask a man for help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:42 AM
206

The scathing comments are giving me life! I wanted leave a “Who’s here from FDS?” comment, but of course, first rule of FDS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:06 AM
14

So… pollen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:32 AM
126

Financial. Infidelity. Fuck off forever, Refinery 29.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:03 AM
13

go work on your overreactive sacral chakra 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:18 PM
362

🤣 its every poly couple ever! Chris Fleming said it best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:20 PM
42

They always want to get mad at people for observing an element of their culture and reacting accordingly, but never want to do anything to change their culture in the first place. I guess they want to keep being predatory, but also want everyone to pretend they don’t notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:01 PM
234

“It’s not nice to be around god while menstruating” Well, then maybe god shouldn’t have created women to menstruate 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:00 PM
157

For all the scrotes complaining about how uNfAiR and dIsCrImInItOrY this is, it’s exactly like the female-only cars on the train. Women aren’t able to safely stay anywhere else because of the way men behave, so all hotels have effectively become “men only”. This hotel decided to offer an option for women and couples who feel uncomfortable staying in ordinary hotels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:56 PM
1

Ever read James Krakaur’s Under The Banner of Heaven? Advice from tradwives will literally get you murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:09 AM
6

So they straight up admit that they think women are “inferior and disgusting”, and that men are right to k*ll and abuse us… and then get mad at us for not wanting to be in relationships with them? I mean. If my choices are: a) Definitely get abused (and maybe klled) by a scrote that i’ve agreed to be a punching bag for, possibly after having his children, and b) Do my best to avoid such men and only get klled by a scrote if he manages to track me down, which probably won’t happen… i’m gonna go w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:07 AM
3

Tell me you have a small penis, without telling me you have a small penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:57 AM
1

Been true for every Brian i’ve met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:52 AM
3

Now that i’ve disabled chats, he’s sending those “reddit cares” messages. Any way to opt out of getting those? Lol, this guy needs to touch some grass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:09 AM
78

I’ve never liked the manipulative protagonist of The Notebook, but i think a lot More people agree with me now than did when it first came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:30 AM
56

Just got my first FDS related one from a butthurt scrote that deleted his account immediately afterwards. Thanks for reminding me to disable DMs, scrote. I’d almost forgot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:18 AM
9

I wonder if there were butthurt men writing in to the paper to complain back then like there would be today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:17 AM
26

I was genuinely sad when it FDS was down for two days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:13 AM
4

Yeah, what is even going on there? Is he wearing a diaper? Reminds me of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:06 AM
1

Eh, let him stand on his toes til his calves get tired, and he topples over. It’ll be funny to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:01 AM
16

Ikr? No one’s asking them to swab it out with a bottle brush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:52 AM
37

I once stayed with a friend and her gay roommate, and their bathroom was disgusting. Mildew-smelling, mold in colors i’d never seen before… long story short, they had some kind of long-standing argument over who should clean the bathroom, so it never got cleaned. So one day the gay roommate is having a guy over, and lo and behold, the bathroom is sparkling clean now. It even smelled clean. He scrubbed the bathroom down for a one night stand, who he laughed at the next day (after he left), saying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:48 AM
229

Wow. I wonder if they can sue him for back rent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:32 AM
35

FDS IS BACK! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:30 AM
1

So do they want women to constantly give “chances” (read: pity sex) to men they aren’t attracted to, or do they want to “be desired” by their partner? Which is it? Cause you can’t have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:52 AM
1

This reminds me of something my dad said when our neighbors got divorced. He was saying “i don’t get people who get tired of what they have and then want ‘something new’, like they’re not going to be in the exact same place six months down the road.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:50 AM
2

They out here pegging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:49 AM
2

Fuck Stonetoss, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:41 AM
1

Lol, they really think we out here desperate for male attention, huh? That we’ll dumb ourselves down to gain the attention of dumbass men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:40 AM
2

I’ve only recently learned “what do you mean by that?”, and it’s been a godsend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:35 AM
4

Didn’t Atwood point out in one of the scenes that the protagonist and other handmaids had “voluntarily” signed up to be handmaids, because the alternative was certain death in the radioactive wilderness? That’s where “consensual” abuse gets you. That venn diagram better be a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:24 AM
2

How about nah?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:22 AM
1

That’s what i thought, too. The only way this would have made sense is if she was trying to tell him about their buy two get one free lock deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:58 PM
8

Whenever someone starts talking up how great their mom or wife is for working so hard and taking care of them, i always try to find a way to innocently ask them what hobbies she enjoys doing that don’t involve taking care of hubby or the kids. If they can’t name anything, i just feign surprise/disappointment that they can’t name anything, and then change the subject. Works especially well if they’ve just finished talking about how great she is for supporting her husband’s “dream” and her kids’ a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:51 PM
5

Good for this person! I read about another one where somebody posted about standing on line at the drug store, and the guy in front of him/her on his phone, telling his wife “karen” that he was still at work. This person (prolly a guy, a woman would be too afraid) yelled “No he’s not, Karen—he’s at the drug store!” He then followed it up with “nobody lies to Karen on my watch.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:32 PM
79

And what’s all this shit about him lying because she “deserved better”?? So you actively recognized that she deserved someone better than you, but then lied to fool her into thinking you are the kind of man she deserves???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:02 PM
34

I can almost see the replies telling her to cOmMuNiCaTe 🙄 Despite the fact that she has tried to communicate with him on multiple occasions, and he has either 1) lied, 2) gotten angry, or 3) cried. But no, the onus is still on her to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:59 PM
1

i don’t have a voice anymore Then kindly get off the internet, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:40 PM
7

I had a professor in college who said that anyone was free to wear a tank top in his class, provided they shaved their armpits. And that went for men, too. In his words “the last think i wanna see is a hairy ape with arm up, going ‘uh, yeah, prof. ____, i gotta question’”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:30 PM
1

Oh, is that what those are?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:20 PM
741

Oh please. Try transitioning from being a child to being teenage girl sometime, and coming to the realization that you now belong to the most widely ridiculed and despised demographic in our culture, to the extent that even something that is widely liked by teenage girls is dismissed as worthless (tainted, as it were). And realizing that not only have you inherited a truckload of undeserved hate, but predatory males everywhere hate you and want to fuck you, simultaneously. And some men have the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:39 PM
6

Same here! Macho behavior is an instant turn-off for me. I love a man who’s gentle, and if he loves cats, even better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:48 AM
41

I had the same thing happen! Years ago, I was looking for my own place, and had a bf in another state at the time. For some reason, he assumed that he was welcome to move in with me once i found an apartment (we both lived with our parents at the time). This really bothered me for some reason, and i finally realized it was because i never slept well when i was at his place. At best, i’d get one hour of frequently interrupted sleep, and pretend to be asleep the rest of the time. Faced with the pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:28 AM
6

How about she volunteer to switch places with one of the Afghani women then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:30 AM
5

I’m a member, but there’s not a lot of content last time i checked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:26 AM
81

What??? That was just iRoNiC: he only ironically took a cat boy prostitute on a date! And he only ironically masturbates to cat boy anime porn! And he’s only ironically into underage and barely legal boys—just like the ancient Romans! They only boned dudes because they hated women so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:43 PM
14

“No one’s asking you to pretend like women don’t get assaulted and abused. We’re just asking you to accept the risk of assault or abuse and trust us anyway, because our feelings are more important than your safety.” Get fucked, dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:33 PM
78

How about she just gets some real friends to spend time with instead? And they can let her know that she can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:30 PM
67

So he (she? It?) has a problem with men being told to “man up” and act like adults (and not expect women to coddle them all the time), then turns around and complains that fewer men are attending college now. But isn’t that the men’s choice not to attend college? And how do they propose we “fix” this? We can’t tell them to “man up”, get an education, and make something of themselves, because apparently telling a man to do anything is “reinforcing the patriarchy” now, so… does he just want women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:30 AM
26

Gross. I always knew this is how the guys i went to school with would end up: divorced and pathetically hitting on younger women in the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:28 PM
258

So gross 🤮 Time to go no contact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:18 PM
423

Don’t ever help men who aren’t your close friends or trusted relatives. At most, you can call local services to do a wellness check, but don’t help them yourself. Why? Because predatory men pretend to be disabled or hurt in order to lure women to them, and then suddenly that disability goes away once the door is shut. This is exactly what Ted Bundy did to lure his victims. The media always says it’s because he was attractive, but that’s bullshit (have you seen his pictures? Ew). He manipulated w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:15 PM
60

Agreed. I believe that everyone’s reproductive rights are important, but women’s reproductive rights are absolutely more important, and hold more weight. For the extremely obvious reason that a woman risks her life, health, safety, mental and physical wellbeing, as well as her employability in order to bring a child into the world, and a man does not. Anyone who thinks a man’s reproductive rights deserve equal consideration to those of the woman he impregnated is simply outing themselves as a pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:34 AM
474

I hope she never apologizes; she was absolutely right in her advice, as well as her assessment of her brother’s character. It’s refreshing to see someone have FDS principles in spite of having such a low-value family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:21 AM
136

Oh, word? Sorry to hear that buddy. Let me play you a tune on the world’s smallest… violen. 🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:08 PM
10

They were always so much better than Gem’s band
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:32 AM
77

You know your date idea sucks if you have to sell the date that hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:13 PM
55

They were shat into this world directly from satan’s asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:54 PM
193

Oh, i didn’t think of that, but probably. That’s probably why he didn’t want to go on a date in a public place, either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:41 PM
33

Thanks for linking the article; really interesting stuff. My favorite excerpt: Emotional manipulation included things such as ”He told her he would die if she ever left” and ”He pleaded that he could not live without her.” “Babe, I’ll die if you leave me!” 🤡 “Then perish”👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:24 AM
74

Bullshitting about economics isn’t gonna get your pp wet, pal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:37 AM
16

I remember a pickmeisha radio host saying that Rihanna was thinking about getting back together with Chris Brown, but that he was with someone else at the time. This bitch actually said “i feel kinda sorry for Chris Brown. It must be hard to have to choose between two women” without a trace of sarcasm. 🤡 The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:04 PM
8

😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:42 PM
18

I’ve avoided Serbian men ever since i learned about the atrocities they committed during the Bosnian genocide. That’s some fucked-up shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:40 PM
2

Yeah, that would be the grossest thing to happen to them, in this guy’s opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:59 AM
14

She like she like she like 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:42 PM
52

Definitely losing brain cells. 14 x 52 is 728, my guy. Not 672.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:27 PM
51

I love that when she was finally recognized in her 80s for her accomplishments, her response was “well it’s about damn time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:25 PM
1

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:13 PM
5

If you’re taking about machine castration guy, yes. Apparently he enjoyed masturbating with dangerous machinery when none of the other workers were around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:12 AM
27

Why are you listed as the owner of 344 scrote lane on zillow, if you don’t want me to come to your house and leave a flaming bag of dogshit on the doorstep?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:55 AM
42

The fucking audacity 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:46 AM
12

At least one guy electrocuted himself because he tried to fuck an electric belt sander placed between two couch cushions. And how about the guy who got his testicles ripped off because they got caught in machinery at the factory he worked at after he turned the machine on, and put his weiner on it (something he liked to do on his lunch breaks)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:38 AM
203

I’m just picturing the doctor saying “well, you appear to have a candida infection on your tongue. We don’t usually see this infection in the mouths of people with healthy immune systems; have you performed oral sex recently?” And then taking one look at him “no, i’m sure you haven’t. Have you by chance eaten gummy candies that were extracted from another person’s rectum?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:29 AM
50

What happens if you just skip the step where you shove them up your ass first, and just send plain ol’ untainted gummy bears? Are scrotes going to get mad that they don’t smell/taste like shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:26 AM
55

Yeah, you’ve got gelatin (prime medium for growing bacteria) and sugar (fungus food). This man is too stupid to live!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:23 AM
22

Oh god, i was trying to forget that post!!! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:20 AM
69

He’s probably just worried about the website’s legal troubles spreading to him like that yeast infection did. Not that 1) they don’t already have his credit card info in their database, so if anyone wanted to go after punters, they could, and 2) he didn’t already embarrass the shit out of himself with this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:19 AM
5

I’m glad you’ve escaped, too! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:06 AM
21

Meanwhile, the single mom who rejected him is thanking her lucky stars that she dodged that shit-show bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:53 AM
35

If men can pick up on our ✨VIBRATIONS✨ so well, then why can’t they figure out when we don’t want to talk to them? This is the most woo-woo bullshit theory i’ve ever heard, and i’ll bet he came up with it when a woman tried to non-verbally cue that she wasn’t interested in him and wanted him to go away, and he just thought “yeah, she was into me, but her vIbRaTiOnS were off, and that’s why it didn’t work out.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:41 PM
9

Man, their culture really needs to stop coddling these tiny-dicked men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:59 AM
4

What!? I’ve never even heard of a professional matchmaker who charges women. They always charge the men, because it’s the men who are looking, and have a laundry list of requirements (usually physical).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:47 AM
63

