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What is TC?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/23 10:26 PM
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Of course we're hypergamous; we know how much we bring to a man's life, so if he's not willing to offer equal value, then I'm not hanging around or giving him the benefit of the doubt. He can go find a lesser woman; I'd rather be alone than with a man who has nothing to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 03:12 AM
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Tell him, "use this site" (there are tons of them; stdcheck.com is very inexpensive) and then you'll know how it should look. Also, they have a website so you can just exchange phones; much harder to fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:49 AM
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Make him show you the results, either on the app or a printout. Men lie about everything, and this is too important to risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:46 AM
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OMG, mine would make me list all the errands that I had to do, and would get pissy if I remembered something that I forgot to put on the list. I finally just started doing all the errands alone so I didn't have to listen to him bitch. Now I am divorced and do exactly as I please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:25 AM
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I'm the Rich Auntie that buys my sweet nieces "good jewelry" from Tiffany every Christmas. I want them to have nice things, and the ability to buy those nice things themselves, so I will also be funding their college educations. I'm committed to making the next generation of women in my family more prosperous and free so they don't have to put up with the bullshit that my mother, I, and my sister have had to endure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 04:01 PM
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50/50 is clown shit, especially considering that his ego and social status get a boost when he walks into a room with me on his arm. So no, I'm not paying a fucking penny for dates. If he thinks my presence for the evening is worthless, then why is he asking me out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 02:39 AM
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I'm stunning, and I've had shitty dating experiences on the whole. Men act entitled, are cheap, expect you to chase them, don't want you to have your own life, want to control you and your money....They're just not worth trying to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 04:00 AM
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The whole concept of "sexual marketplace value" (sometimes abbreviated as SMV) is a total incel concept, used by The Red Pill community to degrade women over 30 because our SMV supposedly takes a nosedive at 30, see also "The Wall." The whole concept is predicated on the fact that all men want women under 30. Well, wanting is not getting. The only men getting women under 30 are 1) men under 30, and 2) filthy rich men who are essentially buying women. That's it. Unless you are one of those two, y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:57 AM
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It's the lack of effort for me. The OLD men don't even care about the woman's profile, they just want a chance to fuck for as little as possible, so they put zero effort into courting a women. Cheap dates, no planning, no dressing nicely is the norm. After all, why put in any effort at all when you don't care about her beyond an opportunity to get her into bed? Women are more thoughtful. We care about the whole guy, not just his looks, because we're looking for more than sex. We put effort into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:43 AM
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They say that men are less choosy than women, but it's because men aren't looking for a life partner, they're just looking for sex. So of course they aren't choosy. Women are looking for a life partner, so of course we're pickier. If men stopped thinking with their dicks, then they would likely be pickier as well. But we all know THAT'S not going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:34 AM
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Stop telling men why you're deleting them; it just helps them hide their shit for the next woman. Just BLOCK and DELETE, queens. No explanation necessary; being ignored is the WORST punishment to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:03 PM
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Personally? I dislike texting and would rather pick up the phone. I don't think that's a red flag, to prefer a more old-fashioned interaction. What do you all think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:22 PM
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That's pathetic. This man will die sexless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:26 PM
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Fuck this dude. "I was such a nIcE gUy after I wasted your time and lied to you!" Reeee! The f*cking nerve. He actually is posturing like he still has a chance? These men are sooooo delusional. Of course, his name is Brad. Eyeroll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 02:41 PM
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they derive no pleasure from giving. The "affection" that they are offering is merely transactional; it's a way to get sex or something else from you when you're not in the mood to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:42 AM
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The way a man acts tells you what he thinks is appropriate, and what his values are. If you have to ask him to stop being skeevy, you already know that he thinks that being skeevy is appropriate. If you have to ask him to stop watching p*rn, then you know that he thinks p*rn is appropriate. If you have to ask for dinner rather than drinks or coffee, he's telling you what he thinks you deserve. You're going to spend the whole relationship exhausted from all this bargaining to get what you want. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:40 AM
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So, only half-price sushi. Conveyor-belt sushi. Got it. He can die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:33 AM
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Hmmm. I'd like to know where women are meeting these "nice men," because my town seems to be out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:32 AM
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They feel entitled to sex after spending $4 & get rude Truth. Because when they spend $4 on a cam girl, they can get noodz. I've given up on men at this point; what do they have to offer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:41 PM
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Imagine, the nerve of her! He had to pay for a $4 coffee. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:39 PM
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Honestly, that's what they say when they take us to dinner act boorishly or boring, and then we don't want to see them again. Rather than confront the fact that they are LV, they blame us and our desire for free dinner. Fuck that. My time is so valuable that even the fanciest steakhouse dinner is no incentive to spend time with a man I'm not interested in. Nice cope, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:38 PM
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I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:33 PM
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Sushi is expensive, just as much as steak! I swear these men haven't been out in so long that they don't even know how much dinner costs these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:27 PM
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So it went from a brewery, to him offering a drink or a picnic. The bar just keeps getting lower. He's gonna be just as stingy in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:20 PM
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Sounds like it's time for a rescue mission...Can you message her and invite her here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:41 AM
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Or to trawl for a woman at their "volunteer opportunities."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:27 PM
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Queen. She stood him up and made a TikTok video instead. Definitely a better use of her time than going out with this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:26 PM
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Why is their first reaction to a beautiful woman "Oh, I think I'll send her a dick pic?" Why are they so proud of their dicks? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:08 AM
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I dont' leave the house without a time, a place, and an activity. If he can't or won't give me that (some scrotes love "surprises") then I delete and block. I'm through explaining to these men how to behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:55 AM
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He gave you a meeting place, and then you didn't eat lunch there? How dumb are these guys? This is why I abandoned OLD. Total waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:18 PM
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Why don't they just hire a SW? Now they want the taxpayers to subsidize their SW fetish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:03 AM
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Wait, it doesn't even mention that he *apologized* for what he said. My take: He says/does shit like this a lot, and the wife is just DONE with it. He doesn't ever bother to apologize, and since he knows flowers and chocolate aren't enough, he makes zero effort to make amends. He's used to hurting her feelings and getting away with it, because he never apologizes, and she knows he'll never apologize, so now she's not bothering to mention it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:49 PM
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Exactly this. When I woman withdraws and gets quiet, it means she no longer gives AF, and you'd better watch your ass. Before I divorced my husband, I withdrew as well; I was through talking. The talking did no good, and I was just DONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:45 PM
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Look at how men behave; they have less self-control in general. They start wars. They hit people, including intimate partners and their own kids. They engage in aggressive driving and road rage incidents. They literally MURDER people. I"m not saying women don't ever do those things, I'm saying that men account for about 90% of all these behaviors, while being 50% of the population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:38 PM
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And note: Not only will they use your own trauma against you, they will use others' fears about you against you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:39 PM
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God, men are stupid. She's literally doing everything for him, and he can't just engage in a bit of emotional self-control and STFU. I hope she leaves him. Clearly things are not at all well in the relationship, or she'd be at least willing to talk to him. He's been on probation for a while, and just too stupid to notice it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:31 PM
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I actually did have a decent relationship from Tinder 9 years ago, when it was just another dating app and not a "hookup app." It's changed drastically since then, though. Tinder and Bumble got bad when backpage.com and craigslist personals shut down because of s#x trafficking issues. After that, all the gross men just looking to use women for sex, who were using backpage and craigslist personals for quick hookups needed to go somewhere, so then they all joined "normal" dating sites, and started…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:56 PM
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Tale as old as time, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:51 PM
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These male complaints are always very sus to me. I'd bet my life that he's not really cleaning to any acceptable standards, he's shoving stuff into the cabinets and drawers when he "cleans" so that 1) she can't find anything, and 2) when she does find it, it's dirty and needs washing first. He "cleans" the bathroom, except the toilet and the floor, which he and the boys pee all over, leaving it for her to clean up. Also betting that she knows he watches porn, his dick is broken, and when he does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:25 PM
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WTF, that is awful. I don't know how people can be so callous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:19 PM
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The thing is, this wasn't even a favor; she paid him. And he STILL acted like a woman who is young enough to be his granddaughter owed him sex. Sick pedo prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:46 AM
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For real, I cackled at the first one, especially at "Mr. power cord head."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:39 AM
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Okay, you do you. I'm through sharing my trauma with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:36 AM
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You have to turn off these "schoolgirly" feelings because if you don't, men will play you. It's a very bad idea to sleep with co-workers. Your other co-workers will find out no matter how good you think you are at hiding it, and it will be a distraction. It will end up reflecting poorly on your (never his, of course) professionalism. Just say no to sleeping with work scrotes. Just turn it off. He's not available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:35 AM
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Right, because men are "doing us a favor" when they date an "older" (by 3 to 5 years) woman. The misogyny and age bias is sick; we don't get ED like men do, age much better than they do (I look like I'm mid-30s, and I'm over 50), and keep ourselves in great shape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 10:46 PM
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Totally. MGT0W Men: "Well, we'll just go our own way, then, and not have relationships with women!" Women: "Oh, okay." LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 10:43 PM
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Those are all great ideas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 10:41 PM
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There have been incidents of this in NYC too. Stay back and away from the edge of the platform; men are crazy beasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:04 PM
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RedPill/MGT0W is a massive cope for these men; it's not that they don't WANT a woman, the women don't want them. We have better options, one of which is remaining single and not bothering with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:00 PM
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I echo this. The men I've dated over the last 10 years in their 40s and 50s have been the same idiots as they were when I was dating men in their 20s and 30s. I"m only willing to date younger men now; if they are immature in their 30s, they won't change in their 40s and 50s. Men are either mature in their 20s, and stay that way, or they're not. If they're not mature at 30s, they don't get any better in 40s and 50s. Don't waste your time with the 40s and 50s men as a younger women; those men will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:55 PM
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A female "best friend" is a huge red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:49 PM
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They get off on public places. That's how this starts. Then they move on to molesting kids, and then raping adult women. Just like serial killers start with abusing and then killing animals. This guy needs to be registered as a sex offender, which will allow the authorities to monitor him. Report this next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:39 PM
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Next time, mention it to staff. They will ban him and then you won't have to worry about him again. We need to start outing these gross men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:37 PM
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When you share your trauma with men, they do three things: 1) Use it against you later in the form of shaming, etc., the next time you two have a fight, or 2) Use that "sensitive spot" to traumatize you further -- you've now told him what makes you hurt. 3) Bring up the trauma in public and use it against you in a form of blackmail or public shaming. "Did you know? Carrie used to X,Y, Z when she was younger." Don't share trauma with men. They will ALWAYS use it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:36 PM
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This is what you're signing up for as a wife or mom. Save your mental and physical labor and have kids on your own. Sperm donors are cheap, and you get the best genes. And no scrotacity afterward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:32 PM
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It's really baffling to me why average men think that they deserve hot, accomplished women. Such women are out here, living our lives, and what does an average man have to offer us? NOTHING. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than get together with a man who is not at my level. Most of these men are going to die alone at this rate, since they don't want the women that want them, and won't "settle" for the women that are at their same level. The seriously overrate their attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:14 AM
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God, rescue mission, please! She needs to come over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:07 AM
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So he wants to disappoint more than one woman? He really means, "I just want to stick my dick (the only part of sex that he likes) in more women."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:01 AM
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This is just awful. How is she supposed to enjoy foreplay when she knows that he thinks it's just a chore? Sis should dump him and find a man who likes pleasuring her in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:58 AM
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Old men are disgusting. They've spent a whole lifetime conning and exploiting women, and they just expect to be able to continue now they're in their dotage. They still have the same disgusting sexual proclivities, too. They just most have broken dicks, thank god, so they can't act upon them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:41 PM
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Men are seriously committed to exaggerating anything a woman says. For example, accusing her of "yelling" when she simply states, "Hey, can you turn off that light when you leave the room?" That's "yelling" to some men. Or asserting that she's spending time alone because she's "triggered" (such a stupid word) when really, she just wants to work on a project or spend some time to herself. Men are expert at projecting all their shit onto women, accusing us of being "irrational" "overemotional" and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:26 PM
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This is so insightful, and something I never considered. I totally agree with all of this. And I now make men wait for sex until he expresses a desire to be exclusive with me, and shows me that his interest in commitment is sincere. I wish more women would refuse to give p*ssy to low-effort men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:16 PM
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"My big boobs and empty head." LOL. What does he expect you to say? What a waste of space he is. He doesn't want to meet you in person to see if you might get along, he wants a full rundown of your qualities right now. Block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:39 PM
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Most men are pretty boring and one-dimensional. Get him on an in-app video chat so you don't waste time texting with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 08:02 PM
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Not doubting you, but did he actually disclose this info? OMG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:59 PM
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Uber-driver scrote wants women to audition for his peen. No. We not doing that any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:57 PM
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I call it a "pornstache" because it looks like a cheesy 70s porno artist mustache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:15 PM
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I swear to God, I can tell by looking at their faces if they are over 6' or not. This guy is a manlet, under 5'8", I guarantee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:14 PM
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It's the "pornstache" for me. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:13 PM
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The fish pics are 100%!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:09 PM
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And "Pics of Fish"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:08 PM
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This is so classic. Were you looking over my shoulder as I was swiping, or what? These two photos perfectly encapsulate what is wrong with OLD and dating these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:08 PM
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Girl. You block and delete. That's what you do. This is not hard; it's the easiest thing in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:02 PM
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What an idiot. If my husband spoke about me in this way, I'd divorce him. He's taking pleasure in publicly humiliating her. "She wrecked her car" and "What a sucker!" This man is a sadist. Someone probably wrecked into her, and he's taking pride in conning her into the damage waiver? Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:00 PM
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I'm so sick of this, "When are you cooking for me?" bullshit. I'm not cooking for you. I cook for dinner parties; play your cards right, and perhaps you'll be invited to one. Otherwise, no, I'm not cooking for you. This is not "audition to be my wife" night. I'm not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:24 PM
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I'm an amazing cook. I say nothing about it. I'm not cooking for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:29 PM
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I'd love to take the "high road" here, but I'm pretty tired of the audacity. Why do these gross men think that they have a chance with a beautiful woman? He's fat, no job, dresses like a slob, and still wants a woman who looks great and has a great career? Delusional. They need to stay in their own lane, and give up their Adam Sandler fantasies of being a toad and nevertheless getting a princess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:50 PM
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Nice. What are the husbands/boyfriends doing to please us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:01 AM
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If he's ever uninterested, he can just leave, and I don't care. Just go. I'll survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:00 AM
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You're a total savage, sis! <3 I wish more women outed these assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:59 AM
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The only way that they could manipulate us was to keep us as second-class citizens, and deprive us of the rights that they have. Look what happened as soon as we got rights: In TWO GENERATIONS we bypassed them, outpacing them in educational attainment. Now many of us are outearning them as well. I earn more than all but the highest-income men, and many other women here do, too. Get your education, and get the bag, sisters. DO NOT give up ANY educational opportunities for a man; they can leave yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:54 AM
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You make the mistake of thinking that cheap men want a relationship. They don't, they merely want to fuck for free. That's why they don't want to pay for a dates It's amazing how FDS standards mean that you'll never date such cheap men in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:13 AM
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Drinks cost the same as Thai food, so "it's expensive" isn't an excuse. They just don't want to pay anything, and expect womens' attentions to be free to them. They're entitled to our attention, just for being men. Is it any wonder why women are refusing to date anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:36 PM
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Men aren't even trying to get to know the women that they say that they are trying to "date." They just want to fuck for as little money as possible. So they lie, manipulate, tell women to pay half or all of the cost of the date. Why not be a little more discerning? Well, because men will fuck anything. So any time they get a willing participant, they're gonna try to see how much they can get from her, all while spending the least amount possible. Dating is so broken right now. Men don't want re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:19 PM
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They always say shit like this after you leave them. "Oh, I was gonna propose/pay off your car/give you an extravagant gift." It's all bullshit to make you regret your decision to break it off, and to get you chasing them. Don't fall for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:02 PM
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If he leaves the sheets so gross, he needs to wear pajamas to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:37 PM
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Stunning that he's been with this woman for four years and doesn't appreciate the life that they have together. He's willing to give that up for sex with someone new. I swear p*orn has fried men's brains. I hope this scrote dies alone. He knows that there are many women who want relationships, and that most men don't, so women are being told that they have to "settle" when offered one. Men can easily find relationships because women want one. So they take us for granted. They'd feel differently …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:53 PM
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He loves her so so so much, but doesn't want to marry her. Especially now that they've moved in together, why should he propose? He's already getting all the benefits. She needs to move out and dump his ass. She's gonna be a forever GF if she stays with this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:16 PM
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I don't care if my financial accomplishments turn men on. I care that the money that I earn makes MY life easier and more pleasant. Which means that I don't need a man. Maybe THAT'S why my financial accomplishments don't turn men on: Because it means I'm no longer dependent upon them. Die mad, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:26 AM
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A company called Kala makes a good portable light. It's kind of pricey, but good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 02:42 AM
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What? You mean seeing his dick didn't INSTANTLY make you feel better? Quelle shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 05:03 AM
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Don't fall for this shit. I'm over 50, and my looks have yet to fade. I look beautiful, even without makeup. These loser men can die mad; I'll keep my looks and my money and live life unbothered by their skid marks and pee on the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 05:02 AM
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Truth. Dead bedrooms are ALWAYS the man's fault. If you've got smol peen, and aren't making her happy in bed, then you'll probably have a dead bedroom. If you're not making her feel special, not helping around the house, and only showing her affection when you want sex, you've probably got a dead bedroom. Literally all you have to do to keep a woman happy is good dick, show her that you care by helping around the house, and she'll have energy to fuck you. But they can't even do that. They just t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:55 AM
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WTF, this is just creepy. A total violation of trust. I'd creep his phone and figure out what he's doing. He's definitely up to no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:51 AM
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If he asks me on a date, then I assume that he is paying. I don't even reach for my wallet; if he wants 50/50, then he can go date someone else. Why should I be ashamed when someone wants to do something nice for me? Thank them, and accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:50 AM
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Put phone to ear, pretend you have a phone call while walking away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:48 AM
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That's disgusting. I hope she told her mom. And I hope she finds other work. OF is degrading, and no woman should do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:44 PM
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Men are so dumb. You can see boobs on the web for free, but this dude had the chance to see the boobs of **someone he knows** so that is better than free. Dumbass. Remember this when any man asks you for your personal financial info. Do not give them anything, they are so stupid that they will misuse it, at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:42 PM
114

Same. Living alone is peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:43 PM
124

Bangmaid, you forgot bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:42 PM
99

Honestly, most divorces ARE mens' fault. Listen, if he's giving her good d*ck and sharing the workload, she's not likely to leave. If he's not exciting her in the bedroom, and he's leaving the housework and logistics for her to do, and he has no personal goals, why would she be excited to stay with him, when he's bringing nothing to the table?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:41 PM
194

They want us just below their level, whatever that is. If we're not just below their level, they might have to give us resources. If we're higher, then it damages their fragile egos. Being alone and reaching my highest goals is so much more fulfilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:35 PM
34

The very notion that we need to "beg" for male attention post-50 is laughable. I still get attention -- all of it LV, just like for every woman -- and I'm over 50 as well. The facts: The attention of men isn't worth very much. We're not begging for anything. The men are the ones who beg for p*ssy and women's attention. They don't get any attention if they're over 50, unless they're rich. Then they basically are buying attention; it's not freely given. Men -- especially older men -- don't have mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:48 PM
103

Jesus, Sis, you need to end this. You're abusing yourself by staying in this relationship. My head was about to explode reading this. Like how many more red flags in the parade do you need to say, "fuck this shit!" and leave for good? Move forward in faith and confidence; you got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 03:11 PM
656

If my bf were following thirsttraps on Insta, I'd break up with him. That's just tacky, like looking at soft porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:04 PM
16

Facts. I'm in my 50s, and most of the men my age are gross, and I don't want to date them. I'm dating younger men, if I date at all. I'm not really seeing the benefits of dating men right now; interaction with them is rarely worth the effort expended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:54 PM
142

They forgot "orgasmless sex," "housework," "doing his skidmarked laundry," and "being an unpaid emotional laborer." Hey, if being in a relationship is so awful, why are men continually pursuing us? Why not just leave us alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:36 PM
8

He likes offsetting living expenses by 50% by going 50/50, but doesn't want to compensate her for her unique role in creating a family. So typical; he expects her labor to produce a kid to be FREE to him. She needs to ditch him and go have a kid on her own. Hire a nanny and a housekeeper, and do it alone rather than have to negotiate life with a manchild who wants to go 50/50 on HIS expenses, but have her pay all her OWN expenses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:37 PM
328

