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Okay, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 03:19 AM
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Think you hit everything on the head. He is dating me to rebel like he has rebelled against his mom since he was 18. You're right. Well, because he sees the other options. He thinks some future can happen? Or waiting till i like him enough to have sex maybe? Yeah I can do IVF. No idea if he researched that far. The man would have to be Jesus himself for me to put myself through that. Could be future faking/manipulation for sure. Thank you for looking over my situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:58 PM
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Completely agree. Surrogacy is so exploitative. Yeah he casually just wants to use another woman like an incubator like the ultra wealthy. I agree, the kid thing is weird. The mom situation seems like a big problem too. His mom is a red flag and prolly cray too. Thank you for responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:54 PM
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Thank you! I see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:51 PM
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That's true. It was a crazy conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:50 PM
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Yeah.. bad taste in my mouth. I didnt like how casually he mentioned it. And yeah... this future looks bleak lol. Yeah like... he hated how his parents pushed him but now he wants to treat his kids the same... but just 1? Geeze. Thank you for responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:50 PM
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I agree completely. I thought mentioning other girls was weird. Like, we arent an item. He just wants me to think b. Yeah the mom thing is really bad. Sounds like a bunch of problems I don't need. You're right. Thank you for taking time to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:47 PM
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Spoilers: It was Everything Everywhere All at Once. To change their reality they have to do something crazy. So there was a dildo shaped trophy so the guy had to jump on it to shift realities. Super cringe and weird. It was interesting and well done besides those scenes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:45 PM
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Also thank you for your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:43 PM
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Ahaha well I wanted to be thorough. Yeah he guessed what it was because I said it was a lady thing and couldn't go out a couple weeks. Yeah that's gross and I'm aware they could use that as pressure. But guys who pressure for condomless sex are community dick so Id GTFO immediately. I'm very STD conscious. Much more so than the general population. My tubelessness isnt for him, it's for me anyway lol. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:43 PM
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Yes, good point. I thought that was a bit much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 11:39 PM
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That's fine. I dont want a man who fucks everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:39 AM
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This is like what the world needs to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 05:39 AM
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I don't know how I could trust a guy who is okay having sex with someone else while married to have the morals to choose to use a condom with the stranger. Uh like to me this guy seems like the most likely man to just send it, if you get what I mean. He's already not a careful person. Like where is his line truly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 05:18 AM
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"She said she was clean." 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:37 AM
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😲 😱 Wow that's crazy! Too bad many dont know how to make it mind blowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:46 PM
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Mostly the more rich women though, I read that post too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 03:54 AM
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No wall to be seen here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 03:18 AM
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I wanna tattoo this across my butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:30 AM
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hi five No tubes club?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 03:18 AM
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Here here! Natural selection! We love to see it! 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:53 AM
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So so so so many FDS screenshots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 02:28 PM
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Yeah when my ex slept with someone else I put my mouth on him and could IMMEDIATELY tell! Yuck yuck yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 06:26 PM
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My cats are adorable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:20 AM
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Had mine 3 weeks ago. The peace of mind is incredible. I never have to worry about being pregnant. Plus reduced cancer risk! Plus she inspected my system while she was in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 11:00 PM
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Congratulations and I would like to preemptively welcome you to the tubeless club!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 10:54 PM
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Just did this! Late 20s female. It will be 3 weeks tomorrow and I am feeling pretty great! No babies for me. (Unless I pay for IVF /s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:05 AM
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Me too. Not even sure where to move, although I am sterilized and cannot get pregnant. I could technically go anywhere. Not happy in USA though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:00 AM
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Its a good time to push against the libfem sex for all narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:56 PM
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This is the science and the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:48 PM
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Men need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:47 PM
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I been looking around reddit. Even women who do sleep with men for money don't charge that little. I know it's shocking but it is a good reminder in moments if you still feel guilty he bought you dinner (brainwashing) He's like a stranger! You don't have to be nice, I promise! Figure out if he is a 🤡 early. The guy I had 2nd date with pulled out his work phone and real phone. He has instagram. Gunna creep that later. Time to find out what's underneath the hood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:08 PM
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This! He already gave you the ick. Are his other qualities that good if he is okay with tricking somone into a date? How else will he be exuding low effort? He's been on good effort. You can give him a chance for the plot if you need to prove the desperation to yourself. For me I think the ick would be there and I would be suspicious of other female friendships. But hey if his other qualities are that good.... he better have top notch behavior and take notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:04 PM
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My take is that losers never win. Any way he spins it, he's still pathetic. Love the backpedaling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:34 PM
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Once was a good show! There are a few shows doing a great job with plot too lately! Manifest has Prince Charming in it! Timeless was another show with none of the garbage. I absolutely don't mind kissing and romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:27 PM
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Completely agree. Tired of feeling like our bodies are just for sale. Tired of boobs in my face. Used to have to tell my ex, "yeah I can tell this show wasnt made for audience members like me". Eyeroll. Everything is being pushed to being pornographic. I barely watch any tv. When i went to dinner with my dad he kept praising Bridgerton. I would say this falls in line with being a little porn sick. (Love my dad but the way he stares at women, like the waitress yikes) Im over the sex scenes thanks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:24 PM
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🤣 🤣 🤣 When he releases the Magikarp... Magikarp used splash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:06 AM
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It reminds me of community pool for some reason. Needs bleach...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:04 AM
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high five me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:00 AM
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This! I also avoid sexual media and this can definitely be a challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:35 AM
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Total sign he doesnt like her enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:34 PM
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Idk if you wanna have that ice cream, its a little watery 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:22 PM
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The seemingly HVM im currently vetting has said he was using the apps because he works a lot and is in grad school and didnt go out much during covid. Seems an acceptable reason. Still vetting though because it sounds like his mom won't like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 10:12 PM
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I got a bad feeling once about where I parked my car. My gut told me to move it. I said, naw it'll be fine its just a minute. I exit the place and 2 cars hit my car trying to merge. I got stuck with a 700$ rental bill and the shop that had my car let it sit in the back lot for 2.5 months. I shit you not. I always trust my gut ALWAYS. We are the best of our ancestors and made it this far for a reason. The universe has your back if you listen to your intuition. If it tells you to pack a coat, do i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 10:03 PM
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Chick also needs a separate FDS anonymous account. Big doxxing risk to have FDS linked to your photos!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 01:58 AM
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I've called in before, I was driving with the right of way and a tow truck up ahead blew through a stop sign. I called the company, started my complaint... the phone number connected me to the driver 😭🤯😵🙃🤣 still called him out though. Still not giving that company business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:18 PM
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Absolutely. Currently looking out for my 4th redhead 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:15 PM
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Love this. Hold the scrotes accountable and don't let em get away with it! Predators thrive off of complacency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 10:18 AM
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Absolutely solid tip list! I definitely use #1, being vague about your job. It also helps you keep your financial business away from golddiggers. He doesnt need to know you work at the nice place. Also keeps stalkers away. You know if he begins to ask more personal Qs that the alarms are going to go off. It's like setting up your very own personal intuition tripwire right where you can see it. Before the date I send the profile screenshot to my father and sometimes friends. (LMAO i know) if we h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:16 AM
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Right! Nobody cares about your 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:00 AM
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"BeInG a WoMaN iS sO EaSy!" 🥴😨🤯🙃😖😱😡🤔😤🤬😠😐 Firstly, Jason... On a date I have to worry me and the guy will walk out of the restaurant and he will push me into the car and kidnap me and murder me. Do you realize that happens to people? Are you serious? I went on a gentle 3-mile hike yesterday. When I informed my father he told me to be careful. They found a woman's car parked at a trailhead and had yet to find her. She was missing. It was 2 towns over. I almost didnt hike. But then I made a homemad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 04:51 AM
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In 2020 Uk did a census of women killed by men. 6 women per hour killed by partners/men in their own families. Maybe women should start committing 50% of the crimes. /s Make the r4pists worry about those of us who are prepared and deadly. This is an issue. Seems the only way is bringing it to the attention of women in our lives. Helping them see the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 04:42 AM
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Also remember: we are out here! Likeminded women! We can be friends. Just gotta find the other FDS ladies My bestie had begged me to not go back to my ex. She said she'd leave her husband if i didnt go back with him. Well i believed he changed when he quit drinking and got back with him. She didnt talk to me for years. Now she wishes me happy holidays. She's gunna have her baby soon. I dont think we will be close ever again. My sponsor would tell me "friends come and go" so i try to appreciate m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 03:28 PM
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I struggle with this too when thinking about making content. How much of a presence to have. Ultimately itd be great if people realized how messed up and gross men are these days and put the onus on them to be more civilized. And theyre gunna sexualize us regardless... If you can deal with it, push through. I like the recommendations too of filtering certain words out. Its gross it is like this though. Depends your personal threshold. Weird cause on workout videos and such, like on tiktok, seems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 03:20 PM
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Yup, hate it. I have on my bumble profile that, "at first as strangers, personal space is key". And then I tell them I take my time too when it comes up in messaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 07:22 AM
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We are so groomed. Everyone is groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:45 AM
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This is the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:45 AM
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You are right. This wont work without a stable foundation! Gotta walk the walk! Also, I find trouble sometimes with AskFDS. I'll try to reply to something and it won't let my post through 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:41 PM
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These then end up being the LVM who go, "yeah well at least I didnt cheat" while you kick yourself for staying with him so long. The resentment, spot on. You are so correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:30 PM
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The girls that get it, get it. Only we can decide how ruthless we will be. They can miss me with the lukewarm shit. Friendships don't last forever and that's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:53 PM
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Right, ew, why would I want to be your trial session?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:37 PM
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Yeah and they forgot women in real life have legit turn ons. Like... be the kind of man I want to be with and maybe I'll be horny for you and want to get to know you better, duh. The cultural narrative has not helped them and now they are floundering because the non-pickmes won't budge our standards. They are so worried about their 3$ tea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:25 PM
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They expect us to just be okay with this. Wake up ladies. Apparently we arent good women if we arent martyrs self sacrificing ourselves for them out of the good of our character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:20 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 They've been raised on the porn entitlement and now they are very confused!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:18 PM
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Ding ding ding! When we broke up my LVX re-downloaded snapchat. It totally strikes me as a way to keep womens' attention and then throw your hands up like "not guilty"! I think this guy is doing something to trigger OPs intuition, totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:07 PM
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Definitely this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 08:45 AM
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Yeah, my last date cost the guy approx 165$. He took me to one of my favorite places. Didnt mean to make it so expensive but... we tried a lot of different plates! He whipped that wallet out so damn quick when she popped the check on the table. What a fucking breath of fresh air compared to the last dude. I also didnt put out (I dont have sex with strangers). We said goodbye, I thanked him, got in my car and went home. Dear scrotes: If you can't date, pick up another job. That's what our dads di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:45 PM
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And a 120$ walmart ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:39 PM
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I feel like if strong women can take down scrotes that do this, then we need to do it. Stand up for girls that can't, and give the scrote a situation he will regret starting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:50 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:48 PM
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And these bugs are becoming more treatment-resistant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:43 PM
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Oh my god. This is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:18 PM
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He's an old loser and you are too hot for this. Cut the story you are telling yourself about this shady Romeo. His good job is useless if he can't pay for a date. Aand he's pawing at you all night? He's a slimy scrote. Find someone else cute. Get that bumble going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:15 AM
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Yeah they are broken. They cant be in charge of the rules anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:42 PM
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And he is going to do it🤮 My ex's gfs daughter was 19 and he did it with her mom in the other room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:41 PM
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So so happy my OBGYN is a woman and did my bisalp! I even asked the anesthesiologist to clean his hands again before he popped my IV in. You just never know. I believe the data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:03 PM
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I swipe left on a more than trimmed beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:02 PM
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I cannot believe they say/do these things and then society lets them roam free. No wonder things are so fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:49 PM
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Right? If we can see here that he is unable to overcome these challenges, we can decide we dont want a man in that position. One of my personal dating rules is "no cowards" if I get a whif of that... next! We gotta tell ourselves the truth about who these dudes really are. Think the relationship through. Often times staying just means more exhaustion and trouble. They assume we will just stay cause we have been brainwashed to give men many chances. To be real, pining over some asshole feels so i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:10 PM
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Omg its condescending devil's advocate guy! Ewww get him outta here! Yeah, trying to make problems... yikes. Always has an argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:06 PM
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It's HILARIOUS when they are forced to deal with their sick issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:26 PM
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Voila! ~strategy~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:28 AM
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Ew he didnt care about your comfort at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:45 AM
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We love a great goodmanproject article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 04:59 AM
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Yeah, maybe if he keeps saying that enough they will throw disgusting grandpa in a home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:47 AM
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Good ol Chuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:18 PM
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Step outside and call 911 on him. That's indecent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:13 PM
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They're broken. Return them to the factory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:02 PM
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Thiss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:22 PM
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Thissss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:21 PM
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2 of my exes have handwriting like that😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 04:44 PM
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They make it so easy. I love OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:32 PM
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He's a manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:31 PM
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Thank you for unlocking a piece of the puzzle. I feel like the ex would also try to make me be more "grateful" to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:20 PM
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TW: PORN IN REAL LIFE 🤮 LVM don't look far. Nanny cam your house! My ex recently fucked.... his coworkers sister I think. Im like "isn't that weird if things dont work out?" Him and his exes daughter had a flirtation culminating in a BJ while his ex was in the other room sleeping. But they were already "not together". But like, dude, you were in the "step-father" role. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:19 PM
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I dont wanna say my birthday on my FDS account because I do not want to open myself up for doxxing by scrotes who sift through our info. Star sign though? Maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:59 PM
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My ex would say that. Glad to now see it for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:56 PM
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Yes 6 months to show in your blood. Other ones have shorter times. My ex slept with someone and then me. This lady said she had 2 partners with condoms to my ex. My dr tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea but have to go bCk for HIV. Apparently everyone used condoms but I want to be sure. So gross. I got a yeast infection and BV. The lube from condoms couldve done that too though. LADIES LEAVE YOUR EX ALONE HE'S GROSS! I have been chatting 2 weeks with a Bumble guy and I hugged him goodbye last nig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:11 PM
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True dat! Riiight!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:06 PM
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Yeah i get on board with this in my experience. But as Ive gotten older Ive become more B. Only once slept with a stranger.(Ewwwwwwww!) It was before i got sober and I have almost 5 years sober. With a condom thank fuck. My last r ship was 3 years so my average time between bodies has been spaced out and the average has gone down. Anyone who slut shames is walking around in a daze if they don't see our culture for what it is. And i dont wanna be around anyone that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:48 PM
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Ew they want to get off at all costs. She needs to crawl out of that pit and save herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:41 PM
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Wow! This is also a form of vetting, to cancel on him and see if he is a psycho. Which this guy is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:17 PM
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Love Depeche Mode and also agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:33 AM
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My least fav song in the world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:31 AM
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This is amazing strategy! Seriously. Being nice doesn't win! Def trust your subconscious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:00 PM
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JIU JITSU AND MUAY THAI. I AM A WALKING WEAPON. 😀 I have my LTC but am not quite ready to wear a weapon. I also like the hairspray and lighter trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:52 PM
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Ewwwwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:23 PM
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This is it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:26 PM
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THE GOSPEL HAS BEEN SPOKEN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:20 AM
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Lmao this is 💯 TRUE FACTS. LMAO'D at "Broken pervert" my new favorite phrase! Absolutely agree. A normal guy will be ready to rock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:18 AM
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Thanks for the hint about the ones that cheat on you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:16 AM
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💯 yeah they need to go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:15 AM
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I need it the most too! No shame! That's my favorite part of a guy. I'm gunna get it as long as possible! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:14 AM
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Right! We don't date men who decieve us anyway so men who decieve us lose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:09 AM
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Also LVM show themselves. My ex said he never minded sex on my period.... well like a year and a half into our relationship suddenly it wasnt and he didnt want to anymore. Ugh. Do wonder why but not worth the brain cell effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:10 AM
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This is like an entire societal problem so that quote was absolutely rockin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:05 AM
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Oh my god. Im in love with her. She put it so perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:03 AM
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Just proof the men are all fucked up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:54 PM
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Ew he sounds like such a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:11 PM
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True facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:08 PM
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She just needs to peg you every once in a while too. Explore her ~fantasies~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:07 PM
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I've always wanted to be the one with the baseball bat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:38 AM
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This new flair is mood for life! Let's live it ladies! Fuck the patriarchy to your maximum benefit! 👠 🤬👹🤏💅🙅‍♀️🚫⛔️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:19 AM
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THIS! REPROGRAM YOUR BRAIN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:26 AM
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grabs clipboard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:01 AM
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Wowza. Talk about a reality check right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:27 AM
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Thisss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 09:41 PM
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"Abuse porn since middle school". This is reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:17 PM
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I wanna print this out to put this on my fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:12 PM
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Every woman who ever covered the grocery bill in a 5050 relationship knows!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:11 PM
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🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:00 AM
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They are pumping the r4pe culture right into peoples minds with a laugh track.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:54 AM
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Right! Like geeze people. You dont have to fuck EVERYONE you meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:47 AM
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I wanna see full panel STD tests on random samples from 2 groups. On a big group of poly individuals On a group of monogamous individuals (partnered/married people) I really wanna see the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:45 AM
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RIIIIGHT! THIS GUY SUCKS! He's not being a good husband at all. Penny pincher. He wants to run. She's very very smart though! He forgets that She's not married either! Hope she wakes up and realizes how bad of a provider he just naturally is. Some men just dont have it in them. That's okay but they shouldn't expect us to wanna be with them then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:40 AM
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Wow. Our grandmother's marched in the streets and this chick's answer is to give our ancestors the finger and suck off the patriarchy? Where are their brains?! Where are the alarms telling them it's bad?! Jeeze. They hate seeing reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:27 AM
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Just like the witches vs patriarchy. They had a giant banwave a few months back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:14 AM
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And we love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:13 AM
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No men allowed. It's one of the rules. Men get banned/removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:12 AM
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Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:08 AM
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Ewwwww! I can't even!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:38 AM
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Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:53 AM
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This. Be a warrior. Make a dude regret messing with you. I stepped back into the dojo again for the first time in years and let me tell you... I pity the man who fucks with me. I used to do 15 hours a week and MMA fight camp getting punched in the face and smashed into the cage to prep my teammates for their fights. Fight team is co-ed everyone spars everyone. Obviously we don't hit at 100% force, but you get some good bonks! We would all prepare each other. One drill, one person has to fight ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:52 AM
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I want to be like you! This makes so much sense and is perfect and normal. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:31 AM
19