Wow, he’s a successful business man, but doesn’t know how to use a coffee machine. Must be an idiot savant. A fun thing to do in situations like these is to insist on teaching him how to use the machine, and then make him do it himself, like you would for a lazy child. Make sure to praise him condescendingly when he figures it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:46 AM
196

They do it for the delusion and ego boost. Even if deep down they know that you’re not going to hook up with them, they also know that you’ve been conditioned to be polite, and not hurt mens’ feelings. So they know that you’ll at the very least be polite to them, and continue answering their questions, regardless of how uncomfortable you are. Then they get to go home thinking “yeah, i’ve still got it. I could have slept with her if if really *wanted** to.* (side note: we know you want to, scrote…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:41 AM
6

🤣 these replies are amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:46 AM
318

“You look like my ex” “Sounds like you need to get over your ex. Good luck”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:51 PM
210

he never lists that impossible standard “She wants me a get a bedframe and stop living in an RV?! This is bullshit! 🤬”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:14 PM
364

And he wasn’t even ugly, so the fact that he’s bemoaning women not wanting to sleep with him cause their standards are too high means he’s telling on himself that he’s a hateful piece of shit who refuses to even try to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:11 PM
37

Oh my god, i remember reading this! It’s haunted me as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:40 AM
18

“I want you to be safer, so you don’t get injured again” “Oh yeah?! How about i just DIE, instead??? Is that what you want?!!!” 😂 dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:50 PM
40

I still remember my pick-me days, when i thought it was “mean” to stop dating someone i was not interested in. I clearly remember talking to an older mentor, and saying “i guess i’m just going through a mean phase right now”, when talking about ending a situationship, declining to date another guy, and considering going no contact with my ex. He looked me straight in the eye and said “that’s not being mean, that’s having standards.” Every so often i get the cringe from my past mindset, and i hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:34 PM
6

Vinegar works on sweat stains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:19 PM
92

Ugh, i hate guys like that. Instead of putting effort in, and doing the best they can, they just take a shit picture, or do a bad job, and then whine about “you think i’m ugly/stupid/incompetent, don’t you?!”, expecting you to jump in and coddle them, to make them feel better. You don’t sound like a bitch at all. You just expect men to put in at least a fraction of the effort that you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:00 AM
3

I fucking hate reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:53 PM
10

This is one case where i think having an ASD has helped me avoid falling victim: looking back, I’m pretty sure that at least a few men tried these kind of games with me, and I (being unable to read social cues) did not fall for the bait. Immediately, I thought “oh, this guys doesn’t like me after all. I guess I misread him earlier, when I thought he was interested. And I don’t think I wanna be friends, either, cause he’s always saying things that make me feel bad.” (I didn’t know what negging wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:52 PM
66

Lol, buzzing all my hair off, brb!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:26 PM
60

I only know of two abused husbands who i would actually consider abused: one was a paraplegic man with an able-bodied wife, and one was a deaf man with a hearing wife. Both of these were situations where the husband was in a position where he was financially or physically dependent on his wife, with limited access to the outside world (due to language barrier or physical disability). So, the same situation that the majority of women are automatically in when they enter relationships with men. In…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:24 PM
2

Good for you. I can’t think of a single occasion on which i followed another person’s advice instead of doing what i planned to do in the first place, and not had it turn out to be an absolute shit-show. Not saying things always turned out perfectly the way i did them, but I’d rather fuck up following my own plan, then fuck up following someone else’s shit advice, and have to explain why i did that, even though i didn’t even think it was a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:21 AM
9

I absolutely hate the whole “men are problem solvers, but women just wanna talk” narrative. Oh? You think you have the solution to my problem after two minutes of listening? And you offered the most obvious solution, because you think i haven’t tried that yet. So… you think i’m just sitting here with my thumb up my ass waiting for a man to come “fix my problems”? Wow, so you really think i’m a dumbass, huh? Ntm the “advice” they give is always the worst possible thing you can do, and you’re bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:59 PM
3

Can we normalize walking out of bad dates? Cause this girl could have saved herself $75 bucks on dinner and his Uber fare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:40 PM
7

One of the cats i had when i was growing up chased a big male cat out of our yard when she was just a kitten. Tbf, he was very friendly, and only trying to say hi, but it was still hilarious. “Oh hi, new friend!” “HISSSSSSS!!!” “Imsorryimsorryimsorryimsorry, HALP!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:35 PM
22

This guy cheated on his last girlfriend but she’s still in attendance at all of their group hangs so he has to keep my friend a secret. Pretty sure that’s his current girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:28 PM
10

It’s hilarious when fat dudes talk about their “fitness routine”. I’m always tempted to say “oh, you just started working out? That’s great. Don’t worry about the lack of results at first, it takes a few weeks before you really start to notice a difference. Oh, you’ve already been working out for months? Huh. Have you tried higher intensity workouts?” It’s the neg uno reverse card
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:22 PM
18

🙄 sit the fuck down M. Nyte Shamamalam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:03 PM
2

Being obsessed with positions, and changing position every few seconds. Porn is shot to make it visually interesting to a non-participant viewer, so a lot of the positions aren’t even enjoyable (or comfortable) to either participant. So it’s a definite tell if a guy thinks they’re just a regular part of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:44 PM
73

He “doesn’t want any drama”, but still wanted to have a baby with you (without providing any kind of security)? Nah, sis. Run far, and run fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:27 AM
23

I’ve encountered scrotes like this before! It’s like “who let this guy outside? I’m pretty sure he’s an escaped mental patient or something, because he obviously can’t function around people”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:47 PM
10

It’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:44 PM
5

Why is she trying to fix her bf’s scrotey friend?? The barb the builder instinct is strong with this one. And jesus christ, leave other women alone! FFS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:34 AM
4

I think i’m in the same boat as you. I’m not sure if i’ve always been asexual, and i just forced myself to have lots of casual sex because i thought that’s what i was supposed to want (eMpOwErInG), or if i used to feel sexual attraction, but i’ve been so turned off by what’s out there that i’ve given up on it. Maybe a little of both. Either way, i feel like i’d be perfectly happy if i never dated again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:26 AM
78

Exactly. It used to mean a guy who was reasonably fit, but not built like a body builder, because he’s a busy guy with kids, and doesn’t have time to live at the gym (we won’t get into how “dad bod” started as a compliment/reassurance, whereas “mom bod” has always been an insult, despite the fact that she’s the one who nourished her children from her own body for months at a time. That’s a rant for another day). But it was still supposed to be a guy who’s fit enough to take care of the yard and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:14 AM
335

BuT fDs Is JuSt As BaD, eVeN wOrSe In SoMe WaYs 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:37 AM
24

Are marketing execs really that out of touch, or are they just trolling us at this point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:52 AM
20

“You’ll be forever alone!!!1!” Promise???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:47 AM
2

Thanks for the resources! I’ve been making my own skincare (only way i know there’s nothing in it that will irritate my skin) for about a year now. I use a lot of the recipes on crunchybetty.com as a starting point, then tailor them to my skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:26 PM
5

Oh my god. At least pay for a prepared meal service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:18 PM
12

Natural selection at work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:15 PM
67

Always love a good scrote barbecue 🔥🍡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:51 AM
13

oh! You’re just not mature enough for a relationship and you should get help And this is why you’re getting ghosted, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:05 PM
3

Gotta make sure he gets all his chins in the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:55 PM
2

After setting it on fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:54 PM
2

Expected to see a picture of a hoverround. Did not expect this. Well played, ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:52 PM
27

Wow, what a dickhead. If these men contribute nothing to a relationship besides their paycheck, then of course they’re going to get dropped when they no longer have that to contribute. That’s what you do with dead weight. I hope you’re in a better situation now, or will be soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:55 AM
81

Exactly this. Not only that, but he’s spending more time at home, meaning that he’s eating at home, and the house is getting dirty faster (i was unemployed during the pandemic, and not really going out, and i noticed that i had to clean almost three times as much as i did when i worked. And that was just with me living there) but he’s unlikely to start pulling his own weight re: cooking and cleaning, because he has to devote all his energy to “applying for jobs” (and playing video games to unwin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:47 PM
6

Oh my god, that’s insane. I don’t trust anything psychologists tell me. I went to school with psychology majors, and about 80% of them have untreated/self-treated mental illness. The field just attracts people like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:04 PM
11

Welp, i’ve lost my appetite… forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:22 PM
2

And they call us gold-diggers 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:15 PM
3

Meanwhile, if it was a man looking at his phone the whole time, they’d be telling her to just be glad he’s sitting next to her looking at instagram models while she watches her show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:11 PM
32

I think he was talking about the inconvenience men go through when their wives/gfs are on their period, pregnant, or giving birth. Oh, poor baby, someone give this man an award 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:29 PM
244

Ugh. I dated one of those. Just assumed that i wanted kids because he did (i am child-free, and will remain that way, thank you very much). Once he tried to put on this cute little voice and say “you know, women go through periods, pregnancies, and child birth, but did you know that men go through those things too?” Yeah, talk to me when your cervix falls out of your body, pal. Not to mention he thought periods were disgusting, and refused to touch me when i was on mine (despite “jokingly” press…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:36 AM
2

She should order the computer she wants directly from the manufacturer (Dell, in this case). It’s less expensive if you go that route, anyway, and the manufacturer usually has better customer support. Then she (or you) should call the store, and explain that she’s already purchased the laptop she wants online, and will never be purchasing anything from their store ever again, because of the treatment she received, and that she will be telling everyone she knows not to shop there, either. Explain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:02 PM
484

And that’s why it’s a terrible idea to be a free sex toy for a couple with a failing marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:46 PM
2

🙄 of course he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:26 AM
19

“I’m not giving off signals that i’m checking them out or anything, i’m just watching them closely enough to notice that they’re deliberately avoiding me, and making a mental note each time it happens, and what she was doing immediately before, during, and after it happened.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:24 AM
30

Hand sanitizer works, if you aim directly for the eyes. And it’s legal to carry around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:22 AM
26

At this point, if he had said that his mom/ex-wife chewed all his food for him and spit it into his mouth like a mother bird, and he literally did not know how to eat, i don’t even think i’d be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:58 AM
3

Well this sounds like something that definitely happened and is totally real. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:53 AM
125

at the same time, i wish you was dead Can’t imagine why she left 🤷🏻‍♀️. Hope his current gf leaves him, too. In fact, i hope the recipient sent this to her. No one should have to be with someone who thinks like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:24 PM
244

Ah, the rational sex… just expressing his superior masculine logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:22 PM
3

Damn, rugby players have some nice thighs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:30 PM
82

He’ll try to baby trap her if she stays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:19 PM
10

#NotAllMenButDefinitelyThisOne
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:13 PM
45

“Earn a dinner”? Do they think we are unable to pay for dinner on our own? Why would i drink coffee with a scrote, when i can take myself out to dinner at a nice restaurant and bring a good book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:04 PM
5

It’s good to see a man calling other men out. Sad that she probably wouldn’t have listened if it was a woman offering this advice (not to mention that a woman saying this would have gotten downvoted to hell, instead of being given awards), but it is what it is. At least there are men who are willing take other men to task for shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:51 AM
8

So true! All of them had such terrible form! Two seconds into the second guy’s run, I said “he’s gonna pull a hamstring.” Lo, and behold: pulled hamstring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:38 AM
30

Well, you could always take a broke guy to a restaurant you know he can’t afford, and then when the bill comes, insist on going 50/50. Or even better, say you left your purse at home, and ask him to cover this one. Say you’ll get the next one. Or explain how you paid for the last date, which was when you both stopped at Wendy’s for a quick bite (still counts!), so it’s only fair that he pays for this date. Accuse him of being a gold digger if he objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:23 AM
13

Oh yeah, for sure. Attractive men are often friendlier and more personable simply because they’ve been getting positive feedback their whole lives for smiling and being social (and they don’t have to worry about getting unwanted attention as much as attractive women do). Not to mention that men who put effort into their appearance are more likely to put effort into their social skills as well. These men are just looking for excuses to avoid having to put in any effort at all, but still wanna com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:38 AM
181

I used to participate in a sub for giving advice to guys trying to climb out of the incel crab bucket (i know, i know), and invariably there would always be a few scrotes arguing that it’s not fair that they have to work so hard on being a decent and friendly person, or improving their social skills, because “good-looking guys don’t have to do any of that.” First of all, that’s bullshit. But more importantly, they are so fixated on what good-looking guys are supposedly able to do, and refuse to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:20 AM
2

BREAKING NEWS: MAN DOES SOMETHING NICE FOR HIS WIFE!!! MORE AT 11! Jesus Christ, the bar really is on the ground for men if this is newsworthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:15 PM
16

I’m so happy to see so many young women calling these so-called “nice guys” out on their bullshit. I wish they were around when i was younger, and felt completely alone In my viewpoint that women aren’t obligated to date men they aren’t attracted to. But i’m really glad to see it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:16 AM
2

My first question is “who are you to determine what is in my best interest?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:48 AM
3

