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DISCUSSIONSupremeDearLeader/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:12 PM
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Cry when rent is due that you're " too stressed " to have any money and then watch videos of people getting hurt all day to "relieve " all that stress of not having a job .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:20 PM
229

Projection. Men try to punch waaaay above their weight class and when exposed to be LVM they squeal like pigs about their victim being " crazy". [ no offense to actual adorable pigs ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:46 PM
352

Triangulation. Huge red flag. Harem builders should be shunned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:39 PM
63

This. Also remember His disrespect IS your closure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:33 PM
16

Keep fighting the good fight !!! Am from state run orphanage placed into abusive shitty " family" , ran away at 15 and worked 2 jobs/ graveyard to put myself through school . In my dreams I always hoped someone would love me enough to rescue me but It never happened, instead my dream of being in a loving family was used as a future fake by manipulative LVM instead. Thank God I found FDS , was able to throw off the last chains of scrote oppression. Onwards and upwards!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:22 PM
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Congrats to you both !!! Goals :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:24 PM
13

Waiting and watching is best strategy. Most men you'll don't meet deserve access to a woman's body, ask yourself how many men have been disappointing in your life ......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:09 PM
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Word. My roommate back in college lived in PR her whole life , she definitely did not " enjoy" the sexist domestic violence culture there, poster sounds like she never left her safe little western bubble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:52 PM
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Only if it's " muh college days ". Drugs dull your mind , a HVM does not have a dull mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:35 PM
332

My kink is kinkshaming .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:42 AM
63

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:13 PM
70

The sexual harassment I have endured while trying to expand my life in all areas has been off the charts. There is always some gross scrote looking to gatekeep a woman from being independent, achieving, being happy and even just looking happy triggers scrotes to approach and oppress. Onwards and upwards ,never give up the fight ladies !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:32 PM
12

Oh sexy broke lyft driver, pleeeese let me watch your kids by another woman for free in hopes you'll bang me in the back of your filthy public car , maybe if I swallow you'll reward me with a big Mac!!!--
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:15 PM
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Great post , my short answer is horniness ...am experiencing this exact situation r n, a stranger complimented me at the gym, I only non verbally gave a thumbs up and next thing I know he's waiting for me the next day, and the next day following me around , dressed up in a suit waiting for me . I'm so disgusted by how thirsties completely objectify us as just pretty doll objects and then try to unnaturally force themselves on us while they are complete strangers. My safety matters 100% more than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:57 AM
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I'm so sorry 🤗 that vile feeling of being used emotionally and financially like a mother stays a looong time too, like looking down a sewer .... my story is almost identical to yours , I learned a lot about covert/vulnerable narcissism after that , they use people like vampires draining us of time/ resources and have a poor me excuse to cover for, manipulate and prey on their victims . My biggest fear is that it will happen to me again but the more we see the red flags earlier, the earlier we ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 01:01 AM
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Oh cool, criminals need to be coddled by their victims ...got it 🖕 Now for real advice. Go incognito, collect evidence, get your ducks in a row , find a safe house , file and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:31 PM
346

Men are visual...Awesome, see that gross pile of dirty clothes on the floor blocking your doorway ? Do the laundry ahole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:53 AM
3

Some " friends" just can't be happy for others because they are miserable inside. Avoid these types, trauma bonding is not friendship [misery loves company.]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:16 AM
50

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:13 AM
50

Same. In the closet seems very likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:12 AM
67

Haha just commented that ....very sus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:11 AM
188

I wouldn't be surprised if his search history shows a lil man on man action .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:10 AM
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Mantrum 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:40 PM
25

Agreed. And I'm tired of being PC and pretending it's not completely offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:38 PM
12

Oh wow, you said profound things here that deserve it's own post . I struggle every day being a woman, in a very feminine body , I work out to stay strong/healthy for my children and my safety but the outcome is " conventional attractiveness" . I have to wear baggy clothes to run errands. Just wanting to be seen for the real person I am but men commenting on my body my looks is a constant 1 step forward 2 steps back fact of life , it does not feel like and never has been [ was sexually assaulted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:35 PM
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Going through it right now , I get hit on more now by all ages/races than I ever did in my 20's , we do not " hit the wall " we get better ! Now men on the other hand ........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:55 PM
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Very good point ! My adoptive father [ LVM] never wanted me because I was a girl and would pout that he had nobody to " spend time with " , he made it very clear that girls were second class and not worth teaching anything to either. Even when I tested into gifted that didn't change his mind. [ He's onto his 5th wife , went NC 20 years ago ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:06 PM
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It's gross. Being a woman is so much a deep experience : the awful pms/ period pain, fear of bleeding on your clothes, knowing that you could be raped by a friend/ family/ stranger, just walking to your car and having a small weapon in case we're attacked, constant fear of pregnancy, the sacrifice of your life and body to be a mother, the sexual comments/ abuse by narcissist men , being devalued in the workplace and at home.....no amount of red lipstick or boob implants can even come close to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:56 PM
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I fear another hobosexual pretending to have a job who stops bathing because " depression" from not being a grown up . 🤢 any woman is an upgrade to a man .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:29 PM
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Will never understand the going to bed dirty thing....puke 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:44 PM
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Sure wish they would keep up the tradition of showering and actually getting off the couch and working ......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:41 AM
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Yes!!! A covert narcs favorite tactic : put you on a pedestal verbally so you don't notice he's a shitty person /stealing material things .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:21 PM
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Dr's expect you to swoon over them , even the " nice " ones . My rich/ handsome plastic surgeon gave me his private number and then called me randomly on a fri night but I would never see him, he's married and even if he wasn't, I know dating a Dr. Is a recipe for anxiety because of high promiscuity levels. Be strong , stay professional!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:01 PM
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Can confirm, former art student , dirty hippy house lifestyle would make my skin crawl too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:36 PM
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When I owned a small biz on the edge of a sketchy area , the metro bus stopped out front one day with a lot of police cars surrounding it , traffic blocked off ect , turns out a man[ no description needed] had raped a mentally disabled woman at the back of the bus while it was in transit and full of passengers .......we need MORE police, not less .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:41 AM
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This. So important to remember, a from southern upbringing, such a hard indoctrination to break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:31 PM
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Just posted almost same comment as you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:26 PM
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Yes! Not in Mensa but was placed into gifted starting 6th grade and I remember looking around at the mouthbreather boys in the program with me and thinking " this is the smart group???" . I find above average and intelligent women to be far more intelligent in a well rounded way while my high IQ exh [ chemistry/worked in nuclear research] exhibited repeated cycles of zero cognition of surrounding environment [ humans included] and would often just be a total jerk instead of apologizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:21 PM
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My condolences, covert narcs are soul sucking predators who never change , worst experience of my life !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:17 PM
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This !!! A "conversation" with a LVM only rewards the LVM , he gets yummy validation when he treats you like shit because you've just groveled at his feet . Don't play, throw that trash away !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:13 PM
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" I like my women NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL!!!!" Proceeds to porngaze .......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:24 PM
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Omg vomit. this happened to me too, was gone a day came back to total chaos mess plus scrote forgot to put my beloved pet in his cage just left him alone free in house and took off , no apology. Put him out soon after .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:13 PM
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Omg what a disgusting gold digger he is, even Pre FDS I would be very suspicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:28 PM
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Also men are super aware we do THEIR work for them : they literally WATCH us do it as they slob on the couch .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:35 PM
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Whine more worm. Geez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:24 PM
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Getting lied to by men trying to get sex has been most women's entire existence. They start grooming/come after us when we are young and it never ends until we make it end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:43 PM
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Time mag has been garbage propaganda for awhile . Get ready to see a lot of media promoting pedos as the next " protected class " . Do not capitulate to any sort of debate, this topic is not up for debate , it's pure predatory evil .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:45 PM
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Babies don't magically happen " out of nowhere " ,something inside her felt desperate enough to have some kind of attachment to him either codependency or trauma bond ect. Poor lady needs to smarten up and start reading the FDS handbook asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:09 AM
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Yes!!! I've lost / left most of my female friends because they are too thirsty for LVM attention or their gross husband looked at/ hit on me [ I would never ever give a married man the time of day] and somehow it's my fault because I take good care of myself ?? I hate envy , it's such a vile energy to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 05:51 PM
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Vet vet vet the sperm. If his bloodlines have mental illness , anger management issues,, BPD or anything similar your being a parent dream will turn into a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:25 PM
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Uber driver wants YOU to thirst for HIM . Maybe if we're lucky he'll give us 2 minutes of fleshlight sex in his smelly car. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Let us know how that goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:15 PM
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Ah, the good ol " Handyman" Scam .... future faking on steroids " I'll be such a help to you " but only create even more chaos/ stress /mess. Congrats on leveling up 🤗👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:06 PM
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Upvote from me. I live in S CA and with the exception of one vegan friend who does animal rescue the other vegans I know have anxiety/ panic disorder plus are just self centered not very loving people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:51 PM
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Nothing scares me more than having to break up with a man, sleeping w one eye open for months after is standard practice .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:31 PM
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Kicked out the broke covert narc hobosexual , no more free emotional/ physical labor , now hit the gym a lot !!💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:48 PM
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Agnostic and for good reasons 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:30 AM
310