Almost all, but not the fourthwave one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:29 AM
23

Hehehe WINNING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:43 AM
22

I love your standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:43 AM
149

Yeah we will have to work on eliminating those kinds of statements. But also glad he's calling this behavior out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:41 AM
88

THISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHIS! This is why I think even if you want to love multiple people, poly is so dangerous. It exposes your body to so many more things. From lethal to like a yeast infection. PLUS they will have sex with someone else they are talking to, fail to mention it till conveniently after the fact and then delude themselves its okay! Yes this happened to me. He said he had used a condom with her plus it was "just once" and he didnt tell me since they were talking on and off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:32 AM
122

She needs to do it anyway! We can go tell her though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:27 AM
33

The holes in my walls say same. He'd rather move his whole damn life than go to therapy. Or even premarital/couples counseling with someone he got to pick. Had the audacity to say it was because I "wouldn't try". The broken door with the crack in the shape of a fist mark though... Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:17 PM
11

Wow. This is a sick disgusting tactic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:43 AM
296

Right? Or at the mechanic? He'd get a wrench up the booty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:20 AM
98

Maybe we dont want the scrotes seeking vengeance for Charles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:19 AM
40

A man who had this happen should also be making moves to set up bennies for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:21 PM
2

This makes dating so troubling... literally dont wanna be exposed to STDs ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:52 PM
37

He really went in his brain to himself, "oh she wore shorts, time to wreck our professional relationship"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:37 PM
154

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:34 PM
149

She and Lundy agree on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:33 PM
27

It makes them actually wicked soft though, while we turn into motherforking warriors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:19 PM
29

That song is absolute feels! Sounds like a lot of terrible guys to run away from!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:11 PM
41

Shame they are proving how much they dont love their wife. Normalize devoted husbands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:07 PM
76

He sounds like the little Trump of dating. Wowza.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:57 PM
16

Its totally Idiocracy! Congrats on the sterilization, Im heading in next month myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:47 PM
77

It isnt like that once you teach the algorithm what you actually want to see. But def less of a time waster to just not have tiktok. I had the dancing pickmes at first too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:38 PM
36

Right like what do they expect OP to do? Would they accept that offer? Its wicked risky to live with men anyway. I always wonder like what world do they live in? Already the guilt is happening...? Like why would your friends expect you to live with a stranger youve know 3 minutes. Im surprised they wouldnt think about what ulterior motives/hidden cameras this man may have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:32 PM
34

YESS, wear that reflective safety vest and go to town! 🦺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:54 AM
29

Like... I dont drink coffee though? Does this mean 0 dates lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:51 AM
112

Him first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:26 PM
21

Amazing show! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:24 PM
285

The math is definitely mathing. He's not romantic at all. No wonder no one has interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:28 AM
30

We love to see it! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:31 PM
72

He should be single then lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:40 PM
118

But he's like so old!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:56 AM
1

Now that's kind of hot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:30 PM
3

Loved hearing this! So on board!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:29 PM
2

Love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:27 PM
1

Im having my tubes out. "Oh well" if i change my mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:25 PM
123

This is the teacher women deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:37 PM
26

🍻 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:41 AM
2

Being child free myself, this is encouraging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:34 AM
4

Yeah their eyes are too busy scanning our chests to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:03 AM
4

I will leave you in the gutter skipping away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:10 AM
4

Funny they think we are the prostitutes 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:04 AM
20

Incredible. I don't kiss strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:03 AM
29

Totally agree with your conclusion and that scrotes do weigh things like that to their advantage (about the rent).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:11 PM
16

Oh so he's the prize? Oh my bad 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:07 PM
8

Start a hashtag "menneedbras"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:05 PM
10

Yeah we must take action to not aid the entitlement lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:03 PM
30

This. No more miss nice girl. How dare he. Not standing for that shit. What a creeper. Waiting for those creepos to try that on a tough lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:49 PM
21

Show the world his holey underwear! This scrote has no dignity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:47 PM
26

Too smart to fall for losers, fortunately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:36 PM
93

I feel like he is visiting home, going to have free time because his siblings will work... i feel like he is going to cheat on her, and is lazy cause now he doesnt have to take care of her and is a perfect excuse in his mind. He def doesnt love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:11 PM
3

Found the Darwin Award winning scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:13 AM
20

I got my last last ex on this one. What a pathetic dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:06 AM
17

Bonus points is sometimes it is ALSO their Reddit username! 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:05 AM
3

Yesss I've been waiting for the full version!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:22 PM
7

This is gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:06 PM
12

I wish I knew enough about star wars to talk about these things with you! Love the behind the scenes theorizing. They are just jealous you have a big beautiful functioning brain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:05 PM
34

Totally. Sick sick sick.they cant wait to fuck our childr3n
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:15 AM
8

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:13 AM
11

I need to sharpie this and pop it on my corkboard!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:12 AM
30

This is it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:08 AM
5

I believe enough of us do either that the people who want to block scrotes can have their peace, and those of us who like to reach out to other girlies can do that too and we cover the bases just the same. Plus, laughing at scrotes, seeing these screenshots, and teaching women how to identify weaklings is oh so funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:02 AM
8

What about adding, "quite hemotional of you to namecall me like that"? Lolol since "women are the emotional ones"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:58 PM
21

He's blaming his patheticness on freaking archetypal demons. Maximum scrotey blame shifting. Haha he can only talk to women over the internet. Youd think somewhere he'd read that maybe he should do some character development to be less hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:55 PM
8

I think this was a proper roast. Color me not shocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:52 PM
6

He's really showing his true colors fast. You made the right choice. This isnt the guy to reproduce with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:34 PM
44

I think your strategy was A+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:47 PM
63

Time to exhaust the scrotes with astrology and tarot shuffles deck one of the 13 card spreads ought to do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:23 PM
66

Clearly she got the good looks from your side!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:34 AM
48

Look at his high school photos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:33 AM
52

When I think about texting him again... I think about that time he shaved his face and I thought he'd be less of a douche because he wasnt as hot as normal. The chin never lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:56 AM
42

Yeah, most are cowards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:38 PM
32

Click click boom 💥 😊 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:34 PM
74

They can get a waterpik too!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:22 PM
23

They dont go to the dentist. They dont have all their teeth or they arent brushing their tongue... idk but I cant date them if thats the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:21 PM
89

This happens so much there's a card that normalizes it. But not all men, right? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:19 PM
14

Love my Google voice number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:42 PM
7

Oh that's niiiice! I wasnt exactly prepared that time but will throw this in my arsenal. Perfect. In Muay Thai we have a "teep" kick for keeping people away when sparring. Ive imagined situations where men approach and I maybe have to use that as a defence too. It's always good to have these strategies thought out a bit in advance to avoid surprise. Thanks Katie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:51 PM
20

Ew ew ew ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:15 PM
156

Yeah. You can tell how much he hates himself. Yikes. But he thinks a woman will be able to magically put up with him/fix his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:12 PM
53

Fighting the urge to put things like, "must have hair" and "did you know you can grow your hair back?" On my (not yet created) OLD profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:07 PM
39

I dont hug men that I do not know well. A guy I know casually in dance is "seeing" a woman I've know like 9 years through the community. I hugged her and he reached in and I go, "Oh, you want a hug? I just dont know you that well!" And gave him a little side hug/make him feel weird for asking. In the future I will attempt to react sooner and back off/clasp his hand. Then I hugged my instructors 🤣 he was trying to use the touch barrier to create intimacy in one of the classes where I was partnere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:01 PM
17

Awesome! Finally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:54 AM
52

This is some next level badassery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:52 AM
149

"Okay... but you gotta let me peg you first! You can't know if you dont like it, you haven't tried it yet have you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:49 AM
26

Let those of us who havent googled and have no idea guess.... The scrote bingo card says "pornstar" 🙄 So fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:46 AM
20

It sucks some people want others to martyr themselves. Happy that you can speak your truth! They dont want to acknowledge their own feelings seems like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:43 AM
40

Oh my god. Never thought of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:42 AM
68

You can hear it when you talk to them. Aging is freaking them out. A LV acquaintance I know (used to be a teammate on the fight team I was on) is getting anxious about having children and everything. He wrecked his last serious relationship cause he's immature and LV and she was waiting for him to step up. He says he wants a family and kids, but then asked me to be his "special friend" 🤮 🤮 oh my god like... he wouldnt even play a song I requested on the radio on the way to the salsa club (an hou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:39 PM
21

What about if we start love coaching and charging the men? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:54 AM
5

Great username! Also yeah, yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:51 AM
33

Holy crap! Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:49 AM
44

Sounds like a super spreader event lol. I mean. Was thinking of going to my fave nice restaurant to sit at the bar... but to be real I'll prolly just do takeout! Speed dating... thats a lot of scrotes that want my number... Could be good vetting practice/inspiration for an article though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:15 PM
39

Come on lady. He doesn't respect you. Hes pretending. He is who he is when talking about onlyfans with his friends. Hes doing sketchy shit. Thank god you found out. You will be so relieved when he is out and you dont have to babysit/worry anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:10 PM
3

Right! Let's get out of the Matrix! The truth will set us free. But first, it'll piss us off. Let these confessions stand as a reminder when we hear the word "misandry" or want to ignore a red flag when we havent dated someone in so long!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:05 PM
8

This. I know worse too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:52 PM
16

This is so crucial. Katie, love your content! Growing up both my parents had regular jobs and side jobs. I do the same. My main "9 to 5", some freelance, and catering in the summer/fall/events/whenever I can. He had 1 job and would talk a lot about getting a side job that never materialized. So flipping disrespectful of my work and work ethic. Yet still would hold me to standards such as the dishes done before he came home... when i was gone all day... he didnt understand my commitments. My boss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:54 PM
123

Truly thought this was a story about her puking all over him in the middle of the night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:35 PM
3

Can she have him sectioned like in the hospital? Something has to be wrong with him mentally to get that filthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:22 AM
62

Yeahh... think I'm not dating, at least not online or heading out alone, till I get my new gun. (LTC state) This is super freaky. So dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:19 AM
12

Thank you for your work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:26 PM
108

Lmao "i know you just caught me but please just trust me [till i give you chlamydia]" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:51 PM
13

The woman was too stunned to speak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:33 AM
18

IDK guys I really like the ones where she puts the reins on him and makes him neigh and cart her around the house like a horse too! 🤭🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:32 AM
54

This needs to be pinned to my forehead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:03 AM
36

I kept a journal the first 3 years i was sober. Wrote 3/4 times a week. Super helpful when I needed a Restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:01 AM
25

Ive thought about going back to AA but I feel this way about the program for the most part. It was created for drunk men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:13 AM
14