Step one: stop worrying about “being a bitch”. In fact, you should take it as a complement if a LVM thinks you’re a bitch. Because in scrotese, “bitch” means “woman who is too good for me.” If a man thinks that requiring appreciation and expecting reciprocation is “bitchy”, then he is the bitch. Little bitch boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:47 AM
27

The women i worked with at my first job were all about fifteen years older than me, and they just loved to share “funny” stories about their husbands being inconsiderate and disrespecting them. I remember thinking “nah, sis. I would never tolerate that shit.” Of course, the one time i said that out loud, everybody standard-shamed me, and started trying to put me down on every occasion they could, so that i stop thinking so highly of my self. That, and continually pointing out that i was single, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:41 AM
6

I read the title as “US husband brings his wife coffee and a cat every morning” at first, and was thinking it meant a different cat each time. And i was wondering where he keeps getting all these cats, and do they just keep them? How many do they have now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:11 PM
1

Sort of like the Turkish people: you’ve got Erdogan withdrawing from the Istanbul Convention and the government denying the Armenian Genocide for a hundred years, but at the same time you’ve got some of the kindest animal lovers i’ve ever met, and this awesome guy who adopted a bunch of street cats and plays piano for them every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:45 AM
5

Oh hell no. I’d be like “good luck with that.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:15 AM
4

Nah, sis. I’d have gotten as far as “ex bf called”, and that’s it. Cause why tf would i pick up the phone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:35 AM
0

It’s a reversal of “fur baby” (what some people call their pets).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:58 AM
69

“Don’t spend money on women, spend it on yourself by… giving it to us! We’ll teach you all the ways to be MASCULINE. You still won’t get your peepee wet, but we’ll be richer!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:37 AM
16

I live in the US, and i’ve noticed for a while that cats seem to occupy the same place that women do in our culture. Things that dogs do are praised, but cats doing the same things are criticized, or even vilified. An example: when experts found that cats don’t meow at each other in the wild, and that the meow is a unique vocalization cats have developed for communicating with humans, cat-haters immediately jumped on it, proclaiming cats to be “manipulative”. But can you imagine the praise dogs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:45 PM
11

I prefer to call people’s children “skin pets”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:26 PM
36

I just don’t get that. If you hate cats so much, then don’t get one, and don’t interact with other peoples’ cats. Don’t immediately proclaim “I hAtE cAtS!” whenever someone mentions they’ve got one. They’re never satisfied hating cats quietly, they have to let everyone know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:23 PM
4

Nice! Hope he’s wearing sunscreen, though. Looks like he burns easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:07 AM
62

So he wants his wife’s friends to pay for their gifts and his gift. Oh, fuck no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:32 AM
5

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:55 AM
167

This is why i don’t do social media. Nobody needs to know where i am who i didn’t tell personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:38 AM
8

That last commenter, though: since when do parochial schools out-perform public schools??? They aren’t taught sex-ed, and are barely taught biology! We should do like Finland and ban private schools (after improving the public school system, like they did, of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:36 AM
1

FFS, if you’re going to infiltrate a sub, at least lurk for a while, and learn the lingo. The “alpha/beta male” language is really obviously from an incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:14 AM
1

How do we report comments to the FDS mods? The report button only reports it to reddit mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:12 AM
17

I’m surprised more sites don’t give all the measurements. Seems like a really important detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:00 PM
29

I am skeptical of anyone who thinks that any kind of living animal is “low-maintenance”. A pet might be lower maintenance than another kind of pet, but any animal is going to need care and enrichment. I’d like to add another tip for using pets (particularly cats) to vet men: how does he act when the pet wants to be left alone? Does he respect its space, or does he pick it up/grab it/force affection on it? A man who won’t respect an animal’s bodily autonomy probably won’t respect yours, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:51 AM
1

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:20 AM
7

Here’s what I’ve noticed about self-proclaimed “religious” men: • Huge mama’s boys. You’ll be compared to his mother and what she did for him/didn’t make him do at every turn. If you dare try to point out that you are, in fact, not his mother, and that book he claims to revere says that a man is supposed to “leave is father and mother and stick to his wife”, expect an angry call from his mother. • Lazy. He won’t get a job because he wants to “do more for the Lord”, but won’t do anything for the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:37 AM
4

Woman: leaves her high paying job to move in with her cop boyfriend. Reddit: ShE jUsT wAnTs HiS mOnEy And i’m skeptical about him being on the same page as her, because how did the fact that she doesn’t want to sign a prenup become public knowledge of the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:16 AM
4

🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:03 AM
11

And they usually suck at oral, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:00 AM
13

🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀🦀 Now they need to lock up the pornhub guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:55 AM
58

“Life coaching” is a huge scam. I just listened to an episode of The Financial Feminist, where they talked about MLMs, and a lot of these life coaching accreditation agencies function the same way. They make their money off of getting people to sign up and pay for a program that is supposed to train them to become life coaches, with the expectation that people are going to pay them for their services. But the real money is made from referring more clients to the life coaching program, so there’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:35 AM
25

He’s got all those problems at 43? Damn, i’m that same age, and i have never shat anywhere i didn’t intend to (mindfully, and with intention!) While a 43 year old isn’t going to be in as great shape as someone in their 20s, there’s no excuse for that kind of decline. Hell, my parents are in their 70s, and they’re in better shape than that! My dad still mows the lawn! GenX and Millennial men don’t take care of themselves at all. I am convinced that most of them are going to end up in nursing home…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:23 AM
20

What 33 year old has thrombosis?! Did he sit on his ass for the duration of his twenties with no physical activity at all? I have an inherited spinal deformity, am ten years older than him, and in better health than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:13 AM
8

Still doing it. Cringing right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:03 AM
2

I wouldn’t have dated at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:53 AM
2

That’s disappointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:45 AM
61

I think it was unfair of the group to expect you to “manage” this predator who had made himself a part of the group. Why wouldn’t one of the adults step up, instead of expecting a seventeen year old to confront this guy who’s older than she is? Other than the obvious reason: they’re part of the circle of abusers, and for plausible deniability, they put the handling of the matter on someone they knew was not equipped to do anything. So they could say “oh yeah, i heard stuff about that guy, but we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:44 AM
3

Yeah, but she’s taking a psychology course. That means she knows everything. If a self-proclaimed mental health expert in 1912 said that “women should date ugly dudes”, and a bunch of ugly dudes thought that was such a good idea that they put it in a textbook, then who are we to question? /s, in case it wasn’t obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:34 AM
4

Maybe if the pizza was covered in shit. And also was poisoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:20 AM
8

I am not leaving SO WHY👏 THE 👏 FUCK👏 NOT👏?! He is not just acting like a second child, but an older child who is jealous of the new baby, and acting like a brat. Except unlike a child, who would (normally) at least view his mother as an authority figure, he sees her as beneath him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:13 AM
22

Exactly. They’re (wrongly) giving these “men” the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:09 AM
7

That actually exists! There’s a dye that they put in paint bombs for identifying bank/store robbers later. Ot glows under a blacklight, and doesn’t wash off for a month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:53 AM
6

Yeah, i’m sure a few of them get off On it 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:51 AM
4

It’s ironic that couples wanted boys so badly that they were willing to murder their daughters (or let them die of neglect, or leave them at an orphanage), but then didn’t spend any effort raising their precious boys, that they tried so hard to get, to be decent people. They had to know that there would be a scarcity of women by the time their sons were old enough to get married, and that only the very best ones would be able to get wives. So either make sure your son has more advantages than th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:32 AM
5

Do it! You never know, they might hit it off, and just fuck each other. Then they’d leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:29 AM
79

Question: How are you still single? Answer: I’m really good at dodging bullets. Incidentally, the answer to that question is the same as the answer to the other question you asked :“how do you manage to look exactly the same as you did when i last saw you 15 years ago?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:19 PM
78

so for now, i focus on my health That’s an admirable goal. You know what will really improve your mental (and physical) health? Leave that scrote of yours on the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:43 PM
24

So he thinks it’s okay to poop in the shower if she showers first, but… does he realize that it’s the same shower he pooped in yesterday? Does he think it magically disinfected itself in the meantime? And he thinks soap alone can clean the shower sufficiently! So i guess he’s never heard of “soap scum” before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:47 PM
6

There was an older secretary where i used to work, who would apologize for “being assertive”. Finally, one day i asked why she’s sorry, as assertiveness is a good quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:43 AM
48

Oh, well it’s good that they cOmMuNiCaTeD that sexual assault wasn’t appropriate. After all, how are men expected to know??? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:38 AM
14

YES!! And that’s all I managed to attract during the height of my eating disorder—i even had male “friends” who would tell me they didn’t know how i stayed so thin, because i ate “like a pig”, because they saw me eating a granola bar or something (even if that was going to be the only thing i allowed myself to eat that day). There was also one older woman i worked with, who felt she needed to comment on how much i ate, and that i was lucky to be “naturally thin” (“naturally”, my ass—she knew i n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:28 AM
4

hot guys with no personality Well, i dunno about you, but i know that lack of sentience is for sure a quality i look for in hotties. In fact, sometimes i carry around a cardboard cutout of a generically hot guy as my “boyfriend”, just so i can be assured that he doesn’t develop a personality unexpectedly. Hear that guys? Better hit the gym and take an icepick to your prefrontal cortex if you want to get dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:42 AM
6

Oh my god, like so much of this hellsite 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:31 AM
8

What is with genZ and being “validated”? You a parking ticket? I’m at the younger end of genX, and i don’t remember anything we did that was comparable to the current generation’s quest for validation from other people. I don’t need to be harassed to know that i’m real (or “valid”—the fuck even is that?). Or even to know that i look good. In fact, my thought process on being harassed is “damn. Guess i can’t wear this anymore if i want to be left alone. And i really liked this outfit, too”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:28 AM
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Right on! They get mad when we have any standards at all, because apparently it’s uNfAiR if we don’t give every guy a chance, even if we don’t find him desirable. Then, when he’s finally coerced a woman into giving him a pity-fuck, he complains that he feels uNdEsIrEd ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:19 AM
11

Maybe he should start an onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:12 AM
7

Love to see new women-only spaces! While i still love Ovarit, i’m disappointed in the number of posts taken from conservative websites lately. They’ve got conservatives showing up for the GC content, giving invites to other conservatives, who start posting anti-choice bullshit (which gets removed pretty quickly, but still). Then on the other side, they’ve got hardcore radfems making posts about how wearing makeup is anti-feminist, and that covering up the dark circles under your eyes makes you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:43 AM
3

It just never seemed “right” to me. For one thing, he’s not a trained medical professional, so it just always seemed like something the doctors should do. Another was that she was the one who did all the work, so why does the husband get to do this congratulatory final task? Just like buying him a “coach” T-shirt to wear while he tells her to breathe while she’s in labour. The amount of coddling men need to participate in anything at all just astounds me. And you know he’s not going to be the on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:53 PM
35

I’ve always hated the “father cuts the cord thing”, i’m glad i’m not the only one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:46 AM
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I knew a guy in college who constantly spoke in vocal fry to make his voice sound deeper, because his voice was naturally very high pitched and nasally. It didn’t work. His voice just sounded creaky, and it literally hurt my ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:03 AM
77

I knew a woman with back problems who threw her back out in her first trimester so badly that she was getting spasms, which made it even worse. No chiropractor, physical therapist, or massage therapist would touch her before her three-month mark, due to the risk of miscarriage. Not to mention she couldn’t get any kind of pain killers or muscle relaxers. My massage therapist friend finally did some work on her lower spine, to make the spasming stop. She said “i know i’m not supposed to, but what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:06 PM
40

Probably spend a couple hundred on the truck rental already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:52 PM
3

I thought i recognized her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:50 PM
16

Seriously, fuck Oxfam. Shady-ass organization of rapists hiding behind “charity”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:45 PM
5

Sounds like some trolls/scrotes found their way into your dms. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Good for you, though! There’s no need to feel guilty at all: he brought all of his problems on himself. If he hadn’t left, he wouldn’t be having to pay you right now. If he had continued paying what you agreed upon, he wouldn’t have been taken to court, and been required to pay more. He was already lowballing you with the $40 per week, anyway. That’s all he thinks your marriage was worth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:42 PM
11

Yes! I love to see the HVMs who the LVMs and NVMs call “simps” and “whipped” being in good relationships while the LVMs get dumped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:36 PM
9

Men can be so lazy! And they still have the nerve to put down your accomplishments! I went to school with a guy who kept negging me for taking six months to find a job in my field after i graduated (even though i was doing temp work all that time). This despite the fact that he had not graduated yet, even though he was supposed to graduate at the same time i did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:29 PM
8

She’s trying to distance herself from her husband’s porn enterprise now that it looks like he might get in trouble. She never cared about the abuse of children or women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:17 PM
4

Abuse tourism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:14 PM
2

Okay, that’s just straight up abuse. How do people not see this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:48 AM
363

“Don’t” 😂 June gets it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:15 AM
30