To LVM, it never matters how utterly repulsive or fat the man is, every man deserves a supermodel if he's wealthy. Like that is supposed to make up for how gross it is to sleep with him, though? Please. I won't be with someone to whom I'm not attracted, and I don't care how much money he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:04 PM
406

The fact that he was touching her while she was throwing up in the toilet shows what a degenerate he is. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:48 PM
19

If you have to announce that you're an Alpha, you're not an Alpha. You can't be an alpha male by wishing it so, and money doesn't make it so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:07 PM
5

Sure, put that apartment in my name, and then we can talk. And I block and delete. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:59 PM
334

He forgot, "I have a headache." Average men make my p*ssy dry up. I'm exceptional; I'm not settling for "average."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:50 PM
222

Meh. I'm done trying to be friends with men. No man is ever friends with a woman that he doesn't secretly want to fuck. I'm cultivating female friendships instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:04 AM
5

I salute you, Sis! Being a medic is very dangerous and stressful. I'm glad you made it home alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:01 AM
152

He doesn't have to text me back. Like, EVER. We're done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:00 AM
167

In other words, "ShE aSkEd FoR iT!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:17 PM
30

Amen to that! If you are a trash male, NOT A SINGLE QUALITY WOMAN WANTS YOUR DUSTY ASS! So you'd better figure it out, because we do not need you anymore! We have our own money. We have college and grad school degrees. We have IVF for when we want kids. We have our own homes. We have our own financial accounts. So the question is: Sir, what are you bringing to the table that is gonna make my life BETTER than it is right now? And that answer better be something more than "my dick," because dick i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:59 PM
146

No. No pussy for broke men! Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:45 PM
56

AMEN! I'm white (so forgive me if I'm speaking out of turn) and I see a LOT of entitled comments on my Black women friends' Facebook pages, about the men thinking that they deserve x, y, and z from a woman. No, Sir, that ain't it. You better be prepared to treat her like a queen or expect to be shown the door, because Black women are outstripping Black men in education, income, and everything else, so you better up your game and stop asking her for ANYTHING. Seriously, these ladies are fire, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:38 PM
41

If a man cannot pay all the bills, and feel delighted to pay all the bills, I am not interested in him. I currently pay all my bills, all by myself, and I will only get together with someone who is at my level financially, or better. Don't date broke men, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:33 PM
36

I will do a video chat. If they still don't offer dinner after that then it's block and delete time. Yup. This was my M.O. when I was doing OLD as well. Saved me tons of time trying to connect with cheap men. If they won't offer dinner during your video date, he's not assertive enough, or he's not interested, both of which are a "no" for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:31 PM
79

Consider: --80% of men are LVM or NVM. So your chances of running across a HVM are low in any context. Just go out and live your life, and trust the Universe to align you with someone wonderful. You can have kids as a single mom via IVF. Don't plan your life around meeting a man; it will either happen or it wont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:29 PM
484

Honey. I totally thought that I was doing something wrong, and that there was something wrong with me before I joined this sub. Then I learned that women all over the world, and in every culture were having the exact same experience. It's not us, it's them. It's really, really, them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:26 PM
18

AMEN. Name *even one war* started by women. You can't name even ONE in recorded history, I'll bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:23 PM
31

This should be tagged "male depravity" not "roast a scrote."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 01:07 PM
55

Women have been serving in the Armed Forces since at least WWII. We were test pilots, ferry pilots, nurses, supply workers... All non-combat positions, sure, but necessary or essential services just the same. Having women take up these essential positions freed the men to fight. Let's also not forget the thousands of women who became part of the war effort by leaving home and taking manufacturing jobs to build ships, planes, and other essential equipment for the war effort. Women made lots of sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 01:04 PM
37

"I'm independently wealthy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:48 PM
81

Sounds like he wanted her to hand over ALL her money to him, since he made more. If all the money was "theirs" it would have all gone into a common pot, with a joint checking and a joint savings. But that's not what happened. He felt like since he made more, he deserved more. That's not equity, that's abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:40 PM
10

The audacity is the bonus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:32 PM
135

Don't give men money, and don't file a joint tax return with men. FIle your own tax return, and keep your finances separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:32 PM
82

WTAF. This guy got a free bangmaid, made twice as much money, and is still big mad because she saved her money, and now wants to go 50/50? This girl needs to have her head examined. She's the one being financially abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:31 PM
155

Even during wartime, when they could literally get killed, all they are thinking about is their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:26 PM
57

Ladies, ladies....you forgot about HIS DICK! He has DICK on offer! "HAVE YOU SEEN MUH DICK! I HAVE DICK + AUDACITY!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:03 PM
95

When women lowered their standards in the name of "equality," that's when.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:15 AM
45

Fuck that. My body, my choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:13 AM
154

I walked out of a first date when the guy had obvs posted very old photos of when he looked young. I got there and he had age spots on his face that looked like cancer. I was so skeeved out that after about 10 minutes, I just said, "Okay, I'm going to leave now" and left. I can't count the amount of times men have lied to me about their age, and it really irritates me. Like you're old, and you look so much older than me. Why would I want to date you? You're fat, out of shape, and it's obvs that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:12 AM
45

They'll want to have sex to test if there's a "real connection." That's what that means. And then after sex, "I didn't feel a real connection, bye." Don't let them con you with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:20 PM
12

Men think that they are entitled to free labor from women. I mean, they've been getting free labor from mom/wife/girlfriend their whole lives, so if you'd like that role, you'd better bring somethign to the table, miss. Barf. Just unmatch. Miss me with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:14 PM
227

JFC, if a man says this to you DUMP HIM. He doesn't really want you, he's just using you as a placeholder until dreamgirl comes along. I'm glad she dumped him. What an asshole he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 12:34 AM
4

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:37 PM
14

Men go after what they want, period. If he wanted to, he would. But they will, however, take what is offered, because it's better than nothing at all. They'll pump and dump you just to wet the D.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:57 PM
7

The men are lazy, and expect me to chase them. They act like they're the prize, and that we should be grateful for their attention. OLD is a seeming smorgasbord of women, and they think that they actually have a chance with the women who are attractive. The swiping is addictive, and they keep swiping rather than just find someone that they like, because "someone even better might be out there." Lots of reasons to avoid the apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:34 PM
20

Standard scote uniform: Jeans, tee, and baseball cap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:24 PM
29

Yes. And if he asks to "take a break" then make the break permanent. No many who really wants you needs a break from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:23 PM
5

I'm not spontaneous, unless we're dating exclusively, and he is exhibiting HV behavior. I'm unwilling to be a filler for when he has nothing better to do. If he values me, then he'd make a plan to get on my calendar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:21 PM
85

$400 for a pro will get you laid once a month, if that. And if you only have the maid in once a month, the house will be messy AF. We know how these guys live; better make it once a week. So a woman once a week for sex + maid is easily $2k. Dates are cheaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:26 AM
52

He has until Wednesday to ask me out for Friday or Saturday. Otherwise, I"m "busy" and "already have plans." Sick of this "spontaneous" bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:34 PM
17

Harry is wimpy, LV trash. He thinks dressing up like a Nazi for Halloween is cute. Naw, bro. Genocide is not a laughing matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:29 PM
5

I still have a bangin' bod in my fifties, and the "free the nipple" movement is just another way for men to see us naked. No, thanks; I"ll keep my clothes on. What others do is up to them, but it takes some of the mystery away if all and sundry can see you topless on social media. Maintain your dignity, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:48 PM
8

I prefer no OLD sites. They are full of trash men. Yes, you occasionally hear about a woman "finding the love of her life" on an OLD site, but that's just propaganda to keep women hooked on them. Go out and live your life; you've a much better chance of finding a HVM in the wild than on an OLD site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:43 PM
18

Telling a woman she is "boring" is negging and an invitation to "entertain" him. Only boring people are bored. If a man told me that I was "boring," I'd remove myself from his life. Easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:40 PM
109

Brava! We don't have to settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:36 PM
27

They just can't help but jump in dick first to the conversation, can they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:23 AM
23

A loud, "Stop touching me!" will make all eyes turn toward you and they will back away, fast, rather than confront you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:45 AM
21

You can file a civil lawsuit, no need to make a report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:35 AM
193

This is the same thing that so many men do: They abuse their wives/gfs in private, and no one else sees it, then she finally gets fed up, dumps him, and he does the "poor me" bit for the cameras, and says that she's the narcissistic one, blah, blah, blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:34 AM
47

They need to start calling these "STD Parties," because that's what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:51 PM
86

She needs to sue him for intentional infliction of emotional distress. We need to make these men pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:48 PM
56

This is such a tired ploy. I've had a couple of men pull this one on me. I broke up with scrote A just before my birthday, and his response was, "Oh, it's so sad that you broke up with me, because I was going to give you this 3 carat topaz ring for your birthday..." Bullshit. We had only been dating a couple of months, and he never made any indication that he was planning anything extravagant, ever. Scrote B did similar, and told me that he had been planning to pay off my car (lol, my car had be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:13 AM
88

Apparently he knows your address, so why didn't he just mail them back to you and skip all the drama? God, men love drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:07 AM
24

He's wearing the scrote uniform of dark tee, jeans, and sneaks. She looks miserable, poor thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:02 AM
62

Are they parasitically attached to their penises?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:19 AM
2

Ick. This is where pornsickness leads: A dead bedroom. Who talks to their mom about their sex life, though. That's just weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:01 AM
235

Isn't that what men want, zero commitment, and just sex? From what I've seen of the dating scene these days, that pretty much sums it up. I just hope she doesn't catch and STD; men are total sluts, which is why they want to trick you into being committed, while they still fuck around. He's big mad because she's fucking around too, and is open about it. Reeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:48 PM
43

Ick, I'm not sure I even want a man when I'm 70. I'm in my 50s now, and they're pretty gross. I'm not going to want him 20 years older. I'm perfectly happy never being with a man again, unless he's good-looking and kind. I really like being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:28 PM
79

He got his revenge, in the most horrifying way. How chilling. The more I know about mens' nature, the less I want to be around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:57 PM
79

I carry a gun. More and more women are doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:55 PM
114

Remember, remember, remember: Men do everything they do for the approval of other men. This is what motivates men. This is why men want the watch/car/beautiful woman. So that other men will think they're cool. They need the admiration of other men. If you don't believe me, the next time you see a man doing ANYTHING, ask yourself: "How does this increase his stature in the eyes of other men?" and you'll see what I mean. They will watch you be hurt and humiliated -- and even join in -- if they thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:54 PM
9

you can also dial *67 and then the number to block your own number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:01 AM
8

This is a great idea. Dial *67 before dialing, and your number comes up as ANONYMOUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:51 AM
30

I dont' know why men are so OBSESSED with getting our "real" phone number, If he can reach me, what does the number matter? So weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:28 AM
35

I always feel annoyed when men do this. If she gave you a fake number, it means she's not interested, idiot. So just let it be, stop trying to reach her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:26 AM
17

If you meet in the wild, take their number and block your number on an iphone (not sure about android) and give him 24h to plan a date. I don't quite understand this bit; can you explain? Block your number?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:25 AM
15

I don't give out my real number, I use a burner. When I was using OLD, I never communicated via any means other than the app until we met in person. All apps have text, voice, and video, so no reason to give him access to you personally. Men use it to stalk and harass women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:20 AM
233

He's 10 years older than OP, and wants to go 50/50? 😒 😒 😒 Naw, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:15 AM
19

Not trying to throw shade, but this young woman isn't even conventionally beautiful, he just smells that she needs help and will "come to the rescue." He's attracted by her vulnerable state, not by her looks. And he's repulsive, with that big belly, the goatee, and the gross cargo shorts. That's like the official aging scrote uniform. I hope his wife leaves him. Why she keeps him around is beyond me. Not only is he manipulative, he's ugly. Just because she is overweight and plain does not mean t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:01 PM
66

He doesn't really want a *relationship* with a woman, he just wants to be able to "pump and dump" women like "the chads" do. This is about earning points with the bros by conquering women. This guy can do whatever he wants to his face, but it won't matter. I can feel his inc*l energy through the screen. Poor victim of women's hatred! (eyeroll)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:11 PM
115

It's purely a flex for him to humiliate and dominate his boss in this way, to "look cool for the guys," cause you know so much porn is about fucking the boss, your stepmom, your teacher, or any female authority figure. Not blaming her, and she used very poor judgment in this case. 1) Don't shit where you eat 2) Don't send nudes 3) Don't let men have any compromising info that they can blackmail you with. To be clear: She does not in any way deserve ANY of this. No one does, no matter how poor th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:27 PM
190

My God, and the men say that WE gossip?? This is a new low, even for them. He's disgusting. Not only can they not keep their dicks in their pants, they can't help but wag their tongues all over town about it. This is an example of why you don't trust men with trauma, secrets, nothing. Everything that they do is to impress other men or gain favour with other men. If the choice is between betraying a female confidence, and looking cool for other men, they choose looking cool. They cannot be truste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:22 PM
20

I actually do care about height. I date men over 5'8". It's my preference not to date short men. I don't care if anyone else likes it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:31 PM
142

I'm 5'2" and weigh 120, and I'm a size 0 or 2, depending on the brand. Men haven't a clue about what any weight looks like on a particular height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:29 PM
11

How many men meet these standards? Zero. Thank you for playing, NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:26 PM
5

Similar reaction here. I think he's feeling dismissed, and they have a different vision of married life. She'd likely be happier without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:19 PM
45

"NoT lIkE oThEr GiRLS!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:32 PM
17

She needs to get one of those off switches for the wifi router and turn it off every time he heads into the bath to watch his porn. Watch him reeee about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:38 PM
59

LOL. I have LeCreuset pots that are likely older than many FDS members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:31 PM
39

It's the same here in Texas. It's the same everywhere. There is no secret pocket of HVM hiding somewhere in the country. Every time I see a woman say, "Oh, I'm thinking about moving to improve my dating life," I'm like, sis, don't bother. Men are crappy everywhere. Go live where you want to live, not because you want to trip over a HVM there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:27 PM
67

When I quit the apps, I felt such a sense of relief, like I had finally given myself permission to not try to find a man who would measure up to me, and that I was content being alone. It's so much less stressful and less time-consuming to just ... not do it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:23 PM
253

And when she divorces him, she'll have no job history, and no money, and he'll use that to opress her during the proceedings. She'll look "lazy" because she "stayed home."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:13 PM
95

And I bet he has bad teeth, too, because NHS doesn't cover dental, and men won't spend money on their health. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:44 PM
25

Hahahah, Queen! I love this! The final straw, "tEaChInG hEr A lEsSoN" for driving to pick him up in comfy clothes, and he's embarrassed because someone could have seen her because the windows weren't tinted? She's using her own gas for the scrote, is being forced to ferry him around, pump gas in her jammies. Fucking audacity of him. This is why you need to have your name on the lease, so you can throw his ass out. Better to not share living space, though, with someone you're not married to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:37 PM
140

Also, men are overwhelmingly not happy single. Their status as men is based on two things: 1) How much money they have, and 2) The woman that they have on their arm. Sorry, men, that you're broke, and no woman wants your pipi. Die mad. I'm not sharing my money or my vajayjay with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:31 PM
118

Ugh, paywall! Please copypasta this article! Also, I'll add: I'm perfectly content to wait for the man that I don't want to live without, the man to whom I am wildly sexually attracted, who is a good partner and friend, who loves to do some of the things I love to do, and who I'm excited to see every day. I refuse to lower my standards and be annoyed on the daily by a man that isn't at my level and does not look amazing to me. Because you know The Wall hits men at 30, and they go downhill from t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:29 PM
75

This whole "law of attraction" thing -- the idea that we attract users and abusers because we ourselves are somehow that way -- has a very victim-blaming feel for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:39 PM
174

Men craaaave attention, even negative attention. Block and delete is the best thing ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:33 PM
45

Wow. I'm afraid of trying to love a man after reading all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:40 AM
40

He's moved on with the woman that he cheated with, and yet he's still upset because she's happy? She's not even seeing anyone, she's just happy and thriving. He never loved her in the first place. That's my take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:31 AM
37

I totally agree. Annoying AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:27 AM
61

Honestly, if my partner were so childish, I'd dump him over this, too. I abhor poor spelling and grammar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:26 AM
5

Or a bag of dicks! Look it up, it's hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:22 AM
28

I sometimes hear about men getting women extravagant bags, shoes, houses, cars, but I've never received such an extravagant gift. I buy nicer, more expensive gifts for my business referrals than any man ever bought for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:54 PM
79

Same, I'm still getting emails from match.com and haven't had an account for over a year. I set a filter to send them to spam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:51 PM
45

To be safe, I would login, delete each individual photo, and the bio section. You can't trust these apps to delete your info and photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:50 PM
229

Weaponized incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:48 PM
84

Right? They ask us on a fake date and then they make us pay. They're playing themselves here, because pretty soon zero women will go out on a date with a man because if she has to pay for herself, why shouldn't she go out alone or with friends instead of taking a risk on him? Or just answer? "Sure, I'd love to go back to your place, give me the address." Watch him pay, and then go home and delete and block. These assholes haven't properly considered the consequences of their behavior. For our ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:45 PM
190

The comments are absolutely trashy. Stop inviting women on dates if you're not hosting. Or make it clear it's not a date. Our attention isn't free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:50 PM
111

My God. Sabotaged by your own pick-me mother, who chooses your boyfriend over you. I'd ghost her and never speak to her again after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:00 AM
310

The funny thing about these men is that when they tell themselves, "Oh, I should have waited for her!" they never consider that maybe SHE doesn't want THEM. They somehow delude themselves into thinking that they can have any woman they want. So not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:27 PM
1

She left him on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:16 AM
187

I hope they both get picked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:04 AM
19

He looks like a woman, especially with those man-boobies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:29 AM
33

A man doesn't have to take a woman out. He can forgo all of this by not asking a woman out. They're so *pressed* about paying for dates. "King of the Alphas" is a dork and deserves to masturbate alone for the rest of his life. This *has* to be parody...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:28 AM
348

The victim got a life sentence, so one is appropriate for her attackers. These men get off too easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:24 AM
1

The X is blocking it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:40 PM
7

Wow. That's high praise, and I'm not sure I deserve it! I'm gratified you find value in what I shared. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:43 AM
247

When a man is into you, he's excited to get you something nice for your birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:17 AM
2

One isn't held responsible for crimes committed with a stolen gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:14 AM
2

This wasn't me; my friends send me this stuff, and we all roll our eyes... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:09 AM
26

Look at whose arguing against "kinkshaming" pedos. It's not the right wing...It's the progressive Left, the same folks who are arguing that trans women should be able to compete in women's sports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:58 PM
98

Disagree. Hollywood is full of "progressives" who are nominally "feminists" all while exploiting women for profit and denying women -- especially older women -- meaningful roles. All men of every political stripe benefit from patriarchy and keeping women "in their place." Please stop making this a left vs right issue; men benefit when we waste time arguing over which side is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:02 PM
15

Just an idea.... I think it's a great way to remind women just how much power we have, and why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:38 PM
41

They'd take a pre-owned Ferrari. Or Jennifer Lopez. They're just pissed because they don't have access to those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:32 PM
10

u/electroloop ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:30 PM
21

Isn't it great?? I feel exactly the same! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:28 PM
86

Also: Do not let a man walk you to your car. He has now isolated you in the parking lot away from others and could force you in to your car and kidnap you. If you like him, and don't want to seem weird, tell him, "I really enjoyed this, let's say goodbye here." (At the restaurant) If he continues to insist, huge red flag, say you have to use the bathroom, and will text him later. Go back inside, get a staff member to escort you to your car. Delete and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:19 PM
6

Like I don't even know what he's talking about, masculine ways. Does he mean getting an education? Making money? Cuz yeah, we queens got that down...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:00 PM
8

Short man syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:59 PM
23

Right? My male cat knows how to use the litterbox, and doesn't spray or make a mess, unlike human males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:59 PM
6

I'm convinced that mentally, men don't mature past age 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:57 PM
18

I don't know why the menfolk are such a mess, in every culture. Like what's up with that? Women are just smarter, better humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:02 AM
23

SuFfEr!!! Lol. The only one suffering is him. His post REEKS of desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:50 AM
88

I bought an automatic litter box, so I don't even have to scoop anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:43 AM
220

I'm childless by choice, and have 2 cats and a beautiful home that I love. I vacation for several weeks every year, and spend my money as I please. My car and everything else that I own is completely paid for, and I do exactly as I please. Yes, living without a man is just miserable. Poor me! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:43 AM
520

They hate us because we hold the key to them being validated as men. If you're not getting p*ssy, then you're not a real man. (They believe) Yet they can't force a woman to give him access to her body. This enrages them. We have something that they want, that they can't legally buy, that they must rely on us for. Why do you think all the inc*l forums love the idea of the government assigning every man a woman? Because absent force or coercion, most women don't want most men. If you want proof, j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:47 AM
17