FDS LIFE PROTIP!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:24 AM
6

...The gospel has now been spoken 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:12 AM
70

If it's normal, he won't mind if I tell the girls he does this! 🤡 "Everyone does it babe, Allison wont mind if I tell her you do this. Youve been friends for years right?!" Ahahah what friends now 😎 Why have a boyfriend like this when you can live alone in literal peace not being gaslit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:21 PM
14

Hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:41 AM
18

My ex HATED that I found FDS. He is convinced my internal change caused our breakup 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:08 PM
59

Ewww. Been building up the courage to reply, "oh thanks SWEETIE!" Or "thanks honeybun" right back to them. But he might take that as further invitation. 🤮 i wonder how many women he does that to all day. I cross my fingers he's not at the store that day. Its yucky. And last time I entered his gangbang3r buddy was just loitering at the entrance. Not a good vibe. It makes me not wanna go there. And after i left his buddy did without buying something. Spent 8 mins driving thinking Id have to go an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:05 PM
35

Its like when at the wedding they smash the cake in her face. Its like a major hallmark for divorce Ive read somewhere. Abuse isnt cute. I hate itttttt. I could never be romantic with someone who "roasts" me. Poke fun a bit? Yes, of course. Playful banter where he teases me for the clutter in my car? Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:02 PM
14

A bunch of us could go together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:07 AM
17

We require them to not take the easy road if they are going to be with us. And they cant do it. We attempt to drag them kicking and screaming. They complain. You just gotta free em up for a pickme girl. Thats what they wanted from you. My ex wanted to ignore all the bad in the world. Didnt get why I was so passionate about women's rights. I was mad even deeper than my internalized misogyny... Its tough to date an empty man. He kept getting angrier I was growing up. I wasnt that 19 year old who a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:52 AM
19

👑 thats incredible. Amazing of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:36 AM
7

Does it show them all the info on your profile? My gut says FB dating feels very invasive. What has your experience been? I dont need anyone trolling my friends list and figuring out what color my house is and all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:35 AM
6

This def gets the point across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:33 AM
33

And then, the only thing they have is the audacity! And thinning hair. 😉 I stayed with my ex way too long because he had some niiiiiice thick luscious wavy hair to grab. Alas, that was not enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:31 AM
35

Theyre fuckups at any age! Whatever age they decided to stop emotionally developing at!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:28 AM
76

I love all you said and it is amazing that he was looking around for 20 years for his moment. This is why we need to decide preemptively if shit goes down we are out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:23 AM
119

Can we pin this in the Hall of Fame/Shame?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:17 AM
241

Every time a scrote explains it like this its so gross. "Baby trapped" my ass. They are begging and stealthing. She's the one attached to an infant. Delusional. And society won't blink if he decides to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:16 AM
83

So funny! They are telling him he is a failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:15 AM
41

Prince Charming was waiting in the wing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:14 AM
79

Old fart! Yikes. I hope he tweaks his back every time he picks up the baby. Bad enough to be uncomfy but he also not toooo bad so he kind of forgets about it till the next time he goes to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:13 AM
47

Instead of being there for his children at this time, he decided he needed to fulfill his "wet dream" of being with someone approx. 10 years older than his daughters. Gross. NVM dont look very far when it comes to these things. Zero logistical planning. If i decided to have an affair itd be with someone away from my regular life. Duh. Working with the wrong brain there buckaroo. My ex had hooked up with/dated about 3 of us from the old workplace where I met him. A couple years later also got a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:11 AM
69

~Happily Ever After~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:58 AM
24

My time is worth 100/hr so sir you actually owe me. My sex vending machine didnt pop out sex! /s Shouldnt date if youre broke dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:53 PM
14

If they go to therapy they can't be victims anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:41 AM
19

Well, guess we found someone to be president of rapist (raper) island!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:39 AM
54

Pretending they are picky. Lmao especially the ones wanting FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:37 AM
22

Too bad we can't marry each other! Then we would have wives! 🤩 OMG a 100/100 relationship!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:25 AM
10

What have they even been eating?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:19 AM
26

This was great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:07 AM
2

Too funny. They jump straight to accusing us of being incels... involuntarily celibate... we can google dictionary words in 2022... Such a wacky insult... like they have no brains. At least try to come up with something that could possibly be a little truthful. Like... hold on, Little Sir, my armpit hair is currently longer than yours right now. Even so, despite whichever avenue I picked, I could, on a Tuesday, find some (maybe not hot but at least lukewarm if we are talking about being able to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:59 PM
12

When I was reactive abuse screaming in his face, he grinned like he won the fucking lottery. So I stopped and thats as one of the final moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:03 PM
81

A redditor with a girlfriend? Must have slipped through the cracks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:06 AM
41

Squeezing her like a g d orange!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:05 AM
13

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:15 PM
91

Funny cause if he negs me I end up dropping him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:29 PM
3

Apparently it was "just" a blowjob. I guess she'd send him snapchats with like her tongue sticking out often.... Yikes. But she was 19 and on drugs and he was sleeping on the couch at that point.... all things he told me. And the older i get the grosser it is. Cant believe we'd smoke cigs outside the apartment building and the 2 of them (mom and daughter) would approach and we'd small talk like everything was normal. Makes me want to vomit. He then accused me of hating his actual ex. Like no wtf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:57 AM
125

That's disgusting. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:10 AM
83

He's gunna watch his relationship crumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:06 AM
56

Well then he had at least 5 to save. In reality the longer it takes the better the ring should be! Even when his dad gifted him 2k for Christmas.... My pickme brain went , "the ring I picked out was 1500!" And I had to squash that right down. If he wanted to he would have. He wouldnt get counseling with me. He showed me all the things he didnt want to do and all the things he wanted to continue to do. If i hadnt kicked him out it would have all been the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:05 PM
108

Her: "hi, im here, remember me? Just washing your undies!" waves Throw her a reminder he belongs in the 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:01 PM
128

"Come on Ted, gimme your T shirt." Lol thank god us women are resourceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:55 PM
11

Well it's a hell of a story! We gotta let other women know we have been where they stand. There's a woman at my job who relates to the whole twin flame concept and Im like, "i know he may be your soulmate but he's unwilling to do what he needs to to grow and thats too bad." He can catch you in the next lifetime if thats the case! Twin flames thinking is causing you to see more than what's actually there! Yeah they are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:18 PM
137

We need this belief ourselves. Our sisters we have all been brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:53 PM
4

Thank you very much! I have faith in my own life and it is so peaceful now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:57 PM
26

Yeah, my LV ex had a habit of not looking too far.... I met him at my first job and we were in dif departments. His next gf was also a friend of his from work. Later on he had a little fling with her daughter (I knowwwww) When we were broken up the last time he fucked his best friend's sister (they had a FWB or something) They had tried to "hang out" before back when she was married too. I ruined their time. He made her go home so he could go pick me up from the sober house... yikes). So then fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:03 PM
30

Thats immediately who i thought of!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:59 PM
25

The old dudes are panickingggg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:54 PM
52

Yes some of us dont have kids on purpose so we can have more time to dedicate to children who are already here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:53 PM
42

When i was telling my ex I wanted to go for something else besides bc (been on for a long time and had a blood clot scare Jan 2020!) And ask him about vasectomy. He changed his mind about being childfree so fast (dont trust a damn word out of the mouth of someone who has like nothing going for him). He's early 30s so his clock is going, though all he has is 2 cats and a car lease payment to show for it. But he was wishy washy about everything else so no surprise he changed his mind on this. We g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:51 PM
42

Hope you see he will never change and it is impossible to grow and blossum with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you and knocking you down. You dont need a bully in your own home. Realize how weak he is and take your power back. What a toddler he is. My mom used to be the same way. Trying to gain acceptance from the abusive person. I transferred that onto my partner with anger problems. He would never accept me though, and he wad destroying me. So I had to leave him and grow. Just st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:32 PM
38

This! Lets call it what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:33 PM
17

And because his dick said so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:44 AM
1

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:40 AM
23

The brainwashing is deep in there! Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:39 AM
25

Does she need help with her homework or driving lessons? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:39 AM
165

Thank you. I fucking needed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:19 AM
162

This is the kind of wake up call we live for. I was speaking to a client the other day. After 3 kids her husband wants a divorce. Should've heard us make fun of his post wall ass. He will be in for a rude awakening when she has a bunch of dates and he has none. Im glad she realized he's the idiot. Women arent blaming themselves anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:03 PM
13

Thats why they say about having prostitutes for men to rape. A lot of women feel relieved because "then regular women wont be raped" but we are all still raped because these men are rapers. Its a good try. Lets see how long they are satisfied for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:58 PM
5

Same! The poor sims 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:55 PM
6

Can't fool the AI with libfen misandry bullshit! It knowssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:53 PM
83

Gosh. Whatever parties these 2 go to, I do not want to be at. I bet none of their friends know how to horizontal mambo either. 🤮 what a waste of moments of my life ahhhhh! Only date men who know how to f**k you right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:33 AM
531

They are so weak. Can't make real power in their lives so they have to create a creature to be mean to? Yikes they are so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:14 PM
204

Oh, so, they understand that they are scary because they are a stranger? Yet still expect sex? Yeah, so much could go wrong. Men in comments mansplaining womens' lived experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:40 AM
21

To me it reads like how we would also strongly suggest for another woman looking to curb her drinking behaviors to stop drinking when she goes to parties. Of course, you are in control of your behavior. We truly just have to face ourselves and deal with our stuff. Only you know what is going to work to keep you away from that fine c**k charcuterie. We stop when we decide to stop. In your case maybe Id start small, put up some barriers with men, stop inviting them in your home. Do a c**k detox. G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:29 AM
9

Poor fish 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:11 AM
55

Just sign them up for a bunch of annoying free mail/newsletters/catalogs instead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:06 AM
59

Yeah stick to more obscure places to lure the other girlies to FDS ;]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:51 AM
58

It makes me super uncomfortable when people pump gas with the car on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:48 AM
23

Have you heard of the pleasures pf Halloumi cheese?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:38 AM
2

Adding to the reading list! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:36 AM
4

Im a petty ass bitch don't try me😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:30 AM
19

Its expensive but somehow I afford it by myself 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:25 PM
204

And then when you report it to bumble that he's going crazy they give him 20 free superlikes.🙄🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:35 AM
53

I just started counting and couldnt stop. But def when she said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:34 AM
78

Ew hate him 🤮 Just remember: if you wanted to, you could fuck his dad and grampa and become his step mom and then ground him. Get him where it hurts, in the ego. Obviously dont do that, BUT DO tuck that satisfaction in your back pocket. Eventually he will be old and unable to pull women. And youll still be able to... I just dont know what kind of game they are trying to play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:51 AM
13

Yesss distract and runnnn! 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:43 AM
10

Ahhhh the strategist..... (green aliens from toy story voice:) "She has spokennnnn!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:42 AM
14

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:41 AM
20

They are priming your brain to get used to failure because thats what a lot of your convos are going to sound like that, but its okay, you are "finding love". They also had the fuzzy H monster commercials... weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:40 AM
2

Yeah he really needed friends his own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:36 AM
2

36!!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:33 AM
5

The hairline so sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:33 AM
3

Its his victory picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:31 AM
3

This is actual reality. This is what lived experience looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:30 AM
22

I want every woman to have her preference and not feel bad. If you want a surprise with hints, cool! Like, browse your favorite jewelery maker and point out the shapes you like. On Facebook or in person i would see peoples rings and go, "i do not like the shape of hers and it is tiny" or "oh my god my sisters ring is cute with the sapphires and his matches hers! He will remember. Hint this way as much as you like. If he is smart he will look in your jewelry box. I am one of those women who reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:21 AM
19

THIIIISSSSS SO TRUE. It has "keeps you sleep deprived so you cannot think too much" energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:09 AM
8

Loving these actionable steps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:08 AM
44

Because he benefits from shittier men's behavior...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:56 PM
77

Commenting to second "they love to play victim" They LOVE it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:20 PM
136

Yeah its crazy to wsee. Lundy said on the podcast he was concerned about MRAs and the red pill recruiting everyday men. Well here it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:16 PM
43

This is an important message! I am generational AA. My dad has 15 of spotty program attendance. My mom sober like 35 years or something (she had gone to rehab when younger but is not an AAer. I will be 5 years sober in April and I completely agree with you. Im more convinced AA is for men, though women do need support in recovery. And yes 13 stepping is real especially in AA. When i did my steps, my sponsor had trauma too. And we are not to blame if we were victims. Im certain that in my case I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:03 PM
186

He texted the other day, "my life just feels incomplete without you." "No need for a statement back to me" "Just wanted to tell you that" Surreeeeee 🤡 not incomplete enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:01 PM
14

OHMYGOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:58 PM
24

NEVER in my life have I heard of an anal pap smear until this moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:37 PM
9

Sometimes they are almost IMPOSSIBLE to get out 😅 its hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:23 AM
178

He's slipping sis. You sound stressed over money and I agree it sounds like he offered to pay it and you feel taken for granted and its coming to the surface. You are also doing the cooking. Id feel the same way. Is there anything else bothering you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:57 AM
289

In AA we would call this cosigning the bullshit. They can take their own weird vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:53 AM
19

Love you queens leading the way! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:52 AM
23

Its weird how afraid they are of jail considering we live in such a permissive stupid rap3/p0rn culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:06 AM
24

"CmOn StEvE iTs mY FaNtAsY aNd mY BiRtHdAy! If YoU LoVe mE BeNd Over! "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:05 AM
2

Men will say this and then like... not set their life up for it to go that direction... like it'll magically happen as they float through life🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:43 PM
43

YUP! Let's talk about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:38 PM
5

True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:01 PM
27

And sometimes the multi millionaire is obsessed with finding someone who doesnt want his money. My ex is like that. His gf this time is a teacher who wants to persue more education and he's talking about retirement already. He's like obsessed with being used and is very 5050. We'd go to Denny's in his porche and we'd split. So off putting. I think in a way its resssuring to him to watch his gf struggle. Rest assured his money is safe and his mommy STILL does everyone's laundry. Like guy, no one …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:00 PM
21

Oh no, where's my holy water...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:48 PM
19

Take my money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:47 PM
13

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:41 PM
89

My ex confessed to me that he and his girlfriends daughter would hang out while her mom was already asleep. "And shed send me snapchats with her tongue out and she was on drugs". It was always funny, before when i first met him I was so worried because he had told me the porn he liked. I was bummed. So many things I wasn't. I wasnt a college girl, I wasnt a mom. I wasnt older, he liked MILFs and I wasnt. His girlfriend was around 40 (I think) and her daughter was 19. The mom's boyfriend (my ex) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:52 PM
31