Oh god, this just happened earlier today. A scrote commented something deliberately inflammatory on FDS Superfans, so i reported him, then replied something about his microdick. Didn’t think anything of it til he slid into my DMs thirty minutes later with a screed that must have taken that entire half hour to write. Too bad i hit Ignore without reading any of it. All that effort to get posted on our Superfans sub, for nothing. Keep trying, little scrote, i’m sure you’ll make it on there eventual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:30 AM
1

I completely understand. I long for the day when FDS is completely off of reddit, cause then i’ll delete my account, too. FDS is the only reason i’m still here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:08 AM
8

I think my pregnancy… young children, and a new baby… has been a lot for him for him for him for him for him 🤯🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:55 AM
4

Omg, that sounds terrible! I’m so sorry you had to live through that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:40 AM
7

That was my first thought (as well as him being a selfish piece of shit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:37 AM
5

Ali Wong’s a she
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:06 AM
6

I’m from a similar religious background re: divorce only being okay if there’s abuse/infidelity. A few years ago, the mother of one of my friends divorced her husband. She said there was no abuse or adultery going on, and she didn’t say anything else (and since we are encouraged to mind our own business if something is none of our concern, no one asked). She got her own place, never remarried, and lived alone. But even though we are encouraged to mind our own business, you could tell people thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:42 AM
3

it’s all I have That’s gonna be all you have in a minute. FFS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:12 AM
3

What a severe case of battered wife syndrome. Right down to not thinking she should take up resources from “real” battered wives. This hurt my soul to read. I hope she listens to some of the good advice she got in the comments, but i don’t have a lot of faith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:53 PM
2

More like a nest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:48 PM
4

Also unrelated, but i love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:39 PM
3

Was that a subtle Ali Wong reference? 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:37 PM
2

She should trade the scrote for a new vibrator. I’ll bet he made her get rid of her last one because it made him feel “insecure”. Like, it’s not enough to be a selfish scrote in bed, but they need women to pretend he’s the best sex she could ever have, and not be allowed to get off in any other way (so, he expects her to live without orgasms, then).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:52 PM
8

🤢 oh sis, that is abysmal! I had one like that too 🤦🏻‍♀️ 🚨ATTENTION LURKERS! 🚨 That shit is not cute. Nothing makes a vagina dry up and wither away faster than a man talking in a baby voice! And if you think it’s hot when women do it, then you probably need to take an in-depth look at why you think that. Cause that shit is not right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:34 PM
2

Laughing so hard at these emoticons! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:25 PM
5

And why can’t he ask his mom for help? Or his children’s other grandmother? An aunt or somebody? That’s what my aunt did. She had three biracial kids, same mom and dad, but all three of them had vastly different hair types. Her MiL helped her with braiding techniques, but they all ended up experimenting and learning as they went along. I am seriously wondering why this guy has no female relatives he can go to. I’d ask him these things in the comments, just to see what reason he comes up with for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:08 PM
154

My pussy is not a charity. Go elsewhere, hoboscrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:56 PM
3

Omg sis, i’m gagging! My cat is cleaner than these scrotes, and she rubs her butthole on the rug!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:52 PM
10

Yes! I think it’s possible to appreciate the male form without wanting to get all up in a dude’s asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:37 PM
29

I recently read an article written by a polyamorous gay man who had gotten three separate parasite infections (two were giardia, i don’t remember the other one) from rimming guys. He said the reason he wanted to write an article about it was to make other gay men aware of the risk, and that the current PC culture of avoiding discussion of any negative outcomes of casual gay sex actually did a disservice to gay men, who couldn’t protect themselves if they didn’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:30 PM
42

Here, you dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:02 PM
14

I hope not one woman came to his defense. Or even better, that women who know him dragged him, too. He got himself into that mess, he can get himself out. Complaining about being “put on trial unfairly by women on the internet.” That’s a fraction of the level of scrutiny women face every time we go online. Don’t run your mouth (about shit you know nothing about) if you’re going try and hide behind the women in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:11 PM
12

Hey buddy, you won’t have any of those “inconveniences” with your right hand. He should just jerk off in a corner and leave women alone if he’s going to be that selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:07 PM
80

she doesn’t cook me any such meals or any at all Well that’s because you can make your own meals, my dude. One of the responsibilities that comes with having thumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:42 PM
13

Liking IPAs isn’t a substitute for a personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:06 PM
25

There is a women’s homebrew group on fb … it routinely gets flooded with men who don’t want women in “their” space While they invade a space for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:06 PM
45

So… bumble is selling discount prostitutes to LVM, and… the women using the app are the prostitutes. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:53 PM
23

If i remember correctly, i think they were mostly difficulty paying attention, and problems socializing with other kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:39 AM
102

My best friend used to work with 3-4 year olds at a nursery school; she said that even though the kids living with single moms sometimes struggled financially, or didn’t get as much attention as the kids with two parents, for the most part they were happy and well-adjusted. In contrast, all the kids living with single dads suffered from developmental and psychological issues. And it’s not even like the dads were bad people; some of them were widowers who were doing the best they could, but their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:51 PM
183

And i’ll bet no one on the original post noticed how wrong it was for a grown man to groom a sixteen-year-old into being financially dependent on him. It’s obvious what’s happened here: he offered to pay for her education if she repaid him with sex. Now that she has nothing more to gain from this arrangement (since she’s able to earn her own money now), she has no reason to continue doing sex work (which is what that relationship was)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:19 PM
20

All these pickmes thinking it’s wrong to ask their husbands to provide for them sure don’t mind asking tax-payers to provide for them when they have to get on public assistance so their kids can stay fed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:12 PM
157

Internet christians are so embarassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:07 PM
66

So, you’re dating to waste your time. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:55 AM
66

That’s what i was thinking re: the Dunning-Kruger effect. He’s someone who knows a little more than average about a topic, but not enough to know how much knowledge he still lacks. And he thinks everyone else is less intelligent than him, because his peers are secure enough in their intelligence to not have to point it out all the time (and don’t say anything, because they are embarrassed for him when he tries to flaunt his little bit of trivia). Thus, he walks around thinking he is super-intell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:32 AM
52

Five minutes is five minutes. Might manage to get seven if the tape is extra sticky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:18 AM
44

These are all just skills that every adult should have. If you aren’t an adult yet, you shouldn’t date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:16 AM
80

I’ll bet he’s spent more on his car (or plans to, once he gets his hands on her money), and a car only lasts ten years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:23 AM
27

Fuck T-mobile as well, then. That’s another company that will never have my money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:48 AM
17

Exactly. Just like we get blamed when men murder trans women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:47 AM
11

AT&T is better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:46 AM
56

And they get mad at their gf if she even owns sex toys—jealous of a plastic dick, but they say we can’t be jealous of him literally watching and interacting with other real women in porn/onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:31 AM
161

Love dr. Youn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:02 AM
3

That’s one way to handle annoying scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:57 AM
118

My money says he secretly wants to have sex with his wife’s sister. And he knows he can’t, so he’s just being hateful to her instead. I worked with a guy who couldn’t stand his girlfriend’s best friend. Constantly talking about how fake and slutty she was, constantly getting into fights with his girlfriend when she told him to cut it out. I got transferred temporarily to a different department, and when i came back, the gf was gone, and he was married to the best friend (his ex gf needs better f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:52 AM
75

took me a minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:40 PM
57

Have my free award, because i will never give Preddit money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:16 PM
14

Well, i know one company i’m never giving money to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:16 PM
21

Damn, it sounds like there was just nowhere to go but up after they dated him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:11 PM
111

“I wish i’d never wasted my time, and kept getting the free drinks.” Daaaaamn, this woman is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:08 PM
31

“To punish women for not letting me fuck them when i was a teenager, i’m not going to fuck them as an older and less fit adult, either! That’ll show ‘em!” This whole thing reeks of cope. Does this guy seriously think he’s the first nerdy guy that assumed his future self was going to be richer and more fit, and boy, they’ll all be sorry, then!? There’s no transformation fairy coming to tap you on the head and turn you into a successful adult. That IT job you think is gonna set you apart? Hundreds…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:31 PM
32

Yes!!! I’ve always noticed how deeply misogynist liberal feminism is in its hatred of anything feminine. “Do you want an emotional connection with the person you have sex with? Stop wanting that. That’s what women want, so it’s stupid. Instead, you should want lots of ‘no strings’ casual sex, the way men do.” It’s like they’re setting men as the supreme standard for what’s good, and telling women that in order to be “better”, we need to be more like men. And it’s bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:15 PM
22

It’s interesting how incels, MGTOW, and TRP all started to increase after the decline of PUAs. It’s almost like pick-up artists weren’t actually trying to teach other men to be competition for themselves, and were just lying to get their money. Of course, instead of getting mad at the guys who sold them a lie, they got mad at women, because the “cheat codes” they paid money for didn’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:13 PM
8

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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 PM
21

That is the dumbest idea i’ve ever heard. That would be like having a roommate, except one who expects to me to dispense sex on the reg. So, worse. I live alone for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:46 PM
43

Scrotes: it’s not fair that i don’t have a girlfriend! Why don’t i have one?! Also scrotes: clicking a few buttons every day for the sake of my girlfriend is too exhausting. I would never do that, and make fun of men who do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:31 PM
34

Why do they always have to try and lecture other women on what they should be okay with? Can’t they just be a doormat by themselves, without getting mad at us for not laying down and letting men walk on us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:20 PM
3

It should be like pets: if you can’t take care of a hamster, you can’t get a dog. If you can’t wash your ass, you shouldn’t be allowed to have a beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:10 AM
143

Oh damn, i’ve already been on board, and i didn’t even know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:24 AM
25

So… dude’s broke, and he’s not even handy enough to put together an ikea bed frame. Women are just supposed to stick around for his shit sense of “humor” and trash dick? I’d rather use a dildo i fished out of lake karachay than let this dude anywhere near my vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:40 AM
3

This is why most men don’t deserve the “legacy” they think are owed them. She gave birth to his son, and he felt entitled to mock her over it. These men deserve their names, bloodlines, and all memory of them to be wiped out and forgotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:21 AM
30

That’s like saying you’ll quit heroin when you get into a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:20 PM
24

My parents would have pretended not to be related to me. She doesn’t even know how embarrassing this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:17 PM
5

I think this is fine. It sounds like he put a lot of effort into planning a day that she would enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:12 PM
132

Exactly. She still has their money, and so does the tattoo artist that inked their Ravenclaw tattoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:48 AM
11

🤣 this is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:44 AM
27

Oh my god, they are not even trying anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:48 PM
24

That’s smart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:47 PM
16

That is so gross 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:45 PM
239

Imagine shaving yourself bald, giving yourself micro-abrasions with a razor, in the hope that this scrote will get in there with his nasty unkempt face-bush? My vagina dries up and shrivels further into my body at the thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:58 PM
90

Not nearly enough of them wearing diapers to reflect reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:49 PM
53

Dear god. If i don’t live with someone, i expect to be treated like a guest whenever i’m at his house. You don’t make your guests do meal prep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:47 PM
205

I’m not sure if this is a “my generation” thing, or a “me” thing, but when did “grocery shopping” and “meal prep” become acceptable dates? I’m supposed to go help (or do entirely myself) a man get his food together for the week, possibly pay for half of his groceries, then go home, and still have to do my own grocery shopping/meal prep?? And i still don’t get any nice dates out of the deal??? These men seriously overestimate how enjoyable they are to be around if they think that’s cutting it. No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:21 PM
5

Yeah, he masturbated with soap, so i guess he thought that would be a good idea? I would have preferred he saved some of that soap for his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:09 PM
46

I take mine to the dealer, cause at least they have a standard of service they have to meet (unlike the independent “professionals” i’d taken it to before). But seriously, “car maintenance” once a month doesn’t come close to cooking cleaning and laundry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:23 PM
210

And he thinks they’re even because he does “car maintenance”. Anyone who makes that much money and changes their own oil is a dumbass. Modern cars aren’t even designed so that people can maintain them manually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:38 PM
4

Gross! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:21 PM
6

I’m sorry he did that to you ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:14 PM
17

Wasn’t even that long ago. I’ve been on Reddit for less than a year, and i remember that. It was like 2017, when the internet was incessantly going on about “eating ass”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:04 PM
11

As my friend’s dad always says, you can’t argue with crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:53 PM
17

The Preddit admins are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:51 PM
10

Same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:49 PM
43

This one is a prime example of that. Scrote says his girlfriend “stopped trying” because of FDS, and someone who knows him calls him out on the fact that he threatened her with a knife, among other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:08 AM
10

We sure do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:34 PM
10

They keep wanting to be given awards for achieving the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:24 PM
3

The only exception i can think of was my great grandfather (mom’s paternal grandfather). He was 5’5”, but my parents tell me he was a very kind person who wasn’t hung up on his height at all (obvs not, cause my great grandmother was 5’10”, and they stayed married til he died).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:16 PM
17