You can just tell he's proper raging because no one is choosing him. With his shit personality, why would any woman want him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:29 AM
45

Well, he seems to be saying that we all find 80% of men disgusting, but since we outnumber them by 7mm women, we're going to either have to settle for someone disgusting, or live blissfully single in our peaceful homes where the toilet seat always stays down. Ladies, think carefully. You may have to begin living with and cleaning up after someone you find disgusting just to avoid the shame of living alone. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:10 AM
27

That's just what he's admitting to. He's probably 5'7".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:06 AM
52

Right? I used to scan through old sites, muttering to myself, "Why are they all so disgusting???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:04 AM
77

I'm traveling to a spa resort for the whole week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:38 AM
59

He's so desperate that he needs to convince women to lower their standards. Typical LVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:28 AM
118

His personality is shit, based on this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:27 AM
74

I'm sure it's more fan fiction. It's a whole word salad... Who cares how many more women there are than men? It just means it's more women to reject these loser men... The numbers aren't working on this guy's favor, I'm sure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:06 AM
62

I can't see the city, so no idea... It's the same thing everywhere...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:04 AM
20

The city is hidden, and it's not mine; a friend shared it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:03 AM
69

When married men message me on social media, I screenshot and send to their wives. Super easy to find them on Facebook. ☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:01 AM
63

Note that OP never asked him for anything, he took her out and loved having a classy woman on his arm. Now he wants to be paid with sex. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:52 AM
82

My lvx used to do this when I refused to "entertain" him while he was driving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:50 AM
172

Men are so stupid. If he had waited another 5 weeks, he may have gotten what he wanted PLUS a really great relationship, but he was "sO sCaReD oF bEiNg UsEd" and wanted her to pay him back with sex. How utterly revolting. This man is trash. 🪰🗑️ OP is well rid of him. His "generosity" was conditional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:49 AM
24

This is queen shit! 👑👑👑 I'm so proud of how you handled this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:45 AM
6

Link is broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:39 AM
5

Won't they be banned if you report them for harassing you outside of the OLD apps too? Maybe, but it's harder to prove because some apps have disappearing messages, and it's hard to prove it's the same dude of his username is different. Use a different app if you like, but why give them that control? Make them play by your rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:38 AM
6

Avoid OLD if you can. My friends are constantly sending me screenshots of the outrageous things men send to them. It's really gotten ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:34 AM
309

This scrote is over 50, and apparently believes that women should be lining up to prove their worth to him. I guess he doesn't realize that we'd rather be single than deal with this entitled garbage male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:31 AM
20

I suppose. If you're truly this fearful, it probably best to rely upon your friends to introduce you to men they know. OLD is a cesspool of trash men, so you're not missing anything if you decide not to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:05 PM
32

These fuckers like the anonymous nature of other apps; they know that if they send dirty stuff via the dating app they'll get kicked off. Vetting via video chat helps to eliminate fakes, uggos, catfish, and the awkward AF men. Trust me, you'll save yourself tons of time by deciding against meeting most of these men in person, because after video chat, you won't want to. It's so much safer, avoids wasting time, shows you who he is, gives you ALL the power and control. Why should you take the risk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:17 PM
4

Men will ghost you after you sleep with them. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:36 PM
19

Have an Uber pick you up, and drop you somewhere close to but not at your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:31 PM
34

They do it to send dirty photos. Stay on the app, use voice and video chat there. Make them video chat with you before meeting in public, and just block off he seems creepy or you're just not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:28 PM
234

OMG, I love this so much! Those girls are so lucky to have you as an auntie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:25 PM
4

A quick search will reveal many posts with info. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:21 PM
3

This is what I want to know. It sounds like they just asked him a few cursory questions, and then said, "Okay, you can go." The detective told her family that the man that was with her when she died was "a nice guy." How the fuck does he know? It's not like they investigated him. He had the motive (rape) and the opportunity to drug her, and it sounds like she died because of the drugs. And the patriarchy is covering for him. Sick, sick, sick! And her poor family, having to live with knowing that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:36 AM
9

Also a possibility .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:33 AM
96

This is awful, for both parties. He's being disrespected -- but he deserves it for being incompetent -- and she's clearly DONE with the incompetence. I'd get a divorce and kick his ass out before I reduced myself and my partner to this. Let him go be incompetent on his own. No woman deserves to live with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:32 AM
18

USPS Registered Mail is the safest way to send something. It gets put into a locked bag, and everyone who receives it is documented. Complete chain of custody, and no one knows what's in the mail bag, so zero incentive to steal it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:32 PM
15

Oh, fuck him. Were I in her shoes, I'd tell his brother to come get it by x date, or I'd treat it like abandoned property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:29 PM
64

Doesn't like restaurants, riiiiiight. Doesn't like paying to treat women at restaurants, more like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:25 PM
57

He was a parade of red flags. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:35 PM
70

He died in prison in his 90s during his 7 year sentence, so this must've been an age gap relationship. Also note that he was addicted to cigarettes and diet coke. The man was trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:34 PM
198

Not wanting to be seen with you in public is a huge red flag. They're worried that their cheating will be discovered if you are seen out with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:32 PM
57

OMG, you dodged a bullet with that one. I'm glad you didn't catch whatever his dirty dick was spreading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:15 PM
31

Neck-chin hybrid, he's so fucking fat...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:46 AM
48

Except weight past a certain point doesn't mean much. A man is not going to be able to tell whether at 5'3", I weigh 105 or 120. It's not calibrated to them like height is, and muscle takes up less space on the body than fat does, so a fit 120 is really different look than a fat 120.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:10 AM
170

My standard answer to "why did you divorce" is "we wanted different things." And that's it. If he presses me for more info, I say, "that's not really a first date topic of conversation" and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:04 AM
18

Born that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:30 PM
149

“why didn’t he wash it” the excuses would come piling in You know darned well that if she had told him to wash it, he would've weaponized his incompetence and destroyed everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:28 PM
1

The food in Europe is so much better than the food here in the USA. There are ingredients commonly used here that are completely banned in the EU because they're unsafe. So of course health-conscious people here read labels in order to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:23 PM
15

Yup, that's what it looks like to me, too. The shocking thing to me is that this man -- a White man -- is not being treated as a suspect in her death. He was the last one to be with her, and she had drugs in her system. She was not known to use drugs. I'm fuming because you just know that if the races were reversed and it was a Black man and a White woman, he'd be accused of rape and murder. But because she's a WOC, he's walking around free to do this again to another woman. This 2-tier system o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:20 PM
77

I call BS on this. I think that this is fan fiction, to scare other women away from FDS. I predict a huge influx of members; that's what usually happens when a scrote posts something like this. Eyeroll. Women know where their interests lie, and it's not with manlets who want to go 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:45 AM
550

This is yet another variation of weaponized incompetence. You won't ever again ask him for a gift, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:44 AM
42

American food is so shitty that insisting upon eating real food is now seen as an eating disorder. Uh, okay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:43 AM
32

This is so stupid and basic. For the same price, he could've sent a cashmere scarf or gloves, a lovely wrap, but instead he be sends cookies. Men are retarded when it comes to picking gifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:39 AM
243

I think being single and unbothered is what women should strive for; we've been sold a bill of goods with this marriage nonsense. It benefits men, and gives them more access to women's unpaid labor, and then when he tires of her, she gets thrown out, penniless, after sacrificing her body and mind to the good of a man and his offspring. Buy yourself a ring if you want one, and get married if you want to, but to a man who actually makes your life better. Don't settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:25 AM
3

>>He’s been steadily finding out that his fantasy dream girls don’t want him 😂 Isn't it delicious? He thought he was going to be smothered in firm, young boobies, but instead, he's jerking off to pron and missing his nice warm bed with his nice warm wife. These fools deserve everything that they (don't) get!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:20 AM
23

I call BS on this. I think that this is fan fiction, to scare other women away from FDS. I predict a huge influx of members; that's what usually happens when a scrote posts something like this. Eyeroll. Women know where their interests lie, and it's not with manlets who want to go 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:16 AM
76

When i was using Bumble, I always reported the poly people as "in a relationship" and blocked them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:48 PM
14

Just one more reason to ditch dating apps, to avoid these trashy people. Don't they already have apps for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:41 PM
5

NP! We buy something for someone or We pay for something for someone I bought a drink for my friend. I paid for my friend's drink. I paid for a drink for my friend. Either is equally correct. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:34 PM
127

Lauren Smith-Fields I never heard of this case before, but it's absolutely shocking. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/27/nyregion/lauren-smith-fields-bumble-date-investigation.html If she had been White, you just know that there would have been a full-on investigation of her death, but Lauren was Black, so they didn't really investigate what happened to her. She was apparently drugged by her Bumble date. And law enforcement doesn't seem to care. I feel sick reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:01 PM
42

We salute you, soldier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:55 PM
71

Exactly. As if we're so lucky to have access to a dating platform where we (checks notes) Have to approach men first Have no reasonable means of redressing abusive behavior Get banned if WE complain about men's behavior (this actually happened to a friend of mine) But what does she care, she's a billionaire now, all off the misery and exploitation of women. No, sis; this ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:53 PM
45

Right? He wants me to dress up for a date, wants my time and attention, but doesn't want to pay for the date? He wants me to act like it's a date, but he doesn't want to act like it's a date. Make it make sense...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:42 PM
29

If he's not offering anything, why should I go to meet him? I can eat out alone, and enjoy a dinner that I pay for. I can eat at home. I can eat out with a friend. Why should I give him my time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:40 PM
307

Never take a man back. He dumped you because he thought he could do better, so why would you take him back when he doesn't think you're the best thing for him? He made his decision, he can live with it. And without you. You deserve to be a first choice, not a consolation prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:26 PM
236

I love this idea. We are the product on online dating. Why should we offer up ourselves, for the benefit of male-owned online platforms, and for the benefit of men? Bumble may be owned by a woman, but she's still pimping us, allowing men to victimize and use us for her profit. 😤 OLD is trash men trying to use us for sex. Why are women still tolerating this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:24 PM
2

Exactly, it's totally not worth our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:19 PM
85

"ShE's UsInG mE fOr FoOd!" Honestly, even if that were true, what else is this loser good for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:10 AM
18

The delusions are stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:08 AM
42

Hollywood tropes have made them delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:16 AM
35

Ignoring them is an option that's in between being nice and telling him to fuck off. You can also try, "Sorry ,I'm not interested in talking right now." (At least not to him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:15 AM
39

Here's the other thing: The younger women are still looking for relationships, and these men don't want relationship, they want sex. They imagine a whole harem of pert 20-somethings who are cool with whatever crumbs he throws her way, and that's not what he gets. The women disappear when they figure out that he's playing games. They end up with zero women, because no woman's goal is to be part of a harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:10 AM
106

It's amazing to me just how much men are driven by sexual FOMO. They actually believe that at some point they're capable of pulling the kind of hot chicks that they fantasized about f*cking in their younger years. Sorry, dudes, it ain't gonna happen. This man blew up his entire life for sexual FOMO. Let that sink in. He valued the opportunity to fuck a new woman more than he valued his wife, daughters, business, and home. Welcome to male sexual depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:50 AM
33

Why wasn't he wearing a condom? He was exposing both women to each others' cooties...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:43 AM
104

Opens the car door for me 100% of the time, either his or mine. Helps me in and out of it. I dumped a man who told me, "I can't believe you expect me to open your door for you." Well, f*ck you, then. What you won't do, another man will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:41 AM
10

Right? Sorry you didn't like your test drive, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:35 AM
4

Sweaty, unkempt, balding. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:34 AM
17

We would say,"bought drinks for his buddies." English prepositions are so difficult! Your English is great! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:50 AM
14

It occurs to me that it's likely that he's trying to get her to pay more than her half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:44 AM
113

If old men are so popular with young women, then why do the old men lie about their age on OLD sites? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:09 AM
185

This is delicious. Man cheats on wife for the sake of ego and "muh penis," loses everything, including golddigger ego boost girlfriend. Poor manlet; how did he think this was gonna end up? Exwife is rich, has a great relationship with her daughters, and is happily remarried. It's so nice to see the natural consequences of his bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:02 AM
46

Lol. So did your dad get his fantasy of fucking 20 year old girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:39 PM
107

We're not even using them for dinner; we're giving them a chance to get to know us. They are turning off every woman with their shit personalities, never get a second date, and rather than confronting the fact that they are undesireable to women, they blame the women, claiming that they're being "used for dinner." My time is valuable, and won't waste it with men I'm not excited about meeting. I make more than all but the highest income men, so no, I'm not using them for food. I can buy my own da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:47 PM
13

Which platform?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:49 PM
100

This wasn't me...A friend sent it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:47 PM
106

They really think that they deserve to have a woman's attention for free. It costs us money to go out and fix ourselves up; he can pay his part, or I'm not going -- nor should any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:47 PM
55

Agreed. Wear the wig, take turns playing the bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:44 PM
21

I so agree! I wouldn't have responded to this idiot at all, nor would I have done anything but ghost him in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:42 PM
143

Right? When you're honest about your lack of interest, that's when the shit behavior starts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:31 PM
82

Broke men should not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:22 PM
390

She left him on read. ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:16 PM
747

A friend sent me this. Scrote was a wreck, so of course she wouldn't see him again, but he did have the audacity to ask her to pay for her dinner. This is a man in his 50s. Don't bother thinking that older men are any better-behaved or less entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:27 PM
4

Why on earth would you appear in court like that?? A tee shirt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:22 PM
14

Most men expect their wives to cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:22 PM
42

Sis got the bag! Good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:58 AM
99

"Sure, I'lll cook for you. Can you pay this bill?" And watch them look at you with confusion. Why should he pay a bill? Nor should we cook for men who aren't paying our bills. He can cook his own food or go to a restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:57 AM
161

I so love how the judge gave this scrote the business! Queen! He tried to get it all back when she wouldn't give up the P. What a petulant little man. Look at him, with his gross belly and saggy cheeks. Typical man, trying to get something in exchange for his "generosity" and then getting pissy when the seggs is not forthcoming. Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:02 AM
51

Men are so lost without sex, it's pathetic. Remember this whenever men have the audacity to ask you what you bring to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:52 PM
174

Men should be paying for this service if they want it, not expecting women to decorate his home. Fuck you, pay me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:50 PM
402

I don't cook for men. I may invite them to a dinner party where I am cooking for a group of friends, but cooking is wife stuff, and I don't do wife stuff when I am not a wife. If he wants to pay my bills and act like a husband, then I might reconsider. But it's time men stopped expecting women to cook for them; it's so incredibly entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:48 PM
38

I had a boyfriend who used to do this. "Were you really at home last night?" and things of that nature. I thought he was just insecure, and didn't see it for the abuse and manipulation that it was. You can't love him enough to make him snap out of it; it's about control, not about love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:35 PM
191

What is it with men asking us to buy them stuff? Why can't they buy their own stuff? They want to be chased, it's so unmasculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:49 AM
19

Coffee "dates:" Just another way that scrotes try to scam women. This is why we don't do coffee dates; it's never worth the effort involved in leaving the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:51 AM
386

THEY KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:34 PM
167

Men have spent the last 20 years using OLD as a way to use and abuse women, and now the next generation is complaining because women have wised up and are now abandoning dating apps in droves. Bumble -- created just for women! -- is 33% women. So the least attractive men are getting zero matches, poor menz! 😫 As usual, they create problems with their bad behavior, and then blame women for the natural consequences. We're "too picky," "shallow," "entitled." No, we've just seen over the last 20 yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:10 PM
116

But he has abs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:02 PM
212

What we call FDS used to be called "healthy boundaries and self-respect." 😐 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:59 PM
22

Probably the issue is that he can't find the clit. Seems to be a widespread problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:27 PM
36

Hmmm. This is exactly how we feel about pron....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:38 PM
14

I like them way I look with makeup, and put it on every morning because it makes me feel good. It's there kind of "no makeup" makeup that I've been doing for the last 35 years, and it still looks classic and great. I look like me, just more polished. We're all part of the culture, and there will always be things like this; don't overthink it. Do what you enjoy, and forget the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:18 PM
183

How many married men are out there looking for a woman that they can string along as an affair partner by promising they'll leave their wife "one day"? I was thinking exactly this as I read the article. Usually it's the man stringing the woman along for months or years. Nice to see the tables turned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:01 PM
129

Well, he's not a regular user of the shower, apparently. Guarantee that this man doesn't wash his own ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:49 PM
109

His clothes formed part of The Nest...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:40 AM
1038

"My girlfriend is trying to make our apartment a home, am I an asshole for not wanting to pay half of the home space I'm going to enjoy?" Let these savages live in their poorly-furnished hovels, sexless and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:23 AM
51

Oh, fuck this. First, if you have to ask, demand, threaten, or give an ultimatum, then he's not the one. Second, if he can't afford a real diamond ring (if that's what you want) then he's not the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:28 PM
247

Do not help men. Just stop. If they want help, they can ask another man, or pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:11 PM
53

Please read the handbook. It has all the guidance you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:28 PM
29

I hope Caleb's community dick rots off. ☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:56 AM
33

The exposure is delicious. I'm tired of hearing that"oh it's not that bad." Being treated like this sucks, and society deserves to know who's doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:14 AM
74

This. I began to insist upon a video call using the dating app when i was using OLD. Weeds out the fakes and catfish. If he doesn't ask me out then, or I didn't like him, I just block and delete. I refused to continue endlessly texting with him, either. I told him if he wanted to know me, that he should take me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:31 PM
162

I love that so many of the comments are giving the business to the pickme article author. Seriously, she's practically defending him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:27 PM
545

Rat-face Caleb can fuck all the way off, and take his precious "privacy" with him. I'm sick to death of men using women for sex, and then ghosting; they're using OLD apps to find women who are looking for a partner, and then basically lie to them to get them into bed. They claim to be looking for a relationship to manipulate women into letting their guard -- and their knickers -- down, and then once they get sex, they ghost. Then they have the audacity to complain when women go public with their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:44 PM
72

Might be true, but also, rarely are men on OLD apps looking for anything but sex, so... None of them are staying matched with anyone. Women should avoid the trash men on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:06 PM
79

Guess they'll die sexless and childless, then. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:47 PM
9

Our attention is not free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:46 PM
51

There's no difference between a broke man and a stingy rich man. Both are dead to me. ☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:43 PM
20

They're looking for an excuse to keep on the treadmill of dopamine hits from the app; they're proper addicted to the dopamine rush. That's why they're all watching porn, the rush. They're literally addicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:41 AM
57

In my experience, men are very fickle creatures, and will look for reasons to reject you to justify their behavior. I once had a man who refused to date me because I don't watch television, and he's a big movie freak. Never mind that TV and movies are totally different. It doesn't even matter why, and you shouldn't waste time trying to figure it out; they will dump/block/ghost for any reason, or no reason. I swear men are brain damaged and pornsick, and they likely think that they can do better,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:19 AM
131

Total pickme behavior. "I just found out that I'm married to a pedophile. Should I be upset?" Barf. I'd make a record of the texts, and be retaining a divorce attorney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:15 AM
30

She should move out, then he can pay the whole fucking bill by himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 11:55 PM
30

I would've replied that, yes, it's my house, and if you want to continue living in it, then you'll do as I ask and tidy up your fucking room. Oh, and your cell phone is mine also, so I'm keeping it until your room is clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:28 PM
37

facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:29 PM
113

We're out here, standards raised, making a shit-ton of money and not caring about men at all, because they're not even good for sex or money anymore... And we're in a place in our lives where we already have money, and we can get sex any time we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:20 PM
158

I'm 51. Same. This is what male desperation looks like... I'm cackling...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:16 PM
7

The absolute trash, bottom of the barrel men are on POF. It's the grossest dating site ever. Very blue collar, loser men. Yes, I'm judging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:48 AM
19

When this is science, why is the media and society trying to brainwash us that hook-up culture and sleeping around is totally normal? Answer: Because casual sex benefits only men, so it's up to them to convince the women to go along with it. I'm so glad women are waking up to how damaging it is to us, and refusing. Women get zero benefit, and all the risk of pregnancy and STDs from casual sex. Just say no! We're not free prostitutes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:33 AM
70

He's totally TA. First, he bought the big ring to show off for other men, not to please her. She wants a smaller, real ring. He wants a fake, bigger ring. Who's being shallow? Second, she has to wear it for the rest of her life, so it should ultimately be her decision. He's really being an asshole by refusing to consider her view, and using blood diamonds as an excuse. It's super easy to find companies that have ethically sourced stones. He doesn't want the smaller stone, because he wants to sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:36 AM
54

Yeah, he's not even good looking, he has that rat-face look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:35 AM
22

Maybe he proposes with a stone in a simple setting, and you have it remounted in the setting of your choice. I'd never trust a man to pick out something so personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:47 AM
5