Horrifying. If anybody ever tries to force you pull out a giant object and say YOU FIRST BOZO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:19 AM
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Saving this comment , it's pure wisdom. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:40 AM
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Can confirm, live in CA and have met many house husbands whose battle axe wives are the breadwinners/ wear the pants. Unfortunately these slimey men always hit on me when the wife's not looking ...vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:39 AM
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100% this !! My last horrible lvm was trying to get that sweet deal of " being kept" contributing nothing financially, free vacays, zero housework, DB, working out zero [ flabby skinny 🤢] and complaining I need to cook for him so he can be "happier " . Thanks to FDS out to the dumpster it went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:34 AM
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This was me not too long ago . Run girl Run !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:54 PM
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She forgot to say " It could be because you are an unemployed gold digging slob living off of my money who only likes rubber women because they're not as intimidating"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:37 AM
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Wish I had FDS sooner!!! I was baby trapped by a much older lawyer whom I later found out didn't love me, just wanted it to be his turn to brag about being able to have a stay at home young wife n kids to his lawfirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:55 PM
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Pre FDS was an exotic dancer for 14 years [ paid for my degrees] so not hard on the eyes and I know how to " be fun " and I swear I have never ever had a man with a good personality , looked good AND be good in bed ....EVER . It's a unicorn to me , I stopped years ago because men are just so gold digging lazy and depressing to put up with. Maybe I'll meet my match someday but if I don't, eh so what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:23 PM
4

The sperm swims to the egg. If you try to re order nature it rarely works out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:18 AM
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Mom picked a Woody Allen type groomer . If that was my daughter he'd better watch his back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:03 PM
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Now that I found FDS I'm so mad at my former pick me self for being so kind and generous to such low value LOSERS . NEVER AGAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:58 PM
8

Omg , congrats on escaping that hell and putting out the trash 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:55 PM
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Vomit. Mine claimed we were " Soul Mates" ......I was such a sucker 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:54 PM
8

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 did we date the same loser , mine stopped started 4 different " careers " I was so naive thinking he was trying to level up 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:52 PM
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Decentering LVM from my life has been a godsend. This poor girl is living below the veil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:56 PM
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Yes!!!! Mistakes are always a great way to learn how to do it right . Feels good to level up .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:16 AM
38

Holy sh*t what a scammer( did we date the same loser? lol) Yes they create and use pity to manipulate unsuspecting victims, plus future faking like a mofo in my case .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 11:48 PM
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Omg Good for you for escaping🤗 !!! Of course they want to come back, we have our lives together and they use us like a life crutch .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 11:34 PM
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Mine did have a happy ending : took the trash out to the curb where it belonged while it yelled " nobody will love you like I do "......good , because you sucked !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:47 PM
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Because lvm ego love the attention they get from deceiving well meaning women. This is such a perverted way of living, tricking sincere kind women into loving you because you need the ego boost ...yucko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:58 PM
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Been there. Covert narc hobosexual w the future faking so he could stay rent free longer, makes me want to vomit thinking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:56 PM
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So true.. Also why are LVM so interested in having so many sexual partners when they absolutely suck in bed and can't even please one woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:37 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:13 PM
57

Being harvested for our bodies, hmmmm where have I seen this one before ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:00 PM
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You first cupcake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:20 PM
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Hear hear , if it's more than a paragraph you're being gaslit by a manipulative LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:57 PM
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Most of what you describe is basically a warning for bigger abuse towards you later. Culturally you will not be an equal in his mind and he is showing you already. Real love is calming and peaceful. Trust your ick feeling, it's warning you for a good reason to move on !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:53 PM
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Omg , hear hear . Next time a man says he " experimented " in college with the D , you will only see the cloud of dust as I sprint away . The divorce was hell .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:52 AM
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Same !!! I'd rather be alone than feel the ick of a low effort LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:41 AM
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My bad, I thought an aspiring political journalist could handle un sugar-coated truth. Think about what I wrote , why did I , a stranger, make you angry . Use that anger to dump that loser out of your head and heart for good !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:22 PM
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Do you like being an accomplice to a sexual predator ? There will be no warm n fuzzy closure, his disrespect IS your closure. Stop being a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:13 PM
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I ignored the " ick" feeling for years in a similar relationship until I got so sick I ended up in the ER . Divorce is hell . Listen to your body, it will save you .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:01 PM
10

Walk. And level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:01 PM
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Serial killer sh*t ,he's grooming her to help him commit a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:55 PM
18

This this this !!! 49 here and getting hit on is a normal leaving the house experience every day by all ages and walks of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:29 PM
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This. My exh wanted me to quit working and benefited 100% 24/7 from my home / childcare labours , stability[ helped him quit drinking] , his increase in social status [ younger trophy wife ] and as the father of 2 kids . I on the other hand lost precious years I could have been on the career tract and to thank me for my service he quit his job in order to not have to pay about 2 mill in owed child/ spousal support. I was borderline women's shelter for leaving him. Pets are more rewarding than a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:10 PM
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🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎 Stocking up now 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:57 PM
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PreFDS I dated down w disastrous results. Working out , eating clean is how I keep the LVM away , they know and I know they aren't worthy it feels good to reject losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:53 PM
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He belongs in prison .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:32 AM
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100% this We try waaay too hard and put up with waaay too much trying to " save the family" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:11 PM
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Absolutely. Also Beware mirroring, covert narcs do mirroring on steroids. The only way to figure them out is to observe how lazy they are about life achievements, they try to hide failure to launch under being " nice" and pretending to really " know you as a person " but it's all talk . Beware the naked man who offers you his shirt -- African proverb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:51 PM
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Let me guess, he looks and smells like dog shit because hot guys aren't angry like this. She should say OK and get 3 guys while he flounders trying to get even a message back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:50 AM
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If you have any temptation to stay imagine your life 10 years from now after the drinking destroys his brain and looks plus costs you in DUI arrests/ incarceration/ no money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:39 PM
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I had this exact thought 2 days ago whenI was at the gym and a 60 year old fat bald thing limped over to me and said " looks like you spilled paint on your arm, why would a girl ruin herself like that " [ I'm an artist , retired tat artist as well ] MY SKIN IS NOT YOUR PROPERTY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:33 PM
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Once men hit 30 they start going downhill fast : the ol just a bar of soap easy hygiene stops working because they are dehydrated n dried out , they start putting on the muffin top fat / saggy moobs because " no time to work out, I'm playing on my phone " plus " I like fast food so what" [ stamps feet ] , hair falling out ,they look vitamin deficient , can't dress like a contemporary adult ect all because taking care of your looks/ health is ghey .... Yuck, what a wasteland it is out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:45 PM
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Be gay ! OK :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:39 PM
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If poly is so wonderful how come the people I have known who do it always seem frazzled and on the verge of another anxiety attack ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:35 PM
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50k is not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:24 PM
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Yup, standing next to him were local police officers, that " safety forum " was the worst possible advice to give to young girls !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:39 PM
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My male public gradeschool teacher told 6th graders [me] at a " safety rally " that if we were victims of a male rapist to " stay quiet, submit, give him anything he wants , wait until it's over" in order to " survive" . 23 year old me stopped my floor manager [ ex military] from raping me in the back room by waiting until his pants were down and kicking him hard off of me and running away. He eventually was put in prison for raping another girl . Everything society teaches women is wrong starti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:02 PM
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Propaganda is a helluva drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:40 PM
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Haha ! Suck it loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:39 PM
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Yikes. Being around a narc made me very sick, still recovering. I'm a big ol Grey rock to people like that now , oh poor you Pos you aren't getting my attention anymore well boo fn hoo tiny violins!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:37 PM
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Have you done research on narcissistic personality disorder? Youtube Dr Romani she's a lifesaver! Narcs make a beeline for women from abused backgrounds, that ick you feel is a valuable tool of self protection!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:22 PM
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In times of hardship , what women were known to go around and rape children , seniors? Men's base nature is far more suited to killing and hurting and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:30 PM
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Should be a posted sign everywhere women are ; Do Not Feed the Hobosexuals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:22 PM
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I've never cheated, don't believe in it. My exh [ grandiose narc lawyer] accused me of cheating w my very gay male trainer[ he had pink hair/ painted his fingernails lilac ] when I was 8 mo pregnant . Turns out my ex was the one cheating ... with men. WHATEVER A LVM ACCUSES YOU OF, THEY ARE ACTUALLY DOING IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:08 PM
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I learned the hard way that the court system hates single mothers too, my divorce case had a female judge and even though my ex [ narc trial lawyer, pre FDS!] has a drinking problem, cheated on me w men and quit his job so he doesn't have to pay support , his female attorney and the female judge both agreed that since I'm the mother ( 100% custody for 18 years here because dad can't be bothered too busy drinking/ sex/ gambling/ going on vacations) It's now " my turn " to pay for everything. 🤢 Me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:44 PM
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How many women do you know that sexually molest another human who is vomiting in a toilet????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:21 PM
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The companion comment to walls up is she's too easy . For a man who's unable to appreciate a woman those are the two go to catch phrases , ie madonna/whore just repackaged. Keep those walls up OP, they keep the riff raff out :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:14 PM
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My ex h ???!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:10 PM
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Profile quote: Will you be my forever mommy ??? Male 33, but not very masculine. Haven't gotten a real job yet[ what am I a wage slave????] I fail to pay even a small percentage of my financial obligations due to instant gratification needs like concert tee shirts . Getting a flat tire sets me back 5 mo of " income" and I'll make YOUR life miserable about it. Will gladly be your live in hobosexual in exchange for doing zero housework but will raid your fridge of your kids meals and complain abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:28 PM
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I don't pay attention to advice from people who idolize fake kingdoms from comic books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:01 PM
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I feel for only the kids in this situation. Both women let red flags fly for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:48 PM
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No. Personality traits are set very young and reinforced by surrounding environment. Broken men rarely have the insight to even want to change, they just tend to find a new victim/ supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:14 PM
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Is this Arnold Swartzaneggar ????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:33 PM
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Only LVM's look for free therapy sessions disguised as " dating".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:34 PM
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I learned the hard way pre FDS to NEVER DATE DOWN . Broke uglier men hate you even more than a good-looking successful man ever could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:21 PM
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when western women wouldn’t touch them with a barge pole. 🤣🤣❤ omg love this On what planet would a woman ever read about a war situation then jump online hoping to Snag themselves an economically disadvantaged teenage boy to rape/ do their housework ect ?????????🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:06 PM
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While I worked 2 jobs including graveyard shift to put myself through school there was always some broke lazy scrote calling me a gold digger because my standards weren't in the gutter . Women don't gold dig, we give waaaaaay too much , it's loser men who look to exploit us cradle to grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:37 PM
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I had a weird experience at my gym couple years ago when a man came into the women's locker room but he had " ladies" work out clothes on. Nobody said a word to him because political correctness but it just felt very violating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:22 PM
7