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:43 AM
108

Oh my god, yes. Growing up, I was always taught to ignore my own pain and discomfort out of consideration for others, so i guess it’s no surprise that my first three bfs were men who: Mocked my injuries after i got thrown out of the boat while whitewater rafting and dragged over rocks by the current (our guide fucking sucked, and kept trying to steer by bouncing off of rocks). Kept saying shit like “wElL tHaT’s ThE fUn PaRt!” and “oH, pOoR bABy.” Kept rubbing his penis on me when i had to stop s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:13 AM
30

🤣😂🤣😂 Scrote: *gains two dollars* “I have to protect myself from gold diggers now!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:39 AM
16

Because of the appeal of gaining wealth they didn’t earn. Also the misplaced confidence they have in banking on gains that in reality, aren’t certain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:35 AM
36

Sounds like the crazy rantings written on the Dr. Bronner’s soap bottle… ‘cept at least no one murdered their wife over castile soap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:41 PM
41

Wasn’t there a magazine article about a guy who wrote up a report card for his wife not too long ago, and everyone thought it was cute, and not harmful at all? Guess this is the next step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:33 PM
47

I remember hearing the “mature for her age” line from the parents of a creep. Their 40 year old son was engaged to a 22 year old, and their explanation was “well, she’s mature for her age”, as though she were the problem, and not their scrotey son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:30 PM
23

What the question said: “what boundaries do you have in relationships?” What scrotes heard: “ what boundaries do you hate women to set in relationships?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:06 PM
24

Her “peanut butter and chocolate” illustration makes no sense. Peanut butter and chocolate are both nourishing and good on their own. People have been combining nuts, sugar, and chocolate since the beginning of time. BDSM is more like trying to combine raw sewage and chocolate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:00 PM
3

Makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:54 PM
61

This is true. I think many women settle for “polite” in the same way you’d settle for McDonald’s if you were starving. They think “well, he isn’t actively treating me badly”, but a man isn’t worth it unless he’s actively treating you well. It’s like another post stated a while ago: men aren’t water in the middle of a desert. You don’t need them, and you shouldn’t want them unless they actually add value to your life the way we add value to theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:34 PM
9

I love siamese cats, too (and chihuahuas)! I have a flame point right now. And I totally agree. I hate guys who only like big dogs, but hate small breeds. It’s like they’re only taking care of a living animal for what it says about their manhood. Can’t they have some empathy for a dog that barks more because it’s small and has to defend itself and not look like easy prey? And i know several adults that are terrified of dogs because they had experiences as children where an ill-behaved dog jumped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:14 PM
73

I’m always wary of men who like/have dogs, but hate cats. Not saying he has to be a friend to all living things, but if a dog-owner immediately tells you he hates cats when you mention you’ve got one, then it’s likely that he just likes the master-slave relationship that owning a dog provides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:04 PM
12

I’d be willing to let this one slide if they haven’t grown up around animals. Always better to ask the pet’s owner what’s going on if you aren’t sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:01 PM
6

Wifey material = tolerating domestic abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:14 PM
26

Am American, can confirm. We are pretty fascinated with accents (genXers are, anyway). In fact, it’s almost like a game we play with ourselves to try to figure out where a person is from by accent alone, then ask to find out if you were right. We even do that with each other, and first time convos are filled with questions like “are you from New York? What part of the south are you from? Is that a California accent?” And then “oh, i was gonna say/had guessed _______”, after they tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:06 PM
39

Even if this “study” (pronounced “survey filled out by the OLD users who don’t have anything better to do”) were true, i’d rather spend my 20s working on my career so i can live comfortably, instead of dating men i’m not attracted to, then being left with nothing later when they decide to dump me so they can chase 20 year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:55 PM
18

This is just sad 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:40 PM
20

Bearded scrotes take heed: this is what a well-maintained beard looks like. There is more to beard care than beard oil, and there should be more to a personality than “has a beard”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:05 AM
8

No. A man better be paying me to be his life coach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:01 AM
66

Pube beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:59 AM
4

That jawline!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:02 AM
4

This is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:56 AM
24

She should have gotten a horse instead, then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:51 AM
8

I just don’t understand how men can tolerate being dirty and unkempt. It is literally uncomfortable to have cracked lips and dry flaky skin. Dry, snagged cuticles and hangnails are really painful, and make anything you try to do with your hands a chore. It is extremely unpleasant to smell shit every time you sit down, or BO every time you move your arms. Sweat and bacteria make your body crevices itchy, and scratching can cause painful bacterial infections. Poor dental hygiene causes bleeding an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:43 AM
5

Oh my, so pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:32 AM
4

He is—he has a really nice, sincere-looking smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:28 AM
5

Why tf did Patty think she was entitled to be invited in on your vacation? She didn’t invite you to her party. And then when your bf brought you, everyone told you she hated you. She’s on a whole other level of insane. And i’ll add that you don’t need hard proof of cheating to break up with someone; you don’t even need soft proof. If you constantly feel uneasy and afraid that someone will cheat, then that is enough. Most likely, that feeling is correct. But even if it isn’t, it’s draining being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:27 AM
6

That was smart what she did with the divorce lawyers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:26 PM
2

Who are YOU to tell me I live my life on ‘easy mode’ when you haven’t lived in my shoes? Preeeaaaach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:37 AM
3

If he is, it’s only making his arms look skinnier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:25 AM
46

when he asked if i wanted to see him again, i said yes Why 👏🏻 would 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 do 👏🏻 that?! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:41 PM
551

This is so true. I honestly can’t figure out if i’m asexual, or just so disgusted by men these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:37 PM
26

He didn’t even say anything funny, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:31 PM
6

I’m so glad! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:25 PM
76

And men don’t think twice about going out of their way to publicly call out a woman who lies about her height or weight (even if he isn’t even dating her), so there’s nothing wrong with treating them the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:20 PM
22

Oh god. Weebs are a whole separate class of cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:05 PM
27

McDonald’s?! I don’t even eat at McDonalds when i’m hungry on a roadtrip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:04 PM
50

I think the manosphere makes the men who participate in it miserable (and yet they keep participating), so they feel it’s oNlY fAiR that they make us miserable, too. Meanwhile, we’re just over here minding out own business, enjoying life because we don’t get involved in internet crab bucket/hugboxing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:33 AM
11

You mean i could be a cook/bangmaid for a short, arrogant, unemployed (nay unemployable!) racist who likes getting in unfair fights, and has a shitty sense of “humor”?! Sign me up! Do not. Do not sign me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:26 AM
27

Is he wearing a child’s shirt?! How are the sleeves tight around such skinny arms?? And the torso is still slack! This scrote’s geometry confuses me! Also, i object to being “bundled”. And why is she sitting in back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:18 AM
9

🤚🏻 my cycle’s only 23 days long 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:13 AM
7

Dear god, what happened to his chin?? Did it vanish? Did the rest of his face get larger?? Is object permanence no longer a thing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:01 AM
21

He must have a tiny dick if he needs to vet women based on hand-size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:48 AM
6

Did this saggy-jowled patchy beard-having scrote just pat himself on the back for cheating because it meant he “wasn’t hurting anybody’s feelings”? Dafuq???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:33 AM
3

Oh, lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:04 AM
8

But if i’m surrounded by cats, i’m not really alone, am i? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:03 AM
27

TRP: How to be miserable in your next relationship, and never be happy again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:02 AM
47

I’m pretty sure a couple of guys i dated tried this shit with me. Thing is, it doesn’t work (on me, at least). Nothing turns me off faster than a man seeming interested in someone else (actually, that’s not true: controlling behavior turns me off even faster). So a scrote would start triangulating, and i’d be like “well, i hope you’ll be very happy together. I’m gonna need my stuff back now.” And i’d just be mad that i wasted my time. Seriously, though, one of my college bfs suggested we “break …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:58 AM
21

I would rather use a dildo i fished out of a creek in Chernobyl than let this scrote anywhere near my vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:41 AM
8

Is he getting OLD mixed up with mail-order brides?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:36 AM
4

What’s he holding, though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:23 AM
3

Not even that. At least chips are tasty and nourishing. This guy’s dna is worth a piece of chewed gum on the bottom of a shoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:19 AM
5

That’s what i was thinking. He pretty much told on himself right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:14 PM
161

His trick was to consistently hit the ball out of the park so he could walk the bases, cause he was too fat to run. And that was the best player they had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:09 AM
7

Welp, that's enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:05 AM
3

His wing feather display makes him look like he's wearing a cone of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:00 AM
25

"Yeah, I have a twitch stream. You might have heard of me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:58 AM
7

FDS: Tells women to be careful about who they have children with, so they don't end up with someone who will mistreat them an their children. Tells single moms to be extra careful to protect themselves and their children from no-value abusive men. Scrote: YoU'rE tElLiNg SiNgLe MoThErS tO aBuSe ThEiR sOnS!!!1!!!one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:54 AM
23

YoU tOoK oNe GiRlFrIeNd FrOm Me; I rEqUiRe OnE gIrLfRiEnD aS pAyMeNt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:48 AM
20

Didn't Russia just decriminalize domestic violence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:36 AM
21

So, is the guy who posted this planning to buy his wife a house, a new car every year, and pay a housekeeper to take care of some of the housework? No? then you get what you get scrotty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:28 AM
5

This is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:53 AM
12

I guy i went on a date with once told me that “smart girls go for old men. Because old men have viagra.” (Side note: he really did think he was the cleverest boy in the whole world). And i was like “or, i could just date a younger guy whose dick works fine on its own.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:28 AM
11

This is what i don’t get about these limp-dicked scrotes! Your dick doesn’t work well enough for one woman! And you want more???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:26 AM
25

that shit did not happen 15 years ago. It absolutely did not. When i was in my 20s (and still bothering with scrotes), I’d never once had this experience. The opposite, in fact. I’d kiss my bf goodbye, and he’d suddenly be hard (and i’d just be like “really?! I don’t have time for this shit, go sort that out yourself”). Guys would make jokes about “no-reason boners” that just happened out of nowhere. If a man had to jerk off furiously just to maintain an erection, his partner would have assumed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:20 AM
5

This is really interesting! I wonder if there are any studies that track the ages at which boys start dropping sincere friendships in favor of competition-based ones, and loading all their problems onto their girlfriends? And men keep telling us that women are the superficial ones who can’t form “real friendships”. Projection, yet again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:05 AM
6

Well said. They really do act like it’s our job to fix their problems. Someone talks about an issue women are facing, and a scrote jumps in to say “what about the suicide rate for lonely men???” Yes? What about it? Specifically, what are you doing about it? What are you doing to help your friends remain mentally healthy and combat loneliness? It’s the same as the ones who jump into conversations about sexual assault with “well men get raped, too!” Good point. What are you doing to raise awarenes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:02 AM
2

Should have run into him with full force, then said “you should really watch where you’re going.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:42 AM
5

I’ve also noticed this to be true if a man’s family is from another country (even if he was born in your country). For some reason, wives are expected to go out of their way to follow the cultural traditions of her husband’s family (even if he doesn’t care about them), and learn to cook the same food his mother makes, and generally bend over backward to try to “make up for” not being the good ____ girl his parents wanted him to marry. All while he does nothing to adapt to your culture, even thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:34 AM
7

I’d never even heard of him until he married Mariah Carey. I just assumed he was one of her backup dancers, or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:35 AM
15

Exactly. Scrote: “I just remembered that i have a kid. Here’s his picture” The effing internet: “OMG, what a great father! 😍”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:34 AM
3

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:30 AM
14

NOT to creep you out Then don’t do creepy things! Creepy things like leaving a note under your neighbor’s windshield wiper!! Drawing attention to the fact that what you are doing is, indeed, creepy makes it even MORE creepy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:20 AM
9

Leaving notes on cars is also an old guy move. That happened to me when i was in my twenties. I know the guy who left the note, and he was 45, at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:16 AM
4

Except the Chads themselves. Who probably don’t want them either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:05 PM
40

And no, three inches isn’t a lot of snow, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:44 PM
43

You, dude. You’re the asshole. Glad we cleared that up. And if you’re trying to get someone into a game, why wouldn’t you just set them up with their own account? This is the dumbest thing i’ve ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:42 PM
33

Exactly! This isn’t funny or cute—it’s downright toxic, and conditioning women to lower their expectations (seriously, if you can’t pick out a paint color, what else are you incompetent at?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:32 PM
8

And when you rearrange the letters of his name, it spells Scroteas (which is funny, because when i was a kid, that’s how i thought it was pronounced)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:13 PM
14

It’s toxic body positivity at work. It started out as thing to make men feel better about their naturally aging bodies (“it’s okay you don’t have a six pack anymore—you’re a busy guy with kids, so you don’t have time to work out every day any more”). Then the “all bodies are beautiful” crowd started using it to justify being downright unhealthy (“i’m not ‘morbidly obese’—i just have a ‘dad bod’! Fuck what my doctor says!”). And before people accuse me of “fatphobia”, i’m not saying you can’t put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:09 PM
48

Damn, really?! He looks amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:24 AM
13