If he's been with his GF for 4 years, they own property together, and he's not married her, he's not HV. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:00 PM
157

IMO, Elon is total trash. He attempted to completely disenfranchise Justine Musk, his first wife, after she married him when he was broke and was a SAHM to his 4 sons that they had together. Any man that tries to economically abuse his ex-wife is trash, and beyond redemption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:52 AM
254

I think it's high time we considered any act of violence against women as a hate crime that carries enhanced penalties and a mandatory prison sentence. We are stalked, singled out, and murdered due to misogyny. Let these violent apes attack each other; they need to leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:48 AM
310

Why is she paying for the adult daughter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:41 AM
3

Disagree. A man who wants to endlessly text and never meet up is just trying to get female attention for free. If he's not asking to see you in person, then he's not interested in meeting you in person. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:28 PM
34

If women really wanted to date older men, then why are men having to lie about their age to get dates with younger women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:44 PM
22

About the hair dye, tho...They always do it badly and it looks so fake that it somehow makes them look even older. Scrotes can't even be bothered to get a proper dye job every month... It's so pathetic how they claim to be unbothered by aging, yet spend so much time literally chasing youth, all while trying to convince women that "tHe WaLl" is coming for us. Seriously, men, fuck off with all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:43 PM
33

Ha! So much this! Men my own age, who look 10 to 20 years older than I do, routinely claim that they don't date women their own age because "tHeY lOoK sO oLd!" Dudes seemingly don't look in the mirror to see how they look like the fucking cryptkeeper, telling women who look 10 to 20 years younger than them how old she looks. Erm, okay bro. Enjoy being single and sexless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:39 PM
-7

Exactly. According to the internet, the average salary in the USA for a CRNA is $183k, not the $350k that she is claiming. So we know that part is "aspirational" on her part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:34 PM
1

Totally. You don't want them knowing where you go and what you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:23 AM
4

OMG, this is hilarious. I know so many women -- including myself -- who had sex with men that they liked and were ignored or ghosted after. They're so emotional; they can dish it but not take it. Poor manlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:01 AM
5

She probably asked him to do it while she was at work, but he sat on his ass watching porn, so she had to shovel the drive to be able to park the car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:57 AM
5

I found that 90% of them on OLD sites torpedo the date before they can even get one by being rude, skeevy creeps. It's so easy to weed them out when you lean back and see how they act. Most of them act so entitled to more pics, attention, information without even asking us on a date. Dates used to be how men got more info, now they just text forever and expect attention as if we had met in person. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:56 AM
8

Insisting on calling and not responding to text messages also weeds out the men who want to send you inane "good morning" and "good night" texts. I hate these, and so I don't give my phone number out to anyone that I 1) haven't met in person, and 2) actually want to see again. I don't give men attention via text, only in person. If he doesn't get it when I say, "I dislike texting; please call me instead" and keeps sending text messages anyway, he gets blocked and deleted. Abuse via text message …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:39 AM
9

So, did you end up paying for the food, or not? This man sounds like a nightmare in the making; I'm glad you're not seeing him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:18 AM
4

I would dump right away. No man is worth contracting an incurable STD, and I hope he did this before they had sex. Sorry dude, just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:19 AM
65

Actually, I don't think it's hormonal. Men like to blame everything on women's hormones. I think it's because by midlife, we have established careers and no longer rely on men for financial stability, and now we're well and truly sick of their shit, and want out. The kids are probably grown, so there is no reason to stay with a man who annoys us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:58 AM
22

OMG, I so feel this. I love my own kitchen, bedroom, and bathroom. I wake when I want, no one snores or gropes me in the night, and no arguments about where things go in the kitchen. No pee on the rim, or whiskers in the basin. Just me, and my clean, orderly home, where everything is just how I like. it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:27 AM
14

I love living alone, and don't care if I ever live with anyone again. I love the "living together, apart" trend, and think it is perfect. Diego and Frida had the right idea: Houses next door to each other, and connected by a bridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:23 AM
19

He's a Coppola, he inherited money, I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:13 AM
32

He only dates twenty-something Asian women, he has a total fetish. He looks like her dad, gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:11 AM
235

This guy seems like a manipulative jerk. His girlfriend is important, but not important enough after SEVEN YEARS to be his fiancee. Okay, dude. He's using this an an excuse to bully his little brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:15 AM
35

And yet attractive women still get shit on by men, so even being attractive isn't worth much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:35 AM
52

Exactly this. You want to go on a nice holiday, but he can't afford it? Then you either go alone or with a girlfriend (which he will resent) or you pay for him. I refuse to date anyone who doesn't make about what I do, and I'm fine not dating anyone who makes less. I"m not paying for a man; if I have to do that, then what is he bringing to the table?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:27 PM
20

Too funny. Apparently he doesn't realize that 95% of men are shitty in bed as well, and most of them have PIED? We have vibrators and dildos, we literally do not need men. Add in wine, our girlfriends for travel companions, and pets for cuddling, and we good. We don't need them, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:47 AM
5

I've had 3 "zombie" scrotes messaging me. Blocked, since they were already deleted. One from like 5 YEARS ago. I'm convinced that men NEVER delete a woman's number "just in case" he wants a late-night booty call. Sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:57 PM
9

Don't send nudes, period. You never know when the "love of your life" will turn into a cheating scumbag; men cannot be trusted. The only way that you can be assured that no nudes exist is to never take one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:54 PM
104

So true. My ex only ever sought counseling from female therapists. Probably cuz he knew another man would see through his bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:29 PM
13

It's pure media-fueled delusion. Even the women their own age don't want them; what makes them think that a younger woman will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:26 PM
19

He's looking for greener pastures? Good, hope he found it. He's not allowed back into my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:25 PM
16

Brava! I so wish moms would all teach this. They just don't have good aim, and it splashes everywhere in addition to them hitting the rim and everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:53 AM
55

Men should sit to pee at a toilet. You wanna stand, use a urinal. Fucking beasts can't even pee right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:29 AM
49

No-Neck Ed is one of the most offensive, repulsive humans I've ever laid eyes on, and his personality matches his looks. I can't believe that troll believes he's entitled to a good-looking woman. He's given false hope to neckbeards worldwide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:14 AM
26

THIS. THIS ALL DAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:11 AM
152

So true. Men refuse to go after their looksmatch, and relentlessly "punch up," and then wonder why they "aLwAyS gEt ReJeCtEd..." Men need to be a little more realistic about the caliber of woman that they are able to attract. I'm convinced that years of "ugly fat guy gets hot chick" movies have addled their brains (and don't get me started on the p*rn...) and they really believe that hot women will date fat, ugly, broke men. Nope, we'd rather be alone than date you. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 01:04 AM
160

I'll go one further, and say that never, under any circumstances, should you take back a man that dumped you, whatever the reason. He "made a mistake?" Ok, then he needs to live with it. Men will never dump their "dreamgirl;" they only dump women when they feel that they have something better to monkeybranch to. He left because he thought he was getting something better, and then comes back when he finds out that wasn't better. Every woman deserves to be with a man who sees her as a first choice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:50 PM
76

They're looking to get laid, not to have an actual relationship of equals like they would have with their guy friends. That's why it's not creepy to them. Plus, they use young women to increase their cred with their male friends; it's validation for them they "they still got it" if they can use their money and resources to attract younger women. Everything they do is to gain cred with other men. The women, the cars, the houses. All of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:24 PM
157

You may get lucky and find one, but most men in their 40s and 50s who are not married, you know why when you meet them face to face or date them for any length of time. Most are fat, gross, and completely undateable, and the ones that are decent looking are total players who will not commit to anything. I've completely left it over to Jesus and am enjoying myself either alone or with my other single girlfriends who are likewise unimpressed with single men our age. Get comfortable being single, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:21 PM
27

"MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WinE!" Nope, sorry. He's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:16 PM
20

When I was doing OLD, I was amazed at the low effort. Men would send a "like" or a "wink" and when I replied with an actual message, I would get one-word answers, as if they were doing me a favor just for existing. It's totally not worth the effort; they won't even try to get a date. Sir, I am not chasing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:22 PM
12

Right? They all refuse to date their looksmatch, and then bitch that they can't get a date. Men, level up if you'd like to go out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:19 PM
80

Women are worth pursuing and seeking as companions, because we bring joy and beauty to men's lives. What do men bring us? Most of them have zero to offer, so why would we pursue them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:17 PM
15

This is a form of sexual harassment, and I'd report it to HR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:15 PM
26

Pandora is for kids and teens, not real women who deserve good jewelry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:05 PM
2

I just act like there is nothing planned. Because there isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:04 PM
3

I'd say something like, "Great, I'll put it on my calendar when I know what the plan is." And then act as if nothing has been planned, because it hasn't . I once had a guy "test" me on this, calling on Thursday with plans for Friday when he asked me out the week before. I told him, sorry, I made other plans. So he said, "Are you free Sunday?" and I said I was free for lunch. Then he immediately texted back with a place and a time for Sunday brunch. They know how to plan; they just don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:03 PM
64

And this is Exhibit 1 for why we creep the medicine cabinet for antidepressants, ladies. Guarantee that she has been asking for help for years, and has finally decided he will never change. She's managing a house, two side businesses, and 3 kids. He works one job, and still can't hold it together. Tough luck, man. She was yours to lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:30 AM
17

We'd be able to relax and be feminine if these lazy fucks would actually come up with a plan. If he can't, he's trash. Leave him in the dustbin where he belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:23 AM
14

Pin them down to a plan. Make them tell you what the plan is. No "surprises." You need to know what to wear, so no "seeing what we feel like." I feel like knowing what the plan is, sir. And imma call the restaurant to make sure you got a reservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:22 AM
366

One theme running through all of these is the "bait and switch" nature of the "date." Somehow, "let's go on a date" becomes "Let's cook at your house" (attempt to rush sex) "Let's have a walk date" (attempt to be cheap) "Let's meet my mother" (attempt to rush intimacy) I love how OP dodged each of these. Too funny that the dumb cheap guy waited outside while she ate, and then tried to see her again. These situations also underscore the need to make sure that you know what the plan is. Where is h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:13 AM
39

Amen. I became much happier when I stopped caring about having a relationship with a man. They're just not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:58 AM
78

And the WHOLE bed is MINE! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:57 AM
73

Finally, it looks like they're beginning to understand that life is actually better without about 95% of them. They're the ones gonna end up lonely and sexless; we don't need them, and we can get sex any time we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:56 AM
52

Nah, keep the gifts. At least open them, to see what he gave you. You can always return it for cash or regift it to a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:52 AM
23

I'd accept the gifts, go on the date, and THEN dump him. At this point , sis, he owes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:51 AM
32

I agree. When you see them making a mistake, just let them keep going. Without you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:47 PM
12

I love how the picture behind him makes it looks like he's got horns coming out of his head. Seems apt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:20 AM
301

A Pandora ring? This man is trash. She needs to leave; he's not going to marry her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:10 AM
14

Every man who told me that he had a big dick had a small one. Ditto for the men who "confessed" to having a small one. The guys with big dicks don't say a word; they don't have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:04 AM
14

I dated a guy with tiny feet and hands and he had a huge dick. So even that isn't reliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:01 AM
26

I find small dicks repulsive. It looks like a child's, and I'm not turned on by children. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:56 AM
19

It really just comes down to "muh penis" and his desire to have someone else touch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:10 AM
17

Wake up, ladies; neither party gives AF about abortion rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:16 PM
4

Even this would make me crazy; then I have to show you where the vases and the scissors are, and you're now in my kitchen where I'm trying to prep food. So I repeat, please nothing that isn't already arranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:10 PM
177

I think the best advice to remember when dating men is, "If he wanted to, he would." That covers so many things. Confused about why he says he likes you, but then doesn't call? If he wanted to call, he would. Wondering if he's going to ask you out again? If he wanted to ask you out, he would. Can't understand why he's always suggesting cheap dates that are the bare minimum? If he wanted to offer you more than the bare minimum, he would. In sum, men do exactly as they please, so if he's not doing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:36 AM
52

If he's gonna give flowers, give the flowers, and then know where the vases are, and immediately start arranging the flowers after you've given them. For dinner parties, please don't bring flowers in a bunch, for the same reason: Now your hostess/host has an additional task to find a vase for the flowers so that they don't die. Bring an arrangement if you're going to bring flowers, or send them ahead of the dinner, or afterward to thank her/him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:57 PM
152

Single women -- "spinsters" -- have always been part of the workforce. They traditionally did work like taking in washing, weaving, and spinning. And who manned -- I mean "womanned" -- all those factories during WWII while the men were off fighting the war? Women. My great-grandmother was one of those women. So yes, we've been doing paid labor, both inside the home and outside of it, for hundreds of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:53 PM
20

So happy to see WOC finally standing up collectively and saying, "no more!" The collective gaslighting of women that has gone on for millenia disproportionately falls on WOC, who have historically had the least leverage economically and socially. The gains that women have made over the years as far as education are -- finally -- starting to accrue in communities of color as well, and that means that y'all no longer have to tolerate NVM, of any color, when it comes to building a household and rai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:50 PM
4

My ex used to say things that sounded vaguely gay, like, if he and another man liked the same hobby, he'd say something dumb like, "Oh, you're a man after my own heart." I'm like, WTF, why would a man be after your heart. STFU with that. He was so fucking awkward, it totally gave me the ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:50 AM
375

Of course this selfish husband made sure that he grew his own IRA while neglecting to grow hers, and now wants half of it. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:18 PM
13

Because they're lazy. They put in ZERO effort, while demanding that we be hairless and made-up all the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:38 AM
9

It is absolutely delusional what they expect. They don't understand how little they bring to the table. It's really maddening how much audacity there exists out there. They don't in any way measure up to the women that they want to date, and so are constantly getting turned down, yet they refuse to date their looksmatch because "I'm not attracted to fat women." Well, dude, thin women aren't attracted to your fat ass either, so now we're even. Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:27 AM
44

That's been my experience as well; I never see men doing things out alone, worth the possible exception of running. I do things by myself often, and have fun doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:49 AM
17

Maybe, but I tend to think that the wives are mostly dragging the men to the events in my city...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:48 AM
68

Repeatedly asking 'so what else do you like in the bedroom' and believing they were being smooth and charming. OMG, that's horrifying. If a man asked me that on a first date, I'd get up and walk out, WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:43 AM
61

I go to tons of arts events, and the only men I see there are either old l, married, gay or some combination thereof... I live in the USA, though, so maybe that's why? Men here are so into sports...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:40 AM
35

Don't; you'd have to tolerate that for the duration. They can't even walk without being annoying, good Lordt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:37 AM
110

I'd never go on a date with someone that I couldn't imagine sleeping with, and most 40s and 50s men are physically repulsive. I'm offered lots of dates, but have only accepted one over the past year. He screamed at me over dinner because I knew more about history than he did. I got up and walked out. Most men don't measure up, and I'm not seeing the benefit of having one around, except perhaps for the occasional reminder of why I'm so happy single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:34 AM
92

Because all men should be wanted by all women, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:28 AM
12

I'm not asking for a man to be anything that I am not. In contrast, men demand a woman that is conventionally attractive in a way that he is not. Most men are not conventionally attractive, yet continue to demand women who are in the top 10% looks-wise. Bruh, if you ain't in the top 10% of looks, height, income...We have better options than you, one of which is staying blissfully single and unbothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:46 PM
358

"I have a boyfriend" marks you as another man's territory and he's more likely to go away and not bother you further. They get nasty when told "no," but seem to take it less hard when they think you would date him, but shucks, you're taken. I never give them my phone number, ever. They can find out all kinds of things just from your phone number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:42 PM
126

Would you date men who are short/fat/ugly/disabled/poor/have a small dick/etc.etc?" "How do I talk to women?" No. Don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:41 PM
112

Men ruin every forum they enter, and then they reeee "women mean" when we ban them because we are sick of their shit. Their behavior is the cause of all of their woes, and still they blame us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:41 PM
28

There is a sub called petitefitness that may be of interest to you; lots of good advice there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:37 PM
19

TBH, not really much that one can do about a weak chin, absent surgery. My ex couldn't grow a beard, so he couldn't even hide the weak chin....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:36 PM
74

They want a madonna that fucks him like a whore, but only after she's virgin at marriage. They want a woman that eats just like he does -- burgers, fries, and pizza -- but never gains an ounce of weight. She should be low-maintenance, but also look like an Insta baddie so he can show off to all his friends. They want her to party all night with him in bars, but also be up early to make him breakfast. I could go on, but you get the picture. The standards, the demands, are impossible for anyone bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:35 PM
44

My ex-husband totally had a beta chin. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:26 PM
31

It's in your account settings...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:11 PM
114

Men have zero standards for who they will fuck, and completely unrealistic standards for who they'd like to marry. If you're a 5, lads, you're not gonna marry an 8. Men are the ones with the unreasonable standards, completely focused on looks. These looks-based standards are impossible for them to meet, yet they demand it of their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:10 PM
124

Them being awful is the problem, us talking about it is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:07 PM
101

Single forever sounds lovely when the alternative is lowering my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:06 PM
21

OMG. It's because they are literally mouth breathers. Unreal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:03 PM
139

Came here to say this. What is it with that hybrid chin/neck thing that most men got going on? I rarely see that in all but the most obese women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:24 PM
35

A man making $50k a year isn't gonna be buying Chanel anything, for anyone. He's barely solvent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:31 AM
92

Did he invite you to brunch? If so, it's his duty to pay. I'd dump his dusty ass for this stunt. Edit: Evil idea: Call the waitress over, and say, "I'm terribly sorry, I wasn't aware that my companion wanted to split the bill. Would you mind very much bringing separate checks?" Then at least the waitstaff knows what's up, and he can pay for his own meal, and you can pay for yours. Then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:27 AM
74

Sad thing is, though, that it's true. They can wait until the last fucking minute because there are so few men willing to commit that women will marry any dude who's okay enough, so long as he wants kids NOW. So they'll marry her, he gets a bangmaid, she gets her kids. I see it over and over. This is why there are so many midlife divorces. She wanted kids, now the kids leave, and she's stuck with HIM. And now he's older and fatter. She still looks fabulous, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:30 PM
15

I love the tiny penis ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:23 PM
255

That's some copypasta he's got going there... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:28 PM
4

Men of all ages use apps to string women along and get attention without actually putting out any effort. When I was using OLD apps, I insisted on a voice chat on the app and then if he didn't ask me out at that time, I deleted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:06 PM
167

Don't forget to check for herpes meds and boner pills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:47 PM
29

The few times I've experienced this, it's usually someone's dumbass relative or friend that they're trying to marry off, and one soon finds out why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:46 PM
31

Men *never* stop acting like horny teen boys. Even men in their 40s/50s/60s with broken dicks still harass 20s and 30s women for sex. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:55 AM
24

At least it seems like young women today are over it, and are not having it. These men deserved to be shamed back into their porn-filled man caves. Date women your own age, leave the teens and college kids alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:53 AM
18

They think they're entitled to waste a woman's time, and just using her for attention when he's not even interested. This is why you don't indulge in a "talking phase" with men. Either they offer a lunch or dinner to get to know you, or you dump them. Weed out these fools, be ruthless. They deserve to lose at the dating game if they're gonna act like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:50 AM
14

All the more reason to make them pay for every date. If they're going to waste our time, at least we can make it cost them. Idiots. Imagine wasting months of his own time dating someone he doesn't even like, out of spite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:16 AM
49

Are you serious??? They're actually waiting the 6 months to fuck, and then dumping her thereafter? Wow. I'm thinking this generation of men is hopeless, and we should carry on without them. Maybe they'll be better in 20 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:32 AM
130

Because they feel entitled to sex, but don't believe that we're entitled to marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:30 AM
10

Best way to get it to quit is to quit HIM. 💀💀💀 Game over, assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:28 AM
6

Yup. You want that, then go get it. I'm not standing in your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:26 AM
17

Yes! The proper response to this is, "Okay," then block and delete. Fuck him, he thinks he's all that? Then someone else can have him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:25 AM
39

A valid response to this is to walk out and leave him there. Such a man is not worth wasting time on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:18 AM
157

Don't cuddle with men, cuddle your kids and pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:48 PM
136

$5, Sis! Dem bitches get only happy hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:30 AM
250

Spend money!?!?! The absolute horror! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:52 AM
102

What the fuck is that mess? Whatever happened to, "Hello, what are you drinking?" Why do men find it so hard to talk to women? Answer: Because they're trying to game us. Everything is a game to them, including women. They can't just show interest, and speak to us like human beings, because they're trying so hard at the "get muh dick wet" game. They seem insincere because they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:51 AM
5

You're right, and I know it is. And I've met plenty of boring college-educated men as well. But I prefer to date college educated men because I feel that I have more in common with them. It's just my preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:32 AM
1