Shy = Hope you like being his mommy AND paying all his bills because he doesn't have the cohones to be a go getter !!! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:55 PM
147

Listen to your intuition, you are feeling the ick for a good reason so don't disassociate from the warning !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:59 PM
69

At least the smell of human excrement is less obvious? 🤢 How romantic .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:47 PM
19

sea of scrotey loneliness. Haha 🤣🤣🤣, I imagined a neckbeard floating around Castaway movie style surrounded by floating trash like mountaindew bottles and candy wrappers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:12 AM
6

Glad he's an ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:22 AM
32

My ex husband: I was almost 5 mo pregnant w our 2nd child , started bleeding and having severe pain ,doubled over . Husband [15 years older lawyer, lovebomber extraordinaire] was watching football game at the time . Pre FDS me knew he would be pissed to miss his " Saturday sofa time " So I told him I'm going to ER for possible miscarriage. His response : let me know how it " turns out" . Omg so glad I found this sub. I lost the baby that day and never looked to him for ANY support after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:08 PM
43

Yes!! Also beware that after you trying to help them , they ramp up the manipulation and will start BLAMING YOU , it's a downward spiral into hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:04 PM
252

Ran a small business in Los Angeles, the brothel ie " thai massage place " around the corner : long queue of taxi drivers/ personal drivers during lunch time [ fat dude's w wedding rings] . The young girls would also go out into parking lot and do car service. Men's ability to compartmentalize abusing a young immigrant girl is scary as f.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:30 AM
-12

Pretending to be " tired" right when a household chore needs doing. Pretending to have a headache if adult talk is about to happen . Anything that gives you the ick but you can't quite articulate why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:48 PM
10

Covert narcs are THE WORST . I knew one that bragged on social media about how much he looooves animals but would neglect pets months at a time in filthy conditions in private and he eventually abandoned them because poor him, he spent his money on God knows what but couldn't afford vetcare and pet supplies . Never ever again w a covert narc, they are dark energy vampires pretending to be sweet lil boy scouts !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:42 PM
36

Wow, this is spot on . Pre FDS I was an empathetic rescuer , learned the hard way you cannot fix what you didn’t break, no amount of being nicemommybangmaid fixes them and only drags you down to their sad clown world level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:52 PM
112

Can we stop with the sexual assault being sold to women as kink? Nobody with a sense of self wants to be assaulted , this is exclusively for women victims who have been traumatized and disassociate during sex in order to please a criminal NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:42 PM
3

He's not even worthy of eye contact at 50 yards away let alone a " visit " to his what is probably a very filthy neckbeard hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:53 PM
146

Love this one! This has been the hardest one for me after finding FDS , I'm a go getter and it seems men have just become lazier and lazier now that porn/ gaming fulfills all their free time .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:31 PM
27

Women do not have the luxury of being " too depressed " to work like a man whines about, If we don't do it , it doesn't get done. But we're the " emotional " ones lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:37 AM
24

Dating a man would be charity work at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:16 PM
51

Leave before he breaks you down entirely [ every LVM has this goal of subordination] l had an ex who said he " liked me better" when I was bedridden /sick [ had serious health issues with my lungs ] because when I started feeling better I became more lively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:52 PM
72

This is 10 levels of fd up evil. I blame sex posi " feminism " for making women think it's OK to get used sexually like a toddler stomping on a Lego house. These women need therapy , lots of it , and he needs jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:44 AM
28

Vomit. Reminded me I had a covert narc ex who never read books ( I am a total bookworm) and so his vocabulary was not great but he would go ballistic if I said a word he " didn't think was real " and so he would googlecheck me and if it was a French word he would claim " nobody says it that way " [ he had never traveled outside his home city, I have been several times and attended a college course in EU ] and I would have to explain " yes, the French Do pronounce it that way " and he would go in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:59 PM
36

It's stupid and gives losers a free show. Losers love free shit. Don't do things to please losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:53 AM
17

Women like this are frantic and frazzled acting , it makes me so sad that something as precious as your body would get given away as a fleshlight for rutting animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:45 AM
61

Also HVM don't interrupt while you're lifting to " compliment " you [ because they take you seriously] only lvm looking for a fleshlight [ who could care less if you losing focus could cause an injury].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:49 PM
25

I remember reading about a criminal case in FL, a male neighbor got caught having sex with the umbrella hole in their picnic table. I always remember this if I get a " sexy " compliment, it's not really a compliment is it .....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:02 PM
104

Free love only benefits men, no thanks !!! 🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:54 PM
80

I agree with this 100% . Every single responsibility regarding raising a child ultimately rests on the Mother's shoulders, even an emotionally engaged man is only about 15% of the workload equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:51 PM
49

" What the fuck am I supposed to do here ? " Level up . Learn from this .Stop throwing your pearls before swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:48 PM
35

HOBOSEXUAL ALERT HOBOSEXUAL ALERT IMMEDIATELY CHANGE THE LOCKS AND #MOVE ON 🚨 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:09 PM
5

Came here to say this too !! I've had enough online fights w pedos , it's scary how empowered they are by modern politics/ university profs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:11 PM
91

Congrats 👏, He strikes me as someone who would try totouch you in your sleep, listen to your gut!!! also this helped me: NO MAN IS ENTITLED TO YOUR TIME , "NO" IS A COMPLETE SENTENCE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:37 PM
148

If you asked him to locate a certain type of porn tho his fingers would catch on fire finding it so fast .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:21 PM
41

I want this on a plaque .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:16 PM
8

Omg my extreme condolences, covert narcs are empty sad angry vampires that pretend to care only to extract resources, their laziness about life is next level . I feel paranoid now too, but at least we're free to recover in peace ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:26 PM
22

This this this . Porn sucks away the very life force that men need to be ambitious, well rounded, kind, interesting. LvMs are just hoping that an unsuspecting woman will be their " life" beard so to speak so they can continue to be empty and worthless to society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:10 PM
53

How sucky :( Same here , my adoptive father had a beachhouse several states away that he used to house his other wife n kids , I grew up thinking that men working or " away" on business trips during every major holiday and even birthdays/ prom ect was " normal" . He's a malignant narcissist who is currently divorced from his 4th wife. Thank god for FDS .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:33 AM
23

Scrotes carry a lot of internal shame because they are perpetually porn sick lazy losers and they know it . If you try to help them suck at life less they eventually resent the hell out of you for knowing their secret. Always dump and move on !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:51 PM
6

Nice fake relationship with a hobosexual. Can't wait to see what kind of Dad he will be 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:58 PM
143

Time to plan : Save all evidence quietly DO NOT CONFRONT HIM get your finances/ important things secured / get a lawyer Blindside him by having him served but only AFTER you are in a safe undisclosed location.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:35 PM
83

Yes!!! This happened to me , no way in hell am I ever going to look twice at a less intelligent guy ,it's not worth the constant dumbing down of EVERYTHING including relationship/ child rearing goals, a man's job can really trick you into thinking he's got a higher IQ than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:58 AM
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" I would do ANNNNYYYYYTHINGGG" .... the lvm scrote mantra . Except they NEVER DO LADIES , LIVE BY THIS : IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:10 AM
5

100% losing the NVM out of your life makes everything better, I was able to sleep more than an hour at a time and my hair stopped falling out from stress !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:39 AM
27

She would have been better off just providing coke to underage boys and sleeping with them like Brian Singer was widely known to do [ X Men ] or maybe just Polanski'd an unconscious kid or marry her own adopted kid like Woody Allen....🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:59 PM
96

Truth Time ⏲ He still doesn't want her, he just hates that one of his break glass incase of emergency tools is now taken by the competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:04 PM
3