Yeah like whats the future look like... i come home with the pizza i had to pay for with my money and he's on the couch already with his hand down his pants chilling like come on. They wonder why there's no spark. (Cause I can already see that youre boring and cheap and non inventive).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:01 AM
21

You got Lundy?!?!?!?!?!?@?@
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:59 PM
10

That's enough internet for today 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:36 AM
2

Yes jiu-jitsu and boxing! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:26 AM
5

SO BASED. Next level shit. This is it. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:24 AM
4

Its like once an alcoholic has been to an AA meeting. One can truly never drink the same again when the info has been dropped into their psyche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:14 AM
6

It is definitely so so so alarming how checked out of their bodies they can be. Like, that's very indicative of a problem! Shows how different we are. The level of disassociation and lack of future planning and care for ones body.... super red flag. Also too, are they going to care that your kid needs a dentist appointment? Are they paying enough attention to be able to tell if the kid has a concussion after they fall? They've already shown they will not be proactive. Even with things that benef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:13 AM
6

The story, where we find out more ways he takes advantage of OPs kindness and desire for him to be healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:09 AM
8

Sounds like the story where he gors to the early grave. Doesnt she find it weird he doesn't care? Omg I do not miss having to mommy my own partner and being constantly disappointed by him. Can we hear his side then? Lmao just kidding, this is FDS afterall! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:08 AM
7

Ah yes ~Strategy~ Cheers to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:04 AM
17

[punches wall]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:10 AM
4

I could see myself adopting this strategy a certain weeknight. Love the biz cas and setting personal space/distance. Im usually go with the flow when it comes to my free time though, and dancing/lessons are usually tues or thurs already. But if my siblings come home that's on the weekend as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:12 AM
90

This is def when I would have left if not sooner. On my "Ideal Man" List #1 is "not a pervert. Respectable, private sexuality"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:52 AM
31

This was amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:50 AM
97

This would even be a red flag if his intentions weren't malicious because what man doesnt "grasp" why we may not want to tell a stranger where we live. "Dumb" men or men who are telling on themselves with no empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:50 AM
39

Ew he is so lazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:12 AM
101

-how much he drinks -if he respects everyone in the conversation -notice what he finds funny -watch body language and personal space to see how comfy he gets with people and you -listen if he says anything even jokingly about himself -if he asks intrusive questions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:03 AM
2

He's prolly hoping to see her there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 02:25 PM
59

~Strategy~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:20 PM
17

You rock. Love seeing your story throughout FDS. Super valueable insights. We've learned the hard way love isnt enough and some men we need to move forward without to save ourselves. The apartment is so peaceful alone! ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:57 PM
5

It is bold of them to have this attitude when the woman is handling hot wax that can burn you and also tear your skin off with it if she doesnt do it right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:50 PM
10

"Reeeeeee I thought I'd get anal! ....Wait, no, please come back!" . . . . . "YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO BE MY DINNER SLUT!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:45 PM
13

Yes like what happens when we are down to bare human nature. Like... my hair isnt really this blonde. If we were in the apocalypse my armpit/pube hair would be crazy and my roots will come in. Like is he even in love with my myself my soul? Im not always gunna look like this. And I may wanna cut all my hair off. Like, im gunna age little by little... what else is going to make him uncomfy? When we have a child will he be too squeamish to help me clean when they are sick? Berate me about painted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:42 PM
19

Whenever I feel the urge to text my ex, I either remember or go force myself to look at pictures from the only time in the 8 years Ive known him he shaved his face. He totally beardmaxxed himself with that goatee situation. Plus when I picture our hypothetical future children Im like... would they seriously look okay/not have jaw problems? 🤔 I have excellent teeth. If i reproduce it isnt really worth damning my kid to braces. Not for that scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:32 PM
7

👑 love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:28 PM
22

It's such a cool girl move to fangirl over monsters. My ex best friend has mike myers, freddy, Jason and other villains on her arm and the scream guy. Her last ex was a straight up asshole toad mfer and this one has his child calling her mommy 8 months in. Psychos arent sexy. It's like stockholm syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:03 PM
32

I can't believe so many men are walking around all jacked up and zombied out on gross porn. Not to mention the ones that glue their eyes to anyone wearing workout gear 👀 yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:59 PM
21

So sad. So sad so sad so sad! Geeze. Such a waste of time! You work hard, sis! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:57 PM
14

🤮 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:30 PM
49

They have like zero idea how STDs work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:29 PM
37

RIP scrote 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:44 PM
10

And mediocre restaurants its like... how unhealthy is this too? Def not farm to table here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:11 AM
50

Oh NO. And like. Your ovaries are involved in your hormones too. How terrifying! What the fuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:51 AM
37

You rock! Youre freeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:45 AM
4

Maybe he's trying to show her he does come out of the cave every once in a while.. ? Lmao 😬🤔🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:51 AM
61

Picturing my ex doing this and me dating better is just the self esteem boost I needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:31 AM
71

Ladies: 2022, surprise him by.... letting him know its lame and pathetic he hasnt made more progress on his issues. If you've been depressed since you were 15, why wouldnt you have a better handle on things yet? Save your empathy for things that deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:17 AM
54

This is part of what's wrong with men. Crazy they dont see that. Then again, porn culture 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:14 AM
79

He is incredible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:12 AM
51

My ex stopped his meds cause they made his dick sad. I guess its important to him to both punch walls and _____.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:48 PM
25

Super glad he didnt have a chance to stealth you. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:46 PM
70

Yeah we aint googling that. Lmao Men: learn how to truly horizontal mambo and we will want to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:45 PM
11

Also same please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:30 PM
26

Too funny! Yet he doesnt like, pad his resume with skills/certifications to make up for it or plan his future career track. So sad. Sad boy handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:04 AM
10

Curious how much earlier they die than the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:00 AM
8

Op, its cool how reflective you are being. You are also attempting to be a supportive person. I bet you are a very kind friend. We are all growing together in the ways of FDS! Every thing we learn aids us in protecting ourselves against men who harm us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:44 AM
6

Its the imagery for me. I want this as a placard....... No.... i wanna do an oil painting of this quote in swirly letters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:42 AM
9

It is also dangerous for them to have the info of how much you make. Aids the users. Gives more incentive to them to fool you. Being more private is a good card to play. You can always disclose more later!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:40 AM
15

Men like this will blame you when you want more or things go wrong. They also are in a victim mentality and will drag you down to them. "How dare she succeed" they say. They are boring and mediocre and will make you feel guilty you thought a 300$ Kay Jewelers ring was adorable and "we cant order all the food off the menu" Or when he gets you nothing for xmas besides "well, this chinese food, and a half eaten bag of chocolates. And the gift of my presence!" You will be paying them allimony. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:38 AM
32

If I cant background check him I dont want him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:28 AM
51

A guy at my work did this to multiple girls. They transferred him. Hes still pretending. And I found his new social media. He would tell the 19 year old cashiers he was 24 when he was 37. Yikessssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:28 AM
20

He will come back for sure, but what makes him have the audacity to believe she will wait around for his 🤡 shit ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:20 PM
11

They seem to want to be, the way they eagerly download filth into their brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:35 PM
59

Ooh look my ex! Still in the same place in life with all the talk in the world. Still having to live in someone elses apartment. Still complaining about everyone getting things handed to them unlike him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:29 PM
26

Gosh they want to avoid personal development SO BAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:25 PM
16

My ex bestie is in this situation and she's so blind. Her house is horrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:20 PM
42

So many (including my ex) wish so badly they didnt have to work. YET hesitate to even learn their FIRE options or try to work it a way thats doable like starting their own business or learning a trade where they can work for themselves on their own time. They want their responsibilities to just POOF dissappear. Thats what my ex was like. Full of complaints but took zero action. He was SUPER defeatist and he wanted me to be that was as well. He'd be a hater cause he couldnt possibly see how my dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:24 PM
56

Yeah, give him 30 years so you can have 10 pleasant ones before he gets dementia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:20 PM
13

Get it girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:48 PM
75

This is definitely a bestie date or with someone youve been with a while. Not the right kind of date if he wants you to feel a horizontal mambo type of connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:45 AM
7

Omg so jelly! Sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:44 AM
3

Oh no, oh goodness...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:18 AM
12

Theres fourthwavewomen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:43 PM
87

Okay fine! We will be over here! See you ladies after he's done dragging you to hell and back! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:22 PM
10

Too much going on in the restaurant for his scrote brain to comprehend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:10 PM
32

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:07 PM
55

This is so funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:06 PM
9

Yeah, never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:06 PM
24

Amazing! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:02 PM
52

He must be trash in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:55 PM
53

Yeah at that point, how would you even know/be able to manage the information and letting your partners know (they dont yuck) And then lie shes the only one hes sleeping with. My ex had herpes and when talking about a 4some was talking about a lack of condom use because "i already have the worst one" and would shrug. (Yes I ran) Then we end up needing biopsies, getting cervical cancer, needing LEEPs and operations, dying. We pay the price. I just want a normal pap damn it and not to have to worr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:55 PM
55

But how dare she get in the way of his sexual agenda! 🤡 So true. They are such projectors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:51 PM
46

A google voice number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:50 PM
1

This is strategy! chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:58 AM
20

And he set up 2 cameras!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:33 AM
19

You can do it! Patches and gum my friend! Nicorette and fancy gum, whatever kind you want. Although to be real with you i went from cigs to vaping and it was so much worse to vape. Then I told my dr I wanted to quit and how I saw wellbutrin can help you quit, so I took some for a period of time while quitting and doing the patch and gum. Nicotine free for a couple years now. Such a relief to not feel like Im giving myself cancer and to feel an ease about my health. Im rooting for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:06 AM
23

I would enjoy paying 17$ to watch him humiliate himself right there in front of me. Ooh the satisfaction! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:50 AM
5

Justin was kind of hilarious. This video was very entertaining!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:49 AM
36

Reality. There is a difference and not knowing it can spell disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:41 AM
30

Ah yes, the arrival of the true victims. Yes it is very unfortunate you cannot rub those 2 brain cells together to pick her out a quality gift, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:46 PM
43

I wish we could follow them on their dates.... I mean their walks and read their posts out loud to the girl in front of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:12 AM
26

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:10 AM
22

This! This. If she could've said no without him flipping out or god knows what, she would have been gone hours ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:09 AM
10

Yikes. Their actions tell on themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:26 PM
9

Everyone I send her to LOVES Drew! (Even non FDS women)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:01 PM
15

This is pretty much the only way LVM will work out. Especially when you dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:14 PM
9

Gotta time manage and prioritize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:12 PM
20

Men around are so ugly and old lately, I saw a short well dressed cutie with a nice haircut in the chocolate shop today and nearly couldnt stop eyeing him up! 🙃 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:11 PM
11

SAVAGEEE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:06 PM
8

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:06 PM
11

Thats my ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:05 PM
7

Lololol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:04 PM
106

How manipulative! Awful of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:56 PM
15

Yup. Theres a defunct bracelet from when I was 19 sitting in the jewelry box that i have no idea how to deal with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:54 PM
17

I imagine the FDS bumper stickers having phrases like this 🤣 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:33 AM
65

He's definitely going to learn to do laundry when he's living in his post divorce studio apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:30 AM
133

Apparently what he needs from the start is for someone to pill him every day like you would a cat because he has been blaming forgetting his meds for a whileeeee. He feels way too bad for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:28 AM
33

This sounds like the saddest ad ever. So lonely. They must need a lot of dopamine to cover up all the sad little boy feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:50 AM
140

They want to continue to be delusional that they can fuck any woman they want and get upset when their delusion isnt played along with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:49 AM
57

We will mutilate our bodies and risk death when we get plastic surgery so they can STFU! They are weak. Wait till the women learn wtf is up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:48 AM
106

The details and this setup just reeks of small dick energy. Who taught him how to pick up girls? It's like he's begging to be made fun of by the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:46 AM
11

Thissss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:44 AM
22

They feel bad but watch how angry they get when you mention that they may alleviate their guilt by apologizing to women they have hurt along the way now that they have "grown up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:44 AM
30

Sleep with "bad boys" who have been the community dick, end up needing a pap every year because every few years abnormal cells show up. Ask me how i know! 🤡 One i dated who i had a crush on before I knew he was so pornsick, wanted to host an orgy in his apartment because he thought his best friends gf was smoking hot and he didnt care about condoms because he "already had herpes anyway"!!!!!!!!!! Ahhh this man was so fucked up. His dad died with porn in the vcr of his apartment. This dude watche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:42 AM
31

So men are also sleeping with men and pretending they don't too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:32 AM
168

screams internally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:13 AM
67

Ewww. Gosh. Wow. I cannot even believe sometimes that many people fuck strangers that its expected like that. This is why im hesitant to get back out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:07 PM
93

If she proposes thats yet another thing he gets from her for nothing. When is she going to realize he does nothing for her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:43 AM
64

She's not his wife lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:39 AM
10

I bet its his JO material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:25 AM
11

Also when he gets tested have him show you the receipts. Even better if it is through his online health portal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:24 AM
38

Depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:22 AM
24

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:30 AM
10

I agree and this is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:19 AM
42

I juat visited my high school best friend. After 8 months of dating his 2 year old is calling her momma. Her home, they moved in. Its trashed. Shes about to have surgery on her shoulder and she desperately wants to have everything ready by then and she "hopes" he will be on top of everything then. Yeah fucking right. He loved bombed her in the beginning of course. I told her I dont think he respects her. Typical she made excuses. She sounds so stressed. He chewed with his mouth open at her while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:25 PM
16

Oh yesss! The months we have stayed for bad dude good dick! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:33 AM
13

And they wont be able to build a crib either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:19 AM
26

If only we could take it off him and take it with us when the relationship ends 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:08 AM
15

Queen shit! Agreee on growers. That man sounds respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:07 AM
20

I split the guys into groups out of my number and calculated each group amount (I was gunna say, "X out of N was ________ sized." But dont wanna share body count for a whole internet of strangers.) In my experience Id say it's been... 14% sadsad/itsy bitsy hot dog But also like, 21% that ranged, oh no dont put that near me its gigantic. (What kind of big c*** rader is this?!) To on the edge of uncomfortably large. 72% I could work with, was happy with length girth, the ones who weren't porn sick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:05 AM
27

Yeah, wow. Im in the "not coming if I'm not coming" club. If he's im the boyfriend role, the responsibilities include making me... and we will become acquaintances while I begin the search again if mine isnt happening. How do guys not know how to....? Ugh 🤦‍♀️ Fuck the brainwashing. Also maybe women would like men more if we could orgasm more than once a year, you know, maybe get into it a bit. Why are they soooo boring at sex 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:49 AM
14