I'm an intellectual, and I want to date someone with whom I can have interesting conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:54 AM
85

Men who can't pay can't fuck. He needs to get his money right first, not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:51 AM
2

After taxes, that's $4k a month. Considering rent and utilities for a nice apartment is gonna be $2k, that's not a lot left over at the end of the month after food, car, insurance and other bills. I'm not sure where you live, but if that works for you, then good for you, but it doesn't work for me, and I'd never in a million years date a man that made so little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:47 AM
113

I'm not making a man chase me. If he's interested, he will pursue me, and if he's not, he won't. But I'm sure as hell not chasing a man, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:44 AM
41

turns his phone upside down so you can’t see the screen I do this as a courtesy, to avoid the distraction of the phone screen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:40 AM
11

Correct, unless he wants to pay for dates and buy me nice things, I'm not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:36 PM
24

Parents need to install software on the kids' phones to prevent them downloading any unapproved apps. This type of thing is easy to prevent, at least on their own phones. Unfortunately, they'll just see whatever on their friends' phones. Maybe we should have some penalties for parents who, through their own negligent behavior, allow their kids to download porn and show it to other kids. Or some default setting on all mobile devices such that one has to unlock full access to all apps and websites…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:35 PM
16

Same. I make more than most men, and if he asked me to pay for dates, I'd dump him without a word. Men in general bring so little to the table, so if he wants my company, then he's paying. If he's not paying, I'm not going. I'm staying at home or going to do something that I enjoy. Don't date broke men, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:24 PM
5

60k in any major city is practically broke. After taxes, that barely pays my household living expenses for the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:17 PM
138

And then he'll take all the credit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:14 PM
158

Wealthy men will date a woman who is younger even if she has no money, because they see younger as "dating up." I don't date men who are blue collar or lacking education, or men who make less than I do because I see that as dating down. And I never date ugly men or fat men, no matter how much money they have, because I'm just not attracted to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:09 PM
52

The asking for more pics thing was always a total red flag for me. They also try to get you off the app so they can ask for nudes. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:07 PM
21

Love this! Exactly, I'm not an option for those men. OLD is a dumpster fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:04 PM
113

So funny how they mistake the most basic of niceties as being hit on. Dude, she's most likely NOT hitting on you, she's just trying to get past you in the supermarket by saying "excuse me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:58 PM
24

Nope, never marrying again. I'll keep my house and my money. Not sharing it or my life with anyone unless he can offer me MORE than what I already do for myself. He must bring something to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:02 AM
74

He knows what he's doing, who gives a fuck if now he knows that you kno?. He'll just use the Intel that you handed him to play the next woman. Resist the urge to clap back. Deny them attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:00 AM
33

It's totally just as bad. Stop educating LVM. You're not helping the sisterhood. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:58 AM
41

By entertaining this type of behavior, you're contributing to the problem, sis. Give men attention in person, it's the only thing that they value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:57 PM
24

Same. The same guys are on the sites to cast a wider net; you'll see the same men on every site... Sometimes with different bios on tinder, though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:53 PM
50

While I'm glad she won the online dating lottery, please remember that most women who do OLD spend years frustrated by the LVM circus that is OLD. The bitchy profile is at least entertaining, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:52 PM
3

Totally agree. I'm definitely not down for being in the background in case he needs me. I'm not his mom, ffs. He can hire an assistant if that's what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:41 PM
2

Yeah, I agree; we let men get away with too much. My boundary is pretty simple: If he's causing me more stress than joy, then he's out. He's got to add something great to my life to be a part of it. So few men are worth it, when that's your filter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:38 PM
255

Actually, even though I wouldn't phrase it this way, I feel a lot of these things she's expressing. I don't want to text all day. I have work, and I'm busy. It's not my job to keep tabs on him. If he acts like a dog, I'll dump him, though. If he doesn't want to see me on any given night, I'm fine with that. I need my own time and space. If he starts to take me for granted or disrespect my time by cancelling dates, however, I'll dump him. I'm not a person that needs to be joined at the hip, so ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:29 AM
45

Also sometimes code for a swinger lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:19 AM
17

Aw, fuck this. Imma invite all the girlies to bring wine and drinks to my house, we're staying in. Seriously, we can have a better time playing music, dancing, and drinking at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:36 PM
10

I already know how to do all those things. Next...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:33 PM
4

You totally made the right choice. If you're ambitious, you need someone at your level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:30 PM
2

Totally agree, inappropriate. It's not his business how you spend your own money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:29 PM
119

Also: The more involved in the planning you are, the more likely it is that he'll ask you to go 50/50 because you and he planned the date together. Fuck that. Make him plan everything. It's his invitation, make him plan it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:03 AM
66

They want to skip straight to the sex, he means. They don't want to pay bills or buy you nice presents, or plan dates. Just the sex part, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:23 AM
17

They hate competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:22 AM
25

The theme where average men invite their looksmatch to dinner and have a great time. The theme where men actually make an effort to plan a nice date. Fairy tales, I know, but a woman can dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:21 AM
108

She shouldn't have to tell him anything. He should be planning the date near where she lives. It should go like this: "What part of town do you live in?" She tells him. He does a quick Google search in that area, finds two places with good reviews in his price range, and asks her, "How about A or B?" She says what she likes. He says, "great, how does 6pm sound?" Like 5 minutes is all it takes. It's ridiculously simple, which is why I have so little patience for men who can't or won't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:19 AM
261

Because he's a lazy scrote, and wants to invite her over for sex after dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:15 AM
71

This is borderline behavior. He should be planning something near where YOU live. Personally, I'd next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:14 AM
1

What do you mean? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:13 AM
46

A man is not a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:08 PM
3

Just curious, what countries are you considering? I'm looking to at least get residency somewhere else as a backup; I haven't liked the way things are going in this country for some time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:48 PM
9

That's exactly the reason why all Article 13 judges serve for life. It's to protect the federal judiciary from the sway of partisan political interference. They cannot be discharged except for some sort of misconduct, and even that would be extraordinary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:37 PM
14

You're a great friend to do this for your friend. Bless you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:32 PM
19

Yeah, the LVM get so pressed when others give us nice stuff, because it makes them look cheap in comparison. Which they are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:23 PM
6

I love this. Yes, let's abstain from PinV sex until we're totally comfortable long term. In the meantime, he can learn to give me the big O from other forms of intimacy. I'm tired of always having sex being about them putting it in me. They can get creative if it's that important to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:20 PM
36

I'm not having sex with men or giving them attention outside of a professional context where I take their money in exchange for high-value services. So mine is a half-strike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:43 AM
12

It's officially against the terms of service to have two profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:10 AM
390

The goal is to look expensive, and yes, it does keep the broke scrotes away. I've had men comment on my expensive jewelry on dates, and note very carefully what they say about it. If there's any hint of jealousy or scorn, then I next him. I don't date broke men or men with a poverty mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:08 AM
-8

I get it; my teeth had a yellowish cast. I whitened them, and it's not hurt my enamel at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:04 AM
33

I'm sure his standards were impossible, given the other behavior of his that you've described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:03 AM
88

This only works if you have a second income; my household runs on mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:31 AM
25

And the Bible does mention abortion. Specifically it tells you how to perform one and that men who suspect their wife’s baby to belong to another man should force her to abort Really? I'm curious, what chapter and verse is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:27 AM
171

Yup. It would be a positive thing, in many ways: Upsetting the current toxic dating culture, where women are used for sex and then dumped; would require that men actually put effort into wooing a woman, and it would lower rates of STIs. More orgasms for women -- from ourselves, thank you; more appreciation of what women have to offer; more demand for actual relationships with women instead of just easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:50 PM
762

If life begins at conception, then after a paternity test to prove who the father is, child support should be retroactive to conception. I'm tired of men skipping out on their responsibilities post-nut and leaving us holding the bag. I'm all in favor of women refusing to give men sex unless and until they marry us; it's not worth being connected forever to some LV scrote in order to have 5 minutes of orgasmless sex where he gets off and she doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:05 PM
24

I would totally drop a guy for yellow teeth. That's disgusting, and tells me that he really doesn't care how he looks. I whitened my teeth; he can do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:59 PM
40

These are legion in OLD. You could say the exact same thing about 50 Year olds, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:20 PM
143

I swear that online dating was invented so that lazy men could have easier access to women, but was then sold to women as a better way to vet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:15 PM
49

Treat your wife like a maid, get addicted to porn and then you get a dead bedroom. Men do this to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:50 PM
51

I give small gifts like something for the bar, a bottle of whiskey or wine. I only ever give extravagant gifts to a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:47 PM
70

"Casual" means no sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:26 PM
211

"I'm testing for emotional compatibility, so let's get to know one another over a period of months before we have sex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:13 PM
36

The cancelling dates last minute is infuriating. Like he just wanted to foreclose your options, and then try to make it so you stay home. When men get flakey, I dump them. They're not worthy of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:11 PM
97

I love it when they brag about how much money they make, or their expensive hobby, and then say, "LeT's MeEt FoR cOfFeE!" Hahaha, very funny! Fuck off, and NO! Good for you for shutting that shit down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:05 PM
119

Stop sending nudes. You have no idea where they'll end up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:50 AM
10

He's just so gross. If he didn't have money, women would not be with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:09 PM
12

Trust me, if he were that great, he'd already have a wife. There is a dearth of HVM in the world; if he were one, he'd have his pick. $80k a year is a joke; even a single person would have a hard time living on that in most parts of the country, much less a family. If his genes are so superior, why can't he figure out a way to make more? I'm just a woman, and I make multiples of that. Dude is a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:01 PM
52

The "connection to eternity through family" sounds like Mormon bullshit. They emphasize that women are spiritually connected to their husbands "for time and eternity" and justify the ability for women to bear kids as the reason for our "unique" role as baby brood-mares. They don't want us competing with men in the business sphere; we're supposed to be at home with our children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:22 PM
102

He can fuck all the way off. We get to do what we want, and men are so pressed about the gains that we have made, because it keeps us from having to choose loser men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:39 PM
19

I was at a family dinner where some people brought dishes to share. The men brought crappy stuff like old Halloween candy and deli meat, and the women all brought homemade things. These men can't even fucking COOK, and somehow we're supposed to be grateful for their attention??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:12 AM
18

He lost me at the "surprise." Ditto for the rescheduling with no good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:08 AM
281

When Thai food literally costs the same as a round of drinks, I don't understand the resistance to dinner. Unless he's just trying to get you drunk so he can fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:05 AM
8

They don't care about intellect. They just want to wet their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:11 AM
6

At age 12, they've already seen p*rn. They can see the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:12 AM
15

Actually, telling you what he makes before taxes seems fine to me. That's what his company pays him, right? If he lied about his pay, however, dump him. That's major.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:10 AM
951

"Just in case I arrive first, what name is the reservation under?" And then call the restaurant and ask if they have a reservation under that name. If they don't, you know what's up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:45 AM
25

"MiGhT wAnT cHiLDrEn SoMe DaY!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:48 AM
64

Part of the reason why this is happening is because the genders are unmatched at most colleges, with women far outnumbering men. This creates pickme behavior, and both male and female promiscuity. "Golden penis syndrome" enables male fuckboy behavior, and it's been academically studied by sociologists. Worth a Google search if you're interested. Also, Mindy is a big girl, so she may have in her personal history felt like she had to "perform" for male attention. So she may see this sexual behavio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:41 PM
77

She's gorgeous. He looks like a hobo wearing fancy clothes. These idiot men have such a high opinion of themselves. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:30 PM
13

Asking me if I thought that I earned my advanced degree based or merit, or if I got in because I'm a woman. 🙄. I had more education than he did, and in a much more difficult field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:57 PM
4

Notice how he saves the perversion for the very end, after demanding that she dance like a monkey for him. Why would any woman sign up for this shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:48 PM
3

Men will literally have sex with anything. This testing for sexual compatibility is a lie, they're just trying to use us. I'm willing to wait to test sexual compatibility until after we test emotional compatibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:05 AM
16

I had a guy do this to me a few months back. We had a second date where he kept talking about the women that he dated, etc. I listened, and said nothing and fabe no reaction. I decided at the end of the date that I didn't want to see him again; I felt like he was trying to get me to chase him by telling me all that. Then after our date, he calls me and makes a big show about saying how he "really liked me" but that he had decided to see one of the women that he spoke of during our date. My react…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:11 PM
-1

You seem angry; are you okay? Creditors can also come in the form of tort creditors, which are people who are injured, purposely or not, by the actions of others. This most commonly results from things like auto accidents or someone being injured on one's property. These sorts of creditors spring up rather unpredictably, and can wipe out assets to satisfy a judgment. This can happen whether your relatives are trustworthy or not. Again, a very bad idea to attempt to conceal assets by putting them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:13 PM
-1

Maybe just stop giving advice that causes more problems than it solves? That would be a good start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:16 AM
18

Seriously, unless he has a shit ton of money, and likes to spend it on me, I really don't see how having a man benefits me. I see how I benefit him, though. So he better be spending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:43 PM
55

RvW is not going to be overturned; the Supreme Court doesn't like to change settled law. The media just likes to scare-monger because they're running out of things to talk about now that Trump's not in office anymore. I think that this Texas law will be overturned, as it should be; everyone needs to mind their own fucking business about what women do with their bodies. Until women have paid parental leave and fully subsidized daycare, we DON'T have a real choice. So either give us those things s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:34 PM
16

Once you gift it, it's not as if the recipient has an obligation to give it back to you when you need it. Perhaps have parents set up an irrevocable trust on your behalf with the gifted assets? That's the only way I see this working. Otherwise, the assets are at risk either from their creditors or your spouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:21 AM
54

Squirrel way money/put assets in the name of your mom and dad, younger unmarried sister etc. Do NOT put your assets in another's name. If that person gets sued -- hits someone with a car, defaults on a bill, etc. -- an asset search for their name will find the asset, and now it belongs to THEIR creditor. Do not hold assets jointly with them, either; same result. Better to form an LLC to hold these assets, it's pretty easy to form one in most states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:38 AM
1

I would still be really surprised if he made 8 figs; the money goes back into the biz, and if you're trying to get funding, investors would look askance at a pay package like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:47 PM
8

Unless he's the CEO, he's not making 8 figures. Most CEOs don't even make that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 10:19 PM
55

This isn't the case. I just asked my mom, and she said that she had a bank account in her name in 1968. And my great grandma had bank and investment accounts in her own name in the 50s. I will agree, though, that now that more women have the economic ability to opt out of shitty marriages, we are so much less available for men's garbage behavior. That's the reason why "marriages don't last today."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:35 AM
-57

Joe Biden also has a history of harassing women and groping little girls in public, it's disgusting. I'm still waiting for the left to condemn him for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:40 PM
43

They're just not that interesting. So one-dimensional. Sex-obsessed, rude, boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:53 AM
29

My experience has been exactly the opposite, where my female friends want to remarry in their 40s, and the men are still in full hookup mode despite being in their 40s and 50s. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:15 AM
235

Seriously, he feels free to terrorize her because there are zero consequences. Were that a dark alley in Florida, he'd likely be bleeding to death from a gunshot wound. Anyone who does this in the States has a death wish, literally. So many states have liberalized concealed carry you'd have to be crazy to behave like this. You'd think that common decency would be a reason, but no; only threat of actual death seems to deter them. Stay strapped, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:49 AM
76

I can't remember ever reading a post that says that we should tailor our personalities -- or anything else -- to cater to the male gaze. What we want from men is to be treated like human beings instead of discardable fuck toys. So yes, we are engineering our dating lives to avoid those types of LV men. These handmaidens of the patriarchy really need a new schtick; these fake news articles about the sub are getting really old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:05 AM
512

That's just appalling. You can tell she is terrified. I doubt she's scared because he's black, she's scared because he's behaving like an animal, and purposely trying to scare her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:52 AM
544

Exactly. They can take turns wearing the wig for each other, and revel in their perfect anuses. It's just too funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:48 AM
61

So on one hand, they are DESPERATE for sex with women, as "flawed" as we are, and yet we're supposed to be embarrassed about our anatomy? If any man said something so absurd to me, I'd laugh in his face. They're worried about a woman's anus being close to her vagina, whilst they can't even WASH their anuses? Please. (eyeroll)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:47 AM
188

The most anyone can do is accuse us of laziness; I am indeed to lazy to chase a man. If he won't act right, we ignore him. Yawn. Such misandry. (Eyeroll)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:43 AM
4

Run. 5 kids? Empathy issues? Won't walk with you? That's 7 red flags right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:56 PM
839

Dying! So many of these white male "diversity" types are closet racists and sexists. They like these jobs because it makes them look like good guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:49 PM
2

Isn't that "dating down?" What do you talk about? I'm always reluctant to date blue collar, because of the cultural differences....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:48 AM
17

Lol. Guess he'll have to find it himself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:27 AM
553

He wants to cheat, but call it "swinging." Gross. And I bet he's a disgusting scrote. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:57 AM
256

Being ignored is the WORST punishment for men. They love attention, even when it's negative. This is why the block-delete is so effective. It's easiest for us, and deprives them of attention. A win on both accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:26 AM
114

Mountain Dew is another red flag. Gamers love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:24 AM
13

They only like it if you hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:46 AM
16

Amen. No man is ever been worth the trouble. Living with them is entirely too much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:13 AM
28

Just leave him. If he's not making your life better, then he doesn't deserve to be in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:13 AM
26

Time to just fucking divorce him. Him, and his smirk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:10 AM
28

They just can't. It could be right in front of their fucking faces, and they won't be able to find it. Tell him to buy one for his house, that way he'll always know where it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:09 AM
29

Just tell him it's "lost forever" like one of the posters suggested. That's the best answer to that I've heard yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:08 AM
45

If single men are so happy, then why are they on OLD sites in DROVES (like 75% of Tinder is men in the USA, and in the UK it's 89%) trying to find sex? If they were happy, they'd let it alone and go on about their lives. Go look up the stats, men are LOST without women, our bodies, and our mental and housekeeping resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:06 AM
30

An explanation is never due, you don't owe him shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:50 PM
48

One reason why dead bedrooms exist: Because unlike men, for us the idea of sleeping with someone incompetent turns us off. Incompetence makes my p*ssy dry up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:44 PM
76

My personal favorite was his consistent response of “I know you’ve told me 80x that XYZ needs to be fixed or handled. I’m going to do it tomorrow.” This is when you hire it done by someone else. The book "Why Men Love Bitches" goes into this. You ask him to do it, he drags his feet, but doesn't say no outright, he's just stringing you along. And then you hire it done by another man, and he whines that he was gonna do it. Nope, you get one chance, and then I hire it done. Why nag and then hire it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:12 PM
72

This is a great response. If he's not willing to look, it should get equal neglect from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:07 PM
74

I live in one of the biggest cities in the USA. 99% of the men are still LV jerks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:00 PM
66

WTF does he think this is, "Build a Bitch?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:36 PM
22

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:34 PM
2

Hat pins, or walking canes. Walking canes were actually banned at some point because they make such good weapons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:33 PM
63

The scrote logic is really something. These stupid men want to run the whole world, yet can't wipe their asses or put the dishes away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:32 PM
3

In my state, a woman -- or anyone -- can carry a concealed firearm without a permit. Sorry, Brits, Canadians, and Aussies, that you don't have effective self-defense weapons available to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:01 PM
15

It is all men. All men make all women feel unsafe. ALL MEN. Don't like it, men, being assumed a danger to women? Then DO SOMETHING about your fellow men. If men began hunting abusive men vigilante style, would this shit stop? Yes, it would. Men would be afraid to attack women, because they would have to be constantly looking for that vigilante attack over their shoulders. Putting FEAR into men is the only thing that works. Thread of punishment apparently does not work. Fear of bodily harm when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:58 PM
16

Women effectively have a curfew when we have to remain home after dark to avoid being attacked. I demand the right to move about freely and unmolested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:54 PM
12

For those who are saying, "this just punishes all men for the actions of a few," think about this: All women are afraid because of the actions of a few men. You need to come up with better reasoning, men. Women should be able to go about their lives without living in fear of male attack. This is a male problem. You need to figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:51 PM
5

Right? I thought it would be like 95%. But they probably lying about that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:45 PM
6

During the pandemic, women were allowed to leave home 4 days a week, and men 3 days a week, no socializing between the sexes allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:44 PM
19