Ha ! I've seen vid of someone skydiving and texting, you are NEVER too busy to text unless you are either performing or undergoing a surgery under anesthesia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:00 PM
142

Yup! This saying helped me a lot when ending things for good : Their disrespect IS your closure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:00 PM
8

Unless you have a vagina , shut up about how a baby is " supposed " to be born .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:46 PM
8

I kept seeing other subs I'm on hating on FDS calling it angry cat ladies so came to check it out , well I don't own a cat but I have a pet rat , FDS changed my future !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:55 PM
16

This this this ! Always remember the FDS mantra : IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:32 AM
20

Congrats!!!!! And he got zero fleshlight action off you, I'm so happy for your victory over a lvm 🥳🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:40 PM
36

Guess who's never touched a " hole " lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:33 PM
17

What about household chores: laundry/ floors/ bedding/ food/ cooking/pet care ??? Men talk a good game about love but real love is him cleaning the bathroom so YOU can do homework/ relax ,very very rarely does a man give on par with what he gets out of you services wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:35 PM
14

100% this , men are trained from birth to minimize a woman in all ways down to just being a convenient bangmaid .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:33 PM
9

You CAN do better , please focus on YOU and YOUR CAREER path, men are not capable of putting your needs and financial security first. Don't make the same mistake soooo many of us have done here pre FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:28 PM
14

If a man is not enthusiastic and capable of providing you decent housing and pay your bills, he's not serious about a " relationship ". He is merely using your body for fleshlight services/ free meals/ free maid/social status increase/ relief from boredom. Dump Hobosexuals to the curb where they belong !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:12 PM
141

There is no such thing as a "relationship " with a gaming addict , you're strictly just a bangmaid service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:24 PM
52

Congrats on leveling up !!!! 🥳🥳🥳[ enjoy your show too ] I recently had a breakthrough too, in the past if I knew someone was interested but too timid to approach I would man up and close the gap. Now I realize that no effort is a red flag for low life energy/ bad self esteem and quickly ignore .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:46 PM
60

This. Men are lazy by default , if he senses he would have to actually WORK to get you he'll cool off reaaal quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:32 PM
36

Good husband material says yes ofcouse you can fix it up to your liking and I'll pay for it, he should be grateful a woman wants him. He's got some gold digger tendencies showing, not a good sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:54 AM
29

If it weren't for snoop I wouldn't have learned what running a train was. Stay classy .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:30 PM
31

Covert narc vibes : oh poor me failure to launch wants a mommybangmaid and will resent her no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:10 PM
30

Just wanted to point out that the second a scrote gets a little $$$ they make a beeline for the most obviously materialistic woman they can afford .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:28 PM
12

Covert narcs are demons , they manipulate, cry ,mirror , hoover to get to your resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:02 AM
28

Plenty of wonderful rescue animals ready to love you , lvmen are second rate pets anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:50 PM
131

Ooooh I love hidden bathroom cams , what a sweet deal !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:09 PM
6

Dumped a nvm thanks to FDS 🙏My cutoff rate for NVM in public has gone from 20 min strained polite convo to 1 minute of thanks but no thanks . Feels good :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:31 PM
12

Only the unemployed have this much free time to write fiction novels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:46 PM
17

Ha ha :) I'm in Los Angeles and there are thousands of pube face losers slobbing around here !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:14 AM
35

My friend's husband has this body shape , he lives on the couch and only drinks soda/ fast food .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:21 PM
80

The bent over shoulder spine and unwashed scraggly pube mustache beard combo 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:18 PM
68

I've been pushing myself hard at the gym for decades to be fit and attractive [ for myself] it kills me when a Lazy pudge with his belly flopping and chicken legs thinks just because he drives a Tesla that now he's " in my league " .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:17 PM
75

It's easy to get a man , it's the getting rid of them that's hard !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:54 PM
5

When is it that they want a soft, feminine woman, exactly? When they don't have any money , they need us to feel sorry for them and " help"......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:02 PM
8

🤗 haha :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:48 AM
40

Memiors of a Geisha is a great fiction book that accurately portrays wealthy men trying to/ raping impoverished girls . I've had rich bosses that try that way more than some minimum wage guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:45 PM
17

Kids are being groomed into accepting violence instead of sharing love with someone. I made sure to tell my kids how sick and lame bdsm is , pre FDS my roommate was a dominatrix years ago and I went on a few calls with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:01 AM
2

Cant wait to see that engagement ring rock, will need a high power microscope..... Setting those standards LOOOOOW at the jump , men do this instinctively if they aren't serious about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:44 AM
30

Covert narc leech searching for a host !! Begone little dumpster fire !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:58 PM
33

80's teen : I've got an extreme hourglass figure but every high profile model from my childhood super skinny extra long skinny legs, no butt big shoulders no hips so I was always trying to starve away my curves. My body is " in style " now so I get a lot of rando scrote attention but who cares , whatever is popular it will change , you can't look to the outside world to define your beauty for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:54 PM
8

If he's not there for you, you should never be there for him. This right here . And let me clarify for the scrotes : No, lying on the couch watching videos of people getting hurt in accidents but never paying any bills/ rent is NOT you " being there" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:31 PM
3

He's a porn sick LVM pretending to care about you. Run !!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:20 PM
23

My pets will ALWAYS COME FIRST . You can put yourself down for even asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:04 PM
6

Yup. Mine was a hobosexual who went to sponge off gramma after , 33 years old and still can only play victim while everyone else works and pays his bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:24 PM
5

Been there , now that I've found FDS that threat will never work on me again , there's the door fella , not my problem!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:05 PM
10

Yes! I just ended a covert narc , her videos are deadly accurate and helped me not feel the guilt that all covert narcs are hard wired to create and manipulate us with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:00 PM
21

He sounds very jealous . Animation can be very lucrative if you can get in with a major distributor studio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:50 AM
31

LVMs only want you from afar because deep down they despise themselves and if you dare show them real empathy or love them they despise you too .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:09 PM
51

Sounds like mom wants him . Eeeew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:04 AM
46

So true. Also so many shitty nv's have a network of enablers around them so if you dump the trash you get the tsk tsk from someone else who KNOWS the dude sucks but was more than happy to offload them onto YOUR back . Yuck. So glad I walked away !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:59 PM
47

I had one of those life-size boxing dummies and I taught my kids to attack it kicking and screaming . Kicking and attacking his nuts can be done even backwards . Honestly kickboxing and muay Thai helped me tremendously to be confident in my ability to attack a scrote after being attacked in my 20's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:43 AM
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The right man will wait . The wrong man will run away so good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:39 PM
16

He is a repulsive excuse of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:48 PM
449

The embodiment of Bangmommymaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:52 PM
10

He showed you his true face . Leave in your mind body and soul .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:36 PM
13

OP no worries, this happens to me all the time !! I got car chased yesterday by an overweight guy who followed me at my gym , one of many examples of how weird guys are . Old guys hit on me too , I work hard for my body to look this way and some old wrinkly scrote wants to " take me to dinner " after a 2 min convo w a stranger yeah OK....... Never ever let a scrote make you feel bad, they are just so socially inept and lazy these days, it's not a reflection on you at all , afterall,after all, on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:37 PM
48

80% seems low . A hot guy who isn't a giant narc douche is a unicorn meanwhile I know way more very beautiful put together and kind women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:24 AM
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My nvx lived off me for years and used to blame his mother [ he's 33] and when that didn't work he'd blame his " disability " [ he's lazy , eats like a toddler and doesn't move off the couch] and when that didn't work he'd blame " falling off his skateboard when he was a kid" . Out to the trash where he belongs , thank you FDS !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:45 PM
5

I too had zero responsibilities or pets or mortgage payments..... WHEN I WAS 17
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:06 PM
44

But but he would have to wade through all the porn to find that app , he's a busy man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:57 PM
19

Fat and drooling, trying to mindf* gullible women ,no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:54 AM
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This omg !!! Recently kicked lvm to the curb after years of cleaning up after him even though he was unemployed most of the time( covert narc) . One time I left the floor unvacuumed just to see if he would touch a vacuum , after 1 whole month nothing, I ended up doing it . Never again !!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:37 PM
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Mine refused to move out then stole stuff when I forced , hobosexuals gonna hobo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:22 PM
9

This strikes me as a very passive aggressive way to say he doesn't respect or like her as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:21 PM
26

Especially this,, the trying to cover up for something they did,, a normal person wouldn't do this Yes!!! Dr Ramani is a godsend, her videos helped me exit a 10 year horrorshow .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:54 PM
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Worst relationship I ever had was with a covert narc. Hobosexuals who are terrible w personal responsibilities, use pity to hook you in, feeling sorry for them[ say "I had a bad childhood " ect they just need a lil help] .....riiiiight .....they will lie ,steal and hide to keep getting free stuff from others , they have NO SHAME . Yes it gets worse because they resent if you aren't steadily giving them free stuff and withdraw and sulk more . Kicked mine to the curb and he owed me thousands in un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:46 PM
59

There's only 2 categories: Faithful Cheater Don't fall for being a human fleshlight for some loser with no morals or value(s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:34 PM
24

Eeeeeeew. Dodged a bullet there , a poverty mentality is so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:53 PM
15