Wow. Incredible. That was a pretty gross one too. It almost makes you wish more men were blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:41 AM
15

Those are some standards! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:38 AM
25

🔎 ??? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:36 AM
71

They make so many issues. You'd think in all those years of life he'd have learned how to get out of his own way. 🙄🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:25 AM
25

I flipping LOVE being single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:18 PM
13

This idea makes my biology feel sick. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:46 PM
5

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:36 PM
3

Men who position themself as the victim🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:36 PM
3

Yeah some people dont work the program, they come to meetings and chat with their sponsor. Other people, complete the steps. There's written work to it. It can take a ton of time to do the steps, though in the OG days theyd do it in a weekend with an alkie who was detoxing in the hospital. They said back then with people doing the work (the steps) together, that those people didnt end up drinking again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:33 PM
48

If they want to date/befriend a charity case so bad they should do it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:03 PM
10

Love how you are bucking the norm. Amazing! Love that you advocate for yourself and your husband can get things done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:07 AM
22

They have a certain smell to them, I swear. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:28 AM
15

Getting everything you wanted! Sounds perfect! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:54 AM
19

I completely completely agree with you. We do need to be careful what we share and we cannot share all info. Thank you for sharing the warning! We need to understand the consequences of sharing info. I should have phrased that as... wait till he is invested in you and has feelings for you. Dont share with strangers. Also agree men dont need to know your traumas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:44 AM
45

Love your Dolly strategy! I employ this to a lot of success. It pairs well with just kinda beebopping around minding your own business. People tend to underestimate you and put you in the friendly category. And yes! if somone gets weird, its safety first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:32 AM
77

Feels like too this need to open our mouths and overshare is in a way a manifestation of how bad we want an intimate connection. We want to feel that openness and sometimes hope in some way to get a little reciprocation if we are open. But we dont have to tell something all at once. Gotta see if he has the depth required to be able to empathize. Sometimes the response you get will be really lackluster. You wont feel supported. You'll feel gut punched, hollow and empty. Its a great time for the b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:27 AM
23

So curious if your bf then gaslit you when you communicated all this nice info about the oogling and such! Its such a relationship wrecking behavior to be an oogler. The only person he should oogle is his gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:22 AM
87

Nice strategy. Bad bitch queen energy. And then walk away! Had a teen boy make a lewd comment and then smirk at me 10 feet away in Walmart. I was too stunned to speak. Now if it happens Im gunna be ready because Im a crazy woman and how dare he disrespect me and his gf like that. Greasy baby scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:21 AM
97

Its funny because a woman glanced at me today while in conversation, and I noticed... and it really just doesn't hit the same. Men are such consumers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:09 AM
21

Id still want to be told. I think you did the right thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:06 AM
13

Here, have some more dick worship! /s Yuck 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:05 AM
70

"ITs LeGal!!" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:02 AM
5

Pmed you with a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:36 AM
27

I believe it'll help women to see this other woman angry and explaining it. I know it lights a passion in me! Totally agree. LV men will still ask this question and do their gaslighting blah blah and it will always be your cue to run! They are really committed to misunderstanding. It's like everything is an attack, especially if you are caught in a cycle dating a LV man. My ex has been out for a WHILE. And my day to day happiness.... holy crap. My mental state feels amaze as a baseline. And im s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:30 AM
12

Sorry he caused you so much pain sis! He sounds awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:47 AM
41

Well sometimes they can end up with scar tissue that permanently bends their.... Peyronie's disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:51 PM
37

Love what you said! Smart guys are hot. I like a man who can teach me something. I personally dont care about degrees. But for you ladies that do want a man with degrees, that's awesome and if I were in your position Id feel the same way. It's great! There are enough different kinds of men to go around! It would be a nice to have, dont get me wrong because it shows diligence and a thoughtfulness. My father and grandfather are tradesmen making $$ serious comfortable livings from what they do. I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:22 AM
15

Ooh. This sucks but you are right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:25 AM
6

slow clap amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:24 AM
29

None of his gfs have been over 25. He has his own chart and everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:56 AM
148

"wE sHoUlD gEt PrEgNaNt!" 🤡 So happy you ghosted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:53 AM
23

So my conspiracy theory is they are all emotionally weak weenies on the inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:52 AM
28

Even though a lot of time when we are young and have sex its because weve been coerced and taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:18 AM
10

Also idk about anyone else... My (woman) gyn has been doing it for 20 years and she tells me. Every. Single. Thing. She is going to do/doing to my body as its happening. I wouldnt ever see a man for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:52 PM
37

For this type of thing I try to give a boring answer or if i dont want to answer such as an inappropriate question about age or where I live, I deflect, give boring answer "oh about 40 mins away", OR ask them the same question and act really interested in their life and answer. Most people will let the convo go the direction you push it, especially if you are a "friendly" type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:32 PM
6

Its vile. Why do we have to see that and be reminded of that. What kind of world is this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:09 PM
14

It'll be clear to everyone eventually and they won't have anything to gaslight with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:07 PM
37

No one's afraid some porn sick dude will grab a woman off the street and bring her in there with him? 🤮 Men should have gps chips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:06 PM
1

I have about 2 male friends. One has been downgraded to acquaintance over time. Years ago I was on the fight team at our MMA gym so we'd have training and sparring and go to tournament and fights together. Like 5-7 of us any fight team practice. It was pretty male dominated but I was always fine. One of my coaches is a woman. I used to date this guy's friend briefly, but I was in my alcoholism so obvi that didnt work. Before FDS i thought why not, and at one point had said, "oh maybe one day if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:14 PM
22

Even my LVX would make sure that I get in the building and hold the door. And when we went to the city/more populated areas, without question he'd come to my side and open the door/wait till I got in first to make sure I was secure and in the car and not in danger. This guy may not have it in him to be the protector. But you'll see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:46 PM
7

Im so happy that you came arms swinging. Thank you for showing her the light!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:56 PM
43

applause
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:51 PM
63

I think red flag if they dont know you're/your for sure, but am curious if anybody has dated a dyslexic man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:49 PM
13

Right. I know we like to prove ourselves but for the greater good, you are only benefitting bad men. Look at the bigger picture. The secret agent does not brag to the bad guy. His motives to get laid will always exceed moral actions. Thats who he is. You're here so you know the truth. Dont put yourself in his shoes. You arent misunderstanding him. He is not dating with the intentions you are. For example, Ive been around AA from a young age. How many men actually get sober? How many actually go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:20 PM
21

Wow. Watched like 6 of her vids. I agree with so much and she's such a strong woman to speak out like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:57 PM
77

🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:26 PM
7

Human design charts are pretty cool to look into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:25 PM
23

God forbid we disagree and have our own brain and want to chat about things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:19 PM
26

What kind of coward is he? Just not gunna go on dates to any new restaurants in case it's bad? If you have to teach him how to date, he might just be acquaintance material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:38 AM
17

Yup, goodbye! Its almost worth having a streamlined sort of process for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:25 PM
34

Omg what an idiot on the AITA post. God it's like they think we will take what they say as truth. Ew so sexist. Hope she names the baby, who's bones she grew herself inside of her. Mediocre men really just assume they own everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:45 PM
23

"Daddy issues?" He looked over his 2$ mug of beer at me, pausing a moment and grinning. A roar from the bar as their team got the touch down. Why is this man grinning? the audacity hung like a fart in church. From a man who never even goes to the regular doctor and hasnt cracked a book since high school (judging by the hairline 20 years ago)... accusing me of not working on my issues? what the fuh... He faded from view. Relieved, Lostmillenial opens her eyes to the sun coming through the curtain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:00 AM
7

Thanks for reminding me. Just set my fakie number up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:52 AM
15

This is horrible. RIP ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:44 AM
41

Sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:20 AM
75

Men and women are different! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:40 PM
365

I think even a pickme would find this guy challenging to put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:27 PM
94

Of course it was. The right man will wait and you will be happy you stuck to your guns. This guy just got tired of future faking you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:26 PM
6

Oooh this is intriguing and a good take! 👍 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:58 AM
8

Can we put this on a greeting card?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:38 AM
17

Love yourself! Go buy yourself a present! Or go to the thrift store and find a vase that appeals to you and then go pick yourself out some flowers! Be a good friend to yourself and trust the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:25 AM
12

Pedi - Baby Tate 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:53 AM
12

This was my ex's goal too. He wanted to quit his job for the winter and not even work part time (i suggested that to him) so he could not work and snowboard a bunch. He also had told me that one day he, " wouldnt mind being a stay at home dad." How he would do that with bills and a 350$ car payment is beyond me. But I knew I had to get him out of my house before he did jumped ship on his employment! Also too I should have recognized a pattern. His last ex, they were friends from work for years (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:06 PM
17

Women be doing some cost/benefit analysis over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:40 PM
18

Why hell on earth? Listen to your gut and be a brave lady. Promise if shit happens you'll act. Notice if he starts being weird. Know that they are fickle. He doesn't even have to know youre saving in case he starts developing a fascination with 20 year olds. And otherwise enjoy the ride!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:46 AM
24

They call it "drama" whenever someone tries to hold them accountable. Baby momma wondering why he's 3 hours late to get their kid, "oh she's starting drama". Call him out on the insta-ladies? Starting drama. Ask him where he was friday? He will say you are starting drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:40 AM
7

Wish it wouldn't make us bad people to seduce their family members while they are distracted by the porn... Turn their fantasies into nightmares! 😈 Ill give you a scenario, Jackson! You seem to like those 😉 Now, where did your brother run off to...? (Obviously /s) Was going to say, hope this lady realizes shes never going to get blood from that stone. But he's probably too limpy shrinpy to compare him to something so solid... 🤷 Can we rescue her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:24 AM
22

Even women who dont say it to the scrote's face... will probably say it to their friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:16 AM
30

"Childish" you just rang a bell on a memory for me, thanks! They must have a Scrote Manifesto... I bet it's a picture book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:15 AM
2

Ah the George Costanza method!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:11 AM
2

So based 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:10 AM
3

Right!!! hi fives 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:38 AM
4

🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:37 AM
11

These translations chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:14 AM
9

New life goals: make cuddly parrot friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:09 AM
16

🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:04 AM
56

And we arent clubbing anymore because now they are injecting us with substances when we walk by them because they can no longer roofie our beverages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:02 AM
10

If you aint in the bubble bath with half a joint and a good book, then where ya aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:00 AM
12

Ewww I hate them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:58 AM
61

Thousands he could've spent on therapy, wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:54 PM
9

Too funny, mine has showed 3 times as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:26 PM
23

Fine, we can be unlabled but my social calendar will be booked with men who arent you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:23 PM
14

"ThE sUcCeSs CoDe" 🤡 👶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:04 AM
5

Ahh this. This was the reassurance I needed today! cracks knuckles 🥳 Party's on scrotes! And we've got the head start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:00 AM
3

Can't wait to hear what she replies! Amazing detective work Nancy Drew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:39 AM
4

My heroines! You ladies rock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:37 AM
13

Cool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:39 AM
15

Hopefully they dont shut those surgeries down because covid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:37 AM
28

This! Ask again or go somewhere else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:37 AM
20

Youre right!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:04 AM
6

🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:06 AM
6

Yesssss! 🪄 🔮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:06 AM
7

Real life women do legit believe this. And about prostitution too. Which is so awful. I know a woman who believes we will "normal women" be raped if prostitution doesnt exist. Its so gross and wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:05 AM
18

Hey new besties!❤ 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:02 AM
5

Right!!!! Also, do you ❤ jiu jitsu?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:29 AM
101

Those are the Terms & Conditions right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:47 PM
160

But what about that sweet sweet struggle love?!?! /s Smdh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:04 PM
102

They included a lot of good info too lmao. They try to drag us but cant. One day there could be more of us than pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:04 PM
139

We are witches. It's mind blowing to them we stepped out of society's brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:03 PM
224

They really need to develop thicker skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:02 PM
141

So Im excited because the person who wrote the article included some really solid info out of the handbook. If people can get past the website glitches to read it... Despite trying to paint us in a bad light, I think ladies who really read it are going to have some bells going off in their head. Theres some high quality handbook info they basically copy-pasted into their article. I couldnt read the 2nd half when they interviewed whoever. It kept glitching back to the top of the page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:01 PM
11

Where the fuck am I gunna empty my menstrual cup and throw my tampons Forest Jesus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:14 PM
33

And that's enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:53 AM
20

Whatever it is they are useful for, i think the woman in question should decide. I was joking to myself that when it snows Ill put a silly "boyfriend application" pic post on fb as a joke. I dont wanna shovel this snow 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:51 AM
8

signs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:10 AM
17

She needs a better contract cause she's getting screwed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:11 PM
33

Yeah cause your loser ex knows you better than you know yourself? 🙄 He wasnt telling the truth, but it very much served him to gaslight you like that. He's not the god of your life. He doesnt fuckin know. Im glad youre rid of him. Hope you figure out what a great woman you are soon! Also, a lot of men never take us seriously. So no wonder. 🗑 Hope you find your power!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:28 PM
92

OooOooooOooooohhhhhhhh! 💀😵😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:01 AM
17

This is an AMAZING list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:25 AM
81

Your internal monolog will kick in and you will say to yourself, "wow, he wants me to validate this hard, and is really trying to be in the victim position here." Once you notice, it is impossible to unnotice. He wants you to agree he's the victim and I can guarantee the rest of your r ship will go that way as well. When my ex would do this my brain says, "oh so he wants to be the princess now" like when my ex would warn me we couldnt get too much chinese food. 🤑🙃🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:55 AM
33

Ugh its so pathetic. They contribute 0% to the project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:52 AM
33

Read and loved every word. Thank you for your perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:05 PM
61

Or if she's seen the light now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:17 PM
31

Totally this. He must have felt a little responsibility/guilt kick up and ia attempting to offload it some more. No one look at how he strung her along for 10 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:17 PM
18

🤣 🤣 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:15 PM
87

He's such a baby. He doesnt want to take any responsibility for any progression in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:15 PM
67

👏 👏 👏 this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:14 PM
12

Oh so he does care? Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:13 PM
101

"Porn normalizes everything that shouldnt exist in this world." 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:11 PM
15

He can say this. But if it bothered him he wouldnt continue to indulge. You want him to have good morals himself, not treat it like "oh i have to respect mommy's rules". And then in deeper convos you learn it was all lip service because he doesnt have deeper thoughts than what he thinks will make you happy to hear. When you press further on things you hear gems such as, "well it was consensual" and you are like Who the fuck is this guy Im seeing?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:12 AM
52