Overplaying his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:41 PM
479

Here's another variation of the weaponized incompetence: The "I can't find it" whine. Man: "Do you know where x is?" Woman: It's in the pantry on the top shelf. Man: No, it's not there. Woman, getting testy: I know it's there; I just saw it yesterday. Go look. Man: Whining: It's not there!!" Woman: Nope, it's there. GO LOOK. Go move things and go look for it until you find it. Man: More whining, and just won't STFU until it is delivered to him: "I can't find it, it's not there!" Woman, really pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:37 PM
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Ask them like this, assuming the close (that he watches pron): "What kind of pron do you like?" He'll tell you exactly what he's into, and then you can block and delete. Don't ask if he watches pron. Assume he does, and when you ask it that way, he'll be EAGER to tell you all about it because he'll assume that you're asking bc it's okay with you. DO NOT DATE MEN WHO USE PRON. They are sick, juvenile fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:30 PM
11

Mom KNOWS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:18 PM
86

Right? I love being single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:37 AM
57

Or not fucked, as the case may be! Enjoy your nasty porn habit, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:37 AM
333

Right? We worked hard for those things, and they make our lives better! Show me how a man makes my life better. As far as I can tell, I can use my money to hire done anything that a man could do for me. And I can give myself orgasms. They're overplaying their hands. They need us, we don't need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:35 AM
365

Show me how a man makes my life better, and I may reconsider. Most of them -- like 99% -- bring zero benefit to me. They act like we should be grateful to have them around, but what are they offering, besides dick -- mostly mediocre -- and extra housework?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:32 AM
522

What have we said? That men will fake whole relationships to have a bangmaid? Here's the proof. I hope she dumps him. He doesn't deserve her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:28 AM
99

Exactly. We've seen the lengths to which society is willing to go to respond to the Covid threat, and I think it makes sense to consider our societal responses to other threats as well. Perhaps a nighttime curfew for men is something that should be considered due to the safety risk that men pose? What else might be done to combat these risks to the safety of others? Men allowed out on certain days, and women on other days? They did that in Panama during Covid, and crime dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:20 AM
279

At this point, I'm asking why men are allowed out without an escort, given the potential for harm that they represent. They commit more than 80% of all violet crimes. When is enough finally enough before we crack down on this for the right of women to move about freely and without fear? Edit: This was obviously said tongue in cheek, but the howls from the men indicate that they KNOW that men pose an undue risk to women, and they just don't CARE. They want to be able to go out whenever they want.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:46 PM
1

No, he'd be using her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:40 PM
0

Go read the handbook before posting again, we're not explaining anything to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:39 PM
5

Don't believe anything men tell you, they love to triangulate, stir up trouble, and cause drama. Do not discuss your personal life with men. They're terribly indiscreet, and will discuss your private life with other men, and will also gin up ways to use the information against you. Men cannot be trusted, with anything. Don't believe me? Tell one of your male "friends" something false, that you don't tell anyone else, and see how long the fake gossip takes to get back to you. Keep your own counse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:46 PM
3

Men know exactly what they're doing when they do this shit; you're giving way too much grace, here. Millennial and Gen Y men love to play princess and be chased, it's a huge ego stroke for them. Go ahead and play along if you'd like to be one of those 🤡 clown women who is begging for a proposal in 2 years and buying her own engagement ring. Because this is where that will end up. Ladies, do. Not. Chase. Men. Periodt. These MF'ers will only learn by losing --losing you -- and seeing other men who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:41 PM
31

Why argue? Just stop doing his washing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:01 PM
50

He did it on purpose, I guarantee. You've not asked him again, I bet. So he won that battle without direct confrontation. Tell him to wash his own shit ONLY, give him his own hamper for his laundry, and tell him if he wants clean clothes, he needs to do it. Make sure he knows that all your clothes have already been removed from the machine, so if any of your things end up ruined, you'll know he purposely did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:06 PM
161

Exactly. Choose me or lose me. And if you choose her, then don't come back to me and try to tell me you want me. That's a scam. She didn't work out, so now you want me? Nope; you made your choice, I wasn't it, and I'm fine with that. I'm not going to be the second-place choice. Because I know I'm just the placeholder, and the minute you find your dream girl, you'll dump me again, and I'm not playing that stupid game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:23 PM
99

Typically the only reason why they seek shared custody is to 1) pay less child support, and 2) to have more opportunities to harass and control their ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:25 PM
4

They really do think they're entitled tho free sex on demand, don't they? And why is it that they never just come out and say "sex," why this "cuddle" euphemism? Just say you want to smash, dude, we know what you mean. Stop hiding behind kid's language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:57 AM
10

It's dumb shit like this that put me off online dating. I feel like it's a big stupid game to them, where "winning" is them conning as many women as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:45 AM
39

I banned him/her. We don't need that attitude here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:27 AM
41

I did as well. Take the nasty shit elsewhere, sis. It's not welcome here, and I'll ban you if you continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:02 AM
217

These man babies deserve to be ignored and only given attention in person. I have a policy of paying attention to men in person only, unless they want to call me on the phone and we're already seeing one another. I enacted this policy after noticing that men were using me for attention and never taking me out. So now it's, "oh I hate texting. If you'd like to get to know me, then let's meet in person." And then I stop replying unless he's inviting me somewhere. I don't have electronic relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:01 AM
6

Right? "Have dinner with me" is only 4 words, if you're feeling stingy with the words and want to economize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:53 AM
12

The constant lowballing just disgusts me. One gets the feeling that no matter how perfectly amazing you are, he's still gonna low-ball you just to save resources in case someone even better comes along. These men are never satisfied with the women in front of them; they're always entertaining the possibility that they might be able to get something better. So many of them will die alone because we're just not having this anymore. I'd rather be single for the rest of my days than feel like I'm so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:51 AM
12

No, it's the fact that OLD is overwhelmingly filled with trash, lazy men who can't be bothered to leave the house. So your chances of meeting an LVM go up using an OLD site. Another reason to meet in real life is so that you can observe manners, body language, etc. That tells much about a person. Men can fake anything behind an OLD screen. Get out of the house, socialize with others, mingle with those that share hobbies and interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:00 PM
24

Yup. Using OLD is thoroughly delusional, and the reason why women keep on is because they think they're going to be the "lottery winner" that finds a relationship with a HVM. Keep hoping, Stupids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:55 PM
11

Go read the handbook before posting again. The mods are not explaining this, and this tenet isn't up for debate here. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:16 PM
16

"I'm available for lunch on x day or dinner on x evening."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:15 PM
57

The fact that he wouldn't offer that even after meeting her and interacting with her in person tells you what you need to know about him. He's never gonna act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:13 PM
50

These apps like Tinder are overwhelmingly male users, and those male users are overwhelmingly trash. It astounds me that women are still using these apps. In the UK, 89% of users are male. In the USA, 75% are male. The fact that women have mostly abandoned these apps says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:03 PM
68

Holds his tiny peen between thumb and forefinger whilst frantically stroking. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:40 PM
1

The vaccine isn't preventing transmission, and people are still getting sick. I'm not sure that I'd say it's been successful, given the facts. We still need therapeutic treatments to prevent sick people from dying, even with the vaccine. Ivermectin is one such treatment that's being used to prevent death. If the alternative is death, off-label uses of otherwise safe drugs makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:56 AM
59

Men need to stop manipulating and lying to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:23 AM
116

He probably uses them wheelchair to garner sympathy fucks. Manipulative creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:22 AM
1

People with the vaccine are still getting COVID-- look at what's happening in Israel, where most of the population is vaccinated. We still need treatments for COVID, even with a vaccine. To refuse to offer ivermectin or other therapeutics is insanity. The patient is dying of COVID, and the excuse to withhold treatment with an off-label but effective drug is because...it might be dangerous? That makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:02 AM
88

Not to mention that 95% of the men on OLD are absolutely disgusting, so if you swipe right on every man, you're going to need eye bleach when you go into your inbox. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:37 AM
68

His preference: Any woman that might possibly fuck him. He's not picky. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:30 AM
139

Sex might come out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:34 AM
153

What the hell is "coffee hopping?" What's wrong with lunch or dinner? He sounds broke and/or cheap; I'd block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:33 AM
44

Because women should all be virgins, but have sex with all the men! #scrotelogic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:31 AM
7

You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. I'd forget him. He sounds like he's stringing you along, and you don't deserve that. If he wanted to come visit you, he would. It sounds like he's having you to his town because it's more convenient for him, and he's budget-conscious/cheap and wants to spend as little as possible on the flight and hotel. These are typical LVM tricks. Just move on, and delete him.
/r/askFDS02/10/21 01:52 AM
185

Male friends have told me the exact same thing. I related this to my girlfriends, and they don't believe it. Here we have a real-life example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:15 AM
339

This is why women should boycott OLD. Its well-known that men swipe right on every woman, and then let the women message them. That guy doesn't really like YOU, he swiped right on everyone so he could "harvest" the ones that like him. Men on OLD are not searching for relationships; they are searching for women that they can con into serving as cheap bangmaids. Don't fall for it. Get out of the house, meet men through activities and hobbies. OLD is a waste of time, and most of the men who partici…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:13 AM
58

This man needs to get a job so that he can stop leeching off his wife and mind his own fucking business. He's literally sitting on his ass, earning nothing, and telling her what she can spend. She could divorce him, and then he'd have to go back to work and pay her child support. He'd better watch his ass. He's literally contributing nothing but stress to her life. Men should not be house husbands, it's bad for their character, and we end up doing all the work anyway. Men need to work out of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:56 PM
58

Men don't want ONE woman, they want a whole fucking harem. They're literally addicted to OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:44 PM
419

Schrodinger's woman: Simultaneously fuckable and ugly, depending upon whether she's receptive to a man's crude advances. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:36 PM
34

Their normal is leaving all child-related tasks to women; that's the default. So anything above that is, apparently, extraordinary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:29 PM
104

Men have apparently become such lazy fucks that now to do the basic minimums, they need a societal squad of cheerleaders to spur them on. Without the unpaid work of women, whole households would cease to function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:26 PM
346

It's called, "parenting," and tens of millions of women manage to do this daily. We need to normalize men doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:41 PM
169

Her first mistake was not getting a date, a time, and a place, and confirming that a reservation had been made. These idiots can't even make a reservation for dinner, that's how brain dead most of them are. No reservations? No problem; we can reschedule for another time. I'm simply not waiting in a line in high heels or eating at the bar because he couldn't be bothered to make a 2 minute phone call. I'm through playing stupid games with stupid men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:56 AM
46

Absolutely. And make men pay for all pregnancy-related expenses, as well as giving the mother financial support for carrying his kid. Men should be financially responsible for the pregnancies that they create. I'm tired of women being left holding the bag when men are 100% responsible for every pregnancy. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:45 AM
98

Her stuff is so good! This is especially good, because she has women calling in offering their thoughts. This was really sobering to listen to. Women are outpacing men in every area. There's a shortage of good men, and they'll die alone and sexless; we're not settling. Level up, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:53 AM
54

Awwww, that's adorable. I love them! Beautiful couple! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:56 AM
219

Right? Like, sis, who are you trying to attract? Men who just want to smash? Cause that's what you'll get with that on your profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:42 PM
336

Remember: There are no loose vaginas, only smol peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:41 PM
-24

Use the search engine Duck Duck Go to search, Google is deliberately suppressing info about it. It's a very safe and effective medicine that's considered by the World Health Organization to be an "essential medicine" for its treatment of a variety of conditions. Don't be dissuaded by anti-science propaganda, do your own research. Lots of people could use this medicine, many deaths could be prevented. It's already being used in India and Africa. Rates of COVID mortality are less in those areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:23 PM
43

They're are no higher quality men. It's the same trash men everywhere. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:49 PM
19

It's used to treat river blindness, and is an anti- parasitic for humans. The man who discovered it won a Nobel prize. It's currently being used in India and in some African countries to treat COVID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:43 PM
71

He can die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:22 PM
17

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:53 AM
115

Wow. Of course Scrotes magazine GQ would write this. I swear, men's brains never evolve past using women for sex and ego validation. This is really sad. This is why most of us better get comfortable with spinsterhood rather than spend our lives with shitbags like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:53 AM
14

Can someone paste here, I can't read the article because of the paywall. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:27 AM
53

49, ready to settle (down.) 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:27 AM
8

Just block him. That's what I do when skeevy men look at my profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:25 AM
62

If women really loved old guys, they wouldn't need to lie about their age. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:21 AM
93

She's been on the podcast, she's great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:06 PM
5

Grandpa, more like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:17 PM
5

Also: screenshot the driver info as soon as it's assigned so that you have his name and license number. This info disappears after the ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:16 PM
2

Do not explain. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:34 AM
54

What, and perhaps miss out on the opportunity to fuck her? Heavens, no! 😯😯😯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:41 PM
113

I'd love to hire a tradeswoman to work around my home. Men are just a nightmare to have around. You have to constantly watch them to make sure that they don't damage things and actually do what they're supposed to. Women are so much more conscientious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:32 PM
9

Why? Because he doesn't care about STIs, he cares about getting laid. Anything that might interfere with getting laid is ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:19 PM
56

Wow. They don't care about their own health, so is it any surprise that they don't care about a woman's? Men are not trustworthy; we're all responsible for ourselves. Make them wear a condom, no exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:16 PM
8

He's probably fucking other women as well. No way would I trust a man to be faithful unless he had shown months of consistently trustworthy behavior and HE asked me to be exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:43 PM
1

Snatch them coins, Sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:08 PM
41

Just stop. We're not explaining anything to you. Go read the handbook before posting again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:01 PM
96

He cares only about your UTILITY to him. Can I possibly fuck her? (Most important) Can I get attention from her? Can I extract money from her? Can I extract services from her? This is the calculus that they instantaneously perform when meeting any woman. Edit: spacing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:10 PM
72

South Florida is a retiree haven, so I'm sure there are legions of these elderly scrotes driving around, hitting on women 40 years their junior. I'd totally report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:03 PM
93

If he can't pay for dates, then he shouldn't ask women out. Why is this so hard for them to comprehend? The fact that they desire this speaks to their feelngs of entitlement to women's time, and later, of course, to our bodies. I don't date men unless they pay for everything. If they want my company, them they pay. If they don't want to pay, then I'll go do my own thing, and be unbothered. I don't need a male companion, and I really enjoy my own company and doing things on my own. I don't need t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:32 PM
62

Exactly. We would just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:22 AM
569

The solution to this problem is entirely within his control: Stop asking her out. Clearly they have different values. He needs to go find a pickme woman that he can afford. She has standards, and is used to men treating her well. I'm so proud of her for sticking to her guns on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:21 AM
14

As I suspected. Just acting like brutish assholes, and now playing victim. Jerks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:15 AM
10

I can't take credit for that line; it's from this: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mqt2uv/he_asked_for_it/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share I howled!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:11 AM
46

Mine too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:38 AM
16

We don't standards shame on this sub. OP had her boundary, and enforced it. You don't have to agree. If you don't like it, keep scrolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:25 AM
59

I can't believe that men expect us to tolerate that behavior. They have to work so hard to get even one date, and then what do they do? They completely mess it up before they even have a chance to go on the date. They're so lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:21 AM
71

A date is a time, a place, and an activity. I don't put a date on my calendar until I have all three. If he's not confirmed at least 24 hours before, then I act as if we're off, and I make other plans. My life and time are not subject to the whims of LVM who can't be bothered to conform to social expectations about how to behave properly. If he's late or acting badly on the first date, it's gonna go downhill from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:18 AM
18

We're they in the students of color/multicultural space, was that the issue? It was unclear from the video I saw; it may have been edited. If so, they were obviously just trying to cause trouble, and they should've known that their sticker would be unwelcome in that space. Completely tone-deaf behavior. Fine, have your point of view, it's a free country, and you still don't need to antagonize others. What a couple of d-bags. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:07 AM
21

But first, BLOCK AND DELETE! 🚫🚫🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:57 PM
623

What did he expect? He invited you into his home, and he was provocatively wealthy. He was totally asking for it. Why else would he invite you over, unless he wanted you to steal his stuff? /sarcasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:27 PM
163

When I see those, "As a man, I think..." comments on our sub, as I ban them, I'm thinking, "Dude, here no one gives a FUCK what you think!" 🔨🔨🔨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:09 AM
32

I've a policy of not dating anyone who is so fucking dumb that they can't figure out how to change their age on their dating profile. OLD sucks, which is why FDS doesn't recommend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:55 AM
36

We don't play hard to get, we are hard to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:50 AM
77

These broke men, howling about having a girlfriend or wife. Pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:09 PM
91

I think your lack of interest could be because men ain't shit, and most of them are not worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:46 AM
259

No. Nope. Hell no. Do not build a man. He will act like he did it all himself and then leave once you are successful in building him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:43 AM
6

Send him to go sleep with the dog tonight. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:40 PM
10

Please go read the handbook in the sidebar before posting again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:45 PM
25

THE NEST!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:23 AM
95

Best takeaway: IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:41 PM
4

I wouldn't bother. I'd distance myself, and just let it be. That's what I do with my LV dad. He's an adult; he's not going to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:36 PM
244

He was an old loser with women, and now that he's an older, married loser, he thinks he can have FWB with younger women? The delusion is real. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:12 PM
115

That's just appalling. Since when is genocide something to joke about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:38 AM
44

All whilst working full time to earn her own money. What exactly would she be getting out of this relationship? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:02 AM
825

He wants a slave that pays her own bills. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:38 AM
46

They're cheap with every woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:47 PM
10

I do hope she gets picked. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:44 PM
129

Why didn't hubs take it out of his own account? He's totally the AH. I'd not only lock hubs out of my accounts, I'd go into his account, take back what he stole, and THEN lock him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:42 PM
-1

Not at all, I'm saying what I've achieved is doable for every woman, irrespective of how she looks. Pick a high-value career, get good at it, and you'll be successful. Wallowing in self-pity because you're not pretty and blaming your lack of success on your less than stellar looks is a cope. Level up, it's doable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:04 PM
-1

It sounds like you think things are just handed to us because we look good, and that's not true. I worked my ass off to get a college education and a graduate degree; no one knew what I looked like on those applications. I got in by merit alone. Clients patronize my business because I'm good at what I do, period. They don't come to me because I'm pretty, they come to me because I solve their problems. I deserve everything I have. Drop the petty pretty-hate, sis; my beautiful face takes nothing a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:59 PM
89

Isn't it funny when they act like they're the ones that do the choosing? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:40 PM
69

Sis, which women do they treat well?? 🤔 I think they treat all women like shit, just for different reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:57 AM
114

This has been exactly my experience. Yes, we conventionally attractive women do get more male attention, but the men are trash. They try to use us for sex; we're not valued as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:01 AM
12

This. So over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:26 PM
12

My time is so valuable that I'd never spend it with a man I'm not interested in. Nothing could induce me to spend time with him. Nothing. Why do they think a free dinner is so attractive? It's a cope to get over the fact that women don't want them. Their offensive personality isn't the issue; it's that she was using him for dinner, so of course she doesn't want to see him again. Please. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:24 AM
1

Put down the panini! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:46 PM
3

Men on OLD are overwhelmingly not looking for a relationship. They want to wet the D, nothing more. I'd rather stay home alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:45 PM
–

Not within the scope of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:57 PM
160

I once had a man called "Loser Fuckboy" in my phone. Every time he texted me some shit, it was easier for me to remember just exactly WHAT he was: A loser fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:47 PM
32

You can't, really. There's some info on the handbook about how to avoid paying for dates of he tries it. "Wow, I've never been asked on a date and then expected to pay before!" is one suggestion. Don't make a huge fuss, just pay and block and delete if he in insists on 50/50. Be glad you discovered that he's trash early on. Men who can't pay for dates should not be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:45 AM
93

Remember that men do everything for the approval of other men. This scrote is feeling his age with the hair transplant, and can see he's fading fast. He doesn't want to lose status with his fellow menz, so a much younger girlfriend proves he's sTiLl GoT iT. He's insecure, and knows The Wall is imminent. He's having a mini midlife crisis, which is why he wants to post his hOt YoUnG gIrLfRiEnD on social media. Pathetic. You'll find someone better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:34 AM
313

They could be harming women's potential for advancement by doing this. It needs to be outlawed immediately. Men are always looking for novel ways to harass women. They need to get a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:46 PM
2

I don't even understand the difference between "exclusive" and being a girlfriend. The term seems like a way for men to confuse women about their status in the relationship. A man knows how to ask a woman to be his girlfriend. If he's avoiding that for some reason, you're being played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:57 AM
13

What is PH?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:25 AM
66

He's not "into her," he's into getting his dick sucked for free. Men will literally fuck anything. Getting sexual attention from men isn't a prize; they give any woman that they think might fuck them sexual attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:23 AM
95

She got the degree to bring more money into the household, and he feels like it's her debt to pay off? This doesn't sound like the attitude of marriage as a partnership. He's treating her like a roommate + bangmaid. I'm betting that most of that money that she's spending is stuff for the kids, not for her. And why doesn't she deserve nice things? She's working too, and likely doing all of the housework and all the childcare whist he comes home and sits on his ass as the "primary breadwinner." He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:16 AM
102