I am 100% certain this man is not a licensed massage therapist. And if he is, he’s already done things you can lose your license for just in filming the session without the women’s knowledge. Also fun fact: in my state, you are not allowed to use the word “massage” on your advertising unless you are licensed. I would never accept a “massage” from anyone in a park, but if a creepy man approached me an asked, i would say “oh, i’m fine, but my friend was just telling me he could really use one.” Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:57 AM
14

Yeah, looking at ancient patriarchs, a man who was “head of his household” was expected to provide for everyone in his house. Not just his wives and children (some of whom lived in their own houses, with their own servants provided by the husband), but any household servants and slaves (note: slaves in ancient times were usually prisoners of war, or people who had fallen into debt. It wan’t ideal, but it was nowhere near as bad as the transatlantic slave trade. Slaves actually had rights, and co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:44 AM
66

They do seem awfully obsessed with half-naked “chads”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:26 AM
40

They did that with computer programming, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:12 AM
5

He has beautiful eyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:03 AM
2

Pedophile men, specifically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:57 AM
3

Savin’ lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:54 AM
4

Lol, can you imagine this guy googling himself to see what people are saying about him and discovering incel subreddits posting his picture everywhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:50 AM
1

Real MenTM only use sandpaper on their balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:41 AM
1

Very nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:37 PM
45

I have never met a “born again” christian who wasn’t a huge hypocrite and absolutely hateful person. There might be some out there, but i haven’t met any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:12 AM
6

This shit’s gone out of control. We’ve got to be close to a backlash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:04 AM
5

Didn’t he die at 83, though? Update: Oh, my bad. I was thinking of Paul Newman. Clint Eastwood is still alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:45 PM
2

Wall-the-way 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:26 PM
10

He was never my type (though i can recognize that he was conventionally handsome as a young man), but he at least seems to have taken care of himself over the years. And he’s always looked his age, rather than 30 years older (like some of these genX actors—yikes!) I will say that Brando managed to get away with fewer wrinkles, but that’s only because he was so fat that his skin was stretched to maximum capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:24 PM
26

How old is he in the second picture, though? It looks like one that was taken when he was in his fifties. Imo, he’s always had features that don’t age particularly well (thin lips, angular face), but looks like he’s at least taken care of himself over the years (unlike Brando). Looks like an average old man, rather than a sloppy blob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:04 PM
4

These homophobic scrotes always think gay men are gonna hit on them. Not the ones with standards, scrotty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:02 PM
11

And god forbid he actually has a son who doesn’t want to play football. Or do anything else he’s trying to do vicariously through him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:00 PM
12

Ikr?? All that cocaine really took a toll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:17 PM
91

I always though he was the only male actor who was talented enough to have a career after the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:15 PM
260

Of course! Just three men in their prime. I didn’t know peak attractiveness for men meant “fat cryptkeeper”, but you learn something new everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:12 PM
75

Just look at all the people denouncing the nordic model in one breath, while gunning for complete decriminalization in the next. We know who they’re looking out for. It’s not the women selling sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:02 AM
6

I haven’t seen it—what show is this? It looks hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:00 AM
39

When i was younger, I always wondered why beautiful, intelligent black women with good jobs were expected to settle for absolutely useless men. I remember thinking “but you can do so much better!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:00 PM
22

Same—all the alcohol and cocaine takes a toll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:49 PM
57

It’s not the same thing AT ALL. The male equivalent of FGM would be cutting the entire tip of the penis off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:43 PM
20

Oh wow, depp is lookin terrible these days! Couldn’t he get implants that matched his other teeth? And Leonardo... he went downhill fast, didn’t he? And he keeps getting worse-looking! I mean, i know these guys can afford to get work done so why don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:14 PM
11

Oh my god, the audacity 🤦🏻‍♀️ This person should say “oh yeah, my thesis is on there. I figure you prolly can’t afford a thumb drive, so i’ll get my own and show up with it so you can copy my files. Where do you live?” So they can get the address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:10 PM
4

Scrotes and pickmes keep dismissing women as “gold-diggers” for wanting a dinner date. Since when is 30 dollars for price of a meal equivalent to gold?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:04 PM
1

Oh, okay. Good to know (i guess i’m not familiar enough with South Asian languages to tell the difference between Urdu and Arabic. Even though they are in completely different language families). I’m so used to people photoshopping pictures of signs, that my first instinct is to doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:01 PM
4

Is this the original writing on the sign? I ask because it looks like the sign in the background is in Arabic, so i’m wondering why this one would be in English.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:21 PM
3

This is an excellent idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:11 PM
5

So effing gross!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:10 PM
22

And they don’t have a single problem with men having biological children at 50. They can get fucked. (Oh wait, they can’t 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:00 PM
25

Remember when Curves was a women-only gym in the 00s, and nobody thought that was weird? Men just kinda dismissed it as an insignificant “ladies’ gym” and left it alone. Now men are getting their scrotums in a knot over a women-only gym. Society is getting worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:42 PM
3

My eyebrows only recently recovered from all the over-plucking. Prolly just in time for thin brows to come back in again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:50 AM
17

Crab bucket mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:43 AM
67

It’s also projection. They see a space like FDS, where women are supportive of one another, and build eachother up (instead of dick-pandering), and they get mad that there are no male spaces like that. Most spaces just for guys (especially the ones centered around complaining about women) are full of jeaous, back-biting, hateful scrotes that hate eachother as much as they hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:52 AM
50

Ain’t no 30 year-old “boys”. That is a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:40 AM
30

I have no interest in getting married, or dating ever again, and FDS has helped me immensely with my career, friendships, and relationships with relatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:39 AM
18

Exactly! What gold?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:36 AM
10

Of course. Dogs are given more consideration than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:33 AM
19

They’re all more successful than him, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:32 AM
32

The ACLU is shit these days. Really lost track of their original purpose (which they still haven’t achieved on a federal level, btw).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:24 AM
8

I refused to watch it, too. I could tell they were trying to smear Carole’s character from the trailers, and decided not to give them any views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:21 AM
4

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:19 AM
54

😂 i just looked him up, and wikipedia says he’s 51! He looks the same age as my 72 year old dad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:59 PM
123

Seriously, these scrotes are delusional! If rich old men like Ben Affleck and Matthew Perry get dragged for harassing younger women on dating apps, what makes Mr. Nobody McUgly think he’s gonna pull it off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:41 PM
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I feel disgusted and ashamed in myself. I am worse than scum ... I don’t deserve this life i’m living That assessment is correct. But i’ll bet he’s already moved on and feels no guilt at all anymore. Not least of all because of the people on preddit telling him he “seems like a good person” and “needs to forgive himself”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:27 PM
25

Agreed. I hope he did. We don’t need people who would do something like this taking up the earth’s resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:23 PM
7

Damn, this woman is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:12 PM
11

So gross. I’m curious if they’re using names of real testing labs (in which case this would be illegal), or just fake ones. I guess we have to add “look up the lab to make sure it’s real, and if they are, call them to verify the results are real” to the list of things we have to do to be safe. ETA: i looked up Amlab, and found a computer software testing lab in Washington US, and a medical lab in Singapore. The medical lab does food testing, but not disease testing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:58 PM
19

Women-only groups are the solution, but men often find ways to invade them by claiming that a women-only group is uNfAiR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:52 PM
38

And they deliberately set up a hostile environment that punishes victims for coming forward, so that they can continue their rapey behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:50 PM
22

Exactly. Such men view their wives as another luxury that they’ve bought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:18 PM
108

I remember that! Plus the ideal body type in the 90s was to be rail thin (that can only be achieved with Fenfen and cocaine), but you were supposed to pretend like you were “naturally thin”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:21 PM
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Even in the 50s, it was beyond most peoples’ reach. Upper-middle class white people had a lot, but only because others were barred from having the same things. And why are they mad at women because of this? If anything, they should be mad at their grandparents for taking all the social security and fucking up the environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:17 PM
10

Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:07 PM
19

That’s insane. Directly in conflict with survival instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:40 PM
21

Remember when girls would brag about getting with older men because they could afford maids and nannys now (until he dumped them for someone younger, anyway)? Man, standards have really dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:37 PM
21

🤡🌎 Sometimes women have to wake up on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:32 PM
25

⛹️‍♂️ ➡️ 🚮 And in the trash he goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:30 PM
144

Nordic women Oh hell no to that! A Scandinavian woman would laugh in this guy’s face and go date a high-cheekboned hottie with a big dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:09 AM
76

You may claim to disagree with some of your chosen party’s policies, but they’re still getting 100% of your vote, regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:03 AM
60

Me too! I went my whole like surrounded by LVMs and pickmes, wondering why i couldn’t just think like them and be happy. Discovering FDS was the first time i felt like there are other women in the world who think like me. The things i was always frustrated about, the fact that i never felt at home under sex-positive liberal feminism, it all made sense. These are my people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:58 AM
4

You got this 👍🏻😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:01 AM
125

I used to work with a scrote who insisted he was best friends with a lesbian couple. Actually, one of them was bi, and he ended up having sex with her, and breaking up their marriage. So much for “friends”.🤷🏻‍♀️ Before that, he was married to his ex-girlfriend’s best friend (needless to say, they aren’t best friends anymore, because what kind of “best friend” runs off with your man?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:57 PM
107

Most of reddit is the joke of the entire internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:52 PM
32

Oh noes!!! LVMs on the internet think we’re ToXiC??? The horror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:51 PM
52

I find the very concept of a coffee, walk, or mcdonald’s date to be cringy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:01 PM
12

Jesus, the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:56 PM
4

Lmao, sis! I’m dead 😂🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:31 PM
38

Into the trash you go, clown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:30 PM
60

The only man who would be offended by a woman covering her drink is a man who would drug a woman’s drink. In fact, i’m gonna say there are very few men who would even notice a woman covering her drink if he wasn’t looking for an opportunity to drug it. There are a few exceptions to the latter, but zero exceptions to the former.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:29 PM
7

I bet she still doesn’t get picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:58 PM
13

I am so sorry that you’ve been treated this way. You sound like a genuinely caring person, and you definitely deserve better. I know it hurts right now, but focus on building relationships with the good people you have in your life, like your daughter. Those relationships are not worth sacrificing or putting aside to maintain a relationship with a selfish narcissist, and yet, in many cases i see like yours, they are often the ones that have to suffer. Regarding the hottub rental, i would tell pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:53 PM
16

That sounds like a good solution. Social services can check in on him, and make sure he’s doing okay. You don’t owe anyone care at the expense of your sanity and self esteem. From what you’ve said, it sounds like your brother has never done anything to help your father, and your father decided to side with him to antagonize you. He needs to live with the decision he made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:31 PM
10

I feel ya—i’ve worked in IT for twenty years, and have only once worked with a woman who i could see eye-to-eye with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:16 PM
13

THIS!!! I don’t date anymore. I would much rather bring a book and go out to eat by myself, or with friends whose company i enjoy! People act like eating alone is the worst thing in the world, and it’s not—it’s fucking awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:14 PM
12

The same people think that not fucking short dude with micropeens is eugenics 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:44 AM
8

That’s gonna be a hard pass from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:38 AM
5

“Sex work is liberating” “Kinks are healthy” “Porn is harmless”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:54 PM
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Or they were jealous that he was the one in the group with a girlfriend, so they’re trying to knock him down a peg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:52 PM
11

I can’t speak for what Lilith meant, but the current iteration of the “woke” left (or the leftwing version of the patriarchy). Relies heavily on a culture where one is cancelled (publicly destroyed, possibly resulting in loss of employment) for expressing thoughts that run counter to the party line, and they accept nothing but 100% obedience. no discussion or dissenting opinions are allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:31 PM
31

Wow, he’s super pretty! Damn nice body, too! And he likes cats?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:40 AM
35

Well this is sadder than a one-legged puppy. I’m certain he can afford better than this, he’s just too lazy to figure out what he needs and then shop for it. Next stop: nest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:43 AM
10

buried penis Well, it seems like i learn about a new horrifying medical condition every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:40 AM
11

“Orwellian feminism” is a good way of describing what’s going on with the libfem movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:39 AM
13

I didn’t know anime body pillows could make sandwiches. Maybe he’s hallucinating from malnutrition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:21 AM
55

Absolutely. I was his wife’s left braless tit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:20 AM
10

This is a good point. If someone asks me what i bring to the table, i just say “that’s between me and the person i’m sitting at it with.” If i’ve decided that a man doesn’t meet my standards, then i don’t need someone else’s (or even his) approval to determine if i’m allowed to reject him. I could be rejecting him because i don’t like his hair. That’s still not anyone else’s business to question my worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:07 PM
5

I hope this guy develops an allergy to plecranthus barbatus. Also, those little leaves don’t look like they’d wipe very well, so i bet he constantly has a dirty asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:01 PM
40

Who is talking to him? Is that his partner? She sounds like she’s trying to convince a five year old that wearing a cape blanket and jumping off the roof won’t result in them flying like superman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:27 AM
91

This made me snort-laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:15 AM
24

🕯🍑😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:08 AM
8

Holy shit that’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:56 AM
8

Wait, what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:28 AM
16

Being straight seems like a very good reason to like big dicks, if you ask me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:26 AM
9