This was crazy to hear! Anyone else think he may just be backpedalling and covering his own ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:30 AM
21

He wants to be the victim so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:42 PM
8

And then these children wont all be able to be raised by her. That's okay with capitalism because it needs consumers and workers. Who is teaching the children if the parents cant spend enough time with them? The phones. Its crazy to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:26 PM
7

Also... everyone getting fired knew this was coming... why was he not prepared with a new job?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:16 PM
114

This! Still dont believe us? Just give it enough time and soon enough it will be the dark shit. It escalates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:44 PM
16

Love your perspective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:16 PM
6

Bring back sexual rooms of pleasure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:19 AM
14

They love to play the victim!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:40 AM
16

That gut instict swooping right in to save the day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:28 AM
44

And they dont go to the dr till they are dying of cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:25 AM
64

They think they are so clever going home by themselves! Clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:17 AM
1

Either way it takes time right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:04 AM
53

Oh my god, I hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:03 AM
4

Well there's Diabla!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:51 PM
99

Woohoo welcome aboard! Our society does it to all of us. It's cool we can see the truth now! The mindset shift sounds great on you! We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:48 PM
13

Love this. Im reading a book "to thine own self be true" and im at the part where he's examining people who Martyr and punish themselves. That eventually there isnt a point we reach where we have "suffered enough" and instead need to figure out how to "make it right" in ourselves for ourselves. We cannot keep being tormented. It makes you sick. That chapter reminded me of AA and making amends. Sometimes its living amends. But i always felt that somehow when my ex reminded me of things I had done…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:23 PM
37

They have way too much free time on their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:48 PM
9

So funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:40 AM
11

Yessss, so immature! Not worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:40 AM
20

BAAAAAAASSSSEEEEEEDDDD. That is a messed up situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:38 AM
60

Its like the 7 layers of men's bad habits. Dodge one and damn, here comes some extra misogyny. It really is hard for them to be impressive. There was a guy I was curious about I was watching. He eliminated himself after an early dinner we were both invited to, another kid at the table burped and he laughed. I was stunned. Eliminated. Whipped around to chat with the awesome woman beside me and ignore them. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:11 AM
25

You are right!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:05 PM
123

Yeah because then they dont have to improve, "at least I don't X like Shawn" and pat themselves on the back even though, let face it, there is so much more work he needs to do on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:02 PM
133

Omg. We need nanny cams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:43 PM
15

Hide your questionable photo albums too if you have them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:32 AM
37

The fact that this is happening proves things are unsafe. Can't believe people are trying to victim blame into not talking about it. People are so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:29 AM
27

God forbid this relationship not work on freaking mind reading 🙄 Even so. You could do the whole script right and he will have things to bitch about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:12 AM
53

Yikes. Its so rude to comment on peoples bodies like that! So crazy, like you broke an invisible rule by getting tattoos. Too weird!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:11 PM
339

"I didnt mean it that way" Oh yeah, since your put down backfired? 🤡 Congratulations on getting rid of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:09 PM
10

Where does their floss go then?! ...oh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:34 AM
5

Thank you very much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:05 AM
9

From the antipornogcraphy sub. This article: https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2020/12/pornhub-funders-include-cornell-university-report-reveals.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:09 PM
159

The baaaar? The baaaaarrr, where did it goooo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:29 AM
2

He looks like the Diabetus meme guy's evil brother. No WAIT he looks like Kalabar from Halloweentown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:16 AM
10

Yeah, talk about not being taken seriously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:11 AM
20

Someone being unable to control themself is a danger to themselves and others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:36 AM
20

Well Cornell was found to have donated tons of money to Mindgeek so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:34 AM
37

We can't let this happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:32 AM
6

Amazing. "Dominate yourself into some therapy" for real 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:32 PM
11

Wow. So sorry this happened to you! Its so disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:35 AM
24

Im definitely also a "getting my money back" bitch. Funny enough, my mother is like that often. My father on the other hand, can get his burger cooked wrong in the restaurant and not want to cause a scene. Ive always admired my mother's assertiveness but damn did it make her scary. And getting your money back is good "confrontation practice" with low stakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:31 AM
73

A man will tell himself whatever he needs to hear to make it "okay" in his brain 🤢🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:03 AM
74

Wow. Thanks for the gaslighting, Jack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:37 AM
3

Ohhh!! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:32 AM
22

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:17 AM
9

He thinks he took the break up hadder when he was the one out with strippers and she was begging him to stop. I certainly don't feel bad for him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:11 PM
3

Its prolly her grandma's heirloom ring too, not one he got her 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:38 PM
2

He needs to attach it to his pathetic ego. Ooh yeah your 1 tbsp sperm can "desecrate" her memory. They want so bad to be important. Yet another day of male delusional. It doesnt matter what you jerk it to Adam, still a pathetic guy wrestling his tiny mangled dick over another woman who would never willingly sleep with a loser like that. Like it is something to be proud of. Ahaha. They are so stupid and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:22 PM
1

The time they have when they arent out being employed. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:15 PM
26

Ahaha no wayyy! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:02 PM
67

Can we make this a banner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:30 AM
14

My ex showed me this show! I think you nailed it. Btw i read an article the treatment of Sophia Bush on set and it was disturbing. Mark Schwahn wanting the actresses to wear less clothes and such. https://people.com/tv/sophia-bush-one-tree-hill-mark-schwahn-alleged-sexual-harassment/ articles like that. That gross perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:33 AM
11

Link please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:23 AM
57

Prince charming 😍 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:04 AM
62

You would think it would make them more mentally fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:13 PM
39

Lolololololol oh my god that is so OP! Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:46 PM
14

Instead of doing things to improve his real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:45 PM
38

It isnt worth the worry any longer. And I love clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:41 PM
29

This is amazing. We love to see a man using the brains in his head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:39 PM
41

Calling this dude your boyfriend is not something to be proud of. Him and his porn will be very happy together. And you will be so relieved once he is gone. He clearly doesnt value you. Its sad and hurts to come to the truth. It's time to end the pain and act now. He's weak anyway. Isnt that unsexy? He wouldn't know what to do with that woman if she walked into his house because guess what? He doesnt know what to do with the woman in front of him right now. He's still like 14 furiously stroking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:38 PM
45

Can we give you a tv show?! Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:31 AM
6

Sounds like he's making excuses already. He has little boy vibes. A man knows how to kiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:14 AM
6

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:12 AM
73

Step back into yourself girl. Your life is nothing like his life. Your plan involves school. Remember that! Woah. You dont need him either. Get back into your own shoes. You are different people now. Looking him up isnt changing anything. Do you really want to repeat that story? Sometimes we have to do this to learn. Or his page will cease to capture your attention. He's not that special. Remember what's important and where you want life to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:59 AM
39

This sounds like a boring movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:54 AM
38

I wonder how long he just fucking thought about it while working up the nerve to ask you that?!?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:51 AM
24

Sober sister here. You can say, "oh Im taking a break from that this month." You can use the bonus word and tell him you are doing an alcohol detox. Tell him youre reading this amazing book anout it by X author. Study him for signs he's scoffing at detox or see if he suggests better. If that's what you want OP! Its your choice to vet more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:48 AM
23

Ew this is so weird!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:44 AM
41

Be prepared. Have a backup plan. Bonus points: now you arent desperate. Get a job a few hours on Saturday. Stand up for yourself. Plan life for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:42 AM
40

We could hire female bodyguards to come wait with us for delivery men. The furnace guy had to stop by last night. When the gas people were working on it the street, one guy hit on me so hard and there were mens shoes at my place. My dad knows him... okay. He's married and has a kid. That doesn't feel reassuring any more now that im pink pilled. It was okay. Only got a weird vibe once... I even caved and asked my ex to wait with me. I was nervous. He didnt come. (Thank god, my gut regretted it th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:39 AM
35

We can be more careful/tighten security!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:11 AM
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Or tits! My ex, "oh a clockwork orange you have to see it!" Later: "...oh i didnt remember that rape scene.... or that other rape scene" just sickening. Yeah, great movie 🙄 From these things he finds entertaining i can tell that to his young mind and all the things he told me he masturbated to when he was a teenager... those things he enjoyed in media had a lot of sexual connotations. And it wasnt entertaining and especially FUNNY to me. It was so weird to see the connections sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:09 AM
22

Lindsey Stirling tip: wait till after her Xmas show is done if you are gunna go see her if you are a fan of her dubstep stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 01:57 PM
85

Ultimate coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:49 AM
30

Wonder if he has any brothers..? 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:48 AM
166

While fapping anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:47 AM
27

Can we do clones yet science?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:47 AM
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I dont want to know what sort of hell she suffers when she feels sick. He seems useless and awful and rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:40 AM
35

Ballroom and latin dancer over here. Love it! A good instructor makes all the different too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:04 AM
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[TW: SA, MALE DEPRAVITY, FAKE LESBIAN BEST FRIENDS] Will share much as i can being a woman on the internet. He was almost 20 and i was a younger teen. My friends were on video chat platforms. I was too when i got a computer. I met him online. We will call him Spencer because that name makes me picture a scrawny pasty man. He was a few states away. We talked every day. I fell for him. We started flirting, writing letters, sending things. We visited each others hometowns. Had a lot of milestones t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:22 AM
2

May I ask why you opted for this procedure rather than the others? Considering my current options on this and would love to know. How did you feel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:20 AM
5

They wanted all the credit with no work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:19 AM
7

He has never googled vasectomy or even tried to find a youtube video to explain it in first-grade words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:18 AM
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Yeah my ex said it was too serious of a thing to ask... after living together for 2+ years, pictures on the wall, fam vacations together... Even though he didnt want kids 🤡 I was feeling desperate to get off the damn pills ive been on since I was a teenager and be in touch with my body again. Just one of the moments I realized that I was gaining distance from this man. He let me down. I took it for what it is. Ive decided I very much want control of my body for me, and that I never want to exper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:17 AM
8

🤣 dying. Omg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:55 AM
9

Not gunna Google this right now but may need this one day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:54 AM
11

Oh, so they acknowledge that its a problem afterall?! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:54 AM
23

Meanwhile they have like 1 hobby. If that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:08 AM
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Love these articles! Quality content lately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:55 AM
26

Omg look its my southern ultra conservative appearing prostate massage toy loving wawanking modelling pictures ex from 2015! So many problems with social anxiety 🙃 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:54 AM
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This picture may be triggering/shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 03:22 AM
72

Got a satisfyer and a new dildo. I named it Kyle. Kyle is so good to me 😍 The stupid company didnt wrap the toy cleaner though, and it was EVERYWHERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:00 AM
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And they wont get the blood draw for the STD test and just brave up. So forget about them getting tested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:48 PM
3

Glad you are taking care of yourself ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:42 PM
2

Also can(t) believe that he would let something happen to himself like that when he has smaller children at home to care for too. Wow. And no therapy either, shocker. Hope dad has the life he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:41 PM
1

And they love to use, "i have to work" as an excuse. Dude, you have a "real" job. Tell them you have an effing dr appointment. That's what the rest of us manage to do. Really just too lazy to put in for time off too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:38 PM
2

I was walking into the dr next to an early 20s (i hope) valet pushing a grandma in. We all go up the elevator. I make conversation with the older woman about checkups and try to be positive. I have to talk to him too. How are things going? He says something like, "just working here.." bla bla bla, "Yeah, I'm kind of like the joker..." oh a 🤡 then? So dumb. I know it impresses you Troy to picture yourself that way. But looks real pathetic over here. Get some therapy and a clue weirdo. I walked aw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:35 PM
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I did this. It was worth the fight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:48 AM
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But but I wanna go eat something delicious at the bistro 😪 Ugh though really I'm going to invite a new friend to go try a Korean BBQ with me. Shop and eat local, its good for the environment too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:45 AM
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I only felt at risk of suicide dating my LV ex ironically. Now I love myself and will concealed carry like I always was too scared to (because I had suicidal tendencies). Know thyself. There are always alternatives to guns. Get a flamethrower lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:40 AM
17

I wonder what percent are lazy and what are violent. 80%lazy 20% violent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:47 AM
40

"It's better to be a warrior in the garden than a gardener in a war." I have too much to do with my life and too much to lose. Only one of us is going to walk away. I've already made my decision in case that day comes. Ladies, jiu jitsu is amazing if you can find a good gym. Having a license to carry is also amazing. Personal alarms, ect. Learn a few joint locks. Learn how to drop your weight if someone grabs you. Know what to do so in an emergency you can coach yourself through it. I was in my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:43 AM
1

My ex would always talk about high school, being a kid, having no responsibility. Talking about quitting his (good, okay) job and snowboarding all winter. Peter Pan. We were discussing the night before I obtained my Restraining order. He had taken my phone and hid it, then when i found it, wrestled me to the ground and held me there by the hair. His version, "you were going crazy and I had to stop you!" My version = written down in a journal entry I wrote later after i obtained the RO. My journa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:41 AM
2

Sometimes his username will be the same as say, his xbox or steam username or something though you can pop in and try!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:32 AM
3

Yeah, trafficked women have sex with dogs in the porn they consume. And the porn makers tell the men the girls and women loved it and the men believe it because its convenient and they hate turning their brains on. It's horrible. They are so depraved. They are in super denial. We are having to constantly protect ourselves and our children from them and more and more their views are shifting the unacceptable to the acceptable in their porn fried minds. It's so troublesome. This is what the pickme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:24 AM
3

They're freaking life force vampires!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:18 AM
3

This! I've picked myself and also, Im my own mom now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:18 AM
6

This! And order what you enjoy and if you want to try a delish sounding appetizer, do that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:03 AM
3

I just imagine all the women falling for each other and him just being left alone in the room lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:03 AM
51

Good for you, I'd be disgusted too. 👏🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:52 AM
67

They do? That's so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:04 AM
29

True facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:03 AM
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If you are making concessions why are you even in this relationship?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:36 PM
2

You rock Pheonix! Straight up right to PI mode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:31 PM
17

He def should have reached self actualization by now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:30 PM
50

Woman over here doing just that. I ordered a few things online that look ~super fun~. Steering clear of any horizontal mambo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:55 AM
31

Savage 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:52 AM
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Flawless logic. I bet he died right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:51 AM
5

And then he will know that you are not the type of girl to fuck with. Especially if he is the coward variety scrote. With that type, they arent brave enough to continue to be a bother after police involvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:50 PM
7

Yes. He's doing it to intimidate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:48 PM
27

It's always good to have a little dirt on him in your back pocket just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:46 PM
25

Sounds like the stupidest power move in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:33 AM
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He doesnt understand what women actually look like. He's a beady little thing anyway. Braces cant fix your lack of brain little scrotey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:37 PM
8