I'll only seriously date if they can grill / cook for me .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:39 AM
75

Collective Comments from FDS post yesterday: Men literally just masterbate into women ,no wonder they suck at sex. Now his ex knows what it's SUPPOSED to feel like, buhbye clown !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:49 PM
237

Nailed it , for a LVM it's Too much work to be better .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:24 AM
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Was exotic dancer back in the day before internet so looks wise attract a lot of attention , I have never ever found a guy who is the total package, mostly it's woman who work really hard at being awesome : Looks amazing [ works out/ eats right/ sophisticated/sexy outfits ] Can talk amd act sexy without being predator, cringe , vulgar or sadistic Totally takes care of self and caretakes others/pets Can be kind and intelligent and pick up on emotional cues LVMen just can't bring themselves to wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:13 AM
13

Dated a guy for waaay to long [ his family is from Michoacan ] what a selfish lazy pos he was , pretended to care but was a covert narc hobosexual looking for mommy to do all the emotional/physical/ financial labour. Never again, thanks to FDS he was put tothecurb for good :) Ps. Of course he moved back in w grandma ,free rent free meals free housekeeping !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:29 PM
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Her creepy husband should have gone to prison too, he went right on to groom another victim and make more kids .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:19 PM
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To all the loser men out there and to ladies considering this : IF HE CAN'T AFFORD A PLEASING COMFORTABLE PLACE HE DOESNT DESERVE SEX SO DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:50 PM
10

When I was an art student I had a bestie for years we did everything together: classes/ w/o / roommates/ clubs ects , she had a nice fiance but started cheating on him with some sleezy drug addict cook who had 5 kids from different mothers [ Caribbean culture] he beat her and he once threw her out of a moving car , [ he also hit on me ] . I was so horrified by him I told her she had to stop cheating w him and that's when she blew up and said I wasn't being " supportive " and she didn't want " a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:54 PM
21

Where's Chris Hanson when you need him !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:16 AM
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This is really good advice and best thing is by doing all this the trash takes itself out via low self esteemers [ pornsick abusers ] ego been popped [ triggers social anxiety, kinghood threated ] and lazy potatoes [ no ambition / passion ].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:26 AM
14

Even a small lie is indicative of what's to come down the road : I have to work late [ drinking w buddies] Sorry I forgot the milk [ didn't feel like going to store ] She's just a trainee [ new supply ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:17 PM
36

Ikr !!!Giant pet peeve of mine : ugly minimum wage or unemployed loser picking on his poor gf/wife for not being a 10 like the porn he wastes all his energy on , if you want your lady to look better then freaking help her out w housework and pony up the cash for the beauty services because looking good is a time/ $$$ consuming career all in itself !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:31 PM
7

Bad posture from sitting on ass all day playing on computer 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:20 PM
16

Great post OP 🤗 I have battled the forgiveness demon for a while [ abusive father / ex ] until I came across this saying : Their disrespect IS your closure .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:40 PM
11

Lying about his age is strait up scamming, everybody knows LVM men suck at aging gracefully and they just want to hook in someone naive enough to not realize she'll be taking him to Dr visits , feeding and cleaning and pushing his wheelchair. How fun :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:42 AM
40

Leveraging his trauma.....Covert Narcissist top profile trait as well. Barely survived it but FDS gave me the boost I needed to end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:50 PM
9

Special Boyson BoyMcSonson 🤣🤣🤣🤣omg thank you that was amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:30 PM
9

Pre FDS : My ex and I bonded initially over having psychward mothers but 10 years later at age 33 he was still using her as an excuse for why he couldn't help pay rent or plan a date ( I paid for EVERYTHING, planned EVERYTHING) Ass Kicked to the curb ....he will most likely use the same lame poor me playbook on another rescuer .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:27 PM
3

Nailed it Thank you !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:43 PM
16

I'd offer to pay for STD testing, no more , no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:43 PM
13

Check your room/ shower for hidden cameras , this sick clown is a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:26 PM
30

I love my FDS !!!🥰🥰🥰 My body felt the " ick" towards men waaay before my young naive trying to be nice brain did. I stayed 5 years too long in a DB because my brain kept making excuses.. Now if I feel the ick I distance myself within minutes ,not years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:46 PM
90

Please hear me loud and clear: he's too old to be so broke, this sounds like the future faking on steroids that hobosexuals do.....he is mirroring you and telling you EXACTLY what you want to hear now on YOUR life goals but will passive aggressively fight having to be the provider and will resent the attention/ money you spend on kids. He is only talking the talk , not walking the walk . Run !!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:12 PM
18

Never ever ever !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:20 AM
64

I'm from that awful southern brainwashed culture of being ingratiating and accommodating even to gross people so in my 20's 30's so busy trying to be " nice" prevented me from noticing the red flags , btw dating down to be " nice" was the worst mistake I've ever made .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:55 PM
21

I was a starving artist in my late 20's when I married a handsome successful man 20 years older . He lovebombed/ mirrored hard and then settled into ignoring / treating me with contempt/ like an employee until I fled. Turns out He was trying to impress his homophobic mother [ he was in the closet still ] had secret male lovers/ accounts and used money to control everything I did. He specifically targeted me for my younger age and socioeconomic bracket because he thought he could get away with hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:55 PM
116

It also helps weed out the married/ in a LT cheaters who can lie " I'm working late tonight hunny " to their partner , I love it !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:08 PM
24

File on his lazy ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:42 AM
149

This was my experience, basically ignore the kids for the entire day and watch sports on TV while child looks/smells like a dirty orphan then claim victory of child still alive since mom already : childproofed the house, did laundry late at night/ schlepped to crowded store bought all the supplies and cleaned , prepared all the food beforehand ,provided emotional support / discipline . Then mom gets to clean up when she gets home too !! Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:15 PM
60

Cheater. Serve papers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:47 PM
36

Am currently in the nightmare of a lVM refusing to pay child support even though I have 100% physical custody for the last decade, thanks to " feminists" the court system now punishes mothers by letting the father financially off the hook , oh you're a woman, you should be self supporting AND pay/ do 100 % of the childcare cooking cleaning ect ect . It's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:18 PM
36

they’ve lost their emotional support person. Had funny picture in my head of men w wives on leashes wearing those blue support animal vests .....they would love that too much tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:22 AM
17

Came here to say same ! Creepy and sus 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:16 AM
39

Pattan Oswald gave his wife/ mother of his daughter the illegal med cocktail that killed her then remarried before her body cooled off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:09 AM
30

He has no money And yet he wants ME to work Begone P O S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:45 AM
41

I love this so accurate !! I dated a covert narc that lovebombed at first[ romantic picnics, shopping/ long talks] but then his mask slipped and he sulked like a toddler if I wanted to do something that would cost him money , even just a movie dinner theater date that I paid for and he would refuse to talk to me. Turns out he was broke AF and just fronting. Yuck .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:30 AM
48

Before FDS younger me got majorly tricked : I was a struggling artist, he( my 20 yrs older handsome boss) started w generic pet name right away " babe" took me on a beautiful vacation for 2 weeks, bought me a large house and a SUV and introduced me to entire family 1 month in , now I realize he was just rushing me into a preset role to appease his elderly mother . He was in the closet .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:19 AM
25

Congrats!!! No stalking whining dragging his feet on packing his stuff , you dodged a major bullet 🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:49 AM
22

An ex [ covert narc] was soo lazy he would pretend to have a headache or whine " But I worked YESTERDAY , I'm tired " [ working = playing around with a song list pretending to write a resume] anytime I needed help like replacing an airfilter ect[ he lived with me rent free/ utility free/ food/ vacations covered planned by me] , what a little bitch, when I was crazy sick w high fever strep I still got up early did laundry, cleaned up , washed dishes , grocery shopping, pet care , picked kids up ,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:48 AM
12

Yes!!! I have done this my entire life, I will never date a man I can't fight off in an emergency and I also cut them off at the first sign of over aggressive behavior towards me because the longer they " have " you, the stronger their " If I can't have you no one can " murder streak gets activated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:04 PM
107

My kink is kink shaming . Ps. If you need to hurt a woman to have fun you're not her partner you're a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:45 PM
9

“king of the house” and call themselves providers Ooof, I feel this one 100%, recently kicked out my nvx ,financially and emotionally supported his deadbeat ass while he " found himself" [whined / failed out of college ] he had to get a min wage job [ I " made" him do it ] and he whined about that too , forgot to add he comes from a " man lays around while women do all the work " culture . He often bragged about being" logical "/pretended he was such an alpha hotshot but he didn't even have so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:56 PM
121

FDS Golden Rule : IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:19 PM
4

Thank you 🤗 that's awesome , onwards and upwards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:38 PM
15

Congratulations 🥳🥳🥳!!! am still freeing myself from being a caretaker to lazy entitled men , was babytrapped and will have to start all over but this time I will not be held down :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:31 PM
7

Breaking up with or leaving a man is one of the most terrifying things a woman has to endure , in my city a realtor broke up w her ME boyfriend and they found her body in his trunk 2 weeks later. The male ego is evil and wants revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:57 PM
14