Men who name their sons after themselves are narcissistic scrotes. There are no exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:19 AM
4

Imagine being attached to a scrote who antagonizes your friends. Wow. This is why i’m not married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:17 AM
4

This is one of the very few subreddits i follow anymore. I don’t even use my other account at all. The rest of reddit is run by misogynistic men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:15 AM
5

Imagine letting someone like that reproduce 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:05 AM
8

Wow, the fucking audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:55 PM
2

Imagine this being said out loud, but for every capitalized word, his voice gets higher pitched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:52 AM
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🎉 it’s never too late to dump a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:43 AM
11

This is really interesting. I’ve always wondered what their thought process/motivations were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:40 AM
16

His vibe is “i wear nailpolish, but not condoms”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:25 AM
9

Oh eeeeeew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:23 AM
15

Absolutely! They want to chant “sex work is work”, but also want to be exempt from the expectation that they practice their business ethically. Can you imagine if someone said “hey, if you’re going to manufacture clothing in third world countries, please don’t hire children, and please pay people a living wage”, and twitter came after them, crying “you’re just morally opposed to clothing!” and “does that mean you want third world children to die!?” and “well if more adults worked for low wages, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:12 AM
7

Dude, i already have an asshole; I don’t need two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:03 AM
8

BuT mAyBe ThEy WeRe MaTuRe FoR tHeIr AgEs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:03 AM
5

Yes! Nobody wants to date someone they think is a dumbass, but these guys (and they’re always guys) think it makes them ✨special✨. It’s not a sexuality, it’s a having a type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:59 AM
3

Just put “no gold-diggers”. Problem solved. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:55 AM
3

Dying at the entrepreneur one! 🤣😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:54 AM
14

Is that like a modern version of an old British tradition? Like, they used to write a letter requesting the pleasure of your company, but now they have to send a written request on OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:49 AM
11

She sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:47 AM
16

Yeah, i used to disagree with this advice, but not anymore. Some common objections i used to have: “But what about shy men?” I don’t care how shy a guy is, if he likes you enough, he will ask you out. He may do it in the weirdest, most awkward way possible (once had a guy stand in my way while i was trying to leave a pizza shop and say “um hi. Would you like to get to know me better?”), but he’ll do it. He could be terrified of going out in crowds, and he’ll still find a way to ask you out (anot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:46 AM
5

Hand sanitizer spray, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:14 AM
4

If she’s making so much money sucking dick, why can’t she afford decent hair dye?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:38 PM
3

Every line gets worse! And no punctuation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:01 PM
11

The obvious answer being “yeah, she knows. That’s why she unmatched”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:58 PM
5

And yet, the sex workers that twitter is getting mad at are the ones that escaped the industry and are using their voices to talk about how terrible it is. Those women get called “wh*res”, and told to “stfu”, but the privileged white women fucking other women’s’ husbands and blaming them for it get all the support and sympathy they want. Hopefully seeing these women’s attitudes toward them will peak some more libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:29 PM
3

Seriously! I’m not even on any social media under my real name (for this very reason), and he emailed me at my old alumni account from school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:07 PM
7

That’s probably how he acted with his wife, every time she asked him to step up (or threatened to leave). He’d probably whine about how he’s so useless, and might as well die, until she finally stopped asking. That’s what he’s doing now on reddit, and probably what he’s gonna continue to do for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:03 PM
14

”i can’t help but feel it’s my fault” Well i see there’s nothing wrong with his understanding of cause And effect—IT IS YOUR FAULT, NUMBNUTS!!! And the fact that he knows exactly how he fucked up is telling. He’s not mentally defective, thinking that everything was fine until this happened, and he’s shocked—just shocked— that he wasn’t stepping up enough. That would have been bad enough, but this guy knows, and can explain *in detail*** every way he fucked up leading up to that point. His memory…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:57 PM
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That’s because they want kids, but they want women to want kids more than they do. That way they have an excuse to contribute nothing, and act like they’re such a great guy for settling down and having kids. I noticed this shit when i was twelve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:47 PM
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Ikr?! His wife’s been in critical condition for two weeks and might die. He has two children under two years old to take care of at home. The fuck is he doing on reddit??? He’s trying to absolve his guilt and get catharsis by telling the internet what a scrote he is, when he should be putting all his effort into DOING BETTER. Instead, he blames “lack of resources” (guess because they didn’t jump out of the internet and fall into his lap?), and hoping everyone would say “ohhh... don’t beat yourse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:43 PM
6

“Why don’t you get surgery to make my small pp feel better?!” How bout i just get a guy with a bigger dick, instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:58 PM
5

Well that one is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:51 PM
4

Lol, i love this! 🤣 “Leave your crayon in the box” is going to be my new go to phrase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:51 PM
9

Yes! I love pop culture detective!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:48 PM
10

As much as i am hesitant to talk up any male celebrities (since so many of them turn out to be creeps later), harry styles still seems pretty hv to me (from what i can tell, anyway. I don’t know him personally).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:47 PM
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Agreed. I love Pop Culture Detective! He’s pretty much the male version of Anita Sarkeesian, and has stated that he was inspired by her videos about the portrayal of women and femininity in video games, and wanted to do something similar for the portrayal of men and masculinity in movies. I don’t like most male youtubers, but he’s one of the few i do watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:45 PM
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“I thought i might be able to give advice to my fellow ladies since i’m almost married” Nah, sis. We don’t need your advice. Sounds like she came here looking for an ego boost, and thought we’d be a bunch of sad women who would look up to her. Then she looked around and realized that we’re confident women killing it in our own lives, and she’s paying 50/50 while playing wife/mommy/bangmaid to a scrote who doesn’t value her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:21 AM
7

Those are always the types who say “i went to new york, and it sucked!” Like yeah, it’ll suck if you don’t try to do anything fun. Places are like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:03 AM
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wtf is the point of traveling if you’re not going to do anything Omg, is this a British thing in general? I’ve met brits who will take cans of beans with them on vacation, so they don’t have to eat foreign food! I don’t understand how an entire culture can be so averse to new experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:01 AM
7

20 years! And i thought my NVX had set the record in contacting me every ten years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:56 AM
5

Really don’t know why i felt i needed to google this medical condition. Looks... about the way you’e described. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:29 AM
4

Deceased. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:07 AM
8

Men trying to make homes for male bees who get kicked out of the hive?! The fuck does he think is going to happen? They can’t run a hive without a queen, and the “spare” males are pretty much genetically programmed to die once they get kicked out. The bees are just going to leave whatever enclosure he created for them, and try to get back into their original hive until they lay down and die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:56 AM
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Especially if they have some deluded idea that white women are “sluttier” than Indian women, so it’s okay to be fucking disgusting around them. u/monathemantis is Israeli, and she posts so many interactions with Indian scrotes who just message her out of nowhere on chat apps (not even dating apps) with some “let’s fuck, honey. Show bobs and vagine” bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:07 AM
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“I don’t want to break up but” WHY THE FUCK NOT???!!! The minute a man said “anime sex doll”, i’d be out the door faster than he could whine “but i have neeeeeds”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:41 AM
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My mom has a friend who was horrifically abused by her step father growing up. Her mother knew about it, but did nothing. When her mother died, and she was selling her things, people kept asking if she didn’t want to keep anything for sentimental reasons. Her reply was “my mother traded me for these things. So i have no problem getting them out of my sight.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:56 PM
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Oh, ew. I think men are seriously deluded about why younger women sometimes date older men. You wanna play that game? You better be rich and generous. I had an ex-scrote (not old, but definitely ugly), who kept bragging about how much money he was making at his new job, but still refused to pay for anything. And expected women to fall all over him because... he had money?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:53 PM
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It’s hard, i agree. I always try to compliment women on their style or something awesome that they did, so that i establish myself as someone who builds other women up, instead of competing with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:49 PM
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Can we just let these guys’ dicks fall off when they do stupid shit like this? Our tax dollars don’t need to pay for preserving the reproductive capabilities of someone who should be removed from the gene pool, anyway. This guy’s poor mom is wondering where she fucked up rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:46 PM
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That’s why i’ve never sent a pic of me to anyone. Not even clothed (well, maybe for my parents). A guy asks for a pic, i tell them he already knows what i look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:44 PM
8

Lol, love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:41 PM
10

“But i almost killed you with my sperm—isn’t that enough of a present???” FFS 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:41 PM
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I love how they cry kInKsHaMiNg whenever a woman isn’t willing to cater entirely to her male partner’s desires, while having no desires of her own. Where are all the libfems that say women are allowed to leave if something is a “dealbreaker”? They’re being awfully quiet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:14 PM
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Oh, i know! I really feel for young women trying to preserve their dignity, and having to be inundated all this bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:06 PM
12

Beautiful cats! For some reason, every male tuxedo cat i’ve ever met is a total sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:54 PM
10

Yes! Why wouldn’t i prefer to spend time with one of the purest joys in this world (cats) over letting a scrote waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:40 AM
9

Wow, the utter audacity of this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:38 AM
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Oh my god, the earth is overpopulated as it is! And there are thousands of kids in the foster care system!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:33 AM
12

It’s definitely true that animals can pick up on things about people that we can’t. I think it must be because they read body language so well, and are used to having to make quick judgements (since in the wild, their survival would depend on it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:23 AM
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I fucking hate sex therapists. It’s not even a real job. They’re all people who were too creepy and inappropriate to be psychologists and counselors (and those people are already crazy, but at least they got through school). Anyone can just call themself a “sex therapist” after a few psychology courses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:16 AM
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Yes! This starts with the “not like other girls” girls (glad to finally be seeing some pushback against this, but it’s not enough!). Girls grow up thinking that girls are worthless without the attention of boys, and put each other down to get this attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:50 PM
11

Same bullshit reasoning behind “date an ugly guy, he’ll treat you better”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:35 PM
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#JustPickmeThings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:02 AM
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Ugh 🙄. My rule is: if you can easily do something to alleviate your pain and you won’t do it, then i don’t have to listen to you complain. That reminds me of one of my exes, who refused learn to swallow pills like an adult. He complained about having a headache, so i offered him some advil, and he asked “are they chewable?” And i’m like “well, i don’t think you’re supposed to chew them, but you can try.” Then MFer proceeded to whine about his headache for the next three hours while i was trying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:50 AM
9

What did women do to her??? Is she angry on men’s behalf? They’re not even that angry! Is she mad that she posts all this pickme shit and she’s still not getting picked? How is that our fault?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:45 AM
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Or... and hear me out, sis... while he’s busy on his phone, you could get up to “use the restroom” and then leave, block, and delete on your way out. Vanish without a trace, like a ghost in the night. Let him pay a dating coach for the valuable advice you just gave him for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:44 AM
4

🤯🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:32 AM
15

“What a shame that she broke into his house in the middle of the night and stole his sperm without his consent.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:31 AM
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Hey girl, i see you’re wearing black. Who died? Was it your boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend? Did he die? Are you sad? Do you need someone to comfort you? Why don’t you come sit next to me and tell me all about it. ... What? No reply?? Fine, bitch! You were fat anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:27 AM
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Odd that there even is such a thing as a dad bod, since dads don’t gestate a child for nine months to become a dad, and then feed it from his own body. Especially since there’s no praise for a “mom bod”, when she did do those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:24 AM
14

Imagine getting mad at being mind controlled every time your conscience tries to reassert itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:19 AM
12

This sounds like a great idea! If i had schizophrenic hallucinations, i’m pretty sure i wouldn’t acknowledge them or talk about them to other people. Maybe once in a while i’d try to mess with one of them to see how it would respond. Gonna start doing this with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:18 AM
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Yeah! He’s not the one who gestated a child for nine months and fed it from his body, but he gets to be praised for his “dad bod”? Tf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:10 AM
4

It’s almost like we have age of consent laws because we all agree that a 13 year old child does not know what she is doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:09 AM
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Butbutbut... he didn’t post a half-naked video of himself flexing and working out on tiktok to have women ogle him! Be more respectful! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:03 AM
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Ikr? Who is she mad at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:57 AM
15

You lasted longer than me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:56 AM
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It’s okay, we’ve all been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:53 AM
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I don’t even know. I know that he lived with them for a little while, but his relationship with his sister was really... weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:40 AM
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Oh yeah, i remember that. He got really skinny and twitchy, then he was away for a couple shows, and then he got really fat. Pretty sure that was coke/heroin addiction + rehab + rehab weight gain. The way they kept trying to hide his weight gain in the show by only showing his face was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:37 AM
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I’ve never understood “it’s not the size that matters, it’s what you do with it”. What the hell can he do with it? Twist it into a balloon animal for your amusement? Most women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and there’s nothing a small penis can do to accomplish that. He can use his hands and tongue to get you off, but giving dudes the impression that there’s some magic thing he can do with his micro penis that will make a woman orgasm is just going to guarantee that he’s not going to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:22 PM
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I know at least four men who deliberately eat things they’re allergic to. And none of them carry epipens. I don’t know what they’re trying to prove, but i sure as fuck am not putting myself out to call 911 if a scrote deliberately tries to off himself in front of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:10 PM
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Remind him that you love him for his big head, not his little head Finally! An article that tells it like it is: if you have a crap dick, you better learn to eat some pussy. Oh, wait...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:31 AM
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That’s a lot of words for “i have a receding hairline and a small penis, and i’ve decided to write an article that will make me feel better about one of those things.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:27 AM
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“Hi, how are you today?” “Fine” “100% of women polled said today is the best day of their life!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:25 AM
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✊🏻high-five to the women who said “yes, it matters”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:41 AM
7

Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:38 AM
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Imagine going into a restaurant and on the front of the menu, it says “You will probably get food poisoning if you eat here”. Who’s gonna stay and order food?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:31 AM
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my bf has been poking holes in his condoms and i don’t know what to do next What is there to do next??? You run tf away from this manipulative baby-trapping creep! Why do you even need to ask?! we always communicated our feelings effectively to eachother No you did not. If you had, he would have cOmMuNiCaTeD that he’s a fucking creep who wants to trap and manipulate you, and you would have CoMmUnIcAtEd your ass out the door. Communication is absolutely worthless when one partner is a fucking soc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:26 AM
14

And they wonder why black women don’t want to date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:02 AM
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He was the least talented actor on Friends. Didn’t he only get two movie roles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:48 AM
23

🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:26 PM
30

No water or toilet?? Oh no, sis, those are third world conditions! What kind of person thinks it’s okay to make someone else live like that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:24 PM
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No lie, i was in line in front of two scrotes at starbucks, and heard one of them say to the other “lesbians make me so mad. Like, it’s just one more woman i can’t get.” The audacity of scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:19 PM
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I hear a lot of them whining about “horse girls”, so maybe get a horse? A male horse in particular; scrotes hate competition from other males, even the four-legged ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:15 AM
2

They always seem to forget that women can be (and frequently are) anally raped. They just assume that only happens to men. And to the incel whining about how sOmE wOmEn EvEn OrGaSm FrOm RaPe BeCaUsE aT lEaSt ThAt SeX iS nAtUrAl: a good number of men enjoy prostate stimulation. By your logic, that means that a man should enjoy getting anally raped by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:13 AM
1

✨💕All billionaires are bad, and what a coincidence, they’re also all men💕✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:04 AM
2

Always good to see reminders for how good our hardworking mods are at their job 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:57 AM
4

It really is crucial to unlearn the tendency to be “helpful” to men that we’ve been socialized into since we were young. It happens without realizing it: clueless/helpless man acts like he doesn’t understand something, woman drops everything to assist, mentally praises herself for being so helpful. It’s necessary to take a step back and ask why a grown man is so clueless. Is this something he can do himself? An elderly man struggling with last will paperwork after the death of his wife? Sure, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:53 AM
5

Ovary haver 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:34 AM
2

Why level up, when you can pull someone else down to your level, i guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:29 AM
3

All billionaires are trash, some are just better at hiding it than others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:28 AM
2

in most other animal species, the man provides. The man builds a house, a nest, a place of safety, they protect their women and their young. And in praying mantids, he provides a tasty post-sex meal (yes, i know there were flaws in that study, but i couldn’t resist)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:27 AM
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What in the pickme shit... nah, sis. Good luck with that, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:06 AM
3

❤️ that you went with the anatomically correct form of 🫀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:57 AM
2

Buying sperm on the black market sounds like ordering one of those “lucky packs”, where you’re paying a retailer for a bag of random flotsam that they couldn’t sell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:52 AM
7

Most subreddits (except the fiercely defended ones like this one) have been taken over by a bunch of diaper fur AGPs now. They force their way into a space and eventually take over modding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:46 AM
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😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:39 AM
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Lol, like how? How would the female be the parasite in that situation? If a tapeworm latches onto a person’s intestines, you don’t say “maybe the human is the parasite”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:33 AM
7

The constant pressure to lower your standards is real! Growing up, every time i refused to hang out with someone, my mom would lecture me on “being nice”, and “showing kindness”. If i rejected a guy, my friends would say i was being “too stuck-up”, and that “one date won’t hurt”. If someone hurt me, i needed to “forgive”, and “give them a second chance.” Of course, a second chance always turns into a third chance, and a fourth chance... i wanted to be liked, so i lowered my standards and constan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:30 AM
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his fingers were bigger than his erection 😨 either he had really big hands... or...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:18 AM
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And God said to Moses “you must cut off the foreskin of every male, because y’all nasty and i know you don’t wash.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:16 AM
10

Good for you! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:14 AM
6

It sounds frustrating, but think of it as a vetting technique--bullet dodged, block & delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:05 AM
12

He sounds like he was following PUA advice. "Girl says she's not looking for sex? Just insinuate your way into her house by showing up to a date stinky and asking to use her shower--if you smell bad enough, she won't say no. Just give some bullshit excuse like "I just got out of work/the gym". Then keep her out longer than she'd planned. Make it seem like you just wanted to keep talking to her because you have sUcH a GrEaT cOnNeCtIoN. Say you don't want to drive home, and guilt her into letting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:01 AM
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Good point. And if they're in the US, then both parties (American right and American left) are still right of center. Before the 2008 election, elections were just a choice between two interchangeable crusty old white men, and no matter who won, things just kept on like always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:37 AM
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Four months for a low-effort picnic date??? The hell's been happening in the meantime?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:17 AM
22

She looks like she’s being held captive in the picture on the left. He’s seriously staring at her like he’ll murder her if she says the wrong thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:30 PM
14

My parents are like this. My dad does all the cooking now that he’s retired, but my mom will set the table, and help chop vegetables or get out a pan he needs. He wipes the counter and cleans up any messes he makes as he goes along, so that after dinner, my mom can load the dishwasher while he puts the leftovers away. I rarely see such teamwork anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:05 PM
10

Ugh! And then pickmes wanna look down on you for being single, when that’s what they’ve got. Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:00 PM
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Lol, me too! I’ve always had a big butt (that i hated back then), and it’s finally “in style” for the next five minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:43 AM
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I honestly think a lot of these women are operating on sunk cost fallacy. That they’ve been with the guy for years already, and that’s a lot of time wasted just to break up. Of course, that’s even more time and money wasted to get married and divorced, so it’s always better to cut your losses and run. It’s not a stock investment. He’s not going to increase in value if you just hang on long enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:14 AM
4

That sounds amazing—i should check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:10 AM
89

Yes! Why are women always expected to do men’s lobbying for them? Oh wait—probably for the same reason we’re expected to do everything else for them. I’ve never even heard of a male domestic abuse victim who wasn’t either the victim of a male abuser, or disabled. Able bodied men always have the option of leaving and being able to support themselves. And i hate the idea of compulsory military conscription, too, but how tf is it women’s fault?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:06 AM
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Roses are red Lillies grow in the moat I’d rather have fifty cats Than one LVM scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:53 AM
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I heard a workscrote bitching in the elevator about getting married. Another guy we work with said “hey man, i heard you were getting married!”, and this scrote replied with “yeah. And i’m so pissed about it!”. So the other guy, not really knowing how to react to that, was like “oh... well... congratulations?”, and workscrote’s all “i’m so jealous of you for not getting married! I’m jealous of every guy who’s still single!” Just before i got off at my floor, i said “well don’t get married, then.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:51 AM
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I’m still not over the nest visual. Just reading it now gave me a mental image of a man running out at night to steal clothes, sticks, and shiny objects from his neighbors to bring back to his apartment and hoard in his nest. Like a damn crow (except crows are pretty smart). Anyway, thought i’d share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:44 AM
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Yes! And can we stop telling young girls that boys are bullying them because hE lIkEs YoU? That is so damaging. I actually had an older person tell me that i shouldn’t be upset that my bf treated me like shit, because “sometimes people treat the people they feel closest to the worst”. Nah, miss me with that shit. If you have to feel less close to me to treat me with respect, then do it. I don’t care how, just do what you need to do to show respect, or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:35 AM
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Sounds totally healthy to me 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:31 AM
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Ah, good old dude wipes... because dudes that cared about wiping their asses couldn’t just buy cottonelle wipes, they were just standing around, dirty asses and all, waiting for someone to invent an asswipe especially for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:47 PM
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Lol, thanks! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:50 PM
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Welcome! This really is the most supportive online community i’ve been a part of. We’re all different ages, from all different cultures and parts of the globe, have all different political leanings and religious beliefs, and yet we all manage to treat each other with respect and consideration. It’s weird how the rest of reddit finds that so threatening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:27 PM
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Lol that a company actually sat down and decided that “men who don’t wipe their asses” are a demographic that they need to make a special app for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:17 PM
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But what does queer even mean now? It can be anything from homosexual to straight person who wants attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:28 PM
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Hey, the vast majority of us have been there before. But realizing your own pickme behaviors is the first step in recovering from them. Some women never make that step, so be happy for the progress you've already made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:30 AM
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Shaking my head in scorn at the first commenter. Real emeralds aren't even that cost prohibitive. My parents bought me a real emerald and diamond chip pendant for around $250. I'll bet she's bought him at least one gaming system that costs more than that. One of my more shameful family stories is that my mom's aunt needed elective surgery, and her husband refused to pay for it, even though he could afford it. She had to babysit in order to earn enough money for a surgery that would make her life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:24 AM
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😂 The last guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:26 AM
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Oh, let’s see... Clingy softboi 🥺 - wouldn’t have given him the time of day NVM who fucked up my self esteem 🤡 - one month Softboi #2 electric boogaloo 😢 - wouldn’t have gotten a second date Irritating scrote whose voice sounded like nails on a chalk board (high pitched voice + vocal fry) 🔪👂 - nope Sorta hot guy who smoked weed all the time 😪 - i asked him out, so probably wouldn’t have even got off the ground Arrogant fat guy who only dated skinny girls (lol, he picked me!) 🌝 - maybe three mont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:20 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yes! Live your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:06 AM
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Just disgusting. The idea of getting old as a woman frightens me. Sometime i hope that i die before i’m elderly enough to become mentally or physically incapacitated. This should also go on the name the problem sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:04 AM
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Christ, the 90s were full of this shit, too. Girls making out with each other at parties just to get the attention of boys. It was so prevalent, that boys actually thought that lesbian and bisexual women just loved bringing men into their relationships with women, and would be flattered by an unwashed scrote wanting to watch them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:54 PM
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but i have poured every cent i made into this family Yes... And? You want a cookie? That’s your job, mate. Just like it’s her job to budget your household expenses, raise your children, manage your family’s social lives, vet and hire household help, and do whatever work the nanny and maid aren’t covering (and it sounds like she’s done an amazing job, at that). You appreciate the part where she still looks pretty and has an active sex life with you. Wanna know why? Because she doesn’t have to wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:32 AM
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This is a good technique. Getting their opinions on recent scandals can be helpful, too. I was vetting a guy back in the early 2000s when the Kobe Bryant r*pe scandal hit (i won’t say “dating”, because it was really more my mom trying to throw me at him than me trying to entertain this man), so i decided to ask him what he thought about “this crazy Kobe Bryant scandal in the news right now.” He went off on a tirade about how the victim was a “slut”, who had had sex with multiple guys, and theref…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:19 AM
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Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:09 AM
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I’ll bet this guy also posts about how he can’t wait for realistic sex robots to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:04 AM
12

Duggar, 33, was once a religious and political lobbyist Oh, that explains it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:55 AM
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“Oh you have high standards and healthy self esteem, makes sense why you have an attitude”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:48 AM
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“Where’s my quirky manic pixie dream girl who lives for helping basic ass men to discover their adventurous side?! But not too much. And only when i feel like it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:48 PM
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Oh damn, that’s beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:52 AM
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Yes the issue of “where are you spending that money instead?” Is a huge one! I don’t care if a couple wants to have a frugal wedding because they want to put that money toward a house, or even a nice honeymoon, but if they’re having a frugal wedding because he wants to save money for his car? Or video games? Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:38 AM
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Yes! I felt this way about Varrick and Zhu Li from Legend of Korra. He treated her like garbage for the entire season, and then when she finally stood up for herself, he proposed to her, and the show treated it like a happy ending. I remember throwing my remote at the screen and yelling “girl, he’s not coming around—he’s making a power move!” Christ on a Bike, why did every straight relationship on that show suck ass? The (male) writers even admitted that they weren’t planning to develop a roman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:31 AM
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Honk honk into the night scrotes Oh my god, i love this. Works for scrotes, clowns, and geese. All of which are horrible and should be avoided at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:36 PM
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I dated a LVM in college like this! Maybe one day i’ll do a post about what i’ve learned. I can add: Not respecting boundaries, and being upset when you enforce them Escalating the relationship too early. He arranged for our first date just before valentines day, then made a big deal out of “doing valentines day together” when we still barely knew eachother. Asked me on our second date (on valentines day) if i would be his girlfriend. I told one of my friends about it (cause i felt weird about i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:22 PM
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