Wow. That's a lot of unfortunate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:35 PM
31

Lol they said the meeting would have brownies! We <3 modernmedusa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:43 PM
7

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:07 AM
15

You're my hero ❤ Lol amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:14 PM
16

We love to see it 😎 I bet you feel light as air! We are not free assistants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:13 PM
13

That is so so so so disgusting. You were lucky to know the truth though. How is his dick still attached? Unprotected with a SW?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:34 AM
6

This is the mentality of the guy you find out had been screwing other people only because you've had to go the Dr for a concerning lady problem. Holy crap. What else will he hide? He has some serious moral deficiencies if that is the logic his brain comes up with. My conservative ex from years ago who was from the South hid these crazy butt plugs and dildos from me along with masturbation pics he had taken of himself... and that's just stuff he did on his own. Who knows what else he was freaking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:33 AM
9

Tell her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:28 AM
14

It's a race to the bottom! 🚗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:24 AM
9

Thanks for the based visual 🤣 And thanks to Electroloop for cold hard facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:23 AM
40

And she's going to have a bomb story to tell afterward about she was almost chained to a disgusting dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:49 AM
20

If it feels too intimate for you to do that with him, honor yourself! Maybe if you get more serioys the 2 of you can do it together. It's great how honest you are with yourself when you say itll make you think he's your bf... I totally get that! If that's the case, wait to do that with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:50 AM
39

Oh yikes yuck. Thanks for profiling yet another type of guy to watch out for! Makes total sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:47 AM
42

Ladies, we need to know self defense! If this happens to me in public I'm going for his blood. How ridiculous. People are such cowards and disgusting voyeurs. The corruption is making its way further and further...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:54 AM
18

It's amazing you did this! So brave! Keep it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:39 AM
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I worked a wedding this weekend. The groom seemed meh about kissing his new bride and all the groomsmen got ridiculously OBNOXIOUSLY drunk. Some of the guests were watching the ball game at the tables 🤡 It's amazing how hard I was listening to the vows. Crazy the things you see with your eyes open! So glad to be on this side of pickmeism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:26 AM
20

Right! Way more toxic to attempt to force yourself to date someone you are incompatible with! There's someone for everyone. Porny minds can go date each other. There's a YouTuber Peter Santenello and he films other cultures and he appears to be an awesome (HV) guy. In one of his videos he discusses with a Mennonite his age how he doesn't watch porn and the other man discusses it with him as he is porn free too. It was impressive and thrilling. I'm happy men are coming around. It gave me hope as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:15 AM
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I didnt sign any contract, so no, someone forward the scrote the memo I'm not obligated. He can kick rocks. Miss me with that bullshit. My time is all mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:40 AM
77

It reeks of "playing the victim" and "wahhh my ex hurt me so bad so now I'll never trust anyone".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:34 AM
15

This last sentence... wow! Blown away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:13 AM
11

When I was still trying to make it work eith LV ex this is what I'd tell myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:00 AM
41

Prolly yet expecting you to suck his pepe or something 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:55 AM
75

I also hate when strangers mention how hot I am. It is immediately objectifying and strange 🤔 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:35 PM
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He is like... wayyy too encouraging. It reads as overly supportive and fake and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:28 PM
2

They expect you to jump in and coddle them and, "thats okay we can get through this together" while they bread crumb you and do whatever they wanted anyway. They dont want an equal partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:29 PM
5

If he wanted to he would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:24 PM
4

Yeah, he doesn't want to move forward and will make it so hard for you. They talk a great game to attempt to keep the situation the same though! The whole kids and family thing could be future faking. Set yourself a mental timeline. No more marriage pressure. Yes you can find marriage but you wont find it with him. He's dumb to not want to be married. Married men are the happiest and live the longest. Its insulting at this point he doesnt want to marry you. Time to mentally detach. They are so f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:16 PM
1

This last line is my physical preference. I dont like when guys are wayyy taller than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:07 PM
8

Look over some of my posts and replies I recieved. Same situation I just dealt with. You can start small or full on kick him out. Does he know you arent happy with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:40 AM
10

THIS. my ex was telling me what he's been up to when he picked up the cat for the vet. He and his old high school friends went to Applebee's and his friends were apparently discussing and gesturing at the waitress and asking each other, "would you fuck her?" Loudly and whatever. I didn't even bother to ask what he responded to them as Im damn sure he's a coward and didnt tell them it was inappropriate because he is a coward and lame and wants their acceptance even though they are dustys. Gee my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:38 AM
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STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM. Let her figure out how to deal with it! Maybe she's seen other signs and telling would be helping! Let his actions have some consequences. It is cowardly to not speak up. It is worth it to speak up. Wouldnt you want someone to tell you if it was YOUR husband being sneaky? If you are afraid she is a pickme and will cuss you out, WHATEVER dont be a wuss. Be the stronger woman. Be a good example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:10 AM
16

Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:11 PM
37

Is this The Onion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:17 AM
16

200k here we come! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:34 AM
6

Right? Either option the guy should be excited to talk to her regardless. But nope, he doesn't wanna make her life a little easier, even though it's her attention he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:36 PM
2

Thank you for your analysis. I don't waste my time on male gaze media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:32 PM
3

Here for these analysies! So funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:47 PM
5

Yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:34 PM
54

Love to think about this 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:22 AM
6

Sometimes you can search them in Facebook too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:54 AM
28

Moving in silence 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:34 AM
36

kickhimout2021 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:23 AM
8

And then the next date you can go to the laundromat together ❤ /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:51 AM
2

Ewewewew I'm allergic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:49 AM
6

I feel like this guy has "former coke addict sober 6 months" energy. Sir, we dont need to be this caffeinated! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:48 AM
4

Yeah he made the "No" really easy. Wonder when they will figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:47 AM
4

This is satisfyingly gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:45 AM
7

I would believe some men would want to pretend and sit in the wheelchair 24/7 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:40 AM
21

Yeah if he can't elaborate he's going off his pipi feefees. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:27 AM
20

What does "loyal" mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:26 AM
59

He has "ramen noodles cooked with no seasoning packet" energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:25 AM
16

Amazing. So proud of you. Loving the breakthrough moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:16 AM
25

This reminds me of my ex. Said he truly deeply loves me and will miss me.... was willing to lose the entire relationship and place to live and lose me by not being willing to go to therapist with me. So much for all that love 🤡 Never settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:14 AM
102

He doth protest too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:13 PM
5

Tell her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:01 PM
6

Pure facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:32 AM
69

Tell her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:25 AM
36

She could have been assaulted by a previous suitor and confided it in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:59 PM
88

You don't fuck around, do you? Here for this energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:59 PM
25

I wish I could tattoo this on my arm to read all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:47 PM
19

NEED because they are addicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:05 AM
29

🌈 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:50 AM
13

This post is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:41 AM
307

This level of effort he just cannot fathom willingly putting in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:39 PM
33

When i asked my ex if he was saving for a ring, he blew up that I was "in his money" oh how dare I. You've only been in love with me since I was in my teens but okay 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:45 PM
37

Find their linked in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:40 PM
21

As soon as he arrived home i feel so tired and cant stop yawning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:34 PM
17

Yup. Nope. You did it right. They suck and insulting you "oh you think youre so perfect" is him getting bitchybexause you did it right. He just showed how nasty he is. Who cares if you think youre perfect. Dont let that "insult" distact you from the fact that they are LV and showing their shitty defensive bitchy attitudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:11 AM
2

Yeah as if the porn on twitter wasnt enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:56 AM
17

"It's a joke" 🔪 🤡 Terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:53 AM
8

We can build sentry towers! and have a moat filled wirh snakes (some venomous)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:51 AM
29

Zero hobbies/skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:46 AM
57

It's an upvote everything type of day today here at FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:32 AM
59

This made me lol and wtf and lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:22 AM
96

They are so unoriginal and have no imagination. They have to be told what to fantasize about. Limp dicked zombies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:11 PM
154

And then he slips telling on himself in there too, but it was only a little teenie weensy lil bit of human trafficking and rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:10 PM
22

Ohhhhh! Good thinking! Yeah makes sense on the name blocking yes. Didn't realize youd picked from his collection, just thought he likes to obscure their faces lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:59 PM
23

A professional gaslighting scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:43 PM
86

They dont have faces... not really! He's obscuring him. What weird porn is this. I would think some photographers are more porn-gazed than others.this time it shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:42 PM
6

Then be triangulated by his ex wife when you attempt to do anything with the kids. My mom divorced her 2nd husband because of the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:49 PM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:48 PM
3

What's being a nany to 4 kids pay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:47 PM
3

Those McDonald's coupons they stick in your mailbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:46 PM
73

His brain is so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:37 PM
122

Prepare the welcome gift bag for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:01 PM
14

Explains it so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:00 PM
241

trying new things His poor wife. Is she a "thing" too? Yeah sure, sex with strangers, but not skydiving parachutless huh Charles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:36 PM
19

When I wanted to talk about degeneracy or morals and brought up like only fans or whatevs, he used to be like, "for someone who doesnt want me to do stuff like that that you sure mention it a lot." Like a threat to JO to OnlyFans girls because I dared say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:35 PM
23

They enjoy feeling superior hyrr hurr without realizing we are the wrong audience for their "humor". Dump racists and antisemites so fast. "Im not racist, im friends with Chris and he's black." 😤 Thank god we can walk away from that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:15 PM
16

Go die in a cave BiOl0gY Scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:35 PM
10

One of us, one of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:45 PM
218

He's screamed, "what are you, bipolar? Schizophrenic or something?!" I was like, "Says the guy who just punched the stove. I'd never tell you anyway."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:51 PM
38

Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:07 PM
44

Cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:39 AM
42

The cost benefit analysis really resonates with me as something to remember!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:25 AM
2

Life: year 4 of sobriety is absolutely insane. Just like my sponsor said. Manbaby ex is prolly going to go live in his dads gfs basement he told me. When I'm nice he thinks we are fixing things. Too bad so sad. He's watching the pets while we are on vacation. Business ex capitalism fanboy has been popping up here and there every couple months. We chat, how's the fam, how's life etc, I ask him business questions, and then we dont talk for month. Was telling him about the airbnb I had reserved for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:31 AM
2

I would definitely worry more about HIV if this was me and a man told me this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:04 AM
2

This. He sounds like he's attempting to rush things and I wonder what else he reacts to poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:03 AM
24

Are you me? Congratulations!! Enjoy being able to live your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:37 PM
34

They got shit attitudes. It's repulsive. A short guy with a sense of humor is such a cutie if he is comfortable with himself. Example: this cute barbershop owner I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:45 AM
8

Girlsinc.org is a great one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:43 AM
30

Admiring your actions so hard! He sounds like a straight up problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:43 AM
16

But then when you expect him to do something for you it is "after everything i do for you?! How dare you you ungrateful..." When he isnt holding up his end of things/ or trying to make it equitable. Once the illusion dies, you just feel like a squeezed sponge."Oh great, I'm paying for the hotel for my bday getaway again. Hope he gets meals..." Not taken care of. Yet, we are supposed to shake it off and sacrifice and suffer through it for ~reasons~ Once you think about how you look, picture your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:42 AM
31

Because they can achieve everything else. "WHY CAN'T I ACHIEVE FIXING HIM?!" It's a huge challenge on top of societal conditioning and culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:36 AM
21

Too bad you cant find a new bf for her. When i was thinking about how to get rid of an ex, I was like, "could I hire some pretty new girl to come distract him from me so he will fall for her and not want to date me anymore?" Like, could you meet and vet guys through a similar church (same denom a few towns over) and make friends with them and have a bbq and invite them all? Lmao strategy. I grew up in a small town, this may be a bit sketchier in a city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:32 AM
11

Feeling so important and handbook worthy. I feel like this advice will help my life. Thank you OP! 🤷‍♂️✂️ 🤦‍♀️🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:27 AM
20

Being a person who has very big emotions, sometimes we need to take a moment to wallow. If we grew up in houses where our emotions were bad, it sucks to fight the emotions and yourself and live out whatever situation youre in. In a situation where you are worried, let yourself feel the big emotion. Give yourself however many minutes. I say, "3 to feel it then we will decide to get out of the car and be brave." It has helped so much to give myself that emotional space. I didnt have that growing u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:21 AM
28

Totally! You can want it, and not let yourself trash your standards and boundaries. Remember it can end at any time. Operate like youre a secret agent in your own life and you may have to abort mission and assume a new identity. Be ready to drop everything and run. Life doesnt stay boring for long. Even if we try to force the relationship we will experience straight up agony lying to ourselves. Thats no way to live! Save yourself the attachment. Do future you a solid and watch this man. It's oka…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:17 AM
16

YIKES ON TRIKES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:11 AM
22

I would be impressed if a man made me something. I love the effort it takes. So sexy! Like if he wood carved me an animal, or made me a little bookshelf. Or something to hold my incense. This guy is acting so thoughtful! That's what we like to see, men with brain power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:11 AM
52

Yes it is important we carry the message! You dont have to go full on radfem style with them, but if you notice her partner do something rude, you can mention it to her or discuss relationships in shows you watch. I do this with my siblings. It depends how open their minds are. Obviously, keep it on the down low around mixed company. Wouldnt want an incel to take an interest in you. It's your life. Know when to be quiet and when to be brave. And people will see your changed behavior and respect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:07 AM
198

This explains the coercion we feel and experience so perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:02 AM
26

As a person having to remove another person from my life and house, this resonates so strongly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:38 PM
30

This is so brutal 🥰😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:39 AM
45

You are so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:17 AM
17

Phexxi would be a game changer. Sucks it is so expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:16 AM
205

Nope, we dont cave to perverts. He's talking about his penis in a non-medical setting. I think most women would be shocked and find it vulgar this man wants to talk about his penis. They aren't close friends. This is boundary breaking and he's attempting to gaslight. Acting offended because how dare you criticize art. Wow. Attempting the moral high ground. Nope. It's not like that, buddy. It's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:40 AM
109

This guy is not her family. Wow. This is a bad situation. Its sad the alarm bells weren't set off 3 kids ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:36 AM
7

Hehehehe! Yesssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:35 AM
19

What an absolute gem. I hope this guy is living by himself in the bottom of a ravine somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:24 PM
5

Ooooh sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:08 PM
48

I Looooved when my ex would get passive aggressive so I could throw "bitchy" at him. Because he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:51 PM
9

Ooh so fancy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:57 PM
12

AnyManThatBreathes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:56 PM
15

Lmao, definitelyyou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:56 PM
112

I love it when they call us ungrateful 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:15 PM
12