I dumped a guy I was engaged to because he was mean to my pet rat , lovely sweet little creature, came when called,, loved being held not a mean bone in his body who was just trying to snuggle on him. The ex went on to be very successful, won an Emmy for his work and to this day I have ZERO REGRETS . Ride or die animal lover here , my beloved pets rank so much higher than any man ever could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:22 PM
42

My ex would literally pretend to be busy when I needed help like carrying groceries and then cry he had to " walk on eggshells around me " but I caught him one too many times watching vids on his phone instead of doing " business " Sorry if carrying in FOOD YOU'RE GOING TO EAT AND NOT PAY FOR makes ME the high maintenance one.... To the curb he went like the LV trash he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:34 AM
26

If only men tried 1/5 as hard as a woman to look sexy, so so many are just vomit inducing, even the younger ones now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:33 AM
6

" I wish I could quit you !" LVM to each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:31 PM
3

Adventurous is often codeword for antsy, as in : he can't sit still and be an adult about all the little things that most of an adult life requires like : Communication Financial planning Kids needs Compassion / care for an unforseen Illness He will SUCK in bed, guaranteed by virtue of being instant gratification oriented [ porn sick]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:23 PM
27

I spend months thinking about/ researching/ locating gifts for people I care about . If you get me a one hour before christmas backscratcher from CVS you're getting yeeted to the curb [ true story ! ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:08 PM
28

Kicked my live in LVM to the curb weeks ago and my place has never been cleaner !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:40 PM
40

She should look into covert narcissist profile, he seems to fit the description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:25 PM
7

Haha :) my ex future faked me by bragging about how many chores he did as a kid and how clean house was so IMPORTANT but the minute he moved in with me : couch bound lazy city. Never again , he got put to the curb like an old mattress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:56 PM
7

At my health club I notice that when older couples come in, the wife always looks better : more alert, no fat belly , hair done, makeup , brighter eyes , while the husband [ whose eyes only light up for the barely legal girls ] looks like shit w balding head, loose hanging belly fat, bad posture, slower . My guess why is because we women just have to do EVERYTHING and work so much harder our whole lives while Mr. Couch potato watches TV and makes " women can't drive " jokes .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:53 PM
114

I just threw the LVM out of my house 2 weeks ago because the thought of buying him another really thoughtful and expensive Christmas gift while he gets me a backscratcher from CVS 2 hours before Christmas made me want to vom. Feels sooooo goooooooood that when a bon Jovi song came on the radio right after I actually sang along :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:29 PM
3

Did we date the same douche???? I sent mine packing recently, felt amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 03:29 AM
4

We can all contribute with a worst date story...oh wait it'd have to be a 12 season series !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 03:04 AM
7

So so sad . I was very sick for a long time and my ex [ who did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to take care of me, the bills or the kids/pets ] literally said afterwards " I liked you better bedridden " .....🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:15 PM
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Yess. Just threw out covert narcissist nvm. I paid all the bills, did all the housework, pet care childcare, put him thru school and since I " forced him" to contribute by getting a min wage job and get off his phone addicted ass he would complain and whine about " being a slave" . He also would be the nicest little boy scout oh can I help you to any stranger but if I needed help he procrastinated for months . Thank you FDS ladies, Never again !!! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:03 PM
30

Covert narcissist are THE WORST because they do the good lil boy scout routine/ manipulate to make people feel sorry for them and do juuuuuust the bare minimum to stay, always an excuse for why they " tried so hard" but never get results. Such mind games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:04 PM
49

Yup. I got called frigid once by a guy who had trouble with hygiene, lived with his parents and had no job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:57 PM
7

Yessssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:12 AM
12

Thanks ! 🤣🤣🤣 he was too lazy to take the trash [ himself] out so I stepped up and did . 🗑🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:23 PM
52

I just kicked out a golddigging lvm , for 7 years he couldn't get a real job because " finding himself " . Turns out when a man says he's " finding himself" it really means you're " funding$$$ himself" . Lesson learned, never date down !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:50 PM
10

If you looked up Douche his drunken cheating narcissist ass would be the reference pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:45 PM
12

Do it, it's an amazing feeling to know you just leveled the playing field . [ I live in Los Angeles, land of the LVMs/ break ins ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:22 PM
23

The scariest part for me of a relationship with a man is the break up . Can't count how many times I'm jumpy and scared at night because I'm afraid his fragile ego wants revenge and he might break in, assault me or do murder suicide because I dare dumped him for being a lazy entitled NVM. We need protection all right , from YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:20 PM
5

Threw my ex out 2 weeks ago [ the thought of having to spend any more holidays w him made me want to vomit] and one of the big reasons was his zero effort for any gift giving no matter what the occasion. It's a HUGE tell that he lacks basic human empathy and doesn't give a damn about you. I wish I had FDS sooner !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:02 PM
4

Yuck. I would have acquired some very stinky sardine juice to anoint his insoles with .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:47 PM
39

Oh wow, what a happy ending ! Just kicked out my covert narcissist parasite , sucked me in on feeling sorry for him....10 years begging him to get a job, putting him through school , doing ALL the emotional/physical/financial labour , total failure to launch syndrome and I finally said get your sh** out of my house or I will throw it out on the curb. Feels so good to be free of that dead weight doesn't it !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:13 PM
8

Congrats on him being an ex !! Took me a decade to spot but Just kicked a covert narcissist to the curb after 10 years of his " I'm a poor lil victim of everything" and mooching off me . Oh and I made him leave the pets with me, I don't trust him to take care of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:53 PM
7

This toxic " sex positivity " garbage is everywhere, from the real housewives franchise to public schools/academia where older predators groom young naive students.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:44 AM
25

Haha ! There should be a LVM removal service like a car repo that a few burly bodybuilders come and drag him out by his neck into a dumpster w the destination of our choosing : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:29 PM
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Sigh. Wish I found FDS sooner ! I took in a LVM for years [ covert narcissist, great actor who pretended to be a kind and loyal victim down on his luck ] and I paid for everything, all housework, helped him through school and he did the BARE minimum to stay. But there was always something missing: reciprocity!! Thanks to the awesome ladies on this sub: Just kicked him out [while he frantically lovebombed /said would finally help w rent /begging and pleading] but to the curb he went !!! Feels soo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:51 PM
12

Sounds familiar! Mine bragged pre engagement about being an avid skier/golfer then ballooned up to 230 after the wedding eating entire long french baguette a day while I worked my ass off to look good :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:26 PM
24

OP you got the ultimate hail Mary, while I understand that the " family" structure is down a member at least the sane one survived ( you!) I also had an ex gain a ton of weight w a secret life , found out 4 years in he was only sexually attracted to men. It's ok to feel better that he's gone , it means you're healthy !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:20 PM
18

I had a covert narcissist use this on me , he ended up being a useless hobosexual too so when I threw him out he said Noone would ever " love" me like he did ...good .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:15 PM
3

Academia itself is full of male predators, the 70 yr old Dean of my Uni was dating my 21 year old classmate and then magically she won our class competition, the prize being a trip to Greece [ guess who was the Administrative chaperone...yup, the Dean ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:44 PM
3

All that time she could be working on her life/ her career are now going to be wasted worrying about some loser who couldn't care less about her. Even if she wants to be a mother a LVM is a super shitty sperm candidate who cheats. Stds are forever , I guard my health like Fort Knox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:40 PM
5

What a cheap clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:19 PM
6

This is why older men prey on younger women : they think they can manipulate you and you won't even notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:38 PM
3

Deduct 30 IQ points , do not pass go !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:51 PM
3

Haha same !!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:48 PM
6

They feel entitled to it no matter how little they bring to the table , it's criminal really, you're stealing a woman's time , money, life and energy .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:46 PM
18

My ex is a lazy manipulative LVM who did the " but but you're going to be alone" when I kicked his non contributing ass out. I did all the child raising/paying bills/housework alone, what makes a scrote think we fear this in any way??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:26 PM
3

Love this , saving !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:49 PM
18

Haha so true .Thanks to FDS I will never ever mommy another man who can barely dress himself or remember to do something as simple as drink water/ take vitamins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:34 PM
8

I was with my LVX for years before I got really sick and was in bed for months, he did NOTHING to help around the house/ pets/ kids and pretended like nothing was different. This changed how I felt about him irrevocably. If he's only around for the goodies but not willing to step up like we would if someone we loved was sick.....DUMP HIM .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:26 PM
18

What a neat lil psychological manipulation pretending he'll only leave if SHE wants , I wish she would call his bluff but she sounds really emotionally trapped in a fog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:58 PM
31

Congrats on escaping ! [ from a fellow former couch sleeper too ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:52 PM
29

Very well said. I'll never understand the LV's need to be in a win/lose dynamic when win/win is such an amazingly powerful mutually beneficial dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:46 PM
23

Currently kicking out a deadbeat " sensitive " type who made me feel sorry for him , never ever again !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:01 PM
126

Beware the " nice" sensitive scrotes, they are hiding covert narcissistic personality disorders!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:21 PM
18

This is really profound congrats on breaking free! I went through the same exact thing [ my body knew he was LV/pornsick but my mind wasn't ready] because there were kids involved . I did all the emotional / physical/ financial work: cleaned, paid for everything, holidays/ bdays/ planned all outings, ect and I stayed 5 years too long but my skin would crawl anytime he was near me and I just was ignoring my own body and feeling guilty . NEVER EVER AGAIN !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:09 PM
13