Wow. It's so sad how we've all allowed ourselves to be treated by men. No way did I or do I deserve that, nor does any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:05 AM
2

I've also had trash, game-playing men approach me on Facebook. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:12 PM
4

Beware the fakers. Men will fake whole relationships just to get laid, and you've now told him how long he has to wait. Not a good move. It sounds a bit like he's lovebombing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:11 PM
4

This. It doesn't matter how HV a woman is, the pond in which you're fishing contains only trash fish. Don't bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:09 PM
31

Agree, they're arrogant pricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:47 PM
10

Because God forbid that we seek a man at our level. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:36 PM
100

You've just encapsulated my entire online dating experience. The number of gross, fat, LVM bridge trolls who would approach me online was shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:34 PM
6

It's amazing to me that a nasty little bring scrote like this is actually able to convince multiple women to sleep with him. Note that he uses the fat woman because she has a house and a car, but wants to be seen in public with the pretty girl. Meanwhile, he's bald and looks like a troll. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:24 AM
239

Accepted a coffee date 🤡 and this short little scrote not only didn't offer to pay for my coffee, he didn't even order any himself. Basically freeloading off of the cafe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:41 AM
1

Please read the handbook before posting again. Swipe left on mobile to view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:55 PM
44

This. ^^^^ And bonus: Men hate being ignored, so it's like a punishment that you won't be seen as dishing out, which allows you total deniability. Make your interactions with him civil, but brief. You have "so much work to do," and you "must get back to your desk." If others are present, be distantly polite (for your sake, not his) and brush him off as soon as possible. Never gossip about him to others; act as if you just don't think about him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:53 PM
4

This is soooo good. It deserves a spot in the handbook, u/electroloop !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:48 PM
372

It's true, the kinky people are usually the grossest. Why is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:46 PM
9

Yes. Tap your profile icon, "settings", " profile settings" at the top, find the message settings
/r/askFDS10/09/21 06:31 PM
11

Just turn off the DMs on your Reddit account. Problem solved.
/r/askFDS10/09/21 05:05 PM
35

I was vaccinated 20 year ago, and had my titer checked (that's the level of antibodies in my blood) and I didn't need a booster. I don't want a vaccine unless I need it; a titer check (just a blood test) is a good way to find out if you need one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:58 PM
16

They're just in such a big fucking hurry to get to the sex part as soon as possible, so they have to rush through the "getting to know you stage" as soon as possible. Sex is really what they are after. If he's trying to rush the "getting to know you" phase, then you know that he's a sex digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:57 PM
69

I can't read the article because of a paywall, but just wanted to say that if they can't get ahead in a world that was literally built for them, then they really are losers. They just don't want to do the work, period. It used to be easy when their competition was equally lazy men, but now that women have entered the playing field, it's a whole nother level. We know how to work. Why? Because we HAVE to. We had to learn on our own. We were raised to work and take care of the house, that was the e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:58 PM
3

Unfortunately no, there is no way to tell. But if you date him long enough, it will usually slip out at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:54 PM
167

Please, get vaccinated against Hepatitis B. It's actually one of the most common STIs, because it's transmitted by body fluids. It ruins your liver. It's also really contagious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:17 PM
9

Just stop caring about men and go live your life. If you stumble upon one, great; if you don't, you're still happy and have a full life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:13 PM
7

This, totally. Men front about money and borrow money to seem wealthy. They lease fancy cars to have a lower payment because they can't afford to pay cash or even the monthly note on a car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:12 PM
11

He was actually pretty fit, but men have no business following female fitness influencers on Instagram. Following men for inspiration, I can see that. But only one skeevy reason why you'd follow the ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:10 PM
28

That's a great idea. Men require a female escort tho leave the house. And need a permission slip from their mom if they're single, or their wife if they're married. Hey, it works for women in middle eastern countries, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:44 AM
35

They cause the annoyance with their rude and creepy behaviour, and then complain when we make other arrangements to avoid the behaviour. They're pissed off because their ability to harass, demean, and victimise women is thwarted by the existence of women-only spaces. Die mad, scrotes. We shouldn't have to have women-only spaces, but you won't act like civilized beings, so here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:42 AM
1

Scum? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:33 AM
62

It's like that everywhere. I used to think it was just my city until I joined this sub and realized just how prevalent LVM are. It's like 90% of men. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:19 AM
224

Anyone who asks me any questions about finances is an automatic no. This man was obviously trying to figure out just how he could use you and your resources, sexual and otherwise. So he could stay over at your house, borrow your car, etc. And what's with the age questions? Did he think you were older or younger? I presume you met him online, so he knows your age already. He seems like a user and/or a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:16 AM
195

Absolute red flag. If he follows hot women on Instagram, I dump him. I had a couple of dates with a man who followed "fitness models" on Instagram that were 30 years younger than him. I blocked and deleted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:00 AM
98

I don't think we should take nudes, it's so common to have your phone hacked or database hacked. Once it's in the cloud or on your phone, it's capable of being hacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:57 AM
58

Exactly. I'm not compromising anymore, on anything. I'd rather be alone than with someone I don't fancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:35 AM
234

And don't ever take nudes again!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:20 AM
5

That's exactly what we mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:00 PM
129

Agreed. Men ruin every place where they congregate. Why can't they behave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:58 PM
35

I love this -- " male princess syndrome" -- that's exactly what it is. He wants to act like the princess and have you plan everything, while he passively receives. These golddigger men want to prey on women. Don't fall for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:21 PM
3

FDS does not recommend walking "dates" nor drinks dates. Please read the handbook before posting again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:19 PM
36

Lazy men looking to take from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:07 PM
359

So, he wants a younger sex slave + maid who also pays the bills? Do I have that right? Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:48 AM
65

Ugh, I hate this! I've had men do this on first dates, and I never want to see them again. It's as if they're just trying to emphasize how easy it is for anyone to pick me up and carry me away. Believe me, I'm painfully aware of that, and that's why there's sometimes a firearm in my handbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:25 PM
45

And OMG, do they get pissed off when they figure out that they can't push you around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:23 PM
21

She's trash, and she's also 100% correct. Snatch them coins, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:18 PM
126

This. ⏫⏫⏫ All this reeee-ing about women using them for meals, when we're the ones that put out the most effort for a date. All they do is show up and pay. And they even bitch about that. MFer, if a woman is giving you a chance, that's a win. It's not our fault that your offensive personality turns women off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:14 PM
63

The first time a man verbally abuses you, dump him. It will continue. Same deal with the use of demeaning "nicknames." Any emotionally aware adult would see that this isn't good behaviour. The fact that someone can't is ALL the red flags. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:56 PM
416

Another LV manlet with revenge fantasies because no one wants his smol peen. Yawn. He can die mad and seething with resentment. It's easier than leveling up. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:54 AM
4

Your hostile comments are not going unnoticed by the mods, sis. My patience with you is wearing thin. Quite possibly she broke it off with them because they weren't treating her well. Interesting they you assume that she got dumped, when likely it was the other way around. I recommend you cool your jets with the snarky comments. We've heard enough from you about your obvious bias against attractive older women dating younger men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:09 AM
4

This is why you keep your standards high, and lower them for no one. Your n=1 anecdote comes off as hostile to older women, and there are more than a few of us on this sub. Older women can date who they please, and don't have to lower our standards any more than younger women do. I'd rather remain single than date someone to whom I'm not attracted. I prefer dating younger men, so that's who I date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:05 AM
10

I'm with you on this! Middle aged men are mostly fat and gross-- they definitely do NOT age like fine wine. I'm only dating younger men now; they're more fun and don't have children to deal with. I'm not at all attracted to balding, paunchy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:00 AM
6

Good, then he can make other plans, what does she care? He's the one seeking her company, he asked her out, so he should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:33 AM
5

Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:49 AM
16

He was a jerk, you're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:49 AM
26

Totally agree. His demand was unreasonable. Had he been nice on expressing his desire for a phone call, that would have been different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:48 AM
18

I agree that the way he communicated his desire for phone talk was completely inappropriate, seemed like a rather imperious demand. Like fuck you, buddy. Go ahead, lose interest. You were right to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:47 AM
11

For me, someone who wants to actually talk on the phone is a green flag. I hate texting, so if he wants to talk, that's great for me. He doesn't want to hide behind the phone. Everyone's different, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:24 AM
85

She should come without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:00 PM
13

Breeding with men with small dicks produces more small dicks. Just say no, ladies, for the sake of future women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:56 PM
21

Exactly. I'm not surprised by this rude behavior, however. The ultimate aim is to con a woman into sleeping with him, so why not start the con early? These men are idiots. They're in such a big hurry to get a woman into bed that they turn her off before he can get her into the mood where she might possibly say yes. They play themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:50 PM
39

Right!??? They want us to pay for the "privilege" of giving them a chance to impress us. No, just no. He's likely to be a total bore, and I'd rather not waste my time and money on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:35 AM
60

Exactly. If you don't want to pay, just stay home. Go out with your homies. Go out by yourself. Stop pretending that you're courting a woman. You can't afford one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:34 AM
27

And she looks gorgeous, and I bet he's wearing jeans, a tee-shirt, and sneakers for the occasion. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:32 AM
23

I can't even with the little dicks. They're so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:28 AM
109

Remember that they're just looking to wet the D for as little as possible. The fact that they complain about paying gives away their whole strategy. Edited to add: You have to pay because we're taking a chance on you. If you don't want to pay, then we don't want to go. I'm guaranteed a good time if I go out with my friends, or go to a concert, or stay home. If you want me to spend an hour on hair and makeup, and go out with you, a stranger, and spend my time, and you want me to pay...No. I won't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:14 AM
148

Yeah, this guy is a real loser. If you don't want to pay, then don't ask women out. Stay home and hump your pillow. Breed sheep on Minecraft. Leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:13 AM
54

They totally play themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:02 AM
37

My new fave emoji!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:00 AM
65

And their IQ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:00 AM
234

You are so right! Men bring all of their problems upon themselves, and then blame women for them. They wanted to have a literal dick-measuring contest? Okay, now we're measuring. They wanted sex without commitment? Ok, now we're comparing you to the other men we slept with. You wanted to spin plates? Okay, we're going to see multiple men and compare you to them, and probably dump you when you don't meet our standards. You wanted 50/50? Hell no, we're still not doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:59 PM
207

The looks on their faces! And you just know that they all have PIED at well. Poor manlets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:56 PM
15

I've met a couple over the years that I've dated, and they turned out to be LVM, so I dumped them. The point is not to find a man, the point is to enjoy your life. Swiping endlessly sucks. I vote for living my life, being happy, and even if I never meet a nice man, at least I'm having a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:54 PM
308

Do not live with a man to whom you are not married, ladies. They use you for sex and housework, and offer you nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:52 PM
35

I did OLD for 10 years. Guess how many men i met that met your standards? Zero. I wasted scores of hours swiping, though. Now I spend my time actually going out with people and doing things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:53 PM
11

Because men use old for hookups. They're not using it to seek a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:15 PM
15

And they're still using photos from years and years ago. Same men, same photos. Being single is so much easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:15 PM
52

Please. Hobbies, concerts, Meetup.com events, etc. Put down the mouse and get out of the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:12 PM
13

No, it's all still trash, just the trash changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:11 PM
31

He ejaculates inside her, but she's baby-trapping him. Uh, okay. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:00 PM
13

Childless single women are literally treated like second class citizens in the US too. We don't get the benefit of tax breaks, partner benefits, the ability to have a relative in your hospital room, etc. We need to provide those legal benefits to everyone, not just to married people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:47 PM
24

Only because the mods clean up the hateful comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:42 PM
40

We're always left holding the bag after they've had their fun. Men should be required to present a vasectomy passport or be taxed to pay for unwanted pregnancies. They're 100% responsible for every pregnancy. If they don't want to be asked to pay, then they can get a vasectomy. The tax money collected from the men who don't have vasectomies can be used to fund programs for women and children who are the product of their irresponsible behaviour. This seems like a fair solution to the single mom p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:41 PM
48

Facts. Vasectomy should be the standard, with reversal when they're ready to have kids. Isn't that what they make us do during our childbearing years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:36 PM
24

FDS advocates blocking and deleting. Save your choice words, Sis. He already knows what he's doing, and calling him out just gives him more of attention, which he doesn't deserve. Block, delete, adjust crown, and carry on. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:55 AM
19

Nothing could induce me tho have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:06 PM
12

This is discussed in the handbook, Susan. Please go read it before posting again, or you'll be childishly blocked here. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:09 PM
10

Exactly. The ostensible reason for the first date begging coffee is in case he's being Catfished. He already knows what you look like after a video date, so if he's not asking you to dinner on the call, assume he's not interested and delete him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:02 PM
122

The incels don't want to "find someone," they want to be chased by someone wildly out of their league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:46 PM
69

I don't tell them, I just say I'm "busy" when I'm out with someone else. If they want to be exclusive, they'll ask. Otherwise, just assume that they are fucking others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:34 PM
86

That's exactly it. I felt like this dope was trying to see just how little effort he could put in. It started at dinner in a place convenient to me and planned in advance, and went down to me driving to him for a last minute dinner somewhere very inconvenient to me, he didn't even propose a place, he just wanted me to drive for half an hour so he could play princess for the evening. Fuck that. He wanted to see if I was someone who required little effort for him. I blocked him; he can spare himse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:39 AM
81

Happy to entertain. 😆 You know how they all love anal, so who cares what the gender of the anus is, right? "It's your turn tonight, Bob." 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:33 AM
29

Sis, it's the same here in the States. LV men are the norm, it's hard tho find men who will put out any effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:30 AM
144

That's even less of an invitation than you'd give to a beer-drinking buddy. Tell him to fuck his beer-drinking buddy. They can take turns wearing the wig and being the bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:21 AM
243

I had one that slid into my dms to ask if I'd like to go to dinner "sometime." Sure, sounds good, I said. Two weeks later, same thing, and I gave the same response. Two weeks later, he finally asks me to dinner on a Wednesday for Saturday night, in a restaurant in my neighborhood. I accept. Friday night he cancels, citing a kid's sports playoff game he "just found out about." Two weeks later on a Friday, he asks me if I'm free that night, and if I'll drive the 15 miles to his neighborhood. 🤡 I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:20 AM
66

Sis, I'm so proud of you. 👑👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:09 AM
159

The cheap wealthy men have been just as cheap as the broke men. When I was still doing coffee dates pre-FDS 🤡 I can't tell you how many times I'd leave Starbucks and watch him get into a car that was worth 6 figures. G-Wagen, fancy BMWs, Bentley. I don't care how much he earns if he's a cheapo. I'm so glad I stopped entertaining that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:08 AM
108

Just because it's not a red flag doesn't mean it's a green flag. The bare minimum doesn't merit a green flag, it's just not a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:04 AM
74

Remember: There are no loose vaginas, only tiny penises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:09 AM
270

Keep the ring, sis. He broke it off, so it's yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:03 AM
65

I went to the apartment of a man I was seeing, and he had no soap in the bathroom and the bathroom also had drawers that were broken and the loo roll dispenser broken. His fridge was also a nightmare. That was the end of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:01 PM
18

Thank you! I've forgotten some of the grammar rules, and you're quite right! Looking up chouquette right now! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:52 PM
76

The cure for that is enforced monogamy. That's actually why monogamy emerges". A woman for every scrote! 🙄 Seriously, if no woman wants you, there's a reason. Maybe your genes don't need to be passed on. The norm in the rest of the animal kingdom is that only the fittest males reproduce. Humans don't all need to procreate; there are enough of us already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:01 PM
109

Quel surprise! 😲😲😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:56 PM
25

That was awesome! "You're the reason! They don't need you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:03 AM
212

But then she's a "golddigger" if she can't support herself. These men are crazy; deep down I think they just hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:57 AM
124

It's always the short ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:34 AM
415

The last part, though... 🔥💀😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:14 AM
66

It's a mixed blessing. The hate posts on other subs get us more mess to clean up here, but they also bring women who come to see just how awful we are...And then they see that we're just advocating in our own best interests, so they become members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:58 PM
44

We have 188,000 members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:59 PM
197

We've been bombarded lately. It's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:19 PM
27

So fake. I'd block and delete this tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:59 PM
28

Her youth and good looks won't last forever, so sis better get her ass to college. Get your own bag, or forever be subject to mens' whims. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:24 PM
8

Right? You know that not one of these guys had a mum that kept house like this, but here they are, living like hoboes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:13 PM
28

If he's unaware of what I bring to the table, then he's too stupid to date me. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:06 PM
38

Good, I hope you get picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:05 PM
1

Honestly, I agree with him. She's already up, so why not just change the diaper? She puts baby to bed, drinks water, goes back to sleep. But he better be doing EVERY daytime diaper change, since he's on parental leave, as well as giving her plenty of time for self-care, including naps and time out of the house without him and the baby so that she can recharge. He also should also be doing more than half the housework, in view of her extra work at night. He needs to step up his game. She should N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:02 PM
59

I know I'm gonna be downvoted for this, but my experience had been better with more conservative men. Both liberal and conservative men are mostly trash, but I've never dated a "progressive" man who wasn't cheap, abusive, manipulative, and cruel. Wanted sex, but had little to offer. In contrast, a few of the conservative men were thoughtful, kind, paid for all dates, bought me gifts, were great in bed, and treated me well. I'm over 50, so maybe my age has something to do with my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:31 PM
54

If he's stressing you and becoming demanding, dump him. And don't do wife shit when you're not a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:55 AM
27

Honey, this is pickme behavior. You need to level up and dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:47 PM
102

This goes double for men who ask you what you're looking for. My stock answer is, "oh, I'll just know when I find him." Trust me, they will weaponize any info you give them to seem like the perfect guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:45 PM
85

You're welcome here, sis. FDS strategies work on all relationships. 🙂🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:41 PM
121

Came here to say just this. Fucking pervert. You just know he got the idea from pron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:39 PM
2

That would be great if that's what they were doing, but they use it to manipulate women into having low expectations for the relationship since he's so "traumatized." This is a classic manipulation tactic that we've all seen over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:10 PM
11

I wouldn't trust anything he says about his assets, including a tax return. Verify, verify, verify.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:21 PM
8

I'm totally in on the boycott! OLD benefits only men, just like everything else in this society..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:19 PM
83

Sound advice, but when you consider that one has to swipe probably hundreds of profiles and text, even if briefly, with dozens of men to even get a date -- who you probably won't want to see again, it's just not even remotely worth the trouble. I'd much rather spend time doing things I like rather than waste hours swiping. If I meet a great guy while doing my hobbies and interests, great. If not, great. I'm never using OLD again, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:57 AM
81

A private eye or an attorney can do an asset search. Invest in this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:27 PM
91

This is fraud and may be grounds for an annulment. I'd dump this asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:25 PM
27

You're welcome, sis. I hope you find a relationship with a man who adores you and wants to spend time with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:23 PM
39

Ok, so now you know. Ask yourself if you're happy with this long term, because this is what you're getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:15 PM
15

No, we do not chase men. We reciprocate their energy. This guy is doing the bare minimum. I'd see other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:10 PM
84

My take: He's not seeing you exclusively. He's seeing someone else on Friday night. The fact that you're confused means something is up. Has he asked for exclusivity, or are you assuming? If you asked, and he said, "sure we can be exclusive," that's not good enough. That's him locking you down whilst he continues to search for his dream girl. Here's an idea: Join a women's dating support group on Facebook. Every area has them. Already in the one I'm in, multiple women have discovered by posting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:04 PM
13

I'm so sorry. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:59 PM
2

She proposed cutting back, and he refused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:33 PM
16

This. ^ If I get any pushback, of any kind regarding the STD test, he gets dumped and blocked immediately. There's no recovery from this. It shows he puts his convenience before my health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:23 PM
30

And make them include herpes 1 and 2. You have to ask for those special. Don't take his word for it, you must see actual results. Do not fuck around with this, ladies. Men will not get medical care unless their dick is falling off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:20 PM
30

Depending on where you live, consult an attorney. You may be able to get money damages for his knowingly infecting you. It's also a crime in many states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:16 PM
3

You're not being materialistic. Think of your future. Drop him and date a man who has his life together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:09 PM
7

In the post where she makes 3 times less, her BF is using money to take advantage of her. In this post, we're discussing whether the fact that she makes a lot more is a bad dynamic. It's something that high earning women have to think about, because men will use us for money, and will resent and abuse us. Personally, I don't date unambitious men. It's not hard to make money, and if he doesn't, he's not going to understand my world. I expect him to make at least what I do. I'm not shrinking mysel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:08 PM
11

I refuse to date men that make less than I do. It's not a good dynamic for a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:57 PM
39

And who's to knowif he's robbing the house whilst all were asleep???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:53 PM
38