Love hearing about your happy relationship and seeing a good example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:06 PM
12

If im talking about a scenario where I'm going to sell my body, it'll be for a LOT more than a nice meal. So, the expectation is fucking delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:31 PM
11

When I dont cum I like to really get into tidying the house before he goes to work the next morning, like Im getting ready for company 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:27 PM
106

Delusional Sir, no one wants to listen to the dream you had last night. NO ONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:25 PM
20

When i did more pickme things, this is one of the gross parts. Id have to look for stuff that looked like boyfriend girlfriend stuff. The men were just disgusting most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:22 PM
16

Yes this is awesome. Straight facts. No more miss nice lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:12 PM
23

This is true. Ask me how I know! Learn from my mistakes. Your freedom is priceless. Your ability to do what you want and need to do with your free time is priceless. It can take down your entire future. Want to sit down and make business drafts in the evening? Guess what, he only has one hobby and 20 mins later he's twiddling his thumbs upset because he's bored. Except, when the fuck are you supposed to attempt to do your own stuff because he's always there. And you have to work 2 jobs and its 5…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:05 PM
21

I feel like, astonished that this man is so dumb. Like, we let this guy walk around and keep a job? What has happened to the other 50% of the population?! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:56 PM
32

And then you have to dodge this guy, your roommate, attempting to fuck you. Miss me with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:54 PM
9

This is so true but hella repulsive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:41 PM
7

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:40 PM
30

Oh my god. I drive by bars on the way to work and just think of hiw crazy it was we used to go there on purpose? With the state of mixed-sex interactions these days. I would never step foot in one. I really feel for the young ladies who havent gotten the FDS message yet. Bars seem so unsafe these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:39 PM
15

We are brainwashed by society to be so giving because we "love" Scrotey. And the truth is hard to look at at first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:34 PM
20

Groceries is like the hugest expense of life with a LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:33 PM
7

Luckily women are waking up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:33 PM
37

They really shoot themselves in the foot by not working on their own mental capacities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:27 PM
22

Im using this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:54 PM
26

Lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:50 PM
377

I love this "you too" movement to call out the bullshittery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:28 PM
80

When you move in, magically all your time becomes his somehow. ?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!! Everything he does needs a parade, and though you spent 3 hours on cleaning the kitchen on your day off, the fact that you are painting when he comes home means you fucked up and are lazy and immature. Please dont end up like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:38 PM
43

Same! Pew-pew 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:41 AM
60

Exactly. What a twerp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:39 AM
7

Love to see it! 🍻 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:26 PM
2

It happens. Start again! Our stories arent perfect. So proud of you for working so hard to be sober !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:59 PM
1

And when you share tiktoks make sure it isn't connecting to your personal tiktok account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:36 PM
8

Yess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:28 PM
14

They think every little thing they do for us means so much. Barf. Watch out for when she needs him to step up more. Watch how "ungrateful" she becomes for "all he does for her".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:00 PM
10

It didnt look pretty enough to be like 20$... if that was set in front of me I'd side eye the waiter and feel ripped off. There's a way to make it pretty. It just doesnt look good. I had a gorgeous mac and cheese the other day. It was in a bowl topped with bread crumbs. This just looks yucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:58 PM
20

I just took myself to dinner alone at my favorite restaurant. I ordered myself every thing i wanted off the menu, and took the rest home. It was glorious. I was so happy. Would recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:56 PM
25

They need to read a goddamn book or google an anatomy diagram. There are no loose vaginas only tiny shrimps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:47 PM
27

Right, its gotta fit nicely inside us. This helps us cum... How can it not matter to us? Instead of finding a girl who will appreciate your dick, they wanna whine about it. Just STFU scrote, ladies don't wanna sleep with complainers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:46 PM
23

We always win, ladies. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:43 PM
26

THISSSSSS. Also see how far around your fingers go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:42 PM
23

I bet he's a guy who isn't able to even make simple decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:19 PM
1

JUST. KEEP. SWIMMING! 🐟 🐠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:54 PM
1

Omg this visual 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:53 PM
1

Yes yes ladies, voice record what he says to you, it's especially eady and a no brainer if you live in a place that doesnt need the other parties consent for you to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:51 PM
1

It's INSANE some dudes have gotten this broken. Looking over this thread it's kinda crazy this is the stuff we see all the time. Women really don't do this type of shit. So many women are so normal but victims of the twisted sexuality of men. Women don't do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:49 PM
1

And gives them time to think up their excuses as to why its okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:44 PM
1

If my partner slapped me in public, I'd leave him right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:42 PM
1

Must be nice, huh? Now evil men can dust their hands off, kick back, and let the handmaidens do their work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:41 PM
1

She will have a great time buying home cameras, and buying a new car so he doesnt know what she drives, and making sure hes not waiting in the parking lot at her work. Shes going to have to be very strong to leave him and stick to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:40 PM
1

There is no way this trajectory is going to end well.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:38 PM
1

FDS makes you so good at spotting other peoples' shitty relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:34 PM
2

Are videos of people dying illegal? Im not sure where they draw the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:33 PM
1

THIS. SAFE DUMPING STRATEGIES. Plus if its something silly like the socks transitioning to a story about his lack of effort, I feel like he will have a less volitile reaction as well. He's a sicko. I remember one guy, I couldn't have a good enough reason till he made a racist comment and I was like, "omg bingo finally"! And that was my out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:33 PM
2

Society grooms our ladies right to the slaughterhouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:24 PM
68

THIS AND THEN THEY WON'T LEAVE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:48 AM
31

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:37 AM
89

You let yourself accept you did your best. That's what you thought love was. We all have a rock bottom. Also it's a bit like coming out of the matrix since society brainwashes women to give give give! It's not to your benefit to beat yourself up. You finally escaped! Be a good example for other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:36 AM
10

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:57 PM
8

Yay! PLOT TWIST: I wax my underarms and LOVE it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:18 PM
655

Yep he's just saying whatever. He sucks for wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:43 PM
20

I just feel like these so much potential for this stranger to like push you into the bushes and hurt you on a walk date. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:15 PM
10

Lmao. Like versus getting to experience some delish meal in a nice spot? Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:14 PM
15

The universe coming the eff through for you! Stick with us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:13 PM
39

"Keep one as a pet" lololol pinkpilled. Love it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:07 PM
91

When i get back into the dating world... If i date men. The only preference he should have is whether or not he cant reach it to eat it. Anyone who wants it shaved off is going to get questioned/roasted if i feel their likes are pedophilic. Body hair is normal. Women grow armpit hair too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:40 PM
34

Lolol didnt know you can block the care team!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:45 AM
7

Looking for a man who has balls. Yes, me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:28 PM
6

Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:25 PM
9

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:54 PM
6

You are so right sister! They dont have to hang out with us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:14 PM
3

Yes. My ex bf who wanted to monopolize and enjoy my company ALL the time, asked me this. Like, why dont you tell me, youre the one who always wants to be around me? Not to get started on the fucking advice/emotional labor and reassurance therapist, basically being his human fucking dictionary, having delicious meals in my rotation. Save him so much on rent. The nurturing to be able to care for offspring and teach them, ect ect. Youre so bored without me. And I took 5050 or whatevs. What do I bri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:08 PM
8

I def think it helps bridge the gap between the "normal" pickmes and those who have been FDS for a while. But good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:33 PM
11

chants Get better or die alone, get better or die alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:11 PM
3

I like your strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:16 PM
10

Good men dont do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:13 PM
7

It's like he would bately have to save for a few months to get her the thing she wants. Instead, he just wants to give himself more problems then blame her. Typical loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:12 PM
26

Their minds are blown when we dont follow the script. They have no idea what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:53 PM
18

They just overall hate when we dare have a challenging opinion/speak. Dude number 2 sounds like he is attempting to emotionally coddle dude 1 which is too funny. A lot of their arguments arent using their brain its just whatever they are parroting back. Luckily we can always connect problems in our society to capitalism and the patriarchy and it makes the argument make much more sense. Except then they get mad and have to end the convo for other reasons. They hate debating women. Good for you st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:52 PM
17

Wouldnt be able to make food in a house like this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:48 PM
13

I thought my ex would be nicer to me when he shaved his face on account of the lost hotness points. Nope. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:37 PM
12

It should be very easy to leave him with how little he cares for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:32 PM
9

Thought the dynamics in Zoeys Extraordinary Playlist were great! ( a little messy, but yes HVM)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:26 PM
1

Isnt he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:01 PM
27

Maybe be around when he checks his mail and monitor volume/types of offers he gets? Who is advertising to him? Also, is there a way to check his credit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:19 PM
2

Pretty sure this is reflected in divorce statistics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:02 PM
2

Phoenix you are so fucking blunt 😎 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:59 PM
80

Oh yikes gross. Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:34 PM
69

Oh my god! Yikes. It sucks that a man did that to you! Thats awful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:34 PM
587

What shocks me is he's the only one who wouldn't freak me out if i saw him on the street, from his eyes. I'm shocked, he almost looks like a normal grandpa. But wow. They're all gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:41 PM
15

I needed this. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:25 AM
9

She's prolly fat to scare away the scrotes. Its strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:09 PM
11

Yeah my attention span is short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:08 PM
3

And then we take our rapist to court and the porn addled jury thinks we wanted it. Effing fantastic. /s Thanks society! Thanks patriarchy! /s 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:06 PM
2

Nice one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:04 PM
5

You rock! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:00 PM
6

This is some hard-core strategy. But it might save her ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:57 PM
6

Post discovery of FDS you realize you don't love him and it's a gross trauma bond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:55 PM
9

When im single I save so much on groceries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:51 PM
15

How romantic /s Glad you escaped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:50 PM
12

Even when he is acting generous, with a 5050 man it has a cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:50 PM
3

Touche!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:46 PM
7

I love how this second statement also sounds kinda ridiculous but its 100%true. If you dont laugh you cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:46 PM
3

Gold 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:43 PM
3

Definitely have this flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:42 PM
3

Follow this advice! NEVER MOVE YOUR BF IN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:42 PM
4

I feel like all my r ship problems boil down to this. I'm TOO HUMAN ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:41 PM
3

Some man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:38 PM
1

This is true. I wanted mine to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:31 PM
19

Her post goes like, "FML was oogled by old soggy guy wearing a wedding band at my shitty job today".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:01 PM
35

Oh dear god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:59 PM
20

Totally direct proof we need to do something. This isnt normal and is hurting our children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:16 PM
1

Right. Like how things would be just gravy if we were to shut up and just be the girlfriend and not have any grievances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:42 PM
56

Thats funny. Thats a trait I would detest about a dude. Oh well, she can have him! Please keep him over there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:17 PM
79

I dated one for a couple months I had originally had a crush on... That kept talking about this "gnome" video where this poor girl.... well. He could NOT shut up about wanting to show me her butt hole torture, when I asked him why he thought I would want to see that... He didnt care and insisted he NEEDED to show me. He had a booty hole obsession, wanted to spit into my vag, could not wait till he got my permission to ask his best friend (also his roommate) and gf to sleep with us .... it was th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:55 PM
54

Ewwww wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:23 PM
9

Damsel in Defense Pick yourself up something pretty! I saw this on the clock app. Expense is not an excuse ladies! Figure out how to get whatever you feel will help you be safe. Your safety is important in this world. I pray all my sisters find jiu jitsu, karate, judo, boxing, find those things in your mouth and at the ends of your fingers. Find a RAD (Rape Aggression Defense) class. Find the spice cabinet, have a smoke and do your hair, and be a little metal. Head down to the range. Learn about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:39 AM
1

Sadly this post doesnt have a picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:37 AM
92

This is why women need to know FDS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:30 AM
162

This is who he is. Great! He's racist! Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:30 AM
3

There is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:36 PM
5

I wanna get this as a shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:29 PM
3

Wakanda Wuh kahn duh What kind of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:28 PM
7

I thought at first he was lying to her and was like 40
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:26 PM
58

Spreadsheet incels... could be a song 🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:02 PM
11

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:17 PM
7

THIS. He must want to remind her how small it is. Cause that's what it sounds like. It also does sound like coercion into anal. Arent diseases spread more easily during anal too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:07 PM
11

I begin by asking him if he realizes what he's saying. It's not your problem he has a little dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:05 PM
3

Does she comment on his stuff maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:02 PM
22

Here usually at least twice a day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:37 PM
23

I love how you pointed out cheating requires initiative. Interesting way to frame loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:31 AM
37

I just recieved a 3am "yo wyd" txt at 3:49 am from an ex from 2013. Such a "professional guy" yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:22 AM
20

Men? What men? 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:21 AM
6

Username is mint. Anger is absolutely understandable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:20 AM
20

Following because same. An admin was attempting to add me in too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:48 PM
102

Men who will get vasectomies are so attractive (as a woman who wants to put down the damn birth control pills)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:27 PM
42

Hot off the presses and loving it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:03 PM
4

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:19 PM
25

Bf said on the way home he was listening to Joe Rogan podcast. Driving at night a car with high beams was coming at us. He said something at them like "hey watch it sweetheart" I was like, "how did you know that driver was a girl? That's a little sexist." HE GOT SOMAD. He HATES when i bring up stuff like that. That I "make a problem" by even commenting that he did that. That wasnt even like any sort of real big complaint. But he got SO DEFENSIVE. Im "ruining the relationship" with my feminist st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:46 PM
17

Happy you got free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:21 PM
10

Its time to get our mental chess board out ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:17 PM
7

So proud of you for doing the brave thing anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:06 PM
3

True dat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:04 PM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:04 PM
7

Ewww i hate cowardly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:00 PM
17

What pathetic victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:46 PM
99

They want to avoid the manipulation that comes after a LVM buys them dinner. The coercion for sex ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:44 PM
37

Runnnnn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:33 PM
9

Zero brain cells or creativity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:14 PM
2

Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:15 PM
7

Ewww you can practically hear it in his voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:08 PM
42

He's not thinking about her safety, he's thinking about his shrimp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:56 PM
18

He could invite you to go see a live band in a genre you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:55 PM
38

It was like yesterday we saw that article about that girl who's date left her while hiking to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:54 PM
12

Going fast in your 100k porche was fun when I was 21. Nowadays... its all about that personality, values, and generosity. I used to go 5050 with porche guy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:49 PM
12

We can use it to point out to women ways they can change their behavior if they go through the same situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:53 PM
24

Grossss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:42 PM
69

Incredible. Almost like they are humans with rights and autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:39 PM
45

And placing women in a position to aquire more trauma and risk a pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:37 PM
6

Love this insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:29 PM
79

Nothing good comes from a man who does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:05 PM
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