Awww thank you 🤗 Onwards and upwards we go !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:44 PM
67

This. I learned the difference between true depression vs demoralizing. A man that is pornsick is neglectful and demoralizing to us and we mistakenly think it's US that are depressed when it's really THEM dragging us down . Remove THEM and poof the demoralizing feelings they create evaporate and we can feel good again :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:21 PM
14

This !! A woman is a luxury for a man, not an entitlement like an EBT card. Currently removing a " too tired/ too busy" low wage earner parasite from my life, feels good to be free from the constant neglect :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:44 PM
35

Eeeeeeew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:09 PM
37

" not marriage material " = not willing to be used like a slave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:26 PM
30

Wow I never knew this , thank you so much !!!🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:22 PM
57

Awww, you mean I won't have to hear you complain about being a " wage slave"/ can't have a big boy job or clean up your gross body fluids from my bathroom, smell you in the morning, lug your gross laundry around and clean up black spots on the floor because you're hygiene dysfunctional and too lazy to take off your shoes ?? SOLD !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:19 PM
87

Don't threaten me with a good time !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:17 PM
222

Gee I would LOOOVE to live with a mentally unstable broke hobo w a small pecker in a van down by the river, sounds HEAVENLY !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:37 PM
16

My skin is crawling on her shut down pick me behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:49 PM
51

Omg I had an ex do that on a trip that I ORGANIZED AND PAID FOR . I said no and That was the last time I let him touch me. I work out hard to stay really fit while he was a total gamer couch potato. Thank goodness for FDS , I will never entertain another pathetic scrote as long as I live .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:02 AM
3

It's called love bombing , resist and overcome , cheaters belong in the dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:41 PM
5

The power of Dry dick compels you !!! [ holds up cross against it]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:40 PM
26

Triangulation....RUN GIRL RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:24 AM
3

It's The Most Healthy thing we CAN do tho! The most important decision we can make as women is who we share our inner world/sexuality with. Anyone who doesn't understand this shouldn't be giving advice .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:32 PM
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How many times have LVM said " I wish you were like when we first met" You mean when I was a complete stranger so you could create a fake fantasy in your head and not have to know I'm a real woman??? Kick rocks losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:23 PM
4

No more parasitic relationships sucking my life , money and creativity away , onwards and upwards!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:19 PM
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My very soon to be ex told me " at least I never hit you " ....I responded " My bar will never be that low " ....they really do think that not hitting us makes them heroic .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:54 PM
83

Mine[ ex] said he " tried" to get me something I really wanted, but said " it was too hard to get ahold of" , took me 5 mins to locate and buy. At least be honest about how lazy you are , we see you !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:12 PM
8

The DNC chapter female director who made very distasteful twitter comment about the deceased deserving it " the driver was just acting in self defense" : he had used a knife on someone and has prior of running over his baby momma on purpose in his suv /killed 5 and wounded 20 others] has resigned and apologized and there were many more but most likely will be deleted soon if not already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:30 AM
5

This is very insightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:58 PM
42

So many sick women tweeting how that criminal was justified, misogyny from LVW is somehow even worse .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:55 PM
20

Beware the guy who keeps a " harem" of female friends , he's just an attention black hole waiting to switch you out with another one , rinse and repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:10 PM
41

It's more common than I thought ,my adopted father bought a beach house 3 hours away as a "rental property" and I found out when I was 16 that he had another wife and 2 kids living there. Yes he was always " traveling for work " too ! He later abandoned them too .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:12 PM
33

Yup. When a man says " you're too good for me " , old me was flattered. New me is horrified at my dating down for so long to have a " nice " guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:11 PM
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LVM/ NVM can smell low self esteem from 10 miles away , it's an aphrodisiac to them. Want to have YOUR choice of better men? Exercise [ eat clean drink h20] get your body tight, get your face game tight, hair game and men will drool and you get to reject whomever doesn't meet YOUR criteria .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:23 PM
7

Haha so true !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:32 PM
5

Aww, thank you same to you 🤗 onwards and upwards !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:30 PM
40

This! [ example: his pet's cage needed cleaning] MONDAY : Why are you bothering me w something trivial, I have to study ! FRIDAY : Why are you still bothering me w something trivial I have to work ! SUNDAY : Why do you save everything trivial for Sunday on my day off when I'm relaxing? ! With a lazy NVM you really can't win, just walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:14 PM
54

A man will act disgusted if he overhears you talking about how bad your period hurts while you double over in pain but if he stubs his toe you're supposed to rush to his side and baby him until he stops whining .....no thanks , ovvver it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:42 PM
17

I feel you , same situation, stayed waaay to long because "potential " and he wasn't mean, breaking up felt as bad as putting an inured puppy by side of road :( but omg did I do EVERYTHING for entire relationship including providing housing/bills/ vacations/gifts/monetary support and physical labour and thank goodness I'm finally waking up .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:27 PM
3

Anybody see the show I love a Mommas Boy ? Yikes lady .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:16 AM
15

Their disrespect IS the closure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:31 PM
17

If he can take time to fap he can text for 2 seconds. He's not ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 02:06 PM
22

Thank you thank you thank you !!!! 100% this , am exhausted from being the man AND the woman for my family because men are now lazy and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:25 PM
3

Jealousy is a relationship ender for me. Oneof the most toxic personality traits that leads to petty vindictive actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:57 PM
31

But but that requires E. FF OORT and they are anti effort unless it's something directly affecting their lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:22 AM
9

Congrats it's super healthy to cut off dead weight , imagine getting pregnant by that and dealing with 2 babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:14 AM
41

Only values/ compatibility matter to me , I'm very leery of men who come from a background of being spoiled and allowed to be lazy but still think they're the " boss" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:54 PM
47

Immature AND jealous ...RUN !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:05 PM
7

The most head games EVER award goes to them 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:03 PM
62

Agreed! I'm from a state orphanage anyways so I never even consider a father/ men deciding anything about my life ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:15 PM
261

This, hook up culture is devastating to young women's lives.. Every year I get more and more convinced that old fashioned courting/ getting to know a potential partner in a respectful platonic fashion before committing sounds amazing .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:04 PM
25

Broke men too, such low low self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:42 PM
44

She needs to look up Narcissistic husband and fast before she gives up on even wearing makeup .......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:29 AM
15

My former BIL lives on fast food/soda/ vending machine food, he has the hips and breasts of a woman whose given birth 4 x. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:11 PM
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I feel your pain ! Same situation here but w a birdcage , I have a rescue that is very cage territorial/attacks me only likes men, I begged for weeks for him to clean her cage out ( he claims to " love" this bird) and for months he was always " too busy" [ youtube] . This is not love . Neglect IS NOT LOVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:01 PM
4

Agree with this, LVM only have a small bag of tricks to use on anyone they need to " get" , when that ultimately fails they just reuse the same on another person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:05 PM
15

It's excellent ahole repellent :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:09 AM
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Absolutely. Intimidating is code for higher standards , power. Step into your own power ladies, Do not throw your pearls before swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:00 AM
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I'm so sorry, having kids ramps up the difficulty level by a million . I left a very comfortable life w kids w a successful but LV man , it was brutal and scary but I did it and you can do it too, if not for yourself do it for your daughter, be a hero to her !!! Best wishes 🌹🌹🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:42 PM
105

Eeeeew, second hand cringe, imagine if you had a daughter or son and they started copying HIM ???? Hell no , alone is better than being put down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:08 PM
21

I'm at the gym kicking my ass to look good and there's always some middle aged fat, balding gross thing licking his lips and interrupting me to tell me something lame and or pervy . Men : if you actually worked out instead of staring you might actually land a real woman of your own !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:47 PM
51

Omg, I've actually gotten this " I don't beat you " as an excuse for his not paying rent . My response was my standards will never be that low .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:25 PM
61

Yes! We could use a whole thread dedicated to healthy masculinity, so many don't even know what it looks like because it is so rarely seen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:23 PM
12

Feminist media (and whatever else bad role modeling) convincing women to act like a man, take on his responsibilities AND to pay for him has really ruined a lot of women's happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 09:19 PM
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Fellow Gen Xr from the south , holy cow were women of my generation GROOMED to rely on men .....I'm so proud of today's young ladies standing up for themselves against the onslaught of lazy scrotes who claim to want a traditional wife but bring NOTHING to the relationship but vices ,debt and ugliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:39 PM
41

100% this . Uglies have soo much resentment built up while Hot guys aren't all anxious, hateful and creepy around women , they know they look good ect and it relaxes them .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:24 AM
11

My kink is kink shaming .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:42 PM
114

His bloated face ruins my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:40 PM
46

Hello 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:16 PM
7

Congrats , love this sub and love sharing my experiences to help other ladies from making the same mistakes !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:55 PM
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Dear Penthouse ......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:14 AM
16

Never waste good makeup/ hair on a loser !! Congrats grasshopper !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:56 PM
15

Get all your ducks in a row before ditching him, post break up the real him comes out :/ best wishes !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:22 PM
10

They say you "can't judge " .....well I can and I do , poly people are gross losers trying to suck your life force away .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:48 PM
28