It's awful. I hope she has family that she can ask for help. I'd tell him, listen, i can't afford this anymore, so I'm moving out, and see what his reaction is. If it's indifference, she needs to stop paying everything and use that money to fund her move. He's holding her hostage. Or she can get a second job to fund the move and just deprive him of all relationship benefits. Edited to add: The last time I moved, it took me two weeks of evenings to pack the house, and I spent about $2000 on movin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:34 PM
70

The fact that he couldn't get another guy to agree to the terms he's forcing on her speaks to what a bad deal this is. If this man intended a future with her, he'd not treat her like this; he's just using her for sex and housework. As soon as he finds a bigger better deal, he'll dump her. Why would anyone want their partner to be stressed about money? He doesn't give a shit about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:30 PM
1378

She needs to get a female roommate and leave. This is why FDS emphasizes education and financial independence. He's doing this on purpose. She can't save up any money, so she can't leave. He refuses to cut back or adjust the budget so that he pays a larger share. He's leeching off her. If she moves out, he has to pay the whole thing She's in a bit of a tough spot, since $12 an hour isn't enough to live alone, so she may have to move back home or something. But it's better than being a bangmaid t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:29 AM
161

Wow. You're not even worth 25 minutes to him, yet he expected you to spend an hour doing your makeup for a date with him. These men deserve to die virgins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:43 AM
257

Welp. He did offer to stream the movie. 🙄 I'm sure he's just worried that you're gonna act creepy. 🙄 The bar is in hell. 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:34 AM
3

Those are HER standards, and we don't standards-shame on this sub. You're welcome to date broke men if you like; OP has a different standard. This is your one warning; the next time you do it, you'll be banned. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:11 AM
1

OMG, he's so broke he's crowdfunding date money??? Broke men should not be dating, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:44 AM
74

This guy's an asshole. He keeps talking over her, interrupting her, accusing her of lying. Boy, bye. No woman need put up with this disrespectful behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:19 AM
35

He glared at me, put his head phones in, and didn’t budge the rest of the trip Do you mean that he continued manspreading, or did he manage to fit himself into his own space?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:16 AM
31

They know, they just don't care. It's their natural right to take up their space, and yours too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:14 AM
95

This is a great solution. Another great solution is to call the steward/ess and ask to be switched. Explain why in a normal tone of voice, loud enough so that others can hear what's going on. I always book a window seat so that I can have some extra room, and when that's invaded I get assertive about that. When possible, I book business class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:13 AM
7

Exactly..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:08 AM
1

Give him a burner or Google voice number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:18 AM
22

I've refused to date men after seeing his entire feed was Instagram fitness models 20 years his junior. I'm not competing with the soft porn on his Instagram feed. Of course I didn't tell him why; there were other red flags as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:17 AM
12

Make a different account just for this purpose and rarely post to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:14 AM
11

When I was doing OLD, I never added them on social media. I refuse to add men that I'm dating on social media, bc i feel that it gives them the right to look into my life and check up on me, what I'm doing, etc. Unless we're in a committed relationship, then I'll friend him. But I've had bad experiences with that in the past, with men accusing me of being online when I'm literally asleep just because the app is open on one of my devices, so it shows me "online" when I left the window open on my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:12 AM
15

I'd definitely let him know that i disliked texting and preferred to call on the phone, and if he ignored my preference, I'd block and delete. I'm so through playing games with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:04 AM
18

She married a literal hobo. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:58 PM
6

Online dating. Please read the manual before posting again; it's in the sidebar or swipe left on mobile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:55 PM
38

I think calling is good because he is actually spending time with you rather than texting you the same BS that he's texting 5 other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:46 PM
100

He's such a pig. I'm totally grossed out by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:05 PM
3

Ohhhh. Sis is evil! I love it. But seriously, don't; it's illegal AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:01 PM
75

The best solution to this is to not have text conversations with men. Texting is, IMO, low effort behavior when you're trying to get to know someone. You should be meeting him to face not texting on the phone; make him put in the effort to take the time to know you. If he won't, there's your answer. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:00 PM
19

They all have this fantasy that they'll be even hotter at forty, and they can get hot women even though they look like a bald thumb. Too much red pill forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:36 PM
88

That's cheesy as well as being disgusting. It's nice when they out themselves right away, though, so you don't waste your time on men who are obviously just interested in sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:24 PM
31

I'm glad Gen Z is changing. I think Gen X and Millennial men are too far gone to recover. It's okay; I'm happy being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:17 PM
41

It's as if they're constantly testing to see what we will tolerate. Tons of men are going to spend the rest of their lives alone because they're so shitty that no woman wants them. They're listening to the red pill nonsense to their own detriment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:49 AM
39

I like to say that the "talking phase" is the way for men to waste women's time and get free attention whilst putting in no real effort. It's a better idea to tell him that you don't want a pen pal and that if he wants to get to know you then it needs to be in person. If he argues or doesn't ask you on a date, then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:53 AM
113

So common these days: Men that want to be chased. The want YOU to call them. They want YOU to plan the date. Seriously, I can't even with this garbage. Either man up and plan the date -- a date is a time, a place, and an activity -- and communicate those plans to me in a timely manner or don't bother me with your nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:44 AM
57

Sounds like a scrote fairy tale to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:39 AM
9

This is in the sidebar resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:36 AM
14

This scrote is broke and hates women. And JFC, change the battery in that smoke detector.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:41 PM
41

You totally still need to vet them. One of the most LVM I dated was volunteer of the month at a church charity. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:38 PM
1268

Good for you! I guarantee that he wanted to go slow emotionally, but he wanted to speed up the sex. He wants to "take it slow?" Ok, them that means everything including sex gonna go slow. Sex is tried to emotion. Going slow means everything is slow. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:31 PM
7

Exactly..OP ignored so many red flags here, and endangered her safety by inviting this fucktard into her car. Please stop with this clown shit. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:41 PM
5

Yeah, i wouldn't have entertained ANY of this. This whole post is one giant red flag after another. OP, you need a better vetting strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:39 PM
9

Sis, if it's been 5 years, but no ring? That's a forever girlfriend situation. Forget him and move on. Focus on the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:52 PM
28

For men, there is no test for HPV. But do insist that he get tested for herpes types 1 and 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:49 PM
21

Use the search function in the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:36 PM
5

Please go read the handbook; many of your questions are answered there. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:34 AM
8

He doesn't want a girlfriend, he wants to get laid as soon as possible, which is why he's fabricating that they have things in common so she will sleep with him sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:43 PM
9

I hate those stupid "Good morning" and "how was your day" texts from people you just met. I only pay attention to men in person or on the voice phone for this reason; I don't allow them to have whole conversations with me via text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:39 PM
19

Fucking cheeseball smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:00 PM
8

Loser scrote alert. 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:58 PM
438

My opinion? No, they are for the streets. Men who seek those types of casual relationships do so because that's what they want. They aren't the type to settle down. They want a continuous variety. They have little to offer a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:57 PM
74

Yes, and why are we considered "worthless" if we are over 30? The only value a woman has for 90% of LVM is her sex appeal and/or reproductive capabilities. If we make money, we're "manhating feminists." If we don't make money, we're golddiggers. If we don't sleep with men, we're "prudes." If we do sleep with men, we're "whores." Do men even know what they want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:04 AM
3

So what's changed? Men have been engaging in the behavior in the screenshot since the beginning of time. The difference is that we're done entertaining it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:35 PM
3

THIS. 🔼🔼🔼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:12 AM
15

I paid that for a fancy lunch once. It's pretty easy to spend that for dinner, especially if wine is involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:11 AM
20

Or give us anything. We simply won't associate with them. That is literal violence to these NVM. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:21 PM
42

Preach. 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:20 PM
80

From the article: "How are they supposed to continue desiring only their wives when they constantly see countless images of slim and gorgeous women all around?" They actually think that those women will have sex with them. That's some delusional shit, right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:44 AM
155

Not to mention lack of respect, non-sexual affection, consideration, and caring. They treat their wives like crap and then wonder why they're not getting sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:41 AM
5

The "close" being a quick fuck so he can add another notch to his bedpost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:37 AM
52

"Yes, and I see you also need to lose a few pounds; how is that going for you?" 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:34 AM
114

"So do you! I hardly recognized you, now that you're bald and have gained so much weight!" 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:31 AM
5

There is a list of resources in the sidebar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:23 AM
8

Why explain? Just block and delete. You don't owe him an explanation, and he knows exactly what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:54 AM
66

The thing about FDS is that we don't talk about FDS (with men). Please stop discussing this with men. They will just use it against other women. Be a dumb fox; just listen to what they say and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:24 PM
25

Please say which ones you like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:11 AM
87

Yeah, it's all fun and games until your armed victim brandishes a pistol and you pee yourself in the parking garage. Women are carrying concealed in record numbers. More here https://www.forbes.com/sites/erictegler/2020/10/16/as-women-rush-to-obtain-concealed-carry-firearms-permits-female-entrepreneurs-help-cloak-their-guns-and-worries/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:06 AM
155

They just expected her to take the abuse, and then abused her more when she noped out. Why would anyone think that this was okay, to be cruel to the woman who stepped up to mother you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:53 AM
357

Also: When using a ride share app, screenshot when your driver is assigned so you have the name and the license of the car. This info will disappear if the driver cancels the ride or when the ride finishes, so if he cancels and then does something weird, you won't be able to ID him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:40 PM
5

Women are usually on benefits because men get them pregnant and abandon them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:37 PM
6

Too soon, in my opinion. I would wait at least 3 months and maybe longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:34 PM
101

Now they get them on OLD sites, except they don't pay, they just pretend to want a relationship. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:22 PM
204

I am THROUGH giving these Aspie men a pass. If you're smart enough to get a PhD., then you're smart enough to know when to STFU. Whichever university has hired him needs to review his conduct. This is inexcusable and evidences a bias against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:10 PM
241

This makes me want to vomit. I hope his Twitter account got a well-deserved blasting for posting this garbage. What, we're property to be "given" now? In that case, I volunteer his wife, mom, sister, or girlfriend to serve as a sex slave for incel men. Still a good idea, or not so much now? Since this is a MALE problem, I think that MALES should solve it. They can dress up and take turns being the bottom. Lots of them are into anal, so what does it matter the gender of the anus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:07 PM
74

Right? She's now established that the marriage is open, and guaranteed that he's going to continually be pushing that boundary as long as they are together. She made a HUGE mistake by allowing this, because now she cannot object to threesomes on moral grounds. She's already lost that battle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:46 PM
10

I've noticed this too. It's sad, especially since you can learn a lot from people who don't share your views. We don't all have to agree on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:06 PM
342

Rose is a pickme. OP is a pickme. She's now opened a Pandora's box, and now what? Nevermind treating your friend like an unpaid prostitute. But hey, she got picked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:03 PM
5

I think this is an illustrative look into the mindset of these losers. We can learn from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:05 AM
14

Skipped leg day. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:10 AM
604

Guess he doesn't understand that we'd just block and delete, refusing to engage with him? What, he thinks he's a special brand of LVM that we just can't resist? Boy, bye. Your narcissistic personality disorder is no match for our indifference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:48 AM
78

Dafuq did I just watch here? This little weird dude spouting a whole word salad about how mentally fragile women are. This dork wouldn't last one day in a woman's shoes..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:24 AM
16

If you're unsure, leave. Relationships should be a "hell yes" If not, they're a "hell no!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:48 AM
22

It's not even about religion or religious values, it's about the degradation and victimization and literal enslavement of women and children. Bet this man has zero problems with viewpoint censorship of political speech, though. Way to pick your first amendment battles, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:32 AM
252

By the third date, you've interacted with them for less than 10 hours, generally, and seen them 3 times. How is that enough time to know if you want to sleep with someone? If everything else is going well, why would a man stop seeing a woman who hasn't yet decided about sleeping with him? Unless sex is all he wants. I love how these men tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:29 AM
284

Right? The most common advice given here is, "Block and delete." Men so hate being ignored, it's like the worst thing you can do to them, and it's also the easiest. So block, delete, and be secure in the knowledge that the poor wretch is stewing in his own stinky juices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:05 AM
53

That's a PUA tactic, BTW. They get you someplace where you're more comfortable, and then they make their move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:51 AM
781

They still don't get it. We don't even hate the shitty men -- which happens to be about 90% of them -- we just don't want to interact with them. They hate that we're comparing notes so that we can discover their tricks before they have a chance to hurt us. Let them complain; it just means that more women find us here. We're almost to 200,000 empowered women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:45 AM
60

Scrotes gonna scrote. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:10 PM
6

I apologize, I thought you were being sarcastic. 😧 You're right, they don't look good. And they don't even realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:08 PM
53

The ignorance is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:18 PM
4

I'm reporting on my experience. What have you experienced?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:17 PM
145

It's amazing to me that he discusses his old-man injuries, and then tries to pick up a young woman. Completely tone-deaf. It's been my experience that the average man over 40 looks at least 10 years older than he is, and the average woman over 40 looks about 10 years younger. He should feel lucky if a woman his own age wanted him, he still looks 20 years older. But they really, really care about that number on your driver's license more than they care about how you look. Why? Because they want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:16 PM
4

Your sister is likely in her 20s, and being offered dates with men who are 40+. Amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:13 PM
92

I'm trying to figure out if this is satire, or if the men are really this stupid? Do they really not understand how women's bodies work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:10 PM
10

Does this help? https://www.tiktok.com/@avreyovard/video/6996454188087610629?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESMgow3Erqj0T4Js3sDZuzTeYeufq7SfWWk8nbXzFveq5He241pCR%2FsFWFJMlNoCYLXVXGGgA%3D&checksum=ddf1848d955ddc50692f5fabfbfa48494f65bc945d140e6bd3238c4688765af3&language=en&preview_pb=0&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAHz9S8h2giVzyK86DlJy-K9uv3L2pUnO1zZJf5-m3N9NCe4xlVtgg1lsGubi5BCkx&share_app_id=1233&share_item_id=6996454188087610629&share_link_id=bfb2047e-aa44-487c-ab4c-0b20b7f50112&source=h5_m&timestamp=1629039209&u_co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:46 PM
179

These types claim that women their own age "look old," i.e. , they look like adult women and not teen girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:45 PM
149

Their wives already rejected them, so now they're on a quest to prove that they "still got it." News flash: Unless you've also got a fat wallet, the young ones don't want your crusty ass. This man likely makes only an average income, and has nothing to offer. Yet here he is, creeping on younger women minding their own business at the gym, trying to get her number "for dinner." This same man refuses to date women his own age, because "they look old." Guarantee he's not looked in the mirror for ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:42 PM
236

The lame insult when you reject them is one of the hallmarks of a LVM. They're so entitled to women's time and attention, and so butthurt when refused. Normalize telling men we're too young for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:50 PM
16

This can't be true. Where in earth are they getting these statistics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:31 PM
107

It's the societal validation that they seek. That's why they collect nudes and show them to their friends, and film women having sex with them. It's proof that they're not the lowest man on the totem pole, because at least they're still "banging chicks." OP is right, they're seeking sex, not relationship. They imagine that the "Chads" of the world are getting effortless sex, so they demand the same to prove their worth. This is why they put in zero effort; they think that this is the norm. Sadly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:35 PM
131

Ding ding ding! 🎯💯 They seek validation and ego stroke, not a loving relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:27 PM
11

Exactly. I don't even know at that point if I wasn't to bond with him. These many want to rush right to sex, so it makes sense that they'd want to manipulate is into bonding with them. Then after sex they'll get "post-nut clarity" and be on to the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:12 PM
32

Other commenters have noted that this guy seems like a broke fuckboi based on his Reddit post history, some off which has been reposted in the thread. I have a different take on this situation, that he's used similar tactics in the past and somehow ended up having the women sleep with him despite his lack of anything to offer. But now he's upset because his normal tricks didn't work on this woman. He claims the she's "his favorite," but she's not really any different to him except that his tacti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:08 PM
78

In a word, don't. A friend of mine went to a matchmaker -- Kelleher -- and paid like $30k, and they introduced her to the same type of loser men that she was meeting on OLD sites. It was a total waste of time and money. I had a matchmaker tell me that for $50k she could introduce me to men that were "closer to my age" and I told her that for that price, I'd rather keep the money. I'm a very attractive 50 year old, and am still mistaken for being in my mid 30s. I can date those old guys for nothi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:27 AM
157

He should be paying for everything. This is some clown shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:44 AM
156

Why don't they just dress up and get with each other? If they want anal, what's the difference? They can take turns pitching and receiving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:47 AM
31

I think that like most dating advice, it's geared toward men. Sitting down over dinner is not stressful, but engaging in an activity might be, depending on the activity. Activity dates are to make *men* feel more comfortable. Read the posts here; women overwhelmingly want a meal date so she can get to know him. I'm through making life more comfortable for men. I want to make dating more comfortable for ME. I feel safer and more comfortable when I have a chance to observe his behavior and to vet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:32 AM
4

Right? We are literally refusing LVM any attention at all. I'm not even trying to date right now, and I still this week had 2 zombie LVM who I forgot to block in my inbox with their nonsense. "Hur dur hur, guess who this is?" "I don't know, who is this?" "Don't you remember me, we went out?" Dipshits. He wouldn't tell me his name, so I just blocked him. We're not even entertaining this bullshit any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:28 AM
1

Even saying to "use men for a date" here is met with reproof; that is LV behavior, and that is not what we are about. If you're not interested in a man, then don't give him the time of day. Our ethic is to only engage with HV men, everyone else gets ignored. And being ignored is sooooo awful for men. Block, delete, and keep your standards high, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:25 AM
2

Right? Like no one here is pressed that a man is not dating them. We just keep rejecting the LV ones, and only accepting whatever makes us happy. Too bad men can't level up, but no one here is lowering her standards, soo.....die mad, men, if you don't like it. They're just so mad that they can't get a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:20 AM
1

A date with a HVM, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:18 AM
1

This, and perfectly stated. Act nice or leave us alone. Only men violently lash out; it's what they do when things don't go their way. Women are more likely to self-harm than hurt others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:16 AM
1

No woman would ever, they're not worth the trouble. Better to just ignore them; that drives they absolutely crazy. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:15 AM
1

Right? Besides, have you seen the price of pew pew beans these days? Expensive AF. Literally not worth the pew pew bean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:13 AM
6

Welcome. Whenever the manchildren get all dramatic about how eeeevil we are and how much we "hate men" (lol) we get about 1000 new subscribers. Keep it up, men, it helps us gain more women to the sub who will no longer put up with your bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:12 AM
5

Welcome here, sis. Yes, we recommend blocking and deleting trash men, and they absolutely think that being ghosted is the worst thing ever, right up there with shooting people on the street, including their own mum. These men are such drama queens; they really need to grow up and learn that if you don't act right, women will have nothing to do with you. Which to them, somehow, is literal violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:10 AM
9

The most common advice given here is literally "block and delete." The poor manlets must be *absolutely traumatized" over this horrible treatment, how will they ever recover? (eyeroll)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:07 AM
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I don't agree at all. I want to see how he behaves at the table, because that tells me a lot about his manners, behavior, and upbringing. I want to talk with him, in a quiet place, face to face. Men who are avoiding this are hiding something, and seem shady to me. I don't care whether the dinner is steak or Thai food, but I do want the opportunity to get to know him without the distraction of an "activity." Any man who avoids this opportunity for a real get-to-know you session is hiding somethin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:53 AM
24

They do OLD because they know there's a good chance that he can fuck for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:25 PM
32

Madame, that would take actual effort which our hapless protagonist lacks. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:20 PM
30

It was her responsibility to propose something else, on the date he invited her on,? And, I presume, pay? It's almost like he set out to make her uncomfortable on purpose, and then expected her to propose something else, and then since she suggested something else, pay for it as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:18 PM
4

He should be paying for all of it. She's having his kid. What's he done, besides the fun part?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:14 PM
22

I know, and I'm sorry that women in Europe have so few options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:10 PM
65

First dates should not be surprises. I don't trust male "surprises." First dates should be a meal, period; then he can learn more about you and propose something different. I feel like "surprising" women is a way to make us uncomfortable or off-balance so our comfort and safety is compromised. Nope. If he's gonna play stupid surprise games, I'm gonna block and delete; I'm not here to play stupid games with stupid men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:09 PM
109

I came here to say this. Wealthy women can afford to hire help when they have kids with NVM. A sperm bank is still a better deal, though, because then you don't have to co-parent with a loser man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:04 PM
6

I so agree. Women are at a huge physical disadvantage against a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:27 PM
36

The shooting sports are great for self-defense. The great equalizer. 🔫🔫🔫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:26 PM
120

Seriously, she likely expected at least drinks. Poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:23 PM
65

They want free sex. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:23 PM
117

Broke men who have zero tho offer should not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:30 PM
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