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| 11 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himYou are giving this person too much power over you I feel. I feel that you need to work on getting to a place where you do not rely on another person for support or to make you feel better. And this place does exist. No, he is not treating you right. But I think you need to work on strength and self love. He is not helping your life and having a partner is not the end all be all ultimate goal in life. If it happens great, if it doesn't oh well. Life is great without anyone else in it. You are st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Something similar happened to me. I am a hiker/rock climber and I attend hikes with hiking groups in my area. An old man befriended me. I thought how perfect, an old man is not a threat. He told me he was 73. I am 38. Well, it turns out he was a secret pervert the whole time. And he is actually 82 not 73. He lied to me, tried to manipulate me, gaslit me. I called him out and then he took revenge on me to get me to be exiled from the hiking group. The whole ordeal was mind blowing. I have learned… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 10 | Avoid the clever Hobosexual!This also happened to me by a malignant narcissist con man. Intense future faking, lies. The end of this "relationship" is actually what allowed me to find FDS. I wish I had found FDS years ago. The pain it would have saved me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 06:24 PM |
| 44 | Men are so damn dumb, insecure, and illogical. If you’re dusty just say that. Yeah every time I get up early to go to work and drive 30 miles to the office, it’s definitely to turn on men. No one wants you!!!!!!!!! I need some Zyrtec to clear the dust in my nose.What he is really saying is that it scares him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:16 AM |
| 13 | I think he told on himselfHe is smart enough. He may be a covert narcissist. What the previous woman posted is not cruel, it is true. She is trying to save you. This is a very very serious situation. You leaving him now will save your future. I pray that you do not go back. Have someone with you to get your stuff. Please do not entertain any of his bullshit talk. To give him this opportunity to talk is to open the cycle of the trauma bond again. After you get your stuff back, block and delete. Then start to heal. Self lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meLove bombing and future faking yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last TimeIn my experience, when they do it, it is not a sign that you will miss, but like a train running you down. There is no way to miss it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 5 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.I feel like that video was an excellent example of trying to film reactive abuse. He wanted her to flip out, so he can then say look she is crazy and trying to hurt me, meanwhile he is the real abuser. 3 months after giving birth. This would have been me and thank God I got away. This whole situation is very triggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | FDS is BACK!I missed this sub so much. Thank God it is unprivate again. I need this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:11 PM |
| 46 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.Same. I met my ex on bumble. He was a professional con man and woman abuser. I am in the healing process. I will never ever use a dating site again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:04 AM |
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