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Did we date the same clowns???!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:56 PM
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THIS THIS THIS 👆 !!!! Am extremely self motivated, work out, take good care of myself, put myself through college , started my own business, raised my 2 kids with zero help ( both have 4.0 plus gpas) ... laying around being a bum would make me feel sick to my stomach but I've seen " stay at home dads" that do nothing but watch cartoons or sports, eat and game so they assume that's what women do too.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:19 AM
10

This. If I waited for the " right time" it's NOOOOO we are having a nice Sunday relaxing and if I did it on a weekday it's NOOOOOOO, you're upsetting me when I have to work / study / whatever ........If you feel like you can't win it's because there's no prize ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 11:17 PM
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This is our next door neighbor(s) situation [ we see it all in Los Angeles], the man is ugly as a toad, dresses like a slob, older balding short fat of course and his wife is younger, cute and looks dead inside as she cares for their kids all day. When I walk by he stares at me and licks his lips, smooths back his greasy hair, beady eyes glowing , I feel so bad for his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:32 PM
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Focus on you 100% , get that master's, travel ect !! Half my current family is hispanic and the coddling of men for their entire lives is real, avoid man babies like the plague !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 07:10 PM
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100% this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 03:51 AM
43

Raises hand ✋ Good topic! Happened to me , cautionary tale: don't fall for lovebombing, especially new house/ car / meet all family right away , he's rushing it for a reason : you've been cast in a supporting role to elevate himself socially to a family member or just impress others , your position to be terminated at any time, he's not looking for a forever partner to share and grow with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 03:44 AM
28

Yolanda is a straight up narcissistic nightmare of a mother . What kid could have a normal childhood or adult relationship w a mommie dearest breathing down their neck 24/7??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:26 PM
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Time to exit , it's a no win situation for you she deep down resents you whether she hears the truth or not , gently float away ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:43 PM
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Thanks, good for you for being your own independent person !!! :) I have to ease people into understanding the real sacrifice of being a mother, so many just do it for family pressure / make the man more " involved" ect , takes a looong time to get a breakthrough wout looking like a " hater " .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:32 AM
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Jealousy of a woman living life or motherhood is definitely a huge red flag in a man. My ex used to say jealous things to me after our 2nd baby like " must be nice to just stay home and drink coffee all day, bet all the working women envy you " When I took a boxing class to lose the baby weight he was catty " must be nice to just go to a class during the day " [ he was overweight with tons of free time ] Mind you , staying home every day = up all night w 2 kids in diapers/ feedings , make breakf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:34 PM
183

I've been a business owner and a SAHM, being a mom is hard, boring, unpaid, thankless and lonely even if you love your kids to death like I do . Being financially dependent on today's low quality lazy men is a scary thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:08 PM
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Interesting topic. In China after having the 1 child rule [ and subsequently aborting/ murdering millions of girls ] the men began experiencing a shortage of available wives which led them to start " importing" wives from surrounding poorer countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:06 PM
23

That's where training comes in, you have been intimidated by men who WANT you to stay intimidated. Take back your power :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:36 PM
13

Agreed, but after getting pushed into a back room by one of my managers when I was 110 lbs and 20 yrs old [ he went to prison for raping another girl later that year] I no longer think that men should be trusted until proven wrong , I'm always on alert .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:03 PM
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You can do it!!! Feels so good to get over that fear!! The first step is just holding one, unloaded , you can find a nice calm teacher at any gun store, took me a while but now I can rack even a stiff one and it feels good to know even if someone is pointing one at me I have the power of suprise to lunge fast and knock it out of their scummy hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:59 PM
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Most men can't afford or attract a beautiful intelligent wife so they settle for whoever puts out and then make googoo eyes at what they wish they could pull :( then the wife who let herself go gives the poor woman just living her life bad looks...it's all a bad scene to witness such disloyalty and bitterness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:24 AM
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In my city a female realtor's body was found in a car trunk after breaking up with her ME boyfriend. The male ego is scary stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:54 PM
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Omg , congrats on ditching him , my narcissistic ex [ trial lawyer] did the exact same , worst was when I was 8 mo pregnant and he left me behind in busy city crosswalk that turned red ...said he was " hungry " ... never again !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:43 PM
59

Eeeeeeew, getting second hand cringe from his gross entitlement. Never marry a man who has this flaw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:26 PM
25

At the very least it's sleazy and disrespectful. There is no upside to having " the talk" as this is a LVM quality that he will only hide from her .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:04 PM
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My adoptive father was a pos adulterer who had a secret family on the side and abandoned us in middle of night when I was 14 , no phone # we had no idea where he went. I didn't qualify for for any student aid [ I had to work to put myself thru school] because his tax return was " too high" ....he hadn't so much as checked to see if I was even alive in 5 years but I was stuck to his " financial info" ......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:54 PM
18

Love this sub so much, regularly send posts to my daughter ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:55 PM
39

I have said this to my kids before, didn't know this essay existed !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:51 PM
11

The old saying about dating apps : The odds are good but the goods are odd !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 11:44 PM
5

cam girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:23 PM
13

I have a good vetting strategy : How does he do with a small helpless pet that needs medical attention like giving medicine or soothing or extra care , does he resent a little animal for " needing things" ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:02 AM
43

Anybody remember this episode of Cheaters : Man takes mistress to pharmacy to pick up dying wife's brain tumor medication
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:09 AM
111

An old employee of mine told me his and his friends secret recipe for being " happy" : find fat desperate women with a job , why? because they have low esteem and want a boyfriend so badly they : cook, clean, buy you gifts have sex however you want and you don't even have to call them or take them out and you can do it 3-4 women a week .....soooooo sad , I've NEVER heard a woman brag about doing this EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:53 PM
21

100% this, my tolerance for stress now is so much different than when I was younger and brainwashed !! You treat me with respect or you don't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:44 AM
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My southern aunts told me when I was 7 " you have to moisturize or else you won't get a man " both were married to ugly slobs who smoked and made minimum wage ....no thx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:02 PM
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I come from a southern background and girls are brainwashed at a young age to be " hospitable ". This story is reason 10001 why I'm zero friendly with any man capable of harming me: neighbors, in a parking garage, street, store ect , I size you up and if I know you can overpower me easily I don't play the nice game. Even if you pull a gun on me I am going to disorient you . Read Gift of Fear!! Stay safe out there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:45 AM
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Np, I just edited to add a few more things to help , best wishes !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:10 PM
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Rule 1: Know how you expect to be treated by a potential mate !! Look your best but Do not lead with sexuality or you will be disappointed in how horny he acts , this is getting to know someone's values as a companion not a one night stand ( does he open doors, pay for the both of you, no insults or pervy comments, no aggressive touching or sexual touching, badmouthing an ex? ) Rule 2 : Be observant !!!!! are they agreeing with everything you say to move you into bed faster? Are they crossing an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:07 PM
7

He sounds hideous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:49 AM
10

This is why I've been training in MMA/ Muay Thai / Boxing/ Self defense for years on end, you might never need it but if you do it may one day save your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:45 PM
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Younger me was so beaten down exhausted from doing all the housework, yardwork and taking care of 2 kids up all night/in diapers[ come from a sexist background of : women do all the work while men " relax"] so much so that when my " presence " was required at a " classy" event I barely had any time and was too exhausted to do hair /makeup /outfit ect and my ex talked down to me about my appearance, calling me " plain". New me now says f you , you want me to look money , HELP me AND pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:46 PM
5

His game is low effort up front ...and it only gets worse w time I bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:41 PM
41

Love this post , just wanted to add that lurking in the shadows of a talented, pedigreed, genetically gifted man can lie one of the most insidious/sneaky personality traits : laziness . If a man shows you his laziness early on ...RUN , this is a portent of how unhappy, lonely and romantically unfulfilled you will be later on .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:03 PM
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wife's not asleep, just staying still because lifestyle, plus fear of dirty custody fight [ was married to trial lawyer]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:05 PM
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I send my daughter these posts, glad to see you all back :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 12:31 PM
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In my pre FDS days I dated a very good looking athlete who was spoiled and broke [ model/ lead singer/ pro kickboxer] I would bring him food because I was lame and one day he said to me " My idea of a perfect life is coming home from training [ hanging w his gym bros getting high ] and my wife[ the breadwinner] is hanging the laundry outside " ......oh hell no .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:33 PM
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The Gift of Fear is a book EVERY young woman needs to read , the book opens with a young single girl being polite to a male stranger in her apt building hallway [ he was a serial killer ] it may one day save your life .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:37 AM
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His culture is steeped in this idealogy of women as property. How dare a woman not be his property = ego social status hurt = brutal violence ...rinse and repeat , only the names change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:22 PM
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Brilliant 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:30 PM
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Celibacy is far more desirable than entertaining a LVM's fantasy world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:45 PM
7

Time to close up shop, only date someone who values you and your time .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:51 AM
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100% this. My worst dating experience was when I tried dated down , first date I tried to leave restuarant early because he was very stiff/ wierd acting and he followed me to my car and tried to block me opening my door and tried to force kiss me. Attractive guys are so much more relaxed and aren't ready to pounce like a starving animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:05 PM
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Plus : gym membership/ personal trainer fees
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:58 PM
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The Price of Motherhood by Ann Crittenden should be required reading for all school girls. We are exploited for our labour .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:29 PM
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