Avoid the clever Hobosexual!

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-03-13T18:47:42+00:00

Mine did have a happy ending : took the trash out to the curb where it belonged while it yelled " nobody will love you like I do "......good , because you sucked !

galian84 · 2022-03-13T21:54:30+00:00

Ooh just saw your last comment and good for you sis 👏 just gotta throw the whole man out.

Mine was jobless and convinced me he had an apartment reserved at a new condo being built. And he wanted to stay with me for a month until it was ready. Had pictures and everything. Well, he never left my place.

Future faked me by telling me about how he couldn’t wait to marry me and have kids, told me all his grand plans about how he was planning on going back to school to finish his bachelors (he was ex-military 😒) and then get a job so I didn’t have to work so much. Eventually we rented a place together (ignoring the red flags slapping me in the face).

Instead, his alcohol and coke habit revealed itself and so did his abusive self. Never been happier since I walked out on him and broke the lease. After all that, he messaged me later on asking how I got out of the lease before I finally blocked and deleted him 😵‍💫 scrote thought he had me trapped.

throwaway180111 · 2022-03-13T23:35:27+00:00

My hobosexual was the last guy I dated before FDS. We met online, on the first date he told me he worked at a gym and lived with a roommate. I found out a few months later he had been unemployed at least five years and the "roommate" was his mom. He paid for all the dates until he asked me to be his boyfriend after only a few weeks, which I accepted 🤡, then the next few times wanted to split the check, then he was asking me to pay for HIM (usually using a pity play excuse, that's how he got to me a lot, through a sob story). I was vulnerable at the time and he was able to manipulate me, he would come and stay for weeks at a time at my apartment blaming his 'cruel' mother, while eating all my food, never cleaning up after himself, and using my car while never paying me for gas or filling it up himself. Really he was just a mooch and his mom was tired of him living off of her. To top it off after a year of dating I found out he was not in his late 20s as his profile said and he had always told me, but actually in his mid 30s.

Astral_weaver · 2022-03-14T04:34:28+00:00

Ah, I avoided that bullet. We were both in a bad place financially and he told me it would be nice to cohabitate. I freaked out that moment but said nothing. He understood though. Breaking up came 1.5 year later though, after I found a decent job and he was still job hopping to dead end jobs.

captainessmorgan · 2022-03-13T21:32:38+00:00

He took me out on a date and presented as an aspiring pastor with a job. Weeks later he told me he needs a place to stay due to circumstances. My naive 21 year old self made a big mistake of letting him stay. It became weeks and then months. He has gone downhill. Got kicked out of pastor college, fired from job, slept all day and went out to poker bars or shady friends’ all nights, etc. He refused to pay rent or buy food or leave. Threatened to break in my house if I ever dare to kick him out. I still kicked him out for trying to cheat and called cops on him to be sure he was out and never come back again. Lesson learned! Don’t let anyone’s foot in unless you really know this person well and for a long time. Eventually I found out he was kicked out of his friend’s house and became homeless so he was using me for a place to stay. I was furious I was fooled and used.

Maleficent-Amoeba761 · 2022-03-13T18:24:01+00:00

This also happened to me by a malignant narcissist con man. Intense future faking, lies. The end of this "relationship" is actually what allowed me to find FDS. I wish I had found FDS years ago. The pain it would have saved me.

icy_lilies · 2022-03-13T19:23:49+00:00

Anything about unconditional love. It's used like a immunity card. Cheating? Stealing? Being dishonest? All good, because he said he loves you unconditionally. Don't you? 🤡

Also, it's 4AM, he needs a place to crash.

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2022-03-26T21:42:40+00:00

Mine had a good job when we got together but no car or drivers license. Found out around the time he stopped getting called in. 🙄

Oh, he future faked to the MAX.

"When I get this job, you can quit yours and get back into writing."

"When we move into our own place, I'll help around around the house more."

Took me three years to realize I never should have given this guy the time of day. My friends were shocked I went out with him.

Learning that after I left him was news to me. 🤣 No one told me.

But I kicked him out like 1.5-2 years after we started living together. I got tired of him being a choosing beggar about jobs so he had no options. No GED, having no respect for my things, eating all the food in the house, ETC.

Meanwhile, I was damn near killing myself working 2 jobs our entire relationship.

THEN! During the break up was ALL of the audacity.

"Motivate me!"

Nah, I'd rather have the house to myself, finally. I got done feeling like the object of his Oedipus Complex. 🤢

It left me feeling vile for a long time.

Title	Avoid the clever Hobosexual!
Author	SupremeDearLeader
Upvotes	239
Comments	16
Date	March 13, 2022 6:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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